11 20 666 https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/26f854c3995f27a23db06ea81fb3892c.jpg 73fe64901f21242a27312157b458f4ea https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/27c69474d3e752b6abe4bcc37d74a5c2.pdf a1966cf0dd310fea9ec011cc64385b4f PDF Text Text THE VOLUME 7 PREMIER SOURCE ISSUE 3 FOR GLBT OKLAHOMA Twi~er.com/MetroStarNews e MetroStarNews.com U,S, Census being Conducted for 2010 Same Sex Marriages and There is a particular need and focus on the LGBT community and the census. This community is one of those that has been undercounted. Many don’t feel a connection to the government and how it affects their lives. An inaccurate count could negatively affect their lives and community fro7 the next ten years or longer." Emmet Morris, Partnership Coordinator U.S. Census Regional OfFice, Kansas City, Missouri By Victor Gorin Contributing writer OKLAHOMA CITY, OK __ For the last 220 years the U.S. Census Bureau has been counting the people of the United States of America, recording numbers that reflect many great changes. When the first census was taken in 1790, it was administered by the late our 3rd president. At the time it showed the population of the United States to be 3,929,326 people, of which 697,681 Emmett Morris, U.S, Census Partnership Coordinator with Fran Dozz of Church ofthe Open Arms in OKC. Gorin photo were African American slaves ,who counted as 3/5 of a person for purposes 0f taxation and representation. New York City, then as now, was our largest municipality, but 0nly had around 33,000 people. Gay vet: military is ready for openly gay servicemen By Michael W. Sasser Contributing writer Photo: Navy Lt. Everett "Earl"Morrow While President Barack Obama’s call for the end of the military’s ’Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell’ (DADT) policy is stalled in bureaucratic neutral, one recent NaW veteran tells MetroStar that he believes servicemen are ready for out comrades. "Once the decision is made (to end DADT), I think the transition will be quick," said former NaW Lt. Everett "Earl" Morrow. "Troops don’t get enough credit. They will be supportive of it. I’m not saying that there won’t still be homophobes. There are still racists and sexists out there." However, Morrow said, his experience taught him something about servicemen. "I was surprised that more people than not said they didn’t care if someone serving with them was gay," Morrow said. Morrow, who granted his first interview as an out veteran on the subject to Metro-Star, said that he has plenty of experience on which to base his experience. He had a successful NaW career for five years, leaving active duty in April 2008 in part because of the DADT policy. The to repeal the policy recently prompted his to speak out on the subject. ........ Continued See DADT Page-9 Over two centuries later our 2000 census showed a population of 281,421,906 people, and 16% of those counted received a "long form" with over 100 questions, going into far more depth including inquiries about home ownership, finances, relationships and other data. Then as now there were no inquiries as to sexual orientation, but for the first time it did provide a way for gay and lesbian couples to be counted. Asking the sex of the residents of a household with the corresponding relationship, among the options listed for the first time was "unmarried partner." If two persons of same sex at the same address answered with that option, it would statistically record a same sex couple. At that time legal same sex marriage did not exist. ~is has changed since then as same sex marriages became legal in 7 countries, the first being the Netherlands in 200!, followed by Belgium, Sweden; South Africa, Norwa~ Canada and Spain. It became legal in the US nfive St~t~s, the first being ,M~achusetts in ~ 004,followed by Vermont~ Ne~v Hampshire, COnnectiCut, and I6wa; plus marriages that took place in California ~lufing a brief period MARCH 1, 2010 cann0wbec0 d! it was legal there during 2008. As dais is the first census since same sex marriages have gained legal status, this is the first time that same sex couples will be counted as married partners if they indicate that is their relationship. But for the GLBT community as well as all Americans, the census affects far more than that. Numbers from the census impact almost every aspect of our lives, which makes it imperative that there is an accurate count of all the people in our country and where they are. It affects over 170 Federal allocations of money to states and localities, including money for transportation, healthcare including HIV grants, education induding money for school lunch and breakfast programs, Medicaid assistance, money for housing and nutrition assistance, grants for drug education and treatment, Head Start and child care programs, crime prevention assistance and much more. Data ~rom the census also determines how you are represented politic~11); affecting government operations from the Federal level all the way to local School districts. ........ Continued See CENSUS Page-4 State Senator Russell Introduces a Bill restricting Oklahoma cooperation with Federal prosecution of Hate Crimes By Victor Gorin Contributing writer OKLAHOMA CITY, OK As he had promised to do earlier, State Senator Steven Russell (Republican District 45) has introduced legislation ( SB 2165) that among its provisions would greatly limit Oklahoma state, county and !ocal law enforcement from providing evidence or assistance to Federal authorities prosecuting hate crimes. It proposes that "law enforcement agencies shall deny access to law enforcement records to any Federal agency when such request is made relating to a case handled and completed by a law enforcement agency of this state, and the purpose is to attempt to investigate or prosecute the individual or individuals pursuant to 18- U.C.S. Section 245 (the Federal Hate crimes law with protections added in 2009 for sexual orientation, gender, gender identity and disability- Matthew Shepard-James Byrd act). Exceptions are basic information that is available for public inspection and records of those convicted pursuant to Section 850 Tide 21 of Oklahoma Statutes, which are Oklahoma’s Hate Crimes laws which do not cover sexual orientation or gender identity. What this entails is that if an Oklahoman was victimized by a hate crime, and Federal authorities deemed the case to be under their jurisdiction, loca! authorities could not provide data beyond the most basic information available to the public, witness statements, physical/forensic or other any other type of evidence or assistance. This would prohibit providing as evidence to Federal authorities a bloody baseball bat or gun used in that type of crime to assist in their prosecution of that hate crime. Since crimes committed due to a victim’s sexual orientation/gender identity are not Hate Crimes under Oldahoma state law, and this restriction ~votfld make Federal prosecution of this type of crime in Oldahoma very difficult if not impossible, this would greatly impede Hate Crimes protection for the GLBT community in Oklahoma. Senator Russell has stated, "Oklahoma has tough good laws that include hate crimes laws. Any murder or brutal assault is hateful. That is the problem with singling ,, out something more with this Federallaw. However A1 McAffrey, Oklahoma’s only openly gay legislator, (Democrat-District 88) has a different opinion, considering this legislation a publicity stunt stating, " Preventing crimes against Oklahomans because of who they are is in no way an attack on free speech. This is nothing but emp,ty rhetoric used to scare and mislead folks. �D ion School District retains gay-friendly book By Michael W. Sasser TULSA, OK__ ~adter a flurry of controversy in January, the Union Public School District of Tulsa County has retained a gay-friendly book available to students. By a 3-1 vote, the District Board of Education decided that "Buster’s Sugartime" would remain on the shelf. The book, by author Marc Brown, is a simplified version of a 2005 episode of the PBS series "Postcards from Buster." It is ostensibly about Buster the Rabbit’s exploration of how maple syrup is made in Vermont. However, the bulk of this particular episode revolves around Buster hanging out with the children of a same-sex couple. Despite only a pair of Very gentle allusions to same-sex parents, the content did prompt many stations to pull the episode. Last year, some parents argued that the book was inappropriate and took their complaint to the district’s Materials Review Committee. That committee backed the book’s presence by a 6-1 margin. At least one set of parents appealed the decision to the Board of Education, which then confirmed the decision with the January 3-1 vote. Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) President Toby Jenkins said that he wasn’t surprised by the decision. "When I first heard about it, I didn’t know what would happen,’~ Jenkins said. !~But I wasn’t surprised by the decision because this is one of the more progressive school districts. They have a non-discrimination policy and a strong Gay-Straight Alliance." Old~q board members include a couple of out Union District employees, Jenkins said. "I knew what the background of the school board was," he said. "Still you can never be too sure. Boards often cave to pressure." Jenkins praised Union for a positive experience interacting on the issue and for even setting up an emait contact for community advocates to express their opinions. "They were very good to work with," Jenkins said. According to Jenkins, stirring the controversy were some advocates who apparently went so far as to express dismay at the bigotry and homophobia expressed by some school parents. "In no way was that something that we did and no statement from us cast any dispersion on parents," Jenkins said. He suspected that some advocates got carried away in their emails to the dedicated address with the District. The more virulent commentary prompted a comlnent from a Union District official defending parents. Its theme was that complaining parents were protesting because gay marriage is "illegal" in Oklahoma - a position Jenkins said is unfortunate and not true. "Gay marriage is not legally recognized in Oldahoma, it is not illegal," Jenkins said. "If a couple marries outside Oklahoma and then comes home, no one comes to arrest them. It’s just that the state doesn’t recognize the marriage." Still, Jenkins was pleased with the outcome and with the District’s handling of the mattm: "I don’t lmow if there will be another appeal but for now it seems resolved," Jenkins said. "Now is a quiet time, but before long it will be something else. There is always something else." The Union Public School Board did not reply to an email seeking comment. Group Forming At OSU-OKC OKLAHOMA CITY, OK (PR) __ A new social/activist group has formed at OSU-OKC called Diverse Partners, Family, & Friends. Organized by Kyle Moore, the group plans to focus on educational goals and equality for GLBT students at the university. As it is a student group recognized by the university, only enrolled students can vote, but meetings are open to everyone interested. They will meet every Tuesday at 6:15 PM in the Conference Room North on campus. For more information contact Kyle Moore at 405209-6340. uptcv * CiVil Ricjhts *Criminal ’ment o Family Law * Liticjation N.W. Street city, OK 7SlOS �To Haiti with love A benefit to supply HIV reeds for Haidans By Robin Dorner Contributing Writer O~OMA CITY, OK On January !2 a magnitude 7.1 earthquake shook Port au Prince, Haiti. The earthquake left hundreds of thousands dead, millions were homeless and left without food, water or resources. Many of trs thought, "What can I do to help?" XTge sent money, food, water, medical supplies and many of our own citizens went to help in rescue efforts. As the cleanup continues, there is still much needed help. "When the earthquake first hit Haiti, I asked Robin [Dr. Robin Meyers, Mayflower Church pastor] if we could do a Haitian benefit concert at Mayflower," said Rev. Loyce Newton Edwards, an associate at Mayflower who has a Masters Degree in Divinity. "Dr. Maria Lupe, another Mayflmver member and I had a shared vision for this event because of the devastation in Haiti." Edwards is committed to helping HIV + people stay alive and she lost a sister to the disease in 1999. On the UCC (United Church of Christ) national level she serves in three areas related to HIV/AIDS: UCAN. Inc., UCAN Inc. Leadership Team, Wider Church Ministries Board of Directors HIV AIDS Ministries. Haiti has the highest HtV/AIDS rate in the western world. Tl~e UCC Common Global Ministries has a longstanding ~dationship xvith a communion of 6.000 chucches in Haiti. The UCC Haitian Relief Fund had raised over $650,000 for Haiti relief of which 100% of the proceeds go ro our partners in Haiti. By design, this event falls on the first day of"The National Week of Prayer for the Healing of AIDS" for ~vhich UCC is a co-sponsor. That week starts Sunday March 7th, which is the day of the benefit. "To Haiti with love" wil! include one great hour of sharing, filled with music, poetry, and inspirational spealdng. At the end of the benefit donations ~vill be accepted for Haitian relief efforts for HIV medications. Please make plans to attend this great event on Sunday; March 7th at Mayflower UCC Church located at 3901 NW 63rd Street in Oklahoma City. For more information or to make a donation, please contact Rev. Loyce Edwards at 405-642-0124 or email her at loycee@sbcglobal.net. O ahoma Gay and Lesbian Political Caucus Holds Re-organizational Meeting OFRAHOMA CITY, OK (PR) __ It was a turning point for the Oklahoma Gay and Lesbian Politica! Caucus, an organization first incorporated in 1985 that ~vorked to register and educate voters of the GLBT community, and also to educate elected officials about issues of the community as well. During recent years OGLPC had faced difficulty due _to lack of partic_ipation, and a special ~<,.metrostarnews.com meeting was called February 15 to determine ifOGLPC had a future and if so, was the community ready to make it happen, Presided by co-chair Jeanne Flanigan, that meeting was held at Church of the Open Arms, attended by around 15 people, some of~vhom were longtime activists and some newcomers. Ms. Flanigan agreed to continue serving as co-chai~; and Secretary Victor Gorin also agreed to continue in that position. Co-chair Paul Thompson resigned his position, Enough interest was shown for another meeting which would be at the regular time, the second Monday of March which would be the 8th at 7 p.m. ~at. meeting will happen at the usual place, the Neighborhood Alliance Building located at 1236 N.W. 36th Street of Oklahoma City. Democracy for America to Host Grassroots Training in Tulsa Locals to participate in voter contact, fundraising, organizing and messaging sessions BURLINGTON, VT (PR) Hundreds of local activists, campaign staffers and candidates wil! receive hands-on training at an upcoming Campaign Academy hosted by Democracy for America. The two-day interactive worlcshop will be held March 13-14 at the Tulsa County Democratic Party headquarters 907 S. Detroit Ave, Tulsa, OK. Experienced campaign professionals will lead sessions in voter contact, fundraising, communications, online organizing and much more to empower progressive activists with ~he skills to win electiofis in November and beyond. Attendees will also have a chance ro meet with localprogressive Candidates and learn about job andvolunreer opportunities in their area. "Our Campaign Academy trainings empower citizens with the tools to change their communities," said DFA Training Director Matt Blizek. The DFA Campaign Academy aims to focus, network andtrain grassr0ots activists in the skills and strategies to take back our country, manage successful campaigns or run for office themselves. Since 2004, DFA has held more than 100 trainings throughout the country. For more information visit: www. democracyforamerica.com. Obituary OKLAHOMA CITY, OK __ Dennis Allen Dohm aged 48, passed away at OU Medical Center January 7 due to massive organ failure caused by a heart infection and damage to an aortic valve. He was a well known entertainer in Oklahoma City, best known in his drag persona as Danae Daniels. Performing in regular shows and benefits at Tramps, PhoenLx Rising, & the Hilt, his wild wit and outrageous humor wowed his audiences, showing he was truly special. Oklahoma Tobacco Free help Sooner State Sofi ball Association Opens their 2010 Season By Victor Gorin OKLAHOMA CITY, OK Once again Oklahoma’s Sooner State Softball Association is opening up for their biggest season ever. During 2009 3 of their teams represented Oklahoma at the NAGAAA ( North American Gay Amateur Athletic Alliance) g[orld Series held that year in Milwaukee, with the Oklahoma Chaos team achieving the best results with a 7th place finish. Now comprised of 12 teams, the League is working on recruiting players, coaches, sponsorships and other support. Based on their growth last year, they feel they can look forward even better times ahead. Now into their 7th season, the league was formed in order to provide those interested in the GLBT community a place for camaraderie and to play ball! Recreational players are welcomed as well as serious competitors. On Friday March 19 Angles will host a Recruitment Party for the League at 9 p.m. This event is a great chance for those interested to learn about the league, have a few drinks, get to know some of the players and learn what it’s all about. Past and current players are encouraged to wear their team shirts/jerseys, and there will be an informaional booth for learning more and signing up. For more information contact Recruitment Director Chad Previch at soonerstatesoftball@hotmail.com. Herland Celebrates International Women’s Day OKLAHOMA CITY, OK (PR) __Herland Sisters Resources will celebrate International \Women’s Day with an "All That Jazz Party" on Saturday March 6th at The Boom Club and Restaurant, 2218 NW 39 th Street. The Jazz Party is a fund-raiser for Herland bookstore, their lending library and events for women, in cooperation with Cimarron Alliance Foundation. The party will feature music by the Dynamics, a local jazz band, playing standards and original music. This is a come-and-go event, beginning at 6 PM with drinks, hors d’oeuvres by Chef Suzie Lopez, and music until 9pm. Guests will be asked for a donation at the door, encouraged to wear gay attire, and will be offered wonderful art work to buy at the silent auction. The auction includes a beautifully framed poster signed by the artist Native American Dana Tiger, art glass, and jewelry along with gift certificates from local businesses. Herland Sister Resources (HSR) is a non-profit organization, and one of the few U.S. women’s bookstores/lending libraries in operation for over 20 years. The bookstore is located at 2312 N\V 39th St., and is open from 1-5 PM each Saturday. HSR also sponsors Spring and Fall Retreats at state parks, monthly supper clubs, a poetry group, the Annual Pride Picnic and game nights. Contact HSR at: 405-5219696, herland@herlandsisters.org or herlandsist~rs.0rg. International Women’s Day (IWD) is a global day celebrating the economic, political and social achievements of women past, present and future. ~e IXWD ~vebsite lists events worldwide celebrated on or around March 8 each year. For more information about IXYgD: ww~c.internationalw0mensday. com. Ron Harwood & Cathy Hill Seeking International Leather By Victor Gorin Contributing writer Cathy Hill and Ron Harwood. Gorin photo OKJ_At-IOMA CITY, OK It was a hot Friday night at Angles February 12 when a fundraiser was held to send two of our major tideholders of the leather community ro international competition. Ron Harwood, our current Oldahoma Mr.Leather, who also holds the title of Tulsa Mr. Leather 2009, will be competing in Chicago for the International Mr Leather title May 28-Junel. Ms. Cathy Hill, who currently holds the title of South Central Leather Woman 2009 is seeking the title of International Ms. Leather, and that competition will be held in San Francisco on April 15-18. The next upcoming leather contest in Oklahoma will determine our new Tulsa Mr.Leather, and that event will take place on Saturday, March 20 at Tulsa’s Club Maverick’s at 8 p.m. ~is will follow a meet and greet to be held the preceding Friday night, March 19, at t the Tulsa Eagle. Tulsa Metro SoRball League’s Spring 2010 Season Starting TULSA, OK (PR) __ Tulsa Metro Softball League (TMSL) will hold their spring clinics March 14-20 at Hicks Park, 3443 S. Mingo Rd, Tulsa. They may only have one spring clinic. The spring clinics are for new players looking for a team and returning players who want to change teams. Team Coaches ,vill be present to scout the local talent and to recruit. For more information visit: vmwv.TulsaMetroSoftball.com M{~TI~OSTAR 3 �I Low Change Looks Like, but M1 I Can See Are Two Faces. Constitutional Rights Are Not a Raffle Ticket Prize by James Nimmo OKI~HOMA CITY, OK __ In this article from the Salt Lake City Tribune, http://tinyurl.com/ygpfl~6u we’re told that support for LGBTs has "shot up" over the past year following passage of a bias ban approved by the Salt Lake City Council that includes sexual orientation/gender iden’tity in housing and employment. How- many time, have I heard that legislatures and courts must not get too far ahead of the "will of the people" or there will be some ill-described chicken-little type of reaction among the voters, respect for the la~v and morn and apple pie will diminish and Gee-sus himself will come to earth and .... well, you get the drift. AaCter reading the article I’m again reminded that so many people, such as toe-the-line Mormons, can change their opinions merely because their leaders in effect tell them to, either directly through the legislative process or by leading xvith their own behavioral change. If this SLC Tribune poll is close to accurate in its description, just how accurate is the dreadful prediction that if United States Supreme Court rules in fa~vor of same-gender marriage on appeal of the currently litigated California Prop 8 trial~ ,~x~erica ~vill fall into total oblivion with Joe Six-Pack hubbies divorcing their long suffering wives to run offfor a gay fling with Ted Haggard, and Sally Soccer rooms running off to pal around with Ellen Degeneres for free samples of Cover Girl make-up? Just how far in front of public opinion does the Supreme Court need to be ifa majority of Mormons in Utah, which led the fight with Roman Catholics against Prop 8 in California in 2008, can increase by a range of 10% to 45% their approval and acceptance of gay/lesbian civil rights in their own state? By the way, the recognition of my civil rights is inherent with my birth as an American citizen and in no way needs approval from anyone, let alone those who believe in golden tablets from the sky, magic underwear, and ancestral baptism. The denial of my civil rights because I’m gay is what’s wrong, not my desire to have the same social, financial, and legal benefits which I’m paying for with my taxes. No one’s Constitutional civil rights should be held up as the prize for a rafl]e ticket in the lottery of public opinion. What I’m coming around to is this: If America had a national spokesperson who led using the force of law as well as his own example and not just by mere words of fierce advocacy, and who had led by his presence in Maine in its recent vote on same-gender marriage, or even farther back, to the California vote in November 2009 on Prop 8--both votes having a devastating setback on civil rights fiar gay/lesbian taxpayers--can’t you imagine that successful votes would have reinforced the legislative and judicial decisions that were already in place at the time, decisions that fully recognized our 4 ~ttET~:~,OSTAR rig!~ts of citizenship? What if that person was the president of the United States, one who prides himself on his commitment to changing the tone of government in Washington? I know what change-I-can-believe-in looks like, but all I can see are two faces. Oklahoma Man Sues Tax Commission Over "IM Gay" License Plate OKLAHOMA CITY, OK (PR) __ Oklahoma taxpayer Keith Kimmel has filed a civil lawsuit in Oklahoma County District Court against the Oklahoma Tax Commission, continuing a battle for freedom of speech on vanity license plates. The suit seeks to have part of the Commission’s rules regarding the issuance of personalized license plates declared unconstitutional. Keith Kimmel, who filed the suit through his attorney provided the following statement: "The Oklahoma Tax Commission is continuing to subject Oklahomans to a subjective decision making process in issuing personalized vanity license plates. Under our state Constitution, all Oldahomans enjoy the right to freedom of speech and an equal opportunity to express their viewpoints. Previous testimony in the administrative proceedings held on this matter have shown that the Commission is sdectively granting and denying applications based on Commission employees’ own personal prejudices and viewpoints. The Constitution requires that state rules are ;¢iewpoint neutral, with an objective standard that puts the taxpayer on notice of what is legal and what is not. This suit is intended to put an end to the Tax Commissions unconsntunonal practice of subjecting taxpayers to the whim of individual employees." The case is Keith Kimmel v State of Oklahoma, ex rel, Oklahoma Tax Commission, Oklahoma County Case No. CJ-2010-1072. Federal law requires that the count include all U.S citizens, all legal residential noncitizens, long term visitors, and illegal aliens. There are many groups that have been undercounted in the past, including African Americans, Native A~mericans, Latinos, the poor, and the GLBT community. Discrimination and prejudice against people in these communities have made many feel bitterness and distrust of government in general, causing them to avoid cooperation with the census either out of anger and/or fear. Although we can be reasonably certain that there have always been GLBT people in America, there is little recorded history about them until the 20th century, and considering the legal status of the GLBT community until the late 20th century, this would hardly be surprising. Sodomy laws, which prohibited same sex activity, were in affect in all 50 states until 1962 (when Illinois was the first state to repeal their state sodomy statute), and some, including Oklahoma’s, were in effect until 2003 when the U.S. Supreme Court invalidated these statutes (Lawrence vs. Texas). Currently there is still no Federal protection for the GLBT community against job and housing discrimination, nor is there in 29 states even today, including Oldahoma. There was no Federal Hate Crimes law until late 2009. Understandably there are many in the GLBT community who feel, like others in similarly challenged groups, resentment and!or fear of government which could cause them to avoid participation in the census. In order to ensure an accurate count, legislati.on has made the process safe for all to participate. Information obtained by the Census Bureau is confidential by Federal law (Title 13 U.S. Code). Any employee that divulges confidential information outside the agency could face up to 5 years imprisonment and be fined up to $250,000. Census information about an individual cannot be used in a court of lave, nor is that information subject to disclosure under the Freedom of Information Act. No individual, private business or government authority can obtain personally identifiable data from the Census Bureau, including the ~]hite House, Internal Revenue Service, U.S. Citizenship and Immigration Services, the military, welfare agencies, CIA or the FBI. The rule even supersedes the Patriot Act. Yet despite these protections there is still fear and mistrust that impedes cooperation and causes ~ndercounting. The bureau realizes that these protections wofft serve their intended purpose of ensuring an accurate count unless people know about and understand them. Therefore, combined with these safeguards is a massive educational effort, and the GLBT community is now included among those groups they want to reach out to.~ X~orldng with this effort is Emmett Morris, a Partnership Coordinator with the Census Bureau worldng in the Kansas City Regional Office that oversees Oklahoma. He met with the Metro Star to inform the GLBT community about the 2010 census and its importance, and also to gather ideas about hmv to work with the Oklahoma GLBT community to ensure an accurate count. As he put it, "We want the GLBT community to know that the census is really about them, as it is with everyone. It’s about their future, and ,ve live with everyday tangible aspects of our lives that come about because of census numbers including roads, jobs, bridges, companies locating here and more. It’s not a bunch of numbers that live in abstract in Washington D.C. in some computer. These numbers actually come back to serve community needs, prosperity and our quality of life." In mid March 90% of U.S. households will receive a U.S. Census form to fill out. This will be preceded by a postcard letting the, residents know in advance. ~xe questionnaires will sent out by address and not to individuals by name. The form has only 10 questions, is easy to fill out and can be returned by mail with the provided postage paid envelope. If there is no response it wilt ’ be followed by a second form, and if there is still no response a census worker will attempt to get the information in person. In the interest of an accurate count at the lowest possible cost, recipients are encouraged to fill out the form and mail it back as soon as possible. The Census Bureau will be worldng with various communities in this effort, setting up centers to help people with the forms, answer concerns they may have, and gathering information. Bi or multi lingual people will especially be needed, as they are planning to provide assistance in 59 languages. They will need workers to staff these centers, along with field workers to do follow up inquiries door to door and to count people in unconventional housing, including the homeless. In this effort they will attempt to hire personnel from their respective communities, realizing that people who have familiarity with a certain community, group or ethnicity can do a better job reaching out to those who need to be counted. Currently the U.S. Census Bureau has 5 Oklahoma offices, located in Oklahoma City, Tuls~l, Tahlequah, Enid and Lm~on. They are many job openings, so if you are interested in what could be a quite interesting endeavor that could lead to other opportunitieS,~please call toll free 866- 860-2010. It’s a chance that comes once every 10 years. "First t sday" Art Opening and Exhibit of New and Original Works by Robb Conover TULSA, OK (PR) __ ~ne March Oklahomans for Equality (Old,q) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E. 4th Street in Downtown Tulsa), will feature a new and unusual "Progressive Display" of works by artist Robb Conover; the show begins with a reception on Thursday, March 4th from 6-9pro and continues throughout the month of March. The March exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Gallery will feature a catalogue of works by Robb Conover which will create a progression of art from one side of the gallery to the other. This is an exciting acrylics on canvas display; it is unlike anything that has been in the Gallery before and promises to be an unusual and visually stimulating presentation. Robb lived in Tulsa in the 1970’S and 80’s; He currently resides in Dallas and is represented io several galleries there. Please join us to visit with Robb at the Opening Night Reception on Thursday, March 4, from 6to ,9pm. Refreshments will be served. Robb s art will be on display through March 20 t 0. March 2010 �Wockner News Service Gays arrested at NYC marriage license bureau activist than a neutral referee. That’s no secret at all." The trial is expeqted to resume sometime in March or April for closing arguments. Gay lmaTers, activists and others who followed the testimony have.asserted, nearly unanimously, that the gay side won the case in a landslide. Walker’s ruling likely will see appeal to the 9th U.S. Circuit Court of Appeals and then to the U,S. Supreme Court. If successful, the lawsuit could bring about tlxe legalization of same-sex marriage nationwide. If unsuccessful, it could have the effect of stopping the movement for same-sex marriage, which now is legal in five states, dead in its tracks for possibly a generation. Moves to repeal samesex marriage in Iowa and NH fail Four members ofa new ACT UP-like group known as Queer Rising were arrested in Manhattan On Feb. 12 after chaining then~elves to the entrance ofthe New York Ci{y Marriage Bureau. Photo by Jamie McGonnigal, www. TalkAboutEquality.org NEW YORK, NY__ Four members of a new ACT UPdike group known as Queer Rising were arrested in Manhattan on Feb."12 after chaining themselves to the entrance of the New York City Marriage Biireau. Alan Bounville, Jake Goodman, Justin Elzie and Gabriel Yuri Bollag sought equal marriage rights for same-sex couples. Dozens of gay marriage supporters cheered them on. Twenty same-sex couples went inside and tried to obtain marriage licenses. ~ey were rebuffed. A gay naan and a lesbian then presented themselves as a faux couple, asked for a license and were given one. "New York City is home to the Stonewall Riots and in that tradition we are here to say that equality doesn’t arrive through the ballot box," said Queer Rising spokesperson Spring Super. "~e bankrupt strategy of putting all efforts into electing so-called friendly officials has failed," Super said. "We must shift to building a grassroots, national movement that demands full equality by any means necessary. New York state recognizes same-sex marriages from other jurisdictions but does no~ allow them itse!£ Same-sex marriage is lega! in Connecticut, Iowa, Massachusetts, New Hampshire and Vermont. It also is legal in Belgium, Canada, the Netherlands, Norway, South Africa, Spain and Sweden -- and in Argentina’s Tierra del Fuego province. It will become legal in "Washington, D.C., in March and in Portugal later this year. S.F. Chronide says iud e federal Prop 8 ca e gay- identified himself as ~d~lker’s friend, said he had spoken with Walkeh and expressed concern that "people will come to the conclusion that (\Nralker) wants to conceal his sexualiD:" "He has a private life and he doesn’t conceal it, but doesn’t think it is relevant to his decisions in any case, and he doesfft bring it to bear in any decisions," said the second judge, who agreed that Walker’s sexual orientation is "newsworthy" -- in the same way it would be newsworthy if a Jewish judge were hearing a case involving the AntiDefamation League, the Chronicle said. A lawyer for the pro-Prop-8 side, Andy Pugno, said his team won’t do anything with the revelation. "We are not going to say anything about that," he told the Chronicle. " The National Organization for Marriage, however, might feel less restrained. In a letter to supporters about the Chronicle article, Executive Director Brian Brown alleged: "We do lmow one really big important fact about Judge Walker: He~ been .an amazingly biased and one-sided force throughout this trial, far more akin to an Vaughn Walker, the judge heariflg the federal same-sex marriage case in San Francisco, "is himself gay," the San Francisco Chronicle reported Feb. 7. The case, featuring famous lav~Ters Ted Olson and David Boies on the gay side, seeks to overturn Proposition 8, California’s voterpassed constitutional ban on gay marriage, as a violation of the U.S. Constitution’s guarantees of due process and equal protection under the law. "Many gay politicians in San Francisco and lawyers who have had dealings with Walker say the 65-year-old jurist, appointed to the bench by President George H.W. Bush in 198% has never taken pains to disguise -or advertise -- his orientation," the Chronicle said. Asked by the paper if he had "any concerns about being characterized as gay," Walker responded, "No comlnent." Right after the interview was conducted, however, another judge contacted the paper, www.rnetrostarnews.com Iowa legislators opposed, to same-sex marriage vcere unable to force resolutions out of House and Senate committeds Feb. 9 in support of a statewide vote to amend the constitution to re-ban gay nuptials. Nineteen senators signed a petition to get the Senate measure out of committee, but 26 signanires were needed. In the House of Representatives, a vote to push the measure out of committee failed 45 to 54. " A recent poll found that 62 percent of Iowans don’t think the Legislature should tackle the issue. Same-sex marriage became legal in Iowa in April 2009 courtesy of the state Supreme Court. A spokesman for the state’s main gay rights group, One Iowa, expressed relief at the developmeffts but warned against the g~, side’s letting down its guard. "Our opponents are ruthless aped will stop at nothing to take away the freedom to marry," said Communications Director Justin Uebelhor. "There were four legislative attempts to undermine the Supreme Court’s ruling last year and we expect more political attacks this year. We don’t want to take anything for granted and are communicating this message to our supporters and media on the ground. In addition to the constitutional amendment, a religious-exemption bill has already been proposed and we have to be vigilant of any attempts to chip away at the ruling." Also on Feb. 9, a committee of the Ne~v Hampshire House of Representatives overwhelmingly killed t~vo bills aimed at. rebanning same-sex marriage. One bill called for a public vote on gay marriage. The other would have repealed the la~v that legalized it. In addition to being allowed in Iowa and New Hampshire, same-sex marriage is legal in Connecticut, Massachusetts and Vermont. It also is legal in Belgium, Canada, the Netherlands, Norway, South Africa, Spain and Sweden -- and in Argentina’s Tierra del Fuego province. It will become legal in Washington, D.C., in March and in Portugal later rkis year. g~ET~,# STAR 5 �Stress Test By Ronald Blake Contributing V&iter Photo: RonaM Blake, Certified Fittwss I~zstructor ~hrough ISSA International Sports Sciences Association You have vowed to lose 30 pounds before your niece’s wedding in September. Your trainer and doctor are recommending an exercise stress test before you lace up the sneakers and start sweating. What’s that and who needs one of those? These tests can also be called graded exercise stress tests or GXT’s. Affix whatever title you want to this procedure but it simply measures how your heart performs with and without exercise. Nae American Heart Association (AIq_A) has stated that an individual under 40 years old can forego this test if he or she has had a normal physical exam, doesn’t show signs of cardiovascular disease, and has no coronary risk factors. The captain’s turned off the caution sign and you’re }}ee to roam around the exercise However if you are a man or women over 40 years old, have an abnormal physical exam and/or have two or more coronalT risk factors then it’s time to schedule that exercise stress test. This just means your fitness flight has been grounded until the medical tower dears you for takeoff. The GXT can be done in a doctor’s once, a hospital, or a specialized hea~Ith cam facility. Talk with your doctor and decide where this should take place. Nae .AH~ guidelines call for there to be professionals trained in CPR to administer these tests. Furthermore, one of the techs in the testing area should be advance cardiac life support certified with a doctor iri the building. You’re not in Haiti after the big quake so it’s safe to assume this is all in place when you go for your exam. It’s just nice to know for peace of mind! The test is usually done on a treadmill wtaile you are hooked up to devices that’ll give you a feeling of Pinocchio and Geppetto attaci~ment. The test with its tracking equipment wil! check your blood pressure, heart rate, and the electrical activity and rhythm of your ticker. An analysis will be performed before any stress or exercise i~ started and an additional analysis will be gathered as exercise is introduced. Your heart could show signs of adequacy at rest but not after exercise. There are maW possibilities and the results will show this. Tr~e nurses, doctors, and techs administeting this exam will gradually increa~se the speed and incline on your treadmill to assess your cardiovascular limits. ~{Then symptoms of exhaustion and fatigue appear the testers will cease their period of sadistic glee and record the findings. 6 The findings should be discussed with your doctor. About 15% of these results will be false positive which indicates there is a problem when there really isn’t a problem. About 30% of the results will be false negative reports which show you are OK when you really aren’t. This is ~vhen you look at your doctor with your best confused face and beseech his advice. Another GXT might be requested or other testing methods might be called upon for further explanation of your situation. When in doubt always make the decision to err on the side of safety when starting a fitness program. That might mean taking the GXT. Tixese tests are just as important as buying the correct training shoes, workout clothes, and health club membership. Join my masochistic readers who called their physicians to inquire about graded exercise tests several minutes ago! This column is brought to you by that guy who once challenged George Bush to a spelling bee. That orthographist who never heard back from the \ghite House is Ron Blake and he can be reached at wv~v. myblalcefitness.com. Oklahomans for Equality Tulsa opens Health Clinic for the uninsured. TULSA, OK (PR)~ __ OlcEq has opened a Health Clinic in collaboration with Dr. Jeremiah Rutherford, M.D., PC for the uninsured. The clinic will be held at the Dennis R. Nell Equality Center, 621 E. 4th Street, Tulsa, OK each ~ursday from 6 pm to 9 pm. The dinic also offers free HIV testing Tuesday through ~ursday, 6-8 pm and Saturday, 4-7 pro. For more information: 918-743-4297 Tramps, O KC Have a Heart Benefit--Love at its finest By Victor Gorin Designer Keith Reding with emcee l~aven Del Ray at Have a Heart Benefit at ~’amps. Gorin photo OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__ It is rare to see a more festive expression of love than what happens at Tramps every Valentine’s weekend when they hold their Have a Heart Benefit. It began over 20 years ago as a team effort of the late Larry Crosby, then a coowner of Tramps, and Sister Gall Addis who was then with Catholic Charities’ Loaves and Fishes program which provided meals for those living with HIV. Since then it has become a wild yet sacred Okflal~oma City tradition. Although Larry has passed away; his sister Camille Rohn still is a part owner of Tramps. Ms.Rohn and the staff of Tramps, along with many othe[s of the community who share their time, {alent and money, have made this event a proud tradition in her brother’s memory. ~xis year it was special as the celebration was held on Valentine’s Day itsel}] giving it a special bonus, although as Camille puts it, ’This is giving back to the community, and we look forward to it every year." This time over $8,000 was raised, and Tony Sinclair is already shopping for fabulous items to auction off next year! March 2010 �Week three is a charm on RuPauFs Drag Race. most recer t cor testant to a hay away talks £ood, com try Western and the beauty By Bebe Zahara Benet I was surprised to learn Mystique ~vas ecstatic over RuPaul switching out their script with the one being used by the other team. "For us, it got easier because the script was easier," she explained. "I was happy. It was actually fun." I also wanted to know what she thought of Raven, and her sometimes very cutting comments about Mystique and food. "Out of everybody on the show, Raven is the only one I have not heard from," Mystique told me. "Haters are everywhere, but haters make my life easier, because I work harder just to make you hate on me even more." Mystique stands by her decision to go with a very modern interpretation of country wear for her runway walk, and argues what the other girls presented was more a Western look. "I don’t like making fun of people," she explained, noting that if she had gone for a stereotypical look it may have offended her most dedicated fans. When I think Mystique, I think splits, more splits, which leads to additional splits. And then remember Mystique? She’s the one who nails the splits! I can barely lift my leg, and here is a big girl making it look so easy. "My signature is my eyes and my spins," she said. But when she really wants to shock, she breaks out a split. Mystique must get into the zone, because when she watched her solo on TV last week, she didn’t even remember she did a death drop! Now that’s a girl who knows how to work for a crowd. Mystique, thank you for your inspirarion, thank you for your self-integrity and thank you for being yourself. Catch RuPaul’s Drag Race at 9 p.m. (ET/ PT) every Monday night on Logo and visit LOGOonline.com to find out about viewing parties in your area. Until next week, kisses and splits! ~~ello all you beautiful people! Can you believe it is week three of RuPaul’s Drag Race already? So much is happening - let’s get right into my conversation with Mystique Summers Madison, the Texas beauty who went out with a bang! I was impressed how well Mystique did in the third episode’s opening challenge, when she just dove right in and swallowed down all those mystery foods she had to eat. "I was like, ’Oh no, it’s fried food,’" Mystique remembered. "I hadn’t had fried food in four months. Oh my God, I just went for it. I was just swallowing, I wasn’t tasting." Even though she looked like a cool cucumber, Mystique was nervous. "It was the scariest thing evel;" she revealed. "Zl~at was drag Fear NOTE: Ifyou missed weeks 1 & 2 Metro St[zr News online will cover all 12 weeks and it will be posted on out" website at: www. metrostarnews, corn Factor[" ~at win made Mystique one of the group leaders for the Disco "Extra Greasy" shortening TV commercial exercise, and I wanted to know what her strategy was for pictdng which gifts would be on Team Mystique. "Pandora did work editing TV commercials, and Jessica is a dancer," Mystique explained. "Everybody else had pretty makeup and were people I got along with." www.metrostarnews.corn ~t~oSTAR 7 �3131 ~. Pennsylvania, Oklaho 405.525.9555 put the °°gay°° in Christian, CC Un A ~etropoli~n Co~uni~ Church Chuck greckenridge Whether buying or selling I’ll work hard for you. 8 March 2010 �"%q~en t watched the initial Senate hearing. I was offended by what the opposition said - that [gay servicemen] undermine units," Morrow said. "The policy already does that. You can’t build unit cohesion because people cafft be honest. There are a lot of traditions in the military, a lot of social situations that really help create camaraderie. People bring their wives and girlfriends to events." Morrow said that he believes most of the men with whom he served would have been able to handle his coming out if it had been possible. It was not; and a promising career was cut short to the Naw’s detriment. "There were other reasons as well, but certainly the policy was a big part of it," Morrow said. "I did not think there was any way for the two parts of my life to work together." Morrow grew up in a small town in Connecticut, graduated high school and then opted for the US Naval Academy. He was keenly aware of his orientation from an early age but said he had no struggle to come to terms with it. Still he decided to head to the Naval Academy where he effectively had little social life for the following four years. "It didn’t occur to me what a challenge it would be being gay and going to the Academy;" Morrow said. Morrow’s social isolation continued for the bulk of his active duty career, which included periods ashore as well as serving on submarines. It was during the long time underwater that he had the opportunity to learn about the sensibilities of those with vchom he served. "We had a tot of time to discuss just about eveD~hing and the subject of homosexuality came up," Morrowsaid. "It really surprised me that most people said they really didn’t care." Had he been able to serve openly, Morrow believes it would have helped serve the cause of understanding and acceptance. Once people find that they lmow someone who is gay, it is much more likely that they would be accepting. In many cases, Morrow said, prejudice is just a matter of unfamiliarity. Morrow said that he was pleased to see Navy Adm. Michael Mullen, chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff, assert recendy that servicemen were not being given the credit for acceptance that they deserved. Still, after years of being afraid of being identified and even though he was offered the exact position and assignment he most coveted with the Nav~ he left active duty and today works in the medical equipment field in New York. He said that were DADT not in effect, it was likely he would have stayed with the NaW. "Ultimately DADT is discrimination," Morrow said. "It fails to recognize that homosexuality is the same as race and sex. Tl~e military doesn’t recognize that. In general if that was recognized the policy would end tomorrow. As a consequence of that, the military is losing good people." Today, Morrow remains in the Reserve. lie’s a member of SAGALA -- Service Academy Gay & Lesbian Alumni -- and he participated in an off-camera interview for the documentary film "Out of Annapolis," which is expected to premiere this spring, likely on the independent film circuit. Morrow said that gay men aa~d women will oneday be able to openly serve in the ~.metrostarnews.com military - it’s only a matter of when. He said that the potential for the repeal of DADT is "as real" as it has ever been. "~xe Chairman of the Joint Chiefs, Secretary of Defense Gates...the highest military officers all agree...I think it’s come a long way," Morrow said. "Since it was passed by Congress, it must be repealed by Congress. I think there are currently 180-something congressmen willing to effectively eliminate DADT. Hopefully it will be sooner than later." LGBT Lobby Day to be hdd at state cap to1 By Robin Townsend Contributing XX~riter OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__ The Equality Network is hosting a lobby day at the State Capito! and you are invited, in fact, encouraged to attend. The event is geared to visitors telling our representatives that citizens care about LGBT equality in Oklahoma. There xvill be a brief training, networking, and visiting with representatives as well as having lunch together. "From its inception last year, TEN (The Equality Network) identified an annual LGBT Lobby Day as one of its top priorities," said Laura Belmonte, Vice President and CoFounder ofTEN. "We believe a consistent presence at the State Capitol is critical to increasing and maintaining the visibility of LGBT Oklahomans and their allies, to putting forward a proactive program for LGBT equality, and to giving individuals the knowledge and confidence they need to engage their representatives effectively." Belmonte’s personal advocacy experience spans almost twenty years and has entailed public speaking, creating and organizing e-advocacy campaigns, writing op-eds, media monitoring, and lobbying public officials directly. She is a professional historian and lifelong news and politics junkie - those traits also help shape and inform my activist endeavors. "Our most important goal is to secure passage of pro-LGBT legislation and to block passage of bills that are detrimental to LGBT Oldahomans," adds Bdmonte. "This will be a continual, long-term effort. It is going to take time and effort to move Oklahoma toward more inclusive and just public policies for LGBT people." TEN would like to have people from as many of Oklahoma’s political districts as possible participate in LBGT Lobby Day. If concerned citizens from any district register, appointments will be made with those representatives, including Rep. Sally Kern. "In the current session, Senator Steve Russell has introduced a bill highlighting the inadequacies of Oklahoma’s hate crimes law," furthers Behnonte. "Sen. Russell’s bill makes it impossible for law enforcement officials to work with federal agencies in prosecuting hate crimes targeting people because of sexual orientation or gender identity’. In essence, the senator’s bill attempts to lock in place Oklahoma’s current weak hate crimes statute and to prevent the state from enforcing the LGBT-inclusive federal hate crimes law, the Matthew Shepard and James Byrd, Jr. Hate Crimes Prevention Act enacted in October 2009. Passage of this bill would have a terrifying impact on LGBT Oldahomans." To register for LGBT lobby day, please go to http:// theequalitynetwork.org. There is no fee for the event. For more information, contact Laura Belmonte at lbelmonte@ theequalitynetwork.org or 918.906.2134. For more information about TEN, see the art*de in next month’s Metro Star. Deep Inside Hollywood By Romeo San Vicente Susan Sa andon entering Valley PoiSed to re-enter pop-culture consciousness as a feature ilhn, The Big Valley is justthe right sort of remake candidate: one that’s had time to exit public consciousness first. It has no other cast yet, but Romeo would love to see a gay cowboy subplot somewhere in the mix. Nothing major, just something where the quiet "special friends" get to live happily ever after. Whorehouse to reopen for business So Nine tanked at the box office. Oh well. We’re now back at a point in the moviemaking landscape where one failed big-budget musical doesn’t derail the genre’s viabilit~ which is great news for fans of that heightened reality Susan Sarandon Paramount Pictures Photo where breaking into song and choreographed dance Back in the 1960s, Barbara Stanwyck moves is commonplace. Here come two (who may or may not have been bisexual - as more: The Song Is You, from Dreamgirls was rumored during her career - but who director Bill Condon, is about a man who was a favorite of lesbian and gay audiences turns to music as a refuge, connecting it to all the same) played Victoria Barkley, sturdy key moments in his life (or as Condon has matriarch of the wild west TV drama The described it, "(falling) into his *Pod Shuffle"). Big Valley. So it’s fitting, in a way, that Susan In turn, the man also falls into a romance Sarandom about whom no one creates with a singer he hasn’t even met. At the sexuality rumors because her early career same time, the remake of The Best Little, choices (The Hunger and The Rocky Horror Whorehouse in Texas is or;the horizon. No Picture Show) more or less cemented her cast yet, no release date yet, no nothing yet, position as a queer screen icon, may be ...Continued see HOLLYWOOD page ~ 12 stepping into Stanwyck’s ladylike boots~ ~{ ETROSTAR 9 �March 2010 �Room Rates From ~2.95 A~ About Our Suites �Photo’s by Victor G. & Judy G. Out & Aboua in OKC & Tulsa @ Ledo, Oklahoma City @ Finishline, Oklahoma City Deep Inside Hollywood-continued from page -9 just a teasing promise. So, message to people responsible: obviously she’s not going to play the lod, but there must be a liberal infusion of Dolly Parton into this movie all the same. Anything tess wilt be blasphemy. Now go r~ake i~ work. @ Bamboo Lounge, Tulsa @ The End Up, Tulsa @ Angles, Oklahoma City @ The Copa, Oklahoma Cit ~Club Majestic, Tulsa a biopic about the late gay artist Robert Mapplethorpe, she probably knew tl~er&l be clout-and cash-collecting detours along the way. And here they are: the horror film Zoe, slated for 20 ! 1 a~nd Co-starring James ~ Anyone who fbllows the man recently ejected from a Southwest Airlines flight for taking up too much seat space knows that Kevin Smith is a bear. A heterosexual one, but }till a bear. ~d his gay bear colleague, documentau fihmnaker }v~alcolm Ingrain (Small %wn Gay Bar, which Smith producedX has enlisted the help of Silent Bob to get his new project offthe ground. Smith has executive-produced and also makes an appearance in Bear Nation, a doc from Ingram about the bear subculture (for the still-uninitiated, they are that niche market of gay" men who refuse to Shdve, xvax, or say no to seconds at the buffet} and all the Van Der Beek and Freddie Prinze, Jr. (is it set in the ’90s too?} in which Dushku play,s a small-town waitress terrorized by... -,veil... something; you’ll see when it opens. And ways they’ve begun to make their presence then there’s the future mega-event ka~own as known in the larger gay" world. 7fhe film Ghostbusters III, a project sh& been circling, premieres any minute now at Austin’s South one that would pretty nmch catapult her to By SoUthwest Film Festival. Non-Ausdnites the A-list, with all th’e production shingle will have to wait for a local lest or cable airing, all of which are highly likely to follow. perEs that status tends to dole out. Hope so. And really, what’re a few slimed ghosts on the Prep now by growing that fiacial hair. road to making art? Ehza Dushkus road to Mapplethorp Romeo San l~cent&J~vorim thing about Actors with ambition to produce and bea~s # thdrproximity toj}ied chicken direct knoW that tO make d~ir dream projects and wa~s. He can be reached care ofthis come true there are dues to be paid. So publication or at DeepInsMeHollywood@ whenDollh0use star Eliza Dust~ku announced qsyndicate.com. her intentions to n’lake ~lhe Per~?ct Moment, Free help 12 184.8669 @Club 209, Tulsa March 2010 �by Jack Fertig March 2010 "Tweet, ScorpioV’ Mercury in Pisces sextile to Pluto in. Capricorn offers very deep insights that seem illogical, but go with your gut. Your subconscious may be catching rational connections that your conscious - mind doesn’t see. ARIES (March 20- Apri~ 19): Folks in charge have a hidden agenda. Reading between the lines isn’t necessarily paranoiac. Confide in a close friend to keep that in proportion. If you must choose between loyalty and ambition, think ahead and remember who you are, TAURUS (April 20 - May 20): Hints of the future and conversations with friends challenge some of your beliefs, triggering inner conflicts. You like life more certain, but accept the challenge to be truer to yourself and more ready for what’s coming. Resistance to inevitable change only makes it harder. GEM~N~ (May 21- June 20): Sharing a confidence with your boss could open him or her up to letting you in on some secrets. The road to power r~eed not pull you away from your friends, but your goals may-challenge you to choose or reconcile. SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 20): Pluto in Capricorn until 2023 means that financial worries will be with all of us for awhile, and that you will tend to worry way too much. Your biggest challenge is to keep perspective. That takes practice. Easy does it! CAPRICORN (December 21 -January t9): If you’re not careful you may reveal some very personal secrets. If you are careful you could learn a few! Assert yourself in a mature way - being responsible and independent- to shift your status in your family. AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): A shopping list or receipt could be a meditative focus. Consider what you eat, what you use, what you need, what you don’t and how this reflects your habits and goals. Compare the reality to your ideals and see what you can learn about yourself. PISCES (February 19 - March 19): Even if a bit pessimistic, your foresight will be appreciated. Times are tough, and a thoughtful assessment is much more valuable than false optimism. Ruthless honesty could still upset some friendships; try to be diplomatic. musical CANCER {June 21- July 22): Ideals and religion should offer guideposts, not strict instructions. The way to effective partnership in love and work needs some improvisational detours from those marked paths. Independent thought and extrapolation breathe real value into.old faith and wisdom. VIRGO (August 23 - September 22): Identifying strongly with a sexuallydefined community can strengthen or limit your individuality - or do both. Discuss this with your partner or a Iongtime friend. Be very clear about how your milieu affects your own creative spirit. LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): Service to your community does give you deep insight; respect that it does so for others, too! Sharing your insights will help everyone; try to keep the corn petitive urges entirely friendly to build cooperation. SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): "Your wonderfu, wicked wittiness will delight your friends, but could make big trouble at work. Keep a journal handy or Tweet your pals in those moments when you can hardly suppress yourself, but it is neither the time nor the place! www.metrostarnews.com Down 10r~sm, e.g. 2Top 3 Lady’s title 4 iWriter Calvino 5 Audeffs adieus 6 Cabaret’s "Mein . " 7 Name that rhymes w~th dtck . 8 Sex Pistols singer Vicious 9 Take care of 10Home of the WNBA’s Lynx 11 Gay vide~ directory name 12 Da Vinci~ Lig~ i3 GUmming on tl~estage 21,Basi~,0fB~ theme from a Sherman METROPOLITAN LEO (Ju~y 23 - August 22): There’s a time and place to show off your sexual prowess. At work that energy is best sublimated to focus on practical techniques to get powerful results. Go slow and steady at exercise. Trying too hard could get you hurt! Across COMMUNITY CHURCHES Hemsley sitcom) 38 Pointless 39 Milita~, policy 25 Gangster niclmamed Scarface 27 Bend over and grab them 28 Home swle 30 Chop 31 Lesbos, for one 32 Slippery swimmers 33 Cheese in red 34 Petv 0fA League of~eir Own 35 %e I in IHO# (abb~0 36 Supporters of~ome drag queens 40 Bryant, but not Bear 41 Bosie, to Alfred Dougi~ Rev Steve T. Urie Spirit of Christ MCC 2902 E 20th Street Joplin, MO 64804 417-529-8480 47 ~ternative to HBO 49 Rods of drivers 5 ! Intercourse while surfing? the ground 52 Keep an 53 Rest atop 54 Lingo Worship Sunday 6:00 PM Community Meat Wednesdays at 6:00 PM www.socmcc.org 55 Woody ~dley 56 Garfeld s wNpping boy 57 Beau, barely 58 Nickelodeon ~plorer Farewell" 59 Force;that ~mes you to go down 52 Have a God filled and BleSSed Day! Soludon page 15 be mailed ~7 oSTAR 13 �AXDSWALK OKC Holding their First & by Greg Fox Fundraiser of 2010 Each Step Brings Hope By Victor Gorin Contributing writer OI<LAHOMA CITY, OK __ AIDS Walk OKC began in 1998 with a mission to raise money and consciousness about HIV, to help those infected and affected, promote prevention, and raise awareness and understanding through education. Since then this annual event has raised over $400,000 for various nonprofit groups working in these areas including RMN, Other Options, Guiding Right, and many others. ~is ?Tear the Walk has been moved up to September 19 and the route has changed, now beginning at the Sonic Plaza in Brickto~vn. Although the route has changed it still is a Sunday afternoon event with preregistration beginning at 12:30 P.M. with stepoffat 2 p.m. Likewise tables ~vill still be available for vendors and for various groups to give out information. The Walk will also be preceded that day by the 5K run, which will begin on John Carter Drive and Rent Avenue, with registration for that event beginning at 11 a,m. Participation in that race costs $20 in advance, $25 the day of the race, and the runners are offat 12:30 p.m. Now chaired by John Greer MDSWalk OKC has 5 new board members, Dwayne Jones, Scott Hines, Cindy Cabrera, Diane "Wood & Maria Srouiji, who share a vision for the future. This year’s theme for the ’,Walk is "Each Step Brings Hope", and their first fundraiser will be at Partners, March !9 at 9 p.m., featuring entertainers John Beebe, Sonja Martinez and other great local entertainers. It’s a chance to get this event off:to a strong start for 2010! 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Stonewall Democrats is a recognized group o~ the Oklahoma and national Democratic Pariy. Working to educate voters and politicians about issues o~ the community, we are working to make change and shape history. T | ,2 7 We mee~ ~he I s~ Tuesday of every month a~ ~he LAHOMA STATE DEMOCRATIC PARTY HEADQUARTERS � Text A resource consisting primarily of words for reading. Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data magazine Text Any textual data included in the document THE PREMIER SOURCE FOR GLBT OKLAHOMA VOLUME 7 ISSUE 3 Twi~er.com/MetroStarNews e MetroStarNews.com U,S, Census being Conducted for 2010 Same Sex Marriages and There is a particular need and focus on the LGBT community and the census. This community is one of those that has been undercounted. Many don’t feel a connection to the government and how it affects their lives. An inaccurate count could negatively affect their lives and community fro7 the next ten years or longer." Emmet Morris, Partnership Coordinator U.S. Census Regional OfFice, Kansas City, Missouri By Victor Gorin Contributing writer OKLAHOMA CITY, OK __ For the last 220 years the U.S. Census Bureau has been counting the people of the United States of America, recording numbers that reflect many great changes. When the first census was taken in 1790, it was administered by the late our 3rd president. At the time it showed the population of the United States to be 3,929,326 people, ofwhich 697,681 Emmett Morris, U.S, Census Partnership Coordinator with Fran Dozz ofChurch ofthe Open Arms in OKC. Gorin photo were African American slaves ,who counted as 3/5 of a person for purposes 0f taxation and representation. New York City, then as now, was our largest municipality, but 0nly had around 33,000 people. Over two centuries later our 2000 census showed a population of 281,421,906 people, and 16% of those counted received a "long form" with over 100 questions, going into far more depth including inquiries about home ownership, finances, relationships and other data. Then as now there were no inquiries as to sexual orientation, but for the first time it did provide a way for gay and lesbian couples to be counted. Asking the sex of the residents of a household with the corresponding relationship, among the options listed for the first time was "unmarried partner." If two persons of same sex at the same address answered with that option, it would statistically record a same sex couple. At that time legal same sex marriage did not exist. ~is has changed since then as same sex marriages became legal in 7 countries, the first being the Netherlands in 200!, followed by Belgium, Sweden; South Africa, Norwa~ Canada and Spain. It became legal in the US ~nfive St~t~s, the first being ,M~achusetts in 004,followed by Vermont~ Ne~v Hampshire, COnnectiCut, and I6wa; plus marriages that took place in California ~lufing a brief period MARCH 1, 2010 cann0wbec0 d! it was legal there during 2008. As dais is the first census since same sex marriages have gained legal status, this is the first time that same sex couples will be counted as married partners if they indicate that is their relationship. But for the GLBT community as well as all Americans, the census affects far more than that. Numbers from the census impact almost every aspect of our lives, which makes it imperative that there is an accurate count of all the people in our country and where they are. It affects over 170 Federal allocations of money to states and localities, including money for transportation, healthcare including HIV grants, education induding money for school lunch and breakfast programs, Medicaid assistance, money for housing and nutrition assistance, grants for drug education and treatment, Head Start and child care programs, crime prevention assistance and much more. Data ~rom the census also determines how you are represented politic~11); affecting government operations from the Federal level all the way to local School districts. ........Continued See CENSUS Page-4 Gay vet: military is ready for openly gay servicemen By Michael W. Sasser Contributing writer Photo: Navy Lt. Everett "Earl"Morrow While President Barack Obama’s call for the end of the military’s ’Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell’ (DADT) policy is stalled in bureaucratic neutral, one recent NaW veteran tells Metro- Star that he believes servicemen are ready for out comrades. "Once the decision is made (to end DADT), I think the transition will be quick," said former NaW Lt. Everett "Earl" Morrow. "Troops don’t get enough credit. They will be supportive of it. I’m not saying that there won’t still be homophobes. There are still racists and sexists out there." However, Morrow said, his experience taught him something about servicemen. "I was surprised that more people than not said they didn’t care ifsomeone serving with them was gay," Morrow said. Morrow, who granted his first interview as an out veteran on the subject to Metro-Star, said that he has plenty of experience on which to base his experience. He had a successful NaW career for five years, leaving active duty in April 2008 in part because of the DADT policy. The to repeal the policy recently prompted his to speak out on the subject. ........Continued See DADT Page-9 State Senator Russell Introduces a Bill restricting Oklahoma cooperation with Federal prosecution of Hate Crimes By Victor Gorin Contributing writer OKLAHOMA CITY, OK As he had promised to do earlier, State Senator Steven Russell (Republican District 45) has introduced legislation ( SB 2165) that among its provisions would greatly limit Oklahoma state, county and !ocal law enforcement from providing evidence or assistance to Federal authorities prosecuting hate crimes. It proposes that "law enforcement agencies shall deny access to law enforcement records to any Federal agency when such request is made relating to a case handled and completed by a law enforcement agency of this state, and the purpose is to attempt to investigate or prosecute the individual or individuals pursuant to 18- U.C.S. Section 245 (the Federal Hate crimes law with protections added in 2009 for sexual orientation, gender, gender identity and disability- Matthew Shepard-James Byrd act). Exceptions are basic information that is available for public inspection and records of those convicted pursuant to Section 850 Tide 21 of Oklahoma Statutes, which are Oklahoma’s Hate Crimes laws which do not cover sexual orientation or gender identity. What this entails is that if an Oklahoman was victimized by a hate crime, and Federal authorities deemed the case to be under their jurisdiction, loca! authorities could not provide data beyond the most basic information available to the public, witness statements, physical/forensic or other any other type of evidence or assistance. This would prohibit providing as evidence to Federal authorities a bloody baseball bat or gun used in that type of crime to assist in their prosecution of that hate crime. Since crimes committed due to a victim’s sexual orientation/gender identity are not Hate Crimes under Oldahoma state law, and this restriction ~votfld make Federal prosecution of this type of crime in Oldahoma very difficult if not impossible, this would greatly impede Hate Crimes protection for the GLBT community in Oklahoma. Senator Russell has stated, "Oklahoma has tough good laws that include hate crimes laws. Any murder or brutal assault is hateful. That is the problem with singling ,, out something more with this Federallaw. However A1 McAffrey, Oklahoma’s only openly gay legislator, (Democrat-District 88) has a different opinion, considering this legislation a publicity stunt stating, " Preventing crimes against Oklahomans because ofwho they are is in no way an attack on free speech. This is nothing but emp,ty rhetoric used to scare and mislead folks. D ion School District retains gay-friendly book By Michael W. Sasser TULSA, OK__ ~adter a flurry of controversy in January, the Union Public School District ofTulsa County has retained a gay-friendly book available to students. By a 3-1 vote, the District Board of Education decided that "Buster’s Sugartime" would remain on the shelf. The book, by author Marc Brown, is a simplified version of a 2005 episode of the PBS series "Postcards from Buster." It is ostensibly about Buster the Rabbit’s exploration of how maple syrup is made in Vermont. However, the bulk of this particular episode revolves around Buster hanging out with the children of a same-sex couple. Despite only a pair of Very gentle allusions to same-sex parents, the content did prompt many stations to pull the episode. Last year, some parents argued that the book was inappropriate and took their complaint to the district’s Materials Review Committee. That committee backed the book’s presence by a 6-1 margin. At least one set of parents appealed the decision to the Board of Education, which then confirmed the decision with the January 3-1 vote. Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) President Toby Jenkins said that he wasn’t surprised by the decision. "When I first heard about it, I didn’t know what would happen,’~ Jenkins said. !~But I wasn’t surprised by the decision because this is one of the more progressive school districts. They have a non-discrimination policy and a strong Gay-Straight Alliance." Old~q board members include a couple of out Union District employees, Jenkins said. "I knew what the background of the school board was," he said. "Still you can never be too sure. Boards often cave to pressure." Jenkins praised Union for a positive experience interacting on the issue and for even setting up an emait contact for community advocates to express their opinions. "They were very good to work with," Jenkins said. According to Jenkins, stirring the controversy were some advocates who apparently went so far as to express dismay at the bigotry and homophobia expressed by some school parents. "In no way was that something that we did and no statement from us cast any dispersion on parents," Jenkins said. He suspected that some advocates got carried away in their emails to the dedicated address with the District. The more virulent commentary prompted a comlnent from a Union District official defending parents. Its theme was that complaining parents were protesting because gay marriage is "illegal" in Oklahoma - a position Jenkins said is unfortunate and not true. "Gay marriage is not legally recognized in Oldahoma, it is not illegal," Jenkins said. "If a couple marries outside Oklahoma and then comes home, no one comes to arrest them. It’s just that the state doesn’t recognize the marriage." Still, Jenkins was pleased with the outcome and with the District’s handling of the mattm: "I don’t lmow if there will be another appeal but for now it seems resolved," Jenkins said. "Now is a quiet time, but before long it will be something else. There is always something else." The Union Public School Board did not reply to an email seeking comment. Group Forming At OSU-OKC OKLAHOMA CITY, OK (PR) __ A new social/activist group has formed at OSU-OKC called Diverse Partners, Family, & Friends. Organized by Kyle Moore, the group plans to focus on educational goals and equality for GLBT students at the university. As it is a student group recognized by the university, only enrolled students can vote, but meetings are open to everyone interested. They will meet every Tuesday at 6:15 PM in the Conference Room North on campus. For more information contact Kyle Moore at 405- 209-6340. uptcv * CiVil Ricjhts *Criminal ’ment o Family Law * Liticjation N.W. Street city, OK 7SlOS To Haiti with love meeting was called February 15 to determine Sooner State Sofi ball nights. Contact HSR at: 405-521- ifOGLPC had a future and if so, was the 9696, herland@herlandsisters.org or community ready to make it happen, herlandsist~rs.0rg. Presided by co-chair Jeanne Flanigan, International Women’s Day (IWD) is a that meeting was held at Church of the global day celebrating the economic, political Open Arms, attended by around 15 people, and social achievements ofwomen past, some of~vhom were longtime activists and present and future. ~e IXWD ~vebsite lists some newcomers. Ms. Flanigan agreed to events worldwide celebrated on or around continue serving as co-chai~; and Secretary March 8 each year. For more information Victor Gorin also agreed to continue in that about IXYgD: ww~c.internationalw0mensday. position. Co-chair Paul Thompson resigned com. his position, Enough interest was shown for another meeting which would be at the regular time, the second Monday of March which would be the 8th at 7 p.m. ~at. meeting will happen at the usual place, the Neighborhood Alliance Building located at 1236 N.W. 36th Street of Oklahoma City. A benefit to supply HIV reeds for Haidans By Robin Dorner Contributing Writer O~OMACITY, OK On January !2 a magnitude 7.1 earthquake shook Port au Prince, Haiti. The earthquake left hundreds of thousands dead, millions were homeless and left without food, water or resources. Many of trs thought, "What can I do to help?" XTge sent money, food, water, medical supplies and many of our own citizens went to help in rescue efforts. As the cleanup continues, there is still much needed help. "When the earthquake first hit Haiti, I asked Robin [Dr. Robin Meyers, Mayflower Church pastor] ifwe could do a Haitian benefit concert at Mayflower," said Rev. Loyce Newton Edwards, an associate at Mayflower who has a Masters Degree in Divinity. "Dr. Maria Lupe, another Mayflmver member and I had a shared vision for this event because of the devastation in Haiti." Edwards is committed to helping HIV + people stay alive and she lost a sister to the disease in 1999. On the UCC (United Church of Christ) national level she serves in three areas related to HIV/AIDS: UCAN. Inc., UCAN Inc. Leadership Team, Wider Church Ministries Board of Directors HIV AIDS Ministries. Haiti has the highest HtV/AIDS rate in the western world. Tl~e UCC Common Global Ministries has a longstanding ~dationship xvith a communion of 6.000 chucches in Haiti. The UCC Haitian Relief Fund had raised over $650,000 for Haiti relief ofwhich 100% of the proceeds go ro our partners in Haiti. By design, this event falls on the first day of"The National Week of Prayer for the Healing ofAIDS" for ~vhich UCC is a co-sponsor. That week starts Sunday March 7th, which is the day of the benefit. "To Haiti with love" wil! include one great hour of sharing, filled with music, poetry, and inspirational spealdng. At the end of the benefit donations ~vill be accepted for Haitian relief efforts for HIV medications. Please make plans to attend this great event on Sunday; March 7th at Mayflower UCC Church located at 3901 NW 63rd Street in Oklahoma City. For more information or to make a donation, please contact Rev. Loyce Edwards at 405-642-0124 or email her at loycee@sbcglobal.net. O ahoma Gay and Lesbian Political Caucus Holds Re-organizational Meeting OFRAHOMA CITY, OK (PR) __ It was a turning point for the Oklahoma Gay and Lesbian Politica! Caucus, an organization first incorporated in 1985 that ~vorked to register and educate voters of the GLBT community, and also to educate elected officials about issues of the community as well. During recent years OGLPC had faced difficulty due _to lack of partic_ipation, and a special Democracy for America to Host Grassroots Training in Tulsa Locals to participate in voter contact, fundraising, organizing and messaging sessions BURLINGTON, VT (PR) Hundreds of local activists, campaign staffers and candidates wil! receive hands-on training at an upcoming Campaign Academy hosted by Democracy for America. The two-day interactive worlcshop will be held March 13-14 at the Tulsa County Democratic Party headquarters 907 S. Detroit Ave, Tulsa, OK. Experienced campaign professionals will lead sessions in voter contact, fundraising, communications, online organizing and much more to empower progressive activists with ~he skills to win electiofis in November and beyond. Attendees will also have a chance ro meet with localprogressive Candidates and learn about job andvolunreer opportunities in their area. "Our Campaign Academy trainings empower citizens with the tools to change their communities," said DFA Training Director Matt Blizek. The DFA Campaign Academy aims to focus, network andtrain grassr0ots activists in the skills and strategies to take back our country, manage successful campaigns or run for office themselves. Since 2004, DFA has held more than 100 trainings throughout the country. For more information visit: www. democracyforamerica.com. Obituary OKLAHOMA CITY, OK __ Dennis Allen Dohm aged 48, passed away at OU Medical Center January 7 due to massive organ failure caused by a heart infection and damage to an aortic valve. He was a well known entertainer in Oklahoma City, best known in his drag persona as Danae Daniels. Performing in regular shows and benefits at Tramps, PhoenLx Rising, & the Hilt, his wild wit and outrageous humor wowed his audiences, showing he was truly special. Oklahoma Tobacco Free help Association Opens their 2010 Season By Victor Gorin OKLAHOMA CITY, OK Once again Oklahoma’s Sooner State Softball Association is opening up for their biggest season ever. During 2009 3 of their teams represented Oklahoma at the NAGAAA ( North American Gay Amateur Athletic Alliance) g[orld Series held that year in Milwaukee, with the Oklahoma Chaos team achieving the best results with a 7th place finish. Now comprised of 12 teams, the League is working on recruiting players, coaches, sponsorships and other support. Based on their growth last year, they feel they can look forward even better times ahead. Now into their 7th season, the league was formed in order to provide those interested in the GLBT community a place for camaraderie and to play ball! Recreational players are welcomed as well as serious competitors. On Friday March 19 Angles will host a Recruitment Party for the League at 9 p.m. This event is a great chance for those interested to learn about the league, have a few drinks, get to know some of the players and learn what it’s all about. Past and current players are encouraged to wear their team shirts/jerseys, and there will be an informaional booth for learning more and signing up. For more information contact Recruitment Director Chad Previch at soonerstatesoftball@hotmail.com. Herland Celebrates International Women’s Day OKLAHOMA CITY, OK (PR) __Herland Sisters Resources will celebrate International \Women’s Day with an "All That Jazz Party" on Saturday March 6th at The Boom Club and Restaurant, 2218 NW 39 th Street. The Jazz Party is a fund-raiser for Herland bookstore, their lending library and events for women, in cooperation with Cimarron Alliance Foundation. The party will feature music by the Dynamics, a local jazz band, playing standards and original music. This is a come-and-go event, beginning at 6 PM with drinks, hors d’oeuvres by Chef Suzie Lopez, and music until 9pm. Guests will be asked for a donation at the door, encouraged to wear gay attire, and will be offered wonderful art work to buy at the silent auction. The auction includes a beautifully framed poster signed by the artist Native American Dana Tiger, art glass, and jewelry along with gift certificates from local businesses. Herland Sister Resources (HSR) is a non-profit organization, and one of the few U.S. women’s bookstores/lending libraries in operation for over 20 years. The bookstore is located at 2312 N\V 39th St., and is open from 1-5 PM each Saturday. HSR also sponsors Spring and Fall Retreats at state parks, monthly supper clubs, a poetry group, the Annual Pride Picnic and game Ron Harwood & Cathy Hill Seeking International Leather By Victor Gorin Contributing writer Cathy Hill and Ron Harwood. Gorin photo OKJ_At-IOMA CITY, OK It was a hot Friday night at Angles February 12 when a fundraiser was held to send two of our major tideholders of the leather community ro international competition. Ron Harwood, our current Oldahoma Mr.Leather, who also holds the title ofTulsa Mr. Leather 2009, will be competing in Chicago for the International Mr Leather title May 28-Junel. Ms. Cathy Hill, who currently holds the title of South Central Leather Woman 2009 is seeking the title of International Ms. Leather, and that competition will be held in San Francisco on April 15-18. The next upcoming leather contest in Oklahoma will determine our new Tulsa Mr.Leather, and that event will take place on Saturday, March 20 at Tulsa’s Club Maverick’s at 8 p.m. ~is will follow a meet and greet to be held the preceding Friday night, March 19, at t the Tulsa Eagle. Tulsa Metro SoRball League’s Spring 2010 Season Starting TULSA, OK (PR) __ Tulsa Metro Softball League (TMSL) will hold their spring clinics March 14-20 at Hicks Park, 3443 S. Mingo Rd, Tulsa. They may only have one spring clinic. The spring clinics are for new players looking for a team and returning players who want to change teams. Team Coaches ,vill be present to scout the local talent and to recruit. For more information visit: vmwv.TulsaMetroSoftball.com ~<,.metrostarnews.com M{~TI~OSTAR 3 I Low Change Looks Like, but M1 I Can See Are Two Faces. Constitutional Rights Are Not a Raffle Ticket Prize by James Nimmo OKI~HOMA CITY, OK __ In this article from the Salt Lake City Tribune, http://tinyurl.com/ygpfl~6u we’re told that support for LGBTs has "shot up" over the past year following passage of a bias ban approved by the Salt Lake City Council that includes sexual orientation/gender iden’tity in housing and employment. How- many time, have I heard that legislatures and courts must not get too far ahead of the "will of the people" or there will be some ill-described chicken-little type of reaction among the voters, respect for the la~v and morn and apple pie will diminish and Gee-sus himself will come to earth and.... well, you get the drift. AaCter reading the article I’m again reminded that so many people, such as toe-the-line Mormons, can change their opinions merely because their leaders in effect tell them to, either directly through the legislative process or by leading xvith their own behavioral change. If this SLC Tribune poll is close to accurate in its description, just how accurate is the dreadful prediction that if United States Supreme Court rules in fa~vor of same-gender marriage on appeal of the currently litigated California Prop 8 trial~ ,~x~erica ~vill fall into total oblivion with Joe Six-Pack hubbies divorcing their long suffering wives to run offfor a gay fling with Ted Haggard, and Sally Soccer rooms running off to pal around with Ellen Degeneres for free samples of Cover Girl make-up? Just how far in front of public opinion does the Supreme Court need to be ifa majority of Mormons in Utah, which led the fight with Roman Catholics against Prop 8 in California in 2008, can increase by a range of 10% to 45% their approval and acceptance of gay/lesbian civil rights in their own state? By the way, the recognition ofmy civil rights is inherent with my birth as an American citizen and in no way needs approval from anyone, let alone those who believe in golden tablets from the sky, magic underwear, and ancestral baptism. The denial of my civil rights because I’m gay is what’s wrong, not my desire to have the same social, financial, and legal benefits which I’m paying for with my taxes. No one’s Constitutional civil rights should be held up as the prize for a rafl]e ticket in the lottery of public opinion. What I’m coming around to is this: If America had a national spokesperson who led using the force of law as well as his own example and not just by mere words of fierce advocacy, and who had led by his presence in Maine in its recent vote on same-gender marriage, or even farther back, to the California vote in November 2009 on Prop 8--both votes having a devastating setback on civil rights fiar gay/lesbian taxpayers--can’t you imagine that successful votes would have reinforced the legislative and judicial decisions that were already in place at the time, decisions that fully recognized our rig!~ts of citizenship? What if that person was the president of the United States, one who prides himself on his commitment to changing the tone of government in Washington? I know what change-I-can-believe-in looks like, but all I can see are two faces. Oklahoma Man Sues Tax Commission Over "IM Gay" License Plate OKLAHOMA CITY, OK (PR) __ Oklahoma taxpayer Keith Kimmel has filed a civil lawsuit in Oklahoma County District Court against the Oklahoma Tax Commission, continuing a battle for freedom of speech on vanity license plates. The suit seeks to have part of the Commission’s rules regarding the issuance of personalized license plates declared unconstitutional. Keith Kimmel, who filed the suit through his attorney provided the following statement: "The Oklahoma Tax Commission is continuing to subject Oklahomans to a subjective decision making process in issuing personalized vanity license plates. Under our state Constitution, all Oldahomans enjoy the right to freedom of speech and an equal opportunity to express their viewpoints. Previous testimony in the administrative proceedings held on this matter have shown that the Commission is sdectively granting and denying applications based on Commission employees’ own personal prejudices and viewpoints. The Constitution requires that state rules are ;¢iewpoint neutral, with an objective standard that puts the taxpayer on notice ofwhat is legal and what is not. This suit is intended to put an end to the Tax Commissions unconsntunonal practice of subjecting taxpayers to the whim of individual employees." The case is Keith Kimmel v State of Oklahoma, ex rel, Oklahoma Tax Commission, Oklahoma County Case No. CJ-2010-1072. Federal law requires that the count include all U.S citizens, all legal residential noncitizens, long term visitors, and illegal aliens. There are many groups that have been undercounted in the past, including African Americans, Native A~mericans, Latinos, the poor, and the GLBT community. Discrimination and prejudice against people in these communities have made many feel bitterness and distrust of government in general, causing them to avoid cooperation with the census either out of anger and/or fear. Although we can be reasonably certain that there have always been GLBT people in America, there is little recorded history about them until the 20th century, and considering the legal status of the GLBT community until the late 20th century, this would hardly be surprising. Sodomy laws, which prohibited same sex activity, were in affect in all 50 states until 1962 (when Illinois was the first state to repeal their state sodomy statute), and some, including Oklahoma’s, were in effect until 2003 when the U.S. Supreme Court invalidated these statutes (Lawrence vs. Texas). Currently there is still no Federal protection for the GLBT community against job and housing discrimination, nor is there in 29 states even today, including Oldahoma. There was no Federal Hate Crimes law until late 2009. Understandably there are many in the GLBT community who feel, like others in similarly challenged groups, resentment and!or fear of government which could cause them to avoid participation in the census. In order to ensure an accurate count, legislati.on has made the process safe for all to participate. Information obtained by the Census Bureau is confidential by Federal law (Title 13 U.S. Code). Any employee that divulges confidential information outside the agency could face up to 5 years imprisonment and be fined up to $250,000. Census information about an individual cannot be used in a court of lave, nor is that information subject to disclosure under the Freedom of Information Act. No individual, private business or government authority can obtain personally identifiable data from the Census Bureau, including the ~]hite House, Internal Revenue Service, U.S. Citizenship and Immigration Services, the military, welfare agencies, CIA or the FBI. The rule even supersedes the Patriot Act. Yet despite these protections there is still fear and mistrust that impedes cooperation and causes ~ndercounting. The bureau realizes that these protections wofft serve their intended purpose of ensuring an accurate count unless people know about and understand them. Therefore, combined with these safeguards is a massive educational effort, and the GLBT community is now included among those groups they want to reach out to.~ X~orldng with this effort is Emmett Morris, a Partnership Coordinator with the Census Bureau worldng in the Kansas City Regional Office that oversees Oklahoma. He met with the Metro Star to inform the GLBT community about the 2010 census and its importance, and also to gather ideas about hmv to work with the Oklahoma GLBT community to ensure an accurate count. As he put it, "We want the GLBT community to know that the census is really about them, as it is with everyone. It’s about their future, and ,ve live with everyday tangible aspects of our lives that come about because of census numbers including roads, jobs, bridges, companies locating here and more. It’s not a bunch of numbers that live in abstract in Washington D.C. in some computer. These numbers actually come back to serve community needs, prosperity and our quality of life." In mid March 90% of U.S. households will receive a U.S. Census form to fill out. This will be preceded by a postcard letting the, residents know in advance. ~xe questionnaires will sent out by address and not to individuals by name. The form has only 10 questions, is easy to fill out and can be returned by mail with the provided postage paid envelope. If there is no response it wilt ’ be followed by a second form, and if there is still no response a census worker will attempt to get the information in person. In the interest of an accurate count at the lowest possible cost, recipients are encouraged to fill out the form and mail it back as soon as possible. The Census Bureau will be worldng with various communities in this effort, setting up centers to help people with the forms, answer concerns they may have, and gathering information. Bi or multi lingual people will especially be needed, as they are planning to provide assistance in 59 languages. They will need workers to staff these centers, along with field workers to do follow up inquiries door to door and to count people in unconventional housing, including the homeless. In this effort they will attempt to hire personnel from their respective communities, realizing that people who have familiarity with a certain community, group or ethnicity can do a better job reaching out to those who need to be counted. Currently the U.S. Census Bureau has 5 Oklahoma offices, located in Oklahoma City, Tuls~l, Tahlequah, Enid and Lm~on. They are many job openings, so ifyou are interested in what could be a quite interesting endeavor that could lead to other opportunitieS,~please call toll free 866- 860-2010. It’s a chance that comes once every 10 years. "First t sday" Art Opening and Exhibit of New and Original Works by Robb Conover TULSA, OK (PR) __ ~ne March Oklahomans for Equality (Old,q) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E. 4th Street in Downtown Tulsa), will feature a new and unusual "Progressive Display" of works by artist Robb Conover; the show begins with a reception on Thursday, March 4th from 6-9pro and continues throughout the month of March. The March exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Gallery will feature a catalogue ofworks by Robb Conover which will create a progression of art from one side of the gallery to the other. This is an exciting acrylics on canvas display; it is unlike anything that has been in the Gallery before and promises to be an unusual and visually stimulating presentation. Robb lived in Tulsa in the 1970’S and 80’s; He currently resides in Dallas and is represented io several galleries there. Please join us to visit with Robb at the Opening Night Reception on Thursday, March 4, from 6to ,9pm. Refreshments will be served. Robb s art will be on display through March 20 t 0. 4 ~ttET~:~,OSTAR March 2010 Gays arrested at NYC marriage license bureau Four members ofa newACT UP-like group known as Queer Rising were arrested in Manhattan On Feb. 12 after chaining then~elves to the entrance ofthe New York Ci{y Marriage Bureau. Photo by Jamie McGonnigal, www. TalkAboutEquality.org NEWYORK, NY__ Four members of a new ACT UPdike group known as Queer Rising were arrested in Manhattan on Feb."12 after chaining themselves to the entrance of the New York City Marriage Biireau. Alan Bounville, Jake Goodman, Justin Elzie and Gabriel Yuri Bollag sought equal marriage rights for same-sex couples. Dozens of gay marriage supporters cheered them on. Twenty same-sex couples went inside and tried to obtain marriage licenses. ~ey were rebuffed. A gay naan and a lesbian then presented themselves as a faux couple, asked for a license and were given one. "New York City is home to the Stonewall Riots and in that tradition we are here to say that equality doesn’t arrive through the ballot box," said Queer Rising spokesperson Spring Super. "~e bankrupt strategy of putting all efforts into electing so-called friendly officials has failed," Super said. "We must shift to building a grassroots, national movement that demands full equality by any means necessary. New York state recognizes same-sex marriages from other jurisdictions but does no~ allow them itse!£ Same-sex marriage is lega! in Connecticut, Iowa, Massachusetts, New Hampshire and Vermont. It also is legal in Belgium, Canada, the Netherlands, Norway, South Africa, Spain and Sweden -- and in Argentina’s Tierra del Fuego province. It will become legal in "Washington, D.C., in March and in Portugal later this year. S.F. Chronide says iud e federal Prop 8 ca e gay- Vaughn Walker, the judge heariflg the federal same-sex marriage case in San Francisco, "is himself gay," the San Francisco Chronicle reported Feb. 7. The case, featuring famous lav~Ters Ted Olson and David Boies on the gay side, seeks to overturn Proposition 8, California’s voterpassed constitutional ban on gay marriage, as a violation of the U.S. Constitution’s guarantees of due process and equal protection under the law. "Many gay politicians in San Francisco and lawyers who have had dealings with Walker say the 65-year-old jurist, appointed to the bench by President George H.W. Bush in 198% has never taken pains to disguise -- or advertise -- his orientation," the Chronicle said. Asked by the paper if he had "any concerns about being characterized as gay," Walker responded, "No comlnent." Right after the interview was conducted, however, another judge contacted the paper, identified himself as ~d~lker’s friend, said he had spoken with Walkeh and expressed concern that "people will come to the conclusion that (\Nralker) wants to conceal his sexualiD:" "He has a private life and he doesn’t conceal it, but doesn’t think it is relevant to his decisions in any case, and he doesfft bring it to bear in any decisions," said the second judge, who agreed that Walker’s sexual orientation is "newsworthy" -- in the same way it would be newsworthy if a Jewish judge were hearing a case involving the Anti- Defamation League, the Chronicle said. A lawyer for the pro-Prop-8 side, Andy Pugno, said his team won’t do anything with the revelation. "We are not going to say anything about that," he told the Chronicle. " The National Organization for Marriage, however, might feel less restrained. In a letter to supporters about the Chronicle article, Executive Director Brian Brown alleged: "We do lmow one really big important fact about Judge Walker: He~ been .an amazingly biased and one-sided force throughout this trial, far more akin to an Wockner News Service activist than a neutral referee. That’s no secret at all." The trial is expeqted to resume sometime in March or April for closing arguments. Gay lmaTers, activists and others who followed the testimony have.asserted, nearly unanimously, that the gay side won the case in a landslide. Walker’s ruling likely will see appeal to the 9th U.S. Circuit Court ofAppeals and then to the U,S. Supreme Court. If successful, the lawsuit could bring about tlxe legalization of same-sex marriage nationwide. If unsuccessful, it could have the effect of stopping the movement for same-sex marriage, which now is legal in five states, dead in its tracks for possibly a generation. Moves to repeal samesex marriage in Iowa and NH fail Iowa legislators opposed, to same-sex marriage vcere unable to force resolutions out of House and Senate committeds Feb. 9 in support of a statewide vote to amend the constitution to re-ban gay nuptials. Nineteen senators signed a petition to get the Senate measure out of committee, but 26 signanires were needed. In the House of Representatives, a vote to push the measure out of committee failed 45 to 54. " A recent poll found that 62 percent of Iowans don’t think the Legislature should tackle the issue. Same-sex marriage became legal in Iowa in April 2009 courtesy of the state Supreme Court. A spokesman for the state’s main gay rights group, One Iowa, expressed relief at the developmeffts but warned against the g~, side’s letting down its guard. "Our opponents are ruthless aped will stop at nothing to take away the freedom to marry," said Communications Director Justin Uebelhor. "There were four legislative attempts to undermine the Supreme Court’s ruling last year and we expect more political attacks this year. We don’t want to take anything for granted and are communicating this message to our supporters and media on the ground. In addition to the constitutional amendment, a religious-exemption bill has already been proposed and we have to be vigilant of any attempts to chip away at the ruling." Also on Feb. 9, a committee of the Ne~v Hampshire House of Representatives overwhelmingly killed t~vo bills aimed at. rebanning same-sex marriage. One bill called for a public vote on gay marriage. The other would have repealed the la~v that legalized it. In addition to being allowed in Iowa and New Hampshire, same-sex marriage is legal in Connecticut, Massachusetts and Vermont. It also is legal in Belgium, Canada, the Netherlands, Norway, South Africa, Spain and Sweden -- and in Argentina’s Tierra del Fuego province. It will become legal in Washington, D.C., in March and in Portugal later rkis year. www.rnetrostarnews.com g~ET~,# STAR 5 Stress Test By Ronald Blake Contributing V&iter Photo: RonaM Blake, Certified Fittwss I~zstructor ~hrough ISSA International Sports Sciences Association You have vowed to lose 30 pounds before your niece’s wedding in September. Your trainer and doctor are recommending an exercise stress test before you lace up the sneakers and start sweating. What’s that and who needs one of those? These tests can also be called graded exercise stress tests or GXT’s. Affix whatever title you want to this procedure but it simply measures how your heart performs with and without exercise. Nae American Heart Association (AIq_A) has stated that an individual under 40 years old can forego this test if he or she has had a normal physical exam, doesn’t show signs of cardiovascular disease, and has no coronary risk factors. The captain’s turned off the caution sign and you’re }}ee to roam around the exercise However ifyou are a man or women over 40 years old, have an abnormal physical exam and/or have two or more coronalT risk factors then it’s time to schedule that exercise stress test. This just means your fitness flight has been grounded until the medical tower dears you for takeoff. The GXT can be done in a doctor’s once, a hospital, or a specialized hea~Ith cam facility. Talk with your doctor and decide where this should take place. Nae .AH~ guidelines call for there to be professionals trained in CPR to administer these tests. Furthermore, one of the techs in the testing area should be advance cardiac life support certified with a doctor iri the building. You’re not in Haiti after the big quake so it’s safe to assume this is all in place when you go for your exam. It’s just nice to know for peace of mind! The test is usually done on a treadmill wtaile you are hooked up to devices that’ll give you a feeling of Pinocchio and Geppetto attaci~ment. The test with its tracking equipment wil! check your blood pressure, heart rate, and the electrical activity and rhythm of your ticker. An analysis will be performed before any stress or exercise i~ started and an additional analysis will be gathered as exercise is introduced. Your heart could show signs of adequacy at rest but not after exercise. There are maW possibilities and the results will show this. Tr~e nurses, doctors, and techs administeting this exam will gradually increa~se the speed and incline on your treadmill to assess your cardiovascular limits. ~{Then symptoms of exhaustion and fatigue appear the testers will cease their period of sadistic glee and record the findings. The findings should be discussed with your doctor. About 15% of these results will be false positive which indicates there is a problem when there really isn’t a problem. About 30% of the results will be false negative reports which show you are OK when you really aren’t. This is ~vhen you look at your doctor with your best confused face and beseech his advice. Another GXT might be requested or other testing methods might be called upon for further explanation of your situation. When in doubt always make the decision to err on the side of safety when starting a fitness program. That might mean taking the GXT. Tixese tests are just as important as buying the correct training shoes, workout clothes, and health club membership. Join my masochistic readers who called their physicians to inquire about graded exercise tests several minutes ago! This column is brought to you by that guy who once challenged George Bush to a spelling bee. That orthographist who never heard back from the \ghite House is Ron Blake and he can be reached at wv~v. myblalcefitness.com. Oklahomans for Equality Tulsa opens Health Clinic for the uninsured. TULSA, OK (PR)~ __ OlcEq has opened a Health Clinic in collaboration with Dr. Jeremiah Rutherford, M.D., PC for the uninsured. The clinic will be held at the Dennis R. Nell Equality Center, 621 E. 4th Street, Tulsa, OK each ~ursday from 6 pm to 9 pm. The dinic also offers free HIV testing Tuesday through ~ursday, 6-8 pm and Saturday, 4-7 pro. For more information: 918-743-4297 Tramps, OKC Have a Heart Benefit--Love at its finest By Victor Gorin Designer Keith Reding with emcee l~aven Del Ray at Have a Heart Benefit at ~’amps. Gorin photo OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__ It is rare to see a more festive expression of love than what happens at Tramps every Valentine’s weekend when they hold their Have a Heart Benefit. It began over 20 years ago as a team effort of the late Larry Crosby, then a coowner ofTramps, and Sister Gall Addis who was then with Catholic Charities’ Loaves and Fishes program which provided meals for those living with HIV. Since then it has become a wild yet sacred Okflal~oma City tradition. Although Larry has passed away; his sister Camille Rohn still is a part owner ofTramps. Ms.Rohn and the staff ofTramps, along with many othe[s of the community who share their time, {alent and money, have made this event a proud tradition in her brother’s memory. ~xis year it was special as the celebration was held on Valentine’s Day itsel}] giving it a special bonus, although as Camille puts it, ’This is giving back to the community, and we look forward to it every year." This time over $8,000 was raised, and Tony Sinclair is already shopping for fabulous items to auction off next year! 6 March 2010 Week three is a charm on RuPauFs Drag Race. most recer t cor testant to a hay away talks £ood, com try Western and the beauty By Bebe Zahara Benet I was surprised to learn Mystique ~vas ecstatic over RuPaul switching out their script with the one being used by the other team. "For us, it got easier because the script was easier," she explained. "I was happy. It was actually fun." I also wanted to know what she thought of Raven, and her sometimes very cutting comments about Mystique and food. "Out of everybody on the show, Raven is the only one I have not heard from," Mystique told me. "Haters are everywhere, but haters make my life easier, because I work harder just to make you hate on me even more." Mystique stands by her decision to go with a very modern interpretation of country wear for her runway walk, and argues what the other girls presented was more a Western look. "I don’t like making fun of people," she explained, noting that if she had gone for a stereotypical look it may have offended her most dedicated fans. When I think Mystique, I think splits, more splits, which leads to additional splits. And then remember Mystique? She’s the one who nails the splits! I can barely lift my leg, and here is a big girl making it look so easy. "My signature is my eyes and my spins," she said. But when she really wants to shock, she breaks out a split. Mystique must get into the zone, because when she watched her solo on TV last week, she didn’t even remember she did a death drop! Now that’s a girl who knows how to work for a crowd. Mystique, thank you for your inspirarion, thank you for your self-integrity and thank you for being yourself. ~~ello all you beautiful people! Can you believe it is week three of RuPaul’s Drag Race already? So much is happening - let’s get right into my conversation with Mystique Summers Madison, the Texas beauty who went out with a bang! I was impressed how well Mystique did in the third episode’s opening challenge, when she just dove right in and swallowed down all those mystery foods she had to eat. "I was like, ’Oh no, it’s fried food,’" Mystique remembered. "I hadn’t had fried food in four months. Oh my God, I just went for it. I was just swallowing, I wasn’t tasting." Even though she looked like a cool cucumber, Mystique was nervous. "It was the scariest thing evel;" she revealed. "Zl~at was drag Fear Factor[" ~at win made Mystique one of the group leaders for the Disco "Extra Greasy" shortening TV commercial exercise, and I wanted to know what her strategy was for pictdng which gifts would be on Team Mystique. "Pandora did work editing TV commercials, and Jessica is a dancer," Mystique explained. "Everybody else had pretty makeup and were people I got along with." Catch RuPaul’s Drag Race at 9 p.m. (ET/ PT) every Monday night on Logo and visit LOGOonline.com to find out about viewing parties in your area. Until next week, kisses and splits! NOTE: Ifyou missed weeks 1 &2 Metro St[zr News online will cover all 12 weeks and it will beposted on out" website at: www. metrostarnews, corn www.metrostarnews.corn ~t~oSTAR 7 3131 ~. Pennsylvania,Oklaho 405.525.9555 put the °°gay°° in Christian, CC Un A ~etropoli~n Co~uni~ Church Chuck greckenridge Whether buying or selling I’ll work hard for you. 8 March 2010 "%q~en t watched the initial Senate hearing. I was offended by what the opposition said - that [gay servicemen] undermine units," Morrow said. "The policy already does that. You can’t build unit cohesion because people cafft be honest. There are a lot of traditions in the military, a lot of social situations that really help create camaraderie. People bring their wives and girlfriends to events." Morrow said that he believes most of the men with whom he served would have been able to handle his coming out if it had been possible. It was not; and a promising career was cut short to the Naw’s detriment. "There were other reasons as well, but certainly the policy was a big part of it," Morrow said. "I did not think there was any way for the two parts of my life to work together." Morrow grew up in a small town in Connecticut, graduated high school and then opted for the US Naval Academy. He was keenly aware of his orientation from an early age but said he had no struggle to come to terms with it. Still he decided to head to the Naval Academy where he effectively had little social life for the following four years. "It didn’t occur to me what a challenge it would be being gay and going to the Academy;" Morrow said. Morrow’s social isolation continued for the bulk of his active duty career, which included periods ashore as well as serving on submarines. It was during the long time underwater that he had the opportunity to learn about the sensibilities of those with vchom he served. "We had a tot of time to discuss just about eveD~hing and the subject ofhomosexuality came up," Morrowsaid. "It really surprised me that most people said they really didn’t care." Had he been able to serve openly, Morrow believes it would have helped serve the cause of understanding and acceptance. Once people find that they lmow someone who is gay, it is much more likely that they would be accepting. In many cases, Morrow said, prejudice is just a matter of unfamiliarity. Morrow said that he was pleased to see Navy Adm. Michael Mullen, chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff, assert recendy that servicemen were not being given the credit for acceptance that they deserved. Still, after years of being afraid of being identified and even though he was offered the exact position and assignment he most coveted with the Nav~ he left active duty and today works in the medical equipment field in New York. He said that were DADT not in effect, it was likely he would have stayed with the NaW. "Ultimately DADT is discrimination," Morrow said. "It fails to recognize that homosexuality is the same as race and sex. Tl~e military doesn’t recognize that. In general if that was recognized the policy would end tomorrow. As a consequence of that, the military is losing good people." Today, Morrow remains in the Reserve. lie’s a member of SAGALA -- Service Academy Gay & Lesbian Alumni -- and he participated in an off-camera interview for the documentary film "Out ofAnnapolis," which is expected to premiere this spring, likely on the independent film circuit. Morrow said that gay men aa~d women will oneday be able to openly serve in the military - it’s only a matter of when. He said that the potential for the repeal ofDADT is "as real" as it has ever been. "~xe Chairman of the Joint Chiefs, Secretary of Defense Gates...the highest military officers all agree...I think it’s come a long way," Morrow said. "Since it was passed by Congress, it must be repealed by Congress. I think there are currently 180-something congressmen willing to effectively eliminate DADT. Hopefully it will be sooner than later." LGBT Lobby Day to be hdd at state cap to1 By Robin Townsend Contributing XX~riter OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__ The Equality Network is hosting a lobby day at the State Capito! and you are invited, in fact, encouraged to attend. The event is geared to visitors telling our representatives that citizens care about LGBT equality in Oklahoma. There xvill be a brief training, networking, and visiting with representatives as well as having lunch together. "From its inception last year, TEN (The Equality Network) identified an annual LGBT Lobby Day as one of its top priorities," said Laura Belmonte, Vice President and Co- Founder ofTEN. "We believe a consistent presence at the State Capitol is critical to increasing and maintaining the visibility ofLGBT Oklahomans and their allies, to putting forward a proactive program for LGBT equality, and to giving individuals the knowledge and confidence they need to engage their representatives effectively." Belmonte’s personal advocacy experience spans almost twenty years and has entailed public speaking, creating and organizing e-advocacy campaigns, writing op-eds, media monitoring, and lobbying public officials directly. She is a professional historian and lifelong news and politics junkie - those traits also help shape and inform my activist endeavors. "Our most important goal is to secure passage of pro-LGBT legislation and to block passage of bills that are detrimental to LGBT Oldahomans," adds Bdmonte. "This will be a continual, long-term effort. It is going to take time and effort to move Oklahoma toward more inclusive and just public policies for LGBT people." TEN would like to have people from as many of Oklahoma’s political districts as possible participate in LBGT Lobby Day. If concerned citizens from any district register, appointments will be made with those representatives, including Rep. Sally Kern. "In the current session, Senator Steve Russell has introduced a bill highlighting the inadequacies of Oklahoma’s hate crimes law," furthers Behnonte. "Sen. Russell’s bill makes it impossible for law enforcement officials to work with federal agencies in prosecuting hate crimes targeting people because of sexual orientation or gender identity’. In essence, the senator’s bill attempts to lock in place Oklahoma’s current weak hate crimes statute and to prevent the state from enforcing the LGBT-inclusive federal hate crimes law, the Matthew Shepard and James Byrd, Jr. Hate Crimes Prevention Act enacted in October 2009. Passage of this bill would have a terrifying impact on LGBT Oldahomans." To register for LGBT lobby day, please go to http:// theequalitynetwork.org. There is no fee for the event. For more information, contact Laura Belmonte at lbelmonte@ theequalitynetwork.org or 918.906.2134. For more information about TEN, see the art*de in next month’s Metro Star. Deep Inside Hollywood By Romeo San Vicente Susan Sa andon entering Valley PoiSed to re-enter pop-culture consciousness as a feature ilhn, The Big Valley is justthe right sort of remake candidate: one that’s had time to exit public consciousness first. It has no other cast yet, but Romeo would love to see a gay cowboy subplot somewhere in the mix. Nothing major, just something where the quiet "special friends" get to live happily ever after. Susan Sarandon Paramount Pictures Photo Whorehouse to reopen for business Back in the 1960s, Barbara Stanwyck (who may or may not have been bisexual - as was rumored during her career - but who was a favorite of lesbian and gay audiences all the same) played Victoria Barkley, sturdy matriarch ofthe wild west TV drama The Big Valley. So it’s fitting, in a way, that Susan Sarandom about whom no one creates sexuality rumors because her early career choices (The Hunger and The Rocky Horror Picture Show) more or less cemented her position as a queer screen icon, may be stepping into Stanwyck’s ladylike boots~ So Nine tanked at the box office. Oh well. We’re now back at a point in the moviemaking landscape where one failed big-budget musical doesn’t derail the genre’s viabilit~ which is great news for fans of that heightened reality where breaking into song and choreographed dance moves is commonplace. Here come two more: The Song Is You, from Dreamgirls director Bill Condon, is about a man who turns to music as a refuge, connecting it to key moments in his life (or as Condon has described it, "(falling) into his *Pod Shuffle"). In turn, the man also falls into a romance with a singer he hasn’t even met. At the same time, the remake ofThe Best Little, Whorehouse in Texas is or;the horizon. No cast yet, no release date yet, no nothing yet, ...Continued seeHOLLYWOOD page ~ 12 ~.metrostarnews.com ~{ETROSTAR 9 March 2010 Room Rates From ~2.95 A~About Our Suites Photo’s by Victor G. & Judy G. Out &Aboua in OKC & Tulsa @ Bamboo Lounge, Tulsa @ Angles, Oklahoma City ~Club Majestic, Tulsa Free help 184.8669 @ The End Up, Tulsa @ The Copa, Oklahoma Cit @ Finishline, Oklahoma City @ Ledo, Oklahoma City Deep Inside Hollywood-continued from page -9 just a teasing promise. So, a biopic about the late gay artist Robert message to people responsible: Mapplethorpe, she probably knew tl~er&l obviously she’s not going to be clout-and cash-collecting detours along play the lod, but there must the way. And here they are: the horror film be a liberal infusion of Dolly Zoe, slated for 20 ! 1 a~nd Co-starring James Parton into this movie all the same. Anything ~ tess wilt be blasphemy. Now go r~ake i~ work. Anyone who fbllows the man recently ejected from a Southwest Airlines flight for taking up too much seat space knows that Kevin Smith is a bear. A heterosexual one, but }till a bear. ~d his gay bear colleague, documentau fihmnaker }v~alcolm Ingrain (Small %wn Gay Bar, which Smith producedX has enlisted the help of Silent Bob to get his new project offthe ground. Smith has executive-produced and also makes an appearance in Bear Nation, a doc from Ingram about the bear subculture (for the still-uninitiated, they are that niche Van Der Beek and Freddie Prinze, Jr. (is it market of gay" men who refuse to Shdve, xvax, set in the ’90s too?} in which Dushku play,s or say no to seconds at the buffet} and all the a small-town waitress terrorized by... -,veil... ways they’ve begun to make their presence known in the larger gay" world. 7fhe film premieres any minute now at Austin’s South By SoUthwest Film Festival. Non-Ausdnites will have to wait for a local lest or cable airing, all ofwhich are highly likely to follow. Prep now by growing that fiacial hair. Ehza Dushkus road to Mapplethorp something; you’ll see when it opens. And then there’s the future mega-event ka~own as Ghostbusters III, a project sh& been circling, one that would pretty nmch catapult her to the A-list, with all th’e production shingle perEs that status tends to dole out. Hope so. And really, what’re a few slimed ghosts on the road to making art? Romeo San l~cent&J~vorim thing about Actors with ambition to produce and bea~s # thdrproximity toj}ied chicken direct knoW that tO make d~ir dream projects and wa~s. He can be reached care ofthis come true there are dues to be paid. So publication or at DeepInsMeHollywood@ whenDollh0use star Eliza Dust~ku announced qsyndicate.com. her intentions to n’lake ~lhe Per~?ct Moment, @Club 209, Tulsa 12 March 2010 by Jack Fertig March 2010 "Tweet, ScorpioV’ Mercury in Pisces sextile to Pluto in. Capricorn offers very deep insights that seem illogical, but go with your gut. Your subconscious may be catching rational connections that your conscious - mind doesn’t see. ARIES (March 20- Apri~ 19): Folks in charge have a hidden agenda. Reading between the lines isn’t necessarily paranoiac. Confide in a close friend to keep that in proportion. If you must choose between loyalty and ambition, think ahead and remember who you are, TAURUS (April 20 - May 20): Hints of the future and conversations with friends challenge some of your beliefs, triggering inner conflicts. You like life more certain, but accept the challenge to be truer to yourself and more ready for what’s coming. Resistance to inevitable change only makes it harder. GEM~N~ (May 21- June 20): Sharing a confidence with your boss could open him or her up to letting you in on some secrets. The road to power r~eed not pull you away from your friends, but your goals may-challenge you to choose or reconcile. CANCER {June 21- July 22): Ideals and religion should offer guideposts, not strict instructions. The way to effective partnership in love and work needs some improvisational detours from those marked paths. Independent thought and extrapolation breathe real value into.old faith and wisdom. LEO (Ju~y 23 - August 22): There’s a time and place to show off your sexual prowess. At work that energy is best sublimated to focus on practical techniques to get powerful results. Go slow and steady at exercise. Trying too hard could get you hurt! VIRGO (August 23 - September 22): Identifying strongly with a sexuallydefined community can strengthen or limit your individuality - or do both. Discuss this with your partner or a Iongtime friend. Be very clear about how your milieu affects your own creative spirit. LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): Service to your community does give you deep insight; respect that it does so for others, too! Sharing your insights will help everyone; try to keep the corn petitive urges entirely friendly to build cooperation. SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): "Your wonderfu, wicked wittiness will delight your friends, but could make big trouble at work. Keep a journal handy or Tweet your pals in those moments when you can hardly suppress yourself, but it is neither the time nor the place! SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 20): Pluto in Capricorn until 2023 means that financial worries will be with all of us for awhile, and that you will tend to worry way too much. Your biggest challenge is to keep perspective. That takes practice. Easy does it! CAPRICORN (December 21 -January t9): If you’re not careful you may reveal some very personal secrets. If you are careful you could learn a few! Assert yourself in a mature way - being responsible and independent- to shift your status in your family. AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): A shopping list or receipt could be a meditative focus. Consider what you eat, what you use, what you need, what you don’t and how this reflects your habits and goals. Compare the reality to your ideals and see what you can learn about yourself. PISCES (February 19 - March 19): Even if a bit pessimistic, your foresight will be appreciated. Times are tough, and a thoughtful assessment is much more valuable than false optimism. Ruthless honesty could still upset some friendships; try to be diplomatic. METROPOLITAN COMMUNITY CHURCHES Rev Steve T. Urie Spirit of Christ MCC 2902 E 20th Street Joplin, MO 64804 417-529-8480 Worship Sunday 6:00 PM Community Meat Wednesdays at 6:00 PM www.socmcc.org Have a God filled and BleSSed Day! Across Hemsley sitcom) 38 Pointless 39 Milita~, policy Farewell" musical theme from a Sherman Down 10r~sm, e.g. 2Top 3 Lady’s title 4 iWriter Calvino 5 Audeffs adieus 6 Cabaret’s "Mein . 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Although the route has changed it still is a Sunday afternoon event with preregistration beginning at 12:30 P.M. with stepoffat 2 p.m. Likewise tables ~vill still be available for vendors and for various groups to give out information. The Walk will also be preceded that day by the 5K run, which will begin on John Carter Drive and Rent Avenue, with registration for that event beginning at 11 a,m. Participation in that race costs $20 in advance, $25 the day of the race, and the runners are offat 12:30 p.m. Now chaired by John Greer MDSWalk OKC has 5 new board members, Dwayne Jones, Scott Hines, Cindy Cabrera, Diane "Wood & Maria Srouiji, who share a vision for the future. This year’s theme for the ’,Walk is "Each Step Brings Hope", and their first fundraiser will be at Partners, March !9 at 9 p.m., featuring entertainers John Beebe, Sonja Martinez and other great local entertainers. It’s a chance to get this event off:to a strong start for 2010! 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Sooner State Rodeo (SSRA) Tulsa wil! make a comeback this fall with the Autumn Stampede. More on page-3 VOLUME 7 ISSUE 5 Twitt÷rocom/MetroStarNews President directs HHS to crack down on hospitals barring lgbt partners House ethics committee draft s.ays Congressional staffers with same-se~ spouses must include them in annual financial ~isclosure statements; Family Research Council says that violates DOMA By Lisa Keen Keen News Service WASHINGTON, DC President Obama issued a surprise memorandum Thursday- night, April 15, calling for an end to discrimination against gays and lesbians by hospital visitation policies that limit visitom to immediate family members. The timing for release of the memo was a litde odd- at 7:29 p.m. while the president was onboard Air Force One enroute back to Washington from a day of events in Florida. After signing the memorandum onboard Air Force One, the president then called Washington State resident Janice ~gbehn tO express his sympathy for the lossi0fhet parmer of !8 y~s~Lis~Pond:;: ......... Vo.d and Langbehn~ st0~ ~ subject ~ ~ p~6f\~\as~ rues; illUsiradng one ~£~h~ Urgent ~blemST~ c ui les face becatise Can fid because some entities still refuse to respect their relationships, During a family vacation to Miami, Florida in February 2007, Pond collapsed with an aneurysm and was taken by ambulance to Jackson Memorial Hospital’s trauma center. When Langbehn and their e MetroStarNews.com May 1,2010 Gay Rodeo an Oklahoma tradition 25th Great Plains Rodeo Rides Again In OKC By Victor Gorin Contributing writer arrived at the hospital, a hospital social worker said they would not be able to visit Pond, even though Langbehn and Pond had executed a heal~ prox~ and Langbehn had a friend fax the document to the hospital. According to a press release from Lambda Legal Defense and Education Fund, which is representing Langbehn in a lawsuit against the hospital, the president apologized to Langbehn for what happened to her family. "It was very rewarding to hear ’I’m sorry,’ from the President because that’s what I have wanted to hear fro,m,,Jackson Memorial since the night Lisa died, Said ~gbehn m be statement;" " I hopethat taking ~ ...... .... "" these ~tepS make~ siireth~ no ~ily eve;:-h~ t6 ily4~as ~peri~nce’the pi@tm~re :thatlm gone ith~o!agh." : i: .... Pres~denrObamas memorandum directs " ........ !he,,secr~ 0f Health and:Human Se~ices to ensure’ ~at hospitals which participate in Medicare and Medicaid "respeCt the rights of patients to designate visitors" and ~llow those visitors the same privileges as immediate family members. ........ Continued See HOSPITALS Page-6 O ahoma Exempdor £rom Federal Ha e Crh es Law- stopped "There are a couple of pastors who wear the veil of Christianity who were pttshing this legislation. As a Christian this offends me because the Jesus I know doesn’t stand for that." State Representative Mike Shelton. By Victor Gorin Contributing vcriter OKLAHOMA CITY, OK When Barak Obama signed the Mat~ew ShepardJames Byrd Jr. Federal Hate Crimes Prevention Act into law last October 22, it was celebrated by the GLBT community and their allies as a major civil rights victory that was the result of almost a decade of loiJbying efforts and activism. Although some states already had hate crimes laws protecting the GLBT community (Oklahoma not among them) for the first time Arnericans in the State Representative Mike Shelton. Press photo GLBT community nationwide were protected by hate crimes laws at the Federal level. Also added by the same action were Federal protection against hate crimes based on gender and disability. Both of Oklahoma’s Senators, Dr.Tom Coburn and James Inhofe voted against the bill, along with the entire Oklahoma ........ Continued See HATE CRIMES Page-6 OKLAHOMA CITY, OK It’s a proud Memorial Day weekend tradition in Oklahoma City when cowboys, cowgirls and their fans celebrate the Great Plains Rodeo, which now has the distinction of lasting a quarter century. In keeping with long time tradition, it will be held at the Oldahoma State FairgroUnds. From humbler beginnings, the first rodeo came together when OGRA (Oklahoma Gay Rodeo Association) joined up with the Kansas and Missouri Ga~ Rodeo Associations to form what was then the Great Plains Regional Rodeo in August of 1986. Joined by Arkansas in 1992 the event was moved to the Memorial Day weekend. In 1999 the 4 associations split up to form their own respective rodeos, thus the word "Regional" was dropped to make the event simply the Great Plains Rodeo it is today. This rodeo ranks among the top 4 rodeos of the entire International Gay Rodeo Association circuit, which comprises over 20 rodeos. The International Gay Rodeo Association is made up of 28 state/provincial rodeo associations in the United States and Canada, and OGRA has been part of that organization since their first convention was held in 1985. O.G.R.A. was formed to provide a welcoming environment for those interested in the Western lifestyle without regard to sex or sexual orientation, national origin, race or any other form of prejudice. In other words, a way to bring people together to enjoy country and western life! This year the fun kicks offThursday May 27 with a Poolside Reception Party at the Finishline from 6-8 p.m. for the Rodeo sponsors and officials, followed by a stick horse rodeo that’s sure to be hilarious. This year will also feature a Stick Home Contest in which organizations can enter a decorated stick home, with votes for a winner that cost $1 apiece. The winning organization will receive a cash prize, and the stick horses will be auctioned off for charity. For more ........ Continued See RODEO Page-8 ��ere’s More Fun this Fall at SS ’S 2010 Sooner State Stampede By Victor Gorin Oklahoma Gay and Lesbian Political Caucus elects new o cers By Victor Gorin Contributing writer OKLAHOMA CITY, OK As O.G.L.EC. re-organizes, at their April meeting newofficers were elected: The cochairs are Steven Dubois & Jeanne Flanigan, Secretary Victor Gorin and Treasurer Richard Vreeland. As a revitalized organization they are meeting at the Neighborhood Alliance Building, 1236 N. 36th Street { N.W. 36thand Classen Boulevard) of Oklahoma City at 7 p.m. the 2nd Monday of each month, the next meeting on May 10. For~ more infBrmation e-mail Jeanne Flanigan at Ok.glpc@Tahoo.com or call her at (405) 255 3658. ~m Dic~,,nan, SSRA President. Sta~Cphat:o TULSA. OK As the OGI~’s Great Plains Rodeo welcomes summertime fun, this year more festivities jumpstart autumn as SSRA ( Sooner State Rodeo Ass6ciation) hosts another rodeo event, their 2010 Sooner State Stampede. It will not only feature traditiona! rodeo events, but also the fnn trappi,~gs of gay rodeo such as wild drag and goav dressing. It will mark SSI~k’s first rodeo with fifll equestrian amenities. t wvw¢.bridlecreekok.com). Sanctioned by the International Gay Rodeo Association I IGRA) this event promises to attract westerners from all over Oklahoma and nationwide. SSRA was formed in 2002 to give men ~d women of rodeo and the western lifestyle of Tutsa and eastern Oklahoma an association by which to come together and celebrate country culture. Like OGRA. SSRA is a 501c3 organization, and likewise is united ~br this cause without regard to race, sexua! orientation, religion, national origin, or any other prejudice one might encounten SSP~ celebrates not only rodeos and horse relaed activities, but also dogging, western and square dancing. The}, are also active in fundraisers that benefit various Oklahoma charities. Each October they select their royalty competitions for Mr. SSRA, Ms. SSRA, plus Miss and MisTER SSRA, who represent the organization at rodeos and fundraising events. ~aeir current president is Tulsan Tim Dickman. ~e winners from this event may go on to compete at IGRA’s World Gay Rodeo Finals held this year in Laughlin, Nevada October 2!- 24. For more information about the event check out ,a~vw.soonerstaterodeo.com tThe host hotel will be the Ramada Tulsa Airport East located at 1010 North Garnett Road, telephone 918 437 7660 (ww~:ramadaairport.com). Be sure to mention the Sooner State Stampede when booking your room for a special rare. Openly Gay Teacher Joe igley to be trans£erred £rom U.S. Grant High School By Victor Gorin Contributing writer Teacher Joe Quigley. Gorin ?hoto OKLAHOMA CITY, OK Joe Quigley is a high school English teacher who made history in Oklahoma City not only in the school system but for the GLBT community. He became well known when he was teaching English at Northwest Ctassen High S&ool. fighting for years to have the ~vords "sexual orientation/gender identit3:’ included in the Student Handbook to be among categories to be protected from harassment and bullying, His tenacious efforts almost cost him his iob last August when the OKC School Board voted to fire him. He not only won reinstatement in District Court, but soon after~vards th’e Oklahoma City School Board finally voted in the inclusive language for the Student Handbook. Although he was reinstated, instead of being returned to his original position at Northwest Classen he was instead transferred to U.S. Grant High School. U.S: Grant had been on the Federal list of schools in need of improvement and ~vas thus required to restructure under the guidelines of the No Child Left Behind Act. ~is would require that 50% of the teachers be removed. Joe Quigley was among the teachers to be transferred, who will receive full pay and benefits as substitute teachers for a 2 ........ Continued See O~IGLEY Pag_e-4 www.metrostarnows.corn ��Keith Kimmel found Dead in Norman March 31 following his arrest by Tulsa Police By Victor Gorin TULSA, OK Keith Kimmel, an activist with the GLBT com.munity was found de~d Wednesday morning March 31 around 7:45 a.m. by Kerri Logsdon. He had been staying at her home temporarily, and he was found seated in front of her computer. In a posting Monday on his Internet blog he had written, "I am done trying to love a world that has no love for me. I am done trying to believe redeeming things about people who have nothing redeemable about them." In accordance with his wishes, after an autopsy is performed his body would be cremated and his ashes sent to his family in Indiana. Tile preceding Friday night he had been drinking at the End Up Club, and according to statements he made was upset about a relationship he had with a dancer there. According to the dub owner Blake Mterman Keith had been there earlier that evening, left and then returned around 11:00 p.m. At that point Mr. Kimme! was very intoxicated, became very, combative and angry when the bartenders refused to serve him at which point the Tulsa police were called. During his arrest he claimed to have been physically and verbally abused at the club, and that officers had hit his head several times on the door frame of a patro! car. He was taken to St. John’s Hospital where he was given treatment ~br his injuries and bus tokens to get him back to his car. He returned to Norma~ the following da); and mailed a complaint of police brutality to the Internal Affairs Departmefii~ of the Tulsa police. Keith ~mmel had been im,olved with activist causes with the GLBT community but ,was probably best known for filing a lawsfiit against the Oklahoma Tax Commission ~vhen they refused to issue him a specialized license plate that stated IMGAY. He had dismissed that lawsuit February 26, stating that he would re-file it in Federal court at a later time. Mthough there was speculation as to what really happened during his arrest, including the possibility that his death might have been caused by the injuries from that night, the facts of his death are unknown at press time pending the results of a future autopsy. Mr. Mterman has urged caution stating," While I do want to see justice served. I would urge that as a community we wait until the final verdicl comes in. giving the police and the coroner’s office the proper time to do their invesngation before we make any conjectures or statements. After that comes out we as a communitT can move forward and get through this togethed" Blake further related that business had dropped since the incident, and stated that he’d like to remind the community that his establishment is still a peaceful party place. On Monday afternoons beginning around 4:30 p.m. there is still a free dinner courtesy of Midtown Meats located at 7924 E. 21st Street in Tulsa, and has morphed into a potluck supper. Tuesday nights still feature draft beer specials from open til 7 p.m. 4 ~:~,T~:()STA dose (understandably a busy day). The pool tournament happens on \gednesday nights at Bingo Thursday nights continues to be a rocking event, and the weekend features partying with the hot dancers. ~nis is follmved by Sunday beer busts. Blake further stated that business was picking up, and invited the community to see for themselves that the Endup is still a happening place to come together. documentation both anecdotal and in writing that the taxpayers have been continually ripped off in order to make administrators look good at the expense of the education df their students. " Senator Rice: "GOP Leadership Must Rebuke Incendiary R etoric" Oklahomans for Equality Award Recipients 2010 TULSA, OK Each year OkEq recognizes outstanding individuals who have both helped change and shape our ever evolving community. This year we are pleased to announce the following winners. The awards were presented at the 30th Anniversary Equality Gala on April 24, 2010. Life Time Achievement A,vard 20 years of service to the lgbt community Kelly Kirby Russell Bennett Spiritual Inclusion Award Advocacy for interfaith and lgbt dialogue Rabbi Charles E Sherman Temple Israel Community Hero Advocacy work for lgbtq youth Karen L. Davis Senior Program Officer Tulsa Community Foundation and Tulsa Reaches Out Community Hero 2004 Oklahoma Marriage Discrimination Lawsuit Gay Phillips & Sue Barton Sharon Baldwin & Mary Bishop Volunteers of the Year I.T. Team Eric Vogelpohl Don Satterthwaite Andrew Hicks Grand Marshal 2010 Pride Parade and Festival Rev Marlin Lavanhar Advocacy work for the global lgbt community year period if they cannot be placed in a permanent position, after which a teacher could be dismissed without the procedures of due process afforded tenured educators. As Joe puts it, "I was deliberately placed in a sChool where the District knew the teachers would have to be reduced and I look at this as yet another attempt to skirt the wilt and judgment of the District Court." The Oklahoma City Schoo! District has appealed his reinstatement, a process that could take as long as 2 years, so far incurring over $200,000 in legal expenses as the district faces a severe budget crisis. But so far Joe Quigley can say this much. "In the future the parents and taxpayers of the Oklahoma City Public School District need to start paying more attention to the teachers and less to the highly paid administrators, because there is Oklahoma State Senator Andrew Rice. File photo OKLAHOMA CITY, OK (PR) April 15, 2010 Senator Andrew Rice (D-Oldahoma City) said today that the anti-government rhetoric among some Republican state legislators" has reached disturbing levels. Rice pointed to comments by a Republican legislator running for statewide office who said on Wednesday that the federal government is "tyrannical" and said he is willing to take his challenge of the federal government "to the max." Rice said these comments are particularly disturbing given the fact the remarks came just days after the Republican state legislator and others said tile state of Oklahoma should create a citizen’s militia to protect Oklahoma’s sovereignty from an "overreaching" United State’s government. "All elected officials have a tremendous responsibility to be careful with the words xve choose to use in public," Senator Andrew Rice said. ’~t a time when more and more people are using words that carry violent connotations to express what may be legitimate frustrations with government policies, you would hope that elected officials would refrain from feeding into that frenzy." Rice said that non-partisan experts of anti-government violence and terrorism have recently expressed concerns about the rhetoric. Rice pointed to comments by David Cid, executive director of Oldahoma City-based Memorial Institute for the Prevention of Terrorism, who was quoted in the Oklahoma Gazette saying: "People are angry and frustrated, and among those who are angry mad frustrated, there is a small number, but them are a number who will pick up a gun." Rice said examples of evidence of antigovernment violence occurred both in Austin, Texas and Michigan as one group threatened violence against the government, and another person acted out on his anger in an act of domestic terrorism against the IRS, killing one innocent citizen and himself. ’°I call on the Republican leaders of the Legislature to rebuke this inflammatory language of some of their members coming just days before the 15th anniversary of the Oklahoma City bombing," Rice said. ’~All Oklahomans should be offended to hear any elected official use language that is reminiscent to the anti-government language used by Timothy McVeigh, especially leading up to this painful time of year for our state." Rice explained while McVeigh was on death row awaiting his execution for the murder of 168 innocent Oklahomans, he sent a letter to a London newspaper titled: "Why I bombed the Murrah building." In it McVeigh explains: "I reached the decision to go on the offensive - to put a check on government abuse of power, where others had failed in stopping the federal juggernaut running amok," he said. Oklahoma Tobacco Free help No matter who yot are on life’s -Reverend 3131 N. Pennsylvania,0kloh0~ 405.525.9555 May 1, 2010 �Wockner News Service for that project is expected to begin in the summer of 2011. A California Supreme Court ruling legalized same-sex marriage in May 2008 and weddings began June ! 6, 2008. Tiae court said preventing gay couples from marrying violated the state constitution. Even more groundbreakAng, the court also ruled that sexual orientation is a "suspect classification" -- which made aW type of discrimination based on sexual orientation constitutionally subject to the strictest level of scrutiny by California Out magazine lists ’most inEuential’ gays, lesbians 7he #’ial in the.f}dem! tawsu# to overturn 8 as a violation ofthe U.S. Constitution.{ms been paused in San Francisco since Jan. 2Z Famous attorneys DavM Boles, r{~ht, and Ted Olson are among the l.mwers argui,g the case for the gay side, Photo @ Rex Wochner Ellen DeGeneres. GL_~L4D photo Ellen DeGeneres is America’s "most influential" gay man or woman, according to Out magazine’s fourth annual "Power 50" list. "Since DeGeneres replaced Paula Abdul as a judge on Banerican Idol in February, millions upon millions of viewers are getting a double dose of the hugely popular talk show host and 12-time Emmy winner," Out said. "The American FLxpre~s and Covergirl pitchwoman’S rcacb~ is nearly unparalteled~ ... A passionate advocat( ~br marriage equalit)5 anavid opponent of’don’t ask, don’t tell,’ and staunch defender of animal rights, DeGeneres’s enormous platform is many an American’s gain." Others near the top of the list include MSNBC anchor Rachel Maddow, CNN anchor Anderson Cooper, singer Adam Lambert, actor Nell Patrick Harris, Human Rights Campaign President Joe Solmonese and U.S. Reps. Tammy Baldwin, Jared Polls and Barney Frank. For the full list, see out.corn/power50. Effort to repeal Prop 8 fails to collect enough signat es. Federal Prop 8 trial remains paused. A grassroots effort to force a November 2010 ballot-box vote on repealing Proposition 8 failed to collect enough voter signatures by the April 12~deadline to get the measure on the ballot. Groups pushing the 2010 repeal effort faced an uphill battle from the get-go because California’s gay-rights leadership refused to support the project, believing that 2012 will be a better year to return to the ballot. The lead 2010 organization, Love Honor Cherish, did not say" hmv many signatures it did manage to collect. Just under 700,000 valid signatures would have been needed. "Tnis is a heartbrealdng moment," said LHC Executive Director John Henning. "Despite the dogged efforts of hun&eds of volunteers across California, we did not get www.metrostamews.corn the signatures we needed within the 150-day window set by the state. Regrettably, Prop 8 will remain as a stain on our constitution until at least 2012, and perhaps latel:" Love Honor Cherish was one of 40 mosdy grassroots groups working for a 2010 vote within a coalition called Restore Equality 2010. "Our signature-collection effort may have fallen short, but we stand tall as being the only statewide campaign that fought for repealing Proposition 8 in 2010," said Sean Bohac, chair of the Restore Equality 2010 Statewide Advisory Panel. "Our campaigners carried the torch of Harvey Milk, who showed that change only happens when we get out of the bars and into the streets. Band our efforts are reflected in the new polls that show increased support for extending marriage to all Californians." Bohac told The San Diego Union-Tribune that the number of signatures collected "was not particularly close" to the 694,354 needed. "We won’t be making, it public," he said. Recent polls by d~e Public Policy Institute of California and by the Los Angeles Times/ University of Southern California have shown that, for the first time, a majority of Californians now support same-sex marriage -- suggesting that top gay rights groups Equality California and Courage Campaign may have made a misstep in refusing to support the 2010 effort. EQCA and Courage expressed fears that voters would not be ready to reverse themselves just two years after rebanning same-sex marriage. But EQCA Executive Director GeoffKors said the poll results haven’t caused the group to second-guess its decision. "Equality California still believes 20!2 is the fight time to go to the ballot;’ Kors said. "Those polls were not of likely voters for the 2010 election. When you dig deeper into those polls -- and our internal polls during the same time period -- what’s clear is young voters are the ones who move the most. And young voters make tip a much larger percentage of the electorate in a presidential race (2012) than a gubernatorial race (2010), which is why the L.A. Times said, after looking at their poll numbers in the article, it’s clear why gay rights groups wanted to wait until 2012, because 2010 doesn’t provide us the best opportunity to win due to voter turnout." Restore Equality 2010 said it now will join up with the 2012 effort. Signature collecting courts. California governmental entities now have to prove they have a specific "compelling interest" -- rather than a mere "rational basis" - when they treat GLB people differently in any way. The change made it dramatically harder for any level of government to defend itself in any arena where gays, lesbians and bisexuals are not treated the same as heterosexuals. Some 18,000 same-sex couples married in California before voters amended the state constitution to re-ban same-sex marriage in November 2008. N~e California Supreme Court later ruled that Prop 8 was a valid amendment to the constitution. A federal lawsuit led by famous attorneys David Boles and Ted Olson to overturn Prop 8 as a violation of the U.S. Constitution is ongoing in San Francisco. The trial paused on Jan. 27 after all testimony had been heard but before closing arguments because Judge Vaughn ~Walker said he wanted to review the testimoW prior to hearing the attorneys’ final statements. The conclusion of the trial apparently has been further delayed while gay’ groups that ran the ballot campaign against Prop 8, who are not parties to the federal lawsuit, fight an order to turn over some of their e-mails from the campaign period. Protestors chained to W/site House jSnce: PtSoto b_y john Aravosis @ A_MERICAblog N~e LGBT community’s new activist pit bulls, GetEQUAL, dramatically upped the pressure on President Barack Obama on April 19 and 20 over his failure to succeed in keeping major campaign promises to LGBT Americans. Although Obama has taken several small steps seen as favorable or helpful to LGBT Americans, he has yet to engineer the passage of the Employment Non-Discrimination Act, the repeal of Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell, or the repeal of the Defense of Marriage Act. GetEQUAIJs latest broadside started April :....Continued see Get_EQUAL - page 9 ~)~ETROSTAR 5 �More specifically, the memo instructs HHS to ensure that hospitals receiving federal funds nor deW visitation based on sexual orientation or gender identity, along.with the usual categories of non-discrimination. Human Rights Fund spokesman Michael Cole said his organization had been ~vorking with the Xg~hite House on the memo language [’or some rime. He said he was unaware of any particular reason for the timing. "It was a long process for them to get the memo language set and al! of their ducks in a row," said Cole- so my impression is that this was the point at which it was done." The April 15 memorandum is the second memorandum issued by the president to specifically help LGBT people. In June 2009, President Obama signed a memorandum to the ONce of Personnel Management Director requesting that the heads of all executive departments and agencies "conduct a review" of current benefits available to federal employees within 90 days "to determine what authority they have to extend such benefits to same-sex domestic partners of Federal employees" and submit a report on rMs to OPM. Kevin Cathcart, executive director of Lambda Legal, called the president’s hospital visitation memorandum a "great leap forward in addressing discrimination affecting LGBT patients and their families." "These measures are intended to ensure that no family will have to experience what the Langbehn-Pond family did that night at Jackson Memorial Hospital," said Cathcart, in a statement isstled Thursday night. k federal district court judge dismissed Lambda’s ta~vsuit on behalf of Langbehn, saying there was no law requiring the hospital to allow Lisa Pond’s partner to see her at the hospital. On Monday, April 12, Lambda issued a press release saying it had reached an agreement with Jackson Memorial for "qmproved policies that are more responsive ro the needs of the LGBT community." But Lambda said the agreement does "not provide as much protection as may be needed in critical sitnations." Lambda noted that the president’s memorandum calls on HHS to take steps to ensure that hospitals respect legal documents that some patients have to designate who can make decisions for them if they become incapacitated. It also requires HHS to report back to the president in !80 days with additional recommendations for actions HHS can take "to address hospital visitation, medical decision-maHng, or other health care ~ssues that ~?cr LGBT patients and their Ironically, the pool reporter on board the ~ighr back to Washington reported there was No news on the way back" from Florida. Meanwhile. Roll Call a newspaper specializing in covering Capitol Hill, reported Thursday that the House Committee on Standards of ONcia! Conduct has "drafted rules that for the first time would define gay married couples as ’spouses" for the purposes of filling out their annual Congressional financial disclosure forms." The forms are used by members of Congress and their staffs to make annual discIosures of any additional sources of income and investments by them and their 6 ~KTROSTAR spouses and dependent children. The draft rules propose requiring that any members or staffwho have married same-sex spouses in Washington, D.C. or aW of the states which provide for equal marriage rights to include information about their spouse’s finances, the same as straight members and staff Inust do about their legal spouses. Roll Call quoted a spokesman for the Family Research Council as saying the draft rules violate the federal Defense of Marriage Act (DO1VL&), which prohibits federal recognition of same-sex marriages. The paper noted that the draft rule had been removed from the committee’s website. The Committee’s webs!re currently lists instructions for filling out the form for calendar year 2008 disclosures even though the forms due next month are for calendar year 2009. MissoOa bans antiLGBT discrimination The City Council in Missoula, Mont., voted 10-2 on April 12 to prohibit discrimination in employment and housing on the basis of sexual orientation or gender identity, the Missoulian reporte& The vote came at 1:45 in the morning at the end of a seven-hour meeting. "Most of us can’t remember civil rights in action," said Councilwoman Sficy Rye. "This is it for us." Congresswoman Tammy BaldWin On President Obama’s signing ofa. memorand reNardmg the visitation rights of hospital patients Congresswoman Baldwin. Woclowr photo WASHINGTON, DC (PR) "President Obama’s decision to direct the Secretaryof Healrah and Human Services to take steps to ensure that hospitals participating in Medicare or Medicaid respect the rights of patients to receive visitors and designate others to make decisions about medical care in the case of an emergency is the right one. It follows the lead of many states and makes a strong statement about who we are as a nation and what we valne. Gay man elected mayor of small Colorado town An openly gay man, Ron Holland, was elected mayor of Dillon, Colo., April 6. He received 90 votes to an opponent’s 72 in the mountain town of about 800 people. Holland, who is serving his first term on the City Council, told the Summit Daily News he was "ecstatic" over his victory. No one should face the distress of lying ill or injured in a hospital bed with the loved one you designate barred from your bedside for any other than a compelling medical reason. For too long, such access has been arbitrarily denied many individuals, most especially to gay mad lesbian Americans. President Obama’s action tonight puts us another step doser toward our goal of equal rights for all Americans and I appland his decision: Martina has breast cancer Congressional Delegation, Passage of the bill intensified conservative religious groups who had campaigned against the Act and this was particularly felt in Oklahoma, although the legislation was hailed by the GLBT community and civil rights activists as a progressive measure long overdue. What followed was an attempt to "opt Oklahoma out" of this new protection, spearheaded by State Senator Steven Russell ( RepublicanDistrict 45) with State Senate Bil! 1965. The bill actually began as an ordinary measure to start a task force to research public and private high school athletics, authored by State Senator Harry Coates (Republicam) and State Representative "Wes Hilliard (Democrat). After the bill passed out of committee, S.B. 1965 was altered by Senator Russell who removed the original language. He then added language that would have prevented Oldahoma law enforcement from cooperating ,vith Federal authorities when a hate crime ~vas committed in Oklahoma. ~e bill then passed the State Senate 39-6. The ensuing publicity, including a GLBT lobbying day at the State Capitol focused mainly on this legislation, resulted in a re-xvrite of the bill by Senator Russell in an attempt to make it less offensive and passable. The rewritten version permitted Federal authorities to petition State District Courts for evidence relating to an Oldahoma hate crime if local law enforcement objected to cooperating with the Federal authorities. Among the groups opposed to this legislation was the Oklahoma American Civil Liberties Union. One of their lobbyists, Tamya Cox, spoke to State Representative Mike Shelton (Democrat District 97) who "hated this bill, understood the implications and issues of this from the onset, stated that we had to do something." Mr. Shelton persuaded the House author of the bill, Representative Danny Hilliard to let him have the bill. Once Mr. Shdton had control of the bill he withdrew it, thus ldlling this legislation. Although an unusual strategy, it was an effective action he stated that he felt he had to take because as he put it, ’~Mnything that breaks down the opportunity ro protect Oklahomans from harm is wrong. Legislation and resolutions that hurt people only give a black eye to our state." Although he has received positive feedback for his action, predictably he has received negative responses as well, including some from the conservative religious community. It hasn’t swayed his resolve as he relates, "There are a couple of pastors that wear the veil of Christianity who were pushing this legislation. As a Christian this offends me because the Jesus I know doesn’t stand for that." GLBT and civil rights activists are continuing to monitor the situation in case attempts are made to re-introduce this or similar measures with another bill. Mart!ha NavradIova. Ougames ~hoto Lesbian tennis legend Martina Navratilova told People magazine April 7 that she has breast cancer. The ductai carcinoma was discovered early and is expected to be fully curable. "I cried," Navratilova said. "It knocked me on my ass, really. I feet so in control of my life and my body, and then this comes, and it’s completely out of my hands." "I went four years between mammograms," she added. "I let it slide. Everyone gets busy, but don’t make excuses. I stay in shape and eat right, and it happened to me. Another year and I could have been in big trouble." Navratilova will undergo six weeks of radiation treatment starting in May. ’uptcv - CivJJ Rights oCriminal ’ment o Family Law o Litigation 625 N. o l th street Cit% OK 7 105 May 1, 2010 �contim es "First ursday" Art Opening and E ibit of Original Wbrks by Matt Johnson. Bebe gives her ’Best O£’ for Race! The reigning D*ag Race queen goes though her list of season two superlatives By Bebe Zahara Benet TULSA, OK (PR) The May Oklahomans for Equality (Oldgq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Nei!l Equality Center (621 E. 4th Street in Downtown Tulsa), will feature the Artistic Nude Photography of Matt Johnson. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, May 6th from 6-9pm and continues throughout the month of May. Oklahoman Matt Johnson, owner of Johnson Studios, specializes in Artistic Nude Photography and is based in Tulsa. Matt has always had a deep appreciation for the human form. He began his art expression in the color pencil medinm sketching in the pln-up type format in his teen years. Mfitt is a neon bender by trade for a commercial sign company. He has been married to his wife Denise since 1987 and they have three wonderful children. In 2006 his artistic will drew him to the camera. Since then he has been creating nude art using the lens of a camera and his imagination through the editing process. After developing a diverse portfolio Matt’s xvork was accepted into galleries in Eureka Springs, Arkansas. He was the featured artist in two different Eureka Springs gallery shows in 2009. Matt is beginning to show his work in his home town of Tulsa and is scheduled for two separate gallery shows in the upcoming months. Matt’s friendly easy- going manner makes his photo sessions comfortable, relaxed and fun experiences for his models. They are always thrilled with their images and often come back for additional sessions. allows Matt to continue to create new and exciting images from his eyeto the computer and then the paper. The show begins with a reception at the Dennis IL Nei!l Equality Center on Thursday, May 6th fi’om 6-9pm; Matt’s art will be on displa~v through May 2010. Founded by a dedicated group of volunteers in 1980, Oklahomans far Equali~r/OkEq is Oklahoma’s oMest gay rights o~nization. From testingfor HIV/AIDS and hosting t/~e annual 7~dsa PHele and Diversi~ Celebration m operati~ the Equadity Center and documenting the ~tha LGBTcommunity’s rich histor~ OkEq works for socialjustice amtfidl inclusion for Oklahoma’s lesbian, ga)~ bisccuai, and transgender (LGBT) citizens and their allies. Wasn’t it great to see me on the special episode of RuPaul’s Drag Race this week? Well, it was wonderful to sit down with RuPaul and my season one sisters Ongina and Nina Flowers to critique season two, but there was still so much more to be said that I tlmught I’d dedicate this week’s colttrnn to some of my favorite moments that we didfft get a chance to talk about during the show. Funniest Moment: There’s plenty to choose from, but for me it has got to be Jujube during the reading challenge. I just loved everything she said about everybody - calling Raven legendary- as in "leg" and "dairy," snapping at Jessica in Chinese and even ta~ng smack about Tyra’s grill - that reading was hilarious! A second runner-up moment was Pandora Boxx playing CarolChanning in the "Snatch Game" challenge. Ms. Boxx knows how to mine a laugh. Biggest Diva Moments: We had more , than a few moments to judge this season. 111 skip ranking catfights a~d assess in terms of performance. I’d say the other Tyra coming out as sophisticatedlady on a mad shopping spree was a great diva moment, as was Jujube’s peach dress in the Old Hollywood fashion challenge. It was mentioned in the live show, but it bears mentioning again - Raven’s gold Cleopatra dress and blonde afro was really, really fierc!! ~ Best Makeup: Oh honey! Give it to Raven! I think Raven really s~vitched up her makeup to go with different looks. Even , , ~vhen she did the country girl or the rock n roll look or the whole glamour thing she was able to create a different persona through makeup. She is really mastering the craft and art of drag. Best Runway: I will go with Jujube. I really will! She walks with confidence, walks with so much fierceness, so much attitude and so much personality. I really love how she does all levels of her presentation. Best Lip-sync: It seems like I’m a fan of Jujube! I love how she lip-syncs. Sometimes she gives a little too much, but she is more often right on the money. She is able to catch the little things the artist does. She’s right on point with it. ~aat’s someone who has studied the music and knows what the whole song is about. I also liked Raven’s lip-syncing. ~aere is something about it that is a little sassy. I’d give it to both of them. Biggest \Vish: To see Jessica \~ild last longer. She had so much potential! If she had been given another chance I am convinced there ~vould have been other things about her ~erfor,mance that would have made us all go WOW. Catdh the finale of RuPaul’s Drag Race at 9pro (ET/PT) this Monday night on Logo and visit LOGOonline.com to find out about vievdng parties in your area. Until next week, kisses and good luck! For more i*{~ormation, see wwt~;okeq.org www.metrostarnews.com ~et~oSTAR 7 �H e tension By Ronald Blake Contributing ~X~riter Photo: RonaM Blake, Certified Fitness Ins~’uctor through ISSA International Sports Sciences Association The heart beats faster! Tixe blood vessels constrict even more! Tixe h<art, lungs, and brain ache for more help but it isn’t coming fast enough! There is a shudder and then complete blackness! This Edgar Allan Poe moment of chimerical horror describes a massive stroke for someone that suffered one day too many from hypertension. Gather round the campfire and H1 explain this medical condition, its causes, and preventative measures to avoid it. Hypertension is high blood pressure and one out of five people in our country are experiencing it. Tile blood vessels constrict and the heart has to pump harder to get that blood delivered around the bod?,: The heart begins to ,yemen from overload and the constricted vessels become compromised over time. Blood pressure changes all the time. It won’t kill you to have high blood pressure once in awhile though. Swerving to avoid the reckless driver on the freeway, climbing five flights of stairs quickly, or being startled by the ghastliness of that first and last time drag queen can all contribute to a spike in blood pressure. Consistently visiting this elevated zone is very much a problem. Many people wofft feel any symptoms from this disease for 10 to 20 years and then it can strike like a thief in the night. There isn’t a specific cause of hypertension but that doesn’t mean there isn’t a lack of culprits calling in and claiming responsibility for this physiological terrorism. Heredity is a card we are dealt at birth and is a frequent contributor to this ugliness~ Hypertensive parents bequeath their kids a two times greater likelihood of having this disease than for those kids of parents without hypertension. That really sucks and all you did was be born to the world! Don’t grab the bottle and give up just yet if you inherited these lousy hand-me-downs from morn and pop. There are plenty of other ways to cotlnteract the ill effects of high blood pressure. Other causes of this nasty medical condition are obesity, stress, smoking, and improper diet and they are al! something you can control. Obese individuals are about twice as likely tO be hypertensive as those men and women ,vho are aren’t in that overweight category. I’m no Pd~odes Scholar but I think that means if you exercise and stay lean then you decrease your risk. That sounds like something you can control! 8 ~Y~:OSTAR S[ress can walk you down the aisle and give you away to high blood pressure too. Stop getting angry at all the little problems in the world! A late bill, rush hour traffic, the moth~r-in-law visit, and the ripped underwear at 6AM aren’t worth your emotional intensity. Relax and take a deep breath when these moments occur. That sounds like something you can control! Smoking always constricts your blood vessels and raises your blood pressure every time. Cigarettes aren’t cheap and there are smoking cessation programs al! over the place. That sounds like something you can control! Foods with excessive sodium, saturated fat, or cholesterol are al! significant donors to th~ election campaign for hypertension. This candidate for office can’t win without your donations. That sounds like something you can control! There are also drugs that can Be prescribed to aid in your efforts against this evil force. Don’t be scared by this villain of your vessels! With adherence to these suggestions you may live a healthy life and worry about hypertension (Quoth the raven) nevermore! This purloined letter was brought to you by that guy who tore up the planks in the house of Usher. That guy is Ron Blake and he can be found descending into the maelstrom at www.myblakefitness.com. information about the contest contact the rodeo’s co-directors, Klint Weiden ( 405 408 6140) or Paul Boyd (405 630-4388). Following on Friday it gets wild with a Poolside Cookout also at the Finishline from 3-6 p.m., then it’s registration time at the Oklahoma State Fairgrounds from 6-9 p.m ( Barn #9)., with a cash bar and snacks provided to make it go better, along with entertainment from 6-8 p.m. Keeping the night kicking along is the HomoRodeo Mixer happening at the Finishline beginning at 9 p.m., also a All Rodeo Royalty Show at Phoenix Rising at 9 p.m. as well. The Rodeo begins the following Saturday at 8:00 P.m., and after a funfilled day of events one can unwind or windup at the Copa’s Texas Tea Party beginning at 6 p.m. a grand tradition hosted by the Texas Gay Rodeo Association. At 9 p.m. that same night there will be a country concert at ~Amgles featuring recording artist James Allen Clark among other local muscians. That night the stick horse contest winner will be announced, and the stick horses auctioned off. Then it’s Sunday morning coming down as the rodeo begins the final day o£ competition, resuming at 8:00 a.m. at the Fairgrounds. The Finishline that day will feature a Head Country Barbeque at 6:00 p.m. with a hearty dinner for the price of $12. followed by the Awards Ceremony at 7 p.m. a,varding bucldes, saddles and cash to the winners of the rodeo. To wind up the event Monday a Wind Down Party will be held at Phoenix Rising with a hamburger/~bt d6g c86koUt froln Noon until 2 p.m., with drink specials and funfilled recollections of the wild weekend. ~ If you or an organization is interested in being a vendor, contact Larry Foley at auditor@ogra.net ~ne host hotel this year is the Hilton Garden Inn, located at 801 S. Meridian. Telephone (405 942 1400) with special rates available until May 14 if you mention the rodeo. Come join the fun! For more information check out their website at vcww.ogra.net. May 1, 2010 �CMS now- pays for treatment of HIV related facial Lipodystrophy Disorder must cause depression for individuals to receive coverage By Robin D-Townsend Contributing Writer The Centers for Medicare and Medicaid Services (CMS) announced last month that it will pay for facial injections for beneficiaries who have facial lipodystrophy syndrome (LDS) if, in fact, the person suffers from depression secondary to the disorder. Reportedly, individuals who take these medications and experience facial LDS side effects may suffer psychological effects related to a negative selfimage. "Of course I am depressed about the way I look from the way my face looks now;’ said Allen Leon, an OHahoma City man who has the disorder. "Looks are very important to everyone, not just gay people. People stare; they can’t help it. I feel that I am judged by people and I am uncomfortable when meeting new people." The disorder is very stigmatizing. LDS is a localized loss of fat from the face, causing an excessively thin, hollowed appearance in the cheeks. In some cases, facial LDS may be a side effect of certain kinds of Director, Coverage and Analysis Group for CMS. "These effects may lead people living with HIV to discontinue their antiretroviral therapies." Grade four (of four grades) leaves a person the most emaciated-looking. The injections are "fillers" that have been approved by the U.S. Food & Drug Administration (FDA) to be injected under the skin in the face to help fill out its appearance specifically for treatment of facial LDS. Data show that these injections can improve patient self-image, relieve symptoms of depression, and may lead to improved compliance with anti-HIV treatment. The average cost of the injections is $500 for a two-vial treatment. Most people require a total of three treatments. Medicare coverage for the injections has already begun. This is an important milestone in Medicare coverage for HIV-infection therapies by helping people living with HIV improve their self-image and treating side effects of Lipotrophy by grade: Lipoatrophy with fat loss covering a wide area ofthe face and the skin is living directly on thefacial muscles. medications (antiretroviral therapies) that individuals receive as part of an HIV infection treatment regimen. "Facial LDS can leave people living with HIV looking gaunt and seriously ill, which may stigmatize them as part of their HIV-infecrion status," said Dr. Louis B. Jacques, MD medications. Compliance with anti-HIV treatment can lead to better quality of life and, ultimately, improve the quality of care that beneficiaries receive. For more information, visit http ://,arww.cms.hhs.gov/mcd/ viewdecisionmemo.asp ?id=234. Lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender aging issues take center stage at Congressional briefing on Capitol Hill WASHINGTON, (PR) April 21 The National Gay and Lesbian Task Force and Services and Advocacy for LGBT Elders (SAGE) are convening a National LGBT Aging Roundtable this week in Washingxon, D.C. In addition, the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force has organized a congressional briefing on issues facing lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) people as they age. The briefing was held April 22, 9:30-11 a.m. in Room 121 of the CannonHouse Office Building on Capitol Hill. The injustice facing many LGBT elders was brought home just this week by the painfut stoW of Clay Greene and Harold Scull~ an elderly gay couple separated by o~ci~s in Sonoma County, Calif., who also sold their possessions despite the measures the couple took to protect their relationship. More details here. "The needs of the oldest members of our community have long been invisible to many of us and ignored by most institutions in our society," said Rea Carey, executive director of the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force, which recently released Outing Age 2010: Public Policy Issues Affecting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender (LGBT) Elders. "LGBT elders remain a highly vulnerable and largely invisible aging population. We know that invisibility leads to greater social isolation~ which can lead to increased vulnerability in many areas. We also know that discrimination across the tifespan leaves LGBT people economically and socially vulnerable as tlaey age. There are many challenges but we also have concrete recommendations on how aging advocates, policy mak,e,rs and social service agencies can meet them. Scheduled speakers at Thursday’s congressional briefing were Laurie Young, aging analyst and interim director of Public Policy and Government Affairs of the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force, who discussed findings and recommendations in Outing Age 2010; Hope Barrett, director of Elder Affairs of the Howard Brown Health Clinic; Harper Jean Tobin, policy counse! of the National Center for Transgender Equality; Joyce Pierson, elder rights advocate and former staffofthe Elder Rights Project of the National Center for Lesbian Rights; and John Johnson, SAGE’S federal director of governmental affairs. "Most Americans already face challenges as the~ age, but LGBT older adults have the added burden of a lifetime of stigma; relationships that generally lack legal recognition; and unequal treatment under laws, programs and services designed to support and protect older Americans," said Johnson. We must educate our elected officials and the public about the facts: that LGBT elders are more likely to live in poverty, face social and community isolation, and lack appropriate health care and longterm care. SAGE recently released a groundbrealdng report representing one of the first major collaborations between LGBT advocacy organizations and mainstream aging organizations to comprehensively examine the issues facing LGBT older adults. Improving the Lives of LGBT Older Adults was co-authored by SAGE and the Movement Advancement Project (MAP), in partnership with the American Society on Aging, the National Senior Citizens Law ~er~ter, and the Center for American Progress, with a foreword from the AARE The report was formally rele,ased at the ~eri~n Society on ~ing’s national conference, held last mont~ in Chicago, Ill. "SAGE’S report outlines the issues and offers solutions, providing a much-needed roadmap for creating a society where all older dults are treated with &gmty and respect, said Johnson. The LGBT elder population is growing, with a large wave of openly LGBTbaby boomers poised to seek aging-related services over the next 25 years. Despite that, there is virtually no government-sponsored research on aFing that includes sexual orientation or gender identity variables. This lack of data results in policy and practices that ignore the unique realities a~d needs of older LGBT people, q-his is beginning to shift, as the corigressional briefing and ISIealth and Human Services Secretary Kathleen Sebelius’ announcement last fall of plans to establish the first national LGBT elder resource center indicates. 19 at a fundraiser for U.S. Sen. Barbara Boxer in Los Angeles. Activists David John Fleck, Dan Fotou, Laura Kanter, Zoe Nicholson and Michelle Wright paid their way into the event and then repeatedly shouted at Obama about repealing DADT as he tried to address the gathering. We are going to do that. Hey. Hold on a second! Hold on a second! We are going to do that!" Obama responded. ’7~1 right. Guys. Guys. All right. I agree. I agree. I agree .... What the young man was talking about was we need to -- we need to repeal Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell, which I agree with and which we have begun to do. But let me say this: When you’ve got an ally like Barbara Boxer and you’ve got an ally like me who are standing for the same thing, then you don’t know exacdy why you’ve got to holler, because we already hear you, all right? I mean, it would make more sense to holler that at the people who. oppose it." A few moments later, more shouting ensued. "I’m sorr~ do you want to come up here?" Obama said direcdy to a protester. "Can I just say once again, Barbara and I are supportive of repealing Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell, so I don’t know why you’re hollerin’." Obama then stepped away from the microphone and spoke with Boxer. He returned to the mic and stated: "I just checked with Barbara, so if anybody else is thinking about starting a chant, B,arbara r ’ even vote for Dont Ask, Dont Tell in d i dnt ’ going " the first p 1 ace, so you know shes to be in favor of repealiiag Don’t ASk, Don’t Tell." The protesters were eventually removed from the room. "President Obama has been AWOL on DADT," said Fotou. "We had to remind him of the promises he made to the lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender community during his campaign and several times during his ~residency--t, hat DAD.T, will be repealed oecause, as he s stated, it s the right thing to do.’" Added Wright, "We made it clear our community will hold accountable our president for unkept promises." In response to Obama’s questioning why gays are shouting at him over DADT, blogger Andrew Sullivan explained: "Because, Mr. President, it is not enough to be ’supportive’ o en&ng DontAsk, DontTell. When you have the presidency and your party controls both houses of Congress, it’s a matter of having the political will to end it. Not all gay people are HRC fundraisers. Some are even risking their lives every day for this country; in uniform, only to be treated like second class human beings and citizens by their own government. Their own government? That means you, Mr. President and Senator Boxer." The following da~ April 20, GetEQUAL protesters returned to the White House for a second round of handctffl:ing themselves to the fence and getting arrested, a month after the group’s initial action there. This rime six people chained themselves to the gates -- Lt. Dan Choi, Capt. Jim Pietrangelo II, Petty Officer Larry Whitt, Petty Officer Autumn Sandeen, Cadet Mara Boyd and Cpl. Evelyn Thomas. "We are handcuffing ourselves to the White House gates once again to demand that President,Obama sho,w lea,d,ership on ,r,epealing Dont Ask, Dont Tall, said Choi. If the president were serious about keeping his promise to repeal this year, he would put the repeal la%,uage in his defense authorization budget. The president gave us an order at the Human Rights Campaign dinner (in October) to keep pressure on him and we will continue to return to the W’hite House, in larger numbers, until the president keeps his promise to repeal Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell this year." Thomas commented: "A few weeEs ago I saw Lt. Dan Choi take dramatic action at the White House and it made me realize that I needed to do something to stand up for all the black female soldiers who have been discharged under DADT. 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More on page-3 VOLUME 7 ISSUE 5 Twitt÷rocom/MetroStarNews President directs HHS to crack down on hospitals barring lgbt partners House ethics committee draft s.ays Congressional staffers with same-se~ spouses must include them in annual financial ~isclosure statements; Family Research Council says that violates DOMA By Lisa Keen Keen News Service WASHINGTON, DC President Obama issued a surprise memorandum Thursday- night, April 15, calling for an end to discrimination against gays and lesbians by hospital visitation policies that limit visitom to immediate family members. The timing for release of the memo was a litde odd- at 7:29 p.m. while the president was onboard Air Force One enroute back to Washington from a day of events in Florida. arrived at the hospital, a hospital social worker said they would not be able to visit Pond, even though Langbehn and Pond had executed a heal~ prox~ and Langbehn had a friend fax the document to the hospital. According to a press release from Lambda Legal Defense and Education Fund, which is representing Langbehn in a lawsuit against the hospital, the president apologized to Langbehn for what happened to her family. After signing the memorandum onboard "It was very rewarding to hear ’I’m sorry,’ Air Force One, the president then called from the President because that’s what I Washington State resident Janice ~gbehn have wanted to hear fro,m,,Jackson Memorial tO express his sympathy for the lossi0fhet since the night Lisa died, Said ~gbehn parmer of !8 y~s~Lis~Pond:;: m~ ..b..e..statement;" "I hopetha.t.t.a.ki"n"g these .........Vo.d and Langbehn~ st0~~subject ~tepS make~ siireth~ no ~ily eve;:-h~ t6 ~€ ~ p~6f\~\as~ rues; ~peri~nce’the pi@tm~re :thatlm ily4~as illUsiradng one ~£~h~ Urgent ~blemST~ gone ith~o!agh." : i: .... c ui les face becatise Can fid "Pres~denrObama.s.m...e.m..orandum directs because some entities still refuse to respect !he,,secr~ 0fHealth and:Human Se~ices their relationships, to ensure’ ~at hospitals which participate in During a family vacation to Miami, Medicare and Medicaid "respeCt the rights of Florida in February 2007, Pond collapsed patients to designate visitors" and ~llow those with an aneurysm and was taken by visitors the same privileges as immediate ambulance to Jackson Memorial Hospital’s family members. trauma center. When Langbehn and their ........Continued See HOSPITALS Page-6 O ahoma Exempdor £rom Federal Ha e Crh es Law- stopped "There are a couple of pastors who wear the veil of Christianity who were pttshing this legislation. As a Christian this offends me because the Jesus I know doesn’t stand for that." State Representative Mike Shelton. By Victor Gorin Contributing vcriter OKLAHOMA CITY, OK When Barak Obama signed the Mat~ew Shepard- James Byrd Jr. Federal Hate Crimes Prevention Act into law last October 22, it was celebrated by the GLBT community and their allies as a major civil rights victory that was the result of almost a decade of loiJbying efforts and activism. Although some states already had hate crimes laws protecting the GLBT community (Oklahoma not among them) for the first time Arnericans in the State RepresentativeMike Shelton. Pressphoto GLBT community nationwide were protected by hate crimes laws at the Federal level. Also added by the same action were Federal protection against hate crimes based on gender and disability. Both of Oklahoma’s Senators, Dr.Tom Coburn and James Inhofe voted against the bill, along with the entire Oklahoma ........Continued See HATE CRIMES Page-6 e MetroStarNews.com May 1,2010 Gay Rodeo an Oklahoma tradition 25th Great Plains Rodeo Rides Again In OKC By Victor Gorin Contributing writer OKLAHOMA CITY, OK It’s a proud Memorial Day weekend tradition in Oklahoma City when cowboys, cowgirls and their fans celebrate the Great Plains Rodeo, which now has the distinction of lasting a quarter century. In keeping with long time tradition, it will be held at the Oldahoma State FairgroUnds. From humbler beginnings, the first rodeo came together when OGRA (Oklahoma Gay Rodeo Association) joined up with the Kansas and Missouri Ga~ Rodeo Associations to form what was then the Great Plains Regional Rodeo in August of 1986. Joined by Arkansas in 1992 the event was moved to the Memorial Day weekend. In 1999 the 4 associations split up to form their own respective rodeos, thus the word "Regional" was dropped to make the event simply the Great Plains Rodeo it is today. This rodeo ranks among the top 4 rodeos of the entire International Gay Rodeo Association circuit, which comprises over 20 rodeos. The International Gay Rodeo Association is made up of 28 state/provincial rodeo associations in the United States and Canada, and OGRA has been part of that organization since their first convention was held in 1985. O.G.R.A. was formed to provide a welcoming environment for those interested in the Western lifestyle without regard to sex or sexual orientation, national origin, race or any other form of prejudice. In other words, a way to bring people together to enjoy country and western life! This year the fun kicks offThursday May 27 with a Poolside Reception Party at the Finishline from 6-8 p.m. for the Rodeo sponsors and officials, followed by a stick horse rodeo that’s sure to be hilarious. This year will also feature a Stick Home Contest in which organizations can enter a decorated stick home, with votes for a winner that cost $1 apiece. The winning organization will receive a cash prize, and the stick horses will be auctioned off for charity. For more ........Continued See RODEO Page-8 ere’s More Fun this Fall at SS ’S 2010 Sooner State Stampede By Victor Gorin ~m Dic~,,nan, SSRA President. Sta~Cphat:o TULSA. OK As the OGI~’s Great Plains Rodeo welcomes summertime fun, this year more festivities jumpstart autumn as SSRA ( Sooner State Rodeo Ass6ciation) hosts another rodeo event, their 2010 Sooner State Stampede. It will not only feature traditiona! rodeo events, but also the fnn trappi,~gs of gay rodeo such as wild drag and goav dressing. It will mark SSI~k’s first rodeo with fifll equestrian amenities. t wvw¢.bridlecreekok.com). Sanctioned by the International Gay Rodeo Association I IGRA) this event promises to attract westerners from all over Oklahoma and nationwide. SSRA was formed in 2002 to give men ~d women of rodeo and the western lifestyle ofTutsa and eastern Oklahoma an association by which to come together and celebrate country culture. Like OGRA. SSRA is a 501c3 organization, and likewise is united ~br this cause without regard to race, sexua! orientation, religion, national origin, or any other prejudice one might encounten SSP~ celebrates not only rodeos and horse relaed activities, but also dogging, western and square dancing. The}, are also active in fundraisers that benefit various Oklahoma charities. Each October they select their royalty competitions for Mr. SSRA, Ms. SSRA, plus Miss and MisTER SSRA, who represent the organization at rodeos and fundraising events. ~aeir current president is Tulsan Tim Dickman. ~e winners from this event may go on to compete at IGRA’s World Gay Rodeo Finals held this year in Laughlin, Nevada October 2!- 24. For more information about the event check out ,a~vw.soonerstaterodeo.com tThe host hotel will be the Ramada Tulsa Airport East located at 1010 North Garnett Road, telephone 918 437 7660 (ww~:ramadaairport.com). Be sure to mention the Sooner State Stampede when booking your room for a special rare. www.metrostarnows.corn Oklahoma Gay and Lesbian Political Caucus elects new o cers By Victor Gorin Contributing writer OKLAHOMA CITY, OK As O.G.L.EC. re-organizes, at their April meeting newofficers were elected: The cochairs are Steven Dubois & Jeanne Flanigan, Secretary Victor Gorin and Treasurer Richard Vreeland. As a revitalized organization they are meeting at the Neighborhood Alliance Building, 1236 N. 36th Street { N.W. 36thand Classen Boulevard) of Oklahoma City at 7 p.m. the 2nd Monday of each month, the next meeting on May 10. For~ more infBrmation e-mail Jeanne Flanigan at Ok.glpc@Tahoo.com or call her at (405) 255 3658. Openly Gay TeacherJoe igley to be trans£erred £rom U.S. Grant High School By Victor Gorin Contributing writer TeacherJoe Quigley. Gorin ?hoto OKLAHOMA CITY, OK Joe Quigley is a high school English teacher who made history in Oklahoma City not only in the school system but for the GLBT community. He became well known when he was teaching English at Northwest Ctassen High S&ool. fighting for years to have the ~vords "sexual orientation/gender identit3:’ included in the Student Handbook to be among categories to be protected from harassment and bullying, His tenacious efforts almost cost him his iob last August when the OKC School Board voted to fire him. He not only won reinstatement in District Court, but soon after~vards th’e Oklahoma City School Board finally voted in the inclusive language for the Student Handbook. Although he was reinstated, instead of being returned to his original position at Northwest Classen he was instead transferred to U.S. Grant High School. U.S: Grant had been on the Federal list of schools in need of improvement and ~vas thus required to restructure under the guidelines of the No Child Left Behind Act. ~is would require that 50% of the teachers be removed. Joe Quigley was among the teachers to be transferred, who will receive full pay and benefits as substitute teachers for a 2 ........Continued See O~IGLEY Pag_e-4 Keith Kimmel found Dead in Norman March 31 following his arrest by Tulsa Police By Victor Gorin TULSA, OK Keith Kimmel, an activist with the GLBT com.munity was found de~d Wednesday morning March 31 around 7:45 a.m. by Kerri Logsdon. He had been staying at her home temporarily, and he was found seated in front of her computer. In a posting Monday on his Internet blog he had written, "I am done trying to love a world that has no love for me. I am done trying to believe redeeming things about people who have nothing redeemable about them." In accordance with his wishes, after an autopsy is performed his body would be cremated and his ashes sent to his family in Indiana. Tile preceding Friday night he had been drinking at the End Up Club, and according to statements he made was upset about a relationship he had with a dancer there. According to the dub owner Blake Mterman Keith had been there earlier that evening, left and then returned around 11:00 p.m. At that point Mr. Kimme! was very intoxicated, became very, combative and angry when the bartenders refused to serve him at which point the Tulsa police were called. During his arrest he claimed to have been physically and verbally abused at the club, and that officers had hit his head several times on the door frame of a patro! car. He was taken to St. John’s Hospital where he was given treatment ~br his injuries and bus tokens to get him back to his car. He returned to Norma~ the following da); and mailed a complaint of police brutality to the Internal Affairs Departmefii~ of the Tulsa police. Keith ~mmel had been im,olved with activist causes with the GLBT community but ,was probably best known for filing a lawsfiit against the Oklahoma Tax Commission ~vhen they refused to issue him a specialized license plate that stated IMGAY. He had dismissed that lawsuit February 26, stating that he would re-file it in Federal court at a later time. Mthough there was speculation as to what really happened during his arrest, including the possibility that his death might have been caused by the injuries from that night, the facts of his death are unknown at press time pending the results of a future autopsy. Mr. Mterman has urged caution stating," While I do want to see justice served. I would urge that as a community we wait until the final verdicl comes in. giving the police and the coroner’s office the proper time to do their invesngation before we make any conjectures or statements. After that comes out we as a communitT can move forward and get through this togethed" Blake further related that business had dropped since the incident, and stated that he’d like to remind the community that his establishment is still a peaceful party place. On Monday afternoons beginning around 4:30 p.m. there is still a free dinner courtesy of Midtown Meats located at 7924 E. 21st Street in Tulsa, and has morphed into a potluck supper. Tuesday nights still feature draft beer specials from open til 7 p.m. dose (understandably a busy day). The pool tournament happens on \gednesday nights at Bingo Thursday nights continues to be a rocking event, and the weekend features partying with the hot dancers. ~nis is follmved by Sunday beer busts. Blake further stated that business was picking up, and invited the community to see for themselves that the Endup is still a happening place to come together. Oklahomans for Equality Award Recipients 2010 TULSA, OK Each year OkEq recognizes outstanding individuals who have both helped change and shape our ever evolving community. This year we are pleased to announce the following winners. The awards were presented at the 30th Anniversary Equality Gala on April 24, 2010. Life Time Achievement A,vard 20 years of service to the lgbt community Kelly Kirby Russell Bennett Spiritual Inclusion Award Advocacy for interfaith and lgbt dialogue Rabbi Charles E Sherman Temple Israel Community Hero Advocacy work for lgbtq youth Karen L. Davis Senior Program Officer Tulsa Community Foundation and Tulsa Reaches Out Community Hero 2004 Oklahoma Marriage Discrimination Lawsuit Gay Phillips & Sue Barton Sharon Baldwin & Mary Bishop Volunteers of the Year I.T. Team Eric Vogelpohl Don Satterthwaite Andrew Hicks Grand Marshal 2010 Pride Parade and Festival Rev Marlin Lavanhar Advocacy work for the global lgbt community year period if they cannot be placed in a permanent position, after which a teacher could be dismissed without the procedures of due process afforded tenured educators. As Joe puts it, "I was deliberately placed in a sChool where the District knew the teachers would have to be reduced and I look at this as yet another attempt to skirt the wilt and judgment of the District Court." The Oklahoma City Schoo! District has appealed his reinstatement, a process that could take as long as 2 years, so far incurring over $200,000 in legal expenses as the district faces a severe budget crisis. But so far Joe Quigley can say this much. "In the future the parents and taxpayers of the Oklahoma City Public School District need to start paying more attention to the teachers and less to the highly paid administrators, because there is documentation both anecdotal and in writing that the taxpayers have been continually ripped off in order to make administrators look good at the expense of the education df their students. " Senator Rice: "GOP Leadership Must Rebuke Incendiary R etoric" Oklahoma State SenatorAndrew Rice. File photo OKLAHOMA CITY, OK (PR) April 15, 2010 Senator Andrew Rice (D-Oldahoma City) said today that the anti-government rhetoric among some Republican state legislators" has reached disturbing levels. Rice pointed to comments by a Republican legislator running for statewide office who said on Wednesday that the federal government is "tyrannical" and said he is willing to take his challenge of the federal government "to the max." Rice said these comments are particularly disturbing given the fact the remarks came just days after the Republican state legislator and others said tile state of Oklahoma should create a citizen’s militia to protect Oklahoma’s sovereignty from an "overreaching" United State’s government. "All elected officials have a tremendous responsibility to be careful with the words xve choose to use in public," Senator Andrew Rice said. ’~t a time when more and more people are using words that carry violent connotations to express what may be legitimate frustrations with government policies, you would hope that elected officials would refrain from feeding into that frenzy." Rice said that non-partisan experts of anti-government violence and terrorism have recently expressed concerns about the rhetoric. Rice pointed to comments by David Cid, executive director of Oldahoma City-based Memorial Institute for the Prevention ofTerrorism, who was quoted in the Oklahoma Gazette saying: "People are angry and frustrated, and among those who are angry mad frustrated, there is a small number, but them are a number who will pick up a gun." Rice said examples of evidence of antigovernment violence occurred both in Austin, Texas and Michigan as one group threatened violence against the government, and another person acted out on his anger in an act of domestic terrorism against the IRS, killing one innocent citizen and himself. ’°I call on the Republican leaders of the Legislature to rebuke this inflammatory language ofsome of their members coming just days before the 15th anniversary of the Oklahoma City bombing," Rice said. ’~All Oklahomans should be offended to hear any elected official use language that is reminiscent to the anti-government language used by Timothy McVeigh, especially leading up to this painful time of year for our state." Rice explained while McVeigh was on death row awaiting his execution for the murder of 168 innocent Oklahomans, he sent a letter to a London newspaper titled: "Why I bombed the Murrah building." In it McVeigh explains: "I reached the decision to go on the offensive - to put a check on government abuse of power, where others had failed in stopping the federal juggernaut running amok," he said. Oklahoma Tobacco Free help No matter who yot are on life’s -Reverend 3131 N. Pennsylvania,0kloh0~ 405.525.9555 4 ~:~,T~:()STA May 1, 2010 Out magazine lists ’most inEuential’ gays, lesbians Ellen DeGeneres. GL_~L4D photo Ellen DeGeneres is America’s "most influential" gay man or woman, according to Out magazine’s fourth annual "Power 50" list. "Since DeGeneres replaced Paula Abdul as a judge on Banerican Idol in February, millions upon millions of viewers are getting a double dose of the hugely popular talk show host and 12-time Emmy winner," Out said. "The American FLxpre~s and Covergirl pitchwoman’S rcacb~ is nearly unparalteled~ ... A passionate advocat( ~br marriage equalit)5 anavid opponent of’don’t ask, don’t tell,’ and staunch defender of animal rights, DeGeneres’s enormous platform is many an American’s gain." Others near the top of the list include MSNBC anchor Rachel Maddow, CNN anchor Anderson Cooper, singer Adam Lambert, actor Nell Patrick Harris, Human Rights Campaign President Joe Solmonese and U.S. Reps. Tammy Baldwin, Jared Polls and Barney Frank. For the full list, see out.corn/power50. Effort to repeal Prop 8 fails to collect enough signat es. Federal Prop 8 trial remains paused. A grassroots effort to force a November 2010 ballot-box vote on repealing Proposition 8 failed to collect enough voter signatures by the April 12~deadline to get the measure on the ballot. Groups pushing the 2010 repeal effort faced an uphill battle from the get-go because California’s gay-rights leadership refused to support the project, believing that 2012 will be a better year to return to the ballot. The lead 2010 organization, Love Honor Cherish, did not say" hmv many signatures it did manage to collect. Just under 700,000 valid signatures would have been needed. "Tnis is a heartbrealdng moment," said LHC Executive Director John Henning. "Despite the dogged efforts of hun&eds of volunteers across California, we did not get Wockner News Service 7he #’ial in the.f}dem! tawsu# to overturn 8 as a violation ofthe U.S. Constitution.{ms been paused in San Francisco sinceJan. 2Z Famous attorneys DavM Boles, r{~ht, and Ted Olson are among the l.mwers argui,g the case for the gay side, Photo @ Rex Wochner the signatures we needed within the 150-day window set by the state. Regrettably, Prop 8 will remain as a stain on our constitution until at least 2012, and perhaps latel:" Love Honor Cherish was one of 40 mosdy grassroots groups working for a 2010 vote within a coalition called Restore Equality 2010. "Our signature-collection effort may have fallen short, but we stand tall as being the only statewide campaign that fought for repealing Proposition 8 in 2010," said Sean Bohac, chair of the Restore Equality 2010 Statewide Advisory Panel. "Our campaigners carried the torch of Harvey Milk, who showed that change only happens when we get out of the bars and into the streets. Band our efforts are reflected in the new polls that show increased support for extending marriage to all Californians." Bohac told The San Diego Union-Tribune that the number of signatures collected "was not particularly close" to the 694,354 needed. "We won’t be making, it public," he said. Recent polls by d~e Public Policy Institute of California and by the Los Angeles Times/ University of Southern California have shown that, for the first time, a majority of Californians now support same-sex marriage -- suggesting that top gay rights groups Equality California and Courage Campaign may have made a misstep in refusing to support the 2010 effort. EQCA and Courage expressed fears that voters would not be ready to reverse themselves just two years after rebanning same-sex marriage. But EQCA Executive Director GeoffKors said the poll results haven’t caused the group to second-guess its decision. "Equality California still believes 20!2 is the fight time to go to the ballot;’ Kors said. "Those polls were not oflikely voters for the 2010 election. When you dig deeper into those polls -- and our internal polls during the same time period -- what’s clear is young voters are the ones who move the most. And young voters make tip a much larger percentage of the electorate in a presidential race (2012) than a gubernatorial race (2010), which is why the L.A. Times said, after looking at their poll numbers in the article, it’s clear why gay rights groups wanted to wait until 2012, because 2010 doesn’t provide us the best opportunity to win due to voter turnout." Restore Equality 2010 said it now will join up with the 2012 effort. Signature collecting for that project is expected to begin in the summer of 2011. A California Supreme Court ruling legalized same-sex marriage in May 2008 and weddings began June ! 6, 2008. Tiae court said preventing gay couples from marrying violated the state constitution. Even more groundbreakAng, the court also ruled that sexual orientation is a "suspect classification" -- which made aW type ofdiscrimination based on sexual orientation constitutionally subject to the strictest level ofscrutiny by California courts. California governmental entities now have to prove they have a specific "compelling interest" -- rather than a mere "rational basis" - - when they treat GLB people differently in any way. The change made it dramatically harder for any level ofgovernment to defend itself in any arena where gays, lesbians and bisexuals are not treated the same as heterosexuals. Some 18,000 same-sex couples married in California before voters amended the state constitution to re-ban same-sex marriage in November 2008. N~e California Supreme Court later ruled that Prop 8 was a valid amendment to the constitution. A federal lawsuit led by famous attorneys David Boles and Ted Olson to overturn Prop 8 as a violation of the U.S. Constitution is ongoing in San Francisco. The trial paused on Jan. 27 after all testimony had been heard but before closing arguments because Judge Vaughn ~Walker said he wanted to review the testimoW prior to hearing the attorneys’ final statements. The conclusion ofthe trial apparently has been further delayed while gay’ groups that ran the ballot campaign against Prop 8, who are not parties to the federal lawsuit, fight an order to turn over some of their e-mails from the campaign period. Protestors chained to W/site HousejSnce: PtSoto b_yjohn Aravosis @A_MERICAblog N~e LGBT community’s new activist pit bulls, GetEQUAL, dramatically upped the pressure on President Barack Obama on April 19 and 20 over his failure to succeed in keeping major campaign promises to LGBT Americans. Although Obama has taken several small steps seen as favorable or helpful to LGBT Americans, he has yet to engineer the passage of the Employment Non-Discrimination Act, the repeal of Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell, or the repeal of the Defense of Marriage Act. GetEQUAIJs latest broadside started April :....Continued see Get_EQUAL - page 9 www.metrostamews.corn ~)~ETROSTAR 5 More specifically, the memo instructs HHS to ensure that hospitals receiving federal funds nor deW visitation based on sexual orientation or gender identity, along.with the usual categories of non-discrimination. Human Rights Fund spokesman Michael Cole said his organization had been ~vorking with the Xg~hite House on the memo language [’or some rime. He said he was unaware of any particular reason for the timing. "It was a long process for them to get the memo language set and al! of their ducks in a row," said Cole- so my impression is that this was the point at which it was done." The April 15 memorandum is the second memorandum issued by the president to specifically help LGBT people. In June 2009, President Obama signed a memorandum to the ONce of Personnel Management Director requesting that the heads of all executive departments and agencies "conduct a review" of current benefits available to federal employees within 90 days "to determine what authority they have to extend such benefits to same-sex domestic partners of Federal employees" and submit a report on rMs to OPM. Kevin Cathcart, executive director of Lambda Legal, called the president’s hospital visitation memorandum a "great leap forward in addressing discrimination affecting LGBT patients and their families." "These measures are intended to ensure that no family will have to experience what the Langbehn-Pond family did that night at Jackson Memorial Hospital," said Cathcart, in a statement isstled Thursday night. k federal district court judge dismissed Lambda’s ta~vsuit on behalf of Langbehn, saying there was no law requiring the hospital to allow Lisa Pond’s partner to see her at the hospital. On Monday, April 12, Lambda issued a press release saying it had reached an agreement with Jackson Memorial for "qmproved policies that are more responsive ro the needs of the LGBT community." But Lambda said the agreement does "not provide as much protection as may be needed in critical sitnations." Lambda noted that the president’s memorandum calls on HHS to take steps to ensure that hospitals respect legal documents that some patients have to designate who can make decisions for them if they become incapacitated. It also requires HHS to report back to the president in !80 days with additional recommendations for actions HHS can take "to address hospital visitation, medical decision-maHng, or other health care ~ssues that ~?cr LGBT patients and their Ironically, the pool reporter on board the ~ighr back to Washington reported there was No news on the way back" from Florida. Meanwhile. Roll Call a newspaper specializing in covering Capitol Hill, reported Thursday that the House Committee on Standards of ONcia! Conduct has "drafted rules that for the first time would define gay married couples as ’spouses" for the purposes of filling out their annual Congressional financial disclosure forms." The forms are used by members of Congress and their staffs to make annual discIosures of any additional sources of income and investments by them and their spouses and dependent children. The draft rules propose requiring that any members or staffwho have married same-sex spouses in Washington, D.C. or aW of the states which provide for equal marriage rights to include information about their spouse’s finances, the same as straight members and staff Inust do about their legal spouses. Roll Call quoted a spokesman for the Family Research Council as saying the draft rules violate the federal Defense of Marriage Act (DO1VL&), which prohibits federal recognition of same-sex marriages. The paper noted that the draft rule had been removed from the committee’s website. The Committee’s webs!re currently lists instructions for filling out the form for calendar year 2008 disclosures even though the forms due next month are for calendar year 2009. MissoOa bans anti- LGBT discrimination The City Council in Missoula, Mont., voted 10-2 on April 12 to prohibit discrimination in employment and housing on the basis of sexual orientation or gender identity, the Missoulian reporte& The vote came at 1:45 in the morning at the end of a seven-hour meeting. "Most of us can’t remember civil rights in action," said Councilwoman Sficy Rye. "This is it for us." Gay man elected mayor ofsmall Colorado town An openly gay man, Ron Holland, was elected mayor of Dillon, Colo., April 6. He received 90 votes to an opponent’s 72 in the mountain town of about 800 people. Holland, who is serving his first term on the City Council, told the Summit Daily News he was "ecstatic" over his victory. Martina has breast cancer Mart!ha NavradIova. Ougames~hoto Lesbian tennis legend Martina Navratilova told People magazine April 7 that she has breast cancer. The ductai carcinoma was discovered early and is expected to be fully curable. "I cried," Navratilova said. "It knocked me on my ass, really. I feet so in control ofmy life and my body, and then this comes, and it’s completely out ofmy hands." "I went four years between mammograms," she added. "I let it slide. Everyone gets busy, but don’t make excuses. I stay in shape and eat right, and it happened to me. Another year and I could have been in big trouble." Navratilova will undergo six weeks of radiation treatment starting in May. Congresswoman Tammy BaldWin On President - Obama’s signing ofa. memorand reNardmg the visitation rights of hospital patients Congresswoman Baldwin. Woclowrphoto WASHINGTON, DC (PR) "President Obama’s decision to direct the Secretaryof Healrah and Human Services to take steps to ensure that hospitals participating in Medicare or Medicaid respect the rights ofpatients to receive visitors and designate others to make decisions about medical care in the case ofan emergency is the right one. It follows the lead ofmany states and makes a strong statement about who we are as a nation and what we valne. No one should face the distress oflying ill or injured in a hospital bed with the loved one you designate barred from your bedside for any other than a compelling medical reason. For too long, such access has been arbitrarily denied many individuals, most especially to gay mad lesbian Americans. President Obama’s action tonight puts us another step doser toward our goal ofequal rights for all Americans and I appland his decision: Congressional Delegation, Passage of the bill intensified conservative religious groups who had campaigned against the Act and this was particularly felt in Oklahoma, although the legislation was hailed by the GLBT community and civil rights activists as a progressive measure long overdue. What followed was an attempt to "opt Oklahoma out" of this new protection, spearheaded by State Senator Steven Russell ( Republican- District 45) with State Senate Bil! 1965. The bill actually began as an ordinary measure to start a task force to research public and private high school athletics, authored by State Senator Harry Coates (Republicam) and State Representative "Wes Hilliard (Democrat). After the bill passed out of committee, S.B. 1965 was altered by Senator Russell who removed the original language. He then added language that would have prevented Oldahoma law enforcement from cooperating ,vith Federal authorities when a hate crime ~vas committed in Oklahoma. ~e bill then passed the State Senate 39-6. The ensuing publicity, including a GLBT lobbying day at the State Capitol focused mainly on this legislation, resulted in a re-xvrite of the bill by Senator Russell in an attempt to make it less offensive and passable. The rewritten version permitted Federal authorities to petition State District Courts for evidence relating to an Oldahoma hate crime if local law enforcement objected to cooperating with the Federal authorities. Among the groups opposed to this legislation was the Oklahoma American Civil Liberties Union. One of their lobbyists, Tamya Cox, spoke to State Representative Mike Shelton (Democrat District 97) who "hated this bill, understood the implications and issues of this from the onset, stated that we had to do something." Mr. Shelton persuaded the House author of the bill, Representative Danny Hilliard to let him have the bill. Once Mr. Shdton had control of the bill he withdrew it, thus ldlling this legislation. Although an unusual strategy, it was an effective action he stated that he felt he had to take because as he put it, ’~Mnything that breaks down the opportunity ro protect Oklahomans from harm is wrong. Legislation and resolutions that hurt people only give a black eye to our state." Although he has received positive feedback for his action, predictably he has received negative responses as well, including some from the conservative religious community. It hasn’t swayed his resolve as he relates, "There are a couple of pastors that wear the veil of Christianity who were pushing this legislation. As a Christian this offends me because the Jesus I know doesn’t stand for that." GLBT and civil rights activists are continuing to monitor the situation in case attempts are made to re-introduce this or similar measures with another bill. ’uptcv - CivJJ Rights oCriminal ’ment o Family Law o Litigation 625 N. o l th street Cit% OK 7 105 6 ~KTROSTAR May 1, 2010 contim es "First ursday" Art Opening and E ibit ofOriginal Wbrks by MattJohnson. Bebe gives her ’Best O£’ for Race! The reigningD*agRace queen goes though her list ofseason two superlatives TULSA, OK (PR) The May Oklahomans for Equality (Oldgq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Nei!l Equality Center (621 E. 4th Street in Downtown Tulsa), will feature the Artistic Nude Photography ofMatt Johnson. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, May 6th from 6-9pm and continues throughout the month of May. Oklahoman Matt Johnson, owner of Johnson Studios, specializes in Artistic Nude Photography and is based in Tulsa. Matt has always had a deep appreciation for the human form. He began his art expression in the color pencil medinm sketching in the pln-up type format in his teen years. Mfitt is a neon bender by trade for a commercial sign company. He has been married to his wife Denise since 1987 and they have three wonderful children. In 2006 his artistic will drew him to the camera. Since then he has been creating nude art using the lens of a camera and his imagination through the editing process. After developing a diverse portfolio Matt’s xvork was accepted into galleries in Eureka Springs, Arkansas. He was the featured artist in two different Eureka Springs gallery shows in 2009. Matt is beginning to show his work in his home town ofTulsa and is scheduled for two separate gallery shows in the upcoming months. Matt’s friendly easy- going manner makes his photo sessions comfortable, relaxed and fun experiences for his models. They are always thrilled with their images and often come back for additional sessions. allows Matt to continue to create new and exciting images from his eyeto the computer and then the paper. The show begins with a reception at the Dennis IL Nei!l Equality Center on Thursday, May 6th fi’om 6-9pm; Matt’s art will be on displa~v through May 2010. Founded by a dedicatedgroup ofvolunteers in 1980, Oklahomansfar Equali~r/OkEq is Oklahoma’s oMestgay rights o~nization. From testingfor HIV/AIDS and hosting t/~e annual 7~dsa PHele and Diversi~ Celebration m operati~ the Equadity Center and documenting the ~tha LGBTcommunity’s rich histor~ OkEq worksfor socialjustice amtfidl inclusionfor Oklahoma’s lesbian, ga)~ bisccuai, and transgender (LGBT) citizens and their allies. For more i*{~ormation, see wwt~;okeq.org By Bebe Zahara Benet Wasn’t it great to see me on the special episode of RuPaul’s Drag Race this week? Well, it was wonderful to sit down with RuPaul and my season one sisters Ongina and Nina Flowers to critique season two, but there was still so much more to be said that I tlmught I’d dedicate this week’s colttrnn to some ofmy favorite moments that we didfft get a chance to talk about during the show. Funniest Moment: There’s plenty to choose from, but for me it has got to be Jujube during the reading challenge. I just loved everything she said about everybody - calling Raven legendary- as in "leg" and "dairy," snapping at Jessica in Chinese and even ta~ng smack about Tyra’s grill - that reading was hilarious! A second runner-up moment was Pandora Boxx playing CarolChanning in the "Snatch Game" challenge. Ms. Boxx knows how to mine a laugh. Biggest Diva Moments: We had more , than a few moments to judge this season. 111 skip ranking catfights a~d assess in terms of performance. I’d say the other Tyra coming out as sophisticatedlady on a mad shopping spree was a great diva moment, as was Jujube’s peach dress in the Old Hollywood fashion challenge. It was mentioned in the live show, but it bears mentioning again - Raven’s gold Cleopatra dress and blonde afro was really, really fierc!! ~ Best Makeup: Oh honey! Give it to Raven! I think Raven really s~vitched up her makeup to go with different looks. Even , , ~vhen she did the country girl or the rock n roll look or the whole glamour thing she was able to create a different persona through makeup. She is really mastering the craft and art of drag. Best Runway: I will go with Jujube. I really will! She walks with confidence, walks with so much fierceness, so much attitude and so much personality. I really love how she does all levels of her presentation. Best Lip-sync: It seems like I’m a fan of Jujube! I love how she lip-syncs. Sometimes she gives a little too much, but she is more often right on the money. She is able to catch the little things the artist does. She’s right on point with it. ~aat’s someone who has studied the music and knows what the whole song is about. I also liked Raven’s lip-syncing. ~aere is something about it that is a little sassy. I’d give it to both of them. Biggest \Vish: To see Jessica \~ild last longer. She had so much potential! If she had been given another chance I am convinced there ~vould have been other things about her ~erfor,mance that would have made us all go WOW. Catdh the finale of RuPaul’s Drag Race at 9pro (ET/PT) this Monday night on Logo and visit LOGOonline.com to find out about vievdng parties in your area. Until next week, kisses and good luck! www.metrostarnews.com ~et~oSTAR 7 H e tension By Ronald Blake Contributing ~X~riter Photo: RonaM Blake, Certified Fitness Ins~’uctor through ISSA International Sports Sciences Association The heart beats faster! Tixe blood vessels constrict even more! Tixe h<art, lungs, and brain ache for more help but it isn’t coming fast enough! There is a shudder and then complete blackness! This Edgar Allan Poe moment of chimerical horror describes a massive stroke for someone that suffered one day too many from hypertension. Gather round the campfire and H1 explain this medical condition, its causes, and preventative measures to avoid it. Hypertension is high blood pressure and one out of five people in our country are experiencing it. Tile blood vessels constrict and the heart has to pump harder to get that blood delivered around the bod?,: The heart begins to ,yemen from overload and the constricted vessels become compromised over time. Blood pressure changes all the time. It won’t kill you to have high blood pressure once in awhile though. Swerving to avoid the reckless driver on the freeway, climbing five flights of stairs quickly, or being startled by the ghastliness of that first and last time drag queen can all contribute to a spike in blood pressure. Consistently visiting this elevated zone is very much a problem. Many people wofft feel any symptoms from this disease for 10 to 20 years and then it can strike like a thief in the night. There isn’t a specific cause of hypertension but that doesn’t mean there isn’t a lack of culprits calling in and claiming responsibility for this physiological terrorism. Heredity is a card we are dealt at birth and is a frequent contributor to this ugliness~ Hypertensive parents bequeath their kids a two times greater likelihood of having this disease than for those kids of parents without hypertension. That really sucks and all you did was be born to the world! Don’t grab the bottle and give up just yet if you inherited these lousy hand-me-downs from morn and pop. There are plenty of other ways to cotlnteract the ill effects of high blood pressure. Other causes of this nasty medical condition are obesity, stress, smoking, and improper diet and they are al! something you can control. Obese individuals are about twice as likely tO be hypertensive as those men and women ,vho are aren’t in that overweight category. I’m no Pd~odes Scholar but I think that means if you exercise and stay lean then you decrease your risk. That sounds like something you can control! S[ress can walk you down the aisle and give you away to high blood pressure too. Stop getting angry at all the little problems in the world! A late bill, rush hour traffic, the moth~r-in-law visit, and the ripped underwear at 6AM aren’t worth your emotional intensity. Relax and take a deep breath when these moments occur. That sounds like something you can control! Smoking always constricts your blood vessels and raises your blood pressure every time. Cigarettes aren’t cheap and there are smoking cessation programs al! over the place. That sounds like something you can control! Foods with excessive sodium, saturated fat, or cholesterol are al! significant donors to th~ election campaign for hypertension. This candidate for office can’t win without your donations. That sounds like something you can control! There are also drugs that can Be prescribed to aid in your efforts against this evil force. Don’t be scared by this villain of your vessels! With adherence to these suggestions you may live a healthy life and worry about hypertension (Quoth the raven) nevermore! This purloined letter was brought to you by that guy who tore up the planks in the house of Usher. That guy is Ron Blake and he can be found descending into the maelstrom at www.myblakefitness.com. information about the contest contact the rodeo’s co-directors, Klint Weiden ( 405 408 6140) or Paul Boyd (405 630-4388). Following on Friday it gets wild with a Poolside Cookout also at the Finishline from 3-6 p.m., then it’s registration time at the Oklahoma State Fairgrounds from 6-9 p.m ( Barn #9)., with a cash bar and snacks provided to make it go better, along with entertainment from 6-8 p.m. Keeping the night kicking along is the HomoRodeo Mixer happening at the Finishline beginning at 9 p.m., also a All Rodeo Royalty Show at Phoenix Rising at 9 p.m. as well. The Rodeo begins the following Saturday at 8:00 P.m., and after a funfilled day of events one can unwind or windup at the Copa’s Texas Tea Party beginning at 6 p.m. a grand tradition hosted by the Texas Gay Rodeo Association. At 9 p.m. that same night there will be a country concert at ~Amgles featuring recording artist James Allen Clark among other local muscians. That night the stick horse contest winner will be announced, and the stick horses auctioned off. Then it’s Sunday morning coming down as the rodeo begins the final day o£ competition, resuming at 8:00 a.m. at the Fairgrounds. The Finishline that day will feature a Head Country Barbeque at 6:00 p.m. with a hearty dinner for the price of $12. followed by the Awards Ceremony at 7 p.m. a,varding bucldes, saddles and cash to the winners of the rodeo. To wind up the event Monday a Wind Down Party will be held at Phoenix Rising with a hamburger/~bt d6g c86koUt froln Noon until 2 p.m., with drink specials and funfilled recollections of the wild weekend. ~ Ifyou or an organization is interested in being a vendor, contact Larry Foley at auditor@ogra.net ~ne host hotel this year is the Hilton Garden Inn, located at 801 S. Meridian. Telephone (405 942 1400) with special rates available until May 14 ifyou mention the rodeo. Come join the fun! For more information check out their website at vcww.ogra.net. 8 ~Y~:OSTAR May 1, 2010 CMS now- pays for treatment ofHIV related facial Lipodystrophy Disorder must cause depression for individuals to receive coverage By Robin D-Townsend Contributing Writer The Centers for Medicare and Medicaid Services (CMS) announced last month that it will pay for facial injections for beneficiaries who have facial lipodystrophy syndrome (LDS) if, in fact, the person suffers from depression secondary to the disorder. Reportedly, individuals who take these medications and experience facial LDS side effects may suffer psychological effects related to a negative selfimage. "Ofcourse I am depressed about the way I look from the way my face looks now;’ said Allen Leon, an OHahoma City man who has the disorder. "Looks are very important to everyone, not just gay people. People stare; they can’t help it. I feel that I am judged by people and I am uncomfortable when meeting new people." The disorder is very stigmatizing. LDS is a localized loss offat from the face, causing an excessively thin, hollowed appearance in the cheeks. In some cases, facial LDS may be a side effect ofcertain kinds of Director, Coverage and Analysis Group for CMS. "These effects may lead people living with HIV to discontinue their antiretroviral therapies." Grade four (offour grades) leaves a person the most emaciated-looking. The injections are "fillers" that have been approved by the U.S. Food & Drug Administration (FDA) to be injected under the skin in the face to help fill out its appearance specifically for treatment offacial LDS. Data show that these injections can improve patient self-image, relieve symptoms ofdepression, and may lead to improved compliance with anti-HIV treatment. The average cost of the injections is $500 for a two-vial treatment. Most people require a total of three treatments. Medicare coverage for the injections has already begun. This is an important milestone in Medicare coverage for HIV-infection therapies by helping people living with HIV improve their self-image and treating side effects of Lipotrophy by grade: Lipoatrophy withfat loss covering a wide area oftheface and the skin is living directly on thefacial muscles. medications (antiretroviral therapies) that individuals receive as part ofan HIV infection treatment regimen. "Facial LDS can leave people living with HIVlooking gaunt and seriously ill, which may stigmatize them as part oftheir HIV-infecrion status," said Dr. Louis B. Jacques, MD medications. Compliance with anti-HIV treatment can lead to better quality oflife and, ultimately, improve the quality ofcare that beneficiaries receive. For more information, visit http ://,arww.cms.hhs.gov/mcd/ viewdecisionmemo.asp ?id=234. Lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender aging issues take center stage at Congressional briefing on Capitol Hill WASHINGTON, (PR) April 21 The National Gay and Lesbian Task Force and Services and Advocacy for LGBT Elders (SAGE) are convening a National LGBT Aging Roundtable this week in Washingxon, D.C. In addition, the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force has organized a congressional briefing on issues facing lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) people as they age. The briefing was held April 22, 9:30-11 a.m. in Room 121 of the CannonHouse Office Building on Capitol Hill. The injustice facing many LGBT elders was brought home just this week by the painfut stoW of Clay Greene and Harold Scull~ an elderly gay couple separated by o~ci~s in Sonoma County, Calif., who also sold their possessions despite the measures the couple took to protect their relationship. More details here. "The needs of the oldest members of our community have long been invisible to many of us and ignored by most institutions in our society," said Rea Carey, executive director of the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force, which recently released Outing Age 2010: Public Policy Issues Affecting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender (LGBT) Elders. "LGBT elders remain a highly vulnerable and largely invisible aging population. We know that invisibility leads to greater social isolation~ which can lead to increased vulnerability in many areas. We also know that discrimination across the tifespan leaves LGBT people economically and socially vulnerable as tlaey age. There are many challenges but we also have concrete recommendations on how aging advocates, policy mak,e,rs and social service agencies can meet them. Scheduled speakers at Thursday’s congressional briefing were Laurie Young, aging analyst and interim director of Public Policy and Government Affairs of the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force, who discussed findings and recommendations in Outing Age 2010; Hope Barrett, director of Elder Affairs of the Howard Brown Health Clinic; Harper Jean Tobin, policy counse! of the National Center for Transgender Equality; Joyce Pierson, elder rights advocate and former staffofthe Elder Rights Project of the National Center for Lesbian Rights; and John Johnson, SAGE’S federal director of governmental affairs. "Most Americans already face challenges as the~ age, but LGBT older adults have the added burden of a lifetime of stigma; relationships that generally lack legal recognition; and unequal treatment under laws, programs and services designed to support and protect older Americans," said Johnson. We must educate our elected officials and the public about the facts: that LGBT elders are more likely to live in poverty, face social and community isolation, and lack appropriate health care and longterm care. SAGE recently released a groundbrealdng report representing one of the first major collaborations between LGBT advocacy organizations and mainstream aging organizations to comprehensively examine the issues facing LGBT older adults. Improving the Lives ofLGBT Older Adults was co-authored by SAGE and the Movement Advancement Project (MAP), in partnership with the American Society on Aging, the National Senior Citizens Law ~er~ter, and the Center for American Progress, with a foreword from the AARE The report was formally rele,ased at the ~eri~n Society on ~ing’s national conference, held last mont~ in Chicago, Ill. "SAGE’S report outlines the issues and offers solutions, providing a much-needed roadmap for creating a society where all older dults are treated with &gmty and respect, said Johnson. The LGBT elder population is growing, with a large wave of openly LGBTbaby boomers poised to seek aging-related services over the next 25 years. Despite that, there is virtually no government-sponsored research on aFing that includes sexual orientation or gender identity variables. This lack of data results in policy and practices that ignore the unique realities a~d needs of older LGBT people, q-his is beginning to shift, as the corigressional briefing and ISIealth and Human Services Secretary Kathleen Sebelius’ announcement last fall of plans to establish the first national LGBT elder resource center indicates. 19 at a fundraiser for U.S. Sen. Barbara Boxer in Los Angeles. Activists David John Fleck, Dan Fotou, Laura Kanter, Zoe Nicholson and Michelle Wright paid their way into the event and then repeatedly shouted at Obama about repealing DADT as he tried to address the gathering. We are going to do that. Hey. Hold on a second! Hold on a second! We are going to do that!" Obama responded. ’7~1 right. Guys. Guys. All right. I agree. I agree. I agree.... What the young man was talking about was we need to -- we need to repeal Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell, which I agree with and which we have begun to do. But let me say this: When you’ve got an ally like Barbara Boxer and you’ve got an ally like me who are standing for the same thing, then you don’t know exacdy why you’ve got to holler, because we already hear you, all right? I mean, it would make more sense to holler that at the people who. oppose it." A few moments later, more shouting ensued. "I’m sorr~ do you want to come up here?" Obama said direcdy to a protester. "Can I just say once again, Barbara and I are supportive of repealing Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell, so I don’t know why you’re hollerin’." Obama then stepped away from the microphone and spoke with Boxer. He returned to the mic and stated: "I just checked with Barbara, so if anybody else is thinking about starting a chant, B,arbara i ’ r d dnt even vote for Dont Ask, Dont Tell in the first p1ace, so you know she’s goi"ng to be in favor of repealiiag Don’t ASk, Don’t Tell." The protesters were eventually removed from the room. "President Obama has been AWOL on DADT," said Fotou. "We had to remind him of the promises he made to the lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender community during his campaign and several times during his ~residency--t,hat DAD.T, will be repealed oecause, as he s stated, it s the right thing to do.’" Added Wright, "We made it clear our community will hold accountable our president for unkept promises." In response to Obama’s questioning why gays are shouting at him over DADT, blogger Andrew Sullivan explained: "Because, Mr. President, it is not enough to be ’supportive’ o en&ng DontAsk, DontTell. When you have the presidency and your party controls both houses of Congress, it’s a matter of having the political will to end it. Not all gay people are HRC fundraisers. Some are even risking their lives every day for this country; in uniform, only to be treated like second class human beings and citizens by their own government. Their own government? That means you, Mr. President and Senator Boxer." The following da~ April 20, GetEQUAL protesters returned to the White House for a second round of handctffl:ing themselves to the fence and getting arrested, a month after the group’s initial action there. This rime six people chained themselves to the gates -- Lt. Dan Choi, Capt. Jim Pietrangelo II, Petty Officer Larry Whitt, Petty Officer Autumn Sandeen, Cadet Mara Boyd and Cpl. Evelyn Thomas. "We are handcuffing ourselves to the White House gates once again to demand that President,Obama sho,w lea,d,ership on ,r,epealing Dont Ask, Dont Tall, said Choi. Ifthe president were serious about keeping his promise to repeal this year, he would put the repeal la%,uage in his defense authorization budget. The president gave us an order at the Human Rights Campaign dinner (in October) to keep pressure on him and we will continue to return to the W’hite House, in larger numbers, until the president keeps his promise to repeal Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell this year." Thomas commented: "A few weeEs ago I saw Lt. Dan Choi take dramatic action at the White House and it made me realize that I needed to do something to stand up for all the black female soldiers who have been discharged under DADT. 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Saturn opposing Uranus is a longrunning on-and-off aspect that’s scattering minefields, challenging us to change structures and goals through the year. The Sun and Mars are triggering those with sometimes violent results. Ideological, "values"- based attacks are likely at personal and political levels. ARIES (March 20- AprR 19): Your competitive drive can become obsessive, even self-destructive. Looking good is not about conquest, but moving on gracefully. Let go, meditate, open your creative soul. You can’t do that while guarding your turf as queen of the mountain. TAURUS (Apri~ 20- May 20): Celebrate your birthday with your family and your most creative friends, not necessarily at the same party. Bringing. them together may get a bit dramatic, even catalytic. This could be a good thing, or not. Think it through. GEMIN~ (May 21- June 20): Meditation will cool your heated brain and help you to keep your mouth out of trouble. In that calm solitude, think of ways your home life can support your ambitions. They don’t have to be at war with each other. CANCER (June 21- July 22): Showing off to your friends can get expensive and become a source of fights. If your love and admiration aren’t enough, home-baked cookies should do it. If they want more, they’re not really your friends, and their arguments aren’t worth the trouble. LEO (Ju~y 23 -August 22): Whatever you do is sure to get noticed. You do realize that can be a mixed blessing! Some humility would be in order, but that doesn’t mean denying your actual gifts and accomplishments. It’s just a matter of keeping perspective. V~RGO (August 23 - September 22): Your brain wants a challenge. Find it in a book; don’t go picking arguments. If you want a good debate, hold yourself back a bit and make an effort to really hear what the other person has to say! LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): Trying to keep up with peer pressure, you could worry yourself sick. 