26 20 666 https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/77d1f14cf698e0066aec528fdc2b96e2.pdf 8cdfcef029c77ac73f9dee8bb391f0e9 PDF Text Text eNews March 5th, 2013 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Be Our Voice, Give a Day First Thursday Welcome to the eNews. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is entirely supported by donations from the community. Be Our Voice, Give a Day allows us to spotlight our generous donors. Be Our Voice, Give a Day eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week of March 5th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Camp Fire Green Country Camp Fire Candy Sale Gamily Medicare Supplements Legal Clinic Equality Business Alliance LGBT Equality Day Tulsa Pride 2013 Equality Gala SAGE hosts TCC DREAM Act Oklahoma TMSL Native HIV/AIDS Days Homebuyer Class Tulsa Mister Leather EBA Sponsor Be Our Voice, Give a Day Denise Polonchak donated to OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign and sponsored the LGBT Helpline for yesterday Monday, March 4th, 2013 to celebrate her son's 31st Birthday. Happy Birthday Dusty and Thank You Denise for your support! Singles Night OUT COLORAMA Tulsa Growl Marriage Equality Week Within Our Reach Suzanne Westenhoefer Tulsa Two Spirit Council Oak Mens Chorale MOREcolor Art Show Red State Brief Imperial Court Pride Store Rainbow Library �Volunteer Find Us on Facebook OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, March 21st, 7:00 pm Be Our Voice, Give a Day First Thursday Art Reception Thursday, March 7th, 2013; 6:00 pm OkEq Art Exhibit The March OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Equality Center, will feature the Photographic Art of Steve Barrett and Cheryl Quetone, beginning with a reception on Thursday, March 7th, 2013 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. The March exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the photographic art of Steve Barrett and Cheryl Quetone Tai Chi Class Camp Fire Green Country Candy Sale Wednesday, March 6th, 2013; 5:30 - 7:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality will host a Camp Fire Green Country Candy Sale at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Wednesday, March 6th, 2013 starting at 5:30 pm. Camp Fire will be selling their world famous Chocolate Bars for $1 each. Camp Fire is an inclusive organization welcoming children, youth and adults regardless of race, religion, socioeconomic status, disability, sexual orientation or other aspect of diversity. Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members �Girl Scouts Cookie Sale Thursday, March 7th, 2013; 5:30 - 7:30 pm In support of Girl Scouts being an inclusion organization, Oklahomans for Equality will host the Girl Scouts of Eastern Oklahoma Cookie Sale at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Thursday, March 7th, 2013 starting at 5:30 pm. The cookies will cost $4.00 per box and will include: Thin Mints, Tagalongs (peanut butter & chocolate patties), Samoas (chocolate, caramel, coconut cookie), Do-si-dos (peanut butter sandwich cookie), Trefoils (a shortbread cookie) and Savannah Smiles (a zesty lemon cookie). GAMILY Meeting Saturday, March 9th, 2013; 3:00 pm OkEq welcomes our new intern, Samantha Checotah, who will be working with our GAMILY program which advocates and serves LGBT parents and their children. Gamily will have a Meet n Greet get together on Saturday, March 9th, 2013 at 3:00 pm at the Equality Center. SAGE hosts Medicare Supplements Made Easy Tuesday, March 12th, 2013; 10:00 am SAGE Tulsa will host Al Triggs (Creative Marketing Director for Legacy Insurance Advisors) for an informational presentation on Medicare Supplements and information on where you can get the most value for your money. Do you find the descriptions about supplement programs confusing? Do you fee you are paying too much money? Are your medications too expensive? Lunch will be provided. Please RVSP to mary.jones@okeq.org. Spectrum Knits 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Steve Moeller with Floral Haven Memorial Gardens Legal Aid Services Legal Clinic Tuesday, March 12th, 2013; 6:00 pm Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma's next Legal Clinic at the Equality Center is on Tuesday, March 12th, 2013, at 6:00 pm. This free to the public legal clinic will address Oklahoma's Juvenile Code & Juvenile Law Issues. The clinic's guest speaker will be Ivan Orndorff, Esq. and Craig Reffner, Esq. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by Ashley Bedford & �James Prather Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The March Monthly EBA Meeting will be on Wednesday, March 13th, 2013 at 6:00 pm at the Equality Center. This meeting is open to members and non-members, however you must be a paid member to speak or vote on agenda items. This is your chance to steer the organization so all members are encouraged to attend. If you have an item you want on the agenda, please have it sent to eba@okeq.org by Monday March 11th. The March Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, March 20th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by The Street Law Firm. Please RSVP and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and non-members alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. The Street Law Firm 400 S. Boston Ave. Suite 1100W, Tulsa, OK 74103 4th Annual LGBT Equality Day Wednesday March 6th, 2013; 9:00 am - 2:00 pm The Equality Network (TEN) invites all LGBT and allied people from across the state for the 4th Annual LGBT Equality Day at the Capitol. Nothing shapes legislators' attitudes more than face-to-face contact with their constituents. Wednesday, March 6th will begin with a brief lobbying training session at 9:00 am in Room 25. TEN will provide information on how to effectively interact with your representatives as well as talking points for target legislation. TEN encourages you to set up an appointment with your state representative and state senator in advance to ensure that you will be able to meet with them on Equality Day. To find your representatives, click here. SAGE (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Youth Program Tulsa Pride 2013 Diversity & Dignity Group Tulsa Pride is now accepting registrations for Volunteers and Exhibitors, Food Vendors and Parade Entries at www.tulsapride.org for Tulsa Pride 2013. Pride Planning Meeting Thursday, March 28th, 2013; 7:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center Ages 12 to 17 LGBTQ youth. Educational and Activity peer group Facilitator Aidan Steiner Email asteiner@yst.org or call 918.382.4429 for more information �Tulsa Pride will have a planning meeting Thursday, March 28th at 7:30 pm at the Equality Center. Meetings are open to the public and anybody interested in helping is encouraged to attend. Pride Idol Saturday, March 30th, 2013; 9:00 pm New Age Renegade 1649 S Main St Calling all entertainers! Here's your shot. The winner of Tulsa Pride's Drag Idol will win a spot on the Tulsa Pride Main Stage during the Tulsa Pride Street Festival. Drag, live vocals, spoken word, whatever! One night of competition, Saturday March 30th at New Age Renegade, Hosted by Tabitha Taylor. For rules and regulations and for additional information visit Tulsa Pride on Facebook . 6th Annual Turn About Show Monday, April 1st, 2013; 8:00 pm Club Majestic 124 N Boston Ave Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Come out and see your favorite LGBT bar owners and staff like you've never seen them before. Monday April 1st, Doors open at 8:00 pm, No Cover Charge! Raffles and Door Prizes. Proceeds benefit Tulsa Pride. 18 to Enter, 21 to Drink! Self Defense Class Save the Date! OkEq Equality Gala Saturday, May 4th, 2013 The Annual OkEq Equality Gala has a new home on Facebook Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. �Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Rainbow Writers Every other Wednesday 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend And be sure to join us on Saturday, May 4th, 2013! www.okeq.org/gala SAGE hosts TCC Center Tour Tuesday, March 26th, 2013; 10:30 am SAGE Tulsa will host a Tulsa Community College class tour of the Equality Center on Tuesday, March 26th, 2013 at 10:30 am. Food will be provided and the TCC students will join the SAGE members for intergenerational discussions. Email lucas.green@okeq.org if you would like to attend. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Saturdays on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are �required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org DREAM ACT Oklahoma Saturday and Sunday, March 16th and 17th, 2013 Oklahomans for Equality will host a training session for DREAM Act Oklahoma at the Equality Center on Saturday March 16th from 6:00 - 10:00 pm and Sunday March 17th from 9:00 am - 6:00 pm. DAOK is excited to bring together potential leaders from all around Oklahoma to decide the next phase of the immigration youth movement. The retreat will set the direction and focus on what Oklahoma needs. DAOK wants to outline a strategic process and listen to you. DREAM Act Oklahoma is a youth-lead organization with an emphasis on civil rights for the undocumented community, trying to eradicate fear, help educate and advocate for a better life and a brighter future. For more information on DREAM Act OK or to sign up for the training, contact Ivan Godinez at Ivan@dreamactok.org or visit dreamactok.org Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Tulsa LGBT Softball Keeps Growing Tulsa Metro Softball League is kicking off their 5th Spring Season on April 7th, 2013. To date, the league has 14 registered teams and expects to have more than 160 players. They're inviting everyone to get in on the action! TMSL's annual Spring Recruitment Clinic will be held on Saturday, March 9th, 2013 from 10:00 am - 2:00 pm at Lantz Park. If you have ever wanted to play, this is the way to find a team. All players, new and returning, that are looking for a spring team should attend. At the clinics, players will go through some drills, learn about the league and meet coaches to be placed on a team. Lantz Park is located at 821 N. Yale Ave in Tulsa. TMSL also has several sponsorship opportunities available for their upcoming spring season and their two big tournaments this summer. To learn more about sponsorship and to get signed up to play visit TulsaMetroSoftball.com Native American HIV/AIDS Awareness Day Wednesday, March 20th, 2013; 10:00 am - 3:00 pm March 20th is Native American HIV/AIDS Awareness Day and the Creek Nation HIV/AIDS Project will be having HIV testing at the Equality Center Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also �from 10:00 am - 3:00 pm. The day will also include speakers, light food and beverages, information booths with give-a-ways. H.O.P.E. Testing will provide tests from 4:00 - 8:00 pm. Sponsored by Creek Nation HIV/AIDS Project H.O.P.E Testing Clinic H.E.A.R.T. Native American Coalition of Green country strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Homebuyer Education Class Thursday, March 28th, 2013; 6:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will be hosting a free Homebuyer Education Class on Thursday, March 28th, 2013 at 6:30 pm. Join us to learn about the home buying process. The class will be conducted by Shane Allbee (Theinsurancecrew), Anthony Carr (Keller Williams Realty) and Jason Dieckman (Bank of the Wichitas Mortgage Company). There is no admission fee for this informational class. Learn the basic steps to homeownership: Lender/Realtor/Insurance and the basics to knowing "Your Credit". The class will include a Q&A session. Participants will be provided with a packet to get started. Seating will be limited so send an RSVP to OkEq Program Coordinator Mary Jones mary.jones@okeq.org. Tulsa Mr. Leather 2013 Friday and Saturday, March 8th & 9th, 2013 Tulsa's Premier Gay Leather Event - the Tulsa Mr. Leather Contest and Event will take place March 8th & 9th, 2013 at the Tulsa Eagle, 1338 E. 3rd St, just east of Downtown Tulsa. The Event begins on Friday, March 8th at 10:00 pm with a Meet n Greet Mixer at the Tulsa Eagle and follows up with the Contest at 10:00 pm on Saturday the 9th of March. The event is open and welcoming to all interested fans and friends. Part of the $5 cover charge will start the charity fund that will be raised throughout the year. For more information email: tmlproducers@gmail.com The eNews for the week of March 5th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 12 - 9 pm Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. �Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Flying Solo - Singles Night OUT 2nd and 4th Fridays; 7:00 - 8:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center OkEq is hosting a new singles group for the LGBT community looking to meet new people and try new experiences. Meets on the 2nd and 4th Fridays of every month. Hosted by PENNY SLOTS AND JIMMIE NEUTRON, the Superheroes of Love. Event will be ages 21 and over. Next meet is Friday, March 8th, 2013 COLORAMA presented by Tulsa Lambda Bowling Friday, March 8th, 2013; 8:00 pm Sheridan Lanes 3121 South Sheridan Road Tulsa, OK The Tulsa Lambda League bowlers present COLORAMA at Sheridan lanes. Friday, March 8th, 2013 at 8:00 pm. Everyone is invited to come out and join in for a fun night of bowling, and to win some cash. COLORAMA is a fundraiser for the Jackpot Oklahoma Lambda Tournament (JOLT), Tulsa's only annual Gay bowling tournament which brings in Gay & Lesbian bowlers throughout the nation to Tulsa. You don't need to be a league bowler to participate, so any skill level is welcomed. The cost for COLORAMA is $20. Be prepared to have a ball. Tulsa Growl 2013 May 3rd - 5th, 2013 The Green Country Bears are proud to sponsor Tulsa Growl II on May 3rd 5th, 2013. Tulsa's Best Bear Run will be an event filled weekend so be sure to visit www.tulsagrowl.com and check out the entire schedule and to register. Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org �Marriage Equality Week March 25th - 30th, 2013 Within Our Reach Saturday, March 30th, 2013; 1:00 - 5:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality in collaboration with Family & Children's Services will be offering "Within Our Reach" a free, fun, educational couples relationship enhancement workshop. It is intended to help couples build on existing strengths and teaches important skills to create safe and stable relationships. In addition, couples will learn how to communicate effectively, work as a team to solve problems, manage conflicts without damaging closeness, and preserve and enhance love, commitment and friendship. Pre-registration is required. For more information and to register, please call Carrie at 918.560.1243 or email clitttle@fcsok.org Suzanne Westenhoefer Saturday, April 13th, 2013 8:00 pm IDL Ballroom 230 E 1st St Tulsa, OK 74103 Come on out to the IDL Ballroom in Downtown Tulsa and enjoy a night with the Funniest. Lesbian. Ever. Suzanne Westenhoefer. She's bad... and she knows it. She's also rip-roaring hilarity wrapped up with a silver bow and a gift tag that says, "Just Try Me". Doors open at 7:00 pm Show starts at 8:00 pm Seating is limited For more info and to purchase tickets, call 918.798.3647 or visit here Proceeds benefit Therapetics Service Dogs of Oklahoma. Therapetics works to enhance the lives of individuals living with physical disabilities by providing them with highly trained service dogs. For information on Therapetics visit www.therapetics.org. Tulsa Two Spirits Society Gathering April 19th - 22nd, 2013 Osage Hills State Park 2131 Osage Hills State Park Road Pawhuska, OK 74056 The gathering's program will include workshops on traditional and �contemporary Native American culture, Pow Wows, stompdancing, celebrations, Native faith, and other related activities. No alcohol, drugs or guns will be allowed. The Tulsa Two Spirits Society is "a non-profit Native American LGBT Collective. We seek to affirm and embody positive traditional and modern Two Spirit identities, and in so doing, be valued members of our communities". For more information or to register for the gathering, please visit t h e Tulsa Two Spirits Gathering section on the OkEq website or download the registration form here. Council Oak Mens Chorale Rehearsals continue on Mondays; 7:00 pm The Vocal Pride Foundation is excited to announce that Council Oak Mens Chorale rehearsals for the summer 2013 season have begun. Our performance ensemble had great success last season with the Divo/Diva summer concert, a stellar performance in Denver, Colorado at the GALA 2012 Festival, and our fall Zinga! performances with clarinetist Stacy C. Smith. Council Oak Men's Chorale Summer Season 2013 "DONNA SUMMER/WHITNEY HOUSTON - A TRIBUTE" with celebrated soloist Phena Hackett, Soprano Rehearsals continue on Mondays Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave Fellowship Hall 7:00 to 9:00 pm. Performances are Tuesday, June 4th and Friday June 7th, 2013 at Lorton Performance Center - TU Campus www.counciloak.org MOREcolor Artist Submissions Opening Night June 13th, 2013 Calling all interested artists ages 18 and over, we are now open for submissions for the annual MOREcolor Fine Arts Exhibition 2013, a highly anticipated feature of the Tulsa Pride celebration. We strive to be very artist friendly, while providing a venue for cutting edge artistic vision, expressed through all media, including performance and installation creations. The Festive and always surprising Opening Night reception will be held June 13th, 2013 at the Dennis R Neil Equality Center. It is free and open to the �public. For the 1st time this year, there will be a Juror's award as well as a People's Choice award. For submission details go to MOREcolorart.com "Red State Brief" Filed in Marriage Cases at US Supreme Court Oklahomans for Equality today joined the Utah Pride Center, Campaign for Southern Equality and twenty-five other organizations in filing an amicus brief with the United States Supreme Court. The brief urges the justices to strike down a wide range of anti-gay laws. The brief calls on the Court to uphold appellate court rulings in both the Defense of Marriage and Proposition 8 cases currently pending. Oklahomans for Equality joined Utah Pride in this "Red State Brief" to detail the long history of anti-gay legislation in many states around the nation that denigrates the LGBT community. "This brief is about arguing on behalf of the millions of Americans who feel hopeless that legislation on a state level will ever advance their cause," said Utah Pride Attorney and former Bush Administration United States Attorney Brett Tolman. The brief contends that many local state laws are designed to routinely deny gay citizens basic civil rights, and many state codes are woven in a tangle that can only be unraveled by the courts. Read the brief here Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events I.C.A.O. - Coronation VI March 7th - 10th, 2013 Regent Emperor V Philip "Papa Scrappy" Saint Johns & Regent Empress V Kris Kohl & The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Invite you to Coronation VI "A Night at the USO with Designing Women and a Cast of Stars" Thursday, March 7th Meet and Greet at Tulsa Eagle @ 10 PM, No Cover Friday, March 8th Hospitality Noon to 3 at Host Hotel Out of Town Show - Host Hotel - Doors at 6, Show at 7 $15 - includes bus tour Bus leaves hotel at 9 - drag welcome but not required Hospitality Midnight to 3 Must have wrist band for bus tour and hospitality Friday night. �Saturday, March 9th Hospitality - 8 am to 3 pm Woman's Conference 1 pm - Host Hotel (Open to the Public, Free) Coronation VI - Host Hotel - $45 (Dress is Theme or Formal) Doors / Meet and Greet at 5 pm, Dinner at 6 pm and Ceremony at 7 pm Hospitality - 1 hour after Coronation to 3 am Sunday, March 10th Victory Brunch - Host Hotel - $25 Doors at 10:30, Brunch at 11 Shot Party - 3 pm - 5 pm Bamboo Lounge - No Cover Victory Show - 7 pm - ? Bamboo Lounge - No Cover Hotel, Tickets and Program Advertising Information are available on theImperial Court of All Oklahoma website I.C.A.O. is a 501(c)3 Non Profit Organization for more information contact ICAO on Facebook or impcourtok@gmail.com Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2012 T-Shirts are only $5! Get them now before they are gone forever! Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Anything but Straight: Unmasking the Scandals and Lies Behind the Ex-Gay Myth' by Wayne Besen You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center �Nationally known activist Wayne Besen spent four years examining the phenomenon of "ex-gay" ministries and reparative therapies-interviewing leaders, attending conferences, and visiting ministries undercover as he accumulated hundreds of hours of research. The result is Anything but Straight: Unmasking the Scandals and Lies Behind the Ex-Gay Myth, a groundbreaking exposé of the controversial movement that's revered by independent religious groups and reviled by gay and lesbian organizations. The book presents a historical perspective on the dispute, examining "ex-gay" groups such as Love In Action, Exodus International, Homosexuals Anonymous, and profiling a cast of characters that includes Pat Robertson, the Rev. Jerry Falwell, "ex-gay" poster boy John Paulk, National Association of Research and Therapy of Homosexuality activist Richard Cohen, and psychiatrist Dr. Robert Spitzer. An in-depth, well-researched, and historically significant account, Anything but Straight is full of startling facts and alarming surprises. Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org � Email A resource containing textual messages and binary attachments sent electronically from one person to another or one person to many people. Email Body The main body of the email, including all replied and forwarded text and headers <div class="page"> <div class="section"> <div class="layoutArea"> <div class="column"> Welcome to the eNews. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is entirely supported by donations from the community. Be Our Voice, Give a Day allows us to spotlight our generous donors. Be Our Voice, Give a Day eNews Staff Oklahomans for <div class="page"> <div class="section"> <div class="section"> <div class="layoutArea"> <div class="column"> The eNews for the week of March 5th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: </div> </div> <div class="layoutArea"> <div class="column"> Be Our Voice, Give a Day Denise Polonchak donated to OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign and sponsored the LGBT Helpline for yesterday Monday, March 4th, 2013 to celebrate her son's 31st Birthday. Happy Birthday Dusty and Thank You Denise for your support! </div> </div> </div> <div class="section"> <div class="layoutArea"> <div class="column"> eNews March 5th, 2013 </div> </div> </div> <div class="section"> <div class="layoutArea"> <div class="column"> In This Issue EBA Sponsor Be Our Voice, Give a Day First Thursday Camp Fire Green Country Camp Fire Candy Sale Gamily Medicare Supplements Legal Clinic <div class="page"> <div class="section"> <div class="layoutArea"> <div class="column"> Be Our Voice, Give a Day First Thursday Art Reception Thursday, March 7th, 2013; 6:00 pm The March OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Equality Center, will feature the Photographic Art of Steve Barrett and Cheryl Quetone, beginning with a reception on Thursday, March 7th, 2013 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Camp Fire Green Country Candy Sale Wednesday, March 6th, 2013; 5:30 - 7:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality will host a Camp Fire Green Country Candy Sale at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Wednesday, March 6th, 2013 starting at 5:30 pm. Camp Fire will be selling their world famous Chocolate Bars for $1 each. Camp Fire is an inclusive organization welcoming children, youth and adults regardless of race, religion, socioeconomic status, disability, sexual orientation or other aspect of diversity. <div class="page"> <div class="section"> <div class="layoutArea"> <div class="column"> Girl Scouts Cookie Sale Thursday, March 7th, 2013; 5:30 - 7:30 pm In support of Girl Scouts being an inclusion organization, Oklahomans for Equality will host the Girl Scouts of Eastern Oklahoma Cookie Sale at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Thursday, March 7th, 2013 starting at 5:30 pm. The cookies will cost $4.00 per box and will include: Thin Mints, Tagalongs (peanut butter & chocolate patties), Samoas (chocolate, caramel, coconut cookie), Do-si-dos (peanut butter sandwich cookie), Trefoils (a shortbread cookie) and Savannah Smiles (a zesty lemon cookie). GAMILY Meeting Saturday, March 9th, 2013; 3:00 pm OkEq welcomes our new intern, Samantha Checotah, who will be working with our GAMILY program which advocates and serves LGBT parents and their children. Gamily will have a Meet n Greet get together on Saturday, March 9th, 2013 at 3:00 pm at the Equality Center. SAGE hosts Medicare Supplements Made Easy Tuesday, March 12th, 2013; 10:00 am SAGE Tulsa will host Al Triggs (Creative Marketing Director for Legacy Insurance Advisors) for an informational presentation on Medicare Supplements and information on where you can get the most value for your money. Do you find the descriptions about supplement programs confusing? Do you fee you are paying too much money? Are your medications too expensive? Lunch will be provided. Please RVSP to mary.jones@okeq.org. Legal Aid Services Legal Clinic Tuesday, March 12th, 2013; 6:00 pm Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma's next Legal Clinic at the Equality Center is on Tuesday, March 12th, 2013, at 6:00 pm. This free to the public legal clinic will address Oklahoma's Juvenile Code & Juvenile Law Issues. The clinic's guest speaker will be Ivan Orndorff, Esq. and Craig Reffner, Esq. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events <div class="page"> <div class="section"> <div class="layoutArea"> <div class="column"> Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The March Monthly EBA Meeting will be on Wednesday, March 13th, 2013 at 6:00 pm at the Equality Center. This meeting is open to members and non-members, however you must be a paid member to speak or vote on agenda items. This is your chance to steer the organization so all members are encouraged to attend. If you have an item you want on the agenda, please have it sent to eba@okeq.org by Monday March 11th. The March Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, March 20th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by The Street Law Firm. Please RSVP and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and non-members alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. The Street Law Firm 400 S. Boston Ave. Suite 1100W, Tulsa, OK 74103 4th Annual LGBT Equality Day Wednesday March 6th, 2013; 9:00 am - 2:00 pm The Equality Network (TEN) invites all LGBT and allied people from across the state for the 4th Annual LGBT Equality Day at the Capitol. Nothing shapes legislators' attitudes more than face-to-face contact with their constituents. Wednesday, March 6th will begin with a brief lobbying training session at 9:00 am in Room 25. TEN will provide information on how to effectively interact with your representatives as well as talking points for target legislation. TEN encourages you to set up an appointment with your state representative and state senator in advance to ensure that you will be able to meet with them on Equality Day. To find your representatives, click here. Tulsa Pride 2013 Tulsa Pride is now accepting registrations for Volunteers and Exhibitors, Food Vendors and Parade Entries atwww.tulsapride.org for Tulsa Pride 2013. Pride Planning Meeting Thursday, March 28th, 2013; 7:30 pm </div> </div> <div class="layoutArea"> <div class="column"> Dennis R Neill Equality Center <div class="page"> <div class="section"> <div class="layoutArea"> <div class="column"> Tulsa Pride will have a planning meeting Thursday, March 28th at 7:30 pm at the Equality Center. Meetings are open to the public and anybody interested in helping is encouraged to attend. Pride Idol Saturday, March 30th, 2013; 9:00 pm New Age Renegade 1649 S Main St Calling all entertainers! Here's your shot. The winner of Tulsa Pride's Drag Idol will win a spot on the Tulsa Pride Main Stage during the Tulsa Pride Street Festival. Drag, live vocals, spoken word, whatever! One night of competition, Saturday March 30th at New Age Renegade, Hosted by Tabitha Taylor. For rules and regulations and for additional information visit Tulsa Pride on Facebook. 6th Annual Turn About Show Monday, April 1st, 2013; 8:00 pm Club Majestic 124 N Boston Ave Come out and see your favorite LGBT bar owners and staff like you've never seen them before. Monday April 1st, Doors open at 8:00 pm, No Cover Charge! Raffles and Door Prizes. Proceeds benefit Tulsa Pride. 18 to Enter, 21 to Drink! Save the Date! OkEq Equality Gala Saturday, May 4th, 2013 The Annual OkEq Equality Gala has a new home on Facebook <div class="page"> <div class="section"> <div class="layoutArea"> <div class="column"> And be sure to join us on Saturday, May 4th, 2013! www.okeq.org/gala SAGE hosts TCC Center Tour Tuesday, March 26th, 2013; 10:30 am SAGE Tulsa will host a Tulsa Community College class tour of the Equality Center on Tuesday, March 26th, 2013 at 10:30 am. Food will be provided and the TCC students will join the SAGE members for intergenerational discussions. Email lucas.green@okeq.org if you would like to attend. <div class="page"> <div class="section"> <div class="layoutArea"> <div class="column"> DREAM ACT Oklahoma Saturday and Sunday, March 16th and 17th, 2013 Oklahomans for Equality will host a training session for DREAM Act Oklahoma at the Equality Center on Saturday March 16th from 6:00 - 10:00 pm and Sunday March 17th from 9:00 am - 6:00 pm. DAOK is excited to bring together potential leaders from all around Oklahoma to decide the next phase of the immigration youth movement. The retreat will set the direction and focus on what Oklahoma needs. DAOK wants to outline a strategic process and listen to you. DREAM Act Oklahoma is a youth-lead organization with an emphasis on civil rights for the undocumented community, trying to eradicate fear, help educate and advocate for a better life and a brighter future. For more information on DREAM Act OK or to sign up for the training, contact Ivan Godinez at Ivan@dreamactok.org or visit dreamactok.org Tulsa LGBT Softball Keeps Growing Tulsa Metro Softball League is kicking off their 5th Spring Season on April 7th, 2013. To date, the league has 14 registered teams and expects to have more than 160 players. They're inviting everyone to get in on the action! TMSL's annual Spring Recruitment Clinic will be held on Saturday, March 9th, 2013 from 10:00 am - 2:00 pm at Lantz Park. If you have ever wanted to play, this is the way to find a team. All players, new and returning, that are looking for a spring team should attend. At the clinics, players will go through some drills, learn about the league and meet coaches to be placed on a team. Lantz Park is located at 821 N. Yale Ave in Tulsa. TMSL also has several sponsorship opportunities available for their upcoming spring season and their two big tournaments this summer. To learn more about sponsorship and to get signed up to play visit TulsaMetroSoftball.com Native American HIV/AIDS Awareness Day Wednesday, March 20th, 2013; 10:00 am - 3:00 pm </div> </div> <div class="layoutArea"> <div class="column"> March 20th is Native American HIV/AIDS Awareness Day and the Creek Nation HIV/AIDS Project will be having HIV testing at the Equality Center <div class="page"> <div class="section"> <div class="layoutArea"> <div class="column"> from 10:00 am - 3:00 pm. The day will also include speakers, light food and beverages, information booths with give-a-ways. H.O.P.E. Testing will provide tests from 4:00 - 8:00 pm. Sponsored by Creek Nation HIV/AIDS Project H.O.P.E Testing Clinic H.E.A.R.T. Native American Coalition of Green country Homebuyer Education Class Thursday, March 28th, 2013; 6:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will be hosting a free Homebuyer Education Class on Thursday, March 28th, 2013 at 6:30 pm. Join us to learn about the home buying process. The class will be conducted by Shane Allbee (Theinsurancecrew), Anthony Carr ( Keller Williams Realty) and Jason Dieckman (Bank of the Wichitas Mortgage Company). There is no admission fee for this informational class. Learn the basic steps to homeownership: Lender/Realtor/Insurance and the basics to knowing "Your Credit". The class will include a Q&A session. Participants will be provided with a packet to get started. Seating will be limited so send an RSVP to OkEq Program Coordinator Mary Jones mary.jones@okeq.org. Tulsa Mr. Leather 2013 Friday and Saturday, March 8th & 9th, 2013 Tulsa's Premier Gay Leather Event - the Tulsa Mr. Leather Contest and Event will take place March 8th & 9th, 2013 at the Tulsa Eagle, 1338 E. 3rd St, just east of Downtown Tulsa. The Event begins on Friday, March 8th at 10:00 pm with a Meet n Greet Mixer at the Tulsa Eagle and follows up with the Contest at 10:00 pm on Saturday the 9th of March. The event is open and welcoming to all interested fans and friends. Part of the $5 cover charge will start the charity fund that will be raised throughout the year. For more information email: tmlproducers@gmail.com The eNews for the week of March 5th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: <div class="page"> <div class="section"> <div class="layoutArea"> <div class="column"> Flying Solo - Singles Night OUT 2nd and 4th Fridays; 7:00 - 8:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center OkEq is hosting a new singles group for the LGBT community looking to meet new people and try new experiences. Meets on the 2nd and 4th Fridays of every month. Hosted by PENNY SLOTS AND JIMMIE NEUTRON, the Superheroes of Love. Event will be ages 21 and over. Next meet is Friday, March 8th, 2013 COLORAMA presented by Tulsa Lambda Bowling Friday, March 8th, 2013; 8:00 pm Sheridan Lanes 3121 South Sheridan Road Tulsa, OK The Tulsa Lambda League bowlers present COLORAMA at Sheridan lanes. Friday, March 8th, 2013 at 8:00 pm. Everyone is invited to come out and join in for a fun night of bowling, and to win some cash. COLORAMA is a fundraiser for the Jackpot Oklahoma Lambda Tournament (JOLT), Tulsa's only annual Gay bowling tournament which brings in Gay & Lesbian bowlers throughout the nation to Tulsa. You don't need to be a league bowler to participate, so any skill level is welcomed. The cost for COLORAMA is $20. Be prepared to have a ball. Tulsa Growl 2013 May 3rd - 5th, 2013 The Green Country Bears are proud to sponsor Tulsa Growl II on May 3rd - 5th, 2013. Tulsa's Best Bear Run will be an event filled weekend so be sure to visit www.tulsagrowl.com and check out the entire schedule and to register. <div class="page"> <div class="section"> <div class="layoutArea"> <div class="column"> Marriage Equality Week March 25th - 30th, 2013 Within Our Reach Saturday, March 30th, 2013; 1:00 - 5:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality in collaboration with Family & Children's Services will be offering "Within Our Reach" a free, fun, educational couples relationship enhancement workshop. It is intended to help couples build on existing strengths and teaches important skills to create safe and stable relationships. In addition, couples will learn how to communicate effectively, work as a team to solve problems, manage conflicts without damaging closeness, and preserve and enhance love, commitment and friendship. Pre-registration is required. For more information and to register, please call Carrie at 918.560.1243 or email clitttle@fcsok.org Suzanne Westenhoefer Saturday, April 13th, 2013 8:00 pm IDL Ballroom 230 E 1st St Tulsa, OK 74103 Come on out to the IDL Ballroom in Downtown Tulsa and enjoy a night with the Funniest. Lesbian. Ever. Suzanne Westenhoefer. She's bad... and she knows it. She's also rip-roaring hilarity wrapped up with a silver bow and a gift tag that says, "Just Try Me". Doors open at 7:00 pm Show starts at 8:00 pm Seating is limited For more info and to purchase tickets, call 918.798.3647 or visit here Proceeds benefit Therapetics Service Dogs of Oklahoma. Therapetics works to enhance the lives of individuals living with physical disabilities by providing them with highly trained service dogs. For information on Therapetics visit www.therapetics.org. Tulsa Two Spirits Society Gathering April 19th - 22nd, 2013 Osage Hills State Park 2131 Osage Hills State Park Road Pawhuska, OK 74056 </div> </div> <div class="layoutArea"> <div class="column"> The gathering's program will include workshops on traditional and <div class="page"> <div class="section"> <div class="layoutArea"> <div class="column"> contemporary Native American culture, Pow Wows, stompdancing, celebrations, Native faith, and other related activities. No alcohol, drugs or guns will be allowed. The Tulsa Two Spirits Society is "a non-profit Native American LGBT Collective. We seek to affirm and embody positive traditional and modern Two Spirit identities, and in so doing, be valued members of our communities". For more information or to register for the gathering, please visit </div> </div> <div class="layoutArea"> <div class="column"> t h e Tulsa Two Spirits Gathering section on the OkEq download the registration form here. Council Oak Mens Chorale Rehearsals continue on Mondays; 7:00 pm The Vocal Pride Foundation is excited to announce that Council Oak Mens Chorale rehearsals for the summer 2013 season have begun. Our performance ensemble had great success last season with the Divo/Diva summer concert, a stellar performance in Denver, Colorado at the GALA 2012 Festival, and our fall Zinga! performances with clarinetist Stacy C. Smith. </div> <div class="column"> website or </div> </div> <div class="layoutArea"> <div class="column"> Council Oak Men's Chorale Summer Season 2013 "DONNA SUMMER/WHITNEY HOUSTON - A TRIBUTE" with celebrated soloist Phena Hackett, Soprano Rehearsals continue on Mondays Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave Fellowship Hall 7:00 to 9:00 pm. Performances are Tuesday, June 4th and Friday June 7th, 2013 at Lorton Performance Center - TU Campus www.counciloak.org MOREcolor Artist Submissions Opening Night June 13th, 2013 Calling all interested artists ages 18 and over, we are now open for submissions for the annual MOREcolor Fine Arts Exhibition 2013, a highly anticipated feature of the Tulsa Pride celebration. We strive to be very artist friendly, while providing a venue for cutting edge artistic vision, expressed through all media, including performance and installation creations. The Festive and always surprising Opening Night reception will be held June 13th, 2013 at the Dennis R Neil Equality Center. It is free and open to the <div class="page"> <div class="section"> <div class="layoutArea"> <div class="column"> public. For the 1st time this year, there will be a Juror's award as well as a People's Choice award. For submission details go to MOREcolorart.com "Red State Brief" Filed in Marriage Cases at US Supreme Court Oklahomans for Equality today joined the Utah Pride Center, Campaign for Southern Equality and twenty-five other organizations in filing an amicus brief with the United States Supreme Court. The brief urges the justices to strike down a wide range of anti-gay laws. The brief calls on the Court to uphold appellate court rulings in both the Defense ofMarriage and Proposition 8 cases currently pending. Oklahomans for Equality joined Utah Pride in this "Red State Brief" to detail the long history of anti-gay legislation in many states around the nation that denigrates the LGBT community. "This brief is about arguing on behalf of the millions of Americans who feel hopeless that legislation on a state level will ever advance their cause," said Utah Pride Attorney and former Bush Administration United States Attorney Brett Tolman. The brief contends that many local state laws are designed to routinely deny gay citizens basic civil rights, and many state codes are woven in a tangle that can only be unraveled by the courts. Read the brief here Imperial Court of All Oklahoma </div> </div> <div class="layoutArea"> <div class="column"> Upcoming Events </div> </div> <div class="layoutArea"> <div class="column"> I.C.A.O. - Coronation VI March 7th - 10th, 2013 </div> </div> <div class="layoutArea"> <div class="column"> Regent Emperor V Philip "Papa Scrappy" Saint Johns & Regent Empress V Kris Kohl & The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Invite you to Coronation VI "A Night at the USO with Designing Women and a Cast of Stars" Thursday, March 7th Meet and Greet at Tulsa Eagle @ 10 PM, No Cover Friday, March 8th Hospitality Noon to 3 at Host Hotel Out of Town Show - Host Hotel - Doors at 6, Show at 7 $15 - includes bus tour Bus leaves hotel at 9 - drag welcome but not required Hospitality Midnight to 3 Must have wrist band for bus tour and hospitality Friday night. <div class="page"> <div class="section"> <div class="layoutArea"> <div class="column"> Saturday, March 9th Hospitality - 8 am to 3 pm Woman's Conference 1 pm - Host Hotel (Open to the Public, Free) Coronation VI - Host Hotel - $45 (Dress is Theme or Formal) Doors / Meet and Greet at 5 pm, Dinner at 6 pm and Ceremony at 7 pm Hospitality - 1 hour after Coronation to 3 am Sunday, March 10th Victory Brunch - Host Hotel - $25 Doors at 10:30, Brunch at 11 Shot Party - 3 pm - 5 pm Bamboo Lounge - No Cover Victory Show - 7 pm - ? Bamboo Lounge - No Cover Hotel, Tickets and Program Advertising Information are available on theImperial Court of All Oklahoma website I.C.A.O. is a 501(c)3 Non Profit Organization for more information contact ICAO on Facebook or impcourtok@gmail.com Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2012 T-Shirts are only $5! Get them now before they are gone forever! Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Anything but Straight: Unmasking the Scandals and Lies Behind the Ex-Gay Myth' by Wayne Besen You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center <div class="page"> <div class="section"> <div class="layoutArea"> <div class="column"> Nationally known activist Wayne Besen spent four years examining the phenomenon of "ex-gay" ministries and reparative therapies-interviewing leaders, attending conferences, and visiting ministries undercover as he accumulated hundreds of hours of research. The result is Anything but Straight: Unmasking the Scandals and Lies Behind the Ex-Gay Myth, a groundbreaking exposé of the controversial movement that's revered by independent religious groups and reviled by gay and lesbian organizations. The book presents a historical perspective on the dispute, examining "ex-gay" groups such as Love In Action, Exodus International, Homosexuals Anonymous, and profiling a cast of characters that includes Pat Robertson, the Rev. Jerry Falwell, "ex-gay" poster boy John Paulk, National Association of Research and Therapy of Homosexuality activist Richard Cohen, and psychiatrist Dr. Robert Spitzer. An in-depth, well-researched, and historically significant account, Anything but Straight is full of startling facts and alarming surprises. 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ICAO Imperial Court of all Oklahoma Imperial Court of All Oklahoma (ICAO) Jackpot Oklahoma Lambda Tournament Jackpot Oklahoma Lambda Tournament (JOLT) JOLT Lambda Al Anon Lambda Al-Anon Lambda Bowling League Legal Aid Services Legal Aid Services Legal Clinic Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma Legal Clinic LGBT Equality Day LGBT Softball marriage equality Marriage Equality Week Medicare Medicare Supplements MOREcolor MOREcolor exhibition MOREcolor Fine Arts MOREcolor Fine Arts Exhibition Mr. Leather Mr. Leather 2013 Mr. Leather Contest Nancy McDonald Rainbow Library Native American Coalition of Green County Native American HIV/AIDS Awareness Day Native Americans OkEq OKEQ EBA OKEQ Equality Business Alliance OkEq Equality Center OKEQ Weekly eNews OKEQ weekly news Oklahomans for Equality Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ) Pride Idol Pride Store Prime Timers Rainbow Writers SAGE Service and Advocacy for Gay Elders services & Services and Advocacy for Gay Lesbian Bisexual and Transgender Elders Spectrum Knits Suzanne Westenhoefer TAPT TCC TCC Center TMSL Tulsa Area Prime Timers Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) Tulsa Community College Tulsa Community College (TCC) Tulsa Growl Tulsa Growl 2013 Tulsa Lambda Bowling Tulsa Lambda Bowling League Tulsa LGBT Softball Tulsa Metro Softball League Tulsa Metro Softball League (TMSL) Tulsa Mr. Leather Tulsa Mr. Leather 2013 Tulsa Mr. Leather Contest Tulsa Pride Tulsa Pride 2013 Tulsa Pride Festival Tulsa Two Spirits Society Tulsa Two Spirits Society Gathering Turn About Show Volunteer Tulsa Within Our Reach Workforce Oklahoma Access Point https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/eea6980602d82a5ba99d5038907d2108.pdf 3a0ce5b078acf0261afa34150f3c802e PDF Text Text Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 2013 Equality Gala Saturday, May 4th, 2012 at the Tulsa Convention Center Tulsa Ballroom 100 Civic Center Cocktails and the Silent Auction begin at 6:30 pm Dinner and Program at 8:00 pm Concert at 10:00 pm Eric Himan Band performing the music of Queen �Our Gala Chair Kirk Holt and Honorary Chairs Miranda & Philip Kaiser invite you to join over 600 Oklahomans for dinner, a live concert and a program honoring this year's award recipients: Paul Allen for the Lifetime Achievement Award TulsaPeople Magazine for the Media Advocate Award Rev. Nancy Eggen for the Russell Bennett Spiritual Inclusion Award Senator Judy MacIntyre Eason for the Legislative Ally Award Tempest Cartwright for the Carolyn Wagner Youth Leadership Award Jerry Custer for the OkEq Volunteer of the Year �Randy Vineyard AKA Kris Kohl for the Community Hero Award This is the premiere fundraiser for Oklahomans for Equality and the important work of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Sponsorships are still available Individual tickets are $150 and may be purchased online Dress is formal or rock-star attire Interpretive services for the Deaf & Hearing Impaired will be available. Please email Lucas.Green@okeq.org to arrange for interpretive service. Please purchase your tickets by Monday April 29th, 2013 Complimentary valet parking will be available at the Northwest entrance to the Tulsa Convention Center (Off South Houston Ave) Auctioneer Pam McKissick of Williams, Williams & McKissick Companies will lead our Live Auction. Some of the items for the evening include: Aunt Pearl Dinner for 10 �Aunt Pearl (Joe Sears) from the famous play "Greater Tuna" will cook a dinner for 10 people from her recipes of BBQ Brisket, Potato Salad, Bake Beans and her famous Peach Cobbler at the home of Tom and Kathy Williams. Pool side cocktails and hors d'oeuvres will be served before the dinner. Joe Sears is co-author and co-star of the wildly successful Tuna plays, "Greater Tuna, A Tuna Christmas, Red White and Tuna, and Tuna Does Vegas". Joe as been one of the past playwrights for the Cherokee Nation's outdoor drama The Trail of Tears. He is currently the Artistic Director for Theatre Bartlesville. Donated by Kathy & Tom Williams and David Nelson Comedy & Errors Feast for 8 with Celebrity Guests: Leslie Jordan and Bruce Vilanch Eight lucky guests will feast on a magnificent dinner prepared by James Shrader of Palace Café, sip on fabulous wines from the private collection of Dr. Greg Holt, and laugh to the hysterics, antics & humor of comedian celebrities Leslie Jordan and Bruce Vilanch, all in the beautifully renovated modern home of Jay and Ryan. Mutually agreed upon dates. Donated By Dr. Greg Holt, Jay Krottinger, Ryan Tanner, & Palace Café Historic Mansion Dinner Return to the elegance of Tulsa's past with a dinner for 10 in the historic McFarlin Mansion. Enjoy your dinner catered by Tim Williams of TW's ABFAB Catering while listening to the new grand piano. What a spectacular evening for a lucky few! Donated by Pete Harmon and Richard Sims �New York City Stay & Broadway Show Enjoy New York City like never before with a 2-night stay at the worlds first "Straight friendly" hotel, The OUT Hotel - NYC! While in New York, enjoy two tickets to the First Broadway revival of "Pippin" directed by Tony award winner, Diane Paulus. The original Broadway production of Pippin won five Tony Awards during its original five-year run ending in 1977. Trip includes round trip airfare for two on American Airlines. Mutually agreed upon dates. Donated By Square 1 Theatrics, The OUT Hotel - NYC, Jay Krottinger & Ryan Tanner Lake Keystone Dinner for 8 An incredible evening of fine dining for 8 at the McCutchen Lake Keystone Residence, prepared by Chef Tuck Curren from Biga. Enjoy this beautiful home that overlooks Lake Keystone, take in the views of Keystone Dam while looking Eastward down the Arkansas River Valley towards Tulsa. After dinner enjoy the entertainment/game room with a full bar. (Home is handicap accessible) Donated by Chris McCutcheon �Martini Party w/ Catered Food for 12 The party will be hosted by the LaButti's at their residence with Ron showcasing hi fabulous bartending skills and catered food for 12. The party will be held on a Friday or Saturday night on a date mutually agreed upon. Donated by Ron & Robin LaButti White Lion International Beer Tasting & 4-Course Dinner A Beer Connoisseur will explain the pairing and origin, brewing method and short history of each brew throughout the dinner. Each course is paired with imported beers selected to please the palate. Donated by John Southard Pool Party for 20 Bring your swimsuits, towels & floaties for a fabulous pool party. Enjoy swimming, some lounging in the cabana and have a sauna. Catering is by Terri Fermo of Bohemia Catering, featuring the Food Truck Jezebel. Of course there will be ample supply of Perfect Margaritas, beer and soft drinks. Donated by John Southard & Dennis Neill �Four Seasons Jackson Hole Unit #856 The hotel is located about 12 miles from Jackson Town Square at the base of the ski runs that are used as hiking trails in the summer, but walking distance from Teton village & 20 miles from the airport. The unit has 2 bedrooms, 2 baths and the living area has a sofa bed. The unit can accommodate 7 - 8 adults. The property has a spa, gym, outdoor heated pool used all year round, whirlpool and on-property Concierge. 2013 Equality Gala Sponsors Live Performance Sponsor George Kaiser Family Foundation High Fidelity Sound Sponsors 209 - The Arts Bar Irene and Stan Burnstein Coretz Family Foundation Debra and Richard Gordon & Family Charles and Lynn Schusterman Family Foundation Theatre Sound Sponsors Gay and Lesbian Fund for Tulsa Joe Hukills Kathy Taylor - Lobeck Taylor Family Foundation Anne and Henry Zarrow Foundation Surround Sound Sponsors Bank of Oklahoma Cisar-Holt, Inc. Charles Faudree and Bill Carpenter The Garden Trug Rachel Hutchinson �Andy Kinslow and Russ Kirkpatrick George W. Krumme Robin and Ron LaButti Debbie Lowe McAfee & Taft Gwen & Steve Malcolm David Nelson & ConocoPhillips Mike Redman and Daryn Drake Sara and Philip Snow Vocal Pride Foundation / COMC Williams, Williams & McKissick Kris Wilmes & Dusty Gross WPX Energy Stereo Sound Sponsors James and Susannah Adelson Family Foundation Fund Thomas A. Adelson Anonymous Sheryl and John Boone Jack Brown Rusty Clyma and George W. McCauslan Tery Deshong & Barbara Abercrombie Rosemary Harris & Tracy Spears Miranda & Philip Kaiser Julie & Sanjay Meshri Julie & John Nickel Clint Robison Van N. Wilde & Williams Youth Table Sponsors James and Susannah Adelson Family Foundation Fund Anonymous Laurie Cooper Debra and Richard Gordon & Family Dwight Kealiher George W. Krumme Stacy & Joe Lytle Julie & Sanjay Meshri Ruth Kaiser Nelson Family Foundation Carol Tandy Kathy Taylor - Lobeck Taylor Family Foundation Jon Worthington Jack and Maxine Zarrow Family Foundation (As of April 8th, 2013) �Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 p.m. to 9:00 p.m. Sun 12:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 The Dennis R Neill Equality Center is the 6th largest LGBT community center in the world. It serves as the headquarters of Oklahomans for Equality. Over 47,000 individuals utilized the Equality Center in 2012 and over 50 weekly programs are offered. The Equality Center is open 7 days a week. (Monday-Saturday Noon-9pm & Sunday Noon-6pm) � Email A resource containing textual messages and binary attachments sent electronically from one person to another or one person to many people. Email Body The main body of the email, including all replied and forwarded text and headers Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 2013 Equality Gala Saturday, May 4th, 2012 at the Tulsa Convention Center Tulsa Ballroom 100 Civic Center Cocktails and the Silent Auction begin at 6:30 pm Dinner and Program at 8:00 pm Concert at 10:00 pm Eric Himan Band performing the music of Queen Our Gala Chair Kirk Holt and Honorary Chairs Miranda & Philip Kaiser invite you to join over 600 Oklahomans for dinner, a live concert and a program honoring this year's award recipients: Paul Allen for the Lifetime Achievement Award TulsaPeople Magazine for the Media Advocate Award Rev. Nancy Eggen for the Russell Bennett Spiritual Inclusion Award Senator Judy MacIntyre Eason for the Legislative Ally Award Tempest Cartwright for the Carolyn Wagner Youth Leadership Award Jerry Custer for the OkEq Volunteer of the Year Randy Vineyard AKA Kris Kohl for the Community Hero Award This is the premiere fundraiser for Oklahomans for Equality and the important work of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Sponsorships are still available Individual tickets are $150 and may be purchased online Dress is formal or rock-star attire Interpretive services for the Deaf & Hearing Impaired will be available. Please email Lucas.Green@okeq.org to arrange for interpretive service. Please purchase your tickets by Monday April 29th, 2013 Complimentary valet parking will be available at the Northwest entrance to the Tulsa Convention Center (Off South Houston Ave) Auctioneer Pam McKissick of Williams, Williams & McKissick Companies will lead our Live Auction. Some of the items for the evening include: Aunt Pearl Dinner for 10 Aunt Pearl (Joe Sears) from the famous play "Greater Tuna" will cook a dinner for 10 people from her recipes of BBQ Brisket, Potato Salad, Bake Beans and her famous Peach Cobbler at the home of Tom and Kathy Williams. Pool side cocktails and hors d'oeuvres will be served before the dinner. Joe Sears is co-author and co-star of the wildly successful Tuna plays, "Greater Tuna, A Tuna Christmas, Red White and Tuna, and Tuna Does Vegas". Joe as been one of the past playwrights for the Cherokee Nation's outdoor drama The Trail of Tears. He is currently the Artistic Director for Theatre Bartlesville. Donated by Kathy & Tom Williams and David Nelson Comedy & Errors Feast for 8 with Celebrity Guests: Leslie Jordan and Bruce Vilanch Eight lucky guests will feast on a magnificent dinner prepared by James Shrader of Palace Café, sip on fabulous wines from the private collection of Dr. Greg Holt, and laugh to the hysterics, antics & humor of comedian celebrities Leslie Jordan and Bruce Vilanch, all in the beautifully renovated modern home of Jay and Ryan. Mutually agreed upon dates. Donated By Dr. Greg Holt, Jay Krottinger, Ryan Tanner, & Palace Café Historic Mansion Dinner Return to the elegance of Tulsa's past with a dinner for 10 in the historic McFarlin Mansion. Enjoy your dinner catered by Tim Williams of TW's ABFAB Catering while listening to the new grand piano. What a spectacular evening for a lucky few! Donated by Pete Harmon and Richard Sims New York City Stay & Broadway Show Enjoy New York City like never before with a 2-night stay at the worlds first "Straight friendly" hotel, The OUT Hotel - NYC! While in New York, enjoy two tickets to the First Broadway revival of "Pippin" directed by Tony award winner, Diane Paulus. The original Broadway production of Pippin won five Tony Awards during its original five-year run ending in 1977. Trip includes round trip airfare for two on American Airlines. Mutually agreed upon dates. Donated By Square 1 Theatrics, The OUT Hotel - NYC, Jay Krottinger & Ryan Tanner Lake Keystone Dinner for 8 An incredible evening of fine dining for 8 at the McCutchen Lake Keystone Residence, prepared by Chef Tuck Curren from Biga. Enjoy this beautiful home that overlooks Lake Keystone, take in the views of Keystone Dam while looking Eastward down the Arkansas River Valley towards Tulsa. After dinner enjoy the entertainment/game room with a full bar. (Home is handicap accessible) Donated by Chris McCutcheon Martini Party w/ Catered Food for 12 The party will be hosted by the LaButti's at their residence with Ron showcasing hi fabulous bartending skills and catered food for 12. The party will be held on a Friday or Saturday night on a date mutually agreed upon. Donated by Ron & Robin LaButti White Lion International Beer Tasting & 4-Course Dinner A Beer Connoisseur will explain the pairing and origin, brewing method and short history of each brew throughout the dinner. Each course is paired with imported beers selected to please the palate. Donated by John Southard Pool Party for 20 Bring your swimsuits, towels & floaties for a fabulous pool party. Enjoy swimming, some lounging in the cabana and have a sauna. Catering is by Terri Fermo of Bohemia Catering, featuring the Food Truck Jezebel. Of course there will be ample supply of Perfect Margaritas, beer and soft drinks. Donated by John Southard & Dennis Neill Four Seasons Jackson Hole Unit #856 The hotel is located about 12 miles from Jackson Town Square at the base of the ski runs that are used as hiking trails in the summer, but walking distance from Teton village & 20 miles from the airport. The unit has 2 bedrooms, 2 baths and the living area has a sofa bed. The unit can accommodate 7 - 8 adults. The property has a spa, gym, outdoor heated pool used all year round, whirlpool and on-property Concierge. 2013 Equality Gala Sponsors Live Performance Sponsor George Kaiser Family Foundation High Fidelity Sound Sponsors 209 - The Arts Bar Irene and Stan Burnstein Coretz Family Foundation Debra and Richard Gordon & Family Charles and Lynn Schusterman Family Foundation Theatre Sound Sponsors Gay and Lesbian Fund for Tulsa Joe Hukills Kathy Taylor - Lobeck Taylor Family Foundation Anne and Henry Zarrow Foundation Surround Sound Sponsors Bank of Oklahoma Cisar-Holt, Inc. Charles Faudree and Bill Carpenter The Garden Trug Rachel Hutchinson Andy Kinslow and Russ Kirkpatrick George W. Krumme Robin and Ron LaButti Debbie Lowe McAfee & Taft Gwen & Steve Malcolm David Nelson & ConocoPhillips Mike Redman and Daryn Drake Sara and Philip Snow Vocal Pride Foundation / COMC Williams, Williams & McKissick Kris Wilmes & Dusty Gross WPX Energy Stereo Sound Sponsors James and Susannah Adelson Family Foundation Fund Thomas A. Adelson Anonymous Sheryl and John Boone Jack Brown Rusty Clyma and George W. McCauslan Tery Deshong & Barbara Abercrombie Rosemary Harris & Tracy Spears Miranda & Philip Kaiser Julie & Sanjay Meshri Julie & John Nickel Clint Robison Van N. Wilde & Williams Youth Table Sponsors James and Susannah Adelson Family Foundation Fund Anonymous Laurie Cooper Debra and Richard Gordon & Family Dwight Kealiher George W. Krumme Stacy & Joe Lytle Julie & Sanjay Meshri Ruth Kaiser Nelson Family Foundation Carol Tandy Kathy Taylor - Lobeck Taylor Family Foundation Jon Worthington Jack and Maxine Zarrow Family Foundation (As of April 8th, 2013) Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 p.m. to 9:00 p.m. Sun 12:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 The Dennis R Neill Equality Center is the 6th largest LGBT community center in the world. It serves as the headquarters of Oklahomans for Equality. Over 47,000 individuals utilized the Equality Center in 2012 and over 50 weekly programs are offered. The Equality Center is open 7 days a week. (Monday-Saturday Noon-9pm & Sunday Noon-6pm) Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. 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For the 2019 calendar year, or tax year beginning 10012019 B Check if applicable: Address change I 0047 Under section 501(c), 527, or 4947(a)(1) of the Internal Revenue Code (except private foundations) Do not enter social security numbers on this form as it may be made public. Department of the Treasury Internal Revenue Service A OMB No. 1545 Return of Organization Exempt From Income Tax 990 501(c)(3) 501(c) ( ) H(a) Is this a group return for subordinates? H(b) Are all subordinates included? (insert no.) 4947(a)(1) or Corporation No No If "No," attach a list. (see instructions) 527 H(c) Group exemption number WWW.OKEQ.ORG K Form of organization: Yes Yes Trust Association L Year of formation: 1980 Other M State of legal domicile: OK Summary Part I 1 Briefly describe the organization’s mission or most significant activities: OKEQ SEEKS EQUAL RIGHTS FOR LGBTQ+ INDIVIDUALS AND FAMILIES THROUGH INTERSECTIONAL ADVOCACY, EDUCATION, PROGRAMS, ALLIANCES AND THE OPERATION OF THE DENNIS R NEILL EQUALITY CENTER. if the organization discontinued its operations or disposed of more than 25% of its net assets. 2 Check this box 3 Number of voting members of the governing body (Part VI, line 1a) . . . . . . . . 3 12 4 Number of independent voting members of the governing body (Part VI, line 1b) 12 . . . . . 4 5 Total number of individuals employed in calendar year 2019 (Part V, line 2a) . . . . . . 5 11 6 Total number of volunteers (estimate if necessary) . . . . . . 6 275 7a 0 7a . . . . . . Total unrelated business revenue from Part VIII, column (C), line 12 b Net unrelated business taxable income from Form 990T, line 39 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 7b Prior Year 8 Contributions and grants (Part VIII, line 1h) . . . . . . . . . 9 Program service revenue (Part VIII, line 2g) . . . . . . . . . 10 Investment income (Part VIII, column (A), lines 3, 4, and 7d ) . . . . 11 Other revenue (Part VIII, column (A), lines 5, 6d, 8c, 9c, 10c, and 11e) 12 Total revenue—add lines 8 through 11 (must equal Part VIII, column (A), line 12) 13 Grants and similar amounts paid (Part IX, column (A), lines 1–3 ) . 14 Benefits paid to or for members (Part IX, column (A), line 4) . 15 Salaries, other compensation, employee benefits (Part IX, column (A), lines 5–10) 16a Professional fundraising fees (Part IX, column (A), line 11e) b Total fundraising expenses (Part IX, column (D), line 25) . . . . . 936,077 842,043 8,968 11,249 0 15,049 9,762 960,094 863,054 . 0 . . . . 0 232,530 309,156 . 0 36,089 17 Other expenses (Part IX, column (A), lines 11a–11d, 11f–24e) . 18 Total expenses. Add lines 13–17 (must equal Part IX, column (A), line 25) 19 Revenue less expenses. Subtract line 18 from line 12 . . . . . . . . . 692,467 548,663 924,997 857,819 . 35,097 5,235 Beginning of Current Year 20 Total assets (Part X, line 16) . 21 Total liabilities (Part X, line 26) . 22 Net assets or fund balances. Subtract line 21 from line 20 . Part II . . . . . . . . . 0 Current Year . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . End of Year 1,756,829 . . 1,864,117 22,615 124,668 1,734,214 1,739,449 Signature Block Under penalties of perjury, I declare that I have examined this return, including accompanying schedules and statements, and to the best of my knowledge and belief, it is true, correct, and complete. Declaration of preparer (other than officer) is based on all information of which preparer has any knowledge. 20210813 Date Signature of officer Sign Here PAUL ALLEN TREASURER Type or print name and title Print/Type preparer's name Paid Preparer Use Only Preparer's signature Firm's name Kelly Kirby CPA PC Firm's address 4815 S Harvard Ave Ste 525 Date PTIN if 20210814 Check P00319981 selfemployed Firm's EIN 731440529 Phone no. (918) 7475466 TULSA, OK 741353069 May the IRS discuss this return with the preparer shown above? (see instructions) For Paperwork Reduction Act Notice, see the separate instructions. . . . . . . . Cat. No. 11282Y . . . Yes No Form 990 (2019) �Page 2 Form 990 (2019) Part III Statement of Program Service Accomplishments Check if Schedule O contains a response or note to any line in this Part III . 1 . . . . . . . . . . . . . Briefly describe the organization’s mission: OKEQ SEEKS EQUAL RIGHTS FOR LGBTQ+ INDIVIDUALS AND FAMILIES THROUGH INTERSECTIONAL ADVOCACY, EDUCATION, PROGRAMS, ALLIANCES AND THE OPERATION OF THE DENNIS R NEILL EQUALITY CENTER. 2 Did the organization undertake any significant program services during the year which were not listed on the prior Form 990 or 990EZ? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Yes No . . Yes No If "Yes," describe these new services on Schedule O. 3 Did the organization cease conducting, or make significant changes in how it conducts, any program services? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . If "Yes," describe these changes on Schedule O. 4 4a Describe the organization’s program service accomplishments for each of its three largest program services, as measured by expenses. Section 501(c)(3) and 501(c)(4) organizations are required to report the amount of grants and allocations to others, the total expenses, and revenue, if any, for each program service reported. (Code: ) (Expenses $ 695,233 including grants of $ ) (Revenue $ ) MINORITY COMMUNITY CENTER OPERATION, CULTURAL AND EDUCATION PROGRAMS AND EVENT FACILITATION INCLUDING:COUNSELING AND WELLNESS PROGRAMS. PROVIDING FREE LICENSED MENTAL HEALTH PROFESSIONAL COUNSELING SERVICES. MORE THAN 30 PEER LED SUPPORT GROUPS FOR INDIVIDUALS DEALING WITH POST TRAUMATIC STRESS, SEXUAL ORIENTATION IDENTITY ACCEPTANCE, DEPRESSION, EATING DISORDERS, GRIEF RECOVERY, TRANSGENDER ISSUES, DIVORCE AND RELATIONSHIP CHALLENGES, SUBSTANCE ABUSE, AND HEALTH CHALLENGES.TRANSGENDER SERVICES AND PROGRAMS. PROVIDING MEDICAL REFERRALS AND LIMITED MEDICAL SERVICES, MENTAL HEALTH REFERRALS, LEGAL SERVICES AND 5 DIFFERENT PEER LED SUPPORT GROUPS FOR INDIVIDUALS AND THEIR FAMILIES WHO IDENTIFY AS TRANSGENDER. LGBT OLDER ADULT PROGRAM. PROVIDING MEDICAL REFERRALS, MENTAL HEALTH REFERRALS, LEGAL SERVICES, WEEKLY CHECK INS, ADVOCATING FOR THOSE LIVING IN ASSISTED LIVING CENTERS, AND SOCIAL PROGRAMMING FOR LESBIAN, GAY, BISEXUAL AND TRANSGENDER SENIOR ADULTS. 4b (Code: ) (Expenses $ including grants of $ ) (Revenue $ ) 4c (Code: ) (Expenses $ including grants of $ ) (Revenue $ ) 4d Other program services (Describe in Schedule O.) (Expenses $ 4e Total program service expenses including grants of $ ) (Revenue $ ) 695,233 Form 990 (2019) �Page 3 Form 990 (2019) Part IV Checklist of Required Schedules Yes 1 Is the organization described in section 501(c)(3) or 4947(a)(1) (other than a private foundation)? If "Yes," complete Schedule A . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . No Yes 1 2 Is the organization required to complete Schedule B, Schedule of Contributors (see instructions)? . 2 3 Did the organization engage in direct or indirect political campaign activities on behalf of or in opposition to candidates for public office? If "Yes," complete Schedule C, Part I . . . . . . . . . . . . . 3 4 Section 501(c)(3) organizations. Did the organization engage in lobbying activities, or have a section 501(h) election in effect during the tax year? If "Yes," complete Schedule C, Part II . . . . . . . . . 4 5 Is the organization a section 501(c)(4), 501(c)(5), or 501(c)(6) organization that receives membership dues, assessments, or similar amounts as defined in Revenue Procedure 9819? If "Yes," complete Schedule C, Part III . . 5 Did the organization maintain any donor advised funds or any similar funds or accounts for which donors have the right to provide advice on the distribution or investment of amounts in such funds or accounts? If "Yes," complete Schedule D,Part I . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 6 Did the organization receive or hold a conservation easement, including easements to preserve open space, the environment, historic land areas, or historic structures? If "Yes," complete Schedule D, Part II . . . . 7 No 8 No 9 No 6 7 . . 8 Did the organization maintain collections of works of art, historical treasures, or other similar assets? If "Yes," complete Schedule D, Part III . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 9 Did the organization report an amount in Part X, line 21 for escrow or custodial account liability; serve as a custodian for amounts not listed in Part X; or provide credit counseling, debt management, credit repair, or debt negotiation services? If "Yes," complete Schedule D, Part IV . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 10 Did the organization, directly or through a related organization, hold assets in temporarily restricted endowments, permanent endowments, or quasi endowments? If "Yes," complete Schedule D, Part V . . . . . . 11 If the organization’s answer to any of the following questions is "Yes," then complete Schedule D, Parts VI, VII, VIII, IX, or X as applicable. Yes No Yes No No 10 Yes 11a Yes a Did the organization report an amount for land, buildings, and equipment in Part X, line 10? If "Yes," complete Schedule D, Part VI. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . b Did the organization report an amount for investments—other securities in Part X, line 12 that is 5% or more of its total assets reported in Part X, line 16? If "Yes," complete Schedule D, Part VII . . . . . . . 11b No Did the organization report an amount for investments—program related in Part X, line 13 that is 5% or more of its total assets reported in Part X, line 16? If "Yes," complete Schedule D, Part VIII . . . . . . . 11c No 11d No 11e No c d Did the organization report an amount for other assets in Part X, line 15 that is 5% or more of its total assets reported in Part X, line 16? If "Yes," complete Schedule D, Part IX . . . . . . . . . . . . e Did the organization report an amount for other liabilities in Part X, line 25? If "Yes," complete Schedule D, Part X f Did the organization’s separate or consolidated financial statements for the tax year include a footnote that addresses the organization’s liability for uncertain tax positions under FIN 48 (ASC 740)? 11f "Yes," complete Schedule Part X independent audited financial statements for the tax year? If "Yes," complete 12a If Did the organization obtainD, separate, 12a Schedule D, Parts XI and XII . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . b Was the organization included in consolidated, independent audited financial statements for the tax year? If "Yes," and if the organization answered "No" to line 12a, then completing Schedule D, Parts XI and XII is optional 13 Is the organization a school described in section 170(b)(1)(A)(ii)? If "Yes," complete Schedule E 14a Did the organization maintain an office, employees, or agents outside of the United States? . . . . . b Did the organization have aggregate revenues or expenses of more than $10,000 from grantmaking, fundraising, business, investment, and program service activities outside the United States, or aggregate foreign investments valued at $100,000 or more? If "Yes," complete Schedule F, Parts I and IV . the . organization . . . . report . .on Part . 15 Did IX, column (A), line 3, more than $5,000 of grants or other assistance to or for any foreign organization? If “Yes,” complete Schedule F, Parts II and IV . 16 . . . . Did the organization report on Part IX, column (A), line 3, more than $5,000 of aggregate grants or other assistance to or for foreign individuals? If “Yes,” complete Schedule F, Parts III and IV . . . No No 12b No 13 No 14a No 14b No 15 No 16 No No 17 Did the organization report a total of more than $15,000 of expenses for professional fundraising services on Part IX, column (A), lines 6 and 11e? If "Yes," complete Schedule G, Part I(see instructions) . . . . 17 18 Did the organization report more than $15,000 total of fundraising event gross income and contributions on Part VIII, lines 1c and 8a? If "Yes," complete Schedule G, Part II . . . . . . . . . . . . 18 Did the organization report more than $15,000 of gross income from gaming activities on Part VIII, line 9a? I f "Yes," complete Schedule G, Part III . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 19 No 20a No 19 20a Did the organization operate one or more hospital facilities? If "Yes," complete Schedule H . . . . b If "Yes" to line 20a, did the organization attach a copy of its audited financial statements to this return? 21 Did the organization report more than $5,000 of grants or other assistance to any domestic organization or domestic government on Part IX, column (A), line 1? If “Yes,” complete Schedule I, Parts I and II . . . . . Yes 20b 21 No Form 990 (2019) �Page 4 Form 990 (2019) Part IV Checklist of Required Schedules (continued) Yes No 22 Did the organization report more than $5,000 of grants or other assistance to or for domestic individuals on Part IX, column (A), line 2? If “Yes,” complete Schedule I, Parts I and III . . . . . . . . 22 No 23 Did the organization answer "Yes" to Part VII, Section A, line 3, 4, or 5 about compensation of the organization’s current and former officers, directors, trustees, key employees, and highest compensated employees? If "Yes," complete Schedule J . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 23 No 24a Did the organization have a taxexempt bond issue with an outstanding principal amount of more than $100,000 as of the last day of the year, that was issued after December 31, 2002? If “Yes,” answer lines 24b through 24d and complete Schedule K. If “No,” go to line 25a . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . b Did the organization invest any proceeds of taxexempt bonds beyond a temporary period exception? . c . . 24b Did the organization maintain an escrow account other than a refunding escrow at any time during the year to defease any taxexempt bonds? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 24c d Did the organization act as an "on behalf of" issuer for bonds outstanding at any time during the year? . . . 25a Section 501(c)(3), 501(c)(4), and 501(c)(29) organizations. Did the organization engage in an excess benefit transaction with a disqualified person during the year? If "Yes," complete Schedule L, Part I . . . . 24d 25a No 25b No former officer, director, trustee, key employee, creator or founder, substantial contributor, or 35% controlled entity or family member of any of these persons? If "Yes," complete Schedule L, aPart II or . other . . assistance . . . to .any. current . . or .former officer, director, trustee, key Did the organization provide grant 26 No employee, creator or founder, substantial contributor, or employee thereof, a grant selection committee member, or to a 35% controlled entity (including an employee thereof) or family member of any of these persons? If "Yes," completeSchedule L,Part III . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 27 No 28a No b Is the organization aware that it engaged in an excess benefit transaction with a disqualified person in a prior year, and that the transaction has not been reported on any of the organization’s prior Forms 990 or 990EZ? I f "Yes," complete Schedule L, Part I . the . organization . . . . report . .any. amount . . on. Part . X,. line . 5 .or 22 . for . receivables . . . . . or payables to any current or 26 Did from 27 28 No 24a Was the organization a party to a business transaction with one of the following parties (see Schedule L, Part IV instructions for applicable filing thresholds, conditions, and exceptions): a A current or former officer, director, trustee, key employee, creator or founder, or substantial contributor? If "Yes," complete Schedule L, Part IV . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . b A family member of any individual described in line 28a? If "Yes," complete Schedule L, Part IV . . . . . 28b No A 35% controlled entity of one or more individuals and/or organizations described in lines 28a or 28b? If "Yes," complete Schedule L, Part IV . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 28c No 29 Did the organization receive more than $25,000 in noncash contributions? If "Yes," complete Schedule M . . 29 No 30 Did the organization receive contributions of art, historical treasures, or other similar assets, or qualified conservation contributions? If "Yes," complete Schedule M .terminate, . . . or dissolve . . . and . cease . . operations? . . . If."Yes," . complete . . Did the organization liquidate, Schedule N, Part I 30 No 31 No 32 No 33 No 34 No 35a No c 31 32 33 34 Did the organization sell, exchange, dispose of, or transfer more than 25% of its net assets? If "Yes," complete Schedule N, Part II . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Did the organization own 100% of an entity disregarded as separate from the organization under Regulations sections 301.77012 and 301.77013? If "Yes," Schedule R, Part I .taxexempt . . . or. taxable . . entity? . . If ."Yes," . complete . Was the complete organization related to any Schedule R, Part II, III, or IV, and Part V, line 1 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 35a Did the organization have a controlled entity within the meaning of section 512(b)(13)? b If ‘Yes’ to line 35a, did the organization receive any payment from or engage in any transaction with a controlled entity within the meaning of section 512(b)(13)? If "Yes," complete Schedule R, Part V, line 2 . . . 36 37 38 35b Section 501(c)(3) organizations. Did the organization make any transfers to an exempt noncharitable related organization? If "Yes," complete Schedule R, Part V, line 2 . . . . . . . . . . . . . 36 No Did the organization conduct more than 5% of its activities through an entity that is not a related organization and that is treated as a partnership for federal income tax purposes? If "Yes," complete Schedule R, Part VI 37 No Did the organization complete Schedule O and provide explanations in Schedule O for Part VI, lines 11b and 19? Note. All Form 990 filers are required to complete Schedule O. . . . . . . . . . . . . 38 Part V Statements Regarding Other IRS Filings and Tax Compliance Check if Schedule O contains a response or note to any line in this Part V . . . . . . . . Yes . . Yes 1a Enter the number reported in Box 3 of Form 1096. Enter 0 if not applicable . . b Enter the number of Forms W2G included in line 1a. Enter 0 if not applicable c . 1a 19 1b 0 Did the organization comply with backup withholding rules for reportable payments to vendors and reportable gaming (gambling) winnings to prize winners? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 1c . No Yes Form 990 (2019) �Page 5 Form 990 (2019) Part V Statements Regarding Other IRS Filings and Tax Compliance (continued) 2a Enter the number of employees reported on Form W3, Transmittal of Wage and Tax Statements, filed for the calendar year ending with or within the year covered by this return . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 2a 11 2b b If at least one is reported on line 2a, did the organization file all required federal employment tax returns? Note. If the sum of lines 1a and 2a is greater than 250, you may be required to efile (see instructions) 3a Did the organization have unrelated business gross income of $1,000 or more during the year? . . . b If “Yes,” has it filed a Form 990T for this year? If “No” to line 3b, provide an explanation in Schedule O . . Yes 3a No . 3b 4a At any time during the calendar year, did the organization have an interest in, or a signature or other authority over, a financial account in a foreign country (such as a bank account, securities account, or other financial account)? . the . name of the foreign country: b If "Yes," enter See instructions for filing requirements for FinCEN Form 114, Report of Foreign Bank and Financial Accounts 5a (FBAR). Was the organization a party to a prohibited tax shelter transaction at any time during the tax year? . . 4a No 5a No b Did any taxable party notify the organization that it was or is a party to a prohibited tax shelter transaction? 5b No c 5c If "Yes," to line 5a or 5b, did the organization file Form 8886T? . . . . . . . . . . . . 6a Does the organization have annual gross receipts that are normally greater than $100,000, and did the organization solicit any contributions that were not tax deductible as charitable contributions? . . . 6a b If "Yes," did the organization include with every solicitation an express statement that such contributions or gifts were not tax deductible? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 7 No 6b Organizations that may receive deductible contributions under section 170(c). a Did the organization receive a payment in excess of $75 made partly as a contribution and partly for goods and services provided to the payor? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 7a Yes b If "Yes," did the organization notify the donor of the value of the goods or services provided? 7b Yes c d If "Yes," indicate the number of Forms 8282 filed during the year e . . . . . Did the organization sell, exchange, or otherwise dispose of tangible personal property for which it was required to file Form 8282? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Did the organization, during the year, pay premiums, directly or indirectly, on a personal benefit contract? . . g If the organization received a contribution of qualified intellectual property, did the organization file Form 8899 as required? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . h If the organization received a contribution of cars, boats, airplanes, or other vehicles, did the organization file a Form 1098C? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 9 Sponsoring organizations maintaining donor advised funds. Did a donor advised fund maintained by the sponsoring organization have excess business holdings at any time during the year? . . . organizations . . . . maintaining . Sponsoring donor advised funds. a Did the sponsoring organization make any taxable distributions under section 4966? . . . . . . . . b Did the sponsoring organization make a distribution to a donor, donor advisor, or related person? . 10 7e No 7f No 7g No 7h 8 9a . . 9b Section 501(c)(7) organizations. Enter: a Initiation fees and capital contributions included on Part VIII, line 12 . . . 10a b Gross receipts, included on Form 990, Part VIII, line 12, for public use of club facilities 11 Section 501(c)(12) organizations. Enter: a Gross income from members or shareholders . . . . . . . . 10b . 11a b Gross income from other sources (Do not net amounts due or paid to other sources against amounts due or received from them.) . . . . . . . . . . 11b 12a Section 4947(a)(1) nonexempt charitable trusts. Is the organization filing Form 990 in lieu of Form 1041? b If "Yes," enter the amount of taxexempt interest received or accrued during the year. 13 No Did the organization receive any funds, directly or indirectly, to pay premiums on a personal benefit contract? f 8 7c 7d 12a 12b Section 501(c)(29) qualified nonprofit health insurance issuers. a Is the organization licensed to issue qualified health plans in more than one state? . . . . . . . . . Note. See the instructions for additional information the organization must report on Schedule O. b Enter the amount of reserves the organization is required to maintain by the states in which the organization is licensed to issue qualified health plans . . . . 13b c 13c Enter the amount of reserves on hand . . . . . . . . . . . . 14a Did the organization receive any payments for indoor tanning services during the tax year? . . . 14a b If "Yes," has it filed a Form 720 to report these payments?If "No," provide an explanation in Schedule O . . 14b 15 16 . 13a . Is the organization subject to the section 4960 tax on payment(s) of more than $1,000,000 in remuneration or excess parachute payment(s) during the year? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . If "Yes," Is the organization see instructions an educational and file Form institution 4720, subject Schedule to N. the section 4968 excise tax on net investment income? . . If "Yes," complete Form 4720, Schedule O. No 15 No 16 No Form 990 (2019) �Page 6 Form 990 (2019) Part VI Governance, Management, and Disclosure For each "Yes" response to lines 2 through 7b below, and for a "No" response to lines 8a, 8b, or 10b below, describe the circumstances, processes, or changes in Schedule O. See instructions. Check if Schedule O contains a response or note to any line in this Part VI . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Section A. Governing Body and Management Yes 1a Enter the number of voting members of the governing body at the end of the tax year If there are material differences in voting rights among members of the governing 1a 12 1b 12 No body, or if the governing body delegated broad authority to an executive committee or similar committee, explain in Schedule O. b Enter the number of voting members included in line 1a, above, who are independent 2 Did any officer, director, trustee, or key employee have a family relationship or a business relationship with any other officer, director, trustee, or key employee? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 3 Did the organization delegate control over management duties customarily performed by or under the direct supervision of officers, directors or trustees, or key employees to a management company or other person? 4 . 5 Did the organization make any significant changes to its governing documents since the prior Form 990 was filed? Did the. organization become aware during the year of a significant diversion of the organization’s assets? . 6 Did the organization have members or stockholders? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . No 3 No 4 No 5 . 7a Did the organization have members, stockholders, or other persons who had the power to elect or appoint one or more members of the governing body? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . b Are any governance decisions of the organization reserved to (or subject to approval by) members, stockholders, or persons other than the governing body? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 8 2 No 6 Yes 7a Yes 7b No Did the organization contemporaneously document the meetings held or written actions undertaken during the year by the following: a The governing body? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . b Each committee with authority to act on behalf of the governing body? . . . . . . . . . . . . Is there any officer, director, trustee, or key employee listed in Part VII, Section A, who cannot be reached at the organization’s mailing address? If "Yes," provide the names and addresses in Schedule O . . . . . . . 8a Yes 8b Yes 9 9 No Section B. Policies (This Section B requests information about policies not required by the Internal Revenue Code.) Yes 10a Did the organization have local chapters, branches, or affiliates? . . . . . . . . . . . . 10a b If "Yes," did the organization have written policies and procedures governing the activities of such chapters, affiliates, and branches to ensure their operations are consistent with the organization's exempt purposes? 10b 11a Has the organization provided a complete copy of this Form 990 to all members of its governing body before filing 11a the form? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . b Describe in Schedule O the process, if any, used by the organization to review this Form 990. 12a Did the organization have a written conflict of interest policy? If "No," go to line 13 . . . . . . . . . . Yes . . b Were officers, directors, or trustees, and key employees required to disclose annually interests that could give rise to conflicts? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 12a Yes 12b Yes Did the organization regularly and consistently monitor and enforce compliance with the policy? If "Yes," describe in Schedule O how this was done . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 12c Yes 13 Did the organization have a written whistleblower policy? . . . . . . . . . . 13 Yes 14 Did the organization have a written document retention and destruction policy? . . . . . . . . . 14 Yes 15 Did the process for determining compensation of the following persons include a review and approval by independent persons, comparability data, and contemporaneous substantiation of the deliberation and decision? 15a Yes c . . . . . a The organization’s CEO, Executive Director, or top management official b Other officers or key employees of the organization . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . No No . . 15b No 16a Did the organization invest in, contribute assets to, or participate in a joint venture or similar arrangement with a taxable entity during the year? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 16a No b If "Yes," did the organization follow a written policy or procedure requiring the organization to evaluate its participation in joint venture arrangements under applicable federal tax law, and take steps to safeguard the organization’s exempt status with respect to such arrangements? . . . . . . . . . . . . 16b If "Yes" to line 15a or 15b, describe the process in Schedule O (see instructions). Section C. Disclosure 17 List the states with which a copy of this Form 990 is required to be filed 18 Section 6104 requires an organization to make its Form 1023 (or 1024A if applicable), 990, and 990T (501(c)(3)s only) available for public inspection. Indicate how you made these available. Check all that apply. 19 Describe in Schedule O whether (and if so, how) the organization made its governing documents, conflict of interest policy, and financial statements available to the public during the tax year. 20 State the name, address, and telephone number of the person who possesses the organization's books and records: PAUL ALLEN P O BOX 2687 T U L S A, O K 7 4 1 0 1 ( 9 1 8 ) 7 4 3 4 2 9 7 OK Own website Another's website Upon request Other (explain in Schedule O) Form 990 (2019) �Page 7 Form 990 (2019) Part VII Compensation of Officers, Directors,Trustees, Key Employees, Highest Compensated Employees, and Independent Contractors Check if Schedule O contains a response or note to any line in this Part VII . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Section A. Officers, Directors, Trustees, Key Employees, and Highest Compensated Employees 1a Complete this table for all persons required to be listed. Report compensation for the calendar year ending with or within the organization’s tax year. List all of the organization’s current officers, directors, trustees (whether individuals or organizations), regardless of amount of compensation. Enter 0 in columns (D), (E), and (F) if no compensation was paid. List all of the organization’s current key employees, if any. See instructions for definition of "key employee." List the organization’s five current highest compensated employees (other than an officer, director, trustee or key employee) who received reportable compensation (Box 5 of Form W2 and/or Box 7 of Form 1099MISC) of more than $100,000 from the organization and any related organizations. List all of the organization’s former officers, key employees, or highest compensated employees who received more than $100,000 of reportable compensation from the organization and any related organizations. List all of the organization’s former directors or trustees that received, in the capacity as a former director or trustee of the organization, more than $10,000 of reportable compensation from the organization and any related organizations. See instructions for the order in which to list the persons above. Check this box if neither the organization nor any related organization compensated any current officer, director, or trustee. (A) Name and title (B) Average hours per week (list any hours for related organizations below dotted line) (1) PAUL ALLEN ...................................................................... TREASURER 15.00 ................. (2) KIRK HOLT ...................................................................... TRUSTEE 5.00 ................. (3) DAN BURNSTEIN ...................................................................... TRUSTEE 5.00 ................. (4) AL TRIGGS ...................................................................... DIRECTOR 5.00 ................. (5) SHAWNA BAKER ...................................................................... TRUSTEE 5.00 ................. (6) KRIS WILMES ...................................................................... TRUSTEE 5.00 ................. (7) CHRISTOPHER BRECHTSMITH ...................................................................... PRESIDENT 15.00 ................. (8) DARCY HAZELWOOD ...................................................................... AT LARGE 10.00 ................. (9) ROBIN VANMETER ...................................................................... DIRECTOR 5.00 ................. (10) LAURA ARROWSMITH ...................................................................... DIRECTOR 5.00 ................. (11) WILL VAUGHN ...................................................................... SECRETARY 10.00 ................. (12) ALLISON IKLEYFREEMAN ...................................................................... DIRECTOR 5.00 ................. (13) STACY TURNER ...................................................................... VICE PRESIDENT 10.00 ................. (14) ANGELYN DALE ...................................................................... DIRECTOR 5.00 ................. (15) BOB HANSON ...................................................................... DIRECTOR 5.00 ................. (16) COREY THOMPSON ...................................................................... DIRECTOR 5.00 ................. (17) TOBY Q JENKINS ...................................................................... CEOEXECUTIVE DIRECTOR 69.00 ................. (C) Position (do not check more than one box, unless person is both an officer and a director/trustee) X X (D) Reportable compensation from the organization (W2/1099 MISC) (E) Reportable compensation from related organizations (W2/1099 MISC) (F) Estimated amount of other compensation from the organization and related organizations 0 0 0 X 0 0 0 X 0 0 0 X 0 0 0 X 0 0 0 X 0 0 0 0.00 0.00 0.00 0.00 0.00 0.00 X X 0 0 0 X X 0 0 0 X 0 0 0 X 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 X 0 0 0 X 0 0 0 X 0 0 0 63,500 0 13,606 0.00 0.00 0.00 0.00 X X 0.00 X 0.00 X X 0.00 0.00 0.00 0.00 X 0.00 Form 990 (2019) �Page 8 Form 990 (2019) Section A. Officers, Directors, Trustees, Key Employees, and Highest Compensated Employees (continued) Part VII (A) Name and title 1b SubTotal . . . . (B) Average hours per week (list any hours for related organizations below dotted line) . . . . . . . (C) Position (do not check more than one box, unless person is both an officer and a director/trustee) . . . . . . . d Total (add lines 1b and 1c) . . . . . . . . . . (E) Reportable compensation from related organizations (W2/1099 MISC) (F) Estimated amount of other compensation from the organization and related organizations . c Total from continuation sheets to Part VII, Section A . . (D) Reportable compensation from the organization (W 2/1099MISC) 63,500 0 13,606 2 Total number of individuals (including but not limited to those listed above) who received more than $100,000 of reportable compensation from the organization 0 3 Did the organization list any former officer, director or trustee, key employee, or highest compensated employee on line 1a? If "Yes," complete Schedule J for such individual . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 3 No 4 For any individual listed on line 1a, is the sum of reportable compensation and other compensation from the organization and related organizations greater than $150,000? If "Yes," complete Schedule J for such individual 4 No 5 No Yes . 5 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Did any person listed on line 1a receive or accrue compensation from any unrelated organization or individual for services rendered to the organization?If "Yes," complete Schedule J for such person . . . . . . . . No Section B. Independent Contractors 1 Complete this table for your five highest compensated independent contractors that received more than $100,000 of compensation from the organization. Report compensation for the calendar year ending with or within the organization’s tax year. (A) Name and business address (B) Description of services (C) Compensation 2 Total number of independent contractors (including but not limited to those listed above) who received more than $100,000 of compensation from the organization Form 990 (2019) �Page 9 Form 990 (2019) Statement of Revenue Part VIII Check if Schedule O contains a response or note to any line in this Part VIII . (A) Total revenue 1a Federated campaigns . b Membership dues . . . . . . . . (C) Unrelated business revenue . . . . . (D) Revenue excluded from tax under sections 512 514 1a . c Fundraising events . . (B) Related or exempt function revenue 1b . 230,400 1c d Related organizations 1d e Government grants (contributions) 1e f All other contributions, gifts, grants, and similar amounts not included above g Noncash contributions included in lines 1a 1f:$ h Total. Add lines 1a1f . 611,643 1f 1g . . . . . . 842,043 Business Code 2a b c d e f All other program service revenue. g Total. Add lines 2a–2f. . . . . 3 Investment income (including dividends, interest, and other . . . taxexempt . . . 4 similar Incomeamounts) from investment of bond proceeds 5 Royalties . . . . . . . . . . (i) Real 6a Gross rents 6a Less: rental expenses 6b b c Rental 6c income or d (loss) Net rental income or (loss) . from sales of assets other than inventory 11,249 3,693 3,693 . (ii) Personal . . . . (i) Securities 7a Gross amount 11,249 . . (ii) Other 7a b Less: cost or other basis and sales expenses 7b c Gain or (loss) 7c d Net gain or (loss) . . . . . . . . . 8a Gross income from fundraising events (not including $ 230,400 of contributions reported on line 1c). See Part IV, line 18 . . . . 16,367 8a 12,674 b Less: direct expenses 8b . income . . or (loss) from fundraising events . c Net . 9a Gross income from gaming activities. 9a See Part IV, line 19 . . . b Less: direct expenses 9b . income . . or (loss) from gaming activities . c Net 10a Gross sales of inventory, less returns and allowances . . . 12,853 10a 6,784 b Less: cost of goods sold 10b . . c Net income or (loss) from sales of inventory . Miscellaneous Revenue . 6,069 6,069 863,054 6,069 Business Code 11a b c d All other revenue . . e Total. Add lines 11a–11d . . . . 12 Total revenue. See instructions . . . . . . . . . 0 14,942 Form 990 (2019) �Page 10 Form 990 (2019) Part IX Statement of Functional Expenses Section 501(c)(3) and 501(c)(4) organizations must complete all columns. All other organizations must complete column (A). Check if Schedule O contains a response or note to any line in this Part IX . Do not include amounts reported on lines 6b, 7b, 8b, 9b, and 10b of Part VIII. (A) Total expenses . . . (B) Program service expenses . . . . . . (C) Management and general expenses . . . . (D) Fundraising expenses 1 Grants and other assistance to domestic organizations and domestic governments. See Part IV, line 21 . . . . 2 Grants and other assistance to domestic individuals. See Part IV, line 22 . . . . . . . . . . . 3 Grants and other assistance to foreign organizations, foreign governments, and foreign individuals. See Part IV, lines 15 and 16. . . . . . . . . . . . . . 4 Benefits paid to or for members . . . . . . . 63,500 47,625 12,700 3,175 191,410 143,558 38,282 9,570 8 Pension plan accruals and contributions (include section 401(k) and 403(b) employer contributions) . . . . 7,000 5,250 1,400 350 9 Other employee benefits 26,423 19,817 5,285 1,321 20,823 15,617 4,165 1,041 19,000 14,419 3,620 961 28,299 28,299 . 46,787 35,090 9,358 2,339 . 3,064 2,451 613 71,961 53,971 14,392 3,598 47,937 47,937 4,509 4,509 101,235 75,926 20,247 5,062 24,448 18,336 4,890 1,222 152,776 152,776 b ADVOCACY 2,603 2,603 c IN KIND EXPENSE 16,709 5,288 5,421 6,000 5 Compensation of current officers, directors, trustees, and key employees . . . . . . . . . . . 6 Compensation not included above, to disqualified persons (as defined under section 4958(f)(1)) and persons described in section 4958(c)(3)(B) . . . . . . . . . 7 Other salaries and wages . 10 Payroll taxes . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 11 Fees for services (nonemployees): a Management . . . . . . b Legal . . . . . . . . c Accounting d Lobbying . . . . . . . . . . 225 . . . . . . . . . . . . 225 . e Professional fundraising services. See Part IV, line 17 f Investment management fees . . . . . . g Other (If line 11g amount exceeds 10% of line 25, column (A) amount, list line 11g expenses on Schedule O) 12 Advertising and promotion 13 Office expenses . . . 14 Information technology 15 Royalties . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 16 Occupancy 17 Travel . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 18 Payments of travel or entertainment expenses for any federal, state, or local public officials . 19 Conferences, conventions, and meetings 20 Interest . . . . 21 Payments to affiliates . . . . . . . . . . 22 Depreciation, depletion, and amortization 23 Insurance . . . . . . . . . . . . . 24 Other expenses. Itemize expenses not covered above (List miscellaneous expenses in line 24e. If line 24e amount exceeds 10% of line 25, column (A) amount, list line 24e expenses on Schedule O.) a CENTER PROGRAMS d e All other expenses 25 Total functional expenses. Add lines 1 through 24e 29,110 21,761 5,899 1,450 857,819 695,233 126,497 36,089 26 Joint costs. Complete this line only if the organization reported in column (B) joint costs from a combined educational campaign and fundraising solicitation. Check here if following SOP 982 (ASC 958720). Form 990 (2019) �Page 11 Form 990 (2019) Part X Balance Sheet Check if Schedule O contains a response or note to any line in this Part IX . . . . . . . . . (A) Beginning of year 1 2 Cash–noninterestbearing . . . . . . . 2,000 . 3 Savings and temporary cash investments . . . . . . . . . Pledges and grants receivable, net . . 4 Accounts receivable, net 5 7 Loans and other payables to any current or former officer, director, trustee, key employee, creator or founder, substantial contributor, or 35% controlled entity or family member of any of these persons Loans . . and . other . .receivables . . from other disqualified persons (as defined under section 4958(f)(1)), and persons described in section 4958(c)(3)(B) . . . Notes and loans receivable, net . . . . . . . . . . . 8 Inventories for sale or use 9 Prepaid expenses and deferred charges 6 10a b . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 2,213,344 Less: accumulated depreciation 10b 709,943 12 Investments—other securities. See Part IV, line 11 13 Investments—programrelated. See Part IV, line 11 14 Intangible assets 15 2,000 2 10,500 3 7,000 4 5 6 7 8 1,561,596 . 10c . . . . . 16 Other assets. See Part IV, line 11 . .assets. . . Add . lines . .1 through . . . (must . Total 15 equal line 34) . . . 17 Accounts payable and accrued expenses 18 Grants payable 19 Deferred revenue 20 Taxexempt bond liabilities 21 Escrow or custodial account liability. Complete Part IV of Schedule D 21 22 22 23 Loans and other payables to any current or former officer, director, trustee, key employee, creator or founder, substantial contributor, or 35% controlled entity or family member of any of these persons . . . . . . . . . Secured mortgages and notes payable to unrelated third parties . . 24 Unsecured notes and loans payable to unrelated third parties 24 25 Other liabilities (including federal income tax, payables to related third parties, and other liabilities not included on lines 17 24). Complete Part X of Schedule D 26 Total liabilities. Add lines 17 through 25 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 50,752 . . . . . . . 28 61,989 14 1,756,829 16 1,864,117 22,615 17 568 18 . . . . . . . . . . . . . 19 . . . . 20 . . 124,100 25 22,615 26 124,668 1,701,660 27 1,706,895 32,554 28 32,554 and complete lines 27, 28, 32, and 33. Net assets without donor restrictions . . . . . . . . . . Net assets with donor restrictions . . . . . . . . . . . Organizations that do not follow FASB ASC 958, check here and complete lines 29 through 33. Capital stock or trust principal, or current funds 30 Paidin or capital surplus, or land, building or equipment fund 31 Retained earnings, endowment, accumulated income, or other funds 32 Total net assets or fund balances . . . . . . . . . . . Total liabilities and net assets/fund balances . . . . . . . . . 23 . 29 33 12 15 . Organizations that follow FASB ASC 958, check here 27 1,503,401 13 . . . 13,016 11 . . . 9 10a Investments—publicly traded securities . (B) End of year 276,711 . Land, buildings, and equipment: cost or other basis. Complete Part VI of Schedule D 11 . 1 7,528 . . 124,453 . . . . . . . . 29 . . 30 31 1,734,214 32 1,756,829 33 1,739,449 1,864,117 Form 990 (2019) �Page 12 Form 990 (2019) Part XI Reconcilliation of Net Assets Check if Schedule O contains a response or note to any line in this Part XI . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 1 Total revenue (must equal Part VIII, column (A), line 12) . . . . . . . . . . . . 1 863,054 2 Total expenses (must equal Part IX, column (A), line 25) . . . . . . . . . . . . 2 857,819 3 Revenue less expenses. Subtract line 2 from line 1 4 Net assets or fund balances at beginning of year (must equal Part X, line 33, column (A)) . . 5 Net unrealized gains (losses) on investments . . 6 Donated services and use of facilities 7 Investment expenses 8 Prior period adjustments 9 Other changes in net assets or fund balances (explain in Schedule O) . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 6 7 . 8 . Net assets or fund balances at end of year. Combine lines 3 through 9 (must equal Part X, line 33, column Part(B)) XII Financial Statements and Reporting . . . 1,734,214 . 10 Check if Schedule O contains a response or note to any line in this Part XII . 5,235 4 5 . . 3 . . . . . . . . 9 0 10 1,739,449 . . . . . Yes 1 Accounting method used to prepare the Form 990: Cash Accrual . No Other If the organization changed its method of accounting from a prior year or checked "Other," explain in Schedule O. 2a Were the organization’s financial statements compiled or reviewed by an independent accountant? 2a No 2b No If ‘Yes,’ check a box below to indicate whether the financial statements for the year were compiled or reviewed on a separate basis, consolidated basis, or both: Separate basis Consolidated basis Both consolidated and separate basis b Were the organization’s financial statements audited by an independent accountant? If ‘Yes,’ check a box below to indicate whether the financial statements for the year were audited on a separate basis, consolidated basis, or both: Separate basis c Consolidated basis Both consolidated and separate basis If "Yes," to line 2a or 2b, does the organization have a committee that assumes responsibility for oversight of the audit, review, or compilation of its financial statements and selection of an independent accountant? 2c If the organization changed either its oversight process or selection process during the tax year, explain in Schedule O. 3a As a result of a federal award, was the organization required to undergo an audit or audits as set forth in the Single Audit Act and OMB Circular A133? 3a b If "Yes," did the organization undergo the required audit or audits? If the organization did not undergo the required audit or audits, explain why in Schedule O and describe any steps taken to undergo such audits. 3b No Form 990 (2019) �Form 990 (2019) Additional Data Return to Form Software ID: Software Version: Form 990, Special Condition Description: Special Condition Description �SCHEDULE A (Form 990 or 990EZ) Department of the Treasury Internal Revenue Service Name of the organization Public Charity Status and Public Support OMB No. 15450047 Complete if the organization is a section 501(c)(3) organization or a section 4947(a)(1) nonexempt charitable trust. Attach to Form 990 or Form 990EZ. Go to www.irs.gov/Form990 for instructions and the latest information. 2019 Open to Public Inspection Employer identification number OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY INC 731300864 Part I Reason for Public Charity Status (All organizations must complete this part.) See instructions. The organization is not a private foundation because it is: (For lines 1 through 12, check only one box.) 1 A church, convention of churches, or association of churches described in section 170(b)(1)(A)(i). 2 A school described in section 170(b)(1)(A)(ii). (Attach Schedule E (Form 990 or 990EZ).) 3 A hospital or a cooperative hospital service organization described in section 170(b)(1)(A)(iii). 4 A medical research organization operated in conjunction with a hospital described in section 170(b)(1)(A)(iii). Enter the hospital's name, city, and state: 5 An organization operated for the benefit of a college or university owned or operated by a governmental unit described in section 170(b)(1)(A)(iv). (Complete Part II.) 6 A federal, state, or local government or governmental unit described in section 170(b)(1)(A)(v). 7 An organization that normally receives a substantial part of its support from a governmental unit or from the general public described in section 170(b)(1)(A)(vi). (Complete Part II.) 8 A community trust described in section 170(b)(1)(A)(vi). (Complete Part II.) 9 An agricultural research organization described in 170(b)(1)(A)(ix) operated in conjunction with a landgrant college or university or a nonland grant college of agriculture. See instructions. Enter the name, city, and state of the college or university: 10 An organization that normally receives: (1) more than 331/3% of its support from contributions, membership fees, and gross receipts from activities related to its exempt functions—subject to certain exceptions, and (2) no more than 331/3% of its support from gross investment income and unrelated business taxable income (less section 511 tax) from businesses acquired by the organization after June 30, 1975. See section 509(a)(2). (Complete Part III.) 11 An organization organized and operated exclusively to test for public safety. See section 509(a)(4). 12 An organization organized and operated exclusively for the benefit of, to perform the functions of, or to carry out the purposes of one or more publicly supported organizations described in section 509(a)(1) or section 509(a)(2). See section 509(a)(3). C h e c k the box in lines 12a through 12d that describes the type of supporting organization and complete lines 12e, 12f, and 12g. a Type I. A supporting organization operated, supervised, or controlled by its supported organization(s), typically by giving the supported organization(s) the power to regularly appoint or elect a majority of the directors or trustees of the supporting organization. You must complete Part IV, Sections A and B. b Type II. A supporting organization supervised or controlled in connection with its supported organization(s), by having control or management of the supporting organization vested in the same persons that control or manage the supported organization(s). You must complete Part IV, Sections A and C. c Type III functionally integrated. A supporting organization operated in connection with, and functionally integrated with, its supported organization(s) (see instructions). You must complete Part IV, Sections A, D, and E. d Type III nonfunctionally integrated. A supporting organization operated in connection with its supported organization(s) that is not functionally integrated. The organization generally must satisfy a distribution requirement and an attentiveness requirement (see instructions). You must complete Part IV, Sections A and D, and Part V. e Check this box if the organization received a written determination from the IRS that it is a Type I, Type II, Type III functionally integrated, or Type III nonfunctionally integrated supporting organization. f g Enter the number of supported organizations . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Provide the following information about the supported organization(s). (i) Name of supported organization (ii) E I N (iii) Type of organization (described on lines 1 10 above (see instructions)) (iv) Is the organization listed in your governing document? Yes (v) Amount of monetary support (see instructions) (vi) Amount of other support (see instructions) No Total For Paperwork Reduction Act Notice, see the Instructions for Form 990 or 990EZ. Cat. No. 11285F Schedule A (Form 990 or 990EZ) 2019 �Page 2 Support Schedule for Organizations Described in Sections 170(b)(1)(A)(iv) and 170(b)(1)(A)(vi) (Complete only if you checked the box on line 5, 7, or 8 of Part I or if the organization failed to qualify under Part III. If the organization failed to qualify under the tests listed below, please complete Part III.) Section A. Public Support Schedule A (Form 990 or 990EZ) 2019 Part II Calendar year (a) 2 0 1 5 (b) 2 0 1 6 (c) 2 0 1 7 (d) 2 0 1 8 (e) 2 0 1 9 (f) Total (or fiscal year beginning in) 1 Gifts, grants, contributions, and 675,776 1,338,258 834,790 936,077 842,043 4,626,944 membership fees received. (Do not include any "unusual grant.") . . 2 Tax revenues levied for the organization's benefit and either paid to or expended on its behalf . . . . 3 The value of services or facilities furnished by a governmental unit to the organization without charge.. 675,776 1,338,258 834,790 936,077 842,043 4,626,944 4 Total. Add lines 1 through 3 5 The portion of total contributions by each person (other than a governmental unit or publicly 1,288,805 supported organization) included on line 1 that exceeds 2% of the amount shown on line 11, column (f). . 6 Public support. Subtract line 5 from 3,338,139 line 4. Section B. Total Support Calendar year (a) 2 0 1 5 (b) 2 0 1 6 (c) 2 0 1 7 (d) 2 0 1 8 (e) 2 0 1 9 (f) Total (or fiscal year beginning in) 675,776 1,338,258 834,790 936,077 842,043 4,626,944 7 Amounts from line 4. . 8 Gross income from interest, dividends, payments received on 9,288 15,623 6,510 8,968 11,249 51,638 securities loans, rents, royalties and income from similar sources . . . 9 Net income from unrelated business activities, whether or not the business is regularly carried on. . 10 Other income. Do not include gain 4,192 9,507 728 15,049 9,762 29,398 or loss from the sale of capital assets (Explain in Part VI.). . 11 Total support. Add lines 7 through 4,707,980 10 12 Gross receipts from related activities, etc. (see instructions) . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 12 13 First five years. If the Form 990 is for the organization's first, second, third, fourth, or fifth tax year as a section 501(c)(3) organization, check this box and stop here . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Section C. Computation of Public Support Percentage 14 Public support percentage for 2019 (line 6, column (f) divided by line 11, column (f)) . . . . . . . . . 15 Public support percentage for 2018 Schedule A, Part II, line 14 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 14 70.900 % 15 73.870 % 16a 33 1/3% support test—2019. If the organization did not check the box on line 13, and line 14 is 33 1/3% or more, check this box and stop here. The organization qualifies as a publicly supported organization . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . b 33 1/3% support test—2018. If the organization did not check a box on line 13 or 16a, and line 15 is 33 1/3% or more, check this box and stop here. The organization qualifies as a publicly supported organization . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 17a 10%factsandcircumstances test—2019. If the organization did not check a box on line 13, 16a, or 16b, and line 14 is 10% or more, and if the organization meets the "factsandcircumstances" test, check this box and stop here. Explain in Part VI how the organization meets the "factsandcircumstances" test. The organization qualifies as a publicly supported organization . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . b 10%factsandcircumstances test—2018. If the organization did not check a box on line 13, 16a, 16b, or 17a, and line 15 is 10% or more, and if the organization meets the "factsandcircumstances" test, check this box and stop here. Explain in Part VI how the organization meets the "factsandcircumstances" test. The organization qualifies as a publicly supported organization . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 18 Private foundation. If the organization did not check a box on line 13, 16a, 16b, 17a, or 17b, check this box and see instructions . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Schedule A (Form 990 or 990EZ) 2019 �Page 3 Support Schedule for Organizations Described in Section 509(a)(2) (Complete only if you checked the box on line 10 of Part I or if the organization failed to qualify under Part II. If the organization fails to qualify under the tests listed below, please complete Part II.) Section A. Public Support Schedule A (Form 990 or 990EZ) 2019 Part III Calendar year (or fiscal year beginning in) 1 Gifts, grants, contributions, and membership fees received. (Do not include any "unusual grants.") . 2 Gross receipts from admissions, merchandise sold or services performed, or facilities furnished in any activity that is related to the organization's taxexempt purpose 3 Gross receipts from activities that are not an unrelated trade or business under section 513 . . . . . 4 Tax revenues levied for the organization's benefit and either paid to or expended on its behalf . . . 5 The value of services or facilities furnished by a governmental unit to the organization without charge 6 Total. Add lines 1 through 5 7a Amounts included on lines 1, 2, and 3 received from disqualified persons b Amounts included on lines 2 and 3 received from other than disqualified persons that exceed the greater of $5,000 or 1% of the amount on line 13 for the year. c Add lines 7a and 7b. . 8 Public support. (Subtract line 7c from line 6.) (a) 2 0 1 5 (b) 2 0 1 6 (c) 2 0 1 7 (d) 2 0 1 8 (e) 2 0 1 9 (f) Total Section B. Total Support Calendar year (a) 2 0 1 5 (b) 2 0 1 6 (c) 2 0 1 7 (d) 2 0 1 8 (e) 2 0 1 9 (f) Total (or fiscal year beginning in) 9 Amounts from line 6. . . 10a Gross income from interest, dividends, payments received on securities loans, rents, royalties and income from similar sources . . b Unrelated business taxable income (less section 511 taxes) from businesses acquired after June 30, 1 9 7 5. c Add lines 10a and 10b. 11 Net income from unrelated business activities not included in line 10b, whether or not the business is regularly carried on. 12 Other income. Do not include gain or loss from the sale of capital assets (Explain in Part VI.) . . 13 Total support. (Add lines 9, 10c, 11, and 12.). . First five years. If the Form 990 is for the organization's first, second, third, fourth, or fifth tax year as a section 501(c)(3) organization, 14 check this box and stop here. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Section C. Computation of Public Support Percentage 15 Public support percentage for 2019 (line 8, column (f) divided by line 13, column (f)) . . . . . . . . . 15 16 Public support percentage from 2018 Schedule A, Part III, line 15 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 16 Section D. Computation of Investment Income Percentage 17 Investment income percentage for 2019 (line 10c, column (f) divided by line 13, column (f)) . . . . . . 17 18 Investment income percentage from 2018 Schedule A, Part III, line 17 . . . . . . . . . . . . . 18 19a 331/3% support tests—2019. If the organization did not check the box on line 14, and line 15 is more than 33 1/3%, and line 17 is not more than 33 1/3%, check this box and stop here. The organization qualifies as a publicly supported organization . . . . . . . b 33 1/3% support tests—2018. If the organization did not check a box on line 14 or line 19a, and line 16 is more than 33 1/3% and line 18 is not more than 33 1/3%, check this box and stop here. The organization qualifies as a publicly supported organization . . . . 20 Private foundation. If the organization did not check a box on line 14, 19a, or 19b, check this box and see instructions . . . . Schedule A (Form 990 or 990EZ) 2019 �Page 4 Schedule A (Form 990 or 990EZ) 2019 Part IV Supporting Organizations (Complete only if you checked a box on line 12 of Part I. If you checked 12a of Part I, complete Sections A and B. If you checked 12b of Part I, complete Sections A and C. If you checked 12c of Part I, complete Sections A, D, and E. If you checked 12d of Part I, complete Sections A and D, and complete Part V.) Section A. All Supporting Organizations Yes 1 Are all of the organization’s supported organizations listed by name in the organization’s governing documents? If "No," describe in Part VI how the supported organizations are designated. If designated by class or purpose, describe the designation. If historic and continuing relationship, explain. 1 2 Did the organization have any supported organization that does not have an IRS determination of status under section 509(a)(1) or (2)? If "Yes," explain in Part VI how the organization determined that the supported organization was described in section 509(a)(1) or (2). 2 3a Did the organization have a supported organization described in section 501(c)(4), (5), or (6)? If "Yes," answer (b) and (c) below. b Did the organization confirm that each supported organization qualified under section 501(c)(4), (5), or (6) and satisfied the public support tests under section 509(a)(2)? If "Yes," describe in Part VI when and how the organization made the determination. c Did the organization ensure that all support to such organizations was used exclusively for section 170(c)(2)(B) purposes? If "Yes," explain in Part VI what controls the organization put in place to ensure such use. 4a Was any supported organization not organized in the United States ("foreign supported organization")? If “Yes” and if you checked 12a or 12b in Part I, answer (b) and (c) below. b Did the organization have ultimate control and discretion in deciding whether to make grants to the foreign supported organization? If “Yes,” describe in Part VI how the organization had such control and discretion despite being controlled or supervised by or in connection with its supported organizations. c 5a b c Did the organization support any foreign supported organization that does not have an IRS determination under sections 501(c)(3) and 509(a)(1) or (2)? If “Yes,” explain in Part VI what controls the organization used to ensure that all support to the foreign supported organization was used exclusively for section 170(c)(2)(B) purposes. Did the organization add, substitute, or remove any supported organizations during the tax year? If “Yes,” answer (b) and (c) below (if applicable). Also, provide detail in Part VI, including (i) the names and EIN numbers of the supported organizations added, substituted, or removed; (ii) the reasons for each such action; (iii) the authority under the organization's organizing document authorizing such action; and (iv) how the action was accomplished (such as by amendment to the organizing document). Type I or Type II only. Was any added or substituted supported organization part of a class already designated in the organization's organizing document? 3a 3b 3c 4a 4b 4c 5a 5b Substitutions only. Was the substitution the result of an event beyond the organization's control? 5c 6 Did the organization provide support (whether in the form of grants or the provision of services or facilities) to anyone other than (i) its supported organizations, (ii) individuals that are part of the charitable class benefited by one or more of its supported organizations, or (iii) other supporting organizations that also support or benefit one or more of the filing organization’s supported organizations? If “Yes,” provide detail in Part VI. 6 7 Did the organization provide a grant, loan, compensation, or other similar payment to a substantial contributor (defined in section 4958(c)(3)(C)), a family member of a substantial contributor, or a 35% controlled entity with regard to a substantial contributor? If “Yes,” complete Part I of Schedule L (Form 990 or 990EZ) . 7 8 Did the organization make a loan to a disqualified person (as defined in section 4958) not described in line 7? I f “Yes,” complete Part I of Schedule L (Form 990 or 990EZ). 9a Was the organization controlled directly or indirectly at any time during the tax year by one or more disqualified persons as defined in section 4946 (other than foundation managers and organizations described in section 509(a) (1) or (2))? If “Yes,” provide detail in Part VI. b Did one or more disqualified persons (as defined in line 9a) hold a controlling interest in any entity in which the supporting organization had an interest? If “Yes,” provide detail in Part VI. c Did a disqualified person (as defined in line 9a) have an ownership interest in, or derive any personal benefit from, assets in which the supporting organization also had an interest? If “Yes,” provide detail in Part VI. 10a Was the organization subject to the excess business holdings rules of section 4943 because of section 4943(f) (regarding certain Type II supporting organizations, and all Type III nonfunctionally integrated supporting organizations)? If “Yes,” answer line 10b below. b Did the organization have any excess business holdings in the tax year? (Use Schedule C, Form 4720, to determine whether the organization had excess business holdings). No 8 9a 9b 9c 10a 10b Schedule A (Form 990 or 990EZ) 2019 �Page 5 Schedule A (Form 990 or 990EZ) 2019 Part IV 11 Supporting Organizations (continued) Yes No Yes No Yes No Yes No Has the organization accepted a gift or contribution from any of the following persons? a A person who directly or indirectly controls, either alone or together with persons described in (b) and (c) below, the governing body of a supported organization? 11a b A family member of a person described in (a) above? 11b c A 35% controlled entity of a person described in (a) or (b) above? If “Yes” to a, b, or c, provide detail in Part VI. 11c Section B. Type I Supporting Organizations 1 Did the directors, trustees, or membership of one or more supported organizations have the power to regularly appoint or elect at least a majority of the organization’s directors or trustees at all times during the tax year? If “No,” describe in Part VI how the supported organization(s) effectively operated, supervised, or controlled the organization’s activities. If the organization had more than one supported organization, describe how the powers to appoint and/or remove directors or trustees were allocated among the supported organizations and what conditions or restrictions, if any, applied to such powers during the tax year. 2 Did the organization operate for the benefit of any supported organization other than the supported organization(s) that operated, supervised, or controlled the supporting organization? If “Yes,” explain in Part VI how providing such benefit carried out the purposes of the supported organization(s) that operated, supervised or controlled the supporting organization. 1 2 Section C. Type II Supporting Organizations 1 Were a majority of the organization’s directors or trustees during the tax year also a majority of the directors or trustees of each of the organization’s supported organization(s)? If “No,” describe in Part VI how control or management of the supporting organization was vested in the same persons that controlled or managed the supported organization(s). 1 Section D. All Type III Supporting Organizations 1 Did the organization provide to each of its supported organizations, by the last day of the fifth month of the organization’s tax year, (i) a written notice describing the type and amount of support provided during the prior tax year, (ii) a copy of the Form 990 that was most recently filed as of the date of notification, and (iii) copies of the organization’s governing documents in effect on the date of notification, to the extent not previously provided? 2 Were any of the organization’s officers, directors, or trustees either (i) appointed or elected by the supported organization(s) or (ii) serving on the governing body of a supported organization? If "No," explain in Part VI how the organization maintained a close and continuous working relationship with the supported organization(s). 3 By reason of the relationship described in (2), did the organization’s supported organizations have a significant voice in the organization’s investment policies and in directing the use of the organization’s income or assets at all times during the tax year? If "Yes," describe in Part VI the role the organization’s supported organizations played in this regard. 1 2 3 Section E. Type III FunctionallyIntegrated Supporting Organizations 1 2 Check the box next to the method that the organization used to satisfy the Integral Part Test during the year (see instructions): a The organization satisfied the Activities Test. Complete line 2 below. b The organization is the parent of each of its supported organizations. Complete line 3 below. c The organization supported a governmental entity. Describe in Part VI how you supported a government entity (see instructions) Activities Test. Answer (a) and (b) below. Yes a Did substantially all of the organization’s activities during the tax year directly further the exempt purposes of the supported organization(s) to which the organization was responsive? If "Yes," then in Part VI identify those supported organizations and explain how these activities directly furthered their exempt purposes, how the organization was responsive to those supported organizations, and how the organization determined that these activities constituted substantially all of its activities. b Did the activities described in (a) constitute activities that, but for the organization’s involvement, one or more of the organization’s supported organization(s) would have been engaged in? If "Yes," explain in Part VI the reasons for the organization’s position that its supported organization(s) would have engaged in these activities but for the organization’s involvement. 3 No 2a 2b Parent of Supported Organizations. Answer (a) and (b) below. a Did the organization have the power to regularly appoint or elect a majority of the officers, directors, or trustees of each of the supported organizations? Provide details in Part VI. b Did the organization exercise a substantial degree of direction over the policies, programs and activities of each of its supported organizations? If "Yes," describe in Part VI. the role played by the organization in this regard. 3a 3b Schedule A (Form 990 or 990EZ) 2019 �Page 6 Schedule A (Form 990 or 990EZ) 2019 Part V Type III NonFunctionally Integrated 509(a)(3) Supporting Organizations 1 Check here if the organization satisfied the Integral Part Test as a qualifying trust on Nov. 20, 1970 (explain in Part VI). See instructions. All other Type III nonfunctionally integrated supporting organizations must complete Sections A through E. Section A Adjusted Net Income 1 Net shortterm capital gain 1 2 Recoveries of prioryear distributions 2 3 Other gross income (see instructions) 3 4 Add lines 1 through 3 4 5 Depreciation and depletion 5 6 Portion of operating expenses paid or incurred for production or collection of gross income or for management, conservation, or maintenance of property held for production of income (see instructions) 6 7 Other expenses (see instructions) 7 8 Adjusted Net Income (subtract lines 5, 6 and 7 from line 4) 8 Section B Minimum Asset Amount 1 Aggregate fair market value of all nonexemptuse assets (see instructions for short tax year or assets held for part of year): (A) Prior Year (B) Current Year (optional) (A) Prior Year (B) Current Year (optional) 1 a Average monthly value of securities 1a b Average monthly cash balances 1b c Fair market value of other nonexemptuse assets 1c d Total (add lines 1a, 1b, and 1c) 1d e Discount claimed for blockage or other factors (explain in detail in Part VI): 2 Acquisition indebtedness applicable to nonexempt use assets 2 3 Subtract line 2 from line 1d 3 4 Cash deemed held for exempt use. Enter 11/2% of line 3 (for greater amount, see instructions). 4 5 Net value of nonexemptuse assets (subtract line 4 from line 3) 5 6 Multiply line 5 by .035 6 7 Recoveries of prioryear distributions 7 8 Minimum Asset Amount (add line 7 to line 6) 8 Current Year Section C Distributable Amount 1 Adjusted net income for prior year (from Section A, line 8, Column A) 1 2 Enter 85% of line 1 2 3 Minimum asset amount for prior year (from Section B, line 8, Column A) 3 4 Enter greater of line 2 or line 3 4 5 Income tax imposed in prior year 5 6 Distributable Amount. Subtract line 5 from line 4, unless subject to emergency temporary reduction (see instructions) 6 7 Check here if the current year is the organization's first as a nonfunctionallyintegrated Type III supporting organization (see instructions) Schedule A (Form 990 or 990EZ) 2019 �Page 7 Schedule A (Form 990 or 990EZ) 2019 Part V Type III NonFunctionally Integrated 509(a)(3) Supporting Section DOrganizations Distributions (continued) Current Year 1 Amounts paid to supported organizations to accomplish exempt purposes 2 Amounts paid to perform activity that directly furthers exempt purposes of supported organizations, in excess of income from activity 3 Administrative expenses paid to accomplish exempt purposes of supported organizations 4 Amounts paid to acquire exemptuse assets 5 Qualified setaside amounts (prior IRS approval required) 6 Other distributions (describe in Part VI). See instructions 7 Total annual distributions. Add lines 1 through 6. 8 Distributions to attentive supported organizations to which the organization is responsive (provide details in Part VI). See instructions 9 Distributable amount for 2019 from Section C, line 6 10 Line 8 amount divided by Line 9 amount Section E Distribution Allocations (see instructions) (i) Excess Distributions (ii) Underdistributions Pre2019 (iii) Distributable Amount for 2019 1 Distributable amount for 2019 from Section C, line 6 2 Underdistributions, if any, for years prior to 2019 (reasonable cause required explain in Part VI ). See instructions. 3 Excess distributions carryover, if any, to 2019: a From 2014. . . . . . b From 2015. . . . . . . c From 2016. . . . . . . d From 2017. . . . . . . e . . . . . . From 2018. . f Total of lines 3a through e g Applied to underdistributions of prior years h Applied to 2019 distributable amount i Carryover from 2014 not applied (see instructions) j Remainder. Subtract lines 3g, 3h, and 3i from 3f. 4 Distributions for 2019 from Section D, line 7: $ a Applied to underdistributions of prior years b Applied to 2019 distributable amount c Remainder. Subtract lines 4a and 4b from 4. 5 Remaining underdistributions for years prior to 2019, if any. Subtract lines 3g and 4a from line 2. If the amount is greater than zero, explain in Part VI . See instructions. 6 Remaining underdistributions for 2019. Subtract lines 3h and 4b from line 1. If the amount is greater than zero, explain in Part VI. See instructions. 7 Excess distributions carryover to 2020. Add lines 3j and 4c. 8 Breakdown of line 7: a Excess from 2015. . . . b Excess from 2016. . . . . c Excess from 2017. . . . . d Excess from 2018. . . . . e . . . . Excess from 2019. . Schedule A (Form 990 or 990EZ) (2019) �Page 8 Schedule A (Form 990 or 990EZ) 2019 Part VI Supplemental Information. Provide the explanations required by Part II, line 10; Part II, line 17a or 17b; Part III, line 12; Part IV, Section A, lines 1, 2, 3b, 3c, 4b, 4c, 5a, 6, 9a, 9b, 9c, 11a, 11b, and 11c; Part IV, Section B, lines 1 and 2; Part IV, Section C, line 1; Part IV, Section D, lines 2 and 3; Part IV, Section E, lines 1c, 2a, 2b, 3a and 3b; Part V, line 1; Part V, Section B, line 1e; Part V Section D, lines 5, 6, and 8; and Part V, Section E, lines 2, 5, and 6. Also complete this part for any additional information. (See instructions). Facts And Circumstances Test Return Reference Explanation Schedule A (Form 990 or 990EZ) 2019 �Additional Data Return to Form Software ID: Software Version: �Schedule B OMB No. 15450047 Schedule of Contributors (Form 990, 990EZ, or 990PF) 2019 Attach to Form 990, 990EZ, or 990PF. Go to www.irs.gov/Form990 for the latest information. Department of the Treasury Internal Revenue Service Name of the organization OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY INC Employer identification number 731300864 Organization type (check one): Filers of: Form 990 or 990EZ Section: 501(c)( ) (enter number) organization 4947(a)(1) nonexempt charitable trust not treated as a private foundation 527 political organization Form 990PF 501(c)(3) exempt private foundation 4947(a)(1) nonexempt charitable trust treated as a private foundation 501(c)(3) taxable private foundation Check if your organization is covered by the General Rule or a Special Rule. Note: Only a section 501(c)(7), (8), or (10) organization can check boxes for both the General Rule and a Special Rule. See instructions. General Rule For an organization filing Form 990, 990EZ, or 990PF that received, during the year, contributions totaling $5,000 or more (in money or other property) from any one contributor. Complete Parts I and II. See instructions for determining a contributor's total contributions. Special Rules For an organization described in section 501(c)(3) filing Form 990 or 990EZ that met the 331/ 3% support test of the regulations under sections 509(a)(1) and 170(b)(1)(A)(vi), that checked Schedule A (Form 990 or 990EZ), Part II, line 13, 16a, or 16b, and that received from any one contributor, during the year, total contributions of the greater of (1) $5,000 or (2) 2% of the amount on (i) Form 990, Part VIII, line 1h, or (ii) Form 990EZ, line 1. Complete Parts I and II. For an organization described in section 501(c)(7), (8), or (10) filing Form 990 or 990EZ that received from any one contributor, during the year, total contributions of more than $1,000 exclusively for religious, charitable, scientific, literary, or educational purposes, or for the prevention of cruelty to children or animals. Complete Parts I, II, and III. For an organization described in section 501(c)(7), (8), or (10) filing Form 990 or 990EZ that received from any one contributor, during the year, contributions exclusively for religious, charitable, etc., purposes, but no such contributions totaled more than $1,000. If this box is checked, enter here the total contributions that were received during the year for an exclusively religious, charitable, etc., purpose. Don't complete any of the parts unless the General Rule applies to this organization because it received nonexclusively religious, charitable, etc., contributions totaling $5,000 or more during the year . . . . . . . . . $ Caution: An organization that isn't covered by the General Rule and/or the Special Rules doesn't file Schedule B (Form 990, 990EZ, or 990PF), but it must answer “No” on Part IV, line 2, of its Form 990; or check the box on line H of its Form 990EZ or on its Form 990PF, Part I, line 2, to certify that it doesn't meet the filing requirements of Schedule B (Form 990, 990EZ, or 990PF). For Paperwork Reduction Act Notice, see the Instructions for Form 990, 990EZ, or 990PF. Cat. No. 30613X Schedule B (Form 990, 990EZ, or 990PF) (2019) �Schedule B (Form 990, 990EZ, or 990PF) (2019) Page 2 Name of organization OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY INC Part I Employer identification number 731300864 Contributors (see instructions). Use duplicate copies of Part I if additional space is needed. Contributors (a) No. (b) Name, address, and ZIP + 4 (c) Total contributions (d) Type of contribution Person RESTRICTED Payroll $ RESTRICTED , (a) No. Noncash (Complete Part II for noncash contributions.) (b) Name, address, and ZIP + 4 (c) Total contributions (d) Type of contribution Person Payroll $ Noncash (Complete Part II for noncash contributions.) (a) No. (b) Name, address, and ZIP + 4 (c) Total contributions (d) Type of contribution Person Payroll $ Noncash (Complete Part II for noncash contributions.) (a) No. (b) Name, address, and ZIP + 4 (c) Total contributions (d) Type of contribution Person Payroll $ Noncash (Complete Part II for noncash contributions.) (a) No. (b) Name, address, and ZIP + 4 (c) Total contributions (d) Type of contribution Person Payroll $ Noncash (Complete Part II for noncash contributions.) (a) No. (b) Name, address, and ZIP + 4 (c) Total contributions (d) Type of contribution Person Payroll $ Noncash (Complete Part II for noncash contributions.) Schedule B (Form 990, 990EZ, or 990PF) (2019) �Schedule B (Form 990, 990EZ, or 990PF) (2019) Name of organization OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY INC Page 3 Employer identification number 731300864 Part II (a) No. from Part I Noncash Property (see instructions). Use duplicate copies of Part II if additional space is needed. (b) Description of noncash property given (c) FMV (or estimate) (d) Date received (See instructions) $ (a) No. from Part I (b) Description of noncash property given (c) FMV (or estimate) (d) Date received (See instructions) $ (a) No. from Part I (b) Description of noncash property given (c) FMV (or estimate) (d) Date received (See instructions) $ (a) No. from Part I (b) Description of noncash property given (c) FMV (or estimate) (d) Date received (See instructions) $ (a) No. from Part I (b) Description of noncash property given (c) FMV (or estimate) (d) Date received (See instructions) $ (a) No. from Part I (b) Description of noncash property given (c) FMV (or estimate) (d) Date received (See instructions) $ Schedule B (Form 990, 990EZ, or 990PF) (2019) �Schedule B (Form 990, 990EZ, or 990PF) (2019) Page 4 Name of organization OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY INC Employer identification number 731300864 Part III (a) No. from Part I Exclusively religious, charitable, etc., contributions to organizations described in section 501(c)(7), (8), or (10) that total more than $1,000 for the year from any one contributor. Complete columns (a) through (e) and the following line entry. For organizations completing Part III, enter the total of exclusively religious, charitable, etc., contributions of $1,000 or less for the year. (Enter this information once. See instructions.) $ Use duplicate copies of Part III if additional space is needed. (b) Purpose of gift (c) Use of gift (d) Description of how gift is held (e) Transfer of gift Transferee's name, address, and ZIP 4 (a) No. from Part I (b) Purpose of gift Relationship of transferor to transferee (c) Use of gift (d) Description of how gift is held (e) Transfer of gift Transferee's name, address, and ZIP 4 (a) No. from Part I (b) Purpose of gift Relationship of transferor to transferee (c) Use of gift (d) Description of how gift is held (e) Transfer of gift Transferee's name, address, and ZIP 4 (a) No. from Part I (b) Purpose of gift Relationship of transferor to transferee (c) Use of gift (d) Description of how gift is held (e) Transfer of gift Transferee's name, address, and ZIP 4 Relationship of transferor to transferee Schedule B (Form 990, 990EZ, or 990PF) (2019) �Additional Data Return to Form Software ID: Software Version: �SCHEDULE C Political Campaign and Lobbying Activities (Form 990 or 990 EZ) For Organizations Exempt From Income Tax Under section 501(c) and section 527 2019 Complete if the organization is described below. Attach to Form 990 or Form 990EZ. Go to www.irs.gov/Form990 for instructions and the latest information. Open to Public Inspection Department of the Treasury Internal Revenue Service OMB No. 15450047 If the organization answered "Yes" on Form 990, Part IV, Line 3, or Form 990EZ, Part V, line 46 (Political Campaign Activities), then Section 501(c)(3) organizations: Complete Parts IA and B. Do not complete Part IC. Section 501(c) (other than section 501(c)(3)) organizations: Complete Parts IA and C below. Do not complete Part IB. Section 527 organizations: Complete Part IA only. If the organization answered "Yes" on Form 990, Part IV, Line 4, or Form 990EZ, Part VI, line 47 (Lobbying Activities), then Section 501(c)(3) organizations that have filed Form 5768 (election under section 501(h)): Complete Part IIA. Do not complete Part IIB. Section 501(c)(3) organizations that have NOT filed Form 5768 (election under section 501(h)): Complete Part IIB. Do not complete Part IIA. If the organization answered "Yes" on Form 990, Part IV, Line 5 (Proxy Tax) (see separate instructions) or Form 990EZ, Part V, line 35c (Proxy Tax) (see separate instructions), then Section 501(c)(4), (5), or (6) organizations: Complete Part III. Name of the organization Employer identification number OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY INC 731300864 Part IA Complete if the organization is exempt under section 501(c) or is a section 527 organization. 1 Provide a description of the organization’s direct and indirect political campaign activities in Part IV (see instructions for definition of “political campaign activities") 2 Political campaign activity expenditures (see instructions) .................................................................... 3 Volunteer hours for political campaign activities (see instructions) .................................................................. Part IB $ Complete if the organization is exempt under section 501(c)(3). 1 Enter the amount of any excise tax incurred by the organization under section 4955 ................................ $ 2 Enter the amount of any excise tax incurred by organization managers under section 4955 ....................... $ 3 If the organization incurred a section 4955 tax, did it file Form 4720 for this year? ......................................... Yes No 4a Was a correction made? ...................................................................................................................... Yes No b If "Yes," describe in Part IV. Part IC Complete if the organization is exempt under section 501(c), except section 501(c)(3). 1 Enter the amount directly expended by the filing organization for section 527 exempt function activities ..... $ 2 Enter the amount of the filing organization's funds contributed to other organizations for section 527 exempt function activities ............................................................................................................................ $ 3 Total exempt function expenditures. Add lines 1 and 2. Enter here and on Form 1120POL, line 17b........... $ 4 Did the filing organization file Form 1120POL for this year? ................................................................... 5 Enter the names, addresses and employer identification number (EIN) of all section 527 political organizations to which the filing organization made payments. For each organization listed, enter the amount paid from the filing organization’s funds. Also enter the amount of political contributions received that were promptly and directly delivered to a separate political organization, such as a separate segregated fund or a political action committee (PAC). If additional space is needed, provide information in Part IV. (a) N a m e (b) A d d r e s s (c) E I N Yes No (d) Amount paid from (e) Amount of filing organization's political contributions funds. If none, enter received and 0. promptly and directly delivered to a separate political organization. If none, enter 0. 1 2 3 4 5 6 For Paperwork Reduction Act Notice, see the instructions for Form 990 or 990EZ. Cat. No. 50084S Schedule C (Form 990 or 990EZ) 2019 �Page 2 Schedule C (Form 990 or 990EZ) 2019 Part IIA A Check Complete if the organization is exempt under section 501(c)(3) and filed Form 5768 (election under section 501(h)). if the filing organization belongs to an affiliated group (and list in Part IV each affiliated group member's name, address, EIN, expenses, and share of excess lobbying expenditures). B Check if the filing organization checked box A and "limited control" provisions apply. Limits on Lobbying Expenditures (The term "expenditures" means amounts paid or incurred.) 1a Total lobbying expenditures to influence public opinion (grass roots lobbying) ...................... b Total lobbying expenditures to influence a legislative body (direct lobbying) ........................ c Total lobbying expenditures (add lines 1a and 1b) ............................................................ d Other exempt purpose expenditures ............................................................................... e Total exempt purpose expenditures (add lines 1c and 1d) .................................................. f Lobbying nontaxable amount. Enter the amount from the following table in both columns. If the amount on line 1e, column (a) or (b) is: The lobbying nontaxable amount is: Not over $500,000 20% of the amount on line 1e. Over $500,000 but not over $1,000,000 $100,000 plus 15% of the excess over $500,000. Over $1,000,000 but not over $1,500,000 $175,000 plus 10% of the excess over $1,000,000. Over $1,500,000 but not over $17,000,000 $225,000 plus 5% of the excess over $1,500,000. Over $17,000,000 $1,000,000. (a) Filing organization's totals g Grassroots nontaxable amount (enter 25% of line 1f) ................................................. h Subtract line 1g from line 1a. If zero or less, enter 0. ................................................ i Subtract line 1f from line 1c. If zero or less, enter 0. ................................................ j If there is an amount other than zero on either line 1h or line 1i, did the organization file Form 4720 reporting section 4911 tax for this year? ................................................................................................................... (b) Affiliated group totals Yes No 4Year Averaging Period Under Section 501(h) (Some organizations that made a section 501(h) election do not have to complete all of the five columns below. See the separate instructions for lines 2a through 2f.) Lobbying Expenditures During 4Year Averaging Period Calendar year (or fiscal year beginning in) 2a Lobbying nontaxable amount b Lobbying ceiling amount (150% of line 2a, column(e)) c Total lobbying expenditures d Grassroots nontaxable amount e Grassroots ceiling amount (150% of line 2d, column (e)) f Grassroots lobbying expenditures (a) 2 0 1 6 (b) 2 0 1 7 (c) 2 0 1 8 (d) 2 0 1 9 (e) Total Schedule C (Form 990 or 990EZ) 2019 �Page 3 Schedule C (Form 990 or 990EZ) 2019 Part IIB Complete if the organization is exempt under section 501(c)(3) and has NOT filed Form 5768 (election under section 501(h)). For each "Yes" response on lines 1a through 1i below, provide in Part IV a detailed description of the lobbying activity. (a) (b) Yes | No Amount During the year, did the filing organization attempt to influence foreign, national, state or local legislation, including any attempt to influence public opinion on a legislative matter or referendum, through the use of: 1 a Volunteers? ........................................................................................................... Yes b Paid staff or management (include compensation in expenses reported on lines 1c through 1i)? ........ Yes c Media advertisements? ................................................................................................... No d Mailings to members, legislators, or the public? ............................................................................. No e Publications, or published or broadcast statements? ........................................................... No f Grants to other organizations for lobbying purposes? .......................................................... g Direct contact with legislators, their staffs, government officials, or a legislative body? ....................... Yes h Rallies, demonstrations, seminars, conventions, speeches, lectures, or any similar means? .................. Yes i Other activities? ................................................................................................................... j Total. Add lines 1c through 1i .................................................................................................... 2a No No Did the activities in line 1 cause the organization to be not described in section 501(c)(3)? ..... No b If "Yes," enter the amount of any tax incurred under section 4912 ........................................... c If "Yes," enter the amount of any tax incurred by organization managers under section 4912 ................... d If the filing organization incurred a section 4912 tax, did it file Form 4720 for this year? ........................ Part IIIA Complete if the organization is exempt under section 501(c)(4), section 501(c)(5), or section 501(c)(6). Yes 1 Were substantially all (90% or more) dues received nondeductible by members? ............................................... 1 2 Did the organization make only inhouse lobbying expenditures of $2,000 or less? ............................................ 2 3 Did the organization agree to carry over lobbying and political expenditures from the prior year? ................................. 3 Part IIIB Complete if the organization is exempt under section 501(c)(4), section 501(c)(5), or section 501(c)(6) and if either (a) BOTH Part IIIA, lines 1 and 2, are answered "No" OR (b) Part IIIA, line 3, is answered “Yes." 1 Dues, assessments and similar amounts from members ...................................................................... 2 Section 162(e) nondeductible lobbying and political expenditures (do not include amounts of political expenses for which the section 527(f) tax was paid). a b Current year ............................................................................................................................. Carryover from last year ............................................................................................................ 2a c Total ........................................................................................................................................... 2c 3 Aggregate amount reported in section 6033(e)(1)(A) notices of nondeductible section 162(e) dues . 3 4 If notices were sent and the amount on line 2c exceeds the amount on line 3, what portion of the excess does the organization agree to carryover to the reasonable estimate of nondeductible lobbying and political expenditure next year? ...................................................................................................................... 4 5 Taxable amount of lobbying and political expenditures (see instructions) ......................................... 5 Part IV No 1 2b Supplemental Information Provide the descriptions required for Part lA, line 1; Part lB, line 4; Part lC, line 5; Part IIA (affiliated group list); Part IIA, lines 1 and 2 (see instructions), and Part llB, line 1. Also, complete this part for any additional information. Return Reference Explanation Schedule C (Form 990 or 990EZ) 2019 �Additional Data Return to Form Software ID: Software Version: �SCHEDULE D Department of the Treasury Internal Revenue Service OMB No. 15450047 Supplemental Financial Statements (Form 990) 2019 Complete if the organization answered "Yes," on Form 990, Part IV, line 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11a, 11b, 11c, 11d, 11e, 11f, 12a, or 12b. Attach to Form 990. Go to www.irs.gov/Form990 for instructions and the latest information. Name of the organization Open to Public Inspection Employer identification number OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY INC 731300864 Part I Organizations Maintaining Donor Advised Funds or Other Similar Funds or Accounts. Complete if the organization answered "Yes" on Form 990, Part IV, line 6. (a) Donor advised funds (b) Funds and other accounts 1 Total number at end of year . . . . . . . . . 2 Aggregate value of contributions to (during year) 3 Aggregate value of grants from (during year) 4 Aggregate value at end of year . . . . . . . . 5 Did the organization inform all donors and donor advisors in writing that the assets held in donor advised funds are the organization’s property, subject to the organization’s exclusive legal control? . . . . . . . . . . . . Yes No 6 Did the organization inform all grantees, donors, and donor advisors in writing that grant funds can be used only for charitable purposes and not for the benefit of the donor or donor advisor, or for any other purpose conferring impermissible private benefit? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Yes No Part II 1 Conservation Easements. Complete if the organization answered "Yes" on Form 990, Part IV, line 7. Purpose(s) of conservation easements held by the organization (check all that apply). Preservation of land for public use (e.g., recreation or education) Preservation of an historically important land area Protection of natural habitat Preservation of a certified historic structure Preservation of open space 2 Complete lines 2a through 2d if the organization held a qualified conservation contribution in the form of a conservation easement on the last day of the tax year. Held at the End of the Year a Total number of conservation easements . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 2a b Total acreage restricted by conservation easements . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 2b c Number of conservation easements on a certified historic structure included in (a) . . . . . 2c d Number of conservation easements included in (c) acquired after 7/25/06, and not on a historic structure listed in the National Register . . . 2d 3 Number of conservation easements modified, transferred, released, extinguished, or terminated by the organization during the tax year 4 Number of states where property subject to conservation easement is located 5 Does the organization have a written policy regarding the periodic monitoring, inspection, handling of violations, and enforcement of the conservation easements it holds? . . . . . . . . . . . . Yes No 6 Staff and volunteer hours devoted to monitoring, inspecting, handling of violations, and enforcing conservation easements during the year 7 Amount of expenses incurred in monitoring, inspecting, handling of violations, and enforcing conservation easements during the year 8 Does each conservation easement reported on line 2(d) above satisfy the requirements of section 170(h)(4) (B)(i) and section 170(h)(4)(B)(ii)? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 9 In Part XIII, describe how the organization reports conservation easements in its revenue and expense statement, and balance sheet, and include, if applicable, the text of the footnote to the organization’s financial statements that describes the organization’s accounting for conservation easements. $ Part III Yes No Organizations Maintaining Collections of Art, Historical Treasures, or Other Similar Assets. Complete if the organization answered "Yes" on Form 990, Part IV, line 8. 1a If the organization elected, as permitted under SFAS 116 (ASC 958), not to report in its revenue statement and balance sheet works of art, historical treasures, or other similar assets held for public exhibition, education, or research in furtherance of public service, provide, in Part XIII, the text of the footnote to its financial statements that describes these items. b If the organization elected, as permitted under SFAS 116 (ASC 958), to report in its revenue statement and balance sheet works of art, historical treasures, or other similar assets held for public exhibition, education, or research in furtherance of public service, provide the following amounts relating to these items: (i) Revenue included on Form 990, Part VIII, line 1 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . $ (ii) Assets included in Form 990, Part X . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . $ If the organization received or held works of art, historical treasures, or other similar assets for financial gain, provide the following amounts required to be reported under SFAS 116 (ASC 958) relating to these items: 2 a Revenue included on Form 990, Part VIII, line 1 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . $ b Assets included in Form 990, Part X . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . $ For Paperwork Reduction Act Notice, see the Instructions for Form 990. Cat. No. 52283D Schedule D (Form 990) 2019 �Page 2 Organizations Maintaining Collections of Art, Historical Treasures, or Other Similar Assets (continued) Schedule D (Form 990) 2019 Part III 3 a Using the organization’s acquisition, accession, and other records, check any of the following that are a significant use of its collection items (check all that apply): d Public exhibition Loan or exchange programs b e Scholarly research c Other Preservation for future generations 4 Provide a description of the organization’s collections and explain how they further the organization’s exempt purpose in Part XIII. 5 During the year, did the organization solicit or receive donations of art, historical treasures or other similar assets to be sold to raise funds rather than to be maintained as part of the organization’s collection?. . . Part IV 1a Is the organization an agent, trustee, custodian or other intermediary for contributions or other assets not included on Form 990, Part X? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . If "Yes," explain the arrangement in Part XIII and complete the following table: c Beginning balance . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 1c d Additions during the year . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 1d e Distributions during the year . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 1e f Ending balance . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 1f b No Yes Did the organization include an amount on Form 990, Part X, line 21, for escrow or custodial account liability? . . . If "Yes," explain the arrangement in Part XIII. Check here if the explanation has been provided in Part XIII Part V No Amount b 2a Yes Escrow and Custodial Arrangements. Complete if the organization answered "Yes" on Form 990, Part IV, line 9, or reported an amount on Form 990, Part X, line 21. Yes No . . . . Endowment Funds. Complete if the organization answered "Yes" on Form 990, Part IV, line 10. (a) Current year 1a Beginning of year balance b Contributions . . . . . . (b) Prior year (c) Two years back (d) Three years back (e) Four years back 50,752 94,420 67,200 51,577 42,293 11,249 8,968 6,509 15,623 9,284 62,001 103,388 73,709 67,200 51,577 . c Net investment earnings, gains, and losses d Grants or scholarships . . . e Other expenditures for facilities and programs . . . f Administrative expenses g End of year balance 2 . . . . . . . . . . Provide the estimated percentage of the current year end balance (line 1g, column (a)) held as: a Board designated or quasiendowment b Permanent endowment c Temporarily restricted endowment The percentages on lines 2a, 2b, and 2c should equal 100%. 3a Are there endowment funds not in the possession of the organization that are held and administered for the organization by: (i) unrelated organizations b 4 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . (ii) related organizations . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . If "Yes" on 3a(ii), are the related organizations listed as required on Schedule R? . . . . . . . . . . Yes . 3a(i) No Yes 3a(ii) . No 3b Describe in Part XIII the intended uses of the organization's endowment funds. Part VI Land, Buildings, and Equipment. Complete if the organization answered "Yes" on Form 990, Part IV, line 11a. See Form 990, Part X, line 10. (a) Cost or other basis (investment) Description of property 1a Land . . b Buildings . . . . (b) Cost or other basis (other) (c) Accumulated depreciation (d) Book value 2,015,807 537,217 1,478,590 197,537 172,726 24,811 . . . c Leasehold improvements d Equipment e Other . . . . . . . . . Total. Add lines 1a through 1e. (Column (d) must equal Form 990, Part X, column (B), line 10(c).) . . 1,503,401 Schedule D (Form 990) 2019 �Page 3 Schedule D (Form 990) 2019 Part VII Investments—Other Securities. Complete if the organization answered "Yes" on Form 990, Part IV, line 11b.See Form 990, Part X, line 12. (a) Description of security or category (including name of security) (1) Financial derivatives . (2) Closelyheld equity interests (b) Book value . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . (3) Other (A) B E N E F I C I A L I N T E R E S T I N T U L S A C O M M F (c) Method of valuation: Cost or endofyear market value 61,989 F (C) (D) (E) (F) (G) (H) (I) Total. (Column (b) must equal Form 990, Part X, col. (B) line 12.) Part VIII 61,989 Investments—Program Related. Complete if the organization answered 'Yes' on Form 990, Part IV, line 11c. See Form 990, Part X, line 13. (a) Description of investment (b) Book value (c) Method of valuation: Cost or endofyear market value (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Total. (Column (b) must equal Form 990, Part X, col.(B) line 13.) Part IX Other Assets. Complete if the organization answered 'Yes' on Form 990, Part IV, line 11d. See Form 990, Part X, line 15. (a) Description (b) Book value (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Total. (Column (b) must equal Form 990, Part X, col.(B) line 15.) Part X . . . . . . . . . . . Other Liabilities. Complete if the organization answered 'Yes' on Form 990, Part IV, line 11e or 11f. See Form 990, Part X, line 25. 1. (a) Description of liability (b) Book value (1) Federal income taxes (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) Total. (Column (b) must equal Form 990, Part X, col.(B) line 25.) 2. Liability for uncertain tax positions. In Part XIII, provide the text of the footnote to the organization's financial statements that reports the organization's liability for uncertain tax positions under FIN 48 (ASC 740). Check here if the text of the footnote has been provided in Part XIII Schedule D (Form 990) 2019 �Page 4 Schedule D (Form 990) 2019 Part XI Reconciliation of Revenue per Audited Financial Statements With Revenue per Return. Complete if the organization answered 'Yes' on Form 990, Part IV, line 12a. 1 Total revenue, gains, and other support per audited financial statements 2 Amounts included on line 1 but not on Form 990, Part VIII, line 12: . . a Net unrealized gains (losses) on investments . . . . b Donated services and use of facilities . . . . . . . . . 2b c Recoveries of prior year grants . . . . . . . . . 2c d Other (Describe in Part XIII.) . . . . . . . . . e Add lines 2a through 2d . . . . . . . 2d . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 3 Subtract line 2e from line 1 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 4 Amounts included on Form 990, Part VIII, line 12, but not on line 1: a Investment expenses not included on Form 990, Part VIII, line 7b . b Other (Describe in Part XIII.) . . . . . . . . . . . c Add lines 4a and 4b . . . . . . . . . . . . 5 . . 2e 3 4b . . . . . . . . . 4c . . . 5 Reconciliation of Expenses per Audited Financial Statements With Expenses per Return. Complete if the organization answered 'Yes' on Form 990, Part IV, line 12a. 1 Total expenses and losses per audited financial statements 2 Amounts included on line 1 but not on Form 990, Part IX, line 25: . . a Donated services and use of facilities . . . . . . . . b Prior year adjustments . . . . . . . . c Other losses d Other (Describe in Part XIII.) . . . . . . . . . e . 4a Total revenue. Add lines 3 and 4c. (This must equal Form 990, Part I, line 12.) Part XII 1 2a . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 1 2a 2b . . 2c 2d . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 2e 3 Subtract line 2e from line 1 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 3 4 Amounts included on Form 990, Part IX, line 25, but not on line 1: a Investment expenses not included on Form 990, Part VIII, line 7b . . 4a b Other (Describe in Part XIII.) . . . . . . . . . 4b c 5 Add lines 2a through 2d . . . Add lines 4a and 4b . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Total expenses. Add lines 3 and 4c. (This must equal Form 990, Part I, line 18.) . . . . . . . . 4c . . 5 Part XIII Supplemental Information Provide the descriptions required for Part II, lines 3, 5, and 9; Part III, lines 1a and 4; Part lV, lines 1b and 2b; Part V, line 4; Part X, line 2; Part XI, lines 2d and 4b; and Part XII, lines 2d and 4b. Also complete this part to provide any additional information. Return Reference Explanation Schedule D (Form 990) 2019 �Additional Data Return to Form Software ID: Software Version: �OMB No. 15450047 Supplemental Information Regarding Fundraising or Gaming Activities SCHEDULE G (Form 990 or 990EZ) Complete if the organization answered "Yes" on Form 990, Part IV, lines 17, 18, or 19, or if the organization entered more than $15,000 on Form 990EZ, line 6a. Department of the Treasury Internal Revenue Service Attach to Form 990 or Form 990EZ. Go to www.irs.gov/Form990 for instructions and the latest information. Name of the organization OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY INC 2019 Open to Public Inspection Employer identification number 731300864 Part I 1 Fundraising Activities. Complete if the organization answered "Yes" on Form 990, Part IV, line 17. Form 990EZ filers are not required to complete this part. Indicate whether the organization raised funds through any of the following activities. Check all that apply. a Mail solicitations b c d Inperson solicitations 2a b e Solicitation of nongovernment grants Internet and email solicitations f Solicitation of government grants Phone solicitations g Special fundraising events Did the organization have a written or oral agreement with any individual (including officers, directors, trustees or key employees listed in Form 990, Part VII) or entity in connection with professional fundraising Yes No services? If "Yes," list the 10 highest paid individuals or entities (fundraisers) pursuant to agreements under which the fundraiser is to be compensated at least $5,000 by the organization. (i) Name and address of individual or entity (fundraiser) (ii) Activity (iii) Did fundraiser have custody or control of contributions? Yes No (iv) Gross receipts from activity (v) Amount paid to (or retained by) fundraiser listed in col. (i) (vi) Amount paid to (or retained by) organization 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Total . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 3 List all states in which the organization is registered or licensed to solicit contributions or has been notified it is exempt from registration or licensing. For Paperwork Reduction Act Notice, see the Instructions for Form 990 or 990EZ. Cat. No. 50083H Schedule G (Form 990 or 990EZ) 2019 �Schedule G (Form 990 or 990EZ) 2019 Part II Page 2 Fundraising Events. Complete if the organization answered "Yes" on Form 990, Part IV, line 18, or reported more than $15,000 of fundraising event contributions and gross income on Form 990EZ, lines 1 and 6b. List events with gross receipts greater than $5,000. 1 Gross receipts . (c)Other events EQ GALA (event type) (event type) (total number) 246,767 246,767 2 Less: Contributions . . . 3 Gross income (line 1 minus line 2) . . . . . . 230,400 230,400 16,367 16,367 . . . . . 5 Noncash prizes . . . . 6 Rent/facility costs . . . . . . . 7 Food and beverages 8 Entertainment . . 9 Other direct expenses . . . . . 12,674 12,674 10 Direct expense summary. Add lines 4 through 9 in column (d) . . . . . . . . . . 12,674 11 Net income summary. Subtract line 10 from line 3, column (d) . . . . . . . . . . 3,693 Part III Gaming. Complete if the organization answered "Yes" on Form 990, Part IV, line 19, or reported more than $15,000 on Form 990EZ, line 6a. (b) Pull tabs/Instant bingo/progressive bingo (a) Bingo 1 Gross revenue . . . . . 2 Cash prizes . . . . 3 Noncash prizes . . . . 4 Rent/facility costs . . . . 5 Other direct expenses . . . . Yes 6 Volunteer labor . . . . % Yes No 7 Direct expense summary. Add lines 2 through 5 in column (d) 9 (d) Total events (add col. (a) through col. (c)) . . . (b) Event #2 . 4 Cash prizes . (a)Event #1 % Yes No . (d) Total gaming (add col.(a) through col.(c)) (c) Other gaming % No . . . . . . . . . 8 Net gaming income summary. Subtract line 7 from line 1, column (d) . . . . . . . . . Enter the state(s) in which the organization conducts gaming activities: a b 10a b . . . Yes No Were any of the organization's gaming licenses revoked, suspended or terminated during the tax year? . If "Yes," explain: . . Yes No Is the organization licensed to conduct gaming activities in each of these states? . If "No," explain: Schedule G (Form 990 or 990EZ) 2019 . . . . �Schedule G (Form 990 or 990EZ) 2019 11 Page 3 12 Does the organization conduct gaming activities with nonmembers? . . . . . . . . . . Is the organization a grantor, beneficiary or trustee of a trust or a member of a partnership or other entity formed to administer charitable gaming? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 13 Indicate the percentage of gaming activity conducted in: a The organization's facility . . . . b An outside facility . . . . 14 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Yes No Yes No . . 13a % . . 13b % Enter the name and address of the person who prepares the organization's gaming/special events books and records: Name Address 15a b Does the organization have a contract with a third party from whom the organization receives gaming revenue? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . If "Yes," enter the amount of gaming revenue received by the organization amount of gaming revenue retained by the third party c $ $ . . Yes No Yes No and the . If "Yes," enter name and address of the third party: Name Address 16 Gaming manager information: Name Gaming manager compensation $ Description of services provided Director/officer 17 a Independent contractor Mandatory distributions: Is the organization required under state law to make charitable distributions from the gaming proceeds to retain the state gaming license? b Employee . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Enter the amount of distributions required under state law distributed to other exempt organizations or spent in the organization's own exempt activities during the tax year Part IV $ Supplemental Information. Provide the explanations required by Part I, line 2b, columns (iii) and (v); and Part III, lines 9, 9b, 10b, 15b, 15c, 16, and 17b, as applicable. Also provide any additional information. See instructions. Return Reference General Explanation Attachment Explanation EQUALITY GALA, AN ANNUAL IN PERSON EVENT HELD FOR MANY YEARS, WAS NOT HELD IN APRIL 2020 AS PLANNED DUE TO COVID19 PANDEMIC. Schedule G (Form 990 or 990EZ) 2019 Additional Data Return to Form Software ID: Software Version: �SCHEDULE O Supplemental Information to Form 990 or 990EZ (Form 990 or 990 EZ) Complete to provide information for responses to specific questions on Form 990 or 990EZ or to provide any additional information. Attach to Form 990 or 990EZ. Go to www.irs.gov/Form990 for the latest information. Department of the Treasury Internal Revenue Service Name of the organization OMB No. 15450047 2019 Open to Public Inspection Employer identification number OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY INC 731300864 Return Reference Explanation Members or stockholder classes and rights Part VI line 6 PERSONS WHO MAKE MINIMUM LEVEL OF CONTRIBUTION ARE ELIGIBLE TO VOTE ON MATTERS THAT COME BEFORE THE ANNUAL MEETING INCLUDING ELECTING MEMBERS TO THE BOARD OF DIRECTORS. Member election for additional members Part VI line 7a PERSONS WHO MAKE MINIMUM LEVEL OF CONTRIBUTION ARE ELIGIBLE TO VOTE ON MATTERS THAT COME BEFORE THE ANNUAL MEETING INCLUDING ELECTING MEMBERS TO THE BOARD OF DIRECTORS. Form 990 governing body review Part VI line 11 CIRCULATED FOR REVIEW BY MEMBERS OF THE EXECUTIVE COMMITTEE Conflict of interest policy compliance Part VI line 12c DIRECTORS ARE REQUIRED TO MAKE FULL DISCLOSURE OF POTENTIAL AND ACTUAL CONFLICTS OF INTEREST AND RECUSE FROM ISSUES AS NECESSARY CEO executive director top management comp Part VI line 15a USE OF OKLAHOMA CENTER FOR NON PROFITS PROVIDED DATA Governing GUIDESTAR.COM AND IN OFFICE AVAILABLE FOR MEMBERS TO READ AND TO COPY AS WELL AS ELECTRONICALLY documents etc available to public Part VI line 19 Significant program services not listed on prior year return Part III line 2 MEDICAL CLINIC Explanation ROUNDING $1 of other changes in net assets or fund balances Part XI line 9 List of other expenses Part IX line 24e BANK CHARGES AND FEES $8,590MEMBERSHIP DUES $3,505THEFT LOSS $96EMPLOYEE EXPENSE $16,919TOTAL $29,110 For Paperwork Reduction Act Notice, see the Instructions for Form 990 or 990EZ. Cat. No. 51056K Schedule O (Form 990 or 990EZ) 2019 �Additional Data Return to Form Software ID: Software Version: � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/1a250269c888cd5b75e5cbf15c09a252.pdf ce4d51aaf6ba3a457bef40612b64de88 PDF Text Text �� https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/b958e43fe00167900c971cd5b677870d.pdf 13545af37c463a2107dc65459416f79f PDF Text Text Form OMB No. 1545 Return of Organization Exempt From Income Tax 990 0047 2021 Under section 501(c), 527, or 4947(a)(1) of the Internal Revenue Code (except private foundations) Do not enter social security numbers on this form as it may be made public. Open to Public Inspection Go to www.irs.gov/Form990 for instructions and the latest information. Department of the Treasury Internal Revenue Service A For the 2021 calendar year, or tax year beginning 10012021 , and ending 09302022 C Name of organization OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY INC B Check if applicable: Address change D Employer identification number 731300864 Name change Initial return Doing business as Final return/terminated E Telephone number Amended return Application pending Number and street (or P.O. box if mail is not delivered to street address) Room/suite PO BOX 2687 (918) 7434297 City or town, state or province, country, and ZIP or foreign postal code TULSA, OK 74101 G Gross receipts $ 1,272,013 F Name and address of principal officer: I J Taxexempt status: Website: 501(c)(3) 501(c) ( ) H(a) Is this a group return for subordinates? H(b) Are all subordinates included? (insert no.) 4947(a)(1) or Corporation No No If "No," attach a list. See instructions. 527 H(c) Group exemption number WWW.OKEQ.ORG K Form of organization: Yes Yes Trust Association L Year of formation: 1980 Other M State of legal domicile: OK Summary Part I 1 Briefly describe the organization’s mission or most significant activities: OKEQ SEEKS EQUAL RIGHTS FOR 2SLGBTQIA+ INDIVIDUALS AND FAMILIES THROUGH INTERSECTIONAL ADVOCACY, EDUCATION, PROGRAMS, ALLIANCES AND THE OPERATION OF THE DENNIS R NEILL EQUALITY CENTER. if the organization discontinued its operations or disposed of more than 25% of its net assets. 2 Check this box . . . . . . . 3 Number of voting members of the governing body (Part VI, line 1a) . 3 15 4 Number of independent voting members of the governing body (Part VI, line 1b) 15 5 Total number of individuals employed in calendar year 2021 (Part V, line 2a) . 6 Total number of volunteers (estimate if necessary) 7a . . . . . Total unrelated business revenue from Part VIII, column (C), line 12 . . . . . . . . 4 . . . . . . 5 12 . . . . . . 6 312 7a 0 . . . . b Net unrelated business taxable income from Form 990T, Part I, line 11 . . 8 Contributions and grants (Part VIII, line 1h) . . . . . . . . . 9 Program service revenue (Part VIII, line 2g) . . . . . . . . . 10 Investment income (Part VIII, column (A), lines 3, 4, and 7d ) . . . . 11 Other revenue (Part VIII, column (A), lines 5, 6d, 8c, 9c, 10c, and 11e) 12 Total revenue—add lines 8 through 11 (must equal Part VIII, column (A), line 12) 13 Grants and similar amounts paid (Part IX, column (A), lines 1–3 ) . 14 Benefits paid to or for members (Part IX, column (A), line 4) . 15 Salaries, other compensation, employee benefits (Part IX, column (A), lines 5–10) . . . . . . . . . 7b Prior Year 16a Professional fundraising fees (Part IX, column (A), line 11e) b Total fundraising expenses (Part IX, column (D), line 25) . . . . . Current Year 1,064,421 920,197 116,436 16,385 14 20,353 137,788 1,101,159 898,859 . 0 . . . . 0 341,489 389,831 35,900 27,979 840,772 539,199 1,218,161 957,009 . 61,148 17 Other expenses (Part IX, column (A), lines 11a–11d, 11f–24e) . 18 Total expenses. Add lines 13–17 (must equal Part IX, column (A), line 25) 19 Revenue less expenses. Subtract line 18 from line 12 . . . . . . . . . . 117,002 58,150 Beginning of Current Year 20 Total assets (Part X, line 16) . 21 Total liabilities (Part X, line 26) . 22 Net assets or fund balances. Subtract line 21 from line 20 . Part II . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . End of Year 1,625,819 . . 1,574,711 3,373 10,415 1,622,446 1,564,296 Signature Block Under penalties of perjury, I declare that I have examined this return, including accompanying schedules and statements, and to the best of my knowledge and belief, it is true, correct, and complete. Declaration of preparer (other than officer) is based on all information of which preparer has any knowledge. 20230803 Date Signature of officer Sign Here DOROTHY BALLARD EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR Type or print name and title Print/Type preparer's name Paid Preparer Use Only Preparer's signature Firm's name OBER & LITTLEFIELD CPAS Firm's address 124 S MAIN ST Date PTIN if 20230810 Check P01780781 selfemployed 474648903 Firm's EIN Phone no. (918) 5424401 MIAMI, OK 74354 May the IRS discuss this return with the preparer shown above? (see instructions) For Paperwork Reduction Act Notice, see the separate instructions. . . . . . . . Cat. No. 11282Y . . . Yes No Form 990 (2021) �Page 2 Form 990 (2021) Part III Statement of Program Service Accomplishments Check if Schedule O contains a response or note to any line in this Part III . 1 . . . . . . . . . . . . . Briefly describe the organization’s mission: OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY (OKEQ) SEEKS EQUAL RIGHTS FOR 2SLGBTQIA+ INDIVUALS AND FAMILIES THROUGH INTERSECTIONAL ADVOCACY, EDUCATION, PROGRAMS, ALLIANCES, AND THE OPERATION OF THE DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER. 2 Did the organization undertake any significant program services during the year which were not listed on the prior Form 990 or 990EZ? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Yes No . . Yes No If "Yes," describe these new services on Schedule O. 3 Did the organization cease conducting, or make significant changes in how it conducts, any program services? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . If "Yes," describe these changes on Schedule O. 4 4a Describe the organization’s program service accomplishments for each of its three largest program services, as measured by expenses. Section 501(c)(3) and 501(c)(4) organizations are required to report the amount of grants and allocations to others, the total expenses, and revenue, if any, for each program service reported. (Code: ) (Expenses $ 761,904 including grants of $ ) (Revenue $ 116,436 ) MINORITY COMMUNITY CENTER OPERATION, CULTURAL AND EDUCATION PROGRAMS AND EVENT FACILITATION INCLUDING: COUNSELING AND WELLNESS PROGRAMS. PROVIDING FREE LICENSED MENTAL HEALTH PROFESSIONAL COUNSELING SERVICES. MORE THAN 30 PEER LED SUPPORT GROUPS FOR INDIVIDUALS DEALING WITH POST TRAUMATIC STRESS, SEXUAL ORIENTATION IDENTITY ACCEPTANCE, DEPRESSION, EATING DISORDERS, GRIEF RECOVERY, TRANSGENDER ISSUES, DIVORCE AND RELATIONSHIP CHALLENGES, SUBSTANCE ABUSE, AND HEALTH CHALLENGES. TRANSGENDER SERVICES AND PROGRAMS: PROVIDING MEDICAL REFERRALS AND LIMITED MEDICAL SERVICES, MENTAL HEALTH REFERRALS, LEGAL SERVICES AND 5 DIFFERENT PEER LED SUPPORT GROUPS FOR INDIVIDUALS AND THEIR FAMILIES WHO IDENTIFTY AS TRANSGENDER. LGBT OLDER ADULT PROGRAM: PROVIDING MEDICAL REFERRALS, MENTAL HEALTH REFERRALS, LEGAL SERVICES, WEEKLY CHECK INS, ADVOCATING FOR THOSE LIVING IN ASSISTED LIVING CENTERS, AND SOCIAL PROGRAMMING FOR LESBIAN, GAY, BISEXUAL AND TRANSGENDER SENIOR ADULTS. 4b (Code: ) (Expenses $ including grants of $ ) (Revenue $ ) 4c (Code: ) (Expenses $ including grants of $ ) (Revenue $ ) 4d Other program services (Describe in Schedule O.) (Expenses $ 4e Total program service expenses including grants of $ ) (Revenue $ ) 761,904 Form 990 (2021) �Page 3 Form 990 (2021) Part IV Checklist of Required Schedules Yes 1 Is the organization described in section 501(c)(3) or 4947(a)(1) (other than a private foundation)? If "Yes," complete Schedule A . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 1 2 Is the organization required to complete Schedule B, Schedule of Contributors? See instructions. 2 3 Did the organization engage in direct or indirect political campaign activities on behalf of or in opposition to candidates for public office? If "Yes," complete Schedule C, Part I . . . . . . . . . . . . . Section 501(c)(3) organizations. Did the organization engage in lobbying activities, or have a section 501(h) election in effect during the tax year? If "Yes," complete Schedule C, Part II . . . . . . . . . 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 . . . Is the organization a section 501(c)(4), 501(c)(5), or 501(c)(6) organization that receives membership dues, assessments, or similar amounts as defined in Rev. Proc. 9819? If "Yes," complete Schedule C, Part III . . Did the organization maintain any donor advised funds or any similar funds or accounts for which donors have the right to provide advice on the distribution or investment of amounts in such funds or accounts? If "Yes," complete Schedule D,Part I . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Did the organization receive or hold a conservation easement, including easements to preserve open space, the environment, historic land areas, or historic structures? If "Yes," complete Schedule D, Part II . . . . Did the organization maintain collections of works of art, historical treasures, or other similar assets? If "Yes," complete Schedule D, Part III . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Yes Yes No 3 4 Yes No 5 No 6 7 No 8 No 9 No Did the organization report an amount in Part X, line 21 for escrow or custodial account liability; serve as a custodian for amounts not listed in Part X; or provide credit counseling, debt management, credit repair, or debt negotiation services? If "Yes," complete Schedule D, Part IV . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Did the organization, directly or through a related organization, hold assets in temporarily restricted endowments, permanent endowments, or quasi endowments? If "Yes," complete Schedule D, Part V . . . . . . 10 Yes 11a Yes If the organization’s answer to any of the following questions is "Yes," then complete Schedule D, Parts VI, VII, VIII, IX, or X, as applicable. a Did the organization report an amount for land, buildings, and equipment in Part X, line 10? If "Yes," complete Schedule D, Part VI. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . b Did the organization report an amount for investments—other securities in Part X, line 12 that is 5% or more of its total assets reported in Part X, line 16? If "Yes," complete Schedule D, Part VII c . . . . . . . 11b No 11c No 11d No 11e No Did the organization report an amount for investments—program related in Part X, line 13 that is 5% or more of its total assets reported in Part X, line 16? If "Yes," complete Schedule D, Part VIII . . . . . . . d Did the organization report an amount for other assets in Part X, line 15 that is 5% or more of its total assets e No reported in Part X, line 16? If "Yes," complete Schedule D, Part IX . . . . . . . . . . . . Did the organization report an amount for other liabilities in Part X, line 25? If "Yes," complete Schedule D, Part X f Did the organization’s separate or consolidated financial statements for the tax year include a footnote that addresses the organization’s liability for uncertain tax positions under FIN 48 (ASC 740)? 11f "Yes," complete Schedule Part X independent audited financial statements for the tax year? If "Yes," complete 12a If Did the organization obtainD, separate, 12a Schedule D, Parts XI and XII . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . b Was the organization included in consolidated, independent audited financial statements for the tax year? If "Yes," and if the organization answered "No" to line 12a, then completing Schedule D, Parts XI and XII is optional 13 Is the organization a school described in section 170(b)(1)(A)(ii)? If "Yes," complete Schedule E 14a Did the organization maintain an office, employees, or agents outside of the United States? . . . . . b Did the organization have aggregate revenues or expenses of more than $10,000 from grantmaking, fundraising, business, investment, and program service activities outside the United States, or aggregate foreign investments valued at $100,000 or more? If "Yes," complete Schedule F, Parts I and IV . the . organization . . . . report . .on Part . 15 Did IX, column (A), line 3, more than $5,000 of grants or other assistance to or for any foreign organization? If “Yes,” complete Schedule F, Parts II and IV . 16 . . . . Did the organization report on Part IX, column (A), line 3, more than $5,000 of aggregate grants or other assistance to or for foreign individuals? If “Yes,” complete Schedule F, Parts III and IV . . . No No 12b No 13 No 14a No 14b No 15 No 16 No 17 Did the organization report a total of more than $15,000 of expenses for professional fundraising services on Part IX, column (A), lines 6 and 11e? If "Yes," complete Schedule G, Part I. See instructions. . . . . 17 Yes 18 Did the organization report more than $15,000 total of fundraising event gross income and contributions on Part VIII, lines 1c and 8a? If "Yes," complete Schedule G, Part II . . . . . . . . . . . . 18 Yes 19 Did the organization report more than $15,000 of gross income from gaming activities on Part VIII, line 9a? I f "Yes," complete Schedule G, Part III . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 20a Did the organization operate one or more hospital facilities? If "Yes," complete Schedule H . . . . b If "Yes" to line 20a, did the organization attach a copy of its audited financial statements to this return? 21 Did the organization report more than $5,000 of grants or other assistance to any domestic organization or domestic government on Part IX, column (A), line 1? If “Yes,” complete Schedule I, Parts I and II . . . . . 19 No 20a No 20b 21 No Form 990 (2021) �Page 4 Form 990 (2021) Part IV Checklist of Required Schedules (continued) Yes No 22 Did the organization report more than $5,000 of grants or other assistance to or for domestic individuals on Part IX, column (A), line 2? If “Yes,” complete Schedule I, Parts I and III . . . . . . . . 22 No 23 Did the organization answer "Yes" to Part VII, Section A, line 3, 4, or 5, about compensation of the organization’s current and former officers, directors, trustees, key employees, and highest compensated employees? If "Yes," complete Schedule J . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 23 No 24a Did the organization have a taxexempt bond issue with an outstanding principal amount of more than $100,000 as of the last day of the year, that was issued after December 31, 2002? If “Yes,” answer lines 24b through 24d and complete Schedule K. If “No,” go to line 25a . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . b Did the organization invest any proceeds of taxexempt bonds beyond a temporary period exception? . c . . 24b Did the organization maintain an escrow account other than a refunding escrow at any time during the year to defease any taxexempt bonds? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 24c d Did the organization act as an "on behalf of" issuer for bonds outstanding at any time during the year? . . . 25a Section 501(c)(3), 501(c)(4), and 501(c)(29) organizations. Did the organization engage in an excess benefit transaction with a disqualified person during the year? If "Yes," complete Schedule L, Part I . . . . 24d 25a No 25b No former officer, director, trustee, key employee, creator or founder, substantial contributor, or 35% controlled entity or family member of any of these persons? If "Yes," complete Schedule L, aPart II or . other . . assistance . . . to .any. current . . or .former officer, director, trustee, key Did the organization provide grant 26 No employee, creator or founder, substantial contributor, or employee thereof, a grant selection committee member, or to a 35% controlled entity (including an employee thereof) or family member of any of these persons? If "Yes," completeSchedule L,Part III . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 27 No 28a No b Is the organization aware that it engaged in an excess benefit transaction with a disqualified person in a prior year, and that the transaction has not been reported on any of the organization’s prior Forms 990 or 990EZ? I f "Yes," complete Schedule L, Part I . the . organization . . . . report . .any. amount . . on. Part . X,. line . 5 .or 22 . for . receivables . . . . . or payables to any current or 26 Did from 27 28 No 24a Was the organization a party to a business transaction with one of the following parties (see the Schedule L, Part IV instructions for applicable filing thresholds, conditions, and exceptions): a A current or former officer, director, trustee, key employee, creator or founder, or substantial contributor? If "Yes," complete Schedule L, Part IV . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . b A family member of any individual described in line 28a? If "Yes," complete Schedule L, Part IV . . . . . 28b No A 35% controlled entity of one or more individuals and/or organizations described in line 28a or 28b? If "Yes," complete Schedule L, Part IV . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 28c No 29 Did the organization receive more than $25,000 in noncash contributions? If "Yes," complete Schedule M . . 29 No 30 Did the organization receive contributions of art, historical treasures, or other similar assets, or qualified conservation contributions? If "Yes," complete Schedule M .terminate, . . . or dissolve . . . and . cease . . operations? . . . If."Yes," . complete . . Did the organization liquidate, Schedule N, Part I 30 No 31 No 32 No 33 No 34 No 35a No c 31 32 33 34 Did the organization sell, exchange, dispose of, or transfer more than 25% of its net assets? If "Yes," complete Schedule N, Part II . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Did the organization own 100% of an entity disregarded as separate from the organization under Regulations sections 301.77012 and 301.77013? If "Yes," Schedule R, Part I .taxexempt . . . or. taxable . . entity? . . If ."Yes," . complete . Was the complete organization related to any Schedule R, Part II, III, or IV, and Part V, line 1 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 35a Did the organization have a controlled entity within the meaning of section 512(b)(13)? b If ‘Yes’ to line 35a, did the organization receive any payment from or engage in any transaction with a controlled entity within the meaning of section 512(b)(13)? If "Yes," complete Schedule R, Part V, line 2 . . . 36 37 38 35b Section 501(c)(3) organizations. Did the organization make any transfers to an exempt noncharitable related organization? If "Yes," complete Schedule R, Part V, line 2 . . . . . . . . . . . . . 36 No Did the organization conduct more than 5% of its activities through an entity that is not a related organization and that is treated as a partnership for federal income tax purposes? If "Yes," complete Schedule R, Part VI 37 No Did the organization complete Schedule O and provide explanations on Schedule O for Part VI, lines 11b and 19? Note. All Form 990 filers are required to complete Schedule O. . . . . . . . . . . . . 38 Part V Statements Regarding Other IRS Filings and Tax Compliance Check if Schedule O contains a response or note to any line in this Part V . . . . . . . . Yes . . Yes 1a Enter the number reported in box 3 of Form 1096. Enter 0 if not applicable . . b Enter the number of Forms W2G included on line 1a. Enter 0 if not applicable c . 1a 13 1b 0 Did the organization comply with backup withholding rules for reportable payments to vendors and reportable gaming (gambling) winnings to prize winners? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 1c . No Yes Form 990 (2021) �Page 5 Form 990 (2021) Part V Statements Regarding Other IRS Filings and Tax Compliance (continued) 2a Enter the number of employees reported on Form W3, Transmittal of Wage and Tax Statements, filed for the calendar year ending with or within the year covered by this return . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 2a 12 2b b If at least one is reported on line 2a, did the organization file all required federal employment tax returns? Note. If the sum of lines 1a and 2a is greater than 250, you may be required to efile. See instructions. 3a Did the organization have unrelated business gross income of $1,000 or more during the year? . . . b If “Yes,” has it filed a Form 990T for this year? If “No” to line 3b, provide an explanation in Schedule O . . Yes 3a No . 3b 4a At any time during the calendar year, did the organization have an interest in, or a signature or other authority over, a financial account in a foreign country (such as a bank account, securities account, or other financial account)? . the . name of the foreign country: b If "Yes," enter See instructions for filing requirements for FinCEN Form 114, Report of Foreign Bank and Financial Accounts 5a (FBAR). Was the organization a party to a prohibited tax shelter transaction at any time during the tax year? . . 4a No 5a No b Did any taxable party notify the organization that it was or is a party to a prohibited tax shelter transaction? 5b No c 5c If "Yes," to line 5a or 5b, did the organization file Form 8886T? . . . . . . . . . . . . 6a Does the organization have annual gross receipts that are normally greater than $100,000, and did the organization solicit any contributions that were not tax deductible as charitable contributions? . . . 6a b If "Yes," did the organization include with every solicitation an express statement that such contributions or gifts were not tax deductible? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 7 No 6b Organizations that may receive deductible contributions under section 170(c). a Did the organization receive a payment in excess of $75 made partly as a contribution and partly for goods and services provided to the payor? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 7a Yes b If "Yes," did the organization notify the donor of the value of the goods or services provided? 7b Yes c d If "Yes," indicate the number of Forms 8282 filed during the year e . . . . . Did the organization sell, exchange, or otherwise dispose of tangible personal property for which it was required to file Form 8282? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Did the organization, during the year, pay premiums, directly or indirectly, on a personal benefit contract? . . g If the organization received a contribution of qualified intellectual property, did the organization file Form 8899 as required? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . h If the organization received a contribution of cars, boats, airplanes, or other vehicles, did the organization file a Form 1098C? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 9 Sponsoring organizations maintaining donor advised funds. Did a donor advised fund maintained by the sponsoring organization have excess business holdings at any time during the year? . . . organizations . . . . maintaining . Sponsoring donor advised funds. a Did the sponsoring organization make any taxable distributions under section 4966? . . . . . . . . b Did the sponsoring organization make a distribution to a donor, donor advisor, or related person? . 10 7e No 7f No 7g No 7h No 8 9a . . 9b Section 501(c)(7) organizations. Enter: a Initiation fees and capital contributions included on Part VIII, line 12 . . . 10a b Gross receipts, included on Form 990, Part VIII, line 12, for public use of club facilities 11 Section 501(c)(12) organizations. Enter: a Gross income from members or shareholders . . . . . . . . 10b . 11a b Gross income from other sources. (Do not net amounts due or paid to other 11b sources against amounts due or received from them.) . . . . . . . . . . 12a Section 4947(a)(1) nonexempt charitable trusts. Is the organization filing Form 990 in lieu of Form 1041? b If "Yes," enter the amount of taxexempt interest received or accrued during the year. 13 No Did the organization receive any funds, directly or indirectly, to pay premiums on a personal benefit contract? f 8 7c 7d 12a 12b Section 501(c)(29) qualified nonprofit health insurance issuers. a Is the organization licensed to issue qualified health plans in more than one state? . . . . . . . . . Note. See the instructions for additional information the organization must report on Schedule O. b Enter the amount of reserves the organization is required to maintain by the states in which the organization is licensed to issue qualified health plans . . . . 13b c 13c Enter the amount of reserves on hand . . . . . . . . . . . . 14a Did the organization receive any payments for indoor tanning services during the tax year? . . . 14a b If "Yes," has it filed a Form 720 to report these payments?If "No," provide an explanation in Schedule O . . 14b 15 16 17 . 13a . Is the organization subject to the section 4960 tax on payment(s) of more than $1,000,000 in remuneration or excess parachute payment(s) during the year? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . If "Yes," Is the organization see the instructions an educational and file institution Form 4720, subject Schedule to theN. section 4968 excise tax on net investment income? . . If "Yes," complete Form 4720, Schedule O. Section 501(c)(21) organizations. Did the trust, any disqualified person, or mine operator engage in any activities that would result in the imposition of an excise tax under section 4951, 4952, or 4953? . . If "Yes," complete Form 6069. No 15 No 16 No 17 Form 990 (2021) �Page 6 Form 990 (2021) Part VI Governance, Management, and Disclosure. For each "Yes" response to lines 2 through 7b below, and for a "No" response to lines 8a, 8b, or 10b below, describe the circumstances, processes, or changes in Schedule O. See instructions. Check if Schedule O contains a response or note to any line in this Part VI . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Section A. Governing Body and Management Yes 1a Enter the number of voting members of the governing body at the end of the tax year If there are material differences in voting rights among members of the governing 1a 15 1b 15 No body, or if the governing body delegated broad authority to an executive committee or similar committee, explain in Schedule O. b Enter the number of voting members included in line 1a, above, who are independent 2 Did any officer, director, trustee, or key employee have a family relationship or a business relationship with any other officer, director, trustee, or key employee? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 3 Did the organization delegate control over management duties customarily performed by or under the direct supervision of officers, directors or trustees, or key employees to a management company or other person? 4 . 5 Did the organization make any significant changes to its governing documents since the prior Form 990 was filed? Did the. organization become aware during the year of a significant diversion of the organization’s assets? . 6 Did the organization have members or stockholders? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . No 3 No 4 . 7a Did the organization have members, stockholders, or other persons who had the power to elect or appoint one or more members of the governing body? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . b Are any governance decisions of the organization reserved to (or subject to approval by) members, stockholders, or persons other than the governing body? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 8 2 No 5 Yes 6 Yes 7a Yes 7b No Did the organization contemporaneously document the meetings held or written actions undertaken during the year by the following: a The governing body? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . b Each committee with authority to act on behalf of the governing body? . . . . . . . . . . . . Is there any officer, director, trustee, or key employee listed in Part VII, Section A, who cannot be reached at the organization’s mailing address? If "Yes," provide the names and addresses in Schedule O . . . . . . . 8a Yes 8b Yes 9 9 No Section B. Policies (This Section B requests information about policies not required by the Internal Revenue Code.) Yes 10a Did the organization have local chapters, branches, or affiliates? . . . . . . . . . . . . 10a b If "Yes," did the organization have written policies and procedures governing the activities of such chapters, affiliates, and branches to ensure their operations are consistent with the organization's exempt purposes? 10b 11a Has the organization provided a complete copy of this Form 990 to all members of its governing body before filing 11a the form? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . b Describe on Schedule O the process, if any, used by the organization to review this Form 990. . . . . . 12a Did the organization have a written conflict of interest policy? If "No," go to line 13 . . . . . . . b Were officers, directors, or trustees, and key employees required to disclose annually interests that could give rise to conflicts? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . No 12a Yes 12b Yes Did the organization regularly and consistently monitor and enforce compliance with the policy? If "Yes," describe on Schedule O how this was done . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 12c Yes 13 Did the organization have a written whistleblower policy? . . . . . . . . . . 13 Yes 14 Did the organization have a written document retention and destruction policy? . . . . . . . . . 14 Yes 15 Did the process for determining compensation of the following persons include a review and approval by independent persons, comparability data, and contemporaneous substantiation of the deliberation and decision? 15a Yes c . . . . . a The organization’s CEO, Executive Director, or top management official b Other officers or key employees of the organization . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . No No 15b No 16a Did the organization invest in, contribute assets to, or participate in a joint venture or similar arrangement with a taxable entity during the year? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 16a No b If "Yes," did the organization follow a written policy or procedure requiring the organization to evaluate its participation in joint venture arrangements under applicable federal tax law, and take steps to safeguard the organization’s exempt status with respect to such arrangements? . . . . . . . . . . . . 16b If "Yes" to line 15a or 15b, describe the process on Schedule O. See instructions. Section C. Disclosure 17 List the states with which a copy of this Form 990 is required to be filed 18 Section 6104 requires an organization to make its Form 1023 (1024 or 1024A, if applicable), 990, and 990T (section 501(c)(3)s only) available for public inspection. Indicate how you made these available. Check all that apply. 19 Describe in Schedule O whether (and if so, how) the organization made its governing documents, conflict of interest policy, and financial statements available to the public during the tax year. 20 State the name, address, and telephone number of the person who possesses the organization's books and records: T E R Y D E S H O N G P O B O X 2 6 8 7 P O B O X 2 6 8 7 T U L S A, O K 7 4 1 0 1 ( 9 1 8 ) 7 4 3 4 2 9 7 OK Own website Another's website Upon request Other (explain in Schedule O) Form 990 (2021) �Page 7 Form 990 (2021) Part VII Compensation of Officers, Directors,Trustees, Key Employees, Highest Compensated Employees, and Independent Contractors Check if Schedule O contains a response or note to any line in this Part VII . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Section A. Officers, Directors, Trustees, Key Employees, and Highest Compensated Employees 1a Complete this table for all persons required to be listed. Report compensation for the calendar year ending with or within the organization’s tax year. List all of the organization’s current officers, directors, trustees (whether individuals or organizations), regardless of amount of compensation. Enter 0 in columns (D), (E), and (F) if no compensation was paid. List all of the organization’s current key employees, if any. See the instructions for definition of "key employee." List the organization’s five current highest compensated employees (other than an officer, director, trustee or key employee) who received reportable compensation (box 5 of Form W2, Form 1099MISC, and/or box 1 of Form 1099NEC) of more than $100,000 from the organization and any related organizations. List all of the organization’s former officers, key employees, or highest compensated employees who received more than $100,000 of reportable compensation from the organization and any related organizations. List all of the organization’s former directors or trustees that received, in the capacity as a former director or trustee of the organization, more than $10,000 of reportable compensation from the organization and any related organizations. See the instructions for the order in which to list the persons above. Check this box if neither the organization nor any related organization compensated any current officer, director, or trustee. (A) Name and title (B) Average hours per week (list any hours for related organizations below dotted line) (C) Position (do not check more than one box, unless person is both an officer and a director/trustee) (D) Reportable compensation from the organization (W2/1099 MISC/1099 NEC) (E) Reportable compensation from related organizations (W2/1099 MISC/1099 NEC) (F) Estimated amount of other compensation from the organization and related organizations (1) STACY TURNER ...................................................................... PRESIDENT 15.00 ................. X X 0 0 0 (2) BOB HANSON ...................................................................... VICE PRESIDE 10.00 ................. X X 0 0 0 (3) TERY DESHONG ...................................................................... TREASURER 15.00 ................. X X 0 0 0 (4) CHRIS BRECHTSMITH ...................................................................... SECRETARY 10.00 ................. X X 0 0 0 (5) DANI BIRD ...................................................................... MEMBER AT LA 10.00 ................. X X 0 0 0 (6) STEPHEN RUNDELL ...................................................................... DIRECTOR 5.00 ................. X 0 0 0 (7) SHANNON FAIR ...................................................................... DIRECTOR 5.00 ................. X 0 0 0 (8) LAURA ARROWSMITH ...................................................................... DIRECTOR 5.00 ................. X 0 0 0 (9) ANGELYN DALE ...................................................................... DIRECTOR 5.00 ................. X 0 0 0 (10) DARCI HAZELWOOD ...................................................................... DIRECTOR 5.00 ................. X 0 0 0 (11) WILL VAUGHN ...................................................................... DRECTOR 5.00 ................. X 0 0 0 (12) LIZ ORTIZ ...................................................................... DIRECTOR 5.00 ................. X 0 0 0 (13) MONIQUE WASHINGTON ...................................................................... DIRECTOR 5.00 ................. X 0 0 0 (14) JOE GUETLEIN ...................................................................... DIERCTOR 5.00 ................. X 0 0 0 (15) JUSTIN ROSS ...................................................................... DIRECTOR 5.00 ................. X 0 0 0 (16) DOROTHY BALLARD ...................................................................... EXECUTIVE DI 15.00 ................. X 0 0 0 X 0.00 Form 990 (2021) �Page 8 Form 990 (2021) Section A. Officers, Directors, Trustees, Key Employees, and Highest Compensated Employees (continued) Part VII (A) Name and title 1b SubTotal . . . . (B) Average hours per week (list any hours for related organizations below dotted line) . . . . . . . (C) Position (do not check more than one box, unless person is both an officer and a director/trustee) . . . . . . . d Total (add lines 1b and 1c) . . . . . . . . . . (E) Reportable compensation from related organizations (W2/1099 MISC/1099 NEC) (F) Estimated amount of other compensation from the organization and related organizations . c Total from continuation sheets to Part VII, Section A . . (D) Reportable compensation from the organization (W 2/1099 MISC/1099 NEC) 2 Total number of individuals (including but not limited to those listed above) who received more than $100,000 of reportable compensation from the organization 3 Did the organization list any former officer, director or trustee, key employee, or highest compensated employee on line 1a? If "Yes," complete Schedule J for such individual . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 3 No 4 For any individual listed on line 1a, is the sum of reportable compensation and other compensation from the organization and related organizations greater than $150,000? If "Yes," complete Schedule J for such individual 4 No 5 No Yes . 5 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Did any person listed on line 1a receive or accrue compensation from any unrelated organization or individual for services rendered to the organization?If "Yes," complete Schedule J for such person . . . . . . . . No Section B. Independent Contractors 1 Complete this table for your five highest compensated independent contractors that received more than $100,000 of compensation from the organization. Report compensation for the calendar year ending with or within the organization’s tax year. (A) Name and business address (B) Description of services (C) Compensation 2 Total number of independent contractors (including but not limited to those listed above) who received more than $100,000 of compensation from the organization Form 990 (2021) �Page 9 Form 990 (2021) Statement of Revenue Part VIII Check if Schedule O contains a response or note to any line in this Part VIII . (A) Total revenue . . . . . (B) Related or exempt function revenue Contributions, Gifts, Grants, and OtherAmt Similar Amounts 1a Federated campaigns . b Membership dues . . . . . . . . (D) Revenue excluded from tax under sections 512 514 1a . c Fundraising events . . (C) Unrelated business revenue 1b . 352,600 1c d Related organizations 1d e Government grants (contributions) 1e 412,369 1f 155,228 f All other contributions, gifts, grants, and similar amounts not included above g Noncash contributions included in lines 1a 1f:$ 1g h Total. Add lines 1a1f . . . . 5,114 . . . 920,197 Business Code 116,436 2a INDIVIDUAL AND FAMILY SERVICE 116,436 624100 b c d e f All other program service revenue. g Total. Add lines 2a–2f. . . . 116,436 . 3 Investment income (including dividends, interest, and other . . . taxexempt . . . 4 similar Incomeamounts) from investment of bond proceeds 5 Royalties . . . . . . . . . . (i) Real 6a Gross rents 6a Less: rental expenses 6b b c Rental 6c income or (loss) d Net rental income or (loss) . from sales of assets other than inventory b c 14 . (ii) Personal . . . . (i) Securities 7a Gross amount 14 . . (ii) Other 7a Less: cost or other basis and sales expenses 7b Gain or (loss) 7c d Net gain or (loss) . . . . . . . . . 8a Gross income from fundraising events (not including $ 352,600 of contributions reported on line 1c). See Part IV, line 18 . . . . 188,625 8a 347,424 b Less: direct expenses 8b . income . . or (loss) from fundraising events . c Net 9a Gross income from gaming activities. 9a See Part IV, line 19 . . . b Less: direct expenses 9b . income . . or (loss) from gaming activities . c Net 10a Gross sales of inventory, less returns and allowances . . 158,799 . . 46,741 10a 25,730 b Less: cost of goods sold 10b . . c Net income or (loss) from sales of inventory . Miscellaneous Revenue . 21,011 21,011 898,859 137,447 Business Code 11a b c d All other revenue . . e Total. Add lines 11a–11d . . . . 12 Total revenue. See instructions . . . . . . . . . 14 Form 990 (2021) �Page 10 Form 990 (2021) Part IX Statement of Functional Expenses Section 501(c)(3) and 501(c)(4) organizations must complete all columns. All other organizations must complete column (A). Check if Schedule O contains a response or note to any line in this Part IX . Do not include amounts reported on lines 6b, 7b, 8b, 9b, and 10b of Part VIII. . . . (B) Program service expenses (A) Total expenses . . . . . . (C) Management and general expenses . . . . (D) Fundraising expenses 1 Grants and other assistance to domestic organizations and domestic governments. See Part IV, line 21 . . . . 2 Grants and other assistance to domestic individuals. See Part IV, line 22 . . . . . . . . . . . 3 Grants and other assistance to foreign organizations, foreign governments, and foreign individuals. See Part IV, lines 15 and 16. . . . . . . . . . . . . . 4 Benefits paid to or for members . . . . . . . 5 Compensation of current officers, directors, trustees, and key employees . . . . . . . . . . . 6 Compensation not included above, to disqualified persons (as defined under section 4958(f)(1)) and persons described in section 4958(c)(3)(B) . . . . . . . . . 7 Other salaries and wages . . . . . . . . 339,464 254,598 67,893 16,973 22,234 16,675 4,447 1,112 28,133 21,100 5,627 1,406 19,308 14,481 3,862 965 9,684 7,263 1,937 484 8 Pension plan accruals and contributions (include section 401(k) and 403(b) employer contributions) . . . . 9 Other employee benefits 10 Payroll taxes . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 11 Fees for services (nonemployees): a Management . . . . . . b Legal . . . . . . . . c Accounting d Lobbying . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . e Professional fundraising services. See Part IV, line 17 f Investment management fees . . . . . 27,979 27,979 . g Other (If line 11g amount exceeds 10% of line 25, column (A) amount, list line 11g expenses on Schedule O) 22,666 22,666 59,440 44,581 11,887 2,972 60,540 45,405 12,108 3,027 3,411 2,558 682 171 85 85 21,443 16,082 4,289 1,072 a CENTER PROGRAMS 223,019 223,019 b BUILDING MAINTENANCE 50,335 37,751 10,067 2,517 c EMPLOYEE EXPENSES 29,709 22,282 5,942 1,485 d BANK CHARGES AND FEES 14,832 11,124 2,966 742 12 Advertising and promotion 13 Office expenses . . . . . . . . . . 14 Information technology . . . . . 15 Royalties . . . . 16 Occupancy 17 Travel . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 18 Payments of travel or entertainment expenses for any federal, state, or local public officials . 19 Conferences, conventions, and meetings 20 Interest . . . . 21 Payments to affiliates . . . . . . . . . . 22 Depreciation, depletion, and amortization 23 Insurance . . . . . . . . . . . . . 24 Other expenses. Itemize expenses not covered above (List miscellaneous expenses in line 24e. If line 24e amount exceeds 10% of line 25, column (A) amount, list line 24e expenses on Schedule O.) e All other expenses 25 Total functional expenses. Add lines 1 through 24e 24,727 22,234 2,250 243 957,009 761,904 133,957 61,148 26 Joint costs. Complete this line only if the organization reported in column (B) joint costs from a combined educational campaign and fundraising solicitation. Check here if following SOP 982 (ASC 958720). Form 990 (2021) �Page 11 Form 990 (2021) Part X Balance Sheet Check if Schedule O contains a response or note to any line in this Part IX . . . . . . . . . (A) Beginning of year 1 2 Cash–noninterestbearing . . . . . . . 2,000 . 3 Savings and temporary cash investments . . . . . . . . . Pledges and grants receivable, net . . 4 Accounts receivable, net 5 7 Loans and other receivables from any current or former officer, director, trustee, key employee, creator or founder, substantial contributor, or 35% controlled entity or family member of any of these persons Loans . . and . other . .receivables . . from other disqualified persons (as defined under section 4958(f)(1)), and persons described in section 4958(c)(3)(B) . . . Notes and loans receivable, net . . . . . . . . . . . 8 Inventories for sale or use 9 Prepaid expenses and deferred charges 6 10a b . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 2,213,344 Less: accumulated depreciation 10b 813,108 12 Investments—other securities. See Part IV, line 11 . 13 Investments—programrelated. See Part IV, line 11 14 Intangible assets 15 2,410 2 7,000 3 4 5 6 7 10c 1,400,236 78,333 11 57,857 . . . . . 16 Other assets. See Part IV, line 11 . .assets. . . Add . lines . .1 through . . . (must . Total 15 equal line 33) . . . 17 Accounts payable and accrued expenses 18 Grants payable 19 Deferred revenue 20 Taxexempt bond liabilities 21 Escrow or custodial account liability. Complete Part IV of Schedule D 21 22 22 23 Loans and other payables to any current or former officer, director, trustee, key employee, creator or founder, substantial contributor, or 35% controlled entity or family member of any of these persons . . . . . . . . . Secured mortgages and notes payable to unrelated third parties . . 24 Unsecured notes and loans payable to unrelated third parties 24 25 Other liabilities (including federal income tax, payables to related third parties, and other liabilities not included on lines 17 24). Complete Part X of Schedule D 26 Total liabilities. Add lines 17 through 25 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 28 13 14 15 1,625,819 16 1,574,711 3,373 17 10,415 . . 18 . . . . . . . . . . . . . 19 . . . . 20 . . 25 3,373 26 10,415 1,589,892 27 1,531,742 32,554 28 32,554 and complete lines 27, 28, 32, and 33. Net assets without donor restrictions . . . . . . . . . . Net assets with donor restrictions . . . . . . . . . . . Organizations that do not follow FASB ASC 958, check here and complete lines 29 through 33. Capital stock or trust principal, or current funds 30 Paidin or capital surplus, or land, building or equipment fund 31 Retained earnings, endowment, accumulated income, or other funds 32 Total net assets or fund balances . . . . . . . . . . . Total liabilities and net assets/fund balances . . . . . . . . . 23 . 29 33 . . Organizations that follow FASB ASC 958, check here 27 12 . . 13,016 1,400,236 . . . 8 . . . . 9 10a Investments—publicly traded securities . (B) End of year 101,192 . Land, buildings, and equipment: cost or other basis. Complete Part VI of Schedule D 11 . 1 13,016 . . 125,234 . . . . . . . . 29 . . 30 31 1,622,446 32 1,625,819 33 1,564,296 1,574,711 Form 990 (2021) �Page 12 Form 990 (2021) Part XI Reconcilliation of Net Assets Check if Schedule O contains a response or note to any line in this Part XI . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 1 Total revenue (must equal Part VIII, column (A), line 12) . . . . . . . . . . . . 1 898,859 2 Total expenses (must equal Part IX, column (A), line 25) . . . . . . . . . . . . 2 957,009 3 Revenue less expenses. Subtract line 2 from line 1 4 Net assets or fund balances at beginning of year (must equal Part X, line 32, column (A)) . . 5 Net unrealized gains (losses) on investments . . 6 Donated services and use of facilities 7 Investment expenses 8 Prior period adjustments 9 Other changes in net assets or fund balances (explain in Schedule O) . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 6 7 . 8 . 9 Net assets or fund balances at end of year. Combine lines 3 through 9 (must equal Part X, line 32, column Part(B)) XII Financial Statements and Reporting . . . 1,622,446 . 10 Check if Schedule O contains a response or note to any line in this Part XII . 58,150 4 5 . . 3 . . . . . . . 10 . . 1,564,296 . . . . Yes 1 Accounting method used to prepare the Form 990: Cash Accrual . No Other If the organization changed its method of accounting from a prior year or checked "Other," explain on Schedule O. 2a Were the organization’s financial statements compiled or reviewed by an independent accountant? 2a No 2b No If ‘Yes,’ check a box below to indicate whether the financial statements for the year were compiled or reviewed on a separate basis, consolidated basis, or both: Separate basis Consolidated basis Both consolidated and separate basis b Were the organization’s financial statements audited by an independent accountant? If ‘Yes,’ check a box below to indicate whether the financial statements for the year were audited on a separate basis, consolidated basis, or both: Separate basis c Consolidated basis Both consolidated and separate basis If "Yes," to line 2a or 2b, does the organization have a committee that assumes responsibility for oversight of the audit, review, or compilation of its financial statements and selection of an independent accountant? 2c If the organization changed either its oversight process or selection process during the tax year, explain in Schedule O. 3a As a result of a federal award, was the organization required to undergo an audit or audits as set forth in the Single Audit Act and OMB Circular A133? 3a b If "Yes," did the organization undergo the required audit or audits? If the organization did not undergo the required audit or audits, explain why in Schedule O and describe any steps taken to undergo such audits. 3b Form 990 (2021) �Form 990 (2021) Additional Data Return to Form Software ID: Software Version: Form 990, Special Condition Description: Special Condition Description �SCHEDULE A (Form 990) Department of the Treasury Internal Revenue Service OMB No. 15450047 Public Charity Status and Public Support 2021 Complete if the organization is a section 501(c)(3) organization or a section 4947(a)(1) nonexempt charitable trust. Attach to Form 990 or Form 990EZ. Go to www.irs.gov/Form990 for instructions and the latest information. Name of the organization Open to Public Inspection Employer identification number OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY INC 731300864 Part I Reason for Public Charity Status (All organizations must complete this part.) See instructions. The organization is not a private foundation because it is: (For lines 1 through 12, check only one box.) 1 A church, convention of churches, or association of churches described in section 170(b)(1)(A)(i). 2 A school described in section 170(b)(1)(A)(ii). (Attach Schedule E (Form 990).) 3 A hospital or a cooperative hospital service organization described in section 170(b)(1)(A)(iii). 4 A medical research organization operated in conjunction with a hospital described in section 170(b)(1)(A)(iii). Enter the hospital's name, city, and state: 5 An organization operated for the benefit of a college or university owned or operated by a governmental unit described in section 170(b)(1)(A)(iv). (Complete Part II.) 6 A federal, state, or local government or governmental unit described in section 170(b)(1)(A)(v). 7 An organization that normally receives a substantial part of its support from a governmental unit or from the general public described in section 170(b)(1)(A)(vi). (Complete Part II.) 8 A community trust described in section 170(b)(1)(A)(vi). (Complete Part II.) 9 An agricultural research organization described in 170(b)(1)(A)(ix) operated in conjunction with a landgrant college or university or a nonland grant college of agriculture. See instructions. Enter the name, city, and state of the college or university: 10 An organization that normally receives: (1) more than 331/3% of its support from contributions, membership fees, and gross receipts from activities related to its exempt functions—subject to certain exceptions, and (2) no more than 33 1/3% of its support from gross investment income and unrelated business taxable income (less section 511 tax) from businesses acquired by the organization after June 30, 1975. See section 509(a)(2). (Complete Part III.) 11 An organization organized and operated exclusively to test for public safety. See section 509(a)(4). 12 An organization organized and operated exclusively for the benefit of, to perform the functions of, or to carry out the purposes of one or more publicly supported organizations described in section 509(a)(1) or section 509(a)(2). See section 509(a)(3). C h e c k the box on lines 12a through 12d that describes the type of supporting organization and complete lines 12e, 12f, and 12g. a Type I. A supporting organization operated, supervised, or controlled by its supported organization(s), typically by giving the supported organization(s) the power to regularly appoint or elect a majority of the directors or trustees of the supporting organization. You must complete Part IV, Sections A and B. b Type II. A supporting organization supervised or controlled in connection with its supported organization(s), by having control or management of the supporting organization vested in the same persons that control or manage the supported organization(s). You must complete Part IV, Sections A and C. c Type III functionally integrated. A supporting organization operated in connection with, and functionally integrated with, its supported organization(s) (see instructions). You must complete Part IV, Sections A, D, and E. d Type III nonfunctionally integrated. A supporting organization operated in connection with its supported organization(s) that is not functionally integrated. The organization generally must satisfy a distribution requirement and an attentiveness requirement (see instructions). You must complete Part IV, Sections A and D, and Part V. e Check this box if the organization received a written determination from the IRS that it is a Type I, Type II, Type III functionally integrated, or Type III nonfunctionally integrated supporting organization. f g Enter the number of supported organizations . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Provide the following information about the supported organization(s). (i) Name of supported organization (ii) E I N (iii) Type of organization (described on lines 1 10 above (see instructions)) (iv) Is the organization listed in your governing document? Yes (v) Amount of monetary support (see instructions) (vi) Amount of other support (see instructions) No Total For Paperwork Reduction Act Notice, see the Instructions for Form 990 or 990EZ. Cat. No. 11285F Schedule A (Form 990) 2021 �Page 2 Support Schedule for Organizations Described in Sections 170(b)(1)(A)(iv) and 170(b)(1)(A)(vi) (Complete only if you checked the box on line 5, 7, or 8 of Part I or if the organization failed to qualify under Part III. If the organization failed to qualify under the tests listed below, please complete Part III.) Section A. Public Support Schedule A (Form 990) 2021 Part II Calendar year (a) 2 0 1 7 (b) 2 0 1 8 (c) 2 0 1 9 (d) 2 0 2 0 (e) 2 0 2 1 (f) Total (or fiscal year beginning in) 1 Gifts, grants, contributions, and 834,790 936,077 842,043 1,064,421 920,197 4,597,528 membership fees received. (Do not include any "unusual grant.") . . 2 Tax revenues levied for the organization's benefit and either paid to or expended on its behalf . . . . 3 The value of services or facilities furnished by a governmental unit to the organization without charge.. 834,790 936,077 842,043 1,064,421 920,197 4,597,528 4 Total. Add lines 1 through 3 5 The portion of total contributions by each person (other than a governmental unit or publicly 115,999 supported organization) included on line 1 that exceeds 2% of the amount shown on line 11, column (f) . . 6 Public support. Subtract line 5 from 4,481,529 line 4. Section B. Total Support Calendar year (a) 2 0 1 7 (b) 2 0 1 8 (c) 2 0 1 9 (d) 2 0 2 0 (e) 2 0 2 1 (f) Total (or fiscal year beginning in) 834,790 936,077 842,043 1,064,421 920,197 4,597,528 7 Amounts from line 4. . 8 Gross income from interest, dividends, payments received on 14 14 securities loans, rents, royalties and income from similar sources . . . 9 Net income from unrelated business activities, whether or not the business is regularly carried on. . 10 Other income. Do not include gain 728 15,049 9,762 20,353 137,788 93,352 or loss from the sale of capital assets (Explain in Part VI.). . 11 Total support. Add lines 7 through 4,504,190 10 12 Gross receipts from related activities, etc. (see instructions) . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 12 351,802 13 First 5 years. If the Form 990 is for the organization's first, second, third, fourth, or fifth tax year as a section 501(c)(3) organization, check this box and stop here . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Section C. Computation of Public Support Percentage 14 Public support percentage for 2021 (line 6, column (f) divided by line 11, column (f)) . . . . . . . . . 15 Public support percentage for 2020 Schedule A, Part II, line 14 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 14 99.500 % 15 71.400 % 16a 33 1/3% support test—2021. If the organization did not check the box on line 13, and line 14 is 33 1/3% or more, check this box and stop here. The organization qualifies as a publicly supported organization . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . b 33 1/3% support test—2020. If the organization did not check a box on line 13 or 16a, and line 15 is 33 1/3% or more, check this box and stop here. The organization qualifies as a publicly supported organization . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 17a 10%factsandcircumstances test—2021. If the organization did not check a box on line 13, 16a, or 16b, and line 14 is 10% or more, and if the organization meets the "factsandcircumstances" test, check this box and stop here. Explain in Part VI how the organization meets the "factsandcircumstances" test. The organization qualifies as a publicly supported organization . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . b 10%factsandcircumstances test—2020. If the organization did not check a box on line 13, 16a, 16b, or 17a, and line 15 is 10% or more, and if the organization meets the "factsandcircumstances" test, check this box and stop here. Explain in Part VI how the organization meets the "factsandcircumstances" test. The organization qualifies as a publicly supported organization . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 18 Private foundation. If the organization did not check a box on line 13, 16a, 16b, 17a, or 17b, check this box and see instructions . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Schedule A (Form 990) 2021 �Page 3 Schedule A (Form 990) 2021 Part III Support Schedule for Organizations Described in Section 509(a)(2) (Complete only if you checked the box on line 10 of Part I or if the organization failed to qualify under Part II. If the organization fails to qualify under the tests listed below, please complete Part II.) Section A. Public Support Calendar year (or fiscal year beginning in) 1 Gifts, grants, contributions, and membership fees received. (Do not include any "unusual grants.") . 2 Gross receipts from admissions, merchandise sold or services performed, or facilities furnished in any activity that is related to the organization's taxexempt purpose 3 Gross receipts from activities that are not an unrelated trade or business under section 513 . . . . . 4 Tax revenues levied for the organization's benefit and either paid to or expended on its behalf . . . 5 The value of services or facilities furnished by a governmental unit to the organization without charge 6 Total. Add lines 1 through 5 7a Amounts included on lines 1, 2, and 3 received from disqualified persons b Amounts included on lines 2 and 3 received from other than disqualified persons that exceed the greater of $5,000 or 1% of the amount on line 13 for the year. c Add lines 7a and 7b. . 8 Public support. (Subtract line 7c from line 6.) (a) 2 0 1 7 (b) 2 0 1 8 (c) 2 0 1 9 (d) 2 0 2 0 (e) 2 0 2 1 (f) Total Section B. Total Support Calendar year (a) 2 0 1 7 (b) 2 0 1 8 (c) 2 0 1 9 (d) 2 0 2 0 (e) 2 0 2 1 (f) Total (or fiscal year beginning in) 9 Amounts from line 6. . . 10a Gross income from interest, dividends, payments received on securities loans, rents, royalties and income from similar sources . . b Unrelated business taxable income (less section 511 taxes) from businesses acquired after June 30, 1 9 7 5. c Add lines 10a and 10b. 11 Net income from unrelated business activities not included on line 10b, whether or not the business is regularly carried on. 12 Other income. Do not include gain or loss from the sale of capital assets (Explain in Part VI.) . . 13 Total support. (Add lines 9, 10c, 11, and 12.). . First 5 years. If the Form 990 is for the organization's first, second, third, fourth, or fifth tax year as a section 501(c)(3) organization, 14 check this box and stop here. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Section C. Computation of Public Support Percentage 15 Public support percentage for 2021 (line 8, column (f) divided by line 13, column (f)) . . . . . . . . . 15 16 Public support percentage from 2020 Schedule A, Part III, line 15 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 16 Section D. Computation of Investment Income Percentage 17 Investment income percentage for 2021 (line 10c, column (f) divided by line 13, column (f)) . . . . . . 17 18 Investment income percentage from 2020 Schedule A, Part III, line 17 . . . . . . . . . . . . . 18 19a 331/3% support tests—2021. If the organization did not check the box on line 14, and line 15 is more than 33 1/3%, and line 17 is not more than 33 1/3%, check this box and stop here. The organization qualifies as a publicly supported organization . . . . . . . b 33 1/3% support tests—2020. If the organization did not check a box on line 14 or line 19a, and line 16 is more than 33 1/3% and line 18 is not more than 33 1/3%, check this box and stop here. The organization qualifies as a publicly supported organization . . . . 20 Private foundation. If the organization did not check a box on line 14, 19a, or 19b, check this box and see instructions . . . . Schedule A (Form 990) 2021 �Page 4 Schedule A (Form 990) 2021 Part IV Supporting Organizations checked checked box (Complete only if you checked a box on line 12 of Part I. If you checked box 12a, of Part I, complete Sections A and B. If you box 12b, of Part I, complete Sections A and C. If you checked box 12c, of Part I, complete Sections A, D, and E. If you 12d, of Part I, complete Sections A and D, and complete Part V.) Section A. All Supporting Organizations Yes 1 Are all of the organization’s supported organizations listed by name in the organization’s governing documents? If "No," describe in Part VI how the supported organizations are designated. If designated by class or purpose, describe the designation. If historic and continuing relationship, explain. 1 2 Did the organization have any supported organization that does not have an IRS determination of status under section 509(a)(1) or (2)? If "Yes," explain in Part VI how the organization determined that the supported organization was described in section 509(a)(1) or (2). 2 3a Did the organization have a supported organization described in section 501(c)(4), (5), or (6)? If "Yes," answer lines 3b and 3c below. b Did the organization confirm that each supported organization qualified under section 501(c)(4), (5), or (6) and satisfied the public support tests under section 509(a)(2)? If "Yes," describe in Part VI when and how the organization made the determination. c Did the organization ensure that all support to such organizations was used exclusively for section 170(c)(2)(B) purposes? If "Yes," explain in Part VI what controls the organization put in place to ensure such use. 4a Was any supported organization not organized in the United States ("foreign supported organization")? If “Yes” and if you checked box 12a or 12b in Part I, answer lines 4b and 4c below. b Did the organization have ultimate control and discretion in deciding whether to make grants to the foreign supported organization? If “Yes,” describe in Part VI how the organization had such control and discretion despite being controlled or supervised by or in connection with its supported organizations. c 5a b c Did the organization support any foreign supported organization that does not have an IRS determination under sections 501(c)(3) and 509(a)(1) or (2)? If “Yes,” explain in Part VI what controls the organization used to ensure that all support to the foreign supported organization was used exclusively for section 170(c)(2)(B) purposes. Did the organization add, substitute, or remove any supported organizations during the tax year? If “Yes,” answer lines 5b and 5c below (if applicable). Also, provide detail in Part VI, including (i) the names and EIN numbers of the supported organizations added, substituted, or removed; (ii) the reasons for each such action; (iii) the authority under the organization's organizing document authorizing such action; and (iv) how the action was accomplished (such as by amendment to the organizing document). Type I or Type II only. Was any added or substituted supported organization part of a class already designated in the organization's organizing document? 3a 3b 3c 4a 4b 4c 5a 5b Substitutions only. Was the substitution the result of an event beyond the organization's control? 5c 6 Did the organization provide support (whether in the form of grants or the provision of services or facilities) to anyone other than (i) its supported organizations, (ii) individuals that are part of the charitable class benefited by one or more of its supported organizations, or (iii) other supporting organizations that also support or benefit one or more of the filing organization’s supported organizations? If “Yes,” provide detail in Part VI. 6 7 Did the organization provide a grant, loan, compensation, or other similar payment to a substantial contributor (defined in section 4958(c)(3)(C)), a family member of a substantial contributor, or a 35% controlled entity with regard to a substantial contributor? If “Yes,” complete Part I of Schedule L (Form 990) . 7 8 Did the organization make a loan to a disqualified person (as defined in section 4958) not described on line 7? I f “Yes,” complete Part I of Schedule L (Form 990). 9a Was the organization controlled directly or indirectly at any time during the tax year by one or more disqualified persons, as defined in section 4946 (other than foundation managers and organizations described in section 509(a) (1) or (2))? If “Yes,” provide detail in Part VI. b Did one or more disqualified persons (as defined on line 9a) hold a controlling interest in any entity in which the supporting organization had an interest? If “Yes,” provide detail in Part VI. c Did a disqualified person (as defined on line 9a) have an ownership interest in, or derive any personal benefit from, assets in which the supporting organization also had an interest? If “Yes,” provide detail in Part VI. 10a Was the organization subject to the excess business holdings rules of section 4943 because of section 4943(f) (regarding certain Type II supporting organizations, and all Type III nonfunctionally integrated supporting organizations)? If “Yes,” answer line 10b below. b Did the organization have any excess business holdings in the tax year? (Use Schedule C, Form 4720, to determine whether the organization had excess business holdings). No 8 9a 9b 9c 10a 10b Schedule A (Form 990) 2021 �Page 5 Schedule A (Form 990) 2021 Part IV 11 Supporting Organizations (continued) Yes No Yes No Yes No Yes No Has the organization accepted a gift or contribution from any of the following persons? a A person who directly or indirectly controls, either alone or together with persons described on lines 11b and 11c below, the governing body of a supported organization? 11a b A family member of a person described on 11a above? 11b c A 35% controlled entity of a person described on line 11a or 11b above? If “Yes” to 11a, 11b, or 11c, provide detail in Part VI. 11c Section B. Type I Supporting Organizations 1 Did the officers, directors, trustees, or membership of one or more supported organizations have the power to regularly appoint or elect at least a majority of the organization’s directors or trustees at all times during the tax year? If “No,” describe in Part VI how the supported organization(s) effectively operated, supervised, or controlled the organization’s activities. If the organization had more than one supported organization, describe how the powers to appoint and/or remove directors or trustees were allocated among the supported organizations and what conditions or restrictions, if any, applied to such powers during the tax year. 2 Did the organization operate for the benefit of any supported organization other than the supported organization(s) that operated, supervised, or controlled the supporting organization? If “Yes,” explain in Part VI how providing such benefit carried out the purposes of the supported organization(s) that operated, supervised or controlled the supporting organization. 1 2 Section C. Type II Supporting Organizations 1 Were a majority of the organization’s directors or trustees during the tax year also a majority of the directors or trustees of each of the organization’s supported organization(s)? If “No,” describe in Part VI how control or management of the supporting organization was vested in the same persons that controlled or managed the supported organization(s). 1 Section D. All Type III Supporting Organizations 1 Did the organization provide to each of its supported organizations, by the last day of the fifth month of the organization’s tax year, (i) a written notice describing the type and amount of support provided during the prior tax year, (ii) a copy of the Form 990 that was most recently filed as of the date of notification, and (iii) copies of the organization’s governing documents in effect on the date of notification, to the extent not previously provided? 2 Were any of the organization’s officers, directors, or trustees either (i) appointed or elected by the supported organization(s) or (ii) serving on the governing body of a supported organization? If "No," explain in Part VI how the organization maintained a close and continuous working relationship with the supported organization(s). 3 By reason of the relationship described in line 2 above, did the organization’s supported organizations have a significant voice in the organization’s investment policies and in directing the use of the organization’s income or assets at all times during the tax year? If "Yes," describe in Part VI the role the organization’s supported organizations played in this regard. 1 2 3 Section E. Type III FunctionallyIntegrated Supporting Organizations 1 2 Check the box next to the method that the organization used to satisfy the Integral Part Test during the year (see instructions): a The organization satisfied the Activities Test. Complete line 2 below. b The organization is the parent of each of its supported organizations. Complete line 3 below. c The organization supported a governmental entity. Describe in Part VI how you supported a government entity (see instructions) Activities Test. Answer lines 2a and 2b below. Yes a Did substantially all of the organization’s activities during the tax year directly further the exempt purposes of the supported organization(s) to which the organization was responsive? If "Yes," then in Part VI identify those supported organizations and explain how these activities directly furthered their exempt purposes, how the organization was responsive to those supported organizations, and how the organization determined that these activities constituted substantially all of its activities. b Did the activities described on line 2a, above constitute activities that, but for the organization’s involvement, one or more of the organization’s supported organization(s) would have been engaged in? If "Yes," explain in Part VI the reasons for the organization’s position that its supported organization(s) would have engaged in these activities but for the organization’s involvement. 3 No 2a 2b Parent of Supported Organizations. Answer lines 3a and 3b below. a Did the organization have the power to regularly appoint or elect a majority of the officers, directors, or trustees of each of the supported organizations?If "Yes" or "No", provide details in Part VI. b Did the organization exercise a substantial degree of direction over the policies, programs and activities of each of its supported organizations? If "Yes," describe in Part VI. the role played by the organization in this regard. 3a 3b Schedule A (Form 990) 2021 �Page 6 Schedule A (Form 990) 2021 Part V Type III NonFunctionally Integrated 509(a)(3) Supporting Organizations 1 Check here if the organization satisfied the Integral Part Test as a qualifying trust on Nov. 20, 1970 (explain in Part VI). See instructions. All other Type III nonfunctionally integrated supporting organizations must complete Sections A through E. Section A Adjusted Net Income 1 Net shortterm capital gain 1 2 Recoveries of prioryear distributions 2 3 Other gross income (see instructions) 3 4 Add lines 1 through 3 4 5 Depreciation and depletion 5 6 Portion of operating expenses paid or incurred for production or collection of gross income or for management, conservation, or maintenance of property held for production of income (see instructions) 6 7 Other expenses (see instructions) 7 8 Adjusted Net Income (subtract lines 5, 6 and 7 from line 4) 8 Section B Minimum Asset Amount 1 Aggregate fair market value of all nonexemptuse assets (see instructions for short tax year or assets held for part of year): (A) Prior Year (B) Current Year (optional) (A) Prior Year (B) Current Year (optional) 1 a Average monthly value of securities 1a b Average monthly cash balances 1b c Fair market value of other nonexemptuse assets 1c d Total (add lines 1a, 1b, and 1c) 1d e Discount claimed for blockage or other factors (explain in detail in Part VI): 2 Acquisition indebtedness applicable to nonexempt use assets 2 3 Subtract line 2 from line 1d 3 4 Cash deemed held for exempt use. Enter 0.015 of line 3 (for greater amount, see instructions). 4 5 Net value of nonexemptuse assets (subtract line 4 from line 3) 5 6 Multiply line 5 by 0.035 6 7 Recoveries of prioryear distributions 7 8 Minimum Asset Amount (add line 7 to line 6) 8 Current Year Section C Distributable Amount 1 Adjusted net income for prior year (from Section A, line 8, Column A) 1 2 Enter 85% of line 1 2 3 Minimum asset amount for prior year (from Section B, line 8, Column A) 3 4 Enter greater of line 2 or line 3 4 5 Income tax imposed in prior year 5 6 Distributable Amount. Subtract line 5 from line 4, unless subject to emergency temporary reduction (see instructions) 6 7 Check here if the current year is the organization's first as a nonfunctionallyintegrated Type III supporting organization (see instructions) Schedule A (Form 990) 2021 �Page 7 Schedule A (Form 990) 2021 Part V Type III NonFunctionally Integrated 509(a)(3) Supporting Section DOrganizations Distributions 1 (continued) Current Year Amounts paid to supported organizations to accomplish exempt purposes 1 2 Amounts paid to perform activity that directly furthers exempt purposes of supported organizations, in excess of income from activity 2 3 Administrative expenses paid to accomplish exempt purposes of supported organizations 3 4 Amounts paid to acquire exemptuse assets 4 5 Qualified setaside amounts (prior IRS approval required provide details in Part VI) 5 6 Other distributions (describe in Part VI). See instructions 6 7 Total annual distributions. Add lines 1 through 6. 7 8 Distributions to attentive supported organizations to which the organization is responsive (provide details in Part VI). See instructions 8 9 9 Distributable amount for 2021 from Section C, line 6 10 Line 8 amount divided by Line 9 amount Section E Distribution Allocations (see instructions) 10 (i) Excess Distributions (ii) Underdistributions Pre2021 (iii) Distributable Amount for 2021 1 Distributable amount for 2021 from Section C, line 6 2 Underdistributions, if any, for years prior to 2021 (reasonable cause required explain in Part VI ). See instructions. 3 Excess distributions carryover, if any, to 2021: a From 2016. . . . . . b From 2017. . . . . . . c From 2018. . . . . . . d From 2019. . . . . . . e . . . . . . From 2020. . f Total of lines 3a through e g Applied to underdistributions of prior years h Applied to 2021 distributable amount i Carryover from 2016 not applied (see instructions) j Remainder. Subtract lines 3g, 3h, and 3i from line 3f. 4 Distributions for 2021 from Section D, line 7: $ a Applied to underdistributions of prior years b Applied to 2021 distributable amount c Remainder. Subtract lines 4a and 4b from line 4. 5 Remaining underdistributions for years prior to 2021, if any. Subtract lines 3g and 4a from line 2. If the amount is greater than zero, explain in Part VI . See instructions. 6 Remaining underdistributions for 2021. Subtract lines 3h and 4b from line 1. If the amount is greater than zero, explain in Part VI. See instructions. 7 Excess distributions carryover to 2022. Add lines 3j and 4c. 8 Breakdown of line 7: a Excess from 2017. . . . b Excess from 2018. . . . . c Excess from 2019. . . . . d Excess from 2020. . . . . e . . . . Excess from 2021. . Schedule A (Form 990) (2021) �Page 8 Schedule A (Form 990) 2021 Part VI Supplemental Information. Provide the explanations required by Part II, line 10; Part II, line 17a or 17b; Part III, line 12; Part IV, Section A, lines 1, 2, 3b, 3c, 4b, 4c, 5a, 6, 9a, 9b, 9c, 11a, 11b, and 11c; Part IV, Section B, lines 1 and 2; Part IV, Section C, line 1; Part IV, Section D, lines 2 and 3; Part IV, Section E, lines 1c, 2a, 2b, 3a and 3b; Part V, line 1; Part V, Section B, line 1e; Part V Section D, lines 5, 6, and 8; and Part V, Section E, lines 2, 5, and 6. Also complete this part for any additional information. (See instructions). Facts And Circumstances Test Return Reference PART II, LINE 10 Explanation 93,352 Schedule A (Form 990) 2021 �Additional Data Return to Form Software ID: Software Version: �Political Campaign and Lobbying Activities OMB No. 15450047 For Organizations Exempt From Income Tax Under section 501(c) and section 527 2021 Complete if the organization is described below. Attach to Form 990 or Form 990EZ. Go to www.irs.gov/Form990 for instructions and the latest information. Open to Public Inspection SCHEDULE C (Form 990) Department of the Treasury Internal Revenue Service If the organization answered "Yes" on Form 990, Part IV, Line 3, or Form 990EZ, Part V, line 46 (Political Campaign Activities), then Section 501(c)(3) organizations: Complete Parts IA and B. Do not complete Part IC. Section 501(c) (other than section 501(c)(3)) organizations: Complete Parts IA and C below. Do not complete Part IB. Section 527 organizations: Complete Part IA only. If the organization answered "Yes" on Form 990, Part IV, Line 4, or Form 990EZ, Part VI, line 47 (Lobbying Activities), then Section 501(c)(3) organizations that have filed Form 5768 (election under section 501(h)): Complete Part IIA. Do not complete Part IIB. Section 501(c)(3) organizations that have NOT filed Form 5768 (election under section 501(h)): Complete Part IIB. Do not complete Part IIA. If the organization answered "Yes" on Form 990, Part IV, Line 5 (Proxy Tax) (see separate instructions) or Form 990EZ, Part V, line 35c (Proxy Tax) (see separate instructions), then Section 501(c)(4), (5), or (6) organizations: Complete Part III. Name of the organization Employer identification number OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY INC 731300864 Part IA Complete if the organization is exempt under section 501(c) or is a section 527 organization. 1 Provide a description of the organization’s direct and indirect political campaign activities in Part IV. See instructions for definition of “political campaign activities." 2 Political campaign activity expenditures. See instructions .................................................................... 3 Volunteer hours for political campaign activities. See instructions .................................................................. Part IB $ Complete if the organization is exempt under section 501(c)(3). 1 Enter the amount of any excise tax incurred by the organization under section 4955 ................................ $ 2 Enter the amount of any excise tax incurred by organization managers under section 4955 ....................... $ 3 If the organization incurred a section 4955 tax, did it file Form 4720 for this year? ......................................... Yes No 4a Was a correction made? ...................................................................................................................... Yes No b If "Yes," describe in Part IV. Part IC Complete if the organization is exempt under section 501(c), except section 501(c)(3). 1 Enter the amount directly expended by the filing organization for section 527 exempt function activities ..... $ 2 Enter the amount of the filing organization's funds contributed to other organizations for section 527 exempt function activities ............................................................................................................................ $ 3 Total exempt function expenditures. Add lines 1 and 2. Enter here and on Form 1120POL, line 17b........... $ 4 Did the filing organization file Form 1120POL for this year? ................................................................... 5 Enter the names, addresses and employer identification number (EIN) of all section 527 political organizations to which the filing organization made payments. For each organization listed, enter the amount paid from the filing organization’s funds. Also enter the amount of political contributions received that were promptly and directly delivered to a separate political organization, such as a separate segregated fund or a political action committee (PAC). If additional space is needed, provide information in Part IV. (a) N a m e (b) A d d r e s s (c) E I N Yes No (d) Amount paid from (e) Amount of filing organization's political contributions funds. If none, enter received and 0. promptly and directly delivered to a separate political organization. If none, enter 0. 1 2 3 4 5 6 For Paperwork Reduction Act Notice, see the instructions for Form 990. Cat. No. 50084S Schedule C (Form 990) 2021 �Page 2 Schedule C (Form 990) 2021 Part IIA A Check Complete if the organization is exempt under section 501(c)(3) and filed Form 5768 (election under section 501(h)). if the filing organization belongs to an affiliated group (and list in Part IV each affiliated group member's name, address, EIN, expenses, and share of excess lobbying expenditures). B Check if the filing organization checked box A and "limited control" provisions apply. Limits on Lobbying Expenditures (The term "expenditures" means amounts paid or incurred.) 1a Total lobbying expenditures to influence public opinion (grass roots lobbying) ...................... b Total lobbying expenditures to influence a legislative body (direct lobbying) ........................ c Total lobbying expenditures (add lines 1a and 1b) ............................................................ d Other exempt purpose expenditures ............................................................................... e Total exempt purpose expenditures (add lines 1c and 1d) .................................................. f Lobbying nontaxable amount. Enter the amount from the following table in both columns. If the amount on line 1e, column (a) or (b) is: The lobbying nontaxable amount is: Not over $500,000 20% of the amount on line 1e. Over $500,000 but not over $1,000,000 $100,000 plus 15% of the excess over $500,000. Over $1,000,000 but not over $1,500,000 $175,000 plus 10% of the excess over $1,000,000. Over $1,500,000 but not over $17,000,000 $225,000 plus 5% of the excess over $1,500,000. Over $17,000,000 $1,000,000. (a) Filing organization's totals g Grassroots nontaxable amount (enter 25% of line 1f) ................................................. h Subtract line 1g from line 1a. If zero or less, enter 0. ................................................ i Subtract line 1f from line 1c. If zero or less, enter 0. ................................................ j If there is an amount other than zero on either line 1h or line 1i, did the organization file Form 4720 reporting section 4911 tax for this year? ................................................................................................................... (b) Affiliated group totals Yes No 4Year Averaging Period Under Section 501(h) (Some organizations that made a section 501(h) election do not have to complete all of the five columns below. See the separate instructions for lines 2a through 2f.) Lobbying Expenditures During 4Year Averaging Period Calendar year (or fiscal year beginning in) 2a Lobbying nontaxable amount b Lobbying ceiling amount (150% of line 2a, column(e)) c Total lobbying expenditures d Grassroots nontaxable amount e Grassroots ceiling amount (150% of line 2d, column (e)) f Grassroots lobbying expenditures (a) 2 0 1 8 (b) 2 0 1 9 (c) 2 0 2 0 (d) 2 0 2 1 (e) Total Schedule C (Form 990) 2021 �Page 3 Schedule C (Form 990) 2021 Part IIB Complete if the organization is exempt under section 501(c)(3) and has NOT filed Form 5768 (election under section 501(h)). For each "Yes" response on lines 1a through 1i below, provide in Part IV a detailed description of the lobbying activity. (a) (b) Yes | No Amount During the year, did the filing organization attempt to influence foreign, national, state or local legislation, including any attempt to influence public opinion on a legislative matter or referendum, through the use of: 1 a Volunteers? ........................................................................................................... Yes b Paid staff or management (include compensation in expenses reported on lines 1c through 1i)? ........ Yes c Media advertisements? ................................................................................................... No d Mailings to members, legislators, or the public? ............................................................................. No e Publications, or published or broadcast statements? ........................................................... No f Grants to other organizations for lobbying purposes? .......................................................... No g Direct contact with legislators, their staffs, government officials, or a legislative body? ....................... No h Rallies, demonstrations, seminars, conventions, speeches, lectures, or any similar means? .................. No i Other activities? ................................................................................................................... No j Total. Add lines 1c through 1i .................................................................................................... 2a Did the activities in line 1 cause the organization to be not described in section 501(c)(3)? ..... b If "Yes," enter the amount of any tax incurred under section 4912 ........................................... c If "Yes," enter the amount of any tax incurred by organization managers under section 4912 ................... d If the filing organization incurred a section 4912 tax, did it file Form 4720 for this year? ........................ Part IIIA No Complete if the organization is exempt under section 501(c)(4), section 501(c)(5), or section 501(c)(6). Yes 1 Were substantially all (90% or more) dues received nondeductible by members? ............................................... 1 2 Did the organization make only inhouse lobbying expenditures of $2,000 or less? ............................................ 2 3 Did the organization agree to carry over lobbying and political expenditures from the prior year? ................................. 3 Part IIIB Complete if the organization is exempt under section 501(c)(4), section 501(c)(5), or section 501(c)(6) and if either (a) BOTH Part IIIA, lines 1 and 2, are answered "No" OR (b) Part IIIA, line 3, is answered “Yes." 1 Dues, assessments and similar amounts from members ...................................................................... 2 Section 162(e) nondeductible lobbying and political expenditures (do not include amounts of political expenses for which the section 527(f) tax was paid). a b Current year ............................................................................................................................. Carryover from last year ............................................................................................................ 2a c Total ........................................................................................................................................... 2c 3 Aggregate amount reported in section 6033(e)(1)(A) notices of nondeductible section 162(e) dues . 3 4 If notices were sent and the amount on line 2c exceeds the amount on line 3, what portion of the excess does the organization agree to carryover to the reasonable estimate of nondeductible lobbying and political expenditure next year? ...................................................................................................................... 4 5 Taxable amount of lobbying and political expenditures. See Instructions ......................................... 5 Part IV No 1 2b Supplemental Information Provide the descriptions required for Part lA, line 1; Part lB, line 4; Part lC, line 5; Part IIA (affiliated group list); Part IIA, lines 1 and 2 (see instructions), and Part llB, line 1. Also, complete this part for any additional information. Return Reference Explanation Schedule C (Form 990) 2021 �Additional Data Return to Form Software ID: Software Version: �SCHEDULE D Department of the Treasury Internal Revenue Service OMB No. 15450047 Supplemental Financial Statements (Form 990) 2021 Complete if the organization answered "Yes," on Form 990, Part IV, line 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11a, 11b, 11c, 11d, 11e, 11f, 12a, or 12b. Attach to Form 990. Go to www.irs.gov/Form990 for instructions and the latest information. Name of the organization Open to Public Inspection Employer identification number OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY INC 731300864 Part I Organizations Maintaining Donor Advised Funds or Other Similar Funds or Accounts. Complete if the organization answered "Yes" on Form 990, Part IV, line 6. (a) Donor advised funds (b) Funds and other accounts 1 Total number at end of year . . . . . . . . . 2 Aggregate value of contributions to (during year) 3 Aggregate value of grants from (during year) 4 Aggregate value at end of year . . . . . . . . 5 Did the organization inform all donors and donor advisors in writing that the assets held in donor advised funds are the organization’s property, subject to the organization’s exclusive legal control? . . . . . . . . . . . . Yes No 6 Did the organization inform all grantees, donors, and donor advisors in writing that grant funds can be used only for charitable purposes and not for the benefit of the donor or donor advisor, or for any other purpose conferring impermissible private benefit? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Yes No Part II 1 Conservation Easements. Complete if the organization answered "Yes" on Form 990, Part IV, line 7. Purpose(s) of conservation easements held by the organization (check all that apply). Preservation of land for public use (e.g., recreation or education) Preservation of an historically important land area Protection of natural habitat Preservation of a certified historic structure Preservation of open space 2 Complete lines 2a through 2d if the organization held a qualified conservation contribution in the form of a conservation easement on the last day of the tax year. Held at the End of the Year a Total number of conservation easements . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 2a b Total acreage restricted by conservation easements . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 2b c Number of conservation easements on a certified historic structure included in (a) . . . . . 2c d Number of conservation easements included in (c) acquired after 7/25/06, and not on a historic structure listed in the National Register . . . 2d 3 Number of conservation easements modified, transferred, released, extinguished, or terminated by the organization during the tax year 4 Number of states where property subject to conservation easement is located 5 Does the organization have a written policy regarding the periodic monitoring, inspection, handling of violations, and enforcement of the conservation easements it holds? . . . . . . . . . . . . Yes No 6 Staff and volunteer hours devoted to monitoring, inspecting, handling of violations, and enforcing conservation easements during the year 7 Amount of expenses incurred in monitoring, inspecting, handling of violations, and enforcing conservation easements during the year $ 8 Does each conservation easement reported on line 2(d) above satisfy the requirements of section 170(h)(4) (B)(i) and section 170(h)(4)(B)(ii)? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 9 Yes No In Part XIII, describe how the organization reports conservation easements in its revenue and expense statement, and balance sheet, and include, if applicable, the text of the footnote to the organization’s financial statements that describes the organization’s accounting for conservation easements. Part III Organizations Maintaining Collections of Art, Historical Treasures, or Other Similar Assets. Complete if the organization answered "Yes" on Form 990, Part IV, line 8. 1a If the organization elected, as permitted under FASB ASC 958, not to report in its revenue statement and balance sheet works of art, historical treasures, or other similar assets held for public exhibition, education, or research in furtherance of public service, provide, in Part XIII, the text of the footnote to its financial statements that describes these items. b If the organization elected, as permitted under FASB ASC 958, to report in its revenue statement and balance sheet works of art, historical treasures, or other similar assets held for public exhibition, education, or research in furtherance of public service, provide the following amounts relating to these items: (i) Revenue included on Form 990, Part VIII, line 1 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . $ (ii) Assets included in Form 990, Part X . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . $ If the organization received or held works of art, historical treasures, or other similar assets for financial gain, provide the following amounts required to be reported under FASB ASC 958 relating to these items: 2 a Revenue included on Form 990, Part VIII, line 1 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . $ b Assets included in Form 990, Part X . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . $ For Paperwork Reduction Act Notice, see the Instructions for Form 990. Cat. No. 52283D Schedule D (Form 990) 2021 �Page 2 Organizations Maintaining Collections of Art, Historical Treasures, or Other Similar Assets (continued) Schedule D (Form 990) 2021 Part III 3 a Using the organization’s acquisition, accession, and other records, check any of the following that are a significant use of its collection items (check all that apply): d Public exhibition Loan or exchange programs b e Scholarly research c Other Preservation for future generations 4 Provide a description of the organization’s collections and explain how they further the organization’s exempt purpose in Part XIII. 5 During the year, did the organization solicit or receive donations of art, historical treasures or other similar assets to be sold to raise funds rather than to be maintained as part of the organization’s collection?. . . Part IV 1a Is the organization an agent, trustee, custodian or other intermediary for contributions or other assets not included on Form 990, Part X? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . If "Yes," explain the arrangement in Part XIII and complete the following table: c Beginning balance . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 1c d Additions during the year . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 1d e Distributions during the year . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 1e f Ending balance . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 1f b No Yes Did the organization include an amount on Form 990, Part X, line 21, for escrow or custodial account liability? . . . If "Yes," explain the arrangement in Part XIII. Check here if the explanation has been provided in Part XIII Part V No Amount b 2a Yes Escrow and Custodial Arrangements. Complete if the organization answered "Yes" on Form 990, Part IV, line 9, or reported an amount on Form 990, Part X, line 21. Yes No . . . . Endowment Funds. Complete if the organization answered "Yes" on Form 990, Part IV, line 10. (a) Current year 1a Beginning of year balance b Contributions . . . . . (b) Prior year (c) Two years back (d) Three years back (e) Four years back 75,601 61,989 50,752 94,420 67,200 55,124 13,612 11,249 8,968 6,509 20,477 75,601 62,001 103,388 73,709 . . c Net investment earnings, gains, and losses d Grants or scholarships . . . e Other expenditures for facilities and programs . . . f Administrative expenses g End of year balance 2 . . . . . . . . . . Provide the estimated percentage of the current year end balance (line 1g, column (a)) held as: a Board designated or quasiendowment b Permanent endowment c Term endowment 100.000 % The percentages on lines 2a, 2b, and 2c should equal 100%. 3a Are there endowment funds not in the possession of the organization that are held and administered for the organization by: (i) Unrelated organizations b 4 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . (ii) Related organizations . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . If "Yes" on 3a(ii), are the related organizations listed as required on Schedule R? . . . . . . . . . . Yes . 3a(i) No Yes 3a(ii) . No 3b Describe in Part XIII the intended uses of the organization's endowment funds. Part VI Land, Buildings, and Equipment. Complete if the organization answered "Yes" on Form 990, Part IV, line 11a. See Form 990, Part X, line 10. (a) Cost or other basis (investment) Description of property 1a Land . . b Buildings . . . . (b) Cost or other basis (other) (c) Accumulated depreciation (d) Book value 2,015,807 630,855 1,384,952 197,537 182,253 15,284 . . . c Leasehold improvements d Equipment e Other . . . . . . . . . Total. Add lines 1a through 1e. (Column (d) must equal Form 990, Part X, column (B), line 10(c).) . . 1,400,236 Schedule D (Form 990) 2021 �Page 3 Schedule D (Form 990) 2021 Part VII Investments Other Securities. Complete if the organization answered "Yes" on Form 990, Part IV, line 11b.See Form 990, Part X, line 12. (a) Description of security or category (including name of security) (1) Financial derivatives . (2) Closelyheld equity interests (b) Book value . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . (c) Method of valuation: Cost or endofyear market value (3)Other (A) (B) (C) (D) (E) (F) (G) (H) Total. (Column (b) must equal Form 990, Part X, col. (B) line 12.) Part VIII Investments Program Related. Complete if the organization answered 'Yes' on Form 990, Part IV, line 11c. See Form 990, Part X, line 13. (a) Description of investment (b) Book value (c) Method of valuation: Cost or endofyear market value (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) Total. (Column (b) must equal Form 990, Part X, col.(B) line 13.) Part IX Other Assets. Complete if the organization answered 'Yes' on Form 990, Part IV, line 11d. See Form 990, Part X, line 15. (a) Description (b) Book value (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) Total. (Column (b) must equal Form 990, Part X, col.(B) line 15.) Part X . . . . . . . . . . . Other Liabilities. Complete if the organization answered 'Yes' on Form 990, Part IV, line 11e or 11f. See Form 990, Part X, line 25. 1. (a) Description of liability (b) Book value (1) Federal income taxes (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) Total. (Column (b) must equal Form 990, Part X, col.(B) line 25.) 2. Liability for uncertain tax positions. In Part XIII, provide the text of the footnote to the organization's financial statements that reports the organization's liability for uncertain tax positions under FIN 48 (ASC 740). Check here if the text of the footnote has been provided in Part XIII Schedule D (Form 990) 2021 �Page 4 Schedule D (Form 990) 2021 Part XI Reconciliation of Revenue per Audited Financial Statements With Revenue per Return. Complete if the organization answered 'Yes' on Form 990, Part IV, line 12a. 1 Total revenue, gains, and other support per audited financial statements 2 Amounts included on line 1 but not on Form 990, Part VIII, line 12: . . a Net unrealized gains (losses) on investments . . . . b Donated services and use of facilities . . . . . . . . . 2b c Recoveries of prior year grants . . . . . . . . . 2c d Other (Describe in Part XIII.) . . . . . . . . . e Add lines 2a through 2d . . . . . . . 2d . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 3 Subtract line 2e from line 1 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 4 Amounts included on Form 990, Part VIII, line 12, but not on line 1: a Investment expenses not included on Form 990, Part VIII, line 7b . b Other (Describe in Part XIII.) . . . . . . . . . . . c Add lines 4a and 4b . . . . . . . . . . . . 5 . . 2e 3 4b . . . . . . . . . 4c . . . 5 Reconciliation of Expenses per Audited Financial Statements With Expenses per Return. Complete if the organization answered 'Yes' on Form 990, Part IV, line 12a. 1 Total expenses and losses per audited financial statements 2 Amounts included on line 1 but not on Form 990, Part IX, line 25: . . a Donated services and use of facilities . . . . . . . . b Prior year adjustments . . . . . . . . c Other losses d Other (Describe in Part XIII.) . . . . . . . . . e . 4a Total revenue. Add lines 3 and 4c. (This must equal Form 990, Part I, line 12.) Part XII 1 2a . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 1 2a 2b . . 2c 2d . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 2e 3 Subtract line 2e from line 1 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 3 4 Amounts included on Form 990, Part IX, line 25, but not on line 1: a Investment expenses not included on Form 990, Part VIII, line 7b . . 4a b Other (Describe in Part XIII.) . . . . . . . . . 4b c 5 Add lines 2a through 2d . . . Add lines 4a and 4b . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Total expenses. Add lines 3 and 4c. (This must equal Form 990, Part I, line 18.) . . . . . . . . 4c . . 5 Part XIII Supplemental Information Provide the descriptions required for Part II, lines 3, 5, and 9; Part III, lines 1a and 4; Part lV, lines 1b and 2b; Part V, line 4; Part X, line 2; Part XI, lines 2d and 4b; and Part XII, lines 2d and 4b. Also complete this part to provide any additional information. Return Reference Explanation Schedule D (Form 990) 2021 �Additional Data Return to Form Software ID: Software Version: �OMB No. 15450047 Supplemental Information Regarding Fundraising or Gaming Activities SCHEDULE G (Form 990) 2021 Complete if the organization answered "Yes" on Form 990, Part IV, lines 17, 18, or 19, or if the organization entered more than $15,000 on Form 990EZ, line 6a. Department of the Treasury Internal Revenue Service Open to Public Inspection Attach to Form 990 or Form 990EZ. Go to www.irs.gov/Form990 for instructions and the latest information. Name of the organization OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY INC Employer identification number 731300864 Part I 1 Fundraising Activities. Complete if the organization answered "Yes" on Form 990, Part IV, line 17. Form 990EZ filers are not required to complete this part. Indicate whether the organization raised funds through any of the following activities. Check all that apply. a Mail solicitations b c d Inperson solicitations 2a e Solicitation of nongovernment grants Internet and email solicitations f Solicitation of government grants Phone solicitations g Special fundraising events b Did the organization have a written or oral agreement with any individual (including officers, directors, trustees or key employees listed in Form 990, Part VII) or entity in connection with professional fundraising Yes No services? If "Yes," list the 10 highest paid individuals or entities (fundraisers) pursuant to agreements under which the fundraiser is to be compensated at least $5,000 by the organization. (i) Name and address of individual or entity (fundraiser) (ii) Activity 1 (iii) Did fundraiser have custody or control of contributions? Yes No (iv) Gross receipts from activity (v) Amount paid to (or retained by) fundraiser listed in col. (i) (vi) Amount paid to (or retained by) organization GRANT WRIT DONNA MATTHEWS DONNA MATTHEWS 3718 S TOLEDO AVE 3718 S TOLEDO AVE T U L S A, O K 7 4 1 3 5 No 27,979 27,979 27,979 27,979 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Total . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 3 List all states in which the organization is registered or licensed to solicit contributions or has been notified it is exempt from registration or licensing. OK For Paperwork Reduction Act Notice, see the Instructions for Form 990 or 990EZ. Cat. No. 50083H Schedule G (Form 990) 2021 �Schedule G (Form 990) 2021 Part II Page 2 Fundraising Events. Complete if the organization answered "Yes" on Form 990, Part IV, line 18, or reported more than $15,000 of fundraising event contributions and gross income on Form 990EZ, lines 1 and 6b. List events with gross receipts greater than $5,000. 1 Gross receipts . (c)Other events EQUALITY GALA (event type) PRIDE FESTIVAL (event type) 1 (total number) . 353,950 177,027 2 Less: Contributions . . . 3 Gross income (line 1 minus line 2) . . . . . . 274,350 78,250 79,600 98,777 . . (b) Event #2 . 4 Cash prizes . (a)Event #1 . . . . . 5 Noncash prizes . . . . 6 Rent/facility costs . . . . . . . 7 Food and beverages 8 Entertainment . . 9 Other direct expenses . . 539,023 352,600 8,046 186,423 1,075 120,930 . 5,619 62,737 62,737 18,149 139,079 79,193 79,193 51,230 6,521 63,370 10 Direct expense summary. Add lines 4 through 9 in column (d) . . . . . . . . . . 345,454 11 Net income summary. Subtract line 10 from line 3, column (d) . . . . . . . . . . 159,031 Part III Gaming. Complete if the organization answered "Yes" on Form 990, Part IV, line 19, or reported more than $15,000 on Form 990EZ, line 6a. (b) Pull tabs/Instant bingo/progressive bingo (a) Bingo 1 Gross revenue . . . . . 2 Cash prizes . . . . 3 Noncash prizes . . . . 4 Rent/facility costs . . . . 5 Other direct expenses . . . . Yes 6 Volunteer labor . . . . % Yes No 7 Direct expense summary. Add lines 2 through 5 in column (d) 9 8,046 1,075 . . (d) Total events (add col. (a) through col. (c)) % Yes No . (d) Total gaming (add col.(a) through col.(c)) (c) Other gaming % No . . . . . . . . . 8 Net gaming income summary. Subtract line 7 from line 1, column (d) . . . . . . . . . Enter the state(s) in which the organization conducts gaming activities: a b 10a b . . . Yes No Were any of the organization's gaming licenses revoked, suspended or terminated during the tax year? . If "Yes," explain: . . Yes No Is the organization licensed to conduct gaming activities in each of these states? . If "No," explain: . . . . Schedule G (Form 990) 2021 �Schedule G (Form 990) 2021 11 Page 3 12 Does the organization conduct gaming activities with nonmembers? . . . . . . . . . . Is the organization a grantor, beneficiary or trustee of a trust or a member of a partnership or other entity formed to administer charitable gaming? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 13 Indicate the percentage of gaming activity conducted in: a The organization's facility . . . . b An outside facility . . . . 14 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Yes No Yes No . . 13a % . . 13b % Enter the name and address of the person who prepares the organization's gaming/special events books and records: Name Address 15a b Does the organization have a contract with a third party from whom the organization receives gaming revenue? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . If "Yes," enter the amount of gaming revenue received by the organization amount of gaming revenue retained by the third party c $ $ . . Yes No Yes No and the . If "Yes," enter name and address of the third party: Name Address 16 Gaming manager information: Name Gaming manager compensation $ Description of services provided Director/officer 17 a Independent contractor Mandatory distributions: Is the organization required under state law to make charitable distributions from the gaming proceeds to retain the state gaming license? b Employee . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Enter the amount of distributions required under state law distributed to other exempt organizations or spent in the organization's own exempt activities during the tax year Part IV $ Supplemental Information. Provide the explanations required by Part I, line 2b, columns (iii) and (v); and Part III, lines 9, 9b, 10b, 15b, 15c, 16, and 17b, as applicable. Also provide any additional information. See instructions. Return Reference Explanation Schedule G (Form 990) 2021 Additional Data Return to Form Software ID: Software Version: �SCHEDULE O (Form 990) Department of the Treasury Internal Revenue Service Supplemental Information to Form 990 or 990EZ Complete to provide information for responses to specific questions on Form 990 or 990EZ or to provide any additional information. Attach to Form 990 or 990EZ. Go to www.irs.gov/Form990 for the latest information. Name of the organization OMB No. 15450047 2021 Open to Public Inspection Employer identification number OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY INC 731300864 Return Reference Explanation FORM 990, PAGE 2, PART III, LINE 4A MINORITY COMMUNITY CENTER OPERATION, CULTURAL AND EDUCATION PROGRAMS AND EVENT FACILITATION INCLUDING: COUNSELING AND WELLNESS PROGRAMS. PROVIDING FREE LICENSED MENTAL HEALTH PROFESSIONAL COUNSELING SERVICES. MORE THAN 30 PEER LED SUPPORT GROUPS FOR INDIVIDUALS DEALING WITH POST TRAUMATIC STRESS, SEXUAL ORIENTATION IDENTITY ACCEPTANCE, DEPRESSION, EATING DISORDERS, GRIEF RECOVERY, TRANSGENDER ISSUES, DIVORCE AND RELATIONSHIP CHALLENGES, SUBSTANCE ABUSE, AND HEALTH CHALLENGES. TRANSGENDER SERVICES AND PROGRAMS: PROVIDING MEDICAL REFERRALS AND LIMITED MEDICAL SERVICES, MENTAL HEALTH REFERRALS, LEGAL SERVICES AND 5 DIFFERENT PEER LED SUPPORT GROUPS FOR INDIVIDUALS AND THEIR FAMILIES WHO IDENTIFTY AS TRANSGENDER. LGBT OLDER ADULT PROGRAM: PROVIDING MEDICAL REFERRALS, MENTAL HEALTH REFERRALS, LEGAL SERVICES, WEEKLY CHECK INS, ADVOCATING FOR THOSE LIVING IN ASSISTED LIVING CENTERS, AND SOCIAL PROGRAMMING FOR LESBIAN, GAY, BISEXUAL AND TRANSGENDER SENIOR ADULTS. FORM 990, PAGE 6, PART VI, LINE 5 AN APPARENT EMBEZZLEMENT HAS BEEN DISCOVERED AFTER YEAR END OF 9/30/21. THE AMOUNT IS BELIEVED TO BE 14,758. AN IVESTIGATION IS IN PROGRESS. FORM 990, PAGE 6, PART VI, LINE 6 PERSONS WHO MAKE MINIMUM LEVEL OF CONTRIBUTION ARE ELIGIBLE TO VOTE ON MATTERS THAT COME BEFORE THE ANNUAL MEETING INCLUDING ELECTING MEMBERS TO THE BOARD OF DIRECTORS. FORM 990, PAGE 6, PART VI, LINE 7A PERSONS WHO MAKE MINIMUM LEVEL OF CONTRIBUTION ARE ELIGIBLE TO VOTE ON MATTERS THAT COME BEFORE THE ANNUAL MEETING INCLUDING ELECTING MEMBERS TO THE BOARD OF DIRECTORS. FORM 990, PAGE 6, PART VI, LINE 11B FORM 990 IS CIRCULATED FOR REVIEW BY MEMBERS OF THE EXECUTIVE COMMITTEE. FORM 990, PAGE 6, PART VI, LINE 12C DIRECTORS ARE REQUIRED TO MAKE FULL DISCLOSURE OF POTENTIAL AND ACTUAL CONFLICTS OF INTEREST AND RECUSE FROM ISSUES AS NECESSARY. FORM 990, PAGE 6, PART VI, LINE 15A OKLAHOMA CENTER FOR NONPROFITS PROVIDED COMPENSATION DATA. FORM 990, PAGE 6, PART VI, LINE 19 GUIDESTAR.COM AND IN OFFICE AVAILABLE FOR MEMBERS TO READ AND TO COPY AS WELL AS ELECTRONICALLY. For Paperwork Reduction Act Notice, see the Instructions for Form 990 or 990EZ. Cat. 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For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource Parade Application Subject The topic of the resource Martin Luther King Jr. Parade 2014 Description An account of the resource Copy of Oklahomans for Equality's application to take part in 2014's Martin Luther King Jr. parade. Includes letter to participants from Parade Committee Chair Fred Jones and MLK Board President Pleas A. Thompson, participant information, rules and regulations, and a parade map. Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Tulsa MLK Commemorative Society and Parade Committee Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource January 20, 2014 Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource Fred Jones Pleas A. 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For an entire week, from Saturday October 25th through Saturday November 1st, the Equality Center will be overrun with zombies! Test your courage and come by for a zombified tour! eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: The Garden Trug OUTlaw Legal Series Equality Business Alliance TMSL SAGE Tulsa Halloween Halloween 2014 LGBT Shirt Quilt A Murder of Storytellers http://www.theGardenTrug.com Our Bodies, Ourselves Computer Boot Camp Fair Housing Survey --- Garden Tru Broken Heart Land Transforming Hate nursery, flor ist & gifts EBA Sponsor OKEQ eNews Sponsor Need flowers? Call our full service florist ... we deliver [~311 Love our Strore? Like us on Facebook! ~ facebook.com/gardentrug 101st & Delaware 918.528.3828 Reiki Sessions OK Mister Leather 2015 Spirit Day Bullying Conference 2015 Call for Art LGBT History Month Wedding Announcement Congratulations from Oklahomans for Equality OUT OK Film Festival Circle Cinema Miss Brookside Tulsa Interfaith Alliance OSU Survey Mary Bishop and Sharon Baldwin were wed on Monday, October 6th, 2014 at 5:00 pm on the steps of the Tulsa County Courthouse by Judge Jane Wiseman. The couple then had a wedding reception at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center with a few hundred close family and friends. Thus completing an almost 10 year journey together that began when the couple, along with Gay Phillips and Sue Barton, filed a lawsuit in November 2004, the day after 76 percent of Oklahoma voters approved State Question 711, which codified a ban on same-sex marriage into the state constitution. U.S. District Judge Terence Kern of the Tulsa-based Northern District of Oklahoma ruled January 14th of this year that the ban was unconstitutional. Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 12:30 PM �Firefox 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-8th--2014.... OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, October 16th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. Photo Courtesy of LeAnne Williams Photography Marriage Equality in Oklahoma OkEq Art Exhibit The October exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Ann and Chuck Tomlins. ________ In news you may have heard: On Monday, October 6th, the Supreme Court rejected to review the appeal of the unconstitutional ruling on the same-sex marriage ban in Oklahoma. Making Marriage Equality the law of the land in Oklahoma. The stay on the ban was lifted that afternoon and couples quickly began obtaining their marriage licenses. Included in this decision is Oklahoma now having to recognize out-of-state same-sex marriages. We want your Marriage Equality photos! If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to Lucas.Green@OkEq.org with "OK to use" in the Subject. Please include - - --any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you! Wedding Resources Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 12:30 PM �Firefox 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-8th--2014.... Oklahomans for Equality has a list of officiants for wedding ceremonies available for pick up at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org for a copy. If you are looking for services for your wedding, please look through our Business Alliance directory where you can find all kinds of -Equality - - -------------LGBT friendly businesses to help you host the perfect wedding. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8586 The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has several spaces available for rent if you are looking for space to hold your ceremony. Please email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org for a rental information sheet or to arrange a quick tour of the available spaces. OUTlaw Legal Series Thursday, October 9th, 2014; 7:00 pm Counseling Services The Supreme Court has made their decision about same-sex marriage in Oklahoma. Please join us if you have any questions about the state of now legal samesex marriage in Oklahoma. The OUTlaw Legal Series will discuss all the latest relating to Oklahoma marriage Equality on Thursday, October 9th at 7:00 pm. Please bring your questions and thoughts for our legal expert Conor Cleary, Esq. Please email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org to RSVP Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The October Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, October 15th, 2014 at 6:00 pm. Hosted by The Garden Trug, 3009 E 101st St, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74137. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to 4/23/26, 12:30 PM �Firefox 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-8th--2014.... Counseling Services everyone on your friends list. the ar Tru nursery and gift shop The Garden Trug 3009 E 101st St Tulsa, OK 74137 Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org Tulsa Metro Softball League 2014 Fall Ball Registration is now open This year's Tulsa Metro Softball League Fall season will be a short 4 week season beginning Sunday, October 5th, and ending on Sunday, October 26th. So you are guaranteed to play 2 games each weekend. Games will be played at TMSL normal scheduled times from 1:00 pm - 4:00 pm. Member dues this season will be $30. Once again this year, you are allowed to sign up with a partner or two to join you in the fun of Fall Ball. TMSL is also bringing back the Fall Ball Referral Program, where if you recruit a new member (a member who has never played in TMSL leagues), then you will receive $10 off your dues! So refer 3 new friends, you will play for free! Sign up at tulsametrosoftball.com/leagues/softball SAGE Tulsa Hobo Halloween Party Tuesday, October 28th, 2014; 10:00 am SAGE Tulsa will have their Halloween party and a Hobo costume contest on Tuesday, October 28th. Prizes will be given for the best hobo costume. The group will meet at the Equality Center at 10:00 am and then head to the party location. For more information, email SAGE@OkEq.org Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Zombie House 2014 Saturday, October 25th through Saturday, November 1st 4/23/26, 12:30 PM �Firefox 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-8th--2014.... Oklahomans for Equality will turn the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center into a haunted house this Halloween for an entire week. We need volunteers for our haunted horror show. You need to be available for upcoming planning meetings and anytime between 4:00 pm and 12:00 am during Halloween week. Email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org if you would like to volunteer. Next planning meeting will be Sunday, October 11th at 2:00 pm at the Equality Center. f I • . , - I Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop LGBT Pride T-Shirt Quilt Project 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather For the 35th Anniversary of Oklahomans for Equality, a quilt project has been started to make a quilt from of all kinds of LGBT related shirts. Pride would be best, but we welcome any and all LGBT shirts. Quality is not important since they will be cut up anyway. ti~ 4~ TULSA PRIDE 2010 Please bring your shirts to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center anytime between 12:00 pm and 9:00 pm Monday through Saturday. For more information, email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org A Murder of Storytellers - Writing Group Every Friday at 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center A Murder of Storytellers will meet for a writing group at the Equality Center every Friday at 7:00 pm. As an indie publishing house, A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 12:30 PM �Firefox 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-8th--2014.... make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Everyone knows that a gathering of crows is called a murder, but in days past, it was also called a storytelling. So, let's gather, tell our stories, and murder those fears and errors that hold us back. Facilitated by John Madigan sage Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesb,an, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Our Bodies, Ourselves First and Third Wednesdays of every month; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Our Bodies Ourselves is a new group that focuses on body image, disordered eating, health and society's ideas surrounding these issues. The group will meet on the first and third Wednesdays of the month at 7:00 pm at the Equality Center. All are welcome. Next meeting will be October 15th. I MY BODY Computer Boot Camp Every other Sunday, Next class on October 12th; 12:30 pm The world is changing and you refuse to be left behind. And you want to be able to email your friends and family members or even show your grandkids a couple of tricks that you've learned on the computer. You want to be able to use the Internet to search on topics that are important to you - the latest health information, what's happening in the world, or what the headlines are in the city. Class size will be limited to 9. For more information or to reserve your spot, please contact Mary Jones at 918.743.4297 or Mary.Jones@OkEq.org --- Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Fair Housing in Tulsa Survey Survey ends November 3rd, 2014 The City of Tulsa is conducting a confidential survey for feedback on whether the city has barriers to fair housing. The survey will be part of a study on Tulsa's fair housing choices, a study required by the U.S. Department of Housing and Urban Development. /.J Tulsa Area Prime Timers The survey is available in English and Spanish by following this link here. Broken Heart Land Screening on Thursday, October 16th, 2014; 6:30 pm OSU - Tulsa Auditorium 700 N Greenwood Ave Oklahomans for Equality, H.O.P.E. (Health, Outreach, Prevention, Education), Tulsa CARES and PFLAG Tulsa are presenting a screening of the documentary film, Broken Heart Land, T 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 4/23/26, 12:30 PM �Firefox 7 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-8th--2014.... on Thursday, October 16th at 6:30 pm at OSU - Tulsa Auditorium, 700 N Greenwood Ave. A panel featuring subjects from the film will be conducted after the screening. This event is free and open to the public. 918.592.0088 Broken Heart Land, a conservative Oklahoma family is shattered when their gay teenage son commits suicide after a bitterly controversial town meeting discussing a proposal for Gay and Lesbian History Month. In their search to unravel the mystery behind his death, they discover a tragic secret, and begin to question their own civic responsibility as they undergo a harrowing transformation from private citizens to public defenders of their son's legacy. For more information on the film, visit brokenheartland.com For more information about the event, contact Bruce Lewis at 918.834.4194 or by email at brucel@tulsacares.org Transforming Hate: A Creative Process Call for Submissions The Oklahomans for Equality art gallery will be mounting a special group exhibit in January 2015 called Transforming Hate: A Creative Process... and YOU are invited to submit work for consideration. Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance This themed show will compliment a traveling exhibit at Living Arts of Tulsa, called "Speaking Volumes: Transforming Hate"... wherein 60 artists literally created art works from 4000 volumes of white supremacist bibles and other books of hate speech. To read more about this exhibit and see some of the work go to http://www.speakingvolumes.net/ Living Arts has invited OkEq, as well as other organizations in Tulsa, to participate in opening a community wide conversation, in the hope of discovering new and creative ways that we might transform hate and begin a healing process. The exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Gallery will showcase in January 2015. For information on how to submit your work, visit okeq.org/art-gallery The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Plexus Slim Ask me for FREE sample!!! Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon T:(918)361-<1188 All natural products for diabeti cs , weight loss, pain, GI issues and skin conditions. www.ploxusslim.com/robinlob utti E: robinlabutti@Cox.not Lose weIghl • Get hi • Improve performance • lncrean 1nargy Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 12:30 PM �Firefox 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-8th--2014.... Reiki Sessions By Appointment Dennis R Neill Equality Center Reiki - pronounced "ray-key" is a life energy balancing and stress reduction technique that uses chakra points for a non-impact healing session. Reiki promotes healing in countless areas including everything from physical injuries and aches, to mental and spiritual traumas and hurts, to overall balancing in life. It does not use or replace traditional medicine, but instead uses Universal Life Force Energy already inside us all to go to the areas of greatest need. The practitioner acts as a conduit to help the energy move more freely to those areas. Held at the Equality Center, a session lasting approximately 1 1/2 hours is $75 for non OkEq members and $50 for OkEq members. A sliding scale is also available. Monica Haney is a certified Reiki Practitioner and is happy to answer your call or text at 918.381.1656 Oklahoma Mister Leather 2015 Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno October 17th - 19th, 2014 For more information, visit TulsaLeather.com Spirit Day - October 16th Millions go purple on Spirit Day in a stand against bullying and to show their support for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) youth. Observed annually since 2010, individuals, schools, organizations, corporations, and public figures wear purple, which symbolizes 'spirit' on the rainbow flag. Pledge to go purple here --- --- - -- ----- Bullying Prevention Conference Saturday, October 11th, 2014; 9:00 am - 3:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 12:30 PM �Firefox 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-8th--2014.... Wilson Teaching and Learning Academy 2710 E 11th Street Tulsa, OK 74104 Bullying Prevention Conference Saturday, October 11th 2014 - 9:00 am to 3:00 pm Wilson Teaching and Learning Academy Free Admission for All - Educators, Parents, & Secondary Students Students, parent and educators will learn about: • School climate issues • Bullying and suicide • Local prevention programs • School based initiviative • Prevention and intervention • Cyberbullying EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. For more information or to register, visit preventbullyingtulsa.org 2015 Call for Exhibition Proposals Deadline is November 15th, 2014 Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday The Art Gallery at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center is now accepting proposals for our monthly exhibits to fill the 2015 Exhibition Calendar. Each chosen exhibit will be on display for approximately 30 days. Our gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a paragraph or two about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 JPEG images which characterize your current work. Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable.. OkEq hosts an opening night reception for the artist(s), on the first Thursday of the month. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at close of opening night. Deadline for submissions is November 15th, 2014. Notifications will be sent out by December 1st, 2014. We still do have a "no repeat" policy, so will only consider proposals from those who have not previously exhibited in the gallery, (excepting MOREcolor participation) Please submit by e-mail to alliejensen@cox.net, with the subject heading "OkEq Gallery Proposal" Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides 4/23/26, 12:30 PM �Firefox 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-8th--2014.... October is LGBT History Month A new LGBT Icon will be featured every day of the month A new LGBT Icon will be featured every day LGBT History Month celebrates the achievements of 31 lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgender Icons. Beginning October 1st, 2014, a new LGBT Icon will be featured every day. October 8th - Lord Byron October 9th - Michael Callen October 10th - Tseng Kwong Chi October 11th - Margaret Cho October 12th - Jean Cocteau October 13th - Orlando Cruz October 14th - Lee Daniels testing on Fridays 4:00 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. To view videos and bios of the featured Icons, visit lgbthistorymonth.com OUT OK Film Festival November 14th, 15th & 16th, 2014 Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org OUT OK RETURNS Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Transformative. Engrossing. And totally Entertaining... There's an exciting and diverse world waiting to be explored during the latest edition of OUT OK, 4/23/26, 12:30 PM �Firefox 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-8th--2014.... the Oklahoma GLBT International Film Festival. Join us November 14, 15, 16, 2014. www.out-ok.com Net proceeds benefit Oklahomans for Equality . Upcoming Screenings at Circle Cinema ~ -·•,oc1~,.,.,u1S."'9• Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave "PRIDE" opens at Circle Cinema on Friday, October 17th. PRIDE is inspired by an extraordinary true story. It's the summer of 1984, Margaret Thatcher is in power and the National Union of Mineworkers is on strike, prompting a Londonbased group of gay and lesbian activists to raise money to support the strikers' families. Initially rebuffed by the Union, the group identifies a tiny mining village in Wales and sets off to make their donation in person. As the strike drags on, the two groups discover that standing together makes for the strongest union of all. For more information about PRIDE, visit www.cbsfilms.com/pride Miss Brookside 2015 Pageant Saturday, October 18th, 2014; 6:30 pm All Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S Peoria Ave The Miss Brookside Scholarship Pageant will select the new Miss Brookside 2015 and Miss Brookside's Outstanding Teen 2015 on October 18th, 2014, at All Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S Peoria Ave. The pageant will be held at 6:30 p.m. and will include Interview, Talent, Evening Wear, On-Stage Question, and Lifestyle and Fitness in Swimsuit. New this year is the Brookside Stars Program. This program allows girls between the ages of 5 and 11 the chance to interact with the Brookside Queens, create a special craft, and appear on stage in a tiara with a Miss contestant. General Admission tickets are $15.00 and will be available at the door, early arrival is recommended. For more information visit www.MissBrooksidePageant.com facebook/MissBrooksidePageant and 4/23/26, 12:30 PM �Firefox 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-8th--2014.... The Role of Faith in Health Care Decisions: Individuals, Groups and Government Thursday, October 9th, 2014; 7:00 pm The Tulsa Interfaith Alliance, in partnership with Phillips INTERFAITH ALLIANCE OF TULSA Theological Seminary and the PROTECTING FAITH AND FREEDOM Women's & Gender Studies Dept at the University of Tulsa, is hosting a community forum on the topic, "The Role of Faith in Health Care Decisions: Individuals, Groups and Government" on Thursday, October 9 at 7:00 pm in the Allen Chapman Student Union at the University of Tulsa. The Women's and Gender Studies Department is hosting a prereception starting at 6:30pm. The forum will consist of a moderated panel discussion by local, regional, and national experts in the field of health care ethics. Our moderator is Dr John Schumann. guest host of "Studio Tulsa" on radio station KWGS. Panelists include Marguerite Chapman (Professor Emeritus, TU School of Law), Ryan Kiesel (ED of ACLU-OK), Dr Mark Fox (Assoc Dean, Community Health & Research Development, OU School of Community Medicine), and Monica Harrington (board member, Center for Reproductive Rights). For more information, or to submit questions to be considered by the panel, visit our Facebook event here or email tulsainterfaithalliance@gmail.com. Trans-sition Research Study Researchers at the University of Texas are seeking trans* identified individuals who intend to begin transition, those who have already begun transition, and those who identify as having completed transition. This study will look at personal experiences of individuals before, during, and after transition. Please use the above link to . provide your contact information. You will then be sent a short questionnaire to determine eligibility. Eligible participants will be contacted to schedule an in-person or phone interview. - For questions, please contact: Dr. Julie Nagoshi, School of Social Work, University of Texas at Arlington julienagoshi@uta.edu Survey Link: https://okstatecoe.az1.qualtrics.com/SE/? SID=SV_3K9dW0lGcSFUvHL Equality Center Pride Store Available in the Pride Store, same-sex wedding toppers. Various designs and prices. 4/23/26, 12:30 PM �Firefox 13 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-8th--2014.... Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Melting Point' by Pat Califia You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center A stunning collection of lesbian tales from the most widely known and successful author in the field of lesbian and S/M erotica. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality 4/23/26, 12:30 PM �Firefox 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-8th--2014.... r-----------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L-----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 12:30 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/ab6c5951ab2b3e8e69b5ec2218abf134.pdf b6e2278300672625aaad176fb81b6457 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-15th--2014.htm... eNews July 15th, 2014 In This Issue Be Our Voice, Give a Day EBA Sponsor Equality Business Alliance Gamily Ice Cream Social Welcome to the eNews. OkEq will host Mara Keisling from the National Center for Transgender Equality on Wednesday, July 23rd at 7:00 pm. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Be Our Voice, Give a Day In honor of their 17th anniversary, George McCauslan and Rusty Clyma have made a donation to OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign and are sponsoring the Equality Center and OkEq programming for the week. Thank You and Happy Anniversary, George and Rusty! Mara Keisling GET F.I.T. Oklahoma Leather History Board of Directors National Gay Blood Drive New Counseling Services Grateful Day Foundation Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group SAGE Tulsa Pool Party Friend for a Friend Dinner First Thursday Art Show BARE: A Pop Opera Back to School Carnival DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. Imperial Court of All Oklahoma LGBTI Youth Survey Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Click here to commemorate your special day with OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time Find Us on Facebook OkEq Art Exhibit 4/23/26, 12:11 PM �Firefox 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-15th--2014.htm... The July exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Susan Foust. ________ The door prize winner for July was Dale W. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The July Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, June 16th, 2014 at 6:00 pm. Hosted by the Tulsa Shock, the meeting will take place at the BOK Center, 200 S Denver Ave, Tulsa OK 74103. Enter the building from the entrance on 3rd and Denver and gather in the grand lobby. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org BOK Center 200 S Denver Ave Tulsa, OK 74103 2nd Annual Gamily Ice Cream Social Sunday, July 20th, 2014; 1:00 - 3:00 pm It's that time again! Gamily's 2nd Annual Ice Cream Social! Come have fun and eat free ICE CREAM. This is an opportunity to meet other families and make new friends. Join us on Sunday, July 20th, 2014 from 1:00 to 3:00 pm. RSVP on OkEq's Gamily Facebook page or email Gamily@OkEq.org Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 4/23/26, 12:11 PM �Firefox 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-15th--2014.htm... 918-594-8586 Counseling Services Oklahomans for Equality hosts Mara Keisling Wednesday, July 23rd, 2014; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will host a reception and Q&A lecture with Mara Keisling, Executive Director of the National Center for Transgender Equality on Wednesday, July 23rd at 7:00 pm. This event is free and open to the public. Mara Keisling is the founding Executive Director of the National Center for Transgender Equality. Mara is a transgender-identified woman and a parent. As one of the nation's leading voices for transgender equality, Mara has appeared on news outlets and is regularly quoted in hundreds of national and local print and broadcast media. GET F.I.T. (Fun, Intense, Training) Wednesdays and Thursdays at 6:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Now on Wednesdays and Thursdays, GET F.I.T. (Fun, Intense, Training) GET F.I.T. is an exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. The only requirement... keep moving through a combination of Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 12:11 PM �Firefox 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-15th--2014.htm... weight training and cardiovascular exercise. Wednesdays and Thursdays at 6:00 pm at the Equality Center. $5 for non-members and free to members... Come take your first steps to GET F.I.T. Facilitated by Brad Sullivan. Ribbon Cutting ceremony and unveiling of The Oklahoma Leather History Archives Display Monday, July 21st, 2014; 7:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality will have an unveiling ceremony for a new revolving history exhibit on permanent display at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The purpose of the exhibit is to educate and inform the public about the vibrant leather community in Oklahoma. Tulsa Mr. Leather 2014 Richard Ziese spearheaded the project to raise funds and collect archives and memorabilia preserving Oklahoma's leather history. Richard Ziese said "It has been an honor to do this for our people to remember those in the kink, fetish and leather community who touched so many with their lives and their heroic efforts for full acceptance. Many of them are no longer with us but with this display we will celebrate their lives". The display will be unveiled on Monday, July 21st at 7:00 pm. SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Oklahomans for Equality Annual Meeting and Board of Directors Elections 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather 4/23/26, 12:11 PM �Firefox 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-15th--2014.htm... SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) OkEq Board 2013-2014 The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 25th, 2014 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee (Applications due to OkEq by July 24th) OR Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by September 10th) At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is accepting applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Seven directors will be elected. Please contact Lucas.Green@OkEq.org for an application and to interview with the Board of Development and Governance Committee if you desire to be nominated by the Board of Development and Governance Committee. Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term National Gay Blood Drive The National Gay Blood Drive was on July 11th, 2014. 55 individuals came by the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to donate and 39 units of blood were collected.This was a nationwide effort to bring attention to the FDA's ban against Gay & Bisexual men donating blood & increase pressure on them to change it. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Oklahomans for Equality and the Oklahoma Blood Institute would like to thank everyone who participated in bringing awareness to the ban against Gay and Bisexual Male donors. Even if you were not able to participate, you 4/23/26, 12:11 PM �Firefox 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-15th--2014.htm... can sign the White House petition to end the ban here. Get F.I.T. New Counseling Services Weekdays by appointment OkEq welcomes a new intern, Chelsey Dobbs, to our Counseling Service Program at the Equality Center. Chelsey Dobbs earned her Bachelor of Arts degree in Psychology from Oklahoma State University, and is currently working toward her Master's degree in Community Counseling from Oklahoma State University in Tulsa. She is providing counseling services at the Equality Center in her capacity as an intern at the OSUTulsa Counseling Center. She is interested in working primarily with adults, and is particularly interested in the provision of counseling services to LGBTQ people. Contact 918-594-8586 to schedule an appointment with Chelsey. Grateful Day Pool Party Fundraiser Saturday, July 19th, 2014; 3:00 - 7:00 pm 3811 E 67th St, Tulsa, OK 74136 Join The Grateful Day Foundation on Saturday July 19th for a Pool Party Cookout Fundraiser. The Grateful Day Foundation is raising funds to support our annual Summer Retreat for people living with HIV/AIDS. Hamburgers, Hot Dogs, Beer, and Swimming will be available at the home of Grateful Day Foundation Treasurer Paul Dorman. Please RSVP on Facebook so we will know how many meals to plan. Donations for meals are appreciated and will be accepted at the door... Please make Checks payable to OKEQ with Grateful Day in the Memo line...Credit Card and cash donations also accepted. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 4:00 pm. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. 4/23/26, 12:11 PM �Firefox 7 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-15th--2014.htm... Yoga A - Z *On hiatus for Summer* Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group Every Tuesday at 6:30 pm; 1st Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm Lambda Al-Anon Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality will be hosting the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Beginning in August. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of all that we do in Shambhala Meditation Training. This ancient practice of self-discovery is rooted in the simple but revolutionary premise that every human being has the ability to cultivate the mind's inherent stability, clarity and strength in order to be more awake and to develop the compassion and insight necessary to care for oneself and the world genuinely. For more information please visit tulsa.shambhala.org or email shambhalatulsa@gmail.com SAGE Tulsa Pool Party Tuesday, July 22nd, 10:00 am sage~ SAGE Tulsa will have a pool party on Tuesday, July 22nd, 2014 at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch will and Advocacy not be served on this day. Please bring your favorite dish forServices Gay, lesbian, Bisexual for lunch. SAGE Tulsa will be celebrating the birthday of & Tramgender Elders Pool Party host, Roger Morris The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email SAGE@OkEq.org to RSVP. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno 4/23/26, 12:11 PM �Firefox 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-15th--2014.htm... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org A Friend for a Friend Fundraiser Dinner Saturday, July 26th, 2014; 6:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center A Friend for a Friend will have a fundraiser dinner on Saturday, July 26th, 2014. On the menu will be, smoked chicken, ribs, baked beans and cole slaw/potato salad. 100% of the admission price will go towards A Friend for a Friend. Admission is a suggested donation of $10.00 "A Friend for a Friend" is a 501(C)3 Organization that is dedicated to helping those with HIV/AIDS with their pet's care and wellness, and is completely funded by private donations. For more information, call 918.747.6827 or 918.361.8839 August First Thursday Art Reception Thursday, August 7th, 2014; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The August Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Karen McCauley and Renee Sweetwood, in a combination show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, August 7th from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. 4/23/26, 12:11 PM �Firefox 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-15th--2014.htm... Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday BARE: A Pop Opera July 18th - 20th Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Tulsa Performing Arts Center 110 E 2nd St Tulsa, OK 74103 In partnership with SummerStage and the Tulsa Fringe Festival, a new theatre company, consisting of entirely students, Fruugensteinery Productions, will be producing the contemporary Off-Broadway musical, BARE: A Pop Opera. Set in a Catholic Boarding school, BARE centers around a group of seniors in their last semester of high school and their struggles to navigate adolescence. BARE follows two roommates, Peter & Jason, in their attempt to keep their relationship a secret from their friends, family, and church leaders. Directed by Liz Hunt and dedicated to her brother, Mikal, a large portion of ticket sales will be donated to the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. Guiding Right provides testing on Mondays and Fridays 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/23/26, 12:11 PM �Firefox 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-15th--2014.htm... Performance Dates: Friday, July 18 at 8pm Saturday, July 19 at 2pm (a talk-back with the cast immediately after!) Saturday, July 19 at 8pm Sunday, July 20 at 2pm BARE will be performed in the Liddy Doenges Theatre at the Tulsa PAC. Like Fruug's Facebook page at www.facebook.com/fruugtulsa to see how LGBT couples can enter our photo contest to win 2 FREE TICKETS to the show! Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ---- Fruugensteinery Productions believes that BARE: A Pop Opera contains a message that Tulsa desperately needs to hear. Whether you struggles with their identity, self worth, body image, spirituality, or sexuality, there is a character in BARE you'll be able to relate to. We want our production to inform and challenge Tulsans, not just entertain them. Buy your tickets online at myticketoffice.com or by calling the PAC box office at (918) 596-7111 2nd Annual Gamily Back to School Carnival Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org --- Sunday, August 10th, 2014; 1:00 - 5:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Summer is breezing by and school will be back in session before you know it. Because of the great success and turn out from the families last year, Gamily will present the 2nd Annual Back to School Carnival on Sunday, August 10th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm. There will be snacks, games, characters, activities, and prizes. Come have a whole lot of "before school" fun! This is a free event. Please RSVP with parents'/ guardians' names and students' names, ages & grades by Sunday July 27th. And the kiddos don't have to be yours, they can nieces, nephews, cousins, godkids, neighbors. But if you don't presently have any kiddos to bring, please come help out and volunteer. For more info or to RSVP, email Gamily@OkEq.org. Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org ---- Gamily is accepting donations for the carnival. We are only asking for the following school supplies: -Folders -Pens -Pencils -Spiral notebooks -Box of crayons -Washable markers -Erasers -Kleenex tissues -3 ring binders (1/2 in, 1 in, 2in) -Wide ruled notebook paper DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. Friday, August 22nd, 2014; 6:30 pm 4/23/26, 12:11 PM �Firefox 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-15th--2014.htm... Grab your pearl snaps and rhinestones... this year it's COUNTRY ROCK! Please Health, Outreach, Education and Prevention for their 2014 HIV and Hepatitis Prevention Event... DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. WHEN: Friday, August 22nd, 2014 Reception 6:30 pm Concert 7:45 pm WHERE: Double Tree by Hilton Warren Place 6110 South Yale Avenue Tulsa, Oklahoma 74136-1904 EMCEES: The fabulous and talented, KC Lupp and Heather RichettoRumley! PERFORMING DIVAS: - KC Lupp - Heather Richetto Rumley - Daryl Christopher - Tavis Minner -Christy Hanewinkel - Mark Gibson - Pam Van Dyke - Cindy Cain - Jeff Cherblanc - John Sawyer For more information or to purchase a sponsorhip / ticket, please visit hopetesting.org Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events Spirits of Christmas Past A Christmas in July Event for the Diversity Christian Fellowship Food Bank 4/23/26, 12:11 PM �Firefox 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-15th--2014.htm... July 26, 2014 @ Tulsa Eagle (21+ and over, No Cover) Cookout @ 7:00 pm (Donations accepted) Show @ 10:30 pm (Tipping accepted) Silent Auction, Jello Shots and 50/50 Raffle all night. Sponsored by the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma, Green Country Bears, The Tulsa Sisters and T.U.L.S.A. Please RSVP on the Facebook "Christmas in July" invite page -https:// www.facebook.com/events/1504567406424604/ LGBTI Transitional Youth Online Survey The transitional youth study is a first-of-its-kind effort to raise awareness (especially among Oklahoma state agencies) that LGBTI youth exist in the state and that services are needed to alleviate very real challenges. The online survey is completely anonymous and results will contribute to increased recognition of LGBTI concerns statewide. In exchange for participation, researchers are offering $10 in gift certificate credit redeemable at giftcertificates.com for the first 250 urban and 250 rural participants. If you are 18 - 25 years old, reside in Oklahoma, and identify as LGBTI you may be eligible to participated by going to http://tiny.cc/ oklgbti2. With questions or concerns, please contact Douglas Knutson, at 4/23/26, 12:11 PM �Firefox 13 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-15th--2014.htm... douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2014 shirts are now available in The Pride Store. All sizes S through 2X are $10.00 Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Broken Fever: Reflections of Gay Boyhood' by James Morrison You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center What are the roots of personal identity? In this collection of essays, James Morrison searches for answers within the experiences and emotional reality of his own childhood in an attempt to pinpoint the beginnings of his own gay self-identity. BROKEN F' EVER REFLECT I ONS 0 F GA y BOYHOOD "Although from the vantage point of my present self, I do not remember a time in my life when I was not 'gay,' I know that the arrival at any avowed identity is always a complex process of 4/23/26, 12:11 PM �Firefox 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-15th--2014.htm... affirmation and negation, refusal and identification." It is this process, and specifically the ways gay identity circulates before it is even spoken, that Morrison seeks to distill in specific experiences. From the beginnings of questioning his religion to exploring his first boyhood attraction, Morrison's experiences are chronicled honestly and compellingly. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library ol nt TU r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 12:11 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/1bb95cbe527f9083dc03ae3adefdb387.pdf 6635097ad00c39e432fed621b27e0951 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-23rd--2014.ht... eNews July 23rd, 2014 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Mara Keisling Friend for a Friend Dinner George Kaiser Grant Welcome to the eNews. OkEq will host Mara Keisling from the National Center for Transgender Equality on Wednesday, July 23rd at 7:00 pm. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time Board of Directors Obama Executive Order 10th Circuit Ruling 100 Years of Women with Moxie GET F.I.T. New Counseling Services First Thursday Art Show Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group Back to School Carnival SAGE Tulsa Pool Party Equality Business Alliance DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. Imperial Court of All Oklahoma LGBTI Youth Survey Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Oklahomans for Equality hosts Mara Keisling Wednesday, July 23rd, 2014; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Find Us on Facebook Oklahomans for Equality will host a reception and Q&A lecture with Mara Keisling, Executive Director of the National Center for Transgender Equality on Wednesday, July 23rd at 7:00 pm. This event is free and open to the public. Mara Keisling is the founding Executive Director of the National Center for Transgender Equality. Mara is a transgender-identified woman and a parent. As one of the nation's leading voices for transgender equality, Mara has appeared on news outlets and is regularly quoted in hundreds of national and local print and broadcast OkEq Art Exhibit The July exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature 4/23/26, 12:13 PM �Firefox 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-23rd--2014.ht... media. the work of Susan Foust. ________ A Friend for a Friend Fundraiser Dinner The door prize winner for July was Dale W. Saturday, July 26th, 2014; 6:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center A Friend for a Friend will have a fundraiser dinner on Saturday, July 26th, 2014. On the menu will be, smoked chicken, ribs, baked beans and cole slaw/potato salad. 100% of the admission price will go towards A Friend for a Friend. Admission is a suggested donation of $10.00 "A Friend for a Friend" is a 501(C)3 Organization that is dedicated to helping those with HIV/AIDS with their pet's care and wellness, and is completely funded by private donations. For more information, call 918.747.6827 or 918.361.8839 George Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant Become a new donor to OkEq or a new member of Oklahomans for Equality today. All new member donations to Oklahomans for Equality will be matched by the George Kaiser Family Foundation. GEORGE KAISER FAMILY FOUNDATION Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org Findoutmore with for Equality - about - -membership ----Oklahomans ---- - -and learn how to make your donation today. Oklahomans for Equality Annual Meeting and Board of Directors Elections Counseling Services OkEq Board 2013-2014 Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8586 The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 25th, 2014 beginning at 7:00 pm. 4/23/26, 12:13 PM �Firefox 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-23rd--2014.ht... Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee (Applications due to OkEq by July 24th) OR 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by September 10th) At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is accepting applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Seven directors will be elected. Please contact Lucas.Green@OkEq.org for an application and to interview with the Board of Development and Governance Committee if you desire to be nominated by the Board of Development and Governance Committee. Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org President Obama signs anti-discrimination order protecting LGBT federal employees Oklahomans for Equality applauds President Barack Obama this week as he signs long-awaited executive order banning LGBT discrimination in federal contracting and protecting federal employees from discrimination based on gender identity. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee Please thank President Obama personally by writing him at: The White House 1600 Pennsylvania Avenue NW Washington, DC 20500 PHONE NUMBERS Comments: 202-456-1111 scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SOS Group Deaf or Hard of Hearing Comments: 202-456-6213 4/23/26, 12:13 PM �Firefox 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-23rd--2014.ht... Or submit your comments online here 10th Circuit Court of Appeals Opinion On Friday, July 18th, the 10th Circuit Court of Appeals published the opinion affirming the unconstitutionality of Oklahoma's ban on same-sex marriages. The plaintiffs and their legal team were in Denver for the oral arguments at the 10th Circuit Court after U.S. District Court Judge, Terence Kern ruled the Oklahoma ban as unconstitutional. Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Grieving Well (Back Row L - R) Attorneys James E. Warner III, Don G. Holladay and Joseph Thai (Front Row L - R) Plaintiffs Sue Barton & Gay Phillips and Sharon Baldwin & Mary Bishop Don Holladay and James Warner III, attorneys with Holladay Chilton, have worked pro bono during the 10 year history of the case. Please be sure to visit their website at www.holladaychilton.com and leave a message of gratitude. Plaintiffs for the Oklahoma Marriage Equality Lawsuit run a Facebook page to keep the community up to date on the progress of the case. Be sure to visit them here and thank them for their courage to stand up for our equal rights. And help them in this cause by donating to the Marriage Equality Legal Fund and help defer the cost of this long-running lawsuit. Donations may be made on their Facebook page, the OkEq website or by mail to: 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Oklahomans for Equality PO Box 2687 Tulsa, OK 74101 Please mark you donation with "Marriage Equality Legal Fund" YWCA celebrates 100 Years of Women with Moxie Reception is on Monday, December 2nd, 2014 The YWCA has released their list celebrating "100 Years of Women with Moxie". YWCA notes that the women on the list exemplify the mission 4/23/26, 12:13 PM �Firefox 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-23rd--2014.ht... of the YWCA and share the YWCA's core values. They must have had a connection to Tulsa through residence, work, or volunteerism. Oklahomans for Equality is proud to recognize several women who have worked with our organization through the years, including, but not limited to: Dr. Laura Arrowsmith, Risha Grant, Nancy McDonald, Dr. Dannette McIntosh, Mona Pittenger and Lynn Schusterman To see the complete list and for more information on the 100 Years of Women with Moxie reception, visit www.100womenoftulsa.org GET F.I.T. (Fun, Intense, Training) Wednesdays and Thursdays at 6:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Now on Wednesdays and Thursdays, GET F.I.T. (Fun, Intense, Training) GET F.I.T. is an exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. The only requirement... keep moving through a combination of weight training and cardiovascular exercise. Wednesdays and Thursdays at 6:00 pm at the Equality Center. $5 for non-members and free to members... Come take your first steps to GET F.I.T. Facilitated by Brad Sullivan. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders New Counseling Services Weekdays by appointment OkEq welcomes a new intern, Chelsey Dobbs, to our Counseling Service Program at the Equality Center. Chelsey Dobbs earned her Bachelor of Arts degree in Psychology from Oklahoma State University, and is currently working toward her Master's degree in Community Counseling from Oklahoma State University in Tulsa. She is providing counseling services at the Equality Center in her capacity as an intern at the OSUTulsa Counseling Center. She is interested in working primarily with adults, and is particularly interested in the provision of counseling services to LGBTQ people. Contact 918-594-8586 to schedule an appointment with Chelsey. August First Thursday Art Reception Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Thursday, August 7th, 2014; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The August Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Karen McCauley and Renee Sweetwood, in a combination show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, August 7th from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. 4/23/26, 12:13 PM �Firefox 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-23rd--2014.ht... Get F.I.T. Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group Every Tuesday at 6:30 pm; 1st Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will be hosting the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Beginning in August. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of all that we do in Shambhala Meditation Training. This ancient practice of self-discovery is rooted in the simple but revolutionary premise that every human being has the ability to cultivate the mind's inherent stability, clarity and strength in order to be more awake and to develop the compassion and insight necessary to care for oneself and the world genuinely. For more information please visit tulsa.shambhala.org or email shambhalatulsa@gmail.com Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 4:00 pm. 2nd Annual Gamily Back to School Carnival Gender Outreach Sunday, August 10th, 2014; 1:00 - 5:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Summer is breezing by and school will be back in session before you know it. Because of the great success and turn out from the families last year, Gamily will present the 2nd Annual Back to School Carnival on Sunday, August 10th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm. There will be snacks, games, characters, activities, and prizes. Come have a whole lot of "before school" fun! This is a free event. Please RSVP with parents'/ guardians' names and students' names, ages & grades by Sunday July 27th. And the kiddos don't have to be yours, they can nieces, nephews, cousins, godkids, neighbors. But if you don't presently have any kiddos to bring, please come help out and volunteer. For more info or to RSVP, email Gamily@OkEq.org. Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Gamily is accepting donations for the carnival. We are only asking for the following school supplies: 4/23/26, 12:13 PM �Firefox 7 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-23rd--2014.ht... -Folders -Pens -Pencils -Spiral notebooks -Box of crayons -Washable markers -Erasers -Kleenex tissues -3 ring binders (1/2 in, 1 in, 2in) -Wide ruled notebook paper Yoga A - Z SAGE Tulsa Pool Party Tuesday, September 2nd, 2014; 10:00 am SAGE Tulsa will have a pool party on Tuesday, September 2nd, 2014 at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch will be potluck. Please bring your favorite dish for lunch. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email SAGE@OkEq.org to RSVP. sagew Services and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders *On hiatus for Summer* Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Game Night The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook 4/23/26, 12:13 PM �Firefox 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-23rd--2014.ht... The August Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, August 20th, 2014 at 6:00 pm. Hosted by Ballroom Blitz, 4960D S. 83rd E. Ave, Tulsa, OK 74145. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Ballroom Blitz 4960D S. 83rd E. Ave Tulsa, OK 74145 DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org - - Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Friday, August 22nd, 2014; 6:30 pm H~()J?JE,. C' '1 t.Cr. - t.i .... : f ' Grab your pearl snaps and rhinestones... this year it's COUNTRY ROCK! Please Health, Outreach, Education and Prevention for their 2014 HIV and Hepatitis Prevention Event... DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. WHEN: Friday, August 22nd, 2014 Reception 6:30 pm Concert 7:45 pm Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org WHERE: Double Tree by Hilton Warren Place 6110 South Yale Avenue Tulsa, Oklahoma 74136-1904 EMCEES: The fabulous and talented, KC Lupp and Heather RichettoRumley! PERFORMING DIVAS: - KC Lupp - Heather Richetto Rumley - Daryl Christopher - Tavis Minner -Christy Hanewinkel - Mark Gibson - Pam Van Dyke - Cindy Cain - Jeff Cherblanc - John Sawyer EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. For more information or to purchase a sponsorhip / ticket, please 4/23/26, 12:13 PM �Firefox 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-23rd--2014.ht... visit hopetesting.org Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events Spirits of Christmas Past A Christmas in July Event for the Diversity Christian Fellowship Food Bank Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Mondays and Fridays 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm July 26, 2014 @ Tulsa Eagle (21+ and over, No Cover) Cookout @ 7:00 pm (Donations accepted) Show @ 10:30 pm (Tipping accepted) Silent Auction, Jello Shots and 50/50 Raffle all night. Sponsored by the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma, Green Country Bears, The Tulsa Sisters and T.U.L.S.A. Please RSVP on the Facebook "Christmas in July" invite page -https:// www.facebook.com/events/1504567406424604/ LGBTI Transitional Youth Online Survey MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/23/26, 12:13 PM �Firefox 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-23rd--2014.ht... The transitional youth study is a first-of-its-kind effort to raise awareness (especially among Oklahoma state agencies) that LGBTI youth exist in the state and that services are needed to alleviate very real challenges. The online survey is completely anonymous and results will contribute to increased recognition of LGBTI concerns statewide. In exchange for participation, researchers are offering $10 in gift certificate credit redeemable at giftcertificates.com for the first 250 urban and 250 rural participants. If you are 18 - 25 years old, reside in Oklahoma, and identify as LGBTI you may be eligible to participated by going to http://tiny.cc/ oklgbti2. With questions or concerns, please contact Douglas Knutson, at douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2014 shirts are now available in The Pride Store. All sizes S through 2X are $10.00 Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Fair Catch' by Del Darcy You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center When Blake Thompson meets Alex Ayers, his 4/23/26, 12:13 PM �Firefox 11 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-23rd--2014.ht... rival on the football field, the attraction is instant. For one tumultuous high school season, their teams clash as they fall in love. Playing for the Mustangs, Blake works to carve out a place for himself in the always-frustrating role of backup quarterback. He tries to put out of his mind how unlikely it is that someone like him -- a little too short, from a backwater town -could make it in college football. Alex is now with the rival Patriots, poised to add to his string of records in placekicking. His family has bounced from town to town across the Midwest, spending barely a year in any one place because of his dad's construction jobs. The college scouts are starting to notice Alex, and a bright future in football beckons. Blake is able to put aside his feeling that he's just trailing in Alex's wake, overshadowed by Alex's star quality, until Alex gets a scholarship to a prestigious Texas school. Will jealousy destroy Blake's regard for his boyfriend? Can Alex learn to settle down and trust someone, despite his vagabond life? If he leaves, what becomes of their love affair? Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library ol nt TU r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r----------------------------------------------------~ I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 12:13 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/728f228a73b9cae9afe68a15be5bca5e.pdf c769bfdced60d529377916d91b92961f PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-30th--2014.htm... eNews July 30th, 2014 In This Issue EBA Sponsor George Kaiser Grant First Thursday Art Show Back to School Carnival Welcome to the eNews. GAMILY will present their 2nd Annual Back to School Carnival on Sunday, August 10th at 1:00 pm. RSVP to Gamily@OkEq.org eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time Board of Directors Equality Business Alliance Mosaic Diversity and Inclusion Survey Obama Executive Order 10th Circuit Ruling White House Briefing on ACA GET F.I.T. New Counseling Services Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group SAGE Tulsa Pool Party DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. Rise Up Singing 100 Years of Women with Moxie LGBTI Youth Survey Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer George Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant Become a new donor to OkEq or a new member of Oklahomans for Equality today. All new member donations to Oklahomans for Equality will be matched by the George Kaiser Family Foundation. Find Us on Facebook GEORGE KAISER FAMILY FOUNDATION Findoutmore with Oklahomans for Equality and - about - -membership -------- learn how to make your donation today. August First Thursday Art Reception Thursday, August 7th, 2014; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The August Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Karen McCauley and Renee Sweetwood, in a combination show, beginning with a OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, 4/23/26, 12:14 PM �Firefox 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-30th--2014.htm... reception on Thursday, August 7th from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. August 21st, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. OkEq Art Exhibit 2nd Annual Gamily Back to School Carnival Sunday, August 10th, 2014; 1:00 - 5:00 pm The August exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Karen McCauley and Renee Sweetwood. ________ Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Summer is breezing by and school will be back in session before you know it. Because of the great success and turn out from the families last year, Gamily will present the 2nd Annual Back to School Carnival on Sunday, August 10th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm. There will be snacks, games, characters, activities, and prizes. Come have a whole lot of "before school" fun! This is a free event. Please RSVP with parents'/ guardians' names and students' names, ages & grades by Thursdayday August 7th. Bring your nieces, nephews, cousins, godkids, neighbors. You are encouraged to come help out and volunteer. For more info or to RSVP, email Gamily@OkEq.org. Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org Gamily is accepting donations for the carnival. We are only asking for the following school supplies: -Folders-Pens -Pencils -Spiral notebooks -Box of crayons -Washable markers -Erasers 4/23/26, 12:14 PM �Firefox 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-30th--2014.htm... -Kleenex tissues -3 ring binders (1/2 in, 1 in, 2in) -Wide ruled notebook paper Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8586 Oklahomans for Equality Annual Meeting and Board of Directors Elections Counseling Services OkEq Board 2013 - 2014 The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 25th, 2014 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, eight Board of Director spaces are up for election. Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee OR Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by September 10th) At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is reviewing applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Eight directors will be elected. Please contact Clint.Robison@OkEq.org to submit a 4/23/26, 12:14 PM �Firefox 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-30th--2014.htm... completed petition nominating someone for the Board of Directors. Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term Counseling Services Equality Business Alliance Saturdays By appointment Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee The August Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, August 20th, 2014 at 6:00 pm. Hosted by Ballroom Blitz, 4960D S. 83rd E. Ave, Tulsa, OK 74145. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org --SOS Group Ballroom Blitz 4960D S. 83rd E. Ave Tulsa, OK 74145 Mosaic Diversity Business Survey Mission: Mosaic will educate, lead, and influence businesses on creating diverse and inclusive workforce cultures to enhance their competitive advantage. . Last year, Mosaic launched a survey to identify businesses that have a commitment to creating inclusive cultures in our region. Their goal is to establish a baseline of area employers, for profit and nonprofit (government, education & foundations), working towards developing diverse and inclusive cultures through multiple approaches. The survey questions are tied to metrics most frequently utilized in diversity and inclusion awards regionally and nationally. rrax:c Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org powered by the tulsa regional chamber Link to Mosaic's D&I Survey President Obama signs anti-discrimination order protecting LGBT federal employees Oklahomans for Equality applauds President Barack Obama this week as he signs long-awaited executive order banning LGBT discrimination in federal contracting and protecting federal employees from discrimination based on gender identity. Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by 4/23/26, 12:14 PM �Firefox 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-30th--2014.htm... Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Please thank President Obama personally by writing him at: The White House 1600 Pennsylvania Avenue NW Washington, DC 20500 PHONE NUMBERS Comments: 202-456-1111 Deaf or Hard of Hearing Comments: 202-456-6213 Or submit your comments online here 10th Circuit Court of Appeals Opinion On Friday, July 18th, the 10th Circuit Court of Appeals published the opinion affirming the unconstitutionality of Oklahoma's ban on same-sex marriages. The plaintiffs and their legal team were in Denver for the oral arguments at the 10th Circuit Court after U.S. District Court Judge, Terence Kern ruled the Oklahoma ban as unconstitutional. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Servoce, and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders (Back Row L - R) Attorneys James E. Warner III, Don G. Holladay and Joseph Thai (Front Row L - R) Plaintiffs Sue Barton & Gay Phillips and Sharon Baldwin & Mary Bishop Don Holladay and James Warner III, attorneys with Holladay Chilton, have Tulsa Area Prime Timers 4/23/26, 12:14 PM �Firefox 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-30th--2014.htm... worked pro bono during the 10 year history of the case. Please be sure to visit their website at www.holladaychilton.com and leave a message of gratitude. Plaintiffs for the Oklahoma Marriage Equality Lawsuit run a Facebook page to keep the community up to date on the progress of the case. Be sure to visit them here and thank them for their courage to stand up for our equal rights. And help them in this cause by donating to the Marriage Equality Legal Fund and help defer the cost of this long-running lawsuit. Donations may be made on their Facebook page, the OkEq website or by mail to: Oklahomans for Equality PO Box 2687 Tulsa, OK 74101 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Please mark you donation with "Marriage Equality Legal Fund" White House Briefing on the ACA Get F.I.T. OkEq Executive Director Toby Jenkins was on a panel at the White House Briefing on the Affordable Care Act and the LGBT Community on July 24th, 2014. Toby presented on best practices for outreach and enrollment accompanied by Paul Allen OkEq board Trustee. Terry Stone executive director for Centerlink the international network of LGBT community centers praised the work of the Equality Center and was thrilled that Tulsa represented the network. The Whitehouse Office of Public Engagement worked with Oklahomans for Equality and held a town hall meeting on the ACA in March 2014 at the Equality Center. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 4:00 pm. Gender Outreach GET F.I.T. (Fun, Intense, Training) Wednesdays and Thursdays at 6:00 pm 4/23/26, 12:14 PM �Firefox 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-30th--2014.htm... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Now on Wednesdays and Thursdays, GET F.I.T. (Fun, Intense, Training) GET F.I.T. is an exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. The only requirement... keep moving through a combination of weight training and cardiovascular exercise. Wednesdays and Thursdays at 6:00 pm at the Equality Center. $5 for non-members and free to members... Come take your first steps to GET F.I.T. Facilitated by Brad Sullivan. Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. New Counseling Services Weekdays by appointment OkEq welcomes a new intern, Chelsey Dobbs, to our Counseling Service Program at the Equality Center. Chelsey Dobbs earned her Bachelor of Arts degree in Psychology from Oklahoma State University, and is currently working toward her Master's degree in Community Counseling from Oklahoma State University in Tulsa. She is providing counseling services at the Equality Center in her capacity as an intern at the OSUTulsa Counseling Center. She is interested in working primarily with adults, and is particularly interested in the provision of counseling services to LGBTQ people. Contact 918-594-8586 to schedule an appointment with Chelsey. Yoga A - Z *On hiatus for Summer* Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group Every Tuesday at 6:30 pm; 1st Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will be hosting the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Beginning in August. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of all that we do in Shambhala Meditation Training. This ancient practice of self-discovery is rooted in the simple but revolutionary premise that every human being has the ability to cultivate the mind's inherent stability, clarity and strength in order to be more awake and to develop the compassion and insight necessary to care for oneself and the world genuinely. For more information please visit tulsa.shambhala.org or email shambhalatulsa@gmail.com SAGE Tulsa Pool Party Tuesday, September 2nd, 2014; 10:00 am Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! 4/23/26, 12:14 PM �Firefox 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-30th--2014.htm... SAGE Tulsa will have a pool party on Tuesday, September 2nd, 2014 at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch will be potluck. Please bring your favorite dish for lunch. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email SAGE@OkEq.org to RSVP. sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. Friday, August 22nd, 2014; 6:30 pm C' \ ' ~OJ5)~E,. I r. ;:, '("'+ L • .... : i ' The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org Grab your pearl snaps and rhinestones... this year it's COUNTRY ROCK! Please Health, Outreach, Education and Prevention for their 2014 HIV and Hepatitis Prevention Event... DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. WHEN: Friday, August 22nd, 2014 Reception 6:30 pm 4/23/26, 12:14 PM �Firefox 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-30th--2014.htm... Concert 7:45 pm WHERE: Double Tree by Hilton Warren Place 6110 South Yale Avenue Tulsa, Oklahoma 74136-1904 EMCEES: The fabulous and talented, KC Lupp and Heather RichettoRumley! PERFORMING DIVAS: - KC Lupp - Heather Richetto Rumley - Daryl Christopher - Tavis Minner -Christy Hanewinkel - Mark Gibson - Pam Van Dyke - Cindy Cain - Jeff Cherblanc - John Sawyer For more information or to purchase a sponsorhip / ticket, please visit hopetesting.org Rise Up Singing Sunday, August 24th, 2014; 7:00 pm EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Congregation B'nai Emunah 1719 South Owasso Tulsa, Oklahoma 74120 "Rise Up Singing!" is a twenty-first century folksong revival scheduled for the evening of Sunday, August 24, at 7:00 pm. This year's concert honors the memory of Pete Seeger, first among equals, whose music continues to call out a message of justice and freedom. Admission is free and open to the public. Held at the Synagogue once a year, the event is designed to bring people of all backgrounds together. Guest artists and musicians from across the Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Mondays and Fridays 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm 4/23/26, 12:14 PM �Firefox https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-30th--2014.htm.. city will lead songs of love, longing, celebration, protest, and imagination in singable arrangements, with lyrics available to every participant. For more information call 918.583.7121 or visit www.tulsagogue.com YWCA celebrates 100 Years of Women with Moxie Reception is on Monday, December 2nd, 2014 The YWCA has released their list celebrating "100 Years of Women with Moxie". YWCA notes that the women on the list exemplify the mission of the YWCA and share the YWCA's core values. They must have had a connection to Tulsa through residence, work, or volunteerism. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Oklahomans for Equality is proud to recognize several women who have worked with our organization through the years, including, but not limited to: Dr. Laura Arrowsmith, Risha Grant, Nancy McDonald, Dr. Dannette McIntosh, Mona Pittenger and Lynn Schusterman To see the complete list and for more information on the 100 Years of Women with Moxie reception, visit www.100womenoftulsa.org Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ----- LGBTI Transitional Youth Online Survey The transitional youth study is a first-of-its-kind effort to raise awareness (especially among Oklahoma state agencies) that LGBTI youth exist in the state and that services are needed to alleviate very real challenges. The online survey is completely anonymous and results will contribute to increased recognition of LGBTI concerns statewide. In exchange for participation, researchers are offering $10 in gift certificate credit redeemable at giftcertificates.com for the first 250 urban and 250 rural participants. If you are 18 - 25 years old, reside in Oklahoma, and identify as LGBTI you may be eligible to participated by going to http://tiny.cc/ oklgbti2. With questions or concerns, please contact Douglas Knutson, at douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org ------ _ ,d . . I ~ 'f .... _ • • • , , .... 4 Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org ~ ~ • ·~ J ♦ ----- \ -- i Equality Center Pride Store 10 of 12 4/23/26, 12:14 PM �Firefox 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-30th--2014.htm... Tulsa Pride 2014 shirts are now available in The Pride Store. All sizes S through 2X are $10.00 Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'And Tango Makes Three' by Justin Richardson & Peter Parnell You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center This tale based on a true story about a charming penguin family living in New York City's Central Park Zoo will capture the hearts of penguin lovers everywhere. Roy and Silo, two male penguins, are "a little bit different." They cuddle and share a nest like the other penguin couples, and when all the others start hatching eggs, they want to be parents, too. Determined and hopeful, they bring an egg-shaped rock back to their nest and proceed to start caring for it. They have little luck, until a watchful zookeeper decides they deserve a chance at having their own family and gives them an egg in need of nurturing. The dedicated and enthusiastic fathers do a great job of hatching their funny and adorable daughter, and the three can still be seen at the zoo today. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/23/26, 12:14 PM �Firefox 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-30th--2014.htm... •••~ .. Volunt er A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! fULSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r----------------------------------------------------~ I I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I I ~----------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 12:14 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/d59dfe8706f7ae0353dd23ea0f6eded8.pdf cb5a0c8046c415c9f43d8bd83194a846 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-30th--2014.htm... eNews August 6th, 2014 In This Issue EBA Sponsor George Kaiser Grant First Thursday Art Show Back to School Carnival Welcome to the eNews. GAMILY will present their 2nd Annual Back to School Carnival on Sunday, August 10th at 1:00 pm. RSVP to Gamily@OkEq.org eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time Board of Directors Equality Business Alliance Mosaic Diversity and Inclusion Survey Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group SAGE Tulsa Pool Party Transforming Hate DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. Council Oak Mens Chorale Rise Up Singing Tulsa CARES PhotoVoice Exhibit 100 Years of Women with Moxie LGBTI Youth Survey OSU Survey Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer George Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant Become a new donor to OkEq or a new member of Oklahomans for Equality today. All new member donations to Oklahomans for Equality will be matched by the George Kaiser Family Foundation. Find Us on Facebook GEORGE KAISER FAMILY FOUNDATION Findoutmore with Oklahomans for Equality and - about - -membership -------- learn how to make your donation today. August First Thursday Art Reception Thursday, August 7th, 2014; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The August Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Karen McCauley and Renee Sweetwood, in a combination show, beginning with a OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, August 21st, 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 12:18 PM �Firefox 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-30th--2014.htm... reception on Thursday, August 7th from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. OkEq Art Exhibit 2nd Annual Gamily Back to School Carnival The August exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Karen McCauley and Renee Sweetwood. ________ Sunday, August 10th, 2014; 1:00 - 5:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Summer is breezing by and school will be back in session before you know it. Because of the great success and turn out from the families last year, Gamily will present the 2nd Annual Back to School Carnival on Sunday, August 10th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm. There will be snacks, games, characters, activities, and prizes. Come have a whole lot of "before school" fun! This is a free event. Please RSVP with parents'/ guardians' names and students' names, ages & grades by Thursday August 7th. Bring your nieces, nephews, cousins, godkids, neighbors. You are encouraged to come help out and volunteer. For more info or to RSVP, email Gamily@OkEq.org. Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org Gamily is accepting donations for the carnival. We are only asking for the following school supplies: -Folders-Pens -Pencils -Spiral notebooks -Box of crayons -Washable markers -Erasers Counseling Services 4/23/26, 12:18 PM �Firefox 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-30th--2014.htm... -Kleenex tissues -3 ring binders (1/2 in, 1 in, 2in) -Wide ruled notebook paper Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8586 Oklahomans for Equality Annual Meeting and Board of Directors Elections Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org OkEq Board 2013 - 2014 The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 25th, 2014 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, eight Board of Director spaces are up for election. Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee OR 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by September 10th) At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is reviewing applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Eight directors will be elected. Please contact Clint.Robison@OkEq.org to submit a Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee 4/23/26, 12:18 PM �Firefox 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-30th--2014.htm... completed petition nominating someone for the Board of Directors. No nominations will be accepted from the floor during the annual board meeting. Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook g EQJBusmess UALITY Alliance The August Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, August 20th, 2014 at 6:00 pm. Hosted by Ballroom Blitz, 4960D S. 83rd E. Ave, Tulsa, OK 74145. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Ballroom Blitz 4960D S. 83rd E. Ave Tulsa, OK 74145 scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org --- SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Grieving Well Mosaic Diversity Business Survey Mission: Mosaic will educate, lead, and influence businesses on creating diverse and inclusive workforce cultures to enhance their competitive advantage. Last year, Mosaic launched a survey to identify businesses that have a commitment to creating inclusive cultures in our region. Their goal is to establish a baseline of area employers, for profit and nonprofit (government, education & foundations), working towards developing diverse and inclusive cultures through multiple approaches. The survey questions are tied to metrics most frequently utilized in diversity and inclusion awards regionally and nationally. 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold ■ rn::EcC po""ered by the tulsa regional chamber Link to Mosaic's D&I Survey Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Every Tuesday at 6:30 pm; 1st Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm 4/23/26, 12:18 PM �Firefox 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-30th--2014.htm... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will be hosting the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of all that we do in Shambhala Meditation Training. This ancient practice of self-discovery is rooted in the simple but revolutionary premise that every human being has the ability to cultivate the mind's inherent stability, clarity and strength in order to be more awake and to develop the compassion and insight necessary to care for oneself and the world genuinely. For more information please visit tulsa.shambhala.org or email shambhalatulsa@gmail.com SAGE Tulsa SAGE Tulsa Pool Party (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Tuesday, September 2nd, 2014; 10:00 am SAGE Tulsa will have a pool party on Tuesday, September 2nd, 2014 at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch will be potluck. Please bring your favorite dish for lunch. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email SAGE@OkEq.org to RSVP. sagew Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual N Tramgendcr Elders Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexu,11 & Transgender Elders Tulsa Area Prime Timers The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 4/23/26, 12:18 PM �Firefox 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-30th--2014.htm... Transforming Hate: A Creative Process 918.592.0088 Call for Submissions The Oklahomans for Equality art gallery will be mounting a special group exhibit in January 2015 called Transforming Hate: A Creative Process... and YOU are invited to submit work for consideration. This themed show will compliment a traveling exhibit at Living Arts of Tulsa, called "Speaking Volumes: Transforming Hate"... wherein 60 artists literally created art works from 4000 volumes of white supremacist bibles and other books of hate speech. To read more about this exhibit and see some of the work go to http://www.speakingvolumes.net/ Living Arts has invited OkEq, as well as other organizations in Tulsa, to participate in opening a community wide conversation, in the hope of discovering new and creative ways that we might transform hate and begin a healing process. The exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Gallery will showcase in January 2015. Please think of this as your opportunity to transform hate through your own creative process. The gallery is WIDE open! Some guidelines for submission: 1) All media will be considered 2) Work must in some way illuminate the theme of transforming hate 3) You may submit up to 3 works, online submissions ONLY 4) there is no entry fee to submit work 5) all work for sale will be subject to the usual 30% gallery commission to OkEq 6) older work will be considered IF it fulfills the theme 7)) Deadline for Submissions : October 15, midnight Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance HOW to submit work: Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 4:00 pm. Send up to 3 jpgs of your work to alliejensen@cox.net. Include size, title, medium and price. Performance artists should send a written proposal Notification will be November 1st, Delivery details at that time. Gender Outreach DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. Friday, August 22nd, 2014; 6:45 pm Grab your pearl snaps and rhinestones... this year it's COUNTRY ROCK! Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 4/23/26, 12:18 PM �Firefox 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-30th--2014.htm... 7:00 pm Please Health, Outreach, Education and Prevention for their 2014 HIV and Hepatitis Prevention Event... DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. WHEN: Friday, August 22nd, 2014 Reception 6:45 pm Concert 8:00 pm WHERE: Double Tree by Hilton Warren Place 6110 South Yale Avenue Tulsa, Oklahoma 74136-1904 EMCEES: The fabulous and talented, KC Lupp and Heather RichettoRumley! PERFORMING DIVAS: - KC Lupp - Heather Richetto Rumley - Daryl Christopher -Christy Hanewinkel - Mark Gibson - Pam Van Dyke - Cindy Cain - Jeff Cherblanc - John Sawyer Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno For more information or to purchase a sponsorhip / ticket, please visit hopetesting.org Council Oak Mens Chorale Rehearsals Starting August 19th; Tuesdays at 7:00 pm Fellowship Congregational Church Fellowship Hall - 2900 S. Harvard Ave Rehearsals for Council Oak Mens Chorale 2014 Holiday Concert will start on Tuesday August 19th and each Tuesday night after from 7:00 - 9:00 pm at Fellowship Congregational Church Fellowship Hall - 2900 S. Harvard Ave. The concert will feature holiday music both traditional and popular along with solos from chorale members. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals council oak oounc/1 oak mens c11o1o1e New singers are welcome to attend rehearsals and audition to become a part of the chorale! COMC is excited to announce that Kent Dennis has been named Interim Artistic Director and will lead the chorale for this fall/winter season. Kent is an accomplished director and has an extensive background in both vocal and instrumental music. Kent has also been a member of COMC for two years. COMC is looking forward to Kent lending his artistic abilities and leadership to the chorale. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Rise Up Singing Sunday, August 24th, 2014; 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 12:18 PM �Firefox 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-30th--2014.htm... Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org Congregation B'nai Emunah 1719 South Owasso Tulsa, Oklahoma 74120 "Rise Up Singing!" is a twenty-first century folksong revival scheduled for the evening of Sunday, August 24, at 7:00 pm. This year's concert honors the memory of Pete Seeger, first among equals, whose music continues to call out a message of justice and freedom. Admission is free and open to the public. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Held at the Synagogue once a year, the event is designed to bring people of all backgrounds together. Guest artists and musicians from across the city will lead songs of love, longing, celebration, protest, and imagination in singable arrangements, with lyrics available to every participant. For more information call 918.583.7121 or visit www.tulsagogue.com Reframing Positive: Tulsa CARES PhotoVoice Exhibition Exhibit runs from September 15th through October 3rd Open Everyday •••• rulsacare~ Tulsa Community College Center for Creavitity 910 S Boston Ave Tulsa Community College's Center for Creativity and Tulsa CARES present Reframing Positive: Tulsa CARES PhotoVoice Exhibition. The exhibit will feature photography created by Tulsa CARES clients living with HIV and AIDS. This powerful exhibition highlights the struggles, triumphs, and daily lives of this often-marginalized community. Exhibit runs September 15 - October 3, 2014 at Tulsa Community College's Center for Creativity 910 South Boston Avenue Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/23/26, 12:18 PM �Firefox 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-30th--2014.htm... As part of the exhibit, Tulsa CATES and the Center for Creativity will also present the following events. All free and open to the public and held at TCC's Center for Creativity. "HIV in the 21st Century" September 18 @ 12:00 pm - 1:00 pm Lunch and Learn With advances in HIV prevention and treatment, what does "safe sex" mean today? Learn about HIV prevention and H.O.P.E.'s free HIV testing and counseling services over a free brown bag lunch provided by TCC's Student Activities Office. Tulsa CARES Session #1 September 23 @ 6:00 pm - 7:30 pm The Impact of HIV on Individuals This is the first of a two part series. View the PhotoVoice exhibition and watch a short documentary produced by the Center for Creativity about how HIV has affected the life of a Tulsa CARES client. Participate in a discussion and Q&A with a Tulsa CARES client, a social worker who is also living with HIV, and a Tulsa CARES care coordinator. "Art as a Community Service" September 25 @ 4:00 pm - 5:00 pm with Samantha Franklin Learn about the PhotoVoice method of participatory photography that can be used by community organizers to empower marginalized or disadvantaged groups. Samantha Franklin, the artist and Tulsa CARES staff member who organized the exhibit on display in the Center for Creativity, discusses the PhotoVoice concept and how it can be applied to a variety of projects. Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Mondays and Fridays 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tulsa CARES Session #2 October 1 @ 1:30 pm - 3:00 pm Impact and Empowerment This is the second of a two part series. This session focuses on the PhotoVoice project and how it impacted and empowered Tulsa CARES clients. View the PhotoVoice exhibition and participate in a discussion and Q&A session with a Tulsa CARES client and care coordinator. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org YWCA celebrates 100 Years of Women with Moxie Reception is on Monday, December 2nd, 2014 The YWCA has released their list celebrating "100 Years of Women with Moxie". YWCA notes that the women on the list exemplify the mission of the YWCA and share the YWCA's core values. They must have had a connection to Tulsa through residence, work, or volunteerism. Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Oklahomans for Equality is proud to recognize several women who have worked with our 4/23/26, 12:18 PM �Firefox 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-30th--2014.htm... organization through the years, including, but not limited to: Dr. Laura Arrowsmith, Risha Grant, Nancy McDonald, Dr. Dannette McIntosh, Mona Pittenger and Lynn Schusterman To see the complete list and for more information on the 100 Years of Women with Moxie reception, visit www.100womenoftulsa.org LGBTI Transitional Youth Online Survey The transitional youth study is a first-of-its-kind effort to raise awareness (especially among Oklahoma state agencies) that LGBTI youth exist in the state and that services are needed to alleviate very real challenges. The online survey is completely anonymous and results will contribute to increased recognition of LGBTI concerns statewide. In exchange for participation, researchers are offering $10 in gift certificate credit redeemable at giftcertificates.com for the first 250 urban and 250 rural participants. If you are 18 - 25 years old, reside in Oklahoma, and identify as LGBTI you may be eligible to participated by going to http://tiny.cc/ oklgbti2. With questions or concerns, please contact Douglas Knutson, at douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org ~ LGB Well-being and Parental Relationships Survey An OSU research study survey is currently being conducted on the influence parental relationships have on LGB individual well-being. You may participate if you are at least 18 years of age and identify as lesbian, gay, or bisexual and reside in the United States. The survey takes, on average, 20 minutes. Survey Link: https://okstatecoe.az1.qualtrics.com/SE/? SID=SV_3K9dW0lGcSFUvHL Equality Center Pride Store The Pride Store is having a Bearstravaganza sale now through August 11th. Select Bear items are priced at $5.00! 4/23/26, 12:18 PM �Firefox 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-30th--2014.htm... Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'After the Dawn' by Stephanie Motes You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center For Lieutenant Samantha 'Sammy' Yates, leaving the Marines wasn't an option she ever wanted. Forced out of the service because of Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder, she tries to move on with her life-- putting up a good facade to those who don't know her very well. Alone, however; she is plagued with battle scars she can't shake even two years after her tour. When successful psychiatrist, Sara Lawson, decided to move back to the only place she ever felt safe, the last thing she had on her mind was falling in love. Deciding to renovate the home she inherited from her grandmother, she crosses paths with Sammy, who is now working as a contractor. Sara spots something kindred in the woman's hardened, but kind blue eyes. Each hiding their own secrets in the small Florida town, they both realize that the walls they had spent years perfecting have started to crack around one another. As they slowly build a friendship, can they keep each other safe from the danger that is speeding towards them? 4/23/26, 12:18 PM �Firefox 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-30th--2014.htm... Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library •••~ .. Volunt er ru SA A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I ~----------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 12:18 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/fb97dc65389def20eb37f6012330a47f.pdf 791c9aee6067d461096e6bba946d3d72 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-15th--2014.... eNews August 15th, 2014 In This Issue EBA Sponsor George Kaiser Grant Equality Business Alliance Board of Directors Welcome to the eNews. The annual OkEq Membership meeting will Thursday, September 25th, 2014 at 7:00 pm. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality SAGE Tulsa Pool Party Gender Bender Comedy Show Transforming Hate Gay Softball World Series The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Plexus Slim EBA Sponsor Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group Ask me for FREE sample!!! Council Oak Mens Chorale Flapjack Fundraiser ·rim Parish Church of St. Jerome DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. T: (918)361-4188 All natural products for diabeti cs, weight loss , pain, GI iss ues and skin conditions. www.plexusslim.com/robi n la butti E: robin labutti@Cox.net Lose weight • Gtt lit • Improve performanc1 • lncr11s1 tnugy George Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant Become a new donor to OkEq or a new member of Oklahomans for Equality today. All new member donations to Oklahomans for Equality will be matched by the George Kaiser Family Foundation. Broken Heart Land Rise Up Singing Halloween 2014 LGBTI Youth Survey OSU Survey Tulsa CARES PhotoVoice Exhibit Pride Store GEORGE KAISER FAMILY FOUNDATION Rainbow Library Volunteer Find out more about membership with Oklahomans for Equality and - - - - - - - - - - - - - - ------------ - - -learn how to make your donation today. Equality Business Alliance Find Us on Facebook Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The August Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, August 20th, 2014 at 6:00 pm. Hosted by Ballroom Blitz, 4960D S. 83rd E. Ave, Tulsa, OK 74145. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. 4/23/26, 12:19 PM �Firefox 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-15th--2014.... 1111 nnnM UNLLRUUI Ballroom Blitz 4960D S. 83rd E. Ave Tulsa, OK 74145 Oklahomans for Equality Annual Meeting and Board of Directors Elections OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, August 21st, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. OkEq Art Exhibit The August exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Karen McCauley and Renee Sweetwood. ________ OkEq Board 2013 - 2014 The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 25th, 2014 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, eight Board of Director spaces are up for election. Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee OR 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by September 10th) At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is reviewing applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Eight directors will be elected. Please contact Clint.Robison@OkEq.org to submit a ---completed petition nominating someone for the Board of Directors. No nominations will be accepted from the floor during the annual board meeting. Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term SAGE Tulsa Pool Party 4/23/26, 12:19 PM �Firefox 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-15th--2014.... Tuesday, September 2nd, 2014; 10:00 am SAGE Tulsa will have a pool party on Tuesday, September 2nd, 2014 at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch will be potluck. Please bring your favorite dish for lunch. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email SAGE@OkEq.org to RSVP. sagew Service, and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgendc,r EldNs Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8586 The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org Gender Bender Comedy Show Thursday, August 28th, 2014; 9:45 pm Bamboo Lounge 7204 E Pine Gender Bender Comedy Night August 28th at the 8am boo Lounge Some of Tulsa's favorite comedians will be taking the stage as various states of drag in support of transgender and genderqueer rights. 10% of bar profits go to Oklahomans for Equality's Gender Outreach program. No No Cover 9pm Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org Featuring performances from some of Tulsa's funniest local comedians. 4/23/26, 12:19 PM �Firefox 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-15th--2014.... lJ onne Dar protntHat n gilt tHat WIii go towards supporting transgender rights. cover. Transforming Hate: A Creative Process Call for Submissions The Oklahomans for Equality art gallery will be mounting a special group exhibit in January 2015 called Transforming Hate: A Creative Process... and YOU are invited to submit work for consideration. This themed show will compliment a traveling exhibit at Living Arts of Tulsa, called "Speaking Volumes: Transforming Hate"... wherein 60 artists literally created art works from 4000 volumes of white supremacist bibles and other books of hate speech. To read more about this exhibit and see some of the work go to http://www.speakingvolumes.net/ Living Arts has invited OkEq, as well as other organizations in Tulsa, to participate in opening a community wide conversation, in the hope of discovering new and creative ways that we might transform hate and begin a healing process. The exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Gallery will showcase in January 2015. Please think of this as your opportunity to transform hate through your own creative process. The gallery is WIDE open! Some guidelines for submission: 1) All media will be considered 2) Work must in some way illuminate the theme of transforming hate 3) You may submit up to 3 works, online submissions ONLY 4) there is no entry fee to submit work 5) all work for sale will be subject to the usual 30% gallery commission to OkEq 6) older work will be considered IF it fulfills the theme 7)) Deadline for Submissions : October 15, midnight Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org HOW to submit work: Send up to 3 jpgs of your work to alliejensen@cox.net. Include size, title, medium and price. Performance artists should send a written proposal Notification will be November 1st, Delivery details at that time. Tulsa Metro Softball Teams head to the Gay Softball World Series in Dallas, TX Three Tulsa Metro Softball League will represent at the Gay Softball World Series 2014 in Dallas TX. This is the 4th World Series TMSL has participated in. The teams will travel to Dallas September 21st - 27th. www.tulsametrosoftball.com Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by 4/23/26, 12:19 PM �Firefox 5 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-15th--2014.... Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Representing D Division is the Renegades Tulsa Twisters (in green) and the T-Town Zealers (in red) 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather SAGE Tulsa Representing C Division is the Oklahoma Rampage The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Servoce, and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders Tulsa Area Prime Timers 4/23/26, 12:19 PM �Firefox 6 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-15th--2014.... Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group Every Tuesday at 6:30 pm; 1st Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will be hosting the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of all that we do in Shambhala Meditation Training. This ancient practice of self-discovery is rooted in the simple but revolutionary premise that every human being has the ability to cultivate the mind's inherent stability, clarity and strength in order to be more awake and to develop the compassion and insight necessary to care for oneself and the world genuinely. For more information please visit tulsa.shambhala.org or email shambhalatulsa@gmail.com 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Council Oak Mens Chorale Rehearsals Starting August 19th; Tuesdays at 7:00 pm Fellowship Congregational Church Fellowship Hall - 2900 S. Harvard Ave Rehearsals for Council Oak Mens Chorale 2014 Holiday Concert will start on Tuesday August 19th and each Tuesday night after from 7:00 - 9:00 pm at Fellowship Congregational Church Fellowship Hall - 2900 S. council oak Harvard Ave. The concert will feature holiday music both counc/1 oak mens choroll traditional and popular along with solos from chorale members. New singers are welcome to attend rehearsals and audition to become a part of the chorale! COMC is excited to announce that Kent Dennis has been named Interim Artistic Director and will lead the chorale for this fall/winter season. Kent is an accomplished director and has an extensive background in both vocal and instrumental music. Kent has also been a member of COMC for two years. COMC is looking forward to Kent lending his artistic abilities and leadership to the chorale. Applebee's - Tulsa JOLT Flapjack Fundraiser Saturday, August 23rd, 2014; 8:00 - 10:00 am Applebee's Flapjack Fundraiser 9409 E 71st St Tulsa Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 4:00 pm. Gender Outreach 4/23/26, 12:19 PM �Firefox 7 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-15th--2014.... Tulsa JOLT When: Saturday, August 23rd, 2014 8:00 - 10:00 am Where: 9409 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK Cost: $8.00 per person, also serving $3.00 Mimosas All proceeds benefit Tulsa JOLT Bowling www.jolttulsa.com Parish Church of St. Jerome installs new Pastor Sunday, August 17th, 2014; 11:00 am Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Game Night Bishop Rick Hollingsworth will install The Rev. Dewayne James Messenger as Pastor of The Parish Church of St. Jerome, ECC 205 West King Street Tulsa Oklahoma On Sunday, August 17th, 2014 11:00 clock in the Morning Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. Friday, August 22nd, 2014; 6:45 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals Grab your pearl snaps and rhinestones... this year it's COUNTRY ROCK! The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next 4/23/26, 12:19 PM �Firefox 8 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-15th--2014.... Please Health, Outreach, Education and Prevention for their 2014 HIV and Hepatitis Prevention Event... DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. WHEN: Friday, August 22nd, 2014 Reception 6:45 pm Concert 8:00 pm event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet WHERE: Double Tree by Hilton Warren Place 6110 South Yale Avenue Tulsa, Oklahoma 74136-1904 EMCEES: The fabulous and talented, KC Lupp and Heather RichettoRumley! PERFORMING DIVAS: - KC Lupp - Heather Richetto Rumley - Daryl Christopher -Christy Hanewinkel - Mark Gibson - Pam Van Dyke - Cindy Cain - Jeff Cherblanc - John Sawyer For more information or to purchase a sponsorhip / ticket, please visit hopetesting.org Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org Broken Heart Land Screening on Thursday, October 16th, 2014; 6:30 pm EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 4/23/26, 12:19 PM �Firefox 9 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-15th--2014.... OSU - Tulsa Auditorium 700 N Greenwood Ave Oklahomans for Equality, H.O.P.E. (Health, Outreach, Prevention, Education), Tulsa CARES and PFLAG Tulsa are presenting a screening of the documentary film, Broken Heart Land, on Thursday, October 16th at 6:30 pm at OSU - Tulsa Auditorium, 700 N Greenwood Ave. A panel featuring subjects from the film will be conducted after the screening. This event is free and open to the public. Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. AN Broken Heart Land, a conservative Oklahoma family is shattered when their gay teenage son commits suicide after a bitterly controversial town meeting discussing a proposal for Gay and Lesbian History Month. In their search to unravel the mystery behind his death, they discover a tragic secret, and begin to question their own civic responsibility as they undergo a harrowing transformation from private citizens to public defenders of their son's legacy. For more information on the film, visit brokenheartland.com For more information about the event, contact Bruce Lewis at 918.834.4194 or by email at brucel@tulsacares.org Rise Up Singing Sunday, August 24th, 2014; 7:00 pm HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Congregation B'nai Emunah 1719 South Owasso Tulsa, Oklahoma 74120 "Rise Up Singing!" is a twenty-first century folksong revival scheduled for the evening of Sunday, August 24, at 7:00 pm. This year's concert honors the memory of Pete Seeger, first among equals, whose music continues to 4/23/26, 12:19 PM �Firefox 10 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-15th--2014.... call out a message of justice and freedom. Admission is free and open to the public. Held at the Synagogue once a year, the event is designed to bring people of all backgrounds together. Guest artists and musicians from across the city will lead songs of love, longing, celebration, protest, and imagination in singable arrangements, with lyrics available to every participant. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org For more information call 918.583.7121 or visit www.tulsagogue.com Halloween 2014 Saturday, October 25th through Saturday, November 1st Oklahomans for Equality will turn the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center into a spook house this Halloween for an entire week. We need volunteers for our haunted horror show. You need to be available for upcoming planning meetings and anytime between 4:00 pm and 12:00 am during Halloween week. Email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org with your contact info and we will let you know when planning meetings begin in September. Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org LGBTI Transitional Youth Online Survey The transitional youth study is a first-of-its-kind effort to raise awareness (especially among Oklahoma state agencies) that LGBTI youth exist in the state and that services are needed to alleviate very real challenges. The online survey is completely anonymous and results will contribute to increased recognition of LGBTI concerns statewide. In exchange for participation, researchers are offering $10 in gift certificate credit redeemable at giftcertificates.com for the first 250 urban and 250 rural participants. If you are 18 - 25 years old, reside in Oklahoma, and identify as LGBTI you may be eligible to participated by going to http://tiny.cc/ oklgbti2. With questions or concerns, please contact Douglas Knutson, at douglas.knutson@okstate.edu . ~ p<>',Vef9(tby!/w1vl . . ,99, 4/23/26, 12:19 PM �Firefox 11 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-15th--2014.... LGB Well-being and Parental Relationships Survey An OSU research study survey is currently being conducted on the influence parental relationships have on LGB individual well-being. You may participate if you are at least 18 years of age and identify as lesbian, gay, or bisexual and reside in the United States. The survey takes, on average, 20 minutes. Survey Link: https://okstatecoe.az1.qualtrics.com/SE/? SID=SV_3K9dW0lGcSFUvHL Reframing Positive: Tulsa CARES PhotoVoice Exhibition Exhibit runs from September 15th through October 3rd •••• tulsacar~~ Tulsa Community College Center for Creavitity 910 S Boston Ave Tulsa Community College's Center for Creativity and Tulsa CARES present Reframing Positive: Tulsa CARES PhotoVoice Exhibition. The exhibit will feature photography created by Tulsa CARES clients living with HIV and AIDS. This powerful exhibition highlights the struggles, triumphs, and daily lives of this often-marginalized community. Exhibit runs September 15 - October 3, 2014 at Tulsa Community College's Center for Creativity 910 South Boston Avenue As part of the exhibit, Tulsa CATES and the Center for Creativity will also present the following events. All free and open to the public and held at TCC's Center for Creativity. "HIV in the 21st Century" September 18 @ 12:00 pm - 1:00 pm Lunch and Learn With advances in HIV prevention and treatment, what does "safe sex" mean today? Learn about HIV prevention and H.O.P.E.'s free HIV testing and counseling services over a free brown bag lunch provided by TCC's Student Activities Office. Tulsa CARES Session #1 September 23 @ 6:00 pm - 7:30 pm The Impact of HIV on Individuals This is the first of a two part series. View the PhotoVoice exhibition and watch a short documentary produced by the Center for Creativity about how HIV has affected the life of a Tulsa CARES client. Participate in a discussion and Q&A with a Tulsa CARES client, a social worker who is also living with HIV, and a Tulsa CARES care coordinator. 4/23/26, 12:19 PM �Firefox 12 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-15th--2014.... "Art as a Community Service" September 25 @ 4:00 pm - 5:00 pm with Samantha Franklin Learn about the PhotoVoice method of participatory photography that can be used by community organizers to empower marginalized or disadvantaged groups. Samantha Franklin, the artist and Tulsa CARES staff member who organized the exhibit on display in the Center for Creativity, discusses the PhotoVoice concept and how it can be applied to a variety of projects. Tulsa CARES Session #2 October 1 @ 1:30 pm - 3:00 pm Impact and Empowerment This is the second of a two part series. This session focuses on the PhotoVoice project and how it impacted and empowered Tulsa CARES clients. View the PhotoVoice exhibition and participate in a discussion and Q&A session with a Tulsa CARES client and care coordinator. Equality Center Pride Store New in the Pride Store, Oklahomo mugs available for $10. Good for your morning coffee or for your desk to hold pens and pecils. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Leather Folk' by Mark Thompson You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Since its publication a decade ago, this Lambda Literary Award-nominated book has become a classic must-read on the shelf of books ' , . , ..., t"' f :- ... ~ ...... 1.... • I 1_1 . . f\ 4/23/26, 12:19 PM �Firefox 13 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-15th--2014.... adressing human sexuality and identity. Widely cited as among the most useful books of its kind, Leatherfolk is both historical witness and provocative treatise regarding a distinct subculture that has withstood decades of political harassment and other challenges to its health. Spanning the decades from the 1940s onward, this collection of vibrant writing documents the many eras and shifts of attitude that have informed the gay and lesbian leather underground and its influence on the society beyond. A new preface by editor Mark Thompson, and a new annotated bibliography provide an up-to-date look at this community and provide valuable resources for researchers and interested parties. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I ~----------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 12:19 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/9a6680248ffb7c15a760ad9e559fa52e.pdf 69b321d5d9728233afad6bb458f65e87 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-21st--2014.... eNews August 21st, 2014 In This Issue EBA Sponsor George Kaiser Grant Board of Directors SAGE Tulsa Pool Party Welcome to the eNews. The annual OkEq Membership meeting will be Thursday, September 25th, 2014 at 7:00 pm. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time Gender Bender Comedy Show Transforming Hate Gay Softball World Series Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group Council Oak Mens Chorale Flapjack Fundraiser Fair Housing Survey -DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. Broken Heart Land Tulsa Unites Against Bullying Rise Up Singing Enid Pride 2014 TahlEQUALITY Halloween 2014 LGBTI Youth Survey OSU Survey Tulsa CARES PhotoVoice Exhibit George Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant Become a new donor to OkEq or a new member of Oklahomans for Equality today. All new member donations to Oklahomans for Equality will be matched by the George Kaiser Family Foundation. GEORGE KAISER FAMILY FOUNDATION Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook Findoutmore with Oklahomans for Equality and - about - -membership -------- learn how to make your donation today. Oklahomans for Equality Annual Meeting and Board of Directors Elections 4/23/26, 12:19 PM �Firefox 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-21st--2014.... OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, August 21st, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. OkEq Board 2013 - 2014 OkEq Art Exhibit The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 25th, 2014 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, eight Board of Director spaces are up for election. Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee OR The August exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Karen McCauley and Renee Sweetwood. ________ 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by September 10th) At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is reviewing applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Eight directors will be elected. Please contact Clint.Robison@OkEq.org to submit a completed petition nominating someone for the Board of Directors. No nominations will be accepted from the floor during the annual board meeting. Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term SAGE Tulsa Pool Party Tuesday, September 2nd, 2014; 10:00 am SAGE Tulsa will have a pool party on Tuesday, September 2nd, 2014 at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch will be potluck. Please bring your favorite dish for lunch. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email SAGE@OkEq.org to RSVP. sage~ Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org ServJCes and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgendcr Elders 4/23/26, 12:19 PM �Firefox 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-21st--2014.... Counseling Services The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org Gender Bender Comedy Show Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8586 Thursday, August 28th, 2014; 9:45 pm Bamboo Lounge 7204 E Pine Gender Bender Comedy Night August 28th at the Bamboo Lounge Some of Tulsa's favorite comedians will be taking the stage as various states of drag in support of transgender and genderqueer rights. No Cover 9pm Counseling Services 10% of bar profits go to Featuring performances from some Oklahomans for Equality's of Tulsa's funniest local comedians. Gender Outreach program. No cover. 10% of the bar profit that night that will go towards supporting transgender rights. Transforming Hate: A Creative Process Call for Submissions The Oklahomans for Equality art gallery will be mounting a special group exhibit in January 2015 called Transforming Hate: A Creative Process... and YOU are invited to submit work for consideration. Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org This themed show will compliment a traveling exhibit at Living Arts of Tulsa, called "Speaking Volumes: Transforming Hate"... wherein 60 artists literally 4/23/26, 12:19 PM �Firefox 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-21st--2014.... created art works from 4000 volumes of white supremacist bibles and other books of hate speech. To read more about this exhibit and see some of the work go to http://www.speakingvolumes.net/ Living Arts has invited OkEq, as well as other organizations in Tulsa, to participate in opening a community wide conversation, in the hope of discovering new and creative ways that we might transform hate and begin a healing process. The exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Gallery will showcase in January 2015. Please think of this as your opportunity to transform hate through your own creative process. The gallery is WIDE open! Some guidelines for submission: 1) All media will be considered 2) Work must in some way illuminate the theme of transforming hate 3) You may submit up to 3 works, online submissions ONLY 4) there is no entry fee to submit work 5) all work for sale will be subject to the usual 30% gallery commission to OkEq 6) older work will be considered IF it fulfills the theme 7)) Deadline for Submissions : October 15, midnight HOW to submit work: Send up to 3 jpgs of your work to alliejensen@cox.net. Include size, title, medium and price. Performance artists should send a written proposal Notification will be November 1st, Delivery details at that time. Tulsa athlete wins at the Gay Games Tulsan, Youssef Mhemedi, helped organize the gay games in Ohio and won medals representing Tulsa. He won Bronze in men's division A table tennis and Gold in men's doubles table tennis division A. The Bronze men's table tennis was a team event. He was eliminated in 2nd round of men's open tennis. He competed as a Tulsa athlete. For more information, visit www.gg9cle.com Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group Every Tuesday at 6:30 pm; 1st Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by 4/23/26, 12:19 PM �Firefox 5 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-21st--2014.... Yolanda Arnold Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will be hosting the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of all that we do in Shambhala Meditation Training. This ancient practice of self-discovery is rooted in the simple but revolutionary premise that every human being has the ability to cultivate the mind's inherent stability, clarity and strength in order to be more awake and to develop the compassion and insight necessary to care for oneself and the world genuinely. For more information please visit tulsa.shambhala.org or email shambhalatulsa@gmail.com Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Council Oak Mens Chorale Rehearsals Tuesdays at 7:00 pm Fellowship Congregational Church Fellowship Hall - 2900 S. Harvard Ave Rehearsals for Council Oak Mens Chorale 2014 Holiday Concert will are each Tuesday night after from 7:00 9:00 pm at Fellowship Congregational Church Fellowship Hall - 2900 S. Harvard Ave. The concert will feature council oak holiday music both traditional and popular along with ccuncil oak mens choroll solos from chorale members. New singers are welcome to attend rehearsals and audition to become a part of the chorale! COMC is excited to announce that Kent Dennis has been named Interim Artistic Director and will lead the chorale for this fall/winter season. Kent is an accomplished director and has an extensive background in both vocal and instrumental music. Kent has also been a member of COMC for two years. COMC is looking forward to Kent lending his artistic abilities and leadership to the chorale. Applebee's - Tulsa JOLT Flapjack Fundraiser Saturday, August 23rd, 2014; 8:00 - 10:00 am Applebee's Flapjack Fundraiser 9409 E 71st St Tulsa SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Servoce, and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders Appiebees Tulsa JOLT When: Saturday, August 23rd, 2014 8:00 - 10:00 am Tulsa Area Prime Timers 4/23/26, 12:19 PM �Firefox 6 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-21st--2014.... Where: 9409 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK Cost: $8.00 per person, also serving $3.00 Mimosas All proceeds benefit Tulsa JOLT Bowling www.jolttulsa.com Fair Housing in Tulsa Survey Survey ends November 3rd, 2014 The City of Tulsa is conducting a confidential survey for feedback on whether the city has barriers to fair housing. The survey will be part of a study on Tulsa's fair housing choices, a study required by the U.S. Department of Housing and Urban Development. 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 The survey is available in English and Spanish by following this link here. DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. Friday, August 22nd, 2014; 6:45 pm Get F.I.T. Grab your pearl snaps and rhinestones... this year it's COUNTRY ROCK! Please Health, Outreach, Education and Prevention for their 2014 HIV and Hepatitis Prevention Event... DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. WHEN: Friday, August 22nd, 2014 Reception 6:45 pm Concert 8:00 pm WHERE: Double Tree by Hilton Warren Place 6110 South Yale Avenue Tulsa, Oklahoma 74136-1904 EMCEES: The fabulous and talented, KC Lupp and Heather RichettoRumley! PERFORMING DIVAS: - KC Lupp - Heather Richetto Rumley - Daryl Christopher -Christy Hanewinkel - Mark Gibson - Pam Van Dyke - Cindy Cain - Jeff Cherblanc - John Sawyer Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 4:00 pm. Gender Outreach 4/23/26, 12:19 PM �Firefox 7 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-21st--2014.... For more information or to purchase a sponsorhip / ticket, please visit hopetesting.org Broken Heart Land Screening on Thursday, October 16th, 2014; 6:30 pm OSU - Tulsa Auditorium 700 N Greenwood Ave Oklahomans for Equality, H.O.P.E. (Health, Outreach, Prevention, Education), Tulsa CARES and PFLAG Tulsa are presenting a screening of the documentary film, Broken Heart Land, on Thursday, October 16th at 6:30 pm at OSU - Tulsa Auditorium, 700 N Greenwood Ave. A panel featuring subjects from the film will be conducted after the screening. This event is free and open to the public. Lambda Al-Anon AN Broken Heart Land, a conservative Oklahoma family is shattered when their gay teenage son commits suicide after a bitterly controversial town meeting discussing a proposal for Gay and Lesbian History Month. In their search to unravel the mystery behind his death, they discover a tragic secret, and begin to question their own civic responsibility as they undergo a harrowing transformation from private citizens to public defenders of their son's legacy. For more information on the film, visit brokenheartland.com For more information about the event, contact Bruce Lewis at 918.834.4194 or by email at brucel@tulsacares.org Tulsa Unites Against Bullying Sunday, August 24th, 2014; 3:00 - 6:00 pm The Oklahoma Center for Community and Justice (OCCJ) is proud to announce, in partnership with the AntiBullying Collaboration of Tulsa, "Tulsa Unites Against Bullying," a back-to-school celebration of community members dedicated to ending bullying. Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Bacl<-ID-GOhool celel,ralion br cornrn,.-y menmers-111 3-6 fl·• · • S IMUUUf. ?f119. 24. 20ltl • 'f'. guthrie f green : " The concert is a back-to-school celebration for the community that advocates for anti-bullying efforts in the Tulsa community. This event also celebrates the tireless work on behalf of legislators and advocates to pass HB 1661, the School Bullying Prevention Act. This bill adds training for school employees and protection for ALL students in Oklahoma. This free community event will take place at Guthrie Green, downtown Tulsa's premiere community space. Throughout the day, students, advocates and musicians will be taking the stage to celebrate the new Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next 4/23/26, 12:19 PM �Firefox 8 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-21st--2014.... school year, and committing to making Oklahoma schools a safer and more inclusive environment for all. An information fair will allow attendees to visit with various nonprofits about their services and learn how they can become advocates for students and educators in the Tulsa area. Performers include Riverfield Rocks, La Lune, and The Capital Why's. event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Rise Up Singing Sunday, August 24th, 2014; 7:00 pm Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org Congregation B'nai Emunah 1719 South Owasso Tulsa, Oklahoma 74120 "Rise Up Singing!" is a twenty-first century folksong revival scheduled for the evening of Sunday, August 24, at 7:00 pm. This year's concert honors the memory of Pete Seeger, first among equals, whose music continues to call out a message of justice and freedom. Admission is free and open to the public. Held at the Synagogue once a year, the event is designed to bring people of all backgrounds together. Guest artists and musicians from across the city will lead songs of love, longing, celebration, protest, and imagination in singable arrangements, with lyrics available to every participant. For more information call 918.583.7121 or visit www.tulsagogue.com EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Enid Pride 2014 Saturday, September 20th, 2014; 12:00 - 6:00 pm Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 4/23/26, 12:19 PM �Firefox 9 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-21st--2014.... V trl rP ~1.~ 1 ·r. Dr__. Contact Us: E-mail: enidpride@yohoo.com Coll: 1-800-878-5298 Like us on Focebook J r - m= E."nidLGBT ~ Coalition Enid Pride 2014 Saturday, September 20th, 2014; 12:00 - 6:00 pm Government Springs Park 600 E Garriotte, Enid, OK 73702 For more info, visit Facebook, email enidpride@yahoo.com or call 1.800.878.5298 1st Annual Gay Pride River Festival Friday, September 26 - Sunday, September 28th Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: September 26 - 28 Sparrow Hawk Camp & TahlEQUALITY will host their first annual Gay Pride River Festival. Our family is proud to be apart of an event that welcomes the diversity of our LGBTQ2 community Contact the Sparrow Hawk Camp office to reserve your camp site. For $35/per person, you can reserve the entire weekend of tent camping & a 6 mile pride float anytime for 8:00 am till noon (last bus out is noon) on Saturday the 27th. This includes live music, karaoke, and a world class theatrical drag show on Saturday evening at 8:00 pm. Please call and reserve your tickets today! Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. $35 @ Camp $37.50 Phone Orders $30 (additional) RV sites- please make reservations. For reservation call: 918.456.8371 Halloween 2014 4/23/26, 12:19 PM �Firefox 10 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-21st--2014.... Saturday, October 25th through Saturday, November 1st Oklahomans for Equality will turn the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center into a spook house this Halloween for an entire week. We need volunteers for our haunted horror show. You need to be available for upcoming planning meetings and anytime between 4:00 pm and 12:00 am during Halloween week. Email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org with your contact info and we will let you know when planning meetings begin in September. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org LGBTI Transitional Youth Online Survey The transitional youth study is a first-of-its-kind effort to raise awareness (especially among Oklahoma state agencies) that LGBTI youth exist in the state and that services are needed to alleviate very real challenges. The online survey is completely anonymous and results will contribute to increased recognition of LGBTI concerns statewide. In exchange for participation, researchers are offering $10 in gift certificate credit redeemable at giftcertificates.com for the first 250 urban and 250 rural participants. If you are 18 - 25 years old, reside in Oklahoma, and identify as LGBTI you may be eligible to participated by going to http://tiny.cc/ oklgbti2. With questions or concerns, please contact Douglas Knutson, at douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org LGB Well-being and Parental Relationships Survey An OSU research study survey is currently being conducted on the influence parental relationships have on LGB individual well-being. You may participate if you are at least 18 years of age and identify as lesbian, gay, or bisexual and reside in the United States. The survey takes, on average, 20 minutes. Survey Link: https://okstatecoe.az1.qualtrics.com/SE/? SID=SV_3K9dW0lGcSFUvHL 4/23/26, 12:19 PM �Firefox 11 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-21st--2014.... Reframing Positive: Tulsa CARES PhotoVoice Exhibition Exhibit runs from September 15th through October 3rd •••• tulsacar~~ Tulsa Community College Center for Creavitity 910 S Boston Ave Tulsa Community College's Center for Creativity and Tulsa CARES present Reframing Positive: Tulsa CARES PhotoVoice Exhibition. The exhibit will feature photography created by Tulsa CARES clients living with HIV and AIDS. This powerful exhibition highlights the struggles, triumphs, and daily lives of this often-marginalized community. Exhibit runs September 15 - October 3, 2014 at Tulsa Community College's Center for Creativity 910 South Boston Avenue As part of the exhibit, Tulsa CATES and the Center for Creativity will also present the following events. All free and open to the public and held at TCC's Center for Creativity. "HIV in the 21st Century" September 18 @ 12:00 pm - 1:00 pm Lunch and Learn With advances in HIV prevention and treatment, what does "safe sex" mean today? Learn about HIV prevention and H.O.P.E.'s free HIV testing and counseling services over a free brown bag lunch provided by TCC's Student Activities Office. Tulsa CARES Session #1 September 23 @ 6:00 pm - 7:30 pm The Impact of HIV on Individuals This is the first of a two part series. View the PhotoVoice exhibition and watch a short documentary produced by the Center for Creativity about how HIV has affected the life of a Tulsa CARES client. Participate in a discussion and Q&A with a Tulsa CARES client, a social worker who is also living with HIV, and a Tulsa CARES care coordinator. "Art as a Community Service" September 25 @ 4:00 pm - 5:00 pm with Samantha Franklin Learn about the PhotoVoice method of participatory photography that can be used by community organizers to empower marginalized or disadvantaged groups. Samantha Franklin, the artist and Tulsa CARES staff member who organized the exhibit on display in the Center for Creativity, discusses the PhotoVoice concept and how it can be applied to a variety of projects. Tulsa CARES Session #2 4/23/26, 12:19 PM �Firefox 12 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-21st--2014.... October 1 @ 1:30 pm - 3:00 pm Impact and Empowerment This is the second of a two part series. This session focuses on the PhotoVoice project and how it impacted and empowered Tulsa CARES clients. View the PhotoVoice exhibition and participate in a discussion and Q&A session with a Tulsa CARES client and care coordinator. Equality Center Pride Store New in the Pride Store, Oklahomo mugs available for $10. Good for your morning coffee or for your desk to hold pens and pecils. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'The Letter Q: Queer Writers' Letters to their Younger Selves' edited by Sarah Moon & James Lecesne You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Life-saving letters from a glittering wishlist of top authors. If you received a letter from your older self, what do you think it would say? What do you wish it would say? That the boy you were crushing on in History turns out to be gay too, and that you become boyfriends in college? That the bully who is making your life miserable will one day become so insignificant that you won't remember his name until he shows up at your book signing? In this anthology, sixty-three award-winning authors such as Michael Cunningham, Amy Bloom, Jacqueline Woodson, Gregory Maguire, David Levithan, and Armistead Maupin make AMY BLOOM JULUNNEPET!RS ..,.: ~.~,~-~-~~ 6IWiOfl'I IWillRE PAUL JACQUELINE RUDNICK WOODSON NtCUUtllJ .. ,........... 4/23/26, 12:19 PM �Firefox 13 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-21st--2014.... imaginative journeys into their pasts, telling their younger selves what they would have liked to know then about their lives as Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, or Transgender people. Through stories, in pictures, with bracing honesty, these are words of love and understanding, reasons to hold on for the better future ahead. They will tell you things about your favorite authors that you never knew before. And they will tell you about yourself. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library • .... • ••• •• • • Volunt r TU A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 12:19 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/e352abae1fc6023220a57e5a9a591b02.pdf 996196abd3c2625597454045e61d3f2d PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-28th--2014.... eNews August 28th, 2014 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Board of Directors SAGE Tulsa Pool Party Transforming Hate Welcome to the eNews. The annual OkEq Membership meeting will be Thursday, September 25th, 2014 with Board election voting ending at the 7:00 pm start time. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Plexus Slim Gay Softball World Series TMSL First Thursday Art Show Equality Business Alliance EBA Sponsor Ballroom Pride Series Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group Ask me for FREE sample!!! Candlelight Vigil ·rim Hedwig and the Angry Inch T: (918)361-4188 All natural products for diabeti cs, weight loss , pain, GI iss ues and skin conditions. www.plexusslim.com/robi n la butti Council Oak Mens Chorale E: robin labutti@Cox.net Lose weight • Gtt lit • Improve performanc1 • lncr11s1 tnugy Fair - Housing - - - -Survey --Twists and Turns Broken Heart Land Oklahomans for Equality Annual Meeting and Board of Directors Elections Enid Pride 2014 TahlEQUALITY Halloween 2014 OSU Survey Tulsa CARES PhotoVoice Exhibit Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer OkEq Board 2013 - 2014 Find Us on Facebook The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 25th, 2014 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, eight Board of Director spaces are up for election. Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee OR 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq 4/23/26, 12:20 PM �Firefox 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-28th--2014.... Secretary by September 10th) At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is reviewing applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Eight directors will be elected. Please contact Clint.Robison@OkEq.org to submit a completed petition nominating someone for the Board of Directors. No nominations will be accepted from the floor during the annual board meeting. Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term SAGE Tulsa Pool Party Tuesday, September 2nd, 2014; 10:00 am SAGE Tulsa will have a pool party on Tuesday, September 2nd, 2014 at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch will be potluck. Please bring your favorite dish for lunch. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email SAGE@OkEq.org to RSVP. sagew OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, September 11th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. OkEq Art Exhibit The August exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Karen McCauley and Renee Sweetwood. ________ Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Counseling Services The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org Transforming Hate: A Creative Process Call for Submissions The Oklahomans for Equality art gallery will be mounting a special group exhibit in January 2015 called Transforming Hate: A Creative Process... and YOU are invited to submit work for 4/23/26, 12:20 PM �Firefox 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-28th--2014.... consideration. This themed show will compliment a traveling exhibit at Living Arts of Tulsa, called "Speaking Volumes: Transforming Hate"... wherein 60 artists literally created art works from 4000 volumes of white supremacist bibles and other books of hate speech. To read more about this exhibit and see some of the work go to http://www.speakingvolumes.net/ Living Arts has invited OkEq, as well as other organizations in Tulsa, to participate in opening a community wide conversation, in the hope of discovering new and creative ways that we might transform hate and begin a healing process. The exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Gallery will showcase in January 2015. Please think of this as your opportunity to transform hate through your own creative process. The gallery is WIDE open! Some guidelines for submission: 1) All media will be considered 2) Work must in some way illuminate the theme of transforming hate 3) You may submit up to 3 works, online submissions ONLY 4) there is no entry fee to submit work 5) all work for sale will be subject to the usual 30% gallery commission to OkEq 6) older work will be considered IF it fulfills the theme 7)) Deadline for Submissions : October 15, midnight Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8586 HOW to submit work: Send up to 3 jpgs of your work to alliejensen@cox.net. Include size, title, medium and price. Performance artists should send a written proposal Notification will be November 1st, Delivery details at that time. Tulsa Metro Softball Teams head to the Gay Softball World Series in Dallas, TX Three Tulsa Metro Softball League will represent at the Gay Softball World Series 2014 in Dallas TX. This is the 4th World Series TMSL has participated in. The teams will travel to Dallas September 21st - 27th. www.tulsametrosoftball.com Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org Representing D Division is the Renegades Tulsa Twisters (in green) and the T-Town Zealers (in red) 4/23/26, 12:20 PM �Firefox 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-28th--2014.... Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee Representing C Division is the Oklahoma Rampage Tulsa Metro Softball League 2014 Fall Ball Registration is now open This year's Tulsa Metro Softball League Fall season will be a short 4 week season beginning Sunday, October 5th, and ending on Sunday, October 26th. So you are guaranteed to play 2 games each weekend. Games will be played at TMSL normal scheduled times from 1:00 pm - 4:00 pm. Member dues this season will be $30. Once again this year, you are allowed to sign up with a partner or two to join you in the fun of Fall Ball. TMSL is also bringing back the Fall Ball Referral Program, where if you recruit a new member (a member who has never played in TMSL leagues), then you will receive $10 off your dues! So refer 3 new friends, you will play for free! Sign up at tulsametrosoftball.com/leagues/softball First Thursday Art Show scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Thursday, September 4th, 2014; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The September Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Steve Tomlin, in a show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, September 4th from 6:00 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by 4/23/26, 12:20 PM �Firefox 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-28th--2014.... Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The September Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, September 17th, 2014 at 6:00 pm. Hosted by Tulsa Plastic Surgery, 6585 S. Yale, Suite 315, Tulsa, OK 74136. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. ~!,, c Surgery Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Tulsa Plastic Surgery 6585 S Yale, Suite 315 Tulsa, OK 74136 The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Ballroom Pride Series - Beginning Cha Cha 4 week class starting on Friday September 12th; 7:00 pm Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Servoce, and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders Tulsa Area Prime Timers 4/23/26, 12:20 PM �Firefox 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-28th--2014.... Ballroom Blitz 4960D S 83rd E Ave Tulsa, OK 74145 DAI I nnnM UMLLRUUI DI IT7 ULII'- Equality Business Alliance member, Ballroom Blitz will present a progressive 4 week series of classes especially for the LGBT community and allies with a Beginning Cha Cha class. Diana Easter will teach the 4 week series starting on Friday, September 12th at 7:00 pm. The cost for the 4 week series will be $32 and must have 8 students to hold the class. Students must join before or at the first class. For more information, visit www.ballroomblitzok.com or click here to sign up. 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group Every Tuesday at 6:30 pm; 1st Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will be hosting the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of all that we do in Shambhala Meditation Training. This ancient practice of self-discovery is rooted in the simple but revolutionary premise that every human being has the ability to cultivate the mind's inherent stability, clarity and strength in order to be more awake and to develop the compassion and insight necessary to care for oneself and the world genuinely. For more information please visit tulsa.shambhala.org or email shambhalatulsa@gmail.com Council Oak Mens Chorale Rehearsals Tuesdays at 7:00 pm Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Fellowship Congregational Church Fellowship Hall - 2900 S. Harvard Ave Rehearsals for Council Oak Mens Chorale 2014 Holiday Concert will are each Tuesday night after from 7:00 9:00 pm at Fellowship Congregational Church Fellowship Hall - 2900 S. Harvard Ave. The concert will feature council oak holiday music both traditional and popular along with council oak ll1fJflS cholole solos from chorale members. New singers are welcome to attend rehearsals and audition to become a part of the chorale! COMC is excited to announce that Kent Dennis has been named Interim Artistic Director and will lead the chorale for this fall/winter season. Kent is an accomplished director and has an extensive background in both vocal and instrumental music. Kent has also been a member of ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 4:00 pm. Gender Outreach 4/23/26, 12:20 PM �Firefox 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-28th--2014.... COMC for two years. COMC is looking forward to Kent lending his artistic abilities and leadership to the chorale. Community Candlelight Vigil for Justice Sunday, August 31st, 2014; 6:00 pm Several Tulsa area churches have partnered to hold a Candlelight Vigil for Justice in response to the tragic death of Michael Brown in Ferguson, Missouri. Faith leaders will call those gathered into greater awareness of the issues at stake for communities wrestling with questions of systemic injustice that arise after news of yet another deadly shooting of an unarmed black man. The public is encouraged to attend the vigil and come together in solidarity through prayer and reflection for the hope of justice in the midst of difficult conversations. Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Where: Metropolitan Baptist Church, 1228 West Apache | Tulsa, OK 74127 When: Sunday, August 31st at 6:00 pm For more information contact: Metropolitan Baptist Church at 918.991.6815 or visit the Facebook Event Page Hedwig and the Angry Inch Friday, Sept 26th at 10:30 pm & Saturday, Sept 27th at 11:55 pm Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave Graveyard Shift proudly presents a 35mm print of the 2001 post-punk, neoglam rock musical HEDWIG AND THE ANGRY INCH! Sponsored by Oklahomans for Equality, HEDWIG tells the story of a transgender rock songstress through award-winning songs composed by Stephen Trask. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Purchase tickets here. Don't miss this rare opportunity to see it in 35mm! Fair Housing in Tulsa Survey Survey ends November 3rd, 2014 The City of Tulsa is conducting a confidential survey for feedback on whether the city has barriers to fair housing. The survey will be part of a study on Tulsa's fair housing choices, a study required by the U.S. Department of Housing and Urban Development. The survey is available in English and Spanish by following this link here. Twists and Turns Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next 4/23/26, 12:20 PM �Firefox 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-28th--2014.... Opening reception on Friday, September 5th, 2014; 6:00 pm 108 Contemporary 108 E M.B. Brady St Tulsa, OK 74103 Twists and Turns, features works by two Israeli artists whose passion for nature and the beauty of their homeland comes through in their diverse collection of tapestries and ceramics. Twists and Turns will be on display September 5th - October 26th and is open for free to the public. The opening reception will be on the evening of Friday, September 5th, from 6:00 - 9:00 pm. The following day, September 6th, one of the artists, Zemer Peled, will present a behind-the-scenes discussion of the inspiration for her work. event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet TWISTS AND TURNS SEPTEMBER 5 - OCTOBER 26, 2014 ---------------- IS RA EU ARTISTS ALEKSANORA ~AN(Jol & ZEMER P61.ED' Opening Reception: Fnday, September 5, 2014 I ~9 PM Artist Talk : September 6, 2014 I 11-1 PM Broken Heart Land Screening on Thursday, October 16th, 2014; 6:30 pm OSU - Tulsa Auditorium 700 N Greenwood Ave Oklahomans for Equality, H.O.P.E. (Health, Outreach, Prevention, Education), Tulsa CARES and PFLAG Tulsa are presenting a screening of the documentary film, Broken Heart Land, on Thursday, October 16th at 6:30 pm at OSU - Tulsa Auditorium, 700 N Greenwood Ave. A panel featuring subjects from the film will be conducted after the screening. This event is free and open to the public. Broken Heart Land, a conservative Oklahoma family is shattered when their gay teenage son commits suicide after a bitterly controversial town meeting discussing a proposal for Gay and Lesbian History Month. In their search to unravel the mystery behind his death, they discover a tragic secret, and begin to question their own civic responsibility as they undergo a harrowing transformation from private citizens to public defenders of their son's legacy. For more information on the film, visit brokenheartland.com For more information about the event, contact Bruce Lewis at 918.834.4194 or by email at brucel@tulsacares.org Enid Pride 2014 Saturday, September 20th, 2014; 12:00 - 6:00 pm Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 4/23/26, 12:20 PM �Firefox 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-28th--2014.... V trl rP ~1.~ 1 ·r. Dr__. Contact Us: E-mail: enidpride@yohoo.com Coll: 1-800-878-5298 Like us on Focebook J r - m= E."nidLGBT ~ Coalition Enid Pride 2014 Saturday, September 20th, 2014; 12:00 - 6:00 pm Government Springs Park 600 E Garriotte, Enid, OK 73702 For more info, visit Facebook, email enidpride@yahoo.com enidlgbtcoalition.org or call 1.800.878.5298 1st Annual Gay Pride River Festival Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Friday, September 26 - Sunday, September 28th Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: September 26 - 28 Sparrow Hawk Camp & TahlEQUALITY will host their first annual Gay Pride River Festival. Our family is proud to be apart of an event that welcomes the diversity of our LGBTQ2 community Contact the Sparrow Hawk Camp office to reserve your camp site. For $35/per person, you can reserve the entire weekend of tent camping & a 6 mile pride float anytime for 8:00 am till noon (last bus out is noon) on Saturday the 27th. This includes live music, karaoke, and a world class theatrical drag show on Saturday evening at 8:00 pm. Please call and reserve your tickets today! Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. $35 @ Camp $37.50 Phone Orders $30 (additional) RV sites- please make reservations. For reservation call: 918.456.8371 4/23/26, 12:20 PM �Firefox 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-28th--2014.... Halloween 2014 Saturday, October 25th through Saturday, November 1st Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Oklahomans for Equality will turn the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center into a haunted house this Halloween for an entire week. We need volunteers for our haunted horror show. You need to be available for upcoming planning meetings and anytime between 4:00 pm and 12:00 am during Halloween week. Email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org with your contact info and we will let you know when planning meetings begin in September. Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org LGB Well-being and Parental Relationships Survey An OSU research study survey is currently being conducted on the influence parental relationships have on LGB individual well-being. You may participate if you are at least 18 years of age and identify as lesbian, gay, or bisexual and reside in the United States. The survey takes, on average, 20 minutes. Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Survey Link: https://okstatecoe.az1.qualtrics.com/SE/? SID=SV_3K9dW0lGcSFUvHL Reframing Positive: Tulsa CARES PhotoVoice Exhibition Exhibit runs from September 15th through October 3rd tulsacar:~ ~ Tulsa Community College Center for Creavitity 910 S Boston Ave Tulsa Community College's Center for Creativity and Tulsa CARES present Reframing Positive: Tulsa CARES PhotoVoice Exhibition. The exhibit will feature photography created by Tulsa CARES clients living with HIV and AIDS. This powerful exhibition highlights the struggles, triumphs, and daily lives of this often-marginalized community. Exhibit runs September 15th - October 3rd, 2014 at Tulsa Community College's Center for Creativity 910 South Boston Avenue For more information, visit www.tulsacc.edu/centerforcreativity 4/23/26, 12:20 PM �Firefox 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-28th--2014.... Equality Center Pride Store New in the Pride Store, Oklahomo mugs available for $10. Good for your morning coffee or for your desk to hold pens and pecils. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Long Road to Freedom: The Advocate History of the Gay and Lesbian Movement' edited by Mark Thompson You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center News stories, essays, cartoons, interviews, and more than one thousand photographs, all culled from the pages of the leading homosexual publication, chronicle the gay rights movement over the past twenty-five years. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/23/26, 12:20 PM �Firefox 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-28th--2014.... •••~ .. Volunt er A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! fULSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r----------------------------------------------------~ I I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I I ~----------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 12:20 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/9f98a5b2e3fcccd7fd56293a46324854.pdf 43ff30e9d075615349899db144de209e PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-3rd--201... eNews September 3rd, 2014 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Board of Directors First Thursday Art Show Transforming Hate Welcome to the eNews. The annual OkEq Membership meeting will be Thursday, September 25th, 2014 with Board election voting ending at the 7:00 pm start time. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time Equality Business Alliance Gay Softball World Series TMSL Ballroom Pride Series Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group Council Oak Mens Chorale Hedwig and the Angry Inch Fair Housing Survey Twists and Turns Broken Heart Land Enid Pride 2014 TahlEQUALITY Halloween 2014 OSU Survey Tulsa CARES PhotoVoice Exhibit Pride Store Rainbow Library Oklahomans for Equality Annual Meeting and Board of Directors Elections Volunteer Find Us on Facebook OkEq Board 2013 - 2014 The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 25th, 2014 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, eight Board of Director spaces are up for election. 4/23/26, 12:21 PM �Firefox 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-3rd--201... Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee OR 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by September 10th) At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is reviewing applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Eight directors will be elected. Please contact Clint.Robison@OkEq.org to submit a completed petition nominating someone for the Board of Directors. No nominations will be accepted from the floor during the annual board meeting. Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, September 11th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. OkEq Art Exhibit The September exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Steve Tomlin. ________ First Thursday Art Show Thursday, September 4th, 2014; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The September Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Steve Tomlin, in a show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, September 4th from 6:00 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Transforming Hate: A Creative Process Call for Submissions The Oklahomans for Equality art gallery will be mounting a special group exhibit in January 2015 called Transforming Hate: A Creative Process... and YOU are invited to submit work for consideration. Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org This themed show will compliment a traveling exhibit at Living Arts of Tulsa, called "Speaking Volumes: Transforming Hate"... wherein 60 artists literally created art works from 4000 volumes of white supremacist bibles and other books of hate speech. To read more about this exhibit and see some of the work go to http://www.speakingvolumes.net/ 4/23/26, 12:21 PM �Firefox 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-3rd--201... Living Arts has invited OkEq, as well as other organizations in Tulsa, to participate in opening a community wide conversation, in the hope of discovering new and creative ways that we might transform hate and begin a healing process. The exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Gallery will showcase in January 2015. Please think of this as your opportunity to transform hate through your own creative process. The gallery is WIDE open! Some guidelines for submission: 1) All media will be considered 2) Work must in some way illuminate the theme of transforming hate 3) You may submit up to 3 works, online submissions ONLY 4) there is no entry fee to submit work 5) all work for sale will be subject to the usual 30% gallery commission to OkEq 6) older work will be considered IF it fulfills the theme 7)) Deadline for Submissions : October 15, midnight HOW to submit work: Send up to 3 jpgs of your work to alliejensen@cox.net. Include size, title, medium and price. Performance artists should send a written proposal Notification will be November 1st, Delivery details at that time. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8586 Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook g ' The September Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, September 17th, 2014 at 6:00 pm. Hosted by Tulsa Plastic Surgery, 6585 S. Yale, Suite 315, Tulsa, OK 74136. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. "'!,.., c Surgery Tulsa Plastic Surgery 6585 S Yale, Suite 315 Tulsa, OK 74136 Tulsa Metro Softball Teams head to the Gay Softball World Series in Dallas, TX Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org Three Tulsa Metro Softball League will represent at the Gay Softball World Series 2014 in Dallas TX. This is the 4th World Series TMSL has participated in. The teams will travel to Dallas September 21st - 27th. www.tulsametrosoftball.com 4/23/26, 12:21 PM �Firefox 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-3rd--201... Counseling Services Representing D Division is the Renegades Tulsa Twisters (in green) and the T-Town Zealers (in red) Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SOS Group Representing C Division is the Oklahoma Rampage Tulsa Metro Softball League 2014 Fall Ball Registration is now open Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org This year's Tulsa Metro Softball League Fall season will be a short 4 week season beginning Sunday, October 5th, and ending on Sunday, October 26th. So you are guaranteed to play 2 games each weekend. Games will be played at TMSL normal scheduled times from 1:00 pm - 4:00 pm. Member dues this season will be $30. Once again this year, you are allowed to sign up with a partner or two to join you in the fun of Fall Ball. TMSL is also bringing back the Fall Ball Referral Program, where if you recruit a new member (a member who has never played in TMSL leagues), then you will receive $10 off your dues! So refer 3 new friends, you will play for free! Sign up at tulsametrosoftball.com/leagues/softball Ballroom Pride Series - Beginning Cha Cha 4 week class starting on Friday September 12th; 7:00 pm Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by 4/23/26, 12:21 PM �Firefox 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-3rd--201... Ballroom Blitz 4960D S 83rd E Ave Tulsa, OK 74145 D111 nnnM UIILLRUUI DI IT7 ULI I&. Equality Business Alliance member, Ballroom Blitz will present a progressive 4 week series of classes especially for the LGBT community and allies with a Beginning Cha Cha class. Diana Easter will teach the 4 week series starting on Friday, September 12th at 7:00 pm. The cost for the 4 week series will be $32 and must have 8 students to hold the class. Students must join before or at the first class. For more information, visit www.ballroomblitzok.com or click here to sign up. Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group Every Tuesday at 6:30 pm; 1st Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will be hosting the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of all that we do in Shambhala Meditation Training. This ancient practice of self-discovery is rooted in the simple but revolutionary premise that every human being has the ability to cultivate the mind's inherent stability, clarity and strength in order to be more awake and to develop the compassion and insight necessary to care for oneself and the world genuinely. For more information please visit tulsa.shambhala.org or email shambhalatulsa@gmail.com Council Oak Mens Chorale Rehearsals Tuesdays at 7:00 pm Fellowship Congregational Church Fellowship Hall - 2900 S. Harvard Ave Rehearsals for Council Oak Mens Chorale 2014 Holiday Concert will are each Tuesday night after from 7:00 9:00 pm at Fellowship Congregational Church Fellowship Hall - 2900 S. Harvard Ave. The concert will feature council oak holiday music both traditional and popular along with counc/1 ()(I/( ll1fJflS choiole solos from chorale members. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Servoce, and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders New singers are welcome to attend rehearsals and audition to become a part of the chorale! COMC is excited to announce that Kent Dennis has been named Interim Artistic Director and will lead the chorale for this fall/winter season. Kent is an accomplished director and has an extensive background in both vocal and instrumental music. Kent has also been a member of Tulsa Area Prime Timers 4/23/26, 12:21 PM �Firefox 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-3rd--201... COMC for two years. COMC is looking forward to Kent lending his artistic abilities and leadership to the chorale. Hedwig and the Angry Inch Friday, Sept 26th at 10:30 pm & Saturday, Sept 27th at 11:55 pm Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave Graveyard Shift proudly presents a 35mm print of the 2001 post-punk, neoglam rock musical HEDWIG AND THE ANGRY INCH! Sponsored by Oklahomans for Equality, HEDWIG tells the story of a transgender rock songstress through award-winning songs composed by Stephen Trask. 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Purchase tickets here. Don't miss this rare opportunity to see it in 35mm! Fair Housing in Tulsa Survey Survey ends November 3rd, 2014 The City of Tulsa is conducting a confidential survey for feedback on whether the city has barriers to fair housing. The survey will be part of a study on Tulsa's fair housing choices, a study required by the U.S. Department of Housing and Urban Development. /.J The survey is available in English and Spanish by following this link here. Twists and Turns Opening reception on Friday, September 5th, 2014; 6:00 pm 108 Contemporary 108 E M.B. Brady St Tulsa, OK 74103 Twists and Turns, features works by two Israeli artists whose passion for nature and the beauty of their homeland comes through in their diverse collection of tapestries and ceramics. Twists and Turns will be on display September 5th - October 26th and is open for free to the public. The opening reception will be on the evening of Friday, September 5th, from 6:00 - 9:00 pm. The following day, September 6th, one of the artists, Zemer Peled, will present a behind-the-scenes discussion of the inspiration for her work. Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 4:00 pm. Gender Outreach 4/23/26, 12:21 PM �Firefox 7 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-3rd--201... TWISTS AND TUIRNS SEPTEMBER 5 - OCTOBER 26, 2014: ---------------IS RAEU ARTIST'S ALEKSANDRA STQ'i'ANO/ & ZEMER f'SLEO ' Opening Reception : Fnday, September 5, 2014 I 6-9 PM Artist Talk : September 6. 2014111-1 PM Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Broken Heart Land Screening on Thursday, October 16th, 2014; 6:30 pm OSU - Tulsa Auditorium 700 N Greenwood Ave Oklahomans for Equality, H.O.P.E. (Health, Outreach, Prevention, Education), Tulsa CARES and PFLAG Tulsa are presenting a screening of the documentary film, Broken Heart Land, on Thursday, October 16th at 6:30 pm at OSU - Tulsa Auditorium, 700 N Greenwood Ave. A panel featuring subjects from the film will be conducted after the screening. This event is free and open to the public. Broken Heart Land, a conservative Oklahoma family is shattered when their gay teenage son commits suicide after a bitterly controversial town meeting discussing a proposal for Gay and Lesbian History Month. In their search to unravel the mystery behind his death, they discover a tragic secret, and begin to question their own civic responsibility as they undergo a harrowing transformation from private citizens to public defenders of their son's legacy. For more information on the film, visit brokenheartland.com For more information about the event, contact Bruce Lewis at 918.834.4194 or by email at brucel@tulsacares.org Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Enid Pride 2014 Saturday, September 20th, 2014; 12:00 - 6:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next 4/23/26, 12:21 PM �Firefox 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-3rd--201... V trl rP ~1.~ 1 ·r. Dr__. Contact Us: E-mail: enidpride@yohoo.com Coll: 1-800-878-5298 Like us on Focebook J event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet r - m= E."nidLGBT ~ Coalition Enid Pride 2014 Saturday, September 20th, 2014; 12:00 - 6:00 pm Government Springs Park 600 E Garriotte, Enid, OK 73702 For more info, visit Facebook, email enidpride@yahoo.com enidlgbtcoalition.org or call 1.800.878.5298 Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org 1st Annual Gay Pride River Festival Friday, September 26 - Sunday, September 28th September 26 - 28 Sparrow Hawk Camp & TahlEQUALITY will host their first annual Gay Pride River Festival. Our family is proud to be apart of an event that welcomes the diversity of our LGBTQ2 community Contact the Sparrow Hawk Camp office to reserve your camp site. For $35/per person, you can reserve the entire weekend of tent camping & a 6 mile pride float anytime for 8:00 am till noon (last bus out is noon) on Saturday the 27th. This includes live music, karaoke, and a world class theatrical drag show on Saturday evening at 8:00 pm. Please call and reserve your tickets today! $35 @ Camp $37.50 Phone Orders $30 (additional) RV sites- please make reservations. For reservation call: 918.456.8371 EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 4/23/26, 12:21 PM �Firefox 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-3rd--201... Halloween 2014 Saturday, October 25th through Saturday, November 1st Oklahomans for Equality will turn the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center into a haunted house this Halloween for an entire week. We need volunteers for our haunted horror show. You need to be available for upcoming planning meetings and anytime between 4:00 pm and 12:00 am during Halloween week. Email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org with your --contact info and we will let you know when planning meetings begin in September. Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm LGB Well-being and Parental Relationships Survey An OSU research study survey is currently being conducted on the influence parental relationships have on LGB individual well-being. You may participate if you are at least 18 years of age and identify as lesbian, gay, or bisexual and reside in the United States. The survey takes, on average, 20 minutes. Survey Link: https://okstatecoe.az1.qualtrics.com/SE/? SID=SV_3K9dW0lGcSFUvHL Reframing Positive: Tulsa CARES PhotoVoice Exhibition Exhibit runs from September 15th through October 3rd •••• tulsacar~~ Tulsa Community College Center for Creavitity 910 S Boston Ave Tulsa Community College's Center for Creativity and Tulsa CARES present Reframing Positive: Tulsa CARES PhotoVoice Exhibition. The exhibit will feature photography created by Tulsa CARES clients living with HIV and AIDS. This powerful exhibition highlights the struggles, triumphs, and daily lives of this often-marginalized community. Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Exhibit runs September 15 - October 3, 2014 at Tulsa Community College's Center for Creativity 910 South Boston Avenue For more information, visit www.tulsacc.edu/centerforcreativity 4/23/26, 12:21 PM �Firefox 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-3rd--201... Equality Center Pride Store New in the Pride Store, Oklahomo mugs available for $10. Good for your morning coffee or for your desk to hold pens and pecils. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Adam' by Ariel Schrag You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center When Adam Freedman - a skinny, awkward, inexperienced teenager from Piedmont, California - goes to stay with his older sister Casey in New York City, he is hopeful that his life is about to change. And it sure does. It is the summer of 2006. Gay marriage and transgender rights are in the air, and Casey has thrust herself into a wild lesbian subculture. Soon Adam is tagging along to underground clubs, where there are hot older women everywhere he turns. It takes some time for him to realize that many in this new crowd assume he is trans-a boy who was born a girl. Why else would this baby-faced guy always be around? Then Adam meets Gillian, the girl of his dreams - but she couldn't possibly be interested in him. Unless passing as a trans guy might actually work in his favor . . . Ariel Schrag's scathingly funny and poignant debut novel puts a fresh spin on questions of love, attraction, self-definition, and what it takes to be at home in your own skin. 4/23/26, 12:21 PM �Firefox 11 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-3rd--201... Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Volunt r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! TU SA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 12:21 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/ccccc278e70f762469b009750945496d.pdf 2932c0415467ae2d9449ce1dbfbf14a7 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-10th--20... eNews September 10th, 2014 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Board of Directors Transforming Hate Equality Business Alliance Welcome to the eNews. The annual OkEq Membership meeting will be Thursday, September 25th, 2014 with Board election voting ending at the 7:00 pm start time. Revisions to the OkEq Bylaws will also be voted on by the membership at this meeting. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Gay Softball World Series TMSL Ballroom Pride Series Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group Hedwig and the Angry Inch The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Plexus Slim DVIS Presentation Fair - Housing - - - -Survey --Broken Heart Land Ask me for FREE sample!!! EBA Sponsor Enid Pride 2014 TahlEQUALITY All natural products for diabetics, weight loss, pain, GI issues and skin conditions. www.plexusslim.com/robinlabutti T: (918) 361-4188 E: robin labutti@Cox.net lose weight • Get Ill • Improve performance • Increase energy Tulsa CARES PhotoVoice Exhibit Acting Class for Kids SAGE Tulsa Halloween Oklahomans for Equality Annual Meeting and Board of Directors Elections OK Mister Leather 2015 Euphoria Bullying Conference Computer Boot Camp Spirit Day Halloween 2014 OSU Survey Drag Bingo Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer OkEq Board 2013 - 2014 The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 25th, 2014 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, eight Board of Director spaces are up for election. Revisions to the OkEq Bylaws will also be voted on by the membership at this meeting. Find Us on Facebook To review the candidates up for nomination, you may view their bios on the OkEq website here. 4/23/26, 12:22 PM �Firefox 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-10th--20... Current members may cast their ballots in the following ways: • Current members may cast their written ballots in-person before the OkEq annual meeting on Thursday, September 25th, 2014. All voting must occur before 7:00 pm • Beginning at 12:00 pm Thursday, September 18th, 2014 through Thursday, September 25th, 2014 before 7:00 pm, current members may come to the Equality Center during regular operating hours (Opening at 12:00 pm) to cast an absentee ballot • Current members may also request that a ballot be mailed to them by calling Lucas Green at 918.743.4297 Monday through Friday between 10 am and 6 pm or by requesting an electronic ballot by contacting Lucas.Green@OkEq.org (Requested ballots will be sent out after the Petition Nomination deadline of September 10th, 2014). Ballots may be returned by fax to 918.295.6885. All requested ballots must be received no later than September 24th, 2014 OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, September 11th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. • Online voting will be made available after September 10th, 2014. Oklahomans for Equality P.O. Box 2687 Tulsa, OK 74101 Transforming Hate: A Creative Process Call for Submissions OkEq Art Exhibit The September exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Steve Tomlin. ________ The Oklahomans for Equality art gallery will be mounting a special group exhibit in January 2015 called Transforming Hate: A Creative Process... and YOU are invited to submit work for consideration. This themed show will compliment a traveling exhibit at Living Arts of Tulsa, called "Speaking Volumes: Transforming Hate"... wherein 60 artists literally created art works from 4000 volumes of white supremacist bibles and other books of hate speech. To read more about this exhibit and see some of the work go to http://www.speakingvolumes.net/ Living Arts has invited OkEq, as well as other organizations in Tulsa, to participate in opening a community wide conversation, in the hope of discovering new and creative ways that we might transform hate and begin a healing process. The exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Gallery will showcase in January 2015. For information on how to submit your work, visit okeq.org/art-gallery Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 12:22 PM �Firefox 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-10th--20... Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The September Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, September 17th, 2014 at 6:00 pm. Hosted by Tulsa Plastic Surgery, 6585 S. Yale, Suite 315, Tulsa, OK 74136. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. ~!,, c S rgery Tulsa Plastic Surgery 6585 S Yale, Suite 315 Tulsa, OK 74136 Tulsa Metro Softball Teams head to the Gay Softball World Series in Dallas, TX Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8586 Three Tulsa Metro Softball League will represent at the Gay Softball World Series 2014 in Dallas TX. This is the 4th World Series TMSL has participated in. The teams will travel to Dallas September 21st - 27th. www.tulsametrosoftball.com Counseling Services Representing D Division is the Renegades Tulsa Twisters (in green) and the T-Town Zealers (in red) Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 12:22 PM �Firefox 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-10th--20... Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Representing C Division is the Oklahoma Rampage Tulsa Metro Softball League 2014 Fall Ball Registration is now open - - --- This year's Tulsa Metro Softball League Fall season will be a short 4 week season beginning Sunday, October 5th, and ending on Sunday, October 26th. So you are guaranteed to play 2 games each weekend. Games will be played at TMSL normal scheduled times from 1:00 pm - 4:00 pm. Member dues this season will be $30. Once again this year, you are allowed to sign up with a partner or two to join you in the fun of Fall Ball. SOS Group TMSL is also bringing back the Fall Ball Referral Program, where if you recruit a new member (a member who has never played in TMSL leagues), then you will receive $10 off your dues! So refer 3 new friends, you will play for free! Sign up at tulsametrosoftball.com/leagues/softball Ballroom Pride Series - Beginning Cha Cha Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org 4 week class starting on Friday September 12th; 7:00 pm Ballroom Blitz 4960D S 83rd E Ave Tulsa, OK 74145 D111 nnnM UMLLRUUI DI IT7 ULI 1'- Equality Business Alliance member, Ballroom Blitz will present a progressive 4 week series of classes especially for the LGBT community and allies with a Beginning Cha Cha class. Diana Easter will teach the 4 week series starting on Friday, September 12th at 7:00 pm. The cost for the 4 week series will be $32 and must have 8 students to hold the class. Students must join before or at the first class. For more information, visit www.ballroomblitzok.com or click here to sign up. Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by 4/23/26, 12:22 PM �Firefox 5 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-10th--20... Every Tuesday at 6:30 pm; 1st Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm Yolanda Arnold Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will be hosting the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of all that we do in Shambhala Meditation Training. This ancient practice of self-discovery is rooted in the simple but revolutionary premise that every human being has the ability to cultivate the mind's inherent stability, clarity and strength in order to be more awake and to develop the compassion and insight necessary to care for oneself and the world genuinely. For more information please visit tulsa.shambhala.org or email shambhalatulsa@gmail.com 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Hedwig and the Angry Inch Friday, Sept 26th at 10:30 pm & Saturday, Sept 27th at 11:55 pm Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave Graveyard Shift proudly presents a 35mm print of the 2001 post-punk, neoglam rock musical HEDWIG AND THE ANGRY INCH! Sponsored by Oklahomans for Equality, HEDWIG tells the story of a transgender rock songstress through award-winning songs composed by Stephen Trask. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Purchase tickets here. Don't miss this rare opportunity to see it in 35mm! Sexual Assault: Handle with Care Tuesday, September 23rd, 2014; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center On Tuesday, September 23rd, DVIS (Domestic Violence Intervention Services) will host a presentation called: Sexual Assualt: Handle With Care. The presentation will teach the attendees how to handle the first outcry of sexual assault. The presentation will be free and open to the public. DVIS Ca11RAPE - .... Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Servoce, and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders Fair Housing in Tulsa Survey Survey ends November 3rd, 2014 Tulsa Area Prime Timers 4/23/26, 12:22 PM �Firefox 6 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-10th--20... The City of Tulsa is conducting a confidential survey for feedback on whether the city has barriers to fair housing. The survey will be part of a study on Tulsa's fair housing choices, a study required by the U.S. Department of Housing and Urban Development. The survey is available in English and Spanish by following this link here. Broken Heart Land Screening on Thursday, October 16th, 2014; 6:30 pm OSU - Tulsa Auditorium 700 N Greenwood Ave 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Oklahomans for Equality, H.O.P.E. (Health, Outreach, Prevention, Education), Tulsa CARES and PFLAG Tulsa are presenting a screening of the documentary film, Broken Heart Land, on Thursday, October 16th at 6:30 pm at OSU - Tulsa Auditorium, 700 N Greenwood Ave. A panel featuring subjects from the film will be conducted after the screening. This event is free and open to the public. Broken Heart Land, a conservative Oklahoma family is shattered when their gay teenage son commits suicide after a bitterly controversial town meeting discussing a proposal for Gay and Lesbian History Month. In their search to unravel the mystery behind his death, they discover a tragic secret, and begin to question their own civic responsibility as they undergo a harrowing transformation from private citizens to public defenders of their son's legacy. For more information on the film, visit brokenheartland.com For more information about the event, contact Bruce Lewis at 918.834.4194 or by email at brucel@tulsacares.org Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 4:00 pm. Gender Outreach 4/23/26, 12:22 PM �Firefox 7 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-10th--20... Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Enid Pride 2014 Saturday, September 20th, 2014; 12:00 - 6:00 pm [J1ltl 5 ) ;',&,4,~ Game Night Qr__,( Contact Us: E-mail: enidpride@yohoo.com Coll: 1-800-878-5298 Like us on Focebook //?£ nid LGBT ~ Coalition Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Enid Pride 2014 Saturday, September 20th, 2014; 12:00 - 6:00 pm Government Springs Park 600 E Garriotte, Enid, OK 73702 For more info, visit Facebook, email enidpride@yahoo.com enidlgbtcoalition.org or call 1.800.878.5298 1st Annual Gay Pride River Festival Friday, September 26th - Sunday, September 28th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next 4/23/26, 12:22 PM �Firefox 8 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-10th--20... event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet September 26th - 28th Sparrow Hawk Camp & TahlEQUALITY will host their first annual Gay Pride River Festival. Our family is proud to be apart of an event that welcomes the diversity of our LGBTQ2 community Contact the Sparrow Hawk Camp office to reserve your camp site. For $35/per person, you can reserve the entire weekend of tent camping & a 6 mile pride float anytime for 8:00 am till noon (last bus out is noon) on Saturday the 27th. This includes live music, karaoke, and a world class theatrical drag show on Saturday evening at 8:00 pm. Please call and reserve your tickets today! $35 @ Camp $37.50 Phone Orders $30 (additional) RV sites- please make reservations. For reservation call: 918.456.8371 Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org Reframing Positive: Tulsa CARES PhotoVoice Exhibition Exhibit runs from September 15th through October 3rd tulsacari~ Tulsa Community College Center for Creavitity 910 S Boston Ave Tulsa Community College's Center for Creativity and Tulsa CARES present Reframing Positive: Tulsa CARES PhotoVoice Exhibition. The exhibit will feature photography created by Tulsa CARES clients living with HIV and AIDS. This powerful exhibition highlights the struggles, triumphs, and daily lives of this often-marginalized community. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Exhibit runs September 15 - October 3, 2014 at Tulsa Community College's Center for Creativity 910 South Boston Avenue For more information, visit www.tulsacc.edu/centerforcreativity Acting Class for Kids Free Preview class on Thursday, September 18th; 5:00 - 6:00 pm Regular class starts Thursday, September 25th: 5:00 - 6:00 pm Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 4/23/26, 12:22 PM �Firefox 9 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-10th--20... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Join Professional Actor Chris Middlebrook to learn all about Acting on Stage, for TV and Commercials. Chris Middlebrook got his start in the Andrew Lloyd Webber Musical "Whistle Down the Wind" and now runs his own entertainment company here in Tulsa. He has performed all over the world as a Singer and Actor and works for Tulsa's only professional Equity company Tulsa Project Theatre. Presented by BAM Entertainment. Come to the Free Preview class on Thursday, September 18th, at the Equality Center. For more information, call Chris at 918.899.8819 or email Info@BamTulsa.com or visit www.bamtulsa.com. SAGE Tulsa Halloween Party Tuesday, October 28th, 2014; 10:00 am SAGE Tulsa will have their Halloween party and costume contest on Tuesday, October 28th. The group will meet at the Equality Center at 10:00 am and then head to the party location. FOr more information, email SAGE@OkEq.org Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahoma Mister Leather 2015 October 17th - 19th, 2014 Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit TulsaLeather.com Euphoria: Benefit Fashion Show Saturday, October 4th, 2014; 6:30 pm 4/23/26, 12:22 PM �Firefox 10 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-10th--20... A team of local fashion entities and restaurants that share a dream of helping a good cause as well as keeping Tulsa looking sharp have joined forces to create the fashion event "Euphoria." The event will be held on Saturday, October 4th, 2014 at Mixed Company Bar located in Downtown Tulsa. The fashion show will be raising funds for H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach Prevention Education) and paying a special tribute to the late Mikal Hunt. Hll&JordanStudlo "' p, I & a & MT I - :;•: . . . . . . . . . Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ---- • 111 1 1111!1 11111 111111111111111 1 7 Tickets in advance are $25 and $30 at the door which opens at 5:00 pm. The event starts at 6:30 pm. Attendees are urged to come early. Tickets can be purchased at here. Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org --- Participants include On A Whim Tulsa, Hill&Jordan Studios LLC. Dilly Deli, Mixed Company, and Zanmai. Mixed Company is located at 3rd and Denver near the BOK Center in Tulsa, OK. For more information visit www.hillandjordanstudios.com Bullying Prevention Conference Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org ----- Saturday, October 11th, 2014; 9:00 am - 3:00 pm Wilson Teaching and Learning Academy 2710 E 11th Street Tulsa, OK 74104 Bullying Prevention Conference Saturday, October 11th 2014 - 9:00 am to 3:00 pm Wilson Teaching and Learning Academy Free Admission for All - Educators, Parents, & Secondary Students Students, parent and educators will learn about: • School climate issues • Bullying and suicide • Local prevention programs • School based initiviative • Prevention and intervention • Cyberbullying For more information or to register, visit preventbullyingtulsa.org Computer Boot Camp Saturdays, Class starts soon The world is changing and you refuse to be left behind. And you want to be able to email your friends and family members or even show your grandkids a couple of tricks that you've learned on the computer. You want to be able to 4/23/26, 12:22 PM �Firefox 11 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-10th--20... use the Internet to search on topics that are important to you - the latest health information, what's happening in the world, or what the headlines are in the city. Class size will be limited to 9. For more information or to reserve your spot, please contact Mary Jones at 918.743.4297 or Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Spirit Day - October 16th Millions go purple on Spirit Day in a stand against bullying and to show their support for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) youth. Observed annually since 2010, individuals, schools, organizations, corporations, and public figures wear purple, which symbolizes 'spirit' on the rainbow flag. Pledge to go purple here --- --- - -- ----- Halloween 2014 Saturday, October 25th through Saturday, November 1st Oklahomans for Equality will turn the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center into a haunted house this Halloween for an entire week. We need volunteers for our haunted horror show. You need to be available for upcoming planning meetings and anytime between 4:00 pm and 12:00 am during Halloween week. Email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org if you would like to volunteer. First planning meeting will be Sunday, September 28th at 2:00 pm at the Equality Center. 4/23/26, 12:22 PM �Firefox 12 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-10th--20... Trans-sition Research Study Researchers at the University of Texas are seeking trans* identified individuals who intend to begin transition, those who have already begun transition, and those who identify as having completed transition. This study will look at personal experiences of individuals before, during, and after transition. Please use the above link to provide your contact information. You will then be sent a short questionnaire to determine eligibility. Eligible participants will be contacted to schedule an in-person or phone interview. For questions, please contact: Dr. Julie Nagoshi, School of Social Work, University of Texas at Arlington julienagoshi@uta.edu Survey Link: https://okstatecoe.az1.qualtrics.com/SE/? SID=SV_3K9dW0lGcSFUvHL 10th Annual Drag Bingo Saturday, September 20th, 2014; 6:30 pm Don't forget the 10th Anniversary of Drag Queen Bingo is September 20th. You can get tickets at helpinghandsfoundation14.org Select web store and make your selection. This year we are having cocktail party starting at 6:30 pm for everyone. And a VIP dinner starting at 6:00 pm for those who have purchased a 600.00 table. Equality Center Pride Store New in the Pride Store, Oklahomo mugs available for $10. Good for your morning coffee or for your desk to hold pens and pecils. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 4/23/26, 12:22 PM �Firefox 13 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-10th--20... Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Hancock Park' by Katherine V. Forrest You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center When Detective Kate Delafield and her partner, Detective Joe Cameron, get the call to investigate a homicide in the secluded, oldmoney neighborhood of Hancock Park, Kate has the feeling it s not going to be murder as usual. Her hunch is correct. A cultured, refined mother of three, Victoria Talbot is the last person you'd expect to die by gunshot, execution-style. At first the finger of guilt seems to point at the victim s ex-husband Douglas, and everyone involved from the authorities to his own children are more than willing to suspect him. But for Kate, the easy way has rarely been proven the right way, and there are too many unanswered questions that suggest not all is at it seems with this dysfunctional family. Now, Douglas Talbot is on trial for his life, Kate s lover Aimee has disappeared to God-knows-where, and Kate must piece together a deadly puzzle of secrets and lies... Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library ~ ol nt ru r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I ~----------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 12:22 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/cef9f166e80f9b56b58eacee1e696761.pdf 4f763fa6b0ad3caa0bc4a3c788a621ff PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... eNews September 17th, 2014 In This Issue Give A Day EBA Sponsor Board of Directors Equality Business Alliance Welcome to the eNews. The annual OkEq Membership meeting will be Thursday, September 25th, 2014 with Board election voting ending at the 7:00 pm start time. Revisions to the OkEq Bylaws will also be voted on by the membership at this meeting. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Gay Softball World Series TMSL Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group Hedwig and the Angry Inch DVIS Presentation Be Our Voice, Give a Day Fair Survey -Housing ----- - In honor of Nancy Eggen for all the outstanding work she has done for the LGBT community, and for officiating their wedding, Rebekah Herrick and Lori Franklin have made a donation to OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign and are sponsoring Oklahomans for Equality for the day of September 23rd, 2014. Thank You Nancy and Congratulations Rebekah and Lori! Broken Heart Land LGBT Shirt Quilt Enid Pride 2014 TahlEQUALITY Computer Boot Camp Acting Class for Kids October First Thursday OUTlaw Legal Series Transforming Hate SAGE Tulsa Halloween Halloween 2014 Tulsa CARES PhotoVoice Exhibit Click here to commemorate your special day with OkEq's Our - -Be -- -Voice, - - - -Give - - -a-Day - -campaign -- - - OK Mister Leather 2015 Euphoria Bullying Conference Spirit Day OSU Survey The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Plexus Slim Drag Bingo Pride Store Ask me fo r FREE sample!!! Rainbow Library Volunteer T: (918)361-4188 All natural products for diabeti cs, weight loss , pain, GI issues and skin conditions. www.plexusslim.com/robinlabutti E: robin labutti@Cox.net Find Us on Facebook lose weight • Get Ill • Improve performance • Increase 1n1Jgy 4/23/26, 12:23 PM �Firefox 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... Oklahomans for Equality Annual Meeting and Board of Directors Elections - September 25th OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, October 16th, 7:00 pm OkEq Board 2013 - 2014 The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 25th, 2014 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, eight Board of Director spaces are up for election. Revisions to the OkEq Bylaws will also be voted on by the membership at this meeting. To review the candidates up for nomination, you may view their bios on the OkEq website here. Current members may cast their ballots in the following ways: • Current members may cast their written ballots in-person before the OkEq annual meeting on Thursday, September 25th, 2014. All voting must occur before 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. OkEq Art Exhibit The September exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Steve Tomlin. ________ • Current members may come to the Equality Center during regular operating hours (12:00 - 9:00 pm) to cast an absentee ballot • Current members may also request that a ballot be mailed to them by calling Lucas Green at 918.743.4297 Monday through Friday between 10 am and 6 pm or by requesting an electronic ballot by contacting Lucas.Green@OkEq.org. Ballots may be returned by fax to 918.295.6885. All requested ballots must be received no later than September 24th, 2014 • An online ballot has been made available on the OkEq website here. Your membership will be validated before the ballot is accepted. Online voting will end at 6:30 pm on Thursday, September 25th. Oklahomans for Equality P.O. Box 2687 Tulsa, OK 74101 Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 12:23 PM �Firefox 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The September Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, September 17th, 2014 at 6:00 pm. Hosted by Tulsa Plastic Surgery, 6585 S. Yale, Suite 315, Tulsa, OK 74136. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. ~!,, c S rgery Tulsa Plastic Surgery 6585 S Yale, Suite 315 Tulsa, OK 74136 Tulsa Metro Softball Teams head to the Gay Softball World Series in Dallas, TX Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8586 Three Tulsa Metro Softball League will represent at the Gay Softball World Series 2014 in Dallas TX. This is the 4th World Series TMSL has participated in. The teams will travel to Dallas September 21st - 27th. www.tulsametrosoftball.com Counseling Services Representing D Division is the Renegades Tulsa Twisters (in green) and the T-Town Zealers (in red) Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 12:23 PM �Firefox 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee Representing C Division is the Oklahoma Rampage Tulsa Metro Softball League 2014 Fall Ball Registration is now open This year's Tulsa Metro Softball League Fall season will be a short 4 week season beginning Sunday, October 5th, and ending on Sunday, October 26th. So you are guaranteed to play 2 games each weekend. Games will be played at TMSL normal scheduled times from 1:00 pm - 4:00 pm. Member dues this season will be $30. Once again this year, you are allowed to sign up with a partner or two to join you in the fun of Fall Ball. TMSL is also bringing back the Fall Ball Referral Program, where if you recruit a new member (a member who has never played in TMSL leagues), then you will receive $10 off your dues! So refer 3 new friends, you will play for free! Sign up at tulsametrosoftball.com/leagues/softball Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Every Tuesday at 6:30 pm; 1st Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will be hosting the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of all that we do in Shambhala Meditation Training. This ancient practice of self-discovery is rooted in the simple but revolutionary premise that every human being has the ability to cultivate the mind's inherent stability, clarity and strength in order to be more awake and to develop the compassion and insight necessary to care for oneself and Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by 4/23/26, 12:23 PM �Firefox 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... the world genuinely. For more information visit tulsa.shambhala.org or email shambhalatulsa@gmail.com please Hedwig and the Angry Inch Friday, Sept 26th at 10:30 pm & Saturday, Sept 27th at 11:55 pm Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave Graveyard Shift proudly presents a 35mm print of the 2001 post-punk, neoglam rock musical HEDWIG AND THE ANGRY INCH! Sponsored by Oklahomans for Equality, HEDWIG tells the story of a transgender rock songstress through award-winning songs composed by Stephen Trask. Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Purchase tickets here. Don't miss this rare opportunity to see it in 35mm! Sexual Assault: Handle with Care Tuesday, September 23rd, 2014; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center DVIS Ca11RAPE On Tuesday, September 23rd, DVIS (Domestic Violence Intervention Services) will host a presentation called: Sexual Assualt: Handle With Care. The presentation will teach the attendees ..._ how to handle the first outcry of sexual assault. D o _ v , . . _ _ The presentation will be free and open to the public. Please email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org if you would like to attend. --- Fair Housing in Tulsa Survey Survey ends November 3rd, 2014 The City of Tulsa is conducting a confidential survey for feedback on whether the city has barriers to fair housing. The survey will be part of a study on Tulsa's fair housing choices, a study required by the U.S. Department of Housing and Urban Development. The survey is available in English and Spanish by following this link here. Broken Heart Land SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Servoce, and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders Screening on Thursday, October 16th, 2014; 6:30 pm OSU - Tulsa Auditorium 700 N Greenwood Ave Oklahomans for Equality, H.O.P.E. (Health, Outreach, Prevention, Education), Tulsa CARES and PFLAG Tulsa are presenting a screening of the documentary film, Broken Heart Land, Tulsa Area Prime Timers 4/23/26, 12:23 PM �Firefox 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... on Thursday, October 16th at 6:30 pm at OSU - Tulsa Auditorium, 700 N Greenwood Ave. A panel featuring subjects from the film will be conducted after the screening. This event is free and open to the public. Broken Heart Land, a conservative Oklahoma family is shattered when their gay teenage son commits suicide after a bitterly controversial town meeting discussing a proposal for Gay and Lesbian History Month. In their search to unravel the mystery behind his death, they discover a tragic secret, and begin to question their own civic responsibility as they undergo a harrowing transformation from private citizens to public defenders of their son's legacy. 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 For more information on the film, visit brokenheartland.com For more information about the event, contact Bruce Lewis at 918.834.4194 or by email at brucel@tulsacares.org LGBT Pride T-Shirt Quilt Project For the 35th Anniversary of Oklahomans for Equality, a quilt project has been started to make a quilt from of all kinds of LGBT related shirts. Pride would be best, but we welcome any and all LGBT shirts. Quality is not important since they will be cut up anyway. Get F.I.T. ~k 4~ TULSA PRIDE 2010 >OYEN<SOFC<U:UAATl"OP<OO< Please bring your shirts to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center anytime between 12:00 pm and 9:00 pm Monday through Saturday. Enid Pride 2014 Saturday, September 20th, 2014; 12:00 - 6:00 pm ACA Assistance {111tZ 9)1~' ......, .C r ..,, ( Contact Us: E-mail: enidpride@yohoo.com Coll: 1-800-878-5298 Like us on Focebook - lff-e nid ~(,BT ~ Coaht1on Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. r Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 4:00 pm. Gender Outreach 4/23/26, 12:23 PM �Firefox 7 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... Enid Pride 2014 Saturday, September 20th, 2014; 12:00 - 6:00 pm Government Springs Park 600 E Garriotte, Enid, OK 73702 For more info, visit Facebook, email enidpride@yahoo.com enidlgbtcoalition.org or call 1.800.878.5298 1st Annual Gay Pride River Festival Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Friday, September 26th - Sunday, September 28th Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm September 26th - 28th Sparrow Hawk Camp & TahlEQUALITY will host their first annual Gay Pride River Festival. Our family is proud to be apart of an event that welcomes the diversity of our LGBTQ2 community Contact the Sparrow Hawk Camp office to reserve your camp site. For $35/per person, you can reserve the entire weekend of tent camping & a 6 mile pride float anytime for 8:00 am till noon (last bus out is noon) on Saturday the 27th. This includes live music, karaoke, and a world class theatrical drag show on Saturday evening at 8:00 pm. Please call and reserve your tickets today! $35 @ Camp $37.50 Phone Orders $30 (additional) RV sites- please make reservations. For reservation call: 918.456.8371 Computer Boot Camp Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Sundays, Starting September 28th; 12:30 pm The world is changing and you refuse to be left behind. And you want to be able to email your friends and family members or even show your grandkids a couple of tricks that you've learned on the computer. You want to be able to use the Internet to search on topics that are important to you - the latest health information, what's happening in the world, or what the headlines are in the city. Class size will be limited to 9. For more information or to reserve your spot, please contact Mary Jones at 918.743.4297 or Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Acting Class for Kids Free Preview class on Thursday, September 18th; 5:00 - 6:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next 4/23/26, 12:23 PM �Firefox 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... Regular class starts Thursday, September 25th: 5:00 - 6:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Join Professional Actor Chris Middlebrook to learn all about Acting on Stage, for TV and Commercials. Chris Middlebrook got his start in the Andrew Lloyd Webber Musical "Whistle Down the Wind" and now runs his own entertainment company here in Tulsa. He has performed all over the world as a Singer and Actor and works for Tulsa's only professional Equity company Tulsa Project Theatre. Presented by BAM Entertainment. event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Come to the Free Preview class on Thursday, September 18th, at the Equality Center. For more information, call Chris at 918.899.8819 or email Info@BamTulsa.com or visit www.bamtulsa.com. October First Thursday Art Show Thursday, October 2nd, 2014; 6:00 pm The October OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Ann and Chuck Tomlins, in a show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, October 2nd from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org OUTlaw Legal Series Wednesday, October 8th, 2014; 7:00 pm The time has now come for "Marriage Equality" to go to the Supreme Court. The OUTlaw Legal Series will discuss the latest news on the Oklahoma Marriage Equality Lawsuit. On Wednesday, October 8th at 7:00 pm. Please bring your questions and thoughts for our legal expert Conor Cleary, Esq. Transforming Hate: A Creative Process Call for Submissions The Oklahomans for Equality art gallery will be mounting a special group exhibit in January 2015 called Transforming Hate: A Creative Process... and YOU are invited to submit work for consideration. This themed show will compliment a traveling exhibit at Living Arts of Tulsa, called "Speaking Volumes: Transforming Hate"... wherein 60 artists literally created art works from 4000 volumes of white supremacist bibles and other books of hate speech. To read more about this exhibit and see some of the work go to http://www.speakingvolumes.net/ EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 4/23/26, 12:23 PM �Firefox 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... Living Arts has invited OkEq, as well as other organizations in Tulsa, to participate in opening a community wide conversation, in the hope of discovering new and creative ways that we might transform hate and begin a healing process. The exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Gallery will showcase in January 2015. For information on how to submit your work, visit okeq.org/art-gallery Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. SAGE Tulsa Halloween Party Tuesday, October 28th, 2014; 10:00 am SAGE Tulsa will have their Halloween party and costume contest on Tuesday, October 28th. The group will meet at the Equality Center at 10:00 am and then head to the party location. FOr more information, email SAGE@OkEq.org HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Halloween 2014 Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm Saturday, October 25th through Saturday, November 1st Oklahomans for Equality will turn the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center into a haunted house this Halloween for an entire week. We need volunteers for our haunted horror show. You need to be available for upcoming planning meetings and anytime between 4:00 pm and 12:00 am during Halloween week. Email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org if you would like to volunteer. First planning meeting will be Sunday, September 28th at 2:00 pm at the Equality Center. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/23/26, 12:23 PM �Firefox 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ---- Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org --- Reframing Positive: Tulsa CARES PhotoVoice Exhibition Exhibit runs from September 15th through October 3rd •••• tulsacare~ Tulsa Community College Center for Creavitity 910 S Boston Ave Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org ---- Tulsa Community College's Center for Creativity and Tulsa CARES present Reframing Positive: Tulsa CARES PhotoVoice Exhibition. The exhibit will feature photography created by Tulsa CARES clients living with HIV and AIDS. This powerful exhibition highlights the struggles, triumphs, and daily lives of this often-marginalized community. Exhibit runs September 15 - October 3, 2014 at Tulsa Community College's Center for Creativity 910 South Boston Avenue For more information, visit www.tulsacc.edu/centerforcreativity Oklahoma Mister Leather 2015 October 17th - 19th, 2014 For more information, visit TulsaLeather.com Euphoria: Benefit Fashion Show Saturday, October 4th, 2014; 6:30 pm 4/23/26, 12:23 PM �Firefox 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... A team of local fashion entities and restaurants that share a dream of helping a good cause as well as keeping Tulsa looking sharp have joined forces to create the fashion event "Euphoria." The event will be held on Saturday, October 4th, 2014 at Mixed Company Bar located in Downtown Tulsa. The fashion show will be raising funds for H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach Prevention Education) and paying a special tribute to the late Mikal Hunt. Tickets in advance are $25 and $30 at the door which opens at 5:00 pm. The event starts at 6:30 pm. Attendees are urged to come early. Tickets can be purchased at here. Participants include On A Whim Tulsa, Hill&Jordan Studios LLC. Dilly Deli, Mixed Company, and Zanmai. Mixed Company is located at 3rd and Denver near the BOK Center in Tulsa, OK. For more information visit www.hillandjordanstudios.com Bullying Prevention Conference Saturday, October 11th, 2014; 9:00 am - 3:00 pm Wilson Teaching and Learning Academy 2710 E 11th Street Tulsa, OK 74104 Bullying Prevention Conference Saturday, October 11th 2014 - 9:00 am to 3:00 pm Wilson Teaching and Learning Academy Free Admission for All - Educators, Parents, & Secondary Students Students, parent and educators will learn about: • School climate issues • Bullying and suicide • Local prevention programs • School based initiviative • Prevention and intervention • Cyberbullying For more information or to register, visit preventbullyingtulsa.org Spirit Day - October 16th 4/23/26, 12:23 PM �Firefox 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... Millions go purple on Spirit Day in a stand against bullying and to show their support for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) youth. Observed annually since 2010, individuals, schools, organizations, corporations, and public figures wear purple, which symbolizes 'spirit' on the rainbow flag. Pledge to go purple here -- -- ----- Trans-sition Research Study Researchers at the University of Texas are seeking trans* identified individuals who intend to begin transition, those who have already begun transition, and those who identify as having completed transition. This study will look at personal experiences of individuals before, during, and after transition. Please use the above link to provide your contact information. You will then be sent a short questionnaire to determine eligibility. Eligible participants will be contacted to schedule an in-person or phone interview. For questions, please contact: Dr. Julie Nagoshi, School of Social Work, University of Texas at Arlington julienagoshi@uta.edu Survey Link: https://okstatecoe.az1.qualtrics.com/SE/? SID=SV_3K9dW0lGcSFUvHL 10th Annual Drag Bingo Saturday, September 20th, 2014; 6:30 pm Hyatt Regency Tulsa The 10th Anniversary of Drag Queen Bingo is September 20th. You can get tickets at helpinghandsfoundation14.org Select web store and make your selection. This year's cocktail party starts at 6:30 pm. And a VIP dinner starting at 6:00 pm for those who have purchased a 600.00 table. Equality Center Pride Store New in the Pride Store, Oklahomo mugs available for $10. Good for your morning coffee or for your desk to hold pens and pecils. 