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On Monday September 20 the Tulsa School Board voted unanimously to add sexual orientation to its nondiscrimination and anti-bullying/harassment policy for staff members, students and parents. Tami Marlin; a spokesperson for the Tulsa Public Schools stated that the Board revised the nondiscrimination clause of the district’s anti-harassment and non-bullying policy in accordance with recommendations from the Civil Rights Office of the U.S. Department of Education. \gith this measure the Tulsa Public School District joins the school districts of Norman and Oklahoma City that already have sexual AiDVICE N ENTERTAINMENT nondiscrimination policies. The Oklahoma City School District also includes gender identity. Oklahoma GLBT and human rights organizations hailed the decision. As Kathy L. Williams Phd, President of the Equality Network, an Oklahoma advocacy organization for GLBT political and legal rights puts it, "By adding sexual orientation to the nondiscrimination policies, the board better ensures that all teachers and students will feel safe and secure in their working and teaching environment. "Ka-is Wiles, the Director of Advocacy for Oklahomans for Equality had this to add, "This has been a long time coming. We commend the Tulsa Public Schools for doing what’s right in leading the xvay to protect all students, parents and teachers from discrimination and bullying in our schools. Now they can focus on what they are there to do---teach and learn." .............. FREE I OCTOBER 1,2010 U.S. Senate fails to move forward with Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell Repeal Measure likely dead for this year By Rex Wockner O ahoma US of A By Victor Gorin Metro Star Team Lady Gaga in Washington DC to support ofDAD T repeal. Rex Wockner photo It was kept lively, emceed by pageant owners Jack Calcote, Steve Davis and former Miss Gay Oldahoma Brigitte Lee. The winner was Dillon Griffin with the first runnerup Andrew BeShears. Both gentlemen will compete in the National Mr. Gay US of A Contest in San Antonio this coming November 10-12 at the Saint, a well known nightclub there. For Mr. Calcote and Mr. Davis, it has been a busy year. Their promotional firm, Topfrog Productions, 2010 M*: Gay US ofA Oklahoma Dillon Gri~n with Mya Mokka puts on not only Mr. Gay Iman-Miss Gay Oklahoma US ofA 2009 US of A Oklahoma, but also Miss Gay Oklahoma US of A at Large and Miss Gay Oldahoma OICJ_AI-IOMA CITY, OK __ It was a US of A Newcomer, which debuted this year. fun filled evening at the Copa as handsome As Jack puts it, "It was a good year, contestants vied to be the new Mr. Gay exhausting but gratifying. I’ve met a lot of Oklahoma US of A. Passing on the title was new performers, many who now are like sons Warren G ( Joshua Warren Gately), who and daughters." Next year Topfrog will feature has garnered renown as a choreographer the same pageants, with a new addition to be in various pageant systems. On hand announced. performingfor the occasion was the national titleholder, Simba R. Hall of Georgia. WASHINGTON, DC __ The U.S. Senate failed by four votes Sept. 21 to end a filibuster by Sen. John McCain, R-Ariz., and move on to consideration of this year’s military funding bill that contains congressional authorization to repeal the Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell gay ban. The vote was 56 to 43. Sixty votes were needed to halt the filibuster. The measure already had passed the House of Representatives. Although Congress may opt to fund the military after the November elections, the provision repealing Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell seems unlikely to survive now, advocates predicted. "Today’s Senate vote was a frustrating blow," said Servicemembers Legal Defense Network Executive Director Aubrey Sarvis. "We lost because of the political maneuvering dictated by the midterm elections. Let’s be clear: Opponents to repealing Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell did not have the votes to strike those provisions from the bill. Instead, they had the votes for delay. Time is the enemy here. We now have no choice but to look to the lame-duck session where we’ll have a slim shot." National Gay and Lesbian Task Force Executive Director Rea Carey accused "politicians (of) playing politics with people’s lives." "Seventy-eight percent of Americans support ending Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell," she said. "The senators who led and supported the filibuster effort should be ashamed." Servicemembers United Executive Director Alexander Nicholson blamed Senate Majority Leader Harry Reid, D-Nev., for the !oss. "The votes to break the filibuster had previously been lined up, but last week ... Harry Reid decided to use an uncommon procedural privilege on the bill that eroded support for breaking the filibuster and guaranteed the vote’s failure," Nicholson said. "Intense lobbying and public pressure over the past week proved not to be enough to force either side to back down." Courage Campaign Chairman Rick Jacobs responded to the loss by saying the Justice Department and President Barack Obama should opt not to appeal the recent federal court decision in Riverside, Calif., that struck down DADT as unconstitutional. "We applaud the Log Cabin Republicans for initiating this case and we hope the Justice Department recognizes that it’s time to consign this discriminatory law to the dustbin of history," Jacobs said. Human Rights Campaign President Joe Solmonese said the filibuster "was electionyear politics at its worst." HRC sent a letter to Attorney General Eric Holder joining Courage in demanding the government not appeal the district court decision. ........ Continued See DADT Page-5 �November 2" os.e UoS. Marine Corps Veteran1 that can get the job done and I am to ask for y~r Vote ~n November 2! Friends of Wi|la METRO P OLITAN CO iVfMUNITY CHURCHES Rev ,Steve T. Urlle Spirit ot: Christ iVICC 2902 E 20th Street Joplin, MO 64804 417-529-8480 Worship Sunday 6:00 PM Community IVleal Wednesdays at 6:00 www.socmcc. "At Centu~ 2I Gold Castle oa BEST prope4ia are our PEOK~’ Have a God filled and Blessed Day! 2 B~ocks West of the Habana 2 ~ October 1, 2010 �OGLPC will be hosting Ca didates’ Reception sending Voter GuideOctober OI~AHOMA CITY, OK (PR) For many years t~he Oklahoma Gay & Lesbian Political Caucus (OGLPC) has been sending surveys on LGBT issues to candidates, and reporting the results to their members in a voter guide. ~his year the Voter Guide will include results from 132 candidates for state office, reporting their "Yes" or "No" responses to 11 questions. Most of the questions are not asked by the local media or other organizations, and many of the questions are not comfortable for candidates -to answer since they assume the majority of the population is not interested or will not vote for a candidate who believes in equal rights for all. Since only a few votes can decide an election, OGLPC believes that educating our community and registering people to vote is veW iinportant towards achieving the goal of equality. OGLPC is the only LGBT organization in Oklahoma to take on this task. With a mailing list of almost 4000, the Voter Guide is usefid information for the LGBT voting public, PFLAG members, and others, straight or gay. As a noprofit, non-partisan group, OGLPC does not endorse candidates elected officials. On Tuesday, October 19, OGLPC will host a Candidates’ Reception at the Belle Isle LibraW in OKC f,om 6-8 pm. Candidates will beOffered a time ~o speak briefly, answer questions, distribute brochures, and socialize over light refreshments. ~he library is located at 5501 N. Villa. just north of ~ ~pressway,.berween Pennsylvania and May Avenues. Those attending will be able to register to vote, take a copy of the Candidates’ Smwey 2010, and become a member of OGLPC. The reception is free and open to the public. To become a member of OGLPC, contact the Board of Directors at ok_glpc@ yahoo.corn, or attend a regular meeting on the second Monday of each month. Meetings are at 7 pro, and are held at the Neighborhood Mliance building, a NrW 36th St and Classen Boulevard. Additional information is available at www.oglpc.org and on Facebook. Expressions Community Fellowship O treach "Together, we can make a difference" By Robin D-Town~end Metro Star Team OKLAHOMA CITY, OK __ gThen Pastor Neill Spurgin and his partner/husband Dean Coffman started Expressions Community Fellowship four years ago, their vision for it was simple; a Bible study with the goal of reaching people that came fi’om a contemporary charismatic church background. The idea has grown vastly into what is now Expressions Community Center, located on ’the strip’ in Oklahoma City. Chuck Longacre ,_fRed Rock Behavioral Health Services in OKC, explains the testing process. 77srough Red Rock, Longacre helps staff Evpressions Community Outreach Center with trained personnel at their location on the strip. Expressions has been through many a metamorphosis since the Bible study days. Their firs~ services were held at the OKC Farmers Market. ~lhe fellowship movedto Lansbrook Event Center and now the church and c0inmunit~ ~entei: hav~ found a fi~in~ on the strip. They are conveniently located iusr south of NW 39th on Youngs Blvd. "As the Bible study started to grovv we saw a need to start a church," said Spurgin. When he met the current landlord Spurgin said, "We started talldng and I shared my vision on how I felt God wanted to bring His Love, Grace and Healing to the hearts of the LGBT community. I wanted the LGBT children of God to knmv that He loves them and that it was okay r. be gay and Christian." Within months of being on the strip, this church of 14 people had an 1800 square foot sanctuary built and ~vas ready for their first service, holding the inaugural service in June 2009. "We had our first service the Sunday after Pride 2009," said Spurgin. "By January 2010, we had outgrown our space. We then started construction on a 3,000 square foot addition to the property located in the same warehouse." By April 2010 they opened a new sanctuary by the 2010 summer they were out of room again and added 50 chairs to the sanctuary just this September. "We are now in planning phases for our next expansion that will double our sanctuary, prayerfully, by Valentine’s Day 2011," adds Pastor NeiI1. "Our vision for the Center is to expand into the entire property at the corner of NW 39th Street and Youngs Blvd, so our community will have a true living and thriving Community Center." Spurgin also hoped he could bring HIV testing back to the 39th Street strip and through his persistence and the hard work of ....... Continued see CHURCH page - 6 New Report Shows Serious Weaknesses in Oklahoma’s Higher Education Indusivity Policies 82% of Oklahoma’s Colleges and Universities do notprotect LGBTfaculty, staff, or students TULSA, OK (PR) __ A new report by the TEN Institute, the research arm of The Equality Network (TEN), reveals that many of Oklahoma’s institutions of higher education have yet to embrace full inclusivity for lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) students and employees. While there are a few positive standouts, 82% of Oklahoma’s colleges and universities have no policies in place to support and prorecr LGBT faculty, staff, and students. TEN Institute’s preliminary research shows that out of the 66 statewide colleges and universities: ° Only 11 have Compliance/EOE/ Affirmative Action Statements ~vhich include sexual orientation. o Zero include gender identity or expression in Compliance/EOE/Affirmative Action Statements. * One provides domestic partner benefits for employees. * Onl~ 12 have an LGBT student group or Gay/Straight Alliance on campus. "When we first began this research, we hoped that Oldahoma’s inclusivity protections in the higher education community would rival those of other states. While this is not currently the case, we are vety pleased to highlight those institutions who have taken steps to embrace equality on thei~ campuses." explains Kathy L. Williams, Ph.D., president ofTEN Institute. Those institutions with protections in place include: *Northeastern Oldahoma A&M (Miami), Oklahoma City Community College, Oklahoma City, University, Oldahoma State University for Health Sciences (Tulsa), Oklahoma State University Institute of Technology (Olm~ulgee), Oklahoma State University (Stillwater), Oklahoma State University (Oldahoma City), Oklahoma State University (Tulsa), Rose State College (Midwest City), University of Phoenix (Oklahoma City and Tulsa): all have nondiscrimination policies including sexual orientation. °The University of Tulsa provides domestic partner benefits. *Cameron University (Lawton), East Central University (Ada), Murray State College (Tishomingo), Northeastern State University (Tahlequah), Oklahoma City Community College, Oklahoma State University (Stillwater), Oldahoma State University (Oklahoma City), Southwestern Oklahoma State University (Weatherford), Tile University of Tulsa, University of Central Oklahoma (Edmond), University of Oklahoma (Norman), University of Science and Arts of Oklahoma (Chickas~ha): all have LGBT student groups and/or Gay/Straight Alliances. Dennis Rudasill, President of Oklahoma State University’s Sexual Orientation Diversity Association (SODA), noted a disjuncture between students’ increasing acceptance of their LGBT classmates and inequalities still embedded in university policies. "As a student, it’s easy to feel the attitudes of my peers progressing in the direction of open-mindedness and inclusion, but this index shows that our institutions of higher education are struggling to keep their policies aligned with this generational progress. Although I’ve never felt actively discriminated against by any member of my university’s administration, I ~vorry about passive forms of discrimination like rny university’s lack of domestic partner benefits." said Rudasill. In early August Campus Pride, a national organization for student leaders and campus groups working to create a safer college environment for LGBT students, released its annual Campus Pride Climate Index. The study awarded nineteen U.S. colleges and universities its highest ranngs for LGBT inclusivity - the largest number of institutions to achieve this status since the inceprion of the index in 2007. "TEN Institute is pleased that more and more colleges and universities across the nation are willing to stand up for their LGBT faculty, staff, and students, and provide a safe and inclusive environment." said Williams. "It is imperative that the Oklahoma higher education community work to recruit and retain the best and brightest amongst its employees and students, while respecting the diversity which comes with that effort. We hope that with the release of our Higher Education Fairness Index we can work with Oldahoma’s colleges and universities r. enhance those protections already in place, as well as encourage institutions lacking inclusivity language and programs to adopt appropriate policies to protect their LGBT employees and students." said Williams. TEN Institute will continue to solicit information on inclusivity practices and will integrate additional findings into irs Higher Education Fairness Index. Colleges and universities wishing tO partner in efforts to improve LGBT inclusivity- or to provide more data may reach TEN Institute at (918) 9062134 or info@theequalitynetwork.org. The entire TEN Institute Higher Education Fairness Index may be accessed at wwcc.scribd.com/doc/35962887/HigherEducation-Fairness-Index-August-2010 FBI Agents in Oklahoma to Hold Forums on Hate Crimes By Jeanne Flanigan and Victor Gorin Metro Star Team OKLAHOMA CITY, OK Agents from tile FBI ( Federal Bureau of Investigation) specializing in civil rights have been assigned to Oklahoma with tile purpose of educating the public about hate crimes committed against persons of the GLBT community. The Matthew Shepard Act was passed on October 22, 2009 to include crimes committed against persons due to their sexual orientation or gender identitT as hate crimes under Federal law, as ~vell as adding the categories of gender and disability’. However, soon after this took effect legislation was introduced in the Oklahoma State Senate in early 2010 by Republican Senator Steve Russell (SB 2165) that would have prevented the state of Oldahoma from assisting Federal authorities when a hate crime was committed not covered by the Oklahoma state hate crimes law, which does not cover sexual orientation or gender identity. Although this measure was stopped in the House by State Representative Mike Shelton, it demonstrated ........ Continued See FBI Page-19 October 1, 2010 ~ 3 �Race is on for State House 84, Brittany Novotny v Sally Kern By Victor Gorin Metro Star Team Brittany with AttorneyJackie Short. Gorin OKI~HOMA CITY, OK __ The smoke has finally cleared and the race is on. Although the filing ended with 4 candidates wing for the State House District 84 seat, the two others will not be on the ballot. Republican Garrick Voth was challenging Sally Kern for her party’s nomination for the General Election. Voth, a 34 year old Oldahoma City resident who described himself as a conservative Republican, also described Ms. Kern as ignoring the needs of her district. \Vhen publicity surfaced shortly after the filing that he had been arrested in Will Rogers Park last September, charged with attempting an act of public lewdness with another man ( the case is still pending), he withdrew from the race. The other candidate was Ray Pre~vitt, aged 40 and a resident of Bethany running as an Independent. Ms. Kern successfully challenged his eligibility before the Oklahoma State Election Board, and he was stricken from the ballot as he had not been registered as an Independent at least 6 months before the filing period as the law requires to be eligible. Brittany faces a three time incumbent who has for better or worse, undoubtedly attracted national and even some international notoriety. She replaced another conservative Republican, Bill Graves who was likewise famous for anti-gay sentiments when she was first elected in 2004. She was re-elected without opposition in 2006, and defeated Ron Marlett to win a third term in 2008. She is married to Steve Kern, the Pastor of Olivet Baptist Church and has2 adult sons. She had been a teacher at Oklahoma City’s Northwest Classen High School, teaching American Government and coaching the girl’s golf team. She led opposition to the book "King and King" being in the Childreffs Section of Oklahoma County libraries, claiming that the American Library Association is "trying to sexualize your children." She has made public statements stating that homosexuals are a bigger threat to our nation than terrorism, resulting in countless public demonstrations and demands for an apology; even generating a phone call from Ellen Degeneres placed from her national TV talk show. During July of 2009 she issued her "Oldahonaa Citizeffs Proclamation for Morality" at the Oldahonaa State Capitol in which she blamed our nation’s troubled economy on "same sex marriage, divorce, pornography, sex trafficking and other forms of debauchery". On economic issues she is likewise far to the right, opposing a minimum wage increase in Oklahoma in 2006 ~vhen it was $5.15 an hour, even requesting that a study be done to see how people living on that wage Could better budget their money. Although Brittany has already made history by being the first transgendered person to run for public office in Oklahoma, she isn’t running for that reason. She has publicly stated, " I understand that there are going to be some folks who will try to make this election about the fact that my medical history includes a gender transition, but I’m running for office because I believe I’m the best candidate to fight for jobs, education and transportation." Born in Chickasha, Oklahoma, Ms.Novomy graduated from Oklahoma University and went on to get her law degree from the University of California-Hastings and is now a practicing attorney. She is an active member of the Young Deraocrats, who elected her as a national committeewoman and also honored her as their 2010 Woman of the Year. Oklahoma House District 84 includes parts of northwest Oklahoma City, Bethany and Wart Acres. She’s ready for the fight and feels "I think our chances are really great. People are ready for a change." Oklahomans for Equality hires new Executive Director ® Persuaded Tulsa City Council to add sexual orientation to their employee non discrimination policy @ Grew the membership to an all time high in the organizatioffs 30 year history @ Strengthened the relationship with Oklahoma City based Cimarron Alliance Foundation @ Expanded the volunteer staff from 43 in 2008 to over 150 in 2010 serving the LGBT community @ Implemented a Rapid Response Team for the victims of hate crimes and domestic violence ® Achieved record fundraising goals during an economic downturn Toby has a 13 year volunteer history with Ok~q. He has an extensive background in the legal community and has been employed at the Tulsa County Courthouse for 18 years and for the past 11 years has served as the Civil Appeals Clerk to the Oklahoma Supreme Court. He holds a BS degree in Criminal Justice and a BA degree in Biblical Linguistics and Pastoral studies. He has Masters in Theology and graduate work in the Sociology" of Aging. He has 2 grown and married children and 1 granddaughter. "It is a great honor to gvork for an organization that saves lives everyday. I believe we must do more to address the needs of our community and challenge them to step up to volunteer service" said Jenkins. "I have 2 things that I say everyday: Gays are good for Oklahoma and Everybody must serve. When our neighbors come to appreciate the helping hand we extend to them, they will demand that we be treated equally:" Largest LGBTQ and Mly Event to hit the four state corners Toby Jenkins former Board President of OkEq is new Executive Director TULSA, OK (PR) __ The Board of Directors of Oklahomans for Equality is pleased to announce that they have hired Toby Jenkins as the Executive Director of the organization. He will begin his duties on October 1st, 2010. Toby Jenkins has served as the President of the. Board of Directors of Oldahonaans for Equality since October 2008. During his term as President the organization has: ~ Developed over 50 new ~veekly programs at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center JOPLIN, MO (PR) __ An event sponsored by Spirit of Christ MCC; KansasMissouri Network of MCC Churches and the Joplin Out & About 4 States Equality City a Network Weekend concluding with an MCC Homecoming Concert that will be the biggest this year to hit the four state corners. The worlcshops include "Communion Our Way; Isn’t It About Time?" "Matching Music to Worship," and "Liturgical Dance." The concert features Deloris Berry, Marsha Stevens-Pint, Susie Brenner & Linda Be&stead, Sam Sampson and Shawn Thomas with a special guest appearance of the MCC Topeka Drumming Circle. From gospel to contemporary Christian music there will be something for everyone. ~ae concert is free but a love offering will be collected to offset the cost of travelling of the performers with 100% of the offering going to the artist many of whom have traveled for years presenting their music to the community of the greater Joplin area. The concert starts at 6PM on October 9, 2010. All alliance groups, equality centers and accepting churches are invited to attend and have a display center during the day, free of charge. See www.socmcc.org for more details or call 417-529-8480. 2010 Sooner State Stampede TULSA, OK (PR) __ Sooner State Stampede Presented by the Sooner State Rodeo Association, 9 a.m. - 5 p.m. Oct 2nd - 3rd, Bridle Creek Horse Ranch and Resort, 5811 Roper Rd, Sperry OK (10 minutes north of downtown Tulsa). The 2010 Stampede will be a full rodeo featuring 13 events including Bull Riding, Bareback Bronc, Steer Wrestling, and some not so traditional events like Wild Drag and Goat Dressing. There will be additional entertainment as well as great food and cold beer. Tickets $15.00 single day and $25.00 two day, kids under 15 free. For more information visit: http:/£a~w. soonerstaterodeo.com/ Cimarron A liance to hold their Annual Gala Awards Banquet By Victor Gorin Metro Star Team Cimarron Alliance Foundation Executive Director Scott Hamilton at his 50th birthday celebration with well wisher Esther Baltie~’a OKLAHOMA CITY, OK __ At the Oklahoma History Center on Saturday October 16 the Cimarron Mliance Foundation will hold their Annual Gala Awards Banquet. This year’s honorees include Dr. David Macey who will receive their Torch W-orld, Don Hawkins & Mick Schirron who were awarded the Media Award, the Legislator Award which will go to 2 legislators, State Senator Judy EasonMclntyre and State Representative Mike Shelton, plus the Lifetime Achievement Award which will go to Margaret Cox. Featured as the guest speaker is Romaine Patterson, a ~vell lmown lesbian activist, author, OUT Q radio host, and a close friend of the late Matthew ShepaM. She will also host an after party- at Angles. For more information check out the Cimarron Alliance Foundation website at www.cimarronalliance. �Worried about such a determination. conservative forces have been trying to find some other route to assure that the 9tl~ Circuit hears the appeal -- including pressuring defendants Brown and Schwarzenegger and pushing to add Imperial Count); located in the southeast California desert, as an official defendant. ~e 9th Circuit xvill inake the call on the county’s long-shot effort, probably in December. when it also will take up the question of whether the pro-Prop 8 activists have standing. If they do, the 9th Circuit xvill then move on to hear the appeal of Walker’s actual ruling. If the activists do not have standing and Imperial County can’t become a defendant. the case is over and same-sex marriage is legal again in California. unless the activists arrempt to appeal the standing question to the U.S. Supreme Court. ~at. too, would be a long shot, many legal experts believe. They say the Supreme Court would be unlikely to conclude that displeased citizens can step into a state government’s shoes to defend a state law that the state government itself refuses to defend and, indeed, believes violates the U.S. Constitution. tn rejecting the activists’ latest move, the California Supreme Court denied reviexv xvithout comment. Federa ge s r kes , down Don Ask, Don Gay Saud d ploma seeks U.S. asylum U.S. District Judge Virginia Phillips in Riverside, Calif.. struck down the military’s Don’t Ask. Don’t Tell ban on open gays in the military Sept. 9. Phillips found that the ban violates the U.S. Constitution’sguarantees of free speech and due process under the First and Fi~th Amendments. "The Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell Act infiinges the fundamental rights of United States servicemembers in many ways," Phillips wrote in her 86-page opinion. "The Act denies homosexuals stowing in the Armed Forces the right to enjoy ’intimate conduct’ in their personal relationships. The Act denies them the right to speak about their loved ones while sep¢ing their country in uniform: it punishes them with discharge for writing a personal letter, in a foreign language, to a person of the same sex with whom they shared an intimate relationship before entering military service; it discharges them for including information in a personal communication from which an unauthorized reader might discern their homosexuality. In order to justify the encroachment on these riFhts, Defendants faced the burden at trial oi showing the Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell Act was necessary to significantly further the Government’s important interests in military readiness and unit cohesion. De~ndants failed to meet that burden." Phill.ips said the government~ contention that letting gays be open in the military, h~m~ its run’tidYing i~ fully undgi~min~ bY the fi~ct that the milita~T delays d~scharge of ~ys and lesbians who viOlate:DAD~ Until they~ return deployment . from combat ~. . . ~, ~ The former first secretary of Saudi Arabia’s consulate in Los Angeles has requested asylum in the United States because he says he’ll be executed for being gay if he returns home. "If I go back to Saudi Arabia. they will kill me openly in broad daylight," Ali Abroad Asseri e-mailed media outlets in midSeptember. Asseri said Saudi ot~cials oi’dered him home after finding out he’s gay and is friends with a Jew. He apparently has been in hiding since. The U.S. does grant asyluna to foreign gays if the U.S. is convinced they face genuine harm in their native lands. ~e laws treat gay asylum-seekers as members of"a particular social group." Saudi Arabigs entry in the United States’ 2009 State Department Human Rights Reports says: "Under Shari’a as interpreted in the country, sexual activity between t~vo persons of the same gender is punishable by death or flogging. It is illegal for men ’to behave like women’ or to wear women’s clothes and vice versa. There were few reports of societal discrimination, physical violence, or harassment based on sexual orientation. There were no organizations of lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. There was no official discrimination based on sexual orientation in employ~en~ h~ugi!}.g, .... ,i ....... We expect the Justice Department statelessness, or access to education or health to recognize th~ ovet~¢helming evidence ~’ S~x~al 6timideSt-ion CoUld d0nsti~Ute the that pr0ves DADT is unconstitutional,’ bas~s fbr harassment; blackmail, 0~ other ’ Soln~0nese said . actions. No such cases ...... were reported." : .... : ~ g ’~" ~ ~ .... ¯ .... ~a~ * ~2etE¢~UA~ res~0nded b’".r cNlin- on ~ g % lne ent~" continues: v~n junelo;l~yaon group Log ~aDm ~epuDucans; w~ near~ pd~ce ar~ste~67 men ftom the Phmpph, es. , Tell case~ Drou g~t D ~ tlle~,g"y . ~ear .7 oi~ .... Ine six ¯........... ~,, ~ ~*~ ;, ,~ ~,, ),,1, ,~, a~,,> Phillips said she will issue a permanent injunction pr@ibiting th~ military from enforcing Dont Ask, Dont %11. She gave LCR until Sept. 16 to submit proposed language for the injunction and gave the U.S. government until Sept. 23 to respond to LCR’s submission. "She could at that point stay the injunction pending an appeal or, as Judge (Vaughn) Walker did (in the federal Prop 8 case), she could deny such a stay but grant a temporary stay to allow the government to seek a stay pending an appe~i from the 9th Circuit," said Jon Davidson, legal director of Lambda Legal. If no stay is issued, it is unclear whether Phillips’ ruling would take effect nationwide or just in California’s Central District of the federal courts. "This is an historic moment and an historic ruling for the gay military community," said Servicemembers United Executive Director Alexander Nicholson, who was ldcked out of the M’my under DADT. "_As the only named injured party in this Case, I am exceedingly proud to have been a~ble to represent all who have been impacted and had their lives ruined by this blatantly unconstitutional polio/. ~,We are finally on our way to vindication." Gay activists responded to the ruling by calling on President Barack Obama to cease enforcement of D~T immediately and demanding that the U.S. Justice Department decline to appeal Phillips’ decision. for dnnk~ng and dressing m womens clotl~ng at a private~ar~¯ Accord-ing to ~eir embassy[ police released the men to their employers while charges were being processed. In 2007 the newspaper Okaz reported the public flogging of two men in the city of Al-Bahah after being found guilty of sodomy. N~e sentence was 7,000 lashes." California Supremes rebuffProp 8 proponents The forces that want to keep Proposition 8, the voter-passed constitutional amendment that re-banned same-sex marriage in California, cafft catch a break. The state Supreme Court on Sept. 7 slapped down an effort by conservative activists to force Gov. Arnold Schwarzenegger and Attorney General Jerry Brown to defend Prop 8 in the federal case that was appealed to the 9th U.S. Circuit Court of Appeals after U.S. District Judge Vaughn W;alker found in August that Prop 8 violates the U.S. Constitution. None of the governmental entities that were stied in the federal case is interested in defending Prop 8, so the appeal to the 9th Circuit w~ filed by the activists who put Prop 8 on the ballot. It is unlikely; however, that the activists have "standirlg" to mount an appeal, since it’s not their job to defend California’s constitution. O~am, to ~ssu~ an e~ecuti~ orde~ suspen#ing ¯ . &scha~ges under DADT be~veen now and the time that repeal is achieved ,.... ; , ., eour.~onms.ago, we as~d the presment to stop military &scharges while the U.S. Congress haggled over our rights," the group said. "He didn’t respond, and we’re now seeing the result of this complete lack of presidential leadership and courage. So we’re taking the fight back to the White House." "We need volunteers to help us hold the president accountable and meet him headon during this election season, asldng him at each campaign stop and at each fundraising part); ’\ghen will the discharges end?’" the direct-action group said. "Now its time for our ’fierce advocate’ to .step up to the plate for us." Nearly 80 percent of Americans support repealing DADT, according to a recent CNN poll If the Senate had passed DADT repeal and President Barack Obama signed it, nothing would have happened right away. That’s because oflanguage in the bill that delays.repeal until three things take place: the Pentagon completes a study by Dec. 1 on how to implement DADT repeal; Obama, Defense SecretalT Rdbert Gates and Joint Chiefs of Staff Chairman Michael Mullen certify that the military wilt not be harmed by implementing DADT repeal in accord ;with the Pentagon’s plans; and 60 additional days pass after the certification. @ October 1, 2010 @ 5 �Handicapping the Prop 8 Appeal: A Photo Finish Horse Race By James Nimmo OKLAHOMA CITY, OK __ "Ihere has been much constructive talk, as well as arm-chair quarter-back style blogging and blathering in conjunction with California’s Prop 8 trial (Perry v. Sch,varzenegger, http://tinyurl.com/2utbpsd ) as to whether this is a good time for Ted Olson and David Boles, worldng for the American Foundation for Equal Rights (http://vcww. equalrightsfoundation.org/), to bring to the United States Supreme Court (SCOTUS) a case that could, if lost; set a precedent that ~vould allow the Religious Right’s discriminatory dogma to remain on the statute books as settled law. These proscriptions would be enforced despite the First Amendment’s first clause that denies a legal haven for any particular religious belief. Some of the squeamishness in presenting a same-gender marriage case to SCOTUS rotates around the center of the US Supreme Court’s current composition, namely Justice Anthony Kennedy, well known as the "swing vote" in many of the single vote majority decisions of the highest court in America. SCOTUS is currently balanced with four justices, each generally voting liberal or conservative with Justice Kennedy being the pivot. ( http://en.xvikipedia.org/wild/ Anthony_Kennedy ) Here is a golden nugget of gay equality history from Justice Kennedy’s prior time on the Ninth Circuit Court of Appeals, the position he held prior to his appointment to SCOTUS. "LeBlanc requested a restraining order in Federal Court, and no less than now-Supreme Court Justice Anthony Kennedy was one of the woo Ninth Circuit Court of Appeals judges who, while not ruling the ban itself was wrong [gays serving openly in the US military], surprisingly ordered the Marines either give him an honorable discharge or retain him until his case could go to trial. They chose the former." (http://tinyurl. com/23ugk69 ) Justice Kennedy wrote the majority opinion in the case Romer v. Evans, 6-3, that turned back the Colorado voter-passed Constitutional Amendment 2 that was the mother of anti-gay discrimination bills. Colorado’s Amendment 2 was even more broad than the subsequent marriage amendments in that it prevented any governing body in the state to offer legal protection to gay/lesbian citizens. Again in a major victory for gay/lesbian equality, Justice Kennedy delivered the majority opinion, 6-3, in the Lawrence v. Texas case striking down sodomy laws that criminalized private, non-commercial, sexual activity between consenting adults. Contrary to what flat-earth groups such as Focus on the Family or National Organization for Marriage want their followers to believe, having a voter-passed amendment added to any state’s constitution or civil code can and has been overturned by a state or federal supreme court. ~Pais principle of justice in the American legal system is vital to continued progress for rights as outlined in the Constitution and Bill of Rights can not be used as prizes in a majority voter raffle aimed at installing any particular religious or social view. Citizenship with its attendant responsibilities, obligations, and benefits should not be subject to partisan popularity. As Judge Walker wrote in his unprecedented ruling overturning California’s Prop 8 gay discrimination amendment, "In the absence of a rational basis, what remains of proponents’ case is an inference, amply supported by evidence in the record, that Proposition 8 was premised on the belief that same-sex couples simply are not as good as opposite-sex couples. W’hether that belief is based on moral disapproval of homosexuality, animus towards gays and lesbians or simply a belief that a relationship between a man and a woman is inherently better than a relationship between two men or two women, this belief is not a proper basis on which to legislate." (p. 132, http://tinyurl.com/2utbpsd ) Just as racists are at perfect liberty to retain their moral disapproval of interracial marriage, just as die-hard religious fundamentalists can retain their belief that a particular denomination should write laws of the country, moral disapproval of gays and lesbians, as ~vell as the content of our private lives, can continue to occupy their every waking moment as it has in the past. The only thing that will change with the full recognition of gay/lesbian citizenship will be the diminution of diversity-deprived, sexually immature adults to impose their private thoughts and neuroses on the rest of the country. Whether Justice Kennedy will be the deciding vote remains to be seen. His judicial philosophy indicates he adheres to precedent. His two opinions recognizing our gay/lesbian equality are good indicators of how he might vote in the inevitable appeal of Prop 8. However, the health of Justice Ruth Bader Ginsburg is not strong. Considering the outcome ofthe November, 2010 elections, the majority party of the Senate will be vital to the appointment of a successor to Ginsburg. In the two and-a-half years of the Obama Administration, the President has shown himself not able to muster the "fire in the belly" needed to press for his court appointees. ( http:l/tinyurl.com129xbhr4 ) The two ne~vest justices appointed by Obama, Sotomayor and Kagan, have not been on the Court long enough to have a reasonable record of voting to draw conclusions. Court appointees don’t always adhere to the expectations of the appointing president, Justice David Souter being a recent example. ( http://en.wikipedia.org/wild/ David_Souter ) I strongly think the Prop 8 appeal will be decided not so much on the strong argument presented by Olson and Boles as much as on the accidents of health and political expediency. In other words, a real race to the finish. Further reading-You can read more about Colorado’s Amendment 2 (Romer v. Evans) here: general information http!//en.wikipedia. org/wild/Romer v. Evans and the SCOTUS decision http://tinyurl.com/24xa2oc You can read about the overturning sodomy laws (Lawrence v. Texas) here: general information http://en.wildpedia.org/ wild/Lawrence v. Texas and the SCOTUS decision http://tinyurl.comhmvu4ry Tulsa AIDS Walk Saturday ,October. 2nd: 9am TULSA, OK (PR) __ Tulsa’s annual AIDS Walk. The Walk is only 2 miles and raises money for a great cause. The walk route is .from 21st to 31st along Riverside Drive Xgalldng Trail back to Veterans Park. Suggested Donation: $20, but anyone can walk without making a donation. You must sign a registration form if you plan to walk. The AIDS Walk helps mamy of the clients served by The AIDS Coalition of Tulsa. Visit the website and donate by using Pay Pal. http://www.tulsaaidswalk.org/You and your family and friends can form a walking team, collect contributions and bring your donations to AIDS Walk or send a check to the Tulsa AIDS Walk at Tulsa Community AIDS Partnership, 16 East 16th, Suite 202, Tulsa, OK 74119, Attention: Janice Nicklas. If you have any further questions contact Janice Nicklas at jnicklas@csctulsa.org or 918-949-0447. Proceeds from the Tulsa AIDS Walk benefit Tulsa Community AIDS Partnership (TCAP), a program of the Community Service Council. TCAP provides funding for the National AIDS Fund AmeriCorps Team Tulsa and local AIDS service organizations. T.U.L.S.A. to host weekend of education & competition TULSA, OK (PR) __ The Tulsa Uniform and Leather Seekers Association (T.U.L.S.A.) invites you to Tulsa, Oklahoma October 8-10 for a weekend of education competition, and the Oklahomg Mr. Leather Contest. Friday night October 8 starts out with a Bar Crawl, leaving from Club Maverick at 8:00 pm traveling to local dubs and ending back at Club Maverick for the introduction of contestants and judges around midnight . Saturday afternoon three educational classes beginning at noon. The Oklahoma Mr. Leather contest is at Club Maverick, beginning at 9 pm. Leather Masters from Dallas, Texas ,;viii serve as the vendor. . Weekend registration is only $65 which will include entry to all weekend events, the hospitality suite located at the Days Inn, 1244 & Sheridan, the host hotel, and an OML 2011 tshirt and commemorative run pin. If you’d like to compete, advertise, or register to attend, head to http://v~,rw.tulsaleather.com/ and click on "OML"! the congregation and supporters, that goal has been accomplished. There are npw are testing rooms, classrooms and a reception area for the Center. Through collaboration with other agencies, the center provides HIV testing and referrals 5 days a week, The Center is operated utilizing volunteers from the church and community, side by side with the Oklahoma AIDS Care Fund, Oklahoma State Department of Health, Red Rock Behavioral Health Services, Latino Community Development Agency and Guiding Right, Inc. "Expressions, as a church and a community center has most recently partnered with Other Options; Friends Food Pantry and Be the Change which will allow us to reach even deeper into the needs of the HIV/AIDS community and the homeless youth of Oklahoma City," adds Spurgin proudly. "We plan to add more space for HIV outreach and testing, as well as syphilis testing. We are also hoping to bring in an HIV/AIDS Case Manager here at the Center." They are currently in the fundraising stage to expand our services to the community. This will include building additional offices and acquiring additional square footage. Tnere are also a variety of support groups and classes held at the Center. "Our vision for the Center is to expand into the entire property at the corner of NW 39th Street and Youngs Bird, so our community will have a true living and thriving Community Center," Spurgin concludes. "I believe as long as we keep our heart focused on God’s love through relevant messages and opening our arms up to the community, through love and grace, we will continue to see more collaboration through the church and center so hearts can be healed." Located at 4010 N. Youngs Blvd, the Center is open Monday through Thursday from 10am to 9pm and on Friday afternoons from lpm to 5pm. Expressions Church services are Sunday mornings at 1 lam and Thursday evenings at 7pm. For more information please visit their website at www. ExpressionsOKC.com or call their office at (405) 528-2210. N No matter who are on life’s -Ilte~erend ~r. K~hy 3131 ~. Pennsylvania, 405.5~5.9555 �October 1, 2010 @ 7 �Lyric eatre announces most ambitious season to date OI~AHOlvL~, OK (PR) __ Lyric ~l]~eatre, Oklahoma’s leading professional theatre company; announces its 2011 Season, incIuding Always... Patsy Cline (January 26February 5); Boeing Boeing (March 30- April 9); Oliver! (June 21-25); Hairspray 0uly 5-9); Ragtime (July 19-23); A Chorus Line (August 2-6); Altar Boyz (October 12-22) and A Christmas Carol (December 9-31). Lyric Theatre’s new Artistic Directm; Michael Baron, wants to make Lyric ~eatre’s 2011 Season full of fun and excitement with eight great shows including Lyric Theatre’s new" holiday tradition, A Christmas Carol. During the 2011 Season, ~,ric Theatre will perform on two separate stages. Four shows will be performed at Lyric’s Plaza Theatre on N\V 16th Street and the remaining four shows will be performed during the summer at the Civic Center Music Hall in downtown Oldahoma City. Starting Lyric’s 2011 Season is Always... Patsy Cline. See countW music legend Patsy Cline come to life this winter at Lyric Theatre’s Plaza stage. This show introduces 27 musical renditions of her unforgettable hits such as "Crazy", "I Fall to Pieces,, "Sweet Dreams" and "Walldng After Midnight". Share the power of friendship betvceen Patsy and her number one fan, Louise Seger, before Cline’s tragic death in 1963. ~xis endearing true stoW combines humor, ,vith sincerity and gives fans a chance to remember the most acclaimed female countW vocalist of the 20th century. ~-ric presents its only pla~, Boeing Boeing, at the Plaza. ~xe Tony Awardwinning comedy is a hilarious 1960’s romp, immortalized by JerW Lewis and Ton~ Curtis on film, has a handsome bachelor juggling three international flight attendant fiancds. Lyric will continue its 2011 Season with Oliver! at the Civic Center Music Hall. Based on the Dickens novel, Oliver ~B~cist, this new production combines heartbreak and triumph, while delighting audiences with outstanding musical theatre gems like ~Food, Glorious Food", "I’d Do Bmything", "Where is Love?" and "As Long As He Needs Me". Dickens characters come alive once again through music and dancing for a new generation of theatre-goers to experience for the first time. The second show on the Civic Center stage is the Tony Award-winning fun-loving musical, Hairspray. ~atch Baltimore’s new teen celebrit3~ TraW Turnblad, a girl with big hair and an even bigger voice, as she dances her way into everyone’s hearts. En.joy hit tunes like ’~Mama, I’m a Big Gift Now" and "Welcome to the ’60s" that take Tracy from the crazy local TV dance show to d~e hippest downtown rhythm and blues record shop. In July, come to Civic Center and enjoy the Tony Award-winning musical, Ragtime. A show about a powerful portrait of life in turn-of-the-century America and a moving, relevant story for today: Based on E.L Doctorow’s distinguished novel, the musical intertwines the stories of three extraordinary families, as they confront history’s timeless The October Oklahomans for Equality (Old,q) shmvcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E. 4th Street in downtown Tulsa), will feature the Art from "The Glass Statioff’ contractions of wealth and poverty, freedom and prejudice, hope and despair, and what it means to live in America. The ultimate "Singular Sensation", A Chorus Line, will dance its way this summer onto the Civic Center Music Hall stage. ~lt~is timelessly stunning musical will astonish those who have ever had a dream for the Broadway stage. For 25 dancers, it’s the one opportunity to do what they’ve always wanted -- to have the chance to dance. With its brilliantly complex fusion of dance, song and compellingly authentic drama, you will love this brand-new production as Lyric Theatre re-invents a classic. Back on the Plaza stage, Lyric Theatre will perform its Oldahoma premier of Attar Boyz. Altar Boyz is a foot-stomping, rafter-raising, musical comedy about a fictitious boy-band on the last night of their national "Raise the Praise" tour. The Boyz are five all-singing all-dancing heartthrobs from Ohio: Matthew,; Mark, Luke, Juan, and Abraham. Lyric will close its 2011 Season with a spectacular new Oklahoma holiday tradition at the Plaza Theatre, Charles Dickens’ classic, A Christmas Carol. Capture the magic and joy of Christmas as the ghosts of Past, Present and Future lead the miserly Ebenezer Scrooge on a powerful journey of transformation and redemption. With over 20 Christmas carols, beautiful costumes, and lots of snow! This timeless story ~vill get your family into the holiday spirit with a production that’s musically high-spirited and infectiously jolly. Current season subscribers may renew their season tickets now through October 29th. To become a season subscriber, ........... tickets go on sale November 1st, 2010. For the convenience of our loya! season subscribers, Lyric Theatre is providing three season subscription packages for the 2011 Season. Season tickets range from $94-$322 depending on what musical package you chose. Performances are on Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday nights at 7:30 p.m., Friday and Saturday nights at 8:00 p.m. and Saturday afternoon at 2:00 p.m. For information abofit the 2011 Season subscription packages or to purchase tickets go to www.lyrictheatreokc.com, call (405) 524-9312, come by Lyri.c Theatre’s ticket office located on 1727 NW 16 St., Oklahoma City, Oklahoma. Single tickets are now available for the remaining 2010 season shows of The Rocky Horror Show, showing from October 14-31 and December Divas, showing December 16-18. Call the Lyric Box office at (405) 5249312 or go to wv~alyrictheatreokc.com. Art Opening and E.xhibit o£Origina1 Works. stained, £t sed and cast glass £rom G ass Star-ion" TULSA, OK (PR) __ ~e October Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit oftocaI artists at the Dennis R; Neill Equality Center (621 E. 4th Street in Downtown ~alsa), will feature the art from "The Glass Station". The show begins with a reception on Thursda> October 7th from 69pro and continues throughout the month. are with creations by Carole Odearno, Judy Hopica, Angela Bland, Chris White, Valerie Greenhaw, and Sue Underwood The Glass Station is a place to come and create a vision in stained, fused or cast glass. People from all professions create their ideas for stained glass or fused glass to be given as gifts, added to their art collection or to enhance their home decor. The owner Danna Ozbun has been c~eating and teaching sta!ned glass for 16 years and fused glass fo~ 10 9d~ Valerie Greenhaw has been working with and teaching stained glass techniques for 10 years and fused glass techniques for 9 years. Sid Clanton has been creating and teaching stained glass techniques for 20 years. The show begins with a reception on ~ursday, October 7th from 6-9pm and continues throughout the month, w~vw. theglassstationok.com 918.258.3651. �By Steven Petrow &ez~e~ ..Pet~’o,# is tl~e g~thor of"7/3e E,sential BooL, of Gay Manners & Etiq,ette. "Send him your questioi~s at queeries@live.com. Online relationships are just like offline ones. Peeling back ~e layers of someone’s life and person~aliv shouldhappen in a gradual way, as you build up trust. October 1,2010 ~ 9 �Creep of the Month By D’Anne xYgitkowski By Ronald Blake Contributing Writer D’Anne Witkowski has beet, gayforpay since 2003. She’s a fi’eelance writer and poet (believe it!). When she’s not taking on thk creeps ofthe world,he reviews rock ),’ roll shows in Detroit with her twin sistrr Ronald Blake, Certified Fitness Inswuctor d~rou,gh [SSA b~t~rnational Sports &iences A~ociation How to begin! So how do you begin a new fitness t~’aining program? It starts with levity and fun. The key to life is to enioy that very thing...life. How to do that? Fun...fun with moderate doses of responsibility. As a fitness trainer, my iob is r. encourage you to take responsibility for your life. Maybe not quite to the degree of your friendly neighborhood preacher who pounds the pulpit and proclaims all homosexuals doomed to kiss the conflagration of hell because of their evil and irresponsible ways. I’m a kinder, gender more compassionate kind of fitness trainer, at least that’s what they taught me when I was still a straight boy in college. Then I saw the light when I ran into this self-absorbed fitness enthusiast who converted me into a rainbow flag-waving, Prada dressing extrovert and taught me that I too could earn a free toaster if I transmogrified three breeder boys to the dark side. No more tangent thoughts or digressions! This is a fitness column and I’ve gotta save you heathens from your licentious and hedonistic lifestyles! So as I was saying.., any fitness program you embrace should involve fun. Yeah, working out does involve hard ,york and dedication. We all know that. It should also be something you look forward to and get excited about. Otherwise, why do it? But yes, there is hard work involved and I would be remiss ifI didn’t mention that. Afteg all I come from a corn-fed Midwestern background that is engrained with a great work ethic! Wily else do you think fellbw Hoosiers like David Letterman, Orville Redenbacher, Kurt Vonnegut, and Michael Jackson would be so successful? During my numerous years of training dients and coaching high school athletes, I have stressed one thing and that is for them to simply enjoy the ride as each day passes. I involve trivia contests, singing, motivational handouts, music, vocabulary lessons, and "ToW Perkins" endless anecdotes about my life into my training programs. In many ways I feel like an entertainer who tries to regale my clients with the lighter side of it all. Fitness trainin~ should be a method of escaping the harsh realities of the daily grind. It makes a perfect opportunity to channel any frustrations or aggressmns in an appropriate manner. I have informed my clients that they might not have control over what goes on in life but that they certainly have the power to control what goes on in their lives. ~lis control exists in workouts, training runs, bike rides, yoga classes, and other exercise routines. This control should be used when deciding the "who" and "where" of your workout. First who will you ~vorkout with? Choose someone who will motivate you, make you laugh, and validate the quality person that you are. Choose someone who is reliable, trustworthy, and goal-oriented. Choose someone who will help you change your life for the better. Then where will you work out? Choose someplace that has pretty curtains, Tiffany lamps, and leather recumbent sofas. What? It’s not really my cup o’ tea but hey, if it works for you then do it! You need to choose a place that fits your style and personality and a l~lace that wil! allow you to have fun during your workout sessions. Find that place where you can adjust the radio to any station and any volume. Find that place where you can tak~ offyour shirt and walk around flexing in front of the mirrors like you would at your favorite gay haunt on a Saturday night. Find someplace that is relaxed and understanding. We all want results when we begin a fitness routine. It just doesn’t need to be approached as a dreaded task. You have the power! You have the control! You can have fun! Two of my favorite motivational sayings are from Victor Borge and Mary Pettibone Poole respectively: "Laughter is the shortest distance between two people" and "He who laughs, lasts." S_~: Brz~n Fleming claims that gay soldie~" can’t be trusted because you wouMn’t know if they had ’Tnapprop~v~te" motives fbr wanting to be your fiqenc£ 2Vever mind that DAD T is a recipe fbr mistrust since it’s a poli~ based on dishonesl): vmTbody loves a parade, don’t they? Especially gays. Mad gay-loving militaries the world over. I mean, with homos in the ranks. they aren’t much for fighting, but the)) can build a fabulous flotilla of floats. Or so ToW Perkins of the Family Research Council thinks. On Sept. 17, Perkins hosted a "Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell" panel at the Values Voters Summit, which is basically a circuit party for social conservatives - except there’s no dancing, since gyrations of any kind are the devil’s movements. Perkins claims "our military is under immense attack from within our country" because Obama has made it a priority r. "force the military to embrace homosexuality" regardless of "what the military thought." And to explain what the military thinks, Perkins was flanked by retired Lt. Col. Robert Maginnis, a senior fellow for defense policy at FRC, and Sgt. Brian Fleming, a young man injured twice in Afghanistan. Fleming claims that gay soldiers can’t be trusted because you wouldn’t know if they had "inappropriate" motives for wanting to be your friend. Never mind that DADT is a recipe for mistrust since it’s a policy based on dishonesty. Maginnis calls the U.S. military a "moralbased organization" (because it’s moral for a dude to kill another dude, so long as he doesn’t kiss another dude). And since no moral person would want to be around a bunch of queers, Perkins claims that if we let gays into the military ’’we will see Bible-believing chaplains being forced out of the military and not joining the military, leaving a huge vacuum." Letting gays serve openly would be to "just stab (service members) in the heart" and would be "suicide for an all-volunteer force," according to Maginnis. "That’s ~vhy countries ... that have the 10 largest militaries in the world say, ’No, this isn’t the thing to do,’" Maginnis says. Perkins chimes in: "~Well, those that do (let gays serve), they’re the ones that participate in parades, they don’t fight wars to keep the nation (and) the world free." The crowd bursts into applause and Maginnis responds, "Right." Except, you know, not right. In fact, not only are the countries that allow gays and lesbians to serve openly more than glorified color guards, several of them are actually U.S. allies. Take Israel, for example, where gay and lesbian troops have been serving openly since 1993. And then there are countries that have sent troops to Iraq and Afghanistan, including Australia, the United Kingdom, Canada, Germany, France, Italy and Spain. Now, I’m not a military expert, but I have a feeling these allied troops are doing more than dressing up as clowns and riding unicycles while throwing candy to smilirig Iraqi and Afghan children lining the streets (although I do admit I think soldiers dressed as mimes would be an excellent psychological warfare tactic. This responsibility would obviously fall to the French). Oh, by the wa3~ those countries "that have the 10 largest militaries in the world" and who also reject homos include China, Russia, North Korea and Egypt. As Matt Gertz of Media Matters says, "That’s generally not a list you want your country to be on where human rights issues are concerned." But that would be a real bummer. So Perkins makes a hilarious joke about tranny soldiers trying r, figure out which uniform to wear. And everybody laughs. This Ban ’uptc¥ * Civil Rights *Criminal ’ment * Family Law * Litigation 13th S ree : CitV, OK 73103 �the Nation’s Top ..............~ ~ October 1, 2010 ~ 11 �i~ Hous~ How ~s Q 2 October 1, 2010 r ~ncumb®nt David Dank �~S YOUR ~NDEPENDT T CAND~ - A STRONG ENViRONMENTALiST - PRO-CHOICE ¯,. A SUPPORTER OF EQUAU~ FOR ALL O~LAHOMANS �Lisa LarnpaneIli: One Mean Q,Eeen Comedian on gay marriage, celebrity roasts and how we screwed up~h~r life By Chris Azzopardi There’s nothing like hearing a familiar voice on the other end of the line, and Lisa Lampanelli’s is just as I remember it: loud and mean, like she’s burping up Sue Sylvester. "What’s up you big fag face?" she razzes in her bawdy blurt. And I’d be shocked, like I admittedly was during our first interview just over three years ago, had this not been our fourth chat together. So how she’s doing now? "Sick of straighties!" she says. Which is unusual for the selfdubbed "Lovable Queen of Mean," who’s typically trashing the minorities. But the insult comic’s bad-mouthing, like the greeting she swooned me with, is just her way of sc0oping you up into a big bear hug and gently placing a soft kiss on your forehead, like you’d imagine ftom someone who looks as bingo grandma as she does. Ridicule doesn’t exactly express a tender fondness, but Lampanelli dishes it out fairly, so at least nobody feels left out. Now that’s love. October 1, 2010 She’s experiencing the real thing lately, falling for a guy she wouldn’t typically, if you know Lampanelli, go for: a white one. "I know - I’ve disappointed everyone," she pouts. "But he’s Italian, so when I tour the South he’s still looked at like a colored, so it all works out." The wedding is set for October at the historical Friars’ Club in New York, and unlike most stars, the Connecticut-born comedian’s hungry for any Idnd of publicity. Her people even suggested it as a talking point. "I’m whoring out everything, are you kidding?" Lampanelli admits. "Who wants to talk about their wedding? Me! ’Cause I’m, like, fucking romantic, okaaay?" Will she hire a gay wedding planner? "Nooo! Screw those dirty faggots. I’m not going to support you and your gay lifestyle. You guys should’ve listened to Howard (Stern) and heard my price because I’m not telling you, because you fucking faggots are all jealous of me and my $300,000 wedding ... oh, did I let that slip out?!" Then we logically jump into gay marriage, and in her own lovingly backward way she wonders why it’s such a big deal to us because "you have the best out in the world." She continues: "We should say yes to gay marriage but outlaw gay divorce and see how you like it." ........ Continued See LISA Page-19 �By Andrew Collins Andrew Collins cove,s gay m~velfor the New Drk ~’mes-owned website Abou~;com and is the a~thor ofFodor’s Gay Guide to the USA. Travel in America’s Las I recently returned from my second rrip to Americgs largest and least populated (by densiw) state, Alaska. ~ese facts aren’t a big surprise to most people, but sometimes it’s difficult to grasp the state’s sheer dimensions - for example, Alaska is about 15 times bigger than Pennsylvania, but Pennsylvania has 17 times the number of residents. Beyond coming up with startling (and geographically geeky) trivia facts like these, it’s difficult to describe Alaska’s terrain and scenery without resorting to trite superlatives. It’s truly a land you need to visit to even begin to comprehend. The leading highlights for most visitors are up-close views of massive glaciers (dozens of them in some areas), a fascinating array of wildlife, and North America’s highest peak (20,320-foot Mt. McKinley, in Denali National Park). Alaska also offers some of the world’s most exciting kayaking, fishing, rafting, hiking and campir~g (not to menti0n’dog-sledding). This is { state ric~:in his,tory- from indigenous culture to tales of Russian trappers and U.S. gold-fortune seekers. And the abundance of delicious fresh seafood makes this a terrific dining destination. Alaskh is ideally suited to outdoorsy travelers, but - thanks to cruise ships and scenic railroads - it’s also relatively easy .to enjoy the natural beauty from a comfy and controlled environment. Is "Ihere a Gay Scene in Alaska? Let’s put it this way: I wouldn’t recommend traveling to Alaska expressly to partake of gay nightlife, or meeting other "family." Anchorage is a large, modern city with a couple of gay bars, induding the extremely fun and friendly dance club Mad Myrna’s (http:llwww.alaska.net!-madmyrna) - you’ll also find some excellent museums and many stellar restaurants in Anchorage. The state’s second largest city, Fairbanks, has a small but active GLBT scene, some of it tied in Alaska’s oldest college, the University of Alaska Fairbanks. Juneau, with a population of about 30,000, is the state capital and is generally considered the most progressive city in the state - a fair number of gay folks live here, and bars and restaurants are generally quite friendly. Also noteworthy is tiny but funky Talkeetna, midway between Bmchorage and Denali National Park. This cool little village is a great base for exploring Denali and a haven of free-spirits (it was the inspiration for TV’s Northern Exposure). Throughout Alaska. and especially around Anchorage, you’l! find many gay-owned and gay-friendly inns and B&Bs. There’s a good list of these at PurpleRoofs.com (http://www:purpleroofs. co m!usa/alaska/alaskaregion.hmal). An excellent general GLBT resource for the state is BentAlaska.com, a website with events, news, and organizations of interest to the communitT, plus a list of gay-friendly businesses. Taking a Cruise in Maska Even if you’re not especially enamored of cruise vacations, traveling by boat is without question the best way to see southeastern Alaska’s scenery, including areas like Glacier Bay National Park and College Fjord. Many major cruise lines offer Alaska cruises, with Holland America Line (http://www. hollandamerica.com) and Princess Cruises (http://www.princess.com) offering the greatest variety of itineraries, along with the exceptional line of smaller, upscale ships, Cruise West (http://www.cruisewest.com). These are all extremely gay-friendly and gay-popular Cruise lines. Several GLBToriented tour operators, notably RSVP Vacations (http://www.rsvpvacations.com), Olivia (http://www.olivia.com), Atlantis (http://www.adantisevents.com) book all-gay charter trips on some of the major lines that ply Alaska waters, including Holland America and Princess, as well as Carnival (http:// www.carnival.com), Celebrity (http://www. celebritycruises.com), Norwegian (http:// wvw2.ncl.com), and Royal Caribbean (http://www.royalcaribbean.com). Also note that such ultra-luxurious lines as Silversea (http://www.silverseaships.com) and Regent Seven Seas (http://www.rssc.com) regularly visit Alaska. Even on cruises booked to the general public, you’ll nearly always find gay and lesbian passengers (and certainly some crew). And on these cruises, there’s usually at least one and sometimes several GLBT mixers or meet-ups onboard during the week. If you’d like to find other gay travelers booked on the same cruise, or read other GLBT feedback related to cruise travel, check out the gay/ lesbian cruising forum at Cruisemates.com (http://www.cruisemates. tom/forum/gaylesbian-cruising). I can speak very positively about Alaska cruises based on my recent sailing aboard Holland America’s exceptionally well-outfitted Statendarri. I traveled ~vith my family; seven of us altogether, and we chose a particularly glacier-intensive itinerary, through the Inside Passage, with calls at Ketchikan, Juneau (my favorite), and Skagway, plus a day each sailing through Glacier Bay- and College Fjord. I’m not, for the record, a general fan of cruise vacations - iust a personal preference, as I’m more partial to the freedom of road-tripping, and traveling without a set itinerary. But this Harvard Glacier is one of the highlights ofa cruise through Alaska’s breathtaking College Fjord. Holland kanerica cruise was a wonderful adventure from start (out of Vancouver) to finish (in Seward). And if you are planning a trip with a few friends or relatives, a cruise can be ideal in terms of logistics, value and the pure fun of sharing countless memorable experiences together. Alaska cruises range greatly in price, starting for as little as $600 per person, based on double-occupancy, with an inside cabin on one of the less-fancy ships that visit the region, such as the Carnival Spirit or Norwegian Star - this is also assuming you book during the shoulder months (May and September). For a stateroom with balcony on an upscale line like Holland America, expect to pay $1,500 or more, depending on the size of the cabin, the particular ship, and the time ofskiling (June through August are high season). And if there were ever a great time to splurge for a balcony cabin, it’s an Alaska cruise, as a huge part of the experience is observing the magnificent scenery from aboard the ship. If yon’re averse to organized-group travel, would like to combine driving your own car with traveling by ship, or simply enjoy the excitement and relative affordability of ferryboat transportation, consider a do-it-yourself version of an Alaska cruise: traveling the Alaska Maritime Highway System (http:// www.dot.state.ak.us/amhs/index.shtml). You can get around via this extensive network of state-operated ferries, just as many Alaskans get from town to town, either without a car or - at considerably greater expense - with one. This is an adventurous way to sail through the Inside Passage, starting either dmvn in Bellingham, Washington, or much closer to Alaska in the Canadian port city of Prince Rupert. The ferry stops at all the major towns in southeast Alaska. You can also sail via the ferry system through Prince \Villiam Sound and to Kodiak Island (with stops in Valdez, Cordova, Whittier, Homer, and others), or through southwestern Alaska’s remote Aleutian Chain, from Chignik all the way to Unalaska/Dutch Harbor. Again. traveling with a car and sleeping onboard in cabins can make this a fairly costly trip - figure on about $800 to $900 for two passengers, a car. and a cabin for a one-way trip from Port Rupert to Skagway. But you can choose an itinerary that allo~vs you to get on and offat a number of ports, and it’s still cheaper and allows for greater flexibility than a cruise. Touring Maska on Land Whether you reach Alaska by cruise ship, plane or car (the 2,300-mile drive from Great Falls, Montana to Fairbanks on the AlaskaCanada Highway is quite a memorable undertaking), it’s worth taking some time to explore some parts of the state’s rugged and largely unspoiled interior. Many cruise lines offer one-way itineraries (as opposed to "loop" itineraries, that return you back to Vancouver, Seattle, or wherever the cruise started). These begin or end in Alaska, typically in a port that’s relatively close to Anchorage, such as Whittier or Seward. This latter community, home to the superb Alaska SeaLife Center aquarium and Kenai Fjords National Park, is where my recent Holland America cruise ended. From here my family and I rented a couple of cars and explored the area, continued on to Anchorage, and then spent two nights up in Talkeema. Other notable areas within relatively easy driving distance of Anchorage and the Kenai Peninsula include the charming little vacation town of Girdwood, which is home to upscale Alyeska Resort; Homer, a popular fishing town; and Whittier, which has kayaking and boating on Prince William Sound plus access to several stunning glaciers. Farther afield and also wellworth investigating are Denali National Par.k (4 to 5 hours north of Anchorage), Fairbanks (2 hours farther north of Denali), and Valdez (6 to 7 hours east of Anchorage). One way to explore the interior without a car, as far north as spectacular Denali National Park and on up to Fairbanks, is via the scenic Alaska Railroad (http://ww~v. alaskarailroad.com). Many Alaska cruises offer post- or pre-trip options that includes several days on the railroad, or you can book a your own railroad package, which includes riding the railroad’s gleaming railcars past incredible scenery, tours at different stops, and overnight hotel accommodations. These packages range ................. Continued SeeALASKA Page-19 October 1, 2010 15 ���OKC AIDS Walk and Run Double attendance from 2009 Photo’s by Victor G. By Jeanne Flanigan Metro Star Team Out &About in Oklahoma @ Tulsa Eagle, Tulsa @ Bamboo Lounge, Tulsa @The Ledo, Oklahoma City O~HOMLA CITX~ OK The 2010 OKC AIDS xTchlk and Run was held on a beautiful Sunday September 19 in the heart of Bricktown, this time at Sonic Headquarters with double-the attendance from last year. AIDS \Valk Board President John Greet estimated that over 88 runners and over 1000 walkers participated this yeal; including Teleflora and AAA. Volunteers fi’om Dell Computers, \V-gaigreens, BancFirst, United \Ygay, Sonic, the Red Cross and others signed in participants, sold T-shirts, set up the course, and also provided water and relief to organizations that had booths surrounding the Sonic building. . The route for the \Valk was changed this year due to renovations going on at the Myriad Gardens where the festival had been held in the past, so Sonic generously donated their space for this event. Canopies for the booths were provided by OKC Pride. ~e booths ran along the north side of the Sonic building, facing the Bricktown Canal with a DJ on the canal dock. AIDS Walk OKC raises money for grants to nonprofit organizations that provide services for people living with HIV/AIDS. During 2010 AIDS Walk OKC has held fundraising awareness of the need for the vital services these organiz,~tions provide. An award was given to Johnny Norris and the Friends of the Hilo who have consistendy raised thousands of dollars for AIDS Walk OKC for the past 18 years with their Turnabout Show, which this year,raised over $4000. Other fundraisers were organized by Sonja Martinez and Dee Britt at Partners, Nick Post at the Copa, KJttT Bob Aimes ar the Boom, and at the Pride Festival as well as individual house parties. Greer said these fundraisers would happen again next year and into the future. In 2009 eight organizations were awarded grants to continue their work to help those living with HIV. Earnings from the 2010 AIDS Walk will be announced on the AIDS Walk OKC ,vebsite by October 1. Grants to organizations will be given out after the yearly World AIDS Day Remembrance Service at Mayflower Congregational Church December 1. Organizations helping those living with HIV with 501C3 IRS status can apply for a grant online from October 1 through 31. To apply for a grant or for more information go to www.aids~valkokc.org. @ The Copa, Oklahoma City @ Finishline, Oklahoma City 18 ~ October 1, 2010 @ OKC AIDS WALK 2010 @ OKC AIDS WALK 2010 �By Ed Sikov Ed Sikov is the author ofDark Victory; 7he Life ofBette Davis and other books aboutf!_/ms andfilmmakers. "Look, darling! A cocl ail just for us!" The puppies were in residence that weekend, which meant the rest of us gorged on calorie-free eye candy, since the boys were untouchable. The best we could do was smell them. Robbie had a distinct personal funk that shifted a little from day to day: top notes of salt water with middle notes of two rank men - Robbie and the previous night’s trick. Kyle, on the other hand, always smelled faintly of Dr. Bronner’s peppermint soap, which blended with his naturally sweet disposition to create aromatically the ideal playmate, soulmate, best friend, husband and ultimately survivor, weeping over the grave even as he inherits the fortune. I had a major crush on him. CNN’s prepster-geek reporter Jack Fogg showed up, too, along with his glorious boyfriend, Sammy. Dan came straight from the airport (conference in Cleveland) in a stressed, must-be-medicated state. And with the angel of cocktail creation smiling upon us, it was Craig’s weekend as well. If you found yourself in a Tarantinodesigned slaughterhouse with a large enough beam balance, you could hang Craig on one hook and the rest of us on the opposite end, and Craig would still remain on the ground. Not really, but in the Pines, Craig felt like (and frankly looked like) a mastodon. But he adored the beach and loved Our house, so he braved the stares and not-even-stifled laughs of skinny, giggling twinkles who didn’t have a quarter of Craig’s wit. He dismissed them Bugs Bunny-style as "maroons." We were all in the living room late on Saturday afternoon when Craig, as though by instinct, launched into one of his routines: a frightfully accurate imitation of a certain glamorous 1950s song belter. He ran through bits from _It’s Always Fair Weather_ and _Kismet_, and even the song she sings (uncredited) in Bette Davis’s -~Mr. Skeffington. I was, as usual, enthralled and applauded at the end; Dan grinned with joy. Craig’s Dolores Gray was phenomenal. He even claims to have coached Lypsinka. clearly that not al! Oklahomans shared the vision of the Federal legislation. At a recent meeting of leaders of LGBT organizations held at the headquarters of the Cimarron Alliance Foundation, the FBI agents announced they will be presenting three forums on hate crimes. The public meetings will be held on October 5 in Oklahoma City, October 6 in Tulsa and October 7 in Muskogee, with the FBI represented by Jim \Vindsor,/hny Koons and Doug Straight. The purpose of these forums is to assure the LGBT communitT of the privacy- to be Jack and Sammy were polite but dueless. Kyle said, with wide-eyed wonder, "Wow! You’re really good! Who was that? She’s amazing!" At which point Robbie Stood up, stretched dramatically to show off his chilired treasure trail, and announced, "Why do bitter queens love clownish women from old movies nobody else cares about? I’m too young for this. I won’t be back for dinner." And out the door he strolled. ’~sshole," said Kyle. Dan seethed. Jack and Sammy kept their mouths shut; they probably agreed with Robbie but were too polite to say it. I was offended across the board - for Craig, for old movies, for the late Dolores Gray- and was paralyzed with outrage. "Robbie’s hot," Sammy observed. Jack threw a pillow at him. "Eureka!" Craig declared. "I have just invented a cocktail to celebrate the revelation that Robbie is an agent of Satan. I always thought there was something suspicious about that flaming red hair. Gents? xX/-ho would like a Bitter Queen?" "What goes into a bitter queen?" Kyle asked innocently. "Nothing! That’s the problem!" Craig batted back. Here’s Craig’s incredibly simple and quite delicious recipe. We collectively added the descriptive details during a slightly sodden dinner: T~ne Bitter Queen Take last night’s martini glass with the dregs still in it, and toss the dregs in the sink. Don’t rinse out the glass. Add a bit too much Jameson Irish Whiskey and three or four dashes of Angostura Bitters. Plunk a single, pathetic ice cube into the glass. Fo~ the full effect, drink it alone. Variation: "The Bitter Old Queen": use Jameson 12-year Special Reserve. N expected when reporting crimes, the interest the FBI has in bringing perpetrators of hate crimes to justice, and to introduce members of various legal and criminal investigation agencies who want to eliminate hate crimes. For more information on the forums or to report a hate crime, contact Cimarron Alliance Foundation at intb@cimarronallince. org, www.crimarronalliance.org, or the FBI at James.straight@ic.fbi.gov. Does that mean divorce is imminent for ~he soon-to-be newlyweds? "I got my prenup all set," she says. "Signed, sealed and delivered!" Lampanelli’s always on top of it, always getting the last laugh; she clobbers the hell out of mankind (gay kind, bla& kind, old kind, handicap kind) with a mouth that never lets up - onstage, during TV interviews, during this interview. She toned her dirtiness down for a recent _Chelsea Lately_ appearance, but that wasfft all that seemed unusual: Viewers, myself included, sensed awkwardness between the comedian and the show’s host, Chelsea Handler. Lampanelli settles that: "No, you read it wrong, because when we came offwe were like, ’Oh my god, wasn’t that so much fun?!’ like two giddy schoolgirls. You know what it is? You faggots love to stir up trouble! Like, ’Hey, let’s make Kathy Griffin hate Lisa; hey, let’s make Lisa hate Margaret Cho.’ Well, guess what? You don’t have to make me hate Margaret Cho ... because I already do!" Lampanelli backpedals, slipping out a light laugh that’s more sweet than sour, and says she doesn’t really abhor Cho, a constant among her targets. She doesn’t even know the fellow queer-loved comedian, but "I always have to make fun of her because she’s a dirty Asian." So there’s no rivalry among female comedians? "Not from where I sit, because I’m, like, better than them all," she explains, mentioning that Handler is actually producing her upcoming reality show that’s still in negotiations and can’t be discussed. "There’s none between me and Kathy because she’s tough, man. She doesn’t care whom she fucks with; that’s beautiful! A lot of people allude to celebrities, but she just says it, and I’m like, that’s balls! I love that." B ut Lampanelh"’s own saucy remarks sweep up lots of attention, too, just as they did after she opened the _Roast of David Hasselhoff_ in August on Comedy Central, where she’s also roasted Joan Rivers, Pamela Anderson and William Shatner (next up, she hopes: "The fat lesbian roast. I’d love to do Rosie O’Donnell ... and Oprah Winfrey.’) For Hasselho~s time in the hot seat, Lampanelli said his black and bloated liver could’re starred in _Precious_ and that his career "has crumbled worse than downtown Haiti." Even Perez Hilton thought it was too appreciate the comedy more than what they’re saying. These were really clever and I said, ’OK, this is not affecting me.’" Lampanelli breaks off for a bit, mulling over her thoughts a little more until she swings back in: "I mean, it hasn’t yet. Oh my god, maybe now that you mention it I’ll go and binge this afternoon. You faggot, leave it to you to fuck up my life!" Payback’s a bitch, Lisa. from 5 to 12 nights and start around $1,800 per person. Shorter day trips are also available on the Alaska Railroad - among the most rewarding itineraries are the ride from Anchorage to Denali (starting around $150), and the Glacier Discovery Trains to Grandview (starting around $85). Another great option is to book a trip with a local outfitter. Based in Fairbanks, Out in Alaska (http://www.outinalaska.com) is a highly reputable, gay-owned tour operator that offers exciting trips, both camping (starting around $1,800 for six days) and hotel-based (from $2,500 for seven days), to some of the state’s mosvscenic areas. Out in Alaska trips typically last a week to 10 days, have 5 to 10 participants, and include meals, transportation within the regions visited, activities, and - in the case of camping - gear. Some Out in Alaska trips are oriented primarily toward sightseeing and might cover major national parks (Denali, Kanai Fjords, Wrangell-St. Elias) and the regions around Fairbanks and Anchorage. The more activitydriven trips - which can be themed around glacier trekking, hiking, rafting, or kayaking - venture into the state’s remote wilderness, from the Arctic National Wildlife Refuge to the Yukon or Copper rivers. The company also organizes small LGBT group adventures on some Of the mainstream cruises offered through the Inside Passage. However you explore this majestic land, it’s absolutely worth the time and effort to get yourself up here - and to plan on spending a minimum of seven days. When even seasoned travelers talk about "trips of a lifetime" and "most memorable travel experiences," they’re often referring to adventures they’ve undertaken in Alaska. much. "Oh, she just had her period! She was just a little annoyed, and I get it," Lampanelli says. "But where’s the line? And who’s gonna draw it, some arbitrary FCC or whatever? If you can make it funny - which I obviously did, because I’m, like, the best comedian who ever lived! - then obviously it has not gone too far." When Lampanelli was on the receiving end, the roasters went for the obvious - her love for black men and her voluptuous size. After opening up about her self-esteem battle in her book _Chocolate, Please: My Adventures in Food, Fat, and Freaks_, recently out in paperback, you might wonder if she was more affected than she looked. Not this time, she says. "If they’re funny, I don’t mind them. And they were funny," Lampanelli says, naming Gilbert Gottfried as her favorite that night. "In the past there’s been .jokes that aren’t that great and you’re just like, that kind of hurts. But when the joke is really good, you almost Others also welcome this measure as another sign of progress for Tulsa. Tulsa Human Rights Commission Chairman Tommy Chesbro stated, "It is exciting to see Tulsa moving forward and being more inclusive of all our citizens." Others are not so optimistic. As Tulsan m McGregor put ~t, On the student end I th~nk theyre be,ng set up for failure because school might be a relatively safe zone, but when they get out into the real world in Oklal~oma they will find that they can be freely and openly discriminated against and not only is it legal, but there will be plenty of political leaders around to say that it is perfectly acceptable too." Oldal~omans for Equality is encouraging members of the community to contact t~e Tulsa Board of Education (www.tulsaschools. org/district/admin.shm) to thank the board members for this progressive and courageous step to~vards providing Safety and a better learning environment ~br all students and teachers, especially those of the GLBT community. @ �Chuck 8reckenddge by Greg Fox 88T "gq~cthcr buying or selling I’ll work hard tbr you. 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Focus on the relationship you have (or the one you want), and be honest about where your sexual needs aren’t being met. TAURUS (April 20 - May 20): Your plans with your friends may be farfetched, even utterly impractical. Don’t push too hard; be open to trimming your sails to a steadier process and a more reliable goal. Share your opinions, but let others take the lead. GE~’~NI (May 21- June 20): You will be noticed; don’t worry about that! Trying to get noticed will only make you look like a grandstanding egoman~ac. Play it cool; focus on your work. Innovative approaches modestly advanced will get you the attention you want. SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 20): Reaching for the future may be more comfortable than resolving erupting issues from the past, but the latter is your foundation so make sure you deal with that. Friends offer perspective and distraction. Be careful to distinguish between the two. CAPRICORN (December 21 January 19): Two paths ahead of you: One is bright and brilliant and offers lots of amazing thrills at considerable risk. The other is much duller and leads through hard work toward success. You know which road to take. AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): Your ability to collaborate and bring together diverse ideas is what will get you favorably noticed. Resist the tern ptation to show off your sense of economy and resourcefulness. That will just blow up in your face. PISCES (February 19 - March 19): Being your own brilliantly spiritual self will probably confuse people and maybe even scare some. Whether you actually win arguments, you may terrify your opposition. Channel that energy into quiet study. Cultivating an air of serene mystery will convey powerful sexiness. Across Story of Greeks that busted some Troians Ml-night bash 0 She played ~vith Sherman on The Jefl~)rsons !5 Brando~ last one was in Paris CANCER (June 21- July 22): Hey, Dorothy, click those slippers and take care of business at home! Wanderlust and the search for novelties are mostly counterproductive distractions, but they might inspire playful ways to pep up your domestic life. YOU Chuck and Larrv 12 Surre~ist Magritre !3 Reclined . 14 Hom~ st~ 6fHarper ~e 22 C0 ger eatcher LEO (July 23 - August 22): Are you out to your family? Raise issues that need to be discussed with them. Still, be careful not to spill too much info. Meaningful relationships deserve openness; tawdry adventures and intimate details are nobody else’s business. WRGO (August 23 - September 22): Don’t shy away from the tough issues with your partner, but be careful not to be too provocative, smug or selfrighteous. It’s not about you. Keep the focus on what’s really important. LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): Retail therapy is just an enabling term for "shopaholic." Step away from the counter and get a realistic handle on your accounts. Yes, you are entitled to a birthday treat, but shouldn’t your friends and family be covering that? SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): It’s not all about you. On the other hand acting as if it were could unlock creative potential. Still, there is a time and a place for indulging in rampant egomania. 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Tami Marlin; a spokesperson for the Tulsa Public Schools stated that the Board revised the nondiscrimination clause of the district’s anti-harassment and non-bullying policy in accordance with recommendations from the Civil Rights Office of the U.S. Department of Education. \gith this measure the Tulsa Public School District joins the school districts of Norman nondiscrimination policies. The Oklahoma City School District also includes gender identity. Oklahoma GLBT and human rights organizations hailed the decision. As Kathy L. Williams Phd, President of the Equality Network, an Oklahoma advocacy organization for GLBT political and legal rights puts it, "By adding sexual orientation to the nondiscrimination policies, the board better ensures that all teachers and students will feel safe and secure in their working and teaching environment. "Ka-is Wiles, the Director ofAdvocacy for Oklahomans for Equality had this to add, "This has been a long time coming. We commend the Tulsa Public Schools for doing what’s right in leading the xvay to protect all students, parents and teachers from discrimination and bullying in our schools. Now they can focus on what they are there to do---teach and and Oklahoma City that already have sexual learn." .............. O ahoma US ofA By Victor Gorin Metro Star Team 2010 M*: Gay US ofA Oklahoma Dillon Gri~n with Mya Mokka Iman-Miss Gay Oklahoma US ofA 2009 U.S. Senate fails to move forward with Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell Repeal Measure likely dead for this year By Rex Wockner Lady Gaga in Washington DC to support ofDADTrepeal. Rex Wockner photo OICJ_AI-IOMA CITY, OK __ It was a fun filled evening at the Copa as handsome contestants vied to be the new Mr. Gay Oklahoma US ofA. Passing on the title was Warren G ( Joshua Warren Gately), who has garnered renown as a choreographer in various pageant systems. On hand performingfor the occasion was the national titleholder, Simba R. Hall of Georgia. It was kept lively, emceed by pageant owners Jack Calcote, Steve Davis and former Miss Gay Oldahoma Brigitte Lee. The winner was Dillon Griffin with the first runnerup Andrew BeShears. Both gentlemen will compete in the National Mr. Gay US ofA Contest in San Antonio this coming November 10-12 at the Saint, a well known nightclub there. For Mr. Calcote and Mr. Davis, it has been a busy year. Their promotional firm, Topfrog Productions, puts on not only Mr. Gay US ofA Oklahoma, but also Miss Gay Oklahoma US ofA at Large and Miss Gay Oldahoma US ofA Newcomer, which debuted this year. As Jack puts it, "It was a good year, exhausting but gratifying. I’ve met a lot of new performers, many who now are like sons and daughters." Next year Topfrog will feature the same pageants, with a new addition to be announced. WASHINGTON, DC __ The U.S. Senate failed by four votes Sept. 21 to end a filibuster by Sen. John McCain, R-Ariz., and move on to consideration of this year’s military funding bill that contains congressional authorization to repeal the Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell gay ban. The vote was 56 to 43. Sixty votes were needed to halt the filibuster. The measure already had passed the House of Representatives. Although Congress may opt to fund the military after the November elections, the provision repealing Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell seems unlikely to survive now, advocates predicted. "Today’s Senate vote was a frustrating blow," said Servicemembers Legal Defense Network Executive Director Aubrey Sarvis. "We lost because of the political maneuvering dictated by the midterm elections. Let’s be clear: Opponents to repealing Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell did not have the votes to strike those provisions from the bill. Instead, they had the votes for delay. Time is the enemy here. We now have no choice but to look to the lame-duck session where we’ll have a slim shot." National Gay and Lesbian Task Force Executive Director Rea Carey accused "politicians (of) playing politics with people’s lives." "Seventy-eight percent ofAmericans support ending Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell," she said. "The senators who led and supported the filibuster effort should be ashamed." Servicemembers United Executive Director Alexander Nicholson blamed Senate Majority Leader Harry Reid, D-Nev., for the !oss. "The votes to break the filibuster had previously been lined up, but last week ... Harry Reid decided to use an uncommon procedural privilege on the bill that eroded support for breaking the filibuster and guaranteed the vote’s failure," Nicholson said. "Intense lobbying and public pressure over the past week proved not to be enough to force either side to back down." Courage Campaign Chairman Rick Jacobs responded to the loss by saying the Justice Department and President Barack Obama should opt not to appeal the recent federal court decision in Riverside, Calif., that struck down DADT as unconstitutional. "We applaud the Log Cabin Republicans for initiating this case and we hope the Justice Department recognizes that it’s time to consign this discriminatory law to the dustbin of history," Jacobs said. Human Rights Campaign President Joe Solmonese said the filibuster "was electionyear politics at its worst." HRC sent a letter to Attorney General Eric Holder joining Courage in demanding the government not appeal the district court decision. ........Continued See DADT Page-5 os.e UoS. Marine Corps Veteran1 that can get the job done and I am to ask for y~r Vote ~n November 2! November 2" Friends of Wi|la "At Centu~ 2I Gold Castle oa BEST prope4ia are ourPEOK~’ METROPOLITAN COiVfMUNITY CHURCHES Rev ,Steve T. Urlle Spirit ot: Christ iVICC 2902 E 20th Street Joplin, MO 64804 417-529-8480 Worship Sunday 6:00 PM Community IVleal Wednesdays at 6:00 www.socmcc. Have a God filled and Blessed Day! 2 B~ocks West of the Habana 2 ~ October 1, 2010 OGLPC will be hosting Ca didates’ Reception sending Voter Guide- October Fellowship four years ago, their vision for it was simple; a Bible study with the goal of reaching people that came fi’om a contemporary charismatic church background. The idea has grown vastly into what is now Expressions Community Center, located on ’the strip’ in Oklahoma City. OI~AHOMA CITY, OK (PR) For many years t~he Oklahoma Gay & Lesbian Political Caucus (OGLPC) has been sending surveys on LGBT issues to candidates, and reporting the results to their members in a voter guide. ~his year the Voter Guide will include results from 132 candidates for state office, reporting their "Yes" or "No" responses to 11 questions. Most of the questions are not asked by the local media or other organizations, and many of the questions are not comfortable for candidates -to answer since they assume the majority of the population is not interested or will not vote for a candidate who believes in equal rights for all. Since only a few votes can decide an election, OGLPC believes that educating our community and registering people to vote is veW iinportant towards achieving the goal of equality. OGLPC is the only LGBT organization in Oklahoma to take on this task. With a mailing list of almost 4000, the Voter Guide is usefid information for the LGBT voting public, PFLAG members, and others, straight or gay. As a noprofit, non-partisan group, OGLPC does not endorse candidates elected officials. On Tuesday, October 19, OGLPC will host a Candidates’ Reception at the Belle Isle LibraW in OKC f,om 6-8 pm. Candidates will beOffered a time ~o speak briefly, answer questions, distribute brochures, and socialize over light refreshments. ~he library is located at 5501 N. Villa. just north of~~pressway,.berween Pennsylvania and May Avenues. Those attending will be able to register to vote, take a copy of the Candidates’ Smwey 2010, and become a member of OGLPC. The reception is free and open to the public. To become a member of OGLPC, contact the Board of Directors at ok_glpc@ yahoo.corn, or attend a regular meeting on the second Monday of each month. Meetings are at 7 pro, and are held at the Neighborhood Mliance building, a NrW 36th St and Classen Boulevard. Additional information is available at www.oglpc.org and on Facebook. Expressions Community Fellowship O treach "Together, we can make a difference" By Robin D-Town~end Metro Star Team OKLAHOMA CITY, OK __ gThen Pastor Neill Spurgin and his partner/husband Dean Coffman started Expressions Community Chuck Longacre ,_fRed Rock Behavioral Health Services in OKC, explains the testing process. 77srough Red Rock, Longacre helps staff Evpressions Community Outreach Center with trainedpersonnel at their location on the strip. Expressions has been through many a metamorphosis since the Bible study days. Their firs~ services were held at the OKC Farmers Market. ~lhe fellowship movedto Lansbrook Event Center and now the church and c0inmunit~ ~entei: hav~ found a fi~in~ on the strip. They are conveniently located iusr south ofNW 39th on Youngs Blvd. "As the Bible study started to grovv we saw a need to start a church," said Spurgin. When he met the current landlord Spurgin said, "We started talldng and I shared my vision on how I felt God wanted to bring His Love, Grace and Healing to the hearts of the LGBT community. I wanted the LGBT children of God to knmv that He loves them and that it was okay r. be gay and Christian." Within months of being on the strip, this church of 14 people had an 1800 square foot sanctuary built and ~vas ready for their first service, holding the inaugural service in June 2009. "We had our first service the Sunday after Pride 2009," said Spurgin. "By January 2010, we had outgrown our space. We then started construction on a 3,000 square foot addition to the property located in the same warehouse." By April 2010 they opened a new sanctuary by the 2010 summer they were out of room again and added 50 chairs to the sanctuary just this September. "We are now in planning phases for our next expansion that will double our sanctuary, prayerfully, by Valentine’s Day 2011," adds Pastor NeiI1. "Our vision for the Center is to expand into the entire property at the corner ofNW 39th Street and Youngs Blvd, so our community will have a true living and thriving Community Center." Spurgin also hoped he could bring HIV testing back to the 39th Street strip and through his persistence and the hard work of .......Continued see CHURCH page - 6 New Report Shows Serious Weaknesses in Oklahoma’s Higher Education Indusivity Policies 82% ofOklahoma’s Colleges and Universities do notprotect LGBTfaculty, staff, or students TULSA, OK (PR) __ A new report by the TEN Institute, the research arm of The Equality Network (TEN), reveals that many of Oklahoma’s institutions of higher education have yet to embrace full inclusivity for lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) students and employees. While there are a few positive standouts, 82% of Oklahoma’s colleges and universities have no policies in place to support and prorecr LGBT faculty, staff, and students. TEN Institute’s preliminary research shows that out of the 66 statewide colleges and universities: ° Only 11 have Compliance/EOE/ Affirmative Action Statements ~vhich include sexual orientation. o Zero include gender identity or expression in Compliance/EOE/Affirmative Action Statements. * One provides domestic partner benefits for employees. * Onl~ 12 have an LGBT student group or Gay/Straight Alliance on campus. "When we first began this research, we hoped that Oldahoma’s inclusivity protections in the higher education community would rival those of other states. While this is not currently the case, we are vety pleased to highlight those institutions who have taken steps to embrace equality on thei~ campuses." explains Kathy L. Williams, Ph.D., president ofTEN Institute. Those institutions with protections in place include: *Northeastern Oldahoma A&M (Miami), Oklahoma City Community College, Oklahoma City, University, Oldahoma State University for Health Sciences (Tulsa), Oklahoma State University Institute of Technology (Olm~ulgee), Oklahoma State University (Stillwater), Oklahoma State University (Oldahoma City), Oklahoma State University (Tulsa), Rose State College (Midwest City), University of Phoenix (Oklahoma City and Tulsa): all have nondiscrimination policies including sexual orientation. °The University ofTulsa provides domestic partner benefits. *Cameron University (Lawton), East Central University (Ada), Murray State College (Tishomingo), Northeastern State University (Tahlequah), Oklahoma City Community College, Oklahoma State University (Stillwater), Oldahoma State University (Oklahoma City), Southwestern Oklahoma State University (Weatherford), Tile University ofTulsa, University of Central Oklahoma (Edmond), University of Oklahoma (Norman), University of Science and Arts of Oklahoma (Chickas~ha): all have LGBT student groups and/or Gay/Straight Alliances. Dennis Rudasill, President of Oklahoma State University’s Sexual Orientation Diversity Association (SODA), noted a disjuncture between students’ increasing acceptance of their LGBT classmates and inequalities still embedded in university policies. "As a student, it’s easy to feel the attitudes of my peers progressing in the direction of open-mindedness and inclusion, but this index shows that our institutions of higher education are struggling to keep their policies aligned with this generational progress. Although I’ve never felt actively discriminated against by any member of my university’s administration, I ~vorry about passive forms of discrimination like rny university’s lack of domestic partner benefits." said Rudasill. In early August Campus Pride, a national organization for student leaders and campus groups working to create a safer college environment for LGBT students, released its annual Campus Pride Climate Index. The study awarded nineteen U.S. colleges and universities its highest ranngs for LGBT inclusivity - the largest number of institutions to achieve this status since the inceprion of the index in 2007. "TEN Institute is pleased that more and more colleges and universities across the nation are willing to stand up for their LGBT faculty, staff, and students, and provide a safe and inclusive environment." said Williams. "It is imperative that the Oklahoma higher education community work to recruit and retain the best and brightest amongst its employees and students, while respecting the diversity which comes with that effort. We hope that with the release of our Higher Education Fairness Index we can work with Oldahoma’s colleges and universities r. enhance those protections already in place, as well as encourage institutions lacking inclusivity language and programs to adopt appropriate policies to protect their LGBT employees and students." said Williams. TEN Institute will continue to solicit information on inclusivity practices and will integrate additional findings into irs Higher Education Fairness Index. Colleges and universities wishing tO partner in efforts to improve LGBT inclusivity- or to provide more data may reach TEN Institute at (918) 906- 2134 or info@theequalitynetwork.org. The entire TEN Institute Higher Education Fairness Index may be accessed at wwcc.scribd.com/doc/35962887/Higher- Education-Fairness-Index-August-2010 FBI Agents in Oklahoma to Hold Forums on Hate Crimes By Jeanne Flanigan and Victor Gorin Metro Star Team OKLAHOMA CITY, OK Agents from tile FBI ( Federal Bureau of Investigation) specializing in civil rights have been assigned to Oklahoma with tile purpose of educating the public about hate crimes committed against persons of the GLBT community. The Matthew Shepard Act was passed on October 22, 2009 to include crimes committed against persons due to their sexual orientation or gender identitT as hate crimes under Federal law, as ~vell as adding the categories of gender and disability’. However, soon after this took effect legislation was introduced in the Oklahoma State Senate in early 2010 by Republican Senator Steve Russell (SB 2165) that would have prevented the state of Oldahoma from assisting Federal authorities when a hate crime was committed not covered by the Oklahoma state hate crimes law, which does not cover sexual orientation or gender identity. Although this measure was stopped in the House by State Representative Mike Shelton, it demonstrated ........Continued See FBI Page-19 October 1, 2010 ~ 3 Race is on for State House 84, Brittany Novotny v Sally Kern By Victor Gorin Metro Star Team Brittany with AttorneyJackie Short. Gorin OKI~HOMA CITY, OK __ The smoke has finally cleared and the race is on. Although the filing ended with 4 candidates wing for the State House District 84 seat, the two others will not be on the ballot. Republican Garrick Voth was challenging Sally Kern for her party’s nomination for the General Election. Voth, a 34 year old Oldahoma City resident who described himself as a conservative Republican, also described Ms. Kern as ignoring the needs of her district. \Vhen publicity surfaced shortly after the filing that he had been arrested in Will Rogers Park last September, charged with attempting an act of public lewdness with another man ( the case is still pending), he withdrew from the race. The other candidate was Ray Pre~vitt, aged 40 and a resident of Bethany running as an Independent. Ms. Kern successfully challenged his eligibility before the Oklahoma State Election Board, and he was stricken from the ballot as he had not been registered as an Independent at least 6 months before the filing period as the law requires to be eligible. Brittany faces a three time incumbent who has for better or worse, undoubtedly attracted national and even some international notoriety. She replaced another conservative Republican, Bill Graves who was likewise famous for anti-gay sentiments when she was first elected in 2004. She was re-elected without opposition in 2006, and defeated Ron Marlett to win a third term in 2008. She is married to Steve Kern, the Pastor of Olivet Baptist Church and has2 adult sons. She had been a teacher at Oklahoma City’s Northwest Classen High School, teaching American Government and coaching the girl’s golf team. She led opposition to the book "King and King" being in the Childreffs Section of Oklahoma County libraries, claiming that the American Library Association is "trying to sexualize your children." She has made public statements stating that homosexuals are a bigger threat to our nation than terrorism, resulting in countless public demonstrations and demands for an apology; even generating a phone call from Ellen Degeneres placed from her national TV talk show. During July of 2009 she issued her "Oldahonaa Citizeffs Proclamation for Morality" at the Oldahonaa State Capitol in which she blamed our nation’s troubled economy on "same sex marriage, divorce, pornography, sex trafficking and other forms of debauchery". On economic issues she is likewise far to the right, opposing a minimum wage increase in Oklahoma in 2006 ~vhen it was $5.15 an hour, even requesting that a study be done to see how people living on that wage Could better budget their money. Although Brittany has already made history by being the first transgendered person to run for public office in Oklahoma, she isn’t running for that reason. She has publicly stated, " I understand that there are going to be some folks who will try to make this election about the fact that my medical history includes a gender transition, but I’m running for office because I believe I’m the best candidate to fight for jobs, education and transportation." Born in Chickasha, Oklahoma, Ms.Novomy graduated from Oklahoma University and went on to get her law degree from the University of California-Hastings and is now a practicing attorney. She is an active member of the Young Deraocrats, who elected her as a national committeewoman and also honored her as their 2010 Woman of the Year. Oklahoma House District 84 includes parts of northwest Oklahoma City, Bethany and Wart Acres. She’s ready for the fight and feels "I think our chances are really great. People are ready for a change." Oklahomans for Equality hires new Executive Director TobyJenkinsformer Board President ofOkEq is new Executive Director TULSA, OK (PR) __ The Board of Directors of Oklahomans for Equality is pleased to announce that they have hired Toby Jenkins as the Executive Director of the organization. He will begin his duties on October 1st, 2010. Toby Jenkins has served as the President of the. Board of Directors of Oldahonaans for Equality since October 2008. During his term as President the organization has: ~ Developed over 50 new ~veekly programs at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center ® Persuaded Tulsa City Council to add sexual orientation to their employee non discrimination policy @ Grew the membership to an all time high in the organizatioffs 30 year history @ Strengthened the relationship with Oklahoma City based Cimarron Alliance Foundation @ Expanded the volunteer staff from 43 in 2008 to over 150 in 2010 serving the LGBT community @ Implemented a Rapid Response Team for the victims of hate crimes and domestic violence ® Achieved record fundraising goals during an economic downturn Toby has a 13 year volunteer history with Ok~q. He has an extensive background in the legal community and has been employed at the Tulsa County Courthouse for 18 years and for the past 11 years has served as the Civil Appeals Clerk to the Oklahoma Supreme Court. He holds a BS degree in Criminal Justice and a BA degree in Biblical Linguistics and Pastoral studies. He has Masters in Theology and graduate work in the Sociology" of Aging. He has 2 grown and married children and 1 granddaughter. "It is a great honor to gvork for an organization that saves lives everyday. I believe we must do more to address the needs of our community and challenge them to step up to volunteer service" said Jenkins. "I have 2 things that I say everyday: Gays are good for Oklahoma and Everybody must serve. When our neighbors come to appreciate the helping hand we extend to them, they will demand that we be treated equally:" Largest LGBTQand Mly Event to hit the four state corners JOPLIN, MO (PR) __ An event sponsored by Spirit of Christ MCC; Kansas- Missouri Network ofMCC Churches and the Joplin Out & About 4 States Equality City a Network Weekend concluding with an MCC Homecoming Concert that will be the biggest this year to hit the four state corners. The worlcshops include "Communion Our Way; Isn’t It About Time?" "Matching Music to Worship," and "Liturgical Dance." The concert features Deloris Berry, Marsha Stevens-Pint, Susie Brenner & Linda Be&stead, Sam Sampson and Shawn Thomas with a special guest appearance of the MCC Topeka Drumming Circle. From gospel to contemporary Christian music there will be something for everyone. ~ae concert is free but a love offering will be collected to offset the cost of travelling of the performers with 100% of the offering going to the artist many ofwhom have traveled for years presenting their music to the community of the greater Joplin area. The concert starts at 6PM on October 9, 2010. All alliance groups, equality centers and accepting churches are invited to attend and have a display center during the day, free of charge. See www.socmcc.org for more details or call 417-529-8480. 2010 Sooner State Stampede TULSA, OK (PR) __ Sooner State Stampede Presented by the Sooner State Rodeo Association, 9 a.m. - 5 p.m. Oct 2nd - 3rd, Bridle Creek Horse Ranch and Resort, 5811 Roper Rd, Sperry OK (10 minutes north of downtown Tulsa). The 2010 Stampede will be a full rodeo featuring 13 events including Bull Riding, Bareback Bronc, Steer Wrestling, and some not so traditional events like Wild Drag and Goat Dressing. There will be additional entertainment as well as great food and cold beer. Tickets $15.00 single day and $25.00 two day, kids under 15 free. For more information visit: http:/£a~w. soonerstaterodeo.com/ Cimarron A liance to hold their Annual Gala Awards Banquet By Victor Gorin Metro Star Team Cimarron Alliance Foundation Executive Director Scott Hamilton at his 50th birthday celebration with well wisher Esther Baltie~’a OKLAHOMA CITY, OK __ At the Oklahoma History Center on Saturday October 16 the Cimarron Mliance Foundation will hold their Annual Gala Awards Banquet. This year’s honorees include Dr. David Macey who will receive their Torch W-orld, Don Hawkins & Mick Schirron who were awarded the Media Award, the Legislator Award which will go to 2 legislators, State Senator Judy Eason- Mclntyre and State Representative Mike Shelton, plus the Lifetime Achievement Award which will go to Margaret Cox. Featured as the guest speaker is Romaine Patterson, a ~vell lmown lesbian activist, author, OUT Qradio host, and a close friend of the late Matthew ShepaM. She will also host an after party- at Angles. For more information check out the Cimarron Alliance Foundation website at www.cimarronalliance. Federa ge s r kes , down Don Ask, Don Tell U.S. District Judge Virginia Phillips in Riverside, Calif.. struck down the military’s Don’t Ask. Don’t Tell ban on open gays in the military Sept. 9. Phillips found that the ban violates the U.S. Constitution’sguarantees of free speech and due process under the First and Fi~th Amendments. "The Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell Act infiinges the fundamental rights of United States servicemembers in many ways," Phillips wrote in her 86-page opinion. "The Act denies homosexuals stowing in the Armed Forces the right to enjoy ’intimate conduct’ in their personal relationships. The Act denies them the right to speak about their loved ones while sep¢ing their country in uniform: it punishes them with discharge for writing a personal letter, in a foreign language, to a person of the same sex with whom they shared an intimate relationship before entering military service; it discharges them for including information in a personal communication from which an unauthorized reader might discern their homosexuality. In order to justify the encroachment on these riFhts, Defendants faced the burden at trial oi showing the Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell Act was necessary to significantly further the Government’s important interests in military readiness and unit cohesion. De~ndants failed to meet that burden." Gay Saud d ploma seeks U.S. asylum The former first secretary of Saudi Arabia’s consulate in Los Angeles has requested asylum in the United States because he says he’ll be executed for being gay if he returns home. "If I go back to Saudi Arabia. they will kill me openly in broad daylight," Ali Abroad Asseri e-mailed media outlets in mid- September. Asseri said Saudi ot~cials oi’dered him home after finding out he’s gay and is friends with a Jew. He apparently has been in hiding since. The U.S. does grant asyluna to foreign gays if the U.S. is convinced they face genuine harm in their native lands. ~e laws treat gay asylum-seekers as members of"a particular social group." Saudi Arabigs entry in the United States’ 2009 State Department Human Rights Reports says: "Under Shari’a as interpreted in the country, sexual activity between t~vo persons of the same gender is punishable by death or flogging. It is illegal for men ’to behave like women’ or to wear women’s clothes and vice versa. There were few reports of societal discrimination, physical violence, or harassment based on sexual orientation. There were no organizations of lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. There was no official discrimination based on Worried about such a determination. conservative forces have been trying to find some other route to assure that the 9tl~ Circuit hears the appeal -- including pressuring defendants Brown and Schwarzenegger and pushing to add Imperial Count); located in the southeast California desert, as an official defendant. ~e 9th Circuit xvill inake the call on the county’s long-shot effort, probably in December. when it also will take up the question of whether the pro-Prop 8 activists have standing. If they do, the 9th Circuit xvill then move on to hear the appeal ofWalker’s actual ruling. If the activists do not have standing and Imperial County can’t become a defendant. the case is over and same-sex marriage is legal again in California. unless the activists arrempt to appeal the standing question to the U.S. Supreme Court. ~at. too, would be a long shot, many legal experts believe. They say the Supreme Court would be unlikely to conclude that displeased citizens can step into a state government’s shoes to defend a state law that the state government itself refuses to defend and, indeed, believes violates the U.S. Constitution. tn rejecting the activists’ latest move, the California Supreme Court denied reviexv xvithout comment. Phill.ips said the government~ contention sexual orientation in employ~en~ h~ugi!}.g, .... ,i ....... that letting gays be open in the military, statelessness, or access to education or health We expect the Justice Department h~m~ its run’tidYing i~ fully undgi~min~ bY ~’S~x~al 6timideSt-ion CoUld d0nsti~Ute the to recognize th~ ovet~¢helming evidence the fi~ct that the milita~T delays d~scharge of bas~s fbr harassment; blackmail, 0~ other that pr0ves DADT is unconstitutional,’ ~ys and lesbians who viOlate:DAD~ Until acti’ons. No such cases.we.re.re.p.or.ted." Soln~:0nese said. .... : they~retu.rn from c~o.mbat ~deploy.m.ent~, ~lne..e..nt~" conti¯nues..:.. ~av~~n j*unel~og;l’~~"yao~n ~~2etE%¢~UA~ resg~0nded b’."r cNlin- on Ine.six~ea.r7oi.~.ca.se~.Droug~t D~ tlle~,g"y pd~ce ar~ste~67 men ftom the Phmpph,es O~am, to ~ssu~ an e~ecuti~ orde~ suspen#ing group Log ~aDm ~epuDucans; w~ near~ , . ¯ . ¯ ~,, ~ ;, ,~ ~,, ),,1, for dnnk~ng and dressing m womens clotl~ng &scha~ges under DADT be~veen now and ........... ~*~ ,~, a~,,> at a private~ar~ Accord-ing to ~eir embassy[ the time that repeal is achieved Phillips said she will issue a permanent ¯ ,....; , ., injunction pr@ibiting th~ military from police released the men to their employers eour.~onms.ago, we as~d the presment enforcing Dont Ask, Dont %11. She gave while charges were being processed. In 2007 to stop military &scharges while the U.S. LCR until Sept. 16 to submit proposed the newspaper Okaz reported the public Congress haggled over our rights," the group language for the injunction and gave the U.S. government until Sept. 23 to respond to LCR’s submission. "She could at that point stay the injunction pending an appeal or, as Judge (Vaughn) Walker did (in the federal Prop 8 case), she could deny such a stay but grant a temporary stay to allow the government to seek a stay pending an appe~i from the 9th Circuit," said Jon Davidson, legal director of Lambda Legal. If no stay is issued, it is unclear whether Phillips’ ruling would take effect nationwide or just in California’s Central District of the federal courts. "This is an historic moment and an historic ruling for the gay military community," said Servicemembers United Executive Director Alexander Nicholson, who was ldcked out of the M’my under DADT. "_As the only named injured party in this Case, I am exceedingly proud to have been a~ble to represent all who have been impacted and had their lives ruined by this blatantly unconstitutional polio/. ~,We are finally on our way to vindication." Gay activists responded to the ruling by calling on President Barack Obama to cease enforcement ofD~T immediately and demanding that the U.S. Justice Department decline to appeal Phillips’ decision. flogging of two men in the city of Al-Bahah after being found guilty of sodomy. N~e sentence was 7,000 lashes." California Supremes rebuffProp 8 proponents The forces that want to keep Proposition 8, the voter-passed constitutional amendment that re-banned same-sex marriage in California, cafft catch a break. The state Supreme Court on Sept. 7 slapped down an effort by conservative activists to force Gov. Arnold Schwarzenegger and Attorney General Jerry Brown to defend Prop 8 in the federal case that was appealed to the 9th U.S. Circuit Court of Appeals after U.S. District Judge Vaughn W;alker found in August that Prop 8 violates the U.S. Constitution. None of the governmental entities that were stied in the federal case is interested in defending Prop 8, so the appeal to the 9th Circuit w~ filed by the activists who put Prop 8 on the ballot. It is unlikely; however, that the activists have "standirlg" to mount an appeal, since it’s not their job to defend California’s constitution. said. "He didn’t respond, and we’re now seeing the result ofthis complete lack of presidential leadership and courage. So we’re taking the fight back to the White House." "We need volunteers to help us hold the president accountable and meet him headon during this election season, asldng him at each campaign stop and at each fundraising part); ’\ghen will the discharges end?’" the direct-action group said. "Now its time for our ’fierce advocate’ to .step up to the plate for us." Nearly 80 percent ofAmericans support repealing DADT, according to a recent CNN poll If the Senate had passed DADT repeal and President Barack Obama signed it, nothing would have happened right away. That’s because oflanguage in the bill that delays.repeal until three things take place: the Pentagon completes a study by Dec. 1 on how to implement DADT repeal; Obama, Defense SecretalT Rdbert Gates and Joint Chiefs of Staff Chairman Michael Mullen certify that the military wilt not be harmed by implementing DADT repeal in accord ;with the Pentagon’s plans; and 60 additional days pass after the certification. @ October 1, 2010 @ 5 Handicapping the Prop 8 Appeal: A Photo Finish Horse Race By James Nimmo OKLAHOMA CITY, OK __ "Ihere has been much constructive talk, as well as arm-chair quarter-back style blogging and blathering in conjunction with California’s Prop 8 trial (Perry v. Sch,varzenegger, http://tinyurl.com/2utbpsd ) as to whether this is a good time for Ted Olson and David Boles, worldng for the American Foundation for Equal Rights (http://vcww. equalrightsfoundation.org/), to bring to the United States Supreme Court (SCOTUS) a case that could, if lost; set a precedent that ~vould allow the Religious Right’s discriminatory dogma to remain on the statute books as settled law. These proscriptions would be enforced despite the First Amendment’s first clause that denies a legal haven for any particular religious belief. Some of the squeamishness in presenting a same-gender marriage case to SCOTUS rotates around the center of the US Supreme Court’s current composition, namely Justice Anthony Kennedy, well known as the "swing vote" in many of the single vote majority decisions of the highest court in America. SCOTUS is currently balanced with four justices, each generally voting liberal or conservative with Justice Kennedy being the pivot. ( http://en.xvikipedia.org/wild/ Anthony_Kennedy ) Here is a golden nugget of gay equality history from Justice Kennedy’s prior time on the Ninth Circuit Court ofAppeals, the position he held prior to his appointment to SCOTUS. "LeBlanc requested a restraining order in Federal Court, and no less than now-Supreme Court Justice Anthony Kennedy was one of the woo Ninth Circuit Court ofAppeals judges who, while not ruling the ban itself was wrong [gays serving openly in the US military], surprisingly ordered the Marines either give him an honorable discharge or retain him until his case could go to trial. They chose the former." (http://tinyurl. com/23ugk69 ) Justice Kennedy wrote the majority opinion in the case Romer v. Evans, 6-3, that turned back the Colorado voter-passed Constitutional Amendment 2 that was the mother of anti-gay discrimination bills. Colorado’s Amendment 2 was even more broad than the subsequent marriage amendments in that it prevented any governing body in the state to offer legal protection to gay/lesbian citizens. Again in a major victory for gay/lesbian equality, Justice Kennedy delivered the majority opinion, 6-3, in the Lawrence v. Texas case striking down sodomy laws that criminalized private, non-commercial, sexual activity between consenting adults. Contrary to what flat-earth groups such as Focus on the Family or National Organization for Marriage want their followers to believe, having a voter-passed amendment added to any state’s constitution or civil code can and has been overturned by a state or federal supreme court. ~Pais principle of justice in the American legal system is vital to continued progress for rights as outlined in the Constitution and Bill of Rights can not be used as prizes in a majority voter raffle aimed at installing any particular religious or social view. Citizenship with its attendant responsibilities, obligations, and benefits should not be subject to partisan popularity. As Judge Walker wrote in his unprecedented ruling overturning California’s Prop 8 gay discrimination amendment, "In the absence of a rational basis, what remains of proponents’ case is an inference, amply supported by evidence in the record, that Proposition 8 was premised on the belief that same-sex couples simply are not as good as opposite-sex couples. W’hether that belief is based on moral disapproval of homosexuality, animus towards gays and lesbians or simply a belief that a relationship between a man and a woman is inherently better than a relationship between two men or two women, this belief is not a proper basis on which to legislate." (p. 132, http://tinyurl.com/2utbpsd ) Just as racists are at perfect liberty to retain their moral disapproval of interracial marriage, just as die-hard religious fundamentalists can retain their belief that a particular denomination should write laws of the country, moral disapproval of gays and lesbians, as ~vell as the content of our private lives, can continue to occupy their every waking moment as it has in the past. The only thing that will change with the full recognition of gay/lesbian citizenship will be the diminution of diversity-deprived, sexually immature adults to impose their private thoughts and neuroses on the rest of the country. Whether Justice Kennedy will be the deciding vote remains to be seen. His judicial philosophy indicates he adheres to precedent. His two opinions recognizing our gay/lesbian equality are good indicators of how he might vote in the inevitable appeal of Prop 8. However, the health ofJustice Ruth Bader Ginsburg is not strong. Considering the outcome ofthe November, 2010 elections, the majority party of the Senate will be vital to the appointment of a successor to Ginsburg. In the two and-a-half years of the Obama Administration, the President has shown himself not able to muster the "fire in the belly" needed to press for his court appointees. ( http:l/tinyurl.com129xbhr4 ) The two ne~vest justices appointed by Obama, Sotomayor and Kagan, have not been on the Court long enough to have a reasonable record of voting to draw conclusions. Court appointees don’t always adhere to the expectations of the appointing president, Justice David Souter being a recent example. ( http://en.wikipedia.org/wild/ David_Souter ) I strongly think the Prop 8 appeal will be decided not so much on the strong argument presented by Olson and Boles as much as on the accidents of health and political expediency. In other words, a real race to the finish. Further reading-- You can read more about Colorado’s Amendment 2 (Romer v. Evans) here: general information http!//en.wikipedia. org/wild/Romer v. Evans and the SCOTUS decision http://tinyurl.com/24xa2oc You can read about the overturning sodomy laws (Lawrence v. Texas) here: general information http://en.wildpedia.org/ wild/Lawrence v. Texas and the SCOTUS decision http://tinyurl.comhmvu4ry Tulsa AIDS Walk Saturday ,October. 2nd: 9am TULSA, OK (PR) __ Tulsa’s annual AIDS Walk. The Walk is only 2 miles and raises money for a great cause. The walk route is .from 21st to 31st along Riverside Drive Xgalldng Trail back to Veterans Park. Suggested Donation: $20, but anyone can walk without making a donation. You must sign a registration form ifyou plan to walk. The AIDS Walk helps mamy of the clients served by The AIDS Coalition ofTulsa. Visit the website and donate by using Pay Pal. http://www.tulsaaidswalk.org/You and your family and friends can form a walking team, collect contributions and bring your donations to AIDS Walk or send a check to the Tulsa AIDS Walk at Tulsa Community AIDS Partnership, 16 East 16th, Suite 202, Tulsa, OK 74119, Attention: Janice Nicklas. If you have any further questions contact Janice Nicklas at jnicklas@csctulsa.org or 918-949-0447. Proceeds from the Tulsa AIDS Walk benefit Tulsa Community AIDS Partnership (TCAP), a program of the Community Service Council. TCAP provides funding for the National AIDS Fund AmeriCorps Team Tulsa and local AIDS service organizations. T.U.L.S.A. to host weekend ofeducation & competition TULSA, OK (PR) __ The Tulsa Uniform and Leather Seekers Association (T.U.L.S.A.) invites you to Tulsa, Oklahoma October 8-10 for a weekend of education competition, and the Oklahomg Mr. Leather Contest. Friday night October 8 starts out with a Bar Crawl, leaving from Club Maverick at 8:00 pm traveling to local dubs and ending back at Club Maverick for the introduction of contestants and judges around midnight. Saturday afternoon three educational classes beginning at noon. The Oklahoma Mr. Leather contest is at Club Maverick, beginning at 9 pm. Leather Masters from Dallas, Texas ,;viii serve as the vendor. . Weekend registration is only $65 which will include entry to all weekend events, the hospitality suite located at the Days Inn, 1- 244 & Sheridan, the host hotel, and an OML 2011 tshirt and commemorative run pin. If you’d like to compete, advertise, or register to attend, head to http://v~,rw.tulsaleather.com/ and click on "OML"! N the congregation and supporters, that goal has been accomplished. There are npw are testing rooms, classrooms and a reception area for the Center. Through collaboration with other agencies, the center provides HIV testing and referrals 5 days a week, The Center is operated utilizing volunteers from the church and community, side by side with the Oklahoma AIDS Care Fund, Oklahoma State Department of Health, Red Rock Behavioral Health Services, Latino Community Development Agency and Guiding Right, Inc. "Expressions, as a church and a community center has most recently partnered with Other Options; Friends Food Pantry and Be the Change which will allow us to reach even deeper into the needs of the HIV/AIDS community and the homeless youth of Oklahoma City," adds Spurgin proudly. "We plan to add more space for HIV outreach and testing, as well as syphilis testing. We are also hoping to bring in an HIV/AIDS Case Manager here at the Center." They are currently in the fundraising stage to expand our services to the community. This will include building additional offices and acquiring additional square footage. Tnere are also a variety of support groups and classes held at the Center. "Our vision for the Center is to expand into the entire property at the corner of NW 39th Street and Youngs Bird, so our community will have a true living and thriving Community Center," Spurgin concludes. "I believe as long as we keep our heart focused on God’s love through relevant messages and opening our arms up to the community, through love and grace, we will continue to see more collaboration through the church and center so hearts can be healed." Located at 4010 N. Youngs Blvd, the Center is open Monday through Thursday from 10am to 9pm and on Friday afternoons from lpm to 5pm. Expressions Church services are Sunday mornings at 1 lam and Thursday evenings at 7pm. For more information please visit their website at www. ExpressionsOKC.com or call their office at (405) 528-2210. No matter who are on life’s -Ilte~erend ~r. K~hy 3131 ~. Pennsylvania, 405.5~5.9555 October 1, 2010 @ 7 Lyric eatre announces most ambitious season to date OI~AHOlvL~, OK (PR) __ Lyric ~l]~eatre, Oklahoma’s leading professional theatre company; announces its 2011 Season, incIuding Always... Patsy Cline (January 26- February 5); Boeing Boeing (March 30- April 9); Oliver! (June 21-25); Hairspray 0uly 5-9); Ragtime (July 19-23); A Chorus Line (August 2-6); Altar Boyz (October 12-22) and A Christmas Carol (December 9-31). Lyric Theatre’s new Artistic Directm; Michael Baron, wants to make Lyric ~eatre’s 2011 Season full of fun and excitement with eight great shows including Lyric Theatre’s new" holiday tradition, A Christmas Carol. During the 2011 Season, ~,ric Theatre will perform on two separate stages. Four shows will be performed at Lyric’s Plaza Theatre on N\V 16th Street and the remaining four shows will be performed during the summer at the Civic Center Music Hall in downtown Oldahoma City. Starting Lyric’s 2011 Season is Always... Patsy Cline. See countW music legend Patsy Cline come to life this winter at Lyric Theatre’s Plaza stage. This show introduces 27 musical renditions of her unforgettable hits such as "Crazy", "I Fall to Pieces,, "Sweet Dreams" and "Walldng After Midnight". Share the power of friendship betvceen Patsy and her number one fan, Louise Seger, before Cline’s tragic death in 1963. ~xis endearing true stoW combines humor, ,vith sincerity and gives fans a chance to remember the most acclaimed female countW vocalist of the 20th century. ~-ric presents its only pla~, Boeing Boeing, at the Plaza. ~xe Tony Awardwinning comedy is a hilarious 1960’s romp, immortalized by JerW Lewis and Ton~ Curtis on film, has a handsome bachelor juggling three international flight attendant fiancds. Lyric will continue its 2011 Season with Oliver! at the Civic Center Music Hall. Based on the Dickens novel, Oliver ~B~cist, this new production combines heartbreak and triumph, while delighting audiences with outstanding musical theatre gems like ~Food, Glorious Food", "I’d Do Bmything", "Where is Love?" and "As Long As He Needs Me". Dickens characters come alive once again through music and dancing for a new generation of theatre-goers to experience for the first time. The second show on the Civic Center stage is the Tony Award-winning fun-loving musical, Hairspray. ~atch Baltimore’s new teen celebrit3~ TraW Turnblad, a girl with big hair and an even bigger voice, as she dances her way into everyone’s hearts. En.joy hit tunes like ’~Mama, I’m a Big Gift Now" and "Welcome to the ’60s" that take Tracy from the crazy local TV dance show to d~e hippest downtown rhythm and blues record shop. In July, come to Civic Center and enjoy the Tony Award-winning musical, Ragtime. A show about a powerful portrait of life in turn-of-the-century America and a moving, relevant story for today: Based on E.L Doctorow’s distinguished novel, the musical intertwines the stories of three extraordinary families, as they confront history’s timeless contractions of wealth and poverty, freedom and prejudice, hope and despair, and what it means to live in America. The ultimate "Singular Sensation", A Chorus Line, will dance its way this summer onto the Civic Center Music Hall stage. ~lt~is timelessly stunning musical will astonish those who have ever had a dream for the Broadway stage. For 25 dancers, it’s the one opportunity to do what they’ve always wanted -- to have the chance to dance. With its brilliantly complex fusion of dance, song and compellingly authentic drama, you will love this brand-new production as Lyric Theatre re-invents a classic. Back on the Plaza stage, Lyric Theatre will perform its Oldahoma premier ofAttar Boyz. Altar Boyz is a foot-stomping, rafter-raising, musical comedy about a fictitious boy-band on the last night of their national "Raise the Praise" tour. The Boyz are five all-singing all-dancing heartthrobs from Ohio: Matthew,; Mark, Luke, Juan, and Abraham. Lyric will close its 2011 Season with a spectacular new Oklahoma holiday tradition at the Plaza Theatre, Charles Dickens’ classic, A Christmas Carol. Capture the magic and joy of Christmas as the ghosts of Past, Present and Future lead the miserly Ebenezer Scrooge on a powerful journey of transformation and redemption. With over 20 Christmas carols, beautiful costumes, and lots of snow! This timeless story ~vill get your family into the holiday spirit with a production that’s musically high-spirited and infectiously jolly. Current season subscribers may renew their season tickets now through October 29th. To become a season subscriber, ........... tickets go on sale November 1st, 2010. For the convenience of our loya! season subscribers, Lyric Theatre is providing three season subscription packages for the 2011 Season. Season tickets range from $94-$322 depending on what musical package you chose. Performances are on Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday nights at 7:30 p.m., Friday and Saturday nights at 8:00 p.m. and Saturday afternoon at 2:00 p.m. For information abofit the 2011 Season subscription packages or to purchase tickets go to www.lyrictheatreokc.com, call (405) 524-9312, come by Lyri.c Theatre’s ticket office located on 1727 NW 16 St., Oklahoma City, Oklahoma. Single tickets are now available for the remaining 2010 season shows ofThe Rocky Horror Show, showing from October 14-31 and December Divas, showing December 16-18. Call the Lyric Box office at (405) 524- 9312 or go to wv~alyrictheatreokc.com. Art Opening and E.xhibit o£Origina1 Works. stained, £t sed and cast glass £rom G ass Star-ion" TULSA, OK (PR) __ ~e October Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit oftocaI artists at the Dennis R; Neill Equality Center (621 E. 4th Street in Downtown ~alsa), will feature the art from "The Glass Station". The show begins with a reception on Thursda> October 7th from 6- 9pro and continues throughout the month. The October Oklahomans for Equality (Old,q) shmvcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E. 4th Street in downtown Tulsa), will feature the Art from "The Glass Statioff’ with creations by Carole Odearno, Judy Hopica, Angela Bland, Chris White, Valerie Greenhaw, and Sue Underwood The Glass Station is a place to come and create a vision in stained, fused or cast glass. People from all professions create their ideas for stained glass or fused glass to be given as gifts, added to their art collection or to enhance their home decor. The owner Danna Ozbun has been c~eating and teaching sta!ned glass for 16 years and fused glass fo~ 10 9d~ Valerie Greenhaw has been working with and teaching stained glass techniques for 10 years and fused glass techniques for 9 years. Sid Clanton has been creating and teaching stained glass techniques for 20 years. The show begins with a reception on ~ursday, October 7th from 6-9pm and continues throughout the month, w~vw. theglassstationok.com 918.258.3651. are By Steven Petrow &ez~e~ ..Pet~’o,# is tl~e g~thor of"7/3e E,sential BooL, ofGay Manners &Etiq,ette. "Send him your questioi~s at queeries@live.com. Online relationships are just like offline ones. Peeling back ~e layers of someone’s life and person~aliv shouldhappen in a gradual way, as you build up trust. October 1,2010 ~ 9 By Ronald Blake Contributing Writer Ronald Blake, Certified Fitness Inswuctor d~rou,gh [SSA b~t~rnational Sports &iences A~ociation How to begin! So how do you begin a new fitness t~’aining program? It starts with levity and fun. The key to life is to enioy that very thing...life. How to do that? Fun...fun with moderate doses of responsibility. As a fitness trainer, my iob is r. encourage you to take responsibility for your life. Maybe not quite to the degree of your friendly neighborhood preacher who pounds the pulpit and proclaims all homosexuals doomed to kiss the conflagration of hell because of their evil and irresponsible ways. I’m a kinder, gender more compassionate kind of fitness trainer, at least that’s what they taught me when I was still a straight boy in college. Then I saw the light when I ran into this self-absorbed fitness enthusiast who converted me into a rainbow flag-waving, Prada dressing extrovert and taught me that I too could earn a free toaster if I transmogrified three breeder boys to the dark side. No more tangent thoughts or digressions! This is a fitness column and I’ve gotta save you heathens from your licentious and hedonistic lifestyles! So as I was saying.., any fitness program you embrace should involve fun. Yeah, working out does involve hard ,york and dedication. We all know that. It should also be something you look forward to and get excited about. Otherwise, why do it? But yes, there is hard work involved and I would be remiss ifI didn’t mention that. Afteg all I come from a corn-fed Midwestern background that is engrained with a great work ethic! Wily else do you think fellbw Hoosiers like David Letterman, Orville Redenbacher, Kurt Vonnegut, and Michael Jackson would be so successful? During my numerous years of training dients and coaching high school athletes, I have stressed one thing and that is for them to simply enjoy the ride as each day passes. I involve trivia contests, singing, motivational handouts, music, vocabulary lessons, and endless anecdotes about my life into my training programs. In many ways I feel like an entertainer who tries to regale my clients with the lighter side of it all. Fitness trainin~ should be a method of escaping the harsh realities of the daily grind. It makes a perfect opportunity to channel any frustrations or aggressmns in an appropriate manner. I have informed my clients that they might not have control over what goes on in life but that they certainly have the power to control what goes on in their lives. ~lis control exists in workouts, training runs, bike rides, yoga classes, and other exercise routines. This control should be used when deciding the "who" and "where" of your workout. First who will you ~vorkout with? Choose someone who will motivate you, make you laugh, and validate the quality person that you are. Choose someone who is reliable, trustworthy, and goal-oriented. Choose someone who will help you change your life for the better. Then where will you work out? Choose someplace that has pretty curtains, Tiffany lamps, and leather recumbent sofas. What? It’s not really my cup o’ tea but hey, if it works for you then do it! You need to choose a place that fits your style and personality and a l~lace that wil! allow you to have fun during your workout sessions. Find that place where you can adjust the radio to any station and any volume. Find that place where you can tak~ offyour shirt and walk around flexing in front of the mirrors like you would at your favorite gay haunt on a Saturday night. Find someplace that is relaxed and understanding. We all want results when we begin a fitness routine. It just doesn’t need to be approached as a dreaded task. You have the power! You have the control! You can have fun! Two ofmy favorite motivational sayings are from Victor Borge and Mary Pettibone Poole respectively: "Laughter is the shortest distance between two people" and "He who laughs, lasts." This Creep ofthe Month By D’Anne xYgitkowski D’Anne Witkowski has beet, gayforpay since 2003. She’s afi’eelance writer andpoet (believe it!). When she’s not taking on thk creeps ofthe world,he reviews rock ),’ roll shows in Detroit with her twin sistrr "ToW Perkins" S_~: Brz~n Fleming claims thatgay soldie~" can’t be trusted becauseyou wouMn’t know ifthey had ’Tnapprop~v~te" motivesfbr wanting to beyourfiqenc£ 2Vever mind that DADTis a recipefbr mistrust since it’s a poli~ based on dishonesl): vmTbody loves a parade, don’t they? Especially gays. Mad gay-loving militaries the world over. I mean, with homos in the ranks. they aren’t much for fighting, but the)) can build a fabulous flotilla of floats. Or so ToW Perkins of the Family Research Council thinks. On Sept. 17, Perkins hosted a "Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell" panel at the Values Voters Summit, which is basically a circuit party for social conservatives - except there’s no dancing, since gyrations of any kind are the devil’s movements. Perkins claims "our military is under immense attack from within our country" because Obama has made it a priority r. "force the military to embrace homosexuality" regardless of "what the military thought." And to explain what the military thinks, Perkins was flanked by retired Lt. Col. Robert Maginnis, a senior fellow for defense policy at FRC, and Sgt. Brian Fleming, a young man injured twice in Afghanistan. Fleming claims that gay soldiers can’t be trusted because you wouldn’t know if they had "inappropriate" motives for wanting to be your friend. Never mind that DADT is a recipe for mistrust since it’s a policy based on dishonesty. Maginnis calls the U.S. military a "moralbased organization" (because it’s moral for a dude to kill another dude, so long as he doesn’t kiss another dude). And since no moral person would want to be around a bunch of queers, Perkins claims that ifwe let gays into the military ’’we will see Bible-believing chaplains being forced out of the military and not joining the military, leaving a huge vacuum." Letting gays serve openly would be to "just stab (service members) in the heart" and would be "suicide for an all-volunteer force," according to Maginnis. "That’s ~vhy countries ... that have the 10 largest militaries in the world say, ’No, this isn’t the thing to do,’" Maginnis says. Perkins chimes in: "~Well, those that do (let gays serve), they’re the ones that participate in parades, they don’t fight wars to keep the nation (and) the world free." The crowd bursts into applause and Maginnis responds, "Right." Except, you know, not right. In fact, not only are the countries that allow gays and lesbians to serve openly more than glorified color guards, several of them are actually U.S. allies. Take Israel, for example, where gay and lesbian troops have been serving openly since 1993. And then there are countries that have sent troops to Iraq and Afghanistan, including Australia, the United Kingdom, Canada, Germany, France, Italy and Spain. Now, I’m not a military expert, but I have a feeling these allied troops are doing more than dressing up as clowns and riding unicycles while throwing candy to smilirig Iraqi and Afghan children lining the streets (although I do admit I think soldiers dressed as mimes would be an excellent psychological warfare tactic. This responsibility would obviously fall to the French). Oh, by the wa3~ those countries "that have the 10 largest militaries in the world" and who also reject homos include China, Russia, North Korea and Egypt. As Matt Gertz of Media Matters says, "That’s generally not a list you want your country to be on where human rights issues are concerned." But that would be a real bummer. So Perkins makes a hilarious joke about tranny soldiers trying r, figure out which uniform to wear. And everybody laughs. Ban ’uptc¥ * Civil Rights *Criminal ’ment * Family Law * Litigation 13th S ree : CitV, OK 73103 the Nation’s Top ..............~~ October 1, 2010 ~ 11 i~ Hous~ How ~s Q r ~ncumb®nt David Dank 2 October 1, 2010 T CAND~ ~S YOUR ~NDEPENDT - A STRONG ENViRONMENTALiST - PRO-CHOICE ¯,. A SUPPORTER OF EQUAU~ FOR ALL O~LAHOMANS Lisa LarnpaneIli: One Mean Q,Eeen Comedian on gay marriage, celebrity roasts and how we screwed up~h~r life - By Chris Azzopardi There’s nothing like hearing a familiar voice on the other end of the line, and Lisa Lampanelli’s is just as I remember it: loud and mean, like she’s burping up Sue Sylvester. "What’s up you big fag face?" she razzes in her bawdy blurt. And I’d be shocked, like I admittedly was during our first interview just over three years ago, had this not been our fourth chat together. So how she’s doing now? "Sick of straighties!" she says. Which is unusual for the selfdubbed "Lovable Queen of Mean," who’s typically trashing the minorities. But the insult comic’s bad-mouthing, like the greeting she swooned me with, is just her way of sc0oping you up into a big bear hug and gently placing a soft kiss on your forehead, like you’d imagine ftom someone who looks as bingo grandma as she does. Ridicule doesn’t exactly express a tender fondness, but Lampanelli dishes it out fairly, so at least nobody feels left out. Now that’s love. She’s experiencing the real thing lately, falling for a guy she wouldn’t typically, if you know Lampanelli, go for: a white one. "I know - I’ve disappointed everyone," she pouts. "But he’s Italian, so when I tour the South he’s still looked at like a colored, so it all works out." The wedding is set for October at the historical Friars’ Club in New York, and unlike most stars, the Connecticut-born comedian’s hungry for any Idnd of publicity. Her people even suggested it as a talking point. "I’m whoring out everything, are you kidding?" Lampanelli admits. "Who wants to talk about their wedding? Me! ’Cause I’m, like, fucking romantic, okaaay?" Will she hire a gay wedding planner? "Nooo! Screw those dirty faggots. I’m not going to support you and your gay lifestyle. You guys should’ve listened to Howard (Stern) and heard my price because I’m not telling you, because you fucking faggots are all jealous of me and my $300,000 wedding ... oh, did I let that slip out?!" Then we logically jump into gay marriage, and in her own lovingly backward way she wonders why it’s such a big deal to us because "you have the best out in the world." She continues: "We should say yes to gay marriage but outlaw gay divorce and see how you like it." ........Continued See LISA Page-19 October 1, 2010 By Andrew Collins Andrew Collins cove,s gay m~velfor the New Drk ~’mes-owned website Abou~;com and is the a~thor ofFodor’s Gay Guide to the USA. Travel in America’s Las I recently returned from my second rrip to Americgs largest and least populated (by densiw) state, Alaska. ~ese facts aren’t a big surprise to most people, but sometimes it’s difficult to grasp the state’s sheer dimensions - for example, Alaska is about 15 times bigger than Pennsylvania, but Pennsylvania has 17 times the number of residents. Beyond coming up with startling (and geographically geeky) trivia facts like these, it’s difficult to describe Alaska’s terrain and scenery without resorting to trite superlatives. It’s truly a land you need to visit to even begin to comprehend. The leading highlights for most visitors are up-close views of massive glaciers (dozens of them in some areas), a fascinating array ofwildlife, and North America’s highest peak (20,320-foot Mt. McKinley, in Denali National Park). Alaska also offers some of the world’s most exciting kayaking, fishing, rafting, hiking and campir~g (not to menti0n’dog-sledding). This An excellent general GLBT resource for the state is BentAlaska.com, a website with events, news, and organizations of interest to the communitT, plus a list of gay-friendly businesses. Taking a Cruise in Maska Even if you’re not especially enamored of cruise vacations, traveling by boat is without question the best way to see southeastern Alaska’s scenery, including areas like Glacier Bay National Park and College Fjord. Many major cruise lines offer Alaska cruises, with Holland America Line (http://www. hollandamerica.com) and Princess Cruises (http://www.princess.com) offering the greatest variety of itineraries, along with the exceptional line of smaller, upscale ships, Cruise West (http://www.cruisewest.com). These are all extremely gay-friendly and gay-popular Cruise lines. Several GLBTis { state ric~:in his,tory- from indigenous oriented tour operators, notably RSVP culture to tales of Russian trappers and U.S. Vacations (http://www.rsvpvacations.com), gold-fortune seekers. And the abundance of Olivia (http://www.olivia.com), Atlantis delicious fresh seafood makes this a terrific dining destination. Alaskh is ideally suited to outdoorsy travelers, but - thanks to cruise ships and scenic railroads - it’s also relatively easy .to enjoy the natural beauty from a comfy and controlled environment. Is "Ihere a Gay Scene in Alaska? Let’s put it this way: I wouldn’t recommend traveling to Alaska expressly to partake of gay nightlife, or meeting other "family." Anchorage is a large, modern city with a couple of gay bars, induding the extremely fun and friendly dance club Mad Myrna’s (http:llwww.alaska.net!-madmyrna) - you’ll also find some excellent museums and many stellar restaurants in Anchorage. The state’s second largest city, Fairbanks, has a small but active GLBT scene, some of it tied in Alaska’s oldest college, the University of Alaska Fairbanks. Juneau, with a population of about 30,000, is the state capital and is generally considered the most progressive city in the state - a fair number of gay folks live here, and bars and restaurants are generally quite friendly. Also noteworthy is tiny but funky Talkeetna, midway between Bmchorage and Denali National Park. This cool little village is a great base for exploring Denali and a haven of free-spirits (it was the inspiration for TV’s Northern Exposure). Throughout Alaska. and especially around Anchorage, you’l! find many gay-owned and gay-friendly inns and B&Bs. There’s a good list of these at PurpleRoofs.com (http://www:purpleroofs. co m!usa/alaska/alaskaregion.hmal). (http://www.adantisevents.com) book all-gay charter trips on some of the major lines that ply Alaska waters, including Holland America and Princess, as well as Carnival (http:// www.carnival.com), Celebrity (http://www. celebritycruises.com), Norwegian (http:// wvw2.ncl.com), and Royal Caribbean (http://www.royalcaribbean.com). Also note that such ultra-luxurious lines as Silversea (http://www.silverseaships.com) and Regent Seven Seas (http://www.rssc.com) regularly visit Alaska. Even on cruises booked to the general public, you’ll nearly always find gay and lesbian passengers (and certainly some crew). And on these cruises, there’s usually at least one and sometimes several GLBT mixers or meet-ups onboard during the week. If you’d like to find other gay travelers booked on the same cruise, or read other GLBT feedback related to cruise travel, check out the gay/ lesbian cruising forum at Cruisemates.com (http://www.cruisemates. tom/forum/gaylesbian- cruising). I can speak very positively about Alaska cruises based on my recent sailing aboard Holland America’s exceptionally well-outfitted Statendarri. I traveled ~vith my family; seven of us altogether, and we chose a particularly glacier-intensive itinerary, through the Inside Passage, with calls at Ketchikan, Juneau (my favorite), and Skagway, plus a day each sailing through Glacier Bay- and College Fjord. I’m not, for the record, a general fan of cruise vacations - iust a personal preference, as I’m more partial to the freedom of road-tripping, and traveling without a set itinerary. But this Harvard Glacier is one ofthe highlights ofa cruise through Alaska’s breathtaking College Fjord. Holland kanerica cruise was a wonderful adventure from start (out of Vancouver) to finish (in Seward). And if you are planning a trip with a few friends or relatives, a cruise can be ideal in terms of logistics, value and the pure fun of sharing countless memorable experiences together. Alaska cruises range greatly in price, starting for as little as $600 per person, based on double-occupancy, with an inside cabin on one of the less-fancy ships that visit the region, such as the Carnival Spirit or Norwegian Star - this is also assuming you book during the shoulder months (May and September). For a stateroom with balcony on an upscale line like Holland America, expect to pay $1,500 or more, depending on the size of the cabin, the particular ship, and the time ofskiling (June through August are high season). And if there were ever a great time to splurge for a balcony cabin, it’s an Alaska cruise, as a huge part of the experience is observing the magnificent scenery from aboard the ship. If yon’re averse to organized-group travel, would like to combine driving your own car with traveling by ship, or simply enjoy the excitement and relative affordability of ferryboat transportation, consider a do-it-yourself version of an Alaska cruise: traveling the Alaska Maritime Highway System (http:// www.dot.state.ak.us/amhs/index.shtml). You can get around via this extensive network of state-operated ferries, just as many Alaskans get from town to town, either without a car or - at considerably greater expense - with one. This is an adventurous way to sail through the Inside Passage, starting either dmvn in Bellingham, Washington, or much closer to Alaska in the Canadian port city of Prince Rupert. The ferry stops at all the major towns in southeast Alaska. You can also sail via the ferry system through Prince \Villiam Sound and to Kodiak Island (with stops in Valdez, Cordova, Whittier, Homer, and others), or through southwestern Alaska’s remote Aleutian Chain, from Chignik all the way to Unalaska/Dutch Harbor. Again. traveling with a car and sleeping onboard in cabins can make this a fairly costly trip - figure on about $800 to $900 for two passengers, a car. and a cabin for a one-way trip from Port Rupert to Skagway. But you can choose an itinerary that allo~vs you to get on and offat a number of ports, and it’s still cheaper and allows for greater flexibility than a cruise. Touring Maska on Land Whether you reach Alaska by cruise ship, plane or car (the 2,300-mile drive from Great Falls, Montana to Fairbanks on the Alaska- Canada Highway is quite a memorable undertaking), it’s worth taking some time to explore some parts of the state’s rugged and largely unspoiled interior. Many cruise lines offer one-way itineraries (as opposed to "loop" itineraries, that return you back to Vancouver, Seattle, or wherever the cruise started). These begin or end in Alaska, typically in a port that’s relatively close to Anchorage, such as Whittier or Seward. This latter community, home to the superb Alaska SeaLife Center aquarium and Kenai Fjords National Park, is where my recent Holland America cruise ended. From here my family and I rented a couple of cars and explored the area, continued on to Anchorage, and then spent two nights up in Talkeema. Other notable areas within relatively easy driving distance ofAnchorage and the Kenai Peninsula include the charming little vacation town of Girdwood, which is home to upscale Alyeska Resort; Homer, a popular fishing town; and Whittier, which has kayaking and boating on Prince William Sound plus access to several stunning glaciers. Farther afield and also wellworth investigating are Denali National Par.k (4 to 5 hours north ofAnchorage), Fairbanks (2 hours farther north of Denali), and Valdez (6 to 7 hours east ofAnchorage). One way to explore the interior without a car, as far north as spectacular Denali National Park and on up to Fairbanks, is via the scenic Alaska Railroad (http://ww~v. alaskarailroad.com). Many Alaska cruises offer post- or pre-trip options that includes several days on the railroad, or you can book a your own railroad package, which includes riding the railroad’s gleaming railcars past incredible scenery, tours at different stops, and overnight hotel accommodations. These packages range .................Continued SeeALASKA Page-19 October 1, 2010 15 Photo’s by Victor G. Out &About in Oklahoma @ Tulsa Eagle, Tulsa @The Ledo, Oklahoma City @ Bamboo Lounge, Tulsa OKC AIDS Walk and Run Double attendance from 2009 By Jeanne Flanigan Metro Star Team O~HOMLA CITX~ OK The 2010 OKC AIDS xTchlk and Run was held on a beautiful Sunday September 19 in the heart of Bricktown, this time at Sonic Headquarters with double-the attendance from last year. AIDS \Valk Board President John Greet estimated that over 88 runners and over 1000 walkers participated this yeal; including Teleflora and AAA. Volunteers fi’om Dell Computers, \V-gaigreens, BancFirst, United \Ygay, Sonic, the Red Cross and others signed in participants, sold T-shirts, set up the course, and also provided water and relief to organizations that had booths surrounding the Sonic building. . The route for the \Valk was changed this year due to renovations going on at the Myriad Gardens where the festival had been held in the past, so Sonic generously donated their space for this event. Canopies for the booths were provided by OKC Pride. ~e booths ran along the north side of the Sonic building, facing the Bricktown Canal with a DJ on the canal dock. AIDS Walk OKC raises money for grants to nonprofit organizations that provide services for people living with HIV/AIDS. During 2010 AIDS Walk OKC has held fundraising awareness of the need for the vital services these organiz,~tions provide. An award was given to Johnny Norris and the Friends of the Hilo who have consistendy raised thousands of dollars for AIDS Walk OKC for the past 18 years with their Turnabout Show, which this year,raised over $4000. Other fundraisers were organized by Sonja Martinez and Dee Britt at Partners, Nick Post at the Copa, KJttT Bob Aimes ar the Boom, and at the Pride Festival as well as individual house parties. Greer said these fundraisers would happen again next year and into the future. In 2009 eight organizations were awarded grants to continue their work to help those living with HIV. Earnings from the 2010 AIDS Walk will be announced on the AIDS Walk OKC ,vebsite by October 1. Grants to organizations will be given out after the yearly World AIDS Day Remembrance Service at Mayflower Congregational Church December 1. Organizations helping those living with HIV with 501C3 IRS status can apply for a grant online from October 1 through 31. To apply for a grant or for more information go to www.aids~valkokc.org. @ The Copa, Oklahoma City @ Finishline, Oklahoma City @ OKC AIDS WALK 2010 18 ~ October 1, 2010 @ OKC AIDS WALK 2010 By Ed Sikov Ed Sikov is the author ofDark Victory; 7he Life ofBette Davis and other books aboutf!_/ms andfilmmakers. "Look, darling! A cocl ail just for us!" The puppies were in residence that weekend, which meant the rest of us gorged on calorie-free eye candy, since the boys were untouchable. The best we could do was smell them. Robbie had a distinct personal funk that shifted a little from day to day: top notes of salt water with middle notes of two rank men - Robbie and the previous night’s trick. Kyle, on the other hand, always smelled faintly of Dr. Bronner’s peppermint soap, which blended with his naturally sweet disposition to create aromatically the ideal playmate, soulmate, best friend, husband and ultimately survivor, weeping over the grave even as he inherits the fortune. I had a major crush on him. CNN’s prepster-geek reporter Jack Fogg showed up, too, along with his glorious boyfriend, Sammy. Dan came straight from the airport (conference in Cleveland) in a stressed, must-be-medicated state. And with the angel of cocktail creation smiling upon us, it was Craig’s weekend as well. If you found yourself in a Tarantinodesigned slaughterhouse with a large enough beam balance, you could hang Craig on one hook and the rest of us on the opposite end, and Craig would still remain on the ground. Not really, but in the Pines, Craig felt like (and frankly looked like) a mastodon. But he adored the beach and loved Our house, so he braved the stares and not-even-stifled laughs of skinny, giggling twinkles who didn’t have a quarter of Craig’s wit. He dismissed them Bugs Bunny-style as "maroons." We were all in the living room late on Saturday afternoon when Craig, as though by instinct, launched into one of his routines: a frightfully accurate imitation of a certain glamorous 1950s song belter. He ran through bits from _It’s Always Fair Weather_ and _Kismet_, and even the song she sings (uncredited) in Bette Davis’s -~Mr. Skeffington. I was, as usual, enthralled and applauded at the end; Dan grinned with joy. Craig’s Dolores Gray was phenomenal. He even claims to have coached Lypsinka. Jack and Sammy were polite but dueless. Kyle said, with wide-eyed wonder, "Wow! You’re really good! Who was that? She’s amazing!" At which point Robbie Stood up, stretched dramatically to show off his chilired treasure trail, and announced, "Why do bitter queens love clownish women from old movies nobody else cares about? I’m too young for this. I won’t be back for dinner." And out the door he strolled. ’~sshole," said Kyle. Dan seethed. Jack and Sammy kept their mouths shut; they probably agreed with Robbie but were too polite to say it. I was offended across the board - for Craig, for old movies, for the late Dolores Gray- and was paralyzed with outrage. "Robbie’s hot," Sammy observed. Jack threw a pillow at him. "Eureka!" Craig declared. "I have just invented a cocktail to celebrate the revelation that Robbie is an agent of Satan. I always thought there was something suspicious about that flaming red hair. Gents? xX/-ho would like a Bitter Queen?" "What goes into a bitter queen?" Kyle asked innocently. "Nothing! That’s the problem!" Craig batted back. Here’s Craig’s incredibly simple and quite delicious recipe. We collectively added the descriptive details during a slightly sodden dinner: T~ne Bitter Queen Take last night’s martini glass with the dregs still in it, and toss the dregs in the sink. Don’t rinse out the glass. Add a bit too much Jameson Irish Whiskey and three or four dashes ofAngostura Bitters. Plunk a single, pathetic ice cube into the glass. Fo~ the full effect, drink it alone. Variation: "The Bitter Old Queen": use Jameson 12-year Special Reserve. N clearly that not al! Oklahomans shared the vision of the Federal legislation. At a recent meeting of leaders ofLGBT organizations held at the headquarters of the Cimarron Alliance Foundation, the FBI agents announced they will be presenting three forums on hate crimes. The public meetings will be held on October 5 in Oklahoma City, October 6 in Tulsa and October 7 in Muskogee, with the FBI represented by Jim \Vindsor,/hny Koons and Doug Straight. The purpose of these forums is to assure the LGBT communitT of the privacy- to be expected when reporting crimes, the interest the FBI has in bringing perpetrators of hate crimes to justice, and to introduce members of various legal and criminal investigation agencies who want to eliminate hate crimes. For more information on the forums or to report a hate crime, contact Cimarron Alliance Foundation at intb@cimarronallince. org, www.crimarronalliance.org, or the FBI at James.straight@ic.fbi.gov. Does that mean divorce is imminent for ~he soon-to-be newlyweds? "I got my prenup all set," she says. "Signed, sealed and delivered!" Lampanelli’s always on top of it, always getting the last laugh; she clobbers the hell out of mankind (gay kind, bla& kind, old kind, handicap kind) with a mouth that never lets up - onstage, duringTV interviews, during this interview. She toned her dirtiness down for a recent _Chelsea Lately_ appearance, but that wasfft all that seemed unusual: Viewers, myself included, sensed awkwardness between the comedian and the show’s host, Chelsea Handler. Lampanelli settles that: "No, you read it wrong, because when we came offwe were like, ’Oh my god, wasn’t that so much fun?!’ like two giddy schoolgirls. You know what it is? You faggots love to stir up trouble! Like, ’Hey, let’s make Kathy Griffin hate Lisa; hey, let’s make Lisa hate Margaret Cho.’ Well, guess what? You don’t have to make me hate Margaret Cho ... because I already do!" Lampanelli backpedals, slipping out a light laugh that’s more sweet than sour, and says she doesn’t really abhor Cho, a constant among her targets. She doesn’t even know the fellow queer-loved comedian, but "I always have to make fun of her because she’s a dirty Asian." So there’s no rivalry among female comedians? "Not from where I sit, because I’m, like, better than them all," she explains, mentioning that Handler is actually producing her upcoming reality show that’s still in negotiations and can’t be discussed. "There’s none between me and Kathy because she’s tough, man. She doesn’t care whom she fucks with; that’s beautiful! A lot of people allude to celebrities, but she just says it, and I’m like, that’s balls! I love that." But Lampanelh"’s own saucy remarks sweep up lots of attention, too, just as they did after she opened the _Roast of David Hasselhoff_ in August on Comedy Central, where she’s also roasted Joan Rivers, Pamela Anderson and William Shatner (next up, she hopes: "The fat lesbian roast. I’d love to do Rosie O’Donnell ... and Oprah Winfrey.’) For Hasselho~s time in the hot seat, Lampanelli said his black and bloated liver could’re starred in _Precious_ and that his career "has crumbled worse than downtown Haiti." Even Perez Hilton thought it was too much. "Oh, she just had her period! She was just a little annoyed, and I get it," Lampanelli says. "But where’s the line? And who’s gonna draw it, some arbitrary FCC or whatever? If you can make it funny - which I obviously did, because I’m, like, the best comedian who ever lived! - then obviously it has not gone too far." When Lampanelli was on the receiving end, the roasters went for the obvious - her love for black men and her voluptuous size. After opening up about her self-esteem battle in her book _Chocolate, Please: My Adventures in Food, Fat, and Freaks_, recently out in paperback, you might wonder if she was more affected than she looked. Not this time, she says. "If they’re funny, I don’t mind them. And they were funny," Lampanelli says, naming Gilbert Gottfried as her favorite that night. "In the past there’s been .jokes that aren’t that great and you’re just like, that kind of hurts. But when the joke is really good, you almost appreciate the comedy more than what they’re saying. These were really clever and I said, ’OK, this is not affecting me.’" Lampanelli breaks off for a bit, mulling over her thoughts a little more until she swings back in: "I mean, it hasn’t yet. Oh my god, maybe now that you mention it I’ll go and binge this afternoon. You faggot, leave it to you to fuck up my life!" Payback’s a bitch, Lisa. from 5 to 12 nights and start around $1,800 per person. Shorter day trips are also available on the Alaska Railroad - among the most rewarding itineraries are the ride from Anchorage to Denali (starting around $150), and the Glacier Discovery Trains to Grandview (starting around $85). Another great option is to book a trip with a local outfitter. Based in Fairbanks, Out in Alaska (http://www.outinalaska.com) is a highly reputable, gay-owned tour operator that offers exciting trips, both camping (starting around $1,800 for six days) and hotel-based (from $2,500 for seven days), to some of the state’s mosvscenic areas. Out in Alaska trips typically last a week to 10 days, have 5 to 10 participants, and include meals, transportation within the regions visited, activities, and - in the case of camping - gear. Some Out in Alaska trips are oriented primarily toward sightseeing and might cover major national parks (Denali, Kanai Fjords, Wrangell-St. Elias) and the regions around Fairbanks and Anchorage. The more activitydriven trips - which can be themed around glacier trekking, hiking, rafting, or kayaking - venture into the state’s remote wilderness, from the Arctic National Wildlife Refuge to the Yukon or Copper rivers. The company also organizes small LGBT group adventures on some Of the mainstream cruises offered through the Inside Passage. However you explore this majestic land, it’s absolutely worth the time and effort to get yourself up here - and to plan on spending a minimum of seven days. When even seasoned travelers talk about "trips of a lifetime" and "most memorable travel experiences," they’re often referring to adventures they’ve undertaken in Alaska. Others also welcome this measure as another sign of progress for Tulsa. Tulsa Human Rights Commission Chairman Tommy Chesbro stated, "It is exciting to see Tulsa moving forward and being more inclusive of all our citizens." Others are not so optimistic. As Tulsan m McGregor put ~t, On the student end I th~nk theyre be,ng set up for failure because school might be a relatively safe zone, but when they get out into the real world in Oklal~oma they will find that they can be freely and openly discriminated against and not only is it legal, but there will be plenty of political leaders around to say that it is perfectly acceptable too." Oldal~omans for Equality is encouraging members of the community to contact t~e Tulsa Board of Education (www.tulsaschools. org/district/admin.shm) to thank the board members for this progressive and courageous step to~vards providing Safety and a better learning environment ~br all students and teachers, especially those of the GLBT community. @ by Greg Fox ~ebsite- www.kylecomics.com E-MM1- KylesBnB@aol.eom emaih bittergirl@qsyndicate,com 20 ~ October 1, 2010 Chuck 8reckenddge 88T "gq~cthcr buying or selling I’ll work hard tbr you. 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TAURUS (April 20 - May 20): Your plans with your friends may be farfetched, even utterly impractical. Don’t push too hard; be open to trimming your sails to a steadier process and a more reliable goal. Share your opinions, but let others take the lead. GE~’~NI (May 21- June 20): You will be noticed; don’t worry about that! Trying to get noticed will only make you look like a grandstanding egoman~ac. Play it cool; focus on your work. Innovative approaches modestly advanced will get you the attention you want. CANCER (June 21- July 22): Hey, Dorothy, click those slippers and take care of business at home! Wanderlust and the search for novelties are mostly counterproductive distractions, but they might inspire playful ways to pep up your domestic life. LEO (July 23 - August 22): Are you out to your family? Raise issues that need to be discussed with them. Still, be careful not to spill too much info. Meaningful relationships deserve openness; tawdry adventures and intimate details are nobody else’s business. WRGO (August 23 - September 22): Don’t shy away from the tough issues with your partner, but be careful not to be too provocative, smug or selfrighteous. It’s not about you. Keep the focus on what’s really important. LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): Retail therapy is just an enabling term for "shopaholic." Step away from the counter and get a realistic handle on SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 20): Reaching for the future may be more comfortable than resolving erupting issues from the past, but the latter is your foundation so make sure you deal with that. Friends offer perspective and distraction. Be careful to distinguish between the two. CAPRICORN (December 21 - January 19): Two paths ahead of you: One is bright and brilliant and offers lots of amazing thrills at considerable risk. The other is much duller and leads through hard work toward success. You know which road to take. AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): Your ability to collaborate and bring together diverse ideas is what will get you favorably noticed. Resist the tern ptation to show off your sense of economy and resourcefulness. That will just blow up in your face. PISCES (February 19 - March 19): Being your own brilliantly spiritual self will probably confuse people and maybe even scare some. Whether you actually win arguments, you may terrify your opposition. Channel that energy into quiet study. Cultivating an air of serene mystery will convey powerful sexiness. Across Story of Greeks that busted some Troians Ml-night bash 0 She played ~vith Sherman on The Jefl~)rsons !5 Brando~ last one was in Paris 1 Simpson trial judge Lance 2 Avoid premature eiaculation 3 Nothing to brag about 4 Tutti-fi’utti ingredient 5 The Sound of MUsic song 6 Takes five your accounts. Yes, you are entitled to a birthday treat, but shouldn’t your friends and family be covering that? SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): It’s not all about you. On the other hand acting as if it were could unlock creative potential. Still, there is a time and a place for indulging in rampant egomania. Keep it where it belongs, and dig for those deep inner truths. Community for People iving H V/A DS 501 c (3) Non P~o£t Organization Our House, Too offers a variety of activities for people who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS to hel p combat the social isolation that many of our people live through each and everyday. We provide a Toiletry and Household Pantry for those who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS who cannot afford to purchase these items for themselves. 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Suffering from abandonment and crime in the 60’s and 70’s, a renaissance began in the early 80’s when Brady Heights was placed on the National Register of Historic Places. Scheduled Events for Summer Diversity Weekend Eureka Springs Arkansas. August 3-5th In April 1954, Los Angeles station KTTV ran a program called Confidential File featuring a policeman, a psychiatrist, and a gay man, Dale Olson. SUMMER WINES: She said "I want to discover new white wines for the warm weather and the wines must be ABC." Gay Travelers: St. Louis, Missouri Out of Town: Portland, Oregon Dining In or OUT Approximately, 50,000 served prison terms as convicted homosexuals, while an unknown number were institutionalized in mental hospitals. Ferguson could be the first openly transgender candidate for President. BOOKS This book will help you to live authentically and achieve your dreams. You can embrace who you are, get ,vhat you want, and make a difference in the world. Love, money, joy, peace, power and passion can be yours. STAR DISTRIBUTION: OKLAHOMA CiTY TULSA LAVVTON MCALESTER * ENID * LITTLE ROCK * NORTH LITTLE RODK * FAYETTEVtLLE * FT SMITH * EUREKA SPRINGS * HOT SPRINGS * BENTONVILLE * ROGERS * KANSAS ON THE COVER: EUREKA SPRINGS, ARKANSAS 4 the STAR CITY * SPRINGFIELD * JOPLIN * BRANSON AREA* WICHITA* PITTSBURG * JUNCTION CITY www.ozarksstar.com �Home Tour sllated for O dest Historic District "Brady Heights" Green Renovation Home Tour 2007" TULSA, OK___On Sunday, October 14th residents of Brady Heights, Tulsa’s oldest historic district, will open their homes to the public for a neighborhood tour of some of the State’s most original and historic homes, as part of Oklahoma’s Centennial celebration. Oklahoma’s early political, mercantile, oil, spiritual and social leaders made Brady Heights their home in an era that spanned Territorial Days through the 1930s. The homes vary in style and design from Victorian and American Foursquare Style, through to the Wright inspired Prairie Style and the Craftsman Bungalow Style. Residents have lovingly restored the homes and guests will be treated to casual discussions by the homeowners relating the history of their home and the machinations they Went through to restore them. Many of the homes still retain original details such as: leaded glass, carriage houses, craftsman made detailing and broad front porches. The tour provides a unique look into the preservation of Oklahoma’s architectural history while highlighting resource conversation. Visitors will have the opportunity to review the resource-conserving materials and practices used in these historic restorations as well as talk with providers of"greeff’ products and technologies. Brady Heights abuts the Brady Arts District and lies on North Denver and North Cheyenne Avenues. The tour will start at 12 noon on Sunday, October 14th and begins at the Centenary United Methodist Church, 621 N. Denver Ave. The fee is $7.50 for adults and $3.00 for children under seventeen with no charge for children under twelve. Tickets will be available until 4pm the day of the event and the tour ends at 5pm. Advance tickets are available at www.bradyheights. com. Proceeds will benefit community projects of the Brady Heights Neighborhood Association. www.ozarksstar.com Brady Heights has a spectacular history of rebirth. Suffering from abandonment and crime in the 60’s and 70’s, a renaissance began in the early 80’s when Brady Heights was placed On the National Register of Historic Places. The most diverse neighborhood in Tulsa, Brady Heights boasts a co!lection of families and individuals of all races, income ranges, ages, sexual orientations and religions. Proud urban pioneers were guaranteed continued historic integrity of their homes and neighborhood when the Brady Heights Historic District was granted the Historic Preservation Overlay Zoning by the City of Tulsa. For more information about Brady Heights mad The Historic Home Tour, please visit www.bradyheights.com. the STAR 5 �DC, Dan Boren, voted against our LGBT citizenship, but then he was swimming upstream against the popular tide with the minority of House GOP’ers. By James Nimmo OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__ I’m a big fan of the Internet and think it’s one of the most momentous advances in human communication since our hairy, howling, humanoid ancestors developed spoken language. I say against the tide because a recent NYTimes poll indicated that 75% of DEMOS and 49% of GOP’ers thought same-gender couples should have marriage equality or civil marriage. Can it be anymore clear that the people are ahead, the engine is in front of the caboose. Now, the electronic Internet takes care of distance and time, while cell phones introduce the convenience of mobility in communication. A recent report tabulating the current roster of presidential candidates published by the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force (NGLTF, www.thetaskforce.org) shows that based on the candidates’s own words, all the DEMOS support ENDA and MSA, while the GOP’ers have disdain or no opinion. With DOMA and DODT the count is much the same. But some DEMOS are dragging their feet in regard to same-gender marriage. Only Kucinich and Gravel clearly support unequivocally full-blown same-gender marriage. TXT MSGing (text messaging) has caught on in a big way. It allows frequently used expressions to be condensed to acronyms and abbreviations for quick notes to be displayed in the small confines of the cell phone display window. IMO, we LGBT people need to tell our candidates to get on the equality train. Never before have our issues been so prominently in the spotlight of public view and we need to push our candidates, regardless of party, to keep the light on fairness and parity. "l-he American LGBT equality movement has its own list ofTXT MSG acronyms that represents the core of discrimination still being directed at us, even as many countries in western Europe, the Southern Hemisphere, Canada, and Mexico have recognized the inherent right of their own LGBT citizens to the legal equality of a modern, humane society. BTW, CUA, and THX for reading. EOM. Then, with Gutenberg and the invention of movable type, it became possible for large numbers of people to communicate over great distance and beyond life times, two of the greatest inconveniences in maintaining human progress. ENDA -- Employment Non-Discrimination Act MSA/HCPA -- Mathew Shepard Act/Hate Crimes Protection Act DOMA -- Defense of Marriage Act DODT -- Don’t Ask Don’t Tell (Don’t Pursue) Anyone who knows he/she is LGBT should be familiar with these text letters and know the importance of having the first two passed and the last two overturned. ENDA and MSA have passed the House where there is a Democratic majority, though full disclosure nags me to remind you that Oklahoma’s lone DEMO in 6 the STAR Creati ng Community for People living ~7ith H Dd/Ai DS A 501 c (3) Non Profit" Org~tnizat~ioia Our House, Too offers a variety of activities for people who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS to help combat the soolal isolation that many of our people live through each and everyday. We provide a Toiletry and Household Pantry for those "~,’ho are HIV+ and or living with AIDS who cannot afford to purchase these items for themselves, We invite anyone would like to volunteer or provide nancial assistan~ to please contact us by phone 918-585-9552 or e-mail harrisrn mjr@yahco.com. www.0zarksstar.c0m �www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 7 �Recognized by Keller Williams For outstanding achi~rnent 2005 and 2006 Chuck Breckenddge 918-706-1887 8 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com �www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 9 �Summer 2007 Diversity Weekend Eureka Springs, Arkansas, August 3,5 Saturdaj6 August 4 Straddle This: DIVERSITY BIKERS BRUNCH & RIDE 10AM. Join Diversity Pride Events and the Diversity Bikers at the Best Western Inn of the Ozarks, 207 W Van Buren. Then, saddle up and ride to show your true Rainbmv colors. By STAR Staff EUREKA SPRINGS, AR__Ifyour planning a trip to the Gayest little city in America, this coming weekend should prove to be a fun time, and if you plan to hitch up with that special love of your life with a Domestic Partner Registration you will need to get there early on Friday August 3rd or you’ll have to wait until Monday. Applicants must appear in person with proof of age and the $35 registration fee in cash. Application forms are available at http://www. cityofeurekasprings.org/. Certificates of Registry will not be mailed to applicants. The City Clerk’s office is in the City Hall, lower level of the Western Carroll County Courthouse, 44 S. Main. Office hours are 9:30 a.m. to 12 noon and 1:30 to 4:30 p.m. Once you have that certificate safely tucked away in your travel bag, step out and enjoy some live action, good food and the great hospitality of Eureka Springs. Friday/Saturday, August 3, 4: Hitch up the U-Haul: The 12th annual YARDS AND YARDS OF YARD SALES (almost 100 last year). Find locator maps at shops and restaurants. Sponsored-oddly-by the Greater Eureka Springs Chamber of Commerce. Patronized-avidly-by antique queens from far and near. Friday - Sunday, August 3, 4, 5: Hitch up the Pop-up: DIVERSITY CAMP OUT, Lake Leather~vood (nice combo there, doncha think?) campground (479) 253-2866. Advance reservations for RV sites ($15/night) and cabins ($70/night) required. Tenters ($10/night) pre-register at (479) 3872871 or RaeSwt@yahoo.com by July 30. Canoe & Paddle Boat Rentals Available. Fishing, Hiking, Biking and Swimming. Community Potluck Dinners & Campfires. Weenies and S’mores. Just two miles west of Eureka Springs offU.S. Highway 62. Frida~ August 3 S&M: Stand and Model at the Diversity Weekend Kick-Off Party. Serious cruising begins here. ’PRINCESS’ WELCOME MIXER Caribe Restaurante y Cantina, 309 W. Van Buren, 7-9 p.m.ish. Cosponsored by Diversity Pride Events and Eureka Pride. Mix and mingle with locals and visitors from around the countryLipstick ladies and sturdy gurls, leather to Levi guys, twinks, trans, clones, bis and burly bears. Contact: info@eurekapride.com Spin Cycle: 10 pm - DJ Kyle Egan Live at Henri’s Just One More, 19 1/2 Spring St. Dance to the hottest hip hop and R&B mixed live on two turntables. Shot specials all night. 10 the STAR \Vet n’ Wild: MENS AND WOMENS SWIM PARTIES, 11 a.m. to 4 p,m. MEN: Rodeway Inn Swiss Holiday Resort, 2015 E. Van Buren. Featuring DJ Rob. \VOMEN: Carolyn’s Ozark Swiss Inn, 3061 E. Van Buren. Kiss Off: PUBLIC DISPLAY OF AFFECTION (PDA) photo shoot, 12 noon in Basin Park band shell, downtown. A G-rated opportunity to smooch your sweetie-or the perfect stranger-for posterity. And to amuse the tourists and annoy the fundies. A chance, too, to show a Christian biker group-the Jericho Riders from Missouri-the difference between love and hate. The bikers will be in the park at the same time, praying for the Domestic Partnership Registry to go away. Not a chance. But be NICE to them anywa): Remember, the whole world is watching. Cake ’n Cocktails: A reception honoring DOMESTIC PARTNERS, family and friends at 6 to 8 p.m. Generously hosted by Henri’s Just One More, 19 1/2 Spring St. Sponsored by gaynewsbureau.com. No cover. Cash bar. Open to the public. Even-or especially-the Jericho Christian Bikers. Splane it to us Lucy: Robbie Walker and a special guest, or a cavalcade of stars, xWith Robbie, you just never know. 9 pm Saturday night at Henri’s Just One More. Come early. Robbie PACKS the house. Subterranean Collision Course: Diversity Pride Events brings "COLLIDE" DANCE PARTY to Eureka Live Night Club, one flight belmv street level at 35 N. Main, 9 p.m.-2 p.m. Featuring DJ Rob. Contact: deborah@diversitypride.com Disco Hoedown: Diversity Pride Event’s RETRO/COUNTRY D~a~NCE & CABARET, 9 pm. to 2 p.m. at Caribe Restaurante y Cantina, 309 W. Van Buren. Featuring DJ/singer Mary King and additional performers. Contact: deborah@diversitypride.com Sunday, August 5: A Feather In Your Cap: See Hitchcock classic "THE BIRDS" at our downtown BYO-canvas-chair-or-blanket and kids-and-dogs outdoor, under-the-stars Luckyl3 Starlight Cinema. The TIPI HEDREN LOOK-ALIKE CONTEST alone is reason enough to extend your visit to Eureka Springs one more day. In the parking lot next to the Basin Park Bath House (huh?), 1 N. Main St. Start time: When the bats fly. Weekend schedule provided by http://www.eurekagaynews.com/ ~wvw.ozarksstar.com �Joplin’s Seventh Annual "Night of Stars 2007" %Viii Feature Ben Miller Band By STAR Staff JOPLIN, MO Tim and Tom’s 7th annual Night of Stars Gala is scheduled for September 12th. ~Ihe Event will be held at Kitchen Pass Bar and Restaurant, 1212 S. Main Street, Joplin, MO. Phone 417-624-9095. The Night of Stars affair is held each year to raise awareness within the GLBTA community, and to raise money for the critical needs of those living with HIV/AIDS in the SW Missouri area. All proceeds go to the non-profit organization AIDS Project of the Ozarks. No Surprises Staying with... Rodeway inn Ozarks Family Owned! Great Sunday, Thursday Rates In an interview Tim said, "We still need auction items. This year we are doing a buffet from 5:30 pm to 7pm and 2 beer tickets for $25.00 per person or you can buy a table for 10 for $200.00. After 7:00 pm door charge will be $6.00 per person. Entertainment this year will be the Ben Miller Band. The silent auction will start then also. I think it will be a great night and raise money for a greater cause. We are looking forward to seeing you there." If you have any questions please feel free to call Tom @ 417-6298994 or Tim @ 417-629-8995 ’Visitors center and area attraction ticket center o Jacuzzi king rooms for two, On.site weddings and wedding .packages Close to restaurants and attraCti0ns Small pets allowed. Family reunions ,0~ark Mountain Motorcycle Tours of popular area deStinations, Picnic. and barbecue area- Group rates and package plans Church group packages,a{,ailable , Friendliest atmosphere in Eureka.Springs Family . owned and.operated, Trolley stop. Meeting Free tanning forguests Continental breakfast r0o~bed to h01d 80 with full kitchen ; On-site massage therapy mater,Guest aundry Center of all attracti0ns 1-800-535-NDS (2437) Oklahoma’s HIVISTD Hotline Call for toll free reservations: 1-888o582o84 4 P.O’ Box 430° Eureka Springs, Arkansas 72632 479’253-9501 www, eurekaspringsresort,com www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 11 �]~t~s hard to believe. Here’s a x 6th- young artist he strt~gg]ed for years century Baroque master whose bold to make a living. He was angry. naturalistic painting style t~rst created Yet the angry contrast between iight and darkness in h~ work isthe very no~v hangs in countless whose life was filled reason it with museums ~around the world. ~e turbulence If nothing else, it’s a case study and excess of a do~e:n Mario Pu~o of the importance of having art as novels. an outlet. Unfomanately, one we’re fast removing from our kids" lives. ~ouM~, u~y found re~mption and i~ormliW in his ~t. But does the averag~ kid on the s~eer even know ~vho Carava~io If the arts are indeed a vital part o£ your child’s education ~and studies show F~hgedaboudit. you believe they a~e), th,n you T~ ~d. Xs~cmHy when you consider how much should demand his or her fair our c~ldren can lea~ ~om the conflicted life share. To find out how, or for a ~eat ar~st like Miche~ngelo Caravaggio. more information about ~e grew up in less ~an ideal circ~stances. Most benefits of arts education, of his f~ily died m the plague. Much of his youth please visit us at AmericansForTheArts;org, Because, was misspent on the mean s~¢ets of Rome. And as a as Caravagglo would tel! you~ life without artis tomlre. �Historic American Event August 9th on LOGO TVo OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__ Maintaining its grassroots traditions, the Oklahoma Democratic Party and OK Stonewall Democrats will host a meet-n-greet on Thursday, August 9, starting at 6:00pm at the Party’s headquarters at 4100 N. Lincoln Boulevard. Christmas In Ju y Fundraiser A Great Success! By STAR Staff This informal reception will have refreshments and live entertainment until 8:00pro. Following immediately will be a watch party to view the live streaming video of the LOGO TV and Human Rights Campaign sponsored forum between the Democratic Presidential candidates. This is the first forum in American election history devoted exclusively to LGBT concerns. Both events are free to the public. Oklahoma Stonewall Democrats (wwv.okstonewall.org) is a chapter of National Stonwall Democrats in Washington, DC (wvw. stonewalldemocrats.org) and a recognized dub of the State Democratic Party (www. okdemocrats.org). We work for the equality of America’s LGBT citizens in its social and political life. TAMMY FAYE DIES AT AGE 65 WASHINGTON, DC~The National Gay and Lesbian Task Force expressed its condolences at the passing ofTammy Faye (Bakker) Messner, ex-wife of disgraced evangelist Jim Bakker. Messner died last Friday after a long battle with cancer. Statement by Matt Foreman, Executive Director National Gay and Lesbian Task Force "Tammy Faye became an icon for our community. In spite of-- and perhaps because of the hardships she faced -- she embraced us, she refused to judge and repudiated those who did. She will be long-remembered and deeply missed. Our condolences go to her family and her wide circle of loving friends." www.ozarksstar.com TULSA, OK Yes Mrs. Hood, there is a Santa Clause! But in July? Bamboo Lounge Tulsa and Miss Bamboo 2007, Holly Rose hosted the First Annual Miss Bamboo Christmas in July charity event to a packed house and a delighted crowd. The entertainers and auction raised $600 to benefit H.O.EE. Clinic of Tulsa. Clinic personnel were also in attendance and administering free AIDS/HIV testing. H.O.EE. testing clinic is a non-profit Mens Outreach program providing free HIV testing, including the 20 minute OraQuick test. The Clinic is located at 3540 East 31st Street in Tulsa. Phone (918) 812-7045. The Clinic is closed on Friday and Sunday. Their Oklahoma HIV/STD Hotline number is (800) 535-2437 Combine ingredients in mixi~ glass. Add ice, stir to strain into your chille( Glass. Pop in CD for fun the STAR 13 �who was now a woman. The 1970s also saw the first sympathetic made-for-TV movies, including That Certain Summer (1972), in which a teenage boy discovers his father is gay. elevision is a major influence on American popular culture, and the evolving presence of LGBT people on the small screen has both reflected and fostered acceptance of gays in main- While reality TV is often regarded as a recent phenomenon, the 1970s PBS series An American Family portrayed the real-life travails of a Southern California family, the Louds. Teenage son Lance came out on screen in January 1973, sparking both condemnation and applause. He performed in a punk rock band and wrote for magazines, including The Advocate, before dying of liver failure related to HIV and hepatitis C at age 50. stream society In the 1950s and 1960s - a time when homosexuality ~vas regarded as a crime or a mental illness - a few brave queers began appearing on local television talk shows. In April 1954, Los Angeles station KTTV ran a program called Confidential File featuring a policeman, a psychiatrist, and a gay man, Dale Olson. Asked whether he would change his sexual orientation if he could, Olson replied that he would not; the next day, he was fired from his job. Four years later, New York’s WABD ran a similar program featuring sympathetic psychologist Albert Ellis and Gonzolo Segura, a gay chemist who wore a hood to hide his identity. In November 1964, New York Mattachine Society member Randy, Wicker went undisguised on the popular Les Crane Show, and in 1967, activists Franklin Kameny, Jack Nichols, and Lilli Vincenz appeared on channel WOOK in Washington, D.C. "Once we started appearing on TV and on talk radio shows, [the public] started seeing us as more real," Vincenz later said. LGBT people garnered a national audience in March 1967 with a special episode of CBS Reports entitled "The Homosexuals," hosted by Mike Wallace. The program - which ran with virtually no ads since sponsors wouldn’t touch it - featured Jack Nichols, author Gore Vidal, a federal judge, and conservative psychiatrist Charles Socarides; though Nichols used an alias, he too lost his job. That same year, New York Mattachine president Dick Leitsch appeared on The David Susskind Show, which aired on PBS stations nationwide. In 1971, Susskind featured a panel of lesbians, including Daughters of Bilitis member Barbara Gittings, 14 the STAR Wayland Flowers (with his puppet "Madame") who proclaimed, "Homosexuals today are taking it for granted that their homosexuality is not at all something dreadful - it’s good, it’s right, it’s natural, it’s moral, and this is the way they are going to be." By the late 1960s, talk show host Phil Donahue also began featuring queer people (originally on his local program in Dayton, Ohio, which was later nationally syndicated), despite his fear that some viewers might think he was gay, himself. After the Stonewall Riots in June 1969, occasional queer characters began to appear on TV with increasing frequency. The CBS series Medical Center (1969-1976) featured perhaps the first-ever sympathetic portrayals of gay and lesbian characters on television. During the first season of CBS’s _All in the Family_ in 1971, Archie Bunker was taken aback to learn that an old drinking buddy - a former pro football player - was gay. The show prompted then-president Richard Nixon to complain to his staff, "Goddamn it, I don’t think you glorify [homosexuality] on public television." In a later episode, Archie saved the life of a female impersonator, and in the spin-offThe Jeffersons, lead character George reunited with an old Navy buddy Variety shows of the 1970s, such as Rowan and Martin’s Laugh-In and Saturday Night Live, addressed homosexuality in their skits, often by making fun of stereotypical gay characters. By mid-decade, three gay men - Paul Lynde (~vho previously played a bachelor warlock on Bewitched), Charles Nelson Reilly (who had a role in the children’s show Lidsville), and Wayland Flmvers (with his puppet "Madame"), had become flamboyant fixtures on popular game shows, though they did not openly acknowledge their sexuality. While several programs in the 1970s occasionally featured queers, regular LGBT characters were scarce, q-he first, in 1972, was Peter Panama, a gay designer on the short-lived ABC sitcom The Corner Bar. This was followed in 1975 by the first gay male couple, on the network’s Hot L Baltimore. An unhappily married woman on the daytime soap opera Days of Our Lives admitted she was bisexual in 1977, but the storyline was brief. A longer-running and better-known example of a recurring queer character was Jodie Dallas on ABC’s Soap (1977-1982). www.ozarksstar.com �As the gay liberation movement gained political clout, the National Gay Task Force and other activists protested against shows that cast queers in a negative light, including a 1974 episode of Marcus Welby, M.D., in which a male teacher molested a boy. During the first season of Soap, the campy, effeminate Jodie dated a closeted football player and planned to have a sex-change operation, until the Task Force successfially demanded that the script be altered. By the late 1970s, however, the religious right had also become more powerful, and producers and advertisers began to face competing boycott threats from queers and conservatives. (Continued in part 2.) What were some mile- stones for queers on television? (Part 2) by Mariel Hemingway, and the following year on Star Trek: Deep Space Nine, the character Jadzia Dax kissed a woman who xvas the re-embodiment of her dead husband. A January 1997 episode of Relativity showed a passionate, close-up lesbian lip-lock, and two years latin; TV lawyer Ally McBeal shared a prolonged smooch with a female office rival. Fox’s _Melrose Place_ deleted a planned prime-time gay male kiss due to boycott threats in 1994, leaving Jack and Ethan on WB Network’s Dawson’s Creek to break that barrier in 2000. Paul Lynde (who previously played a bachelor warlock on Bewitched) milestones. The first same-sex wedding be~veen two women - with activist Candace Gingrich serving as the minister - came on Friends in 1996. NBC’s TV movie Serving in Silence (1995) related the story of Lt. Margarethe Cammermeyer, who was ousted from the military after acknowledging that she was a lesbian. But not until 2006 did The L Word introduce Moira/Max, the first female-tomale character to transition on the small screen, followed later that year by Zarf/Zoe’s male-to-female transition on All My Children. In 1981, ABC’s popular Dynasty introduced Steven Carrington, the first openly bisexual regular character in a dramatic series. The network’s daytime soap opera All My Children featured its first gay storyline in 1983, when erstwhile heterosexual Devon McFadden declared her love for her lesbian psychiatrist. Five years later, ABC presented the first recurring out lesbian character in prime time - nurse Marilyn McGrath on the short-lived medical drama Heartbeat. In a bid for increased visibility, LGBT people continued to appear on television talk shows, even as such programs shifted from the measured affairs hosted by David Susskind and Phil Donahue to shows in which hosts and audience members blatantly attacked the guests. The controversy over "trash TV" came to a head in March 1995, when Jonathan Schmitz killed Scott Amedure after Amedure revealed his crush on Schmitz on The JenW Jones Show. During these decades, television increasingly addressed issues of concern to the LGBT community. The 1985 made-for-TV movie An Early Frost offered one of the first portrayals of people with AIDS. MTV’s The Real World also dealt with AIDS, featuring HIV-positive Pedro Zamora during its 1994 season. That same year saw the first televised gay male wedding, on the CBS series Northern Exposure, set in a small Alaska town founded by a lesbian couple. Over the years, expressions of same-sex affection between women were more accepted than those between men. In November 1989, the sitcom thirtysomething lost more than $1 million in ad revenue when it showed two men in bed together, even though a preceding kiss was axed. In February 1991, C.J. Lamb and Abby Perkins, two attorneys on NBC’s L.A. Law, shared the first lesbian kiss on network TV. In 1994, over the objections of network executives, Roseanne kissed a lesbian character played espite growing pressure from conservatives follmving the proliferation of LGBT characters in the mid-1970s, the 1980s and 1990s witnessed no shortage of queer television www.ozarksstar.com The late 1990s saw the first shows with prominent LGBT lead characters. On April 30, 1997 - after months of innuendo - Ellen DeGeneres had the most famous smallscreen coming-out, in a star-studded episode of her ABC sitcom Ellen that attracted some 35 million viewers. But not tong thereafter, her same-sex kiss on the show prompted a parental advisory warning, and the program’s ratings dropped as it began to focus more on gay issues. NBC’s Will and Grace also broke new ground, though some viewers were disappointed that the gay male lead never had an ongoing romantic relationship. The turn of the century witnessed the most visible queer personality on reality TV since Lance Loud, when self-proclaimed "fat naked fag" Richard Hatch - who later served time for evading taxes on his prize money - won the first season of Survivor in 2000. Reichen Lehmkuhl and Chip Arndt, the couple who triumphed in the fourth season of CBS’s The Amazing Race (2003), proved to be more likable gay role models. That year also saw the debut of Bravo’s popular Queer Eye for the Straight Guy, featuring five gay men giving fashion and lifestyle advice to style-challenged heterosexuals. Cable television offered the most daring series featuring primarily queer casts, beginning with Showtime’s Queer as Folk in 2000 and The L Word in 2004. In a reflection of growing LGBT economic clout, Canada’s PrideVision (later renamed OutTV) became the world’s first channel offering full-time programming for a queer audience in 1991. The U.S. cable channels Here! TV, QTelevision Network, and MTV/Viacom’s Logo followed suit, ................ Continued page 23 the STAR 15 �����One ofPortland’s hippest hangouts for cocktails and terrificfood, the Mint restaurant and adjoining 820 bar are owned by highly talented and openly gay drink mixologist Lucy Brennan. (Photo by Andrew Collins) It’s both a cliche and an injustice to compare Portland xvith Seat~e and Vancouver, but people do it all the rime - the three eiries are, after all, the crown jewels of the Pacific Northxvest. Portland stands very much on its oxvn, however, and despite its considerable groxv~ in recent years, it retains a surprisingly intimate scale and lowkeyed personalit3: Gay and lesbian visitors xvill discover a city xvith no predon~finantly alternative neighborhood, but a progressive, welcoming attitude that permeates every inch of the city. The city’s strengths include a plethora of classy, gay-friendly, boutique-style hotds (many of them xvithin walking distance of the city’s best gay bars); a pedestrian-friendly downtown with lively cultural venues and engaging retail strips; and one of the most exciting restaurant scenes around. Even better, accommodations and meals cost considerably l~ss here than in other West Coast cities of comparable acclaim. If it seems odd that you haven’t heard more about Portland, keep in mind that locals are fiercely intent on keeping it from groxving too big and too croxvded - the city is, by design, a well-guarded secret. 20 the STAR Portland lies just below the confluence of the Columbia and the Willamette rivers. The Columbia forms the border between Washington and Oregon; from it, the Willamette txvists in a southerly direction, bisecting the city and its attractive skyline. In this eclectic city center, high-end boutiques border funky pawn shops, dapper bistros sit beside humble burger joints, and postmodern office towers rise above cast-iron Victorians. Along the river, Tom McCall Waterfront Park stretches for more than a mile, providing a scenic venue for cycling, jogging, and sunning. Brown baggers congregate at Pioneer Square, a tidy redbrick plaza at Yamhill Street and Broadxvay. Many high-end chain stores are clustered here, including NikeTown, the unabashedly commercial tribute to the Portland-based maker of athletic wear, and Nordstrom. South of Pioneer Square the impressive Portland Center for the Performing Arts presents ballet, opera, and classical music, and the Portland Art Museum specializes in Native American, regional contemporary, and graphic arts. A fexv blocks northwest lies the city’s compact gay entertainment district, mostly along bar-studded Stark Street. Vintageclothing, book, and used-record shops line Burnside and Oak streets, including one of the nation’s most famous bookstores, Powell’s, which has an enormous GLBT section. Across Burnside is Portland’s hottest neighborhood, the swank Pearl District, where massive warehouse buildings have been converted into trendy loft-style condos and hip eateries. The Pearl District’s Bluehour is well-regarded for its inventive seafood, such as semolina-encrusted halibut with lava beans and an herb-risotto cake. The same culinary team is behind Saucebox, a sdf-conseiously hip care delivering tasty multinational fare. Budget time to explore Portland’s Northwest neighborhood, along 23rd and 21st avenues, where upscale boutiques and restaurants proliferate, including one of Portland’s hottest purveyors of Pacific Northwest cuisine, Wildwood. The menu here changes often but might feature, for example, day-oven roasted leg of lamb with summer squash grarin. From Northwest you’re a short drive from Metro Washington Park Zoo, which anchors 322-acre, densely wooded Washington Park, opposite xvhich sits the International Rose Test Garden; 10,000 bushes with more than 500 varieties are displayed xvithin its 4 acres. Just up the hill is a serene Japanese garden. The wooded grounds abut the 5,000-acre Forest Park, great for hiking and biking. Across the Williamette River from downtown you’ll find several neighborhoods acclaimed for their artsy fed, popularity with gays and lesbians, and wealth of great shopping and dining options. The Hawthorne District might just be Portland’s most lesbian-popular neighborhood, and it also has scads of pleasing retail and dining options, including the superb Castagna Restaurant, known for its creative regional Northwestern cuisine. Bread and Ink Care is another Hawthorne favorite, captivating regulars with its Mediterranean, Mexican, and Yiddish fare (how’s that for an unlikely trinity?). The cheeseburgers garner raves all around, as do the chicken enchiladas. Nearby Southeast Stark and Southeast Belmont streets also hold a share of the area’s coffeehouses, boutiques, and music clubs. Other East Side neighborhoods of note www.ozarksstar.com �include Alberta, Division/Clinton, and East Burnside. And the once derelict industrial area on the northeastern shores of the Willamette, the Lloyd District, now contains a convention center, sports stadiums, and the impressive 200-store Lloyd Center mall. The variety of excellent, gay-friendly restaurants on the East Side is staggering, but standouts include Mint/820, a contemporary bistro and cocktail bar owned by openly gay and nationally renowned drink mixologist Lucy Brennan; and Rocket, a see-and-be-seen space known for such simple but mouthwatering fare as braised beef rib with red wine jus and black cod with a radish salad. Also consider sassy Rou_x for imaginatively rendered New Orleans-style cuisine; Helser’s on Alberta for amazingly delicious breakfast and lunch fare; and Vindalho for modern Indian food. There are countless opportunities for getting out and enjoying the countryside within a short drive of Portland. Rooster Rock (aka Cock Rock) State Park lies 20 miles east of the city in the scenic Columbia Gorge and is a favorite place for gay sunbathers. Sauvies Island, about 8 miles northwest of Portland, has another scenic and scene-y clothing-optional beach with a decidedly gay following. This area is also poptflar for kayaking and boating - you can rent kayaks or take tours from Scappoose Bay Kayaking, and Portland’s own Out Kayatdng is a GLBT social group dedicated to this very ?ctivity - it welcomes visitors on its frequent weekend excursions. In the other direction, magnificent Mt. Hood (elevation 11,300 feet) offers year-round skiing, great hiking, challenging rock-climbing, and plenty more to get the blood flowing. In the same area, you can take a hair-raising whitewater rafting trip on the roiling Clackamas River - a highly reliable outfitter for this activity is Destination Wilderness. And south of Portland, you’ll find the fantastic Willamette Valley wine country, which has become internationally renowned for its pinot noir and pinot gris. Numerous wineries in the valley are open for tastings. With one of the more pronounced and vibrant women’s scenes on the West Coast, Portland has not only a couple of popular lesbian bars but also many spots where both women and men congregate. Near Hawthorne, the Egyptian Club is the most popular such venue, with strippers some nights and always a big crowd for dancing. Also on the east side of town, Crush is a swish and sophisticated cocktail lounge drawing a mix of women and men. The kitchen here turns out excellent bistro fare, and there’s a popular brunch on weekends. Portland abounds with distinctive hotels. The famously gay-friendly Kimpton Group has a pair of gems. With the Hotel Monaco, Kimpton improved on a familiar Portland strategy: Take a classy old building and convert it into a charming hotel. Many of the accommodations here are full suites, and all have such high-end amenities as DVD players and 12Occitane bath products. You’ll find the same level of quality at intimate Hotel Vintage Plaza. Rooms in this restored downtown 1894 building are large and done in warm colors; many have two-person hot tubs and spiral staircases leading to second-story sleeping lofts. The hotel’s Pazzo Ristorante serves exceptional contemporary Italian fare. You’l! find several more gay-friendly hotels of note around the city, some high-end, and some geared toward travelers on a budget. On the inexpensive side, try the offbeat Ace Hotel, which is set inside a vintage 1912 building along Stark Street’s gay bar strip. There’s a bohemian sensibility to the place, from the coffeehouse off the lobby to the contemporary paintings in the large but modestly furnished rooms. Upscale choices include the Hotel Deluxe, a retro-cool property with plush rooms and one of the coolest little bars in the city, the Driftwood Room. Its sister property is the even more stunning Hotel Lucia, a modern, artful lodging in the heart of downtown. Among the perks are iPod docking stations in every room. For a more intimate experience, try the MacMaster House B&B, which is on swank King’s Hill, two blocks from Washington Park. This grand turn-of-the-century Colonial Revival home is convenient to the business district. The rooms have a romantic mix of antiques and reproductions, and four have fireplaces. Arguably Portland’s most distinctive accommodations, however, are found at the Jupiter Hotel, which is just across the Willamette from downtown and is a favorite roost among hipsters, musicians, artists, and bon vivants. The once prosaic motor court has been transformed into a mod boutique hotel with sleek furnishings and a playful sensibility. ~he on-site Doug Fir restaurant and lounge hosts a wide range of indie rock bands, and the Jupiter has its own branch of the popular Portland adult erotica shop, Spartacus Leathers. This is one hotel where you’re never far from romantic inspiration. Stark Street has the bulk of the city’s top gay clubs, including Boxxes and Red Cap, a pulsing dance club-cum-video bar; Eagle PDX, a cruisy leather bar; Silverado (think go-go boys); and Scandals, a convivial and laid-back video bar popular with the after-work set. After the bars close, gay meets grunge in the neighborhood’s 24hour diner, the Roxy; on any given night you’ll see big hair, pierced extremities, lotsa muscle, leather, rubber, drag - you name it. Old Town, a short walk from the Stark Street area, also has a handful of noteworthy gay hangouts, among them the upscale steak house Hobo’s - this popular lounge has piano music nightly. Darcelle XV Showplace is famous for its elaborate drag revues; on nights the gals don’t dress up, strippers dress down. C. C. Slaughter’s is Old Town’s top gay dance club, pulling in a mostly under-35 crowd and pulsing into the late hours. www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 21 �AUGUST 2007 Repeating Holocaust History Lesbian Notions, looks at people who seem to forget the history ofthe Holocaust. Photo: Anti-Gay protest marc,b 1939Nazi Germany it wasn’t unril the U.S. Holocaust Memorial Museum in Washington, D.C., opened in 1993 that this treatment was brought to national and international attention. I was in D.C. for the 1993 lesbian and gay March on Washington. Hundreds of us gathered at the museum the evening before it opened, laying down carnations to symbolize the lives of gays and lesbians lost in the Holocaust and praying for their souls. As a second-generation Jew on the cusp of turning 50, I grew up with stories of World War II and the reality ofthd Holocaust. My father fought in the war; my mother was in the Signal Corps. Anti-Semitism was a hatred I was taught about at an early age - from hearing the stories of pogroms in Eastern Europe, where my family was from, to reading and talking about Hitler’s rage against anyone different from his Aryan ideal. In the 1960s and ’70s, few publicly questioned whether the Holocaust happened, as some revisionist historians, Iranian President Mahmoud Ahmadinejad, and others do today. It was a time when the slogan "Never Again" was a rallying cry for American Jews so that we would never forget the six million who died in the camps, It was only after I came out that I learned that gay men and lesbians were also interred in the concentration camps. It certainly wasn’t something I was taught in Hebrew school. I knew early on that Jews were not the only ones targeted by the Nazis, although we were the largest group. Germans with disabilities or mental illness, Jehovah’s Witnesses, Gypsies, Poles, and Soviet prisoners of war, among others, also found themselves in concentration camps. But no one ever talked about the gays. Richard Plant published The Pink Triangle in 1988, which chronicled the atrocities against lesbians and gays inthe camps. But 22 the STAR Since opening, the museum has printed educational material, sponsored major exhibitions about gays and the Holocaust, and has an online exhibition dedicated to the subject. Thousands of gay men were killed in the concentration camps, forced to wear pink triangles so everyone knew why they ~vere there. These men ~vere not only abused - and even killed - by the Nazis and the people who ran the camps, but they were also subjected to the homophobic reactions of their fellow prisoners. More than 100,000 gay men were arrested under the Nazis’ notorious Paragraph 175 law that broadly defined lewd behavior between men. A man could literally be arrested for just looking at another man the "wrong" way. Approximately, 50,000 served prison terms as convicted homosexuals, while an unknown number were institutionalized in mental hospitals. Hundreds of men were castrated under court order or coercion. According to the museum, record-keeping on gay concentration camp victims is sketchy, but it estimates that between 5,000 and 15,000 gay men were imprisoned at the camps, where many died from starvation, disease, exhaustion, beatings, and murder. After the camps were liberated, many of the German gays were sent back to prison to finish their terms, because Paragraph 175 was not among the Nazi laws that were repealed. The museum is one of the world’s leaders in making sure we don’t forget what happened during the Nazi reign of terror. Too bad some others - like the ultra-orthodox Haredi sect of Jews in Israel - apparently haven’t made the trip to D.C. or availed themselves of the museum’s online resources. The Haredi are the folks who routinely protest Gay Pride parades in Israel - the country that was established as a democracy that would be a haven for the persecuted Jews of Nazi Germany, the former Soviet Union, and other countries. All the Haredi are doing is repeating the hatred that fueled the Holocaust in the first place. They put a hate-filled coalition of reactionary Christians, Muslims, and Jews together to try and stop World Pride from happening in Jerusalem. It always amazes me how conveniently and quickly enemies become allies when it comes to denying us our rights, our pride, our way of life. This year in Jerusalem, the Orthodox Righteous Court of Law actually placed a curse on the city’s Pride parade organizers and marchers, as well as on the police who helped to keep the event safe and secure. It went like this: "To all those involved, sinners in spirit, and whoever helps and protects them, may they feel a curse on their souls, may it plague them and may evil pursue them; they will not be acquitted of their transgressions from heavenly judgment." Then you have the ultra-orthodox members of the Knesset, Israel’s parliament, sponsoring bills to outlaw al! gay Pride parades or to establish "rehab centers" to teach us how to repress our sexuality. Knesset member Nissim Ze’ev considers us dangerous and says that the government needs to keep an eye on us. The rehab centers would be staffed with a special team of psychologists, psychiatrists, and social workers who will help us return to "a normal life." According to Ze’ev, lesbian and gay people must be made aware of "how their lifestyle is destroying our existence." Camps, curses, making us the enemy of society - it all smacks of Hitler’s rhetoric. But this time, it’s wrapped in an ultra-orthodox tallit (prayer shawl) that gives it a credibility it doesn’ deserve. www.ozarksstar.com �Past Out: producing original programs such as Noah’s Arc - described by The Economist as a takeoff on Sex and the City from an AfricanAmerican gay male perspective - and the supernatural gay drama Dante’s Cove. Transgender Seeks Office of President of the United States. by STAR Staff The increased presence of LGBT people on TV over the past half century reflects the growing influence of both out queers in the entertainment industry and straight producers who grew up in an era of greater acceptance of sexual diversity. Nonetheless, the Gay and Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation found that during the 2006-2007 broadcast network television season, only 1.3 percent of regular characters on scripted, prime-time programs were gay or lesbian, and none were bisexual or transgender. was one of the three candidates at the first Republican debate to declare the theory of evolution invalid. Ferguson’s campaign isn’t necessarily based on being transgender. The candidate’s platform is firmly rooted in the Libertarian philosophy, preservation of personal civil liberties being the supporting plank of the Libertarian platform. While Ferguson is not running specifically as a transgender candidate, the idea of the preservation of individual liberties is certainly consistent with the interests of the transgender community. Candidate Ferguson faces an uphill batde in both the Presidential and the House of Representatives race. This is her second bid for a seat in this district. Of course, the opportunity to project a positive image of transgender people as active participants in the American political process is certainly an endeavor worth supporting. For further information: Alwood, Edward. 1996. Straight News: Gays, Lesbians, and the News Media (Columbia University Press). Eisenbach, David. 2006. Gay Power: An American Revolution (Carroll & Graf). Raymond, Susan, and Alan Raymond. 2002. Lance Loud! A Death in an American Family (PBS documentary). HUTCHINSON, KS__Bennie Lee Ferguson, of Hutchinson, Kansas, has officially declared candidacy for the office of President of The United States, and for a House of Representatives seat in Kansas district 104. Born on February 25, 1953 at Grace Hospital in Hutchinson, Kansas. The son of an Air Force aerospace engineer and a Kansas farm girl, he spent his childhood in cities and towns all across the nation, from Massachusetts to California, always returning, however, to his home in Reno County and Hutchinson. Ferguson is running on the Libertarian ticket, and will be a write-in candidate in the General Presidential Election in 2008. Ferguson holds a Bachelor’s degree from Wichita State University where he is currently enrolled in the graduate program. He expects to graduate with a Master’s degree in history in spring of 2008. In connection with his master’s thesis on the subject of micropatrology (the study of small self-proclaimed nations), he has founded The Kingdom of Fergus within the city limits of Hutchinson, Kansas. The principles espoused by the micronations movement are philosophically akin to Libertarian views. Following his graduation, he intends to commute to law school at Oklahoma City University having already taken the Law School Admissions Test in 2004. Ferguson also continues to work as an entertainer. The Ben Ferguson Band is a popular attraction throughout the area and he has appeared several times at Hutch Fest and the Kansas State Fair. Bennie will answer your questions and accept campaign contributions at bennieleeferg@hotmail.com. While openly transgender candidates for office like Kim Coco Iwamoto (HI), Dana Beyers (MD) and Amanda Simpson (AZ) have experienced some modicum of success at the state level, Ferguson could be the first openly transgender candidate for President, and is certainly the first transgender candidate for a state legislative seat in the state that elected Sam Brownback (R, KS). It should be noted that now Republican Presidential Candidate Brownback www.ozarksstar.com The STAR 23 ���ARE RIGHT AROUND THE CO ER FROM NATIONAL COMING OUT DAY AND SHE IS COMING OUT IN A BIG WAY @~nother National Coming Out Day is approaching and change is in the air. Gays are fighting for the right to get legally married and to be legally protected against hate crimes and discrimination. Scientists are looking for the gay gene. Gay themes are frequently seen in major T~. shows. We have GLBT cable stations, LOGO and here! and shows like Queer as Folk, Will and Grace, Noah’s Arc, and the L-Word, which focus on the lives of homosexual people. Openly gay people like Rosie O’Donnell, Melissa Ethridge, and Ellen have successful careers that are building a bridge between gays and straight people. And The Secret, a new bestselling book by Rhonda Byrnes, describes a new spirituality, a new way of thinking about God, the universe and ourselves. So, where are we headed? We are running down the yellow brick road toward freedom - freedom in the truest sense of the word. Freedom from discrimination; freedom to marry the one we love; freedom from traditional spirituality; freedom to feel good about ourselves; freedom to break down cultural walls, freedom from labels of good and bad, freedom from society’s rules and government propaganda, freedom from the "musts" and "shoulds" and "need tos;" freedom from limiting beliefs about who we are and our value to the world; freedom from separateness and freedom to pursue our dreams. 26 the STAR Grace Lawson realized at the age of 41 that she is gay. Since then she has gone through significant personal transformation including leaving a heterosexual marriage, finding her true love, and moving from a traditional Christian view of God to a much deeper spirituality. She has written a book called Coming Out Coming Alive which is about personal freedom; about becoming who you truly are. And this book is the final stage of her own coming out. The environment at the corporate office where she works may be homophobic and she could loose her job over this, but she is willing to take the risk for the sake of the book and what it can do for the world. This book will help you to live authentically and achieve your dreams. You can embrace who you are, get what you want, and make a difference in the world. Love, money, joy, peace, power and passion can be yours. Coming Out Coming Alive will be in stores on September 1st, but you can get it early at http:// www.comingoutcomingalive.com/COCABook. htm. www.ozarksstar.com �Openly-Gay Democrats Elected to Lead Young Democrats of America Stonewall Democrats to Serve as YDA President and Vice President WASHINGTON, DC Today July 23rd, the Nationa! Stonewall Democrats (NSD) congratulated a newly-elected leadership of the Young Democrats of America (YDA), including two openly-gay Stonewall Democrats who will now lead the organization as President and Executive Vice-President through 2009. "Young voters are the new base of the Democratic Party, and we are proud that the Young Democrats of America support equality for LGBT families and have placed their faith in the leadership of two great Democratic leaders who happen to be gay," said Jo Wyrick, NSD Executive Director. "The future of our party now has an opportunity to demonstrate to all Democrats how fully engaging our community is politically viable and smart." On Sunday, David Hardt (Texas) was elected as President of the Young Democrats of America with 93% of the delegate votes during the organization’ s national convention in Dallas. Also elected on Sunday was Chris kaqderson (Tennessee) as the organization’ s Executive Vice President. The election of Hardt and Anderson mark the first time that the Young Democrats of America will be led by an openly-gay leadership team. The Young Democrats of America GLBT Caucus also elected its new leadership on Saturday, including the election of NSD Board Member Kyle Bailey (Georgia) as Caucus Vice-Chair. Bailey also serves as President of the Atlanta Stonewall Democrats. The other elected GLBT Caucus officers include Rachel Kau-Tayler (California) as Caucus Chair, Rob Hudson (Florida) as Caucus Secretary and Byron LaMasters (Texas) as Caucus Treasurer. The Young Democrats of America have undertaken a dramatic outreach to LGBT Democrats over the past several years. Congruently, the National Stonewall Democrats have also increased their outreach to LGBT Young and College Democrats. NSD has established youth scholarships for national trainings, including the "Keith Smith Fund" wvw~.ozarksstar.com designed to honor the outreach work of former NSD Board Member Keith Smith of Oklahoma. Over the past two years, young leaders within the Stonewall Democrats have also established Stonewall Young Democrats chapters across the country, which serve to organize LGBT Youth within the Democratic Party. As the official youth arm of the Democratic Party, YDA mobilizes young people under the age of 36 to participate in the electoral process, influence the ideals oft,he Democratic Party and develops the skills of the youth generation to serve as leaders at the local and national level. YDA has 43 chartered states and US territories with over 1,500 local chapters. In 2003, members of the National Stonewall Democrats authored and passed language adopted by YDA which declared the organization’ s support for civil marriage for same-sex couples. To learn more about the Keith Smith Fund for LGBT Students go to: www.stonewal ldemocrats, org/smithfund/ Task Force, Inc., releases first comprehensive analysis of 2008 presidential candidates’ positions on LGBT issues WASHINGTON, June 27 -- The National Gay and Lesbian Task Force, Inc., today released the first comprehensive analysis of the top 19 candidates for the 2008 presidency on lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) issues. Democrats discussed in this report include Hillary Clinton, John Edwards and Barack Obama. Republicans include Rudy Giuliani, John McCain and Mitt Romney. The report, The 2008 Presidential Candidates’ Positions on Lesbian, Gay; Bisexual and Transgender Issues, and its accompanying chart are based on an analysis of the voting records and public statements of the candidates in eight key LGBT issue areas, including sexual orientation and gender identity nondiscrimination and hate crimes laws; HIV/AIDS prevention and treatment; lifting the military’s ban on openly lesbian, gay and bisexual service members; and partnership recognition for same-sex couples. According to the report, all Democratic candidates are supportive of the majority of LGBT issues, including transgender-inclusive nondiscrimination and hate crimes laws. Only two Democratic candidates support marriage equality for same-sex couples, however, yet all of them are in support of other partnership recognition fights, such as civil unions. Across the board, Republican candidates were in opposition to the majority of LGBT issues, with most publicly opposing lifting the military’s ban on openly lesbian, gay and bisexual service members. Ten of 11 Republican candidates also oppose any partnership recognition for samesex couples, whether it be marriage equality, civil unions or domestic partnerships. U.S. Rep. Dennis Kucinich is the only 2008 presidential candidate who has publicly supported all eight LGBT issues. Former Massachusetts Gov. Mitt Romney is the only 2008 presidential candidate who has publicly opposed all eight LGBT issues. Statement by Matt Foreman, Executive Director National Gay and Lesbian Task Force, Inc. "The differences between the Democratic and Republican fields of candidates on lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender issues are shockingly stark and profoundly depressing. Over time, the majority of Ameficans have moved to support basic fairness for LGBT Americans, including nondiscrimination and hate crimes laws, repeal of ’Don’t Ask Don’t’ Tell,’ and protections for our families. Sadly, the Republican field has gone in the opposite direction, still dearly pandering to the venom of the so-called ’religious right.’ This only means that they will continue to use our lives as cultural wedge fodder whenever it’s deemed politically expedient. "The public statements and voting records of the Democratic candidates show that they are clearly light years ahead of the Republicans on almost every issue important to the LGBT community. Nevertheless, the lack of courage on marriage equality is disturbing on both political and moral grounds. Politically, being for civil unions but against marriage doesn’t bring a single voter over from the other side. Morally, it’s hard to understand how a Democratic candidate can say to people they know individually and to one of the most loyal and generous voting blocs the party has, ’Sorry, I just can’t go there -- you understand, right?’ Actually, we don’t." the STAR 27 �"Take a hike, Sagittarius!" Venus squaring Mars provokes libido and creativity. Mars is moving forward from Taurus to Gemini, and Venus is retrograding from Virgo into Leo. This activity creates bold talk and uncertain or ill-considered action. Be very careful what you wish for, especially out loud! ARIES (March 20 -April 19): Baby wants to play! But it’s going to end up costing you in ways you hadn’t bargained on. Caution and forethought were never the best traits of your sign; this would be a good time to work on developing them! TAURUS (April 20 - May 20): Most families are mortal embarrassments, but we see the flaws at home far more clearly than our guests do. (At least we’ll invite the guests back!) These universal constants are driving you mad. Think about home impro.vements, but don’t act now. SAGITTAR~US (November 22 - December 20): Your wanderlust is showing, and that could be causing both general nervous tension for you and irritation among your colleagues. Go ahead and get away if you can. At least put on the lederhosen and go for a hike in the hills. CAPRICORN (December 21 - January 19): You’re feeling a little too frisky, and everyone’s noticing it. Getting it out of your system won’t stop the indiscretion; but if everyone suspects you of philandering, you might as well be guilty! AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): Are you showering your darling with too much or too little praise and attention? Pay close attention to your baby’s needs, but you’re still likely to get it wrong. Talking about it at home helps. Listening is even better! PISCES (February 19 - March 19): Wanting to shine at work can cause friction with your colleagues. Just do your best work, let it speak for itself, and make sure to share all due credit - and perhaps a bit more - with the rest of the team. GEMINI (May 21 - June 20): With your current inability to keep a secret, you must be careful to listen to none. Your own secrets - so deep and dark, even you don’t know them - can come to light in playful banter, so be careful whom you play with! CANCER (June 21 - July 22): Your friends will surely enjoy your charitable impulses, but let a little generosity go a long way. Spending like a drunken sailor could leave you with a titanic financial hangover. LEO (July 23 - August 22): You feel pretty, and you _are_ pretty. Everyone already sees that, and even your slightest efforts to play up your glamour will only push you way over the top. Relax, honey. You’re already too fabulous. VIRGO (August 23 - September 22): You want to be absolutely correct, but nobody is! Don’t fret. Worrying about it can lead you into silly arguments, provoking others to feel criticized and take offense, even when your aims are entirely self-critical. LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): Your reputation as a lover is getting around, perhaps with details you’d prefer to keep quiet. Take it all with good humor. Cheerfully refusing either to admit or to deny anything may be your best bet. Or invite some of the gossipers to find out for themselves. SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): You’re concerned about your career, but you have other problems closer to home. Discussions, even arguments, with your partner should clear the air, perhaps even shedding light on those issues at work! MCC METROPOLITAN COMMUNITY CHURCHES Rev Steve T. 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Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data magazine Text Any textual data included in the document 2 the STAR W~N.ozarksstar.com www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 3 T ~ Y~3LSA HONE YO~3R Brady Heights has a spectacular history of rebirth. Suffering from abandonment and crime in the 60’s and 70’s, a renaissance began in the early 80’s when Brady Heights was placed on the National Register of Historic Places. Scheduled Events for Summer Diversity Weekend Eureka Springs Arkansas. August 3-5th In April 1954, Los Angeles station KTTV ran a program called Confidential File featuring a policeman, a psychiatrist, and a gay man, Dale Olson. SUMMER WINES: She said "I want to discover new white wines for the warm weather and the wines must be ABC." Gay Travelers: St. Louis, Missouri Out of Town: Portland, Oregon Dining In or OUT Approximately, 50,000 served prison terms as convicted homosexuals, while an unknown number were institutionalized in mental hospitals. Ferguson could be the first openly transgender candidate for President. BOOKS This book will help you to live authentically and achieve your dreams. You can embrace who you are, get ,vhat you want, and make a difference in the world. Love, money, joy, peace, power and passion can be yours. ON THE COVER: EUREKA SPRINGS, ARKANSAS STAR DISTRIBUTION: OKLAHOMA CiTY TULSA LAVVTON MCALESTER * ENID * LITTLE ROCK * NORTH LITTLE RODK * FAYETTEVtLLE * FT SMITH * EUREKA SPRINGS * HOT SPRINGS * BENTONVILLE * ROGERS * KANSAS CITY * SPRINGFIELD * JOPLIN * BRANSON AREA* WICHITA* PITTSBURG * JUNCTION CITY 4 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com Home Tour sllated for O dest Historic District "Brady Heights" Green Renovation Home Tour 2007" TULSA, OK___On Sunday, October 14th residents of Brady Heights, Tulsa’s oldest historic district, will open their homes to the public for a neighborhood tour of some of the State’s most original and historic homes, as part of Oklahoma’s Centennial celebration. Oklahoma’s early political, mercantile, oil, spiritual and social leaders made Brady Heights their home in an era that spanned Territorial Days through the 1930s. The homes vary in style and design from Victorian and American Foursquare Style, through to the Wright inspired Prairie Style and the Craftsman Bungalow Style. Residents have lovingly restored the homes and guests will be treated to casual discussions by the homeowners relating the history of their home and the machinations they Went through to restore them. Many of the homes still retain original details such as: leaded glass, carriage houses, craftsman made detailing and broad front porches. The tour provides a unique look into the preservation of Oklahoma’s architectural history while highlighting resource conversation. Visitors will have the opportunity to review the resource-conserving materials and practices used in these historic restorations as well as talk with providers of"greeff’ products and technologies. Brady Heights abuts the Brady Arts District and lies on North Denver and North Cheyenne Avenues. The tour will start at 12 noon on Sunday, October 14th and begins at the Centenary United Methodist Church, 621 N. Denver Ave. The fee is $7.50 for adults and $3.00 for children under seventeen with no charge for children under twelve. Tickets will be available until 4pm the day of the event and the tour ends at 5pm. Advance tickets are available at www.bradyheights. com. Proceeds will benefit community projects of the Brady Heights Neighborhood Association. www.ozarksstar.com Brady Heights has a spectacular history of rebirth. Suffering from abandonment and crime in the 60’s and 70’s, a renaissance began in the early 80’s when Brady Heights was placed On the National Register of Historic Places. The most diverse neighborhood in Tulsa, Brady Heights boasts a co!