4/23/26, 12:23 PM �Firefox 13 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Shade: An Anthology of Fiction by Gay Men of African Descent' edited by Bruce Morrow and Charles Rowell You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center A gay African-American fiction anthology features works by award-winning authors and promising newcomers including A. Cinque+a6 Hick, Bil Wright, Larry Duplechan, and Jaime Manrique, and pays tribute to a range of cultural events. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/23/26, 12:23 PM �Firefox 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... •••~ .. Volunt er A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! fULSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r----------------------------------------------------~ I I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I I ~----------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 12:23 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/4714bacddb4b9112b53540bca6722b16.pdf 6929e861140addd908079dcef24b09bf PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-24th--20... eNews September 24th, 2014 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Board of Directors Equality Business Alliance Hedwig and the Angry Inch Welcome to the eNews. The annual OkEq Membership meeting will be Thursday, September 25th, 2014 with Board election voting ending at the 7:00 pm start time. Revisions to the OkEq Bylaws will also be voted on by the membership at this meeting. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Plexus Slim Gay Softball World Series TMSL A Murder of Storytellers Computer Boot Camp Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group Guys Dine Too Fair - Housing - - - -Survey --Broken Heart Land Ask me for FREE sample!!! LGBT Shirt Quilt TahlEQUALITY October First Thursday OUTlaw Legal Series T: (918) 361-4188 All natural prod ucts for diabeti cs , weight loss, pain, GI issues and skin conditions. www.pl•xusslim.com/robi nlabutti E: robinlabutti@Cox.n•t Lose we,ghl • Get flt • Improve performance • Increase 1nuuy Transforming Hate Acting Class for Kids Reiki Sessions Oklahomans for Equality Annual Meeting and Board of Directors Elections - September 25th SAGE Tulsa Halloween Halloween 2014 OK Mister Leather 2015 Spirit Day Bullying Conference 2015 Call for Art OUT OK Film Festival Euphoria Parish Church of St Jerome Miss Brookside OSU Survey OkEq Board 2013 - 2014 Pride Store Rainbow Library The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 25th, 2014 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, eight Board of Director spaces are up for election. Revisions to the OkEq Bylaws will also be voted on by the membership at this meeting. Volunteer To review the candidates up for nomination, you may view their bios on the OkEq website here. 4/23/26, 12:24 PM �Firefox 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-24th--20... Current members may their the following ----cast --ballots - -in- - -ways: -- Find Us on Facebook • Current members may cast their written ballots in-person before the OkEq annual meeting on Thursday, September 25th, 2014. All voting must occur before 7:00 pm • Current members may come to the Equality Center during regular operating hours (12:00 - 9:00 pm) to cast an absentee ballot • Current members may also request that a ballot be mailed to them by calling Lucas Green at 918.743.4297 Monday through Friday between 10 am and 6 pm or by requesting an electronic ballot by contacting Lucas.Green@OkEq.org. Ballots may be returned by fax to 918.295.6885. All requested ballots must be received no later than September 24th, 2014 • An online ballot has been made available on the OkEq website here. Your membership will be validated before the ballot is accepted. Online voting will end at 6:30 pm on Thursday, September 25th. Oklahomans for Equality P.O. Box 2687 Tulsa, OK 74101 OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, October 16th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. OkEq Art Exhibit Equality Business Alliance The September exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Steve Tomlin. ________ Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The October Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, October 15th, 2014 at 6:00 pm. Hosted by The Garden Trug, 3009 E 101st St, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74137. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. the ar Tru nursery and gift shop The Garden Trug 3009 E 101st St Tulsa, OK 74137 Hedwig and the Angry Inch Friday, Sept 26th at 10:30 pm & Saturday, Sept 27th at 11:55 pm Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 4/23/26, 12:24 PM �Three Tulsa Metro Softball League will represent at the Gay Softball World Series 2014 in Dallas TX. This is the 4th World Series TMSL has participated in. The teams will travel to Dallas September 21st - 27th. www.tulsametrosoftball.com Tulsa Metro Softball Teams head to the Gay Softball World Series in Dallas, TX Purchase tickets here. Don't miss this rare opportunity to see it in 35mm! Graveyard Shift proudly presents a 35mm print of the 2001 post-punk, neoglam rock musical HEDWIG AND THE ANGRY INCH! Sponsored by Oklahomans for Equality, HEDWIG tells the story of a transgender rock songstress through award-winning songs composed by Stephen Trask. Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave l . , ' • -··• . ·""'-- .... •·~ , ... - • j •.I I .~. • ~ ., !!!!P'i' ~ ., ' ~ l • l\,A"' .t ....... ... ,. ~:\~~- ~ I ' ·J·~ ' ~ -· • - .. • ,:.. ' f\ \ , ' ...... ,I ' I -.:' -.,, ., 1 I -- ., . - ~ - I i I 6 ~ ,, .t . . ~iii >1.·· \.... ' # 'i ► ' Representing D Division is the Renegades Tulsa Twisters (in green) and the T-Town Zealers (in red) 4/23/26, 12:24 PM Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8586 Counseling Services Maybello@OkEq.org https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-24th--20.. .. I - --.• 3 of 14 Firefox • . �Firefox 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-24th--20... Counseling Services Representing C Division is the Oklahoma Rampage Tulsa Metro Softball League 2014 Fall Ball Registration is now open Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org This year's Tulsa Metro Softball League Fall season will be a short 4 week season beginning Sunday, October 5th, and ending on Sunday, October 26th. So you are guaranteed to play 2 games each weekend. Games will be played at TMSL normal scheduled times from 1:00 pm - 4:00 pm. Member dues this season will be $30. Once again this year, you are allowed to sign up with a partner or two to join you in the fun of Fall Ball. TMSL is also bringing back the Fall Ball Referral Program, where if you recruit a new member (a member who has never played in TMSL leagues), then you will receive $10 off your dues! So refer 3 new friends, you will play for free! Sign up at tulsametrosoftball.com/leagues/softball A Murder of Storytellers - Writing Group Beginning September 26th, Every Friday at 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Beginning on Friday, September 26th, A Murder of Storytellers will meet for a writing group at the Equality Center at 7:00 pm. As an indie publishing house, A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Everyone knows that a gathering of crows is called a murder, but in days past, it was also called a storytelling. So, let's gather, tell our stories, and murder those fears and errors that hold us back. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org --SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety 4/23/26, 12:24 PM �Firefox 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-24th--20... Computer Boot Camp Every other Sunday, Starting September 28th; 12:30 pm The world is changing and you refuse to be left behind. And you want to be able to email your friends and family members or even show your grandkids a couple of tricks that you've learned on the computer. You want to be able to use the Internet to search on topics that are important to you - the latest health information, what's happening in the world, or what the headlines are in the city. Class size will be limited to 9. For more information or to reserve your spot, please contact Mary Jones at 918.743.4297 or Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group Every Tuesday at 6:30 pm; 1st Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will be hosting the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of all that we do in Shambhala Meditation Training. This ancient practice of self-discovery is rooted in the simple but revolutionary premise that every human being has the ability to cultivate the mind's inherent stability, clarity and strength in order to be more awake and to develop the compassion and insight necessary to care for oneself and the world genuinely. For more information please visit tulsa.shambhala.org or email shambhalatulsa@gmail.com (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Guys Dine Too Tuesday, October 7th, 2014; 6:30 pm The October meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at India Palace on Tuesday, October 7th, 2014 at 6:30 pm. India Palace is located at 6963 S. Lewis Ave Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. Fair Housing in Tulsa Survey Survey ends November 3rd, 2014 The City of Tulsa is conducting a confidential survey for feedback on whether the city has barriers to fair housing. The survey will be part of a study on Tulsa's fair housing 4/23/26, 12:24 PM �Firefox 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-24th--20... choices, a study required by the U.S. Department of Housing and Urban Development. The survey is available in English and Spanish by following this link here. Broken Heart Land Screening on Thursday, October 16th, 2014; 6:30 pm OSU - Tulsa Auditorium 700 N Greenwood Ave SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Oklahomans for Equality, H.O.P.E. (Health, Outreach, Prevention, Education), Tulsa CARES and PFLAG Tulsa are presenting a screening of the documentary film, Broken Heart Land, on Thursday, October 16th at 6:30 pm at OSU - Tulsa Auditorium, 700 N Greenwood Ave. A panel featuring subjects from the film will be conducted after the screening. This event is free and open to the public. Serv,ces and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Broken Heart Land, a conservative Oklahoma family is shattered when their gay teenage son commits suicide after a bitterly controversial town meeting discussing a proposal for Gay and Lesbian History Month. In their search to unravel the mystery behind his death, they discover a tragic secret, and begin to question their own civic responsibility as they undergo a harrowing transformation from private citizens to public defenders of their son's legacy. For more information on the film, visit brokenheartland.com For more information about the event, contact Bruce Lewis at 918.834.4194 or by email at brucel@tulsacares.org --- LGBT Pride T-Shirt Quilt Project For the 35th Anniversary of Oklahomans for Equality, a quilt project has been started to make a quilt from of all kinds of LGBT related shirts. Pride would be best, but we welcome any and all LGBT shirts. Quality is not important since they will be cut up anyway. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 31<: ,. ?": ~ ~d';, 4,.~~ TULSA PRIDE ,,. ,...... 2010 Ol' CILEB""T"'O " '""" Please bring your shirts to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center anytime between 12:00 pm and 9:00 pm Monday through Saturday. 1st Annual Gay Pride River Festival Friday, September 26th - Sunday, September 28th Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an 4/23/26, 12:24 PM �Firefox 7 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-24th--20... environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance September 26th - 28th Sparrow Hawk Camp & TahlEQUALITY will host their first annual Gay Pride River Festival. Our family is proud to be apart of an event that welcomes the diversity of our LGBTQ2 community Contact the Sparrow Hawk Camp office to reserve your camp site. For $35/per person, you can reserve the entire weekend of tent camping & a 6 mile pride float anytime for 8:00 am till noon (last bus out is noon) on Saturday the 27th. This includes live music, karaoke, and a world class theatrical drag show on Saturday evening at 8:00 pm. Please call and reserve your tickets today! $35 @ Camp $37.50 Phone Orders $30 (additional) RV sites- please make reservations. For reservation call: 918.456.8371 October First Thursday Art Show Thursday, October 2nd, 2014; 6:00 pm The October OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Ann and Chuck Tomlins, in a show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, October 2nd from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm OUTlaw Legal Series Wednesday, October 8th, 2014; 7:00 pm The time has now come for "Marriage Equality" to go to the Supreme Court. The OUTlaw Legal Series will discuss the latest news on the Oklahoma Marriage Equality Lawsuit. On Wednesday, October 8th at 7:00 pm. Please bring your questions and thoughts for our legal expert Conor Cleary, Esq. Please email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org to RSVP Transforming Hate: A Creative Process Call for Submissions Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by 4/23/26, 12:24 PM �Firefox 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-24th--20... The Oklahomans for Equality art gallery will be mounting a special group exhibit in January 2015 called Transforming Hate: A Creative Process... and YOU are invited to submit work for consideration. This themed show will compliment a traveling exhibit at Living Arts of Tulsa, called "Speaking Volumes: Transforming Hate"... wherein 60 artists literally created art works from 4000 volumes of white supremacist bibles and other books of hate speech. To read more about this exhibit and see some of the work go to http://www.speakingvolumes.net/ Living Arts has invited OkEq, as well as other organizations in Tulsa, to participate in opening a community wide conversation, in the hope of discovering new and creative ways that we might transform hate and begin a healing process. The exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Gallery will showcase in January 2015. For information on how to submit your work, visit okeq.org/art-gallery Acting Class for Kids Free Preview class on Thursday, September 25th; 5:00 - 6:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Join Professional Actor Chris Middlebrook to learn all about Acting on Stage, for TV and Commercials. Chris Middlebrook got his start in the Andrew Lloyd Webber Musical "Whistle Down the Wind" and now runs his own entertainment company here in Tulsa. He has performed all over the world as a Singer and Actor and works for Tulsa's only professional Equity company Tulsa Project Theatre. Presented by BAM Entertainment. Come to the Free Preview class on Thursday, September 25th, at the Equality Center. For more information, call Chris at 918.899.8819 or email Info@BamTulsa.com or visit www.bamtulsa.com. Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org Reiki Sessions By Appointment Dennis R Neill Equality Center Reiki - pronounced "ray-key" is a life energy balancing and stress reduction technique that uses chakra points for a non-impact healing session. Reiki promotes healing in countless areas including everything from physical injuries and aches, to mental and spiritual traumas and hurts, to overall balancing in life. It does not use or replace traditional medicine, but instead uses Universal Life Force Energy already inside us all to go to the areas of greatest need. The practitioner acts as a conduit to help the energy move more freely to those areas. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Held at the Equality Center, a session lasting approximately 1 1/2 hours is 4/23/26, 12:24 PM �Firefox 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-24th--20... $75 for non OkEq members and $50 for OkEq members. A sliding scale is also available. Monica Haney is a certified Reiki Practitioner and is happy to answer your call or text at 918.381.1656 SAGE Tulsa Hobo Halloween Party Tuesday, October 28th, 2014; 10:00 am SAGE Tulsa will have their Halloween party and a Hobo costume contest on Tuesday, October 28th. Prizes will be given for the best hobo costume. The group will meet at the Equality Center at 10:00 am and then head to the party location. For more information, email SAGE@OkEq.org Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Zombie House 2014 Saturday, October 25th through Saturday, November 1st Oklahomans for Equality will turn the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center into a haunted house this Halloween for an entire week. We need volunteers for our haunted horror show. You need to be available for upcoming planning meetings and anytime between 4:00 pm and 12:00 am during Halloween week. Email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org if you would like to volunteer. First planning meeting will be Sunday, September 28th at 2:00 pm at the Equality Center. Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/23/26, 12:24 PM �Firefox 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-24th--20... Oklahoma Mister Leather 2015 October 17th - 19th, 2014 Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ---- For more information, visit TulsaLeather.com Spirit Day - October 16th Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org --- Millions go purple on Spirit Day in a stand against bullying and to show their support for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) youth. Observed annually since 2010, individuals, schools, organizations, corporations, and public figures wear purple, which symbolizes 'spirit' on the rainbow flag. Pledge to go purple here ------ Bullying Prevention Conference Saturday, October 11th, 2014; 9:00 am - 3:00 pm Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org ----- Wilson Teaching and Learning Academy 2710 E 11th Street Tulsa, OK 74104 Bullying Prevention Conference Saturday, October 11th 2014 - 9:00 am to 3:00 pm Wilson Teaching and Learning Academy Free Admission for All - Educators, Parents, & Secondary Students . ~ _.,,..,...,,.,_,,..,,.,"'9,°""lch&m.,... Students, parent and educators will learn about: • School climate issues • Bullying and suicide • Local prevention programs • School based initiviative • Prevention and intervention • Cyberbullying For more information or to register, visit preventbullyingtulsa.org 2015 Call for Exhibition Proposals 4/23/26, 12:24 PM �Firefox 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-24th--20... Deadline is November 15th, 2014 The Art Gallery at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center is now accepting proposals for our monthly exhibits to fill the 2015 Exhibition Calendar. Each chosen exhibit will be on display for approximately 30 days. Our gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a paragraph or two about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 JPEG images which characterize your current work. Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable.. OkEq hosts an opening night reception for the artist(s), on the first Thursday of the month. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at close of opening night. Deadline for submissions is November 15th, 2014. Notifications will be sent out by December 1st, 2014. We still do have a "no repeat" policy, so will only consider proposals from those who have not previously exhibited in the gallery, (excepting MOREcolor participation) Please submit by e-mail to alliejensen@cox.net, - - - - with the subject heading "OkEq Gallery Proposal" OUT OK Film Festival November 14th, 15th & 16th, 2014 SAVE THE DATE Transformative. Engrossing. And totally Entertaining... There's an exciting and diverse world waiting to be explored during the latest edition of OUT OK, the Oklahoma GLBT International Film Festival. Join us November 14, 15, 16, 2014. Net proceeds benefit Oklahomans for Equality 4/23/26, 12:24 PM �Firefox 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-24th--20... Euphoria: Benefit Fashion Show Saturday, October 4th, 2014; 6:30 pm A team of local fashion entities and restaurants that share a dream of helping a good cause as well as keeping Tulsa looking sharp have joined forces to create the fashion event "Euphoria." The event will be held on Saturday, October 4th, 2014 at Mixed Company Bar located in Downtown Tulsa. The fashion show will be raising funds for H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach Prevention Education) and paying a special tribute to the late Mikal Hunt. Tickets in advance are $25 and $30 at the door which opens at 5:00 pm. The event starts at 6:30 pm. Attendees are urged to come early. Tickets can be purchased at here. Participants include On A Whim Tulsa, Hill&Jordan Studios LLC. Dilly Deli, Mixed Company, and Zanmai. Mixed Company is located at 3rd and Denver near the BOK Center in Tulsa, OK. For more information visit www.hillandjordanstudios.com Parish Church of St Jerome Upcoming Events Parish Church of St Jerome 205 W. King St. Tulsa, OK • Friday, September 26th, 6:30 pm - End of Summer Fun Celebration. A fundraiser for the church. Homemade chili and hotdogs will be served alongwith door prizes. Tickets are $25 • Sunday, September 28th, 11:00 am - "Feast of Title" celebrating our Patron Saint, Jerome. • Sunday, October 5th, 11:00 am - The honoring St. Francis and All of Creation with the Annual Blessing of the Animals. You are invited to bring pets to worship. For more information, visit www.stjerometulsa.org Miss Brookside 2015 Pageant Saturday, October 18th, 2014; 6:30 pm All Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S Peoria Ave The Miss Brookside Scholarship Pageant will select the new Miss Brookside 2015 and Miss Brookside's Outstanding Teen 2015 on October 18th, 2014, at All Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S Peoria Ave. The 4/23/26, 12:24 PM �Firefox 13 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-24th--20... pageant will be held at 6:30 p.m. and will include Interview, Talent, Evening Wear, On-Stage Question, and Lifestyle and Fitness in Swimsuit. New this year is the Brookside Stars Program. This program allows girls between the ages of 5 and 11 the chance to interact with the Brookside Queens, create a special craft, and appear on stage in a tiara with a Miss contestant. General Admission tickets are $15.00 and will be available at the door, early arrival is recommended. For more information visit www.MissBrooksidePageant.com facebook/MissBrooksidePageant and Trans-sition Research Study Researchers at the University of Texas are seeking trans* identified individuals who intend to begin transition, those who have already begun transition, and those who identify as having completed transition. This study will look at personal experiences of individuals before, during, and after transition. Please use the above link to provide your contact information. You will then be sent a short questionnaire to determine eligibility. Eligible participants will be contacted to schedule an in-person or phone interview. For questions, please contact: Dr. Julie Nagoshi, School of Social Work, University of Texas at Arlington julienagoshi@uta.edu Survey Link: https://okstatecoe.az1.qualtrics.com/SE/? SID=SV_3K9dW0lGcSFUvHL Equality Center Pride Store New in the Pride Store, Oklahomo mugs available for $10. Good for your morning coffee or for your desk to hold pens and pecils. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 4/23/26, 12:24 PM �Firefox 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-24th--20... Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Ride the Train' by Shannon Bozarth You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Do you want to ride the train?" Those words haunt Carla, whose son Jacob has just been diagnosed with the disease. The Party is coming to take him away to be cured, but long-standing rumors say there is no cure. There is only torment and torture before death at the hands of an uncaring government. The train offers hope, but will they survive long enough to escape the city? And what does the future hold in a country that is afraid of everyone that has the disease? Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r-----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L-----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 12:24 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/8cf74d87b1205bdbef8598f9591135a7.pdf 76f0d32701780079e2bb9baa3c90f6e5 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-1st--2014.... eNews October 1st, 2014 In This Issue Be Our Voice, Give a Day EBA Sponsor October First Thursday OUTlaw Legal Series Welcome to the eNews. For an entire week, from Saturday October 25th through Saturday November 1st, the Equality Center will be overrun with zombies! Test your courage and come by for a zombified tour! eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality My2024 Equality Business Alliance TMSL SAGE Tulsa Halloween Halloween 2014 Be Our Voice, Give a Day LGBT Shirt Quilt A Murder of Storytellers Computer Boot Camp Guys Dine Too Fair Housing SurveyBroken Heart Land Transforming Hate Reiki Sessions OK Mister Leather 2015 Spirit Day Bullying Conference 2015 Call for Art LGBT History Month OUT OK Film Festival Circle Cinema Euphoria Parish Church of St Jerome Miss Brookside Tulsa Interfaith Alliance OSU Survey Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 12:25 PM �Firefox 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-1st--2014.... In memory of her parents' 50th Wedding Anniversary, Kelley Parker has made a donation to OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign and is sponsoring Oklahomans for Equality for the day of October 2nd, 2014. Kelley's father Bob died on September 9th, 2013, and her mother Jody died on July 15th, 2014. Bob and Jody Parker were married on October 2nd 1964. OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, October 16th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. OkEq Art Exhibit The October exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Ann and Chuck Tomlins. ________ Click here to commemorate your special day with OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Plexus Slim Counseling Services Ask me for FREE sample!!! T: (918) 361-4188 All natural products for diabeti cs , weight loss, pain, GI issues and skin conditions. www.plexusslim.com/robi nlab utti E: robinlabutti@Cox.net Lose we,ghl • Git lit • Improve performance • lncrnsa 1naruy October First Thursday Art Show Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 12:25 PM �Firefox 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-1st--2014.... Thursday, October 2nd, 2014; 6:00 pm The October OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Ann and Chuck Tomlins, in a show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, October 2nd from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. OUTlaw Legal Series Wednesday, October 8th, 2014; 7:00 pm The time has now come for "Marriage Equality" to go to the Supreme Court. The OUTlaw Legal Series will discuss the latest news on the Oklahoma Marriage Equality Lawsuit. On Wednesday, October 8th at 7:00 pm. Please bring your questions and thoughts for our legal expert Conor Cleary, Esq. Please email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org to RSVP Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8586 My2024 Town Hall Event Wednesday, October 8th, 2014; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center What do you think is the future for the LGBT movement? Your future as a transgender, gay, lesbian, or bisexual person is the future of our movement. What do you think our lives might be like in 10 years in the year 2024? On Wednesday, October 8th, come by the Equality Center, join in a nationwide online game and share your hopes, your worries, and your wild predictions. Together, we'll create the My2024 Declaration for the Futures of the LGBT Movement. For more information on the nationwide My2024 event, visit www.my2024.us Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The October Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, October 15th, 2014 at 6:00 pm. Hosted by The Garden Trug, 3009 E 101st St, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74137. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to 4/23/26, 12:25 PM �Firefox 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-1st--2014.... Counseling Services everyone on your friends list. the ar Tru nursery and gift shop The Garden Trug 3009 E 101st St Tulsa, OK 74137 Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org Tulsa Metro Softball League 2014 Fall Ball Registration is now open This year's Tulsa Metro Softball League Fall season will be a short 4 week season beginning Sunday, October 5th, and ending on Sunday, October 26th. So you are guaranteed to play 2 games each weekend. Games will be played at TMSL normal scheduled times from 1:00 pm - 4:00 pm. Member dues this season will be $30. Once again this year, you are allowed to sign up with a partner or two to join you in the fun of Fall Ball. TMSL is also bringing back the Fall Ball Referral Program, where if you recruit a new member (a member who has never played in TMSL leagues), then you will receive $10 off your dues! So refer 3 new friends, you will play for free! Sign up at tulsametrosoftball.com/leagues/softball SAGE Tulsa Hobo Halloween Party Tuesday, October 28th, 2014; 10:00 am SAGE Tulsa will have their Halloween party and a Hobo costume contest on Tuesday, October 28th. Prizes will be given for the best hobo costume. The group will meet at the Equality Center at 10:00 am and then head to the party location. For more information, email SAGE@OkEq.org Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Zombie House 2014 Saturday, October 25th through Saturday, November 1st 4/23/26, 12:25 PM �Firefox 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-1st--2014.... Oklahomans for Equality will turn the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center into a haunted house this Halloween for an entire week. We need volunteers for our haunted horror show. You need to be available for upcoming planning meetings and anytime between 4:00 pm and 12:00 am during Halloween week. Email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org if you would like to volunteer. Next planning meeting will be Sunday, October 11th at 2:00 pm at the Equality Center. f I • . , - I Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop LGBT Pride T-Shirt Quilt Project 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather For the 35th Anniversary of Oklahomans for Equality, a quilt project has been started to make a quilt from of all kinds of LGBT related shirts. Pride would be best, but we welcome any and all LGBT shirts. Quality is not important since they will be cut up anyway. ti~ 4~ TULSA PRIDE 2010 Please bring your shirts to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center anytime between 12:00 pm and 9:00 pm Monday through Saturday. For more information, email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org A Murder of Storytellers - Writing Group Beginning September 26th, Every Friday at 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Beginning on Friday, September 26th, A Murder of Storytellers will meet for a writing group at the Equality Center at 7:00 pm. As an indie publishing house, A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 12:25 PM �Firefox 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-1st--2014.... As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Everyone knows that a gathering of crows is called a murder, but in days past, it was also called a storytelling. So, let's gather, tell our stories, and murder those fears and errors that hold us back. Facilitated by John Madigan sage Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesb,an, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Computer Boot Camp Every other Sunday, Next class on October 12th; 12:30 pm The world is changing and you refuse to be left behind. And you want to be able to email your friends and family members or even show your grandkids a couple of tricks that you've learned on the computer. You want to be able to use the Internet to search on topics that are important to you - the latest health information, what's happening in the world, or what the headlines are in the city. Class size will be limited to 9. For more information or to reserve your spot, please contact Mary Jones at 918.743.4297 or Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Guys Dine Too Tuesday, October 7th, 2014; 6:30 pm The October meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at India Palace on Tuesday, October 7th, 2014 at 6:30 pm. India Palace is located at 6963 S. Lewis Ave Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Fair Housing in Tulsa Survey Survey ends November 3rd, 2014 The City of Tulsa is conducting a confidential survey for feedback on whether the city has barriers to fair housing. The survey will be part of a study on Tulsa's fair housing choices, a study required by the U.S. Department of Housing and Urban Development. The survey is available in English and Spanish by following this link here. Broken Heart Land Screening on Thursday, October 16th, 2014; 6:30 pm OSU - Tulsa Auditorium 700 N Greenwood Ave Oklahomans for Equality, H.O.P.E. (Health, Outreach, Prevention, Education), Tulsa CARES and PFLAG Tulsa are presenting a screening of the Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 4/23/26, 12:25 PM �Firefox 7 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-1st--2014.... documentary film, Broken Heart Land, on Thursday, October 16th at 6:30 pm at OSU - Tulsa Auditorium, 700 N Greenwood Ave. A panel featuring subjects from the film will be conducted after the screening. This event is free and open to the public. Broken Heart Land, a conservative Oklahoma family is shattered when their gay teenage son commits suicide after a bitterly controversial town meeting discussing a proposal for Gay and Lesbian History Month. In their search to unravel the mystery behind his death, they discover a tragic secret, and begin to question their own civic responsibility as they undergo a harrowing transformation from private citizens to public defenders of their son's legacy. For more information on the film, visit brokenheartland.com For more information about the event, contact Bruce Lewis at 918.834.4194 or by email at brucel@tulsacares.org Transforming Hate: A Creative Process Call for Submissions The Oklahomans for Equality art gallery will be mounting a special group exhibit in January 2015 called Transforming Hate: A Creative Process... and YOU are invited to submit work for consideration. This themed show will compliment a traveling exhibit at Living Arts of Tulsa, called "Speaking Volumes: Transforming Hate"... wherein 60 artists literally created art works from 4000 volumes of white supremacist bibles and other books of hate speech. To read more about this exhibit and see some of the work go to http://www.speakingvolumes.net/ Living Arts has invited OkEq, as well as other organizations in Tulsa, to participate in opening a community wide conversation, in the hope of discovering new and creative ways that we might transform hate and begin a healing process. The exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Gallery will showcase in January 2015. For information on how to submit your work, visit okeq.org/art-gallery Reiki Sessions By Appointment Dennis R Neill Equality Center Reiki - pronounced "ray-key" is a life energy balancing and stress reduction technique that uses chakra points for a non-impact healing session. Reiki promotes healing in countless areas including everything from physical injuries and aches, to mental and spiritual traumas and hurts, to overall balancing in life. It does not use or replace traditional medicine, but instead uses 918.592.0088 Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 12:25 PM �Firefox 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-1st--2014.... Universal Life Force Energy already inside us all to go to the areas of greatest need. The practitioner acts as a conduit to help the energy move more freely to those areas. Held at the Equality Center, a session lasting approximately 1 1/2 hours is $75 for non OkEq members and $50 for OkEq members. A sliding scale is also available. Monica Haney is a certified Reiki Practitioner and is happy to answer your call or text at 918.381.1656 Oklahoma Mister Leather 2015 October 17th - 19th, 2014 For more information, visit TulsaLeather.com Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Spirit Day - October 16th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals Millions go purple on Spirit Day in a stand against bullying and to show their support for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) youth. Observed annually since 2010, individuals, schools, organizations, corporations, and public figures wear purple, which symbolizes 'spirit' on the rainbow flag. Pledge to go purple here ----- Bullying Prevention Conference Saturday, October 11th, 2014; 9:00 am - 3:00 pm Wilson Teaching and Learning Academy 2710 E 11th Street Tulsa, OK 74104 Bullying Prevention Conference Saturday, October 11th 2014 - 9:00 am to 3:00 pm Wilson Teaching and Learning Academy Free Admission for All - Educators, Parents, & Secondary Students Students, parent and educators will learn about: • School climate issues The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 12:25 PM �Firefox 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-1st--2014.... • Bullying and suicide • Local prevention programs • School based initiviative • Prevention and intervention • Cyberbullying Deadline is November 15th, 2014 EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. The Art Gallery at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center is now accepting proposals for our monthly exhibits to fill the 2015 Exhibition Calendar. Each chosen exhibit will be on display for approximately 30 days. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point For more information or to register, visit preventbullyingtulsa.org 2015 Call for Exhibition Proposals Our gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a paragraph or two about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 JPEG images which characterize your current work. Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable.. OkEq hosts an opening night reception for the artist(s), on the first Thursday of the month. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at close of opening night. Deadline for submissions is November 15th, 2014. Notifications will be sent out by December 1st, 2014. We still do have a "no repeat" policy, so will only consider proposals from those who have not previously exhibited in the gallery, (excepting MOREcolor participation) Please submit by e-mail to alliejensen@cox.net, with the subject heading "OkEq Gallery Proposal" October is LGBT History Month A new LGBT Icon will be featured every day of the month A new LGBT Icon will be featured every day LGBT History Month celebrates the achievements of 31 lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgender Icons. Beginning October 1st, 2014, a new LGBT Icon will be featured every day. October 1st - Richard Adams October 2nd - Faisal Alam October 3rd - Tallulah Bankhead Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing IIISIORY .\IO~TH Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides 4/23/26, 12:25 PM �Firefox 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-1st--2014.... October 4th - Natalie Barney October 5th - Allan B�rub� October 6th - Bernice Bing October 7th - Ivy Bottini To view videos and bios of the featured Icons, visit lgbthistorymonth.com OUT OK Film Festival November 14th, 15th & 16th, 2014 testing on Fridays 4:00 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. SAVE THE DATE Transformative. Engrossing. And totally Entertaining... There's an exciting and diverse world waiting to be explored during the latest edition of OUT OK, the Oklahoma GLBT International Film Festival. Join us November 14, 15, 16, 2014. www.out-ok.com Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Net proceeds benefit Oklahomans for Equality Upcoming Screenings at Circle Cinema Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave As part of the 10th Anniversary of Circle Cinema, the deadCENTER Film Festival will host a mini festival on Friday, October 3rd and Saturday October 4th. On the schedule is a screening of George Takei's "To Be Takei" on Friday, October 3rd at 9:00 pm. Over seven decades, actor and activist George Takei boldly journeyed from a WWII internment camp, to the helm of the Starship Enterprise, to the Howard Stern Show, to the daily news feeds of five million Facebook fans. For more information or to purchase your ticket now, visit here. Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 12:25 PM �Firefox 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-1st--2014.... "PRIDE" opens at Circle Cinema on Friday, October 17th. PRIDE is inspired by an extraordinary true story. It's the summer of 1984, Margaret Thatcher is in power and the National Union of Mineworkers is on strike, prompting a London-based group of gay and lesbian activists to raise money to support the strikers' families. Initially rebuffed by the Union, the group identifies a tiny mining village in Wales and sets off to make their donation in person. As the strike drags on, the two groups discover that standing together makes for the strongest union of all. For more information about PRIDE, visit www.cbsfilms.com/pride Euphoria: Benefit Fashion Show Saturday, October 4th, 2014; 6:30 pm A team of local fashion entities and restaurants that share a dream of helping a good cause as well as keeping Tulsa looking sharp have joined forces to create the fashion event "Euphoria." The event will be held on Saturday, October 4th, 2014 at Mixed Company Bar located in Downtown Tulsa. The fashion show will be raising funds for H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach Prevention Education) and paying a special tribute to the late Mikal Hunt. Tickets in advance are $25 and $30 at the door which opens at 5:00 pm. The event starts at 6:30 pm. Attendees are urged to come early. Tickets can be purchased at here. Participants include On A Whim Tulsa, Hill&Jordan Studios LLC. Dilly Deli, Mixed Company, and Zanmai. Mixed Company is located at 3rd and Denver near the BOK Center in Tulsa, OK. For more information visit www.hillandjordanstudios.com Parish Church of St Jerome Upcoming Events Parish Church of St Jerome 205 W. King St. Tulsa, OK • Sunday, October 5th, 11:00 am - The honoring St. Francis and All of Creation with the Annual Blessing of the Animals. You are invited to bring pets to worship. 4/23/26, 12:25 PM �Firefox 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-1st--2014.... ~t. f'ranei<D ~unday: 33 l ru;sing of th!Z '(ln imals Bring your pets to churchT Th!l Pari<Dh Chureh of ~a int J!Z,rom!Z, Sunday, October 5th at 11 am 205 W. King Street Tulsa, OK 74 106 www.stjerometulsa.org For more information, visit www.stjerometulsa.org Miss Brookside 2015 Pageant Saturday, October 18th, 2014; 6:30 pm All Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S Peoria Ave The Miss Brookside Scholarship Pageant will select the new Miss Brookside 2015 and Miss Brookside's Outstanding Teen 2015 on October 18th, 2014, at All Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S Peoria Ave. The pageant will be held at 6:30 p.m. and will include Interview, Talent, Evening Wear, On-Stage Question, and Lifestyle and Fitness in Swimsuit. New this year is the Brookside Stars Program. This program allows girls between the ages of 5 and 11 the chance to interact with the Brookside Queens, create a special craft, and appear on stage in a tiara with a Miss contestant. General Admission tickets are $15.00 and will be available at the door, early arrival is recommended. For more information visit www.MissBrooksidePageant.com facebook/MissBrooksidePageant and The Role of Faith in Health Care Decisions: Individuals, Groups and Government Thursday, October 9th, 2014; 7:00 pm The Tulsa Interfaith Alliance, in partnership with Phillips INTERFAITH ALLIANCE OF TULSA Theological Seminary and the PROTECTING FAITH AND FREEDOM Women's & Gender Studies Dept at the University of Tulsa, is hosting a community forum on the topic, "The Role of Faith in Health Care Decisions: Individuals, Groups and Government" on Thursday, October 9 at 7:00 pm in the Allen Chapman Student Union at the University of Tulsa. The Women's and Gender Studies Department is hosting a prereception starting at 6:30pm. The forum will consist of a moderated panel discussion by local, regional, and national experts in the field of health care ethics. Our moderator is Dr John Schumann. guest host of "Studio Tulsa" on radio station KWGS. Panelists include Marguerite Chapman (Professor Emeritus, TU School of Law), Ryan Kiesel (ED of ACLU-OK), Dr Mark Fox (Assoc Dean, 4/23/26, 12:25 PM �Firefox 13 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-1st--2014.... Community Health & Research Development, OU School of Community Medicine), and Monica Harrington (board member, Center for Reproductive Rights). For more information, or to submit questions to be considered by the panel, visit our Facebook event here or email tulsainterfaithalliance@gmail.com. Trans-sition Research Study Researchers at the University of Texas are seeking trans* identified individuals who intend to begin transition, those who have already begun transition, and those who identify as having completed transition. This study will look at personal experiences of individuals before, during, and after transition. Please use the above link to provide your contact information. You will then be sent a short questionnaire to determine eligibility. Eligible participants will be contacted to schedule an in-person or phone interview. For questions, please contact: Dr. Julie Nagoshi, School of Social Work, University of Texas at Arlington julienagoshi@uta.edu Survey Link: https://okstatecoe.az1.qualtrics.com/SE/? SID=SV_3K9dW0lGcSFUvHL Equality Center Pride Store Now in the Pride Store, Oklahomo mugs available for $10. Good for your morning coffee or for your desk to hold pens and pecils. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 4/23/26, 12:25 PM �Firefox 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-1st--2014.... Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Role Models' by John Waters You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Role Models is, in fact, a self-portrait told through intimate profiles of favorite personalitiessome famous, some unknown, some criminal, some surprisingly middle of the road. From Esther Martin, owner of the scariest bar in Baltimore, to the playwright Tennessee Williams; from the atheist leader Madalyn Murray O'Hair to the insane martyr Saint Catherine of Siena; from the English novelist Denton Welch to the timelessly appealing singer Johnny Mathis-these are the extreme figures who helped the author form his own brand of neurotic happiness. a-"'f-',....,!" ..., ,,..,J..,,,....q,J.J_~- Role Models is a personal invitation into one of the most unique, perverse, and hilarious artistic minds of our time. -J-'#,1,Jr-ft- Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library ,, ol int ru r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r-----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I ~-----------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 12:25 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/95b60d79cb469cd4f0536f498713ef2c.pdf 88b6f10dda1f4fdc2434e02741141085 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-9th--2014.html... eNews July 9th, 2014 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Volunteer of the Year National Gay Blood Drive Equality Business Alliance Welcome to the eNews. Make plans to attend the National Gay Blood Drive on Friday, July 11th. OkEq will hold the Tulsa event at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center from 2:00 - 7:00 pm. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality GET F.I.T. Board of Directors Mara Keisling Article Headline New Counseling Services The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time Grateful Day Foundation Gamily Ice Cream Social SAGE Tulsa Pool Party BARE: A Pop Opera Friend for a Friend Dinner First Thursday Art Show Back to School Carnival DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. Imperial Court of All Oklahoma LGBTI Youth Survey Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Oklahomans for Equality Volunteer of the Year Award dinner on Sunday, July 13th, 2014; 6:00 pm Find Us on Facebook OkEq Art Exhibit The July exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature 4/23/26, 12:10 PM �Firefox 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-9th--2014.html... the work of Susan Foust. ________ The door prize winner for July was Dale W. Counseling Services Andrew attending the Equality Gala 2014, is pictured with fellow volunteer Cait O'Darling and special guest Prince Manvendra Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will be presenting our Volunteer of the Year Award to Andrew Gordon at our first ever Volunteer Appreciation Dinner on Sunday, July 13th at 6:30 pm. The event will be called "Proud on the Prairie" and will be western themed. Hot dogs, hamburgers and tofu burgers will be grilled for dinner. Chasing Nadean will perform country classics for the event. RSVP to Mary.Jones@OkEq.org to attend. Attendees must have volunteered for OkEq. Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org Andrew Gordon has been a volunteer at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center since June of 2009. Andrew has dedicated himself to volunteer service for OkEq from the smallest tasks of stocking the soda machine to working all day at the Tulsa Pride events. Unknown to him, Andrew has even given tours of the Equality Center to Tulsa's top philanthropists. Andrew and his family have attended the annual Equality Gala since 2010. Along with Cait O'Darling, Andrew has been faithfully volunteering at the Front Desk, answering the Helpline and assisting the staff in everyday duties. Oklahomans for Equality could not function without the assistance of our volunteers, so we happily recognize Andrew with the 2014 Volunteer of the Year Award. National Gay Blood Drive Friday, July 11th, 2014; 2:00 - 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The National Gay Blood Drive is on July 11th, 2014. This is a nationwide effort to bring attention to the FDA's ban against Gay & Bisexual men donating blood & increase pressure on them to change it. Oklahomans for Equality and the Oklahoma Blood Institute will be hosting the Tulsa event at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center from 2:00 - 7:00 pm. Walk-ins are Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8586 4/23/26, 12:10 PM �Firefox 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-9th--2014.html... welcome but you may also schedule your appointment here. Gay & Bisexual men cannot donate at this event but are encouraged to show their willingness to contribute by bringing in allies to donate in their place. For more information about the National Gay Blood Drive, visit www.gayblooddrive.com ------------ Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Counseling Services Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org The July Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, June 16th, 2014 at 6:00 pm. Hosted by the Tulsa Shock, the meeting will take place at the BOK Center, 200 S Denver Ave, Tulsa OK 74103. Enter the building the the entrance on 3rd and Boulder and gather in the grand lobby. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. BOK Center 200 S Denver Ave Tulsa, OK 74103 GET F.I.T. (Fun, Intense, Training) Wednesdays and Thursdays at 6:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Now on Wednesdays and Thursdays, GET F.I.T. (Fun, Intense, Training) GET F.I.T. is an exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. The only requirement... keep moving through a combination of weight training and cardiovascular exercise. Wednesdays and Thursdays at 6:00 pm at the Equality Center. $5 for non-members and free to members... Come take your first steps to GET F.I.T. Facilitated by Brad Sullivan. Oklahomans for Equality Annual Meeting and Board of Directors Elections Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SOS Group 4/23/26, 12:10 PM �Firefox 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-9th--2014.html... Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org OkEq Board 2013-2014 The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 25th, 2014 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee (Applications due to OkEq by July 24th) OR 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by September 10th) At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is accepting applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Seven directors will be elected. Please contact Lucas.Green@OkEq.org for an application and to interview with the Board of Development and Governance Committee if you desire to be nominated by the Board of Development and Governance Committee. Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term Grieving Well *Returns July 14th* 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Oklahomans for Equality hosts Mara Keisling Wednesday, July 23rd, 2014; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will host a reception and Q&A lecture with Mara Keisling, Executive Director of the National Center for Transgender Equality on Wednesday, July 23rd at 7:00 pm. This event is free and open to 4/23/26, 12:10 PM �Firefox 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-9th--2014.html... the public. Mara Keisling is the founding Executive Director of the National Center for Transgender Equality. Mara is a transgender-identified woman and a parent. As one of the nation's leading voices for transgender equality, Mara has appeared on news outlets and is regularly quoted in hundreds of national and local print and broadcast media. COLORAMA presented by Tulsa Lambda Bowling League Friday, July 11th, 2014; 8:00 pm Andy B's 8711 S Lewis Ave, Tulsa, OK The Tulsa Lambda League bowlers present COLORAMA at Andy B's. Friday, July 11th, 2014 at 8:00 pm. Everyone is invited to come out and join in for a fun night of bowling. COLORAMA is a fundraiser for the Jackpot Oklahoma Lambda Tournament (JOLT), Tulsa's only annual Gay bowling tournament which brings in Gay & Lesbian bowlers throughout the nation to Tulsa. You don't need to be a league bowler to participate, so any skill level is welcomed. Be prepared to have a ball. New Counseling Services Weekdays by appointment OkEq welcomes a new intern, Chelsey Dobbs, to our Counseling Service Program at the Equality Center. Chelsey Dobbs earned her Bachelor of Arts degree in Psychology from Oklahoma State University, and is currently working toward her Master's degree in Community Counseling from Oklahoma State University in Tulsa. She is providing counseling services at the Equality Center in her capacity as an intern at the OSUTulsa Counseling Center. She is interested in working primarily with adults, and is particularly interested in the provision of counseling services to LGBTQ people. Contact 918-594-8586 to schedule an appointment with Chelsey. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Grateful Day Pool Party Fundraiser Saturday, July 19th, 2014; 3:00 - 7:00 pm 3811 E 67th St, Tulsa, OK 74136 Join The Grateful Day Foundation on Saturday July 19th for a Pool Party Cookout Fundraiser. The Grateful Day Foundation is raising funds to support our annual Summer Retreat for people living with HIV/AIDS. 4/23/26, 12:10 PM �Firefox 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-9th--2014.html... Hamburgers, Hot Dogs, Beer, and Swimming will be available at the home of Grateful Day Foundation Treasurer Paul Dorman. Please RSVP on Facebook so we will know how many meals to plan. Donations for meals are appreciated and will be accepted at the door... Please make Checks payable to OKEQ with Grateful Day in the Memo line...Credit Card and cash donations also accepted. Get F.I.T. At'eful .,2) 2nd Annual Gamily Ice Cream Social Sunday, July 20th, 2014; 1:00 - 3:00 pm It's that time again! Gamily's 2nd Annual Ice Cream Social! Come have fun and eat free ICE CREAM. This is an opportunity to meet other families and make new friends. Join us on Sunday, July 20th, 2014 from 1:00 to 3:00 pm. RSVP on OkEq's Gamily Facebook page or email Gamily@OkEq.org Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 4:00 pm. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. 4/23/26, 12:10 PM �Firefox 7 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-9th--2014.html... SAGE Tulsa Pool Party Tuesday, July 22nd, 10:00 am sage~ SAGE Tulsa will have a pool party on Tuesday, July 22nd, 2014 at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch will and Advocacy not be served on this day. Please bring your favorite dish forServices Gay, lesbian, Bisexual for lunch. SAGE Tulsa will be celebrating the birthday of & Tramgendcr Eldc>rs Pool Party host, Roger Morris The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email SAGE@OkEq.org to RSVP. Yoga A - Z *On hiatus for Summer* Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org BARE: A Pop Opera July 18th - 20th Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno 4/23/26, 12:10 PM �Firefox 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-9th--2014.html... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Tulsa Performing Arts Center 110 E 2nd St Tulsa, OK 74103 In partnership with SummerStage and the Tulsa Fringe Festival, a new theatre company, consisting of entirely students, Fruugensteinery Productions, will be producing the contemporary Off-Broadway musical, BARE: A Pop Opera. Set in a Catholic Boarding school, BARE centers around a group of seniors in their last semester of high school and their struggles to navigate adolescence. BARE follows two roommates, Peter & Jason, in their attempt to keep their relationship a secret from their friends, family, and church leaders. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org Directed by Liz Hunt and dedicated to her brother, Mikal, a large portion of ticket sales will be donated to the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. Performance Dates: Friday, July 18 at 8pm Saturday, July 19 at 2pm (a talk-back with the cast immediately after!) Saturday, July 19 at 8pm Sunday, July 20 at 2pm BARE will be performed in the Liddy Doenges Theatre at the Tulsa PAC. Like Fruug's Facebook page at www.facebook.com/fruugtulsa to see how LGBT couples can enter our photo contest to win 2 FREE TICKETS to the show! Fruugensteinery Productions believes that BARE: A Pop Opera contains a message that Tulsa desperately needs to hear. Whether you struggles with their identity, self worth, body image, spirituality, or sexuality, there is a character in BARE you'll be able to relate to. We want our production to EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. 4/23/26, 12:10 PM �Firefox 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-9th--2014.html... inform and challenge Tulsans, not just entertain them. Buy your tickets online at myticketoffice.com or by calling the PAC box office at (918) 596-7111 A Friend for a Friend Fundraiser Dinner Saturday, July 26th, 2014; 6:00 pm Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Open Everyday A Friend for a Friend will have a fundraiser dinner on Saturday, July 26th, 2014. On the menu will be, smoked chicken, ribs, baked beans and cole slaw/potato salad. 100% of the admission price will go towards A Friend for a Friend. Admission is a suggested donation of $10.00 "A Friend for a Friend" is a 501(C)3 Organization that is dedicated to helping those with HIV/AIDS with their pet's care and wellness, and is completely funded by private donations. For more information, call 918.747.6827 or 918.361.8839 August First Thursday Art Reception Thursday, August 7th, 2014; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The August Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Karen McCauley and Renee Sweetwood, in a combination show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, August 7th from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Mondays and Fridays 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm 2nd Annual Gamily Back to School Carnival Sunday, August 10th, 2014; 1:00 - 5:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Summer is breezing by and school will be back in session before you know it. Because of the great success and turn out from the families last year, Gamily will present the 2nd Annual Back to School Carnival on Sunday, August 10th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm. There will be snacks, games, characters, activities, and prizes. Come have a whole lot of "before school" fun! This is a free event. Please RSVP with parents'/ guardians' names and students' names, ages & grades by Sunday July MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/23/26, 12:10 PM �Firefox 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-9th--2014.html... 27th. And the kiddos don't have to be yours, they can nieces, nephews, cousins, godkids, neighbors. But if you don't presently have any kiddos to bring, please come help out and volunteer. For more info or to RSVP, email Gamily@OkEq.org. Gamily is accepting donations for the carnival. We are only asking for the following school supplies: Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org -Folders -Pens -Pencils -Spiral notebooks -Box of crayons -Washable markers -Erasers -Kleenex tissues -3 ring binders (1/2 in, 1 in, 2in) -Wide ruled notebook paper ---- DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. Friday, August 22nd, 2014; 6:30 pm yr\ \ Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org H~·O~P~E,. r. t. .... ! ' Grab your pearl snaps and rhinestones... this year it's COUNTRY ROCK! Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org ----- Please Health, Outreach, Education and Prevention for their 2014 HIV and Hepatitis Prevention Event... DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. WHEN: Friday, August 22nd, 2014 Reception 6:30 pm Concert 7:45 pm WHERE: Double Tree by Hilton Warren Place 6110 South Yale Avenue Tulsa, Oklahoma 74136-1904 EMCEES: The fabulous and talented, KC Lupp and Heather RichettoRumley! PERFORMING DIVAS: - KC Lupp - Heather Richetto Rumley - Daryl Christopher - Tavis Minner -Christy Hanewinkel - Mark Gibson 4/23/26, 12:10 PM �Firefox 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-9th--2014.html... - Pam Van Dyke - Cindy Cain - Jeff Cherblanc - John Sawyer For more information or to purchase a sponsorhip / ticket, please visit hopetesting.org Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events Spirits of Christmas Past A Christmas in July Event for the Diversity Christian Fellowship Food Bank July 26, 2014 @ Tulsa Eagle (21+ and over, No Cover) Cookout @ 7:00 pm (Donations accepted) Show @ 10:30 pm (Tipping accepted) Silent Auction, Jello Shots and 50/50 Raffle all night. Sponsored by the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma, Green 4/23/26, 12:10 PM �Firefox 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-9th--2014.html... Country Bears, The Tulsa Sisters and T.U.L.S.A. Please RSVP on the Facebook "Christmas in July" invite page -https:// _ _ _ _ _ -www.facebook.com/events/1504567406424604/ LGBTI Transitional Youth Online Survey The transitional youth study is a first-of-its-kind effort to raise awareness (especially among Oklahoma state agencies) that LGBTI youth exist in the state and that services are needed to alleviate very real challenges. The online survey is completely anonymous and results will contribute to increased recognition of LGBTI concerns statewide. In exchange for participation, researchers are offering $10 in gift certificate credit redeemable at giftcertificates.com for the first 250 urban and 250 rural participants. If you are 18 - 25 years old, reside in Oklahoma, and identify as LGBTI you may be eligible to participated by going to http://tiny.cc/ oklgbti2. With questions or concerns, please contact Douglas Knutson, at douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2014 shirts are now available in The Pride Store. All sizes S through 2X are $10.00 Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 4/23/26, 12:10 PM �Firefox 13 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-9th--2014.html... Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'And a Child...' by J Kelly Poorman You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Knowing that the time has come to take a stand against bullying in school, two brave and compassionate high school students form a gay/ straight alliance to protect their friends. At what point do you stop turning a blind eye when you see someone being bullied? For Hank, someone who had endured more than his fair share of bullying, that moment was clear. When he sees Edwin, the new kid in town, being confronted on the way home from school, he knows he has to intervene. Putting his own safety aside, he steps up to save Edwin-and in doing so, learns that he has more in common with the other boy than he could have imagined. Edwin, he learns, is being raised by lesbian parents. Hank has two gay men as fathers, so he understands just what Edwin is going through. In each other, the two new friends find more than just common ground; they find the strength to make a stand, not only against the bullies, but against the belief that harassment, intimidation, and assault is acceptable. Hank and Edwin work tirelessly and creatively to create bridges of understanding and tolerance in their community. Their goal is to not only create a gay/straight alliance at their school, but to get the community behind their ideals as well. And just as they expect, they encounter resistance, intolerance, and ignorance. The strength of their friendship gives them the courage they need to see their plans realized, so that every student-gay, straight, bisexual, transgendered, and those disenfranchised in any way-can enjoy a safe, caring environment. That is what every student, every person deserves. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality 4/23/26, 12:10 PM �Firefox 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-9th--2014.html... r----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L----------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 12:10 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/c68351da0d5d19aa14e7ab974478bee4.pdf 0b1d9929ad517c8a26ee7580b51fb8d0 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-15th--2014... eNews October 15th, 2014 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Spirit Day Broken Heart Land Equality Business Alliance Welcome to the eNews. For an entire week, from Saturday October 25th through Saturday November 1st, the Equality Center will be overrun with zombies! Test your courage and come by for a zombified tour! eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Spirit Day Vigil Marriage - - - Equality - - - -Photos --Wedding Resources TMSL Halloween 2014 The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Plexus Slim LGBT Shirt Quilt Our Bodies, Ourselves A Murder of Storytellers Ask me for FREE sample!!! Computer Boot Camp Guys Dine Too p All natural products for diabeti cs , weight loss, pain, GI issues and skin conditions. s"itn www.plexusslim.com/robinlabutti EBA Sponsor Straight No Chaser T: (918) 361-<1188 E: robinlabutti@Cox.net Lose weight • Get ht • Improve perfomiance • Increase 1nergy Spirit Day - October 16th Fair - Housing - - - -Survey --Reiki Sessions Tantra 1 for Men OK Mister Leather 2015 2015 Call for Art LGBT History Month OUT OK Film Festival Circle Cinema Miss Brookside OSU Survey Pride Store Millions go purple on Spirit Day in a stand against bullying and to show their support for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) youth. Observed annually since 2010, individuals, schools, organizations, corporations, and public figures wear purple, which symbolizes 'spirit' on the rainbow flag. Pledge to go purple here Rainbow Library Volunteer -- -- ------ Broken Heart Land Screening on Thursday, October 16th, 2014; 6:30 pm Find Us on Facebook OSU - Tulsa Auditorium 700 N Greenwood Ave Oklahomans for Equality, H.O.P.E. (Health, Outreach, Prevention, Education), Tulsa CARES and PFLAG 4/23/26, 12:32 PM �Firefox 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-15th--2014... Tulsa are presenting a screening of the documentary film, Broken Heart Land, on Thursday, October 16th at 6:30 pm at OSU - Tulsa Auditorium, 700 N Greenwood Ave. A panel featuring subjects from the film will be conducted after the screening. This event is free and open to the public. Broken Heart Land, a conservative Oklahoma family is shattered when their gay teenage son commits suicide after a bitterly controversial town meeting discussing a proposal for Gay and Lesbian History Month. In their search to unravel the mystery behind his death, they discover a tragic secret, and begin to question their own civic responsibility as they undergo a harrowing transformation from private citizens to public defenders of their son's legacy. For more information on the film, visit brokenheartland.com For more information about the event, contact Bruce Lewis at 918.834.4194 or by email at brucel@tulsacares.org OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, October 16th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events g Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook EQJBusmess UALITY Al/Janee The October Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, October 15th, 2014 at 6:00 pm. Hosted by The Garden Trug, 3009 E 101st St, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74137. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. the OkEq Art Exhibit The October exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Ann and Chuck Tomlins. ________ r Tru nursery and gift shop The Garden Trug 3009 E 101st St Tulsa, OK 74137 Spirit Day Vigil at Phillips Theological Seminary Thursday, October 16th, 2014 Phillips Theological Seminary 901 N. Mingo Rd Phillips Theological Seminary, will have a prayer vigil set up in Meinder's Chapel on, Thursday, October 16th, from 8:00 am - Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 12:32 PM �Firefox 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-15th--2014... 5:00 pm. All are welcome to stop by anytime during the day. For those who cannot make it to campus this day, please join in prayer or reflection, at some point during day, by lighting a candle and pausing to remember all those teens who suffer from bullying resulting from their sexual orientation or gender identity. To learn other ways to be involved in Spirit Day, visit the Spirit Day website: www.glaad.org/ spiritday/about We want your Marriage Equality photos! Counseling Services If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to Lucas.Green@OkEq.org with "OK to use" in the Subject. Please include any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you! Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8568 Wedding Resources Oklahomans for Equality has a list of officiants for wedding ceremonies available for pick up at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org for a copy. If you are looking for services for your wedding, please look through our Equality Business Alliance directory where you can find all kinds of -------LGBT friendly businesses to help you host the perfect wedding. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has several spaces available for rent if you are looking for space to hold your ceremony. Please email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org for a rental information sheet or to arrange a quick tour of the available spaces. 4/23/26, 12:32 PM �Firefox 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-15th--2014... Tulsa Metro Softball League Counseling Services 2014 Fall Ball Registration is now open Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org This year's Tulsa Metro Softball League Fall season will be a short 4 week season beginning Sunday, October 5th, and ending on Sunday, October 26th. So you are guaranteed to play 2 games each weekend. Games will be played at TMSL normal scheduled times from 1:00 pm - 4:00 pm. Member dues this season will be $30. Once again this year, you are allowed to sign up with a partner or two to join you in the fun of Fall Ball. TMSL is also bringing back the Fall Ball Referral Program, where if you recruit a new member (a member who has never played in TMSL leagues), then you will receive $10 off your dues! So refer 3 new friends, you will play for free! Sign up at tulsametrosoftball.com/leagues/softball Zombie House 2014 Saturday, October 25th through Saturday, November 1st Oklahomans for Equality will turn the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center into a haunted house this Halloween for an entire week. We need volunteers for our haunted horror show. You need to be available for upcoming planning meetings and anytime between 6:00 pm and 11:00 pm during Halloween week. Email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org if you would like to volunteer. Next planning meeting will be Saturday, October 18th at 3:00 pm at the Equality Center. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SOS Group LGBT Pride T-Shirt Quilt Project For the 35th Anniversary of Oklahomans for Equality, a quilt project has been started to make a quilt from of all kinds of LGBT related shirts. Pride would be best, but we welcome any and all LGBT shirts. Quality is not important since they will be cut up anyway. Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org 4/23/26, 12:32 PM �Firefox 5 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-15th--2014... f . ~. ~~ 4,, ~ ~ I • . TULSA PRIDE 2010 '°"'-"'SMCf LEB""T"'CPfUOI! Please bring your shirts to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center anytime between 12:00 pm and 9:00 pm Monday through Saturday. For more information, email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org ---- Our Bodies, Ourselves First and Third Wednesdays of every month; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Our Bodies Ourselves is a new group that focuses on body image, disordered eating, health and society's ideas surrounding these issues. The group will meet on the first and third Wednesdays of the month at 7:00 pm at the Equality Center. All are welcome. Next meeting will be October 15th. I MY BODY A Murder of Storytellers - Writing Group Every Friday at 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center A Murder of Storytellers will meet for a writing group at the Equality Center every Friday at 7:00 pm. As an indie publishing house, A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. , - I Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Everyone knows that a gathering of crows is called a murder, but in days past, it was also called a storytelling. So, let's gather, tell our stories, and murder those fears and errors that hold us back. Computer Boot Camp Every other Sunday, Next class on October 26th; 12:30 pm The world is changing and you refuse to be left behind. And you want to be able to email your friends and family members or even show your grandkids a couple of tricks that you've learned on the computer. You want to be able to use the Internet to search on topics that are important to you - the latest health information, what's happening in the world, or what the headlines are in the city. Class size will be limited to 9. For more information or to reserve your spot, please contact Mary Jones at 918.743.4297 or Mary.Jones@OkEq.org --- SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 12:32 PM �Firefox 6 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-15th--2014... Facilitated by John Madigan Guys Dine Too Tuesday, November 4th, 2014; 6:30 pm The November meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at the Cheesecake Factory on Tuesday, November 4th, 2014 at 6:30 pm. The Cheesecake Factory is located at 8711 E 71st St sage Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesb,an, Bisexual & Transgender Elders www.thecheesecakefactory.com Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: The Garden Trug http://www.theGardenTrug.com Garden Tru nursery, flor ist & gifts OKEQ eNews Sponsor Need flowers? Call our full service florist ... we deliver [~ 1Love our Strore? Like us on Facebook! lRJ) facebook.com/gardentrug 101st & Delaware 918.528.3828 Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Straight No Chaser - Happy Hour Tour Friday, October 24th, 2014; 7:30 pm Tulsa Area Prime Timers Straight No Chaser will make their Tulsa stop on the Happy Hour Tour at 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 4/23/26, 12:32 PM �Firefox 7 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-15th--2014... Brady Theater on Friday, October 24th, 2014 at 7:30 pm. OkEq has tickets to give away for the show. Check out Oklahomans for Equality on Facebook to find out how you can win. 918.592.0088 Brady Theater 105 W Brady St Tickets are available at Protixonline.com or by phone at 866.977.6849 If the phrase "male a cappella group" conjures up an image of students in blue blazers, ties, and khakis singing traditional college songs on ivied campuses... think again. Straight No Chaser (SNC) are not strait-laced, but neither are they vaudeville-style kitsch. They have emerged as a phenomenon with a massive fanbase, numerous national TV appearances and proven success with CD releases. The HAPPY HOUR TOUR comes on the heels of the release of Under The Influence, their fourth album release through Atlantic Records. The album features contributions from superstars Jason Mraz, Rob Thomas, Phil Collins, Dolly Parton and more! Straight No Chaser is the real deal, the captivating sound of ten unadulterated human voices coming together to make extraordinary music that is moving people in a fundamental sense... and with a sense of humor. On the road, Straight No Chaser has built a reputation as an unforgettable live act. For more information, please visit www.sncmusic.com Fair Housing in Tulsa Survey Survey ends November 3rd, 2014 The City of Tulsa is conducting a confidential survey for feedback on whether the city has barriers to fair housing. The survey will be part of a study on Tulsa's fair housing choices, a study required by the U.S. Department of Housing and Urban Development. The survey is available in English and Spanish by following this link here. Reiki Sessions By Appointment Dennis R Neill Equality Center Reiki - pronounced "ray-key" is a life energy balancing and stress reduction technique that uses chakra points for a non-impact healing session. Reiki promotes healing in countless areas including everything from physical injuries and aches, to mental and spiritual traumas and hurts, to overall balancing in life. It does not use or replace traditional medicine, but instead uses Universal Life Force Energy already inside us all to go to the areas of greatest need. The practitioner acts as a conduit to help the energy move more freely to those areas. Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Held at the Equality Center, a session lasting approximately 1 1/2 hours is 4/23/26, 12:32 PM �Firefox 8 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-15th--2014... $75 for non OkEq members and $50 for OkEq members. A sliding scale is also available. Monica Haney is a certified Reiki Practitioner and is happy to answer your call or text at 918.381.1656 Tantra 1 for Men Friday, November 7th through Sunday, November 9th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Presented by the Body Electric, this workshop is an introduction to the teachings of Tantra. In a safe and facilitated space, the group will explore the principles and tools for living life with greater freedom, creativity, and passion. To do this, they create experiments to practice erotic touch, conscious breath, movement, and meditation, supplemented with lecture and discussion. If this sounds of interest and/or you would like to know more, please visit the Body Electric website at: http://www.thebodyelectricschool.com/ mens-introductory/tantra-1-for-men/ or contact Andr� directly at 918.406.4659. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Oklahoma Mister Leather 2015 October 17th - 19th, 2014 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals For more information, visit TulsaLeather.com 2015 Call for Exhibition Proposals Deadline is November 15th, 2014 The Art Gallery at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center is now accepting proposals for our monthly exhibits to fill the 2015 Exhibition Calendar. Each chosen exhibit will be on display for approximately 30 days. Our gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a paragraph or two about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 JPEG images which characterize your current work. Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 12:32 PM �Firefox 9 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-15th--2014... or a small group are also acceptable.. OkEq hosts an opening night reception for the artist(s), on the first Thursday of the month. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at close of opening night. Deadline for submissions is November 15th, 2014. Notifications will be sent out by December 1st, 2014. We still do have a "no repeat" policy, so will only consider proposals from those who have not previously exhibited in the gallery, (excepting MOREcolor participation) Please submit by e-mail to alliejensen@cox.net, with the subject heading "OkEq Gallery Proposal" EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. October is LGBT History Month A new LGBT Icon will be featured every day of the month A new LGBT Icon will be featured every day LGBT History Month celebrates the achievements of 31 lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgender Icons. Beginning October 1st, 2014, a new LGBT Icon will be featured every day. October 15th - Storm� DeLaverie October 16th - Rudy Galindo October 17th - Darlene Garner October 18th - Glenn Greenwald October 19th - Angelina Weld Grimk� October 20th - Marc Jacobs October 21st - Lee Daniels October 22nd - June Jordan To view videos and bios of the featured Icons, visit lgbthistorymonth.com Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. OUT OK Film Festival November 14th, 15th & 16th, 2014 HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides 4/23/26, 12:32 PM �Firefox 10 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-15th--2014... The Oklahoma GLBT nternationa Fi m Festive 14.15.16 NOV 2014 OUT OK RETURNS testing on Fridays 4:00 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ---- Transformative. Engrossing. And totally Entertaining... There's an exciting and diverse world waiting to be explored during the latest edition of OUT OK, the Oklahoma GLBT International Film Festival. Join us November 14, 15, 16, 2014. www.out-ok.com Net proceeds benefit Oklahomans for Equality Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org - - --- Upcoming Screenings at Circle Cinema Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org ----Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave 4/23/26, 12:32 PM �Firefox 11 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-15th--2014... "PRIDE" opens at Circle Cinema on Friday, October 17th. PRIDE is inspired by an extraordinary true story. It's the summer of 1984, Margaret Thatcher is in power and the National Union of Mineworkers is on strike, prompting a Londonbased group of gay and lesbian activists to raise money to support the strikers' families. Initially rebuffed by the Union, the group identifies a tiny mining village in Wales and sets off to make their donation in person. As the strike drags on, the two groups discover that standing together makes for the strongest union of all. For more information about PRIDE, visit www.cbsfilms.com/pride Miss Brookside 2015 Pageant Saturday, October 18th, 2014; 6:30 pm All Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S Peoria Ave The Miss Brookside Scholarship Pageant will select the new Miss Brookside 2015 and Miss Brookside's Outstanding Teen 2015 on October 18th, 2014, at All Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S Peoria Ave. The pageant will be held at 6:30 p.m. and will include Interview, Talent, Evening Wear, On-Stage Question, and Lifestyle and Fitness in Swimsuit. New this year is the Brookside Stars Program. This program allows girls between the ages of 5 and 11 the chance to interact with the Brookside Queens, create a special craft, and appear on stage in a tiara with a Miss contestant. General Admission tickets are $15.00 and will be available at the door, early arrival is recommended. For more information visit www.MissBrooksidePageant.com facebook/MissBrooksidePageant and Trans-sition Research Study Researchers at the University of Texas are seeking trans* identified individuals who intend to begin transition, those who have already begun transition, and those who identify as having completed transition. This study will look at personal experiences of individuals before, during, and after transition. Please use the above link to provide your contact information. You will then be sent a short questionnaire to determine eligibility. Eligible participants will be contacted to schedule an in-person or phone interview. For questions, please contact: Dr. Julie Nagoshi, School of Social Work, University of Texas at Arlington julienagoshi@uta.edu Survey Link: https://okstatecoe.az1.qualtrics.com/SE/? SID=SV_3K9dW0lGcSFUvHL Equality Center Pride Store 4/23/26, 12:32 PM �Firefox 12 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-15th--2014... Available in the Pride Store, same-sex wedding toppers. Various designs and prices. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Franny; The Queen of Provincetown' by John Preston You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In Franny, the Queen of Provincetown, John Preston created one of his most memorable characters from among the more than 30 books he authored or edited over his storied career. Franny is a proud, protective friend to the gay men of Provincetown, Massachusetts, as they fight their battles against self-hatred and ostracism. Haunted by the loss of his first love, Franny vows never to let fear and anger consume those who are treated differently for who they are. It's Franny's goal to ensure that there is a place in the world for everyone who feels they do not belong. JOHN PRESTON FRANNY the ~ueen of PROVINCETOWN First published to wide acclaim in 1983, Franny was a book of gay heroism and camaraderie in the shadow of the burgeoning AIDS crisis. Today, one can read Franny with a sense of nostalgia and with the knowledge that Franny's dreams of a society that accepts gays and lesbians without question is closer to fruition, but far from complete. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/23/26, 12:32 PM �Firefox 13 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-15th--2014... Volunt er A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! ULSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r-----------------------------------------------------, I I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I I L-----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 12:32 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/d7b42ec157e05fc1aaa05756eb1d831a.pdf c0b004480b0865649a39541432f050f5 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-22nd--201... eNews October 22nd, 2014 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Halloween 2014 SAGENet Marriage Equality Photos --- Welcome to the eNews. For an entire week, from Saturday October 25th through Saturday November 1st, the Equality Center will be overrun with zombies! Test your courage and come by for a zombified tour! eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: The Garden Trug Wedding Resources TMSL LGBT Shirt Quilt Our Bodies, Ourselves A Murder of Storytellers Computer Boot Camp Equality Business Alliance http://www.theGardenTrug.com Book Signing First Thursday Art Show Guys Dine Too Garden Tru Veterans Day Lunch Trans Day of Remembrance nursery, flor ist & gifts EBA Sponsor OKEQ eNews Sponsor Need flowers? Call our full service florist ... we deliver [~311 Love our Strore? Like us on Facebook! ~ facebook.com/gardentrug 101st & Delaware 918.528.3828 Straight No Chaser FairHousing - -Survey -Reiki Sessions Tantra 1 for Men 2015 Call for Art LGBT History Month Zombie House 2014 Saturday, October 25th through Saturday, November 1st There are zombies in Tulsa and they have infested the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For one week only, you can come see them at the Zombie House October 25th through November 1st 6:00 pm - 11:00 pm. These are real flesh eating zombies being housed in complete and total darkness in downtown Tulsa but caution: if and when they bite you... you will become one of them. Get your tickets at the door, $10 for adults and $5 for students. OUT OK Screening OUT OK Film Festival OSU Survey Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 12:33 PM �Firefox 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-22nd--201... OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, November 20th, 7:00 pm OkEq hosts SAGENet Annual Meeting Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. OkEq Art Exhibit The October exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Ann and Chuck Tomlins. ________ Oklahomans for Equality is hosting the SAGENet Annual Meeting this week, October 22nd through 24th. During this conference, 27 cities across the nation, who participate in the SAGE program, will be in Tulsa, OK. The mission of SAGE is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. Thanks to our sponsors for this year's conference: Ameriprise Wood-Stone Home Design Studio The Insurance Crew BOK Center / SMG Red Sky Liquor & Wine The Garden Trug Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 12:33 PM �Firefox 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-22nd--201... Counseling Services Tulsa, OK for the conference 2014 Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8568 We want your Marriage Equality photos! If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to Lucas.Green@OkEq.org with "OK to use" in the Subject. Please include any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you! Wedding Resources Oklahomans for Equality has a list of officiants for wedding ceremonies available for pick up at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org for a copy. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 If you are looking for services for your wedding, please look through our Equality Business Alliance directory where you can find all kinds of LGBT friendly businesses to help you host the perfect wedding. 4/23/26, 12:33 PM �Firefox 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-22nd--201... Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has several spaces available for rent if you are looking for space to hold your ceremony. Please email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org for a rental information sheet or to arrange a quick tour of the available spaces. Tulsa Metro Softball League Counseling Services 2014 Fall Ball Registration is now open This year's Tulsa Metro Softball League Fall season will be a short 4 week season beginning Sunday, October 5th, and ending on Sunday, October 26th. So you are guaranteed to play 2 games each weekend. Games will be played at TMSL normal scheduled times from 1:00 pm - 4:00 pm. Member dues this season will be $30. Once again this year, you are allowed to sign up with a partner or two to join you in the fun of Fall Ball. TMSL is also bringing back the Fall Ball Referral Program, where if you recruit a new member (a member who has never played in TMSL leagues), then you will receive $10 off your dues! So refer 3 new friends, you will play for free! Sign up at tulsametrosoftball.com/leagues/softball LGBT Pride T-Shirt Quilt Project For the 35th Anniversary of Oklahomans for Equality, a quilt project has been started to make a quilt from of all kinds of LGBT related shirts. Pride would be best, but we welcome any and all LGBT shirts. Quality is not important since they will be cut up anyway. ,i."\;~ ~ ~ .1£ ~ Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org TULSA PRIDE ,.,,..... 00 2010 _ Please bring your shirts to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center anytime 4/23/26, 12:33 PM �Firefox 5 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-22nd--201... between 12:00 pm and 9:00 pm Monday through Saturday. For more information, email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org f ---- I • . Our Bodies, Ourselves First and Third Wednesdays of every month; 7:00 pm , - I Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Our Bodies Ourselves is a new group that focuses on body image, disordered eating, health and society's ideas surrounding these issues. The group will meet on the first and third Wednesdays of the month at 7:00 pm at the Equality Center. All are welcome. Next meeting will be November 5th. Grieving Well MY BODY A Murder of Storytellers - Writing Group Every Friday at 7:00 pm 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Dennis R. Neill Equality Center A Murder of Storytellers will meet for a writing group at the Equality Center every Friday at 7:00 pm. As an indie publishing house, A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Everyone knows that a gathering of crows is called a murder, but in days past, it was also called a storytelling. So, let's gather, tell our stories, and murder those fears and errors that hold us back. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Computer Boot Camp Every other Sunday, Next class on October 26th; 12:30 pm The world is changing and you refuse to be left behind. And you want to be able to email your friends and family members or even show your grandkids a couple of tricks that you've learned on the computer. You want to be able to use the Internet to search on topics that are important to you - the latest health information, what's happening in the world, or what the headlines are in the city. Class size will be limited to 9. For more information or to reserve your spot, please contact Mary Jones at 918.743.4297 or Mary.Jones@OkEq.org --- Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 12:33 PM �Firefox 6 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-22nd--201... The October Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, November 19th, 2014 at 6:00 pm. Host location is TBA. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Facilitated by John Madigan sage Book Signing with Arin Andrews and Katie Hill Services and Advocacy Wednesday, November 5th, 2014; 6:30 pm for Gay, Lesb,an, Bisexual & Transgender Elders On Wednesday, November 5th, 2014, Oklahomans for Equality will host a book signing with Arin Andrews and Katie Hill. Katie and Arin have both recently published books and will share some short chapters of their books and then answer questions for the audience. The book signing will follow. Katie's book, Rethinking Normal: A Memoir in Transistion, "In her unique, generous, and affecting voice, nineteen-year-old Katie Hill shares her personal journey of undergoing gender reassignment." 8om. l SSEf .1.M(ltlOIR INTUhSITIOII • KATIE RAIN HILL Arin's book, Some Assembly Required: The Not-SoSecret Life of a Transgender Teen, "Seventeen-year-old Arin Andrews shares all the hilarious, painful, and poignant details of undergoing gender reassignment as a high school student in this winning memoir." ~ f I/, ~ TheNot•So-S.Cr•tL..f• of,T,,nog•'l<krlnn ARIN ANDREWS First Thursday Art Gallery Reception November 6th, 2014; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The November Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Susan Hamilton in a show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, November 6th, 2014 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Tulsa Area Prime Timers Guys Dine Too Tuesday, November 4th, 2014; 6:30 pm The November meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at the Cheesecake Factory on Tuesday, November 4th, 2014 at 6:30 pm. The Cheesecake Factory is located at 8711 E 71st St www.thecheesecakefactory.com Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 4/23/26, 12:33 PM �Firefox 7 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-22nd--201... if you plan on attending. 918.592.0088 Veterans Day Lunch with SAGE Tulsa Tuesday, November 11th, 2014; 12:0 pm - 1:30 pm Today After you attend the Veterans Day Parade, come by and join SAGE Tulsa for lunch when we honor our LGBT veterans. Olrlahoman• for Equ111lity i• spon sored by The Veterans Day Parade will start at 11:00 am on Tuesday, November 11th. SAGE Tulsa will host a Veterans Day Lunch at 12:00 pm and is inviting everyone to come by afterwards and join us for lunch and honor our LGBT veterans. Trans Day of Remembrance Wednesday, November 19th, 2014; 6:30 pm Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center To pay homage, as well as raise awareness, of those whose lives were lost due to acts of anti-transgender violence, Oklahomans for Equality will observe Transgender Day of Remembrance on Wednesday, October 19th, 2014 at 6:30 pm. This is a free event where we will honor the memory of the lives of our brothers and sisters so they will not be forgotten. https://www.facebook.com/events/463586317114769/ The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Plexus Slim Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 12:33 PM �Firefox 8 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-22nd--201... Ask me for FREE sample!!! All natural products fo r diabeti cs , weight loss, pai n, GI issues and skin conditions. www.plexusslim.com/robinlabutti T: (918) 361-<1188 E: robinlabutti@Cox.net lose wa1ght • Git h1 • Improve performance • lncrnse 1nugy Straight No Chaser - Happy Hour Tour Friday, October 24th, 2014; 7:30 pm Brady Theater 105 W Brady St Tickets are available at Protixonline.com or by phone at 866.977.6849 If the phrase "male a cappella group" conjures up an image of students in blue blazers, ties, and khakis singing traditional college songs on ivied campuses... think again. Straight No Chaser (SNC) are not strait-laced, but neither are they vaudeville-style kitsch. They have emerged as a phenomenon with a massive fanbase, numerous national TV appearances and proven success with CD releases. The HAPPY HOUR TOUR comes on the heels of the release of Under The Influence, their fourth album release through Atlantic Records. The album features contributions from superstars Jason Mraz, Rob Thomas, Phil Collins, Dolly Parton and more! Straight No Chaser is the real deal, the captivating sound of ten unadulterated human voices coming together to make extraordinary music that is moving people in a fundamental sense... and with a sense of humor. On the road, Straight No Chaser has built a reputation as an unforgettable live act. For more information, please visit www.sncmusic.com Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 12:33 PM �Firefox 9 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-22nd--201... Fair Housing in Tulsa Survey Survey ends November 3rd, 2014 The City of Tulsa is conducting a confidential survey for feedback on whether the city has barriers to fair housing. The survey will be part of a study on Tulsa's fair housing choices, a study required by the U.S. Department of Housing and Urban Development. The survey is available in English and Spanish by following this link here. Reiki Sessions By Appointment Dennis R Neill Equality Center Reiki - pronounced "ray-key" is a life energy balancing and stress reduction technique that uses chakra points for a non-impact healing session. Reiki promotes healing in countless areas including everything from physical injuries and aches, to mental and spiritual traumas and hurts, to overall balancing in life. It does not use or replace traditional medicine, but instead uses Universal Life Force Energy already inside us all to go to the areas of greatest need. The practitioner acts as a conduit to help the energy move more freely to those areas. Held at the Equality Center, a session lasting approximately 1 1/2 hours is $75 for non OkEq members and $50 for OkEq members. A sliding scale is also available. Monica Haney is a certified Reiki Practitioner and is happy to answer your call or text at 918.381.1656 Tantra 1 for Men Friday, November 7th through Sunday, November 9th Presented by the Body Electric, this workshop is an introduction to the teachings of Tantra. In a safe and facilitated space, the group will explore the principles and tools for living life with greater freedom, creativity, and passion. To do this, they create experiments to practice erotic touch, conscious breath, movement, and meditation, supplemented with lecture and discussion. If this sounds of interest and/or you would like to know more, please visit the Body Electric website at: http://www.thebodyelectricschool.com/ mens-introductory/tantra-1-for-men/ or contact Andr� directly at 918.406.4659. 2015 Call for Exhibition Proposals Deadline is November 15th, 2014 EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides 4/23/26, 12:33 PM �Firefox 10 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-22nd--201... testing on Fridays 4:00 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: The Art Gallery at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center is now accepting proposals for our monthly exhibits to fill the 2015 Exhibition Calendar. Each chosen exhibit will be on display for approximately 30 days. Our gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a paragraph or two about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 JPEG images which characterize your current work. Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable.. Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. OkEq hosts an opening night reception for the artist(s), on the first Thursday of the month. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at close of opening night. Deadline for submissions is November 15th, 2014. Notifications will be sent out by December 1st, 2014. We still do have a "no repeat" policy, so will only consider proposals from those who have not previously exhibited in the gallery, (excepting MOREcolor participation) Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ---- Please submit by e-mail to alliejensen@cox.net, - - - - with the subject heading "OkEq Gallery Proposal" October is LGBT History Month A new LGBT Icon will be featured every day of the month A new LGBT Icon will be featured every day LGBT History Month celebrates the achievements of 31 lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgender Icons. Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org - - --- Beginning October 1st, 2014, a new LGBT Icon will be featured every day. October 22nd - June Jordan October 23rd - Kathy Kozachenko October 24th - Armistead Maupin October 25th - CeCe McDonald October 26th - Freddie Mercury October 27th - John Cameron Mitchell October 28th - Frank Ocean October 29th - Megan Rapinoe Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org ----- To view videos and bios of the featured Icons, visit lgbthistorymonth.com OUT OK Pre-Film Festival Screening November 2nd, 2014; 2:00 pm 4/23/26, 12:33 PM �Firefox 11 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-22nd--201... TOM AT THE FARM (Canada/France) French with English Subtitles Following the untimely death of his boyfriend, a young hip copywriter meets his lover's strange and dark family. Hitchcock would be proud. Venue: The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Cost: $10 or free with the purchase of a 2014 OUT OK VIP PASS Popcorn and refreshments will be served Net proceeds benefit Oklahomans for Equality For OUT OK Passes, visit www.out-ok.com OUT OK Film Festival November 14th, 15th & 16th, 2014 OUT OK RETURNS Transformative. Engrossing. And totally Entertaining... 4/23/26, 12:33 PM �Firefox 12 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-22nd--201... There's an exciting and diverse world waiting to be explored during the latest edition of OUT OK, the Oklahoma GLBT International Film Festival. Join us November 14, 15, 16, 2014. www.out-ok.com Net proceeds benefit Oklahomans for Equality Trans-sition Research Study Researchers at the University of Texas are seeking trans* identified individuals who intend to begin transition, those who have already begun transition, and those who identify as having completed transition. This study will look at personal experiences of individuals before, during, and after transition. Please use the above link to provide your contact information. You will then be sent a short questionnaire to determine eligibility. Eligible participants will be contacted to schedule an in-person or phone interview. For questions, please contact: Dr. Julie Nagoshi, School of Social Work, University of Texas at Arlington julienagoshi@uta.edu Survey Link: https://okstatecoe.az1.qualtrics.com/SE/? SID=SV_3K9dW0lGcSFUvHL Equality Center Pride Store Available in the Pride Store, same-sex wedding toppers. Various designs and prices. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Tasting Life Twice: Literary Lesbian Fiction by New American Writers' edited by EJ Levy 4/23/26, 12:33 PM �Firefox 13 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-22nd--201... You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Versed in sexual politics and fluent in the language of alienation, these 25 short works chart new territories without the maps or compasses of social convention. This bravura collection showcases the fierce power and startling diversity of contemporary lesbian writing. Includes early work by acclaimed emerging talents such as Cheryl Strayed, Stephanie Grant, and Mei Ng, as well as stunning pieces by Carole Maso, Mary Gaitskill, Ana Castillo, Rebecca Brown, and others. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library .• •••~ • • •• •• :. Vol nt ru r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa , your local action center! A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r-----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L-----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 12:33 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/c900fd28bfc413b21965bdb992938062.pdf bc035dcdcf44c3d663bb9bc8aabdf4d3 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-30th--2014... eNews October 30th, 2014 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Be Our Voice Halloween 2014 Marriage - - - Equality - - - -Photos --- Welcome to the eNews. Now through Saturday November 1st, the Equality Center will be overrun with zombies! Test your courage and come by for a zombified tour! eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Plexus Slim Tulsa World Out-of-States Marriages Wedding Resources Early Voting LGBT Shirt Quilt Computer Boot Camp Book Signing Ask me for FREE sample!!! First Thursday Art Show Equality Business Alliance Our Bodies, Ourselves A Murder of Storytellers All natural products for diabeti cs , weight loss, pain, GI issues and skin conditions. www.pexusslim.com/robinlabutti T: (918) 361-4188 E: robinlabutti@Cox.net Lose W8tghl • Git lI1 • Improve performanc1 • lncrnn 1n1rgy Be Our Voice, Give A Day To celebrate their wedding on October 21st, 2014, Ray Mahoney & Eduardo Suarez have made a donation to OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign and are sponsoring the LGBT Hotline for the day of November 4th, 2014. Congratulations Ray and Ed! Guys Dine Too Veterans Day Lunch Tulsa Pride 2015 Trans Day of Remembrance EBA Sponsor OUT OK Screening OUT OK Film Festival Sam Harris Fair Housing Survey Reiki Sessions Tantra 1 for Men 2015 Call for Art World AIDS Day LGBT History Month OSU Survey Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Click here to commemorate your special day with OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign ------------------ - 4/23/26, 12:37 PM �Firefox 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-30th--2014... Zombie House 2014 Find Us on Facebook Now through Saturday, November 1st There are zombies in Tulsa and they have infested the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For one week only, you can come see them at the Zombie House now through November 1st 6:00 pm - 11:00 pm. These are real flesh eating zombies being housed in complete and total darkness in downtown Tulsa but caution: if and when they bite you... you will become one of them. Get your tickets at the door, $10 for adults and $5 for students. OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, November 20th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. OkEq Art Exhibit We want your Marriage Equality photos! The October exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Ann and Chuck Tomlins. ________ If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to Lucas.Green@OkEq.org - - - - with "OK to use" in the Subject. Please include any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you! Engagement, Wedding and Anniversary Announcements in the Tulsa World Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 4/23/26, 12:37 PM �Firefox 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-30th--2014... The Tulsa World now accepts engagement, wedding and anniversary announcements for brides and brides and grooms and grooms. 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org TULS.ttWORLD You can fill out the announcement forms at www.tulsaworld.com/celebrations Registering your out-of-state marriage license with the state of Oklahoma Counseling Services Couples who have obtained marriage licenses in other states or other countries are encouraged to register their out-of-state marriage license with the Tulsa County Clerk. Couples must provide the original marriage license and pay a $13 fee for the first page and $2 for additional page to register the license. The Tulsa County Clerk takes cash or personal check but no debit or credit cards for payment. Please remember the County Clerk records out-of-state marriage licenses. The Court Clerk issues in-state marriage licenses. Go to the County Clerk not the Court Clerk to register your out-of-state marriage license. Tulsa County Clerk Tulsa County Administration Bldg. 500 South Denver Tulsa, Oklahoma 74103-3832 County Clerk Switchboard: (918) 596-5801 Office hours are Monday through Friday from 8:30 am until 5:00 pm Wedding Resources Oklahomans for Equality has a list of officiants for wedding ceremonies available for pick up at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org for a copy. If you are looking for services for your wedding, please look through our Equality Business Alliance directory where you can find all kinds of --------LGBT friendly businesses to help you host the perfect wedding. Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8568 Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 4/23/26, 12:37 PM �Firefox 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-30th--2014... Counseling Services The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has several spaces available for rent if you are looking for space to hold your ceremony. Please email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org for a rental information sheet or to arrange a quick tour of the available spaces. Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org Early Voting now available for Nov 4 Election Ends Saturday November 1st Voters can cast their votes early now at their County Election Board. Early voting is available from 8:00 am to 6:00 pm Thursday and Friday and from 9:00 am to 2:00 pm on Saturday. There will be no voting on Sunday or Monday. The general election is Tuesday, November 4th. In Tulsa County, voters can cast their early ballot at the Election Board at 555 N Denver Ave, or Hardesty Library at 8316 E. 93rd St. Counseling Services LGBT Pride T-Shirt Quilt Project Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a For the 35th Anniversary of Oklahomans for Equality, a quilt project has been started to make a quilt from of all kinds of LGBT related shirts. Pride would be best, but we welcome any and all LGBT shirts. Quality is not important since they will be cut up anyway. ~ ~ ~ :7~ J:- -,1£ ~~ Saturdays By appointment sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org TULSA PRIDE ,,.,...,.so.c2010 0 "'""" Please bring your shirts to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center anytime between 12:00 pm and 9:00 pm Monday through Saturday. For more information, email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety 4/23/26, 12:37 PM �Firefox 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-30th--2014... Computer Boot Camp Every other Sunday, Next class on November 9th; 12:30 pm The world is changing and you refuse to be left behind. And you want to be able to email your friends and family members or even show your grandkids a couple of tricks that you've learned on the computer. You want to be able to use the Internet to search on topics that are important to you - the latest health information, what's happening in the world, or what the headlines are in the city. Class size will be limited to 9. For more information or to reserve your spot, please contact Mary Jones at 918.743.4297 or Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Book Signing with Katie Hill and Arin Andrews Wednesday, November 5th, 2014; 6:30 pm On Wednesday, November 5th, 2014, Oklahomans for Equality will host a book signing with Katie Rain Hill and Arin Andrews. Katie and Arin have both recently published books and will share some favorite passages from their books and then answer questions for the audience. The book signing will follow. Books will be available for purchase at this event. (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Katie's book, Rethinking Normal: A Memoir in Transistion, "In her unique, generous, and affecting voice, nineteen-year-old Katie Hill shares her personal journey of undergoing gender reassignment." .1.MOt~IR IN TROSITIO: KATIE RAIN HILL 8 :' u;,_, 1SSEf Arin's book, Some Assembly Required: The Not-SoSecret Life of a Transgender Teen, "Seventeen-year-old Arin Andrews shares all the hilarious, painful, and poignant details of undergoing gender reassignment as a high school student in this winning memoir." ~ f I/, ,P TheNot•So-S«r•tL..f• of,Tr,nogen<krlHn ARIN ANDREWS First Thursday Art Gallery Reception November 6th, 2014; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The November Oklahomans for Equality 4/23/26, 12:37 PM �Firefox 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-30th--2014... showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Susan Hamilton in a show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, November 6th, 2014 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Serv,ces and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders The November Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, November 19th, 2014 at 6:00 pm. Hosted by The Mixed Company located at 302 S Cheyenne Ave, Tulsa OK 74103. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. MIXe:C COMPANY Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Our Bodies Ourselves is a new group that focuses on body image, disordered eating, health and society's ideas surrounding these issues. The group will meet on the first and third Wednesdays of the month at 7:00 pm at the Equality Center. All are welcome. Next meeting will be November 5th. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. The Mixed Company 302 S Cheyenne Ave Tulsa OK 74103 Our Bodies, Ourselves First and Third Wednesdays of every month; 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers - Writing Group Every Friday at 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center A Murder of Storytellers will meet for a writing group at the Equality Center every Friday at 7:00 pm. As an indie publishing house, A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for 4/23/26, 12:37 PM �Firefox 7 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-30th--2014... Everyone knows that a gathering of crows is called a murder, but in days past, it was also called a storytelling. So, let's gather, tell our stories, and murder those fears and errors that hold us back. Guys Dine Too Tuesday, November 4th, 2014; 6:30 pm The November meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at the Cheesecake Factory on Tuesday, November 4th, 2014 at 6:30 pm. The Cheesecake Factory is located at 8711 E 71st St mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 www.thecheesecakefactory.com Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. Veterans Day Lunch with SAGE Tulsa Tuesday, November 11th, 2014; 12:0 pm - 1:30 pm After you attend the Veterans Day Parade, come by and join SAGE Tulsa for lunch when we honor our LGBT veterans. The Veterans Day Parade will start at 11:00 am on Tuesday, November 11th. SAGE Tulsa will host a Veterans Day Lunch at 12:00 pm and is inviting everyone to come by afterwards and join us for lunch and honor our LGBT veterans. Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Tulsa Pride 2015 Community Meeting Tuesday, November 12th, 2014; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Join us on Tuesday, November 12th, 2014 at 7:00 pm for the first community meeting for Tulsa Pride 2015 at the Equality Center. The meeting will be open to the public and anybody who's interested in helping out is encouraged to attend. Trans Day of Remembrance Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex 4/23/26, 12:37 PM �Firefox 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-30th--2014... Wednesday, November 19th, 2014; 6:30 pm individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center To pay homage, as well as raise awareness, of those whose lives were lost due to acts of anti-transgender violence, Oklahomans for Equality will observe Transgender Day of Remembrance on Wednesday, November 19th, 2014 at 6:30 pm. This is a free event where we will honor the memory of the lives of our brothers and sisters so they will not be forgotten. https://www.facebook.com/events/463586317114769/ The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: The Garden Trug http://www.theGardenTrug.com Garden Tru Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno nursery, florist & gifts OKEQ eNews Sponsor Need flowers? Call our full service florist ... we deliver f~ 1Love our Strore? Like Us On Facebook! ~ facebook.com/gardentrug 101 st & Delaware 918.528.3828 OUT OK Pre-Film Festival Screening November 2nd, 2014; 2:00 pm TOM AT THE FARM (Canada/France) French with English Subtitles Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org ---Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet 4/23/26, 12:37 PM �Firefox 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-30th--2014... Following the untimely death of his boyfriend, a young hip copywriter meets his lover's strange and dark family. Hitchcock would be proud. Venue: The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Cost: $10 or free with the purchase of a 2014 OUT OK VIP PASS Popcorn and refreshments will be served Net proceeds benefit Oklahomans for Equality For OUT OK Passes, visit www.out-ok.com Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org OUT OK Film Festival November 14th, 15th & 16th, 2014 The Oklahoma GLBT nternationa Fi m Festiva 14.15.16 NOV 2014 EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday PROGRAM AND TICKETS AVAILABLE ONLINE NOW! Transformative. Engrossing. And totally Entertaining... There's an exciting and diverse world waiting to be explored during the latest edition of OUT OK, the Oklahoma GLBT International Film Festival. Join us November 14, 15, 16, 2014. www.out-ok.com Net proceeds benefit Oklahomans for Equality Sam Harris on the Oprah Winfrey Network Sunday, November 2nd; 8:00 pm Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by 4/23/26, 12:37 PM �Firefox 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-30th--2014... H.O.P.E. Testing Oklahoma's own, Sam Harris, is set to appear on the OWN show "Oprah: Where Are They Now?". The program will run on Sunday, November 2nd at 8:00 pm and 11:00 pm. Fair Housing in Tulsa Survey Survey ends November 3rd, 2014 The City of Tulsa is conducting a confidential survey for feedback on whether the city has barriers to fair housing. The survey will be part of a study on Tulsa's fair housing choices, a study required by the U.S. Department of Housing and Urban Development. The survey is available in English and Spanish by following this link here. Reiki Sessions By Appointment Dennis R Neill Equality Center Reiki - pronounced "ray-key" is a life energy balancing and stress reduction technique that uses chakra points for a non-impact healing session. Reiki promotes healing in countless areas including everything from physical injuries and aches, to mental and spiritual traumas and hurts, to overall balancing in life. It does not use or replace traditional medicine, but instead uses Universal Life Force Energy already inside us all to go to the areas of greatest need. The practitioner acts as a conduit to help the energy move more freely to those areas. Held at the Equality Center, a session lasting approximately 1 1/2 hours is $75 for non OkEq members and $50 for OkEq members. A sliding scale is also available. Monica Haney is a certified Reiki Practitioner and is happy to answer your call or text at 918.381.1656 Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org --- Tantra 1 for Men Friday, November 7th through Sunday, November 9th Presented by the Body Electric, this workshop is an introduction to the teachings of Tantra. In a safe and facilitated space, the group will explore the principles and tools for living life with greater freedom, creativity, and passion. To do this, they create experiments to practice erotic touch, conscious breath, movement, and meditation, supplemented with lecture and discussion. Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org --- If this sounds of interest and/or you would like to know more, please visit the Body Electric website at: http://www.thebodyelectricschool.com/ mens-introductory/tantra-1-for-men/ or contact Andr� directly at 918.406.4659. 4/23/26, 12:37 PM �Firefox 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-30th--2014... Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org 2015 Call for Exhibition Proposals Deadline is November 15th, 2014 The Art Gallery at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center is now accepting proposals for our monthly exhibits to fill the 2015 Exhibition Calendar. Each chosen exhibit will be on display for approximately 30 days. Our gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a paragraph or two about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 JPEG images which characterize your current work. Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable.. OkEq hosts an opening night reception for the artist(s), on the first Thursday of the month. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at close of opening night. Deadline for submissions is November 15th, 2014. Notifications will be sent out by December 1st, 2014. We still do have a "no repeat" policy, so will only consider proposals from those who have not previously exhibited in the gallery, (excepting MOREcolor participation) Please submit by e-mail to alliejensen@cox.net, with the subject heading "OkEq Gallery Proposal" World AIDS Day Monday, December 1st, 2014; 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality will host Dr. Perry Halkitis on World AIDS Day on Monday, December 1st. OkEq will host a cocktail reception at 6:30 pm and follow with a lecture featuring Dr. Halkitis at 7:00 pm. Dr. Halkitis recently published "The AIDS Generation" which documents the lived experiences of HIV-positive gay men who are presently middle-aged, long-term survivors of HIV/AIDS. Council Oak Mens Chorale will also perform at the event. WORLD AIDS ~ 1.DECEMBER 4/23/26, 12:37 PM �Firefox 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-30th--2014... October is LGBT History Month A new LGBT Icon will be featured every day of the month A new LGBT Icon will be featured every day LGBT History Month celebrates the achievements of 31 lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgender Icons. Beginning October 1st, 2014, a new LGBT Icon will be featured every day. October 30th - Lou Sullivan October 31st - Sylvester To view videos and bios of the featured Icons, visit lgbthistorymonth.com Trans-sition Research Study Researchers at the University of Texas are seeking trans* identified individuals who intend to begin transition, those who have already begun transition, and those who identify as having completed transition. This study will look at personal experiences of individuals before, during, and after transition. Please use the above link to provide your contact information. You will then be sent a short questionnaire to determine eligibility. Eligible participants will be contacted to schedule an in-person or phone interview. For questions, please contact: Dr. Julie Nagoshi, School of Social Work, University of Texas at Arlington julienagoshi@uta.edu Survey Link: https://okstatecoe.az1.qualtrics.com/SE/? SID=SV_3K9dW0lGcSFUvHL Equality Center Pride Store Available in the Pride Store, same-sex wedding toppers. Various designs and prices. 4/23/26, 12:37 PM �Firefox 13 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-30th--2014... Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Haunted By Home: The Life and Letters of Lynn Riggs' by Phyllis Cole Braunlich You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Phyllis Cole Braunlich sketches the life story of Lynn Riggs (18991954), the playwright best known as the author of Green Grow the Lilacs, the play that formed the basis for the Rodgers THE LIFE and Hammerstein musical Oklahoma! Today AND Riggs is recognized as one of the twentieth LETTERS OF century's most innovative playwrights. HAUNTED BY HOME LYNN RIGGS Santa Fe, Hollywood, New York, and Chapel BY Hill: these were the cities that Lynn Riggs, PHYLm COLE "father of the folk play," called home, along with BRAUNLICH eastern Oklahoma, the scene of his memorable re-creations of Oklahoma Territory before statehood. Riggs traveled widely to make his living and his fame, and along the way he earned the friendship of many avant-garde writers and successful theatre people of his time. This biography is also a chronicle of literary and caf� society on both coasts and in New Mexico during the 1920s, '30s, and '40s. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/23/26, 12:37 PM �Firefox 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-30th--2014... Volunt er A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! ULSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r-----------------------------------------------------, I I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I I L-----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 12:37 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/78d28070d992e57783fc005cda3e5e44.pdf 18cb928d488811afa20b648fdf604ab2 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-6th--201... eNews November 6th, 2014 In This Issue EBA Sponsor First Thursday Art Show Veterans Day Lunch Equality Business Alliance Welcome to the eNews. Join SAGE Tulsa on Tuesday November 11th as they host a lunch honoring LGBT Veterans. Lunch will be served at 12:00 pm. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Marriage Equality Photos --- The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: The Garden Trug Volunteer http://www.theGardenTrug.com Tulsa Pride 2015 LGBT Shirt Quilt Computer Boot Camp Our Bodies, Ourselves A Murder of Storytellers Trans Day of Remembrance Come Home for Thanksgiving Garden Tru Books Now Available ACA Assistance nursery, flor ist & gifts EBA Sponsor Tulsa World OKEQ eNews Sponsor Need flowers? Call our full service florist ... we deliver ['-1'3.1Love our Strore? Like Us On Facebook! ~ facebook.com/gardentrug 101 st & Delaware 918.528.3828 Out-of-States Marriages Wedding Resources Fairy Tree OUT OK Film Festival Reiki Sessions First Thursday Art Gallery Reception Tantra 1 for Men November 6th, 2014; 6:00 - 9:00 pm 2015 Call for Art World AIDS Day The November Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Susan Hamilton in a show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, November 6th, 2014 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. OSU Survey Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook Veterans Day Lunch with SAGE Tulsa Tuesday, November 11th, 2014; 12:00 - 1:30 pm 4/23/26, 12:38 PM �Firefox 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-6th--201... After you attend the Veterans Day Parade, come by and join SAGE Tulsa for lunch when we honor our LGBT veterans. The Veterans Day Parade will start at 11:00 am on Tuesday, November 11th. SAGE Tulsa will host a Veterans Day Lunch at 12:00 pm and is inviting everyone to come by afterwards and join us for lunch and honor our LGBT veterans. OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, November 20th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook g EQJBusmess UALITY Alliance The November Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, November 19th, 2014 at 6:00 pm. Hosted by The Mixed Company located at 302 S Cheyenne Ave, Tulsa OK 74103. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. OkEq Art Exhibit The November exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Susan Hamilton. ________ MIXe:C COM P A N Y The Mixed Company 302 S Cheyenne Ave Tulsa OK 74103 Tulsa Pride 2015 Community Meeting Tuesday, November 11th, 2014; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Join us on Tuesday, November 11th, 2014 at 7:00 pm for the first community meeting for Tulsa Pride 2015 at the Equality Center. The meeting will be open to the public and anybody who's interested in helping out is encouraged to attend. We want your Marriage Equality photos! Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 12:38 PM �Firefox 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-6th--201... If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to Lucas.Green@OkEq.org with "OK to use" in the Subject. Please include any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you! LGBT Pride T-Shirt Quilt Project For the 35th Anniversary of Oklahomans for Equality, a quilt project has been started to make a quilt from of all kinds of LGBT related shirts. Pride would be best, but we welcome any and all LGBT shirts. Quality is not important since they will be cut up anyway. ~ ~d';, ,>< .. "" -fl,, ~ Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8568 TULSA PRIDE .. , 2010 • Of' CfLEfl""T"'O ""!>t Please bring your shirts to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center anytime between 12:00 pm and 9:00 pm Monday through Saturday. For more information, email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Computer Boot Camp Every other Sunday, Next class on November 9th; 12:30 pm The world is changing and you refuse to be left behind. And you want to be able to email your friends and family members or even show your grandkids a couple of tricks that you've learned on the computer. You want to be able to use the Internet to search on topics that are important to you - the latest health information, what's happening in the world, or what the headlines are in the city. Class size will be limited to 9. For more information or to reserve your spot, please contact Mary Jones at 918.743.4297 or Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Volunteer Opportunities November Here are some of our upcoming volunteer opportunities for November. If you would like to volunteer, please email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org. OkEq needs volunteers to assist with the Route 66 Marathon. The Equality Center is a water stop just before the finish line. Shifts from 9:00 am to 4:30 pm Sunday, November 23rd, 2014. This will be a wonderful time to cheer the runners on and to be a part of the race. This will be a block party type of atmosphere and a fun day. Follow this link to 4/23/26, 12:38 PM �Firefox 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-6th--201... register. Select "Water/Gatorade Stops" and the Equality Center is stop #16 on the list. Volunteers are needed for clean up after the Come Home for Thanksgiving meal on Thursday, November 27th. 10:00 am - 2:00 pm Our Bodies, Ourselves First and Third Wednesdays of every month; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Our Bodies Ourselves is a new group that focuses on body image, disordered eating, health and society's ideas surrounding these issues. The group will meet on the first and third Wednesdays of the month at 7:00 pm at the Equality Center. All are welcome. Next meeting will be November 19th. I Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org MY BODY A Murder of Storytellers - Writing Group Every Friday at 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center A Murder of Storytellers will meet for a writing group at the Equality Center every Friday at 7:00 pm. As an indie publishing house, A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Everyone knows that a gathering of crows is called a murder, but in days past, it was also called a storytelling. So, let's gather, tell our stories, and murder those fears and errors that hold us back. Trans Day of Remembrance Wednesday, November 19th, 2014; 6:30 pm Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org --SOS Group Dennis R. Neill Equality Center To pay homage, as well as raise awareness, of those whose lives were lost due to acts of anti-transgender violence, Oklahomans for Equality will observe Transgender Day of Remembrance on Wednesday, November 19th, 2014 at 6:30 pm. This is a free event where we will honor the memory of the lives of our brothers and sisters so they will not be forgotten. https://www.facebook.com/events/463586317114769/ Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org 4/23/26, 12:38 PM �Firefox 5 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-6th--201... Come Home for Thanksgiving f Thursday, November 27th, 2014; 12:00 pm I • . , - I Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OkEq invites you to join us on Thanksgiving day for a FREE community meal at the Equality Center. Harpist, Linda Paul, will provide special music to accompany the meal. Please confirm your attendance by contacting: Lucas.Green@OkEq.org or visit our Facebook Event Page Local Affirming and Inclusive congregations and OkEq provide a wonderful meal every year. The meal will be served at 12:00 pm. Lunch will be provided by: Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Unity Church of Christianity Parish Church of Saint Jerome Bethany Christian Church College Hill Presbyterian Church Fellowship Lutheran Church All Souls Unitarian Church St. Paul's United Methodist Diversity Christian Fellowship International Eastside Christian Church Open Table, UCC University United Methodist Church Trinity Episcopal Church Katie Rain Hill and Arin Andrews Books now available SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 12:38 PM �Firefox 6 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-6th--201... Now available for purchase on the OkEq website store are books recently published by both Katie Rain Hill and Arin Andrews. The books are available for pick up at the Equality Center for $20.00 (Includes Tax) or for $25.00 shipped to you. Click here to visit the website store. Facilitated by John Madigan sage Services and Advocacy Katie's book, Rethinking Normal: A Memoir in Transistion, "In her unique, generous, and affecting voice, nineteen-year-old Katie Hill shares her personal journey of undergoing gender reassignment." for Gay, Lesb,an, Bisexual & Transgender Elders IM(Mlll 1-TIIUITIM .,KArfERAJNHIU 8 0R(e Arin's book, Some Assembly Required: The Not-SoSecretLife of a Transgender Teen, "Seventeen-year-old Arin Andrews shares all the hilarious, painful, and poignant details of undergoing gender reassignment as a high school student in this winning memoir." ASSE f Tulsa Shambhala Meditation HII UDREWS Affordable Care Act Assistance Every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health insurance system to find the most affordable coverage that meets the consumer's needs. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Plexus Slim Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Ask me for FREE sample!!! T: (918) 361-4188 All natural products for diabeti cs , weight loss, pain, GI issues and skin conditions. www.ploxusslim.com/robinlabutti E: robinlabutti@Cox.not Lose we,ght • Get flt • lmp1ove performance • Increase 1nuuy Engagement, Wedding and Anniversary Announcements in the Tulsa World Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 4/23/26, 12:38 PM �Firefox 7 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-6th--201... 918.592.0088 The Tulsa World now accepts engagement, wedding and anniversary announcements for brides and brides and grooms and grooms. TULSitWORLD You can fill out the announcement forms at www.tulsaworld.com/celebrations Registering your out-of-state marriage license with the state of Oklahoma Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Couples who have obtained marriage licenses in other states or other countries are encouraged to register their out-of-state marriage license with the Tulsa County Clerk. Couples must provide the original marriage license and pay a $13 fee for the first page and $2 for additional page to register the license. The Tulsa County Clerk takes cash or personal check but no debit or credit cards for payment. Please remember the County Clerk records out-of-state marriage licenses. The Court Clerk issues in-state marriage licenses. Go to the County Clerk not the Court Clerk to register your out-of-state marriage license. Tulsa County Clerk Tulsa County Administration Bldg. 500 South Denver Tulsa, Oklahoma 74103-3832 County Clerk Switchboard: (918) 596-5801 Office hours are Monday through Friday from 8:30 am until 5:00 pm Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Wedding Resources Oklahomans for Equality has a list of officiants for wedding ceremonies available for pick up at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org for a copy. If you are looking for services for your wedding, please look through our Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 12:38 PM �Firefox 8 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-6th--201... Equality Business Alliance directory where you can find all kinds of LGBT friendly businesses to help you host the perfect wedding. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has several spaces available for rent if you are looking for space to hold your ceremony. Please email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org for a rental information sheet or to arrange a quick tour of the available spaces. Tulsa CARES Fairy Tree The Fairy Tree is back and ready for you to stop by the Equality Center to select a recipient in need. We adopt the clients of Tulsa CARES that are in need of clothing and other items. The suggested gift items are listed for your shopping convenience. Tulsa CARES provides social services to individuals affected by HIV/AIDS. Help us support those in our community that are struggling to survive. Gifts should be wrapped and returned by Dec. 14th. OUT OK Film Festival November 14th, 15th & 16th, 2014 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 12:38 PM �Firefox 9 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-6th--201... The Oklahoma GLBT nternationa Fi m Festive 14.15.16 NOV 2014 EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday WE'RE COMING! www.out-ok.com Full Schedule Online November 14, 15, 16 Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Don't miss Brazil's award-winning official submission for 2015's Oscar. THE WAY HE LOOKS shines a warm glow on the sexual awakening of a blind teenager. Soon to be a classic coming-out story for all ages. Friday, November 14th, 7:30 pm at Circle Cinema. Join us November 14, 15, 16, 2014. www.out-ok.com Net proceeds benefit Oklahomans for Equality Reiki Sessions By Appointment Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides 4/23/26, 12:38 PM �Firefox 10 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-6th--201... Dennis R Neill Equality Center Reiki - pronounced "ray-key" is a life energy balancing and stress reduction technique that uses chakra points for a non-impact healing session. Reiki promotes healing in countless areas including everything from physical injuries and aches, to mental and spiritual traumas and hurts, to overall balancing in life. It does not use or replace traditional medicine, but instead uses Universal Life Force Energy already inside us all to go to the areas of greatest need. The practitioner acts as a conduit to help the energy move more freely to those areas. Held at the Equality Center, a session lasting approximately 1 1/2 hours is $75 for non OkEq members and $50 for OkEq members. A sliding scale is also available. Monica Haney is a certified Reiki Practitioner and is happy to answer your call or text at 918.381.1656 testing on Fridays 4:00 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tantra 1 for Men Friday, November 7th through Sunday, November 9th Presented by the Body Electric, this workshop is an introduction to the teachings of Tantra. In a safe and facilitated space, the group will explore the principles and tools for living life with greater freedom, creativity, and passion. To do this, they create experiments to practice erotic touch, conscious breath, movement, and meditation, supplemented with lecture and discussion. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org --- If this sounds of interest and/or you would like to know more, please visit the Body Electric website at: http://www.thebodyelectricschool.com/ mens-introductory/tantra-1-for-men/ or contact Andr� directly at 918.406.4659. 2015 Call for Exhibition Proposals Deadline is November 15th, 2014 Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org --- The Art Gallery at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center is now accepting proposals for our monthly exhibits to fill the 2015 Exhibition Calendar. Each chosen exhibit will be on display for approximately 30 days. Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org ---- Our gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a paragraph or two about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 JPEG images which characterize your current work. Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable.. 4/23/26, 12:38 PM �Firefox 11 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-6th--201... OkEq hosts an opening night reception for the artist(s), on the first Thursday of the month. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at close of opening night. Deadline for submissions is November 15th, 2014. Notifications will be sent out by December 1st, 2014. We still do have a "no repeat" policy, so will only consider proposals from those who have not previously exhibited in the gallery, (excepting MOREcolor participation) Please submit by e-mail to alliejensen@cox.net, with the subject heading "OkEq Gallery Proposal" World AIDS Day Monday, December 1st, 2014; 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality will host Dr. Perry Halkitis on World AIDS Day on Monday, December 1st. OkEq will host a cocktail reception at 6:30 pm and follow with a lecture featuring Dr. Halkitis at 7:00 pm. Dr. Halkitis recently published "The AIDS Generation" which documents the lived experiences of HIV-positive gay men who are presently middle-aged, long-term survivors of HIV/AIDS. Council Oak Mens Chorale will also perform at the event. Books will be available for purchase. WORLD AIDS ~ - 1.DECEMBER Trans-sition Research Study Researchers at the University of Texas are seeking trans* identified individuals who intend to begin transition, those who have already begun transition, and those who identify as having completed transition. This study will look at personal experiences of individuals before, during, and after transition. Please use the above link to provide your contact information. You will then be sent a short questionnaire to determine eligibility. Eligible participants will be contacted to schedule an in-person or phone interview. For questions, please contact: Dr. Julie Nagoshi, School of Social Work, University of Texas at Arlington julienagoshi@uta.edu Survey Link: https://okstatecoe.az1.qualtrics.com/SE/? SID=SV_3K9dW0lGcSFUvHL 4/23/26, 12:38 PM �Firefox 12 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-6th--201... Equality Center Pride Store Available in the Pride Store, same-sex wedding toppers. Various designs and prices. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'This Book This Hill These People: Poems' by Lynn Riggs You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Part-Cherokee like his Claremore, Oklahoma predecessor Will Rogers, Lynn Riggs (1899-1954) is best known as the father of the play Oklahoma!, which in 1943 was adapted from his original Broadway Production called Green Grow the Lilacs. This is his second volume of poems, sonnets and lyrics about loyalty, love, kindness, loneliness, war and wisdom collected from those he published in many popular magazines during his lifetime. They reveal a sensitive, literate man of the world who had a compulsion to tell the Oklahoma story, which is the story of mankind: a man who during his lifetime was understood least by those who affected his life most. Biographical introductions by Phyllis Braunlich, writer and instructor at Oral Roberts University. Two-color Western drawings created for illustrations by the late Oklahoma artist Ray Piercey. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/23/26, 12:38 PM �Firefox 13 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-6th--201... Volunt er A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! ULSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r-----------------------------------------------------, I I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I I L-----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 12:38 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/61969be92d11e5405fd18cb7866653e7.pdf b8d4dbc76b708cd12ca4d7905a51fe1c PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-13th--20... eNews November 13th, 2014 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Trans Day of Remembrance Equality Business Alliance Come Home for Thanksgiving Welcome to the eNews. Join OkEq on Wednesday, November 19th for our Transgender Day of Remembrance Event beginning at 6:30 pm. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Plexus Slim OUT OK Film Festival Fairy Tree Marriage Equality -- - - -Photos --LGBT Shirt Quilt Volunteer Our Bodies, Ourselves A Murder of Storytellers Ask me for FREE sample!!! Books Now Available ACA Assistance First Thursday Art Show EBA Sponsor T: (918) 361-4188 All natural products for diabeti cs , weight loss, pain, GI issues and skin conditions. www.pexusslim.com/robinlabutti E: robinlabutti@Cox.net Lose W8tghl • Git lI1 • Improve performanc1 • lncrnn 1n1rgy Marriage Matters... for Everyone Out-of-States Marriages Trans Day of Remembrance Wednesday, November 19th, 2014; 6:30 pm Tulsa World Wedding Resources Tulsa Threat Reiki Sessions 2015 Call for Art World AIDS Day Free Screening World AIDS Day Pride Store Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Rainbow Library Volunteer To pay homage, as well as raise awareness, of those whose lives were lost due to acts of anti-transgender violence, Oklahomans for Equality will observe Transgender Day of Remembrance on Wednesday, November 19th, 2014 at 6:30 pm. This is a free event where we will honor the memory of the lives of our brothers and sisters so they will not be forgotten. https://www.facebook.com/events/463586317114769/ Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook 4/23/26, 12:39 PM �Firefox 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-13th--20... Find Us on Facebook The November Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, November 19th, 2014 at 6:00 pm. Hosted by The Mixed Company located at 302 S Cheyenne Ave, Tulsa OK 74103. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. MIX~C COMPANY The Mixed Company 302 S Cheyenne Ave Tulsa OK 74103 Come Home for Thanksgiving Thursday, November 27th, 2014; 12:00 pm OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, November 20th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. OkEq Art Exhibit The November exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Susan Hamilton. ________ Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OkEq invites you to join us on Thanksgiving day for a FREE community meal at the Equality Center. Special music will accompany the meal. Please confirm your attendance by contacting: Lucas.Green@OkEq.org or visit our Facebook Event Page ---- Local Affirming and Inclusive congregations and OkEq provide a wonderful meal every year. The meal will be served at 12:00 pm. Lunch will be provided by: Unity Church of Christianity Parish Church of Saint Jerome Bethany Christian Church College Hill Presbyterian Church Fellowship Lutheran Church All Souls Unitarian Church St. Paul's United Methodist Diversity Christian Fellowship International Eastside Christian Church Open Table, UCC Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 4/23/26, 12:39 PM �Firefox 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-13th--20... University United Methodist Church Trinity Episcopal Church Boston Avenue United Methodist Church Maybello@OkEq.org ------ OUT OK Film Festival November 14th, 15th & 16th, 2014 Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8568 MOVIES! MOVIES! MOVIES! www.out-ok.com Full Schedule Online Join us Friday, November 14th for 3 days of Cinematic brilliance with a twist of lavender! See you in the Dark! Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Don't miss Brazil's award-winning official submission for 2015's Oscar. THE WAY HE LOOKS shines a warm glow on the sexual awakening of a blind teenager. Soon to be a classic coming-out story for all ages. Friday, November 14th, 7:30 pm at Circle Cinema. Join us November 14, 15, 16, 2014. 4/23/26, 12:39 PM �Firefox 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-13th--20... www.out-ok.com Net proceeds benefit Oklahomans for Equality Tulsa CARES Fairy Tree The Fairy Tree is back and ready for you to stop by the Equality Center to select a recipient in need. We adopt the clients of Tulsa CARES that are in need of clothing and other items. The suggested gift items are listed for your shopping convenience. Tulsa CARES provides social services to individuals affected by HIV/AIDS. Help us support those in our community that are struggling to survive. Gifts should be wrapped and returned by Dec. 14th. We want your Marriage Equality photos! Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to Lucas.Green@OkEq.org with "OK to use" in the Subject. Please include any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you! LGBT Pride T-Shirt Quilt Project For the 35th Anniversary of Oklahomans for Equality, a quilt project has been started to make a quilt from of all kinds of LGBT related shirts. Pride would be best, but we welcome any and all LGBT shirts. Quality is not important since they will be cut up anyway. iJi~¼ TULSA PRIDE ...... . .,. 2010 G"'"°"' Please bring your shirts to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center anytime between 12:00 pm and 9:00 pm Monday through Saturday. For more information, email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Volunteer Opportunities November Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Here are some of our upcoming volunteer opportunities for November. If you would like to volunteer, please email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org. OkEq needs volunteers to assist with the Route 66 Marathon. The Equality Center is a water stop just before the finish line. Shifts from 9:00 am to 4:30 pm Sunday, November 23rd, 2014. This will be a wonderful time to cheer the SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety 4/23/26, 12:39 PM �Firefox 5 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-13th--20... runners on and to be a part of the race. This will be a block party type of atmosphere and a fun day. Follow this link to register. Select "Water/ Gatorade Stops" and the Equality Center is stop #16 on the list. Volunteers are needed for clean up after the Come Home for Thanksgiving meal on Thursday, November 27th. 10:00 am - 2:00 pm (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Our Bodies, Ourselves First and Third Wednesdays of every month; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Our Bodies Ourselves is a new group that focuses on body image, disordered eating, health and society's ideas surrounding these issues. The group will meet on the first and third Wednesdays of the month at 7:00 pm at the Equality Center. All are welcome. Next meeting will be November 19th. I MY BODY A Murder of Storytellers - Writing Group Every Friday at 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center A Murder of Storytellers will meet for a writing group at the Equality Center every Friday at 7:00 pm. As an indie publishing house, A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Everyone knows that a gathering of crows is called a murder, but in days past, it was also called a storytelling. So, let's gather, tell our stories, and murder those fears and errors that hold us back. Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Katie Rain Hill and Arin Andrews Books now available Now available for purchase on the OkEq website store are books recently published by both Katie Rain Hill and Arin Andrews. The books are available for pick up at the Equality Center for $20.00 (Includes Tax) or for $25.00 shipped to you. Click here to visit the website store. -- ~ '"lV ~IIOill /" -~ Katie's book, Rethinking Normal: A Memoir in Transistion, "In her unique, generous, and affecting voice, nineteen-year-old Katie Hill shares her personal journey of undergoing gender 4/23/26, 12:39 PM �Firefox 6 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-13th--20... ~ reassignment." SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Arin's book, Some Assembly Required: The Not-SoSecretLife of a Transgender Teen, "Seventeen-year-old Arin Andrews shares all the hilarious, painful, and poignant details of undergoing gender reassignment as a high school student in this winning memoir." g OD'(e , 1SSE ·• Affordable Care Act Assistance In person assistance available Open enrollment is Nov 15th - Feb 15th, 2015 Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Serv,ces and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health insurance system to find the most affordable coverage that meets the consumer's needs. Onsite assistance will be available on: November 19th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm December 3rd, 10th & 17th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm January 7th, 14th, 21st & 28th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm February 4th & 11th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm First Thursday Art Gallery Opening Reception Thursday, December 4th, 2014; 6:00 pm The December OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the combined works of SAGE Tulsa members in a show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, December 4th from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: The Garden Trug Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for 4/23/26, 12:39 PM �Firefox 7 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-13th--20... http://www.theGardenTrug.com Garden Tru nursery, florist & gifts mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 0KE0 eNews Sponsor Need flowers? Call our full service florist ... we deliver f~ 1Love our Strore? Like us On Facebook! ~ facebook.com/gardentrug 101 st & Delaware 918.528.3828 'Marriage Matters... for Everyone' Conference Saturday, November 15th, 2014; 8:30 am - 3:00 pm College Hill Presbyterian Church, 712 S. Columbia Ave. On November 15th, The Covenant Network of Presbyterians will hold a conference titled "Marriage Matters ... For Everyone" at College Hill Presbyterian Church. The keynote speaker will be Mark Achtemeier, a teaching elder in the Presbyterian Church (U.S.A.) and a theologian and writer who has been a pastor and professor. Workshops will address several issues related to same-sex marriage, including a session by Achtemeier on what the Bible says and does not say about homosexuality. For more information, visit covnetpres.org/tulsa-ok-regional-conference Registration is $25 and free for students. Registering your out-of-state marriage license with the state of Oklahoma Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Gender Outreach Couples who have obtained marriage licenses in other states or other countries are encouraged to register their out-of-state marriage license with the Tulsa County Clerk. Couples must provide the original marriage license and pay a $13 fee for the first page and $2 for additional page to register the license. The Tulsa County Clerk takes cash or personal check but no debit or credit cards for payment. Please remember the County Clerk Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex 4/23/26, 12:39 PM �Firefox 8 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-13th--20... records out-of-state marriage licenses. The Court Clerk issues in-state marriage licenses. Go to the County Clerk not the Court Clerk to register your out-of-state marriage license. Tulsa County Clerk Tulsa County Administration Bldg. 500 South Denver Tulsa, Oklahoma 74103-3832 County Clerk Switchboard: (918) 596-5801 Office hours are Monday through Friday from 8:30 am until 5:00 pm Engagement, Wedding and Anniversary Announcements in the Tulsa World individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm The Tulsa World now accepts engagement, wedding and anniversary announcements for brides and brides and grooms and grooms. A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. TULSitWORLD You can fill out the announcement forms at www.tulsaworld.com/celebrations Wedding Resources Oklahomans for Equality has a list of officiants for wedding ceremonies available for pick up at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org for a copy. If you are looking for services for your wedding, please look through our Equality Alliance - -Business --- -directory - - where you can find all kinds of LGBT friendly businesses to help you host the perfect wedding. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno 4/23/26, 12:39 PM �Firefox 9 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-13th--20... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has several spaces available for rent if you are looking for space to hold your ceremony. Please email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org for a rental information sheet or to arrange a quick tour of the available spaces. Tulsa Threat Women's Football Tryouts Saturday, November 15th, 2014; 10:00 am - 2:00 pm OKLAHOMA ' S BEST Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org WOMEN ' S TACKLE FOOTBALL Curious to see if you have what it takes to play? Tulsa Threat Mini-Camps November 15th from 10:00am - 2:00pm December 13th from 10:00am - 2:00pm Sign-up Fee : $25.00/Person Location : Thoreau Midd l e School 7370 E. 71st Street Tulsa , OK 74133 For more information about our team and upcoming •vents visit our website at www .tuls.1thr•3 com EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Thoreau Demonstration Academy 7370 E 71st St, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74133 Returning Tulsa Threat players and all interested potential new "Threats" are encouraged to be at Thoreau Demonstration Academy for their first ever "Mini-Camp/Tryout combination. Those trying out for the first time will require a $25 registration fee. This allows you to attend one or both of the Mini-Camps, with a final opportunity to tryout on January 3rd.The fee will also include 1 Threat t-shirt to show our appreciation of your interest in women's football. For more information visit www.tulsathreat.com Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Reiki Sessions Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that Open Everyday 4/23/26, 12:39 PM �Firefox 10 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-13th--20... By Appointment Dennis R Neill Equality Center Reiki - pronounced "ray-key" is a life energy balancing and stress reduction technique that uses chakra points for a non-impact healing session. Reiki promotes healing in countless areas including everything from physical injuries and aches, to mental and spiritual traumas and hurts, to overall balancing in life. It does not use or replace traditional medicine, but instead uses Universal Life Force Energy already inside us all to go to the areas of greatest need. The practitioner acts as a conduit to help the energy move more freely to those areas. Held at the Equality Center, a session lasting approximately 1 1/2 hours is $75 for non OkEq members and $50 for OkEq members. A sliding scale is also available. Monica Haney is a certified Reiki Practitioner and is happy to answer your call or text at 918.381.1656 2015 Call for Exhibition Proposals Deadline is November 15th, 2014 includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: The Art Gallery at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center is now accepting proposals for our monthly exhibits to fill the 2015 Exhibition Calendar. Each chosen exhibit will be on display for approximately 30 days. Our gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a paragraph or two about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 JPEG images which characterize your current work. Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable.. OkEq hosts an opening night reception for the artist(s), on the first Thursday of the month. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at close of opening night. Deadline for submissions is November 15th, 2014. Notifications will be sent out by December 1st, 2014. Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We still do have a "no repeat" policy, so will only consider proposals from those who have not previously exhibited in the gallery, (excepting MOREcolor participation) Please submit by e-mail to alliejensen@cox.net, - - with the subject heading "OkEq Gallery Proposal" World AIDS Day Free Screening Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org --- 4/23/26, 12:39 PM �Firefox 11 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-13th--20... Monday, December 1st, 2014; 11:30 am Free Documentary Screening on World AIDS Day Mondoy. December I. 2014, ol OU-Tulso Open to the Pubic Q~epSOll h Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org The University of Oklahoma Health Sciences Center College of Public Health in collaboration with Tulsa CARES, Oklahomans for Equality, HOPE, the Anne and Henry Zarrow School of Social Work, OU Sooner Allies, and the OU Sooner Association for Equality (SAFE) present a Free Documentary Screening on World AIDS Day at OU-Tulsa. Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Monday, December 1st, 2014 11:30 am - 1:00 pm To RSVP or for more information: Contact Julia-Leighty (918) 660-3670 Julia-Leighty@ouhsc.edu World AIDS Day Monday, December 1st, 2014; 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality will host Dr. Perry Halkitis on World AIDS Day on Monday, December 1st. OkEq will WORLD host a cocktail reception at 6:30 pm and follow with a AIDS lecture featuring Dr. Halkitis at 7:00 pm. Dr. Halkitis recently published "The AIDS Generation" which documents the lived experiences of HIV-positive gay 1 DECEMBER men who are presently middle-aged, long-term survivors of HIV/AIDS. Council Oak Mens Chorale will also perform at the event. Books will be available for purchase. Community sponsors include Planned Parenthood of the Heartland, Tulsa CARES, Sisters in Song,Tulsa Interfaith Alliance, H.O.P.E Health Outreach Prevention Education, and Council Oak Mens Chorale. ::;si. MIIYN HA ll flS Equality Center Pride Store Available in the Pride Store, same-sex wedding toppers. Various designs and prices. 4/23/26, 12:39 PM �Firefox 12 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-13th--20... Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Lesbians Raising Sons: An Anthology' edited by Jess Wells You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Traditional philosophy maintains that women alone raising sons cannot make them into "true men"--that households without men have no true "role model" for sons. Working from this presumption, this book addresses the many challenges faced by lesbians raising sons. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! 4/23/26, 12:39 PM �Firefox 13 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-13th--20... Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r-----------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L-----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 12:39 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/f6c314948d513f161dec54fef1950510.pdf 8bdf6cc610e88e6585b4faf0ae54b9a7 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-19th--20... eNews November 19th, 2014 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Be Our Voice Trans Day of Remembrance Equality Business Alliance Welcome to the eNews. Join OkEq on Wednesday, November 19th for our Transgender Day of Remembrance Event beginning at 6:30 pm. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: The Garden Trug http://www.theGardenTrug.com Come Home for Thanksgiving Basketball League Fairy Tree First Thursday Art Show World AIDS Day Guys Dine Too 7th Annual Falalala Ball EBA Sponsor ACA Assistance Garden Tru Our Bodies, Ourselves A Murder of Storytellers nursery, flor ist & gifts Volunteer LGBT Shirt Quilt OKEQ eNews Sponsor Need flowers? Call our full service florist ... we deliver ['-1'3.1Love our Strore? Like Us On Facebook! ~ facebook.com/gardentrug 101 st & Delaware 918.528.3828 COMC Books Now Available Marriage Equality Photos --Tulsa World Wedding Resources Be Our Voice, Give a Day In honor of their 2nd anniversary, Rose Padgett and Michael Potts have made a donation to OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign Reiki Sessions World AIDS Day Free Screening Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook and are sponsoring the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Sunday, November 23rd, 2014 4/23/26, 12:44 PM �Firefox 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-19th--20... Thank you and congrats, Rose and Michael! Click here to commemorate a special day with OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign - - - - - - - - - - - - --- -- - Trans Day of Remembrance Wednesday, November 19th, 2014; 6:30 pm OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, November 20th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. OkEq Art Exhibit Dennis R. Neill Equality Center To pay homage, as well as raise awareness, of those whose lives were lost due to acts of anti-transgender violence, Oklahomans for Equality will observe Transgender Day of Remembrance on Wednesday, November 19th, 2014 at 6:30 pm. This is a free event where we will honor the memory of the lives of our brothers and sisters so they will not be forgotten. https://www.facebook.com/events/463586317114769/ The November exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Susan Hamilton. ________ Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The November Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, November 19th, 2014 at 6:00 pm. Hosted by The Mixed Company located at 302 S Cheyenne Ave, Tulsa OK 74103. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. MIX~C COMPANY Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8568 The Mixed Company 302 S Cheyenne Ave Tulsa OK 74103 Come Home for Thanksgiving Thursday, November 27th, 2014; 12:00 pm 4/23/26, 12:44 PM �Firefox 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-19th--20... Counseling Services Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OkEq invites you to join us on Thanksgiving day for a FREE community meal at the Equality Center. Special music will accompany the meal. Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Please confirm your attendance by contacting: Lucas.Green@OkEq.org or visit our Facebook Event Page Local Affirming and Inclusive congregations and OkEq provide a wonderful meal every year. The meal will be served at 12:00 pm. Lunch will be provided by: Unity Church of Christianity Parish Church of Saint Jerome Bethany Christian Church College Hill Presbyterian Church Fellowship Lutheran Church All Souls Unitarian Church St. Paul's United Methodist Diversity Christian Fellowship International Eastside Christian Church Open Table, UCC University United Methodist Church Trinity Episcopal Church Boston Avenue United Methodist Church Fellowship Congregational Church Tulsa Metro Basketball League Winter Season Wednesday nights at 7:00 pm Winter Season is December through February Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org The league plays 3 on 3 games on a half court each Wednesday night December through February at 7:00 pm. Tulsa Metro Basketball League is an offical program of OkEq and a member organization of the Equality Sports Alliance of Tulsa. Sign up on the OkEq Webstore for $50. Games are played at the Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center at 2021 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK. Daryn Drake will be the head coach for the new Basketball season. For more information about the league, please contact Basketball@OkEq.org. 4/23/26, 12:44 PM �Firefox 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-19th--20... Tulsa CARES Fairy Tree The Fairy Tree is back and ready for you to stop by the Equality Center to select a recipient in need. We adopt the clients of Tulsa CARES that are in need of clothing and other items. The suggested gift items are listed for your shopping convenience. Tulsa CARES provides social services to individuals affected by HIV/AIDS. Help us support those in our community that are struggling to survive. Gifts should be wrapped and returned by Dec. 14th. First Thursday Art Gallery Opening Reception Thursday, December 4th, 2014; 6:00 pm Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org The December OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the combined works of SAGE Tulsa members in a show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, December 4th from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. World AIDS Day Monday, December 1st, 2014; 6:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center WORLD Oklahomans for Equality will host Dr. Perry Halkitis on AIDS World AIDS Day on Monday, December 1st. OkEq will host a cocktail reception at 6:30 pm and follow with a lecture featuring Dr. Halkitis at 7:00 pm. Dr. Halkitis _1.DECEMBER recently published "The AIDS Generation" which documents the lived experiences of HIV-positive gay men who are presently middle-aged, long-term survivors of HIV/AIDS. Sisters in Song and Council Oak Mens Chorale will perform at the event. Books will be available for purchase. Community sponsors include Planned Parenthood of the Heartland, Tulsa CARES, PFLAG Tulsa, Sisters in Song,Tulsa Interfaith Alliance, H.O.P.E Health Outreach Prevention Education, Council Oak Mens Chorale, Grateful Day Foundation, the Hyatt Regency Tulsa and Phillips Theological Seminary. ~ SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org • ~ . I , I Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold 4/23/26, 12:44 PM �Firefox 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-19th--20... Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Guys Dine Too Tuesday, December 2nd, 2014; 6:30 pm The December meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Baxter's Interubran Grill on Tuesday, December 2nd, 2014 at 6:30 pm. Baxter's is located at 717 S Houston Ave. www.baxtersgrill.com Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com ---if you plan on attending. 7th Annual Falalala Ball Saturday, December 20th, 2014; 7:00 pm MAKE SANTA BlUSH GO FOR NAUGHTY _, Dennis R. Neill quality Cente r-- ( Don your gay apparel and join us for the 7th annual Falalala Ball on Saturday, December 20th, 2014 at 7:00 pm. The nicely naughty evening will include live entertainment, a fetish and tattoo fashion show, cash bar and light hor d'oeuvres. Firefighters from the 2015 Tulsa Metro Hottest Firefighters Calendar will be in attendance. They will be available for photos and to sign copies of their calendar. Cause sometimes naughty is nice. Please pull out your holiday dress and business casual. Admission Price is one of the following: pet food for A Friend for A Friend, personal toiletries or non-perishable food items for the Parish Church of St Jerome and Diversity Christian Fellowship Church. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Plexus Slim SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Servtces and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual &. Transgendcr Elders Tulsa Shambhala Meditation 4/23/26, 12:44 PM �Firefox 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-19th--20... Ask me for FREE sample!!! ·rim All natural products fo r diabeti cs , weight loss, pain, GI issues and skin conditions. www.plexusslim.com/robinlabutti T: (918) 361-<1188 E: robinlabutti@Cox.net Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. lose weight • Get ht • Improve performance • Increase 1n1rgy Affordable Care Act Assistance In person assistance available Open enrollment is Nov 15th - Feb 15th, 2015 Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health insurance system to find the most affordable coverage that meets the consumer's needs. Onsite assistance will be available on: November 19th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm December 3rd, 10th & 17th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm January 7th, 14th, 21st & 28th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm February 4th & 11th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm Our Bodies, Ourselves First and Third Wednesdays of every month; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Our Bodies Ourselves is a new group that focuses on body image, disordered eating, health and society's ideas surrounding these issues. The group will meet on the first and third Wednesdays of the month at 7:00 pm at the Equality Center. All are welcome. Next meeting will be November 19th. I MY BODY Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 A Murder of Storytellers - Writing Group Every Friday at 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center A Murder of Storytellers will meet for a writing group at the Equality Center every Friday at 7:00 pm. As an indie publishing house, A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Everyone knows that a gathering of crows is called a murder, but in days Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an 4/23/26, 12:44 PM �Firefox 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-19th--20... past, it was also called a storytelling. So, let's gather, tell our stories, and murder those fears and errors that hold us back. Volunteer Opportunities November environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Here are some of our upcoming volunteer opportunities for November. If you would like to volunteer, please email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org. ACA Assistance OkEq needs volunteers to assist with the Route 66 Marathon. The Equality Center is a water stop just before the finish line. Shifts from 9:00 am to 4:30 pm Sunday, November 23rd, 2014. This will be a wonderful time to cheer the runners on and to be a part of the race. This will be a block party type of atmosphere and a fun day. Follow this link to register. Select "Water/Gatorade Stops" and the Equality Center is stop #16 on the list. Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Volunteers are needed for clean up after the Come Home for Thanksgiving meal on Thursday, November 27th. 10:00 am - 2:00 pm Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. LGBT Pride T-Shirt Quilt Project For the 35th Anniversary of Oklahomans for Equality, a quilt project has been started to make a quilt from of all kinds of LGBT related shirts. Pride would be best, but we welcome any and all LGBT shirts. Quality is not important since they will be cut up anyway. Lambda Al-Anon Please bring your shirts to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center anytime between 12:00 pm and 9:00 pm Monday through Saturday. For more information, email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Council Oak Mens Chorale Holiday Schedule A Murder of Storytellers Tuesdays at Trinity, November 25th; 12:05 pm Every Friday 7:00 pm Council Oak Mens Chorale will be performing holiday favorites at Trinity Episcopal Church, 5th and Cincinnati, 12:05 pm. 2nd Annual GLOW on the Green, Sunday November 30th; 5:00 pm council oak COU/lCJI oak mens chorolB Council Oak Men's Chorale will be singing at the GLOW on the GREEN at Guthrie Green in the Brady Arts District at 5:00 pm. Come and celebrate the season and see the Green turn on their Christmas lights! Annual World AIDS Day Commemoration, December 1st; 6:30 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. 4/23/26, 12:44 PM �Firefox 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-19th--20... The Chorale will be singing at the Annual World AIDS Day Commemoration at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Monday evening December 1st. The Chorale was organized in 1998 to sing at the World AIDS Day Service and has sung each year after. Christmas Splendor, Tuesday December 2nd, Thursday December 4th and Friday December 5th; 8:00 pm Come start your holiday season with the Council Oak Mens Chorale as they present Christmas Splendor at Trinity Episcopal Church, 5th and Cincinnati. The Council Oak Men's Chorale under the direction of Kent Dennis will be performing many of your holiday favorites of Little Drummer Boy, Silver Bells, White Christmas, Silent Night and Have Yourself A Merry Little Christmas. iDecem6er 2"4, 4'' &5'' . 'Trinity <EviscopafCliurcli- 8:00pm You won't want to miss this festive 501 . Cincinnati e - 'Tufs 0 annual tradition of holiday music, choreography and fun! Tickets are $20 and can be purchases through this web site or at the door. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno A portion of the proceeds from each concert will be given to fund audio recordings the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Fellowship Congregational Church, Sunday December 7th; 10:30 am The Chorale will be singing at the 10:30 am service at Fellowship Congregational Church. Come enjoy the holiday season with us as we worship with the wonderful congregation of FCC. The Chorale appreciates the support of the staff and congregation! Katie Rain Hill and Arin Andrews Books now available Now available for purchase on the OkEq website store are books recently published by both Katie Rain Hill and Arin Andrews. The books are available for pick up at the Equality Center for $20.00 (Includes Tax) or for $25.00 shipped to you. Click here to visit the website store. Katie's book, Rethinking Normal: A Memoir in Transistion, "In her unique, generous, and affecting voice, nineteen-year-old Katie Hill shares her personal journey of undergoing gender reassignment." Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 12:44 PM �Firefox 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-19th--20... oM!Mllt I~ 111,$11. . .. KA.nERAJNHILL 8 0 ll(e Arin's book, Some Assembly Required: The Not-SoSecretLife of a Transgender Teen, "Seventeen-year-old Arin Andrews shares all the hilarious, painful, and poignant details of undergoing gender reassignment as a high school student in this winning memoir." ASSE , ,teJJ HIIUDREWS We want your Marriage Equality photos! EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to Lucas.Green@OkEq.org with "OK to use" in the Subject. Please include any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you! Engagement, Wedding and Anniversary Announcements in the Tulsa World Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. The Tulsa World now accepts engagement, wedding and anniversary announcements for brides and brides and grooms and grooms. You can fill out the announcement forms at www.tulsaworld.com/celebrations Wedding Resources Oklahomans for Equality has a list of officiants for wedding ceremonies available for pick up at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org for a copy. If you are looking for services for your wedding, please look through our Equality Business Alliance directory where you can find all kinds of -------LGBT friendly businesses to help you host the perfect wedding. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides 4/23/26, 12:44 PM �Firefox https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-19th--20.. testing on Fridays 4:00 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has several spaces available for rent if you are looking for space to hold your ceremony. Please email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org for a rental information sheet or to arrange a quick tour of the available spaces. ----- Reiki Sessions Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org By Appointment ------ Reiki - pronounced "ray-key" is a life energy balancing and stress reduction technique that uses chakra points for a non-impact healing session. Reiki promotes healing in countless areas including everything from physical injuries and aches, to mental and spiritual traumas and hurts, to overall balancing in life. It does not use or replace traditional medicine, but instead uses Universal Life Force Energy already inside us all to go to the areas of greatest need. The practitioner acts as a conduit to help the energy move more freely to those areas. ----- Dennis R Neill Equality Center Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Held at the Equality Center, a session lasting approximately 1 1/2 hours is $75 for non OkEq members and $50 for OkEq members. A sliding scale is also available. Monica Haney is a certified Reiki Practitioner and is happy to answer your call or text at 918.381.1656 World AIDS Day Free Screening Monday, December 1st, 2014; 11:30 am Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org ----- 10 of 12 4/23/26, 12:44 PM �Firefox 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-19th--20... The University of Oklahoma Health Sciences Center College of Public Health in collaboration with Tulsa CARES, Oklahomans for Equality, HOPE, the Anne and Henry Zarrow School of Social Work, OU Sooner Allies, and the OU Sooner Association for Equality (SAFE) present a Free Documentary Screening on World AIDS Day at OU-Tulsa. Monday, December 1st, 2014 11:30 am - 1:00 pm To RSVP or for more information: Contact Julia-Leighty (918) 660-3670 Julia-Leighty@ouhsc.edu Equality Center Pride Store Available in the Pride Store, same-sex wedding toppers. Various designs and prices. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Stone Butch Blues' by Leslie Feinberg You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Published in 1993, this brave, original novel is considered to be the finest account ever written of the complexities of a transgendered existence. STON[ BUTCH B S 4/23/26, 12:44 PM �Firefox 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-19th--20... Woman or man? That's the question that rages like a storm around Jess Goldberg, clouding her life and her identity. Growing up differently gendered in a blue--collar town in the 1950's, coming out as a butch in the bars and factories of the prefeminist '60s, deciding to pass as a man in order to survive when she is left without work or a community in the early '70s. This powerful, provocative and deeply moving novel sees Jess coming full circle, she learns to accept the complexities of being a transgendered person in a world demanding simple explanations: a he-she emerging whole, weathering the turbulence. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r-----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L-----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 12:44 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/3f77e159dbd302c18c65b68499c664de.pdf 0e39ba0891a48e1bf7f3fef0bdb9e5cc PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-25th--20... eNews November 25th, 2014 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Be Our Voice Come Home for Thanksgiving Holiday Pride 2014 Welcome to the eNews. Join OkEq on Thursday, November 27th for our Thanksgiving Day meal served at 12:00 pm. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Plexus Slim Equality Business Alliance Basketball League Fairy Tree First Thursday Art Show World AIDS Day Guys Dine Too 7th Annual Falalala Ball Ask me for FREE sample!!! EBA Sponsor ACA Assistance Our Bodies, Ourselves LGBT Shirt Quilt All natural products for diabeti cs , weight loss, pain, GI issues and skin conditions. www.pexusslim.com/robinlabutti T: (918) 361-4188 E: robinlabutti@Cox.net Lose W8tghl • Git lI1 • Improve performanc1 • lncrnn 1n1rgy Be Our Voice, Give a Day "To all those recently married couples, Congratulations and continued happiness! To one & all, may this be a most Happy Holiday Season! To the staff and volunteers, thanks for making everyday a happy day at the Equality Center!" - Sol Smith In honor of the Thanksgiving holiday, Sol Smith made a donation to OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign COMC PFLAG Tulsa Holiday Brunch Books Now Available Marriage - - - Equality - - - -Photos --Tulsa World Wedding Resources Reiki Sessions World AIDS Day Free Screening LGBTI Health Research Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 3:06 PM �Firefox 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-25th--20... OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, December 18th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. OkEq Art Exhibit and is sponsoring the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Thursday, November 27th, 2014 Thank you, Sol! The November exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Susan Hamilton. ________ Click here to commemorate a special day with OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign - - - - - - - --- - Come Home for Thanksgiving Thursday, November 27th, 2014; 12:00 pm Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8568 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OkEq invites you to join us on Thanksgiving day for a FREE community meal at the Equality Center. Special music will accompany the meal. Please confirm your attendance by contacting: Lucas.Green@OkEq.org or visit our Facebook Event Page Local Affirming and Inclusive congregations and OkEq provide a wonderful 4/23/26, 3:06 PM �Firefox 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-25th--20... meal every year. The meal will be served at 12:00 pm. Lunch will be provided by: Unity Church of Christianity Parish Church of Saint Jerome Bethany Christian Church College Hill Presbyterian Church Fellowship Lutheran Church All Souls Unitarian Church St. Paul's United Methodist Diversity Christian Fellowship International Eastside Christian Church Open Table, UCC University United Methodist Church Trinity Episcopal Church ----- -----Boston Avenue United Methodist Church Fellowship Congregational Church - -------- - Holiday Pride 2014 Sunday, November 30th, 2014; 7:00 pm Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 As part of Downtown Tulsa's "Ready, Set, GLOW!" celebration, the Dennis R.Neill Equality will be lit up with holiday lights in a special ceremony with a laser light show on Sunday, November 30th, 2014 at 7:00 pm. Holiday Pride 2014 will continue throughout the month of December as the Equality Center will be a part of the holiday light tours of Downtown Tulsa. Ready, Set, GLOW! A Progressive Holiday Lighting Event is the official downtown holiday kick-off event, November 30th, 2014. Downtown Tulsa is becoming a traditional destination for Holiday activities. With a full schedule of events throughout the season, downtown districts are coming together for one special night to kick off GLOW: Downtown Tulsa seasonal festivities with "Ready, Set, GLOW!" For more information visit: www.downtowntulsaok.com/event/9956 Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The December Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, December 17th, 2014 at 6:00 pm. Hosted by Decopolis, 607 S Boston Ave, Tulsa, OK 74119. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. 4/23/26, 3:06 PM �Firefox 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-25th--20... E>ECOPOtlS Decopolis 607 S Boston Ave Tulsa, OK 74119 Tulsa Metro Basketball League Winter Season Wednesday nights at 7:00 pm Winter Season is December through February Counseling Services The league plays 3 on 3 games on a half court each Wednesday night December through February at 7:00 pm. Tulsa Metro Basketball League is an offical program of OkEq and a member organization of the Equality Sports Alliance of Tulsa. Sign up on the OkEq -----Webstore for $50. Games are played at the Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center at 2021 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK. Daryn Drake will be the head coach for the new Basketball season. For more information about the league, please contact Basketball@OkEq.org. Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org ---- Tulsa CARES Fairy Tree --- The Fairy Tree is back and ready for you to stop by the Equality Center to select a recipient in need. We adopt the clients of Tulsa CARES that are in need of clothing and other items. The suggested gift items are listed for your shopping convenience. Tulsa CARES provides social services to individuals affected by HIV/AIDS. Help us support those in our community that are struggling to survive. Gifts should be wrapped and returned by Dec. 14th. SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org First Thursday Art Gallery Opening Reception Thursday, December 4th, 2014; 6:00 pm • ~ . I , I Grieving Well The December OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the combined works of SAGE Tulsa members in a show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, December 4th from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. World AIDS Day Monday, December 1st, 2014; 6:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will host Dr. Perry Halkitis on f woRLD AIDS ---- - 1 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold 4/23/26, 3:06 PM �Firefox 5 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-25th--20... World AIDS Day on Monday, December 1st. OkEq will host a cocktail reception at 6:30 pm and follow with a lecture featuring Dr. Halkitis at 7:00 pm. Dr. Halkitis recently published "The AIDS Generation" which documents the lived experiences of HIV-positive gay men who are presently middle-aged, long-term survivors of HIV/AIDS. Sisters in Song and Council Oak Mens Chorale will perform at the event. Books will be available for purchase. Community sponsors include Planned Parenthood of the Heartland, Tulsa CARES, PFLAG Tulsa, Sisters in Song,Tulsa Interfaith Alliance, H.O.P.E Health Outreach Prevention Education, Council Oak Mens Chorale, Grateful Day Foundation, the Hyatt Regency Tulsa and Phillips Theological Seminary. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather GIL' F.R\TIO ' S......t~11 Guys Dine Too Tuesday, December 2nd, 2014; 6:30 pm The December meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Baxter's Interubran Grill on Tuesday, December 2nd, 2014 at 6:30 pm. Baxter's is located at 717 S Houston Ave. www.baxtersgrill.com Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com ---if you plan on attending. 7th Annual Falalala Ball Saturday, December 20th, 2014; 7:00 pm MAKE SANTA BlUSH GO FOR NAUGHTY " SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Servtces and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual &. Tramgendcr Elders Dennis R. Neill quality Cente r-. ( Don your gay apparel and join us for the 7th annual Falalala Ball on Saturday, December 20th, 2014 at 7:00 pm. The nicely naughty evening will Tulsa Shambhala Meditation 4/23/26, 3:06 PM �Firefox 6 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-25th--20... include live entertainment, a fetish and tattoo fashion show, cash bar and light hor d'oeuvres. Firefighters from the 2015 Tulsa Metro Hottest Firefighters Calendar will be in attendance. They will be available for photos and to sign copies of their calendar. Cause sometimes naughty is nice. Please pull out your holiday dress and business casual. Admission Price is one of the following: pet food for A Friend for A Friend, personal toiletries or non-perishable food items for the Parish Church of St Jerome and Diversity Christian Fellowship Church. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: The Garden Trug http://www.theGardenTrug.com Garden Tru Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. nursery, flor ist & gifts OKEQ eNews Sponsor Need flowers? Call our full service florist ... we deliver [~311 Love our Strore? Like us on Facebook! llUJ facebook.com/gardentrug 101st & Delaware 918.528.3828 Affordable Care Act Assistance In person assistance available Open enrollment is Nov 15th - Feb 15th, 2015 Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health insurance system to find the most affordable coverage that meets the consumer's needs. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Onsite assistance will be available on: November 19th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm December 3rd, 10th & 17th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm January 7th, 14th, 21st & 28th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm February 4th & 11th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm Our Bodies, Ourselves First and Third Wednesdays of every month; 7:00 pm Get F.I.T. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Our Bodies Ourselves is a new group that focuses on body image, disordered eating, health and society's ideas surrounding these issues. The group will meet on the first and third Wednesdays of the I MY BODY Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an 4/23/26, 3:06 PM �Firefox 7 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-25th--20... environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. month at 7:00 pm at the Equality Center. All are welcome. Next meeting will be December 3rd. LGBT Pride T-Shirt Quilt Project For the 35th Anniversary of Oklahomans for Equality, a quilt project has been started to make a quilt from of all kinds of LGBT related shirts. Pride would be best, but we welcome any and all LGBT shirts. Quality is not important since they will be cut up anyway. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. i4~¼ TULSA PRIDE 2010 Please bring your shirts to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center anytime between 12:00 pm and 9:00 pm Monday through Saturday. For more information, email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Council Oak Mens Chorale Holiday Schedule 2nd Annual GLOW on the Green, Sunday November 30th; 5:00 pm Council Oak Men's Chorale will be singing at the GLOW on the GREEN at Guthrie Green in the Brady Arts District at 5:00 pm. Come and celebrate the season and see the Green turn on their Christmas lights! Annual World AIDS Day Commemoration, December 1st; 6:30 pm council oak Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. council oak mens chorolB The Chorale will be singing at the Annual World AIDS Day Commemoration at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Monday evening December 1st. The Chorale was organized in 1998 to sing at the World AIDS Day Service and has sung each year after. Christmas Splendor, Tuesday December 2nd, Thursday December 4th and Friday December 5th; 8:00 pm Come start your holiday season with the Council Oak Mens Chorale as they present Christmas Splendor at Trinity Episcopal Church, 5th and Cincinnati. The Council Oak Men's Chorale under the direction of Kent Dennis will be performing many of your holiday favorites of Little Drummer Boy, Silver Bells, White Christmas, Silent Night and Have Yourself A Merry Little Christmas. <Decem6er , . 'Trinity 'Ernscopaf Cnurcli- 8:00pm You won't want to miss this festive 501 - 'Tuls 0 annual tradition of holiday music, choreography and fun! Tickets are $20 and can be purchases through Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. 4/23/26, 3:06 PM �Firefox 8 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-25th--20... this web site or at the door. A portion of the proceeds from each concert will be given to fund audio recordings the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Fellowship Congregational Church, Sunday December 7th; 10:30 am The Chorale will be singing at the 10:30 am service at Fellowship Congregational Church. Come enjoy the holiday season with us as we worship with the wonderful congregation of FCC. The Chorale appreciates the support of the staff and congregation! PFLAG Tulsa Holiday Brunch New Year's Day, Thursday, January 1st, 2015; 1:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Please join us for the annual PFLAG Tulsa Holiday Potluck. PFLAG will provide the meat and drinks and we encourage you to bring vegetable side dishes and desserts. Thursday, January 1st at 1:00 pm. PFLAG Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno TULSA CHAPTER Katie Rain Hill and Arin Andrews Books now available Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals Now available for purchase on the OkEq website store are books recently published by both Katie Rain Hill and Arin Andrews. The books are available for pick up at the Equality Center for $20.00 (Includes Tax) or for $25.00 shipped to you. Click here to visit the website store. Katie's book, Rethinking Normal: A Memoir in Transistion, "In her unique, generous, and affecting voice, nineteen-year-old Katie Hill shares her personal journey of undergoing gender reassignment." The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet IM(llll 1,m~u,111 .. KAnERAJNHIU g Oll(e Arin's book, Some Assembly Required: The Not-SoSecretLife of a Transgender Teen, "Seventeen-year-old Arin Andrews shares all the hilarious, painful, and poignant details of undergoing gender reassignment as a high school student in this winning memoir." 1SSE •' ~EeJJ H IIUDREWS Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 3:06 PM �Firefox 9 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-25th--20... We want your Marriage Equality photos! If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to Lucas.Green@OkEq.org with "OK to use" in the Subject. Please include any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you! Engagement, Wedding and Anniversary Announcements in the Tulsa World EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday The Tulsa World now accepts engagement, wedding and anniversary announcements for brides and brides and grooms and grooms. You can fill out the announcement forms at www.tulsaworld.com/celebrations Wedding Resources Oklahomans for Equality has a list of officiants for wedding ceremonies available for pick up at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org for a copy. If you are looking for services for your wedding, please look through our Equality Business -- -Alliance - - directory - - where you can find all kinds of LGBT friendly businesses to help you host the perfect wedding. Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides 4/23/26, 3:06 PM �Firefox https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-25th--20.. testing on Fridays 4:00 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has several spaces available for rent if you are looking for space to hold your ceremony. Please email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org for a rental information sheet or to arrange a quick tour of the available spaces. ----- Reiki Sessions Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org By Appointment ------ Reiki - pronounced "ray-key" is a life energy balancing and stress reduction technique that uses chakra points for a non-impact healing session. Reiki promotes healing in countless areas including everything from physical injuries and aches, to mental and spiritual traumas and hurts, to overall balancing in life. It does not use or replace traditional medicine, but instead uses Universal Life Force Energy already inside us all to go to the areas of greatest need. The practitioner acts as a conduit to help the energy move more freely to those areas. ----- Dennis R Neill Equality Center Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Held at the Equality Center, a session lasting approximately 1 1/2 hours is $75 for non OkEq members and $50 for OkEq members. A sliding scale is also available. Monica Haney is a certified Reiki Practitioner and is happy to answer your call or text at 918.381.1656 World AIDS Day Free Screening Monday, December 1st, 2014; 11:30 am Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org ----- 10 of 13 4/23/26, 3:06 PM �Firefox 11 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-25th--20... The University of Oklahoma Health Sciences Center College of Public Health in collaboration with Tulsa CARES, Oklahomans for Equality, HOPE, the Anne and Henry Zarrow School of Social Work, OU Sooner Allies, and the OU Sooner Association for Equality (SAFE) present a Free Documentary Screening on World AIDS Day at OU-Tulsa. Monday, December 1st, 2014 11:30 am - 1:00 pm To RSVP or for more information: Contact Julia-Leighty (918) 660-3670 Julia-Leighty@ouhsc.edu Be a part of an important study of LGBTI health Participants who meet the following criteria are encouraged to participate: • if you are 18 - 25 years old • if you identify as a lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, or other nonheterosexual person • if you currently reside in Oklahoma The research study will require approximately 30- 45 minutes and you will be asked to provide an email address to which a link for the survey may be sent. All questions are answered online through a secured website hosted by Qualtrics survey software company. Participants will be asked to complete a demographics questionnaire followed by 6 brief self-report instruments. At the end of the survey, the first 250 urban and first 250 rural participants will receive a code for $10 in credit with giftcertificates.com. This credit can be used to purchase gift cards for businesses like AMC, Bath and Bodyworks, Buckle, Buffalo Wild Wings, or many other wellknown companies. To inquire more about the study or request any additional information, contact the researchers at: Douglas Knutson, by phone 405.459.0241 or email douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Dr. Sue C. Jacobs, by phone 405.744.9895 or email sue.c.jacobs@okstate.edu Dr. Melissa Hakman by phone 405.208.5397 or email mhakman@okcu.edu. For more information or to participate, go to http://tiny.cc/oklgbti2 4/23/26, 3:06 PM �Firefox 12 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-25th--20... Equality Center Pride Store Available in the Pride Store, same-sex wedding toppers. Various designs and prices. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'A Single Man' by Christopher Isherwood You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Welcome to sunny suburban 1960s Southern California. George is a gay middle-aged English professor, adjusting to solitude after the tragic death of his young partner. He is determined to persist in the routines of his former life. A Single Man follows him over the course of an ordinary twenty-four hours. Behind his British reserve, tides of grief, rage, and loneliness surge-but what is revealed is a man who loves being alive despite all the everyday injustices. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/23/26, 3:06 PM �Firefox 13 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-25th--20... Volunt er A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! ULSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r-----------------------------------------------------, I I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I I L-----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 3:06 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/b6afb60dfa35fd1cbc7f30f8b9ae7578.pdf b2f9c9804d7e6d7611aff9dc8bed43b5 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-3rd--201... eNews December 3rd, 2014 In This Issue EBA Sponsor First Thursday Art Show Basketball League Equality Business Alliance Welcome to the eNews. Join in the holiday festivities on Saturday, December 20th, 2014 as OkEq presents the Falalala Ball 2014 at 7:00 pm. The evening will include live entertainment, cash bar and a raffle. Admission is a donated food or toiletry item. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: The Garden Trug http://www.theGardenTrug.com 7th Annual Falalala Ball Big Brothers Big Sisters ACA Assistance LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights COMC Fairy Tree New Year's Eve EBA Sponsor LGBT Shirt Quilt Our Bodies, Ourselves Garden Tru Books Now Available Marriage Equality Photos --Tulsa World nursery, flor ist & gifts Wedding Resources OKEQ eNews Sponsor Need flowers? Call our full service florist ... we deliver ll.C3i1Love our Strore? Like us On Facebook! ~ facebook.com/gardentrug 101 st & Delaware 918.528.3828 Reiki Sessions LGBTI Health Research Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer First Thursday Art Gallery Opening Reception Thursday, December 4th, 2014; 6:00 pm Find Us on Facebook The December OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the combined works of SAGE Tulsa members in a show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, December 4th from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Tulsa Metro Basketball League Winter Season OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, 4/23/26, 3:13 PM �Firefox 2 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-3rd--201... December 18th, 7:00 pm Wednesday nights at 7:00 pm Winter Season is December through February Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. The league plays 3 on 3 games on a half court each Wednesday night December through February at 7:00 pm. Tulsa Metro Basketball League is an offical program of OkEq and a member organization of the Equality Sports Alliance of Tulsa. Sign-up theOkEq - on -Webstore for $50. Games are played at the Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center at 2021 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK. Daryn Drake will be the head coach for the new Basketball season. For more information about the league, please contact Basketball@OkEq.org. OkEq Art Exhibit The December exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the combined works of SAGE Tulsa. ________ Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events g Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook E UALITY ~ Business Al/Janee The December Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, December 17th, 2014 at 6:00 pm. Hosted by Decopolis, 607 S Boston Ave, Tulsa, OK 74119. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. DECOPO~IS Decopolis 607 S Boston Ave Tulsa, OK 74119 Counseling Services 7th Annual Falalala Ball Saturday, December 20th, 2014; 7:00 pm lMIE SMIM ......u._..... r,o Falalala Ball 2014 December 20th Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8568 7:00 pm -@ Counseling Services Don your gay apparel and join us for the 7th annual Falalala Ball on Saturday, December 20th, 2014 at 7:00 pm. The nicely naughty evening will include live entertainment, a fetish and tattoo fashion show, cash bar and light hor d'oeuvres. Firefighters from the 2015 Tulsa Metro Hottest Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance 4/23/26, 3:13 PM �Firefox 3 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-3rd--201... Firefighters Calendar will be in attendance. They will be available for photos and to sign copies of their calendar. Cause sometimes naughty is nice. Please pull out your holiday dress and business casual. Admission Price is one of the following: pet food for A Friend for A Friend, personal toiletries or non-perishable food items for the Parish Church of St Jerome and Diversity Christian Fellowship Church. Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Big Brothers Big Sisters of Oklahoma Tuesday, December 9th, 2014; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will host an informational meeting with Big Brother Big Sisters of Oklahoma's volunteer program on Tuesday, December 9th, 2014 at 7:00 pm. Big Brothers Big Sisters of Oklahoma Big Brothers Big sisters of Oklahoma is working hard to reach out to the children that need us the most. Children may be living in single parent homes or facing a life of poverty or parental incarceration. When a child is matched with a positive role model, something transformational starts. As the nation's largest donor and volunteer supported mentoring network, Big Brothers Big Sisters makes meaningful, monitored matches between adult volunteers and children, ages 6 through 16, in communities across the state. The organization develops positive relationships that have a direct and lasting effect on the lives of young people and as a result more than 60 years later Big Brothers Big Sisters of Oklahoma remains the number one youth mentoring program in the state. BBBSOK currently operates out of 8 sites in Oklahoma, serving in 18 counties across the state and matching in 22. Volunteers in the program are matched with a child on a one-to-one basis. Volunteers are asked to commit to a minimum of one year and see their "little" once a week through the school based program or 3-4 times a month through our community based program. Each match is provided with professional, on-going match support as well as one-on-one training. For more information on Big Brothers Big Sisters Oklahoma, please visit www.bbbsok.org Affordable Care Act Assistance In person assistance available Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org • . I ~ ' - I Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support 4/23/26, 3:13 PM �Firefox 4 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-3rd--201... Open enrollment is Nov 15th - Feb 15th, 2015 Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health insurance system to find the most affordable coverage that meets the consumer's needs. Onsite assistance will be available on: December 3rd, 10th & 17th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm January 7th, 14th, 21st & 28th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm February 4th & 11th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea lthcare Bi I !Of Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. Council Oak Mens Chorale Holiday Schedule SAGE Tulsa Christmas Splendor, Tuesday December 2nd, Thursday December 4th and Friday December 5th; 8:00 pm (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) council oak council oak mens chorole Come start your holiday season with the Council Oak Mens Chorale as they present Christmas Splendor at Trinity Episcopal Church, 5th and Cincinnati. The Council Oak Men's Chorale under the direction of Kent Dennis will be performing many of your holiday favorites of Little Drummer Boy, Silver Bells, White Christmas, Silent Night and Have Yourself A Merry Little Christmas. You won't want to miss this festive annual tradition of holiday music, choreography and fun! Tickets are $20 and can be purchases Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders 4/23/26, 3:13 PM �Firefox 5 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-3rd--201... through this web site or at the door. A portion of the proceeds from each concert will be given to fund audio recordings the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Fellowship Congregational Church, Sunday December 7th; 10:30 am The Chorale will be singing at the 10:30 am service at Fellowship Congregational Church. Come enjoy the holiday season with us as we worship with the wonderful congregation of FCC. The Chorale appreciates the support of the staff and congregation! Fairy Tree The Fairy Tree has been another success this year. All the names have been claimed and we are very grateful to all the participants. Remember that if you have checked out a name, please bring the wrapped gift back to the center by Dec 14th. Wednesday, December 31st, 2014; 10:00 pm Join OkEq at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for an retro & disco party with a live DJ and warm conversations that you will be able to remember the next day. Snacks will be served along with alcohol free beverages. Ring in the New Year and remember it the next morning. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Plexus Slim Ask me for FREE sample!!! •sliffi T: (918) 361-4188 www.pexusslim.com/robin&abutti Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. A New Year's Eve You Can Remember All natural products for diabeti cs , weight loss, pain, GI issues and skin conditions. Tulsa Shambhala Meditation E: robinlabutti@Cox.net Lose weIghl • Git lI1 • Improve performanc1 • lncr11s11n1rgy Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 LGBT Pride T-Shirt Quilt Project For the 35th Anniversary of Oklahomans for Equality, a quilt project has been started to make a quilt from of all kinds of LGBT related shirts. Pride would be best, but we welcome any and all LGBT shirts. Quality is not important since they will be cut up anyway. 4/23/26, 3:13 PM �Firefox 6 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-3rd--201... ~~ ~ --Ii,, ~ ,>< .. ""= TULSA PRIDE .. , 2010 S O, CfLEB""T"'C PfUOI! Please bring your shirts to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center anytime between 12:00 pm and 9:00 pm Monday through Saturday. For more information, email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Our Bodies, Ourselves First and Third Wednesdays of every month; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Our Bodies Ourselves is a new group that focuses on body image, disordered eating, health and society's ideas surrounding these issues. The group will meet on the first and third Wednesdays of the month at 7:00 pm at the Equality Center. All are welcome. Next meeting will be December 3rd. I MY BODY Katie Rain Hill and Arin Andrews Books now available Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Now available for purchase on the OkEq website store are books recently published by both Katie Rain Hill and Arin Andrews. The books are available for pick up at the Equality Center for $20.00 (Includes Tax) or for $25.00 shipped to you. Click here to visit the website store. Katie's book, Rethinking Normal: A Memoir in Transistion, "In her unique, generous, and affecting voice, nineteen-year-old Katie Hill shares her personal journey of undergoing gender reassignment." Arin's book, Some Assembly Required: The Not-SoSecretLife of a Transgender Teen, "Seventeen-year-old Arin Andrews shares all the hilarious, painful, and poignant details of undergoing gender reassignment as a high school student in this winning memoir." Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm We want your Marriage Equality photos! 4/23/26, 3:13 PM �Firefox 7 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-3rd--201... A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to Lucas.Green@OkEq.org - - - with "OK to use" in the Subject. Please include any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you! Engagement, Wedding and Anniversary Announcements in the Tulsa World The Tulsa World now accepts engagement, wedding and anniversary announcements for brides and brides and grooms and grooms. TULSitWORLD You can fill out the announcement forms at www.tulsaworld.com/celebrations Wedding Resources A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Oklahomans for Equality has a list of officiants for wedding ceremonies available for pick up at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org - - - for a copy. If you are looking for services for your wedding, please look through our Equality directory -Business - -Alliance -- where you can find all kinds of LGBT friendly businesses to help you host the perfect wedding. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact 4/23/26, 3:13 PM �Firefox 8 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-3rd--201... EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has several spaces available for rent if you are looking for space to hold your ceremony. Please email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org for a rental information sheet or to arrange a quick tour of the available spaces. Reiki Sessions By Appointment Dennis R Neill Equality Center Reiki - pronounced "ray-key" is a life energy balancing and stress reduction technique that uses chakra points for a non-impact healing session. Reiki promotes healing in countless areas including everything from physical injuries and aches, to mental and spiritual traumas and hurts, to overall balancing in life. It does not use or replace traditional medicine, but instead uses Universal Life Force Energy already inside us all to go to the areas of greatest need. The practitioner acts as a conduit to help the energy move more freely to those areas. Held at the Equality Center, a session lasting approximately 1 1/2 hours is $75 for non OkEq members and $50 for OkEq members. A sliding scale is also available. Monica Haney is a certified Reiki Practitioner and is happy to answer your call or text at 918.381.1656 Be a part of an important study of LGBTI health Participants who meet the following criteria are encouraged to participate: • if you are 18 - 25 years old • if you identify as a lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, or other nonheterosexual person • if you currently reside in Oklahoma EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. The research study will require approximately 30- 45 minutes and you will be asked to provide an email address to which a link for the survey may be sent. All questions are answered online through a secured website hosted 4/23/26, 3:13 PM �Firefox 9 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-3rd--201... by Qualtrics survey software company. Participants will be asked to complete a demographics questionnaire followed by 6 brief self-report instruments. At the end of the survey, the first 250 urban and first 250 rural participants will receive a code for $10 in credit with giftcertificates.com. This credit can be used to purchase gift cards for businesses like AMC, Bath and Bodyworks, Buckle, Buffalo Wild Wings, or many other wellknown companies. To inquire more about the study or request any additional information, contact the researchers at: Douglas Knutson, by phone 405.459.0241 or email douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Dr. Sue C. Jacobs, by phone 405.744.9895 or email sue.c.jacobs@okstate.edu Dr. Melissa Hakman by phone 405.208.5397 or email mhakman@okcu.edu. For more information or to participate, go to http://tiny.cc/oklgbti2 Equality Center Pride Store Available in the Pride Store, same-sex wedding toppers. Various designs and prices. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Not Simply Divine' by Bernard Jay You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Divine's former personal manager takes readers through a labyrinth of American subcultures, countercultures, and glimmering nightlife to tell this no-holds- Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator 4/23/26, 3:13 PM �Firefox 10 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-3rd--201... barred story of a man who did anything to become a star. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r-----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L-----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 3:13 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/3c691569a568e0122b93a2ef5e37ff63.pdf 22ecdb73b6b2b80bbb4d51e1ac196561 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-11th--201... eNews December 11th, 2014 In This Issue EBA Sponsor 7th Annual Falalala Ball Equality Business Alliance Basketball League Welcome to the eNews. Join in the holiday festivities on Saturday, December 20th, 2014 as OkEq presents the Falalala Ball 2014 at 7:00 pm. The evening will include live entertainment, cash bar and a raffle. Admission is a donated food or toiletry item. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality ACA Assistance LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights OkEq Blood Drive Fairy Tree New Year's Eve EBA Sponsor The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Plexus Slim LGBT Shirt Quilt Our Bodies, Ourselves Ask me for FREE sample!!! Marriage Equality Photos -----Reiki Sessions LGBTI Health Research 2014 Holiday Schedule T: (918) 361-4188 All natural prod ucts for diabeti cs , weight loss, pain, GI issues and skin conditions. www.pl•xusslim.com/robi nlabutti Pride Store E: robinlabutti@Cox.n•t Lose we,ghl • Get flt • Improve performance • Increase 1nuuy Rainbow Library Volunteer 7th Annual Falalala Ball Saturday, December 20th, 2014; 7:00 pm Find Us on Facebook December 20th Denni R. Neill Equality,,,Cente _ GJ11;; '(?;t11idliuiJ,:/4£ 7:00 pm ,...;; ~ o.CJJ½c_,a('ieh 621 E 4th St Tul a, OK 74120 91&-743-4297 ltlrol" f1re,fi0\t\tex'S ,.,~-@ l1i ~oe,ke<l bor ©~~ 0irls rtJ fJj)fJf) bo~s © ~o.--l\i'IJYv\fO. MUSIC Don your gay apparel and join us for the 7th annual Falalala Ball on Saturday, December 20th, 2014 at 7:00 pm. The nicely naughty evening will include live entertainment with Chasing Nadean and Mindy Bartlett, a fetish and tattoo fashion show, cash bar and light hor d'oeuvres. Firefighters from the 2015 Tulsa Metro Hottest Firefighters Calendar will be in attendance. They will be available for photos and to sign copies of their OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, December 18th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting 4/23/26, 3:15 PM �Firefox 2 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-11th--201... calendar. Cause sometimes naughty is nice. Please pull out your holiday dress and business casual. Admission Price is one of the following: pet food for A Friend for A Friend, personal toiletries or non-perishable food items for the Parish Church of St Jerome and Diversity Christian Fellowship Church. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook date. OkEq Art Exhibit The December exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the combined works of SAGE Tulsa. ________ The December Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, December 17th, 2014 at 6:00 pm. Hosted by Decopolis, 607 S Boston Ave, Tulsa, OK 74119. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Decopolis 607 S Boston Ave Tulsa, OK 74119 Tulsa Metro Basketball League Winter Season Wednesday nights at 7:00 pm Winter Season is December through February The league plays 3 on 3 games on a half court each Wednesday night December through February at 7:00 pm. Tulsa Metro Basketball League is an offical program of OkEq and a member organization of the Equality Sports Alliance of Tulsa. Sign up on the OkEq Webstore for $50. Games are played at the Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center at 2021 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK. Daryn Drake will be the head coach for the new Basketball season. For more information about the league, please contact Basketball@OkEq.org. ------ Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8568 ---- Affordable Care Act Assistance In person assistance available Open enrollment is Nov 15th - Feb 15th, 2015 Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health insurance system to find the most affordable coverage that meets the consumer's needs. Onsite assistance will be available on: December 3rd, 10th & 17th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm January 7th, 14th, 21st & 28th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm February 4th & 11th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 4/23/26, 3:15 PM �Firefox 3 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-11th--201... LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea Ith ca re Bi I !Of Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. Oklahomans for Equality Blood Drive Sunday, January 4th, 2015; 12:30 - 4:30 pm Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org - - --SOS Group Oklahomans for Equality will host a blood drive from 12:30 to 4:30 pm January 4th at the Equality Center. All donors get a free T-shirt and will be entered in a drawing to win a free cruise! The goal is 40 donations, and the Oklahoma Blood Institute says donations across the board are down, so it's really important that we step up and be good neighbors. Please plan to give blood Jan. 4! Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Unfortunately, men who have sex with men are not eligible to donate (yet), but such would-be donors are encouraged to bring an eligible donor to give blood in their place. Walk-ins are welcome, but signing up for an appointment will ensure that you're not turned away because of time and it guarantees that if there's a line, you'll go to the front of it. Please make an appointment and help prevent a logjam. Make your appointment here. '-!!Ill Oklahoma I I J Blood Institute Fairy Tree Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by 4/23/26, 3:15 PM �Firefox 4 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-11th--201... Yolanda Arnold The Fairy Tree has been another success this year. All the names have been claimed and we are very grateful to all the participants. Remember that if you have checked out a name, please bring the wrapped gift back to the center by Dec 14th. A New Year's Eve You Can Remember Wednesday, December 31st, 2014; 10:00 pm Join OkEq at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for an retro & disco party with a live DJ and warm conversations that you will be able to remember the next day. Snacks will be served along with alcohol free beverages. Ring in the New Year and remember it the next morning. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: The Garden Trug http://www.theGardenTrug.com Garden Tru SAGE Tulsa nursery, florist & gifts OKEQ eNews Sponsor Need flowers? Call our full service florist. .. we deliver r~ 101 st & Delaware 1Love our Strore? Like Us On Facebook! 918.528.3828 -,J facebook.com/gardentrug LGBT Pride T-Shirt Quilt Project For the 35th Anniversary of Oklahomans for Equality, a quilt project has been started to make a quilt from of all kinds of LGBT related shirts. Pride would be best, but we welcome any and all LGBT shirts. Quality is not important since they will be cut up anyway. (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage ' Service, and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders ~~ ~. 4,, ~ ,-c: .. TULSA PRIDE 2010 Please bring your shirts to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center anytime 4/23/26, 3:15 PM �Firefox 5 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-11th--201... between 12:00 pm and 9:00 pm Monday through Saturday. For more information, email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org ---- Our Bodies, Ourselves First and Third Wednesdays of every month; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Our Bodies Ourselves is a new group that focuses on body image, disordered eating, health and society's ideas surrounding these issues. The group will meet on the first and third Wednesdays of the month at 7:00 pm at the Equality Center. All are welcome. Next meeting will be December 17th. We want your Marriage Equality photos! If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to Lucas.Green@OkEq.org with "OK to use" in the Subject. Please include --any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you! Reiki Sessions By Appointment Dennis R Neill Equality Center Reiki - pronounced "ray-key" is a life energy balancing and stress reduction technique that uses chakra points for a non-impact healing session. Reiki promotes healing in countless areas including everything from physical injuries and aches, to mental and spiritual traumas and hurts, to overall balancing in life. It does not use or replace traditional medicine, but instead uses Universal Life Force Energy already inside us all to go to the areas of greatest need. The practitioner acts as a conduit to help the energy move more freely to those areas. Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Held at the Equality Center, a session lasting approximately 1 1/2 hours is $75 for non OkEq members and $50 for OkEq members. A sliding scale is also available. Monica Haney is a certified Reiki Practitioner and is happy to answer your call or text at 918.381.1656 Be a part of an important study of LGBTI health Participants who meet the following criteria are encouraged to participate: • if you are 18 - 25 years old • if you identify as a lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, or other nonheterosexual person • if you currently reside in Oklahoma Get F.I.T. 4/23/26, 3:15 PM �Firefox 6 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-11th--201... The research study will require approximately 30- 45 minutes and you will be asked to provide an email address to which a link for the survey may be sent. All questions are answered online through a secured website hosted by Qualtrics survey software company. Participants will be asked to complete a demographics questionnaire followed by 6 brief self-report instruments. At the end of the survey, the first 250 urban and first 250 rural participants will receive a code for $10 in credit with giftcertificates.com. This credit can be used to purchase gift cards for businesses like AMC, Bath and Bodyworks, Buckle, Buffalo Wild Wings, or many other wellknown companies. To inquire more about the study or request any additional information, contact the researchers at: Douglas Knutson, by phone 405.459.0241 or email douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Dr. Sue C. Jacobs, by phone 405.744.9895 or email sue.c.jacobs@okstate.edu --Dr. Melissa Hakman by phone 405.208.5397 or email mhakman@okcu.edu. For more information or to participate, go to http://tiny.cc/oklgbti2 --- Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Gender Outreach Oklahomans For Equality Happy Holidays 2014 Holiday Schedule for our Affirming, Inclusive and Welcoming Faith Communities Chanukah (Begins the evening of Tuesday, December 16th) Congregation B'nai Emunah Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm 1719 South Owasso Tulsa, OK 74120 Dec 14, 4:30 pm Light Up the Night Chanukah Festival & Concert Temple Israel 2004 East 22nd Place Tulsa, OK 74114 Dec 19, 5:30 pm Shabbat Dinner & Chanukah Celebration. RSVP with TulsaTemple.com Pagan & Earth-Based Religions Parrot House 1st & Quincy A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to 4/23/26, 3:15 PM �Firefox 7 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-11th--201... Winter Solstice Drumming Circle Begins Sundown, Sunday December 21st More information, call Minister BC Horton at 918.370.5315 help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Christmas Services All Souls Unitarian Church 2952 South Peoria Avenue Tulsa, OK 74114 Dec 24, 4:30 pm 6 pm & 7:30 pm Candlelight service Bethany Christian Church 6730 South Sheridan Road Tulsa, OK 74133 Dec 24, 7 pm Boston Avenue United Methodist Church 1301 S Boston Ave. Tulsa, OK 74119 Dec 24, 2 pm Children's Service of the Bells 4 pm & 6 pm Candlelight Worship Services 11 pm Candlelight Communion Service Christ Church Episcopal 10901 South Yale Ave Tulsa, OK 74137 Dec 24, 5:30 pm & 9:0 pm Candlelight Service Dec 25, 10 am Holy Communion Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Church of the Restoration Unitarian Universalist 1314 N Greenwood Ave Tulsa, OK 74106 Dec 21, 11 am, Pre-Christmas Service College Hill Presbyterian Church 712 South Columbia Avenue Tulsa, OK 74104 Dec 24, 6 pm Christmas Eve and Candlelight Service Diversity Christian Fellowship International 627 South 131st East Avenue Tulsa, OK 74108 Dec 24, 7 pm Candlelight Service Eastside Christian Church 1438 S Indianapolis Ave Tulsa, OK 74112 Dec 24, 6 pm The Episcopal Church of The Redeemer 213 North Seminole Ave. Okmulgee, OK 74447 Dec 24, 7 pm Christ Mass with reception to follow Fellowship Congregational Church UCC 2900 South Harvard Tulsa, OK 74114 Dec 24, 7 pm Christmas Eve Service Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for 4/23/26, 3:15 PM �Firefox 8 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-11th--201... Fellowship Lutheran Church ELCA 6727 South Sheridan Road Tulsa, OK 74133 Dec 24, 4 pm, 6 pm & 8 pm LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org First Christian Church 913 S Boulder Ave Tulsa, OK 74119 Dec 24th, 10:30 pm Pre Service Music 11 pm Christmas Eve Service Hope Unitarian 8432 South Sheridan Road Tulsa, OK 74133 Dec 24, 6 pm Candlelight Service John Calvin Presbyterian Church 8181 East 31st Street Tulsa, OK 74145 Dec 24, 6: pm Candlelight Communion EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Parish Church of St Jerome 205 West King Tulsa, OK 74106 Dec 24, Celebration of Midnight Mass 10 pm Reception 11 pm Holy Eucharist Prince of Peace Lutheran 2330 North Quaker Avenue Tulsa, OK 74106 Dec 24, 7 pm Candlelight Chorale service with Holy Communion St Dunstan's Episcopal Church 5635 East 71st Street Tulsa, OK 74136 Dec 24, 7 pm Choral Holy Eucharist 9 pm Spanish Service 10:30 pm Carols for the Christ Child 11 pm Festival Choral Holy Eucharist Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. St Paul's United Methodist Church 1442 South Quaker Avenue (one block east of Peoria on 15th Street) Tulsa, OK 74120 Dec 24, 7 pm Candlelight Worship & Communion Trinity Episcopal Church 501 South Cincinnati Avenue Tulsa, OK 74103 Dec 24, 5 pm Christmas Pageant and Eucharist Rite II 8:30 pm Anthems and Carols sung by the Trinity Choir 9 pm Eucharist Rite II, lighting of candles 10:30 pm Anthems and Carols sung by the Trinity Choir 11:00 pm Traditional Midnight Mass Dec 25, 10 am Eucharist Rite II HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on 4/23/26, 3:15 PM �Firefox 9 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-11th--201... Trinity United Methodist Church 3737 South Peoria Avenue Tulsa, OK 74105 Dec 24, 4 pm Carols & Communion Unity Center of Tulsa 1830 South Boston Avenue Tulsa, OK 74119 Dec 24, 6 pm Candle lighting service Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Unity Church of Christianity 3355 S. Jamestown Ave. Tulsa, OK 74135 Dec 24, 6:30 pm Candlelight Service Special Guest Music by Tavis Miner University United Methodist Church 500 S College Tulsa, OK 74104 Dec 21, 9 pm The Longest Night Service of Worship Dec 24, 6:30 pm Candlelight Service of Lessons and Carols Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Kwanzaa Services (Begins Friday, December 26th) Church of the Restoration Unitarian Universalist 1314 N Greenwood Ave Tulsa, OK 74106 Dec 28, 11 am, Kwanzaa Service Equality Center Pride Store Available in the Pride Store, same-sex wedding toppers. Various designs and prices. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'The Bad Life' by Fr�d�ric Mitterrand Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 3:15 PM �Firefox 10 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-11th--201... You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Bearer of an illustrious name and nephew of a President of the Republic, Fr�d�ric Mitterrand is born into the discreet gentility of Paris' haut FREDERIC MITTERRAND bourgeois 16th arrondissement. Raised by an army of surrogates, he spends his summers in Evian and North Africa and his winters on Alpine bac slopes. life But, growing up in a time and environment where such things are not talked about, Fr�d�ric struggles with a difficult secret. Wracked by a fear of abandonment and confused by his sexual urges toward other boys, he reaches out haphazardly for affection - with both comic and catastrophic results. At age 12, in the first of many capricious attempts to find his true identity, he sneaks into an audition for a major motion picture and gets a part. Thus begins a life steeped in celebrity, French cinema, and clandestine romantic liaisons. In later life, Mitterand, a renowned critic, producer, and talk show host, seeks out old friends, servants, and loves, who reveal startlingly unexpected interpretations of his formative years. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library •• ~ ..• • Volunt r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! ULSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r-----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L-----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 3:15 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/fbc3ded6494f9661c8d5c154651e1fb3.pdf b318a381e4ebf97e12cbb167453dbb87 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-17th--20... eNews December 17th, 2014 In This Issue Donate a Day EBA Sponsor 7th Annual Falalala Ball Equality Business Alliance Welcome to the eNews. Join in the holiday festivities on Saturday, December 20th, 2014 as OkEq presents the Falalala Ball 2014 at 7:00 pm. The evening will include live entertainment, cash bar and a raffle. Admission is a donated food, toiletry item or pet food item. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Be Our Voice, Donate a Day Tulsa Pride 2015 Basketball League ACA Assistance First Thursday Art LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights OkEq Blood Drive Guys Dine Too New Year's Eve EBA Sponsor LGBT Shirt Quilt Our Bodies, Ourselves Marriage Equality Photos --Reiki Sessions Imperial Court of All Oklahoma LGBTI Health Research 2014 Holiday Schedule Pride Store Rainbow Library In honor of nine wonderful years together, Lynn Whitley and Deb Starnes have made a donation to OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign and are sponsoring the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Saturday, December 20th, 2014 Thank you and congrats! Volunteer Find Us on Facebook Click here to commemorate a special day with OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign - - - - - - - --- - The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: ihelpTulsa.com OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, 4/23/26, 3:16 PM �Firefox 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-17th--20... December 18th, 7:00 pm III• I Home / Small Business IT Expertise J ll V Owner - ihelptulso.com Tel : (9 18) 605-8777 Web: www.ihelptvlso.com Emoil: johnv@ihelptulso.com "Are you getting a new computer or smart device from Santa? Do you need all of your files and email moved from your old computer to your new computer? Do you need help setting up your smart device? If so, contact www.ihelptulsa.com or call John at 918 605-8777!" Want to receive computer tips? Like us on Facebook: facebook.com/ ihelptulsa Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. OkEq Art Exhibit The December exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the combined works of SAGE Tulsa. ________ 7th Annual Falalala Ball Saturday, December 20th, 2014; 7:00 pm .a SA#li lUISIL.. Falalala Ball 2014 GOFOI December 20th Counseling Services 7:00 pm Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8568 ,_ ,_,_._-. .@ .... OWifld pw.c,e, Don your gay apparel and join us for the 7th annual Falalala Ball on Saturday, December 20th, 2014 at 7:00 pm. The nicely naughty evening will include live entertainment with Chasing Nadean, Mindy Bartlett and Grant Massey, amazing raffle prizes, a fetish and tattoo fashion show, Oklahoma Mr. Leather Richard Ziese, dancers from Area 18, a burlesque performance, cash bar, light hor d'oeuvres and a performance by Mr. and Mrs. Claus, Bill Francisco and Carolyn Wiley. Firefighters from the 2015 Tulsa Metro Hottest Firefighters Calendar will be in attendance. They will be available for photos and to sign copies of their calendar. Cause sometimes naughty is nice. Please pull out your holiday dress and business casual. Admission Price is one of the following: pet food for A Friend for A Friend, personal toiletries or non-perishable food items for the Parish Church of St Jerome and Diversity Christian Fellowship Church. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance 4/23/26, 3:16 PM �Firefox 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-17th--20... Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org • . I ~ ' - I Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support 4/23/26, 3:16 PM �Firefox 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-17th--20... Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook g E UALITY Q!Busmess Affiance The December Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, December 17th, 2014 at 6:00 pm. Hosted by Decopolis, 607 S Boston Ave, Tulsa, OK 74119. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. DECOPOtlS Decopolis 607 S Boston Ave Tulsa, OK 74119 Tulsa Pride 2015 Planning Meeting Wednesday, December 17th, 2014; 7:00 pm Tulsa Pride will host a public planning meeting on Wednesday, December 17th at 7:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Everyone is invited to come by and help make Tulsa Pride 2015 the best pride ever. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage - Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders 4/23/26, 3:16 PM �Firefox 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-17th--20... T U L S A r Tulsa Metro Basketball League Winter Season Wednesday nights at 7:00 pm Winter Season is December through February The league plays 3 on 3 games on a half court each Wednesday night December through February at 7:00 pm. Tulsa Metro Basketball League is an offical program of OkEq and a member organization of the Equality Sports Alliance of Tulsa. Sign up on the OkEq -----Webstore for $50. Games are played at the Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center at 2021 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK. Daryn Drake will be the head coach for the new Basketball season. For more information about the league, please contact Basketball@OkEq.org. Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Affordable Care Act Assistance In person assistance available Open enrollment is Nov 15th - Feb 15th, 2015 Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health insurance system to find the most affordable coverage that meets the consumer's needs. Onsite assistance will be available on: December 17th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm January 7th, 14th, 21st & 28th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm February 4th & 11th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm January First Thursday Art Gallery Reception Thursday, January 1st, 2015; 6:00 pm Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 The January OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature a special group exhibit titled Transforming Hate - a Creative Process in a show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, January 1st from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. 4/23/26, 3:16 PM �Firefox 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-17th--20... LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. BefLL□F RIG HTS Healthcare Bill Of Rights .org oklahomans for equality • in • the healthcare equality You you deserve_ Know your rights. receive. Oklahomans for Equality Blood Drive Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Sunday, January 4th, 2015; 12:30 - 4:30 pm ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Oklahomans for Equality will host a blood drive from 12:30 to 4:30 pm January 4th at the Equality Center. All donors get a free T-shirt and will be entered in a drawing to win a free cruise! The goal is 40 donations, and the Oklahoma Blood Institute says donations across the board are down, so it's really important that we step up and be good neighbors. Please plan to give blood Jan. 4! Unfortunately, men who have sex with men are not eligible to donate (yet), but such would-be donors are encouraged to bring an eligible donor to give blood in their place. Walk-ins are welcome, but signing up for an appointment will ensure that you're not turned away because of time and it guarantees that if there's a line, you'll go to the front of it. Please make an appointment and help prevent a logjam. Make your appointment here. '-!Ill Oklahoma IIJ Blood Institute Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Guys Dine Too 4/23/26, 3:16 PM �Firefox 7 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-17th--20... Tuesday, January 6th, 2015; 6:30 pm The January meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Chop House BBQ on Tuesday, January 6th, 2015 at 6:30 pm. Chop House BBQ is located at 7992 E 41st St on the SW corner of 41st & Memorial www.chophousebbq.com Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month A New Year's Eve You Can Remember Wednesday, December 31st, 2014; 10:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Join OkEq at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for an retro & disco party with a live DJ and warm conversations that you will be able to remember the next day. Snacks will be served along with alcohol free beverages. Ring in the New Year and remember it the next morning. Game Night The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Plexus Slim Ask me for FREE sample!!! T: (918) 361-4188 All natural products for diabeti cs , weight loss, pai n, GI issues and skin conditions. www.ptexusslim.com/robtnlabutti E: robinlabutti@Cox.net Lose wa1ghl • G,t hi • Improve parformanc1 • lncrun 1nugy Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno LGBT Pride T-Shirt Quilt Project For the 35th Anniversary of Oklahomans for Equality, a quilt project has been started to make a quilt from of all kinds of LGBT related shirts. Pride would be best, but we welcome any and all LGBT shirts. Quality is not important since they will be cut up anyway. i4~~ TULSA PRIDE 2010 Please bring your shirts to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center anytime between 12:00 pm and 9:00 pm Monday through Saturday. For more information, email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact 4/23/26, 3:16 PM �Firefox 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-17th--20... Our Bodies, Ourselves First and Third Wednesdays of every month; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Our Bodies Ourselves is a new group that focuses on body image, disordered eating, health and society's ideas surrounding these issues. The group will meet on the first and third Wednesdays of the month at 7:00 pm at the Equality Center. All are welcome. Next meeting will be December 17th. We want your Marriage Equality photos! If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to Lucas.Green@OkEq.org with "OK to use" in the Subject. Please include any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you! Reiki Sessions By Appointment Dennis R Neill Equality Center Reiki - pronounced "ray-key" is a life energy balancing and stress reduction technique that uses chakra points for a non-impact healing session. Reiki promotes healing in countless areas including everything from physical injuries and aches, to mental and spiritual traumas and hurts, to overall balancing in life. It does not use or replace traditional medicine, but instead uses Universal Life Force Energy already inside us all to go to the areas of greatest need. The practitioner acts as a conduit to help the energy move more freely to those areas. Held at the Equality Center, a session lasting approximately 1 1/2 hours is $75 for non OkEq members and $50 for OkEq members. A sliding scale is also available. Monica Haney is a certified Reiki Practitioner and is happy to answer your call or text at 918.381.1656 Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. 4/23/26, 3:16 PM �Firefox 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-17th--20... HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Join the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma and Imperial Crown Princes/Princess for Reign VII John & Dakota as they host "Turnabout 2015" to benefit The Trevor Project. Saturday January 10th, 2015 at Area 18 (39 E 18th St) 8:00 -10:00 pm 21+ Only Donations can be made online at www.impcourtok.webs.com or by contacting us at impcourtok@gmail.com Be a part of an important study of LGBTI health Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Participants who meet the following criteria are encouraged to participate: • if you are 18 - 25 years old • if you identify as a lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, or other nonheterosexual person • if you currently reside in Oklahoma The research study will require approximately 30- 45 minutes and you will be asked to provide an email address to which a link for the survey may be sent. All questions are answered online through a secured website hosted by Qualtrics survey software company. Participants will be asked to complete a demographics questionnaire followed by 6 brief self-report instruments. At the end of the survey, the first 250 urban and first 250 rural participants will receive a code for $10 in credit with giftcertificates.com. This credit can be used to purchase gift cards for businesses like AMC, Bath and Bodyworks, Buckle, Buffalo Wild Wings, or many other wellknown companies. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org To inquire more about the study or request any additional information, contact the researchers at: Douglas Knutson, by phone 405.459.0241 or email Mary Jones Program Coordinator 4/23/26, 3:16 PM �Firefox 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-17th--20... douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Dr. Sue C. Jacobs, by phone 405.744.9895 or email sue.c.jacobs@okstate.edu Dr. Melissa Hakman by phone 405.208.5397 or email mhakman@okcu.edu. Mary.Jones@OkEq.org --- For more information or to participate, go to http://tiny.cc/oklgbti2 Oklahomans For Equality Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org -- Happy Holidays 2014 Holiday Schedule for our Affirming, Inclusive and Welcoming Faith Communities Hanukkah (Continues to the evening of Wednesday, Dec 24th) Congregation B'nai Emunah 1719 South Owasso Tulsa, OK 74120 Temple Israel 2004 East 22nd Place Tulsa, OK 74114 Dec 19, 5:30 pm Shabbat Dinner & Hanukkah Celebration. RSVP with TulsaTemple.com Pagan & Earth-Based Religions Parrot House 1st & Quincy Winter Solstice Drumming Circle Begins Sundown, Sunday December 21st More information, call Minister BC Horton at 918.370.5315 Christmas Services All Souls Unitarian Church 2952 South Peoria Avenue Tulsa, OK 74114 Dec 24, 4:30 pm 6 pm & 7:30 pm Candlelight service Bethany Christian Church 6730 South Sheridan Road Tulsa, OK 74133 Dec 24, 7 pm 4/23/26, 3:16 PM �Firefox 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-17th--20... Boston Avenue United Methodist Church 1301 S Boston Ave. Tulsa, OK 74119 Dec 24, 2 pm Children's Service of the Bells 4 pm & 6 pm Candlelight Worship Services 11 pm Candlelight Communion Service Christ Church Episcopal 10901 South Yale Ave Tulsa, OK 74137 Dec 24, 5:30 pm & 9:0 pm Candlelight Service Dec 25, 10 am Holy Communion Church of the Restoration Unitarian Universalist 1314 N Greenwood Ave Tulsa, OK 74106 Dec 21, 11 am, Pre-Christmas Service College Hill Presbyterian Church 712 South Columbia Avenue Tulsa, OK 74104 Dec 24, 6 pm Christmas Eve and Candlelight Service Diversity Christian Fellowship International 627 South 131st East Avenue Tulsa, OK 74108 Dec 24, 7 pm Candlelight Service Eastside Christian Church 1438 S Indianapolis Ave Tulsa, OK 74112 Dec 24, 6 pm The Episcopal Church of The Redeemer 213 North Seminole Ave. Okmulgee, OK 74447 Dec 24, 7 pm Christ Mass with reception to follow Fellowship Congregational Church UCC 2900 South Harvard Tulsa, OK 74114 Dec 24, 7 pm Christmas Eve Service Fellowship Lutheran Church ELCA 6727 South Sheridan Road Tulsa, OK 74133 Dec 24, 4 pm, 6 pm & 8 pm First Christian Church 913 S Boulder Ave Tulsa, OK 74119 Dec 24th, 10:30 pm Pre Service Music 11 pm Christmas Eve Service Hope Unitarian 8432 South Sheridan Road Tulsa, OK 74133 Dec 24, 6 pm Candlelight Service 4/23/26, 3:16 PM �Firefox 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-17th--20... John Calvin Presbyterian Church 8181 East 31st Street Tulsa, OK 74145 Dec 24, 6: pm Candlelight Communion Parish Church of St Jerome 205 West King Tulsa, OK 74106 Dec 24, Celebration of Midnight Mass 10 pm Reception 11 pm Holy Eucharist Prince of Peace Lutheran 2330 North Quaker Avenue Tulsa, OK 74106 Dec 24, 7 pm Candlelight Chorale service with Holy Communion St Dunstan's Episcopal Church 5635 East 71st Street Tulsa, OK 74136 Dec 24, 7 pm Choral Holy Eucharist 9 pm Spanish Service 10:30 pm Carols for the Christ Child 11 pm Festival Choral Holy Eucharist St Paul's United Methodist Church 1442 South Quaker Avenue (one block east of Peoria on 15th Street) Tulsa, OK 74120 Dec 24, 7 pm Candlelight Worship & Communion Trinity Episcopal Church 501 South Cincinnati Avenue Tulsa, OK 74103 Dec 24, 5 pm Christmas Pageant and Eucharist Rite II 8:30 pm Anthems and Carols sung by the Trinity Choir 9 pm Eucharist Rite II, lighting of candles 10:30 pm Anthems and Carols sung by the Trinity Choir 11:00 pm Traditional Midnight Mass Dec 25, 10 am Eucharist Rite II Trinity United Methodist Church 3737 South Peoria Avenue Tulsa, OK 74105 Dec 24, 4 pm Carols & Communion Unity Center of Tulsa 1830 South Boston Avenue Tulsa, OK 74119 Dec 24, 6 pm Candle lighting service Unity Church of Christianity 3355 S. Jamestown Ave. Tulsa, OK 74135 Dec 24, 6:30 pm Candlelight Service Special Guest Music by Tavis Miner 4/23/26, 3:16 PM �Firefox 13 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-17th--20... University United Methodist Church 500 S College Tulsa, OK 74104 Dec 21, 9 pm The Longest Night Service of Worship Dec 24, 6:30 pm Candlelight Service of Lessons and Carols Kwanzaa Services (Begins Friday, December 26th) Church of the Restoration Unitarian Universalist 1314 N Greenwood Ave Tulsa, OK 74106 Dec 28, 11 am, Kwanzaa Service Equality Center Pride Store Available in the Pride Store, same-sex wedding toppers. Various designs and prices. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Joining the Tribe: Growing Up Gay & Lesbian in the 90's' by Linnea Due You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In Joining The Tribe, journalist Linnea Due travels America to create a portrait of gay and lesbian teenagers as an endangered and vulnerable community whose diversity, courage, and resiliency will inspire gay and straight readers alike. By vividly documenting the lives of gay and lesbian teenagers, Due shows that homosexuality is not about choice. It's about fights in the schoolyard, whispers in the locker room, cruel classmates, and oblivious or abusive parents. Most gay and lesbian youth endure severe humiliation and isolation for being gay, resulting in depression and low self-esteem for 4/23/26, 3:16 PM �Firefox 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-17th--20... n the 90s most, and suicide for some. Combining in-depth f't" interviews with social analysis, Due reveals the realities gay and lesbian teenagers face, often without the support of family, peer groups, or adult gay and lesbian networks. With stories from across America, Due meets kids from a range of backgrounds and families, with some in the closet, some out, most somewhere-in-between, all struggling to grow into adulthood. By turns heartbreaking and infuriating, Joining The Tribe shows how against overwhelming odds, gay and lesbian teenagers continue to survive and bounce back, ready to join their brothers and sisters in gay America's fight for freedom and respect. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library - •• • • • :. Vol 1nt r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! TULSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r-----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L-----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 3:16 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/86f94a887829d7c21c27c33a09e8120f.pdf d1dfde55a2946633024d41d7f20ea7af PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-23rd--20... eNews December 23rd, 2014 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Equality Center Hours New Year's Eve First Thursday Art Welcome to the eNews. Happy Holidays from Oklahomans for Equality. Join us for a "New Year's Party You Will Remember" on Dec 31st at 9:00 pm. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Plexus Slim OkEq Blood Drive Equality Business Alliance Basketball League 2014 Holiday Schedule Guys Dine Too EBA Sponsor ACA Assistance Ask me for FREE sample!!! LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights 2015 MLK Parade LGBT Shirt Quilt Our Bodies, Ourselves T: (918) 361-4188 All natural products for diabeti cs , weight loss, pain, GI issues and skin conditions. www.pexusslim.com/robinlabutti E: robinlabutti@Cox.net Lose W8tghl • Git lI1 • Improve performanc1 • lncrnn 1n1rgy Equality Center Holiday Hours For the days of December 24th, 2014 - January 1st, 2015, the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will be open for modified hours, including Christmas and New Year's Day. Many OkEq programs will be on hiatus that week. Be sure to check the calendar on the OkEq website or call 918.743.4297 to check on programming times. Marriage - - - Equality - - - -Photos --Reiki Sessions Imperial Court of All Oklahoma LGBTI Health Research Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer A New Year's Eve You Can Remember Wednesday, December 31st, 2014; 9:00 pm Find Us on Facebook Join OkEq at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for a retro & disco party with a live DJ and warm conversations that you will be able to remember the next day. Snacks will be served along with alcohol free beverages. Ring in the New Year and remember it the next morning. January First Thursday Art Gallery Reception Thursday, January 1st, 2015; 6:00 pm OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, January 15th, 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 3:17 PM �Firefox 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-23rd--20... The January OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature a special group exhibit titled Transforming Hate - a Creative Process in a show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, January 1st from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. Oklahomans for Equality Blood Drive OkEq Art Exhibit Sunday, January 4th, 2015; 12:30 - 4:30 pm The December exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the combined works of SAGE Tulsa. ________ Oklahomans for Equality will host a blood drive from 12:30 to 4:30 pm January 4th at the Equality Center. All donors get a free T-shirt and will be entered in a drawing to win a free cruise! The goal is 40 donations, and the Oklahoma Blood Institute says donations across the board are down, so it's really important that we step up and be good neighbors. Please plan to give blood Jan. 4! Unfortunately, men who have sex with men are not eligible to donate (yet), but such would-be donors are encouraged to bring an eligible donor to give blood in their place. Walk-ins are welcome, but signing up for an appointment will ensure that you're not turned away because of time and it guarantees that if there's a line, you'll go to the front of it. Please make an appointment and help prevent a logjam. Make your appointment here. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8568 IIJ ~Oklahoma Blood Institute Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The January Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, January 21st, 2015 at 6:00 pm. Hosted by The Hyatt Regency Tulsa, 100 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling 4/23/26, 3:17 PM �Firefox 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-23rd--20... HYJ\TT REGENCY ~ is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Hyatt Regency Tulsa 100 E 2nd St Tulsa, OK 74103 Tulsa Metro Basketball League Winter Season Wednesday nights at 7:00 pm Winter Season is December through February The league plays 3 on 3 games on a half court each Wednesday night December through February at 7:00 pm. Tulsa Metro Basketball League is an offical program of OkEq and a member organization of the Equality Sports Alliance of Tulsa. Sign up on the OkEq ----Webstore for $50. Games are played at the Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center at 2021 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK. Daryn Drake will be the head coach for the new Basketball season. For more information about the league, please contact Basketball@OkEq.org. --- ~Oklahomans For Equality Happy Holidays Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org --SOS Group 2014 Holiday Schedule for our Affirming, Inclusive and Welcoming Faith Communities Christmas Services All Souls Unitarian Church 2952 South Peoria Avenue Tulsa, OK 74114 Dec 24, 4:30 pm 6 pm & 7:30 pm Candlelight service Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Bethany Christian Church 6730 South Sheridan Road Tulsa, OK 74133 Dec 24, 7 pm Boston Avenue United Methodist Church 1301 S Boston Ave. Tulsa, OK 74119 Dec 24, 2 pm Children's Service of the Bells 4 pm & 6 pm Candlelight Worship Services Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for 4/23/26, 3:17 PM �Firefox 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-23rd--20... 11 pm Candlelight Communion Service Christ Church Episcopal 10901 South Yale Ave Tulsa, OK 74137 Dec 24, 5:30 pm & 9:0 pm Candlelight Service Dec 25, 10 am Holy Communion Church of the Restoration Unitarian Universalist 1314 N Greenwood Ave Tulsa, OK 74106 Dec 21, 11 am, Pre-Christmas Service College Hill Presbyterian Church 712 South Columbia Avenue Tulsa, OK 74104 Dec 24, 6 pm Christmas Eve and Candlelight Service LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Diversity Christian Fellowship International 627 South 131st East Avenue Tulsa, OK 74108 Dec 24, 7 pm Candlelight Service Eastside Christian Church 1438 S Indianapolis Ave Tulsa, OK 74112 Dec 24, 6 pm The Episcopal Church of The Redeemer 213 North Seminole Ave. Okmulgee, OK 74447 Dec 24, 7 pm Christ Mass with reception to follow Fellowship Congregational Church UCC 2900 South Harvard Tulsa, OK 74114 Dec 24, 7 pm Christmas Eve Service Fellowship Lutheran Church ELCA 6727 South Sheridan Road Tulsa, OK 74133 Dec 24, 4 pm, 6 pm & 8 pm First Christian Church 913 S Boulder Ave Tulsa, OK 74119 Dec 24th, 10:30 pm Pre Service Music 11 pm Christmas Eve Service Good Shepherd Episcopal Church 1420 E Dewey Sapulpa, OK 74066 Dec 24 Christmas Eve service 5:30 and 10:30 pm SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lrsb,an, Bisexual & Transgendrr Elders Hope Unitarian 8432 South Sheridan Road Tulsa, OK 74133 Dec 24, 6 pm Candlelight Service 4/23/26, 3:17 PM �Firefox 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-23rd--20... John Calvin Presbyterian Church 8181 East 31st Street Tulsa, OK 74145 Dec 24, 6: pm Candlelight Communion Parish Church of St Jerome 205 West King Tulsa, OK 74106 Dec 24, Celebration of Midnight Mass 10 pm Reception 11 pm Holy Eucharist Prince of Peace Lutheran 2330 North Quaker Avenue Tulsa, OK 74106 Dec 24, 7 pm Candlelight Chorale service with Holy Communion St Dunstan's Episcopal Church 5635 East 71st Street Tulsa, OK 74136 Dec 24, 7 pm Choral Holy Eucharist 9 pm Spanish Service 10:30 pm Carols for the Christ Child 11 pm Festival Choral Holy Eucharist St Paul's United Methodist Church Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. 1442 South Quaker Avenue (one block east of Peoria on 15th Street) Tulsa, OK 74120 Dec 24, 7 pm Candlelight Worship & Communion Trinity Episcopal Church 501 South Cincinnati Avenue Tulsa, OK 74103 Dec 24, 5 pm Christmas Pageant and Eucharist Rite II 8:30 pm Anthems and Carols sung by the Trinity Choir 9 pm Eucharist Rite II, lighting of candles 10:30 pm Anthems and Carols sung by the Trinity Choir 11:00 pm Traditional Midnight Mass Dec 25, 10 am Eucharist Rite II Trinity United Methodist Church 3737 South Peoria Avenue Tulsa, OK 74105 Dec 24, 4 pm Carols & Communion Unity Center of Tulsa 1830 South Boston Avenue Tulsa, OK 74119 Dec 24, 6 pm Candle lighting service Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Unity Church of Christianity 3355 S. Jamestown Ave. Tulsa, OK 74135 Dec 24, 6:30 pm Candlelight Service Special Guest Music by Tavis Miner 4/23/26, 3:17 PM �Firefox 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-23rd--20... University United Methodist Church 500 S College Tulsa, OK 74104 Dec 21, 9 pm The Longest Night Service of Worship Dec 24, 6:30 pm Candlelight Service of Lessons and Carols Kwanzaa Services (Begins Friday, December 26th) Church of the Restoration Unitarian Universalist 1314 N Greenwood Ave Tulsa, OK 74106 Dec 28, 11 am, Kwanzaa Service Guys Dine Too Tuesday, January 6th, 2015; 6:30 pm The January meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Chop House BBQ on Tuesday, January 6th, 2015 at 6:30 pm. Chop House BBQ is located at 7992 E 41st St on the SW corner of 41st & Memorial Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. www.chophousebbq.com Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: ihelpTulsa.com Home / Small Business IT Expertise V E Owner• ihelptulso.com Tel: Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Gender Outreach III • 1 J II ACA Assistance (9 18) 605-8777 Web: www.ihelptulso.com Emoil: johnv@ihelp1ulso.com "Are you getting a new computer or smart device from Santa? Do you need all of your files and email moved from your old computer to your new computer? Do you need help setting up your smart device? If so, contact www.ihelptulsa.com or call John at 918 605-8777!" Want to receive computer tips? Like us on Facebook: facebook.com/ ihelptulsa Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 3:17 PM �Firefox 7 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-23rd--20... Affordable Care Act Assistance In person assistance available Open enrollment is Nov 15th - Feb 15th, 2015 Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health insurance system to find the most affordable coverage that meets the consumer's needs. Onsite assistance will be available on: January 7th, 14th, 21st & 28th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm February 4th & 11th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. Game Night healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea lthcare Bi I !Of Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. 2015 Martin Luther King Jr. Memorial Celebration & Parade Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Monday, January 19th, 2015; 11:00 am John Hope Franklin & Cincinnati Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. stated, "I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin but by the content of their character". Well, a new dream is that some day our children will not be judged for who they love or the make up of their family. This is a day to recognize equality and unity. GAMILY will be walking as a family in the parade and carrying posters. The plan is to meet at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center by 10:00 am and then carpool to the parade. After the parade, we will be eating as a family; enjoying a meal back at the Equality Center. Please RSVP at Gamily@OkEq.org to be a part of this wonderful gathering. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact 4/23/26, 3:17 PM �Firefox 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-23rd--20... EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org LGBT Pride T-Shirt Quilt Project For the 35th Anniversary of Oklahomans for Equality, a quilt project has been started to make a quilt from of all kinds of LGBT related shirts. Pride would be best, but we welcome any and all LGBT shirts. Quality is not important since they will be cut up anyway. Please bring your shirts to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center anytime between 12:00 pm and 9:00 pm Monday through Saturday. For more information, email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Our Bodies, Ourselves First and Third Wednesdays of every month; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Our Bodies Ourselves is a new group that focuses on body image, disordered eating, health and society's ideas surrounding these issues. The group will meet on the first and third Wednesdays of the month at 7:00 pm at the Equality Center. All are welcome. Next meeting will be January 7th. We want your Marriage Equality photos! Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to Lucas.Green@OkEq.org with "OK to use" in the Subject. Please include any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you! 4/23/26, 3:17 PM �Firefox 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-23rd--20... Reiki Sessions HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center By Appointment Dennis R Neill Equality Center Reiki - pronounced "ray-key" is a life energy balancing and stress reduction technique that uses chakra points for a non-impact healing session. Reiki promotes healing in countless areas including everything from physical injuries and aches, to mental and spiritual traumas and hurts, to overall balancing in life. It does not use or replace traditional medicine, but instead uses Universal Life Force Energy already inside us all to go to the areas of greatest need. The practitioner acts as a conduit to help the energy move more freely to those areas. Held at the Equality Center, a session lasting approximately 1 1/2 hours is $75 for non OkEq members and $50 for OkEq members. A sliding scale is also available. Monica Haney is a certified Reiki Practitioner and is happy to answer your call or text at 918.381.1656 Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Join the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma and Imperial Crown Princes/Princess for Reign VII John & Dakota as they host "Turnabout 2015" to benefit The Trevor Project. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Saturday January 10th, 2015 at Area 18 (39 E 18th St) 8:00 -10:00 pm 21+ Only Donations can be made online at www.impcourtok.webs.com or by contacting us at impcourtok@gmail.com Mary Jones Program Coordinator 4/23/26, 3:17 PM �Firefox 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-23rd--20... Be a part of an important study of LGBTI health Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Participants who meet the following criteria are encouraged to participate: • if you are 18 - 25 years old • if you identify as a lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, or other nonheterosexual person • if you currently reside in Oklahoma The research study will require approximately 30- 45 minutes and you will be asked to provide an email address to which a link for the survey may be sent. All questions are answered online through a secured website hosted by Qualtrics survey software company. Participants will be asked to complete a demographics questionnaire followed by 6 brief self-report instruments. At the end of the survey, the first 250 urban and first 250 rural participants will receive a code for $10 in credit with giftcertificates.com. This credit can be used to purchase gift cards for businesses like AMC, Bath and Bodyworks, Buckle, Buffalo Wild Wings, or many other wellknown companies. Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org To inquire more about the study or request any additional information, contact the researchers at: Douglas Knutson, by phone 405.459.0241 or email douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Dr. Sue C. Jacobs, by phone 405.744.9895 or email sue.c.jacobs@okstate.edu Dr. Melissa Hakman by phone 405.208.5397 or email mhakman@okcu.edu. For more information or to participate, go to http://tiny.cc/oklgbti2 ----- Equality Center Pride Store Available in the Pride Store, same-sex wedding toppers. Various designs and prices. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Holidays on Ice' by David Sedaris 4/23/26, 3:17 PM �Firefox 11 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-23rd--20... You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center David Sedaris's beloved holiday collection is new again with six more pieces, including a never before published story. Along with such favorites as the diaries of a Macy's elf and the annals of two very competitive families, are Sedaris's tales of tardy trick-or-treaters ("Us and Them"); the difficulties of explaining the Easter Bunny to the French ("Jesus Shaves"); what to do when you've been locked out in a snowstorm ("Let It Snow"); the puzzling Christmas traditions of other nations ("Six to Eight Black Men"); what Halloween at the medical examiner's looks like ("The Monster Mash"); and a barnyard secret Santa scheme gone awry ("Cow and Turkey"). Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library ••• •• • olunt U r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r-----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L-----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 3:17 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/94763d43a26d3050937e7fba07695d0b.pdf 6274005807f47fc77373623ccd6ce82c PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... eNews December 30th, 2014 In This Issue Donate a Day EBA Sponsor New Year's Eve First Thursday Art Welcome to the eNews. Happy Holidays from Oklahomans for Equality. Join us for a "New Year's Party You Will Remember" on Dec 31st at 9:00 pm. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Be Our Voice, Donate a Day OkEq Blood Drive Tax Preparation Equality Business Alliance Basketball League Guys Dine Too Tulsa Pride 2015 EBA Sponsor ACA Assistance LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Blind Pride Tulsa Pearl District Makers' Market 2015 MLK Parade LGBT Shirt Quilt Our Bodies, Ourselves Marriage Equality -Photos Reiki Sessions Imperial Court of All Oklahoma In honor of their recent engagement, Lorie Johnson and Judy Kastl have made a donation to OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign and are sponsoring the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Wednesday, December 31st, 2014 Thank you and congratulations! Click here to commemorate a special day with OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign ------- LGBTI Health Research Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: ihelpTulsa.com 4/23/26, 3:18 PM �Firefox 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... II• I Home / Small Business IT Expertise J 11 y Owner - ihelptulso.com Tel : (9 18) 605-8777 Web: www.ihelptulso.com Emoil: johnv@ihelp1ulso.com "Are you getting a new computer or smart device from Santa? Do you need all of your files and email moved from your old computer to your new computer? Do you need help setting up your smart device? If so, contact www.ihelptulsa.com or call John at 918 605-8777!" Want to receive computer tips? Like us on Facebook: facebook.com/ ihelptulsa OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, January 15th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. OkEq Art Exhibit The January exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the group exhibit titled; Transforming Hate ________ A New Year's Eve You Will Remember Wednesday, December 31st, 2014; 9:00 pm Join OkEq at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for a retro & disco party with a live DJ and warm conversations that you will be able to remember the next day. Snacks will be served along with alcohol free beverages. Ring in the New Year and remember it the next morning. January First Thursday Art Gallery Reception Thursday, January 1st, 2015; 6:00 pm Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8568 The January OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature a special group exhibit titled Transforming Hate - a Creative Process in a show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, January 1st from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Oklahomans for Equality Blood Drive Sunday, January 4th, 2015; 12:30 - 4:30 pm Counseling Services 4/23/26, 3:18 PM �Firefox 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Oklahomans for Equality will host a blood drive from 12:30 to 4:30 pm January 4th at the Equality Center. All donors get a free T-shirt and will be entered in a drawing to win a free cruise! The goal is 40 donations, and the Oklahoma Blood Institute says donations across the board are down, so it's really important that we step up and be good neighbors. Please plan to give blood Jan. 4! Unfortunately, men who have sex with men are not eligible to donate (yet), but such would-be donors are encouraged to bring an eligible donor to give blood in their place. Walk-ins are welcome, but signing up for an appointment will ensure that you're not turned away because of time and it guarantees that if there's a line, you'll go to the front of it. Please make an appointment and help prevent a logjam. Make your appointment here. '-!Ill Oklahoma IIJ Blood Institute Tax Preparation Workshop Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Tuesday, January 20th, 2015; 7:00 pm On Tuesday, January 20th at 7:00 pm, OkEq will host a tax preparation workshop for newly married couples or for anyone thinking about getting married. Presented by Equality Business Alliance Member, Kelly Kirby, CPA, this workshop is a must for anyone who has any questions on how marriage equality can change the way you file your taxes. RSVP to Mary.Jones@OkEq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Grieving Well 4/23/26, 3:18 PM �Firefox 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The January Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, January 21st, 2015 at 6:00 pm. Hosted by The Hyatt Regency Tulsa, 100 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. HYJ\TT REGENCY llllllllrll'ull Hyatt Regency Tulsa 100 E 2nd St Tulsa, OK 74103 Tulsa Metro Basketball League Winter Season Wednesday nights at 7:00 pm Winter Season is December through February 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather The league plays 3 on 3 games on a half court each Wednesday night December through February at 7:00 pm. Tulsa Metro Basketball League is an offical program of OkEq and a member organization of the Equality Sports Alliance of Tulsa. Sign up on the OkEq - --------Webstore for $50. Games are played at the Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center at 2021 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK. Daryn Drake will be the head coach for the new Basketball season. For more information about the league, please contact Basketball@OkEq.org. Guys Dine Too Tuesday, January 6th, 2015; 6:30 pm The January meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Chop House BBQ on Tuesday, January 6th, 2015 at 6:30 pm. Chop House BBQ is located at 7992 E 41st St on the SW corner of 41st & Memorial www.chophousebbq.com Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. Tulsa Pride 2015 Public Planning Meeting Thursday, January 22nd, 2015; 7:00 pm Tulsa Pride will host a public planning meeting on Thursday, January 22nd at 7:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Everyone is invited to come by and help make Tulsa Pride 2015 the best pride ever. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Service, and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders 4/23/26, 3:18 PM �Firefox 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... T U L S A e A WEEKEND OF PRIDE - JUNE 5-7, 2015 The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Plexus Slim Ask me for FREE sample!!! T: (918) 361-<1188 All natural products for diabeti cs, weight loss, pain, GI issues and skin conditions. www.plexusslim.com/robi nlobutti E: robinlabutti@Cox.net Lose weight • Get hi • lmp1ove performance • Increase 1nugy Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Affordable Care Act Assistance In person assistance available Open enrollment is Nov 15th - Feb 15th, 2015 Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health insurance system to find the most affordable coverage that meets the consumer's needs. Onsite assistance will be available on: January 7th, 14th, 21st & 28th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm February 4th & 11th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 4/23/26, 3:18 PM �Firefox 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea lthcare Bi I !Of Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. Get F.I.T. Blind Pride Tulsa Lunch Meeting Thursday, January 8th, 2015; 12:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center ~ BLIND LGBT PRIDE INTERNATIONAL Blind Pride Tulsa will meet on Thursday, ~ January 8th at 12:00 pm for lunch at the Equality Center. If you would like Mary.Jones@OkEq.org. to attend, please email On Monday of Thanksgiving week, most members of Blind Pride Tulsa met at the home of a member to chow down on pizza and to have good conversation. This was the first formal get-together for the small, but enthusiastic, organization that is a chartered affiliate of Blind LGBT Pride International (BPI.) In turn, that organization is chartered by the American Council of the Blind (ACB.) Blind LGBT Pride International was founded by Tulsan Rob Hill. An exploratory meeting was called to be held at the national convention of ACB in Tulsa in 1996. Over the intervening years, BPI has sponsored social events and educational activities at the national conventions of ACB. It was responsible for ACB's membership's adopting a policy against discrimination based on sexual orientation within that organization. Pearl District Makers' Market Saturday, January 17th, 2015; 12:00 - 9:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OkEq will host the Pearl District Makers' Market on Saturday January 17th from 12:00 to 9:00 pm. The market will feature local, handmade arts, crafts, goods, services, and live music, poetry and performances. For more info on the Pearl District Makers' Market, visit www.facebook.com/ pearlmakersmarket LOCAL ARTtCRAFTS lllll'J#l~JJ.1[11 POETRY - FOOD - FRIENDS 2015 Martin Luther King Jr. Memorial Celebration & Parade Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Monday, January 19th, 2015; 11:00 am 4/23/26, 3:18 PM �Firefox 7 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... John Hope Franklin & Cincinnati Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. stated, "I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin but by the content of their character". Well, a new dream is that some day our children will not be judged for who they love or the make up of their family. This is a day to recognize equality and unity. GAMILY will be walking as a family in the parade and carrying posters. The plan is to meet at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center by 10:00 am and then carpool to the parade. After the parade, we will be eating as a family; enjoying a meal back at the Equality Center. Please RSVP at Gamily@OkEq.org to be a part of this wonderful gathering. A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Game Night LGBT Pride T-Shirt Quilt Project For the 35th Anniversary of Oklahomans for Equality, a quilt project has been started to make a quilt from of all kinds of LGBT related shirts. Pride would be best, but we welcome any and all LGBT shirts. Quality is not important since they will be cut up anyway. ~~~ ~ Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno J£ ~ TULSA PRIDE ,., , ...... 0, 2010 0...0£ Please bring your shirts to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center anytime between 12:00 pm and 9:00 pm Monday through Saturday. For more information, email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Our Bodies, Ourselves First and Third Wednesdays of every month; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Our Bodies Ourselves is a new group that focuses on body image, disordered eating, health and society's ideas surrounding these issues. The group will meet on the first and third Wednesdays of the month at 7:00 pm at the Equality Center. All are welcome. Next meeting will be January 7th. I MY BODY Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact 4/23/26, 3:18 PM �Firefox 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... We want your Marriage Equality photos! EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to Lucas.Green@OkEq.org with "OK to use" in the Subject. Please include any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you! Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org Reiki Sessions By Appointment Dennis R Neill Equality Center Reiki - pronounced "ray-key" is a life energy balancing and stress reduction technique that uses chakra points for a non-impact healing session. Reiki promotes healing in countless areas including everything from physical injuries and aches, to mental and spiritual traumas and hurts, to overall balancing in life. It does not use or replace traditional medicine, but instead uses Universal Life Force Energy already inside us all to go to the areas of greatest need. The practitioner acts as a conduit to help the energy move more freely to those areas. Held at the Equality Center, a session lasting approximately 1 1/2 hours is $75 for non OkEq members and $50 for OkEq members. A sliding scale is also available. Monica Haney is a certified Reiki Practitioner and is happy to answer your call or text at 918.381.1656 EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. 4/23/26, 3:18 PM �Firefox 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... Join the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma and Imperial Crown Princes/Princess for Reign VII John & Dakota as they host "Turnabout 2015" to benefit The Trevor Project. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Saturday January 10th, 2015 at Area 18 (39 E 18th St) 8:00 -10:00 pm 21+ Only Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Donations can be made online at www.impcourtok.webs.com or by contacting us at impcourtok@gmail.com Be a part of an important study of LGBTI health Participants who meet the following criteria are encouraged to participate: • if you are 18 - 25 years old • if you identify as a lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, or other nonheterosexual person • if you currently reside in Oklahoma The research study will require approximately 30- 45 minutes and you will be asked to provide an email address to which a link for the survey may be sent. All questions are answered online through a secured website hosted by Qualtrics survey software company. Participants will be asked to complete a demographics questionnaire followed by 6 brief self-report instruments. At the end of the survey, the first 250 urban and first 250 rural participants will receive a code for $10 in credit with giftcertificates.com. This credit can be used to purchase gift cards for businesses like AMC, Bath and Bodyworks, Buckle, Buffalo Wild Wings, or many other wellknown companies. To inquire more about the study or request any additional information, contact the researchers at: Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Douglas Knutson, by phone 405.459.0241 or email douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Dr. Sue C. Jacobs, by phone 405.744.9895 or email sue.c.jacobs@okstate.edu Dr. Melissa Hakman by phone 405.208.5397 or email mhakman@okcu.edu. For more information or to participate, go to http://tiny.cc/oklgbti2 Equality Center Pride Store Available in the Pride Store, the 2015 Tulsa Metro Hottest Firefighters calendar for only $10.00. Proceeds benefits the Tulsa Firefighter Educational Clown Organization. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator 4/23/26, 3:18 PM �Firefox 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org ---- Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Quiet Fire: Memoirs of Older Gay Men' by Keith Vacha You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center This book is filled with dynamic tales of gay men. It speaks of their lives outside of sex, but it also address sex a lot. It mentions bar raids and arrests, but also mentions many who would leave gay men in peace. There are some with long-term lovers and others who are single. Just like many older, straight men, these men brag about their sexual escapades, but then chastise younger men for doing some of the same. The line between pre- and post-Stonewall was blurred here. Some men were active in Mattachine and others in post-1960s activities. This book was written more than 20 years ago. There are some universal concerns that all older men face and this book proves it. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/23/26, 3:18 PM �Firefox 11 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... Volunt er A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! ULSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r-----------------------------------------------------, I I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I I L-----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 3:18 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/d32a0980c26c7766a9cf22c41a107ed3.pdf 27615ac9bd83ec5c62eae86015ffc445 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-10th--2014.ht... eNews April 10th, 2014 In This Issue EBA Sponsor 2014 Equality Gala NOH8 Photo Shoot MOREcolor Welcome to the eNews. Make your plans to attend our Equality Gala on Saturday April 26th, 2014. Purchase a seat or sponsor a table now and find more information at www.okeq.org/gala --- - eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time Tulsa GSA Scholarship Miss JOLT 2014 EBA Tulsa Two Spirit Gathering Tulsa Pride Leather Fashion Show Emma's Revolution & Holly Near Article Headline World Book Night Route 66Crystal -- -City -Carnival Linda Barton Paul Tulsa Growl TMSL Volunteers Dining Out for Life Tulsa Pride Flapjack Fundraiser International Family Day 2014 Equality Gala Saturday, April 26th, 2014; 6:30 pm Paragraph 175 Holocaust Commemoration LGBTI Transitional Youth Survey Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Tulsa JOLT Golf Classic Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 11:55 AM �Firefox https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-10th--2014.ht.. OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, April 10th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. OkEq Art Exhibit The April exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Nicole Moan. NOH8 Campaign Photo Shoot Sunday, April 13th, 2014; 1:00 - 4:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center On Sunday, April 13th, 2014, the NOH8 Campaign will set up their mobile studio in Tulsa, Oklahoma -- offering Oklahomans a chance to be heard. Oklahomans for Equality and the Tulsa Pride 2014 Committee will host the photo shoot at the Equality Center. The NOH8 Campaign's Tulsa shoot is scheduled to begin on April 13th at 1:00 pm and will end at 4:00 pm. Free parking is available on the streets surrounding the center. Prices are $40.00 for solo portraits and $25.00 per person for couple or group portraits. Interested volunteers should contact the NOH8 Campaign via email at info@NOH8Campaign.com. Additional details can be found at www.noh8campaign.com. RSVP to the photo shoot on Facebook here. ---- - ------ ---- - --------- Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, 2 of 15 4/23/26, 11:55 AM �Firefox 3 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-10th--2014.ht... I> I\ Ii(' I "i KA LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org Counseling Services MOREcolor 2014 Artists Submissions Call for entries; Opening Night June 19th, 2014 Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org MORE color Calling all interested artists ages 18 and over, submissions are now open for the annual MOREcolor Fine Arts Exhibition, a highly anticipated feature of the Tulsa Pride celebration. The Festive and always surprising Opening Night reception will be held June 19th, 2014 at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. It is free and open to the public. To submit your work for the show, click here. The deadline for entry is May 1st, 2014. For more information, visit MOREcolorart.com Counseling Services Tulsa Gay and Straight Alliance Scholarship Deadline is April 18th, 2014 Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LPC 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:55 AM �Firefox 4 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-10th--2014.ht... Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee Booker T Washington, Union High School and Central High School participate in a GSA Lock In at the Equality Center The Tulsa Gay and Straight Alliance Scholarship is available for high school seniors in Tulsa County, Oklahoma with overall GPA of at least 2.50, and will demonstrate character, leadership and participation through the school's GSA and in other documented activities. The applicant must get the support from a faculty sponsor of the GSA. Sponsored by the Tulsa Community Foundation. Download the scholarship application here ~ TUL A MMU '- LL' F u DAT! N scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org - - --- !TY K9 Boot Camp Miss JOLT 2014 Friday, April 11th, 2014; 7:45 pm Club Renegade 1649 S Main St The Tulsa Lambda Bowling League is sponsoring the 7th annual Miss JOLT pageant Friday, April 11th, 2014 at 7:45 pm at Club Renegade. The pageant is a fundraiser to help host the annual JOLT bowling tournament to be held in later this year. Bowlers from across the U.S. come to Tulsa to be a part of the JOLT tournament and all it's associated fun and activities. Equality Business Alliance Every Sunday 1:00 pm The class will consist of minimal lecture/discussion to cover basic principles of how dogs learn, motivation, general information, and questions. Free for Members, $5 for Non Members. Email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org to enroll. Facilitated by Carrie McDowell of Out of the Doghouse, Ltd. Co. Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook g EQJBusmess UALITY Alhance SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular 4/23/26, 11:55 AM �Firefox 5 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-10th--2014.ht... The April Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014 at 6:00 pm, at The Office of Dr. Blane Snodgrass, Tulsa Eye Clinic, 7171 S Yale, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74136. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Dr. Blane Snodgrass Tulsa Eye Clinic 7171 S Yale Tulsa, Oklahoma 74136 Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Tulsa Two Spirits Society Gathering April 25th - 28th, 2014 Osage Hills State Park 2131 Osage Hills State Park Road Pawhuska, OK 74056 Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold The Tulsa Two Spirit Society gathering's program will include workshops on traditional and contemporary Native American culture, Pow Wows, stompdancing, celebrations, Native faith, and other related activities. No alcohol, drugs or guns will be allowed. The Tulsa Two Spirits Society is "a non-profit Native American LGBT Collective. We seek to affirm and embody positive traditional and modern Two Spirit identities, and in so doing, be valued members of our communities". For more information on the gathering, download the Tulsa Two Spirit Gathering information packet or just the registration form here. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Tulsa Pride 2014 Upcoming Events 4/23/26, 11:55 AM �Firefox 6 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-10th--2014.ht... SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage - Service, and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders Tulsa Area Prime Timers NO H8 Campaign Photoshoot - Sunday, April 13th Pride Night at Area 18 - Saturday, April 19th 209 Karaoke Pride Night - Friday, April 25th Pride Night at TNT's - Saturday, May 10th 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 For more information about these events and all upcoming Tulsa Pride events, visit the Tulsa Pride Facebook Event page or www.TulsaPride.org Boot Camp Emma's Revolution & Holly Near Friday, April 11th, 2014; 7:30 pm Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average 4/23/26, 11:55 AM �Firefox 7 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-10th--2014.ht... All Souls Unitarian Church 2952 S. Peoria Ave Emma Revolution will be accompanying the fabulous Holly Near, along with pianist, Jan Martinelli in Tulsa on Friday, April 11th, 2014 at 7:30 pm. With special, sing-a-long tribute to Pete Seeger $20 advance / $25 at the door available at www.emmasrevolution.com aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. == Rainbow Writers East Village 2nd Saturday Street Festival Saturday, April 12th, 2014; 11:00 am - 3:00 pm Come downtown to the East Village 2nd Saturday Street Fest and get to know downtown Tulsa's newest District. Proceeds from this event will go towards beautification efforts for this district* in downtown. Enjoy live music on the main stage at 3rd and Lansing Look for street performers, vendors & food on Lansing from 2nd to 4th and on 3rd from Lansing to Kenosha Live mural painting happening at 3rd and Kenosha 1st and 3rd Wednesdays 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org ----to attend Live Music / Food Trucks / Artist Booths / Live Mural Painting / & More/ Sponsored by the GuRuStu Foundation For more information, visit here ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group World Book Night On the Evening of Wednesday, April 23rd, 2014 Thursdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. 4/23/26, 11:55 AM �Firefox 8 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-10th--2014.ht... On one magical evening 25,000 book givers will spread --··-- -----ARMISTEAD the love of reading across the nation. Cindy Hulsey, from the Tulsa City-County Library, will share some love at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center by giving away 20 copies of Tales of the City by Armistead Maupin. And if you crave more, TCCL has thousands more you can read, listen to, or download for free. MAUPIN Also available that evening, Code Name Verity by Elizabeth Wein. Donated by Miranda Dawson, this historical fiction novel takes place during WWII. It's part epistolary and focuses on two girls, Maddie and Verity, who are involved in the war and best friends. Two Step & Country Line Dance Thursdays 7:30 pm Kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Free for Members $5 for Non Members If you haven't read a book for pleasure lately this is your opportunity to pick up a free book! For more information on World Book Night, visit here Route 66 - Crystal City Carnival Wednesday, April 9th - Saturday, April 12th, 2014 4200 Southwest Blvd Tulsa Wed, April 9th from 5:00 - 11:00 pm Thurs, April 10th from 5:00 - 11:00 pm Fri, April 11th from 5:00 - 11:00 pm Sat, April 12th from 4:00 - 11:00 pm Visit the Route 66 Crystal City Carnival in Tulsa this April for tons of family fun. Crystal City, which is located off of Route 66, was the home of the original Crystal City Amusement Park and the original Zingo roller coaster. This four-day carnival will pay tribute to the past with an exhibit of Route 66 and Crystal City Amusement Park photos. Stop by for carnival rides for all ages, tons of games and delicious food. Yoga A - Z Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Wednesday & Thursday Wrist Bands are $20.00 Friday & Saturday Wrist Bands are $25.00 Linda Barton Paul - Music @ 501 Concert Series Sunday, April 27th, 2014; 7:30 pm Trinity Episcopal Church 501 S Cincinnati Tulsa, OK 74013 As part of the Music@51 Concert Series, Linda Barton Paul will perform BACK TO BRUBECK! On Sunday, April 27th, 2014 at 7:30 pm, Linda will play music you never Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card 4/23/26, 11:55 AM �Firefox 9 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-10th--2014.ht... thought you would hear on the harp. Linda Paul, a native of Tulsa, Oklahoma, has played the harp professionally since 1970. She has toured across the United States and around the world, teaches master classes at Harp Festivals and has recorded 14 CDs. games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno General Admission at the door is $20 Student and Senior admission is $10 For more information or to purchase advance tickets, visit here Tulsa Growl 2014 May 8th - 11th, 2014 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Green Country Bears are proud to sponsor Tulsa Growl on May 8th - 11th, 2014. Tulsa's Best Bear Run will be an event filled weekend so be sure to visit www.tulsagrowl.com and check out the entire schedule and to register. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org ----Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet TMSL is looking for Volunteers for their new Up All Night Softball Tourney Tulsa Metro Softball League is introducing a new tournament format to the gay leagues this year with their all night tournament. The tournament will start on Good Friday, April 18th, 2014 6:30 pm and play all night long with Championship games playing at 6:30 am Saturday, April 19th, 2014. TMSL is looking for some Tulsans to help out with the event by helping to setup, refill water stations, sell t-shirts, answer questions from our out of town guests and much more! Volunteers will receive a free tournament t-shirt, have access to all player discounts from sponsors for the weekend, and will be invited to attend and enjoy player specials at the closing awards party the evening of Saturday, April 19th, 2014 at Area 18. Please email Daniel Meier at TournamentDirector@TulsaMetroSoftball.com with questions, or click here to sign up. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:55 AM �Firefox 10 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-10th--2014.ht... EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. www.tulsametrosoftball.com Dining Out for Life Thursday, April 24th, 2014; Lunch and Dinner H.O.P.E. is preparing for their Annual DINING OUT FOR LIFE in Tulsa. This year the community will come together on Thursday, April 24th, 2014 to support HIV prevention, testing, and education. Each participating restaurant will give a portion of the proceeds from lunch Dine Out. t'ig_Jit AIDS, and dinner service to H.O.P.E. Get a group of friends together, go out to eat, and support HIV prevention. The more you eat and the more people you invite out to eat, the more money is donated to H.O.P.E. For a list of participating restaurants, please visit www.hopetesting.org Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. Applebee's - Tulsa Pride Flapjack Raiser Saturday, May 17th, 2014; 8:00 - 10:00 am Applebee's 9409 E 71st St Tulsa, OK 74133 Join us at the Applebees on 71st for a fun & family-friendly Tulsa Pride Fundraiser. Buy tickets online here. $10 for a great pancake breakfast to help fund Tulsa Pride! International Family Day Sunday, May 4th, 2014 The Family Equality Council has invited the OkEq Gamily Program to participate in the International Family Day on Sunday, May 4th, 2014. Gamily wants to show other communities and the world how beautiful families are. Everyone is welcome to come. Let's get together for a free game of laser tag. Donated by Laser Quest. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Mondays and Fridays 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm 4/23/26, 11:55 AM �Firefox 11 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-10th--2014.ht... MISSION: LASU< Q VcST There is a limited number of spaces, please RSVP by emailing at Gamily@OkEq.org or call Mary Jones 918.743.4297. 'Paragraph 175' screening at Circle Cinema April 27th, 2014; 2:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Circle Cinema 12 S Lewis Sunday, April 27th, 2014; 2:00 pm Historian Klaus M�ller interviews survivors of the Nazi persecution of homosexuals because of the German Penal Code of 1871. Admission price is $7 and tickets are available at circlecinema.com Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org NOT TO ELEGANT ANBJ ~ci~iRFUL' . 17th Annual Interfaith Holocaust Commemoration Thursday, May 1st, 2014; 7:00 pm Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Temple Israel 2004 E 22nd Pl The Tulsa Council for Holocaust Education invites the public to honor the forgotten victims at the 17th Annual Interfaith Holocaust Commemoration on Thursday, May 1st, 2014 at 7:00 pm. at Temple Israel. Dr. Nadine Blumer is the featured speaker and will address the topic, "Forgotten Holocaust Victims: How Germany Remembers the Roma". Blumer recently finished a fellowship at the United States Holocaust Memorial Museum and now is starting a postdoctoral fellowship at the Centre for Ethnographic Research and Exhibition in the Aftermath of Violence at Concordia University in Montreal, Quebec. For more information about this event, please visit jewishtulsa.org Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:55 AM �Firefox 12 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-10th--2014.ht... ,nt.:'='::E~"" REME RG I, - VY,:§V L C u T-==-- THE 'V 2014 INTERFAITH HOLOCAUST COMMEMORATION THURSDAY, MAY 1 • 7 P.M. • TEMPLE ISRAEL, 2004 E. 22ND PLACE LGBTI Transitional Youth Online Survey The transitional youth study is a first-of-its-kind effort to raise awareness (especially among Oklahoma state agencies) that LGBTI youth exist in the state and that services are needed to alleviate very real challenges. The online survey is completely anonymous and results will contribute to increased recognition of LGBTI concerns statewide. In exchange for participation, researchers are offering $10 in gift certificate credit redeemable at giftcertificates.com for the first 250 urban and 250 rural participants. If you are 18 - 25 years old, reside in Oklahoma, and identify as LGBTI you may be eligible to participated by going to http://tiny.cc/ oklgbti2. With questions or concerns, please contact Douglas Knutson, at douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma is pleased to announce it's newly elected monarchs Empress VII - Miranda Powers Ray Lee Love Emperor VII - Rusty Clyma 4/23/26, 11:55 AM �Firefox 13 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-10th--2014.ht... Please join us in congratulating them and wishing them a successful reign. The date and other details for Investitures VII will follow shortly. For more information, please visit www.impcourtok.webs.com Tulsa JOLT Golf Classic Saturday, May 3rd, 2014; 8:00 am The Canyons at Blackjack Ridge 1801 N McKinley Ave Tulsa, OK 74063 8:00 am Shotgun Start $75 per player or $300 per team 4-Man Team Scramble format Registration is open; contact Curtis Austin curtisaustin33@hotmail.com or Al Warren at 918.361.8739 Cash prizes for 1st, 2nd and 3rd place teams T GOLF CLA AT TH~ CANYQ SAT ~1-ACl9 CK RIPG~ 1101N. MCKINLEV ~VE SANP SPRINGS, QK 749§3 SATURDAY, M~ 3RD 8:00 A.M. SHOTGUN START $75 PER PLAYER/ $300 PER TEAM 4-MAN TEAM - SCRAMBLE FORMAT REGISTRATION IS OPEN NOWII CONTACT: ~-=~~~:.'!'::ii:r:JMH9"NILCOM 'IOU CAHAL50RNDIJS0frol fl11a1100K.T1JLSAK>lT ZES FOR st, 2• 0 ANP 3" 0 PLA!:E TE s RAFFLE PRIZES II I Equality Center Pride Store 4/23/26, 11:55 AM �Firefox 14 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-10th--2014.ht... Just in time for Spring weather, the Pride Store now has rainbow fedora hats in stock for $10 each. Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Transgender Warriors: Making History from Joan of Arc to Dennis Rodman' by Leslie Feinberg You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In this fascinating, personal journey through history, Leslie Feinberg uncovers persuasive evidence that there have always been people who crossed the cultural boundaries of gender. Transgender Warriors is an eye-opening jaunt through the history of gender expression and a powerful testament to the rebellious spirit. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/23/26, 11:55 AM �Firefox 15 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-10th--2014.ht... •••~ .. Volunt er A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! fULSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r----------------------------------------------------, I I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I I L----------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 11:55 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/ccb4df991f8be98da9e6fbde41332612.pdf af3cb1f81f6c03e97df13ea8173671b9 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-17th--2014... eNews January 17th, 2014 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor Give a Day MLK Jr Parade Marriage Equality Ruling Welcome to the eNews. Join us for the OkEq walking entry in the Martin Luther King, Jr. parade on January 20th, 2014 at 10:00 am at the Equality Center. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time Counseling Services Tulsa Metro Basketball EBA Fundraiser First Thursday Art ACA Assistance Engagement Party EBA Black Hearts Ball Tulsa Pride Meeting K9 Boot Camp National Dine for 2-1-1 Day The Cheril Vendetti Experience Research Study Inclement Weather Policy Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Be Our Voice, Give a Day In honor of the Martin Luther King, Jr. holiday and the programming at the Equality Center Find Us on Facebook OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, January 23rd, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq 4/23/26, 11:42 AM �Firefox 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-17th--2014... members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. OkEq Art Exhibit Marlena Breedlove has made a donation to OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign The January exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Cristiana Prado Marlena is sponsoring OkEq Programming on Monday, January 20th, 2014 Click here to commemorate a special day with OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign 2014 Martin Luther King Jr. Memorial Celebration & Parade Monday, January 20th, 2014; 11:00 am John Hope Franklin & Cincinnati Counseling Services 51 years ago, Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. stated, "I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin but by the content of their character". Well, a new dream is that some day our children will not be judged for who they love or the make up of their family. This is a day to recognize equality and unity. GAMILY will be walking as a family in the parade and carrying posters. The plan is to meet at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center by 10:00 am and then carpool to the parade. After the parade, we will be eating as a family; enjoying a meal back at the Equality Center. Please RSVP at Gamily@OkEq.org to be a part of this wonderful gathering. Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org Oklahomans for Equality applauds historic ruling in Oklahoma Marriage Equality Lawsuit 4/23/26, 11:42 AM �Firefox 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-17th--2014... On January 14th, 2014, U.S. Senior District Judge Terrance Kern gave hope to thousands of Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender Oklahomans when he ruled Oklahoma's same-sex marriage ban unconstitutional. Counseling Services Along with the opinion, a stay was issued on any further proceedings in the event the decision is appealed to the 10th Circuit Court of Appeals in Denver. At this time same-sex couples can not obtain a marriage license in Oklahoma and the state will continue to not recognize out of state same-sex marriages. Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LPC 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Oklahomans for Equality has worked closely with the plaintiffs in the Oklahoma marriage equality lawsuit for the last 6 years and are committed to the work of securing equal rights for LGBT individuals and their families. We encourage you to donate to the marriage equality fund which will assist with the legal fees associated with the appeal process. Donations may be made online here or mailed to: Oklahomans for Equality PO Box 2687 Tulsa, OK 74101 Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org New Counseling Services Sundays by appointment from 12:00 - 6:00 pm 4/23/26, 11:42 AM �Firefox 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-17th--2014... Michal Maybello will be available by appointment on Sundays from 12:00 - 6:00 pm for individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC at 918.346.1918 or Maybello@OkEq.org. Tulsa Metro Basketball League Winter Season Wednesday nights at 7:00 pm Winter Season is through February The league plays 3 on 3 games on a half court each Wednesday night through February at 7:00 pm. Tulsa Metro Basketball League is an offical program of OkEq and a member organization of the Equality Sports Alliance of Tulsa. $50 sign up fee. Games are played at the Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center at 2021 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK. Daryn Drake will be the head coach for the new Basketball season. For more information about the league, please contact Basketball@OkEq.org. Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Equality Business Alliance Fundraiser Dinner Tuesday, January 21st, 2014; Starting at 6:00 pm Tuesday, January 21st, 2014 Dalesandro's Italian Cuisine 1740 S. Boston Door open at 6:00 pm. SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Dalesandro's is hosting a fundraiser for the Equality Business Alliance and will be donating a portion of the sales that night back to the EBA. Make a reservation by calling 918.582.1551. February First Thursday Art Gallery Reception Thursday, February 6th, 2014; 6:00 pm Grieving Well The February Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Eric Humphries in a show titled "Can't Stop! - America's Journey from the Slave House to the White House"", beginning with a reception on 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold 4/23/26, 11:42 AM �Firefox 5 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-17th--2014... Thursday, February 6th, 2014 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Affordable Care Act Assistance Every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health insurance system to find the most affordable coverage that meets the consumer's Tuesdays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather needs. Marriage Equality - Engagement Party Wednesday, February 12th, 2014; 5:30 pm SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) All Souls Unitarian Church 2952 S. Peoria Tulsa, OK 74114 Attention Couples and Allies: Join in for a celebration of Oklahoma's progress on Same-Sex Marriage with a Tulsa Engagement Party. Announce your desire to marry as soon as it is legal in Oklahoma. (Date TBD) Certificates provided to couples announcing. There will be food, drink and music. Let's celebrate your relationship with all LGBTQ friendly congregations in Tulsa at All Souls Unitarian Church Wednesday February 12th, 2014 at 5:30 pm. For more information contact: Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Cay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders Rev. Tamara Lebak Associate Minister All Souls Unitarian Church phone: 918.743.2363 ext. 324 Tulsa Area Prime Timers Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory I EQUALITY 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 11:42 AM �Firefox 6 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-17th--2014... EBA on Facebook The February Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, February 19th, 2014 at 6:00 pm, at Wood Stone Design, 1303 E 15th St, Tulsa, OK 74120. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Wood Stone Design 1303 E 15th St Tulsa, Oklahoma A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Black Hearts Ball Friday, February 14th, 2014; 7:30 - 10:30 pm Self Defense Class oklahomans for equality www.okeq.org Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Friday, February 14th, 2014 Been dumped? Stood up? Hate your Ex? NO Date? Perfect!! Take Back Valentine's Day at the Black Hearts Ball 2014 7:30 pm til 10:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center DJ, Cash Bar, finger foods, No cupids! Tulsa Pride 2014 Planning Meeting Thursday, January 23rd, 2014; 7:30 pm Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach 4/23/26, 11:42 AM �Firefox 7 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-17th--2014... Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. ... = Rainbow Writers Thursday, January 23rd, 2014; 7:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center K9 Boot Camp w/ Out of the Dog House Starting Sundays, February 2nd, 2014; 1:00 pm Did you get a new puppy for Christmas or does your old dog need to learn some new tricks? Carrie McDowell, owner and trainer at Out of the Dog House, Ltd. Co. OkEq will be beginning training classes Sundays in February at 1:00 pm the class will be a program of OkEq and will be $5 dollars for non members and free for OkEq members. Private lessons will be available as well by arrangement with Carrie. Please contact Mary Jones at mary.jones@okeq.org or Carrie McDowell cmcdowell@inbox.com. Class size is limited due to size and age of the participants. The class will consist of minimal lecture/discussion to cover basic principles of how dogs learn, motivation, general information, and questions. The first class is a No Dog orientation. The majority of the teaching time will consist coaching: demonstrations of the techniques used and hands-on practice by students and their own dogs in class. Written homework will be provided, and dogs will progress faster if students work at home between classes, but it is not absolutely necessary to success. 1st and 3rd Wednesdays 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Thursdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Two Step & Country Line Dance Thursdays 7:30 pm Kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the 4/23/26, 11:42 AM �Firefox 8 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-17th--2014... old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Free for Members $5 for Non Members Yoga A - Z National Dine for 2-1-1 Day Tuesday, February 11th, 2014 Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno 4/23/26, 11:42 AM �Firefox 9 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-17th--2014... . ■ ~ Ef.,.aM nat 1ona 2-1-1 uay o min~ february 11, 2014 Support A Great Non -Profit Service and Eat Well Too! Dine at one of these fabulous restaurants on Tuesday, February 11, 2014 And they'll donate to the 2-1-1 Hotline! Just say 2-1-1 when you order at: BRADY DISTRICT Hey Mambo mam □ o 114 North Boston Ave. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet DECO DISTRICT DOWNTOWN The Vault 7/v 620 South Cincinnati Ave Mod's Coffee and Crepes 507 South Boston Ave. 31\ Elote Cafe nd Catering ~ f A-1-~. 14 South Boston Ave. ''i ii ~ 5 '1t HP - - , BLUE DOME DISTRICT Dilly Deli 402 East 2nd Street Yokozuna 309 East 2nd Street 'IJ~c>-VV'e The Dust Bowl , , ., ~ ~ • • 211 South Elgin ( JAMEs I_,~.y.11 EWE's] Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org James E. McNellie's Pub 409 East 1st Street-Blue Dome p BROOKSIDE Hibiscus 3316 South Peoria R Bar 3421 South Peoria [-~AM - ES_§_,q_tl_s_.E_W_E '_ sJ SOUTHTULSA James E. McNellie's Pub-South Citv EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and 4/23/26, 11:42 AM �Firefox 10 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-17th--2014... 7031 South Zurich Avenue Learn more here: www.211tulsa.org 2-6~6. * The Cheril Vendetti Experience Saturday, February 15th, 2014; 9:00 pm & 10:30 pm services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday c.s~ t 10 @~rrl~~ 328 E. lST ST, TULSA BETWEEN EL GUAPO'S & S&J' S Research Study Interested in helping Counselors better serve our community? Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Once you've been determined to be eligible, you'll complete a phone interview with the researcher that'll last about an hour. After the interview is transcribed, the researcher will send it back to you so you can make sure it's accurate. That's it! Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. What's the interview for? Research is currently being conducted by the University of South Carolina in order to help counselors better understand how their LGBT clients develop their identities. Given that our community has needs that are different and require a specialized set of skills; Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, MISSION: 4/23/26, 11:42 AM �Firefox 11 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-17th--2014... this research will help to equip Counselors with the tools they need to better help us. Ok, who's eligible? We're looking for interviewees who are: 18 years of age or older Women Men and women who identify as a racial minority (African America, Latino/ a, etc.) From the Southeastern United States and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. What's in it for me? By participating, you'll have the opportunity to potentially shift the way in which our community receives mental health care. You'll also be helping to establish the foundation for creating more informed and effective ways for mental health care professionals to treat our community. To volunteer or for more information, just contact: Omar Troutman (troutman@mailbox.sc.edu) or call 803.240.8310 Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org --- Inclement Weather Policy Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In the event of inclement weather you may need to confirm that special events and regularly scheduled programming at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center have not been canceled due to poor road conditions or winter weather advisories. Please contact the Equality Center by calling 918-743-4297 or check the OkEq website: www.okeq.org OkEqon Facebook. - - or -- Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org --- Toby Jenkins, Executive Director of Oklahomans for Equality, will contact the local media so we can be included in the posted weather-related closings. Info will also be posted on Facebook. Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Metro Hottest Firefighters calendars for 2014 are back in stock! They are $10, and the proceeds go to the Tulsa Firefighters Educational Clowns Fund. Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org ---- 4/23/26, 11:42 AM �Firefox 12 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-17th--2014... Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'The Unofficial Guide to Adopting a Child' by Andrea Della Vecchio, MA, M.Ed. You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The process of adoption - be it an open or a closed adoption, domestic or international - is seldom simple, short, or standardized. It can often take many years of frustrating and expensive searching before parents can bring an infant or child home, and once they do, they face a whole new set of challenges as they learn together to be a family. Unofficial Guide-lo Adopting a Child The Unofficial Guide to Adopting a Child gives prospective adoptive parents the inside scoop on: * How long it will really take to adopt, and how much it will cost * What the challelnges are for single people, older couples, and gay lesbian couples seeking to adopt * What the all-important home study entails -- from writing the autobiographical statement to creating a child-friendly atmosphere * What questions to ask agency personnel and birth parents -- and what questions to refuse to answer Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/23/26, 11:42 AM �Firefox 13 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-17th--2014... •••~ .. Volunt er A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! ru SA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r---------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:42 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/ec2bf478c47899b39c36fbd7035dbeed.pdf 648355eb46ab46513b10d2cdc40c1870 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-24th--2014... eNews January 24th, 2014 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor Programming Note 2013 Tax Letters Black Hearts Ball Welcome to the eNews. Join us for the Black Hearts Ball on Friday, February 14th, 2014 at 7:30 pm at the Equality Center. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Dr. Ronald LaButti, DO, FAOAO Counseling Services First Thursday Art Syphilis Testing ACA Assistance Guys Dine Too Engagement Party EBA Hips-Knees-Shoulders Foot/Ankle-Sports Medicine Team doctor for Tulsa Threat and Tulsa Crew. Mention this ad for priority scheduling by calling 918-514-3009 or online at www.hipandkneedoc.com 6585 S. Yale, Suite 200, Tulsa OK Camp Fire Green Country K9 Boot Camp EBA Sponsor National Dine for 2-1-1 Day The Cheril Vendetti Experience OK LGBT College Summit Programming Note There will be no Tai Chi or Self Defense classes during the month of February. 2013 Tax Letters Tax receipts for donations made to Oklahomans for Equality in 2013 were recently mailed. If you have not received your tax receipt or have questions regarding your receipt, please contact Kirk Holt, OkEq Treasurer, Treasurer@OkEq.org Sam Harris Parenting Workshop Art Show Equality Day atthe ----Capitol Inclement Weather Policy Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Black Hearts Ball Friday, February 14th, 2014; 7:30 - 10:30 pm Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 11:44 AM �Firefox 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-24th--2014... OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, February 20th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. oklahomans for equality www.okeq.org Friday, February 14th, 2014 Been dumped? Stood up? Hate your Ex? NO Date? Perfect!! Take Back Valentine's Day at the Black Hearts Ball 2014 OkEq Art Exhibit The January exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Cristiana Prado Free admission 7:30 pm til 10:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center DJ, Cash Bar, finger foods, No cupids! Fantastic Raffle Items! New Counseling Services Sundays by appointment from 12:00 - 6:00 pm Michal Maybello will be available by appointment on Sundays from 12:00 - 6:00 pm for individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC at 918.346.1918 or Maybello@OkEq.org. February First Thursday Art Gallery Reception Thursday, February 6th, 2014; 6:00 pm The February Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Eric Humphries in a show titled "Can't Stop! - America's Journey from the Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:44 AM �Firefox 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-24th--2014... Slave House to the White House"", beginning with a reception on Thursday, February 6th, 2014 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Syphilis testing from H.O.P.E. Tuesday, January 28th, 2014; 3:00 - 6:00 pm Syphilis is on the rise for Gay and Bisexual Men in Tulsa. Health Outreach Prevention Education (H.O.P.E.) will have walk in Syphilis testing on Tuesday, January 28th, 2014 from 3:00 pm to 6:00 pm. Men who come in and get tested also get a $10 Quik Trip card. Affordable Care Act Assistance Every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health insurance system to find the most affordable coverage that meets the consumer's Counseling Services Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LPC 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org needs. Guys Dine Too Tuesday, February 4th, 2014; 6:30 pm The February meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Desi Wok on Tuesday, February 4th, 2014 at 6:30 pm. Desi Wok is located at 3966 South Hudson Avenue, on the north side of 41st St on Hudson Ave. www.desiwok.net Counseling Services Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Saturdays By appointment Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee Marriage Equality - Engagement Party Wednesday, February 12th, 2014; 5:30 pm scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:44 AM �Firefox 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-24th--2014... All Souls Unitarian Church 2952 S. Peoria Tulsa, OK 74114 Attention Couples and Allies: Join in for a celebration of Oklahoma's progress on Same-Sex Marriage with a Tulsa Engagement Party. Announce your desire to marry as soon as it is legal in Oklahoma. (Date TBD) Certificates provided to couples announcing. There will be food, drink and music. Let's celebrate your relationship with all LGBTQ friendly congregations in Tulsa at All Souls Unitarian Church Wednesday February 12th, 2014 at 5:30 pm. For more information contact: Rev. Tamara Lebak Associate Minister All Souls Unitarian Church phone: 918.743.2363 ext. 324 Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The February Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, February 19th, 2014 at 6:00 pm, at Wood Stone Design, 1303 E 15th St, Tulsa, OK 74120. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Wood Stone Design 1303 E 15th St Tulsa, Oklahoma Camp Fire Green Country Candy Sale Monday, February 3rd, 2014; 3:45 - 5:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality will host a youth group from Tulsa Camp Fire's Teens in Action program selling candy at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Monday, February 3rd, 2014 from 3:45 pm to 5:30 pm. Camp Fire is youth-centered, engages families in fun activities, welcoming and inclusive, Light the fire within builds youth and adult partnerships, and provides service to others. Come support our young people and stop by their candy stand. ~ ¥ Al\ Camp Fire K9 Boot Camp w/ Out of the Dog House Starting Sundays, February 2nd, 2014; 1:00 pm Did you get a new puppy for Christmas or does your old dog need to learn some new tricks? Carrie McDowell, owner and trainer at Out of the Dog House, Ltd. Co. OkEq will be beginning training classes Sundays in February at 1:00 pm the class will be a program of OkEq and will be $5 dollars for non members and free for OkEq members. Private lessons will be available as well by arrangement with Carrie. Please contact Mary Tai Chi Class No Tai Chi class in February Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org • . ' • ' I Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. 4/23/26, 11:44 AM �Firefox 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-24th--2014... Jones at mary.jones@okeq.org or Carrie McDowell cmcdowell@inbox.com. Class size is limited due to size and age of the participants. The class will consist of minimal lecture/discussion to cover basic principles of how dogs learn, motivation, general information, and questions. The first class is a No Dog orientation. The majority of the teaching time will consist coaching: demonstrations of the techniques used and hands-on practice by students and their own dogs in class. Written homework will be provided, and dogs will progress faster if students work at home between classes, but it is not absolutely necessary to success. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Tuesdays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Serv,ces and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders National Dine for 2-1-1 Day Tuesday, February 11th, 2014 Tulsa Area Prime Timers 4/23/26, 11:44 AM �Firefox 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-24th--2014... . ■ ~ Ef.,.aM nat 1ona 2-1-1 uay o min~ february 11, 2014 Support A Great Non -Profit Service and Eat Well Too! Dine at one of these fabulous restaurants on 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Tuesday, February 11, 2014 And they'll donate to the 2-1-1 Hotline! Just say 2-1-1 when you order at: BRADY DISTRICT Hey Mambo mam □ o 114 North Boston Ave. Self Defense Class DECO DISTRICT DOWNTOWN The Vault 7/v 620 South Cincinnati Ave Mod's Coffee and Crepes 507 South Boston Ave. 31\ Elote Cafe nd Catering ~ f A-1-~. 14 South Boston Ave. ''i ii ~ 5 '1t HP - - , BLUE DOME DISTRICT Dilly Deli 402 East 2nd Street Yokozuna 309 East 2nd Street 'IJ~c>-VV'e The Dust Bowl , , ., ~ ~ • • 211 South Elgin ( JAMEs I_,~.y.11 EWE's] James E. McNellie's Pub 409 East 1st Street-Blue Dome p No Self Defense class in February Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members BROOKSIDE Hibiscus 3316 South Peoria R Bar 3421 South Peoria [-~AM - ES_§_,q_tl_s_.E_W_E '_ sJ SOUTHTULSA Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members James E. McNellie's Pub-South Citv 4/23/26, 11:44 AM �Firefox 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-24th--2014... 7031 South Zurich Avenue Learn more here: www.211tulsa.org 2-6~6. * Instructor Brad Sullivan. The Cheril Vendetti Experience Saturday, February 15th, 2014; 9:00 pm & 10:30 pm Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. JC_ = Rainbow Writers c.s~ t 10 @~rrl~~ 328 E. lST ST, TULSA BETWEEN EL GUAPO'S & S&J' S 2014 Oklahoma LGBT College Summit Saturday, March 1st, 2014; 10:00 am - 5:30 pm TEN Institute is proud to announce the 2014 Oklahoma LGBTQQIA College Summit to be held on Saturday, March 1st, 2014 from 10:00 am to 5:30 pm in the Main Building at Oklahoma City Community College. This exciting one-day meeting will give lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer, questioning, intersex, and allied college students the knowledge and skills to start and sustain a gay-straight alliance (GSA), advocate for lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) issues, and much more. Panelists will include Professor Toby Beauchamp, representatives from The Equality Network, Oklahomans for Equality, Cimarron Alliance, and ■TEN lll1nstitute 1st and 3rd Wednesdays 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org -----to attend ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Thursdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every 4/23/26, 11:44 AM �Firefox 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-24th--2014... students, faculty, and staff from universities and colleges around the state. This year's host organization is L.I.F.E. (Leading Individuals for Equality) at Oklahoma City Community College. For more information or to register for the Summit, go to http:// tinyurl.com/2014CollegeSummit. Registration is free and includes lunch and a t-shirt. Exhibitors and organizations are welcome to set up informational displays at the Summit. To reserve a table, contact Tennent Emmons at temmons@occc.edu. Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Two Step & Country Line Dance Thursdays 7:30 pm Kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Free for Members $5 for Non Members Sam Harris "HAM: Slices of Life" Saturday, February 1st, 2014; 8:00 pm Tulsa Community College Vantrease PACE 10300 E 81st Tulsa, Oklahoma 74133 Purchase tickets by phone (918) 595-7777 or visit myticketoffice.com SAM HARRIS in "HAM: Slices of a Life" is a show based on his new book of the same title (a collection of stories and essays published by Simon & Schuster). Harris calls the show a "liter-usical," as it incorporates humorous and poignant stories from the book artfully interspersed with songs to create an original and cutting-edge stage piece. Harris's successful career has spanned 30 years, and now he adds "author" to his long list of accomplishments, unveiled in this innovative and exciting hybrid theatrical concept. Yoga A - Z Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Parenting Workshop Pt 2; Foster Care & Adoption Saturday, February 22nd, 2014; 1:00 - 4:00 pm The first part of the Gamily parenting workshop, Maybe Baby, was a wonderful success! Now onto our second part, Foster care & Adoption. There are children within our community in need of a Game Night 4/23/26, 11:44 AM �Firefox 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-24th--2014... loving home with loving people. Is that you? We will be having representatives from local agencies to provide you with information to prepare your nest and answer all your wildest questions. This informative event will take place on Saturday, February 22nd, 2014 from 1:00 pm to 4:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Please RSVP on OkEq's Gamily Facebook page Gamily@OkEq.org. All are welcome, so spread the word! or at Collaborative Art Show at The Outlet Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Saturday, February 8th, 2014; 8:00 pm The Outlet 1317 E 6th St Tulsa, OK THE l~~UTLET Want art? Want music? Want entertainment that helps the community? Come to the show at the Outlet on February 8th, 2014! Starts at 8:00 pm and only costs $5, or $2 if you're a student! Come check out some young, local talent and help Oklahomans for Equality at the same time. The Outlet will be selling a variety of soda and water for $1 for the cause, and artists will be selling their work as well. COLLABORATION. CONNECTION.CREATION, ANGELINE JOT MCBRIDE JONATHAN HECKMAN KARI MICHELLE CLAIRE COLLINS ECHO BONES JAKE JONES BLESSING IFEOMA VALERIE GRANT BLAKE SHELTON SMIDGE ISGRIG HETIDOLLFACE TEMPEST CARTWRIGHT COATIE POP FEB8Tl-l Come listen to music, enjoy dancers, admire fashion, watch films, gaze at paintings and drawings, and have a night filled with expression. 8PM-llf't1 A.TTHE CI\EATIVE ROOM 1317 E 6TH ST TUI.SA.OK IADMISSON: SS.$lWJTH STU ID. PflOCEEOS FkOM TICKET SAL.ES GO TO OKLAHOMANS FOil EQUALITY https://www.facebook.com/theoutlettulsa Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org ----Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet 5th Annual LGBT Equality Day at the Capitol Wednesday, February 26th, 2014; 8:00 am I The Equality Network (TEN) invites all LGBTQ and allied people from across Oklahoma to the 5th Annual LGBT Equality Day at the Capitol on Wednesday, February 26th from 8:00 am to Noon. Let's show the collective strength of TEN, An Oklahoma Wm'rl' Ewryon~ ls Equal Oklahomans for Equality, Cimarron Alliance, PFLAG chapters, Mothers of Many, GSAs, OKC Pride, Tulsa Pride, other Pride festivals, Marriage Equality Rights for Oklahoma, and the many other voices and organizations working for equality for LGBTQ Oklahomans. With the marriage equality case on its way to appeal, this year it is critically important that our legislators meet you, your partners, your families, your supportive clergy, your friends, and your allies. Nothing shapes legislators' attitudes more than face-to-face contact with their constituents. . The Equality Network Click here to register (it's free and includes breakfast) Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:44 AM �Firefox 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-24th--2014... Inclement Weather Policy Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In the event of inclement weather you may need to confirm that special events and regularly scheduled programming at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center have not been canceled due to poor road conditions or winter weather advisories. Please contact the Equality Center by calling 918-743-4297 or check the OkEq website: www.okeq.org or OkEq on Facebook. Toby Jenkins, Executive Director of Oklahomans for Equality, will contact the local media so we can be included in the posted weather-related closings. Info will also be posted on Facebook. Equality Center Pride Store EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Tulsa Metro Hottest Firefighters calendars for 2014 are back in stock! They are $10, and the proceeds go to the Tulsa Firefighters Educational Clowns Fund. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Queer in Russia; A Story of Sex, Self and the Other' by Laurie Essig You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In Queer in Russia Laurie Essig examines the formation of gay identity and community in the former Soviet Union. As a sociological fieldworker, she began her research during the late 1980s, HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. 4/23/26, 11:44 AM �Firefox 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-24th--2014... before any kind of a public queer identity existed in that country. After a decade of conducting interviews, as well as observing and analyzing plays, books, pop music, and graffiti, Essig presents the first sustained study of how and why there was no Soviet gay community or even gay identity before perestroika and the degree to which this situation has-or has not-changed. While male homosexual acts were criminalized in Russia before 1993, women attracted to women were policed by the medical community, who saw them less as criminals than as diseased persons potentially cured by drug therapy or transsexual surgery. After describing accounts of preperestroika persecution, Essig examines the more recent state of sexual identities in Russia. Although the fall of communism brought new freedom to Russian queers, there are still no signs of a mass movement forming around the issue, and few identify themselves as lesbians or gay men, even when they are involved in same-sex relations. Essig does reveal, however, vibrant manifestations of gay life found at the local level-in restaurants, discos, clubs, and cruising strips, in newspapers, journals, literature, and the theater. Concluding with a powerful exploration of the surprising affinities between some of Russia's most prominent nationalists and its queers, Queer in Russia fills a gap in both Russian and cultural studies. Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library ol nt TU r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Guiding Right provides testing on Mondays and Fridays 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:44 AM �Firefox 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-24th--2014... r---------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:44 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/45e0362639b0f8224f2954e611cecc9b.pdf ec645808f4f046358ea3a4513f6dba22 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-29th--2014... eNews January 29th, 2014 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor Sam Harris Programming Note 2013 Tax Letters Welcome to the eNews. Join us for the Black Hearts Ball on Friday, February 14th, 2014 at 7:30 pm at the Equality Center. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time Black Hearts Ball First Thursday Art ACA Assistance Guys Dine Too Hate Crimes in the Heartland K9 Boot Camp OUTlaw Legal Series EBA Sponsor Engagement Party EBA Camp Fire Green Country Flapjack Fundraiser National Dine for 2-1-1 Day The Cheril Vendetti Experience OK LGBT College Summit Parenting Workshop Art Show Equality Day attheCapitol -- Sam Harris "HAM: Slices of Life" Saturday, February 1st, 2014; 8:00 pm Tulsa Community College Vantrease PACE 10300 E 81st Tulsa, Oklahoma 74133 Purchase tickets by phone 918.595.7777 or visit myticketoffice.com. OkEq members may call or visit the ticket office between the hours of 10:00 am to 6:00 pm to purchase tickets. A 50% discount will be applied by using the password "Equality Sam" Limit will be 2 tickets per patron. Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Inclement Weather Policy Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer SAM HARRIS in "HAM: Slices of a Life" is a show based on his new book of the same title (a collection of stories and essays published by Simon & Schuster). Harris calls the show a "liter-usical," as it incorporates humorous and poignant stories from the book artfully interspersed with 4/23/26, 11:45 AM �Firefox 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-29th--2014... songs to create an original and cutting-edge stage piece. Harris's successful career has spanned 30 years, and now he adds "author" to his long list of accomplishments, unveiled in this innovative and exciting hybrid theatrical concept. Find Us on Facebook Programming Note There will be no Tai Chi or Self Defense classes during the month of February. 2013 Tax Letters Tax receipts for donations made to Oklahomans for Equality in 2013 were recently mailed. If you have not received your tax receipt or have questions regarding your receipt, please contact Kirk Holt, OkEq Treasurer, Treasurer@OkEq.org OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, February 20th, 7:00 pm Black Hearts Ball Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. Friday, February 14th, 2014; 7:30 - 10:30 pm OkEq Art Exhibit oklahomans for equality www.okeq.org The January exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Cristiana Prado Friday, February 14th, 2014 Been dumped? Stood up? Hate your Ex? NO Date? Perfect!! Take Back Valentine's Day at the Black Hearts Ball 2014 Free admission 7:30 pm til 10:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center DJ, Cash Bar, finger foods, No cupids! Fantastic Raffle Items! February First Thursday Art Gallery Reception Thursday, February 6th, 2014; 6:00 pm Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. 4/23/26, 11:45 AM �Firefox 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-29th--2014... The February Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Eric Humphries in a show titled "Can't Stop! - America's Journey from the Slave House to the White House", beginning with a reception on Thursday, February 6th, 2014 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org Affordable Care Act Assistance Every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health insurance system to find the most affordable coverage that meets the consumer's needs. Guys Dine Too Tuesday, February 4th, 2014; 6:30 pm The February meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Desi Wok on Tuesday, February 4th, 2014 at 6:30 pm. Desi Wok is located at 3966 South Hudson Avenue, on the north side of 41st St on Hudson Ave. Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org www.desiwok.net Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. 'Hate Crimes in the Heartland' Monday, February 3rd, 2014; 6:00 pm - 8:30 pm Counseling Services Greenwood Cultural Center 322 North Greenwood Ave Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LPC Film to foster dialogue on race relations in Tulsa and the United States Hate Crimes in the Heartland, a new documentary explores the 250,000 hate crimes committed in the United States each year through the lens of two hate crimes in Tulsa, Oklahoma. On February 3rd, 2014, the Greenwood Cultural Center presents the world premiere of Hate Crimes in the Heartland during Black History Month. 4/23/26, 11:45 AM �Firefox 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-29th--2014... The Greenwood Cultural Center, a natural partner to the film, has been a part of the education and rebuilding process of the black community in the aftermath of the 1921 Race Riot. The Center is dedicated to rebuilding the thriving center of commerce of Greenwood that was once considered America's "Black Wall Street". The Greenwood Cultural Center and the George Kaiser Family Foundation seek to engage minority, student and interfaith community members at Hate Crimes in the Heartland. The film allows audiences to focus on solutions, local heroes and distinguished speakers. Like no other documentary exploring this topic, Hate Crimes in the Heartland tells powerful stories of survivors, activists, leaders, and community members. The film explores current and past hate crimes in our nation, asking important questions related to social justice, our individual and collective responsibility along with a true examination of the media's influence on the justice system. For more information about the film and screening, contact the Greenwood Cultural Center at 918.596.1020. 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org K9 Boot Camp w/ Out of the Dog House Starting Sundays, February 2nd, 2014; 1:00 pm Did you get a new puppy for Christmas or does your old dog need to learn some new tricks? Carrie McDowell, owner and trainer at Out of the Dog House, Ltd. Co. OkEq will be beginning training classes Sundays in February at 1:00 pm the class will be a program of OkEq and will be $5 dollars for non members and free for OkEq members. Private lessons will be available as well by arrangement with Carrie. Please contact Mary Jones at mary.jones@okeq.org or Carrie McDowell cmcdowell@inbox.com. Class size is limited due to size and age of the participants. The class will consist of minimal lecture/discussion to cover basic principles of how dogs learn, motivation, general information, and questions. The first class is a No Dog orientation. The majority of the teaching time will consist coaching: demonstrations of the techniques used and hands-on practice by students and their own dogs in class. Written homework will be provided, and dogs will progress faster if students work at home between classes, but it is not absolutely necessary to success. Tai Chi Class No Tai Chi class in February Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members 4/23/26, 11:45 AM �Firefox 5 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-29th--2014... SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org OUTlaw Legal Series Thursday, February 13th, 2014; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Jason McVicker, Esq. and Conor Cleary, Esq. discuss today's top legal issues and help to answer your legal questions. Free event and open to everyone. February's Topic: What's going on in Utah and why you should care. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: TW's AFAB Catering nv-11-AfAB ca•ering w, Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold .IW afabcatering com Tul a Kitchen : TW'S•Af'AU Catenna 918-582-8608 Oklahoma City Kitchen : Se" ~ng all of Oklahoma from Ki tchens in Tulsa and Oklahoma Wt-1lsoti• hn r to 405-236-2500 ~1ruas, .1is,:u-11n1 KSl$..U Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Tuesdays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Plan Your Wedding Reception Now eb Click on the EVENT PLA1 1 ER button on our website to get stru1cd on our event www.twsafabcatering.com Marriage Equality - Engagement Party Wednesday, February 12th, 2014; 5:30 pm 4/23/26, 11:45 AM �Firefox 6 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-29th--2014... SAGE Tulsa All Souls Unitarian Church 2952 S. Peoria Tulsa, OK 74114 Attention Couples and Allies: Join in for a celebration of Oklahoma's progress on Same-Sex Marriage with a Tulsa Engagement Party. Announce your desire to marry as soon as it is legal in Oklahoma. (Date TBD) Certificates provided to couples announcing. There will be food, drink and music. Let's celebrate your relationship with all LGBTQ friendly congregations in Tulsa at All Souls Unitarian Church Wednesday February 12th, 2014 at 5:30 pm. For more information contact: (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Rev. Tamara Lebak Associate Minister All Souls Unitarian Church phone: 918.743.2363 ext. 324 Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The February Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, February 19th, 2014 at 6:00 pm, at Wood Stone Design, 1303 E 15th St, Tulsa, OK 74120. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Wood Stone Design 1303 E 15th St Tulsa, Oklahoma Camp Fire Green Country Candy Sale Monday, February 3rd, 2014; 3:45 - 5:30 pm Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Self Defense Class 4/23/26, 11:45 AM �Firefox 7 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-29th--2014... Oklahomans for Equality will host a youth group from Tulsa Camp Fire's Teens in Action program selling candy at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Monday, February 3rd, 2014 from 3:45 pm to 5:30 pm. Camp Fire is youth-centered, engages families in fun activities, welcoming and inclusive, builds Light the fire within youth and adult partnerships, and provides service to others. Come support our young people and stop by their candy stand. ~ ¥ Ai\ Camp Fire Flapjack Fundraiser Saturday, February 8th, 2014; 7:30 - 10:00 am Applebee's Flapjack Fundraiser 9409 E 71st St Tulsa No Self Defense class in February Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members • Applebees· n/j\~(B~ - ~ dralser Tulsa JOLT When: Saturday, February 8th, 2014 7:30 am - 10:00 am Where: 9409 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK Cost: $7.00 per person, also serving $3.00 Mimosas All proceeds benefit Tulsa JOLT Bowling www.jolttulsa.com National Dine for 2-1-1 Day Tuesday, February 11th, 2014 Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. s:r::cc.. ma ~ c:a 4/23/26, 11:45 AM �Firefox 8 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-29th--2014... Rainbow Writers . ■ ~ Ef.,.aM nat 1ona 2-1-1 uay o min~ february 11, 2014 Support A Great Non -Profit Service and Eat Well Too! Dine at one of these fabulous restaurants on 1st and 3rd Wednesdays 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org ------to attend Tuesday, February 11, 2014 And they'll donate to the 2-1-1 Hotline! ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Just say 2-1-1 when you order at: BRADY DISTRICT Hey Mambo mam □ o 114 North Boston Ave. Open AA Group Thursdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. DECO DISTRICT DOWNTOWN The Vault 7/v 620 South Cincinnati Ave Mod's Coffee and Crepes 507 South Boston Ave. 31\ Elote Cafe nd Catering ~ f A-1-~. 14 South Boston Ave. ''i ii ~ 5 '1t HP - - , BLUE DOME DISTRICT Dilly Deli 402 East 2nd Street Yokozuna 309 East 2nd Street 'IJ~c>-VV'e The Dust Bowl , , ., ~ ~ • • 211 South Elgin ( JAMEs I_,~.y.11 EWE's] Two Step & Country Line Dance Thursdays 7:30 pm Kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Free for Members $5 for Non Members James E. McNellie's Pub 409 East 1st Street-Blue Dome p BROOKSIDE Hibiscus 3316 South Peoria R Bar 3421 South Peoria [-~AM - ES_§_,q_tl_s_.E_W_E '_ sJ SOUTHTULSA Yoga A - Z James E. McNellie's Pub-South Citv 4/23/26, 11:45 AM �Firefox 9 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-29th--2014... 7031 South Zurich Avenue Learn more here: www.211tulsa.org 2-6~6. * The Cheril Vendetti Experience Saturday, February 15th, 2014; 9:00 pm & 10:30 pm Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm c.s~ t 10 @~rrl~~ 328 E. lST ST, TULSA BETWEEN EL GUAPO'S & S&J' S 2014 Oklahoma LGBT College Summit Saturday, March 1st, 2014; 10:00 am - 5:30 pm TEN Institute is proud to announce the 2014 Oklahoma LGBTQQIA College Summit to be held on Saturday, March 1st, 2014 from 10:00 am to 5:30 pm in the Main Building at Oklahoma City Community College. This exciting one-day meeting will give lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer, questioning, intersex, and allied college students the knowledge and skills to start and sustain a gay-straight alliance (GSA), advocate for lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) issues, and much more. Panelists will include Professor Toby Beauchamp, representatives from The Equality Network, Oklahomans for Equality, Cimarron Alliance, and ■TEN Ill institute Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno 4/23/26, 11:45 AM �Firefox 10 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-29th--2014... students, faculty, and staff from universities and colleges around the state. This year's host organization is L.I.F.E. (Leading Individuals for Equality) at Oklahoma City Community College. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals For more information or to register for the Summit, go to http:// tinyurl.com/2014CollegeSummit. Registration is free and includes lunch and a t-shirt. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Exhibitors and organizations are welcome to set up informational displays at the Summit. To reserve a table, contact Tennent Emmons at temmons@occc.edu. Parenting Workshop Pt 2; Foster Care & Adoption Saturday, February 22nd, 2014; 1:00 - 4:00 pm The first part of the Gamily parenting workshop, Maybe Baby, was a wonderful success! Now onto our second part, Foster care & Adoption. There are children within our community in need of a loving home with loving people. Is that you? We will be having representatives from local agencies to provide you with information to prepare your nest and answer all your wildest questions. This informative event will take place on Saturday, February 22nd, 2014 from 1:00 pm to 4:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Please RSVP on OkEq's Gamily Facebook page Gamily@OkEq.org. All are welcome, so spread the word! or Collaborative Art Show at The Outlet Saturday, February 8th, 2014; 8:00 pm The Outlet 1317 E 6th St Tulsa, OK Want art? Want music? Want entertainment that helps the community? Come to the show at the Outlet on February 8th, 2014! Starts at 8:00 pm and only costs $5, or $2 if you're a student! Come check out some young, THE l~~UTLET COLLABORATION . CONNEC TION . CREATION , ANGELINE JOT MCBRIDE JONATHAN HECKMAN KARI MICHELLE CLAIRE COLLINS ECHO BONES JAKE JONES Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org at EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. 4/23/26, 11:45 AM �Firefox 11 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-29th--2014... local talent and help Oklahomans for Equality at the same time. The Outlet will be selling a variety of soda and water for $1 for the cause, and artists will be selling their work as well. Come listen to music, enjoy dancers, admire fashion, watch films, gaze at paintings and drawings, and have a night filled with expression. VALERIE CRANT BLAKE SHELTON SMIDCE ISCRIC HEYIDOLLFACE TEMPEST CARTWRICHT COATIE POP FE88TH SPH- 11PM A.T™E CREATIVE ltOOH 1317 E 6Tli ST TULSA.OK /AOMISSON,$S,$1WITH ST\J 10. PROCEEDS FI\OM TICKET SA.LES GO TO OKlAHOHANS FOR EQUALITY Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday https://www.facebook.com/theoutlettulsa 5th Annual LGBT Equality Day at the Capitol Wednesday, February 26th, 2014; 8:00 am The Equality Network (TEN) invites all LGBTQ and allied people from across Oklahoma to the 5th Annual LGBT Equality Day at the Capitol on Wednesday, February 26th from 8:00 am to Noon. Let's show the collective strength of TEN, An Otdahom11 W1Jl'r-t EvtrJ'Ont I, Equal Oklahomans for Equality, Cimarron Alliance, PFLAG chapters, Mothers of Many, GSAs, OKC Pride, Tulsa Pride, other Pride festivals, Marriage Equality Rights for Oklahoma, and the many other voices and organizations working for equality for LGBTQ Oklahomans. With the marriage equality case on its way to appeal, this year it is critically important that our legislators meet you, your partners, your families, your supportive clergy, your friends, and your allies. Nothing shapes legislators' attitudes more than face-to-face contact with their constituents. 1 The 1::quality : Network Click here to register (it's free and includes breakfast) Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events Imperial Court of All Oklahoma presents Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Mondays and Fridays 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm MISSION: A Mardi Gras Celebration "A Sweet Time in Old New Orleans" Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/23/26, 11:45 AM �Firefox 12 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-29th--2014... Saturday, February 28th, 2014 Bamboo Lounge 8:00 pm - Drinks & Desserts 9:00 pm - Show $3 Suggested Door Cover (21+) Silent Auction, 50/50 Raffle Dress: Formal or Theme Featuring: Chasing Nadean and other Oklahoma Performers For more information, visit impcourtok.webs.com Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Inclement Weather Policy Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In the event of inclement weather you may need to confirm that special events and regularly scheduled programming at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center have not been canceled due to poor road conditions or winter weather advisories. Please contact the Equality Center by calling 918-743-4297 or check the OkEq website: www.okeq.org or OkEq on Facebook. Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Toby Jenkins, Executive Director of Oklahomans for Equality, will contact the local media so we can be included in the posted weather-related closings. Info will also be posted on Facebook. Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Metro Hottest Firefighters calendars for 2014 are back in stock! They are $10, and the proceeds go to the Tulsa Firefighters Educational Clowns Fund. Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org . ~ Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 4/23/26, 11:45 AM �Firefox 13 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-29th--2014... Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Transparent: Love, Family and Living the T with Transgender Teenagers' by Cris Beam You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center When Cris Beam moved to Los Angeles, she thought she might volunteer just a few hours at a school for gay and transgender kids. Instead, she found herself drawn deeply into the pained and powerful group of transgirls she discovered. Transparent introduces four: Christina, Dominique, Foxxjazell, and Ariel. As they accept Cris into their world, she shows it to us-a dizzying mix of familiar teenage cliques and crushes and far less familiar challenges, such as how to morph your body on a few dollars a day. Funny, heartbreaking, defiant, and sometimes defeated, the girls form a singular community. But they struggle valiantly to resolve the gap between the way they feel inside and the way the world sees them-and who among us can't identify with that? Beam's astute reporting, sensitive writing, and passionate engagement with her characters place this book in the ranks of the very best narrative nonfiction. Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r----------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:45 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/d7d2f0b0b3989c4b0b14a207aac62f53.pdf e065045fac2404f537f89b4943e8aea4 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-5th--2014... eNews February 5th, 2014 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor Heartland Pride Summit Programming Note 2013 Tax Letters Welcome to the eNews. Join us for the Black Hearts Ball on Friday, February 14th, 2014 at 7:30 pm at the Equality Center. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Dr. Ronald LaButti, DO, FAOAO Creating Change Black Hearts Ball First Thursday Art ACA Assistance K9 Boot Camp OUTlaw Legal Series Engagement Party Hips-Knees-Shoulders FooUAnkle-Sports Medicine Team doctor for Tulsa Threat and Tulsa Crew. Mention this ad for priority scheduling by calling 918-514-3009 or online at www.hipandkneedoc.com 6585 S. Yale , Suite 200, Tulsa OK EBA Flapjack Fundraiser Parenting Workshop Tennis Championship EBA Sponsor Tax Preparation Workshop Heartland Pride Summit - InterPride Region 3 Friday, February 7th - Sunday, February 9th, 2014 National Dine for 2-1-1 Day OK LGBT College Summit Art Show Second Sunday Series HEARTLAND Equality Day at theCapitol -Mardi Gras Masquerade The Cheril Vendetti Experience Imperial Court of All Oklahoma SUMMIT -- INTERPRIDE REGION 3 Inclement Weather Policy Pride Store Oklahomans for Equality will welcome Pride delegates from across the Heartland region this weekend and host the Heartland Pride Summit InterPride Region 3. Conference participants will come from 24 different Pride organizations and 11 different states. InterPride is the international organization that ties LGBT Pride together globally. Members of the organization are dedicated volunteers who organize and work to put on Pride events all over the world. InterPride's Mission is to increase the capacity of the network of LGBTI Pride organizations around the world to raise awareness of cultural, social and legal inequality, and to effect positive change through education, collaboration, advocacy and outreach. Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 11:46 AM �Firefox 2 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-5th--2014... Oklahomans for Equality applauds our very own Patrick French, OkEq Board of Director, Tulsa Pride Director and the Region 3 Director for InterPride, for his incredible organizing and networking skills in bringing this first ever international conference to Tulsa. Programming Note There will be no Tai Chi or Self Defense classes during the month of February. OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, February 20th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. 2013 Tax Letters Tax receipts for donations made to Oklahomans for Equality in 2013 were recently mailed. If you have not received your tax receipt or have questions regarding your receipt, please contact Kirk Holt, OkEq Treasurer, Treasurer@OkEq.org Creating Change - Houston, TX OkEq Art Exhibit The February exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Eric Humphries Oklahomans for Equality sent 10 delegates to the Creating Change Conference in Houston Texas. Creating Change is the largest LGBT Movement gathering in the world presented by the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force. www.creatingchange.org Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are 4/23/26, 11:46 AM �Firefox 3 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-5th--2014... required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org Toby visits with openly lesbian Mayor of Houston, Annise Parker OkEq delegates participated in workshop sessions on Suicide prevention, Domestic violence, transgender employment, LGBT public policy advocacy, elder advocacy, LGBT health, anti-bullying, youth leadership development, parenting, adoption and foster care studies, immigration and women's reproductive rights. Attendees were Mary Jones, Samantha Checotah, Jami Willow, Chris Allen, Emma Todd, Ben Crittenden, Gordon George, John Madigan, Andrew Gordon, and Toby Jenkins. Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org Counseling Services OkEq crew outside Houston City Hall with rainbow light display Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LPC 918.850.0987 4/23/26, 11:46 AM �Firefox 4 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-5th--2014... E.Jett@OkEq.org Black Hearts Ball Friday, February 14th, 2014; 7:30 - 10:30 pm Counseling Services oklahomans for equality www.okeq.org Friday, February 14th, 2014 Been dumped? Stood up? Hate your Ex? NO Date? Perfect!! Take Back Valentine's Day at the Black Hearts Ball 2014 Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Free admission 7:30 pm til 10:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center DJ, Cash Bar, finger foods, No cupids! Fantastic Raffle Items! February First Thursday Art Gallery Reception Thursday, February 6th, 2014; 6:00 pm The February Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Eric Humphries in a show titled "Can't Stop! - America's Journey from the Slave House to the White House", beginning with a reception on Thursday, February 6th, 2014 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Tai Chi Class No Tai Chi class in February Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Affordable Care Act Assistance 4/23/26, 11:46 AM �Firefox 5 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-5th--2014... Every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health insurance system to find the most affordable coverage that meets the consumer's needs. K9 Boot Camp w/ Out of the Dog House SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Starting Sundays, February 9th, 2014; 1:00 pm Did you get a new puppy for Christmas or does your old dog need to learn some new tricks? Carrie McDowell, owner and trainer at Out of the Dog House, Ltd. Co. OkEq will be beginning training classes Sundays in February at 1:00 pm the class will be a program of OkEq and will be $5 dollars for non members and free for OkEq members. Private lessons will be available as well by arrangement with Carrie. Please contact Mary Jones at mary.jones@okeq.org or Carrie McDowell cmcdowell@inbox.com. Class size is limited due to size and age of the participants. The class will consist of minimal lecture/discussion to cover basic principles of how dogs learn, motivation, general information, and questions. The first class is a No Dog orientation. The majority of the teaching time will consist coaching: demonstrations of the techniques used and hands-on practice by students and their own dogs in class. Written homework will be provided, and dogs will progress faster if students work at home between classes, but it is not absolutely necessary to success. Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather OUTlaw Legal Series Thursday, February 13th, 2014; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Jason McVicker, Esq. and Conor Cleary, Esq. discuss today's top legal issues and help to answer your legal questions. Free event and open to everyone. 4/23/26, 11:46 AM �Firefox 6 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-5th--2014... February's Topic: What's going on in Utah and why you should care. Marriage Equality - Engagement Party Wednesday, February 12th, 2014; 5:30 pm SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) All Souls Unitarian Church 2952 S. Peoria Tulsa, OK 74114 Attention Couples and Allies: Join in for a celebration of Oklahoma's progress on Same-Sex Marriage with a Tulsa Engagement Party. Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy Announce your desire to marry as soon as it is legal in Oklahoma. (Date TBD) Certificates provided to couples announcing. There will be food, drink and music. for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Let's celebrate your relationship with all LGBTQ friendly congregations in Tulsa at All Souls Unitarian Church Wednesday February 12th, 2014 at 5:30 pm. For more information contact: Rev. Tamara Lebak Associate Minister All Souls Unitarian Church phone: 918.743.2363 ext. 324 Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The February Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, February 19th, 2014 at 6:00 pm, at Wood Stone Design, 1303 E 15th St, Tulsa, OK 74120. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Wood Stone Design 1303 E 15th St Tulsa, Oklahoma Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Flapjack Fundraiser Saturday, February 8th, 2014; 7:30 - 10:00 am Self Defense Class 4/23/26, 11:46 AM �Firefox 7 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-5th--2014... Applebee's Flapjack Fundraiser 9409 E 71st St Tulsa No Self Defense class in February Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members • Applebees· n111~(B[TI - ~ llralser Tulsa JOLT When: Saturday, February 8th, 2014 7:30 am - 10:00 am Where: 9409 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK Cost: $7.00 per person, also serving $3.00 Mimosas All proceeds benefit Tulsa JOLT Bowling www.jolttulsa.com Parenting Workshop Pt 2; Foster Care & Adoption Saturday, February 22nd, 2014; 1:00 - 4:00 pm The first part of the Gamily parenting workshop, Maybe Baby, was a wonderful success! Now onto our second part, Foster care & Adoption. There are children within our community in need of a loving home with loving people. Is that you? We will be having representatives from local agencies to provide you with information to prepare your nest and answer all your wildest questions. This informative event will take place on Saturday, February 22nd, 2014 from 1:00 pm to 4:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Please RSVP on OkEq's Gamily Facebook page Gamily@OkEq.org. All are welcome, so spread the word! or at Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gay & Lesbian World Tennis Championship Tulsan, Carlos Salazar, wins top prize in Doubles Division Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. s:r::cc.. ma ~ c:a 4/23/26, 11:46 AM �Firefox 8 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-5th--2014... Rainbow Writers 1st and 3rd Wednesdays 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org -----to attend ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Making Tulsa proud, Carlos Salazar (pictured on the left) takes the grand prize in the Gay & Lesbian World Tennis Championship in the Doubles division. Congratulations Carlos! If you would be interested in joining a tennis team in the Equality Sport Alliance, please email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time Open AA Group Thursdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Two Step & Country Line Dance Thursdays 7:30 pm Kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Free for Members $5 for Non Members Tax Preparation Workshop for Couples Tuesday, February 25th, 2014; 7:00 - 9:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center On Tuesday, February 25th, 2014 from 7:00 - 9:00 pm, Equality Business Alliance member and CPA, Kelly Kirby, will lead a free tax preparation workshop focused for couples who have been married out of state. Kelly Yoga A - Z 4/23/26, 11:46 AM �Firefox 9 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-5th--2014... will help you through the process of filing jointly for your federal taxes and as individual for your state taxes. If you would like more information or to sign up for the class, please email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org National Dine for 2-1-1 Day Tuesday, February 11th, 2014 Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing 4/23/26, 11:46 AM �Firefox 10 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-5th--2014... . ■ ~ Ef.,.aM nat 1ona 2-1-1 uay o min~ information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet february 11, 2014 Support A Great Non -Profit Service and Eat Well Too! Dine at one of these fabulous restaurants on Tuesday, February 11, 2014 And they'll donate to the 2-1-1 Hotline! Just say 2-1-1 when you order at: BRADY DISTRICT Hey Mambo mam □ o 114 North Boston Ave. DECO DISTRICT DOWNTOWN The Vault 7/v Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org 620 South Cincinnati Ave Mod's Coffee and Crepes 507 South Boston Ave. 31\ Elote Cafe nd Catering ~ f A-1-~. 14 South Boston Ave. ''i ii ~ 5 '1t HP - - , BLUE DOME DISTRICT Dilly Deli 402 East 2nd Street Yokozuna 309 East 2nd Street 'IJ~c>-VV'e The Dust Bowl , , ., ~ ~ • • 211 South Elgin ( JAMEs I_,~.y.11 EWE's] EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. James E. McNellie's Pub 409 East 1st Street-Blue Dome p BROOKSIDE Hibiscus 3316 South Peoria R Bar 3421 South Peoria [-~AM - ES_§_,q_tl_s_.E_W_E '_ sJ SOUTHTULSA Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday James E. McNellie's Pub-South Citv 4/23/26, 11:46 AM �Firefox 11 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-5th--2014... 7031 South Zurich Avenue Learn more here: www.211tulsa.org 2-6~6. * 2014 Oklahoma LGBT College Summit Saturday, March 1st, 2014; 10:00 am - 5:30 pm TEN Institute is proud to announce the 2014 Oklahoma LGBTQQIA College Summit to be held on Saturday, March 1st, 2014 from 10:00 am to 5:30 pm in the Main Building at Oklahoma City Community College. This exciting one-day meeting will give lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer, questioning, intersex, and allied college students the knowledge and skills to start and sustain a gay-straight alliance (GSA), advocate for lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) issues, and much more. Panelists will include Professor Toby Beauchamp, representatives from The Equality Network, Oklahomans for Equality, Cimarron Alliance, and students, faculty, and staff from universities and colleges around the state. This year's host organization is L.I.F.E. (Leading Individuals for Equality) at Oklahoma City Community College. ■TEN IN institute For more information or to register for the Summit, go to http:// tinyurl.com/2014CollegeSummit. Registration is free and includes lunch and a t-shirt. Exhibitors and organizations are welcome to set up informational displays at the Summit. To reserve a table, contact Tennent Emmons at temmons@occc.edu. Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Mondays and Fridays 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm MISSION: Collaborative Art Show at The Outlet Saturday, February 8th, 2014; 8:00 pm The Outlet 1317 E 6th St Tulsa, OK Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/23/26, 11:46 AM �Firefox 12 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-5th--2014... Want art? Want music? Want entertainment that helps the community? Come to the show at the Outlet on February 8th, 2014! Starts at 8:00 pm and only costs $5, or $2 if you're a student! Come check out some young, local talent and help Oklahomans for Equality at the same time. The Outlet will be selling a variety of soda and water for $1 for the cause, and artists will be selling their work as well. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ---- Come listen to music, enjoy dancers, admire fashion, watch films, gaze at paintings and drawings, and have a night filled with expression. https://www.facebook.com/theoutlettulsa OpenTable UCC Second Sunday Series w/ Oklahoma Marriage Equality Lawsuit Plaintiffs Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org - - --- Sunday, February 9th, 2014; 6:00 pm OpenTable UCC 6540 N 131st E Ave Owasso, OK 74055 OpenTable UCC in Owasso will be hosting all four plaintiffs in the OK Marriage Equality Lawsuit on Sunday, February 9 at 6:00pm. (This event is part of our Second Sunday Surprise series that is designed to highlight progressive religious thought.) Mary Bishop, Sharon Baldwin, Sue Barton, and Gay Phillips will talk about the reasons behind their lawsuit, their thoughts on the delayed decision, next steps, and more. There will be time for questions and discussion following their presentation. We will close out our evening with a potluck supper (feel free to bring a dish to share). For more information, visit the Facebook page Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org - - - --- . ~ 5th Annual LGBT Equality Day at the Capitol Wednesday, February 26th, 2014; 8:00 am The Equality Network (TEN) invites all LGBTQ and allied people from across Oklahoma to the 5th Annual LGBT Equality Day at the Capitol on Wednesday, February 26th from 8:00 am to Noon. I The Equality Network 4/23/26, 11:46 AM �Firefox 13 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-5th--2014... Let's show the collective strength of TEN, An Oklahoma Whtrt Evtr)'Ont I, Equal Oklahomans for Equality, Cimarron Alliance, PFLAG chapters, Mothers of Many, GSAs, OKC Pride, Tulsa Pride, other Pride festivals, Marriage Equality Rights for Oklahoma, and the many other voices and organizations working for equality for LGBTQ Oklahomans. With the marriage equality case on its way to appeal, this year it is critically important that our legislators meet you, your partners, your families, your supportive clergy, your friends, and your allies. Nothing shapes legislators' attitudes more than face-to-face contact with their constituents. Click here to register (it's free and includes breakfast) Mardi Gras Masquerade Friday, February 28th, 2014; 6:00 pm Parish Church of St. Jerome 205 W King St For more information or tickets, call 918.582.3088 The Cheril Vendetti Experience Saturday, February 15th, 2014; 9:00 pm & 10:30 pm 4/23/26, 11:46 AM �Firefox 14 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-5th--2014... cs~ s10 (i)~rrl~~ 328 E. lST ST, TULSA BETWEEN EL GUAPO'S & S&J' S Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events Imperial Court of All Oklahoma presents A Mardi Gras Celebration "A Sweet Time in Old New Orleans" Friday, February 28th, 2014 Bamboo Lounge 8:00 pm - Drinks & Desserts 4/23/26, 11:46 AM �Firefox 15 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-5th--2014... 9:00 pm - Show $3 Suggested Door Cover (21+) Silent Auction, 50/50 Raffle Dress: Formal or Theme Featuring: Chasing Nadean and other Oklahoma Performers For more information, visit impcourtok.webs.com Inclement Weather Policy Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In the event of inclement weather you may need to confirm that special events and regularly scheduled programming at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center have not been canceled due to poor road conditions or winter weather advisories. Please contact the Equality Center by calling 918-743-4297 or check the OkEq website: www.okeq.org or OkEq on Facebook. Toby Jenkins, Executive Director of Oklahomans for Equality, will contact the local media so we can be included in the posted weather-related closings. Info will also be posted on Facebook. Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Metro Hottest Firefighters calendars for 2014 are back in stock! They are $10, and the proceeds go to the Tulsa Firefighters Educational Clowns Fund. Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/23/26, 11:46 AM �Firefox 16 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-5th--2014... 'Witness to AIDS' by Edwin Cameron You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center When Edwin Cameron announced to a stunned local and international media that he - one of South Africa's most prominent citizens - was himself living with the virus cutting swathes through the population of the continent, the impact was immediate. In Witness to AIDS, Edwin Cameron's compelling memoir, he grapples with the meaning of HIV/AIDS: for him as he confronts the possibility of his own lingering death, and for all of us in facing up to one of the most desperate challenges of our time. In his intensely personal account of survival, Cameron blends elements of his destitute childhood with his daily duties as a senior judge and international human rights lawyer, while focusing always on the epidemic's central issues : stigma, unjust discrimination, and, most vitally, the life-and-death question of access to treatment. Cameron's remarkable story of his own survival in an epidemic that has cost millions of lives is at once moving and uplifting, sobering and ultimately hopeful. Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! TU A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r----------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:46 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/3eae83a9e34587e9091903b78f94ac51.pdf ed6daada164c9f4a6580a2571960c01f PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-13th--201... eNews February 13th, 2014 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor Programming Note Black Hearts Ball OUTlaw Legal Series Welcome to the eNews. Join us for the Black Hearts Ball on Friday, February 14th, 2014 at 7:30 pm at the Equality Center. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time First Thursday Art Show K9 Boot Camp EBA Parenting Workshop Tax Preparation Workshop Sisters In Song EBA Sponsor ACA Assistance OK LGBT College Summit Equality theCapitol - Day -at Reconciliation Dinner Mardi Gras Masquerade The Cheril Vendetti Experience Doug Shadell Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Inclement Weather Policy Pride Store Rainbow Library Programming Note Volunteer There will be no Tai Chi or Self Defense classes during the month of February. Black Hearts Ball Find Us on Facebook Friday, February 14th, 2014; 7:30 - 10:30 pm OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, 4/23/26, 11:47 AM �Firefox 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-13th--201... February 20th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. oklahomans for equality www.okeq.org OkEq Art Exhibit Friday, February 14th, 2014 Been dumped? Stood up? Hate your Ex? NO Date? Perfect!! Take Back Valentine's Day at the Black Hearts Ball 2014 The February exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Eric Humphries Free admission 7:30 pm til 10:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center DJ, Cash Bar, finger foods, No cupids! Fantastic Raffle Items! OUTlaw Legal Series Thursday, February 13th, 2014; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Jason McVicker, Esq. and Conor Cleary, Esq. discuss today's top legal issues and help to answer your legal questions. Free event and open to everyone. February's Topic: What's going on in Utah and why you should care. First Thursday Art Gallery Reception Thursday, March 6th, 2014; 6:00 - 9:00 pm Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:47 AM �Firefox 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-13th--201... Counseling Services The March Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Joe Staskal in a show titled "Escape from FatCityClay (Am I still here?)", beginning with a reception on Thursday, March 6th, 2014 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. K9 Boot Camp w/ Out of the Dog House Sundays at 1:00 pm Did you get a new puppy for Christmas or does your old dog need to learn some new tricks? Carrie McDowell, owner and trainer at Out of the Dog House, Ltd. Co. OkEq will be beginning training classes Sundays in February at 1:00 pm the class will be a program of OkEq and will be $5 dollars for non members and free for OkEq members. Private lessons will be available as well by arrangement with Carrie. Please contact Mary Jones at mary.jones@okeq.org or Carrie McDowell cmcdowell@inbox.com. Class size is limited due to size and age of the participants. The class will consist of minimal lecture/discussion to cover basic principles of how dogs learn, motivation, general information, and questions. The first class is a No Dog orientation. The majority of the teaching time will consist coaching: demonstrations of the techniques used and hands-on practice by students and their own dogs in class. Written homework will be provided, and dogs will progress faster if students work at home between classes, but it is not absolutely necessary to success. Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org Counseling Services Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LPC 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events 4/23/26, 11:47 AM �Firefox 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-13th--201... Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The February Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, February 19th, 2014 at 6:00 pm, at Wood Stone Design, 1303 E 15th St, Tulsa, OK 74120. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Wood Stone Design 1303 E 15th St Tulsa, Oklahoma Parenting Workshop Pt 2; Foster Care & Adoption Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee Saturday, February 22nd, 2014; 1:00 - 4:00 pm The first part of the Gamily parenting workshop, Maybe Baby, was a wonderful success! Now onto our second part, Foster care & Adoption. There are children within our community in need of a loving home with loving people. Is that you? We will be having representatives from local agencies to provide you with information to prepare your nest and answer all your wildest questions. This informative event will take place on Saturday, February 22nd, 2014 from 1:00 pm to 4:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Please RSVP on OkEq's Gamily Facebook page Gamily@OkEq.org. All are welcome, so spread the word! Counseling Services or scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org at Tax Preparation Workshop for Couples Tuesday, February 25th, 2014; 7:00 - 9:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center On Tuesday, February 25th, 2014 from 7:00 - 9:00 pm, Equality Business Alliance member and CPA, Kelly Kirby, will lead a free tax preparation workshop focused for couples who have been married out of state. Kelly will help you through the process of filing jointly for your federal taxes and as individual for your state taxes. If you would like more information or to sign up for the class, please email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Sisters in Song present 'Romance & Chocolate' Saturday, February 22nd, 2014; 7:00 pm Please join Sisters In Song for Romance & Chocolates Wine with dinner begins at 6:30 pm, Music & Entertainment begins at 7:00 pm Featuring Tareal Phillips and special guest Jim Craven Silent auctions throughout the evening. At Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave Tickets $25, Reserved tables available. Tai Chi Class No Tai Chi class in February Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular 4/23/26, 11:47 AM �Firefox 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-13th--201... Limited to 96 Seats, advance purchase is advised. Like us on Facebook www.facebook.com/SistersInSongTulsa or email info@daao.us Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org I • • ' . Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: TW's AFAB Catering w, Serving all of Oklahoma from Ki tche ns in T ulsa and Oklahoma W~•luaD•h'rttto .tw afabcatering.com Tulsa Kitchen: 9 18- 82-8608 Oklahoma ity Kitchen : 405-236-2500 1,ns:1S,l•°kSOW11ndJ<inu3 Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Plan Your Wedding Reception Now eb Click on the EVE T PLA~E R button on our website to get ·tarted on yo ur event www.tw safabcater.ing.com Affordable Care Act Assistance Every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 4/23/26, 11:47 AM �Firefox 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-13th--201... pm. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health insurance system to find the most affordable coverage that meets the consumer's needs. 2014 Oklahoma LGBT College Summit Saturday, March 1st, 2014; 10:00 am - 5:30 pm TEN Institute is proud to announce the 2014 Oklahoma LGBTQQIA College Summit to be held on Saturday, March 1st, 2014 from 10:00 am to 5:30 pm in the Main Building at Oklahoma City Community College. This exciting one-day meeting will give lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer, questioning, intersex, and allied college students the knowledge and skills to start and sustain a gay-straight alliance (GSA), advocate for lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) issues, and much more. Panelists will include Professor Toby Beauchamp, representatives from The Equality Network, Oklahomans for Equality, Cimarron Alliance, and students, faculty, and staff from universities and colleges around the state. This year's host organization is L.I.F.E. (Leading Individuals for Equality) at Oklahoma City Community College. ■TEN IN institute For more information or to register for the Summit, go to http:// tinyurl.com/2014CollegeSummit. Registration is free and includes lunch and a t-shirt. Exhibitors and organizations are welcome to set up informational displays at the Summit. To reserve a table, contact Tennent Emmons at temmons@occc.edu. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Self Defense Class 5th Annual LGBT Equality Day at the Capitol Wednesday, February 26th, 2014; 8:00 am The Equality Network (TEN) invites all LGBTQ and allied people from across Oklahoma to the 5th Annual LGBT Equality Day at the Capitol on Wednesday, February 26th from 8:00 am to Noon. Let's show the collective strength of TEN, Oklahomans for Equality, Cimarron Alliance, I . The Equality Network An Oldahomu Whtr-t Evtr)'Ont l1 Equal No Self Defense class in February Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. 4/23/26, 11:47 AM �Firefox 7 of 12 Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. 4/23/26, 11:47 AM https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-13th--201... PFLAG chapters, Mothers of Many, GSAs, OKC Pride, Tulsa Pride, other Pride festivals, Marriage Equality Rights for Oklahoma, and the many other voices and organizations working for equality for LGBTQ Oklahomans. With the marriage equality case on its way to appeal, this year it is critically important that our legislators meet you, your partners, your families, your supportive clergy, your friends, and your allies. Nothing shapes legislators' attitudes more than face-to-face contact with their constituents. Click here to register (it's free and includes breakfast) Reconciliation Dinner with East Side Christian Church Sunday, March 2nd, 2014; 5:00 pm Join East Side Christian Church at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for a "Fat Sunday" Mardi Gras dinner of reconciliation on Sunday, March 2nd, 2014 at 5:00 pm. East Side Christian Church is offering this free meal to the LGBTQ community as a show of good faith. Steve Ham and fellow musicians from the Steve Ham's Jambalaya Jazz Band will be performing during the dinner. This is a free Cajun dinner but space will be limited. Please RSVP to Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Mardi Gras Masquerade Friday, February 28th, 2014; 6:00 pm Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. 1st and 3rd Wednesdays 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and Rainbow Writers !111!1!11t1 Parish Church of St. Jerome 205 W King St For more information or tickets, call 918.582.3088 ~·~~.,. .... .~-~ �Firefox 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-13th--201... constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Thursdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Two Step & Country Line Dance Thursdays 7:30 pm Kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Free for Members $5 for Non Members The Cheril Vendetti Experience Saturday, February 15th, 2014; 9:00 pm & 10:30 pm Yoga A - Z Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. 4/23/26, 11:47 AM �Firefox 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-13th--201... Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Game Night cs~ s10 (i)~rrl~~ 328 E. lST ST, TULSA BETWEEN EL GUAPO'S & S&J' S Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Doug Shadell Saturday, February 22nd, 2014; 9:00 & 10:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org - - - Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet 4/23/26, 11:47 AM �Firefox 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-13th--201... Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org ~~ J10 (i)~i'tt~i COMEDYPARLOR.COM ......&...... 328E.1S1 ST, TULSA 111111 Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events Imperial Court of All Oklahoma presents g E Business Alliance EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday A Mardi Gras Celebration "A Sweet Time in Old New Orleans" Friday, February 28th, 2014 Bamboo Lounge 8:00 pm - Drinks & Desserts 9:00 pm - Show Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with 4/23/26, 11:47 AM �Firefox 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-13th--201... Oklahoma JobLink. $3 Suggested Door Cover (21+) Silent Auction, 50/50 Raffle Dress: Formal or Theme Featuring: Chasing Nadean and other Oklahoma Performers For more information, visit impcourtok.webs.com Inclement Weather Policy Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In the event of inclement weather you may need to confirm that special events and regularly scheduled programming at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center have not been canceled due to poor road conditions or winter weather advisories. Please contact the Equality Center by calling 918-743-4297 or check the OkEq website: www.okeq.org or OkEq on Facebook. Toby Jenkins, Executive Director of Oklahomans for Equality, will contact the local media so we can be included in the posted weather-related closings. Info will also be posted on Facebook. Equality Center Pride Store Put a little 'ooh-la-la' in Valentine's Day with one of these rainbow garter sets ($20) HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Mondays and Fridays 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org 'Paws and Reflect: Exploring the Bond Between Gay Men and Their Dogs' by Neil S. Plakcy & Sharon Sakson 4/23/26, 11:47 AM �Firefox 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-13th--201... You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center For most dog owners, our dogs are not possessions, they are family. Gay men in particular have found joy in bringing dogs into their nuclear circles. Their dogs love them unconditionally, without judgment or regard to sexual orientation; comfort them when they are in pain; and because most men outlive their dogs, teach them extraordinary lessons in how to cope with loss. . . Paws and Reflect is a celebration of all the dogs we have loved in the past, the dogs we love now, and the dogs of our future, who are only waiting for the right moment for us to invite them to join in our lives." -- From the Introduction Through interviews and with original contributions, Paws and Reflect explores and celebrates the special and powerful bond between twentyfive gay men and their dogs. Interviewees included Pulitzer Prize-winning playwright Edward Albee, Cannes award-winning director Jonathon Caouette, Academy Award-nominated writer Ron Nyswaner, actor and playwright Charles Busch and Animal Planet's David Mizejewski, with contributions from authors Jay Quinn, Alistair McCartney and seventeen others. Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library .• •••~ Vol nt TU r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:47 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/e69cbbc0359a1cd668d10966044234bc.pdf 7788a520db6aa17f7a6ef153fff3b422 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-21st--201... eNews February 21st, 2014 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor Parenting Workshop Tax Preparation Workshop Equality Day atthe ----Capitol - Welcome to the eNews. On Tuesday, February 25th, 2014 at 7:00 pm, OkEq is hosting a Tax Preparation Workshop for couples who have been married out of state. For more information or to RSVP for the workshop, please email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Reconciliation Dinner Girl Scout Cookie Sale First Thursday Art Show Guys Dine Too Programming Note Out2Enroll ACA Event The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Dr. Ronald LaButti, DO, FAOAO Sisters In Song K9 Boot Camp Hips-Knees-Shoulders Foot/Ankle-Sports Medicine Team doctor for Tulsa Threat and Tulsa Crew. OUTlaw Legal Series Mention this ad for priority scheduling by calling 918-514-3009 or online at www.hipandkneedoc.com EBA Sponsor 2014 Equality Gala ACA Assistance Tulsa Pride Leather Fashion Show 6585 S. Yale, Suite 200, Tulsa OK OK LGBT College Summit Parenting Workshop Pt 2; Foster Care & Adoption CampOUT City of Tulsa BRIDGE Saturday, February 22nd, 2014; 1:00 - 4:00 pm Tulsa Unity String Orchestra The first part of the Gamily parenting workshop, Maybe Baby, was a wonderful success! Now onto our second part, Foster care & Adoption. There are children within our community in need of a loving home with loving people. Is that you? We will be having representatives from local agencies to provide you with information to prepare your nest and answer all your wildest questions. This informative event will take place on Saturday, February 22nd, 2014 from 1:00 pm to 4:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Please RSVP on OkEq's Gamily Facebook page Gamily@OkEq.org. All are welcome, so spread the word! or at EBA Mardi Gras Masquerade Doug Shadell Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Inclement Weather Policy Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Tax Preparation Workshop for Couples Tuesday, February 25th, 2014; 7:00 - 9:00 pm Find Us on Facebook Dennis R. Neill Equality Center On Tuesday, February 25th, 2014 from 7:00 - 9:00 pm, Equality Business Alliance member and CPA, Kelly Kirby, will lead a free tax preparation workshop focused 4/23/26, 11:47 AM �Firefox 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-21st--201... for couples who have been married out of state. Kelly will help you through the process of filing jointly for your federal taxes and as individual for your state taxes. If you would like more information or to sign up for the class, please email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org - - --- 5th Annual LGBT Equality Day at the Capitol Wednesday, February 26th, 2014; 8:00 am I The Equality Network (TEN) invites all LGBTQ and allied people from across Oklahoma to the 5th Annual LGBT Equality Day at the Capitol on Wednesday, February 26th from 8:00 am to Noon. Let's show the collective strength of TEN, An Oklahoma Wht>rl' £1-tr,.ont' ls Equal Oklahomans for Equality, Cimarron Alliance, PFLAG chapters, Mothers of Many, GSAs, OKC Pride, Tulsa Pride, other Pride festivals, Marriage Equality Rights for Oklahoma, and the many other voices and organizations working for equality for LGBTQ Oklahomans. With the marriage equality case on its way to appeal, this year it is critically important that our legislators meet you, your partners, your families, your supportive clergy, your friends, and your allies. Nothing shapes legislators' attitudes more than face-to-face contact with their constituents. . The Equality Network OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, March 20th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. Click here to register (it's free and includes breakfast) Reconciliation Dinner with East Side Christian Church Sunday, March 2nd, 2014; 5:00 pm Join East Side Christian Church at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for a "Fat Sunday" Mardi Gras dinner of reconciliation on Sunday, March 2nd, 2014 at 5:00 pm. East Side Christian Church is offering this free meal to the LGBTQ community as a show of good faith. Steve Ham and fellow musicians from the Steve Ham's Jambalaya Jazz Band will be performing during the dinner. This is a free Cajun dinner but space will be limited. Please RSVP to Mary.Jones@OkEq.org OkEq Art Exhibit The February exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Eric Humphries - - --- Girl Scout Cookie Sale Thursday, March 6th, 2014; 5:00 - 8:00 pm In support of Girl Scouts being an inclusion organization, Oklahomans for Equality will host the Girl Scouts of Eastern Oklahoma Cookie Sale at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Thursday, March 6th, 2014 starting at 5:00 pm. The cookies will cost $4.00 per box and will include: Thin Mints, Tagalongs (peanut butter & chocolate patties), Samoas (chocolate, caramel, coconut cookie), Do-si-dos (peanut butter sandwich cookie), Trefoils (a shortbread cookie) and Savannah Smiles (a zesty lemon cookie). • I scouts~ g1r First Thursday Art Gallery Reception Thursday, March 6th, 2014; 6:00 - 9:00 pm Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are 4/23/26, 11:47 AM �Firefox 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-21st--201... required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org The March Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Joe Staskal in a show titled "Escape from FatCityClay (Am I still here?)", beginning with a reception on Thursday, March 6th, 2014 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Guys Dine Too Counseling Services Tuesday, March 4th, 2014; 6:30 pm The March meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at P.F. Changs on Tuesday, March 4th, 2014 at around 6:30 pm. P.F. Changs is located at 1978 E. 21st St in Utica Square www.pfchangs.com Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com ---if you plan on attending. Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org Programming Note There will be no Tai Chi or Self Defense classes during the month of February. Oklahomans for Equality and Out2Enroll Raise Awareness of ACA to LGBT community in Tulsa Wednesday, March 19th, 2014; 1:30 - 8:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 1:30 - 3:30 pm Training for ACA navigators, counselors and social workers 6:30 - 8:00 pm Public Town Hall Forum about the Affordable Care Act Counseling Services Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LPC 918.850.0987 4/23/26, 11:47 AM �Firefox 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-21st--201... E.Jett@OkEq.org White House guests for the event will include Gautam Raghavan, LGBT Liasion to the White House. Gautam last visited the Equality Center in September of 2012. Out2Enroll, the coordinated effort to educate the lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) community about the Affordable Care Act and direct the community to enrollment resources, is pleased to announce a new event in Tulsa, Oklahoma on March 19th, 2014 to help the LGBT community in the Tulsa area understand their new coverage options. The regional event, cosponsored by Out2Enroll and the US Department of Health and Human Services, will feature remarks and presentations from officials from the White House, national experts on efforts to engage the LGBT community in enrollment activities, and local community stakeholders and partners. Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are the host for the event. On Wednesday, March 19th at the Equality Center, the event will consist of an afternoon and evening program. From 1:30 pm to 3:30 pm, there will be an informational session on effective outreach and enrollment of the LGBT community designed for navigators, certified application counselors, social workers, and other consumer assistance personnel. Following this training, there will be a public town hall on the Affordable Care Act from 6:30 pm to 8:00 pm, which will feature remarks and presentations from federal officials, national experts, and local community stakeholders. This portion of the event is open to the community and LGBT individuals and families are encouraged to join to learn more about their options and ways then can enroll in coverage. Sisters in Song present 'Romance & Chocolate' Saturday, February 22nd, 2014; 7:00 pm Please join Sisters In Song for Romance & Chocolates Wine with dinner begins at 6:30 pm, Music & Entertainment begins at 7:00 pm Featuring Tareal Phillips and special guest Jim Craven Silent auctions throughout the evening. At Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave Tickets $25, Reserved tables available. Limited to 96 Seats, advance purchase is advised. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Tai Chi Class No Tai Chi class in February Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Like us on Facebook www.facebook.com/SistersInSongTulsa or email info@daao.us 4/23/26, 11:47 AM �Firefox 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-21st--201... SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Grieving Well K9 Boot Camp w/ Out of the Dog House Sundays at 1:00 pm Did you get a new puppy for Christmas or does your old dog need to learn some new tricks? Carrie McDowell, owner and trainer at Out of the Dog House, Ltd. Co. OkEq will be beginning training classes Sundays in February at 1:00 pm the class will be a program of OkEq and will be $5 dollars for non members and free for OkEq members. Private lessons will be available as well by arrangement with Carrie. Please contact Mary Jones at mary.jones@okeq.org or Carrie McDowell cmcdowell@inbox.com. Class size is limited due to size and age of the participants. The class will consist of minimal lecture/discussion to cover basic principles of how dogs learn, motivation, general information, and questions. The first class is a No Dog orientation. The majority of the teaching time will consist coaching: demonstrations of the techniques used and hands-on practice by students and their own dogs in class. Written homework will be provided, and dogs will progress faster if students work at home between classes, but it is not absolutely necessary to success. 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather 4/23/26, 11:47 AM �Firefox 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-21st--201... SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) OUTlaw Legal Series Thursday, March 13th, 2014; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Jason McVicker, Esq. and Conor Cleary, Esq. discuss today's top legal issues and help to answer your legal questions. Free event and open to everyone. March's Topic: Will drafting Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time Tulsa Area Prime Timers 2014 Equality Gala Saturday, April 26th, 2014; 6:30 pm 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Self Defense Class 4/23/26, 11:47 AM �Firefox 7 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-21st--201... No Self Defense class in February Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Affordable Care Act Assistance Every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health insurance system to find the most affordable coverage that meets the consumer's needs. Tulsa Pride Leather Fetish Fashion Show Friday, March 21st, 2014; 10:00 pm Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. ~ =- EEJ..::: ca Tulsa Eagle 1338 East Third Street, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74120 In Partnership with the Tulsa Mister Leather events, Tulsa Pride 2014 4/23/26, 11:47 AM �Firefox 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-21st--201... Presents the annual Tulsa Pride Fetish Show. Join in for a night of fun. Demonstrations. Door Prizes. Raffles. Wear your gear, leather, suit, whatever your fetish. For more information about this event and all upcoing Tulsa Pride events, visit the Tulsa Pride Facebook Event page or www.TulsaPride.org Rainbow Writers 1st and 3rd Wednesdays 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org - - - to attend ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group 2014 Oklahoma LGBT College Summit Saturday, March 1st, 2014; 10:00 am - 5:30 pm TEN Institute is proud to announce the 2014 Oklahoma LGBTQQIA College Summit to be held on Saturday, March 1st, 2014 from 10:00 am to 5:30 pm in the Main Building at Oklahoma City Community College. This exciting one-day meeting will give lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer, questioning, intersex, and allied college students the knowledge and skills to start and sustain a gay-straight alliance (GSA), advocate for lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) issues, and much more. Panelists will include Professor Toby Beauchamp, representatives from The Equality Network, Oklahomans for Equality, Cimarron Alliance, and students, faculty, and staff from universities and colleges around the state. This year's host organization is L.I.F.E. (Leading Individuals for Equality) at Oklahoma City Community College. ■TEN Ill institute For more information or to register for the Summit, go to http:// tinyurl.com/2014CollegeSummit. Registration is free and includes lunch and a t-shirt. Thursdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Two Step & Country Line Dance Thursdays 7:30 pm Kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Free for Members $5 for Non Members Exhibitors and organizations are welcome to set up informational displays at the Summit. To reserve a table, contact Tennent Emmons at temmons@occc.edu. Yoga A - Z 4/23/26, 11:47 AM �Firefox 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-21st--201... Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Lambda Al-Anon CampOUT Youth Leadership Retreat Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Spring 2014 Retreat Youth Services of Tulsa and Campfire are working together again on creating a LGBTQ youth leadership retreat for this spring. It will be open to 8th grade through 12th grade and limited to 24 students. YST and Campfire's CampOUT Youth Leadership Retreat is a chance for LGBTQ youth and allies to spend a weekend focusing on social justice issues that they are passionate about. Interested youth must complete the application by March 14th. If accepted, a parent or guardian will have to sign a permission slip. The fee for the retreat it $10, however, no one will be denied for an inability to pay. Food will be provided and youth will sleep in a cabin, though they must bring their own bedding. For registration information or for any questions, contact Victoria Wiener at vwiener@yst.org or 918.625.1570 City of Tulsa Human Rights Department BRIDGE Training and Workshop Tuesday, March 11th, 2014; 9:00 am - 4:00 pm Tulsa Convention Center 100 Civic Center - North Ballroom Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Free and open to the public. Building Resources in Developing and Growing Enterprises (BRIDGE) promotes connections between small, developing and growing businesses and opportunities available through larger companies in the area. Promoting the Growth, Expansion, Innovation and and increased Productivity of minority and female and BRIDGE disadvantaged business enterprises, the 7th Annual BRIDGE Training and Workshop will provide you receive valuable business, an opportunity to network and promote your business or organization. For more information, contact 918.596.7818 or viist www.cityoftulsa.org/ bridge.aspx B ·1ding Bridges to Success Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing 4/23/26, 11:47 AM �Firefox 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-21st--201... Tulsa Unity String Orchestra Concert Saturday, March 8th, 2014; 7:00 pm The Tulsa Unity String Orchestra Presents "Classical Music VS. The Pops" information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Director: Mr. Adrian Rogers Guest Conductor: Mrs. Juliet Henson Host: Mr. Michael Johnson Saturday, March 8th, 2014; 7:00 pm, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center *Refreshments will be provided * Admission is free* Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook g EQJBusmess UALITY Al/Janee The March Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, March 19th, 2014 at 6:00 pm, at Hyatt Regency Dowtown Tulsa, 100 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Hyatt Regency Downtown Tulsa 100 E 2nd St Tulsa, Oklahoma Mardi Gras Masquerade Friday, February 28th, 2014; 6:00 pm Parish Church of St. Jerome 205 W King St For more information or tickets, call 918.582.3088 Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 4/23/26, 11:47 AM �Firefox 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-21st--201... Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Mondays and Fridays 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm Doug Shadell Saturday, February 22nd, 2014; 9:00 & 10:30 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/23/26, 11:47 AM �Firefox 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-21st--201... Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ---- Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org --- ~~ J 10 (i)~i'tt~i COMEDYPARLOR.COM ......&...... 328E.1S1 ST, TULSA 111111 Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org ---- Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events Imperial Court of All Oklahoma presents A Mardi Gras Celebration "A Sweet Time in Old New Orleans" Friday, February 28th, 2014 Bamboo Lounge 8:00 pm - Drinks & Desserts 9:00 pm - Show 4/23/26, 11:47 AM �Firefox 13 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-21st--201... $3 Suggested Door Cover (21+) Silent Auction, 50/50 Raffle Dress: Formal or Theme Featuring: Chasing Nadean and other Oklahoma Performers For more information, visit impcourtok.webs.com Inclement Weather Policy Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In the event of inclement weather you may need to confirm that special events and regularly scheduled programming at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center have not been canceled due to poor road conditions or winter weather advisories. Please contact the Equality Center by calling 918-743-4297 or check the OkEq website: www.okeq.org or OkEq on Facebook. -- --- Toby Jenkins, Executive Director of Oklahomans for Equality, will contact the local media so we can be included in the posted weather-related closings. Info will also be posted on Facebook. Equality Center Pride Store Check out the Pride Store. Our rainbow knee socks come in 4 patterns and are only $6 a pair. Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library '...And Then I Became Gay' by Ritch Savin-Williams You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/23/26, 11:47 AM �Firefox 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-21st--201... "...And Then I Became Gay" is about the lives of young men who express the complications, adversities, and satisfactions of being a sexual outsider in North America during the 1980s and 1990s. Consisting of narratives which chronicle developmental progression from first memories of being attracted to other males to a subsequent integration of their sexual identity with a personal identity, this book is also unique in its cross-section of men from different ethnic backgrounds. Although each story in this volume has a personal meaning to the individual youth disclosing it, aspects of these narratives can express a normative experience growing up gay or bisexual during the past two decades. For many of the contributors and readers, these stories may prove to be not only ones of coming out, but coming of age. " ... AND THEN I BECAME GAY" HI I I II ( . . _ , , I ' , • \ \ 11 I I \\I-.. Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library ol nt ru 1 A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r----------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:47 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/80c295bcd43e833e5497790f237650f2.pdf 0b9e0d33e66b7fed307e1d2f4bf6da09 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-28th--201... eNews February 28th, 2014 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor Reconciliation Dinner Parenting Workshop Pt 3 Girl Scout Cookie Sale Welcome to the eNews. Gamily will continue their Parenting Workshop on Saturday, March 8th at 1:00 pm with a panel discussion with LGBTQ Parents. RSVP to Gamily@OkEq.org eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality First Thursday Art Show Guys Dine Too Out2Enroll ACA Event K9 Boot Camp OUTlaw Legal Series The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time Parenting Workshop Pt 4 2014 Equality Gala ACA Assistance Circle Cinema EBA Sponsor Tulsa Pride Leather Fashion Show OK LGBT College Summit CampOUT Tulsa Unity String Orchestra EBA MOREcolor Council Oak Mens Chorale Reconciliation Dinner with East Side Christian Church Sunday, March 2nd, 2014; 5:00 pm Join East Side Christian Church at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for a "Fat Sunday" Mardi Gras dinner of reconciliation on Sunday, March 2nd, 2014 at 5:00 pm. TMSL Volunteers TMSL Spring Clinic Sam Harris Tulsa Two Spirit Gathering City of Tulsa BRIDGE Fl East Side Christian Church is offering this free meal to the LGBTQ community as a show of good faith. Steve Ham and fellow musicians from the Steve Ham's Jambalaya Jazz Band will be performing during the dinner. This is a free Cajun dinner but space will be limited. Please RSVP to Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Mardi Gras Masquerade [title of show] Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Parenting Workshop Pt 3; Parents' Panel Saturday, March 8th, 2014; 1:00 - 4:00 pm 4/23/26, 11:48 AM �Firefox 2 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-28th--201... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Find Us on Facebook Kids don't come with a manual, so why not get some advice from some people who know. We have organized a panel of parents from the community willing to share their stories and answer questions to better inform our "future" and "current" parents. Come join in on the family fun. All are welcomed, LGBTQIA, striped, poke-a-dotted, and every color of the rainbow. Please RSVP on OkEq's Gamily Facebook page Gamily@OkEq.org. All are welcome, so spread the word! or at Girl Scout Cookie Sale Thursday, March 6th, 2014; 5:00 - 8:00 pm In support of Girl Scouts being an inclusion organization, Oklahomans for Equality will host the Girl Scouts of Eastern Oklahoma Cookie Sale at the girl Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Thursday, March 6th, 2014 starting at 5:00 pm. The cookies will cost $4.00 per box and will include: Thin Mints, Tagalongs (peanut butter & chocolate patties), Samoas (chocolate, caramel, coconut cookie), Do-si-dos (peanut butter sandwich cookie), Trefoils (a shortbread cookie) and Savannah Smiles (a zesty lemon cookie). v.outf); OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, March 20th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. First Thursday Art Gallery Reception Thursday, March 6th, 2014; 6:00 - 9:00 pm OkEq Art Exhibit The February exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Eric Humphries The March Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Joe Staskal in a show titled "Escape from FatCityClay (Am I still here?)", beginning with a reception on Thursday, March 6th, 2014 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Guys Dine Too Tuesday, March 4th, 2014; 6:30 pm The March meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at P.F. Changs on Tuesday, March 4th, 2014 at around 6:30 pm. P.F. Changs is located at 1978 E. 21st St in Utica Square www.pfchangs.com Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale 4/23/26, 11:48 AM �Firefox 3 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-28th--201... Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. ---- Oklahomans for Equality and Out2Enroll Raise Awareness of ACA to LGBT community in Tulsa Wednesday, March 19th, 2014; 1:30 - 8:00 pm based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 1:30 - 3:30 pm Training for ACA navigators, counselors and social workers 6:30 - 8:00 pm Public Town Hall Forum about the Affordable Care Act Counseling Services Guests for the event will include Gautam Raghavan, LGBT Liasion to the White House. Gautam last visited the Equality Center in September of 2012. And Dr. Matt Hienz, Director of Provider & LGBT Outreach Office of the Secretary US Department of Health & Human Services; Physician at Tucson Medical Center Out2Enroll, the coordinated effort to educate the lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) community about the Affordable Care Act and direct the community to enrollment resources, is pleased to announce a new event in Tulsa, Oklahoma on March 19th, 2014 to help the LGBT community in the Tulsa area understand their new coverage options. Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org The regional event, cosponsored by Out2Enroll and the US Department of Health and Human Services, will feature remarks and presentations from officials from the White House, national experts on efforts to engage the LGBT community in enrollment activities, and local community stakeholders and partners. Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are the host for the event. On Wednesday, March 19th at the Equality Center, the event will consist of an afternoon and evening program. From 1:30 pm to 3:30 pm, there will be an informational session on effective outreach and enrollment of the LGBT community designed for navigators, certified application counselors, social workers, and other consumer assistance personnel. Following this training, there will be a public town hall on the Affordable Care Act from 6:30 pm to 8:00 pm, which will feature remarks and presentations from federal officials, national experts, and local community stakeholders. This portion of the event is open to the community and LGBT individuals and families are encouraged to join to learn more about their options and ways then can enroll in coverage. Counseling Services Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. 4/23/26, 11:48 AM �Firefox 4 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-28th--201... K9 Boot Camp w/ Out of the Dog House Sundays at 1:00 pm Contact Eric Jett, LPC 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org Did you get a new puppy for Christmas or does your old dog need to learn some new tricks? Carrie McDowell, owner and trainer at Out of the Dog House, Ltd. Co. OkEq will be beginning training classes Sundays in February at 1:00 pm the class will be a program of OkEq and will be $5 dollars for non members and free for OkEq members. Private lessons will be available as well by arrangement with Carrie. Please contact Mary Jones at mary.jones@okeq.org or Carrie McDowell cmcdowell@inbox.com. Class size is limited due to size and age of the participants. The class will consist of minimal lecture/discussion to cover basic principles of how dogs learn, motivation, general information, and questions. The first class is a No Dog orientation. The majority of the teaching time will consist coaching: demonstrations of the techniques used and hands-on practice by students and their own dogs in class. Written homework will be provided, and dogs will progress faster if students work at home between classes, but it is not absolutely necessary to success. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org OUTlaw Legal Series Thursday, March 13th, 2014; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Jason McVicker, Esq. and Conor Cleary, Esq. discuss today's top legal issues and help to answer your legal questions. Free event and open to everyone. March's Topic: Will drafting Parenting Workshop Pt 4; Legally Smart Sunday, March 22nd, 2014; 1:00 - 4:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members After you've thought about adding to your family, you need to think about the future. Did you ever discuss with your partner about the benefits of a 4/23/26, 11:48 AM �Firefox 5 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-28th--201... living will? Who can take your child to get medical attention in an emergency when you're not available? What rights does the non-biological parent have to the child? All LGBTQIA singles, couples, and "future" parents can benefit from free legal advice. Karen Keith Wilkins, EBA member and local Attorney at Law, will be present to go over the laws of Oklahoma concerning the legal aspects of having a growing family. Come ready to receive helpful information and ask plenty of questions. Please RSVP on OkEq's Gamily Facebook page Gamily@OkEq.org. All are welcome, so spread the word! 2014 Equality Gala Saturday, April 26th, 2014; 6:30 pm or at SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Affordable Care Act Assistance Every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm 4/23/26, 11:48 AM �Firefox 6 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-28th--201... Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health insurance system to find the most affordable coverage that meets the consumer's needs. 'Going for the Gold' Oscar Watch Party at Circle Cinema Sunday, March 2nd, 2014; 7:00 pm SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave Circle Cinema invites you to walk the red carpet and join in for a great party experience watching the 86th Academy Awards. This free event will include an Academy Awards ballot, prizes, food and drink, and all the fashion triumphs and disasters in the new theatre shown in HD. sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual For more information, visit Circle Cinema at www.circlecinema.com & Tramgender Elders The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: TW's AFAB Catering 'n\1'8-- AfAR ca,erlng www.twafabcatering.com TW's-.At=.AU catenna Serving all of Oklahoma from Ki lchens in Tulsa and Oklahoma w~ at:o O"hvttto Tul a Kitchen: 9 18-582-8608 Oklahoma City Kitchen: 405-236-2500 ·1n:as, Mts,sw-1 and K.a,sas Plan Your Wedding Reception Now eh Click on the EVENT PL NNER button on our website to get stru1ed on our evenl www.tw afabcater.ing.com Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Tulsa Pride Leather Fetish Fashion Show Friday, March 21st, 2014; 10:00 pm Tulsa Eagle 1338 East Third Street, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74120 In Partnership with the Tulsa Mister Leather events, Tulsa Pride 2014 Presents the annual Tulsa Pride Fetish Show. Join in for a night of fun. Demonstrations. Door Prizes. Raffles. Wear your gear, leather, suit, Self Defense Class 4/23/26, 11:48 AM �Firefox 7 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-28th--201... whatever your fetish. For more information about this event and all upcoing Tulsa Pride events, visit the Tulsa Pride Facebook Event page or www.TulsaPride.org Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members 2014 Oklahoma LGBT College Summit Saturday, March 1st, 2014; 10:00 am - 5:30 pm TEN Institute is proud to announce the 2014 Oklahoma LGBTQQIA College Summit to be held on Saturday, March 1st, 2014 from 10:00 am to 5:30 pm in the Main Building at Oklahoma City Community College. This exciting one-day meeting will give lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer, questioning, intersex, and allied college students the knowledge and skills to start and sustain a gay-straight alliance (GSA), advocate for lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) issues, and much more. Panelists will include Professor Toby Beauchamp, representatives from The Equality Network, Oklahomans for Equality, Cimarron Alliance, and students, faculty, and staff from universities and colleges around the state. This year's host organization is L.I.F.E. (Leading Individuals for Equality) at Oklahoma City Community College. ■TEN Ill institute For more information or to register for the Summit, go to http:// tinyurl.com/2014CollegeSummit. Registration is free and includes lunch and a t-shirt. Exhibitors and organizations are welcome to set up informational displays at the Summit. To reserve a table, contact Tennent Emmons at temmons@occc.edu. Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Rainbow Writers 4/23/26, 11:48 AM �Firefox 8 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-28th--201... 1st and 3rd Wednesdays 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend CampOUT Youth Leadership Retreat Spring 2014 Retreat Youth Services of Tulsa and Campfire are working together again on creating a LGBTQ youth leadership retreat for this spring. It will be open to 8th grade through 12th grade and limited to 24 students. YST and Campfire's CampOUT Youth Leadership Retreat is a chance for LGBTQ youth and allies to spend a weekend focusing on social justice issues that they are passionate about. Interested youth must complete the application by March 14th. If accepted, a parent or guardian will have to sign a permission slip. The fee for the retreat it $10, however, no one will be denied for an inability to pay. Food will be provided and youth will sleep in a cabin, though they must bring their own bedding. For registration information or for any questions, contact Victoria Wiener at vwiener@yst.org or 918.625.1570 Tulsa Unity String Orchestra Concert Saturday, March 8th, 2014; 7:00 pm The Tulsa Unity String Orchestra Presents "Classical Music VS. The Pops" Director: Mr. Adrian Rogers Guest Conductor: Mrs. Juliet Henson Host: Mr. Michael Johnson ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Thursdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Two Step & Country Line Dance Thursdays 7:30 pm Kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Free for Members $5 for Non Members Saturday, March 8th, 2014; 7:00 pm, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center *Refreshments will be provided * Admission is free* Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook Yoga A - Z Fridays 5:30 pm 4/23/26, 11:48 AM �Firefox 9 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-28th--201... The March Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, March 19th, 2014 at 6:00 pm, at Hyatt Regency Dowtown Tulsa, 100 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Hyatt Regency Downtown Tulsa 100 E 2nd St Tulsa, Oklahoma No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. MOREcolor 2014 Artists Submissions Call for entries; Opening Night June 19th, 2014 Lambda Al-Anon MORE color Calling all interested artists ages 18 and over, submissions are now open for the annual MOREcolor Fine Arts Exhibition, a highly anticipated feature of the Tulsa Pride celebration. Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm The Festive and always surprising Opening Night reception will be held June 19th, 2014 at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. It is free and open to the public. To submit your work for the show, click here. The deadline for entry is May 1st, 2014. For more information, visit MOREcolorart.com Game Night Council Oak Mens Chorale Summer Season Rehearsals Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Begin Tuesday, March 4th, 2014; 7:00 pm Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Avenue, Tulsa, OK Rehearsals for Council Oak Mens Chorale Summer Season will begin on Tuesday, March 4th, 2014 at 7:00 pm. Located at COMC rehearsal home Fellowship Congregational Church, 2900 S. Harvard Avenue, Tulsa, OK. COMC is looking for new members that enjoy singing and performing for family and friends. council oak counc/1 OCJlc mens choro/e Council Oak Mens Chorale Summer Season 2014 - "BE OUR GUEST! - A DISNEY EXTRAVAGANZA" with soloist - Eric Himan Performances will be Thursday, June 5th and Friday, June 6th, 2014 at Lorton Performance Center - University of Tulsa Campus. For more information on Council Oak Mens Chorale, visit www.counciloak.org TMSL is looking for Volunteers for their new Up All Night Softball Tourney Tulsa Metro Softball League is introducing a new tournament format to the gay leagues this year with their all night tournament. The tournament will start on Good Friday, April 18th, 2014 6:30 pm and play all night long with Championship games playing at 6:30 am Saturday, April 19th, 2014. TMSL is looking for some Tulsans to help out with the event by helping to setup, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org ----Stop by for a quick view of 4/23/26, 11:48 AM �Firefox 10 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-28th--201... refill water stations, sell t-shirts, answer questions from our out of town guests and much more! the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Volunteers will receive a free tournament t-shirt, have access to all player discounts from sponsors for the weekend, and will be invited to attend and enjoy player specials at the closing awards party the evening of Saturday, April 19th, 2014 at Area 18. Please email Daniel Meier at TournamentDirector@TulsaMetroSoftball.com with questions, or click here to sign up. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org www.tulsametrosoftball.com TMSL 2014 Spring Clinics Saturday, March 8th, 2014; 10:00 am Lantz Park 4902 E. Independence Ave Tulsa, Oklahoma 74106 Tulsa Metro Softball League spring clinics will be at Lantz Park (North of 244 on Yale) on Saturday, March 8th, 2014 from 10:00 am until 2:00 pm. Anyone from the league who wants to attend, whether they have a team or no, is invitedt. TMSL will identify those who are not on a roster once we get there. Coaches looking to fill their rosters are encouraged to attend. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Also, if you have players who are new to TMSL and need an initial rating, there will be several of league members there to help. Just let them know who the players are and they will help with an initial rating. Sam Harris to be featured on OETA's Writing Out Loud Monday, March 17th, 2014; 10:30 pm Sam Harris will be featured on the Monday, March 17th, 2014 episode of OETA's Writing Out Loud at 10:30 pm. Writing Out Loud features in-depth interviews with writers, every Monday, 10:30 p.m. on OETA. Hosted by Teresa Miller and sponsored by OSU. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a 4/23/26, 11:48 AM �Firefox 11 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-28th--201... Tulsa Two Spirits Society Gathering April 25th - 28th, 2014 Osage Hills State Park 2131 Osage Hills State Park Road Pawhuska, OK 74056 printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing The Tulsa Two Spirit Society gathering's program will include workshops on traditional and contemporary Native American culture, Pow Wows, stompdancing, celebrations, Native faith, and other related activities. No alcohol, drugs or guns will be allowed. The Tulsa Two Spirits Society is "a non-profit Native American LGBT Collective. We seek to affirm and embody positive traditional and modern Two Spirit identities, and in so doing, be valued members of our communities". For more information on the gathering, download the Tulsa Two Spirit Gathering information packet or just the registration form here. City of Tulsa Human Rights Department BRIDGE Training and Workshop Tuesday, March 11th, 2014; 9:00 am - 4:00 pm Tulsa Convention Center 100 Civic Center - North Ballroom Free and open to the public. Building Resources in Developing and Growing Enterprises (BRIDGE) promotes connections between small, developing and growing businesses and opportunities available through larger companies in the area. Promoting the Growth, Expansion, Innovation and and increased Productivity of minority and female and BRIDGE disadvantaged business enterprises, the 7th Annual BRIDGE Training and Workshop will provide you receive valuable business, an opportunity to network and promote your business or organization. Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Mondays and Fridays 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, contact 918.596.7818 or viist www.cityoftulsa.org/ bridge.aspx Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:48 AM �Firefox 12 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-28th--201... Building Bridges to Success TulSa A Kind d fnt!tgy. Mardi Gras Masquerade Friday, February 28th, 2014; 6:00 pm Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Parish Church of St. Jerome 205 W King St For more information or tickets, call 918.582.3088 Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org ~ [title of show] March 7th - 8th, 13th - 15th at 8:00 pm and March 9th, 2014 at 2:00 pm American Theatre Company continues it's season with the uproarious post-modern homage to 4/23/26, 11:48 AM �Firefox 13 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-28th--201... musical theater and the little creative person inside all of us with the Tony nominated musical [title of show]. Struggling writers Hunter and Jeff race against a deadline to enter an original musical into a theatre festival. [title of show] depicts their journey as artists and friends as they write a musical about writing a musical. Performances will be held March 7th - 8th, 13th - 15th at 8:00 pm and March 9th at 2:00 pm at the John H. Williams Theatre at the Tulsa Performing Arts Center. Tickets are $20 for adults and $14 for students. This show is recommended for mature audiences due to language and subject matter. For reservations call the Tulsa Performing Arts Center ticket office at 596-7111 or log on to www.myticketoffice.com Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events Imperial Court of All Oklahoma presents A Mardi Gras Celebration "A Sweet Time in Old New Orleans" Friday, February 28th, 2014 Bamboo Lounge 8:00 pm - Drinks & Desserts 9:00 pm - Show $3 Suggested Door Cover (21+) Silent Auction, 50/50 Raffle Dress: Formal or Theme Featuring: Chasing Nadean and other Oklahoma Performers For more information, visit impcourtok.webs.com Equality Center Pride Store 4/23/26, 11:48 AM �Firefox 14 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-28th--201... Check out the Pride Store. Our rainbow knee socks come in 4 patterns and are only $6 a pair. Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Woman Bone' by Amy Gioletti You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Woman Bone is Amy Gioletti's first full-length poetry collection. It spans themes of love, sexuality, death, war, and peace. Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Woman Bone A Poetry Collect,on A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality 4/23/26, 11:48 AM �Firefox 15 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-28th--201... r----------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:48 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/b3d37683d15402ad4490ce6b2d039d2a.pdf e031b592357acd8297196cea798a43da PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-5th--2014.ht... eNews March 5th, 2014 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor Girl Scout Cookie Sale First Thursday Art Show Parenting Workshop Pt 3 Welcome to the eNews. Gamily will continue their Parenting Workshop on Saturday, March 8th at 1:00 pm with a panel discussion with LGBTQ Parents. RSVP to Gamily@OkEq.org eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Tulsa Unity String Orchestra Out2Enroll ACA Event K9 Boot Camp OUTlaw Legal Series Parenting Workshop Pt 4 The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Dr. Ronald LaButti, DO, FAOAO 2014 Equality Gala EBA Sponsor Hips-Knees-Shoulders FooUAnkle-Sports Medicine Team doctor for Tulsa Threat and Tulsa Crew. Mention this ad for priority scheduling by calling 918-514-3009 or online at www.hipandkneedoc.com 6585 S. Yale , Suite 200, Tulsa OK Tulsa Pride Leather Fashion Show CampOUT EBA MOREcolor Council Oak Mens Chorale TMSL Volunteers Girl Scout Cookie Sale Thursday, March 6th, 2014; 5:00 - 8:00 pm In support of Girl Scouts being an inclusion organization, Oklahomans for Equality will host the Girl Scouts of Eastern Oklahoma Cookie Sale at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Thursday, March 6th, 2014 starting at 5:00 pm. The cookies will cost $4.00 per box and will include: Thin Mints, Tagalongs (peanut butter & chocolate patties), Samoas (chocolate, caramel, coconut cookie), Do-si-dos (peanut butter sandwich cookie), Trefoils (a shortbread cookie) and Savannah Smiles (a zesty lemon cookie). girl scout!}; TMSL Spring Clinic Sam Harris Tulsa Two Spirit Gathering City of Tulsa BRIDGE [title of show] Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer First Thursday Art Gallery Reception Thursday, March 6th, 2014; 6:00 - 9:00 pm Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 11:49 AM �Firefox 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-5th--2014.ht... The March Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Joe Staskal in a show titled "Escape from FatCityClay (Am I still here?)", beginning with a reception on Thursday, March 6th, 2014 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, March 20th, 7:00 pm Parenting Workshop Pt 3; Parents' Panel Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. Saturday, March 8th, 2014; 1:00 - 4:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Kids don't come with a manual, so why not get some advice from some people who know. We have organized a panel of parents from the community willing to share their stories and answer questions to better inform our "future" and "current" parents. Come join in on the family fun. All are welcomed, LGBTQIA, striped, poke-a-dotted, and every color of the rainbow. Please RSVP on OkEq's Gamily Facebook page Gamily@OkEq.org. All are welcome, so spread the word! or Tulsa Unity String Orchestra Concert Saturday, March 8th, 2014; 7:00 pm The Tulsa Unity String Orchestra Presents at OkEq Art Exhibit The March exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Joe Staskal. "Classical Music VS. The Pops" Director: Mr. Adrian Rogers Guest Conductor: Mrs. Juliet Henson Host: Mr. Michael Johnson Saturday, March 8th, 2014; 7:00 pm, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center *Refreshments will be provided * Admission is free* Oklahomans for Equality and Out2Enroll Raise Awareness of ACA to LGBT community in Tulsa Wednesday, March 19th, 2014; 1:30 - 8:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 1:30 - 3:30 pm Training for ACA navigators, counselors and social workers 6:30 - 8:00 pm Public Town Hall Forum about the Affordable Care Act Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:49 AM �Firefox 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-5th--2014.ht... Guests for the event will include Gautam Raghavan, LGBT Liasion to the White House. Gautam last visited the Equality Center in September of 2012. And Dr. Matt Hienz, Director of Provider & LGBT Outreach Office of the Secretary US Department of Health & Human Services; Physician at Tucson Medical Center Out2Enroll, the coordinated effort to educate the lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) community about the Affordable Care Act and direct the community to enrollment resources, is pleased to announce a new event in Tulsa, Oklahoma on March 19th, 2014 to help the LGBT community in the Tulsa area understand their new coverage options. The regional event, cosponsored by Out2Enroll and the US Department of Health and Human Services, will feature remarks and presentations from officials from the White House, national experts on efforts to engage the LGBT community in enrollment activities, and local community stakeholders and partners. Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are the host for the event. Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org On Wednesday, March 19th at the Equality Center, the event will consist of an afternoon and evening program. From 1:30 pm to 3:30 pm, there will be an informational session on effective outreach and enrollment of the LGBT community designed for navigators, certified application counselors, social workers, and other consumer assistance personnel. Following this training, there will be a public town hall on the Affordable Care Act from 6:30 pm to 8:00 pm, which will feature remarks and presentations from federal officials, national experts, and local community stakeholders. This portion of the event is open to the community and LGBT individuals and families are encouraged to join to learn more about their options and ways then can enroll in coverage. K9 Boot Camp w/ Out of the Dog House Sundays at 1:00 pm Did you get a new puppy for Christmas or does your old dog need to learn some new tricks? Carrie McDowell, owner and trainer at Out of the Dog House, Ltd. Co. OkEq will be beginning training classes Sundays in February at 1:00 pm the class will be a program of OkEq and will be $5 dollars for non members and free for OkEq members. Private lessons will be available as well by arrangement with Carrie. Please contact Mary Jones at mary.jones@okeq.org or Carrie McDowell cmcdowell@inbox.com. Class size is limited due to size and age of the participants. Counseling Services Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LPC 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org The class will consist of minimal lecture/discussion to cover basic principles 4/23/26, 11:49 AM �Firefox 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-5th--2014.ht... of how dogs learn, motivation, general information, and questions. The first class is a No Dog orientation. The majority of the teaching time will consist coaching: demonstrations of the techniques used and hands-on practice by students and their own dogs in class. Written homework will be provided, and dogs will progress faster if students work at home between classes, but it is not absolutely necessary to success. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org OUTlaw Legal Series Thursday, March 13th, 2014; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Jason McVicker, Esq. and Conor Cleary, Esq. discuss today's top legal issues and help to answer your legal questions. Free event and open to everyone. March's Topic: Will drafting SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Parenting Workshop Pt 4; Legally Smart Sunday, March 23rd, 2014; 1:00 - 4:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center After you've thought about adding to your family, you need to think about the future. Did you ever discuss with your partner about the benefits of a living will? Who can take your child to get medical attention in an emergency when you're not available? What rights does the non-biological parent have to the child? All LGBTQIA singles, couples, and "future" parents can benefit from free legal advice. Karen Keith Wilkins, EBA member and local Attorney at Law, will be present to go over the laws of Oklahoma concerning the legal aspects of having a growing family. Come ready to receive helpful information and ask plenty of questions. Please RSVP on OkEq's Gamily Facebook page Gamily@OkEq.org. All are welcome, so spread the word! 2014 Equality Gala Saturday, April 26th, 2014; 6:30 pm or at •. • • ' . / Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by 4/23/26, 11:49 AM �Firefox 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-5th--2014.ht... Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sagew Services and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Tulsa Area Prime Timers 4/23/26, 11:49 AM �Firefox 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-5th--2014.ht... Tulsa Pride Leather Fetish Fashion Show Friday, March 21st, 2014; 10:00 pm Tulsa Eagle 1338 East Third Street, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74120 In Partnership with the Tulsa Mister Leather events, Tulsa Pride 2014 Presents the annual Tulsa Pride Fetish Show. Join in for a night of fun. Demonstrations. Door Prizes. Raffles. Wear your gear, leather, suit, whatever your fetish. 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 For more information about this event and all upcoing Tulsa Pride events, visit the Tulsa Pride Facebook Event page or www.TulsaPride.org ACA Assistance CampOUT Youth Leadership Retreat Every Wednesday 1:00 - 4:00 pm Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Spring 2014 Retreat Youth Services of Tulsa and Campfire are working together again on creating a LGBTQ youth leadership retreat for this spring. It will be open to 8th grade through 12th grade and limited to 24 students. YST and Campfire's CampOUT Youth Leadership Retreat is a chance for LGBTQ youth and allies to spend a weekend focusing on social justice issues that they are passionate about. Interested youth must complete the application by March 14th. If accepted, a parent or guardian will have to sign a permission slip. The fee for the retreat it $10, however, no one will be denied for an inability to pay. Food will be provided and youth will sleep in a cabin, though they must bring their own bedding. For registration information or for any questions, contact Victoria Wiener at vwiener@yst.org or 918.625.1570 Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The March Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, March 19th, 2014 at 6:00 pm, at Hyatt Regency Dowtown Tulsa, 100 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach 4/23/26, 11:49 AM �Firefox 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-5th--2014.ht... on your friends list. Hyatt Regency Downtown Tulsa 100 E 2nd St Tulsa, Oklahoma MOREcolor 2014 Artists Submissions Call for entries; Opening Night June 19th, 2014 MORE color Calling all interested artists ages 18 and over, submissions are now open for the annual MOREcolor Fine Arts Exhibition, a highly anticipated feature of the Tulsa Pride celebration. The Festive and always surprising Opening Night reception will be held June 19th, 2014 at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. It is free and open to the public. To submit your work for the show, click here. The deadline for entry is May 1st, 2014. For more information, visit MOREcolorart.com Council Oak Mens Chorale Summer Season Rehearsals Continues Tuesdays; 7:00 pm Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Avenue, Tulsa, OK Rehearsals for Council Oak Mens Chorale Summer Season will continue on Tuesdays at 7:00 pm. Located at COMC rehearsal home - Fellowship Congregational Church, 2900 S. Harvard Avenue, Tulsa, OK. COMC is looking for new members that enjoy singing and performing for family and friends. Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Rainbow Writers 1st and 3rd Wednesdays 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend council oak coonc// cal< m«IS choro/6 Council Oak Mens Chorale Summer Season 2014 - "BE OUR GUEST! - A DISNEY EXTRAVAGANZA" with soloist - Eric Himan Performances will be Thursday, June 5th and Friday, June 6th, 2014 at Lorton Performance Center - University of Tulsa Campus. For more information on Council Oak Mens Chorale, visit www.counciloak.org TMSL is looking for Volunteers for their new Up All Night Softball Tourney Tulsa Metro Softball League is introducing a new tournament format to the gay leagues this year with their all night tournament. The tournament will start on Good Friday, April 18th, 2014 6:30 pm and play all night long with Championship games playing at 6:30 am Saturday, April 19th, 2014. TMSL is looking for some Tulsans to help out with the event by helping to setup, refill water stations, sell t-shirts, answer questions from our out of town guests and much more! ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Thursdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Two Step & Country Line Dance Thursdays 7:30 pm Kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the 4/23/26, 11:49 AM �Firefox 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-5th--2014.ht... Volunteers will receive a free tournament t-shirt, have access to all player discounts from sponsors for the weekend, and will be invited to attend and enjoy player specials at the closing awards party the evening of Saturday, April 19th, 2014 at Area 18. old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Free for Members $5 for Non Members Please email Daniel Meier at TournamentDirector@TulsaMetroSoftball.com with questions, or click here to sign up. Yoga A - Z www.tulsametrosoftball.com TMSL 2014 Spring Clinics Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Saturday, March 8th, 2014; 10:00 am Lantz Park 4902 E. Independence Ave Tulsa, Oklahoma 74106 Tulsa Metro Softball League spring clinics will be at Lantz Park (North of 244 on Yale) on Saturday, March 8th, 2014 from 10:00 am until 2:00 pm. Anyone from the league who wants to attend, whether they have a team or no, is invitedt. TMSL will identify those who are not on a roster once we get there. Coaches looking to fill their rosters are encouraged to attend. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Also, if you have players who are new to TMSL and need an initial rating, there will be several of league members there to help. Just let them know who the players are and they will help with an initial rating. Sam Harris to be featured on OETA's Writing Out Loud Monday, March 17th, 2014; 10:30 pm Sam Harris will be featured on the Monday, March 17th, 2014 episode of OETA's Writing Out Loud at 10:30 pm. Writing Out Loud features in-depth interviews with writers, every Monday, 10:30 p.m. on OETA. Hosted by Teresa Miller and sponsored by OSU. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno 4/23/26, 11:49 AM �Firefox 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-5th--2014.ht... Tulsa Two Spirits Society Gathering April 25th - 28th, 2014 Osage Hills State Park 2131 Osage Hills State Park Road Pawhuska, OK 74056 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Tulsa Two Spirit Society gathering's program will include workshops on traditional and contemporary Native American culture, Pow Wows, stompdancing, celebrations, Native faith, and other related activities. No alcohol, drugs or guns will be allowed. The Tulsa Two Spirits Society is "a non-profit Native American LGBT Collective. We seek to affirm and embody positive traditional and modern Two Spirit identities, and in so doing, be valued members of our communities". The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet For more information on the gathering, download the Tulsa Two Spirit Gathering information packet or just the registration form here. City of Tulsa Human Rights Department BRIDGE Training and Workshop Tuesday, March 11th, 2014; 9:00 am - 4:00 pm Tulsa Convention Center 100 Civic Center - North Ballroom Free and open to the public. Building Resources in Developing and Growing Enterprises (BRIDGE) promotes connections between small, developing and growing businesses and opportunities available through larger companies in the area. Promoting the Growth, Expansion, Innovation and and increased Productivity of minority and female and BRIDGE disadvantaged business enterprises, the 7th Annual BRIDGE Training and Workshop will provide you receive valuable business, an opportunity to network and promote your business or organization. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org For more information, contact 918.596.7818 or viist www.cityoftulsa.org/ bridge.aspx Building Bridges to Success Tulsa A Klrdoffnt!tgY.. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and 4/23/26, 11:49 AM �Firefox 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-5th--2014.ht... [title of show] March 7th - 8th, 13th - 15th at 8:00 pm and March 9th, 2014 at 2:00 pm American Theatre Company continues it's season with the uproarious post-modern homage to musical theater and the little creative person inside all of us with the Tony nominated musical [title of show]. Struggling writers Hunter and Jeff race against a deadline to enter an original musical into a theatre festival. [title of show] depicts their journey as artists and friends as they write a musical about writing a musical. Performances will be held March 7th - 8th, 13th - 15th at 8:00 pm and March 9th at 2:00 pm at the John H. Williams Theatre at the Tulsa Performing Arts Center. Tickets are $20 for adults and $14 for students. This show is recommended for mature audiences due to language and subject matter. For reservations call the Tulsa Performing Arts Center ticket office at 596-7111 or log on to www.myticketoffice.com Equality Center Pride Store Check out the Pride Store. Our rainbow knee socks come in 4 patterns and are only $6 a pair. services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Pit Stop' Directed by Yen Tan You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Openly gay Ernesto (Marcus DeAnda) and closeted Gabe (Bill Heck) grapple with the sad tribulations of - Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Mondays and Fridays 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families 4/23/26, 11:49 AM �Firefox 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-5th--2014.ht... being gay in a small, working-class Texas town. I need to get on with my life, Ernesto pronounces as he kicks out live-in ex-boyfriend Luis. Macho yet sensitive, Ernesto still carries a hopeless torch for his other ex-lover, Martin. Meanwhile, down-to-earth building contractor Gabe seeks solace with his exwife and six year-old daughter while pining over the loss of his relationship with Chuck. Trying to find connection amidst formidable loneliness this is the story of Ernesto and Gabe. Reminiscent of such classic rural gay love stories as Big Eden and Brokeback Mountain and showcasing equally accomplished performances from its handsome leads Pit Stop achieves an understated tone of authenticity rarely seen on screen. through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! TU A Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:49 AM �Firefox 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-5th--2014.ht... r----------------------------------------------------~ I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L----------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 11:49 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/e66416e193f8b79cd1bc34973389824d.pdf 0dcf2c40d8ecb28ee99262b7d26dcfa6 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-12th--2014.... eNews March 12th, 2014 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor OUTlaw Legal Series Out2Enroll ACA Event EBA Welcome to the eNews. OUT2Enroll will present a town hall meeting about the Affordable Care Act on Wednesday, March 19th, 2014 at 6:30 pm. The community is invited to join and learn about their options and get help enrolling. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time Dine Out for the EBA Parenting Workshop Pt 4 2014 Equality Gala Tulsa Pride Leather Fashion Show CampOUT MOREcolor K9 Boot Camp Council Oak Mens Chorale TMSL Volunteers Tulsa Growl Sam Harris Dining Out for Life Tulsa Two Spirit Gathering [title of show] Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Pride Store Rainbow Library OUTlaw Legal Series Volunteer Thursday, March 13th, 2014; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Jason McVicker, Esq. and Conor Cleary, Esq. discuss today's top legal issues and help to answer your legal questions. Free event and open to everyone. March's Topic: Will drafting Find Us on Facebook Oklahomans for Equality and Out2Enroll Raise Awareness of ACA to LGBT community in Tulsa Wednesday, March 19th, 2014; 1:30 - 8:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 1:30 - 3:30 pm Training for ACA navigators, counselors and social workers 6:30 - 8:00 pm Public Town Hall Forum about the Affordable Care Act OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, March 20th, 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 11:50 AM �Firefox 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-12th--2014.... Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. Guests for the event will include Gautam Raghavan, LGBT Liasion to the White House. Gautam last visited the Equality Center in September of 2012. And Dr. Matt Hienz, Director of Provider & LGBT Outreach Office of the Secretary US Department of Health & Human Services; Physician at Tucson Medical Center Out2Enroll, the coordinated effort to educate the lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) community about the Affordable Care Act and direct the community to enrollment resources, is pleased to announce a new event in Tulsa, Oklahoma on March 19th, 2014 to help the LGBT community in the Tulsa area understand their new coverage options. OkEq Art Exhibit The March exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Joe Staskal. The regional event, cosponsored by Out2Enroll and the US Department of Health and Human Services, will feature remarks and presentations from officials from the White House, national experts on efforts to engage the LGBT community in enrollment activities, and local community stakeholders and partners. Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are the host for the event. On Wednesday, March 19th at the Equality Center, the event will consist of an afternoon and evening program. From 1:30 pm to 3:30 pm, there will be an informational session on effective outreach and enrollment of the LGBT community designed for navigators, certified application counselors, social workers, and other consumer assistance personnel. Following this training, there will be a public town hall on the Affordable Care Act from 6:30 pm to 8:00 pm, which will feature remarks and presentations from federal officials, national experts, and local community stakeholders. This portion of the event is open to the community and LGBT individuals and families are encouraged to join to learn more about their options and ways then can enroll in coverage. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org The March Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, March 19th, 2014 at 6:00 pm, at Hyatt Regency Dowtown Tulsa, 100 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Hyatt Regency Downtown Tulsa 4/23/26, 11:50 AM �Firefox 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-12th--2014.... 100 E 2nd St Tulsa, Oklahoma Dine Out for the Equality Business Alliance Tuesday, March 25th, 2014; 5:30 - 9:00 pm Counseling Services Help support the Equality Business Alliance by eating out at Albert G's Bar & Q Downtown (421 E 1st St) on Tuesday, March 25th, 2014 from 5:30 9:00 pm. Albert G's will donate a portion of the sales back to the EBA. www.downtown.albertgs.com Parenting Workshop Pt 4; Legally Smart Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org Sunday, March 23rd, 2014; 1:00 - 4:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center After you've thought about adding to your family, you need to think about the future. Did you ever discuss with your partner about the benefits of a living will? Who can take your child to get medical attention in an emergency when you're not available? What rights does the non-biological parent have to the child? All LGBTQIA singles, couples, and "future" parents can benefit from free legal advice. Karen Keith Wilkins, EBA member and local Attorney at Law, will be present to go over the laws of Oklahoma concerning the legal aspects of having a growing family. Come ready to receive helpful information and ask plenty of questions. Please RSVP on OkEq's Gamily Facebook page Gamily@OkEq.org. All are welcome, so spread the word! 2014 Equality Gala Saturday, April 26th, 2014; 6:30 pm or at Counseling Services Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LPC 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:50 AM �Firefox https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-12th--2014... Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org ----- SOS Group Tulsa Pride 2014 Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org ' Upcoming Events for March .' , : Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by 4 of 12 4/23/26, 11:50 AM �Firefox 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-12th--2014.... Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Fetish Fashion Show Pride Idol Competition 7th Annual Turn About Show For more information about these events and all upcoming Tulsa Pride events, visit the Tulsa Pride Facebook Event page or www.TulsaPride.org Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sagew Services and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Tulsa Area Prime Timers 4/23/26, 11:50 AM �Firefox 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-12th--2014.... CampOUT Youth Leadership Retreat Spring 2014 Retreat Youth Services of Tulsa and Campfire are working together again on creating a LGBTQ youth leadership retreat for this spring. It will be open to 8th grade through 12th grade and limited to 24 students. YST and Campfire's CampOUT Youth Leadership Retreat is a chance for LGBTQ youth and allies to spend a weekend focusing on social justice issues that they are passionate about. Interested youth must complete the application by March 14th. If accepted, a parent or guardian will have to sign a permission slip. The fee for the retreat it $10, however, no one will be denied for an inability to pay. Food will be provided and youth will sleep in a cabin, though they must bring their own bedding. For registration information or for any questions, contact Victoria Wiener at vwiener@yst.org or 918.625.1570 MOREcolor 2014 Artists Submissions Call for entries; Opening Night June 19th, 2014 MORE color 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 ACA Assistance Every Wednesday 1:00 - 4:00 pm Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Calling all interested artists ages 18 and over, submissions are now open for the annual MOREcolor Fine Arts Exhibition, a highly anticipated feature of the Tulsa Pride celebration. The Festive and always surprising Opening Night reception will be held June 19th, 2014 at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. It is free and open to the public. To submit your work for the show, click here. The deadline for entry is May 1st, 2014. For more information, visit MOREcolorart.com K9 Boot Camp w/ Out of the Dog House Sundays at 1:00 pm Did you get a new puppy for Christmas or does your old dog need to learn some new tricks? Carrie McDowell, owner and trainer at Out of the Dog House, Ltd. Co. OkEq will be beginning training classes Sundays in February at 1:00 pm the class will be a program of OkEq and will be $5 dollars for non members and free for OkEq members. Private lessons will be available as well by arrangement with Carrie. Please contact Mary Jones at mary.jones@okeq.org or Carrie McDowell cmcdowell@inbox.com. Class size is limited due to size and age of the participants. The class will consist of minimal lecture/discussion to cover basic principles of how dogs learn, motivation, general information, and questions. The first Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach 4/23/26, 11:50 AM �Firefox 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-12th--2014.... class is a No Dog orientation. The majority of the teaching time will consist coaching: demonstrations of the techniques used and hands-on practice by students and their own dogs in class. Written homework will be provided, and dogs will progress faster if students work at home between classes, but it is not absolutely necessary to success. Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Rainbow Writers 1st and 3rd Wednesdays 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Council Oak Mens Chorale Summer Season Rehearsals Continues Tuesdays; 7:00 pm Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Avenue, Tulsa, OK Rehearsals for Council Oak Mens Chorale Summer Season will continue on Tuesdays at 7:00 pm. Located at COMC rehearsal home - Fellowship Congregational Church, 2900 S. Harvard Avenue, Tulsa, OK. COMC is looking for new members that enjoy singing and performing for family and friends. council oak council oak moos choro/e Council Oak Mens Chorale Summer Season 2014 - "BE OUR GUEST! - A DISNEY EXTRAVAGANZA" with soloist - Eric Himan Performances will be Thursday, June 5th and Friday, June 6th, 2014 at Lorton Performance Center - University of Tulsa Campus. For more information on Council Oak Mens Chorale, visit www.counciloak.org TMSL is looking for Volunteers for their new Up All Night Softball Tourney Tulsa Metro Softball League is introducing a new tournament format to the gay leagues this year with their all night tournament. The tournament will start on Good Friday, April 18th, 2014 6:30 pm and play all night long with Championship games playing at 6:30 am Saturday, April 19th, 2014. TMSL is looking for some Tulsans to help out with the event by helping to setup, refill water stations, sell t-shirts, answer questions from our out of town guests and much more! ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Thursdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Two Step & Country Line Dance Thursdays 7:30 pm Kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the 4/23/26, 11:50 AM �Firefox 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-12th--2014.... Volunteers will receive a free tournament t-shirt, have access to all player discounts from sponsors for the weekend, and will be invited to attend and enjoy player specials at the closing awards party the evening of Saturday, April 19th, 2014 at Area 18. old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Free for Members $5 for Non Members Please email Daniel Meier at TournamentDirector@TulsaMetroSoftball.com with questions, or click here to sign up. Yoga A - Z www.tulsametrosoftball.com Tulsa Growl 2014 Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. May 8th - 11th, 2014 Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm The Green Country Bears are proud to sponsor Tulsa Growl II on May 8th - 11th, 2014. Tulsa's Best Bear Run will be an event filled weekend so be sure to visit www.tulsagrowl.com and check out the entire schedule and to register. Sam Harris to be featured on OETA's Writing Out Loud Monday, March 17th, 2014; 10:30 pm Sam Harris will be featured on the Monday, March 17th, 2014 episode of OETA's Writing Out Loud at 10:30 pm. Writing Out Loud features in-depth interviews with writers, every Monday, 10:30 p.m. on OETA. Hosted by Teresa Miller and sponsored by OSU. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno 4/23/26, 11:50 AM �Firefox 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-12th--2014.... Dining Out for Life Thursday, April 24th, 2014; Lunch and Dinner H.O.P.E. is preparing for their Annual DINING OUT FOR LIFE in Tulsa. This year the community will come together on Thursday, April 24th, 2014 to support HIV prevention, testing, and education. Each participating restaurant will give a portion of the proceeds from lunch Din e, Oul, t'igJ1l AIDS; and dinner service to H.O.P.E. Get a group of friends together, go out to eat, and support HIV prevention. The more you eat and the more people you invite out to eat, the more money is donated to H.O.P.E. For a list of participating restaurants, please visit www.hopetesting.org Tulsa Two Spirits Society Gathering April 25th - 28th, 2014 Osage Hills State Park 2131 Osage Hills State Park Road Pawhuska, OK 74056 The Tulsa Two Spirit Society gathering's program will include workshops on traditional and contemporary Native American culture, Pow Wows, stompdancing, celebrations, Native faith, and other related activities. No alcohol, drugs or guns will be allowed. The Tulsa Two Spirits Society is "a non-profit Native American LGBT Collective. We seek to affirm and embody positive traditional and modern Two Spirit identities, and in so doing, be valued members of our communities". Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org For more information on the gathering, download the Tulsa Two Spirit Gathering information packet or just the registration form here. [title of show] March 13th - 15th at 8:00 pm American Theatre Company continues it's season with the uproarious post-modern homage to musical theater and the little creative person inside all of us with the Tony nominated musical [title of show]. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and 4/23/26, 11:50 AM �Firefox 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-12th--2014.... Struggling writers Hunter and Jeff race against a deadline to enter an original musical into a theatre festival. [title of show] depicts their journey as artists and friends as they write a musical about writing a musical. services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Performances will be held March 13th - 15th at 8:00 pm at the John H. Williams Theatre at the Tulsa Performing Arts Center. Tickets are $20 for adults and $14 for students. This show is recommended for mature audiences due to language and subject matter. For reservations call the Tulsa Performing Arts Center ticket office at 596-7111 or log on to www.myticketoffice.com Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events It's time to Vote for the New Monarch(s) for Reign VII of the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma! Must be 18 with Oklahoma ID to Vote Tulsa Friday, March 28th, 2014 Club Majestic 9:00 - 11:30 pm Tulsa Eagle 10:00 pm - 12:00 am Saturday, March 29th, 2014 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (OkEq) 2:00 - 4:00 pm Bamboo Lounge 8:00 - 11:00 pm Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. Oklahoma City HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Saturday, March 29th, 2014 Cimarron Alliance 5:00 - 7:00 pm The Boom 10:00 - 11:15 pm Partners 11:30 pm - 12:30 am Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Coronation VII Weekend - April 3-6, 2014 "A Scenic Tour Throughout Time, A Romantic Comedy of Fashions!" Hyatt Regency Downtown Tulsa All Ages Welcome For more information on each days events and to purchase Individual or Full Weekend Ticket Packages, please visit our Coronation VII website page - www.impcourtok.webs.com Guiding Right provides testing on Mondays and Fridays 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families 4/23/26, 11:50 AM �Firefox 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-12th--2014.... Equality Center Pride Store Just in time for Spring weather, the Pride Store now has rainbow fedora hats in stock for $10 each. through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Unnatural: An Archangel Academy Novel' by Michael Griffo You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org In the town of Eden in northwestern England stands the exclusive boarding school known as Archangel Academy. Ancient and imposing, it's a place filled with secrets. Just like its students. For Michael Howard, being plucked from his Nebraska hometown and sent thousands of miles away is as close as he's ever come to a miracle. In Weeping Water, he felt trapped, alone. At Archangel Academy, Michael belongs. And in Ciaran, Penry, and especially Ciaran's enigmatic half-brother Ronan, Michael finds friendship deeper than he's ever known. But Michael's only beginning to understand what makes the Academy so special. Ronan is a vampire--part of a hybrid clan who are outcasts even among other vampires. Within the Academy's confines exists a ruthless world of deadly rivalries and shifting alliances, of clandestine love and forbidden temptations. And soon Michael will confront the destiny that brought him here--and a danger more powerful than he can imagine. Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org . Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library _,.,... .,.,, ... ,...... ~ ,-,:, 4/23/26, 11:50 AM �Firefox 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-12th--2014.... •••~ .. Volunt er A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! fULSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r----------------------------------------------------, I I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I I L----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:50 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/399a2f086841a5b81a7e6483f58d459a.pdf 25e93e591c42252b3a9ea62165d9abce PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-18th--2014.... eNews March 18th, 2014 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor Out2Enroll ACA Event EBA Parenting Workshop Pt 4 Welcome to the eNews. Out2Enroll will present a town hall meeting about the Affordable Care Act on Wednesday, March 19th, 2014 at 6:30 pm. The community is invited to join and learn about their options and get help enrolling. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Dr. Ronald LaButti, DO, FAOAO Dine Out for the EBA 2014 Equality Gala Tulsa Two Spirit Gathering NOH8 Photo Shoot Tulsa Pride Leather Fashion Show EBA Sponsor MOREcolor Hips-Knees-Shoulders FooUAnkle-Sports Medicine Team doctor for Tulsa Threat and Tulsa Crew. Mention this ad for priority scheduling by calling 918-514-3009 or online at www.hipandkneedoc.com 6585 S. Yale , Suite 200, Tulsa OK SAFE Ally Week K9 Boot Camp First Thursday Art Show Tulsa Growl TMSL Volunteers Choir from St Thomas Church Oklahomans for Equality and Out2Enroll Raise Awareness of ACA to LGBT community in Tulsa Wednesday, March 19th, 2014; 1:30 - 8:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 1:30 - 3:30 pm Training for ACA navigators, counselors and social workers 6:30 - 8:00 pm Public Town Hall Forum about the Affordable Care Act Dining Out for Life LGBTI Transitional Youth Survey Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook Guests for the event will include Gautam Raghavan, LGBT Liasion to the White House. Gautam last visited the Equality Center in September of 2012. And Dr. Matt Hienz, Director of Provider & LGBT Outreach Office of the Secretary US Department of Health & Human Services; Physician at Tucson Medical Center 4/23/26, 11:50 AM �Firefox 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-18th--2014.... Out2Enroll, the coordinated effort to educate the lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) community about the Affordable Care Act and direct the community to enrollment resources, is pleased to announce a new event in Tulsa, Oklahoma on March 19th, 2014 to help the LGBT community in the Tulsa area understand their new coverage options. The regional event, cosponsored by Out2Enroll and the US Department of Health and Human Services, will feature remarks and presentations from officials from the White House, national experts on efforts to engage the LGBT community in enrollment activities, and local community stakeholders and partners. Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are the host for the event. OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, March 20th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. On Wednesday, March 19th at the Equality Center, the event will consist of an afternoon and evening program. From 1:30 pm to 3:30 pm, there will be an informational session on effective outreach and enrollment of the LGBT community designed for navigators, certified application counselors, social workers, and other consumer assistance personnel. Following this training, there will be a public town hall on the Affordable Care Act from 6:30 pm to 8:00 pm, which will feature remarks and presentations from federal officials, national experts, and local community stakeholders. This portion of the event is open to the community and LGBT individuals and families are encouraged to join to learn more about their options and ways then can enroll in coverage. Equality Business Alliance OkEq Art Exhibit The March exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Joe Staskal. Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook g E UALITY QJBusmess Alliance The March Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, March 19th, 2014 at 6:00 pm, at Hyatt Regency Dowtown Tulsa, 100 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Hyatt Regency Downtown Tulsa 100 E 2nd St Tulsa, Oklahoma Parenting Workshop Pt 4; Legally Smart Sunday, March 23rd, 2014; 1:00 - 4:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center After you've thought about adding to your family, you need to think about the future. Did you ever discuss with your partner about the benefits of a living will? Who can take your child to get medical attention in an emergency when you're not available? What rights does the non-biological parent have to the child? All LGBTQIA singles, couples, and "future" parents can benefit from free legal advice. Karen Keith Wilkins, EBA member and local Attorney at Law, will be Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:50 AM �Firefox 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-18th--2014.... present to go over the laws of Oklahoma concerning the legal aspects of having a growing family. Come ready to receive helpful information and ask plenty of questions. Please RSVP on OkEq's Gamily Facebook page Gamily@OkEq.org. All are welcome, so spread the word! or at Dine Out for the Equality Business Alliance Tuesday, March 25th, 2014; 5:30 - 9:00 pm Counseling Services Help support the Equality Business Alliance by eating out at Albert G's Bar & Q Downtown (421 E 1st St) on Tuesday, March 25th, 2014 from 5:30 9:00 pm. Albert G's will donate a portion of the sales back to the EBA. www.downtown.albertgs.com Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org 2014 Equality Gala Saturday, April 26th, 2014; 6:30 pm Counseling Services Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LPC 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:50 AM �Firefox https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-18th--2014... Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org ----- SOS Group Tulsa Two Spirits Society Gathering April 25th - 28th, 2014 Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org ' : Osage Hills State Park 2131 Osage Hills State Park Road Pawhuska, OK 74056 .' , Grieving Well The Tulsa Two Spirit Society gathering's program will include workshops on 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by 4 of 14 4/23/26, 11:50 AM �Firefox 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-18th--2014.... traditional and contemporary Native American culture, Pow Wows, stompdancing, celebrations, Native faith, and other related activities. No alcohol, drugs or guns will be allowed. Yolanda Arnold The Tulsa Two Spirits Society is "a non-profit Native American LGBT Collective. We seek to affirm and embody positive traditional and modern Two Spirit identities, and in so doing, be valued members of our communities". Live Free! Coming Out Workshop For more information on the gathering, download the Tulsa Two Spirit Gathering information packet or just the registration form here. NOH8 Campaign Photo Shoot 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Sunday, April 13th, 2014; 1:00 - 4:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center On Sunday, April 13th, 2014, the NOH8 Campaign will set up their mobile studio in Tulsa, Oklahoma -- offering Oklahomans a chance to be heard. Oklahomans for Equality and the Tulsa Pride 2014 Committee will host the photo shoot at the Equality Center. The NOH8 Campaign's Tulsa shoot is scheduled to begin on April 13th at 1:00 pm and will end at 4:00 pm. Free parking is available on the streets surrounding the center. Prices are $40.00 for solo portraits and $25.00 per person for couple or group portraits. Interested volunteers should contact the NOH8 Campaign via email at info@NOH8Campaign.com. Additional details can be found at www.noh8campaign.com. RSVP to the photo shoot on Facebook here. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sagew Services and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Tulsa Pride 2014 Upcoming Events for March Tulsa Area Prime Timers 4/23/26, 11:50 AM �Firefox 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-18th--2014.... 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 ACA Assistance Every Wednesday 1:00 - 4:00 pm Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Fetish Fashion Show Pride Idol Competition Boot Camp 7th Annual Turn About Show Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. For more information about these events and all upcoming Tulsa Pride events, visit the Tulsa Pride Facebook Event page or www.TulsaPride.org Gender Outreach 4/23/26, 11:50 AM �Firefox 7 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-18th--2014.... The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. - - sr::ra=_ Rainbow Writers MOREcolor 2014 Artists Submissions Call for entries; Opening Night June 19th, 2014 1st and 3rd Wednesdays 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org - - - - --to attend MORE color Calling all interested artists ages 18 and over, submissions are now open for the annual MOREcolor Fine Arts Exhibition, a highly anticipated feature of the Tulsa Pride celebration. The Festive and always surprising Opening Night reception will be held June 19th, 2014 at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. It is free and open to the public. To submit your work for the show, click here. The deadline for entry is May 1st, 2014. For more information, visit MOREcolorart.com University of Central Oklahoma Student Alliance for Equality Ally Week ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Thursdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Keynote Speech, Thursday, April 3rd, 2014; 6:00 pm University of Central Oklahoma Nigh University Center Ballroom 100 North University Drive Edmond, OK 73034 On Thursday, April 3rd, 2014 from 6:00 pm to 7:00 pm, Student Alliance For Equality (SAFE) will be hosting Brendon Ayanbadejo, three time pro bowler and super bowl champion, as a keynote speaker on why being an ally of the LGBTQ community is important and the importance of diversity and Two Step & Country Line Dance Thursdays 7:30 pm Kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the 4/23/26, 11:50 AM �Firefox 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-18th--2014.... inclusion in life, including in sports. As part of Ally Week, SAFE is honored to have Brendon as he is very vocal straight ally of the LGBTQ community, and was instrumental in passing Marriage Equality in Maryland. To continue the theme of inclusion in sports, Dr. Pope, University of Central Oklahoma's own Crimson Tide National Champion, will be introducing him. old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Free for Members $5 for Non Members This event is free and open to the public and the keynote address will occur in the Nigh University Center Ballrooms at the University of Central Oklahoma. If Britney Spears can party it up in Vegas w ith one of her boys and go get married on a whim and annul her marriage the next day, why can't a loving same sex coup le tie the knot? How cou ld o ur society g rant more rights to a heterosexual one night stand wedd ing in Vegas than a gay coupl e that has been together for 3, 5, 10 years of true love? - Brendon Ayanbadejo Keynote Address UCO Nigh University Center Ballrooms B&C 6:00 PM Thursday, April 3rd Free and open to the public ~ VE N S 0SAFE ALLY WEEK K9 Boot Camp w/ Out of the Dog House Sundays at 1:00 pm Did you get a new puppy for Christmas or does your old dog need to learn some new tricks? Carrie McDowell, owner and trainer at Out of the Dog House, Ltd. Co. OkEq will be beginning training classes Sundays in February at 1:00 pm the class will be a program of OkEq and will be $5 dollars for non members and free for OkEq members. Private lessons will be available as well by arrangement with Carrie. Please contact Mary Jones at mary.jones@okeq.org or Carrie McDowell cmcdowell@inbox.com. Class size is limited due to size and age of the participants. The class will consist of minimal lecture/discussion to cover basic principles of how dogs learn, motivation, general information, and questions. The first class is a No Dog orientation. The majority of the teaching time will consist coaching: demonstrations of the techniques used and hands-on practice by students and their own dogs in class. Written homework will be provided, and dogs will progress faster if students work at home between classes, but it is not absolutely necessary to success. Yoga A - Z Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno 4/23/26, 11:50 AM �Firefox 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-18th--2014.... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals First Thursday Art Show Reception Thursday, April 3rd, 2014; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The April Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center feature the works of Nicole Moan, in a show beginning with a reception on Thursday, April 3rd, 2014 from 6:00 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Tulsa Growl 2014 May 8th - 11th, 2014 The Green Country Bears are proud to sponsor Tulsa Growl II on May 8th - 11th, 2014. Tulsa's Best Bear Run will be an event filled weekend so be sure to visit www.tulsagrowl.com The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org -- EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and 4/23/26, 11:50 AM �Firefox 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-18th--2014.... and check out the entire schedule and to register. TMSL is looking for Volunteers for their new Up All Night Softball Tourney services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Tulsa Metro Softball League is introducing a new tournament format to the gay leagues this year with their all night tournament. The tournament will start on Good Friday, April 18th, 2014 6:30 pm and play all night long with Championship games playing at 6:30 am Saturday, April 19th, 2014. TMSL is looking for some Tulsans to help out with the event by helping to setup, refill water stations, sell t-shirts, answer questions from our out of town guests and much more! Volunteers will receive a free tournament t-shirt, have access to all player discounts from sponsors for the weekend, and will be invited to attend and enjoy player specials at the closing awards party the evening of Saturday, April 19th, 2014 at Area 18. Please email Daniel Meier at TournamentDirector@TulsaMetroSoftball.com with questions, or click here to sign up. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm www.tulsametrosoftball.com Choir of St. Thomas Church, NYC Tuesday, March 25th, 2014; 7:30 pm Trinity Episcopal Church 501 S Cincinnati On Tuesday, March 25th, 2014 at 7:30 pm, Trinity Episcopal Church will present the Choir of St. Thomas Church, New York City in concert. The St. Thomas Choir is considered to be the premier choral ensemble singing in the Anglican tradition in the US today. Directed by John Scott, formerly Organist and Choir Director of St. Paul's Cathedral in London, the men of the choir are professional singers and the youth attend the St. Thomas Choir School, the only church-related residential choir school in the U.S. The program will include music by Taverner, Gibbons, Byrd, Purcell, Howells, Britten, and Elgar, among others. This concert is free and open to the public - a reception will follow. Admission is FREE but donations will be Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Mondays and Fridays 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families 4/23/26, 11:50 AM �Firefox 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-18th--2014.... accepted. The church is located at 501 S Cincinnati in downtown Tulsa. 918.582.4128 or trinitytulsa.org Dining Out for Life through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Thursday, April 24th, 2014; Lunch and Dinner H.O.P.E. is preparing for their Annual DINING OUT FOR LIFE in Tulsa. This year the community will come together on Thursday, April 24th, 2014 to support HIV prevention, testing, and education. Each participating restaurant will give a portion of the proceeds from lunch • O11 l • fight D111c, ~ AIDS, and dinner service to H.O.P.E. Get a group of friends together, go out to eat, and support HIV prevention. The more you eat and the more people you invite out to eat, the more money is donated to H.O.P.E. Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org For a list of participating restaurants, please visit www.hopetesting.org LGBTI Transitional Youth Online Survey The transitional youth study is a first-of-its-kind effort to raise awareness (especially among Oklahoma state agencies) that LGBTI youth exist in the state and that services are needed to alleviate very real challenges. The online survey is completely anonymous and results will contribute to increased recognition of LGBTI concerns statewide. In exchange for participation, researchers are offering $10 in gift certificate credit redeemable at giftcertificates.com for the first 250 urban and 250 rural participants. If you are 18 - 25 years old, reside in Oklahoma, and identify as LGBTI you may be eligible to participated by going to http://tiny.cc/ oklgbti2. With questions or concerns, please contact Douglas Knutson, at douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:50 AM �Firefox 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-18th--2014.... Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events It's time to Vote for the New Monarch(s) for Reign VII of the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma! Must be 18 with Oklahoma ID to Vote Tulsa Friday, March 28th, 2014 Club Majestic 9:00 - 11:30 pm Tulsa Eagle 10:00 pm - 12:00 am Saturday, March 29th, 2014 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (OkEq) 2:00 - 4:00 pm Bamboo Lounge 8:00 - 11:00 pm Oklahoma City Saturday, March 29th, 2014 Cimarron Alliance 5:00 - 7:00 pm The Boom 10:00 - 11:15 pm Partners 11:30 pm - 12:30 am Coronation VII Weekend - April 3-6, 2014 "A Scenic Tour Throughout Time, A Romantic Comedy of Fashions!" Hyatt Regency Downtown Tulsa All Ages Welcome For more information on each days events and to purchase Individual or Full Weekend Ticket Packages, please visit our Coronation VII website page - www.impcourtok.webs.com Equality Center Pride Store Just in time for Spring weather, the Pride Store now has rainbow fedora hats in stock for $10 each. 4/23/26, 11:50 AM �Firefox https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-18th--2014... Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items y Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Holy Hell' by Elizabeth Sims You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Lillian Byrd is a small-time reporter with a flair for making big-time mistakes--like getting fired for fending off the boss's son with an X-Acto knife and breaking up with her girlfriend for no good reason--so her investigation into the disappearances of women in the Detroit area might not be the best idea. But when one of the missing women turns up dead and Lillian recognizes the bizarrely mutilated corpse, she's in too deep to get out. Of course, it doesn't help that she's still fighting off the boss's son and ducking the aggressively amorous overtures of the roughest dyke in town. Now, after simultaneously blowing the case for the police and revealing herself to the off-kilter killers, she's completely on her own. Can she catch the murderers before they catch up with her? Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 13 of 14 4/23/26, 11:50 AM �Firefox 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-18th--2014.... •••~ .. Volunt er A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! fULSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r----------------------------------------------------, I I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I I L----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:50 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/72c1a9a071fa7f44fb61da9d8b9f06ba.pdf 92b94eadb693e84b99d432d8acaeefdd PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-27th--2014.... eNews March 27th, 2014 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor 2014 Equality Gala ACA Assistance Uniform Night Welcome to the eNews. The deadline to enroll in the Affordable Care Act for 2014 is March 31st! OkEq will be offering enrollment assistance on Thursday, March 27th from 5:00 - 9:00 pm, Friday, March 28th from 3:00 - 7:00 pm, Saturday, March 29th from 1:00 - 4:00 pm, Sunday, March 30th from 1:00 - 4:00 pm and Monday, March 31st from 3:00 - 6:00 pm. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time Guys Dine Too Tulsa Two Spirit Gathering Tulsa Pride Leather Fashion Show La Cage Aux Folles NOH8 Photo Shoot Emma's Revolution & Holly Near EBA MOREcolor April 1st Election Workforce Oklahoma SAFE Ally Week First Thursday Art Show Tulsa Growl 2014 Mr. Leather TMSL Volunteers Dining Out for Life LGBTI Transitional Youth Survey 2014 Equality Gala Saturday, April 26th, 2014; 6:30 pm Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 11:53 AM �Firefox 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-27th--2014.... OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, April 10th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. OkEq Art Exhibit The March exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Joe Staskal. Affordable Care Act Assistance Open Enrollment deadline for 2014 is March 31st Counseling Services If you need insurance coverage for 2014, the deadline to enroll with the Affordable Care Act is March 31st. Oklahomans for Equality will have assistance available for the ACA marketplace on: Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org Thursday, March 27th from 5 - 9 pm with Shane Askal Friday, March 28th from 3 - 7 pm with Dirk Hunter Saturday, March 29th from 1 - 4 pm with Shane Askal Sunday, March 30th from 1 - 4 pm with Dirk Hunter Monday, March 31st from 3 - 6 pm with Dirk Hunter Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tulsa Metro Softball League Uniform Night Friday, March 28th, 2014; 7:30 pm 4/23/26, 11:53 AM �Firefox 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-27th--2014.... New Age Renegade 1649 S Main St Tulsa Metro Softball League wants you to show off your team pride for 2014 Spring Season Uniform Night. TMSL will introduce the teams, play some games and have a great time. Friday, March 28th, 2014 at 7:30 pm at New Age Renegade. Uniform Night on Facebook www.tulsametrosoftball.com Guys Dine Too Tuesday, April 1st, 2014; 6:30 pm The April meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at BurnCo BBQ on Tuesday, April 1st, 2014 around 6:30 pm. BurnCo BBQ is located at 1738 S Boston Ave Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP by Friday, March 28th to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org Tulsa Two Spirits Society Gathering April 25th - 28th, 2014 Osage Hills State Park 2131 Osage Hills State Park Road Pawhuska, OK 74056 Counseling Services The Tulsa Two Spirit Society gathering's program will include workshops on traditional and contemporary Native American culture, Pow Wows, stompdancing, celebrations, Native faith, and other related activities. No alcohol, drugs or guns will be allowed. The Tulsa Two Spirits Society is "a non-profit Native American LGBT Collective. We seek to affirm and embody positive traditional and modern Two Spirit identities, and in so doing, be valued members of our communities". Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LPC 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org For more information on the gathering, download the Tulsa Two Spirit Gathering information packet or just the registration form here. Tulsa Pride 2014 4/23/26, 11:53 AM �Firefox 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-27th--2014.... Upcoming Events Pride Idol Competition - Saturday, March 29th 7th Annual Turn About Show - Tuesday, April 1st Pride Night at Mojo's - Saturday, April 5th Pride Night at Area 18 - Saturday, April 19th Oklahomo! - -Big -Gay -Sing -Along - - Friday, April 25th Pride Night at TNT's - Saturday, May 10th For more information about these events and all upcoming Tulsa Pride events, visit the Tulsa Pride Facebook Event page or www.TulsaPride.org Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org La Cage Aux Folles Cox Business Center Assembly Hall, Cox Business Center March 28, April 3, 4, 5 - 7:30 pm March 29, 30, April 5, 6 - 2:00 pm K9 Boot Camp - tul aprojecttheatre After twenty years of un-wedded bliss Georges and Albin, two men partnered for better-or-worse get a bit of both when Georges' son announces his impending marriage to the daughter of a bigoted, right-wing politician. Further complicating the situation is the 'family business': Albin and Georges run a drag nightclub in St. Tropez, where Albin is the "star" performer 'Zaza'. Georges reluctantly agrees to masquerade as "normal" Every Sunday 1:00 pm The class will consist of minimal lecture/discussion to cover basic principles of how dogs learn, motivation, general information, and questions. Free for Members, $5 for Non Members. Email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org - - --to enroll. Facilitated by Carrie McDowell of Out of the Doghouse, Ltd. Co. SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and 4/23/26, 11:53 AM �Firefox 5 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-27th--2014.... when he meets the family of the bride-to-be. But Albin has other plans, with hilarious results. Purchase Tickets NOH8 Campaign Photo Shoot Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Sunday, April 13th, 2014; 1:00 - 4:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center I On Sunday, April 13th, 2014, the NOH8 Campaign will set up their mobile studio in Tulsa, Oklahoma -- offering Oklahomans a chance to be heard. Oklahomans for Equality and the Tulsa Pride 2014 Committee will host the photo shoot at the Equality Center. The NOH8 Campaign's Tulsa shoot is scheduled to begin on April 13th at 1:00 pm and will end at 4:00 pm. Free parking is available on the streets surrounding the center. Prices are $40.00 for solo portraits and $25.00 per person for couple or group portraits. Interested volunteers should contact the NOH8 Campaign via email at info@NOH8Campaign.com. Additional details can be found at www.noh8campaign.com. RSVP to the photo shoot on Facebook here. I) M B (J l SK A . • • Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Emma's Revolution & Holly Near Friday, April 11th, 2014; 7:30 pm All Souls Unitarian Church 2952 S. Peoria Ave Emma Revolution will be accompanying the fabulous Holly Near, along 4/23/26, 11:53 AM �Firefox 6 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-27th--2014.... with pianist, Jan Martinelli in Tulsa on Friday, April 11th, 2014 at 7:30 pm. SAGE Tulsa With special, sing-a-long tribute to Pete Seeger (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) $20 advance / $25 at the door available at www.emmasrevolution.com Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Se1Vice, and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The April Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014 at 6:00 pm, at The Office of Dr. Blane Snodgrass, Tulsa Eye Clinic, 7171 S Yale, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74136. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Dr. Blane Snodgrass Tulsa Eye Clinic 7171 S Yale Tulsa, Oklahoma 74136 Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 MOREcolor 2014 Artists Submissions Call for entries; Opening Night June 19th, 2014 MORE color Calling all interested artists ages 18 and over, submissions are now open for the annual MOREcolor Fine Arts Exhibition, a highly anticipated feature of the Tulsa Pride celebration. The Festive and always surprising Opening Night reception will be held June 19th, 2014 at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. It is free and open to the public. To submit your work for the show, click here. The deadline for entry is May 1st, 2014. For more information, visit MOREcolorart.com Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average 4/23/26, 11:53 AM �Firefox 7 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-27th--2014.... Proposal to expand David L. Moss Criminal Justice Center and new Juvenile Justice Courts and Detention Center aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Election on Tuesday, April 1st, 2014 On the ballot for Tuesday, April 1st is a proposal to expand the David L. Moss Criminal Justice Center and create a new Juvenile Justice Courts and Detention Center. Vote Apri11st Read more about the proposal in the Tulsa World and find locate your voting precinct or see a sample ballot, visit the Tulsa County Election Board Workforce Oklahoma Employment Services Thursday, April 3rd, 2014; 1:00 - 4:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center On Thursday, April 3rd, 2014 from 1:00 - 4:00 pm, Carlos with Workforce Oklahoma will be on hand at the Equality Center to offer help to those looking for employment. Carlos will help with career planning, resume building, interview skills and accessing job opportunities. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. ... Rainbow Writers University of Central Oklahoma Student Alliance for Equality Ally Week Keynote Speech, Thursday, April 3rd, 2014; 6:00 pm University of Central Oklahoma Nigh University Center Ballroom 100 North University Drive Edmond, OK 73034 On Thursday, April 3rd, 2014 from 6:00 pm to 7:00 pm, Student Alliance For Equality (SAFE) will be hosting Brendon Ayanbadejo, three time pro bowler and super bowl champion, as a keynote speaker on why being an ally of the LGBTQ community is important and the importance of diversity and inclusion in life, including in sports. As part of Ally Week, SAFE is honored to have Brendon as he is very vocal straight ally of the LGBTQ community, and was instrumental in passing Marriage Equality in Maryland. To continue the theme of inclusion in sports, Dr. Pope, University of Central Oklahoma's own Crimson Tide National Champion, will be introducing him. This event is free and open to the public and the keynote address will occur in the Nigh University Center Ballrooms at the University of Central Oklahoma. 1st and 3rd Wednesdays 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Thursdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. 4/23/26, 11:53 AM �Firefox 8 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-27th--2014.... If Britney Spears can party it up in Vegas w ith one of he r boys and go get married on a wh im and annul her marriage the next day, why can 't a loving same sex coup le tie t he knot? How cou ld our society gra nt more rights to a heterosexual one n ight stand wedd ing in Vegas than a gay coup le that has been together for 3, 5, 10 yea rs of t r ue love? - Brendon Aya nbadejo Keynote Address UCO Nigh University Center Ballrooms B&C 6:00 PM Thursday, April 3rd Free and open to the public Two Step & Country Line Dance Thursdays 7:30 pm Kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Free for Members $5 for Non Members SAFE ALLY WEEK First Thursday Art Show Reception Thursday, April 3rd, 2014; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The April Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center feature the works of Nicole Moan, in a show beginning with a reception on Thursday, April 3rd, 2014 from 6:00 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Yoga A - Z Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Tulsa Growl 2014 May 8th - 11th, 2014 Game Night The Green Country Bears are proud to sponsor Tulsa Growl II Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card 4/23/26, 11:53 AM �Firefox 9 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-27th--2014.... on May 8th - 11th, 2014. Tulsa's Best Bear Run will be an event filled weekend so be sure to visit www.tulsagrowl.com and check out the entire schedule and to register. 2014 Tulsa Mr. Leather games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Congratulations from Oklahomans for Equality Oklahomans for Equality would like to congratulate Richard Ziese on being named 2014 Tulsa Mr. Leather. Richard volunteers weekly at Open Arms Project and has raised enough money for 2 youth tables at the 2014 Equality Gala. Photo courtesy of Capture It Photography. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet TMSL is looking for Volunteers for their new Up All Night Softball Tourney Tulsa Metro Softball League is introducing a new tournament format to the gay leagues this year with their all night tournament. The tournament will start on Good Friday, April 18th, 2014 6:30 pm and play all night long with Championship games playing at 6:30 am Saturday, April 19th, 2014. TMSL is looking for some Tulsans to help out with the event by helping to setup, refill water stations, sell t-shirts, answer questions from our out of town guests and much more! Volunteers will receive a free tournament t-shirt, have access to all player discounts from sponsors for the weekend, and will be invited to attend and enjoy player specials at the closing awards party the evening of Saturday, April 19th, 2014 at Area 18. Please email Daniel Meier at TournamentDirector@TulsaMetroSoftball.com with questions, or click here to sign up. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:53 AM �Firefox 10 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-27th--2014.... EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. www.tulsametrosoftball.com Dining Out for Life Thursday, April 24th, 2014; Lunch and Dinner H.O.P.E. is preparing for their Annual DINING OUT FOR LIFE in Tulsa. This year the community will come together on Thursday, April 24th, 2014 to support HIV prevention, testing, and education. Each participating restaurant will give a portion of the proceeds from lunch Dine Oul. Fig_Jil AIDS, and dinner service to H.O.P.E. Get a group of friends together, go out to eat, and support HIV prevention. The more you eat and the more people you invite out to eat, the more money is donated to H.O.P.E. For a list of participating restaurants, please visit www.hopetesting.org Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. LGBTI Transitional Youth Online Survey The transitional youth study is a first-of-its-kind effort to raise awareness (especially among Oklahoma state agencies) that LGBTI youth exist in the state and that services are needed to alleviate very real challenges. The online survey is completely anonymous and results will contribute to increased recognition of LGBTI concerns statewide. In exchange for participation, researchers are offering $10 in gift certificate credit redeemable at giftcertificates.com for the first 250 urban and 250 rural participants. If you are 18 - 25 years old, reside in Oklahoma, and identify as LGBTI you may be eligible to participated by going to http://tiny.cc/ oklgbti2. With questions or concerns, please contact Douglas Knutson, at douglas.knutson@okstate.edu HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Mondays and Fridays 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm 4/23/26, 11:53 AM �Firefox 11 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-27th--2014.... Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events It's time to Vote for the New Monarch(s) for Reign VII of the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma! Must be 18 with Oklahoma ID to Vote Tulsa Friday, March 28th, 2014 Club Majestic 9:00 - 11:30 pm Tulsa Eagle 10:00 pm - 12:00 am MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Saturday, March 29th, 2014 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (OkEq) 2:00 - 4:00 pm Bamboo Lounge 8:00 - 11:00 pm Oklahoma City Saturday, March 29th, 2014 Cimarron Alliance 5:00 - 7:00 pm The Boom 10:00 - 11:15 pm Partners 11:30 pm - 12:30 am Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Coronation VII Weekend - April 3-6, 2014 "A Scenic Tour Throughout Time, A Romantic Comedy of Fashions!" Hyatt Regency Downtown Tulsa All Ages Welcome For more information on each days events and to purchase Individual or Full Weekend Ticket Packages, please visit our Coronation VII website page - www.impcourtok.webs.com Equality Center Pride Store Just in time for Spring weather, the Pride Store now has rainbow fedora hats in stock for $10 each. Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:53 AM �Firefox 12 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-27th--2014.... Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Silencing the Self' by Dana Crowley Jack You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Dana Crowley Jack offers startling new insights into the roots of female depression as she illuminates why women are far more likely than men to suffer major depression in adulthood. Silencing the Self is the first sweeping overview of depression in women that draws on new understandings of the importance of relationships in women's lives. Attending closely to what depressed women have to say about their lives, Jack reframes major concepts of depression, freeing them from traditional models that have restricted our ability to listen to women's perspectives on depression. -.;..><•--•o~• - ..... MU,,.-~t,C;I cr•W'7<91'; ,o ,,.,~_..... _ _ , .ocw10..._..: _ , _ .. .~ , _ _a IM'.J.X:.lnCW Jack weaves these voices of depressed women directly into her discussion, providing new meanings to familiar themes: dependence, pleasing, anger, goodness, low self-esteem. These women clearly articulate a no-win, either/ or tension in their lives, a tension between sacrificing their own needs in order to preserve a relationship and acting on their needs and feelings at the risk of losing the relationship. Their stories bring to light the "activity required to be passive"--the way women actively silence themselves in order to cultivate and maintain intimate relationships. To accommodate, they learn to censor themselves, to devalue their experience, to repress anger, to be silent. Examining moral themes in depressed women's narratives, Jack demonstrates how internalized cultural expectations of feminine goodness affect women's behavior in relationships and precipitate the plunge into depression. Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/23/26, 11:53 AM �Firefox 13 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-27th--2014.... • • ••• •• Volunt r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! TULSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r----------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:53 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/ca8a2f2beec24c290d3c62d4004dfb1c.pdf 8b9aee587fd3e4975a8ea41375e939a2 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-2nd--2014.ht... eNews April 2nd, 2014 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor 2014 Equality Gala First Thursday Art Show MOREcolor Welcome to the eNews. Make your plans to attend our Equality Gala on Saturday April 26th, 2014. Purchase a seat or sponsor a table now and find more information at www.okeq.org/gala ---- eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality - The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Dr. Ronald LaButti, DO, FAOAO Hips-Knees-Shoulders FooUAnkle-Sports Medicine Team doctor for Tulsa Threat and Tulsa Crew. Mention this ad for priority scheduling by calling 918-514-3009 or online at www.hipandkneedoc.com Workforce Oklahoma Tulsa Two Spirit Gathering Tulsa Pride Leather Fashion Show NOH8 Photo Shoot EBA La Cage Aux Folles Emma's Revolution & Holly Near SAFE Ally Week Tulsa Growl TMSL Volunteers Dining Out for Life 6585 S. Yale , Suite 200, Tulsa OK Paragraph 175 Holocaust Commemoration 2014 Equality Gala Saturday, April 26th, 2014; 6:30 pm LGBTI Transitional Youth Survey Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting 4/23/26, 11:54 AM �Firefox 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-2nd--2014.ht... Thursday, April 10th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. OkEq Art Exhibit The April exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Nicole Moan. Counseling Services First Thursday Art Show Reception Thursday, April 3rd, 2014; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The April Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center feature the works of Nicole Moan, in a show beginning with a reception on Thursday, April 3rd, 2014 from 6:00 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:54 AM �Firefox 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-2nd--2014.ht... Counseling Services MOREcolor 2014 Artists Submissions Call for entries; Opening Night June 19th, 2014 MORE color Calling all interested artists ages 18 and over, submissions are now open for the annual MOREcolor Fine Arts Exhibition, a highly anticipated feature of the Tulsa Pride celebration. Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org The Festive and always surprising Opening Night reception will be held June 19th, 2014 at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. It is free and open to the public. To submit your work for the show, click here. The deadline for entry is May 1st, 2014. For more information, visit MOREcolorart.com Workforce Oklahoma Employment Services Thursday, April 3rd, 2014; 1:00 - 4:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center On Thursday, April 3rd, 2014 from 1:00 - 4:00 pm, Carlos with Workforce Oklahoma will be on hand at the Equality Center to offer help to those looking for employment. Carlos will help with career planning, resume building, interview skills and accessing job opportunities. Tulsa Two Spirits Society Gathering April 25th - 28th, 2014 Osage Hills State Park 2131 Osage Hills State Park Road Pawhuska, OK 74056 Counseling Services Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LPC 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:54 AM �Firefox 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-2nd--2014.ht... Counseling Services The Tulsa Two Spirit Society gathering's program will include workshops on traditional and contemporary Native American culture, Pow Wows, stompdancing, celebrations, Native faith, and other related activities. No alcohol, drugs or guns will be allowed. The Tulsa Two Spirits Society is "a non-profit Native American LGBT Collective. We seek to affirm and embody positive traditional and modern Two Spirit identities, and in so doing, be valued members of our communities". For more information on the gathering, download the Tulsa Two Spirit Gathering information packet or just the registration form here. Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Tulsa Pride 2014 Upcoming Events Pride Night at Mojo's - Saturday, April 5th Pride Night at Area 18 - Saturday, April 19th 209 Karaoke Pride Night - Friday, April 25th Pride Night at TNT's - Saturday, May 10th For more information about these events and all upcoming Tulsa Pride events, visit the Tulsa Pride Facebook Event page or www.TulsaPride.org NOH8 Campaign Photo Shoot Sunday, April 13th, 2014; 1:00 - 4:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center On Sunday, April 13th, 2014, the NOH8 Campaign will set up their mobile studio in Tulsa, Oklahoma -- offering Oklahomans a chance to be heard. K9 Boot Camp Every Sunday 1:00 pm The class will consist of minimal lecture/discussion to cover basic principles of how dogs learn, motivation, general information, and questions. Free for Members, $5 for Non Members. Email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org to enroll. Facilitated by Carrie McDowell of Out of the Doghouse, Ltd. Co. SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and 4/23/26, 11:54 AM �Firefox 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-2nd--2014.ht... Oklahomans for Equality and the Tulsa Pride 2014 Committee will host the photo shoot at the Equality Center. The NOH8 Campaign's Tulsa shoot is scheduled to begin on April 13th at 1:00 pm and will end at 4:00 pm. Free parking is available on the streets surrounding the center. Prices are $40.00 for solo portraits and $25.00 per person for couple or group portraits. Interested volunteers should contact the NOH8 Campaign via email at info@NOH8Campaign.com. Additional details can be found at www.noh8campaign.com. RSVP to the photo shoot on Facebook here. ll M ti() I s .. /\ Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org I . • • Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The April Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014 at 6:00 pm, at The Office of Dr. Blane Snodgrass, Tulsa Eye Clinic, 7171 S Yale, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74136. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Dr. Blane Snodgrass Tulsa Eye Clinic 7171 S Yale Tulsa, Oklahoma 74136 The eNews for the week is brought to you by 4/23/26, 11:54 AM �Firefox 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-2nd--2014.ht... EBA Member Business: Massage Time SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Se1Vice, and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders La Cage Aux Folles Cox Business Center Assembly Hall, Cox Business Center April 3, 4, 5 - 7:30 pm April 5, 6 - 2:00 pm - tul aprojecttheatre Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 After twenty years of un-wedded bliss Georges and Albin, two men partnered for better-or-worse get a bit of both when Georges' son announces his impending marriage to the daughter of a bigoted, right-wing politician. Further complicating the situation is the 'family business': Albin and Georges run a drag nightclub in St. Tropez, where Albin is the "star" performer 'Zaza'. Georges reluctantly agrees to masquerade as "normal" when he meets the family of the bride-to-be. But Albin has other plans, with hilarious results. Purchase Tickets Emma's Revolution & Holly Near Friday, April 11th, 2014; 7:30 pm Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average 4/23/26, 11:54 AM �Firefox 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-2nd--2014.ht... All Souls Unitarian Church 2952 S. Peoria Ave Emma Revolution will be accompanying the fabulous Holly Near, along with pianist, Jan Martinelli in Tulsa on Friday, April 11th, 2014 at 7:30 pm. With special, sing-a-long tribute to Pete Seeger $20 advance / $25 at the door available at www.emmasrevolution.com aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. == Phoco by Donn;1 A. koronef University of Central Oklahoma Student Alliance for Equality Ally Week Keynote Speech, Thursday, April 3rd, 2014; 6:00 pm University of Central Oklahoma Nigh University Center Ballroom 100 North University Drive Edmond, OK 73034 On Thursday, April 3rd, 2014 from 6:00 pm to 7:00 pm, Student Alliance For Equality (SAFE) will be hosting Brendon Ayanbadejo, three time pro bowler and super bowl champion, as a keynote speaker on why being an ally of the LGBTQ community is important and the importance of diversity and inclusion in life, including in sports. As part of Ally Week, SAFE is honored to have Brendon as he is very vocal straight ally of the LGBTQ community, and was instrumental in passing Marriage Equality in Maryland. To continue the theme of inclusion in sports, Dr. Pope, University of Central Oklahoma's own Crimson Tide National Champion, will be introducing him. This event is free and open to the public and the keynote address will occur in the Nigh University Center Ballrooms at the University of Central Oklahoma. Rainbow Writers 1st and 3rd Wednesdays 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Thursdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. 4/23/26, 11:54 AM �Firefox 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-2nd--2014.ht... If Britney Spears can party it up in Vegas w ith one of he r boys and go get married on a wh im and annul her marriage the next day, why can 't a loving same sex coup le tie t he knot? How cou ld our society gra nt more rights to a heterosexual one n ight stand wedd ing in Vegas than a gay coup le that has been together for 3, 5, 10 yea rs of t r ue love? - Brendon Aya nbadejo Keynote Address UCO Nigh University Center Ballrooms B&C 6:00 PM Thursday, April 3rd Free and open to the public Two Step & Country Line Dance Thursdays 7:30 pm Kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Free for Members $5 for Non Members SAFE ALLY WEEK Tulsa Growl 2014 May 8th - 11th, 2014 Yoga A - Z The Green Country Bears are proud to sponsor Tulsa Growl on May 8th - 11th, 2014. Tulsa's Best Bear Run will be an event filled weekend so be sure to visit www.tulsagrowl.com and check out the entire schedule and to register. TMSL is looking for Volunteers for their new Up All Night Softball Tourney Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Tulsa Metro Softball League is introducing a new tournament format to the gay leagues this year with their all night tournament. The tournament will start on Good Friday, April 18th, 2014 6:30 pm and play all night long with Championship games playing at 6:30 am Saturday, April 19th, 2014. TMSL is looking for some Tulsans to help out with the event by helping to setup, refill water stations, sell t-shirts, answer questions from our out of town guests and much more! Volunteers will receive a free tournament t-shirt, have access to all player discounts from sponsors for the weekend, and will be invited to attend and enjoy player specials at the closing awards party the evening of Saturday, April 19th, 2014 at Area 18. Please email Daniel Meier at TournamentDirector@TulsaMetroSoftball.com with questions, or click here to sign up. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card 4/23/26, 11:54 AM �Firefox 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-2nd--2014.ht... games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno www.tulsametrosoftball.com Dining Out for Life Thursday, April 24th, 2014; Lunch and Dinner H.O.P.E. is preparing for their Annual DINING OUT FOR LIFE in Tulsa. This year the community will come together on Thursday, April 24th, 2014 to support HIV prevention, testing, and education. Each participating restaurant will give a portion of the proceeds from lunch Dine Oul. Fig_Jil AIDS, and dinner service to H.O.P.E. Get a group of friends together, go out to eat, and support HIV prevention. The more you eat and the more people you invite out to eat, the more money is donated to H.O.P.E. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet For a list of participating restaurants, please visit www.hopetesting.org 'Paragraph 175' screening at Circle Cinema April 27th, 2014; 2:00 pm Circle Cinema 12 S Lewis Sunday, April 27th, 2014; 2:00 pm Historian Klaus M�ller interviews survivors of the Nazi persecution of homosexuals because of the German Penal Code of 1871. Admission price is $7 and tickets are available at circlecinema.com J>,\l\1-\tjHAPH 176 AIOI (PSTEIN &JlrrMY fltCOMAN ,._.. NMIAlO l 't' IUPERT £VH£TT Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org NOT TO BE MISSED ELEGANT ANO POWERFUL I· 17th Annual Interfaith Holocaust Commemoration 4/23/26, 11:54 AM �Firefox 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-2nd--2014.ht... Thursday, May 1st, 2014; 7:00 pm Temple Israel 2004 E 22nd Pl The Tulsa Council for Holocaust Education invites the public to honor the forgotten victims at the 17th Annual Interfaith Holocaust Commemoration on Thursday, May 1st, 2014 at 7:00 pm. at Temple Israel. Dr. Nadine Blumer is the featured speaker and will address the topic, "Forgotten Holocaust Victims: How Germany Remembers the Roma". Blumer recently finished a fellowship at the United States Holocaust Memorial Museum and now is starting a postdoctoral fellowship at the Centre for Ethnographic Research and Exhibition in the Aftermath of Violence at Concordia University in Montreal, Quebec. For more information about this event, please visit jewishtulsa.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday THURSDAY, MAY 1 • 7 P.M. • TEMPLE ISRAEL, 2004 E. 22ND PLACE LGBTI Transitional Youth Online Survey The transitional youth study is a first-of-its-kind effort to raise awareness (especially among Oklahoma state agencies) that LGBTI youth exist in the state and that services are needed to alleviate very real challenges. The online survey is completely anonymous and results will contribute to increased recognition of LGBTI concerns statewide. In exchange for participation, researchers are offering $10 in gift certificate credit redeemable at giftcertificates.com for the first 250 urban and 250 rural participants. If you are 18 - 25 years old, reside in Oklahoma, and identify as LGBTI you may be eligible to participated by going to http://tiny.cc/ oklgbti2. With questions or concerns, please contact Douglas Knutson, at douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events Guiding Right provides testing on Mondays and Fridays 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm 4/23/26, 11:54 AM �Firefox 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-2nd--2014.ht... MISSION: Coronation VII Weekend - April 3-6, 2014 "A Scenic Tour Throughout Time, A Romantic Comedy of Fashions!" Hyatt Regency Downtown Tulsa All Ages Welcome Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information on each days events and to purchase Individual or Full Weekend Ticket Packages, please visit our Coronation VII website page - www.impcourtok.webs.com Equality Center Pride Store Just in time for Spring weather, the Pride Store now has rainbow fedora hats in stock for $10 each. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Earthly Joys' by Philippa Gregory Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Whether he is nurturing a single rare seedling into a blossoming tree or planning acres of exquisitely conceived royal gardens, John Tradescant's fame and skill as a gardener are unsurpassed in seventeenthcentury England. But it is Tradescant's clear-sighted honesty and loyalty that make him an invaluable 4/23/26, 11:54 AM �Firefox 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-2nd--2014.ht... servant, and in his role as informal confidant during garden strolls with Sir Robert Cecil, adviser to King James I, he witnesses the making of history, from the Gunpowder Plot to the accession of King Charles I and the growing animosity between Parliament and court. Tradescant's talents soon come to the attention of the most powerful man in the country, the irresistible Duke of Buckingham, the lover of King Charles I. Tradescant has always been faithful to his masters, but Buckingham is unlike any he has ever known: flamboyant, outrageously charming, and utterly reckless. Every certainty upon which Tradescant has based his life -- his love of his wife and children, his passion for his work, his loyalty to his country -- is shattered as he follows Buckingham to court, to war, and to the forbidden territories of human love. From the details of garden design and innovation to the politics of a growing revolution which was to kill a king and turn a world upside down, Philippa Gregory once again makes history come alive through the people whose passions shaped that world. Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library .,. : . ol nt ru r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:54 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/c05954e834b71fe249aae3f3b355bbd6.pdf 4b90f4dee93ae142c513d46e25294af8 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-10th--2014... eNews January 10th, 2014 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor Maybe Baby East Village Meet Tulsa Metro Basketball Welcome to the eNews. Join us for the OkEq walking entry in the Martin Luther King, Jr. parade on January 20th, 2014 at 10:00 am at the Equality Center. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Dr. Ronald LaButti, DO, FAOAO MLK Jr Parade ACA Assistance Counseling Services EBA King Father for Life, BIll Francisco EBA Sponsor Hips-Knees-Shoulders Foot/Ankle-Sports Medicine Team doctor for Tulsa Threat and Tulsa Crew. Mention this ad for priority scheduling by calling 918-514-3009 or online at www.hipandkneedoc.com 6585 S. Yale, Suite 200, Tulsa OK Maybe Baby? Saturday, January 11th, 2014; 1:00 - 4:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Is your biological clock ticking? Spring will soon be here. Are you thinking, maybe baby? What changes will this bring other than diapers? That romantic dinner for two is now a play date for three in the park. Trade in your night cap for a bottle of warm milk and a burp rag. Need a babysitter? Good luck. Family and Children Services will be giving you the 411 on things to think about before having a baby. This is a free workshop, but we do ask that you RSVP at Gamily@OkEq.org. EBA Fundraiser National Dine for 2-1-1 Day Black Hearts Ball The Cheril Vendetti Experience Unscripted Play Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Research Study Inclement Weather Policy Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook East Village District Meeting Tuesday, January 14th, 2014; 5:30 pm east '!I!J~ge downtown Keep up with the development of the "Sunny Side of Downtown". The East Village District of Tulsa will have a meeting at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Tuesday, January 14th, 2014 at 5:30 pm. Tulsa Metro Basketball League Winter Season Wednesday nights at 7:00 pm Winter Season is through February OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, January 23rd, 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 11:41 AM �Firefox 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-10th--2014... The league plays 3 on 3 games on a half court each Wednesday night through February at 7:00 pm. Tulsa Metro Basketball League is an offical program of OkEq and a member organization of the Equality Sports Alliance of Tulsa. $50 sign up fee. Games are played at the Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center at 2021 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK. Daryn Drake will be the head coach for the new Basketball season. For more information about the league, please contact Basketball@OkEq.org. 2014 Martin Luther King Jr. Memorial Celebration & Parade Monday, January 20th, 2014; 11:00 am John Hope Franklin & Cincinnati 51 years ago, Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. stated, "I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin but by the content of their character". Well, a new dream is that some day our children will not be judged for who they love or the make up of their family. This is a day to recognize equality and unity. GAMILY will be walking as a family in the parade and carrying posters. The plan is to meet at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center by 10:00 am and then carpool to the parade. After the parade, we will be eating as a family; enjoying a meal back at the Equality Center. Please RSVP at Gamily@OkEq.org to be a part of this wonderful gathering. Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. OkEq Art Exhibit The January exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Cristiana Prado Counseling Services Affordable Care Act Assistance Every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health insurance system to find the most affordable coverage that meets the consumer's Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org needs. New Counseling Services Sundays by appointment from 12:00 - 6:00 pm Michal Maybello will be available by appointment on Sundays from 12:00 - 6:00 pm for individual, youth, 4/23/26, 11:41 AM �Firefox 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-10th--2014... adolescent and couples counseling on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC at 918.346.1918 or Maybello@OkEq.org. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook g E UALITY Counseling Services Q!Busmess Alliance The January Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, January 15th, 2014 at 6:00 pm, at Embassy Suites, Embassy Suites, 3332 S. 79th E. Ave. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Embassy Suites 3332 S. 79th E. Ave Tulsa, Oklahoma Bill Francisco announced as King Father for Life 2014 Jos� Honors from the International Court System Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LPC 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org On behalf of Absolute Empress VI Cougar Anne Savon-Ewing Wiley, the Board of Directors, College of Monarchs and membership of the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma, I am pleased to announce that King Father for Life (Prince Consort to Reign VI) Bill ("Clogger Bill") Francisco is one of the recipients of the 2014 Jos� Honors from the International Court System. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee Ths Jos� Honors are named for Jose Julio Sarria, HMIM Absolute Empress I, the founder of the Imperial Court System. They recognize members of the International Court System for their outstanding accomplishments within their respective Court families and throughout their broader community. Empress Cougar Anne and the Board of Directors were pleased to nominate Bill for this honor, both for his service to the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma since its inception, as a trusted advisor, supporter and friend; and for his work in the wider community for many decades, helping to assist those in need. Serving the country as an Army Veteran, Bill helped rebuild Europe after WWII by teaching orphans scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:41 AM �Firefox 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-10th--2014... of war about music and dance. Bill was also one of the founders of the Tulsa Ballet and Tulsa Opera. Tai Chi Class The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Equality Business Alliance Fundraiser Dinner Tuesday, January 21st, 2014; Starting at 6:00 pm Tuesday, January 21st, 2014 Dalesandro's Italian Cuisine 1740 S. Boston Door open at 6:00 pm. Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold 4/23/26, 11:41 AM �Firefox 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-10th--2014... Dalesandro's is hosting a fundraiser for the Equality Business Alliance and will be donating a portion of the sales that night back to the EBA. Make a reservation by calling 918.582.1551. National Dine for 2-1-1 Day Tuesday, February 11th, 2014 Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Tuesdays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Cay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 11:41 AM �Firefox 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-10th--2014... . ■ ~ Ef.,.aM nat 1ona 2-1-1 uay o min~ february 11, 2014 A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Support A Great Non -Profit Service and Eat Well Too! Dine at one of these fabulous restaurants on Tuesday, February 11, 2014 Self Defense Class And they'll donate to the 2-1-1 Hotline! Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Just say 2-1-1 when you order at: BRADY DISTRICT Hey Mambo mam □ o 114 North Boston Ave. DECO DISTRICT DOWNTOWN The Vault 7/v 620 South Cincinnati Ave Mod's Coffee and Crepes 507 South Boston Ave. 31\ Elote Cafe nd Catering ~ f A-1-~. 14 South Boston Ave. ''i ii ~ 5 '1t HP - - , BLUE DOME DISTRICT Dilly Deli 402 East 2nd Street Yokozuna 309 East 2nd Street 'IJ~c>-VV'e The Dust Bowl , , ., ~ ~ • 211 South Elgin ( JAMEs I_,~.y.11 EWE's] James E. McNellie's Pub 409 East 1st Street-Blue Dome p • BROOKSIDE Hibiscus 3316 South Peoria R Bar 3421 South Peoria [-~AM - ES_§_,q_tl_s_.E_W_E '_ sJ SOUTHTULSA Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach James E. McNellie's Pub-South Citv 4/23/26, 11:41 AM �Firefox 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-10th--2014... 7031 South Zurich Avenue Learn more here: www.211tulsa.org 2-6~6. * Black Hearts Ball Friday, February 14th, 2014; 7:30 - 10:30 pm This Valentine's Day... Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. ... -- - Rainbow Writers Cupid can suck it! Friday, February 14th, 2014 at 7:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The Cheril Vendetti Experience 1st and 3rd Wednesdays 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Saturday, February 15th, 2014; 9:00 pm & 10:30 pm ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Thursdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. 4/23/26, 11:41 AM �Firefox 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-10th--2014... Two Step & Country Line Dance Thursdays 7:30 pm Kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Free for Members $5 for Non Members cs~ s10 (i)~rrl~~ 328 E. lST ST, TULSA BETWEEN EL GUAPO'S & S&J' S Unscripted Play January Workshops Yoga A - Z Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Dutch artist Ieke Trinks from the Netherlands, and Tulsa artist Sarah McKemie will offer collaborative workshops in performance and improvisation. Using play, listening, trust and laughter, we will explore selfawareness and discover ways to be in the here and now. The workshops offer a positive and supportive environment. No previous experience in performance or improvisation is necessary. Participants only need a willingness to experiment. The workshops will be documented and culminate in an exhibit at the new Hardesty Arts Center. Dates and times: Workshop will take place at the Equality Center. Date and time for meetings will be determined by the participants and Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play 4/23/26, 11:41 AM �Firefox 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-10th--2014... facilitators. Contact Sarah McKemie to enroll at sarah@sarahmckemie.com or Mary Jones Mary.Jones@OkEq.org To learn more about Ieke and Sarah: ieketrinks.nl some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno sarahmckemie.com Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Empresses of The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma invite you to the 6th Annual Black & White Ball "The Redneck Cinderella Ball" Friday, January 10th, 2014 7:00 pm - Light Buffet 8:00 pm - Show The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet at the Bamboo Lounge in Tulsa For more information, contact impcourt@gmail.com Donations can also be made on the ICAO website www.impcourtok.webs.com Research Study Interested in helping Counselors better serve our community? Once you've been determined to be eligible, you'll complete a phone interview with the researcher that'll last about an hour. After the interview is transcribed, the researcher will send it back to you so you can make sure it's accurate. That's it! What's the interview for? Research is currently being conducted by the University of South Carolina in order to help counselors better understand how their LGBT clients develop their identities. Given that our community has needs that are different and require a specialized set of skills; this research will help to equip Counselors with the tools they need to better help us. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:41 AM �Firefox 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-10th--2014... Ok, who's eligible? We're looking for interviewees who are: 18 years of age or older Women Men and women who identify as a racial minority (African America, Latino/ a, etc.) From the Southeastern United States What's in it for me? By participating, you'll have the opportunity to potentially shift the way in which our community receives mental health care. You'll also be helping to establish the foundation for creating more informed and effective ways for mental health care professionals to treat our community. To volunteer or for more information, just contact: EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Omar Troutman (troutman@mailbox.sc.edu) or call 803.240.8310 Inclement Weather Policy Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In the event of inclement weather you may need to confirm that special events and regularly scheduled programming at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center have not been canceled due to poor road conditions or winter weather advisories. Please contact the Equality Center by calling 918-743-4297 or check the OkEq website: www.okeq.org or OkEq on Facebook. Toby Jenkins, Executive Director of Oklahomans for Equality, will contact the local media so we can be included in the posted weather-related closings. Info will also be posted on Facebook. Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Metro Hottest Firefighters calendars for 2014 are back in stock! They are $10, and the proceeds go to the Tulsa Firefighters Educational Clowns Fund. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: 4/23/26, 11:41 AM �Firefox 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-10th--2014... Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Growing Up Gay; From Left Out to Coming Out' by Funny Gay Males You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Here are all the special things we loved, strategies we adopted, and situations we avoided in making our way toward being officially and at long last Out. Relive with the Funny Gay Males the joy of discovering Dr. Seuss and his gallery of selfconscious misfits. Remember that perfect gay kid hero, Superman, who like many of us left his small town for the big city and a low-paying job in a creative business. Recall the trouble you got into by gravitating to all the "wrong" toys. Be nostalgic about Prom Night, when you wanted to tell your camera-wielding parents that they were right not to pass up their last opportunity to document their son's date with a girl, and about when you developed your first awkward, embarrassing, delirious crush on the boy next door. Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/23/26, 11:41 AM �Firefox 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-10th--2014... •••~ .. Vol 111t er ru SA A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r---------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:41 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/1d54f5b2fc0b8ba7d3c3561a73b0d5a0.pdf d7784483371236b3fcd2c1c8d0ed4b8c PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-16th--2014.ht... eNews April 16th, 2014 In This Issue Oklahoma Marriage --- - -Equality --Lawsuit EBA Sponsor 2014 Equality Gala ---- Welcome to the eNews. Make your plans to attend our Equality Gala on Saturday April 26th, 2014. Purchase a seat or sponsor a table now and find more information at www.okeq.org/gala ---- eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality - 10 Years to the 10th Circuit Send Off Wednesday, April 16th, 2014; 2:00 pm Security Checkpoint, Second Level Tulsa International Airport 7777 E Apache Tulsa, OK 74145 It is a big week in Oklahoma for the LGBT community. Plaintiffs in the Oklahoma Marriage Equality lawsuit head to the 10th Circuit Court of Appeals in Denver. Send off party at the Tulsa International Airport 2:00 pm on Wednesday April 16th. Facebook Event Bring your "proud of you" signs and "best wishes" banners. Assemble at the security checkpoint lobby on the second level at the top of the escalators. Remember...they have been representing all of us for almost 10 years. EBA MOREcolor Tulsa GSA Scholarship Tulsa Two Spirit Gathering Tulsa Pride Leather Fashion Show World Book Night First Thursday Art Show EBA Sponsor Linda Barton Paul Guys Dine Too Tulsa Growl TMSL Volunteers Dining Out for Life Tulsa Pride Flapjack Fundraiser International Family Day Paragraph 175 Holocaust Commemoration LGBTI Transitional Youth Survey Tulsa JOLT Golf Classic Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Howard Doak - Cityscape Home Mortgage 4/23/26, 11:56 AM �Firefox 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-16th--2014.ht... OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, May 15th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. 2014 Equality Gala Saturday, April 26th, 2014; 6:30 pm OkEq Art Exhibit The April exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Nicole Moan. Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:56 AM �Firefox 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-16th--2014.ht... Ticket purchases and sponsorship information Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook I E UALITY QJBusmess Alliance The April Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014 at 6:00 pm, at The Office of Dr. Blane Snodgrass, Tulsa Eye Clinic, 7171 S Yale, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74136. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Dr. Blane Snodgrass Tulsa Eye Clinic 7171 S Yale Tulsa, Oklahoma 74136 MOREcolor 2014 Artists Submissions Call for entries; Opening Night June 19th, 2014 MORE color Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org Calling all interested artists ages 18 and over, submissions are now open for the annual MOREcolor Fine Arts Exhibition, a highly anticipated feature of the Tulsa Pride celebration. The Festive and always surprising Opening Night reception will be held June 19th, 2014 at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. It is free and open to the public. To submit your work for the show, click here. The deadline for entry is May 1st, 2014. For more information, visit MOREcolorart.com Tulsa Gay and Straight Alliance Scholarship Deadline is April 18th, 2014 Counseling Services Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LPC 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:56 AM �Firefox 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-16th--2014.ht... Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee Booker T Washington, Union High School and Central High School participate in a GSA Lock In at the Equality Center The Tulsa Gay and Straight Alliance Scholarship is available for high school seniors in Tulsa County, Oklahoma with overall GPA of at least 2.50, and will demonstrate character, leadership and participation through the school's GSA and in other documented activities. The applicant must get the support from a faculty sponsor of the GSA. Sponsored by the Tulsa Community Foundation. Download the scholarship application here ~ TUL A MMU '- LL' F u DAT! N !TY Tulsa Two Spirits Society Gathering April 25th - 28th, 2014 Osage Hills State Park 2131 Osage Hills State Park Road Pawhuska, OK 74056 scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org - - --- K9 Boot Camp Every Sunday 1:00 pm The class will consist of minimal lecture/discussion to cover basic principles of how dogs learn, motivation, general information, and questions. Free for Members, $5 for Non Members. Email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org - - --to enroll. Facilitated by Carrie McDowell of Out of the Doghouse, Ltd. Co. SOS Group The Tulsa Two Spirit Society gathering's program will include workshops on traditional and contemporary Native American culture, Pow Wows, stompdancing, celebrations, Native faith, and other related activities. No alcohol, drugs or guns will be allowed. Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and 4/23/26, 11:56 AM �Firefox 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-16th--2014.ht... The Tulsa Two Spirits Society is "a non-profit Native American LGBT Collective. We seek to affirm and embody positive traditional and modern Two Spirit identities, and in so doing, be valued members of our communities". For more information on the gathering, download the Tulsa Two Spirit Gathering information packet or just the registration form here. Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Tulsa Pride 2014 Upcoming Events I • : I I - Patio Party at Area 18 - Saturday, April 19th 209 Karaoke Pride Night - Friday, April 25th Pride Night at TNT's - Saturday, May 10th Tulsa Pride Flapjack Fundraiser - Saturday, May 17th For more information about these events and all upcoming Tulsa Pride events, visit the Tulsa Pride Facebook Event page or www.TulsaPride.org I Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold ~/J p TU LSA A d Live Free! Coming Out Workshop e 2014 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather HEFLECTICll\lS STONE' 1 ~ OF I> HI I) I: \l\f ALL ,., World Book Night On the Evening of Wednesday, April 23rd, 2014 On one magical evening 25,000 book givers will spread ARMISTEAD the love of reading across the nation. Cindy Hulsey, from the Tulsa City-County Library, will share some love at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center by giving away 20 copies of Tales of the City by Armistead Maupin. And if you crave more, TCCL has thousands more you can read, listen to, or download for free. MAUPIN Also available that evening, Code Name Verity by Elizabeth Wein. Donated by Miranda Dawson, this historical fiction novel takes place during WWII. It's part epistolary and focuses on two girls, Maddie and Verity, who are involved in the war and best friends. 4/23/26, 11:56 AM �Firefox 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-16th--2014.ht... ,. ... , ,,, ,,,, ,.,,- If you haven't read a book for pleasure lately this is your ~- opportunity to pick up a free book! I 1 1 / \ l l ! I I \\11, l For more information on World Book Night, visit here First Thursday Art Gallery Reception Thursday, May 1st, 2014; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The May Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Ted Holland, in a show beginning with a reception on Thursday, May 1st, 2014 from 6:00 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage - Service, and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders Tulsa Area Prime Timers The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Linda Barton Paul - Music @ 501 Concert Series Sunday, April 27th, 2014; 7:30 pm Trinity Episcopal Church 501 S Cincinnati Tulsa, OK 74013 As part of the Music@51 Concert Series, Linda Barton Paul will perform BACH TO BRUBECK! On Sunday, April 27th, 2014 at 7:30 pm, Linda will play music you never Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average 4/23/26, 11:56 AM �Firefox 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-16th--2014.ht... thought you would hear on the harp. Linda Paul, a native of Tulsa, Oklahoma, has played the harp professionally since 1970. She has toured across the United States and around the world, teaches master classes at Harp Festivals and has recorded 14 CDs. General Admission at the door is $20 Student and Senior admission is $10 For more information or to purchase advance tickets, visit here Guys Dine Too Tuesday, May 6th, 2014; 6:30 pm The May meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Fuji's on Brookside on Tuesday, May 6th, 2014 at 6:30 pm. Fuji's on Brookside is located at 3739 S. Peoria Ave Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. == Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. Tulsa Growl 2014 May 8th - 11th, 2014 The Green Country Bears are proud to sponsor Tulsa Growl on May 8th - 11th, 2014. Tulsa's Best Bear Run will be an event filled weekend so be sure to visit www.tulsagrowl.com and check out the entire schedule and to register. TMSL is looking for Volunteers for their new Up All Night Softball Tourney Tulsa Metro Softball League is introducing a new tournament format to the gay leagues this year with their all night tournament. The tournament will start on Good Friday, April 18th, 2014 6:30 pm and play all night long with Championship games playing at 6:30 am Saturday, April 19th, 2014. TMSL is looking for some Tulsans to help out with the event by helping to setup, refill water stations, sell t-shirts, answer questions from our out of town guests and much more! Rainbow Writers 1st and 3rd Wednesdays 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Thursdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Volunteers will receive a free tournament t-shirt, have access to all player discounts from sponsors for the weekend, and will be invited to attend and 4/23/26, 11:56 AM �Firefox 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-16th--2014.ht... enjoy player specials at the closing awards party the evening of Saturday, April 19th, 2014 at Area 18. Two Step & Country Line Dance Please email Daniel Meier at TournamentDirector@TulsaMetroSoftball.com with questions, or click here to sign up. Thursdays 7:30 pm Kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Free for Members $5 for Non Members www.tulsametrosoftball.com Yoga A - Z Dining Out for Life Thursday, April 24th, 2014; Lunch and Dinner H.O.P.E. is preparing for their Annual DINING OUT FOR LIFE in Tulsa. This year the community will come together on Thursday, April 24th, 2014 to support HIV prevention, testing, and education. Each participating restaurant will give a portion of the proceeds from lunch Dine Out. t'igJ1t AIDS, and dinner service to H.O.P.E. Dinin ( Get a group of friends together, go out to eat, and support HIV prevention. The more you eat and the more people you invite out to eat, the more money is donated to H.O.P.E. For a list of participating restaurants, please visit www.hopetesting.org Applebee's - Tulsa Pride Flapjack Raiser Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Saturday, May 17th, 2014; 8:00 - 10:00 am Applebee's 9409 E 71st St Tulsa, OK 74133 Applebee$ Join us at the Applebees on 71st for a fun & family-friendly Tulsa Pride Fundraiser. Buy tickets online here. $10 for a great pancake breakfast to help fund Tulsa Pride! International Family Day Sunday, May 4th, 2014 The Family Equality Council has invited the OkEq Gamily Program to participate in the International Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card 4/23/26, 11:56 AM �Firefox 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-16th--2014.ht... Family Day on Sunday, May 4th, 2014. Gamily wants to show other communities and the world how beautiful families are. Everyone is welcome to come. Let's get together for a free game of laser tag. Donated by Laser Quest. games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno LASU<'.. Q VcST There is a limited number of spaces, please RSVP by emailing at Gamily@OkEq.org or call Mary Jones 918.743.4297. 'Paragraph 175' screening at Circle Cinema Sunday, April 27th, 2014; 2:00 pm Circle Cinema 12 S Lewis Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Sunday, April 27th, 2014; 2:00 pm Historian Klaus M�ller interviews survivors of the Nazi persecution of homosexuals because of the German Penal Code of 1871. Admission price is $7 and tickets are available at circlecinema.com NOT TO BE MISSED ELEGANT AND POWERFUL' · 17th Annual Interfaith Holocaust Commemoration Thursday, May 1st, 2014; 7:00 pm Temple Israel 2004 E 22nd Pl The Tulsa Council for Holocaust Education invites the public to honor the forgotten victims at the 17th Annual Interfaith Holocaust Commemoration on Thursday, May 1st, 2014 at 7:00 pm. at Temple Israel. Dr. Nadine Blumer is the featured speaker and will address the topic, "Forgotten Holocaust Victims: How Germany Remembers the Roma". Blumer recently finished a fellowship at the United States Holocaust Memorial Museum and now is starting a postdoctoral fellowship at the Centre for Ethnographic Research and Exhibition in the Aftermath of Violence at Concordia University in Montreal, Quebec. For more information about this event, please visit jewishtulsa.org Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:56 AM �Firefox 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-16th--2014.ht... ,nt.:'='::E~"" REME RG I, - VY,:§V L C u T-==-- THE 'V 2014 INTERFAITH HOLOCAUST COMMEMORATION THURSDAY, MAY 1 • 7 P.M. • TEMPLE ISRAEL, 2004 E. 22ND PLACE EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. LGBTI Transitional Youth Online Survey The transitional youth study is a first-of-its-kind effort to raise awareness (especially among Oklahoma state agencies) that LGBTI youth exist in the state and that services are needed to alleviate very real challenges. The online survey is completely anonymous and results will contribute to increased recognition of LGBTI concerns statewide. In exchange for participation, researchers are offering $10 in gift certificate credit redeemable at giftcertificates.com for the first 250 urban and 250 rural participants. If you are 18 - 25 years old, reside in Oklahoma, and identify as LGBTI you may be eligible to participated by going to http://tiny.cc/ oklgbti2. With questions or concerns, please contact Douglas Knutson, at douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Tulsa JOLT Golf Classic Saturday, May 3rd, 2014; 8:00 am The Canyons at Blackjack Ridge 1801 N McKinley Ave Tulsa, OK 74063 8:00 am Shotgun Start $75 per player or $300 per team 4-Man Team Scramble format Registration is open; contact Curtis Austin curtisaustin33@hotmail.com or Al Warren at 918.361.8739 Cash prizes for 1st, 2nd and 3rd place teams Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Mondays and Fridays 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm 4/23/26, 11:56 AM �Firefox 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-16th--2014.ht... T GOLF CLA AT T ~ CANYONS AT 131.J\CIQ KRIPG~ 1101N, MCl<lNLF! ~VE SANP SPRIN<iS, QK 74P63 SATURDAY, MAY 3RD 8:00 A.M. SHOTGUN START - - - - $75 PER PLAYER/ $300 PER TEAM -·-- 4-MAN TEAM - SCRAMBLE FORMAT RE~ITTIIATlON IS OPEN NOW II CONTACT: :'~~~~::.~ P7YE M¥ 'l'OU CAH.t.UORNDUSON MallOOll:.TIJlSAKM.T ~H fUZES QR 1sr, 2• 0 AND 3°0 PLAC~ nAMS FFLE PRIZESIII MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Equality Center Pride Store The Pride Store is proud to be carrying 'Tulsa is Fabulous' tees ($20) by local artist Zach Raw. At the moment, sizes M, XL and 2X in assorted colors are available, and soon all sizes S through 2X. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Dual Attraction; Understanding Bisexuality' by Martin S. Weinberg, Colin Williams and Douglas Pryor Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/23/26, 11:56 AM �Firefox 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-16th--2014.ht... For the past two generations, extensive research has been conducted on the determinants of homosexuality. But, until now, scant attention has been paid to what is perhaps the most mysterious--and potentially illuminating--variation of human sexual expression, bisexuality. Today, as ignorance and fear of AIDS makes greater awareness of all forms of sexual behavior an urgent matter of private and public consequence, leading sex researchers Martin Weinberg, Colin Williams, and Douglas Pryor provide us with the first major study of bisexuality. [!,nrrrr. tS • • u !!!, -· '=il @ "-.: Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! TU A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:56 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/95138146452b20430cbf8785998657e8.pdf db7ac3009976dba65376d0a877d7044c PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-25th--2014.ht... eNews April 25th, 2014 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor Programming Paragraph 175 First Thursday Art Show Welcome to the eNews. We can't wait to see everyone at the Equality Gala this Saturday! eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality MOREcolor Tulsa Pride Leather Fashion Show EBA The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time Linda Barton Paul Guys Dine Too Tulsa Growl Tulsa Pride Flapjack Fundraiser Holocaust Commemoration International Family Day LGBTI Transitional Youth Survey Tulsa JOLT Golf Classic Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Programming Note The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will close at 5:00 pm on Saturday, April 26th for the 2014 Equality Gala. We will reopen at 12:00 pm on Sunday, April 27th. Find Us on Facebook 'Paragraph 175' screening at Circle Cinema Sunday, April 27th, 2014; 2:00 pm Circle Cinema 12 S Lewis Sunday, April 27th, 2014; 2:00 pm Historian Klaus M�ller interviews survivors of the Nazi persecution of homosexuals because of the German Penal Code of 1871. Admission price is $7 and tickets are available at circlecinema.com OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, May 15th, 7:00 pm J>,\l\J.\tjHAPH 176 A 101 (PS'TUH & Jlff'IIIY flMCDMAN ru IIIMUTD IY IUP£RT Ml!ETT Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days 4/23/26, 11:58 AM �Firefox 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-25th--2014.ht... NOT TO BE MISSED ELEGANT AND POWERFUL'. First Thursday Art Gallery Reception Thursday, May 1st, 2014; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The May Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Ted Holland, in a show beginning with a reception on Thursday, May 1st, 2014 from 6:00 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. after meeting date. OkEq Art Exhibit The April exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Nicole Moan. Counseling Services MOREcolor 2014 Artists Submissions Call for entries; Opening Night June 19th, 2014 MORE color Calling all interested artists ages 18 and over, submissions are now open for the annual MOREcolor Fine Arts Exhibition, a highly anticipated feature of the Tulsa Pride celebration. The Festive and always surprising Opening Night reception will be held June 19th, 2014 at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. It is free and open to the public. To submit your work for the show, click here. The deadline for entry is May 1st, 2014. Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org For more information, visit MOREcolorart.com Tulsa Pride 2014 Upcoming Events Counseling Services 4/23/26, 11:58 AM �Firefox 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-25th--2014.ht... p·'Ade EvENTS FOR EvERYBoov 209 Karaoke Pride Night ~ TNT's Pride Night 5/17 Pride Flapjack Fundraise End Up Pride Night Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org Tulsa Pride Zoo Day Interfaith Service Poolside Pride PFLAG Pride Brun Counseling Services Council Oa TulsaShoc Eric Himan For more information about these events and all upcoming Tulsa Pride events, visit the Tulsa Pride Facebook Event page or www.TulsaPride.org Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LPC 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org A ide ~/J p TU LS 2014 HEFLECTICl l\lS STONE' oF I> I~ I I) I: \f\f ALL I" "., Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and 4/23/26, 11:58 AM �Firefox 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-25th--2014.ht... couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org K9 Boot Camp Every Sunday 1:00 pm The class will consist of minimal lecture/discussion to cover basic principles of how dogs learn, motivation, general information, and questions. Free for Members, $5 for Non Members. Email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org to enroll. Facilitated by Carrie McDowell of Out of the Doghouse, Ltd. Co. Registration is open for booth and parade entries Click here to register Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The May Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, May 21st, 2014 at 6:00 pm, at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St, Tulsa OK 74120. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Linda Barton Paul - Music @ 501 Concert Series Sunday, April 27th, 2014; 7:30 pm Grieving Well 4/23/26, 11:58 AM �Firefox 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-25th--2014.ht... Trinity Episcopal Church 501 S Cincinnati Tulsa, OK 74013 As part of the Music@51 Concert Series, Linda Barton Paul will perform BACH TO BRUBECK! On Sunday, April 27th, 2014 at 7:30 pm, Linda will play music you never thought you would hear on the harp. Linda Paul, a native of Tulsa, Oklahoma, has played the harp professionally since 1970. She has toured across the United States and around the world, teaches master classes at Harp Festivals and has recorded 14 CDs. General Admission at the door is $20 Student and Senior admission is $10 For more information or to purchase advance tickets, visit here Guys Dine Too 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Tuesday, May 6th, 2014; 6:30 pm The May meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Fuji's on Brookside on Tuesday, May 6th, 2014 at 6:30 pm. Fuji's on Brookside is located at 3739 S. Peoria Ave Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. Tulsa Growl 2014 May 8th - 11th, 2014 SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) The Green Country Bears are proud to sponsor Tulsa Growl on May 8th - 11th, 2014. Tulsa's Best Bear Run will be an event filled weekend so be sure to visit www.tulsagrowl.com and check out the entire schedule and to register. Applebee's - Tulsa Pride Flapjack Raiser Saturday, May 17th, 2014; 8:00 - 10:00 am Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders 4/23/26, 11:58 AM �Firefox 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-25th--2014.ht... Applebee's 9409 E 71st St Tulsa, OK 74133 Awlebees Join us at the Applebees on 71st for a fun & family-friendly Tulsa Pride Fundraiser. Buy tickets online here. $10 for a great pancake breakfast to help fund Tulsa Pride! 17th Annual Interfaith Holocaust Commemoration Thursday, May 1st, 2014; 7:00 pm Temple Israel 2004 E 22nd Pl The Tulsa Council for Holocaust Education invites the public to honor the forgotten victims at the 17th Annual Interfaith Holocaust Commemoration on Thursday, May 1st, 2014 at 7:00 pm. at Temple Israel. Dr. Nadine Blumer is the featured speaker and will address the topic, "Forgotten Holocaust Victims: How Germany Remembers the Roma". Blumer recently finished a fellowship at the United States Holocaust Memorial Museum and now is starting a postdoctoral fellowship at the Centre for Ethnographic Research and Exhibition in the Aftermath of Violence at Concordia University in Montreal, Quebec. For more information about this event, please visit jewishtulsa.org Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Boot Camp THURSDAY, MAY 1 • 7 P.M. • TEMPLE ISRAEL, 2004 E. 22ND PLACE International Family Day Sunday, May 4th, 2014 The Family Equality Council has invited the OkEq Gamily Program to participate in the International Family Day on Sunday, May 4th, 2014. Gamily wants to show other communities and the world how beautiful families are. Everyone is welcome to come. Let's get together for a free game of laser tag. Donated by Laser Quest. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for 4/23/26, 11:58 AM �Firefox 7 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-25th--2014.ht... There is a limited number of spaces, please RSVP by emailing at Gamily@OkEq.org or call Mary Jones 918.743.4297. transgender and intersex individuals. LGBTI Transitional Youth Online Survey The transitional youth study is a first-of-its-kind effort to raise awareness (especially among Oklahoma state agencies) that LGBTI youth exist in the state and that services are needed to alleviate very real challenges. The online survey is completely anonymous and results will contribute to increased recognition of LGBTI concerns statewide. In exchange for participation, researchers are offering $10 in gift certificate credit redeemable at giftcertificates.com for the first 250 urban and 250 rural participants. If you are 18 - 25 years old, reside in Oklahoma, and identify as LGBTI you may be eligible to participated by going to http://tiny.cc/ oklgbti2. With questions or concerns, please contact Douglas Knutson, at douglas.knutson@okstate.edu - - Rainbow Writers 1st and 3rd Wednesdays 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Tulsa JOLT Golf Classic Saturday, May 3rd, 2014; 8:00 am Open AA Group The Canyons at Blackjack Ridge 1801 N McKinley Ave Tulsa, OK 74063 Thursdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. 8:00 am Shotgun Start $75 per player or $300 per team 4-Man Team Scramble format Registration is open; contact Curtis Austin curtisaustin33@hotmail.com or Al Warren at 918.361.8739 Cash prizes for 1st, 2nd and 3rd place teams TGOLFC A AT TH~ CANYON$ J 131.ACIQ 1101N, MCKINLEY f,.VE MNP SPRIN~S, QK 741>63 SATURDAY, M~ 3RD 8:00 A.M. SHOTGUN START - - - - $75 PER PLAYER/ $300 PER TEAM -·-- 4-MAN TEAM - SCRAMBLE FORMAT RE~ISTIIATION IS OPEN NOWII CONTACT: ~':!~~~N•:,11: ' ! J :Rrm¥¥ T¥ YOU CANAUOFIHDUSON fACHOOIC.TVl.SA.IOI.T ~H IZES QR 151, 2• 0 AND 3•0 P CE TEAMS RAFFLE PRIZESIII Yoga A - Z Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members 4/23/26, 11:58 AM �Firefox 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-25th--2014.ht... Equality Center Pride Store The Pride Store is proud to be carrying 'Tulsa is Fabulous' tees ($20) by local artist Zach Raw. At the moment, sizes M, XL and 2X in assorted colors are available, and soon all sizes S through 2X. $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Game Night Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'A Family of His Own' by Sean Michael You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Will's a widower with three little girls, including six month old twins, to look after. Most days it's all Will can do just to get home from his advertising job in time for goodnight kisses, but now his mother-in-law is leaving the country with her new boyfriend and Will needs the help of a professional nanny. Benji loves being a nanny; looking after other people's kids is the next best thing to having his own, and as a gay man, he figures it's as close as he's going to get. He's between jobs and is thrilled when he gets the call from Mannies Incorporated to interview with Will's family. He falls in love with the girls right away, but also finds himself attracted to their father. Benji knows he shouldn't moon over his boss, especially when Will desperately really needs his services as a nanny, but he can't help but wonder what it would be like to have a family of his own. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet 4/23/26, 11:58 AM �Firefox 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-25th--2014.ht... Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library ol nt ru r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with 4/23/26, 11:58 AM �Firefox 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-25th--2014.ht... Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Mondays and Fridays 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:58 AM �Firefox 11 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-25th--2014.ht... Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org r----------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:58 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/8c43ffb1d4e931a985221e5b1ce1845e.pdf bbf51dce2d6b95a332d34c7da1198f2e PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-30th--2014.ht... eNews April 30th, 2014 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor First Thursday Art Show MOREcolor Holocaust Commemoration Welcome to the eNews. Tulsa Pride is Saturday, June 7th and Sunday June 8th. Be sure to check TulsaPride.org for all of the Pride celebration events. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Tulsa Pride Leather Fashion Show The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time Tulsa Pride 2014 Spoken Word Event Tulsa Pride Flapjack Fundraiser Interfaith Service Pride in the Ballpark EBA Guys Dine Too Tulsa Growl SAGE Tulsa Tour International Family Day COMC Pride Performance COuncil Oak Mens Chorale Tulsa JOLT Golf Classic LGBTI Transitional Youth Survey First Thursday Art Gallery Reception Thursday, May 1st, 2014; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The May Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Ted Holland, in a show beginning with a reception on Thursday, May 1st, 2014 from 6:00 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, 4/23/26, 11:58 AM �Firefox 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-30th--2014.ht... May 15th, 7:00 pm MOREcolor 2014 Artists Submissions Call for entries; Opening Night June 19th, 2014 MORE color Calling all interested artists ages 18 and over, submissions are now open for the annual MOREcolor Fine Arts Exhibition, a highly anticipated feature of the Tulsa Pride celebration. Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. The Festive and always surprising Opening Night reception will be held June 19th, 2014 at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. It is free and open to the public. To submit your work for the show, click here. The deadline for entry is May 1st, 2014. For more information, visit MOREcolorart.com OkEq Art Exhibit The May exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Ted Holland. 17th Annual Interfaith Holocaust Commemoration Thursday, May 1st, 2014; 7:00 pm Temple Israel 2004 E 22nd Pl The Tulsa Council for Holocaust Education invites the public to honor the forgotten victims at the 17th Annual Interfaith Holocaust Commemoration on Thursday, May 1st, 2014 at 7:00 pm. at Temple Israel. Dr. Nadine Blumer is the featured speaker and will address the topic, "Forgotten Holocaust Victims: How Germany Remembers the Roma". Blumer recently finished a fellowship at the United States Holocaust Memorial Museum and now is starting a postdoctoral fellowship at the Centre for Ethnographic Research and Exhibition in the Aftermath of Violence at Concordia University in Montreal, Quebec. For more information about this event, please visit jewishtulsa.org ,nt.:'=~~"" REME RG I, r " V~:§V L C u T-=--- THE 'V 2014 INTERFAITH HOLOCAUST COMMEMORATION THURSDAY, MAY 1 • 7 P.M. • TEMPLE ISRAEL, 2004 E. 22ND PLACE Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org Perspectives: Words and their Consequences Saturday, May 3rd, 2014; 7:00 pm Saturday, May 3rd Opening acts | 7:00 pm Lauren Zuniga | 9:00 pm Foolish Things Coffee | 1001 S. Main St. Free to attend | RSVP via Eventbrite Refreshments included TYPros Tulsa Young Professional's Diversity Crew is having their Spoken Word : 4/23/26, 11:58 AM �Firefox 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-30th--2014.ht... Diversity Perspective event this Saturday at Foolish Things Coffee Company. Internationally touring poet Lauren Zuniga is the event headliner with Louder Than a Bomb finalist, Cypher 120 Poets, and Battle of the Bands winner Magic Pageant performing as opening acts. Performances start at 7 and the event is free to the public. Tulsa Pride 2014 Saturday June 7th and Sunday June 8th, 2014 Everything you need to know about Tulsa Pride is here and on www.tulsapride.org Check for Tulsa Pride on Facebook for any last minute updates! Friday, MAY 31st - At the Beach Tulsa Pride Poolside Party Saturday, JUNE 7th - Street Festival and Parade Sunday, JUNE 8th - Pride in the Park presented by Tulsa Shock VOLUNTEER! Be part of Tulsa Pride 2014 by volunteering a couple of hours and receive a free Pride Staff T-shirt, make some great friends, free lunch and get a behind the scenes look at Tulsa Pride. Many different times and areas are available. Sign Up online: VOLUNTEER FORM Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org T U L S A e 2014 Counseling Services l~ErLE*.,TICJI IS STCJ, E () F I I 11 1= "'ALL Registration is open for booth and parade entries Click here to register Applebee's - Tulsa Pride Flapjack Raiser Saturday, May 17th, 2014; 8:00 - 10:00 am Applebee's 9409 E 71st St Tulsa, OK 74133 Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LPC 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org Awlebees Join us at the Applebees on 71st for a fun & family-friendly Tulsa Pride 4/23/26, 11:58 AM �Firefox 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-30th--2014.ht... Fundraiser. Buy tickets online here. $10 for a great pancake breakfast to help fund Tulsa Pride! Tulsa Pride 2014 Upcoming Events • Pride Night at TNT's - May 10th at 9:00 pm • Pride Night at End Up - May 17th at 4:00 pm BBQ Dinner Fundraiser • Tulsa Pride Zoo Day - Saturday, May 24th Details about these events and more are available on the Tulsa Pride smartphone app or www.tulsapride.org or Tulsa Pride's Facebook 2014 Tulsa Pride Interfaith Service Thursday, May 29th, 2014; 7:30 pm Tulsa Pride Interfaith Service Phillips Theological Seminary 901 N Mingo Rd The 2014 Interfaith Service will be hosted by Phillips Theological Seminary on Thursday May 29th, 2013 at 7:00 pm. PTS is located at 901 N Mingo Rd. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Clergy and Spiritual leaders from Tulsa's affirming and inclusive Faith communities and several choirs and ensembles participate in this annual event. Rev Bob Lawrence is the organizer for this year's Interfaith Service. The highlight of the Interfaith Service is the blessing of Pride Flag. Please join the LGBT community as we celebrate the spiritual diversity of Tulsa. K9 Boot Camp Double Header 'Pride in the Ballpark' Charity Softball Game Sunday, June 1st, 2014; 2:05 pm Every Sunday 1:00 pm The class will consist of minimal lecture/discussion to cover basic principles of how dogs learn, motivation, general information, and questions. Free for Members, $5 for Non Members. Email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org to enroll. Facilitated by Carrie McDowell of Out of the Doghouse, Ltd. Co. SOS Group PURCHASE TICKETS AT: OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY, DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER, 621 EAST 4TH STREET, TULSA, OK 74120, 918-743-4297 Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and 4/23/26, 11:58 AM �Firefox 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-30th--2014.ht... Come attend the Second Annual Chairty Softball Challenge 'Pride in the Ballpark' Double Header at ONEOK Field on Sunday, June 1st, 2014. First game starts at 2:05 pm. See the Tulsa Drillers play against the Midland Rockhounds and stay after for the OkEq Tulsa Hit Crew play against the Tulsa Firefighters Team. Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Tickets are available for $10.00 at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Proceeds from ticket sales will benefit the Equality Sports Alliance and the Tulsa Firefighter Educational Clown Program. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The May Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, May 21st, 2014 at 6:00 pm, at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St, Tulsa OK 74120. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Guys Dine Too Tuesday, May 6th, 2014; 6:30 pm The May meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Fuji's on Brookside on Tuesday, May 6th, 2014 at 6:30 pm. Fuji's on Brookside is located at 3739 S. Peoria Ave Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Tulsa Growl 2014 May 8th - 11th, 2014 The Green Country Bears are proud to sponsor Tulsa Growl on May 8th - 11th, 2014. Tulsa's Best Bear Run will be an event filled weekend so be sure to visit www.tulsagrowl.com and check out the entire schedule and to register. 4/23/26, 11:58 AM �Firefox 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-30th--2014.ht... SAGE Tulsa visits KOTV Channel 6 Tuesday, May 27th, 2014; 10:00 am On Tuesday, May 27th, 2014, the SAGE Tulsa group will be treated to a tour of the Griffin Communications Media Center at 303 N Boston Ave and home of KOTV Channel 6. The group will meet at the Equality Center at 10:00 am and then head off for the tour. Please RSVP to SAGE@OkEq.org if you would like to attend. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders International Family Day Sunday, May 4th, 2014 The Family Equality Council has invited the OkEq Gamily Program to participate in the International Family Day on Sunday, May 4th, 2014. Gamily wants to show other communities and the world how beautiful families are. Everyone is welcome to come. Let's get together for a free game of laser tag. Donated by Laser Quest. There is a limited number of spaces, please RSVP by emailing at Gamily@OkEq.org or call Mary Jones 918.743.4297. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Council Oak Mens Chorale Pride Performance Wednesday, June 4th, 2014; 7:00 pm Hardesty Regional Library 8316 E 93 St, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74133 Council Oak Mens Chorale will present their annual Pride performance at the Hardesty Regional Library Wednesday, June 4th, 2014 at 7:00 pm. This will be a FREE event. www.counciloak.org Council Oak Mens Chorale Summer Concert 'Be Our Guest' - A Disney Extravaganza! Thursday, June 5th and Friday, June 6th, 2014; 8:00 pm Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average 4/23/26, 11:58 AM �Firefox 7 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-30th--2014.ht... Thursday, June 5th and Friday, June 6th, 2014 Gussman Concert Hall - Lorton Performance Center, University of Tulsa Campus 550 S Gary Place, Tulsa, OK Council Oak Mens Chorale's 16th summer season, entitled Be Our Guest! (A Disney Extravaganza) council oak features the men of Council Oak Men's Chorale and council oak mens chorole guest artist Eric Himan. The concert includes music from beloved Disney movies, including songs from Beauty and the Beast, Aladdin, Jungle Book, Monster, Inc., Little Mermaid, Tangled, Tarzan, Lion King, Hercules, and others. Tickets are $20.00 available online or at the door. Tulsa JOLT Golf Classic Saturday, May 3rd, 2014; 8:00 am The Canyons at Blackjack Ridge 1801 N McKinley Ave Tulsa, OK 74063 8:00 am Shotgun Start $75 per player or $300 per team 4-Man Team Scramble format Registration is open; contact Curtis Austin curtisaustin33@hotmail.com or Al Warren at 918.361.8739 Cash prizes for 1st, 2nd and 3rd place teams T GOLF CLA AT TH~ CAN QNS AT ~1-ACl<J CK RIPG~ 1101N. r,,cKINLEY ~Vf. SANP SPRINGS, QIS 74!163 SATURDAY, M~ 3RD 8:00 A.M . SHOTGUN START $75 PER PLAYER/ $300 PER TEAM 4-MAN TEAM - SCRAMBLE FORMAT REGISTRATION IS OPEN NOWII CONTACT: ~r:~~~::.'!'i~ ~lleHOl'.M,-COM aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Rainbow Writers 1st and 3rd Wednesdays 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend 'IOU CANALJOflHDIJSOfrol flloalOOK•TlJLSAIOLT ZES FOR st, 2• 0 AND 3•0 PLAl:E TEA 5 RAFFLE PRIZES II I LGBTI Transitional Youth Online Survey The transitional youth study is a first-of-its-kind effort to raise awareness (especially among Oklahoma state agencies) that LGBTI youth exist in the state and that services are needed to alleviate very real challenges. The online survey is completely anonymous and results will contribute to increased recognition of LGBTI concerns statewide. In exchange for participation, researchers are offering $10 in gift certificate credit redeemable at giftcertificates.com for the first 250 urban and 250 rural participants. If you are 18 - 25 years old, reside in Oklahoma, and identify as LGBTI you may be eligible to participated by going to http://tiny.cc/ oklgbti2. With questions or concerns, please contact Douglas Knutson, at douglas.knutson@okstate.edu ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Thursdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. 4/23/26, 11:58 AM �Firefox 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-30th--2014.ht... Yoga A - Z Equality Center Pride Store The Pride Store is proud to be carrying 'Tulsa is Fabulous' tees ($20) by local artist Zach Raw. All sizes S through 2X. Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'The Last Deployment: How a Gay, Hammer-Swinging Twentysomething Survived a Year in Iraq' by Bronson Lemer You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno In 2003, after serving five and a half years as a carpenter in a North Dakota National Guard engineer unit, Bronson Lemer was ready to leave the military behind. But six months short of completing his commitment to the army, Lemer was deployed on a yearlong tour of duty to Iraq. Leaving college life behind in the Midwest, he yearns for a lost love and quietly dreams of a future as an openly gay man outside the military. He discovers that his father's lifelong example of silent strength has taught him 4/23/26, 11:58 AM �Firefox 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-30th--2014.ht... much about being a man, and these lessons help him survive in a war zone and to conceal his sexuality, as he is required to do by the U.S. military. The Last Deployment is a moving, provocative chronicle of one soldier's struggle to reconcile military brotherhood with self-acceptance. Lemer captures the absurd nuances of a soldier's daily life: growing a mustache to disguise his fear, wearing pantyhose to battle sand fleas, and exchanging barbs with Iraqis while driving through Baghdad. But most strikingly, he describes the poignant reality faced by gay servicemen and servicewomen, who must mask their identities while serving a country that disowns them. Often funny, sometimes anguished, The Last Deployment paints a deeply personal portrait of war in the twenty-first century. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library ru r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. 4/23/26, 11:58 AM �Firefox 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-30th--2014.ht... Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Mondays and Fridays 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/23/26, 11:58 AM �Firefox 11 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-30th--2014.ht... Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org . ~ r----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:58 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/085b7765d0ae084b87007e077820dfd6.pdf f73b14b2018660494728fab45b68e918 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-8th--2014.html... eNews May 8th, 2014 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor Tulsa Pride Flapjack Fundraiser Welcome to the eNews. Tulsa Pride is Saturday, June 7th and Sunday June 8th. Be sure to check TulsaPride.org for all of the Pride celebration events. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time East Village 2nd Saturday Fest MOREcolor Tulsa Pride Leather Fashion Show Tulsa Pride 2014 Parade Color Guard Interfaith Service Give Out Day The Blue Ball Pride in the Ballpark EBA Tulsa Growl SAGE Tulsa Tour COMC Pride Performance COuncil Oak Mens Chorale Out in the Workplace LGBTI Transitional Youth Survey Pride Store Applebee's - Tulsa Pride Flapjack Raiser Saturday, May 17th, 2014; 8:00 - 10:00 am Rainbow Library Volunteer Applebee's 9409 E 71st St Tulsa, OK 74133 Find Us on Facebook Join us at the Applebees on 71st for a fun & family-friendly Tulsa Pride Fundraiser. Buy tickets online here. $10 for a great pancake breakfast to help fund Tulsa Pride! East Village Second Saturday Street Festival Saturday, May 10th, 2014; 11:00 am - 4:00 pm OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, May 15th, 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 11:59 AM �Firefox 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-8th--2014.html... Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. D SATURDA STREET FESTw Come downtown to the East Village 2nd Saturday Street Fest and get to know downtown Tulsa's newest District. Proceeds from this event will go towards beautification efforts for this district in downtown. Enjoy live music on the main stage at 3rd and Lansing Look for street performers, vendors & food on Lansing from 2nd to 4th and on 3rd from Lansing to Kenosha Live mural painting happening at 3rd and Kenosha OkEq Art Exhibit The May exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Ted Holland. Live Music / Food Trucks / Artist Booths / Live Mural Painting / & More/ Sponsored by the GuRuStu Foundation For more information, visit here MOREcolor 2014 Show Opening Night June 19th, 2014 MORE color 1 • . •• The Festive and always surprising Opening Night reception will be held June 19th, 2014 at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. It is free and open to the public. For more information, visit MOREcolorart.com Tulsa Pride 2014 Saturday June 7th and Sunday June 8th, 2014 Everything you need to know about Tulsa Pride is here and on www.tulsapride.org Check for Tulsa Pride on Facebook for any last minute updates! Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org Friday, MAY 31st - At the Beach Tulsa Pride Poolside Party Saturday, JUNE 7th - Street Festival and Parade Sunday, JUNE 8th - Pride in the Park presented by Tulsa Shock VOLUNTEER! Be part of Tulsa Pride 2014 by volunteering a couple of hours and receive a free Pride Staff T-shirt, make some great friends, free lunch and get a behind the scenes look at Tulsa Pride. Many different times and areas are available. Sign Up online: VOLUNTEER FORM 4/23/26, 11:59 AM �Firefox 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-8th--2014.html... Counseling Services T U L S A e 2014 Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org Registration is open for booth and parade entries Click here to register Tulsa Pride 2014 Upcoming Events • Pride Night at End Up - May 17th at 4:00 pm BBQ Dinner Fundraiser • Tulsa Pride Zoo Day - Saturday, May 24th Details about these events and more are available on the Tulsa Pride smartphone app or www.tulsapride.org or Tulsa Pride's Facebook Tulsa Pride Parade Color Guard Participants If you are a former or Active service member and would like to be in the Tulsa Pride Parade color guard, please contact Mary.Jones@OkEq.org or call 918.743.4297 --- Counseling Services Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LPC 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org 2014 Tulsa Pride Interfaith Service Thursday, May 29th, 2014; 7:30 pm Tulsa Pride Interfaith Service Phillips Theological Seminary 901 N Mingo Rd The 2014 Interfaith Service will be hosted by Phillips Theological Seminary on Thursday May 29th, 2013 at 7:00 pm. PTS is located at 901 N Mingo Rd. Clergy and Spiritual leaders from Tulsa's affirming and inclusive Faith communities and several choirs and ensembles participate in this annual event. Rev Bob Lawrence is the organizer for this year's Interfaith Service. The highlight of the Interfaith Service is the blessing of Counseling Services 4/23/26, 11:59 AM �Firefox 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-8th--2014.html... Pride Flag. Please join the LGBT community as we celebrate the spiritual diversity of Tulsa. Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee Give Out Day Thursday, May 15th, 2014 GIVE T DAY engage. support. give. Give OUT Day is the national day of giving to LGBTQ organizations across the country. In 2013 Give OUT Day raised over $600,000, from 5,474 individuals in support of over 400 nonprofits groups across the country. On May 15th, 2014, thousands more will show their support for their favorite LGBTQ nonprofits. scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org It's 24 hours of LGBTQ and ally giving-and it's your chance make a real difference, right here in OUR community. Join in supporting our community on May 15th, 2014, by donating to Oklahomans for Equality online. The Blue Ball presented by The Tulsa Sisters Saturday, May 17th, 2014; 7:00 pm K9 Boot Camp Every Sunday 1:00 pm The class will consist of minimal lecture/discussion to cover basic principles of how dogs learn, motivation, general information, and questions. Free for Members, $5 for Non Members. Email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org to enroll. Facilitated by Carrie McDowell of Out of the Doghouse, Ltd. Co. SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org The Tulsa Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence present: The Blue Ball Saturday, May 17th, 2014 Dennis R, Neill Equality Center 4/23/26, 11:59 AM �Firefox 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-8th--2014.html... 7:00 - 11:00 pm 1 Tickets are $10 in advance and $15 at the door. Get your tickets at www.thetulsasisters.org This is a "themed" event and The Tulsa Sisters encourage everyone who attends to wear your best blue outfit, dress, fetish gear or avant garde design. There will be a "Best Blue Ball Wear" contest. Double Header 'Pride in the Ballpark' Charity Softball Game Sunday, June 1st, 2014; 2:05 pm I • . Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather PURCHASE TICKETS AT: OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY, DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER, 62 1 EAST 4TH STREET, TULSA, OK 74120, 918- 743-4297 Come attend the Second Annual Chairty Softball Challenge 'Pride in the Ballpark' Double Header at ONEOK Field on Sunday, June 1st, 2014. First game starts at 2:05 pm. See the Tulsa Drillers play against the Midland Rockhounds and stay after for the OkEq Tulsa Hit Crew play against the Tulsa Firefighters Team. Tickets are available for $10.00 at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Proceeds from ticket sales will benefit the Equality Sports Alliance and the Tulsa Firefighter Educational Clown Program. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook g EQJBusmess UALITY Alliance The May Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, May 21st, 2014 at 6:00 pm, at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St, Tulsa OK 74120. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:59 AM �Firefox 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-8th--2014.html... on your friends list. Tulsa Growl 2014 May 8th - 11th, 2014 Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders The Green Country Bears are proud to sponsor Tulsa Growl on May 8th - 11th, 2014. Tulsa's Best Bear Run will be an event filled weekend so be sure to visit www.tulsagrowl.com and check out the entire schedule and to register. SAGE Tulsa visits KOTV Channel 6 Tuesday, May 27th, 2014; 10:00 am On Tuesday, May 27th, 2014, the SAGE Tulsa group will be treated to a tour of the Griffin Communications Media Center at 303 N Boston Ave and home of KOTV Channel 6. The group will meet at the Equality Center at 10:00 am and then head off for the tour. Please RSVP to SAGE@OkEq.org if you would like to attend. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Council Oak Mens Chorale Pride Performance Wednesday, June 4th, 2014; 7:00 pm Boot Camp Hardesty Regional Library 8316 E 93 St, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74133 Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Council Oak Mens Chorale will present their annual Pride performance at the Hardesty Regional Library Wednesday, June 4th, 2014 at 7:00 pm. This will be a FREE event. www.counciloak.org Council Oak Mens Chorale Summer Concert 'Be Our Guest' - A Disney Extravaganza! Thursday, June 5th and Friday, June 6th, 2014; 8:00 pm Gender Outreach 4/23/26, 11:59 AM �Firefox 7 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-8th--2014.html... Thursday, June 5th and Friday, June 6th, 2014 Gussman Concert Hall - Lorton Performance Center, University of Tulsa Campus 550 S Gary Place, Tulsa, OK Council Oak Mens Chorale's 16th summer season, entitled Be Our Guest! (A Disney Extravaganza) council oak features the men of Council Oak Men's Chorale and council oak mens chorole guest artist Eric Himan. The concert includes music from beloved Disney movies, including songs from Beauty and the Beast, Aladdin, Jungle Book, Monster, Inc., Little Mermaid, Tangled, Tarzan, Lion King, Hercules, and others. Tickets are $20.00 available online or at the door. Research in Gay and Lesbian Workplace Relationships Are you "out" at work? Did you come out in the past few years? Or do you know someone that has come out in the past few years? Researchers would like to learn how your experience with your work, your organization, and your co-workers has changed since you came out. All information obtained during the interview process will be kept confidential. For more information contact Kim Perry at 719.217.4205 or kdperrytx7105@hotmail.com ---- LGBTI Transitional Youth Online Survey The transitional youth study is a first-of-its-kind effort to raise awareness (especially among Oklahoma state agencies) that LGBTI youth exist in the state and that services are needed to alleviate very real challenges. The online survey is completely anonymous and results will contribute to increased recognition of LGBTI concerns statewide. In exchange for participation, researchers are offering $10 in gift certificate credit redeemable at giftcertificates.com for the first 250 urban and 250 rural participants. If you are 18 - 25 years old, reside in Oklahoma, and identify as LGBTI you may be eligible to participated by going to http://tiny.cc/ oklgbti2. With questions or concerns, please contact Douglas Knutson, at douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. -- .. r:a:a=-. - Rainbow Writers 1st and 3rd Wednesdays 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org ----- --to attend ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Thursdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Equality Center Pride Store 4/23/26, 11:59 AM �Firefox 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-8th--2014.html... The Pride Store is proud to be carrying 'Tulsa is Fabulous' tees ($20) by local artist Zach Raw. All sizes S through 2X. Yoga A - Z Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Eat the Moon Slow' by Lauren Zuniga You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Lauren Zuniga is an internationally touring poet and teaching artist. A three time national slam finalist and LAUREN ZUNIGA passionate activist, MoveOn. Org called her work, "the most riveting message." Daily Kos called her "a voice that can change the game." Born and raised in Oklahoma, she is the voice of Oklahoma City Community College's Now is Power campaign featured on television and radio. In 2012, she served as the Activist-In-Residence for the University of Oklahoma and was voted Best Local Author by the Oklahoma Gazette. She is the author of two poetry collections, The Nickel Tour (Penmanship Books, 2009) and The Smell of Good Mud (Write Bloody Publishing, 2012). Pank Magazine said, "If imagery and language are the sea on which Zuniga's poems sail, then her ability to reach the shared human experience is the boat in which she rides." She lives with her two kids in an artist collective named Clementine and likes to make art with old magazines and glue. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno EAT THE MOON SLOW Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next 4/23/26, 11:59 AM �Firefox 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-8th--2014.html... ~ ol nt ru r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 4/23/26, 11:59 AM �Firefox 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-8th--2014.html... Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Mondays and Fridays 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/23/26, 11:59 AM �Firefox 11 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-8th--2014.html... Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org r----------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:59 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/0fa25a18f5ba6e7e1359c32e55ab0700.pdf 56d99eba31f29fe2fa553b2fe87bd583 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-14th--2014.ht... eNews May 14th, 2014 In This Issue • Tulsa Pride Flapjack Fundraiser Give Out Day Welcome to the eNews. Tulsa Pride is Saturday, June 7th and Sunday June 8th. Be sure to check TulsaPride.org for all of the Pride celebration events. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Tulsa Pride Leather Fashion Show Tulsa Pride 2014 Parade Color Guard Rainbow Run Interfaith Service Applebee's - Tulsa Pride Flapjack Raiser MOREcolor Saturday, May 17th, 2014; 8:00 - 10:00 am The Blue Ball EBA Sponsor Applebee's Applet>ees 9409 E 71st St Tulsa, OK 74133 PFLAG Pride Brunch Pride in the Ballpark Join us at the Applebees on 71st for a fun & family-friendly Tulsa Pride Fundraiser. Buy tickets online here. $10 for a great pancake breakfast to help fund Tulsa Pride! EBA An Evening with Rev. Schaefer SAGE Tulsa Tour Give Out Day Guys Dine Too Thursday, May 15th, 2014 COMC Pride Performance r GIVE T DAY engage. support. give . Give OUT Day is the national day of giving to LGBTQ organizations across the country. In 2013 Give OUT Day raised over $600,000, from 5,474 individuals in support of over 400 nonprofits groups across the country. On May 15th, 2014, thousands more will show their support for their favorite LGBTQ nonprofits. COuncil Oak Mens Chorale World Elder Abuse Day Out in the Workplace LGBTI Transitional Youth Survey Pride Store Featured Article Featured Article It's 24 hours of LGBTQ and ally giving-and it's your chance make a real difference, right here in OUR community. Join in supporting our community on May 15th, 2014, by donating to Oklahomans for Equality online. Find Us on Facebook Tulsa Pride 2014 Saturday June 7th and Sunday June 8th, 2014 Everything you need to know about Tulsa Pride is here and on www.tulsapride.org Check for Tulsa Pride on Facebook for any last minute updates! Friday, MAY 31st - At the Beach Tulsa Pride Poolside Party Saturday, JUNE 7th - Street Festival and Parade 4/23/26, 12:00 PM �Firefox 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-14th--2014.ht... Sunday, JUNE 8th - Pride in the Park presented by Tulsa Shock VOLUNTEER! Be part of Tulsa Pride 2014 by volunteering a couple of hours and receive a free Pride Staff T-shirt, make some great friends, free lunch and get a behind the scenes look at Tulsa Pride. Many different times and areas are available. Sign Up online: VOLUNTEER FORM OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, May 15th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. T U L S A e 2014 OkEq Art Exhibit The May exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Ted Holland. Registration is open for booth and parade entries Click here to register Tulsa Pride 2014 Upcoming Events • Pride Night at End Up - May 17th at 4:00 pm BBQ Dinner Fundraiser • Tulsa Pride Zoo Day - Saturday, May 24th Details about these events and more are available on the Tulsa Pride smartphone app or www.tulsapride.org or Tulsa Pride's Facebook Tulsa Pride Parade Color Guard Participants If you are a former or Active service member and would like to be in the Tulsa Pride Parade color guard, please contact Mary.Jones@OkEq.org - - - or call 918.743.4297 Rainbow Run 2014 Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org Sunday, June 8th, 2014; 10:00 am 4/23/26, 12:00 PM �Firefox 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-14th--2014.ht... 2014 RAINBOW RUN .. . p e ,v, .. Presented by: ~ - _,. ,d nl 1u 1 ..... ~HJc;:K~ m - 11 The Rainbow Run will be held on June 8th, 2014. The run starts at 10:00 am and will be ran on the Midland Valley Trails. The run will begin and end in Centennial Park. There will be two runs a 5K run and a 1K Fun Run. The Rainbow run will benefit Tulsa Pride. For more information about the Rainbow Run or to sign up, visit www.rainbowruntulsa.com The Rainbow Run is being presented by Tulsa Pride, MAD Chicks Marketing and Design & Speakeasy Market Strategies. 2014 Tulsa Pride Interfaith Service Thursday, May 29th, 2014; 7:30 pm Tulsa Pride Interfaith Service Phillips Theological Seminary 901 N Mingo Rd Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org The 2014 Interfaith Service will be hosted by Phillips Theological Seminary on Thursday May 29th, 2013 at 7:00 pm. PTS is located at 901 N Mingo Rd. Clergy and Spiritual leaders from Tulsa's affirming and inclusive Faith communities and several choirs and ensembles participate in this annual event. Rev Bob Lawrence is the organizer for this year's Interfaith Service. The highlight of the Interfaith Service is the blessing of Pride Flag. Please join the LGBT community as we celebrate the spiritual diversity of Tulsa. MOREcolor 2014 Show Counseling Services Opening Night June 19th, 2014 MORE color - 1 • . • The Festive and always surprising Opening Night reception will be held June 19th, 2014 at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. It is free and open to the public. For more information, visit MOREcolorart.com The Blue Ball presented by The Tulsa Sisters Saturday, May 17th, 2014; 7:00 pm Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LPC 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 12:00 PM �Firefox 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-14th--2014.ht... Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org The Tulsa Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence present: The Blue Ball Saturday, May 17th, 2014 Dennis R, Neill Equality Center 7:00 - 11:00 pm Tickets are $10 in advance and $15 at the door. Get your tickets at www.thetulsasisters.org This is a "themed" event and The Tulsa Sisters encourage everyone who attends to wear your best blue outfit, dress, fetish gear or avant garde design. There will be a "Best Blue Ball Wear" contest. SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by 4/23/26, 12:00 PM �Firefox 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-14th--2014.ht... Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather PFLAG Pride Brunch Sunday, June 1st, 2014; 12:00 - 2:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Before heading to the ballpark for the double header game, stop by and join PFLAG Tulsa for a Pride Bunch from 12:00 - 2:00 pm at the Equality Center. On the menu PFLAG will be favorite brunch items like omelettes, waffles and TULSA CHAPTER mimosas. Cost is $10.00 per person. Double Header 'Pride in the Ballpark' Charity Softball Game Sunday, June 1st, 2014; 2:05 pm SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ ServJCes and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tram.gender Elders PURCHASE TICKETS AT: OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY, DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER, 621 EAST 4TH STREET, TULSA, OK 74120, 918-743-4297 Come attend the Second Annual Chairty Softball Challenge 'Pride in the Ballpark' Double Header at ONEOK Field on Sunday, June 1st, 2014. First game starts at 2:05 pm. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 4/23/26, 12:00 PM �Firefox 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-14th--2014.ht... See the Tulsa Drillers play against the Midland Rockhounds and stay after for the OkEq Tulsa Hit Crew play against the Tulsa Firefighters Team. Tickets are available for $10.00 at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Proceeds from ticket sales will benefit the Equality Sports Alliance and the Tulsa Firefighter Educational Clown Program. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook g EQJBusmess UALITY Alhance 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 The May Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, May 21st, 2014 at 6:00 pm, at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St, Tulsa OK 74120. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. An Evening with Rev. Frank Schaefer Tuesday, May 27th, 2014; 5:45 pm Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Tuesday, May 27th, 2014; 5:45 pm Tickets are $25.00 The Exchange 2nd Floor, Historic Film Exchange Building 700 1/2 W Sheridan Ave Oklahoma City, OK 73102 Frank is a UM pastor who officiated at his son's same-sex marriage and, six years later, he was tried by a United Methodist court. That trial stripped Schaefer of his ordination after more than 20 years of ministry in the nation's largest mainline Protestant denomination. Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. s:r::cc.. ma ~ c:a 4/23/26, 12:00 PM �Firefox 7 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-14th--2014.ht... The Exchange (View Map) is located on the second floor of the historic Film Exchange building in downtown Oklahoma City. Tickets and more information is available on the Oklahoma United Methodists for Marriage Equality website. SAGE Tulsa visits KOTV Channel 6 Tuesday, May 27th, 2014; 10:00 am On Tuesday, May 27th, 2014, the SAGE Tulsa group will be treated to a tour of the Griffin Communications Media Center at 303 N Boston Ave and home of KOTV Channel 6. The group will meet at the Equality Center at 10:00 am and then head off for the tour. Please RSVP to SAGE@OkEq.org if you would like to attend. Rainbow Writers 1st and 3rd Wednesdays 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Guys Dine Too Tuesday, June 3rd, 2014; 6:30 pm The June meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Sisserou's on Tuesday, June 3rd, 2014 at around 6:30 pm. Sisserou's is located at 107 N. Boulder Ave. Unit C, (on the corner of W. Archer and N. Main). Thursdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. www.sisserousrestauranttulsa.com Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. Yoga A - Z Council Oak Mens Chorale Pride Performance Wednesday, June 4th, 2014; 7:00 pm Hardesty Regional Library 8316 E 93 St, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74133 Council Oak Mens Chorale will present their annual Pride performance at the Hardesty Regional Library Wednesday, June 4th, 2014 at 7:00 pm. This will be a FREE event. www.counciloak.org Council Oak Mens Chorale Summer Concert 'Be Our Guest' - A Disney Extravaganza! Thursday, June 5th and Friday, June 6th, 2014; 8:00 pm Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 12:00 PM �Firefox 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-14th--2014.ht... Thursday, June 5th and Friday, June 6th, 2014 Gussman Concert Hall - Lorton Performance Center, University of Tulsa Campus 550 S Gary Place, Tulsa, OK Council Oak Mens Chorale's 16th summer season, entitled Be Our Guest! (A Disney Extravaganza) council oak features the men of Council Oak Men's Chorale and council oak mens chorole guest artist Eric Himan. The concert includes music from beloved Disney movies, including songs from Beauty and the Beast, Aladdin, Jungle Book, Monster, Inc., Little Mermaid, Tangled, Tarzan, Lion King, Hercules, and others. Tickets are $20.00 available online or at the door. World Elder Abuse Day Monday, June 16th, 2014; 11:00 am Cox Business Center 100 Civic Center The Senior Service Section of the Tulsa Police Departments Financial Crimes Unit is recognizing local seniors for World Elder Abuse Awareness Day on June 16, 2014 at the Cox Business Center located at 100 Civic Center Drive in downtown Tulsa, Oklahoma from 11:00 am to 3:00 pm. The event is being held in partnership with the Tulsa City County TRIAD, and with the assistance and support of many community partner agencies. Booths operated by various community outreach partners will be present. For more information, or to register your booth, contact Det. D. R. Crisp, Tulsa Police Department Financial Crimes Unit at 918 596-1317 dcrispcityoftulsa.org ------- Research in Gay and Lesbian Workplace Relationships Are you "out" at work? Did you come out in the past few years? Or do you know someone that has come out in the past few years? Researchers would like to learn how your experience with your work, your organization, and your co-workers has changed since you came out. All information obtained during the interview process will be kept confidential. For more information contact Kim Perry at 719.217.4205 or kdperrytx7105@hotmail.com ----- Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet LGBTI Transitional Youth Online Survey The transitional youth study is a first-of-its-kind effort to raise awareness (especially among Oklahoma state agencies) that LGBTI youth exist in the state and that services are needed to alleviate very real challenges. The online survey is completely anonymous and results will contribute to increased recognition of LGBTI concerns statewide. In exchange for participation, researchers are offering $10 in gift certificate credit redeemable at giftcertificates.com for the first 250 urban and 250 rural participants. If you are 18 - 25 years old, reside in Oklahoma, and identify as LGBTI you may be eligible to participated by going to http://tiny.cc/ 4/23/26, 12:00 PM �Firefox 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-14th--2014.ht... oklgbti2. With questions or concerns, please contact Douglas Knutson, at douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org Equality Center Pride Store The Pride Store is proud to be carrying 'Tulsa is Fabulous' tees ($20) by local artist Zach Raw. All sizes S through 2X. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Workforce Oklahoma Access Point 11 Open Everyday Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Out of the Closet Into Our Hearts: Celebrating Our Gay/Lesbian Family Members' edited by Laura Siegel & Nancy Lamkin Olson You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Out of the Closet Into our Hearts, is a touching collection of articles and essays written by the parents gay men, lesbians, bisexuals and transgender people. The book was edited by Laura Siegel and Nancy Lamkin Olson, both PFLAG moms. It includes personal stories by famous parents such television personality and movie critic Gene Shalit, who wrote a tribute to his gay son Pete, and a Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/23/26, 12:00 PM �Firefox 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-14th--2014.ht... poignant piece by Dennis Shepard, father of Matthew Shepard who was murdered in Wyoming. And it includes many articles and stories by parents and friends who are not so famous, but whose stories are just as vital and important. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Mondays and Fridays 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 12:00 PM �Firefox 11 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-14th--2014.ht... Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org r----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 12:00 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/7e6770abed87725c21d96eab04d3d09a.pdf 3616fc1d249725ef17f06f23897c1bc0 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-21st--2014.ht... eNews May 21st, 2014 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor EBA Tulsa Pride Leather Fashion Show Welcome to the eNews. Join us Saturday, May 24th for Tulsa Pride Day at the Tulsa Zoo. Tulsa Pride is Saturday, June 7th and Sunday June 8th. Be sure to check TulsaPride.org for all of the Pride celebration events. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time Tulsa Pride 2014 Parade Color Guard Rainbow Run Interfaith Service MOREcolor PFLAG Pride Brunch Pride in the Ballpark An Evening with Rev. Schaefer Camp Anytown SAGE Tulsa Tour Guys Dine Too COMC Pride Performance COuncil Oak Mens Chorale Summer Theatre Classes World Elder Abuse Day Out in the Workplace LGBTI Transitional Youth Survey Equality Business Alliance Pride Store Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook Find Us on Facebook The May Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, May 21st, 2014 at 6:00 pm, at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St, Tulsa OK 74120. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Tulsa Pride 2014 Saturday June 7th and Sunday June 8th, 2014 Everything you need to know about Tulsa Pride is here and on www.tulsapride.org Check for Tulsa Pride on Facebook for any last minute updates! Friday, MAY 31st - At the Beach Tulsa Pride Poolside Party OkEq Art Exhibit 4/23/26, 12:04 PM �Firefox 2 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-21st--2014.ht... Saturday, JUNE 7th - Street Festival and Parade Sunday, JUNE 8th - Pride in the Park presented by Tulsa Shock VOLUNTEER! Be part of Tulsa Pride 2014 by volunteering a couple of hours and receive a free Pride Staff T-shirt, make some great friends, free lunch and get a behind the scenes look at Tulsa Pride. Many different times and areas are available. Sign Up online: VOLUNTEER FORM The May exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Ted Holland. T U L S A r e 2014 Registration is open for booth and parade entries Click here to register Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org Tulsa Pride 2014 Upcoming Events • Tulsa Pride Zoo Day - Saturday, May 24th • Tulsa Shock Pride Night - Friday, June 6th - 7:00 pm • Everybody's Looking for Something - Live from Majestic -------Friday, June 6th - 10:30 pm Details about these events and more are available on the Tulsa Pride smartphone app or www.tulsapride.org or Tulsa Pride's Facebook Tulsa Pride Parade Color Guard Participants If you are a former or Active service member and would like to be in the Tulsa Pride Parade color guard, please contact Mary.Jones@OkEq.org or call 918.743.4297 --- Rainbow Run 2014 Sunday, June 8th, 2014; 10:00 am Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 12:04 PM �Firefox 3 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-21st--2014.ht... 2014 RAINBOW RUN ~, Presented by: "i d -Al- ";/;1 r,----, - 11m p ~ e ~HJc;:K~ 'V' The Rainbow Run will be held on June 8th, 2014. The run starts at 10:00 am and will be ran on the Midland Valley Trails. The run will begin and end in Centennial Park. There will be two runs a 5K run and a 1K Fun Run. The Rainbow run will benefit Tulsa Pride. For more information about the Rainbow Run or to sign up, visit www.rainbowruntulsa.com The Rainbow Run is being presented by Tulsa Pride, MAD Chicks Marketing and Design & Speakeasy Market Strategies. Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org 2014 Tulsa Pride Interfaith Service Thursday, May 29th, 2014; 7:00 pm Tulsa Pride Interfaith Service Phillips Theological Seminary 901 N Mingo Rd The 2014 Interfaith Service will be hosted by Phillips Theological Seminary on Thursday May 29th, 2014 at 7:00 pm. PTS is located at 901 N Mingo Rd. Clergy and Spiritual leaders from Tulsa's affirming and inclusive Faith communities and several choirs and ensembles participate in this annual event. Rev Bob Lawrence is the organizer for this year's Interfaith Service. There will be an In Memoriam tribute for those who have passed this last year. The highlight of the Interfaith Service is the blessing of Pride Flag. Please join the LGBT community as we celebrate the spiritual diversity of Tulsa. MOREcolor 2014 Show Opening Night June 19th, 2014 MORE color Counseling Services --SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org , . The Festive and always surprising Opening Night reception will be held June 19th, 2014 at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. It is free and open to the public. For more information, visit MOREcolorart.com PFLAG Pride Brunch Sunday, June 1st, 2014; 12:00 - 2:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Before heading to the ballpark for the double header game, stop by and join PFLAG Tulsa for a Pride Bunch • • ' . '. . Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. 4/23/26, 12:04 PM �Firefox 4 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-21st--2014.ht... from 12:00 - 2:00 pm at the Equality Center. On the menu .-~&.l"'lllll.llr TULSA CHAPTER will be favorite brunch items like omelettes, waffles and mimosas. Cost is $10.00 per person. Double Header 'Pride in the Ballpark' Charity Softball Game Sunday, June 1st, 2014; 2:05 pm Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather PURCHASE TICKETS AT: OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY, DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER, 621 EAST 4TH STREET, TULSA, OK 74120, 918-743-4297 Come attend the Second Annual Chairty Softball Challenge 'Pride in the Ballpark' Double Header at ONEOK Field on Sunday, June 1st, 2014. First game starts at 2:05 pm. See the Tulsa Drillers play against the Midland Rockhounds and stay after for the OkEq Tulsa Hit Crew play against the Tulsa Firefighters Team. Tickets are available for $10.00 at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Proceeds from ticket sales will benefit the Equality Sports Alliance and the Tulsa Firefighter Educational Clown Program. An Evening with Rev. Frank Schaefer Tuesday, May 27th, 2014; 5:45 pm SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Cay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders 4/23/26, 12:04 PM �Firefox 5 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-21st--2014.ht... Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Tuesday, May 27th, 2014; 5:45 pm Tickets are $25.00 The Exchange 2nd Floor, Historic Film Exchange Building 700 1/2 W Sheridan Ave Oklahoma City, OK 73102 Frank is a UM pastor who officiated at his son's same-sex marriage and, six years later, he was tried by a United Methodist court. That trial stripped Schaefer of his ordination after more than 20 years of ministry in the nation's largest mainline Protestant denomination. The Exchange (View Map) is located on the second floor of the historic Film Exchange building in downtown Oklahoma City. Tickets and more information is available on the Oklahoma United Methodists for Marriage Equality website. Camp Anytown Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. June 15th - 21st, 2014; Registration deadline is May 23rd ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 4:00 pm. Gender Outreach 4/23/26, 12:04 PM �Firefox 6 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-21st--2014.ht... Camp Anytown, Oklahoma 2014 will be held June 15th - June 21st at Dwight Mission ~ N Camp in Vian, OK. This program promotes ~([!)~ self-esteem, good citizenship, and leadership 0 in an atmosphere steeped in rich diversity. Incoming sophomores, juniors, and seniors from across Oklahoma are eligible to participate in this award-winning, human relations camp. The Anytown program ranks among the preeminent human relations experiences in Oklahoma. Registration deadline is May 23rd. ~ 8 • Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. This year Camp Anytown will celebrate 20 years of training world citizens. It is often characterized as a "life-changing" opportunity by those who attend. This camp experience has made a difference in the lives of more than 800 teens since its inception in 1994. For additional information, contact the OCCJ office at 918.583.1361 or email info@occjok.org. For more information or to register online, visit www.occjok.org SAGE Tulsa visits KOTV Channel 6 Tuesday, June 3rd, 2014; 10:00 am This event has been rescheduled to June 3rd On Tuesday, June 3rd, 2014, the SAGE Tulsa group will be treated to a tour of the Griffin Communications Media Center at 303 N Boston Ave and home of KOTV Channel 6. The group will meet at the Equality Center at 10:00 am and then head off for the tour. Please RSVP to SAGE@OkEq.org if you would like to attend. Rainbow Writers 1st and 3rd Wednesdays 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Guys Dine Too Tuesday, June 3rd, 2014; 6:30 pm The June meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Sisserou's on Tuesday, June 3rd, 2014 at around 6:30 pm. Sisserou's is located at 107 N. Boulder Ave. Unit C, (on the corner of W. Archer and N. Main). www.sisserousrestauranttulsa.com Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. Council Oak Mens Chorale Pride Performance Wednesday, June 4th, 2014; 7:00 pm Yoga A - Z Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 4/23/26, 12:04 PM �Firefox 7 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-21st--2014.ht... Hardesty Regional Library 8316 E 93 St, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74133 7:00 pm Council Oak Mens Chorale will present their annual Pride performance at the Hardesty Regional Library Wednesday, June 4th, 2014 at 7:00 pm. This will be a FREE event. www.counciloak.org Council Oak Mens Chorale Summer Concert 'Be Our Guest' - A Disney Extravaganza! Thursday, June 5th and Friday, June 6th, 2014; 8:00 pm Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals Thursday, June 5th and Friday, June 6th, 2014 Gussman Concert Hall - Lorton Performance Center, University of Tulsa Campus 550 S Gary Place, Tulsa, OK Council Oak Mens Chorale's 16th summer season, entitled Be Our Guest! (A Disney Extravaganza) features the men of Council Oak Men's Chorale and guest artist Eric Himan. The concert includes music from beloved Disney movies, including songs from Beauty and the Beast, Aladdin, Jungle Book, Monster, Inc., Little Mermaid, Tangled, Tarzan, Lion King, Hercules, and others. Tickets are $20.00 available online or at the door. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Summer Theatre Classes Classes run June 16th - August 1st 4/23/26, 12:04 PM �Firefox 8 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-21st--2014.ht... ,. Summer Theatre classes Downtown Tulsa Join American Theatre Company's Artist Educators for exciting two week acting classes in Youth Cabaret, Shakespeare, for the Stage and in Improvisation, in the East Village. Each session ends with a live performance. For more information and registration, visit www.americantheatrecompany.org - - - - - - - - - - -- -Classes will be held @ ATC Studios in Downtown Tulsa at 308 South Lansing. Classes run from 9:00 am until 4:00 pm. World Elder Abuse Day Monday, June 16th, 2014; 11:00 am Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Cox Business Center 100 Civic Center The Senior Service Section of the Tulsa Police Departments Financial Crimes Unit is recognizing local seniors for World Elder Abuse Awareness Day on June 16, 2014 at the Cox Business Center located at 100 Civic Center Drive in downtown Tulsa, Oklahoma from 11:00 am to 3:00 pm. The event is being held in partnership with the Tulsa City County TRIAD, and with the assistance and support of many community partner agencies. Booths operated by various community outreach partners will be present. For more information, or to register your booth, contact Det. D. R. Crisp, Tulsa Police Department Financial Crimes Unit at 918 596-1317 dcrisp@cityoftulsa.org -- ----- Research in Gay and Lesbian Workplace Relationships Are you "out" at work? Did you come out in the past few years? Or do you know someone that has come out in the past few years? Researchers would like to learn how your experience with your work, your organization, and your co-workers has changed since you came out. All information obtained during the interview process will be kept confidential. For more information contact Kim Perry at 719.217.4205 or Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/23/26, 12:04 PM �Firefox 9 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-21st--2014.ht... kdperrytx7105@hotmail.com LGBTI Transitional Youth Online Survey The transitional youth study is a first-of-its-kind effort to raise awareness (especially among Oklahoma state agencies) that LGBTI youth exist in the state and that services are needed to alleviate very real challenges. The online survey is completely anonymous and results will contribute to increased recognition of LGBTI concerns statewide. In exchange for participation, researchers are offering $10 in gift certificate credit redeemable at giftcertificates.com for the first 250 urban and 250 rural participants. If you are 18 - 25 years old, reside in Oklahoma, and identify as LGBTI you may be eligible to participated by going to http://tiny.cc/ oklgbti2. With questions or concerns, please contact Douglas Knutson, at douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Mondays and Fridays 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm MISSION: Equality Center Pride Store The Pride Store is proud to be carrying 'Tulsa is Fabulous' tees ($20) by local artist Zach Raw. All sizes S through 2X. Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Ghost Guitars' 4/23/26, 12:04 PM �Firefox 10 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-21st--2014.ht... by Tom Canford You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Fronting a country and western band called Bar-X Boys, Jack Linden wants out. The road is a bitch. Bed bugs and Gideon Bibles. Honky-tonks and tricks. He asks a talented singer to fill in on guitar for what he hopes will be the band's last hurrah. Pecos Farley welcomes the opportunity to hear his songs played live and to stretch his songwriting abilities with Jack. He puts his first year of college and girlfriend Ruth on hold. Can Ruth find solace elsewhere? Pecos does have a twin brother, Gila. Sharing lives, beds, and bodies and collaborating on songs, Pecos and Jack find themselves popular on the podunk circuit. Unexpectedly a single song catapults them to the heights of the politically-oriented rock music scene, and they become heroes of the anti-Vietnam war movement as well as rock stars. Pecos, influenced by zealous Students for a Democratic Society, begins thinking like them, spouting their rhetoric. Jack begins to feel he's just along for the ride, a hypnotic with guitar. The relationship is floundering on a more personal level as well, each knowing an inevitable split is coming, neither guessing how final and traumatic it will be. Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r----------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 12:04 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/5fed55419b4c32d774a328f121d32356.pdf f42249ff043634ef1eba08279e115e36 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-28th--2014.ht... eNews May 28th, 2014 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor Interfaith Service PFLAG Pride Brunch Pride in the Ballpark Welcome to the eNews. Join us Sunday, June 1st for PFLAG Pride Brunch at the Equality Center at 12:00 pm and then at ONEOK Field for the Pride In the Ballpark Double Header game at 2:00 pm. Tulsa Pride is Saturday, June 7th and Sunday June 8th. Be sure to check TulsaPride.org for all of the Pride celebration events. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time Tulsa Pride Leather Fashion Show Tulsa Pride 2014 Parade Color Guard Rainbow Run MOREcolor EBA SAGE Tulsa Tour Tulsa Interfaith Alliance Guys Dine Too COMC Pride Performance Sisters in Song COuncil Oak Mens Chorale Grateful Day --Flapjack -Fundraiser Shower of Stoles Project Summer Theatre Classes Out in Tulsa 2014 World Elder Abuse Day Out in the Workplace 2014 Tulsa Pride Interfaith Service Thursday, May 29th, 2014; 7:00 pm Tulsa Pride Interfaith Service Phillips Theological Seminary 901 N Mingo Rd LGBTI Transitional Youth Survey Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer The 2014 Interfaith Service will be hosted by Phillips Theological Seminary on Thursday May 29th, 2014 at 7:00 pm. PTS is located at 901 N Mingo Rd. Clergy and Spiritual leaders from Tulsa's affirming and inclusive Faith communities and several choirs and ensembles participate in this annual event. Rev Bob Lawrence is the organizer for this year's Interfaith Service. There will be an In Memoriam tribute for those who have passed this last year. The highlight of the Interfaith Service is the blessing of Pride Flag. Please join the LGBT community as we celebrate the spiritual diversity of Tulsa. Find Us on Facebook PFLAG Pride Brunch 4/23/26, 12:05 PM �Firefox 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-28th--2014.ht... Sunday, June 1st, 2014; 12:00 - 2:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center V Before heading to the ballpark for the double header game, stop by and join PFLAG Tulsa for a Pride Bunch from 12:00 - 2:00 pm at the Equality Center. On the menu PFLAG will be favorite brunch items like omelettes, waffles and TULSA CHAPTER mimosas. Cost is $10.00 per person. Double Header 'Pride in the Ballpark' Charity Softball Game OkEq Art Exhibit The May exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Ted Holland. Sunday, June 1st, 2014; 2:05 pm Counseling Services PURCHASE TICKETS AT: OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY, DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER, 621 EAST 4TH STREET, TULSA, OK 74120, 918-743-4297 Come attend the Second Annual Chairty Softball Challenge 'Pride in the Ballpark' Double Header at ONEOK Field on Sunday, June 1st, 2014. First game starts at 2:05 pm. Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org See the Tulsa Drillers play against the Midland Rockhounds and stay after for the OkEq Tulsa Hit Crew play against the Tulsa Firefighters Team. Tickets are available for $10.00 at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Proceeds from ticket sales will benefit the Equality Sports Alliance and the Tulsa Firefighter Educational Clown Program. Tulsa Pride 2014 Saturday June 7th and Sunday June 8th, 2014 Everything you need to know about Tulsa Pride is here and on www.tulsapride.org Check for Tulsa Pride on Facebook for any last minute updates! Friday, MAY 31st - At the Beach Tulsa Pride Poolside Party Saturday, JUNE 7th - Street Festival and Parade Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale 4/23/26, 12:05 PM �Firefox 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-28th--2014.ht... Sunday, JUNE 8th - Pride in the Park presented by Tulsa Shock VOLUNTEER! Be part of Tulsa Pride 2014 by volunteering a couple of hours and receive a free Pride Staff T-shirt, make some great friends, free lunch and get a behind the scenes look at Tulsa Pride. Many different times and areas are available. Sign Up online: VOLUNTEER FORM based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org T U L S A e 2014 Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee Registration is open for booth and parade entries Click here to register Tulsa Pride 2014 Upcoming Events • Tulsa Shock Pride Night - Friday, June 6th - 7:00 pm • Everybody's Looking for Something - Live from Majestic Friday, June 6th - 10:30 pm -------- Details about these events and more are available on the Tulsa Pride smartphone app or www.tulsapride.org or Tulsa Pride's Facebook Tulsa Pride Parade Color Guard Participants If you are a former or Active service member and would like to be in the Tulsa Pride Parade color guard, please contact Mary.Jones@OkEq.org - - - or call 918.743.4297 Rainbow Run 2014 scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org --- SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Sunday, June 8th, 2014; 10:00 am · ••••- ' . "' ·~' . - I 4/23/26, 12:05 PM �Firefox 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-28th--2014.ht... Grieving Well 2014 RAINBOW RUN .. . p e ,v, .. Presented by: ~ - _,. ,d nl 1u 1 ..... ~HJc;:K~ m - 11 The Rainbow Run will be held on June 8th, 2014. The run starts at 10:00 am and will be ran on the Midland Valley Trails. The run will begin and end in Centennial Park. There will be two runs a 5K run and a 1K Fun Run. The Rainbow run will benefit Tulsa Pride. For more information about the Rainbow Run or to sign up, visit www.rainbowruntulsa.com The Rainbow Run is being presented by Tulsa Pride, MAD Chicks Marketing and Design & Speakeasy Market Strategies. MOREcolor 2014 Show Opening Night Thursday, June 19th, 2014; 6:00 - 9:00 pm MORE color 1 • 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather . •• Oklahomans for Equality is proud to host the MOREcolor 2014 Regional Juried Fine Arts Exhibition for Pride, June 19th - 22nd, 2014, at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Open for only four days during regular hours 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm. This year exhibiting more than fifty artists in a broad spectrum of media and styles, the MOREcolor 2014 juried exhibition opens June 19th and runs for just four days through June 22nd. The opening night event on June 19th from 6:00 to 9:00 pm will feature the harp music of Linda Paul and the Jazzical Strings trio, a multi-discipline performance work entitled "Noise Level 1," an installation by Matthew Ruyle, food by TW's-AFAB Catering and cash bar. The opening event and exhibition are free and open to the public. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan This annual event has become a regional juried show, highly anticipated year after year for its cutting edge reputation, showing fine art of the 4/23/26, 12:05 PM �Firefox 5 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-28th--2014.ht... highest quality. The festive opening night is an evening not to be missed, every year featuring performing artists complementing and lifting the exhibition to the level of experience. For more information, visit MOREcolorart.com sagew Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders Tulsa Area Prime Timers Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 The June Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, June 18th, 2014 at 6:00 pm. Hosted by Campfire Green Country, the meeting will take place at the Circle Cinema, 10 S Lewis Ave, Tulsa OK 74104. Following the meeting will be a free screening of "The New Black". An explosive new documentary that uncovers the complicated and often combative histories of the African-American and LGBT civil rights movements. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave Tulsa, OK 74104 For more information on "The New Black", visit www.newblackfilm.com SAGE Tulsa visits KOTV Channel 6 Tuesday, June 3rd, 2014; 10:00 am This event has been rescheduled to June 3rd On Tuesday, June 3rd, 2014, the SAGE Tulsa group will be treated to a tour of the Griffin Communications Media Center at 303 N Boston Ave and home of KOTV Channel 6. The group will meet at the Equality Center at 10:00 am and then head off for the tour. Please RSVP to SAGE@OkEq.org if you would like to attend. Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance 4/23/26, 12:05 PM �Firefox 6 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-28th--2014.ht... Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 4:00 pm. Gender Outreach Interfaith Alliance of Tulsa Awards Thursday, June 5th, 2014; 6:30 pm All Souls Unitarian Church 2952 S Peoria Ave The Tulsa Interfaith Alliance will be presenting Toby Jenkins with this year's Russell Bennett Faith and Courage Award for his work honoring the various spiritual traditions of GLBTQ persons, and for ensuring that the Dennis R Neill Equality Center is a safe space for all, regardless of faith. You are invited to join us for the Award Celebration on Thursday, June 5th, 2014 starting at 6:30 pm at All Souls Unitarian Church. The evening will include a buffet catered by TW's AFab Catering, as well as performances by Pam Crosby (President of the Tulsa Jazz Society) and her trio, along with Rebecca Ungerman. Tickets are $30/person and can be purchased by selecting the link on our web site at www.tulsainterfaithalliance.org , Deadline for ticket purchase is Monday, June 2nd. ~~•~ ♦-,: INTERFAITH ALLIANCE !! i' OF TULSA PROTECTING FAITH AND FREEDOM Guys Dine Too Tuesday, June 3rd, 2014; 6:30 pm Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. JC_ = Rainbow Writers 1st and 3rd Wednesdays 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org - - - - --to attend The June meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Sisserou's on Tuesday, June 3rd, 2014 at around 6:30 pm. Sisserou's is located at 107 N. Boulder Ave. Unit C, (on the corner of W. Archer and N. Main). www.sisserousrestauranttulsa.com Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. Council Oak Mens Chorale Pride Performance Yoga A - Z Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are 4/23/26, 12:05 PM �Firefox 7 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-28th--2014.ht... Wednesday, June 4th, 2014; 7:00 pm Hardesty Regional Library 8316 E 93 St, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74133 Council Oak Mens Chorale will present their annual Pride performance at the Hardesty Regional Library Wednesday, June 4th, 2014 at 7:00 pm. This will be a FREE event. www.counciloak.org Sisters in Song Opening for Chautauqua Tuesday, June 10th, 2014; 6:00 pm Southeast Campus, TCC 10300 East 81st Street Tulsa, Oklahoma 74133 r. ' S isters on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm ~ ,:::, in5 ong The Arts and Humanities Council of ~ Tulsa sponsors the Oklahoma Chautauqua event beginning June 10th, 2014 at the Southeast Campus of Tulsa Community College, 81st street near Highway 169. This is the fifth year for Sisters in Song to open the Chautauqua. This year the Chautauqua theme is "A Crisis of Confidence: The War That Changed the World." The actors will be featuring great personalities from the years 1914 to 1918, including Woodrow Wilson, Edith Wharton, Henry James and Teddy Roosevelt. Please join the audience at 6:00 pm on Tuesday evening, June 10th, as Sisters in Song perform George M. Cohen, America The Beautiful, God Bless America, Me and My Shadow, and many more songs from the World War I era. Many of the songs are in sing-along format, so bring your voice to join in. For more information on Sisters in Song, visit their Facebook Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Council Oak Mens Chorale Summer Concert 'Be Our Guest' - A Disney Extravaganza! Thursday, June 5th and Friday, June 6th, 2014; 8:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick 4/23/26, 12:05 PM �Firefox 8 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-28th--2014.ht... up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org Thursday, June 5th and Friday, June 6th, 2014 Gussman Concert Hall - Lorton Performance Center, University of Tulsa Campus 550 S Gary Place, Tulsa, OK Council Oak Mens Chorale's 16th summer season, entitled Be Our Guest! (A Disney Extravaganza) features the men of Council Oak Men's Chorale and guest artist Eric Himan. The concert includes music from beloved Disney movies, including songs from Beauty and the Beast, Aladdin, Jungle Book, Monster, Inc., Little Mermaid, Tangled, Tarzan, Lion King, Hercules, and others. Tickets are $20.00 available online or at the door. Grateful Day Foundation Flapjack Fundraiser at Applebee's Saturday, June 21st, 2014; 8:00 - 10:00 am Applebee's 9409 E 71st St Tulsa, OK 74133 EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Appiebees Please join the Grateful Day Foundation at the Applebee's on 71st for flapjacks and coffee or juice. Tickets for the Flapjack Fundraiser are $7.00 and are available on the OkEq website here. The proceeds from this event will go directly to help fund the 2014 HIV Wellness Retreat, for Clients of Tulsa CARES and OSU Speciality Medicine. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, 4/23/26, 12:05 PM �Firefox 9 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-28th--2014.ht... as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. Qrnteful £)nu JF <0>"tl.ll.:irn.dai.ti<0> :irn. JI:irn.c. Taking a leap of faith for those living with HIV/AIDS The Shower of Stoles Project Reception Monday, June 2nd, 2014; 5:00 - 7:00 pm Cimarron Alliance Equality Center 5613 N May Ave, Ste 400 OKC, OK HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing The Shower of Stoles Project is an extraordinary collection of over one thousand liturgical stoles and other sacred items representing the lives of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) people of faith. The opening reception will be on Monday June 2nd, 2014 from 5:00 - 7:00 pm at the Cimarron Alliance Equality Center. The project will be on display for the following dates: June 2nd - 5th from 12:00 - 8:00 pm at Cimarron Alliance Equality Center June 6th from 9:00 am - 12:00 pm at Cimarron Alliance Equality Center June 8th 9:00 am and 11:00 am Services at Mayflower UCC June 8th 6:00 pm Service at Cathedral of Hope OKC Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Mondays and Fridays 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm MISSION: 11111 Ill I I~ OFShower Stoles I Iii ·~•11 ...... PROJECT 1he stories ofLGBTpeople and their rejection by the church. Reception Ju ne 2 • 5-7prn • C imarron Alli ance Equality Cen ter Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Summer Theatre Classes Classes run June 16th - August 1st Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 12:05 PM �Firefox 10 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-28th--2014.ht... Summer ·, . h T eatre cl in the East Village asses Downtown Tulsa Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org 1st Join American Theatre Company's Artist Educators for exciting two week acting classes in Youth Cabaret, Shakespeare, for the Stage and in Improvisation, in the East Village. Each session ends with a live performance. For more information and registration, visit www.americantheatrecompany.org Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Classes will be held @ ATC Studios in Downtown Tulsa at 308 South Lansing. Classes run from 9:00 am until 4:00 pm. Out in Tulsa 2014 Saturday, June 14th, 2014; 6:30 pm rrax:c POW<t,...t,vtl•tulHre,g,onalchamtio.r - - - - - - u06.14.2014 Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center 2021 E 71st Street Openarms Youth Project will be holding their third annual fundraising event, Out in Tulsa, on Saturday, June 14th at 6:30 pm at the Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center. Join in for this exciting evening and help us raise funds to continue and expand the work at Openarms Youth Project for GLBTQ youth and their allies ages 14-20. This year's entertainment will feature performances by comedian Vickie Shaw and musician Austyn King. The event will be hosted by Randy Roberts Potts. Dinner will be served and a cash bar is available. Attire is business casual. Tickets are $125.00 per person and may be purchased using the link 4/23/26, 12:05 PM �Firefox 11 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-28th--2014.ht... below. Visit OpenArms Youth Project for more information and to purchase tickets World Elder Abuse Day Monday, June 16th, 2014; 11:00 am Cox Business Center 100 Civic Center The Senior Service Section of the Tulsa Police Departments Financial Crimes Unit is recognizing local seniors for World Elder Abuse Awareness Day on June 16, 2014 at the Cox Business Center located at 100 Civic Center Drive in downtown Tulsa, Oklahoma from 11:00 am to 3:00 pm. The event is being held in partnership with the Tulsa City County TRIAD, and with the assistance and support of many community partner agencies. Booths operated by various community outreach partners will be present. For more information, or to register your booth, contact Det. D. R. Crisp, Tulsa Police Department Financial Crimes Unit at 918 596-1317 dcrisp@cityoftulsa.org Research in Gay and Lesbian Workplace Relationships Are you "out" at work? Did you come out in the past few years? Or do you know someone that has come out in the past few years? Researchers would like to learn how your experience with your work, your organization, and your co-workers has changed since you came out. All information obtained during the interview process will be kept confidential. For more information contact Kim Perry at 719.217.4205 or kdperrytx7105@hotmail.com LGBTI Transitional Youth Online Survey The transitional youth study is a first-of-its-kind effort to raise awareness (especially among Oklahoma state agencies) that LGBTI youth exist in the state and that services are needed to alleviate very real challenges. The online survey is completely anonymous and results will contribute to increased recognition of LGBTI concerns statewide. In exchange for participation, researchers are offering $10 in gift certificate credit redeemable at giftcertificates.com for the first 250 urban and 250 rural participants. If you are 18 - 25 years old, reside in Oklahoma, and identify as LGBTI you may be eligible to participated by going to http://tiny.cc/ oklgbti2. With questions or concerns, please contact Douglas Knutson, at douglas.knutson@okstate.edu 4/23/26, 12:05 PM �Firefox 12 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-28th--2014.ht... Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2014 shirts are now available in The Pride Store. All sizes S through 2X are $20.00 Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Ghost Guitars' by Tom Canford You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In 1995, journalist Frank Owen began researching a story on "Special K," a new designer drug that fueled the after-midnight club scene. He went to buy and sample the drug at the internationally-notorious Limelight, a decrepit church converted into a Manhattan disco, where pulse-pounding music, gender-bending dancers, and uninhibited sideshows attracted long lines of hopeful onlookers. Clubland is the story of Owen's six year journey behind the velvet ropes, into the cavernous clubs where any transformation was possible, every extreme permissible--even murder. At first, Owen found an unexpected common ground between very different people: stockbrokers danced with transvestites, pacifier-sucking "club kids" with celebrities, thick-necked jocks with misfits. But as money flowed into the clubs, the music darkened, the drugs intensified, and the carnival spiraled out of control. Four men defined the scene, all of them outsiders, who saw in 4/23/26, 12:05 PM �Firefox 13 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-28th--2014.ht... clubland the chance to escape their pasts and reinvent themselves by making their own rules. Peter Gatien rose from a small Canadian milltown to become the most powerful club operator in America; Michael Alig, a gay misfit from the midwest, escaped to Manhattan where he won a legion of fashion-and-drug enamored followers; Lord Michael Caruso left Staten Island's bars for the rave parties of England, returning as clubland's leading drug dealer and techno music pioneer; and Chris Paciello began as a brutal Bensonhurst gang member, then recast himself as the glamorous prince of Miami Beach, partying with Madonna and Jennifer Lopez at the exclusive nightspots he created. Each of them had secrets that led them over the edge, and when when clubland fell, it left behind tragic human consequences: the disillusioned, the strung out, and the dead. A tour de force of investigative and participatory journalism, Clubland offers a dramatic expos� of a world built on illusion, where morality is ambiguous, identity changeable, and money the root of both ecstasy and evil. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Volunt r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! TU SA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 12:05 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/6c73da78ec88e45f4b019a17304fefae.pdf 19affb9f7b57c424733a6bba8fce043a PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-4th--2014.html... eNews June 4th, 2014 In This Issue • Tulsa Pride Leather Fashion Show Tulsa Pride 2014 Pride Night with Tulsa Shock Welcome to the eNews. It's Pride Week in Tulsa! Tulsa Pride is Saturday, June 7th and Sunday June 8th. Be sure to check TulsaPride.org for all of the Pride celebration events. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Everybody's - Looking - for Something Rainbow Run MOREcolor Novel Talk GET F.I.T. Tulsa Pride 2014 EBA Saturday June 7th and Sunday June 8th, 2014 Everything you need to know about Tulsa Pride is here and on www.tulsapride.org Check for Tulsa Pride on Facebook for any last minute updates! Saturday, JUNE 7th - Street Festival and Parade Sunday, JUNE 8th - Pride in the Park presented by Tulsa Shock VOLUNTEER! Be part of Tulsa Pride 2014 by volunteering a couple of hours and receive a free Pride Staff T-shirt, make some great friends, free lunch and get a behind the scenes look at Tulsa Pride. Many different times and areas are available. Sign Up online: VOLUNTEER FORM PFLAG Billboards Tulsa Interfaith Alliance COMC Pride Performance Sisters in Song COuncil Oak Mens Chorale East Village 2nd Saturday Festival Grateful Day Flapjack Fundraiser Shower of Stoles Project Summer Theatre Classes Out in Tulsa 2014 World Elder Abuse Day T U L S A e Out in the Workplace Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer 2014 Find Us on Facebook Registration is open for booth and parade entries Click here to register Tulsa Pride 2014 4/23/26, 12:06 PM �Firefox 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-4th--2014.html... Upcoming Events • Tulsa Shock Pride Night - Friday, June 6th - 7:00 pm • Everybody's Looking for Something - Live from Majestic Friday, June 6th - 10:30 pm Details about these events and more are available on the Tulsa Pride smartphone app or www.tulsapride.org or Tulsa Pride's Facebook OkEq Art Exhibit The MOREcolor exhibit will be on display at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center June 19th - 22nd Pride Night at Tulsa Shock Friday, June 6th, 2014; 7:00 pm BOK Center 200 S Denver Ave Friday, June 6th, 2014 will be Tulsa Shock Pride Night at the BOK Center. Use promo code "PRIDE" for $3.00 off your ticket price in selected sections. Purchase your tickets here Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org 'Everybody's Looking for Something' Friday, June 6th, 2014; 10:30 pm Club Majestic 124 N Boston Ave Friday, June 6th, 2014 at Club Majestic Tulsa, Eric Himan and company (EH3) will be performing the music of THE EURYTHMICS! One night only with special guests including artist, Coles Whalen on piano/bg vocals and the talents of Daphne Rio, Shanel Sterling, and Kris Kohl. Admission is $8 at the door. For more information visit erichiman.com Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, 4/23/26, 12:06 PM �Firefox 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-4th--2014.html... LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org --- Rainbow Run 2014 Sunday, June 8th, 2014; 10:00 am SOS Group 2014 RAINBOW RUN Presented by: p •v "id e .... ~ , ,,. , &lfl1n nl The Rainbow Run will be held on June 8th, 2014. The run starts at 10:00 am and will be ran on the Midland Valley Trails. The run will begin and end in Centennial Park. There will be two runs a 5K run and a 1K Fun Run. The Rainbow run will benefit Tulsa Pride. For more information about the Rainbow Run or to sign up, visit www.rainbowruntulsa.com Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org The Rainbow Run is being presented by Tulsa Pride, MAD Chicks Marketing and Design & Speakeasy Market Strategies. MOREcolor 2014 Show Opening Night Thursday, June 19th, 2014; 6:00 - 9:00 pm Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support 4/23/26, 12:06 PM �Firefox 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-4th--2014.html... Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop MORE color 1 • .•• 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Oklahomans for Equality is proud to host the MOREcolor 2014 Regional Juried Fine Arts Exhibition for Pride, June 19th - 22nd, 2014, at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Open for only four days during regular hours 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm. This year exhibiting more than fifty artists in a broad spectrum of media and styles, the MOREcolor 2014 juried exhibition opens June 19th and runs for just four days through June 22nd. The opening night event on June 19th from 6:00 to 9:00 pm will feature the harp music of Linda Paul and the Jazzical Strings trio, a multi-discipline performance work entitled "Noise Level 1," an installation by Matthew Ruyle, food by TW's-AFAB Catering and cash bar. The opening event and exhibition are free and open to the public. This annual event has become a regional juried show, highly anticipated year after year for its cutting edge reputation, showing fine art of the highest quality. The festive opening night is an evening not to be missed, every year featuring performing artists complementing and lifting the exhibition to the level of experience. For more information, visit MOREcolorart.com SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders 4/23/26, 12:06 PM �Firefox 5 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-4th--2014.html... Novel Talk with author Laura Moriarty Tuesday, June 24th, 2014; 7:00 pm Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1920 UNTIL OD WITH AUTHOR LAURA MORIA WWW. TUL SA P RIDE.ORG WWW . TULSA L IBRARY . ORG Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Novel Talk presents... I Am Human: Individual Empowerment from 1920 until Today What does it mean to be human? Are all people, indeed, created equal? What connects us... and what keeps us apart? In one way or another, most literature explores these elemental questions. In her acclaimed novel, The Chaperone, Laura Moriarty has a strong message of human equality and dignity. Join us for a special Novel Talk program where we will explore issues of women's rights, gay rights, and just plain human rights, and then hear from the author herself about her writing process and research for The Chaperone. Books for sale and book signing to follow. 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 For more information on Novel Talk or other library programs, call the AskUs Hotline, 918.549.7323, or visit the library's website, www.tulsalibrary.org GET F.I.T. (Fun, Intense, Training) Wednesdays and Thursdays at 6:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Now on Wednesdays and Thursdays, GET F.I.T. (Fun, Intense, Training) GET F.I.T. is an exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. The only requirement... keep moving through a combination of weight training and cardiovascular exercise. Wednesdays and Thursdays at 6:00 pm at the Equality Center. $5 for non-members and free to members... Come take your first steps to GET F.I.T. Facilitated by Brad Sullivan. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 4:00 pm. 4/23/26, 12:06 PM �Firefox 6 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-4th--2014.html... The June Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, June 18th, 2014 at 6:00 pm. Hosted by Campfire Green Country, the meeting will take place at the Circle Cinema, 10 S Lewis Ave, Tulsa OK 74104. Following the meeting will be a free screening of "The New Black". An explosive new documentary that uncovers the complicated and often combative histories of the African-American and LGBT civil rights movements. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave Tulsa, OK 74104 For more information on "The New Black", visit www.newblackfilm.com PFLAG of Tulsa Billboards Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. :a:: = ~ == Rainbow Writers PFLAG l'lnolS. F...les 11111 Friends of lasblam 111116l)S PFLAG of Tulsa billboards will be up all over town this month. Look for them at the following locations: 2002 E I-244 (South Side 100 ft East of Xanthus) 3015 Yale (East Side 200 ft South of 29th St) 913 W I-44 (North Side 600 ft West of Elwood) 12651 E BA EXPWY (North Side 400 ft West of 129th E Ave) 2801 S HWY 169 (.3 MI North of 61st Exit) 1st and 3rd Wednesdays 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org ----to attend Interfaith Alliance of Tulsa Awards Thursday, June 5th, 2014; 6:30 pm All Souls Unitarian Church 2952 S Peoria Ave The Tulsa Interfaith Alliance will be presenting Toby Jenkins with this year's Russell Bennett Faith and Courage Award for his work honoring the various spiritual traditions of GLBTQ persons, and for ensuring that the Dennis R Neill Equality Center is a safe space for all, regardless of faith. You are invited to join us for the Award Celebration on Thursday, June 5th, 2014 starting at 6:30 pm at All Souls Unitarian Church. The evening will include a buffet catered by TW's AFab Catering, as well as performances by Pam Crosby (President of the Tulsa Jazz Society) and her trio, along with Rebecca Ungerman. Tickets are $30/person and can be purchased by selecting the link on our web site at www.tulsainterfaithalliance.org , Yoga A - Z Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. 4/23/26, 12:06 PM �Firefox 7 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-4th--2014.html... Deadline for ticket purchase is Monday, June 2nd. Lambda Al-Anon INTERFAITH ALLIANCE Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm OF TULSA PROTECTING FAITH AND FREEDOM Council Oak Mens Chorale Pride Performance Wednesday, June 4th, 2014; 7:00 pm Hardesty Regional Library 8316 E 93 St, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74133 Game Night Council Oak Mens Chorale will present their annual Pride performance at the Hardesty Regional Library Wednesday, June 4th, 2014 at 7:00 pm. This will be a FREE event. www.counciloak.org Sisters in Song Opening for Chautauqua Tuesday, June 10th, 2014; 6:00 pm Southeast Campus, TCC 10300 East 81st Street Tulsa, Oklahoma 74133 ~ Sisters ~ in5 ong The Arts and Humanities Council of Tulsa sponsors the Oklahoma Chautauqua event beginning June 10th, 2014 at the Southeast Campus of Tulsa Community College, 81st street near Highway 169. This is the fifth year for Sisters in Song to open the Chautauqua. This year the Chautauqua theme is "A Crisis of Confidence: The War That Changed the World." The actors will be featuring great personalities from the years 1914 to 1918, including Woodrow Wilson, Edith Wharton, Henry James and Teddy Roosevelt. Please join the audience at 6:00 pm on Tuesday evening, June 10th, as Sisters in Song perform George M. Cohen, America The Beautiful, God Bless America, Me and My Shadow, and many more songs from the World War I era. Many of the songs are in sing-along format, so bring your voice to join in. For more information on Sisters in Song, visit their Facebook Council Oak Mens Chorale Summer Concert 'Be Our Guest' - A Disney Extravaganza! Thursday, June 5th and Friday, June 6th, 2014; 8:00 pm Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org - - - --Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet 4/23/26, 12:06 PM �Firefox 8 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-4th--2014.html... Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org Thursday, June 5th and Friday, June 6th, 2014 Gussman Concert Hall - Lorton Performance Center, University of Tulsa Campus 550 S Gary Place, Tulsa, OK Council Oak Mens Chorale's 16th summer season, entitled Be Our Guest! (A Disney Extravaganza) features the men of Council Oak Men's Chorale and guest artist Eric Himan. The concert includes music from beloved Disney movies, including songs from Beauty and the Beast, Aladdin, Jungle Book, Monster, Inc., Little Mermaid, Tangled, Tarzan, Lion King, Hercules, and others. Tickets are $20.00 available online or at the door. East Village 2nd Saturday Festival EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Saturday, June 14th, 2014; 4:00 - 10:00 pm 3rd & Lansing Downtown Tulsa Car Show/ Artist Booths/ Music/ Food Trucks Saturday, June 14, near 3rd & Lansing, Downtown Tulsa. As the sun goes down, enjoy the romantic lights over 3rd. Stay for a view of the Drillers' Fireworks Show that night (depending on how long the game runs). For more info, visit www.eastvillagetulsa.org The chrome will definitely be shining on the Sunny Side of Downtown this Father's Day Weekend. Bring your Dad! We're having an OPEN CAR SHOW! Plus Artist Booths, Live Music, and some of Tulsa's top Food Trucks. Mike Cameron Collective will be playing live on stage. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with 4/23/26, 12:06 PM �Firefox 9 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-4th--2014.html... Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Grateful Day Foundation Flapjack Fundraiser at Applebee's Saturday, June 21st, 2014; 8:00 - 10:00 am Applebee's 9409 E 71st St Tulsa, OK 74133 Appiebees Please join the Grateful Day Foundation at the Applebee's on 71st for flapjacks and coffee or juice. Tickets for the Flapjack Fundraiser are $7.00 and are available on the OkEq website here. The proceeds from this event will go directly to help fund the 2014 HIV Wellness Retreat, for Clients of Tulsa CARES and OSU Speciality Medicine. Qrnteful .£,A!J JF<0> 1l.Jl.JI'll.da.ti<0> JI'll. JI JI'll. c . Taking a leap of faith for those living with HIV/AIDS The Shower of Stoles Project On display June 2nd - 8th, 2014 Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Mondays and Fridays 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Cimarron Alliance Equality Center 5613 N May Ave, Ste 400 OKC, OK The Shower of Stoles Project is an extraordinary collection of over one thousand liturgical stoles and other sacred items representing the lives of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) people of faith. The project will be on display for the following dates: June 2nd - 5th from 12:00 - 8:00 pm at Cimarron Alliance Equality Center June 6th from 9:00 am - 12:00 pm at Cimarron Alliance Equality Center June 8th 9:00 am and 11:00 am Services at Mayflower UCC June 8th 6:00 pm Service at Cathedral of Hope OKC Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 12:06 PM �Firefox 10 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-4th--2014.html... la I I Shower I I" Stoles 11111 ·••11 "" OLi ...... PROJECT The stories ofLGBTpeople and their rejection by the church. Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Recep tion Ju ne 2 • 5-?prn • C ima rron All iance Equality Center Summer Theatre Classes Classes run June 16th - August 1st ,. ' Summer Theatre classes Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Join American Theatre Company's Artist Educators for exciting two week acting classes in Youth Cabaret, Shakespeare, for the Stage and in Improvisation, in the East Village. Each session ends with a live performance. For more information and registration, visit www.americantheatrecompany.org --------Classes will be held @ ATC Studios in Downtown Tulsa at 308 South Lansing. Classes run from 9:00 am until 4:00 pm. Out in Tulsa 2014 Saturday, June 14th, 2014; 6:30 pm 4/23/26, 12:06 PM �Firefox 11 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-4th--2014.html... Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center 2021 E 71st Street Openarms Youth Project will be holding their third annual fundraising event, Out in Tulsa, on Saturday, June 14th at 6:30 pm at the Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center. Join in for this exciting evening and help us raise funds to continue and expand the work at Openarms Youth Project for GLBTQ youth and their allies ages 14-20. This year's entertainment will feature performances by comedian Vickie Shaw and musician Austyn King. The event will be hosted by Randy Roberts Potts. Dinner will be served and a cash bar is available. Attire is business casual. Tickets are $125.00 per person and may be purchased using the link below. Visit OpenArms Youth Project for more information and to purchase tickets World Elder Abuse Day Monday, June 16th, 2014; 11:00 am Cox Business Center 100 Civic Center The Senior Service Section of the Tulsa Police Departments Financial Crimes Unit is recognizing local seniors for World Elder Abuse Awareness Day on June 16, 2014 at the Cox Business Center located at 100 Civic Center Drive in downtown Tulsa, Oklahoma from 11:00 am to 3:00 pm. The event is being held in partnership with the Tulsa City County TRIAD, and with the assistance and support of many community partner agencies. Booths operated by various community outreach partners will be present. For more information, or to register your booth, contact Det. D. R. Crisp, Tulsa Police Department Financial Crimes Unit at 918 596-1317 dcrisp@cityoftulsa.org Research in Gay and Lesbian Workplace Relationships Are you "out" at work? Did you come out in the past few years? Or do you know someone that has come out in the past few years? Researchers would like to learn how your experience with your work, your organization, and your co-workers has changed since you came out. All information obtained during the interview process will be kept confidential. For more information contact Kim Perry at 719.217.4205 or kdperrytx7105@hotmail.com 4/23/26, 12:06 PM �Firefox 12 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-4th--2014.html... Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2014 shirts are now available in The Pride Store. All sizes S through 2X are $20.00 Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'This Day in June' by Gayle L. Pitman & illustrated by Kristyna Litten You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In a wildly whimsical, validating, and exuberant reflection of the LGBT community, This Day In June welcomes readers to experience a pride celebration and share in a day when we are all united. Also included is a Reading Guide chock-full of facts about LGBT history and culture, as well as a Note to Parents and Caregivers with information on how to talk to children about sexual orientation and gender identity in age-appropriate ways. This Day In June is an excellent tool for teaching respect, acceptance, and understanding of lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender people. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/23/26, 12:06 PM �Firefox 13 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-4th--2014.html... •••~ . Vol int r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! TU SA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r----------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 12:06 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/61a8da6f6c0627a9062e53e542c63153.pdf 01abb4d09664241a7af480c59db9e84a PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-12th--2014.ht... eNews • Welcome to the eNews. Thank you to everyone who came out and celebrated Tulsa Pride with us! Be sure to join us for the MOREcolor Art Show reception on Thursday, June 19th, 2014 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality MOREcolor 2014 Show Opening Night Thursday, June 19th, 2014; 6:00 - 9:00 pm June 12th, 2014 In This Issue MOREcolor EBA Novel Talk GET F.I.T. PFLAG Billboards East Village 2nd Saturday Festival Out in Tulsa 2014 Tulsa Pride Feedback a night OUT National Gay Blood Drive Grateful Day Flapjack Fundraiser Summer Theatre Classes Mara Keisling First Thursday Art Show World Elder Abuse Day Out in the Workplace In Memorium Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Oklahomans for Equality is proud to host the MOREcolor 2014 Regional Juried Fine Arts Exhibition for Pride, June 19th - 22nd, 2014, at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Open for only four days during regular hours 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm. Find Us on Facebook This year exhibiting more than fifty artists in a broad spectrum of media and styles, the MOREcolor 2014 juried exhibition opens June 19th and runs for just four days through June 22nd. The opening night event on June 19th from 6:00 to 9:00 pm will feature the harp music of Linda Paul and the Jazzical Strings trio, a multi-discipline performance work entitled "Noise Level 1," an installation by Matthew Ruyle, food by TW's-AFAB Catering and cash bar. The opening event and exhibition are free and open to the public. This annual event has become a regional juried show, highly anticipated year after year for its cutting edge reputation, showing fine art of the highest quality. The festive opening night is an evening not to be missed, OkEq Art Exhibit The MOREcolor exhibit will be on display at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center June 19th - 22nd 4/23/26, 12:06 PM �Firefox 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-12th--2014.ht... every year featuring performing artists complementing and lifting the exhibition to the level of experience. For more information, visit MOREcolorart.com Counseling Services Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook I E UALITY QJBusmess Alliance The June Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, June 18th, 2014 at 5:30 pm. Hosted by Camp Fire of Green Country, the meeting will take place at the Circle Cinema, 10 S Lewis Ave, Tulsa OK 74104. Following the meeting will be a free screening of "The New Black". An explosive new documentary that uncovers the complicated and often combative histories of the African-American and LGBT civil rights movements. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. il 7 1\ Camp Fire Green Country Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave Tulsa, OK 74104 For more information on "The New Black", visit www.newblackfilm.com Novel Talk with author Laura Moriarty Tuesday, June 24th, 2014; 7:00 pm Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 12:06 PM �Firefox 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-12th--2014.ht... 1920 UNTIL TODAY WITH AUTHOR LAURA MORIA WWW . TUL SAPR IDE.ORG WWW . TUL 5A L 18RARY.ORG Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Novel Talk presents... I Am Human: Individual Empowerment from 1920 until Today What does it mean to be human? Are all people, indeed, created equal? What connects us... and what keeps us apart? In one way or another, most literature explores these elemental questions. In her acclaimed novel, The Chaperone, Laura Moriarty has a strong message of human equality and dignity. Join us for a special Novel Talk program where we will explore issues of women's rights, gay rights, and just plain human rights, and then hear from the author herself about her writing process and research for The Chaperone. Books for sale and book signing to follow. For more information on Novel Talk or other library programs, call the AskUs Hotline, 918.549.7323, or visit the library's website, www.tulsalibrary.org Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org GET F.I.T. (Fun, Intense, Training) Wednesdays and Thursdays at 6:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Now on Wednesdays and Thursdays, GET F.I.T. (Fun, Intense, Training) GET F.I.T. is an exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. The only requirement... keep moving through a combination of weight training and cardiovascular exercise. Wednesdays and Thursdays at 6:00 pm at the Equality Center. $5 for non-members and free to members... Come take your first steps to GET F.I.T. Facilitated by Brad Sullivan. SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org PFLAG of Tulsa Billboards Grieving Well PFLAG Paninis, F. . .les 1111d F riends of usblam lllld Gays PFLAG of Tulsa billboards will be up all over town this month. 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by 4/23/26, 12:06 PM �Firefox 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-12th--2014.ht... Look for them at the following locations: Yolanda Arnold 2002 E I-244 (South Side 100 ft East of Xanthus) 3015 Yale (East Side 200 ft South of 29th St) 913 W I-44 (North Side 600 ft West of Elwood) 12651 E BA EXPWY (North Side 400 ft West of 129th E Ave) 2801 S HWY 169 (.3 MI North of 61st Exit) Live Free! Coming Out Workshop East Village 2nd Saturday Festival Saturday, June 14th, 2014; 4:00 - 10:00 pm 3rd & Lansing Downtown Tulsa 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Car Show/ Artist Booths/ Music/ Food Trucks Saturday, June 14, near 3rd & Lansing, Downtown Tulsa. As the sun goes down, enjoy the romantic lights over 3rd. Stay for a view of the Drillers' Fireworks Show that night (depending on how long the game runs). For more info, visit www.eastvillagetulsa.org The chrome will definitely be shining on the Sunny Side of Downtown this Father's Day Weekend. Bring your Dad! We're having an OPEN CAR SHOW! Plus Artist Booths, Live Music, and some of Tulsa's top Food Trucks. Mike Cameron Collective will be playing live on stage. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Out in Tulsa 2014 Saturday, June 14th, 2014; 6:30 pm o@1 '" 1'1\S~,..,~ - - - - -~060 ••14.2014 Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ ServJCes and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tram.gender Elders Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center 2021 E 71st Street Openarms Youth Project will be holding their third annual fundraising event, Out in Tulsa, on Saturday, June 14th at 6:30 pm at the Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center. Join in for this exciting evening and help us raise funds to continue and Tulsa Area Prime Timers 4/23/26, 12:06 PM �Firefox 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-12th--2014.ht... expand the work at Openarms Youth Project for GLBTQ youth and their allies ages 14-20. This year's entertainment will feature performances by comedian Vickie Shaw and musician Austyn King. The event will be hosted by Randy Roberts Potts. Dinner will be served and a cash bar is available. Attire is business casual. Tickets are $125.00 per person and may be purchased using the link below. Visit OpenArms Youth Project for more information and to purchase tickets 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Tulsa Pride 2014 Community Feedback Meeting Thursday, June 26th, 2014; 7:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center '"'"A p de THANK YOU TULSA! The OkEq Tulsa Pride Committee would like to thank all who attended 2014 Tulsa Pride 2014 Celebrations. The Public Community Feedback meeting is at the Equality Center on Thursday, June 26th at 7:30 HEi=LECTIOIIIS ISTOIIIELI DFl>Hllll: WALL "" pm. All are welcome to attend and share innovative ideas for Tulsa Pride 2015. == a night OUT with Nicole Carrington Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Thursday, June 19th, 2014; 9:30 pm The Comedy Parlor 328 E 1st St Tulsa, OK 74120 $5.00 Entry Fee 18+ to enter Show at 9:30 pm Dale Hogan as Nicole Carrington is a local girl with tons of funny stories about life and times as a drag queen. Come on OUT for a night of laughs! Featuring: Sophia Starr, Drew Welcher, and Tiffany Elam. For more information purchase visit comedyparlor.com Get F.I.T. or to tickets, National Gay Blood Drive ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 4:00 pm. Gender Outreach Friday, July 11th, 2014; 2:00 - 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center NATIONAL 4/23/26, 12:06 PM �Firefox 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-12th--2014.ht... The National Gay Blood Drive is on July 11th, 2014. This is a nationwide effort to bring attention to the FDA's ban against Gay & Bisexual men donating blood & increase pressure on them to change it. Oklahomans for Equality and the Oklahoma Blood Institute will be hosting the Tulsa event at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center from 2:00 - 7:00 pm. Gay & Bisexual men are encouraged to show their willingness to contribute by bringing in allies to donate in their place. For more information about the National Gay Blood Drive, visit www.gayblooddrive.com - -------- Grateful Day Foundation Flapjack Fundraiser at Applebee's Saturday, June 21st, 2014; 8:00 - 10:00 am Applebee's 9409 E 71st St Tulsa, OK 74133 Appiebee.5 Please join the Grateful Day Foundation at the Applebee's on 71st for flapjacks and coffee or juice. Tickets for the Flapjack Fundraiser are $7.00 and are available on the OkEq website here. The proceeds from this event will go directly to help fund the 2014 HIV Wellness Retreat, for Clients of Tulsa CARES and OSU Speciality Medicine. Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. -.. Rainbow Writers 1st and 3rd Wednesdays 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Qrnteful £)nu JF <0> 1l.ll.:n::n.d a i .ti<0> :n::n. JI :n::n.c. Taking a leap of faith for those living with HIV/AIDS Summer Theatre Classes Yoga A - Z Classes run June 16th - August 1st Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 4/23/26, 12:06 PM �Firefox 7 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-12th--2014.ht... 7:00 pm Summer • Theatre classes Downtown Tulsa Game Night Join American Theatre Company's Artist Educators for exciting two week acting classes in Youth Cabaret, Shakespeare, for the Stage and in Improvisation, in the East Village. Each session ends with a live performance. For more information and registration, visit www.americantheatrecompany.org ----------- - - Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Classes will be held @ ATC Studios in Downtown Tulsa at 308 South Lansing. Classes run from 9:00 am until 4:00 pm. Oklahomans for Equality hosts Mara Keisling Wednesday, July 23rd, 2014; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will host a reception and Q&A lecture with Mara Keisling, Executive Director of the National Center for Transgender Equality on Wednesday, July 23rd at 7:00 pm. This event is free and open to the public. Mara Keisling is the founding Executive Director of the National Center for Transgender Equality. Mara is a transgender-identified woman and a parent. As one of the nation's leading voices for transgender equality, Mara has appeared on news outlets and is regularly quoted in hundreds of national and local print and broadcast media. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet July First Thursday Art Reception Thursday, July 3rd, 2014; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The July Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Susan Foust, in a show titled: "Vehicle of Wash", beginning with a reception on 4/23/26, 12:06 PM �Firefox 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-12th--2014.ht... Thursday, July 3rd, 2014 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org World Elder Abuse Awareness Day Monday, June 16th, 2014; 11:00 am Cox Business Center 100 Civic Center The Senior Service Section of the Tulsa Police Departments Financial Crimes Unit is recognizing local seniors for World Elder Abuse Awareness Day on June 16, 2014 at the Cox Business Center located at 100 Civic Center Drive in downtown Tulsa, Oklahoma from 11:00 am to 3:00 pm. The event is being held in partnership with the Tulsa City County TRIAD, and with the assistance and support of many community partner agencies. Booths operated by various community outreach partners will be present. For more information, or to register your booth, contact Det. D. R. Crisp, Tulsa Police Department Financial Crimes Unit at 918 596-1317 dcrisp@cityoftulsa.org -- ------ EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Research in Gay and Lesbian Workplace Relationships Are you "out" at work? Did you come out in the past few years? Or do you know someone that has come out in the past few years? Researchers would like to learn how your experience with your work, your organization, and your co-workers has changed since you came out. All information obtained during the interview process will be kept confidential. For more information contact Kim Perry at 719.217.4205 or kdperrytx7105@hotmail.com ------- In Memorium Charles Labig Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/23/26, 12:06 PM �Firefox 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-12th--2014.ht... Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Mondays and Fridays 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm Charles Labig (Pictured in the foreground) riding past the Equality Center Dr. Charles E. Labig, of Greenville, passed away June 3, 2014 at his home in Tulsa, Okla. at the age of 65. He was born on Jan. 12, 1949 in Greenville, to the late Chalmer and Martha Labig. Charles was a 1967 graduate of Greenville High School, and received a BA in philosophy and religion from DePauw University in Greencastle, Ind. He went on to attend Boston University School of Theology, a seminary of the United Methodist Church, earning a Master of theology in psychology of religion and pastoral counseling. In 1978, he earned a Ph.D. in religion, culture and psychology from Boston University Graduate School of Arts and Sciences. Dr. Labig worked as a licensed psychologist in the Commonwealth of Massachusetts mental health system, in both clinical and administrative positions, while also seeing patients in his own private practice in the suburban Boston area. Charles valued his education highly, and he returned to Boston University, earning an MBA from the School of Management. From there, he became a corporate psychologist and joined RHR International, a consulting firm located in Los Angeles, Cali. While at RHR, he specialized in executive and organizational effectiveness. In 1995, he authored the book Preventing Violence in the Workplace. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org --- Dr. Labig had a passion for coaching effective leaders. He went on to work for BP Amoco Corporation at their headquarters in Chicago, Ill. as director of learning and organizational development until 1999. At The Hay Group of Chicago, Ill., he specialized in organizational effectiveness and leadership development. He later served as director of leadership and employee development at Baxter Healthcare Corporation of Deerfield, Ill., until his retirement in 2001. In 2006, he relocated to Tulsa, Okla. Charles is survived by his two sons, Andrew R. Labig of Lafayette, Ind., and Michael Charles Labig of Colorado Springs, Colo.; along with his brother Chalmer E. Labig, Jr. and niece Emily Ann Labig, both of Tulsa, Okla. Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org --- 4/23/26, 12:06 PM �Firefox 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-12th--2014.ht... Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2014 shirts are now available in The Pride Store. All sizes S through 2X are $20.00 Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items . rn:l::x:C powe..at,,,,thetulH ragoooalchamber Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Love, Christopher Street: Reflections of New York City' edited by Thomas Keith You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Representing some of the most talented writers at work today, the 26 original essays in Love, Christopher Street encompass revealing, intense, profound, funny, personal, and queer reflections that span forty years of gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender life in the Bronx, Brooklyn, Manhattan, Queens, and Staten Island. Together these essays create an LGBT love letter to New York City from native New Yorkers, American transplants, and international writers. This book continues the Lambda Awardwinning series of LGBT tributes to great cities. Just a few of the quintessentially queer essays include the Rev. Irene Monroe's account of the hot summer night in 1969 when she witnessed police raiding the Stonewall Inn on Christopher Street and the drag queens who fought back; Bob Smith's memoir of his life as an out stand-up comedian in the 1980s and how he has kept his fierce humor while faced with the diagnosis of ALS; Penny Arcade's saga of being a runaway in NYC and taken in off the streets by gay men who introduced her to Warhol's Factory; Ocean Vuong's chronicle of how he went from being a couch-surfing college student to homeless in Penn Station; and civil rights activist Brendan Fay reveals what took him all the way from Ireland to "Finding Jes�s on Christopher Street." Contributors include Mark Ameen, Penny Arcade, Christopher Bram, Brendan Fay, Thomas Glave, Jewelle Gomez, Aaron Hamburger, Martin Hyatt, Fay Jacobs, G. Winston James, Michele Karlsberg, Shaun Levin, Amos Mac, 4/23/26, 12:06 PM �Firefox 11 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-12th--2014.ht... David McConnell, Val McDermid, Rev. Irene Monroe, Rabbi Andrea Myers, Nicky Paraiso, Felice Picano, Charles Rice-Gonz�lez, Eddie Sarfaty, Justine Saracen, Bob Smith, Shawn Syms, Charlie V�zquez, Ocean Vuong, and Kathleen Warnock. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library . • ~ . Vol 1nt r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! TULSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 12:06 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/ad61728b5e58ea2abd522c898643b5d8.pdf d7ab3fc384b32c07c3e745ea46f16308 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-19th--2014.ht... eNews June 19th, 2014 In This Issue MOREcolor Equality Gala Note Volunteer of the Year Novel Talk Welcome to the eNews. Be sure to join us for the MOREcolor Art Show reception on Thursday, June 19th, 2014 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Tulsa Pride Feedback MOREcolor 2014 Show SAGE Tulsa Pool Party Opening Night Thursday, June 19th, 2014; 6:00 - 9:00 pm Grateful Day Flapjack Fundraiser GET F.I.T. a night OUT Board of Directors New Counseling Services PFLAG Billboards National Gay Blood Drive Tulsa Metro Softball League Gamily Ice Cream Social Mara Keisling First Thursday Art Show DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. Out in the Workplace Pride Store Oklahomans for Equality is proud to host the MOREcolor 2014 Regional Juried Fine Arts Exhibition for Pride, June 19th - 22nd, 2014, at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Open for only four days during regular hours 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm. This year exhibiting more than fifty artists in a broad spectrum of media and styles, the MOREcolor 2014 juried exhibition opens June 19th and runs for just four days through June 22nd. Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook The opening night event on June 19th from 6:00 to 9:00 pm will feature the harp music of Linda Paul and the Jazzical Strings trio, a multi-discipline performance work entitled "Noise Level 1," an installation by Matthew Ruyle, food by TW's-AFAB Catering and cash bar. The opening event and exhibition are free and open to the public. This annual event has become a regional juried show, highly anticipated year after year for its cutting edge reputation, showing fine art of the highest quality. The festive opening night is an evening not to be missed, every year featuring performing artists complementing and lifting the exhibition to the OkEq Art Exhibit The MOREcolor exhibit will be on display at the Dennis R. Neill 4/23/26, 12:07 PM �Firefox 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-19th--2014.ht... level of experience. For more information, visit MOREcolorart.com Equality Center June 19th - 22nd Counseling Services Note from the Equality Gala Committee To the winners of the White Lion live auction dinner item: please contact the Equality Center at 918.743.4297 for more information about your dinner. Ask for Mary Jones or Lucas Green. Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org Counseling Services Oklahomans for Equality Volunteer of the Year Award dinner on Sunday, July 13th, 2014; 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality will be presenting our Volunteer of the Year Award to Andrew Gordon at our first ever Volunteer Appreciation Dinner on Sunday, July 13th at 6:30 pm. The event will be called "Proud on the Prairie" and will be western themed. Hot dogs, hamburgers and tofu burgers will be grilled for dinner. Chasing Nadean will perform country classics for the event. RSVP to Mary.Jones@OkEq.org to attend. Attendees must have volunteered for OkEq. Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs knighcl@okstate.edu Andrew Gordon has been a volunteer at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center since April of 2010. Andrew has dedicated himself to volunteer service for OkEq from the smallest tasks of stocking the soda machine to working all day at the Tulsa Pride events. Unknown to him, Andrew has even given 4/23/26, 12:07 PM �Firefox 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-19th--2014.ht... tours of the Equality Center to Tulsa's top philanthropists. Andrew and his family have attended the annual Equality Gala since 2010. Along with Cait O'Darling, Andrew has been faithfully volunteering at the Front Desk, answering the Helpline and assisting the staff in everyday duties. Oklahomans for Equality could not function without the assistance of our volunteers, so we happily recognize Andrew with the 2014 Volunteer of the Year Award. Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org Andrew attending the Equality Gala 2014, is pictured with fellow volunteer Cait O'Darling and special guest Prince Manvendra Novel Talk with author Laura Moriarty Tuesday, June 24th, 2014; 7:00 pm UNTIL OD WITH AUTHOR LAURA MORIA WWW.TULSA PRIDE.ORG WWW . TULSA L IBRARY . ORG Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Novel Talk presents... I Am Human: Individual Empowerment from 1920 until Today What does it mean to be human? Are all people, indeed, created equal? What connects us... and what keeps us apart? In one way or another, most literature explores these elemental questions. In her acclaimed novel, The Chaperone, Laura Moriarty has a strong message of human equality and dignity. Join us for a special Novel Talk program where we will explore issues of women's rights, gay rights, and just plain human rights, and then hear from the author herself about her writing process and research for The Chaperone. Books for sale and book signing to follow. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SOS Group For more information on Novel Talk or other library programs, call the 4/23/26, 12:07 PM �Firefox 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-19th--2014.ht... AskUs Hotline, 918.549.7323, www.tulsalibrary.org or visit the library's website, GET F.I.T. (Fun, Intense, Training) Wednesdays and Thursdays at 6:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Now on Wednesdays and Thursdays, GET F.I.T. (Fun, Intense, Training) GET F.I.T. is an exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. The only requirement... keep moving through a combination of weight training and cardiovascular exercise. Wednesdays and Thursdays at 6:00 pm at the Equality Center. $5 for non-members and free to members... Come take your first steps to GET F.I.T. Facilitated by Brad Sullivan. Tulsa Pride 2014 Community Feedback Meeting Thursday, June 26th, 2014; 7:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center ""'"Ide p THANK YOU TULSA! The OkEq Tulsa Pride Committee would like to thank all who attended 2014 Tulsa Pride 2014 Celebrations. The Public Community Feedback meeting is at the Equality ISTOIIIEL I . . Center on Thursday, June 26th at 7:30 pm. All HEFLECTICJIIIS CJF P IU ll I: \.\IALL ;) are welcome to attend and share innovative ideas for Tulsa Pride 2015. a night OUT with Nicole Carrington Thursday, June 19th, 2014; 9:30 pm The Comedy Parlor 328 E 1st St Tulsa, OK 74120 $5.00 Entry Fee 18+ to enter Show at 9:30 pm Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Grieving Well *On hiatus for June* 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Dale Hogan as Nicole Carrington is a local girl with tons of funny stories about life and times as a drag queen. Come on OUT for a night of laughs! Featuring: Sophia Starr, Drew Welcher, and Tiffany Elam. For more information or to purchase tickets, visit comedyparlor.com 4/23/26, 12:07 PM �Firefox 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-19th--2014.ht... Oklahomans for Equality Annual Meeting and Board of Directors Elections SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan OkEq Board 2013-2014 The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 25th, 2014 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. sage Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee (Applications due to OkEq by July 24th) OR 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by September 10th) At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is accepting applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Seven directors will be elected. Please contact Lucas.Green@okeq.org for an application and to interview with the Board of Development and Governance Committee if you desire to be nominated by the Board of Development and Governance Committee. Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 SAGE Tulsa Pool Party Thursday, June 26th, 2014; 10:00 am SAGE Tulsa will have a pool party on Thursday, June 26th, 2014 at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and Hibiscus Tea, so bring your favorite salad and chips. The pool has a shallow sagew Servoces and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & TramgC"ndc-r Eldi:>rs 4/23/26, 12:07 PM �Firefox 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-19th--2014.ht... end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email SAGE@OkEq.org to RSVP. Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org Grateful Day Foundation Flapjack Fundraiser at Applebee's ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 4:00 pm. Saturday, June 21st, 2014; 8:00 - 10:00 am Applebee's 9409 E 71st St Tulsa, OK 74133 Awlebees Please join the Grateful Day Foundation at the Applebee's on 71st for flapjacks and coffee or juice. Tickets for the Flapjack Fundraiser are $7.00 and are available on the OkEq website here. The proceeds from this event will go directly to help fund the 2014 HIV Wellness Retreat, for Clients of Tulsa CARES and OSU Speciality Medicine. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Qrnteful .£,A!J JF 0>1U1JI"ll.da.ti0> JI"ll. JIJI"ll.ce. Taking a leap of faith for those living with HIV/ AIDS Rainbow Writers 4/23/26, 12:07 PM �Firefox 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-19th--2014.ht... New Counseling Services Weekdays by appointment OkEq welcomes a new intern, Chelsey Dobbs, to our Counseling Service Program at the Equality Center. Chelsey Dobbs earned her Bachelor of Arts degree in Psychology from Oklahoma State University, and is currently working toward her Master's degree in Community Counseling from Oklahoma State University in Tulsa. She is providing counseling services at the Equality Center in her capacity as an intern at the OSUTulsa Counseling Center. She is interested in working primarily with adults, and is particularly interested in the provision of counseling services to LGBTQ people. 1st and 3rd Wednesdays 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org ----to attend Contact Chelsey at knighcl@okstate.edu to schedule an appointment. ---- PFLAG of Tulsa Billboards Yoga A - Z PFLAG Pareois, Fadles 111d Frieods of lasblam llld Coys PFLAG of Tulsa billboards will be up all over town this month. Look for them at the following locations: 2002 E I-244 (South Side 100 ft East of Xanthus) 3015 Yale (East Side 200 ft South of 29th St) 913 W I-44 (North Side 600 ft West of Elwood) 12651 E BA EXPWY (North Side 400 ft West of 129th E Ave) 2801 S HWY 169 (.3 MI North of 61st Exit) *On hiatus for Summer* Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm National Gay Blood Drive Friday, July 11th, 2014; 2:00 - 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center NATIONAL The National Gay Blood Drive is on July 11th, GAY BLOOD DRIVE 2014. This is a nationwide effort to bring attention to the FDA's ban against Gay & Bisexual men donating blood & increase pressure on them to change it. Game Night Oklahomans for Equality and the Oklahoma Blood Institute will be hosting the Tulsa event at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center from 2:00 - 7:00 pm. Register yourself and donor buddies on the OkEq website here. Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card ~ 4/23/26, 12:07 PM �Firefox 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-19th--2014.ht... Gay & Bisexual men are encouraged to show their willingness to contribute by bringing in allies to donate in their place. For more information about the National Gay Blood Drive, visit www.gayblooddrive.com - ------- games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Tulsa Metro Softball League wins in OKC Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals Tulsa Twisters and T-Town Zealers Oklahomans for Equality wants to congratulate the Tulsa Metro Softball League teams that played in the Sooner State Classic in OKC this last weekend. Tulsa Rampage The Tulsa Twisters finished 1st place and the T-Town Zealers took 2nd place in the D Division championship game 18-17! Also, the Rampage finished 1st place in the C Division. It was a successful weekend for Tulsa Metro Softball League. 2nd Annual Gamily Ice Cream Social Sunday, July 20th, 2014; 1:00 - 3:00 pm It's that time again! Gamily's 2nd Annual Ice Cream Social! Come have fun and eat free ICE CREAM. This is an opportunity to meet other families and make new friends. Join us on Sunday, July 20, 2014 from 1:00 to 3:00 pm. RSVP on OkEq's Gamily Facebook page or email Gamily@OkEq.org The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 12:07 PM �Firefox 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-19th--2014.ht... Oklahomans for Equality hosts Mara Keisling Wednesday, July 23rd, 2014; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will host a reception and Q&A lecture with Mara Keisling, Executive Director of the National Center for Transgender Equality on Wednesday, July 23rd at 7:00 pm. This event is free and open to the public. Mara Keisling is the founding Executive Director of the National Center for Transgender Equality. Mara is a transgender-identified woman and a parent. As one of the nation's leading voices for transgender equality, Mara has appeared on news outlets and is regularly quoted in hundreds of national and local print and broadcast media. July First Thursday Art Reception Thursday, July 3rd, 2014; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The July Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Susan Foust, in a show titled: "Vehicle of Wash", beginning with a reception on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. Friday, Saturday, August 22nd, 2014; 6:30 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Mondays and Fridays 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm 4/23/26, 12:07 PM �Firefox 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-19th--2014.ht... Grab your pearl snaps and rhinestones... this year it's COUNTRY ROCK! Please Health, Outreach, Education and Prevention for their 2014 HIV and Hepatitis Prevention Event... DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. WHEN: August 22nd, 2014 Reception 6:30 pm Concert 7:45 pm WHERE: Double Tree by Hilton Warren Place 6110 South Yale Avenue Tulsa, Oklahoma 74136-1904 MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. EMCEES: The fabulous and talented, KC Lupp and Heather RichettoRumley! PERFORMING DIVAS: - KC Lupp - Heather Richetto Rumley - Daryl Christopher - Tavis Minner -Christy Hanewinkel - Mark Gibson - Pam Van Dyke - Cindy Cain - Jeff Cherblanc - John Sawyer Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org --- For more information or to purchase a sponsorhip / ticket, please visit hopetesting.org Research in Gay and Lesbian Workplace Relationships Are you "out" at work? Did you come out in the past few years? Or do you know someone that has come out in the past few years? Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org -- - Researchers would like to learn how your experience with your work, your organization, and your co-workers has changed since you came out. All information obtained during the interview process will be kept confidential. For more information contact Kim Perry at 719.217.4205 or kdperrytx7105@hotmail.com --- --- Equality Center Pride Store Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org --- Tulsa Pride 2014 shirts are now available in The Pride Store. All sizes S through 2X are $10.00 4/23/26, 12:07 PM �Firefox 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-19th--2014.ht... Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'The Full Spectrum: New Generation of Writing About Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, Transgender, Questioning, and Other Identities' edited by David Levithan & Billy Merrell You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Teens are more aware of sexuality and identity than ever, and they're looking for answers and insights, as well as a community of others. In order to help create that community, YA authors David Levithan and Billy Merrell have collected original poems, essays, and stories by young adults in their teens and early 20s. The Full Spectrum includes a variety of writers-gay, lesbian, bisexual, straight, transitioning, and questioning-on a variety of subjects: coming out, family, friendship, religion/faith, first kisses, break-ups, and many others. This one of a kind collection will, perhaps, help all readers see themselves and the world around them in ways they might never have imagined. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/23/26, 12:07 PM �Firefox 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-19th--2014.ht... •••~ .. Volunt er A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! fULSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r----------------------------------------------------~ I I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I I ~----------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 12:07 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/54857cadda8e0b96645a1f74ce287718.pdf d0e57507cd664706c9267bf46b7d155d PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-26th--2014.ht... eNews June 26th, 2014 In This Issue Volunteer of the Year National Gay Blood Drive Tulsa Pride Feedback Equality Gala Note Welcome to the eNews. Make plans to attend the National Gay Blood Drive on Friday, July 11th. OkEq will hold the Tulsa event at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center from 2:00 - 7:00 pm. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Oklahomans for Equality Volunteer of the Year Award dinner on Sunday, July 13th, 2014; 6:00 pm GET F.I.T. LGBT Pride Month at the White House Board of Directors New Counseling Services PFLAG Billboards Tulsa Metro Softball League Gamily Ice Cream Social Mara Keisling First Thursday Art Show Friend for a Friend Dinner DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. Out in the Workplace Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook Andrew attending the Equality Gala 2014, is pictured with fellow volunteer Cait O'Darling and special guest Prince Manvendra Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will be presenting our Volunteer of the Year Award to Andrew Gordon at our first ever Volunteer Appreciation Dinner on Sunday, July 13th at 6:30 pm. The event will be called "Proud on the Prairie" and will be western themed. Hot dogs, hamburgers and tofu burgers will be grilled for dinner. Chasing Nadean will perform country classics for the event. RSVP to Mary.Jones@OkEq.org to attend. Attendees must have volunteered for OkEq. Andrew Gordon has been a volunteer at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center since June of 2009. Andrew has dedicated himself to volunteer service for OkEq from the smallest tasks of stocking the soda machine to working all day at the Tulsa Pride events. Unknown to him, Andrew has even given tours of the Equality Center to Tulsa's top philanthropists. Andrew and his family have attended the annual Equality Gala since 2010. Along with Cait O'Darling, Andrew has been faithfully volunteering at the Front Desk, OkEq Art Exhibit The June exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will be the MOREcolor Art Show. 4/23/26, 12:08 PM �Firefox 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-26th--2014.ht... answering the Helpline and assisting the staff in everyday duties. Oklahomans for Equality could not function without the assistance of our volunteers, so we happily recognize Andrew with the 2014 Volunteer of the Year Award. National Gay Blood Drive Friday, July 11th, 2014; 2:00 - 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Counseling Services NATIONAL The National Gay Blood Drive is on July 11th, 2014. This is a nationwide effort to bring GAY BLOOD DRIVE attention to the FDA's ban against Gay & Bisexual men donating blood & increase pressure on them to change it. ~ Oklahomans for Equality and the Oklahoma Blood Institute will be hosting the Tulsa event at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center from 2:00 - 7:00 pm. Register yourself and donor buddies on the OkEq website here. Gay & Bisexual men are encouraged to show their willingness to contribute by bringing in allies to donate in their place. Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org For more information about the National Gay Blood Drive, visit www.gayblooddrive.com - ------- Tulsa Pride 2014 Community Feedback Meeting Thursday, June 26th, 2014; 7:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center ""'"Ide p THANK YOU TULSA! The OkEq Tulsa Pride Committee would like to thank all who attended 2014 Tulsa Pride 2014 Celebrations. The Public Community Feedback meeting is at the Equality srnMELI .. Center on Thursday, June 26th at 7:30 pm. All H1:1=u::cT1m,1s1 OF p If 11) I: \,\/ALL ;, are welcome to attend and share innovative ideas for Tulsa Pride 2015. Note from the Equality Gala Committee To the winners of the White Lion live auction dinner item: please contact the Equality Center at 918.743.4297 for more information about your dinner. Ask for Mary Jones or Lucas Green. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs knighcl@okstate.edu 4/23/26, 12:08 PM �Firefox 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-26th--2014.ht... Counseling Services GET F.I.T. (Fun, Intense, Training) Wednesdays and Thursdays at 6:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Now on Wednesdays and Thursdays, GET F.I.T. (Fun, Intense, Training) GET F.I.T. is an exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. The only requirement... keep moving through a combination of weight training and cardiovascular exercise. Wednesdays and Thursdays at 6:00 pm at the Equality Center. $5 for non-members and free to members... Come take your first steps to GET F.I.T. Facilitated by Brad Sullivan. Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org LGBT Pride Month at the White House Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Oklahomans for Equality has been invited to the White House on June 30th to attend a reception to celebrate LGBT Pride Month. In attendance will be OkEq Executive Director Toby Jenkins and OkEq Board President Michael F. Smith. Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SOS Group 4/23/26, 12:08 PM �Firefox 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-26th--2014.ht... Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Oklahomans for Equality Annual Meeting and Board of Directors Elections Grieving Well *On hiatus for June* 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold OkEq Board 2013-2014 The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 25th, 2014 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee (Applications due to OkEq by July 24th) OR 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by September 10th) Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is accepting applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Seven directors will be elected. Please contact Lucas.Green@OkEq.org - - - - - for an application and to interview with the Board of Development and Governance Committee if you desire to be nominated by the Board of Development and Governance Committee. Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4/23/26, 12:08 PM �Firefox 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-26th--2014.ht... 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term New Counseling Services Weekdays by appointment OkEq welcomes a new intern, Chelsey Dobbs, to our Counseling Service Program at the Equality Center. Chelsey Dobbs earned her Bachelor of Arts degree in Psychology from Oklahoma State University, and is currently working toward her Master's degree in Community Counseling from Oklahoma State University in Tulsa. She is providing counseling services at the Equality Center in her capacity as an intern at the OSUTulsa Counseling Center. She is interested in working primarily with adults, and is particularly interested in the provision of counseling services to LGBTQ people. Contact Chelsey at knighcl@okstate.edu - - - - to schedule an appointment. PFLAG of Tulsa Billboards SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders PFLAG Pareots. F...lesond Frtendsof l.asbiamond&ays Tulsa Area Prime Timers PFLAG of Tulsa billboards will be up all over town this month. Look for them at the following locations: 2002 E I-244 (South Side 100 ft East of Xanthus) 3015 Yale (East Side 200 ft South of 29th St) 913 W I-44 (North Side 600 ft West of Elwood) 12651 E BA EXPWY (North Side 400 ft West of 129th E Ave) 2801 S HWY 169 (.3 MI North of 61st Exit) Tulsa Metro Softball League wins in OKC 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 4/23/26, 12:08 PM �Firefox 6 of 11 Tulsa Twisters and T-Town Zealers Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Gender Outreach Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 4:00 pm. ACA Assistance Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Get F.I.T. .. Rainbow Writers 4/23/26, 12:08 PM https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-26th--2014.ht... Oklahomans for Equality wants to congratulate the Tulsa Metro Softball League teams that played in the Sooner State Classic in OKC this last weekend. Tulsa Rampage The Tulsa Twisters finished 1st place and the T-Town Zealers took 2nd place in the D Division championship game 18-17! Also, the Rampage finished 1st place in the C Division. It was a successful weekend for Tulsa Metro Softball League. 2nd Annual Gamily Ice Cream Social Wednesday, July 23rd, 2014; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will host a reception and Q&A lecture with Mara Keisling, Executive Director of the National Center for Transgender ~-~) ''':~~ m~mr:t1 Sunday, July 20th, 2014; 1:00 - 3:00 pm It's that time again! Gamily's 2nd Annual Ice Cream Social! Come have fun and eat free ICE CREAM. This is an opportunity to meet other families and make new friends. Join us on Sunday, July 20, 2014 from 1:00 to 3:00 pm. RSVP on OkEq's Gamily Facebook page or email Gamily@OkEq.org !I Oklahomans for Equality hosts Mara Keisling I �Firefox 7 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-26th--2014.ht... Equality on Wednesday, July 23rd at 7:00 pm. This event is free and open to the public. Mara Keisling is the founding Executive Director of the National Center for Transgender Equality. Mara is a transgender-identified woman and a parent. As one of the nation's leading voices for transgender equality, Mara has appeared on news outlets and is regularly quoted in hundreds of national and local print and broadcast media. 1st and 3rd Wednesdays 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend July First Thursday Art Reception Thursday, July 3rd, 2014; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The July Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Susan Foust, in a show titled: "Vehicle of Wash", beginning with a reception on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Yoga A - Z *On hiatus for Summer* Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. A Friend for a Friend Fundraiser Dinner Saturday, July 26th, 2014; Time TBA Dennis R. Neill Equality Center A Friend for a Friend will have a fundraiser dinner on Saturday, July 26th, 2014. On the menu will be, smoked chicken, ribs, baked beans and cole slaw/potato salad. 100% of the admission price will go towards A Friend for a Friend. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm "A Friend for a Friend" is a 501(C)3 Organization that is dedicated to helping those with HIV/AIDS with their pet's care and wellness, and is completely funded by private donations. For more information, call 918.747.6827 or 918.361.8839 DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. Friday, August 22nd, 2014; 6:30 pm Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card 4/23/26, 12:08 PM �Firefox 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-26th--2014.ht... games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Grab your pearl snaps and rhinestones... this year it's COUNTRY ROCK! Please Health, Outreach, Education and Prevention for their 2014 HIV and Hepatitis Prevention Event... DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. WHEN: Friday, August 22nd, 2014 Reception 6:30 pm Concert 7:45 pm WHERE: Double Tree by Hilton Warren Place 6110 South Yale Avenue Tulsa, Oklahoma 74136-1904 EMCEES: The fabulous and talented, KC Lupp and Heather RichettoRumley! PERFORMING DIVAS: - KC Lupp - Heather Richetto Rumley - Daryl Christopher - Tavis Minner -Christy Hanewinkel - Mark Gibson - Pam Van Dyke - Cindy Cain - Jeff Cherblanc - John Sawyer Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet For more information or to purchase a sponsorhip / ticket, please visit hopetesting.org Research in Gay and Lesbian Workplace Relationships Are you "out" at work? Did you come out in the past few years? Or do you know someone that has come out in the past few years? Researchers would like to learn how your experience with your work, your organization, and your co-workers has changed since you came out. All information obtained during the interview process will be kept confidential. For more information contact Kim Perry at 719.217.4205 or kdperrytx7105@hotmail.com ---- Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2014 shirts are now available in The Pride Store. All sizes S through 2X are $10.00 4/23/26, 12:08 PM �Firefox 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-26th--2014.ht... EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Mama's Boy, Preacher's Son' by Kevin Jennings Workforce Oklahoma Access Point You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Open Everyday Long before Kevin Jennings began advocating to end anti-LGBT bias in schools, he was a victim of it. In Mama's Boy, Preacher's Son, Jennings traces the roots of his activism to his elementary school days in the conservative South, where "faggot" became more familiar to him than his own name. Mama's Boy, Preacher's Son is that rare memoir that is both a riveting personal story and an inside account of a critical chapter in our recent history. Creating safe schools for all youth is now a central part of the progressive agenda in American education-and Kevin Jennings is at the forefront of that fight. Mama's BoJ~ Preacher· Son 111,,.,,. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Mondays and Fridays 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm 4/23/26, 12:08 PM �Firefox 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-26th--2014.ht... MISSION: nt A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 12:08 PM �Firefox 11 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-26th--2014.ht... r----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 12:08 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/a1e0fb0e9f57a8bf52c9ed4f99f04e2d.pdf d14e8df38eb9399df3893acf3d29d93a PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-2nd--2014.html... eNews July 2nd, 2014 In This Issue EBA Sponsor First Thursday Art Show Volunteer of the Year National Gay Blood Drive Welcome to the eNews. Make plans to attend the National Gay Blood Drive on Friday, July 11th. OkEq will hold the Tulsa event at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center from 2:00 - 7:00 pm. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Equality Gala Note GET F.I.T. Board of Directors New Counseling Services Gamily Ice Cream Social The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time Mara Keisling Friend for a Friend Dinner DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook July First Thursday Art Reception Thursday, July 3rd, 2014; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The July Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Susan Foust, in a show titled: "Vehicle of Wash", beginning with a reception on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. OkEq Art Exhibit The July exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Susan Foust. 4/23/26, 12:10 PM �Firefox 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-2nd--2014.html... Oklahomans for Equality Volunteer of the Year Award dinner on Sunday, July 13th, 2014; 6:00 pm Counseling Services Andrew attending the Equality Gala 2014, is pictured with fellow volunteer Cait O'Darling and special guest Prince Manvendra Sundays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC 918.346.1918 Maybello@OkEq.org Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will be presenting our Volunteer of the Year Award to Andrew Gordon at our first ever Volunteer Appreciation Dinner on Sunday, July 13th at 6:30 pm. The event will be called "Proud on the Prairie" and will be western themed. Hot dogs, hamburgers and tofu burgers will be grilled for dinner. Chasing Nadean will perform country classics for the event. RSVP to Mary.Jones@OkEq.org to attend. Attendees must have volunteered for OkEq. Andrew Gordon has been a volunteer at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center since June of 2009. Andrew has dedicated himself to volunteer service for OkEq from the smallest tasks of stocking the soda machine to working all day at the Tulsa Pride events. Unknown to him, Andrew has even given tours of the Equality Center to Tulsa's top philanthropists. Andrew and his family have attended the annual Equality Gala since 2010. Along with Cait O'Darling, Andrew has been faithfully volunteering at the Front Desk, answering the Helpline and assisting the staff in everyday duties. Oklahomans for Equality could not function without the assistance of our volunteers, so we happily recognize Andrew with the 2014 Volunteer of the Year Award. National Gay Blood Drive Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8586 Friday, July 11th, 2014; 2:00 - 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The National Gay Blood Drive is on July 11th, 2014. This is a nationwide effort to bring attention to the FDA's ban against Gay & Bisexual men donating blood & increase pressure on them to change it. 4/23/26, 12:10 PM �Firefox 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-2nd--2014.html... Oklahomans for Equality and the Oklahoma Blood Institute will be hosting the Tulsa event at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center from 2:00 - 7:00 pm. Walk-ins are welcome but you may also schedule your appointment here. Gay & Bisexual men are encouraged to show their willingness to contribute by bringing in allies to donate in their place. For more information about the National Gay Blood Drive, visit www.gayblooddrive.com Note from the Equality Gala Committee To the winners of the White Lion live auction dinner item: please contact the Equality Center at 918.743.4297 for more information about your dinner. Ask for Mary Jones or Lucas Green. Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org GET F.I.T. (Fun, Intense, Training) Wednesdays and Thursdays at 6:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Now on Wednesdays and Thursdays, GET F.I.T. (Fun, Intense, Training) GET F.I.T. is an exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. The only requirement... keep moving through a combination of weight training and cardiovascular exercise. Wednesdays and Thursdays at 6:00 pm at the Equality Center. $5 for non-members and free to members... Come take your first steps to GET F.I.T. Facilitated by Brad Sullivan. Oklahomans for Equality Annual Meeting and Board of Directors Elections Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SOS Group 4/23/26, 12:10 PM �Firefox 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-2nd--2014.html... Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org OkEq Board 2013-2014 The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 25th, 2014 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee (Applications due to OkEq by July 24th) OR 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by September 10th) At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is accepting applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Seven directors will be elected. Please contact Lucas.Green@OkEq.org for an application and to interview with the Board of Development and Governance Committee if you desire to be nominated by the Board of Development and Governance Committee. Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term Grieving Well *On hiatus for June* 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather New Counseling Services Weekdays by appointment OkEq welcomes a new intern, Chelsey Dobbs, to our Counseling Service Program at the Equality Center. Chelsey Dobbs earned her Bachelor of Arts degree in Psychology from Oklahoma State University, and is currently working toward her Master's degree in Community Counseling from Oklahoma State University in Tulsa. She is providing counseling services at the 4/23/26, 12:10 PM �Firefox 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-2nd--2014.html... Equality Center in her capacity as an intern at the OSU-Tulsa Counseling Center. She is interested in working primarily with adults, and is particularly interested in the provision of counseling services to LGBTQ people. Contact 918-594-8586 to schedule an appointment with Chelsey. 2nd Annual Gamily Ice Cream Social Sunday, July 20th, 2014; 1:00 - 3:00 pm It's that time again! Gamily's 2nd Annual Ice Cream Social! Come have fun and eat free ICE CREAM. This is an opportunity to meet other families and make new friends. Join us on Sunday, July 20, 2014 from 1:00 to 3:00 pm. RSVP on OkEq's Gamily Facebook page or email Gamily@OkEq.org SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Oklahomans for Equality hosts Mara Keisling Wednesday, July 23rd, 2014; 7:00 pm sage Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will host a reception and Q&A lecture with Mara Keisling, Executive Director of the National Center for Transgender Equality on Wednesday, July 23rd at 7:00 pm. This event is free and open to the public. Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders ,••• .;- • Mara Keisling is the founding Executive " .,:: I Director of the National Center for ' • Transgender Equality. Mara is a transgender-identified woman and a parent. As one of the nation's leading voices for transgender equality, Mara has appeared on news outlets and is regularly quoted in hundreds of national and local print and broadcast media. . A Friend for a Friend Fundraiser Dinner Saturday, July 26th, 2014; 6:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center A Friend for a Friend will have a fundraiser dinner on Saturday, July 26th, 2014. On the menu will be, smoked chicken, ribs, baked beans and cole slaw/potato salad. 100% of the admission price will go towards A Friend for a Friend. Admission is a suggested donation of $10.00 Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 "A Friend for a Friend" is a 501(C)3 Organization that is dedicated to helping those with HIV/AIDS with their pet's care and wellness, and is completely funded by private donations. For more information, call 918.747.6827 or 918.361.8839 4/23/26, 12:10 PM �Firefox 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-2nd--2014.html... DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. Friday, August 22nd, 2014; 6:30 pm Get F.I.T. WHEN: Friday, August 22nd, 2014 Reception 6:30 pm Concert 7:45 pm Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. WHERE: Double Tree by Hilton Warren Place 6110 South Yale Avenue Tulsa, Oklahoma 74136-1904 ACA Assistance Grab your pearl snaps and rhinestones... this year it's COUNTRY ROCK! Please Health, Outreach, Education and Prevention for their 2014 HIV and Hepatitis Prevention Event... DIVAS 4 H.O.P.E. EMCEES: The fabulous and talented, KC Lupp and Heather RichettoRumley! PERFORMING DIVAS: - KC Lupp - Heather Richetto Rumley - Daryl Christopher - Tavis Minner -Christy Hanewinkel - Mark Gibson - Pam Van Dyke - Cindy Cain - Jeff Cherblanc - John Sawyer For more information or to purchase a sponsorhip / ticket, please visit hopetesting.org Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 4:00 pm. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Spirits of Christmas Past A Christmas in July Event for the Diversity Christian Fellowship Food Bank Rainbow Writers 4/23/26, 12:10 PM �Firefox 7 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-2nd--2014.html... 1st and 3rd Wednesdays 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org - - - --to attend Yoga A - Z *On hiatus for Summer* Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. July 26, 2014 @ Tulsa Eagle (21+ and over, No Cover) Cookout @ 7:00 pm (Donations accepted) Show @ 10:30 pm (Tipping accepted) Silent Auction, Jello Shots and 50/50 Raffle all night. Sponsored by the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma, Green Country Bears, The Tulsa Sisters and T.U.L.S.A. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Please RSVP on the Facebook "Christmas in July" invite page -https:// www.facebook.com/events/1504567406424604/ Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2014 shirts are now available in The Pride Store. All sizes S through 2X are $10.00 Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card 4/23/26, 12:10 PM �Firefox 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-2nd--2014.html... games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Kevin' by Paul Kupperberg You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Kevin Keller is the first openly gay character in the history of Archie Comics and currently stars in his own best-selling series of comic books. In this special paper-over-board novel, we focus on Kevin's early, awkward years and the struggles and joys of his inspirational road to selfdiscovery. This sweet and funny coming-of-age story features a strong anti-bullying message and is a perfect gift for Archie fans, parents, and anyone who has-or is-struggling to find their place. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library nt A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality 4/23/26, 12:10 PM �Firefox 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-2nd--2014.html... EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Mondays and Fridays 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm 4/23/26, 12:10 PM �Firefox 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-2nd--2014.html... MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org --- Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org -- - Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org --- 4/23/26, 12:10 PM �Firefox 11 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-2nd--2014.html... r----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 12:10 PM � Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [Sub-Series] OKEQ > Publications > OKEQ eNews Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. 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Title A name given to the resource [2014] OKEQ eNews 100 Years of Women with Moxie 108 Contemporary 10th Annual Drag Bingo 10th Circuit Court 10th Circuit Court of Appeals 1st Annual Gay Pride River Festival 2014 2nd Annual Gamily Back to School Carnival 2nd Annual Gamily Ice Cream Social A Friend for a Friend A Friend for a Friend Fundraiser Dinner A Murder of Storytellers A Murder of Storytellers Writing Group ACA ACA Assistance ACLU ACLU of Oklahoma ACLU-OK Acting Class for Kids Adam Affordable Care Act Affordable Care Act (ACA) Affordable Care Act Assistance After the Dawn ALL SOULS UNITARIAN CHURCH Allen Chapman Student Union American Civil Liberties Union And Tango Makes Three Ann Tomlins Applebee's Flapjack Fundraiser Ariel Schrag Art Gallery Art Gallery Submissions Ballroom Blitz Ballroom Pride Series Ballroom Pride Series Beginning Cha Cha BAM Entertainment Bamboo Lounge Barack Obama BARE BARE: A Pop Opera Be Our Voice Give a Day Beginning Cha Cha class Bishop Rick Hollingsworth Brad Sullivan Broken Fever Broken Fever: Reflections of Gay Boyhood Broken Heart Land bullying Bullying Prevention Conference candelight vigil Center for Reproductive Rights Chelsey Dobbs Chris Middlebrook Christmas in July Christy Hanewinkel Chuck Tomlins Cindy Cain Circle Cinema City of Tulsa Clint Robison COMC coming out Coming Out Workshop Community Candlelight Vigil for Justice Computer Boot Camp Congregation B'nai Emunah Council Oak Men's Chorale Council Oak Men's Chorle (COMC) Council Oak Men's Chorle Holiday Performance Council Oak Mens counseling counseling services Dannette McIntosh Daryl Christopher Del Darcy Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Dewayne James Messenger Dilly Deli discrimination discrimination ban discrimination bans District Judge Terence Kern Divas 4 HOPE Diversity Christian Fellowship Food Bank Diversity Christian Fellowship International Domestic Violence Intervention Services Domestic Violence Intervention Services (DVIS) don g. holladay don holladay Douglas Knutson Dr. Dannette McIntosh Dr. John Schumann Dr. Julie Nagoshi Dr. Kurt Choate Dr. Kurt T. Choate Dr. Laura Arrowsmith Dr. Mark Fox Drag Bingo Drag Queen Bingo DVIS EBA EBA Directory EBA member business EBA Monthly Meeting EBA Sponsor Enid Pride Enid Pride 2014 Equality Business Alliance Equality Business Alliance (EBA) Equality Business Alliance Directory Equality Business Alliance Monthly Meeting Equality Business Alliance Networking Mixer Equality Center Equality Center Pride Store Equality Center room rentals Euphoria Benefit Fashion Show Executive Director Toby Jenkins Fair Catch fair housing Fair Housing in Tulsa Survey First Thursday First Thursday Art Exhibit First Thursday Art Reception Fringe Festival Fruugensteinery Productions game night GAMILY Gamily Back to School Carnival Gamily Ice Cream Social Garden Trug GardenTrug Gay Games Gay Games 2014 Gay marriage Gay Phillips Gay Pride River Festival Gay Softball Gay Softball World Series Gender Bender Gender Bender Comedy Show Gender Outreach Gender Outreach Support Group George Kaiser Family Foundation George Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant George McCauslan Get F.I.T. Get F.I.T. (Fun Intense Training) Get FIT Grateful Day Foundation Grateful Day Foundation Treasurer Paul Dorman Grateful Day fundraiser Grateful Day Summer Treat Grieving Well Guthrie Green H.O.P.E. Hancock Park HB 1661 Health Outreach Prevention and Education (H.O.P.E.) Heather Richetto Rumley Hedwig and the Angry Inch Hill and Jordan Studios Hill&Jordan Studios LLC HIV testing HOPE HOPE Testing ICAO Imperial Court of all Oklahoma Imperial Court of All Oklahoma (ICAO) James E. Warner James E. Warner III James Lecesne James Morrison James Prather James Warner III Jean Cocteau Jeff Cherblanc Jim Scholl Jimmy Jordan John Madigan John Sawyer John Schumann John Serrot joseph thai Julie Nagoshi Justin Richardson Kaiser Family Foundation Kaiser Foundation Karen McCauley Katherine V. Forrest KC Lupp Kent Dennis Kurt Choate Kurt T. 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Title A name given to the resource [2015] OKEQ Audit from Briscoe, Burke, and Grigsby Subject The topic of the resource 2015 Oklahomans for Equality Independent Audit Statement from Briscoe, Burke, and Grigsby LLP Description An account of the resource 4 pages of audited financial statements from public accountants Briscoe, Burke, and Grigsby LLP, including an annual trial balance from a period ending on August 30, 2014. Independent audit sent September 1, 2015. 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SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews October 7th, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor OK Marriage Equality ---Lawyer in the Library #SpiritDay @OkEq The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders Monday-Wednesday and Friday 7:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Thursday 7:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m. Closed Saturday and Sunday Singles, Sips & Splatter Center Awareness Day EBA Mixer Gamily Halloween Karaoke SAGE Tulsa - Halloween Party Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders is Tulsa's oldest and finest shoe repair shop featuring shoe repair and cowboy and western boot repair. We also provide premium maker and repair service for high end leather goods, bags, purses and various other items including custom work. It's Your Center - It's Your Day Like us on Facebook or visit our website here. Oklahoma Changing World Prize Making the Invisible, Visible OkEq Zombie House "Hedwigand Inch" -the - Angry --~~I>,,. _ TULSA SHOE REBUILDERS 918.584.6062 5455-C SOUTH MINGO RD • TULSA, OK 74146 SHOE - BOOT - LEATHER REPAIR Oklahoma Marriage Equality - First Year Anniversary Exhibition Proposals LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Pride Store Rainbow Library Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 5:11 PM �OkEq eNews October 7th, 2015 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-7th--2015.... Lawyer in the Library October 14, 5:30 p.m.-6:30 p.m. Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant, estate planning and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. LEGAL AID SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. t~ = Making Equal Justice for All a Reality For more information, please contact Mia Leighty at 918-574-2931 or Amy Howe at 918-743-4297. #SpiritDay @OkEq October 15, 5:00 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq Oklahomans for Equality has a new Cub Scout Pack. The meetings with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts are held on Sundays at 4:00 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. OkEq Board Meeting Oklahomans for Equality is going purple and blowing the center's roof off! Let us show LGBT youth they are not alone. Join us on top of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! We invite everyone to wear purple and join this year's ultimate roof top rally! Your purple shirt is your ticket in and symbolizes your support for LGBT youth as well as speaking out against bullying. For more information or to RSPV, email jose.vega@okeq.org. Singles, Sips & Splatter Art Class Saturday, October 17, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 7 p.m. Thursday, October 15th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibit The October exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center feature works by A.K. Westerman. 