- lection of families and individuals of all races, income ranges, ages, sexual orientations and religions. Proud urban pioneers were guaranteed continued historic integrity of their homes and neighborhood when the Brady Heights Historic District was granted the Historic Preservation Overlay Zoning by the City ofTulsa. For more information about Brady Heights mad The Historic Home Tour, please visit www.bradyheights.com. the STAR 5 6 the STAR By James Nimmo OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__ I’m a big fan of the Internet and think it’s one of the most momentous advances in human communication since our hairy, howling, humanoid ancestors developed spoken language. Then, with Gutenberg and the invention of movable type, it became possible for large numbers of people to communicate over great distance and beyond life times, two of the greatest inconveniences in maintaining human progress. Now, the electronic Internet takes care of distance and time, while cell phones introduce the convenience of mobility in communication. TXT MSGing (text messaging) has caught on in a big way. It allows frequently used expressions to be condensed to acronyms and abbreviations for quick notes to be displayed in the small confines of the cell phone display window. "l-he American LGBT equality movement has its own list ofTXT MSG acronyms that represents the core of discrimination still being directed at us, even as many countries in western Europe, the Southern Hemisphere, Canada, and Mexico have recognized the inherent right of their own LGBT citizens to the legal equality of a modern, humane society. ENDA -- Employment Non-Discrimination Act MSA/HCPA -- Mathew Shepard Act/Hate Crimes Protection Act DOMA -- Defense of Marriage Act DODT -- Don’t Ask Don’t Tell (Don’t Pursue) Anyone who knows he/she is LGBT should be familiar with these text letters and know the importance of having the first two passed and the last two overturned. ENDA and MSA have passed the House where there is a Democratic majority, though full disclosure nags me to remind you that Oklahoma’s lone DEMO in DC, Dan Boren, voted against our LGBT citizenship, but then he was swimming upstream against the popular tide with the minority of House GOP’ers. I say against the tide because a recent NYTimes poll indicated that 75% ofDEMOS and 49% of GOP’ers thought same-gender couples should have marriage equality or civil marriage. Can it be anymore clear that the people are ahead, the engine is in front of the caboose. A recent report tabulating the current roster of presidential candidates published by the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force (NGLTF, www.thetaskforce.org) shows that based on the candidates’s own words, all the DEMOS support ENDA and MSA, while the GOP’ers have disdain or no opinion. With DOMA and DODT the count is much the same. But some DEMOS are dragging their feet in regard to same-gender marriage. Only Kucinich and Gravel clearly support unequivocally full-blown same-gender marriage. IMO, we LGBT people need to tell our candidates to get on the equality train. Never before have our issues been so prominently in the spotlight of public view and we need to push our candidates, regardless of party, to keep the light on fairness and parity. BTW, CUA, and THX for reading. EOM. Creating Community for People living ~7ith H Dd/AiDS A 501 c (3) Non Profit" Org~tnizat~ioia Our House, Too offers a variety of activities for people who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS to help combat the soolal isolation that many of our people live through each and everyday. We provide a Toiletry and Household Pantry for those "~,’ho are HIV+ and or living with AIDS who cannot afford to purchase these items for themselves, We invite anyone would like to volunteer or provide nancial assistan~ to please contact us by phone 918-585-9552 or e-mail harrisrnmjr@yahco.com. www.0zarksstar.c0m www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 7 Recognized by Keller Williams For outstanding achi~rnent 2005 and 2006 Chuck Breckenddge 918-706-1887 8 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 9 Summer 2007 Diversity Weekend Eureka Springs, Arkansas, August 3,5 By STAR Staff EUREKA SPRINGS, AR__Ifyour planning a trip to the Gayest little city in America, this coming weekend should prove to be a fun time, and if you plan to hitch up with that special love of your life with a Domestic Partner Registration you will need to get there early on Friday August 3rd or you’ll have to wait until Monday. Applicants must appear in person with proof of age and the $35 registration fee in cash. Application forms are available at http://www. cityofeurekasprings.org/. Certificates of Registry will not be mailed to applicants. The City Clerk’s office is in the City Hall, lower level of the Western Carroll County Courthouse, 44 S. Main. Office hours are 9:30 a.m. to 12 noon and 1:30 to 4:30 p.m. Once you have that certificate safely tucked away in your travel bag, step out and enjoy some live action, good food and the great hospitality of Eureka Springs. Friday/Saturday, August 3, 4: Hitch up the U-Haul: The 12th annual YARDS AND YARDS OF YARD SALES (almost 100 last year). Find locator maps at shops and restaurants. Sponsored-oddly-by the Greater Eureka Springs Chamber of Commerce. Patronized-avidly-by antique queens from far and near. Friday - Sunday, August 3, 4, 5: Hitch up the Pop-up: DIVERSITY CAMP OUT, Lake Leather~ vood (nice combo there, doncha think?) campground (479) 253-2866. Advance reservations for RV sites ($15/night) and cabins ($70/night) required. Tenters ($10/night) pre-register at (479) 387- 2871 or RaeSwt@yahoo.com by July 30. Canoe & Paddle Boat Rentals Available. Fishing, Hiking, Biking and Swimming. Community Potluck Dinners & Campfires. Weenies and S’mores. Just two miles west of Eureka Springs offU.S. Highway 62. Frida~ August 3 S&M: Stand and Model at the Diversity Weekend Kick-Off Party. Serious cruising begins here. ’PRINCESS’ WELCOME MIXER Caribe Restaurante y Cantina, 309 W. Van Buren, 7-9 p.m.ish. Cosponsored by Diversity Pride Events and Eureka Pride. Mix and mingle with locals and visitors from around the country- Lipstick ladies and sturdy gurls, leather to Levi guys, twinks, trans, clones, bis and burly bears. Contact: info@eurekapride.com Spin Cycle: 10 pm - DJ Kyle Egan Live at Henri’s Just One More, 19 1/2 Spring St. Dance to the hottest hip hop and R&B mixed live on two turntables. Shot specials all night. Saturdaj6 August 4 Straddle This: DIVERSITY BIKERS BRUNCH & RIDE 10AM. Join Diversity Pride Events and the Diversity Bikers at the Best Western Inn of the Ozarks, 207 WVan Buren. Then, saddle up and ride to show your true Rainbmv colors. \Vet n’ Wild: MENS AND WOMENS SWIM PARTIES, 11 a.m. to 4 p,m. MEN: Rodeway Inn Swiss Holiday Resort, 2015 E. Van Buren. Featuring DJ Rob. \VOMEN: Carolyn’s Ozark Swiss Inn, 3061 E. Van Buren. Kiss Off: PUBLIC DISPLAY OF AFFECTION (PDA) photo shoot, 12 noon in Basin Park band shell, downtown. A G-rated opportunity to smooch your sweetie-or the perfect stranger-for posterity. And to amuse the tourists and annoy the fundies. A chance, too, to show a Christian biker group-the Jericho Riders from Missouri-the difference between love and hate. The bikers will be in the park at the same time, praying for the Domestic Partnership Registry to go away. Not a chance. But be NICE to them anywa): Remember, the whole world is watching. Cake ’n Cocktails: A reception honoring DOMESTIC PARTNERS, family and friends at 6 to 8 p.m. Generously hosted by Henri’s Just One More, 19 1/2 Spring St. Sponsored by gaynewsbureau. com. No cover. Cash bar. Open to the public. Even-or especially-the Jericho Christian Bikers. Splane it to us Lucy: Robbie Walker and a special guest, or a cavalcade of stars, xWith Robbie, you just never know. 9 pm Saturday night at Henri’s Just One More. Come early. Robbie PACKS the house. Subterranean Collision Course: Diversity Pride Events brings "COLLIDE" DANCE PARTY to Eureka Live Night Club, one flight belmv street level at 35 N. Main, 9 p.m.-2 p.m. Featuring DJ Rob. Contact: deborah@diversitypride.com Disco Hoedown: Diversity Pride Event’s RETRO/COUNTRY D~a~NCE & CABARET, 9 pm. to 2 p.m. at Caribe Restaurante y Cantina, 309 W. Van Buren. Featuring DJ/singer Mary King and additional performers. Contact: deborah@diversitypride.com Sunday, August 5: A Feather In Your Cap: See Hitchcock classic "THE BIRDS" at our downtown BYO-canvas-chair-or-blanket and kids-and-dogs outdoor, under-the-stars Luckyl3 Starlight Cinema. The TIPI HEDREN LOOK-ALIKE CONTEST alone is reason enough to extend your visit to Eureka Springs one more day. In the parking lot next to the Basin Park Bath House (huh?), 1 N. Main St. Start time: When the bats fly. Weekend schedule provided by http://www.eurekagaynews.com/ 10 the STAR ~wvw.ozarksstar.com Joplin’s Seventh Annual "Night of Stars 2007" %Viii Feature Ben Miller Band By STAR Staff JOPLIN, MO Tim and Tom’s 7th annual Night of Stars Gala is scheduled for September 12th. ~Ihe Event will be held at Kitchen Pass Bar and Restaurant, 1212 S. Main Street, Joplin, MO. Phone 417-624-9095. The Night of Stars affair is held each year to raise awareness within the GLBTA community, and to raise money for the critical needs of those living with HIV/AIDS in the SW Missouri area. All proceeds go to the non-profit organization AIDS Project of the Ozarks. In an interview Tim said, "We still need auction items. This year we are doing a buffet from 5:30 pm to 7pm and 2 beer tickets for $25.00 per person or you can buy a table for 10 for $200.00. After 7:00 pm door charge will be $6.00 per person. Entertainment this year will be the Ben Miller Band. The silent auction will start then also. I think it will be a great night and raise money for a greater cause. We are looking forward to seeing you there." If you have any questions please feel free to call Tom @ 417-629- 8994 or Tim @ 417-629-8995 1-800-535-NDS (2437) Oklahoma’s HIVISTD Hotline www.ozarksstar.com No Surprises Staying with... Rodeway inn Ozarks Family Owned! Great Sunday, Thursday Rates ’Visitors center and area attraction ticket center o Jacuzzi king rooms for two, On.site weddings and wedding .packages Close to restaurants and attraCti0ns Small pets allowed. Family reunions ,0~ark Mountain Motorcycle Tours of popular area deStinations, Picnic. and barbecue area- Group rates and package plans Church group packages,a{,ailable , Friendliest atmosphere in Eureka.Springs Family . ofwonrgeudeasntsd.oCpoenratitneedn,taTlroblrleeyaksfatospt . MFreeeetitnagnnr0inog~bteod h01d 80 with full kitchen ; On-site massage therapy mater,Guest aundry Center of all attracti0ns Call for toll free reservations: 1-888o582o84 4 P.O’ Box 430° Eureka Springs, Arkansas 72632 479’253-9501 www,eurekaspringsresort,com the STAR 11 ]~t~s hard to believe. Here’s a x 6thcentury Baroque master whose bold naturalistic painting style t~rst created whose life was filled with ~e turbulence and excess of a do~e:n Mario Pu~o novels. ~ouM~,u~yfound re~mption and i~ormliW in his ~t. But does the averag~ kid on the s~eer even know ~vho Carava~io F~hgedaboudit. T~ ~d. Xs~cmHy when you consider how much our c~ldren can lea~ ~om the conflicted life a ~eat ar~st like Miche~ngelo Caravaggio. ~e grew up in less ~an ideal circ~stances. Most ofhis f~ily died m the plague. Much of his youth was misspent on the mean s~¢ets of Rome. And as a young artist he strt~gg]ed for years to make a living. He was angry. Yet the angry contrast between iight and darkness in h~ work isthe very reason it no~v hangs in countless museums ~around the world. If nothing else, it’s a case study of the importance of having art as an outlet. Unfomanately, one we’re fast removing from our kids" lives. If the arts are indeed a vital part o£ your child’s education ~and studies show you believe they a~e), th,n you should demand his or her fair share. To find out how, or for more information about benefits of arts education, please visit us at AmericansForTheArts;org, Because, as Caravagglo would tel! you~ life without artis tomlre. Historic American Event August 9th on LOGO TVo OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__ Maintaining its grassroots traditions, the Oklahoma Democratic Party and OK Stonewall Democrats will host a meet-n-greet on Thursday, August 9, starting at 6:00pm at the Party’s headquarters at 4100 N. Lincoln Boulevard. This informal reception will have refreshments and live entertainment until 8:00pro. Following immediately will be a watch party to view the live streaming video of the LOGO TV and Human Rights Campaign sponsored forum between the Democratic Presidential candidates. This is the first forum in American election history devoted exclusively to LGBT concerns. Both events are free to the public. Oklahoma Stonewall Democrats (wwv.okstonewall. org) is a chapter of National Stonwall Democrats in Washington, DC (wvw. stonewalldemocrats.org) and a recognized dub of the State Democratic Party (www. okdemocrats.org). We work for the equality ofAmerica’s LGBT citizens in its social and political life. TAMMY FAYE DIES AT AGE 65 WASHINGTON, DC~The National Gay and Lesbian Task Force expressed its condolences at the passing ofTammy Faye (Bakker) Messner, ex-wife of disgraced evangelist Jim Bakker. Messner died last Friday after a long battle with cancer. Statement by Matt Foreman, Executive Director National Gay and Lesbian Task Force "Tammy Faye became an icon for our community. In spite of-- and perhaps because of the hardships she faced -- she embraced us, she refused to judge and repudiated those who did. She will be long-remembered and deeply missed. Our condolences go to her family and her wide circle of loving friends." Christmas In Ju y Fundraiser A Great Success! By STAR Staff TULSA, OK Yes Mrs. Hood, there is a Santa Clause! But in July? Bamboo Lounge Tulsa and Miss Bamboo 2007, Holly Rose hosted the First Annual Miss Bamboo Christmas in July charity event to a packed house and a delighted crowd. The entertainers and auction raised $600 to benefit H.O.EE. Clinic ofTulsa. Clinic personnel were also in attendance and administering free AIDS/HIV testing. H.O.EE. testing clinic is a non-profit Mens Outreach program providing free HIV testing, including the 20 minute OraQuick test. The Clinic is located at 3540 East 31st Street in Tulsa. Phone (918) 812-7045. The Clinic is closed on Friday and Sunday. Their Oklahoma HIV/STD Hotline number is (800) 535-2437 Combine ingredients in mixi~ glass. Add ice, stir to strain into your chille( Glass. Pop in CD for fun www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 13 stream society elevision is a major influence on American popular culture, and the evolving presence ofLGBT people on the small screen has both reflected and fostered acceptance of gays in main- In the 1950s and 1960s - a time when homosexuality ~vas regarded as a crime or a mental illness - a few brave queers began appearing on local television talk shows. In April 1954, Los Angeles station KTTV ran a program called Confidential File featuring a policeman, a psychiatrist, and a gay man, Dale Olson. Asked whether he would change his sexual orientation if he could, Olson replied that he would not; the next day, he was fired from his job. Four years later, New York’s WABD ran a similar program featuring sympathetic psychologist Albert Ellis and Gonzolo Segura, a gay chemist who wore a hood to hide his identity. In November 1964, New York Mattachine Society member Randy, Wicker went undisguised on the popular Les Crane Show, and in 1967, activists Franklin Kameny, Jack Nichols, and Lilli Vincenz appeared on channel WOOK in Washington, D.C. "Once we started appearing on TV and on talk radio shows, [the public] started seeing us as more real," Vincenz later said. LGBT people garnered a national audience in March 1967 with a special episode of CBS Reports entitled "The Homosexuals," hosted by Mike Wallace. The program - which ran with virtually no ads since sponsors wouldn’t touch it - featured Jack Nichols, author Gore Vidal, a federal judge, and conservative psychiatrist Charles Socarides; though Nichols used an alias, he too lost his job. That same year, New York Mattachine president Dick Leitsch appeared on The David Susskind Show, which aired on PBS stations nationwide. In 1971, Susskind featured a panel of lesbians, including Daughters of Bilitis member Barbara Gittings, Wayland Flowers (with his puppet "Madame") who proclaimed, "Homosexuals today are taking it for granted that their homosexuality is not at all something dreadful - it’s good, it’s right, it’s natural, it’s moral, and this is the way they are going to be." By the late 1960s, talk show host Phil Donahue also began featuring queer people (originally on his local program in Dayton, Ohio, which was later nationally syndicated), despite his fear that some viewers might think he was gay, himself. After the Stonewall Riots in June 1969, occasional queer characters began to appear on TV with increasing frequency. The CBS series Medical Center (1969-1976) featured perhaps the first-ever sympathetic portrayals of gay and lesbian characters on television. During the first season of CBS’s _All in the Family_ in 1971, Archie Bunker was taken aback to learn that an old drinking buddy - a former pro football player - was gay. The show prompted then-president Richard Nixon to complain to his staff, "Goddamn it, I don’t think you glorify [homosexuality] on public television." In a later episode, Archie saved the life of a female impersonator, and in the spin-offThe Jeffersons, lead character George reunited with an old Navy buddy who was now a woman. The 1970s also saw the first sympathetic made-for-TV movies, including That Certain Summer (1972), in which a teenage boy discovers his father is gay. While reality TV is often regarded as a recent phenomenon, the 1970s PBS series An American Family portrayed the real-life travails of a Southern California family, the Louds. Teenage son Lance came out on screen in January 1973, sparking both condemnation and applause. He performed in a punk rock band and wrote for magazines, including The Advocate, before dying of liver failure related to HIV and hepatitis C at age 50. Variety shows of the 1970s, such as Rowan and Martin’s Laugh-In and Saturday Night Live, addressed homosexuality in their skits, often by making fun of stereotypical gay characters. By mid-decade, three gay men - Paul Lynde (~vho previously played a bachelor warlock on Bewitched), Charles Nelson Reilly (who had a role in the children’s show Lidsville), and Wayland Flmvers (with his puppet "Madame"), had become flamboyant fixtures on popular game shows, though they did not openly acknowledge their sexuality. While several programs in the 1970s occasionally featured queers, regular LGBT characters were scarce, q-he first, in 1972, was Peter Panama, a gay designer on the short-lived ABC sitcom The Corner Bar. This was followed in 1975 by the first gay male couple, on the network’s Hot L Baltimore. An unhappily married woman on the daytime soap opera Days of Our Lives admitted she was bisexual in 1977, but the storyline was brief. A longer-running and better-known example of a recurring queer character was Jodie Dallas on ABC’s Soap (1977-1982). 14 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com As the gay liberation movement gained political clout, the National Gay Task Force and other activists protested against shows that cast queers in a negative light, including a 1974 episode of Marcus Welby, M.D., in which a male teacher molested a boy. During the first season of Soap, the campy, effeminate Jodie dated a closeted football player and planned to have a sex-change operation, until the Task Force successfially demanded that the script be altered. By the late 1970s, however, the religious right had also become more powerful, and producers and advertisers began to face competing boycott threats from queers and conservatives. (Continued in part 2.) What were some milestones for queers on television? (Part 2) milestones. espite growing pressure from conservatives follmving the proliferation of LGBT characters in the mid-1970s, the 1980s and 1990s witnessed no shortage of queer television In 1981, ABC’s popular Dynasty introduced Steven Carrington, the first openly bisexual regular character in a dramatic series. The network’s daytime soap opera All My Children featured its first gay storyline in 1983, when erstwhile heterosexual Devon McFadden declared her love for her lesbian psychiatrist. Five years later, ABC presented the first recurring out lesbian character in prime time - nurse Marilyn McGrath on the short-lived medical drama Heartbeat. During these decades, television increasingly addressed issues of concern to the LGBT community. The 1985 made-for-TV movie An Early Frost offered one of the first portrayals of people with AIDS. MTV’s The Real World also dealt with AIDS, featuring HIV-positive Pedro Zamora during its 1994 season. That same year saw the first televised gay male wedding, on the CBS series Northern Exposure, set in a small Alaska town founded by a lesbian couple. www.ozarksstar.com Paul Lynde (who previouslyplayed a bachelor warlock on Bewitched) The first same-sex wedding be~veen two women - with activist Candace Gingrich serving as the minister - came on Friends in 1996. NBC’s TV movie Serving in Silence (1995) related the story of Lt. Margarethe Cammermeyer, who was ousted from the military after acknowledging that she was a lesbian. But not until 2006 did The L Word introduce Moira/Max, the first female-tomale character to transition on the small screen, followed later that year by Zarf/Zoe’s male-to-female transition on All My Children. In a bid for increased visibility, LGBT people continued to appear on television talk shows, even as such programs shifted from the measured affairs hosted by David Susskind and Phil Donahue to shows in which hosts and audience members blatantly attacked the guests. The controversy over "trash TV" came to a head in March 1995, when Jonathan Schmitz killed Scott Amedure after Amedure revealed his crush on Schmitz on The JenW Jones Show. Over the years, expressions of same-sex affection between women were more accepted than those between men. In November 1989, the sitcom thirtysomething lost more than $1 million in ad revenue when it showed two men in bed together, even though a preceding kiss was axed. In February 1991, C.J. Lamb and Abby Perkins, two attorneys on NBC’s L.A. Law, shared the first lesbian kiss on network TV. In 1994, over the objections of network executives, Roseanne kissed a lesbian character played by Mariel Hemingway, and the following year on Star Trek: Deep Space Nine, the character Jadzia Dax kissed a woman who xvas the re-embodiment of her dead husband. AJanuary 1997 episode of Relativity showed a passionate, close-up lesbian lip-lock, and two years latin; TV lawyer Ally McBeal shared a prolonged smooch with a female office rival. Fox’s _Melrose Place_ deleted a planned prime-time gay male kiss due to boycott threats in 1994, leaving Jack and Ethan on WB Network’s Dawson’s Creek to break that barrier in 2000. The late 1990s saw the first shows with prominent LGBT lead characters. On April 30, 1997 - after months of innuendo - Ellen DeGeneres had the most famous smallscreen coming-out, in a star-studded episode of her ABC sitcom Ellen that attracted some 35 million viewers. But not tong thereafter, her same-sex kiss on the show prompted a parental advisory warning, and the program’s ratings dropped as it began to focus more on gay issues. NBC’s Will and Grace also broke new ground, though some viewers were disappointed that the gay male lead never had an ongoing romantic relationship. The turn of the century witnessed the most visible queer personality on reality TV since Lance Loud, when self-proclaimed "fat naked fag" Richard Hatch - who later served time for evading taxes on his prize money - won the first season of Survivor in 2000. Reichen Lehmkuhl and Chip Arndt, the couple who triumphed in the fourth season of CBS’s The Amazing Race (2003), proved to be more likable gay role models. That year also saw the debut of Bravo’s popular Queer Eye for the Straight Guy, featuring five gay men giving fashion and lifestyle advice to style-challenged heterosexuals. Cable television offered the most daring series featuring primarily queer casts, beginning with Showtime’s Queer as Folk in 2000 and The L Word in 2004. In a reflection of growing LGBT economic clout, Canada’s PrideVision (later renamed OutTV) became the world’s first channel offering full-time programming for a queer audience in 1991. The U.S. cable channels Here! TV, QTelevision Network, and MTV/Viacom’s Logo followed suit, ................ Continued page 23 the STAR 15 One ofPortland’s hippest hangoutsfor cocktails and terrificfood, the Mint restaurant and adjoining 820 bar are owned by highly talented and openly gay drink mixologist Lucy Brennan. (Photo by Andrew Collins) It’s both a cliche and an injustice to compare Portland xvith Seat~e and Vancouver, but people do it all the rime - the three eiries are, after all, the crown jewels of the Pacific Northxvest. Portland stands very much on its oxvn, however, and despite its considerable groxv~ in recent years, it retains a surprisingly intimate scale and lowkeyed personalit3: Gay and lesbian visitors xvill discover a city xvith no predon~finantly alternative neighborhood, but a progressive, welcoming attitude that permeates every inch of the city. The city’s strengths include a plethora of classy, gay-friendly, boutique-style hotds (many of them xvithin walking distance of the city’s best gay bars); a pedestrian-friendly downtown with lively cultural venues and engaging retail strips; and one of the most exciting restaurant scenes around. Even better, accommodations and meals cost considerably l~ss here than in other West Coast cities of comparable acclaim. If it seems odd that you haven’t heard more about Portland, keep in mind that locals are fiercely intent on keeping it from groxving too big and too croxvded - the city is, by design, a well-guarded secret. Portland lies just below the confluence of the Columbia and the Willamette rivers. The Columbia forms the border between Washington and Oregon; from it, the Willamette txvists in a southerly direction, bisecting the city and its attractive skyline. In this eclectic city center, high-end boutiques border funky pawn shops, dapper bistros sit beside humble burger joints, and postmodern office towers rise above cast-iron Victorians. Along the river, Tom McCall Waterfront Park stretches for more than a mile, providing a scenic venue for cycling, jogging, and sunning. Brown baggers congregate at Pioneer Square, a tidy redbrick plaza at Yamhill Street and Broadxvay. Many high-end chain stores are clustered here, including NikeTown, the unabashedly commercial tribute to the Portland-based maker of athletic wear, and Nordstrom. South of Pioneer Square the impressive Portland Center for the Performing Arts presents ballet, opera, and classical music, and the Portland Art Museum specializes in Native American, regional contemporary, and graphic arts. A fexv blocks northwest lies the city’s compact gay entertainment district, mostly along bar-studded Stark Street. Vintageclothing, book, and used-record shops line Burnside and Oak streets, including one of the nation’s most famous bookstores, Powell’s, which has an enormous GLBT section. Across Burnside is Portland’s hottest neighborhood, the swank Pearl District, where massive warehouse buildings have been converted into trendy loft-style condos and hip eateries. The Pearl District’s Bluehour is well-regarded for its inventive seafood, such as semolina-encrusted halibut with lava beans and an herb-risotto cake. The same culinary team is behind Saucebox, a sdf-conseiously hip care delivering tasty multinational fare. Budget time to explore Portland’s Northwest neighborhood, along 23rd and 21st avenues, where upscale boutiques and restaurants proliferate, including one of Portland’s hottest purveyors of Pacific Northwest cuisine, Wildwood. The menu here changes often but might feature, for example, day-oven roasted leg of lamb with summer squash grarin. From Northwest you’re a short drive from Metro Washington Park Zoo, which anchors 322-acre, densely wooded Washington Park, opposite xvhich sits the International Rose Test Garden; 10,000 bushes with more than 500 varieties are displayed xvithin its 4 acres. Just up the hill is a serene Japanese garden. The wooded grounds abut the 5,000-acre Forest Park, great for hiking and biking. Across the Williamette River from downtown you’ll find several neighborhoods acclaimed for their artsy fed, popularity with gays and lesbians, and wealth of great shopping and dining options. The Hawthorne District might just be Portland’s most lesbian-popular neighborhood, and it also has scads of pleasing retail and dining options, including the superb Castagna Restaurant, known for its creative regional Northwestern cuisine. Bread and Ink Care is another Hawthorne favorite, captivating regulars with its Mediterranean, Mexican, and Yiddish fare (how’s that for an unlikely trinity?). The cheeseburgers garner raves all around, as do the chicken enchiladas. Nearby Southeast Stark and Southeast Belmont streets also hold a share of the area’s coffeehouses, boutiques, and music clubs. Other East Side neighborhoods of note 20 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com include Alberta, Division/Clinton, and East Burnside. And the once derelict industrial area on the northeastern shores of the Willamette, the Lloyd District, now contains a convention center, sports stadiums, and the impressive 200-store Lloyd Center mall. The variety of excellent, gay-friendly restaurants on the East Side is staggering, but standouts include Mint/820, a contemporary bistro and cocktail bar owned by openly gay and nationally renowned drink mixologist Lucy Brennan; and Rocket, a see-and-be-seen space known for such simple but mouthwatering fare as braised beef rib with red wine jus and black cod with a radish salad. Also consider sassy Rou_x for imaginatively rendered New Orleans-style cuisine; Helser’s on Alberta for amazingly delicious breakfast and lunch fare; and Vindalho for modern Indian food. There are countless opportunities for getting out and enjoying the countryside within a short drive of Portland. Rooster Rock (aka Cock Rock) State Park lies 20 miles east of the city in the scenic Columbia Gorge and is a favorite place for gay sunbathers. Sauvies Island, about 8 miles northwest of Portland, has another scenic and scene-y clothing-optional beach with a decidedly gay following. This area is also poptflar for kayaking and boating - you can rent kayaks or take tours from Scappoose Bay Kayaking, and Portland’s own Out Kayatdng is a GLBT social group dedicated to this very ?ctivity - it welcomes visitors on its frequent weekend excursions. In the other direction, magnificent Mt. Hood (elevation 11,300 feet) offers year-round skiing, great hiking, challenging rock-climbing, and plenty more to get the blood flowing. In the same area, you can take a hair-raising whitewater rafting trip on the roiling Clackamas River - a highly reliable outfitter for this activity is Destination Wilderness. And south of Portland, you’ll find the fantastic Willamette Valley wine country, which has become internationally renowned for its pinot noir and pinot gris. Numerous wineries in the valley are open for tastings. With one of the more pronounced and vibrant women’s scenes on the West Coast, Portland has not only a couple of popular lesbian bars but also many spots where both women and men congregate. Near Hawthorne, the Egyptian Club is the most popular such venue, with strippers some nights and always a big crowd for dancing. Also on the east side of town, Crush is a swish and sophisticated cocktail lounge drawing a mix ofwomen and men. The kitchen here turns out excellent bistro fare, and there’s a popular brunch on weekends. Stark Street has the bulk of the city’s top gay clubs, including Boxxes and Red Cap, a pulsing dance club-cum-video bar; Eagle PDX, a cruisy leather bar; Silverado (think go-go boys); and Scandals, a convivial and laid-back video bar popular with the after-work set. After the bars close, gay meets grunge in the neighborhood’s 24- hour diner, the Roxy; on any given night you’ll see big hair, pierced extremities, lotsa muscle, leather, rubber, drag - you name it. Old Town, a short walk from the Stark Street area, also has a handful of noteworthy gay hangouts, among them the upscale steak house Hobo’s - this popular lounge has piano music nightly. Darcelle XV Showplace is famous for its elaborate drag revues; on nights the gals don’t dress up, strippers dress down. C. C. Slaughter’s is Old Town’s top gay dance club, pulling in a mostly under-35 crowd and pulsing into the late hours. Portland abounds with distinctive hotels. The famously gay-friendly Kimpton Group has a pair of gems. With the Hotel Monaco, Kimpton improved on a familiar Portland strategy: Take a classy old building and convert it into a charming hotel. Many of the accommodations here are full suites, and all have such high-end amenities as DVD players and 12Occitane bath products. You’ll find the same level of quality at intimate Hotel Vintage Plaza. Rooms in this restored downtown 1894 building are large and done in warm colors; many have two-person hot tubs and spiral staircases leading to second-story sleeping lofts. The hotel’s Pazzo Ristorante serves exceptional contemporary Italian fare. You’l! find several more gay-friendly hotels of note around the city, some high-end, and some geared toward travelers on a budget. On the inexpensive side, try the offbeat Ace Hotel, which is set inside a vintage 1912 building along Stark Street’s gay bar strip. There’s a bohemian sensibility to the place, from the coffeehouse off the lobby to the contemporary paintings in the large but modestly furnished rooms. Upscale choices include the Hotel Deluxe, a retro-cool property with plush rooms and one of the coolest little bars in the city, the Driftwood Room. Its sister property is the even more stunning Hotel Lucia, a modern, artful lodging in the heart of downtown. Among the perks are iPod docking stations in every room. For a more intimate experience, try the MacMaster House B&B, which is on swank King’s Hill, two blocks from Washington Park. This grand turn-of-the-century Colonial Revival home is convenient to the business district. The rooms have a romantic mix of antiques and reproductions, and four have fireplaces. Arguably Portland’s most distinctive accommodations, however, are found at the Jupiter Hotel, which is just across the Willamette from downtown and is a favorite roost among hipsters, musicians, artists, and bon vivants. The once prosaic motor court has been transformed into a mod boutique hotel with sleek furnishings and a playful sensibility. ~he on-site Doug Fir restaurant and lounge hosts a wide range of indie rock bands, and the Jupiter has its own branch of the popular Portland adult erotica shop, Spartacus Leathers. This is one hotel where you’re never far from romantic inspiration. www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 21 AUGUST 2007 Repeating Holocaust History Lesbian Notions, looks atpeople who seem toforget the history ofthe Holocaust. Photo: Anti-Gayprotest marc,b 1939Nazi Germany it wasn’t unril the U.S. Holocaust Memorial Museum in Washington, D.C., opened in 1993 that this treatment was brought to national and international attention. As a second-generation Jew on the cusp of turning 50, I grew up with stories ofWorld War II and the reality ofthd Holocaust. My father fought in the war; my mother was in the Signal Corps. Anti-Semitism was a hatred I was taught about at an early age - from hearing the stories of pogroms in Eastern Europe, where my family was from, to reading and talking about Hitler’s rage against anyone different from his Aryan ideal. In the 1960s and ’70s, few publicly questioned whether the Holocaust happened, as some revisionist historians, Iranian President Mahmoud Ahmadinejad, and others do today. It was a time when the slogan "Never I was in D.C. for the 1993 lesbian and gay March on Washington. Hundreds of us gathered at the museum the evening before it opened, laying down carnations to symbolize the lives of gays and lesbians lost in the Holocaust and praying for their souls. Since opening, the museum has printed educational material, sponsored major exhibitions about gays and the Holocaust, and has an online exhibition dedicated to the subject. Thousands of gay men were killed in the concentration camps, forced to wear pink triangles so everyone knew why they ~vere there. These men ~vere not only abused - and even killed - by the Nazis and the people who ran the camps, but they were also subjected to the homophobic reactions of their fellow prisoners. Again" was a rallying cry for American Jews More than 100,000 gay men were arrested under the Nazis’ notorious Paragraph 175 so that we would never forget the six million law that broadly defined lewd behavior who died in the camps, between men. A man could literally be ar- It was only after I came out that I learned that gay men and lesbians were also interred in the concentration camps. It certainly wasn’t something I was taught in Hebrew school. I knew early on that Jews were not the only ones targeted by the Nazis, although we were the largest group. Germans with disabilities or mental illness, Jehovah’s Witnesses, Gypsies, Poles, and Soviet prisoners of war, among others, also found themselves in concentration camps. But no one ever talked about the gays. Richard Plant published The Pink Triangle in 1988, which chronicled the atrocities against lesbians and gays inthe camps. But rested for just looking at another man the "wrong" way. Approximately, 50,000 served prison terms as convicted homosexuals, while an unknown number were institutionalized in mental hospitals. Hundreds of men were castrated under court order or coercion. According to the museum, record-keeping on gay concentration camp victims is sketchy, but it estimates that between 5,000 and 15,000 gay men were imprisoned at the camps, where many died from starvation, disease, exhaustion, beatings, and murder. After the camps were liberated, many of the German gays were sent back to prison to finish their terms, because Paragraph 175 was not among the Nazi laws that were repealed. 22 the STAR The museum is one of the world’s leaders in making sure we don’t forget what happened during the Nazi reign of terror. Too bad some others - like the ultra-orthodox Haredi sect ofJews in Israel - apparently haven’t made the trip to D.C. or availed themselves of the museum’s online resources. The Haredi are the folks who routinely protest Gay Pride parades in Israel - the country that was established as a democracy that would be a haven for the persecuted Jews of Nazi Germany, the former Soviet Union, and other countries. All the Haredi are doing is repeating the hatred that fueled the Holocaust in the first place. They put a hate-filled coalition of reactionary Christians, Muslims, and Jews together to try and stop World Pride from happening in Jerusalem. It always amazes me how conveniently and quickly enemies become allies when it comes to denying us our rights, our pride, our way of life. This year in Jerusalem, the Orthodox Righteous Court of Law actually placed a curse on the city’s Pride parade organizers and marchers, as well as on the police who helped to keep the event safe and secure. It went like this: "To all those involved, sinners in spirit, and whoever helps and protects them, may they feel a curse on their souls, may it plague them and may evil pursue them; they will not be acquitted of their transgressions from heavenly judgment." Then you have the ultra-orthodox members of the Knesset, Israel’s parliament, sponsoring bills to outlaw al! gay Pride parades or to establish "rehab centers" to teach us how to repress our sexuality. Knesset member Nissim Ze’ev considers us dangerous and says that the government needs to keep an eye on us. The rehab centers would be staffed with a special team of psychologists, psychiatrists, and social workers who will help us return to "a normal life." According to Ze’ev, lesbian and gay people must be made aware of "how their lifestyle is destroying our existence." Camps, curses, making us the enemy of society - it all smacks of Hitler’s rhetoric. But this time, it’s wrapped in an ultra-orthodox tallit (prayer shawl) that gives it a credibility it doesn’ deserve. www.ozarksstar.com Past Out: producing original programs such as Noah’s Arc - described by The Economist as a takeoff on Sex and the City from an African- American gay male perspective - and the supernatural gay drama Dante’s Cove. The increased presence of LGBT people on TV over the past half century reflects the growing influence of both out queers in the entertainment industry and straight producers who grew up in an era of greater acceptance of sexual diversity. Nonetheless, the Gay and Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation found that during the 2006-2007 broadcast network television season, only 1.3 percent of regular characters on scripted, prime-time programs were gay or lesbian, and none were bisexual or transgender. For further information: Alwood, Edward. 1996. Straight News: Gays, Lesbians, and the News Media (Columbia University Press). Eisenbach, David. 2006. Gay Power: An American Revolution (Carroll & Graf). Raymond, Susan, and Alan Raymond. 2002. Lance Loud! A Death in an American Family (PBS documentary). Transgender Seeks Office ofPresident of the United States. by STAR Staff HUTCHINSON, KS__Bennie Lee Ferguson, of Hutchinson, Kansas, has officially declared candidacy for the office of President of The United States, and for a House of Representatives seat in Kansas district 104. Born on February 25, 1953 at Grace Hospital in Hutchinson, Kansas. The son of an Air Force aerospace engineer and a Kansas farm girl, he spent his childhood in cities and towns all across the nation, from Massachusetts to California, always returning, however, to his home in Reno County and Hutchinson. Ferguson is running on the Libertarian ticket, and will be a write-in candidate in the General Presidential Election in 2008. While openly transgender candidates for office like Kim Coco Iwamoto (HI), Dana Beyers (MD) and Amanda Simpson (AZ) have experienced some modicum of success at the state level, Ferguson could be the first openly transgender candidate for President, and is certainly the first transgender candidate for a state legislative seat in the state that elected Sam Brownback (R, KS). It should be noted that now Republican Presidential Candidate Brownback was one of the three candidates at the first Republican debate to declare the theory of evolution invalid. Ferguson’s campaign isn’t necessarily based on being transgender. The candidate’s platform is firmly rooted in the Libertarian philosophy, preservation of personal civil liberties being the supporting plank of the Libertarian platform. While Ferguson is not running specifically as a transgender candidate, the idea of the preservation of individual liberties is certainly consistent with the interests of the transgender community. Candidate Ferguson faces an uphill batde in both the Presidential and the House of Representatives race. This is her second bid for a seat in this district. Of course, the opportunity to project a positive image of transgender people as active participants in the American political process is certainly an endeavor worth supporting. Ferguson holds a Bachelor’s degree from Wichita State University where he is currently enrolled in the graduate program. He expects to graduate with a Master’s degree in history in spring of 2008. In connection with his master’s thesis on the subject of micropatrology (the study of small self-proclaimed nations), he has founded The Kingdom of Fergus within the city limits of Hutchinson, Kansas. The principles espoused by the micronations movement are philosophically akin to Libertarian views. Following his graduation, he intends to commute to law school at Oklahoma City University having already taken the Law School Admissions Test in 2004. Ferguson also continues to work as an entertainer. The Ben Ferguson Band is a popular attraction throughout the area and he has appeared several times at Hutch Fest and the Kansas State Fair. Bennie will answer your questions and accept campaign contributions at bennieleeferg@ hotmail.com. www.ozarksstar.com The STAR 23 ARE RIGHT AROUND THE CO ER FROM NATIONAL COMING OUT DAY AND SHE IS COMING OUT IN A BIG WAY @~nother National Coming Out Day is approaching and change is in the air. Gays are fighting for the right to get legally married and to be legally protected against hate crimes and discrimination. Scientists are looking for the gay gene. Gay themes are frequently seen in major T~. shows. We have GLBT cable stations, LOGO and here! and shows like Queer as Folk, Will and Grace, Noah’s Arc, and the L-Word, which focus on the lives of homosexual people. Openly gay people like Rosie O’Donnell, Melissa Ethridge, and Ellen have successful careers that are building a bridge between gays and straight people. And The Secret, a new bestselling book by Rhonda Byrnes, describes a new spirituality, a new way of thinking about God, the universe and ourselves. So, where are we headed? We are running down the yellow brick road toward freedom - freedom in the truest sense of the word. Freedom from discrimination; freedom to marry the one we love; freedom from traditional spirituality; freedom to feel good about ourselves; freedom to break down cultural walls, freedom from labels of good and bad, freedom from society’s rules and government propaganda, freedom from the "musts" and "shoulds" and "need tos;" freedom from limiting beliefs about who we are and our value to the world; freedom from separateness and freedom to pursue our dreams. Grace Lawson realized at the age of 41 that she is gay. Since then she has gone through significant personal transformation including leaving a heterosexual marriage, finding her true love, and moving from a traditional Christian view of God to a much deeper spirituality. She has written a book called Coming Out Coming Alive which is about personal freedom; about becoming who you truly are. And this book is the final stage of her own coming out. The environment at the corporate office where she works may be homophobic and she could loose her job over this, but she is willing to take the risk for the sake of the book and what it can do for the world. This book will help you to live authentically and achieve your dreams. You can embrace who you are, get what you want, and make a difference in the world. Love, money, joy, peace, power and passion can be yours. htm. Coming Out Coming Alive will be in stores on September 1st, but you can get it early at http:// www.comingoutcomingalive. com/COCABook. 26 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com Openly-Gay Democrats Elected to Lead Young Democrats ofAmerica Stonewall Democrats to Serve as YDA President and Vice President WASHINGTON, DC Today July 23rd, the Nationa! Stonewall Democrats (NSD) congratulated a newly-elected leadership of the Young Democrats ofAmerica (YDA), including two openly-gay Stonewall Democrats who will now lead the organization as President and Executive Vice-President through 2009. "Young voters are the new base of the Democratic Party, and we are proud that the Young Democrats ofAmerica support equality for LGBT families and have placed their faith in the leadership of two great Democratic leaders who happen to be gay," said Jo Wyrick, NSD Executive Director. "The future of our party now has an opportunity to demonstrate to all Democrats how fully engaging our community is politically viable and smart." On Sunday, David Hardt (Texas) was elected as President of the Young Democrats ofAmerica with 93% of the delegate votes during the organization’ s national convention in Dallas. Also elected on Sunday was Chris kaqderson (Tennessee) as the organization’ s Executive Vice President. The election of Hardt and Anderson mark the first time that the Young Democrats ofAmerica will be led by an openly-gay leadership team. The Young Democrats of America GLBT Caucus also elected its new leadership on Saturday, including the election of NSD Board Member Kyle Bailey (Georgia) as Caucus Vice-Chair. Bailey also serves as President of the Atlanta Stonewall Democrats. The other elected GLBT Caucus officers include Rachel Kau-Tayler (California) as Caucus Chair, Rob Hudson (Florida) as Caucus Secretary and Byron LaMasters (Texas) as Caucus Treasurer. The Young Democrats ofAmerica have undertaken a dramatic outreach to LGBT Democrats over the past several years. Congruently, the National Stonewall Democrats have also increased their outreach to LGBT Young and College Democrats. NSD has established youth scholarships for national trainings, including the "Keith Smith Fund" designed to honor the outreach work of former NSD Board Member Keith Smith of Oklahoma. Over the past two years, young leaders within the Stonewall Democrats have also established Stonewall Young Democrats chapters across the country, which serve to organize LGBT Youth within the Democratic Party. As the official youth arm of the Democratic Party, YDA mobilizes young people under the age of 36 to participate in the electoral process, influence the ideals oft,he Democratic Party and develops the skills of the youth generation to serve as leaders at the local and national level. YDA has 43 chartered states and US territories with over 1,500 local chapters. In 2003, members of the National Stonewall Democrats authored and passed language adopted by YDA which declared the organization’ s support for civil marriage for same-sex couples. To learn more about the Keith Smith Fund for LGBT Students go to: www.stonewal ldemocrats, org/smithfund/ Task Force, Inc., releases first comprehensive analysis of2008 presidential candidates’ positions on LGBT issues WASHINGTON, June 27 -- The National Gay and Lesbian Task Force, Inc., today released the first comprehensive analysis of the top 19 candidates for the 2008 presidency on lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) issues. Democrats discussed in this report include Hillary Clinton, John Edwards and Barack Obama. Republicans include Rudy Giuliani, John McCain and Mitt Romney. The report, The 2008 Presidential Candidates’ Positions on Lesbian, Gay; Bisexual and Transgender Issues, and its accompanying chart are based on an analysis of the voting records and public statements of the candidates in eight key LGBT issue areas, including sexual orientation and gender identity nondiscrimination and hate crimes laws; HIV/AIDS prevention and treatment; lifting the military’s ban on openly lesbian, gay and bisexual service members; and partnership recognition for same-sex couples. According to the report, all Democratic candidates are supportive of the majority of LGBT issues, including transgender-inclusive nondiscrimination and hate crimes laws. Only two Democratic candidates support marriage equality for same-sex couples, however, yet all of them are in support of other partnership recognition fights, such as civil unions. Across the board, Republican candidates were in opposition to the majority ofLGBT issues, with most publicly opposing lifting the military’s ban on openly lesbian, gay and bisexual service members. Ten of 11 Republican candidates also oppose any partnership recognition for samesex couples, whether it be marriage equality, civil unions or domestic partnerships. U.S. Rep. Dennis Kucinich is the only 2008 presidential candidate who has publicly supported all eight LGBT issues. Former Massachusetts Gov. Mitt Romney is the only 2008 presidential candidate who has publicly opposed all eight LGBT issues. Statement by Matt Foreman, Executive Director National Gay and Lesbian Task Force, Inc. "The differences between the Democratic and Republican fields of candidates on lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender issues are shockingly stark and profoundly depressing. Over time, the majority ofAmeficans have moved to support basic fairness for LGBT Americans, including nondiscrimination and hate crimes laws, repeal of ’Don’t Ask Don’t’ Tell,’ and protections for our families. Sadly, the Republican field has gone in the opposite direction, still dearly pandering to the venom of the so-called ’religious right.’ This only means that they will continue to use our lives as cultural wedge fodder whenever it’s deemed politically expedient. "The public statements and voting records of the Democratic candidates show that they are clearly light years ahead of the Republicans on almost every issue important to the LGBT community. Nevertheless, the lack of courage on marriage equality is disturbing on both political and moral grounds. Politically, being for civil unions but against marriage doesn’t bring a single voter over from the other side. Morally, it’s hard to understand how a Democratic candidate can say to people they know individually and to one of the most loyal and generous voting blocs the party has, ’Sorry, I just can’t go there -- you understand, right?’ Actually, we don’t." wvw~.ozarksstar.com the STAR 27 "Take a hike, Sagittarius!" Venus squaring Mars provokes libido and creativity. Mars is moving forward from Taurus to Gemini, and Venus is retrograding from Virgo into Leo. This activity creates bold talk and uncertain or ill-considered action. Be very careful what you wish for, especially out loud! ARIES (March 20 -April 19): Baby wants to play! But it’s going to end up costing you in ways you hadn’t bargained on. Caution and forethought were never the best traits of your sign; this would be a good time to work on developing them! TAURUS (April 20 - May 20): Most families are mortal embarrassments, but we see the flaws at home far more clearly than our guests do. (At least we’ll invite the guests back!) These universal constants are driving you mad. Think about home impro.vements, but don’t act now. GEMINI (May 21 - June 20): With your current inability to keep a secret, you must be careful to listen to none. Your own secrets - so deep and dark, even you don’t know them - can come to light in playful banter, so be careful whom you play with! CANCER (June 21 - July 22): Your friends will surely enjoy your charitable impulses, but let a little generosity go a long way. Spending like a drunken sailor could leave you with a titanic financial hangover. LEO (July 23 - August 22): You feel pretty, and you _are_ pretty. Everyone already sees that, and even your slightest efforts to play up your glamour will only push you way over the top. Relax, honey. You’re already too fabulous. VIRGO (August 23 - September 22): You want to be absolutely correct, but nobody is! Don’t fret. Worrying about it can lead you into silly arguments, provoking others to feel criticized and take offense, even when your aims are entirely self-critical. LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): Your reputation as a lover is getting around, perhaps with details you’d prefer to keep quiet. Take it all with good humor. Cheerfully refusing either to admit or to deny anything may be your best bet. Or invite some of the gossipers to find out for themselves. SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): You’re concerned about your career, but you have other problems closer to home. Discussions, even arguments, with your partner should clear the air, perhaps even shedding light on those issues at work! 28 the STAR SAGITTAR~US (November 22 - December 20): Your wanderlust is showing, and that could be causing both general nervous tension for you and irritation among your colleagues. Go ahead and get away if you can. At least put on the lederhosen and go for a hike in the hills. CAPRICORN (December 21 - January 19): You’re feeling a little too frisky, and everyone’s noticing it. Getting it out of your system won’t stop the indiscretion; but if everyone suspects you of philandering, you might as well be guilty! AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): Are you showering your darling with too much or too little praise and attention? Pay close attention to your baby’s needs, but you’re still likely to get it wrong. Talking about it at home helps. Listening is even better! PISCES (February 19 - March 19): Wanting to shine at work can cause friction with your colleagues. Just do your best work, let it speak for itself, and make sure to share all due credit - and perhaps a bit more - with the rest of the team. MCC METROPOLITAN COMMUNITY CHURCHES Rev Steve T. 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Commissioner Roth hopes that the work of preparing the county’s 2008 budget will be completed by the time he leaves office. As specified in the Oklahoma Constitution, as an appointee to a statewide office, he must run in the next general election to fill the balance of Ms. Bode’s unexpired term, which also ends in 2010. If elected, he plans to run for re-election for a full six year term at that time. He will be serving on the Corporation Commission with Republicans Bob Anthony and Jeff Cloud. A giant step up from his county commissioner position, he stated that he fully understands the challenges of this statewide office. OKLAHOMA CITY, OK___’Tm grateful to Governor Henry for his vote of confidence, I’m grateful to for the public that has employed me these past years, and I look forward to making a difference for the state of Oklahoma." On May 14 Governor Brad Henry appointed Oklahoma County Commissioner Jim Roth to the Oklahoma Corporation Commission to succeed Commissioner Denise Bode, who is resigning her seat for a job in the private sector. The Corporation Commission functions in Oklahoma state government to regulate telecommunications, utilities, the oil & gas industry & transportation providers. It consists of 3 commissioners elected statewide that serve 6 year terms. As the Governor stated, "Jim Roth has the intellect, the integrity and the dedication to public service needed to be an outstanding Corporation Commissioner." When he was elected to be Oklahoma County Commissioner of District 1 in 2002, he was the second openly gay elected official in Oklahoma. Despite a rough campaign where his opposition, the incumbent Republican Beverly Hodges, played the antigay card to the max, he still won based on a campaign of efficient, trustworthy county government that would serve all the citizens www.ozarksstar.com of the district. After his victory he and his stafffound that his predecessor had left the office with the computers crashed, files shredded, and a card with men in drag that said, "Don we now our gay apparel" that gave new meaning to the concept of sore losing. Despite this rock), welcome he gained the confidence of the district’s voters, achieving a balanced budget and getting 8 new bridges built in his district during his first term while the previous commissioner had built only one. He also was able to get Oklahoma County to adopt an employment nondiscrimination policy for their employees that protects them from discrimination based on sexual orientation, the first and only such government policy in Oklahoma. His job performance won the respect and support not only of the GLBT community and traditionally progressive groups, but also a surprising number of conservative Republicans. This showed clearly when he ran for a second term in 2006 and his opposition, Republican David Mehlhaff, ran a campaign almost entirely based on anti-gay rhetoric, and he still won handily ~ith 63% of the vote. He will retain his office until May 31. Unless she declines the position his chief deputy, Linda Simpson, will serve in his place pending the outcome from a special election that will be set by Governor Henry " I spent the last 3 weeks doing my due diligence exploring the position, finding out if it was something I could make a positive impact with. I also explored the idea about leaving a job that I loved and a county that relies on me. My partner (Worth Ross), my family and I all discussed my original intentions for public service, and that is to change people’s lives for the better, and we , decided that if the governor were to offer it this would be a tremendous opportunity to do that higher goal of helping change people’s lives for the better across the state. " "As for my skill sets, I feel I would be up to the challenge, "I feel that in the last 5 years I have learned a lot of what it takes to be successful as a member ofa 3 member board, pushing for progressive change even in contentious, difficult environments. My record for being fair and honest made me a good candidate in the governor’s eyes for that statewide position. Beyond that I would say that it is a huge honor to be able to take an oath to serve the state of Oklahoma just as I have felt it an honor to serve Oklahoma County". And as for the challenge of his upcoming statewide election? "I have always approached public service based on job performance, I work hard, I work long hours to make a difference. That will be my same strategy, that in the next year and a half that I will work so hard for the public that given the chance to rehire me, I hope they say yes." the STAR 5 �Dear Editor, Thank you for publishing information about the recent $24-miltion class action settlement with EMD Serono, the maker of AIDS -wasting drug Serostim. The lawsuit had alleged that EMD Serono promoted the use of an unapproved medical device that improperly diagnosed people as having AIDS wasting; provided doctors with travel stipends in exchange for their agreement to prescribe Serostim; and marketed the drug for uses that were not approved by the FDA. The U.S. Attorney in charge of a government case against EMD Serono asserted that "nearly 85% of prescriptions written for Serostim ~vere not medically necessary." It is important that anyone who paid for any of the cost of Serostim know that they may be eligible to receive a payment from this settlement. The deadline to make a claim is approaching fast! Claims must be submitted by June 19th, 2007. Claims forms and more information are available at www.serostimsettlement.com. Thank you, Mark D. Snyder Prescription Access Litigation www.prescriptionaccess.org Dear Editor barbarism many people would prefer to humanist progress. In that same light, our gay equality--despite some advancement in the area of civil unions and civil equality for same gendered couples--can be canceled by a Supreme Court decision should it decide that unanimity of a legislature is never to be had, and therefore, the law must bow to the least common denominator of human reason: bigotry. This is the logic that was used by the Supreme Court in denying any allowance for the health or life of the mother in the case of an abortion after consultation with the patient and her medical professional. The Court said that because the legislatures have a "right" to pass laws, and even should those laws be passed in contradiction to scientific fact, the ignorance shown by the law must be upheld. This reasoning is driven by religious fear and not sound jurisprudence. Let’s remember the slogan from a prior presidential election: "It’s the Supreme Court, Stupid!", and vote accordingly in November 2008 for the enforcement of the Constitution and not the Bible. James Nimmo Oklahoma City, OK I’m concerned about the takeover of my country by the Alice-in-Wonderland anti-Democratic nature of the religious far right. It’s my contention that fundie religious observance and stridency are a brake on natural human progress and diversity. As we’ve seen with the latest Supreme Court decision on privacy and women’s bodies, the opinions of six lower courts, logic, precedence, and rule of law are put aside when the observance of these important elements in human civilization would run counter to the biblical 6 the STAR w~wv.ozarksstar.com �www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 7 ��SATURDAY ,JUNE 23, 2007 THE JAZZ DEPOT ’lST AND CiNCINNATi OKLAHOMA JAZZ HALL OF FAME Creating U~ity Throu~ab Music FREE VVW’W.OEJAZ7-ORG ’A t Century 21 Gold Castle our BEST "¸ properties are our PEOPLE’ 430t NW 63rd, Suite 100 Oklahoma City, OK 73116 405.840.2106 www, c21goldcastle.com www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 9 �Old homa Stonewa l Democra,s The LGBT Voice of the Democratic Party Stonewall Democrats Work to Raise Awareness that LGBT Democrats Care and We VOTE! We Seek Equality and Human Rights for ALL People from within the oMv Political Party that Endorses LGBT Inclusiveness at All Levels ofPolitics and Governmen~ Help us elect Democrats who will welcome YOU into their campaigns, their lives, and their offic!s! We’re Proud of Oklahoma Stonewall Members ~State Corporatwn Commissioner dim Roth ~State Representative Al McAffrey ~State Senator Andrew Rice (Congratulations on the new baby, SenatorO Join us at wwwook~tonewallo~rg 10 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com �Pinkie and the Snakeshokers, Sa~rday Evening Come check out the improvements made to the festival as we~l as the many interactive activities such as Pride Idol, Pet Contest, Return of the Children’s Area, Two Stages of Entertainment plus a DJ Tent, Food, Shopping, Historical Exhibits, Karaoke ClMARRON m www.ozarksstar.com Q g a zi n e,,~ the STAR 11 �Unprecedented series of" gains coast tO coas for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people ’The tide is clearly shifting.’ Matt Foreman, Executive Director, National Gay and Lesbian Task Force WASHINGTON, May9 " ~{~007 state legislative season has b~ ~{ ~ost productive in the history of the lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) rights movement and, as a result, for the first time more than half the U.S. population will live in jurisdictions that outlaw discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation, according to an analysis of Census data and current laws released today by the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force. In addition, nearly 40 percent of the population wilt now live in jurisdictions that protect transgender people from discrimination -- a sevenfold increase since 2000, and one-fifth of all Americans will live in states that offer same-sex couples broad rights under state law, more than an eightfold increase since 2004. The Task Force said the 2006 elections and years of dogged work at the grassroots level were responsible for the surge in legislation. "This is a historic and long-overdue milestone. At long last, a majority of Americans will now live in jurisdictions that protect people from discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation," said Matt Foreman, executive director of the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force. "As important, protections for transgender people and broad rights for same-sex couples are surging from coast to coast. We still have a very long way to go, but the tide is clearly shifting." Nondiscrimination Protections Surge Since Jan. 1, 2007, the legislatures in four states -- an all-time high -- have passed nondiscrimination laws. Three of those states -- Iowa, Oregon and Colorado -moved to extend protections to lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people, and the Vermont Legislature passed a bill amending its existing nondiscrimination laws to include transgender people. As a result, the t2 the STAR percentage of the U.S. population living in jurisdictions protecting lesbian, gay and bisexual people from discrimination will rise to 52 percent, crossing the halfway mark for the first time. The laws of Iowa, Oregon and Vermont prohibit discrimination in employment, housing and public accommodations, among other categories; Colorado’s law covers employment only. I7 Oregon GoT. Ted Kulongoski is scheduled to sign his state’s ............... bill into law today; the governors in the other three states nondiscrimination laws covering gender have pledged to sign their bills into law. identity/expression grew 32 percentage Protections for Transgender People Growing Rapidly When the four state discrimination taws go into effect, 37 percent of the population will live in jurisdictions that protect transgender people from discrimination. Protections for transgender people have grmvn much more quickly over the last decade than those for lesbian, gay and bisexual people because of a commitment of the LGBT movement to insist that transgender people be included in new nondiscrimination laws and to go back and add protections for transgender people to existing sexual orientation-only laws. Since 2000, the percentage of the population living in jurisdictions with nondiscrimination laws covering sexual orientation grew 14 percentage points (from 38 percent to 52 percent). During the same period, the percentage of the population living in jurisdictions with points (from 5 percent to 37 percent), more than five times the rate of growth for sexual orientation protections. The "Eask Force created and staffed its Transgender Civil Rights Project in 2001 with the goal of increasing the number of transgender-protective discrimination laws. Since the project’s inception, the proportion of the population covered by transgenderinclusive laws has increased from 6 percent to 37 percent. "It’s clear that legislators recognize that transgender people face widespread discrimination and deserve the same protections as other minorities," said Foreman. "The common wisdom used to be that including protections for transgender people would kill a bill -- that’s obviously not the case." Foreman noted that last week the U.S. House of Representatives passed a hate crimes bill containing explicit protections ................... Continued next page www.ozarksstar.com �for transgender people by a vote of 237-180 and that this year the Employment NonDiscrimination Act (ENDA) was amended to prohibit discrimination on the basis of gender identity and expression. There is widespread expectation that both houses of Congress will take up ENDA before the end of the calendar year. Gains in Broad State Protections for SameSex Couples Over the last five months (December through April), legislatures in three states New Jersey, New Hampshire and Oregon passed laws granting same-sex couples the same rights and responsibilities afforded married couples under state law through civil unions or domestic partnerships. As in the nondiscrimination arena, this is more states taking such action than in any previous state legislative season. As a result, onefifth (20 percent) of the U.S. population will live in states that offer broad rights and responsibilities to same-sex couples. (Other jurisdictions, including \Vashington state, Hawaii and the District of Columbia, have passed laws that give significant but not comprehensive rights to domestic partners. These jurisdictions are not included in the calculations.) Five years ago (in 2002) just one state, Vermont, ~vith 0.2 percent of the population, offered broad protections to same-sex couples. When the bills passed this session take effect, seven states (California, Connecticut, Massachusetts, New Hampshire, New Jersey, Oregon and Vermont), with 20 percent of the population, will offer broad protections to same-sex couples. The Task Force said Oregon’s new law was a particularly satisfying turnaround from 2004, when voters approved a constitutional amendment banning the recognition of same-sex marriage by a margin of 57 percent to 43 percent, the narrowest margin among the 13 states voting on anti-marriage measures that year. The Task Force donated nearly $900,000 in cash in the attempt to defeat the amendment and sent 10 organizers to help staff the campaign. "While the 2004 loss really hurt, it’s now clear that our campaign really did convince people that all families deserve broad protections and relationship rights," said Thalia www.ozarksstar.com Zepatos, director of the Task Force’s Organizing & Training Department. Zepatos, who played a major role in fighting every anti-LGBT measure in Oregon since 1988, will attend today’s bill-signing ceremony in Salem, Ore. 2006 Elections and Years of Grassroots Work Credited with Surge in Protections The results of the 2006 election played a pivotal role in four (Colorado, Iowa, Ne~v Hampshire and Oregon) of the six states passing nondiscrimination or family protection laws since December, the Task Force said. Before the November elections, Democrats held control of both houses of the state legislatures in three of the states taking pro-LGBT action: Vermont, Colorado and New Jersey. As a result of the November elections, however, Democrats picked up control of both houses in the other three states: Iowa, Oregon and New Hampshire. Before the elections in Iowa, the Senate was evenly divided and the House was Republican-dominated; in Oregon, Democrats controlled the Senate and Republicans controlled the House; in New Hampshire, both houses were controlled by Republicans. In Co!orado, Democrats strengthened their control of the Legislature, and Democrat William Ritter succeeded Republican William Owens as governor, who had twice vetoed the nondiscrimination bill. Although it took Democratic control to move the bills, each passed with Republican support (although Colorado’s employment nondiscrimination bill passed with only one Republican voting for it). The Task Force stressed that while the change in party control was an essentia! factor in moving bills this year, grassroots activism over many years made it possible for legislators to vote on the pro-LGBT measures. In Oregon, for example, activists had been pushing a nondiscrimination law for nearly 30 years, and work on the comprehensive domestic partnership law began immediately after the 2004 election. Similarly, the LGBT community in Vermont has been pushing to include protections for transgender people for eight years, and New Hampshire’s civil union law is a direct result of marriage equality organizing by the New Hampshire Freedom to Marry Coalition. "These bills would have never passed without the dogged work of state and local leaders and organizations over many, many years," Foreman said. "Our national community owes them all its respect and gratitude." Since Jan. 1, the legislatures of all 50 states have been in session. As of May 8, 29 legislatures remain in session. The change in control of the state legislatures was due to Democratic gains nationwide, as well as specific work to elect pro-LGBT state legislators spearheaded by Colorado philanthropist Tim Gill. "The lesson here? What a difference an election makes!" said Foreman. In Oregon in 2006, then-House Speaker Karen Minnis was singularly responsible for blocking nondiscrimination and family recognition legislation bills. With Democrats taking control of that chamber, Minnis has since lost her leadership position. the STAR 13 �young and old, gathered in sister-brotherhood, while others spoke for us inside. We held our signs aloft, talked, laughed, and waited for the Counci!’s final vote. From an open window, two of our elders signaled victory and we roared with joy in our hearts! We hugged each other, we cried and fett" as ONE community. It was a wondrous evening!" -- Marie Howard, age 73, retired teacher By D. Rose "As a gay father and spouse raising two children, I see this action by the Council as a major step in the ongoing process of attaining equal rights for citizens that are unduly discriminated against. For couples who can’t otherwise be married or have a Civil Union, the Registry will give us a small way to publicly recognize and help solidify our loving families. And for some couples fortunate to work for an employer that offers Domestic Partner benefits, it will help them attain much needed spousal benefits." -- JT Williams, Arkansas "Eureka shows us LOVE is for everybody!" -- Joney Harper Photo: Eureka Springs Mayor Dani Wilson. EUREKA SPRINGS, AR~"Zhis is a monumental occasion for our town," proclaimed Mayor Dani Wilson. "I am so incredibly proud that our c0uncil has had the courage to stand for equality for all." She concluded, "It reinforces the fact that Eureka Springs was founded upon equality, inclusion, and love for all, and still holds those principals true today." Diversity thrives in a Victorian village wedged in the rocky Ozarks hills. On May 14, 2007, Eureka Springs, Arkansas added another jewel to her crown with the passing of the Domestic Partnership Registry, standing in the company of many astute cities choosing to push aside religious oppression to progress equality for all couples. For many, the benefits of the Registry may be more symbolic in nature, but it is a monumental step toward enlightenment. "Who does DP benefit? Any adult couple who, for whatever reason, chooses not to legally marry or who, because of antiquated and discriminatory laws, can not legally marry. Every woman, man and child in Eureka Springs, in Arkansas and in the rest of the nation. Anything that inches those who have been disenfranchised and marginalized closer to full citizenship, emancipation and equality under the law is a benefit for society." -- Michael Walsh "As a mother of a deceased gay man, my first thought was Robert would love this. My second, he would be so proud of his mother for standing in for him to celebrate the life he fought so hard for. EQUALITY! Parents’ love never dies, but grows because he/she is your child as well as God’s." - Jude Murphy For more details about ordinance 2052, go to www.Diversitypride.com Center for Artistic Revolution Blog BENTONVILLE, AR The father of two teenage boys has asked city Officials to fine the Bentonville Public Library for keeping The Whole Lesbian Sex Book by Felice Newman on the open shelves where his sons could find it. Earl Adams said his 14and 16-year-old sons discovered the book in January while browsing for literature on military academies and were "greatly disturbed," causing "many sleepless nights in our house." Adams wants the city to pay him $10,000 per child, the maximum allowed under Arkansas obscenity law. "God was speaking to my heart that day and helped me find the words that proved successful in removing this book from the shelf," Adams said in the April 20 Springdale Morning News. City Attorney Camille Thompson said the book was not pornographic and Adams has no "valid legal concern." After receiving his original complaint, the library advisory board voted April 3 to remove the book from circulation and look for a similar, less graphic resource for the open stacks. "I thought we had a very intelligent I almost want to say high-minded--discussion about the book," said board member, George Spence. Library Director Cindy Suter said that she disagreed with Adams’s conclusion that having Newman’s book in the library follows an "immoral social agenda," adding, "My focus was to develop an inclusive collection and not an exclusive collection." "In the parking lot outside of City Hall, an amazing combination of people: gay, straight, mothers, fathers, nurses, teachers, 14 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com ��Anal PAP Smear For Men, Ana.1 Cancer Prevenuon SAN FRANCISCO, CA If you have followed the news, you’ve heard about advances in preventing cancers caused by HPV (human papilloma virus). The Food and Drug Administration has approved a vaccine for women and girls th~lt is expected to prevent up to 70 percent of cervical cancers caused by HPV. Unfortunately, there have been fewer advances in prevention and education for gay and bisexual men who face alarmingly high rates of another cancer caused by HPV, anal cancer. Most men and women who are sexually active acquire HPV at some point. Most HPV infections don’t cause cancer~, but some do. Rates of anal cancer among gay and bisexual men are 35 times greater than the general population -- comparable to rates of cervical cancer in women before routine Pap smear screening for cervical precancerous cells. HIV-positive men and women are even more susceptible, with HIV-positive men a staggering 80 times more at risk. Anal cancer rates have doubled in the last 10 years and are expected to continue rising. Black gay and bisexual men have seen the sharpest increase and have lower survival rates. The National Cancer Institute estimates that 4,650 people in the United States will be diagnosed with anal cancer this year and 690 people will die from it. Early detection of precancerous cells can save hundreds of lives each year and spare thousands of people from radiation therapy, chemotherapy and a lifetime of painful side 4ffects. The good news is that anal cancer is potentially preventable and highly curable. An anal Pap smear is an inexpensive and relatively painless screening procedure that can detect abnormal cells. A follow-up exam, which includes a high-resolution anoscopy, helps determine whether abnormal cells are precancerous. Specialists believe that treating anal precancerous cells, often through a simple in-office procedure, can prevent anal cancer. Despite the experience of specialists, these potential preventive measures are not part of routine care for those at risk. One reason 1 {5 the STAR is a disturbing lack of large-scale studies and research funding on anal cancer prevention. Without these studies, policymakers and medical associations are hesitant to recommend preventive measures. In contrast, cervical Pap smears became part of women’s health care before conclusive studies were published, yielding an 80 percent reduction in cervical cancer. Another reason that preventive measures are not in place is the limited number of providers trained in high-resolution anoscopy (HRA). Further, if pre-cancers are detected through the procedure, no guidelines exist for optimal treatment. This potentially preventable cancer is needlessly advancing among thousands of Americans each year. Some specialists are screening for and treating anal pre-cancers, but without randomized clinical studies, it hasn’t been proven that these measures prevent anal cancer. Required studies are in the planning stages and will take years to conduct. The STOP AIDS Project, a San Franciscobased community project that works to prevent the transmission of HIV among gay and bisexual men, supports evidence-based standards of care. However, until standards of care are implemented, something needs to be done. STOP AIDS advocates that policymakers and medical associations support and fund research on anal-cancer prevention, including the efficacy of HPV vaccines in males. In anticipation of published guidelines, a health-care infrastructure should be developed that includes provider training. Policymakers should also consider piloting screening programs to collect data and determine efficacy and feasibility. Gay and bisexual men and those with HIV should talk with their health-care providers about their risk for anal cance.r and HPV. Men can decrease their risk for HPV by using condoms. Those at risk should consider getting an anal Pap smear annually if they are HIV-positive or every two to three years if they are HIV-negative. At minimum, they should have a rectal exam to detect abnormal growths. Also, men at risk can !ower their risk by stopping smoking, because smoking is a risk factor for developing anal cancer. Men at risk can advance prevention efforts by volunteering for clinical trials or advocating for research funding and health insurance coverage. Additionally, providers can Seek training in preventive anal cancer procedures. The San Francisco Department of Public Health STD Control Branch and STOP AIDS are convening an expert panel to evaluate existing data on anal cancer and develop recommendations. Last month, New York’s MDS Institute became the first Department of Public Health in the nation to publish such recommendations. Other organizations, counties and states should follow this lead. Dr. Joel Palefsky is a professor of medicine at the University of California, San Francisco. Jen Hecht, Jason Riggs and Michael Scarce are staff members of STOP ,adDS Project, an HIV prevention and health promotion organization for gay; bisexual and transgender men. For more information visit www.stopaids.org and www.analcancerinfo.ucsf.edu/ Doctors in Bay Area, San Francisco are encouraging ga), men to have pap smears, after a significant increase in cases of anal cancer. In the United States, the number of people diagnosed with anal cancer has increased by close to forty percent since 1996. This is in contrast to the overall increase of cancer diagnoses of just one percent. Although the cancer can be easily treated, 660 people died ftom the disease last year, with over 4,500 new cases. Doctor Joel Palefsky, Director of the Anal Neoplasia Clinic at the University of California, spoke of how anal pap smears could detect legions before becoming malignant. "We haven’t proven it yet, but we believe that we are likely to be preventing anal cancer." Although women are more likely to be diagnosed with anal cancer, gay men and those who are HIV positive are also at risk. It is now believed that 35 out of every 100,000 gay men in the United States has anal cancer. A report is currently being prepared on the introduction and promotion of pap smears for gay men. www.ozarksstar.com �You want to be healthy. Go to bed and Try to mix and match these hues with the d’cor of your boudoir and serenade yourself into a lullaby. sleep on it. Sleep is a great way to maintain your health and it’s not that complicated. You just need to sleep. So, why is that everyone seems to get so little of it? People are always rushing about. There’s the nine to five job. There’s the one hour commute. There’s the grocery shopping. There’s always something that seems to eat away at your precious sleep time. Let me give you some good reasons to make room for the pillmv and mattress. First, you just simply need to make the time for sleep. The average adult needs seven to eight hours of sleep. This is a priority and you need to allocate a period of your day ~vhen you can accomplish this. If you can’t schedule it then you are doing too much during your daily routine. Cornell psychology professor James B. Maas provided research that shows that if you get less than eight hours of sleep per night, you are operating impaired; and your alertness, productivity, creativity, and general health are all affected. The body is able to restore itself during REM sleep. ~lis is when the body can process the emotional moments of the day through dream imagery. ~is explains why I have such a hard time sleeping after watching movies like The Grudge, White Noise, or Gigli. The brain tries to interpret and process this information so that we can forget and then move on for a new day. Some people tell me that they need to do as much as possible while they are alive. They tell me that there will be plenty of time to sleep when they’re knocking on heaven’s door. True but why not try to get as much quality out of your awake time as possible? Proper sleep equates to much more energetic and productive awake time. I opt for quality in lieu of quantity. "Goodnight, you princes Of Maine. You Kings of New England." Ron Blake is a personal fitness trainer and owner of Blake Fitness in Phoenix. He can be reached at 480-241-5651 or blake.fitness@ yahoo.com. Owasso Community heatre’ Season Opens. OWASSO, OK__The O~vasso Community Theatre’s Season "It’s All About Family" will be opening on June 22, 2007 with a musical production of Ruthless! directed by Bruce Lewis. Season Tickets for all five shows are now available from the contacts listed below, and cost $25.00 for access to all four shows which include the mysterious Arsenic and Old Lace, the heartwarming Cheaper By The Dozen, and the entertaining Babes in Toyland. For further questions, please contact: Tammy Quick, tammylq@cox.net, (918) 851-3830 Bruce Lewis, brucel@tulsacares.org, (918) 906-8992 It becomes easier to fall asleep when you get in a routine. Watch the nine o’clock news each night and then head off to the bedroom. Notice I said head off to the bedroom. That would mean that you were watching the news in another room. Very good! The bedroom is just for sleeping and occasionally some carnal indulgences. Keep the television and DVDs out of this sacred slumber sanctuary. The more you associate this part of the house with somnolence, the easier it will be become to fall asleep quickly when your head hits the pillow. Don’t engage in disruptive activities just before being summoned by the sandman. Headbangers ball, a cup of joe, a row with your partner, and a tintinnabulary tango are bad ideas. Soothing music, non-caffeinated drinks, and a rendezvous with your favorite book are great ideas. Make your bed as comfortable and appealing as possible. There are certain colors that have that hypnotic effect on individuals. Green coos peace and serenity and helps lower the heart rate. It is a great comforter and stress reliever. Blue entices you to fantasize and daydream. Its cerulean effects cause the brain to emit tranquilizing hormones. Purple has the capacity to pacify frayed nerves and slow muscle activity. Pink just has a way with calm, cool, and collective. www,ozarksstar.com the 8TAR �OK .AHOMA SHAKESPEARE IN THE PARK MOVING TO THE HEART OF DOWNTOWN OKLAHOMA CITY OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__Oklahoma Shakespeare in the Park (OSP), Oklahoma’s premiere classical theater, announced at the Myriad Botanical Gardens that beginning in 2007 and beyond, it will stage its summer seasons in the heart of downtown Oklahoma City. The inaugural 2007 season will kick-off June 14 and continue through Sept. 1. It will be staged on the Myriad Botanical Gardens Water Stage, which the Myriad Gardens Foundation (MGF) in a partnership with OSP will renovate. OSP has partnered with the MGF to raise private funds for the renovation. Improvements will include new sound and lighting, seating and a stage structure. The renovated theater will add a new premiere venue to doxvntown Oklahoma City and will be available for other bookings when OSP is not in residence. OSP has also moved its offices to Stage Center in Oklahoma City’s Arts District. The 2007 Summer Season opens June 14 with A Midsummer Night’s Dream, followed by Cyrano de Bergerac and Macbeth. The final summer performance will be September 1. The announcement came on the day that OSP’s three-year lease with the Myriad Gardens Authority and the City of Oklahoma City for use of the \rater Stage was unanimously approved by the Oklahoma City Council. It had previously been unanimously approved by the OSP Board of Directors and the Myriad Gardens Authority. This approval represents the culmination of a process that began in the spring of 2005, when OSP’S stage in Edmond’s Hafer Park was burned down for a second time. Because of that tragedy, OSP staged its summer seasons the past two years at the University of Central Oklahoma. Oklahoma Shakespeare in the Park 2006 Season "The Temioest at Stage Center" Photo Subjects: Left: Holly McNatt (Miranda) and Rig/st: J. Shane McClure (Prospero). Photo by: Andrea NotTis O’Meara. The past 22 summer seasons have been staged in the City of Edmond. Oklahoma Shakespeare in the Park traditionally mounts a summer season consisting of three plays; a winter season of one play, which is traditionally performed at Stage Center in downtown Oklahoma City; a production of A Christmas Carol, which will remain at the University of Central Oklahoma; and statewide touring productions year-around. Educational outreach is also a core part of OSP’S mission. OSP is supported in part by the Oklahoma Arts Council, Allied Arts, Chesapeake Energy, OG&E, the Kirkpatrick Family Fund, the Kirkpatrick Foundation, the Inasmuch Foundation, and is in alliance with the University of Central Oklahoma’s Department of Theatre, Dance and Media Arts. For more information, visit www.oklahomashakespeare.com. Thi~ drink ! Yummy 1½ oz. Vodka 1 oz. Creme de Banana 1 oz. Dark Creme de Cacao ½ oz. Light cream Pour ingredients into mixini~ glass. Add ice, shake and strain into your Martini Gl~ss. Oklahoma Shakespeare in the Park was founded in 1985 by current Artistic Director Kathryn McGill and the late Jack 1 8 the BTAR www.ozarksstar.com �cabaret-style entertainment, billed with the show "Trial By Jury." "Jury," a one act Gilbert and Sullivan Operetta is about a philandering man who cheats on his intended and gets sued for breach of promise. An equally badly behaved judge presides over the case, and, you can guess the rest. By Joey De The boys are back in town, and for the 2007 Light Opera Oklahoma season, they’re behaving badly, beginning Jun. 15. All four shows have rotating schedules which can be found at wvw.tulsapac.com or at www.lightoperaok.org. For ticket information visit www.myticketoffice.com. Presented as a repertory festival and in conjunction with the Tulsa Performing Arts Center Trust’s Summerstage festival, the 2007 LOOK season features a classic, a contemporary and countess, in addition to three cabaret performances. "We select our shows and obtain rights about a year and a half to two years in advance," says Eric Gibson, artistic director of LOOK. "Then we take a look at the shows and if we can, hopefully find a theme or a common element to tie them all together." This year’s presentation of bad boys are Meredith Willsoffs "The Music Man," the dark opera/musical "Sweeney Todd" and the more light hearted operetta "Naughty Marietta." Kicking off the festival Jun. 13 and running through Jul. 8 is "The Music Man," a golden age musical about Professor Harold Hill, the most charming of con artists, and his descent upon River City, Iowa. Hill convinces the town’s youth that they are in so much terrible trouble the only way to keep them safe is to introduce the boys to music and join a band. The con’s plan includes getting unwitting parents to buy instruments and band uniforms and then skipping town with the proceeds. The plan hits a snag when Harold falls in love with the local librarian Marian Paroo. Resistant at first, Marian sees Harold transform the citizens of River City into exhilarated, musically challenged people. "This show’s a classic," says Gibson, "High schools everywhere do it, but rarely is it performed ’right,’ with professional talent." Following the feel-good frivolities of Music Man will be a trip to the dark side xvith Stephen Sondheim’s "Sweeney Todd," about the wrongfully imprisoned barber, Benjamin Barker. Barker, who returns to London to reclaim his life and reunite with www.ozarksstar.com his wife and daughter, finds that his judge has taken his wife and child, and swears revenge. Known on the streets as Sweeney Todd, Barker kills a street mountebank who recognizes him, and makes it that much more easy for him to kill anyone who gets in his revengeful way. His accomplice Mrs. Lovett, a fledgling pastry cook, has the brilliant idea of popping Todd’s victims into meat pies, boosting her own sagging business. Although it is a more contemporary piece of musical theatre, Gibson says that Sweeney Todd is very operatic, and is in fact performed frequently in opera houses throughout the United States. Rounding out the main stage season for LOOK is a light hearted return to the operettas that the company was built on. Although it is not Gilbert and Sullivan, as many have come to expect from the troupe, "~xe Naughty Marietta" is full of the same wit and charm that makes light opera fun. The show, which opens June 28, tells of the escape of the Countess D’Altena of Italy. D’Altena finds herself on a ship bound for New Orleans, but once there must escape the pirate Bras Pique. To join her in these escapades, Marietta enlists the aid of Captain Dick Warrington, a ranger in the US Army. They quickly fall in love and in order to foil the plot of Bras Pique, they enlist the aid of a French fop, marionettes, a jilted lover and many others! Through out the season, LOOK will also be offering three intimate evenings of LANG & LOVETT CONCERT COHING TO OKC AND TULSA TULLSA, OK Musician, singer, songwriter, and actor, Lyle Lovett, together with K.d. Lang is in concert at Oklahoma City’s ZOO Ampitheater Saturday July 7th and in Tulsa’s Historic Brady Theater on Sunday July 8th, 2007. By breaking the rules and experimenting with music, each has earned a cult following around the world with a modern, eccentric sound coupled with literate, witty lyrics. K.d. Lang was inspired, at an early age, by the music of country western diva, Patsy Cline, and released a string of albums with a decidedly country flair enjoying moderate success in both sales and airplay. It was not, however, until the release of"Ing~nue" that K.d. Lang hit it big. Hailed as her "crossover" album, critics praised her work even as her country fans were feeling alienated. Lang further removed herself from her country/western fame by publicly declaring her lesbianism, shortly after the album’s release. �the 8TAR www.ozarksstar.com ��down and T;ad.K TO EVERYBODY! When harurally,, no one knOws y0u; s~ it is YOUR responsibility to start a conversation, that was in ��The colorful gutchart Gardens rank among !~ctoria’s most memorable at~actions. (Photo by Andrew Collins) around the city and its environs by car. A favorite excursion is so-called Marine Drive - not the name of any one street but a scenic coastal circuit extending from Ogden Point, which is southwest of the Inner Harbour, to Cadboro Bay. Victoria and the surrounding area are also idea! for outdoorsy activities - in fact, it’s been named Canada’s fittest city, owing to the high percentage of residents who regularly participate in outdoor recreation. Favorite activities include diving, kayaking, fishing, mountain biking, and hiking. A number of local outfitters lead tours through nearby old-growth forests, up rugged mountain peaks, and on whale-watching expeditions - visit Tourism Victoria’s helpful website (www.tourismvictoria.com) for a full list of providers. Dignified, historic, studded with parks, and packed with some of the nation’s most notable cultural attractions, Victoria offers the perfect recipe for a short getaway in western Canada - it’s also easily reached from Vancouver or Seattle by way of regular ferry service. At the southern tip of Vancouver Island, this leafy capital of British Columbia has also become a popular spot for gay honeymoons and weddings since Canada legalized same-sex marriage in 2005. Great Britain’s first colony on the Pacific Coast of North America, Victoria was established in 1849 as a trading outpost. By the end of the century, when the now much larger city of Vancouver was still a mere blip on the radar, Victoria had become B.C.’s capital. The city remains an important political center, but tourists definitely butter the bread these days. The formal, lmndon-inspired Parliament buildings and the Fairmont Empress Hotel edge the harbor, set against a commanding backdrop of snowcapped mountains. With its tow skyline, downtown is compact and user-friendly, and fine shopping and care-hopping abound. The south end of the Inner Harbour contains Victoria’s provincial government buildings as well as the imposing Fairmont Empress Hotel, which is famous not only as a place to stay but for its regal afternoon high teas. Few museums in Canada are more fascinating than the Royal British Columbia Museum, whose artifacts and exhibits document life 12,000 years ago in xvhat is now Western Canada. Around the corner, the Crystal Garden Conservatory contains more than 65 endangered species that make their home in this re-created tropical forest. just south of here, off Douglas Street, the 185-acre Beacon Hill Park is typically filled with joggers, strollers, and sun-worshipers soaking up the atmosphere and the floral aroma. Nearby you can visit the Carr House, which affords a glimpse into the life of British Columbia’s most beloved painter, Emily Cart. Walk 15 minutes or drive a short way east of downtown along Fort Street, which is lined for several blocks with fine antiques shops, to reach one of B.C.’s greatest house-museums, Craigdarroch Castle. From the top (fifth) floor you’re treated to outstanding views of the city. Just west is the Art Gallery of Greater Victoria, one of the top art museums in Western Canada. Once you’ve exhausted Victoria on foot, consider tooling Victoria lies at the southern tip of the Saanich Peninsula, a fertile strip of land dotted with family farms and a growing number of esteemed wineries. It’s worth spending an afternoon exploring this region, whose most famous attraction is Butchart Gardens, a half-hour northwest of the city. The Butchart family made its fortune manufacturing cement in the late 19th century; when they finished mining their quarry, they transformed it into this magnificent collection of gardens. Among the 55 acres you’ll see every imaginable flower, and there are concerts as well as Saturday-night fireworks displays in July and August. From Butchart, there are several wineries within an easy drive. As you motor around the countryside, keep an eye out for farm stands and roadside markets, many of them selling fresh jams, baked goods, flowers, and produce. They often operate on an honor system - pick out your goods, and leave behind payment. Wineries of particular note include Marley Farm, a family-run establishment that specializes in some quite unusual fruit wines, including kiwi, pear, loganberry, and quince varieties. You’re apt to see sheep and horses wandering the 5-acre grounds. Tiny Chalet Estate Vineyard is well-regarded for its high-quality, unfiltered vintages, from syrahs to viogniers. Where there are wineries, there are virtually always wonderful restaurants, and Victoria is no exception. Probably the most gaypopular of the city’s up-market restaurants, Cafe Brio is a sophisticated little chef-owned ........ Continued next page. vwvw.ozarksstar.com �bistro that’s an absolute delight for romantic, intimate meals. The contemporary West Coast cuisine has Tuscan overtones - you might start with crispy roasted sweetbreads with poached rhubarb, followed by tomato-and-molasses-braised lamb shank with fresh-mintpotato gnocchi. For some of the best modern Italian food in town, including fantastic wood-fired pizzas with such creative toppings as smoked ahi tuna and marinated artichokes, dine at I1 Terrazzo, whose airy dining room resembles a cloistered courtyard. It’s steps from the diverting shopping along Johnson Street and features one of the city’s best wine lists. been refitted into a distinctive all-suites accommodation. Groups of friends traveling together will find Swans a bargain - up to six people can easily fit into its huge rooms. Each has a dining nook, a patio or a terrace, and many have skylights. There’s a microbrewery and an excellent restaurant, Wild Saffron Bistro, on the premises. Also worth consideration is the Magnolia Hotel and Spa, a snazzy and modern boutique hotel with a first-rate spa and a great location in the Inner Harbour neighborhood. Rooms receive plenty of sunlight, with their floor-to-ceiling windows and views of downtown and the waterfront. With a memorable setting inside a former schoolhouse in Canada’s oldest Chinatown, Brasserie I2Ecole is the domain of talented chefowner Sean Brennan, who utilizes local produce in his innovative regional fare, such as local trout with escarole and Jerusalem artichokes. Well-seasoned, imaginatively prepared vegetarian fare is the specialty at Re-Bar Modern Food, an offbeat spot on downtown’s Bastion Square, where you might dine on shiitake-tofu potstickers or Thai coconut-cashew prawn curry. If you’d rather stay out in the country, but still within striking distance of Victoria, consider booking into the swank yet low-keyed Sooke Harbour House, which is a 45-minute drive away. This is the ultimate luxury hideaway, complete with 28 imaginatively decorated rooms, many with views of Washington’s Olympic Mountains and the Strait of Juan de Fuca. There’s also a splendid restaurant serving fantastic four- and seven-course dinners, complete with wine-pairing options. One signature dish is the trio of garden-inspired sorbets (which might include quince-lemon-verbena or rhubarb-fennel). Indeed, this perfectly tended inn is surrounded by some of Vancouver Island’s most beautiful gardens - a night or two here will leave you totally refreshed and relaxed. For lighter dining and snacking, grab a latte or cappuccino at gaypopular Bean Around the World Coffee, a Chinatown java joint that uses organic coffee beans. Or nosh on eggs Benedict, hefty burgers, and other short-order fare at Rosie’s Diner, a downtown cafe with a festive ’50s-inspired retro look. The city’s sizable Asian community ensures a wealth of first-rate Chinese, Thai, and Japanese restaurants. For sensational Tixai fare, try Siam Thai. Victoria is by no means a major hub for gay nightlife, but it does have a couple of friendly; laid-back gay hangouts. There’s the " popular (at least on weekends) dance club, Hush, as well as Prism Lounge, a basement space with fun drag shows and karaoke nights. The two bars lie within a short ,valk of one another, on the north side of downtown. You might find the ambience and vibe a bit hipper and more upbeat at some of Victoria mainstream but perfectly ’ gay-friendly social spots, such as the ornately decorated Temple Bar, known for its extensive lists of wines and martinis. Other good bets include Lucky Bar, a convivial beer hall set inside a historic building, and the Mint, a vaguely New Age-y space with Tibetan and .Nepalese food, and DJ music and dancing many evenings. In Victoria, there’s no fancier lodging in town than the Fairmont Empress Hotel. This 1908 Edwardian hostelry is the most sumptuous grand dan~e on Vancouver Island, and its Empress Room is a superb restaurant. Newer rooms are larger than those in the original section but keep with the hotel’s tradition. Celeb spotting is not uncommon. The hotel is also notable for its beautifully decorated Bengal Lounge, which serves traditional Indian cuisine in an oldworld Colonial ambience. Abigail’s Hotel is a great bet, in part for its enviable location - it’s at the end of a quiet, residential lane, yet it’s just three blocks from the Inner Harbour. The 23-room gayfriendly, hotel consists of two Tudor-style buildings, one with more traditional decor, and the other with more modern-feeling units. Many of the accommodations have wood-burning fireplaces and Jacuzzi tubs, and rates include an extensive full breakfast (enjoy it on the sunny patio, overlooking the English gardens, when the weather is cooperating). Set inside a former warehouse near Victoria’s Market Square and within ,valking distance of downtown attractions, Swans Hotel has www.ozarksstar.corn the ~TAF~ ~. 5 �GAY TRAVELERS from page-22 town for th~ weekend. Later in the day we did meet some ~vonderful people at the bar and they invited us to a big party that they were having the next day. The Dallas businessman lost out on a lot! "TRAVELING IN OUR FABULOUS WORLD" by Donald Pile & Ray Williams Featuring Cuisine From Coast to Coast We make friends wherever we go, both gay and straight. Most people enjoy talking ~vith other people but sometimes you just have to make the first move. For us, we enjoy traveling to see interesting and new places, try new food, enjoy the sights and sounds of an area unknown to us but it is the people that we meet that are our real memories. We hear from way too many of our readers who return from their vacation and say that they didn’t have a good time, that they didn’t meet anyone and no one talked to them. Well, you cafft just go and sit like a bump on a log. Remember the immortal words of Auntie Marne, ""Life is a banquet and most people are starving to death". Don’t be one of those people! Have good safe fun when traveling, enjoy life and TALK TO EVERYONE. Harry Caray’s Restaurant, Chicago We have been so fortunate in our travels to meet authors, poets, writers, entertainers, movie and TV actors. We get invited to a lot of parties in Hollywood, New York, Chicago, Florida and everywhere we go only because we make the first move and talk to everybody. Life is just too short to do it any other way. Always remember to have fun when traveling, meet new people and talk to everyone! TRAVELING IN OUR FABULOUS WORLD is written by Donald Pile and Ray \Vi!liams, Award-winning Celebrity travel columnists who write for gay publications from Coast to Coast. You can email them at: gaytravelers@aol.com or visit their webpage at: http://www.hometown.aol.com/gaytravelers Diversity Business Association of Tulsa Hosts First DBAT After Hours During Tulsa Pride Week TULSA, OK A vital aspect ofDBAT partidpation is the opportunity to meet with and learn from other LGBT business owners and professionals. Such an opportunity is offered through DBAT After Hours, our own version of a business after hours event. Join us for June’s DBAT After Hours and network in an informal atmosphere, make new contacts or to get reacquainted with former contacts. Nibbles and beverages provided. DBAT After Hours Thursday, June 7th 7:00 - 9:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th Street, Downtown Tulsa 26 the STAR Harry Caray’s, named for the late, renowned baseball announcer, has become one of the most nationally recognized restaurant groups in the Midwest. Opened on October 23, 1987, this legendary Italian Steakhouse serves the finest prime, aged steaks and chops in a truly warm "Chicago" atmosphere. The friendly, energetic atmosphere embodies the amiable personality of the restaurant’s namesake. The combination of mahogany paneling, white tablecloths and a veritable museum of baseball history creates a warm and casual elegance. It is located at 33 W. Kinzie in downtown Chicago. They are open for lunch, Monday thru Saturday from 11:30 to 3:00. They are open for dinner Monday thru Thursday from 5:00 to 10:30 and Friday and Saturday from 5:00 to 11:00. Sunday they are open from 4 to 10 and their bar is open everyday from 11:30 to closing. The food served here is steak and Italian. The price range is from the $10’s to the $30’s per meal. Service is great. Each server is personable and enthusiastic. There is also a bar on one side of the restaurant with plenty of TVs. They also have a second location at the O’Hare International Center, 10233 West Higgins Road in Rosemont, Ill. In August 2007, Harry Caray’s Restaurant Group will open it’s third Harry Caray’s Italian Steakhouse in Lombard, Ill. And although it is not an Italian Steakhouse, Harry Caray’s Seventh Inning Stretch premiered in 2001 and is the largest restaurant and bar at Chicago’s Midway Airport. This restaurant is ideal for travelers looking to take a delicious sandwich to go or those who have a short respite while waiting for their flight. We have always enjoyed our meals and had a great dining experience at Harry Caray’s. w~v.ozarksstar.com �JUNE 2007 ExpoSing Hate World Congress ofFami/ies, a gathering thatfocused on "naturalfamilies. " No longer content with the obscene political and monetary profits they realize in the United States, the radical Christian right is now exporting its number one product - homoph0bia - to Europe. A few thousand zealots from the United States and other countries converged on Warsaw, Poland’s Palace of Culture and Science in mid-May for the World Congress of Families, a gathering that focused on "natural families." "Natural families"? Just more spin - another euphemism for degrading LGBT families. These folks only consider assembly-line-produced families using eggs and sperm - introduced to one another through that old heterosexual standb); the missionary position, engaged in by a married, heterosexual couple - to be the real thing when it comes to producing progeny. How hateful of our -kids and our f,mailies. But let’s face it - hate is all these folks know, even though they couch it all in "Jesus’ love." The usual cast of radical Christian right characters was on hand for this particular love-to-hate fest. James Dobson from Focus on the Family was joined by folks from the American Family Association, Concerned Women for America, the Family Research Council, the Helcitage Foundation, and the Discover), Institute, which isn’t about designing good, intelligent television programs, but instead about programming youth to believe in intelligent design. The World Congress was organized by a group I hadn’t heard of - the Howard Center for Family, Religion, and Society, whose president, Allan Carlson, declared, "The cultural battle has gone international. The American religious right, instead of being isolationist, has in fact gone global." 7his is a government that does nothing to stop sldnheads and other nationalistic groups from targeting its LGBT citizens. This is a government that is tailor-made to be the only elected Western European ally of America’s radical Christian right. So what canoe out of this love-to-hate lest? Poland’s education minister, Roman Giertych, a leader in the country’s right-wing League of Polish Families party - who also happens to be a Deputy Prime Minister - became the politico celebre as he told the group that combating the "propagation of homosexuality" was just "something I have to do." His remarks were echoed by Polish President Lech Kaczynski Rallying around the homophobic flagpole, World Congress participants cheered at the news that the Polish government would not be cowed by the European Union, which has warned Poland that its antigay policies might cost the country its voting rights. They listened to U.S. Assistant Secretary of State Hlen Sauerbrey bring greetings from W and thank the Howard Center "for all of their hard work in organizing this wonderful opportunity to celebrate and reflect upon the family and its vital role in society." No question that the current administration stands firmly alongside homophobic repression. They heard Ben Bull of the Alliance Defense Fund say, "Marriage will be destroyed by making all relationships equal," and Brigham Young law professor Lynn Wardle chime in with, "Legalizing samesex marriage will drain marriage of its social meaning." They also came together to embrace the "natural family manifesto." I think it’s kind of funny that a gathering in a former Communist country attended by those who hate Communism would support something called a "manifesto." But yes, there is a manifesto. It encourages mothers to stay home and have many children. It fervently opposes LGBT people and abortion in a single breath. Oh, joy. But what about their destination? Why Poland? Why not Rome, to be near their buddy, the pope? Or Nigeria, where Archbishop Peter Akinola is masterminding a homophobic schism within the Anglican Church? Nope, they chose Poland because of its state-sponsored homophobia. I’m not talking about the run-of-the-mill "we ~von’t pass a probill gay bill if our lives depended on it" homophobia. This is a government that bans Pride celebrations, speaks openly about purging "homosexual propaganda’’ from the country, refuses to recognize the rights of lesbians and gays, and is now considering a bill that would make it illegal for any teacher in any classroom, public or private, to discuss homosexuality, LGBT rights, or safe-sex practices, "It is not enough to stop public recognition of ’gay marriage,’ nor to oppose ’safe-sex education’ in the public schools, nor to ban partialbirth abortion, nor to create ’covenant’ marriages. Victory for the natural family will come only as we change the terms of the debate." If changing the terms of debate means the wholesale exporting of hate, they’ve offto a good start. I just wish folks would stop bwing it here in the States. An endnote of worth: While all this homophobia is defining Poland to the LGBT world, Warsaw Mayor Hanna Gronkiewicz Walz defied the country’s president and ultra-right-wing organizations by letting a Pride parade take place in her city on May 19. More than 5,000 marched amid bystanders who waved and were generally supportive. The bill would bar LGBT organizations from schools, and lesbian or gay teachers who come out would automatically be fired. www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 27 �May 1920 (87 years ago this month): Erotic A~-tist Touko Laaksonen (Tom of Finland) is born in Kaarina, Finland. Who was Tom of Finland? The erotic art ofTouko Laaksonen - better known as Tom of Finland - shaped the erotic fantasies of countless gay men and helped redefine the popular image of male homosexuality. Laaksonen was born May 8, 1920, in Kaarina, a rural village in southwest Finland. Both his parents were schoolteachers, and he developed an early appreciation for art and music. Aware of his same-sex attractions from a young age, he created homoerotic drawings - often featuring farm boys and laborers - for his own enjoyment. At age 19, Laaksonen moved to Helsinki to attend art school, but was soon drafted into the Finnish army, which allied with Nazi Germany to fight the Soviet Union in World War II. Serving as a lieutenant, he began having sex with fellow soldiers and developed a fetish for men in uniform, which he reflected in his drawings. After the war, Laaksonen completed his art degree and studied piano at the Sibelius Institute. By day, he worked as a commercial graphic artist, then played the piano at cafes and private parties in the evenings. Feeling little affinity for the flamboyant and effeminate men who frequented Helsinki’s homosexual venues, he traveled often and became familiar with the gay leather scenes in several European cities. In 1953, while cruising in a Helsinki park, Laaksonen met his sole long-term romantic partner, a dancer named Veli (whose last name is not publicly known); their relationship endured until Veil’s death from cancer nearly 30 years later. Photo’s courtsey of: www.eroticartcollection.com 28 the STAR Encouraged by friends, Laaksonen submitted some of his sketches to the Los Angeles-based bodybuilding magazine _Physique Pictorial_. Publisher Bob Mizer was impressed enough to feature a drawing of a lumberjack on the cover of the spring 1957 issue, dubbing the artist "Tom of Finland." In 1973, Laaksonen had his first public exhibition in Hamburg, Germany, and was able to quit his job at an advertising agency and live offhis art. In 1978, he visited Los Angeles for his first U.S. exhibition, where met Durk Dehner, who became his friend and manager; after Veli’s death in 1981, Laaksonen split his time between Los Angeles and Helsinki. Laaksonen is credited with introducing the masculine homosexual into gay, and eventually mainstream, culture. His drawings of stereotypically macho men - bikers, cowboys, cops, sailors - were almost photographic in their detail, but grew increasingly idealistic in their portrayal of perfect male specimens with protruding nipples, exaggerated bubble butts, and enormous penises. As censorship laws loosened, his drawings also became more sexually explicit. He was among the first artists to portray manly men engaging in joyous, guilt-free sex; even his sadomasochistic scenes had a playful aspect. "I work very hard to make sure that the men I draw having sex are proud men having happy sex," he once declared. According to author Ron Suresha, "Tom of Finland’s visions of happy, masculine, loving men projected forth from the collective unconscious of gay men’s liberation and increasingly, through the second half of the 20th century, defined much of its erotic substance and style." Indeed, Laaksonen’s work helped bring the underground leather culture to light, and the "Castro clone" look - black leather jacket, cap, moustache - became a new gay stereotype. But Laaksonen’s work was not without controversy. Some critics accused him of harboring an affinity for Nazis, though he disavowed fascism and racism. In the ! 970s and 1980s, his work was caught up in gay and lesbian community debates about pornography and sadomasochism, as well as the charge that his idealized images were impossible for real men to live up to. For his part, Laaksonen maintained that his work reflected his own erotic sensibilities, not a .......... Continued next laage www.ozarksstar.com �Tom of Finland continued: larger politica! statement. "If I don’t have an erection when I’m doing a drawing," he said, "I know it’s no good." As his work grew more popular, Laaksonen became an international celebrity. His images spawned an industry, and in 1979 he and Dehner co-founded the Tom of Finland Company. In addition to several books of collected works, Laaksonen produced a multi-volume series of comics featuring Kake the leatherman and did private commissions (including a revisioning of Michelangelo’s David for Italian filmmaker Franco Zeffirelli). "Tom’s men" became cultural icons and inspired many imitations, including the "Tom Girls" series by punk artist G.B. Jones. Today, his work is included in the permanent collections of several museums, including the Ne~v York Museum of Modern Art and Finland’s Kiasma Contemporary Art Museum. The Tom of Finland Foundation, initially founded in 1984 to preserve Laaksonen’s work, now offers a "safe haven" for all erotic art. Laaksonen continued to frequent the leather and dance club scenes well into his 60s. Diagnosed with emphysema in 1988, he was forced to cut back on his travel, but continued to draw. In 1991, his life and work were chronicled in the documentary Daddy and the Muscle Academy. In November of the same year, he died of a stroke in Helsinki. "I know my little ’dirty drawings’ are never going to hang in the main salons of the Louvre," Laaksonen said shortly before his death. "But it ~votfld be nice if...our world learns to accept all the different ways of loving. Then maybe I could have a place in one of the smaller side rooms." For further information: Hooven, E Valentine. 1994. Tom of Finland: His Life and Times (St. Martin’s Press). Pohjola, Ilppo. 3.992. Daddy and the Muscle Academy_ (documentary film). Ramakers, Micha. 2000. Dirty Pictures: Tom of Finland, Masculinity, and Homosexuality (St. Martin’s Press). www.ozarksstar.com OKLAHOMA ACTIV ST, KE TH Bo SMITH HONORED By James Nimmo OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__ Stonewall Democrats (OKSD) posthomously have presented the 2007 Mary Lou Lemon Humanitarian Award to Keith B. Smith, the well-known and effective professional lobbyist and activist who died suddenly in November, 2006. A memorial service was held on December 1 in the Oklahoma Capitol Rotunda. Mr. Smith’s tireless advocacy for gay equality and other progressive issues was legendary. His ideas and techniques live on in the many grassroots activists who continue to push back the stultifying limits of the ignorant and bigoted. No Oklahoma legislator, however recalcitrant in thinking, was immune to Mr. Smith’s wit, charm, and stunning strategies at passing progressive legislation. The award is named for the late Mary Lou Lemon, matriarch of a prominent Oklahoma Democratic family, who believed fervently in an American society free from discrimination directed at minorities, especially gay and lesbian citizens. It has been presented formally at the Activist Hall of Fame Dinner on Saturday, May 19, during the Oklahoma Democratic Party State Convention. Previous award recipients have been Oklahoma County Commissioner Jim Roth, and Governor David and Rhonda Walters. OK Stonewall Democrats ( www.okstonewall.org) is a constitutional club of the Oklahoma Democratic Party and a chapter of National Stonewall Democrats, Washington, DC (www.stonewalldemocrats.org) NEW GALLUP POLL SHOWS 68 PERCENT OF AMERICANS SUPPORT HATE CRIMES BILL BEFORE CONGRESS Poll Shows Overwhelming Support Includes Majority ofRepublicans, Conservatives, and Religious Voters WASHINGTON, DC_. A new national poll conducted by Gallup shows an overwhelming support of the American people for passage of federal hate crimes legislation currently being considered in Congress. The poll, conducted on May !0-13, shmvs that 68 percent of all Americans believe that current federal hate crime laws should be expanded to include "sexual orientation, gender and gender identity." Even more impressive is that this support cuts across partisan, ideological and religious lines with a majority of each of those demographic groups supporting the legislation. "This new national poll continues to reiterate how incredibly out-of-touch rightwing organizations are with the will of the American people and underscores the need for the Senate to pass this bill," said Human Rights Campaign President Joe Solmonese. "I hope President Bush will look at this poll and realize how unbelievably out-of-line a threatened veto of this critical crime-fighting piece of legislation is with a majority of Americans. President Bush’s threatened veto isn’t even supported by his base. The writing is on the wall and it is past time for President Bush to stop bowing to the pressure of James Dobson, Pat Robertson and other right-wing, anti-gay leaders and join the majority of Americans who want to see this bill become law." On May 3, the morning of the House vote on the Local Law Enforcement Hate Crimes Prevention Act (H.R. 1592), the White House put out a "Statement of Administration Policy" stating, "IfH.R. 1592 were presented to the president, his senior advisors would recommend that he veto the bill." the STAR 29 ���By Joey De She’s known by only one name, has fabulous hair, incredible skin, the carefree spirit of the 80’s, and is mounting a tour to benefit gay rights. Cyndi Lauper, who has spent her career as the quintessential gay icon, is once again showing her fearless dedication to equality with her 15 city nation wide "True Colors" tour, presented by The Logo Network, kicking off June 8th in Las Vegas. Cyndi and special guests Erasure, Debbie Harry, The Dresden Dolls, The Gossip and The Misshapes will be taking the stage, with emcee Margaret Cho to present five hours of non-stop music benefiting the Human Rights Campaign. Also joining the bill on select dates will be Rufus Wainwright, Rosie O’Donnell, Indigo Girls, THE CLIKS and Jeffree Star. We caught up with Miss Lauper between breaks on her busy rehearsal schedule to find out more about the tour, her views on the gay community and why she still looks so good. STAR: Oh my god, I’m talking to Cyndi Lauper, I can’t believe this. You’re a gay legend. You have been since the beginning of your career. \re’hat do you credit with making you such a gay icon? CL: It’s a natural fit. When I came onto the scene, I guess what the community related to was my overall vibe, not just my music. I was and still am very colorful and animated. I was also a bit left of center in my artistic approach and I think that really resonated. I have always been in tune with gay people, even before I became famous, so I think the relationship was just another extension of Cyndi the person to Cyndi the artist. STAR: You first made your first big mark in the 80’s, a time when musical tastes were totally different. To what do you owe your continued success? www.ozarksstar.com �CL: I’ve stayed at it and I’ve strived to continue to grow as an artist. I still love to write, produce and perform and am still inspired by the world around me to create my music. I’m really fortunate to have the platform that I do and I don’t take that for granted. STAR: As a performer and gay rights advocate, ho~v would you say that the world has changed in the time since you began performing, in relation to equality? CL: Their have been some rumblings from the right about it, but that’s the whole point isn’t it? I have the right to do this tour and get the issues out there to be debated and discussed via music. They have the right to criticize, disagree and debate the issues. The more discussion the better as far as I’m concerned. STAR: You have an incredibly impressive line up of guest performers, how did you select them? CL: I think that the visibility of the GLBT community has come further than 20 years ago, but, as we can see by the past few years under this administration, things are going backwards. It outrages me. The further ahead the community has gotten, the more resistance and push back to progress it encounters. We have to keep pushing forward. CL: I’m glad you like the line up. I’ve worked with some of the artists before and I’m excited to be working with some of them for the first time. It’s really great to be sharing the stage with such talented artists. STAR: Would you care to share a story about a favorite gay companion who inspired you to take on the fight for equality? CL: I actually had that dress custom made for the Gay Games. I’ve got a few tricks up my sleeve in regards to outfits for the tour...a girl’s gotta have some secrets (haha). You’ll have to come on down to the show for my runway action. CL: I wrote the song Boy Blue for my friend Gregory. He passed away from AIDS and his life and death affected and inspired me deeply. He still does. STAR: What was your inspiration behind the "True Colors" tour? CL: I’ve been trying to do the tour for the past five years. It came from my outrage about what is going on in this country and specifically what is going on with the erosion of GLBT civil liberties and rights. It has affected my family, my close friends and my fans. Your civil liberties are my civil liberties. If yours are being taken away or going backwards, so are mine. I’ve been a part of the women’s movement and the civil rights movement for the African American Community. I feel like what is happening in this country with the GLBT community is outrageous, and this tour is a reaction to that, STAR: Why did you select the Human Rights campaign as your benefactor? CL: I have ahvays admired and respected the work that the HRC has done. They are working on a federal level and a local level for issues that are important to me. STAR: Have you received any back lash or criticism about the tour? www.ozarksstar.com STAR: Will we get to see that fabulous rainbow statue of liberty dress? STAR: Your gay audience transcends generations and even includes the current generation of youth. What, as an ally, do you think is the biggest challenge facing them and what do you think is their greatest strength? CL: I think the gay youth of today hold great promise. You can look at the way they connect and interact on myspace and other community sites and they know that they are not alone. I also look at PFLAG, GLSEN and the many local youth organizations out there that provide support and outreach. They are vital. Ifa kid can come out and be accepted by his family then he should cherish that, not every kid gets the love and support they need at home. That’s why PFLAG is involved in this tour, if coverage of it can open a difficult discussion then I’m doing my job. This tour is as much for gay engaged family members and friends as it is for GLBT people. for parents of gay youth increases. It starts at home. It’s (the tour) all about opening up the discussions on the home front, the political front and the music and entertainment front, but let’s not lose sight of the fact that this is a great musica! celebration. It’s going to be a kick ass party... STAR: In addition to this tour, you have a new album coming out. Would you care to share a little bit about it? CL: It’s definitely NOT a mellow album. It’s an ass shaker. STAR: Can tour-goers expect to hear their favorite hits, or will there be a lot from the new album? CL: I’m still mulling over what the set list is...so we’ll see...I may sneak in a few new songs. STAR: Most importantly for gay men and drag queens everywhere: You look fabulous, and haven’t aged a bit! Please, tell us your secret. CL: Yoga and keeping up with my son’s energy level. STAR: What can we look for from Cyndi Lauper in the future? CL: I’m wide open. I’m in a great creative space and looking forward to touring and finishing the new CD. Once that’s done, I’m sure I’ll be on the hunt for my next creative endeavor. Right now, it’s all about the True Colors tour. STAR: Miss Lauper, thank you for your time. We wish you the greatest of success with the tour and the album. The True Colors Tour will be visiting Dallas on June 23 and Houston on June 24. For more information or for a complete list of tour dates visit www.truecolorstour.com. I do want to say that I hope some of the apathy around HIV with the younger generation changes. We’ve made great medical advances and people are living with HW and MDS, but people are still dying. I hope that the kids wil! be responsible if they are having sex and I hope that the education the STAR 33 �"Easy does it, Sagittarius!" Mercury is in Cancer, which normally facilitates sweet expressions of genuine affection and swapping old family recipes. But as Mercury clashes with Saturn in Leo, that "affection" may now seem overbearing and critical. Try to be modest and sincere, and offer healthy, low-fat recipes - or chocolate. ARIES (March 20 - April 19): Efforts to show off your home in a good light can be a major source of irritation. Can you just relax, and let your place be comfortable and fun? Your real friends don’t care how it looks, as long as it’s happily lived in. TAURUS (April 20 - May 20): Do you really need to call your family now? Let it wait until next week. It’s bad enough hearing one of your parents in your own voice. Play that up for satirical effect and you’ll learn something useful, if not entirely pleasant. GEMINI (May 21 - Jun~ 20): Getting caught up on bills may be a hassle, but do what you can now to avoid trouble later. Advice from an older sibling - or a "sister" - can be irritating, but well worth heeding. At least think about it! CANCER (June 21 - July 22): Trying to sound authoritative just makes you sound bitchy. Let your words follow the law of supply and demand. The less you say, the more valuable it is. Writing is safer than speaking, but scrutinize e-mails carefully before you send them! LEO (July 23 - August 22): Being cranky and bossy is largely a cover for doubts and worries. To be more truly your sweet, lovable self, take time out to meditate or talk with a confidante about what’s bugging you. An imaginary conversation with Mom will help. VIRGO (August 23 - September 22): The future may seem dark and hopeless, and the next few years are challenging, but still you worry too much. You can make the most of it; use your instincts to figure out a way through the dark labyrinth ahead. LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): Your foresight is especially sharp, but without caution, so is your tongue. Nagging undermines the effectiveness of your prescience. Imagine that everyone is your boss and be careful of what you say. That will heighten your own authority. SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): Any discussion can turn into an argument much too easily. What are you trying to prove and to whom? If you must assert your authority, keep it cool and simple. Overreacting will undermine others’ confidence in you. SAG~TTAR~US (November 22 o December 20): Your eagerness to tweak and provoke is dangerously high, tempting you to much more trouble than you’re ready to risk. New games in the bedroom may require innovative safety awareness. Slow and easy does it, Tiger! CAPRICORN (December 21 - January 19): If demands (or lack thereof) in the boudoir are dampening your relationship, discussing the issues now could make or break it. How much courage, patience, and love do you have? Be very clear on your issues before taking on your partner’s. 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Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data magazine Text Any textual data included in the document 2 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 3 STAR DISTRIBUTION: OKLAHOMA CITY*TULSA* LAWTON * MCALESTER * ENID* LITTLE ROCK* NORTH LITTLE RODK * FAYETTEVILLE * FT SMITH * EUREKA SPRINGS * HOT SPRINGS * BENTONVILLE * ROGERS * KANSAS CITY * SPRINGFIELD * JOPLIN ¯ WICHITA* PITTSBURG * JUNCTION CITY 4 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com OKLAHOMA COUNTY COMMISSIONERJIM ROTH APPOINTED TO THE OKLAHOMA CORPORATION COMMISSION Exclusive by Victor Gorin to complete his term which expires in 2010. Commissioner Roth hopes that the work of preparing the county’s 2008 budget will be completed by the time he leaves office. As specified in the Oklahoma Constitution, as an appointee to a statewide office, he must run in the next general election to fill the balance of Ms. Bode’s unexpired term, which also ends in 2010. If elected, he plans to run for re-election for a full six year term at that time. He will be serving on the Corporation Commission with Republicans Bob Anthony and Jeff Cloud. A giant step up from his county commissioner position, he stated that he fully understands the challenges of this statewide office. OKLAHOMA CITY, OK___’Tm grateful to Governor Henry for his vote of confidence, I’m grateful to for the public that has employed me these past years, and I look forward to making a difference for the state of Oklahoma." On May 14 Governor Brad Henry appointed Oklahoma County Commissioner Jim Roth to the Oklahoma Corporation Commission to succeed Commissioner Denise Bode, who is resigning her seat for a job in the private sector. The Corporation Commission functions in Oklahoma state government to regulate telecommunications, utilities, the oil & gas industry & transportation providers. It consists of 3 commissioners elected statewide that serve 6 year terms. As the Governor stated, "Jim Roth has the intellect, the integrity and the dedication to public service needed to be an outstanding Corporation Commissioner." When he was elected to be Oklahoma County Commissioner of District 1 in 2002, he was the second openly gay elected official in Oklahoma. Despite a rough campaign where his opposition, the incumbent Republican Beverly Hodges, played the antigay card to the max, he still won based on a campaign of efficient, trustworthy county government that would serve all the citizens www.ozarksstar.com of the district. After his victory he and his stafffound that his predecessor had left the office with the computers crashed, files shredded, and a card with men in drag that said, "Don we now our gay apparel" that gave new meaning to the concept of sore losing. Despite this rock), welcome he gained the confidence of the district’s voters, achieving a balanced budget and getting 8 new bridges built in his district during his first term while the previous commissioner had built only one. He also was able to get Oklahoma County to adopt an employment nondiscrimination policy for their employees that protects them from discrimination based on sexual orientation, the first and only such government policy in Oklahoma. His job performance won the respect and support not only of the GLBT community and traditionally progressive groups, but also a surprising number of conservative Republicans. This showed clearly when he ran for a second term in 2006 and his opposition, Republican David Mehlhaff, ran a campaign almost entirely based on anti-gay rhetoric, and he still won handily ~ith 63% of the vote. He will retain his office until May 31. Unless she declines the position his chief deputy, Linda Simpson, will serve in his place pending the outcome from a special election that will be set by Governor Henry " I spent the last 3 weeks doing my due diligence exploring the position, finding out if it was something I could make a positive impact with. I also explored the idea about leaving a job that I loved and a county that relies on me. My partner (Worth Ross), my family and I all discussed my original intentions for public service, and that is to change people’s lives for the better, and we , decided that if the governor were to offer it this would be a tremendous opportunity to do that higher goal of helping change people’s lives for the better across the state. " "As for my skill sets, I feel I would be up to the challenge, "I feel that in the last 5 years I have learned a lot ofwhat it takes to be successful as a member ofa 3 member board, pushing for progressive change even in contentious, difficult environments. My record for being fair and honest made me a good candidate in the governor’s eyes for that statewide position. Beyond that I would say that it is a huge honor to be able to take an oath to serve the state of Oklahoma just as I have felt it an honor to serve Oklahoma County". And as for the challenge of his upcoming statewide election? "I have always approached public service based on job performance, I work hard, I work long hours to make a difference. That will be my same strategy, that in the next year and a half that I will work so hard for the public that given the chance to rehire me, I hope they say yes." the STAR 5 Dear Editor, Thank you for publishing information about the recent $24-miltion class action settlement with EMD Serono, the maker ofAIDS -wasting drug Serostim. The lawsuit had alleged that EMD Serono promoted the use of an unapproved medical device that improperly diagnosed people as having AIDS wasting; provided doctors with travel stipends in exchange for their agreement to prescribe Serostim; and marketed the drug for uses that were not approved by the FDA. The U.S. Attorney in charge ofa government case against EMD Serono asserted that "nearly 85% ofprescriptions written for Serostim ~vere not medically necessary." It is important that anyone who paid for any of the cost ofSerostim know that they may be eligible to receive a payment from this settlement. The deadline to make a claim is approaching fast! Claims must be submitted byJune 19th, 2007. Claims forms and more information are available at www.serostimsettlement. com. Thank you, Mark D. Snyder Prescription Access Litigation www.prescriptionaccess.org Dear Editor I’m concerned about the takeover of my country by the Alice-in-Wonderland anti-Democratic nature of the religious far right. It’s my contention that fundie religious observance and stridency are a brake on natural human progress and diversity. As we’ve seen with the latest Supreme Court decision on privacy and women’s bodies, the opinions of six lower courts, logic, precedence, and rule of law are put aside when the observance of these important elements in human civilization would run counter to the biblical barbarism many people would prefer to humanist progress. In that same light, our gay equality--despite some advancement in the area of civil unions and civil equality for same gendered couples--can be canceled by a Supreme Court decision should it decide that unanimity of a legislature is never to be had, and therefore, the law must bow to the least common denominator of human reason: bigotry. This is the logic that was used by the Supreme Court in denying any allowance for the health or life of the mother in the case of an abortion after consultation with the patient and her medical professional. The Court said that because the legislatures have a "right" to pass laws, and even should those laws be passed in contradiction to scientific fact, the ignorance shown by the law must be upheld. This reasoning is driven by religious fear and not sound jurisprudence. Let’s remember the slogan from a prior presidential election: "It’s the Supreme Court, Stupid!", and vote accordingly in November 2008 for the enforcement of the Constitution and not the Bible. James Nimmo Oklahoma City, OK 6 the STAR w~wv.ozarksstar.com www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 7 SATURDAY ,JUNE 23, 2007 THE JAZZ DEPOT ’lST AND CiNCINNATi FREE VVW’W.OEJAZ7-ORG OKLAHOMA JAZZ HALL OF FAME Creating U~ity Throu~ab Music "’A¸ t Century 21 Gold Castle our BEST properties are our PEOPLE’ 430t NW 63rd, Suite 100 Oklahoma City, OK 73116 405.840.2106 www,c21goldcastle.com www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 9 Old homa Stonewa l Democra,s The LGBT Voice ofthe Democratic Party 10 the STAR Stonewall Democrats Work to Raise Awareness that LGBT Democrats Care and We VOTE! We Seek Equality andHuman Rightsfor ALL Peoplefrom within the oMv Political Party that Endorses LGBT Inclusiveness at All Levels ofPolitics and Governmen~ Help us elect Democrats who will welcome YOU into their campaigns, their lives, and their offic!s! We’re Proud ofOklahoma Stonewall Members ~State Corporatwn Commissioner dim Roth ~State Representative Al McAffrey ~State Senator Andrew Rice (Congratulations on the new baby, SenatorO Join us at wwwook~tonewallo~rg www.ozarksstar.com Pinkie and the Snakeshokers, Sa~rday Evening Come check out the improvements made to the festival as we~l as the many interactive activities such as Pride Idol, Pet Contest, Return of the Children’s Area, Two Stages of Entertainment plus a DJ Tent, Food, Shopping, Historical Exhibits, Karaoke m Q ClMARRON g a zi n e,,~ www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 11 Unprecedented series of" gains coast tO coas for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people ’The tide is clearly shifting.’ Matt Foreman, Executive Director, National Gay and Lesbian Task Force WASHINGTON, May9 " ~{~007 state legislative season has b~ ~{ ~ost productive in the history of the lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) rights movement and, as a result, for the first time more than half the U.S. population will live in jurisdictions that outlaw discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation, according to an analysis of Census data and current laws released today by the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force. In addition, nearly 40 percent of the population wilt now live in jurisdictions that protect transgender people from discrimination -- a sevenfold increase since 2000, and one-fifth of all Americans will live in states that offer same-sex couples broad rights under state law, more than an eightfold increase since 2004. The Task Force said the 2006 elections and years of dogged work at the grassroots level were responsible for the surge in legislation. "This is a historic and long-overdue milestone. At long last, a majority ofAmericans will now live in jurisdictions that protect people from discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation," said Matt Foreman, executive director of the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force. "As important, protections for transgender people and broad rights for same-sex couples are surging from coast to coast. We still have a very long way to go, but the tide is clearly shifting." Nondiscrimination Protections Surge Since Jan. 1, 2007, the legislatures in four states -- an all-time high -- have passed nondiscrimination laws. Three of those states -- Iowa, Oregon and Colorado -- moved to extend protections to lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people, and the Vermont Legislature passed a bill amending its existing nondiscrimination laws to include transgender people. As a result, the percentage of the U.S. population living in jurisdictions protecting lesbian, gay and bisexual people from discrimination will rise to 52 percent, crossing the halfway mark for the first time. The laws of Iowa, Oregon and Vermont prohibit discrimination in employment, housing and public accommodations, among other categories; Colorado’s law covers employment only. I7 Oregon GoT. Ted Kulongoski is scheduled to sign his state’s ............... bill into law today; the governors in the other three states have pledged to sign their bills into law. Protections for Transgender People Growing Rapidly nondiscrimination laws covering gender identity/expression grew 32 percentage points (from 5 percent to 37 percent), more than five times the rate of growth for sexual orientation protections. When the four state discrimination taws go into effect, 37 percent of the population will live in jurisdictions that protect transgender people from discrimination. Protections for transgender people have grmvn much more quickly over the last decade than those for lesbian, gay and bisexual people because of a commitment of the LGBT movement to insist that transgender people be included in new nondiscrimination laws and to go back and add protections for transgender people to existing sexual orientation-only laws. Since 2000, the percentage of the population living in jurisdictions with nondiscrimination laws covering sexual orientation grew 14 percentage points (from 38 percent to 52 percent). During the same period, the percentage of the population living in jurisdictions with The "Eask Force created and staffed its Transgender Civil Rights Project in 2001 with the goal of increasing the number of transgender-protective discrimination laws. Since the project’s inception, the proportion of the population covered by transgenderinclusive laws has increased from 6 percent to 37 percent. "It’s clear that legislators recognize that transgender people face widespread discrimination and deserve the same protections as other minorities," said Foreman. "The common wisdom used to be that including protections for transgender people would kill a bill -- that’s obviously not the case." Foreman noted that last week the U.S. House of Representatives passed a hate crimes bill containing explicit protections ................... Continued nextpage t2 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com for transgender people by a vote of 237-180 and that this year the Employment Non- Discrimination Act (ENDA) was amended to prohibit discrimination on the basis of gender identity and expression. There is widespread expectation that both houses of Congress will take up ENDA before the end of the calendar year. Gains in Broad State Protections for Same- Sex Couples Over the last five months (December through April), legislatures in three states New Jersey, New Hampshire and Oregon passed laws granting same-sex couples the same rights and responsibilities afforded married couples under state law through civil unions or domestic partnerships. As in the nondiscrimination arena, this is more states taking such action than in any previous state legislative season. As a result, onefifth (20 percent) of the U.S. population will live in states that offer broad rights and responsibilities to same-sex couples. (Other jurisdictions, including \Vashington state, Hawaii and the District of Columbia, have passed laws that give significant but not comprehensive rights to domestic partners. These jurisdictions are not included in the calculations.) Five years ago (in 2002) just one state, Vermont, ~vith 0.2 percent of the population, offered broad protections to same-sex couples. When the bills passed this session take effect, seven states (California, Connecticut, Massachusetts, New Hampshire, New Jersey, Oregon and Vermont), with 20 percent of the population, will offer broad protections to same-sex couples. The Task Force said Oregon’s new law was a particularly satisfying turnaround from 2004, when voters approved a constitutional amendment banning the recognition of same-sex marriage by a margin of 57 percent to 43 percent, the narrowest margin among the 13 states voting on anti-marriage measures that year. The Task Force donated nearly $900,000 in cash in the attempt to defeat the amendment and sent 10 organizers to help staff the campaign. "While the 2004 loss really hurt, it’s now clear that our campaign really did convince people that all families deserve broad protections and relationship rights," said Thalia Zepatos, director of the Task Force’s Organizing & Training Department. Zepatos, who played a major role in fighting every anti-LGBT measure in Oregon since 1988, will attend today’s bill-signing ceremony in Salem, Ore. 2006 Elections and Years of Grassroots Work Credited with Surge in Protections The results of the 2006 election played a pivotal role in four (Colorado, Iowa, Ne~v Hampshire and Oregon) of the six states passing nondiscrimination or family protection laws since December, the Task Force said. Before the November elections, Democrats held control of both houses of the state legislatures in three of the states taking pro-LGBT action: Vermont, Colorado and New Jersey. As a result of the November elections, however, Democrats picked up control of both houses in the other three states: Iowa, Oregon and New Hampshire. Before the elections in Iowa, the Senate was evenly divided and the House was Republican- dominated; in Oregon, Democrats controlled the Senate and Republicans controlled the House; in New Hampshire, both houses were controlled by Republicans. In Co!orado, Democrats strengthened their control of the Legislature, and Democrat William Ritter succeeded Republican William Owens as governor, who had twice vetoed the nondiscrimination bill. The change in control of the state legislatures was due to Democratic gains nationwide, as well as specific work to elect pro-LGBT state legislators spearheaded by Colorado philanthropist Tim Gill. "The lesson here? What a difference an election makes!" said Foreman. In Oregon in 2006, then-House Speaker Karen Minnis was singularly responsible for blocking nondiscrimination and family recognition legislation bills. With Democrats taking control of that chamber, Minnis has since lost her leadership position. Although it took Democratic control to move the bills, each passed with Republican support (although Colorado’s employment nondiscrimination bill passed with only one Republican voting for it). The Task Force stressed that while the change in party control was an essentia! factor in moving bills this year, grassroots activism over many years made it possible for legislators to vote on the pro-LGBT measures. In Oregon, for example, activists had been pushing a nondiscrimination law for nearly 30 years, and work on the comprehensive domestic partnership law began immediately after the 2004 election. Similarly, the LGBT community in Vermont has been pushing to include protections for transgender people for eight years, and New Hampshire’s civil union law is a direct result of marriage equality organizing by the New Hampshire Freedom to Marry Coalition. "These bills would have never passed without the dogged work of state and local leaders and organizations over many, many years," Foreman said. "Our national community owes them all its respect and gratitude." Since Jan. 1, the legislatures of all 50 states have been in session. As ofMay 8, 29 legislatures remain in session. www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 13 By D. Rose Photo: Eureka Springs Mayor Dani Wilson. EUREKA SPRINGS, AR~"Zhis is a monumental occasion for our town," proclaimed Mayor Dani Wilson. "I am so incredibly proud that our c0uncil has had the courage to stand for equality for all." She concluded, "It reinforces the fact that Eureka Springs was founded upon equality, inclusion, and love for all, and still holds those principals true today." Diversity thrives in a Victorian village wedged in the rocky Ozarks hills. On May 14, 2007, Eureka Springs, Arkansas added another jewel to her crown with the passing of the Domestic Partnership Registry, standing in the company of many astute cities choosing to push aside religious oppression to progress equality for all couples. For many, the benefits of the Registry may be more symbolic in nature, but it is a monumental step toward enlightenment. young and old, gathered in sister-brotherhood, while others spoke for us inside. We held our signs aloft, talked, laughed, and waited for the Counci!’s final vote. From an open window, two of our elders signaled victory and we roared with joy in our hearts! We hugged each other, we cried and fett" as ONE community. It was a wondrous evening!" -- Marie Howard, age 73, retired teacher "As a gay father and spouse raising two children, I see this action by the Council as a major step in the ongoing process of attaining equal rights for citizens that are unduly discriminated against. For couples who can’t otherwise be married or have a Civil Union, the Registry will give us a small way to publicly recognize and help solidify our loving families. And for some couples fortunate to work for an employer that offers Domestic Partner benefits, it will help them attain much needed spousal benefits." -- JT Williams, Arkansas "Eureka shows us LOVE is for everybody!" -- Joney Harper "Who does DP benefit? Any adult couple who, for whatever reason, chooses not to legally marry or who, because of antiquated and discriminatory laws, can not legally marry. Every woman, man and child in Eureka Springs, in Arkansas and in the rest of the nation. Anything that inches those who have been disenfranchised and marginalized closer to full citizenship, emancipation and equality under the law is a benefit for society." -- Michael Walsh "As a mother of a deceased gay man, my first thought was Robert would love this. My second, he would be so proud of his mother for standing in for him to celebrate the life he fought so hard for. EQUALITY! Parents’ love never dies, but grows because he/she is your child as well as God’s." - Jude Murphy For more details about ordinance 2052, go to www.Diversitypride.com Center for Artistic Revolution Blog BENTONVILLE, AR The father of two teenage boys has asked city Officials to fine the Bentonville Public Library for keeping The Whole Lesbian Sex Book by Felice Newman on the open shelves where his sons could find it. Earl Adams said his 14- and 16-year-old sons discovered the book in January while browsing for literature on military academies and were "greatly disturbed," causing "many sleepless nights in our house." Adams wants the city to pay him $10,000 per child, the maximum allowed under Arkansas obscenity law. "God was speaking to my heart that day and helped me find the words that proved successful in removing this book from the shelf," Adams said in the April 20 Springdale Morning News. City Attorney Camille Thompson said the book was not pornographic and Adams has no "valid legal concern." After receiving his original complaint, the library advisory board voted April 3 to remove the book from circulation and look for a similar, less graphic resource for the open stacks. "I thought we had a very intelligent I almost want to say high-minded--discussion about the book," said board member, George Spence. Library Director Cindy Suter said that she disagreed with Adams’s conclusion that having Newman’s book in the library follows an "immoral social agenda," adding, "My focus was to develop an inclusive collection and not an exclusive collection." "In the parking lot outside of City Hall, an amazing combination of people: gay, straight, mothers, fathers, nurses, teachers, 14 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com Anal PAP Smear For Men, Ana.1 Cancer Prevenuon SAN FRANCISCO, CA If you have followed the news, you’ve heard about advances in preventing cancers caused by HPV (human papilloma virus). The Food and Drug Administration has approved a vaccine for women and girls th~lt is expected to prevent up to 70 percent of cervical cancers caused by HPV. Unfortunately, there have been fewer advances in prevention and education for gay and bisexual men who face alarmingly high rates of another cancer caused by HPV, anal cancer. Most men and women who are sexually active acquire HPV at some point. Most HPV infections don’t cause cancer~, but some do. Rates of anal cancer among gay and bisexual men are 35 times greater than the general population -- comparable to rates of cervical cancer in women before routine Pap smear screening for cervical precancerous cells. HIV-positive men and women are even more susceptible, with HIV-positive men a staggering 80 times more at risk. Anal cancer rates have doubled in the last 10 years and are expected to continue rising. Black gay and bisexual men have seen the sharpest increase and have lower survival rates. The National Cancer Institute estimates that 4,650 people in the United States will be diagnosed with anal cancer this year and 690 people will die from it. Early detection of precancerous cells can save hundreds of lives each year and spare thousands of people from radiation therapy, chemotherapy and a lifetime of painful side 4ffects. The good news is that anal cancer is potentially preventable and highly curable. An anal Pap smear is an inexpensive and relatively painless screening procedure that can detect abnormal cells. A follow-up exam, which includes a high-resolution anoscopy, helps determine whether abnormal cells are precancerous. Specialists believe that treating anal precancerous cells, often through a simple in-office procedure, can prevent anal cancer. Despite the experience of specialists, these potential preventive measures are not part of routine care for those at risk. One reason 1 {5 the STAR is a disturbing lack of large-scale studies and research funding on anal cancer prevention. Without these studies, policymakers and medical associations are hesitant to recommend preventive measures. In contrast, cervical Pap smears became part of women’s health care before conclusive studies were published, yielding an 80 percent reduction in cervical cancer. Another reason that preventive measures are not in place is the limited number of providers trained in high-resolution anoscopy (HRA). Further, if pre-cancers are detected through the procedure, no guidelines exist for optimal treatment. This potentially preventable cancer is needlessly advancing among thousands of Americans each year. Some specialists are screening for and treating anal pre-cancers, but without randomized clinical studies, it hasn’t been proven that these measures prevent anal cancer. Required studies are in the planning stages and will take years to conduct. The STOP AIDS Project, a San Franciscobased community project that works to prevent the transmission of HIV among gay and bisexual men, supports evidence-based standards of care. However, until standards of care are implemented, something needs to be done. STOP AIDS advocates that policymakers and medical associations support and fund research on anal-cancer prevention, including the efficacy of HPV vaccines in males. In anticipation of published guidelines, a health-care infrastructure should be developed that includes provider training. Policymakers should also consider piloting screening programs to collect data and determine efficacy and feasibility. Gay and bisexual men and those with HIV should talk with their health-care providers about their risk for anal cance.r and HPV. Men can decrease their risk for HPV by using condoms. Those at risk should consider getting an anal Pap smear annually if they are HIV-positive or every two to three years if they are HIV-negative. At minimum, they should have a rectal exam to detect abnormal growths. Also, men at risk can !ower their risk by stopping smoking, because smoking is a risk factor for developing anal cancer. Men at risk can advance prevention efforts by volunteering for clinical trials or advocating for research funding and health insurance coverage. Additionally, providers can Seek training in preventive anal cancer procedures. The San Francisco Department of Public Health STD Control Branch and STOP AIDS are convening an expert panel to evaluate existing data on anal cancer and develop recommendations. Last month, New York’s MDS Institute became the first Department of Public Health in the nation to publish such recommendations. Other organizations, counties and states should follow this lead. Dr. Joel Palefsky is a professor of medicine at the University of California, San Francisco. Jen Hecht, Jason Riggs and Michael Scarce are staff members of STOP ,adDS Project, an HIV prevention and health promotion organization for gay; bisexual and transgender men. For more information visit www.stopaids.org and www.analcancerinfo. ucsf.edu/ Doctors in Bay Area, San Francisco are encouraging ga), men to have pap smears, after a significant increase in cases of anal cancer. In the United States, the number of people diagnosed with anal cancer has increased by close to forty percent since 1996. This is in contrast to the overall increase of cancer diagnoses of just one percent. Although the cancer can be easily treated, 660 people died ftom the disease last year, with over 4,500 new cases. Doctor Joel Palefsky, Director of the Anal Neoplasia Clinic at the University of California, spoke of how anal pap smears could detect legions before becoming malignant. "We haven’t proven it yet, but we believe that we are likely to be preventing anal cancer." Although women are more likely to be diagnosed with anal cancer, gay men and those who are HIV positive are also at risk. It is now believed that 35 out of every 100,000 gay men in the United States has anal cancer. A report is currently being prepared on the introduction and promotion of pap smears for gay men. www.ozarksstar.com You want to be healthy. Go to bed and sleep on it. Sleep is a great way to maintain your health and it’s not that complicated. You just need to sleep. So, why is that everyone seems to get so little of it? People are always rushing about. There’s the nine to five job. There’s the one hour commute. There’s the grocery shopping. There’s always something that seems to eat away at your precious sleep time. Let me give you some good reasons to make room for the pillmv and mattress. First, you just simply need to make the time for sleep. The average adult needs seven to eight hours of sleep. This is a priority and you need to allocate a period of your day ~vhen you can accomplish this. If you can’t schedule it then you are doing too much during your daily routine. Cornell psychology professor James B. Maas provided research that shows that if you get less than eight hours of sleep per night, you are operating impaired; and your alertness, productivity, creativity, and general health are all affected. The body is able to restore itself during REM sleep. ~lis is when the body can process the emotional moments of the day through dream imagery. ~is explains why I have such a hard time sleeping after watching movies like The Grudge, White Noise, or Gigli. The brain tries to interpret and process this information so that we can forget and then move on for a new day. Try to mix and match these hues with the d’cor of your boudoir and serenade yourself into a lullaby. Some people tell me that they need to do as much as possible while they are alive. They tell me that there will be plenty of time to sleep when they’re knocking on heaven’s door. True but why not try to get as much quality out of your awake time as possible? Proper sleep equates to much more energetic and productive awake time. I opt for quality in lieu of quantity. "Goodnight, you princes Of Maine. You Kings ofNew England." Ron Blake is a personal fitness trainer and owner of Blake Fitness in Phoenix. He can be reached at 480-241-5651 or blake.fitness@ yahoo.com. Owasso Community heatre’ Season Opens. OWASSO, OK__The O~vasso Community Theatre’s Season "It’s All About Family" will be opening on June 22, 2007 with a musical production of Ruthless! directed by Bruce Lewis. Season Tickets for all five shows are now available from the contacts listed below, and cost $25.00 for access to all four shows which include the mysterious Arsenic and Old Lace, the heartwarming Cheaper By The Dozen, and the entertaining Babes in Toyland. For further questions, please contact: Tammy Quick, tammylq@cox.net, (918) 851-3830 Bruce Lewis, brucel@tulsacares.org, (918) 906-8992 It becomes easier to fall asleep when you get in a routine. Watch the nine o’clock news each night and then head off to the bedroom. Notice I said head off to the bedroom. That would mean that you were watching the news in another room. Very good! The bedroom is just for sleeping and occasionally some carnal indulgences. Keep the television and DVDs out of this sacred slumber sanctuary. The more you associate this part of the house with somnolence, the easier it will be become to fall asleep quickly when your head hits the pillow. Don’t engage in disruptive activities just before being summoned by the sandman. Headbangers ball, a cup of joe, a row with your partner, and a tintinnabulary tango are bad ideas. Soothing music, non-caffeinated drinks, and a rendezvous with your favorite book are great ideas. Make your bed as comfortable and appealing as possible. There are certain colors that have that hypnotic effect on individuals. Green coos peace and serenity and helps lower the heart rate. It is a great comforter and stress reliever. Blue entices you to fantasize and daydream. Its cerulean effects cause the brain to emit tranquilizing hormones. Purple has the capacity to pacify frayed nerves and slow muscle activity. Pink just has a way with calm, cool, and collective. www,ozarksstar.com the 8TAR OK .AHOMA SHAKESPEARE IN THE PARK MOVING TO THE HEART OF DOWNTOWN OKLAHOMA CITY OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__Oklahoma Shakespeare in the Park (OSP), Oklahoma’s premiere classical theater, announced at the Myriad Botanical Gardens that beginning in 2007 and beyond, it will stage its summer seasons in the heart of downtown Oklahoma City. The inaugural 2007 season will kick-offJune 14 and continue through Sept. 1. It will be staged on the Myriad Botanical Gardens Water Stage, which the Myriad Gardens Foundation (MGF) in a partnership with OSP will renovate. OSP has partnered with the MGF to raise private funds for the renovation. Improvements will include new sound and lighting, seating and a stage structure. The renovated theater will add a new premiere venue to doxvntown Oklahoma City and will be available for other bookings when OSP is not in residence. OSP has also moved its offices to Stage Center in Oklahoma City’s Arts District. The 2007 Summer Season opens June 14 with A Midsummer Night’s Dream, followed by Cyrano de Bergerac and Macbeth. The final summer performance will be September 1. The announcement came on the day that OSP’s three-year lease with the Myriad Gardens Authority and the City of Oklahoma City for use of the \rater Stage was unanimously approved by the Oklahoma City Council. It had previously been unanimously approved by the OSP Board of Directors and the Myriad Gardens Authority. This approval represents the culmination of a process that began in the spring of 2005, when OSP’S stage in Edmond’s Hafer Park was burned down for a second time. Because of that tragedy, OSP staged its summer seasons the past two years at the University of Central Oklahoma. Oklahoma Shakespeare in the Park 2006 Season "The Temioest at Stage Center" Photo Subjects: Left: Holly McNatt (Miranda) and Rig/st: J. Shane McClure (Prospero). Photo by: Andrea NotTis O’Meara. The past 22 summer seasons have been staged in the City of Edmond. Oklahoma Shakespeare in the Park traditionally mounts a summer season consisting of three plays; a winter season of one play, which is traditionally performed at Stage Center in downtown Oklahoma City; a production ofA Christmas Carol, which will remain at the University of Central Oklahoma; and statewide touring productions year-around. Educational outreach is also a core part of OSP’S mission. OSP is supported in part by the Oklahoma Arts Council, Allied Arts, Chesapeake Energy, OG&E, the Kirkpatrick Family Fund, the Kirkpatrick Foundation, the Inasmuch Foundation, and is in alliance with the University of Central Oklahoma’s Department of Theatre, Dance and Media Arts. For more information, visit www.oklahomashakespeare. com. Thi~ drink ! Yummy 1½ oz. Vodka 1 oz. Creme de Banana 1 oz. Dark Creme de Cacao ½ oz. Light cream Pour ingredients into mixini~ glass. Add ice, shake and strain into your Martini Gl~ss. Oklahoma Shakespeare in the Park was founded in 1985 by current Artistic Director Kathryn McGill and the late Jack 1 8 the BTAR www.ozarksstar.com By Joey De The boys are back in town, and for the 2007 Light Opera Oklahoma season, they’re behaving badly, beginning Jun. 15. Presented as a repertory festival and in conjunction with the Tulsa Performing Arts Center Trust’s Summerstage festival, the 2007 LOOK season features a classic, a contemporary and countess, in addition to three cabaret performances. "We select our shows and obtain rights about a year and a half to two years in advance," says Eric Gibson, artistic director of LOOK. "Then we take a look at the shows and ifwe can, hopefully find a theme or a common element to tie them all together." This year’s presentation of bad boys are Meredith Willsoffs "The Music Man," the dark opera/musical "Sweeney Todd" and the more light hearted operetta "Naughty Marietta." Kicking off the festival Jun. 13 and running through Jul. 8 is "The Music Man," a golden age musical about Professor Harold Hill, the most charming of con artists, and his descent upon River City, Iowa. Hill convinces the town’s youth that they are in so much terrible trouble the only way to keep them safe is to introduce the boys to music and join a band. The con’s plan includes getting unwitting parents to buy instruments and band uniforms and then skipping town with the proceeds. The plan hits a snag when Harold falls in love with the local librarian Marian Paroo. Resistant at first, Marian sees Harold transform the citizens of River City into exhilarated, musically challenged people. "This show’s a classic," says Gibson, "High schools everywhere do it, but rarely is it performed ’right,’ with professional talent." Following the feel-good frivolities of Music Man will be a trip to the dark side xvith Stephen Sondheim’s "Sweeney Todd," about the wrongfully imprisoned barber, Benjamin Barker. Barker, who returns to London to reclaim his life and reunite with www.ozarksstar.com his wife and daughter, finds that his judge has taken his wife and child, and swears revenge. Known on the streets as Sweeney Todd, Barker kills a street mountebank who recognizes him, and makes it that much more easy for him to kill anyone who gets in his revengeful way. His accomplice Mrs. Lovett, a fledgling pastry cook, has the brilliant idea of popping Todd’s victims into meat pies, boosting her own sagging business. Although it is a more contemporary piece of musical theatre, Gibson says that Sweeney Todd is very operatic, and is in fact performed frequently in opera houses throughout the United States. Rounding out the main stage season for LOOK is a light hearted return to the operettas that the company was built on. Although it is not Gilbert and Sullivan, as many have come to expect from the troupe, "~xe Naughty Marietta" is full of the same wit and charm that makes light opera fun. The show, which opens June 28, tells of the escape of the Countess D’Altena of Italy. D’Altena finds herself on a ship bound for New Orleans, but once there must escape the pirate Bras Pique. To join her in these escapades, Marietta enlists the aid of Captain Dick Warrington, a ranger in the US Army. They quickly fall in love and in order to foil the plot of Bras Pique, they enlist the aid of a French fop, marionettes, a jilted lover and many others! Through out the season, LOOK will also be offering three intimate evenings of cabaret-style entertainment, billed with the show "Trial By Jury." "Jury," a one act Gilbert and Sullivan Operetta is about a philandering man who cheats on his intended and gets sued for breach of promise. An equally badly behaved judge presides over the case, and, you can guess the rest. All four shows have rotating schedules which can be found at wvw.tulsapac.com or at www.lightoperaok.org. For ticket information visit www.myticketoffice.com. LANG & LOVETT CONCERT COHING TO OKC AND TULSA TULLSA, OK Musician, singer, songwriter, and actor, Lyle Lovett, together with K.d. Lang is in concert at Oklahoma City’s ZOO Ampitheater Saturday July 7th and in Tulsa’s Historic Brady Theater on Sunday July 8th, 2007. By breaking the rules and experimenting with music, each has earned a cult following around the world with a modern, eccentric sound coupled with literate, witty lyrics. K.d. Lang was inspired, at an early age, by the music of country western diva, Patsy Cline, and released a string of albums with a decidedly country flair enjoying moderate success in both sales and airplay. It was not, however, until the release of"Ing~nue" that K.d. Lang hit it big. Hailed as her "crossover" album, critics praised her work even as her country fans were feeling alienated. Lang further removed herself from her country/western fame by publicly declaring her lesbianism, shortly after the album’s release. the 8TAR www.ozarksstar.com down and T;ad.K TO EVERYBODY! When that was in harurally,, no one knOws y0u; s~ it is YOUR responsibility to start a conversation, The colorful gutchart Gardens rank among !~ctoria’s most memorable at~actions. (Photo by Andrew Collins) around the city and its environs by car. A favorite excursion is so-called Marine Drive - not the name of any one street but a scenic coastal circuit extending from Ogden Point, which is southwest of the Inner Harbour, to Cadboro Bay. Dignified, historic, studded with parks, and packed with some of the nation’s most notable cultural attractions, Victoria offers the perfect recipe for a short getaway in western Canada - it’s also easily reached from Vancouver or Seattle by way of regular ferry service. At the southern tip ofVancouver Island, this leafy capital of British Columbia has also become a popular spot for gay honeymoons and weddings since Canada legalized same-sex marriage in 2005. Great Britain’s first colony on the Pacific Coast of North America, Victoria was established in 1849 as a trading outpost. By the end of the century, when the now much larger city ofVancouver was still a mere blip on the radar, Victoria had become B.C.’s capital. The city remains an important political center, but tourists definitely butter the bread these days. The formal, lmndon-inspired Parliament buildings and the Fairmont Empress Hotel edge the harbor, set against a commanding backdrop of snowcapped mountains. With its tow skyline, downtown is compact and user-friendly, and fine shopping and care-hopping abound. The south end of the Inner Harbour contains Victoria’s provincial government buildings as well as the imposing Fairmont Empress Hotel, which is famous not only as a place to stay but for its regal afternoon high teas. Few museums in Canada are more fascinating than the Royal British Columbia Museum, whose artifacts and exhibits document life 12,000 years ago in xvhat is now Western Canada. Around the corner, the Crystal Garden Conservatory contains more than 65 endangered species that make their home in this re-created tropical forest. just south of here, off Douglas Street, the 185-acre Beacon Hill Park is typically filled with joggers, strollers, and sun-worshipers soaking up the atmosphere and the floral aroma. Nearby you can visit the Carr House, which affords a glimpse into the life of British Columbia’s most beloved painter, Emily Cart. Walk 15 minutes or drive a short way east of downtown along Fort Street, which is lined for several blocks with fine antiques shops, to reach one of B.C.’s greatest house-museums, Craigdarroch Castle. From the top (fifth) floor you’re treated to outstanding views of the city. Just west is the Art Gallery of Greater Victoria, one of the top art museums in Western Canada. Once you’ve exhausted Victoria on foot, consider tooling Victoria and the surrounding area are also idea! for outdoorsy activities - in fact, it’s been named Canada’s fittest city, owing to the high percentage of residents who regularly participate in outdoor recreation. Favorite activities include diving, kayaking, fishing, mountain biking, and hiking. A number of local outfitters lead tours through nearby old-growth forests, up rugged mountain peaks, and on whale-watching expeditions - visit Tourism Victoria’s helpful website (www.tourismvictoria.com) for a full list of providers. Victoria lies at the southern tip of the Saanich Peninsula, a fertile strip of land dotted with family farms and a growing number of esteemed wineries. It’s worth spending an afternoon exploring this region, whose most famous attraction is Butchart Gardens, a half-hour northwest of the city. The Butchart family made its fortune manufacturing cement in the late 19th century; when they finished mining their quarry, they transformed it into this magnificent collection of gardens. Among the 55 acres you’ll see every imaginable flower, and there are concerts as well as Saturday-night fireworks displays in July and August. From Butchart, there are several wineries within an easy drive. As you motor around the countryside, keep an eye out for farm stands and roadside markets, many of them selling fresh jams, baked goods, flowers, and produce. They often operate on an honor system - pick out your goods, and leave behind payment. Wineries of particular note include Marley Farm, a family-run establishment that specializes in some quite unusual fruit wines, including kiwi, pear, loganberry, and quince varieties. You’re apt to see sheep and horses wandering the 5-acre grounds. Tiny Chalet Estate Vineyard is well-regarded for its high-quality, unfiltered vintages, from syrahs to viogniers. Where there are wineries, there are virtually always wonderful restaurants, and Victoria is no exception. Probably the most gaypopular of the city’s up-market restaurants, Cafe Brio is a sophisticated little chef-owned ........Continued next page. vwvw.ozarksstar.com bistro that’s an absolute delight for romantic, intimate meals. The contemporary West Coast cuisine has Tuscan overtones - you might start with crispy roasted sweetbreads with poached rhubarb, followed by tomato-and-molasses-braised lamb shank with fresh-mintpotato gnocchi. For some of the best modern Italian food in town, including fantastic wood-fired pizzas with such creative toppings as smoked ahi tuna and marinated artichokes, dine at I1 Terrazzo, whose airy dining room resembles a cloistered courtyard. It’s steps from the diverting shopping along Johnson Street and features one of the city’s best wine lists. been refitted into a distinctive all-suites accommodation. Groups of friends traveling together will find Swans a bargain - up to six people can easily fit into its huge rooms. Each has a dining nook, a patio or a terrace, and many have skylights. There’s a microbrewery and an excellent restaurant, Wild Saffron Bistro, on the premises. Also worth consideration is the Magnolia Hotel and Spa, a snazzy and modern boutique hotel with a first-rate spa and a great location in the Inner Harbour neighborhood. Rooms receive plenty of sunlight, with their floor-to-ceiling windows and views of downtown and the waterfront. With a memorable setting inside a former schoolhouse in Canada’s oldest Chinatown, Brasserie I2Ecole is the domain of talented chefowner Sean Brennan, who utilizes local produce in his innovative regional fare, such as local trout with escarole and Jerusalem artichokes. Well-seasoned, imaginatively prepared vegetarian fare is the specialty at Re-Bar Modern Food, an offbeat spot on downtown’s Bastion Square, where you might dine on shiitake-tofu potstickers or Thai coconut-cashew prawn curry. For lighter dining and snacking, grab a latte or cappuccino at gaypopular Bean Around the World Coffee, a Chinatown java joint that uses organic coffee beans. Or nosh on eggs Benedict, hefty burgers, and other short-order fare at Rosie’s Diner, a downtown cafe with a festive ’50s-inspired retro look. The city’s sizable Asian community ensures a wealth of first-rate Chinese, Thai, and Japanese restaurants. For sensational Tixai fare, try Siam Thai. If you’d rather stay out in the country, but still within striking distance ofVictoria, consider booking into the swank yet low-keyed Sooke Harbour House, which is a 45-minute drive away. This is the ultimate luxury hideaway, complete with 28 imaginatively decorated rooms, many with views ofWashington’s Olympic Mountains and the Strait ofJuan de Fuca. There’s also a splendid restaurant serving fantastic four- and seven-course dinners, complete with wine-pairing options. One signature dish is the trio of garden-inspired sorbets (which might include quince-lemon-verbena or rhubarb-fennel). Indeed, this perfectly tended inn is surrounded by some of Vancouver Island’s most beautiful gardens - a night or two here will leave you totally refreshed and relaxed. Victoria is by no means a major hub for gay nightlife, but it does have a couple of friendly; laid-back gay hangouts. There’s the " popular (at least on weekends) dance club, Hush, as well as Prism Lounge, a basement space with fun drag shows and karaoke nights. The two bars lie within a short ,valk of one another, on the north side of downtown. You might find the ambience and vibe a bit hipper and more upbeat at some of Victoria mainstream but perfectly ’ gay-friendly social spots, such as the ornately decorated Temple Bar, known for its extensive lists of wines and martinis. Other good bets include Lucky Bar, a convivial beer hall set inside a historic building, and the Mint, a vaguely New Age-y space with Tibetan and .Nepalese food, and DJ music and dancing many evenings. In Victoria, there’s no fancier lodging in town than the Fairmont Empress Hotel. This 1908 Edwardian hostelry is the most sumptuous grand dan~e on Vancouver Island, and its Empress Room is a superb restaurant. Newer rooms are larger than those in the original section but keep with the hotel’s tradition. Celeb spotting is not uncommon. The hotel is also notable for its beautifully decorated Bengal Lounge, which serves traditional Indian cuisine in an oldworld Colonial ambience. Abigail’s Hotel is a great bet, in part for its enviable location - it’s at the end of a quiet, residential lane, yet it’s just three blocks from the Inner Harbour. The 23-room gayfriendly, hotel consists of two Tudor-style buildings, one with more traditional decor, and the other with more modern-feeling units. Many of the accommodations have wood-burning fireplaces and Jacuzzi tubs, and rates include an extensive full breakfast (enjoy it on the sunny patio, overlooking the English gardens, when the weather is cooperating). Set inside a former warehouse near Victoria’s Market Square and within ,valking distance of downtown attractions, Swans Hotel has www.ozarksstar.corn the ~TAF~ ~. 5 GAY TRAVELERS from page-22 town for th~ weekend. Later in the day we did meet some ~vonderful people at the bar and they invited us to a big party that they were having the next day. The Dallas businessman lost out on a lot! We make friends wherever we go, both gay and straight. Most people enjoy talking ~vith other people but sometimes you just have to make the first move. For us, we enjoy traveling to see interesting and new places, try new food, enjoy the sights and sounds of an area unknown to us but it is the people that we meet that are our real memories. We hear from way too many of our readers who return from their vacation and say that they didn’t have a good time, that they didn’t meet anyone and no one talked to them. Well, you cafft just go and sit like a bump on a log. Remember the immortal words ofAuntie Marne, ""Life is a banquet and most people are starving to death". Don’t be one of those people! Have good safe fun when traveling, enjoy life and TALK TO EVERYONE. We have been so fortunate in our travels to meet authors, poets, writers, entertainers, movie and TV actors. We get invited to a lot of parties in Hollywood, New York, Chicago, Florida and everywhere we go only because we make the first move and talk to everybody. Life is just too short to do it any other way. Always remember to have fun when traveling, meet new people and talk to everyone! TRAVELING IN OUR FABULOUS WORLD is written by Donald Pile and Ray \Vi!liams, Award-winning Celebrity travel columnists who write for gay publications from Coast to Coast. You can email them at: gaytravelers@aol.com or visit their webpage at: http://www.hometown.aol.com/gaytravelers Diversity Business Association of Tulsa Hosts First DBAT After Hours During Tulsa Pride Week TULSA, OK A vital aspect ofDBAT partidpation is the opportunity to meet with and learn from other LGBT business owners and professionals. Such an opportunity is offered through DBAT After Hours, our own version of a business after hours event. Join us for June’s DBAT After Hours and network in an informal atmosphere, make new contacts or to get reacquainted with former contacts. Nibbles and beverages provided. DBAT After Hours Thursday, June 7th 7:00 - 9:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th Street, Downtown Tulsa "TRAVELING IN OUR FABULOUS WORLD" by Donald Pile & Ray Williams Featuring Cuisine From Coast to Coast Harry Caray’s Restaurant, Chicago Harry Caray’s, named for the late, renowned baseball announcer, has become one of the most nationally recognized restaurant groups in the Midwest. Opened on October 23, 1987, this legendary Italian Steakhouse serves the finest prime, aged steaks and chops in a truly warm "Chicago" atmosphere. The friendly, energetic atmosphere embodies the amiable personality of the restaurant’s namesake. The combination of mahogany paneling, white tablecloths and a veritable museum of baseball history creates a warm and casual elegance. It is located at 33 W. Kinzie in downtown Chicago. They are open for lunch, Monday thru Saturday from 11:30 to 3:00. They are open for dinner Monday thru Thursday from 5:00 to 10:30 and Friday and Saturday from 5:00 to 11:00. Sunday they are open from 4 to 10 and their bar is open everyday from 11:30 to closing. The food served here is steak and Italian. The price range is from the $10’s to the $30’s per meal. Service is great. Each server is personable and enthusiastic. There is also a bar on one side of the restaurant with plenty ofTVs. They also have a second location at the O’Hare International Center, 10233 West Higgins Road in Rosemont, Ill. In August 2007, Harry Caray’s Restaurant Group will open it’s third Harry Caray’s Italian Steakhouse in Lombard, Ill. And although it is not an Italian Steakhouse, Harry Caray’s Seventh Inning Stretch premiered in 2001 and is the largest restaurant and bar at Chicago’s Midway Airport. This restaurant is ideal for travelers looking to take a delicious sandwich to go or those who have a short respite while waiting for their flight. We have always enjoyed our meals and had a great dining experience at Harry Caray’s. 26 the STAR w~v.ozarksstar.com JUNE 2007 ExpoSing Hate World Congress ofFami/ies, a gathering thatfocused on "naturalfamilies. " No longer content with the obscene political and monetary profits they realize in the United States, the radical Christian right is now exporting its number one product - homoph0bia - to Europe. A few thousand zealots from the United States and other countries converged on Warsaw, Poland’s Palace of Culture and Science in mid-May for the World Congress of Families, a gathering that focused on "natural families." "Natural families"? Just more spin - another euphemism for degrading LGBT families. These folks only consider assembly-line-produced families using eggs and sperm - introduced to one another through that old heterosexual standb); the missionary position, engaged in by a married, heterosexual couple - to be the real thing when it comes to producing progeny. How hateful of our -kids and our f,mailies. But let’s face it - hate is all these folks know, even though they couch it all in "Jesus’ love." The usual cast of radical Christian right characters was on hand for this particular love-to-hate fest. James Dobson from Focus on the Family was joined by folks from the American Family Association, Concerned Women for America, the Family Research Council, the Helcitage Foundation, and the Discover), Institute, which isn’t about designing good, intelligent television programs, but instead about programming youth to believe in intelligent design. The World Congress was organized by a group I hadn’t heard of - the Howard Center for Family, Religion, and Society, whose president, Allan Carlson, declared, "The cultural battle has gone international. The American religious right, instead of being isolationist, has in fact gone global." Oh, joy. But what about their destination? Why Poland? Why not Rome, to be near their buddy, the pope? Or Nigeria, where Archbishop Peter Akinola is masterminding a homophobic schism within the Anglican Church? Nope, they chose Poland because of its state-sponsored homophobia. I’m not talking about the run-of-the-mill "we ~von’t pass a probill gay bill if our lives depended on it" homophobia. This is a government that bans Pride celebrations, speaks openly about purging "homosexual propaganda’’ from the country, refuses to recognize the rights of lesbians and gays, and is now considering a bill that would make it illegal for any teacher in any classroom, public or private, to discuss homosexuality, LGBT rights, or safe-sex practices, The bill would bar LGBT organizations from schools, and lesbian or gay teachers who come out would automatically be fired. 7his is a government that does nothing to stop sldnheads and other nationalistic groups from targeting its LGBT citizens. This is a government that is tailor-made to be the only elected Western European ally ofAmerica’s radical Christian right. So what canoe out of this love-to-hate lest? Poland’s education minister, Roman Giertych, a leader in the country’s right-wing League of Polish Families party - who also happens to be a Deputy Prime Minister - became the politico celebre as he told the group that combating the "propagation of homosexuality" was just "something I have to do." His remarks were echoed by Polish President Lech Kaczynski Rallying around the homophobic flagpole, World Congress participants cheered at the news that the Polish government would not be cowed by the European Union, which has warned Poland that its antigay policies might cost the country its voting rights. They listened to U.S. Assistant Secretary of State Hlen Sauerbrey bring greetings fromW and thank the Howard Center "for all of their hard work in organizing this wonderful opportunity to celebrate and reflect upon the family and its vital role in society." No question that the current administration stands firmly alongside homophobic repression. They heard Ben Bull of the Alliance Defense Fund say, "Marriage will be destroyed by making all relationships equal," and Brigham Young law professor Lynn Wardle chime in with, "Legalizing samesex marriage will drain marriage of its social meaning." They also came together to embrace the "natural family manifesto." I think it’s kind of funny that a gathering in a former Communist country attended by those who hate Communism would support something called a "manifesto." But yes, there is a manifesto. It encourages mothers to stay home and have many children. It fervently opposes LGBT people and abortion in a single breath. "It is not enough to stop public recognition of ’gay marriage,’ nor to oppose ’safe-sex education’ in the public schools, nor to ban partialbirth abortion, nor to create ’covenant’ marriages. Victory for the natural family will come only as we change the terms of the debate." If changing the terms of debate means the wholesale exporting of hate, they’ve offto a good start. I just wish folks would stop bwing it here in the States. An endnote of worth: While all this homophobia is defining Poland to the LGBT world, Warsaw Mayor Hanna Gronkiewicz Walz defied the country’s president and ultra-right-wing organizations by letting a Pride parade take place in her city on May 19. More than 5,000 marched amid bystanders who waved and were generally supportive. www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 27 May 1920 (87 years ago this month): Erotic A~-tist Touko Laaksonen (Tom of Finland) is born in Kaarina, Finland. Who was Tom of Finland? Photo’s courtsey of: www.eroticartcollection.com 28 the STAR The erotic art ofTouko Laaksonen - better known as Tom of Finland - shaped the erotic fantasies of countless gay men and helped redefine the popular image of male homosexuality. Laaksonen was born May 8, 1920, in Kaarina, a rural village in southwest Finland. Both his parents were schoolteachers, and he developed an early appreciation for art and music. Aware of his same-sex attractions from a young age, he created homoerotic drawings - often featuring farm boys and laborers - for his own enjoyment. At age 19, Laaksonen moved to Helsinki to attend art school, but was soon drafted into the Finnish army, which allied with Nazi Germany to fight the Soviet Union in World War II. Serving as a lieutenant, he began having sex with fellow soldiers and developed a fetish for men in uniform, which he reflected in his drawings. After the war, Laaksonen completed his art degree and studied piano at the Sibelius Institute. By day, he worked as a commercial graphic artist, then played the piano at cafes and private parties in the evenings. Feeling little affinity for the flamboyant and effeminate men who frequented Helsinki’s homosexual venues, he traveled often and became familiar with the gay leather scenes in several European cities. In 1953, while cruising in a Helsinki park, Laaksonen met his sole long-term romantic partner, a dancer named Veli (whose last name is not publicly known); their relationship endured until Veil’s death from cancer nearly 30 years later. Encouraged by friends, Laaksonen submitted some of his sketches to the Los Angeles- based bodybuilding magazine _Physique Pictorial_. Publisher Bob Mizer was impressed enough to feature a drawing of a lumberjack on the cover of the spring 1957 issue, dubbing the artist "Tom of Finland." In 1973, Laaksonen had his first public exhibition in Hamburg, Germany, and was able to quit his job at an advertising agency and live offhis art. In 1978, he visited Los Angeles for his first U.S. exhibition, where met Durk Dehner, who became his friend and manager; after Veli’s death in 1981, Laaksonen split his time between Los Angeles and Helsinki. Laaksonen is credited with introducing the masculine homosexual into gay, and eventually mainstream, culture. His drawings of stereotypically macho men - bikers, cowboys, cops, sailors - were almost photographic in their detail, but grew increasingly idealistic in their portrayal of perfect male specimens with protruding nipples, exaggerated bubble butts, and enormous penises. As censorship laws loosened, his drawings also became more sexually explicit. He was among the first artists to portray manly men engaging in joyous, guilt-free sex; even his sadomasochistic scenes had a playful aspect. "I work very hard to make sure that the men I draw having sex are proud men having happy sex," he once declared. According to author Ron Suresha, "Tom of Finland’s visions of happy, masculine, loving men projected forth from the collective unconscious of gay men’s liberation and increasingly, through the second half of the 20th century, defined much of its erotic substance and style." Indeed, Laaksonen’s work helped bring the underground leather culture to light, and the "Castro clone" look - black leather jacket, cap, moustache - became a new gay stereotype. But Laaksonen’s work was not without controversy. Some critics accused him of harboring an affinity for Nazis, though he disavowed fascism and racism. In the ! 970s and 1980s, his work was caught up in gay and lesbian community debates about pornography and sadomasochism, as well as the charge that his idealized images were impossible for real men to live up to. For his part, Laaksonen maintained that his work reflected his own erotic sensibilities, not a .......... Continued nextlaage www.ozarksstar.com Tom ofFinland continued: larger politica! statement. "If I don’t have an erection when I’m doing a drawing," he said, "I know it’s no good." As his work grew more popular, Laaksonen became an international celebrity. His images spawned an industry, and in 1979 he and Dehner co-founded the Tom of Finland Company. In addition to several books of collected works, Laaksonen produced a multi-volume series of comics featuring Kake the leatherman and did private commissions (including a revisioning of Michelangelo’s David for Italian filmmaker Franco Zeffirelli). "Tom’s men" became cultural icons and inspired many imitations, including the "Tom Girls" series by punk artist G.B. Jones. Today, his work is included in the permanent collections of several museums, including the Ne~v York Museum of Modern Art and Finland’s Kiasma Contemporary Art Museum. The Tom of Finland Foundation, initially founded in 1984 to preserve Laaksonen’s work, now offers a "safe haven" for all erotic art. Laaksonen continued to frequent the leather and dance club scenes well into his 60s. Diagnosed with emphysema in 1988, he was forced to cut back on his travel, but continued to draw. In 1991, his life and work were chronicled in the documentary Daddy and the Muscle Academy. In November of the same year, he died of a stroke in Helsinki. "I know my little ’dirty drawings’ are never going to hang in the main salons of the Louvre," Laaksonen said shortly before his death. "But it ~votfld be nice if...our world learns to accept all the different ways of loving. Then maybe I could have a place in one of the smaller side rooms." For further information: Hooven, E Valentine. 1994. Tom of Finland: His Life and Times (St. Martin’s Press). Pohjola, Ilppo. 3.992. Daddy and the Muscle Academy_ (documentary film). Ramakers, Micha. 2000. Dirty Pictures: Tom of Finland, Masculinity, and Homosexuality (St. Martin’s Press). OKLAHOMA ACTIV ST, KE TH Bo SMITH HONORED By James Nimmo OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__ Stonewall Democrats (OKSD) posthomously have presented the 2007 Mary Lou Lemon Humanitarian Award to Keith B. Smith, the well-known and effective professional lobbyist and activist who died suddenly in November, 2006. A memorial service was held on December 1 in the Oklahoma Capitol Rotunda. Mr. Smith’s tireless advocacy for gay equality and other progressive issues was legendary. His ideas and techniques live on in the many grassroots activists who continue to push back the stultifying limits of the ignorant and bigoted. No Oklahoma legislator, however recalcitrant in thinking, was immune to Mr. Smith’s wit, charm, and stunning strategies at passing progressive legislation. The award is named for the late Mary Lou Lemon, matriarch of a prominent Oklahoma Democratic family, who believed fervently in an American society free from discrimination directed at minorities, especially gay and lesbian citizens. It has been presented formally at the Activist Hall of Fame Dinner on Saturday, May 19, during the Oklahoma Democratic Party State Convention. Previous award recipients have been Oklahoma County Commissioner Jim Roth, and Governor David and Rhonda Walters. OK Stonewall Democrats ( www.okstonewall. org) is a constitutional club of the Oklahoma Democratic Party and a chapter of National Stonewall Democrats, Washington, DC (www.stonewalldemocrats.org) NEW GALLUP POLL SHOWS 68 PERCENT OF AMERICANS SUPPORT HATE CRIMES BILL BEFORE CONGRESS Poll Shows Overwhelming Support Includes Majority ofRepublicans, Conservatives, and Religious Voters WASHINGTON, DC_. A new national poll conducted by Gallup shows an overwhelming support of the American people for passage of federal hate crimes legislation currently being considered in Congress. The poll, conducted on May !0-13, shmvs that 68 percent of all Americans believe that current federal hate crime laws should be expanded to include "sexual orientation, gender and gender identity." Even more impressive is that this support cuts across partisan, ideological and religious lines with a majority of each of those demographic groups supporting the legislation. "This new national poll continues to reiterate how incredibly out-of-touch rightwing organizations are with the will of the American people and underscores the need for the Senate to pass this bill," said Human Rights Campaign President Joe Solmonese. "I hope President Bush will look at this poll and realize how unbelievably out-of-line a threatened veto of this critical crime-fighting piece of legislation is with a majority of Americans. President Bush’s threatened veto isn’t even supported by his base. The writing is on the wall and it is past time for President Bush to stop bowing to the pressure ofJames Dobson, Pat Robertson and other right-wing, anti-gay leaders and join the majority of Americans who want to see this bill become law." On May 3, the morning of the House vote on the Local Law Enforcement Hate Crimes Prevention Act (H.R. 1592), the White House put out a "Statement ofAdministration Policy" stating, "IfH.R. 1592 were presented to the president, his senior advisors would recommend that he veto the bill." www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 29 By Joey De She’s known by only one name, has fabulous hair, incredible skin, the carefree spirit of the 80’s, and is mounting a tour to benefit gay rights. Cyndi Lauper, who has spent her career as the quintessential gay icon, is once again showing her fearless dedication to equality with her 15 city nation wide "True Colors" tour, presented by The Logo Network, kicking offJune 8th in Las Vegas. Cyndi and special guests Erasure, Debbie Harry, The Dresden Dolls, The Gossip and The Misshapes will be taking the stage, with emcee Margaret Cho to present five hours of non-stop music benefiting the Human Rights Campaign. Also joining the bill on select dates will be Rufus Wainwright, Rosie O’Donnell, Indigo Girls, THE CLIKS and Jeffree Star. We caught up with Miss Lauper between breaks on her busy rehearsal schedule to find out more about the tour, her views on the gay community and why she still looks so good. STAR: Oh my god, I’m talking to Cyndi Lauper, I can’t believe this. You’re a gay legend. You have been since the beginning of your career. \re’hat do you credit with making you such a gay icon? CL: It’s a natural fit. When I came onto the scene, I guess what the community related to was my overall vibe, not just my music. I was and still am very colorful and animated. I was also a bit left of center in my artistic approach and I think that really resonated. I have always been in tune with gay people, even before I became famous, so I think the relationship was just another extension of Cyndi the person to Cyndi the artist. STAR: You first made your first big mark in the 80’s, a time when musical tastes were totally different. To what do you owe your continued success? www.ozarksstar.com CL: I’ve stayed at it and I’ve strived to continue to grow as an artist. I still love to write, produce and perform and am still inspired by the world around me to create my music. I’m really fortunate to have the platform that I do and I don’t take that for granted. STAR: As a performer and gay rights advocate, ho~v would you say that the world has changed in the time since you began performing, in relation to equality? CL: I think that the visibility of the GLBT community has come further than 20 years ago, but, as we can see by the past few years under this administration, things are going backwards. It outrages me. The further ahead the community has gotten, the more resistance and push back to progress it encounters. We have to keep pushing forward. STAR: Would you care to share a story about a favorite gay companion who inspired you to take on the fight for equality? CL: I wrote the song Boy Blue for my friend Gregory. He passed away from AIDS and his life and death affected and inspired me deeply. He still does. STAR: What was your inspiration behind the "True Colors" tour? CL: I’ve been trying to do the tour for the past five years. It came from my outrage about what is going on in this country and specifically what is going on with the erosion of GLBT civil liberties and rights. It has affected my family, my close friends and my fans. Your civil liberties are my civil liberties. If yours are being taken away or going backwards, so are mine. I’ve been a part of the women’s movement and the civil rights movement for the African American Community. I feel like what is happening in this country with the GLBT community is outrageous, and this tour is a reaction to that, STAR: Why did you select the Human Rights campaign as your benefactor? CL: Their have been some rumblings from the right about it, but that’s the whole point isn’t it? I have the right to do this tour and get the issues out there to be debated and discussed via music. They have the right to criticize, disagree and debate the issues. The more discussion the better as far as I’m concerned. STAR: You have an incredibly impressive line up of guest performers, how did you select them? CL: I’m glad you like the line up. I’ve worked with some of the artists before and I’m excited to be working with some of them for the first time. It’s really great to be sharing the stage with such talented artists. STAR: Will we get to see that fabulous rainbow statue of liberty dress? CL: I actually had that dress custom made for the Gay Games. I’ve got a few tricks up my sleeve in regards to outfits for the tour...a girl’s gotta have some secrets (haha). You’ll have to come on down to the show for my runway action. STAR: Your gay audience transcends generations and even includes the current generation of youth. What, as an ally, do you think is the biggest challenge facing them and what do you think is their greatest strength? CL: I think the gay youth of today hold great promise. You can look at the way they connect and interact on myspace and other community sites and they know that they are not alone. I also look at PFLAG, GLSEN and the many local youth organizations out there that provide support and outreach. They are vital. Ifa kid can come out and be accepted by his family then he should cherish that, not every kid gets the love and support they need at home. That’s why PFLAG is involved in this tour, if coverage of it can open a difficult discussion then I’m doing my job. This tour is as much for gay engaged family members and friends as it is for GLBT people. for parents of gay youth increases. It starts at home. It’s (the tour) all about opening up the discussions on the home front, the political front and the music and entertainment front, but let’s not lose sight of the fact that this is a great musica! celebration. It’s going to be a kick ass party... STAR: In addition to this tour, you have a new album coming out. Would you care to share a little bit about it? CL: It’s definitely NOT a mellow album. It’s an ass shaker. STAR: Can tour-goers expect to hear their favorite hits, or will there be a lot from the new album? CL: I’m still mulling over what the set list is...so we’ll see...I may sneak in a few new songs. STAR: Most importantly for gay men and drag queens everywhere: You look fabulous, and haven’t aged a bit! Please, tell us your secret. CL: Yoga and keeping up with my son’s energy level. STAR: What can we look for from Cyndi Lauper in the future? CL: I’m wide open. I’m in a great creative space and looking forward to touring and finishing the new CD. Once that’s done, I’m sure I’ll be on the hunt for my next creative endeavor. Right now, it’s all about the True Colors tour. STAR: Miss Lauper, thank you for your time. We wish you the greatest of success with the tour and the album. The True Colors Tour will be visiting Dallas on June 23 and Houston on June 24. For more information or for a complete list of tour dates visit www.truecolorstour.com. CL: I have ahvays admired and respected the work that the HRC has done. They are working on a federal level and a local level for issues that are important to me. STAR: Have you received any back lash or criticism about the tour? www.ozarksstar.com I do want to say that I hope some of the apathy around HIV with the younger generation changes. We’ve made great medical advances and people are living with HW and MDS, but people are still dying. I hope that the kids wil! be responsible if they are having sex and I hope that the education the STAR 33 "Easy does it, Sagittarius!" Mercury is in Cancer, which normally facilitates sweet expressions of genuine affection and swapping old family recipes. But as Mercury clashes with Saturn in Leo, that "affection" may now seem overbearing and critical. Try to be modest and sincere, and offer healthy, low-fat recipes - or chocolate. ARIES (March 20 - April 19): Efforts to show off your home in a good light can be a major source of irritation. Can you just relax, and let your place be comfortable and fun? Your real friends don’t care how it looks, as long as it’s happily lived in. TAURUS (April 20 - May 20): Do you really need to call your family now? Let it wait until next week. It’s bad enough hearing one of your parents in your own voice. Play that up for satirical effect and you’ll learn something useful, if not entirely pleasant. GEMINI (May 21 - Jun~ 20): Getting caught up on bills may be a hassle, but do what you can now to avoid trouble later. Advice from an older sibling - or a "sister" - can be irritating, but well worth heeding. At least think about it! SAG~TTAR~US (November 22 o December 20): Your eagerness to tweak and provoke is dangerously high, tempting you to much more trouble than you’re ready to risk. New games in the bedroom may require innovative safety awareness. Slow and easy does it, Tiger! CAPRICORN (December 21 - January 19): If demands (or lack thereof) in the boudoir are dampening your relationship, discussing the issues now could make or break it. How much courage, patience, and love do you have? Be very clear on your issues before taking on your partner’s. AQUARIUS (January 20 o February 18): Your clever innovations at work could irritate your colleagues. At least include them in some discussion before you make any changes. Mollify dissent by keeping your mind and ears open for further improvements. P~SCES (February 19 - March 19): Try to focus those playful urges into some modest, constructive activity. Showing off is too likely to get you into an awful accident. The more annoying you find criticism, the likelier you should heed it! CANCER (June 21 - July 22): Trying to sound authoritative just makes you sound bitchy. Let your words follow the law of supply and demand. The less you say, the more valuable it is. Writing is safer than speaking, but scrutinize e-mails carefully before you send them! LEO (July 23 - August 22): Being cranky and bossy is largely a cover for doubts and worries. To be more truly your sweet, lovable self, take time out to meditate or talk with a confidante about what’s bugging you. An imaginary conversation with Mom will help. VIRGO (August 23 - September 22): The future may seem dark and hopeless, and the next few years are challenging, but still you worry too much. You can make the most of it; use your instincts to figure out a way through the dark labyrinth ahead. LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): Your foresight is especially sharp, but without caution, so is your tongue. Nagging undermines the effectiveness of your prescience. Imagine that everyone is your boss and be careful of what you say. That will heighten your own authority. SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): Any discussion can turn into an argument much too easily. 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TULSA, OK___On Valentine’s Day, February 14th three same sex couples and approximately 20 supporters marched peacefully through the Tulsa County Courthouse to the second floor licens!~g counter. Each couple in turn asked for a marriage license application. Court Clerk Sally Howe Smith politely presented the application. Once the form was completed the clerk then asked for identification and after a quick review said: "I notice by your I.D. that you are of the same gender. The State of Oklahoma does not allow same gender marriages, therefore.I must decline your application." Photo: Three same gender couples cut the wedding cake that was adorned with two brides toget,§er and two grooms at a reception in the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center: NEW JERSEY GAY COUPLE8 G NTED UR ON UCENSE. (AP) Hundreds of gay couples were granted the same legal rights, if not the title, as married couples Monday as New Jersey became the third state to offer civil unions. More than a dozen other couples applied for licenses for ceremonies later in the week. The civil unions, which 6ffer the legal benefits but not the title of marriage, were granted automatically to hundreds of gay New Jersdy couples who had previously been joined in civil unions or married in other states or nations. Photo: ~vo women ask for a marriage license application at the 7ffdsa Count. court house. The three couples, referred to as "The Love Warriors", walked quietly away from the counter after each where refused a license. The group then boarded a shuttle bus which took them back to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center where a wedding reception had been prepared. Two brides and two grooms gdorned the wedding cake. Oklahomans for Equality, lead by their tPresident Laura Belmonte, sponsored the demonstration and was held on Valentine’s day in celebration of the 10th anniversary of"Freedom to Marry Week". The goal of the demonstration was to bring awareness to the 1049 benefits allowed opposite sex couples who are legally married in the State of Oklahoma and a call for marriage equality for Oklahoma same gender couples. "It is an equal rights issue", said Belmonte. Oklahomans for Equality is a non-profit organization committed to securing equality for Oklahoma GLBT citizens as well as all Oklahomans. They are now located in their new permanent home inside the Equality Center 621 E. 4th Street in downtown Tulsa, celebrated it’s grand opening February 14-18. In honor of the organizations founder Dennis R. Neill the building was named the "Dennis R. Neil Equality Center". v~vw.ozarksstar.com the STAR 3 �A national report titled Lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender youth: An epidemic of homelessness. "Epidemic" is a strong word to use, but in this case it’s justified. GLBT Homeless Youth - page 5 Lily Tomlin to appear at the Tulsa Performing Arts Center March 18th. African-American comedian Jackie "Moms" Mabley - dubbed "the funniest woman in the world" Gay Travelers "Tucson Arizona’’ Otit of Town "Budget Getaxvays " This month Uncle Mikey recovers from a love affair of epic proportions. I mean whew, that man was just too much. It was like being at the DQ and trying to take that extra dip GLBT Homeless ............ 5 Lily Tomlin ................ 10 OUT in Arkansas ........... 12 Stage .................... 11 Past Out .................. 14 Leslie Jordan ............. 15 The Wine Rack ............. 16 Ciao Travel ................ 17 Lesbian Notions ............ 22 Star Scene ................ 24 Uncle Mikey............... 26 After Dark ................ 27 Horoscopes ............... 28 Distributors ............... 29 Cartoons .................. 30 Classifieds ................ 31 STAR DISTRIBUTION: The STAR Interview with Lily Tomlin - page 10 Gay Leslie Jordan to Host 10th Annual Red Ribbon Gala on March 10. -page 15 OKLAHOMA CITY * TULSA * LA~Xq-ON * MCALESTER * ENID * LITTLE ROCK * NORTH LITTLE RODK * FAYETTEVILLE * FT SMITH * EUREKA SPRINGS * HOT SPRINGS * BENTONVtLLE * ROGERS * KANSAS CITY * SPRINGFIELD * JOPLIN * BRANSON AREA * WICHITA* PITTSBURG * JUNCTION CITY 4 the STAR ~,vw.ozarksstar.com �LGBT Youth Homelessness: A National Disgrace By Jason Cianciotto piece of federal legislation that directs funding and programming guidelines to homeless youth service providers nationwide, the Congressional Research Service released its own report on youth homelessness in the US. Their report did not include a single mention of LGBT youth. If Congress’s own research arm is unwilling or unable to acknowledge this epidemic, how can we expect our elected officials to address it? I think part of the answer lies in supporting and replicating the successful efforts of service providers and activists at the grassroots level. For example, there’s the street outreach program and drop-in center developed by the Ruth Ellis Center, which predominandy serves LGBT youth of color in Detroit, Mich., and the transitional living program run by Green Chimneys in New York City, which provides safe and supportive housing for LGBT homeless youth for 18 months while preparing them for in&pendent living. Urban Peak in Denver, Colorado has developed specific guidelines for creating a safe space for transgender homeless youth in shelters, given their unique needs and experiences. Photo:Jason Cianciotto The National Gay and Lesbian Task Force Policy Institute, in collaboration with the National Coalition for the Homeless, released a national report today titled Lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender youth: An epidemic of homelessness. "Epidemic" is a strong word to use, but in this case it’s justified. Because most homeless youth service providers are not LGBT-specific, our report also highlights the success While approximately, 3 to 5 percent of the total U.S. population identifies as gay or lesbian, our review of the available academic and professional literature found that an estimated 20 to 40 percent of the up to 1.6 million youth who run away or are homeless each year identify as LGBT. In other words, LGBT youth are grossly overrepresented in the homeless youth population. The report goes into great detail about why LGBT youth are becoming homeless, their experiences on the streets, and the pervasive harassment and discrimination they experience at many homeless service providers. Just as important are the model service practices and policy recommendations also included in the report, which if implemented nationwide would help to curb this epidemic and truly make a difference in the lives of our most vulnerable youth. Several weeks ago, I received what is perhaps the greatest example of the hard work ahead of us as we use this report to educate politicians, policymakers and service providers. In anticipation of the 2008 renewal of the Runaway, Homeless and Missing Children Protection Act (RHMCPA), the primary www.ozarksstar.com of Ozone House, in Ann Arbor, Mich., an organization that serves all homeless youth but has specifically striven to create an LGBT-safe space. Waltham House in Massachusetts has even developed a program that has provided LGBT cultural competency training to over 2,000 employees at the state Department of Social Services. While the programs highlighted in our report may be the exception today, they are replicable anywhere in the country. Indeed, one of our critical aims and hopes is that service providers and social service agencies will see this report as a wake-up call to the crisis of homelessness among LGBT youth. Some may already work with this population and learn from one of our contributors about how to enrich an existing program. Others might know they need to reach out to LGBT youth but need additional guidance on how to do so. Continued page-23 the STAR 5 �Oklahoma Activist Named to Board of National Stonewall Democrats Oklahoma Chapter MaiFltains Strong Presence on National Board By James Nimmo OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__ Oklahoma Stonewall Democrats (~x~9.0kstonewall.org) announced today that activist and poht~cal consultant Linda Gray Murphy of Oklahoma City has been named to the Board of Directors for National Stonewall Democrats (NSD) (,wvw:stonewalldemocrats.org). She will begin a two-year term in March as a delegate from Region 6, representing Iowa, Missouri, A~kansas, Kansas, Texas, and Oklahoma. Her election continues the strong presence that Oklahoma Stonewall Democrats (OSD) has had on the national board for the last three years, beginning with the late activist and lobbyist Keith Smith. Ms. Murphy and Mr. Smith, both Yellow Dog Democrats, were close allies in advocating for the betterment of Oklahoma’s citizens through work in many progressive issues such as equality for gay people, women’s health dare, and the environment. Ms. Murphy is well kmown throughout Oklahoma and Texas for her work with political campaigns and progressive causes, with her latest victory being the election of A1 McAffrey to the Oklahoma House of Representatives. She serves as executive director and spokesperson for WorkAng Families Project (wvwv.workingfamiliesproject. corn), a statewide organization to increase the minimum wage and improve the lives of all Oklahomans. Membership growth in Stonewall Democrats, the only ga~ lesbian, bisexual and transgender organization recognized by the National Democratic Party, has prompted recent expansion of Region 6 representation on the NSD board from three to five delegates. Ms. Murphy will join Olga Hernandez of San Antonio as female delegates. Four candidates will vie for the three remaining positions. They include incumbent national board members Jesse Garcia and Buck Massey, both of Texas, and two Oklahoma City men, Steve VanHook and Colin Raley. VanHook has served OSD as interim co-chair since early December. The lowest vote-getter in February’s regional elections is expected to be named an alternate delegate, attending when a regular delegate cannot. Oklahoma Stonewall Democrats, with nearly 200 current members, is constitutionally recognized as an active dub of the Oklahoma Democratic Party (www.okdemocrats.org) with a voting seat on the state party’s governing Central Committee. The Stonewall organization is dedicated to achieving ful! equality for America’s lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender citizens, and its members work in campaigns and raise money for both openly gay and gay-friendly Democratic candidates at all levels of government. 6 the STAR w~rw.ozarksstar.com �www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 7 �PRELIM TO MiSS GAY OKLAHOMA AMERICA April 4, 2007 10:00 PM @The Copa, OKC OK CONTESTANT INQUIRES CALL MARK OR JAMES (NIKKI STARR) (580) 216-2715 must be 21 yrs old to enter 8 the STAR colt5294@yahoo.com www.ozarksstar.com �pancakes ~nd, just trying to g~t book, music ~. lyrics by Jerry Rabushka (of Somebody ~Ise~s Life) WOOFI wags Oklahoma~t TULSA: March 2~3, 8:00pro Nightingale Theater, 1416 E. 4th St, Reservations: 918-633-8666 OK. CtTY: March 23~24, 8:00 P~ IAO Galle~: 81! N. Broadway Re~ations: 314-280-1035 Dir~ions: 40~232~060 ~e~: $10; ~5.~ s~dent~senio~ www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 9 �Evenin Coming Interview by: Victor Gorin An Evening of Classic Lily Tomlin is a nostalgic and warm presentation of Lily’s "greatest hits," with more than a dozen of her famous characters, including the precocious six-year-old Edith Ann; the irascible telephone operator, Ernestine; the aging beauty adviser, Madame Lupe; Lucille, the rubber addict; prim Judith Beasley from Calumet City, Indiana; and Lily’s most profound character, Trudy, the street lady who starred in The Search for Signs of Intelligent Life in the Universe. THE INTERVIEW: VICTOR: Well hello Lily, and welcome to Oklahoma. When did you last perform here? LILY: Many years ago, it must have been in the 70s. VICTOR: Your entertainment career has spanned over 4 decades, and a lot of changes have happened in show business. What major changes have you noticed and what has stayed the same? LILY: Well, it’s all in how you approach it, what your own sensibility is, whatever you think is funny and how you deal with it, matter of nuance and style. Certainly a lot of barriers have been knocked dmvn. I can remember when the word "ass" said on network TV was unheard of. VICTOR: Well it was a different world when you began viewing corned}; when you favorites included Lucille Ball & Jean Carroll, the first female standup comic on the Ed Sullivan Shiny. When you started college to study medicine, was that just to be practical when you really wanted to be in entertainment? LILY: (laughs) I was just a blue collar kid who grew up in inner city Detroit. I mean you were supposed to be serious about getting a job, a career. Being a doctor seemed like a very noble thing to aspire to, and there was quite a reverence for doctors in those days. In my neighborhood though, 10 the STAR we were grateful if boys didn’t wind up in the slammer or girls didn’t get pregnant. VICTOR: Well, you managed to avoid both. Among your many personas, my true favorite was the telephone operator Ernestine, who won you a Grammy Award for a comedy album. She became part of our culture, and as a former long distance operator myself, you can see why she’s dear to me. LILY: While I had never been an actual telephone operator, I did march in a picket line with the operators in 1971 during a strike in San Francisco. The Communications \gorkers of,4anerica awarded me a "Cracked Bell Award" for standing with them. I owe everything to Ernestine, and she knows it! She’s like a real person to me, and like people such as Bette Davis, she’s one everybody tries to imitate. VICTOR: Back in Ernestine’s day, did you ever think there would be shows like "Will and Grace"? LILY: No probably not. It’s kind of evolutionary. Hlen having the success she has had is remarkable, and a whole generation has grown up with that support and knowledge. I can relate, I was in the middle. I knew of performers in the 40s and 50s who were suppressed, repressed & oppressed. VICTOR: I loved your role in the movie "9 to 5" which, although a comedy, really depicted the issues of working people. Can you see workers and the gay communit-y coming together for positive change, particularly in the political area? LILY: Any groups working for change are usually coming from an outsider status, so they can align themselves with others who are disenfranchised so that opens doors for everybody. I might also add that I’d like a new president! ........................... Continued lvage 13 www.ozarksstar.com �Coming to Tulsa and Oklahoma City. By Staff Reporter ST LOUIS, MO__Ragged Blade presents "Woof, The Road Show," a two man minimusical with Zach Jett & Jerry Rabushka. Book, lyrics & music by Jerry Rabushka A script that keeps changing, and love that keeps threatening to cross from on stage to back stage, and lots of silly jokes. Woofl is a mini-musical about dogs, pancakes, and just trying to get some. Don’t you just hate it when you’re trying to make out and there’s a dog panting at your feet? Woofl Adam and Jon are touring a show. A gay romance, come to think, that Adam wrote without realizing he’d have to deal ~vith an acting partner who keeps trying to make it happen in real life. If that’s not bad enough.., a group of frustrated writers (not to mention the Wednesday Mah Jongg club) keep xvorkshopping the play and our poor actors never know what’s in the script from one show to the next. Oh, and then there’s... Woody. You know, that "hot" stage hand who took up a career in theater so he could sleep with touring actors. He’s had his way with Jon and Adam... so they like each other to think. Poor Woody, he meets his demise more often than Kenny in South Park. What happens when he goes to an Annie cast party? It’s too scary to mention. Can they ever transfer the on stage love to back stage.., even if there’s a clause in the contract that forbids it? It’s an unusual play with dry humor, a bit of a vaudeville style, and some great fun. JERRY RABUSHKA is a St. Louis based writer, composer, actor, and director and a co-founder of Ragged Blade productions, a company that produces original theatre and also produces touring artists. Rabushka has won awards for several plays including The Checkpoint, Kiss of Death, and Empty Closets; he received the Director’s Award For Outstanding Service (to the GLBT www.ozarksstar.corn theater community) at the 2006 National Gay and Lesbian Theater Festival (Columbus, OH). He’s had about 80 scripts of various lengths published by Brooklyn Publishers, Odessa, TX. His solo piano CD "Piano 362" was nominated for "Outstanding Instrumental Recording" by NYC based Outmusic in 2003. ZACH JETT is a St. Louis area actor & singer who has performed in a number of musicals and is currently in his third show with Ragged Blade. "Jett’s experience shows through his command of the stage, his vocal ability, and how well he looks in a dog collar," says critic Tamitra Williford, KDHX Radio, St. Louis. RAGGED BLADE has been to Tulsa and OKC with Rabushka’s one-man show "Somebody Else’s Life." The Nightingale Theatre also produced his play Love of Last Resort in 2006. His play "Gay Christian, Gay Muslim, Gay Jew," commissioned by award winning performer, recording artist & Comedy Central personality Jade Esteban Estrada, premiered at the IAO Gallery February 16 & 17, 2007. Woofl The Road Show will be in Tulsa March 2-3, 8 PM Nightingale Theater 1416 E. 4th St. (at Peoria) TULSA, OK, 74120 Info/Reservations for TULSA: 918-6338666 March 23-24, 8 PM, IAO Gallery 811 N. Broadway, OKLAHOMA CITY, OK, 73102 Info/Reservations for OKC: 314-280-1035. Directions 405-232-6060 Admission for both: $10; $5 students/seniors. For more information please visit www. raggedblade.com the STAR 11 �/ a 41; GAYLIEN \VEEY ND" SPRING DIVERSITY \VEEKEND April 13-15, 2007 EUR£KA SPRINGS, AR~Spring Diversity is falling on the same weekend as the annual UFO Conference in Eureka Springs, Arkansas. Many visitors asked for Diversity Weekend to be delayed one week, so they could be home with their families for Easter. On Saturday night, everyone is encouraged to dress in Gaylien themed costumes and artists ~vill be available to create one of a kind Face Art just for you. Eureka will be filled with festive Gayliens and you may just win a prize! Deborah Rose with Diversity Pride Events Productions, proudly announces the return of the popular "GAYCO gang", a hysterical comedy troupe born from members of Chicago’s famous "SECOND CITY". Last Spring’s production was a big hit. ~lere will be 2 performances, a 2pm Matinee and 7:30pm evening show. (Ticket info available online) And YOU could be on stage with GAYCO! By taking a special workshop on Friday 14pm with GAYCO coaches, class members will have the option to perform Saturday in an improv/sketch on stage with GAYCO! Experienced or non-experienced, the class will be loads of fun and your friends will be amazed to see you on stage at the showi Must RSVP and pre-pay online. 