4/23/26, 5:11 PM �OkEq eNews October 7th, 2015 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-7th--2015.... LGBT Singles of Tulsa! Fill your glasses and load your brushes for a fun night of painting at OkEq. Art instruction will be provided by Janet Fadler Davie. Our theme will be "Autumn". You'll leave at the end of the night with your very own original work of art, some new friends and maybe a date! Class size is limited, so please email jose.vega@okeq.org or call 918-813-8993 to reserve your seat. Cost is $20, which will cover all your supplies and and refreshments. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Center Awareness Day October 18, 12:00 p.m.-4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Have you ever wanted to know what your LGBT center has to offer? Now is your chance! Oklahomans for Equality is hosting an open house and a program expo event. This is your chance to learn more about what Oklahomans for Equality at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center offers and what programs are available. This is also a chance to meet and greet the facilitators of the programs you may be interested in and answer any question you may have. For more information, please contact jose.vega@okeq.org. sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 5:11 PM �OkEq eNews October 7th, 2015 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-7th--2015.... EBA Mixer October 21, 6:00-8:00 p.m. Dr. Blane Snodgrass, 7171 S. Yale Ave, Tulsa, OK 74136 E UALITY Business Alliance The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send a email to eba@okeq.org for more information. Counseling Services Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org The October EBA mixer will be hosted by Optometrist Dr. Blane Snodgrass, OD. Counseling Services Gamily Halloween Karaoke Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org Saturday, October 24, 5:30 p.m. - 8:30 p.m. Second Floor, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Come join the Halloween fun! Our upstairs area will be taken over by family fun for all ages and karaoke. Be sure to come dressed in your Halloween costumes and be prepared to Counseling Services Weekdays 4/23/26, 5:11 PM �OkEq eNews October 7th, 2015 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-7th--2015.... sing your heart out! For more information, please contact jose.vega@okeq.org. SAGE Tulsa - Halloween Party Tuesday, October 27, 10 a.m. - 1 p.m. SAGE (Services and Advocacy for LGBT Elders) is a day time programming for those who are retired or free during the day. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org. By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Their annual Halloween party will be hosted at the home of Sol Smith. The group will meet at the Center at 10:00 a.m., then commute to Sol Smith's home. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" 4/23/26, 5:11 PM �OkEq eNews October 7th, 2015 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-7th--2015.... Domestic Violence: Making the Invisible, Visible October 22, 5:30 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us on October 22 5:30•7:30 f .· SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage · Servoces and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders ~,, .. '! DOMESTIC VIOL.ENCE Presentation by Missy lski, MA, LPC, MAFT Presented v t e Faml v Sa ety Center Director of Programs and Counseling at DVIS Help us make the Invisible Visible 10/22/15 Dennis R. Neal Equality Center 5:30 Mix and Mingle (drinks and snacks provided) 6pm Presentation 7pm Q&A g___ This event will focus on issues related to domestic violence and sexual assault. Topics will include the cycle of violence, types of abuse, consequences, safety and recovery, among others. Join us to learn more and take a stand against violence! Mia Leighty, from the Family Safety Center, will introduce guest speaker Missy Iski, Director of Programs & Counseling at DVIS/Call Rape since 1999. 5:30 p.m. - Mix and Mingle (light hors d'oeuvres and wine provided) 6:00 p.m. - Presentation by Missy Iski, Director of Programs and Counselling at DVIS 7:00 p.m. - Q&A Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. OkEq Zombie House October 29-31 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OKEQ Zombie House is back and even more terrifying than last year. We will have 18,000 feet of pure terror! There are zombies in Tulsa and they have infested the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Escape the Zombies on October 29th, 30th and 31st, 2015. These are real flesh eating zombies being housed in complete and total darkness in downtown Tulsa. The worst part is there is only one way out, and it's your mission to find the exit and survive this zombie apocalypse. For more details please contact jose.vega@okeq.org. Tickets are now available here. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 4/23/26, 5:11 PM �OkEq eNews October 7th, 2015 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-7th--2015.... Get F.I.T. Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. $5 per session. It's Your Center - It's Your Day Yoga by Zach ::>jJ,ake A Cla~~t::<:: EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 OkEq is offering our donors the opportunity to sponsor the organization for a day or even a complete week. When you choose to sponsor OkEq for a day, we will honor you or the person you designate by featuring our sponsor on our website for the day, with a presentation board greeting visitors in the front lobby on the day/week designated, by listing the honoree in our weekly eNews, and a special posting on our OkEq Facebook page. $5.00 per Session Sponsors can select a day in honor of their birthday or to celebrate an anniversary date or in memory of an individual, or whatever day means the most to you. Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Find out more information here. Gender Outreach Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. 4/23/26, 5:11 PM �OkEq eNews October 7th, 2015 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-7th--2015.... Oklahoma Changing World Prize October 11, 5:00 p.m. Woody Guthrie Center, 102 E. Brady St, Tulsa, OK 74103 Just a little over a year after they were married at the Tulsa County Courthouse, Mary and Sharon Bishop-Baldwin will be awarded the Woody Guthrie Center's first Oklahoma Changing World Prize. The couple were the lead plaintiffs who challenged Oklahoma's ban on same-sex marriage in 2004, shortly after 76 percent of Oklahoma voters approved the ban. Together for 18 years, the Bishop-Baldwins represented thousands of gay and lesbian people in the Sooner State in Bishop v. United States, the lawsuit they filed seeking the freedom to marry. Nevermore Edits Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org The presentation of the first Oklahoma Changing World Prize will be at a reception at the Woody Guthrie Center at 4:00 pm on October 11. The celebration will continue in the garden space between the Hardesty Arts Center (AHHA) and the WGC with a light dinner and music from Eric Himan at 5:00 pm. In the event of rain, dinner will be held inside AHHA. All proceeds from this special event support the Woody Guthrie Center's education initiatives. Table sponsorships are available immediately in the following levels: Friends ($1,000), This Land Table Sponsor ($2,500), and This Machine Sponsor ($5,000). Presenting sponsorships are also available. Call 918-574-2522 for information about sponsorships. Individual ticket sales to the event are $100 and will go on sale September 12. Call the Center at 918-574-2710 to purchase. "Hedwig and the Angry Inch" October 23 - November 1 Liddy Doenges Theatre, Tulsa Performing Arts Center Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno 4/23/26, 5:11 PM �OkEq eNews October 7th, 2015 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-7th--2015.... 110 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103 The cult classic, rock musical smash! East German rock goddess Hedwig Schmidt suffers a botched operation and tells the tale with a performance that is part rock concert, part standup comedy - and all fabulous! Written by John Cameron Mitchell Music and lyrics by Stephen Trask Tickets can be purchased here. Use the promotional code OKEQHEDWIG to get 25% off opening weekend performances (Oct 23-25). 2016 Call for Exhibition Proposals Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Deadline for Proposals: November 15, 2015 The OkEq Art Gallery at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Tulsa, Oklahoma, is now accepting proposals for the 2016 Exhibition Calendar. Each chosen exhibit will be on display for approximately 30 days. Our gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a few paragraphs about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 .jpg images which represent your current work. All proposals must be submitted online. Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable. While we continue to have a 'no repeat' policy, previous artists may serve as the curator for a group showing. The group showing must have at least three additional people who have not shown in the Gallery before. The returning artist (curator) may have work on exhibit in proportion to the other artists represented in the exhibit. Please let us know if your idea for an exhibit will require months to prepare or if you have calendar restrictions. We would also like to know if you would be ready to go quickly, as the early months in the year are sometimes hard to fill. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org g E UALITY Q!Busmess Alliance EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. OkEq hosts an opening night reception for the artist(s) on the first Thursday of the month. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at the close of the opening night. The deadline for submissions is November 15, 2015. Notifications will be sent out by December 1, 2015. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point 4/23/26, 5:11 PM �OkEq eNews October 7th, 2015 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-7th--2015.... Please submit by email to alliejensen@cox.net, - - - - with the subject heading "OkEq Gallery Proposal". LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hea lthca re Bi IIOf Rig hts .org Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing BILLOF RIGHTS oklahomans for equality Open every day Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Click here to purchase your pendant today! Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ---- Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep 4/23/26, 5:11 PM �OkEq eNews October 7th, 2015 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-7th--2015.... up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Some Assembly Required: The Not-So-Secret Life of a Transgender Teen" By Arin Andrews Seventeen-year-old Arin Andrews shares all the hilarious, painful, and poignant details of undergoing gender reassignment as a high school student in this winning first-of-its-kind memoir. Now with a reading group guide and an all-new afterword from the author! In this revolutionary first-of-itskind memoir, Arin Andrews details the journey that led him to make the lifetransforming decision to undergo gender reassignment as a high school junior. In his captivatingly witty, honest voice, Arin reveals the challenges he faced as a boy in a girl's body, the humiliation and anger he felt after getting kicked out of his private school, and all the changesboth mental and physical-he experienced once his transition began. Amy Howe Administrative Assistant Amy.Howe@OkEq.org J Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator The Not-So-Secret life of a Tran,gender THn Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org ARIN ANDREWS Ao-.c;,.,,.G.c1. .... 1 Some Assembly Required is a true coming-of-age story about knocking down obstacles and embracing family, friendship, and first love. But more than that, it is a reminder that self-acceptance does not come ready-made with a manual and spare parts. Rather, some assembly is always required. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. Tracy Allen Volunteer Coordinator Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 5:11 PM �OkEq eNews October 7th, 2015 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-7th--2015.... Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org r---------------------------------------------------------~ I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L---------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 5:11 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/d4499890f29f74ca7b003771f938579c.pdf d87b12a5e8d59d7bf90bae4c74e837a4 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews July 15th, 2015 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-15th--2015.htm... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews July 15th, 2015 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor EBA Mixer Our Tomorrow MyBigGay Italian Wedding ---- The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Keith Hunt, McGraw Realtors LT R Pride Under the Lights Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant McGraw R • SAGE Pool Party ' EBA Sponsor Looking to buy or sell your dream home? Christmas in July I can help! "Documented" First & -Thursday - - -Art -Opening --Exhibit Contact Keith Hunt Today (918) 513-13-94 Gamily Back to School Carnival khunt@mcgrawok.com rl] LJ3, @ f' ._ LlADINC lllAl,..lSTAT[ CO~PANI[ Pf THE WORLD LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Pride Store OkEq Annual Meeting Rainbow Library EBA Mixer Inner Circle Vodka Bar, 410 N. Main St Suite A July 15, 6:00-7:30 p.m. Find Us on Facebook E UALITY Business Alliance The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send a email to eba@okeq.org for more information. 7 p.m. Thursday, July 16th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Our next mixer will be held at Inner Circle Vodka Bar, located at 410 N. Main All Oklahomans for OkEq Board Meeting 4/23/26, 4:26 PM �OkEq eNews July 15th, 2015 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-15th--2015.htm... St Suite A. Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. Share your voice. Shape our future. Our Tomorrow, www.shareourtomorrow.org Happy Hour, July 16, 5:30 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St Conversations on the future of the LGBT Movement Our Tomorrow is a campaign to engage LGBTQ people across the country in a conversation to shape the future of a bigger, bolder movement that leaves no one behind. It is a place for LGBTQ people across the country to share our hopes, fears and ideas for the future - and help make tomorrow better for all of us. OkEq Art Exhibit The July exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features 'Ankle Deep...an Experience in Acrylics.' R ORRO Share your voice here; your submissions will help the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and the LGBTQ community throughout the nation. My Big Gay Italian Wedding American Theater Company, 308 S Lansing Ave July 16th-July 26th American Theatre Company Presents "Feel-good hysterical comedy!" - The Wall Street Journal "As insanely funny and fun confection. The mixture of the sacred and the profane, the ultra-serious and ultrasilly makes this the perfect play." - Edge New York Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Andrew and Anthony are getting married - and everyone wants to "help"! My Big Gay Italian Wedding spins into a hysterical fiasco as everyone tries to have their way. From a saboteur ex-boyfriend to a loud, opinionated, outspoken Italian mother, personalities and culture collide in a music and dance-filled extravaganza. For tickets: 918-596-7111 or click here. Tickets are also available the day of the show at ATC Studios. Click here for more information and promotions. Counseling Services 4/23/26, 4:26 PM �OkEq eNews July 15th, 2015 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-15th--2015.htm... SAGE Pool Party Saturdays By appointment July 21, 2015 1938 E. 55th Place, Tulsa, OK 74105 SAGE Tulsa will have a pool party on Thursday, June 26th, 2014 at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot dogs. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email SAGE@OkEq.org to RSVP. sage Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SC'rvices and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, 81~xual & TramgendC'r Elders Counseling Services The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org Pride Under the Lights Saturday, July 25, after the 7:05 p.m. Drillers game If you purchased and still have your Pride in the Ballpark ticket, hang on to it! ONEOK Stadium will be hosting Pride Under the Lights on Saturday, July 25, after the 7:05 p.m. game against the Arkansas Travelers. New tickets for the event have be issued; tickets can also be purchased at the same price of $12 each at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918-954-8568 emily.howell@okeq.org Come join us for an evening of fun and excitement! More information can be 4/23/26, 4:26 PM �OkEq eNews July 15th, 2015 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-15th--2015.htm... found here! If you are interested in getting married at ONEOK Stadium, Toby Jenkins will be officiating a mass wedding ceremony. You must provide two witnesses, a marriage application from an Oklahoma county courthouse, and be prepared to exchange vows during the 7th inning stretch. To RSVP, please contact Amy Howe at 918-743-7297 or amy.howe@okeq.org George Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant Become a new donor to OkEq or a new member of Oklahomans for Equality today. All new member donations to Oklahomans for Equality will be matched by the George Kaiser Family Foundation. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org ---- --- GEORGE KAISER FAMILY FOUNDATION SOS Group Find out more about membership with Oklahomans for Equality and ------------------- -learn how to make your donation today. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: ihelptulsa.com Recently received a new computer or smart device? Do you need all of your files and email moved from your old computer to your new computer? Do you need help setting up your smart device? If so, contact johnv@ihelptulsa.com , log -- -----onto ihelptulsa.com or call John at 918-605-8777. Want to receive computer tips? Like us at facebook.com/ihelptulsa C)HelpTulsa .com Christmas in July - A Benefit for H.O.P.E. Testing Tulsa Eagle, 1338 E. 3rd St July 25, 7:00 p.m. The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma is holding a comunity wide fundraiser to raise money for H.O.P.E. Testing on July 25, 2015 at the Tulsa Eagle. 21+ Only, No Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold 4/23/26, 4:26 PM �OkEq eNews July 15th, 2015 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-15th--2015.htm... Cover. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop We are currently looking for Silent / Live Auction Items. If you have anything to donate please contact us at impcourtok@gmail.com Donations can also be made on our website donation page www.impcourtok.org 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather From the Heart, Through the Court, For the Community! "Documented" - Promoted by Tulsa Area Fair Housing Partnership July 23, 6:30 p.m. - 8:30 p.m. Circle Cinema, 10 S. Lewis Ave Know your target audience. Who are your most important customers, clients or prospects, and why? Know what is DOCUMENTED important to them and address their needs in your newsletter each month. Include a photo to make your newsletter even more appealing.In 2011, Pulitzer Prizewinning journalist Jose Antonio Vargas outed himself as an undocumented immigrant in an essay published in the New York Times Magazine. Documented chronicles his journey to America from the Philippines as a child; his CJIUI journey through America as an immigration reform activist; and his journey inward as he re-connects with his mother, whom he hasn't seen in person in over 20 years. • fll•lJ o o 0000 .,.uo•••nU&• o.. ......... " . ......... J.....,. Tickets are $11.00 (general admission) and can be purchased here. First Thursday Art Opening & Exhibit "Machination" August 6, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Servoces and Advocacy for Gay, Lesb,an, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Tulsa Shambhala Meditation 4/23/26, 4:26 PM �OkEq eNews July 15th, 2015 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-15th--2015.htm... The August Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists will feature a combined exhibit of technologybased performance works titled "Machination". "Machination" is a choice collection of works by Tulsa artists including Michael Christopher, Nick Kountoupis, Michael Benton, Lisa Regan, Paul Timshel and R.C. Morrison - artists whose work would not be remotely feasible without advanced technologies. Employing a broad range of contemporary tech, including plasma metal cutting, laser cutting and engraving, threedimensional printing, digital painting, electronic lighting and embedded microprocessors, these works present a sampler across a broad section of the new materials and techniques of fine art and will feature technologybased performance works. Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. 3rd Annual Gamily Back to School Carnival Saturday, August 8th, 2015; 1:00 - 5:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St Summer is breezing by and school will be back in session before you know it. Gamily will present the 3rd Annual Back to School Carnival on Saturday, August 8th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm. There will be snacks, games, Disney characters, face painting, water gun fights so wear your swim suit and bring a towel, bouncy houses, Fun with Nuns and terrific prizes. Come have a whole lot of "before school" fun! This is a free event. Please RSVP with parents'/guardians' names and student's names, ages & grades. Bring your nieces, nephews, cousins, god-kids, neighbors and grandkids For more info or to RSVP, email olivia.cotter@okeq.org. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 GAMILY (Gay+Family) is a program of OkEq that provides family style support to LGBTQ parents and straight allies and their children by creating a networking community with other similar and unique families. Gamily is accepting donations for the carnival. We are only asking for the following school supplies: -Folders -Pens -Pencils -Spiral notebooks -Box of crayons -Washable markers -Erasers Get F.I.T. Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the 4/23/26, 4:26 PM �OkEq eNews July 15th, 2015 7 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-15th--2015.htm... advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. -Kleenex tissues -3 ring binders (1/2 in, 1 in, 2in) -Wide ruled notebook paper LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea lthcare Bi I !Of Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. ---·---- You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. Gender Outreach Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. 4/23/26, 4:26 PM �OkEq eNews July 15th, 2015 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-15th--2015.htm... Oklahomans for Equality Annual Meeting and Board of Directors Elections Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org OkEq Board 2014-2015 The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 3rd, 2015 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Nominations to the Board of Directors can now be made in one way: By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by August 15th) At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is accepting applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Seven directors will be elected. Please contact amy.howe@okeq.org for an application. All applicants will be reviewed by the Board Development and Governance Committee. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Lesbian Etiquette: Humorous Essays" By Gail Sausser Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals 4/23/26, 4:26 PM �OkEq eNews July 15th, 2015 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-15th--2015.htm... In this delightful collection of short essays, Northwest writer, Gail Sausser, talks about everything from her fantasies as a "baby dyke" ("It was not long before I had graduated from art to real live, full-fledged teacher lust") to making dates through classified ads ("Avoid the topic of how insanely jealous and violent your ex-lover still is, or how deeply depressed and lonely you are") to dealing with a visit from the parents of your not-yet-out-to-them lover ("Compress, borrow a bed and at least hang pictures on the wall"). This is a book in which we will all recognize ourselves, the situations, we've been in a million times, and, even more easily, our ex-lover. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. 4/23/26, 4:26 PM �OkEq eNews July 15th, 2015 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-15th--2015.htm... HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 4:26 PM �OkEq eNews July 15th, 2015 11 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-15th--2015.htm... Amy Howe Administrative Assistant Amy.Howe@OkEq.org r-------------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat noon-9 p.m. | Sun noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L-------------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 4:26 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/b154bd401614519d14295bb529d1f07f.pdf be6a8660d6d8d73963326ae0113cfb3e PDF Text Text OkEq eNews July 21st, 2015 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-21st--2015.htm... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews July 21st, 2015 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor Pride Under the Lights Gamily Back to School Carnival Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: ihelptulsa.com Recently received a new computer or smart device? Do you need all of your files and email moved from your old computer to your new computer? Do you need help setting up your smart device? If so, contact johnv@ihelptulsa.com , log ----onto ihelptulsa.com or call John at 918-605-8777. Want to receive computer tips? Like us at facebook.com/ihelptulsa Sweep the Hate Away Our Tomorrow EBA Sponsor My Big Wedding -Gay -Italian -ADA Awareness Day Christmas in July 'The Lesbian Exhibit" FirstThursday Art Opening & --Exhibit EBA Mixer "Rise Up Singing" Walk to End Alzheimer's Pride Under the Lights Saturday, July 25, after the 7:05 p.m. Drillers game If you purchased and still have your Pride in the Ballpark ticket, hang on to it! ONEOK Stadium will be hosting Pride Under the Lights on Saturday, July 25, after the 7:05 p.m. game against the Arkansas Travelers. LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Pride Store OkEq Annual Meeting Rainbow Library 11 Find Us on Facebook New tickets for the event have be issued; tickets can also be purchased at the same price of $12 each at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Come join us for an evening of fun and excitement! More information can be found here! OkEq Board Meeting 4/23/26, 4:27 PM �OkEq eNews July 21st, 2015 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-21st--2015.htm... 7 p.m. Thursday, August 20th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. If you are interested in getting married at ONEOK Stadium, Toby Jenkins will be officiating a mass wedding ceremony. You must provide two witnesses, a marriage application from an Oklahoma county courthouse, and be prepared to exchange vows during the 7th inning stretch. To RSVP, please contact Amy Howe at 918-743-7297 or amy.howe@okeq.org 3rd Annual Gamily Back to School Carnival OkEq Art Exhibit The July exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features 'Ankle Deep...an Experience in Acrylics.' Saturday, August 8th, 2015; 1:00 - 5:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St Summer is breezing by and school will be back in session before you know it. Gamily will present the 3rd Annual Back to School Carnival on Saturday, August 8th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm. There will be snacks, games, Disney characters, face painting, water gun fights so wear your swim suit and bring a towel, bouncy houses, Fun with Nuns and terrific prizes. Come have a whole lot of "before school" fun! This is a free event. Please RSVP with parents'/guardians' names and student's names, ages & grades. Bring your nieces, nephews, cousins, god-kids, neighbors and grandkids For more info or to RSVP, email olivia.cotter@okeq.org. GAMILY (Gay+Family) is a program of OkEq that provides family style support to LGBTQ parents and straight allies and their children by creating a networking community with other similar and unique families. Gamily is accepting donations for the carnival. We are only asking for the following school supplies: Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 -Folders -Pens -Pencils -Spiral notebooks -Box of crayons -Washable markers -Erasers -Kleenex tissues -3 ring binders (1/2 in, 1 in, 2in) -Wide ruled notebook paper 4/23/26, 4:27 PM �OkEq eNews July 21st, 2015 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-21st--2015.htm... George Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant Become a new donor to OkEq or a new member of Oklahomans for Equality today. All new member donations to Oklahomans for Equality will be matched by the George Kaiser Family Foundation. GEORGE KAISER FAMILY FOUNDATION Counseling Services Find about membership with Oklahomans for and -out -more ----- -----Equality -- learn how to make your donation today. Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on Sweep the Hate Away income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Tulsa City Hall, 175 E. 2nd St July 25th, after the Confederate Flag Rally Come help sweep the hate away at City Hall this Saturday after the Confederate Flag rally, which is scheduled from 10:00 a.m. to 5:00 p.m. Bring your brooms, buckets of soapy water and your signs saying "SWEEP THE HATE AWAY". Counseling Services Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org --- --- Share your voice. Shape our future. Our Tomorrow, www.shareourtomorrow.org Our Tomorrow is a campaign to engage LGBTQ people across the country in a conversation to shape the future of a bigger, bolder movement that leaves no one behind. It is a place for LGBTQ people across the country to share our hopes, fears and ideas for the future - and help make tomorrow better for all of us. R ORRO Share your voice here; Your submissions will help the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and the LGBTQ community throughout the nation. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Keith Hunt, McGraw Realtors Counseling Services 4/23/26, 4:27 PM �OkEq eNews July 21st, 2015 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-21st--2015.htm... Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918-954-8568 emily.howell@okeq.org McGraw Rh L.TORS Looking to buy or sell your dream home? I can help! Contact Keith Hunt Today (918) 513-13-94 khunt@mcgrawok.com ra ~ _,# ~ ~ L=.J LLADING RlAl,.LSTATl CO\,tPANIES1y' THt WORLD My Big Gay Italian Wedding American Theater Company, 308 S Lansing Ave Now-July 26th American Theatre Company Presents "Feel-good hysterical comedy!" - The Wall Street Journal "As insanely funny and fun confection. The mixture of the sacred and the profane, the ultra-serious and ultrasilly makes this the perfect play." - Edge New York Andrew and Anthony are getting married - and everyone wants to "help"! My Big Gay Italian Wedding spins into a hysterical fiasco as everyone tries to have their way. From a saboteur ex-boyfriend to a loud, opinionated, outspoken Italian mother, personalities and culture collide in a music and dance-filled extravaganza. For tickets: 918-596-7111 or click here. Tickets are also available the day of the show at ATC Studios. Click here for more information and promotions. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org ADA Awareness Day Press Conference July 24, 11:00 a.m. ONEOK Field, Accessible Seating Section, 201 N. Elgin Ave Tulsa Mayor Dewey Bartlett has proclaimed July 26, 2015 "ADA Awareness Day". Representatives from the Mayor's office, Tulsa City Grieving Well 4/23/26, 4:27 PM �OkEq eNews July 21st, 2015 5 of 11 Council, Oklahoma House of Representatives, Tulsa Human Rights Commission, TARC, The Center, Mosaic, Tulsa Transit, and Tulsa People First will speak. All are invited to attend. https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-21st--2015.htm... nun(.IJc:::=:, AMERICANS WITH c:, DISABILITIES ACT ~ Christmas in July - A Benefit for H.O.P.E. Testing 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Tulsa Eagle, 1338 E. 3rd St July 25, 7:00 p.m. The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma is holding a comunity wide fundraiser to raise money for H.O.P.E. Testing on July 25, 2015 at the Tulsa Eagle. 21+ Only, No Cover. We are currently looking for Silent / Live Auction Items. If you have anything to donate please contact us at impcourtok@gmail.com Donations can also be made on our website donation page www.impcourtok.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather From the Heart, Through the Court, For the Community! "The Lesbian Exhibit", by William Hedgecock Friday, July 31-Saturday, August 1, 8:00 p.m. & Friday, August 7 - Saturday August 7, 2015, 8:00 p.m. The Nightingale Theater, 1416 E. 4th St "What ARE lesbians?" A simple enough question, wouldn't you think? What a lot of people might not know is that the Modern Lesbian has a rich history and culture that is fascinating, terrifying, and easily covered in a thorough PowerPoint. Opening this month, The Lesbian Exhibit gives museum patrons a glimpse into the exotic life of the homosexual female. Our friendly guides will teach you how they got here, what they're doing now, and even some preventative measures you can take to keep healthy straight women from turning! SEE the Butch Lesbian shotgun an entire beer from the back of her U-Haul! SEE the Lipstick Lesbian as she camouflages herself in your local PTA meeting! SEE the Party Lesbian as her boyfriend watches her make out with his friend Stacey! We encourage you to take advantage of this unique window into another, stranger world, and to join us next month for the latest exhibit in the series: Black People with British Accents: Fact or Fiction? Inman Theatre Company's most recent original production, "The Lesbian Exhibit", finds the audience as casual museum-goers, observing five women from outside their individual display cases. As the voice of the museum's curator fades off, the women take control. Stepping out from behind their pristine prisons, rebellious Denise, practical Heidi, self-assured Elaine, acerbic Lisa, and somber Christine each tell their own story, defying the SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders 4/23/26, 4:27 PM �OkEq eNews July 21st, 2015 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-21st--2015.htm... confines of the exhibit and trying to make sense of the world and themselves. The utterly heartfelt, thoroughly funny, and relentlessly honest new script by well-known local playwright, Will Inman (Estate Sale, Mir[and]a) is brought to life by a truly outstanding cast featuring (in no particular order) Haley Clarke, Abigail Boegh, Emile Adams, Caitlin Cash, and Liz Masters. Show dates are July 31st and August 1st, 7th, and 8th at 8:00 p.m. at the Nightingale Theatre. For more information, call 918-633-8666 or click here. Mature themes. Tickets are $10 at the door. First Thursday Art Opening & Exhibit "Machination" August 6, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St The August Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists will feature a combined exhibit of technologybased performance works titled "Machination". "Machination" is a choice collection of works by Tulsa artists including Michael Christopher, Nick Kountoupis, Michael Benton, Lisa Regan, Paul Timshel and R.C. Morrison - artists whose work would not be remotely feasible without advanced technologies. Employing a broad range of contemporary tech, including plasma metal cutting, laser cutting and engraving, threedimensional printing, digital painting, electronic lighting and embedded microprocessors, these works present a sampler across a broad section of the new materials and techniques of fine art and will feature technologybased performance works. Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Tulsa Area Prime Timers EBA Mixer August 19, 6:00-8:00 p.m. All Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S. Peoria Ave E UALITY Business Alliance 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send a email to eba@okeq.org for more information. 4/23/26, 4:27 PM �OkEq eNews July 21st, 2015 7 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-21st--2015.htm... The August mixer will be held at All Souls Unitarian Church and hosted by Morton Investigations and Security. "Rise Up Singing at the Synagogue: How the West was Sung" Congregation B'nai Emunah, 1719 S. Owasso Ave Thursday, August 20, 2015 "Rise Up Singing!" is a twenty-first century folksong revival. This year's concert embraces the pioneering spirit of the American West. These are the voices of cowboys and pioneers, bold explorers of a new frontier. Admission is free and open to the public. Held at the Synagogue once a year, the event is designed to bring people of all backgrounds together. Guest artists and musicians from across the city will lead songs of love, longing, celebration, protest, and imagination in sing-able arrangements, with lyrics available to every participant. Call 918.935.3373 for Summer Supper reservations ($15 per person), beginning at 5:45 p.m. The Synagogue Café will serve treats, gourmet coffee, and other beverages during and after the program. Please plan to come early to make sure that you have a comfortable seat. Guests are welcome to tour the Synagogue at 6:00 p.m. before the event begins. The concert will begin at 7:00 p.m. Alzheimer's Association Walk to End Alzheimer's Guthrie Green, 111 E. Brady St Saturday, August 22 8:00 a.m. Registration, 9:00 a.m. Ceremony Join us for the Alzheimer's Association Walk to End Alzheimer's - the world's largest event to raise awareness and funds for Alzheimer's care, support and research. Together, we walk on behalf of our friends, our families and our future. Though we all have our own motivation to step up to the start line, our eyes are set on the ultimate finish line - the end of Alzheimer's. Get F.I.T. Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. ----- ·------ Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Start our join a team today at tulsawalk.org. Lambda Al-Anon Group LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Every Friday 7 p.m. 4/23/26, 4:27 PM �OkEq eNews July 21st, 2015 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-21st--2015.htm... Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea lthcare Bi I !Of Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Click here to purchase your pendant today! Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Game Night Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Oklahomans for Equality Annual Meeting and Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and 4/23/26, 4:27 PM �OkEq eNews July 21st, 2015 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-21st--2015.htm... Board of Directors Elections Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals OkEq Board 2014-2015 The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 3rd, 2015 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Nominations to the Board of Directors can now be made in one way: By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by August 15th) At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is accepting applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Seven directors will be elected. Please contact amy.howe@okeq.org for an application. All applicants will be reviewed by the Board Development and Governance Committee. Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Is It a Date or Just Coffee?: The Gay Girl's Guide to Dating, Sex, and Romance" By Mo Brownsey The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. What are the ten telltale signs that date #2 will take place in hell? Is it better to bounce than to break? How do you navigate the squiggly line between exlover and now friends? Is it a date or just 4/23/26, 4:27 PM �OkEq eNews July 21st, 2015 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-21st--2015.htm... coffee? For women struggling to understand the nongirlfriend-girlfriend's refusal to bear any semblance to sanity, logic, or good manners, this nuts-andbolts guide is the answer. Understanding that love involves equal parts romance, lust, and neuroses, Mo Brownsey will guide you through the mysteries of amour, whether by helping you figure out what is wrong with the people you have been dating, helping you find people you should be dating, showing you how to craft a personal ad designed to entice babes but repel psyche-sucking wackos, or describing ten surefire ways to avoid Lesbian Bed Death. Equally wise and witty, Is It a Date or Just Coffee? will have you navigating the minefield of romance (including the horrors of Internet dating) as if you were soldier of passion. Whether you are single, dating, married, or not sure which, this is the book for you! JUST COFFEE? SY Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/23/26, 4:27 PM �OkEq eNews July 21st, 2015 11 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-21st--2015.htm... Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Amy Howe Administrative Assistant Amy.Howe@OkEq.org r-------------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat noon-9 p.m. | Sun noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L-------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 4:27 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/8d690c1ca98c914f9d0dc4d67639d2b3.pdf 3d6544e2c5706280aa7e9ee0c2e917e3 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews July 29th, 2015 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-29th--2015.htm... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews July 29th, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Gamily Back to School Carnival SAGE Pool Party Girl's Night Out The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Keith Hunt, McGraw Realtors McGraw R • LT Eating Out for Equality Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant Lawyer in the Library RS EBA Mixer Looking to buy or sell your dream home? EBA Sponsor I can help! 2015 U.S. Trans Survey Contact Keith Hunt Today 'The Lesbian Exhibit" (918) 513-13-94 First Thursday Art Opening & Exhibit khunt@mcgrawok.com "Rise Up Singing" r1] ~ @ fl~ UADINC ll[Al,_UTATC ' COM PANIC ,,Y THC WOllLO Walk to End Alzheimer's LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Pride Store 3rd Annual Gamily Back to School Carnival OkEq Annual Meeting Rainbow Library Saturday, August 8, 1:00 - 5:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St Summer is breezing by and school will be back in session before you know it. Gamily will present the 3rd Annual Back to School Carnival on Saturday, August 8th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm. There will be snacks, games, Disney characters, face painting, water gun fights so wear your swim suit and bring a towel, bouncy houses, Fun with Nuns and terrific prizes. Come have a whole lot of "before school" fun! This is a free event. Please RSVP with parents'/guardians' names and student's names, ages & grades. Bring your nieces, nephews, cousins, god-kids, neighbors and grandkids For more info or to RSVP, email olivia.cotter@okeq.org. Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 4:30 PM �OkEq eNews July 29th, 2015 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-29th--2015.htm... GAMILY (Gay+Family) is a program of OkEq that provides family style support to LGBTQ parents and straight allies and their children by creating a networking community with other similar and unique families. Gamily is accepting donations for the carnival. We are only asking for the following school supplies: -Folders -Pens -Pencils -Spiral notebooks -Box of crayons -Washable markers -Erasers -Kleenex tissues -3 ring binders (1/2 in, 1 in, 2in) -Wide ruled notebook paper SAGE Pool Party August 11, 10:00 a.m.-12:00 p.m. 1938 E. 55th Place, Tulsa, OK 74105 SAGE Tulsa will have a pool party on Tuesday, August 11st, 2015 at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot dogs. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email SAGE@OkEq.org to RSVP. Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq The Boy Scouts of America have lifted their ban on gay scout masters. In response to this historic decision, Oklahomans for Equality will be establishing a cub scout pack for our families. Andrew Grimes spent years as a Cub Scout and Boy Scout ultimately earning the rank of Eagle Scout. As a young adult, Andy was employed by the Boy Scouts of America as a district executive. If you or your son(s) are interested in joining a chapter of the Boy Scouts of America, please contact Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org or you can find more information here. OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, August 20th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org Girl's Night Out Retail Therapy All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibit The July exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features 'Ankle Deep...an Experience in Acrylics.' 4/23/26, 4:30 PM �OkEq eNews July 29th, 2015 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-29th--2015.htm... Oklahomans for Equality and it's Gender Outreach Program will be hosting a Girl's Night Out Retail Therapy on Saturday, August 8th at 7:00 p.m. For more information, contact Sharon Queen at 918-743-4297 or sharon.queen@okeq,org or Julie Vargas at 918-622-5667. Eating Out for Equality August 11, 5:00 p.m.-10:00 p.m. The Hen Wine & Bistro, 3509 S. Peoria Ave This fundraiser will be hosted by Equality Business Alliance member Kathy Bondy with The Hen Wine & Bistro. 10% of the sales that evening will be donated to the EBA! Reservations appreciated by calling 918-935-3420 or by clicking here. Counseling Services vVI N Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 George Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant Become a new donor to OkEq or a new member of Oklahomans for Equality today. All new member donations to Oklahomans for Equality will be matched by the George Kaiser Family Foundation. GEORGE KAISER FAMILY FOUNDATION Counseling Services Find out more about membership with Oklahomans for Equality and ---------------- learn how to make your donation today. Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Lawyer in the Library August 12, September 9 & October 14, 5;30 p.m.-6:30 p.m. Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant, estate planning and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org LEGAL AID SERVICES t h OF OKLAHOMA, INC. = Making Equal Justice for All a Reality 4/23/26, 4:30 PM �OkEq eNews July 29th, 2015 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-29th--2015.htm... For more information, please contact Mia Leighty at 918-574-2931 or Amy Howe at 918-743-4297. EBA Mixer August 19, 6:00-8:00 p.m. All Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S. Peoria Ave Counseling Services Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org --- --- E UALITY Business Alliance The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send a email to eba@okeq.org for more information. The August mixer will be held at All Souls Unitarian Church and hosted by Morton Investigations and Security. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: ihelptulsa.com Recently received a new computer or smart device? Do you need all of your files and email moved from your old computer to your new computer? Do you need help setting up your smart device? If so, contact johnv@ihelptulsa.com - - - - - - - - , log onto ihelptulsa.com or call John at 918-605-8777. Want to receive computer tips? Like us at facebook.com/ihelptulsa - Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918-954-8568 emily.howell@okeq.org @HelpTulsa.com 2015 U.S. Trans Survey Awareness Week www.ustranssurvey.org As the follow-up to the National Transgender Discrimination Survey (NTDS), the 2015 U.S. Trans Survey will become our community's go-to source for information about the lives and experiences of trans people. Counseling Services Weekdays 4/23/26, 4:30 PM �OkEq eNews July 29th, 2015 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-29th--2015.htm... More than 6,400 people took the NTDS, and over 7,000 people have already pledged to take the 2015 U.S. Trans Survey when it becomes available on August 19th. But we're far short of the 20,000 pledges we need to ensure we double the number of people who complete the U.S. Trans Survey from the NTDS. By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org That's why we have designated July 28th - 30th as the U.S. Trans Survey Awareness Week--to help find as many trans, genderqueer, and nonbinary people as possible to complete the 2015 U.S. Trans Survey. SOS Group "The Lesbian Exhibit", by William Hedgecock Friday, July 31-Saturday, August 1, 8:00 p.m. & Friday, August 7 - Saturday August 7, 8:00 p.m. The Nightingale Theater, 1416 E. 4th St "What ARE lesbians?" A simple enough question, wouldn't you think? What a lot of people might not know is that the Modern Lesbian has a rich history and culture that is fascinating, terrifying, and easily covered in a thorough PowerPoint. Opening this month, The Lesbian Exhibit gives museum patrons a glimpse into the exotic life of the homosexual female. Our friendly guides will teach you how they got here, what they're doing now, and even some preventative measures you can take to keep healthy straight women from turning! SEE the Butch Lesbian shotgun an entire beer from the back of her U-Haul! SEE the Lipstick Lesbian as she camouflages herself in your local PTA meeting! SEE the Party Lesbian as her boyfriend watches her make out with his friend Stacey! We encourage you to take advantage of this unique window into another, stranger world, and to join us next month for the latest exhibit in the series: Black People with British Accents: Fact or Fiction? Inman Theatre Company's most recent original production, "The Lesbian Exhibit", finds the audience as casual museum-goers, observing five women from outside their individual display cases. As the voice of the museum's curator fades off, the women take control. Stepping out from behind their pristine prisons, rebellious Denise, practical Heidi, self-assured Elaine, acerbic Lisa, and somber Christine each tell their own story, defying the confines of the exhibit and trying to make sense of the world and themselves. The utterly heartfelt, thoroughly funny, and relentlessly honest new script by well-known local playwright, Will Inman (Estate Sale, Mir[and]a) is brought to life by a truly outstanding cast featuring (in no particular order) Haley Clarke, Abigail Boegh, Emile Adams, Caitlin Cash, and Liz Masters. Show dates are July 31st and August 1st, 7th, and 8th at 8:00 p.m. at the Nightingale Theatre. For more information, call 918-633-8666 or click here. Mature themes. Tickets are $10 at the door. Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather First Thursday Art Opening & Exhibit "Machination" August 6, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St 4/23/26, 4:30 PM �OkEq eNews July 29th, 2015 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-29th--2015.htm... The August Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists will feature a combined exhibit of technologybased performance works titled "Machination". "Machination" is a choice collection of works by Tulsa artists including Michael Christopher, Nick Kountoupis, Michael Benton, Lisa Regan, Paul Timshel and R.C. Morrison - artists whose work would not be remotely feasible without advanced technologies. Employing a broad range of contemporary tech, including plasma metal cutting, laser cutting and engraving, threedimensional printing, digital painting, electronic lighting and embedded microprocessors, these works present a sampler across a broad section of the new materials and techniques of fine art and will feature technologybased performance works. "Rise Up Singing at the Synagogue: How the West was Sung" Thursday, August 20, 7:00 p.m. Congregation B'nai Emunah, 1719 S. Owasso Ave "Rise Up Singing!" is a twenty-first century folksong revival. This year's concert embraces the pioneering spirit of the American West. These are the voices of cowboys and pioneers, bold explorers of a new frontier. Admission is free and open to the public. Held at the Synagogue once a year, the event is designed to bring people of all backgrounds together. Guest artists and musicians from across the city will lead songs of love, longing, celebration, protest, and imagination in sing-able arrangements, with lyrics available to every participant. Call 918.935.3373 for Summer Supper reservations ($15 per person), beginning at 5:45 p.m. The Synagogue Café will serve treats, gourmet coffee, and other beverages during and after the program. Please plan to come early to make sure that you have a comfortable seat. Guests are welcome to tour the Synagogue at 6:00 p.m. before the event begins. The concert will begin at 7:00 p.m. Alzheimer's Association Walk to End Alzheimer's Guthrie Green, 111 E. Brady St Saturday, August 22 8:00 a.m. Registration, 9:00 a.m. Ceremony SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage - Services and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Join us for the Alzheimer's Association Walk to End Alzheimer's - the world's largest 4/23/26, 4:30 PM �OkEq eNews July 29th, 2015 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-29th--2015.htm... tiil:rft1'13-;-J.t 11/ event to raise awareness and funds for Alzheimer's care, support and research. Together, alzheimer's association• we walk on behalf of our friends, our families and our future. Though we all have our own motivation to step up to the start line, our eyes are set on the ultimate finish line - the end of Alzheimer's. ~ r Start our join a team today at tulsawalk.org. Divas 4 H.O.P.E. - Motown Down Friday, August 28 Hyatt Regency Hotel, 100 E. 3rd St Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Divas 4 H.O.P.E. is an event to sponsor and promote Health Outreach Prevention Education (H.O.P.E.) and their ongoing mission to support and inform our community of their work to test and prevent HIV/AIDS. Click here to purchase a sponsorship of this event. Get F.I.T. LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. healthcare oklahomans for equality BILLOF RIGHTS ACA Assistance Healthca re Bi I IOf Rig hts .org Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. ---- ·---- You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or Gender Outreach 4/23/26, 4:30 PM �OkEq eNews July 29th, 2015 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-29th--2015.htm... concerns. Click here to purchase your pendant today! Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep voices in genre fiction that are often up with the new items and new sale items ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Oklahomans for Equality Annual Meeting and Board of Directors Elections Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org OkEq Board 2014-2015 The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 3rd, 2015 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Nominations to the Board of Directors can now be made in one way: 4/23/26, 4:30 PM �OkEq eNews July 29th, 2015 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-29th--2015.htm... By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by August 15th) At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is accepting applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Seven directors will be elected. Please contact amy.howe@okeq.org for an application. All applicants will be reviewed by the Board Development and Governance Committee. Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "The Starwick Episodes" By Thomas Wolfe In Wolfe's autobiographical novel Of Time and the River (1935), protagonist Eugene Gant, a struggling writer, physically assaults his Harvard chum, pretentious aesthete Francis Starwick, calling him a "dirty little fairy"-yet the theme of Starwick's homosexuality is treated obliquely. Temple University English professor emeritus Kennedy, who chronicled Wolfe's literary career in The Window of Memory, now gives us the unexpurgated version of the Gant/ Starwick relationship by publishing sections of the novel that Maxwell Perkins, Wolfe's editor, excised primarily because the manuscript was too long. In one key scene, the two friends visit a Parisian brothel where Gant makes macho, homophobic taunts as Starwick reveals his lack of sexual interest in women. Gant's ravings, Kennedy observes, mirror Wolfe's "own paranoid tendencies" and fear of homosexuality. Yet through Starwick's soul-baring conversations, we gain sympathetic insight into a gay individual who yearns to escape the torment of the closet. In his introduction to this fascinating volume, Kennedy details the promising career and shocking strangulationmurder of playwright Kenneth Raisbeck, Wolfe's gay friend at Harvard and the man on whom he modeled Starwick. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 4:30 PM �OkEq eNews July 29th, 2015 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-29th--2015.htm... EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the 4/23/26, 4:30 PM �OkEq eNews July 29th, 2015 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-29th--2015.htm... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Amy Howe Administrative Assistant Amy.Howe@OkEq.org Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org -- 4/23/26, 4:30 PM �OkEq eNews July 29th, 2015 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-29th--2015.htm... Tracy Allen Volunteer Coordinator Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org r---------------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat noon-9 p.m. | Sun noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I ~---------------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 4:30 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/bd1aaff50f6bb1e6487fc7ec66bbd8bb.pdf e7fe9a115a16dc47aed23520b76ff137 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews August 5th, 2015 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-5th--2015.h... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews August 5th, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Gamily Back to School Carnival SAGE Pool Party Girl's Night Out The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: ihelptulsa.com Recently received a new computer or smart device? Do you need all of your files and email moved from your old computer to your new computer? Do you need help setting up your smart device? If so, contact johnv@ihelptulsa.com , log ----onto ihelptulsa.com or call John at 918-605-8777. Want to receive computer tips? Like us at facebook.com/ihelptulsa Eating Out for Equality Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant Lawyer in the Library EBA Mixer EBA Sponsor TYPros Perspectives First Thursday Art Opening & Exhibit 'The Lesbian Exhibit" @HelpTulsa .corn "Tangerine" "Rise Up Singing" Walk to End Alzheimer's 3rd Annual Gamily Back to School Carnival Saturday, August 8, 1:00 - 5:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St Summer is breezing by and school will be back in session before you know it. Gamily will present the 3rd Annual Back to School Carnival on Saturday, August 8th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm. There will be snacks, games, Disney characters, face painting, water gun fights so wear your swim suit and bring a towel, bouncy houses, Fun with Nuns and terrific prizes. Come have a whole lot of "before school" fun! This is a free event. Please RSVP with parents'/guardians' names and student's names, ages & grades. Bring your nieces, nephews, cousins, god-kids, neighbors and grandkids For more info or to RSVP, email olivia.cotter@okeq.org. Divas 4 H.O.P.E. LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Pride Store OkEq Annual Meeting Rainbow Library 11 Find Us on Facebook GAMILY (Gay+Family) is a program of OkEq that provides family style 4/23/26, 4:30 PM �OkEq eNews August 5th, 2015 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-5th--2015.h... support to LGBTQ parents and straight allies and their children by creating a networking community with other similar and unique families. Gamily is accepting donations for the carnival. We are only asking for the following school supplies: -Folders -Pens -Pencils -Spiral notebooks -Box of crayons -Washable markers -Erasers -Kleenex tissues -3 ring binders (1/2 in, 1 in, 2in) -Wide ruled notebook paper SAGE Pool Party August 11, 10:00 a.m.-12:00 p.m. 1938 E. 55th Place, Tulsa, OK 74105 SAGE Tulsa will have a pool party on Tuesday, August 11st, 2015 at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot dogs. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email SAGE@OkEq.org to RSVP. Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq The Boy Scouts of America have lifted their ban on gay scout masters. In response to this historic decision, Oklahomans for Equality will be establishing a cub scout pack for our families. Andrew Grimes spent years as a Cub Scout and Boy Scout ultimately earning the rank of Eagle Scout. As a young adult, Andy was employed by the Boy Scouts of America as a district executive. If you or your son(s) are interested in joining a chapter of the Boy Scouts of America, please contact Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org or you can find more information here. OkEq Board Meeting The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org Girl's Night Out Retail Therapy 7 p.m. Thursday, August 20th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibit The August exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features 'Machination.' August 8, 7:00 p.m. 4/23/26, 4:30 PM �OkEq eNews August 5th, 2015 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-5th--2015.h... Oklahomans for Equality and it's Gender Outreach Program will be hosting a Girl's Night Out Retail Therapy on Saturday, August 8th at 7:00 p.m. For more information, contact Sharon Queen at 918-743-4297 or sharon.queen@okeq,org or Julie Vargas at 918-622-5667. Eating Out for Equality August 11, 5:00 p.m.-10:00 p.m. The Hen Wine & Bistro, 3509 S. Peoria Ave This fundraiser will be hosted by Equality Business Alliance member Kathy Bondy with The Hen Wine & Bistro. 10% of the sales that evening will be donated to the EBA! Reservations appreciated by calling 918-935-3420 or by clicking here. Counseling Services vVI N Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 George Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant Become a new donor to OkEq or a new member of Oklahomans for Equality today. All new member donations to Oklahomans for Equality will be matched by the George Kaiser Family Foundation. GEORGE KAISER FAMILY FOUNDATION Counseling Services Find out more about membership with Oklahomans for Equality and ---------------- learn how to make your donation today. Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Lawyer in the Library August 12, September 9 & October 14, 5;30 p.m.-6:30 p.m. Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant, estate planning and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org LEGAL AID SERVICES t h OF OKLAHOMA, INC. = Making Equal Justice for All a Reality 4/23/26, 4:30 PM �OkEq eNews August 5th, 2015 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-5th--2015.h... For more information, please contact Mia Leighty at 918-574-2931 or Amy Howe at 918-743-4297. EBA Mixer August 19, 6:00-8:00 p.m. All Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S. Peoria Ave Counseling Services Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org E UALITY Business Alliance The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send a email to eba@okeq.org for more information. The August mixer will be held at All Souls Unitarian Church and hosted by Morton Investigations and Security. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Keith Hunt, McGraw Realtors Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org McGraw R • Counseling Services L T ORS Looking to buy or sell your dream home? I can help! Contact Keith Hunt Today (918) 513-13-94 khunt@mcgrawok.com r1] ~ •'1 llADING IUAl,..CSTATL ~ L:.J ' COMPAN ICS ~ TH( WORLD Perspectives: Transgender Voices August 6, 5:30 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. The Perspectives Series, organized by the Diversity Crew, includes informative sessions on a specific area of diversity. The ultimate goal of the series is to inform members, stimulate dialogue and build understanding. Counseling Services Weekdays 4/23/26, 4:30 PM �OkEq eNews August 5th, 2015 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-5th--2015.h... I I Tulsa's YoungProfessionals This event will focus on issues related to our transgender community. Topics will include gender identity, expression, sexual orientation and transition, among others. Join us to learn the tools to be a better ally for transgender individuals! Vic Wiener, local LGBTQ advocate and Gay Straight Alliance Coordinator at Youth Services of Tulsa, will moderate a panel of transgender individual and family members. This event is free to attend. RSVP here. First Thursday Art Opening & Exhibit "Machination" August 6, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org ------ SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org The August Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists will feature a combined exhibit of technologybased performance works titled "Machination". "Machination" is a choice collection of works by Tulsa artists including Michael Christopher, Nick Kountoupis, Michael Benton, Lisa Regan, Paul Timshel and R.C. Morrison - artists whose work would not be remotely feasible without advanced technologies. Employing a broad range of contemporary tech, including plasma metal cutting, laser cutting and engraving, threedimensional printing, digital painting, electronic lighting and embedded microprocessors, these works present a sampler across a broad section of the new materials and techniques of fine art and will feature technologybased performance works. "The Lesbian Exhibit", by William Hedgecock Friday, August 7 - Saturday August 8, 8:00 p.m. The Nightingale Theater, 1416 E. 4th St "What ARE lesbians?" A simple enough question, wouldn't you think? What a lot of people might not know is that the Modern Lesbian has a rich history and culture that is fascinating, terrifying, and easily covered in a thorough PowerPoint. Opening this month, The Lesbian Exhibit gives museum patrons a glimpse into the exotic life of the homosexual female. Our friendly guides will teach you how they got here, what they're doing now, and even some preventative measures you can take to keep healthy straight women from turning! SEE the Butch Lesbian shotgun an entire beer from the back of her U-Haul! SEE the Lipstick Lesbian as she camouflages herself in your local PTA meeting! SEE the Party Lesbian as her boyfriend watches her make out with his friend Stacey! We encourage you to take advantage of this unique window into another, stranger world, and to join us next month for the latest exhibit in the series: Black People with British Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather 4/23/26, 4:30 PM �OkEq eNews August 5th, 2015 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-5th--2015.h... Accents: Fact or Fiction? Inman Theatre Company's most recent original production, "The Lesbian Exhibit", finds the audience as casual museum-goers, observing five women from outside their individual display cases. As the voice of the museum's curator fades off, the women take control. Stepping out from behind their pristine prisons, rebellious Denise, practical Heidi, self-assured Elaine, acerbic Lisa, and somber Christine each tell their own story, defying the confines of the exhibit and trying to make sense of the world and themselves. The utterly heartfelt, thoroughly funny, and relentlessly honest new script by well-known local playwright, Will Inman (Estate Sale, Mir[and]a) is brought to life by a truly outstanding cast featuring (in no particular order) Haley Clarke, Abigail Boegh, Emile Adams, Caitlin Cash, and Liz Masters. Show dates are July 31st and August 1st, 7th, and 8th at 8:00 p.m. at the Nightingale Theatre. For more information, call 918-633-8666 or click here. Mature themes. Tickets are $10 at the door. "Tangerine" - a film by Sean Baker OkEq Night, Friday, August 14, 2015, 7:30 p.m. Circle Cinema, 10 S. Lewis Ave It's Christmas Eve in Tinseltown and Sin-Dee is back on the block. Upon hearing that her pimp boyfriend hasn't been faithful during the 28 days she was locked up, the working girl and her best friend, Alexandra, embark on a mission to get to the bottom of the scandalous rumor. Their rip-roaring odyssey leads them through various subcultures of Los Angeles, including an Armenian family dealing with their own repercussions of infidelity. Director Sean Baker's prior films brought rich texture and intimate detail to worlds seldom seen on film. Tangerine follows suit, bursting off the screen with energy and style. Exhibiting fierce chemistry with his actors to fashion a dazzlingly distinctive film filled with humor and heart, Baker's talent is on full display. A decidedly modern Christmas tale told on the real streets of L.A.,Tangerine defies expectation-a veritable cinematic jolt. Tickets will be available the Wednesday before the showing, August 12, at circlecinema.com or at the box office. "Rise Up Singing at the Synagogue: How the West was Sung" SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage - Services and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Thursday, August 20, 7:00 p.m. Congregation B'nai Emunah, 1719 S. Owasso Ave "Rise Up Singing!" is a twenty-first century folksong revival. This year's concert embraces the pioneering spirit of the American West. These are the voices of cowboys and pioneers, bold 4/23/26, 4:30 PM �OkEq eNews August 5th, 2015 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-5th--2015.h... explorers of a new frontier. Admission is free and open to the public. Tulsa Area Prime Timers Held at the Synagogue once a year, the event is designed to bring people of all backgrounds together. Guest artists and musicians from across the city will lead songs of love, longing, celebration, protest, and imagination in sing-able arrangements, with lyrics available to every participant. 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Call 918.935.3373 for Summer Supper reservations ($15 per person), beginning at 5:45 p.m. The Synagogue Café will serve treats, gourmet coffee, and other beverages during and after the program. Please plan to come early to make sure that you have a comfortable seat. Guests are welcome to tour the Synagogue at 6:00 p.m. before the event begins. The concert will begin at 7:00 p.m. Alzheimer's Association Walk to End Alzheimer's Guthrie Green, 111 E. Brady St Saturday, August 22 8:00 a.m. Registration, 9:00 a.m. Ceremony Join us for the Alzheimer's Association Walk to End Alzheimer's - the world's largest event to raise awareness and funds for Alzheimer's care, support and research. Together, we walk on behalf of our friends, our families and our future. Though we all have our own motivation to step up to the start line, our eyes are set on the ultimate finish line - the end of Alzheimer's. Start our join a team today at tulsawalk.org. Divas 4 H.O.P.E. - Motown Down Friday, August 28 Hyatt Regency Hotel, 100 E. 3rd St Divas 4 H.O.P.E. is an event to sponsor and promote Health Outreach Prevention Education (H.O.P.E.) and their ongoing mission to support and inform our community of their work to test and prevent HIV/AIDS. Click here to purchase a sponsorship of this event. Get F.I.T. Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. ----- ------ Gender Outreach 4/23/26, 4:30 PM �OkEq eNews August 5th, 2015 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-5th--2015.h... LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Health ca re Bi I!Of Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Click here to purchase your pendant today! Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 4/23/26, 4:30 PM �OkEq eNews August 5th, 2015 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-5th--2015.h... Oklahomans for Equality Annual Meeting and Board of Directors Elections Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno OkEq Board 2014-2015 The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 3rd, 2015 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Nominations to the Board of Directors can now be made in one way: By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by August 15th) At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is accepting applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Seven directors will be elected. Please contact amy.howe@okeq.org for an application. All applicants will be reviewed by the Board Development and Governance Committee. Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "The Queerest Places: A Guide to Gay and Lesbian Historic Sites" By Paula Martinac It has long been a slogan of gay liberation that "We are everywhere." But exactly where is everywhere? Paula Martinac gives names, places, street addresses, and even A GUIDE TO Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org ' GAY A!',,l) LESBIAN HISTORIC ,IILS .. . ' ._._ 4/23/26, 4:30 PM �OkEq eNews August 5th, 2015 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-5th--2015.h... apartment numbers in The Queerest Places: A Guide to Gay and Lesbian Historic Sites. Covering every U.S. state and most major cities, Martinac lists the homes of the queer and famous, notable historic sites, cemeteries in which notable deviants are interred, and even contemporary resources such as gay community centers and gay and lesbian research libraries. Martinac has a chatty style, an eye for amusing details, and a wealth of historical knowledge. If you have a hankering to see where Rock Hudson was born, where African American arts patron A'Lelia Walker gave her famous parties, or the rooming house where W. H. Auden, Gypsy Rose Lee, and Carson McCullers all lived together, this is the address book you need. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the 4/23/26, 4:30 PM �OkEq eNews August 5th, 2015 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-5th--2015.h.. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Amy Howe Administrative Assistant Amy.Howe@OkEq.org Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org ----- 11 of 12 4/23/26, 4:30 PM �OkEq eNews August 5th, 2015 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-5th--2015.h... Tracy Allen Volunteer Coordinator Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org r---------------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat noon-9 p.m. | Sun noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L---------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 4:30 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/92113cfcf4efe95bb967eaf588de5420.pdf a5df660523eaf3149243d9cee7ed59c7 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews August 12th, 2015 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-12th--2015.... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews August 12th, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant Lawyer in the Library First Cub Scout Meeting The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders Monday-Wednesday and Friday 7:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Thursday 7:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m. Closed Saturday and Sunday EBA Mixer "First Thursday" Art Exhibit "Tangerine" EBA Sponsor Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders is Tulsa's oldest and finest shoe repair shop featuring shoe repair and cowboy and western boot repair. We also provide premium maker and repair service for high end leather goods, bags, purses and various other items including custom work. Walk to End Alzheimer's Divas 4 H.O.P.E. ~~~ _ TULSA SHOE REBUILDERS 918.584.6062 5455-C SOUTH MINGO RD · TULSA, OK 74146 BOOT - "Rise Up Singing" Drag Queen Bingo Like us on Facebook or visit our website here. SHOE - Grateful Day Foundation LEATHER REPAIR Council Oak Men's Chorale Oklahoma Changing World Prize EBA Sponsor LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Pride Store George Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant Become a new donor to OkEq or a new member of Oklahomans for Equality today. All new member donations to Oklahomans for Equality will be matched by the George Kaiser Family Foundation. OkEq Annual Meeting Rainbow Library 11 Find Us on Facebook GEORGE KAISER FAMILY FOUNDATION Find Oklahomans and -out -more - -about - -membership - - - -with -- - - -for -Equality -- learn how to make your donation today. Lawyer in the Library August 12, September 9 & October 14, 5:30 p.m.-6:30 p.m. Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/23/26, 4:33 PM �OkEq eNews August 12th, 2015 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-12th--2015.... Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant, estate planning and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. LEGAL AID SERVICES t h OF OKLAHOMA, INC. = Making Equal Justice for All a Reality For more information, please contact Mia Leighty at 918-574-2931 or Amy Howe at 918-743-4297. First Cub Scout Meeting Sunday, August 16, 4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. Calling all Scouts and families of boys in 1st through 5th grade: Oklahomans for Equality is starting a new Cub Scout Pack. An organizational meeting with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts will be held this Sunday, August 16th, 4:00 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We will be planning the year of scouting, training, and organizing den meetings. If you are unable to attend but interested in volunteering or have a boy that is interested in participating, contact Cubmaster Andy Grimes here. EBA Mixer Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq The Boy Scouts of America have lifted their ban on gay scout masters. In response to this historic decision, Oklahomans for Equality will be establishing a cub scout pack for our families. Andrew Grimes spent years as a Cub Scout and Boy Scout ultimately earning the rank of Eagle Scout. As a young adult, Andy was employed by the Boy Scouts of America as a district executive. If you or your son(s) are interested in joining a chapter of the Boy Scouts of America, please contact Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org or you can find more information here. August 19, 6:00-8:00 p.m. All Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S. Peoria Ave E UALITY Business Alliance OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, August 20th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send a email to eba@okeq.org for more information. OkEq Art Exhibit The August exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features 'Machination.' The August mixer will be held at All Souls Unitarian Church and hosted by Morton Investigations and Security. 4/23/26, 4:33 PM �OkEq eNews August 12th, 2015 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-12th--2015.... "First Thursday" Art Exhibit Reception - Thursday, September 3. 2015, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. This September, Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E. 4th Street in Downtown Tulsa) will feature the works of Terri Higgs in a show titled "Meditations in Silk", beginning with a reception and continuing throughout the month. "Tangerine" - a film by Sean Baker OkEq Night, Friday, August 14, 2015, 7:30 p.m. Circle Cinema, 10 S. Lewis Ave It's Christmas Eve in Tinseltown and Sin-Dee is back on the block. Upon hearing that her pimp boyfriend hasn't been faithful during the 28 days she was locked up, the working girl and her best friend, Alexandra, embark on a mission to get to the bottom of the scandalous rumor. Their rip-roaring odyssey leads them through various subcultures of Los Angeles, including an Armenian family dealing with their own repercussions of infidelity. Director Sean Baker's prior films brought rich texture and intimate detail to worlds seldom seen on film. Tangerine follows suit, bursting off the screen with energy and style. Exhibiting fierce chemistry with his actors to fashion a dazzlingly distinctive film filled with humor and heart, Baker's talent is on full display. A decidedly modern Christmas tale told on the real streets of L.A.,Tangerine defies expectation-a veritable cinematic jolt. Tickets are available here. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Keith Hunt, McGraw Realtors sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 4:33 PM �OkEq eNews August 12th, 2015 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-12th--2015.... McGraw R ·A TO R S Looking to buy or sell your dream home? I can help! Contact Keith Hunt Today Counseling Services (918) 513-13-94 khunt@mcgrawok.com rn "'2'- .,~ ~ L:.J '- LLADING lllAl,..lSTATL COMPAN l lS ,'t' THE WOlllD Grateful Day - Flapjack Fundraiser Saturday, August 15, 8:00 a.m. Applebee's, 9409 E. 71st St Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org Please join us for breakfast at our annual Flapjack Fundraiser. Proceeds from this event help to finance our annual Wellness Retreat, for people in the Tulsa metro area, living with HIV and F <0>11..llltll.da.1t.:ii.<0> ltll. Jrltll.ce . AIDS. Tickets available at the door, and online at the OKEQ Pride Store here. Credit cards are accepted. Qrnteful .,2)Af1 Individual Tickets: $7.00 Mimosa's will be available, for an additional $3.00 Counseling Services "Rise Up Singing at the Synagogue: How the West was Sung" Thursday, August 20, 7:00 p.m. Congregation B'nai Emunah, 1719 S. Owasso Ave "Rise Up Singing!" is a twenty-first century folksong revival. This year's concert embraces the pioneering spirit of the American West. These are the voices of cowboys and pioneers, bold explorers of a new frontier. Admission is free and open to the public. Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org Held at the Synagogue once a year, the event is designed to bring people of all backgrounds together. Guest artists and musicians from across the city will lead songs of love, longing, celebration, protest, and imagination in sing-able arrangements, with lyrics available to every participant. Call 918.935.3373 for Summer Supper reservations ($15 per person), beginning at 5:45 p.m. The Synagogue Café will serve treats, gourmet coffee, and other beverages during and after the program. Please plan to come early to make Counseling Services Weekdays 4/23/26, 4:33 PM �OkEq eNews August 12th, 2015 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-12th--2015.... sure that you have a comfortable seat. Guests are welcome to tour the Synagogue at 6:00 p.m. before the event begins. The concert will begin at 7:00 p.m. Alzheimer's Association Walk to End Alzheimer's Guthrie Green, 111 E. Brady St Saturday, August 22 8:00 a.m. Registration, 9:00 a.m. Ceremony Join us for the Alzheimer's Association Walk to End Alzheimer's - the world's largest event to raise awareness and funds for Alzheimer's care, support and research. Together, we walk on behalf of our friends, our families and our future. Though we all have our own motivation to step up to the start line, our eyes are set on the ultimate finish line - the end of Alzheimer's. By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Start our join a team today at tulsawalk.org. Tulsa's Original Drag Queen Bingo Hyatt Regency Tulsa, 100 E. 2nd St Saturday, August 22, 2015, 6:00 p.m. Bingo, drag show, raffles, a silent auction, and prizes all night long, w ith entertainment by Shaleeta Buffet, Miss Gay Tulsa America: Roby DeFierce, Kris Kohl, Veronica LaCroix, Fanny McCracken, Carla Renee, Imperial Court of All Oklahoma's: Absolute Empress VIII Chelsea Starr, Secdackeiry TaylorAlexander and a special appearance by Dame Edna. This event is benefiting A Friend for A Friend, H.O.P.E. and St. Jerome's Our House Too Toiletry Pantry. Tickets are $500 for a Runway Table, $400 for a Premium Table, $300 for a Standard Table, and $35 for individual tickets. Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Please Contact Kris Kohl at www.facebook.com/kriskohl.9 or Tim Watchous at twatchous@gmail.com for ticket information. Cocktails & Buffet @ 6 - 7 pm Bingo Begins @ 7:30 pm We are also accepting donations at this time for anyone unable to attend but still wanting to help. 4/23/26, 4:33 PM �OkEq eNews August 12th, 2015 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-12th--2015.... Divas 4 H.O.P.E. - Motown Down Friday, August 28 Hyatt Regency Hotel, 100 E. 3rd St Divas 4 H.O.P.E. is an event to sponsor and promote Health Outreach Prevention Education (H.O.P.E.) and their ongoing mission to support and inform our community of their work to test and prevent HIV/AIDS. Click here to purchase a sponsorship of this event. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Council Oak Men's Chorale Rehearsals begin September 1, 7:00 p.m. 2900 S. Harvard Ave "Tis the Season" for one and all to come out and SING!!! If you love to sing and would love to be around a great group of guys, then I have the place for you! Council Oak Men's Chorale is looking for new members and past members to come join us for the 2015 Holiday Concert Season. Rehearsals will begin September 1, at 7:00 pm at Congregational Fellowship Church, 2900 South Harvard, Tulsa Ok 74114, in the fellowship hall behind the main auditorium and will run for fourteen weeks ending with concerts at Trinity Episcopal Church on December 4,5, and 8th several other opportunities to sing on different run outs as well as World Aids Day on December 1. Don't miss this opportunity to join a great group of guys that love to sing and perform for family, friends and our LGBT Community! We are Family, United, and together we can become One Voice! For more information you can contact us at our website at www.counciloak.org or call Dale Wells, Secretary for Vocal Pride Foundation at (918) 381-9598. Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage - Services and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Oklahoma Changing World Prize October 11, 2015 5:00 p.m. Woody Guthrie Center, 102 E. Brady St 4/23/26, 4:33 PM �OkEq eNews August 12th, 2015 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-12th--2015.... Just a little over a year after they were married at the Tulsa County Courthouse, Mary and Sharon Bishop-Baldwin will be awarded the Woody Guthrie Center's first Oklahoma Changing World Prize. The couple were the lead plaintiffs who challenged Oklahoma's ban on same-sex marriage in 2004, shortly after 76 percent of Oklahoma voters approved the ban. Together for 18 years, the Bishop-Baldwins represented thousands of gay and lesbian people in the Sooner State in Bishop v. United States, the lawsuit they filed seeking the freedom to marry. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 The presentation of the first Oklahoma Changing World Prize will be at a reception at the Woody Guthrie Center at 4:00 pm on October 11. The celebration will continue in the garden space between the Hardesty Arts Center (AHHA) and the WGC with a light dinner and music from Eric Himan at 5:00 pm. In the event of rain, dinner will be held inside AHHA. All proceeds from this special event support the Woody Guthrie Center's education initiatives. Table sponsorships are available immediately in the following levels: Friends ($1,000), This Land Table Sponsor ($2,500), and This Machine Sponsor ($5,000). Presenting sponsorships are also available. Call 918-574-2522 for information about sponsorships. Individual ticket sales to the event are $100 and will go on sale September 12. Call the Center at 918-574-2710 to purchase. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: ihelptulsa.com Recently received a new computer or smart device? Do you need all of your files and email moved from your old computer to your new computer? Do you need help setting up your smart device? If so, contact johnv@ihelptulsa.com - - - - - , log onto ihelptulsa.com or call John at 918-605-8777. Want to receive computer tips? Like us at facebook.com/ihelptulsa C,Hel Tulsa .com LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. Get F.I.T. Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. ---·---- Gender Outreach 4/23/26, 4:33 PM �OkEq eNews August 12th, 2015 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-12th--2015.... healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea Ith ca re Bi IIOf Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Equality Center Pride Store Lambda Al-Anon Group These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. A Murder of Storytellers Click here to purchase your pendant today! Every Friday 7 p.m. Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Oklahomans for Equality Annual Meeting and Board of Directors Elections 4/23/26, 4:33 PM �OkEq eNews August 12th, 2015 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-12th--2015.... Game Night OkEq Board 2014-2015 The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 3rd, 2015 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Nominations to the Board of Directors can now be made in one way: By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by August 15th) At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is accepting applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Seven directors will be elected. Please contact amy.howe@okeq.org for an application. All applicants will be reviewed by the Board Development and Governance Committee. Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Heather Has Two Mommies" By Leslea Newman Heather's favorite number is two. She has two arms, two legs, and two pets. And she also has two mommies. When Heather goes to school for the first time, someone asks her about her daddy, but Heather doesn't have a daddy. Then something interesting happens. When Heather and her classmates CQt:111"~1!dUaterlal Heather Has 'Two Mommies Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 4:33 PM �OkEq eNews August 12th, 2015 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-12th--2015.... all draw pictures of their families, not one drawing is the same. It doesn't matter who makes up a family, the teacher says, because "the most important thing about a Leslea Newmart"""''/111""'""'""' laura Cornell family is that all the people in it love one another." This delightful edition for a new generation of young readers features fresh illustrations by Laura Cornell and an updated story by Lesléa Newman. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the 4/23/26, 4:33 PM �OkEq eNews August 12th, 2015 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-12th--2015... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Amy Howe Administrative Assistant Amy.Howe@OkEq.org Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org ----- 11 of 12 4/23/26, 4:33 PM �OkEq eNews August 12th, 2015 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-12th--2015.... Tracy Allen Volunteer Coordinator Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org r---------------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat noon-9 p.m. | Sun noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L---------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 4:33 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/7aca7b0a3042438493388200c6bc5851.pdf 6da812b28c51b86d8ca0cbc2cb685ca2 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews August 19th, 2015 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-19th--2015.... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews August 19th, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant EBA Mixer Cub Scout Meeting The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders Monday-Wednesday and Friday 7:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Thursday 7:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m. Closed Saturday and Sunday Article Headline Lawyer in the Library "First Thursday" Art Exhibit Centerlink Leadership Summit Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders is Tulsa's oldest and finest shoe repair shop featuring shoe repair and cowboy and western boot repair. We also provide premium maker and repair service for high end leather goods, bags, purses and various other items including custom work. Walk to End Alzheimer's Divas 4 H.O.P.E. ~~~ _ TULSA SHOE REBUILDERS 918.584.6062 5455-C SOUTH MINGO RD · TULSA, OK 74146 BOOT - "Rise Up Singing" Drag Queen Bingo Like us on Facebook or visit our website here. SHOE - EBA Sponsor LEATHER REPAIR Council Oak Men's Chorale Yoga by Zach Oklahoma Changing World Prize EBA Sponsor Volunteers Needed George Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant Become a new donor to OkEq or a new member of Oklahomans for Equality today. All new member donations to Oklahomans for Equality will be matched by the George Kaiser Family Foundation. GEORGE KAISER FAMILY FOUNDATION LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Pride Store OkEq Annual Meeting Two Spirit Books Rainbow Library 11 Find Us on Facebook Find Oklahomans and -out -more - -about - -membership - - - -with -- - - -for -Equality -- learn how to make your donation today. EBA Mixer August 19, 6:00-8:00 p.m. All Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S. Peoria Ave 4/23/26, 4:35 PM �OkEq eNews August 19th, 2015 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-19th--2015.... E UALITY Business Alliance The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send a email to eba@okeq.org for more information. The August mixer will be held at All Souls Unitarian Church and hosted by Morton Investigations and Security. Cub Scout Meeting Sunday, August 30, 4:00 p.m. Calling all Scouts and families of boys in 1st through 5th grade: Oklahomans for Equality is starting a new Cub Scout Pack. A second organizational meeting with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts will be held this Sunday, August 30th, 4:00 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We will be planning the year of scouting, training, and organizing den meetings. If you are unable to attend but interested in volunteering or have a boy that is interested in participating, contact Cubmaster Andy Grimes here. Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq The Boy Scouts of America have lifted their ban on gay scout masters. In response to this historic decision, Oklahomans for Equality will be establishing a cub scout pack for our families. Andrew Grimes spent years as a Cub Scout and Boy Scout ultimately earning the rank of Eagle Scout. As a young adult, Andy was employed by the Boy Scouts of America as a district executive. If you or your son(s) are interested in joining a chapter of the Boy Scouts of America, please contact Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org or you can find more information here. OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, August 20th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Gamily Karaoke Saturday, August 29, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Unleash your inner rock star at Gamily Karaoke Night. DJ Ron will keep us rocking and rolling with family-friendly tunes! There is no place in Tulsa for familystyle karaoke so come let the little ones sing their hearts out (we'll let moms and dads sing too)! All ages are welcome. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibit The August exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features 'Machination.' 4/23/26, 4:35 PM �OkEq eNews August 19th, 2015 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-19th--2015.... For more information, contact Olivia Cotter at olivia.cotter@okeq.org. ---- Lawyer in the Library September 9 & October 14, 5:30 p.m.-6:30 p.m. Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant, estate planning and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. LEGAL AID SERVICES t S7;) OF OKLAHOMA, INC. = Making Equal Justice for All a Reality For more information, please contact Mia Leighty at 918-574-2931 or Amy Howe at 918-743-4297. Counseling Services "First Thursday" Art Exhibit Reception - Thursday, September 3. 2015, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. This September, Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E. 4th Street in Downtown Tulsa) will feature the works of Terri Higgs in a show titled "Meditations in Silk", beginning with a reception and continuing throughout the month. Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Centerlink 9th Annual Leadership Summit September 17-19, 2015 Hyatt Regency Tulsa As a leader in the LGBT community center movement, with proven leadership skills, expertise and experience, you are invited to be a part of CenterLink's 9th Annual Executive Director and Board Leadership Summit in Tulsa, Oklahoma. CenterLink, along with our allies and partners, shares your passion for developing and implementing strategies to help strengthen our LGBT center leadership. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org In addition to presentations from experts in their fields, there will be workshops and keynote addresses, as well as resource materials to help you 4/23/26, 4:35 PM �OkEq eNews August 19th, 2015 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-19th--2015.... increase your skills and knowledge as an LGBT community center leader. There will also be the chance to network with other LGBT center leaders from across the country and build your support network. Registration is open through September 11th here. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: ihelptulsa.com Recently received a new computer or smart device? Do you need all of your files and email moved from your old computer to your new computer? Do you need help setting up your smart device? If so, contact johnv@ihelptulsa.com - - - - - , log onto ihelptulsa.com or call John at 918-605-8777. Want to receive computer tips? Like us at facebook.com/ihelptulsa C)HelpTulsa.corn Counseling Services Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org ---- "Rise Up Singing at the Synagogue: How the West was Sung" Thursday, August 20, 7:00 p.m. Congregation B'nai Emunah, 1719 S. Owasso Ave "Rise Up Singing!" is a twenty-first century folksong revival. This year's concert embraces the pioneering spirit of the American West. These are the voices of cowboys and pioneers, bold explorers of a new frontier. Admission is free and open to the public. Held at the Synagogue once a year, the event is designed to bring people of all backgrounds together. Guest artists and musicians from across the city will lead songs of love, longing, celebration, protest, and imagination in sing-able arrangements, with lyrics available to every participant. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org - - --- Call 918.935.3373 for Summer Supper reservations ($15 per person), beginning at 5:45 p.m. The Synagogue Café will serve treats, gourmet coffee, and other beverages during and after the program. Please plan to come early to make sure that you have a comfortable seat. Guests are welcome to tour the Synagogue at 6:00 p.m. before the event begins. The concert will begin at 7:00 p.m. Alzheimer's Association Walk to End Alzheimer's Guthrie Green, 111 E. Brady St Saturday, August 22 Counseling Services Weekdays 4/23/26, 4:35 PM �OkEq eNews August 19th, 2015 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-19th--2015.... 8:00 a.m. Registration, 9:00 a.m. Ceremony Join us for the Alzheimer's Association Walk to End Alzheimer's - the world's largest event to raise awareness and funds for Alzheimer's care, support and research. Together, we walk on behalf of our friends, our families and our future. Though we all have our own motivation to step up to the start line, our eyes are set on the ultimate finish line - the end of Alzheimer's. Start our join a team today at tulsawalk.org. Tulsa's Original Drag Queen Bingo Hyatt Regency Tulsa, 100 E. 2nd St Saturday, August 22, 2015, 6:00 p.m. Bingo, drag show, raffles, a silent auction, and prizes all night long, w ith entertainment by Shaleeta Buffet, Miss Gay Tulsa America: Roby DeFierce, Kris Kohl, Veronica LaCroix, Fanny McCracken, Carla Renee, Imperial Court of All Oklahoma's: Absolute Empress VIII Chelsea Starr, Secdackeiry TaylorAlexander and a special appearance by Dame Edna. This event is benefiting A Friend for A Friend, H.O.P.E. and St. Jerome's Our House Too Toiletry Pantry. Tickets are $500 for a Runway Table, $400 for a Premium Table, $300 for a Standard Table, and $35 for individual tickets. Please Contact Kris Kohl at www.facebook.com/kriskohl.9 or Tim Watchous at twatchous@gmail.com for ticket information. Cocktails & Buffet @ 6 - 7 pm Bingo Begins @ 7:30 pm We are also accepting donations at this time for anyone unable to attend but still wanting to help. By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Divas 4 H.O.P.E. - Motown Down Friday, August 28 Hyatt Regency Hotel, 100 E. 3rd St Divas 4 H.O.P.E. is an event to sponsor and promote Health Outreach Prevention Education (H.O.P.E.) and their ongoing mission to support and inform our community of their work to test and prevent HIV/AIDS. Click here to purchase a sponsorship of this event. 4/23/26, 4:35 PM �OkEq eNews August 19th, 2015 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-19th--2015.... SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Council Oak Men's Chorale Rehearsals begin September 1, 7:00 p.m. 2900 S. Harvard Ave Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage - Services and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders "Tis the Season" for one and all to come out and SING!!! If you love to sing and would love to be around a great group of guys, then I have the place for you! Council Oak Men's Chorale is looking for new members and past members to come join us for the 2015 Holiday Concert Season. Rehearsals will begin September 1, at 7:00 pm at Congregational Fellowship Church, 2900 South Harvard, Tulsa Ok 74114, in the fellowship hall behind the main auditorium and will run for fourteen weeks ending with concerts at Trinity Episcopal Church on December 4,5, and 8th several other opportunities to sing on different run outs as well as World Aids Day on December 1. Don't miss this opportunity to join a great group of guys that love to sing and perform for family, friends and our LGBT Community! We are Family, United, and together we can become One Voice! For more information you can contact us at our website at www.counciloak.org or call Dale Wells, Secretary for Vocal Pride Foundation at (918) 381-9598. Yoga by Zach 4:30 p.m., Starting September 20, 2015 Join us for a new yoga class in our Wellness Room, Yoga by Zach. > l;Eake A c1a~2,I < Yoga by Zach combines stretching, breathing, chanting, and meditation. This is a mindful, slow-paced class that focuses heavily on relaxation and stress reduction and is ideal for beginner and advanced practitioners alike. You will leave feeling EVERY SUNDAY @ 4:30 pm Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. $5.00 4/23/26, 4:35 PM �OkEq eNews August 19th, 2015 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-19th--2015.... T refreshed, renewed, and restored in body, mind, and soul. As Baba Hari Dass said, "The idea is to attain peace." Class will be held every Sunday at 4:30 p.m. beginning September 20th. Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 If you have any questions, please contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org. Oklahoma Changing World Prize October 11, 2015 5:00 p.m. Woody Guthrie Center, 102 E. Brady St Just a little over a year after they were married at the Tulsa County Courthouse, Mary and Sharon Bishop-Baldwin will be awarded the Woody Guthrie Center's first Oklahoma Changing World Prize. The couple were the lead plaintiffs who challenged Oklahoma's ban on same-sex marriage in 2004, shortly after 76 percent of Oklahoma voters approved the ban. Together for 18 years, the Bishop-Baldwins represented thousands of gay and lesbian people in the Sooner State in Bishop v. United States, the lawsuit they filed seeking the freedom to marry. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Get F.I.T. The presentation of the first Oklahoma Changing World Prize will be at a reception at the Woody Guthrie Center at 4:00 pm on October 11. The celebration will continue in the garden space between the Hardesty Arts Center (AHHA) and the WGC with a light dinner and music from Eric Himan at 5:00 pm. In the event of rain, dinner will be held inside AHHA. All proceeds from this special event support the Woody Guthrie Center's education initiatives. Table sponsorships are available immediately in the following levels: Friends ($1,000), This Land Table Sponsor ($2,500), and This Machine Sponsor ($5,000). Presenting sponsorships are also available. Call 918-574-2522 for information about sponsorships. Individual ticket sales to the event are $100 and will go on sale September 12. Call the Center at 918-574-2710 to purchase. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Keith Hunt, McGraw Realtors Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. ---- ·----- Gender Outreach 4/23/26, 4:35 PM �OkEq eNews August 19th, 2015 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-19th--2015.... Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. McGraw Re TO R S Looking to buy or sell your dream home? I can help! Contact Keith Hunt Today (918) 513-13-94 khunt@mcgrawok.com rl] ~ ~ L:.J r,~ LLADINC lllAl,..l TAT[ t.: COMPAN l lS ,,,,- THE WORLD Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Garden Grocery Volunteers Needed Wednesdays & Thursdays The Parish Church of St. Jerome has been supporting the GLBT community for 20 years. St. Jerome's food and toiletry pantry serves those who are affected by HIV/AIDS. A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. We are currently seeking volunteers for our pantry. Volunteers' duties include helping clients with shopping and carrying out groceries, completing a bit of paper work, and stocking pantry shelves as needed. Pantry hours are Wednesdays 5:30 - 7:00 p.m. and Thursday 1:30 - 3:00 p.m. If you are interested in assisting with this vital service, please contact the church office: 918-582-3088. LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org BILLOF RIGHTS Health ca re Bi IIOf Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. 4/23/26, 4:35 PM �OkEq eNews August 19th, 2015 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-19th--2015.... Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Click here to purchase your pendant today! Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items OkEq Board of Directors Elections - Voting has begun! The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 4:35 PM �OkEq eNews August 19th, 2015 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-19th--2015.... ! !\ OkEq Board 2014-2015 The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 3rd, 2015 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. To vote for your seven candidates, you may come to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to pick up a ballot and vote. You may also contact Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org for a PDF copy of the ballot. The ballot is also available online here. All voting must be completed by 7:00 p.m., September 3rd, 2015. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Voting Members are OkEq members who have made an annual contribution to Oklahomans for Equality whether financial or in-kind, in the amount of $50.00 since July 31st, 2014. You may verify your voting status by contacting Toby Jenkins, Executive Director of Oklahomans for Equality at: toby.jenkins@okeq.org. Current voting members must cast their ballots before the OkEq annual meeting on Thursday, September 3rd, 2015. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Two Spirit Books in the Library Open every day Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. Jerry Custer, librarian for the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library, announces 20 new books are now available on Native American and First Nation individuals who identify as "Two Spirit". "Two Spirit" is the term used to identify LGBT individuals within historical indigenous Indian culture. These new books were funded by Sol Smith, who is Osage. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Left to right: Jerry Custer, Toby Jenkins, Sol Smith. For more information, contact Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org. Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "It Gets Better: Coming Out, Overcoming Bullying, and Creating a Life Worth Living" Edited by Dan Savage and Terry Miller Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the 4/23/26, 4:35 PM �OkEq eNews August 19th, 2015 11 of 12 Growing up isn't easy. Many young people face daily tormenting and bullying, and this is especially true for LGBT kids and teens. In response to a number of tragic suicides by LGBT students, syndicated columnist and author Dan Savage uploaded a video to YouTube with his partner, Terry Miller. Speaking openly about the bullying they suffered, and how they both went on to lead rewarding adult lives, their video launched the It Gets Better Project YouTube channel and initiated a worldwide phenomenon. It Gets Better is a collection of original essays and expanded testimonials written to teens from celebrities, political leaders, and everyday people, because while many LGBT teens can't see a positive future for themselves, we can. https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-19th--2015.... NEW Y ORK TIMES BES T SE L LER Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. IT G ETS BETTER COMING OUT, OVERCOMING BULLYING, AND CREATING A LIFE WORTH LIVING hdudrg concnoot'()nl from Elen OeGoneres, David Sed,, it, Twn GUftft. MichMI Cunningham. and many mor-. Edt tedby DAN SAVAGE and TERRY MILLER Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. Amy Howe Administrative Assistant Amy.Howe@OkEq.org Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 4:35 PM �OkEq eNews August 19th, 2015 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-19th--2015.... Tracy Allen Volunteer Coordinator Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org r---------------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L---------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 4:35 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/26f9fbfa044047336b774e3a86f73356.pdf 99a210beee2f36e1a2b7f6c828adf184 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews August 27th, 2015 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-27th--2015.... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews August 27th, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant Gamily Karaoke Cub Scout Meeting The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders Monday-Wednesday and Friday 7:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Thursday 7:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m. Closed Saturday and Sunday A Friend for a Friend Guys Dine Too "First Thursday" Art Exhibit EBA Mixer Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders is Tulsa's oldest and finest shoe repair shop featuring shoe repair and cowboy and western boot repair. We also provide premium maker and repair service for high end leather goods, bags, purses and various other items including custom work. EBA Sponsor Council Oak Men's Chorale TULSA SHOE REBUILDERS 918.584.6062 5455-C SOUTH MINGO RD · TULSA, OK 74146 BOOT - Centerlink Leadership Summit Divas 4 H.O.P.E. Like us on Facebook or visit our website here. SHOE - Lawyer in the Library LEATHER REPAIR Sarah Miller Workshop Yoga by Zach "Unlikely - -Family" -Oklahoma Changing World Prize EBA Sponsor George Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant Become a new donor to OkEq or a new member of Oklahomans for Equality today. All new member donations to Oklahomans for Equality will be matched by the George Kaiser Family Foundation. Volunteers Needed LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Pride Store OkEq Annual Meeting Two Spirit Books Rainbow Library GEORGE KAISER FAMILY FOUNDATION Find Oklahomans and -out -more - -about - -membership - - - -with -- - - -for -Equality -- learn how to make your donation today. 11 Find Us on Facebook Gamily Karaoke Saturday, August 29, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/23/26, 4:35 PM �OkEq eNews August 27th, 2015 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-27th--2015.... Unleash your inner rock star at Gamily Karaoke Night. DJ Ron will keep us rocking and rolling with family-friendly tunes! There is no place in Tulsa for familystyle karaoke so come let the little ones sing their hearts out (we'll let moms and dads sing too)! All ages are welcome. For more information, contact Olivia Cotter at olivia.cotter@okeq.org. --- Cub Scout Meeting Sunday, August 30, 4:00 p.m. Calling all Scouts and families of boys in 1st through 5th grade: Oklahomans for Equality is starting a new Cub Scout Pack. A second organizational meeting with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts will be held this Sunday, August 30th, 4:00 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We will be planning the year of scouting, training, and organizing den meetings. If you are unable to attend but interested in volunteering or have a boy that is interested in participating, contact Cubmaster Andy Grimes here. A Friend for a Friend Fundraising Event August 29, 6:00 p.m. Event Center, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Know your target audience. Who are your most important customers, clients or prospects, and why? Know what is important to them and address their needs in your newsletter each month. Include a photo to make your newsletter even more appealing.A Friend for a Friend charitable organization will hold a fundraising barbecue dinner this Saturday. The dinner will include ribs, smoked chicken, a vegetarian dish, baked beans, coleslaw, potato salad, tea, lemonade and water plus carrot cake for dessert. The group is asking for a $20 donation for each meal. The event also includes a silent auction and entertainment. Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq The Boy Scouts of America have lifted their ban on gay scout masters. In response to this historic decision, Oklahomans for Equality will be establishing a cub scout pack for our families. Andrew Grimes spent years as a Cub Scout and Boy Scout ultimately earning the rank of Eagle Scout. As a young adult, Andy was employed by the Boy Scouts of America as a district executive. If you or your son(s) are interested in joining a chapter of the Boy Scouts of America, please contact Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org or you can find more information here. OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, August 20th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. 4/23/26, 4:35 PM �OkEq eNews August 27th, 2015 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-27th--2015.... AUGUST 29, 2016 // 6,00 P.M. // OK EQUALITY CENTER 621 East 4t h Stree t, Tulsa fulkcat,Jiltd auclioa andnw!w 6f ~c!f{inuul. All proceeds from the event will go to the $20 per person II RSV/> (918/361 -8839 by August 22 organization, which has helped hundreds of pet owners meet "the challenges of living with HIV and being able to afford proper care for their pet with dignity and hope." A Friend for a Friend has been providing its pet services, including food, veterinary care and grooming for pets whose owners have HIV/AIDS in Tulsa for the past 23 years. OkEq Art Exhibit The August exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features 'Machination.' The services, which rely on volunteers and private donations, are available for all pets, including dogs, cats, fish and snakes. Clients are expected to pay as much of the veterinary charge as possible. Food is provided at no charge. Those who would like to attend the dinner should RSVP leaving a message at 918-361-8839. Guys Dine Too September 1, 6:30 p.m. Red Rock Canyon Grill, 9916 Riverside Pkwy Our next "Guys Dine Too" dinner is Tuesday September 1st at Red Rock Canyon Grill. If you plan to attend, please RSVP with Richard Haley at guysdinetoo@gmail.com Counseling Services "First Thursday" Art Exhibit Reception - Thursday, September 3, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Art Gallery, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St This September, Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E. 4th Street in Downtown Tulsa) will feature the works of Terri Higgs in a show titled "Meditations in Silk", beginning with a reception and continuing throughout the month. EBA Mixer September 16, 6:00-8:00 p.m. Decopolis Studios, 607 S. Boston Ave Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact 4/23/26, 4:35 PM �OkEq eNews August 27th, 2015 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-27th--2015.... Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org E UALITY Business Alliance The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send a email to eba@okeq.org for more information. The September EBA mixer will be held at Decopolis Studios. Lawyer in the Library September 16 & October 14, 5:30 p.m.-6:30 p.m. Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Counseling Services Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org --- --- Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant, estate planning and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. LEGAL AID SERVICES t h OF OKLAHOMA, INC. = Making Equal Justice for All a Reality For more information, please contact Mia Leighty at 918-574-2931 or Amy Howe at 918-743-4297. Counseling Services Centerlink 9th Annual Leadership Summit September 17-19, 2015 Hyatt Regency Tulsa As a leader in the LGBT community center movement, with proven leadership skills, expertise and experience, you are invited to be a part of CenterLink's 9th Annual Executive Director and Board Leadership Summit in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org CenterLink, along with our allies and partners, shares your passion for developing and implementing strategies to help strengthen our LGBT center leadership. In addition to presentations from experts in their fields, there will be 4/23/26, 4:35 PM �OkEq eNews August 27th, 2015 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-27th--2015.... workshops and keynote addresses, as well as resource materials to help you increase your skills and knowledge as an LGBT community center leader. There will also be the chance to network with other LGBT center leaders from across the country and build your support network. Registration is open through September 11th here. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: ihelptulsa.com Recently received a new computer or smart device? Do you need all of your files and email moved from your old computer to your new computer? Do you need help setting up your smart device? If so, contact johnv@ihelptulsa.com , log -- -----onto ihelptulsa.com or call John at 918-605-8777. Want to receive computer tips? Like us at facebook.com/ihelptulsa - @HelpTulsa .com Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Divas 4 H.O.P.E. - Motown Down Friday, August 28 Hyatt Regency Hotel, 100 E. 3rd St Divas 4 H.O.P.E. is an event to sponsor and promote Health Outreach Prevention Education (H.O.P.E.) and their ongoing mission to support and inform our community of their work to test and prevent HIV/AIDS. Click here to purchase a sponsorship of this event. I • . . • - I Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Council Oak Men's Chorale Rehearsals begin September 1, 7:00 p.m. 2900 S. Harvard Ave Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather 4/23/26, 4:35 PM �OkEq eNews August 27th, 2015 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-27th--2015.... "Tis the Season" for one and all to come out and SING!!! If you love to sing and would love to be around a great group of guys, then I have the place for you! Council Oak Men's Chorale is looking for new members and past members to come join us for the 2015 Holiday Concert Season. Rehearsals will begin September 1, at 7:00 pm at Congregational Fellowship Church, 2900 South Harvard, Tulsa Ok 74114, in the fellowship hall behind the main auditorium and will run for fourteen weeks ending with concerts at Trinity Episcopal Church on December 4,5, and 8th several other opportunities to sing on different run outs as well as World Aids Day on December 1. Don't miss this opportunity to join a great group of guys that love to sing and perform for family, friends and our LGBT Community! We are Family, United, and together we can become One Voice! For more information you can contact us at our website at www.counciloak.org or call Dale Wells, Secretary for Vocal Pride Foundation at (918) 381-9598. Living Arts/New Genre Festival - Sarah Miller Workshop September 13, 12:00 p.m. and 2:00 p.m. Wellness Room, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St The first workshop will be for adults and will be entitled "Assess Risk." Sarah will discuss performance art and have the participants do some exercises and discussions. The second workshop will be for youth - she says all ages - and will be a visual arts workshop where the participants will make an art project. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage More information about Sarah Miller can be found here. Serv1Ces and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Yoga by Zach 4:30 p.m., Starting September 20, 2015 Join us for a new yoga class in our Wellness Room, Yoga by Zach. > IJ,ake A c1a~2,I < EVERY SUNDAY Yoga by Zach combines stretching, breathing, chanting, and meditation. This is a mindful, slow-paced class that focuses heavily on relaxation and stress reduction and is ideal for beginner and advanced practitioners alike. You will leave feeling refreshed, renewed, and restored in body, mind, and soul. As Baba Hari Dass said, "The idea is to attain peace." Class will be held every Sunday at 4:30 p.m. beginning September 20th. @ 4:30 pm $5.00 If you have any questions, please contact Jose Vega at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala 4/23/26, 4:35 PM �OkEq eNews August 27th, 2015 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-27th--2015.... jose.vega@okeq.org. Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. "Unlikely Family" September 28, 7:00 p.m. Circle Cinema, 10 S. Lewis Ave The documentary follows a group of resilient people in one of the most unlikely places in the world as they combat hate to create a safe place to worship. The Circle Cinema is offering three different ticket options: General Admission: $15 "Donor" Admission: $50 (includes admission, a seat at a table in the "Patron Gallery" during cocktail hour - beginning at 5:30, one free drink and a select seat in the theater) "Patron" Admission: $250 (includes admission for 4, a reserved table in the "Patron Gallery" during cocktail hour, 4 free drinks and 4 select seats in the theater). Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Tickets can be purchased here. Oklahoma Changing World Prize October 11, 2015 5:00 p.m. Woody Guthrie Center, 102 E. Brady St Just a little over a year after they were married at the Tulsa County Courthouse, Mary and Sharon Bishop-Baldwin will be awarded the Woody Guthrie Center's first Oklahoma Changing World Prize. The couple were the lead plaintiffs who challenged Oklahoma's ban on same-sex marriage in 2004, shortly after 76 percent of Oklahoma voters approved the ban. Together for 18 years, the Bishop-Baldwins represented thousands of gay and lesbian people in the Sooner State in Bishop v. United States, the lawsuit they filed seeking the freedom to marry. The presentation of the first Oklahoma Changing World Prize will be at a reception at the Woody Guthrie Center at 4:00 pm on October 11. The celebration will continue in the garden space between the Hardesty Arts Center (AHHA) and the WGC with a light dinner and music from Eric Himan at 5:00 pm. In the event of rain, dinner will be held inside AHHA. All proceeds from this special event support the Woody Guthrie Center's Get F.I.T. Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be 4/23/26, 4:35 PM �OkEq eNews August 27th, 2015 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-27th--2015.... education initiatives. Table sponsorships are available immediately in the following levels: Friends ($1,000), This Land Table Sponsor ($2,500), and This Machine Sponsor ($5,000). Presenting sponsorships are also available. Call 918-574-2522 for information about sponsorships. Individual ticket sales to the event are $100 and will go on sale September 12. Call the Center at 918-574-2710 to purchase. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Keith Hunt, McGraw Realtors McGraw R • L T O R Looking to buy or sell your dream home? reached at jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. ---- ·----- Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. I can help! Contact Keith Hunt Today Lambda Al-Anon Group (918) 513-13-94 Every Friday 7 p.m. khunt@mcgrawok.com rt] ~ ,,, ~ L:.J ' LLAOING RlAl,.lSTATC C0'4PAN I £ 'J" THl WOii.LO Garden Grocery Volunteers Needed Wednesdays & Thursdays The Parish Church of St. Jerome has been supporting the GLBT community for 20 years. St. Jerome's food and toiletry pantry serves those who are affected by HIV/AIDS. We are currently seeking volunteers for our pantry. Volunteers' duties include helping clients with shopping and carrying out groceries, completing a bit of paper work, and stocking pantry shelves as needed. A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Pantry hours are Wednesdays 5:30 - 7:00 p.m. and Thursday 1:30 - 3:00 p.m. Survivors of Incest Anonymous If you are interested in assisting with this vital service, please contact the church office: 918-582-3088. Every Saturday 12:30 pm LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org 4/23/26, 4:35 PM �OkEq eNews August 27th, 2015 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-27th--2015.... time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea Ith ca re Bi IIOf Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Click here to purchase your pendant today! Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org - - - - - Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items OkEq Board of Directors Elections - Voting has begun! Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 4:35 PM �OkEq eNews August 27th, 2015 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-27th--2015.... EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. OkEq Board 2014-2015 The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 3rd, 2015 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. To vote for your seven candidates, you may come to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to pick up a ballot and vote. You may also contact Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org for a PDF copy of the ballot. The ballot is also available online here. All voting must be completed by 7:00 p.m., September 3rd, 2015. Voting Members are OkEq members who have made an annual contribution to Oklahomans for Equality whether financial or in-kind, in the amount of $50.00 since July 31st, 2014. You may verify your voting status by contacting Toby Jenkins, Executive Director of Oklahomans for Equality at: toby.jenkins@okeq.org. Current voting members must cast their ballots before the OkEq annual meeting on Thursday, September 3rd, 2015. Two Spirit Books in the Library Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Jerry Custer, librarian for the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library, announces 20 new books are now available on Native American and First Nation individuals who identify as "Two Spirit". "Two Spirit" is the term used to identify LGBT individuals within historical indigenous Indian culture. These new books were funded by Sol Smith, who is Osage. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the 4/23/26, 4:35 PM �OkEq eNews August 27th, 2015 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-27th--2015.... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Left to right: Jerry Custer, Toby Jenkins, Sol Smith. For more information, contact Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org. Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org "Pit Stop" Directed by Yen Tan In this compelling drama, openly gay Ernesto and closeted Gabe grapple with the sad tribulations of being gay in a small, working-class Texas town. Reminiscent of such classic rural gay love stories as "Big Eden" and "Brokeback Mountain," this festival hit is an uplifting love story about male intimacy, the heartache of unsuccessful relationships, and the transformative power of love.. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. Amy Howe Administrative Assistant Amy.Howe@OkEq.org -- Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 4:35 PM �OkEq eNews August 27th, 2015 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-27th--2015.... 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SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews September 2nd, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor OkEq Annual Meeting "First Thursday" Art Exhibit SAGE Pool Party The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders Monday-Wednesday and Friday 7:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Thursday 7:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m. Closed Saturday and Sunday Cub Scout Meeting EBA Mixer Lawyer in the Library EBA Sponsor Sarah Miller Workshop Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders is Tulsa's oldest and finest shoe repair shop featuring shoe repair and cowboy and western boot repair. We also provide premium maker and repair service for high end leather goods, bags, purses and various other items including custom work. Yoga by Zach "Unlikely - -Family" -Oklahoma Changing World Prize "Hedwigand Inch" -the - Angry --- Like us on Facebook or visit our website here. EBA Sponsor ~~~ _ TULSA SHOE REBUILDERS 918.584.6062 5455-C SOUTH MINGO RD · TULSA, OK 74146 SHOE - BOOT - LEATHER REPAIR OkEq Board of Directors Elections - Voting has begun! Tulsa Smoke LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Pride Store Rainbow Library Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 4:36 PM �OkEq eNews September 2nd, 2015 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-2nd--201... OkEq Board 2014-2015 The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 3rd, 2015 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. To vote for your seven candidates, you may come to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to pick up a ballot and vote. You may also contact Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org for a PDF copy of the ballot. The ballot is also available online here. All voting must be completed by 7:00 p.m., September 3rd, 2015. Voting Members are OkEq members who have made an annual contribution to Oklahomans for Equality whether financial or in-kind, in the amount of $50.00 since July 31st, 2014. You may verify your voting status by contacting Toby Jenkins, Executive Director of Oklahomans for Equality at: toby.jenkins@okeq.org. Current voting members must cast their ballots before the OkEq annual meeting on Thursday, September 3rd, 2015. "First Thursday" Art Exhibit Reception - Thursday, September 3, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Art Gallery, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St This September, Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E. 4th Street in Downtown Tulsa) will feature the works of Terri Higgs in a show titled "Meditations in Silk", beginning with a reception and continuing throughout the month. Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq The Boy Scouts of America have lifted their ban on gay scout masters. In response to this historic decision, Oklahomans for Equality will be establishing a cub scout pack for our families. Andrew Grimes spent years as a Cub Scout and Boy Scout ultimately earning the rank of Eagle Scout. As a young adult, Andy was employed by the Boy Scouts of America as a district executive. If you or your son(s) are interested in joining a chapter of the Boy Scouts of America, please contact Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org or you can find more information here. OkEq Board Meeting SAGE Pool Party September 8, 2015, 10:00 a.m. 1938 E. 55th Place, Tulsa, OK 74105 SAGE Tulsa will have a pool party on Tuesday, September 8th, 2015 at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot dogs. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email SAGE@OkEq.org or amy.howe@okeq.org to RSVP. sage Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders 7 p.m. Thursday, August 20th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibit The August exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features 'Machination.' The mission of SAGE Tulsa is 4/23/26, 4:36 PM �OkEq eNews September 2nd, 2015 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-2nd--201... to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org or amy.howe@okeq.org. Cub Scout Meeting Sunday, September 13, 4:00 p.m. Event Center, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Calling all Scouts and families of boys in 1st through 5th grade: Oklahomans for Equality is starting a new Cub Scout Pack. The next organizational meeting with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts will be held on Sunday, September 13th at 4:00 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We will be planning the year of scouting, training, and organizing den meetings. If you are unable to attend but interested in volunteering or have a boy that is interested in participating, contact Cubmaster Andy Grimes here. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 EBA Mixer September 16, 6:00-8:00 p.m. Decopolis Studios, 607 S. Boston Ave, Tulsa, OK 74119 E UALITY Business Alliance Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host 4/23/26, 4:36 PM �OkEq eNews September 2nd, 2015 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-2nd--201... at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send a email to eba@okeq.org for more information. The September EBA mixer will be held at Decopolis Studios. D~COPOLIS tm3 Counseling Services ENJOY BROWSING THE SHOPS OF THE D~COPOLIS THE DECO CITY! 918-382-7388 607 S. Boston Ave. Tulso Ok. 74119 Lawyer in the Library Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org September 16 & October 14, 5:30 p.m.-6:30 p.m. Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant, estate planning and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. LEGAL AID SERVICES t h OF OKLAHOMA, INC. = Making Equal Justice for All a Reality For more information, please contact Mia Leighty at 918-574-2931 or Amy Howe at 918-743-4297. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Keith Hunt, McGraw Realtors McGraw R t, LTO R !. Looking to buy or sell your dream home? I can help! Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org Contact Keith Hunt Today (918) 513-13-94 khunt@mcgrawok.com rt] ~ ® .., COMPAN UADING lllAL CSTATL l (S ~ THE WORLD t.: Living Arts/New Genre Festival - Sarah Miller Workshop Counseling Services September 13, 12:00 p.m. and 2:00 p.m. Wellness Room, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St Weekdays 4/23/26, 4:36 PM �OkEq eNews September 2nd, 2015 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-2nd--201... By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org ------ The first workshop will be for adults and will be entitled "Assess Risk." Sarah will discuss performance art and have the participants do some exercises and discussions. The second workshop will be for youth - she says all ages - and will be a visual arts workshop where the participants will make an art project. More information about Sarah Miller can be found here. SOS Group Yoga by Zach 4:30 p.m., Starting September 20, 2015 Wellness Room, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St Join us for a new yoga class in our Wellness Room, Yoga by Zach. > I ,ake A c1a~2-I < Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org EVERY SUNDAY Yoga by Zach combines stretching, breathing, chanting, and meditation. This is a mindful, slow-paced class that focuses heavily on relaxation and stress reduction and is ideal for beginner and advanced practitioners alike. You will leave feeling refreshed, renewed, and restored in body, mind, and soul. As Baba Hari Dass said, "The idea is to attain peace." Class will be held every Sunday at 4:30 p.m. beginning September 20th. @ 4:30 pm $5.00 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 If you have any questions, please contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org. "Unlikely Family" September 28, 7:00 p.m. Circle Cinema, 10 S. Lewis Ave, Tulsa, OK 74104 The documentary follows a group of resilient people in one of the most unlikely places in the world as they combat hate to create a safe place to worship. Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather The Circle Cinema is offering three different ticket options: General Admission: $15 "Donor" Admission: $50 (includes admission, a seat at a table in the "Patron Gallery" during cocktail hour - beginning at 5:30, one free drink and a select seat in the theater) 4/23/26, 4:36 PM �OkEq eNews September 2nd, 2015 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-2nd--201... "Patron" Admission: $250 (includes admission for 4, a reserved table in the "Patron Gallery" during cocktail hour, 4 free drinks and 4 select seats in the theater). Tickets can be purchased here. Oklahoma Changing World Prize October 11, 2015 5:00 p.m. Woody Guthrie Center, 102 E. Brady St, Tulsa, OK 74103 Just a little over a year after they were married at the Tulsa County Courthouse, Mary and Sharon Bishop-Baldwin will be awarded the Woody Guthrie Center's first Oklahoma Changing World Prize. The couple were the lead plaintiffs who challenged Oklahoma's ban on same-sex marriage in 2004, shortly after 76 percent of Oklahoma voters approved the ban. Together for 18 years, the Bishop-Baldwins represented thousands of gay and lesbian people in the Sooner State in Bishop v. United States, the lawsuit they filed seeking the freedom to marry. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage - Services and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. The presentation of the first Oklahoma Changing World Prize will be at a reception at the Woody Guthrie Center at 4:00 pm on October 11. The celebration will continue in the garden space between the Hardesty Arts Center (AHHA) and the WGC with a light dinner and music from Eric Himan at 5:00 pm. In the event of rain, dinner will be held inside AHHA. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. All proceeds from this special event support the Woody Guthrie Center's education initiatives. Table sponsorships are available immediately in the following levels: Friends ($1,000), This Land Table Sponsor ($2,500), and This Machine Sponsor ($5,000). Presenting sponsorships are also available. Call 918-574-2522 for information about sponsorships. Individual ticket sales 4/23/26, 4:36 PM �OkEq eNews September 2nd, 2015 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-2nd--201... to the event are $100 and will go on sale September 12. Call the Center at 918-574-2710 to purchase. "Hedwig and the Angry Inch" October 23 - November 1 Liddy Doenges Theatre, Tulsa Performing Arts Center 110 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103 Know your target audience. Who are your most important customers, clients or prospects, and why? Know what is important to them and address their needs in your newsletter each month. Include a photo to make your newsletter even more appealing.The cult classic, rock musical smash! East German rock goddess Hedwig Schmidt suffers a botched operation and tells the tale with a performance that is part rock concert, part standup comedy and all fabulous! Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Written by John Cameron Mitchell Music and lyrics by Stephen Trask Tickets can be purchased here. Get F.I.T. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: ihelptulsa.com Recently received a new computer or smart device? Do you need all of your files and email moved from your old computer to your new computer? Do you need help setting up your smart device? If so, contact johnv@ihelptulsa.com - - - - - , log onto ihelptulsa.com or call John at 918-605-8777. Want to receive computer tips? Like us at facebook.com/ihelptulsa C,Hel Tulsa .com Tulsa Smoke Softball Team Two teams from the Tulsa Metro Softball League have been in Columbus, Ohio participating in the Gay Softball World Series. The Tulsa Smoke Cdivision team finished 13th out of 60 teams. The Tulsa Smoke B-division finished 17th out of 40 teams. 183 teams competed over 5 divisions making this the largest Gay World Series to date. Since Tulsa doesn't have an A division, Carl Powell plays in the Houston Softball League and his team, the Houston Force, won the A division. Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. ---·---- Gender Outreach 4/23/26, 4:36 PM �OkEq eNews September 2nd, 2015 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-2nd--201... Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Healthca re Bi IIOf Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Equality Center Pride Store 4/23/26, 4:36 PM �OkEq eNews September 2nd, 2015 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-2nd--201... These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Click here to purchase your pendant today! Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "On Dangerous Ground" By D. L. Line What happens when the right thing to do is the wrong choice for your heart? FBI Agent Terri McKinnon always knows the right thing to do. She is a decorated officer who knows procedure like the back of her hand. She is, in a word, unflappable-until she meets Dr. Jennifer Rosenberg, a college professor with a questionable past, who may also be a key witness in a series of violent crimes. The last thing Jen wants is a by-the-book cop in her life, but fate has other plans. Terri is drawn to the unconventional Dr. Rosenberg and the attraction appears mutual, but the rules are clear-this Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 4:36 PM �OkEq eNews September 2nd, 2015 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-2nd--201... woman is off-limits. Can Terri's wellordered life stand the whirlwind that is Jen Rosenberg? More importantly, can Terri protect her when Jen's past comes back to haunt her? Or will Agent McKinnon find herself On Dangerous Ground? Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the 4/23/26, 4:36 PM �OkEq eNews September 2nd, 2015 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-2nd--201.. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Amy Howe Administrative Assistant Amy.Howe@OkEq.org Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org ----- 11 of 12 4/23/26, 4:36 PM �OkEq eNews September 2nd, 2015 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-2nd--201... Tracy Allen Volunteer Coordinator Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org r---------------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L---------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 4:36 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/f4d6c964b9d2e566654f936d7264d717.pdf e7e7557432541e3f42664ac6d1343084 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews September 9th, 2015 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-9th--201... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews September 9th, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor It's Your Center - It's Your Day Cub Scout Meeting EBA Mixer The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders Monday-Wednesday and Friday 7:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Thursday 7:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m. Closed Saturday and Sunday Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders is Tulsa's oldest and finest shoe repair shop featuring shoe repair and cowboy and western boot repair. We also provide premium maker and repair service for high end leather goods, bags, purses and various other items including custom work. Lawyer in the Library EBA Sponsor Sarah Miller Workshop Yoga by Zach "Unlikely - - -Family" --Oklahoma Changing World Prize "Hedwigand Inch" -the - Angry --Exhibition Proposals EBA Sponsor Like us on Facebook or visit our website here. Tulsa Smoke ~~~ _ TULSA SHOE REBUILDERS 918.584.6062 5455-C SOUTH MINGO RD · TULSA, OK 74146 SHOE - BOOT - LEATHER REPAIR It's Your Center - It's Your Day LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Pride Store Rainbow Library Find Us on Facebook OkEq is offering our donors the opportunity to sponsor the organization for a day or even a complete week. When you choose to sponsor OkEq for a day, we will honor you or the person you designate by featuring our sponsor on our website for the day, with a presentation board greeting visitors in the front 4/23/26, 4:37 PM �OkEq eNews September 9th, 2015 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-9th--201... lobby on the day/week designated, by listing the honoree in our weekly eNews, and a special posting on our OkEq Facebook page. Sponsors can select a day in honor of their birthday or to celebrate an anniversary date or in memory of an individual, or whatever day means the most to you. Find out more information here. Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq Cub Scout Meeting Sunday, September 13, 4:00 p.m. Event Center, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Calling all Scouts and families of boys in 1st through 5th grade: Oklahomans for Equality is starting a new Cub Scout Pack. The next organizational meeting with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts will be held on Sunday, September 13th at 4:00 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We will be planning the year of scouting, training, and organizing den meetings. If you are unable to attend but interested in volunteering or have a boy that is interested in participating, contact Cubmaster Andy Grimes here. The Boy Scouts of America have lifted their ban on gay scout masters. In response to this historic decision, Oklahomans for Equality will be establishing a cub scout pack for our families. Andrew Grimes spent years as a Cub Scout and Boy Scout ultimately earning the rank of Eagle Scout. As a young adult, Andy was employed by the Boy Scouts of America as a district executive. If you or your son(s) are interested in joining a chapter of the Boy Scouts of America, please contact Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org or you can find more information here. OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, September 17th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center EBA Mixer September 16, 6:00-8:00 p.m. Decopolis Studios, 607 S. Boston Ave, Tulsa, OK 74119 All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. E UALITY Business Alliance OkEq Art Exhibit The September exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features 'Meditations in Silk' by Terri Higgs. 4/23/26, 4:37 PM �OkEq eNews September 9th, 2015 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-9th--201... The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send a email to eba@okeq.org for more information. The September EBA mixer will be held at Decopolis Studios. - DECOPOLIS ENJOY BROWSING THE SHOPS OF THE DECOPOLIS THE DECO CITY! 918-382-7388 607 S. Boston Ave. Tulso Ok. 74119 Counseling Services Lawyer in the Library September 16 & October 14, 5:30 p.m.-6:30 p.m. Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant, estate planning and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 LEGAL AID SERVICES t in. OF OKLAHOMA, INC. = Making Equal Justice for All a Reality For more information, please contact Mia Leighty at 918-574-2931 or Amy Howe at 918-743-4297. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: ihelptulsa.com Recently received a new computer or smart device? Do you need all of your files and email moved from your old computer to your new computer? Do you need help setting up your smart device? If so, contact johnv@ihelptulsa.com - - - - - - - - , log onto ihelptulsa.com or call John at 918-605-8777. Want to receive computer tips? Like us at facebook.com/ihelptulsa Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org C,Hel Tulsa.com 4/23/26, 4:37 PM �OkEq eNews September 9th, 2015 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-9th--201... Living Arts/New Genre Festival - Sarah Hill Workshop September 13, 12:00 p.m. and 2:00 p.m. Wellness Room, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St The first workshop will be for adults and will be entitled "Assess Risk." Sarah will discuss performance art and have the participants do some exercises and discussions. The second workshop will be for youth - she says all ages - and will be a visual arts workshop where the participants will make an art project. Counseling Services Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org ---- More information about Sarah Hill can be found here. Yoga by Zach 4:30 p.m., Starting September 20, 2015 Wellness Room, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St Join us for a new yoga class in our Wellness Room, Yoga by Zach. > l;Eake A Cla~~I < EVERY SUNDAY Yoga by Zach combines stretching, breathing, chanting, and meditation. This is a mindful, slow-paced class that focuses heavily on relaxation and stress reduction and is ideal for beginner and advanced practitioners alike. You will leave feeling refreshed, renewed, and restored in body, mind, and soul. As Baba Hari Dass said, "The idea is to attain peace." Class will be held every Sunday at 4:30 p.m. beginning September 20th. @ 4:30 pm $5.00 If you have any questions, please contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org. Counseling Services Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org - - --- "Unlikely Family" September 28, 7:00 p.m. Circle Cinema, 10 S. Lewis Ave, Tulsa, OK 74104 The documentary follows a group of resilient people in one of the most unlikely places in the world as they combat hate to create a safe place to worship. The Circle Cinema is offering three different ticket options: Counseling Services Weekdays 4/23/26, 4:37 PM �OkEq eNews September 9th, 2015 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-9th--201... General Admission: $15 "Donor" Admission: $50 (includes admission, a seat at a table in the "Patron Gallery" during cocktail hour - beginning at 5:30, one free drink and a select seat in the theater) "Patron" Admission: $250 (includes admission for 4, a reserved table in the "Patron Gallery" during cocktail hour, 4 free drinks and 4 select seats in the theater). Tickets can be purchased here. Oklahoma Changing World Prize October 11, 2015 5:00 p.m. Woody Guthrie Center, 102 E. Brady St, Tulsa, OK 74103 Just a little over a year after they were married at the Tulsa County Courthouse, Mary and Sharon Bishop-Baldwin will be awarded the Woody Guthrie Center's first Oklahoma Changing World Prize. The couple were the lead plaintiffs who challenged Oklahoma's ban on same-sex marriage in 2004, shortly after 76 percent of Oklahoma voters approved the ban. Together for 18 years, the Bishop-Baldwins represented thousands of gay and lesbian people in the Sooner State in Bishop v. United States, the lawsuit they filed seeking the freedom to marry. By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org - - - - SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather The presentation of the first Oklahoma Changing World Prize will be at a reception at the Woody Guthrie Center at 4:00 pm on October 11. The celebration will continue in the garden space between the Hardesty Arts Center (AHHA) and the WGC with a light dinner and music from Eric Himan at 5:00 pm. In the event of rain, dinner will be held inside AHHA. 4/23/26, 4:37 PM �OkEq eNews September 9th, 2015 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-9th--201... All proceeds from this special event support the Woody Guthrie Center's education initiatives. Table sponsorships are available immediately in the following levels: Friends ($1,000), This Land Table Sponsor ($2,500), and This Machine Sponsor ($5,000). Presenting sponsorships are also available. Call 918-574-2522 for information about sponsorships. Individual ticket sales to the event are $100 and will go on sale September 12. Call the Center at 918-574-2710 to purchase. "Hedwig and the Angry Inch" October 23 - November 1 Liddy Doenges Theatre, Tulsa Performing Arts Center 110 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103 The cult classic, rock musical smash! East German rock goddess Hedwig Schmidt suffers a botched operation and tells the tale with a performance that is part rock concert, part standup comedy - and all fabulous! Written by John Cameron Mitchell Music and lyrics by Stephen Trask Tickets can be purchased here. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage - Services and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders 2016 Call for Exhibition Proposals Deadline for Proposals: November 15, 2015 The OkEq Art Gallery at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Tulsa, Oklahoma, is now accepting proposals for the 2016 Exhibition Calendar. Each chosen exhibit will be on display for approximately 30 days. Our gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a few paragraphs about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 .jpg images which represent your current work. All proposals must be submitted online. Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable. Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. While we continue to have a 'no repeat' policy, previous artists may serve as the curator for a group showing. The group showing must have at least three additional people who have not shown in the Gallery before. The returning artist (curator) may have work on exhibit in proportion to the other artists represented in the exhibit. 4/23/26, 4:37 PM �OkEq eNews September 9th, 2015 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-9th--201... Please let us know if your idea for an exhibit will require months to prepare or if you have calendar restrictions. We would also like to know if you would be ready to go quickly, as the early months in the year are sometimes hard to fill. OkEq hosts an opening night reception for the artist(s) on the first Thursday of the month. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at the close of the opening night. The deadline for submissions is November 15, 2015. Notifications will be sent out by December 1, 2015. Please submit by email to alliejensen@cox.net, with the subject heading "OkEq Gallery Proposal". Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Keith Hunt, McGraw Realtors McGraw R l. LT R S Looking to buy or sell your dream home? I can help! Contact Keith Hunt Today Get F.I.T. (918) 513-13-94 khunt@mcgrawok.com m ':' ' ti UAOING RLAl,..lSTATl LJ:! L:J ' COMPAN l £S .o/ TH( WORLD Tulsa Smoke Softball Team Two teams from the Tulsa Metro Softball League have been in Columbus, Ohio participating in the Gay Softball World Series. The Tulsa Smoke Cdivision team finished 13th out of 60 teams. The Tulsa Smoke B-division finished 17th out of 40 teams. 183 teams competed over 5 divisions making this the largest Gay World Series to date. Since Tulsa doesn't have an A division, Carl Powell plays in the Houston Softball League and his team, the Houston Force, won the A division. Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. ----- ------ Gender Outreach 4/23/26, 4:37 PM �OkEq eNews September 9th, 2015 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-9th--201... Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Healthca re Bi IIOf Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Equality Center Pride Store 4/23/26, 4:37 PM �OkEq eNews September 9th, 2015 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-9th--201... These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Click here to purchase your pendant today! Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Blessed Bi Spirit: Bisexual People of Faith" Edited by Debra R. Kolodny Foreword by Mary E. Hunt Reflecting a wide spectrum of religious tradition and spiritual paths--including Buddhist, Hindu, Pagan, 12-step, Christian and Jewish--over 30 contributors speak about the intersections of their faith practice and their bisexuality. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 4:37 PM �OkEq eNews September 9th, 2015 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-9th--201... EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the 4/23/26, 4:37 PM �OkEq eNews September 9th, 2015 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-9th--201.. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Amy Howe Administrative Assistant Amy.Howe@OkEq.org Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org ----- 11 of 12 4/23/26, 4:37 PM �OkEq eNews September 9th, 2015 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-9th--201... Tracy Allen Volunteer Coordinator Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org r---------------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L---------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 4:37 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/e001ec780df7263aa8baec665bbfd8e3.pdf 990d26cfea43f6348f3a010bc4894093 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews September 17th, 2015 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews September 17th, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor It's Your Center - It's Your Day Centerlink Leadership Summit 2015 U.S. Trans Survey The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders Monday-Wednesday and Friday 7:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Thursday 7:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m. Closed Saturday and Sunday Cub Scout Meeting EBA Mixer Lawyer in the Library Yoga by Zach St. Jerome's 20th Anniversary Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders is Tulsa's oldest and finest shoe repair shop featuring shoe repair and cowboy and western boot repair. We also provide premium maker and repair service for high end leather goods, bags, purses and various other items including custom work. Article Headline Oklahoma Changing World Prize "Hedwigand Inch" -the - Angry --Exhibition Proposals Like us on Facebook or visit our website here. EBA Sponsor ~~~ _ TULSA SHOE REBUILDERS 918.584.6062 5455-C SOUTH MINGO RD · TULSA, OK 74146 SHOE - BOOT - LEATHER REPAIR It's Your Center - It's Your Day LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Pride Store Rainbow Library Find Us on Facebook OkEq is offering our donors the opportunity to sponsor the organization for a day or even a complete week. When you choose to sponsor OkEq for a day, we will honor you or the person you designate by featuring our sponsor on our website for the day, with a presentation board greeting visitors in the front 4/23/26, 4:37 PM �OkEq eNews September 17th, 2015 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... lobby on the day/week designated, by listing the honoree in our weekly eNews, and a special posting on our OkEq Facebook page. Sponsors can select a day in honor of their birthday or to celebrate an anniversary date or in memory of an individual, or whatever day means the most to you. Find out more information here. Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq Centerlink 9th Annual Leadership Summit September 17-19, 2015 Hyatt Regency Tulsa, 100 E. 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality is proud to welcome the 9th Annual CenterLink Leadership Summit. OkEq is honored to host this event and promote the importance of LGBT community centers around the world. OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, September 17th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 2015 U.S. Trans Survey Deadline is September 21, 2015 More than 6,400 people took the NTDS, and over 13,000 people have already pledged to take the 2015 U.S. Trans Survey. But we need to make sure everyone Andrew Grimes spent years as a Cub Scout and Boy Scout ultimately earning the rank of Eagle Scout. As a young adult, Andy was employed by the Boy Scouts of America as a district executive. If you or your son(s) are interested in joining a chapter of the Boy Scouts of America, please contact Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org or you can find more information here. CenterLink helps develop strong, sustainable LGBT community centers all over the globe and builds a thriving center network that creates healthy, vibrant communities. As the follow-up to the National Transgender Discrimination Survey (NTDS), the 2015 U.S. Trans Survey will become our community's go-to source for information about the lives and experiences of trans people. The Boy Scouts of America have lifted their ban on gay scout masters. In response to this historic decision, Oklahomans for Equality will be establishing a cub scout pack for our families. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. Complete The US Trans Survey Last Day Is September 21! Available in English & Spanish OkEq Art Exhibit The September exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features 'Meditations in Silk' by Terri Higgs. www.USTransSurvey.org 4/23/26, 4:37 PM �OkEq eNews September 17th, 2015 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... /Jt who pledged completes the survey. ationo!Centl'rfot TRANSGENDER EQUALITY Complete the survey here. Cub Scout Meeting Sunday, September 20, 4:00 p.m. Event Center, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Calling all Scouts and families of boys in 1st through 5th grade: Oklahomans for Equality is starting a new Cub Scout Pack. The next organizational meeting with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts will be held on Sunday, September 13th at 4:00 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We will be planning the year of scouting, training, and organizing den meetings. If you are unable to attend but interested in volunteering or have a boy that is interested in participating, contact Cubmaster Andy Grimes here. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 EBA Mixer October 21, 6:00-8:00 p.m. Dr. Blane Snodgrass, 7171 S. Yale Ave, Tulsa, OK 74136 E UALITY Business Alliance Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send a email to eba@okeq.org for more information. sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 4:37 PM �OkEq eNews September 17th, 2015 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... The October EBA mixer will be held and hosted by Optometrist Dr. Blane Snodgrass, OD. Counseling Services Lawyer in the Library October 14, 5:30 p.m.-6:30 p.m. Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org ---- Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant, estate planning and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. LEGAL AID SERVICES t h OF OKLAHOMA, INC. = Making Equal Justice for All a Reality For more information, please contact Mia Leighty at 918-574-2931 or Amy Howe at 918-743-4297. Yoga by Zach 4:30 p.m., Starting September 20, 2015 Wellness Room, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St Join us for a new yoga class in our Wellness Room, Yoga by Zach. > l;[,ake A c1a~2,I < EVERY SUNDAY Yoga by Zach combines stretching, breathing, chanting, and meditation. This is a mindful, slow-paced class that focuses heavily on relaxation and stress reduction and is ideal for beginner and advanced practitioners alike. You will leave feeling refreshed, renewed, and restored in body, mind, and soul. As Baba Hari Dass said, "The idea is to attain peace." Class will be held every Sunday at 4:30 p.m. beginning September 20th. @ 4:30 pm Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org - - --- $5.00 If you have any questions, please contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Counseling Services Weekdays 4/23/26, 4:37 PM �OkEq eNews September 17th, 2015 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... The Parish of St. Jerome's 20th Anniversary September 26-27 205 W. King St, Tulsa, OK 74106 By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org ---- --- SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org The St. Jerome Gala will be a dressy, sumptuous, seated buffet dinner. Guests will gather at 6 p.m. for cocktails. During the meal, live entertainment will be provided by the renowned singer Rebecca Ungerman, and a special preview of the movie "UNLIKELY FAMILY" will conclude the evening. Tickets to this event are $50 each, or $500 for a table of 8. Tickets are on sale through the church's website: www.stjerometulsa.org On Sunday, the parish will celebrate its patron, St. Jerome and will host a special Homecoming worship service. The choir will be singing a specially written anthem based on the quotation from St. Jerome, "It is not the judgments of men which open and shut the gates of heaven." Ecumenical friends and community leaders are invited to join us. Clergy are invited to vest (the color is white). The joyful service will give special thanks and praise for the wonderful thing God has done. The worship service begins at 11:00 a.m. "Unlikely Family" September 28, 7:00 p.m. Circle Cinema, 10 S. Lewis Ave, Tulsa, OK 74104 The documentary follows a group of resilient people in one of the most unlikely places in the world as they combat hate to create a safe place to worship. Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather The Circle Cinema is offering three different ticket options: General Admission: $15 "Donor" Admission: $50 (includes admission, a seat at a table in the "Patron Gallery" during cocktail hour - beginning at 5:30, one free drink and a select 4/23/26, 4:37 PM �OkEq eNews September 17th, 2015 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... seat in the theater) "Patron" Admission: $250 (includes admission for 4, a reserved table in the "Patron Gallery" during cocktail hour, 4 free drinks and 4 select seats in the theater). Tickets can be purchased here. SAGE Tulsa "Cowboys & Kilt's" ICP Ball: A Night of CountryWestern Dance (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) October 3, 2015 7:00 p.m. Event Center, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Please join the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma for the Annual ICP Ball "Cowboys and Kilts", A Night of Country Western Dance. Age is limited to 21 and over. Tickets will be $25 at the door. The proceeds from event will benefit the ICAO Clogger Bill Francisco Youth Scholarship Fund. sage - Services and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders For more information email impcourtok@gmail.com or visit impcourtok.org Oklahoma Changing World Prize October 11, 2015 5:00 p.m. Woody Guthrie Center, 102 E. Brady St, Tulsa, OK 74103 Just a little over a year after they were married at the Tulsa County Courthouse, Mary and Sharon Bishop-Baldwin will be awarded the Woody Guthrie Center's first Oklahoma Changing World Prize. The couple were the lead plaintiffs who challenged Oklahoma's ban on same-sex marriage in 2004, shortly after 76 percent of Oklahoma voters approved the ban. Together for 18 years, the Bishop-Baldwins represented thousands of gay and lesbian people in the Sooner State in Bishop v. United States, the lawsuit they filed seeking the freedom to marry. Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. 4/23/26, 4:37 PM �OkEq eNews September 17th, 2015 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 The presentation of the first Oklahoma Changing World Prize will be at a reception at the Woody Guthrie Center at 4:00 pm on October 11. The celebration will continue in the garden space between the Hardesty Arts Center (AHHA) and the WGC with a light dinner and music from Eric Himan at 5:00 pm. In the event of rain, dinner will be held inside AHHA. All proceeds from this special event support the Woody Guthrie Center's education initiatives. Table sponsorships are available immediately in the following levels: Friends ($1,000), This Land Table Sponsor ($2,500), and This Machine Sponsor ($5,000). Presenting sponsorships are also available. Call 918-574-2522 for information about sponsorships. Individual ticket sales to the event are $100 and will go on sale September 12. Call the Center at 918-574-2710 to purchase. Get F.I.T. Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance "Hedwig and the Angry Inch" October 23 - November 1 Liddy Doenges Theatre, Tulsa Performing Arts Center 110 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103 The cult classic, rock musical smash! East German rock goddess Hedwig Schmidt suffers a botched operation and tells the tale with a performance that is part rock concert, part standup comedy - and all fabulous! Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. ---·--- Written by John Cameron Mitchell Music and lyrics by Stephen Trask Tickets can be purchased here. Gender Outreach 4/23/26, 4:37 PM �OkEq eNews September 17th, 2015 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. 2016 Call for Exhibition Proposals Deadline for Proposals: November 15, 2015 The OkEq Art Gallery at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Tulsa, Oklahoma, is now accepting proposals for the 2016 Exhibition Calendar. Each chosen exhibit will be on display for approximately 30 days. Our gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a few paragraphs about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 .jpg images which represent your current work. All proposals must be submitted online. Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable. While we continue to have a 'no repeat' policy, previous artists may serve as the curator for a group showing. The group showing must have at least three additional people who have not shown in the Gallery before. The returning artist (curator) may have work on exhibit in proportion to the other artists represented in the exhibit. Please let us know if your idea for an exhibit will require months to prepare or if you have calendar restrictions. We would also like to know if you would be ready to go quickly, as the early months in the year are sometimes hard to fill. OkEq hosts an opening night reception for the artist(s) on the first Thursday of the month. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at the close of the opening night. The deadline for submissions is November 15, 2015. Notifications will be sent out by December 1, 2015. Please submit by email to alliejensen@cox.net, with the subject heading "OkEq Gallery Proposal". Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Keith Hunt, McGraw Realtors 4/23/26, 4:37 PM �OkEq eNews September 17th, 2015 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... McGraw Re TO R S Looking to buy or sell your dream home? I can help! Contact Keith Hunt Today Game Night (918) 513-13-94 khunt@mcgrawok.com rl] ~ ~ L:.J r,~ LLADINC lllAl,..l TAT[ t.: COMPAN l lS ,,,,- THE WORLD LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea Ith ca re Bi I IOf Rights .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Click here to purchase your pendant today! Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 4:37 PM �OkEq eNews September 17th, 2015 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Dress Your Family in Corduroy and Denim" By David Sedaris David Sedaris plays in the snow with his sisters. He goes on vacation with his family. He gets a job selling drinks. He attends his brother's wedding. He mops his sister's floor. He gives directions to a lost traveler. He eats a hamburger. He has his blood sugar tested. It all sounds so normal, doesn't it? In his newest collection of essays, David Sedaris lifts the corner of ordinary life, revealing the absurdity teeming below its surface. His world is alive with obscure desires and hidden motives -a world where forgiveness is automatic and an argument can be the highest form of love. Dress Your Family in Corduroy and Denim is another unforgettable collection from one of the wittiest and most original writers at work today. Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. , I · ational Be lsellcr Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the 4/23/26, 4:37 PM �OkEq eNews September 17th, 2015 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20.. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Amy Howe Administrative Assistant Amy.Howe@OkEq.org Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org ----- 11 of 12 4/23/26, 4:37 PM �OkEq eNews September 17th, 2015 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... Tracy Allen Volunteer Coordinator Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org r---------------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L---------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 4:37 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/fa894c23212df3ee777b554aa919eaca.pdf 3994976e976001b73f9ac9feabf75631 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews September 25th, 2015 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-25th--20... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews September 25th, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Marriage Equality's Year --- - -First -It's Your Center - It's Your Day Cub Scout Meeting The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders Monday-Wednesday and Friday 7:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Thursday 7:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m. Closed Saturday and Sunday Lawyer in the Library #SpiritDay @OkEq Center Awareness Day EBA Mixer SAGE Tulsa - Halloween Party Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders is Tulsa's oldest and finest shoe repair shop featuring shoe repair and cowboy and western boot repair. We also provide premium maker and repair service for high end leather goods, bags, purses and various other items including custom work. OkEq Zombie House Yoga by Zach St. Jerome's 20th Anniversary "Unlikely - -Family" -- Like us on Facebook or visit our website here. "Cowboys & Kilts" ~~~ _ TULSA SHOE REBUILDERS 918.584.6062 5455-C SOUTH MINGO RD · TULSA, OK 74146 SHOE - BOOT - LEATHER REPAIR 'Stand Up Against Bullying" Oklahoma Changing World Prize "Hedwigandthe Angry Inch" -Exhibition Proposals EBA Sponsor First Year Anniversary for Marriage Equality in Oklahoma October 6, 6:00 p.m. - 8:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center This year's celebration is extra special because it marks the one year anniversary of marriage equality in Oklahoma! One year ago, marriage equality arrived and our lives were forever changed! Love Won! LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Pride Store Rainbow Library Let's Cefe6rate Ok.(ahoma Sty(e Find Us on Facebook Save the 'Date Okfafiomn's 'First Year Celebrate the one-year anniversary Oklahoma-style at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on October 6th, 2015 4/23/26, 4:46 PM �OkEq eNews September 25th, 2015 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-25th--20... at 6 p.m. Everyone is welcome to be a part of this celebration. ..........., 'Marria8e !Eq'Ua fity 9\nniversar We are creating a slide show Octo6er 6th, 2015 featuring all the weddings 6:ooym - 8:3oym throughout the entire year. Please send us your wedding photos so we can relive those wonderful moments. Email them to jose.vega@okeq.org. Let OkEq help you celebrate your anniversary! Donate to our Donate a Day campaign and let Oklahomans for Equality let everybody know it is your anniversary. It's Your Center - It's Your Day Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq The Boy Scouts of America have lifted their ban on gay scout masters. In response to this historic decision, Oklahomans for Equality will be establishing a cub scout pack for our families. Andrew Grimes spent years as a Cub Scout and Boy Scout ultimately earning the rank of Eagle Scout. As a young adult, Andy was employed by the Boy Scouts of America as a district executive. l ► ◄ 1. OkEq is offering our donors the opportunity to sponsor the organization for a day or even a complete week. When you choose to sponsor OkEq for a day, we will honor you or the person you designate by featuring our sponsor on our website for the day, with a presentation board greeting visitors in the front lobby on the day/week designated, by listing the honoree in our weekly eNews, and a special posting on our OkEq Facebook page. Sponsors can select a day in honor of their birthday or to celebrate an anniversary date or in memory of an individual, or whatever day means the most to you. If you or your son(s) are interested in joining a chapter of the Boy Scouts of America, please contact Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org or you can find more information here. OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, September 17th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Find out more information here. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibit Cub Scout Meeting Sunday, September 27, 4:00 p.m. Event Center, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The September exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features 'Meditations in Silk' by Terri Higgs. 4/23/26, 4:46 PM �OkEq eNews September 25th, 2015 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-25th--20... 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Calling all Scouts and families of boys in 1st through 5th grade: Oklahomans for Equality is starting a new Cub Scout Pack. The next organizational meeting with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts will be held on Sunday, September 13th at 4:00 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We will be planning the year of scouting, training, and organizing den meetings. If you are unable to attend but interested in volunteering or have a boy that is interested in participating, contact Cubmaster Andy Grimes here. Lawyer in the Library October 14, 5:30 p.m.-6:30 p.m. Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant, estate planning and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. LEGAL AID SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. t~ = Making Equal Justice for All a Reality For more information, please contact Mia Leighty at 918-574-2931 or Amy Howe at 918-743-4297. Counseling Services #SpiritDay @OkEq October 15, 5:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality is going purple and blowing the center's roof off! Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Let's show LGBT youth they're not alone. On top of the Dennis R. 4/23/26, 4:46 PM �OkEq eNews September 25th, 2015 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-25th--20... . . A s we stand • Neill Equality against BULLYING i Center! We ' ~ invite everyone to wear purple and join this year's ultimate roof top rally! Your purple shirt is your ticket in and symbolizes your support for LGBT youth as well as speaking out against bullying. For more information or to RSPV, email jose.vega@okeq.org. Counseling Services Center Awareness Day October 18, 12:00 p.m.-4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Have you ever wanted to know what your LGBT center has to offer? Now is your chance! Oklahomans for Equality is hosting an open house and a program expo event. This is your chance to learn more about what Oklahomans for Equality at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center offers and what programs are available. This is also a chance to meet and greet the facilitators of the programs you may be interested and answer any question you may have. For more information, please contact jose.vega@okeq.org. Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org Counseling Services EBA Mixer October 21, 6:00-8:00 p.m. Dr. Blane Snodgrass, 7171 S. Yale Ave, Tulsa, OK 74136 E UALITY Business Alliance The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send a email to eba@okeq.org for more information. The October EBA mixer will be hosted by Optometrist Dr. Blane Snodgrass, OD. Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org Counseling Services Weekdays 4/23/26, 4:46 PM �OkEq eNews September 25th, 2015 5 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-25th--20... By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org SOS Group SAGE Tulsa - Halloween Party Tuesday, October 27, 10 a.m. - 1 p.m. Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Grieving Well SAGE (Services and Advocacy for LGBT Elders) is a day time programming for those who are retired or free during the day. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org. Their annual Halloween party will be hosted at the home of Sol Smith. The group will meet at the Center at 10:00 a.m., then commute to Sol Smith's home. 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather 4/23/26, 4:46 PM �OkEq eNews September 25th, 2015 6 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-25th--20... OkEq Zombie House October 29-31 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OKEQ Zombie House is back and even more terrifying than last year. We will have 18,000 feet of pure terror! There are zombies in Tulsa and they have infested the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Escape the Zombies on October 29th, 30th and 31st, 2015. These are real flesh eating zombies being housed in complete and total darkness in downtown Tulsa. The worst part is there is only one way out, and it's your mission to find the exit and survive this zombie apocalypse. For more details please contact jose.vega@okeq.org. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage - Services and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Yoga by Zach September 27, 4:30 p.m. Wellness Room, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St Join us for a new yoga class in our Wellness Room, Yoga by Zach. > I ,ake A c1a~2-I < EVERY SUNDAY @ 4:30 pm Yoga by Zach combines stretching, breathing, chanting, and meditation. This is a mindful, slow-paced class that focuses heavily on relaxation and stress reduction and is ideal for beginner and advanced practitioners alike. You will leave feeling refreshed, renewed, and restored in body, mind, and soul. As Baba Hari Dass said, "The idea is to attain peace." Class will be held every Sunday at 4:30 p.m. beginning September 20th. $5.00 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. If you have any questions, please contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org. 4/23/26, 4:46 PM �OkEq eNews September 25th, 2015 7 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-25th--20... The Parish of St. Jerome's 20th Anniversary September 27, 11:00 a.m. 205 W. King St, Tulsa, OK 74106 On Sunday, the parish will celebrate its patron, St. Jerome and will host a special Homecoming worship service. The choir will be singing a specially written anthem based on the quotation from St. Jerome, "It is not the judgments of men which open and shut the gates of heaven." Ecumenical friends and community leaders are invited to join us. Clergy are invited to vest (the color is white). The joyful service will give special thanks and praise for the wonderful thing God has done. "Unlikely Family" September 28, 7:00 p.m. Circle Cinema, 10 S. Lewis Ave, Tulsa, OK 74104 Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 The documentary follows a group of resilient people in one of the most unlikely places in the world as they combat hate to create a safe place to worship. The Circle Cinema is offering three different ticket options: General Admission: $15 "Donor" Admission: $50 (includes admission, a seat at a table in the "Patron Gallery" during cocktail hour - beginning at 5:30, one free drink and a select seat in the theater) "Patron" Admission: $250 (includes admission for 4, a reserved table in the "Patron Gallery" during cocktail hour, 4 free drinks and 4 select seats in the theater). Tickets can be purchased here. "Cowboys & Kilt's" ICP Ball: A Night of CountryWestern Dance October 3, 7:00 p.m. Event Center, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Please join the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma for the Annual ICP Ball "Cowboys and Kilts", A Night of Country Western Dance. Age is limited to 21 and over. Tickets will be $25 at the door. The proceeds from event will benefit the ICAO Clogger Bill Francisco Youth Scholarship Fund. Get F.I.T. Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. Gender Outreach 4/23/26, 4:46 PM �OkEq eNews September 25th, 2015 8 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-25th--20... For more information email impcourtok@gmail.com or visit impcourtok.org "Stand Up Against Bullying" October 6, 10:00 a.m. Guthrie Green, 111 E Brady St, Tulsa, OK 74103 OCCJ is teaming up with PreventBullyingTulsa.org for the 2015 Bullying Prevention Rally to highlight the issues of bullying in our community and society. Come and help local middle and high school students stand up against bullying. Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Stand Up Against Bullying Lambda Al-Anon Group Bullying Prevention Rally A Murder of Storytellers PreventBullyingTulsa.org is a collaboration of • , . . JU). - ~ Tulsa area mental health and advocacy agencies that have come together to provide the community with educational, counseling and advocacy services regarding children and ~~~~~=~ 6th bullying. According to the National Association 10AM to 11AM • Guthrie Green of School Psychologists, bullying is the most OCCJ Tulsa, Oklahoma common form of violence in our society; =:-:::.:f¢ ~II- k\11\ili~~ •7c],-.,,. between 15 percent and 30 percent of students are bullies or victims. Oklahomans for Equality will be hosting a booth at the Bullying Prevention Rally. Every Friday 7 p.m. Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. More information can be found here. Oklahoma Changing World Prize October 11, 5:00 p.m. Woody Guthrie Center, 102 E. Brady St, Tulsa, OK 74103 Just a little over a year after they were married at the Tulsa County Courthouse, Mary and Sharon Bishop-Baldwin will be awarded the Woody Guthrie Center's first Oklahoma Changing World Prize. The couple were the lead plaintiffs who challenged Oklahoma's ban on same-sex marriage in 2004, shortly after 76 percent of Oklahoma voters approved the ban. Together for 18 years, the Bishop-Baldwins represented thousands of gay and lesbian people in the Sooner State in Bishop v. United States, the lawsuit they filed seeking the freedom to marry. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org 4/23/26, 4:46 PM �OkEq eNews September 25th, 2015 9 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-25th--20... Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno The presentation of the first Oklahoma Changing World Prize will be at a reception at the Woody Guthrie Center at 4:00 pm on October 11. The celebration will continue in the garden space between the Hardesty Arts Center (AHHA) and the WGC with a light dinner and music from Eric Himan at 5:00 pm. In the event of rain, dinner will be held inside AHHA. All proceeds from this special event support the Woody Guthrie Center's education initiatives. Table sponsorships are available immediately in the following levels: Friends ($1,000), This Land Table Sponsor ($2,500), and This Machine Sponsor ($5,000). Presenting sponsorships are also available. Call 918-574-2522 for information about sponsorships. Individual ticket sales to the event are $100 and will go on sale September 12. Call the Center at 918-574-2710 to purchase. "Hedwig and the Angry Inch" October 23 - November 1 Liddy Doenges Theatre, Tulsa Performing Arts Center 110 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103 The cult classic, rock musical smash! East German rock goddess Hedwig Schmidt suffers a botched operation and tells the tale with a performance that is part rock concert, part standup comedy - and all fabulous! Written by John Cameron Mitchell Music and lyrics by Stephen Trask Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org - - - - Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org Tickets can be purchased here. Use the promotional code OKEQHEDWIG to get 25% off opening weekend performances (Oct 23-25). 4/23/26, 4:46 PM �OkEq eNews September 25th, 2015 10 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-25th--20... 2016 Call for Exhibition Proposals Deadline for Proposals: November 15, 2015 The OkEq Art Gallery at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Tulsa, Oklahoma, is now accepting proposals for the 2016 Exhibition Calendar. Each chosen exhibit will be on display for approximately 30 days. Our gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a few paragraphs about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 .jpg images which represent your current work. All proposals must be submitted online. Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable. While we continue to have a 'no repeat' policy, previous artists may serve as the curator for a group showing. The group showing must have at least three additional people who have not shown in the Gallery before. The returning artist (curator) may have work on exhibit in proportion to the other artists represented in the exhibit. Please let us know if your idea for an exhibit will require months to prepare or if you have calendar restrictions. We would also like to know if you would be ready to go quickly, as the early months in the year are sometimes hard to fill. OkEq hosts an opening night reception for the artist(s) on the first Thursday of the month. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at the close of the opening night. The deadline for submissions is November 15, 2015. Notifications will be sent out by December 1, 2015. Please submit by email to alliejensen@cox.net, with the subject heading "OkEq Gallery Proposal". The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Keith Hunt, McGraw Realtors EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the 4/23/26, 4:46 PM �OkEq eNews September 25th, 2015 11 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-25th--20... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. McGraw Re TO R S Looking to buy or sell your dream home? I can help! Contact Keith Hunt Today (918) 513-13-94 khunt@mcgrawok.com rl] ~ ~ L:.J r,~ LLADINC lllAl,..l TAT[ t.: COMPAN l lS ,,,,- THE WORLD LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea Ith ca re Bi I IOf Rights .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. Equality Center Pride Store Amy Howe Administrative Assistant Amy.Howe@OkEq.org These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Click here to purchase your pendant today! Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 4:46 PM �OkEq eNews September 25th, 2015 12 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-25th--20... ._ ~11 ._-_,, :/ ~--- ~. . - I ·-- ~ _.;;-- Tracy Allen Volunteer Coordinator Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Jose Vega Program Coordinator Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Poker Face: The Rise and Rise of Lady Gaga" By Maureen Callahan Jose.Vega@OkEq.org In little over a year, Stefani Germanotta, a struggling performer in New York's Lower East Side burlesque scene, has become the global demographic-smashing pop icon known as Lady Gaga. She is a once-in-adecade artist, a gifted singer, composer, designer, and performance artist who mixes high and low culture, the avant-garde with the accessible, authenticity with artifice. Who is Lady Gaga? She is a twenty-fouryear-old woman whose stage mantra--"I'm a free bitch!"--is the polar opposite of who she is offstage: isolated, insecure, and unable to be alone. She is an outrÃ© artist who wanted to be a sensitive singersongwriter, whose musical heroes include Britney Spears, Billy Joel, and Bruce Springsteen. She is a woman who says no man can ever compete with her career, but who still isn't over the exboyfriend who said she was too ambitious. She claims not to care what people think, but spends her downtime online, reading what people have to say about her. She claims to be a con artist and utterly authentic. She is never less than compelling. 4/23/26, 4:46 PM �OkEq eNews September 25th, 2015 13 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-25th--20... Based on over fifty original interviews with friends, employees, rivals, and music industry veterans, Poker Face is the first in-depth biography of the extraordinary cultural phenomenon that is Lady Gaga. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. r---------------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org ~---------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 4:46 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/f8bd12595a4dc9de60a5ee1fdc451e80.pdf ee6138c973872beb2c5996d247c6db53 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews September 30th, 2015 1 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-30th--20... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews September 30th, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor "First Thursday" It's Your Center - It's Your Day Cub Scout Meeting The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders Monday-Wednesday and Friday 7:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Thursday 7:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m. Closed Saturday and Sunday Marriage Equality's Year --- - -First -Lawyer in the Library #SpiritDay @OkEq Singles, Sips & Splatter Center Awareness Day Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders is Tulsa's oldest and finest shoe repair shop featuring shoe repair and cowboy and western boot repair. We also provide premium maker and repair service for high end leather goods, bags, purses and various other items including custom work. EBA Mixer Gamily Halloween Karaoke SAGE Tulsa - Halloween Party OkEq Zombie House Like us on Facebook or visit our website here. "Unlikely - -Family" -~~I>,,. _ TULSA SHOE REBUILDERS 918.584.6062 5455-C SOUTH MINGO RD • TULSA, OK 74146 SHOE - BOOT - LEATHER REPAIR "Cowboys & Kilts" 'Stand Up Against Bullying" Oklahoma Changing World Prize "Hedwigand Inch" -the - Angry --Exhibition Proposals "First Thursday" Art Exhibit Thursday, October 1, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Art Gallery, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 The October Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists will feature the works of A.K. Westerman in a show beginning with a reception on Thursday, October 1 and continuing throughout the month. EBA Sponsor LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Pride Store Rainbow Library Find Us on Facebook A.K. segued to a full-time professional artist after spending over a decade in the graphic design and marketing industry. She is quickly gaining worldwide recognition for her unique work, featuring fantasy and surrealistic elements and compositions, vivid color and intricate details. She applies her 4/23/26, 5:07 PM �OkEq eNews September 30th, 2015 2 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-30th--20... craft to a variety of mediums, including canvas, wood panels, 3D wooden objects and skate decks. In addition to several local solo exhibitions, her work has been showcased in a number of regional and national juried exhibitions in Oklahoma, Texas, Ohio and California. A.K. is an active member of several Oklahoma art organizations, including Oklahoma Visual Arts Coalition, Paseo Arts Association, and Oklahoma's only women's art organization - Fringe. She was also a 2014 ArtistINC Live Fellowship and Oklahoma Visual Arts Coalition 2014 Artist Grant recipient. She lives and works in Edmond, OK. A.K. explains: "I work primarily within the surrealism and fantasy genres. I enjoy integrating natural and technological elements in vivid and intricately detailed compositions. While every piece is derived from my own personal narrative, I always attempt to include some ambiguity, allowing the viewer to fill in pieces of the story according to their own unique perspective. I enjoy working on a large scale, as I believe it creates an almost 'epic' feel for the viewer, allowing them to lose themselves in the minute details. The term 'organic' is an apt description for both my creative process and my choice of subject matter, as I prefer to let the work take on a life of its own and my subconscious express itself freely and fluidly without preconceptions." Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq The Boy Scouts of America have lifted their ban on gay scout masters. In response to this historic decision, Oklahomans for Equality will be establishing a cub scout pack for our families. Andrew Grimes spent years as a Cub Scout and Boy Scout ultimately earning the rank of Eagle Scout. As a young adult, Andy was employed by the Boy Scouts of America as a district executive. It's Your Center - It's Your Day If you or your son(s) are interested in joining a chapter of the Boy Scouts of America, please contact Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org or you can find more information here. IQ r ::] OkEq is offering our donors the opportunity to sponsor the organization for a day or even a complete week. When you choose to sponsor OkEq for a day, we will honor you or the person you designate by featuring our sponsor on our website for the day, with a presentation board greeting visitors in the front lobby on the day/week designated, by listing the honoree in our weekly eNews, and a special posting on our OkEq Facebook page. Sponsors can select a day in honor of their birthday or to celebrate an anniversary date or in memory of an individual, or whatever day means the most to you. OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, September 17th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibit Find out more information here. The October exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center feature works by A.K. Westerman. 4/23/26, 5:07 PM �OkEq eNews September 30th, 2015 3 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-30th--20... Cub Scout Meeting Sunday, October 4, 4:00 p.m. Event Center, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Calling all Scouts and families of boys in 1st through 5th grade: Oklahomans for Equality is starting a new Cub Scout Pack. The next organizational meetings with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts will be held on Sundays at 4:00 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information or to find out how you can help the Cub Scouts, contact Cubmaster Andy Grimes here. On September 26th, the OkEq Cub Scout pack served as a watering station for the Tulsa Bike Club's Mohawk Ride. We were proud to display our pack and show the wonderful change that is occurring in the organization. OkEq's Cub Scouts are needing several clean, empty two liter soda bottles for an upcoming Water Bottle Rocket Launch. If you have one or more you would like to share, just drop them off at the front desk at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a First Year Anniversary for Marriage Equality in Oklahoma October 6, 6:00 p.m. - 8:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center This year's celebration is extra special because it marks the one year anniversary of marriage equality in sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Let's Cefe6rate Of.fahoma Styfe 4/23/26, 5:07 PM �OkEq eNews September 30th, 2015 4 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-30th--20... Oklahoma! One year ago, marriage equality arrived and our lives were forever changed! Love Won! Okfahoma's 'First Year Celebrate the one-year anniversary Oklahoma-style at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on October 6th, 2015 at 6 p.m. Everyone is welcome to be a part of this celebration. Counseling Services Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org --- --- We are creating a slide show October 6th, 2015 featuring all the weddings throughout the entire year. 6:ooym - 8:3oym Please send us your wedding photos so we can relive those wonderful moments. Email them to jose.vega@okeq.org. Let OkEq help you celebrate your anniversary! Donate to our Donate a Day campaign and let Oklahomans for Equality let everybody know it is your anniversary. Lawyer in the Library October 14, 5:30 p.m.-6:30 p.m. Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant, estate planning and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. LEGAL AID SERVICES t h OF OKLAHOMA, INC. = Making Equal Justice for All a Reality For more information, please contact Mia Leighty at 918-574-2931 or Amy Howe at 918-743-4297. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org #SpiritDay @OkEq October 15, 5:00 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Counseling Services Weekdays 4/23/26, 5:07 PM �OkEq eNews September 30th, 2015 5 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-30th--20... By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org SOS Group Oklahomans for Equality is going purple and blowing the center's roof off! Let us show LGBT youth they are not alone. Join us on top of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! We invite everyone to wear purple and join this year's ultimate roof top rally! Your purple shirt is your ticket in and symbolizes your support for LGBT youth as well as speaking out against bullying. For more information or to RSPV, email jose.vega@okeq.org. Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Singles, Sips & Splatter Art Class Saturday, October 17, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather 4/23/26, 5:07 PM �OkEq eNews September 30th, 2015 6 of 15 . https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-30th--20... UJB1 ll#IIJl61, 111'1, I,, lplallM ,..... 1111141/lay, Od. 111A 6pllf,9p11f · lpau 11 UlltllMI ':' - . ._.•• ;: .r ,;;·; :'· .: IUl/1' ly' SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) LGBT Singles of Tulsa! Fill your glasses and load your brushes for a fun night of painting at OkEq. Art instruction will be provided by Janet Fadler Davie. Our theme will be "Autumn". You'll leave at the end of the night with your very own original work of art, some new friends and maybe a date! Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage · Services and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Class size is limited, so please email jose.vega@okeq.org or call 918-813-8993 to reserve your seat. Cost is $20, which will cover all your supplies and and refreshments. Center Awareness Day October 18, 12:00 p.m.-4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Have you ever wanted to know what your LGBT center has to offer? Now is your chance! Oklahomans for Equality is hosting an open house and a program expo event. This is your chance to learn more about what Oklahomans for Equality at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center offers and what programs are available. This is also a chance to meet and greet the facilitators of the programs you may be interested in and answer any question you may have. For more information, please contact jose.vega@okeq.org. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. 4/23/26, 5:07 PM �OkEq eNews September 30th, 2015 7 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-30th--20... Tulsa Area Prime Timers EBA Mixer October 21, 6:00-8:00 p.m. Dr. Blane Snodgrass, 7171 S. Yale Ave, Tulsa, OK 74136 E UALITY Business Alliance 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send a email to eba@okeq.org for more information. The October EBA mixer will be hosted by Optometrist Dr. Blane Snodgrass, OD. Get F.I.T. Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gamily Halloween Karaoke Saturday, October 24, 5:30 p.m. - 8:30 p.m. Second Floor, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Come join the Halloween fun! Our upstairs area will be taken over by family fun for all ages and karaoke. Be sure to come dressed in your Halloween costumes and be prepared to sing your heart out! Yoga by Zach ~ I,ake A Cla~~t:<:: EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm $5.00 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 For more information, 4/23/26, 5:07 PM �OkEq eNews September 30th, 2015 8 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-30th--20... please contact jose.vega@okeq.org. SAGE Tulsa - Halloween Party Tuesday, October 27, 10 a.m. - 1 p.m. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Nevermore Storytellers SAGE (Services and Advocacy for LGBT Elders) is a day time programming for those who are retired or free during the day. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org. Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Their annual Halloween party will be hosted at the home of Sol Smith. The group will meet at the Center at 10:00 a.m., then commute to Sol Smith's home. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org OkEq Zombie House October 29-31 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/23/26, 5:07 PM �OkEq eNews September 30th, 2015 9 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-30th--20... OKEQ Zombie House is back and even more terrifying than last year. We will have 18,000 feet of pure terror! There are zombies in Tulsa and they have infested the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Escape the Zombies on October 29th, 30th and 31st, 2015. These are real flesh eating zombies being housed in complete and total darkness in downtown Tulsa. The worst part is there is only one way out, and it's your mission to find the exit and survive this zombie apocalypse. For more details please contact jose.vega@okeq.org. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno "Unlikely Family" Currently Playing, Circle Cinema, 12 S. Lewis Ave, Tulsa OK 74104 Set in Tulsa, Oklahoma-home of legendary televangelist Oral Roberts--Unlikely Family depicts a progressive church family coming together in the most unlikely of places. The film follows a group of people rejected by mainstream churches, society, their families, and their jobs because of divorce, sexuality, and ignorance of religion. The movie demonstrates what people faced in 1995 and still face today when they don't fit the mold prescribed by biblical "clobber scriptures." The film challenges traditional "my way or the highway" views of salvation that straitjacket lives with narrow values and ideals. An official trailer of the film can be viewed here. Tickets can be purchased here. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org "Cowboys & Kilt's" ICP Ball: A Night of CountryWestern Dance 4/23/26, 5:07 PM �OkEq eNews September 30th, 2015 10 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-30th--20... October 3, 7:00 p.m. Event Center, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Please join the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma for the Annual ICP Ball "Cowboys and Kilts", A Night of Country Western Dance. Age is limited to 21 and over. Tickets will be $25 at the door. The proceeds from event will benefit the ICAO Clogger Bill Francisco Youth Scholarship Fund. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. For more information email impcourtok@gmail.com or visit impcourtok.org Workforce Oklahoma Access Point "Stand Up Against Bullying" October 6, 10:00 a.m. - 11:00 a.m. Guthrie Green, 111 E Brady St, Tulsa, OK 74103 OCCJ is teaming up with PreventBullyingTulsa.org for the 2015 Bullying Prevention Rally to highlight the issues of bullying in our community and society. Come and help local middle and high school students stand up against bullying. PreventBullyingTulsa.org is a collaboration of Tulsa area mental health and advocacy agencies that have come together to provide the community with educational, counseling and advocacy services regarding children and bullying. According to the National Association of School Psychologists, bullying is the most common form of violence in our society; between 15 percent and 30 percent of students are bullies or victims. Open every day Stand Up Against Bullying , ,, ,.. .,_,,.. . .... . . Bullying Prevention Ral 1y 6~~:~=~ • OCCJ 6th 10AM to 11AM Guthrie Green Tulsa, Oklahoma ~-=-=f¢' ;;tl- -,7c1 ~ ..-.. Oklahomans for Equality will be hosting a booth at the Bullying Prevention Rally. More information can be found here. Oklahoma Changing World Prize October 11, 5:00 p.m. Woody Guthrie Center, 102 E. Brady St, Tulsa, OK 74103 Just a little over a year after they were married at the Tulsa County Courthouse, Mary and Sharon Bishop-Baldwin will be awarded the Woody Guthrie Center's first Oklahoma Changing World Prize. The couple were the lead plaintiffs who challenged Oklahoma's ban on same-sex marriage in Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the 4/23/26, 5:07 PM �OkEq eNews September 30th, 2015 11 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-30th--20... 2004, shortly after 76 percent of Oklahoma voters approved the ban. Together for 18 years, the Bishop-Baldwins represented thousands of gay and lesbian people in the Sooner State in Bishop v. United States, the lawsuit they filed seeking the freedom to marry. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org --- The presentation of the first Oklahoma Changing World Prize will be at a reception at the Woody Guthrie Center at 4:00 pm on October 11. The celebration will continue in the garden space between the Hardesty Arts Center (AHHA) and the WGC with a light dinner and music from Eric Himan at 5:00 pm. In the event of rain, dinner will be held inside AHHA. Amy Howe Administrative Assistant Amy.Howe@OkEq.org All proceeds from this special event support the Woody Guthrie Center's education initiatives. Table sponsorships are available immediately in the following levels: Friends ($1,000), This Land Table Sponsor ($2,500), and This Machine Sponsor ($5,000). Presenting sponsorships are also available. Call 918-574-2522 for information about sponsorships. Individual ticket sales to the event are $100 and will go on sale September 12. Call the Center at 918-574-2710 to purchase. "Hedwig and the Angry Inch" October 23 - November 1 Liddy Doenges Theatre, Tulsa Performing Arts Center 110 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103 The cult classic, rock musical smash! East German rock goddess Hedwig Schmidt suffers a botched operation and tells the tale with a performance that is part rock concert, part standup comedy - and all fabulous! Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org --- Written by John Cameron Mitchell Music and lyrics by Stephen Trask 4/23/26, 5:07 PM �OkEq eNews September 30th, 2015 12 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-30th--20... Tickets can be purchased here. Use the promotional code OKEQHEDWIG to get 25% off opening weekend performances (Oct 23-25). Tracy Allen Volunteer Coordinator Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org 2016 Call for Exhibition Proposals Deadline for Proposals: November 15, 2015 The OkEq Art Gallery at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Tulsa, Oklahoma, is now accepting proposals for the 2016 Exhibition Calendar. Each chosen exhibit will be on display for approximately 30 days. Our gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a few paragraphs about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 .jpg images which represent your current work. All proposals must be submitted online. Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable. Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org While we continue to have a 'no repeat' policy, previous artists may serve as the curator for a group showing. The group showing must have at least three additional people who have not shown in the Gallery before. The returning artist (curator) may have work on exhibit in proportion to the other artists represented in the exhibit. Please let us know if your idea for an exhibit will require months to prepare or if you have calendar restrictions. We would also like to know if you would be ready to go quickly, as the early months in the year are sometimes hard to fill. OkEq hosts an opening night reception for the artist(s) on the first Thursday of the month. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at the close of the opening night. The deadline for submissions is November 15, 2015. Notifications will be sent out by December 1, 2015. Please submit by email to alliejensen@cox.net, with the subject heading "OkEq Gallery Proposal". The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Keith Hunt, McGraw Realtors 4/23/26, 5:07 PM �OkEq eNews September 30th, 2015 13 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-30th--20... McGraw Rt, T RS Looking to buy or sell your dream home? I can help! Contact Keith Hunt Today (918) 513-13-94 khunt@mcgrawok.com rl] ~ ,,,~ LLADING lLAl,.C TATL ~ L.:.J -.: COMPAN IC S.'J' TH( WORLD LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Healthca re Bi IIOf Ri ghts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Click here to purchase your pendant today! 4/23/26, 5:07 PM �OkEq eNews September 30th, 2015 14 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-30th--20... Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Woof! A Gay Man's Guide To Dogs" By Andrew DePrisco The book Joan Rivers called "my dog bible," Woof! is the quintessential queer guide for dog lovers, offering a hilarious A G AY l'lAN'S GUIDE TO DOGS take on gay dog ownership unlike any other book out there! Author Andrew DePrisco and illustrator Jason O'Malley have created a LGBTQ classic that defines the 28 "breeds" of gay men and recommends which breeds are best for each. From Drag Queen and AllAmerican Boy to Twink, Leatherman, and Log Cabin Queer, every gay man will find BY ANDREW D 1 PRISCO • lll111lr•llon1 tt, J•••• O'M ■ ll•r advice and hilarity on every page of this award-winning gift book. (For gay men who are not sure of their breed, there is a temperament sorter to help determine their homo DNA.) In addition to being a breed-selection guide for the dogloving Q-set, Woof! provides no-nonsense information about how to purchase a dog from a breeder, bringing the puppy home, training, caring, and feeding for the dog. It also offers tongue-in-cheek pointers along the lines of choosing Cawngtltl!l'.I Ulllenal WOOF! 4/23/26, 5:07 PM �OkEq eNews September 30th, 2015 15 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-30th--20... the best gay name for the puppy, shopping for extravagant accessories, throwing a gay puppy shower (for the gifts!), hiring the right staff to take care of the puppy, and using the well-cared-for dog as a man magnet. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. r---------------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org ~---------------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 5:07 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/6e3292d913bbc3e72325f48e4736b9b4.pdf 89f80f685ac008b555de9d2191e23c45 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews July 8th, 2015 1 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-8th--2015.html... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews July 8th, 2015 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor Marriage Equality Victory Party EBA Mixer SAGE Pool Party The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: ihelptulsa.com Recently received a new computer or smart device? Do you need all of your files and email moved from your old computer to your new computer? Do you need help setting up your smart device? If so, contact johnv@ihelptulsa.com , log ----onto ihelptulsa.com or call John at 918-605-8777. Pride Under the Lights My Big Wedding -Gay -Italian -Our Tomorrow EBA Sponsor "Documented" Christmas in July HIV Wellness Retreat LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Want to receive computer tips? Like us at facebook.com/ihelptulsa OkEq Annual Meeting Pride Store Rainbow Library Be a part of this Marriage Equality Victory Party: Find Us on Facebook Cocktail Celebration at 624 Kitchen & Catering Spend the evening of July 14 in the phenomenal art deco space of 624 listening to the incredible Eric Himan perform live while enjoying amazing hors OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, July 16th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. 4/23/26, 4:25 PM �OkEq eNews July 8th, 2015 2 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-8th--2015.html... d'oeuvres created by Chef Justin Thompson and his team. 624 is Downtown Tulsa's premier special event and private party venue. Located in the lobby of the ONG building at 624 S. Boston Ave., it features 20-foot high ceilings, marble columns, terrazzo floor accents, custom plaster moldings, intricate ceiling details and a contemporary palette. Eric will be performing songs from his new CD, "Playing Cards." You and your friends can attend this party on July 14 from 6-9 p.m. for a donation of $200 per person! A limited number of tickets are available for this special event! Must be 21 or older to attend. Click here to purchase your tickets to the Marriage Equality Celebration at624 & Catering -- -----Kitchen ------ EBA Mixer Inner Circle Vodka Bar, 410 N. Main St Suite A July 15, 6:00-7:30 p.m. E UALITY Business Alliance OkEq Art Exhibit The July exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features 'Ankle Deep...an Experience in Acrylics.' SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather 4/23/26, 4:25 PM �OkEq eNews July 8th, 2015 3 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-8th--2015.html... The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send a email to eba@okeq.org for more information. Our next mixer will be held at Inner Circle Vodka Bar, located at 410 N. Main St Suite A. SAGE Pool Party July 21, 2015 1938 E. 55th Place, Tulsa, OK 74105 SAGE Tulsa will have a pool party on Tuesday, July 21st, 2015 at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot dogs. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email SAGE@OkEq.org to RSVP. sage Servtees and Advocacy for Cay, lesbian, Bisexual & Tram.gendC"r Elders SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Pride Under the Lights Saturday, July 25, after the Drillers game If you purchased and still have your Pride in the Ballpark ticket, hang on to it! ONEOK Stadium will be hosting Pride Under the Lights on Saturday, July 25, after the 7:05 p.m. Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness 4/23/26, 4:25 PM �OkEq eNews July 8th, 2015 4 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-8th--2015.html... --------- game against the • ' I Arkansas Travelers. New tickets for the event will be issued; tickets can also be purchased at the same price of $12 each. Just come by the Equality Center or come to the ONEOK Stadium gate to pick up your tickets. Come join us for an evening of fun and excitement! meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. My Big Gay Italian Wedding American Theater Company, 308 S Lansing Ave July 16th-July 26th Tulsa Area Prime Timers American Theatre Company Presents 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 "Feel-good hysterical comedy!" - The Wall Street Journal "As insanely funny and fun confection. The mixture of the sacred and the profane, the ultra-serious and ultrasilly makes this the perfect play." - Edge New York Andrew and Anthony are getting married - and everyone wants to "help"! My Big Gay Italian Wedding spins into a hysterical fiasco as everyone tries to have their way. From a saboteur ex-boyfriend to a loud, opinionated, outspoken Italian mother, personalities and culture collide in a music and dance-filled extravaganza. For tickets: 918-596-7111 or click here. Tickets are also available the day of the show at ATC Studios. Get F.I.T. Click here for more information and promotions. Share your voice. Shape our future. Our Tomorrow, www.shareourtomorrow.org Our Tomorrow is a campaign to engage LGBTQ people across the country in a conversation to shape the future of a bigger, bolder movement that leaves no one behind. It is a place for LGBTQ people across the country to share our hopes, fears and ideas for the future - and help make tomorrow better for all of us. R Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ORRO ACA Assistance Share your voice here; your submissions 4/23/26, 4:25 PM �OkEq eNews July 8th, 2015 5 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-8th--2015.html... will help the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and the LGBTQ community throughout the nation. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Keith Hunt, McGraw Realtors McGraw R1"A TORS Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. ----- ·------ Looking to buy or sell your dream home? I can help! Gender Outreach Contact Keith Hunt Today (918) 513-13-94 khunt@mcgrawok.com rl] LJ3, @ .,~ LlADINC RlAl,.1 TAH ._ CO~PANll ')" TH( WOllLD "Documented" - Promoted by Tulsa Area Fair Housing Partnership July 23, 6:30 p.m. - 8:30 p.m. Circle Cinema, 10 S. Lewis Ave Lambda Al-Anon Group Know your target audience. Who are your most important customers, clients or prospects, and why? Know what is DOCUMENTED important to them and address their needs in your newsletter each month. Include a photo to make your newsletter even more appealing.In 2011, Pulitzer Prizewinning journalist Jose Antonio Vargas outed himself as ___. ....,.. an undocumented immigrant in an essay published in the New York Times Magazine. Documented chronicles his journey to America from the Philippines as a child; his journey through America as an immigration reform activist; and his journey inward as he re-connects with his mother, whom he hasn't seen in person in over 20 years. . .. ...... J...,,.,. Tickets are $11.00 (general admission) and can be purchased here. Christmas in July - A Benefit for H.O.P.E. Testing Tulsa Eagle, 1338 E. 3rd St July 25, 7:00 p.m. The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma is holding a comunity wide fundraiser to raise money for H.O.P.E. Testing on July 25, 2015 at the Tulsa Eagle. 21+ Only, No Cover. Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Every Friday 7 p.m. A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Survivors of Incest Anonymous We are currently looking for Silent / Live Auction Items. If you have 4/23/26, 4:25 PM �OkEq eNews July 8th, 2015 6 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-8th--2015.html... anything to donate please contact us at impcourtok@gmail.com Donations can also be made on our website donation page www.impcourtok.org From the Heart, Through the Court, For the Community! HIV Wellness Retreat 2015 Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Registration deadline is July 17 The Grateful Day Foundation's HIV Wellness Retreat will be held Aug. 21- 23 at the Sky Ranch Cave Springs in Quapaw. www.skyranch.org tjrAteful .,2)Af1 JF 0>il.lL:ir.n.dl.a.ti0> :ir.n. JI:ir.n.c. We are looking forward to Taking a leap of faith for those living with HIV/ AIDS another fun and informative retreat this year. Applications can be found on our website, www.gratefulday.org, as well as at Tulsa Cares, Parish Church of St. Jerome, HOPE Testing, OSU Specialty Clinic and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The Grateful Day Foundation will host a number of workshops throughout the weekend as well as several fun things to do at the retreat. For more information, visit our website or contact us by phone. Contact info: 539.664.7206 www.gratefulday.org LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea Ith ca re Bi I !Of Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. Oklahomans for Equality Annual Meeting and Board of Directors Elections Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St September 3, 7:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org - - - - - Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. 4/23/26, 4:25 PM �OkEq eNews July 8th, 2015 7 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-8th--2015.html... Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org OkEq Board 2014-2015 The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 3rd, 2015. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. OR 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Board Secretary by August 15th) At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is accepting applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Seven directors will be elected. Please contact amy.howe@okeq.org for an application. All applicants will be reviewed by the Board Development and Governance Committee. Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2015 T-shirts are available in the Pride Store. These short-sleeve tee's for only $10 each. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing 4/23/26, 4:25 PM �OkEq eNews July 8th, 2015 8 of 8 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-8th--2015.html... Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "How I Paid for College: A Novel of Sex, Theft, Friendship & Musical Theater" By Marc Alito Edward's truly in a bind. He's ineligible for scholarships because his father earns too much. He's unable to contact his mother because she's somewhere in Peru trying to commune with Incan spirits. And, as a sure sign he's destined for a life in the arts, Edward's incapable of holding down a job. So he turns to his loyal (but immoral) misfit friends to help him steal the tuition money from his father, all the while practicing for his high school performance of Grease. Disguising themselves as nuns and priests, they merrily scheme their way through embezzlement, money laundering, identity theft, forgery, and blackmail. But, along the way, Edward also learns the value of friendship, hard work, and how you're not really a man until you can beat up your fathermetaphorically, that is. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Amy Howe Administrative Assistant Amy.Howe@OkEq.org r-------------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat noon-9 p.m. | Sun noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L-------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 4:25 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/5a2c0acd9034c7278313e677d522c5d8.pdf 826658a95465241e73b2a12a36aaa2e9 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews October 14th, 2015 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-14th--2015... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews October 14th, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Rose & Michael are Sponsoring a Day #SpiritDay @OkEq Lawyer in the Library The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders Monday-Wednesday and Friday 7:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Thursday 7:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m. Closed Saturday and Sunday Singles, Sips & Splatter Center Awareness Day EBA Mixer Gamily Halloween Karaoke SAGE Tulsa - Halloween Party Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders is Tulsa's oldest and finest shoe repair shop featuring shoe repair and cowboy and western boot repair. We also provide premium maker and repair service for high end leather goods, bags, purses and various other items including custom work. Making the Invisible, Visible OkEq Zombie House "First Thursday" Art Exhibit OK Marriage Equality ---- Like us on Facebook or visit our website here. It's Your Center - It's Your Day ~~I>,,. _ TULSA SHOE REBUILDERS 918.584.6062 5455-C SOUTH MINGO RD • TULSA, OK 74146 SHOE - BOOT - LEATHER REPAIR I.C.A.O. Military Ball and USO Show Veteran's Day Luncheon D2: Diversity and Dialogue "Hedwigand Inch" -the - Angry --Exhibition Proposals Rose & Michael are sponsoring a day! Friday, October 16, 2015 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Pride Store Rainbow Library Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 5:11 PM �OkEq eNews October 14th, 2015 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-14th--2015... Rose Padgett and Michael Potts are sponsoring the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Friday, October 16th to honor their wedding day. Congratulations, Rose and Michael! If you are interested in making a donation to sponsor the Equality Center for your special day, click here. Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq #SpiritDay @OkEq October 15, 5:00 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality has a new Cub Scout Pack. The meetings with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts are held on Sundays at 4:00 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. OkEq Board Meeting Oklahomans for Equality is asking you to Wear Purple on October 15, 2015 and join us on #SpiritDay! Lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and gender non-conforming (LGBTQ) youth are bullied at much higher rates than other students. More than 55.5% of lesbian and gay youth surveyed say they have been harassed and bullied because of their sexual orientation. Transgender and gender non-conforming youth experience physical assault at a 37% higher rate than other students. In the wake of an unprecedented number of reported LGBTQ youth suicides in 2010 Spirit Day was founded to show youth they were not alone and community leaders were taking aggressive steps to address bullying in our schools and reducing youth suicides. Wearing the color purple is tied to the purple fabric in the rainbow flag that is the symbol of diversity in the global LGBTQ community. Purple stands for spirit. 7 p.m. Thursday, October 15th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibit The October exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center feature works by A.K. Westerman. Let us show LGBTQ youth they are not alone. Join us on the roof of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! We invite everyone to wear purple and join us for an ultimate roof top rally! Wearing purple is your ticket in and shows 4/23/26, 5:11 PM �OkEq eNews October 14th, 2015 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-14th--2015... your support for LGBTQ youth as we speak out against bullying. Lawyer in the Library October 14, 5:30 p.m.-6:30 p.m. Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant, estate planning and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. LEGAL AID SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. t~ = Maki11g Equal Justice for All a Reality For more information, please contact Mia Leighty at 918-574-2931 or Amy Howe at 918-743-4297. Singles, Sips & Splatter Art Class Saturday, October 17, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Counseling Services LGBT Singles of Tulsa! Fill your glasses and load your brushes for a fun night of painting at OkEq. Art instruction will be provided by Janet Fadler Davie. Our theme will be "Autumn". You'll leave at the end of the night with your very own original work of art, some new friends and maybe a date! Class size is limited, so please email jose.vega@okeq.org or call 918-813-8993 to reserve your seat. Cost is $20, which will cover all your supplies and and refreshments. Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 5:11 PM �OkEq eNews October 14th, 2015 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-14th--2015... Center Awareness Day October 18, 12:00 p.m.-4:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Counseling Services Have you ever wanted to know what your LGBT center has to offer? Now is your chance! Oklahomans for Equality is hosting an open house and a program expo event. This is your chance to learn more about what Oklahomans for Equality at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center offers and what programs are available. This is also a chance to meet and greet the facilitators of the programs you may be interested in and answer any question you may have. For more information, please contact jose.vega@okeq.org. Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org EBA Mixer October 21, 6:00-8:00 p.m. Dr. Blane Snodgrass, 7171 S. Yale Ave, Tulsa, OK 74136 Counseling Services E UALITY Business Alliance The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send a email to eba@okeq.org for more information. Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org The October EBA mixer will be hosted by Optometrist Dr. Blane Snodgrass, OD. Counseling Services Weekdays 4/23/26, 5:11 PM �OkEq eNews October 14th, 2015 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-14th--2015... By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org SOS Group Gamily Halloween Karaoke Saturday, October 24, 5:30 p.m. - 8:30 p.m. Second Floor, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Come join the Halloween fun! Our upstairs area will be taken over by family fun for all ages and karaoke. Be sure to come dressed in your Halloween costumes and be prepared to sing your heart out! Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather For more information, please contact jose.vega@okeq.org. SAGE Tulsa - Halloween Party Tuesday, October 27, 10 a.m. - 1 p.m. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" 4/23/26, 5:11 PM �OkEq eNews October 14th, 2015 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-14th--2015... SAGE (Services and Advocacy for LGBT Elders) is a day time programming for those who are retired or free during the day. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org. SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage · Servoces and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Their annual Halloween party will be hosted at the home of Sol Smith. The group will meet at the Center at 10:00 a.m., then commute to Sol Smith's home. Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Domestic Violence: Making the Invisible, Visible October 22, 5:30 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Join us on October 22 5:30•7:30 ""' ~,, .. '! DOMESTIC VIOL. ENCE Presentation by Missy lski, MA, LPC, MAFT Director of Programs and Counseling at DVIS Help us make the Invisible Visible 10/22/15 Dennis R. Neal Equality Center 5:30 M ix and Mingle (drinks and snacks provided) 6pm Presentation 7pm Q&A This event will focus on issues related to domestic violence and sexual assault. Topics will include the cycle of violence, types of abuse, consequences, safety and recovery, among others. Join us to learn more and take a stand against violence! Mia Leighty, from the Family Safety Center, will Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 4/23/26, 5:11 PM �OkEq eNews October 14th, 2015 7 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-14th--2015... introduce guest speaker Missy Iski, Director of Programs & Counseling at DVIS/Call Rape since 1999. 5:30 p.m. - Mix and Mingle (light hors d'oeuvres and wine provided) 6:00 p.m. - Presentation by Missy Iski, Director of Programs and Counselling at DVIS 7:00 p.m. - Q&A OkEq Zombie House October 29-31 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OKEQ Zombie House is back and even more terrifying than last year. We will have 18,000 feet of pure terror! There are zombies in Tulsa and they have infested the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Escape the Zombies on October 29th, 30th and 31st, 2015. These are real flesh eating zombies being housed in complete and total darkness in downtown Tulsa. The worst part is there is only one way out, and it's your mission to find the exit and survive this zombie apocalypse. For more details please contact jose.vega@okeq.org. Tickets are now available here. Get F.I.T. Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. $5 per session. Yoga by Zach ::>jJ,ake A Cla~~t::<:: EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 $5.00 per Session Gender Outreach "First Thursday" Art Exhibit Thursday, November 5, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Art Gallery, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. 4/23/26, 5:11 PM �OkEq eNews October 14th, 2015 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-14th--2015... Nevermore Edits Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. The October Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists will feature the works of May Yang and Jason Lockhart in a combined show beginning with a reception on Thursday, November 5th from 6:00 p.m. -9:00 p.m. and continuing throughout the month. May Yang is a Tulsa based artist, printer and designer. She works with printmaking and mixed media techniques to produce work that processes the information overload common in our digital age. Jason Lockhart's work is eclectic; he says: "Inspiration finds me from no specific source. Things just seem to pop out of the background noise of everyday life, so I take those things and arrange them in interesting compositions. Primarily I've been working with acrylics and generally am finding my 'worlds' consisting of fonts, buildings, and strange pushes-andpulls." Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Game Night Oklahoma Marriage Equality - First Year Anniversary Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno 4/23/26, 5:11 PM �OkEq eNews October 14th, 2015 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-14th--2015... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals It's Your Center - It's Your Day OkEq is offering our donors the opportunity to sponsor the organization for a day or even a complete week. When you choose to sponsor OkEq for a day, we will honor you or the person you designate by featuring our sponsor on our website for the day, with a presentation board greeting visitors in the front lobby on the day/week designated, by listing the honoree in our weekly eNews, and a special posting on our OkEq Facebook page. Sponsors can select a day in honor of their birthday or to celebrate an anniversary date or in memory of an individual, or whatever day means the most to you. Find out more information here. I.C.A.O. Military Ball and USO Show Saturday, November 7, 2015, 8:00 p.m. - 10:00 p.m. Tulsa Eagle, 1338 E 3rd St, Tulsa, OK 74120 The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org g E UALITY Q!Busmess Alliance EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point 4/23/26, 5:11 PM �OkEq eNews October 14th, 2015 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-14th--2015... Join the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma along with ICP's Keri Jo Allan, Aaron Deal & George McCauslan for the Annual Military Ball and USO Show. No cover, 21+ only. All active military and veterans are welcome. Dontations made with benefit a local military organization (TBA) & The I.C.A.O. Operational Fund. Donations can also be made on the I.C.A.O. website donation page www.impcourtok.org. Veteran's Day Luncheon Thursday, November 11, 11:30 a.m. - 1:00 p.m. Event Center, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Our Equality Business Alliance will be hosting a free Veteran's Day Luncheon. Food and entertainment will be provided. If you know any veterans, please invite them to attend this special event. Space is limited. Please RSVP for the Veteran's Day Luncheon to Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org D2: Diversity and Dialogue: Immigration in America: Making Sense of the System Monday, October 19, 6:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. 4/23/26, 5:11 PM �OkEq eNews October 14th, 2015 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-14th--2015... Lorton Performance Center, 550 S. Gary Pl, Tulsa, OK 74104 diversity & dialogue D2: Diversity & Dialogue is an annual event hosted by the Diversity Crew which focuses on current diversity-issues. The event always includes an expert on the chosen subject followed by attendee discussion. Amy Howe Administrative Assistant Amy.Howe@OkEq.org For the 2015 Diversity & Dialogue, we're joined by TU law professor Elizabeth McCormick for a discussion on the humanity of immigrants -- often overlooked in national debate on immigration policy -- and effective advocacy for policy reform. Dinner will be provided to attendees. To RSVP for this event, click here. "Hedwig and the Angry Inch" October 23 - November 1 Liddy Doenges Theatre, Tulsa Performing Arts Center 110 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103 The cult classic, rock musical smash! East German rock goddess Hedwig Schmidt suffers a botched operation and tells the tale with a performance that is part rock concert, part standup comedy - and all fabulous! Written by John Cameron Mitchell Music and lyrics by Stephen Trask Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org ---- Tickets can be purchased here. Use the promotional code OKEQHEDWIG to get 25% off opening weekend performances (Oct 23-25). Tracy Allen Volunteer Coordinator Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org 2016 Call for Exhibition Proposals Deadline for Proposals: November 15, 2015 The OkEq Art Gallery at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Tulsa, Oklahoma, is now accepting proposals for the 2016 Exhibition Calendar. Each chosen exhibit will be on 4/23/26, 5:11 PM �OkEq eNews October 14th, 2015 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-14th--2015... display for approximately 30 days. Our gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a few paragraphs about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 .jpg images which represent your current work. All proposals must be submitted online. Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable. While we continue to have a 'no repeat' policy, previous artists may serve as the curator for a group showing. The group showing must have at least three additional people who have not shown in the Gallery before. The returning artist (curator) may have work on exhibit in proportion to the other artists represented in the exhibit. Please let us know if your idea for an exhibit will require months to prepare or if you have calendar restrictions. We would also like to know if you would be ready to go quickly, as the early months in the year are sometimes hard to fill. Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org ---- OkEq hosts an opening night reception for the artist(s) on the first Thursday of the month. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at the close of the opening night. The deadline for submissions is November 15, 2015. Notifications will be sent out by December 1, 2015. Please submit by email to alliejensen@cox.net, - - - - with the subject heading "OkEq Gallery Proposal". LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea lthca re Bi IIOf Ri ghts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or 4/23/26, 5:11 PM �OkEq eNews October 14th, 2015 13 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-14th--2015... concerns. Click here to purchase your pendant today! Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "The Man I Might Become: Gay Men Write About Their Fathers" Edited by Bruce Shenitz Foreword by Andrew Holleran Few men, straight or gay, find the father-son relationship easy, which explains why men's groups overflow with stories of fathers who ignored, brutalized, or otherwise wounded their sons. But gay men find the subject particularly problematic: When they come out to their families, they enter emotional territory their straight counterparts often avoid their entire lives. For many fathers and sons, the deepest feelings often remain unexpressed; if a son is gay, the very act of coming out virtually ensures that silence will be broken. Now, the 4/23/26, 5:11 PM �OkEq eNews October 14th, 2015 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-14th--2015... pieces in The Man I Might Become-by some of our finest writers, as well as notable newcomers-depict worlds of experience that are sometimes painful, sometimes funny, and always engaging. Including contributions by Andrew Solomon, Jesse Green, Dan Savage, Stephen McCauley, Joseph Hansen, Bernard Cooper, Mark Doty, James Saslow, Jaimé Manrique, and many others, this anthology will take its place as essential reading for every gay man coming to terms with his past, his family, and his own future as a man. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. r---------------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I ~---------------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 5:11 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/6c98d1695c238de607a623a4d56c718a.pdf 6a93f75689d4d5936629c71112d5bf94 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews October 21st, 2015 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-21st--2015... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews October 21st, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor George & Rusty are Sponsoring a Day EBA Mixer Making the Invisible, Visible The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders Monday-Wednesday and Friday 7:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Thursday 7:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m. Closed Saturday and Sunday Gamily Halloween Karaoke SAGE Tulsa - Halloween Party OkEq Zombie House Guy's Dine Too "First Thursday" Art Exhibit Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders is Tulsa's oldest and finest shoe repair shop featuring shoe repair and cowboy and western boot repair. We also provide premium maker and repair service for high end leather goods, bags, purses and various other items including custom work. Lawyer in the Library Veteran's Day Luncheon Herland Fall Retreat I.C.A.O. Military Ball and USO Show Like us on Facebook or visit our website here. Once Upon A Time Book Fair ~~I>,,. _ TULSA SHOE REBUILDERS 918.584.6062 5455-C SOUTH MINGO RD • TULSA, OK 74146 SHOE - BOOT - LEATHER REPAIR OK Marriage - -Equality -It's Your Center - It's Your Day "Hedwigand Inch" -the - Angry --Exhibition Proposals LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights George & Rusty are sponsoring a day! Monday, October 26 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Pride Store Rainbow Library Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 5:12 PM �OkEq eNews October 21st, 2015 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-21st--2015... Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq George McCauslan and Rusty Clyma have made a generous donation to sponsor the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Monday, October 26. George and Rusty are sponsoring the day in honor of the seventh anniversary of their legal marriage. Their marriage was performed in 2008 in California. Congratulations George and Rusty! Oklahomans for Equality has a new Cub Scout Pack. The meetings with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts are held on Sundays at 4:00 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. If you are interested in making a donation to sponsor the Equality Center for your special day, click here. EBA Mixer October 21, 6:00-8:00 p.m. Dr. Blane Snodgrass, 7171 S. Yale Ave, Tulsa, OK 74136 E UALITY Business Alliance OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, October 15th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send a email to eba@okeq.org for more information. The October EBA mixer will be hosted by Optometrist Dr. Blane Snodgrass, OD. OkEq Art Exhibit The October exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center feature works by A.K. Westerman. 4/23/26, 5:12 PM �OkEq eNews October 21st, 2015 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-21st--2015... Domestic Violence: Making the Invisible, Visible October 22, 5:30 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us on October 22 5:30-7:30 -- ..f . '! ,, ' ~,,. .. DOME~TIC VIOL.ENCE Presentation by Missy lski, MA, LPC, MAFT Present• Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 y t e Faml y Sa ety Center Director of Programs and Counseling at DVIS Help us make the Invisible Visible 10/22/15 Dennis R. Neal Equality Center 5:30 Mix and Mingle (drinks and snacks provided) 6pm Presentation 7pm Q&A g___ This event will focus on issues related to domestic violence and sexual assault. Topics will include the cycle of violence, types of abuse, consequences, safety and recovery, among others. Join us to learn more and take a stand against violence! Mia Leighty, from the Family Safety Center, will introduce guest speaker Missy Iski, Director of Programs & Counseling at DVIS/Call Rape since 1999. 5:30 p.m. - Mix and Mingle (light hors d'oeuvres and wine provided) 6:00 p.m. - Presentation by Missy Iski, Director of Programs and Counselling at DVIS 7:00 p.m. - Q&A Gamily Halloween Karaoke Saturday, October 24, 5:30 p.m. - 8:30 p.m. Second Floor, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 5:12 PM �OkEq eNews October 21st, 2015 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-21st--2015... Come join the Halloween fun! Our upstairs area will be taken over by family fun for all ages and karaoke. Be sure to come dressed in your Halloween costumes and be prepared to sing your heart out! For more information, please contact jose.vega@okeq.org. Counseling Services Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org SAGE Tulsa - Halloween Party Tuesday, October 27, 10 a.m. - 1 p.m. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org SAGE (Services and Advocacy for LGBT Elders) is a day time programming for those who are retired or free during the day. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org. Their annual Halloween party will be hosted at the home of Sol Smith. The group will meet at the Center at 10:00 a.m., then commute to Sol Smith's home. Counseling Services Weekdays 4/23/26, 5:12 PM �OkEq eNews October 21st, 2015 5 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-21st--2015... By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org SOS Group OkEq Zombie House October 29-31, 6:00 p.m. - 11:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OKEQ Zombie House is back and even more terrifying than last year. We will have 18,000 feet of pure terror! There are zombies in Tulsa and they have infested the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Escape the Zombies on October 29th, 30th and 31st, 2015. These are real flesh eating zombies being housed in complete and total darkness in downtown Tulsa. The worst part is there is only one way out, and it's your mission to find the exit and survive this zombie apocalypse. FREE TICKETS: Send your contact information to Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org to be entered for a chance to win two free tickets to the Zombie Apocalypse. The winner will be announced Monday, October 26th. Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Tickets can be purchased here . SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Guy's Dine Too November 3, 6:30 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" 4/23/26, 5:12 PM �OkEq eNews October 21st, 2015 6 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-21st--2015... Jamil's, 3823 E. 51st St, Tulsa OK 74135 SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage - Servoces and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders The next dinner for Guy's Dine Too will be held at Jamil's. To RSVP, please contact Richard Haley at guysdinetoo@gmail.com. "First Thursday" Art Exhibit Thursday, November 5, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Art Gallery, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 • 4• Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. The October Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists will feature the works of May Yang and Jason Lockhart in a combined show beginning with a reception on Thursday, November 5th from 6:00 p.m. -9:00 p.m. and continuing throughout the month. May Yang is a Tulsa based artist, printer and designer. She works with printmaking and mixed media techniques to produce work that processes the information overload common in our digital age. Jason Lockhart's work is eclectic; he says: "Inspiration finds me from no specific source. Things just seem to pop out of the background noise of everyday life, so I take those things and arrange them in interesting compositions. Primarily I've been working with acrylics and generally am finding my 'worlds' consisting of fonts, buildings, and strange pushes-andpulls." Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 4/23/26, 5:12 PM �OkEq eNews October 21st, 2015 7 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-21st--2015... Get F.I.T. Lawyer in the Library November 11, 5:30 p.m.-6:30 p.m. Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/tenant, estate planning and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. LEGAL AID SERVICES t h. OF OKLAHOMA, INC. = Making Equal Justice for All a Reality Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. $5 per session. Yoga by Zach ::>jJ,ake A Cla~~t::<:: EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm For more information, please contact Mia Leighty at 918-574-2931 or Amy Howe at 918-743-4297. Veteran's Day Luncheon Thursday, November 11, 11:30 a.m. - 1:00 p.m. Event Center, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 $5.00 per Session Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Our Equality Business Alliance will be hosting a free Veteran's Day Luncheon. Food and entertainment will be provided. If you know any veterans, please invite them to attend this special event. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. 4/23/26, 5:12 PM �OkEq eNews October 21st, 2015 8 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-21st--2015... Space is limited. Please RSVP for the Veteran's Day Luncheon to Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org. Herland Fall Retreat 2015 Friday-Sunday, November 6-8 Lake Eufaula State Park, Hwy 69 & Hwy 150, Checotah, OK 74426 Herland Sister Resources is sponsoring an all women's retreat at the beautiful Lake Eufaula State Park. 3 Shades of Gray will provide entertainment on Saturday evening. Meals will be provided. There will also be a spoken word poetry workshop, arts and crafts, as well as a drumming circle. Nevermore Edits Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm For more information or to register, click here. I.C.A.O. Military Ball and USO Show Saturday, November 7, 8:00 p.m. - 10:00 p.m. Tulsa Eagle, 1338 E 3rd St, Tulsa, OK 74120 SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Join the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma along with ICP's Keri Jo Allan, Aaron Deal & George McCauslan for the Annual Military Ball and USO Show. No cover, 21+ only. All active military and veterans are welcome. Dontations made with benefit a local military organization (TBA) & The I.C.A.O. Operational Fund. Donations can also be made on the I.C.A.O. website donation page www.impcourtok.org. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno 4/23/26, 5:12 PM �OkEq eNews October 21st, 2015 9 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-21st--2015... I.C.A.O. Once Upon A Time Book Fair Saturday, November 14, 12:00 p.m. - 4 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma will be holding the Once Upon A Time Book Fair for the children of Tulsa. The Court would like this event to spark a desire in our children to read more. With the companion of a Stuffed Best Friend to Cuddle Up with all while they let their imaginations get lost in a book. During the fair there will be one or more local authors to read to the children, then allow them to enjoy a craft that goes along with the book, followed by a healthy snack and a trip to the Tulsa Library Bus to sign up for their own library card and end the day by receiving a book and reading buddy to take home to help encourage them to read more. .,,. Plctll'8$ Read11g Buddies To All Chillten WithYDII" Favorite Characters ~IL, Nov. 14th Noon~to 4 Pm ,pl t. Location: Oklahomans For Equality 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, Ok The Court would like to reach out to our local organizations, establishments, community leaders, and non-profit groups and ask them to come together as one and help make this event a successful one. If you are interested in helping the Court achieve its goals or have any questions, please feel free to contact Jinnie Horta at drunkenbaker77@gmail.com or Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org. Oklahoma Marriage Equality - First Year Anniversary Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org g E UALITY Q!Busmess Alliance EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point 4/23/26, 5:12 PM �OkEq eNews October 21st, 2015 10 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-21st--2015... It's Your Center - It's Your Day Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OkEq is offering our donors the opportunity to sponsor the organization for a day or even a complete week. When you choose to sponsor OkEq for a day, we will honor you or the person you designate by featuring our sponsor on our website for the day, with a presentation board greeting visitors in the front lobby on the day/week designated, by listing the honoree in our weekly eNews, and a special posting on our OkEq Facebook page. Sponsors can select a day in honor of their birthday or to celebrate an anniversary date or in memory of an individual, or whatever day means the most to you. Find out more information here. Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. "Hedwig and the Angry Inch" October 23 - November 1 Liddy Doenges Theatre, Tulsa Performing Arts Center 110 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103 The cult classic, rock musical smash! East German rock goddess Hedwig Schmidt suffers a botched operation and tells the tale with a performance that is part rock concert, part standup comedy - and all fabulous! Written by John Cameron Mitchell Music and lyrics by Stephen Trask Tickets can be purchased here. Use the promotional code OKEQHEDWIG to get 25% off opening weekend performances (Oct 23-25). Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 5:12 PM �OkEq eNews October 21st, 2015 11 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-21st--2015... 2016 Call for Exhibition Proposals Deadline for Proposals: November 15, 2015 The OkEq Art Gallery at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Tulsa, Oklahoma, is now accepting proposals for the 2016 Exhibition Calendar. Each chosen exhibit will be on display for approximately 30 days. Our gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a few paragraphs about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 .jpg images which represent your current work. All proposals must be submitted online. Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable. While we continue to have a 'no repeat' policy, previous artists may serve as the curator for a group showing. The group showing must have at least three additional people who have not shown in the Gallery before. The returning artist (curator) may have work on exhibit in proportion to the other artists represented in the exhibit. Amy Howe Administrative Assistant Amy.Howe@OkEq.org Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org Please let us know if your idea for an exhibit will require months to prepare or if you have calendar restrictions. We would also like to know if you would be ready to go quickly, as the early months in the year are sometimes hard to fill. OkEq hosts an opening night reception for the artist(s) on the first Thursday of the month. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at the close of the opening night. The deadline for submissions is November 15, 2015. Notifications will be sent out by December 1, 2015. Tracy Allen Volunteer Coordinator Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org Please submit by email to alliejensen@cox.net, with the subject heading "OkEq Gallery Proposal". LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. 4/23/26, 5:12 PM �OkEq eNews October 21st, 2015 12 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-21st--2015... healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Healthca re Bi IIOf Ri ghts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org ---- Click here to purchase your pendant today! Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Dare...ToTry Bisexuality" By Pierre Des Esseintes 4/23/26, 5:12 PM �OkEq eNews October 21st, 2015 13 of 13 Encompassing clinical studies and social perspectives, this book is a comprehensive resource for the bi-curious as well as highly experienced bisexuals. It explores various beliefs about bisexuality - it's a temporary condition, all bisexuals are homosexuals in denial, and others - and breaks down the orientation into eight specific categories. Self-tests, advice for couples, and places to meet bisexuals are also included in this supportive, nonjudgmental guide. https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-21st--2015... PIERRE DES ESSEI TES are... o r) Bi e Ji Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. r---------------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I ~---------------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 5:12 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/efc7ea6947f76b6644c8e307f2b4dab5.pdf 57e61e4e33f0d059476e95922a68a8fc PDF Text Text OkEq eNews October 28th, 2015 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-28th--2015... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews October 28th, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor OkEq Zombie House Guy's Dine Too "First Thursday" Art Exhibit The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders Monday-Wednesday and Friday 7:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Thursday 7:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m. Closed Saturday and Sunday Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders is Tulsa's oldest and finest shoe repair shop featuring shoe repair and cowboy and western boot repair. We also provide premium maker and repair service for high end leather goods, bags, purses and various other items including custom work. Healthcare Utilization Study Veteran's Day Luncheon DREAM Act Oklahoma-Tulsa House Warming Potluck Heath & Wellness Fair EBA Mixer Come Home for Thanksgiving HIV/AIDS: Where are we now? Like us on Facebook or visit our website here. ~~I>,,. _ Lawyer in the Library Herland Fall Retreat TULSA SHOE REBUILDERS 918.584.6062 I.C.A.O. Military Ball and USO Show 5455-C SOUTH MINGO RD • TULSA, OK 74146 Once Upon A Time Book Fair SHOE - BOOT - LEATHER REPAIR Robbie Dee Ewen's First Book Signing Exhibition Proposals It's Your Center - It's Your Day OkEq Zombie House October 29-31, 6:00 p.m. - 11:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center "Hedwigand Inch" -the - Angry --LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Pride Store Rainbow Library 11 Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 5:13 PM �OkEq eNews October 28th, 2015 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-28th--2015... OkEq Zombie House is back and even more terrifying than last year. We will have 18,000 feet of pure terror! There are zombies in Tulsa and they have infested the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Escape the Zombies on October 29th, 30th and 31st, 2015. These are real flesh eating zombies being housed in complete and total darkness in downtown Tulsa. The worst part is there is only one way out, and it's your mission to find the exit and survive this zombie apocalypse. Tickets can be purchased here for $10.00 online. Tickets are $12.00 at the door. Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq Oklahomans for Equality has a new Cub Scout Pack. The meetings with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts are held on Sundays at 4:00 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, October 15th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. Guy's Dine Too November 3, 6:30 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Jamil's, 3823 E. 51st St, Tulsa OK 74135 OkEq Art Exhibit The October exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center feature works by A.K. Westerman. 4/23/26, 5:13 PM �OkEq eNews October 28th, 2015 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-28th--2015... The next dinner for Guy's Dine Too will be held at Jamil's. To RSVP, please contact Richard Haley at guysdinetoo@gmail.com. "First Thursday" Art Exhibit Thursday, November 5, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Art Gallery, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 The October Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists will feature the works of May Yang and Jason Lockhart in a combined show beginning with a reception on Thursday, November 5th from 6:00 p.m. -9:00 p.m. and continuing throughout the month. May Yang is a Tulsa based artist, printer and designer. She works with printmaking and mixed media techniques to produce work that processes the information overload common in our digital age. Jason Lockhart's work is eclectic; he says: "Inspiration finds me from no specific source. Things just seem to pop out of the background noise of everyday life, so I take those things and arrange them in interesting compositions. Primarily I've been working with acrylics and generally am finding my 'worlds' consisting of fonts, buildings, and strange pushes-andpulls." Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 5:13 PM �OkEq eNews October 28th, 2015 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-28th--2015... Counseling Services Lawyer in the Library November 11, 5:30 p.m.-6:30 p.m. Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org ---- Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/ tenant, estate planning and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. LEGAL AID SERVICES t ~ OF OKLAHOMA, INC. = Making Equal Justice for All a Reality For more information, please contact Mia Leighty at 918-574-2931 or Amy Howe at 918-743-4297. Healthcare Utilization Study HEALTHCARE UTILIZATION ST Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org ----- Those of us at the Sexual Health Research Lab at Oklahoma State University are conducting a study on LGBT Healthcare Utilization and we are needing to recruit LGBT individuals living in Oklahoma to participate. If you visit the following link here, you can take a brief pre-screening measure to see if you qualify for the study. If you do, upon completion of the study you will receive a $10 e-card from Amazon. All information collected is confidential and anonymous. All study measures have been approved by the IRB for Oklahoma State University. Counseling Services Weekdays 4/23/26, 5:13 PM �OkEq eNews October 28th, 2015 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-28th--2015... Veteran's Day Luncheon Thursday, November 11, 11:30 a.m. - 1:00 p.m. Event Center, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org - - - SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Our Equality Business Alliance will be hosting a free Veteran's Day Luncheon. Food and entertainment will be provided. Please join us and bring your favorite veteran to this special event. Space is limited. Please RSVP for the Veteran's Day Luncheon to Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org. DREAM Act Oklahoma-Tulsa House Warming Potluck Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Friday, November 13, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 DREAM Act Oklahoma-Tulsa wants to invite you to our house-warming party. Oklahomans for Equality have been kind enough to open the doors for us and let us hold our meetings there. We will meet every 2nd and 4th Friday of the month (except when it's on a holiday weekend). DREAM Act Oklahoma-Tulsa is a community based organization that aims to support the local immigrant community to create social change through SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" 4/23/26, 5:13 PM �OkEq eNews October 28th, 2015 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-28th--2015... advocacy and education. We will have a few snacks and have a chance to introduce ourselves to everyone in attendance. We will also be discussing future plans, both short and long term. SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual E< Transgender Elders Health & Wellness Fair November 15, 12:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 The Equality Center will be hosting a health and wellness fair for the LGBT community. Free screenings will be provided to all and goodies will be available. Join us! FREE FLU SHOTS WILL BE AVAILABLE! HEALTHL WELLNESS FAIR For more information, contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org. Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. EBA Mixer November 18, 6:00-8:00 p.m. The Garden Trug, 3009 E. 101st St., Tulsa, OK 74137 E UALITY Business Alliance The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send a email to eba@okeq.org for more information. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 4/23/26, 5:13 PM �OkEq eNews October 28th, 2015 7 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-28th--2015... The October EBA mixer will be hosted by The Garden Trug. Get F.I.T. Come Home for Thanksgiving Thursday, November 26, 12:00 p.m. Event Center, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. $5 per session. Yoga by Zach :>j;Eake ACla~~t::<:: EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 $5.00 per Session OkEq invites you to join us on Thanksgiving Day for a FREE community meal at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Please confirm your attendance by contacting Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org or by calling 918-743-4297. Free Your Mind Ecstatic Dance Local affirming and inclusive congregations and OkEq provide a wonderful meal every year. The meal will be served at 12:00 p.m. Lunch will be provided by: Unity Church of Christianity Parish Church of Saint Jerome Bethany Christian Church College Hill Presbyterian Church Fellowship Lutheran Church All Souls Unitarian Church St. Paul's United Methodist Diversity Christian Fellowship International Eastside Christian Church University United Methodist Church 4/23/26, 5:13 PM �OkEq eNews October 28th, 2015 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-28th--2015... Gordon George will be providing turkeys for the community meal. HIV/AIDS: Where are we now? Thursday, October 29, 6:00 p.m. Chapman Lecture Hall, 2830 E. 5th St, Tulsa, OK 74104 EEi ,:: lfJ ,_ OCTOBER 29: FILM NIGHT-LGBT HEALTH & THE AIDS CRISIS With Guest Speaker Shannon Hall and Jim Scholl from Tulsa CARES A film night will be hosted by the TU Women's and Gender Studies Department. FREE HIV testing will begin at 6:00 p.m. in Chapman Hall. Starting at 7:00 p.m., clips from the award winning films "How to Survive a Plague" and "Unwrapping Truvada" will be shown followed by a discussion on HIV/AIDS with guest speakers Shannon Hall and Jim Scholl from Tulsa C.A.R.E.S. Pizza and snacks will be provided. Chapman Lecture Hall 6:oo P.M. film clip• and diHuulon to follow at , P.M. Herland Fall Retreat 2015 Friday-Sunday, November 6-8 Lake Eufaula State Park, Hwy 69 & Hwy 150, Checotah, OK 74426 Herland Sister Resources is sponsoring an all women's retreat at the beautiful Lake Eufaula State Park. 3 Shades of Gray will provide entertainment on Saturday evening. Meals will be provided. There will also be a spoken word poetry workshop, arts and crafts, as well as a drumming circle. Every 4th Sunday of the Month 1:00 p.m. Wellness Room $5.00 per Session Free Your Mind Ecstatic Dance is a moving meditation practice based on the rhythms of life dynamic music by SRhythms teacher and DJ Eugene Hedlund play in the subtle realms of joy and freedom. We dance freely as the music moves us - there are no steps to learn! No dance experience is required. Be sure to wear comfortable clothing. For more information, contact Mia Pearl at openheartspace9@gmail.com or Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. For more information or to register, click here. 4/23/26, 5:13 PM �OkEq eNews October 28th, 2015 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-28th--2015... I.C.A.O. Military Ball and USO Show Saturday, November 7, 8:00 p.m. - 10:00 p.m. Tulsa Eagle, 1338 E 3rd St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Join the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma along with ICP's Keri Jo Allan, Aaron Deal & George McCauslan for the Annual Military Ball and USO Show. Every Friday 7 p.m. Nevermore Edits Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. No cover, 21+ only. All active military and veterans are welcome. Dontations made with benefit a local military organization (TBA) & The I.C.A.O. Operational Fund. Donations can also be made on the I.C.A.O. website donation page - www.impcourtok.org. I.C.A.O. Once Upon A Time Book Fair Saturday, November 14, 12:00 p.m. - 4 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma will be holding the Once Upon A Time Book Fair for the children of Tulsa. The Court would like this event to spark a desire in our children to read more. With the companion of a Stuffed Best Friend to Cuddle Up with all while they let their imaginations get lost in a book. During the fair there will be one or more local authors to read to the children, then allow them to enjoy a craft that goes along with the book, followed by a healthy snack and a trip to the Tulsa Library Bus to sign up for their own library card and end the day by receiving a book and reading buddy to take home to help encourage them to read more. Lambda Al-Anon Group Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Location: Oklahomans For Equality 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, Ok The Court would like to reach out to our local organizations, Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by 4/23/26, 5:13 PM �OkEq eNews October 28th, 2015 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-28th--2015... establishments, community leaders, and non-profit groups and ask them to come together as one and help make this event a successful one. Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno If you are interested in helping the Court achieve its goals or have any questions, please feel free to contact Jinnie Horta at drunkenbaker77@gmail.com or Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org. Robbie Dee Ewen's First Book Signing Saturday, November 21, 2:00 p.m. - 3:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org - - - - - - - - - Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Ms. Robbie Dee's new book "At Last! Free to be Me" has just been published. Courtesy of Oklahomans for Equality, they are kindly hosting a performance, reading and signing event. Awarded the Hero of Oklahoma and the Silver Medal from the United States Coast Guard, concert violinist Robbie Dee Ewens will be performing a few select pieces as a preclude to introducing her new book. This is an exciting time for transgender awareness throughout the country and Robbie's book is yet another true testimony and a new resource for the community. Do you know anyone who is transgender? Are you gender indifferent? What about being a Christian and wondering what God has to say about it? Or are you having issues with Christian folk who need educating? Then this is the book to read. Come along, enjoy the music, meet Robbie Dee and ask as many questions as you want. 2016 Call for Exhibition Proposals Deadline for Proposals: November 15, 2015 The OkEq Art Gallery at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Tulsa, Oklahoma, is now accepting proposals for the 2016 Exhibition Calendar. Each chosen exhibit will be on display for approximately 30 days. Our gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. 4/23/26, 5:13 PM �OkEq eNews October 28th, 2015 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-28th--2015... challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a few paragraphs about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 .jpg images which represent your current work. All proposals must be submitted online. Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable. While we continue to have a 'no repeat' policy, previous artists may serve as the curator for a group showing. The group showing must have at least three additional people who have not shown in the Gallery before. The returning artist (curator) may have work on exhibit in proportion to the other artists represented in the exhibit. Please let us know if your idea for an exhibit will require months to prepare or if you have calendar restrictions. We would also like to know if you would be ready to go quickly, as the early months in the year are sometimes hard to fill. OkEq hosts an opening night reception for the artist(s) on the first Thursday of the month. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at the close of the opening night. The deadline for submissions is November 15, 2015. Notifications will be sent out by December 1, 2015. Please submit by email to alliejensen@cox.net, with the subject heading "OkEq Gallery Proposal". It's Your Center - It's Your Day Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. OkEq is offering our donors the opportunity to sponsor the organization for a day or even a complete week. When you choose to sponsor OkEq for a day, we will honor you or the person you designate by featuring our sponsor on our website for the day, with a presentation board greeting visitors in the front lobby on the day/week designated, by listing the honoree in our weekly eNews, and a special posting on our OkEq Facebook page. Sponsors can select a day in honor of their birthday or to celebrate an anniversary date or in memory of an individual, or whatever day means the most to you. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Find out more information here. 4/23/26, 5:13 PM �OkEq eNews October 28th, 2015 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-28th--2015... "Hedwig and the Angry Inch" Through November 1 Liddy Doenges Theatre, Tulsa Performing Arts Center 110 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103 Amy Howe Administrative Assistant Amy.Howe@OkEq.org The cult classic, rock musical smash! East German rock goddess Hedwig Schmidt suffers a botched operation and tells the tale with a performance that is part rock concert, part standup comedy - and all fabulous! Written by John Cameron Mitchell Music and lyrics by Stephen Trask Tickets can be purchased here. Use the promotional code OKEQHEDWIG to get 25% off opening weekend performances (Oct 23-25). Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org - - - --- LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Tracy Allen Volunteer Coordinator Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org Hea Ith ca re Bi I !Of Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. Equality Center Pride Store 4/23/26, 5:13 PM �OkEq eNews October 28th, 2015 13 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-28th--2015... These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Click here to purchase your pendant today! Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Gender Outlaw: On Men, Women, and the Rest of Us" By Kate Bornstein Part coming-of-age story, part mind-altering manifesto on gender and sexuality, coming directly to you from the life experiences of a transsexual woman, Gender Outlaw breaks all the rules and leaves the reader forever changed.26 black-and-white illustrations. " t" "" - - - - ·u i: • "••nt.•t.• ••••••••• •c:•-•-=• "'•t.n·•c•. •a.TC ··•-T"C •-" -· , . ·--- " · alNCClltl' . t.VC I . . . . . . ·••cT1••· Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. 4/23/26, 5:13 PM �OkEq eNews October 28th, 2015 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-28th--2015... l"ATE ICUltlSTEII r--------------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L--------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 5:13 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/63c18a2bdcbadd2dd89953dae4e3d63e.pdf 6b22bff3baa6b0d7aa16e0b83856d56d PDF Text Text OkEq eNews November 4th, 2015 1 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-4th--201... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews November 4th, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor "First Thursday" Art Exhibit Exhibition Proposals Lawyer in the Library The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders Monday-Wednesday and Friday 7:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Thursday 7:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m. Closed Saturday and Sunday Healthcare Utilization Study Veteran's Day Luncheon DREAM Act Oklahoma-Tulsa House Warming Potluck Heath & Wellness Fair Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders is Tulsa's oldest and finest shoe repair shop featuring shoe repair and cowboy and western boot repair. We also provide premium maker and repair service for high end leather goods, bags, purses and various other items including custom work. EBA Mixer Come Home for Thanksgiving Council Oak Men's Chorale Like us on Facebook or visit our website here. ~~I>,,. _ Transgender Awareness Week Fairy Tree TULSA SHOE REBUILDERS 918.584.6062 2015 Falalala Ball 5455-C SOUTH MINGO RD • TULSA, OK 74146 ACA Open Enrollment Assistance SHOE - BOOT - LEATHER REPAIR Herland Fall Retreat I.C.A.O. Military Ball and USO Show Once Upon A Time Book Fair "First Thursday" Art Exhibit Thursday, November 5, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Art Gallery, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Robbie Dee Ewen's First Book Signing It's Your Center - It's Your Day LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Pride Store Rainbow Library 11 Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 5:15 PM �OkEq eNews November 4th, 2015 2 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-4th--201... Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq The October Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists will feature the works of May Yang and Jason Lockhart in a combined show beginning with a reception on Thursday, November 5th from 6:00 p.m. -9:00 p.m. and continuing throughout the month. May Yang is a Tulsa based artist, printer and designer. She works with printmaking and mixed media techniques to produce work that processes the information overload common in our digital age. Oklahomans for Equality has a new Cub Scout Pack. The meetings with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts are held on Sundays at 4:00 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Jason Lockhart's work is eclectic; he says: "Inspiration finds me from no specific source. Things just seem to pop out of the background noise of everyday life, so I take those things and arrange them in interesting compositions. Primarily I've been working with acrylics and generally am finding my 'worlds' consisting of fonts, buildings, and strange pushes-andpulls." OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, November 19th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. 2016 Call for Exhibition Proposals OkEq Art Exhibit Deadline for Proposals: November 15, 2015 The OkEq Art Gallery at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Tulsa, Oklahoma, is now accepting proposals for the 2016 Exhibition Calendar. Each chosen exhibit will be on display for The November exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center feature works by May Fang & Jason Lochhart. 4/23/26, 5:15 PM �OkEq eNews November 4th, 2015 3 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-4th--201... approximately 30 days. Our gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a few paragraphs about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 .jpg images which represent your current work. All proposals must be submitted online. Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable. While we continue to have a 'no repeat' policy, previous artists may serve as the curator for a group showing. The group showing must have at least three additional people who have not shown in the Gallery before. The returning artist (curator) may have work on exhibit in proportion to the other artists represented in the exhibit. Please let us know if your idea for an exhibit will require months to prepare or if you have calendar restrictions. We would also like to know if you would be ready to go quickly, as the early months in the year are sometimes hard to fill. OkEq hosts an opening night reception for the artist(s) on the first Thursday of the month. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at the close of the opening night. The deadline for submissions is November 15, 2015. Notifications will be sent out by December 1, 2015. Please submit by email to alliejensen@cox.net, - - - - with the subject heading "OkEq Gallery Proposal". Lawyer in the Library November 11, 5:30 p.m.-6:30 p.m. Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Lawyer in the Library is an opportunity to meet with a lawyer about topics such as family law (divorce, paternity, custody, child support), landlord/ tenant, estate planning and bankruptcy. No appointment is necessary. LEGAL AID SERVICES t ~ OF OKLAHOMA, INC. = Making Equal Justice for All a Reality For more information, please contact Mia Leighty at 918-574-2931 or Amy Howe at 918-743-4297. Counseling Services Healthcare Utilization Study HEALTHCARE UTILIZATION ST Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 5:15 PM �OkEq eNews November 4th, 2015 4 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-4th--201... Those of us at the Sexual Health Research Lab at Oklahoma State University are conducting a study on LGBT Healthcare Utilization and we are needing to recruit LGBT individuals living in Oklahoma to participate. If you visit the following link here, you can take a brief pre-screening measure to see if you qualify for the study. If you do, upon completion of the study you will receive a $10 e-card from Amazon. All information collected is confidential and anonymous. All study measures have been approved by the IRB for Oklahoma State University. Veteran's Day Luncheon Thursday, November 11, 11:30 a.m. - 1:00 p.m. Event Center, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Counseling Services Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org - - - Counseling Services Our Equality Business Alliance will be hosting a free Veteran's Day Luncheon. Food and entertainment will be provided. Please join us and bring your favorite veteran to this special event. Space is limited. Please RSVP for the Veteran's Day Luncheon to Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org. DREAM Act Oklahoma-Tulsa House Warming Potluck Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org - - - Friday, November 13, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Counseling Services Weekdays 4/23/26, 5:15 PM �OkEq eNews November 4th, 2015 5 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-4th--201... By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org - - - SOS Group DREAM Act Oklahoma-Tulsa wants to invite you to our house-warming party and potluck. Oklahomans for Equality have been kind enough to open the doors for us and let us hold our meetings there. We will meet every 2nd and 4th Friday of the month (except when it's on a holiday weekend). Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org DREAM Act Oklahoma-Tulsa is a community based organization that aims to support the local immigrant community to create social change through advocacy and education. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop We will have a few snacks and have a chance to introduce ourselves to everyone in attendance. We will also be discussing future plans, both short and long term. 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Health & Wellness Fair November 15, 12:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 The Equality Center will be hosting a health and wellness fair for the community. Free screenings will be provided to all and health classes will start at 12:00 p.m. Join us! FREE FLU SHOTS WILL BE AVAILABLE! HEALTHL WELLNESS FAIR HIV, Syphilis, and Hep C tests will be provided. SAGE Tulsa • Medical screenings • Eye exams • ACA Information For more information, contact Jose Vega at (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" 4/23/26, 5:15 PM �OkEq eNews November 4th, 2015 6 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-4th--201... jose.vega@okeq.org. Transgender Awareness Week November 15-20, 2015 Join us for Transgender Awareness Week at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center with the following events: SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual E< Transgender Elders Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Celebrate Transgender Awareness Week at OkEq's Talent Night on November 18th, featuring members of our Gender Outreach Program. We will be serving cocktails and snacks at 6:30 p.m. Event begins at 7:00 p.m. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. If you would like to participate in the Talent Night, please email Sharon Queen at sharon.queen@okeq.org to register. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 4/23/26, 5:15 PM �OkEq eNews November 4th, 2015 7 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-4th--201... Get F.I.T. Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. $5 per session. Gather at Oklahomans for Equality on November 20th to remember these transgender individuals who have lost their lives to senseless hate, violence and suicide. Event will begin at 7:00 p.m. Yoga by Zach :>j;Eake ACla~~t::<:: EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 $5.00 per Session For this week, we will be remembering and celebrating our transgender brothers and sisters through their transitions, as well as supporting them through their journey to their true selves. Please join us. Please contact Sharon Queen at sharon.queen@okeq.org for more information. Free Your Mind Ecstatic Dance EBA Mixer November 18, 6:00-8:00 p.m. The Garden Trug, 3009 E. 101st St., Tulsa, OK 74137 4/23/26, 5:15 PM �OkEq eNews November 4th, 2015 8 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-4th--201... E UALITY Business Alliance The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send a email to eba@okeq.org for more information. The October EBA mixer will be hosted by The Garden Trug. Come Home for Thanksgiving Every 4th Sunday of the Month 1:00 p.m. Wellness Room $5.00 per Session Free Your Mind Ecstatic Dance is a moving meditation practice based on the rhythms of life dynamic music by SRhythms teacher and DJ Eugene Hedlund play in the subtle realms of joy and freedom. We dance freely as the music moves us - there are no steps to learn! No dance experience is required. Be sure to wear comfortable clothing. Thursday, November 26, 12:00 p.m. Event Center, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 For more information, contact Mia Pearl at openheartspace9@gmail.com or Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org. Gender Outreach OkEq invites you to join us on Thanksgiving Day for a FREE community meal at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before 4/23/26, 5:15 PM �OkEq eNews November 4th, 2015 9 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-4th--201... Please confirm your attendance by contacting Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org or by calling 918-743-4297. Local affirming and inclusive congregations and OkEq provide a wonderful meal every year. The meal will be served at 12:00 p.m. Lunch will be provided by: Unity Church of Christianity Parish Church of Saint Jerome Bethany Christian Church College Hill Presbyterian Church Fellowship Lutheran Church All Souls Unitarian Church St. Paul's United Methodist Diversity Christian Fellowship International Eastside Christian Church University United Methodist Church Gordon George will be providing turkeys for the community meal. Council Oak Men's Chorale Thurday, December 3 Friday, December 4 Tuesday, December 8 501 S. Cincinnati Ave, 8:00 p.m. attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Nevermore Edits Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm (J)ecem6er 3'~ ~Ii &stli <Trinity P.piscopaCCnurcn - 8:00pm 501 S. Cincinnati.ft:ve - <TuCsa, Ok, The Council Oak Men's Chorale will be presenting their annual holiday concert in three upcoming performances . The concert, entitled "Echoes of December", will feature a number of traditional holiday numbers, such as "I Wonder as I Wander" , "Masters in this Hall" , and "God Rest You Merry Gentlemen" , along with more contemporary fare, including "It's the Most Wonderful Time of the Year" , "Little Saint Nick" , and more. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Tickets are $20 and may be purchased through www.counciloak.org , or at the door. Early Special Ticket price before November 15 is "Buy 2 tickets for the price of 1". So hurry and get your tickets! For more information, please contact Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org Game Night 4/23/26, 5:15 PM �OkEq eNews November 4th, 2015 10 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-4th--201... Tulsa C.A.R.E.S. Fairy Tree Purchased gifts must be returned by December 14, 2015 The Fairy Tree is back and ready for you to stop by the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to select a recipient in need. We adopt the clients of Tulsa CARES that are in need of clothing and other items. The suggested gift items are listed for your shopping convenience. Tulsa CARES provides social services to individuals affected by HIV/AIDS. Help us support those in our community that are struggling to survive. Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno For more information, please contact Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org. 8th Annual Falalala Ball Presents: HOLLA - T.H.E.Y. December 19, 7:00 p.m. - 11:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 ttolla-T. H. E.Y. Thri '{'1ndrogynous Gostumri Sall Don your androgynous apparel and join us for the 8th annual Falalala Ball! This year's theme is An Androgynous Costume Ball. Please pull out your androgynous holiday dress and business casual. Acceptable admission is any of the following: Can goods and toiletries for St Jerome Parish Pantry Can goods for Diversity Christian Food Pantry Pet Food for A Friend for a Friend Toys for Women in Recovery Runway Fashion Show featuring THEY clothing Cash Bar Live Bands Lite Hor d'oeuvres Raffle Prizes Child Care Provided For more information, please contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org. ACA Open Enrollment Assistance Ends January 31, 2016 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org - - - - - - - Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers 4/23/26, 5:15 PM �OkEq eNews November 4th, 2015 11 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-4th--201... Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? and community. Contact The Insurance Crew! Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Dirk Hunter and Shane Allbee are insurance experts and they are more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the ACA. Dirk and Shane will be hosting informational meetings on: November 16, 5:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. November 17, 3:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m. November 18 , 5:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. December 8, 12:00 p.m. - 3:00 p.m. December 9, 5:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. OR i the HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Call them today at 918-794-0777. Dirk Hunter: dirk@theinsurancecrew.com Shane Allbee: shane@theinsurancecrew.com crew Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. crew 420 S. Main St, Suite 205 Tulsa, OK 74103 Herland Fall Retreat 2015 Friday-Sunday, November 6-8 Lake Eufaula State Park, Hwy 69 & Hwy 150, Checotah, OK 74426 MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Herland Sister Resources is sponsoring an all women's retreat at the beautiful Lake Eufaula State Park. 3 Shades of Gray will provide 4/23/26, 5:15 PM �OkEq eNews November 4th, 2015 12 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-4th--201... entertainment on Saturday evening. Meals will be provided. There will also be a spoken word poetry workshop, arts and crafts, as well as a drumming circle. For more information or to register, click here. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org I.C.A.O. Military Ball and USO Show Saturday, November 7, 8:00 p.m. - 10:00 p.m. Tulsa Eagle, 1338 E 3rd St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Join the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma along with ICP's Keri Jo Allan, Aaron Deal & George McCauslan for the Annual Military Ball and USO Show. No cover, 21+ only. All active military and veterans are welcome. Amy Howe Administrative Assistant Amy.Howe@OkEq.org Dontations made with benefit a local military organization (TBA) & The I.C.A.O. Operational Fund. Donations can also be made on the I.C.A.O. website donation page - www.impcourtok.org. I.C.A.O. Once Upon A Time Book Fair Saturday, November 14, 12:00 p.m. - 4 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma will be holding the Once Upon A Time Book Fair for the children of Tulsa. The Court would like this event to spark a desire in our children to read more. With the companion of a Stuffed Best Friend to Cuddle Up with all while they let their imaginations get lost in a book. Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org I - r''i,!.f·.C;_ ~ ~ J <J Nov. 14th Noon to 4 Pm r , Location: Oklahomans For Equality - -- ~,~ 'l~ C .+h C.+ l'.111- nt,_ _ __ 4/23/26, 5:15 PM �OkEq eNews November 4th, 2015 13 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-4th--201... During the fair there will be one or more local authors to read to the children, then allow them to enjoy a craft that goes along with the book, followed by a healthy snack and a trip to the Tulsa Library Bus to sign up for their own library card and end the day by receiving a book and reading buddy to take home to help encourage them to read more. The Court would like to reach out to our local organizations, establishments, community leaders, and non-profit groups and ask them to come together as one and help make this event a successful one. Tracy Allen Volunteer Coordinator Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org If you are interested in helping the Court achieve its goals or have any questions, please feel free to contact Jinnie Horta at drunkenbaker77@gmail.com or Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org. Robbie Dee Ewen's First Book Signing Saturday, November 21, 2:00 p.m. - 3:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Ms. Robbie Dee's new book "At Last! Free to be Me" has just been published. Courtesy of Oklahomans for Equality, they are kindly hosting a performance, reading and signing event. Awarded the Hero of Oklahoma and the Silver Medal from the United States Coast Guard, concert violinist Robbie Dee Ewens will be performing a few select pieces as a preclude to introducing her new book. This is an exciting time for transgender awareness throughout the country and Robbie's book is yet another true testimony and a new resource for the community. Do you know anyone who is transgender? Are you gender indifferent? What about being a Christian and wondering what God has to say about it? Or are you having issues with Christian folk who need educating? Then this is the book to read. Come along, enjoy the music, meet Robbie Dee and ask as many questions as you want. 4/23/26, 5:15 PM �OkEq eNews November 4th, 2015 14 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-4th--201... It's Your Center - It's Your Day OkEq is offering our donors the opportunity to sponsor the organization for a day or even a complete week. When you choose to sponsor OkEq for a day, we will honor you or the person you designate by featuring our sponsor on our website for the day, with a presentation board greeting visitors in the front lobby on the day/week designated, by listing the honoree in our weekly eNews, and a special posting on our OkEq Facebook page. Sponsors can select a day in honor of their birthday or to celebrate an anniversary date or in memory of an individual, or whatever day means the most to you. Find out more information here. LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea Ith ca re Bi I !Of Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. 4/23/26, 5:15 PM �OkEq eNews November 4th, 2015 15 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-4th--201... Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Click here to purchase your pendant today! Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Serving Proudly: A History of Women in the U.S. Navy" By Susan H. Godson As women go to sea and take to the skies in ever-increasing numbers in the modern U. S. Navy, the contributions of those pioneers who led the way loom larger than ever. This is the first scholarly history to cover comprehensively the full spectrum of women in the Navy, including the Navy Nurse Corps, the early Yeoman (F) program, the Waves, and the ultimate integration of women into the operational Navy. 4/23/26, 5:15 PM �OkEq eNews November 4th, 2015 16 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-4th--201... Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. r--------------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L--------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 5:15 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/df51c2bfaa877078ca29d6518477b762.pdf a8212a8c7f107944189d970b17748122 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews November 11th, 2015 1 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-11th--20... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews November 11th, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor In Honor of John Raviell Veteran's Day Luncheon "Second" Thursday Art Exhibit The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders Monday-Wednesday and Friday 7:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Thursday 7:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m. Closed Saturday and Sunday Exhibition Proposals DREAM Act Oklahoma-Tulsa House Warming Potluck Heath & Wellness Fair EBA Mixer Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders is Tulsa's oldest and finest shoe repair shop featuring shoe repair and cowboy and western boot repair. We also provide premium maker and repair service for high end leather goods, bags, purses and various other items including custom work. Fairy Tree Come Home for Thanksgiving Council Oak Men's Chorale Like us on Facebook or visit our website here. ~~I>,,. _ Transgender Awareness Week World AIDS Day 2015 TULSA SHOE REBUILDERS 918.584.6062 2015 Falalala Ball 5455-C SOUTH MINGO RD • TULSA, OK 74146 ACA Open Enrollment Assistance SHOE - BOOT - LEATHER REPAIR Once Upon A Time Book Fair Robbie Dee Ewen's First Book Signing It's Your Center - It's Your Day In Honor of John Raviell Friday, November 6, 2015 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Healthcare Utilization Study Nimrod International Journal LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Pride Store Rainbow Library 11 Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 5:16 PM �OkEq eNews November 11th, 2015 2 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-11th--20... Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq We are honored to have had the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center sponsored in honor of John Raviell for November 6th, 2015. Oklahomans for Equality has a new Cub Scout Pack. The meetings with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts are held on Sundays at 4:00 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. If you are interested in sponsoring the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to honor a loved one, please contact Toby Jenkins at toby.jenkins@okeq.org or click here. Veteran's Day Luncheon Wednesday, November 11, 11:30 a.m. - 1:00 p.m. Event Center, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, November 19th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibit Our Equality Business Alliance will be hosting a free Veteran's Day Luncheon. Food and entertainment will be provided. Please join us and bring your favorite veteran to this special event. Space is limited. Please RSVP for the Veteran's Day Luncheon to Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org. The November exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center feature works by May Fang & Jason Lochhart. 4/23/26, 5:16 PM �OkEq eNews November 11th, 2015 3 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-11th--20... RESCHEDULED: "Second" Thursday Art Exhibit Thursday, November 12, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Art Gallery, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Due to unforeseen circumstances, the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center had to postpone and reschedule our usual First Thursday Art Show. The November Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists will feature the works of May Yang and Jason Lochhart in a combined show beginning with a reception on Thursday, November 12th from 6:00 p.m. -9:00 p.m. and continuing throughout the month. May Yang is a Tulsa based artist, printer and designer. She works with printmaking and mixed media techniques to produce work that processes the information overload common in our digital age. Jason Lochhart's work is eclectic; he says: "Inspiration finds me from no specific source. Things just seem to pop out of the background noise of everyday life, so I take those things and arrange them in interesting compositions. Primarily I've been working with acrylics and generally am finding my 'worlds' consisting of fonts, buildings, and strange pushes-andpulls." Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a 2016 Call for Exhibition Proposals Deadline for Proposals: November 15, 2015 sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 5:16 PM �Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org Counseling Services - Weekdays Counseling Services ' 4 of 17 Friday, November 13, 6:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 DREAM Act Oklahoma-Tulsa House Warming Potluck Please submit by email to alliejensen@cox.net, with the subject heading "OkEq Gallery Proposal". The deadline for submissions is November 15, 2015. Notifications will be sent out by December 1, 2015. OkEq hosts an opening night reception for the artist(s) on the first Thursday of the month. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at the close of the opening night. Please let us know if your idea for an exhibit will require months to prepare or if you have calendar restrictions. We would also like to know if you would be ready to go quickly, as the early months in the year are sometimes hard to fill. While we continue to have a 'no repeat' policy, previous artists may serve as the curator for a group showing. The group showing must have at least three additional people who have not shown in the Gallery before. The returning artist (curator) may have work on exhibit in proportion to the other artists represented in the exhibit. 4/23/26, 5:16 PM Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org Counseling Services https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-11th--20.. The OkEq Art Gallery at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Tulsa, Oklahoma, is now accepting proposals for the 2016 Exhibition Calendar. Each chosen exhibit will be on display for approximately 30 days. Our gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a few paragraphs about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 .jpg images which represent your current work. All proposals must be submitted online. Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable. OkEq eNews November 11th, 2015 1J, :~lJJ .... �OkEq eNews November 11th, 2015 5 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-11th--20... By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org - - - SOS Group DREAM Act Oklahoma-Tulsa wants to invite you to our house-warming party and potluck. Oklahomans for Equality have been kind enough to open the doors for us and let us hold our meetings there. We will meet every 2nd and 4th Friday of the month (except when it's on a holiday weekend). Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org DREAM Act Oklahoma-Tulsa is a community based organization that aims to support the local immigrant community to create social change through advocacy and education. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop We will have a few snacks and have a chance to introduce ourselves to everyone in attendance. We will also be discussing future plans, both short and long term. 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Health & Wellness Fair November 15, 12:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 The Equality Center will be hosting a health and wellness fair for the community. Free screenings will be provided to all and health classes will start at 12:00 p.m. Join us! Free Flu Shots: 12:00 p.m. 4:00 p.m. Medical Exams by Dr. Darci Hazelwood, D.O. 12:00 p.m. - 2:00 p.m. Prostate Exams Breast Exams Testicular Exams Blood Pressure Exams Diabetes Exams BMI Exams ...and much more! Free Testing from 12:00 HEALTHL WELLNESS FAIR SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" 4/23/26, 5:16 PM �OkEq eNews November 11th, 2015 6 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-11th--20... p.m. - 5:00 p.m. for: HIV Syphilis Hepatitis C SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Free Health Classes: HIV and Prep Education 1:30 p.m. - 2:30 p.m. Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual E< Transgender Elders Nutrition Class: 3:00 p.m. - 3:30 p.m. CPR and First Aid Basic Training Class: 3:30 p.m. - 4:30 p.m. Cancer Classes: Prostate Cancer Testicular Cancer Breast Cancer Cervical Cancer 4:30 p.m. - 5:30 p.m. Tulsa Shambhala Meditation For more information, contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org. EBA Mixer Wednesday, November 18, 6:00-8:00 p.m. The Garden Trug, 3009 E. 101st St., Tulsa, OK 74137 E UALITY Business Alliance The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send a email to eba@okeq.org for more information. The October EBA mixer will be hosted by The Garden Trug. Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 4/23/26, 5:16 PM �OkEq eNews November 11th, 2015 7 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-11th--20... Get F.I.T. Transgender Awareness Week November 15-20, 2015 Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. $5 per session. Join us for Transgender Awareness Week at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center with the following events: Yoga by Zach :>j;Eake ACla~~t::<:: EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 $5.00 per Session Celebrate Transgender Awareness Week at OkEq's Talent Night on November 18th, featuring members of our Gender Outreach Program. We will be serving cocktails and snacks at 6:30 p.m. Event begins at 7:00 p.m. Free Your Mind Ecstatic Dance If you would like to participate in the Talent Night, please email Sharon Queen at sharon.queen@okeq.org to register. 4/23/26, 5:16 PM �OkEq eNews November 11th, 2015 8 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-11th--20... Gather at Oklahomans for Equality on November 20th to remember these transgender individuals who have lost their lives to senseless hate, violence and suicide. Event will begin at 7:00 p.m. Every 4th Sunday of the Month 1:00 p.m. Wellness Room $5.00 per Session Free Your Mind Ecstatic Dance is a moving meditation practice based on the rhythms of life dynamic music by SRhythms teacher and DJ Eugene Hedlund play in the subtle realms of joy and freedom. We dance freely as the music moves us - there are no steps to learn! No dance experience is required. Be sure to wear comfortable clothing. For this week, we will be remembering and celebrating our transgender brothers and sisters through their transitions, as well as supporting them through their journey to their true selves. Please join us. Please contact Sharon Queen at sharon.queen@okeq.org for more information. Tulsa C.A.R.E.S. Fairy Tree Purchased gifts must be returned by December 14, 2015 The Fairy Tree is back and ready for you to stop by the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to select a recipient in need. We adopt the clients of Tulsa CARES that are in need of clothing and other items. The suggested gift items are listed for your shopping convenience. Tulsa CARES provides social services to individuals affected by HIV/AIDS. Help us support those in For more information, contact Mia Pearl at openheartspace9@gmail.com or Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before 4/23/26, 5:16 PM �OkEq eNews November 11th, 2015 9 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-11th--20... our community that are struggling to survive. For more information, please contact Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org. attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Come Home for Thanksgiving Every Friday 7 p.m. Thursday, November 26, 12:00 p.m. Event Center, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Nevermore Edits Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. OkEq invites you to join us on Thanksgiving Day for a FREE community meal at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Please confirm your attendance by contacting Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org or by calling 918-743-4297. Local affirming and inclusive congregations and OkEq provide a wonderful meal every year. The meal will be served at 12:00 p.m. Lunch will be provided by: Unity Church of Christianity Parish Church of Saint Jerome Bethany Christian Church College Hill Presbyterian Church Fellowship Lutheran Church All Souls Unitarian Church St. Paul's United Methodist Diversity Christian Fellowship International Eastside Christian Church University United Methodist Church Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Gordon George will be providing turkeys for the community meal. Council Oak Men's Chorale Thurday, December 3 Game Night 4/23/26, 5:16 PM �OkEq eNews November 11th, 2015 10 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-11th--20... Friday, December 4 Tuesday, December 8 501 S. Cincinnati Ave, 8:00 p.m. Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno ~ (J)ecem6er 3'~ ~Ii &stli <Trinity P.piscopaCCliurcli- 8:00pm 501 S. Cincinna.ti}l:ve - <TuCsa, Ok, The Council Oak Men's Chorale will be presenting their annual holiday concert in three upcoming performances . The concert, entitled "Echoes of December", will feature a number of traditional holiday numbers, such as "I Wonder as I Wander" , "Masters in this Hall" , and "God Rest You Merry Gentlemen" , along with more contemporary fare, including "It's the Most Wonderful Time of the Year" , "Little Saint Nick" , and more. Tickets are $20 and may be purchased through www.counciloak.org , or at the door. Early Special Ticket price before November 15 is "Buy 2 tickets for the price of 1". So hurry and get your tickets! For more information, please contact Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org - - - - - - - - Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. World AIDS Day 2015 December 1, 2015 World AIDS Day is held on the 1st of December each year and is an opportunity for people worldwide to unite in the fight against HIV and AIDS, show their support for people living with HIV and to commemorate those who we have lost to the virus. Globally, an estimated 34 million people have HIV. More than 35 million people have died from the virus, making it one of the most destructive pandemics in history. Today, many scientific advances have been made in HIV/AIDS treatment, there are laws to protect people living with the virus and we now understand so much more about the condition. However, despite this, many do not know the facts about how to protect themselves and others Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers 4/23/26, 5:16 PM �OkEq eNews November 11th, 2015 11 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-11th--20... from HIV, and stigma and discrimination remain a reality for many people living with HIV. World AIDS Day is important as it reminds the public that HIV has not gone away - there is still a vital need to raise money, increase awareness, fight prejudice and improve education. and community. 2016 Award Recipients: Now Accepting Nominations Oklahomans for Equality is now accepting nominations for 2016 award recipients. These individuals or organizations and companies have advocated for full equality for LGBTQ people and shown courage and compassion. Community Hero Award Carolyn Wagner Youth Leadership Award Russell Bennett Spiritual Inclusion Award Tulsa Pride Grand Marshal Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. Contact Toby Jenkins at toby.jenkins@okeq.org with your nominations. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 8th Annual Falalala Ball Presents: HOLLA - T.H.E.Y. December 19, 7:00 p.m. - 11:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 ttolla-T. H. E.Y. Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Thfl. ,rqndrogynom; C'o£tumfl, Sall MISSION: Don your androgynous apparel and join us for the 8th annual Falalala Ball! This year's theme is An Androgynous Costume Ball. Please pull out your androgynous holiday dress and business casual. Acceptable admission is any of the following: Can goods and toiletries for St Jerome Parish Pantry Can goods for Diversity Christian Food Pantry Pet Food for A Friend for a Friend Toys for Women in Recovery Runway Fashion Show featuring THEY clothing Cash Bar Live Bands Lite Hor d'oeuvres Raffle Prizes Child Care Provided Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, please contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org. 4/23/26, 5:16 PM �OkEq eNews November 11th, 2015 12 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-11th--20... ACA Open Enrollment Assistance Ends January 31, 2016 Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Contact The Insurance Crew! Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Dirk Hunter and Shane Allbee are insurance experts and they are more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the ACA. Dirk and Shane will be hosting informational meetings on: November 16, 5:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. November 17, 3:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m. November 18, 1:00 p.m. - 3:00 p.m. December 8, 12:00 p.m. - 3:00 p.m. December 9, 5:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. OR Amy Howe Administrative Assistant Amy.Howe@OkEq.org Call them today at 918-794-0777. Dirk Hunter: dirk@theinsurancecrew.com Shane Allbee: shane@theinsurancecrew.com i the crew crew 420 S. Main St, Suite 205 Tulsa, OK 74103 I.C.A.O. Once Upon A Time Book Fair Saturday, November 14, 12:00 p.m. - 4 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma will be holding the Once Upon A Time Book Fair for the children of Tulsa. The Court would like this event to spark a desire in our children to read 4/23/26, 5:16 PM �OkEq eNews November 11th, 2015 13 of 17 more. With the companion of a Stuffed Best Friend to Cuddle Up with all while they let their imaginations get lost in a book. During the fair there will be one or more local authors to read to the children, then allow them to enjoy a craft that goes along with the book, followed by a healthy snack and a trip to the Tulsa Library Bus to sign up for their own library card and end the day by receiving a book and reading buddy to take home to help encourage them to read more. https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-11th--20... Location: Oklahomans For Equality 621 E. 4th St. Tulsa, Ok Tracy Allen Volunteer Coordinator Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org The Court would like to reach out to our local organizations, establishments, community leaders, and non-profit groups and ask them to come together as one and help make this event a successful one. If you are interested in helping the Court achieve its goals or have any questions, please feel free to contact Jinnie Horta at drunkenbaker77@gmail.com or Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org. Robbie Dee Ewen's First Book Signing Jose Vega Program Coordinator Saturday, November 21, 2:00 p.m. - 3:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Ms. Robbie Dee's new book "At Last! Free to be Me" has just been published. Courtesy of Oklahomans for Equality, they are kindly hosting a performance, reading and signing event. Awarded the Hero of Oklahoma and the Silver Medal from the United States Coast Guard, concert violinist Robbie Dee Ewens will be performing a few select pieces as a preclude to introducing her new book. This is an exciting time for transgender awareness throughout the country and Robbie's book is yet another true testimony and a new resource for the community. Do you know anyone who is transgender? Are you gender indifferent? What about being a Christian and wondering what God has to say about it? Or are you having issues with Christian folk who need educating? Then this is the book to read. 4/23/26, 5:16 PM �OkEq eNews November 11th, 2015 14 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-11th--20... Come along, enjoy the music, meet Robbie Dee and ask as many questions as you want. It's Your Center - It's Your Day OkEq is offering our donors the opportunity to sponsor the organization for a day or even a complete week. When you choose to sponsor OkEq for a day, we will honor you or the person you designate by featuring our sponsor on our website for the day, with a presentation board greeting visitors in the front lobby on the day/week designated, by listing the honoree in our weekly eNews, and a special posting on our OkEq Facebook page. Sponsors can select a day in honor of their birthday or to celebrate an anniversary date or in memory of an individual, or whatever day means the most to you. Find out more information here. Healthcare Utilization Study HEALTHCARE UTILIZATION ST Those of us at the Sexual Health Research Lab at Oklahoma State University are conducting a study on LGBT Healthcare Utilization and we 4/23/26, 5:16 PM �OkEq eNews November 11th, 2015 15 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-11th--20... are needing to recruit LGBT individuals living in Oklahoma to participate. If you visit the following link here, you can take a brief pre-screening measure to see if you qualify for the study. If you do, upon completion of the study you will receive a $10 e-card from Amazon. All information collected is confidential and anonymous. All study measures have been approved by the IRB for Oklahoma State University. Nimrod International Journal: Call for Submissions Deadline is November 30, 2015 This year has seen a remarkable shift within the United States in relation to the gay rights movement. Nimrod International Journal has historically celebrated and championed writing by people from marginalized populations, whether those be nation, ethnicity, or age. This year, we're thrilled to announce an issue devoted to writing from LGBTQIA community. For our Spring/Summer 2016 issue, Mirrors and Prisms: Writers of Marginalized Orientations and Gender Identities, Nimrod International Journal is seeking poems, short stories, and creative nonfiction pieces from writers who identify along the LGBTQIA spectrum. For more information on this year's submissions requirements, click here. LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea Ith ca re Bi I !Of Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. 4/23/26, 5:16 PM �OkEq eNews November 11th, 2015 16 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-11th--20... Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Click here to purchase your pendant today! Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Special Forces: Gay Military Erotica" Edited By Phillip Mackensie, Jr. Wherever a man slides into his BDU's and shoulders an M16, there's another man looking to take both off him - and people who want to read about it. These sexually charged stories show military men in every branch of the service getting down. Special Forces is set in the heat of battle, public or private, where fear, urgency, and uncertainty lead to unexpected intimacy and release, where anger and terror fuel desire and 4/23/26, 5:16 PM �OkEq eNews November 11th, 2015 17 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-11th--20... attraction. The seasoned authors here, some of whom served in the military themselves, do not shy away from the hard realities of the fight, but allow it to heighten the eroticism. The collection includes Jack Fritscher ("Wild Blue Yonder"), T. Hitman ("To the Victors Go the Spoiled"), Simon Sheppard ("Stockholm Syndrome"), Jay Starre ("Between Shots Fire"), and many more. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. r--------------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L--------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 5:16 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/aa5a5a9e79edd7183703369bce158888.pdf beb4b11aef12d3eb4fec2ed63d341de5 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews November 18th, 2015 1 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-18th--20... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews November 18th, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor EBA Mixer Transgender Awareness Week Robbie Dee Ewen's First Book Signing The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders Monday-Wednesday and Friday 7:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Thursday 7:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m. Closed Saturday and Sunday Come Home for Thanksgiving Fairy Tree Council Oak Men's Chorale PFLAG Tulsa Annual Holiday Dinner World AIDS Day 2015 Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders is Tulsa's oldest and finest shoe repair shop featuring shoe repair and cowboy and western boot repair. We also provide premium maker and repair service for high end leather goods, bags, purses and various other items including custom work. 2016 Award Nominations 2015 Falalala Ball Sisters in Song Nimrod International Journal Like us on Facebook or visit our website here. ACA Open Enrollment Assistance ~~I>,,. _ TULSA SHOE REBUILDERS 918.584.6062 5455-C SOUTH MINGO RD • TULSA, OK 74146 SHOE - BOOT - LEATHER REPAIR Grateful Day Foundation It's Your Center - It's Your Day Tulsa Pride 2016 Meeting OSU Research Project LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights EBA Mixer Pride Store November 18, 6:00-8:00 p.m. The Garden Trug, 3009 E. 101st St., Tulsa, OK 74137 Healthcare Utilization Study Rainbow Library E UALITY Business Alliance Find Us on Facebook The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you 4/23/26, 5:16 PM �OkEq eNews November 18th, 2015 2 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-18th--20... would like to host a mixer, send a email to eba@okeq.org for more information. The October EBA mixer will be hosted by The Garden Trug. Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq The Garden Trug will have tons of holiday shopping potential for the EBA. Any member can use their 10% EBA discount plus receive a free gift with their purchases. Oklahomans for Equality has a new Cub Scout Pack. The meetings with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts are held on Sundays at 4:00 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Transgender Awareness Week Through November 20, 2015 Join us for Transgender Awareness Week at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center with the following events: OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, November 19th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibit Celebrate Transgender Awareness Week at OkEq's Talent Night on November 18th, featuring members of our Gender Outreach Program. We will be serving cocktails and snacks at 6:30 p.m. Event begins at 7:00 p.m. If you would like to participate in the Talent Night, please email Sharon Queen at sharon.queen@okeq.org to register. The November exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center feature works by May Fang & Jason Lochhart. 4/23/26, 5:16 PM �OkEq eNews November 18th, 2015 3 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-18th--20... Gather at Oklahomans for Equality on November 20th to remember these transgender individuals who have lost their lives to senseless hate, violence and suicide. Event will begin at 7:00 p.m. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 For this week, we will be remembering and celebrating our transgender brothers and sisters through their transitions, as well as supporting them through their journey to their true selves. Please join us. Please contact Sharon Queen at sharon.queen@okeq.org for more information. Robbie Dee Ewen's First Book Signing November 21, 2:00 p.m. - 3:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 5:16 PM �OkEq eNews November 18th, 2015 4 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-18th--20... Counseling Services Ms. Robbie Dee's new book "At Last! Free to be Me" has just been published. Courtesy of Oklahomans for Equality, they are kindly hosting a performance, reading and signing event. Awarded the Hero of Oklahoma and the Silver Medal from the United States Coast Guard, concert violinist Robbie Dee Ewens will be performing a few select pieces as a preclude to introducing her new book. This is an exciting time for transgender awareness throughout the country and Robbie's book is yet another true testimony and a new resource for the community. Do you know anyone who is transgender? Are you gender indifferent? What about being a Christian and wondering what God has to say about it? Or are you having issues with Christian folk who need educating? Then this is the book to read. Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org Come along, enjoy the music, meet Robbie Dee and ask as many questions as you want. Counseling Services Come Home for Thanksgiving November 26, 12:00 p.m. Event Center, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 OkEq invites you to join us on Thanksgiving Day for a FREE community meal at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Please confirm your attendance by contacting Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org or by calling 918-743-4297. Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org Counseling Services Weekdays 4/23/26, 5:16 PM �OkEq eNews November 18th, 2015 5 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-18th--20... Local affirming and inclusive congregations and OkEq provide a wonderful meal every year. The meal will be served at 12:00 p.m. Lunch will be provided by: Unity Church of Christianity Parish Church of Saint Jerome Bethany Christian Church College Hill Presbyterian Church Fellowship Congregational Church Fellowship Lutheran Church All Souls Unitarian Church St. Paul's United Methodist Diversity Christian Fellowship International Eastside Christian Church University United Methodist Church Gordon George will be providing turkeys for the community meal. David Dees and Club Majestic will be providing hams. By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Tulsa C.A.R.E.S. Fairy Tree Purchased gifts must be returned by December 14, 2015 The Fairy Tree is back and ready for you to stop by the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to select a recipient in need. We adopt the clients of Tulsa CARES that are in need of clothing and other items. The suggested gift items are listed for your shopping convenience. Tulsa CARES provides social services to individuals affected by HIV/AIDS. Help us support those in our community that are struggling to survive. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather For more information, please contact Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org. Council Oak Men's Chorale Thurday, December 3 Friday, December 4 Tuesday, December 8 501 S. Cincinnati Ave, 8:00 p.m. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" 4/23/26, 5:16 PM �OkEq eNews November 18th, 2015 6 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-18th--20... SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual E< Transgender Elders ©ecem6er 3r~ ,fli &stli 'Trinity <EpiscopalC/i,urcli - 8:00pm 501 S. Cincinnati)f:ve - 'Tulsa, Ol The Council Oak Men's Chorale will be presenting their annual holiday concert in three upcoming performances . The concert, entitled "Echoes of December", will feature a number of traditional holiday numbers, such as "I Wonder as I Wander" , "Masters in this Hall" , and "God Rest You Merry Gentlemen" , along with more contemporary fare, including "It's the Most Wonderful Time of the Year" , "Little Saint Nick" , and more. Tickets are $20 and may be purchased through www.counciloak.org , or at the door. Early Special Ticket price before November 15 is "Buy 2 tickets for the price of 1". So hurry and get your tickets! Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. For more information, please contact Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org PFLAG Tulsa Annual Holiday Dinner December 11, 5:30 p.m. All Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S. Peoria Ave, Tulsa, OK 74114 Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. SAVE THE DATE! Please join PFLAG Tulsa for their annual holiday dinner. Bring friends, family and a dish to share for their potluck dinner. Tulsa Area Prime Timers PFl!rAG World AIDS Day 2015 December 1, 2015, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 4/23/26, 5:16 PM �OkEq eNews November 18th, 2015 7 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-18th--20... World AIDS Day is held on the 1st of December each year and is an opportunity for people worldwide to unite in the fight against HIV and AIDS, show their support for people living with HIV and to commemorate those who we have lost to the virus. Globally, an estimated 34 million people have HIV. More than 35 million people have died from the virus, making it one of the most destructive pandemics in history. Today, many scientific advances have been made in HIV/AIDS treatment, there are laws to protect people living with the virus and we now understand so much more about the condition. However, despite this, many do not know the facts about how to protect themselves and others from HIV, and stigma and discrimination remain a reality for many people living with HIV. World AIDS Day is important as it reminds the public that HIV has not gone away - there is still a vital need to raise money, increase awareness, fight prejudice and improve education. At the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, we will be hosting the Council Oak Men's Chorale and Eric Himan on World AIDS Day. Get F.I.T. Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. $5 per session. Yoga by Zach :>j;Eake ACla~~t::<:: EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 $5.00 per Session Free Your Mind Ecstatic Dance 2016 Award Recipients: Now Accepting Nominations 4/23/26, 5:16 PM �OkEq eNews November 18th, 2015 8 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-18th--20... Oklahomans for Equality is now accepting nominations for 2016 award recipients. These individuals or organizations and companies have advocated for full equality for LGBTQ people and shown courage and compassion. Community Hero Award Carolyn Wagner Youth Leadership Award Russell Bennett Spiritual Inclusion Award Tulsa Pride Grand Marshal Contact Toby Jenkins at toby.jenkins@okeq.org with your nominations. 8th Annual Falalala Ball Presents: HOLLA - T.H.E.Y. December 19, 7:00 p.m. - 11:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 ttolla-T. H. E.Y. Thri '(lndrogynom; Goa;tumri :Ball Don your androgynous apparel and join us for the 8th annual Falalala Ball! This year's theme is An Androgynous Costume Ball. Please pull out your androgynous holiday dress and business casual. Acceptable admission is any of the following: Can goods and toiletries for St Jerome Parish Pantry Can goods for Diversity Christian Food Pantry Pet Food for A Friend for a Friend Toys for Women in Recovery Runway Fashion Show featuring THEY clothing Cash Bar Live Bands Lite Hor d'oeuvres Raffle Prizes Child Care Provided For more information, please contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org. Every 4th Sunday of the Month 1:00 p.m. Wellness Room $5.00 per Session Free Your Mind Ecstatic Dance is a moving meditation practice based on the rhythms of life dynamic music by SRhythms teacher and DJ Eugene Hedlund play in the subtle realms of joy and freedom. We dance freely as the music moves us - there are no steps to learn! No dance experience is required. Be sure to wear comfortable clothing. For more information, contact Mia Pearl at openheartspace9@gmail.com or Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org. Sisters in Song Present: Hope, Peace & Joy December 19, 7:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church, UCC 2900 S. Harvard Ave, Tulsa, OK 74114 Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before 4/23/26, 5:16 PM �OkEq eNews November 18th, 2015 9 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-18th--20... Sisters ltt Sott5 britt5s t1oi. Hope. Peace &Jo\1 attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. 2015 Lambda Al-Anon Group PM fURDAY Every Friday 7 p.m. FEU.OW&UIP CoNGREGATIONAL C#URCU LJNrrED C#URC# OF C#RIST 2900 Souru 1./ARVARO AIE TULSA ADMISSION $15 Nevermore Edits Clm.DREN FREE Every Friday 7:00 pm Sisters in Song will be performing their Christmas concert entitled "Hope, Peace and Joy". They will be presenting several new works you've not heard before like "The Christmas Shopping Blues" and "Cold and Fugue" along with your favorites like "Sleigh Ride" and "Santa Baby". Soloists include Linda Paul on the harp, a Miriam Childers and Sue Bennett vocal duo, Jane Duenner and friend with a vocal duo, and our SIS Quartet Ensemble performing two acapella songs. A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. This is a wonderful evening to get into the spirit of Christmas by slowing down and enjoying the sounds of Christmas. Refreshments will be served following the concert! For more information, contact Linda Barton Paul at 918-629-7259 or at harplinda1@gmail.com. Booking info: www.harplinda.com Booking is also available at gigmasters.com. Admission is $15; student tickets are free. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Nimrod International Journal: Call for Submissions Deadline is November 30, 2015 This year has seen a remarkable shift within the United States in relation to the gay rights movement. Nimrod International Journal has historically celebrated and championed Game Night 4/23/26, 5:16 PM �OkEq eNews November 18th, 2015 10 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-18th--20... writing by people from marginalized populations, whether those be nation, ethnicity, or age. This year, we're thrilled to announce an issue devoted to writing from LGBTQIA community. For our Spring/Summer 2016 issue, Mirrors and Prisms: Writers of Marginalized Orientations and Gender Identities, Nimrod International Journal is seeking poems, short stories, and creative nonfiction pieces from writers who identify along the LGBTQIA spectrum. Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno For more information on this year's submissions requirements, click here. ACA Open Enrollment Assistance Ends January 31, 2016 Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Contact The Insurance Crew! Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org - - - - - - Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Dirk Hunter and Shane Allbee are insurance experts and they are more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the ACA. Dirk and Shane will be hosting informational meetings on: December 8, 12:00 p.m. - 3:00 p.m. December 9, 5:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org OR Call them today at 918-794-0777. Dirk Hunter: dirk@theinsurancecrew.com Shane Allbee: shane@theinsurancecrew.com i the crew 420 S. Main St, Suite 205 crew EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers 4/23/26, 5:16 PM �OkEq eNews November 18th, 2015 11 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-18th--20... Tulsa, OK 74103 and community. The Grateful Day Foundation: New Transportation Program Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Qrnteful .Z,A!J F 0>,ui.:r.n.da.it::ii.0>Xll. X:r.n.c _ The Grateful Day Foundation (GDF) is a local, non-profit and grassroots organization. We seek to help fill gaps in care for folks in the Tulsa area living with HIV/AIDS. We host an annual retreat for those folks as well. We are currently working on a new transportation program to help these individuals to get to and from the following care facilities: OSU Specialty Clinic Tulsa C.A.R.E.S. St. Jerome's Food Pantry The GDF is seeking volunteers for our transportation project. The requirements are simple: you just need a car, a current driver's license and auto insurance. This project is all volunteer based and only requires a few hours a month. We will plan all rides/appointments on a monthly basis to help avoid any last minute confusions. We will offer "Hot Shot" rides in special circumstances. As we grow, we will be able to encompass more ride destinations, such as physical therapy, other mental health locations, etc. Please feel free to contact Chuck Courtney with the Grateful Day Foundation at 539-664-7206 or visit their website at www.gratefulday.org if you have any questions. It's Your Center - It's Your Day Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/23/26, 5:16 PM �OkEq eNews November 18th, 2015 12 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-18th--20... OkEq is offering our donors the opportunity to sponsor the organization for a day or even a complete week. When you choose to sponsor OkEq for a day, we will honor you or the person you designate by featuring our sponsor on our website for the day, with a presentation board greeting visitors in the front lobby on the day/week designated, by listing the honoree in our weekly eNews, and a special posting on our OkEq Facebook page. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Sponsors can select a day in honor of their birthday or to celebrate an anniversary date or in memory of an individual, or whatever day means the most to you. Find out more information here. Amy Howe Administrative Assistant Amy.Howe@OkEq.org Tulsa Pride 2016 Meeting December 10, 7:00 p.m. Event Center, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 T U L S A Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org A WEEKEND OF PRIDE Our annual meeting to discuss the Tulsa Pride Festival will be held in the Event Center at the Equality Center. If you have any questions or require more information, please contact 4/23/26, 5:16 PM �OkEq eNews November 18th, 2015 13 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-18th--20... Sarah Miller at sarah.miller@okeq.org or simply call the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center at 918-743-4297. Invitation to Participate in Research Factors Related to the Health and Well-being of Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender and/or Queer Adults Aged 50 and Older If you identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer and are age 50 or over, we invite you to participate in a study about factors related to the health and wellbeing of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 and older. We also hope you will pass this invitation on to others. We are a research team from Oklahoma State University in Stillwater and some of us have been working for a number of years to advocate for and learn more about things that contribute to the health and well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 or over (LGBTQ+). Tracy Allen Volunteer Coordinator Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org This study is part of that broader research and has two specific purposes: 1) to learn more about whether the measures in this study, which have been used with younger adults who identify as LGBT+, are also valid for individuals aged 50 or older; and 2) to look at the relationship between these measures and a measure of health and well-being. 4/23/26, 5:16 PM �OkEq eNews November 18th, 2015 14 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-18th--20... You are eligible for this study if you are aged 50 and over and identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer. If you are interested in learning more about this study, please click here. On the web link, we provide more information about the study, and direct you to where you can give your consent and complete the survey measures. Alternately, you may contact Dr. Sue C. Jacobs (sue.c.jacobs@okstate.edu - - - - - - or 405-744-9895) for more information about the study and/or to have one of the researchers below assist you in answering the research questions by entering them into a computer. Any answers or personal information you provide will be anonymous as you will not provide your name. If you have questions about your rights as a research volunteer, you may contact the IRB Office at 223 Scott Hall, Stillwater, OK 74078, 405-744-3377 or irb@okstate.edu. We hope you are able to be part of this research. What we learn will be reported as group data only and made available to service agencies, health and mental health providers, equality centers, professional journals, meetings, or others who request it. Your participation is voluntary and you will receive no compensation except to know you are contributing to knowledge about an important matter. LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy-to-read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea lthcare Bi I !Of Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Click here to purchase your pendant today! 4/23/26, 5:16 PM �OkEq eNews November 18th, 2015 15 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-18th--20... Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Healthcare Utilization Study HEALTHCARE UTILIZATION ST Those of us at the Sexual Health Research Lab at Oklahoma State University are conducting a study on LGBT Healthcare Utilization and we are needing to recruit LGBT individuals living in Oklahoma to participate. If you visit the following link here, you can take a brief pre-screening measure to see if you qualify for the study. If you do, upon completion of the study you will receive a $10 e-card from Amazon. All information collected is confidential and anonymous. All study measures have been approved by the IRB for Oklahoma State University. Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "A Place at the Table: The Gay Individual in American Society" By Bruce Bawer 4/23/26, 5:16 PM �OkEq eNews November 18th, 2015 16 of 16 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-18th--20... Conservative cultural critic Bruce Bawer's canny appraisal of the gay rights movement calls for a more equitable place in American society for lesbians and gays. He exposes the heated controversy over gay rights and presents a passionate plea for the recognition of common values, "a place at the table" for everyone. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. A PLACE M • TH• GAY • INDIVIDUAL IN AMERICAN SOCIETY "An intelligent and eyeopening book ... smashes the common stereotypes of • IO • " r--------------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L--------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 5:16 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/6223d6e761d32f008b68ac78ad944be6.pdf 70d67220d7525c3665659c2e239c4b6d PDF Text Text OkEq eNews November 24th, 2015 1 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-24th--20... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews November 24th, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Come Home for Thanksgiving Sol Smith is sponsoring a day! World AIDS Day 2015 The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders Monday-Wednesday and Friday 7:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Thursday 7:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m. Closed Saturday and Sunday Council Oak Men's Chorale PFLAG Tulsa Annual Holiday Dinner 2016 Award Nominations OkEq: New Trustees 2015 Falalala Ball Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders is Tulsa's oldest and finest shoe repair shop featuring shoe repair and cowboy and western boot repair. We also provide premium maker and repair service for high end leather goods, bags, purses and various other items including custom work. Like us on Facebook or visit our website here. ~~I>,,. _ Sisters in Song Nimrod International Journal I.C.A.O. Presents: "The Voices in My Head" ACA Open Enrollment Assistance TULSA SHOE REBUILDERS 918.584.6062 Grateful Day Foundation 5455-C SOUTH MINGO RD • TULSA, OK 74146 It's Your Center - It's Your Day SHOE - BOOT - LEATHER REPAIR Tulsa Pride 2016 Meeting OSU Research Project "First Thursday" Art Exhibit Come Home for Thanksgiving November 26, 12:00 p.m. Event Center, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Pride Store Rainbow Library 11 Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 5:17 PM �OkEq eNews November 24th, 2015 2 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-24th--20... Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq OkEq invites you to join us on Thanksgiving Day for a FREE community meal at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Please confirm your attendance by contacting Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org or by calling 918-743-4297. Local affirming and inclusive congregations and OkEq provide a wonderful meal every year. The meal will be served at 12:00 p.m. Lunch will be provided by: Unity Church of Christianity Parish Church of Saint Jerome Bethany Christian Church College Hill Presbyterian Church Fellowship Congregational Church Fellowship Lutheran Church All Souls Unitarian Church St. Paul's United Methodist Diversity Christian Fellowship International Eastside Christian Church University United Methodist Church Gordon George will be providing turkeys for the community meal. David Dees and Club Majestic will be providing hams. Sol Smith is sponsoring a day! Oklahomans for Equality has a new Cub Scout Pack. The meetings with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts are held on Sundays at 4:00 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, December 17th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. Thursday, November 26 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Sol Smith has made a generous donation to sponsor the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Thursday, November 26. Sol is sponsoring the day in honor of the Thanksgiving holiday. Thank you, Sol! OkEq Art Exhibit The November exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center feature works by May Fang & Jason Lochhart. If you are interested in making a donation to sponsor the Equality Center for your special day, click here. 4/23/26, 5:17 PM �OkEq eNews November 24th, 2015 3 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-24th--20... World AIDS Day 2015 December 1, 2015, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 World AIDS Day is held on the 1st of December each year and is an opportunity for people worldwide to unite in the fight against HIV and AIDS, show their support for people living with HIV and to commemorate those who we have lost to the virus. Globally, an estimated 34 million people have HIV. More than 35 million people have died from the virus, making it one of the most destructive pandemics in history. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Today, many scientific advances have been made in HIV/AIDS treatment, there are laws to protect people living with the virus and we now understand so much more about the condition. However, despite this, many do not know the facts about how to protect themselves and others from HIV, and stigma and discrimination remain a reality for many people living with HIV. World AIDS Day is important as it reminds the public that HIV has not gone away - there is still a vital need to raise money, increase awareness, fight prejudice and improve education. At the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, we will be hosting the Council Oak Men's Chorale and Eric Himan on World AIDS Day. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 5:17 PM �OkEq eNews November 24th, 2015 4 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-24th--20... Counseling Services Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org Council Oak Men's Chorale Thurday, December 3 Friday, December 4 Tuesday, December 8 501 S. Cincinnati Ave, 8:00 p.m. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org ©ecem6er 3r~ 4tli &stli <Trinity 'Episcopaf Cliurcli - 8:00pm 501 S. Cincinnati}f:ve - 'I'uCsa, ot The Council Oak Men's Chorale will be presenting their annual holiday concert in three upcoming performances . The concert, entitled "Echoes of December", will feature a number of traditional holiday numbers, such as "I Wonder as I Wander" , "Masters in this Hall" , and "God Rest You Merry Gentlemen" , along with more contemporary fare, including "It's the Most Wonderful Time of the Year" , "Little Saint Nick" , and more. Tickets are $20 and may be purchased through www.counciloak.org , or at the door. Early Special Ticket price before November 15 is "Buy 2 tickets for the price of 1". So hurry and get your tickets! Counseling Services Weekdays 4/23/26, 5:17 PM �OkEq eNews November 24th, 2015 5 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-24th--20... For more information, please contact Amy Howe at amy.howe@okeq.org PFLAG Tulsa Annual Holiday Dinner December 11, 5:30 p.m. All Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S. Peoria Ave, Tulsa, OK 74114 By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org - - - SAVE THE DATE! Please join PFLAG Tulsa for their annual holiday dinner. Bring friends, family and a dish to share for their potluck dinner. SOS Group PFl!AG 2016 Award Recipients: Now Accepting Nominations Oklahomans for Equality is now accepting nominations for 2016 award recipients. These individuals or organizations and companies have advocated for full equality for LGBTQ people and shown courage and compassion. Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Community Hero Award Carolyn Wagner Youth Leadership Award Russell Bennett Spiritual Inclusion Award Tulsa Pride Grand Marshal Contact Toby Jenkins at toby.jenkins@okeq.org with your nominations. OkEq: New Trustees Oklahomans for Equality is pleased to announce the appointment of three new trustees for the Board of Trustees. They will be serving a three year term along with the currently serving trustees. New Trustees: SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" 4/23/26, 5:17 PM �OkEq eNews November 24th, 2015 6 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-24th--20... SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual E< Transgender Elders Shawna Baker Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. David Nelson Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Tulsa Area Prime Timers Kris Wilmes Present Trustees: 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 4/23/26, 5:17 PM �OkEq eNews November 24th, 2015 7 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-24th--20... Get F.I.T. Paul Allen Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. $5 per session. Yoga by Zach :>j;Eake ACla~~t::<:: EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm Dan Burnstein We wish to thank Sue Welch and Mark Frost for having completed six years of service on the Board of Trustees. Thank you, Sue and Mark, for your sacrifice and service to Oklahomans for Equality. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 $5.00 per Session Free Your Mind Ecstatic Dance Sue Welch 4/23/26, 5:17 PM �OkEq eNews November 24th, 2015 8 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-24th--20... Mark Frost 8th Annual Falalala Ball Presents: HOLLA - T.H.E.Y. December 19, 7:00 p.m. - 11:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 ttolla-T. H. E.Y. Yhrz '(fodrogynous Gostumrz :Ball Don your androgynous apparel and join us for the 8th annual Falalala Ball! This year's theme is An Androgynous Costume Ball. Please pull out your androgynous holiday dress and business casual. Acceptable admission is any of the following: Can goods and toiletries for St Jerome Parish Pantry Can goods for Diversity Christian Food Pantry Pet Food for A Friend for a Friend Toys for Women in Recovery Runway Fashion Show featuring THEY clothing Cash Bar Live Bands Lite Hor d'oeuvres Raffle Prizes Child Care Provided For more information, please contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org. Every 4th Sunday of the Month 1:00 p.m. Wellness Room $5.00 per Session Free Your Mind Ecstatic Dance is a moving meditation practice based on the rhythms of life dynamic music by SRhythms teacher and DJ Eugene Hedlund play in the subtle realms of joy and freedom. We dance freely as the music moves us - there are no steps to learn! No dance experience is required. Be sure to wear comfortable clothing. For more information, contact Mia Pearl at openheartspace9@gmail.com or Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org. Sisters in Song Present: Hope, Peace & Joy December 19, 7:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church, UCC 2900 S. Harvard Ave, Tulsa, OK 74114 Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before 4/23/26, 5:17 PM �OkEq eNews November 24th, 2015 9 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-24th--20... Sisters ltt Sott5 britt5s t1oi. Hope. Peace &Jo\1 attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. 2015 Lambda Al-Anon Group PM fURDAY Every Friday 7 p.m. FEU.OW&UIP CoNGREGATIONAL C#URCU LJNrrED C#URC# OF C#RIST 2900 Souru 1./ARVARO AIE TULSA ADMISSION $15 Nevermore Edits Clm.DREN FREE Every Friday 7:00 pm Sisters in Song will be performing their Christmas concert entitled "Hope, Peace and Joy". They will be presenting several new works you've not heard before like "The Christmas Shopping Blues" and "Cold and Fugue" along with your favorites like "Sleigh Ride" and "Santa Baby". Soloists include Linda Paul on the harp, a Miriam Childers and Sue Bennett vocal duo, Jane Duenner and friend with a vocal duo, and our SIS Quartet Ensemble performing two acapella songs. A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. This is a wonderful evening to get into the spirit of Christmas by slowing down and enjoying the sounds of Christmas. Refreshments will be served following the concert! For more information, contact Linda Barton Paul at 918-629-7259 or at harplinda1@gmail.com. Booking info: www.harplinda.com Booking is also available at gigmasters.com. Admission is $15; student tickets are free. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Nimrod International Journal: Call for Submissions Deadline is November 30, 2015 This year has seen a remarkable shift within the United States in relation to the gay rights movement. Nimrod International Journal has historically celebrated and championed Game Night 4/23/26, 5:17 PM �OkEq eNews November 24th, 2015 10 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-24th--20... writing by people from marginalized populations, whether those be nation, ethnicity, or age. This year, we're thrilled to announce an issue devoted to writing from LGBTQIA community. For our Spring/Summer 2016 issue, Mirrors and Prisms: Writers of Marginalized Orientations and Gender Identities, Nimrod International Journal is seeking poems, short stories, and creative nonfiction pieces from writers who identify along the LGBTQIA spectrum. Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno For more information on this year's submissions requirements, click here. I.C.A.O. Presents: "The Voices in My Head" Wednesday, November 25, 10:00 p.m. - ? Tulsa Eagle, 1338 E 3rd St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Come join Absolute Empress VIII Cheslea Ray Star and the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma for our annual "The Voices in My Head" benefit. Help us ring in the start of the holiday season as we raise money for H.O.P.E and their continuing services for our community. 21+ over only. No cover. Identification will be checked at the door. For more information, click here. ACA Open Enrollment Assistance Ends January 31, 2016 Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Contact The Insurance Crew! Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org g BoO,~A/1- EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers 4/23/26, 5:17 PM �OkEq eNews November 24th, 2015 11 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-24th--20... and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Dirk Hunter and Shane Allbee are insurance experts and they are more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the ACA. Dirk and Shane will be hosting informational meetings on: December 8, 12:00 p.m. - 3:00 p.m. December 9, 5:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. OR Call them today at 918-794-0777. Dirk Hunter: dirk@theinsurancecrew.com Shane Allbee: shane@theinsurancecrew.com i the crew HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center crew 420 S. Main St, Suite 205 Tulsa, OK 74103 The Grateful Day Foundation: New Transportation Program Qrnteful .Z,A!j JP 0>1l.ll.r.n.da..tic»:r.n. ][:r.n.c. Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The Grateful Day Foundation (GDF) is a local, non-profit and grassroots organization. We seek to help fill gaps in care for folks in the Tulsa area living with HIV/AIDS. We host an annual retreat for those folks as well. We are currently working on a new transportation program to help these individuals to get to and from the following care facilities: OSU Specialty Clinic 4/23/26, 5:17 PM �OkEq eNews November 24th, 2015 12 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-24th--20... Tulsa C.A.R.E.S. St. Jerome's Food Pantry The GDF is seeking volunteers for our transportation project. The requirements are simple: you just need a car, a current driver's license and auto insurance. This project is all volunteer based and only requires a few hours a month. We will plan all rides/appointments on a monthly basis to help avoid any last minute confusions. We will offer "Hot Shot" rides in special circumstances. As we grow, we will be able to encompass more ride destinations, such as physical therapy, other mental health locations, etc. Please feel free to contact Chuck Courtney with the Grateful Day Foundation at 539-664-7206 or visit their website at www.gratefulday.org if you have any questions. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org It's Your Center - It's Your Day Amy Howe Administrative Assistant Amy.Howe@OkEq.org OkEq is offering our donors the opportunity to sponsor the organization for a day or even a complete week. When you choose to sponsor OkEq for a day, we will honor you or the person you designate by featuring our sponsor on our website for the day, with a presentation board greeting visitors in the front lobby on the day/week designated, by listing the honoree in our weekly eNews, and a special posting on our OkEq Facebook page. Sponsors can select a day in honor of their birthday or to celebrate an anniversary date or in memory of an individual, or whatever day means the most to you. Find out more information here. Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 5:17 PM �OkEq eNews November 24th, 2015 13 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-24th--20... Tulsa Pride 2016 Meeting December 10, 7:00 p.m. Event Center, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 T U L S A Tracy Allen Volunteer Coordinator Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org A WEEKEND OF PRIDE Our annual meeting to discuss the Tulsa Pride Festival will be held in the Event Center at the Equality Center. If you have any questions or require more information, please contact Sarah Miller at sarah.miller@okeq.org - - - - - or simply call the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center at 918-743-4297. Invitation to Participate in Research Factors Related to the Health and Well-being of Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender and/or Queer Adults Aged 50 and Older Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org ---- If you identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer and are age 50 or over, we invite you to participate in a study about factors related to the health and wellbeing of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 and older. We also hope you will pass this invitation on to others. We are a research team from Oklahoma State University in Stillwater and some of us have been working for a number of years to advocate for and learn more about things that contribute to the health and well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 or over (LGBTQ+). This study is part of that broader research and has two specific purposes: 1) to learn more about whether the measures in this study, which have been used with younger adults who identify as LGBT+, are also valid for individuals aged 50 or older; and 2) to look at the relationship between these measures and a measure of health and well-being. 4/23/26, 5:17 PM �OkEq eNews November 24th, 2015 14 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-24th--20... You are eligible for this study if you are aged 50 and over and identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer. If you are interested in learning more about this study, please click here. On the web link, we provide more information about the study, and direct you to where you can give your consent and complete the survey measures. Alternately, you may contact Dr. Sue C. Jacobs (sue.c.jacobs@okstate.edu or 405-744-9895) for more information about the study and/or to have one of the researchers below assist you in answering the research questions by entering them into a computer. Any answers or personal information you provide will be anonymous as you will not provide your name. If you have questions about your rights as a research volunteer, you may contact the IRB Office at 223 Scott Hall, Stillwater, OK 74078, 405-744-3377 or irb@okstate.edu. We hope you are able to be part of this research. What we learn will be reported as group data only and made available to service agencies, health and mental health providers, equality centers, professional journals, meetings, or others who request it. Your participation is voluntary and you will receive no compensation except to know you are contributing to knowledge about an important matter. "First Thursday" Art Exhibit: The Work of Sonia Sniderman Thursday, December 3, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Art Gallery, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 The December OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Sonia Sniderman. 4/23/26, 5:17 PM �OkEq eNews November 24th, 2015 15 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-24th--20... She says of her work: "In the paintings in this exhibit, I try to portray the somewhat off-kilter universe of my inner vision. This is a world where the mystery, wonder, menace, and absurdity of existence is represented by animal and bird images juxtaposed with serene young men or women lost in their private thoughts." For more information, please contact Allie Jensen at alliejensen@cox.net. Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Click here to purchase your pendant today! 4/23/26, 5:17 PM �OkEq eNews November 24th, 2015 16 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-24th--20... Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Long Shot" By D. Jackson Leigh Equine veterinarian Tony Greyson has always played the safe bet. That is, until she runs into a very cute, opinionated, jobless journalist. The small town of Cherokee Falls is just a pit stop for Leah Montgomery while she figures out how to put her career back on track and deal with her grandmother's slide into dementia. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. 4/23/26, 5:17 PM �OkEq eNews November 24th, 2015 17 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-24th--20... r--------------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L--------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 5:17 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/0f72df6775144b67ee77d5c35a1c54fe.pdf 7a37f92e75557cda57a94519a4f6e0b3 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews December 1st, 2015 1 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-1st--201... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews #GIVINGTUESDAY December 1st, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor World AIDS Day 2015 Gay Men's Dinner Club 2016 Award Nominations Giving Tuesday "First Thursday" Art Exhibit You have heard of Black Friday and Cyber Monday when you shop for those you love. Welcome to #GivingTuesday where you can show your love for Oklahomans for Equality by making a donation. In 2015 over 48,000 people have participated in the programs and services of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We are a vital lifeline to the heartland, please help us do more for our community. Click here to donate now. Tulsa Pride 2016 Meeting Council Oak Men's Chorale PFLAG Tulsa Annual Holiday Dinner #Gl ~ I GTUESDAY™ The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders Monday-Wednesday and Friday 7:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Thursday 7:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m. Closed Saturday and Sunday OkEq: New Trustees 2015 Falalala Ball Sisters in Song ACA Open Enrollment Assistance Grateful Day Foundation It's Your Center - It's Your Day OSU Research Project Pride Store Rainbow Library Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders is Tulsa's oldest and finest shoe repair shop featuring shoe repair and cowboy and western boot repair. We also provide premium maker and repair service for high end leather goods, bags, purses and various other items including custom work. Like us on Facebook or visit our website here. -~""- ~ TULSA SHOE REBUILDERS 918.584.6062 5455-C SOUTH MINGO RD - TULSA, OK 74146 SHOE - BOOT - LEATHER REPAIR World AIDS Day 2015 December 1, 2015, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 4/23/26, 5:17 PM �OkEq eNews December 1st, 2015 2 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-1st--201... World AIDS Day is held on the 1st of December each year and is an opportunity for people worldwide to unite in the fight against HIV and AIDS, show their support for people living with HIV and to commemorate those who we have lost to the virus. Globally, an estimated 34 million people have HIV. More than 35 million people have died from the virus, making it one of the most destructive pandemics in history. Today, many scientific advances have been made in HIV/AIDS treatment, there are laws to protect people living with the virus and we now understand so much more about the condition. However, despite this, many do not know the facts about how to protect themselves and others from HIV, and stigma and discrimination remain a reality for many people living with HIV. World AIDS Day is important as it reminds the public that HIV has not gone away - there is still a vital need to raise money, increase awareness, fight prejudice and improve education. Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq Oklahomans for Equality has a new Cub Scout Pack. The meetings with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts are held on Sundays at 4:00 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. At the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, we will be hosting the Council Oak Men's Chorale and Eric Himan on World AIDS Day. OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, December 17th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibit The Decemberexhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center feature works by Sonia Sniderman. Gay Men's Dinner Group December 1st, 6:30pm Marleys Chicago Style Pizza 6104 E. 71st St. Tulsa, OK 4/23/26, 5:17 PM �OkEq eNews December 1st, 2015 3 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-1st--201... Gay Men's Dinner Club is a . -· -· -· >:-~:-_:-------:-·'" -·-· social group for Men who identify as Gay and Bisexual and or Transgender Male. This months event will ., ., -· P I Z Z ERI R be held at Marley's Chicago Style Pizza, 6104 E. 71st St. Tulsa, OK. It is located on the southwest corner of 71st and Sheridan on the upper level. Please RSVP to Richard Haley by emailing: GuysDineToo@gmail.com )MARifY~~ir .J .I .... _.. _.. ... _.. _ .. -::---· # -.,., --.......::: • _ , . . , .. - • - " - "' - "' - .. •-· '" - · - · - _ .. _ .. 2016 Award Recipients: Now Accepting Nominations Oklahomans for Equality is now accepting nominations for 2016 award recipients. These individuals or organizations and companies have advocated for full equality for LGBTQ people and shown courage and compassion. Community Hero Award Carolyn Wagner Youth Leadership Award Russell Bennett Spiritual Inclusion Award Tulsa Pride Grand Marshal Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Contact Toby Jenkins at toby.jenkins@okeq.org with your nominations. "First Thursday" Art Exhibit: The Work of Sonia Sniderman Thursday, December 3, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Art Gallery, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 The December OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Sonia Sniderman. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 5:17 PM �OkEq eNews December 1st, 2015 4 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-1st--201... Counseling Services She says of her work: "In the paintings in this exhibit, I try to portray the somewhat off-kilter universe of my inner vision. This is a world where the mystery, wonder, menace, and absurdity of existence is represented by animal and bird images juxtaposed with serene young men or women lost in their private thoughts." Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org Counseling Services For more information, please contact Allie Jensen at alliejensen@cox.net. Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org Council Oak Men's Chorale Thurday, December 3 Friday, December 4 Tuesday, December 8 501 S. Cincinnati Ave, 8:00 p.m. Counseling Services Weekdays 4/23/26, 5:17 PM �OkEq eNews December 1st, 2015 5 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-1st--201... By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org SOS Group (J)ecem6er 3r~ 4tli &stli 'Trinity <EpiscopafCli.urcli - 8:00pm 501 S. Cincinnati)f:ve - 'I'uCsa, Ol The Council Oak Men's Chorale will be presenting their annual holiday concert in three upcoming performances . The concert, entitled "Echoes of December", will feature a number of traditional holiday numbers, such as "I Wonder as I Wander" , "Masters in this Hall" , and "God Rest You Merry Gentlemen" , along with more contemporary fare, including "It's the Most Wonderful Time of the Year" , "Little Saint Nick" , and more. Tickets are $20 and may be purchased through www.counciloak.org , or at the door. Early Special Ticket price before November 15 is "Buy 2 tickets for the price of 1". So hurry and get your tickets! For more information, please contact Olivia Cotter at olivia.cotter@okeq.org Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Tulsa Pride 2016 Meeting December 10, 7:00 p.m. Event Center, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 T U L S A A WEEKEND OF PRIDE Our annual meeting to discuss the Tulsa Pride Festival will be held in the Event Center at the Equality Center. If you have any questions or require more information, please contact Sarah Miller at sarah.miller@okeq.org or simply call the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center at 918-743-4297. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" 4/23/26, 5:17 PM �OkEq eNews December 1st, 2015 6 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-1st--201... PFLAG Tulsa Annual Holiday Dinner December 11, 5:30 p.m. All Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S. Peoria Ave, Tulsa, OK 74114 SAVE THE DATE! SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual E< Transgender Elders Please join PFLAG Tulsa for their annual holiday dinner. Bring friends, family and a dish to share for their potluck dinner. PFLAG OkEq: New Trustees Oklahomans for Equality is pleased to announce the appointment of three new trustees for the Board of Trustees. They will be serving a three year term along with the currently serving trustees. New Trustees: Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Shawna Baker Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 4/23/26, 5:17 PM �OkEq eNews December 1st, 2015 7 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-1st--201... Get F.I.T. David Nelson Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. $5 per session. Yoga by Zach :>j;Eake ACla~~t::<:: EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm Kris Wilmes Present Trustees: Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 $5.00 per Session Free Your Mind Ecstatic Dance Paul Allen 4/23/26, 5:17 PM �OkEq eNews December 1st, 2015 8 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-1st--201... Dan Burnstein We wish to thank Sue Welch and Mark Frost for having completed six years of service on the Board of Trustees. Thank you, Sue and Mark, for your sacrifice and service to Oklahomans for Equality. Every 4th Sunday of the Month 1:00 p.m. Wellness Room $5.00 per Session Free Your Mind Ecstatic Dance is a moving meditation practice based on the rhythms of life dynamic music by SRhythms teacher and DJ Eugene Hedlund play in the subtle realms of joy and freedom. We dance freely as the music moves us - there are no steps to learn! No dance experience is required. Be sure to wear comfortable clothing. Sue Welch For more information, contact Mia Pearl at openheartspace9@gmail.com or Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org. Gender Outreach Mark Frost Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before 4/23/26, 5:17 PM �OkEq eNews December 1st, 2015 9 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-1st--201... 8th Annual Falalala Ball Presents: HOLLA - T.H.E.Y. December 19, 7:00 p.m. - 11:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 ttolla-T. H. E.Y. attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Party with a PurpO$lZ Every Friday 7 p.m. Don your holiday apparel and join us for the 8th annual Falalala Ball! Please pull out your holiday dress and business casual. Nevermore Edits Acceptable admission is any of the following: Can goods and toiletries for St Jerome Parish Pantry Can goods for Diversity Christian Food Pantry Pet Food for A Friend for a Friend Toys for Women in Recovery Runway Fashion Show featuring THEY clothing Cash Bar Live Bands Lite Hor d'oeuvres Raffle Prizes Child Care Provided Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. For more information, please contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org. Sisters in Song Present: Hope, Peace & Joy Survivors of Incest Anonymous December 19, 7:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church, UCC 2900 S. Harvard Ave, Tulsa, OK 74114 Sisters ltt Sott5 britt5s \10lf Hope. Peace &Jo\1 2015 Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org PM fURDAY l=EU.OW$II/P CoNGREGATIONAL C#URCU UNffEO DIUR°' OF DIRIST 2900 Souru 14ARVARD /4/E TUI.SA ADMISSION $15 CJ.ilLDREN FREE www..dWeu!Jn,do"fJ. lil ;_,,fa @bw.lU Sisters in Song will be performing their Christmas concert entitled "Hope, Game Night 4/23/26, 5:17 PM �OkEq eNews December 1st, 2015 10 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-1st--201... Peace and Joy". They will be presenting several new works you've not heard before like "The Christmas Shopping Blues" and "Cold and Fugue" along with your favorites like "Sleigh Ride" and "Santa Baby". Soloists include Linda Paul on the harp, a Miriam Childers and Sue Bennett vocal duo, Jane Duenner and friend with a vocal duo, and our SIS Quartet Ensemble performing two acapella songs. This is a wonderful evening to get into the spirit of Christmas by slowing down and enjoying the sounds of Christmas. Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Refreshments will be served following the concert! For more information, contact Linda Barton Paul at 918-629-7259 or at harplinda1@gmail.com. Booking info: www.harplinda.com Booking is also available at gigmasters.com. Admission is $15; student tickets are free. ACA Open Enrollment Assistance Ends January 31, 2016 Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Contact The Insurance Crew! Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org - - - - - - - - Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org Dirk Hunter and Shane Allbee are insurance experts and they are more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the ACA. Dirk and Shane will be hosting informational meetings on: December 8, 12:00 p.m. - 3:00 p.m. December 9, 5:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. OR Call them today at 918-794-0777. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers 4/23/26, 5:17 PM �OkEq eNews December 1st, 2015 11 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-1st--201... Dirk Hunter: dirk@theinsurancecrew.com Shane Allbee: shane@theinsurancecrew.com and community. i the crew crew 420 S. Main St, Suite 205 Tulsa, OK 74103 Workforce Oklahoma Access Point The Grateful Day Foundation: New Transportation Program Qrnteful .Z,A!J F c0>1ULltllda.it::ii.CJ>:irn. X:irn.c:. The Grateful Day Foundation (GDF) is a local, non-profit and grassroots organization. We seek to help fill gaps in care for folks in the Tulsa area living with HIV/AIDS. We host an annual retreat for those folks as well. Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm We are currently working on a new transportation program to help these individuals to get to and from the following care facilities: Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing OSU Specialty Clinic Tulsa C.A.R.E.S. St. Jerome's Food Pantry Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. The GDF is seeking volunteers for our transportation project. The requirements are simple: you just need a car, a current driver's license and auto insurance. This project is all volunteer based and only requires a few hours a month. We will plan all rides/appointments on a monthly basis to help avoid any last minute confusions. We will offer "Hot Shot" rides in special circumstances. As we grow, we will be able to encompass more ride destinations, such as physical therapy, other mental health locations, etc. Please feel free to contact Chuck Courtney with the Grateful Day Foundation at 539-664-7206 or visit their website at www.gratefulday.org if you have any questions. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. It's Your Center - It's Your Day 4/23/26, 5:17 PM �OkEq eNews December 1st, 2015 12 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-1st--201... OkEq is offering our donors the opportunity to sponsor the organization for a day or even a complete week. When you choose to sponsor OkEq for a day, we will honor you or the person you designate by featuring our sponsor on our website for the day, with a presentation board greeting visitors in the front lobby on the day/week designated, by listing the honoree in our weekly eNews, and a special posting on our OkEq Facebook page. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Sponsors can select a day in honor of their birthday or to celebrate an anniversary date or in memory of an individual, or whatever day means the most to you. Find out more information here. Olivia Cotter Office Manager olivia.cotter@OkEq.org Invitation to Participate in Research Factors Related to the Health and Well-being of Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender and/or Queer Adults Aged 50 and Older If you identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer and are age 50 or over, we invite you to participate in a study about factors related to the health and wellbeing of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 and older. We also hope you will pass this invitation on to others. Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org We are a research team 4/23/26, 5:17 PM �OkEq eNews December 1st, 2015 13 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-1st--201... from Oklahoma State University in Stillwater and some of us have been working for a number of years to advocate for and learn more about things that contribute to the health and well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 or over (LGBTQ+). This study is part of that broader research and has two specific purposes: 1) to learn more about whether the measures in this study, which have been used with younger adults who identify as LGBT+, are also valid for individuals aged 50 or older; and 2) to look at the relationship between these measures and a measure of health and well-being. Tracy Allen Volunteer Coordinator Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org You are eligible for this study if you are aged 50 and over and identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer. If you are interested in learning more about this study, please click here. On the web link, we provide more information about the study, and direct you to where you can give your consent and complete the survey measures. Alternately, you may contact Dr. Sue C. Jacobs (sue.c.jacobs@okstate.edu or 405-744-9895) for more information about the study and/or to have one of the researchers below assist you in answering the research questions by entering them into a computer. Any answers or personal information you provide will be anonymous as you will not provide your name. If you have questions about your rights as a research volunteer, you may contact the IRB Office at 223 Scott Hall, Stillwater, OK 74078, 405-744-3377 or irb@okstate.edu. We hope you are able to be part of this research. What we learn will be reported as group data only and made available to service agencies, health and mental health providers, equality centers, professional journals, meetings, or others who request it. Your participation is voluntary and you will receive no compensation except to know you are contributing to knowledge about an important matter. Equality Center Pride Store 4/23/26, 5:17 PM �OkEq eNews December 1st, 2015 14 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-1st--201... These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Click here to purchase your pendant today! Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "The Construction of Homosexuality" By David F. Greenberg "At various times, homosexuality has been considered the noblest of loves, a horrible sin, a psychological condition or grounds for torture and execution. David F. Greenberg's careful, encyclopedic and important new book argues that homosexuality is only deviant because society has constructed, or defined, it as deviant. The book takes us over vast terrains of example and detail in the history of homosexuality."-Nicholas B. Dirks, New York Times Book Review 4/23/26, 5:17 PM �OkEq eNews December 1st, 2015 15 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-1st--201... Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. r--------------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L--------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 5:17 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/4823513b24e011131b64fca2d68e6d4d.pdf e6a3b02719daa51d225e146f5b282d3b PDF Text Text OkEq eNews December 9th, 2015 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-9th--201... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews December 9th, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor PFLAG Tulsa Annual Holiday Dinner EBA Mixer 2015 Falalala Ball Gamily Holiday Party The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders Monday-Wednesday and Friday 7:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Thursday 7:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m. Closed Saturday and Sunday 2016 Award Nominations Sisters in Song ACA Open Enrollment Assistance Grateful Day Foundation Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders is Tulsa's oldest and finest shoe repair shop featuring shoe repair and cowboy and western boot repair. We also provide premium maker and repair service for high end leather goods, bags, purses and various other items including custom work. It's Your Center - It's Your Day OSU Research Project "First Thursday" Art Exhibit OkEq night at Sisserou's Like us on Facebook or visit our website here. Karaoke for a Kause .4.J~llll,,,. . TULSA SHOE REBUILDERS 918.584.6062 Pride Store 5455-C SOUTH MINGO RD - TULSA, OK 74146 SHOE - BOOT - Rainbow Library LEATHER REPAIR PFLAG Tulsa Annual Holiday Dinner December 11, 5:30 p.m. All Souls Unitarian Church 2952 S. Peoria Ave, Tulsa, OK 74114 SAVE THE DATE! Join PFLAG Tulsa for their annual holiday dinner. Reception will be at 5:30 pm, Dinner at 6:00pm. Everyone is invited. Please bring a dish to share, PFLAG Tulsa will provide the turkey, paper goods and utensils. Joyous holiday entertainment will be performed by Sisters in Song and Council Oak Men's Chorale. V PFLAG TULSA CHAPTER EBA Mixer Wednesday, December 16, 6:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church, UCC, 2900 S. Harvard Ave, Tulsa, OK 7411 4 Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq 4/23/26, 5:18 PM �OkEq eNews December 9th, 2015 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-9th--201... E UALITY Business Alliance Oklahomans for Equality has a new Cub Scout Pack. The meetings with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts are held on Wednesdays at 6:30 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to olivia.cotter@okeq.org - - - - - for more information. The December EBA mixer will be hosted by Fellowship Congregational Church, UCC. At Fellowship, we're attracted to an inclusive faith that takes the Christian tradition seriously without needing it to be superior to something else. We strive for compassionate community, honest questions and meaningful dialogue about the mysteries of living life. We don't think that we have to believe alike in order to be together, but we do believe in a few of the same things - inclusion, compassion, justice and grace. 8th Annual Falalala Ball Presents: HOLLA - T.H.E.Y. December 19, 7:00 p.m. - 11:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, December 17th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibit The Decemberexhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center feature works by Sonia Sniderman. t1o11a-T. H. E.Y. Party with e Purpossz Don your holiday apparel and join us for the 8th annual Falalala Ball! Please pull out your holiday dress and business casual. Acceptable admission is any of the following: Can goods and toiletries for St Jerome Parish Pantry Can goods for Diversity Christian Food Pantry Pet Food for A Friend for a Friend Toys for Women in Recovery Runway Fashion Show featuring THEY clothing Cash Bar Live Bands Lite Hor d'oeuvres Raffle Prizes Child Care Provided 4/23/26, 5:18 PM �OkEq eNews December 9th, 2015 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-9th--201... For more information, please contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org. Gamily Holiday Party December 19, 7:00 p.m.- 11:00p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 While the big kids party downstairs Gamily will be rocking upstairs. We will have music, crafts, snacks, games, dancing and a visit from Santa Claus. Parents can attend the Falalala Ball while children enjoy family friendly holiday fun. For more information or to RSVP please contact Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 olivia.cotter@okeq.org The Gamily is a group of, and for, gay families in the Tulsa area, and those who support them. 2016 Award Recipients: Now Accepting Nominations Oklahomans for Equality is now accepting nominations for 2016 award recipients. These individuals or organizations and companies have advocated for full equality for LGBTQ people and shown courage and compassion. Community Hero Award Carolyn Wagner Youth Leadership Award Russell Bennett Spiritual Inclusion Award Tulsa Pride Grand Marshal Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Contact Toby Jenkins at toby.jenkins@okeq.org with your nominations. Sisters in Song Present: Hope, Peace & Joy December 19, 7:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church, UCC 2900 S. Harvard Ave, Tulsa, OK 74114 Counseling Services Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org 4/23/26, 5:18 PM �OkEq eNews December 9th, 2015 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-9th--201... Sisters ltt Sotts brittgs \10U Hore, Pc~cc &Jo'1 2015 PM SATURDAY FELJ.OW&HIP CoNGREGATTONAL C#URCH UNrrEO C#URC# OF C#RIST 2900 SOI.JTU I-IARVARO AvE TULSA ADMISSION $15 CHIWREN FREE Sisters in Song will be performing their Christmas concert entitled "Hope, Peace and Joy". Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org They will be presenting several new works you've not heard before like "The Christmas Shopping Blues" and "Cold and Fugue" along with your favorites like "Sleigh Ride" and "Santa Baby". Soloists include Linda Paul on the harp, a Miriam Childers and Sue Bennett vocal duo, Jane Duenner and friend with a vocal duo, and our SIS Quartet Ensemble performing two acapella songs. This is a wonderful evening to get into the spirit of Christmas by slowing down and enjoying the sounds of Christmas. Refreshments will be served following the concert! Counseling Services For more information, contact Linda Barton Paul at 918-629-7259 or at harplinda1@gmail.com. Weekdays By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org ----- Booking info: www.harplinda.com Booking is also available at gigmasters.com. Admission is $15; student tickets are free. ACA Open Enrollment Assistance Ends January 31, 2016 SOS Group Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Contact The Insurance Crew! Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org 4/23/26, 5:18 PM �OkEq eNews December 9th, 2015 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-9th--201... Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Dirk Hunter and Shane Allbee are insurance experts and they are more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the ACA. 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Dirk and Shane will be hosting informational meetings on: December 9, 5:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. OR Call them today at 918-794-0777. Dirk Hunter: dirk@theinsurancecrew.com Shane Allbee: shane@theinsurancecrew.com i the crew crew 420 S. Main St, Suite 205 Tulsa, OK 74103 The Grateful Day Foundation: New Transportation Program SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Qrnteful .,2.')A!J JF <011.JL:Dl.d&.ti0>:irn. :fi:.:Dl.c. The Grateful Day Foundation (GDF) is a local, non-profit and grassroots organization. We seek to help fill gaps in care for folks in the Tulsa area living with HIV/AIDS. We host an annual retreat for those folks as well. Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage ServJCes and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders We are currently working on a new transportation program to help these individuals to get to and from the following care facilities: OSU Specialty Clinic Tulsa C.A.R.E.S. St. Jerome's Food Pantry The GDF is seeking volunteers for our transportation project. The requirements are simple: you just need a car, a current driver's license and auto insurance. This project is all volunteer based and only requires a few hours a month. We will plan all rides/appointments on a monthly basis to help avoid any last minute confusions. We will offer "Hot Shot" rides in special circumstances. As we grow, we will be able to encompass more ride destinations, such as physical therapy, other mental health locations, etc. Please feel free to contact Chuck Courtney with the Grateful Day Foundation at Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group 4/23/26, 5:18 PM �OkEq eNews December 9th, 2015 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-9th--201... 539-664-7206 or visit their website at www.gratefulday.org if you have any questions. It's Your Center - It's Your Day every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. i!:l r ::j OkEq is offering our donors the opportunity to sponsor the organization for a day or even a complete week. When you choose to sponsor OkEq for a day, we will honor you or the person you designate by featuring our sponsor on our website for the day, with a presentation board greeting visitors in the front lobby on the day/week designated, by listing the honoree in our weekly eNews, and a special posting on our OkEq Facebook page. Sponsors can select a day in honor of their birthday or to celebrate an anniversary date or in memory of an individual, or whatever day means the most to you. Find out more information here. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Invitation to Participate in Research Factors Related to the Health and Well-being of Lesbian, Gay, Bi-sexual, Transgender and/or Queer Adults Aged 50 and Older If you identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer and are age 50 or over, we invite you to participate in a study about factors related to the health and well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 and older. We also hope you will pass this invitation on to others. We are a research team from Oklahoma State University in Stillwater and some of us have been working for a number of years to advocate for and learn more about things that contribute to the health and well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, Get F.I.T. Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. $5 per session. Yoga by Zach 4/23/26, 5:18 PM �OkEq eNews December 9th, 2015 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-9th--201... transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 or over (LGBTQ+). This study is part of that broader research and has two specific purposes: 1) to learn more about whether the measures in this study, which have been used with younger adults who identify as LGBT+, are also valid for individuals aged 50 or older; and 2) to look at the relationship between these measures and a measure of health and well-being. Take A Class EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 $5.00 per Session Free Your Mind Ecstatic Dance You are eligible for this study if you are aged 50 and over and identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer. If you are interested in learning more about this study, please click here. On the web link, we provide more information about the study, and direct you to where you can give your consent and complete the survey measures. Alternately, you may contact Dr. Sue C. Jacobs (sue.c.jacobs@okstate.edu or 405-744-9895) for more information about the study and/or to have one of the researchers below assist you in answering the research questions by entering them into a computer. Any answers or personal information you provide will be anonymous as you will not provide your name. If you have questions about your rights as a research volunteer, you may contact the IRB Office at 223 Scott Hall, Stillwater, OK 74078, 405-744-3377 or irb@okstate.edu. We hope you are able to be part of this research. What we learn will be reported as group data only and made available to service agencies, health and mental health providers, equality centers, professional journals, meetings, or others who request it. Your participation is voluntary and you will receive no compensation except to know you are contributing to knowledge about an important matter. "First Thursday" Art Exhibit: "A Sense of Wonder..." featuring the works of Dave Muller Thursday, January 7, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Art Gallery, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Every 4th Sunday of the Month 1:00 p.m. Wellness Room $5.00 per Session Free Your Mind Ecstatic Dance is a moving meditation practice based on the rhythms of life dynamic music by SRhythms teacher and DJ Eugene Hedlund play in the subtle realms of joy and freedom. We dance freely as the music moves us - there are no steps to learn! No dance experience is required. Be sure to wear comfortable clothing. 4/23/26, 5:18 PM �OkEq eNews December 9th, 2015 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-9th--201... The January Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E. 4th Street in Downtown Tulsa) will feature the works of Dave Muller in a show titled "A Sense of Wonder..." beginning with a reception on Thursday, January 7th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Dave Muller is a (recently retired) geologist and photographer with a passion for wildlife and landscape photography. Dave's photographs have been honored in local, state, and regional competitions. Dave has been an invited artist for the last two Tulsa MayFest Invitational Gallery exhibitions. He lived in and attended school in Iceland long ago, and remains reasonably fluent in Icelandic several decades later - he has led photographic trips to Iceland, the desert southwest, and around Oklahoma's Green Country, and he has lectured on a variety of photography-related topics at local and regional photographer gatherings. Dave's exhibit primarily focuses on the beauty in the natural world. Images in "A Sense of Wonder..." include canvas, metal, and traditional framed prints of landscapes and wildlife from Iceland, the desert southwest, and Northeastern Oklahoma. The goal of Dave's imagery is to encourage a sense of delight and awe in the beauty that surrounds us and to foster a sense of wonder at the magnificence in our world. Dave's images capture details we tend to miss - things that we are not aware of or overlook. For more information, contact Mia Pearl at openheartspace9@gmail.com or Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Dave Says of his work: "I hope that viewers of these images will have their spirits buoyed and their senses sharpened as they anticipate and prepare for their future encounters with the natural world". Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Nevermore Edits Every Friday 7:00 pm The show begins with a reception on Thursday, January 7th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. For more information, please contact Allie Jensen at alliejensen@cox.net A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. OkEq night at Sisserou's January 11, 11:00 a.m.-11:00 p.m. 107 North Boulder, Tulsa, OK 74103 It is OkEq night at Sisserou's 107 North Boulder with the entrance on North Main. 10% of the proceeds go to Oklahomans for Equality. Located in Tulsa's Brady Arts District, Survivors of Incest Anonymous 4/23/26, 5:18 PM �OkEq eNews December 9th, 2015 9 of 12 Sisserou's Restaurant concept is inspired by the colorful cuisine of the island of Dominica, the Nature Isle of the Caribbean. https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-9th--201... A TASTE OF THE CAJtI••EAN Karaoke for a Kause December 20, 10:00 p.m.- 2:00 a.m. New Age Renegade 1649 S Main St, Tulsa, OK 74119 Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma will be hosting New Age Renegade's December's "Karaoke for a Kause". Benefiting - Youth Services of Tulsa. Sunday, December 20, 2015 - 10 pm at New Age Renegade. 21+, No Cover EmCee - Absolute Empress VIII Chelsea Ray Starr 100% of all tips collected during each performance will go to the Kause. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno ICAO is a Nonprofit 501(c)(3) Charity Organization www.impcourtok.org Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Click here to purchase your pendant today! Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. 4/23/26, 5:18 PM �OkEq eNews December 9th, 2015 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-9th--201... Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "A Secret Edge" By Robin Reardon The one place Jason feels comfortable is on the track where he can run fast and hard. He loves the feel of the wind at his back, of his legs propelling him furiously around, the roar of the crowd in his ears. But now, even his sanctuary feels threatening. It isn't just the jerks who call him "faggot" in the locker room. A new guy has joined the team, and everything about him will challenge the way Jason sees life. From latenight showings of "La Cage Aux Folles" to reading Gandhi, he's running a new race on an uncertain course, and only one thing's for sure-his senior year is going to be unforgettable. With A Secret Edge, Robin Reardon delivers a sexy, sensitive coming-of-age novel about identity and courage, love and honor, anger and hope, and the many ways the truth can really set you free. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. 4/23/26, 5:18 PM �OkEq eNews December 9th, 2015 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-9th--201.. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Olivia Cotter Office Manager olivia.cotter@OkEq.org ---- Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org ---- 11 of 12 4/23/26, 5:18 PM �OkEq eNews December 9th, 2015 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-9th--201... Tracy Allen Volunteer Coordinator Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org r---------------------------------------------------------------, I I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I I ~---------------------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 5:18 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/6721668e6fc9da4a4fbd6f5a8620e0de.pdf add7bba1332095928d226882af27abd6 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews December 16th, 2015 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-16th--20... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews December 16th, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor 2015 Falalala Ball Gamily Holiday Party EBA Mixer The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders Monday-Wednesday and Friday 7:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Thursday 7:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m. Closed Saturday and Sunday Sisters in Song Article Headline GLSEN Donation It's Your Center - It's Your Day OSU Research Project Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders is Tulsa's oldest and finest shoe repair shop featuring shoe repair and cowboy and western boot repair. We also provide premium maker and repair service for high end leather goods, bags, purses and various other items including custom work. "First Thursday" Art Exhibit OkEq night at Sisserou's Karaoke for a Kause Pride Store Like us on Facebook or visit our website here. Rainbow Library .41-~1>,,. . TULSA SHOE REBUILDERS 918.584.6062 5455-C SOUTH MINGO RD - TULSA, OK 74146 SHOE - BOOT - LEATHER REPAIR 8th Annual Falalala Ball Presents: HOLLA - T.H.E.Y. December 19, 7:00 p.m. - 11:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 tlolla-T. H. E.Y. Party with a Purpo~!Z Don your holiday apparel and join us for the 8th annual Falalala Ball! Please pull out your holiday dress and business casual. Acceptable admission is any of the following: Can goods and toiletries for St Jerome Parish Pantry Can goods for Diversity Christian Food Pantry Pet Food for A Friend for a Friend Toys for Women in Recovery Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq Oklahomans for Equality has a new Cub Scout Pack. The meetings with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts are held 4/23/26, 5:19 PM �OkEq eNews December 16th, 2015 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-16th--20... Runway Fashion Show featuring THEY clothing Live Performances by: Robbie Dee Ewens - Renowned Violinist Ben Matthews - Acoustic Guitarist Emiliano Bonilla - Beefcake Bodybuilder Grant Massey - Acoustic Guitarist Mr. and Mrs. Claus Cash Bar Lite Hor d'oeuvres Raffle Prizes: Weekend Stay at The Hyatt Regency Pizza Oven Janet Jackson Tickets Restaurant Tour Gift Package And More Holiday Wreath Auction Child Care Provided For more information, please contact Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org. Gamily Holiday Pajama Party on Wednesdays at 6:30 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, December 17th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. December 19, 6:30 p.m.- 10:30p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 OkEq Art Exhibit While the big kids party downstairs Gamily will be rocking upstairs in our jammies. So put your PJ's on and get ready for fun! We will have holiday music and karaoke, crafts, snacks, games, dancing and a visit from Santa Claus. The best part is, every child gets a puppy to take home! The Decemberexhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center feature works by Sonia Sniderman. Parents can attend the Falalala Ball while children enjoy family friendly holiday fun. For more information or to RSVP please contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org The Gamily is a group of, and for, gay families in the Tulsa area, and those who support them. EBA Mixer Wednesday, December 16, 6:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church, UCC, 2900 S. Harvard Ave, Tulsa, OK 7411 4 Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at 4/23/26, 5:19 PM �OkEq eNews December 16th, 2015 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-16th--20... E UALITY no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Business Alliance The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to olivia.cotter@okeq.org - - - - for more information. The December EBA mixer will be hosted by Fellowship Congregational Church, UCC. At Fellowship, we're attracted to an inclusive faith that takes the Christian tradition seriously without needing it to be superior to something else. We strive for compassionate community, honest questions and meaningful dialogue about the mysteries of living life. We don't think that we have to believe alike in order to be together, but we do believe in a few of the same things - inclusion, compassion, justice and grace. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Sisters in Song Present: Hope, Peace & Joy December 19, 7:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church, UCC 2900 S. Harvard Ave, Tulsa, OK 74114 Counseling Services Sisters ltt Sotts britt5s \10U Hope, Peace &Joli 2015 PM Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org ---- SATURDAY FEU..OWSUIP CiJNGllEGATIONAL C#URCSI UNffEO UIURC# OF UIRl&r 2900 Sol/rU 1-/ARVARO /JVE TULSA ADMISSION $15 °'/LOREN FREE Sisters in Song will be performing their Christmas concert entitled "Hope, Peace and Joy". They will be presenting several new works you've not heard before like "The Christmas Shopping Blues" and "Cold and Fugue" along with your favorites like "Sleigh Ride" and Counseling Services 4/23/26, 5:19 PM �OkEq eNews December 16th, 2015 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-16th--20... "Santa Baby". Soloists include Linda Paul on the harp, a Miriam Childers and Sue Bennett vocal duo, Jane Duenner and friend with a vocal duo, and our SIS Quartet Ensemble performing two acapella songs. This is a wonderful evening to get into the spirit of Christmas by slowing down and enjoying the sounds of Christmas. Refreshments will be served following the concert! Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org For more information, contact Linda Barton Paul at 918-629-7259 or at harplinda1@gmail.com. Booking info: www.harplinda.com Booking is also available at gigmasters.com. Admission is $15; student tickets are free. The Danish Girl Viewing Event January 1, 6:00 p.m. Reception and Discussion, 7:00p.m. Viewing Circle Cinema 12 S. Lewis Ave, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74104 Join Oklahomans for Equality along with Circle Cinema at the viewing event of THE DANISH GIRL. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org As well as our amazing guests for an astonishing discussion on the film and today's transgender issues. Medical Expert, Dr. Laura Arrowsmith Mental Health Expert, Taylor Burns and Transgender Legal Expert, Alyssa Bryant Academy Award winner Eddie Redmayne stars as the Danish artist who was one of the first recipients of sexual reassignment surgery in the1920s. The remarkable love story inspired by the lives of Lili Elbe and Gerda Wegender, is expertly adapted for the screen by Oscar winning director Tom Hooper. Lili and Gerda's marriage and painting evolve as they navigate Lili's groundbreaking journey as a transgender pioneer. Click here to purchase tickets. GLSEN Book Donation SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather The Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library received it's largest single donation to date, this month. Jerry Custer, our volunteer librarian, is thrilled to add over 100 new titles to our library catalog. 4/23/26, 5:19 PM �OkEq eNews December 16th, 2015 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-16th--20... We would like to extend a huge THANK YOU to Gay, Lesbian, Straight Education Network (GLSEN) and to all the book donors this month! Your generous donations provide resources to educate, advocate and entertain our LGBT community. It's Your Center - It's Your Day SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) OkEq is offering our donors the opportunity to sponsor the organization for a day or even a complete week. When you choose to sponsor OkEq for a day, we will honor you or the person you designate by featuring our sponsor on our website for the day, with a presentation board greeting visitors in the front lobby on the day/week designated, by listing the honoree in our weekly eNews, and a special posting on our OkEq Facebook page. Sponsors can select a day in honor of their birthday or to celebrate an anniversary date or in memory of an individual, or whatever day means the most to you. Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Service!i and Advoc,,cy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Find out more information here. Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Invitation to Participate in Research Factors Related to the Health and Well-being of Lesbian, Gay, Bi-sexual, Transgender and/or Queer Adults Aged 50 and Older If you identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer and are age 50 or over, we invite you to participate in a study about factors related to the health and well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 and older. We also hope you will pass this invitation on to others. 4/23/26, 5:19 PM �OkEq eNews December 16th, 2015 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-16th--20... We are a research team from Oklahoma State University in Stillwater and some of us have been working for a number of years to advocate for and learn more about things that contribute to the health and well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 or over (LGBTQ+). This study is part of that broader research and has two specific purposes: 1) to learn more about whether the measures in this study, which have been used with younger adults who identify as LGBT+, are also valid for individuals aged 50 or older; and 2) to look at the relationship between these measures and a measure of health and well-being. Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Tulsa Area Prime Timers You are eligible for this study if you are aged 50 and over and identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer. If you are interested in learning more about this study, please click here. On the web link, we provide more information about the study, and direct you to where you can give your consent and complete the survey measures. Alternately, you may contact Dr. Sue C. Jacobs (sue.c.jacobs@okstate.edu or 405-744-9895) for more information about the study and/or to have one of the researchers below assist you in answering the research questions by entering them into a computer. Any answers or personal information you provide will be anonymous as you will not provide your name. If you have questions about your rights as a research volunteer, you may contact the IRB Office at 223 Scott Hall, Stillwater, OK 74078, 405-744-3377 or irb@okstate.edu. We hope you are able to be part of this research. What we learn will be reported as group data only and made available to service agencies, health and mental health providers, equality centers, professional journals, meetings, or others who request it. Your participation is voluntary and you will receive no compensation except to know you are contributing to knowledge about an important matter. "First Thursday" Art Exhibit: "A Sense of Wonder..." featuring the works of Dave Muller Thursday, January 7, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Art Gallery, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Get F.I.T. Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. $5 per session. 4/23/26, 5:19 PM �OkEq eNews December 16th, 2015 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-16th--20... Yoga by Zach ::>jJ,ake A Cla~~t::<: EVERY SUNDAY @4:30 pm The January Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E. 4th Street in Downtown Tulsa) will feature the works of Dave Muller in a show titled "A Sense of Wonder..." beginning with a reception on Thursday, January 7th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Dave Muller is a (recently retired) geologist and photographer with a passion for wildlife and landscape photography. Dave's photographs have been honored in local, state, and regional competitions. Dave has been an invited artist for the last two Tulsa MayFest Invitational Gallery exhibitions. He lived in and attended school in Iceland long ago, and remains reasonably fluent in Icelandic several decades later - he has led photographic trips to Iceland, the desert southwest, and around Oklahoma's Green Country, and he has lectured on a variety of photography-related topics at local and regional photographer gatherings. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 $5.00 per Session Free Your Mind Ecstatic Dance Dave's exhibit primarily focuses on the beauty in the natural world. Images in "A Sense of Wonder..." include canvas, metal, and traditional framed prints of landscapes and wildlife from Iceland, the desert southwest, and Northeastern Oklahoma. The goal of Dave's imagery is to encourage a sense of delight and awe in the beauty that surrounds us and to foster a sense of wonder at the magnificence in our world. Dave's images capture details we tend to miss - things that we are not aware of or overlook. Dave Says of his work: "I hope that viewers of these images will have their spirits buoyed and their senses sharpened as they anticipate and prepare for their future encounters with the natural world". Every 4th Sunday of the Month 1:00 p.m. Wellness Room $5.00 per Session The show begins with a reception on Thursday, January 7th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. For more information, please contact Allie Jensen at alliejensen@cox.net OkEq night at Sisserou's January 11, 11:00 a.m.-11:00 p.m. 107 North Boulder, Tulsa, OK 74103 Free Your Mind Ecstatic Dance is a moving meditation practice based on the rhythms of life dynamic music by SRhythms teacher and DJ Eugene Hedlund play in the subtle realms of joy and freedom. We dance freely as the music moves us - there are no steps to learn! No dance experience is required. Be sure to wear comfortable clothing. 4/23/26, 5:19 PM �OkEq eNews December 16th, 2015 8 of 12 It is OkEq night at Sisserou's, 107 North Boulder, with the entrance on North Main. 10% of the proceeds go to Oklahomans for Equality. Located in Tulsa's Brady Arts District, Sisserou's Restaurant concept is inspired by the colorful cuisine of the island of Dominica, the Nature Isle of the Caribbean. https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-16th--20... - /' ,55~,,,,-c:7P<_.• c 5 A TASTE OF THE CA• I •JJEAN . Karaoke for a Kause December 20, 10:00 p.m.- 2:00 a.m. New Age Renegade 1649 S Main St, Tulsa, OK 74119 The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma will be hosting New Age Renegade's December's "Karaoke for a Kause". Benefiting - Youth Services of Tulsa. Sunday, December 20, 2015 - 10 pm at New Age Renegade. 21+, No Cover EmCee - Absolute Empress VIII Chelsea Ray Starr 100% of all tips collected during each performance will go to the Kause. For more information, contact Mia Pearl at openheartspace9@gmail.com or Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. ICAO is a Nonprofit 501(c)(3) Charity Organization www.impcourtok.org Nevermore Edits Every Friday 7:00 pm Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Click here to purchase your pendant today! Survivors of Incest Anonymous 4/23/26, 5:19 PM �OkEq eNews December 16th, 2015 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-16th--20... Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Game Night Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Almost a Woman" By Esmeralda Santiago Following the enchanting story recounted in When I Was Puerto Rican of the author's emergence from the barrios of Brooklyn to the prestigious Performing Arts High School in Manhattan, Esmeralda Santiago delivers the tale of her young adulthood, where she continually strives to find a balance between becoming American and staying Puerto Rican. While translating for her mother Mami at the welfare office in the morning, starring as Cleopatra at New York's prestigious Performing Arts High School in the afternoons, and dancing salsa all night, she begins to defy her mother's protective rules, only to find that independence brings new dangers and dilemmas. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. ALM Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno T Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org - - - - - - Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. 4/23/26, 5:19 PM �OkEq eNews December 16th, 2015 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-16th--20... Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. 4/23/26, 5:19 PM �OkEq eNews December 16th, 2015 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-16th--20.. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Olivia Cotter Office Manager olivia.cotter@OkEq.org ---- Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org ---- 11 of 12 4/23/26, 5:19 PM �OkEq eNews December 16th, 2015 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-16th--20... Tracy Allen Volunteer Coordinator Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org r---------------------------------------------------------------, I I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I I ~---------------------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 5:19 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/13b29f82ac5c1fdba922d1aa94f56a2f.pdf 087694c24a0aef7cb148129528d90ebd PDF Text Text OkEq eNews December 22nd, 2015 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-22nd--20... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews December 22nd, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Special Holiday Services The Danish Girl Roughneck Roller Derby The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders Monday-Wednesday and Friday 7:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Thursday 7:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m. Closed Saturday and Sunday "First Thursday" Art Exhibit Ladies Social Club OkEq night at Sisserou's EBA Mixer Tulsa Pride Bingo Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders is Tulsa's oldest and finest shoe repair shop featuring shoe repair and cowboy and western boot repair. We also provide premium maker and repair service for high end leather goods, bags, purses and various other items including custom work. Before the I Do Wild Hearts Ball It's Your Center - It's Your Day OSU Research Project Like us on Facebook or visit our website here. Karaoke for a Kause .411-E!!lill1>,,. . TU LSA SHOE REBUI LDERS 918.584.6062 5455-C SOUTH MINGO RD - TULSA, OK 74146 SHOE - BOOT - LEATHER Pride Store Rainbow Library REPAIR ~Oklahomans For Equality Happy Holidays 2015 Holiday Schedule for our Affirming, Inclusive and Welcoming Faith Communities Christmas Services All Souls Unitarian Church 2952 South Peoria Avenue Tulsa, OK 74114 Dec 24, 4:30 pm, 6:00 pm & 7:30 pm Candlelight service Healthcare Navigator Every Tuesday in January from 12:00 p.m.-5:00 p.m. Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator in the Rainbow Library She will more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. 4/23/26, 5:20 PM �OkEq eNews December 22nd, 2015 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-22nd--20... Bethany Christian Church 6730 South Sheridan Road Tulsa, OK 74133 Dec 24, 7:00 pm Boston Avenue United Methodist Church 1301 S Boston Ave. Tulsa, OK 74119 Dec 24, 2:00 pm Children's Service of the Bells 4:00 pm & 6:00 pm Candlelight Worship Services 11:00 pm Candlelight Communion Service Christ Church Episcopal 10901 South Yale Ave Tulsa, OK 74137 Dec 24, 5:30 pm & 9:00 pm Candlelight Service Dec 25, 10:00 am Holy Communion Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq Oklahomans for Equality has a new Cub Scout Pack. The meetings with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts are held on Wednesdays at 6:30 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. College Hill Presbyterian Church 712 South Columbia Avenue Tulsa, OK 74104 Dec 24, 6:30 pm Christmas Eve and Candlelight Service Diversity Christian Fellowship International 627 South 131st East Avenue Tulsa, OK 74108 Dec 24, 6:00 pm Candlelight Service Eastside Christian Church 1438 S Indianapolis Ave Tulsa, OK 74112 Dec 24, 6:00 pm The Episcopal Church of The Redeemer 213 North Seminole Ave. Okmulgee, OK 74447 Dec 24, 7:00 pm Christ Mass with reception to follow Fellowship Congregational Church UCC 2900 South Harvard Tulsa, OK 74114 Dec 24, 7:00 pm Christmas Eve Service OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, January 21st Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibit The Decemberexhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center feature works by Sonia Sniderman. Fellowship Lutheran Church ELCA 6727 South Sheridan Road Tulsa, OK 74133 4/23/26, 5:20 PM �OkEq eNews December 22nd, 2015 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-22nd--20... Dec 24, 4:00 pm, 6:00 pm & 8:00 pm First Christian Church 913 S Boulder Ave Tulsa, OK 74119 Dec 24th, 10:30 pm Pre Service Music 11:00 pm Christmas Eve Service Good Shepherd Episcopal Church 1420 E Dewey Sapulpa, OK 74066 Dec 24, 5:30 Holy Eucharist, 10:30 Christmas Eve Worship Hope Unitarian 8432 South Sheridan Road Tulsa, OK 74133 Dec 24, 6:00 pm Candlelight Service Parish Church of St Jerome 205 West King Tulsa, OK 74106 Dec 24, Celebration of Midnight Mass 10:00 pm Reception 11:00 pm Holy Eucharist Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 St Dunstan's Episcopal Church 5635 East 71st Street Tulsa, OK 74136 Dec 24, 7 pm Choral Holy Eucharist 10:30 pm Carols for the Christ Child 11:00 pm Festival Choral Holy Eucharist St Paul's United Methodist Church 1442 South Quaker Avenue (one block east of Peoria on 15th Street) Tulsa, OK 74120 Dec 24, 6:00 pm Candlelight Worship & Communion Trinity Episcopal Church 501 South Cincinnati Avenue Tulsa, OK 74103 Dec 24, 5 pm Christmas Pageant and Eucharist Rite II 5:00 pm Communion Service with Children's Pageant 8:30 pm Choral Prelude 9:00 pm Traditional Christmas Eve Service 10:30 pm Choral Prelude Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 5:20 PM �OkEq eNews December 22nd, 2015 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-22nd--20... 11:00 pm Traditional Christmas Eve Service Dec 25, 10:00 am Christmas Day Service with Carols Unity Center of Tulsa 1830 South Boston Avenue Tulsa, OK 74119 Dec 24, 6:00 pm Candle lighting service Unity Church of Christianity 3355 S. Jamestown Ave. Tulsa, OK 74135 Dec 24, 6:30 pm Candlelight Service Special Guest Music by Ashlee Elmore University United Methodist Church 500 S College Tulsa, OK 74104 Dec 24, 6:30 pm Candlelight Service of Lessons and Carols Counseling Services Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org Kwanzaa Services (Begins Friday, December 26th) Church of the Restoration Unitarian Universalist 1314 N Greenwood Ave Tulsa, OK 74106 Dec 27, 11:00 am, Kwanzaa Service The Danish Girl Viewing Event January 1, 6:00 p.m. Reception and Discussion, 7:00p.m. Viewing Circle Cinema 12 S. Lewis Ave, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74104 Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org Join Oklahomans for Equality along with Circle Cinema at the viewing event of THE DANISH GIRL. As well as our amazing guests for an astonishing discussion on the film and today's transgender issues. Medical Expert, Dr. Laura Arrowsmith Mental Health Expert, Taylor Burns and Transgender Legal Expert, Alyssa Bryant Academy Award winner Eddie Redmayne stars as the Danish artist who was one of the first recipients of sexual reassignment surgery in the1920s. The remarkable love story inspired by Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. 4/23/26, 5:20 PM �OkEq eNews December 22nd, 2015 5 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-22nd--20... the lives of Lili Elbe and Gerda Wegender, is expertly adapted for the screen by Oscar winning director Tom Hooper. Lili and Gerda's marriage and painting evolve as they navigate Lili's groundbreaking journey as a transgender pioneer. Click here to purchase tickets. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org SOS Group Roughneck Roller Derby December 29, 8:00 p.m.- 10:00 p.m. Route 66 Roller Dome 9661 New Sapulpa Rd, Sapulpa, OK CALLING ALL LADIES INTERESTED IN TRYING ROLLER DERBY!! Roughneck Roller Derby is hosting an open recruitment night!! The event is open to all women 18+ who would like to learn more about the sport and the league, and get all the info they need to get started in our Fresh Meat training program! The event is also for anyone interested in volunteering or reffing! Next Fresh Meat Training Program will start on Monday, January 11th, 2016. ~ ~ ROUGHNECK I Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org I ROLLER DERBY I ~ TULSAOKLAHOMA'SELITE, All WOMEN, ~ ~ FLAT-TRACK ROLLER DERBY LEAGUE! ~ ~ DD YOU HAVE WHAT IT TAKES TD ~ ~ BE YOUR OWNHERO? ~ ~ He1e·sgou1 chance to fig out ~ ~ ~ ~ DEC ROUTE 66 mo\ ~ ~ 29 ROLLER OOME \!'.!V ~ ~ 9661 NEW SAPULPA RO, SAPULPA, OK ~ ~ NO EXPERIENCE NECESSARY,WOMEN 18• ~ ~ ~ ~ Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather No experience necessary! Seriously! We will teach you everything you need to know! "First Thursday" Art Exhibit: "A Sense of Wonder..." featuring the works of Dave Muller Thursday, January 7, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Art Gallery, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Brought to You Bi the Letter B First Monday of every month at 7:00 p.m. The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. The January Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E. 4th Street in Downtown Tulsa) will feature the works of Dave Muller in a show titled "A Sense of Wonder..." beginning with a reception on Thursday, January 7th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Dave Muller is a (recently retired) geologist and photographer with a passion for wildlife and landscape photography. Dave's photographs have been honored in local, state, and regional competitions. Dave has been an invited artist for the last two Tulsa 4/23/26, 5:20 PM �OkEq eNews December 22nd, 2015 6 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-22nd--20... MayFest Invitational Gallery exhibitions. He lived in and attended school in Iceland long ago, and remains reasonably fluent in Icelandic several decades later - he has led photographic trips to Iceland, the desert southwest, and around Oklahoma's Green Country, and he has lectured on a variety of photography-related topics at local and regional photographer gatherings. Dave's exhibit primarily focuses on the beauty in the natural world. Images in "A Sense of Wonder..." include canvas, metal, and traditional framed prints of landscapes and wildlife from Iceland, the desert southwest, and Northeastern Oklahoma. The goal of Dave's imagery is to encourage a sense of delight and awe in the beauty that surrounds us and to foster a sense of wonder at the magnificence in our world. Dave's images capture details we tend to miss - things that we are not aware of or overlook. Dave Says of his work: "I hope that viewers of these images will have their spirits buoyed and their senses sharpened as they anticipate and prepare for their future encounters with the natural world". SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage ServJCes and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgendor Elders The show begins with a reception on Thursday, January 7th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. For more information, please contact Allie Jensen at alliejensen@cox.net Ladies Social Club January 8, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Make friends, develop community and have fun with the Ladies Social Club at OkEq! This brand new women's programming provides LGBT women (and our allies!) the opportunity to develop a great support network while also offering an alternative to the bar scene-but don't worry! We'll still gladly enjoy a few adult beverages! Each month will feature different activities that will largely be driven by your own input, ladies! You're also welcome to just come and hang out with the other women if that's more your style. The LSC will meet on the second Friday of each month from 6-9 p.m. Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 4/23/26, 5:20 PM �OkEq eNews December 22nd, 2015 7 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-22nd--20... Our first meeting is Jan. 8, and we will be playing Cards Against Humanity! If you're not familiar with this game, bring your sense of humor and remember that we can't take ourselves too seriously... but we can have some serious fun! It's BYOB, so feel free to bring your favorite bottle of wine or beer! Connect with the LSC on Facebook by searching for OkEq Ladies Social Club (or click here). Questions? Email Kelley Parker, LSC facilitator, at ladiessocialclubtulsa@gmail.com. OkEq night at Sisserou's January 11, 11:00 a.m.-11:00 p.m. 107 North Boulder, Tulsa, OK 74103 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 It is OkEq night at Sisserou's, 107 North Boulder, with the entrance on North Main. 10% of the proceeds go to Oklahomans for Equality. Located in Tulsa's Brady Arts District, Sisserou's Restaurant concept is inspired by the colorful cuisine of the island of Dominica, the Nature Isle of the Caribbean. Equality Business Alliance Mixer January 20, 6:00 p.m. Hyatt Regency Tulsa 100 East Second Street, Tulsa, OK 74103 E UALITY Business Alliance Get F.I.T. Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. $5 per session. Yoga by Zach Take A Class The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to olivia.cotter@okeq.org - - - - for more information. EVERY SUNDAY The January EBA mixer will be hosted by Hyatt Regency Tulsa. Please be advised we will validate self-parking in the attached garage. We will not be validating valet parking, only self-parking. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center @4:30 pm 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 $5.00 per Session Free Your Mind Ecstatic Dance 4/23/26, 5:20 PM �OkEq eNews December 22nd, 2015 8 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-22nd--20... Tulsa Pride Bingo 2016 January 29, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Every 4th Sunday of the Month 1:00 p.m. Wellness Room $5.00 per Session Free Your Mind Ecstatic Dance is a moving meditation practice based on the rhythms of life dynamic music by SRhythms teacher and DJ Eugene Hedlund play in the subtle realms of joy and freedom. We dance freely as the music moves us - there are no steps to learn! No dance experience is required. Be sure to wear comfortable clothing. Join us for our first Tulsa Pride Bingo of 2016. The beautiful and outrageous Nicole Carrington will be our host once again. Nicole has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our biggest pride fundraiser this Pride season. Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. You don't want to miss the fun, click here to put this on your calendar now! Admission is $10 for general admission, $20 Adult Beverage admission or buy a whole table for 8 bingo bangers for a $150 which includes unlimited drinks for your table. Proceeds go toward Tulsa Pride 2016. Before the I Do February 6, 12:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74101 "Before The I Do" gives couples practical tools to use now or later on when you need them. The workshop covers 3 keys to a great relationship, how to work as a team to solve conflict, how to keep the romance alive and much more. The SpeakerListener technique helps each of you to be heard in times of stress and is a crowd favorite. Whether For more information, contact Mia Pearl at openheartspace9@gmail.com or Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, 4/23/26, 5:20 PM �OkEq eNews December 22nd, 2015 9 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-22nd--20... you're just starting out together or have been together for years, you WILL benefit from attending. Come see for yourself and join the thousands of Oklahomans who are now experiencing more satisfying relationships! Class will be held at Oklahomans for Equality on February 6th from noon to 4pm. Reservations are required. Email Carrie at carrie@protectioncoalition.org to reserve your space today. education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Nevermore Edits Every Friday 7:00 pm Wild Hearts Ball Presents: Second Chance Prom February 13, 7:00 p.m.- 11:00 P.M. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74101 A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Oklahomans for Equality is throwing a party, and you are invited. If you remember your prom and/or if you want a chance to do it again, this is it! Dust off those old prom dresses and tuxedos, or come with a totally new and funky creation of your own. Finally attend the prom you dreamed of. Dance the night away as you enjoy 2 decks of MAX music. Cheesy blue ruffled tuxedos, poofy taffeta dresses, clichéd themes, color coordinated corsages, sweaty palms, plenty of dad's AquaVelva, awkward slow dancing, plush ride for the big night, the obligatory staged photo... All of it adds up to one word: PROM! Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org T he Second Chance Prom is your opportunity to experience a prom and take the person we really want to go with and come dressed as we're most comfortable. Many of us were unable to go with the person we really wanted to go with to our high school prom. At this event, everyone can feel free to bring who they wish and dress how they want. It's Your Center - It's Your Day Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great 4/23/26, 5:20 PM �OkEq eNews December 22nd, 2015 10 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-22nd--20... board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno OkEq is offering our donors the opportunity to sponsor the organization for a day or even a complete week. When you choose to sponsor OkEq for a day, we will honor you or the person you designate by featuring our sponsor on our website for the day, with a presentation board greeting visitors in the front lobby on the day/week designated, by listing the honoree in our weekly eNews, and a special posting on our OkEq Facebook page. Sponsors can select a day in honor of their birthday or to celebrate an anniversary date or in memory of an individual, or whatever day means the most to you. Find out more information here. Invitation to Participate in Research Factors Related to the Health and Well-being of Lesbian, Gay, Bi-sexual, Transgender and/or Queer Adults Aged 50 and Older If you identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer and are age 50 or over, we invite you to participate in a study about factors related to the health and well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 and older. We also hope you will pass this invitation on to others. We are a research team from Oklahoma State University in Stillwater and some of us have been working for a number of years to advocate for and learn more about things that contribute to the health and well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 or over (LGBTQ+). Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. This study is part of that broader research and has two specific purposes: 1) to learn more about whether the measures in this study, which have been used with younger adults who identify as LGBT+, are also valid for individuals aged 50 or older; and 2) to look at the relationship between these measures and a measure 4/23/26, 5:20 PM �OkEq eNews December 22nd, 2015 11 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-22nd--20... of health and well-being. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. You are eligible for this study if you are aged 50 and over and identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer. If you are interested in learning more about this study, please click here. On the web link, we provide more information about the study, and direct you to where you can give your consent and complete the survey measures. Alternately, you may contact Dr. Sue C. Jacobs (sue.c.jacobs@okstate.edu or 405-744-9895) for more information about the study and/or to have one of the researchers below assist you in answering the research questions by entering them into a computer. Any answers or personal information you provide will be anonymous as you will not provide your name. If you have questions about your rights as a research volunteer, you may contact the IRB Office at 223 Scott Hall, Stillwater, OK 74078, 405-744-3377 or irb@okstate.edu. We hope you are able to be part of this research. What we learn will be reported as group data only and made available to service agencies, health and mental health providers, equality centers, professional journals, meetings, or others who request it. Your participation is voluntary and you will receive no compensation except to know you are contributing to knowledge about an important matter. Karaoke for a Kause December 20, 10:00 p.m.- 2:00 a.m. New Age Renegade 1649 S Main St, Tulsa, OK 74119 HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma will be hosting New Age Renegade's December's "Karaoke for a Kause". Benefiting - Youth Services of Tulsa. Sunday, December 20, 2015 - 10 pm at New Age Renegade. 21+, No Cover EmCee - Absolute Empress VIII Chelsea Ray Starr 100% of all tips collected during each performance will go to the Kause. 4/23/26, 5:20 PM �OkEq eNews December 22nd, 2015 12 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-22nd--20... Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ICAO is a Nonprofit 501(c)(3) Charity Organization www.impcourtok.org Olivia Cotter Office Manager olivia.cotter@OkEq.org Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Click here to purchase your pendant today! Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org ._ ~Ii ~-!!iFl -.. - , :'.·.:. - ! ' :1 ·. ,.._ ~ Tracy Allen Volunteer Coordinator Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 4/23/26, 5:20 PM �OkEq eNews December 22nd, 2015 13 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-22nd--20... Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Coming Out Spiritually: The Next Step" By Christian de la Huerta In these times of dramatic social change, when the highly charged issue of homosexuality is undeniably causing controversy in many arenas--religion, marriage, politics, education, the military-Christian de la Huerta, founder and director of Q-Spirit, offers a fresh outlook on gay spirituality and how to assert it. A spiritual awakening is occurring in the gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgendered community, as PIRITU\LL\ C O t-.1 I . C O ll 'I in much of the world. In this encompassing guidebook, de la Huerta looks at Buddhism, Christianity, Judaism, Hinduism, Taoism, Sufism, New Thought, New Age, and Earthbased religions, including Native American. Cogently investigating these traditions' attitudes, teachings, and policies toward homosexuality, the author gives the queer reader a foundation from which to begin building a spiritual connection. Coming Out (" h r , , t , u II d , I " II r t <1 Spiritually also synthesizes ten spiritual fort'fli·nr<l 1,.,. tilltbcw l x roles or archetypes people we now call gay or queer have often assumed and continue to enact today: creators of beauty, consciousness scouts, mediators, shamans, and healers, among others. Drawing on these models while acting as a guide to the queer community, the author shows how to look deeper inside; to reach higher than ever before; to step forth more fully into a rightful self. An impassioned call to action, Coming Out Spiritually alternatively touches, challenges, encourages, and supports the queer community to fully reclaim its spiritual heritage. Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. ,. - - okeq L- --, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org --. 4/23/26, 5:20 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/b10bec36560445e26366bc1fbeb6235c.pdf 041dc32f17c6e08cdebac4a45ad5745e PDF Text Text OkEq eNews December 30th, 2015 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... SHARE: Join Our Email List OkEq eNews December 30th, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Dr. and Mrs. Kastl The Danish Girl "First Thursday" Art Exhibit The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders Monday-Wednesday and Friday 7:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Thursday 7:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m. Closed Saturday and Sunday Ladies Social Club OkEq night at Sisserou's MLK Parade EBA Mixer Tulsa Pride Bingo Tulsa Shoe Rebuilders is Tulsa's oldest and finest shoe repair shop featuring shoe repair and cowboy and western boot repair. We also provide premium maker and repair service for high end leather goods, bags, purses and various other items including custom work. The Empress' Ball Before the I Do Wild Hearts Ball Gamily Valentines Party Like us on Facebook or visit our website here. Get in Shape dfP.!!lllll~ . TULSA SHOE REBUILDERS 918.584.6062 5455-C SOUTH MINGO RD - TULSA, OK 74146 SHOE - BOOT - LEATHER REPAIR OSU Research Project Pride Store Rainbow Library Dr. and Mrs. Kastl are sponsoring the day! Thursday, December 31 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Lorie and Judy Kastl have made a generous donation to sponsor the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Thursday, December 31st . They are sponsoring the day in honor of the New Years Eve holiday. Thank you ladies! OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, January 21st Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibit 4/23/26, 5:21 PM �OkEq eNews December 30th, 2015 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... If you are interested in making a donation to sponsor the Equality Center for your special day, click here. The Decemberexhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center feature works by Sonia Sniderman. The Danish Girl Viewing Event January 1, 6:00 p.m. Reception and Discussion Prior to the Film 7:00p.m. Viewing of The Danish Girl Circle Cinema 12 S. Lewis Ave, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74104 Join Oklahomans for Equality along with Circle Cinema at the viewing event of THE DANISH GIRL. As well as our amazing guests for an astonishing discussion on the film and today's transgender issues prior to the veiwing. Mental Health Expert, Taylor Burns and Transgender Legal Expert, Alyssa Bryant Academy Award winner Eddie Redmayne stars as the Danish artist who was one of the first recipients of sexual reassignment surgery in the1920s. The remarkable love story inspired by the lives of Lili Elbe and Gerda Wegender, is expertly adapted for the screen by Oscar winning director Tom Hooper. Lili and Gerda's marriage and painting evolve as they navigate Lili's groundbreaking journey as a transgender pioneer. Click here to purchase tickets. Andrew Grimes Cub Scouts of OkEq Oklahomans for Equality has a new Cub Scout Pack. The meetings with families of boys in 1st through 5th grades and volunteers interested in Cub Scouts are held on Wednesdays at 6:30 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. "First Thursday" Art Exhibit: "A Sense of Wonder..." featuring the works of Dave Muller Thursday, January 7, 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Art Gallery, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 The January Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E. 4th Street in Downtown Tulsa) will feature the works of Dave Muller in a show titled "A Sense of Wonder..." beginning with a 4/23/26, 5:21 PM �OkEq eNews December 30th, 2015 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... reception on Thursday, January 7th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month. Dave Muller is a (recently retired) geologist and photographer with a passion for wildlife and landscape photography. Dave's photographs have been honored in local, state, and regional competitions. Dave has been an invited artist for the last two Tulsa MayFest Invitational Gallery exhibitions. He lived in and attended school in Iceland long ago, and remains reasonably fluent in Icelandic several decades later - he has led photographic trips to Iceland, the desert southwest, and around Oklahoma's Green Country, and he has lectured on a variety of photography-related topics at local and regional photographer gatherings. Dave's exhibit primarily focuses on the beauty in the natural world. Images in "A Sense of Wonder..." include canvas, metal, and traditional framed prints of landscapes and wildlife from Iceland, the desert southwest, and Northeastern Oklahoma. The goal of Dave's imagery is to encourage a sense of delight and awe in the beauty that surrounds us and to foster a sense of wonder at the magnificence in our world. Dave's images capture details we tend to miss - things that we are not aware of or overlook. Dave Says of his work: "I hope that viewers of these images will have their spirits buoyed and their senses sharpened as they anticipate and prepare for their future encounters with the natural world". Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org Healthcare Navigator Every Tuesday in January from 12:00 p.m.-5:00 p.m. Do you need assistance with open enrollment for the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare? Meet with Mary Jones, Planned Parenthood's Healthcare Navigator, in the Rainbow Library She will be more than happy to help anyone and everyone who is interested in enrolling with the Affordable Care Act a.k.a. Obamacare. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, January 7th from 6-9pm where there will be a door prize drawn of the artist's work; the show continues throughout the month. For more information, please contact Allie Jensen at alliejensen@cox.net Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Ladies Social Club January 8, 6:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Make friends, develop community and have fun with the Ladies Social Club at OkEq! This brand new women's programming provides LGBT women (and our allies!) the opportunity to develop a great support network while also offering an alternative to the bar scene-but don't worry! We'll still gladly enjoy a few adult beverages! 0 •~•••m••• ••• """"" om••" ~Dl[S all LGBT&ally women welcome SO(IAl (lUD 2nd fridavs of the momh 6-0pm coming january 8, 2016 Each month will feature different activities that will largely be driven by your own input, ladies! You're also welcome to just come and hang out to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Counseling Services 4/23/26, 5:21 PM �OkEq eNews December 30th, 2015 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... with the other women if that's more your style. The LSC will meet on the second Friday of each month from 6-9 p.m. Saturdays By appointment Our first meeting is Jan. 8, and we will be playing Cards Against Humanity! If you're not familiar with this game, bring your sense of humor and remember that we can't take ourselves too seriously... but we can have some serious fun! It's BYOB, so feel free to bring your favorite bottle of wine or beer! Connect with the LSC on Facebook by searching for OkEq Ladies Social Club (or click here). Questions? Email Kelley Parker, LSC facilitator, at ladiessocialclubtulsa@gmail.com. Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org OkEq night at Sisserou's January 11, 11:00 a.m.-11:00 p.m. 107 North Boulder, Tulsa, OK 74103 It is OkEq night at Sisserou's, 107 North Boulder, with the entrance on North Main. 10% of the proceeds go to Oklahomans for Equality. Located in Tulsa's Brady Arts District, Sisserou's Restaurant concept is inspired by the colorful cuisine of the island of Dominica, the Nature Isle of the Caribbean. Counseling Services - , ,:s.5 ~,,r-c;::,P<,,. .• c:5 A TASTE OF TH E CAR J ••EAN . MLK Jr. Day Parade "One Race: The Human Race" January 18, 10:00 a.m. - Meet at the Center, 11:00 a.m. Parade Begins Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Wednesdays and Thursdays By appointment Gender identity, sexual orientation, mood problems, anxiety concerns, and/or those recovering from traumatic events. Appointments are required. Contact Joe Currin joe.currin@okeq.org Counseling Services Tulsa, Oklahoma holds one of the largest MLK parades in the United States to commemorate the legacy of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. Oklahomans for Equality will be marching with the rainbow flag and we invite you come join us. We will meet at the center at 10 a.m. and carpool to the starting line. Weekdays By appointment. Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Emily Howell 918.594.8568 emily.howell@okeq.org Equality Business Alliance Mixer January 20, 6:00 p.m. Hyatt Regency Tulsa 100 East Second Street, Tulsa, OK 74103 4/23/26, 5:21 PM �OkEq eNews December 30th, 2015 5 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... E UALITY Business Alliance Counseling Services The Equality Business Alliance networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Be sure to bring business cards, business information, brochures, etc. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use the Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to olivia.cotter@okeq.org for more information. The January EBA mixer will be hosted by Hyatt Regency Tulsa. Please be advised we will only validate self-parking in the attached garage. Weekdays By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 douglas.knutson@okeq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Tulsa Pride Bingo 2016 January 29, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Brought to You Bi the Letter B First Monday of the month at 7:00 p.m. Join us for our first Tulsa Pride Bingo of 2016. The beautiful and outrageous Nicole 4/23/26, 5:21 PM �OkEq eNews December 30th, 2015 6 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... Carrington will be our host once again. Nicole has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our biggest pride fundraiser this Pride season. Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. You don't want to miss the fun, click here to put this on your calendar now! Admission is $10 for general admission, $20 Adult Beverage admission or buy a whole table for 8 bingo bangers for a $150 which includes unlimited drinks for your table. Proceeds go toward Tulsa Pride 2016. The Empress' Ball - An Imperial Masquerade Januaray 30, 7:00 p.m. Dennis R Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St. Tulsa , Oklahoma 74120 The group is open to all bi, pan, queer, fluid folks and their allies. Benefiting the ICAO Operational Fund Dress Code - Formal or Theme $20.00 Donation at the door includes Open Bar Lesser Value Donations at the door can purchase Drink Tickets for $5.00 Live entertainment provided by the Empresses. Music by DJ Scandal (Absolute Emperor II Adrian) Awards will be presented to Best Dressed / Best in Theme For more information contact impcourtok@gmail.com Before the I Do February 6, 12:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74101 "Before The I Do" gives couples practical tools to use now or later on when you need them. The workshop covers 3 keys to a great relationship, how to work as a team to solve conflict, how to keep the romance alive and much more. The SpeakerListener technique helps each of you to be heard in times of stress and is a crowd favorite. Whether you're just starting out together or have been together for years, you WILL benefit from attending. Come see for yourself and join the thousands of Oklahomans who are now experiencing more satisfying relationships! Class will be held at Oklahomans for Equality on February 6th from noon to 4pm. Reservations are required. Email Carrie at carrie@protectioncoalition.org to reserve your space today. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 1:00 pm "drop in for coffee" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage ScrvJCcs and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Trans.gender Eldcrs Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. 4/23/26, 5:21 PM �OkEq eNews December 30th, 2015 7 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Wild Hearts Ball Presents: Second Chance Prom February 13, 7:00 p.m.- 11:00 P.M. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74101 Admission is a donation to the capital fund for renovations to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Oklahomans for Equality is throwing a party, and you are invited. If you remember your prom and/or if you want a chance to do it again, this is it! Dust off those old prom dresses and tuxedos, or come with a totally new and funky creation of your own. Finally you can attend the prom you dreamed of. Dance the night away to mix of music from the 70's, 80's, 90's and 00's. Cheesy blue ruffled tuxedos, poofy taffeta dresses, clichéd themes, color coordinated corsages, sweaty palms, plenty of dad's AquaVelva, awkward slow dancing, plush ride for the big night, the obligatory staged photo... All of it adds up to one word: PROM! T he Second Chance Prom is your opportunity to experience a prom and take the person we really want to go with and come dressed as we're most comfortable. Many of us were unable to go with the person we really wanted to go with to our high school prom. At this event, everyone can feel free to bring who they wish and dress how they want. Admission is a donation to the capital fund for renovations to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The event will also include: Cash Bar Light Hors d'oeuvres Amazing Raffle Prizes Get F.I.T. Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. $5 per session Yoga by Zach Entertainment and childcare will be available upstairs in the wellness room. Gamily Presents "Happy Hearts Day" February 13, 7:00 p.m.- 11:00 P.M. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/23/26, 5:21 PM �OkEq eNews December 30th, 2015 8 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74101 Gamily will be throwing a Happy Hearts Day party upstairs during the Wild Hearts Ball. There will be crafts, snacks, music, and lots of glitter! Parents and guardians can drop the children off and enjoy the prom while the kids play, create and dance to their happy hearts content in the wellness room. To RSVP please contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org. ::>j;Eake A Cla~~t::<: EVERY SUNDAY @ 4:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 $5.00 per Session Make Your New Years Resolution To Get Fit Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74101 The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has several fitness programs available to help you work off those extra holiday pounds. Classes include Get F.I.T. every Monday and Wednesday 6:00-7:00 p.m., Yoga by Zach every Sunday at 4:30 p.m., and Free Your Mind Ecstatic Dance every 4th Sunday of the month at 1:00 p.m. Classes are only $5.00 per session so you can work out without breaking the bank. Free Your Mind Ecstatic Dance Invitation to Participate in Research Factors Related to the Health and Well-being of Lesbian, Gay, Bi-sexual, Transgender and/or Queer Adults Aged 50 and Older If you identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer and are age 50 or over, we invite you to participate in a study about factors related to the health and well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 and older. We also hope you will pass this invitation on to others. We are a research team from Oklahoma State University in Stillwater and some of us have been working for a number of years to advocate for and learn more about things that contribute to the health and well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer adults aged 50 or over (LGBTQ+). This study is part of that broader research and has two specific purposes: 1) to learn more about whether the measures in this study, which have been used with younger adults who identify as LGBT+, are also valid for individuals aged 50 or older; and 2) to look at the relationship between these measures and a measure of health and well-being. Every 4th Sunday of the Month 1:00 p.m. Wellness Room $5.00 per Session Free Your Mind Ecstatic Dance is a moving meditation practice based on the rhythms of life dynamic music by SRhythms teacher and DJ Eugene Hedlund play in the subtle realms of joy and freedom. We dance freely as the music moves us - there are no steps to learn! No dance experience is required. Be sure to wear comfortable clothing. 4/23/26, 5:21 PM �OkEq eNews December 30th, 2015 9 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... For more information, contact Mia Pearl at openheartspace9@gmail.com or Jose Vega at jose.vega@okeq.org Gender Outreach You are eligible for this study if you are aged 50 and over and identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and/or queer. If you are interested in learning more about this study, please click here. On the web link, we provide more information about the study, and direct you to where you can give your consent and complete the survey measures. Alternately, you may contact Dr. Sue C. Jacobs (sue.c.jacobs@okstate.edu or 405-744-9895) for more information about the study and/or to have one of the researchers below assist you in answering the research questions by entering them into a computer. Any answers or personal information you provide will be anonymous as you will not provide your name. If you have questions about your rights as a research volunteer, you may contact the IRB Office at 223 Scott Hall, Stillwater, OK 74078, 405-744-3377 or irb@okstate.edu. We hope you are able to be part of this research. What we learn will be reported as group data only and made available to service agencies, health and mental health providers, equality centers, professional journals, meetings, or others who request it. Your participation is voluntary and you will receive no compensation except to know you are contributing to knowledge about an important matter. Equality Center Pride Store These beautiful pendants celebrating the 6/26/15 SCOTUS Decision in favor of marriage equality are available in our Pride Store for $17. If you would like your pendant sent to you, there will be an additional $3 cost for shipping. Contact Stewart Wallace at stewartwallace@cox.net with any questions or concerns. Click here to purchase your pendant today! Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email sharon.queen@okeq.org The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Nevermore Edits Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Survivors of Incest Anonymous 4/23/26, 5:21 PM �OkEq eNews December 30th, 2015 10 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Game Night Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Out, Loud, & Laughing" By Charles Flowers Gays in the military. Lesbian parents taking their kids to school. Gay and lesbian couples getting married. Everywhere you turn gay and lesbian Americans are in the news and more often than not, at the center of some controversy, some debate about tolerance and civil rights, where anger and hatred rule the day. What's amazing is how gays and lesbians continue to survive without losing their self-respect, their courage, or most surprisingly, their sense of humor. Out, Loud, & Laughing features fifteen of today's funniest gay and lesbian humorists, from stand up comics like Kate Clinton and Frank Maya, to the performance work of the Pomo Afro Homos (Postmodern African-American Homosexuals) and Marga Gomez, to the queer Addison and Steele of the 1990s, Frank DeCaro and David Sedaris. In many ways, gay and lesbian humor is no different from heterosexual comedy, but the material does raise a few eyebrows: the insufferable Jesse Helms, the military ban ("be all you can be ...but in private"), living up to the Lesbian Chic, the trauma of gay male dating rituals, body piercing ("sometimes a fashion statement is a cry for help"), coming out to parents ("Mom, would you please pass the potatoes to a homosexual"), and so much more. By rejecting stereotypes and playing with differences, gay and lesbian humor not only entertains, but educates by disarming ignorance and fear and the homophobia they Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact sharon.queen@okeq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. 4/23/26, 5:21 PM �OkEq eNews December 30th, 2015 11 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... engender. To that end, a portion of all proceeds from this book will be donated to Broadway Cares/Equity Fights AIDS, the organization that, among other projects, initiated and promoted the "red ribbon" campaign for AIDS awareness. Hilarious and socially minded, Out, Loud, & Laughing will leave you laughing out loud and wanting more. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-bystep instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/23/26, 5:21 PM �OkEq eNews December 30th, 2015 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20.. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Olivia Cotter Office Manager Olivia.Cotter@OkEq.org - ---- Sharon Queen Facilities Coordinator Sharon.Queen@OkEq.org ---- 12 of 13 4/23/26, 5:21 PM �OkEq eNews December 30th, 2015 13 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... Tracy Allen Volunteer Coordinator Tracy.Allen@OkEq.org Jose Vega Program Coordinator Jose.Vega@OkEq.org r---------------------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat Noon-9 p.m. | Sun Noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I ~---------------------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 5:21 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/330fb5f6baca42227cf68a222bc32f8d.pdf 1b31f286026a3814a3e9b71d123be811 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews April 8, 2015 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-8--2015.html?... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews April 8, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Gay Pride Bingo Gamily Gathering Equality Gala Welcome to the eNews. Join us for Gay Pride Bingo with Nicole Carrington and DJ Crystal from 7 p.m. to 9:30 p.m. Friday, April 10, at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Keith Hunt, McGraw Realtors Rainbow Run MOREcolor PFLAG Tulsa Barney Frank Documentary Equality Business Alliance Sleep Soundly Workshop EBA Sponsor McGraw "The Hill" Documentary R l,ALTO R S TU Lecture on Inequality Looking to buy or sell your dream home? Imperial Court of All Oklahoma I can help! Body Electric Workshop Contact Keith Hunt Today Russell Bennett Award (918) 513-13-94 Dining Out for Life khunt@mcgrawok.com rl] ~ @ t'~ -.: LlADINC lllAI,..[ TATC CO~PANIES ,o/ TH[ WOltLO Article Headline HIV Wellness Retreat JOLT Jackpot Golf Classic Gay Pride Bingo with Nicole Carrington and DJ Crystal Friday, April 10, 7-9:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Camp Anytown Research opportunity LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Marriage - - Equality - - -Photos -- Where does the Easter Bunny go after Easter? To Gay Pride Bingo, of course! He heard how much fun our March event was and said he must be here for a repeat! Join Dale Hogan's "Nicole Carrington" and DJ Crystal for a night of bingo with "characters." Full concessions with food and drink will be available for purchase. Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook Admission is $10, and proceeds support Tulsa Pride 2015. Make it a fun night out at the Equality 4/23/26, 4:05 PM �OkEq eNews April 8, 2015 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-8--2015.html?... Center! OkEq Art Exhibit The April exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features works by Karin Susan Cermak. ________ Gamily Gathering Sunday, April 12, 2-4 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center We'll have a hands-on building project -something such as a birdhouse or a model racecar -- for Gamily kids with items donated by Home Depot. Gay families, come join us for the fun and socialization! Equality Gala, The Road to Equality Cox Business Center Ballroom Saturday, April 25, 6:30 p.m. cocktail reception, 8 p.m. dinner and program This year's Equality Gala, Oklahomans for Equality's premier fundraiser and Tulsa's most swankified, fabulous event, celebrates OkEq's 35th anniversary. The money raised through the Gala each year helps provide support and programming for LGBT Oklahomans and allies in the sixth-largest gay community center in the world -- right here in Tulsa, Oklahoma. In 2014, more than 48,000 individuals participated in programming and services at the Equality Center. Your support through the Gala helps make those services possible. ~·"~ )AT\JRDAY. APRIL Q5. Q015 COX BUSlNH) CENTER BALLROOM 6.30PM COCl(TAIL RE:CE:PTI0N &00PM DINNO AND PROGRAM COIO fOr.. A111 'Of 1100 MfO<r' 11()• Ou 916-7•H'./Ql' a f-11) u~ - ST ....,..O'.,OOI~ Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 4/23/26, 4:05 PM �OkEq eNews April 8, 2015 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-8--2015.html?... Individual tickets and sponsorships are available. Please click here for more information. Tulsa Pride Rainbow Run Downtown Tulsa Sunday, June 7, 9 a.m.-noon We're gearing up for this summer's Tulsa Pride Rainbow Run, with a timed 5K and a fun run and walk. The Rainbow Run benefits Tulsa Pride and Oklahomans for Equality. Registration is coming soon, but sponsorships are now available, ranging from $100 to $2,500. Counseling Services RAINBOW RUN For sponsorship information, please click Saturdays By appointment here. To register, click here. - please -- MOREcolor regional fine arts exhibition Call for Entries May 1 submission deadline MORE color . .. 1 . Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org --- •t Oklahomans for Equality is pleased to call for entries to the 2015 MOREcolor regional juried exhibition and sale of fine art. Long a tradition to celebrate LGBT Pride through the arts, MOREcolor strives to be artistfriendly and encourage innovative work. The exhibition will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Artists receive 70 percent of their sales. Cash prizes will be awarded, including a cash Juror's Award and a People's Choice award. There is a single entry fee of $10 for up to five entries. Submission deadline is May 1. The MOREcolor art show runs June 18-21. SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Click here for more information. f New PFLAG Tulsa Meeting Third Monday of every month, next meeting April 20, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The PFLAG Tulsa Chapter has begun a satellite group meeting on the third Monday of every month at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The group will next meet on Monday, April 20. Parents, Families and Friends of PFLAG Lesbians and Gays promotes the health and well-being TULSA CH of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender people, their families and friends. For more information on PFLAG Tulsa, visit www.pflagtulsa.org or call 918-749-4901 --- Live from NY's 92nd Street Y with Barney Frank April 20, 7 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center . I • , I Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold 4/23/26, 4:05 PM �OkEq eNews April 8, 2015 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-8--2015.html?... Tulsa's Congregation B'nai Emunah will broadcast "Barney Frank: In His Own Words" as part of the Smart Conversations 2015 speaker series. Broadcast in partnership with the 92nd Street Y in New York City, former Rep. Barney Frank will be joined in conversation by noted television journalist Jeff Greenfield. Smart Conversations 2015 features dynamic and visionary thinkers, newsmakers, and entertainers in conversation via satellite from Manhattan. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Tickets for this single lecture cost $10. Students are admitted free. Coffee, treats and conversation precede and follow each performance. To purchase tickets or for more information, call the Synagogue at 918-9353373 or email reservations@bnaiemunah.com. Equality Business Alliance Wednesday, April 22, 6 p.m. Boss Fitness Tulsa, 3509 S. Peoria Ave., Suite 300 The March Monthly Mixer Meeting will be at 6 p.m. Wednesday, April 22, at Boss Fitness Tulsa. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org. Join our event on Facebook, and send an invitation to everyone on your friends list. Join the Equality Business Alliance Check the EBA Business Directory Find EBA on Facebook email EBA@OkEq.org Sleep Soundly Workshop Thursday, April 23, 7 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center A Sleep Soundly workshop, sponsored by the University of Tulsa Institute of Trauma, Adversity & Injustice, is designed to help you better understand the importance of sleep. The workshop will provide you with tools and strategies to foster high-quality sleep and address common sleep problems. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual &. Transgender Elders For more information, call 918-631-3976. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Kelly Kirby, CPA Tulsa Shambhala Meditation 4/23/26, 4:05 PM �OkEq eNews April 8, 2015 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-8--2015.html?... Married filing jointly? In Oklahoma? Affordable Care Act got you confused? Let us help you file your 2014 tax returns! Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 kelly@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. "The Hill" documentary Thursday, April 9, 6:30-9 p.m., free Living Arts, 307 E. M.B. Brady St. Set upon building a new school, the city of New Haven, Conn., claims eminent domain over the UJpper Hill neighborhood. While the city argues that building the new school corresponds to a need for better school facilities, the residents of the area, mostly struggling low-income African-American families, say the decision corresponds to the city's determination to "sanitize" the neighborhood, which is near the Yale-New Haven Hospital. With the help of community leaders and a civil rights lawyer, the unlikely group of neighbors decides to contest the city's claim and take the case to federal court. "The Hill" is a fascinating look at the complex issues surrounding urban planning, gentrification and economic renewal. View the trailer at thehillfilm.com/#trialer. "Inequality in American Society" Lecture Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the 4/23/26, 4:05 PM �OkEq eNews April 8, 2015 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-8--2015.html?... advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. University of Tulsa Lectureship in Politics and Law Chapman Hall Lecture Hall, 2830 E. Fifth St. Thursday, April 9, 7 p.m. Dean Baker, co-director of the Center for Economic and Policy Research in Washington, D.C., will present this year's TU Lectureship in Politics and Law. The lecture, is free and open to the public. Lectureshipin Politicsandlaw2015 t81 Inequality in American Society - Should We Blame the Market?181 ~:~~;:~:~!;~~: The topic of Baker's talk is "Inequality in American Society: Should We Blame the Market?" Thursday, April 9 7:00 p.m. 2.8lJ E. 5th Street Dean Baker Baker is frequently cited in economics reporting in major media outlets, including the New York Times, Washington Post, CNN, CNBC and National Public Radio. He writes a weekly column for the Guardian Unlimited (UK), the Huffington Post and TruthOut. His blog, Beat the Press, features commentary on economic reporting. His analyses have appeared in many major publications, including the Atlantic Monthly, the Washington Post, the London Financial Times and the New York Daily News. He received his Ph.D. in economics from the University of Michigan. He previously worked as a senior economist at the Economic Policy Institute and as an assistant professor at Bucknell University. He has also worked as a consultant for the World Bank, the Joint Economic Committee of the U.S. Congress and the OECD's Trade Union Advisory Council. He has written numerous books and was the author of the weekly online commentary on economic reporting for the Economic Reporting Review from 1996 - 2006. Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Coronation of Empress VIII Motel 6, 1010 N. Garnett Road Saturday, April 11, 6 p.m.-midnight ACA Assistance ~::pus Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma invites you to participate in the coronation of Empress VIII. A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. 4/23/26, 4:05 PM �OkEq eNews April 8, 2015 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-8--2015.html?... C RO A TIO VIII Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Complete information can be found on the Coronation VIII pages of our website www.impcourtok.webs.com or email us at impcourtok@gmail.com I.C.A.O. is a Nonprofit 501(c)(3) Charity Organization Body Electric Workshop April 18 & 19 Men, come explore your erotic potential through the mind, the body and the heart using conscious breath, movement, process work and massage. When men take responsibility for their erotic education, they realize how much there is to learn about awakening the erotic energy that lies within all of us. This 2 day workshop focuses on the entire body and is conducted in a setting that is playful, safe and honoring. A few benefits of this work are: Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno * The participant gains greater acceptance of himself as an erotic being, both physically and mentally. * He discovers ways to develop a more satisfying erotic relationship with others. * He becomes more aware of spiritual dimensions in his erotic explorations. Completion of CBE is a prerequisite for attending most advanced workshops and retreats offered by Body Electric. Limited scholarships are available. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals For more information please contact André at Tulsa@b-e-school.com or visit our website at www.thebodyelectricschol.com. 4/23/26, 4:05 PM �OkEq eNews April 8, 2015 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-8--2015.html?... Russell Bennett Faith and Courage Award Raindrop Turkish House 4444 W. Houston St. (East 81st Street), Broken Arrow Thursday, April 30, 6 p.m. Join us for the Tulsa Interfaith Alliance's annual Russell Bennett Faith and Courage Award celebration at the Raindrop Turkish House in Broken Arrow. This year's recipient of the award is the Rev. Dr. Marlin Lavanhar, senior minister at All Souls Unitarian Church, who will give a keynote address. Rabbi Jack Moline, executive director of the National Interfaith Alliance, will be a special guest. Tickets are $30 and include a buffet dinner with meat and vegetarian options. They can be purchased at this link. For questions, or to register via phone or mail, please email tulsainterfaithalliance@gmail.com. The Rev. Dr. Marlin Lavanhar The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org - - - - Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org The Tulsa Interfaith Alliance is a nonpartisan advocacy group that monitors the line separating church and state. For more information, visit its website at this link. Dining Out for Life Thursday, April 30 Participating restaurants will donate 25 percent or more of your bill to H.O.P.E. -- Health Outreach Prevention Education -- on this day to help pay for local HIV services. The restaurants' generosity, coupled with your participation, will make a very real difference in the lives of thousands of men, women, and children throughout the Tulsa area. H.O.P.E is a nonprofit 501(c)3 organization that provides HIV and hepatitis C testing for the Tulsa community. Dining~ ...l.~~J_ EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Dine Out, Fight AIDS Find participating restaurants --- -here. For more information, visit H.O.P.E. Testing online at hopetesting.org. Grateful Day Foundation Spaghetti Dinner Fellowship Congregational Church UCC 2900 S. Harvard Ave. Saturday, April 18, 5-7 p.m. Please join the Grateful Day Foundation for our annual Spaghetti Dinner. Dinner includes salad, bread sticks and your choice of vegan or meaty spaghetti with or without meatballs. Meals are $10 for adults and $5 for children. We will have a door prize, too! All proceeds from this Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. 4/23/26, 4:05 PM �OkEq eNews April 8, 2015 9 of 12 telOW~ i;ong:egaoonal slllfCn LU; 2900 S,Harvard Tusa,OK April 18 5pm~7pm ..... - .-.·ltOOAtt!~ijU~@ https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-8--2015.html?... night will go directly to help finance our annual HIV Wellness Retreat. For more information about the Grateful Day Foundation, visit our website at gratefulday.org. HIV Wellness Retreat 2015 Registration deadline is July 17 The Grateful Day Foundation is excited to announce the dates for this year's HIV Wellness Retreat. The Grateful Day Foundation seeks to fill gaps in services in Oklahoma's HIV/ JF <0>11.Jl.l!'Jl.dl.SLti<O> l!'Jl. Jil!'Jl.CAIDS wellness community Taking a leap of faith for those living with HIV/AIDS through collaboration with partner organizations, providing transportation to those in need, and hosting an Annual HIV Wellness Retreat. This year's retreat will be held Aug. 21- 23 at the beautiful Sky Ranch Cave Springs in Quapaw. www.skyranch.org Qrnteful .,z')Afl We are looking forward to another fun and informative retreat this year. Applications can be found on our website, www.gratefulday.org as well as at Tulsa Cares, Parish Church of St. Jerome, HOPE Testing, OSU Specialty Clinic and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (OkEq). This retreat is designed and planned around the needs of the clients we serve in our community. We will be hosting a number of workshops throughout the weekend as well as several fun things to do at the retreat. For more information, visit our website or contact us by phone. Contact info: 539.664.7206 www.gratefulday.org JOLT Jackpot Golf Classic HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The Canyons at Blackjack Ridge 1801 N. McKinley Ave., Sand Springs Saturday, May 16, 10 a.m. Let your golf game pay off for OkEq's JOLT bowling league. This fundraiser will feature cash prizes for first-, second- and third-place teams. Fourperson teams will compete in a scramble format. Registration is now open and costs $75 per person or $300 per team. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Contact Curtis Austin at curtisaustin33@hotmail.com or Al Warren at 918-361-8739. Camp Anytown July 19-25, registration deadline is July 3 4/23/26, 4:05 PM �OkEq eNews April 8, 2015 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-8--2015.html?... Camp Anytown 2015 will be held July 19-25 at Dwight Mission Camp near Vian. Incoming sophomores, juniors, and seniors from across Oklahoma are eligible to participate in this awardwinning, human relations camp, which promotes self-esteem, good citizenship, and leadership in an atmosphere steeped in rich diversity. The Anytown program ranks among the preeminent human relations experiences in Oklahoma. For additional information, contact the Oklahoma Center for Community and Justice office at 918-583-1361 or email info@occjok.org. Click here to apply. Research opportunity Improving quality of life for LGBTQ people Dane Whicker, a doctoral student in clinical psychology at Marquette University, and his faculty advisor, Dr. Ed de St. Aubin, invite nonheterosexual men (i.e., gay, bisexual, queer) to participate in a research project aimed at improving the understanding of how gender, status, community and bias affect this group of individuals. An added incentive for taking the anonymous online survey, which is expected to take 30 to 45 minutes, is a lottery for at least 10 $50 Amazon.com gift cards. If you wish to participate, click here to find more information and the survey. LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea Ith ca re Bi I IOf Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. We want your Marriage Equality photos! 4/23/26, 4:05 PM �OkEq eNews April 8, 2015 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-8--2015.html?... If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to paul.allen@OkEq.org with " OK to use" in the subject line. Please include any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you, and congratulations! Equality Center Pride Store Available in the Pride Store, rainbow Oklahoma flag tees. Available in sizes S through 5XL, these short sleeve T's can be yours for only $20 each. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'It Gets Better: Coming Out, Overcoming Bulllying, and Creating a Life Worth Living' edited by Dan Savage and Terry Miller You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Growing up isn't easy. Many young people face daily tormenting and bullying, and this is especially true for LGBT kids and teens. In response to a number of tragic suicides by LGBT NEW YORK TIMES BESTSE L LER students, syndicated columnist and author Dan Savage uploaded a video to YouTube with his partner, Terry Miller. Speaking openly about the bullying they suffered and how they both went on to lead rewarding adult lives, their video launched the It Gets Better Project YouTube channel and initiated a worldwide phenomenon. COMING OUT, IT G ETS BETTER n\/t:0rf"'\Ulf\lr:: QI II IVlf\lr:: Al\ln 4/23/26, 4:05 PM �OkEq eNews April 8, 2015 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-8--2015.html?... It Gets Better is a collection of original essays and expanded testimonials written to teens from celebrities, political leaders and everyday people, because while many LGBT teens can't see a positive future for themselves, we can. CR EATING A LIFE WORTH LI VING ndudrig concnbutJOOS f,o,n: EUen o.Generes, O.,f(f Sed•,is. Tim Gunn, Michael Cunningh•m, •nd many mc>f•. Ed,tedby DAN SAVAGE and TERRY MILLER fo11nd•" of tho It Gou B.iu, Proj,o Dan Savage is the editorial director of Seattle's weekly newspaper The Stranger. Terry Miller is an event promoter, musician and DJ. They were married in Canada and live in Seattle with their son, DJ. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Volu r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! ruLSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r------------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat noon-9 p.m. | Sun noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 4:05 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/f506e88d49c23c3baf2273e61d3f57c0.pdf 4b5303f26958f923b992fd5b647de926 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-14th--2015... eNews January 14th, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor 2015 MLK Parade Tax Preparation Equality Business Alliance Welcome to the eNews. Tax time will be here before you know it and marriage equality may have changed the way you file your taxes. Join us for a Tax Preparation Workshop on Tuesday, January 20th at 7:00 pm. For more info, email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality EBA Fundraiser New Year, New You Basketball League Tulsa Pride 2015 PFLAG Tulsa Survivors of Incest Anonymous The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Plexus Slim February First Thursday Art Anti-Valentine's Day Party Ask me for FREE sample!!! EBA Sponsor ACA Assistance •sli All natural products for diabeti cs , weight loss, pain, GI issues and skin conditions. LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights u www.ploxusslim.com/robinlabutti Beyond 50 Shades T: (918) 361-4188 E: robinlabutti@Cox.not Lose wa,ght • Get flt • lmp1ove performance • Increase 1nuuv Pearl District Makers' Market LGBT Shirt Quilt Marriage Equality -- - - -Photos --- 2015 Martin Luther King Jr. Memorial Celebration & Parade Monday, January 19th, 2015; 11:00 am John Hope Franklin & Cincinnati Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. stated, "I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin but by the content of their character". Well, a new dream is that some day our children will not be judged for who they love or the make up of their family. This is a day to recognize equality and unity. GAMILY will be walking as a family in the parade and carrying posters. The plan is to meet at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center by 10:00 am and then carpool to the parade. After the parade, we will be eating as a family; enjoying a meal back at the Equality Center. Please RSVP at Gamily@OkEq.org to be a part of this wonderful gathering. LGBTI Health Research Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, 4/23/26, 3:38 PM �Firefox 2 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-14th--2015... January 15th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. OkEq Art Exhibit Tax Preparation Workshop The January exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the group exhibit titled; Transforming Hate ________ Tuesday, January 20th, 2015; 7:00 pm On Tuesday, January 20th at 7:00 pm, OkEq will host a tax preparation workshop for newly married couples or for anyone thinking about getting married. Presented by Equality Business Alliance Member, Kelly Kirby, CPA, this workshop is a must for anyone who has any questions on how marriage equality can change the way you file your taxes. RSVP to Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Counseling Services Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8568 The January Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, January 21st, 2015 at 6:00 pm. Hosted by The Hyatt Regency Tulsa, 100 E 2nd St, Tulsa, OK 74103. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. HYJ\TT REGENCY llllllllrllllCT Hyatt Regency Tulsa 100 E 2nd St Tulsa, OK 74103 EBA Fundraiser at Dalesandro's Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance 4/23/26, 3:38 PM �Firefox 3 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-14th--2015... Wednesday, January 28th, 2015; 6:00 - 10:00 pm ale andro , Y/a;:;;_n, ~ ; n I s Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Dalesandro's Italian Cuisine 1742 S Boston Ave Tulsa, OK 74119 On Wednesday, January 28th, join the Equality Business Alliance for a fundraiser dinner at Dalesandro's Italian Cuisine from 6:00 - 10:00 pm. Located at 18th and Boston, Dalesandro's will donate a portion of the dinner sales from the night back to the EBA. Reservations are appreciated by calling Dalesandro's at 918.582.1551 Counseling Services New Year, New You Fitness Programming at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center GET F.I.T. - Wednesday and Thursday at 6:00 pm (Fun, Intense, Training) GET F.I.T. is an exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. The only requirement... keep moving through a combination of weight training and cardiovascular exercise. Wednesdays and Thursdays at 6:00 pm at the Equality Center. $5 for non-members and free to members... Come take your first steps to GET F.I.T. Facilitated by Brad Sullivan. On Wednesdays and Thursdays, GET F.I.T. ChiWalking - Every other Saturday at 1:30 pm; Continues January 24th ChiWalking...Five Mindful Steps for Lifelong Health and Energy! Learn how to get aligned, engage your core, create balance, develop healthy habits and make walking a mindful practice. ChiWalking increases mobility, reduces pain, improves posture and balance, strengthens your muscles and loosens your joints. Faciliated by Jane McClain, Certified ChiWalking Instructor. Every other Saturday at 1:30 pm at the Equality Center. $5 for nonmembers and free to members. Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org • . I ~ ' - I Grieving Well There will be no meeting on January 26th. Continues on February 4/23/26, 3:38 PM �Firefox 4 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-14th--2015... 