12 the STAR There will be DPE’s "DIVERSITY BIKERS" contests and Poker Run. Our golden oldies dance, newly named "RETRO DANCE & CABARET" at Caribe’s Restaurante y Cantina, featuring the fabulous Mary King from Oklahoma, DJing and singing, plus invited guest singers. It’s not just a dance, it’s a social! (Emaii us your requests for your favorite dance hits now, so Mary will have time to get them) Don’t forget to drop in to the "PRINCESS WELCOME MIXER" at Caribe’s always on Friday night 7 to 9pro to mix and mingle with Gayco cast members, locals and visitors. Be sure to pick up a copy of the DIVERSITY GUIDE and get the scoop on Eureka and weekend happenings. Of course there will be many more events sponsored by others, great shopping, dining and that great sense of freedom and friendliness that blows through Eureka! More details will be posted as soon as confirmed. Be sure to keep checking Diversitypride. corn for updates. CONTACT DIVERSITY PRIDE EVENTS Deborah Rose 479-253-2555 Email: deborah@diversitypride.corn Web: http://xvwxv.diversitypride.com Community for People living D8 A 501 c (3) Non Profit Organization Our House, Too offers a variety of activities for people who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS to help combat the social isolation that many of our people live through each and everyday. We provide a Toiletry and Household Pantry for those who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS who cannot afford to purchase these items for themselves. We invite anyone who would like to volunteer or provide financial assistance to please contact us by phone 918-585-9552 or e-mail harrismmjr@yahoo.com, www.ozarksstar.com �LILY TOMLIN INTERVIEW: By Strengthening Your Business VICTOR: I’m with you there. But focusing on you, since you’ve been involved with almost every form of media there is, what are your goals now and where is your career going? LILY: I like to keep my hand in by performing live, and I do and 40 or 50 concerts a year. I have a part in a new HBO series, "Twelve Miles of Bad Roads," a comedy drama series where I play a matriarch of a very rich Dallas real estate family. Mary Kay Place plays my sister, Leslie Jordan is my cousin Kenny, and I deal with 3 out of control loaded ldds. TULSA, OK__Diversity Business Association of Tulsa, a program of Oklahomans for Equality, is off and running! Join us at our monthly meeting, held the first Thursday of each month at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th Street in downtown Tulsa. DBAT provides a forum to the gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender business and professional community and its allies for the purpose of networking, professional development, creating increased visibility and strengthening relationships among business and professional community members. VICTOR: Sounds like a load of fun! LILY: We hope it will be, and it will go on the air next year. I also ¯ have a part in an upcoming movie, ’The Walker,’ so I’m always looking for new opportunities. VICTOR: Well ~ve certainly wish you luck, and we welcome the opportunity to see your performance in Tulsa. Tomlin has remained at the top of her game for almost 40 years, winning six Emmys, two Tonys, a Grammy and two Peabody Awards. She was a favorite of the late great director Robert Altman, appearing in several of his movies, including her Academy Awardnominated role in Nashville and with Meryl Streep as a countrywestern sister act in Altman’s final film A Prairie Home Companion. She was equally unforgettable in 9 to 5 with Jane Fonda and Dolly Parton, in Big Business with Bette Midler, and as an eccentric rich woman whose soul invades Steve Martin’s body in All of Me. In 2003, she received the prestigious Mark Twain Prize for American Humor. It will be a night of cerebral comedy vcoven among Lily’s affectionate reminiscences about her childhood in the Midwest. March 18th at 7 p.m. Tulsa Performing Arts Center Chapman Music Hall. Tickets can be purchased online at www.MyTicketoffice.com or by phone at 918 596 7111. Networking is key to business and a cornerstone of the DBAT mission. The DBAT business network fosters a sharing of information, ideas, and contacts and so strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Additionally, the Professional Development Programs offered by DBAT at our monthly meeting enables members to access information and resources that are important to the growth, promotion, and visibility of their businesses. DBAT’s 2007 agenda includes a number of events, most exciting of which is the Diversity Business Expo and the distribution of the new Pride Business Directory planned for June. A presence on the web is also in the works as well as community workshops and socials. Get Involved! Get Connected! Join DBAT today and learn, participate and lead in the most dynamic business climate in the LGBT community. For more information on membership, including the many benefits, contact Susan Hartman at slhartman@cox.net or 918-274-1699. TWO F RST’$ FOR TULSA’S; LEATHER BAR By Michael Leach TULSA, OK The Tulsa Eagle recently had its First Fundraiser and performance by a female impersonator all in the same night. On, Saturday, Jan. 20th the current Mr. Tulsa Eagle 2006, Mr. Jay Whiteside had a fundraiser and celebrated his birthday by presenting a Benefit for the HOPE Testing Clinic. Hosted by Miss Kimbefly Foxx and Mr. Jay Whiteside, there was live entertainment and many comedy numbers by Mr. Jay and Clogger Bill. The Benefit included a silent auction, with many items donated by Coral West, Priscillas, Tulsa Rough Riders and the support of T.U.L.S.A. and the Driller Bears. A grand total of $615.00,was raised for the HOPE Testing Clinic, and Mr. Tulsa Eagle presented the money to HOPE Testing Clinic the following Wednesday. Many thanks for all the support and help by all the organizations that made this Fundraiser a success, and also gave Jay a wonderful 54th birthday celebration. wvo,v.ozarksstar.com the STAR 13 �was ]ackAe "Morns" Mabley? African-American comedian Jackie "Moms" Mabley - dubbed "the funniest woman in the world" - was known for her ribald humor about young men, but her personal relationships were often with women. The great-granddaughter of a slave and one of 12 children, Mabley was born Loretta Mary Aiken in March 1894 (some historians say 1897) in Brevard, N.C. When she was 11, her father, a businessman and volunteer firefighter, was killed when his fire truck exploded. Not long thereafter, her mother died after she was hit by a mail truck one Christmas morning. By the time she turned 13, Mabley had been raped twice - first by an older black man and later by a white sheriff- which resulted in two pregnancies; the babies were put up for adoption. In her early teens, at the urgleft home and moved to a m~msters family. Before show, beginning as a sing.er to comedy. While traveling performing for black audiwith fellow entertainer Jack daughter. To allay the embarabout her stage career, she own. "He took a lot off me, his name," she said in a 1974 nickname "Moms" for the younger performers. ing of her grandmother, Mabley Cleveland, where she lived with long, she joined a minstrel and dancer but soon turning the vaudeville "chitlin circuit" ences, she began a relationship Mabley, and the couple had a rassment of one of her brothers adopted Mabley’s name as her so the least I could do was take interview. She later earned the maternal role she took with a solo stand-up comedian, and African-American woman to do vaudeville couple, Butterbeans and Susie, saw Mabley’s show in Texas and invited her to join them. She was soon performing at legendary Harlem venues, including the Cotton Club and the Savoy Ballroom, sharing the bill with jazz greats such as Count Basle and Duke Ellington. Mabley began performing as is widely regarded as the first so. In 1921, a well-known During the Harlem Renaissance, Mabley was part of a circle of black vaudeville performers and jazz and blues musicians known or believed to have been gay, lesbian, or bisexual, including Countee Cullen, Langston Hughes, Mabel Hampton, Bessie Smith, and Ma Rainey. Although she had relationships with women - and sometimes let slip innuendos about affairs with both women and men - Mabley was not publicly open about her sexuality. As the Depression put a halt to the Roaring ’20s, Mabley became one of the most sought-after black performers. In 1931, she co-wrote a Broadway play, _Fast and Furious: A Colored Revue in 37 Scenes_, with author Zora Neale Hurston. Starting in the late 1930s, Mabley began performing at the Apollo "l~eater; over two decades, she became the club’s most frequently featured act, and at the height of her career she was earning $10,000 per week. the black circuit - Mabley broke through the color barrier and gained considerable mainstream success, likely because white audiences found her frumpy character nonthreatening despite her biting wit and edgy themes. By this time an actual toothless old woman, Mabley performed at large venues such as the Chicago Playboy Club and Carnegie Hall, recorded some two dozen comedy albums (becoming Billboard’s highest-ranking female comedian), and made numerous appearances on television variety shows hosted by the likes ofMerv Grit~n, Bill Cosby, and the Smothers Brothers. Mabley continued working until the end of her life, starring in the film _Amazing Grace_ (1974) - in which she plays a fed-up elderly woman who becomes a community organizer and takes on Baltimore’s political establishment - the year before her death in ~/hite Plains, N.Y., on May 23, 1975. Though surprisingly unknown to contemporary audiences, Mabtey had a profound influence and served as a rote model for countless comedians, especially African Americans and women. In the words of author Mel Watkins, Mabley’s work "foreshadowed the shift to direct social commentary" that became a mainstay of comedy by the late 1950s, and "anticipated the assertive sexual humor unveiled by female stand-up comics in the eighties." For further reading: Gomez, Jewelle. 1993. Forty-Three Septembers (Firebrand). Watkins, Mel. 1999. On the Real Side: A History of African-American Comedy from Slavery to Chris Rock (Lawrence Hill Books). Williams, Elsie. 1991. "Morns Mabley and the Afro-~nerican Comic Performance." In \Vomen’s Comic Visions, ed. June Sochen (Wayne State University Press). Well before she became an old woraan herself, Mabley developed her signature character, a ribald granny dressed in a housedress, slippers, and a floppy hat (inspired, she said, by her own grandmother). Delivered in a characteristic raspy voice, her brand of humor tended toward social satire, often addressing the hardships of poverty and racism. While she may have preferred women in her personal life, Mabley became known for her jokes about pursuing young men, coupled with her disdain for old ones and their attempts to wield control over women. "There ain’t nothing an old man can do for me except bring me a message from a young one," she famously quipped In her 60s - unlike most performers on 14 the STAR ~.,.ozarksstar.com �Leslie Jordan to Host l Oth Annua Red Ribbon Gala on March "~xe best part about the Red Ribbon Gala is that is supports the ongoing efforts of Tulsa C.A.R.E.S.," Pat Chernicky, event co-chair said. "For 15 years, Tulsa CARES has been providing support services to the individuals no one has wanted to serve. Without the proceeds from the Red Ribbon Gala our ability to provide these crucial services would cease." A United Way agency, Tulsa C.A.R.E.S. provides a variety of services including professional case management and mental health counseling, food pantry and nutrition services, financial help with rent and utilities, plus information and resources to help family members. "The Red Ribbon Gala is not only a fabulous evening of food, fun and friends, but the money raised from the event provides the organization with the financial resources to serve over 500 individuals a year," Robert Coffey, co-chair and board president said. "This event is one of Tulsa’s most elegant, yet worthwhile affairs. HIV does not affect a special group of people; it doesn’t discriminate, it affects all of us." For ticket information and sponsorship opportunities, contact Bruce Lewis at (918) 834-4194 or brucel@tulsacares.org TULSA, OK__With the date set, the menu selected and the talent chosen, the 10th Annual Red Ribbon Gala is set to be a remarkable evening for all who attend. The Master of Ceremonies is none other than Emmy Award winner Leslie Jordan, who is best known for his roles on Will & Grace, Boston Legal and Reba. Jordan is currently filming the HBO pilot "12 Miles of Bad Road "with Lily Tomlin and Mary Kay Place and staring in the new CW show "Hidden Palms." ~l-he local band, Hero Factor, will provide the musical entertainment for the fun-filled evening and this year’s honorary chair is Suzanne Warren. The Red Ribbon Gala will be held in the recently completed Grand Ballroom at Southern Hills Country Club, 2636 E. 61st Street, on Saturday, March 10 at 6:30 p.m. The event is the largest fundraiser for Tulsa C.A.R.E.S. (Center for AIDS Resources, Education and Support), an organization that provides social services for low-income men, women and children living with HIV/AIDS throughout northeastern Oklahoma. This year’s Red Ribbon Gala will be a delight to the senses as a fabulous red martini bar will accompany the beautiful floral arrangements created by board member Toni Garner. The fun-filled evening will include a live and silent auction offering amazing vacation packages, private dinner parties, stellar antiques, flowers for a year, one-of-a-kind paintings from Patrick Gordon and Matt Moffett and original cuff links created by board member Susan Sadler. www.ozarksstar.com 1.-800o535oNDS (2437) Oklahoma’s H~V/STD HerOine ~Preocupado con V.I.H~ en su comunidad? maestro salud quien pueda trabajar el tiempo eompleto/un examinador dei V.LH. quie~ es bilingtie con espafiol v ingles Ventajas fantastieas! Causas fantasticas! Pot favor llama 918.749.8378 Conoee su eslado...Haee un dii~reneia the STAR 15 �nder We are always looking for a bargain and it’s hard to know sometimes which ,,vines are the best buys. Well we hope to shed some light on this for those of you who want to bring a good wine to a dinner party or to share with friends. We all want quality taste with out breaking the bank. There IS a difference between cheap and inexpensive. None of us are born with an infinite knowledge of wine and we all have to start somewhere. I think of myself as one of the kings when it comes to finding quality/low budget wines. I enjoy visiting the ,,vine shops here in Tulsa and I have found some really cool bottles ofvino. Check these out! ~he reds Terrazas (Argentina) Malbec, Cabernet The wines from this vineyard always seem to be well balanced and fruit fo~vard. A Mano ( Italy ) Primitivo Thought to have been of the Zinfandel lineage and every vintage consistently rates very highly. Black Opal ( Australia ) Cab/Merlot This label has come down in price recently and all the verietals they produce are not only a good bargain but the taste is right in the pocket. for those who like ABC white wines (anything but Chardonnay). Pepperwood Grove Viognier This is one of my favorites. The next step up for this grape by other vineyards is about 2 or 3 times the price and that doesn’t mean that they will taste any better. Pepperwood Grove Riesling This is a new-comer to the P G stable. This label just recently started distributing this varietal. Again, a true value. ’ ¯ Schlink Haus ( Germany ) Riesting: Kabinet A fruit forward wine/not too sweet. Pilar Box White This wine is a mixture of 3 grape varietals Chardonnay, Sauvignon Blanc and Verdelho. Give this one a try, you’ll be pleasantly surprised at the flavor. Marquis de la Tour/Sparkling wine France A truly great find/good balance of fruit forwardness & bubbles. As I always suggest, go and visit your local wine shop. See your retail specialist and ask questions. If you’re so inclined, share some bottles with friends over dinner! Bon Appetit! Cline Cellars Red Truck This vineyard is better ka~own for bigger budget wines and this one is a good sipping wine to share at social gatherings and the like. Bitch Grenache ( Australia ) This is a newbie in this market from the land down under. The Aussies seem to do quite well with this grape. This one is highly rated. Good sipping wine/not just with food. Pepperwood Grove Old Vine Zinfandel This, like nearly all of the wines under this label, gives you real big bang for the buck because these verticals so closely resemble the flavor and body of more expensive wines without tasting as low in quality as they’re priced. The old vine Zin is quite exceptional and will hold up strongly next to other Zin’s 2 or 3 times the money. Marchesi Di Barolo Barbera D’alba This is a new discovery for me. It comes highly recommended by a well know local retail wine buyer. I visited this wine-growing region in Italy. The wines from this part of the world are quite good. This grape not only pairs well xvith foods but after it’s been open for a while, it seems to take on a rich more flavorful state. ¯he whites Fazi Battaglia Verdicchio This wine from one of Italy’s oldest wine-making families is quite a find. The grape is found only in this part of the world and it’s great the -~TA~ Let us promote your business in a UNIQUE & D~VERSE market. Call STAR ADVERT~SING today. www.ozarksstar.com �-TIRAMISUIngredients: 6 Egg Yolks 6 ounces Sugar 2 Tsp. Vanilla Extract 8 ounces Mascarpone Cheese 1 Cup Manufacturing Cream 2 Cups Strong Expresso Coffee 2 Cup Packages of Lady Fingers 2 Tsp. Cocoa Powder For Dusting In a mixing bowl, add yolks, sugar and vanilla. Beat until foaming. Add mascarpone and beat until creamy and smooth. Whip cream to soft peaks. Carefully fold whipped cream into egg yolk mixture. Cover and refrigerate for 10 to 15 minutes. Place espresso in shallow bowl and quickly dip lady fingers into espresso. Place lady fingers on towel lined baking sheets to absorb excess espresso. Using individual molds or a 3 inch deep baking dish (for self-serve dessert buffets) spread a layer of cream mixture on the bottom of mold, then the espresso dipped lady fingers. Repeat this until you reach top of the mold making sure you smooth cream mixture with a spatula. Refrigerate for 2 hours. Dust with cocoa powder just before serving. Serve with vanilla or chocolate sauce. More on ChefCelestin6 Drago and DRAGO pag, 1.9. ��Her ~ Jus~ surpasses expectations." This j alike since 1991, winning: Owner Cele,~tino Drago, top 5 Italian restaurams in by Drago and executed by the late. Brenr Saville, Drago radiates Understated, casual elegance. tL~ven is a multi menu mi artist behind Deer that Southern California has to offer. Raven. "Ihey are located at 2628 \Vitshire Blvd. in Santa fornia, %eir telephone number for reservations is 310-828q585. "Iheir hours are/£~londav thru Friday 11:30 Ab! to 3 PM for lunc 5:30 PM m 11:00 PM ~or dinner ai~d Sunday, 5:30 PM to 10:00 PM. 2628 Wilshire Blvd. artwork. com www.ozarksstar.com the STAR �One of the most exciting and colo~l ways to experience North-Central New Mexico is by taking a hot-air balloon ride over the Rio Grande. (Photo byAndrew Collins) rugged Pacific Coast. Accommodations tend to be rustic, which fits xvith the region’s verdant setting, and restaurants favor simpler and less expensive fare than what you’ll find in the swankier eastern reaches of Sonoma County, where most of the areas wineries are located. If you and your honey love wine-tasting, hiking, and canoeing together, the Russian River is ideal. Salt Spring Island, British Columbia MARCH 2007 By Andrew Collins People often tell me they haven’t gone on a vacation in the past six months or year - sometimes longer - because they can’t afford to travel. This is especially true of singles, who anticipate higher costs without a partner to share expenses. True enough, there are a number of cities out there with prohibitively high hotel rates. But there are also quite a few lively and enchanting gay-popular destinations that can be enjoyed on a relatively tight budget, especially if you visit during slower times of the year. Here’s a rundown of 10 terrific destinations for budget-minded gay travelers. The first five are ideally suited for couples; the next five are great choices if you’re unattached. Traveling with your mate? Provincetown, Massachusetts Although Provincetown is a great place to meet singles during the busy and pricey summer high season, the rest of the year is perfect for couples seeking romance. And because prices fall off significantly after Labor Day and even more dramatically in winter, it’s a destination that can work for almost any budget. After the summer crowds have subsided, Provincetown is a quiet and low-keyed retreat. Its remote location, seemingly at the end of the earth, imbues this scenic beach town with an air of seclusion. It can be awfully romantic here in the fall, or even winter, when you’re cozied up in a quiet inn. Even the most luxurious guesthouses often drop their off-season rates to well below $100 nightly. Salt Spring Island is a stunning, hilly little gem off the east coast of Vancouver Island, ~vithin an afternoon’s combined ferry/car trip from the cities of Vancouver, Victoria, and Seattle. There has long been a strong lesbian and - and to a somewhat lesser degree - gay male presence on this island of artist studios, great beaches, and picturesque mountain-biking and kayaking. Several B&Bs here are either gay-owned or quite queer-friendly, and it’s very easy to find a room for under $100. North-Central New Mexico North-Central New Mexico makes for the perfect weeklong romantic adventure. You can divide your time among a tiny, alluring village (Tats), a midsize city with some fun places to dance and eat out (Albuquerque), and a hybrid of the two (Santa Fe) - it takes about 60 minutes to drive between Santa Fe and Albuquerque, and 90 minutes between Santa Fe and Taos. Santa Fe is the priciest of the three communities, so you might want to base your overnight operations primarily in Albuquerque and Taos, which each have myriad accommodations under $100 nightly, from gay-friendly B&Bs to funky retro-hip motels. Even in Santa Fe, however, you can find some appealing places to stay that won’t cost you an arm and a leg. There are also scenic campgrounds set around the area and, wherever you awaken, it’ll be to views of the region’s spectacular Sangre de Cristo and Sandia mountains. Although plenty of fancy upscale restaurants have opened in these parts in recent years, it’s still easy to eat cheaply at local - and often excellent - hangouts serving burgers and blue-corn enchiladas. Etrreka Springs, Arkansas Russian River, California Gay residents of San Francisco and the Bay Area have long favored this snug, woodsy riverresort area in western Sonoma County, midway between the fabled Wine Country and the 20 the STAR A curious hilltop village in the heart of Arkansas’ Ozark Mountains, Eureka Springs is a favorite getaway of both conservative www.ozarksstar.com �Christians and gay people. How these two seemingly at-odds factions vacation together So peacefully is anybody’s guess, but they do. It helps that most of the queer folk tend to stay in the historic, renovated, and downright bargain-priced Victorian inns closer to the center of town, while religious groups favor the properties on the main roads leading in and out of the village. The downtown has blossomed in recent years with a growing number of antiques shops and galleries, and the restaurant scene is sophisticated while still providing great value. Despite the many gay-owned businesses here, this isn’t a nightlife mecca. Eureka Springs is definitely BYOB - bring your own bedmate. Single and looking? Chicago, Illinois Vibrant and friendly low-attitude bars and clubs and a slew of cheap but delicious dining destinations entice impecunious gay travelers to the nation’s third-largest city, a world-class destination by aW measure. Beaches, lakeshore parks, and funky budget-friendly neighborhoods like \Vicker Park, Bucktown, and Andersonville add to the lure of this easy-on-the-pocket city. Downtown business-oriented hotels can be costly, but you’ll find a handful of small, reasonably priced motels, hotels, and inns to the north, in or near the city’s gaypopular Lakeview neighborhood. Chicago’s glorious skyline is free to admire. To see even more, the Chicago Transit Authority (www. transitchicago.com) visitor passes provide unlimited CTA transportation for one to five days, allowing you to save your dollars for more meaningful expenses. Montreal, Quebec For U.S. travelers, Canada is less of a bargain than it was five years ago, as the Canadian dollar has gained considerable strength against U.S. currency. Still, Montreal can be a steal, with numerous gay-friendly hotels and inns charging as little as $50 or $60 per night. This fun-loving city is a great destination for bar-hoppers - the singles scene is frisky and sexy, and sultry gay saunas dot the landscape, appealing to guys of all ages and tastes. The city also has dozens of affordable cafes and coffeehouses, many of them in the hip Gay Village. Sacramento, California California’s underrated capital is, to be frank, a dark-horse candidate as one of the nation’s top gay singles destinations, but keep an open mind. The city is within a two-hour drive of much pricier places, including San Francisco, Lake Tahoe, and the Napa-Sonoma Wine Country, and yet here you can easily find rooms for under $100 nightly. Sacramento boasts a vibrant (if not particularly conspicuous) gay community that is remarkably friendly and diverse in age - it’s a pretty easy place to meet the locals. The dining scene here is excellent, and accommodations range from the gay-owned and upscale Inn at Parkside and Hartley House Inn to a slew of cheap and comfortable chain motels right in the center of the city, within walking distance of the several fun bars, coffeehouses, and restaurants. Austin, Texas Queer Austin folks like to say that they live in the "un-Texas" Texas, a land of green rolling hills, beautiful lakes and rivers, a progressive populace, and an urbane alternative arts and music scene. As Austin has boomed with dot-comers and entrepreneurs in recent years, its costs have risen, but it’s still a good value, especially when it comes to dining out - Austin has scads of superb restaurants in all price categories. The bar scene is compact and the crowds friendly, and the presence of the University of Texas adds a youthful edge. There’s a great gay swimming and sunning hole, Hippie Hollow, just west of the city - a free and friendly spot to cruise and make new friends. Pordand, Oregon Like Austin, funky Portland has received plenty of attention and an influx of newcomers in recent years, but it’s still a scaled-down, user-friendly city that offers much of the culture, attitude, and excitement of Seattle and San Francisco at a fraction of the price. The midsize metropolis sits on the pretty Willamette River. Foodies recognize it as one of America’s great gourmet bargains, and fans of historic hotels and inns appreciate the reasonable rates offered at several excellent properties within walking distance of the gay bars along Stark Street. The feminist scene here is one of America’s most pronounced, making this a potentially excellent vacation spot if you’re a single lesbian hoping to find a like-minded soul. www.ozarksstar.com the ,STAR 21 �MARCH 2007 Are We There Yet? By the time we actually get to vote for our next president, the majority of,aanericans may feel like little children in the back seat of the c~ir asking Mommy and Daddy, "Are we there yet?" The furious nature in which politicos from both sides of the aisle are jockeying, posturing, and pontificating is sure to bring a whiplash effect to the voters - in the long run, the 2008 presidential election will just be a pain in the neck, and we’ll vote for the candidate who gives us the best political pain killers. But who will those two final candidates be? Do we, as a high-voter turnout community, have a real chance to impact the nominee of the Democratic Party? After all, the overwhelming majority of us vote that way. Well, if you live in the states where the Democratic primaries are held in January and February of 2008, then yes - your votes will count toward the Democrats’ pick. As the political calendar shapes up, it seems that 20 Democratic caucuses and primaries will almost definitely be held by February 28, 2008, ~vith a majority taking place on what us political junkies call "Super Tuesday" - February 5. The new wrinkle in this schedule is that powerhouse states such as California, Florida, and New Jersey are toying with the idea of moving up their primaries to the first Tuesday in Februar); as ~vell. (As of press time, it looked like California’s bill to move its primary date was on the fast track to Arnold’s desk for signature.) If that’s the case, everything ~vill be over but the shouting - whoever comes out the victor on Super Tuesday 2008 will be the Democratic nominee. What I’ve been wondering about is the differences on our issues among all the Democratic candidates. That’s a big enough chunk of votes to swing a primary race. Bajko says the primary candidates in states with large numbers of LGBT voters will have to address issues such as repealing "Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell," gay adoptions, and civil unions vs. marriage. It’s during the primaries that the proverbial wheat ~vill be separated from the chaf~: None of the three leading candidates support same-sex marriage. It’s how they handle the issue and the honesty with which they speak that will sway us. For some reason, Tim Russert, the moderator of NBC’s Meet the Press, has been routinely asking presidential aspirants how they feel about same-sex marriage. When John Edwards appeared, he was honest about his struggle. He didn’t just reel off the standard pablum about civil unions. He spoke honestly about his Southern Baptist roots, but also his desire to be fair to all. I could respect that. Hillary’s position on our unions is "evolving" - as strategic a political answer as they come - but she, as well as the rest of the Democratic gang, oppose a federal amendment to ban same-sex marriage, and support the federal Employment Non-Discrimination Act (ENDA) and hate-crimes legislation. Most of them also want to repeal "Don"t Ask, Don’t Tell." Try as I might, I can’t find a thing about Obama’s position on this. But he has made one viewpoint abundantly clear - living free from discrimination is a human right, but being able to marry whomever you want is not. It’s a shame Obama can’t make the connection between our right to love and his parents’. His father was from Kenya, his mother a white woman from Kansas. In a pre-Loving v. Virginia United States (the 1967 Supreme Court case that struck down bans on mixed-race marriage), their marriage was illegal in many states across the land. With 21 months to go before we actually get to vote, we’re going to see and hear a lot more hyperbole and posturing. I only hope that "Are we there yet?" doesn’t turn into "Been there, done that" - leaving many of us too bored to actually get out and vote. EDITOR’S NOTE: In her next installment, Libby Post will look at the Republican presidential hopefuls. The actual number of candidates is so fluid that I won’t even venture a guess. But we do know who the main contenders are - U.S. Senators Hiltary Clinton (N.Y.) and Barack Obama (ILL) and former U.S. Senator John Edwards (N.C.). Following them are two more U.S. senators, Joe Biden (Del.) and Christopher Dodd (Conn.); two governors, Bill Richardson (N.M.) and Tom Vilsack (Iowa); one retired U.S. army general, Wesley Clark; a lone member of the House of Representatives, Dennis Kucinich (Ohio); and one African-American preacher, Al Sharpton. Most of them have campaign websites. All but Clinton’s detail their positions on the major issues, but none speak specifically about LGBT concerns. Honestly, that’s not too surprising. The general election is going to won or lost on Iraq, health care, the economy, and quite possibly global warming. However, the primaries in some states may well be won or lost on our issues, based on how big of a voter turn-out we can provide. According to an article by Matthew Bajko in San Francisco’s Bay Area Reporter, California’s electorate is 10 to 11 percent LGBT. 22 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com �0p÷ a ms Ye th Preiect addresses the r eeds of Tu sa’s homeless youth, by Tim Gillean event. "While there, a young man walked in stating that he "was looking for his friends, he lingered, even a~er realizing they were not there. Over the next hour as the discussion continued, while we were doing our work, he revealed that he was homeless and someone had told him that Openarms could help. He took a chance that someone would be there and came by. His "ChristiaN’ mother had kicked him out because he is Gay. Our work continues. LGBT Homeless from page-5 Photo by Chaz: Youth groz~ at T~dsa’s Openarms Youth Project. Openarms has been addressing the needs of homeless youth in the Tulsa area for five years. By offering a safe haven for GLBTQyouth, and in fact all youth ages 14-21, Openarms has become the resource in Tulsa for these youth. A transitional living program has been the hope and dream of the Openarms board for many years. During the fours years that Openarms has been in operation, this past summer was the busiest period for youth homelessness. Within a two week period last summer Openarms was assisting six youth who had come to the youth center for help. To have that many homeless youth at one time is very unusual and something that the volunteers at Openarms hope can be prevented by early intervention. Through a net~vork of volunteers and networking with other agencies all of the youth were placed in a private home or public facility where their needs could be addressed without the extra feeling of desperation that homelessness brings. Openarms experience shows that most of the public facilities in Tulsa are not really prepared to address the issues that a homeless teen may face, and even less capable of dealing with a GLBT youth who might turn up at their facilities. Many of the shelters in Tulsa where assistance is available require the person to attend some type of religious ceremony to continue to access service. These services can be particularly terrifying to a youth who was just kicked out of their home because their parents won’t accept their sexuality based on their own religious biases. By providing a safe space where these youth are accepted for who they are, just as they are, Openarms is able to connect with them and find what their most pressing needs are. Openarms then begins to address those needs and help the youth develop in to a fully participating citizen. Openarms can provide education assistance, job assistance, food, housing and counseling for these youth. Most important of all it is a place ~vhere they can be with people who are like themselves working towards the same goals. All youth have the desire to succeed if provided with the necessary tools to do so and an understanding adult to help mentor them into their full potential. While Openarms continues to seek funding for a transitional living program, the support of the local community through unrestricted giving is the most effective way to help. Openarms Youth Project Inc. may be contacted at 918-838-7104 or through their website at www.openarmsproject.org. We are always glad to give tours of the facility located at 2015 South Lakewood, please call for an appointment or times of operation. One hour after writing this article for the Star, we went to the youth center to work on some lighting changes and furniture rearrangement for the upcoming Saturday evening wwvv.ozarksstar.corn While there is clearly more that can be .done at the grassroots level, in the end it is not enough to beat this epidemic without additional funding and support at the federal level. The president’s budget was released last month and Congress will begin work on the FY2008 budget and appropriations bills. The Task Force is recommending $140 million in FY2008 for the RHMCPA, a significant increase over its current $103 million allocation but Congress needs to do more. When the law is reauthorized in 2008 it needs to specifically address the needs of LGBT homeless youth and ensure that all homeless youth services organizations receiving federal funds are trained and capable of providing safe and culturally competent services to their LGBT clients. It is important that our allies in Congress insist that this pivotal piece of legislation accurately acknowledges and addresses the reality of youth homelessness in America -- nationwide, LGBT youth are grossly overrepresented in a system ill-equipped to meet their needs, and that simply must change. Jason Cianciotto is the research director of the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force Policy Institute. The STAR 23 ��www.ozarksstar.com the STAR, 25 �errands, ect. I do not want to be one of those jealous types, questioning every move. I also do not want to be living with someone else who is living with everybody. Know what I mean? \~q~at would you do? Suspecting in Ohio Salutations and welcome once more to sluts "R" us, err something like that. This month Uncle Mikey recovers from a love affair of epic proportions. I mean whe~a; that man was just too much. It was like being at the DQ and trying to take that extra dip, knowing your body, just won’t handle it. I mean; it just was not right. While appealing, some mountains just are not meant to be climbed. Sadly, I had to cut that stallion loose, sending him back into the ~vild. I hope he does not do any damage; talk about putting your eye out. I bet the censors are just on the edge of their seats. I guess, I do sound a little like a prom date gone bad. That man of substantial lovin’ made more of an impression than I realized. Kittens, I tried, really I did. You just can’t get a twelve in a size ten; I don’t care hmv you work it. Dear Uncle Mikey, At the college I attend, I have met, well kind of met, this man. He is in some of my classes and all I can say is he is fine. He makes me perk up every time I see him. I have seen him with several females, assuming that he is straight. To tell you the truth that just makes the attraction stronger. I want him only for a short time. These are my, college years, I’m supposed to experiment. So, should I just get him drunk so he can enjoy my talents? I really xvant this guy, so bad I have been ignoring the guys who would gladly enjoy my company. What should I do? Frat-boy-lecious A.K.A. butter, you know what you want, and I would even say, you have already greased the kegger nozzles, awaiting your fiat boy knight. Uncle cautions however, as though some straight wayward boys may let you play, some may not. Oh’ who are we kidding, order him a pizza and seal the deal. A straight college boy is like a walking drive through; you can have it your way, if there is a good supply of beer and pizza. That’s Amour’ Smooches-Michael Dearest Suspecting, Kitten, I te!l this repeatedly. If they are not getting it at home, they are getting it some~vhere. Via, liaison, hand-to-hand combat, somewhere, a man is a man after all. Secondly, if you feel something is amiss than more likely than not, there is. I would sit your man down and confront him with you feelings, prepared to hear whatever it is awaiting for you. Communication can be taken for granted after being with someone for a while, though never does the importance change in any relationship. He may be wondering why you two are not doing the bunny mambo across the front lawn anymore. Take it a step at a time, as anything and anyone xvorth having is worth working for. Smooches-Mikey Dear Mikey, Where did your site go? I really enjoyed it and miss going there every week. A fan of Mikey’s Kitten, You have touched me; moreovm; I am willing to touch back. Kitten, The world is not ready for an entire corner of Mikey, lets break them in slowly shall we? Smooches- Mikey Dear Uncle Mikey, My friends all give me a hard time telling me that I am stuck in the eighties. While; this is a joke to some, it is a way of life for me. I belong to that time, style, and music. It was a time that meant something more than found in the hollow music and style of today. Bring back the eighties! Mrs.. Garret’s boy Dearest Kitten, Gimme-a-break! A virgin you are not, while time has turned and the beat goes on. You must accept the, facts of life, if you really want to enjoy the good-times. This is a serious condition even if spoken through careless whispers. Hanging on to the past can only prevent you from seeing the new and exciting times of today. You may be missing opportunity if you are looking behind you. If you want to hear anyone say, I want your sex, than you must nip it in the bud so to speak. Like a prayer, I send you good thoughts. Let go and let Cher! ...Smooches-Mikey Get with it, don’t you wish your Gurl was Hot like me? Yes, Kittens, Uncle Mikey is timeless, whilst my flame shall lead yet another generations of young queers everywhere. Well Kittens, I guess that is all the time for this month. Until next, time. Smooches-Uncle Mikey Uncle Mikey, I think my boyfriend of ten years has been seeing someone on the side. I have no real proof per say, just a nagging feeling in my gut. Sex has become strained, and I figured it was just because we had become so routine in our ways. 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Even if you can’t really escape your problems, a diversion - preferably a crazy, wildly erotic adventure - will help clear the mind and give you a creative perspective. GEMINI (May 21 - June 20): Listen to arguments; only say enough to draw out new opinions. Trying to win debates will only backfire; getting n.ew information and perspectives will prove immensely enriching, not just intellectually, but also to your relationship. CANCER (June 2t - July 22): It’s not unusual for erotic ideals to be at odds with practical concerns, but you’re feeling that tension acutely now. Attending to your own health or seeking opportunities at work may seem a diversion from that, but at least you’ll find some resolution to the conflict there. SAG~TTARIUS (November 22 - December 20): You really can’t stay out of arguments now, so just don’t take them too seriously. You will flub some basic details and facts and undermine your own assertions. Provoking discussion and learning from your mistakes are good, too. CAPRICORN (December 21 -January 19): Sex and money are typical sources of worry. Problems, however real, are much smaller than they seem. Stop fretting, pull back, relax, and meditate - or take a hike. Getting perspective is half the battle - and, sensibly, it should be the first half! AQUARIUS (January 20 - ~ebruary 18): If you meet your "perfect love" now, it could be a disastrous mistake. Run as fast and far as you can. Even indulging in mere lust is an invitation to horrible diseases. Existing relationships need work, too, but at least there is hope with some help from your friends. PISCES (February 19 - March 19): Work, work, work! Take time out only to meditate, charge your batteries, and eat and exercise, of course. Trust your instincts, take cues from your dreams, and apply your deepest resources to the tasks at hand. Success is within reach, but only if you make a serious effort. LEO (July 23 - August 22): Uncertainty about your partnership can make you cranky and controlling, which only makes things worse. Look for new ways to play together. A trip abroad would be ideal, but on such short notice a foreign film, festival, or art show is probably more feasible. VIRGO (August 23 - September 22): Home is rarely a safe haven from illness and accidents. But cleaning house, purging clutter, and organizing what’s left will make it safer. Getting family to help, or turning up old family treasures, will offer revelations. LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): Discuss political or social strategies with close friends, or better yet, a sibling. On your own, you’re too likely to make awkward gaffes. Lady Luck seems to be against you now, but you’ll score big in the larger game for being a good sport. SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): Hidden treasure in your home? Or some enriching family lore from your mother? 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The State of Oklahoma does not allow same gender marriages, therefore.I must decline your application." Photo: ~vo women askfor a marriage license application at the 7ffdsa Count. court house. Photo: Three same gender couples cut the wedding cake that was adorned with two brides toget,§er and two grooms at a reception in the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center: NEW JERSEY GAY COUPLE8 G NTED UR ON UCENSE. (AP) Hundreds of gay couples were granted the same legal rights, if not the title, as married couples Monday as New Jersey became the third state to offer civil unions. More than a dozen other couples applied for licenses for ceremonies later in the week. The civil unions, which 6ffer the legal benefits but not the title of marriage, were granted automatically to hundreds of gay New Jersdy couples who had previously been joined in civil unions or married in other states or nations. The three couples, referred to as "The Love Warriors", walked quietly away from the counter after each where refused a license. The group then boarded a shuttle bus which took them back to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center where a wedding reception had been prepared. Two brides and two grooms gdorned the wedding cake. Oklahomans for Equality, lead by their tPresident Laura Belmonte, sponsored the demonstration and was held on Valentine’s day in celebration of the 10th anniversary of"Freedom to Marry Week". The goal of the demonstration was to bring awareness to the 1049 benefits allowed opposite sex couples who are legally married in the State of Oklahoma and a call for marriage equality for Oklahoma same gender couples. "It is an equal rights issue", said Belmonte. Oklahomans for Equality is a non-profit organization committed to securing equality for Oklahoma GLBT citizens as well as all Oklahomans. They are now located in their new permanent home inside the Equality Center 621 E. 4th Street in downtown Tulsa, celebrated it’s grand opening February 14-18. In honor of the organizations founder Dennis R. Neill the building was named the "Dennis R. Neil Equality Center". v~vw.ozarksstar.com the STAR 3 A national report titled Lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender youth: An epidemic of homelessness. "Epidemic" is a strong word to use, but in this case it’s justified. Lily Tomlin to appear at the Tulsa Performing Arts Center March 18th. GLBT Homeless Youth - page 5 African-American comedian Jackie "Moms" Mabley - dubbed "the funniest woman in the world" Gay Travelers "Tucson Arizona’’ Otit of Town "Budget Getaxvays " This month Uncle Mikey recovers from a love affair of epic proportions. I mean whew, that man was just too much. It was like being at the DQand trying to take that extra dip The STAR Interview with Lily Tomlin - page 10 GLBT Homeless............ 5 Lily Tomlin ................ 10 OUT in Arkansas........... 12 Stage.................... 11 Past Out.................. 14 Leslie Jordan ............. 15 The Wine Rack............. 16 Ciao Travel ................ 17 Lesbian Notions............ 22 Star Scene................ 24 Uncle Mikey............... 26 After Dark ................ 27 Horoscopes............... 28 Distributors............... 29 Cartoons..................30 Classifieds ................ 31 STAR DISTRIBUTION: Gay Leslie Jordan to Host 10th Annual Red Ribbon Gala on March 10. -page 15 OKLAHOMA CITY * TULSA * LA~Xq-ON * MCALESTER * ENID * LITTLE ROCK * NORTH LITTLE RODK * FAYETTEVILLE * FT SMITH * EUREKA SPRINGS * HOT SPRINGS * BENTONVtLLE * ROGERS * KANSAS CITY * SPRINGFIELD * JOPLIN * BRANSON AREA * WICHITA* PITTSBURG * JUNCTION CITY 4 the STAR ~,vw.ozarksstar.com LGBT Youth Homelessness: A National Disgrace By Jason Cianciotto piece of federal legislation that directs funding and programming guidelines to homeless youth service providers nationwide, the Congressional Research Service released its own report on youth homelessness in the US. Their report did not include a single mention of LGBT youth. If Congress’s own research arm is unwilling or unable to acknowledge this epidemic, how can we expect our elected officials to address it? I think part of the answer lies in supporting and replicating the successful efforts of service providers and activists at the grassroots level. Photo:Jason Cianciotto The National Gay and Lesbian Task Force Policy Institute, in collaboration with the National Coalition for the Homeless, released a national report today titled Lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender youth: An epidemic of homelessness. "Epidemic" is a strong word to use, but in this case it’s justified. While approximately, 3 to 5 percent of the total U.S. population identifies as gay or lesbian, our review of the available academic and professional literature found that an estimated 20 to 40 percent of the up to 1.6 million youth who run away or are homeless each year identify as LGBT. In other words, LGBT youth are grossly overrepresented in the homeless youth population. The report goes into great detail about why LGBT youth are becoming homeless, their experiences on the streets, and the pervasive harassment and discrimination they experience at many homeless service providers. Just as important are the model service practices and policy recommendations also included in the report, which if implemented nationwide would help to curb this epidemic and truly make a difference in the lives of our most vulnerable youth. Several weeks ago, I received what is perhaps the greatest example of the hard work ahead of us as we use this report to educate politicians, policymakers and service providers. In anticipation of the 2008 renewal of the Runaway, Homeless and Missing Children Protection Act (RHMCPA), the primary For example, there’s the street outreach program and drop-in center developed by the Ruth Ellis Center, which predominandy serves LGBT youth of color in Detroit, Mich., and the transitional living program run by Green Chimneys in New York City, which provides safe and supportive housing for LGBT homeless youth for 18 months while preparing them for in&pendent living. Urban Peak in Denver, Colorado has developed specific guidelines for creating a safe space for transgender homeless youth in shelters, given their unique needs and experiences. Because most homeless youth service providers are not LGBT-specific, our report also highlights the success of Ozone House, in Ann Arbor, Mich., an organization that serves all homeless youth but has specifically striven to create an LGBT-safe space. Waltham House in Massachusetts has even developed a program that has provided LGBT cultural competency training to over 2,000 employees at the state Department of Social Services. While the programs highlighted in our report may be the exception today, they are replicable anywhere in the country. Indeed, one of our critical aims and hopes is that service providers and social service agencies will see this report as a wake-up call to the crisis of homelessness among LGBT youth. Some may already work with this population and learn from one of our contributors about how to enrich an existing program. Others might know they need to reach out to LGBT youth but need additional guidance on how to do so. Continued page-23 www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 5 Oklahoma Activist Named to Board of National Stonewall Democrats Oklahoma Chapter MaiFltains Strong Presence on National Board By James Nimmo OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__ Oklahoma Stonewall Democrats (~x~9.0kstonewall.org) announced today that activist and poht~cal consultant Linda Gray Murphy of Oklahoma City has been named to the Board of Directors for National Stonewall Democrats (NSD) (,wvw:stonewalldemocrats.org). She will begin a two-year term in March as a delegate from Region 6, representing Iowa, Missouri, A~kansas, Kansas, Texas, and Oklahoma. Her election continues the strong presence that Oklahoma Stonewall Democrats (OSD) has had on the national board for the last three years, beginning with the late activist and lobbyist Keith Smith. Ms. Murphy and Mr. Smith, both Yellow Dog Democrats, were close allies in advocating for the betterment of Oklahoma’s citizens through work in many progressive issues such as equality for gay people, women’s health dare, and the environment. Ms. Murphy is well kmown throughout Oklahoma and Texas for her work with political campaigns and progressive causes, with her latest victory being the election ofA1 McAffrey to the Oklahoma House of Representatives. She serves as executive director and spokesperson for WorkAng Families Project (wvwv.workingfamiliesproject. corn), a statewide organization to increase the minimum wage and improve the lives of all Oklahomans. Membership growth in Stonewall Democrats, the only ga~ lesbian, bisexual and transgender organization recognized by the National Democratic Party, has prompted recent expansion of Region 6 representation on the NSD board from three to five delegates. Ms. Murphy will join Olga Hernandez of San Antonio as female delegates. Four candidates will vie for the three remaining positions. They include incumbent national board members Jesse Garcia and Buck Massey, both ofTexas, and two Oklahoma City men, Steve VanHook and Colin Raley. VanHook has served OSD as interim co-chair since early December. The lowest vote-getter in February’s regional elections is expected to be named an alternate delegate, attending when a regular delegate cannot. Oklahoma Stonewall Democrats, with nearly 200 current members, is constitutionally recognized as an active dub of the Oklahoma Democratic Party (www.okdemocrats.org) with a voting seat on the state party’s governing Central Committee. The Stonewall organization is dedicated to achieving ful! equality for America’s lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender citizens, and its members work in campaigns and raise money for both openly gay and gay-friendly Democratic candidates at all levels of government. 6 the STAR w~rw.ozarksstar.com www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 7 PRELIM TO MiSS GAY OKLAHOMA AMERICA April 4, 2007 10:00 PM @The Copa, OKC OK CONTESTANT INQUIRES CALL MARK ORJAMES (NIKKI STARR) (580) 216-2715 must be 21 yrs old to enter colt5294@yahoo.com 8 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com pancakes ~nd, just trying to g~t book, music ~. lyrics by Jerry Rabushka (of Somebody ~Ise~s Life) WOOFI wags Oklahoma~t TULSA: March 2~3, 8:00pro Nightingale Theater, 1416 E. 4th St, Reservations: 918-633-8666 OK. CtTY: March 23~24, 8:00 P~ IAO Galle~: 81! N. Broadway Re~ations: 314-280-1035 Dir~ions: 40~232~060 ~e~: $10; ~5.~ s~dent~senio~ www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 9 10 the STAR Evenin Coming Interview by: Victor Gorin An Evening of Classic Lily Tomlin is a nostalgic and warm presentation of Lily’s "greatest hits," with more than a dozen of her famous characters, including the precocious six-year-old Edith Ann; the irascible telephone operator, Ernestine; the aging beauty adviser, Madame Lupe; Lucille, the rubber addict; prim Judith Beasley from Calumet City, Indiana; and Lily’s most profound character, Trudy, the street lady who starred in The Search for Signs of Intelligent Life in the Universe. THE INTERVIEW: VICTOR: Well hello Lily, and welcome to Oklahoma. When did you last perform here? LILY: Many years ago, it must have been in the 70s. VICTOR: Your entertainment career has spanned over 4 decades, and a lot of changes have happened in show business. What major changes have you noticed and what has stayed the same? LILY: Well, it’s all in how you approach it, what your own sensibility is, whatever you think is funny and how you deal with it, matter of nuance and style. Certainly a lot of barriers have been knocked dmvn. I can remember when the word "ass" said on network TV was unheard of. VICTOR: Well it was a different world when you began viewing corned}; when you favorites included Lucille Ball & Jean Carroll, the first female standup comic on the Ed Sullivan Shiny. When you started college to study medicine, was that just to be practical when you really wanted to be in entertainment? LILY: (laughs) I was just a blue collar kid who grew up in inner city Detroit. I mean you were supposed to be serious about getting a job, a career. Being a doctor seemed like a very noble thing to aspire to, and there was quite a reverence for doctors in those days. In my neighborhood though, we were grateful if boys didn’t wind up in the slammer or girls didn’t get pregnant. VICTOR: Well, you managed to avoid both. Among your many personas, my true favorite was the telephone operator Ernestine, who won you a Grammy Award for a comedy album. She became part of our culture, and as a former long distance operator myself, you can see why she’s dear to me. LILY: While I had never been an actual telephone operator, I did march in a picket line with the operators in 1971 during a strike in San Francisco. The Communications \gorkers of,4anerica awarded me a "Cracked Bell Award" for standing with them. I owe everything to Ernestine, and she knows it! She’s like a real person to me, and like people such as Bette Davis, she’s one everybody tries to imitate. VICTOR: Back in Ernestine’s day, did you ever think there would be shows like "Will and Grace"? LILY: No probably not. It’s kind of evolutionary. Hlen having the success she has had is remarkable, and a whole generation has grown up with that support and knowledge. I can relate, I was in the middle. I knew of performers in the 40s and 50s who were suppressed, repressed & oppressed. VICTOR: I loved your role in the movie "9 to 5" which, although a comedy, really depicted the issues of working people. Can you see workers and the gay communit-y coming together for positive change, particularly in the political area? LILY: Any groups working for change are usually coming from an outsider status, so they can align themselves with others who are disenfranchised so that opens doors for everybody. I might also add that I’d like a new president! ........................... Continuedlvage 13 www.ozarksstar.com Coming to Tulsa and Oklahoma City. By Staff Reporter ST LOUIS, MO__Ragged Blade presents "Woof, The Road Show," a two man minimusical with Zach Jett & Jerry Rabushka. Book, lyrics & music by Jerry Rabushka A script that keeps changing, and love that keeps threatening to cross from on stage to back stage, and lots of silly jokes. Woofl is a mini-musical about dogs, pancakes, and just trying to get some. Don’t you just hate it when you’re trying to make out and there’s a dog panting at your feet? Woofl Adam and Jon are touring a show. A gay romance, come to think, that Adam wrote without realizing he’d have to deal ~vith an acting partner who keeps trying to make it happen in real life. If that’s not bad enough.., a group of frustrated writers (not to mention the Wednesday Mah Jongg club) keep xvorkshopping the play and our poor actors never know what’s in the script from one show to the next. Oh, and then there’s... Woody. You know, that "hot" stage hand who took up a career in theater so he could sleep with touring actors. He’s had his way with Jon and Adam... so they like each other to think. Poor Woody, he meets his demise more often than Kenny in South Park. What happens when he goes to an Annie cast party? It’s too scary to mention. Can they ever transfer the on stage love to back stage.., even if there’s a clause in the contract that forbids it? It’s an unusual play with dry humor, a bit of a vaudeville style, and some great fun. JERRY RABUSHKA is a St. Louis based writer, composer, actor, and director and a co-founder of Ragged Blade productions, a company that produces original theatre and also produces touring artists. Rabushka has won awards for several plays including The Checkpoint, Kiss of Death, and Empty Closets; he received the Director’s Award For Outstanding Service (to the GLBT theater community) at the 2006 National Gay and Lesbian Theater Festival (Columbus, OH). He’s had about 80 scripts of various lengths published by Brooklyn Publishers, Odessa, TX. His solo piano CD "Piano 362" was nominated for "Outstanding Instrumental Recording" by NYC based Outmusic in 2003. ZACH JETT is a St. Louis area actor & singer who has performed in a number of musicals and is currently in his third show with Ragged Blade. "Jett’s experience shows through his command of the stage, his vocal ability, and how well he looks in a dog collar," says critic Tamitra Williford, KDHX Radio, St. Louis. RAGGED BLADE has been to Tulsa and OKC with Rabushka’s one-man show "Somebody Else’s Life." The Nightingale Theatre also produced his play Love of Last Resort in 2006. His play "Gay Christian, Gay Muslim, Gay Jew," commissioned by award winning performer, recording artist & Comedy Central personality Jade Esteban Estrada, premiered at the IAO Gallery February 16 & 17, 2007. Woofl The Road Show will be in Tulsa March 2-3, 8 PM Nightingale Theater 1416 E. 4th St. (at Peoria) TULSA, OK, 74120 Info/Reservations for TULSA: 918-633- 8666 March 23-24, 8 PM, IAO Gallery 811 N. Broadway, OKLAHOMA CITY, OK, 73102 Info/Reservations for OKC: 314-280-1035. Directions 405-232-6060 Admission for both: $10; $5 students/seniors. For more information please visit www. raggedblade.com www.ozarksstar.corn the STAR 11 / a 41;GAYLIEN \VEEY ND" SPRING DIVERSITY \VEEKEND April 13-15, 2007 EUR£KA SPRINGS, AR~Spring Diversity is falling on the same weekend as the annual UFO Conference in Eureka Springs, Arkansas. Many visitors asked for Diversity Weekend to be delayed one week, so they could be home with their families for Easter. On Saturday night, everyone is encouraged to dress in Gaylien themed costumes and artists ~vill be available to create one of a kind Face Art just for you. Eureka will be filled with festive Gayliens and you may just win a prize! Deborah Rose with Diversity Pride Events Productions, proudly announces the return of the popular "GAYCO gang", a hysterical comedy troupe born from members of Chicago’s famous "SECOND CITY". Last Spring’s production was a big hit. ~lere will be 2 performances, a 2pm Matinee and 7:30pm evening show. (Ticket info available online) And YOU could be on stage with GAYCO! By taking a special workshop on Friday 1- 4pm with GAYCO coaches, class members will have the option to perform Saturday in an improv/sketch on stage with GAYCO! Experienced or non-experienced, the class will be loads of fun and your friends will be amazed to see you on stage at the showi Must RSVP and pre-pay online. There will be DPE’s "DIVERSITY BIKERS" contests and Poker Run. Our golden oldies dance, newly named "RETRO DANCE & CABARET" at Caribe’s Restaurante y Cantina, featuring the fabulous Mary King from Oklahoma, DJing and singing, plus invited guest singers. It’s not just a dance, it’s a social! (Emaii us your requests for your favorite dance hits now, so Mary will have time to get them) Don’t forget to drop in to the "PRINCESS WELCOME MIXER" at Caribe’s always on Friday night 7 to 9pro to mix and mingle with Gayco cast members, locals and visitors. Be sure to pick up a copy of the DIVERSITY GUIDE and get the scoop on Eureka and weekend happenings. Of course there will be many more events sponsored by others, great shopping, dining and that great sense of freedom and friendliness that blows through Eureka! More details will be posted as soon as confirmed. Be sure to keep checking Diversitypride. corn for updates. CONTACT DIVERSITY PRIDE EVENTS Deborah Rose 479-253-2555 Email: deborah@diversitypride.corn Web: http://xvwxv.diversitypride.com Community for People living D8 A 501 c (3) Non Profit Organization Our House, Too offers a variety of activities for people who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS to help combat the social isolation that many of our people live through each and everyday. We provide a Toiletry and Household Pantry for those who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS who cannot afford to purchase these items for themselves. We invite anyone who would like to volunteer or provide financial assistance to please contact us by phone 918-585-9552 or e-mail harrismmjr@yahoo.com, 12 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com LILY TOMLIN INTERVIEW: VICTOR: I’m with you there. But focusing on you, since you’ve been involved with almost every form of media there is, what are your goals now and where is your career going? LILY: I like to keep my hand in by performing live, and I do and 40 or 50 concerts a year. I have a part in a new HBO series, "Twelve Miles of Bad Roads," a comedy drama series where I play a matriarch of a very rich Dallas real estate family. Mary Kay Place plays my sister, Leslie Jordan is my cousin Kenny, and I deal with 3 out of control loaded ldds. VICTOR: Sounds like a load of fun! LILY: We hope it will be, and it will go on the air next year. I also ¯ have a part in an upcoming movie, ’The Walker,’ so I’m always looking for new opportunities. VICTOR: Well ~ve certainly wish you luck, and we welcome the opportunity to see your performance in Tulsa. Tomlin has remained at the top of her game for almost 40 years, winning six Emmys, two Tonys, a Grammy and two Peabody Awards. She was a favorite of the late great director Robert Altman, appearing in several of his movies, including her Academy Awardnominated role in Nashville and with Meryl Streep as a countrywestern sister act in Altman’s final film A Prairie Home Companion. She was equally unforgettable in 9 to 5 with Jane Fonda and Dolly Parton, in Big Business with Bette Midler, and as an eccentric rich woman whose soul invades Steve Martin’s body in All of Me. In 2003, she received the prestigious Mark Twain Prize for American Humor. It will be a night of cerebral comedy vcoven among Lily’s affectionate reminiscences about her childhood in the Midwest. March 18th at 7 p.m. Tulsa Performing Arts Center Chapman Music Hall. Tickets can be purchased online at www.MyTicketoffice. com or by phone at 918 596 7111. By Strengthening Your Business TULSA, OK__Diversity Business Association ofTulsa, a program of Oklahomans for Equality, is off and running! Join us at our monthly meeting, held the first Thursday of each month at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th Street in downtown Tulsa. DBAT provides a forum to the gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender business and professional community and its allies for the purpose of networking, professional development, creating increased visibility and strengthening relationships among business and professional community members. Networking is key to business and a cornerstone of the DBAT mission. The DBAT business network fosters a sharing of information, ideas, and contacts and so strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Additionally, the Professional Development Programs offered by DBAT at our monthly meeting enables members to access information and resources that are important to the growth, promotion, and visibility of their businesses. DBAT’s 2007 agenda includes a number of events, most exciting of which is the Diversity Business Expo and the distribution of the new Pride Business Directory planned for June. A presence on the web is also in the works as well as community workshops and socials. Get Involved! Get Connected! Join DBAT today and learn, participate and lead in the most dynamic business climate in the LGBT community. For more information on membership, including the many benefits, contact Susan Hartman at slhartman@cox.net or 918-274-1699. TWO F RST’$ FOR TULSA’S; LEATHER BAR By Michael Leach TULSA, OK The Tulsa Eagle recently had its First Fundraiser and performance by a female impersonator all in the same night. On, Saturday, Jan. 20th the current Mr. Tulsa Eagle 2006, Mr. Jay Whiteside had a fundraiser and celebrated his birthday by presenting a Benefit for the HOPE Testing Clinic. Hosted by Miss Kimbefly Foxx and Mr. Jay Whiteside, there was live entertainment and many comedy numbers by Mr. Jay and Clogger Bill. The Benefit included a silent auction, with many items donated by Coral West, Priscillas, Tulsa Rough Riders and the support of T.U.L.S.A. and the Driller Bears. A grand total of $615.00,was raised for the HOPE Testing Clinic, and Mr. Tulsa Eagle presented the money to HOPE Testing Clinic the following Wednesday. Many thanks for all the support and help by all the organizations that made this Fundraiser a success, and also gave Jay a wonderful 54th birthday celebration. wvo,v.ozarksstar.com the STAR 13 was ]ackAe "Morns" Mabley? African-American comedian Jackie "Moms" Mabley - dubbed "the funniest woman in the world" - was known for her ribald humor about young men, but her personal relationships were often with women. The great-granddaughter of a slave and one of 12 children, Mabley was born Loretta Mary Aiken in March 1894 (some historians say 1897) in Brevard, N.C. When she was 11, her father, a businessman and volunteer firefighter, was killed when his fire truck exploded. Not long thereafter, her mother died after she was hit by a mail truck one Christmas morning. By the time she turned 13, Mabley had been raped twice - first by an older black man and later by a white sheriff- which resulted in two pregnancies; the babies were put up for adoption. In her early teens, at the urgleft home and moved to a m~msters family. Before show, beginning as a sing.er to comedy. While traveling performing for black audiwith fellow entertainer Jack daughter. To allay the embarabout her stage career, she own. "He took a lot off me, his name," she said in a 1974 nickname "Moms" for the younger performers. Mabley began performing as is widely regarded as the first so. In 1921, a well-known ing of her grandmother, Mabley Cleveland, where she lived with long, she joined a minstrel and dancer but soon turning the vaudeville "chitlin circuit" ences, she began a relationship Mabley, and the couple had a rassment of one of her brothers adopted Mabley’s name as her so the least I could do was take interview. She later earned the maternal role she took with a solo stand-up comedian, and African-American woman to do vaudeville couple, Butterbeans and Susie, saw Mabley’s show in Texas and invited her to join them. She was soon performing at legendary Harlem venues, including the Cotton Club and the Savoy Ballroom, sharing the bill with jazz greats such as Count Basle and Duke Ellington. the black circuit - Mabley broke through the color barrier and gained considerable mainstream success, likely because white audiences found her frumpy character nonthreatening despite her biting wit and edgy themes. By this time an actual toothless old woman, Mabley performed at large venues such as the Chicago Playboy Club and Carnegie Hall, recorded some two dozen comedy albums (becoming Billboard’s highest- ranking female comedian), and made numerous appearances on television variety shows hosted by the likes ofMerv Grit~n, Bill Cosby, and the Smothers Brothers. Mabley continued working until the end of her life, starring in the film _Amazing Grace_ (1974) - in which she plays a fed-up elderly woman who becomes a community organizer and takes on Baltimore’s political establishment - the year before her death in ~/hite Plains, N.Y., on May 23, 1975. Though surprisingly unknown to contemporary audiences, Mabtey had a profound influence and served as a rote model for countless comedians, especially African Americans and women. In the words of author Mel Watkins, Mabley’s work "foreshadowed the shift to direct social commentary" that became a mainstay of comedy by the late 1950s, and "anticipated the assertive sexual humor unveiled by female stand-up comics in the eighties." For further reading: Gomez, Jewelle. 1993. Forty-Three Septembers (Firebrand). During the Harlem Renaissance, Mabley was part of a circle of black vaudeville performers and jazz and blues musicians known or believed to have been gay, lesbian, or bisexual, including Countee Cullen, Langston Hughes, Mabel Hampton, Bessie Smith, and Ma Rainey. Although she had relationships with women - and sometimes let slip innuendos about affairs with both women and men - Mabley was not publicly open about her sexuality. As the Depression put a halt to the Roaring ’20s, Mabley became one of the most sought-after black performers. In 1931, she co-wrote a Broadway play, _Fast and Furious: A Colored Revue in 37 Scenes_, with author Zora Neale Hurston. Starting in the late 1930s, Mabley began performing at the Apollo "l~eater; over two decades, she became the club’s most frequently featured act, and at the height of her career she was earning $10,000 per week. Watkins, Mel. 1999. On the Real Side: A History ofAfrican-American Comedy from Slavery to Chris Rock (Lawrence Hill Books). Williams, Elsie. 1991. "Morns Mabley and the Afro-~nerican Comic Performance." In \Vomen’s Comic Visions, ed. June Sochen (Wayne State University Press). Well before she became an old woraan herself, Mabley developed her signature character, a ribald granny dressed in a housedress, slippers, and a floppy hat (inspired, she said, by her own grandmother). Delivered in a characteristic raspy voice, her brand of humor tended toward social satire, often addressing the hardships of poverty and racism. While she may have preferred women in her personal life, Mabley became known for her jokes about pursuing young men, coupled with her disdain for old ones and their attempts to wield control over women. "There ain’t nothing an old man can do for me except bring me a message from a young one," she famously quipped In her 60s - unlike most performers on 14 the STAR ~.,.ozarksstar.com Leslie Jordan to Host l Oth Annua Red Ribbon Gala on March TULSA, OK__With the date set, the menu selected and the talent chosen, the 10th Annual Red Ribbon Gala is set to be a remarkable evening for all who attend. The Master of Ceremonies is none other than Emmy Award winner Leslie Jordan, who is best known for his roles on Will & Grace, Boston Legal and Reba. Jordan is currently filming the HBO pilot "12 Miles of Bad Road "with Lily Tomlin and Mary Kay Place and staring in the new CW show "Hidden Palms." ~l-he local band, Hero Factor, will provide the musical entertainment for the fun-filled evening and this year’s honorary chair is Suzanne Warren. The Red Ribbon Gala will be held in the recently completed Grand Ballroom at Southern Hills Country Club, 2636 E. 61st Street, on Saturday, March 10 at 6:30 p.m. The event is the largest fundraiser for Tulsa C.A.R.E.S. (Center for AIDS Resources, Education and Support), an organization that provides social services for low-income men, women and children living with HIV/AIDS throughout northeastern Oklahoma. This year’s Red Ribbon Gala will be a delight to the senses as a fabulous red martini bar will accompany the beautiful floral arrangements created by board member Toni Garner. The fun-filled evening will include a live and silent auction offering amazing vacation packages, private dinner parties, stellar antiques, flowers for a year, one-of-a-kind paintings from Patrick Gordon and Matt Moffett and original cuff links created by board member Susan Sadler. www.ozarksstar.com "~xe best part about the Red Ribbon Gala is that is supports the ongoing efforts ofTulsa C.A.R.E.S.," Pat Chernicky, event co-chair said. "For 15 years, Tulsa CARES has been providing support services to the individuals no one has wanted to serve. Without the proceeds from the Red Ribbon Gala our ability to provide these crucial services would cease." A United Way agency, Tulsa C.A.R.E.S. provides a variety of services including professional case management and mental health counseling, food pantry and nutrition services, financial help with rent and utilities, plus information and resources to help family members. "The Red Ribbon Gala is not only a fabulous evening of food, fun and friends, but the money raised from the event provides the organization with the financial resources to serve over 500 individuals a year," Robert Coffey, co-chair and board president said. "This event is one ofTulsa’s most elegant, yet worthwhile affairs. HIV does not affect a special group of people; it doesn’t discriminate, it affects all of us." For ticket information and sponsorship opportunities, contact Bruce Lewis at (918) 834-4194 or brucel@tulsacares.org 1.-800o535oNDS (2437) Oklahoma’s H~V/STD HerOine ~Preocupado con V.I.H~ en su comunidad? maestro salud quien pueda trabajar el tiempo eompleto/un examinador dei V.LH. quie~ es bilingtie con espafiol v ingles Ventajas fantastieas! Causas fantasticas! Pot favor llama 918.749.8378 Conoee su eslado...Haee un dii~reneia the STAR 15 nder We are always looking for a bargain and it’s hard to know sometimes which ,,vines are the best buys. Well we hope to shed some light on this for those of you who want to bring a good wine to a dinner party or to share with friends. We all want quality taste with out breaking the bank. There IS a difference between cheap and inexpensive. None of us are born with an infinite knowledge of wine and we all have to start somewhere. I think of myself as one of the kings when it comes to finding quality/low budget wines. I enjoy visiting the ,,vine shops here in Tulsa and I have found some really cool bottles ofvino. Check these out! for those who like ABC white wines (anything but Chardonnay). Pepperwood Grove Viognier This is one ofmy favorites. The next step up for this grape by other vineyards is about 2 or 3 times the price and that doesn’t mean that they will taste any better. Pepperwood Grove Riesling This is a new-comer to the P G stable. This label just recently started distributing this varietal. Again, a true value. ’ ¯ Schlink Haus ( Germany ) Riesting: Kabinet A fruit forward wine/not too sweet. ~he reds Terrazas (Argentina) Malbec, Cabernet The wines from this vineyard always seem to be well balanced and fruit fo~vard. A Mano ( Italy ) Primitivo Thought to have been of the Zinfandel lineage and every vintage consistently rates very highly. Black Opal ( Australia ) Cab/Merlot This label has come down in price recently and all the verietals they produce are not only a good bargain but the taste is right in the pocket. Pilar Box White This wine is a mixture of 3 grape varietals Chardonnay, Sauvignon Blanc and Verdelho. Give this one a try, you’ll be pleasantly surprised at the flavor. Marquis de la Tour/Sparkling wine France A truly great find/good balance of fruit forwardness & bubbles. As I always suggest, go and visit your local wine shop. See your retail specialist and ask questions. If you’re so inclined, share some bottles with friends over dinner! Bon Appetit! Cline Cellars Red Truck This vineyard is better ka~own for bigger budget wines and this one is a good sipping wine to share at social gatherings and the like. Bitch Grenache ( Australia ) This is a newbie in this market from the land down under. The Aussies seem to do quite well with this grape. This one is highly rated. Good sipping wine/not just with food. Pepperwood Grove Old Vine Zinfandel This, like nearly all of the wines under this label, gives you real big bang for the buck because these verticals so closely resemble the flavor and body of more expensive wines without tasting as low in quality as they’re priced. The old vine Zin is quite exceptional and will hold up strongly next to other Zin’s 2 or 3 times the money. Marchesi Di Barolo Barbera D’alba This is a new discovery for me. It comes highly recommended by a well know local retail wine buyer. I visited this wine-growing region in Italy. The wines from this part of the world are quite good. This grape not only pairs well xvith foods but after it’s been open for a while, it seems to take on a rich more flavorful state. ¯he whites Fazi Battaglia Verdicchio This wine from one of Italy’s oldest wine-making families is quite a find. The grape is found only in this part of the world and it’s great Let us promote your business in a UNIQUE & D~VERSE market. Call STAR ADVERT~SING today. the -~TA~ www.ozarksstar.com -TIRAMISUIngredients: 6 Egg Yolks 6 ounces Sugar 2 Tsp. Vanilla Extract 8 ounces Mascarpone Cheese 1 Cup Manufacturing Cream 2 Cups Strong Expresso Coffee 2 Cup Packages of Lady Fingers 2 Tsp. Cocoa Powder For Dusting In a mixing bowl, add yolks, sugar and vanilla. Beat until foaming. Add mascarpone and beat until creamy and smooth. Whip cream to soft peaks. Carefully fold whipped cream into egg yolk mixture. Cover and refrigerate for 10 to 15 minutes. Place espresso in shallow bowl and quickly dip lady fingers into espresso. Place lady fingers on towel lined baking sheets to absorb excess espresso. Using individual molds or a 3 inch deep baking dish (for self-serve dessert buffets) spread a layer of cream mixture on the bottom of mold, then the espresso dipped lady fingers. Repeat this until you reach top of the mold making sure you smooth cream mixture with a spatula. Refrigerate for 2 hours. Dust with cocoa powder just before serving. Serve with vanilla or chocolate sauce. More on ChefCelestin6 Drago and DRAGO pag, 1.9. Her ~ Jus~ surpasses expectations." This j alike since 1991, winning: Owner Cele,~tino Drago, top 5 Italian restaurams in by Drago and executed by the late. Brenr Saville, Drago radiates Understated, casual elegance. menu mi tL~ven is a multi that Southern California has to offer. artist behind Deer Raven. "Ihey are located at 2628 \Vitshire Blvd. in Santa fornia, %eir telephone number for reservations is 310-828q585. "Iheir hours are/£~londav thru Friday 11:30 Ab! to 3 PM for lunc 5:30 PM m 11:00 PM ~or dinner ai~d Sunday, 5:30 PM to 10:00 PM. 2628 Wilshire Blvd. com artwork. www.ozarksstar.com the STAR One ofthe most exciting and colo~l ways to experience North-CentralNew Mexico is by taking a hot-air balloon ride over the Rio Grande. (Photo byAndrew Collins) MARCH 2007 By Andrew Collins People often tell me they haven’t gone on a vacation in the past six months or year - sometimes longer - because they can’t afford to travel. This is especially true of singles, who anticipate higher costs without a partner to share expenses. True enough, there are a number of cities out there with prohibitively high hotel rates. But there are also quite a few lively and enchanting gay-popular destinations that can be enjoyed on a relatively tight budget, especially if you visit during slower times of the year. Here’s a rundown of 10 terrific destinations for budget-minded gay travelers. The first five are ideally suited for couples; the next five are great choices if you’re unattached. Traveling with your mate? Provincetown, Massachusetts Although Provincetown is a great place to meet singles during the busy and pricey summer high season, the rest of the year is perfect for couples seeking romance. And because prices fall off significantly after Labor Day and even more dramatically in winter, it’s a destination that can work for almost any budget. After the summer crowds have subsided, Provincetown is a quiet and low-keyed retreat. Its remote location, seemingly at the end of the earth, imbues this scenic beach town with an air of seclusion. It can be awfully romantic here in the fall, or even winter, when you’re cozied up in a quiet inn. Even the most luxurious guesthouses often drop their off-season rates to well below $100 nightly. Russian River, California Gay residents of San Francisco and the Bay Area have long favored this snug, woodsy riverresort area in western Sonoma County, midway between the fabled Wine Country and the rugged Pacific Coast. Accommodations tend to be rustic, which fits xvith the region’s verdant setting, and restaurants favor simpler and less expensive fare than what you’ll find in the swankier eastern reaches of Sonoma County, where most of the areas wineries are located. Ifyou and your honey love wine-tasting, hiking, and canoeing together, the Russian River is ideal. Salt Spring Island, British Columbia Salt Spring Island is a stunning, hilly little gem off the east coast of Vancouver Island, ~vithin an afternoon’s combined ferry/car trip from the cities ofVancouver, Victoria, and Seattle. There has long been a strong lesbian and - and to a somewhat lesser degree - gay male presence on this island of artist studios, great beaches, and picturesque mountain-biking and kayaking. Several B&Bs here are either gay-owned or quite queer-friendly, and it’s very easy to find a room for under $100. North-Central New Mexico North-Central New Mexico makes for the perfect weeklong romantic adventure. You can divide your time among a tiny, alluring village (Tats), a midsize city with some fun places to dance and eat out (Albuquerque), and a hybrid of the two (Santa Fe) - it takes about 60 minutes to drive between Santa Fe and Albuquerque, and 90 minutes between Santa Fe and Taos. Santa Fe is the priciest of the three communities, so you might want to base your overnight operations primarily in Albuquerque and Taos, which each have myriad accommodations under $100 nightly, from gay-friendly B&Bs to funky retro-hip motels. Even in Santa Fe, however, you can find some appealing places to stay that won’t cost you an arm and a leg. There are also scenic campgrounds set around the area and, wherever you awaken, it’ll be to views of the region’s spectacular Sangre de Cristo and Sandia mountains. Although plenty of fancy upscale restaurants have opened in these parts in recent years, it’s still easy to eat cheaply at local - and often excellent - hangouts serving burgers and blue-corn enchiladas. Etrreka Springs, Arkansas A curious hilltop village in the heart of Arkansas’ Ozark Mountains, Eureka Springs is a favorite getaway of both conservative 20 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com Christians and gay people. How these two seemingly at-odds factions vacation together So peacefully is anybody’s guess, but they do. It helps that most of the queer folk tend to stay in the historic, renovated, and downright bargain-priced Victorian inns closer to the center of town, while religious groups favor the properties on the main roads leading in and out of the village. The downtown has blossomed in recent years with a growing number of antiques shops and galleries, and the restaurant scene is sophisticated while still providing great value. Despite the many gay-owned businesses here, this isn’t a nightlife mecca. Eureka Springs is definitely BYOB - bring your own bedmate. Single and looking? Chicago, Illinois Vibrant and friendly low-attitude bars and clubs and a slew of cheap but delicious dining destinations entice impecunious gay travelers to the nation’s third-largest city, a world-class destination by aW measure. Beaches, lakeshore parks, and funky budget-friendly neighborhoods like \Vicker Park, Bucktown, and Andersonville add to the lure of this easy-on-the-pocket city. Downtown business-oriented hotels can be costly, but you’ll find a handful of small, reasonably priced motels, hotels, and inns to the north, in or near the city’s gaypopular Lakeview neighborhood. Chicago’s glorious skyline is free to admire. To see even more, the Chicago Transit Authority (www. transitchicago.com) visitor passes provide unlimited CTA transportation for one to five days, allowing you to save your dollars for more meaningful expenses. Austin, Texas Queer Austin folks like to say that they live in the "un-Texas" Texas, a land of green rolling hills, beautiful lakes and rivers, a progressive populace, and an urbane alternative arts and music scene. As Austin has boomed with dot-comers and entrepreneurs in recent years, its costs have risen, but it’s still a good value, especially when it comes to dining out - Austin has scads of superb restaurants in all price categories. The bar scene is compact and the crowds friendly, and the presence of the University ofTexas adds a youthful edge. There’s a great gay swimming and sunning hole, Hippie Hollow, just west of the city - a free and friendly spot to cruise and make new friends. Pordand, Oregon Like Austin, funky Portland has received plenty of attention and an influx of newcomers in recent years, but it’s still a scaled-down, user-friendly city that offers much of the culture, attitude, and excitement of Seattle and San Francisco at a fraction of the price. The midsize metropolis sits on the pretty Willamette River. Foodies recognize it as one ofAmerica’s great gourmet bargains, and fans of historic hotels and inns appreciate the reasonable rates offered at several excellent properties within walking distance of the gay bars along Stark Street. The feminist scene here is one ofAmerica’s most pronounced, making this a potentially excellent vacation spot if you’re a single lesbian hoping to find a like-minded soul. Montreal, Quebec For U.S. travelers, Canada is less of a bargain than it was five years ago, as the Canadian dollar has gained considerable strength against U.S. currency. Still, Montreal can be a steal, with numerous gay-friendly hotels and inns charging as little as $50 or $60 per night. This fun-loving city is a great destination for bar-hoppers - the singles scene is frisky and sexy, and sultry gay saunas dot the landscape, appealing to guys of all ages and tastes. The city also has dozens of affordable cafes and coffeehouses, many of them in the hip Gay Village. Sacramento, California California’s underrated capital is, to be frank, a dark-horse candidate as one of the nation’s top gay singles destinations, but keep an open mind. The city is within a two-hour drive of much pricier places, including San Francisco, Lake Tahoe, and the Napa-Sonoma Wine Country, and yet here you can easily find rooms for under $100 nightly. Sacramento boasts a vibrant (if not particularly conspicuous) gay community that is remarkably friendly and diverse in age - it’s a pretty easy place to meet the locals. The dining scene here is excellent, and accommodations range from the gay-owned and upscale Inn at Parkside and Hartley House Inn to a slew of cheap and comfortable chain motels right in the center of the city, within walking distance of the several fun bars, coffeehouses, and restaurants. www.ozarksstar.com the ,STAR 21 MARCH 2007 Are We There Yet? By the time we actually get to vote for our next president, the majority of,aanericans may feel like little children in the back seat of the c~ir asking Mommy and Daddy, "Are we there yet?" The furious nature in which politicos from both sides of the aisle are jockeying, posturing, and pontificating is sure to bring a whiplash effect to the voters - in the long run, the 2008 presidential election will just be a pain in the neck, and we’ll vote for the candidate who gives us the best political pain killers. But who will those two final candidates be? Do we, as a high-voter turnout community, have a real chance to impact the nominee of the Democratic Party? After all, the overwhelming majority of us vote that way. Well, if you live in the states where the Democratic primaries are held in January and February of 2008, then yes - your votes will count toward the Democrats’ pick. As the political calendar shapes up, it seems that 20 Democratic caucuses and primaries will almost definitely be held by February 28, 2008, ~vith a majority taking place on what us political junkies call "Super Tuesday" - February 5. The new wrinkle in this schedule is that powerhouse states such as California, Florida, and New Jersey are toying with the idea of moving up their primaries to the first Tuesday in Februar); as ~vell. (As of press time, it looked like California’s bill to move its primary date was on the fast track to Arnold’s desk for signature.) That’s a big enough chunk of votes to swing a primary race. Bajko says the primary candidates in states with large numbers ofLGBT voters will have to address issues such as repealing "Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell," gay adoptions, and civil unions vs. marriage. It’s during the primaries that the proverbial wheat ~vill be separated from the chaf~: None of the three leading candidates support same-sex marriage. It’s how they handle the issue and the honesty with which they speak that will sway us. For some reason, Tim Russert, the moderator of NBC’s Meet the Press, has been routinely asking presidential aspirants how they feel about same-sex marriage. When John Edwards appeared, he was honest about his struggle. He didn’t just reel off the standard pablum about civil unions. He spoke honestly about his Southern Baptist roots, but also his desire to be fair to all. I could respect that. Hillary’s position on our unions is "evolving" - as strategic a political answer as they come - but she, as well as the rest of the Democratic gang, oppose a federal amendment to ban same-sex marriage, and support the federal Employment Non-Discrimination Act (ENDA) and hate-crimes legislation. Most of them also want to repeal "Don"t Ask, Don’t Tell." Try as I might, I can’t find a thing about Obama’s position on this. But he has made one viewpoint abundantly clear - living free from discrimination is a human right, but being able to marry whomever you want is not. It’s a shame Obama can’t make the connection between our right to love and his parents’. His father was from Kenya, his mother a white woman from Kansas. In a pre-Loving v. Virginia United States (the 1967 Supreme Court case that struck down bans on mixed-race marriage), their marriage was illegal in many states across the land. If that’s the case, everything ~vill be over but the shouting - whoever comes out the victor on Super Tuesday 2008 will be the Democratic nominee. What I’ve been wondering about is the differences on our issues among all the Democratic candidates. The actual number of candidates is so fluid that I won’t even venture a guess. But we do know who the main contenders are - U.S. Senators Hiltary Clinton (N.Y.) and Barack Obama (ILL) and former U.S. Senator John Edwards (N.C.). Following them are two more U.S. senators, Joe Biden (Del.) and Christopher Dodd (Conn.); two governors, Bill Richardson (N.M.) and Tom Vilsack (Iowa); one retired U.S. army general, Wesley Clark; a lone member of the House of Representatives, Dennis Kucinich (Ohio); and one African-American preacher, Al Sharpton. With 21 months to go before we actually get to vote, we’re going to see and hear a lot more hyperbole and posturing. I only hope that "Are we there yet?" doesn’t turn into "Been there, done that" - leaving many of us too bored to actually get out and vote. EDITOR’S NOTE: In her next installment, Libby Post will look at the Republican presidential hopefuls. Most of them have campaign websites. All but Clinton’s detail their positions on the major issues, but none speak specifically about LGBT concerns. Honestly, that’s not too surprising. The general election is going to won or lost on Iraq, health care, the economy, and quite possibly global warming. However, the primaries in some states may well be won or lost on our issues, based on how big of a voter turn-out we can provide. According to an article by Matthew Bajko in San Francisco’s Bay Area Reporter, California’s electorate is 10 to 11 percent LGBT. 22 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com 0p÷ a ms Ye th Preiect addresses the r eeds of Tu sa’s homeless youth, by Tim Gillean Photo by Chaz: Youth groz~ at T~dsa’s Openarms Youth Project. event. "While there, a young man walked in stating that he "was looking for his friends, he lingered, even a~er realizing they were not there. Over the next hour as the discussion continued, while we were doing our work, he revealed that he was homeless and someone had told him that Openarms could help. He took a chance that someone would be there and came by. His "ChristiaN’ mother had kicked him out because he is Gay. Our work continues. LGBT Homeless from page-5 Openarms has been addressing the needs of homeless youth in the Tulsa area for five years. By offering a safe haven for GLBTQyouth, and in fact all youth ages 14-21, Openarms has become the resource in Tulsa for these youth. A transitional living program has been the hope and dream of the Openarms board for many years. During the fours years that Openarms has been in operation, this past summer was the busiest period for youth homelessness. Within a two week period last summer Openarms was assisting six youth who had come to the youth center for help. To have that many homeless youth at one time is very unusual and something that the volunteers at Openarms hope can be prevented by early intervention. Through a net~vork of volunteers and networking with other agencies all of the youth were placed in a private home or public facility where their needs could be addressed without the extra feeling of desperation that homelessness brings. Openarms experience shows that most of the public facilities in Tulsa are not really prepared to address the issues that a homeless teen may face, and even less capable of dealing with a GLBT youth who might turn up at their facilities. Many of the shelters in Tulsa where assistance is available require the person to attend some type of religious ceremony to continue to access service. These services can be particularly terrifying to a youth who was just kicked out of their home because their parents won’t accept their sexuality based on their own religious biases. By providing a safe space where these youth are accepted for who they are, just as they are, Openarms is able to connect with them and find what their most pressing needs are. Openarms then begins to address those needs and help the youth develop in to a fully participating citizen. Openarms can provide education assistance, job assistance, food, housing and counseling for these youth. Most important of all it is a place ~vhere they can be with people who are like themselves working towards the same goals. All youth have the desire to succeed if provided with the necessary tools to do so and an understanding adult to help mentor them into their full potential. While Openarms continues to seek funding for a transitional living program, the support of the local community through unrestricted giving is the most effective way to help. Openarms Youth Project Inc. may be contacted at 918-838-7104 or through their website at www.openarmsproject.org. We are always glad to give tours of the facility located at 2015 South Lakewood, please call for an appointment or times of operation. One hour after writing this article for the Star, we went to the youth center to work on some lighting changes and furniture rearrangement for the upcoming Saturday evening While there is clearly more that can be .done at the grassroots level, in the end it is not enough to beat this epidemic without additional funding and support at the federal level. The president’s budget was released last month and Congress will begin work on the FY2008 budget and appropriations bills. The Task Force is recommending $140 million in FY2008 for the RHMCPA, a significant increase over its current $103 million allocation but Congress needs to do more. When the law is reauthorized in 2008 it needs to specifically address the needs of LGBT homeless youth and ensure that all homeless youth services organizations receiving federal funds are trained and capable of providing safe and culturally competent services to their LGBT clients. It is important that our allies in Congress insist that this pivotal piece of legislation accurately acknowledges and addresses the reality of youth homelessness in America -- nationwide, LGBT youth are grossly overrepresented in a system ill-equipped to meet their needs, and that simply must change. Jason Cianciotto is the research director of the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force Policy Institute. wwvv.ozarksstar.corn The STAR 23 www.ozarksstar.com the STAR, 25 Salutations and welcome once more to sluts "R" us, err something like that. This month Uncle Mikey recovers from a love affair of epic proportions. I mean whe~a; that man was just too much. It was like being at the DQand trying to take that extra dip, knowing your body, just won’t handle it. I mean; it just was not right. While appealing, some mountains just are not meant to be climbed. Sadly, I had to cut that stallion loose, sending him back into the ~vild. I hope he does not do any damage; talk about putting your eye out. I bet the censors are just on the edge of their seats. I guess, I do sound a little like a prom date gone bad. That man of substantial lovin’ made more of an impression than I realized. Kittens, I tried, really I did. You just can’t get a twelve in a size ten; I don’t care hmv you work it. Dear Uncle Mikey, At the college I attend, I have met, well kind of met, this man. He is in some of my classes and all I can say is he is fine. He makes me perk up every time I see him. I have seen him with several females, assuming that he is straight. To tell you the truth that just makes the attraction stronger. I want him only for a short time. These are my, college years, I’m supposed to experiment. So, should I just get him drunk so he can enjoy my talents? I really xvant this guy, so bad I have been ignoring the guys who would gladly enjoy my company. What should I do? Frat-boy-lecious A.K.A. butter, you know what you want, and I would even say, you have already greased the kegger nozzles, awaiting your fiat boy knight. Uncle cautions however, as though some straight wayward boys may let you play, some may not. Oh’ who are we kidding, order him a pizza and seal the deal. A straight college boy is like a walking drive through; you can have it your way, if there is a good supply of beer and pizza. That’s Amour’ Smooches-Michael errands, ect. I do not want to be one of those jealous types, questioning every move. I also do not want to be living with someone else who is living with everybody. Know what I mean? \~q~at would you do? Suspecting in Ohio Dearest Suspecting, Kitten, I te!l this repeatedly. If they are not getting it at home, they are getting it some~vhere. Via, liaison, hand-to-hand combat, somewhere, a man is a man after all. Secondly, if you feel something is amiss than more likely than not, there is. I would sit your man down and confront him with you feelings, prepared to hear whatever it is awaiting for you. Communication can be taken for granted after being with someone for a while, though never does the importance change in any relationship. He may be wondering why you two are not doing the bunny mambo across the front lawn anymore. Take it a step at a time, as anything and anyone xvorth having is worth working for. Smooches-Mikey Dear Mikey, Where did your site go? I really enjoyed it and miss going there every week. A fan of Mikey’s Kitten, You have touched me; moreovm; I am willing to touch back. Kitten, The world is not ready for an entire corner of Mikey, lets break them in slowly shall we? Smooches- Mikey Dear Uncle Mikey, My friends all give me a hard time telling me that I am stuck in the eighties. While; this is a joke to some, it is a way of life for me. I belong to that time, style, and music. It was a time that meant something more than found in the hollow music and style of today. Bring back the eighties! Mrs.. Garret’s boy Dearest Kitten, Gimme-a-break! A virgin you are not, while time has turned and the beat goes on. You must accept the, facts of life, if you really want to enjoy the good-times. This is a serious condition even if spoken through careless whispers. Hanging on to the past can only prevent you from seeing the new and exciting times of today. You may be missing opportunity if you are looking behind you. If you want to hear anyone say, I want your sex, than you must nip it in the bud so to speak. Like a prayer, I send you good thoughts. Let go and let Cher! ...Smooches-Mikey Get with it, don’t you wish your Gurl was Hot like me? Yes, Kittens, Uncle Mikey is timeless, whilst my flame shall lead yet another generations ofyoung queers everywhere. Well Kittens, I guess that is all the time for this month. Until next, time. Smooches-Uncle Mikey Uncle Mikey, I think my boyfriend of ten years has been seeing someone on the side. I have no real proof per say, just a nagging feeling in my gut. Sex has become strained, and I figured it was just because we had become so routine in our ways. I now see him acting like he is getting ready for a hook up though he tells me, working late, going on 26 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com CLUB MAJESTIC: Talent Show ~vlRachael Erikks THE COPA: Open Talent w/Shemoane Somemore 10:30pro FINISHLINE: Dart Tournament I 0pm LEDO: Kari-Okie host, Pancho 9pro THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pm NIGHTINGGALE THEATER-Tulsa WhOOfl "i’he Roadshow 8pro THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pro CLUB iVlAJESTIC: Majestic Kings Shmv 10pro. rch 10 THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pro GUSHERS: Late Night Breakfast Buffet lam-3:30am SAT THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pm GUSHERS: Late Night Breakfast Buffet 1 am-3:30am NIGHTINGGALE HEATER-Tulsa \VhOOfl "Ihe Roadshow 8pro BAMBOO LOUNGE: Free Brunch 2pm, Dancers 4prn CLUB !vtAJESTIC: Catia Lee Love Show 10pro THE COPA: Rachael Erikks Show 10:30pro BAMBOO LOLFNGEi Free Brunch 2pro, Dancers 4pro CLUB MAJESTIC: Carla Lee Love Show 10pro THE COPA: Rachael Eril&s Show 10:30pro MO BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pm TUESDAY March 6 THE COPA: Strip-OffContesr 12am WEDNESDAY March 7 BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pro. 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MONDAY March 19 BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pro. biarch 20 THE COPA: Strip-OffComest Midnight. M BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pm. TUES 7~ THE COPA: Strip-Off Contest Midnight. ?WEDNESDAY March~ BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pro THE COPA: Variety Shiny 10:30pro HNISHLINE: Dart Tournament 10pro WEDNES 21 BAMBOO LOUNGE: Kaaoke 9pro THE COPA: Variety Show 10:30pro HNISHLINE: Dart Tournament 10pro THURSDAY March 22 CLUB MAJESTIC: Talent Shoxv w/ Rachael Erikks THE COPA: Open Talent w/Shemoane Somemore 10:30pm FINISHLINE: Dart Tournament 10pm LEDO: Kari-Okie host, Pancho 9pm TULSA P.A.C. CHAPMAN HALL: Les Folies Russes 7pm THURSDAY 9 CLUB MAJESTIC: Talent Show wt RachaeI Erikks THE COPA: Open Talent w/Shemoane Somemore 10:30pro FINISHLINE: Dart Tournament 10pro LEDO: Kari-Okie host, Pancho 9pro FI~JDAY March 30 THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pro SAT ~ch 31[ THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pm GUSHERS: Late Night Breakfast Buffet l am-3:30am After Dark is a free service ro our advertisers and is the responsibility of the advertiser m inform the STAR in www.ozarksstar.com writing of updates, additions or discontinued events. The STAR is not responsible for accurac): the STAR 27 "Clean house, Virgo!" The Saturn-Neptune opposition, which inflates everyone’s sense of doom and despair, is getting a break as Jupiter offers liberating insights. ARIES (March 20 -April 19): Stuck in the same old routine with your friends? You could suggest something new and different. Better yet, just go ahead and try out whatever interests you. Let them tag along or not. TAURUS (April 20 - May 20): Domestic duties and uncertainty at work have you in a crazy, confusing tug-of-war. Even if you can’t really escape your problems, a diversion - preferably a crazy, wildly erotic adventure - will help clear the mind and give you a creative perspective. GEMINI (May 21 - June 20): Listen to arguments; only say enough to draw out new opinions. Trying to win debates will only backfire; getting n.ew information and perspectives will prove immensely enriching, not just intellectually, but also to your relationship. CANCER (June 2t - July 22): It’s not unusual for erotic ideals to be at odds with practical concerns, but you’re feeling that tension acutely now. Attending to your own health or seeking opportunities at work may seem a diversion from that, but at least you’ll find some resolution to the conflict there. LEO (July 23 - August 22): Uncertainty about your partnership can make you cranky and controlling, which only makes things worse. Look for new ways to play together. A trip abroad would be ideal, but on such short notice a foreign film, festival, or art show is probably more feasible. VIRGO (August 23 - September 22): Home is rarely a safe haven from illness and accidents. But cleaning house, purging clutter, and organizing what’s left will make it safer. Getting family to help, or turning up old family treasures, will offer revelations. LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): Discuss political or social strategies with close friends, or better yet, a sibling. On your own, you’re too likely to make awkward gaffes. Lady Luck seems to be against you now, but you’ll score big in the larger game for being a good sport. SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): Hidden treasure in your home? Or some enriching family lore from your mother? Something should turn up that may seem to provoke a professional challenge but will actually help you clear that hurdle. 28 the STAR SAG~TTARIUS (November 22 - December 20): You really can’t stay out of arguments now, so just don’t take them too seriously. You will flub some basic details and facts and undermine your own assertions. Provoking discussion and learning from your mistakes are good, too. CAPRICORN (December 21 -January 19): Sex and money are typical sources of worry. Problems, however real, are much smaller than they seem. Stop fretting, pull back, relax, and meditate - or take a hike. Getting perspective is half the battle - and, sensibly, it should be the first half! AQUARIUS (January 20 - ~ebruary 18): If you meet your "perfect love" now, it could be a disastrous mistake. Run as fast and far as you can. Even indulging in mere lust is an invitation to horrible diseases. Existing relationships need work, too, but at least there is hope with some help from your friends. 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CAF Host OHahoma Summit 2007 OkJahoma County Commissioner Brent Rinehart from District 2, a practicing public homophobe, was formally arraigned earlier this month. 4© PAST OUT The murder of gay sailor Allen Schindler in October 1992 contributed to a national debate about GLBT people in the military that remains unresolved to this day. Let’s Rodeo Oklahoma - page 6 Mr, C~ntinental 2006 Gay Travelers "Indianapolis, Indiana Out of Town " Denver, Colorado" ~ D~V~N$~ITY Wl~l~l~ND Good, clean, Christian fun...is not the way to describe the "Gayco" comedy show that took the stage of Eureka Springs’ Auditorium during the spring Diversity xXi’eekend. Simba R. Hal! at Club Majestic Tulsa - page 15 GLBT Summit .............. 5 Let’s Rodeo ............... 6 James Nimo .............. 11 OUT in Arkansas ........... 12 Past Out .................. 14 The Wine Rack ............. 16 Ciao Travel ................ 17 Lesbian Notions ............ 22 Star Scene ................ 24 After Dark ................ 27 Horoscopes ............... 28 Distributors ............... 29 Cartoons .................. 30 Classifieds ................ 31 DISTRIBUTION: Fine Dining at Hotel Bel Air - page 17 )KLAHOMA CITY * TULSA * LAWTON * MCALESTER * ENID * LITTLE ROCK * NORTH LITTLE RODK * FAYETTEVILLE * FT SMITH * EUREKA SPRINGS * HOT SPRINGS * BENTONVILLE * ROGERS * KANSAS CITY * SPRINGFIELD * JOPLIN * BRANSON AREA * WICHITA* PITTSBURG * JUNCTION CITY 4 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com �¢ ARRON ALLIANCE FOUNDAo T ON (CAF) HO$1" OKLAHOMA LGBT LEADERSHIP 2007 By Jeanne Flanigan Community Partners were OKC Community Foundation, Respect Diversity Foundation, Herland Sister Resources, Winds House, P-FLAG OKC and Norman, North Care Mental Health Center, Cathedral of Hope, Progressive Alliance, DBA Metro, Central Oklahoma Prime Timers, Red Rock Behavioral Health Services, Hard News Online, OKC Pride, Oklahoma Gay and Lesbian Political Caucus, Oklahomans for Equality, OSU Sexual Orientation Diversity Association (SODA), OCU Gay and Lesbian Law Student Association, Log Cabin Republicans of Oklahoma, Central Oklahoma Stonewall Democrats, OKC Chrysalis Education Affirmation Network, ACLU of Oklahoma, AIDS Walk OKC, Heartstrong, the Trevor Project, Central Oklahoma Human Rights Alliance, and OU GLBT & Friends. For more information contact the Cimarron Alliance Foundation, website www.cimarronalliance.org, e mail RCO@lawokc.com or telephone (405) 495 9300. Photo:Josh Hammers, Paul 7horn?son male co-chair Oklahoma Gay and Lesbian Political Caucus, Mike McLain u~ith Hardnezvs Online. OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__Cimarron Alliance Foundation (CAF) hosted the Oklahoma LGBT Leadership Summit at the beautiful Ron Norick Downtown Library Saturday, April 14 with over 140 attending representing 33 organizations. The conference featured local presenters in the areas of politics, education, and the issues of the LGBT community, women, seniors, Pride events, religion, health and organizational processes and development in 18 breakout sessions. CAF was able to tackle this huge project with the help of 27 Community Partners and a National Sponsor, the Human Rights Campaign (HRC). Breakfast and lunch were served, allowing participants an opportunity to meet and greet others and net-work with other organizations. Several people from Tulsa attended, sharing with OKC their success with the recent opening of their Dennis R. Nell Equality Center and other projects. There were attendees from other places as well, as far axvay as Tennessee and Wyoming. Official greetings were extended from Oklahoma County Commissioner Jim Roth, OKC City Council members Sam Bowman and Ann Simank, State Senators Connie Johnson & Andrew Rice, and Oklahoma State Representative Al McAffrey. CAF President Richard Ogden and DBA (Diversity Business Association) President Monty Milburn facilitated the opening and closing sessions, geared to open discussion and responses to the education presented. A survey was gathered to assess the conference and to guide planning to make the next one even more responsive to community needs and desires. www.ozarksstar.com Activists Launch Statewide LG Advocacy By Laura Belmonte TULSA, OK__On March 24-25th, activists from across Oklahoma gathered at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to formulate plans for statewide LGBT advocacy efforts. Sponsored by Oklahomans for Equality, the Creation Weekend meetings were facilitated by Toni Broaddus, Executive Director of the Equality Federation, Mickey Maclntyre of Real Change Partners, and Jeremy Pittman, Deputy National Field Director for the Human Rights Campaign. The Gill Foundation provided financial support. Representatives from several organizations including the Cimarron Alliance, H.O.P.E. Testing Clinic, OSU’s SODA (Sexual Orientation Diversity Association), Tulsa C.A.R.E.S., and RAIN attended. Throughout the meetings activists discussed their hopes and expectations of statewide LGBT organizing. They identified longrange political goals including non-discrimination in housing and employment, relationship recognition, safe schools, hospital visitation rights for same-sex partners, and hate crimes laws that include sexual orientation and gender expression. They also discussed possible strategies for statewide coalition-building, lobbying, voter registration and education, and electing LGBT and LGBT-friendly public officials throughout Oklahoma. A steering committee to direct these efforts is currently being formed. Interested organizations and activists are urged to participate and can contact Laura Belmonte, president of Oklahomans for Equality, at center@okeq.org for more information. For complete video coverage of Creation Weekend, see http://okgnn.net/ the STAR 5 �DBAT Hosts First Business After Hours by Suzan Hartman TULSA, OK__Business is built on relationships and what better time to start developing those relationships than during Tulsa Pride 2007! The Diversity Business Association of Tulsa, a program of Oklahomans for Equality, will host their first Business After Hours event on Thursday, June 7 from 7:00 to 9:00pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Business After Hours offers excellent networking opportunities for area glbt business owners and professionals. All members of the business community are invited to attend and refreshments will be provided. There is no cost so join us at this wonderful social gettogether and make new contacts or to get reacquainted xvith former contacts. DBAT provides a forum to the gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender business and professional community and its allies for the purpose of networking, professional development, creating increased visibility and strengthening relationships among business and professional community members. We’re the heart of LGBT networking and business growth. We support. We lead. We promote professional development, business diversity and personal enrichment - so get involved today! For more information contact Susan Hartman at slhartman@cox.net or 918274-1699. GET READY [:OR THE 22nd ANNUAL GREAT PLAINS RODEO By Greg Steele OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__One of the longest running and largest of Gay Rodeo Organizations in the International Gay Rodeo Association (IGRA) system, Oklahoma’s Great Plains Rodeo will kick offa fun filled weekend May 25 through May 27th 2007. The event will be held in Oklahoma City at State Fair Park, 333 Gordon Cooper Blvd. Registration will be Friday 6pm to 9pm at State Fair Park Barn 3. Rodeo performance’s will begin Saturday morning 8am with the Grand Entry around noon. The event will wind down with the awards ceremony 8pm in Barn 3. Over $10,000 in cash and prizes will be awarded. The 2007 Rodeo has added money for Bull Riding, Bronc Riding, Steer Riding, Calf Roping on Foot, Breakaway Roping, Team Roping, Barrels, Poles and Flags will only be awarded to the top three place winners for combined scores Saturday and Sunday. Awards will also include Saddles for Top Men and Women Roping and Speed Events. The host hotel is Hollywood H~tel and Suites, 3535 NW 39th OKC, OK 73112 405-947-2351. Events Schedule ......... Continued page-23 6 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com �www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 7 �8 the STAR ww~.ozarksstar.com �Tulsa Pride United for Equality June 2 - lent Outdoor Living Mitchell Savage Smith Hid-(:entury Nodern Gem Home of Rex Ball and Stephen Edwards Iplewood Secret ~3arden Home o1: Harcy Smitl~ Welcl~ Pride Festival Saturday June 9th at Veteran’s Park - 18th & Main in Downtown Tulsa 11:00 AM -5:00 PM Over 15,000 expected to attend! Parade begins 10:00 AM - 15th & Utica to LGBT Pride FestivalVeterans Park presented by oklahomans for equality (OkEq) 621 E 4th Street* Tulsa, OK wwN.ozarksstar.com the STAR 9 �LoPA~GE by Hr. Continental 2006 S~MBA HALL & Special gues~: SANTANA & TRIXIE DELUXXE CAYNE wihh Zsane’ Braxton, Ebony Hall, Krystal DeKanter, Bobby Paige !21 to dria~k www.OKContinental.com No Video Recording "At Century 21 Gold Castle our BEST prope~ies are our PEOPLU’ 4301 NW fi3rd, Suite 100 Oklahoma City, OK 73116 405.840.2t06 www. c21 goldcastle.com 10 the STAR w~v, ozarksstar.com �Commissioner Brent Rinehart’s a Piece of.olToast, (his future, that is) By James Nimmo OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__Oklahoma County Commissioner Brent Rinehart from District 2, a practicing public homophobe, was formally arraigned earlier this month for serious Oklahoma campaign law violations (ten by my count) ranging from perjury and filing false campaign reports to accepting illegal contributions from third parties and conspiracy against the state during his campaign in 2004. According to Attorney-General Drew Edmondsoffs office Rinehart, and his campaign manager Tim Pope (Pope, a former state legislator who carried a gun in his boot on to the floor of the House because he said gay, were after him, he was also found guilty of illegal campaign telemarketing in March for calls directed against Commissioner Jim Roth) are charged in Oklahoma Count), District Court with one count of conspiracy against the state, two counts of money laundering and three counts of knowingly accepting a contribution to a political candidate through an intermediary or conduit with unlawful intent. Additionally, Rinehart faces four counts of perjury. group letter the same day, as Rinehart’s arraignment in which they promised to maintain character and integrity in the face of these serious allegations of misconduct by Rinehart. In his defense, Mr.. Rinehart has spoken of a personal vendetta being directed against him by the Attorney-General and the "good ’ole boy" system he claims is responsible for his predicament. At a press conference Rinehart (Phonto right) said, "I will continue to serve the public despite the good old boy demands that I abandon public office. I look forward to my day in court where the facts ~vill reveal that I am innocent of the politically motivated charges made by Drew Edmondson." Run-of-the-mill political shenanigans you might yawn, but stay with me. Does the "good ’ole boy" system include the Oklahoma State Bureau of Investigation which did the ground work for the indictments? Does it also include the OK County District Attorney David Prater who, on April 11, 2007, made the legal determination that there is no current law which can remove Rinehart from office under only allegations of wrongdoing Prater concluded that conviction must first be found in court concluded DA Prater. If you’re LGBT or an ally, you know that Mr.. Rinehart, only just past the half-way mark in his first term, is finally getting his comeuppance as a public figure. From day one of his term he has ragged on Commissioner Jim Roth, District 1, for advancing what Rinehart thinks is the much talked about but seldom seen, "gay agenda". It’s so easy to tease Rinehart as he leaves himself so wide open, and his delusions are indeed grand. In an interview with TV-4 he said (and I paraphrase) "the good ’ole boys want to get me, want to get me, right now, want to get me, take me down, because they know one day I’ll be governor." Why does Rinehart think he’s had a look at the "gay agenda"? I haven’t seen it and I’ve paid lots of dues in time and money. Does Rinehart know somebody I don’t? Does he have a secret handshake? He seems to walk and talk in the normal way. These words are nearly verbatim, repetitions included. His mantra of referring to the "good ’ole boys" so often makes me think no one played with him as a child. He still feels like an outsider. He prides himself on his role as a maverick yet he has nothing constructive to show for it. He never learned to socialize and he’s carrying this grudge even now as he digs his hole of seclusion ever deeper. The only gay agenda I’ve seen is my own: to be treated under law in the same way as any other tax-paying citizen, irrespective of my sexual orientation, and according to my own observance of existing law. I’m paying the same fare as a straight man; I expect the same first-class ticket. In January 2005 Rinehart was one of 3 on the Oklahoma County, Budget Board (al! 8 county elected officials) who voted to rescind Oklahoma County’s policy of non discrimination for County employees that incudes sexual orientation. (The repeal efforts failed) There have been numerous articles in the Oklahoma City media about Rinehart being unable to work effectively with the other OK Count), officeholders. All the County elected officials issued a Who would have thought he wanted to be governor? Would such a mark of victory expunge the feelings of exclusion from his psyche? Does he need something bigger than a county commissioner’s office to assuage his private demons? Personally, I can hardly wait for Rinehart’s days in judicial court as well as the court of public opinion. Even should he be found not guilt), I doubt if the voters of District 2 will want to continue Rinehart’s employment for another term as commissioner. Challengers from all political viewpoints now have a good lead time to establishing themselves with the voters of District 2. \Vho wants stale toast to represent them at the County office? www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 11 �Eureka Diversity Rains Supreme Going a step further than hand holding, organizers arranged a public display of affection in the town’s Basin Park, during which a young lesbian proposed to her partner. by Joey De As a living memorial to a lost friend of one Diversity Pride Committee member, the weekend featured a "Recovery in Pride" forum hosted by Mr. Marty Perry, the CEO of The Pride Institute. Followed by a self-help style meeting, the forum allowed participants to discuss how their sexuality may have influenced substance abuse or support healthy ways for them to overcome it. EUREKa, SPRINGS, AR~If Disney Land is the happiest place on earth, Eureka Springs, Arkansas, must be a close second. Nesded in the Ozarks, an hour away from Branson, MO, Eureka has made its name as a tourist destination with its eclectic array of nick-nack shops, historical architecture and southern hospitality. The community’s dozen-plus annual festivals help to attract a diverse crowd of visitors from across the country, including the ’iGaylien beings" who landed there from Apr. 13 - 15. Coinciding on the same weekend with Eureka’s annual UFO convention (yes, you read right), the Spring Diversity celebration welcomed beings of all.types to inhabit the streets of the quiet town. Although attendance was significantly reduced due to weather through out the region, visitors came from as far away as Ohio to explore the streets of Eureka Springs. As laid back as the town itself, Diversity Pride offered a mix of events designed to appeal to couples who are past the up-allnight party phase of their life and to those who still don’t go down until the sun comes up (take it as you will). Many of the events showcased the town itself, spotlighting the forty five gay owned restaurants, dubs and businesses. Locals happily hosted tours of the area, diversity meals and spiritual events for the mostly 28-35 crowd who braved the rain, snow and ice. Advertised as a "Diversity Pride" festival, the weekend was more about embracing diversity than it was celebrating pride. With no major central event such as an all day picnic or parade, visitors were more integrated through out the community then at most Prides, where celebrants flock to one location. Although there was a visible show of pride in rainbow feathered boas and flags, the refreshing attraction of the weekend was its lack of spectacle. "It’s nice to be able to come to a town where you feel like you’re the ’norm’" expressed one gaylian visiting from St. Louis. "It’s refreshing to see people walking around holding their partner’s hand on the street." 12 the STAR evening when the younger crowd to finally show it’s face. Although inhibited by a lack of sunshine, the 2007 Eureka Springs Diversity Pride Celebration followed through with a promise made to all of its visitors. All beings were welcome. De For visitots who did not Good, clean, ..is not way to describe "Gayco" comedy the of Eureka Auditoduring the i Diversity par- in organized events, the shops of Eureka opened their doors, with many offering a "family discount." leries, jewelers and a puppet shop welcomed were browsing, buying and in some cases trying to escape the rain. ticipate Highlighting the weekend for visitors of all ages ~vas the return appearance of Chicago’s "Gayco" show, who offered two performances in the town’s historic "Auditorium." The group, who specializes in improvisational comedy offered a master’s workshop for visitors and even posed for pictures with gaylians after their show. For those who grew tired of shopping (or the endless up-hill walking) the bars of Eureka provided an impressive array of entertainment choices for a town its size. Whether visiting Henri’s, Jack’s Place or Chelsea’s for live music, Karaokeing with "Tiny" at Uncle Tuckers; or dancing the night away at The Tiki Torch, the liquor flowed and the good times rolled into the Following the success of the ’ appearance last year, Organizers of diversity weekend brought the troupe back to tackle pressing issues in the gay world such as marriage, don’t ask don’t tell, adoption and coming out. With a well articulated mix of low and high brow humor, the seven Gayco players entertained audiences with their unique blend of improvisational and sketch comedy. Originating as a gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender outreach project of the legendary Second City Comedy Club in Chicago, Gayco has been entertaining communities across the nation for almost eleven years. "Second City saw us as a one maybe two show outreach to the GLBT community," says Andy Eninger, one of the group’s founders. According to the performer, although there is no formal relationship between the two groups, they maintain a close working friendship. "We outgrew them, and they xvanted us to spin off and do our own thing, but they still watch us closely." Continued page-26 www.ozarksstar.com �www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 13 �Who was Allen Schindler? As word spread that Schindler was gay and discharge proceedings were underway, the abuse increased. "It scares me a little," he wrote. "You never know who would want to injure me or cease my existence." By late October, the Belleau Wood had reached Sasebo and Schindler’s confinement had ended. He began frequenting local bars, where he met a group of gay American entertainers, including dancer Eric Underwood, whom he told about the harassment. The murder of gay sailor Allen Schindler in October 1992 contributed to a national debate about GLBT people in the military that remains unresolved to this day. Schindler was born in December 1969 and grew up in Chicago Heights, Ill. A mediocre student, he joined the Navy right out of high school to obtain G.I. Bill money to attend veterinary school. He was first stationed in San Diego, where he frequented gay clubs and found a boyfriend. In 1991, he fulfilled his dream of serving aboard the aircraft carrier USS Midway, a ship with a relatively tolerant atmosphere. But after the Midway was decommissioned a year later, he was reassigned to the USS Belleau Wood, which had a reputation for a rough and rowdy crew. Schindler and other sailors suspected of being gay xvere routinely called "faggots" and shoved as they walked the ship’s halls. One night in September 1992, as the ship was en route from San Diego to Sasebo, Japan, Schindler, a radioman, broadcast an unauthorized message, "2-Q-T-2-B-S-T-R8" ("too cute to be straight"), which led to a month-long disciplinary confinement. Soon thereafter, he admitted to commanding officers that he was gay: Though aware that the disclosure would likely lead to his discharge, Schindler nevertheless felt a sense of relief: "If you can’t be yourself, then who are you?" he wrote in his diary. 14 the STAR On the night of Oct. 27, after spending the evening drinking, two of Schindler’s shipmates, Terry Helvey and Charles Vins, followed him into a public bathroom in a park near the base. Helvey began to beat and kick Schindler, with Vins also joining in; Helvey finished off the attack by stomping on Schindler’s throat. As the assailants fled, wimesses arriving on the scene summoned the Shore Patrol, and medics tried to revive Schindler without success. The pathologist who conducted the autopsy reported that Schindler’s injuries were "similar to a highspeed auto accident or a low-speed aircraft accident." His face was beaten so badly that his mother could only identify him by tattoos on his arms. Helvey and Vins were identified by wimesses and arrested the next morning. As Helvey was being led awa); he told a shipmate, "The bastard deserved it." Vins received a quick court-martial and was sentenced to just four months in exchange for testimony against Helvey. The incident received little press coverage until Underwood and his associates wrote a letter to several publications exposing the antigay harassment Schindler had faced. The military newspaper pacific Stars and Stripes printed the lettel; and a reporter from the paper investigated the story, but the Navy tried to cover up the nature of the killing, going so far as to leak a rumor that Schindler and Helvey were gay lovers who had had a falling out. Gay activists raised a furor over the murder, at a time when the issue of gays in the military was high on the national agenda due to Bill Clinton’s campaign promise to lift the ban on GLBT service members. Michael Petrelis of Queer Nation - who vowed to make Schindler the "gay Rodney King" organized a press conference at the Pentagon in December. Friends and supporters held a memorial in San Diego, while the Human Rights Campaign flew Schindler’s mother, Dorothy Hajdys, to Washington to speak at a candlelight vigil. Hajdys, a fundamentalist Christian who initially had trouble accepting that her son was gay; became an unlikely activist for GLBT civil rights. "If you would have told me I would have been at the March on Washington standing before a million people and being seen all over the world, I would have told you you were nuts," she later told an interviewer. Schindler’s killing remained front-page news throughout the spring of 1993. In May, Helvey was court-martialed in Japan, with his defense focusing on his abusive childhood and use of steroids. He admitted the crime, first claiming that Schindler had made a sexual advance in the bathroom and later saying that he found homosexuals "disgusting, sick, and scary." The incident never would have happened, he added, if gays weren’t allowed to join the military. Helvey pleaded guilty to murder with intent to commit great bodily harm, thereby avoiding the death penalty for premeditated murder. In 2002, Hajdys and gay activists successfully opposed his parole, and he continues to serve a life sentence at Fort Leavenworth, Kan. Schindler put an individual face on the debate about gays in the military, with both sides pointing to his murder to justify their positions. In November 1993, President Clinton signed the "Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell" policy into law, after Congress and the Pentagon opposed lifting the ban. According to the Servicemembers Legal Defense Network more than 10,000 men and women have been discharged from the armed forces since the policy went into effect. www.ozarksstar.com �Simba Ro Ha l To Host Miss Oklahoma Cor dnenta At Club Majestic Tulsa. TULSA, OK__Simba R. Hall is a creation and alter ego of LeSean D. Lewis. Simba was introduced to the field of pageantry in 2001 at Mr. and Miss Renaissance in Atlanta, GA. A good friend had heard him sing in the professional arena and needed some vocals to back his poetry. When Simba hit the stage, he was mesmerized. From there, he went to compete for Mr. Liberty, Mr. Renaissance, Mr. Duval, and Mr. Continental. He captured the title of Mr. Renaissance in 2004. This was followed by his win of Mr. Duval 2005 hosted in Jacksonville, FL. Simba R. Hall has always wanted to give back to his gay community. With this in mind, he used Renaissance as a platform to form the King’s Alliance. The King’s Alliance is a compilation of all the male representatives holding National titles. ~Pney perform a National show every year called M.E.N.S. (Male Entertainers of National Systems) Night. They donate all proceeds to a non-profit organization. Over the past three years they have raised over $4000. ~xis was recognized by the elite system that he now represents, Mr. Continental. It took Simba three times to capture this title. Each time he stood in the top five next to the winners, Ray Matthews and Tony Desario. \~qxen Simba won, he started using his popularity throughout the community, adding more benefit shows and fundraisers. He started a couple’s night which 7will feature duets from the kings and queens representing National titles. This is to be held at the Baton in June. He also had a Continental Christmas in Atlanta that raised over $3500 for Child Kind, an organization that cares for terminally ill children. Simba wants to be remembered for bringing the community to the forefront and showing the world that being gay is just a preference. \re are just as human as the next individual. Simba is also working on an album that ~vill be available in the fall. At the current time he is touring the US as Mr. Continental where he receives raves reviews and standing ovations. Simba Hall will Host the Miss Oklahoma Continental on Friday May 25th at Club Majestic in Tulsa at 8pm. This will be the fourth Miss Competition in Oklahoma produced by Monica Freeman. w~v.ozarksstar.com THE AUSTK LIAN BEE GEES SHOW at Tulsa’s Historic Brady Theater TULSA, OK___Having received nothing less than fantastic reviews, "The Australian BEE GEES Show" is coming to Tulsa’s Historic Brady Theater on Friday May 4th. Ttxe house lights fade slowly and there is a cheer of excitement, then a brief moment of anticipation. It begins with a single bass note, then a chime that dances around the room, a whisper of strings, a stab of brass and percussion, a flash of light and the image flickers to life. "The Australian BEE GEES Show" is a multi-media concert event with the state-of-the-art sound, superb lighting and giant screens, featuring video clips, live camera images and stunning graphics. "The Australian BEE GEES Show" has captured the look, the sound and the personality that defines one of the most successful and adored acts in musical history. The show is presented from a contemporary perspective and has evolved to become the definitive live celebration of four decades of wonderful music written by the Brothers Gibb. Ten years in the making, a lot have been said about "The Australian BEE GEES Show", including some kind words from one of the Brothers Gibb’s niece, Deborah McLane, "When I first saw the show I had high expectations of what the performance would be like, those boys did more than exceed my expectations. I was completely moved by their harmonies and the way they perfected the whole Bee Gees image. This is the most outstanding Bee Gees tribute show I have experienced." For one night only, experience the magic, "The Australian ~BEE GEES Show." In concert at Tulsa’s Historic Brady Theater Friday May 4th, 2007. Doors open at 7:00 p.m. and show starts at 8:00 p.m. Tickets cost $27.50 and $32.50 and went on sale beginning at 10 a.m. on Monday March 26th at www.bradytheater.com, w~vw. etix.com, Tulsa’s Historic Brady Theater at 105 West Brady, or by calling the Brady Theater Ticket Office at (918) 582-7239. the STAR 15 ��Tuna Soup with Orange and Avocado Fresh tuna meat is easy to overcook and can sometimes be disappointingly dry and chewy, but in this juicy mixture it stays succulent and delicious. Ingredients: 2 - 3 tbls. Olive Oil 2 Onions (peeled, halved, and very thinly sliced) 2 Garlic Cloves (peeled and finely chopped) 1 tspn. Ground Cumin Pinch of Cinnamon 2 tspn. Chopped Fresh Parsley Finely Grated Zest and Juice of 1 Lime 2/3 cup Orange Juice 1 1/4 Fresh Tuna Steaks (cut into 3/4 inch cubes) 1 3/4 qts. Fish Stock Salt and Freshly Ground Black Pepper 6 Large Tomatoes (cut into short pieces) 2 firm but Ripe Avocados (peeled, pitted) 40 oz. Sugar Snap Peas or Green Beans (cut into neat cubes) Sprigs of Fresh Flat-Leafed Parsley (for garnish) Procedure: 1. Heat the oil in a large saucepan. Add the onions and gently fry until soft and translucent. Add the garlic and gently fry for 2 minutes. 2. Add the cumin, cinnamon, parsley, lime zest and Juice, orange juice, tuna, stock, and a little salt and pepper. Bring to the boil, reduce the heat, cover the pan, and simmer for 15 minutes. 3. Meanwhile, soak the tomatoes in boiling ~vater for several minutes until the skin xvill peel easily away. Cut away the hard cores and chop the flesh. Add to the pan ~vith the sugar snap peas or beans. Simmer for 4-5 minutes. 4. Just before serving the soup, stir the avocado cubes into the pan. Serve immediately, garnished with parsley. Serves: 6 More on the Hotel Bel Air, page 1.19. ��"TRAVELING IN OUR FABULOL by Donald Pile & Ray Williams Featuring Cuisine From Coast HOTEL BEL-AIR 70! Stone Cmnyon Road Los Fmgeles; nitelv the most "~e dining room at the Hotel BeI-Mr is, ~vithout doubt, the most romcamc restaurants on, the planet, and one beautiful ! We dine As it is terribly expensive, we always order consists of a lovely Salad, soup of the day" mad finger sandwiches. And this costs $3~3.00! bur W~rth every pelmy o~it. ~¢~rwiOzarksstar:com �Phe drag-themed Petticoat Bruncheon at Bump & Grind is one ofDenver’s best excuses to get out of bed on weekwnd mo,~vings. (Photo by Andrew Collins) The Capitol Hill neighborhood, which extends east from the Capitol building, is where many of the city’s GLBT residents live. On sunny days, check out lovely Cheesman Park and the nearby the Denver Botanic Garden. If you’re keen on shopping, head a few miles southeast of downtown to the Cherry Creek area, where you’ll find numerous opportunities for browsing and bargain-hunting at upscale Cherry Creek Shopping Center and Cherry Creek North. Tnese two premier shopping destinations contain a mix of top chain and independent stores. In the evening, try out one of the neighborhood’s fine restaurants, such as trendy Ocean, a haute seafood eatery, or North, which serves exceptional modern Italian fare. By Andrew Collins Denver has long been one of the country’s great centers of lesbian and gay culture. The GLBT community here is highly visible - socially, professionally, and politically - and gay-friendly restaurants, bars, hotels, and other businesses are easy to find in a number of prominent neighborhoods. With several new or expanded high-profile museums, easy access to skiing and hiking, a sunny climate, and relative affordability compared with other big urban centers, the Mile High City makes for a highly appealing vacation destination, whether for a couple of days or a full week .of exploration. The city’s bustling, modern downtown skyline is dominated by soaring skyscrapers. Here you can wander along 16th Street, a popular pedestrian mall filled with mostly upscale chain shops. Or explore artsy Larimar Square, a restored Victorian block of hip boutiques and cafes - be sure to check out the Market at Larimer Square, a coffeehouse-bakery-deli where a cool crowd enjoys mocha lattes, hearty breakfast burritos, and hefty pastrami sandwiches. Larimar Square marks the edge of dapper LoDo, which began as the city’s shipping 20 the STAR and retail center in the late 19th century. As recently as the 1980s, however, the neighborhood had been reduced to slums and abandoned brick warehouses. LoDo’s comeback began v,;hen artists started converting these classic redbrick buildings into galleries and studios. A flood of restaurants, coffeehouses, and shops followed, as did stately Coors Field, home to baseball’s Colorado Rockies. You can easily spend a few hours exploring this attractive district, perhaps dropping by the Tattered Cover, one of the country’s most beloved independent bookstores, which has an outstanding GLBT section. Another retail must is Rockmount Ranch Wear, a circa-1940s outlet for authentic Western shirts, belts, hats, and bolo ties - this is the very shop that provided those down-home sexy shirts worn by Heath Ledger and Jake Gyllenhaal in Brokeback Mountain. South of downtown you’ll find Capitol Hill, which is anchored on one end by the giltdomed State Capitol building. It overlooks a grassy mall surrounded by the Colorado History Museum and the spectacular Denver Art Museum, which underwent a dramatic expansion and redesign in 2005. Dining is one area where Denver has truly come into its own in recent years. If you’re a serious foodie, sample one of the restaurants run by Denver’s acclaimed expert on innovative Mexican cuisine, Richard Sandoval. Best bets include Tamayo, near lively Larimer Square, and trendy Zengo, a boldly decorated space just north of LoDo, where Sandoval fuses the best of Asian and Latin cuisine, serving everything from sushi to ceviche. A good bet for dining in LoDo is Vesta, which operates on a quirky premise: you choose three sauces (perhaps pistachio-mint or grilled onion jam) for dipping with whatever entree you choose, from grilled venison to harissa-roasted half chicken. You’ll find simpler fare at Dixon’s Downtown Grill, a nice choice for fish-and-chips and bluecheese burgers, and the festive Wynkoop Brewing Company, which serves the best green chile stew in town, plus a wide range of handcrafted beers. Near Larimer Square, chic Rioja serves creative, world-beat cuisine, such as Dungeness crab-and-shiso spring rolls, and grilled maple-cured pork chops with Calvados sauce. Favorite restaurants on Capitol Hill include I1 Vicino, which turns out creative pizzas and salads along with microbrewed ales, and Sparrow, a convivial neighborhood spot serving such inventive regional American fare as pumpkin-chicken served with pancetta risotto, sage, and cider. The local java chain Diedrich’s Coffee has a particularly gay-popular branch in Capitol Hill, too. www.ozarksstar.com �The city has some great places for breakfast fare, including the gay lave Racine’s, which is open late and serves three meals daily. For amazingly tasty pancakes, head to Snooze, an offbeat storefront space near Coors Field where you might start the morning offwith pineapple-upside~down pancakes or vanilla-almond oatmeal brulee. On weekend mornings, don’t miss the legendary drag brunch, called Petticoat Bruncheon, held at Bump & Grind, a colorful bakery and care. One of city’s great strengths is its cultural scene, with maW of the top events held at the esteemed, high-tech Denver Center for the Performing Arts (DCPA), the second-largest such space in the nation (trailing only New York City’s Lincoln Center). tt comprises several performance venues and hosts everything from nationally touring musicals to acclaimed opera. Before a performance, plan to have dinner at DCPA’s top restaurant, Kevin Taylor’s. In this elegant basement space, sample such creative fare as Black Angus carpaccio with white-truffle oil, or charbroiled Colorado lamb chops with braised lentils and black olive jus. Denver has a friendly, eclectic gay nightlife, with a pleasing mix of hip cocktail lounges, pulsing dance clubs, and friendly neighborhood bars. One of the most popular hangouts is J.R.’s, an upscale, bi-level video bar in Capitol Hill that hosts such entertaining events as gong show karaoke and Broadway musical sing-alongs. Nearby Charlie’s is a famously fun country-western club with line-dancing and two-stepping, plus a restaurant serving decent American fare. The Denver Detour is a mostly lesbian-oriented hangout that’s popular early in the evening for happy hour cocktails - it’s right by the State Capitol. Other good women’s options include tHERe Denver, a lesbian-owned coffeehouse and lounge, and Ms. C’s, a long-running lesbian dance club a 20-minute drive east of downtown. whimsical, retro-fabulous hotel that looks like something out of an Austin Powers movie. Each floor of guestrooms is themed differently - rooms on the eighth level have a sci-fi look, while those on the 12th are done with a get-your-groove-on dance-floor theme. Moderate rates, VW Bug-shaped alarm clocks, and a cool eatery called the Corner Office Restaurant and Martini Bar are among the Curtis’ many charms. If you want to be close to the fabulous shopping of Cherry Creek, consider booking a room at the posh JW Marriott Denver, a contemporary 11-stoW hotel whose cushy accommodations have 32-inch flat-screen TVs, DVD/CD players, marble-and-granite bathrooms, and plush bedding with custom duvets and linens. The sterling service is another plus. One of the most romantic options is the gay-owned Capitol Hill Mansion B&B, a stately Queen Anne Victorian on an attractive residential street. Owners Jay Hadley and Carl Schmidt serve a lavish full breakfast each morning as wel! as refreshments and snacks in the afternoon; guests enjoy such pleasing amenities as free Wi-Fi and fresh flowers in every room, and gas fireplaces, whirlpool tubs, and private balconies in the top units. In the same neighborhood, the gay-friendly Castle Marne B&B offers similarly cushy, antiquesfilled rooms. The imposing 1889 building is one of Denver’s most distinctive houses, with its elaborate turrets and stonework. Probably no Denver hotel is more famous than the prestigious Brown Palace Hote! & Spa, which has hosted such dignitaries as Teddy Roosevelt and Sun Yat-sen during its 115-year tenure. Even if you don’t have a chance to stay in one of the hotel’s lavish rooms, consider dropping by for the daily afternoon high tea or evening cocktails in the famed Atrium Lobby, or for the decadent Dom Perignon brunch held in Ellyngton’s Restaurant on Sunday mornings. Just south of Capitol Hill, the South Broadway area has several notable locals joints, including B.J.’s Carousel, which has its own volleyball court and a casual restaurant. You’ll find a somewhat cruisy bunch at the Compound, a low-attitude dance club that’s popular with everyone from collegiate hipsters to middle-aged bears. The Triangle, for the serious leather crowd, has a big after-hours following and a notoriously frisky basement. And Boyztown is one of the better places in town to watch strippers strut their stuff. Weekends are the best time to check out Denver’s most happening gay nightclub, the always-packed Tracks Denver, a massive warehouse disco with two pulsing dance floors, one spinning the latest club music, the other featuring classic tunes from the ’70s and ’80s. Denver has a number of memorable gay-friendly hotels. The swanky, pet-friendly Hotel Monaco is a top choice for its hip, Parisian-inspired aesthetic and remarkably friendly and helpful service. Vibrant, stylish decor and quirk), in-room touches, such as animal-print robes and pet goldfish, make this downtown boutique property a fan favorite. The on-site restaurant, Panzano, serves firstrate contemporary Italian fare. A new kid on the block that’s earned praise for its stylish look as well as its location across from the Denver Center for the Performing Arts, The Curtis opened early in 2007 and looks like just another high-rise from the exterior. But inside you’ll discover a www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 21 �MAY 2007 Gay LoA. All the Way One of the perks of being a "nationally syndicated columnist," which is my newest personal brand, is getting books in the mail to review. If only that was totally true. When it comes to the relationship between the community and the notorious LAPD...well, let’s just say it wasn’t a Hollywood love story. As the latest volume slipped out of its padded envelope, I saw "sexual outlaws, power politics, and lipstick lesbians" set in small caps across the middle of the cover. Mmmmm, this book is for me. Gay L.A.: A History of,.. (insert those three descriptors that caught my attention here), written by award-winning historians Lillian Faderman and Stuart Timmons, turns on its ear the notion that the lesbian and gay movement started in any one particular city. "The LAPD in the years after WW~I and into the 1960s was really particularly vicious in regard to lesbians and gay men," Faderman told me in a recent interview. "The police hired Hollywood rejects - handsome young men looking to break into the movie industry - who would then go to the places gay men cruised, hang out, strike up conversations, and then the handcuffs would come out, and the gays would be arrested." L.A.’s gay roots go way beygnd the emergence of Hollywood in the 1920s. We need to go all the way back before California was a state, before we were even a nation, and we find the raale native Americans who inhabited these lands to be quite fluid in their sexuality. California’s name came from Hernan Cortes, the explorer who discovered the tract of land now lmown as the Golden State. It seems that Cortes was taken with the 15th-century "protolesbian tale," as the authors put it, about a mythical isle called California, where Queen Califia lived among strong, butch women. Just like in the Amazonia legend, Califia’s women "waged bloody war on other lands, killing most of the males but carrying a few so that they might copuJate with them for the sake of procreation." For some reason, Cortes put that myth together with this new land and wrote "California" across the map of what was to become North America. The name stuck, but the legend - like those of most who come and go in this town known for making legends - faded into obscurity until Faderman and Timmons connected their gay dots. It wasn’t until Hollywood happened, with its star-making quality, that L.A. and gay really started to become synonymous. We flocked to this city of creativity and makebelieve because we could do just that - create and make believe we could be whatever we 22 the STAR It wasn’t only gay men who were victim~ized by the cops. "Butch women had a hard time, too," said Faderman. "They were very often arrested for ’masquerading.’" \Vghat is this "masquerading"? Being butch and dressing that ~vay. It seems that there was a laxv on the books, in response to how outrageous the puritanical city fathers thought things were getting, that men couldn’t be seen in public in women’s clothes, and women couldn’t don men’s clothes either. Reading this, I was disgusted by how those we pay taxes to for protection - in a city, the police, for the nation, the armed forces - victimize our community. While "don’t ask, don’t tell" is still in place, the LAPD has changed its tune to some degree. Now they’re recruiting us to their ranks - us meaning lesbians and gays; transgender people need not apply. "The West Hollywood sheriff’s department really wants lesbian and gay folks," explained Faderman. "But on the other hand, I read about a trans person who supported herself by prostitution. The police would take her in the back alley practically every night and rape her." As someone who grew up in L.A., Faderman seems to be particularly proud of the lesbian and gay firsts of her native city. Honestly, these were things I never knew. I always considered Stonewall to be the "start" - that is, after all, what we celebrate every June. In 1947, for example, the first lesbian magazine, Vice Versa, was started in L.A. A few years later, the Mattachine Society was born - the child of Harry Hay. Ten years before the Stonewall Riots, drag queens and hustlers in downtown L.A. took to the streets to protest the LAPD’s consistent harassment of them at their hangout, Cooper Donuts. In 1968, Troy Perry founded the first gay church, the Metropolitan Community Church, and in ’71 lesbian and gay Jews had a welcoming place to worship at the nation’s first gay synagogue, Beth Chaim Chadashim. "With L.A., there were all these incredible firsts," said Faderman. "It’s sort of incredible that no one has observed that before, and no one has tried to make a history out of it." Until now, that is. This book is a great read that is both entertaining and educational. The nonfiction addict that I am, Gay L.A. gave me my fix of facts and fun that kept me turning the pages. I really xvanted to kmow what happened next. I can’t wait until we all write the next chapters as we continue to tear down the barriers to our freedom. www.ozarksstar.com �Rodeo Schedule Thursday, May 24, 2007, from 9pm till ?, The Great Plains Rodeo Kick off Party, featuring the current royalty and all former royalty we can encourage to attend, at the Finishline. Friday, May 25, 2007, from 6pm till 9pm, The Great Plains Rodeo Registration Party, featuring contestant registration, a silent auction, and a fundraiser shiny, at the Oklahoma State Fair Park Barn 3. Saturday, May 26, 2007, from 8am till ?, Rodeo events with grand entry around noonish at the Oklahoma State Fair Park Barn 6. Tickets are $10.00. Saturday, May 26, 2007, from 6:30pm till 9pm, The Texas Tea Party, featuring the IGRA Royalty, The Texas Royalty and the Oklahoma Royalty, and others, at the COPA. Sunday, May 27, 2007, from 8am till ?, Rodeo events with grand entry around noonish at the Oklahoma State Fair Park Barn 6. Tickets are $10.00. Sunday, May 27, 2007, from 8pm till ?, Rodeo awards ceremony, at the Oklahoma State Fair Park Barn 3. BBQ Dinner $10 per plate advance purchase by end grand entry Sunday see any OGRA royalty member or Officer. Jays ModelAgency Talent Search ~ Males 18 to 21 Jays Model Agency is Seeking New Faces for our 2007 Online Gallery of Artistic Nude, Casual& Formal Wear Models. We Pay Our Models $300 to $500 Call Today (405) 946-5297 See Our Display Ads in Frest~rn~: & Men Magaaine You’re guaranteed a fun filled and exciting weekend at Oklahoma’s largest Gay Rodeo. Tickets can be purchased at the gate. For more information go to: www.ogra.net or call 405-290-8779 Creating Community for Peop ÷ :ving with H~ViAIDS 50t c (3) Non Profit Organizatio,:t Our House, Too offers a vadoty of activities for people who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS to help combat the social isolation that many of our people live through each and everyday. We provide a Toiletry and Household Pantry for those who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS who cannot afford to purchase these items for themselves. We invite anyone who would like to volunteer or provide financial assistance to please contact us by phone 918-585-9552 or e-mail ha rrismmjr@yahoo.com. www.ozarksstar.com The STAR 23 ��www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 25 �GAYCO From page 12 With seven players at their Eureka appearance, the troupe delivered a performance that would make the raunchiest of comedians and the driest of analysts proud. Opening their show with a stirring anthem of "gay recruitment" the comedians set the precedent that over the next hour and a half nothing, not even death, would be sacred. DBA METRO OKC PRIDE EVENT A SUCCESS By Jeanne Flanigan Blending lesbian issues and gay issues, the comedy of Gayco had a little something for everybody. Whether it was a widower admitting her secret love for her best friend or the gay man dating the barely eighteen year old, the situations that Gayco created were as real as the performers themselves (even though it may take a few years to see "Baby Time Share" become a reality). ’%V4e like to take hot topics of the day, but also what is going on in our lives," explains Eninger. "Sometimes we’ll have a sketch completely written and sometimes we’ll just improvise it. We use the ensemble to improve each idea and make it better." Eninger says that thanks to the unique backgrounds of each of the core cast members and their crew of artistic associates, that the show is able to have such a wide ranging appeal. "A lot of people in the comedy and improvisational tend to have a broad background, most everyone has some kind of theatrical training and has worked with some kind of improvisational group. You add on to that having a broad based understanding of things like politics, anth.ropology and cultural references to make your jokes as on top of your intelligence as possible." "We all (the cast) have an activist streak in us," Eninger continues, "we all have a message we want to get across that’s paramount, but we’re also not afraid to get a little low brow. Gay people like that too. It’s nice to show a human scene with a couple and just flip to show something like ’Club Uranus.’" During the show, the Gayco Performers were not the only ones who had fun on stage. Participants from an improvisational workshop held the day before xvere invited to become a part of the act. According to the group, one of their favorite parts of touring is reaching out to the communities they visit to help aspiring performers (or those wbo just want to do it for fun) learn a little bit more about their craft. If and when Gayco will returns to Eureka Springs is not yet known, but for the group that travels the world, Diversity Pride is a favorite stop. Be sure not to miss them if you have the chance. 26 the STAR event. Drag Queen Bingo, benefiting Our House Too sponsored by Regional Aids Funds Ameri-Corp and the Cains. An annual event in Tulsa, this years theme will be "Tulsa’s Dream Girls Present Motown", the 60’s remember. Local celebrities will be performing and a show stopping appearance by Tulsa King Ty West. The event will be hosted by Kris Kohl, a veteran performer of 31 years. Twenty additional fantastic female impersonators will be entertaining you. Prizes for Bingo and door give-a ways have been donated by local business and associations. Doors open at 8pm. Tickets are on sale now, Milton Harris 918-585-9552. All proceeds will benefit Our House Too a Tulsa area aids outreach activity center. Photo by I~ctor Gorin: Left to Right, Reverend Scott Jones of Cathedral ofHope Drag Emcee Ivana Deville, Jeanne Flaniagn. A LANDMAP K GONE OKLAHOMA CITY, OK~Xhe Diversity Business Association of Metro OKC hosted the Second Annual Silent Auction and Benefit for OKC Pride on March 29 at the Copa. Nick Post and his staff provided a banquet buffet, a festive ambience, and space for 6 locations throughout the club for auction items. The auction included approximately 60 items, ranging from original art to tools and electronics. The benefit made over $7000 for the OKC Pride Festival and Parade, which is celebrating their 20th Anniversary in June. By Victor Gorin This time the event raised over twice as much as it did last year, thanks largely to entertainers Alison Scott, Lady Spencer, and the magnificent Ivana Deville. Three large items were raffled off, with several generous people buying over 100 tickets each. The club was filled to capacity with many DBA members, a!ong with other movers and shakers of the community. DBA Metro meets twice monthly for networking and educational opportunities. For more information !og on to www.dbametro.org. Drag Queen Bingo _At Cains Ballroom, Tu]lsa. By Randy Vineyard TULSA, OK__On May 4th the Cains Ballroom will play host to yet another historic \Vho Remembers the Free Spirit? OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__Maybe it wasn’t so long ago, or maybe longer ago than some of us might xvant to admit, when OKC’s most fabulous place to dance and party was the Free Spirit. Located at 3121 N. Classen, originally an Episcopalian Church, it first changed to an upscale restaurant called Dino’s Steak & Spaghetti before it became the Free Spirit disco in 1977, owned by Steve Sixbey & managed by Michael Tarr. Affectionately nicknamed "the Spirit"( and its regulars "Spirit Queens") it became the "in" place to be featuring cutting edge dance music, some of Oklahoma’s early fabulous pageants, and even appearances by major artists including Sylvester & Disco Tex/Sex-o-Lets. In 1982 the club became Jazzy’s, a straight club with a predominantly black clientele. It changed back to the gay focused Free Spirit again in 1984, competing head on with Angles which had just opened in 1982, and the war began as to who would be OKC’s premier gay dance dub. The partiers !oved the battle, which resulted in all you could drink for $5 on Fridays and Saturdays at both venues, but the Free Spirit finally capitulated in August of 1984. Again going through a series of straight ventures, it emerged again as a gay club in 1986 renamed "~he Bar," even though it was still referred to as "the Spirit." ~hat venture failed as well, and after a long run as the straight club" Infinity" it made a few more changes before finally closing the doors for good. The building sat abandoned for many years before finally being demolished in March of this year. "Now a vacant lot with a future unforeseen at this time, memories of that place will always inspire priceless memories for some of us to treasure and pass on. www.ozarksstar.com �MO THE COPA: Strip-Off Contest 12am BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pm "~DNESDAY May 2 BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pro. THE COPA: Strip-Off Contest 12am BAMBOO LOUNGE: Free Brunch 2pro, CLUB MAJESTIC: Carla Lee Love Show 10pm THE COPA: Rachael Erikks Show 10:30pro HNISHLINE: Dart Tournament !0pro THURSDBX May 24 CLUB MAJESTIC: Talent Show wt Rachael Erikks THE COPA: Varie9" Show 10:30pro THE COPA: Open Talent w/Shemoane Somemore t0:30pm FINISHHNE: Dart Tournament I0pm BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pro BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pm. THE COPA: Varlet7 Shmv 10:30pro THURSDAY May3 BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pro THE COPA: \4trieiy Show 10:30pro FINISHLINE: Dart Tournament 10pro LEDO: Kari-Okie host, Pancho 9pro FINISHLINE: Dart Tournament 10pm CLUB MAJESTIC: Talent Show ~v/Rachad Erikks \ May [25 THE COPA: Strip-OffContest Midnight. THE COPA: Open Talent wtShemoane Somemore 10:30pro LEDO: Kari-Okie host. Pancho 9pro FINISHLINE: Dart Tournament 10pm CLUB MAJESTIC: Talent Show wtRachael Erikks THE COPA: Open Talent wlShe~noane Somemore 10:30pm FINISHLINE: Dart Tournament 10pm THE COPA: Mate Dancers 9pro SATU LEDO: Kari-Okie host, Pancho 9pro May5 GUSHERS: Late Night Breakfast Buffet 1 am-3:30am FINISHLINE: Dart Tournament 10pro CLUB MAJESTIC: Talent Show w/ Rachaet Erikks CLUB MAJESTIC: /vlajestic Kings Show 10pm. THE COPA: Open Talent wlShemoane Somemore 10:30pro FINISHHNE: Dart ~bumament 10pm OGRA: RODEO. OKC THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pro GUSHERS: Late Night Breakfast Buffet lam-3:30am SUN 27 OGRA: RODEO, OKC BAMBOO LOUNGE: Brunch 2pro BIG Memorial Cookout. CLUB MAJESTIC: Catia Lee Love Show 10pm "H-IE COPA: Rachael Erikks Show 10:30pm LEDO: Kari-Okie host, Pancho 9pro BAMBOO LOUNGE: Free Brunch LUB b~JESTIC: Carla Lee Love Show 10pm THE COPA: P, achael Erikks Show 10:30pm THE COPA: Varieq, Show 10:30pm THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pro SUN CLUB NL&JESTIC: Miss Oklal~oma Continental 2007 - Doors open 8pro OGRA: RODEO, OKC BA!vIBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pm THURSDAY M~v 17 THE COPA: Male Dancers 9prn THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pro GUSHERS: Late Night Breakfast Buffet lam-3:30am MEMORIAL DAY THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pm BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pro, THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pm THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pro GUSHERS: Late Night Breakfast Buffet lam-3:30am THE COPA: Strip-Off Contest Midnight. BAMBOO LOUNGE: Free Brunch 2pm, Kris Kohl Show 8pm CLUB MAJESTIC: Catia Lee Love Show 10pm THE COPA: Rachael Erikks Show 10:30pm BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pm DAY May 30 THE COPA: gariety Show 10:30pro FINISHLINE: Dart Tournament 10pm CLUB MAJESTIC: Talent Show w/ Rachael Erildcs BA~MBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pm. THE COPA: Strip-Off Contest Midnight. www, ozarksstar.com THE COPA: Open Talent wlShemoane Somemore 10:30pro HNISHLINE: Dart Tournament 10pm LEDO: Kari-Okie host, Pancho 9pm After Dark is a free service to ou~ advertisers and is the responsibility of the advertiser to inform the STAR in writing of updates, additions or discontinued events, q’he STAR is not responsible for accurac): the STAR 27 �"Doodle, Capricorn!" Mercury aligned with the Sun in Taurus makes us stubbornly attached to our ideas. Both orbs clashing with Pluto bring those ideas under harsh scrutiny. Arguments are inevitable but offer chances to learn. ARIES (~arch 20 -April 19): Holding fast to your principles doesn’t require arguing with everyone who disagrees with you. Better to challenge yourself and see if your ideals are strong enough to encompass more than just the ideas you’re comfortable with. TAURUS (April 21) - May 21)): Little disagreements can feel like major personal attacks. Try to shrug them off and relax. A little sexual exploration can take the edge off, although that might also feel like a challenge. Still, it should be a challenge you can rise to! GEMINI (May 21 - June 21)): An erotic retreat with your partner can relieve pressures that are making you feel paranoid. Even if you (~an’t get away, stop imagining hostile agendas behind every conversation. Meditation or a dream journal can help unravel what’s really bothering you. SAG~TTAR~US (November 22 o December 20): Safe sex is as important now as ever. Your health is extremely vulnerable right now, especially in erotic situations, but also while you’re at work or exercising. Re-examine your habits at work, working out, and "working it." There’s always room for improvement! CAPRICORN (December 21 - January 19): Your efforts at playful repartee may seem a bit artificial, as if you’re trying to hide something that is bothering you. At an unconscious level, you probably are. Doodling, humming, or singing in free association can help provide clues to what’s behind the banter. AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): How far do your ambitions and dreams lead you away from the comfort of family or tribe? And how far away do you really need to go? Those questions seem important now. The answers are not comfortable, but neither are they final. PISCES (February 19 - Nlarch 19): The stronger your opinions, the more they’ll be challenged. Do some homework to back up your arguments. You may even learn something that wil! push you to grow and change. Remember, it’s only resistance to change that makes it difficult. CANCER (June 21 - July 22): Your long-range vision may cause clashes with colleagues who are locked into accomplishing the task at hand. Helpful as your ideas may be, arguing about them won’t help. Bite your lip, go with the flow, and save your inspirations for later. LEO (July 23 - August 22): Eager to get ahead, you may be pushing too hard. Sit back a bit, strategize, and try to cultivate finesse. Getting into everyone’s face about your brilliance is counter-productive. Let your creativity speak for itself. VIRGO (August 23 - September 22): Being terribly certain in your ideas can put you at odds with your family or your community. It may well be that you have something important to tell them, but you need to listen in order to be heard. LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): The more you struggle against scandal, the more it grows. A bemused response - "Mercy! Who’s telling such silly stories?" - wilt help facilitate a quick change of subject. Or you may prefer a smug, quiet smile that enhances a wicked mystique. SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): If you’re partnered, arguments are nearly inevitable for you, with money being the likely trigger. If you’re single, your feistiness will make or break the interest of a potential mate. Arguments now can foreshadow a bigger struggle in six weeks. FREE NIV TESTING, NO NEEDLES SPIRIT OF CHRIST MCC SPONSORS Testing appointment 41%529-8480. 2902 E. 20th St., PO Box 4711 Joplin, Mo 64803 SATURDAY Service 9:30AM Your Invited to our COITIITIUI~ty Dinner Every Wed. 6pm just $4.00. No one is turned away. 28 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com �Arkansas, Bentonviile/Rogers (479) NWA GLBT Ctr .... www.nwaglbtcc.org ......... 888-391-9222 Barnes & Noble Bks - - 261 N. 46th St., Rogers- - - -479-636-2002 Arkansas, Eureka Springs (479) Diversity Pride Events - www.diversitypride.com A Byrd’s Eye View..... 36 N. 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MayAve ......... 405-917-1663 Topanga Grill & Bar- --3535 NW39th -405-917-1663 Tramps-2201NW39th. -405-521-9888 Ziggy’s-4005 N. Penn-405-521-9999 Oklahoma, Tulsa (918) Bamboo Lounge .... 7204 E. Pine 918-836-8700 Border’s Book Store- - - 2740 E, 21st918-712-9955 Border’s Book Store--- 8015 S. Yale 918-494-2665 Circle Cinema ...... !0 S. Lewis--918-592-3456 Club 209 ....... 209 N. Boulder 918-584-9944 Club Majestic ....... 124 N. Boston 918-584-9494 Club Maverick ..... 822 S. Sheridan 918-835-3301 Cosmo Deli & Bar- - 6746 S. Memorial -918-459-0497 Dreamland Bks .... 8807 E. Admiral PI .918-834-1051 Equality Center ..... 621 E. 4th Street ........ -918-743-4297 Hideaway Lounge ..... 11730 E. 11th 918-437-0449 HOPE Clinic....... 3540 E. 31st ---918-749-8378 Midtown 319 E. 3rd918-584-3112 Openarms Youth Projt - - - 2015 S. Lakewood ..... 918-838-7104 Our House, Too .... 203 N Nogales Ave. -918-585-9552 Priscilla’s -7925 E. 41st..... 918-627-4884 Priscilla’s ........ 5634 W. 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Please take the survey today, and tell your friends! Tremendous strides toward full equality have been achieved by our communities over the past decade. There’s Power in Our Pride. Power to make a difference: Gay and lesbian survey studies have opened doors (and minds) in leading corporations and organizations, which in turn have recognized the value of their LGBT employees through the establishment of equal hiring policies and domestic partner benefits. This has been a catalyst, leading to sweeping changes in political and social inclusivity. Demographic reports also influence marketing investment. Virtually absent until recently, we now see a growing variety of products and services represented in gay media, celebrating our diversity. Ads keep LGBT publications and websites in business, serving their communities with independent news and information. Beyond simply advertising, though, these companies support us in many ways, including sponsoring community events and funding community-based charities in order to earn our loyalty. Taking an annual pulse on market trends through surveys helps demonstrate the LGBT community’s growing power, and influences positive change. We respect your privacy. All personal survey data is held confidentially by Community Marketing, Inc., an independent marketI research and communications firm based in San Francisco (founded 1992, and proudly 100% gay-owned and -operated) and will not be so d to third parties or used for marketing purposes. Thank you! www.CommunityiVlarketinglnc.com ® 2007 Community Marketing, Inc., 594 Castro St. #834, San Francisco CA 94114 USA www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 3 ~.DV~CACY Activists Launch Statewide LGBT Advocacy Efforts. CAF Host OHahoma Summit 2007 OkJahoma County Commissioner Brent Rinehart from District 2, a practicing public homophobe, was formally arraigned earlier this month. 4© PAST OUT The murder of gay sailor Allen Schindler in October 1992 contributed to a national debate about GLBT people in the military that remains unresolved to this day. Gay Travelers "Indianapolis, Indiana Out of Town " Denver, Colorado" ~ D~V~N$~ITY Wl~l~l~ND Good, clean, Christian fun...is not the way to describe the "Gayco" comedy show that took the stage of Eureka Springs’ Auditorium during the spring Diversity xXi’eekend. GLBT Summit..............5 Let’s Rodeo ...............6 James Nimo .............. 11 OUT in Arkansas........... 12 Past Out.................. 14 The Wine Rack............. 16 Ciao Travel ................ 17 Lesbian Notions............ 22 Star Scene................ 24 After Dark ................ 27 Horoscopes............... 28 Distributors............... 29 Cartoons..................30 Classifieds................ 31 Let’s Rodeo Oklahoma - page 6 Mr, C~ntinental 2006 Simba R. Hal! at Club Majestic Tulsa - page 15 DISTRIBUTION: Fine Dining at Hotel Bel Air - page 17 )KLAHOMA CITY * TULSA * LAWTON * MCALESTER * ENID * LITTLE ROCK * NORTH LITTLE RODK * FAYETTEVILLE * FT SMITH * EUREKA SPRINGS * HOT SPRINGS * BENTONVILLE * ROGERS * KANSAS CITY * SPRINGFIELD * JOPLIN * BRANSON AREA * WICHITA* PITTSBURG * JUNCTION CITY 4 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com ¢ ARRON ALLIANCE FOUNDAo T ON (CAF) HO$1" OKLAHOMA LGBT LEADERSHIP 2007 By Jeanne Flanigan Photo:Josh Hammers, Paul 7horn?son male co-chair Oklahoma Gay and Lesbian Political Caucus, Mike McLain u~ith Hardnezvs Online. Community Partners were OKC Community Foundation, Respect Diversity Foundation, Herland Sister Resources, Winds House, P-FLAG OKC and Norman, North Care Mental Health Center, Cathedral of Hope, Progressive Alliance, DBA Metro, Central Oklahoma Prime Timers, Red Rock Behavioral Health Services, Hard News Online, OKC Pride, Oklahoma Gay and Lesbian Political Caucus, Oklahomans for Equality, OSU Sexual Orientation Diversity Association (SODA), OCU Gay and Lesbian Law Student Association, Log Cabin Republicans of Oklahoma, Central Oklahoma Stonewall Democrats, OKC Chrysalis Education Affirmation Network, ACLU of Oklahoma, AIDS Walk OKC, Heartstrong, the Trevor Project, Central Oklahoma Human Rights Alliance, and OU GLBT & Friends. For more information contact the Cimarron Alliance Foundation, website www.cimarronalliance.org, e mail RCO@lawokc.com or telephone (405) 495 9300. OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__Cimarron Alliance Foundation (CAF) hosted the Oklahoma LGBT Leadership Summit at the beautiful Ron Norick Downtown Library Saturday, April 14 with over 140 attending representing 33 organizations. The conference featured local presenters in the areas of politics, education, and the issues of the LGBT community, women, seniors, Pride events, religion, health and organizational processes and development in 18 breakout sessions. CAF was able to tackle this huge project with the help of 27 Community Partners and a National Sponsor, the Human Rights Campaign (HRC). Breakfast and lunch were served, allowing participants an opportunity to meet and greet others and net-work with other organizations. Several people from Tulsa attended, sharing with OKC their success with the recent opening of their Dennis R. Nell Equality Center and other projects. There were attendees from other places as well, as far axvay as Tennessee and Wyoming. Official greetings were extended from Oklahoma County Commissioner Jim Roth, OKC City Council members Sam Bowman and Ann Simank, State Senators Connie Johnson & Andrew Rice, and Oklahoma State Representative Al McAffrey. CAF President Richard Ogden and DBA (Diversity Business Association) President Monty Milburn facilitated the opening and closing sessions, geared to open discussion and responses to the education presented. A survey was gathered to assess the conference and to guide planning to make the next one even more responsive to community needs and desires. Activists Launch Statewide LG Advocacy By Laura Belmonte TULSA, OK__On March 24-25th, activists from across Oklahoma gathered at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to formulate plans for statewide LGBT advocacy efforts. Sponsored by Oklahomans for Equality, the Creation Weekend meetings were facilitated by Toni Broaddus, Executive Director of the Equality Federation, Mickey Maclntyre of Real Change Partners, and Jeremy Pittman, Deputy National Field Director for the Human Rights Campaign. The Gill Foundation provided financial support. Representatives from several organizations including the Cimarron Alliance, H.O.P.E. Testing Clinic, OSU’s SODA (Sexual Orientation Diversity Association), Tulsa C.A.R.E.S., and RAIN attended. Throughout the meetings activists discussed their hopes and expectations of statewide LGBT organizing. They identified longrange political goals including non-discrimination in housing and employment, relationship recognition, safe schools, hospital visitation rights for same-sex partners, and hate crimes laws that include sexual orientation and gender expression. They also discussed possible strategies for statewide coalition-building, lobbying, voter registration and education, and electing LGBT and LGBT-friendly public officials throughout Oklahoma. A steering committee to direct these efforts is currently being formed. Interested organizations and activists are urged to participate and can contact Laura Belmonte, president of Oklahomans for Equality, at center@okeq.org for more information. For complete video coverage of Creation Weekend, see http://okgnn.net/ www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 5 DBAT Hosts First Business After Hours by Suzan Hartman TULSA, OK__Business is built on relationships and what better time to start developing those relationships than during Tulsa Pride 2007! The Diversity Business Association ofTulsa, a program of Oklahomans for Equality, will host their first Business After Hours event on Thursday, June 7 from 7:00 to 9:00pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Business After Hours offers excellent networking opportunities for area glbt business owners and professionals. All members of the business community are invited to attend and refreshments will be provided. There is no cost so join us at this wonderful social gettogether and make new contacts or to get reacquainted xvith former contacts. DBAT provides a forum to the gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender business and professional community and its allies for the purpose of networking, professional development, creating increased visibility and strengthening relationships among business and professional community members. We’re the heart of LGBT networking and business growth. We support. We lead. We promote professional development, business diversity and personal enrichment - so get involved today! For more information contact Susan Hartman at slhartman@cox.net or 918- 274-1699. GET READY [:OR THE 22nd ANNUAL GREAT PLAINS RODEO By Greg Steele OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__One of the longest running and largest of Gay Rodeo Organizations in the International Gay Rodeo Association (IGRA) system, Oklahoma’s Great Plains Rodeo will kick offa fun filled weekend May 25 through May 27th 2007. The event will be held in Oklahoma City at State Fair Park, 333 Gordon Cooper Blvd. Registration will be Friday 6pm to 9pm at State Fair Park Barn 3. Rodeo performance’s will begin Saturday morning 8am with the Grand Entry around noon. The event will wind down with the awards ceremony 8pm in Barn 3. Over $10,000 in cash and prizes will be awarded. The 2007 Rodeo has added money for Bull Riding, Bronc Riding, Steer Riding, Calf Roping on Foot, Breakaway Roping, Team Roping, Barrels, Poles and Flags will only be awarded to the top three place winners for combined scores Saturday and Sunday. Awards will also include Saddles for Top Men and Women Roping and Speed Events. The host hotel is Hollywood H~tel and Suites, 3535 NW 39th OKC, OK 73112 405-947-2351. Events Schedule .........Continued page-23 6 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 7 8 the STAR ww~.ozarksstar.com Tulsa Pride United for Equality June 2 - Pride Festival Saturday June 9th at Veteran’s Park - 18th & Main in Downtown Tulsa 11:00 AM -5:00 PM Over 15,000 expected to attend! Parade begins 10:00 AM - 15th & Utica to LGBT Pride Festival- Veterans Park presented by oklahomans for equality (OkEq) 621 E 4th Street* Tulsa, OK lent Outdoor Living Mitchell Savage Smith Hid-(:entury Nodern Gem Home of Rex Ball and Stephen Edwards Iplewood Secret ~3arden Home o1: Harcy Smitl~ Welcl~ wwN.ozarksstar.com the STAR 9 LoPA~GE by Hr. Continental 2006 S~MBA HALL & Special gues~: SANTANA & TRIXIE DELUXXE CAYNE wihh Zsane’ Braxton, Ebony Hall, Krystal DeKanter, Bobby Paige !21 to dria~k www.OKContinental.com No Video Recording "At Century 21 Gold Castle our BEST prope~ies are our PEOPLU’ 4301 NW fi3rd, Suite 100 Oklahoma City, OK 73116 10 the STAR 405.840.2t06 www. c21 goldcastle.com w~v,ozarksstar.com Commissioner Brent Rinehart’s a Piece of.olToast, (his future, that is) By James Nimmo OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__Oklahoma County Commissioner Brent Rinehart from District 2, a practicing public homophobe, was formally arraigned earlier this month for serious Oklahoma campaign law violations (ten by my count) ranging from perjury and filing false campaign reports to accepting illegal contributions from third parties and conspiracy against the state during his campaign in 2004. According to Attorney-General Drew Edmondsoffs office Rinehart, and his campaign manager Tim Pope (Pope, a former state legislator who carried a gun in his boot on to the floor of the House because he said gay, were after him, he was also found guilty of illegal campaign telemarketing in March for calls directed against Commissioner Jim Roth) are charged in Oklahoma Count), District Court with one count of conspiracy against the state, two counts of money laundering and three counts of knowingly accepting a contribution to a political candidate through an intermediary or conduit with unlawful intent. Additionally, Rinehart faces four counts of perjury. Run-of-the-mill political shenanigans you might yawn, but stay with me. If you’re LGBT or an ally, you know that Mr.. Rinehart, only just past the half-way mark in his first term, is finally getting his comeuppance as a public figure. From day one of his term he has ragged on Commissioner Jim Roth, District 1, for advancing what Rinehart thinks is the much talked about but seldom seen, "gay agenda". Why does Rinehart think he’s had a look at the "gay agenda"? I haven’t seen it and I’ve paid lots of dues in time and money. Does Rinehart know somebody I don’t? Does he have a secret handshake? He seems to walk and talk in the normal way. The only gay agenda I’ve seen is my own: to be treated under law in the same way as any other tax-paying citizen, irrespective ofmy sexual orientation, and according to my own observance of existing law. I’m paying the same fare as a straight man; I expect the same first-class ticket. In January 2005 Rinehart was one of 3 on the Oklahoma County, Budget Board (al! 8 county elected officials) who voted to rescind Oklahoma County’s policy of non discrimination for County employees that incudes sexual orientation. (The repeal efforts failed) There have been numerous articles in the Oklahoma City media about Rinehart being unable to work effectively with the other OK Count), officeholders. All the County elected officials issued a group letter the same day, as Rinehart’s arraignment in which they promised to maintain character and integrity in the face of these serious allegations of misconduct by Rinehart. In his defense, Mr.. Rinehart has spoken of a personal vendetta being directed against him by the Attorney-General and the "good ’ole boy" system he claims is responsible for his predicament. At a press conference Rinehart (Phonto right) said, "I will continue to serve the public despite the good old boy demands that I abandon public office. I look forward to my day in court where the facts ~vill reveal that I am innocent of the politically motivated charges made by Drew Edmondson." Does the "good ’ole boy" system include the Oklahoma State Bureau of Investigation which did the ground work for the indictments? Does it also include the OK County District Attorney David Prater who, on April 11, 2007, made the legal determination that there is no current law which can remove Rinehart from office under only allegations of wrongdoing Prater concluded that conviction must first be found in court concluded DA Prater. It’s so easy to tease Rinehart as he leaves himself so wide open, and his delusions are indeed grand. In an interview with TV-4 he said (and I paraphrase) "the good ’ole boys want to get me, want to get me, right now, want to get me, take me down, because they know one day I’ll be governor." These words are nearly verbatim, repetitions included. His mantra of referring to the "good ’ole boys" so often makes me think no one played with him as a child. He still feels like an outsider. He prides himself on his role as a maverick yet he has nothing constructive to show for it. He never learned to socialize and he’s carrying this grudge even now as he digs his hole of seclusion ever deeper. Who would have thought he wanted to be governor? Would such a mark of victory expunge the feelings of exclusion from his psyche? Does he need something bigger than a county commissioner’s office to assuage his private demons? Personally, I can hardly wait for Rinehart’s days in judicial court as well as the court of public opinion. Even should he be found not guilt), I doubt if the voters of District 2 will want to continue Rinehart’s employment for another term as commissioner. Challengers from all political viewpoints now have a good lead time to establishing themselves with the voters of District 2. \Vho wants stale toast to represent them at the County office? www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 11 Eureka Diversity Rains Supreme by Joey De EUREKa, SPRINGS, AR~IfDisney Land is the happiest place on earth, Eureka Springs, Arkansas, must be a close second. Nesded in the Ozarks, an hour away from Branson, MO, Eureka has made its name as a tourist destination with its eclectic array of nick-nack shops, historical architecture and southern hospitality. The community’s dozen-plus annual festivals help to attract a diverse crowd of visitors from across the country, including the ’iGaylien beings" who landed there from Apr. 13 - 15. Going a step further than hand holding, organizers arranged a public display of affection in the town’s Basin Park, during which a young lesbian proposed to her partner. As a living memorial to a lost friend of one Diversity Pride Committee member, the weekend featured a "Recovery in Pride" forum hosted by Mr. Marty Perry, the CEO of The Pride Institute. Followed by a self-help style meeting, the forum allowed participants to discuss how their sexuality may have influenced substance abuse or support healthy ways for them to overcome it. evening when the younger crowd to finally show it’s face. Although inhibited by a lack of sunshine, the 2007 Eureka Springs Diversity Pride Celebration followed through with a promise made to all of its visitors. All beings were welcome. Coinciding on the same weekend with Eureka’s annual UFO convention (yes, you read right), the Spring Diversity celebra- For tion welcomed beings of all.types to inhabit visithe streets of the quiet town. Although tots attendance was significantly reduced due who to weather through out the region, visitors did not came from as far away as Ohio to explore the streets of Eureka Springs. As laid back as the town itself, Diversity Pride offered a mix of events designed to appeal to couples who are past the up-allnight party phase of their life and to those who still don’t go down until the sun comes up (take it as you will). Many of the events showcased the town itself, spotlighting the forty five gay owned restaurants, dubs and businesses. Locals happily hosted tours of the area, diversity meals and spiritual events for the mostly 28-35 crowd who braved the rain, snow and ice. Advertised as a "Diversity Pride" festival, the weekend was more about embracing diversity than it was celebrating pride. With no major central event such as an all day picnic or parade, visitors were more integrated through out the community then at most Prides, where celebrants flock to one location. Although there was a visible show of pride in rainbow feathered boas and flags, the refreshing attraction of the weekend was its lack of spectacle. "It’s nice to be able to come to a town where you feel like you’re the ’norm’" expressed one gaylian visiting from St. Louis. "It’s refreshing to see people walking around holding their partner’s hand on the street." 12 the STAR participate in organized events, the shops of Eureka opened their doors, with many offering a "family discount." leries, jewelers and a puppet shop welcomed were browsing, buying and in some cases trying to escape the rain. Highlighting the weekend for visitors of all ages ~vas the return appearance of Chicago’s "Gayco" show, who offered two performances in the town’s historic "Auditorium." The group, who specializes in improvisational comedy offered a master’s workshop for visitors and even posed for pictures with gaylians after their show. For those who grew tired of shopping (or the endless up-hill walking) the bars of Eureka provided an impressive array of entertainment choices for a town its size. Whether visiting Henri’s, Jack’s Place or Chelsea’s for live music, Karaokeing with "Tiny" at Uncle Tuckers; or dancing the night away at The Tiki Torch, the liquor flowed and the good times rolled into the De Good, clean, ..is not way to describe "Gayco" comedy the of Eureka Auditoduring the i Diversity Following the success of the ’ appearance last year, Organizers of diversity weekend brought the troupe back to tackle pressing issues in the gay world such as marriage, don’t ask don’t tell, adoption and coming out. With a well articulated mix of low and high brow humor, the seven Gayco players entertained audiences with their unique blend of improvisational and sketch comedy. Originating as a gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender outreach project of the legendary Second City Comedy Club in Chicago, Gayco has been entertaining communities across the nation for almost eleven years. "Second City saw us as a one maybe two show outreach to the GLBT community," says Andy Eninger, one of the group’s founders. According to the performer, although there is no formal relationship between the two groups, they maintain a close working friendship. "We outgrew them, and they xvanted us to spin off and do our own thing, but they still watch us closely." Continued page-26 www.ozarksstar.com www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 13 Who was Allen Schindler? The murder of gay sailor Allen Schindler in October 1992 contributed to a national debate about GLBT people in the military that remains unresolved to this day. Schindler was born in December 1969 and grew up in Chicago Heights, Ill. A mediocre student, he joined the Navy right out of high school to obtain G.I. Bill money to attend veterinary school. He was first stationed in San Diego, where he frequented gay clubs and found a boyfriend. In 1991, he fulfilled his dream of serving aboard the aircraft carrier USS Midway, a ship with a relatively tolerant atmosphere. But after the Midway was decommissioned a year later, he was reassigned to the USS Belleau Wood, which had a reputation for a rough and rowdy crew. Schindler and other sailors suspected of being gay xvere routinely called "faggots" and shoved as they walked the ship’s halls. One night in September 1992, as the ship was en route from San Diego to Sasebo, Japan, Schindler, a radioman, broadcast an unauthorized message, "2-Q-T-2-B-S-T-R- 8" ("too cute to be straight"), which led to a month-long disciplinary confinement. Soon thereafter, he admitted to commanding officers that he was gay: Though aware that the disclosure would likely lead to his discharge, Schindler nevertheless felt a sense of relief: "Ifyou can’t be yourself, then who are you?" he wrote in his diary. 14 the STAR As word spread that Schindler was gay and discharge proceedings were underway, the abuse increased. "It scares me a little," he wrote. "You never know who would want to injure me or cease my existence." By late October, the Belleau Wood had reached Sasebo and Schindler’s confinement had ended. He began frequenting local bars, where he met a group of gay American entertainers, including dancer Eric Underwood, whom he told about the harassment. On the night of Oct. 27, after spending the evening drinking, two of Schindler’s shipmates, Terry Helvey and Charles Vins, followed him into a public bathroom in a park near the base. Helvey began to beat and kick Schindler, with Vins also joining in; Helvey finished off the attack by stomping on Schindler’s throat. As the assailants fled, wimesses arriving on the scene summoned the Shore Patrol, and medics tried to revive Schindler without success. The pathologist who conducted the autopsy reported that Schindler’s injuries were "similar to a highspeed auto accident or a low-speed aircraft accident." His face was beaten so badly that his mother could only identify him by tattoos on his arms. Helvey and Vins were identified by wimesses and arrested the next morning. As Helvey was being led awa); he told a shipmate, "The bastard deserved it." Vins received a quick court-martial and was sentenced to just four months in exchange for testimony against Helvey. The incident received little press coverage until Underwood and his associates wrote a letter to several publications exposing the antigay harassment Schindler had faced. The military newspaper pacific Stars and Stripes printed the lettel; and a reporter from the paper investigated the story, but the Navy tried to cover up the nature of the killing, going so far as to leak a rumor that Schindler and Helvey were gay lovers who had had a falling out. Gay activists raised a furor over the murder, at a time when the issue of gays in the military was high on the national agenda due to Bill Clinton’s campaign promise to lift the ban on GLBT service members. Michael Petrelis of Queer Nation - who vowed to make Schindler the "gay Rodney King" - organized a press conference at the Pentagon in December. Friends and supporters held a memorial in San Diego, while the Human Rights Campaign flew Schindler’s mother, Dorothy Hajdys, to Washington to speak at a candlelight vigil. Hajdys, a fundamentalist Christian who initially had trouble accepting that her son was gay; became an unlikely activist for GLBT civil rights. "If you would have told me I would have been at the March on Washington standing before a million people and being seen all over the world, I would have told you you were nuts," she later told an interviewer. Schindler’s killing remained front-page news throughout the spring of 1993. In May, Helvey was court-martialed in Japan, with his defense focusing on his abusive childhood and use of steroids. He admitted the crime, first claiming that Schindler had made a sexual advance in the bathroom and later saying that he found homosexuals "disgusting, sick, and scary." The incident never would have happened, he added, if gays weren’t allowed to join the military. Helvey pleaded guilty to murder with intent to commit great bodily harm, thereby avoiding the death penalty for premeditated murder. In 2002, Hajdys and gay activists successfully opposed his parole, and he continues to serve a life sentence at Fort Leavenworth, Kan. Schindler put an individual face on the debate about gays in the military, with both sides pointing to his murder to justify their positions. In November 1993, President Clinton signed the "Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell" policy into law, after Congress and the Pentagon opposed lifting the ban. According to the Servicemembers Legal Defense Network more than 10,000 men and women have been discharged from the armed forces since the policy went into effect. www.ozarksstar.com Simba Ro Ha l To Host Miss Oklahoma Cor dnenta At Club Majestic Tulsa. TULSA, OK__Simba R. Hall is a creation and alter ego of LeSean D. Lewis. Simba was introduced to the field of pageantry in 2001 at Mr. and Miss Renaissance in Atlanta, GA. A good friend had heard him sing in the professional arena and needed some vocals to back his poetry. When Simba hit the stage, he was mesmerized. From there, he went to compete for Mr. Liberty, Mr. Renaissance, Mr. Duval, and Mr. Continental. He captured the title of Mr. Renaissance in 2004. This was followed by his win of Mr. Duval 2005 hosted in Jacksonville, FL. Simba R. Hall has always wanted to give back to his gay community. With this in mind, he used Renaissance as a platform to form the King’s Alliance. The King’s Alliance is a compilation of all the male representatives holding National titles. ~Pney perform a National show every year called M.E.N.S. (Male Entertainers of National Systems) Night. They donate all proceeds to a non-profit organization. Over the past three years they have raised over $4000. ~xis was recognized by the elite system that he now represents, Mr. Continental. It took Simba three times to capture this title. Each time he stood in the top five next to the winners, Ray Matthews and Tony Desario. \~qxen Simba won, he started using his popularity throughout the community, adding more benefit shows and fundraisers. He started a couple’s night which 7will feature duets from the kings and queens representing National titles. This is to be held at the Baton in June. He also had a Continental Christmas in Atlanta that raised over $3500 for Child Kind, an organization that cares for terminally ill children. Simba wants to be remembered for bringing the community to the forefront and showing the world that being gay is just a preference. \re are just as human as the next individual. Simba is also working on an album that ~vill be available in the fall. At the current time he is touring the US as Mr. Continental where he receives raves reviews and standing ovations. Simba Hall will Host the Miss Oklahoma Continental on Friday May 25th at Club Majestic in Tulsa at 8pm. This will be the fourth Miss Competition in Oklahoma produced by Monica Freeman. THE AUSTK LIAN BEE GEES SHOW at Tulsa’s Historic Brady Theater TULSA, OK___Having received nothing less than fantastic reviews, "The Australian BEE GEES Show" is coming to Tulsa’s Historic Brady Theater on Friday May 4th. Ttxe house lights fade slowly and there is a cheer of excitement, then a brief moment of anticipation. It begins with a single bass note, then a chime that dances around the room, a whisper of strings, a stab of brass and percussion, a flash of light and the image flickers to life. "The Australian BEE GEES Show" is a multi-media concert event with the state-of-the-art sound, superb lighting and giant screens, featuring video clips, live camera images and stunning graphics. "The Australian BEE GEES Show" has captured the look, the sound and the personality that defines one of the most successful and adored acts in musical history. The show is presented from a contemporary perspective and has evolved to become the definitive live celebration of four decades of wonderful music written by the Brothers Gibb. Ten years in the making, a lot have been said about "The Australian BEE GEES Show", including some kind words from one of the Brothers Gibb’s niece, Deborah McLane, "When I first saw the show I had high expectations of what the performance would be like, those boys did more than exceed my expectations. I was completely moved by their harmonies and the way they perfected the whole Bee Gees image. This is the most outstanding Bee Gees tribute show I have experienced." For one night only, experience the magic, "The Australian ~BEE GEES Show." In concert at Tulsa’s Historic Brady Theater Friday May 4th, 2007. Doors open at 7:00 p.m. and show starts at 8:00 p.m. Tickets cost $27.50 and $32.50 and went on sale beginning at 10 a.m. on Monday March 26th at www.bradytheater.com, w~vw. etix.com, Tulsa’s Historic Brady Theater at 105 West Brady, or by calling the Brady Theater Ticket Office at (918) 582-7239. w~v.ozarksstar.com the STAR 15 Tuna Soup with Orange and Avocado Fresh tuna meat is easy to overcook and can sometimes be disappointingly dry and chewy, but in this juicy mixture it stays succulent and delicious. Ingredients: 2 - 3 tbls. Olive Oil 2 Onions (peeled, halved, and very thinly sliced) 2 Garlic Cloves (peeled and finely chopped) 1 tspn. Ground Cumin Pinch of Cinnamon 2 tspn. Chopped Fresh Parsley Finely Grated Zest and Juice of 1 Lime 2/3 cup Orange Juice 1 1/4 Fresh Tuna Steaks (cut into 3/4 inch cubes) 1 3/4 qts. Fish Stock Salt and Freshly Ground Black Pepper 6 Large Tomatoes (cut into short pieces) 2 firm but Ripe Avocados (peeled, pitted) 40 oz. Sugar Snap Peas or Green Beans (cut into neat cubes) Sprigs of Fresh Flat-Leafed Parsley (for garnish) Procedure: 1. Heat the oil in a large saucepan. Add the onions and gently fry until soft and translucent. Add the garlic and gently fry for 2 minutes. 2. Add the cumin, cinnamon, parsley, lime zest and Juice, orange juice, tuna, stock, and a little salt and pepper. Bring to the boil, reduce the heat, cover the pan, and simmer for 15 minutes. 3. Meanwhile, soak the tomatoes in boiling ~vater for several minutes until the skin xvill peel easily away. Cut away the hard cores and chop the flesh. Add to the pan ~vith the sugar snap peas or beans. Simmer for 4-5 minutes. 4. Just before serving the soup, stir the avocado cubes into the pan. Serve immediately, garnished with parsley. Serves: 6 More on the Hotel Bel Air, page 1.19. "TRAVELING IN OUR FABULOL by Donald Pile & Ray Williams Featuring Cuisine From Coast HOTEL BEL-AIR 70! Stone Cmnyon Road Los Fmgeles; "~e dining room at the Hotel BeI-Mr is, ~vithout doubt, the most romcamc restaurants on, the planet, and one beautiful ! We dine As it is terribly expensive, we always order consists of a lovely Salad, soup of the day" mad finger sandwiches. And this costs $3~3.00! bur W~rth every pelmy o~it. nitelv the most ~¢~rwiOzarksstar:com Phe drag-themed Petticoat Bruncheon at Bump & Grind is one ofDenver’s best excuses to get out ofbed on weekwnd mo,~vings. (Photo by Andrew Collins) By Andrew Collins Denver has long been one of the country’s great centers of lesbian and gay culture. The GLBT community here is highly visible - socially, professionally, and politically - and gay-friendly restaurants, bars, hotels, and other businesses are easy to find in a number of prominent neighborhoods. With several new or expanded high-profile museums, easy access to skiing and hiking, a sunny climate, and relative affordability compared with other big urban centers, the Mile High City makes for a highly appealing vacation destination, whether for a couple of days or a full week .of exploration. The city’s bustling, modern downtown skyline is dominated by soaring skyscrapers. Here you can wander along 16th Street, a popular pedestrian mall filled with mostly upscale chain shops. Or explore artsy Larimar Square, a restored Victorian block of hip boutiques and cafes - be sure to check out the Market at Larimer Square, a coffeehouse- bakery-deli where a cool crowd enjoys mocha lattes, hearty breakfast burritos, and hefty pastrami sandwiches. Larimar Square marks the edge of dapper LoDo, which began as the city’s shipping 20 the STAR and retail center in the late 19th century. As recently as the 1980s, however, the neighborhood had been reduced to slums and abandoned brick warehouses. LoDo’s comeback began v,;hen artists started converting these classic redbrick buildings into galleries and studios. A flood of restaurants, coffeehouses, and shops followed, as did stately Coors Field, home to baseball’s Colorado Rockies. You can easily spend a few hours exploring this attractive district, perhaps dropping by the Tattered Cover, one of the country’s most beloved independent bookstores, which has an outstanding GLBT section. Another retail must is Rockmount Ranch Wear, a circa-1940s outlet for authentic Western shirts, belts, hats, and bolo ties - this is the very shop that provided those down-home sexy shirts worn by Heath Ledger and Jake Gyllenhaal in Brokeback Mountain. South of downtown you’ll find Capitol Hill, which is anchored on one end by the giltdomed State Capitol building. It overlooks a grassy mall surrounded by the Colorado History Museum and the spectacular Denver Art Museum, which underwent a dramatic expansion and redesign in 2005. The Capitol Hill neighborhood, which extends east from the Capitol building, is where many of the city’s GLBT residents live. On sunny days, check out lovely Cheesman Park and the nearby the Denver Botanic Garden. If you’re keen on shopping, head a few miles southeast of downtown to the Cherry Creek area, where you’ll find numerous opportunities for browsing and bargain-hunting at upscale Cherry Creek Shopping Center and Cherry Creek North. Tnese two premier shopping destinations contain a mix of top chain and independent stores. In the evening, try out one of the neighborhood’s fine restaurants, such as trendy Ocean, a haute seafood eatery, or North, which serves exceptional modern Italian fare. Dining is one area where Denver has truly come into its own in recent years. If you’re a serious foodie, sample one of the restaurants run by Denver’s acclaimed expert on innovative Mexican cuisine, Richard Sandoval. Best bets include Tamayo, near lively Larimer Square, and trendy Zengo, a boldly decorated space just north of LoDo, where Sandoval fuses the best ofAsian and Latin cuisine, serving everything from sushi to ceviche. A good bet for dining in LoDo is Vesta, which operates on a quirky premise: you choose three sauces (perhaps pistachio-mint or grilled onion jam) for dipping with whatever entree you choose, from grilled venison to harissa-roasted half chicken. You’ll find simpler fare at Dixon’s Downtown Grill, a nice choice for fish-and-chips and bluecheese burgers, and the festive Wynkoop Brewing Company, which serves the best green chile stew in town, plus a wide range of handcrafted beers. Near Larimer Square, chic Rioja serves creative, world-beat cuisine, such as Dungeness crab-and-shiso spring rolls, and grilled maple-cured pork chops with Calvados sauce. Favorite restaurants on Capitol Hill include I1 Vicino, which turns out creative pizzas and salads along with microbrewed ales, and Sparrow, a convivial neighborhood spot serving such inventive regional American fare as pumpkin-chicken served with pancetta risotto, sage, and cider. The local java chain Diedrich’s Coffee has a particularly gay-popular branch in Capitol Hill, too. www.ozarksstar.com The city has some great places for breakfast fare, including the gay lave Racine’s, which is open late and serves three meals daily. For amazingly tasty pancakes, head to Snooze, an offbeat storefront space near Coors Field where you might start the morning offwith pineapple-upside~down pancakes or vanilla-almond oatmeal brulee. On weekend mornings, don’t miss the legendary drag brunch, called Petticoat Bruncheon, held at Bump & Grind, a colorful bakery and care. One of city’s great strengths is its cultural scene, with maW of the top events held at the esteemed, high-tech Denver Center for the Performing Arts (DCPA), the second-largest such space in the nation (trailing only New York City’s Lincoln Center). tt comprises several performance venues and hosts everything from nationally touring musicals to acclaimed opera. Before a performance, plan to have dinner at DCPA’s top restaurant, Kevin Taylor’s. In this elegant basement space, sample such creative fare as Black Angus carpaccio with white-truffle oil, or charbroiled Colorado lamb chops with braised lentils and black olive jus. Denver has a friendly, eclectic gay nightlife, with a pleasing mix of hip cocktail lounges, pulsing dance clubs, and friendly neighborhood bars. One of the most popular hangouts is J.R.’s, an upscale, bi-level video bar in Capitol Hill that hosts such entertaining events as gong show karaoke and Broadway musical sing-alongs. Nearby Charlie’s is a famously fun country-western club with line-dancing and two-stepping, plus a restaurant serving decent American fare. The Denver Detour is a mostly lesbian-oriented hangout that’s popular early in the evening for happy hour cocktails - it’s right by the State Capitol. Other good women’s options include tHERe Denver, a lesbian-owned coffeehouse and lounge, and Ms. C’s, a long-running lesbian dance club a 20-minute drive east of downtown. Just south of Capitol Hill, the South Broadway area has several notable locals joints, including B.J.’s Carousel, which has its own volleyball court and a casual restaurant. You’ll find a somewhat cruisy bunch at the Compound, a low-attitude dance club that’s popular with everyone from collegiate hipsters to middle-aged bears. The Triangle, for the serious leather crowd, has a big after-hours following and a notoriously frisky basement. And Boyztown is one of the better places in town to watch strippers strut their stuff. Weekends are the best time to check out Denver’s most happening gay nightclub, the always-packed Tracks Denver, a massive warehouse disco with two pulsing dance floors, one spinning the latest club music, the other featuring classic tunes from the ’70s and ’80s. Denver has a number of memorable gay-friendly hotels. The swanky, pet-friendly Hotel Monaco is a top choice for its hip, Parisian-inspired aesthetic and remarkably friendly and helpful service. Vibrant, stylish decor and quirk), in-room touches, such as animal-print robes and pet goldfish, make this downtown boutique property a fan favorite. The on-site restaurant, Panzano, serves firstrate contemporary Italian fare. A new kid on the block that’s earned praise for its stylish look as well as its location across from the Denver Center for the Performing Arts, The Curtis opened early in 2007 and looks like just another high-rise from the exterior. But inside you’ll discover a www.ozarksstar.com whimsical, retro-fabulous hotel that looks like something out of an Austin Powers movie. Each floor of guestrooms is themed differently - rooms on the eighth level have a sci-fi look, while those on the 12th are done with a get-your-groove-on dance-floor theme. Moderate rates, VW Bug-shaped alarm clocks, and a cool eatery called the Corner Office Restaurant and Martini Bar are among the Curtis’ many charms. If you want to be close to the fabulous shopping of Cherry Creek, consider booking a room at the posh JW Marriott Denver, a contemporary 11-stoW hotel whose cushy accommodations have 32-inch flat-screen TVs, DVD/CD players, marble-and-granite bathrooms, and plush bedding with custom duvets and linens. The sterling service is another plus. One of the most romantic options is the gay-owned Capitol Hill Mansion B&B, a stately Queen Anne Victorian on an attractive residential street. Owners Jay Hadley and Carl Schmidt serve a lavish full breakfast each morning as wel! as refreshments and snacks in the afternoon; guests enjoy such pleasing amenities as free Wi-Fi and fresh flowers in every room, and gas fireplaces, whirlpool tubs, and private balconies in the top units. In the same neighborhood, the gay-friendly Castle Marne B&B offers similarly cushy, antiquesfilled rooms. The imposing 1889 building is one of Denver’s most distinctive houses, with its elaborate turrets and stonework. Probably no Denver hotel is more famous than the prestigious Brown Palace Hote! & Spa, which has hosted such dignitaries as Teddy Roosevelt and Sun Yat-sen during its 115-year tenure. Even if you don’t have a chance to stay in one of the hotel’s lavish rooms, consider dropping by for the daily afternoon high tea or evening cocktails in the famed Atrium Lobby, or for the decadent Dom Perignon brunch held in Ellyngton’s Restaurant on Sunday mornings. the STAR 21 MAY 2007 Gay LoA. All the One of the perks of being a "nationally syndicated columnist," which is my newest personal brand, is getting books in the mail to review. As the latest volume slipped out of its padded envelope, I saw "sexual outlaws, power politics, and lipstick lesbians" set in small caps across the middle of the cover. Mmmmm, this book is for me. Gay L.A.: A History of,.. (insert those three descriptors that caught my attention here), written by award-winning historians Lillian Faderman and Stuart Timmons, turns on its ear the notion that the lesbian and gay movement started in any one particular city. L.A.’s gay roots go way beygnd the emergence of Hollywood in the 1920s. We need to go all the way back before California was a state, before we were even a nation, and we find the raale native Americans who inhabited these lands to be quite fluid in their sexuality. California’s name came from Hernan Cortes, the explorer who discovered the tract of land now lmown as the Golden State. It seems that Cortes was taken with the 15th-century "protolesbian tale," as the authors put it, about a mythical isle called California, where Queen Califia lived among strong, butch women. Just like in the Amazonia legend, Califia’s women "waged bloody war on other lands, killing most of the males but carrying a few so that they might copuJate with them for the sake of procreation." For some reason, Cortes put that myth together with this new land and wrote "California" across the map of what was to become North America. The name stuck, but the legend - like those of most who come and go in this town known for making legends - faded into obscurity until Faderman and Timmons connected their gay dots. It wasn’t until Hollywood happened, with its star-making quality, that L.A. and gay really started to become synonymous. We flocked to this city of creativity and makebelieve because we could do just that - create and make believe we could be whatever we Way If only that was totally true. When it comes to the relationship between the community and the notorious LAPD...well, let’s just say it wasn’t a Hollywood love story. "The LAPD in the years after WW~I and into the 1960s was really particularly vicious in regard to lesbians and gay men," Faderman told me in a recent interview. "The police hired Hollywood rejects - handsome young men looking to break into the movie industry - who would then go to the places gay men cruised, hang out, strike up conversations, and then the handcuffs would come out, and the gays would be arrested." It wasn’t only gay men who were victim~- ized by the cops. "Butch women had a hard time, too," said Faderman. "They were very often arrested for ’masquerading.’" \Vghat is this "masquerading"? Being butch and dressing that ~vay. It seems that there was a laxv on the books, in response to how outrageous the puritanical city fathers thought things were getting, that men couldn’t be seen in public in women’s clothes, and women couldn’t don men’s clothes either. Reading this, I was disgusted by how those we pay taxes to for protection - in a city, the police, for the nation, the armed forces - victimize our community. While "don’t ask, don’t tell" is still in place, the LAPD has changed its tune to some degree. Now they’re recruiting us to their ranks - us meaning lesbians and gays; transgender people need not apply. "The West Hollywood sheriff’s department really wants lesbian and gay folks," explained Faderman. "But on the other hand, I read about a trans person who supported herself by prostitution. The police would take her in the back alley practically every night and rape her." As someone who grew up in L.A., Faderman seems to be particularly proud of the lesbian and gay firsts of her native city. Honestly, these were things I never knew. I always considered Stonewall to be the "start" - that is, after all, what we celebrate every June. In 1947, for example, the first lesbian magazine, Vice Versa, was started in L.A. A few years later, the Mattachine Society was born - the child of Harry Hay. Ten years before the Stonewall Riots, drag queens and hustlers in downtown L.A. took to the streets to protest the LAPD’s consistent harassment of them at their hangout, Cooper Donuts. In 1968, Troy Perry founded the first gay church, the Metropolitan Community Church, and in ’71 lesbian and gay Jews had a welcoming place to worship at the nation’s first gay synagogue, Beth Chaim Chadashim. "With L.A., there were all these incredible firsts," said Faderman. "It’s sort of incredible that no one has observed that before, and no one has tried to make a history out of it." Until now, that is. This book is a great read that is both entertaining and educational. The nonfiction addict that I am, Gay L.A. gave me my fix of facts and fun that kept me turning the pages. I really xvanted to kmow what happened next. I can’t wait until we all write the next chapters as we continue to tear down the barriers to our freedom. 22 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com Rodeo Schedule Thursday, May 24, 2007, from 9pm till ?, The Great Plains Rodeo Kick off Party, featuring the current royalty and all former royalty we can encourage to attend, at the Finishline. Friday, May 25, 2007, from 6pm till 9pm, The Great Plains Rodeo Registration Party, featuring contestant registration, a silent auction, and a fundraiser shiny, at the Oklahoma State Fair Park Barn 3. Saturday, May 26, 2007, from 8am till ?, Rodeo events with grand entry around noonish at the Oklahoma State Fair Park Barn 6. Tickets are $10.00. Saturday, May 26, 2007, from 6:30pm till 9pm, The Texas Tea Party, featuring the IGRA Royalty, The Texas Royalty and the Oklahoma Royalty, and others, at the COPA. Sunday, May 27, 2007, from 8am till ?, Rodeo events with grand entry around noonish at the Oklahoma State Fair Park Barn 6. Tickets are $10.00. Sunday, May 27, 2007, from 8pm till ?, Rodeo awards ceremony, at the Oklahoma State Fair Park Barn 3. BBQ Dinner $10 per plate advance purchase by end grand entry Sunday see any OGRA royalty member or Officer. You’re guaranteed a fun filled and exciting weekend at Oklahoma’s largest Gay Rodeo. Tickets can be purchased at the gate. For more information go to: www.ogra.net or call 405-290-8779 Jays ModelAgency Talent Search ~ Males 18 to 21 Jays Model Agency is Seeking New Faces for our 2007 Online Gallery ofArtistic Nude, Casual& Formal Wear Models. We Pay Our Models $300 to $500 Call Today (405) 946-5297 See Our Display Ads in Frest~rn~: & Men Magaaine Creating Community for Peop ÷ :ving with H~ViAIDS 50t c (3) Non Profit Organizatio,:t Our House, Too offers a vadoty of activities for people who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS to help combat the social isolation that many of our people live through each and everyday. We provide a Toiletry and Household Pantry for those who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS who cannot afford to purchase these items for themselves. We invite anyone who would like to volunteer or provide financial assistance to please contact us by phone 918-585-9552 or e-mail harrismmjr@yahoo.com. www.ozarksstar.com The STAR 23 www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 25 GAYCO From page 12 With seven players at their Eureka appearance, the troupe delivered a performance that would make the raunchiest of comedians and the driest of analysts proud. Opening their show with a stirring anthem of "gay recruitment" the comedians set the precedent that over the next hour and a half nothing, not even death, would be sacred. Blending lesbian issues and gay issues, the comedy of Gayco had a little something for everybody. Whether it was a widower admitting her secret love for her best friend or the gay man dating the barely eighteen year old, the situations that Gayco created were as real as the performers themselves (even though it may take a few years to see "Baby Time Share" become a reality). ’%V4e like to take hot topics of the day, but also what is going on in our lives," explains Eninger. "Sometimes we’ll have a sketch completely written and sometimes we’ll just improvise it. We use the ensemble to improve each idea and make it better." Eninger says that thanks to the unique backgrounds of each of the core cast members and their crew of artistic associates, that the show is able to have such a wide ranging appeal. "A lot of people in the comedy and improvisational tend to have a broad background, most everyone has some kind of theatrical training and has worked with some kind of improvisational group. You add on to that having a broad based understanding of things like politics, anth. ropology and cultural references to make your jokes as on top of your intelligence as possible." "We all (the cast) have an activist streak in us," Eninger continues, "we all have a message we want to get across that’s paramount, but we’re also not afraid to get a little low brow. Gay people like that too. It’s nice to show a human scene with a couple and just flip to show something like ’Club Uranus.’" During the show, the Gayco Performers were not the only ones who had fun on stage. Participants from an improvisational workshop held the day before xvere invited to become a part of the act. According to the group, one of their favorite parts of touring is reaching out to the communities they visit to help aspiring performers (or those wbo just want to do it for fun) learn a little bit more about their craft. If and when Gayco will returns to Eureka Springs is not yet known, but for the group that travels the world, Diversity Pride is a favorite stop. Be sure not to miss them if you have the chance. 26 the STAR DBA METRO OKC PRIDE EVENT A SUCCESS By Jeanne Flanigan Photo by I~ctor Gorin: Left to Right, Reverend ScottJones ofCathedral ofHope Drag Emcee Ivana Deville, Jeanne Flaniagn. OKLAHOMA CITY, OK~Xhe Diversity Business Association of Metro OKC hosted the Second Annual Silent Auction and Benefit for OKC Pride on March 29 at the Copa. Nick Post and his staff provided a banquet buffet, a festive ambience, and space for 6 locations throughout the club for auction items. The auction included approximately 60 items, ranging from original art to tools and electronics. The benefit made over $7000 for the OKC Pride Festival and Parade, which is celebrating their 20th Anniversary in June. This time the event raised over twice as much as it did last year, thanks largely to entertainers Alison Scott, Lady Spencer, and the magnificent Ivana Deville. Three large items were raffled off, with several generous people buying over 100 tickets each. The club was filled to capacity with many DBA members, a!ong with other movers and shakers of the community. DBA Metro meets twice monthly for networking and educational opportunities. For more information !og on to www.dbametro.org. Drag Queen Bingo _At Cains Ballroom, Tu]lsa. By Randy Vineyard TULSA, OK__On May 4th the Cains Ballroom will play host to yet another historic event. Drag Queen Bingo, benefiting Our House Too sponsored by Regional Aids Funds Ameri-Corp and the Cains. An annual event in Tulsa, this years theme will be "Tulsa’s Dream Girls Present Motown", the 60’s remember. Local celebrities will be performing and a show stopping appearance by Tulsa King Ty West. The event will be hosted by Kris Kohl, a veteran performer of 31 years. Twenty additional fantastic female impersonators will be entertaining you. Prizes for Bingo and door give-a ways have been donated by local business and associations. Doors open at 8pm. Tickets are on sale now, Milton Harris 918-585-9552. All proceeds will benefit Our House Too a Tulsa area aids outreach activity center. A LANDMAP K GONE \Vho Remembers the Free Spirit? By Victor Gorin OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__Maybe it wasn’t so long ago, or maybe longer ago than some of us might xvant to admit, when OKC’s most fabulous place to dance and party was the Free Spirit. Located at 3121 N. Classen, originally an Episcopalian Church, it first changed to an upscale restaurant called Dino’s Steak & Spaghetti before it became the Free Spirit disco in 1977, owned by Steve Sixbey & managed by Michael Tarr. Affectionately nicknamed "the Spirit"( and its regulars "Spirit Queens") it became the "in" place to be featuring cutting edge dance music, some of Oklahoma’s early fabulous pageants, and even appearances by major artists including Sylvester & Disco Tex/Sex-o-Lets. In 1982 the club became Jazzy’s, a straight club with a predominantly black clientele. It changed back to the gay focused Free Spirit again in 1984, competing head on with Angles which had just opened in 1982, and the war began as to who would be OKC’s premier gay dance dub. The partiers !oved the battle, which resulted in all you could drink for $5 on Fridays and Saturdays at both venues, but the Free Spirit finally capitulated in August of 1984. Again going through a series of straight ventures, it emerged again as a gay club in 1986 renamed "~he Bar," even though it was still referred to as "the Spirit." ~hat venture failed as well, and after a long run as the straight club" Infinity" it made a few more changes before finally closing the doors for good. The building sat abandoned for many years before finally being demolished in March of this year. "Now a vacant lot with a future unforeseen at this time, memories of that place will always inspire priceless memories for some of us to treasure and pass on. www.ozarksstar.com THE COPA: Strip-Off Contest 12am MO BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pm "~DNESDAY May 2 BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pro. THE COPA: Varie9" Show 10:30pro FINISHHNE: Dart Tournament I0pm THURSDAY May3 CLUB MAJESTIC: Talent Show ~v/Rachad Erikks THE COPA: Open Talent wtShemoane Somemore 10:30pro LEDO: Kari-Okie host. Pancho 9pro FINISHLINE: Dart Tournament 10pm THE COPA: Mate Dancers 9pro THE COPA: Strip-Off Contest 12am BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pro THE COPA: Varlet7 Shmv 10:30pro FINISHLINE: Dart Tournament 10pm CLUB MAJESTIC: Talent Show wtRachael Erikks THE COPA: Open Talent wlShe~noane Somemore 10:30pm FINISHLINE: Dart Tournament 10pm LEDO: Kari-Okie host, Pancho 9pro SATU May5 THE COPA: Male Dancers 9prn GUSHERS: Late Night Breakfast Buffet 1 am-3:30am SUN THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pro CLUB MAJESTIC: /vlajestic Kings Show 10pm. BAMBOO LOUNGE: Free Brunch LUB b~JESTIC: Carla Lee Love Show 10pm GUSHERS: Late Night Breakfast Buffet THE COPA: P,achael Erikks Show lam-3:30am 10:30pm THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pm BAMBOO LOUNGE: Free Brunch 2pro, CLUB MAJESTIC: Carla Lee Love Show 10pm THE COPA: Rachael Erikks Show 10:30pro BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pm. THE COPA: Strip-OffContest Midnight. BA!vIBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pm THE COPA: Varieq, Show 10:30pm FINISHLINE: Dart Tournament 10pro THURSDAY M~v 17 CLUB MAJESTIC: Talent Show w/ Rachaet Erikks THE COPA: Open Talent wlShemoane Somemore 10:30pro FINISHHNE: Dart ~bumament 10pm LEDO: Kari-Okie host, Pancho 9pro THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pm BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pro THE COPA: \4trieiy Show 10:30pro HNISHLINE: Dart Tournament !0pro THURSDBX May 24 CLUB MAJESTIC: Talent Show wt Rachael Erikks THE COPA: Open Talent w/Shemoane Somemore t0:30pm FINISHLINE: Dart Tournament 10pro LEDO: Kari-Okie host, Pancho 9pro \ May [25 THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pro CLUB NL&JESTIC: Miss Oklal~oma Continental 2007 - Doors open 8pro OGRA: RODEO, OKC OGRA: RODEO. OKC THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pro GUSHERS: Late Night Breakfast Buffet lam-3:30am SUN 27 OGRA: RODEO, OKC BAMBOO LOUNGE: Brunch 2pro BIG Memorial Cookout. CLUB MAJESTIC: Catia Lee Love Show 10pm "H-IE COPA: Rachael Erikks Show 10:30pm MEMORIAL DAY BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pro, THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pro GUSHERS: Late Night Breakfast Buffet THE COPA: Strip-Off Contest lam-3:30am Midnight. BAMBOO LOUNGE: Free Brunch 2pm, Kris Kohl Show 8pm CLUB MAJESTIC: Catia Lee Love Show 10pm THE COPA: Rachael Erikks Show 10:30pm DAY May 30 BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pm THE COPA: gariety Show 10:30pro FINISHLINE: Dart Tournament 10pm www,ozarksstar.com BA~MBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pm. CLUB MAJESTIC: Talent Show w/ Rachael Erildcs THE COPA: Strip-Off Contest Midnight. After Dark is a free service to ou~ advertisers and is the responsibility of the advertiser to inform the STAR in writing of updates, additions or discontinued events, q’he STAR is not responsible for accurac): THE COPA: Open Talent wlShemoane Somemore 10:30pro HNISHLINE: Dart Tournament 10pm LEDO: Kari-Okie host, Pancho 9pm the STAR 27 "Doodle, Capricorn!" Mercury aligned with the Sun in Taurus makes us stubbornly attached to our ideas. Both orbs clashing with Pluto bring those ideas under harsh scrutiny. Arguments are inevitable but offer chances to learn. ARIES (~arch 20 -April 19): Holding fast to your principles doesn’t require arguing with everyone who disagrees with you. Better to challenge yourself and see if your ideals are strong enough to encompass more than just the ideas you’re comfortable with. TAURUS (April 21) - May 21)): Little disagreements can feel like major personal attacks. Try to shrug them off and relax. A little sexual exploration can take the edge off, although that might also feel like a challenge. Still, it should be a challenge you can rise to! GEMINI (May 21 - June 21)): An erotic retreat with your partner can relieve pressures that are making you feel paranoid. Even if you (~an’t get away, stop imagining hostile agendas behind every conversation. Meditation or a dream journal can help unravel what’s really bothering you. CANCER (June 21 - July 22): Your long-range vision may cause clashes with colleagues who are locked into accomplishing the task at hand. Helpful as your ideas may be, arguing about them won’t help. Bite your lip, go with the flow, and save your inspirations for later. LEO (July 23 - August 22): Eager to get ahead, you may be pushing too hard. Sit back a bit, strategize, and try to cultivate finesse. Getting into everyone’s face about your brilliance is counter-productive. Let your creativity speak for itself. VIRGO (August 23 - September 22): Being terribly certain in your ideas can put you at odds with your family or your community. It may well be that you have something important to tell them, but you need to listen in order to be heard. LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): The more you struggle against scandal, the more it grows. A bemused response - "Mercy! Who’s telling such silly stories?" - wilt help facilitate a quick change of subject. Or you may prefer a smug, quiet smile that enhances a wicked mystique. SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): If you’re partnered, arguments are nearly inevitable for you, with money being the likely trigger. If you’re single, your feistiness will make or break the interest of a potential mate. Arguments now can foreshadow a bigger struggle in six weeks. 28 the STAR SAG~TTAR~US (November 22 o December 20): Safe sex is as important now as ever. Your health is extremely vulnerable right now, especially in erotic situations, but also while you’re at work or exercising. Re-examine your habits at work, working out, and "working it." There’s always room for improvement! CAPRICORN (December 21 - January 19): Your efforts at playful repartee may seem a bit artificial, as if you’re trying to hide something that is bothering you. At an unconscious level, you probably are. Doodling, humming, or singing in free association can help provide clues to what’s behind the banter. AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): How far do your ambitions and dreams lead you away from the comfort of family or tribe? And how far away do you really need to go? Those questions seem important now. The answers are not comfortable, but neither are they final. PISCES (February 19 - Nlarch 19): The stronger your opinions, the more they’ll be challenged. Do some homework to back up your arguments. You may even learn something that wil! push you to grow and change. Remember, it’s only resistance to change that makes it difficult. FREE NIV TESTING, NO NEEDLES SPIRIT OF CHRIST MCC SPONSORS Testing appointment 41%529-8480. 2902 E. 20th St., PO Box 4711 Joplin, Mo 64803 SATURDAY Service 9:30AM Your Invited to our COITIITIUI~ty Dinner Every Wed. 6pm just $4.00. 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Memorial- - - 918-660-0856 Yellow-Brick-Rd....... 2630 E. 15th 918-293-0304 AT A POWNTOWN CHUB, :20 MINUTES hATeR_.- bitter girl email: bittergid@qsyndicate.com 30 the STAR www.joanhilty.net www.ozarksstar.com NWArkansas GLBT CommuniW Center "Lin-ldng Together as One" For more information: 888-391-9222 WWW.NWAGLBTCC.ORG 1st furnished or N.W. Oklahoma City gay male residence. Attached ½ bath access to full bath. Laundry facilities available, cable TV. $275 per month all bills paid with 12 month lease. Employed person only, references required Call (405) 521 2131 www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 31 Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2007] The Star Magazine, May 1, 2007; Volume 4, Issue 5 Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource May 01, 2007 Subject The topic of the resource Politics, education, and social conversation over LGBTQ+ topics Description An account of the resource The Star Magazine’s first issue began February of 2005. Before this issue was Ozarks Pride (2004) and The Ozark Star (2004). Follows is The Metro Star (2008). This magazine discusses topics of AIDs, education, politics, local and national civil rights of the LGBT community, and advice for relationships and places to visit. This collection is PDF searchable. Physical copies are also available to be seen at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center with permission. Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Star Media, Ltd Publisher An entity responsible for making the resource available Star Media, Ltd Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource C.D. Ward Greg Steele Jeanne Flanigan Joey D. Paul Wortman James Nimmo Victor Gorin Greg Gatewood Libby Post Andrew Collins Donald Pile Ronald Blake Ray Williams Michael Hinzman Jack Fertig Liz Highleyman Devre Jackson Format The file format, physical medium, or dimensions of the resource Image PDF Online text Language A language of the resource English Type The nature or genre of the resource magazine Coverage The spatial or temporal topic of the resource, the spatial applicability of the resource, or the jurisdiction under which the resource is relevant Southwestern Missouri Western Arkansas Southeastern Kansas Eastern Oklahoma The United States of America (50 States) Source A related resource from which the described resource is derived https://history.okeq.org/collections/show/19 Relation A related resource The Star Magazie, April 1, 2007; Volume 4, Issue 4 https://history.okeq.org/items/show/202 The Star Magazine, June 1, 2007; Volume 4, issue 6 https://history.okeq.org/items/show/208 Identifier An unambiguous reference to the resource within a given context https://history.okeq.org/items/show/210 https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/983c37a58cc9eb63ee764f8c9ae250c2.jpg 52e9ffb1d524c1834418f5ddf4ad3259 https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/27d2d7f880e623a428f671f56c0f22dc.pdf 39b32e3fdd455b9fc74bf63f93f54d50 PDF Text Text Happy Thanksgiving STATEHOOD DAY San Francisco & Austin, Texas �West 7th Street (corner 7th & Bolder Ave) o Tulsa, Ok 74t t 9 o www.downtownplazatulsa~com Reservations: 918.585.5998 ® 800.585.5101 Where you can b YOU" 2 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com �www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 3 �{ LOCAL Real Men Fry Turkeys and International Gay Bowling hits OKC. Oklahoma’s Centennial Kicks off in our first Capitol, Guthrie. October 1930 (77 years ago last month) Sociologist Laud Humphreys is born in Chickasha, Oklahoma. Pinot Noir is one of the oldest vine grape varieties known. This grape has been cultivated in Burgundy since the 1st century AD. Rachael Sage Talks with the STAR before her performap,ce in Tulsa. Gay Travelers: San Francisco Out of Town: Austin, Texas Dining In or OUT Lesbian Notions, an interview with Jennifer Chrisler, executive director of the Family Equality Council. Introspection can lead you to better understand yourself and ultimately to achieve greater happiness. In the interview with Nick Post, the new owner of Angles, we incorrectly stated due to a typo that he had acquired the Finishline, Copa, Ledo and Gushers in 2007. It was actually 2000. We regret the error. STAR DISTRIBUTION: ON THE COVER: Deborah Harry & Rachael Sage 4 the STAR OKLAHOMA CITY * TULSA * LAWTON * MCALESTER * ENID * NEW ORLEANS * NORTH LITTLE RODK * FAYETTEVILLE * FT SMITH * EUREKA SPRINGS * HOT SPRINGS * BENTONVILLE * ROGERS * KANSAS CITY * SPRINGFIELD * JOPLIN * BRANSON AREA* WICHITA* PITTSBURG * JUNCTION CITY www.ozarksstar.com �R÷a By Greg Steele With all the outing of gay penguins, sheep, dogs and other species, is there a possibility there are gay turkeys? How would you know if you were eating one of our own? I mean the poor critters are just herded into the slaughter pen, humanely killed, I presume, plucked and whisked off to Walmart. I for one will be asking the Walmart meat lady if my turkey was gay! I refuse to bake, fry, barbecue or boil a family member. We assume that all turkeys are hetero, and it’s OK to bake or fry ect., a homophobic hetero turkey, but what if your turkey was hetero and gay friendly? This outing of animals and now fowl is just not right. It raises so many questions and creates so many problems and it’s Thanksgiving for God’s sake. Where are the Fowl Rights people when you need them! Have a Great Holiday! INTERNATIONAL GAY BOWLING TOURNAMENT AND CONVENTION ROLLS INTO OKLAHOMA CITY OKLAHOMA CITY, OK (P/R) __ Oklahoma City wilt be hosting the International Gay Bowling Organization’s (IGBO) 2007 Mid-Year Tournament and Convention, November 7-12, 2007. This event will cap offtwo years of preparation by the OKClassic Bowling Association as it welcomes bmvlers from al! over the United States and Canada. IGBO is the world’s largest GLBT sports organization with over 170 member leagues and over 60 member tournaments. OKClassic has hosted one of IGBO’s largest and most-respected tournaments for over 16 years and has donated over $100,000 to local charities in the process. Oklahoma City hosted IGBO’s 1994 Annual Tournament and Convention. The convention activities will be held at The Holiday Inn Hotel & Suites on NW 63rd & Robinson. IGBO’s Board of Directors, Regional. Representatives, and league and tournament representatives from around the world will conduct various business meetings at the ......................................... Continuedpa~,e- 27 www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 5 �breaking the law? Doesn’t this suggestion smell strongly of Nazism and other totalitarian creeds such as one-child China? rocre tior Uber AlOes OK~.AHOMA CITY, OK__ Who would have thought that the successful union of a spermatozoa and an ovum would be a taxpaying citizen’s certification of citizenship. ¯he highest court of the state of Maryland has recently joined New York and Washington state in ruling that because same-gendered people can’t procreate they can not be married in the same way that opposite-gendered people can. Reading between the lines it seems straight people who have the corresponding slot A and tab B are automatically entitled to the approximately 1,400 Federal and state benefits that accrue with state-sponsored marriage. I always thought that paying taxes made one a citizen. Odd, that even though I have no children, I’m still required to pay school taxes. Additionally, I pay a sales tax to help pay for municipal structures such as sports arenas that I will never use, my gasoline taxes are used to pave roads which I’ll never drive on, and my library taxes will pay for books which H1 never read. IfI were a God-fearing, Bible-banging GOP straight man truly interested in the precepts of the great Creator who knows all things and requires the institution of marriage to be solely and soulfully about procreation I would legislate for the fol!owing policy to be instituted. A provisional license would be issued following a medical examination to determine the gender and procreative viability of the man and woman applying. Should one applicant fai! this examination in either part no license from the state would be allowed. In addition the failing partner would be required to register on a publicly available website to insure against fraud and redundancy. Opposite gendered married couples that do not procreate vcithin three years of their marriage will have that marriage annulled. And now, at least in Maryland, New York and Washington-- I have to pony up with a wife and child in order to be a REAL citizen? Paying taxes isn’t enough? If a procreative impediment, other than self-induced conditions, develops after the issuance of the provisional license as ~vell as after the issuance of the final license, the marriage would be allowed to continue. I’m glad these anti-gay judicial decisions are finally exposing the hypocrisy of our socalled civil society where the First Amendment defense of the separation of secular and sacred is being ignored and willfully convoluted in order to perpetuate the ideas of religious supremacy, the power of the penis, and the submissiveness of the vagina. Should there be a stillbirth or death within one year of the birth of a living child, an extension of one year would allowed for each subsequent stillbirth or early death. Such extensions would continue until the natural menopausal advancement occurs with the woman. The man is considered to be fertile for life. Since when was being the father or mother of a child necessary to prove one’s citizenship? Is that really the case? As the balance scale of Lady Justice is replaced with a cudgel, and her blindfold exchanged for binoculars it would do for us all, gay or straight, to reassess just what makes a civil society. Don’t we all know married straights who have never had biological children? Are their marriages in danger of being repudiated in those states that have ruled procreation as a necessary possibility for a complete marriage? Are childless marriages 6 the STAR AS our American society devolves into a seriously reality-adverse Gulag of religiously based proscriptions against equality, and as the "demos" is removed from Democracy and replaced with "theos", I’ve written a proposed bill that someone like Trent "gays have Heptomania" Lott, Larry ’Tm not gay" Craig, David "diaper" Vitter, or Jim "no gays in my family" Inhofe wil! take up on the floor of Congress. wxvw.ozarksstar.corn �~’wvw.ozarksstar.com the STAR 7 �Recognized by Keller Williams For outsLandlng achievement 2005 and 2006 3627 NW Expressway Chuck Sreckenridge 918-706-1887 405.840.2106 TESTING CLINIC hea]t~ ow~each prevention education, inc. 1-800-535-AIDS (2437) Oklahoma’s HIV/STD Hotline PROTECT YOURSELF PROTECT YOUR PARTNER(S) ¯ Frse nonjudgmental HIV ~esting, including the 20 minute OraQuick TesL KNOW YOUR STATUS *Free Syphillis screening at th~ GLBT Community Center on Tuesdays from 6-Spin H,O,P.E. 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Photo:Joe @dgle); OKC sc~ool teacher and political activist with Miss America Lauren Nelson OKLAHOMA CITY, OK __ Keeping up a proud tradition begun in 1998, the Oklahoma City AIDS Walk was held again on Sunday, September 29 as usual sponsored and supported by a wide variety of groups & people from all walks of life to help those living with HIV, prevention and education, as well as remembering those passed on. ~his year the occasion was honored as Miss America, Oklahoma’s own Lauren Nelson, headlined as this year’s Grand Marshall. This year’s walk raised over $60,000. The Walk benefits the AIDS Support Program/Winds House, RAIN (Regional AIDS Intercommunity Network), Guiding Right, Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma-HIV/AIDS Legal Resource Project, Northern Lights Alternatives, Other Options Inc, Planned Parenthood of Oklahoma & Red Rock North. Currently over 6000 Oklahomans are living with HIV or AIDS. OKC MDS Walk President Danny Morgan looked to the future with his statement, "We are really excited over the increase in attendance and money raised over last year, and we’re looking forward to an even bigger event with yet more money raised for the valuable work that our agencies do in the Oklahoma City area." 10 the STAR The Stop Hate in the Hallways Conference was held at the Springlake Metro Tech Campus, organized by Cimarron Alliance and co-sponsored by numerous organizations. The conference was attended by over 300 people, among them teachers, school administrators, law enforcement, and other people from all walks of life throughout Oklahoma. As one of the organizers, OKC Councilperson Ann Simank pointed out, " I think the conference is addressing many issues that should have been addressed years and years ago. The whole goal is for the attendees today to obtain some real knowledge and tools to take back to their communities so that they’ll be able to make children safer and feel better, to feel accepted." The conference explored the price society pays for school bullying. Victims of bullying are less likely to go on to college, many even drop out of high school to escape abuse, thus doing serious damage to their careers. School districts have been successfiAly sued when harassment was deliberately allowed, and tragedies have resulted that have made schools less safe. The keynote speaker was Kevin Jennings, the founder and national director of GLSEN (Gay Lesbian Straight Education Network), which works to educate the public and school systems about the problems faced by students harassed due to sexual orientation. A former teacher himself, he pointed out that a generic policy prohibiting bullying" is no more valuable than no policy at all. Gay students likelihood of skipping school is when they see themselves specifically mentioned in the policy, among race, religion, color, and so on". He also pointed out that it has been shown that schools that have a policy specifically protecting students from harassment due to sexual orientation have a lower incidence of bullying overall. On a positive note, he stated that among parents surveyed almost 83% support school policies protecting students from bullying due to real or perceived sexual orientation, even 77% of those parents identified as born again Christians. Although there are many differences of opinion, the overall consensus of parents is that they want their children’s schools to be safe. He compared the threats & opposition of fundamentalist parents opposing a policy of this protection to be "like a dog on the other side of a door that is really a chihuahua. " There was discussion about the Oklahoma City School District, which last year posted on their website the upcoming Student Handbook, which included among the categories protected from bullying & harassment "sexual orientation," then mysteriously pulled those words two days later. Despite numerous appeals by many diverse speakers and groups, the Oklahoma City School Board has yet to give any reply as to why this happened, or why there is no policy protecting OKC students from this category of harassment to this day. To attend the conference, personnel from the OKC school systera had to take personal time off from their jobs. In closing Richard Odgen, President of Cimarron Alliance had some optimism in saying, "I think this will not be the end of this discussion, but the beginning. We’re hopeful that in the years to come that rather than the State Secretary of Education saying ’ I’m too busy’ she wil! be here. Rather than a lack of support from largest school district in the state, there will be a policy of sending teachers to the conference. We’re letting people know, we are going to talk about it, it isn’t right that that these hot topics aren’t discussed, in fact that is why the), must be discussed. " ~.ozarksstar.com �Deborah Harry per£orm At T sa’s Historic Brady eater TULSA, OK (P/R) __ The Dennis 1L Neill Equality Center art gallery will host its monthly meet-the-artist reception from 69pm, Thursday, November 1, 2007, for the opening of its November exhibit, "Schizo", works by artist Patrick Uva. Uva comes to Tulsa via New York City where he studied art at City College of New York. Since moving to his new home, Patrick has created a prolific collection of new paintings and sculpture. His new shmv "SCHIZO" was inspired by the auditory hallucinations he struggles with every day. "I wanted to express my struggle with the voices, but also the idea of collective freedom. I have this ’built-in’ collective consciousness so I wanted to show how individual awareness affects humanity as a whole. Patrick uses vibrant colors, fabric, dirt, sand and even cigarette ash within the confines of a skewed geometry to produce art that is at once violent, harmonious, haunting and ioy6 l. The exhibit will remain up through the month of November, and can be viewed Monday thru Saturday from 3-9pm. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is located at 621 E. 4th St., in downtown Tulsa. More info can be found on the web at okeq.org. This monthly event is hosted by Oklahoman’s for Equality (OkEq). OkEq seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual & Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Cdebrate 1st Arm versary Oklahoma’s Log Cabin Republicans (LCR) will be celebrating their first year as a chapter of the national organization with a special free barbecue dinner November 1. The social event is for members only and their friends, including many Democrats who have been invited. It is also an event geared toward welcoming potential new members. "We are going to throw a nice dinner party for our members and friends, to celebrate the fact we completed the requirements of our national committee for full chapter status," said Tim O’Herin, president of the group. LCR is the nation’s largest organization of Republicans who support fairness, freedom, and equality for gay and lesbian Americans. It has state chapters nationwide, a full-time staff in \Vashington, DC, and a Federal political action committee. "Although LCR of Oklahoma has been active in the gay community for about three years, this is our first year as a recognized chapter," he said. The party is by invitation only, and will be held in a member’s home in the south Edmond, North Oklahoma City area. The barbecue dinner is being provided by Head Country Barbecue of Ponca City. Dinner will be at 7:30 PM., with a one hour cocktail hour at 6:30 PM. "We encourage any gay man or lesbian who is a Republican, or supports our goals, to contact us for details about the dinner," he said. "Since it is being held at a private residence, we will not publicize the exact details of its location, but anyone who is interested in attending can contact us for further information," O’Herin said. TULSA, OK (P/R) __ The lead singer for Rock & Roll Hall of Fame inductees Blondie, Deborah Harry is performing at Tulsa’s Historic Brady Theater on Tuesday November 27th. The ultimate pop-rock, new wave diva, Debbie Harry set the mold, incorporating everything she learned from culture pioneers like Andy Warhot, Giorgio Moroder and Fab Five Freddy into her fashion, look and, particularly, sound. With Blondie, she and Chris Stein brought the worlds of disco and rock together with "Heart of Glass", "Dreaming", "The Tide Is High", and "Call Me" and broke ground by combining hiphop and pop on "Rapture." As a solo artist, Nile Rodgers & Bernard Edwards co-produced her first release Koo Koo in 1981. She continues to defy expectations with such genre-busting efforts as "French Kissing in t~he U.S.A.," "Rush Rush," "Rain", ’[Atomic", and "The Jam Was Moving." Before there was Madonna and Gwen Stefani, Debbie Harry was rock’s reigning blonde pin-up icon, and both are quick to acknowledge her inspiration, as are countless female (and male) rockers who have since formed bands. On the heels of her sixth solo album "Necessary Evil", Deborah Harry will be performing live at Tulsa’s Historic Brady Theater Tuesday November 27th, 2007. Doors open at 6:30 p.m. and show starts at 7:30 p.m. Tickets cost $29, $39 & $49. at www.bradytheater.com, Tulsa’s Historic Brady Theater at 105 West Brady, or by calling the Brady Theater Ticket Office at (918) 58-BRADY (27239). .................... Continued page 27 www.ozarksstar.corn the ST.~R 11 �Y÷a GUTHRIE, OK__ The Guthrie Centennial Committee, in coordination with the Oklahoma State Centennial Commission, is proud to present a major state celebration in Guthrie, Oklahoma on November 16, 2007. This State Holiday celebrates the 100 Year Proclamation of Oklahoma Statehood by President Theodore Roosevelt on November 16, 1907. Guthrie, as Oklahoma’s First State Capital, will host historical re-enactments of the statehood proclamation, the swearing-in of Oklahoma’s First Governor, Cliarles Haskell, and the symbolic wedding of Oklahoma Territory with Indian Territory. These re-enactments will be held at the historic Carnegie Library in Guthrie, where they actually occurred in 1907. At 12 Noon, a historic parade will be held, just as occurred in 1907, and will retrace the route from the Scottish Rite Temple to Mineral Wells Park. 12 the STAR ! This historic parade will include major university marching bands such as the University of Oklahoma, Oklahoma State University, Langston University, the University of Central Oklahoma, and the Oklahoma Centennial All Star Band. In addition, marching bands from Logan County high schools will also perform. of these crowds will be enormous. City planning is ongoing throughout 2007 to anticipate and deal with crowds. Many volunteers from the Guthrie and Logan County communities, and from the region, will assist in making a historic day for visitors. At Mineral Wells Park, a barbeque will be held with the identical menu which occurred a century ago...barbeque, bread, a pickle, coffee and lemonade. Other events and entertainment venues will also be held throughout the downtown area during the day. Residents are being encouraged to wear early 1900 "Period Dress" for the Statehood Day events. Victorian, Edwardian, and Western dress is encouraged but not required. Visitors to Guthrie are also welcome to wear period attire. Lodging and dining referrals may be found through the Chamber of Commerce at 405-282-1947. Historic Pollard Inn at 405-282-1000 The Guthrie Bed & Breakfast Association through v~.guthriebb.com Sleep Inn at 405-260-1400 With the large anticipated crowds, visitors may desire to bring personal or picnic lunches. State and national dignitaries will be in Guthrie, to participate in the reenactments, and in the parade. The President of the United States has been invited to be in Guthrie also on this day. The City of Guthrie has been advised that between 75,000 and 100, 000 visitors may attend events on this historic day. As a small city, the challenge Lodging, dining, other details: w~wv.ozarksstar.com �PlanetOu InCo Sells RSVP Vacations SAN FRANCISCO, CA (PRNewswireFirstCall __PlanetOut inc., the leading media and entertainment company exclusively focused on the gay and lesbian market, today announced that it has entered into a definitive agreement with Atlantis Events, Inc. for Atlantis to acquire RSVP Vacations. The transaction is subject to customary closing conditions and is expected to close on or about October 24, 2007. The sale will not affect RSVP’s scheduled itinerary, nor will it affect current passenger bookings. "We are extremely pleased that RSVP wil! become part of the Atlantis family," said Karen Magee, chief executive officer, PlanetOut Inc. "Atlantis plans to preserve RSVP’s distinct brand, enabling Atlantis to expand the audience it serves by taking advantage of RSVP’s unique positioning within the LGBT community. We believe this combination also will be a real positive for RSVP’S customers and business partners. It really is a perfect match and we’re looking forward to expanding and extending our marketing relationship with Atlantis." "From a corporate perspective, we believe this transaction demonstrates to our shareholders that we are continuing to deliver on our commitment to leverage our strengths by simplifying our business model and emphasizing our core competencies," added Magee. "We are focused on ensuring that we are in the best position to realize our full potential as the leading media and entertainment company exclusively serving the LGBT market, while also strengthening our balance sheet." Magee also pointed out that the sale of RSVP reflects PlanetOut’s strategy of shifting its business to a model which has advertising revenue at its core, and draws strength from the company’s powerful, iconic media brands. Quot bBe Quotes The U.S. Supreme Court declined to hear a challenge to Alabama’s ban on the sale of sex toys, ending a nine-year legal battle and sending a warning to store owners to clean off their shelves. Sherri Williams, owner of Pleasures stores in Huntsville and Decatur, said she was disappointed, but plans to sue again on First Amendment free speech grounds. "My motto has been ’They are going to have to pry this vibrator from my cold, dead hand.’ I refuse to give up," she said. George Takei gets own asteroid: "I am now a heavenly body,’, says the out gay actor of Asteroid 1994 GT9’s official renaming in honor of his long "Star Trek" service. George Takei already had a place among the stars in the minds of millions of"Star Trek" fans. Now he’s taking up permanent residence as the namesake of the asteroid formerly known as the 1994 GTg. The asteroid, located between Mars and Jupiter, has been renamed 7307 Takei in honor of the actor, who is best known for his role as Hikaru Sulu in the original "Star Trek" series. "I think the opponents of gay marriage really fall into two categories. A small group of people just don’t like gay people. If you don’t like one, you don’t like two. It’s geometric. The larger percentage are people who are generally supportive of equal rights, as they have been in Massachusetts, but hear these predictions that it’s going to be socially very chaotic, and they figure, why take the chance?" -Gay U.S. Rep. Barney Frank, D-Mass., to the Wellesley [Mass.] Townsman. Photo: Presenting the Carl Albert Award to Mr. Lemon (right) is fim Frasier, a Tulsa Stonezoall Democrat OKLAHOMA CITY, OK __ On October 20 at the Oklahoma State Democratic Party’s annual Carl Albert Dinner, Bob Lemon received the Carl Albert Award along with the late State Senator Keith Leftwich. Mr.Lemon, who describes himself as "straight but not narrow," is an active member of the Oldahoma StonewaB Democrats and a generous supporter of many causes of the GLBT community. Quotable Quotes Opponents of Oregon’s new same-sex domestic partnership law failed to turn in enough valid signatures to block the measure that takes effect Jan. 1, 2008. "We’re thrilled to bring Atlantis and RSVP together into the same family for the first time," said Rich Campbell, chief executive officer of Atlantis. "The two companies are stronger together than they are apart, and taken together demonstrate the strength and vitality of the gay travel market." www.ozarksstar.corn the STAR 13 �October 1930 (77 yeas ago this month): Sociologist Laud I-tumphreys is born in Chickasha, Oklahoma. was ONahoman Lau d Humphreys? aud I-Iumphreys’ 1970 book, Tearoom Trade: Impersonal Sex in Public Places, presented a landmark ethnographic study of men who cruise for anonymous sex in public bathrooms - a topic that remains relevant to this day. Robert Allan Humphreys was born October 16, 1930, in Chickasha, Okla., the son of a conservative member of the state House of Representatives. After graduating from college in Colorado Springs, Humphreys earned a Master of Divinity degree in 1955 and was ordained an Episcopal priest (at which time he adopted the name "Laud"). He married his wife Nancy at age 30, and the couple had two children. Humphreys’ involvement in black civil rights and antiwar activism in the 1960s garnered attention from the FBI and angered prominent members of his various congregations. After he was dismissed from a parish post in Wichita, Kan., he enrolled in graduate school at Washington University in St. Louis to study socio!ogy and crimino!ogy. Possibly motivated both by the discovery that his deceased father led a secret homosexual life and by struggles with his own sexuali~ Humphreys decided to study men who seek sex in public toilets, or "tearooms." Though Humphreys claimed he was a "watch queen," or a voyeur who acted as a lookout, many suspect he was a more direct participant. Humphreys recorded the license plate numbers of more than 100 men he observed having sex - mainly fellatio - in the bathrooms of a city park, used these to track down their addresses, and later visited their homes in disguise, posing as a public health interviewer. ~ne subjects never knew they were part of a study, much less gave their consent. 14 the STAR Humphreys’ Ph.D. dissertation, published as Tearoom Trade in !970, detailed the steps involved in the homosexual public sex ritual - positioning, signaling, maneuvering, contracting, foreplay, and the payoff- as well as the intricate back-and-forth as men gauged one another’s interest. As such, he concluded, it was highly unlikely that an unwitting straight man would be molested or pestered for sex. Though the men went to great lengths to avoid both arrest arid violence from uninterested heterosexuals, police used the cruising code for entrapment. "W-hen a homosexual takes a seat in the adjacent commode and starts tapping his foot, the decoy will tap back," Humphreys wrote. Humphreys found that just over half the men he studied were married, 38 percent did not consider themselves either homosexual or bisexual, and only !4 percent were openly gay. They came from diverse races and socioeconomic classes and were generally similar to "normal" heterosexual men, except that the cruisers tended to be politica~y and socially conservative pillars of their community. "In donning the breastplate of righteousness," Humphreys wrote, "the covert deviant assumes a protective shield of superpropriety." Humphreys’ dissertation caused an immediate furor. ~Pne university chancellor sought to have his degree revoked for abetting felonies, sociology colleaDles criticized his dishonest research methods, and some gay activists regarded the study as an embarrassment - though it shored up the argument that since homosexual cruisers bothered no one else, bathroom busts were a waste of resources. Nevertheless, _Tearoom Trade won the prestigious C. Wright Mills award from the Society for the Study of Social Problems. In 1972, Humphreys was hired as a professor of sociology and criminal justice at Pitzer College in Claremont, Calif. - a contract he negotiated from a jail cell where he was serving time for invading a draft board office and smashing a portrait of Richard Nixon. He came out publicly at the 1974 annual meeting of the American Sociological Association as part of a panel discussion in which he also outed Edward Sagarin (who had written the groundbrea~ng Tlxe Homosexual in ka~aerica under the name Donald Webster CoW in 1951, but had since grown critica! of the gay movement). Humphreys went on to co-found the Sociologists’ Gay (now LGBT) Caucus. By the mid- !970s, Humphreys’ scholarly productivity had declined, and he began to shirk his academic responsibilities. In 1980, he left his wife, moved in with a male protege, started a private counseling practice, and became increasingly involved with the Los Angeles gay community. In his later years, he returned to the ministry, serving people with AIDS. A heavy smoker, he died of lung cancer at the age of 58. The ethics of Humphreys’ study are still widely debated. Along with other questionable research in various fields, it helped usher in strong informed consent requirements and institutional review boards to protect research participants. But his work has undergone reconsideration in recent years. None of his subjects were actually harmed (Humphreys kept their information under lock and key), and some commentators have suggested that much of the initial furor was motivated more by distaste for the topic than true concern for the subjects. Further, information about public sex cultures proved invaluable in devising AIDS prevention strategies, and partidpantobserver research with an advocacy" angle became more acceptable. Almost four decades after its publication, Tearoom Trade remains the definitive guide to homosexual toilet sex. Despite a much larger GLBT community, many more venues for meeting, and pervasive sex on the Internet, anonymous sex in public places shows no sign of dissipating among gay or non-gay-identified men. For further reading: Galliher, John, W’ayne Brekhaus, and David Keys. 2004. Laud Humphreys: Prophet of Homosexuality and Sociology (University of Wisconsin). Horowitz, Irving. 2003. Tributes: Personal Reflections on a Century of Social Research (Transaction Publishers). Schacht, Steven. 2004. Moving Beyond the ControversT: Remembering the Many Contributions of Laud Humphreys to Sociology and the Study of Sexuality. International Journal o-fSociolo{~y and Social Policy (Vol. 24; special issue on Humpnreys). ~w.ozarksstar.com �A briefhiSlory ofthe grape Pinot Noir comes from all over world. It’s grown in many coun including: France, Argent Austria (called burgunder), (Sp&tburgunder), (Pinot Nero Zealand, "Dole" when the United States, gundac). Pinot Noir is a difficult with. The plant is A parent plant can wildly different ~erry size ar even flavor. Cabernet I genetically individual clones Noir has www.ozarksstar.corn inot Noirgoes l~hrough a range of langes as it matures. A young wine will fruity characteristics including: raspberry and strawberry. it ages earthiness, smoke Chardonnay in sparIon in Cal 4. Jayer-Glf Hautes Cot Burgundy 5. Etude Carneros ’05 California 6 Raptor Ridge Willamette Valley ’05 0~egon And as always, I say go to your favorite the STAR 15 �On Saturday night November I0 & Cat Stevens. Of course I heard Isreali folk music when I was at Temple, Tulsans "W~II have an opportunity to hear one of America’s greatest songrcesses, a remalkable artist with her own eclectic brand of modern folk music with her own unique twist. Born in Greenwich, Connecticut and growing up as a talented prodigy, she studied at the American School of Ballet, went on to earn a drama degree at Stanford Universi~ founded her own MPress Record label, racked up a repertoire of discography, and has even written & performed nasionally known TV commerai£s. She has toured extensively in both the United States and Europe. Described by Judy Collins as great glfx...an incredible talent and beauty," the shares her thoughts, hopes and aspirations with us. STAR: Glad to have you with us, we’re delighted you’re coming m Oklahoma. Have you been here before? MS SAGE: I have, I played there a couple of years ago at your Tulsa Pride Festival. STAR: How would you describe your unique brand of music? MS. SAGE: I would tend to call my music arc-pop, which kind of btingr in some of the pop music that I listened to growing up from the 50s, 60s and 70s and some of the classical music I heard as a ballerina. STAR: As a record coflector myself I was intrigaed with some of the music that influenced you growing up, like the records your parents had of Broadway shows, the Beades ¯nd the do-wop artists of the 60s. MS. SAGE; Certainly the Beades, a lot of classical music, and Broadway musicals. In the 70s a best friend tttrned me on to a lot of folk ardsts like Carole King, James Taylor 1 6 the STAR STAR: Did the music you hear at your synagogue have a big influence on your style? MS.SAGE: Mosdy the Temple music made me love to sing. Tae cultural aspects of tynagugue exposed me to a lot of music, a lot of minor keys & beautifid melodies, another area that showed me how music can bring people together. MS.SAGE: Well, I was always into music, sounding music out on the piano by ear when I was about 2 ½ years old. Actually the first Broadly show I saw was Ok~homa, and when I gut home I would try to play the score by ear. I gut into dance, which was a good part of my muaiol education a~ well. STAR: You had written and performed for some nationally known TV commercials. What are some that we might remember? MS. SAGE: I did one for Gillette, ~nd another one for Cwstal L 7 or 8 years ~ inside you, takes you away, Crystal Light, 5 different STAR: I love it! What influences your music most of nil today? �SPINNAKER CRAB CAKES Ingredients: 1 pinch white pepper a bowl with crab meat may<:~rt~i~ eggs, chives and season- low heat. Slowly now or they WJI! ~l to bum. Ser~e with a side of mayonnaise into which a few dl~p~ of fresh lemon juice and �TRAVE L by Donald Pite and Ray Williams SAN FRANCISCO AND "THE CASTRO" ~e have just returned froio the beauttfial "City by the Bay~ and it is tr~y as wonderful, exciting alld lnagl~ificellt as ever. For some strange re~.son it kad been 6 years shace we were last there and we used to go once a year, but we got involved with othes places to visit instead, but we were so happy to visit San Frmlcisco again. \Ve find it am~iog how many gays around the country have never been to gan Francisco so we will start of by saying that Saa Frmacisco is the city ~uxd "]he Castro" is the gay district in Sm~ Frmacisco which is filled with lots of great restaurants, shops and of course plenty of bars. "!bns of bars so whatever you ~re into you will be sure to find a bar just for you! "The Cusrco" has been around for y~ a~d years. All up ~nd dco~n the Castro d~strict ~re gay ttags waving e,mrywhere ~d the largest one is just as you step offthe pubic transportation system and you are laced with the largest gay ttag that we ins and a public email statina, available 2417. And in addition you have access to their refrigerator and mlcro-wave. They care about their guests! Just wish that more B and B’s were as considerate and caring. Why ~xor stay where you are partying? Be sure ~nd check out both of these B and B’s before making a trip to San Francisco. Shopping for gifts, clothing, decorating items or even groceries are all within a couple bIoch area of the Castro. T~e res~aura~*rs axe a~ individu.tlly owned and off&s a wide ~ango of menus. A~xd of course by s tayla~g at the Village House you ~e right i~ tlm middle of everyth~g ~d can w~kk everywhe~[ and a wondert~ c~mmunity room located t~ght at the front which overlooks the mreet where you c~n watch hmtdreds of gays w~k b?; 18 the STAR ~en there is San Francisco i~sel£ What a beaurifu[ dty and of art work, museums, down,town shopping on Union Squaxe. Chinatown is just a few bhicl~ from downtown and you certainly don’t want to miss the shopping and food there, From downtown take one of the cable cars to Fisherman’s Wharf alld Pier 39 to see all die ��The gay section of Hippie Hollow Park is a favorite Austin kangout on weekend afternoons. (Photo by Andrew Collins) in this part of the dty), and the H~apton Irm and Suites, an attractive, reasonably priced mid-rise opened a few years ago. Across the river, within walking distance of downtown, you’ll find another excellent todging base, the retro-trendy South Congress district, home to the devedy restored Austin Motel. Many rooms at dais quirky slice of ’50s-style Americana have tile floors, kitchenet tes, Jacuzai rubs, and kidney shaped patios. There’s an on-site Mexican restaurant, El Sol y La Luna, that turns out fiery, kich-ass huevos rancheros and carne asada. A few blocks away, the swankier Hotel San Jose is another old motor court that’s been given a postmodern, mlnlmalist makeover. The spacious courtyard suites are downright posh (and pricey), but a simpler though soil snazzy room with a shared bath runs for under $100 nighd)~ Entertain g~ests in the hotel’s scene-y iounga-cum-coffechouse. OI~ Friday, your first night in town, decompress ~tfter your flight or car ride with a rel~xh~g, informal meal at one of the city’s well-regarded purveyors of Tex-Mex, such as Guero’s or Manuel’s. A former feed store that’s now a fabulous taqueria, Guero’s serves some of the best Mexic~m f~re in central Texas - flora standard but ar tl~ly seasoned tamales to more innovative creations like marinated grilled pork on a corn tortilla with onions, cilantro, mad fresh pineapple. Fancier than most oFabe Mexican testaments in town, M~nuel’s is a sleek, deco-inspired space i~ the Warehouse District with a sassy little bar in back. Try some of the more innovative creations, fike corn-battered colossal thdmp with a poblano-chile c~rn, or pork enchiladas in a velvety mole sauce. Austin, Texas Fast-growing Aastin has been one of America’s most talked about cities over the past decade, having not o~ly increased its population by nearly 50 percent but also solidified its [eputation as an ultracool place ro live and visit. The fact that Austin is oppressively hot for a few months each summer is about its only maior negative. A~ auctman approaches, however, Austin cools off again ~nd this means the city’s myd~ad cafes, lounges, music dubs, and gay hangouts sizzle with activit~ If yoffve been to this lefr leaning - especially by Texas standards - city before, say five or more yeaxs ago, you may have trouble recoguiaing it. The downtown landscape has been transformed by recendy constructed office and hotel towers, and a fantastic new air port makes traveling here a breeze. Here’s a recipe for enjoying the perfect three-day weekend in this upbeat, welcoming metropolis. Consider staying in the forty downtown Warehouse District, with its bounty of both gay and gay-friendly bars as wdl as hip restau rants and offbeat boutiques. Worthy recommendatiorts include the most glamorous hotd in town, the Intercontinental Stephen E Austin. an opulent 16-stoty beauty with marne baths, 1920s era furnishings, mad twice-daily maid service. Perfectly appealing yet less pricey downtown alternatives include the Radisson Town Lake, whgse rooms face the scenic Colorado River (known as Tow~ Lake 20 the STAR Al~er your meal. it’s time to check out at least a couple of Austin’s inviting gay bars - it’s a topsy-turvy scene in these parts, with one or two bars coming and going seemingly every year. But you can consistendy count on there being roughly a half dozen gay bars downtown, mosdy concentrated in the Warehouse Distticr. Worthwhile options on Fridays include the relatively new Rain on 4th, which opened in the Warehouse District in 2006, and has a kively deck out back, a cozy bifliards bar up front, and a mldssize dance b~r iu file middle; and Chadie’s, the city’s oldest gay bar, which fies in the shadows of the state capitol building. Go-go boys perform inside, ~nd there’s a spacious deck in back. If you’re looking to keep it mellow your first night, have an ~er-dlnner cocktail, fruit smoothie, or espresso drink at the stylJth Halcyon Coffeehouse and Lounge, a hlpster-i~fested, gay friendly bengout across the street from Rain on Rise a~*d shine on Saturday morning with breakfast at one of Austin’s more eccentric nosh pits, Magnolia Crate, which has branches along South Congress Avenue ~aad also just west of downtown on Lake Austin Boulevard. The delicious, filling breakfast specialties range from the "Solar Landscape" (seasoned grilled potatoes, red onions, and ham topped with queso ~nd chipotle sauce) to hefty gingerbread pancakes bursting with blueber ties. Very dose to the South Congress neighborhood, you can take to the outdoors and work offsome calories with a stroll through beautiful 350-acre Zilber Park, a fine spot to tan your hide on sunny days. The park’s spting-fed Barton Springs Pool, a popular and enormous swimming hule, remains an invigorating 68 degrees year-round, so bring along a swimsuit if the weather’s nice. �Austin’s best outdoor attraction, however, is Hippie Hollow Park, which hugs the shores of stunning Lake Travis, about a 30-minute drive west of town. This is the region’s only official clothing-optional sunbathing spot. The gay section, which draws substantial crowds on just about any day with temperatures above 65 degrees, lies at the very end of the pathway that leads from the parking lot. On weekend afternoons you’ll often see pleasure boats packed with cute guys docked just offshore. Break for refreshments with a meal at the Oasis, a massive outdoor compound set high on a bluff overlooking the lake and Hippie Hollow - it’s a short drive from the park. The mediocre Mexican food at Oasis won’t win any culinary awards, but the views and the potent margaritas make this a winner. On your way back into town, treat yourself to some truly heavenly ice cream at Amy’s, a shrine to fattening dairy treats. Mexican vanilla, pumpkin cheesecake, and honeyed brandy are a few poptflar flavors at this local chain with outposts in several handy locations, induding South Congress Avenue and 6th Street downtown. If you still have a litde time left, stroll among the cool antiques, homefurnishings, and second-hand clothing shops a!ong South Congress Avenue and also in the Warehouse District. Spend your final afternoon in town exploring the leafy 357-acre campus of the University of Texas, whose attractions include the Lyndon Baines Johnson Presidential Library and Museum and the Texas Memorial Museum, which has exhibits on state history and local flora and fauna. UT’s Blanton Museum of Art is well-regarded for its collections of Renaissance paintings as well as modern Latin American art. Guadalupe Street, known along its border with LIT as "the Drag," is a haven of alternative culture as well as the place to shop for locally made arts and crafts, Longhorn memorabilia, and other offbeat goods. On your final night in Austin, you might go all out with a highticket dinner at one of the city’s most sophisticated restaurants, such as dark and sexy Jeffrey’s, which has the polish of a big-city supper dub and a clientele that ranges from celebs to politicos. The lamb T-bone with spinach-parmesan souffle and onion-mint confit is a typically sublime dish. Don’t miss the white-chocolate parfait with brandied cherries and pistachios i~or dessert - a memorable ending to a great Austin weekend. Saturday-night dinner options are many. Stick with the Warehouse District for the best people-watching, plus proximity to gay nightlife. Excellent dining bets include Kenichi, a mod, happening place where pretty young things hobnob over superbly rendered Japanese cuisine. At nearby Malaga, you can savor plate after plate of terrific tapas, such as braised beef short ribs in Riojo vdne. It’s a dramatic space with tall brick walls and marble tables, and there’s Latin music most nights. Saturday is Austin’s big night for gay revelry. Rain on 4th and Charlie’s remain popular options, but this is also the best night to check out Rain’s neighbor, Oilcan Harry’s, which has been a £xture in the city for years. This always-packed stand-and-model bar attracts a hot collegiate crowd. There are a couple of bar areas, a patio in back, and a good (loud) sound system serving the tiny but pulsing dance floor. Austin’s many queer country-western fans head to the nearby Rainbow Cattle Co., where they two-step and line-dance below a sea of wagon wheels and Wild West artifacts. If you’re into leather, head to the Chain Drive, which cultivates a bearish and rugged ambience. The city also has dozens of clubs and lounges hosting bands and singers of just about every ilk, making Austin one of the nation’s top cities for live music. Just stroll through the Warehouse District, especially along East 6th Street, and listen for the sounds of music to your liking. In Austin, nobody cares much about looks, labels, and agendas - you’ll be made to feel welcome most anywhere. Sunday morning offers a fresh opportunity to sample one of Austin’s great brunch or lunch spots - depending on how late you sleep in. A favorite of the gay community, Katz Dell is renowned for its half-pound sandwiches - the grilled three-cheese with tomatoes is especially good. Another enjoyable option is the South Congress Cafe, a handsome space known for such toothsome brunch treats as duck-and-oyster gumbo, and a luscious carrot cake French toast. ~,~twv.ozarksstar, com 72% of gays and lesbians prefer to buy from companies that advertise to them directly. (Source: Harris/Witeck-Combs) Brand loyal, 89% of gays and lesbians are highly likely to seek out brands that advertise to them; the majority are willing to pay a premium for quality products and services. (Source: Simmons) the STAR 21 �by Donald Pile & Ray Williams Featuring Cuisine From Coast to Coast lae Spinnaker Restaurant, On San Francisco Bay The Spinnaker Restaurant in downtown Sausalito, California is one of our very favorite restaurants in the country. We have dined there many times over the years and it just keeps getting better and better. Chef Phil Collins has been there since 1982 and Jeff Scharosch the General Manager has been there since 1994. q-hey do a remarkable job and it shows! "l-he Spinnaker Restaurant has panoramic views of the Sausalito waterfront, San Francisco skyline, Angel Island, Belvedere, Alcatraz, & the Bay Bridge. Floor to ceiling glass walls enable guests the chance to enjoy the scenery from every angle in the dining room, which is built on piers directly over the water. The view is unrivaled and is the best in the San Francisco Bay Area. Located in beautiful historic Sausalito, The Spinnaker is just a short drive from the Golden Gate Bridge. The stunning view is only surpassed by our extensive menu, featuring the freshest seafood & finest ingredients. You can also take the Ferry or bus service to Sausalito and it is just a 5 minute walk from either terminals to the restaurant. For over 47 years they have been treating guests to the finest in seafood and pasta. q-hey are open everyday from 11:00 AM to 11:00 PM. Their menus offers something for everyone, with fresh seafood, pasta, steak, chicken, & vegetarian options. Seafood highlights include the Mixed Seafood Grill, Spinnaker Paella, Pacific Mahi Saut~ 22 the STAR with Crab & Brie, Grilled Lobster Tail, & Petrale Filet with a Crouton & Macadamia nut crust. Our pasta selections include Penne with Grilled Chicken, Four-Cheese Ravioli with Walnut Alfredo or Pesto Sauce, & Fettuccini with Crab. They also offer Petite New York Steak or Filet Mignon with Cabernet Bordelaise, Piquant Chicken Breasts Saute, & Braised Chicken Breasts in a Champagne reduction. Vegetarians can choose from an array of salads, Pasta Primavera, Bruschetta, Cheese Quesadilla, or Baked Brie with Roast Garlic. If you wish to dine for lunch, they also offer many delighttiff sandwiches including the Crab, Shrimp & Avocado Club, Club House Sandwich, & The Spinnaker Hamburger. For those with a sweet tooth, their desserts will surely hit the spot. Cr~me Brule, Berry Trifle, Warm Apple Tart with Vanilla Bean Gelato, & Hot Fudge Sundae axe just a few of their sinful selections. They also have a huge wine selection and banquet facilities are available for special events and parties. Valet parking is available. Be sure and check their website at: www.thespinnaker.com No trip to San Francisco would be complete without dining at Spinnaker’s! www.ozarksstar.corn �A Family Affair Lesbian Notions, an interview with Jennifer Chrisle~ executive director ofthe Family Equality Council No good deed goes unpunished. That is certainly the case for Michael Gregg Valdez and Michael Oberg, who took in the four young children of Valdez’s niece. The niece asked the couple to take care of her children while she dealt with some drug-related criminal matters. Already parenting Valdez’s biological daughter, Michael and Gregg, as Valdez in known, are more than happy to provide a stable, loving home until the children’s mother is ready to do the same. The problem is they live in Utah, where two unmarried people cohabitating cannot serve as foster or adoptive parents. The state’s Division of Children and Family Services asked the courts to take the children away from the two men so they could be placed in foster homes more to the state’s liking - married, heterosexual households. Instead of handing custody to the state, the court took custody of the kids and then turned around and granted Gregg temporary custody. For now, the four will stay together. This is just the type of situation that fuels the passion of Jennifer Chrisler, the executive director of the Family Equality Council. You may have knmvn the organization as Family Pride - the name was recently changed to reflect their purpose of achieving family equality for all loving families. "Mike and Gregg’s willingness to open their homes and hearts highlights ~vhat is best about families - love, commitment, strength, and support," Chrisler told me recently. "Utah’s law regarding placement of foster care children is not good public policy, nor is it good for children." Ballot initiatives banning gay adoption and fostering may well raise their ugly heads in the 2008 presidential race - although when that tactic was used in 2004, it didn’t gain much traction. However, according to Chrisler, Arkansas is likely to mount a ballot initiative that in the long run will just hurt kids in need of loving homes. www.ozarksstar.com And in Texas, the state is proposing spending close to $3 million to investigate current foster parents. If any of the parents are found to be LGBT, the kids will be yanked from the homes. Chrisler has been working to protect those kids and their LGBT families since Apri! of 2005, when she came to the Council, then located in Washington, D.C., after serving as a fundraising consultant for political campaigns and LGBT organizations in Massachusetts. She and her spouse, Cheryl Jacques (yes, the same Cheryl Jacques who helmed the Human Rights Campaign for a brief and shining moment) recently moved Remember the Easter Egg Roll at the White House, where LGBT families wore rainbow leis and received national media attention? That was thanks to FEC. back to the Bay State with their 5-year-old fraternal twins, Tim and Tom. The organization moved with them, and is now headquartered in Boston. ’Tm a mother. I’m raising my kids in a world where our families don’t have what they need to keep each other strong and protected," she noted. "Kids spend a lot of time explaining who their families are, and I’d like that to stop." In the little more than two years that Chrisler has been at FEC, she has transformed the organization into a political powerhouse. Remember the Easter Egg Roll at the White House, where LGBT families wore rainbow leis and received national media attention? That was thanks to FEC. When James Dobson from Focus on the Family wrote a hatefiA op-ed in _Time Magazine_ about Mary Cheney’s pregnancy, FEC pressured the conservative weekly to run a counterpoint piece entitled "Two Mommies or Two Daddies Will Do Fine, Thanks," authored by Chrisler. The piece focused on the inequity of Virginia state law - where Cheney and her partner, Heather Poe, live with their son - and how Poe is without any legal parental rights. "Some of the pressing issues we face are marriage equality and uniform parenting laws," said Chrisler. "We need laws that recognize the complicated and creative ways our families are created. Issues such as surrogacy, sperm donors, and divorce create legal complications. It would be nice to have a uniform law to protect our families." A community organizer at heart, Chrisler understands that she can’t be the only one out there speaking on behalf of family equality. Through OUTspoken Families, the organization’s national speakers bureau, more than 1,000 people in 39 states, D.C., one U.S. territory, and three foreign countries have been trained to speak out on family equality issues. "We’re training people to be advocates for themselves, their families, friends, and people they care about at every level of their life, from responding to a comment in an elevator to speaking to the PTA," said Chrisler. "We have a lot of people raising the issue of family equality at lots of different levels...we’re working to change the hearts and minds of straight people we come into contact with." Changing those hearts and minds means changing the way LGBT families live. Many of us no longer have to live in the shadows, afraid that someone will find out that our kids have two mommies or two daddies. But for those who do, FEC and Chrisler work to change laws, make schools safer, and create a national LGBT family movement that can no longer be ignored. The STAR 23 �Diversityl~ ��calls himself GUILT. Your coworkers needle you about missing the retirement party for Nallely in the claims department. The decision is dear. You can always hit the weights tomorrow at the gym. Thursday dawns on you and what knave could be lurking to derail your plans today? Out of the bushes and over the grassy knoll are fired two shots. They are in the form of two tickets to that sold-out Erasure concert. No way! Get out! Andy Bell is in town and you’ve got your daws on some front row seats. You know every song and every lyric. That arm and chest workout can be shelved until tomorrow! ~ho are your greatest enemies? Luke Skywalker batded the respiratory challenged scoundrel Darth Vader. Superman played chess games with the Mensa maniac Lex Luthor. Batman and Robin were vexed with the likes of the Joker when they weren’t exploring the depths of their’batcaves. You and I have much worse enemies to ward off. These foes rear their ugly heads daily and seek to divert us from our health and fitness goals. The Bangles rendition of Manic Monday starts us heading through a sea of procrastination and fitness evasion. There is the Monday happy hour and 2-4-1 drinks the rest of the night at your favorite watering hole. This double headed monster lures you from your daily workout with promises of sweet intoxication and the aroma of tangy mouth-watering boneless buffalo wings. This enemy gets extra fire power during October, November, and December ~vith Monday night football. Resistance is futile. Tuesday night should be your cardiovascular workout on the elliptical machine. However, that new television lineup on NBC isn’t going to watch itself. It took scores of actors, directors, producers, grips, and cameramen many weeks to compile "Must See TV". You could just TIVO it all and catch up some other night. You would then be terrifyingly ignorant around the water cooler the next morning. That’s too dangerous to chance. Bad guys win again! It’s hump day and you’ll get back on that fitness wagon that you fell off of earlier in the week. I smell a conjunction though. BUT.... the guy in shipping and receiving is requesting your attendance at his birthday bonanza at the Hoo-Ha Lounge. The enemy here 26 the STAR What a concert! You have a hoarse voice but at least it’s Friday. Oh no! It’s Friday! There’s no way you can hit the gym tonight. Everybody who’s anybody will be at that new dub in downtown. Those hot DJ’s from KGAY will be handing out free T-shirts and selling $1 shooters for charity. You have all weekend offwork and you can surely make up for missed workout time then. After all Scarlet, tomorrow is another day. Quotable Quotes Uganda’s leading Muslim cleric has proposed to President Yoweri Museveni that gays be rounded up and marooned on an island in Lake Victoria unti! they die. Sheikh Ramathan Shaban Mubajje told reporters of his plan following a much publicized meeting with Museveni. "I asked President Museveni to get us an island on Lake Victoria and we take these homosexuals and they die out there," Mubajje told a news conference. "If they die there then we shall have no more homosexuals in the country." Saturday brings bright skies and temperatures in the low 90’s. The phone rings and it’s the boys. They’re heading for the lake with the boat, sunscreen, and a cooler stocked full of barley pops. There is no way you can miss this. I know you’ve said it before. But this has just been an unusual week. You really will get back on track soon. Right? Sunday comes and you can probably write your own defeat against an evil enemy. It doesn’t have to be this way. Stay strong against the dark side. With some discipline and some proper planning, you can keep a workout routine. Know what is important and stay focused. Tomorrow is always the busiest day of the year. Don’t let it be that way. Take charge today! ~is column is brought to you by that guy who likes to stomp his feet in bathroom stalls JUST for attention. That guy is Ron Blake and he can be reached at www.goblakefirness.com. Creating Community for People iving with H P4iAt DS A 501 c (3) Non Profit Organization Our House, Too offers a vadety of activities for people who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS to help combat the social isolation that many of our people live through each and everyday. We provide a Toiletry and Household Pantry for those who are HIV+ and or IMng with AIDS who cannot afford to purchase these items for themselves. We invite anyone who would like to volunteer or provide financial assistance to please contact us by phone 918-585-9552 or e-mail hardsmmjr@yahoo.com. www.ozarksstar.com �R~chad Sage continued: Log Cabin Ref)ublicans continued: MS. SAGE: So very many independent artists actually, because the bulk of my listening time is spent evaluating and listening to music independent artists are sending me at my record label, MPress Records. Oldahomds LCR is one of the newest organizations in OkAahoma dedicated to promoting gay rights. During the past three years it has been active and present at most gay public events, including gay pride celebrations in Tulsa, Oklahoma City and McAAester. ’,We do compilations which benefit charity called New Arrivals, we’ve released 2 so far and are working on a third. It’s a great opportunity to hear all kinds of independent music, spanning the range of folk, rock, alternative pop. I think that more inspires than influences me. I try to find my own voice continually, which I have found is a never ending process. As far as mainstream artists I always look forward to the next record from Fiona Apple, and Rufus Wainwright is one of my very favorite artists. I also like Coldplay, U2, and I still pull out my Carole King records, am I’m looking forward to an upcoming new Mark Cohn album. STAR: What kinds of audiences do you mainly appeal to now? MS. SAGE: Actually there are several, that’s one of the fun things of starting out at a young age. There is the folk world, the alternative college listeners xvhich are ever changing, a younger set and also those in their 40s 50s and beyond from the coffeehouse scene. I love to play at Pride festivals every summer, about 10 or 15 every year. Of course the GLBT community is a wonderfid and supportive audience. As a matter of fact, we’re about to pul! into Provincetown where we will be playing a gig for Women’s Week. STAR: ~his tour promotes your newest CD The Blistering Sun, what inspired the title? MS.SAGE: It’s a lyric from one of the songs of the album, "Surprise" which was written for my sister’s wedding years ago. It came out almost a year ago, and I’m almost ready to bring out another one in the spring of 2008 called Chandelier. The Blistering Sun is really about self-determination, coming to that place where you are true to yourself, a process and lesson that really never ends. ST/MR: Anything special you’d like to say to the music lovers of Tulsa? MS. SAGE: Just that I’m really excited to come back, it’s been quite a few years. I can’t wait-it’ll be fun! STAR-Looking forward to it, i’ll see you at the Bamboo Lounge Tulsa. www.ozarksstar.com "I believe the positive changes we need to make in America for gay rights can best be made when both major political parties are confronted with the reality of its gay members," O’Herin said. "This is espedally true of the Republican Party." For further details contact O’Herin at OKLOGCABIN@aol.com, or call 405-9450368. (IGBO) Continued: hotel. Holiday Inn will also host the registration suite, hospitality suite, many social events and a display of panels of the AIDS quilt. The tournament activities will be held at Heritage Lanes at 122nd & Penn and Windsor Lanes at NW 23rd & Meridian. Single and doubles bowling events will be held at Heritage Lanes and the team and Scratch Masters events will be held at Windsor Lanes. Management and staff at both centers are excited about hosting this special event. The weekend will wrap up with a gala awards ceremony to be held in the Sam Noble Special Events Center inside the National Cowboy & Western Heritage Museum on Sunday evening. This remarkable room will host a catered meal, special presentations by the IGBO Board of Directors, rousing entertainment by Lyric Theatre and the announcement of the winners of the tournament. The tournament will coincide directly with the state of Oklahoma’s Centennial cdebration. We hope our guests will take time to enjoy the city as it steps into its second century of growth and excitement. Please extend a hearty Oklahoma welcome to our guests as they visit our city for this special event! More information about IGBO can be found at www.igbo.org. More information about IGBO Mid-Year 2007 in Oklahoma City can be found at www.igbomy2007.org. MCC Jopt r , Ce eBrates 10th Anniversary JOPLIN, MO (P/R) __Spirit of Christ MCC cdebrates ten year of service to the greater Joplin, MO area. This church was started in 1996 in the home of our pastor, Rev. Steve Urie. During the last ten years we have survived in a community where our own GLBT people said we would not survive. We have fed hundreds for the holidays, work closely with our local office of AIDS Project of the Ozarks, have been a sanctuary for students dismissed for being GLBT, and have a food program available for everyone. Just this year Spirit of Christ MCC joined with MCC of the Living Spring to support the Domestic Partnership Registry in Eureka Springs, AR. We continue our concert series with such talented artists as Marsha Stevens, Terry Lee Ousley~ Shawn Thomas and Sam Sampson. During our celebration Marsha Stevens, Sam Sampson, Rev. Carolyn Mobley from Tulsa, Rev Kurt Krieger from Kansas City and friends from Eureka Springs, AR were all present. We are a member church of MCC Churches. As a church made up of people from all walks of life, all economic classes, every gender, and a wide variety of ethnic and religious backgrounds. This rich heritage is our greatest blessing, because it brings the whole rainbow of Gods creation together under the same roof. It also presents our greatest challenge as we always strive to reflect this rich diversity in our ministry, programs and services. Spirit of Christ MCC has spent ten years focusing on the needs of our community through acts of kindness while standing for the justice that should be available to all people. Our church is open to all people and while celebrating the traditional church we recognize our God is not in a box. That realization is what frees us and all who worship with us. Find an MCC in your area: in Eureka Springs, AR visit MCC of the Living Spring at 17 Elk Street Sundays at 6PM; in Tulsa, OK visit MCC United at 1623 Maplewood Sundays at 11AM; in Kansas City, MO visit Spirit of Hope MCC at 3801 Wyandotte Sundays at 10:15AM and in Joplin, MO visit Spirit of Christ MCC at 2902 E 20th Street Saturdays at 10:00 AM. the STAR 27 �Venus enters her own sign, Libra, helping us all to be more accommodating, artistic, and gracious. And more manipulative? Venus may not be to blame on her own. The Sun is in Scorpio squaring Neptune, inflating our desires and blurring boundaries. ARIES (March 20 -April 19): Teamwork comes more easily now, so work on those skills! Erotic tension between you and a good friend needs expression and clarification. Acting on it could be a mistake, but maybe.not. Discussing it is necessary, and probably quite sufficient. TAURUS (April 20 - May 20): Explore new ways to play and create with others, and find satisfaction there for now. Work is likely to be frustrated by confusion with close associates. Rethinking your goals could help. Express feelings and hunches clearly, and check them out before acting on them. SAGITTARJUS (November 22 - December 20): This is the time to curry favor with your superiors. Avoid gossip and subterfuge. Simply refuse to listen or to participate. As juicy as the dish may be, it will only get you into trouble. CAPRICORN (December 21 - January 19): Forget the "tall, dark stranger." Flirt instead with the foreign cutie with dimples - you’ll be luckier in international affairs. But you’re less lucky now with finances. See where those sails need trimming, but wait another week to readjust plans. AQUARIUS (January 20 o February 18): Be very careful who you flirt with. You could seduce almost anyone you like, but you may find your erotic adventures complicating your professional life. At least be very clear about who you are and what you want to do. PISCES (February 19 - Niarch 19): Falling in love comes too easily to you, but ride that warm current now, either basking in the adoration of your partner, or enjoying an amour du jour. Foreign mystical philosophies have a special appeal; follow your instincts, and you may gain terrific insights. GEMINI (May 21 - June 20): Mend fences with family members or roommates. Be _very_ careful about safe sex! The most exotic and unusual bugs are looking for you. If there’s no spiritual fulfillment in your work, find a way to work it into your exercise. (Yoga? Haikido?) CANCER (June 21 - July 22): Your seductive powers are now at their height. You are perhaps a little too sexy and playful, and that could get you into trouble. But just as you can talk your way into anything now, you can almost always talk your way out, too. LEO (July 23 - August 22): Domestic disputes are nearly inevitable now. A drink or a shopping escapade seems to be the easiest way to ameliorate the problem - but drinking only makes it worse, and shopping is just a diversion. Still, a diversion could help! METROPOLITAN COMMUNITY CHURCHES Rev Steve T. Urie Spirit of Christ MCC VIRGO (August 23 - September 22): Some advice from your partner or another close friend could help you to improve your looks or to feel better about yourself. Appearances count, but go deeper and discuss health issues that you normally wouldn’t. 2902 E 20th Street Joplin, MO 64804 417-529-8480 Worship Saturdays at t0:00 AM Community Meal Wednesdays at 6:00 PM LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): Enjoy quiet, meditative music and art. A private retreat will give you room to explore your own aesthetics without being influenced by others. Go to a museum or show on your own, and never mind what others like. MCC of the Living Spring SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): Your social charms are strong now, but what you want for others may not be what they care for. Explaining your goals may come off a bit too strong, so first ask others what they want. 28 the STAR 17 Elk Street Eureka Springs, AR 72632 479-253-9337 Worship Sundays at 6:00 PM Have a God filled and BleSSed Day! www.ozarksstar.com �DOWNTOWN PLAZA of TULSA 17 West 7th Street Tulsa, OK 918-585-5998 www.downtownplazat ulsa.com HABANA INN 2200 NW 39TH EXPRESSWAY Oklahoma City, OK 405-528-2221 www.habanainn.com KELLY KIRBY, CPA 4815 S. HARVARD, SUITE 424 Tulsa, OK * 918-747-5466 Certified Public Accountant DREXEL ONTHE PARKAPTS. 3041NW41ST Oklahoma City, OK 405-946-0588 BRADY THEATER 105 W Brady Tulsa, OK 918-582-7339 www.bradytheater.com CLUB MAJESTIC 124 N. 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Sheridan Rd., #153 Tulsa, OK 74145 MCC of the LIVING SPRING 17 Elk Street Eureka Springs, AR 72632 479-253-9337 Worship Sundays 6pm (Single Copies $3.00 per issue) NAME: NW ARKANSAS GLBT CENTER Bentonville/Rogers 888-391-9222 WWNVdNWAGLBTCC.ORG Address: City: Phone: DIVERSITY PRIDE EVENTS 479-253-2555 Eureka Springs, AR www.diversitypride.com Check enclosed Money Order Start Date: St: Zip:. �V/hether buying or selling I’ll work hard for you. t~ ~~sas GLBT Communi~- Center "Linking Together as One" For more information: 888-391-9222 V!W~.NWAGLBTCC.ORG 30 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com �w~’~,’.ozarkssta r.co m the STAR 31 �Nov. 2 Event Center Special Guests 7 p.m. Jon Hoadley National Stonewal Democrats A1 McAffrey lim Roth Oklahoma Corporation Commissioner Featuring Scott, Shannen Porter, DeFawna DeLay Kelly Moore, & Melody Michaels unforgettable evening drink & en~em $30 ~mnual Membership Admission ~-’~ Oklahoma Democrats "The LGBTStonewall Voice of the Democratic Party~ � Text A resource consisting primarily of words for reading. Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data magazine Text Any textual data included in the document Happy Thanksgiving STATEHOOD DAY San Francisco & Austin, Texas West 7th Street (corner 7th & Bolder Ave) o Tulsa, Ok 74t t 9 o www.downtownplazatulsa~com Reservations: 918.585.5998 ® 800.585.5101 Where you can b YOU" 2 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 3 { LOCAL Real Men Fry Turkeys and International Gay Bowling hits OKC. Oklahoma’s Centennial Kicks off in our first Capitol, Guthrie. October 1930 (77 years ago last month) Sociologist Laud Humphreys is born in Chickasha, Oklahoma. Pinot Noir is one of the oldest vine grape varieties known. This grape has been cultivated in Burgundy since the 1st century AD. Rachael Sage Talks with the STAR before her performap,ce in Tulsa. Gay Travelers: San Francisco Out of Town: Austin, Texas Dining In or OUT Lesbian Notions, an interview with Jennifer Chrisler, executive director of the Family Equality Council. Introspection can lead you to better understand yourself and ultimately to achieve greater happiness. ON THE COVER: Deborah Harry & Rachael Sage 4 the STAR In the interview with Nick Post, the new owner of Angles, we incorrectly stated due to a typo that he had acquired the Finishline, Copa, Ledo and Gushers in 2007. It was actually 2000. We regret the error. STAR DISTRIBUTION: OKLAHOMA CITY * TULSA * LAWTON * MCALESTER * ENID * NEW ORLEANS * NORTH LITTLE RODK * FAYETTEVILLE * FT SMITH * EUREKA SPRINGS * HOT SPRINGS * BENTONVILLE * ROGERS * KANSAS CITY * SPRINGFIELD * JOPLIN * BRANSON AREA* WICHITA* PITTSBURG * JUNCTION CITY www.ozarksstar.com R÷a By Greg Steele With all the outing of gay penguins, sheep, dogs and other species, is there a possibility there are gay turkeys? How would you know if you were eating one of our own? I mean the poor critters are just herded into the slaughter pen, humanely killed, I presume, plucked and whisked off to Walmart. I for one will be asking the Walmart meat lady if my turkey was gay! I refuse to bake, fry, barbecue or boil a family member. We assume that all turkeys are hetero, and it’s OK to bake or fry ect., a homophobic hetero turkey, but what if your turkey was hetero and gay friendly? This outing of animals and now fowl is just not right. It raises so many questions and creates so many problems and it’s Thanksgiving for God’s sake. Where are the Fowl Rights people when you need them! Have a Great Holiday! INTERNATIONAL GAY BOWLING TOURNAMENT AND CONVENTION ROLLS INTO OKLAHOMA CITY OKLAHOMA CITY, OK (P/R) __ Oklahoma City wilt be hosting the International Gay Bowling Organization’s (IGBO) 2007 Mid-Year Tournament and Convention, November 7-12, 2007. This event will cap offtwo years of preparation by the OKClassic Bowling Association as it welcomes bmvlers from al! over the United States and Canada. IGBO is the world’s largest GLBT sports organization with over 170 member leagues and over 60 member tournaments. OKClassic has hosted one of IGBO’s largest and most-respected tournaments for over 16 years and has donated over $100,000 to local charities in the process. Oklahoma City hosted IGBO’s 1994 Annual Tournament and Convention. The convention activities will be held at The Holiday Inn Hotel & Suites on NW 63rd & Robinson. IGBO’s Board of Directors, Regional. Representatives, and league and tournament representatives from around the world will conduct various business meetings at the ......................................... Continuedpa~,e- 27 www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 5 rocre tior Uber AlOes OK~.AHOMA CITY, OK__ Who would have thought that the successful union of a spermatozoa and an ovum would be a taxpaying citizen’s certification of citizenship. ¯he highest court of the state of Maryland has recently joined New York and Washington state in ruling that because same-gendered people can’t procreate they can not be married in the same way that opposite-gendered people can. Reading between the lines it seems straight people who have the corresponding slot A and tab B are automatically entitled to the approximately 1,400 Federal and state benefits that accrue with state-sponsored marriage. I always thought that paying taxes made one a citizen. Odd, that even though I have no children, I’m still required to pay school taxes. Additionally, I pay a sales tax to help pay for municipal structures such as sports arenas that I will never use, my gasoline taxes are used to pave roads which I’ll never drive on, and my library taxes will pay for books which H1 never read. And now, at least in Maryland, New York and Washington-- I have to pony up with a wife and child in order to be a REAL citizen? Paying taxes isn’t enough? I’m glad these anti-gay judicial decisions are finally exposing the hypocrisy of our socalled civil society where the First Amendment defense of the separation of secular and sacred is being ignored and willfully convoluted in order to perpetuate the ideas of religious supremacy, the power of the penis, and the submissiveness of the vagina. Since when was being the father or mother of a child necessary to prove one’s citizenship? Is that really the case? Don’t we all know married straights who have never had biological children? Are their marriages in danger of being repudiated in those states that have ruled procreation as a necessary possibility for a complete marriage? Are childless marriages breaking the law? Doesn’t this suggestion smell strongly ofNazism and other totalitarian creeds such as one-child China? AS our American society devolves into a seriously reality-adverse Gulag of religiously based proscriptions against equality, and as the "demos" is removed from Democracy and replaced with "theos", I’ve written a proposed bill that someone like Trent "gays have Heptomania" Lott, Larry ’Tm not gay" Craig, David "diaper" Vitter, or Jim "no gays in my family" Inhofe wil! take up on the floor of Congress. IfI were a God-fearing, Bible-banging GOP straight man truly interested in the precepts of the great Creator who knows all things and requires the institution of marriage to be solely and soulfully about procreation I would legislate for the fol!owing policy to be instituted. A provisional license would be issued following a medical examination to determine the gender and procreative viability of the man and woman applying. Should one applicant fai! this examination in either part no license from the state would be allowed. In addition the failing partner would be required to register on a publicly available website to insure against fraud and redundancy. Opposite gendered married couples that do not procreate vcithin three years of their marriage will have that marriage annulled. If a procreative impediment, other than self-induced conditions, develops after the issuance of the provisional license as ~vell as after the issuance of the final license, the marriage would be allowed to continue. Should there be a stillbirth or death within one year of the birth of a living child, an extension of one year would allowed for each subsequent stillbirth or early death. Such extensions would continue until the natural menopausal advancement occurs with the woman. The man is considered to be fertile for life. As the balance scale of Lady Justice is replaced with a cudgel, and her blindfold exchanged for binoculars it would do for us all, gay or straight, to reassess just what makes a civil society. 6 the STAR wxvw.ozarksstar.corn ~’wvw.ozarksstar.com the STAR 7 Recognized by Keller Williams For outsLandlng achievement 2005 and 2006 Chuck Sreckenridge 918-706-1887 3627 NW Expressway 405.840.2106 TESTING CLINIC hea]t~ ow~each prevention education, inc. 1-800-535-AIDS (2437) Oklahoma’s HIV/STD Hotline PROTECT YOURSELF PROTECT YOUR PARTNER(S) ¯ Frse nonjudgmental HIV ~esting, including the 20 minute OraQuick TesL KNOW YOUR STATUS *Free Syphillis screening at th~ GLBTCommunity Center on Tuesdays from 6-Spin H,O,P.E. Testing Clinic Mens Outreach Program In Tulsa at (918) 812-7045 Let us promote your business in a UNIQUE & DIVERSE market. Call STAR ADVERTISING today. (918)835-7887 8 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 9 AIDS WALK OKC R~MEMBEIUNG THOSEPASSED ON, WORKING TOWA~ocDSABETTER FUTURE. By Victor Gorin Photo:Joe @dgle); OKCsc~ool teacher and political activist with Miss America Lauren Nelson OKLAHOMA CITY, OK __ Keeping up a proud tradition begun in 1998, the Oklahoma City AIDS Walk was held again on Sunday, September 29 as usual sponsored and supported by a wide variety of groups & people from all walks of life to help those living with HIV, prevention and education, as well as remembering those passed on. ~his year the occasion was honored as Miss America, Oklahoma’s own Lauren Nelson, headlined as this year’s Grand Marshall. This year’s walk raised over $60,000. The Walk benefits the AIDS Support Program/Winds House, RAIN (Regional AIDS Intercommunity Network), Guiding Right, Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma-HIV/AIDS Legal Resource Project, Northern Lights Alternatives, Other Options Inc, Planned Parenthood of Oklahoma & Red Rock North. Currently over 6000 Oklahomans are living with HIV or AIDS. OKC MDS Walk President Danny Morgan looked to the future with his statement, "We are really excited over the increase in attendance and money raised over last year, and we’re looking forward to an even bigger event with yet more money raised for the valuable work that our agencies do in the Oklahoma City area." STOP HATE N THE HALLWAYS A BULLYNG CONFERENCE THAT NADE H STORY By Victor Gorin OKLAHOIVlA CITY, OK __ On October 11 history was made in Oklahoma. Although there had been numerous conferences and seminars about school safety in the past, there had always been something conspicuously missing, and to one group of victims, along with their friends and families, it was obvious. It was students harassed because of their real or perceived sexual orientation. The Stop Hate in the Hallways Conference was held at the Springlake Metro Tech Campus, organized by Cimarron Alliance and co-sponsored by numerous organizations. The conference was attended by over 300 people, among them teachers, school administrators, law enforcement, and other people from all walks of life throughout Oklahoma. As one of the organizers, OKC Councilperson Ann Simank pointed out, " I think the conference is addressing many issues that should have been addressed years and years ago. The whole goal is for the attendees today to obtain some real knowledge and tools to take back to their communities so that they’ll be able to make children safer and feel better, to feel accepted." The conference explored the price society pays for school bullying. Victims of bullying are less likely to go on to college, many even drop out of high school to escape abuse, thus doing serious damage to their careers. School districts have been successfiAly sued when harassment was deliberately allowed, and tragedies have resulted that have made schools less safe. The keynote speaker was Kevin Jennings, the founder and national director of GLSEN (Gay Lesbian Straight Education Network), which works to educate the public and school systems about the problems faced by students harassed due to sexual orientation. A former teacher himself, he pointed out that a generic policy prohibiting bullying" is no more valuable than no policy at all. Gay students likelihood of skipping school is when they see themselves specifically mentioned in the policy, among race, religion, color, and so on". He also pointed out that it has been shown that schools that have a policy specifically protecting students from harassment due to sexual orientation have a lower incidence of bullying overall. On a positive note, he stated that among parents surveyed almost 83% support school policies protecting students from bullying due to real or perceived sexual orientation, even 77% of those parents identified as born again Christians. Although there are many differences of opinion, the overall consensus of parents is that they want their children’s schools to be safe. He compared the threats & opposition of fundamentalist parents opposing a policy of this protection to be "like a dog on the other side of a door that is really a chihuahua. " There was discussion about the Oklahoma City School District, which last year posted on their website the upcoming Student Handbook, which included among the categories protected from bullying & harassment "sexual orientation," then mysteriously pulled those words two days later. Despite numerous appeals by many diverse speakers and groups, the Oklahoma City School Board has yet to give any reply as to why this happened, or why there is no policy protecting OKC students from this category of harassment to this day. To attend the conference, personnel from the OKC school systera had to take personal time off from their jobs. In closing Richard Odgen, President of Cimarron Alliance had some optimism in saying, "I think this will not be the end of this discussion, but the beginning. We’re hopeful that in the years to come that rather than the State Secretary of Education saying ’ I’m too busy’ she wil! be here. Rather than a lack of support from largest school district in the state, there will be a policy of sending teachers to the conference. We’re letting people know, we are going to talk about it, it isn’t right that that these hot topics aren’t discussed, in fact that is why the), must be discussed. " 10 the STAR ~.ozarksstar.com TULSA, OK (P/R) __ The Dennis 1L Neill Equality Center art gallery will host its monthly meet-the-artist reception from 6- 9pm, Thursday, November 1, 2007, for the opening of its November exhibit, "Schizo", works by artist Patrick Uva. Uva comes to Tulsa via New York City where he studied art at City College ofNew York. Since moving to his new home, Patrick has created a prolific collection of new paintings and sculpture. His new shmv "SCHIZO" was inspired by the auditory hallucinations he struggles with every day. "I wanted to express my struggle with the voices, but also the idea of collective freedom. I have this ’built-in’ collective consciousness so I wanted to show how individual awareness affects humanity as a whole. Patrick uses vibrant colors, fabric, dirt, sand and even cigarette ash within the confines of a skewed geometry to produce art that is at once violent, harmonious, haunting and ioy6 l. The exhibit will remain up through the month of November, and can be viewed Monday thru Saturday from 3-9pm. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is located at 621 E. 4th St., in downtown Tulsa. More info can be found on the web at okeq.org. This monthly event is hosted by Oklahoman’s for Equality (OkEq). OkEq seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual & Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Cdebrate 1st Arm versary Oklahoma’s Log Cabin Republicans (LCR) will be celebrating their first year as a chapter of the national organization with a special free barbecue dinner November 1. The social event is for members only and their friends, including many Democrats who have been invited. It is also an event geared toward welcoming potential new members. "We are going to throw a nice dinner party for our members and friends, to celebrate the fact we completed the requirements of our national committee for full chapter status," said Tim O’Herin, president of the group. LCR is the nation’s largest organization of Republicans who support fairness, freedom, and equality for gay and lesbian Americans. It has state chapters nationwide, a full-time staff in \Vashington, DC, and a Federal political action committee. "Although LCR of Oklahoma has been active in the gay community for about three years, this is our first year as a recognized chapter," he said. The party is by invitation only, and will be held in a member’s home in the south Edmond, North Oklahoma City area. The barbecue dinner is being provided by Head Country Barbecue of Ponca City. Dinner will be at 7:30 PM., with a one hour cocktail hour at 6:30 PM. "We encourage any gay man or lesbian who is a Republican, or supports our goals, to contact us for details about the dinner," he said. "Since it is being held at a private residence, we will not publicize the exact details of its location, but anyone who is interested in attending can contact us for further information," O’Herin said. ....................Continued page 27 Deborah Harry per£orm At T sa’s Historic Brady eater TULSA, OK (P/R) __ The lead singer for Rock & Roll Hall of Fame inductees Blondie, Deborah Harry is performing at Tulsa’s Historic Brady Theater on Tuesday November 27th. The ultimate pop-rock, new wave diva, Debbie Harry set the mold, incorporating everything she learned from culture pioneers like Andy Warhot, Giorgio Moroder and Fab Five Freddy into her fashion, look and, particularly, sound. With Blondie, she and Chris Stein brought the worlds of disco and rock together with "Heart of Glass", "Dreaming", "The Tide Is High", and "Call Me" and broke ground by combining hiphop and pop on "Rapture." As a solo artist, Nile Rodgers & Bernard Edwards co-produced her first release Koo Koo in 1981. She continues to defy expectations with such genre-busting efforts as "French Kissing in t~he U.S.A.," "Rush Rush," "Rain", ’[Atomic", and "The Jam Was Moving." Before there was Madonna and Gwen Stefani, Debbie Harry was rock’s reigning blonde pin-up icon, and both are quick to acknowledge her inspiration, as are countless female (and male) rockers who have since formed bands. On the heels of her sixth solo album "Necessary Evil", Deborah Harry will be performing live at Tulsa’s Historic Brady Theater Tuesday November 27th, 2007. Doors open at 6:30 p.m. and show starts at 7:30 p.m. Tickets cost $29, $39 & $49. at www.bradytheater.com, Tulsa’s Historic Brady Theater at 105 West Brady, or by calling the Brady Theater Ticket Office at (918) 58-BRADY (27239). www.ozarksstar.corn the ST.~R 11 Y÷a ! GUTHRIE, OK__ The Guthrie Centennial Committee, in coordination with the Oklahoma State Centennial Commission, is proud to present a major state celebration in Guthrie, Oklahoma on November 16, 2007. This State Holiday celebrates the 100 Year Proclamation of Oklahoma Statehood by President Theodore Roosevelt on November 16, 1907. Guthrie, as Oklahoma’s First State Capital, will host historical re-enactments of the statehood proclamation, the swearing- in of Oklahoma’s First Governor, Cliarles Haskell, and the symbolic wedding of Oklahoma Territory with Indian Territory. These re-enactments will be held at the historic Carnegie Library in Guthrie, where they actually occurred in 1907. At 12 Noon, a historic parade will be held, just as occurred in 1907, and will retrace the route from the Scottish Rite Temple to Mineral Wells Park. This historic parade will include major university marching bands such as the University of Oklahoma, Oklahoma State University, Langston University, the University of Central Oklahoma, and the Oklahoma Centennial All Star Band. In addition, marching bands from Logan County high schools will also perform. At Mineral Wells Park, a barbeque will be held with the identical menu which occurred a century ago...barbeque, bread, a pickle, coffee and lemonade. Other events and entertainment venues will also be held throughout the downtown area during the day. State and national dignitaries will be in Guthrie, to participate in the reenactments, and in the parade. The President of the United States has been invited to be in Guthrie also on this day. The City of Guthrie has been advised that between 75,000 and 100, 000 visitors may attend events on this historic day. As a small city, the challenge of these crowds will be enormous. City planning is ongoing throughout 2007 to anticipate and deal with crowds. Many volunteers from the Guthrie and Logan County communities, and from the region, will assist in making a historic day for visitors. Lodging, dining, other details: Residents are being encouraged to wear early 1900 "Period Dress" for the Statehood Day events. Victorian, Edwardian, and Western dress is encouraged but not required. Visitors to Guthrie are also welcome to wear period attire. Lodging and dining referrals may be found through the Chamber of Commerce at 405-282-1947. Historic Pollard Inn at 405-282-1000 The Guthrie Bed & Breakfast Association through v~.guthriebb.com Sleep Inn at 405-260-1400 With the large anticipated crowds, visitors may desire to bring personal or picnic lunches. 12 the STAR w~wv.ozarksstar.com PlanetOu InCo Sells RSVP Vacations SAN FRANCISCO, CA (PRNewswire- FirstCall __PlanetOut inc., the leading media and entertainment company exclusively focused on the gay and lesbian market, today announced that it has entered into a definitive agreement with Atlantis Events, Inc. for Atlantis to acquire RSVP Vacations. The transaction is subject to customary closing conditions and is expected to close on or about October 24, 2007. The sale will not affect RSVP’s scheduled itinerary, nor will it affect current passenger bookings. "We are extremely pleased that RSVP wil! become part of the Atlantis family," said Karen Magee, chief executive officer, Planet- Out Inc. "Atlantis plans to preserve RSVP’s distinct brand, enabling Atlantis to expand the audience it serves by taking advantage of RSVP’s unique positioning within the LGBT community. We believe this combination also will be a real positive for RSVP’S customers and business partners. It really is a perfect match and we’re looking forward to expanding and extending our marketing relationship with Atlantis." "From a corporate perspective, we believe this transaction demonstrates to our shareholders that we are continuing to deliver on our commitment to leverage our strengths by simplifying our business model and emphasizing our core competencies," added Magee. "We are focused on ensuring that we are in the best position to realize our full potential as the leading media and entertainment company exclusively serving the LGBT market, while also strengthening our balance sheet." Magee also pointed out that the sale of RSVP reflects PlanetOut’s strategy of shifting its business to a model which has advertising revenue at its core, and draws strength from the company’s powerful, iconic media brands. Quot bBe Quotes The U.S. Supreme Court declined to hear a challenge to Alabama’s ban on the sale of sex toys, ending a nine-year legal battle and sending a warning to store owners to clean off their shelves. Sherri Williams, owner of Pleasures stores in Huntsville and Decatur, said she was disappointed, but plans to sue again on First Amendment free speech grounds. "My motto has been ’They are going to have to pry this vibrator from my cold, dead hand.’ I refuse to give up," she said. George Takei gets own asteroid: "I am now a heavenly body,’, says the out gay actor ofAsteroid 1994 GT9’s official renaming in honor of his long "Star Trek" service. George Takei already had a place among the stars in the minds of millions of"Star Trek" fans. Now he’s taking up permanent residence as the namesake of the asteroid formerly known as the 1994 GTg. The asteroid, located between Mars and Jupiter, has been renamed 7307 Takei in honor of the actor, who is best known for his role as Hikaru Sulu in the original "Star Trek" series. "I think the opponents of gay marriage really fall into two categories. A small group of people just don’t like gay people. If you don’t like one, you don’t like two. It’s geometric. The larger percentage are people who are generally supportive of equal rights, as they have been in Massachusetts, but hear these predictions that it’s going to be socially very chaotic, and they figure, why take the chance?" -- Gay U.S. Rep. Barney Frank, D-Mass., to the Wellesley [Mass.] Townsman. Photo: Presenting the CarlAlbertAward to Mr. Lemon (right) isfim Frasier, a Tulsa Stonezoall Democrat OKLAHOMA CITY, OK __ On October 20 at the Oklahoma State Democratic Party’s annual Carl Albert Dinner, Bob Lemon received the Carl Albert Award along with the late State Senator Keith Leftwich. Mr.Lemon, who describes himself as "straight but not narrow," is an active member of the Oldahoma StonewaB Democrats and a generous supporter of many causes of the GLBT community. Quotable Quotes Opponents of Oregon’s new same-sex domestic partnership law failed to turn in enough valid signatures to block the measure that takes effect Jan. 1, 2008. "We’re thrilled to bring Atlantis and RSVP together into the same family for the first time," said Rich Campbell, chief executive officer ofAtlantis. "The two companies are stronger together than they are apart, and taken together demonstrate the strength and vitality of the gay travel market." www.ozarksstar.corn the STAR 13 October 1930 (77 yeas ago this month): Sociologist Laud I-tumphreys is born in Chickasha, Oklahoma. was ONahoman Lau d Humphreys? aud I-Iumphreys’ 1970 book, Tearoom Trade: Impersonal Sex in Public Places, presented a landmark ethnographic study of men who cruise for anonymous sex in public bathrooms - a topic that remains relevant to this day. Robert Allan Humphreys was born October 16, 1930, in Chickasha, Okla., the son of a conservative member of the state House of Representatives. After graduating from college in Colorado Springs, Humphreys earned a Master of Divinity degree in 1955 and was ordained an Episcopal priest (at which time he adopted the name "Laud"). He married his wife Nancy at age 30, and the couple had two children. Humphreys’ involvement in black civil rights and antiwar activism in the 1960s garnered attention from the FBI and angered prominent members of his various congregations. After he was dismissed from a parish post in Wichita, Kan., he enrolled in graduate school at Washington University in St. Louis to study socio!ogy and crimino!- ogy. Possibly motivated both by the discovery that his deceased father led a secret homosexual life and by struggles with his own sexuali~ Humphreys decided to study men who seek sex in public toilets, or "tearooms." Though Humphreys claimed he was a "watch queen," or a voyeur who acted as a lookout, many suspect he was a more direct participant. Humphreys recorded the license plate numbers of more than 100 men he observed having sex - mainly fellatio - in the bathrooms of a city park, used these to track down their addresses, and later visited their homes in disguise, posing as a public health interviewer. ~ne subjects never knew they were part of a study, much less gave their consent. Humphreys’ Ph.D. dissertation, published as Tearoom Trade in !970, detailed the steps involved in the homosexual public sex ritual - positioning, signaling, maneuvering, contracting, foreplay, and the payoff- as well as the intricate back-and-forth as men gauged one another’s interest. As such, he concluded, it was highly unlikely that an unwitting straight man would be molested or pestered for sex. Though the men went to great lengths to avoid both arrest arid violence from uninterested heterosexuals, police used the cruising code for entrapment. "W-hen a homosexual takes a seat in the adjacent commode and starts tapping his foot, the decoy will tap back," Humphreys wrote. Humphreys found that just over half the men he studied were married, 38 percent did not consider themselves either homosexual or bisexual, and only !4 percent were openly gay. They came from diverse races and socioeconomic classes and were generally similar to "normal" heterosexual men, except that the cruisers tended to be politica~ y and socially conservative pillars of their community. "In donning the breastplate of righteousness," Humphreys wrote, "the covert deviant assumes a protective shield of superpropriety." Humphreys’ dissertation caused an immediate furor. ~Pne university chancellor sought to have his degree revoked for abetting felonies, sociology colleaDles criticized his dishonest research methods, and some gay activists regarded the study as an embarrassment - though it shored up the argument that since homosexual cruisers bothered no one else, bathroom busts were a waste of resources. Nevertheless, _Tearoom Trade won the prestigious C. Wright Mills award from the Society for the Study of Social Problems. In 1972, Humphreys was hired as a professor of sociology and criminal justice at Pitzer College in Claremont, Calif. - a contract he negotiated from a jail cell where he was serving time for invading a draft board office and smashing a portrait of Richard Nixon. He came out publicly at the 1974 annual meeting of the American Sociological Association as part of a panel discussion in which he also outed Edward Sagarin (who had written the groundbrea~ng Tlxe Homosexual in ka~aerica under the name Donald Webster CoW in 1951, but had since grown critica! of the gay movement). Humphreys went on to co-found the Sociologists’ Gay (now LGBT) Caucus. By the mid- !970s, Humphreys’ scholarly productivity had declined, and he began to shirk his academic responsibilities. In 1980, he left his wife, moved in with a male protege, started a private counseling practice, and became increasingly involved with the Los Angeles gay community. In his later years, he returned to the ministry, serving people with AIDS. A heavy smoker, he died of lung cancer at the age of 58. The ethics of Humphreys’ study are still widely debated. Along with other questionable research in various fields, it helped usher in strong informed consent requirements and institutional review boards to protect research participants. But his work has undergone reconsideration in recent years. None of his subjects were actually harmed (Humphreys kept their information under lock and key), and some commentators have suggested that much of the initial furor was motivated more by distaste for the topic than true concern for the subjects. Further, information about public sex cultures proved invaluable in devising AIDS prevention strategies, and partidpantobserver research with an advocacy" angle became more acceptable. Almost four decades after its publication, Tearoom Trade remains the definitive guide to homosexual toilet sex. Despite a much larger GLBT community, many more venues for meeting, and pervasive sex on the Internet, anonymous sex in public places shows no sign of dissipating among gay or non-gay-identified men. For further reading: Galliher, John, W’ayne Brekhaus, and David Keys. 2004. Laud Humphreys: Prophet of Homosexuality and Sociology (University of Wisconsin). Horowitz, Irving. 2003. Tributes: Personal Reflections on a Century of Social Research (Transaction Publishers). Schacht, Steven. 2004. Moving Beyond the ControversT: Remembering the Many Contributions of Laud Humphreys to Sociology and the Study of Sexuality. International Journal o-fSociolo{~y and Social Policy (Vol. 24; special issue on Humpnreys). 14 the STAR ~w.ozarksstar.com AbriefhiSlory ofthe grape Pinot Noir comes from all over world. It’s grown in many coun including: France, Argent Austria (called burgunder), (Sp&tburgunder), (Pinot Nero Zealand, "Dole" when the United States, gundac). Pinot Noir is a difficult with. The plant is A parent plant can wildly different ~erry size ar even flavor. Cabernet I genetically individual clones Noir has it ages earthiness, smoke Chardonnay in spar- Ion in inot Noirgoes l~hrough a range of langes as it matures. A young wine will fruity characteristics including: Cal raspberry and strawberry. 4. Jayer-Glf Hautes Cot Burgundy 5. Etude Carneros ’05 California 6 Raptor Ridge Willamette Valley ’05 0~egon And as always, I say go to your favorite www.ozarksstar.corn the STAR 15 OnSaturday night November I0 Tulsans "W~II have an opportunity to hear one ofAmerica’s greatest songrcesses, a remalkable artist with her own eclectic brand of modern folk music with her own unique twist. Born in Greenwich, Connecticut and growing up as a talented prodigy, she studied at the American School of Ballet, went on to earn a drama degree at Stanford Universi~ founded her own MPress Record label, racked up a repertoire of discography, and has even written & performed nasionally known TV commerai£s. She has toured extensively in both the United States and Europe. Described by Judy Collins as great glfx...an incredible talent and beauty," the shares her thoughts, hopes and aspirations with us. STAR: Glad to have you with us, we’re delighted you’re coming m Oklahoma. Have you been here before? MS SAGE: I have, I played there a couple of years ago at your Tulsa Pride Festival. STAR: How would you describe your unique brand of music? MS. SAGE: I would tend to call my music arc-pop, which kind of btingr in some of the pop music that I listened to growing up from the 50s, 60s and 70s and some of the classical music I heard as a ballerina. STAR: As a record coflector myself I was intrigaed with some of the music that influenced you growing up, like the records your parents had of Broadway shows, the Beades ¯nd the do-wop artists of the 60s. MS. SAGE; Certainly the Beades, a lot of classical music, and Broadway musicals. In the 70s a best friend tttrned me on to a lot of folk ardsts like Carole King, James Taylor 1 6 the STAR & Cat Stevens. Of course I heard Isreali folk music when I was at Temple, STAR: Did the music you hear at your synagogue have a big influence on your style? MS.SAGE: Mosdy the Temple music made me love to sing. Tae cultural aspects of tynagugue exposed me to a lot of music, a lot of minor keys & beautifid melodies, another area that showed me how music can bring people together. MS.SAGE: Well, I was always into music, sounding music out on the piano by ear when I was about 2 ½ years old. Actually the first Broadly show I saw was Ok~homa, and when I gut home I would try to play the score by ear. I gut into dance, which was a good part ofmy muaiol education a~ well. STAR: You had written and performed for some nationally known TV commercials. What are some that we might remember? MS. SAGE: I did one for Gillette, ~nd another one for Cwstal L 7 or 8 years ~ inside you, takes you away, Crystal Light, 5 different STAR: I love it! What influences your music most of nil today? SPINNAKER CRAB CAKES Ingredients: 1 pinch white pepper a bowl with crab meat may<:~rt~i~ eggs, chives and seasonlow heat. Slowly now or they WJI! ~l to bum. Ser~e with a side of mayonnaise into which a few dl~p~ of fresh lemon juice and TRAVEL by Donald Pite and Ray Williams SAN FRANCISCO AND "THE CASTRO" ~ehave just returned froio the beauttfial "City by the Bay~ and it is tr~y as wonderful, exciting alld lnagl~ificellt as ever. For some strange re~.son it kad been 6 years shace we were last there and we used to go once a year, but we got involved with othes places to visit instead, but we were so happy to visit San Frmlcisco again. \Ve find it am~iog how many gays around the country have never been to gan Francisco so we will start of by saying that Saa Frmacisco is the city ~uxd "]he Castro" is the gay district in Sm~ Frmacisco which is filled with lots of great restaurants, shops and ofcourse plenty of bars. "!bns of bars so whatever you ~re into you will be sure to find a bar just for you! "The Cusrco" has been around for y~ a~d years. All up ~nd dco~n the Castro d~strict ~re gay ttags waving e,mrywhere ~d the largest one is just as you step offthe pubic transportation system and you are laced with the largest gay ttag that we and a wondert~ c~mmunity room located t~ght at the front which overlooks the mreet where you c~n watch hmtdreds ofgays w~k b?; 18 the STAR ins and a public email statina, available 2417. And in addition you have access to their refrigerator and mlcro-wave. They care about their guests! Just wish that more B and B’s were as considerate and caring. Why ~xor stay where you are partying? Be sure ~nd check out both of these B and B’s before making a trip to San Francisco. Shopping for gifts, clothing, decorating items or even groceries are all within a couple bIoch area of the Castro. T~e res~aura~*rs axe a~ individu.tlly owned and off&s a wide ~ango of menus. A~xd of course by s tayla~g at the Village House you ~e right i~ tlm middle of everyth~g ~d can w~kk everywhe~[ ~en there is San Francisco i~sel£ What a beaurifu[ dty and of art work, museums, down,town shopping on Union Squaxe. Chinatown is just a few bhicl~ from downtown and you certainly don’t want to miss the shopping and food there, From downtown take one of the cable cars to Fisherman’s Wharf alld Pier 39 to see all die The gay section ofHippie Hollow Park is afavorite Austin kangout on weekend afternoons. (Photo by Andrew Collins) Austin, Texas Fast-growing Aastin has been one ofAmerica’s most talked about cities over the past decade, having not o~ly increased its population by nearly 50 percent but also solidified its [eputation as an ultracool place ro live and visit. The fact that Austin is oppressively hot for a few months each summer is about its only maior negative. A~ auctman approaches, however, Austin cools off again ~nd this means the city’s myd~ad cafes, lounges, music dubs, and gay hangouts sizzle with activit~ If yoffve been to this lefr leaning - especially by Texas standards - city before, say five or more yeaxs ago, you may have trouble recoguiaing it. The downtown landscape has been transformed by recendy constructed office and hotel towers, and a fantastic new air port makes traveling here a breeze. Here’s a recipe for enjoying the perfect three-day weekend in this upbeat, welcoming metropolis. Consider staying in the forty downtown Warehouse District, with its bounty of both gay and gay-friendly bars as wdl as hip restau rants and offbeat boutiques. Worthy recommendatiorts include the most glamorous hotd in town, the Intercontinental Stephen E Austin. an opulent 16-stoty beauty with marne baths, 1920s era furnishings, mad twice-daily maid service. Perfectly appealing yet less pricey downtown alternatives include the Radisson Town Lake, whgse rooms face the scenic Colorado River (known as Tow~ Lake 20 the STAR in this part of the dty), and the H~apton Irm and Suites, an attractive, reasonably priced mid-rise opened a few years ago. Across the river, within walking distance of downtown, you’ll find another excellent todging base, the retro-trendy South Congress district, home to the devedy restored Austin Motel. Many rooms at dais quirky slice of ’50s-style Americana have tile floors, kitchenettes, Jacuzai rubs, and kidney shaped patios. There’s an on-site Mexican restaurant, El Sol y La Luna, that turns out fiery, kich-ass huevos rancheros and carne asada. A few blocks away, the swankier Hotel San Jose is another old motor court that’s been given a postmodern, mlnlmalist makeover. The spacious courtyard suites are downright posh (and pricey), but a simpler though soil snazzy room with a shared bath runs for under $100 nighd)~ Entertain g~ests in the hotel’s scene-y iounga-cum-coffechouse. OI~ Friday, your first night in town, decompress ~tfter your flight or car ride with a rel~xh~g, informal meal at one of the city’s well-regarded purveyors ofTex-Mex, such as Guero’s or Manuel’s. A former feed store that’s now a fabulous taqueria, Guero’s serves some of the best Mexic~m f~re in central Texas - flora standard but artl~ly seasoned tamales to more innovative creations like marinated grilled pork on a corn tortilla with onions, cilantro, mad fresh pineapple. Fancier than most oFabe Mexican testaments in town, M~nuel’s is a sleek, deco-inspired space i~ the Warehouse District with a sassy little bar in back. Try some of the more innovative creations, fike corn-battered colossal thdmp with a poblano-chile c~rn, or pork enchiladas in a velvety mole sauce. Al~er your meal. it’s time to check out at least a couple ofAustin’s inviting gay bars - it’s a topsy-turvy scene in these parts, with one or two bars coming and going seemingly every year. But you can consistendy count on there being roughly a half dozen gay bars downtown, mosdy concentrated in the Warehouse Distticr. Worthwhile options on Fridays include the relatively new Rain on 4th, which opened in the Warehouse District in 2006, and has a kively deck out back, a cozy bifliards bar up front, and a mldssize dance b~r iu file middle; and Chadie’s, the city’s oldest gay bar, which fies in the shadows of the state capitol building. Go-go boys perform inside, ~nd there’s a spacious deck in back. If you’re looking to keep it mellow your first night, have an ~er-dlnner cocktail, fruit smoothie, or espresso drink at the stylJth Halcyon Coffeehouse and Lounge, a hlpster-i~fested, gay friendly bengout across the street from Rain on Rise a~*d shine on Saturday morning with breakfast at one ofAustin’s more eccentric nosh pits, Magnolia Crate, which has branches along South Congress Avenue ~aad also just west of downtown on Lake Austin Boulevard. The delicious, filling breakfast specialties range from the "Solar Landscape" (seasoned grilled potatoes, red onions, and ham topped with queso ~nd chipotle sauce) to hefty gingerbread pancakes bursting with blueberties. Very dose to the South Congress neighborhood, you can take to the outdoors and work offsome calories with a stroll through beautiful 350-acre Zilber Park, a fine spot to tan your hide on sunny days. The park’s spting-fed Barton Springs Pool, a popular and enormous swimming hule, remains an invigorating 68 degrees year-round, so bring along a swimsuit if the weather’s nice. Austin’s best outdoor attraction, however, is Hippie Hollow Park, which hugs the shores of stunning Lake Travis, about a 30-minute drive west of town. This is the region’s only official clothing-optional sunbathing spot. The gay section, which draws substantial crowds on just about any day with temperatures above 65 degrees, lies at the very end of the pathway that leads from the parking lot. On weekend afternoons you’ll often see pleasure boats packed with cute guys docked just offshore. Break for refreshments with a meal at the Oasis, a massive outdoor compound set high on a bluff overlooking the lake and Hippie Hollow - it’s a short drive from the park. The mediocre Mexican food at Oasis won’t win any culinary awards, but the views and the potent margaritas make this a winner. On your way back into town, treat yourself to some truly heavenly ice cream at Amy’s, a shrine to fattening dairy treats. Mexican vanilla, pumpkin cheesecake, and honeyed brandy are a few poptflar flavors at this local chain with outposts in several handy locations, induding South Congress Avenue and 6th Street downtown. If you still have a litde time left, stroll among the cool antiques, homefurnishings, and second-hand clothing shops a!ong South Congress Avenue and also in the Warehouse District. Saturday-night dinner options are many. Stick with the Warehouse District for the best people-watching, plus proximity to gay nightlife. Excellent dining bets include Kenichi, a mod, happening place where pretty young things hobnob over superbly rendered Japanese cuisine. At nearby Malaga, you can savor plate after plate of terrific tapas, such as braised beef short ribs in Riojo vdne. It’s a dramatic space with tall brick walls and marble tables, and there’s Latin music most nights. Saturday is Austin’s big night for gay revelry. Rain on 4th and Charlie’s remain popular options, but this is also the best night to check out Rain’s neighbor, Oilcan Harry’s, which has been a £xture in the city for years. This always-packed stand-and-model bar attracts a hot collegiate crowd. There are a couple of bar areas, a patio in back, and a good (loud) sound system serving the tiny but pulsing dance floor. Austin’s many queer country-western fans head to the nearby Rainbow Cattle Co., where they two-step and line-dance below a sea ofwagon wheels and Wild West artifacts. If you’re into leather, head to the Chain Drive, which cultivates a bearish and rugged ambience. The city also has dozens of clubs and lounges hosting bands and singers ofjust about every ilk, making Austin one of the nation’s top cities for live music. Just stroll through the Warehouse District, especially along East 6th Street, and listen for the sounds of music to your liking. In Austin, nobody cares much about looks, labels, and agendas - you’ll be made to feel welcome most anywhere. Sunday morning offers a fresh opportunity to sample one ofAustin’s great brunch or lunch spots - depending on how late you sleep in. A favorite of the gay community, Katz Dell is renowned for its half-pound sandwiches - the grilled three-cheese with tomatoes is especially good. Another enjoyable option is the South Congress Cafe, a handsome space known for such toothsome brunch treats as duck-and-oyster gumbo, and a luscious carrot cake French toast. Spend your final afternoon in town exploring the leafy 357-acre campus of the University ofTexas, whose attractions include the Lyndon Baines Johnson Presidential Library and Museum and the Texas Memorial Museum, which has exhibits on state history and local flora and fauna. UT’s Blanton Museum ofArt is well-regarded for its collections of Renaissance paintings as well as modern Latin American art. Guadalupe Street, known along its border with LIT as "the Drag," is a haven of alternative culture as well as the place to shop for locally made arts and crafts, Longhorn memorabilia, and other offbeat goods. On your final night in Austin, you might go all out with a highticket dinner at one of the city’s most sophisticated restaurants, such as dark and sexy Jeffrey’s, which has the polish of a big-city supper dub and a clientele that ranges from celebs to politicos. The lamb T-bone with spinach-parmesan souffle and onion-mint confit is a typically sublime dish. Don’t miss the white-chocolate parfait with brandied cherries and pistachios i~or dessert - a memorable ending to a great Austin weekend. 72% of gays and lesbians prefer to buy from companies that advertise to them directly. (Source: Harris/Witeck-Combs) Brand loyal, 89% of gays and lesbians are highly likely to seek out brands that advertise to them; the majority are willing to pay a premium for quality products and services. (Source: Simmons) ~,~twv.ozarksstar,com the STAR 21 by Donald Pile & Ray Williams Featuring Cuisine From Coast to Coast lae Spinnaker Restaurant, On San Francisco Bay The Spinnaker Restaurant in downtown Sausalito, California is one of our very favorite restaurants in the country. We have dined there many times over the years and it just keeps getting better and better. Chef Phil Collins has been there since 1982 and Jeff Scharosch the General Manager has been there since 1994. q-hey do a remarkable job and it shows! "l-he Spinnaker Restaurant has panoramic views of the Sausalito waterfront, San Francisco skyline, Angel Island, Belvedere, Alcatraz, & the Bay Bridge. Floor to ceiling glass walls enable guests the chance to enjoy the scenery from every angle in the dining room, which is built on piers directly over the water. The view is unrivaled and is the best in the San Francisco Bay Area. Located in beautiful historic Sausalito, The Spinnaker is just a short drive from the Golden Gate Bridge. The stunning view is only surpassed by our extensive menu, featuring the freshest seafood & finest ingredients. You can also take the Ferry or bus service to Sausalito and it is just a 5 minute walk from either terminals to the restaurant. For over 47 years they have been treating guests to the finest in seafood and pasta. q-hey are open everyday from 11:00 AM to 11:00 PM. Their menus offers something for everyone, with fresh seafood, pasta, steak, chicken, & vegetarian options. Seafood highlights include the Mixed Seafood Grill, Spinnaker Paella, Pacific Mahi Saut~ with Crab & Brie, Grilled Lobster Tail, & Petrale Filet with a Crouton & Macadamia nut crust. Our pasta selections include Penne with Grilled Chicken, Four-Cheese Ravioli with Walnut Alfredo or Pesto Sauce, & Fettuccini with Crab. They also offer Petite New York Steak or Filet Mignon with Cabernet Bordelaise, Piquant Chicken Breasts Saute, & Braised Chicken Breasts in a Champagne reduction. Vegetarians can choose from an array of salads, Pasta Primavera, Bruschetta, Cheese Quesadilla, or Baked Brie with Roast Garlic. If you wish to dine for lunch, they also offer many delighttiff sandwiches including the Crab, Shrimp & Avocado Club, Club House Sandwich, & The Spinnaker Hamburger. For those with a sweet tooth, their desserts will surely hit the spot. Cr~me Brule, Berry Trifle, Warm Apple Tart with Vanilla Bean Gelato, & Hot Fudge Sundae axe just a few of their sinful selections. They also have a huge wine selection and banquet facilities are available for special events and parties. Valet parking is available. Be sure and check their website at: www.thespinnaker.com No trip to San Francisco would be complete without dining at Spinnaker’s! 22 the STAR www.ozarksstar.corn A Family Affair Lesbian Notions, an interview with Jennifer Chrisle~ executive director ofthe Family Equality Council No good deed goes unpunished. That is certainly the case for Michael Gregg Valdez and Michael Oberg, who took in the four young children ofValdez’s niece. The niece asked the couple to take care of her children while she dealt with some drug-related criminal matters. Already parenting Valdez’s biological daughter, Michael and Gregg, as Valdez in known, are more than happy to provide a stable, loving home until the children’s mother is ready to do the same. The problem is they live in Utah, where two unmarried people cohabitating cannot serve as foster or adoptive parents. And in Texas, the state is proposing spending close to $3 million to investigate current foster parents. If any of the parents are found to be LGBT, the kids will be yanked from the homes. Chrisler has been working to protect those kids and their LGBT families since Apri! of 2005, when she came to the Council, then located in Washington, D.C., after serving as a fundraising consultant for political campaigns and LGBT organizations in Massachusetts. She and her spouse, Cheryl Jacques (yes, the same Cheryl Jacques who helmed the Human Rights Campaign for a brief and shining moment) recently moved The state’s Division of Children and Family Services asked the courts to take the children away from the two men so they could be placed in foster homes more to the state’s liking - married, heterosexual households. Instead of handing custody to the state, the court took custody of the kids and then turned around and granted Gregg temporary custody. For now, the four will stay together. Remember the Easter Egg Roll at the White House, where LGBT families wore rainbow leis and received national media attention? That was thanks to FEC. This is just the type of situation that fuels the passion ofJennifer Chrisler, the executive director of the Family Equality Council. You may have knmvn the organization as Family Pride - the name was recently changed to reflect their purpose of achieving family equality for all loving families. "Mike and Gregg’s willingness to open their homes and hearts highlights ~vhat is best about families - love, commitment, strength, and support," Chrisler told me recently. "Utah’s law regarding placement of foster care children is not good public policy, nor is it good for children." Ballot initiatives banning gay adoption and fostering may well raise their ugly heads in the 2008 presidential race - although when that tactic was used in 2004, it didn’t gain much traction. However, according to Chrisler, Arkansas is likely to mount a ballot initiative that in the long run will just hurt kids in need of loving homes. back to the Bay State with their 5-year-old fraternal twins, Tim and Tom. The organization moved with them, and is now headquartered in Boston. ’Tm a mother. I’m raising my kids in a world where our families don’t have what they need to keep each other strong and protected," she noted. "Kids spend a lot of time explaining who their families are, and I’d like that to stop." In the little more than two years that Chrisler has been at FEC, she has transformed the organization into a political powerhouse. Remember the Easter Egg Roll at the White House, where LGBT families wore rainbow leis and received national media attention? That was thanks to FEC. When James Dobson from Focus on the Family wrote a hatefiA op-ed in _Time Magazine_ about Mary Cheney’s pregnancy, FEC pressured the conservative weekly to run a counterpoint piece entitled "Two Mommies or Two Daddies Will Do Fine, Thanks," authored by Chrisler. The piece focused on the inequity ofVirginia state law - where Cheney and her partner, Heather Poe, live with their son - and how Poe is without any legal parental rights. "Some of the pressing issues we face are marriage equality and uniform parenting laws," said Chrisler. "We need laws that recognize the complicated and creative ways our families are created. Issues such as surrogacy, sperm donors, and divorce create legal complications. It would be nice to have a uniform law to protect our families." A community organizer at heart, Chrisler understands that she can’t be the only one out there speaking on behalf of family equality. Through OUTspoken Families, the organization’s national speakers bureau, more than 1,000 people in 39 states, D.C., one U.S. territory, and three foreign countries have been trained to speak out on family equality issues. "We’re training people to be advocates for themselves, their families, friends, and people they care about at every level of their life, from responding to a comment in an elevator to speaking to the PTA," said Chrisler. "We have a lot of people raising the issue of family equality at lots of different levels...we’re working to change the hearts and minds of straight people we come into contact with." Changing those hearts and minds means changing the way LGBT families live. Many of us no longer have to live in the shadows, afraid that someone will find out that our kids have two mommies or two daddies. But for those who do, FEC and Chrisler work to change laws, make schools safer, and create a national LGBT family movement that can no longer be ignored. www.ozarksstar.com The STAR 23 Diversityl~ ~ho are your greatest enemies? Luke Skywalker batded the respiratory challenged scoundrel Darth Vader. Superman played chess games with the Mensa maniac Lex Luthor. Batman and Robin were vexed with the likes of the Joker when they weren’t exploring the depths of their’batcaves. You and I have much worse enemies to ward off. These foes rear their ugly heads daily and seek to divert us from our health and fitness goals. The Bangles rendition of Manic Monday starts us heading through a sea of procrastination and fitness evasion. There is the Monday happy hour and 2-4-1 drinks the rest of the night at your favorite watering hole. This double headed monster lures you from your daily workout with promises of sweet intoxication and the aroma of tangy mouth-watering boneless buffalo wings. This enemy gets extra fire power during October, November, and December ~vith Monday night football. Resistance is futile. Tuesday night should be your cardiovascular workout on the elliptical machine. However, that new television lineup on NBC isn’t going to watch itself. It took scores of actors, directors, producers, grips, and cameramen many weeks to compile "Must See TV". You could just TIVO it all and catch up some other night. You would then be terrifyingly ignorant around the water cooler the next morning. That’s too dangerous to chance. Bad guys win again! It’s hump day and you’ll get back on that fitness wagon that you fell off of earlier in the week. I smell a conjunction though. BUT.... the guy in shipping and receiving is requesting your attendance at his birthday bonanza at the Hoo-Ha Lounge. The enemy here 26 the STAR calls himself GUILT. Your coworkers needle you about missing the retirement party for Nallely in the claims department. The decision is dear. You can always hit the weights tomorrow at the gym. Thursday dawns on you and what knave could be lurking to derail your plans today? Out of the bushes and over the grassy knoll are fired two shots. They are in the form of two tickets to that sold-out Erasure concert. No way! Get out! Andy Bell is in town and you’ve got your daws on some front row seats. You know every song and every lyric. That arm and chest workout can be shelved until tomorrow! What a concert! You have a hoarse voice but at least it’s Friday. Oh no! It’s Friday! There’s no way you can hit the gym tonight. Everybody who’s anybody will be at that new dub in downtown. Those hot DJ’s from KGAY will be handing out free T-shirts and selling $1 shooters for charity. You have all weekend offwork and you can surely make up for missed workout time then. After all Scarlet, tomorrow is another day. Saturday brings bright skies and temperatures in the low 90’s. The phone rings and it’s the boys. They’re heading for the lake with the boat, sunscreen, and a cooler stocked full of barley pops. There is no way you can miss this. I know you’ve said it before. But this has just been an unusual week. You really will get back on track soon. Right? Sunday comes and you can probably write your own defeat against an evil enemy. It doesn’t have to be this way. Stay strong against the dark side. With some discipline and some proper planning, you can keep a workout routine. Know what is important and stay focused. Tomorrow is always the busiest day of the year. Don’t let it be that way. Take charge today! ~is column is brought to you by that guy who likes to stomp hisfeet in bathroom stallsJUST for attention. Thatguy is Ron Blake and he can be reached at www.goblakefirness.com. Quotable Quotes Uganda’s leading Muslim cleric has proposed to President Yoweri Museveni that gays be rounded up and marooned on an island in Lake Victoria unti! they die. Sheikh Ramathan Shaban Mubajje told reporters of his plan following a much publicized meeting with Museveni. "I asked President Museveni to get us an island on Lake Victoria and we take these homosexuals and they die out there," Mubajje told a news conference. "If they die there then we shall have no more homosexuals in the country." Creating Community for People iving with HP4iAtDS A 501 c (3) Non Profit Organization Our House, Too offers a vadety of activities for people who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS to help combat the social isolation that many of our people live through each and everyday. We provide a Toiletry and Household Pantry for those who are HIV+ and or IMng with AIDS who cannot afford to purchase these items for themselves. We invite anyone who would like to volunteer or provide financial assistance to please contact us by phone 918-585-9552 or e-mail hardsmmjr@yahoo.com. www.ozarksstar.com R~chad Sage continued: MS. SAGE: So very many independent artists actually, because the bulk of my listening time is spent evaluating and listening to music independent artists are sending me at my record label, MPress Records. ’,We do compilations which benefit charity called New Arrivals, we’ve released 2 so far and are working on a third. It’s a great opportunity to hear all kinds of independent music, spanning the range of folk, rock, alternative pop. I think that more inspires than influences me. I try to find my own voice continually, which I have found is a never ending process. As far as mainstream artists I always look forward to the next record from Fiona Apple, and Rufus Wainwright is one ofmy very favorite artists. I also like Coldplay, U2, and I still pull out my Carole King records, am I’m looking forward to an upcoming new Mark Cohn album. STAR: What kinds of audiences do you mainly appeal to now? MS. SAGE: Actually there are several, that’s one of the fun things of starting out at a young age. There is the folk world, the alternative college listeners xvhich are ever changing, a younger set and also those in their 40s 50s and beyond from the coffeehouse scene. I love to play at Pride festivals every summer, about 10 or 15 every year. Of course the GLBT community is a wonderfid and supportive audience. As a matter of fact, we’re about to pul! into Provincetown where we will be playing a gig for Women’s Week. STAR: ~his tour promotes your newest CD The Blistering Sun, what inspired the title? MS.SAGE: It’s a lyric from one of the songs of the album, "Surprise" which was written for my sister’s wedding years ago. It came out almost a year ago, and I’m almost ready to bring out another one in the spring of 2008 called Chandelier. The Blistering Sun is really about self-determination, coming to that place where you are true to yourself, a process and lesson that really never ends. ST/MR: Anything special you’d like to say to the music lovers ofTulsa? MS. SAGE: Just that I’m really excited to come back, it’s been quite a few years. I can’t wait-it’ll be fun! STAR-Looking forward to it, i’ll see you at the Bamboo Lounge Tulsa. www.ozarksstar.com Log Cabin Ref)ublicans continued: Oldahomds LCR is one of the newest organizations in OkAahoma dedicated to promoting gay rights. During the past three years it has been active and present at most gay public events, including gay pride celebrations in Tulsa, Oklahoma City and McAAester. "I believe the positive changes we need to make in America for gay rights can best be made when both major political parties are confronted with the reality of its gay members," O’Herin said. "This is espedally true of the Republican Party." For further details contact O’Herin at OKLOGCABIN@aol.com, or call 405-945- 0368. (IGBO) Continued: hotel. Holiday Inn will also host the registration suite, hospitality suite, many social events and a display of panels of the AIDS quilt. The tournament activities will be held at Heritage Lanes at 122nd & Penn and Windsor Lanes at NW 23rd & Meridian. Single and doubles bowling events will be held at Heritage Lanes and the team and Scratch Masters events will be held at Windsor Lanes. Management and staff at both centers are excited about hosting this special event. The weekend will wrap up with a gala awards ceremony to be held in the Sam Noble Special Events Center inside the National Cowboy & Western Heritage Museum on Sunday evening. This remarkable room will host a catered meal, special presentations by the IGBO Board of Directors, rousing entertainment by Lyric Theatre and the announcement of the winners of the tournament. The tournament will coincide directly with the state of Oklahoma’s Centennial cdebration. We hope our guests will take time to enjoy the city as it steps into its second century of growth and excitement. Please extend a hearty Oklahoma welcome to our guests as they visit our city for this special event! More information about IGBO can be found at www.igbo.org. More information about IGBO Mid-Year 2007 in Oklahoma City can be found at www.igbomy2007.org. MCCJopt r , Ce eBrates 10th Anniversary JOPLIN, MO (P/R) __Spirit of Christ MCC cdebrates ten year of service to the greater Joplin, MO area. This church was started in 1996 in the home of our pastor, Rev. Steve Urie. During the last ten years we have survived in a community where our own GLBT people said we would not survive. We have fed hundreds for the holidays, work closely with our local office ofAIDS Project of the Ozarks, have been a sanctuary for students dismissed for being GLBT, and have a food program available for everyone. Just this year Spirit of Christ MCC joined with MCC of the Living Spring to support the Domestic Partnership Registry in Eureka Springs, AR. We continue our concert series with such talented artists as Marsha Stevens, Terry Lee Ousley~ Shawn Thomas and Sam Sampson. During our celebration Marsha Stevens, Sam Sampson, Rev. Carolyn Mobley from Tulsa, Rev Kurt Krieger from Kansas City and friends from Eureka Springs, AR were all present. We are a member church ofMCC Churches. As a church made up of people from all walks of life, all economic classes, every gender, and a wide variety of ethnic and religious backgrounds. This rich heritage is our greatest blessing, because it brings the whole rainbow of Gods creation together under the same roof. It also presents our greatest challenge as we always strive to reflect this rich diversity in our ministry, programs and services. Spirit of Christ MCC has spent ten years focusing on the needs of our community through acts of kindness while standing for the justice that should be available to all people. Our church is open to all people and while celebrating the traditional church we recognize our God is not in a box. That realization is what frees us and all who worship with us. Find an MCC in your area: in Eureka Springs, AR visit MCC of the Living Spring at 17 Elk Street Sundays at 6PM; in Tulsa, OK visit MCC United at 1623 Maplewood Sundays at 11AM; in Kansas City, MO visit Spirit of Hope MCC at 3801 Wyandotte Sundays at 10:15AM and in Joplin, MO visit Spirit of Christ MCC at 2902 E 20th Street Saturdays at 10:00 AM. the STAR 27 Venus enters her own sign, Libra, helping us all to be more accommodating, artistic, and gracious. And more manipulative? Venus may not be to blame on her own. The Sun is in Scorpio squaring Neptune, inflating our desires and blurring boundaries. ARIES (March 20 -April 19): Teamwork comes more easily now, so work on those skills! Erotic tension between you and a good friend needs expression and clarification. Acting on it could be a mistake, but maybe.not. Discussing it is necessary, and probably quite sufficient. TAURUS (April 20 - May 20): Explore new ways to play and create with others, and find satisfaction there for now. Work is likely to be frustrated by confusion with close associates. Rethinking your goals could help. Express feelings and hunches clearly, and check them out before acting on them. SAGITTARJUS (November 22 - December 20): This is the time to curry favor with your superiors. Avoid gossip and subterfuge. Simply refuse to listen or to participate. As juicy as the dish may be, it will only get you into trouble. CAPRICORN (December 21 - January 19): Forget the "tall, dark stranger." Flirt instead with the foreign cutie with dimples - you’ll be luckier in international affairs. But you’re less lucky now with finances. See where those sails need trimming, but wait another week to readjust plans. AQUARIUS (January 20 o February 18): Be very careful who you flirt with. You could seduce almost anyone you like, but you may find your erotic adventures complicating your professional life. At least be very clear about who you are and what you want to do. PISCES (February 19 - Niarch 19): Falling in love comes too easily to you, but ride that warm current now, either basking in the adoration of your partner, or enjoying an amour du jour. Foreign mystical philosophies have a special appeal; follow your instincts, and you may gain terrific insights. GEMINI (May 21 - June 20): Mend fences with family members or roommates. Be _very_ careful about safe sex! The most exotic and unusual bugs are looking for you. If there’s no spiritual fulfillment in your work, find a way to work it into your exercise. (Yoga? Haikido?) CANCER (June 21 - July 22): Your seductive powers are now at their height. You are perhaps a little too sexy and playful, and that could get you into trouble. But just as you can talk your way into anything now, you can almost always talk your way out, too. LEO (July 23 - August 22): Domestic disputes are nearly inevitable now. A drink or a shopping escapade seems to be the easiest way to ameliorate the problem - but drinking only makes it worse, and shopping is just a diversion. Still, a diversion could help! VIRGO (August 23 - September 22): Some advice from your partner or another close friend could help you to improve your looks or to feel better about yourself. Appearances count, but go deeper and discuss health issues that you normally wouldn’t. LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): Enjoy quiet, meditative music and art. A private retreat will give you room to explore your own aesthetics without being influenced by others. Go to a museum or show on your own, and never mind what others like. SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): Your social charms are strong now, but what you want for others may not be what they care for. Explaining your goals may come off a bit too strong, so first ask others what they want. 28 the STAR METROPOLITAN COMMUNITY CHURCHES Rev Steve T. Urie Spirit of Christ MCC 2902 E 20th Street Joplin, MO 64804 417-529-8480 Worship Saturdays at t0:00 AM Community Meal Wednesdays at 6:00 PM MCC of the Living Spring 17 Elk Street Eureka Springs, AR 72632 479-253-9337 Worship Sundays at 6:00 PM Have a God filled and BleSSed Day! www.ozarksstar.com DOWNTOWN PLAZA ofTULSA 17 West 7th Street Tulsa, OK 918-585-5998 www.downtownplazatulsa.com HABANA INN 2200 NW 39TH EXPRESSWAY Oklahoma City, OK 405-528-2221 www.habanainn.com KELLY KIRBY, CPA 4815 S. 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Title A name given to the resource [2007] The Star Magazine, November 1, 2007; Volume 4, Issue 11 Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource November 01, 2007 Subject The topic of the resource Politics, education, and social conversation over LGBTQ+ topics Description An account of the resource The Star Magazine’s first issue began February of 2005. Before this issue was Ozarks Pride (2004) and The Ozark Star (2004). Follows is The Metro Star (2008). This magazine discusses topics of AIDs, education, politics, local and national civil rights of the LGBT community, and advice for relationships and places to visit. This collection is PDF searchable. Physical copies are also available to be seen at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center with permission. 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Testing ~er~s Outreach Prograr~ tn Tulsa at (9t8) 812~7045 2 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com �Local and Regional O cials Featured The New Advocate. By Steve VanHook OKLAHOMA CITY, OK __ Xhe new 40th Anniversary Issue of Xhe Advocate features six gay and lesbian elected officials in an article entitled "Great American Lives: The Trailblazers". Oklahoma’s A! McAffrey, Arkansas’ Kathy Webb, and Alabama’s Patricia Todd, state representatives all, are joined by Guy Padgett, former mayor of Casper, Wyoming, State Senator and progressive Democrat Jolie Justus of Missouri, and Dallas County Sheriff Lupe Valdez. The article and photos begin on Page 78 of the September 25th, 2007, issue, written by Paul Florez in NYC and Padraie Wheeler. In an introduction to the article with the heading "Doing It For Ourselves", the authors write: "After decades of pounding on the walls of government, fighting to be heard, gays and lesbians have finally secured positions inside those walls. There are currently more than 370 openly gay elected officials natiomvide, with at least 100 more expected to run in 2008. Meet six trailblazers who ran as openly gay candidates and won---in red states, no less." The piece on McAffrey reads: "Al McAffrey, 59, has lived a life of service. Before becoming a legislator, he had careers in both the Navy and the Oklahoma City Police Department. McAffrey said his sexuality wasn’t a central issue during his race for the District 88 seat in the Oklahoma State House, but that changed one day when he knocked on the door of a house displaying his opponent’s sign on the front lawn. "The guy said, ’I have only one question to ask you: Are you gay?’" recalls McAffrey. "And I thought, Oh, shit, how am I going to answer this? Well, I’m a pretty point-blank guy, so I said, ’Yeah, I’m gay. Does that mean you’re not going to vote for me?’ He looked at me and said, ’No, I am going to vote for you, because you’re honest." "The man tood down the opponent’s sign right there and then. Step it up to fight AIDS By Joey De TULSA, OK __ Lace up your walking shoes and head to Veterans Park Sat. Oct. 6 to join the fight against MDS. The fifteenth annual walk will step offat 9 a.m. from the park located at 21st street and Boulder avenue. The two mile route will take walkers along Riverside to 31st and then return to Veterans Park. Funds raised by the Tulsa AIDS walk go directly to supporting Tulsa’s National AIDS Fund Americorp team. The five person team provides prevention, testing and outreach services through out the Tulsa community. Tulsa is one of the few cities in the country that ........... Continued page 13 wvcw.ozarksstar.com the STAR 3 �STATE SENATOR ANDREW RICE ANNOUNCES HIS RUN FOR U.S. SENATE Indigo Girls descend on Tulsa at the Historic Cains Ballroom. The Advocate - the oldest continuously published U.S. gay periodical still in existence - has chronicled the history and culture of the LGBT community for 40 years. Ever simply smell a wine before you taste it? What does it smell like to you? Check out the color too. fl~ c,Ao T~V~Gay Travelers: Colorado Out of Town: Samta Fe. NM Dining In or OUT Maybe it’s my age - 50 is just around the corner (oy!). Maybe it’s because I’ve been in a relationship since I was 18 (mind you, that means serial monogamy F~T~ESS Introspection can lead you to better understand yourself and ultimately to achieve greater happiness. STAR DISTRIBUTION: OKLAHOMA CITY * TULSA * LAWTON * MCALESTER * ENID * LITTLE ROCK * NORTH LITTLE RODK * FAYETTEVILLE * FT SMITH * EUREKA SPRINGS * HOT SPRINGS * BENTONVILLE * ROGERS * KANSAS ON THE COVER: Indigo Girls 4 the STAR CITY * SPRINGFIELD * JOPLIN * BRANSON AREA* WICHITA * PITTSBURG * JUNCTION CITY ~.~v.ozarksstar.com �STATE SENATOR ANDREWANNOUNCES HIS RUN FOR U.S. SENATE By Victor Gorin He stated, "Robert S. Kerr, Henry Bellmon and David Boren had a trait in common that they were able to find common ground and get things done for our state when it needed to be done. I think that’s something I can do as a proud Democrat and know where my line in the sand is." Referring to skepticism some people have due to his youth, Andrew pointed out that Oklahoma has a long history of younger candidates who have been elected, including Don Nickles, who was younger than Andrew when he was elected to the U. S. Senate in 1980. "The experience that we talk about with politics, there’s a lot of that experience I don’t want. Being beholden to special interests, getting stuck in your ways, being a career politician, being inflexible and not able to see things from another viewpoint, that’s the experience that has taken us down the wrong road in his country. " OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__ QUOTE: "I’m humble as I go through this. I want the people of the state to get to know me, I want to know what their aspirations are, the things they want to see reformed. " Longtime LGBT ally Andrew Rice announced through press conferences & fundraisers that he is running for the U.S. Senate seat currently held by James Inhofe. Together with his wife Apple and their 2 sons, Parker & Noah, he let Oklahomans know where he stands and why he wanted the job. He currently holds the seat for State Senate District 46, elected to that position in 2006. That seat was previous held by Bernest Cain, who likewise was a staunch ally of the GLBT community as well as many other progressive causes but~ had to leave office due to term limits. ~,~rw.ozarksstar.corn At his press conference at the Oklahoma State Democratic Party Headquarters, he touched on many issues facing our country and how he wanted to make a difference, including global xvarming, national security, fiscal responsibility, and a major lack of trust Americans feel for their government. As he puts it: The incumbent, James Inhofe, was first elected to the U.S. Senate seat in 1994 with a special election when David Boren left the office to take the presidency of Oklahoma University He was re-elected to a full term in 1996 and again in 2002. He has become well known for extreme rightwing positions, including opposition to gay rights, total support our military involvement in Iraq, opposition to any minimum wage increase or support for organized labor, and calling global warming "a hoax." "It’s pretty remarkable the amount of disgruntlement, and really the lack of faith Andrew closed by pointing out that he people have in government. I think they wants to give Oklahomans an option if they feel a lot of anxiety not only because of the want a change. complexities we deal with like terrorism and . the health care crisis, but even basic good government practices." He stressed that his life experiences, especially his work in an evenly divided Oklahoma State Senate had given him the know-how of how to work with Republicans and yet stick to his principles. the STAR 5 �Democrats Need Negative Resuks in traq. Dear Editor: The national Democratic Congressional leadership believes failure by our troops in Iraq the central front in the War on Terror is essential for them to win elections in 2008, and that any positive sign of progress in Iraq is simply a "problem" for them. Democrat Senate Majority Leader Harry Reid, driven by polls and politics, declared "This war is lost," even before the President’s new strategy began. Reid also has bragged, "We’re going to pick up Senate seats as a result of this war." And Democrat House Majority Whip James Ctyburn said that a positive report in September from General Petraeus and Ambassador to Iraq Ryan Crocker would be "a real big problem for us (Democrats)." Meaning the Democrats’ desire for an arbitrary troop withdrawal and their party’s 2008 electoral fortunes would be in jeopardy if our troops succeed. Is it aW wonder that the new Democratic controlled Congress has far lower approval ratings than the President? Let’s not forget that there are thousands of gay and lesbian troops fighting the M Queda terrorists in Iraq; courageously risking their lives against a violent worldwide ideology that has no regard for the lives of gay people in the Middle East or any where else in the world. These gay and lesbian soldiers from our community are true American heroes and deserve our unwavering patriotic respect. It is unconscionable that Democrat leaders, and many gay activists, are hoping for our troops to fail so their part,i can gain a political advantage. And it is unacceptable that the leading Democrat presidential contenders, Hillary Clinton and Barack Obama, both claim to support our troops yet voted against providing them with the resources to sustain their mission and keep them safe. Respectfully submitted, Matthew Veritas Tsien Former Air Force Executive Officer Low-maintenance bait for entrapment ? Dear Readers, Not being one who has ever solicited anonymous, or even well-known, sexual liaisons in public settings, I wasn’t aware of the Larry Craig foot-tapping dance which seems so imitative of certain insects that tap on leaves and stems to communicate either territorial limits or a need for mating. Thanks to Senator Craig America has received a birds-and-bees nature lore lesson hitherto known only to a relatively few wildlife specialists. But I do know there is a wafting of sexual pheromones in public par~ after dark at certain locations in Oklahoma City (OKC), Will Rogers Park being one of them. I recently attended a neighborhood political event at Will Rogers Park that, after I had helped pack up the event, found me walking back to my car after dark at 8:30pm. I had parked at the botanical greenhouse thinking the event I was attending was located in that area. ............................ Continued page 15 America’s national security should not be kicked around like a political football by the Far Left in Gay America. Many gays believe winning the War on Terror is vital to our country’s national security. 6 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com �wY~w.ozarksstar.com the STAR 7 �Re~gnized by Keller Williams For outstanding ad~levernent 2005 and 2006 Chuck Breckenddge 918-706-1887 405.840.2106 MLS. OCTOBER 11, 1987 Gay and Lesbian March on Washington and ~ ur~ting of ~he AIOS Quilt on the Na~al MS]I OCTOBER 11, 2007 National Comir~ Out Day Let us promote your business in a UNIQUE & DIVERSE market. Call STAR ADVERTISING today. (918)835-7887 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com �AFTER 25 YEARS THE ANGLES OKC TORCH IS PASSED ON OK]~AHOMA CITY, OK When A~gles opened in Augast of 1982 it was a great beginning that made its mark in history, ql~e club had an tmustml beginning when Scott Wdion applied for a gquor license for what was presented to be "CottonEyed Joe’s,~ a country dmaee b~r. When they opened as a gay disco named Angles, problems quickly began.. The club and thei~ customers were subjected to a vigorous campaign of police harassment, with officers frequendy raiding the club, citing them for bogus violations, along with ~rresring customers ~md sometimes beating them as well Boy George, the Wcathergirls ("It’s Rainhag Men), Dead or Alive, Jermifer Holhday, Divine, Paul Lekakis, Gloria Gaynor, Viola Wigs & celebrated their 19th anniversarg with Bonnie Pointer.lt was a memorable occasion when comedienne Joan Rivers enjoyed a portrayal of hersehc performed by the late Amii Dyshea. Their Turnabout Shows (where their employees got in deag) benefited AIDS charities aad becanae honored traditions for our community Love of Last Resort Much of our local talent was bolstered as well, including diva~ including Ghager hamar, Raahad Erikks, and the dynamic duo of Parr] & Tuna Melt (Tuna better known internarionaBy as cBef Ruby Ann Boxcar with patty her sister Donna Sue). Countless pageants were held there, with most of the past Miss Gay Oklahoma’s crowned there. The club also garnered respect from the straight community as well, gaining so much of their patronage that Angles was voted OKC’S Best Dance Club ha the Oklahoma Gazette several times, as well as the Best Gay Bar many times as well. ............... Cont~ued page 27 Angles fought baclq keeping track of the incidents, including badge & tag numbers as well as the police officers havolved, ~ad threatened to sue the city. A deal was forged with the city where Angles was awarded one dollar in damages plus some of the legal ll~s, and the City agreed to cease harassing the dub and their customers. The story made national news, and also w~s the major story of the first issue of the Gayly Oldahom~a in October of 1983. It £so proved to be a major turning point, with club ovmers of the ~ea having a good relationship with the police, and the overall climate changhag. Other gay bars followed as well as other buxinesses catering to the GLBT commuuiry, with many people remembering this courageous stand that was a major factor making it possible. Throughout the 80’S and 90’s Angles became a showcase & the In place to be, replacing the Free Spirit as OKC’S premier gay d~nce spot. Disco divas from that time remember world class DJ’S including the late Michael Tchekerades (fondly knovm as Checkers). Angles hosted major entertainers including www, ozarksstancom the STAR 9 �LINDSAY PAIGE TAKES THE CROWN By Victor Gorin Oklahomans for Equality opens "Out of the Closet: A T-Shirt Retrospective" at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center gallery TULSA, OK (PR)__ Toe Dennis IL Negl Equahty Center art gallery will host its monthly meet-the-artist reception from 6-9pro, qTaursday, October 4, 2007, for the opening of its October exhibit, "Out of the Closet". qqae show will be a retrospective of LGBT diemed T-Shins, a private collection of former gifx-shop owner Tom Neal, The displayed shirts, both regional aa~d international, wig offer a gfo~apse L~to the history of the gay rights movement as seen through T-Shirt design. The opening reception wg! be catered by donation from Brother’s Pizza Depot. q~e exhibit will remain up through die month of October, and can be viewed Monday thru Saturday from 3-9pro. The Dennis K Neig Equality Center is located ar 62I E. 4th St., in downtown Tulsa, More info can be found of die web at okeq.org. Tlxls monthly event is hosted by Oklahoman’s for Equality (OkEq). OkEq seeks equal rights for Lesbian= Gay, Bisexual & Transg~nder (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, agiances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neifi Equality Photo ~ Victor Gorin, Left Melody Michaels, Right Lindsay Paige OKLAHOMA C!’YY, OK __ The iudges had the work cut out for them they }udged the wildly talented contestants at the Copa August 22-23, but Lindsay Paige survived the comperifion of some of Oklahoma most talented divas to capture the title of Miss Gay Oklahoma for 2007. Having won the distinction of I st alternate last year, her reaction upon hearhag her name as the winner clearly was ruth of heaven. The first alternate was Melody Michaels, a performer well known in Oklahoma City for her shows with Kitty Bob ALines and Ginger Lamar at the Boom. Tncy wl]l go to Memphis to compete for the crown of Miss Gay Ainerica October 17-21. Willa Johnson Wins Oklahoma Count Commissioner District One. OKLAHOMA CITY, OK With the conclusion of die special crat Willa Johnson, ~von handily wirh 54% of the vote over arch 2007 Miss America Lauren Nelson Headlines AIDS Walk of Oklahoma City OKLAHOMA CI~ (PR) __ Oklahoma’s own Lauren Nelson, who is the reigning 2007 Miss America, wi~ serve as the Grand Marshag of the upcoming MDS xYSalk of Oklahoma City. The Walk will take place o~ StmdaB September 30 at the Myriad Bormaical Gardens. Registration and festivities begin at 12:30pmfoliowed by a 2:00pm step off. There is no fee to walk in this important community event, which builds awareness and f~nds each year for die treatment and prevention of HIV/AIDS i~ the greater Oklahoma City area. Southwes~ Ah-lines has generously donated two roundtrip aidine tickets to any Southwest Airlines desrSnation in the Continental U.S. to be raffled offat the Walk. Ra~e tickets are only $1 each and may be purchased either at the AIDS Walk on September 30, or by contacting Lfoda Larason at 405/570-4835. One need not be Ms.Johnson has served on the Oklahoma City Councg for Ward 7 since 1993. In her position she acted cnnsistendy in support of issues concerning the GLBT comnmdity, voting in support of an ordinate prohibiting discrimination based on sexual orientation, opposed banning the GLBT banners during Gay Pride Month, and she opposed die abolition of the Oklahoma City Human Rights Commission. She has become well k~own for her outspoken opposition to discrimination. 10 the STAR Form your Walk team now and bring your donations to the 2007 MDS Walk of Oklahoma City. Visit www.aidswalkokc, org for more information. �.s DesCend By Leda Dowlearn worth watching. The Girls’ -warm up band, 3FiveHuman out of Atlanta, was a good rocking start. By the time they were finished the expectant energy of the crowd was at a ftenzy. Then the roar, suddenly the Gifts were there before us, guitars in motion, singing "Pendulum Swinger" (sure hope Hilary Clinton does adopt this as her theme song but she’d probably be too afraid to swing this far left). After that, it was song after song after song with hardly a break in between except to change guitars and grab a mandolin, banjo or harmonica. One thing I realized early on was that the Girls were not into stage presence. We heard a little banter about getting lost in Tulsa, enjoying the old YMCA, and their bassett hound on the bus but that was about it. Perhaps in a nod to location Amy Ray had on a western cowgirl shirt. But overall, the Girls were there to do their songs. Photo by Leda Dowlearn TULSA, OK __ On September 13th the Indigo Girls, icons of the feminist folk./rock music scene, descended on Cain’s Ballroom in Tulsa to the full-house, floor-stomping adoration of a mostly lesbian crowd. The day the Girls came to my part of the universe I was in a closet (not my usual place) replacing a water heater thinking about the amazing fact that I had tickets to finally, that day, see these two demi-goddesses in the flesh after slavishly worshiping their musical personas for the past twenty years. In between hot and cold water pipes I was fantasizing about all the questions I’d love to ask them say should we run into each other in the bathroom or something Next step: I called Cain’s Ballroom and invoked the power of the media to get someone’s attention and, bless their hearts, an hour later I was talking with the Girls’ publicity" agent who said she’d see what she could do to set something up after sound check. That was enough for me. \VC’ater heater be damned, my partner and I hightailed it out of Northwest Arkansas headed for Tulsa town four hours early. Well, the bubble burst shortly after we hit the outskirts of Tulsa when their publicity agent had to tell me it was a no go on the interview. I was a little too late with my request and the Girls turned me down. That was okay, though, I still had my camera, two tickets and the evening was before us. This was my first visit to Cain’s Ballroom but I was up on their history after a review of their website. The feel of the place was cool, the line at the bar was friendly and the gathering crowd was well www.ozarksstar.com Okay, that was the Nirvana part and maybe I should stop there. It was more than enough. But in retrospect, that time of second thoughts that comes to you over coffee at Denny’s after your ears have stopped ringing, this die hard fan has some things to say that may or may not be more than I should be asking of the Girls, but here it goes anyway. Yeah, I got some great pictures and I heard some great songs. But they were all delivered to me in one big load of too much sound and too much rock without letting the songs that really needed to roll just roll. Can you Girls not trust that your audience is sophisticated enough to hear you on many levels? After all, yours is a mostly lesbian crowd. Emotional roller coasters are no problem for us. You can take us up and down so relax a little with that. Amy, yeah, you’re a rocker and you’re a star. No question in my mind that many of your songs are destined to be classics. You’re my Dylan, you’re my Springsteen. Rock on but know we love your slow songs, too, and I really, really wanted to hear "Three County Highway," "Nueva Senorita," or "Moment of Forgiveness." Emily, you’re brilliant with your lyrics and your melodies but you look like you don’t want to be in the circus anymore. You’re Baez, you’re Mitchell in your roots. But is it possible for Mitchell and Springsteen to share the same stage without each doing serious damage to the other’s genre and landing musically somewhere in the "upper echelons of mediocrity" as you have said yourself in "You and Me of the !0,000 Wars." Amy is ready and willing to jump into the chaos of rock and her songs have the energy and intensity it demands. She proved this brilliantly in her show stopper versions of "Rock And Roll Heaven’s ............... Continued page 23 the STAR 11 �31 iCONS SELECTED FOR GLBT HISTORY MONTH 2007 Alexander the Great, Billie Jean King, Leonardo da ~nci, Bessie Smith, Cary Grant among Icons Equality Forum produced 30-second biographical videos on each Icon, which will be broadcast daily on here! and Logo television networks throughout October, and will be streamed on major GLBT Web sites. Comcast will air a 30-second television PSA. Equality Forum launched GLBT History Month in 2006, and is patterned after Black and Vgomen’s History Months. tn its initial year, GLBT History Month reached over 500,000 individuals. GLBT History Month 2007 Icons: PHILADELPHIA, PA __ Equality Forum, an international gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender (GLBT) civil rights organization, announced 31 Icons to be featured during GLBT History Month in October. ~he 31 Icons achieved success within their respective fields of endeavor, were national heroes or advanced GLBT civil rights. "The GLBT community has been uniquely disadvantaged by not being taught its history at home, in public schools or in religious institutions," said Malcolm Lazin, Executive Director of Equality Forum. "GLBT History Month helps teach our unacknowledged history, provides role models and celebrates contributions made by GLBT individuals to our country and internationally." The Icon videos are available for free for the Web sites of nonprofit organizations, educational institutions and corporate entities, through the inclusion of HTML code provided at wwv.glbtHistoryMonth.com. The Icon video is automatically updated each day. A free graphically-designed downloadable biography, bibliography and other educational resources for each Icon are available at www. glbtHistoryMonth.com. The 31 Icons from 2006 can also be found on the Web site. October 1: Leonard Bernstein (Composer) October 2: Annie Leibovitz (Photographer) October 3: Angela Davis (Civil Rights Activist) October 4: Alexander the Great (Military Commander) October 5: Billie Jean King (Athlete) October 6: Pedro Almodovar (Writer/Director) October 7: Bessie Smith (Singer) October 8: Klaus Wowereit (Politician) October 9: Susan Sontag (Author/ Commentator) October 10: Gore Vidal (Author) October 11: Lily Tomlin (Actor) October 12: Peter Gomes (Theologian) October 13: Mary Edwards Walker (Surgeon) October 14: Frederick II (Monarch) October 15: Virginia Uribe (Educator) October t 6: Frank Kameny (Gay Pioneer) October 17: Nancy Mahon (Philanthropy Advocate) October 18: David Hockney (Painter) October 19: Audre Lorde (Author) October 20: Cary Grant (Actor) October 21: Rende Richards (Transgender Pioneer) October 22: Sherry Harris (Politician) October 23: John Maynard Keynes (Economist) October 24: Gertrude Stein (Author) October 25: Zhou Dan (Chinese Gay Pioneer) October 26: Carolyn Bertozzi (Scientist) October 27: Cole Porter (Songwriter) October 28: John McNeill (Theologian) October 29: Florence Nightingale (Health Care Advocate) October 30: Billy Sipple (Hero) October 31: Leonardo da Vinci (Artist/Inventor/Scientist) ABOUT EQUALITY FORUM Equality Forum solicited nominations from leaders of national and international GLBT organizations. Nominees were evaluated by GLBT History Month Co-Chairs Rev. Nancy Wilson, Moderator of the Universal Fellowship of Metropolitan Community Churches, and Prof. Kenji Yoshino, Deputy Dean for Intellectual Life at Yale Law School. Equality Forum’s Board of Directors approved the final slate of 31 Icons. 12 the STAR Equality Forum is a national and international nonprofit, 501 (c)(3) GLBT civil rights organization with an educational focus. Equality Forum develops high-impact educational content in the form of documentary films, history projects, innovative initiatives and the largest annual national and international GLBT civil rights forum. www.equalityforum.com www.ozarksstar.com �Playwright!Actor Jerry Rabus a Back OKC with "Love Of Last Resoi-t If you’re a gay guy trapped for three years done on an abandoned and deserted sex resort, what could be better than having the man of your dreams wash up ashore? It’s a love story "waiting to happen.., or... is it? That’s the whole premise of "Love of Last Resort." Josh, played by author Jerry Rabushka, has been living alone on an uncharted South Pacific isle for quite some time. No electricity, no running water, no man for company. How does he do it? Easy! He consults back issues of Martha Stewart Living, follows the instructions, and can make anything he needs, usually in three easy steps. If you’re lost and alone, this is a very very good thing! Along with that, he changes personality on a regular basis. "It hurts to admit your entire persona has to be thrown out," he says. "But it’s all very ’Martha.’ You just make it out of what you got." Matt (played by Scott Mueller) couldn’t be any more opposite. An escapee from an "all gay cruise," he winds up beached on Josh’s island, pining after a man back from home, rebuffing Josh every step of the way. ’Of course you love me," he’ll say. "I’m the only choice you have." You can do some really cool stuff when you’re alone on an island. You can be whoever you want to be. You can see your island as a prison or an opportunity. Josh uses the island to escape; Matt isn’t sure he wants to escape, and he isn’t sure he can love Josh until he finds out who the "real Josh" is. "Matt’s a perfect foil to Josh," says Scott Mueller. "He wants to love, he wants m be in love, but he’s afraid to give up anything to do it. And like a lot of people, he tends to punish the man in front of him for the sins of the one who came before." As time goes by, though, Matt becomes more intrigued by Martha’s ingenuity and Josh’s world of fake TV shows. Come "watch" their interview with Gloria, a porn star with a very descriptive last name, a gaymarriage soap opera, and of course a bit of fun with a pair of handcuffs. vw,’w.ozarksstar.com Love Of Last Resort premiered in West Hollywood, CA, and has since played in St. Louis and Springfield, MO, with a production at Tulsa’s Nightingale Theater in January 2006. For this production, Rabushka has re-written the play with a more comedic outlook and added several cool new songs. "I always like coming to OKC," he says. "We keep coming back because we have a lot of support here and enthusiastic responses, plus the folks at the IAO Gallery are great!" Rabushka, with his company Ragged Blade, of St. Louis, MO, has previously been to the IAO with Somebody Else’s Life, Woofl. The Road Show, and Gay Christian, Gay Muslim, Gay Jew, which starred nationally known gay solo artist Jade Esteban Estrada. Love Of Last Resort book & music by Jerry Rabushka starring Jerry Rabushka & Scott Nicholas Mueller October 12 & 13 at 8 PM IAO Gallery www.iaogallery.org 811 North Broadway, Oklahoma City Tickets: $!0; $5 students & seniors for show info/reservations please call 314280-1035, for directions or other local info please call IAO at 405-232-6060 for more information please visit www. raggedbtade.com AIDS WALK TULSA Continued has supported a team ever since the beginning of the National AIDS fund/Americorp program. According to the Janice Nicktas, the team’s coordinator, the fimdraising goal for this year’s event is $25,000. Nicklas says the event is open to anybody who wishes to participate and says that no level of support, financial or in spirit is too small. In fact, the organizer says that there are volunteer portunities for those wishing to be a part of the event, but unable to make the trek. To register or for more information visit www.aidswalktulsa.org. Credit cards and cash donations are accepted. the STAR 13 �September 1967 (40 yearn ago l st month): The Advocate publishes its first issue, What is the history of qhe Advocate? T he Advocate - the oldest continuously published U.S. gay periodical still in exfistence - has chronicled the history and culture of the LGBT commtmity for 40 yews. Udce many of the eadiest Ametic~n gay organizations, qqae Advocate_ was born in Los Angeles. It began as the newsletter of Person£ Rights in Defense’and Education (PRIDE), a gay liberation group formed after police raided the local Black Ca~ bar. In the summer of 1967, Richard Mit~h (alia Dick Michaels) - a writer for a chemical industry journal - his lover Bill Rau (aka Bill Rand), and Sam Winston hatched a plan to turn the newilerter into a gay newspaper. Dubbed the Los Angeles Advocate. it debuted in September with a print run of 500 copies, produced at night in a print shop in the basement of ABC Studios, where Rau worked. Mirth renamed it Advocate in 1969, and h became the first American gay news publication with a nationwide distribution, In 1974, Mitch sold "Die Advocate ~ millionaire investment banker David Goodstein for $350,000. After taking over, Goodstein - a se[f-descrlbed "practicing capitalist" who hated street protests and had frequent rtm ins with movement activists - fired most of the staff and writers, considering them too le ft-~ving. According to one columnist, Goodstein said he wanted the paper to appeal to "the upwardly mobile homosexual who has a home in the hills, drives a luxury car, and orders alcohol by brand." Within a year, Goodstein moved _q~e Advocate_ to the San Francisco suburb of San Maleo and liired journalist John Preston as editor. He adopted a magazine format and "desle~zified" the publication by moving the sexually explicit personal ads to the back, and event uafly into a pull-out section. by Robert McQueen, formerly of the Salt Lake Tribune. Scandalized by McQue~’s officials came to The Advocate haadqu~rters beefed up the paper’s cultttral coverage from and Pat Califia’s ’%dvocate Adviser" column. By 1968, internal dissension led to the dissolution of PRIDE, ~nd Mitch ~rr~rged to purchase the newspaper for $1. Initially, the publication focused on local news, covering police nfisconduct mad gay liberation demonstrations. But it also added pieces on Hoflywood celebrities a~ad columns such as "Body Buddy" (fitness) and "Cooking with Atmtie LOu." Short on leshi~a content, the paper often featured scantily dad men on its covers and included a popular personal-ad section called "Trader Dizk?’ Mirth preferred to feature de,n-cut activists like the Rev. Troy Perry of the Metropolitan Cor~mauniry Church, rather than fiippie radicals llke Morris Kight, a co-founder of the Los Angeles Gay Liberation Front. In a bid to make the paper more professional, Mirth hired Rob Cole, formerly of the Dallas Times Herald, as news editor. As gay men and lesbians around the country began to look tu the paper for information, 14 ~eSTAR in 1984, Goodstein moved _The Advocate_ back to Southern California. Shortly before he died of cancer the following year, he sold it to Orange County businessman Niles Merton. After McQueens resignat’on, he magazine went through a series of thorttenured editors and struggled to stay afloat. In i990, under new ethtor Richard Rouilard, the magazine added "lesbian" to the masthead. Yet even as he oversaw a remm to advocacy iournalism, Rouilard favored splashy covers featuring attractive straight male stars and divas such as Madonn~ gay community was flush with disposable cash, The Advocate’s advertising revenues rose, rescuing it from the brink of foaancial insolvenc)~ ha 1992, with a new editor and publisher, the magazine underwent another redesign, this time spinning off the sex ads into a separate pubfication. In 1996, the magazine hired its first female editor in chief, Judy Wieder, In 2000, The Advocate’s p~ent company, Liberation Publications Inc. (LPI) - which had previously acquired book publisher Alyson Publications - purchased rival gay magazine Out, as well as HIV Plus. LH and gay Web compmay PlanetOut announced plans to merge, prompting critics to warn of an impending LGBT media monopo!~ That merger was called off, but in 2005 PlanetOut purchased LH for $31 million. Even as PkinetOut faced a financial crisis in early 2007, The Advocate continued to gain new subscribers. To celebrate its 40th anniversary, it came out of the closet, doing away with the "privacy wrap" that had previously shrouded the magazine. "The Advocate’s decision might seem like a trivial matter... but it stands for something far greater: the increasing acceptance and visibility of gay people in public fife,~ wrote gay journalist James Kirchick, As a key public voice of the gay communi~ Toe Advocate has been a frequent tzrget of criticism over the years. Many decried its thi~ away ~om militant politics and its increasing emphasis on entertainment and lifestyle content, while others thought the magazine was too commercial and catered to affluent white gay men. Yet 40 yeats after its founding, The Advocate remains the "periodical of record" that mainstream journalists, politicians, and business leaders ram to for informarion about the LGBT community. For further reading: Faderman, Li[fi~a, ~nd Stunt Timmons. 2006. Gay L-A. (Basic Books). Straitmatter, Rodgar. 1995. Unspeakable: The Rise of the Gay and Lesbian Press in America (Faber & Failer). Thompson, Mark (editor). 1994. _Long Road to Freedom: The Advocate History of the Gay and Lesbian Movement_ (St. Martin’s Press). �Letters cor~tirmed from pg 6 After finding the event I realized I should have parked by the amphitheater instead. I didn’t want to walk back and move my car after finally finding the event as I felt no qualms about walking in the dark after the event was finished. The picnic pavilions had security lights that came on as darkness set in and there were utility poles with lights that came on around the amphitheater, but as t walked back towards the greenhouse parking lot down by the arboretum I noticed that the street lights, even though there are many of them and they couldn’t ALL be malfunctioning, were turned off--all of them. It occurred to me that these lights were turned off intentionally to encourage the lewd sort of behavior that results in brownie-point arrests for the police department, fines for the city’s coffers, and humiliation and other negative social effects for those arrested such as job or housing loss, and registering as a sex offender on publicly available websites. Is the darkness a passive policy of enticement purposely engineered by OKC city government? Is the darkness being used as a low-maintenance bait for entrapment? If the city was really interested in reducing lewd behavior in public parks wouldn’t the lights be on throughout the night? Xghy weren’t al! those sensors operational? If street lights can come on automatically in residential neighborhoods to promote safety shouldn’t they also be effective in public areas where unwelcome behavior is tmown to occur? Shouldn’t those lights be turned on not only to discourage alleged lewd behavior, but also to lessen the threat of vandalism? There were about three or four cars within a stone’s throw of mine and as I was loading my trunk another car pulled in and an individual got out and walked away from the parking lot. I could see another person sitting in a car outlined by the flashing burglar alarm light on the dashboard, as if the occupant were a summer lightening bug signaling for a mate. I’m no fan of toilet trollers or lover’s lane Lotharios of either orientation. As a repressed minority in the USA and a target of brimstone-eating Bible bangers we gay people need to do better. When we W~. oza rkssta r. CO m achieve the ful! recognition of our citizenship, then like most straights who are observed in public sexual congress, we’ll be given a warning and told to move on without the victimization that comes from Puritan policymakers. CHAEL SAGE TURNS TO TULSA’S BAMBOO LOUNGE° I thank GOPer Senator Craig, a 62-year old man from Idaho, responsible for running several successful election campaigns, for showing the USA what responsibility he can be trusted with. If one is old enough for sexual activity, one should have the responsibility to do it in private. James Nimmo TMsa’s OkEq Library Catalog now online! TULSA, OK( OkEq E-news) ~The Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library catalog can now be accessed online! Visit www.librarything.com/profile/OkEq to browse our collection, search by keyword, read reviews on Amazon, and more! Photo by: Kevin Abosch About the library: Thousands of LGBT tides and exquisite glass art line the walls of the Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library in the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Open during Equality Center hours (Monday through Saturday, 3pro to 9pro), the library has titles available for leisure reading, research, discussion groups, and as a resource for local students when writing on LGBT issues. Books are available for free check-out for the community. A mainstay of the Equality Center since its founding in t996, the Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library was named in their honor in the Spring of 1999. Nancy is Past National President of Parents, Families & Friends of Lesbians and Gays (PFLAG), President of PFLAG Tulsa, has testified before the US Congress on GLBT issues and was the inaugural recipient of the OkEq Lifetime Achievement Award. TULSA, OK __ Direct fi’om New York Rachael Sage will return to the Bamboo Lounge Tulsa for an exclusive concert on November 10th, 9 pm. Ms. Sage made her first appearance at the Bamboo in 2005. East Village songstress, poet and multi-media maven Rachael Sage has been making gutsy pop music in one form or another since she was three years old. Her latest offering of "lovely and literate folk-pop-rock" (The Village Voice), THE BLISTERING SUN, is devoted to the topics of vision, clarit}; and facing life head on. A self-taught pianist who honed her skills listening to her parents’ doo-wop, Broadway and Beatles album collections, Rachael debuted her first original material for a captive audience of kindergarten students one fateful afternoon before their ballet teacher arrived and broke up the party. "When I started," she says, " t was writing a lot of music that sounded like Elton John - if he’d been a nice Jewish girl from a long line of Russian cantors." By junior high school, Sage’s dancing abilities had landed her a spot at the prestigious School of American Ballet; but it was really the music she was hearing in and out of class that intrigued her the most. the STAR 15 ��CHOCOLATE PEANUT BUTTER ICE CREAM PiE �as we~ as bars. photo op. ~]~a~ goodness we get a |or of space on our digital ~mera disc! Colorado which was the MO~ °’Homophobic." State in the Union until very recently does not have a lot of gay accommodations but he~ is a list of fine most impotent ones arotmd the State. ElyrIas \g~stern Guest House at t655 E. 47th Avenue in Denver, v,xvw.irmtravels.com/ usatco/rdewgh.html Mountain Sage Lnn, 553 ~: Etl-&orn Ave., Estes Park, -,~w~,~v.mountainsageinn.coral Platte River Cabins, 16525 Pine Valley Rd., CoIfax Ave, Denver is a city ofwondedht restaurants all over the dr): Like Chicago, Denver has so many to choose from i~ all ~-pes of menus. Denver has lots of little communities within the city. The arts and museums are great as well as the shopping ~e other main city in the state is Colorado Springs which just has two bars,, Club Qat 3430 No, Academr Blvd. and the Underground at t !0 No. Ne;~ada,~ Ave, For a city tl{at so many religious nu s and conservatives it is a wonder that there are ant gay bars there at all. But Colorado Springs has a great Pride Fest every )mar a~ their downtown Ciw Park. 18 the STAR ww~.ozarksstar.com �TRAV S day, October 14, 2007 Brady Heights abuts the Brady Arts District and ties on North Denver and North Cheyenne ~venues. The tour wilt start at !2 under twelve. Ti&ets will be available until 4pro the day of the event and the tour ends at 5pm! Advance tict~ets are ava[ilable at www.bradyheigrhts,org. ProCeeds will benefit community projects the Brady Heig~hts Neighborhood Association. patio bar, From crab ca~es, Me:dcan E~ Rolls, Quesadilla, Barbecue Pvibbies or Sout}xwestern Steak Salad you wilt find a fttl menu. ~lhey have been in business over 25 years. Check out their website at: the STAR t9 �The Cowgirl restaurant is a papular and gay-fi’iendly spotfor barbecue, burgers, beer, and blues. (Photo by Andrew Cdlins) One of the region’s greatest lures is the fantastic, sunny weather - Santa Fe and north-central New Mexico enjoy beautiful weather year-round. Summer tends to be the busiest time for a Santa Fe visit - this is opera season as well as a time when many prominent festivals and art markets take place. But a fall or winter visit yields fewer crowds, cool and crisp temperatures, and still plenty to see and do - plus rates tend to be lower at hotels, which are among the priciest in the Southwest. Many of the city’s attractions are right in the center of town. Here you can take a walk around the Plaza; check out the numerous shops and cafes; admire the city’s adobe-dad Pueblo Revival, Spanish Colonial, and Victorian buildings; or stop by the circa-1610 Palace of the Governors, a state history museum set inside the nation’s oldest public building. There are several museums nearby, dealing mostly with art (such as the Georgia O’Keeffe Museum, which has a terrific restaurant). If you’re a die-hard museum explorer, make the short drive (or bus ride) up the Old Santa Fe Trail to Museum Hill, a complex of outstanding cultural attractions, the highlight being the Museum of International Folk Art. The newer Museum of Spanish Colonial Art is another top draw. If you’d rather spend most of your time outside, saunter up Canyon Road, a narrow, winding lane of historic adobe bungalows containing some of the most prestigious art galleries in the Southwest. Fe, New Mexico Santa Fe sits at 7,000 feet above sea level, dinging to the lower slopes of the Sangre de Cristo Mountains and offering an enchanting blend of Rocky Mountain and high desert living. ~12ais scenic city is politically progressive, abundant with museums and galleries, renowned for its distinctive adobe architecture, overflowing with sophisticated inns and restaurants, and ideal for outdoors enthusiasts. You won’t find much in the way of gay nightlife, but if you’re planning a romantic vacation with your significant other, Santa Fe may just have everything else you’re seeking. Even better, if you’re starting to think about retirement options, northern New Mexico’s "City Different" may be worth scouting out as a potential future home. In November 2005, RainbowVision Properties opened a GLBT retirement community on the south side of town, billing itself the first such full-scale endeavor of its kind (the company has plans for additional communities in Palm Springs, the San Francisco suburbs, and Vancouver). ~he 13-acre compound geared toward the 50-and-over set is worth checking out even if you’re not thinking of buying here - it’s home to the Silver Starlight Lounge and Cabaret, which is open to the public and is Santa Fe’s only gay nightlife option. It’s actually quite popular with folks of all ages, especially for early evening cocktails. 20 the STAR There’s spectacular hiking all around Santa Fe, but if you have time for just one ramble, head to Kasha-Katuwe Tent Rocks National Monument, which is about a 45-minute drive south of town, toward Albuquerque. This 2-mile, moderately steep hike passes through a narrow, dramatic box canyon and then rises up to a lofty promontory affording panoramic views of the mountains and mesas. The monument is named for the bizarre rock formations that rise high out of one end of the canyon and look a bit like sandstone tepees. If you’re visiting between December and April, bring your skis with you, or rent some in town. Ski Santa, which is about 15 miles northeast of downtown, offers 44 trails of rugged, beautifully groomed trails. If you have trouble believing New Mexico offers much in the way of winter sports, consider that the ski area receives an average of 240 inches of snox~all annually. This is a first-rate facility, albeit not quite as famous or as demanding as Taos Ski Valley, which is just a two-hour drive north. However you get your exercise, whether hiking, skiing, or strolling among art galleries, you’re sure to work up an appetite in these parts, especially given the city’s high altitude, which can tax your system if you’re not used to it. Fortunately, this is a city with no shortage of terrific restaurants. Serving some of the most authentic New Mexican fare in town, the Shed is an excellent choice. The setting inside a 1692 adobe is ideal for sampling such local favorites as green-chile stew with pork and potatoes, and red-chile enchiladas. Or drop by I1 Vicino, an inexpensive, gay-friendly pizza place serving delicious thin-crust pies topped with gourmet ingredients, microbrewed beers, and a cheerful courtyard. www.ozarksstar.com �A favorite spot for brunch is the fabulous Care Pasqual’s, where you might sample buttermilk biscuits with sage-bacon graW, homemade sausage, and poached eggs. More sophisticated and substantial fare appears on the dinner menu - try the organic-chicken mole at dinner. You’ll find a couple of the city’s top restaurants along charming Canyon Road, including such high-end standouts as the Compound and Geronimo, as well as the popular tapas option, E1 Farol. Also specializing in smaller plates, downtown’s La Boca turns out such exemplary fare as Moroccan-grilled shrimp with sweet-pea-basil puree, and seared ahi tuna with Manchego-white-bean hash. If you’ve had your fill of New Mexican cuisine, head to the first-rate Kasasoba for exquisite Japanese food. And for casual, affordable, yet creative American chow, don’t miss these two gay favorites, the Cowgirl (great for barbecue, and with a big patio), or Harry’s Roadhouse a short drive south of the city - not terribly far from Silver Starlight Lounge. Harry’s is especially popular for its house-made ¯ desserts and potent margaritas. Santa Fe abounds with appealing accommodations, including a few gay-owned B&Bs and inns. One nice thing about B&Bs in northern New Mexico is that they typically comprise a small compound of casitas (adobe-style cottages) or a cluster of rooms with separate entrances, thereby affording plenty of privacy. Among the longestrunning and most enjoyable such properties is the lesbian-owned Triangle Inn, which comprises nine casitas and lies about 15 miles north of downtown. Units have lovely southwestern furnishings, VCRs, CD stereos, and kitchenettes, and many can sleep four. The Triangle draws mostly gay folks, whereas the other gay-owned B&Bs in Santa Fe cater to a mixed crowd. If you’re looking to stay in the heart of downtown, try E1 Farolito, a collection of airy casitas with fireplaces, striking Mexican and Southwestern furniture, and original art and photography. The Inn of the Turquoise Bear occupies the rambling Spanish-Pueblo Revival estate ofWitter Bynner, a gay poet and socialite of the 1920s and ’30s who threw lavish parties here that drew the likes ofWilla Cather, Errol Flynn, W.H. Auden, and Stephen Spender. It’s a warm and inviting inn surrounded by secret gardens and run by friendly hosts. Among mainstream, luxury accommodations, it’s hard to beat the over-the-top-luxurious Inn of the Five Graces, which is in the heart of the city center and consists of 22 opulently appointed casitas, all done with elaborate Latin American, Middle Eastern, and Asian antiques and decorative arts. Service here is arguably the best in town, and guests can also enjoy lunch at the cozy on-site cafe or dinner at the adjacent Pink Adobe, a famous old Santa Fe restaurant that the Five Graces management bought and refurbished in summer 2007. Another excellent upscale choice, the 57-room Inn of the Anasazi sits steps from the Plaza, its rooms outfitted with kiva fireplaces (common in Santa Fe, they’re shaped a bit like beehive ovens), handwoven fabrics, organic toiletries, and four-poster beds. An ambitious makeover in 2006 has given it a fresh look, and the hotel’s restaurant serves some of the most creative contemporary Southwestern fare in the state. Some additional downtown properties worth checking out include the upscale but well-priced Inn on the Alameda, with bright and airy rooms and a location handy for ~.ozarksstar.com Canyon Road gallery-hopping; and the mid-priced Inn of the Governors, a rambling hotel two blocks from the Plaza. Many rooms here have wood-burning fireplaces. Whether you’re alone or with your honey, it’s always fun to end a day of hiking or skiing with a soak in one of the outdoor hot tubs at Ten Thousand Waves, a gay-popular Japanese-style spa in the foothills on the east side of town. It’s a memorable spot for star-gazing. For the ultimate away-from-it-all vacation, book an overnight stay in one ofTen Thousand Waves’ smartly appointed luxury casitas, and watch your stresses melt away. �Charting Our Future? Lesbian Notions, about social networking websites for queers. Maybe it’s my age - 50 is just around the corner (oy!). Maybe it’s because I’ve been in a relationship since I was 18 (mind you, that means serial monogamy with four different women). Maybe it’s because I spend a lot of time on the Web at work. Whatever the reason, I’ve not spent too much time on any social networking site - lesbian, gay, or straight. Well, a recent study shows I’m alone! According to a January 2007 Harris Interactive/Witeck-Combs poll, gays, lesbians, and bisexuals use social networking sites more than straight people do. You can find us at MySpace 33 percent of the time we’re online, and at Facebook or Friendster 11 percent. But these aren’t sites just for us, and, as we all know, we like to go to places just for us, both in real time and in virtual worlds. At least four social networking sites specifically catering to the LGBT community launched this year - Glee, Olivia.com/connect, Socialbutter, and OurChart. Then there are these sites specifically for gay men (the names say it all) - Bigjock, Manjam, and Lovetastic. Now for us dykes who watch The L Word, we know where OurChart.com comes from. In the show’s first season, the engaging, alt-radio DJ and sometimes over-the-top lover of whomever she’s with, Mice, started an online chart to track the "relationships" - from one-night stands to the U-Haul on the second dates - of herself and her circle of friends and acquaintances. Over the past four seasons, it has been an on-again/offagain plot line, exploding - or perhaps I should say crashing - in season four, because of the exploits of lesbian sexual predator Poppy. Anyway, some of the girls in front and in back of the camera at The L Word decided to bring the chart into our lives 24/7 by launching OurChart.com, a social networking site just for us. According to a description on the site, "us" includes "lesbians, dykes, queer girls, gay women, high femmes, butches, drag kings, bois, transwomen, and transmen - however we define 22 the STAR ~urselves. On OurChart, you can connect yourself via friendships and relationships ~o the wide world encompassing all these people and more." L Word executive producer Ilene Chaiken is OurChart’s CEO, and her partners in the ~enture are Jennifer Beals, who plays Bette, Kate Moennig, who plays Shane, and, not ~urprisingly, Leisha Hailey, who portrays the ~oncept s ong,nator, M~ce. ~Recendy, I had the chance to chat with Lisa ~Parrish, whose blog, "The Hookup," appears ~laily on the site. She explained how it all ~wor-ks. "! love it," said Parrish. "It’s really fun to be part of a community. I do my blog three times a day. The first thing i do after it goes live overnight is...check to see what people are saying.. You sign up and create your own profile, and then your own chart by adding friends. The chart is, of course, digitally created with your photo at the center, which is then connected visually and virtually with photos of your friends. "I love it," said Parrish. "It’s really fun to be part of a community. I do my blog three times a day. The first thing I do after it goes live overnight is...check to see what people are saying...OurChart is a fun way of giving people a chance to meet each other, mingle, and talk about things they have in common." It wasn’t a happy ending - Grandma had died several years before, but at least the woman had some closure. OurChart is also bringing some original Web-based programraing to a computer screen near you. It has recently launched a shiny called Girl Trash, which, according to Parrish, is a "lesbian pulp-fiction-style noir thriller." It is a series of short Web-isodes of an L.A. girl gang careening through the seedier side of the city. Not necessarily my cinematic - albeit on a very small screen - choice, but it is written and directed by veteran L Word and movie director Angela Robinson. She also brought us D.E.B.S. and Herbie: Fully Loaded. Like it or not, Girl Trash shows us what is so great about the Web - the ability to create, be seen and scrutinized, and create again. But getting back to OurChart’s chart, Parrish told me, "One of the key differences about OurChart is that it’s about friends, networking, colleagues...not about people who slept together." Damn! But don’t despair. Parrish explained they’re adding a feature called "Friends+" that can chart anything from a fling to being involved for 10 years to being lifelong partners. "It’s really important to point out that friends won’t be able to be added to "Friends+" without the individual’s permission," said Parrish. "You couldn’t say you slept with Leisha Halley without her permission." Does Mice ask permission? Parrish told me a heartwarming story about a woman in the States who wrote in to OurChart about her grandmother. It seems that Grandma lived in Germany, and the writer had lost touch. She asked if it was possible for anyone in the area to check up on her grandmother’s whereabouts. Someone did. www.ozarksstar.com �INDIGO GIRLS Continued Gate" and "Tether." Amy, when you’re playing solo with a tight back up band (3FiveHuman came back out and did a great job rocking with the Girls) let it rip. But Amy, from one southern girl to another, hold off: on the tabasco when Emily is with you and pass that Girl a little honey. Okay, while I am at it, here’s another request: please use your position up there on stage to tell us something of your take on reality and world events. I know we can get on your website (wv~w.indigogirls.com) and read your notes and watch your podcasts and that is great. Few performers have as much interaction as that with their fans. But the live stage is a powerful medium in and of itself for communication and transforming the world. Now back to my original pondering. Do I demand too much of two brilliant musicians who seem to be conveying to their audience that they just want to sing their songs and play their music with no intellectual interaction with their audience or each other about any of it? I don’t know. I wanted to hear from them outside their lyrics, brilliant as they are. I wanted to hear the big picture of what is going on in the world as they see it. I mean, I can hardly afford to get off the farm once a year. I need to hear from someone who sees it all. What is their take on it all? \gho do they endorse for 2008? What do they want from us? What is the revolution of the next 10 years? Should transgendered women be allowed in at Michigan? Do their songs ever end up meaning more to them than they meant to say in the first place? Are they ever confused by their own lyrics? Is the Goddess channeling through them? Have we truly already been saved Emily? And finally, maybe every lesbian in Georgia knows the answer to this one but I am in the dark: were you two ever girlfriends? It doesn’t really matter on that last one. I know from their songs that they have a real love for each other and I know from the fact that I have every CD they ever recorded that I love them and that they will have my devotion forever. Sing on, play on, and know you are on your way to rock and roll Heaven and you take us there with you but please, Girls, as long as you’re live on stage and we are live in the audience, open up a little and talk to us about it all. We’re listening. www, ozarksstar.com Divas pack the for HOPE By Joey De TULSA, OK __ Nobody likes a diva, but for Tulsa based H.O.RE. testing clinic, there are several Divas that they can’t help but love. For the sixth year, several of Tulsa’s greatest performers, led by Queen Diva Rebecca Ungerman, came together to produce HOPE’s largest annual fundraiser "Divas Live ." Held at the Tulsa Performing Arts Center, this year’s event shattered previous records. "In our budget, we have to raise around $80,000 that is not subsidized by grant funds. This year, ’Divas’ will conservatively be around $50,000 of that," says Kate Neary-Pounds, HOPE’s Executive Director (Exact totals for the evening were not available at the time of the interview). "These funds literally go to keep the doors open." Neary- Pounds explains that the event is critical because the organization does not receive funds from groups such as United \ray. "In 2006 the Department of Health had a massive funding cut and programs such as our quick tests and 24 hour STD hotline were in jeopardy. Fortunately, we received a grant from the George Kaiser Family Foundation to keep the hotline open, but the funds from the show go to help pay for everything else," Neary-Pounds explains. Ungerman, who has been involved with the show for several years is ovetwhelmed by the public’s response and embracement of the event. "We have had to turn people away at the door the last two years. It’s great. I remember the first year we did it and we were excited that we raised $1,200 and could buy desks," Ungerman explains. A large contributor to the evening’s success has been the healthy growth of the auctions. "We grossed $25,000 from our auctions. A large part of that is the addition of Jay Litchfield to the formula. We’re very lucky to have him on board." Ungerman says that they are looking at ways to expand the event, but not sure what form it will take. "The PAC has been wonderful to us all these years, but have to look at how we are going to change and grow. We don’t have a clue what those changes are going to look like yet, but this is a year round planning process." If you xvoald like more information about HOPE’s services or to make a contribution, visit their xvebsite at www.hopetesting.org or ca~ 749-TEST. HRC Coming Out Kits NOW- AVAILABLE for National Coming Out Day 2007. Get ready to "Talk About It" on October 11, NCOD ! The theme for National Coming Out Day 2007 will be Talk About It, continuing the slogan and branding that the national program has been building since 2005. National Coming Out Day is a time to celebrate openness and honesty whether you came out 20 minutes ago, or 20 years ago this is a time for all Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, Transgender and Straight supportive people to Talk About It with friends, family and coworkers. Coming Out Day Kits include: Resource Guides to Coming Out Straight Guides to GLBT Americans Transgender Coming Out Guides Poster, Balloons and HRC Stickers And everything else you’ll need to celebrate living openly! To order your kit, please visit: www.hrc.org/comingoutkits This year will also mark an important hallmark as National Coming Out Day, falls on the 20th anniversary of the 1987 Gay and Lesbian March on Washington, and the unfurling of the MDS Quilt on the National Mall. The very first National Coming Out Day was celebrated a year to the day later as a way of continuing the spirit of openness, honesty and visibility that the March and the MDS Quilt presentation inspired. The STAR 23 ���WOW EXCELLENT FINE THANKS NICE GLOWING BRILLIANT SUPER ~here will not be a lot of thinking involved in today’s health and fitness column. I have been advised by my colleague Jebediah to make this an easy and happy "thing" to read. He also wants to help you look forward to your hard exercising routines. Jebedial~ is a first grader at Grover Cleveland Elementary and he came ui~ with the theme for this week’s fitness incentive. Jebby, as he is called by his contemporaries, wants you to grab a pen and paper and write a positive or happy word each time you finish a workout or exercise routine. Keep it in a place you can see every day. He thinks that people will be excited about working out if they know there will be a compilation of fun and happy words they can look at after the hard work. I like the concept and I have been given permission to use it. The Rocky Road Baskin Robbins double scoop cone consulting fee was well worth the advice from Jebby. Here are some of my recent happy thoughts Peter Pan .... HAPPY SMILING GOOD WELL REFR£SHED FANTASTIC YES SUNSHINE AWESOME SMASHING PRETTY BRIGHT GORGEOUS BEAMING HANDSOME BEAUTIFUL FIT DELICIOUS REJUVENATED GREAT ALIVE JOY PEACEFUL SERENE I am already looking forward to tomorrow’s happy consonant and vowel combination. It is the little things in life that can help us all get by and can help you with your health and fitness regimens. Keep it simple Simon ..... or rather Jebby! This bit of health and fitness advice brought to you by the guy who has been kid-tested and mother approved. That guy is Ron Blake and he can be unearthed at www. goblakefitness.com. VERY WELL. 2. LET AND MINUTE. 4. STRMN IN 2 CHILLED MARTINI GLASSES. 5. TOP WITH ATEASPOON OF WHIPPED CREAM AND CINNAMON STICK. 6. CUDDLE UP "WITH SO,LEONE SPECIAL AND EN|OY. HAPPY HALLOWE COOL 26 the STAR wwa,.ozarksstar.com �ANGLES OKC Continued As times changed and business declined, the club began operating only on weekends, and later opened monthly for special events. After being on the market for several months, the dub was sold to Nick Post, owner of the bars of the Habana Inn ( Copa, Finishline Ledo & Gushers Restaurant). Preceding the sale was a farewell party August 25 followed by a tea dance the next day for partiers who had made Angles what it was, before the club passed into a new destiny. Interview xgrith The New Owner of Angles, Nick Post. Victor: Well, finally now is it is done deal right? Post: It’s a done deal. We had inspections, licenses, which had all cleared by September 1. Victor: You now own Angles, the building, the business & the name? Post: Yes, and the website too, and the phone number is the same. Victor: What spurred your interest in wanting acquire Angles? Nick: Well two months ago I’d have probably said I didn’t have any interest in acquiring it. It just happened all of the sudden, when a customer had heard Scott (Wilson) was interested in selling Angles and I ought to check into it. I met with him, made a dea!, signed a contact, and the deal closed. Victor: Business had been slow at Angles for a long time before it closed. How do you feel you can avoid the problems they had, to build the business back up? Nick: In the beginning we’re probably only going to be open on Fridays and Saturdays. I want Angles to find its own niche, I’m not looking for Angles to take business from the Copa or the Finishline. I want it so people can walk back and forth, not have to stand in line. Angles will be different than the Copa, but we’re not yet sure what that will be. By the first of the year we hope we’l! know ~vhat niche it should have. Copa will continue to have shows, it’s set up to be a showbar, although Angles may handle large pageants or special events. wvwv.ozarksstar.com Victor: So when wil! Angles have their grand re-opening? will be that people can walk back and forth and enjoy both places. Nick: We’re not certain yet, but it will be before Halloween. I’m truly excited about what we can offer with the Habana and the 39tb Street Strip, and I think Scott and Donny set the standards for the clubs on the Strip, and I’m proud to be there. I also recognize that they helped make possible what we have now, when I actually had a call from a captain of the police department for this area, asking if there had been any trouble from police officers, were they professional cordial, etc. I was glad to be able to tell them that they do act correctly, and they know we run good clubs here. Victor: You’ve been in the bar business quite a while. When did you first acquire the Copa, along with the Finishline, Ledo and Gushers Restaurant? Nick: It was October of 2007 when I bought them from Lee Burrus. They were already successful, but I think their continued success is largely due to the tremendous staff we have. We have over 40 people working hard here, changing things, bringing in new ideas, keep it different all the time. I think that’s the biggest factor in our success. Victor: Well we wish you success in carrying on what the Pmgles has always been, and will mean in the future. Victor: Out of sheer curiosity, what did you do before you wound up in the bar business? Nick: I was in real estate from the time I was 19 years old. I started working with Abide, and when Truman Miller sold Abide I went ,vith him into commercial development. I then did mergers and acquisitions with Charles Bazzzarian. When he went to prison I was out of a job, so Lee Burrus offered me one here. Although we thought it would be temporary, I worked for Lee for 6 years. I had never been in the bar business, or ever thought I would be. Victor: That’s quite a change. How did you adapt? That is about as much like an apple and an orange as you can get. Nick: I think it’s easier to go from a conventional job to the bar business than it would be the other xvay around. I started in the office, started managing on Mondays, later on weekends, and it ~vent from there. Victor: Do you anticipate much straight patronage? Nick: Straight people have always been welcome in my bars if they act right. Our goal is to let people know that they are welcome, but in our gays clubs they are on our turfi Victor: How have you handled the many rumors about the change? Nick: Well there have been many, but one rumor we can put to rest is that the purchase of Angles has nothing to do with my other bars or the Habana Inn. I still have many years left on my lease at the Habana, and the Seikels (Habana’s owners) have no interest in selling the hotel. The only change Creating Community for People living with HW/A DS A 501 c (3) Non Profit Organization Our House, Too offers a vadety of activities for people who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS to help combat the social isolation that many of our people live through each and everyday. We provide a Toiletry and Household Pantry for those who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS who cannot afford to purchase these items for themselves. We invite anyone who would like to volunteer or provide financial assistance to please contact us by phone 918-585-9552 or e-mail hardsmmjr@yahoo.com. the STAR 27 �Even sweetness and light can be excessive. With the Sun and Venus in a long, difficult aspect - and in each other’s signs - overdoing the good stuff comes way too easily and can leave us feeling sunburned and saccharine. ARIES (~,~arch 2(} -Apri~ 19): Does your partner want to take the lead or to follow? Baby does want to play, but may be a pushy bottom. (There’s another kind?) Be very clear about who’s really running the show, especially if it’s not stated. TAURUS (Apri~ 20 - ~aay 20): Be very careful of your diet, especially your sugar intake. If there’s any diabetes in your family, get yourself checked out. Resist the urge to decorate, or look at what’s behind it. Is it a distraction from more figurative "housecleaning"? GEM~Ni (~lay 21 - Jmle 29): Write, paint, compose your heart out. It’s all dreck, even if your friends tell you it’s fabulous. They’re just being nice. Later on, when your critical faculties return, something good could come out of all the fertilizer you’re excreting now. SAGITTARIUS/November 22 - December 20}: Your friends know how outspoken you are, and how you love to argue - excuse me - "exchange new ideas." Your current enthusiasm will charm some people and scare others off. You may want to be careful about whom you push into either category. CAPRICORN (December 21 - January t9): You are now exuding pure sexuality. Horny, jaded, or anywhere in between, you are radiating sex. At work, that can cause trouble. Do your best to sublimate that energy and/or enjoy it in the appropriate time and place. AQUARIUS (January 29 - February !8}: You want adventure, but not solo. You and your partner want different things, but are too eager to appease each other, and that satisfies nobody. Find a common ground where you can both be a little selfish and have a great time. P~SCES (February 19 - ~aarch 19): You don’t need to show off or work on your erotic expertise - but why pass up the fun? Finding eager partners is not a problem. Limiting yourself to an appropriate partner may be! CANCER (June 2t - Ju~y 22): Sure, you want your home to be utterly gorgeous. Risking the rent or mortgage by spending a wad on decoration is a bit counterproductive. Get creative with what you have, or raise money selling off old clutter. LEO (Ju~y 23 - August 22): You could easily be too charming, tempting others to doubt your sincerity. Just be your natural, sweet self. That’s already a lot for many people to handle! Cultivate modesty, and remember: The flower charms the bee without effort. WRGO (August 23 - September 22): Being helpful with your insight and suggestions seems a charming idea to you, but others may find it meddlesome. Ask if you can offer help before you actually do. Better yet, put yourself in their shoes, and invite critical support. LIBRA (September 23 - October 22}: Your political talents are already working overtime for you. It would be much too easy to overplay your hand. Sit back, pay attention, and move lightly. Before you offer anything, let them want it! SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): Your instincts are better than good for making connections with superiors at work or getting on the right side of any authority figure. In fact, you may be a bit overenthusiastic and pushy. Where’s that discreet, subtle Scorpion we love so well? METROPOLITAN COMMUNITY CHURCHES Rev Steve T. 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Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data magazine Text Any textual data included in the document 1 (2437) Oklahoma’s HIV/$TD Hottine PROTECT YOURSELF PROTECT YOUR PAR (S) Center on Tuesdays from 6-Spin H.O.RE. Testing ~er~s Outreach Prograr~ tn Tulsa at (9t8) 812~7045 2 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com Local and Regional O cials Featured The New Advocate. By Steve VanHook OKLAHOMA CITY, OK __ Xhe new 40th Anniversary Issue of Xhe Advocate features six gay and lesbian elected officials in an article entitled "Great American Lives: The Trailblazers". Oklahoma’s A! McAffrey, Arkansas’ Kathy Webb, and Alabama’s Patricia Todd, state representatives all, are joined by Guy Padgett, former mayor of Casper, Wyoming, State Senator and progressive Democrat Jolie Justus of Missouri, and Dallas County Sheriff Lupe Valdez. The article and photos begin on Page 78 of the September 25th, 2007, issue, written by Paul Florez in NYC and Padraie Wheeler. In an introduction to the article with the heading "Doing It For Ourselves", the authors write: "After decades of pounding on the walls of government, fighting to be heard, gays and lesbians have finally secured positions inside those walls. There are currently more than 370 openly gay elected officials natiomvide, with at least 100 more expected to run in 2008. Meet six trailblazers who ran as openly gay candidates and won---in red states, no less." The piece on McAffrey reads: "Al McAffrey, 59, has lived a life of service. Before becoming a legislator, he had careers in both the Navy and the Oklahoma City Police Department. McAffrey said his sexuality wasn’t a central issue during his race for the District 88 seat in the Oklahoma State House, but that changed one day when he knocked on the door of a house displaying his opponent’s sign on the front lawn. "The guy said, ’I have only one question to ask you: Are you gay?’" recalls McAffrey. "And I thought, Oh, shit, how am I going to answer this? Well, I’m a pretty point-blank guy, so I said, ’Yeah, I’m gay. Does that mean you’re not going to vote for me?’ He looked at me and said, ’No, I am going to vote for you, because you’re honest." "The man tood down the opponent’s sign right there and then. Step it up to fight AIDS By Joey De TULSA, OK __ Lace up your walking shoes and head to Veterans Park Sat. Oct. 6 to join the fight against MDS. The fifteenth annual walk will step offat 9 a.m. from the park located at 21st street and Boulder avenue. The two mile route will take walkers along Riverside to 31st and then return to Veterans Park. Funds raised by the Tulsa AIDS walk go directly to supporting Tulsa’s National AIDS Fund Americorp team. The five person team provides prevention, testing and outreach services through out the Tulsa community. Tulsa is one of the few cities in the country that ...........Continued page 13 wvcw.ozarksstar.com the STAR 3 STATE SENATORANDREW RICE ANNOUNCES HIS RUN FOR U.S. SENATE Indigo Girls descend on Tulsa at the Historic Cains Ballroom. The Advocate - the oldest continuously published U.S. gay periodical still in existence - has chronicled the history and culture of the LGBT community for 40 years. Ever simply smell a wine before you taste it? What does it smell like to you? Check out the color too. fl~ c,Ao T~V~- Gay Travelers: Colorado Out of Town: Samta Fe. NM Dining In or OUT Maybe it’s my age - 50 is just around the corner (oy!). Maybe it’s because I’ve been in a relationship since I was 18 (mind you, that means serial monogamy F~T~ESS Introspection can lead you to better understand yourself and ultimately to achieve greater happiness. ON THE COVER: Indigo Girls 4 the STAR STAR DISTRIBUTION: OKLAHOMA CITY * TULSA * LAWTON * MCALESTER * ENID * LITTLE ROCK * NORTH LITTLE RODK * FAYETTEVILLE * FT SMITH * EUREKA SPRINGS * HOT SPRINGS * BENTONVILLE * ROGERS * KANSAS CITY * SPRINGFIELD * JOPLIN * BRANSON AREA* WICHITA * PITTSBURG * JUNCTION CITY ~.~v.ozarksstar.com STATE SENATOR ANDREWANNOUNCES HIS RUN FOR U.S. SENATE By Victor Gorin OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__ QUOTE: "I’m humble as I go through this. I want the people of the state to get to know me, I want to know what their aspirations are, the things they want to see reformed. " Longtime LGBT ally Andrew Rice announced through press conferences & fundraisers that he is running for the U.S. Senate seat currently held by James Inhofe. Together with his wife Apple and their 2 sons, Parker & Noah, he let Oklahomans know where he stands and why he wanted the job. He currently holds the seat for State Senate District 46, elected to that position in 2006. That seat was previous held by Bernest Cain, who likewise was a staunch ally of the GLBT community as well as many other progressive causes but~ had to leave office due to term limits. ~,~rw.ozarksstar.corn At his press conference at the Oklahoma State Democratic Party Headquarters, he touched on many issues facing our country and how he wanted to make a difference, including global xvarming, national security, fiscal responsibility, and a major lack of trust Americans feel for their government. As he puts it: "It’s pretty remarkable the amount of disgruntlement, and really the lack of faith people have in government. I think they feel a lot of anxiety not only because of the complexities we deal with like terrorism and . the health care crisis, but even basic good government practices." He stressed that his life experiences, especially his work in an evenly divided Oklahoma State Senate had given him the know-how of how to work with Republicans and yet stick to his principles. He stated, "Robert S. Kerr, Henry Bellmon and David Boren had a trait in common that they were able to find common ground and get things done for our state when it needed to be done. I think that’s something I can do as a proud Democrat and know where my line in the sand is." Referring to skepticism some people have due to his youth, Andrew pointed out that Oklahoma has a long history of younger candidates who have been elected, including Don Nickles, who was younger than Andrew when he was elected to the U. S. Senate in 1980. "The experience that we talk about with politics, there’s a lot of that experience I don’t want. Being beholden to special interests, getting stuck in your ways, being a career politician, being inflexible and not able to see things from another viewpoint, that’s the experience that has taken us down the wrong road in his country. " The incumbent, James Inhofe, was first elected to the U.S. Senate seat in 1994 with a special election when David Boren left the office to take the presidency of Oklahoma University He was re-elected to a full term in 1996 and again in 2002. He has become well known for extreme rightwing positions, including opposition to gay rights, total support our military involvement in Iraq, opposition to any minimum wage increase or support for organized labor, and calling global warming "a hoax." Andrew closed by pointing out that he wants to give Oklahomans an option if they want a change. the STAR 5 Democrats Need Negative Resuks in traq. Dear Editor: The national Democratic Congressional leadership believes failure by our troops in Iraq the central front in the War on Terror is essential for them to win elections in 2008, and that any positive sign of progress in Iraq is simply a "problem" for them. Democrat Senate Majority Leader Harry Reid, driven by polls and politics, declared "This war is lost," even before the President’s new strategy began. Reid also has bragged, "We’re going to pick up Senate seats as a result of this war." And Democrat House Majority Whip James Ctyburn said that a positive report in September from General Petraeus and Ambassador to Iraq Ryan Crocker would be "a real big problem for us (Democrats)." Meaning the Democrats’ desire for an arbitrary troop withdrawal and their party’s 2008 electoral fortunes would be in jeopardy if our troops succeed. Is it aW wonder that the new Democratic controlled Congress has far lower approval ratings than the President? Let’s not forget that there are thousands of gay and lesbian troops fighting the M Queda terrorists in Iraq; courageously risking their lives against a violent worldwide ideology that has no regard for the lives of gay people in the Middle East or any where else in the world. These gay and lesbian soldiers from our community are true American heroes and deserve our unwavering patriotic respect. America’s national security should not be kicked around like a political football by the Far Left in Gay America. Many gays believe winning the War on Terror is vital to our country’s national security. It is unconscionable that Democrat leaders, and many gay activists, are hoping for our troops to fail so their part,i can gain a political advantage. And it is unacceptable that the leading Democrat presidential contenders, Hillary Clinton and Barack Obama, both claim to support our troops yet voted against providing them with the resources to sustain their mission and keep them safe. Respectfully submitted, Matthew Veritas Tsien Former Air Force Executive Officer Low-maintenance bait for entrapment ? Dear Readers, Not being one who has ever solicited anonymous, or even well-known, sexual liaisons in public settings, I wasn’t aware of the Larry Craig foot-tapping dance which seems so imitative of certain insects that tap on leaves and stems to communicate either territorial limits or a need for mating. Thanks to Senator Craig America has received a birds-and-bees nature lore lesson hitherto known only to a relatively few wildlife specialists. But I do know there is a wafting of sexual pheromones in public par~ after dark at certain locations in Oklahoma City (OKC), Will Rogers Park being one of them. I recently attended a neighborhood political event at Will Rogers Park that, after I had helped pack up the event, found me walking back to my car after dark at 8:30pm. I had parked at the botanical greenhouse thinking the event I was attending was located in that area. ............................Continued page 15 6 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com wY~w.ozarksstar.com the STAR 7 Re~gnized by Keller Williams For outstanding ad~levernent 2005 and 2006 Chuck Breckenddge 918-706-1887 OCTOBER 11, 1987 Gay and Lesbian March on Washington and~ ur~ting of ~he AIOS Quilt on the Na~al MS]I OCTOBER 11, 2007 National Comir~ Out Day 405.840.2106 MLS. Let us promote your business in a UNIQUE & DIVERSE market. Call STAR ADVERTISING today. (918)835-7887 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com AFTER 25 YEARS THE ANGLES OKC TORCH IS PASSED ON OK]~AHOMA CITY, OK When A~gles opened in Augast of 1982 it was a great beginning that made its mark in history, ql~e club had an tmustml beginning when Scott Wdion applied for a gquor license for what was presented to be "Cotton- Eyed Joe’s,~ a country dmaee b~r. When they opened as a gay disco named Angles, problems quickly began.. The club and thei~ customers were subjected to a vigorous campaign of police harassment, with officers frequendy raiding the club, citing them for bogus violations, along with ~rresring customers ~md sometimes beating them as well Angles fought baclq keeping track of the incidents, including badge & tag numbers as well as the police officers havolved, ~ad threatened to sue the city. A deal was forged with the city where Angles was awarded one dollar in damages plus some of the legal ll~s, and the City agreed to cease harassing the dub and their customers. The story made national news, and also w~s the major story of the first issue of the Gayly Oldahom~ a in October of 1983. It £so proved to be a major turning point, with club ovmers of the ~ea having a good relationship with the police, and the overall climate changhag. Other gay bars followed as well as other buxinesses catering to the GLBT commuuiry, with many people remembering this courageous stand that was a major factor making it possible. Throughout the 80’S and 90’s Angles became a showcase & the In place to be, replacing the Free Spirit as OKC’S premier gay d~nce spot. Disco divas from that time remember world class DJ’S including the late Michael Tchekerades (fondly knovm as Checkers). Angles hosted major entertainers including Boy George, the Wcathergirls ("It’s Rainhag Men), Dead or Alive, Jermifer Holhday,Divine, Paul Lekakis, Gloria Gaynor, Viola Wigs & celebrated their 19th anniversarg with Bonnie Pointer.lt was a memorable occasion when comedienne Joan Rivers enjoyed a portrayal ofhersehc performed by the late Amii Dyshea. Their Turnabout Shows (where their employees got in deag) benefited AIDS charities aad becanae honored traditions for our community Much of our local talent was bolstered as well, including diva~ including Ghager hamar, Raahad Erikks, and the dynamic duo of Parr] & Tuna Melt (Tuna better known internarionaBy as cBef Ruby Ann Boxcar with patty her sister Donna Sue). Countless pageants were held there, with most of the past Miss Gay Oklahoma’s crowned there. The club also garnered respect from the straight community as well, gaining so much of their patronage that Angles was voted OKC’S Best Dance Club ha the Oklahoma Gazette several times, as well as the Best Gay Bar many times as well. ...............Cont~ued page 27 Love of Last Resort www,ozarksstancom the STAR 9 LINDSAY PAIGE TAKES THE CROWN By Victor Gorin Photo ~ Victor Gorin, Left Melody Michaels, Right Lindsay Paige OKLAHOMA C!’YY, OK __ The iudges had the work cut out for them they }udged the wildly talented contestants at the Copa August 22-23, but Lindsay Paige survived the comperifion of some of Oklahoma most talented divas to capture the title of Miss Gay Oklahoma for 2007. Having won the distinction of I st alternate last year, her reaction upon hearhag her name as the winner clearly was ruth of heaven. The first alternate was Melody Michaels, a performer well known in Oklahoma City for her shows with Kitty Bob ALines and Ginger Lamar at the Boom. Tncy wl]l go to Memphis to compete for the crown of Miss Gay Ainerica October 17-21. Willa Johnson Wins Oklahoma Count Commissioner District One. OKLAHOMA CITY, OK With the conclusion of die special crat Willa Johnson, ~von handily wirh 54% of the vote over arch Ms.Johnson has served on the Oklahoma City Councg for Ward 7 since 1993. In her position she acted cnnsistendy in support of issues concerning the GLBT comnmdity, voting in support of an ordinate prohibiting discrimination based on sexual orientation, opposed banning the GLBT banners during Gay Pride Month, and she opposed die abolition of the Oklahoma City Human Rights Commission. She has become well k~own for her outspoken opposition to discrimination. 10 the STAR Oklahomans for Equality opens "Out ofthe Closet: A T-Shirt Retrospective" at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center gallery TULSA, OK (PR)__ Toe Dennis IL Negl Equahty Center art gallery will host its monthly meet-the-artist reception from 6-9pro, qTaursday, October 4, 2007, for the opening of its October exhibit, "Out of the Closet". qqae show will be a retrospective of LGBT diemed T-Shins, a private collection of former gifx-shop owner Tom Neal, The displayed shirts, both regional aa~d international, wig offer a gfo~apse L~to the history of the gay rights movement as seen through T-Shirt design. The opening reception wg! be catered by donation from Brother’s Pizza Depot. q~e exhibit will remain up through die month of October, and can be viewed Monday thru Saturday from 3-9pro. The Dennis K Neig Equality Center is located ar 62I E. 4th St., in downtown Tulsa, More info can be found of die web at okeq.org. Tlxls monthly event is hosted by Oklahoman’s for Equality (OkEq). OkEq seeks equal rights for Lesbian= Gay, Bisexual & Transg~nder (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, agiances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neifi Equality 2007 Miss America Lauren Nelson Headlines AIDS Walk of Oklahoma City OKLAHOMA CI~ (PR) __ Oklahoma’s own Lauren Nelson, who is the reigning 2007 Miss America, wi~ serve as the Grand Marshag of the upcoming MDS xYSalk of Oklahoma City. The Walk will take place o~ StmdaB September 30 at the Myriad Bormaical Gardens. Registration and festivities begin at 12:30pmfoliowed by a 2:00pm step off. There is no fee to walk in this important community event, which builds awareness and f~nds each year for die treatment and prevention of HIV/AIDS i~ the greater Oklahoma City area. Southwes~ Ah-lines has generously donated two roundtrip aidine tickets to any Southwest Airlines desrSnation in the Continental U.S. to be raffled offat the Walk. Ra~e tickets are only $1 each and may be purchased either at the AIDS Walk on September 30, or by contacting Lfoda Larason at 405/570-4835. One need not be Form your Walk team now and bring your donations to the 2007 MDS Walk of Oklahoma City. Visit www.aidswalkokc, org for more information. Photo by Leda Dowlearn .s DesCend By Leda Dowlearn worth watching. The Girls’ -warm up band, 3FiveHuman out ofAtlanta, was a good rocking start. By the time they were finished the expectant energy of the crowd was at a ftenzy. Then the roar, suddenly the Gifts were there before us, guitars in motion, singing "Pendulum Swinger" (sure hope Hilary Clinton does adopt this as her theme song but she’d probably be too afraid to swing this far left). After that, it was song after song after song with hardly a break in between except to change guitars and grab a mandolin, banjo or harmonica. One thing I realized early on was that the Girls were not into stage presence. We heard a little banter about getting lost in Tulsa, enjoying the old YMCA, and their bassett hound on the bus but that was about it. Perhaps in a nod to location Amy Ray had on a western cowgirl shirt. But overall, the Girls were there to do their songs. TULSA, OK __ On September 13th the Indigo Girls, icons of the feminist folk./rock music scene, descended on Cain’s Ballroom in Tulsa to the full-house, floor-stomping adoration of a mostly lesbian crowd. The day the Girls came to my part of the universe I was in a closet (not my usual place) replacing a water heater thinking about the amazing fact that I had tickets to finally, that day, see these two demi-goddesses in the flesh after slavishly worshiping their musical personas for the past twenty years. In between hot and cold water pipes I was fantasizing about all the questions I’d love to ask them say should we run into each other in the bathroom or something Next step: I called Cain’s Ballroom and invoked the power of the media to get someone’s attention and, bless their hearts, an hour later I was talking with the Girls’ publicity" agent who said she’d see what she could do to set something up after sound check. That was enough for me. \VC’ater heater be damned, my partner and I hightailed it out of Northwest Arkansas headed for Tulsa town four hours early. Well, the bubble burst shortly after we hit the outskirts ofTulsa when their publicity agent had to tell me it was a no go on the interview. I was a little too late with my request and the Girls turned me down. That was okay, though, I still had my camera, two tickets and the evening was before us. This was my first visit to Cain’s Ballroom but I was up on their history after a review of their website. The feel of the place was cool, the line at the bar was friendly and the gathering crowd was well Okay, that was the Nirvana part and maybe I should stop there. It was more than enough. But in retrospect, that time of second thoughts that comes to you over coffee at Denny’s after your ears have stopped ringing, this die hard fan has some things to say that may or may not be more than I should be asking of the Girls, but here it goes anyway. Yeah, I got some great pictures and I heard some great songs. But they were all delivered to me in one big load of too much sound and too much rock without letting the songs that really needed to roll just roll. Can you Girls not trust that your audience is sophisticated enough to hear you on many levels? After all, yours is a mostly lesbian crowd. Emotional roller coasters are no problem for us. You can take us up and down so relax a little with that. Amy, yeah, you’re a rocker and you’re a star. No question in my mind that many of your songs are destined to be classics. You’re my Dylan, you’re my Springsteen. Rock on but know we love your slow songs, too, and I really, really wanted to hear "Three County Highway," "Nueva Senorita," or "Moment of Forgiveness." Emily, you’re brilliant with your lyrics and your melodies but you look like you don’t want to be in the circus anymore. You’re Baez, you’re Mitchell in your roots. But is it possible for Mitchell and Springsteen to share the same stage without each doing serious damage to the other’s genre and landing musically somewhere in the "upper echelons of mediocrity" as you have said yourself in "You and Me of the !0,000 Wars." Amy is ready and willing to jump into the chaos of rock and her songs have the energy and intensity it demands. She proved this brilliantly in her show stopper versions of "Rock And Roll Heaven’s ...............Continued page 23 www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 11 31 iCONS SELECTED FOR GLBT HISTORYMONTH 2007 Alexander the Great, BillieJean King, Leonardo da ~nci, Bessie Smith, Cary Grant among Icons PHILADELPHIA, PA __ Equality Forum, an international gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender (GLBT) civil rights organization, announced 31 Icons to be featured during GLBT History Month in October. ~he 31 Icons achieved success within their respective fields of endeavor, were national heroes or advanced GLBT civil rights. "The GLBT community has been uniquely disadvantaged by not being taught its history at home, in public schools or in religious institutions," said Malcolm Lazin, Executive Director of Equality Forum. "GLBT History Month helps teach our unacknowledged history, provides role models and celebrates contributions made by GLBT individuals to our country and internationally." The Icon videos are available for free for the Web sites of nonprofit organizations, educational institutions and corporate entities, through the inclusion ofHTML code provided at wwv.glbtHistoryMonth. com. The Icon video is automatically updated each day. A free graphically-designed downloadable biography, bibliography and other educational resources for each Icon are available at www. glbtHistoryMonth.com. The 31 Icons from 2006 can also be found on the Web site. Equality Forum solicited nominations from leaders of national and international GLBT organizations. Nominees were evaluated by GLBT History Month Co-Chairs Rev. Nancy Wilson, Moderator of the Universal Fellowship of Metropolitan Community Churches, and Prof. Kenji Yoshino, Deputy Dean for Intellectual Life at Yale Law School. Equality Forum’s Board of Directors approved the final slate of 31 Icons. 12 the STAR Equality Forum produced 30-second biographical videos on each Icon, which will be broadcast daily on here! and Logo television networks throughout October, and will be streamed on major GLBT Web sites. Comcast will air a 30-second television PSA. Equality Forum launched GLBT History Month in 2006, and is patterned after Black and Vgomen’s History Months. tn its initial year, GLBT History Month reached over 500,000 individuals. GLBT History Month 2007 Icons: October 1: Leonard Bernstein (Composer) October 2: Annie Leibovitz (Photographer) October 3: Angela Davis (Civil Rights Activist) October 4: Alexander the Great (Military Commander) October 5: Billie Jean King (Athlete) October 6: Pedro Almodovar (Writer/Director) October 7: Bessie Smith (Singer) October 8: Klaus Wowereit (Politician) October 9: Susan Sontag (Author/ Commentator) October 10: Gore Vidal (Author) October 11: Lily Tomlin (Actor) October 12: Peter Gomes (Theologian) October 13: Mary Edwards Walker (Surgeon) October 14: Frederick II (Monarch) October 15: Virginia Uribe (Educator) October t 6: Frank Kameny (Gay Pioneer) October 17: Nancy Mahon (Philanthropy Advocate) October 18: David Hockney (Painter) October 19: Audre Lorde (Author) October 20: Cary Grant (Actor) October 21: Rende Richards (Transgender Pioneer) October 22: Sherry Harris (Politician) October 23: John Maynard Keynes (Economist) October 24: Gertrude Stein (Author) October 25: Pioneer) October 26: tist) October 27: October 28: October 29: October 30: October 31: Zhou Dan (Chinese Gay Carolyn Bertozzi (Scien- Cole Porter (Songwriter) John McNeill (Theologian) Florence Nightingale (Health Care Advocate) Billy Sipple (Hero) Leonardo da Vinci (Artist/Inventor/Scientist) ABOUT EQUALITY FORUM Equality Forum is a national and international nonprofit, 501 (c)(3) GLBT civil rights organization with an educational focus. Equality Forum develops high-impact educational content in the form of documentary films, history projects, innovative initiatives and the largest annual national and international GLBT civil rights forum. www.equalityforum.com www.ozarksstar.com vw,’w.ozarksstar.com Playwright!ActorJerry Rabus a Back OKC with "Love OfLast Resoi-t If you’re a gay guy trapped for three years done on an abandoned and deserted sex resort, what could be better than having the man of your dreams wash up ashore? It’s a love story "waiting to happen.., or... is it? That’s the whole premise of "Love of Last Resort." Josh, played by author Jerry Rabushka, has been living alone on an uncharted South Pacific isle for quite some time. No electricity, no running water, no man for company. How does he do it? Easy! He consults back issues of Martha Stewart Living, follows the instructions, and can make anything he needs, usually in three easy steps. If you’re lost and alone, this is a very very good thing! Along with that, he changes personality on a regular basis. "It hurts to admit your entire persona has to be thrown out," he says. "But it’s all very ’Martha.’ You just make it out of what you got." Matt (played by Scott Mueller) couldn’t be any more opposite. An escapee from an "all gay cruise," he winds up beached on Josh’s island, pining after a man back from home, rebuffing Josh every step of the way. ’Of course you love me," he’ll say. "I’m the only choice you have." You can do some really cool stuffwhen you’re alone on an island. You can be whoever you want to be. You can see your island as a prison or an opportunity. Josh uses the island to escape; Matt isn’t sure he wants to escape, and he isn’t sure he can love Josh until he finds out who the "real Josh" is. "Matt’s a perfect foil to Josh," says Scott Mueller. "He wants to love, he wants m be in love, but he’s afraid to give up anything to do it. And like a lot of people, he tends to punish the man in front ofhim for the sins of the one who came before." As time goes by, though, Matt becomes more intrigued by Martha’s ingenuity and Josh’s world of fake TV shows. Come "watch" their interview with Gloria, a porn star with a very descriptive last name, a gaymarriage soap opera, and of course a bit of fun with a pair of handcuffs. Love OfLast Resort premiered in West Hollywood, CA, and has since played in St. Louis and Springfield, MO, with a production at Tulsa’s Nightingale Theater in January 2006. For this production, Rabushka has re-written the play with a more comedic outlook and added several cool new songs. "I always like coming to OKC," he says. "We keep coming back because we have a lot of support here and enthusiastic responses, plus the folks at the IAO Gallery are great!" Rabushka, with his company Ragged Blade, of St. Louis, MO, has previously been to the IAO with Somebody Else’s Life, Woofl. The Road Show, and Gay Christian, Gay Muslim, Gay Jew, which starred nationally known gay solo artist Jade Esteban Estrada. Love OfLast Resort book & music by Jerry Rabushka starring Jerry Rabushka & Scott Nicholas Mueller October 12 & 13 at 8 PM IAO Gallery www.iaogallery.org 811 North Broadway, Oklahoma City Tickets: $!0; $5 students & seniors for show info/reservations please call 314- 280-1035, for directions or other local info please call IAO at 405-232-6060 for more information please visit www. raggedbtade.com AIDS WALK TULSA Continued has supported a team ever since the beginning of the National AIDS fund/Americorp program. According to the Janice Nicktas, the team’s coordinator, the fimdraising goal for this year’s event is $25,000. Nicklas says the event is open to anybody who wishes to participate and says that no level of support, financial or in spirit is too small. In fact, the organizer says that there are volunteer portunities for those wishing to be a part of the event, but unable to make the trek. To register or for more information visit www.aidswalktulsa.org. Credit cards and cash donations are accepted. the STAR 13 September 1967 (40 yearn ago l st month): The Mirth renamed it Advocate in 1969, and h became the first American gay news Advocate publishes its first issue, publication with a nationwide distribution, off the sex ads into a separate pubfication. In 1996, the magazine hired its first female editor in chief, Judy Wieder, What is the history of qhe Advocate? T he Advocate - the oldest continuously published U.S. gay periodical still in exfistence - has chronicled the history and culture of the LGBT commtmity for 40 yews. Udce many of the eadiest Ametic~n gay organizations, qqae Advocate_ was born in Los Angeles. It began as the newsletter of Person£ Rights in Defense’and Education (PRIDE), a gay liberation group formed after police raided the local Black Ca~ bar. In the summer of 1967, Richard Mit~h (alia Dick Michaels) - a writer for a chemical industry journal - his lover Bill Rau (aka Bill Rand), and Sam Winston hatched a plan to turn the newilerter into a gay newspaper. Dubbed the Los Angeles Advocate. it debuted in September with a print run of 500 copies, produced at night in a print shop in the basement ofABC Studios, where Rau worked. By 1968, internal dissension led to the dissolution of PRIDE, ~nd Mitch ~rr~rged to purchase the newspaper for $1. Initially, the publication focused on local news, covering police nfisconduct mad gay liberation demonstrations. But it also added pieces on Hoflywood celebrities a~ad columns such as "Body Buddy" (fitness) and "Cooking with Atmtie LOu." Short on leshi~a content, the paper often featured scantily dad men on its covers and included a popular personal-ad section called "Trader Dizk?’ Mirth preferred to feature de,n-cut activists like the Rev. Troy Perry of the Metropolitan Cor~mauniry Church, rather than fiippie radicals llke Morris Kight, a co-founder of the Los Angeles Gay Liberation Front. In a bid to make the paper more professional, Mirth hired Rob Cole, formerly of the Dallas Times Herald, as news editor. As gay men and lesbians around the country began to look tu the paper for information, 14 ~eSTAR In 1974, Mitch sold "Die Advocate ~ millionaire investment banker David Goodstein for $350,000. After taking over, Goodstein - a se[f-descrlbed "practicing capitalist" who hated street protests and had frequent rtm ins with movement activists - fired most of the staff and writers, considering them too le ft-~ving. According to one columnist, Goodstein said he wanted the paper to appeal to "the upwardly mobile homosexual who has a home in the hills, drives a luxury car, and orders alcohol by brand." Within a year, Goodstein moved _q~e Advocate_ to the San Francisco suburb of San Maleo and liired journalist John Preston as editor. He adopted a magazine format and "desle~zified" the publication by moving the sexually explicit personal ads to the back, and eventuafly into a pull-out section. by Robert McQueen, formerly of the Salt Lake Tribune. Scandalized by McQue~’s officials came to The Advocate haadqu~rters beefed up the paper’s cultttral coverage from and Pat Califia’s ’%dvocate Adviser" column. in 1984, Goodstein moved _The Advocate_ back to Southern California. Shortly before he died of cancer the following year, he sold it to Orange County businessman Niles Merton. After McQueens resignat’on, he magazine went through a series of thorttenured editors and struggled to stay afloat. In i990, under new ethtor Richard Rouilard, the magazine added "lesbian" to the masthead. Yet even as he oversaw a remm to advocacy iournalism, Rouilard favored splashy covers featuring attractive straight male stars and divas such as Madonn~ gay community was flush with disposable cash, The Advocate’s advertising revenues rose, rescuing it from the brink of foaancial insolvenc)~ ha 1992, with a new editor and publisher, the magazine underwent another redesign, this time spinning In 2000, The Advocate’s p~ent company, Liberation Publications Inc. (LPI) - which had previously acquired book publisher Alyson Publications - purchased rival gay magazine Out, as well as HIV Plus. LH and gay Web compmay PlanetOut announced plans to merge, prompting critics to warn of an impending LGBT media monopo!~ That merger was called off, but in 2005 Planet- Out purchased LH for $31 million. Even as PkinetOut faced a financial crisis in early 2007, The Advocate continued to gain new subscribers. To celebrate its 40th anniversary, it came out of the closet, doing away with the "privacy wrap" that had previously shrouded the magazine. "The Advocate’s decision might seem like a trivial matter... but it stands for something far greater: the increasing acceptance and visibility of gay people in public fife,~ wrote gay journalist James Kirchick, As a key public voice of the gay communi~ Toe Advocate has been a frequent tzrget of criticism over the years. Many decried its thi~ away ~om militant politics and its increasing emphasis on entertainment and lifestyle content, while others thought the magazine was too commercial and catered to affluent white gay men. Yet 40 yeats after its founding, The Advocate remains the "periodical of record" that mainstream journalists, politicians, and business leaders ram to for informarion about the LGBT community. For further reading: Faderman, Li[fi~a, ~nd Stunt Timmons. 2006. Gay L-A. (Basic Books). Straitmatter, Rodgar. 1995. Unspeakable: The Rise of the Gay and Lesbian Press in America (Faber & Failer). Thompson, Mark (editor). 1994. _Long Road to Freedom: The Advocate History of the Gay and Lesbian Movement_ (St. Martin’s Press). Letters cor~tirmed from pg 6 After finding the event I realized I should have parked by the amphitheater instead. I didn’t want to walk back and move my car after finally finding the event as I felt no qualms about walking in the dark after the event was finished. The picnic pavilions had security lights that came on as darkness set in and there were utility poles with lights that came on around the amphitheater, but as t walked back towards the greenhouse parking lot down by the arboretum I noticed that the street lights, even though there are many of them and they couldn’t ALL be malfunctioning, were turned off--all of them. achieve the ful! recognition of our citizenship, then like most straights who are observed in public sexual congress, we’ll be given a warning and told to move on without the victimization that comes from Puritan policymakers. I thank GOPer Senator Craig, a 62-year old man from Idaho, responsible for running several successful election campaigns, for showing the USA what responsibility he can be trusted with. If one is old enough for sexual activity, one should have the responsibility to do it in private. James Nimmo CHAEL SAGE TURNS TO TULSA’S BAMBOO LOUNGE° It occurred to me that these lights were turned off intentionally to encourage the lewd sort of behavior that results in brownie-point arrests for the police department, fines for the city’s coffers, and humiliation and other negative social effects for those arrested such as job or housing loss, and registering as a sex offender on publicly available websites. Is the darkness a passive policy of enticement purposely engineered by OKC city government? Is the darkness being used as a low-maintenance bait for entrapment? If the city was really interested in reducing lewd behavior in public parks wouldn’t the lights be on throughout the night? Xghy weren’t al! those sensors operational? If street lights can come on automatically in residential neighborhoods to promote safety shouldn’t they also be effective in public areas where unwelcome behavior is tmown to occur? Shouldn’t those lights be turned on not only to discourage alleged lewd behavior, but also to lessen the threat of vandalism? There were about three or four cars within a stone’s throw of mine and as I was loading my trunk another car pulled in and an individual got out and walked away from the parking lot. I could see another person sitting in a car outlined by the flashing burglar alarm light on the dashboard, as if the occupant were a summer lightening bug signaling for a mate. I’m no fan of toilet trollers or lover’s lane Lotharios of either orientation. As a repressed minority in the USA and a target of brimstone-eating Bible bangers we gay people need to do better. When we TMsa’s OkEq Library Catalog now online! TULSA, OK( OkEq E-news) ~The Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library catalog can now be accessed online! Visit www.librarything. com/profile/OkEq to browse our collection, search by keyword, read reviews on Amazon, and more! About the library: Thousands ofLGBT tides and exquisite glass art line the walls of the Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library in the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Open during Equality Center hours (Monday through Saturday, 3pro to 9pro), the library has titles available for leisure reading, research, discussion groups, and as a resource for local students when writing on LGBT issues. Books are available for free check-out for the community. A mainstay of the Equality Center since its founding in t996, the Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library was named in their honor in the Spring of 1999. Nancy is Past National President of Parents, Families & Friends of Lesbians and Gays (PFLAG), President of PFLAG Tulsa, has testified before the US Congress on GLBT issues and was the inaugural recipient of the OkEq Lifetime Achievement Award. Photo by: Kevin Abosch TULSA, OK __ Direct fi’om New York Rachael Sage will return to the Bamboo Lounge Tulsa for an exclusive concert on November 10th, 9 pm. Ms. Sage made her first appearance at the Bamboo in 2005. East Village songstress, poet and multi-media maven Rachael Sage has been making gutsy pop music in one form or another since she was three years old. Her latest offering of "lovely and literate folk-pop-rock" (The Village Voice), THE BLISTERING SUN, is devoted to the topics of vision, clarit}; and facing life head on. A self-taught pianist who honed her skills listening to her parents’ doo-wop, Broadway and Beatles album collections, Rachael debuted her first original material for a captive audience of kindergarten students one fateful afternoon before their ballet teacher arrived and broke up the party. "When I started," she says, " t was writing a lot of music that sounded like Elton John - if he’d been a nice Jewish girl from a long line of Russian cantors." By junior high school, Sage’s dancing abilities had landed her a spot at the prestigious School ofAmerican Ballet; but it was really the music she was hearing in and out of class that intrigued her the most. W~.ozarksstar.COm the STAR 15 CHOCOLATE PEANUT BUTTER ICE CREAM PiE as we~ as bars. photo op. ~]~a~ goodness we get a |or of space on our digital ~mera disc! Colorado which was the MO~ °’Homophobic." State in the Union until very recently does not have a lot of gay accommodations but he~ is a list of fine most impotent ones arotmd the State. ElyrIas \g~stern Guest House at t655 E. 47th Avenue in Denver, v,xvw.irmtravels.com/ usatco/rdewgh.html Mountain Sage Lnn, 553 ~: Etl-&orn Ave., Estes Park, -,~w~,~v.mountainsageinn. coral Platte River Cabins, 16525 Pine Valley Rd., CoIfax Ave, Denver is a city ofwondedht restaurants all over the dr): Like Chicago, Denver has so many to choose from i~ all ~-pes ofmenus. Denver has lots of little communities within the city. The arts and museums are great as well as the shopping ~e other main city in the state is Colorado Springs which just has two bars,, Club Qat 3430 No, Academr Blvd. and the Underground at t !0 No. Ne;~ada,~ Ave, For a city tl{at so many religious nu s and conservatives it is a wonder that there are ant gay bars there at all. But Colorado Springs has a great Pride Fest every )mar a~ their downtown Ciw Park. 18 the STAR ww~.ozarksstar.com TRAV S day, October 14, 2007 Brady Heights abuts the Brady Arts District and ties on North Denver and North Cheyenne ~venues. The tour wilt start at !2 under twelve. Ti&ets will be available until 4pro the day of the event and the tour ends at 5pm! Advance tict~ets are ava[ilable at www.bradyheigrhts,org. ProCeeds will benefit community projects the Brady Heig~hts Neighborhood Association. patio bar, From crab ca~es, Me:dcan E~ Rolls, Quesadilla, Barbecue Pvibbies or Sout}xwestern Steak Salad you wilt find a fttl menu. ~lhey have been in business over 25 years. Check out their website at: the STAR t9 The Cowgirl restaurant is a papular andgay-fi’iendly spotfor barbecue, burgers, beer, and blues. (Photo by Andrew Cdlins) Fe, New Mexico Santa Fe sits at 7,000 feet above sea level, dinging to the lower slopes of the Sangre de Cristo Mountains and offering an enchanting blend of Rocky Mountain and high desert living. ~12ais scenic city is politically progressive, abundant with museums and galleries, renowned for its distinctive adobe architecture, overflowing with sophisticated inns and restaurants, and ideal for outdoors enthusiasts. You won’t find much in the way of gay nightlife, but if you’re planning a romantic vacation with your significant other, Santa Fe may just have everything else you’re seeking. Even better, if you’re starting to think about retirement options, northern New Mexico’s "City Different" may be worth scouting out as a potential future home. In November 2005, RainbowVision Properties opened a GLBT retirement community on the south side of town, billing itself the first such full-scale endeavor of its kind (the company has plans for additional communities in Palm Springs, the San Francisco suburbs, and Vancouver). ~he 13-acre compound geared toward the 50-and-over set is worth checking out even if you’re not thinking of buying here - it’s home to the Silver Starlight Lounge and Cabaret, which is open to the public and is Santa Fe’s only gay nightlife option. It’s actually quite popular with folks of all ages, especially for early evening cocktails. 20 the STAR One of the region’s greatest lures is the fantastic, sunny weather - Santa Fe and north-central New Mexico enjoy beautiful weather year-round. Summer tends to be the busiest time for a Santa Fe visit - this is opera season as well as a time when many prominent festivals and art markets take place. But a fall or winter visit yields fewer crowds, cool and crisp temperatures, and still plenty to see and do - plus rates tend to be lower at hotels, which are among the priciest in the Southwest. Many of the city’s attractions are right in the center of town. Here you can take a walk around the Plaza; check out the numerous shops and cafes; admire the city’s adobe-dad Pueblo Revival, Spanish Colonial, and Victorian buildings; or stop by the circa-1610 Palace of the Governors, a state history museum set inside the nation’s oldest public building. There are several museums nearby, dealing mostly with art (such as the Georgia O’Keeffe Museum, which has a terrific restaurant). If you’re a die-hard museum explorer, make the short drive (or bus ride) up the Old Santa Fe Trail to Museum Hill, a complex of outstanding cultural attractions, the highlight being the Museum of International Folk Art. The newer Museum of Spanish Colonial Art is another top draw. If you’d rather spend most of your time outside, saunter up Canyon Road, a narrow, winding lane of historic adobe bungalows containing some of the most prestigious art galleries in the Southwest. There’s spectacular hiking all around Santa Fe, but if you have time for just one ramble, head to Kasha-Katuwe Tent Rocks National Monument, which is about a 45-minute drive south of town, toward Albuquerque. This 2-mile, moderately steep hike passes through a narrow, dramatic box canyon and then rises up to a lofty promontory affording panoramic views of the mountains and mesas. The monument is named for the bizarre rock formations that rise high out of one end of the canyon and look a bit like sandstone tepees. If you’re visiting between December and April, bring your skis with you, or rent some in town. Ski Santa, which is about 15 miles northeast of downtown, offers 44 trails of rugged, beautifully groomed trails. If you have trouble believing New Mexico offers much in the way ofwinter sports, consider that the ski area receives an average of 240 inches of snox~all annually. This is a first-rate facility, albeit not quite as famous or as demanding as Taos Ski Valley, which is just a two-hour drive north. However you get your exercise, whether hiking, skiing, or strolling among art galleries, you’re sure to work up an appetite in these parts, especially given the city’s high altitude, which can tax your system if you’re not used to it. Fortunately, this is a city with no shortage of terrific restaurants. Serving some of the most authentic New Mexican fare in town, the Shed is an excellent choice. The setting inside a 1692 adobe is ideal for sampling such local favorites as green-chile stew with pork and potatoes, and red-chile enchiladas. Or drop by I1 Vicino, an inexpensive, gay-friendly pizza place serving delicious thin-crust pies topped with gourmet ingredients, microbrewed beers, and a cheerful courtyard. www.ozarksstar.com A favorite spot for brunch is the fabulous Care Pasqual’s, where you might sample buttermilk biscuits with sage-bacon graW, homemade sausage, and poached eggs. More sophisticated and substantial fare appears on the dinner menu - try the organic-chicken mole at dinner. You’ll find a couple of the city’s top restaurants along charming Canyon Road, including such high-end standouts as the Compound and Geronimo, as well as the popular tapas option, E1 Farol. Also specializing in smaller plates, downtown’s La Boca turns out such exemplary fare as Moroccan-grilled shrimp with sweet-pea-basil puree, and seared ahi tuna with Manchego-white-bean hash. If you’ve had your fill ofNew Mexican cuisine, head to the first-rate Kasasoba for exquisite Japanese food. And for casual, affordable, yet creative American chow, don’t miss these two gay favorites, the Cowgirl (great for barbecue, and with a big patio), or Harry’s Roadhouse a short drive south of the city - not terribly far from Silver Starlight Lounge. Harry’s is especially popular for its house-made ¯ desserts and potent margaritas. Santa Fe abounds with appealing accommodations, including a few gay-owned B&Bs and inns. One nice thing about B&Bs in northern New Mexico is that they typically comprise a small compound of casitas (adobe-style cottages) or a cluster of rooms with separate entrances, thereby affording plenty of privacy. Among the longestrunning and most enjoyable such properties is the lesbian-owned Triangle Inn, which comprises nine casitas and lies about 15 miles north of downtown. Units have lovely southwestern furnishings, VCRs, CD stereos, and kitchenettes, and many can sleep four. The Triangle draws mostly gay folks, whereas the other gay-owned B&Bs in Santa Fe cater to a mixed crowd. If you’re looking to stay in the heart of downtown, try E1 Farolito, a collection of airy casitas with fireplaces, striking Mexican and Southwestern furniture, and original art and photography. The Inn of the Turquoise Bear occupies the rambling Spanish-Pueblo Revival estate ofWitter Bynner, a gay poet and socialite of the 1920s and ’30s who threw lavish parties here that drew the likes ofWilla Cather, Errol Flynn, W.H. Auden, and Stephen Spender. It’s a warm and inviting inn surrounded by secret gardens and run by friendly hosts. Among mainstream, luxury accommodations, it’s hard to beat the over-the-top-luxurious Inn of the Five Graces, which is in the heart of the city center and consists of 22 opulently appointed casitas, all done with elaborate Latin American, Middle Eastern, and Asian antiques and decorative arts. Service here is arguably the best in town, and guests can also enjoy lunch at the cozy on-site cafe or dinner at the adjacent Pink Adobe, a famous old Santa Fe restaurant that the Five Graces management bought and refurbished in summer 2007. Another excellent upscale choice, the 57-room Inn of the Anasazi sits steps from the Plaza, its rooms outfitted with kiva fireplaces (common in Santa Fe, they’re shaped a bit like beehive ovens), handwoven fabrics, organic toiletries, and four-poster beds. An ambitious makeover in 2006 has given it a fresh look, and the hotel’s restaurant serves some of the most creative contemporary Southwestern fare in the state. Some additional downtown properties worth checking out include the upscale but well-priced Inn on the Alameda, with bright and airy rooms and a location handy for Canyon Road gallery-hopping; and the mid-priced Inn of the Governors, a rambling hotel two blocks from the Plaza. Many rooms here have wood-burning fireplaces. Whether you’re alone or with your honey, it’s always fun to end a day of hiking or skiing with a soak in one of the outdoor hot tubs at Ten Thousand Waves, a gay-popular Japanese-style spa in the foothills on the east side of town. It’s a memorable spot for star-gazing. For the ultimate away-from-it-all vacation, book an overnight stay in one ofTen Thousand Waves’ smartly appointed luxury casitas, and watch your stresses melt away. ~.ozarksstar.com Charting Our Future? Lesbian Notions, about social networking websitesfor queers. Maybe it’s my age - 50 is just around the corner (oy!). Maybe it’s because I’ve been in a relationship since I was 18 (mind you, that means serial monogamy with four different women). Maybe it’s because I spend a lot of time on the Web at work. Whatever the reason, I’ve not spent too much time on any social networking site - lesbian, gay, or straight. Well, a recent study shows I’m alone! According to a January 2007 Harris Interactive/ Witeck-Combs poll, gays, lesbians, and bisexuals use social networking sites more than straight people do. You can find us at MySpace 33 percent of the time we’re online, and at Facebook or Friendster 11 percent. But these aren’t sites just for us, and, as we all know, we like to go to places just for us, both in real time and in virtual worlds. At least four social networking sites specifically catering to the LGBT community launched this year - Glee, Olivia.com/connect, Socialbutter, and OurChart. Then there are these sites specifically for gay men (the names say it all) - Bigjock, Manjam, and Lovetastic. ~urselves. On OurChart, you can connect yourself via friendships and relationships ~o the wide world encompassing all these people and more." L Word executive producer Ilene Chaiken is OurChart’s CEO, and her partners in the ~enture are Jennifer Beals, who plays Bette, Kate Moennig, who plays Shane, and, not ~urprisingly, Leisha Hailey, who portrays the ~oncept s ong,nator, M~ce. ~Recendy, I had the chance to chat with Lisa ~Parrish, whose blog, "The Hookup," appears ~laily on the site. She explained how it all ~wor-ks. "! love it," said Parrish. "It’s really fun to be part of a community. I do my blog three times a day. The first thing i do after it goes live overnight is...check to see what people are saying.. Now for us dykes who watch The L Word, we know where OurChart.com comes from. In the show’s first season, the engaging, alt-radio DJ and sometimes over-the-top lover ofwhomever she’s with, Mice, started an online chart to track the "relationships" - from one-night stands to the U-Haul on the second dates - of herself and her circle of friends and acquaintances. Over the past four seasons, it has been an on-again/offagain plot line, exploding - or perhaps I should say crashing - in season four, because of the exploits of lesbian sexual predator Poppy. Anyway, some of the girls in front and in back of the camera at The L Word decided to bring the chart into our lives 24/7 by launching OurChart.com, a social networking site just for us. According to a description on the site, "us" includes "lesbians, dykes, queer girls, gay women, high femmes, butches, drag kings, bois, transwomen, and transmen - however we define 22 the STAR You sign up and create your own profile, and then your own chart by adding friends. The chart is, of course, digitally created with your photo at the center, which is then connected visually and virtually with photos of your friends. "I love it," said Parrish. "It’s really fun to be part of a community. I do my blog three times a day. The first thing I do after it goes live overnight is...check to see what people are saying...OurChart is a fun way of giving people a chance to meet each other, mingle, and talk about things they have in common." Parrish told me a heartwarming story about a woman in the States who wrote in to Our- Chart about her grandmother. It seems that Grandma lived in Germany, and the writer had lost touch. She asked if it was possible for anyone in the area to check up on her grandmother’s whereabouts. Someone did. It wasn’t a happy ending - Grandma had died several years before, but at least the woman had some closure. OurChart is also bringing some original Web-based programraing to a computer screen near you. It has recently launched a shiny called Girl Trash, which, according to Parrish, is a "lesbian pulp-fiction-style noir thriller." It is a series of short Web-isodes of an L.A. girl gang careening through the seedier side of the city. Not necessarily my cinematic - albeit on a very small screen - choice, but it is written and directed by veteran L Word and movie director Angela Robinson. She also brought us D.E.B.S. and Herbie: Fully Loaded. Like it or not, Girl Trash shows us what is so great about the Web - the ability to create, be seen and scrutinized, and create again. But getting back to OurChart’s chart, Parrish told me, "One of the key differences about OurChart is that it’s about friends, networking, colleagues...not about people who slept together." Damn! But don’t despair. Parrish explained they’re adding a feature called "Friends+" that can chart anything from a fling to being involved for 10 years to being lifelong partners. "It’s really important to point out that friends won’t be able to be added to "Friends+" without the individual’s permission," said Parrish. "You couldn’t say you slept with Leisha Halley without her permission." Does Mice ask permission? www.ozarksstar.com INDIGO GIRLS Continued Gate" and "Tether." Amy, when you’re playing solo with a tight back up band (3Five- Human came back out and did a great job rocking with the Girls) let it rip. But Amy, from one southern girl to another, hold off: on the tabasco when Emily is with you and pass that Girl a little honey. Okay, while I am at it, here’s another request: please use your position up there on stage to tell us something of your take on reality and world events. I know we can get on your website (wv~w.indigogirls.com) and read your notes and watch your podcasts and that is great. Few performers have as much interaction as that with their fans. But the live stage is a powerful medium in and of itself for communication and transforming the world. Now back to my original pondering. Do I demand too much of two brilliant musicians who seem to be conveying to their audience that they just want to sing their songs and play their music with no intellectual interaction with their audience or each other about any of it? I don’t know. I wanted to hear from them outside their lyrics, brilliant as they are. I wanted to hear the big picture of what is going on in the world as they see it. I mean, I can hardly afford to get off the farm once a year. I need to hear from someone who sees it all. What is their take on it all? \gho do they endorse for 2008? What do they want from us? What is the revolution of the next 10 years? Should transgendered women be allowed in at Michigan? Do their songs ever end up meaning more to them than they meant to say in the first place? Are they ever confused by their own lyrics? Is the Goddess channeling through them? Have we truly already been saved Emily? And finally, maybe every lesbian in Georgia knows the answer to this one but I am in the dark: were you two ever girlfriends? It doesn’t really matter on that last one. I know from their songs that they have a real love for each other and I know from the fact that I have every CD they ever recorded that I love them and that they will have my devotion forever. Sing on, play on, and know you are on your way to rock and roll Heaven and you take us there with you but please, Girls, as long as you’re live on stage and we are live in the audience, open up a little and talk to us about it all. We’re listening. Divas pack the for HOPE By Joey De TULSA, OK __ Nobody likes a diva, but for Tulsa based H.O.RE. testing clinic, there are several Divas that they can’t help but love. For the sixth year, several ofTulsa’s greatest performers, led by Queen Diva Rebecca Ungerman, came together to produce HOPE’s largest annual fundraiser "Divas Live." Held at the Tulsa Performing Arts Center, this year’s event shattered previous records. "In our budget, we have to raise around $80,000 that is not subsidized by grant funds. This year, ’Divas’ will conservatively be around $50,000 of that," says Kate Neary-Pounds, HOPE’s Executive Director (Exact totals for the evening were not available at the time of the interview). "These funds literally go to keep the doors open." Neary- Pounds explains that the event is critical because the organization does not receive funds from groups such as United \ray. "In 2006 the Department of Health had a massive funding cut and programs such as our quick tests and 24 hour STD hotline were in jeopardy. Fortunately, we received a grant from the George Kaiser Family Foundation to keep the hotline open, but the funds from the show go to help pay for everything else," Neary-Pounds explains. Ungerman, who has been involved with the show for several years is ovetwhelmed by the public’s response and embracement of the event. "We have had to turn people away at the door the last two years. It’s great. I remember the first year we did it and we were excited that we raised $1,200 and could buy desks," Ungerman explains. A large contributor to the evening’s success has been the healthy growth of the auctions. "We grossed $25,000 from our auctions. A large part of that is the addition ofJay Litchfield to the formula. We’re very lucky to have him on board." Ungerman says that they are looking at ways to expand the event, but not sure what form it will take. "The PAC has been wonderful to us all these years, but have to look at how we are going to change and grow. We don’t have a clue what those changes are going to look like yet, but this is a year round planning process." If you xvoald like more information about HOPE’s services or to make a contribution, visit their xvebsite at www.hopetesting. org or ca~ 749-TEST. HRC Coming Out Kits NOW-AVAILABLE for National Coming Out Day 2007. Get ready to "Talk About It" on October 11, NCOD! The theme for National Coming Out Day 2007 will be Talk About It, continuing the slogan and branding that the national program has been building since 2005. National Coming Out Day is a time to celebrate openness and honesty whether you came out 20 minutes ago, or 20 years ago this is a time for all Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, Transgender and Straight supportive people to Talk About It with friends, family and coworkers. Coming Out Day Kits include: Resource Guides to Coming Out Straight Guides to GLBT Americans Transgender Coming Out Guides Poster, Balloons and HRC Stickers And everything else you’ll need to celebrate living openly! To order your kit, please visit: www.hrc.org/comingoutkits This year will also mark an important hallmark as National Coming Out Day, falls on the 20th anniversary of the 1987 Gay and Lesbian March on Washington, and the unfurling of the MDS Quilt on the National Mall. The very first National Coming Out Day was celebrated a year to the day later as a way of continuing the spirit of openness, honesty and visibility that the March and the MDS Quilt presentation inspired. www,ozarksstar.com The STAR 23 ~here will not be a lot of thinking involved in today’s health and fitness column. I have been advised by my colleague Jebediah to make this an easy and happy "thing" to read. He also wants to help you look forward to your hard exercising routines. Jebedial~ is a first grader at Grover Cleveland Elementary and he came ui~ with the theme for this week’s fitness incentive. Jebby, as he is called by his contemporaries, wants you to grab a pen and paper and write a positive or happy word each time you finish a workout or exercise routine. Keep it in a place you can see every day. He thinks that people will be excited about working out if they know there will be a compilation of fun and happy words they can look at after the hard work. I like the concept and I have been given permission to use it. The Rocky Road Baskin Robbins double scoop cone consulting fee was well worth the advice from Jebby. Here are some of my recent happy thoughts Peter Pan .... HAPPY SMILING GOOD WELL REFR£SHED FANTASTIC YES SUNSHINE AWESOME COOL 26 the STAR WOW EXCELLENT FINE THANKS NICE GLOWING BRILLIANT SUPER SMASHING PRETTY BRIGHT GORGEOUS BEAMING HANDSOME BEAUTIFUL FIT DELICIOUS REJUVENATED GREAT ALIVE JOY PEACEFUL SERENE I am already looking forward to tomorrow’s happy consonant and vowel combination. It is the little things in life that can help us all get by and can help you with your health and fitness regimens. Keep it simple Simon.....or rather Jebby! This bit of health and fitness advice brought to you by the guy who has been kid-tested and mother approved. That guy is Ron Blake and he can be unearthed at www. goblakefitness.com. VERY WELL. 2. LET AND MINUTE. 4. STRMN IN 2 CHILLED MARTINI GLASSES. 5. TOP WITH ATEASPOON OF WHIPPED CREAM AND CINNAMON STICK. 6. CUDDLE UP "WITH SO,LEONE SPECIAL AND EN|OY. HAPPY HALLOWE wwa,.ozarksstar.com ANGLES OKC Continued As times changed and business declined, the club began operating only on weekends, and later opened monthly for special events. After being on the market for several months, the dub was sold to Nick Post, owner of the bars of the Habana Inn ( Copa, Finishline Ledo & Gushers Restaurant). Preceding the sale was a farewell party August 25 followed by a tea dance the next day for partiers who had made Angles what it was, before the club passed into a new destiny. Interview xgrith The New Owner ofAngles, Nick Post. Victor: Well, finally now is it is done deal right? Post: It’s a done deal. We had inspections, licenses, which had all cleared by September 1. Victor: You now own Angles, the building, the business & the name? Post: Yes, and the website too, and the phone number is the same. Victor: What spurred your interest in wanting acquire Angles? Nick: Well two months ago I’d have probably said I didn’t have any interest in acquiring it. It just happened all of the sudden, when a customer had heard Scott (Wilson) was interested in selling Angles and I ought to check into it. I met with him, made a dea!, signed a contact, and the deal closed. Victor: Business had been slow at Angles for a long time before it closed. How do you feel you can avoid the problems they had, to build the business back up? Nick: In the beginning we’re probably only going to be open on Fridays and Saturdays. I want Angles to find its own niche, I’m not looking for Angles to take business from the Copa or the Finishline. I want it so people can walk back and forth, not have to stand in line. Angles will be different than the Copa, but we’re not yet sure what that will be. By the first of the year we hope we’l! know ~vhat niche it should have. Copa will continue to have shows, it’s set up to be a showbar, although Angles may handle large pageants or special events. wvwv.ozarksstar.com Victor: So when wil! Angles have their grand re-opening? Nick: We’re not certain yet, but it will be before Halloween. Victor: You’ve been in the bar business quite a while. When did you first acquire the Copa, along with the Finishline, Ledo and Gushers Restaurant? Nick: It was October of 2007 when I bought them from Lee Burrus. They were already successful, but I think their continued success is largely due to the tremendous staff we have. We have over 40 people working hard here, changing things, bringing in new ideas, keep it different all the time. I think that’s the biggest factor in our success. Victor: Out of sheer curiosity, what did you do before you wound up in the bar business? Nick: I was in real estate from the time I was 19 years old. I started working with Abide, and when Truman Miller sold Abide I went ,vith him into commercial development. I then did mergers and acquisitions with Charles Bazzzarian. When he went to prison I was out of a job, so Lee Burrus offered me one here. Although we thought it would be temporary, I worked for Lee for 6 years. I had never been in the bar business, or ever thought I would be. Victor: That’s quite a change. How did you adapt? That is about as much like an apple and an orange as you can get. Nick: I think it’s easier to go from a conventional job to the bar business than it would be the other xvay around. I started in the office, started managing on Mondays, later on weekends, and it ~vent from there. Victor: Do you anticipate much straight patronage? Nick: Straight people have always been welcome in my bars if they act right. Our goal is to let people know that they are welcome, but in our gays clubs they are on our turfi Victor: How have you handled the many rumors about the change? Nick: Well there have been many, but one rumor we can put to rest is that the purchase ofAngles has nothing to do with my other bars or the Habana Inn. I still have many years left on my lease at the Habana, and the Seikels (Habana’s owners) have no interest in selling the hotel. The only change will be that people can walk back and forth and enjoy both places. I’m truly excited about what we can offer with the Habana and the 39tb Street Strip, and I think Scott and Donny set the standards for the clubs on the Strip, and I’m proud to be there. I also recognize that they helped make possible what we have now, when I actually had a call from a captain of the police department for this area, asking if there had been any trouble from police officers, were they professional cordial, etc. I was glad to be able to tell them that they do act correctly, and they know we run good clubs here. Victor: Well we wish you success in carrying on what the Pmgles has always been, and will mean in the future. Creating Community for People living with HW/A DS A 501 c (3) Non Profit Organization Our House, Too offers a vadety of activities for people who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS to help combat the social isolation that many of our people live through each and everyday. We provide a Toiletry and Household Pantry for those who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS who cannot afford to purchase these items for themselves. We invite anyone who would like to volunteer or provide financial assistance to please contact us by phone 918-585-9552 or e-mail hardsmmjr@yahoo.com. the STAR 27 Even sweetness and light can be excessive. With the Sun and Venus in a long, difficult aspect - and in each other’s signs - overdoing the good stuff comes way too easily and can leave us feeling sunburned and saccharine. ARIES (~,~arch 2(} -Apri~ 19): Does your partner want to take the lead or to follow? Baby does want to play, but may be a pushy bottom. (There’s another kind?) Be very clear about who’s really running the show, especially if it’s not stated. TAURUS (Apri~ 20 - ~aay 20): Be very careful of your diet, especially your sugar intake. If there’s any diabetes in your family, get yourself checked out. Resist the urge to decorate, or look at what’s behind it. Is it a distraction from more figurative "housecleaning"? GEM~Ni (~lay 21 - Jmle 29): Write, paint, compose your heart out. It’s all dreck, even if your friends tell you it’s fabulous. They’re just being nice. Later on, when your critical faculties return, something good could come out of all the fertilizer you’re excreting now. CANCER (June 2t - Ju~y 22): Sure, you want your home to be utterly gorgeous. Risking the rent or mortgage by spending a wad on decoration is a bit counterproductive. Get creative with what you have, or raise money selling off old clutter. LEO (Ju~y 23 - August 22): You could easily be too charming, tempting others to doubt your sincerity. Just be your natural, sweet self. That’s already a lot for many people to handle! Cultivate modesty, and remember: The flower charms the bee without effort. WRGO (August 23 - September 22): Being helpful with your insight and suggestions seems a charming idea to you, but others may find it meddlesome. Ask if you can offer help before you actually do. Better yet, put yourself in their shoes, and invite critical support. LIBRA (September 23 - October 22}: Your political talents are already working overtime for you. It would be much too easy to overplay your hand. Sit back, pay attention, and move lightly. Before you offer anything, let them want it! SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): Your instincts are better than good for making connections with superiors at work or getting on the right side of any authority figure. In fact, you may be a bit overenthusiastic and pushy. Where’s that discreet, subtle Scorpion we love so well? 28 the STAR SAGITTARIUS/November 22 - December 20}: Your friends know how outspoken you are, and how you love to argue - excuse me - "exchange new ideas." Your current enthusiasm will charm some people and scare others off. You may want to be careful about whom you push into either category. CAPRICORN (December 21 - January t9): You are now exuding pure sexuality. Horny, jaded, or anywhere in between, you are radiating sex. At work, that can cause trouble. Do your best to sublimate that energy and/or enjoy it in the appropriate time and place. AQUARIUS (January 29 - February !8}: You want adventure, but not solo. You and your partner want different things, but are too eager to appease each other, and that satisfies nobody. Find a common ground where you can both be a little selfish and have a great time. P~SCES (February 19 - ~aarch 19): You don’t need to show off or work on your erotic expertise - but why pass up the fun? Finding eager partners is not a problem. Limiting yourself to an appropriate partner may be! METROPOLITAN COMMUNITY CHURCHES Rev Steve T. 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Before this issue was Ozarks Pride (2004) and The Ozark Star (2004). Follows is The Metro Star (2008). This magazine discusses topics of AIDs, education, politics, local and national civil rights of the LGBT community, and advice for relationships and places to visit. This collection is PDF searchable. Physical copies are also available to be seen at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center with permission. Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Star Media, Ltd Publisher An entity responsible for making the resource available Star Media, Ltd Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource Charles (Chaz) Ward Victor Gorin Greg Steele Jeanne Flanigan Paul Wortman James Nimmo Joey D. 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For the 2006 Mid-Term Hection 81.7% combined Gay and Lesbian readers voted. HRC and NGLTF comment on the history making GLBT Forum August 9th on LOGO TV. Finley, a heterosexual woman and the best known of the four, was renowned for smearing chocolate on her naked body to represent the degrad.ation of women. The Chardonnay grape variety is a classic white wine grape grown all around the world. The original fame of Chardonnay comes from its success in the region of France. Gay Travelers: USA Gay Landmarks Out of Town: Russian River, CA Dining In or OUT L.ESB~AN NOTIONS GLBT Forum revue: I have to hand it to Mike Gravel though. He referred to "the gays" twice, but used the word "gay" 10 times! F~TNESS Introspection can lead you to better understand yourself and ultimately to achieve greater happiness. STAR DISTRIBUTION: ON THE COVER: GLBT Forum Participants 4 the STAR OKLAHOMA CITY * TULSA* LAWTON * MCALESTER * ENID * LITTLE ROCK * NORTH LITTLE RODK * FAYETTEVILLE * FT SMITH * EUREKA SPRINGS * HOT SPRINGS * BENTONVILLE * ROGERS * KANSAS CITY * SPRINGFIELD * JOPLIN * BRANSON AREA* WICHITA * PITTSBURG * JUNCTION CITY www.ozarksstar.corn �Ne t E ecdon could be decided by Gays and Lesbians San Francisco-based Community Marketing Inc. conducted a nationwide survey earlier this year that the STAR and you, our readers took part. The study found an astounding 92% of gay male respondents (92.5%) reported that they voted in the 2004 presidential election with nearly 84% (83.8%) reporting that they voted in the mid-term election in 2006. Results for lesbians were similar with nearly 91% (90.7%) of lesbian respondents reporting that they voted in the 2004 presidentia! election and 78% reporting that they voted in the mid-term election in 2006. In comparison, media reports estimate that 64% of the general population voted in the 2004 presidential election and just 40% of the general population voted in the 2006 mid-term election. Results of the STAR survey, readers were slightly lower with 88.6% of combined Gays and Lesbians voting in the 2004 Presidential Election. For the 2006 MidTerm Election 81.7% combined Gay and Lesbian readers voted. In comparison to the general population that is still an impressive difference for GLBT Oklahomans and the region. Among the results from the STAR survey we found interesting was on the question, "Importance of Gay Marriage" only 30% of our readers thought it was the most important issue. While 57.6% settled for Domestic Partnership and/or_civil union recognition. 12.3% felt there were more important GLBT issues. In the STAR "Commentary" this issue, James Nimmo addresses the question of " How We Should Address the Gay and Lesbian Community" This is what our survey found on the same question. 38.6% said "Gay & Lesbian", 35% said "GLBT", 19.9% "LGBT", 17% "Gay Men or Worneft’ and 12.3% suggested "Alternative". I thank our readers for the great response we had for the STAR in this very important survey of our community. We will be publishing more results in coming issues. Sincerely, Charles (Chaz) Ward www.ozarksstar.com New National Survey Shows Gays and Lesbians Outpace U.S. Average in Voting Participation Respondents: Homosexuality I4/71l Still Be a Divisive Issue in Ten Yeats SAN FRANCISCO, CA A new national survey reveals that gay and lesbian consumers are far more likely to have voted in the last presidential and midterm elections than the population in general. Significant numbers of both gay men and lesbians also donated to a political party in the past year. The survey also found that despite significant social and political progress over the past decade, majorities of both gays and lesbians believe homosexuality will remain a "divisive" issue in ten years. The survey results are included in the Gay Consumer IndexTM and Lesbian Consumer IndexTM, precedent-setting national surveys of more than 12,000 gay Americans and 10,000 lesbian Americans conducted by Community Marketing Inc. in spring 2007 and set to be released later this month. "The results of the Gay Consumer Index and Lesbian Consumer Index demonstrate that the political parties would be smart to pay attention to the issues that mean the most to gay and lesbian voters," declared Tom Roth, president of Community Marketing Inc. "We have far more at stake than the average voter and we’re therefore far more engaged in the political process." Slighdy more than 31 percent of lesbian respondents (31.1%) reported that they made a financial contribution to a political party in the past twelve months. Forty percent (40.1%) of gay male respondents reported that they made a financial contribution m a politica! party in the past twelve months. And finally, large majorities of gay male and lesbian respondents agreed with the statement that "homosexuality will still be a divisive issue in the USA in 10 years." A new national survey reveals that gay and lesbian consumers are far more likely to have voted in the last presidential and midterm elections than the population in general. Significant numbers of both gay men and lesbians also donated to a political party in the past year. The survey also found that despite significant social and political progress over the past decade, majorities of both gays and lesbians believe homosexuality will remain a "divisive" issue in ten years. The survey results are included in the Gay Consumer IndexTM and Lesbian Consumer IndexTM, precedent-setting national surveys of more than 12,000 gay Americans and 10,000 lesbian Americans conducted by Community Marketing Inc. in spring 2007 and set to be released later this month. "The results of the Gay Consumer Index and Lesbian Consumer Index studies demonstrate that the political parties would be smart to pay attention to the issues that mean the most to gay and lesbian voters," declared Tom Roth, president of Community Marketing Inc. "We have far more at stake than the average voter and we’re therefore far more engaged in the political process." More than 92% of gay male respondents (92.5%) reported that they voted in the 2004 presidential election with nearly 84% (83.8%) reporting that they voted in the mid-term election in 2006. Results for lesbians were similar with nearly 91% (90.7%) of lesbian respondents reporting that they voted in the 2004 presidential election and 78% reporting that they voted in the midterm election in 2006. In comparison, media reports estimate that 64% of the general population voted in the 2004 presidential election and just 40% of the general population voted in the 2006 mid-term election. Slightly more than 31 percent of lesbian respondents (31.1%) reported that they made a financial contribution to a political party in the past twelve months. Forty percent (40.1%) of gay male respondents reported that they made a financial contribution to a political party in the past twelve months. And finally, large majorities of gay male and lesbian respondents agreed with the statement that "homosexuality will still be a divisive issue in the USA in 10 years." Community Marketing, Inc., founded in 1992, is the global leader in gay and lesbian market research, strategies and communications. More info: www. CommunityMarketinglnc.com Rivendell Media, Inc., America’s leading gay and lesbian media placement firm, co produced the Gay TM Consumer Index" and Lesbian Consumer Index studies, which were sponsored, in part, by Absolut. More info: www.RivendellMedia.co m the STAR 5 �I before E excep after C. L be£ore G excep Be£ore B ? How Equallity by Jim Nimmo OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__ A few days ago I was in an email exchange with some gay guys and the thread was about the spelling of our orientational moniker/acronym commonly used as a short hand to describe us in the media. Is it LGBT or GLBT? And there’s even LGBTQi which resembles a row on the computer keyboard. There was even the suggestion of SOGI (sexual orientation and gender identity) but say it out loud and it sounds like an adjective some of us could use to name the after effects of sexual exertion rather than sexual orientation. This year our 2007 Oklahoma City Parade was prefixed with GLBTI, which again, said out loud, sounds like a word for insincerity. Why should any particular letter come before the other? With my tongue, GLBT comes out easier than LGBT with a more defined rhythm, but I’m just referring to ease of speech; being a musician I’m attuned to that anyway. We often hear the phrase "men and women" but we also hear "ladies and gentlemen." Why do we say "salt and pepper" and not the other way round? Knife and fork, birds and bees, paper and pencil? for their own gender-emotionally, romantically, and erotically--are referred to as gay, period. A~ I going to get hate mail from the women because I would drop the "lesbian" term? I could just as easily expand my dream world and drop the "gay" word altogether and let people have their sexual expression without hang-ups about words and the straight-world permission or opprobrium these red-flag words convey. This is what ,ve had, etymologically, before the prudo-pseudo-scientific "advances" of the Victorian era, when the word "homosexual" was invented. Before that time sex between men was plain sodomy, sex between women was just affection. Even farther back in some societies, sex between older and younger men was the transmission of the spirit and continuation of the life force which enabled young men to become leaders and progenitors in their tribes. The female will ALWAYS be superior anyway. It’s possible for them to conceive by parthenogenesis--no male required! But of course, the gay orientation is not about sexual reproduction as our enemies and two State Supreme Court decisions from 2006 would have us believe. Gayness is about having the right to privacy to exercise our affectional and emotional bonds as we like with consenting adults. Gayness is about having the same rights as any other man or woman who has chosen opposite-gender marriage or co-habitation, with or without progeny. Unless we exert with growing force our birth-right entitlement to equality, we’re going to be seen by our enemies as insincere. I would like to spell my orientation like this: AMERICAN. Well, I think our equality movement IS about exertion and certainly NOT about insincerity. And why should we develop these sensitivities about spellings and acronyms? In my dream world (not to be confused with my fantasy world) people with a yen 6 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com �w~ev.ozarksstar.com the STAR 7 �GINGER ~MAR Recognized by Keller Williams For outstanding achievement 2005 and 2006 and Stephanie DeBarse l~A LTY Matthew Heath-Fitzgerald Chuck Breckenridge 918-706-1887 REALTOI~ Susan Leah Whether buying or selling I’ll work hardforyou. "At Century 21 Gold Castle our BEST properties are our PEOPLE’ 4301 NW 63rd, Suite 100 Oklahoma City, OK 73116 405.840.2106 www.c21goldcastle.com Let us promote your business in a UNIQUE & DIVERSE market. Cal~ STAR ADVlERT~S~NG today. 8)835o7887 8 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com �OKLAI OMAN W’INNER OF THE LIFETIME COMMITMENT AWARD FROM THE NATIONAL STONEW-ALL DEMOCRATS "Gay People Aren’t Broken, and They Don’t Need Fixing" he came out to us at the age of 36. Today he is an attorney in Washington D,C., and we have attended functions together of the Stonewall Democrats, but at the time we had no idea. He’d had an outstanding background. In high school he had been Student Body President & an Eagle Scout, and later served in the air force as a flight instructor before becoming an attorney. Although it was a surprise, we told him it didn’t bother us. We also adopted a young gay man, Eli Moque Grayson, who is now living in California and is an interior designer. He’s worked on some distinguished homes including the late Bob Hope. VICTOR: The Mary Lou Lemon Humanitarian Award, given by the Oklahoma Stonewall Democrats, is named after your late wife. Obviously she was a great friend and inspiration. How long were you married? BOB’. 52 years and 2 days. We had met at a high school get together on Lake Fryor near Perry ton. She was a beautiful, blonde blue eyed woman, and I had lots of competitors. We got married when we were both in college, I attended Oklahoma A&M ( now OSU) and she was at Panhandle State University in Goodwell, Oklahoma.. We had a wonderful life, raised wonderful children, and she was a champion for equality for everyone. VICTOR: You later had gotten involved with P-Flag? Photo: Bob Lemon wit/~ daughter Robyn Lemon Sellers This year’s winner was Oklahoma’s own Bob Lemon, a longtime friend of the GLBT community and overal! champion for progressive causes. No stranger to honors, this year he also received the Irene Tyson Award from the Oklahoma Gay and Lesbian Political Caucus. He’s the proud dad of 5 grown children (Del, Jim, Robyn, Chrys & Hi Moque). The contributions and support he has given the GLBT community are truly too numerous to list here, but now he shares some of his reflections about what it means to him as well BOB: Yes, we had gotten involved and been to their national meetings. When I was on the board of the Christian Church Disciples of Christ in Perryton, which I thought was a liberal church, I had made a motion to allow P-Flag to meet at our church, as did many others groups. That motion got a few minutes of discussion before it was voted down, 35-1, and I was the dissenting vote. Our efforts to change their attitudes were unsuccessful. Soon after that we left that church." VICTOR: You joined Mayflower UCC when you moved to Oklahoma City in 2000. BOB: We attended a few times and fell in love with it, beginning when we read their" open and affirming" statement. Not all churches then were so accepting. as us. INTERVIEW By Victor Gorin VICTOR: You are a longtime champion of equality for the GLBT community. What got you started on that path? VICTOR: What is hardest for older people to give up their prejudices? ........................ Continued page-23 BOB: My first real awareness of this issue happened when we were at a convention of the Christian Church (Disciples of Christ) in Kansas City during 1977. Mary Lou and I learned of a minister who was forced to resign from his church because his son was gay. We were living in Perryton Texas then, and very loyal to our church and our denomination. In 1979 at another convention in St. Louis, Mary Lou and I attended a workshop on homosexuality. It was headed by a medical doctor from Oklahoma University who maintained that gayness was not a choice, that they were "naturally that way." Throughout the years we read a great deal about gay history and equality. VICTOR: Later on it touched your own family. BOB: Our interest really peaked when 1993 when Mary Lou and I learned, to our complete surprise, that our son Chris was gay when ~wvw.ozarksstar.corn the STAR 9 �Uo So Court o£Appeals Upholds Decision Striking Down Oklahoma’s Adop, on InvM dat on Law in Lawsuit Brought by L bda LegM ’The Adoption Invalidation Law was reckless legislation that jeopardized the safety and well being of children and undermined parents’ rights.’ DENVER, CO__ August 3, 2007 -- In a 35-page decision, a panel of the U. S. Court of Appeals for the 10th Circuit rejected the Oklahoma Department of Health’s challenge to a lower court decision striking down an Oklahoma law so.extreme that it threatened to make children adopted by same-sex couples in other states legal orphans when the families are in Oklahoma. The ruling is important not only in Oklahoma, but also to families across the United States, including in Seattle and Houston, home to two of the families who joined in the suit. "Today’s decision supports the lower court’s finding that same-sex couples who choose to adopt are entitled under the U.S. Constitution to have their relationships with their children respected in every state," said Ken Upton, Senior StaffAttorney in Lambda Legal’s South Central Regional Office and lead attorney on the case. "N~e Adoption Invalidation Law was reckless legislation that jeopardized the safety and well-being of children and undermined parents’ rights." Although the governor and attorney general were content to abide by the lower court’s finding, the Oklahoma Commissioner of Health sought review of a part of the judgment that required the Department of Health to issue an amended birth certificate to the adopted child of a same-sex couple that accurately reflected both women as the child’s legal parents. The Court rejected the challenge and affirmed the judgment requiring issuance of a proper birth certificate. In doing so, the 10th Circuit panel also agreed with Lambda Legal that the law violated the Full Faith and Credit Clause of the U.S. Constitution. 10 the STAR In the opinion released today, U. S. Senior Circuit Judge David M. Ebel wrote, "final adoption orders by a state court of competent jurisdiction are judgments that must be given full faith and credit under the Constitution by every other state in the nation. Because the Oklahoma statute at issue categorically rejects a class of out-of-state adoption decrees, it violates the Full Faith and Credit Clause." The Adoption Invalidation Law, hastily passed at the end of the 2004 Oklahoma legislative session, had said that Oklahoma "shall not recognize an adoption by more than one individual of the same sex from any other state or foreign jurisdiction." Lambda Legal argued that the law was unconstitutional based on the United States Constitution’s guarantees of equal protection and due process, as ~vell as the mandates of the Full Faith and Credit Clause. Today’s decision leaves intact a decision by the U.S. Court for the Western District of Oklahoma that agreed with these challenges and held that the statute indeed violates the United States Constitution by singling out a specific group. Neither the governor nor the attorney general of Oklahoma challenged the trial court’s decision that struck down the antigay Adoption Invalidation Law. The appellate court’s decision also requires the Oklahoma Department of Health to issue a birth certificate to the daughter of a samesex couple in Oklahoma accurately listing the names of both parents. In addition to same-sex couples raising children in Oklahoma, the ruling benefits samesex couples and their families in other states, including two of the couples who brought suit, Heather Finstuen and Anne Magro, now living in Houston, and Ed Swaya and Greg Hampel of Seattle, by ensuring they can travel in Oklahoma without fear their children will be rendered legal orphans. Ken Upton, Senior StaffAttorney in Lambda Legal’s South Central Regional Office in Dallas, is lead attorney on the case, with assistance from Senior StaffAttorney Brian Chase. Sandy Ingraham of Ingraham & Associates, EL.L.C. in McLoud, Oklahoma, served as cooperating attorney in Finstuen et al v. Edmondson et al. Tulsa GLBT leader addresses new AIDS/ Americorp volunteers By Joey De To most people, leaving town only a week after starting a new job would be a nightmare. To Oklahomans for Equality’s new Interim Executive Director Justice Waidner, it was an opportunity to give back to a program that she feels changed her life and began a life career in service. Waidner, who assumed her new role at OKEq on Aug. 1, addressed the latest teams of National Aids Fund/Americorp members just a few days later in Washington, DC on Aug. 11. The teams, who traveled from seven cities around the nation, including Tulsa, were undergoing their annual "preservice" training before beginning their year of HIV/AIDS related service. A two-term alumnus of the Americorp program, Waidner took the opporttlnity to share with the group the gravity of the realities they will face, as well as the humanity of service. "The opportunity to serve our communities in this fashion through educating people about this insidious disease and supporting those living with it truly is an awesome life changing gift," said Waidner. Using her personal stories about engaging drifter youths, befriending an HIV-positire eight year old and having to give her first positive test result, \Vgaidner spoke deeply and personally to the group to prepare them for the year ahead. "You will educate, fight inequality, challenge stigma, support, rise up, be present, and stand on the side of social justice. You will be changed and make change," she emphasized. W’aidner was later asked to administer the Americorp Oath of Service to the group, officially marking the end of their training and the beginning of their one year service commitment. "You are my version of gels in America,’" she remarked just shortly before. For information about the National AIDS fund or the Americorp program visit www.aidsfund.org. www.ozarksstar.com �STATEMENT FROM HUMAN GHTS CAMPAIGN ON DEMOCRATIC P SIDENTIAL FORUM WASHINGTON, DC __ On August 9, 2007, the Democratic presidential candidates took part in a national forum on issues facing gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender Americans, sponsored jointly by the Human Rights Campaign Foundation and Logo. The following is a statement by Human Rights Campaign President Joe Solmonese on the event: "This was an important night in the fight for equality for GLBT Americans. We pulled the curtain back a bit and gave all Americans a deeper look inside the candidates’ core beliefs about the issues that affect our community. From repealing ’Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell,’ supporting equal employment rights, providing full funding for the HIV/AIDS epidemic, to eliminating the Defense of Marriage Act, these candidates went on record and committed to fighting for equality in all sectors of our society. Unfortunately, we have more work to do. The overwhelming majority of the candidates do not support marriage equality. While we heard very strong commitments to civil unions and equality in federa! rights and benefits, their reasons for opposing equality in civil marriage tonight became even less clear. Over the course of the presidential campaign, we will continue to ask these questions and demand real answers from the candidates who appeared -- and from those who didn’t show up. The next president must be committed to not only doing what’s achievable, but also what’s right." The Human Rights Campaign is America’s largest civil rights organization working to achieve gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender equality. By inspiring and engaging all Americans, HRC strives to end discrimination against GLBT citizens and realize a nation that achieves fundamental fairness and equality for all. Great, now say it on the stump. "Slll good and some great, but now we need all the candidates --particularly the f~ontrunners -- to take a standfor us on the stump, in j~ont ofall audiwaces. " Matt Foreman, Executive Director, National Gay and Lesbian Task Force, Inc. WASHINGTON, DC__ The 2008 Democratic presidential candidates, except for Sens. Joe Biden and Christopher Dodd, addressed lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender issues at a forum aired Augkust 9th on the Logo cable channel. Statement by Matt Foreman, Executive Director National Gay and Lesbian Task Force, Inc. discrimination and hate violence, repealing ’Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell,’ and rights for our families. In 2004, at a similar forum also organized by our friends at the Human Rights Campaign, Democratic presidential candidates said the same thing. ’Tkll good and some great, but now we need all the candidates, particularly the frontrunners, to take a stand for us on the stump, in front of all audiences. The Republican side hasn’t given up using gay people for political gain and most of the Republican candidates bash us everpvhere they go. But so far, the Democratic frontrunners rarely talk about us except at our events, such as tonight, or when asked a specific question, and even then, they tend to freeze up. "That’s got to stop. We challenge the Democratic frontrunners to step from behind the lavender curtain and consistently, unapologetically speak for our fundamental humanity everywhere they go. "On behalf of our national community, we want to thank Joe Solmonese, Melissa Etheridge, Jonathan Capehart and Margaret Carlson for pressing the candidates on key issues, including marriage equality." McPride Family Picnic in Chadick Park, McAl[ester -Saturday, September 22nd, 11 a.m.- 5 p.m. MCALESTER, OK(PR)__McPride is hosting the Third Annual Family Picnic, Saturday, September 22nd at Chadick Park, McMester, OK (6th and Delaware), from 11 a.m. until 5p.m. for gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender, allied (GLBTA) and interested people. The picnic wil! feature speakers, singers, games, booths of information and fun for all people - gay and straight alike. Come out for an afternoon of fun and heart warming experiences. (Alcoholic beverages are NOT allowed in Chadick Park.) Living up to our mission, we believe it is important to create an opportunity for GLBTA people to be visible and to share our pride in who we are, express the love and acceptance of our families, create an opportunity to meet and get to know us. You have an opportunity to be involved on many levels in this great event. Plan to attend, be a sponsoring organization/church, a supporter, an entertainer, or a volunteer. Help make this picnic a bigger success than last year’s! Table space is available for pro-GLBTA groups who would like to display and/or sell resources at the picnic. Space must be reserved in advance. Contact Paul at 918-329-7820 or www.mcpride.org more information. "It’s great that tonight the 2008 Democratic candidates reiterated their support for many issues critical to lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender Americans, like long-stalled protections from www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 11 �WHERE THE DE OC TBC CANDidATES STAN An analysis of the candidates’ questionnaires on issues of concern to the GLBT community Federal Recognition of State-Level Same-Sex Unions 1 Supports recognition by the federal government of a state’s legal recognition of same-sex couples for purposes of fe.deral benefits and tax treatment HUMA~q RIGHTS CAMPAIGN~ 4- ENDA Supports passage of a federal bill prohibiting job discrimination based on sexual orientation and gender identity Hate Crimes Supports passage of a federal bill that gives authority to the federal government to investigate and prosecute violent crimes motivated by bias against the victim because of their sexual orientation, gender, gender identity or disability Same-Sex IVlarriage Supports allowing civil marriage rights for same-sex couples Civil Unions Supports civil unions for same-sex couples Federal Benefits for Same-Sex Couples Supports extending federal benefits, rights, privileges and responsibilities to same-sex couples and their children provided the partnership meets certain federal standards of commitment and mutuality of interest Coverage Under the FIVILA Supports expansion of the Family and Medical Leave Act to cover domestic partners and their children Access to Survivor Benefits Supports paying survivor benefits to the same-sex partners of gay and lesbian people 2 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com �+ ÷ ÷ ÷ ÷ ÷ + ÷ + union b~¢~n c~-~e m~ a~qd eaa woma~ ~ husb~.nd a~d ~e~ and the word !s~ase referson~to~a~~esex~,~ !s:a~sbar’,d ~a www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 13 �August 1990 (17 years ago last month): The National Endowment for the Arts rejects an appeal from four artists who 10st funding due to the controversial content of their work. Who were the NEA Four? he "NEA Four" - a gay man, a bisexual man, a lesbian, and a heterosexual feminist - played a prominent role in the culture wars of the late 1980s and early 1990s, when they challenged the withdrawal of their funding from the National Endowment for the Arts and a decency clause imposed on grant recipients. Founded in 1965, the NEA was mandated to consider cultural diversity in its funding decisions. But by the mid-1980s, public support for the arts was threatened by an increasingly conservative political climate. In 1989, Republican la~vmakers and religious right groups launched a campaign against what they deemed morally objectionable art. Opponents ~vere particularly incensed that NEA funds had indirectly supported the work of Robert Mapplethorpe - renowned for his homoerotic and sadomasochistic images - and Andres Serrano, who photographed a crucifix in a jar of urine. During a time of moral panic about homosexuality and AIDS, conservative columnist Patrick Buchanan, among others, saw public funding of controversial art as a key battleground in a "culture war" against traditional values. At the behest of Rep. Dick Armey (R-Texas), more than 100 legislators signed a letter to NEA chair John Frohnmayer threatening to withhold federal support if the agency continued to fund "morally reprehensible trash." In the fall of 1989, Congress passed an amendment - introduced by Republican North Carolina Senator Jesse Helms - barring the use of federal money to support work that could be considered obscene, induding "depictions of sadomasochism, homoeroticism, the sexual exploitation of children, or individuals engaged in sex acts." Following a vociferous debate, Congress reauthorized the NEA in 1990, but added a provision that the agency must consider not 14 the STAR only artistic merit, but also "general standams of decency and respect for the diverse beliefs of the American public." In June of that year, citing the new clause and "certain political realities," Frohnmayer rejected grants to four solo performance artists - Karen Finley, Holly Hughes, John Fleck, and Tim Miller - that had been unanimously recommended by a peer review panel. Finley, a heterosexual woman and the best known of the four, was renowned for smearing chocolate on her naked body to represent the degradation of women. Hughes (a lesbian and former anti-porn feminist), Fleck (a gay man whose act included urinating onstage - but not, as accused, on a Bible), and Miller (a bisexual AIDS activist) all included explicit homosexual themes in their work. In addition to the NEA Four, conservatives also objected to federal funding for Marion Riggs’ film about the black gay experience, Tongues Untied (1989), the GLBT film company Frameline, and the work of Ron Athey, an HIV-positive artist who incorporated ritual body raodification and bloodletting into his performances. Civil libertarians and queer activists reacted with outrage to the encroachment on freedom of expression, but little support came from the straight left or the mainstream arts establishment, because, as Hughes explained, "anxieties about sexuality, the body, and race are not just anxieties of the right, they are anxieties also of downtown artists." After the NEA rejected their request for an appeal in August 1990, the four defunded artists - with the support of the American Civil Liberties Union and the Center for Constitutional Rights - filed a lawsuit in federal court demanding reinstatement of their grants and rescinding of the NEA’s decency provision, arguing that the guidelines were vague and unconstitutional. In 1992, federal district judge Wallace Tashima ruled in their favor; the government, he said, does not have "free rein to impose whatever content restrictions it chooses," since "the right of artists to challenge conventional wisdom and values is a cornerstone of artistic and academic freedom." Four years later, the Ninth Circuit Court upheld Tashima’s ruling. The NEA Four won a settlement reinstating their original grants and awarding legal costs, but the Clinton administration appealed the lower court decision regarding the decency clause. In June 1998, the Supreme Court ruled by a vote of 8 to 1 that Congress has wide latitude to set spending priorities. Wrote Justice Antonin Scalia, "Avant-garde artistes...remain entirely free to epater la bourgeoisie [shock the middle class]; they are merely deprived of the additional satisfaction of having the bourgeoisie taxed to pay for it." However, the sole dissenting justice, David Souter, said that the law carried "a significant power to chill artistic production and display." Mthough the original NEA implementation language stated that it was the government’s proper role "to help create and sustain not only a climate encouraging freedom of thought, imagination, and inquiry, but also the material conditions facilitating the release of this creative talent," the NEA Four case illustrated a shift in public support for the arts. In 1996, Congress cut the agency’s budget from a high of more than $170 million to less then $100 million, and the NEA ceased funding individual performance artists; legislators increased the budget in subsequent years, but never to its former level. Perhaps an even more profound outcome was the chilling effect it had on artists. "There’s enormous commercial pressure to be more mainstream," said Hughes. ’’A lot of the counter-cultural edge has really disappeared." For further reading: Bolton, Richard (editor). 1992. Culture W-ars: Documents from the Recent Controversies in the Arts (Ne~v Press). Brenson, Michael. 2001. Visionaries and Outcasts: The NEA, Congress, and the Place of the Visual Arts in America (New Press). Wallis, Brian, Marianne Weems, and Philip Yenawine (editors). 1999. Art Matters: How the Culture Wars Changed America (Ne~v York University Press). www.ozarksstar.com �In Memoriam EUREI’CA_ SPPdNGS, AR~55 antique dealers from 14 different states will converge on this Ozark town November 17 and 18 for the 19th Annual Eureka Springs Fall Antique Show and Sale. A special Wine & Cheese Preview will be held on Friday, November 16, 5:30-7 p.m. The popular yearly event will be held at the Inn of the Ozarks Convention Center, Hwy. 62 West. This is one of the ldckoffevents for the busy Thanksgiving and Christmas season. Attendees will pay $10 for this first chance at the antiques brought by dealers from around the country. This fee covers all days. Regular show hours on Saturday are 10 am to 6 pm and 10 am to 4 pm on Sunday. Admission price for this event is $ 2.50, good for both days. This well-attended show not only draws dealers from many states, it also brings customers fi’om as many as 23 different states. "By now, most antique lovers around this part of the country know that the third weekend in November and the third weekend in March are devoted to antiques here in Eureka Springs," according to Jane Baker. She and her husband, Dave, are show managers. "This is our 19th fall show and it looks to be better than ever," she added. For more information on the festival, contact Dave or Jane Baker at 479-253-7551 or bakerdj@cox.net. For details on Eureka Springs tourism, call 1-866-947-4387 or go online at www.eurekasprings.org. Michael Shane White 1971 - 2007 TULSA, OK __ Michael Shane White of Tulsa, born July 2, 1971 passed away August !3th, 2007 after a long fight with cancer. He is survived by his partner Jackie Hickey, father Chester and wife Barbara White of Sapulpa. His mother Roxanna Porter of Otdahoma City and sister Stephanie White of Choctaw, OK. Shane enjoyed his friends, family, traveling and tending the garden he and Jackie grew. He especially loved early morning walks in the garden when the roses and hibiscus were in bloom. Shane will be truly missed by his loving family and friends. 8 parts lemon (Absolute is good) 1 teaspoon Grand 1 teaspoon fresh lime Lemon twist Combine liquid ingredients in a cocktail shaker with cracked ice and shake well. Strain into a chilled co£ktail glass and garnish on fwist. ~ ~ www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 15 ��~ fresh ~pper, ring of raw mp. martini and head chef deveined-can desired best pper )er powder over medium heat. ice, pepper, paprika, shrimp parsley, immediatel4 rice-bohemio-and a green ice jalapeno pepcan in mexican , Puerto Vallarta see �of Oz with see Donald Pile and Ray Williams ; red velvet sears and you besides seein hal ~ndmarks. ay Landmarks? Below is a list of some of our favorites: ueen ~travaganzas the Greenwich Village in New York was located a 53 Christopher Street. 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Founded giving ¯ without undermining St. in New York City*. %e world s first gay and lesbian bookshop, it has been shop opene its ~oors fo of a store that Street, a block of the chain bookstores, is: www.oscarwiI- 429 Castro St, in San Francisco (photo 922, the Castro Theatre is San Francisco’s ........................ Continued n~t page www.ozarksstar.com �prawns served with a mango whittle white dipping sauce, Cherty Cola Caribbean BBQ Ribs, Chicken Satan; Cordon Bleu and a grilled Cornish hen with a orange tequila mad brandy sauce. They also serve t}esh steamed mussels euro style with whittle wine and chicken broth to name a few. ~q~eir grilled red snapper with Spa~> ish rice is to die for. N~ev even serve the best Itali~ meatloaf with twice baked potato this side of New York Cib" and Cajun friend chicken, baked ziti pasta and the best veggie burgers in the u,fiverse made ~r0m scratch fbr you vegetarian lovers. Care Bohemio has been written up i~ the New YorkTimes Sunday travel section. It is quite the gay travelers ~nner stop when in Puerto Valtarta. Reservations are re£0mmended on high ~eason Nov-April as they only have 17 tables. You can email as well lbr reservations at ca_febohemio@hotmail, corn or call when in town at 322-t34-2436. Chris and Sol hope to open a Care Bohemio in the near future in fabulous Palm Springs CA, Both are wonderful guys and good friends of ours. We wish them GRF~aiT SUCCESS! by Donald Pile & Ray Williams Featuring Cuisine From Coast to Coast HEMIO, Puerto Val~arta, Mexdco 127 Rodolfb Gomez is located in the roman?uerto Vallarta. Mexico, one block from the Dia de los leach axed located next to the San Marino Hotel. It’s locagay bars are located. former owners of the md B in San Francisco 3ened Care Bohemio 5 several years and have San Francisco. Sol is has created a fabulous inmrnational menu with a a~ veiT aflbrdable prices. "Ihey have a popular , hours daily from 5-7 and 11-midnight with 3ecials where drinks are 2 for 1 all iuesoays are tini "thesdays where martinis ¯ long. Wednesdays are also popular with their 2 is served al fresco outdoor dining under a large mango tables complete your bohemian experience is a memorable $10. American dollars - yes you heard ght! and all meals include at no extra cost homemade chips salsa- a cup of their famous soup of the day and fresh bread. not frozen and all desserts are made on the no pre-mixes 85% of their clients are repeat customers. Some of their dishes include Shrimp Coco Mango, jumbo coconut www.ozarksstar.com LOS N. Schrader Boulevard in Los _Angeles. ~Ihe first gay community center in the country began in 197t, It is the largest gay C0mmunivy center in the United States. MASSACHUSETTS SUPreME COURZ John Adams Court[, house, One Pemberton Square in B0S{0n. ~& the debate over marriage continues today, rhh Supreme Judici~ Court of Massachusetts took a big Step by becoming the first State to legalize same-sex marriage in May of 2004. landmar~ and it is a marvelous Always remember to have fun when traveling, meet new people and talk to everyone! the STAR 19 �I~orbel, one of the Russian River’s top wineries, offers tours of the property and also has a superb gourmet deli that’s perfect for picking up picnic supplies and light lunches. (Photo by Andrew Collins) chocolates. And Wayne Skata Jewelry & Antiques carries some of the most intriguing decorative items and household gifts around. Wine-tasting is a top pastime in these parts, and a great way to begin your explorations is by consulting with David DeVries and John Haggard, two knowledgeable and friendly experts on local wine who operate Sophie’s Cellars, a wonderful little wine and cheese shop in Monte Rio. These guys can recommend and make introductions for you at several high-quality, lesser-known vineyards, some that aren’t otherwise open to the public. Nestled in the redwood-shaded western reaches of Sonoma County, the Russian River Valley is one of Northern California’s most relaxing and gay-friendly weekend getaways. Although the area is occasionally ravaged by wintertime floods, it offers cool and typically sunny weather much of the year, especially in summer. The area comprises the towns of Guerneville, Forestville, Monte Rio, and - where the river empties into the Pacific - Jenner. Gay folks have been weekending here for more than three decades, and the area has always been a terrific spot for camping, canoeing, hiking, and simply relaxing amid peaceful and picturesque surroundings. More recently, the eastern reaches of the area have blossomed into a hub of superb wineries. Although a steady influx of well-heeled San Francisco professionals has given the Russian River a slightly more polished sensibility in recent years, Guerneville and its neighboring communities still look and feel unpretentious - even a bit raffish - compared with such swanky Wine Country towns as Healdsburg and Rutherford. This is a spot where flannel shirts and jeans are 20 the STAR as much in vogue as designer wear. Life here moves at a snail’s pace, and that’s how most locals prefer it. The river defines not only the community’s personality but also the region’s geography. It’s a threat, to be sure, but it’s also the reason devotees love the area. Perhaps the leading activities in summer are floating for several miles down the river on inner tubes and embarking on one of the popular canoe expeditions offered by Burke’s Canoes. For a spectacular hike, drive a few miles north of town to 800-acre Armstrong \Voods, home to some of the tallest and oldest trees in northern California. If you’re hit with a rainy day, fear not: Downtown Guerneville holds an increasingly intriguing selection of shops. Possibilities include the Five & Dime, with its old-fashioned candy section and offbeat gifts; Stone’s River Feed, a whimsically stocked pet-supplies store; River Reader, a quirky bookshop with a GLBT section; and Kings & Q~eens, which stocks cool vintage threads. At Hemp & Chocolat, you can pick up - you guessed it - hemp clothing and accessories, along with gorgeous handmade If you’re out exploring on your own, the best winery-hopping plan is to drive east of Guerneville on River Road. Just outside of town, stop at Korbel Champagne Cellars, which is headquartered in a century-old, creeper-covered brick building. The facility’s Korbel Dell and Microbrewery is a delightful spot to grab lunch - it serves superb panini sandwiches (try the one with salami, Brie, tapenade, roasted peppers, and greens), prepared salads, and fresh-baked sweets, and there’s seating on a !ovely tree-shaded deck. Continue along River Road and make a left onto Westside Road, following this toward Healdsburg. Over the next several miles, you’ll encounter one exceptional winery after another - best bets include Gary Farrell, Porter Creek (amazing pinot noirs), Davis Bynum, Hop Kiln, and Roshambo. Alternatively, explore the wine-growing region south of the river. Fine vineyards in the towns of Forestville, Graton, and Windsor include Joseph Swan, La Crema, DeLoach, Topolos, and Hanna. Many businesses and accommodations in the area distribute free "Russian River Wine Road" brochures and maps, which can help you plot your oenophilic journey - or log on to www.wineroad. com to see the maps there. Where there’s great wine, there’s great food, and Guerneville has gradually improved as a culinary destination in recent years. Charizma Wine Lounge and Dell is a relatively new spot for breakfast, lunch, dinner, wine-tasting, and live jazz some nights. Sophisticated but well-priced options include a baked Petrole sole with mango-jasmine rice, baby beans, and blue mussels, and the smoked-ham and provolone sandwich with ............. Continued next page www.ozarksstar.com �peach-and-onion barbecue sauce. Cape Fear cafe is another very good lunch source - it’s in a small complex of historic buildings a scenic 15minute drive south of Guerneville. When it’s a good old-fashioned burger you’re after, drop by gay-owned Bob N’ Boy in downto~vn Guerneville. Chase down your burgers, hot dogs, and fries with Red Hook beer. Grab breakfast, lunch, or an afternoon espresso snack at the Coffee Bazaar, just offthe main drag along Armstrong Woods Road. The sunny little cafe with free Wi-Fi has wonderfully hearty soups and sand~viches, egg dishes, cakes, cookies, and similarly enticing treats. In Forestville, you’ll find a couple of the region’s best restaurants, including Mosaic Restaurant and Wine Lounge, which serves first-rate contemporary American fare, and the famed Farmhouse Inn, Restaurant, and Spa, which has garnered all kinds of awards and kudos for its innovative cuisine. A typically delicious dish here is the plate of seared pork medallions with caramelized onions, black Mission figs, and parmesan polenta. Other gay-popular accommodations of note include the long-running Russian River Resort (aka the Triple R), a highly social spot with clean and comfy motel-style rooms that received a top-notch makeover in 2006. A rustic but neatly maintained compound of 1920s cottages, the pet-friendy Fern Grove is another highly recommended establishment - many of the knotty-pine units have fireplaces. You don’t often find a predominantly gay resort owned by a straight couple, bui the reasonably priced, beautifully situated Highlands Resort is just that. Friendly innkeepers Ken and Lynette, who know all there is to know about the region, operate this rambling 3-acre spread tucked beneath the boughs ofto~vering redwood trees. Accommodations are set in a series of secluded, nicely appointed cabins, many of them with fireplaces, refrigerators, and coffeemakers. It’s a peacefu! spot (no TVs or phones in the rooms), and nudity is permitted around the pool and hot tub. When you’re truly looking to get away from it all, this compound, just a five-minute walk up the hill from downtown Guerneville, makes the perfect escape. With dinner out of the way, don’t overlook Guerneville’s gay nightlife. Some of the restaurants in these parts have lounges or bars popular with the GLBT crowd, and then there are a couple of self-standing bars. One spot that’s friendly with men and women, old and young, is the Rainbow Cattle Company, a former gambling hall, which draws a genial, outgoing bunch, many of whom tumble in after 11 for a nightcap...or two...or seven. Across the street is Club Yamagata, a space that’s gone through a few incarnations over the years and was known until recently as Liquid Sky. It opened in June 2007 as a hip, mixed gay/straight lounge serving everything from fancy sake-infused cocktails to green teas, smoothies, and appetizers. The Asian-themed spot offers a departure from Guerneville’s somewhat predictable scene. Another good bet is the Triple R Bar at the Russian River Resort, xvhich is home to a pool bar, video lounge, and piano cabaret. The live entertainment and several chatty bartenders are sure to keep everybody’s spirits up. The Russian River has a number of gay-popular accommodations, the most romantic being the posh yet unpretentious Applewood Inn and Restaurant, which is a few minutes’ drive south of downtown Guerneville. Half of the elegant rooms are in the main 1922 Mission Revival house; the others are in a newer building done in the same style. All are loaded with antiques and have European down comforters, and many have hot tubs and fireplaces. Applewood also contains the best restaurant in the area, serving such stellar Mediterranean-influenced victuals as braised rabbit with potato gnocchi, bacon, and English peas. Recently purchased by helpful and enthusiastic couple Dana Murphy and Brian Siewert, the former Ridenhour Inn received a top-tobottom makeover in 2006 and has emerged as the dapper Sonoma Orchid. This sunny yellow farmhouse set high on a bluffalong River Road (very near the Westside Road wineries) has a hot tub in back, six guest rooms in the main house, and four more contemporary and private units in a separate cottage (some of these have fireplaces). Welcoming of kids as well as pets, the Sonoma Orchid is nonetheless a peaceful, romantic hideaway- a terrific addition to the Russian River’s gay-friendly lodging landscape. www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 21 �Campaign Memo Lesbian Notions, at the HRC/Logo Democratic candidates’fot~m. After watching the Human Rights Campaign/Logo presidential forum, I decided a memo to the LGBT handlers, counselors, and advisers to the candidates was in order. Memo to LGBT Candidate Advisers: Thanks for making sure your candidate was at the forum, but I think some of them needed a bit more prep time. I took the liberty of perusing the forum transcripts, and, honestly, each of the candidates needs help with his or her language. In the approximately 15 minutes each candidate had on screen, the actual use of the words lesbian, gay, bisexual, or transgender was at a minimum. Barack Obama said "LGBT" five times, "gays and lesbians" three, added "transgender" once, and said "gay" twice in the same sentence - "they’ve got gay friends, they’ve got gay family members." John Edwards said "lesbian and gay couples" three times, Dennis Kucinich said "gay" once, Bill Richardson said "gay and lesbian" four times, and Hi!lary Clinton said "gay" and "LGBT" one time each. I have to hand it to Mike Gravel though. He referred to "the gays" twice, but used the word "gay" 10 times! It might be old-fashioned of me, but I gauge a candidate’s comfort with our community with her or his ability to actually say the words. It’s one of my litmus tests. You need to prep your candidates better - when they’re addressing an audience filled with lesbians, gays, bisexuals, and transgender people, they need to say the words. In essence, they need to speak directly to us - not use euphemisms, with which the evening’s forum was rife. A few specific, well-placed references to us would have worked wonders for Obama when he spoke somewhat aw~vardly about civil unions. He said, "I am a strong supporter of not a weak version of civil unions, but of a strong version, in which the rights that are conferred at the federal level to persons of- you know, who are part of the same-sex union are compatible." 22 the STAR Now wouldn’t it have been better if the "Rock Star" candidate - as he was referred to at the forum - said the following? "I am a strong supporter of civil unions where all the federal rights, privileges, and responsibilities are conveyed to lesbian and gay couples." Short, sweet, and to the point. Edwards needs to know that it’s OK to say "lesbian and gay youth" or "LGBT youth." It doesn’t mean you’re recruiting for our side. He was eloquent when speaking about the Los Angeles Gay and Lesbian Community Center and the work it does for our homeless youth, but a few references to the specific population he was talking about would have served him well. He pondered "All she needs to do is say "LGBT" or "le.sbian and gay" a tew more times, and more of us will be eating out of her hand, thanking her for the crumbs while she consumes the cake." that "without that place [the LA Center], where would these - where would these young people go?" How much stronger, how much more emotional would it have been if he said, "Where would our LGBT youth go?" Edwards also needs a little help saying "transgender" and "transition." In answering a question regarding Susan Stanton, the transgender city manager of Largo, Fla., who lost her job after transitioning, Edwards couldn’t say "transgender." He talked about "going through what they’re going through." When referring back to the question during his closing remarks, he spoke of Stanton’s firing as a case of discrimination based on sexual orientation - wrong! She was fired because of gender identity. All I can say about Kucinich is that if he really wants to be taken seriously, he’s got to tone down the love! Sure, he’s great on our issues, supports same-sex marriage and everything else we want. He may be "evolved," as the forum’s emcee, Margaret Carlson, suggested, but honestly he sounded like a flake - not someone who is presidential. Didn’t anyone prep Richardson at all? We appreciate his record - his calling a special session just to get a domestic-partner bill passed (which didn’t happen). But to not understand a simple question on whether or not being gay is a choice is just politically stupid. His take on "don’t ask, don’t tell," however, was good. "When you have an America that is asking men and women to fight and die, the last thing you need to do is give them a lecture on sexual orientation." Right you are. And then there was Clinton - as slick and smooth as ever. Her answer about opposing same-sex marriage was brilliant: "Well, I prefer to think of it as being very positive about civil unions." She’s taken a cue from Bill - triangulate, triangulate, triangulate. She’s put her own spin on the issue of civil unions, leaving anyone who disagrees with her on it looking like the odd person out. All she needs to do is say "LGBT" or "lesbian and gay" a fe,v more times, and more of us will be eating out of her hand, thanking her for the crumbs while she consumes the cake. Then there’s Gravel. Too bad he’s not electable. He had the LGBT rhetoric down, but it was a little strange when he kept referring to "the gays" who support him - the gays in New York, the gays in San Francisco, the gays in Alaska. I found his honesty about the political scene refreshing and wish he hadn’t left elected office some 25 years ago. We need him in the Senate now more than ever. So there you have it. There may not be another national forum on LGBT issues in the 2008 election, but there will be plenty of opportunities to get your candidates talking the talk so that one of them can walk the walk to the Capitol on January 20, 2009. www.ozarksstar.corn �BOB LEMON INTERVIEW CONT. BOB: I think it’s just that they were brought up that way, and I think that young people today are much less anti-gay than people of my generation. Much of the hate was fueled by tactics such as those used by Karl Rove and the Bush administration, and by anti-gay state questions on ballots during the 2004 elections that were designed to elect conservatives. People like me, straight but not narrow, need to support organizations such as Cimarron Alliance, P-Flag and other groups. This are more straight people involved now. That’s a good trend and I love it. I say this to straight people who believe in democracy, equality and ful! rights for the gay community, come out of your closets! They need to proudly and publicly show themselves as supporters. Someday we will see a mass shift of public opinion. VICTOR: What about the upcoming Oklahoma County Commissioner Race for District One? BOB: I think we need to support Willa Johnson September 11, I believe she would fulfill that office in the Roth tradition. When he held that office, Jim Roth did many wonderful things for Oklahoma County and the GLBT community. He’s a fine public servant, and I’ll be disappointed ifI don’t see him be a governor or president someday. VICTOR: I don’t think you’ll be disappointed. Overall are you optimistic about 2008? BOB: Very optimistic. If our opponents attempt to put wedge issues on the ballot such as gay marriage or other gay rights issues to further their causes I don’t think it will work, or at least not as well, because people are becoming more reasonable and fair minded. My hat is off to the Jim Roths and Al McAffreys out there, because they are paving the way for a better future. Fair minded people, along with the gay community need to keep up their efforts helping good candidates and encouraging good voters. VICTOR: Well, thanks for sharing with us, and we can’t thank you enough for all you’ve done and all that we know you’ll do. It will always inspire our community to do better. BOOM BOOM ROOM MAY BE DOOMED. LAGUNA BEACH, CA In less than three weeks, venerable Laguna Beach, Calif., gay club the Boom Boom Room will shut its doors forever unless a buyer comes to its rescue. Jim Roth receives Hero of Hope _Award from the Cathedral of Hope UCC By Victor Gorin OKLAHOMA CITY, OK __ Oklahoma Corperation Commisioner Jim Roth received the 2007 Hero of Hope Award from Oklahoma City’s Cathedral of Hope UCC Church, an award given for commitment, hardwork and dedication towards a better future for the GLBT community. As the Reverend Scott Jones put it, "Jim received the award because in his very person he embodies the breaking of barriers and creating new possibilities for the future." He was elected in 2002 as an openl~ gay ,nan to the office of Oklahoma County Commissioner District 1, and then reelected in 2006, recognized for outstanding performance in that position. He left that seat this year, appointed by Governor Brad Henry to fill a vacated position on the Oklahoma Corporation Commission. The property’s ownm; Steven Udvar-Hazy, and the operators of the Boom Boom Room and the adjoining Coast Inn were apparently unable to reach an agreement to keep the bar, restaurant and hotel open beyond the coming Labor Day weekend, according to an open letter from preservation group Save the Boom! Udvar-Hazy wants to demolish the property to make way for a larger hotel. Save the Boom! is campaigning to find a buyer who will keep the 60-year-old establishment afloat. The group began its campaign in 2006, gathering 6,000 signatures in three months to preserve the gay institution. A nearby Laguna gay landmark, the Woody’s on the Beach restaurant, closed in February. (The Advocate) Oommuni y Peop ÷ iving with V!A DS Our House, Too offers a variety of activities for people who are HIV+ and or living with A!DS to help combat the social isolation that many of our people live through each and everyday. We provide a Toiletry and Household Pantry for those who are HtV+ and or living with AIDS who cannot afford to purchase these items for themselves, We invite anyone:who would like to volunteer or provide financial assistance to please contact us by phone 918-585-9552 or e-mail harrismmjr@ya hoo,com. www.ozarksstar.com The STAR 23 ���Who would you want as your guardian angel? Whom do you secretly admire? What was the happiest year of your life? ntrospection is defined as an examination of one’s own feelings and thoughts according to the Merriam Webster Dictionary. Introspection can lead you to better understand yourself and ultimately to achieve greater happiness. This greater happiness can help you follow the yellow brick road to better health. I will present dozens of questions for you to contemplate. Get ready to challenge yourself to a smorgasbord of self-discovery. For best results, I recommend you answer honestly Pinocchio. What bad habit do you enjoy the most? What is the largest amount of money you have found? When was the last time you dreamed you were falling? What is the most expensive car you have driven? What movie character do you most resemble? Would you like to live in the future or the past? Have you ever watched someone die in person? What photograph of you is most revealing? What is the angriest moment you have ever experienced? Who is most jealous of you? Are you more of a voyeur or an exhibitionist? What secret will you take to your grave? What person do you trust the most? What is the longest span you’ve gone without sex? When do you feel most relaxed? How do you want to die? Whit whom have you had the best sex? Who has influenced you the most? What has been your proudest moment? What is your earliest childhood memory? What is your greatest fear? \re’hen did you last cry during a movie? What have you always wanted to do but haven’t? Where did you experience your greatest happiness? When did you last lie? What are your pet peeves? These questions should be .just the beginning. Sit down and make a bigger list if you’d like. Knowledge is power. The more you know about yourself, the better equipped you’ll be to go out and face the world. Introspection is just like a massage or a relaxing spell in the hot tub. You’ll feel like a million bucks after this exercise. It is free and you have not a dime to lose. Question #1 is waiting for you in the lobby. Good luck! Who are you most intimidated by? Have you ever considered suicide? What part of your body would you like to replace? This column is brought to you by that guy Ron Blake who has been known to urinate on his shirt and then wrap it around his head to stay coo! when he is out of water and stranded in the desert. Learn more about the little bugger at www.goblakefitness.com. When did you first feel sexual? Whom have you most wanted to hurt? Have you ever driven your car naked? 26 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com �STONE\VALL ENDORSES WILLA JOHNSON FOR DISTRICT 1. OKLAHOMA CITY, OK P/R__ The executive committee of Oklahoma Stonewall Democrats voted unanimously on Friday August 17th, to endorie Willa Johnson, the Democratic Party nominee for Oklahoma County Commissioner, District 1. KELLY & JACQ ELINE CARTER S COTT TWO LIVES UNITED MIDWEST CITY, OK __ Kelly and Jacqueline Carter Scott exchanged vows at their Holy Union held on August 11, 2007 at a friend’s home in Midwest City. "l-here were 82 people in attendance with their friends and family. The wedding was conducted by the Reverend Toby Jenkins with Ekklesia Church of Tulsa, followed by feasting, fellowship and fun dancing under the stars with DJ Victorola. Xhey will reside in Oklahoma City. Jacqueline is an RN working with Integris Hospital, and Kelly is the Director of Administration for the Center for Positive Change, an OKC mental health facility. With the endorsement, Stonewall also appropriated $500 for a donation to her campaign fund. "Willa has been a steadfast supporter of human rights and of LGBT issues throughout her years on the Oklahoma City Council, and has pledged to continue that support if elected to the county level," said Steve VanHook, male co-chair of Oklahoma Stonewall. "We urge the entire LGBT community of Oklahoma County to support Willa with donations and volunteer work during this very short campaign, regardless of party affiliation. She will be facing a Republican opponent who already has an established record of homophobia and bigotry toward the LGBT community. We owe it to ourselves to help Willa’s campaign as much as possible," VanHook said. Oklahoma Stonewall is one of over 90 chapters and affiliated dubs of National Stonewall Democrats, and is a recognized federation within the Oklahoma Democratic Party. Quotable Quotes A study by South African sdentists said Wednesday there was no evidence that foods such as garlic and beetroot were a substitute for AIDS medicine, disputing claims by the country’s health minister. An Idaho inmate who castrated herself with a disposable razor blade after prison officials refused to treat her for gender identity disorder should have female hormone therapy paid for by the state, a federal judge said. Cimarron A!liance Foundation Awarded Capacity Building Grant P/R August 22, 2007 OKI.__AHOMA CITY, OK __ The Oklahoma City Community Foundation (OCCF) has awarded a grant to the Cimarron Alliance Foundation (CAF) to support the hiring of a consultant to create a fundraising and financial development plan. The grant presentation is scheduled 10:00 am this Saturday August 25th, 2007 prior to a financial development board retreat funded by this generous grant. Gayle Farley, OCCF Program Coordinator will present the grant to CAF chair, Richard Ogden, and the CAF Board of Directors. The Oklahoma City Community Foundation, the metropolitan area’s non-profit public charity, was founded in 1969 to work with individuals to meet the charitable needs of the community through development and administration of permanent endowment funds for non-profit organizations and other charities. Through its Community Program Grants, the OCCF funds, initiates and leads programs that benefit the community in the area of arts, education, health and human services, beautification and community development. The Cimarron Alliance Foundation, an Oklahoma non-profit educational foundation, was created in 1997 to support equality toward "A Fair and Just Oklahoma’. Cimarron has heightened its fundraising efforts to support a series of educational and charitable programs aimed at promoting fairness and impartiality to all people. The CAF Mission : "To support educational efforts that increase personal self-esteem, promote public enlightenment and advanced equality for LGBT Oklahomans". For further information about these organizations visit: http://www.occf.org or http://www.cimarronalliance.org Dr. Robert G. Crummie, a volunteer "Doctor of the Day" in Raleigh, is in trouble for more than urging electric shock therapy for gay people. www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 27 �Mars in Gemini is loosening lips, and, squaring Uranus, he will have us all blurting out things we’ll wish we hadn’t! Keep your ears open and your mouth shut - or otherwise occupied. Venus is in Leo, so taking pride in taste and discretion can save you lots of trouble. ARIES (March 20 -April 19): To avoid blurting out secrets and betraying trust, let it all be about you! Hold the spotlight and dazzle your friends with your charm and playfulness. If you do get time alone, some creative writing and journaling can offer surprising insights. TAURUS (April 20 - May 20): Resisting the impulse to spend can be hard, but stay within a budget. Friends will egg you on to some fabulous purchase that you’ll regret. What would Mother say? In this case, she’d probably be right. SAG~TTARIUS (November 22 - December 20): Arguments, especially at home, are likely to go badly for you. Artistic and literary diversions will help keep you out of trouble. Those from the lands of your family background can provide surprising insights. CAPRICORN (December 21 - January 19): Showing off and learning new sexual techniques can prove very educational for all involved. But are you communicating anything in your love-making besides physical prowess? Take time out to talk about real intimacy, not just erotic gymnastics. AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): What you value in your relationships cannot be sufficiently expressed with money and gifts. Efforts to do so now will just prove awkward and expensive. A gesture of affection - a hug, a kiss, or a kind word - is still best. PISCES (February 19 - March 19): You’re full of surprises even you don’t know about. Conversations with your family can expose talents that will prove helpful at work. Be sure to discuss family medical history. What you learn now could save you lots of grief. GEMINI (May 21 - June 20): Your mouth is even more dangerous than usual. Whether you want it or not, you have the ear of bosses and authorities. Running your ideas by a sister first will help you make them more presentable. CANCER (June 21 - July 22): Occupy your mind to keep your mouth out of trouble. Visit museums and art-house films, and keep the discussion impersonal, discussing aesthetics instead of mutual acquaintances. Whatever you say will be heard far and wide! LEO (July 23 - August 22): Talking about sex could actually keep you out of trouble, as then you won’t be gossiping about friends. Even better than discussing sex, continue your research on different techniques and styles~ You’ll have plenty of opportunity! VIRGO (August 23 - September 22): Your partner will quickly tire of your complaints about work, and your workplace is no place to kvetch about your love life! Hiding out could be your best bet, even with your partner exploring nonverbal communication. LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): You can enjoy great popularity now, either for your savage wit or for your valuable community service. The latter will also offer you surprising inspirations. SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): OK, you’re hot; we all know you’re hot; and worst of all, you know you’re hot. Now relax and try to have fun without needing to prove anything. You can’t play anyone else’s instrument while you’re tooting your own horn. MCC METROPOLITAN COMMUNITY CHURCHES Rev Steve 3". 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Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data magazine Text Any textual data included in the document 2 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 3 ~ G~.~T $1URVII~Y 88.6% of combined Gays and Lesbians voted in the 2004 Presidential Hection. For the 2006 Mid-Term Hection 81.7% combined Gay and Lesbian readers voted. HRC and NGLTF comment on the history making GLBT Forum August 9th on LOGO TV. Finley, a heterosexual woman and the best known of the four, was renowned for smearing chocolate on her naked body to represent the degrad.ation ofwomen. The Chardonnay grape variety is a classic white wine grape grown all around the world. The original fame of Chardonnay comes from its success in the region of France. Gay Travelers: USA Gay Landmarks Out of Town: Russian River, CA Dining In or OUT L.ESB~AN NOTIONS GLBT Forum revue: I have to hand it to Mike Gravel though. He referred to "the gays" twice, but used the word "gay" 10 times! F~TNESS Introspection can lead you to better understand yourself and ultimately to achieve greater happiness. ON THE COVER: GLBT Forum Participants 4 the STAR STAR DISTRIBUTION: OKLAHOMA CITY * TULSA* LAWTON * MCALESTER * ENID * LITTLE ROCK * NORTH LITTLE RODK * FAYETTEVILLE * FT SMITH * EUREKA SPRINGS * HOT SPRINGS * BENTONVILLE * ROGERS * KANSAS CITY * SPRINGFIELD * JOPLIN * BRANSON AREA* WICHITA * PITTSBURG * JUNCTION CITY www.ozarksstar.corn Ne t E ecdon could be decided by Gays and Lesbians San Francisco-based Community Marketing Inc. conducted a nationwide survey earlier this year that the STAR and you, our readers took part. The study found an astounding 92% of gay male respondents (92.5%) reported that they voted in the 2004 presidential election with nearly 84% (83.8%) reporting that they voted in the mid-term election in 2006. Results for lesbians were similar with nearly 91% (90.7%) of lesbian respondents reporting that they voted in the 2004 presidentia! election and 78% reporting that they voted in the mid-term election in 2006. In comparison, media reports estimate that 64% of the general population voted in the 2004 presidential election and just 40% of the general population voted in the 2006 mid-term election. Results of the STAR survey, readers were slightly lower with 88.6% of combined Gays and Lesbians voting in the 2004 Presidential Election. For the 2006 Mid- Term Election 81.7% combined Gay and Lesbian readers voted. In comparison to the general population that is still an impressive difference for GLBT Oklahomans and the region. Among the results from the STAR survey we found interesting was on the question, "Importance of Gay Marriage" only 30% of our readers thought it was the most important issue. While 57.6% settled for Domestic Partnership and/or_civil union recognition. 12.3% felt there were more important GLBT issues. In the STAR "Commentary" this issue, James Nimmo addresses the question of " How We Should Address the Gay and Lesbian Community" This is what our survey found on the same question. 38.6% said "Gay & Lesbian", 35% said "GLBT", 19.9% "LGBT", 17% "Gay Men or Worneft’ and 12.3% suggested "Alternative". I thank our readers for the great response we had for the STAR in this very important survey of our community. We will be publishing more results in coming issues. Sincerely, Charles (Chaz) Ward www.ozarksstar.com New National Survey Shows Gays and Lesbians Outpace U.S. Average in Voting Participation Respondents: Homosexuality I4/71l Still Be a Divisive Issue in Ten Yeats SAN FRANCISCO, CA A new national survey reveals that gay and lesbian consumers are far more likely to have voted in the last presidential and midterm elections than the population in general. Significant numbers of both gay men and lesbians also donated to a political party in the past year. The survey also found that despite significant social and political progress over the past decade, majorities of both gays and lesbians believe homosexuality will remain a "divisive" issue in ten years. The survey results are included in the Gay Consumer IndexTM and Lesbian Consumer IndexTM, precedent-setting national surveys of more than 12,000 gay Americans and 10,000 lesbian Americans conducted by Community Marketing Inc. in spring 2007 and set to be released later this month. "The results of the Gay Consumer Index and Lesbian Consumer Index demonstrate that the political parties would be smart to pay attention to the issues that mean the most to gay and lesbian voters," declared Tom Roth, president of Community Marketing Inc. "We have far more at stake than the average voter and we’re therefore far more engaged in the political process." Slighdy more than 31 percent of lesbian respondents (31.1%) reported that they made a financial contribution to a political party in the past twelve months. Forty percent (40.1%) of gay male respondents reported that they made a financial contribution m a politica! party in the past twelve months. And finally, large majorities of gay male and lesbian respondents agreed with the statement that "homosexuality will still be a divisive issue in the USA in 10 years." A new national survey reveals that gay and lesbian consumers are far more likely to have voted in the last presidential and midterm elections than the population in general. Significant numbers of both gay men and lesbians also donated to a political party in the past year. The survey also found that despite significant social and political progress over the past decade, majorities of both gays and lesbians believe homosexuality will remain a "divisive" issue in ten years. The survey results are included in the Gay Consumer IndexTM and Lesbian Consumer IndexTM, precedent-setting national surveys of more than 12,000 gay Americans and 10,000 lesbian Americans conducted by Community Marketing Inc. in spring 2007 and set to be released later this month. "The results of the Gay Consumer Index and Lesbian Consumer Index studies demonstrate that the political parties would be smart to pay attention to the issues that mean the most to gay and lesbian voters," declared Tom Roth, president of Community Marketing Inc. "We have far more at stake than the average voter and we’re therefore far more engaged in the political process." More than 92% of gay male respondents (92.5%) reported that they voted in the 2004 presidential election with nearly 84% (83.8%) reporting that they voted in the mid-term election in 2006. Results for lesbians were similar with nearly 91% (90.7%) of lesbian respondents reporting that they voted in the 2004 presidential election and 78% reporting that they voted in the midterm election in 2006. In comparison, media reports estimate that 64% of the general population voted in the 2004 presidential election and just 40% of the general population voted in the 2006 mid-term election. Slightly more than 31 percent of lesbian respondents (31.1%) reported that they made a financial contribution to a political party in the past twelve months. Forty percent (40.1%) of gay male respondents reported that they made a financial contribution to a political party in the past twelve months. And finally, large majorities of gay male and lesbian respondents agreed with the statement that "homosexuality will still be a divisive issue in the USA in 10 years." Community Marketing, Inc., founded in 1992, is the global leader in gay and lesbian market research, strategies and communications. More info: www. CommunityMarketinglnc.com Rivendell Media, Inc., America’s leading gay and lesbian media placement firm, co produced the Gay Consumer Index" and Lesbian Consumer Index TM studies, which were sponsored, in part, by Absolut. More info: www.RivendellMedia.com the STAR 5 I before E excep after C. L be£ore G excep Be£ore B? How Equallity by Jim Nimmo OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__ A few days ago I was in an email exchange with some gay guys and the thread was about the spelling of our orientational moniker/acronym commonly used as a short hand to describe us in the media. Is it LGBT or GLBT? And there’s even LGBTQi which resembles a row on the computer keyboard. There was even the suggestion ofSOGI (sexual orientation and gender identity) but say it out loud and it sounds like an adjective some of us could use to name the after effects of sexual exertion rather than sexual orientation. This year our 2007 Oklahoma City Parade was prefixed with GLBTI, which again, said out loud, sounds like a word for insincerity. Why should any particular letter come before the other? With my tongue, GLBT comes out easier than LGBT with a more defined rhythm, but I’m just referring to ease of speech; being a musician I’m attuned to that anyway. We often hear the phrase "men and women" but we also hear "ladies and gentlemen." Why do we say "salt and pepper" and not the other way round? Knife and fork, birds and bees, paper and pencil? Well, I think our equality movement IS about exertion and certainly NOT about insincerity. for their own gender-emotionally, romantically, and erotically--are referred to as gay, period. A~ I going to get hate mail from the women because I would drop the "lesbian" term? I could just as easily expand my dream world and drop the "gay" word altogether and let people have their sexual expression without hang-ups about words and the straight-world permission or opprobrium these red-flag words convey. This is what ,ve had, etymologically, before the prudo-pseudo-scientific "advances" of the Victorian era, when the word "homosexual" was invented. Before that time sex between men was plain sodomy, sex between women was just affection. Even farther back in some societies, sex between older and younger men was the transmission of the spirit and continuation of the life force which enabled young men to become leaders and progenitors in their tribes. The female will ALWAYS be superior anyway. It’s possible for them to conceive by parthenogenesis--no male required! But of course, the gay orientation is not about sexual reproduction as our enemies and two State Supreme Court decisions from 2006 would have us believe. Gayness is about having the right to privacy to exercise our affectional and emotional bonds as we like with consenting adults. Gayness is about having the same rights as any other man or woman who has chosen opposite-gender marriage or co-habitation, with or without progeny. Unless we exert with growing force our birth-right entitlement to equality, we’re going to be seen by our enemies as insincere. I would like to spell my orientation like this: AMERICAN. And why should we develop these sensitivities about spellings and acronyms? In my dream world (not to be confused with my fantasy world) people with a yen 6 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com w~ev.ozarksstar.com the STAR 7 Recognized by Keller Williams For outstanding achievement 2005 and 2006 l~A LTY Chuck Breckenridge 918-706-1887 REALTOI~ Whether buying or selling I’ll work hardforyou. "At Century 21 Gold Castle our BEST properties are our PEOPLE’ 4301 NW 63rd, Suite 100 Oklahoma City, OK 73116 8 the STAR 405.840.2106 www.c21goldcastle.com GINGER ~MAR and Stephanie DeBarse Matthew Heath-Fitzgerald Susan Leah Let us promote your business in a UNIQUE & DIVERSE market. Cal~ STAR ADVlERT~S~NG today. 8)835o7887 www.ozarksstar.com OKLAI OMAN W’INNER OF THE LIFETIME COMMITMENT AWARD FROM THE NATIONAL STONEW-ALL DEMOCRATS "Gay People Aren’t Broken, and They Don’t Need Fixing" Photo: Bob Lemon wit/~ daughter Robyn Lemon Sellers This year’s winner was Oklahoma’s own Bob Lemon, a longtime friend of the GLBT community and overal! champion for progressive causes. No stranger to honors, this year he also received the Irene Tyson Award from the Oklahoma Gay and Lesbian Political Caucus. He’s the proud dad of 5 grown children (Del, Jim, Robyn, Chrys & Hi Moque). The contributions and support he has given the GLBT community are truly too numerous to list here, but now he shares some of his reflections about what it means to him as well as us. INTERVIEW By Victor Gorin VICTOR: You are a longtime champion of equality for the GLBT community. What got you started on that path? BOB: My first real awareness of this issue happened when we were at a convention of the Christian Church (Disciples of Christ) in Kansas City during 1977. Mary Lou and I learned of a minister who was forced to resign from his church because his son was gay. We were living in Perryton Texas then, and very loyal to our church and our denomination. In 1979 at another convention in St. Louis, Mary Lou and I attended a workshop on homosexuality. It was headed by a medical doctor from Oklahoma University who maintained that gayness was not a choice, that they were "naturally that way." Throughout the years we read a great deal about gay history and equality. VICTOR: Later on it touched your own family. BOB: Our interest really peaked when 1993 when Mary Lou and I learned, to our complete surprise, that our son Chris was gay when ~wvw.ozarksstar.corn he came out to us at the age of 36. Today he is an attorney in Washington D,C., and we have attended functions together of the Stonewall Democrats, but at the time we had no idea. He’d had an outstanding background. In high school he had been Student Body President & an Eagle Scout, and later served in the air force as a flight instructor before becoming an attorney. Although it was a surprise, we told him it didn’t bother us. We also adopted a young gay man, Eli Moque Grayson, who is now living in California and is an interior designer. He’s worked on some distinguished homes including the late Bob Hope. VICTOR: The Mary Lou Lemon Humanitarian Award, given by the Oklahoma Stonewall Democrats, is named after your late wife. Obviously she was a great friend and inspiration. How long were you married? BOB’. 52 years and 2 days. We had met at a high school get together on Lake Fryor near Perry ton. She was a beautiful, blonde blue eyed woman, and I had lots of competitors. We got married when we were both in college, I attended Oklahoma A&M ( now OSU) and she was at Panhandle State University in Goodwell, Oklahoma.. We had a wonderful life, raised wonderful children, and she was a champion for equality for everyone. VICTOR: You later had gotten involved with P-Flag? BOB: Yes, we had gotten involved and been to their national meetings. When I was on the board of the Christian Church Disciples of Christ in Perryton, which I thought was a liberal church, I had made a motion to allow P-Flag to meet at our church, as did many others groups. That motion got a few minutes of discussion before it was voted down, 35-1, and I was the dissenting vote. Our efforts to change their attitudes were unsuccessful. Soon after that we left that church." VICTOR: You joined Mayflower UCC when you moved to Oklahoma City in 2000. BOB: We attended a few times and fell in love with it, beginning when we read their" open and affirming" statement. Not all churches then were so accepting. VICTOR: What is hardest for older people to give up their prejudices? ........................Continued page-23 the STAR 9 Uo So Court o£Appeals Upholds Decision Striking Down Oklahoma’s Adop, on InvM dat on Law in Lawsuit Brought by L bda LegM ’The Adoption Invalidation Law was reckless legislation that jeopardized the safety and well being of children and undermined parents’ rights.’ DENVER, CO__ August 3, 2007 -- In a 35-page decision, a panel of the U. S. Court ofAppeals for the 10th Circuit rejected the Oklahoma Department of Health’s challenge to a lower court decision striking down an Oklahoma law so.extreme that it threatened to make children adopted by same-sex couples in other states legal orphans when the families are in Oklahoma. The ruling is important not only in Oklahoma, but also to families across the United States, including in Seattle and Houston, home to two of the families who joined in the suit. "Today’s decision supports the lower court’s finding that same-sex couples who choose to adopt are entitled under the U.S. Constitution to have their relationships with their children respected in every state," said Ken Upton, Senior StaffAttorney in Lambda Legal’s South Central Regional Office and lead attorney on the case. "N~e Adoption Invalidation Law was reckless legislation that jeopardized the safety and well-being of children and undermined parents’ rights." Although the governor and attorney general were content to abide by the lower court’s finding, the Oklahoma Commissioner of Health sought review of a part of the judgment that required the Department of Health to issue an amended birth certificate to the adopted child of a same-sex couple that accurately reflected both women as the child’s legal parents. The Court rejected the challenge and affirmed the judgment requiring issuance of a proper birth certificate. In doing so, the 10th Circuit panel also agreed with Lambda Legal that the law violated the Full Faith and Credit Clause of the U.S. Constitution. In the opinion released today, U. S. Senior Circuit Judge David M. Ebel wrote, "final adoption orders by a state court of competent jurisdiction are judgments that must be given full faith and credit under the Constitution by every other state in the nation. Because the Oklahoma statute at issue categorically rejects a class of out-of-state adoption decrees, it violates the Full Faith and Credit Clause." The Adoption Invalidation Law, hastily passed at the end of the 2004 Oklahoma legislative session, had said that Oklahoma "shall not recognize an adoption by more than one individual of the same sex from any other state or foreign jurisdiction." Lambda Legal argued that the law was unconstitutional based on the United States Constitution’s guarantees of equal protection and due process, as ~vell as the mandates of the Full Faith and Credit Clause. Today’s decision leaves intact a decision by the U.S. Court for the Western District of Oklahoma that agreed with these challenges and held that the statute indeed violates the United States Constitution by singling out a specific group. Neither the governor nor the attorney general of Oklahoma challenged the trial court’s decision that struck down the antigay Adoption Invalidation Law. The appellate court’s decision also requires the Oklahoma Department of Health to issue a birth certificate to the daughter of a samesex couple in Oklahoma accurately listing the names of both parents. In addition to same-sex couples raising children in Oklahoma, the ruling benefits samesex couples and their families in other states, including two of the couples who brought suit, Heather Finstuen and Anne Magro, now living in Houston, and Ed Swaya and Greg Hampel of Seattle, by ensuring they can travel in Oklahoma without fear their children will be rendered legal orphans. Ken Upton, Senior StaffAttorney in Lambda Legal’s South Central Regional Office in Dallas, is lead attorney on the case, with assistance from Senior StaffAttorney Brian Chase. Sandy Ingraham of Ingraham & Associates, EL.L.C. in McLoud, Oklahoma, served as cooperating attorney in Finstuen et al v. Edmondson et al. Tulsa GLBT leader addresses new AIDS/ Americorp volunteers By Joey De To most people, leaving town only a week after starting a new job would be a nightmare. To Oklahomans for Equality’s new Interim Executive Director Justice Waidner, it was an opportunity to give back to a program that she feels changed her life and began a life career in service. Waidner, who assumed her new role at OKEq on Aug. 1, addressed the latest teams of National Aids Fund/Americorp members just a few days later in Washington, DC on Aug. 11. The teams, who traveled from seven cities around the nation, including Tulsa, were undergoing their annual "preservice" training before beginning their year of HIV/AIDS related service. A two-term alumnus of the Americorp program, Waidner took the opporttlnity to share with the group the gravity of the realities they will face, as well as the humanity of service. "The opportunity to serve our communities in this fashion through educating people about this insidious disease and supporting those living with it truly is an awesome life changing gift," said Waidner. Using her personal stories about engaging drifter youths, befriending an HIV-positire eight year old and having to give her first positive test result, \Vgaidner spoke deeply and personally to the group to prepare them for the year ahead. "You will educate, fight inequality, challenge stigma, support, rise up, be present, and stand on the side of social justice. You will be changed and make change," she emphasized. W’aidner was later asked to administer the Americorp Oath of Service to the group, officially marking the end of their training and the beginning of their one year service commitment. "You are my version of gels in America,’" she remarked just shortly before. For information about the National AIDS fund or the Americorp program visit www.aidsfund.org. 10 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com STATEMENT FROM HUMAN GHTS CAMPAIGN ON DEMOCRATIC P SIDENTIAL FORUM WASHINGTON, DC __ On August 9, 2007, the Democratic presidential candidates took part in a national forum on issues facing gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender Americans, sponsored jointly by the Human Rights Campaign Foundation and Logo. The following is a statement by Human Rights Campaign President Joe Solmonese on the event: "This was an important night in the fight for equality for GLBT Americans. We pulled the curtain back a bit and gave all Americans a deeper look inside the candidates’ core beliefs about the issues that affect our community. From repealing ’Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell,’ supporting equal employment rights, providing full funding for the HIV/AIDS epidemic, to eliminating the Defense of Marriage Act, these candidates went on record and committed to fighting for equality in all sectors of our society. Unfortunately, we have more work to do. The overwhelming majority of the candidates do not support marriage equality. While we heard very strong commitments to civil unions and equality in federa! rights and benefits, their reasons for opposing equality in civil marriage tonight became even less clear. Over the course of the presidential campaign, we will continue to ask these questions and demand real answers from the candidates who appeared -- and from those who didn’t show up. The next president must be committed to not only doing what’s achievable, but also what’s right." The Human Rights Campaign is America’s largest civil rights organization working to achieve gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender equality. By inspiring and engaging all Americans, HRC strives to end discrimination against GLBT citizens and realize a nation that achieves fundamental fairness and equality for all. Great, now say it on the stump. "Slllgood andsome great, but now we need all the candidates --particularly thef~ontrunners -- to take a standfor us on the stump, inj~ont ofall audiwaces. " Matt Foreman, Executive Director, National Gay and Lesbian Task Force, Inc. WASHINGTON, DC__ The 2008 Democratic presidential candidates, except for Sens. Joe Biden and Christopher Dodd, addressed lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender issues at a forum aired Augkust 9th on the Logo cable channel. Statement by Matt Foreman, Executive Director National Gay and Lesbian Task Force, Inc. "It’s great that tonight the 2008 Democratic candidates reiterated their support for many issues critical to lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender Americans, like long-stalled protections from discrimination and hate violence, repealing ’Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell,’ and rights for our families. In 2004, at a similar forum also organized by our friends at the Human Rights Campaign, Democratic presidential candidates said the same thing. ’Tkll good and some great, but now we need all the candidates, particularly the frontrunners, to take a stand for us on the stump, in front of all audiences. The Republican side hasn’t given up using gay people for political gain and most of the Republican candidates bash us everpvhere they go. But so far, the Democratic frontrunners rarely talk about us except at our events, such as tonight, or when asked a specific question, and even then, they tend to freeze up. "That’s got to stop. We challenge the Democratic frontrunners to step from behind the lavender curtain and consistently, unapologetically speak for our fundamental humanity everywhere they go. "On behalf of our national community, we want to thank Joe Solmonese, Melissa Etheridge, Jonathan Capehart and Margaret Carlson for pressing the candidates on key issues, including marriage equality." McPride Family Picnic in Chadick Park, McAl[ester -Saturday, September 22nd, 11 a.m.- 5 p.m. MCALESTER, OK(PR)__McPride is hosting the Third Annual Family Picnic, Saturday, September 22nd at Chadick Park, McMester, OK (6th and Delaware), from 11 a.m. until 5p.m. for gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender, allied (GLBTA) and interested people. The picnic wil! feature speakers, singers, games, booths of information and fun for all people - gay and straight alike. Come out for an afternoon of fun and heart warming experiences. (Alcoholic beverages are NOT allowed in Chadick Park.) Living up to our mission, we believe it is important to create an opportunity for GLBTA people to be visible and to share our pride in who we are, express the love and acceptance of our families, create an opportunity to meet and get to know us. You have an opportunity to be involved on many levels in this great event. Plan to attend, be a sponsoring organization/church, a supporter, an entertainer, or a volunteer. Help make this picnic a bigger success than last year’s! Table space is available for pro-GLBTA groups who would like to display and/or sell resources at the picnic. Space must be reserved in advance. Contact Paul at 918-329-7820 or www.mcpride.org more information. www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 11 WHERE THE DE OC TBC CANDidATES STAN An analysis of the candidates’ questionnaires on issues of concern to the GLBT community HUMA~q RIGHTS CAMPAIGN~ Federal Recognition of State-Level Same-Sex Unions 1 Supports recognition by the federal government of a state’s legal recognition of same-sex couples for purposes of fe.deral benefits and tax treatment ENDA Supports passage of a federal bill prohibiting job discrimination based on sexual orientation and gender identity Hate Crimes Supports passage of a federal bill that gives authority to the federal government to investigate and prosecute violent crimes motivated by bias against the victim because of their sexual orientation, gender, gender identity or disability Same-Sex IVlarriage Supports allowing civil marriage rights for same-sex couples Civil Unions Supports civil unions for same-sex couples Federal Benefits for Same-Sex Couples Supports extending federal benefits, rights, privileges and responsibilities to same-sex couples and their children provided the partnership meets certain federal standards of commitment and mutuality of interest Coverage Under the FIVILA Supports expansion of the Family and Medical Leave Act to cover domestic partners and their children Access to Survivor Benefits Supports paying survivor benefits to the same-sex partners of gay and lesbian people 2 the STAR 4- www.ozarksstar.com + ÷ ÷ ÷ ÷ ÷ + ÷ + € union b~¢~n c~-~e m~ a~qd eaa woma~ ~husb~.nd a~d ~e~ and the word !s~ase referson~to~a~~esex~,~ !s:a~sbar’,d ~a www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 13 August 1990 (17 years ago last month): The National Endowment for the Arts rejects an appeal from four artists who 10st funding due to the controversial content of their work. Who were the NEA Four? he "NEA Four" - a gay man, a bisexual man, a lesbian, and a heterosexual feminist - played a prominent role in the culture wars of the late 1980s and early 1990s, when they challenged the withdrawal of their funding from the National Endowment for the Arts and a decency clause imposed on grant recipients. Founded in 1965, the NEA was mandated to consider cultural diversity in its funding decisions. But by the mid-1980s, public support for the arts was threatened by an increasingly conservative political climate. In 1989, Republican la~vmakers and religious right groups launched a campaign against what they deemed morally objectionable art. Opponents ~vere particularly incensed that NEA funds had indirectly supported the work of Robert Mapplethorpe - renowned for his homoerotic and sadomasochistic images - and Andres Serrano, who photographed a crucifix in a jar of urine. During a time of moral panic about homosexuality and AIDS, conservative columnist Patrick Buchanan, among others, saw public funding of controversial art as a key battleground in a "culture war" against traditional values. At the behest of Rep. Dick Armey (R-Texas), more than 100 legislators signed a letter to NEA chair John Frohnmayer threatening to withhold federal support if the agency continued to fund "morally reprehensible trash." In the fall of 1989, Congress passed an amendment - introduced by Republican North Carolina Senator Jesse Helms - barring the use of federal money to support work that could be considered obscene, induding "depictions of sadomasochism, homoeroticism, the sexual exploitation of children, or individuals engaged in sex acts." Following a vociferous debate, Congress reauthorized the NEA in 1990, but added a provision that the agency must consider not only artistic merit, but also "general standams of decency and respect for the diverse beliefs of the American public." In June of that year, citing the new clause and "certain political realities," Frohnmayer rejected grants to four solo performance artists - Karen Finley, Holly Hughes, John Fleck, and Tim Miller - that had been unanimously recommended by a peer review panel. Finley, a heterosexual woman and the best known of the four, was renowned for smearing chocolate on her naked body to represent the degradation ofwomen. Hughes (a lesbian and former anti-porn feminist), Fleck (a gay man whose act included urinating onstage - but not, as accused, on a Bible), and Miller (a bisexual AIDS activist) all included explicit homosexual themes in their work. In addition to the NEA Four, conservatives also objected to federal funding for Marion Riggs’ film about the black gay experience, Tongues Untied (1989), the GLBT film company Frameline, and the work of Ron Athey, an HIV-positive artist who incorporated ritual body raodification and bloodletting into his performances. Civil libertarians and queer activists reacted with outrage to the encroachment on freedom of expression, but little support came from the straight left or the mainstream arts establishment, because, as Hughes explained, "anxieties about sexuality, the body, and race are not just anxieties of the right, they are anxieties also of downtown artists." After the NEA rejected their request for an appeal in August 1990, the four defunded artists - with the support of the American Civil Liberties Union and the Center for Constitutional Rights - filed a lawsuit in federal court demanding reinstatement of their grants and rescinding of the NEA’s decency provision, arguing that the guidelines were vague and unconstitutional. In 1992, federal district judge Wallace Tashima ruled in their favor; the government, he said, does not have "free rein to impose whatever content restrictions it chooses," since "the right of artists to challenge conventional wisdom and values is a cornerstone of artistic and academic freedom." Four years later, the Ninth Circuit Court upheld Tashima’s ruling. The NEA Four won a settlement reinstating their original grants and awarding legal costs, but the Clinton administration appealed the lower court decision regarding the decency clause. In June 1998, the Supreme Court ruled by a vote of 8 to 1 that Congress has wide latitude to set spending priorities. Wrote Justice Antonin Scalia, "Avant-garde artistes...remain entirely free to epater la bourgeoisie [shock the middle class]; they are merely deprived of the additional satisfaction of having the bourgeoisie taxed to pay for it." However, the sole dissenting justice, David Souter, said that the law carried "a significant power to chill artistic production and display." Mthough the original NEA implementation language stated that it was the government’s proper role "to help create and sustain not only a climate encouraging freedom of thought, imagination, and inquiry, but also the material conditions facilitating the release of this creative talent," the NEA Four case illustrated a shift in public support for the arts. In 1996, Congress cut the agency’s budget from a high of more than $170 million to less then $100 million, and the NEA ceased funding individual performance artists; legislators increased the budget in subsequent years, but never to its former level. Perhaps an even more profound outcome was the chilling effect it had on artists. "There’s enormous commercial pressure to be more mainstream," said Hughes. ’’A lot of the counter-cultural edge has really disappeared." For further reading: Bolton, Richard (editor). 1992. Culture W-ars: Documents from the Recent Controversies in the Arts (Ne~v Press). Brenson, Michael. 2001. Visionaries and Outcasts: The NEA, Congress, and the Place of the Visual Arts in America (New Press). Wallis, Brian, Marianne Weems, and Philip Yenawine (editors). 1999. Art Matters: How the Culture Wars Changed America (Ne~v York University Press). 14 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com EUREI’CA_ SPPdNGS, AR~55 antique dealers from 14 different states will converge on this Ozark town November 17 and 18 for the 19th Annual Eureka Springs Fall Antique Show and Sale. A special Wine & Cheese Preview will be held on Friday, November 16, 5:30-7 p.m. The popular yearly event will be held at the Inn of the Ozarks Convention Center, Hwy. 62 West. This is one of the ldckoffevents for the busy Thanksgiving and Christmas season. Attendees will pay $10 for this first chance at the antiques brought by dealers from around the country. This fee covers all days. Regular show hours on Saturday are 10 am to 6 pm and 10 am to 4 pm on Sunday. Admission price for this event is $ 2.50, good for both days. This well-attended show not only draws dealers from many states, it also brings customers fi’om as many as 23 different states. "By now, most antique lovers around this part of the country know that the third weekend in November and the third weekend in March are devoted to antiques here in Eureka Springs," according to Jane Baker. She and her husband, Dave, are show managers. "This is our 19th fall show and it looks to be better than ever," she added. For more information on the festival, contact Dave or Jane Baker at 479-253-7551 or bakerdj@cox.net. For details on Eureka Springs tourism, call 1-866-947-4387 or go online at www.eurekasprings.org. In Memoriam Michael Shane White 1971 - 2007 TULSA, OK __ Michael Shane White ofTulsa, born July 2, 1971 passed away August !3th, 2007 after a long fight with cancer. He is survived by his partner Jackie Hickey, father Chester and wife Barbara White of Sapulpa. His mother Roxanna Porter of Otdahoma City and sister Stephanie White of Choctaw, OK. Shane enjoyed his friends, family, traveling and tending the garden he and Jackie grew. He especially loved early morning walks in the garden when the roses and hibiscus were in bloom. Shane will be truly missed by his loving family and friends. 8 parts lemon (Absolute is good) 1 teaspoon Grand 1 teaspoon fresh lime Lemon twist Combine liquid ingredients in a cocktail shaker with cracked ice and shake well. Strain into a chilled co£ktail glass and garnish on fwist. ~ ~ www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 15 desired ~ fresh ~pper, ring of raw mp. martini and head chef deveined-can best pper )er powder immediatel4 over medium heat. ice, pepper, paprika, shrimp parsley, rice-bohemio-and a green can in mexican ice jalapeno pep- , Puerto Vallarta see Donald Pile and Ray Williams you besides seein hal ~ndmarks. ay Landmarks? Below is a list ofsome of our favorites: the Greenwich Village in New York was located a 53 Christopher Street. On from an overdose HARVEY M] June she was buried and a wake byher gay" fans at the Stonewall Inn in New York. 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Founded giving ¯ without undermining of a store that Street, a block of the chain bookstores, is: www.oscarwiI- 429 Castro St, in San Francisco (photo ........................Continued n~t page 922, the Castro Theatre is San Francisco’s www.ozarksstar.com prawns served with a mango whittle white dipping sauce, Cherty Cola Caribbean BBQ Ribs, Chicken Satan; Cordon Bleu and a grilled Cornish hen with a orange tequila mad brandy sauce. They also serve t}esh steamed mussels euro style with whittle wine and chicken broth to name a few. ~q~eir grilled red snapper with Spa~> ish rice is to die for. N~ev even serve the best Itali~ meatloaf with twice baked potato this side ofNew York Cib" and Cajun friend chicken, baked ziti pasta and the best veggie burgers in the u,fiverse made ~r0m scratch fbr you vegetarian lovers. Care Bohemio has been written up i~ the New YorkTimes Sunday travel section. It is quite the gay travelers ~nner stop when in Puerto Valtarta. Reservations are re£0mmended on high ~eason Nov-April as they only have 17 tables. You can email as well lbr reservations at ca_febohemio@hotmail, corn or call when in town at 322-t34-2436. Chris and Sol hope to open a Care Bohemio in the near future in fabulous Palm Springs CA, Both are wonderful guys and good friends of ours. We wish them GRF~aiT SUCCESS! by Donald Pile & Ray Williams Featuring Cuisine From Coast to Coast HEMIO, Puerto Val~arta, Mexdco 127 Rodolfb Gomez is located in the roman- ?uerto Vallarta. Mexico, one block from the Dia de los leach axed located next to the San Marino Hotel. It’s locagay bars are located. former owners of the md B in San Francisco 3ened Care Bohemio 5 several years and have San Francisco. Sol is LOS has created a fabulous inmrnational menu with a a~ veiT aflbrdable prices. "Ihey have a popular , hours daily from 5-7 and 11-midnight with 3ecials where drinks are 2 for 1 all N. Schrader Boulevard in Los _Angeles. ~Ihe first gay community center in the country began in 197t, It is the largest gay C0mmunivy center in the United States. iuesoays are tini "thesdays where martinis ¯ long. Wednesdays are also popular with their 2 is served al fresco outdoor dining under a large mango tables complete MASSACHUSETTS SUPreME COURZ John Adams Court[, house, One Pemberton Square in B0S{0n. ~& the debate over marriage continues today, rhh Supreme Judici~ Court of Massachusetts took a big Step by becoming the first State to legalize same-sex marriage in May of 2004. landmar~ and it is a marvelous your bohemian experience is a memorable $10. American dollars - yes you heard Always remember to have fun when traveling, meet new people and ght! and all meals include at no extra cost homemade chips talk to everyone! salsa- a cup of their famous soup of the day and fresh bread. not frozen and all desserts are made on the no pre-mixes 85% of their clients are repeat customers. Some of their dishes include Shrimp Coco Mango, jumbo coconut www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 19 I~orbel, one ofthe Russian River’s top wineries, offers tours oftheproperty and also has a superb gourmet deli that’s perfectforpicking up picnic supplies and light lunches. (Photo by Andrew Collins) chocolates. And Wayne Skata Jewelry & Antiques carries some of the most intriguing decorative items and household gifts around. Nestled in the redwood-shaded western reaches of Sonoma County, the Russian River Valley is one of Northern California’s most relaxing and gay-friendly weekend getaways. Although the area is occasionally ravaged by wintertime floods, it offers cool and typically sunny weather much of the year, especially in summer. The area comprises the towns of Guerneville, Forestville, Monte Rio, and - where the river empties into the Pacific - Jenner. Gay folks have been weekending here for more than three decades, and the area has always been a terrific spot for camping, canoeing, hiking, and simply relaxing amid peaceful and picturesque surroundings. More recently, the eastern reaches of the area have blossomed into a hub of superb wineries. Although a steady influx of well-heeled San Francisco professionals has given the Russian River a slightly more polished sensibility in recent years, Guerneville and its neighboring communities still look and feel unpretentious - even a bit raffish - compared with such swanky Wine Country towns as Healdsburg and Rutherford. This is a spot where flannel shirts and jeans are 20 the STAR as much in vogue as designer wear. Life here moves at a snail’s pace, and that’s how most locals prefer it. The river defines not only the community’s personality but also the region’s geography. It’s a threat, to be sure, but it’s also the reason devotees love the area. Perhaps the leading activities in summer are floating for several miles down the river on inner tubes and embarking on one ofthe popular canoe expeditions offered by Burke’s Canoes. For a spectacular hike, drive a few miles north of town to 800-acre Armstrong \Voods, home to some of the tallest and oldest trees in northern California. Ifyou’re hit with a rainy day, fear not: Downtown Guerneville holds an increasingly intriguing selection of shops. Possibilities include the Five & Dime, with its old-fashioned candy section and offbeat gifts; Stone’s River Feed, a whimsically stocked pet-supplies store; River Reader, a quirky bookshop with a GLBT section; and Kings & Q~eens, which stocks cool vintage threads. At Hemp & Chocolat, you can pick up - you guessed it - hemp clothing and accessories, along with gorgeous handmade Wine-tasting is a top pastime in these parts, and a great way to begin your explorations is by consulting with David DeVries and John Haggard, two knowledgeable and friendly experts on local wine who operate Sophie’s Cellars, a wonderful little wine and cheese shop in Monte Rio. These guys can recommend and make introductions for you at several high-quality, lesser-known vineyards, some that aren’t otherwise open to the public. If you’re out exploring on your own, the best winery-hopping plan is to drive east of Guerneville on River Road. Just outside of town, stop at Korbel Champagne Cellars, which is headquartered in a century-old, creeper-covered brick building. The facility’s Korbel Dell and Microbrewery is a delightful spot to grab lunch - it serves superb panini sandwiches (try the one with salami, Brie, tapenade, roasted peppers, and greens), prepared salads, and fresh-baked sweets, and there’s seating on a !ovely tree-shaded deck. Continue along River Road and make a left onto Westside Road, following this toward Healdsburg. Over the next several miles, you’ll encounter one exceptional winery after another - best bets include Gary Farrell, Porter Creek (amazing pinot noirs), Davis Bynum, Hop Kiln, and Roshambo. Alternatively, explore the wine-growing region south of the river. Fine vineyards in the towns of Forestville, Graton, and Windsor include Joseph Swan, La Crema, DeLoach, Topolos, and Hanna. Many businesses and accommodations in the area distribute free "Russian River Wine Road" brochures and maps, which can help you plot your oenophilic journey - or log on to www.wineroad. com to see the maps there. Where there’s great wine, there’s great food, and Guerneville has gradually improved as a culinary destination in recent years. Charizma Wine Lounge and Dell is a relatively new spot for breakfast, lunch, dinner, wine-tasting, and live jazz some nights. Sophisticated but well-priced options include a baked Petrole sole with mango-jasmine rice, baby beans, and blue mussels, and the smoked-ham and provolone sandwich with .............Continued next page www.ozarksstar.com peach-and-onion barbecue sauce. Cape Fear cafe is another very good lunch source - it’s in a small complex ofhistoric buildings a scenic 15- minute drive south of Guerneville. When it’s a good old-fashioned burger you’re after, drop by gay-owned Bob N’ Boy in downto~vn Guerneville. Chase down your burgers, hot dogs, and fries with Red Hook beer. Grab breakfast, lunch, or an afternoon espresso snack at the Coffee Bazaar, just offthe main drag along Armstrong Woods Road. The sunny little cafe with free Wi-Fi has wonderfully hearty soups and sand~viches, egg dishes, cakes, cookies, and similarly enticing treats. In Forestville, you’ll find a couple ofthe region’s best restaurants, including Mosaic Restaurant and Wine Lounge, which serves first-rate contemporary American fare, and the famed Farmhouse Inn, Restaurant, and Spa, which has garnered all kinds ofawards and kudos for its innovative cuisine. A typically delicious dish here is the plate ofseared pork medallions with caramelized onions, black Mission figs, and parmesan polenta. With dinner out ofthe way, don’t overlook Guerneville’s gay nightlife. Some ofthe restaurants in these parts have lounges or bars popular with the GLBT crowd, and then there are a couple ofself-standing bars. One spot that’s friendly with men and women, old and young, is the Rainbow Cattle Company, a former gambling hall, which draws a genial, outgoing bunch, many ofwhom tumble in after 11 for a nightcap... or two...or seven. Across the street is Club Yamagata, a space that’s gone through a few incarnations over the years and was known until recently as Liquid Sky. It opened in June 2007 as a hip, mixed gay/straight lounge serving everything from fancy sake-infused cocktails to green teas, smoothies, and appetizers. The Asian-themed spot offers a departure from Guerneville’s somewhat predictable scene. Another good bet is the Triple R Bar at the Russian River Resort, xvhich is home to a pool bar, video lounge, and piano cabaret. The live entertainment and several chatty bartenders are sure to keep everybody’s spirits up. The Russian River has a number ofgay-popular accommodations, the most romantic being the posh yet unpretentious Applewood Inn and Restaurant, which is a few minutes’ drive south ofdowntown Guerneville. Half of the elegant rooms are in the main 1922 Mission Revival house; the others are in a newer building done in the same style. All are loaded with antiques and have European down comforters, and many have hot tubs and fireplaces. Applewood also contains the best restaurant in the area, serving such stellar Mediterranean-influenced victuals as braised rabbit with potato gnocchi, bacon, and English peas. Recently purchased by helpful and enthusiastic couple Dana Murphy and Brian Siewert, the former Ridenhour Inn received a top-tobottom makeover in 2006 and has emerged as the dapper Sonoma Orchid. This sunny yellow farmhouse set high on a bluffalong River Road (very near the Westside Road wineries) has a hot tub in back, six guest rooms in the main house, and four more contemporary and private units in a separate cottage (some of these have fireplaces). Welcoming ofkids as well as pets, the Sonoma Orchid is nonetheless a peaceful, romantic hideaway- a terrific addition to the Russian River’s gay-friendly lodging landscape. Other gay-popular accommodations ofnote include the long-running Russian River Resort (aka the Triple R), a highly social spot with clean and comfy motel-style rooms that received a top-notch makeover in 2006. A rustic but neatly maintained compound of 1920s cottages, the pet-friendy Fern Grove is another highly recommended establishment - many of the knotty-pine units have fireplaces. You don’t often find a predominantly gay resort owned by a straight couple, bui the reasonably priced, beautifully situated Highlands Resort is just that. Friendly innkeepers Ken and Lynette, who know all there is to know about the region, operate this rambling 3-acre spread tucked beneath the boughs ofto~vering redwood trees. Accommodations are set in a series ofsecluded, nicely appointed cabins, many of them with fireplaces, refrigerators, and coffeemakers. It’s a peacefu! spot (no TVs or phones in the rooms), and nudity is permitted around the pool and hot tub. When you’re truly looking to get away from it all, this compound, just a five-minute walk up the hill from downtown Guerneville, makes the perfect escape. www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 21 Campaign Memo Lesbian Notions, at the HRC/Logo Democratic candidates’fot~m. After watching the Human Rights Campaign/ Logo presidential forum, I decided a memo to the LGBT handlers, counselors, and advisers to the candidates was in order. Memo to LGBT Candidate Advisers: Thanks for making sure your candidate was at the forum, but I think some of them needed a bit more prep time. I took the liberty of perusing the forum transcripts, and, honestly, each of the candidates needs help with his or her language. In the approximately 15 minutes each candidate had on screen, the actual use of the words lesbian, gay, bisexual, or transgender was at a minimum. Barack Obama said "LGBT" five times, "gays and lesbians" three, added "transgender" once, and said "gay" twice in the same sentence - "they’ve got gay friends, they’ve got gay family members." John Edwards said "lesbian and gay couples" three times, Dennis Kucinich said "gay" once, Bill Richardson said "gay and lesbian" four times, and Hi!lary Clinton said "gay" and "LGBT" one time each. I have to hand it to Mike Gravel though. He referred to "the gays" twice, but used the word "gay" 10 times! It might be old-fashioned of me, but I gauge a candidate’s comfort with our community with her or his ability to actually say the words. It’s one of my litmus tests. You need to prep your candidates better - when they’re addressing an audience filled with lesbians, gays, bisexuals, and transgender people, they need to say the words. In essence, they need to speak directly to us - not use euphemisms, with which the evening’s forum was rife. A few specific, well-placed references to us would have worked wonders for Obama when he spoke somewhat aw~vardly about civil unions. He said, "I am a strong supporter of not a weak version of civil unions, but of a strong version, in which the rights that are conferred at the federal level to persons of- you know, who are part of the same-sex union are compatible." 22 the STAR Now wouldn’t it have been better if the "Rock Star" candidate - as he was referred to at the forum - said the following? "I am a strong supporter of civil unions where all the federal rights, privileges, and responsibilities are conveyed to lesbian and gay couples." Short, sweet, and to the point. Edwards needs to know that it’s OK to say "lesbian and gay youth" or "LGBT youth." It doesn’t mean you’re recruiting for our side. He was eloquent when speaking about the Los Angeles Gay and Lesbian Community Center and the work it does for our homeless youth, but a few references to the specific population he was talking about would have served him well. He pondered "All she needs to do is say "LGBT" or "le.sbian and gay" a tew more times, and more of us will be eating out of her hand, thanking her for the crumbs while she consumes the cake." that "without that place [the LA Center], where would these - where would these young people go?" How much stronger, how much more emotional would it have been if he said, "Where would our LGBT youth go?" Edwards also needs a little help saying "transgender" and "transition." In answering a question regarding Susan Stanton, the transgender city manager of Largo, Fla., who lost her job after transitioning, Edwards couldn’t say "transgender." He talked about "going through what they’re going through." When referring back to the question during his closing remarks, he spoke of Stanton’s firing as a case of discrimination based on sexual orientation - wrong! She was fired because of gender identity. All I can say about Kucinich is that if he really wants to be taken seriously, he’s got to tone down the love! Sure, he’s great on our issues, supports same-sex marriage and everything else we want. He may be "evolved," as the forum’s emcee, Margaret Carlson, suggested, but honestly he sounded like a flake - not someone who is presidential. Didn’t anyone prep Richardson at all? We appreciate his record - his calling a special session just to get a domestic-partner bill passed (which didn’t happen). But to not understand a simple question on whether or not being gay is a choice is just politically stupid. His take on "don’t ask, don’t tell," however, was good. "When you have an America that is asking men and women to fight and die, the last thing you need to do is give them a lecture on sexual orientation." Right you are. And then there was Clinton - as slick and smooth as ever. Her answer about opposing same-sex marriage was brilliant: "Well, I prefer to think of it as being very positive about civil unions." She’s taken a cue from Bill - triangulate, triangulate, triangulate. She’s put her own spin on the issue of civil unions, leaving anyone who disagrees with her on it looking like the odd person out. All she needs to do is say "LGBT" or "lesbian and gay" a fe,v more times, and more of us will be eating out of her hand, thanking her for the crumbs while she consumes the cake. Then there’s Gravel. Too bad he’s not electable. He had the LGBT rhetoric down, but it was a little strange when he kept referring to "the gays" who support him - the gays in New York, the gays in San Francisco, the gays in Alaska. I found his honesty about the political scene refreshing and wish he hadn’t left elected office some 25 years ago. We need him in the Senate now more than ever. So there you have it. There may not be another national forum on LGBT issues in the 2008 election, but there will be plenty of opportunities to get your candidates talking the talk so that one of them can walk the walk to the Capitol on January 20, 2009. www.ozarksstar.corn BOB LEMON INTERVIEW CONT. BOB: I think it’s just that they were brought up that way, and I think that young people today are much less anti-gay than people of my generation. Much of the hate was fueled by tactics such as those used by Karl Rove and the Bush administration, and by anti-gay state questions on ballots during the 2004 elections that were designed to elect conservatives. People like me, straight but not narrow, need to support organizations such as Cimarron Alliance, P-Flag and other groups. This are more straight people involved now. That’s a good trend and I love it. I say this to straight people who believe in democracy, equality and ful! rights for the gay community, come out of your closets! They need to proudly and publicly show themselves as supporters. Someday we will see a mass shift of public opinion. VICTOR: What about the upcoming Oklahoma County Commissioner Race for District One? BOB: I think we need to support Willa Johnson September 11, I believe she would fulfill that office in the Roth tradition. When he held that office, Jim Roth did many wonderful things for Oklahoma County and the GLBT community. He’s a fine public servant, and I’ll be disappointed ifI don’t see him be a governor or president someday. VICTOR: I don’t think you’ll be disappointed. Overall are you optimistic about 2008? BOB: Very optimistic. If our opponents attempt to put wedge issues on the ballot such as gay marriage or other gay rights issues to further their causes I don’t think it will work, or at least not as well, because people are becoming more reasonable and fair minded. My hat is off to the Jim Roths and Al McAffreys out there, because they are paving the way for a better future. Fair minded people, along with the gay community need to keep up their efforts helping good candidates and encouraging good voters. VICTOR: Well, thanks for sharing with us, and we can’t thank you enough for all you’ve done and all that we know you’ll do. It will always inspire our community to do better. BOOM BOOM ROOM MAY BE DOOMED. LAGUNA BEACH, CA In less than three weeks, venerable Laguna Beach, Calif., gay club the Boom Boom Room will shut its doors forever unless a buyer comes to its rescue. The property’s ownm; Steven Udvar-Hazy, and the operators of the Boom Boom Room and the adjoining Coast Inn were apparently unable to reach an agreement to keep the bar, restaurant and hotel open beyond the coming Labor Day weekend, according to an open letter from preservation group Save the Boom! Udvar-Hazy wants to demolish the property to make way for a larger hotel. Save the Boom! is campaigning to find a buyer who will keep the 60-year-old establishment afloat. The group began its campaign in 2006, gathering 6,000 signatures in three months to preserve the gay institution. A nearby Laguna gay landmark, the Woody’s on the Beach restaurant, closed in February. (The Advocate) www.ozarksstar.com Jim Roth receives Hero ofHope _Award from the Cathedral of Hope UCC By Victor Gorin OKLAHOMA CITY, OK __ Oklahoma Corperation Commisioner Jim Roth received the 2007 Hero of Hope Award from Oklahoma City’s Cathedral of Hope UCC Church, an award given for commitment, hardwork and dedication towards a better future for the GLBT community. As the Reverend Scott Jones put it, "Jim received the award because in his very person he embodies the breaking of barriers and creating new possibilities for the future." He was elected in 2002 as an openl~ gay ,nan to the office of Oklahoma County Commissioner District 1, and then reelected in 2006, recognized for outstanding performance in that position. He left that seat this year, appointed by Governor Brad Henry to fill a vacated position on the Oklahoma Corporation Commission. Oommuni y Peop ÷ iving with V!A DS Our House, Too offers a variety of activities for people who are HIV+ and or living with A!DS to help combat the social isolation that many of our people live through each and everyday. We provide a Toiletry and Household Pantry for those who are HtV+ and or living with AIDS who cannot afford to purchase these items for themselves, We invite anyone:who would like to volunteer or provide financial assistance to please contact us by phone 918-585-9552 or e-mail harrismmjr@yahoo,com. The STAR 23 ntrospection is defined as an examination of one’s own feelings and thoughts according to the Merriam Webster Dictionary. Introspection can lead you to better understand yourself and ultimately to achieve greater happiness. This greater happiness can help you follow the yellow brick road to better health. I will present dozens of questions for you to contemplate. Get ready to challenge yourself to a smorgasbord of self-discovery. For best results, I recommend you answer honestly Pinocchio. What is the angriest moment you have ever experienced? Are you more of a voyeur or an exhibitionist? What person do you trust the most? When do you feel most relaxed? Whit whom have you had the best sex? What has been your proudest moment? What is your greatest fear? What have you always wanted to do but haven’t? Where did you experience your greatest happiness? When did you last lie? What are your pet peeves? Who are you most intimidated by? Have you ever considered suicide? What part of your body would you like to replace? When did you first feel sexual? Whom have you most wanted to hurt? Have you ever driven your car naked? Who would you want as your guardian angel? Whom do you secretly admire? What was the happiest year of your life? What bad habit do you enjoy the most? What is the largest amount of money you have found? When was the last time you dreamed you were falling? What is the most expensive car you have driven? What movie character do you most resemble? Would you like to live in the future or the past? Have you ever watched someone die in person? What photograph of you is most revealing? Who is most jealous of you? What secret will you take to your grave? What is the longest span you’ve gone without sex? How do you want to die? Who has influenced you the most? What is your earliest childhood memory? \re’hen did you last cry during a movie? These questions should be .just the beginning. Sit down and make a bigger list if you’d like. Knowledge is power. The more you know about yourself, the better equipped you’ll be to go out and face the world. Introspection is just like a massage or a relaxing spell in the hot tub. You’ll feel like a million bucks after this exercise. It is free and you have not a dime to lose. Question #1 is waiting for you in the lobby. Good luck! This column is brought to you by that guy Ron Blake who has been known to urinate on his shirt and then wrap it around his head to stay coo! when he is out of water and stranded in the desert. Learn more about the little bugger at www.goblakefitness.com. 26 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com KELLY &JACQ ELINE CARTER SCOTT TWO LIVES UNITED MIDWEST CITY, OK __ Kelly and Jacqueline Carter Scott exchanged vows at their Holy Union held on August 11, 2007 at a friend’s home in Midwest City. "l-here were 82 people in attendance with their friends and family. The wedding was conducted by the Reverend Toby Jenkins with Ekklesia Church ofTulsa, followed by feasting, fellowship and fun dancing under the stars with DJ Victorola. Xhey will reside in Oklahoma City. Jacqueline is an RN working with Integris Hospital, and Kelly is the Director ofAdministration for the Center for Positive Change, an OKC mental health facility. STONE\VALL ENDORSES WILLA JOHNSON FOR DISTRICT 1. OKLAHOMA CITY, OK P/R__ The executive committee of Oklahoma Stonewall Democrats voted unanimously on Friday August 17th, to endorie Willa Johnson, the Democratic Party nominee for Oklahoma County Commissioner, District 1. With the endorsement, Stonewall also appropriated $500 for a donation to her campaign fund. "Willa has been a steadfast supporter of human rights and ofLGBT issues throughout her years on the Oklahoma City Council, and has pledged to continue that support if elected to the county level," said Steve VanHook, male co-chair of Oklahoma Stonewall. "We urge the entire LGBT community of Oklahoma County to support Willa with donations and volunteer work during this very short campaign, regardless of party affiliation. She will be facing a Republican opponent who already has an established record of homophobia and bigotry toward the LGBT community. We owe it to ourselves to help Willa’s campaign as much as possible," VanHook said. Oklahoma Stonewall is one of over 90 chapters and affiliated dubs of National Stonewall Democrats, and is a recognized federation within the Oklahoma Democratic Party. Quotable Quotes A study by South African sdentists said Wednesday there was no evidence that foods such as garlic and beetroot were a substitute for AIDS medicine, disputing claims by the country’s health minister. An Idaho inmate who castrated herselfwith a disposable razor blade after prison officials refused to treat her for gender identity disorder should have female hormone therapy paid for by the state, a federal judge said. Dr. Robert G. Crummie, a volunteer "Doctor of the Day" in Raleigh, is in trouble for more than urging electric shock therapy for gay people. Cimarron A!liance Foundation Awarded Capacity Building Grant P/R August 22, 2007 OKI.__AHOMA CITY, OK __ The Oklahoma City Community Foundation (OCCF) has awarded a grant to the Cimarron Alliance Foundation (CAF) to support the hiring of a consultant to create a fundraising and financial development plan. The grant presentation is scheduled 10:00 am this Saturday August 25th, 2007 prior to a financial development board retreat funded by this generous grant. Gayle Farley, OCCF Program Coordinator will present the grant to CAF chair, Richard Ogden, and the CAF Board of Directors. The Oklahoma City Community Foundation, the metropolitan area’s non-profit public charity, was founded in 1969 to work with individuals to meet the charitable needs of the community through development and administration of permanent endowment funds for non-profit organizations and other charities. Through its Community Program Grants, the OCCF funds, initiates and leads programs that benefit the community in the area of arts, education, health and human services, beautification and community development. The Cimarron Alliance Foundation, an Oklahoma non-profit educational foundation, was created in 1997 to support equality toward "A Fair and Just Oklahoma’. Cimarron has heightened its fundraising efforts to support a series of educational and charitable programs aimed at promoting fairness and impartiality to all people. The CAF Mission : "To support educational efforts that increase personal self-esteem, promote public enlightenment and advanced equality for LGBT Oklahomans". For further information about these organizations visit: http://www.occf.org or http://www.cimarronalliance.org www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 27 Mars in Gemini is loosening lips, and, squaring Uranus, he will have us all blurting out things we’ll wish we hadn’t! Keep your ears open and your mouth shut - or otherwise occupied. Venus is in Leo, so taking pride in taste and discretion can save you lots of trouble. ARIES (March 20 -April 19): To avoid blurting out secrets and betraying trust, let it all be about you! Hold the spotlight and dazzle your friends with your charm and playfulness. If you do get time alone, some creative writing and journaling can offer surprising insights. TAURUS (April 20 - May 20): Resisting the impulse to spend can be hard, but stay within a budget. Friends will egg you on to some fabulous purchase that you’ll regret. What would Mother say? In this case, she’d probably be right. GEMINI (May 21 - June 20): Your mouth is even more dangerous than usual. Whether you want it or not, you have the ear of bosses and authorities. Running your ideas by a sister first will help you make them more presentable. SAG~TTARIUS (November 22 - December 20): Arguments, especially at home, are likely to go badly for you. Artistic and literary diversions will help keep you out of trouble. Those from the lands of your family background can provide surprising insights. CAPRICORN (December 21 - January 19): Showing off and learning new sexual techniques can prove very educational for all involved. But are you communicating anything in your love-making besides physical prowess? Take time out to talk about real intimacy, not just erotic gymnastics. AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): What you value in your relationships cannot be sufficiently expressed with money and gifts. Efforts to do so now will just prove awkward and expensive. A gesture of affection - a hug, a kiss, or a kind word - is still best. PISCES (February 19 - March 19): You’re full of surprises even you don’t know about. Conversations with your family can expose talents that will prove helpful at work. Be sure to discuss family medical history. What you learn now could save you lots of grief. CANCER (June 21 - July 22): Occupy your mind to keep your mouth out of trouble. Visit museums and art-house films, and keep the discussion impersonal, discussing aesthetics instead of mutual acquaintances. Whatever you say will be heard far and wide! LEO (July 23 - August 22): Talking about sex could actually keep you out of trouble, as then you won’t be gossiping about friends. Even better than discussing sex, continue your research on different techniques and styles~ You’ll have plenty of opportunity! VIRGO (August 23 - September 22): Your partner will quickly tire of your complaints about work, and your workplace is no place to kvetch about your love life! Hiding out could be your best bet, even with your partner exploring nonverbal communication. LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): You can enjoy great popularity now, either for your savage wit or for your valuable community service. The latter will also offer you surprising inspirations. SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): OK, you’re hot; we all know you’re hot; and worst of all, you know you’re hot. Now relax and try to have fun without needing to prove anything. You can’t play anyone else’s instrument while you’re tooting your own horn. 28 the STAR MCC METROPOLITAN COMMUNITY CHURCHES Rev Steve 3". Uric Spirit of Christ MCC 2902 E 20th Street Joplin, MO 64804 417-529-8480 Worship Saturdays at 10:00 AM Community Meal Wednesdays at 6:00 PM MCC of the Living Spring 17 Elk Street Eureka Springs, AR 72632 479-253-9337 Worship Sundays at 6:00 PM Have a God filled and BleSSed Day! ~wvw.ozarksstar.com Arkansas, Bentonville/Rogers (479) NWA GLBT Ctr .... www.nwaglbtcc.org.........888-391-9222 Barnes & Noble Bks - - 261 N. 46th St., Rogers- - - -479-636-2002 Arkansas, Eureka Springs (479) Diversity Pride Events www.diversitypride.com A Byrd’s Eye View..... 36 N. 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Memorial- 918-660-0856 Yellow-Brick-Rd....... 2630 E. 15th.......... 918-293-0304 Keller Will~ams Realty Ch~ck Breckenridge Whether buying or selling I’ll work hard for you. ~Arkansas GLBT Community Center "Li"nki"ng Togethe~"as One" For more information: 888-391-9222 WWW.NWAGLBTCC.ORG 3O the STAR www.ozarksstar.com www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 31 Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2007] The Star Magazine, September 1, 2007; Volume 4, Issue 9 Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource September 01, 2007 Subject The topic of the resource Politics, education, and social conversation over LGBTQ+ topics Description An account of the resource The Star Magazine’s first issue began February of 2005. 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Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data magazine Text Any textual data included in the document Delivering Quality; Affordability, 'ue, Integrity and Trust in Advertising Service. THE !TfS YOUR COMMUNITY, WE DELIVER ITl, AUGUST 2005 VOLUME 2, ISSUE 8 FREE Page 2 L tingand .on a" nd" Ml,S Scott C.row, Managing Broker McGraw Davisson Stewart, Realtors 1-866-527-7755 Grand Lake, Oklahoma. ScottCrow.rfic:grawok.com Tulsa Oklahoma City Little Rock . Fayetteville- } · Fort Smith .... )'..] springfi~icf ., · · Joplin Kansas Ci Witchita Page 3 Fire Destroys Gay Bar. When a friend suffers a loss we feel that loss ourselves and want to reach out and do something to help ease the pain. Such is the feeling we at the STAR have for Kelly Crissman and his staff at Studio 716 in Fayetteville. On Saturday July 16th during the early morning hours Studio 716 was· broken -into and set fire by an· arson. The Club was a total loss. Crissman said the investigation had ruled out ii#e·•crime as a motive. He and investigatotJ 0slispect the arson may have been a disgrifo.tled exemployee and would not .i:Oriiment further on that possibility. • "The building owner pilμlS to rebuild the space and Studio 716 \Vilh:eopen in the same location bigger aifd ;better than before, we aren't sure abqilt,the time. frame for the reopening. y, take months for construction .. ·. . efurbishing the club" said Crissman.. . ... · Studio 716 had been iri: btisiiiess for over 2 years and was F~yett~e's only gay club. .· .. Kelly Crissman, a big!} .erpfil~ leader in the Fayetteville q.1;~;:tc't1~niunity was the major sponsor of the dities··2nd annual Gay Pride Events ancl Pai;lde this .year. With NW Arkansas's struggle with gay rights and homopl:iobia in the area, Crissman has be~n a voke and activist in efforts to unite riot only the GLBT community but the main stream population as well. We applaud Kelly and his su for making a difference in our .. .. . nit-y and look forward to a new Studib 716. C.D. Ward/Editor HISTORIC CHURCH RESOLUTION EMBRACES ALL FAMILIES 'The United Church of Christ is sending a powerful and historic message that all families should be loved and cherished,' said HR C President Joe Solmonese July 4, 2005 WASHINGTON - The General Synod of the 1.3 million member United Church of Christ today approved a historic resolution endorsing marriage equality for same-sex couples at its biennial meeting in Atlanta. Approval of the resolution makes the United Church of Christ the largest Christian denomination to endorse marriage for same- sex couples. The Human Rights Campaign's new Director of Religion and Faith Programs, Harry Knox, a United Church of Christ member was in Atlanta for the vote. Human Rights Campaign President Joe Solmonese made the following statement today: " The United Church of Christ is sending a powerful and historic message that all families should be loved and cherished. The United Church of Christ took an important step forward today. Its call for full equality in all spheres of American life will be remembered and honored by future generations. The marriage resolution is a beacon to millions of people of faith worldwide that &milies are strengthened with love but weakened by discrimination. While marriage equality under the law should never impress houses of worship into recognizing unions between same-sex couples, we hope more and more peopie of faith demonstrate important values of understanding and fair-mindedness." Marriage in Canada A bill granting full marriage equality to same-sex couples in Canada became law on July 20, 2005. Marriage licenses are now available to same-sex couples nationwide. Since marriage laws in Canada do not have residency requirements, same-sex couples who travel from the United States to Canada could also get married there. Canadian marriage for U.S. couples. It is unclear whether the U.S. government will recognize the legitimacy of Canadian marriages between same-sex couples who return to the United States and try to exercise their rights, such as filing joint income taxes or claiming Social Security survivor benefits. The Human Rights Campaign suggests checking with an attorney to get legal advice about your situation before deciding to marry in Canada. Couples should also read the marriage advisory issued by the leading gay, lesbian, bisexual and ttansgender legal organizations on this topic. Legal requirements. Io British Columbia, Newfoundland & Labrador, Nova Scotia, Ontario and · Yukon Territory, applicants .for a marriage license must be 19 or older. In Alberta, Manitoba, New Brunswick, Prince Edward Island, Quebec and Saskatchewan, they must be 18 or older. In Manitoba, Saskatchewan and Yukon Territory, there is a mandatory 24-hour waiting period between when the marriage license is issued and when the ceremony can be performed. Quebec has a 20-day waiting period, while Nova Scotia has a five-day waiting period. Newfoundland & Labrador have a fourday waiting period between the application and the issuance of the license and an additional four-day waiting period between the issuance of the license and the marriage. There is a one-year residency requirement for divorce in Canada, so couples thinking about getting married there should take that into consideration. Page 6 AUGUST 2005 by Andrew Collins "Magical Retreats of the Southwest" When you're choosing a romantic place to stay in the rugged Southwest, where you're ~ever far from sweeping desert or mountain vistas, it's ~ometimes .hard. to dec:de wheth.e_r to ;hoose a room with a dazzling interior, or one with a dazzling view. Ot course,. 1t _YOU re lucky, you'll find a charming place to stay that offers plenty of dazzle :ns1de and out. Here's a sdecticin of gay-friendly country inns and ranches located 1n some of the Southwest's most breathtakingly beautiful areas, from the red-rock terrain around Moab, Ut:lh, and Sedona, Ariz., to the verdant countryside of the Texas Hill Country, to the evergreen-studded mountafos of northern New Mexico. All of the accommodations mentioned welcome a mixed gay/straight clientele, and a few are lesbian- or gay-owned. El Portal - Sedona, Arizona . Nestled amid the spectacular red-rock canyons, buttes, and mesas of Sedona, about two hours north of Phoenix and two hours south of the Grand Canyon, El Portal which. opened in summer 2003 - has quickly earned a reputation as one of .the premier small lodgings in the Southwest. What sets this elegant 12-room_ property ap,ar.t from other new constructions is the care that owners Steve and C:onrue . , .afic10naaos of Arts and €rafts design, took to build El Portal exactly in period s . . The Arts and Crafts movement which flourished around the tum of the 20th century, emphasized fine ctaft;manship, clean lines, organic furnishin~ arid archite:tu~e, and natural materials: This intimate gem of a hotel features reclaimed oak and Jumper bearils, Utah river rocks, art nouveau stained glass, and actual Tiffany, Roycroft, and Stickley furnishings. . . Stylish though it is, El Portal is a low-keyed place where guests mingle each . evening over complimentary wine and hors d'oeuvres in the ho~ey lobby. Food, m fact, is a big part of any visit here - a full breakfast, where you . might sample blueberry buttermilk pancakes with blueberry-cinnamon compote an~ coconut butter, is included. And an elaborate prix-fixe dinner ~$45 per person) ts served on Saturday nights, presented to the sound of live classicai guitar musi_c. . Rooms are oversized and indrvidually decorated; most have ternfic views of. the red-rock mountains nearby, and many have firepiaces and private patios. Modern amenities include flat-screen TVs, DVD players, and high-speed Internet. Guests also have use of the gym, pool, and spa at the luxury Los Abrigados ~esort, which. is just next door. A rarity among small, posh retrears: El Portal Sedona 1s pet-foendiy. Lodge at Creekside - Wimberley, Texas . _ .. · little Wimberiey mav not be especially famous outside ot Texas, but thls picturesque village in th:, he~~ o! Hill Country ha,s a lot going for i:, incI,u~ing a lush setting on the Blanco River. In !ess than an hour s dnve from Austill ana ~an Antonio, has a bounty of art galleries and charming boutiques, and is close to gte2t. rafting, hiking., swimming, and fishing. It's also close to one of the state's most scenic Page 7 Out of Town drives, the so-called Devil's Backbone (Hwy. 32), a winding ridge-top road offering brilliant vistas of the rolling countryside. This popular arts enclave is also home to one of the state's most charming gayfriendly country inns, the Lodge at Creekside, an upscale 6-acre compound consisting of eight nattily furnished cabins, a two-room suite, and a threebedroom house; all units are outfitted with jetted tubs and wood-burning stoves. A big, hearty breakfast is served in the main dining rooms, but there's a much more romantic option: your breakfast delivered right to your cabin in the morning, packed inside a charming wicker basket (the lodge also serves gourmet dinners by prior arrangement). This place may be rustic, but it's definitely not without modern conveniences - cabins have private phones, VCRs, microwaves and refrigerators, and wireless high-speed Internet. Outdoorsy types enjoy the property's location along crystal-clear Cypress Creek, a lovely spot to dip your toes in the water. Culture vultures like that it's onlv a quarter-mile walk to Wimberley's quaint town square, where you'll find cafes, shops, Wimberley Glassworks (where .you can see talented glass blowers at work and buy their artful finished creations), and the Corral Outdoor Theater, which shows movies all summer long. Mayor's House B&B - Moab, Utah A hub of mountain-biking, hiking, outdoor photography, and off-road driving, Moab is also the closest town to stunning Arches and Canyonlands national parks, both of which are famous for their fantastic red-rock formations. The town of about 6,000 residents lies a little more than four hours southeast of Salt Lake City, seven hours northeast of Las Vegas, seven hours northwest of Albuquerque, and six hours west of Denver. Although it's in a relatively rural part of conservative Utah, the townis also comparatively progressive and quite gay-friendly. . . . The Mavor's House B&B, whtch 1s gay-owned, ;its on the east edge of town, within walking distance of several restaurants and shops. The pace at this casual and contemporary five-room inn is ~low and easy, and there are several cheery spots where guests can relax and mingle, including a large, open gatheri~g room and an expansive deck surroundmg a big swimming pool. Rates here start at just $80, for t..he cozy but pleasant J\1iner's Room, but even the huge Master Suite - with its own private entrance off the main deck is a fine value at $130 nightly. Friends traveling together can also book the Bunkhouse, an 1,100-square-foot cottage that can sleep up to eight guests; it has a kitchenette, large-screen TV, and DVD player. Rancho de San Juan• Espanola, New Mexico Although this supremely elegant hideaway is technically located in rather mundane Espanola, it's actually a good 10 miles north of the downtown area, set at the foot of Black Mesa, in the Ojo Caliente River Valley. It's within easy driving distance of Abiquiu's magnificent red-rock cliffs, which so inspired Georgia O'Keeffe. Northern New Mex:ic~'s artistic and cultural hubs, Santa Fe and Taos, are also each within an hour's drive. This completely secluded mini-resort, New Mexico's only member of the prestigious Relais & Chateaux hotel group, sits along a 225-acre spread and consists of 17 posh casitas and suites. Many rooms have kiva (beehive-shaped) fireplaces, which are typical of New Mexico adobe houses. The Black Mesa Suite has French doors opening onto a private patio, and the Buena Vista Suite has a massive bay window affording astounding views of the Jemez Mountains. Although Rancho de San Juan is a good distance from most dining options, the inn has its own exceptional prix-fu::e restaurant, serving outstanding contemporary American fare. The restaurant is open to nonguests, too, bv advance reservation. Guests can also opt f~r in-suite spa services, wirh options ranging from Swedish massage to an herbal mineral bath. One of the most unusual draws here is an intricatelv carved sandstone shrine up a short trail behind the property. Buiit into a cliff, the shrine consists of several cathedralinspired chambers with v:.ulted ceilings and tall windows - it's a wonderful place to catch your bi:eatn and admire the stunning New Mexico countryside. continued page-28 Page 8 NATIONAL ISSUES CONTINUED: International Marriage Rights Canada. A bill granting full marriage equality to same-sex couples in Canada ~ecame law on July 20, 2005. Marriage licenses are now available to same-sex couples nationwide. Belgium. Belgium, which passed its law Jan. 30, 2003, recognizes same-sex couples equally in tax, inheritance and other marriage benefits but stops short of allowing same-sex married couples to adopt children together. The law stipulates that only couples from countries that allow same-sex marriages can be married under the law. The Netherlands. The Netherlands ' which in 2001 became the first country to extend marriage rights to same-sex • couples, gives such couples exactly the same rights as heterosexual couples, including in tax, inheritance and adoption rights. The law requires that at least one member of the couple be a Dutch national or live in the Netherlands. Spain. The Spanish Parliament approved legis~ation on June 29, 2005 legalizing marnage for same-sex couples in the country. Under the law, gay and lesbian parents would also be permitted to adopt children. The law went into effect on July 3, 2005. OREGON SENATE TAKES HISTORIC STEP TOW ARD EQUALITY "Simple fairness means the same rights, protections and responsibilities for everyone," said HRC President Joe Solmonese WASHINGTON - The Oregon Senate made history today by passing SB 1000 - a bill that would grant critical rights and protections to same-sex coupies and their children as well as ban discrimination against gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender people. "Simple fairness means the same rights, protections and responsibilities for everyone," said HRC President Joe Solmonese. "By passing this import-ant legislation, the Oregon Senate has said that every family needs the same rights and protections and that no one should face discrimination simply because of who they are. These are American values that should be enshrined in our laws." HRC is working closely with Basic Rights Oregon - the statewide GLBT advocacy group - on a coordinated grassroots strategy for the passage of the civil union and anti-discrimination bill. This effort has included on-the-ground staff support and generating constituent contacts to legislators. "The Senate's historic vote today reflects the values of an overwhelming majority of Oregonians who believe that discrimination against gay and lesbian people and their families is wrong," said Roey Thorpe, executive director of Basic Rights Oregon. "Now is the time for Oregon to take this historic vote one step further by not only condemning discrimination, but prohibiting it in the law." The bill will now move to the House where a "reciprocal benefits" bill has been introduced that only grants a· few rights to couples and does not address discrimination protections tnat are a critical part of SB1000. "Fair-minded leaders must ensure that protections are not Handed out piecemeal," said Solmonese. "Given Nike's historic support; Gov. Kulongoski's steadfast backing, and endorsements from business and religious leaders from across the state, the legislature should hasten the passage of SB1000." Oregon voters passed a constitutional amendment in November exclU:ding same-sex couples from marriage, but did not deal with the issue of civil unions. "Supporters of the amendment argued that the legisiature should consider civil. unions for same-sex couples," said Solmonese. "It is time for them to make good on their word." Page 9 NATIONAL ISSUES CONTINUED: MCC Responds To Religiously-Inspired Anti-Gay Stabbing Attack At Jerusalem Gay Pride Event From: The Reverend Dr .. Troy D. Perry Moderator, Metropolitan Community Churches July 5, 2005 Along with people around the world, I am horrified at the religiously-inspired attack that injured three marchers in Jerusalem's Gay Pride Parade. This violent incident is yet another reminder that homophobia in our world is often motivated by religious intolerance and religious fundamentalism. The attacker who stabbed the marchers was quoted as saying, "I came to murder in the name of God." It is worth noting that this attack did not happen in a vacuum. Jewish, Christian and Muslim religious fundamentalists both in Israel and the U.S. have carried out an unrelenting months-long campaign to vilify and demonize gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender people. They have attempted to impose their narrow religious views at the expense of the basic human rights of LGBT people. I call upon Israeli authorities to investigate beyond the lone attacker. Religious leaders .who have misused their spiritual authority to inspire violence and hatred against LGBT people must.be held accountable for theii; role in fomenting and inciting this incident. I am deeply saddened that anti-gay religious leaders have twisted a positive spiritual message of love for God's diverse creation into a hate-filled message far removed from the deep, genuine spirituality of faith, hope and love for all of God's creation. Today, I join with people of goodwill around the globe in sending my prayers to the three victims of this horrific attach, and to the LGBT community in Jerusalem, whose parade of love, pride, and equality was met with.hatred and ·violence. I call upon all faith communities to reject negative spirituality that demonizes those who are different and that invariably leads t0 division and pain, and to redouble our prayers for an end to homophobia in our world REV. PERRY'S FAREWELL SERMON HIGHLIGHTS MINISTRY THAT POSITIVELY CHANGED LIVES 'Reverend Perry's ministry has healed and brought hope to countless souls,' said HR.C's Harry Knox. WASHINGTON - As the Rev. Elder Troy Perry, moderator of the Universal Fellowship of Metropolitan Community Churches, preaches his final sermon as moderator this evening, the Human Rights Campaign expressed gratitude for the reverend's ministry. Perry will give the sermon to the denomination's 2005 General Conference in Calgary, Alberta, Canada. "Reverend Perry's ministry has healed and brought hope to countless souls," said Harry Knox, director of the HRC Foundation Religion and Faith Program. "It's appropriate that his triumphal last message of hope to the denomination he - founded will be delivered at the same time Canada celebrates marriage equality. Troy and the UFMCC were pioneers in the work to bring equal rights to samesex couples and have worked tirelessly to see it become a realitv. When Revere~d Perry started the chu;ch in 1968, he broke ground that is bearing glorious fruit today. His was the first voice I ever heard proclaiming God's unconditional love for lesbian, gay, bisexual and rransgender Christians like me. Reverend Perry laid down the foundation for the work we are all doing now to amplify the voices of clergy and lay people who believe in justice for LGBT folks. Mav his retirement be as rich and rewardin'g for him as his gifts of ministry have been for others." - ... a Labo . · LE· ·... Page 11 Watch For Dur Neat Liue Concert COM I NG SOON! Page 12 ,.• Dolt t! For GLBTs & PPLAGs Eurell11 Springs, Arllansas '\:,,'• ,,,,' ,,".,, , H.!i»" 4, 5 & 6 FALL DIVERSITY WEEKEND ,',,,\ "'; • ,•✓ Boys Can Sing SopranQ, ,<says Genal?rPAC ~Texas Mlisic AsJociatiori. Plav~ the Same Old Tune: Discriminati~n~ WASHINGTON DC, Ouly 7,2005) Mikliael Rawls, a rising Texas high school. senior, won't be performing before music college recruiters next school year. He won't even have the chance to audition for an elite ensemble of Texas high school singers. The Texas Music Educators Association eliminated tl:μs possibility for Rawls when they rejected his audition request: for a soprano position, which is traditionally a girls' part. "The Texas music association is denying this young man of his right ro equal opportunity to try out for the choir and develop his musical talents. And it's not because he. doesn't sing well - it's because he is a boy," said Riki Wilchins, Executive Director of Gender Public Advocacy Coalition (Gender PAC). The music association began prohibiting boys from singing soprano or alto, and girls from tenor or bass two years ago, according to the local · television news station, KXAS-TV. The association, which claims to offer quality musical experiences for students and to cultivate universal appreciation and lifetime involvement in music, has taken a step backward by denying Rawls the chance to capitalize on his strengths and talents. Rawls, who sings in an octave and a half higher than most boys his ag~, has earned several distinctions for his singing including first place as a soprano in the University Interscholastic r.eague's competition for two consecQtive years. He hopes to pursue a joint 'degree in vocal performance and liberal arts from the New England Conservatory and Harvard University after high school graduation. Rawls often a part called . wiis ; popular wonienwe group~:l'.t vias: · , when times until an it about 60 years ago. tdaay men can be found singing coui:ttert,enor in music schools across. the countrv. . " , "., "Music education, like all education. should be about helping young people - realize their full poteriti:il and achieve their dreams. Discrimination against male or female students is just plain wrong," said Lindsay Bond, · GenderPAC's Youth Program Coordinator. The Gender Public Advocacy Coalition (GenderPAC) works to end discrimination and violence caused by gender stereotypes. Visit us at www.gpac.org contact: 202-462-6610 Page 13 Serving our community in Missouri, Arkansas, Oklahoma, Illinois & Colorado This Is Shelter Country. Here in our community you will find Shelter Agent Greg Tainter. We're proud to serve this community and our customers. Call codav and ask about our services. Auto -Home - Life Business Greg W. 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Memorial, Tulsa "' (918) 836-2480 21 ANDOVER a ONEDRINKMINIMUMD CLOSEDTUESDAYDWWW.ENDUPCLUB.COM -: i: :'· . ,. 405-478-4009 • 6725 N. Miramar Blvd. Okla City, OK 73111 Rodney Burgamy www.c21goldc:astJe.oom 405.840.2106 Joe Brennan It's official: We're homeowners,; Well, almost official. Our settl~fueridiite ; and the big move is about a month away, but everything is looking good. It's all happened so quickly my head .is still spinning. Our own.home .... It's a big step - put ohe mC>te, ap.d more same-sex couples · ·· · · · According to the 2000 64% of gay couples owned houses. up from 52% in 1990. However, compared to the straight world, that number is si:ill a bit low: 78% of heterosexual married couples own homes. "Discrimination may be one factor in that, but vou could think of other reasons ;hy that might occur," said Gary J. Gates, a research associate at the Pooulation Studies Center of the Urban ln;titute in Washington, D.C. Gays and lesbians tend to live in more urban areas where housing costs are higher and rental properties are more available. That's not to discount discrimination. An HRC article on homeownership reports that many gay couples have faced discrimination while shopping for a home - and Federal law offors no protection. The Fair Housing Act (fitle VIII of the Civil Rights Act of 1968) prohibits discrimination in the sale, rental, financing of, or other housingrelated transactions based on race, color, national origin, religion, sex, family status, or disability, but it does not protect against discrimination based on sexual orientation or gender identity. This discrimination could take several forms. Some couples were turned down for housing simply because they were gay. Others have been told they cannot put both partners' names on a homeowner's insurance policy, which is important to do if both partners share ownership of the home. And still other couples have been discriminated against when filing a claim as some insurance companies have attempted to refuse claims or cancel policies on the grounds that the owners are •~unrelated." · · While there are no Federal· protections, fourteen states. artd the y.Dfatrict bf Columbia have paisel:lliws that provide civil rights protections including protection from discrimination in housing for gay, lesbian, and bisexual people. They are California, Connecticut, Hawaii, Maryland, Massachusetts, Minnesota, Nevada, New . hii: . . :0, oil dtid Wisconsin. df those, only California, Minnesota, New Mexico and Rhode Island include protection for transgender . peopie. It1 a~<#;ioli, ther~ .·ru:~ .?:1P:~.~'l:han · 240:local, ·thaep;oJi,ibtt· of these also der ck-'with vour local go . i~formation. Even if you',refortui:~te enough to live in one of these states or municipalities, you'm.a'fnot be protected from all forms of discrimination. For example, while Maryland prohibits discrimination in housing, gay couples still face an unfair transfer and recordation tax. This past legislative session, a bill was passed that would have eliminated what is called the "gay tax" on homeownership by exempting · committed same-sex couples from .the taxes involved in transferring the title of a home owned bv one member of a couple into both· members' names. The Republican governor, Robert Ehrlich, ........... Continued next page Page 19 HEART TO HEART vetoed the bill, along with another that ,vould have created a statewide a registry of life partners granting eleven rights dealing with health care and end-of-life arrangement~, most of ,vhich cannot be achieved through ac!Yance direcri,-e, power of attorney, or will. But what if, like Jon and I, you decide to make the leap to homeownership in the face of discrimination. What should you be looking for? #1: Gay or Gay-friendly Realtor Your first step will be to find a gay or gay-friendly iealtor. You want someone who will understand vour circumstances and lifescyle. This may be easier than you think, th;nks to the s~rvices of online · referral services like GayRealEstate.com or HomeLounge.com. Our agent, while straight, was not narrow. He treated· us like any other young couple searching for their first home. #2: Your Dream House Once you have a realtor, be sure to tell him or her exactly what you are looking for. Don't be afraid to be specific, but also be realistic. If you have a list of twenty things you're looking for in a house, what are the chances of finding one with all twenty? You may have to decide what vou can and can't live without. For' instance, Jon and I wanted an older, two-story house with a big backyard for entertaining, preferably in the councrv. Unfortunatelv, there wasn't much that ,fit that description that fell within our price range. When we were shown the house we ended up making an offer on, it was perfect except for the fact that it wasn't in the country. We decided tl1at the gorgeous hardwood floors outweighed the in-town setting. #3: Location, Location, Location Wbe1, \'OU find a house vou like, be sure to lo<;k into the location: Will it be a safe area for a gay couple to live in? Get a crime report from the police department (or online if it's available). Talk to your potential neighbors. Educate yourself about the area. More and more gay couples are moving out of traditionally gay neighborhoods. We were a little wary of the area our house was located in ... until we talked to the neighbors. A fifteen minute conversation with the lady next door really eased our minds. #4: Protection Once you've found the right home in the right neighborhood, don't forget to get the right protections. There is much complicated, additional legal work required to ensure the survivorship rights of both partners in the event of breakup or death. I know, this isn't what you want to be thinking about in the midst of such a joyous occasion, but you need to plan ahead for all possibilities. In addition to certain title provisions, other legal documents may be needed. Be sure to consult an agent experienced in such areas, or find a good attorney knowledgeable in LGBT law. Now that all that's out of the way, it's time to stare planning your housewarming party. Be sure to im·ite everyone you know. You get more presents that way. 124:N. Boston - ·Tulsa, OK - 918.584.9494 Thu-sday Nights .., Rachael Erlkks - MGA 2004 &nc::lay Ni~ts - Catla Lee Love - MG)\ 2000 1!11trsday and Sunday - 18 to enter; 21 :to drink . Friday andSaturday DanceParty- 21 to enter 9 p till 2 a .;, Ulu'-sdav - SUnday nights Sunday Ni~ come enjoy tie anlcs of Caia Lee lave, Molcaa Monroe, Kandy Kain, Iman Seal ..t guests. Thuraday Nighls Racheal Emks 10ail'S it up for a pork chop on Talent Search Tharsday•s. Cengraeulalions to T abilha Taylor - Mss Day Oklahoma America 201Jj Page 21 omentics Author's Scott & Scott Scott was scoping the boys on the dance floor. Scott was looking for friends that fortunately never showed up. One glance led to another, and soon they were shouting over the booming sounds of the latest dance remi.""t. "Scott'' "What? I'm Scott'' "Scott" "What?" "Vodka tonic." "No! What? Me, too!" And we found even more things in common: Fireplaces and red wine. Mountains and lakes and sunrises over the ocean. A cup of coffee and a morning full of writing. It was a good start, and now a few years later, we're still together. Prom our place in Boston to California wine country, from St. Croix to Bourbon Sttcet to Key West. We've been all over, weathered a .few storms, and come away convinced othet gay men share our love for romance. And we want to share .it with you. A common name. A common dttam. A common love. That's what Romentics is all about. .. .......... continued pagt.•29 Page 22 ast Out by Liz Highleyman AUGUST 2005 Summary : Past Out is a retrospective of key moments, personalities, and subjects in LGBT history. Each installment brings the past to life by exploring the diversity of the gay past and its impact on the queer present. July 1865 (140 years ago this month): Military surgeon Dr. James "Miranda" Barry dies in London, England. Who was Dr. James "Miranda'' Barry? Dr. James Barry was a celebrated military surgeon and medical reformer whose sex and gender identity ,vere the subject of much specuiarion both during his life and after his death. To this day. it is not known whether Barry was a cransgender man, a person with an intersex condition, or a woman who cross-dressed in order to follow her dreams. Barry is thought co have been born around 1795, but little is known about the exact circumstances of his birth and early life. Even his original name is uncertain; some researchers believe it was Miranda Stuart or Margaret Bulkley. Barry is said to have been raised by a single mother and supported by a circle of bohemians and radicals who were friends of his uncle, the Irisn painter James Barry. Among chem were the Earl of Buchan (David Erskine), an early proponent of women's rights, and the Venezuelan revolutionary General Francisco de Miranda, who encouraged Barry to dress as a boy and enro;I at ~he University of Edinburgh IVfcdical Schooi as a young teenager. Barry graduated in l 812; today, he is regarded by many as che first woman e,·er to h"\-c rccei\·ed a unin:rsity medical degree. He then did an apprenticeship in London with renowned phvsician Sir Astley Cooper. Despite having a delicate phvsiguc and being barely five feet mil, Barry joined the British Army around 1813 as a hospital assistant. He served in several oyerseas posts, arriving in Cape Tuwn, Sonth Africa (then a British coiony), around 1816. Though he often bucked his superiors as he sought to improve local health conditions, he quickly rose through the ranks and was named medical inspector. He became known for his talent as a surgeon, and is credited with performing the first successful Cesarean section using modern Western techniques. With his delicate features, red-dyed hair, flamboyant outfits, and high-heeled shoes, Barry developed a reputation as a dandy. Writer Charles Dickens once described him as "uniciue in appearance and eccentric in manner," while another contemporary said he was "completely devoid of all the outward signs of manly Yiriiity." Among his peculiar habirs, it was noted that Barry would only undress in complete privacy. He also became known for his short temper and lack of diplomacy. While his quarrelsome manner frequently got him into trouble, Barry usually escaped serious consequences due to his medicai skills and his friendships with higher-ups. Although flirtatious with the ladies, Barry was rumored co be homosexual, and he fought at least one duel to defend his honor. Around 1820, Barry entered into a close relationship - and quite likely a love affair - with Cape Town Governor Lord Charles Somerset. The two were accused of llOdomy, after which the governor was recalled to London and the young doctor temporarily left the cape for parts unknown - some say to conceal a pregnancy, although another theory holds that Barry lived briefly as a woman with Somerset in Britain. · Barry resurfaced in South Africa, where he remained until 1828. He then went on co serve in several island posts, including Mauritius, Jamaica, St. Helena, ti1e West Indies, Malta, a:1d Corfu. It i~ rumored that once, while Barry was suffering from yellow fever, a doctor discovered his birth sex, b~c Barry swore him to secrecy. In 1857, Barry - by now promoted to continued next page: Page 23 Inspector General of Army Hospitais was posted to Canada, a move he disliked due to the cold climate. Two years 'later, after a bout of influenza, he was pressured into retirement and returned to London, accompanied as usual by his Jamaican manservant and a poodle named Psyche. Barry died in London during a dysentery epidemic in July 1865. Although he had asked to be "buried in his bed sheets without further inspection," a nurse or maid preparing the body dairned Bariy was a .woman and had stretch• marks indicating a past pregnancy. 14:is. ,8octor, however; said he thought Barry might be "an imperfectly developed man," .Aftet his death, Barry's sex continued to provoke controversy. An article in the A .... · :!Z~· . ,2lJ.d:. . it had bvious all along that Barry was a woman: "the physique, absence of hair, the voice, all pointed in one way, and the petulance of temper, the unreasoning impulsiveness, the fondness for pets were in the same dii: ";And 81 in '.baiJ.cet~ an bla. .. • . . encl/ of ·Bliri:y's said he > nev~'-~'c:if"tlie5is}ight~st suspicion of h~r sex."·. :, . .. · . 1'{qtc •t han(ir c,eo:tizj, later,; :Baa:j's •.. "reil'.' sex: remains a .tiiystcfy'. Bu,t, asks Harvard literature professor Marjorie Garber, "If a person lives hi.a or her life. consistently undet a gc:ncle,r'ili~ntiiy' .• different froth. tjut rey:i;al,.~d 1# ·.· •. . ... . anatomicaFfu:spectioti after·death; what is the force of that 'reality'?" For farther reading: . Holmes, Rachel. 2003. _Scanty Particulars:. The Scandalous Life and Astonishing Secret of Queen Victoria's Most Eminent Military Doctor_ (Random House). Rose, ]:one. -1977. _The .Perfect Gentleman: The Remarkable Llfe of Dr. James Miranda Barry_ (Hutchinson). · Spain's first gay ma. e. Two Spanish men have become the first gay couple to be married since a new law allowing same-sex marriages. July 11, 2005 MADRID_ Emilio Menendez, a Spaniard, and Carlos Baturin German, from the US, tied the knot at a ceremony ju~t outsfde Madrid . ':r'he-co1.1f?le,have bs~ . . er fqr.30 years • . •. .. • . O .. • C • • • • 'saicl: "Today :we 'are even niore a family." Spain)s yt~_:third E}lfbJ>e~ m.tion, after the Netherlands. a0<f,Belgium, to legalise samc:~:sc:x marriages.' ':fhe law allo~s ~y couples to adopt children. The wedding ceremony in the town o; Tre_s .C::~ti)s ~~· 11. fa'911y friends and 'journalists . 11 as Pedro Zerolo, the governing Socialist Party's top official for social issues. State television showed footage of the couple smiling and displaying their wedding · Spain's lower house of plirliafuf'.nt yoted)n favour of the bill 60 30}llile, •• ~.ove~g its rejectjon by.the.upper ::?~~i;sE::~. •,° J:Vd"a"k the · ¥adrid:raD:y:;~s~ the l>ilPl5~~a.it was um on !luJ!iiul to. th~ ~Ji. Jiliego. ~ m2gazine Btiiz, May 13. · Page 24 _Libby Post is the founding chair of the Empire State Pride Agenda and a political commentator on public radio, on the Web, and in print media. OK, I admit it. Lesbian Notions by Libby Post AUGUST 2005 Bye, Bye B.I ?• When I saw the "Gay, Straight or Lying? Bisexuality Revisited" headline in _The New York Times_, my die-hard "how-could-awoman- who-has-experienced-the-wonder-ofmaking- love-with-another-woman-ever-goback- to-men" dyke heart skipped a beat. But then, seconds later, liberal guilt set in and I read the article. The reporter, Benedict Carey, writes about a new joint study from Northwestern University and Toronto's Center for Addiction and Mental Health that "casts doubt on whether true bisexuality exists, at least in men." Described as "the largest of several small reports" (are the researchers having a "size" problem here?), the study used a tiny test group of 101 young adult men whose sexual identity roughly broke down in thirds 33 said they were bi, 30 said they were straight, and 38 said they were gay. A penile plethysmograph, also known as a PPG in the sex research world, was used to measure "genital arousal patterns in response to sexual images of men and women.". The article didn't detail how the PPG was attached - I'll leave that to your active imaginations. Wl:iat thej found, however, was that, as expected, the straight guys got it up for the images of women, and the gay guys did the same for men. The unexpected finding was that three-quarters of the self-identified bi guys responded only to the images of men. And from these results the conclusion was made that bisexuality, at least ·in men, does not really exist. Now, the response to. the article, the headline in particular, has been vociferous. Tue _Times_ has. been flooded with. letters to the editor tanging from: scientific to sarcastic. . . . . . . . . ·. Stanford biology professor Dr. Joan Roughgarden:wrote, "In the 300 or more known vertebrate sp'c::cies with natural homosexuality, all combine heterosexual with homosexual relations. Humans are. not likely to differ in this. regard ... 11he data in the article show that 20 percent of the pool having ·s.lUDl!-'SCX relatiqns do identify as bisexual. These people surely aren't all lying. Instead, ·psychologists should add a fourth possibility to their list: namely, that they are wrong.'' Catherine Gaffney from that city of brotherly love,· Philadelphia, wrote, "If our sexual preference were best detected by who [sic] we look at in pornography, wouldn't pretty much everyone be attracted to mildly unattractive peopie who live on the West Coast, and lack acting talent?" (I wonder if there will be an organized response from adult film makers to this one.) The Gay and Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation (GLAAD) and the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force (NGLTF) have both galvanized their forces. GLAAD found the headline to be sensationalistic and derogatory. They even asked the _Times_ to change the header on their online edition. The answer was no. GLAAD wants folks to write more letters fo the editor. NGLTF's Matt Foreman was "stunned that _The New York Times_ Science section would carry such a .shoddy, sensationalistic and downright insulting story" that equates sexual orientation with sexual arousal. The article "defames the truth in the lives and loves of millions of bisexual men. The Times should be ashamed." A .................. continued next page - - Page 25 plethora of information regarding bisexuality, the study's inaccuracies, and suggested action can be found at www.ngltf.org. While the die-hard dyke heart says one thing, the rational thought process that inhibits my brain suggests that, absent all the sex-role stereotyping that permeates our society, we'd probably break down on the following scale - 10 percent of us would be either exclusively hetero or homo (that includes us lesbians), and the rest of us would revel in sexual fluidity. Clearly, our culture is anything but devoid of sex-role stereotypes and the presumption of heterosexism, so this isn't likely to happen. But the question that really concerns me is not whether bisexuality exists but why there isn't a stronger, independent bisexual movement with political clout of its own. The messages of bisexuals and transfolks can get lost and overlooked when we're all included under the ubiquitous LGBT political umbrella. I understand that while some of the issues that bisexuals face are the same for lesbians and gays, some are different. I understand that the transgender community must grapple with both sexual and gender orientation. But I also understand political reality and how too many messages crowd each other out. Just look at John Kerry's failed bid for president. With a smorsgasbord of "messages," his campaign never had a dear and coherent one. What happened? He lost. While each of our singular communities has its own organizations, perhaps those of us with greater resources can help those who don't. It is vital to work in coalition when the issue calls for it and to maintain our singular identities. Wouldn't it be more effective if each of us - the lesbian and gay community, the bisexual community, and the transgendcr community - had our own strong political identity, so that when we do work together we truly are greater than the sum of our parts? If this were the case, -_The New Yark Times_ might never have equated bisexuality with lying . 1 /STH PAGE CLASSIFIED AD SPACE NOW AVAILABLE IN THE STAR CALL F"CR RATES 91 B.B35.7B87 or email: ozarksstar@sbcglobal.net Delivering Quality, Value, Integrity and Trust in Advertising Service. 1 /BTH PAGE CLASSIFIED AD SPACE NOW AVAILABLE IN THE STAR CALL F"CR RATES 91 B.B35.78B7 or email: ozarksstar@sbcglobal.net Delivering Quality, Value, Integrity and Trust in Advertising Service. 1 /BTH PAGE CLASSIFIED AD SPACE NOW AVAILABLE IN THE STAR CALL F"CR RATES 91B.B35.78B7 or email: ozarksstar@sbcglobal.net Delivering Quality, Value, Integrity and Trust in Advertising Service. Page26 Dear uncle: Ask Uncle Mikey Advice Column! AUGUST 2005 Well Kittens, Welcome back to Uncles comer in Queerdom. Uncle exhaustively rejoins you from the thirtv twioks of pride. Another season of bringing lo,;e to the masses. Uncle is proud to say not only did he manage better than some twinks I could mention However, went on to give the big bang of the season on the fourth. While eyes were glued to . the skv this Fourth of July, let:i™s just say that uncle ~as enjoying another big bang, and what a bang it was. I think I will give that boy five stars kittens. I am so over sex. I have been dating several men for a few months. Not one of them is a good lay, and I am beginning to think sex is just hype. I mean is there no one out there that can keep up with me? · Looking for more Dearest Looking: . . Well, well, well, look at you Kitten. Fully loaded with ~11 the a_ccessories lt seems. You know, maybe you are right. My advice darling; move mto a single flat,_ and h~ve at it. Since yo.; obviously have way too much skill for Queerdom, do the right thmgGo do yourself. Smooches uncle Mikey Hey Mike: . . How do you know if someone is truly in love when love JS nothing more th:t11 _an agreement? I mean it is not an actual condition. People fool themselves mto believmg they love someone until it goes bad, than it gets ugly. 'Why bother. True to one Dear True: . Utilizing my years of experience, I detect that you are a betrayed lesbian finding hers~f bitter. Uncle has been around the block sister; now close the mouth, as you know I am right. Love is a beautiful thing in which the lucky inhibitor of loves embrace finds joys untold. True love can conquer all, as long as you have the right equipment. Uncle s~~sts that you _forget about tl:ie wicker furniture she stole and move on with it already. Chalk 1t up to experience and open your heart, before you find yourself sitting at a table for one, in the romance department. Smooches-uncle Mikey . . Well, what in Chers name is going on out there? I think the heat J~ gettmg t? the inhibitors of Queerdom. Come on Kittens, put on a happy face. and !f you can t, well drink until you can. You are ruining a perfectly good b~zz, I have g?mg on over here. Suck it up already. No~ you delicious, I was speaking to my ,K1~tens. ?ue:tuncle should not use the v01ce type anymore, as the boy could ha.re nurt hims ..... t lunging for it as he did. Dear Uncle: . . I am having issues with my panner of twenty years. He is acting as if life Is over. He never wants to see our friends, go out and in honesty, have sex anymore. He puts around the house, aod garden, acting as if life does not ~:rists an~more. I a~ not ready to quit. I want to travel, and spend our retired years haVJng fun. He acts as 1f we are already in the ground. What do I do? Concerned partner Dearest CP: ............ continued next page Page27 Kitten, you know the obvious here, as checking for depression, seeking outside help to ensure the health of your partner's mental health. However, I suspect that this is not what you seek from uncle. Therefore, here is uncles advice. Hire a Greek God! Find yourself the most delectable houseboy you can find, insisting that he wear only a Gstriog to work. Go on living and if he chooses to be a sour puss than let him to it. However, I am sure once he sees that you do not care to join him in his ways, he will rethink this and find himself out of the gray mist, which he has landed. Be strong, and makes sure that the houseboy wears a generous coating of oil. What? I was speaking of Skin protection Kitten. Smooches-Uncle Mikey Kittens as partners, the worst thing we can do is join our loved one in their pity of despair. As harsh as it may sound, sometimes they need to be reminded that life will move forward. If they choose not to join in, they may lose out. Tough love kitten. It is the best gift you can give someone suffering from the pity party syndrome. Allow them to realize their folly and than welcome, them back into the game of life. However, if they suffer from serious depression or some other mental health issue. Seek: professional intervention, and offer them support. Love is a two way street, and you should support them through the good and the bad. Besides, you can always go out after visiting hours Kittens snicker, snicker I am a bad boy, somebody should spank me. Well Kittens, that about wraps up this edition of the queer life with your humble guide. I must take my leave once more and make ready for this evenings a.ffa.k As Uncle sees the end of pride tricks, he is reminded all good things must end. Remember this as you make your way out there in Queerdom. The right lube can make the difference between Twiok-a-licious, and Twink:-a-sore-ass Smooches Uncle Mikey and Tiddles too! Unck M,leey is 11. chitr11.cter from FrttLsn« writer Mich.ul Hinzm,m. Michael h,u Mn 'Writingfor ten ye,frs. Utilizing bis muiies, 11.nd lift experience to bdp others in bis community, through humor 11.nd so#nd itdwce. Mic1Md. 4J!Plied bis stlldy of prycbology 11nd cmitfoe UTriting, itS t«JJ bis c:tmsifJt! b,,degro"nd in mental be,f/ti, Dim:t ure to bring 11. neu, styk 11.nd llf!PTO,u;h to helping others. Michael's other worlts un be 1Jie-wed at fl1fl1'Cll.g,rylinkcontent.com. The Tulsa GLBT Community Center "A VISIBLE PRESENCE" The Tulsa Gay, Lesbian, Bi & Traosgender (GLBT) Community Center is a home for our community. It's very presence is a visible reminder to Tulsans of the important role GLBT individuals, families and friends play in our community. Inside the center the wildly popular David Bohnett CyberCenter with 10 flat-panel workstations outfitted with the latest technology allows you to surf the web, finish that school paper or chat with friends across the nation. The Nancy McDonald Rainbow Library has over 3,000 titles for you to check-out and over 300 FREE movies. The "Family" Room has PlayStation 2 and board games or sit back, relax and watch 1V on a large screen TV complete with Showtime, HBO and more. The Tulsa GLBT Community Center is the place to meet friends, make new friends and get involved with your community. The Tulsa GI.BT Community Center is located in mid-town at 5545 E 41 st Street in Highland Plaza. Regular hours are: Tuesday - Thursday: 6:00 · PM Friday & Saturday: 3:00 PM Sundays: 8:30 PM - 10:00 PM 9:00 PM 9:00 PM Quotable Quotes "Bush hates press conferences because he can't speak extemporaneously and can't form a complete sentence without mashing up the language like a 5-ycar-old on Ritalin and can't express a nuaoced multifaceted idea to save his life aod somewhere deep down in his bowels, he knows it, and he knows we know it, aod it makes him mumble and stutter and secretly pray every moment to his angry righteous God he could be somewhere else, anywhere else, like sittin' on the back porch in Te:xas eatin' ribs and dreamin' 'bout baseball." - SFGate.com columnist Mark Morford, June 3. Page 28 The Little Black Book El Portal (95 Portal La., Sedona, AZ, 928-203-9405 or 800-313-0017, www .innsedona.com). Lodge at Creekside (310 Mill Race Ln., Wimberley, TX, 512-847-8922 or 800- 267-3925, www.acountryinn.com). Mayor's House B&B (505 Rosetree La., Moitb, 435-259-6015 or 888-791-2345, www.mayorshouse.com). Rancho de San Juan (U.S. 285, 10 miles north of Espanola, 505-753-6818, www.ranchodesanjuan.com). Fort Smi_th's Oldest Gay Bar Has New Owner. Press Release July 5, 2005 FORT SMITH, AR_ Western Arkansas oldest gay club, Kinkeads Fort Smith has changed ownership and plans many new, exciting feature's in the months ahead. "Kinkeads served it's first drink 11 years ago and has slowly transformed into the show and dance bar it is today", said new owner Andy Osburn. Currently some of the regular events include wet boxer short contests, Show Cast Troupe entertainment from professionals, Miss Up & Coming a monthly talent search for drag want-a-be's, Kickin Karaoke a weekly entertaining event. Osburn, a native eastern Oklahoman began as a dancer in Tulsa's Club Top's. He later worked with a dance group "Male Order Revue" and clubs throughout Oklahoma and the U.S. Andy is a graduate of the University of Oklahoma and maintains his other career working with his family in real estate deveiopment. Kinkeads, located downtown Fort Smith, 1004 1/2 Garrison and is open Tues-Fri 6pm to 1am, Sat 6pm to 12rnidnight. For more information vi5it the website: v.rww.kirbykinkeads.com Ten signs you are dating a Drama Queen1111 ■ By Michael Hinzman 10) When you go out, he insists that you drop him in front of the destination, so that he may make his grand entrance ... 9) He refers to you as his stalker. 8) His prep work for an outing could give "Tammy-Faye" a run for her money. 7) You leave the man for seconds only ,;hen upon your return; you find him sobbing to the cute bartender; how he was abandoned by love. 6) He has two yippee dogs named Muffy and Princess. 5) He insists on referring to your member to his friends as -Thor. .. God of Love. 4) He insists "Queer eye" was his idea. 3) When an ex-lover savs hello at the club, he calls you a slut while speed dialing his pack of queens.(fhat are standing not ten feet away) 2) He refers to his dinner parties as a production. (Directors chair included on set) Au'd the number one way you can tell you are dating a drama queen; After sex, he insists you complete a scorecard, complete with a grading curve ... Quotable Quotes "Texam ha·:e made a decision about marriage, and if there is some other state that h;.s a more lenient -.;iew than Texas then maybe that's a better place for them [gays] to live." Texas Gov. Rick Perry as he signed a resolution to amend the Texas Constitution to ban same-sex marriages, at Calvary Christan Academy in Fort Wo.rch, June 5. Voters are expected to approve the amendment in November. Page 29 Scott & Scott Continued TIS GAYROMANCE LINE Press Release: Boston-based Romentics announced the June 15 publication of "Hot Sauce" by Warner Books. "Hot Sauce" is the latest in the Romentics series of Harlequin-style romance novels for gay men-and the first gay romance published by a major publisher. On June 12, 2005, the NY Times Magazine featured Romentics in a multi-page article that hailed Romentics in these terms: This Oz is a brave new world of the gay male romance novel, a world where there are never cowards, only condoms; each of the heroes · · · · · · has a brain, even if it takes until the end of the story fur one of them to use · it; and the abs, if not tin, most likely resemble iron. . "Romehtics is• the first line o(gay romance novels: and 'Hot Sauce;· is the first-ever samesex marriage novel-that's one big happily ever after," said Romentics author Scott Whittier. 'We're proud to join forces with Warner Books to give gay men worldwide the chance to read, and dream, about true love." "Gay marriage here in Massachusetts is a major victory," added co-author Scott Pomfret, "but writing about it in another great American institution-the romance novel-is a cultural victory that crosses stllte borders." "Entertaining, effervescent ... [Hot Sauce] is fan, fast-moving, fairy tale stombuilt for the softhearted gay bea Publishers Weekly "Romentics are nor your mother's romance novels," continued Pomfret. " 'Hot Sauce' is a romance with testosterone-more action, fights, sex scenes, hunky heroes and gay drama. Romentics are for today's contemporary gay man." Set in Boston, "Hot Sauce" is a romantic romp between celebrity chef Brad Drake and the impossibly handsome fashion designer and club impresario Troy Boston. Even as Brad and Troy consider tying the knot, their romance threatens to come unraveled at the hands of Troy's old flame, bleachblond pretty boy Aria Shakespeare. When the action turns red-hot and tempers flare, it takes a wild ride from Boston's high society to the Bermuda triangle and back to keep the passions burning. Is it a recipe for romance or a recipe for disaster? Scott&Scott wrote the book on gay romanceliterally. Founded in Boston in · 2003 at the height of the debate over same-sex marriage in Massachusetts and dubbed "the new romantics" by the Boston · Globe, Romentics '.has brought together for the :first time the :number-one ,market for paperback fiction (romance) and the buying power of the lucrative gay market. Indeed, Romentics authors Pomfret and Whittier are real-life lovers, whose own tale could fill the pages of a romance novel. From out of the closet to all the unique elements of gay cuiture, Romencics follows a not-so-straight path to happily ever after. For info on all the Romentics novels, contact Scott&Scott (http:/ /www.romentics.com) Page32 American and Whispered Gay Resolve in Iraq Political Commentary By: Matthew V eritas Tsien It can probably be assumed that most gay people are opposed the War on Terror because most gays are Democrats; although one out of four gay voters are consistently Republican and election analysis of national campaigns in the past 25 years show that a gay crossover vote will once or twice a decade result in the GOP getting solidly over 40 percent of the aggregate gay vote, thus splitting our community's vote (Whenever the GOP gets over 40 percent of the gay vote, gay editors and activists never want to admit it, but I digress). " Over the past several months many gay readers of my column have written to me from across the country saying we shouldn't be concerned about democracy and freedom in the Middle East because all of these Arab states are homophobic. But to some gays that may be one of the very reasons why we would be willing to fight for democracy and pluralism in the Middle East. Do we not .care about persecuted Ar;ib and I;lainic gays as we promulgate the faulty Vietnam analogy? Here in South Florida the gay electorate is overwhelmingly anti-war and often seer:ri's to be hoping for the worst even at the expense of the young American soldiers who defend our freedom: to .be expressive about our gayness and pursue domestic goals that would expand our rights to be included in the mainstream of' American society. Such anti-war gays are foolish and ungrateful .to o.ur y.oung soidiers. Many oppose the War on Tertor because :Mr. Bush concludes that state legislatures rather than the courts should determine the legality of gay marriage. Yet such an anti-war stance is not likely to expand our universe of supporters for gay marriage if we are seen as a community that wants to undermine the war effort. While gays seem to oppose Mr. Bush on the war by a 3-1 margin, I found in my conversations prior to the 2004 election day that with enough disarming coaxing you can get gays to admit in whispered tones that they supported Mr. Bush primarily because of his actions in guiding the war and his response to 9-11. As I used to say to people, "Bush is going to get the "whisper vote in the gay community"; and sure enough Mr. Bush did get over one million gay people to vote for him in 2004 just as he did in 2000 according to exit polls done by the New York Times. And there is no guarantee that all gay voters will be attracted to a Democratic Party whose lawyers and activists seem more concerned about the rights of prisoner of war terrorists and Saddam Hussein, not to mention illegal immigrants and career criminals, as · opposed to the rights of ordinary citizens. Since the gay community is not universally tied to one party the following piece of news will likely appeal to pro-war gays who support Mr. Bush and British Prime Minister Tony Blair. Bad news hit Abu Musab al Zarqawi on June 28. Most Americans, it -seems, want to keep U.S. forces in Iraq until civil order is. restored, whico 62 percent believe won't happen for several years. A significailt. majority. even want to increase the size of the U.S. presence or keep it about the same. With the Iraq war in its third year ...:_ and with America having been in a state of war since October 2001 - this new Washington Post-ABC poll is an encouraging indication about the patience and resolve of the American people. The past few weeks have seen politicians and pundits cherry picking whichever bad poll seems to serve their political ends. And they can easily do it again with this one. For example, the poll found that most Americans do not believe the Bush administration's claims that the insurgency is losing. In fact, what a majority of Americans (53 ......... continued next page Page 33 percent) do believe, according to the poll, is that the power of rhe insurgency is staying about the same (and 22 percent say it's weaker). Critics may also point to the finding that a bare majority of Americans (51 percent) consider the Iraq war to be a mistake, even though the very same poll found that 52 percent believe it has contributed to the longterm safety of the United States (a 5- point increase since early June). Every single one of these findings can top the headline of a newspaper, only to lea,e readers \Vith a distorted view of what's really going on. (Gay publishers of weeklies promote the same distortion in their community). Pollster Gerry Daly, who runs the Web site dalythoughts.com, makes an important observation regarding how phrasing a question can yield different results. He compares a recent Gallup poll, which found that a majority of Americans (51 percent) believe the United States should set a timerable for removing troops from Iraq, to the PostABC poll, which found that 58 percent of Americans believe we should keep our forces there until civil order is restored. Either can be used to support a particular side of the debate, but what do they actually say about the American people? Mr. Daly thinks the public has yet to form a coherent opinion of the question of troop pullout and that the "political battle is· still winnable for either side." That sounds about right. It's important to note, however, that the Post-ABC poll included the phrase "even if [keeping U.S. Forces in Iraq] means continued U.S. military casualties." That's essentially the heart of the matter, and 60 percent of Americans are still committed to victorv. Progress in Iraq ~ continue to wax and wane, as we rightly mourn each new casualty. But, underneath it all, Americans seem prepared to see the war to a successful conclusion and among those Americans are more gay people than the Gay Left would want to admit. Gay editors, publishers and activists do a disservice to our young soldiers and gay patriotic citizens when they suppress or ridicule knowledge or ___ expression of support of the war by gay people and try to portray the gay community as monolithically opposed to Mr. B:ish and the War on Terror, and even portray George W. Bush as an international terrorist. Matthew Veritas Tsien Florida Gold Coast Log Cabin Republicans '0e writer is a former Air Force Captain at Tm~er AFB, Oklahoma and Director of Presuient Ronald Reagan's lobbying organization in Washington, D. C. He also taught political science at Tulsa junior College and served on the Tulsa County Human Rights Commission during 1986- 87. The Pink Triangle The Pink Triangle was used by the Nazis to signify homosexuals. Although, homosexuals were only one of the groups targeted for extermination, it is unfortunately, the group that history often excludes .. The Pink Triangle defies anyone to deny history. In 1935 Hitler revised the German Law, Paragraph 175, prohibiting homosexualiry, by including kissing, embracing, and gay fantasies as well as sexual acrs. Convicted offenders- an estimated 25,000 from 1937 to 1939, were sent to prison and later transferred to concentration camps. They were to be sterilized, most often by castration. Hitler changed his policy on homosexuality to include death in 1942. A yellow Star of David under a superimposed Pink Triangle represented Gay Jewish prisoners- by the social hierarchy, the lowest of all prisoners. Seo es by Jack Fertig AUGUST 2005 ''Play doctor, Pisces!" Mercury retrograding past the Sun in Leo is so Norma Desmond: arrogant miscommunications, plans gone awry, and that great line, ''We didn't need words. We had faces!" Neptune opposes them, feedin:g confusion. Jupiter and Venus offer some harmony, but in weaker aspects. You may charm your way out of trouble, with some effort. Don't schedule anything too tightly, and be ready to forgive screw-ups you may need such mercy yourselfl ARIES (Much 20 - April 19): Right now you can't win at anything, but don't let that stop you from playing for funsies. Well, you could be lucky in love, especially at a gym or a spa, if you can, manage to be humble and self-critical. TAURUS (April 20 - May 20): Domestic squabbles feed worries about. your reputation and opportunities for advancement. One has nothing to do with the other, unless you make it a selffulfilling prophecy. Artsy-crafts~ activities help you keep perspective. GEMINI (May 21 - June 20): Stay home and have fun with family or close friends. Going out and expressing your opinions will just get you into trouble. If_ you really need adventure, get a forctgn or surrealist film, perhaps one by Cocteau or Jodorowsky. CANCER (June 21 - July 22): Erotic adventures beckon, but will lead to trouble. Keeping bu,y around your home and .in the community will offer better opportunities for fun and provide helpful perspectives on crirrent money troubles. LEO OuJ.y 2~ - August ~: Be modest and sclf.,.ef&cing. Well, do your best. Expect.rude sw:priscs from your p:umer. Your big mouth. could orily make 1t worse. If you need to get something off your chest. write it as poetry and share it with a friend. VIRGO (August 23 September 22): Your dreams should be especially interesting now and may even offer lucrative inspirations. Minor illnesses could be warnings of far worse ahead - unless you nip them in the bud. Nothing's too small to merit looking into! LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): Doing good is its own reward, but charity performed now will earn all kinds of extra points. If that's why you're doing it, your motivation will be called into question, so be sure to do something that your heart is really into. SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): Involve colleagues in efforts to reorganize at work. This may seem to create problems, but actually will uncover already existing problems. Your boss may need some extra convincing, so have your evidence ready! SAGITIARIUS (November 22 - December 20): Apologies and selfcorrection will actually help you shine at work. Despite a bit of confusion in the short run, the humility and honesty of the process will earn you great respect. CAPRICORN (December 21 - January 19): Watch out for power struggles at work. Your natural · flair for analyzing such games will help you unravel nasty little schemes and appear heroic in your solutions. Erotic temptations carry hidden costs. Don't let your libido hijack your brain! AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): One would expect arguments to diminish sexual passions, but nowadays your love of debate could land you in thrilling situations! Yield points in intellectual combat, and you could win on the field of love. PISCES (February 19 - Mardi 19): Pay close attention to your health. Moderate exercise - review and revise your routines! - and spas are helpful. Meditation is especially good for you now. If you don't need a doctor, play doctor! Jack Fertig has b«n working as a professional 11Strologer since 1977 and is a fo1mding member of the Assocwtion for Astrological Networking. You can find copies of the STA.Rat these 4 stat.es business & organtzations. ARKANSAS KANSAS Arkansas, Eureka Springs Diversity Pride Events - - www.diversitypride.com MCC Living Spring - - - -870-253-9337 Arkansas, Fayetteville (479) Studio 716- -716 W. 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SSRA will present $4250.00 to the following non-profit organizations in the Tulsa area. Tulsa Community AIDS Partnership t0 receive a donation of $500.00 to assist towards all of the amazing work they do for a myriad of Tulsa's GLBT community organizations. Our House Too to receive a donation of $250.00 to assist towards all of the great work the organization does for the Tulsa GLBT community in need. · Green Country AIDS Coalition to receive a donation of $250.00 to help support efforts toward HIV testing, counseling and referrals for the Rural Northeastern Oklahoma Area. St Jerome's Parish Church to receive a donation of $500.00 to thank them for all of thier kind assistance to the Sooner State Rodeo Association and to help support the community assistance and outreach for which St Jerome's has become known. Pyramid Project to receive a donation of $500.00 to help support the purchase and rennovation of the new Tulsa Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender Community Center. Susan G. Komen Breast Cancer Foundation to receive $2250 from the fundraising efforts of Mr. SSRA 2005 Jonathan Brown. Page 4 Erosion Media Launches Gay Political Blog Brent Hartinger, 1fichael Jensen, and Sarah W am comment on The Big Gay "Picture. (PRWEB) November 17, 2005 - There are gay blogs, and there are political blogs, but until now there hasn't been much in the way of exclusively gay political blogs. That changes with the arrival of The Big Gay Picture (www.biggaypicrure.com), a new blog from Erosion Media, creator of the popular websites, AfterEllen.com, AfterElton.com, AllGayNews.com, and FakeGayNews.com "Most blogs are all over the place," says author and activist Brent Hartinger, one of The Big Gay Picture's three main writers. "But we are a gay political blog. Because we're targeted, we can be comprehensive." According t0 Hartinger, the blog will feature interviews with both GLBT leaders and opponents, ongoing commentary, and updates on local and national gay political news. "We really are giving the big gay picture!" Hartinger says. Along with Hartinger, the blog will feature daily postings from Sarah Warn, editor of AfterEllen.com, and novelist and activist Michael Jensen. "Any blog is a reflection of the personalities involved in writing it," Warn says. "And by God, we definitely have personalityl We can be pointed, funny, impassioned, and sarcasticsometimes all at the same rime." Finally, according to Jensen, Tne Big Gay Picture is also a community forum. "Unlike most blogs, The Big Gay Picture allows users to prominently post their own commentary and analysis," Jensen says. "We've only just debuted, and things are already quite live~yl" NORTH CAROLINA BAPTISTS SEND INTOLERANT MESSAGE TO CONGREGANTS 'The church should be a beacon, not a barricade,' said the Human Rights Campaign Foundation's Harry Knox. WASHINGTON - The Baptist State Convention of North Carolina sent a message of intolerance to its churches and congregants yesterday in passing a resolution to expel any member church that "knowingly affirms, approves or endorses homosexual behavior." "The church should be a beacon, not a barricade," said Harry Knox, director of the Human Rights Campaign Foundation's religion and faith programs. "Gay parishioners contribute in meaningful ways to their local churches and communities and the convention should focus on love and compassion, not finding ways to demean. and marginalize the faithful." The North Carolina Baptists' decision comes as several other Southern Baptist institutions have taken intolerant stances on gay issues. This week the Georgia Baptist Convention voted t0 sever ties to Mercer Universitv one of the denomination's ~!<lest and largest educational institutions - because school administrators refused to condemn a student group's observance of National Coming Out Day. Additionally in Texas, Baptist-affiliated Bavlor Universitv dismissed a Baylor alumnus from ~he business school's advisorv board because he is gay. ' "Instead of welcoming an open dialogue, these actions are designed to cut off any intellectuai or spirituai debate," said Knox. "God gave us intellect so we would use it, no:: cut ourselves off from those who disagree with us." DECEMBER 2005 by Andrew Coilins Page 6 Out of Town W'ine-touring in this part of the state is great fun because staff at most tasting rooms are friendlier and more laid-back than in touristy areas. You can typically spend plenty of time asking questions_ about what you're sampling. The reg10n excels in just about every common U.S. wine varietal, but zinfandels, pinot noirs, and chardonnays are especially notable in these parts. A favorite winery of gay visitors is the slightly campy Clautiere Vineyard, which describes its own festive tasting room as "Edward Scissorhands meets the Mad Hatter at the Moulin Rouge." A few other great w-ineries in Paso include the prestigious J. Lohr Vineyards, the hip Justin Winery, and the intimate but outstanding Peachy Canyon Winery, which produces one of the top zinfandels around. One of the larger vineyards that's worth a visit is SLO's Tolosa Winery, which provides visitors with excellent self-guided winery tours and produces some superb pinot noirs and syrahs, too. Also check out charming Baileyana, set inside a ,-intage former schoolhouse and turning out fantastic pinot noir. For more information on specific wineries, check out the useful websites of San Luis Obispo Vintners (www.slowine.com) and the Paso Robles Vintners and Growers Association (www.pasowine.com), both of which provide details on wineries open for tours as well as great dining and lodging recommendations. Apart from winery-hopping, one of the great things to do in this part of California is to drive along the gorgeous coastline fringed by the famed Highway 1. The must-see attraction along this stretch is Hearst Castle, the legendary San Simeon retreat built bv media magna~e William Randolph Hearst, who commissioned Bay Area architect Julia Morgan to de;ign it. Morgan collaborated with her boss for some 25 years to build this 150-room ~o~mtaintop S'.:langri La filled with priceless mostlv Mediterranean antiqui .. i~s. It's ~ow operated by the California state park system and open to visito:s for fascinating tours. Famous guests at the castle during its heyday in.eluded numerous Holiywood stars, among them Erroi Flynn, who ,vas supposedly kicked out for brea~ng one or two of Hearst's house rules, like those against excessive alcohol consumption and unmarried guests sharing a bed. It's been speculated that the never-married Julia Morgan (1872-1957), who designed some 700 buildings during her life, was a lesbian, bur very little is actually known of her personal life. Unquestionably, however, she's one of the nation's premier ~ if relatively unsung architects. If you really want to get to know the heart and soul of San Luis Obispo, attend the fabulous Thursday-night farmer's market, which is much more than a mere gathering of produce-sellers. A big chunk of downtown's main thoroughfare, Higuera Street, is turned into a pedestrian zone, and local restaurants serve up everything from delicious bruschetta to smoky barbecue ribs. It's really a festival of sorts, and a great time to people-watch and mingle with both visitors and locals. For dining in downtown SLO, check out the Park Restaurant for some of the freshest and most innovate Californiastvle cuisine in the region, or Blue for its o~tstanding wine list and heavenly grilled salmon. At trendy Novo, you'll find eclectic food with Asian, Mediterranean, and Latin American twists try the Sri Lankan cashew-and-butternut-squash currv or the Moroccan lamb satay with · min~ 'chutney. Rudolph's Coffee & Tea is a lively and gay-popular java joint downtown, and Metro Cafe can be counted on for great saiads, soups, and baked goods. Or head south of SLO to popular, if touristy, Pismo Beach for a feast of tasty seafood at the Cracked Crab. Downtown Paso Robles is set around a lovely, shaded city square lined with several excellent restaurants, among them Villa Creek and Berry Hill Bistro. For lighter fare, pop inside Odyssey World Cafe, which serves a terrific grilled tuna rice bowi and fantastic sandwiches, such as baked brie over artichoke hearts with masted almonds. Sample delicious Italian food at Buona Tavola, which also has a branch in downtown San Luis Obispo. Parts of SLO County bear an awfully strong resemblance to Northern Italy, esoecially around the grounds of Villa T~scana: a Tuscan-inspired \"ilia that offers some of the most luxurious B&B Continued page-12 Page 7 Gifts &rlWheeler 437 E. 141st Street Glenpool, OK 74033 ,, 918.291.EARL {3275) Serving the Tulsa Metro Area for over 21 Years with PRIDE! CUSTOM DECORATING * HOLIDAY SPEOALS orders by 12noon guaranteed same da-, clJ\iv"'f. Tulsa Stonewall Now Necessary! TULSA, OK_As most gay men and women living in Tulsa now know, the Tulsa Police Department began a series of unending assaults on the gay clubs here. Beginning in August of this year, the TPD have entered gay bars with the force of Storm Troopers, assailing the rights of gay men and women who are attempting to enjoy what gay life there is in Tulsa. Police have demanded identification from individuals not remotely involved in any illegal actions, and once they call them in through the NCIC service, arrest anyone with warrants and arrest a few on public drunk charges without a breathalizer test. I wonder how may times this happens at the elite straight bars in Tulsa? God help you if you were born gay and try to live peaceable here. On June 28, 1969 the modern gay rights movement began in Greenwich Village, NYC when the Stonewall gay bar was raided and the Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender community decided to revolt. The rest is history. It is time for the disjointed gay community in Tulsa to unite and begin to fight for our civil rights. We need a united front to demand from our city and county government and Tulsa Police. parity with other citizens and clubs, gay or not. The Tulsa Police have achieved what they sought to do-make gay citizens who choose to go to gay bars, stay home, resulting in the clubs struggling to stay open. The Tulsa gay community is avoiding the bars in fear of arrest for being out and gay. Go to any gay bar in Tulsa and yo:; will see that business is down, the bartenders will tell you the same thing A common scenario is for the police to swarm in on a bar, usually handcuff what appears to be a person they are actua]y hunting and then paralyze the remainder of the patrons advising them they need to produce their ID, stand still and not move until told further what to do. Further, based on what they consider proper behavior, they will handcuff anyone who remotely appears to be touching another person, even when fully clothed and begin harassing that person as to their behavior. I personally watched as this occurred. Two people were handcuffed who were fully clothed and merely talking to each other. AftC;r verbal cruel harassment, they were un-cuffed and allowed to leave. Why would anyone want to go back to more of the same? Are the police trying to push everyone back into the alley's and parks? It would seem that the gay community needs to ban together to begin a determined response when these illegal activities happen. Maybe we should raise a clenched fist when they arrive to signify our solidarity. Maybe a sit in by the patrons and let them drag us through the publicity raised by the voluminous arrest! Gay people of course would rather hit their mother than be arrested and subject to more public humiliation than is thrust on them each day in Tulsa. The gay community should begin to be politicaily active in Tulsa County. To the extent that the Tulsa Police Department is able to continue to harass gay people unfettered, it will not stop. To the extent the gay community continues to not be united, the police will win. More effort and meetings among the bar owners and GLBT organizations need to become more forceful and demanding with the powers in our city. We must remember in this so called bible belt mecca of Tulsa and all of Okl.ahoma. the general public couldn't care iess about gay rights, an aosent unified effort to secure civil rights to foll equality, nothing wiil change We mus: stop it. The TPD enjoy it and nave no plans to cease. Tney are happy we are staying home and quivering. A strategic plan outline is needed OO\V to deal \vith rhe heavy arm of the law, so that gay people can enioy a night out vvithout looking o ..v er their shoulder for the handcuffs, Page 11 Out of Town accommodations in the region. The stucco mansion surrounded by sunny stone piazzas contains several airy guestrooms with high timber-beamed ceilings and sumptuous appointments and from every window you see vinevards in all directions. A superb breakfast as well as afternoon wine and cheese are included. For a truly rejuvenating vacation experience, book a stay at the gayfriendly Sycamore Mineral Springs, a beautifullv situated spa resort nestled beneath d leafy hillside within easy hiking distance of the ocean. The upscale rooms here come in a variety of configurations (some with kitchens and large sitting areas), and most have private outdoor hot tubs. But the amenities are the real treats here: tubs bubbling with healing mineral waters, a labyrinth path, stunning hiking traiis, and a spa where you can book a variety of soothing massage, skincare, and medicinal treatments. Be sure to enjoy a meal in die exceptional restaurant, where you might sample such refined fare as seared quail with polenta, pine nuts, gorgonzola, and pomegranates. Another excellent lodging option, especially if you want to be near the coast and Hearst Castle, is Moonstone Hotel Properties, a small but growing group of distinctive hotels based in the coastal community of Cambria. Moonstone has about a half-dozen hotels right in town as well as properties in Monterey, Yosemite, and central Oregon, and the company has made it a kev focus in recent years to market enthusiastically to the gay and lesbian market. The Moonstone properties in Cambria come in a wide range of shapes and sizes and with a few different settings, but they share a few common themes: attractive, upscale rooms; grounds abundant ;ith incredibiy lush gardens and meadows; and friendly, easygoing staff. Several of the hotds are pet-friendiy, too. If you want to be on a verdant hillside above town, choose the elegant Cambria Pines Lodge, which consists of several outbuildings and cabins and has one of the town's top restaurants, known for i:s healthful, organic-inspired cuisine. Right down along ;:he shoreline, rhe Blue Dolphin Inn, Sea Coast Lodge, Sea Otter Inn, Sand Pebbles Inn, and Pelican Suites are terrific hotels set right across from Moonstone Beach. And if you're looking to save a little money, choose the economical Creekside Inn, a nicely decorated motor lodge in the heart of Cambria's festive village, steps from shops and restaurants. Wherever vou choose to stay in San Luis Obispo County, you're close to some of the nation's top wine-touring and most inspired scenery. See it now before SLO's pace quickens, and it becomes every bit as popular as Napa and Sonoma Countv. Fortunately, much of the countrvside ~ this part of California ha; been permanently protected from development, so San Lui~ Obispo Countv will likely look every btt as beautiful in the future as it does now. The Little Black Book Baiicyana (5828 Orcutt Rd., San Luis Obispo, 805-269-8200, www.bailcyana.com). Berry Hill Bistro (1114 Pinc St .. Paso Robles, 805- 238-3929). Blue (998 Mo~tcrcy St., San Luis Obispo, 805-783-1135). Buona Tavol:l. (943 Spring St., Paso Robles, 805-545-8000; also 1037 Montcrev St., San Luis Obispo, 805-545- 8000). Clauri;rc Vineyard (1340 Penman Springs Rd., Paso Robics, 805-237-3789, www.clautierc.com). Cracked Crab (7~1 Price St., Pismo Beach, 805-773-2722). J. Lohr Vineyards (6169 Airport Rd., Paso Robles, 805-239-8900, www.jlohr.com). Justin Winery (11680 Chimney Rock Rd., Paso Robles, 805- 237-4149 or 800-726-0049, www.justinwinc.com). Metro Cafe (892 M.mh St., San Luis Obispo, 805-783-2022). Moonstone Hotel Properties (800/966-6490, www.moonsronehotcls.com/ gay). Novo (726 Higuera St., S:rn Luis Obispo, 805-543-3986). Odyssey Worid Cafe (1214 Pine St., Paso Robles. 805-237-75i6). Park Restaurant (1819 Osos St., San Luis Obispo, 805-545-0000J. Peachy Canyon Winery (1480 W. Bethel Rd., Paso Robies, 805-239-1918, ·www. pcachyca~yon.com). Rudolph's Coffee & Tea (670 Higuera St., San Luis Obis?o, 805-543- 4902). San Luis Obispo Visitors & Conference Bu:eau (805-541-8000 or 800-634- 14i 4, ww-w<.sanluisobispocoun:,y.com). Svcamorc Mineral Sp:ings (1215 Aviia Beach Dr., Avila Be;;.ch, 805-595-7302 or 800-234- 5831, wn.v-·~.sycamoresprings.com). Page 12 "Is this the winter of my discontent"' Oh yes boys and girls it is that time, time for cards, the lists, the guest, the gifts, family friends, food parties, events, travel, weather, stress, guilt, anxiety, ya ya ya! What a workout it's become, this month called December. Well Auntie has the cure. Just say no to retail. Go back to your gardening roots and work from there. Naturally there's nothing better than a gift of labor and love from your own garden. Just look around, from berries, hollies and evergreens to perennial foliage, leaves, dried grasses and of course HERBS. Auntie does love her herb and heres just a couple of easy ways to piease this holiday season. Oils and vinegars. One way to preserve the flavor of fresh (or store bought) herbs is to steep them in oil or vinegar, which may be used ror cooking. or in salad dressings. This works well for a number of herbs such as french tarragon, oregano, rhyme, and lavendec To make flavored oil, fill a clear glass jar with sprigs or leaves of fresh herbs, pour over a good flavoriess oil, like sunflower and seal. Leave the jar in a sunny spot for cwo weeks, shake or stir every day. Strain and bottle, adding a new sprig of the herb as identification as well as decoration. Dried peppers, such as banana, cyan, etc. are also great to use by themselves or mixed with herbs. In unusual bottles or jars with a bit of ribbon and a hand printed label. These make excellent gifts, hand grown and made by you. But don't forget about the uses of dried herbs. Air-drying is the easiest way of preserving most herbs. Spread out sprigs, leaves, flowers or seed heads in a single layer on a rack and leave in a warm airy space to dry. Alternatively tie sprigs in small bunches and hang upside down in a warm, dry but not to sunny - spot. The drying process should take no more than 48 hours. Crush the leaves thoroughly between your hands and store them in airtight dark glass or ceramic containers (clear glass will make them fade quickly.) Using several small unique jars or containers makes for another great gift idea with a personal touch. Dried rosemary, thyme, lavender and sage left tightly bundled together create a fragrant appeal for the most domestic of goddesses. Let's not forget the tried and true hostess gift that everyone enjoys. Oh yes the poinsettia, with brilliant colors and varieties you can't go wrong with this proven Christmas winner. Just be careful not to expose them to cold temperatures, even for a few minutes or so cm possible damage the entire plant. So lets not leave it in the car when we stop at the bar first for a before party pick me up, OK? So run my little children, spread the joy and love throughout the season, it's time to grow so until next year, I wish you all a merry Christmas, happy holidays and a most harvested new year. And don't forget. ''You can lead a hor-to-culture, but you can't make her think.,, Page 13 T-Town Rodeo To Host Awards Ceremony Press Release: November 21, 2005 TULSA,OK_Sooner State Rodeo Association - Northeastern Oklahoma's own Gay Rodeo Association, will hold a New Year's Eve pre-party on December 31st, 2005 at the Parish Church of Saint jerome's, 205 W. King St. in The Brady Heights Historic District Oust north of Downtown in Gay Brady Heights). The event will be a Cowboy and Cowgirl Mixer with a short Comestant Recognition and Award Ceremony. The Event will run from 7pm til 10pm and is open to the public; a big part of this event is geared toward a new membership drive and renewing of existing memberships. You do not have to be a cowboy or cowgirl to be a part of Sooner State Rodeo Association - membership in the Sooner State Rodeo Association in only $15.00 for an Associate :Membership, $20.00 for a General Membership and $25.00 for a Commercial Memb;rship. Drop by and meet the SSRA Posse, Have a shot of Red Eye and some grub. Scott Johnson, SSRA president for 2006 says, "Our focus this vear will be to increase and develop the ro'embership base and to organize work toward the TTown Rodeo in 2007". In spring of 2005 Tulsa's Sooner State Rodeo Association put together it's first International Gay Rodeo Association Sanctioned Rodeo; billed as the T-Town Rodeo it brought contestants from across the nation and added to Tulsa's stature in the Gay Rodeo Circuit. Plans are now in the works for a T-Town Rodeo 2007. You can get more information about Sooner State Rodeo Association at www.soonerstaterodeo.com. 109 E. Commercial Street Springfield, Mo 65803 417-873-2225 HearTheRumors.com Page 14 The Years Most Anticipated Movie Is Here "Love Is A Force Of Nature" Brokeback Mountain opening in Chicago, San Francisco and New York December 3, 2005. A raw, powerful story of two young men, a Wyoming ranch hand and a rodeo cowboy, who meet in the summer of 1963 sheepherding in the harsh, high grasslands of contemporary Wyoming and form an unorthodox vet life-long bondby turns ecstatic, bitter and conflicted. The new film from Academy Awardnominated director Ang Lee. An epic love story set against the sweeping vistas of Wyoming and Texas, Brokeback Mountain tells the story of nvo young men a ranch-hand and a rodeo cowboy who meet in tne summer of 1963, a~d unexpectedly forge a iifelong connection, one whose complications, joys and tragedies provide a testament to the endurance and power of l.ove. Ennis and Jack, two cowbovs who fall in love. As others have touch~d on, Brokeback Mountain is so much more than merely a "gay cowboy movie". It perfectly cap~res what true, unbridled love is all about and this love transcends any issues of sexualitv or gender. "Love is a force of nature". , Unfortunately for many people and indeed the protagonists of our story, society doesn't always view it that way. Kudos to Ang Lee who has not shied away from the material at all. This adaptation stay; true to the original shore story and the two lead actors fit the roles perfectly. Ledger and Gyllenhaal give incredibly strong performances .but the supporting cast shouldn't be overiooked work ail around and with Mr Ang Lee's vision they have created an anything a,vay, you are going to be 1nnv,ed b:,t this one. Staring Heath Ledger, jake Gyllenhaal, Anne Hatl.1a,;av. Micheiie \~filii an1s. ~ , Page 15 This Is Shelter Country. Here in our community you will find Shelter Agent Greg Tainter. We're proud to serve this community and our customers. CalJ today aod ask about our services. Auto -Home - Life -BH-~iness Greg W. Tainter. LUTCF Tel:(166)M-9480 gtainlef@shelerinsur.llce.com Healing the Family There are some fortunate souls whom upon coming out, find their families to ' be completely accepting and understanding. And then there are the rest of us. Our families panic, weep, wail, pull away, and in some cases, outright reject us. A few years ago, if someone had told me that my partner and I would one day be preparing a meal in our home for our parents, I would have laughed. Yet, I recently found myself in that very situation. The journey to that point was not an easy one for any of us. Almost everyone in my family is a conservative evangelical Christian. Needless to say, when I came out, it caused quite a stir. I viv:idiy remember the family gathering together to prav over me in an attempt to drive o;t these evil influences. Yes, my family had an exorcism to rid me of the gay demons. Obviously, it didn't work. Next, thev decided I should try one of the ex-gay "ministries." They helpfolly provided me with all kinds of information about Exodus. I flat-out refused. Then they suggested counseling. I agreed to that, but only on my terms. I would not go to a biased anti-gay Christian counselor. That turned out to be a very good decision since it helped me fully realize there was nothing ',nong with me, and in the long run, helped my family as well. For a while after that, they backed off My family tends to suffer from SOS, or Severe Ostrich Syndrome. That's the tendency to ignore something you don't like by sticking your head in the sand and hoping it will just go away on its own. I've noticed many Southern families suffer from this disorder. For a while, I wasn't dating anyone and wasn't really that invohred with my family, so it became easy for them to ignore the fact that I was gay. That changed when I started dating Jon. When we decided to move in together, it became impossible to ignore. I got a call from my mother soon after I broke the news to them. My mother asked point-blank if Jon and I were "lovers." I told her yes, to which she responded that the family didn't approve and could not condone that "lifestyle." As calmly as I could, I told her that I wasn't looking for their approval and I didn't need them to condone my choices. I went on to say that Jon was an important part of my life and if they wanted to continue being a part of it as well, they would have to deal with that. I didn't speak to them for about a month. and then one afternoon I got another ~all from my mother ' inviting Jon and I over for dinner. That first night was decidedly awkward, and it stayed that way for a while. I refused to attend any family function to which Jon wasn't welcome, so there were many more uncomfortable moments. For a while, the only people who w:ould even speak to Jon at gettogethers were my parents and my younger sister. We didn't give up, though, and gradually, more of my siblings began to come around. It was a slow process, and I'm .still not as close to most of my brothers as I once was. but we've come a long way. My paren~s have been especially accepting as they've come to know and love Joo. Jon's family, while similar in some aspects, was a different situation. Jon was raised as a Reformed Jew. He grew up attending a shul with gay and lesbian Rabbis. He had every reason to expect his family to be accepting, and his younger brother was from the very beginning. When Jon came out to him, his initial reaction was simpiv, "Okav. Cool." Jon's mother, on the ~ther h;nd, Continued next page Page 18 HEART TO HEART had a harder time with the news. Her first reaction was to rather hvstericallv blame the fall of Greece and Rome on· homosexuality. She refused to have anything to do with me, and was furious at Jon for hiding this from her. Once again, there was no sudden change of heart, but rather a gradual acceptance. She lives farther away than my parents, so we saw her less often, but when we did see her, we were almost always together for Jon's or her birthday, when Jon graduated from college, etc. I did a painting for her of her cat, who she dearly loved. Over time, she began to ask how I was when thev talked on the phone. When Jon and I decided we wanted to buy a home, she, being a real estate agent, wanted to be involved. She traveled back and forth several times as we looked at homes and found one we loved. She stayed with us at our old house and we spent more time together. The weekend we closed on the house and moved in, I spent more time alone with Jon's mom than I did with Jon. We actually had a chance to bond. A few weeks after we'd moved in, Jon's mom came down for the weekend just to see what progress we'd made. That Saturday, my parents came over because my dad was planning to help us with some minor plumbing problems. As these things have a tendency to do, the small project turned into an entire day spent under the sink. While Jon, my father, and I spent the afternoon between the kitchen and the hardware store, our moms bonded while watching a homeimprovement marathon on HGTV. Later that evening, the sink fixed, Jon and I cooked dinner for our parents. As we all sat around the table eating and laughing, it suddenly hit me that our families were heaied. I had to fight back tears as I looked around. I never would have expected to see the scene before me. It wasn't because of anything in particular that we did. We didn't forcefeed them any scientific smdies or drag them to PFLAG meetings. That may have worked for other families, bu: what worked for ours was simply Jiving our lives openly and honestly. They co;.;ldn't help but see our love for one another and realize that there was nothing diny or wrong about it. Maybe it took a wi1iie. but the wounds did heal. This past week I was talking to my mom about Thanksgiving plans. It's an annual tradition for my very large family to gather together for a huge, homecooked meal. The past two years, Jon and I have spent Thanksgiving with his mom and brother since they don't have a large family to share it with. Last time, though, I promised my family we'd spend the holiday with them this year. When Mom told me no plans had been made yet, I found myself impulsively offering to host the family dinner at our house. It made sense, since we have more space than any of my other siblings that live locally. It wasn't until after I hung up that I wondered just what I'd gotten myself imo. Between my three brother and two sisters, I have nineteen nieces and nephews - and white living room furniture. After I broke the news to Jon and he calmed me down, we decided it would be a good thing. We also decided to invite his mom and brother, too. We don't yet know if thev will come, but if thev do, it '.Vill be the first time both of our families have been together. I know it will be an emotional and perhaps somewhat awkward time, but I'm looking forward to it. It will be the next step in healing our family. 1he views expressed in this column are my opinions only. You don't have to agree with them. I just ask that you read them with an open heart and mind. FREE HIVTESTING, NO NEEDLES I SPIRIT OF CHRIST MCC SPONSORS Testing the last Sunday of each month between 5PM and 6PM. 2902 E. 20th St., PO Box 4711 Joplin, Mo 64803 Sunday Service 6PM Your Invited to our Communitv Dinne: _Every ~ed. 6pm just $4.00. No one 1s turned away. Page 19 Lesbian Notions by Libby Post DECEMBER 2005 Freedom To Think Getting a good education was always paramount in my house. Neither of my parents went to college, but _The New York Times_ was daily reading, and my brother and I were promised a college education they could afford. That meant going to one of the 64 State University of New York campuses. I eventually got both my degrees from the Universitv at Albany; my brother received his fro~ Stony Brook and Binghamton. Io the post-'60s college environment that both my brother and I enjoyed, there was open debate on mvriad issues - debate that was fostered by ; · commitment to new and different ideas respect for a broad range of opinions, ' and recognition that if we didn't learn and grow, we would shrivel and die. This is the way it was and still is on many campuses, but not so at some schools that have religious affiliations. Schools affiliated with the Southern Baptist Convention have made the news regarding their reluctance to embrace ideas outside their narrow biblical interpretations. At Bavlor Universitv in Waco, Texas, 25-year-~ld Matt Bass had his full scholarship to divinity school revoked after he came out. When the school's student newspaper endorsed gay marriage, Baylor's president rebuked it. After all Bavior's school policy states that no s~de~t publication's editorial should "attack the basic tenets of Christian theology or of Christian morality'' - so much for freedom of the student press. After learning that 1983 graduate Tim Smith, who is on the universitv's School of Business advisory panel, wa; gay, Baylor told Smith that he could no i.onger serve and was no longer welcome. Tb.is was after Smith personally donated over $65,000 to the school and raised an additional $60,000 to establish an academic scholarship. I guess gav monev doesn't talk at Baylor. • · Nor does a good cup of java. Once Baylor learned that an Armistead Maupin quote was on Starbucks' coffee cups as part of the company's campaign to highlight quotes from famous people, the school ordered the Starbucks on campus to get rid of all its cups. Even if a Baptist-affiliated school wanted to do ~e right thing and be welcoming, the vanous state Baptist Conventions are not above holding the schools they support financially hostage. Recently, the North Carolina Baptist State Convention threatened to pull nearly $1 million in funding to that state's Mars Hill College if it approved Open Doors, a campus LGBT group. Money won out - the group was not recognized. But the Baptists aren't alone. An associate dean at Catholic Seton Hall University in New Jersey was demoted after he publicly criticized the church's aotigay position in his local newspaper. W. King Mott wrote a letter to the _Newark Star-Ledger_ assailing the church for its new policy banning gar men as priests, and for making gay pnests scapegoats in the child sex-abuse scandal. His big mistake, according to the school's dean, was identifying himself as a Seton Hall administrator. After working there for seven years, Mott thought of Seton Hall as an institution of higher learning that valued free ' expression of ideas. Unfortunately for Mott, that freedom of thought has to be within certain parameters - this time, the teachings of the Catholic Church. If you want to be a doctor and go the New York Medical College (NYMC), a private Catholic school affiliated with the Archdiocese of New York and located in Westchester, you have to tow its religious line as well. The school revoked the charter of its LGBT student group after it changed its name from Student Heip to NYMC Lesbian Gav Bisexual and Tmosgender People in Medicine - it said that the group wanted to "promote the lifestyle of GLBT people, [which is] in conflict with the standards and vaiues of the College." A statement issued bv Dean Dr. Ralph O'Connell said, "It ;as clear that the organization and its leader would advocate and promote activities inconsistent with the· values of NYMC." ~ould those activities be teaching Continued next page. Page 20 Lesbian Notions: safe-sex or promoting free and unfettered access to reproductive health care? Are coffee cups really so subversive that they pose a threat to Christian teachings? Is speaking one's mind about victimizing gays grounds for demotion? These are all valid questions - but ones that will never be given the full rigor of academic discussion and debate at Baylor, Seton Hall, Mars Hill, or NYMC. At these campuses, the freedom to think has been replaced with the freedom to not think out loud. Page 21 ut by Liz Highleyman DECEMBER 2005 Summary : Past Out is a retrospective of key moments, personalities, and subjects in LGBT history. Each installment brings the past to life by exploring the diversity of the gay past and its impact on the queer present. Who was Harvey Milk? Harvey Milk's shift from closeted businessman to radical firebrand to political insider mirrored the trajectory ~f the gay rights movement during his hfe. Though his time in office was short he is remembered as one of the most ' important gay icons of all time. Milk was born May 22, 1930, in Woodmere, Long Island. Although he began having sexual experiences with men in parks and theaters in his earlv teens, he presented a conventional , appearance and was a popular high school athlete. After graduating from the New York State College for Teachers, Milk enlisted in the Navy during the Korean War. · After leaving the Navv in 1955 Milk taught high school mathe~atics, ' coached basketball, and enjoyed a cozy domestic life with sometime hustler Joe Campbell (later immortalized as the "Sugar Plum Fairy" in Lou Reed's song "Walk on the Wild Side"l. But Milk soon tired of teaching and its requirement for strict secrecy about his sexuality, and he went to w~rk as a Wall Street financial analyst. Possessed of both a voracious sexual appetite and a yearning for romance, Milk had a penchant for attractive. often troubled men many years his iuni~r. After his relationship with c;mpbell, Milk took ~P w!th _young activist Craig Rodwell. Next, he became involved with stage manager Jack McKinley, whointroduced him to the bohemian Greenwich Village aiternative thea::er crowd. Milk soon eschewed his buttoneddown ways, adopting a hippie style and liberal political views. In 1972, Milk and his new lover. Scott Smith, moved to San Francisco. where they opened a camera shop on ·Castro Street, in what was then a working-class Irish neighborhood. Milk aot involved in politics, making alliances :-ith labor unions, seniors, and the city's Chinese community. He formed the Castro Village Association (a gay business alliance) and founded the Castro Street Fair. Milk ran for the San Francisco Board of Supervisors in 1973, following in the footsteps of drag impresario Jose Sarria, who, two decades earlier, had been the first gay man to vie for the office. Rejected by established gay leaders who preferred to cultivate straight political allies, Milk built his base on grassroots support. After losing that election, Milk cut off his ponytail, traded his jeans for business suits, and swore off marijuana and bathhouses. Positioning himself as a champion of neighborhoods and against downtown deveiopers, Miik ran unsuccessfully for supervisor again in 1975 and for state assembly the following year. He rode the wave of militant gay activism in the wake of Anita Brvant's Save Our Children campaign, and: took the lead in opposing California's failed Briggs Initiative, which would have barred homosexuals from ceaching in public schools. .Milk finally won a supervisor seat in November 1977, becoming the first openly gay man to win a major political office in the Unired States. (Lesbian Elaine Noble had been elected stat~ representative in Massachusetts in 197 4.) Yet despite his political success, Milk's personal and financial life was in disarrav. He was deeply in debt and had to close his f~linEf_ camera business. He had broken up with ::,m1th and taken a new young iover, Jack Lira, who was given to embarrassing drunken scenes at public functions and who committed suicide in 1978. Milk's first legislative proposai was a gay antidiscrimination ordinance, which the supervisors passed with one dissenting vote that of conservari;;e ex-cop Dan \X'hite, who had been elected on .... continued next page. Page 22 Past Out: a traditional values platform. Citing financial hardship, White resigned his board seat in the fall of 1978 but soon decided he wanted it back.' At the urging of Milk, Mayor George Moscone declined to reappoint White, who had often provided the swing vote to block progressive legislation. On the morning of November 27, 1978, White snuck in through a side window at Citv Hall, shot Moscone at close range, th~n marched down the hall and pumped five bullets into Milk. Coming just a week after the mass suicide of Jim Jones' People's Temple (which had been based in San Francisco), the assassinations threw the city into further ~u~moil. That night, thousands of people Jomed a candlelight march from the Castro to City Hall. On May 21 of the following year White was convicted on two cou~ts ~f voluntary manslaughter and sentenced to less than eight years in prison, after his attorneys employed the "Twinkie defense," arguing that he was mentallv i~paired due to eating junk food. Th~ city's gay community exploded in rage, shattering the windows of Citv Hall and torching police cruisers in wh~t came to be known as the White Night Riot. Later that evening, the police retaliated, invading the Castro with nightsticks swinging. In 1984, White was released on parole; the next year he committed suicide by carbon monoxide poisoning. Having frequently received death threats, Milk had prepared a taped will suggesting who should succeed him (including Harry Britt, whom new mayor Dianne Feinstein appointed as his replacement). "If a bullet should enter my brain," he said in the message, "let that bullet destroy every closet door." At his memorial service, Milk's lesbian aide, Anne Kronenberg, read a poem she found in his desk: "I can be killed with ease/ I can be cut right down/ But I cannot fall back into mv closet .. .I am too many/ I am all of us." , For further information: Epstein, Rob, and Richard Schmeichen. I 984. _ The Times of Harvey Milk rNew Yorker Vuleo). · - ' Shilts, Randy. i 982. _ The 1\Jayor of Castro Street_ (St. Martin's Press). Page 23 Dear Uncle Mikey: Rsk 1 Advice Column! December 2005 Salutations Kittens, Uncle here bringing the latest in all things Queer. Another Holiday season is upon us, while Uncle makes ready for his annual wet jock contest. Yes, Uncle celebrates the season slightly different from the average Queer. You should see my Christmas tree, it could sway several priest at the very site. I have the twenty-five Twinks of Christmas dawning my tree. Yes, it shall be a very Marv Christmas this vear. Let's see what Queer seekers · bring me this se;son. I am not prepared again to join in my familise dysfunctional seasonal celebration. I am not allowed to bring any one with me, as they remain homophobic. I have decided to be on my own this year, but am feeling down, as this will be the first year I have not been with my family during the holidays. I love them however; can not deal with this years dysfunctional holiday bash. I am really finding myself depressed about all of this and am not the typical depressed person. Should I just go and ignore the fact they refuse to let me be myself. I mean it does not really matter that I am gay, but being single during the holidays is a bummer. Any thoughts here? Seasonally sad Dearest Sad: Kitten, you are right as many people suffer from seasonal depression during these holiday times. It is not in any way your fault that your family can't see the errors in their ways. You are the wonderful creature you are meant to be and it is solelv their loss. Uncle, would advise you not to sit aro~d and allow these feelings of sadri:ess to set in. Get invoived in the community, and create a family of your own, which will love and support you just the way you are. Besides, isn't it about time you celebrate the season Queer style? This too shall pass young one. Holiday smooches-Uncle Mikey Many people in the GLTB ~ommunity are left on their own during a season which, in its basic form has been used to segregate our people while judging our lifestyle and choices. This is however not the seasonal meaning and true spirit of the season. Do not allow ignorance to leave you feeling sad, celebrate your life, ind our community this year by joining in with others as fabulous as you. Believe me there will be no long faces at Uncles corner this year. Tis the seaso~ of brotherly love and Uncle has a lot of Love to go around. Christmas thongs for everyone! Dear Uncle Mikey: The guy I have been seeing is so bcredibiy full of himself. He is also selfish in so many ways, while loving in others. I feel like he is truly a good guy deep·inside, however needs reality checks, in the way he disregards my feelings. I need a way to show him just how it feels to be disregarded. Any suggestions Guru? Tired of being Dissed Dearest Dissed, Kitten, Unde knows of what you speak. Allow me to share with you just how I handled one man, which while in my life, did not know who Uncle truly was, as he did not see the force he was dealing with, until Uncle gave him a lesson ·in consideration. Uncle dated him whilst in a gray area of my life. He acted as if he was Gods gift, little did he know I was the one true Queen in the piace. So after dealing Continued next page: · • Page '26 Ask Uncle Mikey: with his antics, and rudeness on several occasions, I decided it was time to give back a little. I set up a romantic interlude, which of course he took for granted, thinking he was doing Uncle a favor. Can you imagine, Uncle, please? Poor widdle puddin did not stand a chance. After whining and dining the fool, it was time for the romantic interlude to heat up. While in the midst of our widdle physical romp, Uncle decided he had a craving for pizza. To his shock, Uncle hipped out a cell phone never missing a beat, and ordered a pizza. Never stopping mind you, after watching his eyes, I could see his dismay in Uncles lack of concern and interest in the event before him. I however, being the Queen I am took it to another level as I answered my call waiting. Discussing a shopping trip a friend of mine had made that day. Needless to say, it was a most humbling experience for the widdle one. Uncle knew it was not his prince before him, however wanted to s·end him back to Queerdom humbled, and more concerned for the next one ro call him lover. Try it and see if it does not bring Romeo back to earth. Kittens, life are a series of lessons, and teacher is in! Well, that is about all of the time I have this month. Kittens, celebrate the season pride style this year, celebrating Queer life. Reach out and touch someone this season providing holiday Yule time loving for all. Merry Christmas Kittens, your forever humbled servant Uncle Mikey and Tiddles too. See you next year, you fabulous Queer! Smooches uncle Mikey and Tiddies too! Want more of Mikey? Visit Mikey's corner at www.askunclemikey.com. Freelance writer Michael Hinzman, joining communities throughout Queerdom ... with wild rice stuffing and Southern Comfort sauce Sauce: 1-1/2 cups brown sugar. 1/2 cup Southern Comfort. 1 cup orange juice. 1 cup pineapple juice. 1 /2 lemon squeezed. 1 / 8th teaspoon cinnamon Mix all together and simmer for 45 min., then set a side. Stuffing: 2 cups cooked wild rice. 1/2 green bell pepper 1/2 red bell pepper. 1 large Shittake Mushroom chopped. 1 / 4th cup chopped white onion. 1 I 8th teaspoon rosemary. :Mix all together and set a side. Preheat oven to 375 degree- take 4 large Quail Breast stuff each breast with a 1/2 cup of rice stuffing. Tooth pick the ends to hold mixture in Place breast side up, meit 3 tablespoons of butter and lightly brush the breast. Place in a 9X12 baking dish, lightly season with ground rosemary. Bake for 45 minutes or until internal temp of 165 degrees. Remove from oven. Drizzle SC sauce on pla~e and place Quail !.n center, remove toothpicks, drizzle more sauce on top, garnish with a sprig of rosemary. Tip: Serve with Red Wine. HAPPY HOLIDAYS to ail my great friends._________ Page 27 / Scopes ;'Explore new ideas, Pisces!" Ma.rs is in Taurus, which is good for getting things done - but he's inflexible. Now opposing Jupiter in Scorpio, he is open to seeing the deeper effects of his efforts, but he's still relentless. While these planets are aspecting Uranus in Pisces, it's a great time to consider options and improvements in both methods and purpose. ARIES (March 20 - April 19): There's no end to sexual opportunities now. Although you're the sign that most wants instant gratification - and there's lots to be had - you also want something deeper and more important. Stop, think, and hold out for what you really want. .. TAURUS (April 20 - May 20): You've been feeling stuck lately. With a little courage and willingness to confront your partner, you can release that blockage productively. Advice from friends will prove helpful, even if it only provokes you to think of different ideas. GEMINI (May 21 - June 20): You can get an awful lot accomplished. Just remember that when "staying on track," you have to consider that the track has some surprise twists. Be adaptable and solicit input from anyone with more authority, whether by position or experience. CANCER (lune 21 - July 22): You're being a bit of a control queen these days. Well ... a bit more than usual. Be open to giving and getting suggestions - especially getting. Don't be too fixed on your goals; there are better possibilities for the open-minded. LEO (luly 23 - August 22): Be confident, and wherever you find opposition to your goais, consider what your opponents have to say. They have some good ideas that will prove helpful to you. If you can find common ground to work together, all the better. VIRGO (August 23 - September 22): Never mind the "tall, dark stranger." A stocky, ruddy stranger is more likely to enter your life now. If you meet such a hottie, offer verbal challenges - dares, riddles, mysteries - to start what could become a very intriguing affair. LIBRA (September 23 October 22): You're sexual dynamite now. You could do what you want with almost anyone. Don't let enthusiasm make you forget what's important in life - sexually and otherwise. Keep your head clear and your sex safe! SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): You have a clear advantage over partners and opponents. You could take ruthless advantage, or engage them playfully, finding creative solutions to conflict and new opportunities for brilliant teamwork. SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 20): Problems you've been having with work will soon clear up. Real progress is a week or two off, but revelations and insights now will help you get back on track. Imagine what your wackiest old relative would suggest. CAPRICORN (December 21 - January 19): Sensual explorations open.up new sexual horizons. Discussion with a confidant should lead you through some confusion and surprises if you are to find any real clarity. AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): Any money troubles can point to bigger problems (and towards solutions as well!) regarding how deeply engrained family patterns may be holding you back from your career goals. Answers don't come easily now, but at least questions are getting dearer. PISCES (February 19 - March 19): Explore new ideas and philosophies enthusiastically. 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Another new cartoon, "Bitter Girl" just for the ladies will be a monthly addition. STAR of the month (page-3) will be a trial feature spotlighting a four statesirresistible hunk! Surely we will find 12 of these sexy guys for the up coming year! With all the human rights issues surrounding the GLBT community, we have decided to allocate a three page section, but not limited too, to address equal rights on a national level. The "Advertisers Index" (page 35) will give you our readers, a quick reference to find that business in the four states region that may carry a product or service you want. The index ·will conveniently point you to the· advertisers ad page. Advertising means you are · invited to visit the advertiser. Wnere can you find a copy of me STAR? Just look on page 36 to find a distribu'toi' in your area. Thao.ks to ali for your support over·this past year and a half and be assured we are here to stay. C.D. \'{'ardiEditor National Gay and Lesbian Task Force denounces U.S. Senate confirmation of William Pryor Jr. to the federal bench 'Pryor has repeatedly proven he is an ideological tyrant of the highest order' -Task Force Executive Director Matt Foreman WASHINGTON, June 9 The National Gay and Lesbian Task Force denounced the u.S. Senate's confirmation today of former Alabama Attorney General William H. Pryor Jr. to the U.S. Court of Appeals for the Eleventh Circuit. "Pryor has repeatedly proven he is an ideological tyrant of the highest order," said Matt Foreman, executive director of the National Gav and Lesbian Task Force. "Pryor's ~xtremist views may resonate with the outer fringes, but· they have no place on the federal bench. This is an American travesty." Foreman said Pryor ha'd compiled a "mind-boggling record of hostility toward the rights of ordinary Americans, and may be the most demonstrably anti.gay judge ever nominated to a federal appeals court." A few examples: @ In his capacity as deputy attorney general of Alabama, Pryor co-authored an amicus brief supporting Colorado's anti-gay ballot initiative in the U.S. Supreme Court case of Romer v. Evans. • As Alabama attorney general, Pryor wrore an amicus brief defending Texas' anti-gay sodomy law in the U.S. Supreme Court case of Lawrence v. Texas. Pryor sought to deny gay people equal protection under the law, including upholding tne imprisonment of gay men and iesbians for expressing their human ~exuality in the privacy of their own nomes. @ While temporarily sitting on the Eleventh Circuit via a recess appointment by President George W. Bush, Pryor cast the deciding vote upholding Florida's ban on adoption by gay men and lesbians. • Pryor calls the U.S. Supreme Court's decision in Roe v. Wade as "the worst abomination of constitutional law in our history." "It is widely recognized that Pryor is a right-wing zealot who is unfit to judge," said Foreman. "His hostility toward a vast range of Americans and fundamental rights and freedoms is as astounding as it is disturbing." New Report Love Won Out, Details One of James Dobson's Most Harmful Anti-Gay Ministries at Focus on the Family So-called "ex-gay" conferences target lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender youth and tear families apart "'Love Won Out' is one of the most harmful programs sponsored by James Dobson 's organization," said Matt Foreman, Executive Director of the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force. "Their speakers are nothing more than snake oil salesman peddling pernicious and discredited theories about how parents can 'prevent' homosexuality in their children. It is homophobia, not love, that wins out at these conferences." New York: May 4, 2005 - A new repor: released todav bv the National Gav and Lesbian Task· F;rce Policy Institute titled, A Report from "Love Won Out: Addressing, Understanding, and continued pg-8 You'llfi~d lo,w.s of hip cafes and restaurants in Melbo11me's fanky Fitzroy neighborhood, JULY 2005 by Andrew Collins "Melbourne, Australia" Nearly all gay North Americans who make it to Australia end up spending time in Sydney, but relatively few ever make it to the n:i.tion's mecca for culture, Melbourne. This city of roughly 4 million cl:i.ims an am:i.zing theater scene, a vast range of first-rate live-music venues, highly regarded art museums and galieries, and cutting-edge events (including late January's Midsumma Festival, which showcases visual and performing arts; February's Melbourne Fashion Festival; March's Queen Fiim Festival; and November's Fringe Festival). In terms of gay-friendliness, this· city of vibrant, lively neighborhoods ranks among the most progressive and inviting places on the pl:i.net. And hey, it's also home to Kylie Minogue _:i.nd_ Dame Edna, two queer icons. . . . Food lovers extol Melbourne's wealth of fine restaurants, known p~cularly for excellent ethnic fare (from ltali:i.n to Asian). Java addicts will find that coffeehouses arc jusc as popular here as they are in Seattle or Toronto, and oenophiies appreciate the city's love of fine wines, which is evident in the great selections at both affordable and high-end restaurwts. The city also cl:i.ims several cool boutique hotels, a wide range of bars and discos. that host weekly gay parties, and a smaller but still potent suppiy of nightspots that glow pink seven nights a week. • Melbourne is less a singular destination than a collection of distinctive neighborhoods, all of them connected quite handilv bv a clean and efficient system of trams and buses. Rath~r th:i.n focusing on the ~ity's partic~la; attractions and gay-oriented businessei, .h~re's an introduction to the city by way of its ench:i.nting neighborhoods. Keep in mind th~~ -~though you'll find a gay scene in sever:i.l parts of town, the neighborhoods south o_f the. 1'.atta River tend to b~ known more for fashion :i.nd glitz, while those north of the nver tend _more toward funkiness and countcrculturalism. Also note that "hote!" in Australia can refer to anything from a pub to a disco to an act.ual lodging (perhaps with a bar or disco); except where overnight accommodations are mentioned, :assume that all the "hotels" in. this articie are nightspots. Central Melbourne The citv's courtly business district contains soaring skyscrapers, tree-lined streets, and many of Melbour~e's cultural attractions. Downtown's most distinctive feature is its many "lancways," Iitrle alleys lined with impossfoly cure tearooms, boutiques, bars, and cafes. Some of them lead into enclosed arcades, where you'll find more of the same. There's plenty of great shopping to be had in Central Melbourne, ::specially on Collins and Little Collins streets, which are lined with shops specializing in haute couture and fine jewelry, and Bourke Street, where you'll find ali the le;;ding department stores, such as Myer and David Jones. Downtown contains ::hc,we:iith of the city's top accommodations, including such stellar luxury options as the phenomenally cushy Park Hyatt Melbourne and ,he luxe Le Meri~i::~ at Rialto. Also consider staying at the Metropolican Hotel, an uber-chic bou::iquc property with sleek decor. Head to Federation Square, an architecti.:railv dramatic complex containing the Australian Centre for the Moving Im;ge (it shows arty films, often with gay themes). The compound also Page 7 contains the sexy restaurant Chocolate Buddha, which serves sophisticated but affordable Pan-Asian cuisine. Another memorable downtown dining option is Ezard at Adelphi, helmed by celeb chef Teague Ezard, a ch:i.mpion of modern Aussie cooking. Just across the Yarra River, the glitzy Southgate district is dominated by modern skyscupcrs containing dozens of upscale shops and restaurants, including the well-regarded Pure South, where you might sample slow-roasted wild duck with parsnipand- vanilla puree, and a caramelized fig-port reduction. This part of town is a real culinary hotspot. Head a bit east of Southgate, along the river, and you'll come to the lush Royal Botani Gardens, which make for some of the city's best strolling. St. Kilda One of the hippest neighborhoods around, St. Kilda developed as a swank seaside resort during the 19th century, fell on grim rimes during the mid-20th century, and has truly blossomed again over the past couple of decades. These days this colorful neighborhood is loaded with fun shops and c:i.fes and anchored by Luna Park, a Coney Island-like bc:i.chsidc amusement park overlooking Port Phillip Bay. The St. Kilda Esplanade runs along the waterfront and is a terrific pl:i.ce for a walk or jog don't miss the arts and crafts market hdd here on Sundays. There arc two main drags worth scoping out: Right along Fitzroy Street, you'll find a slew of trendy h:i.ngouts and shops. C:i.fc Di Susio serves superb Italian fooci in a romantic setting - it's a great special-occasion pick. Around the corner, I1 Fornaio is a terrific little post-industriai space serving up espresso drinks and delicious bre:i.kfast and lunch fare, along with toothsome sweets. Consider staying next door at the 40-:mom Prince of Wales Hotel, which is one of the coolest and gay-friendliest properties in the city, with h:p contempor:i.ry rooms. There's also great dining here at Circa, and a natty bar that draws a fashionable bunch. Aithough }e's a bit bland-looking, the nearby Novotel St. Kilda has a terrific location right on St. Kilda's Esplanade and has reasonable rares. Another good bet is perhaps the slickest backpackers' hosrel in the country, Base, a contemporary building with a red-glass facade and surprisingly comfy rooms. The other area for great window-shopping and dining is Acland Street. Sample the wonderful seafood fare at Ciaypots, which also has a branch in Collingwood, and then try nearby 7 Apples for sensational gelati in a city tl1at's known for it. Down the block near the Esplanade, Soul Mama is famous for its fantastic, world-beat vegetarian fare and enormous deserts. This snazzy place with wonderful water views, too. Just a little east of St. Kilda, the rapidly gentrifying Balaclava neighborhood has several groovy cafes · and restaurants, including gay-popular Boccone, a smart, minimalist trattoria where you might sample salmon carpaccio with ruby grapefruit and basil salad. And don't miss Glick's, a Jewish bakery famous for its bagels. pastries, latkes, and chopped herring salad. A hip breakfast and lunch spot with a sunny patio, Las serves such tantalizing fare as pancakes with blackberry coulis and mint. In the same area, on Saturday evenings you'll find great drag shows and dancing :i.t the Greyhound Hotel. Prahran and South Yarra The stylish Prahran precinct has arguably the highest concentration of gav-oriemed businesses in the city, most of them clus~ered around the in:ersection of Com:nercial Roaci and Chapel Street. Drop by the gay bookstore, Hares and Hyenas, for a browse. And cion't miss strolling through Prahran Market, which pulses wi;;h gourmet food and produce s.:alls :i.nd can get quite cr.:r;sy, especially on weekend mornings. The neighborhood's favorite gay clubs arc Diva, known for its campy drag shows; Xchange Hotel, v.·hich draws a cruisy, sta~dand- model bunch m ........ continued page-28 / Page 8 NATIONAL ISSUES CONTINUED: Preventing Homosexuality," provides a first-hand account of an anti-gay conference that took place in Minneapolis, Minnesota in September 2004. The report's authors, Jyl J. Josephson, an Associate Professor at Rutgers University-Newark, and Cynthia Burack, an Associate Professor at Ohio State University, detail the theories and world views espoused by the presenters and "ex-gay'' leaders who spoke at the conference, one of at least four such conferences sponsored annually by Focus on the Family around the country. Among the key observations highlighted in the report is the claim that homosexuality is caused by a lack of "appropriate or fulfilling" relationships between a child and his or her same-sex parent. One speaker, who first said that parents should not be blamed as the principle source of homosexuality in their children, went on to warn that mothers who are "doormats," • "manipulative," "domineering," and "selfconsumed," can cause their· daughters to become lesbians. "It would be shocking for most Americans to see the way that conference presenters claim to be champions of the family while they blame parents for making their children gay or lesbian," said Cynthia Burack, one of the report's co-authors. "As a researcher and university professor, I am amazed that ex-gay 'experts' continue to use discredited psychology to explain the origin of homosexuality and that they continue to stigmatize gender-atypical behavior," continued Burack. "Telling parents that they must force their children to conform t0 gender stereotypes to keep them from becoming gay is hurtful to both parents and children." One of the most disturbing observations detailed in the report is that a number of conference a.:tendees appeared to be parents accompanying their young teenage children, presumably to help "prevent" them from becoming gay. The outreach of "Love Won Out" to youth is exemplified by a picture of a young teenager on the ministry's website with a confused and sad _expression, placed right next to the ohrase. "A dvnamic one-dav conferenc: addre'ssing, underst~ndiog and preventing homosexuality." - "As the mother of a gay child, I was particularly heartbroken to see these parents and their children attending this conference," said Jyl Josephson, report co-author. "What impact does it have on a young teenager to hear such rejection from his or her parents and people who claim to be representatives of God?" continued Josephson. "One speaker even claimed that if a genetic basis for homosexuality were discovered it would still be a violation of God's will. Frankly, this message to young people is immoral and I have seen first hand the gteat harm that it causes to vulnerable children and youth." "The pastors, clergy, and lay leaders of the Task Force's National Religious Leadership Roundtable have witnessed the negative impact of Focus on the Family's so-called exgay or conversion therapy ministry. Ex-gay ministries are groups that llttempt to change people's sexual orientation because of conservative religious beliefs that say homosexuality is a sin. In their funding and promotion of these so-called ex-gay ministries, Focus on the Family is destroying families and the faith of young people." Richard Lindsay, spokesperson, Religious Leadership Roundtllble. iversity ide ents We Do It t! For GLBTs & PPLAGs Eureba Springs, as Valentine's, Spring & Fall Dances - Concerts 00 BEARS! Plus other Pride Eve11ts! - And Watch Out Far Nore TS de.com Page 9 NATIONAL ISSUES CONTINUED: National Gay and Lesbian Task Force to President Bush: "If it's good for the Baltics and Russia, what about here at home?" - Matt F-0reman, Executive Director National Gay and Lesbian Task Force Speaking in Latvia on the 60th anmvc:su,; of the end of \X1\'flI, George Bush lectured , Russia and Vladimir Putin, saying, ''The promise of democracv is fo!fil!cd b,· ciinoritv rights, and equai iusti~c under the r;ilc of la,..._;, and an inclusive socictv in whicb even· person belongs!' · ' Mr. President, you support amending the U.S. and state constitutions ro depri,:c a minority gay peopie of :i right rl:e majority takes for granted and sees as funda1;:;ental, namely marriage. You oppose giving gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender Americans equal protections ueder tile iaw from discrimination in employment, housing, a:1d public accommodations. Your administuaon has relentlessly sought t<) exclmic even the words 'gay,' 'lesbi:111,' 'bisexuai,' and 'transgender' from any federnl fonding initiative. So, the questio:1 is, 'If minorir;· rights, cciu,,l justice under the law, and inclusiw. arc good for the Ba!tics and Russia . why !101 here at home?"' RYAN WHITE CARE ACT FUNDING IS IN.AD1EOUATE IN FIGHT AGAINST IV/ AIDS 'Shortchanging the fight against HIV/AIDS threatens the lives of millions of American men, women and children,' said HRC President Joe Solmonese. WASHINGTON The Human Righ1:s Campaign expressed deep disappointmenr at the d~cision bv a House subcommittee to flat-fund rhe Ryan White Comprehensive AIDS Resources Emerg~ncy Act and other critical federai HIV/ }dDS programs. "Shortchanging the fighr ag:1insr i,J.J\/ All)S threatens the lives of rnillions of :\merican men, wcn1c::1 and chiidrcn." said HRC President !oe Sol:nonese. , ·•HT,.j, •.. f'l\·,1,r,·)s v,,. !t.h.>UL g1y1ng -1 i. ,. J /\ 1 prograrns the resources they need~ ,ve'H continue to sec adverse i1nJ)acts to those n1ost at risk: coinrnunirics of color~ vouno· peo()lc, gay anci bisexua'. m~:; anl' ,vomen.'' In approving the flat-funding le,·els, a subcommittee on rhe }Jousc 1\ppro!)tiations Committee provided no increase for most <,f rhc programs in the CARE Act with the exception of one program, the AIDS Drug Assistance Program. However, ADAP, which prnv1des HIV-related presc:ipti,m drnl!S to those withm.it access tu basic HIV ,! treatment, w«s increased by only S10 million faliing "ar shor: of the funding needed to support rhe crisis conditions this program faces. Despite the insufficient fundi:1g levels for these criricai programs, tbc appropriations subcommittee disappointingly increased funding for abstincnce-umii-marriage programs by $11 miilion oveall. "1\1.bstinence-~untii-marriage programs are based on bad science. Gooc: science telis us more is needed for the programs the l.. I ousc is shurtchang-in!. .. Cleadv •. - ,,,., 0 ,,, pohttcs ts gettlng in the ,vav of science~]) added Soimonesc ''Ti0 is i,s~e cannot be vie,ved in a Yacuurn. ·rhe Ilvan \Xlhite (·•Rr. . , ~i'"i r,, /\.ct ts a prayer of last resort. Because ~:t'edicaid cuts arc forcing n1ore Americam into Ryan Whrtc CARE Act programs, shcrcchanging this program will have a devastating effec;:." ., The Ry,;n White CARE Act is the largest single source of pubiic funds (exduding Medicaid) that ~rears people wii:h HIV/ AIDS in the Unitec! Srntes. First enacted in 1. 990, the bipartisan piece of legislation supports a \Vide range of community-bas~ci scr.rices, including~ prirnary and home health care'.' case managen1eot.., substance abuse treattnent and mental health services and nutritional and hc,using services. / Page 11 ~ ,4a) Page 12 It wasn't lust Another Drag Show. It was BIG TIME SHOWTIME! 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It was 1:he 2nd annual 1'1iss Oklahoma Con~inental Pageant and a new attraction this year the "Mr. Oklahoma Continemal " title. Okiahoma Continental is the fastest growing pageant in Oklahoma, and is also called the most fascinating in the state. The first Mr. Oklahoma Continental, Daniel Xavier (residing in San Antonio TX) placed 1st Alternate it the Mr Continental Nationals last year. I\fiss F:bony Hall captured the 1\1:iss Oklahoma Continental crown and has held many other titles. Lady Hall resides in Tuisa. information on 1.10 comino- events. 1st Alternate Mr. Oklahoma Continental 2005i2006 the "Oklahoma Cowboy Crooner" Matthew Hearh-Ffrzgeraid. Page 13 Serving our community in Missouri, Arkansas, Oklahoma, Illinois & Colorado This Is Shelter Country. Here in our community you will find Shelter Agent Greg Tainter. We're proud to serve this community and our customers. Call today and ask about our services. Auto · Home - Life- Business Greg W. 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Ginger & Matthew will return to Tulsa on Saturday, July 16th 2005 at Tulsa's Renegades Club. Matthew will also be performing at Club Maverick in Tulsa on July 23rd 2005 for the "Christmas In July" fund-raiser. In Fort Smith you may want to check out Master Illusionist Gage Gatlin performing July 16th at Club 1022. Gage currently hold more reigning titles than any ocher Male Impersonator. If male dancers are your cup of tea! Then head over to Tulsa's End Up Ciub for nightly entertainment from some of the hottest jocks in the area. And of course every Sunday at the Bamboo Lounge in Tulsa. The men are hot and guarantee not to disappoint you. Don't miss the Fabulous Rachaei Sage in Tulsa for r,vo nights July 8 at the Mercury Lounge 1 0pm and will be performing at the Bamboo Lounge Sarurdav Juiy 9th, 9pm. / Page 16 Rachael ge Performing at the Mercury Lounge 18th & Boston - Tulsa, OK July 8th, 1 0pm & The Bamboo Lounge 7204 E. Pine ':" Tulsa, OK July 9th, 9pm JOIN THE STAR TEAM! 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This • · historic evem sparked the modern LGBT equaiity movement throughou: the world, bringing LGBT people cogether like ne,er before. The following year, on the anniversary of the Riots, the newh· organized gay, community held a mar~h to commemorate ti1e event. More than 30 years la::er, ;:his small but significant gathering has evoh'ed into Gay Pride Month, a celebration of freedom and support for gay, lesbian, bisexuai, and trnnsgender peopk Chances are you won't be hearing any proclamations or statemen~s in honor of ~his event from toe White House. However, you probably wiil hear so:neone saying chat gay pride celebrations are a passe concept. Tha;: it's silly to be proud c;f being ga/because i~'s like being proud to have brown eyes it's something you have no control over. Ivlaybe you\7e even said or thought the sanH~ thing yourself. 1\io~v I'm the first to insist that everyone has the right to their O\vn opinions, but I don't necessarily agree ,~ith that i.dea. · Pride is important. I understand the concei,t that \Ve should be proud of "vho .,;e are rather than "\\that \\~e are, lJnfortunatcly, not everyone i~ able to do ::bat rii1t away. I think it's great when people arc secure enough to s~mp:.y be proud of accepting themseives, but I do think "gay pride" nas its place especially for young gay kids or people first corning out. It's a ceeci o: many oppressed minorities (thi:1k Black Pride, or Girl Power). It take~ something that is tradi:ionally demeaned and makes it somethi!lg pmverfuL It makei; it easier to accept being gay if it's something to be proud of versus something to be ashamed of. \X'hen I was first coming out, I wore rainbow Pride neckiaces all tne rime. I ne,·er !err home without one. I grew up :n an extremeiy conservative religious family, never knmving a singie openly gay person. For me, as it is for many from rural areas or religious upbringings, being gay wasn't something to be proud of. These necklaces were a physical link ro a community to which I didn't feel I folly be:onged yet. I wanted to belong, but I was stiil searching for mv identitv, which at the time ·was almost ~onsumed by the fact t::iat I was gay. Wearing that necklace, that symbol of pride, of belonging, aliowed me to be proud of something I was still coming to terms with. It helped me to be proed of \Vhat l was: a 6ray man. As I became more comforrable with who I was, I found I didn't need to const;n:iy announce the fact chat I was gay. Being gay no longer defined me as a person. It was mereiy a p:ut of my sum totai. My pride shifted from what I was to who I was but I needed that first srep. I had to accept be:ng gay before I could become a whoie person. J'hat's why I think g3y pt·ide is ~rill extremely important maybe now more th~n ever. The LGBT community is under attack. \'Y/c've gained visibility, but '".,vith Yisibility con1cs increased attention} and the attention has led to increased persecution .. \Y,/e~vc been bit ,vith a barrage of :antigay n1cssagcs frorn the president to Congn::.-s to our churches in recent yc,ars. 1l•cre is an abundance of negafrv<: inforn1ation around out on cbe r11ainstrcaff1 media~ the rnes~agcs an: cotning through loud and clear. Gay pc~)p!e ::1rc sinners. (;ay people do not deserve the sm11e .............. contt.n uect' next page. Page 19 rights a:: others. Gay families are less vai11· d t I~ an " tram, .ti.o.n aI f am1·11· es. "· It's okay to discrimina:e against minorit:es. Hate · is acceptable ·when it's targeted at those y;rithout rights. \'ve need to counter those messages with the truth, and one of the ways we can do that is through Pride. Imagine, for a minute, a young gay child. Maybe he doesn't even know he's gay yet, or maybe he's just starting to realize his attraction for other boys. Maybe he only understands chat he is different. He's being inundated with negative information on a daily basis: from the government, from school, from church, and maybe even from his parents. Where are the positive messages? Now imagine a closeted young lesbian in the rural South. Maybe she's crapped in an unhappy marriage, maybe she's maintaining that she hasn't met the "right man" yet, or maybe she just fears the rejection of her family. She's just hoping desperately to escape, but doesn't feel she has any options. Where is her hope? The Far Right would like us to live in shame, fear, and silence. Pride celebrations defy them in a powerful and positive way. By making ourselves visible and celebrating who we are, we're sending a dear message co both our critics and impressionable minds. \'('c're here, we're q~ecr, and ,,,e're not going anywhere! To me, Gay Pride Month is less about those of us who are already out and more about those who have vet to make tbat sten It's a powerfui statcme~t, but the best parr';s, we get to have fun while making it! Gay Pride events are being pl:umed all across the co,mtty and world, but you don'c hayc to join one of the large planned galas. You can .make a statement right where you are. Richard D. Mohr, author of The Long Arc of justice: Lesbian and Ga'V Marriaoe ,,. . ., 6, Eqttatity, and Rights, relates this story in his book. "The town I live in is girded by cornfields and good o!' boys. It's nowhere near large enough to support a gay pride parade the last weekend in June, when cities across America commemorate with parades the so-called Stonewall Riots that launched the modern lesbian and gay rights movement in 1969. The town's gay men and lesbians do something at once more radical and more ordinary than that. We have a gay contingent in the town's all-American Fourth of July parade. The parade draws in crowds from all of the county and much of the rest of east-central Illinois. Last year, a purple parade banner streamed by the crowds reading 'Lesbian and Gay Pride.' I saw a little girl, maybe fiYe, lean over co her father and ask, 'Daddy, what does pride mean?' Apparently she knew what lesbian and gay meant." Whether vou do it in the citv or in the country, i~ a Red state or Blue state. as part of a large celebration or a small · act of defiance, get out there and show vour pride! It's important. Quotable Quotes When asked by the Fort Worth Star Telegram how he would tell gay and lesbian veterans of combat in Iraq that they cannot come home and get married, he replied, "Texans made a decision about marriage, and if there's a state that has more lenient views than Texas, then maybe that's a better place for them to live." __ Texas Gov. Rick Perry Page 22 by 1z Highleyman JULY 2005 Summary : Past Out is a retrospective of key moments, personalities, and subjects in LGBT history. Each installment brings the past to life by exploring the diversity of the gay past and its impact on the queer present. What is the history of Queer Nation? The activist group Queer Nation evolved as the gay and lesbian movemen~ confronted the scourge of AIDS, the rise of the religious right, arid changing notions of identity. Though s;1ort-lived, Queer Nation made a :asting impact on the movement and the language it uses to describe itself. Queer Nation was born in New '::' ork City in the spring of 1990. The idea for the group is said to have hatched at an ACT UP meeting, and Queer Nation made its first public appearance at an April demonstration against antigay ·violence. But the new face of queer activism burst onto the national radar with an inflammatory broadsheet distributed at the citv's Gav Pride parade that June. , , The four-page broadsheet - "published anonymously by queers" proclaimed "Queers Read This" on the front .;.nd "! Hate Straights" on the back. "Until I can enjov the same freedom of moveme~t ,and sexuality as straights, their privilege must stop and it must be given over to me and my queer sisters and brothers," the diatribe read. "Straight people will not do this vobntarily and so they must be forced into it .. .Terrorized into it. .. Rights are not given, they are taken, by force if necessary ... Straight people are your ene1ny. "Queers Read This" was phorocopied, passed from hand to hand, faxed, and mailed across the ,ountrv. A Queer Nation chapter soon formed· in San Francisco, follow;d by groups in other major cities. With a considerable overlap in membership, Queer Nation adopted· ACT UP's sense of urgency and its theatrical spirit. Like ACT UP, Queer Nation was a leaderless network of autonomous chapters, in turn made up of ad hoc working groups. By the summer of 1991, there were chapters in some 40 cities, including conservative locales such as Des Moines and Salt Lake City. "Our strength lies in our numbers, our diversity, and in our public and proud contempt for the closet," read the group's mission statement. With its slogan, "We're here! We're queer! Get used to it!," Queer Nation came to be seen as the shock troops of the movement. Popular actions included the Suburban Homosexual Outreach Project (same-sex kiss-ins at shopping malls) ~nd Queer Nights Out (invasions of straight bars and other venues). Queer Nation protested everything from gay bashing and the 1991 Gulf War to the censorship of queer art and negative portrayals of lesbian and bisexual women in the film _Basic Instinct_, while promoting queerpositive sex education and defending abortion clinics alongside pro-choice activists. Its Urban Redecoration Committees ensured that the group's brightly colored stickers and postecs featuring declarations of queer pride and sometimes sexually explicit images adorned telephone poles, subway cars, and activists' leather jackets from coast to coast. The uncompromising message of "Queers Read This!" and Queer Nation's in-your-face tactics re-ignited an old debate within the LGBT community over the merits of radicalism versus reformism. "Being queer means leading a different sort of life," the broadshee: declared. "It's not about the mainstream, profit margins, patriotism, patriarchy or beingassimilated." In an article in the Winter 1991 issue of the now-defunct nacional magazine _ Out/Look_, Alan Berube and Jeffrey Escoffier wrote that the group's "new culture is slick, quick, anarchic, transgressive, ironic ... If they manage not to blow up in contradiction or get bogged down in the process, they may lead the way to ne\v forms of activism for the 1990s." ............... continued next page Page 23 Queer Nation did blow up, but still managed to influence ti:ie course of LGBT activism. The group's very name embodied its contradictory goals of achieving di\·ersity while solidifying a dis~inct idemiry that sometimes bordered on separatism. Members frequently debated wl:-io belonged under the "queer" umbrella. Queer Nation generaliy embraced bisexuals and transgendered people, and took pains t<J emphasize inclusion of people of co:or and all classes; there was more controversy, however, about whether the term could encompass radical heterosexuals. As much as a sexual orientation, "queer" came to denote sexpositivity, pride in being an outsider, righteous anger, and a determination to fight back. Bm: some felt that Queer Nation really oniy welcomed the young and hip, and that its members were a new generation of clones. The group was also accused of emphasizing style O\"er substance - ½"hat Escoffier called a "politics of symbolic gestures" and failing to engage in the difficult work of long-term organizing. By 1993, Queer Nation was largely moribund. Just as the in-your-face activism of the Gay Liberation Front in che eariy 1970s was followed by an "insider" strategy in the 1980s, the radical activism of ACT UP, Queer Nation, and the Lesbian Avengers gave way to more mainstream activism focused on inclusion in the military and same-sex marriage. But Queer Nation nevertheless made a lasting impact on the movement. The once-shocking term "queer" has become de rigueur, and gay and lesbian groups now include bisexual and transgender people as a matter of course. In the ·;:ords of former Nacional Gay and Lesbian Task Force director Tor:e Osborn, "Queer Nation forced us to deal wir.h issues relating to gender, violence'.' and visibility that pushed our movement fot"\vard." Minister Denounces President Bush's 'Compassionate Homophobia' '77Jere is nothing Cliristian about discrimination.' Rev. Steven Baines On J unc 21, Pre:,id<:n: Bush addressed the Southern Baptist (~onvention at its annual 1nccting in ~"2:!s1r,~illc, ·renn. Pra:sing the co1i,-e:1tio~1's support for 1he Federal ivlatri,,[;C :\mend,nent, the president said: ;,Somhem B,tptists are practicing compt:ssion by defending the family and rhe s,m-ed instit!aion of marriage." Reverend Steven Baines, an elder in the Discipics of Christ and member c>f the Natiornd G,1y and Lcsbi:m Ta~k Force ~atic,na] Religious Leadership Roundtable rt:spo:1ds with the foliowing statement: "As an eider in the Christian Cirnrch (Discip~es of Christ) and a fonnGr Southern Baptist minister, I am disappointcl that ti1e president and leaders of the Southern Baptist Convention continue t(> p::csent their discrimination against :csb:an, ga:,, bisexual and transgcndcr J\1r1cricans 1n the guise of compas:,ion. "The preside:1t·s speed, faiicd to cxpl:J.te how a Federal tvtarriagc i\tncndment that wouid block tho:1:,amls of i\mcr:can families fmm the prnccci.ions they neecl for :heir stabilitv ,111,! ~ccurity car: be seen as an act of co1npas~ion; just as the Sou:hern Baptist Convem;on has faikd r.o e~piain how supp:>tting this d,~cr1m1nat10n contributes to tts Christ:an ,•:itn,:<~ There i,; Christian about dlscrirr,in=-ttinn. r,pp•~p~~~~cd J1rH ;;-; tLc frn1n<h1 ti<)n 1+1c J-{ebn::\-.- and (:hristian president Page24 Creator: Paula Martinac has been writing for the gay and lesbian press for more than 20 years. She served for three years as the co-chair of me board of directors of New York City's Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender Community Center, where she founded a groundbreaking reading series cal!ed "In Our Own Write." Lesbian Notions by Paula Martinac JULY 2005 Hold the Marching Orders In a recent op-ed in the _ Washington Blade_, organizer Robin Tyler made an appeal for a fifth LGBT March on Washington to take place before the 2008 election, "demanding all ~mr civil rights." I understand her anger with the climate that's been set by Washington; gay people are indeed, as she put it, "under siege." But before we take up the call for another showy, star-studded event in the nation's capital, we should consider where queer money and energy could besr be used at this time of right-wing hegemony. I believe that the stra~egy of holding national LGBT marches should be put on indefinite hold, and that we would be better served as a community to shift increasingly more of our resources to local demonstrations and organizing. I've perrnna!lv attended two of t!1e four national marches for LGBT rights that have take~ place ;ince 1979. The 1987 demonstration was a somber event the devastating sight of so many queer people with photos pinned to their T-shirts of friends and lo,;ers who'd succumbed to AIDS is still a vivid memory for me. The chillv. overcast day reflected the mood of our community perfectly. In me one photo I ha;e of myself ~t that march, I'm sitting down wearily with my head in my hands. Six years later, the day of the 1993 march was bright and sunny; Bill Clinton had just taken office with the promise of ending me gay military ban, and many of us believed we could actually see a ray of hope. In fact, me march had more of the air of a party than a poiitical march. And although it was a iot of fun, it was still a bit pointless for those of us who wanted something more substantial than the color and glitz of a Pride celebration. Like many omers in our community, I sat out the march in 2000, which had been dictated by a few national organizations that never bothered to consult local gay organizers about whether another D.C. get-together was really a good idea. Later, the so-called "Millennium March" was fraught with financial scandal, as tens of thousands of dollars mvsteriouslv went missing from its coffers. Have w~ learned 'anyming as a movement in the five years since then, particularly gi·:en the devastating results of the 2004 election? '· .Hopefully, we know now mat mere's much truth to the old maxim about all politics being locai. That's not to say that our nationai gay groups snould close up shop. But a corporate-sponsored party in Washington - starring, as Tyler s4ggests, gay icons like Cher, Madonna, and Barbra Streisand, no less! - couldn't adequately address the serious challenges our community faces. Just think about it: Do you see me American Family Association wasting energy anci time hosting an antigay blow-oi:t on the Washington Mall, starring, say, Pat Boone and Bo Derek? No, the AFA is too busy organizing locally focused actions like its "Meet at Citv Ha.:l" event for a "morn~ rebirth" of me country, calling on local religious groups and. congregations to spread rhe word. Indeed, the right has been so successful in its antigay campaign because it has honed its local and Internet organizing skills to precision. How do you suppose they routinely manage to garner alf those signatures ro get antigay initiatives on ballots across the count::y? Page 25 Our CY,Vn major organizations !i'.,c: the Human Rights Carr:paign and the National Gav and Lesbian Task Force have been c;Jrrect, then, tc begin chanp_eiing more and mo:c c,f their energies and resources mto shori!1g up our state and local efforts. Ai:d c,·en one national sraffer taken :mt of commission to plan a \X'ashington e\·ent and i.: would, of course, take many more than one would be one staffer too many. Tyler reasons that a national march would. be important for demonstrating our "strong and united presence.'' But there are many other ways to sho•;;r queer strength and resolve. (I won't go imo "united," which I think, given the diversity of our community, is an unattainable goal.) For example, a single day of demonstrations in the capitals of states that have antigay laws on the books or anti-marriage-rights bills pending would be far more effect;ve than a party ,vith Babs on the Mall (e,·en if she sang "People" jus: for us). Remember that there arc still a lot of foiks ou;: there who think gay people don't exist or shouidn't live - anywhere but San Francisco and New York. Jus~ recently, Gov. Ricic Perry (R-Texas) had the audacity to suggest that returning gay veterans of the Iraq war might be happier vacating his stare if tney don't approve of its laws. How much more effective it is, ti1en, to fight 'phobes like that on their own turf not by gamering in D.C., when al1 me politicos have left for the weeicend. :; ~'~~"ii tue, 1111:eg . ~i, ',;{,'{~if~~rtfsirig:Servire. .. ,//,-/·>:)/(C/~::,, Quotable Quotes "l thinic we'ye alreaci·; won (the samesex marriage batt:e]. /\nd that's a hard thin!! to remember, because it's really a scary time. Bur ,vhen you look at ,vhat l1as happened in the gay-rights movement in the last 36-37 years, we have progressed further, in a shorter period of time, than any civil-rights movement in the history of the planet, and there's bound to be a backlash .... Uppity people get uppity and get excited and get organized and there's a backlash. But I trulv believe mat we have so profoundly' impacted the generation behind us that we'ye already ;,on. \Y.'e just don't know it yet." "Queer as Folk's" Peter Paige (Emmett) to the Sr. Louis gay newspaper The Vital Voice, May 13. Joplin Couple To Host First Annual Christmas in July Pa JOPLIN, MO_Tom Walton and Tim Baker tne host and creators of the annual Christmas open house parry to benefit "Aids Project of 6e Ozarks" (APO) has announced their first "Christmas in July Bar-B-Que". The event will be at me coup:es home in Joplin on Sunday July 17th, i 2:00 noon. Guest are requested to briag nonpe~ishabie items, mainly paper goods, bleach and detergents. Ail donations will go to benefit APO members. "Wim all the cuts in benefits to people with AIDS, donations have never been more important than noy;r" said Tim Baker. The decision by a House subcommittee to flat-fund the Ryan Wr:ite Comprehensive AIDS Resour~es Emergency ~;\ct and other federal HIV/ AIDS programs, more help from the private sector is critical. Fur an invitacion or to drop off your contributions call 1·101 or 'Torn at 417-396-0474, Page26 Ask Uncle Mikey Advice Column! JULY 2005 Salurntions to all of my loyal kictens en:rywhere.This month Uncle has been just over run with a!l the excitemem of pride kittens. You know they asked uncle to serve as a judge in a pageant competition going on to celebrate pride while, crowing diversities finest. Uncle was drawn back imo the days gone by; Uncles pageant days. Straight men only think hey know blood sport. You cannot imagine the true body called pageant. I teli you those Queens work it as if they own it and you. Yes, uncle dealt with some trifling Queens however, emerged victorious. Face it sisters, in the end there can only be one. You have never in vou.r life saw the levels of absolute disdain, which, pours from a runner up. I swear at ~ne competition, I kno•,v I heard music from the omen coming from behind the dressing room door. I have· also been equaliy dividing my time to my new houseboy, while craining this young kitten to become a great mans man. This young one now before me shows a lot of possibility. Uncle misses Delight, however realize nothing last forever. Delicious has been able to jump in '.Vithout looking back. I will tell you the buns on that boy, inst scream-Hot dog. Uncle none::heless has remembered his own policy of not sampling the helps me!lu of love. Whilst Uncle Recalls days gone by, let us see what seekers seek this month. Dear Uncle: I am one of t:\vo children born to my parems both of which are gay. My sister and I have chis odd relationship, in which, I wish I could escape. She has always had better grades, better friends, everything overall has been better for her. My parents e:ven accepted her sexuality, while treated me as if I was a mistake. They never loved me. I have the opportunity of moving away with some friends, which would allow me my escape. I haYc no~ told her yet as it is difficult as were all we have. Our parents both gone now, leaves us depending soleiy on one another for family support. Am I wrong for wanting my own life, away from my family shadows? Distant brother Dear distant: Well baby Jane; it's all ai:>out you from the sounds of things. It is hard enough to find chosen familv in the world ~o cali loved ones. I would suggest that you attempt to try to keep a relationship, even if a ~ong distance one with your sister. Who knows kitten vo;.. may need a kidnev one dav. You know they sav jealousy is crueler than the g;a;e Kitt~n; you may w;nt to thi;1k about that fo; a '\~hiie bef~re making your choice. Uncle might also suggest seeing a [professional for what sounds like- a luggage rack fuH of baggage. Kitten, life is too short to hold grudges. Let go and let Cherl l(ittens life i::: hard enough without dragging baggage around. Life is not always easy, however, there is one thing true. Life is what you make of it. You can either enjoy life while, balancing the negative occurrences. Aiternatively, you can give in and allow the negative to rule you. In which case you shall send your life being a negative I'\Jancy. Dear Uncle Mikey: I ,vaf. ha,·ing sex ·.vith my partner the <Jther night, when he shocked me with is bei1avior We are not mto kinky stuff, just good old-fashioned sex. When he toid me Page 27 to slap him, I thought he was joking. Than in a passionate plea, he insisted that I slap him. I did it however, felt strangely afterwards. When it was all said and done, he acted no different from before. Is this normal for men to pick up new habits? Should I be worried here? I am afraid he may show up with a black mask and whip soon, what should I do? Seriously Confused Dear SC: Kitten, I would not raise the alarm just yet. This could be something he heard of, or simply had the urge to try. It is not uncommon, especially in a committed relationship for people to want to try new things. I would keep open discussion on the needs of both parties if you fear certain behavioral movements in the bedroom. Smooches-Uncle Uncle Mikey not only believes in creative _expression in the bedroom, however is an active promoter. Uncles bedroom accessories include and are not limited to the following. Smoke machine, laser machine, mirrors for every angle. You know, I have seen some of my best moments in those mirrors. Maintaining a happy healthy sexual relationship takes dedication, creativity, and of course Glitter! Well Kittens-ks that time again. Uncle has to get ready for the nights events. Remember while enjoying this pride season, we have a lot to be proud of. Our community is made up of some of the most diverse, genuine, loving people in the world. Most of which uncle has loved on a one to one basis. Continue the spirit kittens, and be safe. Remember; Love thy neighbor, especially if he is Hot! Smooches Uncle Mikey and Tiddles too! Undt! Mikey is a character from Freeiance 'WTiter Michat!l Hinzman. Michat!l h.u b«n writing/or ten years. Utilizing bis st1IIUl!s, and life t!Xprntm« to bdp othttrS in bis commHnity, through humor and sound ad'Uice. Mich4eJ applied bis stlldy of prycbolvgy and creative writing, 11.S 1«il his extensive b.ultground in mtmul health Dim:t can to bring a new st:,lc and approach to helping otkrs. Michael's other works can be vit!Wl!ti at 'fl1'WU!.gayiinkcontent.com. Bamboo owner's donate mini cvcle back to Tulsa Rough Riders. , Press Release: June 15, 2005 TULSA, OK_Tulsa Rough Rider would like to thank Club Maverick for letting us have our club night on June 11, 2005 Gay pride weekend at the club, it was a great success. We would also like to thank everyone who participated and purchased Raffle tickets. Stan and Terry owners of the Bamboo Lounge won the Mini Chopper that was given away and they have graciously donated it back to the Rough Riders to Raffle again on August 13 2005 at the Rough Riders next club night at the Bamboo at 1 0:00pm till ? All the proceeds from the Chopper will be donated to Hope Clinic. The August 10th chili night at the Bamboo will also be the Rough Riders One year anniversary celebration and will be a night to remember. Lots of surprises and some out of control fun. Quotable Quotes "My stepdaughter is gay. She and her partner have been together in Chicago for 10 years; they have a wonderful relationship. I adore her. She's been my stepdaughter since she was 9, so we have a ,.·ery good family relationship." Golden Girl Betty White to San Diego', Gay & Lesbian Times, May 12. Page 28 Oi.t o/Town- continued from pg-7 watch videos and mingle; and the Market Hotel, the city's top late-night gay disco. Amid several offbeat shops and eateries around the intersection of Greville and Izett streers. check out Candv Bar, which serves light f~od and hosrs a gay parry on Sunday nights. . Just amble up Chapel Street from Prahran to South Y arra to find some of the most fashionable clothing and design shopping in the city, plus a slew of wny restaurants. Collingwood, Richmond, and Abbotsford North of the river and Central Melbourne, you'll find happening restaurants and swish lounges cropping up in Collingwood, especially around rhe junction of Smith and Gertrude streets. On Thursdays, the Q+A party at the Builders .,"1rm Hotel draws a see-and-be-seen set of mostly under- 35 gay guys. Continue a bit east of the neighborhood into the rough-and-rumble Richmond and Abbotsford areas, and you'll find several top gav hangouts,including the Glasshouse Hotel, a fab lesbian club thar's especially popular on Sarurdavs. and the Peel, a youthful video bar and dis~o- that draws plent'J of young guys on the make. Leather-and-Le~·i's types favor the rollicking Laird Hotel. Trade, a cozy gay pub, draws an eclectic, mostly male neighborhood crowd. Head ro the Star Hotel or DT's Hotel for crazy drag shows, which are arguably as beloved in Australia as anywhere in the world; and for steamier action, you'd be hard-pressed (so to speak) to find a better-kept and cleaner bathhouse than Wet on Weliington. Fitzroy In Fitzrov. the intersection of Brunswick and lohnston '~treets marks one of Melbourne's hipster meccas, buzzing with tapas and flamenco bars, Asian restaurants, wackv coffeehouses, and off-kilter bout1cmes and ;hops selling curring-edge anci retro clothing, underground mus:c, and e,ery imaginable kinci of gift and knickknack. Mos' piaces are hidden behind ,:intage bdding$ wit:1 ir.tentionally distressed facades, nrod~cing a some,.vhat shabby-chic look. • Among the dozens of intriguing eater:cs along here. consider Red Tongue Caie, a ch;c, contemoorary space that's equal parts 1ncimat; and· seductive; Fitz Cafe, a han~;somc <pot w•th a nieasant sidnvaik terrace and ;~;:;t globail~ inspired food; or the affordable Polly Bar, \vhich serves up delicious small plates, ranging from barbecue venison to gnocchi. Carlton Just west of Fitzroy lies Melbourne's imp;essive Little Italy neighborhood, Car!ron. The main drag, Lygon Street, contains scores of great restaurants and gourmet shops. Try Ti Amo, an old-world trattoria, for such classics as lamb osso buco. And definitely don't leave Carlton without ~topping for gelati or pastries at Brunetti. And that's just a sampling of the great neighborhoods in this underrated ciry. Yes, it's a long way to Australia, and Sydney deserves attention, but don't come all this way without spending at least a few days in Melbourne, one of the world's great gayfriendlv metropolises. The Little Black Book (the country code for Australia is 61) Base (17 Carlisle St., 3-9536-6109). Boccone (2"'7 Carlisle St., 03-9527-9223). Brunetti (194- 204 Faradav St., 3-9347-2801). Cafe Di Stasio (31 Fitzroy, St., 3-9529-3999). Candy Bar (162 Greville St., 3-9529-6566). Chocolate Buddha (Federation Square, Flinders and Swanston Sts., 3- 9, 654-5688). Ciaypots (213 Barkly St., 3-9:-,34-1?-8'.->) · Diva /153 Commerciai Rd., 3-9824-2800t DT's Hotel .(164 Church St., 3-9428-5724). Ezard at Adelphi (187 Flinders L:a., 3-9639-6811 ). Fitz C:,fe :357 Bruns\':ick Sc.. 3-9417-5794). Giasshouse Hotel (51-55 Gipps St., 3-9419-4748). Glick's (330 Carlisle St., 03-9527-2198). Greyhound Hotel (1 Brighton Rd., 3-9534-4189). II Fornaio (2 Acland St., 03- 9534-2922;. Laird Hotel (149 Gipps Sc., 3-9417- 2832,. 1,:,; Chicas (Carlisle St., 03-9531-3699). Le Meridien at Rialto (495 Collins St., 3-9620-91111. Market Hotel (143 Commercial Rd., 3-9826-0933). M.eibourne Visitors Centre (Flinders and Swanston Sts., 3-9658-9658, www.thatsme!bourne.com.au). Metropolitan Hotel (263 Wi!liam St., 3-9670-1385). Novote! St. Kild:. (14-16 The Esplan2de, 3-9525- 5522). Park Hyatt Melbourne (1 Parliament Sq., 3- 9224-1234). The Peel (113 Wellington St., 3-9419- 4762). Poliy Bar (401 Brunswick St., 3-9419-6539:,. Prin~e of W:i.les Hotel (2 Acland St., 3-9536-1111). Pure South (Shop GR2, River Level, Southgate, 3-9699-4600~. Q+ A party (Builders tum Eo.ei, Gertrud~ and Grove Sts .• _3-9419-0818). Red Tongue Cafe (275 Brunswick St., 3-94i5-92.i4j. 7 Apples (75 Acland St., 3-9537-3633:,. So'1i l\.fam;i !St. Kiida Scabachs. 10-18 Jacb. Blvd., St. Kilda. 3- ~525-3338). Star Hotel (176 Hoddle St .• 3-9417- 2(,%,. Ti Ame (303 :,ygun St .. 3-9347-5759). Tou;~stn Vio:ori~'s gay/lesbian website (http:// visitmeibourne.com/ g.ytr~vel). Trade (9 Ped St.~ 3- 9417-6700). w~: on \'(icliingtcn (162 Wellington St., 03~9419-20101 Xch;;.nge Eotei (119 Com1nercial Rd-, 3-9867-5144). Hollywood Events Center Opens with "NIGHT OF STARS" by Greg Steele June 18, 2005 OKLAHOMA CITY_ Leona Layne emcee, opened the star studded show to a oacked house of 300 plus. The elusions of Tina Turner, Judy Garland, Diana Ross, Nancy Sinatra, Cher, Bet Midler and special guest's belted out everyone's favorite tune to a delighted audience and raised over $1,100 for RAIN Oklahoma. RAIN Oklahoma, a nonprofit, regional AIDS Intercommunity Network, and is located in Oklahoma City, Tulsa and Lawton. The Events Center is located in the Hoilr.vood Hotel and Suites anci has been a iong awaited project of Lee Burrus the complex General Manager. \Y/itt a capacity of 400, the evem center is availabie for banquets, conventions, pageants, parties and other functions. The center has a large stage with great lighting, a dressing area and a dance floor. Food and bar service are also available in the center from Topanga Ba1: and Grill. The i/!11-.<ion of Judy Garland at the opening of Hollywood £,vents Center, Oklahoma City. The cemer is a beautifui new addirion to Oklahom~ City's GLBT community facilities and to our region. For booking information contact Lee Burrus, Generai Manager, 405-()4--2351. f Page 33 STAR Scene Photo's by Chaz I Seo by Jack Fertig JULY 2005 es "Keep a journal, Scorpio!" Three weeks ago, Venus was square Jupiter and ttine Uranus; now the Sun is in the same position. Try to imagine Fidel Castro imitating Isadora Duncan, and you'll get the general picture. Where you experienced charming stimulation three weeks ago, you're now likely to find egoistic assertion. Channel that energy constructively, if you can! ARIES (.March 20 - April 19): Just as Louis XIV declared, "L' etat, c' est moi," so may you be overidentifying as the avatar of your community's concerns. Put your ego aside and be strong enough to accept criticism as a key to real growth. TAURUS (April 20 - May 20): Teamwork has been a big issue lately. All your recent efforts do not make vou enough of an expert to tell other~ what to do. Better to use your charm to elicit advice from your colleagues. GEMINI (May 21 June 20): Stay focused on what's important in the long run, and on strategies for the furore. That focus should help you curb your playful, provocative streak, which is usually great fun, but is sure to get you into big trouble now. CANCER Oune 21 July 22): You can be Queen of the F***ing Universe at your birthday party, but otherwise your self-absorption ain't pretty. Affect the humble grace and charm of an immigrant or a profoundly religious grandmother. If neither of your grannies fits the bill, make one up" LEO (July 23 - August 22): Stop, think, and breathe. People ignore your demands for attention, so tune in to. quiet, selfcontained intensity. Meditate and focus on what you want to say; speak with your beautifully dramatic eyes and save your mouth for more intimate expressions:. VIRGO (August 23 September 22): Try not to obsess about money. Focus instead on what values and resources you can offer others. If you have any doubts in those departments, any son of teamwork or volunteer effort will bring out your ralents. LIBRA (September 23 October 22): Your instincts for teamwork are sure to get you ahead. The trick is to make others look good, which you usually do well. You're too eager for recognition now. The more you share the credit, the more you'll achieve in the long run. SCORPIO (October 23 November 21): Keep a dream journal handy. Meditate. Those deeper thoughts, images, and memories all provide a wealth of material to open up new artistic and philosophical directions. And a journal makes the darker, scarier stuff easier to handle, too! SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 20): The stars are boosting your sexual confidence - as if you needed any more! That charisma can be enjoyed at a purely erotic level, or it can be sublimated into community work. They're not mutually exclusive - do some good, and you can get done good! CAPRICORN (December 21 - January 19): Opportunities for promotion can get you in over your head. Trust in your improvisational skills and you should be able to talk your way out of any. situation; exploit that ability now while you can. AQUARIUS Oanuary 20 - February 18): Arguments can get expensive or lead you to fundamental questions of philosophical values. Save some money and re-examine your dogmas. Budgeting and exercise help focus your mind in those directions. PISCES (February 19 - March 19): Remember three weeks ago when you were irresistible? Well, now you're indomitable - unless you _ want_ to be a kinky bottom! Whatever - or whomever - you want, go get 'em, tigerfish! Jack Fertig has been working as a professional astrologer since 1977 and is a founding member of the Association for Astrological Networking. r t l l I I I I -J7 Page-20 Page:-2 - - ~. 7 l~~ge-10 . Page.:.nf· - - - - - - - I?age;-17 . Pa.ge/~2 Page'-14 You can find copies of the STAR at these 4 states business & organizations. ARKANSAS KANSAS Arkansas, Eureka Springs Diversity Pride Events - - w1vw.diversitypride.com MCC Llving Spring - - - · -870-253-9337 Arkansas, Fayetteville (479} Studio 716- -716 W. Syco.more- - - '179-571 130 Arkansas, Fort Smith (479) Kinkeads- 1004 1/2 Garrison Ave- - 479-783-9988 Club 1022 - -1022 Dodson A·,e - 479-782-1845 Arkansas, Hot Springs (501) Our House Lounge 660 E. Gro.nd Ave- -624-6868 Arkansas, Little Rock (501) Back Street - - -1021 jessie Rd- 501-654-27 44 Dio.mond State Rodeo Assoc.- - - -'\\rww.dsra.org Discovery- - - 1021 Jessie Rd- - - 501-656-6900 The Factory -412 Louisiwa St.- - - - -501-372-307(1 Kansas, Pittsburg {620) River of Ufe Church - 1709 N W2lnu: -11AM PSU-QSA.- - 1701 S. Broadway- - 620-231-0938 Kansas, Wichita (316) Club Glacier J's Lounge - Our Fo.ntasy- 2828 E. 31st South - 3:6-612-9331 - 513 E. Central - - 3i6-262-1363 • 3201 S. Hillside- -316-682-5494 The Otherside- -447 N. St Francis- 316-262-7825 Shatlli - 4000 S. 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May Ave - - 405-947-9361 Topanga GriiJ & Bar- 3535 NW 39th-- 405-947-2351 Oklahoma, Tulsa (918) Bamboo Lounge- 7204 E. P'ne - - 91?-836-8700 Club Mo.vcrick- - 822 S. Snerida:' - -918-835-3301 Dreamland Bks -- 8807 E. Admir:1.i Pl - -834-1051 Elit~ Bookstore --814 S. Sheridan- 918-838-8503 End Up Club- - - c.24 S. Memorial- - -918-836-2480 Flamingos Ciuo- • -7915 E. 21st St - - -9 I 8-622-6339 GLBT Comm. Ctr- -5545 E. 415:. - - • 918-743-4297 The De:our- - - -794A- E. 21st - - - - - • 918-270-2428 Club Majestic- - 124 J\i. Boston - · 918-584-9494 Renegades- - 1649 S. Main - - - - - - 918-585-3405 Prisciila's - - • 7925 E. 41st - -918-627-4884 Pr::scilb's - - 5634 W. Skelly - - - - -918-446-6336 Pri~cilla's • - -11344 E. i ith - - -- - -918-438-4224 Prisdib's - - 2333 E. 71st - - - -- - -918-499-1661 Tub• CARES- -3507 E Admir~i Pi- . 918-83·+-4194 Tulsa E~gk- - -1338 E, 3rd - - • - 918-592-1188 TNT's- - 21 i 4 S. Memorio.1- • •· - 918-660-0856 Undcrguy,corn - - -15 E. 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Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data magazine Text Any textual data included in the document VOLUME 2, ISSUE S MAY 200!5 FREE Green. Country will have a _Pride Parade 2005. With lots of ium9.r1 floating ~round T-Town &peculating Tulsa would not organize a parade this year, New TOHR and GLBT Center Oircct<>r; Greg Gatewood a11urcd the STAR 1'~a•a Diversity Pride Feativa.l and Parade will h1tppeo. With Gatewood coordinating die festival events and Rick Martin 1111 coordin,ator of the parade, the many volunteer', and the efforts of PPL.AG, OYP and TOHR Tulsa should have a pride celebration like no other. Tulsa Oklahomans for Human rights (fOHR) will celebrate it's 25th anniversary with this yea.rs events. TOHR sponsors the GLBT Center in Tulia and if you haven't visited the center, check it out. A newly dedicated David Bobnett Cybercenter donated by .the David Boboett Foundation ia very imprcnivc. Along with the 10 IBM workstations many other improvement! arc happening at the center including expanded community meeting rooms. Visit jhe website for more info www.tob.r.org Tulsa's first Gayfl',ride event was in 1981 and was primuily picnic gatherings in a bar parking lot. The fitat plll'llde was held in 1999 and became national new, because of opposition from the Tulsa City Council Tulsa you have come a long way baby! For Pride week cvcot11 schedule sec page 12. Page 2 AV/$.- Page 3 NWA'S ONLY GAY OWNED AND STAFFED DANCE Ci.UBI Sunday May 29th. 2005 $300 Grand Prize $150 1st Alternate Sponsorship to Miss Gay Arkansas America $50 Emry Fee Must be 21 years of age KARAOKE WEDNESDAYS PLASTIC THURSDAY DANCE PARTYEVEFtY THURSDAY! . . . .. . . . . . GQ 80 BOYS EVERY FRIDAY & SATUFtOAY NIQHTJ , NWAJS BEST DRAG SHOW I l I ji I 4 I ■ ~, EVERY SUNDAY NlGHT! Wed -Sun 9pm - 2am 716 W. Sycamore. F~ille AR 479-571-1300 www.studio716.net Kansas Votes NO Same Sex Marriage! April 5, 2005 - Washington, DC. The National Gay and Lesbian Task Force condemned today's 70% to 30% vote (with 72% of th~ precincts reporting) by Kansans in favor of a constitutional amendment banning the recognition of same sex marriages and other, more limited forms of partner recognition. The Task Force said it was dismayed by the continued, widespread silence and inaction of so many faith and political leaders and people of good will in response to the wave of anti-gay organizing that continues to sweep the country. With today's vote, Kansas becomes the 18th state to amend its conscitution to preclude the recognition of same-sex marriage. Ten of the 18 amendments, including that of Kansas, seek to preclude the recognition of other forms of relationships, such as domestic partnerships and civil unions. Four states adopted amendments prior to 2004 - Alaska, Hawaii, Nebraska, and Nevada. It is possible that another 12 to 14 states will have sllnilar measures on the ballot between 'no~ and 2008. The marriage amcndtnerit failed in the City of Lawrence (home of the U°!versity of Kansas) by a luge margin, lostng in 35 of the Cit:is~.:1:9,.piecincts and tying in 3. The . by :which it carried in Shawnee. (where the state's largest qgf · · . ted) was smaller than (Shawnee County/Topeka;· %). Page 5 a 0 20 5 Friday June 3rd Doors@ 8pm Featuring: Miss Continental 2004 ERICAANDRBWS I TulsaOK . Continental 2004 ANTONIO EDWARDS Mr. Contlmmtal 2003 RAY MATTHEWS Hostedby: Canada Conlinentll Pins 2004 TAIMAHALL UEDANIEI.S, per .COlll . Page 6 Tulsa's 1st Gay Rodeo Smooth as Silk! April 12, 2005 by Greg Steele TULSA, OK. .. Since October of 1976, the first Gay Rodeo in Reno, Nevada, 25 Gay Rodeo Associations have sprung up across the United States and Canada and comprise the 'International/ Gay Rodeo Association, IGRA. Gay Rodeo's are hefd through out the year with a National Final's to buckle and crown the season. Men and Women from across the US and Canada compete for points to have the honor of an invitation to the National Finals. Out of hundreds who compete, only the top 20 point winner's from each competition category will be invited. It's a rough ridden, steer bustin, serious event each year for these dedicated gay men and women who compete in rodeo competition. The Gay Rodeo has become an important part of the LGBT community. Those who organize and stage the events year after year work night and day to bring you the best show possible and the Sooner State Rodeo Association SSRA, showed there stuff in Tulsa this year with a grand rodeo, a hell of a good time and great entertainment. The 2005 season ends in Dallas with the Texas Gay Rodeo Association, TGRA and the IGRA National Final's November 10-13, 2005 in Dallas, Texas. This will be the grand finally to a big year for IGRA. Fan's from across the US, Canada and around the globe will converge on Dallas. It's the big event of the year for contestants and rodeo follower's. Rodeo lovers come in campers, motor homes, limo's, buses and. some just ride their broncos. They come to party hard , enjoy entertainment and the thrill of the action. If you have never· been to a_ IGRA rodeo, you've missed a good dose of ou,r ~estem · heritagi::. So, saddle up guys _ and _gal~, get on.out to see :sqme real cowb9ys & cowgirls. · Kansas Gay Rodeo Association, KGRA Rodeo Wichi~ is the nex( competition' scheduled for May 13-15, www.kgra.us Following KG-RA will be the Oklahoma Gay Rodeo Assoc. OGRA in Oklahoma City on May 27-29. www.okgayrodeo.com Mood Swing perf.onnu1e;at . Rodeo in Tulsa's new Livestock~~ Page 7 124.N.·Boston: ,.. ·Tulsa, OK ,... 918.584.9494 Tht.rsday Nights - Rachael Erikks - l'vlGA 2004 ~~ l~IJg-.ts - Catia Lee Love - MGA 2000 Thursday and S(nday - 18 to enter; 21 to drink Friday ~d_$.atl.rday_Dance Party-- 21 to enter 9 p till 2 ~ - Thu-sday - Sunday nights KGRA, Rodeo Wichita 2005 Buckles UP! Press Release: WICHITA, KS _KGRA will be hosting Rodeo Wichita '05 on May 14 - 15, 2005 which is part of the Bud Light Rodeo Series. Contestants from Oklahoma, Texas, Arhnsas, Nebraska, Missouri, Colorado as well as distant states will compete for cash and the coveted Buckle. There are 14 events each day that male and females compete in. The rough stock events like Bull Riding and Steer Wrestling will test the skills of each cowgirl and cowboy contestant. There are horse speed events like Pole Bending, Barrel Racing and "drag" events like Goat Dressing which involves 2 team members racing to put underwear on a goat. You won't want to miss the Wtld Drag Race, contestants in heels! The rodeo is held in the indoor Mattox Arena in Derby, Kansas with vendor & concession space under the Big Top (a 40' x 80' Tent). KGRA will donate a portion of the profits to a charity to be named by our Grand Marshal. Our Grand Marshal for this year is Linn Copeland, owner of the Fantasy / South 40 Complex in Wichita. Linn is a founding member of KGRA and continues to be very supportive. KGRA is one of 25 nonprofit organizations in the USA & Canada that operate under the International Gay Rodeo Association (IGRA) guidelines. Visit the KGRA web site www.kgra.us it has all the activities listed with times for the rodeo. You can also contact us Page 9 91 ■ . ■ :18•■ 70Q www. ■ AM ■ CJCIL0IJNIIIETUL■A.CCIM Join Us For the BIG.BASH! Memorial Day Weekend M 28th, 29th, 30th Page 10 MAY 2005 by Andrew Collins "BARCELONA, SPAIN" Even though Barcelona routinely receives plenty of great press, it's still vastly underrated, given just how much the city has to offer. This is a world-class metropolis, and specifically a premier gay and lesbian destination, especially as Spain's government prepares to legalize gay marriage by the end of 2005. Like Sao Francisco and Sydney, Barcelona combines the sophistication of a bustling, urbane, and progressive city with mesmerizing natural and physical beauty. Its many other ass.ets include superb contemporary cuisine, stunning architecture spanning many centuries, friendly and approachable citizens, fashionable shopping, copious hip gay cafes and nightclubs, excellent public transpomtion, reasonable prices (compared with much of Europe), and a temperate, sunny climate. Perched on the Mediterranean Sea in northeastern Spain, this stately city of 1.5 million fringes the foothills of the Pyrenees. Barcelona is eminently walkable, and if you stay anywhere near the gay area, you're within walking distance of most city attractions. Cabs are also plentiful, affordable, and easy to hail from the street, and the city has an efficient and clean metro system. It's also a &idy accessible place for English-spealring visitors, as the vast majority of the city's residents speak at least some English. Barcelona's mother tongue, Cat2.lan, is still widely used, and many business names and signs are expressed in Catalan, but nearly everybody in Barcelona also speaks Castilian Spanish (the national language). Additionally, Barcelona is quite safe, but for the same problems with pickpockets and petty thievery that p~e a number of European cities; violent crime is exceedingly rare. Probably Barcelona's most striking feature, elaborate _Modemista_ architecture dominates much of the city. The architect most associated with Barcelona, Antoni Gaudi, lived here from the 1870s until his sudden death (he was rim over by a streetcar) in 1926. Definitely plan to tour his masterpiece, Sagrada Familia, which looms high over the Barcelona skyline and can be seen from virrually anywhere. Gaudi began work on this spectacular skyscraping cathedral in 1883, but it's not expected to be finished until 2015. You can also admire many of his works by strolling through the Ei:z:ample neighborhood (especially along ritzy Passcig de Gracia, famous for fine shopping), and also up to Park Guell, the most enchanting pule in the city, replete with fairytale-like Gaudi spires, mosaic sculptures, staircases, and he~clies. The Ei:z:ample extends from the city center up into the hilly residenrilll ~~cighborhoods of interior Barcelona. Developers laid out this regal neighborhood of wide boulevards in the early 19th century, and Gaudi is just one of the fine architects who left his mark on the area. The small section of the neighborhood nearest the Universitat plaza, sometimes nicknamed the "Gai:z:ample," contains the bulk of the city's gay cafe and bar culture. To find these places, just stroll along the handful of blocks intersected by Gran Via and stretching from the Urgdl to the Universitat metro stops. From Universitat you can walk just a few blocks east to the city's most prominent central square, Placa Cataiunya, which is surrounded by department stores and hoteis. From here,· the city's famed La Rambla leads down to the waterfront. This broad tree-lined boulevard. make, for an engaging strol!, but it's also the most touristy section of the city, rife with overpriced and unexceptional restaurants and shops. Barcciona's waterfront and harbor (Port Vell) received a major facelift prior to the city's hosting of the Summer Oiympics in 1992, and the entire shoreline has continued to improve and develop ever since, with fine beaches, restaurants, shops, and marinas . ........ cont. pg-21 ] I I I I I I I I ! Page 11 Overexposure to Dancers can. lead to vision problems ... ~rut?! . . . . JIii ' ' : ' •• < Cold ,Beer Hot Bods - Strong Drinks 1 424 S. Memorial, Tulsa ii' (~118) 836-2480 21 AND QJER a ONE D~INK MINlt.UM a CLOSED TUESDAYaWWW.ENJUPCLUB.COM >~'181 .~μrgamy lgoldcasl1e,aim 5.840;2106 Joe Brennan Office Licensed in Missouri, Arkansas, Illinois & Colorado www.shelterinsurance.com This Is Shelter Country. Here in our community you will find Shelter Agent Greg Tainter. We're proud to serve this community and our customers. Call today and ask about our services. Life-Worker's Comp.-Home-Auto-Farm-Business Greg W. Tainter, LUTCF Post Office Box 339 Eureka, Missouri 63025 Tel: (636) 938-5500 Fax: (636) 938-3539 4815 South Harvard Ave., Suite 424 Tulsa, OK 74135-3068 Serving the tax and accounting needs of the Phone: (918) 747-5466 Email: KellyKirbyCPA@sbcglobal.net GLBT CommdLity since 1982 and ■venlna- a 'Week Also Open Holidays KEHN Page 15 Wichita's Gay Communi Will Parade Into The 21st Century Press Release: WICHITA, KS_On June 26, 2005, Wichita's gay community will hold it's first Pride Parade in more than five years. Lineup for the parade will begin at 1:30pm, .v-ith the parade kicking off at 2:00pm. After suffering a devastating loss with the Marriage Amendment, on April 5th, a number of us decided it's rime for a party!!! If you would like to join us for the first Pride Parade of the new century, in Wichita, then get a carload together, and we "'rill save some room for you in the lineup. The parade route will run from Central and Waco, to Central and St. Francis, with a Post-Parade Party at the finish line, featuring Parade Awards, speakers, music, food and drinks, t-shirts, and much more!!! If you would like to enter a float or car in the parade, please contact Mike Bevier at 316-207-1717. The registration feds $10 if paid before May 22nd, and $20 after May 23rd. The registration deadline is June 22, 2005. Walkers are free and encouraged to join in the Pride fun. So bring along your family, friends, co-workers, pets, all are welcome. Volunteers are greatly needed and even more greatly appreciated. Kansas is seriously behind the rimes, and we could sure.use some help bringing this state, kicking and screaming, into the 21st Century. FREE HIV TFSTING,NO NEEDLFS ! SPIRIT OF CHRIST MCC SPONSORS 2902 E. 20th St., PO Box 4711 Joplin, Mo 64803 In conjunction with AIDS Project of the Ozarks, MCC Joplin offers free HIV testing the last Sunday of each month between 5PM and 6PM. For your convenience you can also call 206-6179 for an appointment. We use the Ora-sure method which does not require the use of needles and we offer complete confidentiality. You may also request Booklets on AIDS for People of Faith • through the PO Box listed above. Spirit of Christ MCC Joplin "Serving A Healthier C-Ommllnity" Page 16 Star Scene I J j ut for a Hero In 1984, Bonnie Tyler sang "I need a hero" in her smash bit "Holding Out for a Hero." The song was resui:rected last year for the s~undtrack of Shrek 2. Its message of despen1.tion is one many of us can relate to these days, especially thoJe. of us in the LGBT collltllunity. We need heroes now more than ever. Perhaps it was this lon~g that led to the claim that our 16th president, Abraham Lincoln, was gay. In ~s recentlv released b,oo~ The Intimate World' of AbrabarJJ, Lincoln, Dr. C.A.. Tripp makes his case that President Lincoln was in &ct .a homosexual. He uses letters and co~temporary: .~econd-, hand accounts to•support·bis assertion:, .. but even bis most. ardent supporters have to admit that, far t:be·most part; the bt!lk of bis evidence is .circumst2ntial at best. I have to adtnit I'm more than a· little uncomforbble ~th. this whole situation. To me, it smacki ,;;f celebrity outing. I'm not trying to say; that .Lincoln was straight. I'm sii;ni?ly saying that I don't really think it's i!J? to us. to make that designation for him, especially considering the fetms "homosexual" or "gay'' hadn't even .been invented yet in that context. It's presuo;iptuous of us to assume that, were he alive today, Lincoln would choose to identify himself as homosexual. Are we th~ desperate for gay heroes that we have to for~e the designation on dead statesmen?' That's not to say I don't understand the need for someone to look up to. Dr. Tripp's goal was admirable. _Gay youth are especially hungry for an idol, and as much as I eniov Sir Elton's talent, let's face it - he's, h, ardly a role mod e1' . We don't need to invent gay heroes, though. Why bother when we have plenty who were openly and proudly gay? . The Equality Forum 1s an annual event whose goal is to promote understanding of the impact of .. homophobia on individuals, fam~es and society, and advance LGBT equality. Each year, the Forum highlights a. different nation. This year's focus 1s a National Celebration in honor of the fortieth anniversary of the historic first public gay and lesbian d.emonstration in front of Independence Hall and the Liberty Bell in Philadelphia on July 4, 1965. The Celebration will salute those pioneers and honor our LGBT . luminaries with' a special program titled "40 Years, 40 Heroes." The week-long Cd~b,ration will culminate on Sunday, May 1, with a full schedule of events. Several screenings are planned for "Gay Pioneers," a docwrientuy about the start of the ~y and lesbian' civil rights mov~ment. .The documentary was produced by ~quality Forum in collaboration with WHYY / PBS and was ll21llep. "Best of the:. Y w'' by The A.dvo'<:ate. R.oundtal:M i:liscussions featuring honorees sucli as Byan Wolfson Kate K~ndall, ~tt Foreman, ' · ·· · · · 13ui:iey'Frank, and . ulcd . thr·. · e Gfu.iton 0 . '• . th will be pa,mcifouing m the tribute to e 40 Heroes · which will beJollowed by a 1 meet~arig,-~eet with the honorees in the "Giy Icons Pavilion." Bishop. Gene_ Robinson will be leading .an 1nterfitlth service in the afteriiooti. The finale will be a concert at Independence Hall headlined by Cyndi Latiper. All. events are free. . Over eigl:lty n,1:ional ~ ititema~onal GLBT organi2ations. were· 10Volve1 .~ nominating the 40. Heroes. The cntcna required thad:Qe no~ee .had to haye made bis. or p~r ~ontpbutton bet:ll!C~~ 1965 and . . . . deceasecl, LGBT, . . . . ... , The nominations were th~ subt;n1~tdl to a selection committee, which na'trowcd the list to forty, then Equality Forum's Board of. Directors approved the final nominations. The end result is a satisfyingly diverse collection of activists, role models, and leaders . ......... continued next page Page 19 "This is an impressive list from Bayard Rustin to Barney Frank, MTV to Melissa Etheridge, Phyllis Lyon and Del Martin to Kevin Bourassa and Joe Varnell, Larry Kramer to Andrew Sullivan," stated Malcolm Lazin, Executive Director of Equality Forum. "In honoring these Heroes we acknowledge the paths they• have paved for our equality." Some of the names may be familiar to you. Who doesn't know who Ellen DeGeneres or Melissa Etheridge is? Less well-known are people like Bayard Rustin. He was a personal friend of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr., helped organize the National Demonstration at the Lincoln Memorial that defined the African-American Civil Rights struggle, and was a life-long advocate for gay rights. Have you heard of Phyllis Lyon and Del Martin? They were the first same-sex couple married in the United States at a ceremony in San Francisco on February 12, 2004. They were presented Women of Courage Awards by the National Organization for Women and their book Lesbian/Woman was named one of the twenty most influential women's books of the past twenty years by Publisher's Weekly. Or what about Tim Gill? He's one of only two openly gay individuals on the Forbes 400 list and an active philanthropist who provides millions of dollars annually to LGBT and HIV/ AIDS organizations. Then there's Leonard Matlovich, the first service member to fight discrimination against gays and lesbians in the United States military. His headstone reads. ''When I was in the military, they gave :me a medal for killing two men, and a discharge for loving one." These are only a few of the forty individuals being recognized for their contributions. Obviously, we don't have to look far to find role models. The problem lies in educating our community, especially our young people, about these heroes. We're_ living in times when our government and a very vocal segment of our society are actively opposed to anything remotely homosexual. Teachers can lose their jobs for simply telling their students they are gay or lesbian. How can we expect them · to teach about our gay heroes? No, until things change, it's up to us to spread the word. Equality Forum is to be applauded for their efforts to educate and acknowledge those who came before and made a difference. While we're recognizing the contributions of our community's notables, let's not forget the everyday heroes. The gay moms and dads who struggle every day to raise their children in a culture that tells them their family i:, of less worth than those of heterosexuals. They, too, are heroes. The brave men and women who live their lives openly and proudly even in the "Red States." They, too, are heroes. The soldiers forced to serve in silence due to government discrimination. They, too, are heroes. The fearless teenagers who come out in school despite the very real threat of harassment and bigotry. They, too, are heroes. Every act of courage, whether recognized by history or unseen by the world. moves us closer to equality. We don't ·have to hold out for our gay heroes. They're all around. We just have to learn to recognize them. Quotable Quotes "I really relate to the gay issue because of the marijuana issue. Because what Democrats are saying to gay people - which is basically, 'Oh, what do you care if it's just getting dvil unions? It's basically the same thing as marriage - just shut up and take it!' that's basically what people say to me about pot-smoking. They say, 'Bill, what do vou care so much if it's illegal? You can ~ways step outside the restaurant after dinner, I've seen you do it a hundred times, and smoke your joint in the allev.' And my answer to both of them is 'Fuck you.' You go outside after dinner and drink your brandy in the allev. You call whatever is going on under your roof a 'civil union."' -1V talk-show host Bill Maher to The Advocate, Feb. 15. Page 20 Ask Uncle Mikey Advice Column! May 2005 Salutations, Uncle here bringing you another in-depth look into all tings queer. Uncle is counting down the days until pride kittens. Celebrating that light which shines so bright from our community. Yes, uncle is gearing up, stocking up on supplies, while, preparing to endure endless parties, parades, and celebrations. Uncle spends the weeks after recouping from his yearly twist with the cause kittens. I am a giver however, so do not fret, you may just catch a glimpse of uncle if you look carefully. I will be the one dancing on the poll, L--------------' doing the sacred dance of the queenly, like the queens before me. Yes, I shall uphold tradition and vow to party until uncles proverbial bottom gives out. While, we dream of the celebrations which await us, allow us to see what queer seekers have brought uncles way this month. Dear uncle Mikey . I have made a mess with my friendship concerning my best friend. We have been friends forever, sharing almost everything. We have lived together now for three years since we graduated collage, and have seen the good and bad times go by us both. Well, we were at home last weekend, and we both being between mates right now, were drinking our sorrows away. He is straight and I gay. Though many said it would never work, it has been heaven, and I have depended on this friendship to get me through a lot. Well, I was drunk and horny, two combos which have proven dangerous for me in the past. I lent in to him placing my hand on his goods, and attempting to kiss him. I don't even know why I did it. He .has been distant and I fear he is thinking of moving out while, he is reading more into this than there reaOy is. I mean yes he is hot, and I wished on occasion, however, do not truly desire anything more than the best friend he has been to me. How can I convince him this was nothing more than a drunken weakness in my stupid lonely state? Seriously sorry Dearest Sorry, Kitten, alas, this is a most serious issues, with consequences, which you may find are inevitable. You broke his trust, and boundaries; which, are not so easily mended. You have to give him time to deal with your actions. He is probably feeling betrayed by you, since you are his best friend, knowing his sexuality, went ahead and broke that trust. You may very well wind up looking for a flat mate sooner than you dreamed. Uncle suggests giving him space, while, maybe writing a letter from your heart. Allow him to deal with this in his time, and see where this goes. It is. difficuit to come back from broken trust; however, determined one can overcome. So, hold in there, and just hope for the best and prepare for the worst as they say. It is his decision to make, and you will have to except the consequences of your actions. Uncle also suggests you reconsider drinking habits, which get you into troubie. Good luck- Uncle Dear Uncle Mikey: Dear Uncle: Why are so many gay men so uptight? It seems that drama rolls whenever there are more than two queers in one place. Does everything have to be a scandal? The normal guy i l f Page 21 Dearest Normal, Kitten, this is an easy one. Gay men are fabulous beings, which by design alone attract creativity, colorful surroundings, and of course, diversity in its finest. We do not look to some threepiece suite with a bad haircut, to dictate our life for us. We are ,what many only dream of being. We enjoy life, and the moment fate allows us. This however has a most plaguing side effect, and that is simply known; as drama. When you have, as many beautifully diverse people, as our community; New ideas springing fourth, life passions being realized, and of course the unique ability to stand in a world of repression, while, remaining true to yourself. There is bound to be some backlash, and that is drama .. So, do not judge so quickly my young one, Smooches-Uncle Drama is like anything else in life. Too much can push someone over the edge, while too little, can leave one in a bleak existence at best. The drama lets you know you are alive. So, enjoy it, while keeping it rightfully in check. Well Kittens, it seems our time has come. Uncle sends warm mav kisses out to all of his wonderful Kitt~ns. Remember this: He, who does not ask permission to exist, remains true to himself. While, the others will ask for the rest of life, for a ship, which will never come. Sink or swim baby, I got my thong! Smooches Uncle Mikey and Tiddles too! Uncle Mikey is a character from Fru&.na: writer Michael Hinzman. Michael has mm 'Writing for ten years. Utilizing his studies, and life experienCJ! to hdp others in his community, through humor and sound advice. Michael applied his study of prychology and creative 'Writing, as well his extensive brtckground in menu/ hMith Dirn:r caTI! to bring a new style and approach whelping others. Mich11.d's other works can be vieTDed at W'W'W.gaylinkcontent.com. Out of Town from pg-10 It's a great area for a warm-weather stroll, especially during the day, when you can admire the sea. To find the gayest section of beachfront, head to the Barceloneta neighborhood Gust west of the Olympic Port) and follow it as far west as you can go, not far from the Sant Sebastia cable-car tower. When you've had enough of the beach, hop on the cable car, which offers stunning views of the city and harbor and deposits you right on the edge of Montjuic, a verdant and hilly park. that's an absolute highlight of any visit to Barcelona. In the park, you can take funiculars (small aerial trams) up to its highest point, where Montjuic Castle (now a military museum but for many years a fortress and prison) stands sentry over the city. Or you can stroll through the park's lower regions to explore the lush botanical gitrdens and the wonderful Fundado Miro, the art museum dedicated to modern Spanish master Joan l\,fuo. Another area where you should try to spend at least one full afternoon is Barcelona's centrally located Old City, which feels nothing at all like the rest of the city, with its extremely narrow lanes and meticulo*sly preserved medieval architecture. This neighborhood dates to the city's Roman origins and contains several key landmarks, from the magnificent cathedral to the city history museum. If you have a bit of a foot fetish, check: out the quirky Museu de! Calcat, an entire museum dedicated to the history of shoes. In the neighboring (and also ancient) Born and Sant Pere districts, you'll find the Museu Picasso, whose thoroughly contemporary and stark interior contrasts dramatically with the building's medieval exterior. Exhibits here focus heavily on Pablo Picasso's early years, so if you're looking for his most &mous works, you may be disappointed. Fans of haute couru.re must not miss the neighborhood's Museu Textil, whose collections date back many centuries but include pienty of fashions from the past century, including some donated by chichi Spanish designer Cristobal Balenciaga.. Just a bit farther east, Puc de ia Ciutadeila is a delightful spot for a walk: (it's not uncommon to see the occasional same-sex couple meandering about the gardens); it also contains the city's zoo and natural history museum. On your way to the park, drop by the small but fascinating Museu de la Xocolata, which contains amazingly rendered contin11ed pg-26 c as been writing for the ~y and lesbian press for more than 20 years. She served for three years as the co-chair of the board of directors of New York City's Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender Community Center, where she founded a groundbreaking reading series called "In Our Own Write." Lesbian Notions by Paula Martinac MAY 2005 Making History In a few weeks, anybody who's anybody in the lesbian and gii.y movement will be headed for Philadelphia to commemorate "the 40th anniversary of the GLBT dvil rights movement," as the celebration's official website (www.equalityforum.com) bills the event. You may be scratching your head now and saying, "Fortieth anniversary? Philadelphia? I could have sworn the Stonewall rebellion took place in New York City in 1969." And indeed, it did. However, an event that is much less known but still of enormous significance to the LGBT movement took place four years _before_ Stonewall. On July 4, 1965, in front of Independence Hall in Philadelphia, a group of gay men and lesbians _____________ ;...,it staged what appears to have been the first public protest on behalf of gay civil rights. Each year on Independence Day for the next four years, the protestors held a demonstration at the same spot, called the "Annual ~eminder." N~w, just a couple of months shy of the actual anniversary, those lesbian and gay pioneers will be acknowledged with a star-studded celebration. . The P~d~hia demonstration was notably different from Stonewall - peaceful, qwct, and with 1ts own dress code of suits and ties for men and dresses and heels for women. They marched in an orderly circle carrying signs with, messages such as "Homosexual Citizens Want the Right to Make Their Maximum Contribution to Society." Still, as longtime gay activist Frank Kameny correctly notes, those conservatively dressed, law-abiding protestors "created the mindset for the expression of dissent" that made the Stonewall rebellion possible. Equality Foru.m's description of the anniversary celebration makes the distinction between the two historic events even clearer, with the stress in Philadelphia on "GLBT civil rights," as opposed to the "GLBT liberation" that arose from Stonewall. And that's been the split in our movement since the 1960s, continuing in some ~easure to the present day. Tho_se activists who have pushed primarily for "gay civil righ~s" have been more moderate and centrist in their approach to our movement, seeking to fit gay people into the overall fabric of American life. On the other hand, those who have pressed for "gay liberation" have often been in favor of more sweeping change of U.S. institutions and policy. It's noteworthy that we're commemorating the Philadelphia demonstration at this particular point in our politicii life as a movement, when maay of us arc indeed much closer to the suited activists of 1965 than to the queer rioters of Stonewall. We have l~rge national organizations in Washington and New York that hold glitzy fundraiscrs. A lot. of us name marriage and the right to serve openly in the military among our concerns - hardly the goals of take-to-the-streets radicals. Some of us even vote Republican. And a number of us have the disposabie income to spend on a jaunt to Philadelphia to venerate our past. Significantly, the May 1 event promises to be quite commercial, with a conformist public face. It's not eyeo being held on the _acrual_ anniversary of the demonstration, but i_n conjunction with the city's PrideFest of entertainment and parties. Among the conttnued next page 1 Page 23 many side-events taking place is a dinner honoring gay-friendly corporate giant IBM. So if. celebrating our marketability or the conservative tum our movement has tak~o isn't for you, the Philadelphia celebration probably isn't either. I myself won't be attending. At the same time, Equality Forum should be commended for a couple of importll.nt things that will come out of this event. First is the fact that Pennsylvania Gov. Ed Rendell (D) will d~dica~e a marker from the Pennsylvania Histoncal and Museum Commission to note the s~ot of the Philadelphia , . dc:m<>ostratl()n. This in itself is cause for celeb~tion, since there are so few amgible remnants of the lesbian, and gay past. To attempting to document LGBT historic sites in a book called The Queerest/P:~ces_, t f~und tha~ sadly, ~y buil~ assoC11lted with our moveme1# ~ere .no longer extllot. What's· more, his.t<>ric house museums connected , to &mous queers - like Walt Whitman, , for cx:unple - are often deeply "closeted" about their &inous inhabitants. A number o~ gay-related sit~s, especially in Sao Francisco, have attained city status as landmarks; but our only "out" national historic site remains the Stonewall Ion which .got its official designation unde; the Clinton administration. Now, having a state recognize the lesbian and gay movement - with a marker near the spot ~e Declaration of Independence was signed, no less - is of enormous significance, particularly .in this conservative political climate. A Statement by The Reverend Dr. Troy D. Perry Moderator, Metropolitan Community Churches On The Elevation of Cardinal Ratzinger to the Papacy of the Roman Catholic Church April 19, 2005 , In 1987, Rev. Elder Nancy Wilson, then Yic~-:Moderator of Metropolitan Commumty Churches, and I met Cardi.rial_ Ratzingcr at the Bilateral :q~oguc held during Pope John Paul II's VlSltJci Columbia, South Carolina. , A,t that time, we were filled with h<;>pc that the relatively new Pope John Paul II. would usher in a new era of ,, · . God's gay, lesbian, bisexual . . . transgendcr children. That did not hap·'-en. , , ~ ', ,, . In recent days, we h_eld out hope that ~. ~~~n of a new Pope would now Bnng greater openness and acceptance to the Roman Catholic Church. With today's election, that did not happen. In fact, over the past three decades Cardinal Ratziogcr has served as the ' author_ of many of the Roman Catholic Church's policies that embody overt hostility to LGBT people and preclude womeil from full participation in the life of the Church. We share a deep sadness that one of the world's most homophobic religious leaders has been elevated to the papacy, and regret that his policies will continue to <icvalμe the rich spiritual gifts of , LGBT people and women of faith. . Second, the Philadelphia celebration will,. I hope, help make people aware that lesbwis and gay men have lived and · straggled for their rights in places other than Greenwich Village and the Castro Since so man~ of us don't live in gay · ghetto:es, but m suburbs and small towns making our human faces visible is a huge' part of the work that our movement is now doing across the country. , _.- My &ith teaches ttiat aU people can change, so my prayers today are that the c;yes 9f Cardinal Ratzingcr _. now Pope ~c=dict :XVI - will be opened to the umgue giftedness and blessing that LGBT ~people can be to the Church. And my ~rar,crs_ today are with my brothers and sisters m the Roman Catholic Church and those ~ose lives will be harined by c~h policies that treat LGBT people with less than unconditional acceptance and dignity. P 25 Ids rne www.HearTheRumors.com pagc-26 Out of Town from pg-21 miniature sculptw:cs and dioramas made cntirdy of chocolate (and no, you can't nibble on them, as thcy'i:c safely ensconced within glass display cases). Not far from the Old City, the up-and-coming Raval district contains the distinctive (and huge) Richard Meier-designed Muscu d' Art Contcmporani de Barcelona (MACBA), which houses an esteemed collection of contemporary art. Gty Barcdomans pursue clubbing and bar-hopping with great vigor. Some good bets in the Eixamplc indudc Ambar, Sweet; and Z:dta's, the last being a bit darker and cruisier than the others. Ambar is fun because it has seveml. pool tables in back, and Sweet is brightly lit and contemporary, drawing a fashion-conscious crowd. D-Mer is the main lesbian hangout; although women have a notable presence at virtually all of the predominantly male bars. The outrageous La Diva presents wild c:lriig'ahows along with pretty tasty food. Dietrich might just be the hippest gay bar in.~,with a spotlighted garden and a courtly interior. Both inen ~d women frcqnent this spot; with .an especially strong under-30 contingent. Bi-level Punto BCN. is light and open, drawing the biggest crowds early in th~ evening. And to you fans of leather and Levi's, felat not - Batcdona has its own very popular Eagle. Among larger daqce clubs, the sexually ch'1'ge<l Metro appeals to cruisy guys, owing to its muc ofdarlt rooms offthc dance floor. And then there ~c the three pulsing.Arena nightclubs - Ar~ Clasoic, .A,r~ Madre, lllld Arena VIP - wftlch all get going a bit aftct midnight and throb until nearly 6 a.m, On Fridays, Saturdays,. and Sunday, anybody who love$ dariciμg and muscular men should head to Salvation: · . For a memotablc meal, drop by trendy Porquesi, where you mightJ:rr.cod with lime, coriander, tomato, and olive .. oil. The food is reasonably priced (the colorful cocktails more expensive), and there's a separate lounge filled with white beds and pillows; Friendly La Monyos is a cute and .ttendy cafe serving bandadc and ,alt cod crepes, apple and walnut aalad, and risotto with parmcaan and cmcd ham. You can enjoy an absolutely delicious meal and also b~c a fine mukct of Spanish gow:met wines, olive oils, jams, and chocolate, at Origcns 99.9o/e, which celebrates all things culinary· and Cataian. Snack on rabbit braised in chocolate, cod tripe with snails, and other regional ,pecialtics. Simple and hearty Cuban-inspired Spanish &re, including great roast chicken and black beans, is served at Cubaneo. Irreverent Iurantia, a snazzy little cafe drawing an artsy bunch, serves inexpensive pub &re, including a ground-beef patty known as the "Fuck Mac Burger." The restalltllilt Castto has a gay following - it turns out fine Continental fare at dinner. Tapas are more a Madrid ttadirion than a Barcelona one, but the city does have some excellent restaurants specializing in these small plates of snacks, including Celler de Tapas, a handsome space with clean lines and several tables along the sidewalk. Crab salad, marinated octopus, and anchovies with garlic stand out on the lengthy menu. To satisfy your sweet tooth, pop inside La Valenciana, an old-fuhioncd cafe that serves exceptional gdato,, coffees, and cakes. Barcdona has a wealth of charming accommodlltiona, from inexpensive gay gueathouses to. some genuinely enchanting historic palaces, such as the gorgeous Hotel Balmes and the citf s true grandc dame, the ultra-luxuricius Hote~'Majcstic, which anchors the Ei:a:amplc's main shopping dtsg. Right on the edge of the gay area, the sixfloor Hotel Calcdonian has pleasant rooms (some with terraces overlooking the street) ar/,d friendly prices, a~ around 90 euroa. Nearby, the mic;l-priccd Hotel Hl0 Univenitii.t has a convenient location • it's clos~ to La Rambla, too. Free high-speed Internet and a hip restaurant add to the appeal. · • Tops among gay and lesbian places, the 66- room Hotd Axd ia an uber-cool boutique property with futuristic minimalist rooms and a terrific, helpful staff. The hotd's swish restaurant; bathed in black and cranbctty-red, ~cries such creative fare as cardamom-dusted '~o'nifish and watermdon soup with a dash of rum. On Wednesday nights the Axel throWll a big bash on its roof deck - it's a favorite place for gay locals and guests of the hotd to mingle. Ho1tal Que Til ranb among the bc11t gay budget opttons; it's on the edge of the gay uca and contain, artful, simple room, with hand-painted mural• and auper-low rate■ • Another excellent choice, Frimda Ban:~na ~cupica an elegant penthouse apartment with du:ee brightly famished ~oma and three big tcrmces affording great city Yiewa. 'Thia smartly furnished guesthouge with a young, amiable ataff ia one of aevc:rai top-notch gay accommodations to open in re<:ent yean, a trend that reflects Barcelona's continued 1111cccs1 u one of the vot:!d'• hottest queer destinations. Page27 Seo by Jack Fertig MAY 2005 es "See foreign films, Leo!" Saturn is quincunx to Pluto for a month, which presents irritating challenges to making deep adjustments. Mercury is briefly aspecting both, offering ideas and messages on how to use those challenges. It's a great time for research projects, especially in history, genealogy, and archaeology. ARIES (Much 20 - April 19): Normally, problems at horn~ should be solved there, .but solutions are now coming from as far away as possible. Find a foreign and/ or philosophical fount of wisdom to offer new insights. TAURUS (April 20 - May 20): Words lie heavily on your tongue - but what really needs•saying? Take some time out for meditation or another introspective focus. That will just make you sexier, so take time to play too and then who needs _ words_ on your tongue? GEMINI (May 21 - June 20): Loans to or from friends will only make trouble later. Get by on what you have and let others do the same! You're especially forceful and persuasive now, so you shouldn't have trouble sticking to your guns - and that will earn you great respect. CANCER (June 21 - July 22): Working too hard could make the boss suspicious that you're after his or her job. The two of you are due for a talk about your duties and about how to work more effectively. Relax effectively, too! Stress from overwork can be dangerous. LEO (July 23 - August 22): You're getting into arguments too easily. Instead, try to confront what's really bothering you. Pick from a list of foreign films - for entertainment, yes, but also for a clue to what is really working your nerves. VIRGO (August 23 September 22): Power struggles are more easily won on your home turf. Getting all involved in your work space or usual hang-out is OK, but nothing wins them over like a home-cooked meal - or at least coffee and treats at your place. IJBRA (September 23 - October 22): Asserting your authority in any matter will only create more problems than it solves. Simply and concisely spelling out the facts of the matter at hand will demonstrate your mastery of the situation. Remember, _what's_ right is more important than _who's_ right. SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): Do.mestic arguments largely boil down to problems around work and money. Cut through the emotional drama and get to practical issues. The real trick is to respect everyone's emotions in the process. SAGITI'ARIUS (November 22 - December 20): Ever-lucky Saj! While Saturn is giving everyone else headaches, he's malcing you the queen (OK, Butch or the king~ of leather and fetishes. Just don't be too assertive about it. Your natural confidence is quite enough. CAPRICORN (December 21 - January 19): Relationships feel especially problematic now. Working it out together is ideal, but a time-out may be in order. Whether family traditions arc a source of the problem or offer wise insight, digging around your roots will help. AQUARIUS (JanulltY 20 - February 18): If something is bothering your tummy, it's likely to be from the weight of something you need to get off your chest. Even if there are repercussions, difficult adjustments are better than the sntus quo. Sing out; Louise! PISCES (February 19 - March 19): Your profound creativity is blocked now. Diverting your attention to work, especially on money matters, will help .. Balancing your checkbook or reviewing the household budget is fine, but doing similar tasks at work is better. Jack Fertig has been worleing as a professional astrofuger since 1977 and is a founding member of the Association for Astro/ogic4l Networking. He can be reached for consultations at 415-864- 8302, through his website 11.t http://'Wf1J'W.st4rjack.com Page 28 Four States Community Directory -Bars- NightclubsArkansas, Fayetteville (479) Studio 716- -716 W. Sycunore- 479-571-130 Arkansas, Fort Smith (479) Kinkeads- 1004 1/2 Ganison Ave- -479-783-9988 Club 1022 - -1022 Dodson.Ave. - - - -479-782-1845 Arkansas, Bot Springs (501) Club One Eleven- - - 111 Garden St- - - - -620-4111 Our House Lounge - 660 E. Grand Ave- -624-6868 Arkaa1as, Little Rock (501) Back Street- - - -1021 Jessie Rd- -- - - - 501-664-2744 Discovery- - - -1021 Jessie Rd- -- - - - - 501-666-6900 The Factory -412 Louisiana St.- - - - -501-372-3070 Kansas, Wichita (316) J's Lounge - - - - 513 E. Central - - 316-262-1363 Our Pant:uy- - - - - 3201 S. Hillside- - -316-682-5494 The Comer- -- - - 3210 E. Osie - - - 316-683-9781 The Othenide- - -447 N. St Pt11t1cis- - 316-262-7825 Shat:tl - - - - - - - - 4000 S. Broadway- - 316-522--2028 Sidestreet Mens Bar -1106 S. Pattie- -316-267-0324 South 40 - - - - 3201 S. Hillside - - - -316-682-5494 Trend, Bar - -1507 S. Pawnee- - 316-262-4530 Missouri, Joplin (417) Ree's• • • • 716 S. Main•••••• -417-627-9035 Missouri, Kansas City (816) Buddies - - - - - - 3715 Main St - - - - 816-561-2600 Belle Stu's- - - - 1321 Grand Ave- - - -816-421-1288 Club NV - - - - 220 .Admintl Blvd- - 816-421-NVKC DB Warehouse- -- 1915 Main St- - - -816-471-1575 Missie B's- - - -805 W. 39th St- - - - - - 816--561-0625 Sidestreet Bar - - - -413 E. 3rd-.- - - - - 816-531-1775 Sidekicb Saloon - - 3707 Main St- - 816- 931-1430 Mlssowri, Springfield (417) The Edge- -424 Boonville Ave- - - - - --417-831-4700 Liquors & Kickers- -1109 E. Commercial-873-2225 Martha's Vineyard- 219 W Olive - -417-864-4572 Oz Bar• 504 E. Commercial••••• -417-831-9001 Ronisuz Place- - --821 College- - - - - - -417-864-Q036 Rumon • -1109 E. Commercial- - - 417-873-2225 Oklahoma, Oklahoma City (405) Boom Room- 2807 NW 36th St- - - - - -405-601-7200 Club Rox• - - -3535 NW 39th &pwy - 405-947-2351 Copa- - - - - - - -2200 NW 39th Expwy- -405-525-0730 Pimh Line - -2200 NW 39th Expwy- - 405-525-0730 Hi-Lo Club - - 1221 NW 50th- - - -405-843-1722 Lido- - - - - - - -2200 NW 39th Expwy- 405-525-0730 Partners- - - - -2805 NW 36th St - - - - - 405-942-2199 Siatus- - - - - - 2120 NW 39th St - - - - -405-521-9533 The Rockies- -3201 N. May Ave - - - - 405-947-9361 Topanga Grill &: Bar- 3535 NW 39;:h-405-947-235, Oklahoma, Tulsa (918) Bamboo Lounge- 7204 E. Pine• - -- 918-836-8700 Club Maverick- - 822 S. Sheridan - 918-835-3301 End Up Club- - - 424 S. Memorial- 918-836-2480 The Detour- - - - -7944 E. 21st - - - - 918-270-2428 Club Majestic- - 124 N. Boston - - - 918-584-9494 Renegades- - 1649 S. Main• - - - - 918-585-3405 Pb.y-Mor-Club- 1737 S. 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Broadway- - - - 620-231-0938 Kansas, Wichita {316) HOA-Mens Chorus - - - - - - - - - - - 316-618-0684 That Gay Group, W.S.U. - - - - - - - - - 316-978-7010 Kansas Gay Rodeo Assoc- - - - - www.lcgra.us Missouri, Joplin ( 417} MCC Spirit of Christ-2902 E 20th, - - - • 6pm UCCFP--204 N. Jackson Ave, - - - -10:30AM Aids Project Ozarks- 513 Kentucky- 417-624-5788 Missouri Gay Rodeo Assoc • - - - - www.mgra.us Page 29 Missouri, Springfield ( 417) fuunbow Christian Ch-837 W. Madison- 866-6206 Unitarian Univmalist Church - - 417-833-2723 APO- - - 1901 E. Bennett, suite D- 417-881-1900 ShowMe MO Pride - - - - - - - - - - --417-864-4459 GLO Comm. Ctr- -518 E. 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Spring Diversity Pride Weekend, April 7-8 2006 and the fantastic Valenrines Dinner and Dance February 17-18 2006 are just a few getawa:y dates to plan for. Highlights of the upcoming weekend will include something for the girls, CRAVE DJ Kiki Fri & Sat. at Caribe Restaurant and Cantina. Collide with JD Bryan for the guys, GO GO Guy and Gal Dance Contest with cash prizes. Then rhere's Diversity Bears events with Bears, Beer & BBQ at Foresr Hill Restaurant. Moodswing Band will be belting out some Country Western Retro at Shawbee's Big Dawg Saloon 9pm Fri & Sat. For those wanna be crooners there's a Diversity Open Mic/Talent search contest Friday and Saturday. Drag Kings and Drag Queens, what else could you ask for! The fabulous Robbie Walker and many other performers · will be out to entertain you. You may even run into IRIS. For schedule's and more information on Diversity Pride Events weekend, check out the website at (www.diversitypride.com). Also (www.eurekasprings.com/ alternative) for lodging and other points of interest such as shopping, shopping, shopping. And don't forget Eureka Springs has some of the best restaurants in the region. It will be a biast off weekend in this little gay friendlv city nestled in the Ozark Mountains. Drive carefully. Page 3 QJ~ttttksgining irtttitt!JS by Greg Steele With all the outing of gay pen~ . ins, sheep, dogs and other species, is tere a possibility there are gay . ~ turkeys? How would you know./: you were eating one of our. own. l mean the poor critters are Just. herded into the slaughter pen,. h!1111andy killed, I presume, plm;keo and whisked off to Walmart. I. for one will be asking the Walmart meat lady 'f turkey was gay! I refuse to 1 mv . "r-!1 bak~, fry, barbecue or boil a "=Y member. We assume that all turkeys are hetero, and it's OK to bake or fry t a homophobic betero turkey, but ec ., h d what if your turkey was etero an gay friendly? This outing of animals and now fowl is just not rig~t. It raises so . many questions and create~ ~o many problems and it's Thanksgtvmg ~o.r god sake. Where are the Fowl Rights people when you need them! Have a Great Holiday! Citing Dangers Posed By Antigay 'Sodomy Laws', Lambda Legal Voices Concern Over Supreme Court Nominee Harriet Miers's Answers to Gay Rights Survey Lambda Legal fought in the courts for five ye.trs to overturn the Texas "Homosexual Conduct" law. We therefore find it very troubling that Ms. Miers would twice assert that the law should stand rather ihan be repealed (New York, October 4, 2005) - Statement from Kevin Cathcart, Executive Director for Lambda Legal regarding a survey Supreme Court Nominee Harriet Miers answered on gay rights while she was a candidate for Dallas City Council. "Harrier Miers's written answers, while a candidate for Dallas City Council, to a number of questions about the rights of gays and lesbians merit very close scrutiny. We would hope that the general proposition that gay people deserve the same civil rights as everybody else isn't controversial. We nonetheless take note that Ms. Miers agreed with the proposition in 1989. What we find particularly troubling, though, is her contradictory statement that the Texas "Homosexual Conduct" law which made it a crime for gay people to engage in sexual intimacy that was completely legal for heterosexuals should not be repealed. As Justice Sandra Day O'Connor pointed out in her concurring opinion in Lawrence v. Texas, this law unjustiy discriminated against gay people. Lambda Legal fought in the courts for five years to overturn the Texas "Homos;xual Conduct" law. Two of our clients were led handcuffed from one of their apartments in the middle of the night and jailed as a result of it. We therefore find it very troubling that Ms. Miers would twice assert that the law should stand rather than be repealed. "This new evidence makes it even more important that Harriet Miers's nomination be subjected to rigorous scrutiny during the Sena~e confirmation process. We do not believe that her statements in 1989 alone decide whether she is qualified to a lifetime appointment to the Supreme Court. At the same rime, we firmly believe that a nominee is qualified only if she demonstrates the necessary legal intellect, experience and judicial temperament as well as a clear commitment to fairness and equality for all Americans. Ms. Miers's support for a criminal law that openly discriminated against gay people calls into serious question whether she possesses this commitment. The upcoming Senate confirmation hearings will provide the nominee with the opportunity to discuss her current thinking and demonstrate whether she is committed to fairness and equality for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people and all other Americans." FIRST AFRICAN-AMERICAN GLBT SERIES 'NOAH'S ARC' PROVIDES IMPORTANT VISIBILITY WASHINGTON - In collaboration with Logo, the Human Rights Campaign is sponsoring a six city sneak preview tour of "Noah's Arc," the first African-American gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender series. The Washington, D.C., preview takes place at 8 p.m. today in HRC's Equality Forum /RS.YE). · "We're proud to be promoting a show that finally gives visibility to gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender African-Americans," said HRC President Joe Solmonese. "We should all have the opportunity to see ourselves in our media." "The Human Rights Campaign's support from the beginning of this show has really helped bring it to life," said show creator Patrick Ian Polk. "These sneak previews represent anotner seep m the partnership we began more than a year ago.'" "This is a historic moment not only for the African-American GLBT community, but for the whoie GLBT community," say Chris Wagely, marketing manage! for Logo.Other sponsors include the Black AIDS Institute, Comcast and Di!ectTV The series will premiere on Logo Wednesday, Oct. 19, 2005. A sneak pre,;iew took place la~: night in New York C:ty. All previews except for the OUT!'lest preview are free of charge. Additionai previews wiH take place: Page S Jackson Hole ahd Telluride _Jackson Hole, Wyoming~ Just south of Grand Teton National Park, in one of the most remote and dra~aticall· scenic patches of the American West, Jackson Hole feels e~ual, parts , h y · •·· ' chic On the surface it's less cutesv and overoeve10ped man down- ome ana cowooy • '. , ' .. h · d many upscale Rockies ski resorts, but you'll still fina plenty of ,ony s ops, inns, an restaurants. n •. li 12 mil northwest of Toe ski area, Jackson Hole Mountain Resort, actuauj es • es .. th• bustling town of Jackson. The resort area is surrounded by T~ton Vhlllage, a~ att..r. active duster of re. sorts, restaurants, · d s· · -rer1ate t e resort s and con os. k:lers apy ~ challenging and beautifully kept terrain. Page 6 Out of Town Half of the 111 trails are expert, and 40 percent of them intermediate. A dozen lifts serve the 2,500 acres of skiing, and the vertical drop of 4,139 is the greatest of any ski area in the nation. Among Teton Village accommodations, consider the cushv Snake River Lodge, an inviting 88-r~om hotel that's home to one of the region's top resraurams, GameFish (where you might sample port-marinated elk chops with appie cider sauce), as well as the magnificent Avanyu Spa. The lodge also rents out 46 adjacent condos. Another excellent option, Teton Village Lodge also lies at the base of the ski resort and consists of 80 upscale rental condos, many with full kitchens, gas fireplaces, and whirlpool tubs. No trip to Teton Village is complete without a visit to the Mangy Moose, a rollicking tavern and live-music dub that draws both regionally and nationally known talents and serves up delicious buffalo burgers, pizzas, and barbecue ribs. This is one of the world's quintessential apres-ski hangouts. In the town of T ackson itself, vou'll find a number of ieat restaurants: plus a good many spots to buy everything from high-end cowboy wear to top-of-the-line ski gear. Enjoy a casual meal and some top-notch lagers and stouts at Snake River Brewing. Rendezvous Bistro serves such delectable contemporary fare as smoked swordfish carpaccio and steak tanare. And set inside· a vintage house downtown, the Blue Lion presents huge portions of tasry Western favorites, such as fresh-caught Idaho red trout and grilled elk tenderloin. Among downtown accommodations, the historic Won Hotel exudes charm, with its imposing 1940s T;:ido:.:-style facade and richly furnished rooms, pius the convivia: Sfrver Dollar Bar and Grill. Head up into the hills just west of town to reach one of the \'vest's premier resorts, Amangani, an ultra-op~lent mouncaimop spread whose 40 paiati2l suites start at $700 11ighth in season. Massive windows lool~ o~t across Teton Pass from this elegant sandstone-andredwood building. Even if you don't stay here, drop by for a meal at The Grill or cocktails at the zinc-top bar. From either Teton· Villal"e or the C' to'l..vn of Jackson, it's a relatively short and easy drive north into Grand Teton National Park, and from there it's just about 45 miles up to the southern entrance of Yellowstone National Park. To reach Jackson, your best bet is to fly right into Jackson Hole Airport, which has service from several major airlines, including American, Delta, Northwest, and United. Otherwise, it's a long drive to Jackson from the nearest major cities (300 miles from Salt Lake, 520 miles from Denver). _Telluride, Colorado_ Telluride is really two communities in one. There's the historic and extremely charming original town, which sits nestled in a deep gorge at the base of some of the finest ski terrain in the West. And then there's the more modern Mountain Village, which you can reach either by driving 8 miles west and then north of town or via a free gondola trip up the mountainside (the ride takes 13 minutes). Telluride ski season begins around Thanksgiving and runs through early April; the area consists of 84 trails, evenly balanced between advanced and intermediate runs, with a smaller but still considerable number of beginner slopes, and there's a vertical drop of some 3,500 feet, with the area's peak elevation at 12,260. Skiers can navigate the mountain via 16 lifts (more than half of them highspeed) and dine at some 55 ski-in/ ski-out restaurants. This is truly a world-class facility. Telluride Gay Ski Week was begun in 2004 and has rapidly developed an enthusiastic following. In 2006 it runs from February 26 through March 5, and it coincides with the Telluride AIDS Benefit, which is the recipient of the week's proceeds. Festivities include a variety of parties, from an outdoor tubing shir:dig co an indoor pool-andJacuzzi romp. The week culminates on Oscar Night, so the final party includes a fabulous viev,-ing of the Academy Awards. One thing downtown Telluride has pient:y of is superb restaurants, the best of them helmed by iocai chef superstar, Jake Linzinmeir. His latest creation, which opened in December 2004, is Chair 8, in the Camel's Garden Hotel, at continued page-28 Page 7 Bold New Ads Aired to Oppose Texas Anti-Marriage Amendment Houston same-sex couples and families speak from the heart about why marriage matters HOUSTON, Oct. 12 - The Vote Against the Amendment Campaign, a project of the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force, today announced the release of seven broadcast commercials in opposition to Proposition 2, a proposed amendment to the Texas constitution that would prohibit any legal recognition of same-sex relationships. The measure will be on the ballot on November 8. The seven television spots, which begin airing today, feature several Houston gay and lesbian families talking about their love and the need for, and importance of, marriage equality. While there have been many television ads opposing state anti-marriage constitutional amendments over the last few vears, this new series is the first time sam;-sex couples have spoken directly about why marriage matters. "These groundbreaking ads will introduce Houston voters to their gay and lesbian neighbors and underscore that this constitutional amendment will hurt real people and real families," said National Gay and Lesbian Task Force Director of Organizing & Training Dave Fleischer. "We think it is important to speak to voters openly and honestly about our lives and relationships. When voters know who we are, many more of them see the need for marriage equality for gay families and consider standing with us on the issue." "It is imperative that Houstonians understand the negative impact this amendment will have on our Eves and our families," said Rev. Carolyn Mobley and Adrain Bowie, who appear in one of the commercials. "We are not second-clas$ citizens, and we need the same rcso~rces and rights availabie ro heterosexual couples to protect our fan1iiies. 1 • According to the U.S. Census, there are 9,784 same-sex couples in the Houston metropolitan area, with a total of 42,912 same-sex couples in the st.ate of Texas. The greater Houston metro area ranks 44th out of the 331 metropolitan areas defined bv the Census nationwide. The Vote Against the Amendment Campaign and the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force are working in partnership with the coalition of state and local groups in Texas that are part of the No Nonsense in November campaign. "Our opponents have vastly greater resources at their disposal and are relying on myths and fear-mongering to hurt Texas families. We appreciate the work of the Task Force to show the truth about who we are," said Glen Maxey, the No Nonsense in November campaign manager. Proposition 2, which will be decided on November 8, prohibits marriage, civil unions and domestic partnerships for same-sex families. The Task Force has committed significant resources to helping the lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender community educate voters about the detrimental impact of these divisive amendments. This commitment inciudes training, voter identification, organizing key communities, as well as significant financial assistance. To date, 18 states have amended their state constitutions to preclude the recognition of same-sex marriage, with most of the amendments also forbidding any legal recognition of same-sex families. Quotable Quotes "1 think the opponents of gay marriage really fall into two categories. A smail group of peopie just don't like gay oeople. If you don't like one, you don't like two. It's geometric. The larger percentage are people who are generally supportive of equal rights, as they have been in Massachusetts, but hear these predictions that it's going to be socially very chaotic, and they figure, why take the chance?" - Gav U.S. Rep Barney Frank, D-Mass., to the \feilesley {Mass.] ·ro~,.vnsman. Page 8 Know The Law, Then You Decide! OUJI-CR 8-25 DEFENSE OF ENTRAPMENT - REQUIREMENTS Where a person has no previous intent or purpose to violate the law, but is induced or persuaded by law enforcement officers to commit a crime, he/ she is entitled to the defense of entrapment, because the law as a matter of policy forbids a conviction in such a case. On the other hand, where a person already has the readiness and willingness to break the law, the mere fact that a police officer provides what appears to be a &vorable opportunity is no defense. If you should find from the evidence that, before anything at all occurred respecting the alleged offense involved in this case, the defendant was ready and willing to commit a crime such as that charged in the information whenever opportunity was offered and the police merely offered the opportunity, the defendant is not entitled to the defense of entrapment. If, on the other hand, you should find that the defendant had no previous intent or purpose to commit any offense of the character here charged, and did so onlv because he/ she was induced or persuaded by some agent of the police, then the government has seduced an innocent person, and the defense of entrapment is a good defense. Committee Comments This instruction is substantially similar to that approved by the Court of Criminal Appeals in Robinson v. State, 1973 OK CR 152, 507 P.2d 1296. . overruled on other grounds, Mclnt~rjf v. State, 1976 OK CR 226, 112, 554 P.2d 837, 841. Entrapment occurs when the planning and volitional conduct associated with an offense are entire!, the products of an officer or a person acting under the direction of an officer, and the officer or his agent procures the c~m~ssion of the offense by a person who, buc for the artifice of the officer, Kiddie v. State, 1977 OK CR 301, 574 P.2d 1042; Dupree v. State, 1973 OK CR 53, 506 P.2d 974; McCan v. State, 1967 OK CR 222, 435 P.2d 419; Riddle v. State, 1962 OK CR 98, 374 P.2d 634; Crosbie v. State, 1958 OK CR 78, 330 P.2d 602; Savage v. State, 1956 OK CR 112, 304 P.2d 344; Bayouth v. State, 1956 OK CR 26, 294 P.2d 856; Lee v. State, 66 Okl. Cr. 399, 92 P.2d 621 (1939). See also Jacobson v. United States, 503 U.S. 540, 554 (prosecution was required to offer evidence of defendant's predisposition to violate the !aw independent of the government's acts and bevond a reasonable doubt). Merely furnishing the defendant with an opportunity to commit a crime is not entrapment. Hunnicutt v. State, 1988 OK CR 91, ,r 3, 755 P.2d 105, 107-08. The defense of entrapment is not available unless the officer or the person acting under his direction first suggested perpetration of the criminal act, or lured or persuaded the defendant to partake of the criminal conduct. Stevens v. State, 51 Okl. Cr. 451, 2 P.2d 282 (1931); Warren v. State, 35 Okl. Cr. 430, 251 P. 101 (1926). The court has analyzed the availabilirv of the entrapment defense as follows: O~e who is instigated, induced, or lured bv officer of law or other person, for · purposes of prosecution, into commission of crime which he had otherwise no intention of committing may avail himself of the defense of entrapment. Principle of entrapment places no limitation on right of officers to obtain evidence of any crime originating in mind of a~orher; and an officer may, when acting in good faith with view to detecting crime. make use of deception, tricker}~ or artifice. Robinson, supra, 1973 OK CR 152, ,i 11, 507 P.2d at 1299 (citations omitted; emphasis in original), overruled on burden of proof, Mclnturjf v. State, 1976 OK CR 226, 1 12, 554 P.2d 837, 841. Continued page-29 Page 9 iversity de Events We Do'It t! Por GLBT.s & PFLAGs Eureka Sprinqs. Adzansas No It. will be .RAINING . ... MEN,. WOMEN~, BEARS/ . www.DiversityPride.com Call for G Games Poster Artists **VII** GAY GAME'S. CHICAGO 2006 CHICAGO, IL_ The Gay Games in Chicago won't just be for athletes, performers and their fans. True to its motto of inclusion, the Gay Games will give also give creative artists an opportunity ---m!i to showcase ti½.eir talents. Chicago Games, Inc. (CGI), the organizers of the July 15 to 22, 2006 Gay Games VII Sports & Cultural Festival, has issued a Call for Artists to submit designs for a series of commemorative Gay Games posters. Selected designs will be printed in a limited series on museum quality paper and distributed to help raise visibility and. funds for the Chicago event. The Gay Games Arts Committee will select winning artwork from designs submitted by 15 November 2005. The selection committee will be chaired by well-known Chicago artist Bob Klunk and Chicago artist, writer and poet CC Carter. The winning artists will each receive 50 artist proofs of their completed poster and the designs will be featured on the Gay Games Chicago website at www.gaygameschicago.org. Artists should submit artwork in the highest resolution possible on CD-ROM by 15 November 2005 to: Poster Art Contest. Gav Games VII, 4753 N. Br~ad<N;y, Suite 602, Chicago, IL 60640. All artwork submitted will be the property of Chicago Games, Inc. to be used in promotions, sales and all other uses. No original artwork will be returned. Artists will be required to sign a release granting use of the artwork. Specifications/Rules Final printed poster artwork will be 18" wide by 24" high. The logos of Gay Games VII and our Global Sponsors, along with text continued page-3 5 Page 12 OKC,OK Priscilla's 615 E Memorial (405) 755-8600 Springfield, MO TLC Priscilla's 1918 S. Glenstone (417) 881-8444 Tulsa, OK Priscilla's 7925 E 41st (918) 627-4884 Tulsa, OK Prisciila's 5634 W. Skelly (918) 446-6336 Tulsa, OK Priscilla's 11344 E. 11th (918) 438-4224 Tuisa, OK Priscilla's 2333 E. 71st (918) 499-1661 Page 13 to2pm Music, These Girls It All! A 5 piece all female band, Moodswing has been together for one and half years. They have played at many events including Tulsa Pride Picnic, OKC Pride Picnic, Tulsa's Mayfest, The Women's Music Festival in Dripping Springs, Texas and the Sooner State Rodeo in Tulsa. And have proven to draw huge crowds at many Tulsa and Oklahoma City nightclubs. Current members are: Brenda Bobbit has been entertaining since the tender age of 3. At 12, she played with her father & Jimmy Dallas in Kansas City. She performed in the Fender's theater in Branson, played in concerts with Jo Clark & the Fog_gy River Bovs to name a few. Her hero 1s Dottie &i.mbo. Her life long dream is to iam with Dorrie someday. · Paula Gokey Raised in Bowling Green, Ohio. She started playing drums when she was 13. She also plays guitar and writes poetry. One of her poems has even been published. She loves to practice playing her drums and sometimes will spend 5 hours listening & practicing totally lost in the music. She will blow vou awav when she plavs the drums. She ~ay be ~mall, but great· things do come in small packages. Schellve James is a singer/songwriter and plays ,rhythm guitar. Scheliye is an entertainer. She has great stage presence. She joined the school band at age 10 & played drums. But don't ask her to play them now. She says it's been too long. Her favorite artists are Sting & Lisa Marie Preslev. She is a Cartoonist, Portrait artist & wa; an OSU Graphic Design Girl Illustrator. Mary King is a singer/ songwriter 2nd plays guitar. She first st:1rted singing at :1ge 7. (She was frosty the snowman) Alw:1ys shy and quiet growing up until the 7th grade when her music teacher w:1s walking past all the choir members listening to them sing. Her teacher talked her into singing ll solo in district contest and the rest is history. Marv was in love with music &om th:1t point on. She received 13 first place medals in either solos or ensembles from the 7th grade thru the rest of high school. She :1lso received outstanding vocal music student in the 9th grade. Valerie Meador was born and raised near Roanoke, VA. She started our playing drums and singing in her family's gospel group at the age of 8. Valerie's family (The Jimmy Me:1dor Family) consisted of Mom & D:1d and two older sisters. They recorded their first album wl::en Valerie was 9 ye:1rs old. Since then, she h2s played with several other groups a:.d has played on several recordings. Valerie's musica! background comes primarily from her Dad. Vaierie says, "My dad could ha,'c been a Bill Monroe." Don't miss Moodswing's next concert at the Diversity Pride Events weekend Coumry /Retro dance in Eureka Springs. November 4th & 5th at Shawbee's. For booking information contact Mary King 918-955-5890 Page 15 / COME OUT; COME OUT WHERE EVER YOU ARE! by Reverend Steve T. Urie JOPLIN, MO_ What an event ~d in Joplin, Missouri! October. 12, 200.'.l saw the beginning of an amazmg growth for, our community. The Straight and Gay Alliance of Missouri Southern State University successfully held its first "Coming Out Event" on campus. Although a close vote, the campus . organization known as ~AG~ received permission from the uruvers1ty to hold the event. With booths on the campus oval located in the center of the campus, approval to use part of the li~r~ and use of the Mills Anderson Cnmmal Justice Center auditorium the event was an enormous success. A success first for the fact it even happened. Secondly for the organization representing the students and off campus organizations including PR?MO (the Personal Rights of Missounans . _ organization that is our communmes political arm), AIDS Project o_f the Ozarks, Alternatives Counseling Associates, and Spirit of Christ Metropolitan Community Ch~rch coming together as a commuruty. Several businesses provided products for ~ raffle, students sold rainbow bead key chams and cookies while Spirit of Christ MCC received donated CD's from Marsha Stevens and Shawn Thomas for the raffle and for sale. Both of these very talented performers are indeed people of faith but also part of our G/L/B/T community setting the example that 1f you make up your mind to be who you are ... you can in fact accomplish great things. Finally this was a success for a surprisingly nonaggressive response from the student body and community at large toward the event. The event was covered by the Joplin Globe and two local television stations including KOAM. Workshops during the day incl~ded "Pink Triangles" by H. James Megmley, PhD. From Alternatives Counseling Associates and the House of Hope in Chattanooga; "Coining Out as a P7rson of Faith" by Reverend. Steve T. Une pastor of Spirit of Christ MCC with. a predominantly G/L/B/T .con~~egauon; "Coming out... the Expenence by Daniel Boyer, Jr. representing SAGA and a fourth workshop by H. James Mcginley on "A .Transgendered Path." Students and faculty from all walks of life and sexual orientations visited the booths and attended the workshops with a positive response and show of support. Only one student walked up to the church table and asked "What about Leviticus?" The response from one of the church members was simply, "God loves evervone." The student simply walked away. No protest, no name calling, only open dialogue. . Several- people signed statements g?mg to our State Senators and Representatives encouraging them to support legal rights for all Missourians. - As a person of faith, a gay male and a Joplinite I was proud of this ende~vor and the fact that the students, straight, gay, lesbian, bisexual, Transgendered came together to start a proc~ss loo~ missing in our local commur~1ty. I_t 1s difficult to come out to fam1ly, friends and associates as a person of an alternate sexual orientation but what a lot of people don't understand is ~tha_t i.t is ?ften difficult to come out as a Lhnsuan. ln both situations you never know the response. Many youth. ~oday qu.estion and wonder for somethmg deeper. Recently at the General Conference of Metropolitan Community Ch1:1-rches the youth and young aduits brought up an interesting issue. "Why would we want to be Christians? Christians are mean!" Out of the mouths of babes and such innocence this is a challe!'lge for people of all faiths. The answer is found in the simplicity of their response when ask continued page-32 1 , Page ,o A TisketA TasketA Girl And Her Basket. Once upon a rime in a land far away, I was considered quite a blossom. But as years have passed the fruit has ripened on the vine and the root has matured. Is this a bad thing or a blessing ? Is youth better than experience and wisdom, or knowing what you want? I think we must consider assessing what you have at the stage your at. So, before you can draw up a realistic plan for your life as well as your garden, you need to make a proper assessment of your site. It is a good idea to spend some time over this. You need to get an impression of whar the garden is like at different rimes of the day - which parts get the most sun; how much shade is cast and where. If at all possible, it is worth waiting to see what different seasons of the year do so that you discover the warmest and coldest corners, it's wettest and windiest spots. Every plot has it's good and bad points yours may be very small, have impoverished soil or be on steep sloping ground but a challenging site can be the making .of an interesting and highly individual garden. In the light of what you discover, you may fmd yourself abandoning preconceived ideas of your ideal garden or at least adopting them to suit the scale and condition of your own particular plot. It's a matter of size. There are various ways of making the best of the space in your garden no matter how small or large the site. Large sites are often best treated as a series's of compartments, the partitions formed by hedges and other screening devices. Vistas, focal points and the occasional surprise. Many small gardens are rich in possibilities despite the limitations of size. Concealing the boundaries by planting around the edges and "borrowing" the trees and shrubs of neighboring gardens help to create a sense of space. The shape of the site is just as important as it's area and has implications for the way the garden is designed. On a long and narrow site of the kind common in suburban areas, a straight path running from end to end is likely to draw the eye immediately to the fore boundary, making the garden look smaller than it really is. The broad spaciousness of a wide garden along the front of a house will often be welcome and might be designed ·with organic shapes and flowing lines. Well, with all this innuendo, I've just about worn out my good "writing" hand, so lets go on to the plants of November. This month picks are large and bountifol at your local markets, yes it's bulbs, bulbs, bulbs. The bigger the bette:: I say. There's nothing better than the feel of mature bulbs cupped in your hand before being thrust imo the ground. Here are a few basics, Tulips, Daffodils, Liiies. Let's start with Tulips, or shall we tip toe? Lending unrivaled brilliance to the spring borders, there are several different groups of tulips that can provide color from late winter to late spring, either as annual bedding or as groups in borders. continued page-32 Page 17 Josh Aterovis, Author Saving the World One Party at a Time One of our closest friends recemlv said to me, "You know, I always read your column, and I enjoy it, b;t it's been pretty heavy lately. I miss your fluffy pieces.'' I thought about it and realized that mv columns have tended a bit toward the doom-and-gloom variety of late. I've found it hard to focus on the bright side when every week things seem to get just a little worse for the LGBT movement. The truth is, however, I firmly believe that what is going on in the U.S. and all around the world for that matter - is just the swing of the cultural pendulum. It's a cycle we've seen before. When things seem to be progressing jus;: a little too far for the social conservative to handle, they fight back. In the end, though, what is right and fair always wins out. The pendulum will swing back Once it does, it'll never swing this far again. \X,'hy do I believe this with such conviction? Because I see it piaying out all around me. Even with all the hatemongering going on right now even with all the bigotry being spewed from pulpits under the guise of religious teaching, even with all the anti-gay rhetoric masquerading as political platforms, even with the President of the United States openly working to ensure that gays and lesbians remain second-class citizens - we're making progress. Just a generation ago, it would have been unthinkable for gays and lesbians to live openly the way so many of us do today. Fifty years ago, the police routinely raided gay bars and arrested gay men, lesbians, and drag queens for no other crime other than being in a gay bar. Lives were destroyed simply by having the arrest report printed in the paper. Today, 31 states have hate crime laws that include sexual orientation, while ten also include gender identity. Those same newspapers that once outed innocent men and women now run announcements for same-sex unions. Just twenty years ago, not a single state had laws protecting its LGBT citizens from discrimination. Today, sixteen states have some form of anti-discrimination laws that include sexual orientation. Just five years ago, it was unthinkable that gays and lesbians couid get married in the U.S., and now Massachusetts has samesex marriage, Connecticut and Vermont have civil unions, and California, DC, Hawaii, Maine, and New Jersey have domestic partner laws. We still-have a ways to go before we reach full equality, but we have undeniably made progress. Everything I just described above is law, and as we all know, laws can be repealed. In fact, the Far Right is working hard to fight many of those same laws I just wrote about. But here's the thing. They can fight it as hard as they want, but they're fighting a losing battle. Attitudes are changing, and that's something no amount of hate-filled propaganda can reverse. ~'hy are attitudes changing? Some of i: can be attributed to the laws, perhaps. It might make people confront their beliefs and prejudices. We can probably thank Will & Grace for some of it. Studies have proven that positive portrayals of gay characters on ;:devision affect people's feelings towards gays and lesbians. For the most part, though, I think we can be grateful for those who live their lives openly. continued next page Page 18 HEART TO HEART Jon and I live very openly. We often eat out together, we shop together, we go everywhere together. We just bought a house and we were together at every step of the process, from the first viewing to the signing of the paperwork ( oh, so much paperwork ... ). Not one~ have we experienced any open discrimination. In fact, it's usually just the opposite. We've found m~st people are surprisingly accepting if you give them the chance. w-e've been very open with our new neighbors, introducing each other as partners, and we've been welcomed into the neighborhood with open arms. At our recent housewarming partv, l looked around at the 30 or so people who had come out to wish us happiness in our new home and I saw a great diversity. It was an interesting mix of straight and gay, young and old, men and women, black and white. There were straight couples, lesbian couples, gay _couples, and singles both gay and straight. Many of Jon's coworkers came. Even my younger sister and her husband were there. . Sev:eral of our neighbors also came, tncludmg an older couple who live across the street. He plays kevboard for a local Christian quartet. He'; been playing for years, decades even. He told us he lost a dear friend when Ray Charles passed away last year. He and his charming wife w~te among the first people to welcome us to the street, and have even had us over to their house alreadv. Last week. as we sat in their living roo~, they subtlv let us know that they were accepting ;f our relationship. The word "gay" was i;i.~ver used, but thev made themselves perfectly clear. · · . Another person at the housewarming was a woman who just had her first book published at the age of 81. I had interviewed her recently for the local newspaper and we became friends in the r,.rocess. After meeting with her several tunes, I invited her to the party. She made a comment about looking fom-ard to. ~<;eting my wife. I'd spoken often with ner about Jon, but it hadn't sunk in that Jon was a man. I gently corrected her and she seemed surprised. I wasn't ~ure if she would still come to the party, out sure enough, there she was at our door with a bottle of wine. As we chatted later that evening, she told me that she'd picked up my book at the library. "I'm really enjoying it," she told me. "It's been a real education." My sister is a very conservative Republican Christian. On the surface, we couldn't be more different, but she has always been supportive of my relationship with Jon. For a while, she was the onlv one who accepted Jon as a, member of our family. Jon and I love to entertain and we often throw l:uge, rather lavish parties. This was the first one my sister and her husband have attended. She called me after the party and said, "You know, l was looking around at evervone there, and they didn't look like thei all belonged there, but they all seemed to be having fun. It was cool." In many ways, that's· what it's :ill about. I like to think th:.t, in our small wav we're making a difference. Parties and g~;-togethers may seem frivolous, but we're changing hearts and minds ... and attitudes. People who may_ not _oth_erwise be exposed to gays and lesbians In tneir daily lives meet them in person, socialize with them, and realize we're no different from anyone else. As more and more attitudes change, so will the laws. Eventually, a generation from now, maybe sooner, people will look back and wonder what all the fuss was about. I'll be an old man by then, telling stories to wide-eved disbelieving youngsters about th; b;d old days when gays were openly discriminated against ... and I'll proudly tell them about our parr in the revolution - saving the world one party at a time. Th~ 7:iews expressed in this column are my ofzmons only. You tUJn't have to agree with tJJem. I just ask that you read them with an open heart. and mind. Page 19 Serving our community in Mis::ouri, Arkan,:as, Oklahoma, Illinois & Colorado This Is Shelter Country. Herc in out: community you will find Shdtl'.r ,\gem Greg Tainter. \'i7e'rt proud to serve this community aa<l our cuscomcrs. Call today and ask about our service:-:. Auto -Home -Life - Business Greg W. Tainter, LUTCF Tel: (866) 208-9480 gtainter@shelterinsurance.com www.shcltcrinsurance.com fl Tulsa's Social Event of the Year. by Greg Steele November 22, 2005 TULSA, OK_The limousines lined up outside the Bamboo Lounge waiting to unload the their cargo of Scar':;. The red carpet was in place and the show was about to begin. Bamboo owner~ Terry and Stan were overcome with joy with the return of the coveted Miss Bamboo Crown. The precious jeweled trophy had mysteriously disappea1:ed ten month:~ ago and had just been returned via p1:ivatc courier. Reliable sources had tht: jewels travding the world with a disgruntled looser of tht: 2005 pageant. But the priceless crown had been returned and everyone was elated. The show· could go on! All pageant proceeds were donated to TULSA CARES. This years event raised over $400. Fundraising veteran and MC of the show, Kris Kohl, works drclessiy year round raising funds for variou:, nonprofit organization in Tulsa who benefit people with HP✓ and AIDS. (More photo's p,tge-30) Among the many stars and dignitaries in attendance, where crooners Pat LaMorte and Matthew Heath Fitzgerald. Matthew entertained and graciously donated one o bis freshly discarded jock strap for auction, it brought $100. What a jester' .:\ funtastic evening and all for a good c:ms,~. Big appiause fc;r Stan, Terry, Kris and all the fabulous entertainers. campaign to boycott the state. by Ut Organizations ranging from the American Mathematical Society to the U.S. Conference of Mayors cancelled conf~rences in Colorado. Aspen vowed to con_ttnue enforcing its civil rights ordmance, and Telluride passed a similar measure in defiance of the new state law. z Highleyman NOVEMBER 2005 Summary : Past Out is a retrospective of key moments, personalities, and subjects in LGBT history. Each installment brings the past to life by exploring the diversity of the gay past and its impact on the queer present. What was _ Romer v. Evans ? The U.S. Supreme Court has a mixed record when it comes to LGBT civil right~. The court upheld state sodomy laws m the 1986 _Bowers v. Hardwick case, but reversed itself with the 2003 - _Lawrence v. Texas_ decision. Whil~ it permitted a private organization to e~clude ~y members in the _Boy Scouts 01 America v. Dale_ case in 2000, the court ruled that states may not ban antidi~crimination laws that protect gay and bisexual people in its 1996 _Romer v. Ev~s_ ruling, the outcome of a long legal battle over Colorado's Amendment 2 ballot initiative. A conservative state with liberal enc.laves, _Co~or~do'_s first law against anttgay discnmtnatton was instituted by the .resort town of Aspen in 1977, ~unng ~ dec~de that saw numerous gay rtghts :ictones ~cross the country. . Followmg the rtse of the religious right in_ ~he 1980s, however, a group called C1t1zens for Family Values introduced an a°:endment that wouid prevent state agenctes, municipalities, or school districts from enacting laws or policies whereby "homosexual, lesbian, or bisexual orientation, conduct, practices or relationships" would constitute th- ' b . C as~s for "any minority status, quota preterences, protected status, or claim of discrimination." Although polls predicted the initiative was headed for defeat, voters passed Amendment 2 in November 1992 by a margin of 53 to 47 percent. The outcome set off a flurry ;f protest and a A coalition spearheaded bv Lambda Legal Defense and Education Fund and the American Civil Liberties Union filed a laws~t ~gainst Amendment 2, arguing that it violated the Equal Protection Clause of the 14th Amendment to the U.S. Constitution. In January 1993, Judge Jef~ey Ba~ess ruled i~ their favor, issuing an m1unct100 preventtng the initiative from taking effect. "For the judge to suggest that a ... skewed sense of moralitv is not a basis for denying rights to gays ~d lesbians - I've been waiting to hear that all of my life," exclaimed Richard Evans, a former staff mem?er of Denver's Agency for Huma~ Rights and Community Relations who signed on as lead plaintiff in the suit. Also joining as plaintiffs were the Boulder Valley School District; the cities of Denver, Boulder, and Aspen; tennis star Martina Navratilova; and six other individuals. Colorado Governor Rov Romer - who personally opposed the am~ndment - and Attorney General Gale Norton filed an appe'.11~ arguing ~at Amendmenf 2 merely prohibited granttng gays "special rights." In July 1993, the Colorado Supreme Co~rt uphdd Judge Bayless' ruling, statmg that. the amendment, ''bars gay men, lesbta~s, an~ bi~exuals from having an effecove voice m govemmentai affairs." After a second failed appeal to the Colorado high court, the state asked the U.S. Supreme Court to hear the case Since the Supreme Court reverses m~st appeals it hears, its decision to accept the case worried gay rights advocates a; thev prepared for oral arguments scheduled for October 1995. As part of his law firm's pro bono legal work,_John G. Roberts Jr. - who was named Chief Justice of the Supreme Court in September 2005 - assisted the plaintiffs' attornevs bv playing the role of a conserv;tive ·justice 10 a practice mock trial. · On May 20, 1996, the Supreme Court ruled by a 6-3 margin that Amendment 2 .................................. continued. next page. was unconstitutional, declaring that "a state cannot so deem a class of person a stranger to its laws." Writing for the court's majority, Justice Anthony Kennedy rejected Colorado's contention that the state had a legitimate government interest in excluding homosexual and bisexual people from legal protection, suggesting the effort was motivated by "a bare desire to harm a politically unpopular group." Justice Antonin Scalia Goined by thenChief Justice William Rehnquist and Justice Clarence Thomas) strongly dissented, claiming that Amendment 2 was "a modest attempt by seemingly tolerant Coloradans to preserve traditional sexual mores against the efforts of a politically powerful minority." Evoking the culture war, he expressed outrage that the court's ruling "places the prestige of this institution behind the proposition that opposition to homosexuality is as reprehensible as racial or religious bias.'· The groundbreaking decision was rhe first time in American history that the Supreme Court had ruled in favor of LGBT citizens. According to Lambda Legal attorney Ruth Harlow, the ruling coming 10 years after _Bowers_ set a new precedent that helped LGBT plaintiffs prevail in countless ensuing civil rights and family law cases. "Now, the presumption in most judges' minds is that constitutional claims on behalf of lesbians and gay men have legicimacy, and that the government bears the burden of justifying its antigay actions," she wrote in 1997. \X,'hile _Romer_ stymied a wave of attempts to overturn local antidiscrimination laws, conservatives soon shifted their focus to same-sex marriage, culminating in the passage oc 11 ballot initiatives against gay marriage in November 2004. Gi-ven the changes in the Supreme Court's composition in 2005, the queer comm'.lni~y anxiously awaits the high court's next move in the arena of LGBT civil rights. For further reading: Murdoch, Joyce, anci Deb Price. 2(:01. _Courting Justice: Gay Men and Lesbians ,. the Supreme Court _ (Basic Books). Page 23 Page24 e Pride .Agenda and a ntator on public radio, d in print media. Lesbian Notions by Libby Post NOVEMBER 2005 Which way Did They Go, George, Which Way Did They Go ? Poor George. First, the man who really calls the shots at 1600 Pennsylvania Ave., Karl Rove, had to go into hiding. Remember? This past summer he'd been implicated for exposing the name of Valerie Plame, the covert CIA agent who also happens to be the wife of former Ambassador Joseph Wilson, who criticized the administration over Iraq. Then Katrina hit New Orleans and the bankrupt morality of Bush cronyism was brought front and center. Michael Brown, the incompetent whom Bush picked to head FE.MA (now considered the Feeble Emergency Mimagcment .Agericy), acted out Abbott and Costello's "Who's on First" routine as a one-inan play while thousands of poor, mostly African-American, New Orleans residents lost everything. 'I'hen Tom DcLay, the House Majority Leader and Bush hatchet man on the Hill, was indicted - not once, but twice, for campaign fraud and money laundering. As a fellow Texan, DcLay has built a political operation in the Longhorn State that has served George well, but that appears to be a matchstick structure soon to go up in flames. Then George needs to come up with a new Supreme, and in order to maintain the gender balance (well, ~e gender configuration) at the Court, he nominates Hartiet Miers, the White House counsel whose lack of judicial record (she's only been a lawyer, not a ju~) has Bush's base up in arms. The conservative cadte who anointed George the savior of the right expects him to dance its dance and sdccr a Court nominee who will vote to strike down _Roe v. Wade_, block any gay rights laws, and turn back the legal hands of time in this country. Other than being a born-again, Miers, for the most part, is a blank slate, and that's not OK for folks who want a guarantee that their brand of strict conservative, constructionist constitutionality will be the order of the day. Poor George. It's all starting to fall apart. What's a guy who hasn't had an original thought in his life and who surrounds himseif with syncophantic yes-men and women to do? He's losing his friends. He's losing bis credibility. He's losing his grip on his political base. He's losing the public relations war. He's losing any claim to a positive presidential legacy. But his losses do not necessarily translate into gains for the iesbian and gay community. Sure, it's great that individually we can walk around with a "we told you so" attitude. I, for one, am proud that I still have my Kerry-Edwards bumper sticker on my car. But how far can that really take us? How can we, as a community and a potentially powerful political force, capitalize on the crumbling of the conservative coalition? First, we need to expose their politics as a sham. Katrina showed us that compassionate conservatism is an oxymoron. While the right has formed anrigay coalitions with black clergy throughout the country, those same clergy woke up the day after Katrina to see a government they supported refusing and unable to help their own people. Perhaps this is the right time for LGBT groups throughout the ............................................ continued next page. Lesbian Notions country to reach out to their local Africa;_-American clergy to build new bridges and work together to help our domestic refugees down south. . . . . Second, we need to raise the v1S1bility of LGBT groups throughout the country to show the compassion and concern we've routinely shown for people affected by disasters. From AID~ to ?/11 to Katrina, the LGBT community did not sit on its hands and wait to be told what to do. We're well aware of the need to do something, to make change - after all if we don't do things for ourselves, n~ one is going to do it for us. . . Thankfullv our action is just not hm1ted to doing f~r ourselves - we underst~nd that we need to bring our compasston and concern beyond the borders of our gay ghettos and to~ch the lives of anvone anvwhere m need. , Third ~e need to make it clear, over and over' again, that we're here, we'.re_ queer, and we ain't goi?g away. Thi~ is no time to seek refuge m a closet. We need to be clear about who our families are who our children are. We need to wo~k on the midterm elections, side by side with folks who share common goals, and defeat those in the House and Senate whose politics are not only dangerous to us, but deleterious to the nation. We need to run for office as well. Openly gay elected officials do make a difference. Having a seat at the table beats knocking on the door anytime. And, yes, we may just need to march on Washington as well. If we do all this and work together, we may be able 1:0 show George and his cronies which way to go - out the door. liewsprint at affonlabfe prices 405-478-4009 • 6725N. Miramar Blvd. Okla City, OK 73111 25 Rsk November 2005 Salutations and welcome to Uncle's comer once more. Uncle here, coming to you on location. I am soaking in the garden tub, whilst my ever faithful boy Delicious dick-tates, my every word. Say hello delicious, Oh I am just teasing Kitten. He is terribly shy, unless it is in a dark alley somewhere, and than the boy is a tramp. Well, a quick look at the latest in the world, while I enjoy these simply calming bubbles of mine. Freedom of speech took a U-tum during an ugly widdle run in, via the straight world. I guess they are not even safe from their own .kittens. What is this wodd coming to when just the right wing mentality gets someone· thrown off an airplane, for offending someone? I mean, if that is the case, I would t:'!,ck up frequent walking miles, as some of my playful wardrobe includes fun summer T's, which well, lets just say, could kill a nun at twenty feet. Still, is it not a right tci wear what we want? Did not the founding fathers pave the road for our freedom to· speil our minds? I guess,.the error of Bush is ringing in more than just natural disasters. Well, a~ we all can see, "gay" has become the fad of iast year. Seen as mainstream media attempts to once again, push our characters and causes from site, under the rug we go. It is sad when whom you sleep with is just so last year. Uncle would think that sexuality would be the last thing to become a fad. I wonder how the breeders would feel if we were to tell them, they no longer could breed, as it is just so fifteen agol Get the point sister? Before uncle's water loses its steam, let us see what seekers in Queerdom have brought me this week. This week Uncle received a special treat from Straightdom. It seems even the straight boys are curious about Uncle's corner. Uncle Mikey, I have decided to come out of the second closet so to speak. I have chosen to accept the fact that I am not a man, but women trapped in a gay mans body. I have decided to utilize my trust, in order to have the operation. I am however nervous about telling my mother, who took a very long time to accept I was gay. She finally realized I would not change, and now, I fear this may be too much for her. My father passed away a few years ago, · and she and I, are the only family we have in the world. Should I just stay the way I am for her sake? What should I do? Well Kitten, Uncle has thought about this and here is what I offer. You show up to dinner wearing her mommy's best string of pearls, evening gown and poof, probiem solved. You now have your trust, her trust, and your freedom, to become whoever your widdle heart desires. Ok, that was just wrong, smile kitten, uncle jest with you. Uncle suggest that you get a support system, in which to build the strength and backing this kind of transformation will demand, in order for you to brave the possibility of rough waters ahead. However, bear in mind, you never know, mothers love can overcome a lot more than given credit. Personally, I have always fancied finding myself trapped by a gay mans body; Oh' wait you said trapped in didn.i'™t you. Well, kitten, as uncle says, be you, the reai you, and allow others to deal with their own baggage claims. Good luck, and let me know how it ail turns out. Smooches-Uncle Page26 Ask Uncle Mikey: Mikey, I am a straight guy who does not mind homosexuals being who they are. I have a friend who came out to me a couple of years ago. We were able to remain friends, as I think of him as my best friend. However, there is a problem. He gets weird when he drinks around me. He starts kidding around with me, like he would like to sleep with me, but he knows I am not that way. I feel like he is disrespecting me though I try every way to respect his life choices. How can I get that point across to him? Friend of Dorothy's friend Kitten, Your letter arrived just in the dick of time. I was just about to reform, before your letter arrived giving us permission, whew-close call. Silly boy, Cute thougha : you do know that widdle handle aged you, as well went out ages ago. Communicate the very words you have expressed here. Maybe he is unaware of his offensive behavior, while meaning no harm. Gay men is general are more in touch with their emotions, which at times can be affectionate in an absolute harmless manor. If your friend is truly a friend, he will graciously except your concerns and correct the behavior. Meanwhile, welcome to Uncles corner, please feel free to take your pants off and stav. awhile. Snicker.. snicker. I am a stinker. Well Kittens, just as my bubbles are quickly dissipating, I too must take my leave. Until next time, remember; Uncle welcomes any who can abide by the rule of one; One society, one equality! Smooches Uncle Mikey and Tiddles too! Want more of Mikey? Visit Mikey's corner at www.askunclemikey.com. Freelance writer Michael Hinzman, joining communities throughout Queerdom ... Quotable Quotes "Touether it is a process, this act of b - coming out. But in corning our, we tree ourseives and take power away from those who would push us down"-~ Dr. H. james Menginley at the "Coming Out Ev~m" SMSU Campus Oct 12,2005 "Momma always said, Don't say you don'; like it until you've tried it!" OYSTER STUFFING 1 cup Chopped celery 1/2 cup Chopped onion 1 /2 cup Butter 1 tbsp Sage 1/2 tsp Black pepper 8 cups Dried bread cubes (white & pumpernickel) 1 pint Shucked oysters 1 - 1-12 cups Chicken broth In a medium saucepan, combine butter, celery & onions. Cook over medium heat for about 5 minutes. Chop oysters and add to mixture. Cook an additional 3 minutes, set aside. In a large mixing bowl. combine bread cubes, sage and pepper. Add oyster mixture. Add 1 cup chicken broth and mix slowly. For more moist stuffing add additional broth. Pour mixture into a 13x9x2 pan. Heat in oven at 350 degres for 15-20 minutes. HINT: Let bread set out overnight, then cut into cubes. You may also add 4 chopped boiled eggs to stuffing mixture. 27 Out of Town the base of Chairlift No. 8. In this retrohip '70s-inspired space (complete with shag carpeting and disco-ball lighting), you might sample such avant-garde takes on American comfon fare as "PB&J" sandwiches (slathered with roasted-pecan butter, fig jelly, and foie gras), and lobster-and-Brie fondue. Other cool Linzinmeir restaurants include Excelsior Cafe for contemporary Italian cooking; and the Blue Point Grill, which serves todie- for steaks, chops, and seafood (as well as cocktails in the adjacent, swanky Noir Bar). · Downtown Telluride has a bunch of great accommodations, among them Camel's Garden Hotel, an intimate resort hotel at the base of one of the main chairlifts, with handsome modern rooms, Italian-marble bathrooms with oversized tubs, and a sumptuous full-service spa. For a more authentic slice of historic Telluride, book a room at the courtly New Sheridan Hotel, a redbrick 1890s property with 32 Victorian-inspired rooms, a first-rate steak restaurant, and one of the coolest bars in the area. Mountain Village lacks character but has astounding views and offers some fine accommodations, such as the Wyndham Peaks Resort, which is home to the Golden Door Spa and abounds with many other fine amenities. Or consider ;taying at the classy Mountain Lodge at Telluride, which comprises 86 well-outfitted rooms and suites as well as 10 larger log-and-stone cabins. To reach Telluride, you have a variety of options, although like Jackson, this is a fairly remote part of the country, so flying makes the most sense. Llttle Telluride Regional Airport has direct service on Great Lakes Airlines (affiliated with United) from Denver, and on America West Airlines from Phoenix, but this facility tends to get snowed in fairly often. Another good option is to fly into Montrose (a 75-minute drive), which has direct flights from Denver, Houston, Newark, Los Angeles, Dallas, and Chicago. As for driving, Telluride is 290 miles from Albuquerque, 360 miles from Denver, and 410 miles from Salt Lake City. Of course, both Jackson Hole and Telluride have much to offer, so if vou can possibly find the time, consider, spending haif your vacation in one town, half in the other. It's a 550-rnilc drive between the two towns, but there are plenty of photo ops along the way. And it's hard to imagine a more stylish and exciting way to spend a week or two this winter than to vacation in both of these wonderful communities. The Little Black Book Jackson Hole: Amangani (1535 N. East Butte Rd., 307- 734-7333 or 877-734-7333, www.amangani.com). Blue Lion (160 N. Millward St., 307-733-3912). Jackson Hole Chamber of Commerce (307-733- 3316, www.jacksonholechambcr.com). Jackson Hole Mountain Resort (307-733- 2292 or 888-DEEP-SNO, www.jacksonholc.com). Mangy Moose (feton Village, 307-733-4913). Rendezvous Bistro (380 S. Broadway, 307-739-1100). Snake River Brewing (265 S. Millward St., 307-739-2337). Snake River Lodge (Teton Village, 866-975- ROCK, www.snakeriverlodge.rockresorts.com). Teton Village Lodge (Teton Village, 307- 734--7111 or 800-801-6615, www.destinationrockies.com). Wort Hotel (Glenwood and Broadway, 307- '733-2190 or 800-322-2727, www.worthotel.com). Telluride: Blue Point Grill (123 S. Oak St., 970-728- 8862). Camel's Garden Hotel (250 W. San Juan Ave., 970-728-9300 or 888-772- 2635, www.camelsgarden.com). Chair 8 (250 San Juan Ave., 970-728-8887). Excelsior Cafe (200 W. Colorado Ave., 970-728-4250). Telluride Ski Resort (800- 778-8581, www.te!lurideskiresort.com). Mountain Lodge at Telluride (457 Mountain Village Blvd., 970-369-5000 or 866-368-6867, www.destinationrockies.comj. New Sheridan Hotel (231 W. Colorado Ave., 970-728-4351 or 800-200-1891, ,vww.newsheridan.com). Wyndham Peaks Resort (136 Country Club Dr., 970-728-6800 or 800-WYNDHAM, www.wyndham.com). Page 28 Entrapment: Where the evidence indicates that entr.apmcnt may have occurred, the ~s~ue conccmfug the existence of the reqws1te mental st:2tc to commit the crime charged is reserved to the jury. SL.gel v. Suu, 1988 OK CR 284, 19, 766 P.2d 355,357 f'A question of cnmpment is generally one for the jury, rather than for the court."); Ryttns v. State, 1966 OK CR 153, 420 P.2d 556. The Court of Criminal Appeals discussed the defense of sentencing entrapment in Leech v. Stttte, 2003 OK CR 4, 66 P.3d 987, and pointed out how OUJI-CR 8-25 should be modified .if the defense of sentencing entrapment has· been raised. It stated: In a case where sufficient evidence is presented to raise the issue of sentence entrapment, tliis langwagc must be modified to make it clear to the jury that the issue is whether or not the defendant, although intending to commit a lesser offense, has been cntr.apped into committing a greater offense. If the defendant had no previous intent to commit the greater crime or did not become rcady,and willing to commit a greater crime during the course of the transaction, even though predisposed to commit the lesser crime, then a finding that law enforcement agents committed sentencing. entrapment would require that the defendant be found not guilty of the greater crime, and guilty of the lesser offense. 2003. OK CR 4,110, 66 P.3d at 990. OUJI-CR 8-26 DEFENSE OF ENTRAPMENT - BURDEN OF PROOF It is the burden of the State to prove beyond a reasonable doubt that n.o entrapment occurred. If you find that the State has failed to sustain th?,t · burden, then the defendant must be found not guilty. Committee Comments: Since entrapme;nt is an affirmative defense, the obligation to produce evidence sufficient to raise the defense remains with the defendant, uniess the evidence adduced by the prosecution has raised the issue. If the defendant fails to present any evidence that tends to prove that entrapment occurred, or if the defendant's evidence is insufficient as a matter of law, the issue of entrapment is not presented and no instruction should be given. If the defendant presents sufficient evidence to raise the defense of entrapment, or if the defense is raised by the prosecution, an instruction must be given in order to apprise the jurors of the defendant's theory of the case. Once the defense of entrapment is properly raised, the burden of proving the nonexistence of the defense and the predisposition of the defendant rests on the State, and the jury must be so instructed. Mclntur/J v. Suite, 554 P.2d 837 (Oki. Cr. 1976); Striplin v. State, 499 P.2d 446 (Oki. Cr. 1972). Note that Watson v. Stttte, 382 P.2d 449 (Oki. Cr. 1962) and Robinson v. Stttte, 507 P.2d 1296 · (Oki. Cr. 1973), were specifically overruled on the issue of burden of proof by Mcinturff, suprtt. No instructions concerning the defendant's burden to come forward with evidence, or the question of whether the defendant has presented sufficient evidence to warrant an instruction, arc included because these matters pertain to questions of law and of trial procedure, both of which arc beyond the legitimate concern of the jurors. Quotable Quotes "I have a brother and a sister who arc gay. And they always were, they didn't switch or change or anything. They alwavs were like that. They were born like that. I'm just for human rights, and that's part of it. It's nobody's damn business what people do. If people would just keep dicir damn noses out of everybody else's business, that would be a good place to start. Just treat _ everybody the same and shut up. •H Do l sound bitter?" - Roseanne to the Palm Springs gay publication The Bottom Line. Page 29 Aunt Mattie: Grown in fertile, well drained soil in sun with shelter from strong winds. Plant bulbs, 4:6 inches deep in late summer or autumn:·1n our region just before first frost. Daffodils, with thousands to choose from there are daffodils (narcissus) to suit any border and they can also be natucilized in grass. Careful selection will providi;.,.color from late winter to late spring. Plant bulbs at three to five times their own depth in autumn, in sun or partial shade in moist, fertile, well drained soil. Dead head faded flowers, but after flowering leave the foliage in place for at least six· weeks. lilies ate usually tall-growing and bear showy often fragrant summer flowers, occasionally in autumn. Grow in w~ll drained soil and a sunny position. Plant bulbs in early autumn to depth of two or three times· their size on a bed of course sand to ensure good drainage. • Well talk about drained, I'm done! So always remember, "You can lead a hor-to-culture, but you can't make her think" Till next time, see. you in the dirt. 1 /BTt-:t PA13E CLASSIFIED .A:D • • ,:✓ SPACE NOW. AVAILABLE· 1N THE STAR CALL F"CR RATES 91 B.B35.78B7 or email: aza~ksstar@sbcglobal.net Delivering Quality, Value, Integrity and lh.Jst in Affordable AdYertising Service. Rev. Steve Urie what they wanted for themselves to which they responded simply, ''We want to follow Jesus!" Just this week talking with high school students and students on campus this same issue was raised with the same response. Yes as Dr. H. James Mcginley and I commented individually arid together it is a process, this act of coming out. But in coming out, we free ourselves and take power away from those who would push us down. Now more than ever we need to have more of this dialogue, more of these events putting faces to who we are. Letting our families, friends and associates know that we are here and we expect to be treated .equally without threat of prejudice from anyone, including our government. Dr. Mcginley encouraged the formation of positive support groups for all generations of queer people and stressed the importance of it needing to be more than just the gay bar down the road. May each of you set yourselves free! Take the power away from those who seek to silence you or to beat you down. Take the first step; we are here to help you; .. Be Freel Rf!fl. Sfe.ui T. 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Sheridan Rd., #153 Tulsa, OK 74145 NAME: ___________ _ Address:, ____________ City:. _____ .St:_Zip: _ _ Phone:. ______ _ Check enclosed __ Money Order Start Date: ___ _ Page 33 Page 34 Seo es VIRGO (August 23 - September 22): Communications go awry chis week. At home, it's especially easy to gee locked ~nto needless disputes. If you dig in your heels, you'll find yourself in quicksand. Be ready to reiterate and clarify to save trouble. by Jack Fertig OCTOBER 2005 "Switch gears, Gemini!" ~-•. , .. ,,,,. Three very difficult squares dominate this week: Sarurn square Sun (dissatisfaction and frail egos); Mercun' square Uranus (loose lips and , provocation); and Mars square Neptune (overindulgence and recklessness). If you want to turn this terrible trio to vour advantage, work hard, think ahead, and be sensitive to others. ARIES (March 20 - April 19): Think carefully about your priorities, but if you expect others to share them, arguments will ensue. Plav with a few new erotic kinks, but if y-◊u act like you have something to prove, someone couid get _hurt! TAURUS ~Aprii 20 May 20): Communicate! Your efforts at work are 111isunderstood, so stay in close contact with your boss to keep your work on track. If you think your work at home is unappreciated, tell your partner that you feel taken for granted. The apology could be tremendousiy sexy! GEMINI (May 21 June 20): Arguments at work come way too easily. A meditative time-out can help, and remember that yes, the boss is the boss! S,virch chose gears; instead of running your mouth, keep your ears and brain busy instead. CANCER (June 21 - July 22): Our community is riddled with sexual peer pressure, ',vhic:1 is always stupid and is now especiaily da:1gerous. Ditto booze and drngs. Remember: "To thine own ,elf be t;:.ue." Stay close to your own ~ore values; do what's healthy and right for ,·ou_! LEO (ju!y 23 August 22): Home is where your controi issues are. How much of chat did you get from your parents? Be very careful to keep communication with colieagues clear. Sex play restores balance, but accidents are likely nm.-. Be very careful. LIBRA (September 23 October 22): Friends and money don't mix at all now. Dutch treat is good. Curb your erotic impulses; weil, at least be careful! You're wide open for all kinds of accidents. Think ahead, but not coo far. SCORPIO (October 23 November 21): Stand up for credit when it's due, and share it with your mentors. Exaggerated pride and false modesty both lead to disaster. If in doubt, lean toward modesty. Advice on investments should be politely ignored. SAGITTARIUS <November 22 December 20): Ac~idencs are jumping out at everybody, and you're a favorite target for those gremlins. At home, be careful to keep electricity and water far aoart. · Any retreat, even quiet meditatio~, will help you stay out of trouble. CAPRICORN (December 21 January 19): Your sexual expertise is a well-kept secret - until now! Admit nothing, deny nothing. If rumors get way out of hand, just laugh, shake your head like it's all news to you, and invite whomever you like ro find out fur themselves. AQUARIUS Qanuary 20 - February 18): Keep your finances to yourself. Either side of a loan can get you into trouble. You have enough confusion aiready, especially at home. Avoid domestic arguments, but pay close attention so you know what you're agreeing to! PISCES (February 19 - March 19): There are no secrets now. Your own business is out where everyone can see it. Grace and humor can keep you above scandaL A proper response is always, "Who said _what_? My goodnessi" Jade Fertig has been working as a professionai astrologer since 1977 and is a founding member of the Association for Astrological Networking. I I Gay Games Posters listings of some of our business sponsors, will appear on the final product. 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Open 12noon to 2am daiiy Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2005] The Star Magazine, November 1, 2005; Volume 2, Issue 11 Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource November 01, 2005 Subject The topic of the resource Politics, education, and social conversation over LGBTQ+ topics Description An account of the resource The Star Magazine’s first issue began February of 2005. Before this issue was Ozarks Pride (2004) and The Ozark Star (2004). Follows is The Metro Star (2008). This magazine discusses topics of AIDs, education, politics, local and national civil rights of the LGBT community, and advice for relationships and places to visit. This collection is PDF searchable. Physical copies are also available to be seen at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center with permission. Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Star Media, Ltd Publisher An entity responsible for making the resource available Star Media, Ltd Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource Greg Steele Josh Aterovis John Patrick Matt Brooks Steve T. 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Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data magazine Text Any textual data included in the document I 1HE APP ALLING SILENCE Io last months editoriai I encouraged men and women within our communitv and the GLBT allied communicv to sta~d up to the challenge of elective .~ffice in the City of Tulsa and Tulsa County. 1bis month's "Heart to Heart" column expands on the purpose of tlie subject and the reason it is so importmt for us as a minority group of people. . . I hope everyone who picks up a copy of this issue of the STAR will take rime to read the Josh Aterovis article (page 18), become concerned and discuss the issue with your friends, relatives; coworkers and anyone who wil(li~ten. Silence will not bring equai rights! Below is an exsert from the column that hopefully wilt peek your interest enough to read his enlightening article. "'It's up to us and our allies to change. We must elect fair-mi . women who will fight for equalify in our legislative halls. We must encourage and support those politicians who are ffri'ving to protect and improve the lives of all minorities. We need to applaud those vrave · · ,, and groups who stand up ina.tion and bigotry. Most importandy, we need to make our voices heard. Speak u-p for what ywoue believe appalling silence. We . rd to allow · · foundea on prejudice to go • And for the GLBT and Allied business owners a good start may be to join the newly re-organized "Tulsa Rainbow Business Organization'' TuRBO. 918.743.4297. CD. Ward /Editor in Chief 1 Massachusetts Anti-Marriage Am@ndment Defeated!! National Gay and Lesbian Task Force Lauds Efforts of State and Local Leaders WASHINGTON, Sept. 14 - The National Gay and Lesbian Task Force hailed today's defeat of a proposed Massachusetts constitutional amendment seeking to ban same-sex marriage and create civil unions. The measure was defeated today by a vote of 157 to 39 by the state Legislature meeting in a joint constitutional convention, having passed the body in March, 2004 bv a vote of 105-92. Had it passed tod;y, it would have been on the statewide ballot in November, 2006. "Today's vote proves that dogged grassroots organizing can change legislative votes" said Matt Foreman, executive director of the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force. "MassEqualiry and its campaign director Marty Rouse have done an extraordinary job and we are very proud to be on-the-ground partners with them in preserving marriage equality in the one state where it now exists." "The reality of thousands of our marriages in Massachusetts showed the utter fallacy of our opponents' arguments and dire · predictions," Foreman said. "Not on!v did the crops not wither, the Red Sox wo~ the World Series and the Patriots took the Super Bowl." "This victory is especially sweet. The Legislature's resounding defeat of the meanspirited amendment to strip away our right ~o marry af:u:ms and echoes the courageous stand of our state's Supreme judicial Court. In its Goodridge decision, the Court conferred full recognition of our famiiies' human dignity and goodness and today, our Legislature agreed," said Cambridge resident Sue Hyde, a longtime Task Force staffer and CG-founder and board member of MassEquaiity. Lambda Legal Offers Assistance to LGBT Survivors of Hurricane Katrina Who Experience Discrimination - Launches Toll- Free Hotline NEW YORK, September 12, 2005 - Today Lambda Legal announced plans for outreach to LGBT survivors of Hurricane Katrina who may experience discrimination in services provided by relief agencies because of their sexual orientation, gender identity or HIV status. "Tragedy does not discriminate and neither should relief agencies," said Kevin Cathcart, Executive Director of Lambda Legal. "In our experience during the aftermath of September 11, LGBT people face compounded difficulties because on top of the disaster they face discrimination when it comes to recognizing their relationships, leading to even more hardship at the worst moment imaginable." Lambda Legal is reaching out to a vari~ty of agencies, including gay and lesbian centers near the area impacted by the. hurricane and around the country, asking them to distribute a flier outlining forms of discrimination gay men, lesbians, bisexuals, transgender people or people with HIV · ence after disasters. Lambda L unched a toll free hotline {866-542-8336} for use by displaced LGBT people to reach the organization's Legal Help Desk. Lambda Legal staff from the organization's South Central Regional Office, located in Dallas, are also working with LGBT community leaders in Houston, where much of New Orleans' gay community is temporarily assembling. Please contact us if you or people you know are being: * Kept out of or been mistreated bv a shelter or other facilitv,; because of '"J ou~• sexual orientation, gender identitv or HTV . ✓ i status. .. ........ Conunued pg-9 Page 5 "Pl conside Travel Gui Once the mining and Pittsburgh ha · cent , ed software de pollution ha eradicated, a industrial sit attractions. The integrate populati theaters films an alternati Out of Town which celebrates the life of the late pop art icon, who grew up in nearby Oakland. Created inside an eight-story 1911 warehouse, the museum contains more than 4.000 works and is an outstanding,· engaging, and often very funnv museum, laid out with abundant co~r=nentary on Warhol's life (and his homosexuality). Close by are the Carnegie Science Center, the National Aviary, and the Mattress Facto1:7, known for its provocative, larger-than-life . installations created by visiting artists m residence. South of downtown, the city rises sharply above the Monongahela River tow~rd Mt. Washington, a workaday neighborhood with spectacular :iews of downtown. Ride up the slope via the historic Monongahela Incline, which . leads to a viewing platform and a small museum. A short drive east is the bohemian South Side, a repository of funky shops, galleries, and eateries that once anchored Pittsburgh's Lithuanian and Polish communities. Still farther east of downtown, Oakland was built from the gobs of money aenerated during Pittsburgh's b . industrial heydav and today contains hospitals, unive;siries, and ·high-tech firms. Forbes and 5th avenues anchor the Universitv of Pittsburgh and formidably endowed, Carnegie Mellon University campuses. Be sure to visit the C~rnegie Museums of Art and Natural History, which contain well-conceived architectural and decorative arts exhibits, a cache of artifacts from ancient Egypt, and the nation's third-largest dinosaur coliecdon. Nearby Schenley Park, ideal for 'a stroll. is anchored by the 1893 Phipps ca'nservatory, comprising 13 rooms of exotic flora. East of Oakland is Shadyside, a gentrified patch of neatly kep: yards and attractive old homes, many ot them gayowned. Ellswor~h Avenue (around the 5800 block) has several gay-popular eateries and businesses, and more chichi Walnut Street (along the 5500 block) holds mid- to high-end chain stores. It's a short drive east to Clayton, the former estate of industrialist Henry Clay Frick ir now consists of a magnificent mansion and other historic outbuildiogs,inciuding rhe Frick Art and HiHorical Center, which has an outstanding collection of European m·aster paintings. If you're looking for a bite t0 eat, head b;ck w the Strip to dine at Kaya, part of Pittsburgh's extremely "familyfriendly" Big Burrito restaurant grou~ .. Kaya presents creative Caribbe~n fooa tn a noisv but fun warehouse settmg. There are se~eral other great Big Burrito hangouts around town, among them Soba Lounge, a Pan-Asian fave in Shadyside, and Casbah, ai: elegant but whimsical spot in East Liberty specializing in Mediterranean cuisine. Off the lobbv of the Downtown Courtyard Marri~tt, Sonoma Grille presents innovative Wine Co:1ntry-_ inspired food, along with an mcredible vino list. It's a great place to take a special date. On Mt. Washin~ton, consider the Monterey Bay Ftsh Grotto, whose contemporary seafood fare (like macadamia-crusted sea bass) draws almost as many "wows" as the knockout skyline views. The South Side has plenty of great restaurants, among them City Grill, a hallowed burger joint where the juicy patties are hardwood-grilled in_ an oldfashioned coal-fired oven. A btt more refined and romantic, Le Pommier Bistro serves exceptional but reasonably priced country French fare. Nearby, swelldegant Tuscany Cafe _ a cross. betw~en. a java joint and a cocktail bar 1s a fa,•onte spot for people-watching. Known simply as the "Big O" by the students and locals who pig out here, Oakland's Original Hot Dog Shop doles out huge portions of greasy food - french fries hot dogs the size of full-grown dachshunds at rock-bottom prices. Shadyside's quintessentially queer video lounge and cafe, 5801 is a hip but friendly place for cocktails, good homestyle cooking, and great conversanon. For a hearty breakfast or lunch, pop inside the friendly Square Cafe, a homey neighborhood spot in the ~verse Regent Square neighborhood s~rvmg hefty sandwiches. omelets, Be,gtan waffles, and buttermilk ·pancakes. In up-and-coming Lawrenceville, Ray's Marlin Beach Bar and Grill serves a ,.vide range of imponed and microbrewed beers plus Caribbeaninspired seafood and creative coi:nfort fare, from chicken potpie to stutfed meat loaf. .. ,.continued pg28 Page 7 HISTORIC HOUSE HATE CRIMES PASSES One step closer to protections for GLBT Americans. September 14, 2005 WASHINGTON - The U.S. House of Representatives today passed the Local Law Enforcement Hate Crimes Prevention Act by an overwhelming 223 to 199 bipartisan vote, taking a historic step toward giving law enforcement the tools they need to enforce and prosecute hate crimes against gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender Americans. The measure was passed as an amendment to H.R. 3132, the "Children's Safety Act." "Hate crimes send a message of fear and Congress answered with a powerful law enforcement tool," said HRC President Joe Solmonese. 'We must ensure that some of the most heinous crimes are fully prosecuted and enforced. Members of the House, Democrats and Republicans alike, historically signaled todav that local law enforcement officials dese~e the tools this bill would provide toward fighting the scourge of hate crimes." "Every American child deserves the strongest protections from some of this country's most horrifying crimes," said Judy Shepard, mother of Matthew Shepard and HRC board member. "The House of Representatives answered our call today by passing a bill that would give law enforcement officials important crime-fighting tools. This makes families stronger. It makes America stronger." Reps. Barney Frank, D-Mass.; Ileana Ros-Lehtinen, R-Fla.; John Conyers Jr., D-Mich.; Christopher Shays, R-Conn.; and Tammy Baldwin, D-Wis.; are the lead sponsors of the original bill, which would add actuai or perceived sexual orientation, gender, gender identity and disability to federal hate crime laws. It would give grants to the states to help prosecute these crimes and allow federal assistance in cases where needed to fully prosecute hate crimes. The measure enjoys strong bipartisan support and is endorsed by more than 175 law enforcement, civil rights, civic and religious organizations, including; the National Sheriffs' Association, Inttrnacional Association of Chiefs of Police, U.S. Conference of Mayors, Federal Law Enforcement Officers Association and many others. Poll after poll continues to show that the American public supports hate crimes legislation inclusive of sexual orientation, including a Kaiser Family Foundation poll released in November 2001 showing that 73 percent of Americans supporting hate crimes legislation that includes sexual orientation and a Lake Snell Perry & Associates poll in August 2002 showing chat 68 percent of likely voters support hate crimes laws for transgender Americans. AIDS Alliance, Katrina AIDS Alliance Emergency Fund Ths fund will support the emergency needs of families and young people living with HIV/ AIDS served by Ryan White CARE Act Title IV programs in Louisiana and Mississippi. These emergency funds will be disbursed directly through local programs. Money raised through the Katrina AIDS Alliance Emergency Fund is being distributed to Ryan White CARE Act Title IV clinics and programs in the affected areas to meet emergency needs of women, children, youth, and families living with HIV and AIDS. This inciudes programs and clinics in J.(arrinadevastated areas, as w::11 as programs that are absorbing displaced individuals and families needing care. About 8,000 peopie with HIV and AIDS who were displaced by Hurricane Katrina now face the massive challenge of trying to manage their disease without their doctors, their clinics and their support systems. For more Info go to: www.aids-alliance.org/ Page 8 * Denied access to needed HIV medications or care * Denied help, services or the ability to assert legal nghts because you are ( or were) in a same-sex relationship and not married * Kept from your or other family members, or denied the ability to take action on their behalf because you don't have a formal legal relationship * Asked to provide documents to prove your relationship or ownership of property when married people are not * Turned away or mistreated by a private or public relief agency based on religious views about LGBT or HIV-affected people * Mistreated in temporary or permanent foster care * Denied the right to handle the affairs of a deceased loved one "If individuals or couples within the LGBT or HIV community are denied services because of their sexual orientation, gender identity or HIV status, I encourage them to call one of our help desks around the countrv " Cathcart said. · ' · Lambda Legal Help Desk Numbers: Toll Free Hotline 866-542-8336 South Central Regional Office (Dallas): . 214-219-8585 Southern Regional Office (Atlanta): 404-897-1880 National Headquarters (New York): 212-809-8585 Midwest Regional Office (Chicago): 312- 663-4413 Western Regional Office (Los Angeles): 213-382-7600 A printable flier is available by following the link on the homepage at www.iambdalegal.org. Lisa Hardaway 212-809-8585 ext.266; Cell: 402-369-2104 Lambda Legal is a national organization committed to achieving full recognition of the civil rights of lesbians, gay men, bisexuals, transgender people and those with HIV through impact litigation, education and public policy work. HOUSE COMMITTEE VOTES TO RESTORE PROTECTIONS FOR FEDERAL WORKERS 'Members of Congress are fighting for more than 2 million federal workers while a Bush appointee tries to chisel away at protections,' said HRC President Joe Solmonese. Sept. 15, 2005 WASHINGTON - Legislation that would clarify existing law to ensure protections from anti-gay discrimination in the federal workplace was passed today by a unanimous voice vote in the House Government Reform Committee. Introduced by Reps. Henry Waxman, DCalif., and Chris Shays, R-Conn., the Clarification of Federal Employment Protections Act became necessary after President Bush's appointee at the Office of Special Counsel began rolling back protections in existence since the Carter administration. "Members of Congress are fighting for more than 2 million federal workers while a Bush appointee tries to chisel away at protections," said HRC President Joe Solmonese. "This measure would halt the rollback of a law preventing anti-gay discrimination that has existed for three decades. Today's vote was an important step toward restoring these critical protections. Our thanks extend to Representatives Henry Waxman, Chris Shavs and Tom Davis for their leadership.;' For more than two decades, a federai statute, the Civil Service Reform Act of 1978, has been interpreted to prohibit discrimination based on sexual orientation in the workplace for federal empioyees. Special Counsel Scott Bloch. who heads one of the federai agencies · responsible for investigating and settling claims of workplace discrimination, claimed at a Senate hearing in May tl:at he lacks authority to investigate or ac;: on continued page-32 Page 9 September 14 * October 23, 2005 The Cimarron Alliance Foundation. in partnership with the U.S. Holocaust Memorial Museum and other communit"f, civic and religious•baacd orgaoaations is pleased to bring to Okiaboma City an exhibition on the Holocaust unique to Oklahoma. The Oklahoma Holocaust ExbiQition • offered FREE to the pubiic - began Wednesday, Sq,tcmber 14 and will remain through Satmday, October 23, 2005, in downtQwo Oklahoml City at Untitled (ArtSpace], t NE 3rd Street. The gallery hours for the exhibition will be Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, and Saturday from 11am to 4pm; Friday 11am to 8pm and Sunday 1 pm m 4pm. For more information go tawww.OKHolocaustExhibition.org. I I It's alJ liappe1:1ing at lhfi Ba.mlwi1 .l m1t fut· Yott! Open i 2noon fo 2am daily Page 1 l iversity de ents We D<iit ti For GLBTa &. PPLAGa EureRa Sprinqs. Adzansas Nov 4, s.&. 6 It will be RAINING . ... MEN, WOMEN & BEARS/ .Earl mheeler . 437 E. 141st Streiit Glenpool, OK 74Ql:3.. · .-, 918.291.EARL(3275) iscill <fu.nli OKC,OK Priscilla's 615 E Memorial (405) 755-8600 Springfield, MO TLC Priscilla's 1918 S. Glenstone (417) 881-8444 Tulsa, OK Priscilla's 7925 E 41st (918) 627-4884 Tulsa, OK Priscilla's 5634 W. Skelly (918) 446-6336 Tulsa, OK Priscilla's 11344 E. 11th (918) 438-4224 Tulsa, OK Priscil!a's 2333 E. 71st (918) 499-1661 Page 13 Mister Sunshine State: Gage Gatlyn, I wins Mr. Gay USA, FMI Gage Gatlyn, Master Illusionist, a native of Jacksonville, Florida traveled to Hickory North Carolina Labor Day weekend to compete in National Pageant, Mr. Gay USA, FMI (For Male Impersonators). Gage Gatlyn qualified for USA, FMI in the Mr. NC, USA Preliminary. After 3 scressfoi , yet funfilled days at Club Cabaret, he was named the new Mr. Gav USA, FMl 2006, and was rhe winner of every category. His 1st Runner up is Cord Long of Michigan and 2nd Runner up is Devin Dame of Ohio. The title was turned over by Chase Thompson of Oklahoma. The Competition included 17 contestants from 9 different states, and they brought IT! It was hiswry in the making for USA, FMI. Mr. Gay USA just celebrated 20 years of the Gay pageantry system. When asked if she planed to be traveling this year now that she holds a USA Title, Gage replied, "I plan on entertaining at every preliminary for Mr. Gay USA, FMI, and even prelims and National Pageants of other categories of USA Unlimited Pageantry System. To show the rest of the Nation that Drag Kings are not what they used to be. The standards ha,e changed and we are on the road to sharing a stage with our sisters on a regular basis:i: not just on Drag King nights. Some of us work just as hard and go through just as much to make the illusion on that stage, therefore we deserve the opportunity to be seen". Gage Gatlyn will be performing at Ben's Club 1022, Fort Smith, Saturday, November 12th! For more information and schedule go to www.gagegatlyn.boilingpoint.us Marsha Stevens in J lin Oct. 1st Famous for her song, "For Those Tears I Died" Stevens became the first (and as of 2002, the only) major singer in the contemporary Christian music subculture to identify herself publicly .ts a lesbian ..... Christian Century Magazine has said that Stevens bec~me "conservative Christianj~/s worst nightmare a Jesus-loving, Biblebeiieving, God-fearing lesbian Chrisrian." Marsha will be performing at MCC _Toplin 6pm Oct 1st. Page 15 "'Momma always said; Don't say you don't lilie it until you've tried it!" FALL SPICY SALMON 2 cups Brown Sugar 1/2 tsp Salt 1 tbsp Cumin 1 tbsp Chili Powder 1/2 tsp Thyme 1/2 tsp Cayenne Pepper 1/2 tsp White Pepper Mix all ingredients together and set aside. 4 12-16 oz Salmon Filets (1/4-1/2 inch thick) 1 cup Bro~n Mustard 2 tbsp Cream Horse Radish Sauce Take brown sugar mixture and rub gently over both sides of Salmon filets. These may be cooked 2 wavs. Preferablv grilled or broiled in an ove~. If grilling, ' cook for 15-20 minutes. If broiling, cook for 10-12 minutes (about 165 deg internally) Mix brown mustard and horse radish sauce together. Lightly brush on filets during the last five minutes of cooking. Save enough to serve on the side. Serve fish over Spanish Rice of Rice Pilaf. Hint: Serve with a nice Merlot TESTil'iG,~O NEEDTu~!. sPirur•oii CHR1ST. MCC SPONSORS 2902 E. 20th St., PO Box 47.11 Joplin, Mo 64803 Sunday Service 6PM conjunction with AIDS Project of the ks, MCC Joplin offers fr~e HIV g the last Sunday of each month een 5PM and 6PM. For your nvenience you can also call 206-6179 for appointment. We use the Ora~sure ethod which does not require the use of and we offer complete nfidentiality. You may :1lso request oklets on AIDS for People of Faith rough the PO Box listed above. Spirit of Christ MCC Joplin "Seroing A Healthier Community" Page 16 Mary Mary Quite Contrary, How does your garden growl What makes a garden? So powerful are the impressions made by flowers and foliage, it is tempting to think of the_ garden as essentially a place in which plants grow. Gardens are, however, first and foremost for people whose preferences and requirements can be very different. You might relish the idea of honing your garde~ng s½:ills and making a special collection ot plants. But creating a pleasant, low maintenance setting for outd_o_or !ivin~ is an equally legitimate amb1t1on. At its most rewarding, a garden is a highly personal creation, one that happily reconciles your idea of what is best for vou with the potential of the are; that is available. The way you want to use the garden area affects the way vou organize the space within it; boundaries. This will be reflected in the relative weight given to hard landscaping, such as paving, walls, the planted areas, or soft iandscaping. I pr~fer it hard!, but a little soft is also enjoyable, but if, for example, vou want the garden to be an outd~or room for entertaining, you will probablf need a large area of paving or decking. If your passion is plants or you want to grow fruits or vegetables, you might make do with narrow paths crisscrossing planted ~rea~. A pond may be high on your list tf you wish to attract wildlife into your property. Once you have thought through how you want to use your garden and how to best exploit the site you can start planning how you want it to look. In the following months we will explore °:ore aspects of gardening, plant vanety, maintenance and tips fo~ a number of problem's that may anse. October is the month for mums and pansies. My personal favorite variety of chrysanthemum is "Salmon Faire;' a beautiful florists mum with pompom shaped salmon pink flowerheads, 1 1 / 2 inches across in late autumn. Pansies come in a large variety of colors and are an excellent choice for fall winter or spring color. Pansies will winter in our region quite well although snow will bring on a dormant period. They prefer well drained soil and will take full sun in cool temperatures. So, if anyone calls you a pansy, just say THANK YOU! And on that note it's time to close for now. I hope you will enjoy the columns but remember ........ .. "Yo,u mcaank lead a bar-to-culture, but you cant e her think" Till next time, see you in the dirt. Page 17 Josh Aterovis, Author Opinions Founded on Prejudice The great Scottish judge and literarv critic Francis J effrev once said · "Opinions fo~ndel on prejudi~e are always sustained with the greatest of violence." He was most likely referring to the ferocity of a verbal argument, but his sentiment holds true in every sense of the word violence. As lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender issues have come to the forefront on an international scale, organized attacks and violence against the LGBT communitv has increased exponentially. , Several countries saw ·violence erupt at their Pride events this year. In July, Erik Shkapars, the executive direcwr Latvia's capital Riga, canceled the city's pride celebration, but a judge ruled that the parade could go on. When several dozen brave gays and lesbians showed up to march through the cemer of the cicy demanding justice for sexual minori<iP< they found themselves vastly ·--~, outnumbered by anri-gay demonstrators. The protes::s turned violence when the anti-gay crowd began throwiDg rotten eggs and insults, and scuffles with the police broke out. A similar scene played out in Poland a month earlier when more than 2500 people marched through the streets of Warsaw in defian£.Lof the city's mayor; who had also canceled all gay pride celebrations. Once again, eggs and insults were tossed, bur that time, marchers were physically attacked by protestors. Things got even uglier at Jerusalem's pride parade. More than a thousand protestors threw bottles of urine and bags of feces at marchers. Three people were stabbed in a series of attacked by religious extremist. In Australia, the Victorian Gay and Lesbian Rights Lobby reports that Violence and harassment against gays and lesbians in Victoria is increasing to "unacceptably high levels." According to Human Rights First; in France, violent hate crimes against gay men more than doubled from 2002 to 2003. Even in Canada, where gay marriage was recently legalized, violence against gays and lesbians has increased. Criminologist and author Doug Janoff says violence against homosexuals in Canada is more "frenzied" and intense than that perpetrated against other victims of violent crime. Unfortunately, the U.S. is at the forefront of anti-gay attacks. This summer was an especially violent one for the LGBT community. In July alCl!le, there were four separate LGBT-related arson attacks around the country. On July 9, a gay-friendly United Church of Christ congregation in Middlebrook, Virginia was damaged in a fire set after the arsonist wrote a message on the exterior of the church calling its members sinners. Two weeks later, the only gay club in Fayetteville, Arkansas was torched for the second time in iess than a month. Studio 716 was destroved by the second blaze. A week later, a gay club in Brownsville, Texas was gurted by fire. Then, just davs ia;:er. a Florida couple were the victims ~f a targeted hate crime when their home was set ablaze and "Die Fag" was spray painted on their front steps. It was a violent summer for gays in New York City as well. There were neariy one hundred attacks on gays in the City this summer. In June and 1uly alone there were 85 viole~t hate cri~e~ Continued next page: Page 18 HEART TO HEART against NYC gays and the number rose almost ~aily in August. According to the Ant1-V1olence Project, hate crime against gays were about 6% above average in 2004. . In fact, violence against gays is on the nse. on a natio_n.al level. According to the National Coalition of Anti-Violence Programs' _annuai report released in April, reported anti-gay violence rose 4% between 2003 and 2004. Included in the rise in incidents for the year was an 11 % increase in anti-LG BT ~urders. In 2003, NCA VP's report on hate violence detailed a 26% increase in anti-LGBT violence. "This year's report has to be viewed as a follow-up ro our report from a year a~o," Clarence Patton, acting executive director of the NCA VP said. "In the last edition of this report it became all too clear that with respect to violence the nation's LGBT communities had ' entered a very new, :i.nd very dangerous era in which all of us were under attack at levels not seen in recent vears." So what is at the root of this increased hatred and violence against LGBT peopl~? Certainly, it is partially the resu_lt of increased visibility. Violent attacks Jumped dramatically following the Supreme Court's decision striking down sodomy laws and Massachusetts's allowing s~me-sex couples to marry. They cono_nued to rise as many states passed antt-gay ballot initiatives. the President repeatedly called for ~ cons?tutional amendment banning gay marnage, and the LGBT communitt foun~ itself ~eing used as a wedge is;ue by Right-Wmg politicians during the 2004 eiection process. Some believe it's even more insidious than mere exposure, however. The National Gay and Lesbian Task Force lay the blame on conservative religious groups. "The literal blood of the thousands of gay people physically wounded b·, hate during 2004 is on the hands of jerry Falwell, James Dobson, Tony Perkins and_ so m~y others who spe-~ hate fo; p~msan ¥am and personal enrichment," said NGLTF Executive Director Mat Foreman. He codd be right S~dies have concluded that polincal hate-dnven messages have been directly connected to violence a=inst gav and 1 b . 1 b- , es tan peop,e. Constant hate speech from r~l~g10us leaders demonizing gays and lesbians musr have the same effect. E-..-ery time Falwell, Dobson. Robertson, or Phelps denou~ce gavs as sinners, they are so-wing the seeds ~f bigotry and reinforcing the prejudice many already feel towards LGBT people. T~e most recent example of this came rn wake of the devastation of Katrina .• ~n evangelical Christian group that calls itself Repent America made a public statement blaming the hurricane on gays. "Although the loss of lives is deeply saddening, this act of God destroyed a wicked citv." director ·Michael Marcavage said: When will this cvcle of hate and viol.ence end? Only ~hen good people begm _ to stand up and fight back against the bigotry and intolerance. As Dr. ~artin Luther King Jr. once wrote, "We will have to repent in this generation not merely for the hateful words and actions of the bad people but for the appa~ng silence of the good people." Its up to us and our allies to bring about change. We must elecr fairminded men_ and women who will fight for equality m our legislative halls. We mu~t. encourage and support those poli~c1ans who are striving to protect and 1mprove the lives of all minorities. We need to applaud those brave religious leaders and groups who stand up and denounce discrimination and bigotry. Most importantly, we need to make our voices heard. Speak up for what you believe is right. Do not b~come a part of the appalling silence. We cannot afford to allow those opinion founded on prejudice to go unchallenged. Th~ ~iews expressed in this column are my opinion~ only. :You don't have to agree with them. I jUSt ask that you read them with an open heart and mind. Page 19 Serving our community in Missouri, Arkansas, Oklahoma. Illinois & Colorado This Is Shelter Country. Here in our community you will find Shelter Agent,_ Greg Tainter. We're proud to serv<N:his community and our customers. <::all today and ask about our services. ANtO • Ho,m: • Life • Business Greg W. Tainter, LUTCF Ttl: (886) 208-9480 gtainter@shelterinsurance.com www.shelterinsurance.com Page 20 10% off with this ad! Pagt" 21 ut by Highleyman OCTOBER 2005 Summary : Past Out is a retrospective of key momen_ts, personalities, and subjects in L<JBT history. Each installment brings the past to life lry exploring the div&sity of the gtt:y past and its impact on the queer present. What is the ,history of the . Metropolitan Community Church? Because they have often experienced homophobia in their religions of origin, LGBT people have formed lesbian and gay groups within specific denominations, as well as an entirely • new LGBT religious organization, the• Universal Fellowship of Metropolitan Community Churches (MCC). MCC was founded by the Rev. Elder Troy D. Perry, a defrocked Protestant minister. Perry was licensed as a Baptist preacher when he was 15, married at age 18, and became a pastor in two different Pentecostal churches. In the early 1960s, he came put as gay, leading to a. divorce from his :wife and dismissal from the ministry. At age 27, after having attempted suicide following a failed love affair with a man, Perry realized that God loved .him as he was, and felt called to start a new church to serve the gay community. Perry held the first MCC service in the living room of his suburban Los Angeles home on Oct. 6, 1968. Twelve people attended, including friends and a few individuals who had seen an ad in _ The Advocate_, then a local gay newspaper. Perry's first sermon, "Be True to You," was inspired by Polonius' advice to his son in _Hamlet_. The church expanded rapidly, and within a few I)J.Onths had outgrown Perry's living room. The budding congregation first m.oved to a theater in Hollywood, theri. bought and refurbished a dilapidated building. Soon, MCC congregations began to spring up in other cities, including Chicago, Honolulu, San Diego, and San Francisco. In 1972, two dozen affiliates were· formally organized as the Univ.ersal · Fellowship of Metropolitan Community Churches, with Perry serving as moderator .. The fellowship has since grown to nltply 300 congregations comprising sbme 43,000 members - in 48 states and more than 20 countries. Not everyone was happy about the new church's success .. In 1973, the Los Angeles congregation's recently dedicated building was burned down, the first of some 20 arsons and fire-bombings at MCC churches. Later that same vear, a fire at a New Orleans gay bar us~d for MCC services claimed the. lives ,of 32 people, including the pastor and nearly half the congregation. Perry always,intended that MCC should be an ecumenical Christian church, and {tom its first days it attracted people frpm diverse religious backgrounds. Drawing upon Pentecostal, Episcopal, Presbyterian, and other .. malnline Protestant traditions; MCC . retains many tenets of Christian doc:trine, but promotes a reading of the Bible :that accepts gay people. "Jesus never orice . mentioned or condemned : · homosexuality,:' wrqte Pe:1;tt. "Jesus spent a lot of time talking-about Iov~ - and that's something that's missingjti both the rhetoric and actions of an~y; religious,. groups." A few congregations have taken . · · ·. . the fello_;;;hip's ecw:neni~in • tp -~ n~vi levd; San Francisco's MCC .. Bills itself as. "a home for queer sp· · · · the first to .hold Since the clergy and Jay members'h~ve ta~en an active role in the LGBT civiVrights . movement. Tlie original MCC. was oom in the midst of a · · of police harassment of gay . Angeles, which resulted in the arrest of one of Perry's close friends'. In ·March 1977, • Perry was among the first gay and lcsqi~ leaders to meet with White House staff.·· In 1981, MCC Toronto's.pastor, the Rev._ Brent Hawkes, held a month-long fast to protest that city's raids on gay bathhouses, and in 1987 Perry was among the. LGBT leaders arrested during a ma$S civil disobedience outside the Supreme Court to protest the _Bowers vs. Hardwick_ sodomy ruling . .. cont-next pg. From the outset, MCC has recognized the validity of gay and lesbian relationships, and has played a key role in the ongoing struggle for same-sex marriage. Perry conducted MCC's first same-sex union ceremony just months after the church's first rn'eeting, and in 1970 filed the first-ever lawsuit demanding that the state of California recognize same-sex marriages. In conjunction with the marches on Washington in 1987, 1993, and 2000, Perry conducted mass commitment ceremonies for thousands of same-sex couples. In January 2001, MCC Toronto's Hawkes performed a wedding for a gay and a lesbian couple following the ancient tradition of banns, under which marriages may legally be performed without a license if the intent to marrv is announced in advance and no one obf ects. Although Ontario authorities refused to record the marriages, the action set in motion a series of lawsuits that legalized same-sex marriage throughout most of Canada. When Perry founded MCC, he expected that mainline churches would change their teachings about homosexuality, and that gay people would then "go home" to their own denominations. As it happened, the failure of other denominations to fully embrace LGBT people ensured MCC's survival, and MCC's success, in turn, helped spur some other religious institutions to re-examine their views concerning homosexuality. While debate still rages within several denominations over issues such as the blessing of samesex unions and the role of LGBT clergy, MCC continues to provide a welcoming spiritual home for thousands of LGBT people throughout the worid. For further reading: Perrv. Troy. 1972, 1987. _ The Lord Is My Shepherd and He Knows I'm Gay _ (Liberty Press). Perry, Troy, and Thomas Swicegood. 1990. Don't Be Afraid Anymore: The Storv ;;f Reverend Troy Perry and the Met~opolitan Commu~ity Chu:ches~ (St. Martin's). Page 23 Page 24 _Libby Post is the founding chair of the Empire State Pride Agenda and a politicai commentator on pubiic radio, on the Web, and in print media. Lesbian Notions by Libby Post SEPTEMBER 2005 Is That a Promise or a , Threat? ! Repent America, yet another Christian Right we-take-the-Bible-as-literal-fact group, reveis in its belief that Hurricane Katrina was God's vengeance on New Orleans, a city, according to the group's website, that "had its doors wide open to the public celebration of sin." They're referring to "Southern Decadence," an annual end-of-summer extravaganza that, before Katrina hit, was slated to bring in o,'er $100 million in tourism dollars to New Orleans' business communiry. That $100 million is part of what has become the· $640 billion lesbian and gay market in this country. While smail compared to what the lesbian and gay market is worth nationaily, $100 million spent in any city isn't anything to sneeze at. The gay dollar is strong in all 50 states and getting stronger, much to the chagrin of those, like the folks at Repent America, who blame us for everything that in their view is not Christian and right. Citing moral authority over corporate America, :he Christian Right has long tried to keep businesses from supporting the lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender community. The Southern Baptist Convention (SBC) kick-starred various Christian Right-based embargos with their boycott of Disney in 1997. SBC, along \vith the American Family Association (AF A) and Focus on the Family, contended that the roof on the house the mouse built provided shelter for the wrong type of people us. All three accused Disney of pursuing a "homosexual agenda" in providing domesticpartner benefits to employees and permitting Gay Days at their parks. Eight years later, the Christian Right gave up. Plain and simple - it didn't work. Disney thrived despite the boycott. Besides, I'm sure it was getting difficult for young Southern Baptists to expiain to their kids why they couldn't go to see Mickey and Donald. But the Magic Kingdom ·was only the beginning. Bush's re-election gave the Christian Right a shot of adrenaline, and it's got;:en savvier about intimidating business in this country. Instead of calling for an outright boycott, it just threatens one - maybe the threats are more effective tnan the real thing. As fast as you could say "economic sanctions,'' the _A.FA went after Procter and Gamble for supporting gay rights legislation in Cincinnati last fall. P&G underestimated the frenetic response of AFA members - they're said to have mobilized 400,000 people througnout ;:he country •o sign boycott pledges to pressure the corporate giant. In the long nm, some heads rolied at P&G, and gay ad dollars dried up. It will be interesting to see if Crest or Tide is advertised during _ Will and Grace_ or _Queer Eye_ thi~ season. Concerned Women for America (CWA), another Christian Right front group, has targeted Starbucks. It seems the java king has various quotes pnnted on its ubiquitous green-and-white cups a~ part of its "T'he W'ay I See It" series One of the quotes is from Armistead r-.faupin. author of __ Tales of the City_ The quote reads "My only regret about being gay is that I repressed it so bng. I surrendered my vomh to the people T feared \-:.:hen T could ha Ye been our there hJYing so1ncone. l)on ~t make that Lesbian Notions mistake yourself. Life's ;:oo damn short." CW A should take a lesson from Maupin - life is to~J damn short and they should be worrying about qumes on coffee cups. But, aias, it is the group's calling to uphold biblical teachings and thus organize against all things gay. . Need a vacation from all this Christian Right craziness? Go to the City of Brotheriy Love which, by the way, is ,vhere Repent America is headquartered - and you'll find thev actuallv want us there. The Greater Philadelphia Tourism Marketing Corporation spent S1 ~illion on an ad campaign to lure lesbian and gay tourists to the ·citv. It worked. After a 14-month campaign, the group found that we came, we saw, a~d we spent! In fact, it seems we spend more money when we stay overnight than our straight counterparts do. For every dollar that was spent to get us to the city, the city's tourism coffers realized S153 - that's quite a return on investment. So what are corporate America and the small-business community to do? Does would-be moral authority trump the American Dream of making a profit? In the long run, we ;re a capitalist nation, and money talks. Maybe it's time to bring our the "Gay Money" rubber stamps from our memorabilia shoeboxes and start using them again. Perhaps the next time you go to Starbucks you should let them know you're a member of the LGBT community and you appreciate their support. When the Christian Right threatens a boycott, write the corporate execs and tell them not to capitulate. When you travel with your partner, send a clear message to the hoteiier or B&B and book a room with a queen-or king-size bed, not two doubles. They may not know you're queer when you book, but they'll certainly know it when you check in! \'{ie're worth $640 billion a vear in this coumry. Let's show corporate America and the small-business community just how green the rainbow flag can be. By doing so, we can help them ward off the likes of the Christian Right and reclaim the moral high ground. IGNA.Tt.1:ltE PUBlISHl Quality web newsprint at affordable prices 405-478-4009 • 6725 N. Miramar Blvd. Okla City. OK 73111 Page 25 Rsk o Advice Column! October 2005 Salutations everyw-!iere Kittens. Uncle Mikey once more on the s\;ene. You know, as the recent developments in ou~\southern states occurred, Uncle has found himself pondering, how our wonderful country shall recover from the terrible effects, of the real storm in our country, simply called Bush. Between that and trying to get my damn nails to dry evenly, a thought occurred to me, Gay men have been saying it for years, No more Bush! Uncle Mikey: I have been having this affair for six months. My boyfriend does not suspect a thing. He thinks I a.m working a lot of overtime and he trusts me. I feel crappy, but sexually, I was bored. Now, the man I have been seeing is demanding more and threatening to tell my boyfriend if I do not give him what he wants. I don't want to lose my boyfriend. I just do not know how to get myself out of this one? Help! Lost Lover Dearest Lover: Kitten, Uncle must tell you, we reap ~ha.t we sow darling and I am afraid there is no wa.y out of this without feeling the wrath of scorned love. The mature thing to do would be to tdl your boyfriend what you have been up to. Devote yourself to him, and making it anew, deal with this home wrecker as one. However, know this, once you and your lover have made it through this turmoil of <lea.ling with Mr. Fata.I attraction, you a.re next on the agenda. If you are serious a.bout earning back the trust, you are going to have to take your medicine. Good Luck Uncle Kittens I have said it before and it stands true. Broken trust and love can be ~ended with only the sincerest seeker. It is not a.n easy road however, one that you can find redemption. You could also find a bunny in the p()t, so be warned. Uncle knows the role of being betrayed, with husband number three, who held an insatiable appetite for the delicacy of twinkalecious. Uncle, after buying himself a complete new wardrobe, assured him the price is never bargain rates with this queen. He wa.s able to manage his wondering eyes after that. The poor duck, did not know someone could do such damage armed only with a gold card! Dear Uncle: I am so sick of gay people acting self-absorbed. It is no wonder why people think we are such shallow people when most of them are. Why arc they? I am sorry Kitten. Uncle caught his reflection in this new hat, which would make Lady Kitty envious. Maybe I can ponder this later for you, after my tanning session maybe. I must remember to give Sue Lee, a faithful hat-girl, a raise. Smooches-Uncle Dear Uncle: Why do lesbians have such a mean streak in them? I have two friends and '\\c-henever we go out, it is like walking on eggshells because they fight more than anyone I have ever seen. I am almost over getting together with them at all. I fear where their dramatics might lead with me in the middle. The Dike's friend Dear Dike's Friend: This is something Uncle has pondered, and in all truth, I think this is merely Page 26 Ask Uncle Mikey: good spirited foreplay. In truth, though many may want to deny it, they arc oassionate creatures. Kitten; think about ~ group of gay men at a dub. Eave you ever seen a group of more .:han five gay men get together without som~cme's flame igniting? I did not think SC;. Li've and let live. Encourage the two to healthy physical activity in orcier to sooth some of those pent up passions. Maybe skydiving, I hear that bush diving is almost a sport in itself; that is if its done right. Dear uncle: My friend is a walking-breathing penis. I mean he has no thoughts above the waste. I have watched him sleep v.'ith more men than I can count. I mean he has at 26 years old, never had a relationship that lasted longer than orgasm. Brian is his hero from QAF, and he thinks his lifestyle is all right. I keep telling him that one day he is going to be sorry for his behavior. How can I help him see he needs something more in his life? Plaver's friend Dearest Kitten: First things first, does he have a brother? Ok I am som· Uncle must have drifted the~c for a m~ment. Kitten, do I detect a hint of jealousy in your words? Alternatively, is it more that the item, which is really fueling your desire, is just that? Mavbe vou think vou are the one to tame this ~ild stallio~. Uncle says go for it, show him the benefits of homemade desert in bed on a rniny day. Smooches-Uncle Kittens, live and let live, do we ha-,e to continue to go over this. As long as someone is open and honest with his or her playmates, there is no harm in this lifestyle. Playing safely and responsible, is simply a choice. We are not all meant for domestication; remember that! Smooches Unde Mikey and Ticidles too! Want more of Mikey? Visit Mikey's comer at www.askunclemikey.com. Freelance writer Michael Hinzman, joining communities throughout Queerdom ... New York's Gay Penguins Split Up (and one turns straight) By Benjamin Cohen NEW YORK_One of New York's mo~t famous gay couples has split up. Silo and Roy two male chinstrap penguins have been living together as husband and husband for the past six years. Since their relationship began, the pair have successfully hatched and raised an adopted chick, after they tried to incubate a rock. They also inspired six other gay penguin couples at New York's Central Park Zoo. However, when Scrappy, a single femaie arrived from Sea World Zoo in San Diego, Silo's eye went wondering and he moved out of his and Roy's nest and moved in with Scrappy. Quotable Quotes "I nromise mv audience at least one J , shocking gay scene this year. People will ,vrite about thi~ once I'm done \Vith it.'.f' "Desperate Housewives" creator 1viarc Cherrv ro Oc1t mag:izinc, September 1ssue. Page 27 Out of Town '·,"-, Probably the most popular of the downtown gay bars, Pegasus is a see-andbe- seen dance-and-video lounge that's especiaily popular for after-work cocktails. The sprawling Pittsburgh Eagle, in a barren industrial neighborhood a 10-minute drive north of downtown, draws huge crowds for dancing on weekends. Donny's Place is a lively· country-western dance bar with a pool hall drawing a mixed-gender crowd. Downstairs, there's a guy-oriented basement nook known as Leather Central. Trendy types head to True Cafe and Bartini, a snazzy lounge on the North Side that exudes sophistication. Fans of karaoke, pool, and videos congregate at Images, an unpretentious and friendly downtown spot, as well as the nearby Liberty A venue Saloon, which serves tasty pub fare, too. The low-keyed Reai Luck Cafe sits a short walk from the music clubs and restaurants in the Strip and draws a mix of women and men. Among accommodations, you can'{ beat either the location or the swank decor of the Westin Convention Center, which sits near Liberty Avenue's gay nightlife and the Strip's rescaurams and markets. But for sheer history, check into the old-world Omni William Penn, a 1916 beauty in the heart of downtown. The excellent, mid-priced Courtyard Marriott chain has two fine Pittsburgh properties. In the Cultural District, the Courtyard Marriott Pittsburgh Downtown occupies four adjacent historic buildings. A few miles east, the Courtyard Marriott Shadyside/Oakland is close to gay-popular shopping and dining along Liberty and Ellsworth avenues. A delightful South Side urban retreat, the Victorian Morning Glory Inn is filled with memorable touches, from an 1890 grand piano in the music room to lateafternoon wine that you can enjoy on a shaded terrace. Rooms have fine antiques, tasteful fabrics, and luxe marble baths. Another gay-friendly option, the Arbors Bed & Breakfast occuoies a handsome 19th-century house o;;. 2 pastoral acres. Rooms have cable TV with VCRs, refrigerators, and unfussy but e!F-gant furnishings. On the North Side, the Priory is a highly romantic inn created out of a comrcrted 1888 home for traveling Benedictine monks and an 1852 German Catholic church. Filled with Victorian antiques and oozing character, the inn has a welltrained staff committed to first-rate service. Best of all, it's just a five-minute walk from the wonderful Warhol Museum. The iconoclastic pop artist probably would have approved of Pittsburgh's most gay-popular inn occupying a former house of worship. The Little Black Book Arbors Bed & Breakfast (745 Maginn St., 412-231-4643, www.arborsbnb.com). Cafe Zao (649 Penn Ave., 412-325-7007). Casbah (229 S. Highland Ave., 412-661- 5656). City Grill (2019 E. Carson St., 412-481-6868). Courtyard Marriott Pittsburgh Downtown (945 Penn Ave., 412-434-5551, www.courtyardpittsburghdowntowo.com). Courtyard Marriott Shadyside/ Oakland (5308 Liberty Ave., 412-683-3113, www.courtyardshadyside.com). Donny's Place (1226 Herron Ave., 412-682-9869). 5801 (5801 Ellsworth Ave., 412-661- 5600). Greater Pittsburgh Convention and Visitors Bureau (877-LOVE-PGH, www.visitpittsburgh.com). Images (965 Libertv Ave., 412-391-9990). Kaya (2000 Small~an St., 412-261-6565). Liberty Avenue Saloon (941 Liberty Ave., 412- 338-1533). Monterey Bay Fish Grotto (1411 Grandview Ave., 412-481-4114). Morning Glory Inn (2119 Sarah St., 412- 431-1707, www.morningglorybedandbreakfast.com). Omni William Penn (530 William Penn PL, 412-281-7100 or 800-THE-OMNI, www.omnihotels.com). Original Hot Dog Shop (3901 Forbes Ave., 412-687- 8327). Pegasus (818 Liberty Ave., 412- 281-2131). Pittsburgh Eagle (1740 Eckert St., 412-766-7222). Pittsburgh International Lesbian & Gay Film Festival (412-232-3277, www.piigff.org). Le Pommier Bistro (2104 E. Carson St., 412-431-1901). The Priory (614. Pressley St., 412-231-3338, www.thepriory.com). Ray's Marlin Beach Bar and Grill (5121 Butler St., 412-781-6771). Real Luck Cafe (1519 Penn Ave., 412-566-8988). Soba Lounge (5847 Ellsworth Ave., 412-362- 5656). Sonoma Grille (947 Penn Ave., 412-697-1336). Square Cafe (1137 S. Braddock Ave., 412-244-8002). Page 28 Minister Fired provide witness that Mr. Urie has very high women, gay and straight have offered to standards and morals completing his job with integrity and honesty" Kenneth T: a straight man who helped Mr. Urie with classes stated, "I may not approve of Mr. Urie's life-style but justice is justice and this is wrong. Never at anytime did Mr. Urie conduct himself other than professionally in the classes I assisted with.'' "My concern is that at 55 years of age and having been out since my 20's that this could happen at this rime of my life. I never thought a system that employees so many people of alternate life-styles would in fact use this as justification. This system has an antidiscrimination policy based on sexuai orientation clause in their handbook yet does nothing to protect it's staff members against being held to a double standard." " I encourage evervone to understand that they DO NOT have protection under the law as long as we remain second class citizens. We MUST work in every state and at the ·Federal level to obtain the protection that every citizen should have in housing, business, marriage and the workplace." "No one should ever be caught off guard or surprised when discriminatory actions take place as long as we are without the same protections others have. It couid happen t0 you." Urie said. "Don't be surprised, yes they can do it." Rev. Urie has ministered the all affirming. predominantly GLBT Christian church in Joplin for 8 years and has worked tirelessly to improve lives, to bring together the gay and lesbian community in Southwest Missouri. I have known Rev. Steve Urie for several vears, have attended his services and ha.;e seen first hand the charity and giving in this man, from his heart. And to my knowledge he has never drawn a salary from the church. The community, church and it's members are his life and a fulltime job in it's own. Yet he was dedicated to his teaching position with Freeman Health Care Systems. This man does not deserve to be stepped on by anyone and especially by a company that does riot enforce it's non-discrimination policy with members of our community. Steve has been unemployed since the 8'h of August and is unable to get a job until this is cleared up with the Board of Nursing. Anyone wanting to help with the legal expenses for Mr. Urie can send contributions to: Urie Legal Fund, c/o P.O. Box 4711, Joplin, MO 64803 It's a good time for our community to give back to someone who has given so much to us. Page 29 Federal Workers certain claims of sexual orientation -------. discrimination from federal employees. Liverpool to Back Building of Gay arter In April 2004, the White House released the following statement: "Longstanding federal policy prohibits discrimination against federal employees based on sexual orientation. . . . President Bush expects federal agencies ro enforce this policy and to ensure that all federal employees are protected from unfair discrimination at work." "From national park rangers to emergency personnel, federal employees fill important roles in American society. The last thing they should have to worry about is a bureaucrat in Washington rolling back their employment protections," said HRC President Joe Solmonese. "Our work continues as we fight for these critical protections, including strongly advocating for an Employment Non-Discrimination Act that protects every gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender American from workplace discrimination." The Clarification of Federal Employment Protections Act was introduced June 30, 2005, by Reps. Henrv Waxman, D-Calif., Chris Shays, R-Co~n., Steny Hoyer, D-Md.; Barney Frank, D-Mass.; Mark Foley, R-Fla.; Tammy Baldwin, D-Wis.; Eliot Engei, DN .Y.; Danny Davis, D-Ill.; and Jim Kolbe, R-Ariz. Quotable Quotes "If George W. Bush gets one more Supreme Court appointment, then a very important decision, the Lawrence decision, which says it was unconstitutional to prosecute two consenting men having sex in their bedroom that would be overturned. Tohn Roberts would overturn that. You have Bush talking about how Scalia - virulent homophobe ~ is such a good model for him." Gay U.S. Rep. Barney Frank, D-Mass., to the Seattle Gay News, July 29. By Ross van Metzke LIVERPOOL, UK - The Liverpool City Council voted unanimously Monday to back the idea of creating a gay quarter in the already liberal city. The ambitious plan was first put before the council earlier this month. Now that the plan has received full council support, the city planning department has announced it will begin to map out the neighborhood's boundaries and ~ on a plan to attract gay businesses to the area. This marks the first time an LGBT village has been specifically created by an act of a city council. In most cities, gay neighborhoods have historically sprung up on their own, usually as the result of several gay foc1.1sed businesses opening or a boom in the real estate market .. In Liverpool, the village will be planned out with a strip for businesses and an area for housing surrounding it. The group ofpeople who proposed the plan said they did so out of a sense that Liverpool needed a strong unified LGBT community to economically help. develop its decaying central core. Although Liverpool has its fair share of gay bars and clubs; they are currently spread throughout the area .. With no village as a focal point, Liverpool has yet to host its own gay pride celebration. Council members said they would look to neighboring city Manchester as a guide. Manchester has one of the most vibrant gay communities in Europe and annually attracts thousands of LGBT visitors from around the world. "We hope to get moving on it very quickly and we want to talk to- businesses who are already gay-friendly and. also the gay community to get their ideas and ;uggestions about the way forward," councilor Peter Millea said, according to 365gay.com. "Liverpool has always had gay-friendly bars, but they have never worked together as part of a strategy." Page 32 r 1 1 .1 ! I j the STAR delivered to your home or office? ues for $24.95 will be mailed in a envelope the 1st of each month. te the form below and send with a check or moneyorder to: Ozarks STAR 5103 S. Sheridan Rd., #153 J\tlsa, OK 74145 NAME: ___________ _ Address:. ____________ City:. _____ St:_Zip:. _ _ Phone: ______ _ Check enclosed __ Money Order Start Date: ____ _ £11 ACI', 1'0UOHENING PENAL'flES FORA~ CONVICl'EI) OF ACRIME AGAfNS1' ACHILD. Page 33 Page 34 See es by Jack Fertig OCTOBER 2005 "Meditate, Aquarius!" ------.__,.. ,, .. After a series of stressful quincunxes, ,quares, and oppositions, we finally get some easy aspects! The Sun in Libra, trine Neptune in Aquarius, focuses on new takes on social and humanitarian ideals. Mercury conjunct Jupiter in Libra, semi-sextile Venus in Scorpio, opens the gates of erotic charm. Keep prophylactics handy. Whether you're scouting for boys or girls, be prepared! ARIES (March 20 - April 19): Reiax and enjoy the company of the one you love, or audition candidates for that role. Explore any sexual desires you've been shy about expressing, and talk dreamily about your ideals and hopes for the future. TAURUS (Aprii 20 - May 20): If you have any problems with co-workers, this is an excellent time to work them out. Your boss will be very sympathetic to any suggestions you have, but may not really understand them. Be very clear! GEMINI (May 21 - June 20): You're · more playful and jocular than usual these days, and you could go over the top at work. Behave! You're especially open to new ideas. If there's any type of art you "don't quite get," now's the time to give it another try. CANCER Oune 21 - July 22): Your home could become Party Central now. Invite some people over, whether for a tasteful dinner or more erotic entertainments. Be careful with intoxicants. A good wine wfrh dinner is lovely. Harder drugs at a play party are not pretty! LEO Ouly 23 - August 22): Your charms are as seductive as they are poetic. If you work on the poetry of them, everything - and everyone - around you wiU faII into place. Siblings (despite some initial resistance) and neighbors are more cooperative than usual. VIRGO (August 23 September 22):Money flies into your pockets, but leaves just as easily if you let it. Review your budget for health and hygiene. A close friend should ha-ve some good money-saving tips. LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): ,\fercury and Jupiter lined up in your sign make you dangerously open and expressive. You could let some valuabie - o/ passionate - secret slip. Go ahead and let passion out. Y ou'l! win any games you play for fun, but don't gamble away your money! SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): Those dark, secret depths you're so famous for are suddenly very open and accessible - for you, at least. A little getav.•ay with a confidante can help you to gain great insights. Family religious traditions pro,-ide some insight as well. SAGITTARIUS (November 22 December 20): Cultivating social comacts now wiil pay off pretty quickly. Offering help behind the scenes, as well as rolling up your siceves and deaning up wherever needed, will gee you on the fast track to key positions. CAPRICORN (December 21 January 19): Chat up the boss or anyone else who can help you get ahead. A mysteriQUs female colleague should be helpful. Be open and honest about money troubles, and your forthright attitude will pay om AQUARIUS Ganuary 20 - February 18): Meditation can clear the fog you're experiencing. Then your philosophicai farsightedness will help you see what career moves to make now. A female (and/or femme) superior will help you focus on planning. PISCES (Febn;ary 19 - March 19): Sexually, you can get whatever you want (and nearly whomever you want) now. However, it will not come with discreet privacy. People wili talk! Whether that amou:1ts to good publicity or a tawdry scandal is up to you. 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Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data Magazine Text Any textual data included in the document VOLUME 2, ISSUE 9 FREE Ooe:hundred people protested outside the Iranian Embassy in London 11 August 2005 coinciding with simultaneous US· and European , protests against !rans tyrannical, homophobic, misogynistic and . fundamentalist regime. . · . We cooqcililn the execution of two teenage boys in Iran on charges !fi.volving hOtQosexual acts. One of them was a minor at the time of !-Js · . ; lioth were minors when they commitrcd. t&ifr offences. OutRage! ~s ah end•k> the death penalty. We express o_ur soliijarity with Iranians · democracy and human rights, said protester Aaron Saeed, LGBT human rights group OutRagc!, f five simultaneous iocernational Dublin. Sao Francisco, Paris and · st Irans use of the death penalty and i , gay and bisextial peopje. don protesters were membem of LGBT, 5oda!ittt and human · n left-wingen, exiles and asylum seekers; induding an brother was executed and his body dragged ------ . . Openly Gay Candidc,te to run for Tulsa Mayor's 0ft:ie::e.! ... Wouldn't those headline_s .send a few heads into a Linda Blare spin~arofo:id? . But wouidn't it be a pro · · r ill of us if it were true? With the 2006 Tulsa City efectionf ·•· . coming tip, why haven't_ openlycgJLJ arid lesbian candidates voiced in ,.·, · running for elective office? I · are many qualified peopl~ in,, gay community that would mainstream good ole hors . for their money. Could be, we haven't enough or ignored enough we just don't give a daJ?O content with our third d,ass. We do have the right to vot~, . • many of the GLBT .cornmunity,arf~ot registered or just donlt vote becaustw~ have no representation. · • •: · The GLBT community of the ci Tulsa and Tulsa County deserve represented by someone who fo; equality. A son ' .. be who they are ancl ... intimidated by Ottf,l many solid citizeru;, who are qualified,.ti:> . We encourage then{ torstand up and say to all who will li~nf;f!J am a gay citizen and I am running £of the· office of Mayor for the City oftr\jl~a'.'' ............. AMEN! C D. Ward/ Editor in Chief National Gay and lesbian Task Force study finds that Social Security privatization will dlsproportlonately harm lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender Americans 'Social Security privatization is a gamble with the lives of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender elders. It is a gamble our community simply cannot afford. · -National Gay and Lesbian Task Force Executive Director Matt Foreman WASHINGTON, Aug. 9 The National Gay and Lesbian Task :Force released a report today that finds that lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) Americans will be disproportionately harmed by President Bush's plan to privatize Social Security. According to Selling Us Short: How Social Security Privatization Will Affect Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender Americans, LGBT Americans, on average, have lower incomes than their heterosexual counterparts, which translates into lower Social Security benefits when they retire. In addition, same-sex couples are not eligible for Social Security's spousal and survivor benefits provisions, making the LGBT community disproportionately vulnerable to the benefit cuts and risks inherent to the president's plan. 'There is a widespread myth that gay people are economically advantaged compared to heterosexuals. U.S. Census data and other national surveys indicate the opposite. In fact, gay and bisexual men earn anywhere from 13 percent to 32 percent less than heterosexual men," said Sean Cahill, director of the Task Force's Policy Institute, which published the study. "If we earn less, we receive a lower Social Security payment in retirement. Any proposals that cut retirement benefits will dis ·onately hui;t gay people." Us Short finds that LGBT people of color, in particular, face an income disadvantage that ieads to lower Social Security benefits. According to the 2000 U.S. Census, black same-sex couples earn roughly $2,000 to $9,000 less in median annual household income than black married opposite-sex couples, and Hispanic same-sex couples earn roughly $1,000 to $4,000 less in median annual household income than Hispanic married opposite-sex couples. Discriminatory government policies, meanwhile, place gay people in an even more economically disadvantaged position, increasing the critical need to maintain the economic safety net Social Security is intended to provide. "Gay people have to report domestic partner health insurance as income to the IRS, but married spouses don't have to report their health coverage as income," explained Cahill. "Gay people can't inherit their partner's pension plan, while a heterosexual widow or widower can be a beneficiary. Not only do we earn less, we are 1ess able to keep what we earn. These are among the many inequities that make same-sex couples particularly vulnerable to cutbacks in Social Security benefits." Added Many Hu, author of the report: "The federal Defense of Marriage Act continues to deny same-sex couples access to more than 1,000 federal benefits and protections of marriage that opposite-sex married couples currently receive, including Social Security spousal and survivor benefits. Even though LGBT Americans pay in to the Social Security system at the same rate as evervone else, our families and children receive fewer benefits, often in times of crisis. If Social Security is to be changed, it shouid be changed so that all families are treated fairly." "Lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people are more likely to age alone and iess likely to have children than their hete:tpse,cual counterparts," said Amber Hollibaugh, the Nationai Gay and Lesbian Task Force's senior strategist and specialist on LGBT elders. "This, coupled with a lower rate of earning makes them particularly reliant on Social Security." Selling Us Short finds that LGBT elders could be negatively ..... cont pg-8 Page 5 SEPTEMBER 2005 by Andrew Collins "Off Beat Washington, D.C." It's sometimes difficult to think of America's capital as quirky. This is the land of buttoned-down politicos and staffers, stately and somber monuments, dignified oldworld hotels, and mahogany-paneled restaurants. It's a city of grand traditions and regal architecture, and with a discernibly preppy personality. But if you dig a bit beneath Washington's surface, you can easily discover a city with a surprisingly high funk factor, from its several hip (and gay-popular) boutique hotels to tour operators that allow you to see the city from perspectives you've probably never imagined. If it's been a while since you visited D.C., or you're mired in the habit of visiting the same old museums, bars, and neighborhoods, try thinking outside the box the next time you're headed to Washington. Here are just a handful of ways to get in touch with the city's offbeat attractions. _ Learn to be a better spy._ You haven't seen D.C.'s weird side until you've spent an afternoon touring the International Spy Museum,. which offers an intriguing glimpse into the secret world of espionage. Permanent exhibits offer an eye-opening introduction to the art of professional espionage, display dozens of spy gadgets, and consider the challenges secret agents face in today's topsy-turvy world. _ Kayak your way through the capital._ , Here's a novel way to explore Washington and admire its monuments: Rent a kayak from Jack's Boathouse in the tony Georgetown neighborhood, and paddle your way along the historic Potomac River. You can stop and admire the greenery on little-visited Roosevelt Island, enjoy close views of the infamous Watergate building and stunning Llncoln and Washington memorials, and watch herons and cormorants fly across the water. Jack's provides instruction and equipment, and when you're finished with your adventure, you can return to Georgetown and spend some time checking out the neighborhood's slew of upscale shops and fine restaurants. _ Stay at snazzy hotel._ The San Francisco~based Kimpton Group has six ultra-chic boutique properties in the District. Kimpton's dashing Hotel Rouge sits just off classy Embassy Row, an easy walk from gay nightlife on: R. Street, and contains 137 spacious rooms bathed in reds and yellows and a swanky lounge serving such memorable co4tails a:s the Madonna (Cuervo, Grand Marnier, Cointreau, and fresh orange ru;id lii:o;e juices). Near up-and-coming Lo~ Circle, the pop-art-inspired Ho~.}lelli:- '\VOWS · · with bold colors (lime-green honor bars, orange-porcelain bathio~m,,flxtures; · . blue settees and ottomans); a, few rooms are outfitted with bunk htrds, making this the ideal locale for a crazy slumber party • .Other D.C. Kimptons iAclud~ the Hotel Madera and Topaz Hotel, both near way-gay Dupont Circle; tn,e .Hotel George, near Capitoi Hill; and the Hotel Monaco, which is downtown. . . Typical in all the Kimpton properties, in addition to stylish .decor and personalized service, are minibars stocked with fun snacks (from Bugles to Pop Rocks), Aveda bath products, flaMcreen TVs, free high-speed Internet, cordless phones, and evening wine receptions - all of these hotels are pet-friendly, too . ........ continued next page. Page 6 Out of Town _ Catch a Nats game._ After more than a 30-year absence, major-league baseball returned to Washington in 2005 with the Nationals, formerly Montreal's beleaguered Expos. For now they play in frumpy RFK Stadium (plans are underway for a brandnew stadium, which should open in the next few years), but the Nats have been playing great baseball thus far and drawing huge crowds. So you're not a baseball fan and can't see the fun in watching a Nationals game? You obviously haven't yet seen talented (and hunky) rookie outfielder Ryan Church in uniform. _Nosh someplace new._ Washington's long-revered dining scene keeps improving thanks to the bevy of admirable new restaurants that have opened here in recent years. On Capitol Hill, within walking distance of several gay bars, Sonoma has brought superbly crafted contemporary American fare and a dazzling wine list to this upand- coming neighborhood. Try a sampling of fine cheeses with a glass of pinot noir, or opt for something more substantial, like cedar-plank wild salmon with white beans and pancetta-leek compote. Another great see-and-be-seen option that also happens to serve outstanding food, Zaytinya opened in 2002 and remains trendy as ever. This downtown favorite serves dozens of Middle Eastern-inspired mezes (similar to tapas), such as scallops with yogurt-dill sauce, seared lamb chops with rosemary syrup, and olive oil-marinated baby eggplant stuffed with walnuts and tomatoes. The snazzy David Greggory RestauLounge has a strong following with the city's queer community and presents stellar Mediterranean fare, such as truffle-scented pizza with three cheeses and roasted garlic, and seared halibut with braised fennel, ,spaghetti squash, and shellfish stew. Another gay fave, the fabulous pub-grub cnain Hamburger Mary's dishes up plenty' of attitude plus great food at its Washington branch. The - hefty ground-beef patties are legendary try the Blue Boy (topped with bleu cheese and bacon).'Finally, for an all-out magicai dining experien:ce, book a tabie at CityZen, inside Wasnington's newest iuxury hotel, the exquisite Mandarin Oriental. Inventive standouts like pantoasted squab with pumpkin, baby leeks, and cinnamon jus, and chestnut soup infused with quince and chopped ham have made CityZen and its star chef, Eric Ziebold, famous. _ Make a detour to Alexandria. Just 6 miles down the Potomac River from Washington, the historic city of Alexandria, Va., beckons with a beautifully maintained Old Town historic district and loads of enchanting shops and charming restaurants. Area highlights include Frank Lloyd Wright's Pope-Leighey House, Alexandria's Black History Museum, the Torpedo Factory Art Center, and the newly opened U.S. Patent & Trademark Office Museum, where you can learn about all kinds of inventions, from the computer mouse to the helicopter. Be sure to wander off the beaten path a bit to the up-and-coming DelRay neighborhood, where Mt. Vernon Avenue is lined with independently owned boutiques and funky cafes. Don't miss businesses like Eight Hands Round (for smart antiques and contemporary home furnishings), Eclectic Nature (for cool garden gadgets and gifts), Del Ray Dreamery (for addictive Wisconsin-style frozen custard), and Monroe's (for delicious regional American and Italian cooking). _ Cruise D.C.'s coolest gay bar. In the rapidly gentrifying Logan Circle neighborhood, Halo definitely has the slickest look of any gay bar in town. The futuristic second-floor space with a backlit bar stocked with premium liquor draws a well-dressed, eclectic crowd of men and women of all ages. Grab a seat in one of the cushy lounge chairs, listen to the mod pop tunes, and soak up the smoke-free ambience. Browse the stalls and catch breakfast at Eastern Market. Just a fow block; beyond the U.S. Capitol building you'll find the wonderfully coiorful Eastern Market, whose food hall abounds with enticing vendors selling everything from artisanal cheeses to fresh-caught Maryland seafood. You can also enjoy a fabulous down-home meal at Market Lunch, a greasy-spoon diner serving tantalizing blueberry pancakes and crab cakes Benedict. Additional draws include a Page 7 SOCIAL SECURITY from pg-5 affected by privatization. By 2030, the estimated population of LGBT seniors will range from two to eight million. LGBT elders may be especially dependent on public services for the elderly, including Social Security, because they may be without the same familv support systems as heterosexual seni~rs. "It is would be wrong to support privatization in exchange for opening a portion of Social Security to same-sex couples while overlooking the fact that marriage equality - which the Bush administration vehemently opposes would guarantee all Social Security benefits to all same-sex couples. We are unwilling to trade illusory benefits against the benefits and rights of other Americans," said National Gav and Lesbian Task Force Executive· Director Matt Foreman. Cherokee lesbians face new legal hurdle Ann Rostow, PlanetOut Network Thursday, August 11, 2005 Two Cherokee women are again under legal assault because of their marriage, just days after winning a victory before the tribe's highest court, the Judicial Appeals Tribunal in Tulsa, Okla. Dawn McKinley and Kathy Reynolds obtained a legal marriage certificate from tribal authorities last year. They married in May of 2004, but before thev had a chance to register their marriage with a lower tribal court clerk, a local attorney, Todd Hembree, stepped in with a challenge. Aided bv the National Center for Lesbian Rights, McKinley and Reynolds argued that Hembree lacked standing to contest their marriage. In .the interim, the Cherokee Nation Tribal Council voted to define marriage as a union of a man and a woman, guaranteeing that same-sex couples in the furore could not obtain a marriage certificate to begin with, let · alone register a marriage with the coui:~. Obtaining a marriage certificate in Cherokee law is the equivalent of obtaining a marriage license in the U.S. system. After a ceremony is held, marriage licenses are signed by the officiating party and filed with the appropriate state office. Last week, the Judicial Appeals Tribunal ruled that Hembree indeed lacked standing to intervene in the marriage procedures, stating that he "has failed to show that he will suffer individualized harm" as a result of the lesbian union. On Tuesday, members of the Cherokee Nation Tribal Council acted preemptively to block the couple from again trying to file their certificate, petitioning the high court to issue a declaratory judgment confirming that the law against same-sex marriage applies retroactively to the McKinley-Reynolds wedding. According to the Tahlequah Daily Press, the petition was signed by eight of the 15 council members. The members also asked the court to issue a temporary injunction preventing the lower court from accepting the women's paperwork, insisting that the Cherokee Nation will suffer irreparable harm if the documents are allowed to be submitted, and possibly accepted, by the court. · "Those of us listed on the petition believe we were in a situation where we could do one of two things," said member Audra Smoke-Conner. "We could either sit back and wait to see if the couple tried to file the certificate, and if they did, wonder whether the court clerk would accept it. Or, we could act swiftly to block the filing of the certificate." rt for Marriage Equal Rises ain Gaywire Release: New York, NY (August 5, 2005): A recent national poll, released Wednesday by the Pew Research Center, reports that support for marriage equality is at its highest point since July 2003. For the first time, a majority of Americans (53%) are in favor of legal recognition for lesbian and gay couples that would offer many of the same rights and responsibilities as non- gay married couples, while support for ending discrimination in marriage itself has "rebounded" and continues to grow. In a shift from some of the dips in the past few months, fully 35% of Americans said they support ending discrimination in marriage and allowing committed same-sex couples to marry, while only 53% oppose. "This is exactly what the right wing is afraid of," said Evan Wolfson, executive director of Freedom to Marry, the gay and non-gav partnership working to win marriage ' equality nationwide. "If we stick with the conversation and persist in engaging the non-gay public on marriage equality, the public will move to fairness." ''People have had a year of legal marriage in Massachusetts to see how ending marriage discrimination helps gay and lesbian families and hurts no one," continued Wolfson, author of Why Marriage Matters: America, Equality, and Gay People's Right to Marry, which was recently re-released in paperback by Simon &. Schuster. "The long-term trend in Atμerica's civil rights discussion, including this recent rebound of public ~upti9.,:t for marriage equality, which follows the ferment and barrage of the past several months, demonstrates the pO'~'.~t;of engaging the public and showing t.Kem the realitv of marriage equality, fail:i~r than rightwing rhetoric and scare tactics. When it comes to opening h~~s. ~d minds on fairness and reaching the middle, seeing is, in fact, believing.•,.~·~·- - According to the Pew poll, support for the freedom to marry, as well as for civil union and other steps toward marriage itself, has also increased among most religious groups, especially among white evangelical Protestants, from 26% in December 2004 to 35% today. Polling results show a continuing decline (from 35% in August 2004 to 29% today) in support for a constitutional amendment to permanently exclude lesbian and gay couples, and their families, from the rights, responsibilities, and protections of marriage. Freedom to Marry is the gay and nongay partnership working to win marriage equality nationwide. Launched in 2003, Freedom to Marry is headed by Evan Wolfson, nationally recognized as a central "architect of the marriage equality movement." Freedom to Marry guides and focuses this social justice movement on a natiomvide level, serving as a strategy and support center for national, state, and local partners, a catalyst that drives and shapes the national debate on marriage equality, and an alliance-builder fostering support from non-gay allies. Some Marriage History 1948: Perez v. Llppold - Despite public opposition, the California Supreme Court became the first state high court to declare a ban on interracial marriage unconstitutional. 1965: Griswold v. Connecticut - invalidated a Connecticut law prohibiting the use of contraception by married couples. 1967: Loving v. Virginia - U.S. Supreme Court overturned laws prohibiting interracial marriage. Polls showed 70 percent opposed. " 1971: Baker v. Nelson - (Minnesota) The · first case for ending discrimination in marriage is brought in the United States. 1993: Baehr v. 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He writes, "More and more, gay fiction is giving way to post-gay fiction: novels and stories whose authors, rather than making a character's homosexuality the fulcrum on which the plot turns, either take it for granted, look a_t it as part of something larger or ignore it altogether." He goes on to claim that gay novels and bookscores are, in fact, "obsolete." Needless to say, that didn't go over well with gay bookstore owners. They countered that LGBT bookstores are very much still needed, that while major chains like Barnes and Noble or Bord~rs may carry gay titles, they don't have the vast selection of a gay bookstore nor does their staff have the familiarity and knowledge of those books. As Kim Brinster, manager of the Oscar Wilde Bookshop in New York City wrote, "My staff and I coun: ourselves very lucky ;:o encounter people throughout the day from all over the world and our own country wno come through the store and are happy to be in a place where we read the books we seH, know where to find them, know what to recommend and take the rime to be helpfu!." Leavitt's opinion and the follow-up from Brinster sparked quite the debate on Rainbow Readership, an online LGBT book group to which I belong. Some agreed wholeheartedly with Leavitt while others argued vehemently in defense of gay bookstores. Some argue that gay culture has changed, and because of that, our books have changed as well. As gays and lesbians become more accepted and increasingly mainstreamed, our books no longer have to focus so much on being gay. For many, it's just not the issue it once was, so books about coming out or accepting your sexuality are not as needed. The new "post-gay novel" is about someone who just happens to be gay. His or her sexuality is not the central focus of the story. Whether gay or post-gay, LGBT authors are currently experiencing a level of acceptance we've never seen before. Gay romance authors and reai-life partners Scott Pomfret and Scott Whittier (better known as ~ are enjoying scads of mainstream press, getting interviews and articles in everything from the New Yor~ Times to the Boston Herald. Brem Harciogs:r, author of the bestselling Young Adult novel b and irs sequd The Oak, has enjoyed mainstream success and recognitio[! for his nm·els. Two of the five finalists for this vear's Booker Prize were gay-themed nove"is, The Master by Colm Toibin and The Line of Beauty by Alan Hollinghurst, which actually won. There's no doubt that some gay novels are generating interest and sales, and in turn, finding shelf space in mainstream bookstores. Unfortunately, these success srories are the exceptions, not the rule. For every Brent Barringer there are ten more authors whose books will probably never find their way onto a shelf at Barnes and Nob!e - no: because qf.any lack of talen~, but simpiy bec;ause they're not on B&N's radar. You can, however, find them all at your neiM\;>orhood LGBT bookstore. · , .. So what does an author like Brem Hartinger, someone who has experienced mainstream success with his books, think about tne need for gay. bookstores? "Independent booksellers discover "smaller" books, or idiosvncratic ones, or ........... continued next pai,_e - Page 19 HEART TO HEART ones with less obvious media hooks," he explained. "They are not confined by corporate business plans, which see everything in terms of the bottom line, and which, frankly, want to dumb everything down for as mass an audience as possible. Independent bookstores are the HBO and Showtime of the literary world: they're willing to take chances on far more risky offerings. "Gay bookstores do this same thing for gay books, which are almost by definition "small" books, because they target a niche audience. It's true that it's now possible to find the higher-profile gay books in some chain and non-gay independent bookstores these days, and I think that's great. But the market niche is so small that gay titles are not something the chains or online booksellers are ever going to really champion. There's just no big bucks in it. And what about the niche-within-theniche fringe gay titles? Forget 'em. The chains will almost completely ignore anything about transgender folks, or bi folks, or leather dykes, or radical fairies. "My first novel, Geography Club, had a publicity budget of zero. It broke out because gay and other independent booksellers read it, preordered it, and pushed it aggressively. As more and more people read it and wanted it, word filtered out ro the chains. But I give all the credit to the independents for getting the ball rolling in the first place. "I don't fear the closing of gay bookstores because of the loss of a safe community space, or the ending of an era. I fear the closing of gay bookstores because it might very well make gay books more generic, less diverse, and just plain worse." I can remember the first time I walked into the Lambda Rising store in Rehoboth Beach, Delaware. It was an amazingly affirming experience for a young, recently-out gay boy. To see all those books and rainbows in one place like that was almost overwhelming, but at the same time, I felt a part of something bigger. Sure, there are some people who don't "need" that experience, but there are many who do. For those who are out and have grown comfortable with who they are, or for the growing segment of kids who don't have to come out because they're already comfortable with who they are, maybe gay bookstores and books about "being gay" aren't needed. But let's not forget the many thousands of people, kids and adults alike, who are not out or who are dealing with their sexuality. There are plenty of people for whom a LGBT bookstore is still an affirming and comforting place. Not to mention those who just like shopping in a safe environment where they can ask questions and get recommendations from a knowledgeable staff. Books about "being g:i.y'' are still needed. That's not to say that I don't enjoy books about someone who just happens to be gay, but I also enjoy books about coming out. I don't think it has to· be either/ or. We still need gay bookstores for a variety of reasons, but especially to insure the continued quality and diversity of our books - whether gay or post-gay - so get out there and support your local LGBT bookstore! Buy-In ancl 25 cent draws! all your ,-quests. Doors Open at 8 PM. Page 21 ut by iz Highleyman ______ ..._ _____ ,....._ Sufnmttry;:· Past Out is a .retrospective ·. of key moments,. · and subjects"inLGBrt h~to,&: Each .. . installmen ·· ':'Mt:tt>life by exf?lori . . .. ;6f ih~gaypast and.its• impact ori:;~e'queerjn:eseht.. prosp.tuteflfec~u~6 tlfey,:ia'illdti?rge · other jol5s. l'The Tcnaerlofa was Jm:o as the place Jo go for sex, · , and late-night fun," · · schol~r Di. Susan. Stty:k~ · e others had l:lie freedo · · · · · · · · thb transgeilder 'worn· Turk Street was · Tenderloin's transge. "Turk Sa#t was o .recalled Amanda· S · · the ro! I-Iotel, .~aywar girls" wi A'.t tiie co . between tricks 'and take tcmpor11ry.s refuge from the violence they faced on the streets. "Compton's was a great place to meet," said Tamara Ching, who, like St. Jaymes, was a frequent patron. "It was our own little fairyland." · By 1966, San Francisco had a wellestablished homophile community that included the Daughters of. Bilitis, the Tavern Guild, the Society for Individual Rights, and the Council on Religion and th~ Homosexual. While these gay and lesbian organizations had had some success in .reducing police harassment of gay bars and had made inroads into the city's political establishlnent, the street que~ns and.disadvantaged queer youth were largely left out of the picture. In response, the. youth - with. the help of progressive niinisttrs fro,m Glide Memorial Methodist Cliurcb'. ~ formed i .radical guecr group called Vanguard, wliicb held. its. meetings at Compton?s. ·. In the spmig;9f 1966, new nianageineti~ at Compton's began to disco~ageth · · · ·· ~fyoung queens and hustlers,. · y and often monev - s~arid ,. t:B.cse for transgcnder rights; "There was a lot of .......... contintieil ne:trpage Page 23 joy after it happened," recalled St. Jaymes. "A lot of people went to jail, but I don't give a damn. It needed to happen." Following the alteration, Compton's began closing earlier and its business never fully recovered; it was replaced by a porn shop in 1972. But the event proved to be a turning point for the local transgender community. In the wake of the riot, the police began leaving the queens alone, and a sergeant in the department, Elliot Blackstone, helped get the laws against cross-dressing changed. A new network of social services was established, including city-funded health clinics. The city began issuing new ID cards reflecting transgender women's preferred gender, enabling them to enroll in school and get jobs. A variety of social changes came together in the late 1960s to set the stage for the Compton's Cafeteria altercation and. the later Stonewall riots, including the civil rights movement, urban renewal, the antiwar movement, and the rise of youth counterculture. At about the same time, the new availability of sex reassignment surgery in the United States and a better understanding of transsexualism pioneered by Dr. Harry Benjamin, who had an office near the Tenderloin.- gave transgender people new hope for a brighter future. "Gender itself became a form of politics," argues Stryker. The riot at Compton's was "part of the same social upheaval that gave us unisex fashions, glam rock, gay liberation, and radical feminism." For further information: Carter, David. 2004. _Stonewall: The Riots That Sparked the Gay Revolution_ (St. Martin's). Gay and Lesbian Historical Society. 1998. "MTF Transge1lcler Activism in the Tenderloin and Bevond, 1966-1973: Commentarv and I~t~ew with Elliot Blackstone!' _GLQ:'/4.),urnal of Lesbian and Gay Studi.cs_. Vol. 4, No. 2, pp. 349-372. Stryker, Susan and SiJ:vJ=ro:ian, Victor. 2005. _Screaming QuC;,fn.i;.:. The Riot at Compton's Cafeteria,.,..,(fiim). International Metropolitan Churches Denomination (MCC) Condemns Expulsion of New Orleans Church Group From Roman Catholic facility News Release: August 12,2005 New Orleans - An intern;nu Christian church group hm~ ,t, voice to the current contron : • surrounding a decision by 1.h: ,-:: 11,:u, Catholic Archdiocese of Ne,\ ( :11 kano 'u evict a predominantly-gay d,•:r from meeting at a Roman 1 , • hospice. Despite a signed rental le?""· the facilities, Metropolitan 1 Church of Greater New Ork:i::' (MCCGNO) was evicted bY _Archdiocese because the sm:d: , 1 •.1,•:1: group believes in same-sex •n,rP '::•:. The Reverend Dr. Troy D i'::r, , Moderator of Metropolitan i ,, !',·,:n;,,,. Churches, a Christian denon,1n with churches in 23 countric:, 1 i"' parent denomination of MU , : ··,i ; said, "I am saddened that dK Archdiocese is expelling the n:n t lease-holding congregation, n,:-: 'r• church building, but from ;,n \ DS hospice. They are sending a du,· to people with HIV that the Er:;,u,, Catholic Church welcomes yrn! or dying person, but not as, a loving person. We've grown church that will condescend 1;, ~•:- but not have the simple cou•·t,,: marry us." "In fact, this is the contirnv'.:•,;, pattern of hostility against ga:c• .rnd lesbians by the }\rchdiocese," ,tkkd Perry. "In 1973, in the afternu:1, ,h,.: Upstairs Fire in which 12 nwd"r'. Metropolitan Community Church·, died, the Archdiocese refused , , the doors of any Roman Cath• Church for us to hold memon.,' services." Perry was not the only !\,I( 3 ,, 11,1,·: to speak out on the controvn .\ The Reverend Jim Mituhk:, D:,,:,;t, ,r of I..caciership Development and Seminary Relations for the ,\iC' denomination, added, "Here i,; \, , another act of overt hostility :1• .1H1<c ,c!i ···········-•·····'ontinut!d page-27 Page24 _Libby Post is the founding chair of the Empire State Pride Agenda and a political commentator on public radio, on the Web, and in print media. Lesbian Notions by Libby Post SEPTEMBER 2005 Walk Like a Girl In all of my 47 years, I've never forgotten that day in sixth grade. During recess, a group of girls, whom I considered my friends, were determined to make me walk like a girl. It was 1970. I was a self-avowed tomboy. The Stonewall riots may have been already happened, but I didn't know from gay, straight, or anything in bertveen - I was 12. But it seems mv friends knew better. · They said I walked like a boy, carried my books like a bov, dressed like a bov. Thev · were trying to change who I was. Who, as it happens, I ;tiU am. It was one ~f the , most devastating events of my young life. I broke down in class after recess. Thankfully, my teacher took my fri~ds to task and not me. I can only imagine the pain of 16-year-oid Zach Stark when his parents, not his peers, were the ones telling him. he didn't walk the right way. Zach is a young gay triari who created a small tidal wave with a blog entry that said he was being sent by Mom and Dad to a "we can make you nor gay" camp run by Love in Action International. He wrote that his parents "tell me that there is something psychologically wrong with me ... I'm a big screw up to them ... who isn't on the path God wants me to be on. So I'm sitting here in tears ... and I can't help it." Love in Action's website (www.loveinaction.org) is clear about what was in store for Zach. The group's goal is to erase Zach's realit'j. Under the heading of '~Exploring the Homosexual Myth," I read the following: "There is no such creation as a 'gay' or 'homosexual' person. There is only homosexual attraction and behavior; accordingly, there can be no change for a sexual identity that never existed in the first place." Love in Action's rhetoric mirrors that of groups like Exodus, one of the first exgay organizations to tout the psychobabble of repararive therapy (the practice of trying to alter one's sexual orientation), and Focus on the Family's "Love Won Out" conferences. What these groups believ~ is that acting on same-se~ attraction is just a behavioral problem, and with reparative therapy and finding the love of Christ, all can be cured. Who are they kidding? No reputable therapist or medical pr today buys this hogwash. In fact, the American Psychiatric Association, the n Psychological Association, the American Academy of Pediatrics, and the American Medical Association have all agreed that reparariv~ therapy does not work and is harmful to the mental and physical health of lesbians and gay me.a.. But more frightening is the political traction the "ex-gay" mo:v,ement has achieved. Just as the Christian Right's antigay agenda has been absorbed as fact by the majorit\' of Republican elected officials and policy-makers, the fiction of ex-gay policies h;s · wound its way into our schools. Consider this. Maryiand's Montgomery County p:.::b!ic sci.10ols wanted to develop a health curriculum that provided pos:tivt; information for LGBT studems. Once the word got out about the new curriculum, a group calJed PFOX, Parents and Friends of Ex-Gays (how original), went to court saying the school district was "denigrating" ex~gays. Bad enough that the school district '.Vas providing its srudents with oositive information, but what got PFOX's knickers in a ~ea! tw:sc was that the stud~ms were Lesbian Notions given a list of LGBT positive re~gious groups such as Dignity, More Light Presbyterians, and Lutherans Concerned. PFOX sued to make sure churches teaching that homosexuality is wrong would be included in the curriculum. Their suit accused the school board of "an irrational phobia of the ex-gay community" and said that it "urges censorship of ex-gay materials i1:- 01:11' schools." Astoundingly, U.S. District Judge Alexander Williams agreed with PFOX. Well, I'm sure the folks at Montgomery County schools attempted to do what professional educators do. They sought out information that would help their students, information that has been supported by credible organizations with good reputations. I'll bet they didn't even know there was an ex-gay "community." And that's because there isn't one. All this ex-gay rhetoric and action is just another front for the Christian Right's constant bombardment of our right to exist, let alone gain th_e_ rights aJ?.d responsibilities of other c1t1zens. This suit is just another.example ofthe lengths to which the right will g~ to support their rhetoric that there 1s a "war on Christianity" in this country. But the realitv is this - for kids like Zach, despite his, parents' efforts, his sexual orientation is his sexual orientation. No amount of reparative therapy is going to make Zach walk a different path in life. He knows he's gay and doesn't have a problem with it. Perhaps it's his parents who need some therapy - to accept their son and love him the way he is. Quotable Quotes "Any time you get four or five really strong women doing desperate, dastardly things, I think gay men get a big kick out of it. The moment you put a woman in an evening gown mowing the lawn, it's just gay." - "Desperate Housewives" creator Marc Cherrv to AP Television News, July 16. The show received 15 Emmy nominations this year, more than any show except 'Will & Grace," which received the same number. Out of Town w~ekend farmers market, a Saturday arts and crafts fair, and a Sunday flea market. See Washington by Segway._ - In case you haven't yet laid eyes on one of these quirky yet ingenious contraptions, a Segway Human Transporter is a two-wheel, sel~- . balancing, personal transportation device that moves according to the way you move. Lean forward, it zooms ahead. Lean back sharply, and it stops. City Segway Tours offers incredibly fun fourhour sightseeing excursions through the District. These efficient little machines are remarkably easy to use, and the company's amiable staff gives everyb~dy a helpful training session prior to settm? off. Just keep in mind that passersby will find you and your group of fellow Segway-ers more interesting than most of the city's sights - be prepared to pose for plenty of pictures. When you're riding around on a Segway, you become one of Washington, D.C.'s, most offbeat attractions. The Little Black Book Alexandria Convention & Visitors Association (703-838-4200 or 800-388- 9119, www.funsideofthepotomac.com). City Segway Tours (877-SEG-TOUR, www.citysegwaytours.com). CityZen (Mandarin Oriental Washington, 1330 Maryland Ave., 202-787-6006). David Greggory RestauLounge (2030 M St. NW, 202-872-8700). Eastern Market (7th St. and North Carolina Ave., www.easternmarket.net). Halo (1435 P St. NW, 202-797-9730). Hamburger Mary's (1337 14th St. NW, 202-232- 7010). International Spy Museum (800 F St., 202-EYE-SPY-U .or 866- SPYMUSEUM, www.spymuseum.org). Jack's Boathouse (3500 K St., 202-337- -9642, www.jacksboathouse.com). Kimpton Hotels (800/KIMPTON, www.kimptonhotels.com). Washington Nationals (http:// washington.nationals.mlb.com). Sonoma (223 Pennsylvania Ave. SE, 202-333- 2912). Washington, DC Convention & Tourism Corporation (202-789-7000, www.washington.org). Zaytinya (701 9th St. NW, 202-638-0800). Page 25 Page26 Ask Uncle Mikey Advice Column! SEPTEMBER 2005 Well hello kittens-welcome back to uncle Mikey's corner. Uncle spent this week attempting to spend some much needed quality time with delicious. As you all know, he is skillful, yet remains in need of training. The drink factor Kittens, if you are .. going to be my boy, than you damn well better be able to handle a drink order, as Liz would say. His drinks leaves uncle feeling like a sour puss. Lets hope t..hat boy gets it right, or else uncle ·will be forced to vote him off the island. Dear Uncle Mikey, My best friend is a female, who is divorced and has one child. We have been friends since high school more than ten years now. We have never let anything cC>me in-between our friendship, until now. I have tried to help her since she is a single mom. She has a spoiled rotten child, who torments anybody who comes within ten feet of him. He lies, whines, and in general aggravates and brings nothing but drama. She is completely blind to his behavior. I do not know how much more I will be able to take from this monster. I am really afraid this demon child will ruin our friendship. Any thoughts? Friend of Sam. Dear fom, Kitten, I am afraid you are in a most difficult .position. If you address this issue as you have here, I am sure you will lose your friend. Uncle has learned through the years you do not mess with their young, they will eat you alive. If you seriously want to stick it out, than I would suggest genuine and compassionate communication about her spawn of Satan. You must remember the feelings and bond of motherhood. Good luck-Uncle Uncle Mikey thought of children years ago when he was with his second husband, who adored the little ankle bitters. However, I tried and tried, yet could not accessorize a little darling for my own. Alas Mr. Tiddles shall be uncles only child. Until they come out with a fashionable model of child who can mix a martini the way uncle likes it that is. Uncle Mikey, I have been with my partner now for six years. When we got together, we were like twins sharing the same interest. As time has progressed in our relationship, he has become more. feminine in character, while he continues to become more of a flamer every year. We joke about it but deep down, I wish he could cut back a little of the dramatics in his personality. How can I tell him this without hurting his feelings? Burned by the flame. Dearest Burned, Kitten, I would think about this wisely before discussing this. Your partner obviously has achieved the comfort in your relationship where he feels he is truly able to be himself. As individuals go we all age different while evolving into our own. Allow the light of his flame to light your way through your journey, remembering that he is still the man you feel in love with. Smooches-Uncle Uncle Mikey docs sex on the first date make me a slut? Curiously guilty Dearest Guilty, ............................... continued next page Page 27 Only if you do it right puddin. Sex on the second date with multiple partners, now were talking. Smooches-Uncle Mikey, I have a secret, which I feel it is time to tell. I have been sleeping with the mister at our church now for some time. He has been my youth minister for sometime now, and my feelings for him have grown. I told him I loved him and he tells me that he is guilty of misleading me, and insist we pray together to be delivered. Well, I pray but I pray that he will come to his senses and be with me, and just except that, he is gay. He always comes back for more, and I am sure he loves me, and just confused. I believe in fighting for what I want, however feel like I am wrong somehow. What would you do? The minister's boy Kitten, I have not smoked for ten years, now comes this future porn epic. Hold on I need to get this damn thing lit. Assuming all players here are old enough to be playing, uncle give you props. I think you misunderstood their line about brotherly love kitten. I can feel the shifting in the land of right wing everywhere. He is confused, you are picking men up in church and he is confused? Seriously kitten, if you love him than only you can decide if this is healthy for you. Chances are that he will never overcome his guilt, and remain in his double-minded ways, leaving you to sit in the pew of no sex. Uncle encourages to remember the old saying. If you love, someone set them free, and if they return they were yours, if not, get out while the getting is good! Kitten, I will pray and ask mother Cher to be with you. Smooches-Uncle Well Kittens, that was better than chocolate. Uncle shall take this time to wrap up yet another session of here in unclesaTM comer of Queerdom. Kittens as you go, remember this. Judge not lest you are in f.i.bulous form to do sol Smooches Uncle Mikey and Tiddles tool Unck Mileey is 1t ch1tr1tcter from Fru'4nu writer Mich1tel Hinzman. Mich.ul has hem writing/or ten years. Utilizing his stsuim, and life expmmct to hdp others in his community, through humor and sound advia. Mich1tel applied his study oj psychology and cre.tive writing, as well his o:tmsive badtground in menu! health Dirn:t e1tre to bring a new styk and 1tpproach to helping others. Michael's other works e1tn be 'Uie'llled at 'W'Wfll.gaylinkcontent.com. · MCC from page-23 affirming gay people. I doubt the Archdiocese would expel a congregation affiliated with the United Church of Christ or the Episcopal Church, qoth of which accommodate the blessing of samesex unions. It's time to stop using religion as a mask for prejudice against gay people." Mitulski, a long-time AIDS activist, added, "As a person living with HIV/ AIDS, let me say loud and clear: If the Roman Catholic Church won't honor our weddings, don't insult us by offering to conduct our funerals." Perry, who has championed ecumenical relations and who met Pope Benedict XV1 - then Cardinal Ratzingcr - at the Bilateral Dialogue held during Pope John Paul H's visit to Columbia, South Carolina in 1987, said, "This type of decision contradicts the Roman Catholic Church's own commitment. In 1987, the US Conference of Catholic Bishops published its own statement, The Many Faces of AIDS, and addressed the stigma too often associated with people with HIV/ AIDS. The statement said, "Made in God's image and likeness, every human person is of inestimable worth. All human life is sacred, and its dignity must be respected and protected." The Archbishop of New Orleans should apply these same principles of respect and protection to the congregii.tion of MCC of Greater New Orleans, which includes people living with HIV/ AIDS." "We send our love and prayers and support to the Reverend Dexter Brecht, senior pastor of Metropolitan Community Church of Greater New Orleans, and to all of the congregii.tion there," said Perry. "This action by the Roman Catholic Archdiocese is yet another reminder that the important work of Metropolitan Community Churches is not yet done," Perry said of the predominantly-gay Christian denomination. "I am challenging our brothers and sisters in other faith communities around New Orleans to receive a special offering this Sunday to help Metropolitan Community Church of Greater New Orleans iocate and move into a permanent worship space. Gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender people of faith in New Orleans need to know they have a permanent space in which to worship in openness and authenticity, and free from the prejudice and whims of homophobic bishops." --------- Page 28 Below: Mahmoud Asgari (16} and Ayaz Marhoni (18} were hanged in Eda/at {Justice) Square in the city of Mashhad, in north east Iran, on 19 July 2005. Some reports say the youths were hanged for gay sex. The Iranian government claims they were hanged for the rape of a 13 year old boy, reports Ramzi Isalam of the LGBT human rights group OutRage!. Fact: Iran executes lesbians and gays. The Iranian government has executed 4,000 homosexuals since 1979, according to estimates in the rnid-1990s by the exiled Iranian gay rights group, Human. Fact: The Iranian government often pins false charges on the victims of its murderous policies in order to discredit them and discourage public protests. "We are not prepared to give the violently homophobic Iranian government the benefit of the doubt. It has previously lied to justify public executions. In any case, the death penalty is a disproportionate punishment. It is barbaric and should be abolished," added Mr Isalam. "OutRage!s sources for this story include clandestine gay and lesbian activists inside Iran, members of the democratic and left Iranian opposition, and the websites of government-sanctioned news agencies in Iran," added Aaron Saeed of OutRage! The Islamic fundamentalist regime in Iran enforces Sharia law, which dictates the death penalty for gay sex: variously including hanging, stoning, beheading or dropping from a high place like a tall building or cliff-top. The teenagers admitted to having gay sex, probably under torture, but claimed in their defence that their crime was common and they were not aware it was punishable by death. . Prior to their execution, the teenagers were held in prison for 14 months and severelv beaten with 228 lashes. Th~ir length of detention suggests that they committed the so-called offences more than a year earlier, when Mahmoud was 15 and Ayaz was 17. In other words, both youths were minors at the time of the offence. Ruhollah Rezazadeh, the lawyer of the youngest boy (16), had appealed that he was too young to be executed and that the court should take into account his tender age. He was quoted by the IRIN news agency as saying that "the judiciary had trampled on its own laws, explaining that the Iranian courts usually commute death sentences on children to five year jail." Despite his pleas, the Supreme Court in Tehran ordered Mahmoud to be hanged. Under the Iranian penal code, girls as young as nine and boys as young as 15 can be hanged. "Three other young gay Iranians are being hunted by the police in connection with the same so-called crime. They have gone into hiding and cannot be found. If caught, they v,-ill probably also face execution," said Mr Saeed. The allegation of rape may be a trumped up charge to undtrmine public sympathy for the youths. The Iranian regime often resorts to smears and false allegations to discredit people it has executed and to undermine human rights campaigns, continued OutRage! campaign coordinator, Brett Lock It couid be that the 13 year oid was a wii!ing participant but that Iranian law (like :he laws of many western nations) deems that no person aged 13 is capable of sexual consent and that therefore even consensual sexual contact is automatically deemed in law to be stamtory rape. The use of rorture is routine in Iran .. These tw~ boys were violently abused in prison, receiving more than 200 lashes. .. .. continued next page I I l I I 1 I I 1 i Page 29 Iran execution continued: Iran is a fascist-style tyranny based on a fundamentalist version of Islam. We join with progressive Muslims to denounce the fundamentalists and to support democratic and left Iranians striving to topple the Ayatollahs. OutRagel wholeheartedly supports the struggle of the Iranian people to overthrow clerical tyranny and to secure democracy and human rights. _ Without an end to the fundamentalist regime, there can never be justice for LGBT people, women, trade unionists and minority religions and nationalities in Iran. 'The lack of liberai and left support for the victims of the Iranian tvrannv is truly shocking. We deplore the- abse~ce of international solidarity with Iranians fighting for freedom," concluded Mr Lock. ------------ Quotable Quotes ''In Spain, where 90 percent of the population is Roman Catholic, the church came out swinging against [marriage] rights for gays, using the familiar line ·that gay marriage imperils the traditional institution of marriage. This has always been a difficult argument to follow logically: Assuming that marriage is the binding of two people in a committed relationship, possibly to create a family, gay marriage adds to the institution. Even granting most religions' insistence that the two people must be of different genders, gay marriage does nothing to discourage or belittle heterosexual unions." - Los Angeles Times editorial, July 6. "I want our government, which has presided over many positive changes for gay people here in the U.K. - an equal age of consent, partnership rights, the abolition of the rightly reviled Clause 28 - to ensure that ending violations of gay people's fundamental human rights around the world becomes an explicit issue in its diplomatic relations with other countries. I strongly believe that when thousands of us refuse to look away and stay silent we make a difference to what politicians do and say." - Eiton John writing in England's The Observer, July 3. · Chula Vista Mayor Out of the Closet! "I've considered myself pretty out since about 1999 but I thought this was an occasion to put any questions to rest. . .. In my life since 1999 I've been very honest and open about who I am. And it's certainly not everything I am, but it's an important part of who I am, and certainly if Pride isn't the venue to be overtly out, I don't know what is .... It's something that I'm very comfortable with and something that I'm very matterof- fact about, and I think that's what you saw here tonight." - Chula Vista, Calif., Mayor Steve Padilla to this column after coming out at a Gay Pride. rally in San Diego, July 29. Chula Vista - a San Diego suburb with 230,000 people is now the second-largest city in America with an openly gay mayor, after San Diego itself. 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T~URUS (April 20 - May 20): Arguing with the boss can be chalked up to fragile egos. Yours is the only one you can keep in check. What would your parents say? And how would you like to respond? Get that out of the way before handling the boss. GEMINI (May 21 - June 20): Arguments are almost inevitable now. Almost. Worries about money (or self-worth?) are the underlying triggers. Make sure you're able to have someone - preferably an older sibling or a "sister' - with whom you can discuss those issues. CANCER Q'uoe 21 - July 22): Sexual issues are up for you. Remember you have nothing to prove, and buying new toys_ or fetish-wear won't help. If getting old ts part of the problem, then being mature and taking charge is the answer. LEO Q'uly 23 - August 22): We all have inner doubts and fears, and nobody's perfect. What you really hate is that imperfection is true of you, too. Be honest and open with your partner or a trusted friend. Not admitting your flaws will magnify them and make you intolerable. VIB.GO(Augi;ist 23 - September 22): Good friends can help settle your doubts and worries, but also may confirm some of them. As bad as things may be, your worries just magnify the problems. You need a reality check. LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): Being too creative at work can come across as flaky or threatening to your superiors. Keep communications open, and welcome constructive criticism from colleagues. Any entertainments or morale-boosters you devise now should be kept simple. SCORPIO (October 23 November 21): Challenged by new ideas? Retreating into traditional beliefs will not help. That's what "fundamentalism" is! Better to accept the challenge. Arguing with a teacher can help both of you to learn, but stay respectful. SAGITIARIUS (November 22 December 20): Pushing bevond vour familiar sexual limits is OK, but 'be very careful! Confused signals can get you into dangerous situations. In any new kinky activities, make sure to be clear about safewords, proper instructions, etc. CAPRICORN (December 21 - January 19): Working on new erotic techniques could open questions about person;! morality and responsibility. Your partner could goad you or be a drag; there 1MiJI be some discomfort either way. Communication, though an effort, remains the answer always. AQUARIUS Q'anuary 20 - February 18): Sweetly listen to anything your partner ( or a close friend) has to say about cleaning up your act. You don't have to agree or follow the advice, but at least consider it. It could catalyze a better approach. PISCES (February 19 - March 1g): Showing off in sports or at the gym is sure to get you hurt. Maintain a moderate level of activity. If you need to show off, focus on your artistic insights and your ability to e~ress things beyond most people's itnagiph1gs. 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Before the Riders were even allowed off the bus, a member of the Oral Roberts police force and an officer from the Tulsa Police Department entered the bus to talk with them. Summing up the school's response to the Ride and to lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) students, the Oral Roberts University officer told the Riders, "We love you all; do not come onto our campus." Speaking to media before leading the group to trespass onto campus, Equality Ride co-director Jacob Reitan said, "Colleges teach history, it is time for them to start reflecting on what history has done to the lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender community. The time for this conversation has come. We have a group of people who care enough to at least try, and Oral Roberts does not want to welcome them." ................... Continued page-16 F'REE HOME OELIVl!:RY 5 Mile Service Area 918. 734.6847 .tmail lrrol>o~~ao\.(.Om COMING SOON! Oklahoma's most read GLBT Magazine mixed and 6a,,;ed 111ild biulseed 72 Hours in San Francisco San Francisco may just be the most talked-about and dynamic gay and lesbian destination in the world. But with so much to see and do, how do you make the most of a short visit to the City by the Bay? You'll want to soak up the culture of cool neighborhoods like the Castro and the Mission. You can't leave without glimpsing the must-see attractions, such as the Golden Gate Bridge and the beautifully redesigned de Young Museum. And then there are the incredible restaurants, serving everything from fresh-harvested oysters to bountiful organic salads to decadent chocolate desserts. Here's one approach to enjoying a long weekend in San Francisco, ideal for both first-time and repeat visitors. You might begin by purchasing a San Francisco CityPass, which you can order online before you go. The pass, which costs $42 per person, provides free admission to several of the city's most prominent attractions as well as seven days of unlimited travel on the Cable Car and Muni bus and train network (a $24 value in itself) and sightseeing boat excursions on the city's Blue and Gold Fleet. Friday Night Hayes Valley, a central neighborhood that's easily reached from downtown or the Castro, has several fun, low-keyed restaurants, perfect for your first evening in town. One of the best is Cafe Delle Stelle, which serves superb, reasonably inexpensive lt~lian fare. Although you could survive on the rich Tuscan bread that comes w!th your meal, you'li want to sample the delicious homemade pastas and traditionai Italian dishes, ranging from polenta with roasted portobello mushrooms to roasted pumpkin ravioli with sage butter. From here it's a 15-minute walk to the Castro, where you can check out the dozens of lively gay bars and clubs, including such neighborhood faves as the bustling and youthful Cafe, the sleek and intimate Bar on Castro, the laid-back and friendly Pilsner Inn, and the festive Metro, which has a large balcony that's perfect for people-watching. Or if you're walking back toward downtown, you can peek inside one of the bars that still line Po!k Street, a longtime gay-nightlife hub in the '?Os and '80s that has only a few nightspots left these days. Good bets include the Cinch Saloon, a mellow neighborhood joint, and N'Touch, which is especially popular among Asian-American men and their admirers. Saturday In the morning, head to the Castro to explore this famous gay neighborhood during daylight hours. The best way to learn of the area's rich history is by taking a walking tour with Kathy Amendola, of Cruisin' the Castro Historical & Cultural Walking Tours. Amendola leads visitors past the Pink Triangle Park & Memorial, the residence of slain gay icon Harvey Milk, and the ornate and historic Castro Theatre - there's also a break for lunch at Firewood Cafe, a very good local restaurant. The tours leave at 1 0 a.m. and are also offered Tuesday through Friday. After the tour, set aside some time for shopping. The Castro has grown up over the past decade as a sophisticated retail neighborhood, with everything from high-end clothiers and boutiques (such as Diesel and Brand X Antiques) to adult gift and bookshops with saucy names like Auto Erotica and Castro Gulch. Then walk (about 30 minutes) or take Muni over to lush Golden Gate Park to visit the de Young Museum, which received a stunning makeover in 2005 and now has a distinctive copper exterior and a dramatic 145-foot observation tower that looms high above the park's leafy trees. Spectacular collections of American paintings and sculptures, African art, and textiles fill this beautiful building. Saturday Night The Mission District is a great neighborhood for dinner, with the Slow Club ranking among the top picks. Here in this dark, seductive space you might order the juicy burger slathered in balsamic-marinated onions, or a crispy-crust pizza topped with montasio cheese, oyster mushrooms, leeks. and thyme. Limon is another superb choice, serving kicky Latin fusion fare and tangy sangria. If you're up for nighttime fun, you can always head back to the Castro, but the Mission is also home to the best lesbian hangout in the city, the Lexington Club. Or If you're a serious clubber, take a cab to the trendy SoMa neighborhood, 6 Advertising in the STAR is just good business cents. Out of Town where you'll find the famed Stud disco as well as raunchy fetish and leather bars like the lovably sleazy Hole in the Wall Saloon and the rough-and-tumble Eagle Tavern, which brings in live bands many evenings. Sunday Walk or take Muni northeast along Market Street for a leisurely late breakfast or early lunch at the Ferry Building Marketplace, a gorgeous 1898 former transportation hub that was converted a few years ago into fabulous food shops and restaurants (there's also a farmers market held on the grounds on Sundays, from 10 a.m. to 2 p.m., spring through fall). Order a tender ahi burger and garlic fries at Taylor's Refresher, before devouring a few scoops of Scharffen Berger Chocolate gelato at Ciao Bella. Next, take Muni along the Embarcadero to Pier 41. This is a touristy part of the city, adjoining Fisherman's Wharf and its slew of annoyingly kitschy shops, but from Pier 41 you can use your CityPass to take a free one-hour Blue & Gold Fleet boat tour of San Francisco Bay. This is the quickest and easiest, and arguably the most interesting, way to get a sense of why San Francisco ranks among the most beautiful cities in the world. These narrated tours pass under the Golden Gate Bridge, by the tony towns of Sausalito and Tiburon, and around the infamous former prison, Alcatraz. Sunday Night Head to one of the Castro's hottest gay-date spots, Catch, which serves addictive trench fries tossed with Parmesan cheese and white-truffle oil as well as a dandy grilled monkfish with herb-mushroom risotto. But save room for a dessert of Valrhona Chocolate molten cake with toffee ice cream and almond butter across the street at 2223, which also has a fine list of after-dinner cognacs, ports, and liqueurs. This lively, handsome restaurant is also a great place for dinner. Monday Depending on the exact time of your departure, you can set aside Monday to check out a neighborhood you hadn't sufficient time to explore, such as SoMa, home to outstanding San Francisco Museum of Modern Art (SFMOMA). Or perhaps spend a little time browsing Macy's, Gump's, or any of the hundreds of fine shops around Union Square. You can break for lunch at the super-cruisy Wolfgang Puck Express Cafe in the cellar at Macy's or enjoy a more substantial meal at Town Hall, a superb contemporary American restaurant set inside a vintage SoMa warehouse, where you might sample duck-confit enchiladas with tomatillo sauce, or a poached-shrimp club sandwich with bacon and heirloom tomatoes. Where to Stay A splendidly restored 1909 Edwardian mansion straddling the Castro and Mission neighborhoods, Parker House is the Castro's most spectacular inn. Guests make considerable use of the lavish public areas and appreciate the antiques, rich fabrics, and modern conveniences (WiFi, voicemail) in the 21 sun-filled rooms. Paths wind through · extensive gardens and lawns. A more affordable Castro option is the Willows Inn, whose 12 cozy, warmly furnished rooms share four bathrooms and four separate shower rooms but have all the other charms and comforts you'd expect of a far pricier small hotel. Both properties draw a mix of lesbians and gay men. If you'd prefer to stay downtown, consider booking a room at one of the several hotels run by the gay-friendly Kimpton or Joie de Vivre hotel chains. Favorite Kimpton properties include the richly furnished Serrano Hotel, which is decorated in Moroccan and Spanish style, and the more moderately priced Hotel Triton, a hip and whimsical property that's also one of the most eco-friendly hotels in the country. Joie de Vivre has hotels in all prices ranges, from the bargain- priced Commodore Hotel, whose basic but pieasant rooms come with Aveda bath products and deco-inspired furnishings, to the ultra-chic Hotel Vitale, which opened in 2005 across from the Ferry Building Marketplace and is best-known for its nifty Panoramic Suites, with 180-degree views of San Francisco Bay. A mid-priced option that's noteworthy for its stellar Cortez restaurant and stvlish contemporary interior, Joie de Vivre's Hotel Adagio occupies a restored 16-story building just up the street from the high-end shopping of Union Square. !n this city known for its swank and sumptuous hotels, the biggest challenge you may face during a three-day visit is finding the motivation to leave your cushy guest room. The Little Black Book Baron Castro (456 Castro St., 415-626-7220). The Cafe (2367 Market St., 415-861-3846). Cafe Delle Stelle (395 Hayes St., 415-252-1110). Catch (2362 Market St., 415-431-5000). Cinch Saloon (1723 Polk St., 415-776-4162). Commodore Hotel (825 Sutter St., 415-923-6800 or 800-338-6848, www.jdvhospitality. com). Cruisin' the Castro Historical & Cultural Walking Tours (415- 550-8110, www.webcastro.com/castrotours). de Young Museum (Golden Gate Park, 415-863-3330, www.deyoungmuseum.org). Eagle Tavern (398 12th St., 415-626-0880). Ferry Building Marketplace (Embarcadero at Market St., www.ferrybuildingmarketplace. com). Hole in the Wall Saloon (289 8th St., 415-431-4695). Hotel Adagio (550 Geary St., 415-775-5000 or 800-228-8830, www. jdvhospitality.com). Hotel Triton (342 Grant St., 415-394-0500 or 800-800-1299, www.hoteitriton.comJ. Hotei Vitale (8 Mission St., 415-278-3700 or 888-890-8688, www.hotelvitale.com). Lexington Club (3464 19th St., 415-863-2052). Limon (524 Valencia St., 415-252-0918). Metro (3600 16th St., 415-703-9750). N'Touch (1548 Polk St., 415-441-8413). Parker House (520 Church St., 415-621-3222 or 888-520-7275, www.parkerguesthouse.com ). Pilsner inn (225 Church St., 415-621-7058). San Francisco CityPass (888-330-5008, www.citypass.com). San Francisco Convention and Visitors Bureau (reservation service, 888-782-9673; www. sfvisitor.org). Serrano Hotei (405 Taylor St, 866-289-6561. www. serranohoteLcom). Siow Club (250i Mariposa St., 415-241-9390). Stud (399 9th St.. 415-252-7883). Town Hall (342 Howard St, 415-908-3900). 2223 (2223 Market St., 415-431-0692). Willows Inn (710 14th St., 415-431-4770 or 800-431-0277. www.willowssf. com). Wolfgang Puck Express Cafe (Macy's Union Square. 170 O'Farrell St., 415-296-4858). the STAR, Celebrating our 3rd Year 2006. 7 8 snack r 7204 E. Pine Tulsa, OK Corndogs COLDEST BEER IN TULSA! Open 12Noon to 2am Daily. ATTN WOMEN/ ET A l>OLLAR FOR EVERY Y M N YOU BRING TO 6AYCOI N ■W IIV■NTS ADD■DI PRID -:Y 1r1t RI Swiss Holiday Resort No Surprises Staying with,,. Rodeway Inn Ozarks Family Owned! 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On to 7 PM join in their Social Hour . chips and salsa on Fridays and wine and cti~ese on Saturday. This js a great way to meet all the gti$st~L Tlieftl;ts alwa · of social activity going .· . . · .. · . .. her guests and meeting people atttlE!;beach IJ)any of their guests never leave·the property, except fo(lcinch and dinner. We alwaYt,,rn,eet such fun, interesting, wonderful and fab . . · we stay there. Many of their guests have. ·arthe Grand many times and would never think of §laYi!}g anywhere else .. When you have found the best, \liby;:look any fi}rther? • 4,. Tiley have aw sp~¢iality faci .m anicures an ·. calming, nurturing and are constantly bei techniques. J.D. G has been a licensed expertise in Swedis. ~ ,., Re-Education and Trigger . a licensed Esthetician, J. D. aiso specializes in a number of body treatments that includes body wraps, scrubs, waxing and faoials. Besides taking advantage of the Spa ourseives we have talked with dozens of people who have taken advantage of the Spa and everyone of them said that it was the finest that they have ever been to. You do not need to be a guest of the Resort to make an appointment at the Spa. When you get hungry, there is only one place in town that we highly recommend and that is the HI-LIFE CAFE. Chef Carlos Fernandez and Host Chuck Smith have created this fabulous restaurant that features a truly great dining experience in a unique atmosphere. Located at 3000 North Federal Highway, they serve dinner nightly, Tuesday thru Sunday and are closed on Monday. They recently celebrated their 10th Anniversary for their restaurant and they have a huge loyal following who KNOW that they are the best restaurant in the city. Check out their website at: www.hilifecafe.com. Chuck and Carlos are two of the nicest and most sincere men that you would ever want to meet. Their entree selections are Salmon, Crab cakes, Chicken, Pork Osso Bucco, Duck, Steaks and they always have wonderful specials of the day. They also have a Pre- · Theatre Price Fixe Menu. (Photo right ''The Beautiful Grand Resort. 'JTheir dessert offerings are tremendous but we prefer their Southern Derby Pecan Pie which is to die for! Visitors to Ft. Lauderdale have been coming here for that past 10 years. Be sure to call ahead to make reservations. Their phone number is: 954-563-1395. We GUARANTEE that you will love this restaurant! We GUARANTEE IT! No Ft. Lauderdale is complete there. trip to unless you dine Okay, so your accommodations and dining experiences are taken care of in Ft. Lauderdale, now it's time to either head for the beach and lay in the sun or to the bars to party. From the GRAND RESORT just walk two very short blocks and you are right at the beach. Walk about another 4 blocks South and you will be at Sebastian Beach which is the Gay Beach where you will encounter hundreds of other gay men in ali shapes, sizes, ages and ? What a way to spend your morning or afternoon! Downtown Ft. Lauderdale is iust a few blocks away from the Grand and they have lovely· and interesting shops to visit there. Lots of touristy things abound in Ft. Lauderdale. Just pick up some of the many packets, magazines and brochures at the front desk of your resort. Always read a copy of the local newspaper in the Club Room at the Grand to see the many entertainment and cultural activities going on. So now you ready to go to the bars and party. There are dozens of gay bars in Ft Lauderdale. Way too many to talk about in one column so we will basically just tell you what kind of bars there are. Into Leather? Well, they have a couple of leather bars that you need to check out: Ramrod's and the Jackhammer. They have great piano bars including the Tropics and Dudes. Our very favorite piano entertainers in Ft. Lauderdale are Tony and Gloria who are a piano/guitar duo. They entertain at both the Tropics and Dudes bars. And be sure and pick up a copy of their latest CD. There are plenty of strip bars if you are into that. Lots of neighborhood bars and plenty of dance/disco bars are found there. HOT SPOTS magazine has been publishing their fine magazine weekly in Ft. Lauderdale for years and it is a MUST to read to find out where all the gay bars are located and what their schedules are. Before you go to Ft. Lauderdale check out Hot Spots at: www.hotspotsmagazine. com . And be sure to read Rich's Corner which is in each and every issue of HOT SPOTS. Rich is a great writer and keeps up on what is happening. Our very favorite entertainer in Ft. Lauderdale is AUNTIE MAME who is the best of the best. Such a dear person. She. is OUTRAGEOUS! which is the way that drag queens should be! Fun, funny and always a very caring person is what Mame is. You can check her out at: www.auntiemame.biz So, next time your bored and wanting to go someplace, why not call the Grand Resort and Spa in Ft. Lauderdale and book a few days with them. We promise you that you will have fun, Fun and more FUN! That is the ONLY place to stay in Ft. Lauderdale and don't forget to dine at the HiLife! Chuck and Carlos are the best. Quotable Quotes "For me, 'Brokeback' isn't rebellious at a/i. It's a ve,y ordinary movie. Peopie call it groundbreaking or what not. It puts a lot of pressure on me. But I didn't feel this way when I was making the movie. This is the way gays are. It's just that they have been distorted. When two people are in love and are scared, that's the way they are." ............... . Oscar winning director- Ang Lee the STAR 11 ly pie Diving Champion reg Louganis Co-Host "100 Champions" ay ames Benefit at Soldier Field Olympic Gold Medalist becomes International Gay Games Ambassador Chicago, IL - Olympic diving champion Greg Louganis will serve as co-host of "A Night of 100 Champions," a gala to benefit the Chicago 2006 Gay Games. Scheduled for Saturday, 22 April 2006, the event will honor top U.S and international sports legends and top artists at the Cadillac Club at Soldier Field. Louganis also will join the "Gay Games Ambassadors," an international group of prominent individuals supporting the goals and principles of the quadrennial Gay Games. Ambassadors include Elton John, Melissa Etheridge, Billy Bean, Billie Jean King and many other notable celebrities. Greg Louganis will travel to Chicago to co-host "A Night of 100 Champions," the first of two events at Soldier Field's Cadillac Club the weekend of 22-23 April 2006. More than 100 individuals and organizations will be honored for achievement in sports, culture and support of the GLBT community. The event will include a silent auction, awards presentation, VIP cocktail reception, celebrity concert, and dancing on multiple stages. The next morning, Sunday, 23 April, the Cadillac Club will again be the site of "Breakfast with Champions." A brunch buffet with entertainment will be followed by an intimate Meet the Champions Panel Discussion hosted by a surprise guest celebrity with the opportunity for questions from the audience and autograph signing, Tickets are $75 for "A Night of 100 Champions," $65 for "Breakfast with Champions" or $125 for both events. Patron Tables of Thn are available at $1,500, $2,500 and $5,000 levels, each offering a VIP Reception, preferred seating and benefits according to donation levels. Sponsorship levels starting at $10,000 provide upgrades to premiere seating. distinctive recognition opportunities, and specially crafted sponsorship packages. Ticket and sponsorship information jS available at v1ww. GayGamesChicago. org About Greg Louganis Greg Louganis is more than just an Olympic Champion -- he stands out as an exceptional human being who has led an extraordinary life. Greg's introduction to the world of diving was at the age of ten, when he first began competing. By age 16 he had won his first Olympic medal, a silver, on the platform in the 1976 Olympics. In 1984, at age 24, he became the first man ln 56 years to win two Olympic gold medals in diving by winning both the platform and springboard events. In 1986, Greg · won both the platform and springboard events at the Championships. Two years later at the 1988 Olympics, competing against divers half his age, and despite a near disastrous injury during a dive, he became the first man to win double gold medals for diving in two consecutive Olympics. Louganis' connection to the Gay Games is a special one. He used the occa.sion of the 1994 Gay Games in New York to first publicly acknowledge his sexuality and his status as HIV itive. More recently he served as the narrator of the y Games documentary, "Take the Flame," by filmmaker David Secter (2005). "We continue to be amazed at the life of this extraordinary man," said Kathleen Webster, co-president of the international Federation of Gay Games. "He has been a staunch supporter of the Gay Games for more than a decade and we are grateful for his continued support as the Gay Games returns to U S. for the first time in 12 years.·· 12 the STAR Oi<lahoma's Premier GLBT Magazine. IS DEMOCRAT KATHY TAYLOR THE CANDIDATE OF CHOICE FOR TULSA'S GLBT COMMUNITY? YOU DECIDE. From the STAR Editor: Kathy Taylor for Tulsa Mayor website ask this question for Tulsa voters. "How can I make your life better?" The STAR's answer was. Bring equal rights to all people in Tulsa including the GLBT community. And we posed this question. Question: Are you seeking the Gay/Lesbian vote in Tulsa? The following is the response we received from her staff. 'Thank you for your message. Kathy Taylor believes in diversity and in equal rights -- she has built a 25-year career on those values. She doesn't ask her employees about their personal lives, their political affiliation, their religion ... You get the idea. Kathy Taylor hires people based on their ability to do a job and she treats everyone with the respect and dignity they deserve. She will be the same woman if elected Tulsa's mayor. I hope you'll help make that happen by voting for Kathy Taylor for Mayor on April 4." Lesbian crowned college King. FREDERICK, MD. -- Hood College is reviewing its homecoming rules after a lesbian was crowned king, a college official said. Jennifer Jones, the 21-year-old senior who beat out three men for the ciOwn, said it was a positive step for the private liberal arts college. "It is cool that Hood allows people to be themseives," Jones said. "If people didn't want me to be king, they wouldn't have nominated me and voted for me:· More than two weeks after Jones was crowned, criticism and praise were still rippling through the 2, 100-student campus in western Maryland. Santo Provenzano, 21, who competed for king, said Jones· selection made the event seem like a joke. "It discourages guys from wanting to take part in the future," Tulsa r. Leather 2006 nd The inner Is! Photo left: winner "Tulsa Mr. Leather 2006" James Hollingswood. Right: Jay Whiteside, 1st Runner Up. by Greg Steele TULSA, OK_ Tulsa Mr. Leather contest climaxed on Saturday March 18th at Club Maverick with James Hollingswood coming out on top. James will now advance to the Oklahoma Mr. Leather contest to be held in October. The Okla- · homa Mr. Leather organization is franchise of "International Mr. Leather" headquartered in Chicago. Title holders must be present at as many community functions as possible and must represent "Leather" in a positive manner throughout the community. They must promote unity, camaraderie, brother/sister hood. Winners must also actively participate in at least 3 charity benefits during the next 12 months. The group heid a meet and greet party on Friday March 17th and ended their weekend event with a Sunday brunch at the Metro Diner, Tulsa. The STAR since 2003 13 14 I L Fl E - ' Oklahoma City ur 5th Anniversary 3 Days of Quality Workshops, Vendors, Great Plains Olympus Contests, Cigar Smoker, Saints and Sinners Costume Contest, Many Free Prizes, Play Parties, other Social Activities, N LA-I AGM and as always, a surprise or two! Only $125 if registered by April 21 ! Group Discounts for 6 or more! Vendor Market is FREE and Open to the Public www.TribalFire KC.com the STAR, It's your community, we deliver it. ''A hysterical GLBT comedy troupe born from members of Chicago's famous "SEC D CITY". They are determined to raise our spirits and make the Ozarks hills shake with laughter with a show GLBTs and their straight friends & families can enjoy together!" EUREKA SPRINGS, AR._Diversity Pride Events is proud to present GAY-CO as part of our commitment to produce quality events for GLBTs (gays, lesbians, bisexuals a der) and their Allies. This comedy show will e Spring Diversity Weekend in Eureka Springs, Arkansas, April 7-9. On Saturday April 8, there will be two performances of GAY-CO at a 2pm Matinee and at 7:30pm at the historic Auditorium. GayCo Productions is a notfor- profit theatre ensemble that specializes in creating sketch-comedy revues based on gay/lesbian themes. An award winning ensemble that was established in 1996 as The "Second City's" first lesbigay and straight outreach program. Ed Garza, former Administrative Director of The "Second City'' Train- Ing Center, brought together nine performfrom the training center was to be c!n experimental workshop. Irreverent spirit is just one reason why Rob Chambers, executive director of The Second City Training Center, counts himself a fan. "Given the current political and social climate, I can't wait to see what they come up with ... 11 he says of the company that can put its comedy chops next to those of more esta names. GayCo is no less funny than, say, the cast on the Second City main stage. They've amassed an ever-growing fan base since their debut in 1996. HI think they really touched on something that was needed," Chambers says. Additional events during Diversity Weekend include a 'GOLDEN OLDIES' Dance & Socia! featuring dance hits from the 1940's to present day, an 'OVER 16' Diversity Dance, sponsored by Eureka Kid and another local charity, and a DIVERSITY BIKERS 'Show 'n Shine'. A WELCOME MIXER, co-sponsored by Diversity Pride Events and Eureka Pride, with a Raffle to benefit the Food Bank, will be held Friday night from 7pm - 9pm. And other local businesses will be nouncing many events. See Eureka Pride. ureka Springs, sas prides on it's diverpecially on ity Weeks, GLBTand LAG visitors me from all the world to ittle village e heart of. activither attractions, ants geared toward i Along with 0thvents invites you to visit Eureka year rou on FALL, SPRING, SUMMER & VALENTIN WEEKENDS for concerts, dances & other Pride Events. D.P.E. is committed to producing and supporting quality events for GLBTs (Gays, Lesbians, Bisexuals, Transgender) and Parents, Friends, Families of Lesbians & Gays (PFLAGs) ... of ALL ages to enjoy together! "Our mission is to create intelligent and thought-provoking sketch comedy based on Gay and Lesbian themes that will entertain, educate and/or enlighten our audience." For more information go to: www.diversitypride.com or www.gayco.net The STAR since 2003 The Riders stood off campus hoping that the university administration would have a change of heart: but when the time came to attempt to have a conversation, their hopes were met . with handcuffs. While the arrests were taking place, fellow Riders waited across the street holding portraits of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people who committed suicide or were killed because of religious messages that portrayed them as sick and sinful. In all, eight individuals were arrested when they attempted to gain entrance to the campus -- 6 Equality Riders and 2 community members. Moving across police lines toward the school's massive sculpture of praying hands, they carried Bibles and quoted scripture passages that reflected why they felt called to talk with students at Oral Roberts about ending the school's policy of religion-based discrimination against LGBT people. Speaking about why she felt motivated to be arrested, Jessie Sullivan said, "I had seriously considered going to Oral Roberts for college; but when I came to campus to visit I did not feel welcome. It was that unease that made me feel as if I should make a statement about why colleges should be welcoming to everyone, because we are all one in Christ. God loves 1:1s wholly for who we are." Several Orai Roberts students have contacted Riders by email and phone to try to set up meetings and dialogue off campus. 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You can pretty much pinpoint the exact day: December 14, 1999, when the Supreme Court ruled 5 to 4 in favor of Bush and stopped the Florida recount. It was all downhill from there. When Bush became president, the Fundamentalist Christian Right took power. Bigotry and discrimination went from being negative qualities to presidential policy. As Episcopal priest and former Republican Senator John C. Danforth said in a 2005 editorial for The New York Times, "Republicans have transformed our [the Republican] party into the political arm of conservative Christians." Danforth went on to say, 'The problem is not with people or churches that are politically active. It is with a party that has gone so far in adopting a sectarian agenda that it has become the political extension of a religious movement." In other words, the United States is fast becoming a theocracy. The danger with fundamentalism, whether we're talking about Christians or Mus!ims, is that they aren't content to simply believe a cer'tain way; they feel they have to force their beliefs on everyone else as well. You must believe the way they do or eise. That would be bad enough if they simply ranted and raved and protested at funerals, but when they start controlling politics to the point that they are legislating their personal beliefs, the reai trouble begins. Need examples? Look no farther than the Federal Marriage Amendment, or any one of the myriad states following suit. As of February 16, 2006, thirteen states had constitutional amendments pending that would limit or prohibit same-sex marriage and/or other forms of reiationship recognition. Six other states had approved such amendments and were awaiting ratification by voters. My own home state of Maryland is one of those with antigay legislation pending. Last month, state Democrats outmaneuvered Republicans in the House to kill a proposed amendment that would have banned same-sex marriage and civil unions in the state. A few weeks later, the Republicans bounced back with another version that would permit civil unions while prohibiting marriage. This week, during testimony advising the proposed amendment be dropped, Republican Senator Nancy Jacobs interrupted American University constitutional law professor James Raskin to assert, "As I read Biblical principles, marriage was intended, ordained and started by God - that is my belief. For me, this is an issue solely based on religious principals." Well golly gee, Ms. Jacobs, ever hear of something called separation of church and state? I don't really give a rat's ass what your religious beliefs are. You were elected to uphold the Constitution, not your interpretation of the Bible. This is the part that always gets me. Why should your religion be more valid than say Judaism? Or for that matter, why should your version of Christianity be more valid than any other? After all, not all Christians are opposed to gay rights. If legislating based on personal beliefs is okay, then what if a Jehovah's Witness was elected? They don't believe in celebrating birthdays or exchanging gifts at Christmas. Imagine the national outcry if they introduced legislation outlawing birthday parties and Christmas piesents. The Fundies would be right at the forefront, once again raising their ridiculous "War on Christmas" banners. My point is, while it's unreasonable to expect that an elected official's personal faith will have no influence on their decision making process, it should never come before Constitutional law. Moral codes are variable and, despite what Conservatives would like to believe, no one belief system has a lock on the Truth. There is no basis under civil law that can legitimately be used to outlaw same-sex marriage. Historical precedent wasn't good enough for woman's rights, black rights, or interracial marriage, and it's not good enough for gay rights, either. The only argument they have is based on religion, and the fact is that's not valid. Fundamentalism is like a cancer. It's eating away at the United States, and, just like cancer, we can't afford to ignore it. It's not going to simply go away. We have to cut it out in order to start healing. Yes, damage has been done, but none of it is irieparable. It's not too late, but we have to wake up and start fighting back. We have to get the slaves to the Fundies out of office. !t won't be easy, especially in the South. They've been slowly entrenching themselves there for decades now. The Conservative Christian movement controls many Senators and (~ontinued ncxr page 18 the STAR, Oklahoma's Premier GLBT Magazine. HEART TO HEART Representatives, contributing millions to their campaigns. They are well-organized in getting the votes, using the pulpit to spread their propaganda. It's high time we organized against them, and it's finally starting to happen. Many states have formed strong LGBT political lobbyist groups in the last few years. These groups are at long last getting the LGBT community and our allies together. If you're not already involved in one of these groups, or at the very .least on their mailing list, what are you waiting for? 'Tm not political" is no longer an acceptable excuse. This is about more than politics. The cancer is spreading and if we don't do something soon, it will be too late. Now that many states have won their war against gay marriage, the Fundies are encouraged. They're moving on to bigger and better things. Their newest issue is gay adoption and, currently, there are 16 states addressing differing levels of restriction. First marriage, then adoption. It doesn't take much imagination to see where this is leading. We can put a stop to it, however, by electing fair-minded men and women as our senators, representatives, governors, mayors, and, yes, president. 2006 is a midterm election year. It could very well set the tone for the next presidential election. Be sure to know your candidates, get involved, and most importantly, get out there and vote! It's the only way to stop the cancer of Fundamentalism. health outreach prevention education, Inc. 1-800-535-AI DS (2437) Oklahoma's HIV/STD Hotline PRO PROTECT YOUR PARTl\l~R(S) * Free nonjudgmental HIV testing, inoiudirig ffie '20 minute OraQuick Test. * Free Syphillis screening at the GLBT Comrrlunlty Center on Tuesdays from 6-Bpm H.O.P.E. Testing Clinic Mens 01Jtreach Progra,n In Tulsa at(918) 812-7045 Want the STAR delivered to your home or business? 12 issues for $26.95 will be mailed in a sealed envelope the 1st of each month. Complete the form below and send with a check or moneyorder to: Ozarks STAR 5103 S. 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When San Fran's mayor, Gavin Newsom, decided it was only fair for lesbians and gay to marry, Leah and Teresa walked through the doors of City Hall and took their vows on March 1, 2004. · "Getting married was a huge difference," said Leah. "All of a sudden my parents acknowledged that, 'Oh, you're gonna be together forever.'" Leah and Teresa's marital bliss did not last that long, but they didn't break up. By the end of the month, the California Supreme Court enjoined Newsom from granting any more marriage licenses to same-sex couples, and nullified the 4,000 or so same-sex marriages that took place while those licenses were being granted. Instead of being legally married, Leah and Teresa only have their domestic partner registration to prove the validity of their relationship. Not to be taken lightly, having domestic partner laws are better than not having them, but just imagine how hurtful it must have been for Leah, Teresa, and the thousands of other couples who one day celebrated the love they always knew to be true and the next day were told, "Sorry, you really don't count." According to a new ~dy entitled "I Do, But I Can't: The Impact of Marriage Denial on the Mental Health and Sexual Citizenship of Lesbians and Gay Men in the United States," being denied marriage rights has had a tremendous negative impact on our mental heaith and well-being. Whiie we have creatively taken the "defining our own family structure'' situation firmly in hand, the study found that our inability to marry creates "the mental distress of second-class citizenship." The "I Do, But I Can't" study is co-authored by Gilbert Herdt, Ph.D., an anthropologist and director of the National Sexuality Resource Center at San Francisco State University, and Robert Kertzner, M.D., a practicing psychiatrist who is also an adjunct associate research scientist in Coiumbia University's Department of Psychiatry. When it comes time for the Christian Right to try to discredit the study, the authors' academic pedigrees should give the findings some insulation. So what did Herdt and Kertzner find? When comparing married straights to unmarried straights, they found that married individuals have better mental health, more emotional support, less psychological distress, and lower rates of psychiatric disorder than unmarried folks. They found that hetero social networks support marriage. A case study in rural Oregon showed how married hets can comfortably rely on their churches, local schools, and neighborhood visibility to secure or enhance jobs, form political alliances. and access social support such as childcare. A same-sex couple iesiding in the same town was shut out of these opportunities because ... they weren't a straight, married couple. When looking solely at gay and lesbian couples, the study found, among many things, that the lack of legally recognized marriage may cause couples not to value their relationships as legitimate expressions of commitment and "intimate sexual citizenship." Not being able to marry also deprives many of us of social and family support. According to Herdt and Kertzner, having this type of support counteracts stress and social isolation. Remember, Leah's parents didn't consider her relationship with Teresa as real until they got married. While Leah and Teresa's legal marriage may be null and void, they haven't fallen victim to devaluing their relationship. Yet, they do struggle every day with having to prove to the world that they are in a committed, loving relationship. Leah became pregnant with Caden after their marriage was voided. When it came time to make sure their son's birth certificate listed both of them. Leah pre-packed their domestic partner certificate so she had it when her delivery time came. "It's usually not the first thing you think of when you go into labor," she said. When it actually came time to fill out the certificate, the state hadn't kept up with its own legislative changes, and the birth certificate still said mom and dad. "There was no appropriate form to recognize a domestic partner on a birth certificate." said Teresa. Leah was surprised that they had to cmss out "mother and father" and put down "parent 1 and parent 2." But, in order to guarantee that Teresa is iegally Caden's parent, they are going through the second-parent adoption process. Teresa pointed out that if a married couple had to go to a sperm bank in order to conceive, the husband wouldn't have to go through this process, even though he is not genetically related to the child. "It's a little hard to swaliow that we have to go through a different process that's more invasive and more expensive," said Teresa. "It's painful to have to adopt your own child." But the pain is even deeper. "It's always, 'Is your relationship enough?' 'Can you prove it enough?"' 20 The Ozarks STAR since 2003 ast Out by Liz Highleyman APRIL 2006 Summary : Past Out is a retrospective of key moments, personalities, and subjects in LGBT history. Each installment brings the past to life by exploring the diversity of the gay past and its impact on the queer present. Who Was John Preston? Author John Preston is perhaps best known for creating the archetypal leatherman, Mr. Benson, but he was also a pioneering gay rights activist. Born Dec. 11, 1945, Preston grew up in Medfield, Mass. He discovered the gay community as a teenager, escaping as often as possible to Harvard Square in Boston to purchase physique magazines, and visiting the gay resort of Provincetown. After graduating from high school in 1963, Preston moved to Chicago to attend Lake Forest College. He became involved in civil rights activism, traveling to Alabama as a freedom rider and tutoring students in Chicago's slums. Having moved to Boston in 1969 in search of a gay community, Preston chose to "come out with a vengeance" after an early lover committed suicide. After this, Preston moved to Minneapolis, where he co-founded Gay House ( one of the first gay community centers) and Gay Community Services. He was also a progressive Christian activist, serving as a member of the National Council of Churches' Task Force on Gay People in the Church; though he aspired to become an Episcopal priest, he abandoned the idea due to what he saw as the '<hurch's hypocrisy concerning homosexuality. · In the mid-1970s, Preston moved to Los Angeles, where he was hired as editor of the national gay publication, The Advocate_, a position he held for about a year. in a quest to become "the ultimate gay man," he then worked as a hustler in San Francisco before moving to New York City in 1978, where he immersed himself in the S/M underworld. He later recalled that his first bondage scene was with a New Jersey state trooper who tied him to a tree in a deserted nature preserve. In his East Viliage basement apartment, Preston wrote his best-known work, a short story featuring the imperious master Aristotle Benson and his slave Jamie. He submitted the story to _Drummer_ magazine, and soon received a call from the publisher asking if he could turn it into a serialized novel. "Mr. Benson" first appeared in the May 1979 issue, and before long fans were eagerly awaiting each new installment. To the surprise of many, Preston left New York's bustling gay scene a year later, donning oxford-cloth shirts and loafers and settling into small-town life in Portland, Maine, where he could often be found walking his dog, Vlad the Impaler. He had moved to Portland with his lover and slave, Jason Klein, but Klein soon returned to San Francisco: he died not long after as a result of an autoerotic asphyxiation accident. Due to the success of his Mr. Benson stories (published as a book in 1983), Preston himself was cast into the role of the archetypal Topman. But he eventually grew apart from the leather scene, which he felt had been "overtaken by sightseers." He later acknowledged that in writing about that world, he helped popularize it. "Once the gates were open, the mystique began to erode," he wrote. "Leathersex has gone the way of all politics, it's lost its edge." In 1987, Preston, who had become a safer sex educator, learned that he himself was HIV-positive. Dismaye_d at the diagnosis, he could barely write for more than a year, but then went on to edit _Personal Dispatches: Writers Confront AIDS_ (1989). "I certainly found my own imagination rightly constricted by the idea of a deadly virus that was spread by sexual intercourse," he wrote. Preston brought sex writing into the realm of serious gay literature, always resisting pressure to recast his pornography as "erotica": 'The only difference is that erotica is the stuff bought by rich people; pornography is what the rest of us buy," he said. But while much of Preston's work was devoted to sex, he wrote widely in other genres, including a 1984 novel, _Franny, the Queen of Provincetown_, a series of adventure tales featuring gay undercover ex-Marine Alex Kane, and a syndicated column about gay life in Maine. He also edited numerous anthologies, including _Hometowns: Gay Men Write About Where They Belong_ (1991) and _ Sister and Brother: Lesbians and Gay Men Write about Their Lives Together_ (1994, with Joan Nestle). He regularly attended the annual OutWrite conference, was an active member of the National Writers Union, and mentored younger writers. His 1984 collection, I Once Had a Master and Other Tales of Erotic Love_, was among the works confiscated at the border by Canadian customs; he supported the iawsuit of Vancouver's Little Sisters Book and Art Emporium, but died before he could testify at the 1994 Canadian Supreme Court trial. Though quite i!I from complications of AIDS, Preston continued working on his final two anthologies from his hospital bed. He died at his home in Portland on April 28. 1994. A decade after his death, Preston's impact on the leather world endures - in the words of columnist Jack Rinella, "He gave it existence in the minds of thousands of readers, gave image to the dreams we all thought and to the men for whom we searched. 22 Oklahoma's most read GLBT Magazine What puzzles me about this whole thin with Fred Phelps in a, Kansas by DOUGLAS GLENN I get really get disgusted when I read or see in the news about the idiot, Fred Phelps in Topeka who does all of these bizarre things that he does in the name of "Christianity". He has been around for a long time and has caused so much havoc in the world and especially in Topeka, Kansas where he lives. We all need to know who our enemies are and he is indeed one of the worst. Even thou his website is total garbage you need to go to it once in a while just to see what kind of hate he is spewing: www.godhatesfags.com. After reading all the crap that he is putting out, then go to www.godhatesfredphelps.com to get another version of exactly what he is doing. The one thing that really irks me is that when he used to picket gay funerals the local and State governments just stood by and watched and wouldn't do anything about it. Only when he began to picket the funerals of American soldiers coming back from the war in Iraq did the local and State governments finally step in and hurriedly enacted laws keeping him at a great distance at funerals. It's great that they finally enacted this law but why didn't they do it before now? We have made a LOT of progress in these past few years and I do mean a LOT! But we need to continue the progress each and every day. In many parts of the country, being "gay" is just a part of life. Even in many cities here in the Midwest gays lives in the suburbs and have no problems with being gay at all: The teaching profession which used to be a no-no for gays now has an open door policy for "out'' gay teachers and they do not encounter any problems. Seems as thou it is just in the major cities in the Midwest that things are really changing and fast for gay equality. Just like being black or Jew, almost any minority still faces problems all the time. Will this ever change? I would certainly like to think so but am afraid that we are still a long way off. Sure gays can "pass" whereas blacks cannot. Jews used to change their last names to "pass" and it worked. But who wants to "pass" anymore? I certainly don't! I am a single gay white male and proud of who I am. I honestly believe that if there is a God, that God made me the way that I am. Why shouldn't I be proud of who I am? Is the cup half empty or half full? Each individual must make that decision for themselves. I have taiked with many older gay men in the community and they are amazed how open it is to be gay now. Their dreams of long ago has arrived and they are proud of what they did to encourage it. I just hope that in the next few years that it will be completely different than it is now. But we do have a lot of straight allies in our community who along with us are fighting for our rights. Always piaise them for what they are doing. We need them and they are so nice to help us. The STAR since 2003 23 Rs Salutations and welcome once more to sluts "R" us, err something like that. This month Cncle Mikey recovers from a love affair of epic proportions. I mean whew, that man was just too much. It was like being at rhe DQ and trying to take that extra dip, knowing your body. just won't handle it. I mean; it just was not right. While appealing, some mountains just are not meant to be climbed. Sadly, I had ro cur that stallion loose, sending him back into the wild. I hope he does not do any damage; talk about putting your eye out. I bet the censors are just on the edge of their seats. I guess, I do sound a little like a prom date gone bad. That man of substantial lovin' made more of an impression than I realized. Kittens, I tried, really I did. You just can't get a twelve in a size ten; I don't care how you work ir. Dear Uncle Mikey, At the college I attend, I have met, well kind of mer, this man. He is in some of my classes and all I can say is he is fine. He makes me perk up every time I see him. I have seen him with several females, assuming that he is straight. To teil you the truth that just makes the attraction stronger. I want him only for a short rime. These are my college years, I'm supposed to experiment. So, should I just get him drunk so ne can eqjoy my tale!.'lts? I realiy want this guy, so bad I have been ignoring the' guys who would giadly enjoy my company. What should I do? Frat-boy-lecious Dear Kitten, A.K.A. butter, you kaow what you want, and I would even say, you have already greased the Kegger nozzles, awaiting your frat boy knight. Uncle cautions howeYt:r, as though some straight wayward boys may let pu play~ some may not. Ob' who are .,,·e kidding, order rum a pizza and seal the deal. A straigh: colJege boy is like a walking drive through; you can have it your \Vay, if there is a good supply of beer and pizza. That's Amour' Smooches-Michac Uncle Mikey, I think my boyfriend of ten years has been seeing someone on the side. I have no real proof per say, just a nagging feeling in my gut. Sex has become strained, and I figured it was just because we had become so routine in our ways. I now see him acting like he is getting ready for a hook up though he tells me, working late, going on errands, ect. I do not want to be one of those jealous types, questioning every move. I also do not want to be living with someone else who is living with everybody. Know what I mean? What would you do? Suspecting in Ohio Dearest Suspecting, Kitten, I tell this repeatedly. If they are not getting ir at home, they are getting it somewhere. Via, liaison, hand-to-hand combat, somewhere, a man is a man after all. Secondly, if you feel something is amiss than more likely than not, there is. I would sit your man down and confront him with you feelings, prepared to hear whatever it is awaiting for you. Communication can be taken for granted after being with someone for a while, though never does the importance change in any relationship. He may be wondering why you rwo are not doing the bunny mambo across the front lawn anymore. Take ir a step at a time, as anything and anyone worth having is worth working for. Smooches-'Mikey Dear :Mikey, Where did your site go? I really enjoyed it and miss going there every week. A fan of Mikey's Kitten, You have touched me; moreover, I am willing to touch back. Kitten, The world is not ready for an entire corner of Mikey, lets break them in slowly shall we? Smooches- :Mikey Dear Uncle Mikey, My friends all give me a hard time telling me that I am stuck in the eighties. While, this is a joke to some, it is a way of life for me. I belong to that rime, style, and music. It was a rime that meant something more than found in the hallow music and style of today. Bring back the eighties'. Mrs. Garret's boy Dearest Kitten, Gimme-a-break! A virgin you are not, while time has turned and the beat goes on. You must accept the, facts of life, if you really want to enjoy tne good-times. This is a serious condition even if spoken through ca::eless whispers. Hanging on to the past can only prevent you from seeing the new and exciting rimes of today. You may be missing opportunity if you are looking behind yot.:. If you want to :1ear anyone say, I want your sex, ~han you must nip it in ci1e bud ;o to speak. Like a prayer, I send you good thoughts. Let go and let Cheri ... Smooches-Mikey Get with it, don't you wish your Guri was Hot like me? Yes, Kittens, Uncle Mikey is time:ess, whi!s~ my flame shall lead yet another generations of young queers evernvhere. \'{'ell Kittens, I guess that is all the time for this month. Until next, time. Smooches-l'ncle Mikey 26 The STAR since 2003 Easter Blackberry Wine Cake 1 White cake mix 1 pkg (3oz) Royal Blackberry gelatin. 4 Eggs. 1 cooking oil. 1 lackberry wine (use real blackberry wrne, not blackberry flavored.) 1/2 cup chopped pecans. Preheat oven to 325 degrees. Combine dry cake mix an latin, add eggs, oil and wine. Beat mixer on low speed until moistened, then beat on Medium speed 3 minutes, scraping bowl frequently. Grease and heavily flour a Sundt cake pan. Sprinkle pecan pieces in bottom of pan. Pour in batter and bake 45 to 50 minutes. Make aze while cake is baking. When cake is done, take from oven and pour f glaze over warm cake while still in pan. Let cool 30 minutes, turn cake out of pan. Add more powdered sugar glaze until thickened and pour glaze over cake. GLAZE 1 Cup powdered sugar. 1/3 cup butter or oleo. 1/2 cup blackberry wine. ~~to all. ... and it's time for a spring party. The April drink is a punch to make for Sunday Brunch or any get together. It's fruity delicious with the taste of passion fruit and raspberries. Mix up a pitcher full and enjoy. PASSION FRUIT PUNCH 1 oz. Parrot Bay Passion Fruit Rum 1/2 oz Chambord 2 oz Orange Juice 2 oz Cranberry Juice 2 oz Pineapple Juice Fill tall glass with ice. Add all ingredients. Garnish with lime, orange and cherry. Oklahoma's most read GLBT Magazine 27 QSco by Jack Fertig APRIL 2006 "Write polemics, Aries!"" es Mars opposing Pluto boosts stamina and determination, but also raises tempers and belligerence. With Mars in Gemini and Pluto in Sagittarius, it's more bark than bite. Keep longrange goals in mind, and you can achieve almost anything. Venus entering Pisces doesn't help you focus, but she does bring more accommodation and gentleness. ARIES (March 20 -April 19): Write polemics, take up a challenging study, or do whatever you can to keep your hyper- charged brain productive and out of useless arguments that will quickly get very nasty. This is an ideal time to go in drag as Ann Coulter. TAURUS (April 20 - May 20): Your sweetness and sensitivity will boost your image and your career. Tangling with banks, insurance, or tax offices is not a good idea right now. Tangling with someone who knows how to talk dirty is a much better option. GEMINI (May 21- June 20): Although you believe in ideals of sweetness and light, you are too tempted to get down and dirty in the trenches. That makes for vicious arguments, but fantastic, passionate sex. CANCER (June 21 - July 22): Worry can make you sick. Calm your mind and strengthen your body with some gentle physical activity, such as hiking or tai chi - or sex. Dancing is also helpful, and it makes you especially sexy. LEO (July 23 -August 22): The fun just doesn't stop. Yo~ may want to apply that energy to some artistic brilliance - if you can figure out what to do. The one you love offers great inspiration, but no focus. If you can pick a goal and stick with it, you can shifle! VIRGO (August 23 - September 22): Try to find purpose and elegance in whatever task is at hand. This will calm your furiously busy brain and help keep you out of trouble. The boss may appreciate some of your ideas, but not nearly all of them! LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): Despite your i.ntention to make things agreeable, your sense of justice can push you to be very provocative. Sometimes that's necessary, but now you tend to go overboard. Try to think of life more as a creative game than as a struggle. SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21 ): Although your sex drive is especially high, thinking distracts from doing. What are the actual value and cost of erotic fun? Traditional ideals may offer grounding or confusion, but need to be dealt with at some level. SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 20): Arguments with your parlner are hard to avoid. Poetry, music, movies, and arl all offer pleasant diversion. Just having it out and clearing the air may be the better course, and the make-up sex should be terrific! CAPRICORN (December 21 -January 19): Remember that your strength is in advancing carefully. Sudden frantic bursts of activity threaten to undennine your work and your health. Stay focused on your goals and don't get ahead of yourself! AQUARIUS (January 20- February 18): Harebrained schemes are screaming for you to invest your time and money. Put time into pleasure and future hopes, but guard your money carefully! When friends let you down, remember they are only human. 28 Adverlising in the STAR is just good business cents. 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Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data magazine Text Any textual data included in the document This issue of the STAR marks a milestone not only for our magazine, but for GLBT news publications as well. We have seen five regional community papers come and go since ou; inception, most only in publication for a few months. Weil, this month is our 3rd Anniversary issue. With the beginning of our fourth year January 2007, we plan to make some changes, add new features and continue to bring you our readers, local, national and world news that affects the GLBT community. A new feature in this issue is our "AFTER DARK" calendar which list events and special function announcements from our advertisers. A good reason to keep the STAR on your coffee table all month. The Star was launched in December 2003 in Joplin, Missouri. Our first issue was a digest size black and white GLBT news and information magazine of just twelve pages. Our first printing was under 1000 copies and distributed to Joplin, Springfield, Fayetteville and Tulsa. Needless to say, the Ozarks STAR had a very meager beginning with just three advertisers. I have worked very hard the past 3 years to make this magazine a vlabie source of community information, news and entertainment. Our readers are traveling the region to places that were unknown when we began. I have personally made many wonderful new friendships and acquaintances because of this magazine. You are sincerely appreciated. A big KUDOS to the efforts of our contributing writers Donald Pile. RayWilliams, Michael Hinzman, Paul Wortman, John Patrick, Greg Gatewood, Victor Gorin, Josh Aterovls, Steve Urie and many others who have kept us informed and entertained. Also to our sales agents Michael Leach, Victor Gorin, Devre Jackson and Kay Massey who have contributed tremendousiy to our success. Last but not least a big thank you to our advertisers and readers. WE'VE COME A LONG WAN BABY! Sincerely, C. D. Ward Publisher/Editor in Chief 'tlvv-...,.ozarksstar.com Dear Chaz: We notice that your publication, (The Star) is approaching its 3rd Anniversary and we are very proud of you. You have brought to the Midwest a very intelligent and professional gay publicarion that is now one of the main gay/lesbian publication in the tv1idwest. Long are the days when so many gay pubiications were merely "sleaze rags" Your content, articles and columns keeps everyone abreast about events in the state, the Midwest, the country and the world! As we travel around the country, we always take extra copies of the STAR with us to show other gays and they are amazed at the quality of your publication. Congratulations on your 3rd Anniversary and we wish you continued success with your splendid work for many, many years to come. We are very honored to be a small part of your success. Respecdul!y, Donald Piie Ray Williams .',<,<\',:·,,,'\/;,, ·. I.lei us help! (91 ) - 6 the STAR 3 4 the STAR Victor Gorin interview with newly elected 2nd term Oklahoma County Commisioner Jim Roth. Election 2006 By Joe Solmonese. HRC President. Solmonese examines the effects of the 2006 election on the GLBT community. litfi HOLIDAY GIFT IDEA'S We did some shopping for you! Something unique, something cheap and some bling. Travelers "Savannah, GA" 0 of Town "Fort Lauderdale" Uncle Mikey finds a Twink that wants co be fabulous, while a queen ponders the afterlife. INDEX An Interview with Jim Roth ..... 6 Book Review. . . . . . . . . . . ... 11 OUT in Arkansas ........... 12 Past Out. ................. 14 Tulsa GLBT Centei News ..... 15 Holiday Gift Idea's. . . . ... 16 Ciao Travel. . . . ........... 17 Lesbian Notions. . . . . . 22 Star Scene. . . . . . ..... 24 Uncle Mikey. . . .. 26 After Dark . . . . .. 27 Horoscopes.. . .......... 28 Distributors. . . . 29 Cartoons. . . . . . . ...... 30 Classifieds. . 31 STAR DISTRIBUTION: Jolie Justice in Lesbian Notions "Christmas in November''- page 22 Progressive Church Shakes Up Norhwest Arkansas. - page 12 -~•,!!,.~.!';'!~.-. History of gay motorcycle clubs in ~~pi\ST ()lIT~~ - page 14 OKLAHOMA C!TY .. TULSA"' LAV'/TON ~ t-.,lCA.lESTER ~ EiHD • UTTLE ROCK" NORTH LITTLE ROOK., FAYETTEVILLE i' FT SMITH " EUREKA SPRINGS • HOT SPRINGS * BENTONVILLE ~ ROGERS ~ KANSAS CITY~ SPRlNGF!ELD ",JOPUN " BRA~JSON AREA:!, VVlCHlTA,.. PiTTSBURG • JUNCTION CITY \/'.f'vvvv.ozarksstar.corn AN INTERVIEW WITH OKLAHOMA COUNTY COMMISSIONERJIM ROTH. By Victor Gorin Phoro: Left Viaor Gorin and Jim Roth In 2002, Jim Roth ran againsr anti-gay incumbent Beverly Hodges in the race for Oklahoma County Commissioner of District One, and become Oklahoma's first op~nly gay county commissioner. . He made the most of rhis opportunity to do an excellent job in this position, winning the respect of Oklahoma County voters from many walks oflife. This year his Republican opponent, Dave Mehlhaff, waged one of the most single issue, anti gay campaigns ever, and yet Jim was re-elected. Now he shares with us how ir's been, and the vision he has for che future Victor: Well Commissioner, you ran a very strong and imeresting campaign that always looked successful, but did you still feel a sense of relief when it was over? Jim: Absolutely. You never know until the last vote is counted. \ve felt confident, we worked hard, but we didn't want to take anything for granted. Victor: Wdl, I'm sure you feel much better now. What do you feel were the major factors.~hat made your victory so resounding? Jim: Two things--First and foremost was our job performance. We worked very hard and deiivered on what we promised, anci I don't chink anyone has ever done better in District 1. Second, my opponent's bigotry was rejected by a great number of people that I think arc tired of that mean spirited side of politic;. l think people realized from his approach rhat he had lirde to offer. 1/ictor: Truly over the past 4 years, v.rhen one considers the duties of v;hat a county cotnn1issioner is supposed to do, you have a record you can be proud of, including a balanced budget. Jim: 1hat's right. Although all 3 discricts of ()kiahon1a (~ounty get tht: sa1ne a111ount of n1oney for roads, I have the 1nf)St road n1ileage 6 the STAR and still was the only one wirh a baianced budget. The pubiic in my district is now driving over 54 miles of new road and 8 new bridges with safer conditions. !vfy predecessor, Beverly Hodges, only built 1 bridge during her term. Victor: You were instrumental during 2004 in impiementing and keeping, despite a repeai attempt, a poiicy of nondiscrimination for Oklahoma County employees that indudes sexual orientation. Even now iI is the only government protection pertaining to sexual orientation in the state of Oklahoma. Jim: I serve this office with the premise char all peopie deserve respect and dignity, and a public employment simation, of all places, should be free of discrimination of any kind. We changed the current policy to expand coverage in 3 areas, physical disabiliry, political affiliation, and sexual orientation. I worked w implement this policy for 3 reasons, to protect taxpayers from liability from officials doing stupid things, attracting talent, and because it's the right thing to do. Victor: What do you hope do accomplish during your next term? Our district is on a great rrajectory of improvement with a very aggressive road and bridge program, a number of major projecrs. We are also bringing a focus to senior citizens issues. Vie have to be sure that we are that safety net so that their golden years are truly that. Also I want to work on issues co help our memally ill in this county so that they aren'r kept in the county jail without treatment. Victor: Do you have future aspirations after .:his term of office? Jim: Not right now, bur maybe in future years rhere will be something I'll feel challenged w try. Victor: \V'e!l, you obviousiy won the confidence of the voters in Oklahoma County. Besr wishes and looking forward to four more years! * Two Night Tulsa Event Benefit For Tulsa Cares Food Pantry. By Greg Steele TULSA, OK_Billed as Tulsa's Social Event of rhe year, the Bamboo Lounge staged a two night benefit show hosted by Kris Kohl. The 5th annual Miss Bamboo Pageant was held on Saturday November 18th and the following night with Kris Kohl's show, The Bamboo & Faces Present "REMEMBER OUR FAMILY". The two night extravaganza packed the nighrc'.ub both nights and raised do;;:: ro $500.00 for the Food Pantry. The Miss Bamboo Pageant histed by Terry Hood and Stan Smith dub co-owners is only one event out of 111any that the couple stage each vear to benefit non-profit organizations in the Tiilsa area. 'The out g~ing ~1iss Ba1nboo 2006. Mona Lott n:iuctandy reiinquishcd her crown to Miss Bamboo 2007, Holly Rose, a newcomer to the scene. Holly Rose campaigned extensiv~!y v.lith her slogan "!es 'Time For l1 l'~c",,v Generationn and sources say her ,veaithy husband donated quite a sun1 to her success. lvfona Lott, J\.-1:iss Bamboo 2006 in a rage l~Jf despair crov,rned herself "E1npress of the Ban1boo'1 \Vhich amounrs to nothing bur a cheap ploy to 1nainrain royal sratus in her aging state! P.._ great time vva.s had by all and for a very gcJod cause. Photo on page 25. v1v,.;•.v,ozarksstar.com Worl Dece i /-,, . i l_r,,,CJlj}OOtJ o/1'f.o0 ,-L--/o1~, Lr:i !,•~ R~"L p/'~_?-/r: -1 )j •'ThYJJ (Jr)g} ~ uikiff@ L1JJ'@:~?Jff i;J Y'ailif1 ORDERS BY 12NOON GUARANTEED S,'l.J,lE DAY DELIVERY Glenpool Cleaners (inside Glenpool 1.'i,:w:-crsl 91S-29r-3275 Wear the Red Ribbon on Dece111ber 1st. Show th<: ,xorld ,-'.)ll c:rc that HIVi AIDS is srill among us ,rnd du, people, including manv ,·nuns people, arc cv<:!i nov.' getting inf~•t'tcd. Let rhosc afF(·c(cd knO\\' that you undcLStand .. 1nd support thcn1 and the: figbt ~1gainst l-lI\/"f 1\I [)S. HAP C 3rd l (/ from all your pals in Eureka Springs, Arkansas ,\~ Amber Bock Sun--Thurs 1 pm---Midnight~ Fri ,-Sat 1 prrl~,,._ 2am :·,:~:, t..· .2..c,,1., N.- ., M~ a·..1J s/:}--·iV -•~p.. -:,.~ on 'h1p. New Tulsa Organization For Diversity Business DBAT Means Business TULSA, OK_Business is all abom connections and growth, and the newly formed Diversity Business Association ofTulsa (DBAT), a program supported by Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights (TOHR), is working to help GLBT business owners and professionals in green country form those connections and succeed in today's competitive marketplace. DBAT's mission is to provide a forum to the gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender business and professional community and its allies for ,he purpose of networking. professional development, creating increased visibility and strengthening relationships among business and professional community members. The group meets monthly for the purpose of networking, development and quarterly workshops as well. Socials are being planned for next year. D BAT membership is an affordable investment at $30.00 annually for individuals and $50.00 annually for~ business entity. Members receive: A copy of the annual business guide with inclusion of a business listing and advertising opportunities within the business guide. DBAT Newsletter TOHR Membership Reduced fee at quarterly workshops A listing on the DBAT web site and banner advertising opportunities. Join us and connec, with other locai GLBT business owners and professionals within your community. For 1hform,1tion contact Susan Hartman at 918-274-1699 or through e-mail at slr:artrnan@cox.aer. * Wear the Red Ribbon on December 1st. Show the world you care that I-flV/;\I!)S is still a111ong us and that people, inc:iuding rhen1 ::tnd tht against 10 the STAR Oklahoma Ci Couple Exchange Vo OKLAHOMA CITY, OK_Paula Schonauer & Pam Trotter were united in a Holy Union ceremony on the lovely grounds of the Backdoor Coffeeshop October 7, their wedding officiated by the Reverend Scott Jones of the Oklahoma City Cathedral of Hope Church. Paula is an Oklahoma City police officer and Pam is a floral designer. Together they reside in Oklahoma City. * Tulsa Group Forms Womens Supper Club. TULSA, OK_Heather Hartman and a group of other iadies have formed a new club calied "LesDine Supper Club ofTulsa''. Heather told us, "We meet the first Friday of every month at Tulsa-area restaurants at 7 PM. For December we will be eating at Jamil's Steakhouse, and in January we will be eating at Caz's Chowhouse. For information, peopie can emaii Lesdinesupperclub@ yahoo.com or visit v,ww.myspace.com/lcsdinesupperc! ub . LesDine is for lesbianidentified women in NE Oklahoma who like to socialize and eat good food. \,X,'e have been meeting for 6 month, now and have had a great turn-om. Peopk are finding out via ~ord-of-mou.t:h ancf thru -.lahoof chat groups. Last n1onth \VC had 26 \von1cn attend. The New Oklahoma Mr. Leather 2007 By Victor Gorin OKLAHOMA CITY~James Hollingwood captured the tide of Oklahoma's new fvfr. Leather at Oklahoma City's Pho~nix Rising October 21, It was a festive occasion emceed by California titleholder Mark tvfalon who kept the evening lively and entertaining with earchv humor, and even treated us to his musical prowess with h1s priceless rendition of a Shirley Bassey dassic, "Dildos are Forever." Attended bv;;. capacitv crowd of leather folk and th~ir friends,' the contest featured not only entenainmcnt but also education and wonhwhile fundraising, the highlight of which was the raffling of;; Garth Brooks \Yiorld Tour Jacket that will be autographed by the man himself. Proceeds for that raffie went to Tulsa's Open Arms Youth Project. David Tempie~on won the tide of First Runnerup, and the reigning currelt Mr.Leather, James Dean Scudder ofTi,is:,, passed the tide on to Mr.Hollingwood. James wiil go on to con1petc in the lntcrnationai l\-1r. Leather Comest held in Cbicago during the Memorial Day Weekend. l() the cornrnunity Jarocs. had this to say/' J fCci very honored that n1y peers have honored n1c 1:1vith the ti tie of ()kiahon1a ~vir Leather, and l \vill do rny unnost to support the leather comrnunitics of'Tu!sa~ ()klahorna (~ity and statevvide. I ;:1111 looking fon.vard to the Jntcrnational lV1r. Leather contcsc but 1 an1 still in ~hock, letting this vvin sir1k in. /tgain I say I ~un. honored that the cornrnu•~ has supported rne in rhis vvay A Face in the Crowd celebrates the and challenges of those who identify as gay, lesbian, bisexual or transgender. The book, "A Face in the Crowd: Expressions of Gay Life in America," edited by John Peterson and Martin Bedogne, presents a diverse group of people living their lives filled with iove, hope, and happiness as well as fear and oppression. Highlighting stories and profiles of gay men and women who share tales of families and challenges, "A Face in the Crowd" poignantly illustrates that gay life in North America does not fit a single stereotype. Sponsored by the Matthew Shepard Foundation, ''A Face in the Crowd" seeks to educate and empower today's youth w actively take part in developing solutions to problems that are rooted in ignorance and hatred. In the book's introduction, Judy Shepard, whose son, Matthew, was the Yicdm of a gav hate crime, convevs, "A Face in the Crowd is a reflection of Matthew's dreams. He id1ew that judging people bdc,re knov;ing chem was rhe loss of an opportunity." "A Face in rhe Crowd" can be ordered di,ectly from the ;\1atthcw Shepard Foti!ldation, which will be signed by Judy Shepard and includes the benefo: single "W'hat Matters" by Randi Driscoll. 'Ihe mission of the ?vfanhew Shepard Foundation is w support divcrsirv programs in education and ;o help youth organizatio;1s es.:ablish · environments where young people can fed safe and be themselves. The goal of rhc !vfatthe,v Shepard Foundation is to replace hate ,vith d ,. . . d .. . . ,. . un erstanct1ng, compassion an acceptance. t-·or n1orc 1r1torn1at1on ;~~:,~;t~~:;~~;;~_Shepard Foundarion, visit their ·website: www.mar- John Peterson created rhe initial concept for"~,\ 1:;ace in the (~rtnvcr· and further developed and published the book to rr1eet the goals and tnission of the ?viatthew Foundation. orders and discounts on group saies arc availabic through the pubHsher. For rnon~ inforn1<.,tion~ visit d1(:ir •.vcbsirc at corn . .., ,,..,_,w,.ozark.sstar.corn Election 2006 By Joe Solmonese, HRC President Tuesday was a watershed moment for our comrnunity. A wave of pro-equality candidates was swept into office, from Philadelphia to Fort Lauderdale and from Minneapolis to Tucson, and are now the majority in the United States House and Senate. To date, 93 percent ofHRC-endorsed candidates have won their races (210 of225), with a handful of races still pending. Perhaps most exciting of all, we had a first-ever win against a discriminatory, anti-GLBT constitutionai amendment. While we had heartbreaking losses in seven states, with a near-win in South Dakota, Arizona made history this week by defeating a ban on domestic partnerships. We salute everyone who worked to defeat these discriminarory measures and we especially congratulate Arizona Together for its successful campaign to defeat that state's discriminatory initiative. HRC was proud to play a role in helping to achieve this historic victory. Steve May, co-chair of Arizona Together, had this to say about HRC's help in the campaign: "When we first got started, no national organization thought we could win ... except HRC. They believed in us and we thank them so much." \Ve have an incredible slate of amazing trailblazers coming to Washington - people like Congressman-Elect Harry Mitcheli, Senator- Elect Amy Klobuchar and Senaror-Elect Sherrod Brown. We fought to get them elected, and now they wil! fight for us. Congress promises to be much friendlier now that bigots like Rick Santorum are gone. With your help, we raised more than $375.000 for Santorum's opponent, Bob Casey, and spent an additionai $200,000 to mobilize hundreds of volunteers to guarantee Santorum's defeat. It paid off. Here is what Senator-Elect Casey had to say about us: "HRC got behind my campaign early and has been a tremendous help. The energy and commitment they put behind our campaign was exrraordinary. I iook forward to working with HRC's incredible staff and membership, especially to advance hare crimes legislation in the Senate." All over tht country, anti-GLBT candidare$ and campaign tac.:ic, were rejected by vorers. Scapegoating and anacking GLBT Amc:ricans is no longer a winning campaign strategy. At least 21 Houst: n1embers --~vith O percent votine: records on (;LB1-- issues ~,,vili not be returning to ·wa.~hingron, and in the Senate, five Fcderai Marriage A~ 1 .. 11 t r;.or i •,r•• .... nn,e1ia1nen. suppo, ...... s .. c,.,, , h.e ,•r b,'d, <•- .,.fo ,r ,-~n· t...• ih,..., .. .~-1d-·,.v, ... ,~ "•' . ..... Other races aiso mark in1pon::ant shifts in the debate about our relationships. Supporters of fuH marriage equality \von the governorships oft~c .. N ~{ork and 1v1assachusetts, and Jodi Rell ;vas rcst}undingiy re-elected governor of Con.necticut: after signing ~~ civil union~ bilL Furthern1orel no candidate in f'1ev<l Jersey, or '"''·"''•"'·,. in rhc country for that 1nar:t:erl appears r,,1 ha•le suffered from the f~c;;v Supre111e Court's decision requiring and benefits Progressive Church Shakes Up Northwest Arkansas. by Kay Massey BENTONVILLE, AR_ Amid the conservative religious congregations in Northwest Arkansas, an entrepreneurial deacon is offering something ... a iittle different for Gays, Lesbians and their allies. In July 2006, the Rev. Roger Joslin moved to Bentonville from Los Angeles to start the Episcopalian Community of Bentonville. Roger is a native Texan, receiving both a BA and an MA from the University ofTexas at Austin. He did additional graduate work in International Relations at the University of Sussex in Brighton, England. After working for many years in the architectural woodwork business, Roger graduated from the Episcopal 1beological Seminarv of the Southwest in Austin Texas in 2005 ·.vith a Masters of Divinity degree. Roger's bhck o:.nfic .md white clerical collar mm heads wi11:rever he goes, and for now, he's everywhere. His mission is dear: Find a diverse group of people ~o form an Episcopal congregation with radical hospitality at its core. Joslin hopes :o offer a progressiv..: aiternative to other churches in the ilrca. HI think it 1.vill "vork here in t'Jorth\vest 1\rkansas/J he said of the radical hospjrality, which focuse5 on meeting p;:<ople':, physical and spiritual needs. <iit's a ·very friendly place.'' ~❖7hile h:1s been treated ,vell here~ he's not sure the reception \Vouid he as ~narn1 for a black, hon1oscxual or 12 the STA.R poor person. "Ours is the kind of church where everyone is welcome," he said. That focus must start from the beginning. Rather than creating a core group of white, middleclass people, then expanding the group, Joslin wants to start wirh a mixed core group from the beginning. That is exactly what he has done so far. One of the local group members says, "What makes this really special is that we arc defining what we feel our church needs to be about. We're all accepting, that's very important, that ali backgrounds arc welcome, all types of people, ro be very hospitable and community- oriented." Joslin's church-planting plans are moving quickly. The plan is to create small groups of roughly 12 adults until the total reaches about 300 people, which could take about a year, Joslin said. Currendv ·there are 4 groups of adults that meet weekly, a "Walk and Talk" group for exercising and meditating adulr.s, and a group of children who are exploring the "Godly Play" progran1. Roger stresses that a person need nor be an Episcopai ro parricipate in any of the groups. Study is designed for people of any faith. 'Ihere are people from all backgrnunds involved in the groups. These are truly diverse groups of people on a spirimai journey rogei:her. Roger is continuously seek;ng out Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgendcred group and individuals in the area. hoping to welcome :hem into the fold. "Many have been raised in churches and have hj_d devout upbringings~ yet most churches have reiected themn, Jos_Hn said,-_ Gay's and Lcsb~a1:s arc an integral part ot our groups, anct tt1e soon to be church. l\1any are already attending the "\Ycekly meetings and becorning invoived t)!,~r?~:~~:~a~~~11~~~1:;;~:;:;;(~ Benwr; other Episcopal churches in rhe area there is a church in Henton ··~Lz. progressive Episcopaiian church interprets the Bible in terms of context and in light of the times, he said. He believes fundamentalists interpret the Bibic rno literally. The Episcopalian church has liturgical services like a Carhoiic Church, bu: Masses and Sunday Communion ser✓ices - Eucharists - arc in English, Joslin said. The Diocese of Arkansas has been rhinking about a church in Bentonville fOi about 15 years. Joslin seems rhe perfect fit. "I have a strong enrreprcneurial bent," he said. "I do like to create and start things. 'This is abour creation." After many years of being involved with the Church, Joslin was ordained as a Deacon in May 2006. He will be ordained as an Episcopal Priest on December 2, 2006 at St. Paul's Episcopal; Church in Fayetteviiic, Ar. Roger is aiso rhe author of Running the Spiritual Path: A Runner's Guide to Breathing, Meditating, and Exploring the Prayerful Dimension of the Sport. He wrote the book while a seminarian. He continues w run and write in Arkansas as a dimension of his spiritual practice. He is a ,'creran of several marathons and thousands of miles of solitary running on trails and back roads throughout the United States. Rev. Joslin's book emerged from a running journal he maintained over the course of the iast decade. Many years of meditation pr:1.ctice, punctuated wfth the nurturing rnlitude of periodic visits to numerous retreat cemcrs ~nd monasteries, led the author, quite naturally, to combine his love for running with his spiritual search. Roger is borh an experienced ,cacher and a:1 engaging speaker and is ;;!ways eager to tab, on the rask of avvakcning a wider audicnc,· ~o the value of spiriruai pracrict. For n1orc infonnation about the ,-,,,,,,,,u,_,.., c=o1n1nunity of Benton C:ounry, contacr the IZcv. R,ngcr Joslin at 4?9-1~26-1 ')() j or rogcrioslin@sbcg1obal.net . V'l\-VV·J_ozarksstar.corn The show went on and on and on .... and oh, how we loved it! ByD. Norman EUREKA SPRINGS_AR~On Saturday November 4, 2006 during FALL Diversity Weekend in Eureka Springs, Arkansas, ANT and Sabrina tvfatthews flew in from Los Angeles, California to headline Diversity Pride Events' first 'LOL Dive;:sity Comedy' Show and simply awed everyone at rhc Al.JD! Sabrina kjcked ofF the evening ddighting the very diverse crowd of Glbti, straigi~t fricncis and allies. Both men and women were laughing and nodding chcir heads in agreement at her hiiarious observations of our lives. Her humor was down to earth and true to life, covering everything from skim. p1.,rses, pets, job interviews and of course, love lives. By the time she left the stage, you feit like she v1as one of your pals. ANT hit stage in an incredible spar~ling Hight suit covered with rhinestones, setting the pace for a high energy non-stop ride to hysterical bughre~. His jokes had u:; roar;ng, and he was at his absolute bes: ribbing and n•·,.,..,, .. ,, .. ,, v,itb ,he audience. He pulled people up on stage gettiag thrn1 to say and do things that had us failing out of our seats and ('l:~tn ht~ ~cerncd an1azed at the quirky Siories he brought out of Eurckans and her 'Vishors. He told us he just had to use sorne of then1 ¥h:i-<~:•: Tl '>Vf" r"•~rtf~riranro •·n ,..h,::. "fon1oht 'hov.1 .i ,C_rs.,. {J"'-,. l•-•~. :h,.. .._._ '"' L, ,._., . •t,c" ...__, ,. ,vith Jay Leno us he and rhanked us for i\nt i1rvited Sabrina to and the audience- can1c w,l,fr-•l'i.ozarksstar.com tne cen1ctery to end. He toid h fun toe, stop. con-1plin1ented stand-up. their ap~ It ''--Vas Conservative Christian Group Boycott almart. By Staff Reporter Donald E. \Vildmon, Fotmder and Chairman of American Family Association, a Tupeio, MS conserntive Christian organization ordered a mass-emailing to about 3 million recipients, on November 9, 2006. The petition was circulated because of Walmart's support of GLBT organizations and GLBT equality in the workplace. W'almart recently donated SS000 to N\'1/l\ GLBT Community Center in Bentonville, AR. Below is the communication sem to \'1/almart byWildmon. Dear President Scott, This will let you know that I will not be shopping at Wal-Mart or Sam's Club on the Friday or Saturday following Thanksgiving. Your decision to financially support groups promoting homosexual marriage is very unfortunate. You could have remained neutral but decided to join the battle on the side of homosexuai activist organizations. With great disappointment, I will help spread the word to my friends and family about your decision. * t GoldC8stle "At Century 21 Gold Castie our •. BEST properties are our PEOPLE'' 4301 NW 63rd, Suite 100 pklahoma City, OK 73116 405.840.2106 the STAR 13 Summary: Past Out is a rerrospective of key moments, personalities, and subjects in LGBT history. Each instailment brings the past to life by exploring the diversity of the gay past and its impact on the queer present. Photo: Madon Brando in The W'ild One (1953) November 1954 (52 years ago last month): The Saytrs motorcycle club is founded in Los Angeles. What is the historv of gay motorcvde clubs? · ,i Motorcvcle dubs, a ~ainsrav <,f gav culture since rh~ 19'i0s, ushered in ; ne; brand of queer masculinity and gave rise to today', leather.1SM co:wnunity. Motorcyck culture 1:merged in the ·united States in the l 920~ and i 930.,, ofteE revolving around racing, ,viih enthusiasts "'Nho forn1ed ciubs and vvore distinctive unifonns and "colors.:,~ The popularity of n1otorcycles grev; <luring \~1orld War JI - as n1otorcyclists \vere regarded as son1ething of a n1odern-day cavalry ~ and cheap n1ilitary surplus becamt: available after the 1.var. lJpon leaving n1i1itary si:rvicc in the late 1940s, n1any gay 1ncn in port cities 14 the STAR ra,her than returning to their hometowns. Just as the Hell's Angels were purpon:ediy started by furmer bomber pilots and pararroopers unwilling to settle into mainstream life, gay men aiso sought an alternative. "Only in the swashbuckling motorcycle culture,'' argues author Guy Baldwin, were they abie to retain the ''easy camaraderie. the stress and thrill of real risk raking, and the 111ascu!ine sexuality that they had kno1.vn during their n1ilitary da:rs." (;ay and straight n1cn alike einbraced the irnage of the outLnv biker as a frcc~spirired rebel, as r.:xen1piified by the Marlon Brande, fi!n1 The Wild ()ne inspired by an infirnous riot at a n1ororcycie con1lcntion in Hollister, in 1947, The first gay motorcycle dub in the United States was the Satyrs, founded in Los Angeles in 1954; the second, Oedipus, was an offshoot started in 1958. The eariiest Norrhern California club was the \Y/ariocks, founded in 1960, fo!!owed by the California Motorcycle Club (CMC). By the mid-1960s, San Francisco's Somh of Market district had become a hotbed of the gay motorcycle scene, home to clubs such as the Constantines and the Barbary Coasters. While California - with irs climate conducive to year-round riding - continued to host the greatest concentration of gay motorcycle clubs, similar groups cropped up around the country, including, in 1963, the Second City Motorcyde Club in Chicago, an early hub of rhe gay ieather scene. 1he Empire City Motorcycle Club of New York City, founded rhe following year, claims to be the oldest ongoing GLBT organization east of the Rockies. Gav motorcycle culture also crossed over to Eu~ope, starting with London's 69 Club. As motorcycle clubs grew more numerous, they formed imerdub organizations such as rhe Atlantic Motorcycle Coordinating Council. , Gay motorcycle clubs provided an outlet for socialization · and often for sex. The earlv biker scene was closely allied with the <;m;rging "Old Guard" lea;her/SM culture, and the clubs watering holes became some of the first leather bars. Stylized biker gear became a son of uniform for a segment of rhe gay community, feamring engineer boors, crotchless black ieather chaps (designed by D.L. Sterling in 1960), and military- style caps. The look - which caught on even among men wbo had never sat astride a motorcycle - was embodied by e:av artis, fom of Finland s characters. Pere; Berlin in the movie _Nighrs in Black Le:nher (1973), ana' ("1l enn J1'u ~g.h es o f t he d.i. sco group t he VilL,ge Peopie. ~vfotorcycle club outings. known as runs, typically involved n1anly activities such as can1ping trips. But \vhilc bikers esche·.,vcd ;:~~ era. their ever~;:,·~~'.:!~:::::;~:•;~~~~ pageantry and can1p of a different sort) including drag shov.-'s. Events such as the annual (]v!(~ (~arnival becainc popular even arnong nonbikers, and n1any n1en organized their social H·ves around annu;-11 runs such as vvw~lv. ozarkssta r. corn Photo: lhe new community center coming soon. Community Celebrations ]he end of a year brings things we all usualiy like par.:ies, gathering wirh friends and family, once-;,-year food and drink - celebrations of all kinds. This year is no differem. Special events, holiday dinners, and concem fili foe momh of December on the Gay, Lesbian, Bisexuai, Ti:ansgender (GLBT) and allied Community Calendar. A month full of acrivities begins in Tulsa on Friday, December 1, 2006. 'w'ith the theme, "Stop AIDS: Keep Ihe Promise," the annual Wori<l AIDS Day Interfaith Service remembers those losr r; HIV/ AIDS while renewing o~ir cornmiunent to stop HIV/AIDS. The candlclighr service, scheduied for 7:00 P?vf ar All Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S Peoria, v.1iU f(~ature rhe n1usic of Council C>ak Iv1cn's Chorale ((~(}fv1C) and guest speakers Dr. 1v1clanie Spector and Iarnara LcBak~ l\ssistant lviinister of/\H Souls lJni-· tarian Church. !'~ext up on the 'fulsa (~01nn1uniry C:alendar is the [)inner on Monday; l)eccn1ber 11th. ]he annual din~ ner features the presentation of the S..,·J?/t!"~J .:~wards an.d the rnusic of the \Y/or:nen of (:ouncil ()ale A. 6:30 PJv{ reception kicks c:fF the at feilcnvship (:ongregationai 2~100 S I-1t1rYard. ~111e ~u 7:00 Pivt fr:atnn.:~ holiday entree~: and harn1 drinks and r:~srive table~ ~V\.vvv.ozarksstar.corn side, or dessert. You'll wam to arrive early as over 200 individuals, coupies and families are expected for this annuai event co-sponsored by Tulsa PFLAG and TOHR. Music of A Snowv Starlit Nie-ht. the annual COMC Holiday Cone~(, will thriE you with seasonal fa;orites, as well as new ~unes to warm your heart. SRO crowds are expected for the performances on December 12th, 15(h & 16th, 8:00 P1v1 each night at All Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S Peoria in Tulsa. The Tulsa GLBT Community Center will celebrate the end of the leased space era with the 41st Finale on Sunday, December 17, 2006. The evening, featuring a free concert, free food and drinks, and door prizes will be the last event held in the current Center at 5545 E 41st Streei:. Ihe 41st Finale features the music of recording-artist Amy 5(einberg of Orlando, Florida. With irreverent humor and crafty intelligence, Amy uses her original music to promote tolerance, openness and diversity. Combining a sassy sensibility and loquacious socio-political and spiritual awareness, Amy brings forth a fresh and solid energy. The winner of several honors, including Songwriter of the Year from the Songwrirer Showcases of the Year and Best Individual Performer bv the Orlando lvlusic Awards, Amv tours ;u over the countrv. Notable sho~s include performances ~ith Ani Defranco, Alix Oison, Lisa Loeb, Melissa Ferrick, Meredith Brooks and Vonda Shepard, as well as many others. Classically trained on the piano since age 4, with a degree in rheaue (from studies at Boston Conservatory, American Musical and Dramatic Academy and ?\.farvmount Manhattan) and sclf-t;ught on the guitar, Amys shows display ,.viid!y inaovative musicality combined with extraordinary perfonnance skills to create an arousing ;~nviron1nent like none other. 'Ihen1cs ~f her 1nusic include sexuality, ,von1an po~,ver, ~-·.: 1 j~·h•.~.".!~~~.-. , ~~:~b~~.~1s~!~,o~1 1 .. ~d love. ·nie audience . ~-: .. :~ ~;_:;:; ;::-.:. t -· _, ~.. sings along, an(1 laughs untH they cry. a soul-shifting and original n,.r,nnn nt,t "..V,dlt tu rniss this FR .. EE concert 1.vith 1be 41st Finale marks the last day the Tulsa GLBT Community Center will be open before we pack-up, move-our and re-open in the new location in downtown Tulsa! The Tulsa GLBT Communitv Center will close on December 18, 2006. and remain closed through the end of the year. During this time, we'll be packing up the last items, loading up the moving trucks and heading to the permanent location of the Tulsa GLBT Community Center at 621 E 4th Street. We'll then re-open in January, celebrating the Oklahoma-Centennial year of 2007 - in a new, permanent home for the Tulsa GLBT & allied community. 1itlsa Okiahomans for Human Rights (TOHR) seeks equal rights for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender (GLBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Tulsa GLBT Community Cmter. 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Bourbon -mix pecans, choco1ate chips and bourbon and let soak for 1 /2 hour. stirring occasional1y. -blend meited outter into sugar unti: fully irtegrated. -add beaten eggs and biend. -add corn syrup and sait and blend ful 1y -fold in pecan/chip mixtJre. -pour into pie shei! with edges crimped (we nake an old fashioned Crisco pie crust for '.his recipe. but you can use ...vhatever ;::ie :.:rust you 11refer to rna~e \ -bake at 350 for approximately 45 minutes unti center o: pie rises and c0acks. -let coo!. best se~ved slightly v,a:n: with eith0r f,esi· whipped cream or vaniiia :ce crean: enjcy1 ~TRAVEL by Donald Piie and Ray Williams "SAVANNAH, GA" Savannah, Georgia (better known as Savannah GA) is one of the most historical cities in che country dating back to it's founding by General James E, Ogiethorpe in 1733, It has a wealth of history and archircccure that few American cities can match. Savannah has managed to prcscrvc it', Southern Colonial grace and charm. The ciry's many rich, green parks are blooming legacies of che brilliance of it's founder. \¼'hat was already a remarkable city was re-invenc,d when our friend John Berendr, che author wrote his fabulous book, MIDNIGHT IN THE GARDEi\! OF GOOD AND EVIL about iifr in Savannah a frw years ago. John Berendt's book takes the reader through all che very colorfi.d characters in the town, in particular with the late Jim \Villiams, the gay amiqt!Cs dealer who was said to have shot and killed · his lrnsder/lover. He owned the house that fonnerlv wa:, owned by the song writer Johnny Mercer. Clint Eastwood later made the book into a wonderfol moYic by the same name .. SaYannah sito on the Atlantic Ocean and has a population of about 140,000. "fouri,t, Hock to the city to cake adYantagc of all the historical and architectural highlight,. Savannah i, known :1, the QUEE:-,.,.: CITY of rhc Snuth, \vhcr~ you enter ,ome<me's home, d1l' FIRST thing t!\l'\' ask i, "\\'hat cio vou w:mt w drink?'' Everyone there is t·xtrcn1cl:· h<lspi1ablc. [\,...: I Iisi<ni-.. i'>i:-itrict of \;1_•:annah i~ buzzing \Vith crcatiYiry) ~HI \~',:~:.~;/:::j :\\~;lJ~:;~l.'\tl:~~j~,:::~)t:\\~~:'/;~;\''.\'.~:;· ::;~l:~:::i~!;\;:l\;'._,,_, \Vith .).h':ii1il:ih ~~nLt tilO\'C there to li":t' in or!C or rh\.· oldc:-it ... :iti..:s in , \111cr1c1 :1 site oi' !11:1nv L1n1lHt> H~z:~·ohllin11~HT &· ( ~ivli \\1ar B~lt., ' . Uc:-. }-lund_rcd~ o( int;,.Tl'.,tirq; ~it,_·s :_(1 sec includ;:-., tnon: :h;~c t\'.'cIH~n1onu1n'-'! lI-'. p~nkl,, l ]i.stnri;,.· 1-•lornc,'l) ( 'hurchc:-i & i:(;rt;, :<~nion.;~ 1-li;-;tc:·ic l :tr~liin;,1rk l )i~tr(c! in 1hc t "\,;\. n1ixcd Cr<)\\·d and Blaine·~ Backd, )1 B,!r, l :i l :, p,_ ,,:,, St. 1~ rn< }re , )f _: Cf0\V(1. ,\il th~ h: an: extrt:1nch· fun and fricndh'. Tk:; LOVL their tour ists in Sav,tnnah, ~rhcrc arc 22 original p:lrk:::. in do\,·nto\\·n ~J;·.u; · g1ganuc n1t ,~:---. draped u:,ks ,.nd surrounded i)\" statch· hornc:-- :1:·1t.i husinc;,:~(·~< '['his 1s :; great .. ,\·aJking" lU\\'O \•.:hen: c\·cry, )thcr hlnck~ ukc~ you into :u1othcr ir11ercsting and hi~torical aspect o( the cny. Ye 1u '.\·ill :iced td ~pend three or r-our day--: to ukt: tn c·-.;cryihing:. ~fht: hnn1c tqur"- :,n: r:.:.dl~- cxccptic;naL Special pbcc:-, t1 i ,:isit slv)~;ld include the i\1erccr ! louse whcrc the \ruic.JUC~ l)c,1lcr, Jirn \\-iili:l!H'.', ii\-cd, t !le ( h\·cn-T~1Pin,l~ hou~c. ! c::1uh I ).1\-cnp{ 1n l iou~;: Jnd t!h: (;n.:l'.n.\ L-iurii:1 I h)us1~-. The {:It'. ccn1ctcnc-~ ;~re "TRAVELING IN OUR FABULOUS WORLD" "Carlos Fernandez on Bravo TV's TOP CHEF" By Donald Pile and Ray Williams In our travels all over the country we are so fortunate in that we meet so many wonderful and exciting people. A few years ago in Florida we met Carios Fernandez and Chuck Smith who are life partners and co-owners of the Hi-LIFE CAFE which is a very upscale restaurant in Ft. Lauderdale. It is located at 3000 North Federal Highway. Chuck Smith who is the excellent host of the restaurant and his partner Carlos Fernandez, the extremely talented Chef opened the restaurant 11 years ago and they have developed a very strong following of devoted follmvers over the years. \Vhen we were there last time they were celebrati~g their 10th Anniversary of the Hi-Lit~ Cafe. rlheir hours are Tuesday-'Thursday 5:30 PM to 10:00 PM, Friday & Saturday, 5:30 PM - 11 PM and Sunday, 5:30 PM - 9:00 PM. Their website is: www.hilifecafe. com. After laying in rhe sun all day at the beach and before heading off for the night to party, be sure and dine there. You won't be sorr1. It is a must-do for almost all the gay tourists that goes to Ft. Lauderdale. www.ozarksstar.com Carlos is a fantastic Che£ Actually he is now on the top rated Bravo TV sho\v; TOP CHEF! Filmed in Los Angeles he is one of 15 chefs from ail over the country that was chosen to be on the shmv. It airs on \'v'ednesdav nights on Bravo. Stay tuned to see just how far he gees on the show One Chef is eliminated each ,veek. The TOP CHEF a.: the end receives $100,000.00l It's ahv,l\'s g-- reat to see a .g..,,.,. av_, coup- le own a business together. \'fc (,_ wiil be down in Ft. Lauderdale at the season's finale and what a grand pany it will be if he gets the top prize: He will alwavs be our Number 1 Top Chef in Florida! l ,ast January ,vhen ,ve were 111 Ft. Lauderdale we presented Chuck and Carlos with a special crystal plate engr:r.. cd with gold to help them ceiebrate their 10th c\nni,:ersar:, of the Hi-Life. the ST/\R 19 Fringing the ocean, Starwood Hotels' glimorous and gay-friendly Adantic resort has been a key feature of Fort Lauderdale's stunning redevelopment. (Photo ~y Andrew Collim) December 2006 by Andrew Collins Fort Lauderdale Fort Lauderdaie, which has transformed itself into Florida's leading gay vacation destination over rhe past decade, continues to turn heads with the spectacular redevelopment of its stunning beachfrom. 1his neighborhood with a number of gay resorts has seen - or will soon see - the opening of several upscale, gay-friendly hotels, include the Adamic, the St. Regis, the W Hotel, and the Trump International. New bars, restaurants, and attractions also continue to open throughout the city and in the neighboring community of Wilton Manors, helping to make the region a vibrant and exciting gay destination year-round. In deciding where to stay in Fort Lauderdale, consider whether you'd prefer a gay, dor.~ing-optional resort or a ia:ger mainstream provertv. Among the latrer is the charming Riverside HoteL set ;lo~g f;shionable Las Olas Boulevard. Ih; natty 1936 property recendy complered a stunning, multimillion-dollar makeover. ~nw first of Starwood Hotels' snazzy new beac:1front properties to open here, rhe dashing Atlantic offers ucobHructed ocean views from the majority of its spacious, airy rooms, aII of them with Bose CD-stereos, lovely patios, and small kitchens. Starwood's St. Regis, with a mid-December 2006 opening, is even more sumprnous: Jviost roon1s overlook the ocean or Intracoastal \XlarerwayJ and they con1c "'Nith such deluxe perks as burler service~ a f3.buious spa, and leather furniture. Starwood·s next big project, th..: W Hord Fort Ltudcrdale, is expected to open in [)ecember 2007. LL..:: ~ay resorts, the upscale pro1=1erty that I .... :1uderdale's gro\vth into a iT1ajor and it continues hotels. Perks hen.: ]ndudt' 20 the STAR and beer, CD players and VCRs in many units, glass-brick showers with high-end bath amenities, and dedicated top-notch service. Guests can relax all day around the stunning pool with a waterfall and fiber-optic lighting. There are several other fine upscale resorts of comparable repute, including Pineapple Point, a handsome l 930s spread that has the grace and st:yie of a Caribbean plantation. and the Flamingo Resor;:, opened by the former direcwr of Paris' famous Ritz hotel; it resembles a luxury boudque hotei on an exclusive British West Indies isle, with its hand-carved dark-wood furniture and sumptuous linens. Relatively new owners have continued ro upgrade the reson: with improved furnishings and amenides. The more reasonably priced Eiysium Resort, just 200 yards from the beach, has p::rfectly comfortable rooms. Here you'll always find friendly guys lounging on the expansive sundeck, with its hot tub, hammock, and tropical bar - there are nvo heated pools. Even the simplest rooms at nearby Villa Venice are warm and attractive, with refrigerarnrs and microwaves. With its friendly staff and an extensive pool area where breakfast is served, the resort draws an energetic fun-in-the-sun bunch. The similarly priced Worthington Guest House ranks among the cruisier resorts in town, wi,h a playful vibe and attractive grounds for sunning and swimming au naturale. 1he same owners opened the neighboring Alcazar Resort in 2006, also featuring a frisky ambience and lovely rooms. Mode:ateiy priced Coconut Cove, just a short walk from the beach, is another reliable choice in the neighborhood. The gav-resort scene in Fort Lauderdale is constantly evolving, with rrend/new properties opening seemingly every few months, and oider ones receiving massive makeovers. A great example of the latter is the elegam Nev, Zealand House, which was vin:ually rebuilt in 2003; now its sleek rooms have flat-screen TVs, DVD/CD piayers, cordless phones, and Wi-Fi. Orhcr highly recommended properties include the Grand Resort, whose urbane decorative scheme contrasts markedly with the tropical beachy ambience of Fon Lauderdale beach; it's one of the few gay iodgings with a gym. With about 30 rooms, the Schubert Resort, fashioned out of a rerro-cool l 950s hotel compound, affords a similar level of opuience and alluring facilities, including a cafc with a full bar. Although it's set a shon drive inland from the beach, the Coral Reef Guest House is a worthwhile option thanks to its attractive g.1rdens, massage offerings, and eight cheerfdly furnis'."!cci, reasonably priced rooms. One of the dosest resorts to the mar:y gay bar, and restaurants in Wiiton ~Aanors, Cabanas Guest House appeab w social butterflies, with its l 0-man Jacuzzi and eight-man aroma,herapy steam room. The posh rooms h~tvc goose-dov~rn con1fcH·ters~ Wi-I:i, and (=I)ifviP3 players. Fort Lauderdaic is les~ about sightseeing than ~v1iami or ()rlando - people come hnc ro relax in rhe sun :-u•~"''""-· and shop. This latter activity you can enjoy at the fiuncd Sawgrass J\.-iills J\r1a1L whosr more than .300 designer outlets include l)onna Karan) Saks, Ann 'riy1or; and ()r stroll along Las_ 1 _;:~];:;_"_,,:, •• J-\ 1~.'-,bich •~.~.. ~~_;:,:~r: 1 •~_:, 1 :: \",'ith fashion boutiques and __ .~ ..,__ --" c__ -~ ~ --- and around 1-vatcr, and then: are sightseeing cruises, and :-;ailing rnany <)f the local :Jccornrnodations ,vork closely outfitters, But if you do have a hanker-- of }\rt Fort I..,auderdaic vvt.lvvv.ozark.sstar.corn is also a great place to while away the occasional rainy afternoon. It's known for its first-rate collection of works by leading American impressionist painter Wiliiam Giackens. The city's dining scene continues ro evolve. For creative contemporary cuisine, it's hard to beat stylish Mark's Las Olas, which has a chic decor and A-list clientele. Perhaps the hottest venue in town is Johnny V, helmed by celeb chef Johnny Vinczencz - at this hip Las Olas restaurant you might try ancho-cinnamon-grilled pork t~nderioin or corn-dusted yellowtail snapper with smoked-pepper relish. At the Atlantic hotel, Trina has become a favorite for its signature Trinatini cocktails (with vodka, lavender syrup, and pomegranate and lemon juices), such tempting Mediterranean-inspired fare as Moroccan chicken pizza and tagine-baked grouper with almond couscous, and the awesome ocean views. Or consider one of Fort Lauderdale's several gay faves, such as HiLife, a homey bistro with delicious, sensibly priced pastas, salads, and seafood and poultry grills - try the grilled bacon-wrapped jalapenos stuffed with shrimp and cheese. Kitchenetta Tratroria serves some of the best Italian food in rhe region, including knockout ricotra cheesecake for dessert. A favorite piano cabaret in Wilton Manors, Tropics offers above-average Continental fare, such as a prosciutto-pocket starrer - a pastry stuffed with prosciutro, apples, walnuts, and mozzarella. \v'ilton Manors is also home to Rosie's, a former Hamburger Mary's restaurant that's still a convivial spot for casual pub fare and socializing, and Galanga, known for its outstanding sushi and weil-prepared Thai food. For dessert, coffee, and wine, or delicious sandwiches during the day, be sure to stop by breezy and hip Stork's Bakery. There's also a Stork's on Las Olas Boulevard, from which you can book a romantic gondola tour along rhe Himmarshee Canal. A great, relatively new addition to Wilton Manors is the Naked Grape, a handsome iittle wine bar with light food and live music most nights as well as a nice selection of microbrew beers to go along with the vino. Fort Lauderdale pulses with gay bars. If you're in the mood to cut loose at a big-time warehouse disco, head to rhe Coliseum, a glitzy megaclub with a variety of parties and theme nights. The elegant China White nightclub has a number oflively parties throughout the week, and has become quite famous for its giant elephant sculpture and distinctive leopard-prim carpets and lavish Buddha ~tatuary. Learher bars like the hard-edged Sr.eel lounge and dance dub and the dungeoncsque Ramrod, with its Tom of Finland artwork, always dra1.,v big crcn,vds. BHfs Fiiling Station is a quintessential neighbor~ hood hangout and home t0 one of the city's top happy hours, especially an1ong the 35~and-older cro-\vd. \Xfilton Manors, a l 5-111inute drive fro!n the beach resorts, has several appealing nightspots, . ' •. ~ l 1 ., ~~ 1nclu~1ng a te\~l n:at_cate: ne.a:11r to r'ort .T.. _,au•~ erd' a. .1. _ e•-s CO!lS•H ' .1era• bI. e over-)0 gay populatton. ln th1s latter group, (_,hardees, a restaurant and lounge: is queen of the hill; its nightly piano cabaret is always hie Sidelines Sports Bar dra"'.,v-s a great 1nix of folks to shoot and vilatch sports on T\1~ and the lesbian-popular i-...Jev1 J\.,1oon~ a neighborhood joint -.~vith great on Vr'eekends, (:lub \AJV\.n.v~ozarksstar.com Boom, Elements, and Georgie's Alibi are slick, happening video bars nearby, ali three of them good places to meet locals and converse with friends. There's something for everybody in this constantly growing gay resort community. Photo: White-faced (capuchin) monkeys frequently cavort in the trees behind the beach in Costa Rica's Manuel Antonio National Park. (Photo by Andrew Collins) the STAR 21 DECEMBER 2006 "CHRISTMAS IN NOVEMBER" Jolie Justus, newly elected member of the Missouri state Sena,e I'm still a lirrle dazed - I was up pretty late on election night - but I'm cerrainiy not confused. And neither is rhe country. No longer content to be sv.-ayed by the politics ~f fear and hare, 1 middle Americans came our in record numbers lasr Tuesday ana shoured from the rooftops - "We want change!" And change is what they got. President Bush and the Republican Party have been put on notice. The Democrats have raken control of the U.S. House of RepresentatiYes, a change that was 12 years in the making. And the improbable is no-w reality - both Montana and Virginia have turned blue, giving the U.S. Senate to the Democrats as we!L "I11e election is welcome news certainly for us tried-and-true Dems, but also for rhe lesbian and gay commc:nity. i'fothing was more satisf1ing than to see Rick "man on dog" Sar,torum, one of Pennsylvania's two Republican U.S. senators, become history. Santorum is one of the most disgustingly homophobic elected officials of ail time. He's been a wp Bush apologist, who carried the radical Christian right's warer, and he w:11 now be replaced by Bob Casey, the son of a forn1er Pennsylvania governor. lust as sweet as Santorum\ exit from office is the fact that his chief ~f staff and coinn1unications director, Robert T'raynham, an openly gay Af'rican-i\meric:m man, wiH soon b~ om of,,. jo~. L for one, don't kno,v hovv 'Tfaynham can get up in the morning knov✓1ng he helped elect and put ·\vords in the ffiouth of one of this counrry:s biggest gay~haters. '•X'hen you look at the cndors~:rricnts 1nade the l-!11n1an :Rights C:an1pajgnt '\VC did pretty ·w·elL ()f !-1R..C:'s 231 endorsecs, 208 22 the STAR won, while only 16 losr. (At press time, seven races were still undecided.'! \Y/hen vou break down the numbers, rhere were 18 senators, 179 ~embers ~f r:he House, and 11 governors elected ,vho purportedly support our issues. Of the 51 key Congressional and Gubernatorial races tha.: HRC identified, 15 candidares ,von in the House, and nine were successfui in the Senate. HRC's president, Joe Soimonese, told me the day after the election that his group's top priorii:ies were thre<:' Senate races - Casey in Pennsylvania, Sherrod Brown in Ohio, and Amy Klobuchar in Minnesota. All three won. But HRC's strategy went beyond those top races. "The greatest hope for our community resred in our ability to be a powerful polirical force in key races and do ir in a way ,ha;: people felt our oresence," said Solmonese. "We iooked within those states, and as a 'national organization, considered what else we could do in each of them to effect change for our community.'' In Minnesota, HRC pm: considerable resources into the state bod1 raising and spending money to organize the community and impact the race. Klobuchar beat her Republican challenger, Mark Ken:1edy, in an open race with 58 percent of rhe vote. Tim \Y/a!z, a Democ,r_at endorsed by HRC, defeated an incumbent U.S. Congressma;:i, Gil Gutknecht; and furthermore, according to HRC's website, thar state's legislature will have a "fair-minded majority in 2007 .'' ]be Servicemembers Legal Defense Network (SLDNJ did a bit of its own election analvsis and concluded that all the co-sponsors of the bill to repeal "Do;1't Ask, Don't Tell" who sought re-~lection were successful except for one outstanding race in Connecticut. SLDN also said that no one was thrown out of office for supporting the repeal, and that, according to a recent Gailup poll, nearly four in f.ve Americans support gays and lesbian serving openly in the milh:ary. Perhaps with the new Congression;,J leadership and rhe polii:ically expedient exit of Secretary of Dei:ense Donald Rumsfeld, we'll actually see some movement on rhis issue. The military is already hardpressed to Eli its quotas, so not letting us serve is just plai1: sn:pid. Unfortunately, all but one of the same-sex marriage bans passed. i\rizona turned away from hatred and dcfca!ed its anti-gay-marriage baliot measure, and Sourh Dako,a's vote was surprisingiy verv dose - 52 percent for, 48 percent against. Virginia passed its measare, but not after a long, hard fight and the organizing of a terrific coalirion that \Vill hopefnlly continue ro battle for our rights. ,.;v~hile n1uch attention has been placed on the national scene. 1..ve can\ forget that politics is aiso local, and that 1.ve did pretty ~~vell on that levei, too. v,.11,v,N, ozark.sstar. corn performed charitable work, sponsorino holiday toy drives for children and fi.u~draisers that originally assisred injured riders and iater helped people ·with AIDS. While early gay motorcycle clubs were men-only, some lesbian~ also embraced the lifestyle, forming women's clubs such as the Moving Violations in Boston (19851 and the Sirens in New York Citv 0986): The m_ost well-known queer wo.men motorcyclJSts are the Dykes on Bikes. 1he original group, which rode in the 1976 San F~ancisco Pride parade, became a nonprofit offici~lly known as the Women's Mororcycle Contmgent. After the U.S. Patent and Trademark Office twice rejected the oroup's application - claiming the word "dyk~" w;s derogatory and vulgar it finally registered the name 'Dykes on Bikes" in 2005. Over the years, the nature of queer motorcycle culture has changed. With the advent of gay liberation in the iate 1960s, m.my men no longer felt the need for secretive fraternal organizations, and liberal activisrs rejected the hierarchy anci militarism of the early clubs. In the 1980s, rhe AIDS epidemic devastated the gay male motorcycle com~unity. With the emergence of groups specifically devoted rn leather/SM, motorcycle riding and fetish sexuality diverged as, accor~ing to Bald"".in. ~ome .serious riders were embarrassed by the irotic visibiliry of the kinky crowd." · w'hile motorcycle dubs no longer plav as prominent a role in rhe gav world, the cuiture continues to thrive, 2~1d new dubs emerge, such as the Stonewall Kniohts in -Ft. L aua' erd a l' e and t I1 e '1--,:"va•l iers o~°- New Orleans, both founded '11 2002. Mirroring trends in the larger GLBT comnumitY, many of today's motorcycic dubs wclcon;e members of all genders and scxuai orientations. In the words of ,he organizc:s of the annual Queer Biker Invasior; of Dead~ Valley~ being queer is "a state of n1ind~ and vou know if it fits you." ' For further information: Baidwin, Guy. 1993. ~~fies ~!hat (Daedaius). Bloom, Scott, 2005. Satyrs iv10torcycie (]ub _ Guggenheirn iv1usetu11. 1998. fvianhi: 'The Biker Book _ . w-NW.ozarksstar.corn All in all. HRC flexed its political muscle in unprecedented ways. We invested more than $5 million in these elections and mobilized our more than 650,000 members and supporters to participate in campaigns and to rnte. We placed 84 staffers in 30 races in more than 18 states and we sent 22 HRC Youth College campaign workers all over the country. We also dramatically expanded our field operations this election cycle, playing key roles in coordinated progressive efforts and helping fair-minded leaders take back the New Hampshire state House and Senate, the Iowa House and Senate, the Indiana House, the Minnesota House, the Oregon House and the Michigan House. \'i/e were literally on the front lines in dozens of states. (For a more extensive analysis on what HRC accomplished, check our HRC ":ice President David Smith's insider postelection analysis memo here:http:/ /www.hrc. org/election2006/) With a new fair-minded leadership in both the United Srates House and Senate, the Federal Marriage Amendment is dead! And we look forward to working strategically · with our allies on the Hill to build momentum and support for passing the Employment Non-Discrimination Act and making hate crimes protections the law of the land. A truly exciting new chapter of GLBT history is beginning. I ~vant to offer a very special thanks to all ot you. Your ongoing belief in rhe work we ?o made these historic vicrories possible. Your contributions, the time vou rnok to volunteer and your participation in HRC evems and HRC-endorsed campaigns are the reasons we were able to secure a more pro-equality 11 Orh Congress and Senate. I feel very iucky to work with such a talented team at HRC ar;d, as I rravei around rhe cmmtrv, I am inspired bv vour commirm~nr to our ·rn.arch t<Y,,;ard full ;quaiitv. i·h~pe ~· · vou will rake some time to ~deb~atc o~r ~.,vins. because it trulv is a ne½~ dav for the (;LR1. con1n1unity ;nd for our c~untry. * ((3 OZ)GREY GOOSE voott\ (1 OZ) CHAMBORD (1/2 OZ) PINEAPPLE JUICE.:___. ~~ 1. Chill a martini glasses with ice and water. 2. Add aii ingredients with ice in shaker 3. Shake well. 4. Strain into the chilied martini glasses. HAPPY HOLIDAYS TO YOU ! TheSTAR 23 Salutations Kittens and welcome to Uncle's corner of the world once again. Like a friend with benefits, Uncle shall continue to provide enjoyment to all that seek. Uncle Mikey finds a Twink that wants to be fabulous, while a queen ponders the afteriife. Never a dull moment in Uncle's corner, Kittens. Dear Uncle Mikey, Wby does everyone think that just because you are deeper than a basket of hair products. you are a drag? I am so sick of this plastic existence, where the most important matter of discussion is where the next piece of ass is coming from. Can't we just pretend there is more to life than just a selfserving int~rest? Seeking Depth Dearest SD, Kitten, it takes all kinds to keep this world turning. I agree with your plight of mind-candy. It was just this morning kittens that Uncle, while sitting on the balcony. was pondering real life issues affecting us ail. Ifl wear my blonde wig to the winter carnival, will the queens forgive me? Yes, Kitten as you can see, Uncle Mikey is a twin soul; one seeking fun while the other is seeking wisdom. Maybe I should call Ru! Smooches, Uncle Mikey Dear Uncle, I am beginning to wo,,der what comes in the afterlife. I am dating a man of the church, who is in const211t deniai. He lies to himself, his wife, and his church. I sit there, 01;. the sidelines in love, with a man who cannot even walk with me in the light of day. I am wondering if there really is anything after this !if-:. I mean, every day we hear from those in the church who are noth:ng more thar, :mpostors living a life oflies. What is to come? Seeing the jaded gates '\ Dearest Jade. Kitten, I understmd t:hc bbrn::d iine between iife's happiness and moments fillt:d wit!1 a fairhfoi search. I myself recall my first love, which happened to be a priest, at« locai parish. He was the man who taught me passion, romance, and commitment. A romance that gave uncie Mikey the first taste oflo,·e and pass1on i,1 the southern skyway. It was the toughest break up of my life. 'That vear was such a time of change for Uncle, the break up wi.:h Father Flanagan and starting rniddlc schooi ail in one year. It was rough but taught 1ne to be strong to say the lease Smooches, Uncle [)ear lJnde fvfikcy, 1-io~~l do you tell someone you just want a booty call so they do not uy to get aU hon1cn1akcr on your ass? Booty-Boy 26 theSTAR You could say something like, ·'Booty; parry of one!" Keep it simple young player. Uncle Uncle Mikey, I am surviving a breakup after ren years ofioving th:: s;ime and onl, man. Now I find mvsdf in a world that has chane.ed in that de;::ade of bliss. 1he men are so m{believably outrageous about tl1eir ways and desires. I fear time has passed me ieaving me to remai!1 alone. I just do not know how to be "so'' out there as it seems co be the protocol. Am I just destined to be alone? Party of One Dearest One, Poor love, iife is on a fast tr2ck rhac ;::an oe a bit unnerving at first. Uncle has watched the times change, ar!d fads co;ne ;;nd go. \veicome to the drive through of the booty age. wl1ere or.ce we had to seek out iove in midnight hidden embraces, we now can't walk a park mile without rripping over someone's throbbing desire. 111at reminds me of a walk Uncle took the ocher dav, Kittens. This man was absolutclv Matthew fine! Well he approached ·me with his! Oh sorry One! Uncle.got lost in the moment. Back to rhe issue at hand! Kitten, buy a new ,vardrobe, and don a new look. Tnen hit the town. Just think of the wonders tbat wait. Kitten, this too shall pass, pd! up a ~cat to Twink :If]. and enjoy the new found,freedom! Smooches Uncle Uncle Mikey, Do you think it iS, wro~f ro ask a_ coapi~ to have a th,eesome, when you're related ro one of tnem, tb(:y an: JUSt so not. Looking for family .:ime Kitten, I swear I am hearing banjos again. Let us step out of the trailer court when looking for a hook up - shall we Darling? Remember there are branches on the Famiiv Tree for a reason. Smooches Mikey · Uncie Mikey, ' What do you tell a friend who is really getting to be: mer weight and chinking they are still hot? I do not icnow what he sees when he looks in the mirror, but people are talking. He jt!st seems no; :o care anymore. He never works out anymore, and he eats anything ar;d evcryrh;ng. l am almost embarrassed of him. What c,m I do; Friend of chubby A fdl-iength mirror v,ith overhead lighting should do the cick. " Smooches r,1ikey •Disclaimer - Looking at: oneself in a full-length rnirrnr \vich overhead lighting may be hazardous to :{ou heahh. l}nck rccornnH:nds having a good stifF one before doing this. \Ou do not ,varn to go into shock. Be afraid be very afraid. (~onsult a queen near Unde discovered an overhead mirror JS you has been there ev,:r since! look best v.ri,Hc looking J.t yoursdf fron1 ( 1!: ,r( ?fr ;),cn ... k, 1'.Jccdkss to say lJnde tJnde is out of sight once nHHe, Until rnake of itJ so and. -i Hlct!es too. v-rvi\N.ozarksstar,corn FRIDAY December 1 THE ROCKIES: Beer Bust 1-6.6-12 THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pm PEC'S: .\faie Dan~m, 9pm SATURDAY December 2 THE ROCKIES: OGRA Benefit Shew 8:30gm TH~ COPA: Maie D:rncers 9pm GUSHERS: Late Night Breakfas: Buffet 1 arn.~.3:30am THE ROCKIES: Beer Bust 1-6,6-12 PEC'S: Male Dancers, 9pm SUNDAY December 3 BAMBOO LOUNGE: Fr~e Brunch 2pm, Danc~rs 4pm CLUB ROX: Whitney Paige Show 8:30pm. CLUB MAJESTIC: Caria Lee Love Show 10pm THE CO!'A: Raci,ac! Erikks Show 10:30pm THE ROCKIES: Beer Bust 1-6,6-12 MONDAY December4 BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9om THE ROCKIES: Beer Bust 4pm-7pm TUESDAY December 5 PEC'S: Well cirinks 2.50 from 7-9pm ,vcar lc•thcr. THE COPA: Stip-Off Contest 12am THE ROCKIES: Beer Bust 4pm-7pm WEDNESDAY December 6 BAMBOO LOUNGE: K:uaoke 9pm. PEC'S: Well drinks 2.50 from 7-9om wear lcad:er. • TNT'S: Karaoke 9pm THE COPA: Variety Show 10:30pm FINISHLINE: Dart Tournament l 0pm THE ROCKlES: Beer Bust 4pm-7pm THURSDAY December 7 CLUB MAJESTIC: Talent Show ,viRachad Erikks :!,;at=;i:t;:;~ drink~ 2.50 from 7•9pm THE COP~-'\.: ()pen Taienr ~NiShcrnoanc ~I~;~~;i~};/~f~:~ fotm,amcn, lGp:li LEDO: Kari-,Okic host. Pancho 9orr: THE ROCKJE..5: Beer Bust 'lpm~7pm FRIDAY December 8 TBJ::. COPA: t .. {a!c l)ancers 9prn THE ROCKIES: Beer Busr 1-6.6-12 CLUB ROX: Alison Scott. 9:30pm PEC'S: ~\1Jlc l)~u1ccrs, 9pm wNw.ozarksstar.com SATURDAY December 9 THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pm PEC'S: Maie Dar!cers, 9pm GUSHERS: Lare Niehr Breakfast Buffe, lam-3:30am ,. THE ROCKIES: Beer Bust 1-6,6-12 SUNDAY December 10 BAMBOO LOUNGE: Free Brunch 2pm, Dancers 4pm CLUB ROX: Whitney Paige Show 8:30pm. CLUB MAjESTiC: Catia Lee Love Show 10pm THE COPA: R;,;.chad Erikks Show i0:30om THE 'ROCKIES: Beer Bu!t 1-6,6-12 MONDAY December 11 BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pm THE ROCKIES: Beer Bust 4pm-7pm TUESDAY. December Ii PEC'S: Wdl drinks 2.50 from 7-9pm wear leather. THE COPA: Seip-Off Contest 12am THE ROCKIES: Beer Bust 4pm-7pm WEDNESDAY December 13 BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pm PEC'S: Wei! cl.inks 2.50 from 7-9pm wear leather. TNT'S: Karaoke 9om. THE COPA· Variety Show i0:30pm FiNISHLINE: Dart Tourn;smem 10pm THE ROCKIES: Beer Bun 4pm-7pm THURSDAY December 14 CLUB MAJESTIC: Talent Show w/Rachael Erikks PEC'S: Wdl dri:-.ks 2.50 from 7-9om wear leather. · THE COPA: Open Talem w/Shcmoanc Somemore ! 0:30pm FiNISHLINE: 6an ·fouroamcm 10L>m LEDO: Kari-Okie host, Pancho 9p::; THE ROCKIES: Beer Bust 4pm-7pm FRIDAY December 15 CLUB MAJESTIC: Majestic Kings Show 10pm. ·· Tl-iE COPA; J-..1:ak Dancers 9prn THE ROCKIES: Beer Bust 1-6,6-12 PEC'S: Male l)ancers, 9prn SATURDAY December 16 -rNT's: fundraiscr for Susln c; Komen BreEr Cm1e<::r Foundation, l0;)m Tl-IE COPA: ~1:.tlt l)311e.:-rs 9i,m GCSHERS: 1..1,a larn-J:30am Brcakf1st Buffer PECtS: fvfa.k D.1n-..:cc . c;t,,,·,. THE RC)CKIES: Beer Bust l-6;6 .. 12 SUNDAY December 17 BAMBOO LOUNGE: Free Brunch 2pm, Dancers 4pm Kris Kohl Show 8pm CLUB ROX: Whitney Paige Show 8:30pm. CLUB MAJESTIC: Catia Lee Love Show 10pm THE COPA: Rachael Erikks Show 10:30pm THE ROCKIES: Beer Bust 1-6,6-12 MONDAY December 18 BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pm THE ROCKIES: Beer Bust 4pm-7pm TUESDAY December 19 PEC'S: Well drinks 2.50 from 7 - 9pm wear leather. THE COPA: Sc;p-Off Comest Midnight. THE ROCKIES: Beer Bust 4pm-7pm WEDNESDAY December 20 BA..\fBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pm PEC'S: Well drinks 2.50 from 7- 9pm wear leather. JNT'S: Karaoke 9pm. THE COPA: Variety Show I 0:30pm FINISHLINE: DanTournament 10pm THE ROCKIES: Beer Bust 4pm-7pm THURSDAY December 21 CLUB MAJESTIC: Taienc Show w/Rachad Erikks PECS: Wdl drinks 2.50 fcOJ:: 7-90::, wear leathe,. · THE COPA: Open 'Ialmr wiShemo;;.nc Somemore i 0:30pm FJNISHUNE: Darr ·1ournamcnc l (1pm LEDO: Kari-Okk host Pancho 9om THE ROCKIES: Beer Bust 4pm~7pm FRIDAY D«.ember 22 THE COPA: Maie Dancers 9pm PEC'S: lvfoJe I)ancers, 9pm THE ROCKiES: Beer Bust 1-6,6-12 CLUB ROX: Alison Scott Show9:30pm SATURDAY ~mber 23 TNT?s: Chrisrn1as P.anv. Raffle Benefit for Childrcns f·iospitaL· 1-HE COPA: t.. ..i alc I)anccrs 9pm GUSHERS: Luc l"J.ighr Bre:1kfasr Bufl{:1 J aJ11-3:30am PEC'S; :v1ak Dancers, 9prr: THE ROCKIES: Beer Bmt i--6.6-12 SUNDAY December 24 BAMBOO LOUNGE: Free Brunch 2pm. Dancers 4om CLUB ROX: Whitney Paige Sh°'" 8:30pm. CLUB MAJESTIC: Caria Lee Love Show 10pm THE COPA: Rachael Erikks Show 10:30pm THE ROCKIES: Beer Bust 1-6,6-12 MONDAY December 25 CHRISTMAS DAY BAMBOO LOUNGE: Christmas Din: icr Se:-vcd 3pm. Karaoke 9pm. THE ROCKIES: Beer Buse 4pm-7pm TUESDAY December 26 PEC'S: Well drinks 2.50 from 7- 9pm wc;;.r leather. THE COPA: Seip-Off Comest Midnight. THE ROCKIES: Beer Bust ,ipm-7pm WEDNESDAY December 27 BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pm PEC'S: Wdl drinks 2.50 from 7-9pm ·wear leather. TNT'S: Karaoke 9pm. THE COPA: VarietJ Show 10:30pm FINISHLINE: Dare Toarnament l 0pm THE ROCKIES: Beer Bust 4pm-7pm THURSDAY December 28 CLUB MAJESTIC: Talent Show wi Rachael Erikks PEC':".: Weil drinks 2.50 from 7-9pm v;car buher. THE COPA: Open Taicn, w/Shemoane Somcmorc 10:300::1 FINISHLINE: Darr Tournamcn~ I 0pm LEDO; Kari-Okie host. Pancho 9pm THE ROCKIES: Beer Bust 4pm-7pm FRIDAY December 29 THE COPA: ?,fale Dancer,; 9pm PEC'S: Male Dancers, 9pm THE ROCKIES: Beer Bust 1-6,6-12 SATURDAY December 30 Buffer Lan-3:30am PEC'S: \faie l);u1et:rs, tJpm THE ROCKIES: Beer Bust i-6,6-12 SUNDAY December 31 t'1£~1YEARS E'✓-E E'IERY()l~E P1\R1-IES!'. }i()i~LYWOO[: HOTEL: Ddarnore, f\1a!c Dan.:e Revm.:. aHy i{ncnvn Surprise SiJ)gr.:r. the STi\R 27 "Welcome criticism, Gemini!"" Venus aligns with Pluto (yes, to astrologers he's still a planet!) drawing us to erotic confrontation and artistic or financial challenges. Both planets trine Saturn in Leo, grounding us to more secure personalities or others without a need to prove themselves. ARIES (March 20 -April 19): Embrace new adventures like your life depends on it. The quality of your life depends on a catalytic change; familiar pleasures aren't cutting it. Don't be afraid of a challenge. There's more to fear if you don't go for a big one! TAURUS (April 20 - May 20): Review your mortgage or debts to see if you can get a better deal. New erotic opportunities will push your boundaries and rouse parental or cuitural voices - all the better to face them down and be free. GEMINI (May 21 - June 20): If you want perfection, it's best to work on yourself, not your partner! Even efforts at self-improvement may come off as annoying to others. Perhaps that's a clue to how you realiy need to adapt. Welcome supportive criticism. CANCER (June 21 - July 22): Be careful of your health, especially when it comes to erotic and culinary indulgences that could affect your liver. Hard work sustains you - up to a point. Overwork is very dangerous. Know your limits and err on the side of caution. LEO (July 23 - August 22): You need some recreation to steel yourself against life's challenges. Some light, fluffy _divertissements_ will not do the trick, but a powerful creative or athletic challenge is needed to provide the required release and reinforcement. VIRGO (August 23 - September 22): Famiiy or roommates will drive you mad if given half a chance. Take time out and away from them to be centered and clear on your own priorities. Then you can stand your ground with unwavering assurance. LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): Your nOimally famous diplomacy seems to be on vacation. Despite your best efforts, you tend to come across as forceful and locked onto an immutabie goal. That can be good in the right time and place, but use your forcefulness wisely! SCORPIO (October 23 w November 21 ): Having a crisis of values is just a process of maturing. How you face and resoive it is more important than the crisis itself. 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CLUB CLOSED MONDAY SIZZLIN' SUNDAYS With Whitney Paige ALISON SCOTT SHOW December 8th & December 22nd 9:30pm Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2006] The Star Magazine, December 1, 2006; Volume 3, Issue 12 Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource December 01, 2006 Subject The topic of the resource Politics, education, and social conversation over LGBTQ+ topics Description An account of the resource The Star Magazine’s first issue began February of 2005. Before this issue was Ozarks Pride (2004) and The Ozark Star (2004). Follows is The Metro Star (2008). This magazine discusses topics of AIDs, education, politics, local and national civil rights of the LGBT community, and advice for relationships and places to visit. This collection is PDF searchable. Physical copies are also available to be seen at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center with permission. Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Star Media, Ltd Publisher An entity responsible for making the resource available Star Media, Ltd. Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource C.D. Ward Greg Steele Josh Aterovis Douglas Glenn John Patrick Michael Dee Kay Massey Paul Wortman Carlotta Carlisle Victor Gorin Greg Gatewood Libby Post Andrew Collins Donald Pile Ray Williams Michael Hinzmn Jack Fertig Liz Highleyman Chaz Ward Victor Gorin Format The file format, physical medium, or dimensions of the resource Image Online text PDF Language A language of the resource English Type The nature or genre of the resource magazine Coverage The spatial or temporal topic of the resource, the spatial applicability of the resource, or the jurisdiction under which the resource is relevant Southwest Missouri Western Arkansas Southeast Kansas Eastern Oklahoma The United States of America (50 states) Source A related resource from which the described resource is derived https://history.okeq.org/collections/show/19 Relation A related resource The Star Magazine, November 1, 2006; Volume 3, Issue 11 https://history.okeq.org/items/show/241 The Star Magazine, January 1, 2007; Volume 4, Issue 1 https://history.okeq.org/items/show/206 Identifier An unambiguous reference to the resource within a given context https://history.okeq.org/items/show/225 Advice Column Bamboo Lounge Bitter Girl books Border Activity Chelsea Boys classifieds Comic Strips Diversity Business Association gay motorcycle clubs HIV testing Holiday Gift Ideas horoscopes Jim Roth Lesbian Notions LesDine Supper Club of Tulsa marriage MCC church Miss Bamboo Pageant mixology Mr. Leather Our House Q Scopes Red Ribbon Star Advertisers Star Distributors Star Scene Too travel Tulsa GLBT community center news Uncle Mikey Walmart