9th 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month; 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Tulsa Metro Basketball League Winter Season Wednesday nights at 7:00 pm Winter Season is December through February Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather The league plays 3 on 3 games on a half court each Wednesday night December through February at 7:00 pm. Tulsa Metro Basketball League is an offical program of OkEq and a member organization of the Equality Sports Alliance of Tulsa. Signuponthe -OkEq Webstore for $50. Games are played at the Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center at 2021 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK. Daryn Drake will be the head coach for the new Basketball season. For more information about the league, please contact Basketball@OkEq.org. Tulsa Pride 2015 Public Planning Meeting Thursday, January 22nd, 2015; 7:00 pm Tulsa Pride will host a public planning meeting on Thursday, January 22nd at 7:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Everyone is invited to come by and help make Tulsa Pride 2015 the best pride ever. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) .... ,.. T U L S A e A WEEKEND OF PRIDE - JUNE 5-7, 2015 New PFLAG Tulsa Meeting 3rd Monday of Every Month, Starting January 19th; 6:30 pm Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Servoces and Advocacy for Cay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders 4/23/26, 3:38 PM �Firefox 5 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-14th--2015... The PFLAG Tulsa chapter will begin a satellite group meeting at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on the 3rd Monday of every month at 6:30 pm. The group will meet for the first time on Monday, January 19th. Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays promotes the PFLAG TULSA CH health and well-being of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender persons, their families and friends. For more information on PFLAG Tulsa, visit www.pflagtulsa.org - - - or call 918.749.4901 Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday, Noon - 2:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. Using the group experience, strength and hope, the hope is to do this by: * offering referrals to SIA, self-help, support groups * providing information to start SIA groups, intergroups, and national service offices * creating and distributing SIA information tools(literature, newsletter, electronic media) * offering a speakers' bureau * guiding SIA's public information efforts worldwide Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. For more information about SIA, visit www.siawso.org February First Thursday Art Gallery Reception Thursday, February 5th, 2015; 6:00 - 9:00 pm Tulsa Area Prime Timers The February Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Ashley Farrier in an exhibit titled "Royalty Not Lost" in a show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, February 5th, 2015 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Anti-Valentine's Day Party Saturday, February 14th, 2015; 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 3:38 PM �Firefox 6 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-14th--2015... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Anti-Valentine's Day Party Saturday, February 14th, 2015 7:00 pm Dump your ex's stuff drive. Turn your ill will into good will By donating your ex's stuff to The Equality Center Clothing Closet. Eat. Drink. Be Bitter. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Kelly Kirby, CPA e a!\O \!\i\\a\ Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Married filing jointly? In Oklahoma? Affordable Care Act got you confused? Let us help you file your 2014 tax returns! Kelly Kirby CPA Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 kelly@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. Affordable Care Act Assistance Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm In person assistance available 4/23/26, 3:38 PM �Firefox 7 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-14th--2015... Open enrollment is Nov 15th - Feb 15th, 2015 Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health insurance system to find the most affordable coverage that meets the consumer's needs. Onsite assistance will be available on: January 14th, 21st & 28th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm February 4th & 11th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare oklahomans for equality BILLOF RIGHTS Game Night Hea Ith ca re Bi I !Of Rig hts .org Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. Beyond 50 Shades: A Lifestyle Orientation Saturday, January 17th, 2015; 12:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Curious about kink? Just a Fantasy or is there more? Meet real life people involved in kink, power exchange relationships, master/ slave dynamics, rope bondage, S&M. Open to all persons 21 and older interested in the BDSM/kink lifestyle. Panel discussion, Q&A and discussion based information will be provided. Saturday, January 17th from Noon - 2:30 pm presented by the Tulsa Dungeon Society. Oklahoma's Oldest Pansexual BDSM Group. For more information visit www.tulsadungeonsociety.org or email tdsevents@hotmail.com Pearl District Makers' Market Saturday, March 7th, 2015; 12:00 - 9:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact 4/23/26, 3:38 PM �Firefox 8 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-14th--2015... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OkEq will host the Pearl District Makers' Market on Saturday March 7th from 12:00 to 9:00 pm. The market will feature local, handmade arts, crafts, goods, services, and live music, poetry and performances. For more info on the Pearl District Makers' Market, visit www.facebook.com/ pearlmakersmarket LOCAL ART~CRAFTS 1111W:l~_1}.1[11 POETRY - FOOD - FRIENDS LGBT Pride T-Shirt Quilt Project EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org For the 35th Anniversary of Oklahomans for Equality, a quilt project has been started to make a quilt from of all kinds of LGBT related shirts. Pride would be best, but we welcome any and all LGBT shirts. Quality is not important since they will be cut up anyway. i-./j~~ TULSA PRIDE 2010 Please bring your shirts to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center anytime between 12:00 pm and 9:00 pm Monday through Saturday. For more information, email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. We want your Marriage Equality photos! If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to Lucas.Green@OkEq.org with "OK to use" in the Subject. Please include any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you! Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Be a part of an important study of LGBTI health Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. Participants who meet the following criteria are encouraged to participate: • if you are 18 - 25 years old • if you identify as a lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, or other nonheterosexual person • if you currently reside in Oklahoma Open Everyday The research study will require approximately 30- 45 minutes and you will be asked to provide an email address to which a link for the survey may be sent. All questions are answered online through a secured website hosted by Qualtrics survey software company. Participants will be asked to complete a demographics questionnaire followed by 6 brief self-report 4/23/26, 3:38 PM �Firefox 9 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-14th--2015... instruments. At the end of the survey, the first 250 urban and first 250 rural participants will receive a code for $10 in credit with giftcertificates.com. This credit can be used to purchase gift cards for businesses like AMC, Bath and Bodyworks, Buckle, Buffalo Wild Wings, or many other wellknown companies. To inquire more about the study or request any additional information, contact the researchers at: Douglas Knutson, by phone 405.459.0241 or email douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Dr. Sue C. Jacobs, by phone 405.744.9895 or email sue.c.jacobs@okstate.edu Dr. Melissa Hakman by phone 405.208.5397 or email mhakman@okcu.edu. For more information or to participate, go to http://tiny.cc/oklgbti2 Equality Center Pride Store Available in the Pride Store, the 2015 Tulsa Metro Hottest Firefighters calendar for only $10.00. Proceeds benefits the Tulsa Firefighter Educational Clown Organization. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org 'My Red Blood: A Memoir of Growing Up Communist, Coming Onto the Greenwich Village Folk Scene, and Coming Out in the Feminist Movement' by Alix Dobkin You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Women's music legend Alix Dobkin for the first time chronicles her rise to fame as the first artist to record an openly lesbian album in 1973. Her Mary Jones Program Coordinator 4/23/26, 3:38 PM �Firefox 10 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-14th--2015... story, however, opens much earlier in postwar New York City, where, growing up in a Communist family, she watches Jackie Robinson steal home, rubs elbows with radical Left celebrities like Paul Robeson, and comes of age under the watchful eye of the FBI. Dobkin herself joins the party at the height of the McCarthy witch hunts and offers readers a firsthand glimpse of daily life as a young person living under government surveillance. During this time she also matures as a devotee of folk music, having fallen under the spell of renowned performers such as Lead Belly and Pete Seeger. Yet it's after she arrives on the burgeoning folk music scene of Greenwich Village, where she meets the up-and-coming Bob Dylan, Bill Cosby, John Sebastian, Buffy Ste. Marie, and Flip Wilson, among many other rising luminaries, that she achieves her first acclaim as a singer-songwriter. Her music takes on overt feminist dimensions when she joins a women's consciousness-raising group and comes out as a lesbian. Rich in period detail, storytelling, and outspoken politics, My Red Blood is essential reading for lovers of music and history. Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r-----------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L-----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 3:38 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/79d9c6b1791008cd3bb0449de63859e1.pdf 36439926ef04f74500e48d15e688ca41 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-22nd--201... eNews January 22nd, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Legislation Alert EBA Fundraiser New Year, New You Welcome to the eNews. Oklahoma marriage, children and families and LGBT Youth are under attack at the State Capital. Read below on how you can help defend them. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: ihelptulsa.com Basketball League Tulsa Pride 2015 February First Thursday Art Financial and Estate Planning Anti-Valentine's Day Party PFLAG Tulsa Equality Business Alliance II I ·LPTUL Home / Small Business IT Expertise Tulsa Metro Softball League EBA Sponsor V E ,lLE Survivors of Incest Anonymous Owner - ihelptulsa.com ACA Assistance J Ii LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Tel : (9 18) 605-8777 Web: www.ihelptulso.com Email: johnv@ihelptvlso.com Pearl District Makers' Market Marriage Equality Photos -----LGBTI Health Research Pride Store "Recently received a new computer or smart device? Do you need all of your files and email moved from your old computer to your new computer? Do you need help setting up your smart device? If so, contact www.ihelptulsa.com or call John at 918 605-8777!" Want to receive computer tips? Like us on Facebook: facebook.com/ ihelptulsa Legislation Alerts from Oklahomans for Equality Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook Oklahomans for Equality calls upon all fair minded Oklahomans to contact your state representative and ask them not to support the following House Bills 1007, 1125, 1598 and 1599. HB 1125 would strip county court clerks of their duty of issuing marriage licenses. Rep. Todd Russ of District 55 has introduced the bill under the guise of protecting elected officials religious freedoms. If passed, this bill will • Sets precident where public servants can choose who they serve. • De-fund court clerks already strained budgets • Do away with the marriage license process which conforms to every other state • Create chaos in a system that has worked for more than century OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, February 19th, 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 3:39 PM �Firefox 2 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-22nd--201... Rep. David Brumbaugh of District 76, representing Broken Arrow and Tulsa, has put forth HB 1007 targets same sex couples wishing to be married, and seeks to protect clergy persons who do not wish to, or can not perform weddings for same-sex couples. Under present Oklahoma law, only clergy persons willing and able to perform same sex weddings are allowed to. No one is forced to perform same-sex weddings. Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. OkEq Art Exhibit Rep. Sally Kern has put forth two bills, HB 1598 and HB 1599. HB 1598 Freedom to Obtain Conversion Therapy Act; will provide the right to obtain certain counseling or conversion therapy; prevent certain infringement by the state; permit mental health provider to engage in sexual orientation change efforts with a child. The January exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the group exhibit titled; Transforming Hate ________ HB 1599 Preservation of Sovereignty and Marriage Act will prohibit public funds for any activity licensing or supporting same-sex marriage; prohibit public employees from recognizing same-sex marriage licenses. Find your local legislator and let them know that these attacks are not acceptable. www.oklegislature.gov/FindMyLegislature.aspx Counseling Services EBA Fundraiser at Dalesandro's Wednesday, January 28th, 2015; 6:00 - 9:00 pm ale andro I s Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8568 ._.Y'/aC-n- C:,.,~m Dalesandro's Italian Cuisine 1742 S Boston Ave Tulsa, OK 74119 On Wednesday, January 28th, join the Equality Business Alliance for a fundraiser dinner at Dalesandro's Italian Cuisine from 6:00 - 9:00 pm. Located at 18th and Boston, Dalesandro's will donate a portion of the dinner sales from the night back to the EBA. Reservations are appreciated by calling Dalesandro's at 918.582.1551 New Year, New You Fitness Programming at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center GET F.I.T. - Wednesday and Thursday at 6:00 pm (Fun, Intense, Training) GET F.I.T. is an exercise Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling 4/23/26, 3:39 PM �Firefox 3 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-22nd--201... class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. The only requirement... keep moving through a combination of weight training and cardiovascular exercise. Wednesdays and Thursdays at 6:00 pm at the Equality Center. $5 for non-members and free to members... Come take your first steps to GET F.I.T. Facilitated by Brad Sullivan. On Wednesdays and Thursdays, GET F.I.T. is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 ChiWalking - Every other Saturday at 1:30 pm; Continues January 24th ChiWalking...Five Mindful Steps for Lifelong Health and Energy! Learn how to get aligned, engage your core, create balance, develop healthy habits and make walking a mindful practice. ChiWalking increases mobility, reduces pain, improves posture and balance, strengthens your muscles and loosens your joints. Faciliated by Jane McClain, Certified ChiWalking Instructor. Every other Saturday at 1:30 pm at the Equality Center. $5 for nonmembers and free to members. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SOS Group Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month; 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Tulsa Metro Basketball League Winter Season Wednesday nights at 7:00 pm Winter Season is December through February The league plays 3 on 3 games on a half court each Wednesday night December through February at 7:00 pm. Tulsa Metro Basketball League is an offical program of OkEq and a member organization of the Equality Sports Alliance of Tulsa. Sign up on the OkEq Webstore for $50. Games are played at the Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center at 2021 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK. Daryn Drake will be the head coach for • ~ . I ; I Grieving Well There will be no meeting on January 26th. Continues on February 9th 4/23/26, 3:39 PM �Firefox 4 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-22nd--201... the new Basketball season. For more information about the league, please contact Basketball@OkEq.org. Tulsa Pride 2015 Public Planning Meeting Thursday, January 29th, 2015; 7:00 pm Tulsa Pride will host a public planning meeting on Thursday, January 29th at 7:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Everyone is invited to come by and help make Tulsa Pride 2015 the best pride ever. T U L S A --,. e A WEEKEND OF PRIDE - JUNE 5-7, 2015 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather February First Thursday Art Gallery Reception Thursday, February 5th, 2015; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The February Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Ashley Farrier in an exhibit titled "Royalty Not Lost" in a show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, February 5th, 2015 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Financial and Estate Planning Workshop Tuesday, February 10th, 2015; 6:00 - 8:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center No matter your net worth, it's important to have a basic estate plan in place. Oklahomans for Equality will host a Financial and Estate Planning Workshop presented by RTY Law. Equality Business Alliance members will present information to the community to address the unique financial and estate planning issues that the LGBT community faces. The presentation will be held on Tuesday, February 10th, 2015 at 6:00 pm. To RSVP for this FREE workshop, please email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org - - --- SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Serv,ces and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Anti-Valentine's Day Party Saturday, February 14th, 2015; 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 3:39 PM �Firefox 5 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-22nd--201... Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Anti-Valentine's Day Party Saturday, February 14th, 2015 7:00 pm Dump your ex's stuff drive. Turn your ill will into good will By donating your ex's stuff to The Equality Center Clothing Closet. Eat. Drink. Be Bitter. New PFLAG Tulsa Meeting 3rd Monday of Every Month, Next meeting February 16th; 6:30 pm The PFLAG Tulsa chapter will begin a satellite group meeting at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on the 3rd Monday of every month at 6:30 pm. The group will next meet on Monday, February 16th. Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays promotes the health and PFLAG TULSA CH well-being of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender persons, their families and friends. For more information on PFLAG Tulsa, visit www.pflagtulsa.org or call 918.749.4901 Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The February Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, February 18th, 2015 at 6:00 pm. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Tulsa Metro Softball League - Spring Season Begins in April Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 2015 Spring Season is almost here, and the Tulsa Metro Softball League Board Members are gearing up for another fun season! As of right now, the season will begin in April. As usual, games will be played on Sunday afternoons from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. So grab your friends and come on out this season! 4/23/26, 3:39 PM �Firefox 6 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-22nd--201... IMPORTANT: TMSL will hold an open league meeting for all players and coaches to attend on Friday, February 6th at Area 18, beginning at 6:30 pm. This meeting will cover new/old details regarding the league and the current ratings system. It is highly encouraged for members and coaches who are planning on forming their own team, have questions regarding ratings, or questions on how to get on a team, to attend this meeting. TMSL looks forward to seeing everyone out again this season, and making it another great one! If you have any questions/concerns, visit www.tulsametrosoftball.com The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Plexus Slim Ask me for FREE sample!!! Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. T: (918)361-<1188 All natural products for diabeti cs, weight loss, pain, GI issues and skin conditions. www.plexusslim.com/robi nlobutti E: robinlabutti@Cox.net lose we1ghl • Get hi • Improve performance • lncrnsa 1nargy ACA Assistance Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday, Noon - 2:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 1 1 r·1 ilf LL~I SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. Using the group experience, strength and hope, the hope is to do this by: * offering referrals to SIA, self-help, support groups * providing information to start SIA groups, intergroups, and national service offices * creating and distributing SIA information tools(literature, newsletter, electronic media) * offering a speakers' bureau * guiding SIA's public information efforts worldwide For more information about SIA, visit www.siawso.org Affordable Care Act Assistance In person assistance available Open enrollment is Nov 15th - Feb 15th, 2015 Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 3:39 PM �Firefox 7 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-22nd--201... insurance system to find the most affordable coverage that meets the consumer's needs. A Murder of Storytellers Onsite assistance will be available on: January 21st & 28th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm February 4th & 11th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm Every Friday 7:00 pm LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea Ith ca re Bi I !Of Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. Pearl District Makers' Market Saturday, March 7th, 2015; 12:00 - 9:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OkEq will host the Pearl District Makers' Market on Saturday March 7th from 12:00 to 9:00 pm. The market will feature local, handmade arts, crafts, goods, services, and live music, poetry and performances. For more info on the Pearl District Makers' Market, visit www.facebook.com/ pearlmakersmarket LOCAL ARTtCRAFTS 1111m=1~JJ.1[11 Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno POETRY - FOOD - FRIENDS We want your Marriage Equality photos! If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to Lucas.Green@OkEq.org with "OK to use" in the Subject. Please include - - --any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you! Be a part of an important study of LGBTI health Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact 4/23/26, 3:39 PM �Firefox 8 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-22nd--201... Participants who meet the following criteria are encouraged to participate: • if you are 18 - 25 years old • if you identify as a lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, or other nonheterosexual person • if you currently reside in Oklahoma The research study will require approximately 30- 45 minutes and you will be asked to provide an email address to which a link for the survey may be sent. All questions are answered online through a secured website hosted by Qualtrics survey software company. Participants will be asked to complete a demographics questionnaire followed by 6 brief self-report instruments. At the end of the survey, the first 250 urban and first 250 rural participants will receive a code for $10 in credit with giftcertificates.com. This credit can be used to purchase gift cards for businesses like AMC, Bath and Bodyworks, Buckle, Buffalo Wild Wings, or many other wellknown companies. EventCenter@OkEq.org ---Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org To inquire more about the study or request any additional information, contact the researchers at: Douglas Knutson, by phone 405.459.0241 or email douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Dr. Sue C. Jacobs, by phone 405.744.9895 or email sue.c.jacobs@okstate.edu Dr. Melissa Hakman by phone 405.208.5397 or email mhakman@okcu.edu. For more information or to participate, go to http://tiny.cc/oklgbti2 ---- Equality Center Pride Store EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Available in the Pride Store, the 2015 Tulsa Metro Hottest Firefighters calendar for only $10.00. Proceeds benefits the Tulsa Firefighter Educational Clown Organization. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. 4/23/26, 3:39 PM �Firefox 9 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-22nd--201... Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'A Body to Die For' by Shannon Iwanski You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Max has returned from a trip that was supposed to help him get his head and heart together following a break up. Unfortunately, it didn't work, and now Max has to face his ex, Bobby, who also happens to be his business partner. It was bad enough to find out Bobby had already moved on, but it gets worse when the new boyfriend, Skylar, is murdered. Now, Bobby is the primary suspect, and Max takes it upon himself to find the real killer. That will be easier said than done since Skylar was involved in illegal activity right under Bobby's nose, and Skylar's accomplice-and potential murderer-may be closer than Max realizes. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator 4/23/26, 3:39 PM �Firefox 10 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-22nd--201... Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org r-----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L-----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 3:39 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/2fd731cf981596374ffc4d1a162d7a12.pdf dcdbcec57df29dc6d7b428ba13c083f2 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-28th--2015... eNews January 28th, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor 2014 Donation Tax Letters EBA Fundraiser You Are an Oklahoman Too Welcome to the eNews. Oklahoma marriage, children and families and LGBT Youth are under attack at the State Capital. Read below on how you can help defend them. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Kelly Kirby, CPA HB 1345 Legislation Alert New Year, New You Basketball League Tulsa Pride 2015 February First Thursday Art Financial and Estate Planning Guys Dine Too Anti-Valentine's Day Party Married filing jointly? In Oklahoma? Affordable Care Act got you confused? Let us help you file your 2014 tax returns! PFLAG Tulsa Equality Business Alliance EBA Sponsor Tulsa Metro Softball League Kelly Kirby CPA Romance and Chocolates Certified Public Accountant HIV Wellness Retreat a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 kelly@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com Alice Bates' Birthday Survivors of Incest Anonymous ACA Assistance LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Pearl District Makers' Market Marriage Equality Photos -----LGBTI Health Research Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. Find Us on Facebook 2014 Donation Tax Letters Tax receipts for donations made to Oklahomans for Equality in 2014 were recently mailed. If you have not received your tax receipt or have questions regarding your receipt, please contact Kirk Holt, OkEq Treasurer, Treasurer@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 3:40 PM �Firefox 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-28th--2015... EBA Fundraiser at Dalesandro's Wednesday, January 28th, 2015; 6:00 - 9:00 pm ~ ., ....... ~ , c:t::;;J._Y/a£,,., Dalesandro's Italian Cuisine 1742 S Boston Ave Tulsa, OK 74119 On Wednesday, January 28th, join the Equality Business Alliance for a fundraiser dinner at Dalesandro's Italian Cuisine from 6:00 - 9:00 pm. Located at 18th and Boston, Dalesandro's will donate a portion of the dinner sales from the night back to the EBA. Reservations are appreciated by calling Dalesandro's at 918.582.1551 MY OKLAHOMA - Town Hall Meeting OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, February 19th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. Sunday, February 1st, 2015; 2:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Recent bills put forth by Oklahoma legislators have been a direct attack on the LGBT community. Now is the time for us to respond. Join Oklahomans for Equality on Sunday, February 1st at 2:00 pm for the first in a weekly series of MY OKLAHOMA Town Hall meetings to discuss the bills and their possible outcome on your life as an Oklahoman. We can provide some talking points when discussing these bills with your legislators. Discuss coordinated strategic visits to the Oklahoma State Capitol. Oklahomans for Equality applauds HB 1345 Oklahomans for Equality applauds House Bill 1345 filed by Representative Jason Dunnington. The bill would amend provisions regarding workplace and employment discrimination by adding sexual orientation and gender identity and expression. Please contact Representative Dunnington and thank him for his efforts to end work place discrimination against LGBT employees. OkEq Art Exhibit The January exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the group exhibit titled; Transforming Hate ________ Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8568 4/23/26, 3:40 PM �Firefox 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-28th--2015... http://www.okhouse.gov/District.aspx? District=88 Then contact your legislator and tell them you support House Bill 1345.http://www.oklegislature.gov/FindMyLegislature. Remember personal letters and notes, phone calls and a face to face visit with your legislator are the most effective method to engage your elected official. Legislation Alerts from Oklahomans for Equality Oklahomans for Equality calls upon all fair minded Oklahomans to contact your state representative and ask them not to support the following House Bills 1007, 1125, 1598, 1599, 1663 1820 and 2215. Senate Bills 440, 478, 669, 724, 788 and 805 HB 1125 would strip county court clerks of their duty of issuing marriage licenses. Rep. Todd Russ of District 55 has introduced the bill under the guise of protecting elected officials religious freedoms. If passed, this bill will Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 • Sets precedent where public servants can choose who they serve. • De-fund court clerks already strained budgets • Do away with the marriage license process which conforms to every other state • Create chaos in a system that has worked for more than century Rep. David Brumbaugh of District 76, representing Broken Arrow and Tulsa, has put forth HB 1007 targets same sex couples wishing to be married, and seeks to protect clergy persons who do not wish to, or can not perform weddings for same-sex couples. Under present Oklahoma law, only clergy persons willing and able to perform same sex weddings are allowed to. No one is forced to perform same-sex weddings. House Bill 2215 filed by Representative Mike Ritze. If the bill became law it would require marriage applicants to provide medical histories and treatments as a part of the marriage licensing process. This would be a violation of privacy and is nothing more than an attempt to single out transgender individuals and is intrusive and violates all acceptable social standards. ."' f, • ..,, Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SOS Group -, Rep. Sally Kern has put forth several bills HB 1597, I 1598, 1599 and 1663. HB 1597 will protect business entities in refusing services to the LGBT community. Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. 4/23/26, 3:40 PM �Firefox 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-28th--2015... HB 1598 Freedom to Obtain Conversion Therapy Act; will provide the right to obtain certain counseling or conversion therapy; prevent certain infringement by the state; permit mental health provider to engage in sexual orientation change efforts with a child. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org HB 1599 Preservation of Sovereignty and Marriage Act will prohibit public funds for any activity licensing or supporting same-sex marriage; prohibit public employees from recognizing same-sex marriage licenses. HB 1663: Marriage Act of Oklahoma -- A shell bill with the wording to be added later. Introduced by Sen. Joseph Silk, Senate Bill 440: Oklahoma Religious Freedom Restoration Act of 2015 -- No individual or religious entity shall be required by any governmental entity to do any of the following, if it would be contrary to the sincerely held religious beliefs of the individual or religious entity regarding sex, gender or sexual orientation: 1. provide any services, accommodations, advantages, facilities, goods or privileges; 2. provide counseling, adoption, foster care, and other social services; 3. provide employment or employment benefits, related to, or related to the celebration of, any marriage, domestic partnership, civil union or similar arrangement; 4. solemnize any marriage, domestic partnership, civil union or similar arrangement; or 5. treat any marriage, domestic partnership, civil union or similar arrangement as valid. SB 724 by Sen. Joseph Silk, changes the process for a legally recognized marriage in Oklahoma by calling them covenants and not marriages and restricting it to male and female couples. SB 478, by Sen. Corey Brooks, Marriage; Protection of Religious Freedom in the Sanctity of Marriage Act of 2015, Establishing a religious exemption for any elected official or government employee or private business who does not want to issue a marriage license, officiate or solemnize a marriage, or provide business services to a individuals they do not agree with because of individual religious views and exempts them from lawsuits or disciplinary action. Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather SB 669 by Sen. Nathan Dahm, would limit marriage to male and female couples and require a minister or an attorney to give you a declaration of marriage. SB 788 by Sen. Dan Newberry. No judge or religious officiant shall have to perform a marriage that violates their religious beliefs. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) 4/23/26, 3:40 PM �Firefox 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-28th--2015... SB 805 by Sen. Josh Breecheen. No state official shall issue a marriage license to a same sex couple or any public funds be used to issue a marriage license. Find your local legislator and let them know that these attacks are not acceptable. www.oklegislature.gov/FindMyLegislature.aspx Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual &. Transgender Elders New Year, New You Fitness Programming at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center GET F.I.T. - Wednesday and Thursday at 6:00 pm (Fun, Intense, Training) GET F.I.T. is an exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. The only requirement... keep moving through a combination of weight training and cardiovascular exercise. Wednesdays and Thursdays at 6:00 pm at the Equality Center. $5 for non-members and free to members... Come take your first steps to GET F.I.T. Facilitated by Brad Sullivan. On Wednesdays and Thursdays, GET F.I.T. ChiWalking - Every other Saturday at 1:30 pm; Continues February 7th ChiWalking...Five Mindful Steps for Lifelong Health and Energy! Learn how to get aligned, engage your core, create balance, develop healthy habits and make walking a mindful practice. ChiWalking increases mobility, reduces pain, improves posture and balance, strengthens your muscles and loosens your joints. Faciliated by Jane McClain, Certified ChiWalking Instructor. Every other Saturday at 1:30 pm at the Equality Center. $5 for nonmembers and free to members. Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and 4/23/26, 3:40 PM �Firefox 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-28th--2015... Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month; 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Tulsa Metro Basketball League Winter Season Wednesday nights at 7:00 pm Winter Season is December through February The league plays 3 on 3 games on a half court each Wednesday night December through February at 7:00 pm. Tulsa Metro Basketball League is an offical program of OkEq and a member organization of the Equality Sports Alliance of Tulsa. Sign up on the OkEq -----Webstore for $50. Games are played at the Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center at 2021 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK. Daryn Drake will be the head coach for the new Basketball season. For more information about the league, please contact Basketball@OkEq.org. Tulsa Pride 2015 Public Planning Meeting Thursday, January 29th, 2015; 7:00 pm Tulsa Pride will host a public planning meeting on Thursday, January 29th at 7:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Everyone is invited to come by and help make Tulsa Pride 2015 the best pride ever. Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance T U L S A ~,. e Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. A WEEKEND OF PRIDE - JUNE 5-7, 2015 Gender Outreach February First Thursday Art Gallery Reception Thursday, February 5th, 2015; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The February Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Ashley Farrier in an exhibit titled "Royalty Not Lost" in a show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, February 5th, 2015 from 6:00 Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. 4/23/26, 3:40 PM �Firefox 7 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-28th--2015... - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the ~ ~month. \ ~ . ~~. ~ - Financial and Estate Planning Workshop Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Tuesday, February 10th, 2015; 6:00 - 8:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center No matter your net worth, it's important to have a basic estate plan in place. Oklahomans for Equality will host a Financial and Estate Planning Workshop presented by RTYLaw. Equality Business Alliance members will present information to the community to address the unique financial and estate planning issues that the LGBT community faces. The presentation will be held on Tuesday, February 10th, 2015 at 6:00 pm. For more information or to RSVP for this FREE workshop, please email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org RTY AW A Professional Corporation A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Guys Dine Too Tuesday, February 3rd, 2015; 6:30 pm The February meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Tokyo Garden Restaurant on Tuesday, February 3rd, 2015 at 6:30 pm. Tokyo Garden Restaurant is located at 4020 S Memorial Dr www.tokyogarden.net Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. Anti-Valentine's Day Party Saturday, February 14th, 2015; 7:00 pm Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Anti-Valentine's Day Party Saturday, February 14th, 2015 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals 4/23/26, 3:40 PM �Firefox 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-28th--2015... 7:00 pm Dump your ex's stuff drive. Turn your ill will into good will By donating your ex's stuff to The Equality Center Clothing Closet. Eat. Drink. Be Bitter. New PFLAG Tulsa Meeting 3rd Monday of Every Month, Next meeting February 16th; 6:30 pm The PFLAG Tulsa chapter will begin a satellite group meeting at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on the 3rd Monday of every month at 6:30 pm. The group will next meet on Monday, February 16th. Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays promotes the health and PFLAG TULSA CHA. well-being of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender persons, their families and friends. For more information on PFLAG Tulsa, visit www.pflagtulsa.org or call 918.749.4901 Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events g Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org E UALITY QJBusmess Alliance The February Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, February 18th, 2015 at 6:00 pm. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: ihelptulsa.com I I I · LI TUL Home / Small Business IT Exper1ise J Ii V £ ,LLE EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Owner • ihelptulso.com Tel : (9 18) 605-8777 Web: www.ihelptulsa.com Email: johnv@ihelptulsa.com Workforce Oklahoma Access Point "Recently received a new computer or smart device? Do you need all of your files and email moved from your old computer to your new computer? Do you need help setting up your smart device? If so, contact www.ihelptulsa.com or call John at 918 605-8777!" Want to receive computer tips? Like us on Facebook: facebook.com/ ihelptulsa Tulsa Metro Softball League - Spring Season Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step 4/23/26, 3:40 PM �Firefox 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-28th--2015... Begins in April 2015 Spring Season is almost here, and the Tulsa Metro Softball League Board Members are gearing up for another fun season! As of right now, the season will begin in April. As usual, games will be played on Sunday afternoons from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. So grab your friends and come on out this season! IMPORTANT: TMSL will hold an open league meeting for all players and coaches to attend on Friday, February 6th at Area 18, beginning at 6:30 pm. This meeting will cover new/old details regarding the league and the current ratings system. It is highly encouraged for members and coaches who are planning on forming their own team, have questions regarding ratings, or questions on how to get on a team, to attend this meeting. TMSL looks forward to seeing everyone out again this season, and making it another great one! If you have any questions/concerns, visit www.tulsametrosoftball.com Romance and Chocolates 2015 Saturday, February 21st, 2015; 6:00 pm Please join Sisters In Song for Romance & Chocolates 2015 Lovin' That Doo Wop Doors open at 6:00 pm, Music & Entertainment begins at 6:30 pm Wine with dinner begins at 7:00 pm At Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave Tickets $30, Reserved tables available. Limited to 96 Seats, advance purchase is advised Sisters In Song (Jq)mance e1, Cfioco{ates ~ Pe6. 21, 2015 instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Lovin' CJ'liat (}Joo Wop Facebook.com/SisterslnSongTulsa Like on Facebook at www.facebook.com/SistersInSongTulsa or email info@daao.us Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Alice Bates' 90th Birthday Party Saturday, February 21st, 2015; 1:00 - 4:00 pm 4/23/26, 3:40 PM �Firefox 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-28th--2015... Alice Wilder Bates is the president of A Friend for A Friend and she is turning 90! Her children are inviting the community to the birthday party. Come by for some cake and punch and share your happy memories of Alice. Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Saturday, February 21st, 2015 1:00 - 4:00 pm At the Tulsa Elks Lodge 5335 South Harvard Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org If you are unable to attend, Alice would still love to get a note from you about a fond memory you have of her. (2713 E 49th, Tulsa, OK 74105) For more information, call Jane Clark 918.857.2882 HIV Wellness Retreat 2015 Deadline is July 17th The Grateful Day Foundation is excited to announce the dates for this year's HIV Wellness Retreat. The Grateful Day Foundation seeks to fill gaps in services in Oklahoma's HIV/ JF <0>11.11.ltll.di.Sl.ti<O> ltll. ][ltll.CAIDS wellness community Taking a leap of faith for those living with HIV/AIDS through collaboration with partner organizations, providing transportation to those in need, and hosting an Annual HIV Wellness Retreat. This year's retreat will be held August 21st - 23rd, at the beautiful Sky Ranch Cave Springs in Quapaw Ok. www.skyranch.org Qrnteful .Z,A!j We are looking forward to another fun and informative retreat this year. Applications can be found on our website, www.gratefulday.org as well as in hard copy form at Tulsa Cares, Parish Church of St. Jerome, HOPE testing, OSU Specialty Clinic, and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (OKEQ). This retreat is designed and planned around the needs of the clients we serve in our community. We will be hosting a number of workshops throughout the weekend as well as several fun things to do at the retreat. For more information, visit our website or contact us by phone. Contact info: 539.664.7206 www.gratefulday.org 4/23/26, 3:40 PM �Firefox 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-28th--2015... Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday, Noon - 2:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. Using the group experience, strength and hope, the hope is to do this by: * offering referrals to SIA, self-help, support groups * providing information to start SIA groups, intergroups, and national service offices * creating and distributing SIA information tools(literature, newsletter, electronic media) * offering a speakers' bureau * guiding SIA's public information efforts worldwide For more information about SIA, visit www.siawso.org Affordable Care Act Assistance In person assistance available Open enrollment is Nov 15th - Feb 15th, 2015 Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health insurance system to find the most affordable coverage that meets the consumer's needs. Onsite assistance will be available on: January 28th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm February 4th & 11th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea Ith ca re Bi I !Of Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. 4/23/26, 3:40 PM �Firefox 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-28th--2015... Pearl District Makers' Market Saturday, March 7th, 2015; 12:00 - 9:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OkEq will host the Pearl District Makers' Market on Saturday March 7th from 12:00 to 9:00 pm. The market will feature local, handmade arts, crafts, goods, services, and live music, poetry and performances. For more info on the Pearl District Makers' Market, visit www.facebook.com/ pearlmakersmarket LOCAL ART~CRAFTS 1111 lfj :I~_ 11-1 [II POETRY - FOOD - FRIENDS We want your Marriage Equality photos! If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to Lucas.Green@OkEq.org with "OK to use" in the Subject. Please include ---any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you! Be a part of an important study of LGBTI health Participants who meet the following criteria are encouraged to participate: • if you are 18 - 25 years old • if you identify as a lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, or other nonheterosexual person • if you currently reside in Oklahoma The research study will require approximately 30- 45 minutes and you will be asked to provide an email address to which a link for the survey may be sent. All questions are answered online through a secured website hosted by Qualtrics survey software company. Participants will be asked to complete a demographics questionnaire followed by 6 brief self-report instruments. At the end of the survey, the first 250 urban and first 250 rural participants will receive a code for $10 in credit with giftcertificates.com. This credit can be used to purchase gift cards for businesses like AMC, Bath and Bodyworks, Buckle, Buffalo Wild Wings, or many other wellknown companies. To inquire more about the study or request any additional information, contact the researchers at: Douglas Knutson, by phone 405.459.0241 or email douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Dr. Sue C. Jacobs, by phone 405.744.9895 or email sue.c.jacobs@okstate.edu --Dr. Melissa Hakman by phone 405.208.5397 or email mhakman@okcu.edu. 4/23/26, 3:40 PM �Firefox 13 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-28th--2015... For more information or to participate, go to http://tiny.cc/oklgbti2 ------ Equality Center Pride Store Available in the Pride Store, the 2015 Tulsa Metro Hottest Firefighters calendar for only $10.00. Proceeds benefits the Tulsa Firefighter Educational Clown Organization. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'The Father of Frankenstein' by Christopher Bram You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center A unique mixture of fact and fiction recreates 1950s Hollywood in a tale of homoeroticism, mental disintegration, social commentary, and compassionate human insight surrounding the mysterious death of James Whale, director of Frankenstein. FATHER 0F FRANKENSTEIN ------ c H R I S T O P H E R1 f BRAM ....-r' Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/23/26, 3:40 PM �Firefox 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-28th--2015... •• •• • Vol int er A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! fUL A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r-----------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L-----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 3:40 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/3d6a49880dcaece229f74febf223b426.pdf dc78d0b378c0b12ea979def57d39d152 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-4th--2015... eNews February 4th, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor HB 1345 2014 Donation Tax Letters February First Thursday Art Welcome to the eNews. Join us for the Anti-Valentine's Day Party on Saturday, February 14th at 7:00 pm. If you have any of your ex's stuff around, bring it by and donate it to the Equality Center Closet. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Book Study You Are an Oklahoman Too Financial and Estate Planning Anti-Valentine's Day Party New Year, New You The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: The Garden Trug Basketball League Tulsa Pride 2015 SAGE Tulsa Mardi Gras PFLAG Tulsa EBA Sponsor A Conversation with SAGE Tulsa Have you ordered your flowers & chocolates? Equality Business Alliance Order Today: 918.528.3828 NOH8 GcirrL~nitui Cl ck this d or v st: lhegardentrug.com Tulsa Metro Softball League Romance and Chocolates Alice Bates' Birthday HIV Wellness Retreat Survivors of Incest Anonymous Oklahomans for Equality applauds HB 1345 Oklahomans for Equality applauds House Bill 1345 filed by Representative Jason Dunnington. The bill would amend provisions regarding workplace and employment discrimination by adding sexual orientation and gender identity and expression. Please contact Representative Dunnington and thank him for his efforts to end work place discrimination against LGBT employees. http://www.okhouse.gov/District.aspx? District=88 House Bill 1345 has been assigned to a committee for review. The Economic Development, Commerce and Real Estate committee. The following representatives are on this committee and are reviewing the bill. Please take the time to contact them and let them know you want them to support the bill. You can find their contact information on this page. ACA Assistance LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Pearl District Makers' Market Marriage Equality Photos --LGBTI Health Research Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 3:41 PM �Firefox 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-4th--2015... Chair: Rep. Dan Kirby (R), District 75 Vice Chair: Rep. Marian Cooksey (R), District 39 Rep. Travis Dunlap (R), District 10 Rep. Charles McCall (R), District 22 Rep. Brian Renegar (D), District 17 Rep. Elise Hall (R), District 100 Rep. Randy McDaniel (R), District 83 Rep. Dustin Roberts (R), District 21 Rep. Kevin Matthews (D), District 73 Rep. Richard Morrissette (D), District 92 2014 Donation Tax Letters Tax receipts for donations made to Oklahomans for Equality in 2014 were recently mailed. If you have not received your tax receipt or have questions regarding your receipt, please contact Kirk Holt, OkEq Treasurer, Treasurer@OkEq.org February First Thursday Art Gallery Reception Thursday, February 5th, 2015; 6:00 - 9:00 pm OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, February 19th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. OkEq Art Exhibit The February Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Ashley Farrier in an exhibit titled "Royalty Not Lost" in a show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, February 5th, 2015 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. The February exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature works by Ashley Farrier ________ When Christians Get It Wrong - Book Study 6 Week course, starting on Thursday, February 5th at 6:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center "When Christians Get it Wrong" a new six-week book study group led by Rev. Twila Gibbens from St. Paul's United Methodist Church starts Thursday February 5th at 6:30pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. • When Christians are Unchristian • In Dealing With Homosexuality • Christians, Science, and Politics • When Speaking of Other Religions • When Bad Things Happen • When Christians Get It Right Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8568 WHEN CHRISTIANS 4/23/26, 3:41 PM �Firefox 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-4th--2015... You may order the book by Rev. Adam Hamilton and read before discussions. Shop from Amazon and support Oklahomans for Equality at the same time. MY OKLAHOMA - Town Hall Meeting Sunday, February 8th, 2015; 2:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Recent bills put forth by Oklahoma legislators have been a direct attack on the LGBT community. Now is the time for us to respond. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Join Oklahomans for Equality on Sunday, February 8th at 2:00 pm for our continuing weekly series of MY OKLAHOMA Town Hall meetings to discuss the bills and their possible outcome on your life as an Oklahoman. We can provide some talking points when discussing these bills with your legislators. Discuss coordinated strategic visits to the Oklahoma State Capitol. Get an update on the first visit to the Capitol. Oklahomans for Equality can provide volunteer child care during the meeting for those who need it. Also interpretive services for the deaf and hard of hearing are available upon request. Please email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org to arrange these services. Oklahomans for Equality calls upon all fair minded Oklahomans to contact your state representative and ask them not to support the following House Bills 1007, 1125, 1598, 1599, 1663 and 2215. Senate Bills 440, 478, 669, 724, 788 and 805. Find your local legislator and let them know that these attacks are not acceptable. www.oklegislature.gov/FindMyLegislature.aspx Remember personal letters and notes, phone calls and a face to face visit with your legislator are the most effective method to engage your elected official. Financial and Estate Planning Workshop Tuesday, February 10th, 2015; 6:00 - 8:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center No matter your net worth, it's important to have a Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. 4/23/26, 3:41 PM �Firefox 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-4th--2015... basic estate plan in place. Oklahomans for Equality will host a Financial and Estate Planning Workshop presented by RTYLaw. Equality Business Alliance members will present information to the community to address the unique financial and estate planning issues that the LGBT community faces. The presentation will be held on Tuesday, February 10th, 2015 at 6:00 pm. For more information or to RSVP for this FREE workshop, please email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org --- RTY LAW A Professional Corporation Anti-Valentine's Day Party Saturday, February 14th, 2015; 7:00 pm Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org .& , '·'fg Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Anti-Valentine's Day Party Saturday, February 14th, 2015 7:00 pm Dump your ex's stuff drive. Turn your ill will into good will By donating your ex's stuff to The Equality Center Clothing Closet. Eat. Drink. Be Bitter. 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Entertainment for the evening will include a live performance by Read about Siamese Spots on Huffington Post and see their first video Find more info on the Siamese Spots bandcamp page SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) 4/23/26, 3:41 PM �Firefox 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-4th--2015... New Year, New You Fitness Programming at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center GET F.I.T. - Wednesday and Thursday at 6:00 pm (Fun, Intense, Training) GET F.I.T. is an exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. The only requirement... keep moving through a combination of weight training and cardiovascular exercise. Wednesdays and Thursdays at 6:00 pm at the Equality Center. $5 for non-members and free to members... Come take your first steps to GET F.I.T. Facilitated by Brad Sullivan. On Wednesdays and Thursdays, GET F.I.T. Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual &. Transgender Elders ChiWalking - Every other Saturday at 1:30 pm; Continues February 7th ChiWalking...Five Mindful Steps for Lifelong Health and Energy! Learn how to get aligned, engage your core, create balance, develop healthy habits and make walking a mindful practice. ChiWalking increases mobility, reduces pain, improves posture and balance, strengthens your muscles and loosens your joints. Faciliated by Jane McClain, Certified ChiWalking Instructor. Every other Saturday at 1:30 pm at the Equality Center. $5 for nonmembers and free to members. Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month; 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Tulsa Metro Basketball League Winter Season Wednesday nights at 7:00 pm Winter Season is December through February Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and 4/23/26, 3:41 PM �Firefox 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-4th--2015... The league plays 3 on 3 games on a half court each Wednesday night December through February at 7:00 pm. Tulsa Metro Basketball League is an offical program of OkEq and a member organization of the Equality Sports Alliance of Tulsa. Sign-up theOkEq - on -Webstore for $50. Games are played at the Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center at 2021 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK. Daryn Drake will be the head coach for the new Basketball season. For more information about the league, please contact Basketball@OkEq.org. support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Tulsa Pride 2015 Public Planning Meeting Thursday, February 26th, 2015; 7:00 pm Tulsa Pride will host a public planning meeting on Thursday, February 29th at 7:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Everyone is invited to come by and help make Tulsa Pride 2015 the best pride ever. Get F.I.T. T U L S A e A WEEKEND OF PRIDE - JUNE 5-7, 2015 Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. SAGE Tulsa Mardi Gras Lunch Tuesday, February 17th, 2015; 10:30 am Dennis R. Neill Equality Center SAGE Tulsa will host a Mardi Gras lunch on Tuesday, February 17th. Stew, cornbread, seasoned bread pudding and individual punch will be available. For more information or to RSVP, please email SAGE@OkEq.org New PFLAG Tulsa Meeting 3rd Monday of Every Month, Next meeting February 16th; 6:30 pm The PFLAG Tulsa chapter will begin a satellite group meeting at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on the 3rd Monday of every month at 6:30 pm. The group will next meet on Monday, February 16th. Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays promotes the health and PFLAG TULSA CHA well-being of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender persons, their families and friends. For more information on PFLAG Tulsa, visit www.pflagtulsa.org - - - - or call 918.749.4901 ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. The eNews for the week is brought to you by 4/23/26, 3:41 PM �Firefox 7 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-4th--2015... EBA Member Business: Kelly Kirby, CPA Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm . \a ,4,Qtt<Jlit#"""~ o Lambda Al-Anon e a.no \ni\\a.\ Married filing jointly? In Oklahoma? Affordable Care Act got you confused? Let us help you file your 2014 tax returns! Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 kelly@kkirby.com A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. www.kkirby.com Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. Game Night A Conversation with SAGE Tulsa participants Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno SAGE Tulsa members Ray Mahoney and Eduardo Saurez were recently profiled on the national SAGE (Services and Advocacy for LGBT Elders) website. Ray and Ed were married in Tulsa on October 12, 2014 in Tulsa, OK. Read their story here. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals 4/23/26, 3:41 PM �Firefox 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-4th--2015... Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The February Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, February 18th, 2015 at 6:00 pm hosted by Saks Fifth Avenue at 1780 S Utica Avenue. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Saks Fifth Avenue 1780 S Utica Avenue Tulsa, OK 74114 NOH8 Open Photo Shoot Friday, March 13th, 2015; 5:00 - 8:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center On Friday, March 13th, 2015, the NOH8 Campaign will set up their mobile studio in Tulsa, Oklahoma -offering Oklahomans a chance to be heard. Oklahomans for Equality and the Tulsa Pride 2015 Committee will host the photo shoot at the Equality Center. The NOH8 Campaign's Tulsa shoot is scheduled to begin on March 13th at 5:00 pm and will end at 8:00 pm. Free parking is available on the streets surrounding the center. Prices are $40.00 for solo portraits and $25.00 per person for couple or group portraits. Interested volunteers should contact the NOH8 Campaign via email at info@NOH8Campaign.com. - - - - - - - - - Additional details can be found at www.noh8campaign.com. RSVP to the photo shoot on Facebook here. ------- The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. --- Tulsa Metro Softball League - Spring Season Begins in April 2015 Spring Season is almost here, and the Tulsa Metro Softball League Board Members are gearing up for another fun season! As of right now, the season will begin in April. As usual, games will be played on Sunday afternoons from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. So grab your friends and come on out this season! IMPORTANT: TMSL will hold an open league meeting for all players and coaches to attend on Friday, February 6th at Area 18, beginning at 6:30 pm. This meeting will cover new/old details regarding the league and the current Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step 4/23/26, 3:41 PM �Firefox 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-4th--2015... ratings system. It is highly encouraged for members and coaches who are planning on forming their own team, have questions regarding ratings, or questions on how to get on a team, to attend this meeting. TMSL looks forward to seeing everyone out again this season, and making it another great one! If you have any questions/concerns, visit www.tulsametrosoftball.com Romance and Chocolates 2015 Saturday, February 21st, 2015; 6:00 pm Please join Sisters In Song for Romance & Chocolates 2015 Lovin' That Doo Wop Doors open at 6:00 pm, Music & Entertainment begins at 6:30 pm Wine with dinner begins at 7:00 pm At Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave Tickets $30, Reserved tables available. Limited to 96 Seats, advance purchase is advised Sisters In Song <R.gmance <tl, Cfioco{ates ~ Pe6. 21, 2015 instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Lovin' CJ'liat <Doo Wop Facebook.com/SisterslnSongTulsa Like on Facebook at www.facebook.com/SistersInSongTulsa or email info@daao.us Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Alice Bates' 90th Birthday Party Saturday, February 21st, 2015; 1:00 - 4:00 pm Alice Wilder Bates is the president of A Friend for A Friend and she is turning 90! Her children are inviting the community to the birthday party. Come by for some cake and punch and share your happy memories of Alice. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ---- 4/23/26, 3:41 PM �Firefox 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-4th--2015... Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Saturday, February 21st, 2015 1:00 - 4:00 pm At the Tulsa Elks Lodge 5335 South Harvard If you are unable to attend, Alice would still love to get a note from you about a fond memory you have of her. (2713 E 49th, Tulsa, OK 74105) For more information, call Jane Clark 918.857.2882 Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org HIV Wellness Retreat 2015 Deadline is July 17th The Grateful Day Foundation is excited to announce the dates for this year's HIV Wellness Retreat. The Grateful Day Foundation seeks to fill gaps in services in Oklahoma's HIV/ JF <0>11.Jl.lt'Jl.dl.Sl.ti<O> ltJl. ][lt'Jl.CAIDS wellness community Taking a leap of faith for those living with HIV/AIDS through collaboration with partner organizations, providing transportation to those in need, and hosting an Annual HIV Wellness Retreat. This year's retreat will be held August 21st - 23rd, at the beautiful Sky Ranch Cave Springs in Quapaw Ok. www.skyranch.org Qrnteful .,2)Af1 We are looking forward to another fun and informative retreat this year. Applications can be found on our website, www.gratefulday.org as well as in hard copy form at Tulsa Cares, Parish Church of St. Jerome, HOPE testing, OSU Specialty Clinic, and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (OKEQ). This retreat is designed and planned around the needs of the clients we serve in our community. We will be hosting a number of workshops throughout the weekend as well as several fun things to do at the retreat. For more information, visit our website or contact us by phone. Contact info: 539.664.7206 www.gratefulday.org Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday, Noon - 2:00 pm 4/23/26, 3:41 PM �Firefox 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-4th--2015... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. Using the group experience, strength and hope, the hope is to do this by: * offering referrals to SIA, self-help, support groups * providing information to start SIA groups, intergroups, and national service offices * creating and distributing SIA information tools(literature, newsletter, electronic media) * offering a speakers' bureau * guiding SIA's public information efforts worldwide For more information about SIA, visit www.siawso.org Affordable Care Act Assistance In person assistance available Open enrollment is Nov 15th - Feb 15th, 2015 Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health insurance system to find the most affordable coverage that meets the consumer's needs. Onsite assistance will be available on: February 4th & 11th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea Ith ca re Bi I !Of Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. Pearl District Makers' Market Saturday, March 7th, 2015; 12:00 - 9:00 pm 4/23/26, 3:41 PM �Firefox 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-4th--2015... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OkEq will host the Pearl District Makers' Market on Saturday March 7th from 12:00 to 9:00 pm. The market will feature local, handmade arts, crafts, goods, services, and live music, poetry and performances. For more info on the Pearl District Makers' Market, visit www.facebook.com/ pearlmakersmarket LOCAL ART~CRAFTS 1111W:l~_1}.1[11 POETRY - FOOD - FRIENDS We want your Marriage Equality photos! If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to Lucas.Green@OkEq.org with "OK to use" in the Subject. Please include ---any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you! Be a part of an important study of LGBTI health Participants who meet the following criteria are encouraged to participate: • if you are 18 - 25 years old • if you identify as a lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, or other nonheterosexual person • if you currently reside in Oklahoma The research study will require approximately 30- 45 minutes and you will be asked to provide an email address to which a link for the survey may be sent. All questions are answered online through a secured website hosted by Qualtrics survey software company. Participants will be asked to complete a demographics questionnaire followed by 6 brief self-report instruments. At the end of the survey, the first 250 urban and first 250 rural participants will receive a code for $10 in credit with giftcertificates.com. This credit can be used to purchase gift cards for businesses like AMC, Bath and Bodyworks, Buckle, Buffalo Wild Wings, or many other wellknown companies. To inquire more about the study or request any additional information, contact the researchers at: Douglas Knutson, by phone 405.459.0241 or email douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Dr. Sue C. Jacobs, by phone 405.744.9895 or email sue.c.jacobs@okstate.edu --Dr. Melissa Hakman by phone 405.208.5397 or email mhakman@okcu.edu. For more information or to participate, go to http://tiny.cc/oklgbti2 --- 4/23/26, 3:41 PM �Firefox 13 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-4th--2015... Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Invites everyone to CORO ATIO VIII The ICAO is now taking ads for program and online ticket sales Complete weekend information can be found on the Coronation VIII Pages of our website www.impcourtok.webs.com or email us at impcourtok@gmail.com I.C.A.O. is a Nonprofit 501(c)(3) Charity Organization Equality Center Pride Store Available in the Pride Store, the 2015 Tulsa Metro Hottest Firefighters calendar for only $10.00. Proceeds benefits the Tulsa Firefighter Educational Clown Organization. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 4/23/26, 3:41 PM �Firefox 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-4th--2015... Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'The Father of Frankenstein' by Christopher Bram You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center A unique mixture of fact and fiction recreates 1950s Hollywood in a tale of homoeroticism, mental disintegration, social commentary, and compassionate human insight surrounding the mysterious death of James Whale, director of Frankenstein. FATHER 0F FRANKENSTEIN ~ C H R I S T O P H E R1 f BRAM ~ Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library •• • • •• • r ol int TU A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r-----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I ~-----------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 3:41 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/380727dadf85f7ff3cf6be01989de92d.pdf bb29266adb0daa91f8ad32071ba2162c PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-11th--201... eNews February 11th, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor SB 435 2014 Donation Tax Letters Book Study Welcome to the eNews. Join us for the Anti-Valentine's Day Party on Saturday, February 14th at 7:00 pm. If you have any of your ex's stuff around, bring it by and donate it to the Equality Center Closet. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Anti-Valentine's Day Party You Are an Oklahoman Too Equality Business Alliance New Year, New You Basketball League The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: The Garden Trug Tulsa Pride 2015 SAGE Tulsa Mardi Gras PFLAG Tulsa March First Thursday Art Girl Scout Cookie Sale EBA Sponsor Have you ordered your flowers & chocolates? Order Today: 918.528.3828 GcirrL~nitui Cl ck this d or v st: lhegardentrug.com A Conversation with SAGE Tulsa NOH8 Tulsa Metro Softball League Romance and Chocolates Alice Bates' Birthday HIV Wellness Retreat Survivors of Incest Anonymous OkEq condemns Senate Bill 435 Oklahomans for Equality condemns Senator Cruz's attempt to strip LGBTQ citizens of their hard earned and fought for rights by introducing Senate Bill 435, the State Marriage Defense Act. The bill would strip legally married same-sex couples of their federal benefits. Recent advances in equal rights came after decades of judicial fights and legislative battles. Senator Cruz forgets those hard won victories came after the light was turned on exposing evil discrimination masking itself as state rights. We are deeply disappointed that Senators Inhofe and Lankford have chosen to co-sponsor a bill that is destined to lose at the statehouse and the courthouse. ACA Assistance LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Pearl District Makers' Market Body Electric Workshop Marriage Equality Photos --LGBTI Health Research Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 3:42 PM �Firefox 2 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-11th--201... Oklahomans for Equality calls upon all fair minded Oklahomans to contact US Senators Inhofe and Lankford and express your disappointment with their co-sponsorship of the bill. OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, February 19th, 7:00 pm Senator James Mountain Inhofe United States Senate 205 Russell Senate Office Building Washington, DC 20510-3603 Phone: (202) 224-4721 Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. Senator James Lankford United State Senate B40-C Dirksen Senate Office Building Washington, DC 20510 Phone: (202) 224-5754 OkEq Art Exhibit 2014 Donation Tax Letters Tax receipts for donations made to Oklahomans for Equality in 2014 were recently mailed. If you have not received your tax receipt or have questions regarding your receipt, please contact Kirk Holt, OkEq Treasurer, Treasurer@OkEq.org The February exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature works by Ashley Farrier ________ When Christians Get It Wrong - Book Study 6 Week course, continues on Thursday, February 12th at 6:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center "When Christians Get it Wrong" a new six-week book study group led by Rev. Twila Gibbens from St. Paul's United Methodist Church starts Thursday February 5th at 6:30pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8568 • In Dealing With Homosexuality • Christians, Science, and Politics • When Speaking of Other Religions • When Bad Things Happen • When Christians Get It Right WHEN You may order the book by Rev. Adam Hamilton and read before discussions. Shop from Amazon and support Oklahomans for CHRISTIANS GET IT WRJONG ~;;"" . _ _ Trag1cc, Scieaee 4/23/26, 3:42 PM �Firefox 3 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-11th--201... Equality the same -at- time. - Anti-Valentine's Day Party Saturday, February 14th, 2015; 7:00 pm Counseling Services Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Anti-Valentine's Day Party Saturday, February 14th, 2015 7:00 pm Dump your ex's stuff drive. Turn your ill will into good will By donating your ex's stuff to The Equality Center Clothing Closet. Eat. Drink. Be Bitter. Entertainment for the evening will include a live performance by Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Read about Siamese Spots on Huffington Post and see their first video Find more info on the Siamese Spots bandcamp page MY OKLAHOMA - Town Hall Meeting Sunday, February 15th, 2015; 2:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Recent bills put forth by Oklahoma legislators have been a direct attack on the LGBT community. Now is the time for us to respond. sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org --SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. 4/23/26, 3:42 PM �Firefox 4 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-11th--201... Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Join Oklahomans for Equality on Sunday, February 15th at 2:00 pm for our continuing weekly series of MY OKLAHOMA Town Hall meetings to discuss the bills and their possible outcome on your life as an Oklahoman. We can provide some talking points when discussing these bills with your legislators. Discuss coordinated strategic visits to the Oklahoma State Capitol. Get an update on the weekly visits to the Capitol. Oklahomans for Equality can provide volunteer child care during the meeting for those who need it. Also interpretive services for the deaf and hard of hearing are available upon request. Please email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org to arrange these services. Oklahomans for Equality calls upon all fair minded Oklahomans to contact your state representative and ask them not to support the following House Bills 1007, 1125, 1598, 1599, 1663 and 2215. Senate Bills 440, 478, 669, 724, 788 and 805. Find your local legislator and let them know that these attacks are not acceptable. www.oklegislature.gov/FindMyLegislature.aspx Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Remember personal letters and notes, phone calls and a face to face visit with your legislator are the most effective method to engage your elected official. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The February Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, February 18th, 2015 at 6:00 pm hosted by Saks Fifth Avenue at 1780 S Utica Avenue. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. SAGE Tulsa Saks Fifth Avenue 1780 S Utica Avenue (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) 4/23/26, 3:42 PM �Firefox 5 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-11th--201... Tulsa, OK 74114 New Year, New You Fitness Programming at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center GET F.I.T. - Wednesday and Thursday at 6:00 pm (Fun, Intense, Training) GET F.I.T. is an exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. The only requirement... keep moving through a combination of weight training and cardiovascular exercise. Wednesdays and Thursdays at 6:00 pm at the Equality Center. $5 for non-members and free to members... Come take your first steps to GET F.I.T. Facilitated by Brad Sullivan. On Wednesdays and Thursdays, GET F.I.T. ChiWalking - Every other Saturday at 1:30 pm; Continues February 21st ChiWalking...Five Mindful Steps for Lifelong Health and Energy! Learn how to get aligned, engage your core, create balance, develop healthy habits and make walking a mindful practice. ChiWalking increases mobility, reduces pain, improves posture and balance, strengthens your muscles and loosens your joints. Faciliated by Jane McClain, Certified ChiWalking Instructor. Every other Saturday at 1:30 pm at the Equality Center. $5 for nonmembers and free to members. Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual &. Transgender Elders Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month; 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Tulsa Metro Basketball League Winter Season Wednesday nights at 7:00 pm Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and 4/23/26, 3:42 PM �Firefox 6 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-11th--201... Winter Season is December through February The league plays 3 on 3 games on a half court each Wednesday night December through February at 7:00 pm. Tulsa Metro Basketball League is an offical program of OkEq and a member organization of the Equality Sports Alliance of Tulsa. Sign up on the OkEq ------Webstore for $50. Games are played at the Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center at 2021 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK. Daryn Drake will be the head coach for the new Basketball season. For more information about the league, please contact Basketball@OkEq.org. support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Tulsa Pride 2015 Public Planning Meeting Thursday, February 26th, 2015; 7:00 pm Tulsa Pride will host a public planning meeting on Thursday, February 29th at 7:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Everyone is invited to come by and help make Tulsa Pride 2015 the best pride ever. T U L S A ... ,,. e A WEEKEND OF PRIDE - JUNE 5-7, 2015 SAGE Tulsa Mardi Gras Lunch Tuesday, February 17th, 2015; 10:30 am Dennis R. Neill Equality Center SAGE Tulsa will host a Mardi Gras lunch on Tuesday, February 17th. Stew, cornbread, seasoned bread pudding and individual punch will be available. For more information or to RSVP, please email SAGE@OkEq.org Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Gender Outreach New PFLAG Tulsa Meeting 3rd Monday of Every Month, Next meeting February 16th; 6:30 pm The PFLAG Tulsa chapter will begin a satellite group meeting at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on the 3rd Monday of every month at 6:30 pm. The group will next meet on Monday, February 16th. Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays promotes the health and PFLAG TULSA CHA. well-being of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender persons, their families and friends. For more information on PFLAG Tulsa, visit www.pflagtulsa.org - - - - or call 918.749.4901 Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. 4/23/26, 3:42 PM �Firefox 7 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-11th--201... March First Thursday Art Gallery Reception Thursday, March 5th, 2015; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The March Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Nanda Thompson in an exhibit titled "Whispers" in a show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, March 5th, 2015 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm Girl Scout Cookie Sale Thursday, March 5th, 2015; 5:00 - 8:00 pm In support of Girl Scouts being an inclusion organization, Oklahomans for Equality will host the Girl Scouts of Eastern Oklahoma Cookie Sale at the Dennis R. Neill girl scout~ Equality Center on Thursday, March 5th, 2015 starting at 5:00 pm. A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Game Night The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Robin LaButti, Plexus Slim Ask me for FREE sample!!! Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno T: (918) 361-4188 All natural products for diabetics, weight loss, pain , GI issues and skin conditions. www.plexusslim.com/robinlabutti E: robinl•butti@Cox.net Lose we1ghl • Get ht • Improve performance • Increase 1nugy A Conversation with SAGE Tulsa participants Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals 4/23/26, 3:42 PM �Firefox 8 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-11th--201... SAGE Tulsa members Ray Mahoney and Eduardo Saurez were recently profiled on the national SAGE (Services and Advocacy for LGBT Elders) website. Ray and Ed were married in Tulsa on October 21, 2014 in Tulsa, OK. Read their story here. NOH8 Open Photo Shoot Friday, March 13th, 2015; 5:00 - 8:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center On Friday, March 13th, 2015, the NOH8 Campaign will set up their mobile studio in Tulsa, Oklahoma -offering Oklahomans a chance to be heard. Oklahomans for Equality and the Tulsa Pride 2015 Committee will host the photo shoot at the Equality Center. The NOH8 Campaign's Tulsa shoot is scheduled to begin on March 13th at 5:00 pm and will end at 8:00 pm. Free parking is available on the streets surrounding the center. Prices are $40.00 for solo portraits and $25.00 per person for couple or group portraits. Interested volunteers should contact the NOH8 Campaign via email at info@NOH8Campaign.com. Additional details can be found at -www.noh8campaign.com. - - - - - - - RSVP to the photo shoot on Facebook here. ----- The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Tulsa Metro Softball League - Spring Season Begins in April 2015 Spring Season is almost here, and the Tulsa Metro Softball League Board Members are gearing up for another fun season! As of right now, the season will begin in April. As usual, games will be played on Sunday afternoons from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. So grab your friends and come on out this season! IMPORTANT: TMSL will hold an open league meeting for all players and coaches to attend on Friday, February 6th at Area 18, beginning at 6:30 pm. This meeting will cover new/old details regarding the league and the current ratings system. It is highly encouraged for members and coaches who are planning on forming their own team, have questions regarding ratings, or Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step 4/23/26, 3:42 PM �Firefox 9 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-11th--201... questions on how to get on a team, to attend this meeting. TMSL looks forward to seeing everyone out again this season, and making it another great one! If you have any questions/concerns, visit www.tulsametrosoftball.com Romance and Chocolates 2015 Saturday, February 21st, 2015; 6:00 pm Please join Sisters In Song for Romance & Chocolates 2015 Lovin' That Doo Wop Doors open at 6:00 pm, Music & Entertainment begins at 6:30 pm Wine with dinner begins at 7:00 pm At Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave Tickets $30, Reserved tables available. Limited to 96 Seats, advance purchase is advised Sisters In Song (Jwmance rt{, CfiocoCates ~ Pe6. 21, 2015 instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Lovin' CJ'liat <Doo Wop Facebook.com/SisterslnSongTulsa Like on Facebook at www.facebook.com/SistersInSongTulsa or email info@daao.us Alice Bates' 90th Birthday Party Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Saturday, February 21st, 2015; 1:00 - 4:00 pm Alice Wilder Bates is the president of A Friend for A Friend and she is turning 90! Her children are inviting the community to the birthday party. Come by for some cake and punch and share your happy memories of Alice. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ---- 4/23/26, 3:42 PM �Firefox 10 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-11th--201... Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Saturday, February 21st, 2015 1:00 - 4:00 pm At the Tulsa Elks Lodge 5335 South Harvard If you are unable to attend, Alice would still love to get a note from you about a fond memory you have of her. (2713 E 49th, Tulsa, OK 74105) For more information, call Jane Clark 918.857.2882 Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org HIV Wellness Retreat 2015 Deadline is July 17th The Grateful Day Foundation is excited to announce the dates for this year's HIV Wellness Retreat. The Grateful Day Foundation seeks to fill gaps in services in Oklahoma's HIV/ JF <0>11.Jl.lt'Jl.dl.Sl.ti<O> ltJl. ][lt'Jl.CAIDS wellness community Taking a leap of faith for those living with HIV/AIDS through collaboration with partner organizations, providing transportation to those in need, and hosting an Annual HIV Wellness Retreat. This year's retreat will be held August 21st - 23rd, at the beautiful Sky Ranch Cave Springs in Quapaw Ok. www.skyranch.org Qrnteful .,2)Af1 We are looking forward to another fun and informative retreat this year. Applications can be found on our website, www.gratefulday.org as well as in hard copy form at Tulsa Cares, Parish Church of St. Jerome, HOPE testing, OSU Specialty Clinic, and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (OKEQ). This retreat is designed and planned around the needs of the clients we serve in our community. We will be hosting a number of workshops throughout the weekend as well as several fun things to do at the retreat. For more information, visit our website or contact us by phone. Contact info: 539.664.7206 www.gratefulday.org Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday, 12:30 pm - 2:00 pm 4/23/26, 3:42 PM �Firefox 11 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-11th--201... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. Using the group experience, strength and hope, the hope is to do this by: * offering referrals to SIA, self-help, support groups * providing information to start SIA groups, intergroups, and national service offices * creating and distributing SIA information tools(literature, newsletter, electronic media) * offering a speakers' bureau * guiding SIA's public information efforts worldwide For more information about SIA, visit www.siawso.org Affordable Care Act Assistance In person assistance available Open enrollment is Nov 15th - Feb 15th, 2015 Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health insurance system to find the most affordable coverage that meets the consumer's needs. Onsite assistance will be available on: February 11th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea Ith ca re Bi I !Of Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. Pearl District Makers' Market Saturday, March 7th, 2015; 12:00 - 9:00 pm 4/23/26, 3:42 PM �Firefox 12 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-11th--201... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OkEq will host the Pearl District Makers' Market on Saturday March 7th from 12:00 to 9:00 pm. The market will feature local, handmade arts, crafts, goods, services, and live music, poetry and performances. For more info on the Pearl District Makers' Market, visit www.facebook.com/ pearlmakersmarket LOCAL ART~CRAFTS 1111W:l~_1}.1[11 POETRY - FOOD - FRIENDS Body Electric Workshop April 18th & 19th, 2015 Men, come explore your erotic potential through the mind, the body and the heart using conscious breath, movement, process work and massage. When men take responsibility for their erotic education, they realize how much there is to learn about awakening the erotic energy that lies within all of us. This 2 day workshop focuses on the entire body and is conducted in a setting that is playful, safe and honoring. A few benefits of this work are: * The participant gains greater acceptance of himself as an erotic being, both physically and mentally. * He discovers ways to develop a more satisfying erotic relationship with others. * He becomes more aware of spiritual dimensions in his erotic explorations. Completion of CBE is a prerequisite for attending most intensives, advanced workshops and retreats offered by Body Electric. Limited scholarships are available. For more information please contact Andr� at Tulsa@b-e-school.com or visit our website at www.thebodyelectricschol.com. We want your Marriage Equality photos! If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to Lucas.Green@OkEq.org - - - - with "OK to use" in the Subject. Please include 4/23/26, 3:42 PM �Firefox 13 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-11th--201... any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you! Be a part of an important study of LGBTI health Participants who meet the following criteria are encouraged to participate: • if you are 18 - 25 years old • if you identify as a lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, or other nonheterosexual person • if you currently reside in Oklahoma The research study will require approximately 30- 45 minutes and you will be asked to provide an email address to which a link for the survey may be sent. All questions are answered online through a secured website hosted by Qualtrics survey software company. Participants will be asked to complete a demographics questionnaire followed by 6 brief self-report instruments. At the end of the survey, the first 250 urban and first 250 rural participants will receive a code for $10 in credit with giftcertificates.com. This credit can be used to purchase gift cards for businesses like AMC, Bath and Bodyworks, Buckle, Buffalo Wild Wings, or many other wellknown companies. To inquire more about the study or request any additional information, contact the researchers at: Douglas Knutson, by phone 405.459.0241 or email douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Dr. Sue C. Jacobs, by phone 405.744.9895 or email sue.c.jacobs@okstate.edu Dr. Melissa Hakman by phone 405.208.5397 or email mhakman@okcu.edu. For more information or to participate, go to http://tiny.cc/oklgbti2 ---- Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Invites everyone to COI\O ATIO VIII The ICAO is now taking ads for program and online ticket sales 4/23/26, 3:42 PM �Firefox 14 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-11th--201... Complete weekend information can be found on the Coronation VIII Pages of our website www.impcourtok.webs.com or email us at impcourtok@gmail.com I.C.A.O. is a Nonprofit 501(c)(3) Charity Organization Equality Center Pride Store Available in the Pride Store, new rainbow Oklahoma flag tees. Available in sizes S through 5XL, these short sleeve tees can be yours for only $20 each. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Insignificant Others' by Stephen McCauley You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Richard Rossi works in HR at a touchy-feely software company and prides himself on his understanding of the foibles and fictions we all use to get through the day. Too bad he's not as good at spotting such behavior in himself. What else could explain his passionate affair with Benjamin, a very unavailable married man? Richard suggests birthday presents for Benjamin's wife and vacation plans for his kids, meets him for "lunch" at a sublet apartment, and would never think about calling him after business hours. Since Richard is not entirely available himselfthere's Conrad, his adorable if maddening partner to contend with-it all seems perfect. But when cosmopolitan Conrad starts spending a suspicious amount of time in Ohio, and economic uncertainty challenges Richard's chances for promotion, he realizes his priorities might be a little skewed. 4/23/26, 3:42 PM �Firefox 15 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-11th--201... Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Volunt U r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r-----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L-----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 3:42 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/ebd6a327292d19110b4ea31da7977658.pdf 7576e38d4dfab84edf91793095674dbb PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-19th--201... eNews February 19th, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Legislative Alerts MY OKLAHOMA Youth Day at the Capitol Welcome to the eNews. Join us for the NOH8 photo shoot on Friday, March 13th at 5:00 - 8:00 pm. Cost is $40 for solo photos and $25 per person in couples or groups. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Kelly Kirby, CPA 2014 Donation Tax Letters Book Study NOH8 New Year, New You Tulsa Pride 2015 March First Thursday Art Girl Scout Cookie Sale Pearl District Makers' Market Tulsa Metro Softball League e and \ni\\a\ Married filing jointly? In Oklahoma? Affordable Care Act got you confused? Let us help you file your 2014 tax returns! Retirement 101 PFLAG Tulsa Book Signing Sharing the Trans Experience Kelly Kirby CPA Equality Business Alliance Certified Public Accountant Don't Tell Me I'm Sick a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 kelly@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com EBA Sponsor Lindsey McKee in concert Romance and Chocolates Alice Bates' Birthday HIV Wellness Retreat LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Body Electric Workshop Marriage Equality Photos -----LGBTI Health Research Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Pride Store Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. Rainbow Library Volunteer OkEq Legislative Alerts Oklahomans for Equality calls upon all fair minded Oklahomans to contact your state representative and ask them not to support the following: House Bills 1007, 1125, 1598, 1599 and 2215. Senate Bills 440, 478, 669, 724, 733, 788 and 805 Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 4:00 PM �Firefox 2 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-19th--201... HB 1125 would strip county court clerks of their duty of issuing marriage licenses. It would allow clergy to issue marriage "certificates," but any couple not married during a religious ceremony could have only a "common-law" marriage. Rep. Todd Russ of District 55 introduced the bill under the guise of protecting elected officials' religious freedoms. The bill has passed out of committee and now goes to the full House for consideration. OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, February 19th, 7:00 pm Rep. David Brumbaugh has put forth HB 1007, which targets same-sex couples wishing to be married and seeks to protect clergy persons who do not wish to or cannot perform weddings for same-sex couples. Under present Oklahoma law, only clergy persons willing and able to perform same-sex weddings are allowed to. Under existing law, no one is forced to perform same-sex weddings. The bill has passed the House and now goes to the Senate. Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. OkEq Art Exhibit The February exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature works by Ashley Farrier ________ House Bill 2215 was filed by Rep. Mike Ritze. If the bill became law, it would require marriage-license applicants to provide medical histories regarding whether they have had gender-reassignment surgery. This would be a violation of privacy and is nothing more than an attempt to single out transgender individuals. It is intrusive and violates all acceptable social standards. It is in the House Judiciary and Civil Procedure Committee. Rep. Sally Kern has put forth several bills, including HB 1598 and 1599. HB 1598, the Freedom to Obtain Conversion Therapy Act, would codify the right to obtain certain counseling or conversion therapy; prevent certain infringement by the state; and protect mental health providers who engage in sexual-orientation change efforts with a child. It is in the House Children, Youth and Family Services Committee. HB 1599, the Preservation of Sovereignty and Marriage Act, would prohibit the use of public funds for any activity licensing or supporting same-sex marriage and would prohibit public employees from recognizing same-sex marriage licenses. It has passed out of committee and goes to the full House. It has passed a Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8568 4/23/26, 4:00 PM �Firefox 3 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-19th--201... committee and goes to the full House. Introduced by Sen. Joseph Silk, Senate Bill 440, the Oklahoma Religious Freedom Restoration Act of 2015, says that no individual or religious entity shall be required by any governmental entity to do any of the following, if it would be contrary to the sincerely held religious beliefs of the individual or religious entity regarding sex, gender or sexual orientation: 1. provide any services, accommodations, advantages, facilities, goods or privileges; 2. provide counseling, adoption, foster care, and other social services; 3. provide employment or employment benefits, related to, or related to the celebration of, any marriage, domestic partnership, civil union or similar arrangement; 4. solemnize any marriage, domestic partnership, civil union or similar arrangement; or 5. treat any marriage, domestic partnership, civil union or similar arrangement as valid. It is in the Senate Judiciary Committee. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 SB 724 by Sen. Joseph Silk would change the nature of legally recognized marriages in Oklahoma by calling them covenants and not marriages and restricting them to male and female couples. It is in the Senate Judiciary Committee. SB 478, by Sen. Corey Brooks, the Protection of Religious Freedom in the Sanctity of Marriage Act of 2015, would establish a religious exemption for any elected official or government employee or private business that does not want to issue a marriage license, officiate or solemnize a marriage, or provide business services to a individuals they do not agree with because of individual religious views and would exempt them from lawsuits or disciplinary action. It is in the Senate Judiciary Committee. SB 669 by Sen. Nathan Dahm, would limit marriage to male and female couples and would establish a "civil declaration of marriage" that would have the same effect as a marriage license. Only the parties to the marriage or an attorney could draft the declaration. It is in the Senate Judiciary Committee. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, 4/23/26, 4:00 PM �Firefox 4 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-19th--201... visit www.SOSTulsa.org Under SB 788 by Sen. Dan Newberry, no judge or religious officiant would be required to perform a marriage that violates his or her religious beliefs. It is in the Senate Judiciary Committee. Grieving Well SB 805, the Preservation and Sovereignty of Marriage Act, by Sen. Josh Breecheen, would make it illegal for a state official to issue or recognize a marriage license to a same-sex couple or for any public funds be used to issue a marriage license. The bill also would declare that no one could challenge it in court. It is in the Senate Judiciary Committee. SB 733, by Sen. Anthony Sykes, would require a blood test from a physician to be presented to the court clerk at the time of application for a license showing that neither applicant has a communicable or infectious disease or, if infected, the disease is not in a communicable stage at the time. It is in the Senate Judiciary Committee. 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Find your local legislator and let them know that these attacks are not acceptable. www.oklegislature.gov/FindMyLegislature.aspx MY OKLAHOMA - Town Hall Meeting Sunday, February 22nd, 2015; 2:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Recent bills put forth by Oklahoma legislators have been a direct attack on the LGBT community. Now is the time for us to respond. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in 4/23/26, 4:00 PM �Firefox 5 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-19th--201... Join Oklahomans for Equality on Sunday, February 22nd at 2:00 pm for our continuing weekly series of MY OKLAHOMA Town Hall meetings to discuss the bills and their possible outcome on your life as an Oklahoman. We can provide some talking points when discussing these bills with your legislators. Discuss coordinated strategic visits to the Oklahoma State Capitol. Get an update on the weekly visits to the Capitol. Oklahomans for Equality can provide volunteer child care during the meeting for those who need it. Also interpretive services for the deaf and hard of hearing are available upon request. Please email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org to arrange these services. throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Services and Advocacy for Cay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders Oklahomans for Equality calls upon all fair minded Oklahomans to contact your state representative and ask them not to support the following House Bills 1007, 1125, 1598, 1599, and 2215. Senate Bills 440, 478, 669, 724, 733, 788 and 805. Find your local legislator and let them know that these attacks are not acceptable. www.oklegislature.gov/FindMyLegislature.aspx Remember personal letters and notes, phone calls and a face to face visit with your legislator are the most effective method to engage your elected official. LGBTQ High School Youth Day at the Capitol Thursday, March 5, leave the Equality Center at 7:00 am Oklahomans for Equality invites high school youth, counselors and teachers to join us for OkEq's LGBTQ High School Youth Day at the Capitol to address concerns about Rep. Sally Kern's HB 1598. This bill would give state sanction to so-called "conversion therapy," which medical and psychological organizations have labeled child abuse. Students must have consent from a parent or guardian and have proof that their schools have approved their absence from classes. Transportation on a chartered bus from the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, plus breakfast and lunch, will be provided. Must RSVP in advance. Contact Oklahomans for Equality Executive Director Toby Jenkins at toby.jenkins@okeq.org. Put "High School Day at the Capitol" in the subject line. 2014 Donation Tax Letters Tax receipts for donations made to Oklahomans for Equality in 2014 were recently mailed. If you have not received your tax receipt or have questions regarding your receipt, please contact Kirk Holt, OkEq Treasurer, Treasurer@OkEq.org When Christians Get It Wrong - Book Study 6-week course continues Thursday, February 19th, at 6:30 pm Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. 4/23/26, 4:00 PM �Firefox 6 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-19th--201... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 "When Christians Get it Wrong," a new six-week book study group led by the Rev. Twila Gibbens of St. Paul's United Methodist Church, started Thursday, February 5th, at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Remaining topics: • Christians, Science and Politics • When Speaking of Other Religions • When Bad Things Happen • When Christians Get It Right Get F.I.T. You may order the book by Rev. Adam Hamilton and read before discussions. Shop from Amazon and support Oklahomans for Equality at the same time. NOH8 Open Photo Shoot Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Friday, March 13th, 2015; 5:00 - 8:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center On Friday, March 13th, 2015, the NOH8 Campaign will set up their mobile studio in Tulsa, Oklahoma -offering Oklahomans a chance to be heard. Oklahomans for Equality and the Tulsa Pride 2015 Committee will host the photo shoot at the Equality Center. The NOH8 Campaign's Tulsa shoot is scheduled to begin on March 13th at 5:00 pm and will end at 8:00 pm. Free parking is available on the streets surrounding the center. Prices are $40.00 for solo portraits and $25.00 per person for couple or group portraits. Interested volunteers should contact the NOH8 Campaign via email at info@NOH8Campaign.com. Additional details can be found at www.noh8campaign.com. RSVP to the photo shoot on Facebook here. ChiWalking Every other Saturday at 1:30 p.m., continues February 21st Dennis R. Neill Equality Center ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. ChiWalking...Five Mindful Steps for Lifelong Health and Energy! Learn how to get aligned, engage your core, create balance, develop healthy habits and make walking a mindful 4/23/26, 4:00 PM �Firefox 7 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-19th--201... practice. ChiWalking increases mobility, reduces pain, improves posture and balance, strengthens your muscles and loosens your joints. Facilitated by Jane McClain, Certified ChiWalking Instructor. Every other Saturday at 1:30 pm at the Equality Center. $5 for nonmembers and free to members. Tulsa Pride 2015 Public Planning Meeting Thursday, February 26th, 2015; 7:00 pm Tulsa Pride will host a public planning meeting on Thursday, February 26th at 7:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Everyone is invited to come by and help make Tulsa Pride 2015 the best pride ever. T U L S A e Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. A WEEKEND OF PRIDE - JUNE 5-7, 2015 Guys Dine Too Tuesday, March 3rd, 6:30 pm Dalesandro's, 1742 S. Boston Ave. The October meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Dalesandro's on Tuesday, March 3rd, at 6:30 pm. Dalesandro's is located at 1742 S. Boston Ave. Guys Dine Too is a social program for gay men and their male allies/friends. It meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org March First Thursday Art Gallery Reception Thursday, March 5th, 2015; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The March Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Nanda Thompson in an exhibit titled "Whispers" in a show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, March 5th, 2015 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! 4/23/26, 4:00 PM �Firefox 8 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-19th--201... Girl Scout Cookie Sale Thursday, March 5th, 2015; 5:00 - 8:00 pm In support of Girl Scouts being an inclusion organization, Oklahomans for Equality will host the Girl Scouts of Eastern Oklahoma Cookie Sale at the Dennis R. Neill girl scout~ Equality Center on Thursday, March 5th, 2015 starting at 5:00 pm. All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals Pearl District Makers' Market Saturday, March 7th, 2015; 12:00 - 9:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OkEq will host the Pearl District Makers' Market on Saturday March 7th from 12:00 to 9:00 pm. The market will feature local, handmade arts, crafts, goods, services, and live music, poetry and performances. For more info on the Pearl District Makers' Market, visit www.facebook.com/ pearlmakersmarket LOCAL ART~CRAFTS 1111,j;l~_l}.1[11 POETRY - FOOD - FRIENDS The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org - - - - - - Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org Gay Softball Sunday Funday Sunday, February 22, 1-4 p.m. New Age Renegades, 1649 S. Main St. Sunday, March 8, 1-4 p.m. Tulsa Eagle, 1338 E. Third St. Join Tulsa Metro Softball League at New Age Renegades on Sunday, February 22, 2015, for the first ever Sunday Funday Beer Bust! You'll get to meet the players, learn about the league, find out how to join, and you get to enjoy FREE BEER! TMSL will host another Sunday Funday Beer Bust on Sunday, March 8, at the Tulsa Eagle if you can't make this one. Want more info on the softball www.TulsaMetroSoftball.com league? Visit EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. 4/23/26, 4:00 PM �Firefox 9 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-19th--201... Retirement 101: Plan Today to Enjoy Tomorrow Tuesday, March 10th, 6:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Nancy Haase, a partner with New York Life, will lead a free seminar on the basics of retirement planning for the LGBT community. Topics include: Workforce Oklahoma Access Point • What is an IRA • What is a Roth IRA • Should I do a rollover? • What about mutual funds or annuities? Open Everyday RSVP to programs@okeq.org. Call 918-743-4297 for more information. New PFLAG Tulsa Meeting 3rd Monday of every month, next meeting March 16th, 6:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The PFLAG Tulsa chapter has begun a satellite group meeting on the third Monday of every month at 6:30 pm. The group will next meet on Monday, March 16th. Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays promotes the health and well-being of gay, lesbian, .PFLAG TULSA CH bisexual and transgender persons, their families and friends. For more information on PFLAG Tulsa, visit www.pflagtulsa.org or call 918.749.4901 ---- A Murder of Storytellers book signing Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Tuesday, March 24th, 6:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Local authors Jack Burgos, Shannon Iwanski, Kaz Kirkpatrick, Adream Messmer, and CJ Miles IV -- collectively known as A Murder of Storytellers -- invite you to join them for a reading and book signing session. Covering genres from horror, fairy tales, contemporary, fantasy, and many more, the authors will share short stories and answer questions about their works, writing, being an Indie author/publisher, and anything else that may come to mind. The authors will have books to sell and sign for the audience. Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. A Murder of Storytellers is a writers group that meets every Friday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Sharing the Transgender Experience Saturday, April 4th, 10:00 am - 5 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OkEq's Gender Outreach Program is holding a day long workshop to share and enlighten members of our community concerning important transgender issues. Issues to be discussed include: • Legal issues • Medical issues • Personal safety Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/23/26, 4:00 PM �Firefox 10 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-19th--201... • Youth awareness and education Dr. Laura Arrowsmith, a board member of the National Center for Transgender Equality and a former Oklahomans for Equality board member who provides transgender awareness education, will provide the keynote address. The entire community is invited to attend. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The March Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, March 18th, 2015, at 6:00 pm. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: ihelptulsa.com Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org l Home / Small Business IT Expertise J II V Owner• ihelptulso.com Tel: (918) 605-8777 Web: www.ihelptulso.com Email: johnv@ihelptulso.com Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Recently received a new computer or smart device? Do you need all of your files and email moved from your old computer to your new computer? Do you need help setting up your smart device? If so, contact ihelptulsa.com or call John at 918 605-8777. Want to receive computer tips? Like us on Facebook: facebook.com/ ihelptulsa Don't Tell Me I'm Sick A panel on trans identities and mental health University of Tulsa Chapman Lecture Hall Thursday, February 26th, 7:00 pm. Join HeadStrong, Pride at TU, and Women's and Gender Studies on Thursday, February 26th, at 7:00 pm in Chapman Lecture Hall for a panel to discuss mental health, transgender identities, and the way in which our society "pathologizes" transgender people. There will also be an introduction to gender and a history of gender dysphoria. Panelists include representatives of academia as well as activists and members of the transgender community. 4/23/26, 4:00 PM �Firefox 11 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-19th--201... The panel is free and open to the public. There will be refreshments. Come be a part of this important discussion. Don't Tell Me I'm Sick A Panel on Trans Id entiti es and Mental Health Feb. 26 th , 7pm in the Chapman Lecture Hall Wi th Panelists: Katie Hill: TU student and author of Rethm~mg 1om1ol a Memo,rin Transmon Jim Scholl: PhD . tudem ,n Clinic.ii r ychology Vic Wiener: GSA Coo rdm.i1or at Youth Services of Tulsa Steven Leigh Williams: tudent min, ter a1 UU Church of Banle ville and M D,v candida1e a1 Ph,11,p Theo log,cal Seminary Dr. Jan Wi lson: A sociate Profes or of History and Women and Ge nder Stud ies · pon-mred by He.id tron~. the Ot>p.inment of Women'li.ind Gender nid1es .ind Pndc at TU Lindsey McKee, Indulgences: Songs I Love to Sing Sunday, February 22, 7:30 pm. Trinity Episcopal Church, 501 S. Cincinnati Ave. Music at 501's concert series presents Lindsey McKee in Indulgences: Songs I Love to Sing on Feb. 22 at 7:30 pm. Originally from Great Britain, Lindsey has a diverse career that has spanned three continents. She has performed not only in opera, but in recital, oratorio and musical theatre. She studied voice at The Guildhall School of Music in London. While a student she sang with the London Bach choir at Prince Charles and Lady Diana Spencer's wedding. She also made her professional debut in London singing "Mary" in Elgar's "The Kingdom." Lindsey has sung with many orchestras across the United States. Lindsey divides her time between Tulsa, where she makes a home with her incredibly supportive husband, Steve, and Kansas City, where she teaches voice at The Conservatory of Music UMKC. For more information, visit musicat501.com or call 918.582.4128. General admission tickets at the door at $20. Student and senior admission is $10. Get tickets in advance at eventbrite.com. Romance and Chocolates 2015 Saturday, February 21st, 2015; 6:00 pm Please join Sisters In Song for Romance & Chocolates 2015 Lovin' That Doo Wop Doors open at 6:00 pm, Music & Entertainment begins at 6:30 pm Wine with dinner begins at 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 4:00 PM �Firefox 12 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-19th--201... At Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave Tickets $30, Reserved tables available. Limited to 96 Seats, advance purchase is advised Sisters In Song <Rs>mance el, Cfiocorates - Pe6. 21, 2015 Lovin' rfliat <Doo Wop Facebook.com/SisterslnSongTulsa Like on Facebook at www.facebook.com/SistersInSongTulsa or email info@daao.us Council Oak Mens Chorale begin rehearsals First rehearsal on Tuesday, March 3rd, 2015; 7:00 pm Fellowship Congregational Church The Council Oak Men's Chorale will begin rehearsal for it's Spring/Summer Concert on Tuesday, March 3 at 7:00 p.m. at Fellowship Congregational Church, 27th and Harvard. The Spring/Summer concerts will be held on June 25th and 26th at the Cascia Hall Performing Arts Center under the direction of new Artistic Director Kent Dennis. Joining the Chorale is easy by coming to the council oak rehearsal, then there is a simple audition afterwards. councll oolr mens cholOle COMC would love to have any new members join or previous members rejoin for a wonderful time of singing and brotherhood through music. If you have any questions, contact us through our website at counciloak.org. Alice Bates' 90th Birthday Party Saturday, February 21st, 2015; 1:00 - 4:00 pm Alice Wilder Bates is the president of A Friend for A Friend and she is turning 90! Her children are inviting the community to the birthday party. Come by for some cake and punch and share your happy memories of Alice. 4/23/26, 4:00 PM �Firefox 13 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-19th--201... Saturday, February 21st, 2015 1:00 - 4:00 pm At the Tulsa Elks Lodge 5335 South Harvard If you are unable to attend, Alice would still love to get a note from you about a fond memory you have of her. (2713 E 49th, Tulsa, OK 74105) For more information, call Jane Clark 918.857.2882 HIV Wellness Retreat 2015 Deadline is July 17th The Grateful Day Foundation is excited to announce the dates for this year's HIV Wellness Retreat. The Grateful Day Foundation seeks to fill gaps in services in Oklahoma's HIV/ JF 0>11.JLl!'Jl.dl.Sl.tiO>l!'Jl. ][lnl.C AIDS wellness community Taking a leap of faith for those living with HIV/AIDS through collaboration with partner organizations, providing transportation to those in need, and hosting an Annual HIV Wellness Retreat. This year's retreat will be held August 21st - 23rd, at the beautiful Sky Ranch Cave Springs in Quapaw Ok. www.skyranch.org Qrnteful ~Afl We are looking forward to another fun and informative retreat this year. Applications can be found on our website, www.gratefulday.org as well as in hard copy form at Tulsa Cares, Parish Church of St. Jerome, HOPE testing, OSU Specialty Clinic, and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (OKEQ). This retreat is designed and planned around the needs of the clients we serve in our community. We will be hosting a number of workshops throughout the weekend as well as several fun things to do at the retreat. For more information, visit our website or contact us by phone. Contact info: 539.664.7206 www.gratefulday.org LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights 4/23/26, 4:00 PM �Firefox 14 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-19th--201... Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea Ith ca re Bi I IOf Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. Body Electric Workshop April 18th & 19th, 2015 Men, come explore your erotic potential through the mind, the body and the heart using conscious breath, movement, process work and massage. When men take responsibility for their erotic education, they realize how much there is to learn about awakening the erotic energy that lies within all of us. This 2 day workshop focuses on the entire body and is conducted in a setting that is playful, safe and honoring. A few benefits of this work are: * The participant gains greater acceptance of himself as an erotic being, both physically and mentally. * He discovers ways to develop a more satisfying erotic relationship with others. * He becomes more aware of spiritual dimensions in his erotic explorations. Completion of CBE is a prerequisite for attending most advanced workshops and retreats offered by Body Electric. Limited scholarships are available. For more information please contact Andr� at Tulsa@b-e-school.com or visit our website at www.thebodyelectricschol.com. We want your Marriage Equality photos! If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or 4/23/26, 4:00 PM �Firefox 15 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-19th--201... photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to Lucas.Green@OkEq.org with "OK to use" in the Subject. Please include any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you! Be a part of an important study of LGBTI health Participants who meet the following criteria are encouraged to participate: • if you are 18 - 25 years old • if you identify as a lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, or other nonheterosexual person • if you currently reside in Oklahoma The research study will require approximately 30- 45 minutes and you will be asked to provide an email address to which a link for the survey may be sent. All questions are answered online through a secured website hosted by Qualtrics survey software company. Participants will be asked to complete a demographics questionnaire followed by 6 brief self-report instruments. At the end of the survey, the first 250 urban and first 250 rural participants will receive a code for $10 in credit with giftcertificates.com. This credit can be used to purchase gift cards for businesses like AMC, Bath and Bodyworks, Buckle, Buffalo Wild Wings, or many other wellknown companies. To inquire more about the study or request any additional information, contact the researchers at: Douglas Knutson, by phone 405.459.0241 or email douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Dr. Sue C. Jacobs, by phone 405.744.9895 or email sue.c.jacobs@okstate.edu Dr. Melissa Hakman by phone 405.208.5397 or email mhakman@okcu.edu. For more information or to participate, go to http://tiny.cc/oklgbti2 Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Invites everyone to 4/23/26, 4:00 PM �Firefox 16 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-19th--201... C RO A TIO VIII The ICAO is now taking ads for program and online ticket sales Complete weekend information can be found on the Coronation VIII Pages of our website www.impcourtok.webs.com or email us at impcourtok@gmail.com I.C.A.O. is a Nonprofit 501(c)(3) Charity Organization Equality Center Pride Store Available in the Pride Store, new rainbow Oklahoma flag tees. Available in sizes S through 5XL, these short sleeve tees can be yours for only $20 each. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Do Not Disturb' by Carsen Taite You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/23/26, 4:00 PM �Firefox 17 of 17 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-19th--201... Love doesn't wait to be invited in... Ainsley Faraday specializes in the management of sleek, urban hotels, and is reluctant to accept her employer's latest challenge to take over a mom-and-pop property in Santa Fe. Even though she has no desire to be surrounded with lonely mountain ranges and coyote skulls, she can't resist a challenge that might put her within reach of a corner office at headquarters. Rock star Greer Davis's protective bubble of stardom bursts after a night of wanton partying results in a public disaster of epic proportions. Unprepared for the scathing turn of events, Greer heads for the hills-literally. She assumes a new identity and returns to her roots in Northern New Mexico just as her latest album debuts at number one on the charts. When Ainsley and Greer meet on a flight to New Mexico, love is the last thing on either of their minds, but tall mountain vistas, big blue skies, and hot, hot green chili all combine to create a rush of endorphins begging for release. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Volu r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r------------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 4:00 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/92f685f18d6a1c1b17cebf19a5887661.pdf 5298d4788f6be03acd75e906a8743b5d PDF Text Text OkEq eNews February 26th, 2015 1 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-26th--201... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews February 26th, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Legislative Alerts Youth Day at the Capitol 2014 Donation Tax Letters Welcome to the eNews. Join us for the NOH8 photo shoot on Friday, March 13th at 5:00 - 8:00 pm. Cost is $40 for solo photos and $25 per person in couples or groups. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Robin LaButti, Plexus Slim Book Study NOH8 New Year, New You Breaking Bad to Be Good Tulsa Pride 2015 Guys Dine Too March First Thursday Art Ask me for FREE sample!!! Girl Scout Cookie Sale Pearl District Makers' Market Tulsa Metro Softball League Retirement 101 T:(918)361--4188 All natural products for diabeti cs , weight loss, pain, GI issues and skin conditions. www.plexusslim.com/robinlabutti E: robinl•butti@Cox.net Lose weight • Get flt • Improve performance • Increase ,nugy PFLAG Tulsa I AM ENOUGH Book Signing OkEq Legislative Alerts Oklahomans for Equality calls upon all fair minded Oklahomans to contact your state representatives and senators and ask them not to support the following: House Bill 1125 would strip county court clerks of their duty of issuing marriage licenses. It would allow clergy to issue marriage "certificates," but any couple not married during a religious ceremony could have only a "common-law" marriage. Rep. Todd Russ of District 55 introduced the bill under the guise of protecting elected officials' religious freedoms. The bill has passed out of committee and now goes to the full House for consideration. Sharing the Trans Experience Equality Business Alliance EBA Sponsor Don't Tell Me I'm Sick Tulsa Gridiron Tracy Spears book signing Does Race Matter? Islam, Christianity, Oklahoma Council Oak Mens Chorale New business start-up guide Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Body Electric Workshop HIV Wellness Retreat Rep. David Brumbaugh has put forth House Bill 1007, which targets same-sex couples wishing to LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights 4/23/26, 4:01 PM �OkEq eNews February 26th, 2015 2 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-26th--201... be married and seeks to protect clergy persons who do not wish to or cannot perform weddings for same-sex couples. Under present Oklahoma law, only clergy persons willing and able to perform same-sex weddings are allowed to. Under existing law, no one is forced to perform same-sex weddings. The bill has passed the House and now goes to the Senate. House Bill 159 8, which Rep. Sally Kern filed as the Freedom to Obtain Conversion Therapy Act but passed through committee as the Parental and Family Rights in Counseling Protection Act, would codify the right to obtain certain counseling or conversion therapy; prevent certain infringement by the state; and protect mental health providers who engage in sexual-orientation or genderidentity change efforts with a child. It now goes to the full House. House Bill 1599, the Preservation of Sovereignty and Marriage Act by Rep. Sally Kern, would prohibit the use of public funds for any activity licensing or supporting same-sex marriage and would prohibit public employees from recognizing same-sex marriage licenses. It has passed out of committee and goes to the full House. It has passed a committee and goes to the full House. Rep. Chuck Strohm, R-Jenks, inserted language into House Bill 1371, the Oklahoma Religious Freedom Act, on Monday, and it passed a commi t tee on Tuesday. Strohm says it is intended to protect small businesses that do not want to provide services for marriages to which the business owner objects on religious grounds. The measure also says no state or local government could intervene if such services were denied. This bill passed out of committee on Tuesday and now is before the full House. Marriage Equality -Photos Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, March 26th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. OkEq Art Exhibit The February exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature works by Ashley Farrier ________ Senate Bill 788 by Sen. Dan Newberry, no judge or religious officiant would be required to perform a marriage that violates his or her religious beliefs. It is in the Senate Judiciary Committee. Take Action: Oklahomans for Equality urges you to contact House Floor Counseling Services Leader Jason Nelson, 405-557-7335, and House Majority Floor Leader 4/23/26, 4:01 PM �OkEq eNews February 26th, 2015 3 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-26th--201... Charles Ortega, 405-557-7369, to urge them not to bring House Bills 1007, 1125, 1598, 1599 or 1371 to the House floor for a vote. Contact Senate Sen. Brian Bingman, President Pro Tempore (405) 521-5565 and Sen. Mike Schulz, Majority Floor Leader (405) 521-5612 and ask that Senate Bill 788 and 21 not be allowed a vote on the Senate floor. Find your local legislator and let them know that these attacks are not acceptable. Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8568 www.oklegislature.gov/FindMyLegislature.aspx LGBTQ High School Youth Day at the Capitol Thursday, March 5, leave the Equality Center at 7:00 am Oklahomans for Equality invites high school youth, counselors and teachers to join us for OkEq's LGBTQ High School Youth Day at the Capitol to address concerns about Rep. Sally Kern's HB 1598. This bill would give state sanction to so-called "conversion therapy," which medical and psychological organizations have labeled child abuse. Students must have consent from a parent or guardian and have proof that their schools have approved their absence from classes. Transportation on a chartered bus from the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, plus breakfast and lunch, will be provided. Must RSVP in advance. Contact Oklahomans for Equality Executive Director Toby Jenkins at toby.jenkins@okeq.org. Put "High School Day at the Capitol" in the subject line. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 2014 Donation Tax Letters Tax receipts for donations made to Oklahomans for Equality in 2014 were recently mailed. If you have not received your tax receipt or have questions regarding your receipt, please contact Kirk Holt, OkEq Treasurer, Treasurer@OkEq.org When Christians Get It Wrong - Book Study 6-week course continues Thursday, February 26th, at 6:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center "When Christians Get it Wrong," a new six-week book study group led by the Rev. Twila Gibbens of St. Paul's United Methodist Church, started Thursday, February 5th, at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Remaining topics: • When Speaking of Other Religions • When Bad Things Happen • When Christians Get It Right Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 4:01 PM �OkEq eNews February 26th, 2015 4 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-26th--201... You may order the book by Rev. Adam Hamilton and read before discussions. Shop from Amazon and support Oklahomans for Equality at the same time. NOH8 Open Photo Shoot Friday, March 13th, 2015; 5:00 - 8:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center On Friday, March 13th, 2015, the NOH8 Campaign will set up their mobile studio in Tulsa, Oklahoma -offering Oklahomans a chance to be heard. Oklahomans for Equality and the Tulsa Pride 2015 Committee will host the photo shoot at the Equality Center. The NOH8 Campaign's Tulsa shoot is scheduled to begin on March 13th at 5:00 pm and will end at 8:00 pm. Free parking is available on the streets surrounding the center. Prices are $40.00 for solo portraits and $25.00 per person for couple or group portraits. Interested volunteers should contact the NOH8 Campaign via email at info@NOH8Campaign.com. - - - - - - - - Additional details can be found at www.noh8campaign.com. - - - - - - - - - - RSVP to the photo shoot on Facebook here. ChiWalking Every other Saturday at 1:30 p.m., continues March 7th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center ChiWalking...Five Mindful Steps for Lifelong Health and Energy! Learn how to get aligned, engage your core, create balance, develop healthy habits and make walking a mindful practice. ChiWalking increases mobility, reduces pain, improves posture and balance, strengthens your muscles and loosens your joints. Facilitated by Jane McClain, Certified ChiWalking Instructor. Every other Saturday at 1:30 pm at the Equality Center. $5 for nonmembers and free to members. SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org I • . ~ , - I Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Breaking Bad to Be Good Free workshop series starting March 8th, 2:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The Breaking Bad workshop will be an ongoing monthly workshop highlighting those bad habits so you can take better care of your health and wellness. Speakers and 4/23/26, 4:01 PM �OkEq eNews February 26th, 2015 5 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-26th--201... presentations will help you live to be a better you. Sabrina Aston, a certified hypnotherapist, will present the March 8 workshop, which will explore ways in which the therapeutic procedures of hypnosis may be used to transform self-harming thoughts, attitudes and behaviors into self-tending ones grounded in a sense of genuine self worth and well being. Through the mental rehearsal of successful outcomes and positive suggestion, hypnotherapy helps break subconscious associations with negative thought patterns, allowing us to solve problems from new perspectives and embrace positive changes at the conscious level. Tulsa Pride 2015 Public Planning Meeting Thursday, March 5th, 2015, 7:00 pm Tulsa Pride will host a public planning meeting on Thursday, March 5th, at 7:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Everyone is invited to come by and help make Tulsa Pride 2015 the best pride ever. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Services and Advocacy , ,. T U L S A for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders e A WEEKEND OF PRIDE - JUNE 5-7, 2015 Guys Dine Too Tuesday, March 3rd, 6:30 pm Dalesandro's, 1742 S. Boston Ave. The March meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Dalesandro's on Tuesday, March 3rd, at 6:30 pm., at Dalesandro's, 1742 S. Boston Ave. Guys Dine Too is a social program for gay men and their male allies/friends. It meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. March First Thursday Art Gallery Reception Thursday, March 5th, 2015; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The March Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Nanda Thompson Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. 4/23/26, 4:01 PM �OkEq eNews February 26th, 2015 6 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-26th--201... in an exhibit titled "Whispers" in a show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, March 5th, 2015 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Tulsa Area Prime Timers Girl Scout Cookie Sale Thursday, March 5th, 2015; 5:00 - 8:00 pm In support of Girl Scouts being an inclusion organization, Oklahomans for Equality will host the Girl Scouts of ·1 Eastern Oklahoma Cookie Sale at the Dennis R. Neill 91r scouts Equality Center on Thursday, March 5th, 2015 starting at 5:00 pm. ~ 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Pearl District Makers' Market Saturday, March 7th, 2015; 12:00 - 9:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OkEq will host the Pearl District Makers' Market on Saturday March 7th from 12:00 to 9:00 pm. The market will feature local, handmade arts, crafts, goods, services, and live music, poetry and performances. For more info on the Pearl District Makers' Market, visit www.facebook.com/ pearlmakersmarket LOCAL ART~CRAFTS 1111 lfJ :I~_ 1}.1[II POETRY - FOOD - FRIENDS Gay Softball Sunday Funday Sunday, March 8, 1-4 p.m. Tulsa Eagle, 1338 E. Third St. Join Tulsa Metro Softball League at the Tulsa Eagle on Sunday, March 8, 2015, for a Sunday Funday Beer Bust! You'll get to meet the players, learn about the league, find out how to join, and you get to enjoy FREE BEER! Want more info on the softball www.TulsaMetroSoftball.com league? Visit Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at 4/23/26, 4:01 PM �OkEq eNews February 26th, 2015 7 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-26th--201... Retirement 101: Plan Today to Enjoy Tomorrow jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. - - - - ·- - - - Tuesday, March 10th, 6:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Gender Outreach Nancy Haase, a partner with New York Life, will lead a free seminar on the basics of retirement planning for the LGBT community. Topics include: • What is an IRA • What is a Roth IRA • Should I do a rollover? • What about mutual funds or annuities? RSVP to programs@okeq.org. Call 918-743-4297 for more information. Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. New PFLAG Tulsa Meeting 3rd Monday of every month, next meeting March 16th, 6:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The PFLAG Tulsa chapter has begun a satellite group meeting on the third Monday of every month at 6:30 pm. The group will next meet on Monday, March 16th. Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays promotes the health and well-being of gay, lesbian, PFLAG TULSACHAPTE bisexual and transgender persons, their families and friends. For more information on PFLAG Tulsa, visit www.pflagtulsa.org or call 918.749.4901 ----- 'I AM ENOUGH' Pandora Scooter Tuesday, March 17, 5 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Pandora Scooter's show "I AM ENOUGH" is about suicide prevention and self-confidence-building for LGBTQ youth. The show follows the story of Pan, who struggles with rejection from her parents and friends for being gay and for being different. After attempting suicide, Pan finds herself in a hospital where, with the help of a fantastic counselor and her inner strength, she realizes she wants to live and thrive and that she is enough. Tulsa is one of approximately 45 cities in 17 states where the show will be produced. The Tulsa production is free and is sponsored by Oklahomans for Equality and Youth Services of Tulsa. A Murder of Storytellers book signing Tuesday, March 24th, 6:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Local authors Jack Burgos, Shannon Iwanski, Kaz Kirkpatrick, Adream Messmer, and CJ Miles IV -- collectively known as A Murder of Storytellers -- invite you to join Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org 4/23/26, 4:01 PM �OkEq eNews February 26th, 2015 8 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-26th--201... them for a reading and book signing session. Covering genres from horror, fairy tales, contemporary, fantasy, and many more, the authors will share short stories and answer questions about their works, writing, being an Indie author/publisher, and anything else that may come to mind. The authors will have books to sell and sign for the audience. A Murder of Storytellers is a writers group that meets every Friday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Sharing the Transgender Experience Saturday, April 4th, 10:00 am - 5 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OkEq's Gender Outreach Program is holding a day long workshop to share and enlighten members of our community concerning important transgender issues. Issues to be discussed include: • Legal issues • Medical issues • Personal safety • Youth awareness and education Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dr. Laura Arrowsmith, a board member of the National Center for Transgender Equality and a former Oklahomans for Equality board member who provides transgender awareness education, will provide the keynote address. The entire community is invited to attend. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The March Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, March 18th, at 6:00 pm at Rum Runnerz, 822 S. Sheridan Road. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Kelly Kirby, CPA Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 4:01 PM �OkEq eNews February 26th, 2015 9 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-26th--201... Married filing jointly? In Oklahoma? Affordable Care Act got you confused? Let us help you file your 2014 tax returns! Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 kelly@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. Don't Tell Me I'm Sick A panel on trans identities and mental health University of Tulsa Chapman Lecture Hall Thursday, February 26th, 7:00 pm. Join HeadStrong, Pride at TU, and Women's and Gender Studies on Thursday, February 26th, at 7:00 pm in Chapman Lecture Hall for a panel to discuss mental health, transgender identities, and the way in which our society "pathologizes" transgender people. There will also be an introduction to gender and a history of gender dysphoria. Panelists include representatives of academia as well as activists and members of the transgender community. The panel is free and open to the public. There will be refreshments. Come be a part of this important discussion. Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 - 6:00 pm and 4/23/26, 4:01 PM �OkEq eNews February 26th, 2015 10 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-26th--201... Don't Tell Me I'm Sick A Pan el on Trans Identiti es and Mental Health Feb. 26 th , 7pm in the Chapman Lecture Hall With Panelists: Katie Hill: TU tudent and author of Rethm~mg NormaL1 Memo,rin Tra11st11or, Jim Scholl: PhD . tudent m Cl,nocal P ychology Vic Wiener: GSA Coo rdinator at Youth Services ofTulsa Steven Leigh Williams: tudent m,no ter at UU Church of Banle vill e and M.D,v candidate at rh,11,p Theo logical Seminary Dr. Jan Wi l on: Associate Profes or of Hi<tory and Women and Ge nder Stud ies pon~red by Hc.id..,trong. thr 0t"partmrm of Women 's and Gender tud1e~ and Pride at TU every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. "Free Fallin" or "They Shoot Pigeons Don't They?" Tulsa Gridiron Oklahoma Jazz Hall of Fame, 5 S. Boston Ave. Friday, Feb. 27, and Saturday, Feb. 28, 8-11 pm "Free Fallin" or "They Shoot Pigeons Don't They?" For nearly eight decades, the Tulsa Gridiron has entertained audiences with its irreverent wit and whimsy. Blending musical parody with sharp dialogue, the Gridiron skewers newsmakers of all sorts, from local politicians to international pop stars. From march-in to march-out, the Gridiron is non-stop fun. FREE FALLIN! OR THEY Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org SHOOT j PIGEONS DON'T THEY? ~ ~~~fXARY 2015 Through its 501(c)3, the Tulsa Gridiron provides scholarships for aspiring young practitioners of the First Amendment. Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Admission starts at $30. Tickets are available at tickets.tulsagridiron.org. "What Exceptional Leaders Know" book signing Saturday, Feb. 28th, 1:00-3:00 pm Barnes and Noble at Southroads, 5231 E. 41st St. Tracy Spears will sign and discuss her book "What WHAT EXCEPTIONAL Exceptional Leaders Know." Spears has been a LEADERS KNOW national business consultant for more than 25 years High Impact Skills, Stntegiu &Ideu for Ltadm Traq Spears & \\'all} S(hmadc r and specializes in developing leaders, inspiring teamwork and enhancing inter-office communications. She earned her college degree from the University of Oklahoma on an athletic scholarship and was on the U.S. National Softball Team. She is on the Oklahomans for Equality Board of Advisers. For more information, click here. Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Does Race Matter? 4/23/26, 4:01 PM �OkEq eNews February 26th, 2015 11 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-26th--201... Tulsa Community College Metro Campus Thomas K. McKeon Center for Creativity, 910 S. Boston Ave. Saturday, Feb. 28th, 2:00-4:30 pm The Tulsa and state NAACPs are helping to bring together more than two dozen community leaders, including Oklahomans for Equality Executive Director Toby Jenkins, to take on inequality and justice in a public conversation dubbed "Does Race Matter?" The conversation is free and open to the public. See a Tulsa World article on the event here. Islam, Christianity, Oklahoma ... Tuesday, March 3rd, 6:30-8:00 pm Boston Avenue United Methodist Church, 1301 S. Boston Ave. Boston Avenue's Interfaith Concerns Committee presents Islam, Christianity, Oklahoma ... From Violence and Rhetoric to Healing and Hope. This panel discussion will feature: • Dr. Imad Enchassi, senior imam and president, Islamic Society of Oklahoma BOSTON AV[NU[ u, TED MET~ODI ( HURCH City, Chair of Islamic Studies, Oklahoma City University • Dr. Charles Kimball, presidential professor and director, Religious Studies Program, University of Oklahoma • Dr. William Tabbernee, executive director, Oklahoma Council of Churches Questions and answers following the panel discussion. Council Oak Mens Chorale begin rehearsals First rehearsal on Tuesday, March 3rd, 2015; 7:00 pm Fellowship Congregational Church The Council Oak Men's Chorale will begin rehearsal for it's Spring/Summer Concert on Tuesday, March 3 at 7:00 p.m. at Fellowship Congregational Church, 27th and Harvard. The Spring/Summer concerts will be held on June 25th and 26th at the Cascia Hall Performing Arts Center under the direction of new Artistic Director Kent Dennis. Joining the Chorale is easy by coming to the council oak rehearsal, then there is a simple audition afterwards. council oo/r /1lfJIS chorole COMC would love to have any new members join or previous members rejoin for a wonderful time of singing and brotherhood through music. If you have any questions, contact us through our website at counciloak.org. 4/23/26, 4:01 PM �OkEq eNews February 26th, 2015 12 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-26th--201... Open for Business: A Start-Up Guide Sun Building Conference Facilities 907 S. Detroit Ave., 10th Floor Wednesday, March 4, 8:30 am-noon Launch Your Business: A Workshop for Entrepreneurs, is a free workshop for entrepreneurs in the Tulsa Metro area who want to start or grow a small business. Attendees will receive tips about idea formation and feasibility of a business idea, developing a business plan, marketing strategies, financing a business, and information from the Oklahoma Tax Commission. Presenters will include Dewey Brandon, director of taxpayer services and education at the Oklahoma Tax Commission; and experts from SCORE, the Oklahoma Small Business Development Centers, and REI Women's Business Center. ,T, REI 'lf SCORE~ ___ .., . S BDC"" A ~ WOMEN'S BUSINESS CENTER" "'f s FOR THE LIFE OF YOUR BUSINESS OKLAHOMA Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Invites everyone to COR. ATI L VIII H E>E> y The ICAO is now taking ads for program and online ticket sales Complete weekend information can be found on the Coronation VIII Pages of our website www.impcourtok.webs.com or email us at impcourtok@gmail.com I.C.A.O. is a Nonprofit 501(c)(3) Charity Organization Body Electric Workshop April 18th & 19th, 2015 Men, come explore your erotic potential through the mind, the body and the ~ heart using conscious breath, r the Magic of 118 V • 4/23/26, 4:01 PM �OkEq eNews February 26th, 2015 13 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-26th--201... movement, process work and massage. When men take responsibility for their erotic education, they realize how much there is to learn about awakening the erotic energy that lies within all of us. This 2 day workshop focuses on the entire body and is conducted in a setting that is playful, safe and honoring. A few benefits of this work are: * The participant gains greater acceptance of himself as an erotic being, both physically and mentally. * He discovers ways to develop a more satisfying erotic relationship with others. * He becomes more aware of spiritual dimensions in his erotic explorations. Completion of CBE is a prerequisite for attending most advanced workshops and retreats offered by Body Electric. Limited scholarships are available. For more information please contact Andr� at Tulsa@b-e-school.com or visit our website at www.thebodyelectricschol.com. HIV Wellness Retreat 2015 Deadline is July 17th The Grateful Day Foundation is excited to announce the dates for this year's HIV Wellness Retreat. The Grateful Day Foundation seeks to fill gaps in services in Oklahoma's HIV/ JF 0>1U1.ltll.da.ti0>Jtll. ][Jtll.ce. AIDS wellness community Taking a leap of faith for those living with HIV/ AIDS through collaboration with partner organizations, providing transportation to those in need, and hosting an Annual HIV Wellness Retreat. This year's retreat will be held August 21st - 23rd, at the beautiful Sky Ranch Cave Springs in Quapaw Ok. www.skyranch.org Qrnteful ..Z,A!J We are looking forward to another fun and informative retreat this year. Applications can be found on our website, www.gratefulday.org as well as in hard copy form at Tulsa Cares, Parish Church of St. Jerome, HOPE testing, OSU Specialty Clinic, and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (OKEQ). This retreat is designed and planned around the needs of the clients we serve in our community. We will be hosting a number of workshops throughout the weekend as well as several fun things to do at the retreat. For more information, visit our website or contact us by phone. Contact info: 539.664.7206 www.gratefulday.org 4/23/26, 4:01 PM �OkEq eNews February 26th, 2015 14 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-26th--201... LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea Ith ca re Bi IIOf Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. We want your Marriage Equality photos! If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to Lucas.Green@OkEq.org - - - - with " OK to use" in the Subject. Please include any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you! Equality Center Pride Store Available in the Pride Store, new rainbow Oklahoma flag tees. Available in sizes S through 5XL, these short sleeve tees can be yours for only $20 each. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 4/23/26, 4:01 PM �OkEq eNews February 26th, 2015 15 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-February-26th--201... Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'And Tango Makes Three' by Justin Richardson and Peter Parnell, illustrated by Henry Cole You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center "And Tango Makes Three" is the bestselling, heartwarming true story of two penguins who create a nontraditional family. At the penguin house at the Central Park Zoo, two penguins named Roy and Silo were a little bit different from the others. But their desire for a family was the same. And with the help of a kindly zookeeper, Roy and Silo get the chance to welcome a baby penguin of their very own. Selected as an ALA Notable Children's Book Nominee and a Lambda Literary Award Finalist, "this joyful story about the meaning of family is a must for any library." (School Library Journal, starred review) Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library ~ Volu t r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! fUL A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r------------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I ~------------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 4:01 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/d64c2375da55ae500ebb6e620dbe5a1f.pdf 58511c1c7e5b25350610b54a11f16c47 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews March 4, 2015 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-4--2015.html... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews March 4, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Youth Day at the Capitol Girl Scout Cookie Sale March First Thursday Art Welcome to the eNews. Join us for the NOH8 photo shoot on Friday, March 13th at 5:00 - 8:00 pm. Cost is $40 for solo photos and $25 per person in couples or groups. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Robin LaButti, Plexus Slim Legislative Alerts 2014 Donation Tax Letters Book Study Tulsa Pride 2015 Pearl District Makers' Market Tulsa Metro Softball League Breaking Bad to Be Good Ask me for FREE sample!!! Retirement 101 NOH8 PFLAG Tulsa I AM ENOUGH T:(918)361--4188 All natural products for diabeti cs , weight loss, pain, GI issues and skin conditions. www.plexusslim.com/robinlabutti E: robinl•butti@Cox.net Lose weight • Get flt • Improve performance • Increase ,nugy Equality Business Alliance Gay Pride Bingo Night Book Signing LGBTQ High School Youth Day at the Capitol Sharing the Trans Experience Thursday, March 5, leave the Equality Center at 7 a.m. EBA Sponsor Oklahomans for Equality invites high school youths, counselors and teachers to join us for OkEq's LGBTQ High School Youth Day at the Capitol to address concerns about House Bill 1598, the Parental and Family Rights in Counseling Protection Act regarding so-called "conversion therapy," and Senate Bill 21, the Religious Viewpoints Antidiscrimination Act. Tulsa Gridiron Students must have consent from a parent or guardian and have proof that their schools have approved their absence from classes. Transportation on a chartered bus from the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, plus breakfast and lunch, will be provided. Must RSVP in advance. Contact Oklahomans for Equality Executive Director Toby Jenkins at toby.jenkins@okeq.org. Put "High School Day at the Capitol" in the subject line. New business start-up guide Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Body Electric Workshop Dining Out for Life HIV Wellness Retreat LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Marriage - - - Equality - - - -Photos --Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer 4/23/26, 4:02 PM �OkEq eNews March 4, 2015 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-4--2015.html... Girl Scout Cookie Sale Thursday, March 5, 5-8 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Find Us on Facebook Oklahomans for Equality will host the Girl Scouts of Eastern Oklahoma Cookie Sale at the Dennis R. Neill girl scout~ Equality Center on the evening of Thursday, March 5. Show your support for Girl Scouts' inclusiveness by buying your Girl Scouts cookies here! OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, March 26th, 7:00 pm March First Thursday Art Gallery Reception Thursday, March 5, 6-9 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The March Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Nanda Thompson in an exhibit titled "Whispers." An opening reception will be held from 6-9 p.m. Thursday, March 5. The exhibit continues throughout the month. Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. OkEq Art Exhibit The February exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature works by Ashley Farrier ________ OkEq Legislative Alerts These are what remains of the more than 13 bills Oklahoma legislators filed this legislative session targeting LGBT Oklahomans. More than half of those bills were killed in committee, thanks in large part to your efforts in contacting legislators. Oklahomans for Equality calls upon all fair-minded Oklahomans to continue to contact your state representatives and senators and ask them not to support those that remain: House Bill 1125 would do away with the issuance of marriage licenses by county court clerks. It would allow clergy and judges to issue marriage "certificates," which would then be filed at the court clerk's office. Any couple not married during a ceremony could file an affidavit with the court clerk declaring that they have a "common-law" marriage. Rep. Todd Russ of District 55 introduced the bill under the guise of protecting elected officials' religious freedoms. It initially allowed only clergy -not judges -- to issue marriage certificates and Counseling Services 4/23/26, 4:02 PM �OkEq eNews March 4, 2015 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-4--2015.html... would have restricted marriage to opposite-gender couples. The bill has passed out of committee, where it was modified, and now goes to the full House for consideration. Rep. David Brumbaugh has put forth House Bill 1007, which targets same-sex couples wishing to be married and seeks to protect clergy who do not wish to or cannot perform weddings for same-sex couples. Under present Oklahoma law, only clergy who are willing and able to perform same-sex weddings are allowed to do so. Under existing law, no one is forced to perform same-sex weddings. The bill has passed the House and now goes to the Senate. House Bill 1598, which Rep. Sally Kern filed as the Freedom to Obtain Conversion Therapy Act but passed through committee as the Paren tal and Family Rights in Counseling Protection Act, would codify the right to obtain conversion therapy and would protect parents and mental health providers who engage in sexual-orientation or gender-identity change efforts with a child. It now goes to the full House . House Bill 1599, the Preservation of Sovereignty and Marriage Act by Rep. Sally Kern, would prohibit the use of public funds for any activity licensing or supporting same-sex marriage and would prohibit public employees from recognizing same-sex marriage licenses. It has passed out of committee and goes to the full House. It has passed a committee and goes to the full House. Rep. Chuck Strohm, R-Jenks, has proposed House Bill 1371, the Oklahoma Religious Freedom Act . Strohm says it is intended to protect small businesses that do not want to provide services for marriages to which the business owner objects on religious grounds. The measure also says no state or local government could intervene if such services were denied. This bill passed out of committee and now is before the full House. Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8568 Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Senate Bill 788 by Sen. Dan Newberry, says no judge or religious officiant would be required to perform a marriage that violates his or her religious beliefs. It is in the Senate Judiciary Committee. Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 4:02 PM �OkEq eNews March 4, 2015 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-4--2015.html... Take Action: Oklahomans for Equality urges you to contact House Floor Leader Jason Nelson, 405-557-7335, and House Majority Floor Leader Charles Ortega, 405-557-7369, to urge them not to bring House Bills 1007, 1125, 1598, 1599 or 1371 to the House floor for a vote. Contact Senate Sen. Brian Bingman, President Pro Tempore (405) 521-5565 and Sen. Mike Schulz, Majority Floor Leader (405) 521-5612 and ask that Senate Bill 788 and 21 not be allowed a vote on the Senate floor. Find your local legislator and let them know that these attacks are not acceptable. SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org www.oklegislature.gov/FindMyLegislature.aspx 2014 Donation Tax Letters Tax receipts for donations made to Oklahomans for Equality in 2014 were recently mailed. If you have not received your tax receipt or have questions regarding your receipt, please contact Kirk Holt, OkEq treasurer, at Treasurer@OkEq.org When Christians Get It Wrong - Book Study Six-week course continues Thursday, March 5, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center "When Christians Get it Wrong," a six-week book study led by the Rev. Twila Gibbens of St. Paul's United Methodist Church, started Thursday, Feb. 5. Two sessions are left. Remaining topics: • When Bad Things Happen • When Christians Get It Right You may order the book by the Rev. Adam Hamilton and read before discussions. Shop from Amazon and support Oklahomans for Equality at the same time. Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Tulsa Pride 2015 Public Planning Meeting Thursday, March 5, 7 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Everyone is invited to come and help make Tulsa Pride 2015 the best Pride ever. 4/23/26, 4:02 PM �OkEq eNews March 4, 2015 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-4--2015.html... T U L S A e A WEEKEND OF PRIDE - JUNE 5-7, 2015 SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Pearl District Makers' Market Saturday, March 7, noon-9 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OkEq will host the Pearl District Makers' Market this Saturday afternoon and evening. The market will feature local, handmade arts, crafts, goods and services as well as live music, poetry and performances. For more information on the Pearl District Makers' Market, visit www.facebook.com/ pearlmakersmarket. LOCAL ART~CRAFTS 1111W:l~_Q.1[11 Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders POETRY - FOOD - FRIENDS Gay Softball Sunday Funday Sunday, March 8, 1-4 p.m. Tulsa Eagle, 1338 E. Third St. Join Tulsa Metro Softball League at the Tulsa Eagle this Sunday afternoon for a Sunday Funday Beer Bust! You'll get to meet the players, learn about the league, find out how to join and enjoy FREE BEER! Want more info on the softball www.TulsaMetroSoftball.com league? Visit Breaking Bad to Be Good Free workshop series starting Sunday, March 8, 2 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The Breaking Bad workshop will be an ongoing monthly workshop highlighting those bad habits so you can take better care of your health and wellness. Speakers and presentations will help you become a better you. Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Sabrina Aston, a certified hypnotherapist, will present the March 8 workshop, which will explore ways in which the therapeutic procedures of hypnosis may be used to transform self-harming thoughts, attitudes and behaviors 4/23/26, 4:02 PM �OkEq eNews March 4, 2015 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-4--2015.html... into self-tending ones grounded in a sense of genuine self worth and well being. Through the mental rehearsal of successful outcomes and positive suggestion, hypnotherapy can help break subconscious associations with negative thought patterns, allowing us to solve problems from new perspectives and embrace positive changes at the conscious level. Retirement 101: Plan Today to Enjoy Tomorrow Tuesday, March 10, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Nancy Haase, a partner with New York Life, will lead a free seminar on the basics of retirement planning for the LGBT community. Topics include: • What is an IRA • What is a Roth IRA • Should I do a rollover? • What about mutual funds or annuities? Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 RSVP to programs@okeq.org. Call 918-743-4297 for more information. NOH8 Open Photo Shoot Friday, March 13, 5-8 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality and the Tulsa Pride 2015 Committee will host a NOH8 photo shoot at the Equality Center. Prices for the NOH8 Campaign's Tulsa shoot are $40 for individual portraits and $25 per person for couple or group portraits. Interested volunteers should contact the NOH8 Campaign via email at info@NOH8Campaign.com. Additional details can be found at ----- -www.noh8campaign.com. RSVP to the photo shoot on Facebook here. Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. New PFLAG Tulsa Meeting Third Monday of every month, next meeting March 16, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at 4/23/26, 4:02 PM �OkEq eNews March 4, 2015 7 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-4--2015.html... The PFLAG Tulsa Chapter has begun a satellite group meeting on the third Monday of every month at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The group will next meet on Monday, March 16. Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays promotes the health and well-being PFLAG TULSA CH of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender people, their families and friends. For more information on PFLAG Tulsa, visit www.pflagtulsa.org - - - - or call 918-749-4901 'I AM ENOUGH' Pandora Scooter Tuesday, March 17, 5 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Pandora Scooter's show "I AM ENOUGH" is about suicide prevention and self-confidence-building for LGBTQ youth. The show follows the story of Pan, who struggles with rejection from her parents and friends for being gay and for being different. After attempting suicide, Pan finds herself in a hospital where, with the help of a fantastic counselor and her inner strength, she realizes she wants to live and thrive and that she is enough. Tulsa is one of approximately 45 cities in 17 states where the show will be produced. The Tulsa production is free and is sponsored by Oklahomans for Equality and Youth Services of Tulsa. Equality Business Alliance Wednesday, March 18, 6 p.m. Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. - - - - ·- - - - Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. The March Monthly Mixer Meeting will be at 6 p.m. Wednesday, March 18, at Rum Runnerz, 822 S. Sheridan Road. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org. Join our event on Facebook, and send an invitation to everyone on your friends list. Gay Pride Bingo Night with Nicole Carrington Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Friday, March 20, 7-9:30 p.m. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org 4/23/26, 4:02 PM �OkEq eNews March 4, 2015 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-4--2015.html... Join Dale Hogan's "Nicole Carrington" for a night of bingo with "characters" and a lip-syncing contest. Full concessions with food and drink will be available for purchase. Admission is $10, and proceeds support Tulsa Pride 2015. Make it a fun night out at the Equality Center! Game Night A Murder of Storytellers book signing Tuesday, March 24, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Local authors Jack Burgos, Shannon Iwanski, Kaz Kirkpatrick, Adream Messmer, and CJ Miles IV -- collectively known as A Murder of Storytellers -- invite you to join them for a reading and book signing session. Covering genres from horror, fairy tales, contemporary, fantasy, and many more, the authors will share short stories and answer questions about their works, writing, being an Indie author/publisher, and anything else that may come to mind. The authors will have books to sell and sign for the audience. Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno A Murder of Storytellers is a writers group that meets every Friday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Sharing the Transgender Experience Saturday, April 4, 10 a.m.-5 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OkEq's Gender Outreach Program is holding a day long workshop to share and enlighten members of our community concerning important transgender issues. Issues to be discussed include: • Legal issues • Medical issues • Personal safety • Youth awareness and education Dr. Laura Arrowsmith, a board member of the National Center for Transgender Equality and a former Oklahomans for Equality board member who provides transgender awareness education, will provide the keynote address. The entire community is invited to attend. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Kelly Kirby, CPA Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org - - - - - - Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 4:02 PM �OkEq eNews March 4, 2015 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-4--2015.html... Married filing jointly? In Oklahoma? Affordable Care Act got you confused? Let us help you file your 2014 tax returns! Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 kelly@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. "Free Fallin" or "They Shoot Pigeons Don't They?" Tulsa Gridiron Oklahoma Jazz Hall of Fame, 5 S. Boston Ave. Thursday, March 5, 8-11 p.m. "Free Fallin" or "They Shoot Pigeons Don't They?" For nearly eight decades, the Tulsa Gridiron has entertained audiences with its irreverent wit and whimsy. Blending musical parody with sharp dialogue, the Gridiron skewers newsmakers of all sorts, from local politicians to international pop stars. From march-in to march-out, the Gridiron is non-stop fun. FREE FALLIN! OR THEY SHOOT j PIGEONS DON'T THEY? ,~~nm iiiiiiiiaiiiiii 2015 Through its 501(c)3, the Tulsa Gridiron provides scholarships for aspiring young practitioners of the First Amendment. Admission starts at $30. Tickets are available at tickets.tulsagridiron.org. Open for Business: A Start-Up Guide Sun Building Conference Facilities Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 - 6:00 pm and 4/23/26, 4:02 PM �OkEq eNews March 4, 2015 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-4--2015.html... 907 S. Detroit Ave., 10th Floor Wednesday, March 4, 8:30 a.m.-noon every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm Launch Your Business: A Workshop for Entrepreneurs, is a free workshop for entrepreneurs in the Tulsa Metro area who want to start or grow a small business. Attendees will receive tips about idea formation and feasibility of a business idea, developing a business plan, marketing strategies, financing a business, and information from the Oklahoma Tax Commission. Presenters will include Dewey Brandon, director of taxpayer services and education at the Oklahoma Tax Commission; and experts from SCORE, the Oklahoma Small Business Development Centers, and REI Women's Business Center. , T , REI WOMEN'S BUSINESS CENTER °lf A ~ i' s S-~a_=·DC... SCORE /A - ~ MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 7,M FOR THE LIFE OF YOUR BUSINESS OKLAHOMA Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Invites everyone to C RO A TIO VIII L H E:>E:> y Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org The ICAO is now taking ads for program and online ticket sales Complete weekend information can be found on the Coronation VIII Pages of our website www.impcourtok.webs.com or email us at impcourtok@gmail.com I.C.A.O. is a Nonprofit 501(c)(3) Charity Organization Body Electric Workshop Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org April 18 & 19 Men, come explore your erotic potential through the mind, the body and the heart using conscious breath, movement, process work and massage. When men take responsibility for their 4/23/26, 4:02 PM �OkEq eNews March 4, 2015 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-4--2015.html... erotic education, they realize how much there is to learn about awakening the erotic energy that lies within all of us. This 2 day workshop focuses on the entire body and is conducted in a setting that is playful, safe and honoring. A few benefits of this work are: * The participant gains greater acceptance of himself as an erotic being, both physically and mentally. * He discovers ways to develop a more satisfying erotic relationship with others. * He becomes more aware of spiritual dimensions in his erotic explorations. Completion of CBE is a prerequisite for attending most advanced workshops and retreats offered by Body Electric. Limited scholarships are available. For more information please contact Andr� at Tulsa@b-e-school.com or visit our website at www.thebodyelectricschol.com. Dining out for Life Thursday, April 30 Participating restaurants will donate 25 percent or more of your bill to H.O.P.E. -- Health Outreach Prevention Education -- on this day to help pay for local HIV services. The restaurants' generosity, coupled with your participation, will make a very real difference in the lives of thousands of men, women, and children throughout the Tulsa area. H.O.P.E is a nonprofit 501(c)3 organization that provides HIV and hepatitis C testing for the Tulsa community. Din Out. Fight ID For more information, visit H.O.P.E. Testing online at hopetesting.org. HIV Wellness Retreat 2015 Registration deadline is July 17 The Grateful Day Foundation is excited to announce the dates for this year's HIV Wellness Retreat. The Grateful Day Foundation seeks to fill gaps in services in Oklahoma's HIV/ JF 0>1l.ll.:irnda.i1::ii.0>:irn ][mi.cc::. AIDS wellness community Taking a leap of faith for those living with HIV/AIDS through collaboration with partner organizations, providing transportation to those in need, and hosting an Annual HIV Wellness Retreat. This year's retreat will be held Aug. 21- 23 at the beautiful Sky Ranch Cave Springs in Quapaw. www.skyranch.org QrAteful ..Z,A!J 4/23/26, 4:02 PM �OkEq eNews March 4, 2015 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-4--2015.html... We are looking forward to another fun and informative retreat this year. Applications can be found on our website, www.gratefulday.org as well as at Tulsa Cares, Parish Church of St. Jerome, HOPE Testing, OSU Specialty Clinic and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (OkEq). This retreat is designed and planned around the needs of the clients we serve in our community. We will be hosting a number of workshops throughout the weekend as well as several fun things to do at the retreat. For more information, visit our website or contact us by phone. Contact info: 539.664.7206 www.gratefulday.org LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea Ith ca re Bi IIOf Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. We want your Marriage Equality photos! If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to paul.allen@OkEq.org with " OK to use" in the Subject. Please include any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you! Equality Center Pride Store Available in the Pride Store, new rainbow Oklahoma flag tees. Available in sizes S through 5XL, these short sleeve tees can be yours for only $20 each. 4/23/26, 4:02 PM �OkEq eNews March 4, 2015 13 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-4--2015.html... Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'And Tango Makes Three' by Justin Richardson and Peter Parnell, illustrated by Henry Cole You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center "And Tango Makes Three" is the bestselling, heartwarming true story of two penguins who create a nontraditional family. At the penguin house at the Central Park Zoo, two penguins named Roy and Silo were a little bit different from the others. But their desire for a family was the same. And with the help of a kindly zookeeper, Roy and Silo get the chance to welcome a baby penguin of their very own. Selected as an ALA Notable Children's Book Nominee and a Lambda Literary Award Finalist, "this joyful story about the meaning of family is a must for any library." (School Library Journal, starred review) Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/23/26, 4:02 PM �OkEq eNews March 4, 2015 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-4--2015.html... • :JI. •. Volunt r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! ruLSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r------------------------------------------------------, I I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I I ~------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 4:02 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/f528b5827d30120c14ce203195c13f51.pdf f4dbf61d8ca287e1d640443cb38ddbe1 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews March 11, 2015 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-11--2015.ht... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews March 11, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Unity Walk OkEq -Applauds - - - OU Girl Scout Cookie Sale Welcome to the eNews. Join us for the NOH8 photo shoot on Friday, March 13th at 5:00 - 8:00 pm. Cost is $40 for solo photos and $25 per person in couples or groups. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Kelly Kirby, CPA March First Thursday Art NOH8 I AM ENOUGH Legislative Alerts SAGE St. Patrick's Day Lunch Equality Business Alliance Gay Pride Bingo Night Youth Day at the Capitol Book Study Married filing jointly? In Oklahoma? Affordable Care Act got you confused? Let us help you file your 2014 tax returns! 2014 Donation Tax Letters Tulsa Pride 2015 Breaking Bad to Be Good PFLAG Tulsa Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 kelly@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com Book Signing Sharing the Trans Experience Barney Frank Documentary EBA Sponsor "The Hill" Documentary Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Body Electric Workshop Dining Out for Life HIV Wellness Retreat LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Marriage Equality Photos -----Pride Store Rainbow Library Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. Volunteer 4/23/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews March 11, 2015 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-11--2015.ht... Unity Walk Rally and march against racism Thursday, March 12, 5:15 p.m. Williams Green to John Hope Franklin Reconciliation Park Find Us on Facebook Meet at the Williams Green, Third Street and Boston Avenue, and march to the John Hope Franklin Reconciliation Park, 309 N. Detroit Ave. March begins at 5:15 p.m. The Oklahoma portrayed by a few is not the Oklahoma known or desired by the vast majority of its residents. While we still have a long way to go in valuing people of all walks of life, this walk can demonstrate the progress made while also emphasizing our hope for creating a more united city and state. OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, March 26th, 7:00 pm OkEq applauds swift action at OU Oklahomans for Equality applauds University of Oklahoma President David Boren for his quick and unequivocal response to the racist actions of members of the Sigma Alpha Epsilon fraternity. OkEq knows that all equality-minded Oklahomans agree that this behavior is intolerable and unacceptable. As the Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. wrote, injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere. As such, these students have proven themselves not only unworthy of calling themselves Sooners, as President Boren said, but indeed, of calling themselves Oklahomans. At OkEq, we stand with anyone who stands against injustice and inequality anywhere and everywhere. NOTON OUR CAMPUS Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. OkEq Art Exhibit The February exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature works by Ashley Farrier ________ Girl Scout Cookie Sale Thursday, March 12, 5-8 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will host the Girl Scouts of Eastern Oklahoma Cookie Sale at the Dennis R. Neill ·1 Equality Center on the evening of Thursday, March 12. g1r scouts Show your support for Girl Scouts' inclusiveness by buying your Girl Scouts cookies here! ~ Counseling Services 4/23/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews March 11, 2015 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-11--2015.ht... Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8568 March First Thursday Art Gallery Reception Thursday, March 12, 6-9 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The March Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features the works of Nanda Thompson in an exhibit titled "Whispers." An opening reception will be held from 6-9 p.m. Thursday, March 12. The exhibit continues throughout the month. NOH8 Open Photo Shoot Friday, March 13, 5-8 p.m. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality and the Tulsa Pride 2015 Committee will host a NOH8 photo shoot at the Equality Center. Prices for the NOH8 Campaign's Tulsa shoot are $40 for individual portraits and $25 per person for couple or group portraits. Interested volunteers should contact the NOH8 Campaign via email at info@NOH8Campaign.com. Additional details can be found at ----- -www.noh8campaign.com. RSVP to the photo shoot on Facebook here. 'I AM ENOUGH' Pandora Scooter Tuesday, March 17, 5 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews March 11, 2015 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-11--2015.ht... Pandora Scooter's show "I AM ENOUGH" is about suicide prevention and self-confidence-building for LGBTQ youth. The show follows the story of Pan, who struggles with rejection from her parents and friends for being gay and for being different. After attempting suicide, Pan finds herself in a hospital where, with the help of a fantastic counselor and her inner strength, she realizes she wants to live and thrive and that she is enough. Tulsa is one of approximately 45 cities in 17 states where the show will be produced. The Tulsa production is free and is sponsored by Oklahomans for Equality and Youth Services of Tulsa. SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org OkEq Legislative Alerts These are what remains of the more than 13 bills Oklahoma legislators filed this legislative session targeting LGBT Oklahomans. More than half of those bills were killed in committee, thanks in large part to your efforts in contacting legislators. Oklahomans for Equality calls upon all fair-minded Oklahomans to continue to contact your state representatives and senators and ask them not to support those that remain: House Bill 1125 would do away with the issuance of marriage licenses by county court clerks. It would allow clergy and judges to issue marriage "certificates," which would then be filed at the court clerk's office. Any couple not married during a ceremony could file an affidavit with the court clerk declaring that they have a "common-law" marriage. Rep. Todd Russ of District 55 introduced the bill under the guise of protecting elected officials' religious freedoms. It initially allowed only clergy -not judges -- to issue marriage certificates and would have restricted marriage to opposite-gender couples. The bill has been passed by the House and now goes to a Senate committee for consideration. Rep. David Brumbaugh has put forth House Bill 1007, which targets same-sex couples wishing to be married and seeks to protect clergy who do not wish to or cannot perform weddings for same-sex couples. Under present Oklahoma law, only clergy who are willing and able to perform same-sex weddings are allowed to do so. Under existing law, no one is forced to perform same-sex weddings. The bill has passed the House and now is before the Senate. Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather House Bill 1598, which Rep. Sally Kern filed as the Freedom to Obtain Conversion Therapy Act but passed through committee as the Paren tal and Family Rights in Counseling Protection Act, would codify the right to obtain conversion therapy and would protect parents and mental health 4/23/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews March 11, 2015 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-11--2015.ht... providers who engage in sexual-orientation or gender-identity change efforts with a child. It now goes to the full House. House Bill 1599, the Preservation of Sovereignty and Marriage Act by Rep. Sally Kern, would prohibit the use of public funds for any activity licensing or supporting same-sex marriage and would prohibit public employees from recognizing same-sex marriage licenses. It has passed out of committee and goes to the full House. Rep. Chuck Strohm, R-Jenks, has proposed House Bill 1371, the Oklahoma Religious Freedom Act . Strohm says it is intended to protect small businesses that do not want to provide services for marriages to which the business owner objects on religious grounds. The measure also says no state or local government could intervene if such services were denied. This bill passed out of committee and now is before the full House. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Senate Bill 788 by Sen. Dan Newberry, says no judge or religious officiant would be required to perform a marriage that violates his or her religious beliefs. Has passed the Senate Judiciary Committee and is now before the full Senate. Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Take Action: Oklahomans for Equality urges you to contact House Floor Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday Leader Jason Nelson, 405-557-7335, and House Majority Floor Leader Charles Ortega, 405-557-7369, to urge them not to bring House Bills 1007, 1125, 1598, 1599 or 1371 to the House floor for a vote. Contact Senate Sen. Brian Bingman, President Pro Tempore (405) 521-5565 and Sen. Mike Schulz, Majority Floor Leader (405) 521-5612 and ask that Senate Bill 788 and 21 not be allowed a vote on the Senate floor. Find your local legislator and let them know that these attacks are not acceptable. www.oklegislature.gov/FindMyLegislature.aspx SAGE St. Patrick's Day Lunch each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Tuesday, March 17, 10 a.m.-2 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/23/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews March 11, 2015 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-11--2015.ht... Join SAGE for a St. Patrick's Day lunch at the Equality Center. Prizes will be given for the best hobo costume. Services & Advocacy for GLBT Elders (SAGE) is the country's largest and oldest organization dedicated to improving the lives of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) older adults. Our mission is to lead in addressing issues related to lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) aging. - See more at: http://sageusa.org/ about/what.cfm#sthash.zKa4fZH4.dpuf Services & Advocacy for GLBT Elders (SAGE) is the country's largest and oldest organization dedicated to improving the lives of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) older adults. Our mission is to lead in addressing issues related to lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) aging. See more at: http://sageusa.org/about/what.cfm#sthash.zKa4fZH4.dpuf SAGE -- Services and Advocacy for GLBT Elders -- is a nationwide organization that is dedicated to improving the lives of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender older adults, and Oklahomans for Equality has an active chapter. Come and be a part of it! . Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Equality Business Alliance Wednesday, March 18, 6 p.m. Rum Runnerz, 822 S. Sheridan Road Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The March Monthly Mixer Meeting will be at 6 p.m. Wednesday, March 18, at Rum Runnerz, 822 S. Sheridan Road. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org. Join our event on Facebook, and send an invitation to everyone on your friends list. Gay Pride Bingo Night with Nicole Carrington Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Friday, March 20, 7-9:30 p.m. Join Dale Hogan's "Nicole Carrington" for a night of bingo with "characters" and a lip-syncing contest. Full concessions with food and drink will be available for purchase. Admission is $10, and proceeds support Tulsa Pride 2015. Make it a fun night out at the Equality Center! LGBTQ High School Youth Day at the Capitol Tuesday, March 24, leave the Equality Center at 7 a.m. Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at 4/23/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews March 11, 2015 7 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-11--2015.ht... Oklahomans for Equality invites high school youths, counselors and teachers to join us for the rescheduled OkEq's LGBTQ High School Youth Day at the Capitol to address concerns about House Bill 1598, the Parental and Family Rights in Counseling Protection Act regarding so-called "conversion therapy," and Senate Bill 21, the Religious Viewpoints Antidiscrimination Act. Students must have consent from a parent or guardian and have proof that their schools have approved their absence from classes. Transportation on a chartered bus from the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, plus breakfast and lunch, will be provided. Must RSVP in advance. Contact Oklahomans for Equality Executive Director Toby Jenkins at toby.jenkins@okeq.org. Put "High School Day at the Capitol" in the subject line. jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. - - - - ·- - - - - Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group When Christians Get It Wrong - Book Study Six-week course continues Thursday, March 12, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center "When Christians Get it Wrong," a six-week book study led by the Rev. Twila Gibbens of St. Paul's United Methodist Church, started Thursday, Feb. 5 and wraps up this Thursday. Remaining topic: • When Christians Get It Right You may order the book by the Rev. Adam Hamilton and read before the discussion. Shop from Amazon and support Oklahomans for Equality at the same time. 2014 Donation Tax Letters Every Friday* 7 p.m. *No meeting Friday, March 27, 2015 A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Tax receipts for donations made to Oklahomans for Equality in 2014 were recently mailed. If you have not received your tax receipt or have questions regarding your receipt, please contact Kirk Holt, OkEq treasurer, at Treasurer@OkEq.org Tulsa Pride 2015 Public Planning Meeting Thursday, April 2, 7 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Everyone is invited to come and help make Tulsa Pride 2015 the best Pride ever. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org 4/23/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews March 11, 2015 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-11--2015.ht... T U L S A e A WEEKEND OF PRIDE - JUNE 5-7, 2015 Game Night Breaking Bad to Be Good Free workshop series starting Sunday, April 12, 2 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The Breaking Bad workshop will be an ongoing monthly workshop highlighting those bad habits so you can take better care of your health and wellness. Speakers and presentations will help you become a better you. Sabrina Aston, a certified hypnotherapist, will present the March 8 workshop, which will explore ways in which the therapeutic procedures of hypnosis may be used to transform self-harming thoughts, attitudes and behaviors into self-tending ones grounded in a sense of genuine self worth and well being. Through the mental rehearsal of successful outcomes and positive suggestion, hypnotherapy can help break subconscious associations with negative thought patterns, allowing us to solve problems from new perspectives and embrace positive changes at the conscious level. New PFLAG Tulsa Meeting Third Monday of every month, next meeting March 16, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The PFLAG Tulsa Chapter has begun a satellite group meeting on the third Monday of every month at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The group will next meet on Monday, March 16. Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays promotes the health and well-being PFLAG TULSA CH of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender people, their families and friends. For more information on PFLAG Tulsa, visit www.pflagtulsa.org - - - or call 918-749-4901 A Murder of Storytellers book signing Tuesday, March 24, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Local authors Jack Burgos, Shannon Iwanski, Kaz Kirkpatrick, Adream Messmer, and CJ Miles IV -- collectively known as A Murder of Storytellers -- invite you to join them for a reading and book signing session. Covering genres from horror, fairy tales, contemporary, fantasy, and many more, the authors will share Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org - - - - - - Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews March 11, 2015 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-11--2015.ht... short stories and answer questions about their works, writing, being an Indie author/publisher, and anything else that may come to mind. The authors will have books to sell and sign for the audience. A Murder of Storytellers is a writers group that meets every Friday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Sharing the Transgender Experience Saturday, April 4, 10 a.m.-5 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OkEq's Gender Outreach Program is holding a day long workshop to share and enlighten members of our community concerning important transgender issues. Issues to be discussed include: EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. • Legal issues • Medical issues • Personal safety • Youth awareness and education Dr. Laura Arrowsmith, a board member of the National Center for Transgender Equality and a former Oklahomans for Equality board member who provides transgender awareness education, will provide the keynote address. The entire community is invited to attend. Live from NY's 92nd Street Y with Barney Frank April 20, 7 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tulsa's Congregation B'nai Emunah will broadcast "Barney Frank: In His Own Words" as part of the Smart Conversations 2015 speaker series. Broadcast in partnership with the 92nd Street Y in New York City, former Rep. Barney Frank will be joined in conversation by noted television journalist Jeff Greenfield. Smart Conversations 2015 features dynamic and visionary thinkers, newsmakers, and entertainers in conversation via satellite from Manhattan. Tickets for this single lecture cost $10. Students are admitted free. Coffee, treats and conversation precede and follow each performance. To purchase tickets or for more information, call the Synagogue at 918-9353373 or email reservations@bnaiemunah.com. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Robin LaButti, Plexus Slim Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 - 6:00 pm and 4/23/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews March 11, 2015 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-11--2015.ht... every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm Ask me for FREE sample!!! MISSION: ·rim All natural products fo r diabeti cs , weight loss, pain, GI issues and skin conditions. www.plexusslim.com/robinlabutti T: (918) 361-4 188 E: robinlabutti@Cox.net Lose weight • Git 111 • Improve parfonnanca • lncrnse 1nugy "The Hill" documentary Thursday, April 9, 6:30-9 p.m., free Living Arts, 307 E. M.B. Brady St. Set upon building a new school, the city of New Haven, Conn., claims eminent domain over the UJpper Hill neighborhood. While the city argues that building the new school corresponds to a need for better school facilities, the residents of the area, mostly struggling low-income African-American families, say the decision corresponds to the city's determination to "sanitize" the neighborhood, which is near the Yale-New Haven Hospital. Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org With the help of community leaders and a civil rights lawyer, the unlikely group of neighbors decides to contest the city's claim and take the case to federal court. "The Hill" is a fascinating look at the complex issues surrounding urban planning, gentrification and economic renewal. View the trailer at thehillfilm.com/#trialer. Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Invites everyone to C RO A TIO VIII 4/23/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews March 11, 2015 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-11--2015.ht... The ICAO is now taking ads for program and online ticket sales Complete weekend information can be found on the Coronation VIII Pages of our website www.impcourtok.webs.com or email us at impcourtok@gmail.com I.C.A.O. is a Nonprofit 501(c)(3) Charity Organization Body Electric Workshop April 18 & 19 Men, come explore your erotic potential through the mind, the body and the heart using conscious breath, movement, process work and massage. When men take responsibility for their erotic education, they realize how much there is to learn about awakening the erotic energy that lies within all of us. This 2 day workshop focuses on the entire body and is conducted in a setting that is playful, safe and honoring. A few benefits of this work are: * The participant gains greater acceptance of himself as an erotic being, both physically and mentally. * He discovers ways to develop a more satisfying erotic relationship with others. * He becomes more aware of spiritual dimensions in his erotic explorations. Completion of CBE is a prerequisite for attending most advanced workshops and retreats offered by Body Electric. Limited scholarships are available. For more information please contact Andr� at Tulsa@b-e-school.com or visit our website at www.thebodyelectricschol.com. Dining out for Life Thursday, April 30 4/23/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews March 11, 2015 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-11--2015.ht... Participating restaurants will donate 25 percent or more of your bill to H.O.P.E. -- Health Outreach Prevention Education -- on this day to help pay for local HIV services. The restaurants' generosity, coupled with your participation, will make a very real difference in the lives of thousands of men, women, and children throughout the Tulsa area. H.O.P.E is a nonprofit 501(c)3 organization that provides HIV and hepatitis C testing for the Tulsa community. Din Out. f'ight ID, For more information, visit H.O.P.E. Testing online at hopetesting.org. HIV Wellness Retreat 2015 Registration deadline is July 17 The Grateful Day Foundation is excited to announce the dates for this year's HIV Wellness Retreat. The Grateful Day Foundation seeks to fill gaps in services in Oklahoma's HIV/ JF 0>1U1.ltll.dl.a.il::ii.0>ltll. ][ltll.ce . AIDS wellness community Taking a leap of faith for those living with HIV/ AIDS through collaboration with partner organizations, providing transportation to those in need, and hosting an Annual HIV Wellness Retreat. This year's retreat will be held Aug. 21- 23 at the beautiful Sky Ranch Cave Springs in Quapaw. www.skyranch.org Qrnteful ..Z,A!J We are looking forward to another fun and informative retreat this year. Applications can be found on our website, www.gratefulday.org as well as at Tulsa Cares, Parish Church of St. Jerome, HOPE Testing, OSU Specialty Clinic and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (OkEq). This retreat is designed and planned around the needs of the clients we serve in our community. We will be hosting a number of workshops throughout the weekend as well as several fun things to do at the retreat. For more information, visit our website or contact us by phone. Contact info: 539.664.7206 www.gratefulday.org LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. 4/23/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews March 11, 2015 13 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-11--2015.ht... healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea Ith ca re Bi I IOf Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. We want your Marriage Equality photos! If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to paul.allen@OkEq.org with " OK to use" in the Subject. Please include any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you! Equality Center Pride Store Available in the Pride Store, new rainbow Oklahoma flag tees. Available in sizes S through 5XL, these short sleeve tees can be yours for only $20 each. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Out with Consequences' by Debbie L. McDaniel You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In her memoir "Out with Consequences," Debbie L. McDaniel, a disfellowshipped Jehovah's Witness from McAlester, Okla., 4/23/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews March 11, 2015 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-11--2015.ht... details a childhood of sexual abuse suffered at the hands of an elder whom the church refuses to punish. As a child, McDaniel learned how deep cultures of shame, denial and hypocrisy can be when she is made to suffer a years-long cycle of sexual abuse at the hands of the church elder. When simultaneously speaking out and admitting her homosexuality gets her disfellowshipped, McDaniel is shunned by not only the congregation, but also by her family -- all while her abuser remains in good standing with the church. The church warns her and other victims to keep quiet. And going to the authorities does little to help; although her abuser is arrested for his crimes, he is just as quickly released. Despite it all, she survives the fallout to tell her story. In a time when churches' stances on sexual abuse and homosexuality are constantly making headlines, "Out with Consequences" offers a must-read perspective. Written with the strength of voice of someone who has seen it all, McDaniel's story is sure to teach other survivors that if she can survive, they can too. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library olu r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r------------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 4:03 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/aec5fb9c616a514b2dfc0cb1f9ccd684.pdf 6a92ff770c426d6b26879c332af97f5a PDF Text Text OkEq eNews March 18, 2015 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-18--2015.ht... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews March 18, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Gay Pride Bingo Night Equality Business Alliance MOREcolor Welcome to the eNews. Join us for Gay Pride Bingo Night on Friday, March 20, from 7-9:30 pm. Admission is $10, and proceeds benefit Tulsa Pride. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Kelly Kirby, CPA March First Thursday Art Legislative Alerts Youth Day at the Capitol Book Signing Adoption and Foster Care 2014 Donation Tax Letters Tulsa Pride 2015 Breaking Bad to Be Good Sharing the Trans Experience Married filing jointly? In Oklahoma? Affordable Care Act got you confused? Let us help you file your 2014 tax returns! PFLAG Tulsa Barney Frank Documentary EBA Sponsor Tulsa Mr. Leather sessions Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant Tulsa Mr. Leather contest Celebration of Reconciliation a professional corporation JOLT Drag Queen Pancake Breakfast (918) 747-5466 Citywide Selma Commemoration Goddess Festival 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 TahlEquality 5K-Run/Walk ---"The Hill" Documentary kelly@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com TU Lecture on Inequality Imperial Court of All Oklahoma CampOUT Body Electric Workshop Dining Out for Life HIV Wellness Retreat Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Marriage Equality Photos ------ 4/23/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews March 18, 2015 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-18--2015.ht... Gay Pride Bingo Night with Nicole Carrington and DJ Crystal Friday, March 20, 7-9:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Join Dale Hogan's "Nicole Carrington" and DJ Crystal for a night of bingo with "characters" and a lip-syncing contest. Full concessions with food and drink will be available for purchase. Find Us on Facebook Admission is $10, and proceeds support Tulsa Pride 2015. Make it a fun night out at the Equality Center! OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, March 26th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. Equality Business Alliance OkEq Art Exhibit Wednesday, March 18, 6 p.m. Rum Runnerz, 822 S. Sheridan Road The February exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature works by Ashley Farrier ________ Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The March Monthly Mixer Meeting will be at 6 p.m. Wednesday, March 18, at Rum Runnerz, 822 S. Sheridan Road. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org. Join our event on Facebook, and send an invitation to everyone on your friends list. MOREcolor regional fine arts exhibition Call for Entries May 1 submission deadline MORE color . i • Oklahomans for Equality is pleased to call for entries to the 2015 MOREcolor regional juried exhibition and sale of fine art. Long a tradition to celebrate LGBT Pride through the arts, MOREcolor strives to be artist- Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples 4/23/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews March 18, 2015 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-18--2015.ht... friendly and encourage innovative work. The exhibition will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Artists receive 70 percent of their sales. Cash prizes will be awarded, including a cash Juror's Award and a People's Choice award. There is a single entry fee of $10 for up to five entries. counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8568 Submission deadline is May 1. The MOREcolor art show runs June 18-21. Click here for more information. March Art Gallery Display Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The March Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists features the works of Nanda Thompson in an exhibit titled "Whispers." The exhibit continues throughout the month. OkEq Legislative Alerts Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 UPDATE: A lot of misinformation about House Bill 1125 is appearing in the media. Please know the facts and help correct them when you see them presented erroneously. House Bill 1125 by Rep. Todd Russ would NOT limit marriage in Oklahoma to only people of faith or only to heterosexual couples. HB1125 would modify the procedure for legally validating marital status. If the bill becomes law, beginning Nov. 1, marriage certificates, not licenses, would be issued by a member of the clergy or a current or retired judge who agrees to solemnize a marriage. The couple would then take that certificate to a county court clerk's office to have it recorded and pay the fee, which would be the same as current fees ($50, or $5 if the couple has undergone premarital counseling). Alternatively, if the parties wishing to be married do not wish to hold a formal ceremony, they could file an affidavit of common law marriage with the court clerk's office instead. The original intent of the bill was to prevent state officials from being required to issue marriage licenses to same-sex couples. The bill, as amended, fails to achieve the goal of relieving court clerk's office employees from having anything to do with same-sex marriages because even marriage certificates would need to be recorded with the state, and both opposite-sex and same-sex couples could still be married. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SOS Group 4/23/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews March 18, 2015 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-18--2015.ht... Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org I House Bill 1125 will soon be assigned to a Senate committee, which will recommend whether the bill continues to advance. This bill is pointless and should be tossed. Please contact your state senator and ask him or her to work to defeat this measure. Find your senator here: openstates.org/find_your_legislator ---- ---- LGBTQ High School Youth Day at the Capitol Tuesday, March 24, leave the Equality Center at 7 a.m. Oklahomans for Equality invites high school youths, counselors and teachers to join us for the rescheduled OkEq's LGBTQ High School Youth Day at the Capitol. Students must have consent from a parent or guardian and have proof that their schools have approved their absence from classes. Transportation on a chartered bus from the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, plus breakfast and lunch, will be provided. Must RSVP in advance. Contact Oklahomans for Equality Executive Director Toby Jenkins at toby.jenkins@okeq.org. Put "High School Day at the --Capitol" in the subject line. • ~ , - I Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather A Murder of Storytellers book signing Tuesday, March 24, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Local authors Jack Burgos, Shannon Iwanski, Kaz Kirkpatrick, Adream Messmer, and CJ Miles IV -- collectively known as A Murder of Storytellers -- invite you to join them for a reading and book signing session. Covering genres from horror, fairy tales, contemporary, fantasy, and many more, the authors will share short stories and answer questions about their works, writing, being an Indie author/publisher, and anything else that may come to mind. The authors will have books to sell and sign for the audience. A Murder of Storytellers is a writers group that meets every Friday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/23/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews March 18, 2015 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-18--2015.ht... Adoption and Foster Care Open House Saturday, March 28, 2-5 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Join us to learn about how you can become a foster or adoptive parent during a come-and-go event March 28. Representatives of the Oklahoma Department of Human Services; Eckerd, one of the nation's largest privately funded nonprofit child and family service organizations; and TFI Family Connections, a private not-for-profit 501(c)(3) organization that contracts with the Oklahoma Department of Human Services to place children in foster care, will make presentations. 2014 Donation Tax Letters Tax receipts for donations made to Oklahomans for Equality in 2014 were recently mailed. If you have not received your tax receipt or have questions regarding your receipt, please contact Kirk Holt, OkEq treasurer, at Treasurer@OkEq.org SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Tulsa Pride 2015 Public Planning Meeting Thursday, April 2, 7 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Everyone is invited to come and help make Tulsa Pride 2015 the best Pride ever. Tulsa Shambhala Meditation .._,,, T U L S A e A WEEKEND OF PRIDE - JUNE 5-7, 2015 Breaking Bad to Be Good Free workshop series starting Sunday, April 12, 2 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The Breaking Bad workshop will be an ongoing monthly workshop highlighting those bad habits so you can take better care of your health and wellness. Speakers and presentations will help you become a better you. Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Sabrina Aston, a certified hypnotherapist, will present the March 8 workshop, which will explore ways in which the 4/23/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews March 18, 2015 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-18--2015.ht... therapeutic procedures of hypnosis may be used to transform self-harming thoughts, attitudes and behaviors into self-tending ones grounded in a sense of genuine self worth and well being. Through the mental rehearsal of successful outcomes and positive suggestion, hypnotherapy can help break subconscious associations with negative thought patterns, allowing us to solve problems from new perspectives and embrace positive changes at the conscious level. Sharing the Transgender Experience Saturday, April 4, 10 a.m.-5 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OkEq's Gender Outreach Program is holding a day long workshop to share and enlighten members of our community concerning important transgender issues. Issues to be discussed include: • Legal issues • Medical issues • Personal safety • Youth awareness and education Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Dr. Laura Arrowsmith, a board member of the National Center for Transgender Equality and a former Oklahomans for Equality board member who provides transgender awareness education, will provide the keynote address. The entire community is invited to attend. New PFLAG Tulsa Meeting Third Monday of every month, next meeting April 20, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The PFLAG Tulsa Chapter has begun a satellite group meeting on the third Monday of every month at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The group will next meet on Monday, April 20. Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays promotes the health and well-being PFLAG TULSA CH of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender people, their families and friends. For more information on PFLAG Tulsa, visit www.pflagtulsa.org - - - - - - or call 918-749-4901 Live from NY's 92nd Street Y with Barney Frank April 20, 7 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tulsa's Congregation B'nai Emunah will broadcast "Barney Frank: In His Own Words" as part of the Smart Conversations 2015 speaker series. Broadcast in partnership with the 92nd Street Y in New York City, former Rep. Barney Frank will be joined in conversation by noted television journalist Jeff Greenfield. Smart Conversations 2015 features dynamic and visionary thinkers, newsmakers, and entertainers in conversation via satellite from Manhattan. Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at 4/23/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews March 18, 2015 7 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-18--2015.ht... Tickets for this single lecture cost $10. Students are admitted free. Coffee, treats and conversation precede and follow each performance. To purchase tickets or for more information, call the Synagogue at 918-9353373 or email reservations@bnaiemunah.com. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Robin LaButti, Plexus Slim Ask me fo r FREE sample !!! ·rim jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. T: (918)361-4188 All natural products for diabetics, weight loss, pain, GI issues and skin conditions. www.plexusslim.com/robinlobutti E: robin1abut1i@cox.net Lose weight • Get 111 • Improve parfonnanca • Increase 1n1rgy Tulsa Mr. Leather PrEP Information Session and Bettie Crocker Safe-Sex Workshop Bettie Crocker Safe-Sex Workshop Saturday, March 21, 2 p.m. With Eric Paul Leue, Mr. L.A. Leather Saturday, March 21, 3:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Join us for a safe-sex workshop with Bettie Crocker and a PrEP information session presented by Eric Paul Leue, Mr. L.A. Leather. Leue, 27, a native of Berlin, is a Los Angeles account executive at a San Francisco firm that produces online applications for the beverage industry. PrEP stands for Pre-Exposure Prophylaxis. The word "prophylaxis" means "to prevent or control the spread of an infection or disease." PrEP is a way for people who don't have HIV to prevent HIV infection by taking a pill every day. The pill contains two medicines that are also used to treat HIV. If you take PrEP and are exposed to HIV through sex or injection drug use, these medicines can work to keep the virus from taking hold in your body. Along with other prevention methods such as condoms, PrEP can offer good protection against HIV if taken every day. Tulsa Mr. Leather Contest Tulsa Eagle, 1338 E. Third St. Friday, March 20, and Saturday, March 21, Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday* 7 p.m. *No meeting Friday, March 27, 2015 A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org 4/23/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews March 18, 2015 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-18--2015.ht... Tulsa Mr. Leather 2015 is this weekend. Organizers invite you to come play with the puppies, indulge in some delicious bites and watch the Exotica fashion show, where you can purchase the gear right off the models. Among the judges will be Richard Ziese, Tulsa Mr. Leather 2014 and Oklahoma Mr. Leather 2015, who is an Oklahomans for Equality board member. Celebration of Reconciliation Sunday, March 22, 10:45 a.m. St. Paul's United Methodist Church, 1442 S. Quaker Ave. Oklahomans for Equality applauds Tulsa's St. Paul's St Paul's United Methodist Church United Methodist Church on "The Heart of Cherry Street" its decision to become part of ; the denomination's It --~ Reconciling Ministries ~ Network. This means it has taken the steps to affirm that the congregation welcomes .,,f L· and extends its love to all people, regardless of age, race, income, nationality, life experiences, gender identity or sexual orientation. You are invited to join the congregation in worship, a meal and fellowship as it celebrates with a Celebration of Reconciliation on March 22. JOLT Drag Queen Pancake Breakfast Saturday, March 28, 8-10 a.m. Applebee's Neighborhood Grill & Bar 4733 S. Yale Ave. Come get your fill of pancakes during this breakfast fundraiser for JOLT, OkEq's bowling league. The cost is $8 per person, and mimosas will be available for $3. Citywide Selma Commemoration Service Sunday, March 29, 6:30 p.m. All Souls Unitarian Church Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews March 18, 2015 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-18--2015.ht... Clergy and people from many congregations and faith traditions across Tulsa will gather to participate in a citywide commemoration service honoring the religious leaders from across many traditions who gathered in the wake of the marches in Selma, Alabama, 50 years ago to lift their voices in unity for civil rights here in Tulsa. You are invited to participate. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Goddess Festival Omni Center for Peace, Justice & Ecology, Fayetteville, Ark. March 20-29 Ten days of workshops, classes, performances and rituals honoring the Divine Feminine. The event starts with the Spring Equinox ritual at 7 p.m. March 20 at the Fayetteville Senior Center. Most other events are at the Omni Center for Peace, Justice & Ecology in Fayetteville. Like us on Facebook (/goddessfestival) for full schedule. . .. ~ ft~~ tt1ftvti1l Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday TahlEquality 5K Fun Run/Walk and Easter Egg Hunt Northeastern State University, Centennial Plaza Drive, Tahlequah Saturday, April 4, 8 a.m. Participate in the TahlEquality 5K Run/Walk and Easter egg hunt to raise money for TahlEquality Pride. Everyone has a chance to win prizes. TahlEquality is a nonprofit LGBTQ2/straight alliance promoting equal rights for the residents of Tahlequah and the rest of Oklahoma. ·•,•. t!,,',,'i,~~-{~;t %l-~.- ·~ - -~ « / 5K. i,'~:~ •• • Fun Run/ Wolk & Easter Egg Hunt -,~;t April 4th, 8:00am ,.... NSU Centennial Plaza Drive t~· • ,.. -Pegistration i, costs: ~ $25: SK run with t-shirt $20: 1 mile fun run/walk with t-shirt $15: Children 12 & under with t-shirt, 1 mile fun run $10: Children 12 & under Easter egg hunt with t-shirt Registration day of: Add $5 Click here for prices and to register. ., Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. Everyone wi ll have the chance to win prizes! Pre-register here: tahlequality.eventbrite.com I "The Hill" documentary Thursday, April 9, 6:30-9 p.m., free Living Arts, 307 E. M.B. Brady St. Set upon building a new school, the city of New Haven, Conn., claims eminent domain over the UJpper Hill neighborhood. While the city argues that building the new school corresponds to a need for better school facilities, the residents of the area, mostly struggling low-income African-American families, say the HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 - 6:00 pm and 4/23/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews March 18, 2015 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-18--2015.ht... decision corresponds to the city's determination to "sanitize" the neighborhood, which is near the Yale-New Haven Hospital. every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm With the help of community leaders and a civil rights lawyer, the unlikely group of neighbors decides to contest the city's claim and take the case to federal court. "The Hill" is a fascinating look at the complex issues surrounding urban planning, gentrification and economic renewal. View the trailer at thehillfilm.com/#trialer. "Inequality in American Society" TU Lecture University of Tulsa Lectureship in Politics and Law Chapman Hall Lecture Hall, 2830 E. Fifth St. Thursday, April 9, 7 p.m. Dean Baker, co-director of the Center for Economic and Policy Research in Washington, D.C., will present this year's TU Lectureship in Politics and Law. The lecture, is free and open to the public. The topic of Baker's talk is "Inequality in American Society: Should We Blame the Market?" Click MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. to edit Double-click to insert an image Right-cli~k to format image 100 x 100 pixels Baker is frequently cited in economics reporting in major media outlets, including the New York Times, Washington Post, CNN, CNBC and National Public Radio. He writes a weekly column for the Guardian Unlimited (UK), the Huffington Post and TruthOut. His blog, Beat the Press, features commentary on economic reporting. His analyses have appeared in many major publications, including the Atlantic Monthly, the Washington Post, the London Financial Times and the New York Daily News. He received his Ph.D. in economics from the University of Michigan. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org He previously worked as a senior economist at the Economic Policy Institute and as an assistant professor at Bucknell University. He has also worked as a consultant for the World Bank, the Joint Economic Committee of the U.S. Congress and the OECD's Trade Union Advisory Council. He has written numerous books and was the author of the weekly online commentary on economic reporting for the Economic Reporting Review from 1996 - 2006. Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Invites everyone to 4/23/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews March 18, 2015 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-18--2015.ht... C RO A TIO VIII The ICAO is now taking ads for program and online ticket sales Complete weekend information can be found on the Coronation VIII Pages of our website www.impcourtok.webs.com or email us at impcourtok@gmail.com I.C.A.O. is a Nonprofit 501(c)(3) Charity Organization CampOUT Spring 2015 Camp Fire Green Country's Camp Waluhili Lake Fort Gibson, April 17-19 CampOUT Spring 2015 for LGBT youth development will be held at Camp Fire Green Country's Camp Waluhili on Lake Fort Gibson. The camp is sponsored by Camp Fire and Youth Services of Tulsa. C<lliff)()(lT Spriltg 2015 APRIL t7™-t9™. 2015 CmttpWalulwi FOR MORE INFORMATION V'Ul WllHRf (918)261-3835 • vwiene,@yst.org Safalt&udt (918)592-2267 • ssmilh@tu!Reamplir•.ors If you're interested, contact Vic Wiener at 918-261-3835 or Sarah Smith at 918-592-2267. . Body Electric Workshop April 18 & 19 Men, come explore your erotic potential through the mind, the body and the heart using conscious breath, movement, process work and massage. When men take responsibility for their erotic education, they realize how much there is to learn about awakening the erotic energy that lies within all of us. This 2 day workshop focuses on the entire body and is conducted in a setting that is playful, safe and 4/23/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews March 18, 2015 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-18--2015.ht... honoring. A few benefits of this work are: * The participant gains greater acceptance of himself as an erotic being, both physically and mentally. * He discovers ways to develop a more satisfying erotic relationship with others. * He becomes more aware of spiritual dimensions in his erotic explorations. Completion of CBE is a prerequisite for attending most advanced workshops and retreats offered by Body Electric. Limited scholarships are available. For more information please contact Andr� at Tulsa@b-e-school.com or visit our website at www.thebodyelectricschol.com. Dining out for Life Thursday, April 30 Participating restaurants will donate 25 percent or more of your bill to H.O.P.E. -- Health Outreach Prevention Education -- on this day to help pay for local HIV services. The restaurants' generosity, coupled with your participation, will make a very real difference in the lives of thousands of men, women, and children throughout the Tulsa area. H.O.P.E is a nonprofit 501(c)3 organization that provides HIV and hepatitis C testing for the Tulsa community. Din Out. fight ID For more information, visit H.O.P.E. Testing online at hopetesting.org. HIV Wellness Retreat 2015 Registration deadline is July 17 The Grateful Day Foundation is excited to announce the dates for this year's HIV Wellness Retreat. The Grateful Day Foundation seeks to fill gaps in services in Oklahoma's HIV/ JF<01lJl.Jt'Jl.da.il::ii.<0Jt'Jl. JIJl:'Jl.c. AIDS wellness community Taking a leap of faith for those living with HIV/AIDS through collaboration with partner organizations, providing transportation to those in need, and hosting an Annual HIV Wellness Retreat. This year's retreat will be held Aug. 21- 23 at the beautiful Sky Ranch Cave Springs in Quapaw. www.skyranch.org QrAteful ..Z,A!J We are looking forward to another fun and informative retreat this year. Applications can be found on our website, www.gratefulday.org as well as at Tulsa Cares, Parish Church of St. Jerome, HOPE Testing, OSU Specialty Clinic and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (OkEq). This retreat is designed and planned around the needs of the clients we 4/23/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews March 18, 2015 13 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-18--2015.ht... serve in our community. We will be hosting a number of workshops throughout the weekend as well as several fun things to do at the retreat. For more information, visit our website or contact us by phone. Contact info: 539.664.7206 www.gratefulday.org LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea Ith ca re Bi I IOf Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. We want your Marriage Equality photos! If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to paul.allen@OkEq.org with " OK to use" in the Subject. Please include any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you! Equality Center Pride Store Available in the Pride Store, new rainbow Oklahoma flag tees. Available in sizes S through 5XL, these short sleeve tees can be yours for only $20 each. 4/23/26, 4:03 PM �OkEq eNews March 18, 2015 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-18--2015.ht... Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'At Last! Free to Be Me' by Robbie Dee Ewens You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Transgender people are not new, having been in populations across the centuries in every country of the world. Different cultures and beliefs address such people in different ways, from exaulting them as gifted to debasing them as being possessed by the devil. At La5t! Free to be Me In her book "At Last! Free to Be Me," Tulsa's own Robbie Dee Ewens addresses the reality of transgender people as viewed and By Ms Rollie treated by the Christian church in all its DeeEv.ero forms. She openly testifies about her own life with amazing transparency and humility, with many riveting true stories. Her discovery as being transgender rocked not only her own life but her Christian doctrines, too. She is fully persuaded that churches that judge and condemn being transgender are misusing Scripture in order to follow manmade traditional beliefs, and she exposes these in detail, challenging the church to change. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library olu A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local ac ion center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r------------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 4:03 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/d755d33b2b83ace09eb1ffef7e27fe4f.pdf 1f3f7d989b5e5db3ff4f009a369fd2e5 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews March 25, 2015 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-25--2015.ht... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews March 25, 2015 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor MOREcolor March First Thursday Art Sharing the Trans Experience Welcome to the eNews. Join us for "Sharing the Transgender Experience" from 10 a.m. to 5 p.m. Saturday, April 4, at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Keith Hunt, McGraw Realtors LT 2014 Donation Tax Letters Tulsa Pride 2015 Gay Pride Bingo Breaking Bad to Be Good PFLAG Tulsa Barney Frank Documentary McGraw R L, Legislative Alerts Equality Business Alliance R S' Equality Gala Looking to buy or sell your dream home? EBA Sponsor I can help! JOLT Drag Queen Pancake Breakfast Contact Keith Hunt Today Citywide Selma Commemoration (918) 513-13-94 Goddess Festival khunt@mcgrawok.com rl] ~ ® I'~ LLADING lllAl,_lSTAT[ • co ... rAN l [S/'Y'TH[ wouo Guys Dine Too TahlEquality 5K-Run/Walk ---"The Hill" Documentary MOREcolor regional fine arts exhibition Call for Entries May 1 submission deadline MORE color TU Lecture on Inequality Imperial Court of All Oklahoma CampOUT . , .· Oklahomans for Equality is pleased to call for entries to the 2015 MOREcolor regional juried exhibition and sale of fine art. Long a tradition to celebrate LGBT Pride through the arts, MOREcolor strives to be artistfriendly and encourage innovative work. The exhibition will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Artists receive 70 percent of their sales. Cash prizes will be awarded, including a cash Juror's Award and a People's Choice award. There is a single entry fee of $10 for up to five entries. Submission deadline is May 1. The MOREcolor art show runs June 18-21. Body Electric Workshop Dining Out for Life HIV Wellness Retreat LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Marriage Equality Photos -----Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Click here for more information. 4/23/26, 4:04 PM �OkEq eNews March 25, 2015 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-25--2015.ht... April Art Gallery Opening Reception Karin Susan Carmek Thursday, April 2, 6-9 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Find Us on Facebook The April Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Karin Susan Carmek, beginning with a reception on Thursday, April 2, and continuing throughout the month. OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, March 26, 7 p.m. Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. Sharing the Transgender Experience Saturday, April 4, 10 a.m.-5 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OkEq's Gender Outreach Program is holding a free day long workshop to share and enlighten members of our community concerning important transgender issues. Issues to be discussed include: OkEq Art Exhibit The March exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features works by Nanda Thompson ________ • Legal issues • Medical issues • Personal safety • Youth awareness and education Dr. Laura Arrowsmith, a board member of the National Center for Transgender Equality and a former Oklahomans for Equality board member who provides transgender awareness education, will provide the keynote address. The entire community is invited to attend this free event. Lunch and refreshments will be provided, but you must RSVP to Sharon Queen at sharon.queen@okeq.org. ---- OkEq Legislative Alerts NEW: U.S. Senate Budget Resolution amendment Oklahomans for Equality decries U.S. Sen. Jim Inhofe's actions Wednesday to target the lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender community once again. His Amendment 381 to the Senate Budget Resolution for 2016 is a federal version of a bill that is cropping up in state Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no 4/23/26, 4:04 PM �OkEq eNews March 25, 2015 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-25--2015.ht... legislatures across the nation, the socalled Religious Freedom Restoration Act. cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Collectively, the measures essentially would allow any business person or organization to discriminate against any LGBT person based on "sincerely held religious beliefs." Proponents say these measures are needed to "protect" florists and bakers from having to make bouquets and cakes for same-sex weddings, but some bills would go so far as to "protect" emergency medical technicians from having to save the life of an LGBT person if doing so would violate their religious beliefs. Similarly, Sen. Inhofe's Amendment 381 "would seek to prevent the federal government from discriminating against individuals, businesses, or organizations based on their sincerely held religious beliefs regarding abortion or marriage." This is ludicrous. Such discrimination is no different from a business deciding not to serve people who are left-handed or brown-eyed. Many lawmakers are advocating for the deaths of these bills in their states, and Oklahomans for Equality calls on fair-minded U.S. senators to recognize the inherent bigotry and hate in Sen. Inhofe's amendment and reject it as being on the wrong side of history. Please contact Sen. Inhofe and let him know how you feel about his amendment: (202) 224-4721 or 205 Russell Senate Office Building Washington, D.C. 20510-3603 UPDATE: Oklahoma House Bill 1125 by Rep. Todd Russ would modify the procedure for legally validating marital status. If the bill becomes law, beginning Nov. 1, marriage certificates, not licenses, would be issued by a member of the clergy or a current or retired judge. The couple would then take that certificate to a county court clerk's office to have it recorded and pay the fee, which would be the same as current fees ($50, or $5 if the couple has undergone premarital counseling). Alternatively, if the parties wishing to be married do not wish to hold a formal ceremony, they could file an affidavit of common law marriage with the court clerk's office instead. The original intent of the bill was to prevent state officials from being required to issue marriage licenses to same-sex couples. The bill, as amended, fails to achieve the goal of relieving court clerk's office employees from having anything to do with same-sex marriages because even marriage certificates would need to be recorded with the state, and both opposite-sex and same-sex couples could still be married. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org • . I ~ , . I Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold 4/23/26, 4:04 PM �OkEq eNews March 25, 2015 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-25--2015.ht... Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather House Bill 1125 has been assigned to the Senate Rules Committee, where the prospects for its advancement are not certain. This bill is pointless and should be tossed. Please contact your state senator and ask him or her to work to defeat this measure. Find your senator here: openstates.org/find_your_legislator - - - - - - --- - 2014 Donation Tax Letters Tax receipts for donations made to Oklahomans for Equality in 2014 were recently mailed. If you have not received your tax receipt or have questions regarding your receipt, please contact Kirk Holt, OkEq treasurer, at Treasurer@OkEq.org Tulsa Pride 2015 Public Planning Meeting Thursday, April 2, 7 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Everyone is invited to come, provide your input and help make Tulsa Pride 2015 the best Pride ever. ~r T U L S A e SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Services and Advocacy fo r Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders A WEEKEND OF PRIDE - JUNE 5-7, 2015 Gay Pride Bingo with Nicole Carrington Friday, April 10, 7-9:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Where does the Easter Bunny go after Easter? To Gay Pride Bingo, of course! He heard how much fun our March event was and said he must be here for a repeat! Tulsa Shambhala Meditation 4/23/26, 4:04 PM �OkEq eNews March 25, 2015 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-25--2015.ht... Join Dale Hogan's "Nicole Carrington" for a night of bingo with "characters." Full concessions with food and drink will be available for purchase. Admission is $10, and proceeds support Tulsa Pride 2015. Make it a fun night out at the Equality Center! Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Tulsa Area Prime Timers Breaking Bad to Be Good Free workshop series starting Sunday, April 12, 2 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The Breaking Bad workshop will be an ongoing monthly workshop highlighting those bad habits so you can take better care of your health and wellness. Speakers and presentations will help you become a better you. Sabrina Aston, a certified hypnotherapist, will present the March 8 workshop, which will explore ways in which the therapeutic procedures of hypnosis may be used to transform self-harming thoughts, attitudes and behaviors into self-tending ones grounded in a sense of genuine self worth and well being. Through the mental rehearsal of successful outcomes and positive suggestion, hypnotherapy can help break subconscious associations with negative thought patterns, allowing us to solve problems from new perspectives and embrace positive changes at the conscious level. New PFLAG Tulsa Meeting Third Monday of every month, next meeting April 20, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The PFLAG Tulsa Chapter has begun a satellite group meeting on the third Monday of every month at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The group will next meet on Monday, April 20. Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays promotes the health and well-being PFLAG TULSA CH of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender people, their families and friends. For more information on PFLAG Tulsa, visit 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members 4/23/26, 4:04 PM �OkEq eNews March 25, 2015 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-25--2015.ht... www.pflagtulsa.org or call 918-749-4901 Instructor Brad Sullivan. Live from NY's 92nd Street Y with Barney Frank April 20, 7 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. Tulsa's Congregation B'nai Emunah will broadcast "Barney Frank: In His Own Words" as part of the Smart Conversations 2015 speaker series. Broadcast in partnership with the 92nd Street Y in New York City, former Rep. Barney Frank will be joined in conversation by noted television journalist Jeff Greenfield. Smart Conversations 2015 features dynamic and visionary thinkers, newsmakers, and entertainers in conversation via satellite from Manhattan. Tickets for this single lecture cost $10. Students are admitted free. Coffee, treats and conversation precede and follow each performance. To purchase tickets or for more information, call the Synagogue at 918-9353373 or email reservations@bnaiemunah.com. Equality Business Alliance Wednesday, April 22, 6 p.m. Boss Fitness Tulsa, 3509 S. Peoria Ave., Suite 300 Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group The March Monthly Mixer Meeting will be at 6 p.m. Wednesday, April 22, at Boss Fitness Tulsa. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org. Join our event on Facebook, and send an invitation to everyone on your friends list. Every Friday* 7 p.m. *No meeting Friday, March 27, 2015 Join the Equality Business Alliance Check the EBA Business Directory Find EBA on Facebook email EBA@OkEq.org A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm Equality Gala, The Road to Equality Cox Business Center Ballroom Saturday, April 25, 6:30 p.m. cocktail reception, 8 p.m. dinner and program This year's Equality Gala, Oklahomans for Equality's premier fundraiser and Tulsa's most swankified, fabulous event, celebrates OkEq's 35th anniversary. The money raised through the Gala each year helps provide support and programming for LGBT Oklahomans and allies in the sixth-largest gay community center in the world -- right here in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Oi<L'I-IOl'llV1 Kl<! EOIWJTV .) • A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. ;,_~ 25 2015 COi\\ATIJR~~ BU~NE:, ~:~TE:R BALLROOM 6-JOPM CCX: ~All RE:CE:PTION AND PROGRAM 8.()()JIM DINN~ ",TTll( CO.OIH.l <Al ~1~,?W F()t.... ~~'~.......... ~ , _ , 4/23/26, 4:04 PM �OkEq eNews March 25, 2015 7 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-25--2015.ht... In 2014, more than 48,000 individuals participated in programming and services at the Equality Center. Your support through the Gala helps make those services possible. Individual tickets and sponsorships are available. Please click here for more information. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Kelly Kirby, CPA ,.,.,,,...,~6ua, ..,,_.... ;;~-;.~~,~~~~o~~~=e~-~---~""'_:;_:~~:'.'.::2~1 Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org ~ ~ = - ~~4,• u:,..-ie"' \_a!,\~ yo Married filing jointly? In Oklahoma? Affordable Care Act got you confused? Let us help you file your 2014 tax returns! Kelly Kirby CPA Game Night Certified Public Accountant Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 kelly@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. JOLT Drag Queen Pancake Breakfast Saturday, March 28, 8-10 a.m. Applebee's Neighborhood Grill & Bar 4733 S. Yale Ave. Come get your fill of pancakes during this breakfast fundraiser for JOLT, OkEq's bowling league. The cost is $8 per person, and mimosas will be available for $3. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet 4/23/26, 4:04 PM �OkEq eNews March 25, 2015 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-25--2015.ht... Citywide Selma Commemoration Service Sunday, March 29, 6:30 p.m. All Souls Unitarian Church Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org Clergy and people from many congregations and faith traditions across Tulsa will gather to participate in a citywide commemoration service honoring the religious leaders from across many traditions who gathered in the wake of the marches in Selma, Alabama, 50 years ago to lift their voices in unity for civil rights here in Tulsa. You are invited to participate. Goddess Festival Omni Center for Peace, Justice & Ecology, Fayetteville, Ark. March 20-29 Ten days of workshops, classes, performances and rituals honoring the Divine Feminine. The event starts with the Spring Equinox ritual at 7 p.m. March 20 at the Fayetteville Senior Center. Most other events are at the Omni Center for Peace, Justice & Ecology in Fayetteville. Like us on Facebook (/goddessfestival) for full schedule. . t .. ~~; @ r~1l QJF" ~ EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. -- ~~~ i§r~1w1 Guys Dine Too Tuesday, April 7, 6:30 p.m. BurnCo BBQ, 1738 S. Boston Ave. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Guys Dine Too is a social program for gay men and the i r m a le allies/ friends. It meets at a different restaurant every month. Spread the word, and please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan to attend. Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as stepby-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center TahlEquality 5K Fun Run/Walk and Easter Egg Hunt Northeastern State University, Centennial Plaza Drive, Tahlequah Saturday, April 4, 8 a.m. Participate in the TahlEquality 5K Run/Walk and Easter egg hunt to raise money for TahlEquality Pride. Everyone Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm 4/23/26, 4:04 PM �OkEq eNews March 25, 2015 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-25--2015.ht... V has a chance to win prizes. TahlEquality is a nonprofit LGBTQ2/straight alliance promoting equal rights for the residents of Tahlequah and the rest of Oklahoma. & Easter Egg Hunt ,-:.•,~ April 4th, 8:00am ,,.,. NSU Centennial Plaza Drive ~' -~-'f9te-registration costs: $25: 5K run with t-shirt $20: 1 mile fun run/walk with t-shirt $15: Children 12 & under with t-sh irt, 1 mile fun run $10: Children 12 & under Easter egg hunt with t-shirt Registration day of: Add $5 Everyone will have the chance to win prizes! Pre-register here: tahlequality.eventbrite.com I Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Click here for prices and to register. "The Hill" documentary Thursday, April 9, 6:30-9 p.m., free Living Arts, 307 E. M.B. Brady St. Set upon building a new school, the city of New Haven, Conn., claims eminent domain over the UJpper Hill neighborhood. While the city argues that building the new school corresponds to a need for better school facilities, the residents of the area, mostly struggling low-income African-American families, say the decision corresponds to the city's determination to "sanitize" the neighborhood, which is near the Yale-New Haven Hospital. With the help of community leaders and a civil rights lawyer, the unlikely group of neighbors decides to contest the city's claim and take the case to federal court. "The Hill" is a fascinating look at the complex issues surrounding urban planning, gentrification and economic renewal. Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org View the trailer at thehillfilm.com/#trialer. "Inequality in American Society" TU Lecture University of Tulsa Lectureship in Politics and Law Chapman Hall Lecture Hall, 2830 E. Fifth St. Thursday, April 9, 7 p.m. Dean Baker, co-director of the Center for Economic and Policy Research in Washington, D.C., will present this year's TU Lectureship in Politics and Law. The lecture, is free and open to the public. LectureshipinPoliticsandlaw2015 ll<llnequality in American Society - Should We Blame the Market?ll<l ~:~~=:~:~!:~~~=~: The topic of Baker's talk is "Inequality in American Society: Should We Blame the Market?" Thursday, April 9 7:00 p.m. 2D!E.5thStreet 1~pus Dean Ba ker Baker is frequently cited in economics reporting in major media outlets, including the New York Times, Washington Post, CNN, CNBC and National Public Radio. He writes a weekly column for the Guardian Unlimited (UK), the Huffington Post and TruthOut. His blog, Beat the Press, features commentary on economic reporting. His analyses have appeared in many major publications, 4/23/26, 4:04 PM �OkEq eNews March 25, 2015 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-25--2015.ht... including the Atlantic Monthly, the Washington Post, the London Financial Times and the New York Daily News. He received his Ph.D. in economics from the University of Michigan. He previously worked as a senior economist at the Economic Policy Institute and as an assistant professor at Bucknell University. He has also worked as a consultant for the World Bank, the Joint Economic Committee of the U.S. Congress and the OECD's Trade Union Advisory Council. He has written numerous books and was the author of the weekly online commentary on economic reporting for the Economic Reporting Review from 1996 - 2006. Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma invites you to participate in the election and coronation of Empress VIII. Cast your vote Friday, April 3, 9-11 p.m., at the Tulsa Eagle, 1338 E. Third St. or Saturday, April 4, 1-3 p.m., at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center Then join us for CORO ATI VIII The ICAO is now taking ads for program and online ticket sales. Complete weekend information can be found on the Coronation VIII pages of our website www.impcourtok.webs.com or email us at impcourtok@gmail.com I.C.A.O. is a Nonprofit 501(c)(3) Charity Organization CampOUT Spring 2015 Camp Fire Green Country's Camp Waluhili Lake Fort Gibson, April 17-19 CampOUT Spring 2015 for LGBT youth development will be held at Camp Fire Green Camp()(lT Spl'fug 2015 APRll. 17TH_l9ra, 2015 /> _ ___ 1,/_L L ! I~ 4/23/26, 4:04 PM �OkEq eNews March 25, 2015 11 of 14 Country's Camp Waluhili on Lake Fort Gibson. The camp is sponsored by Camp Fire and Youth Services of Tulsa. https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-25--2015.ht... vamp WUJWU/l FOR MORE lffl'ORMATION V"te W'1£1W' (918)261-3835 * vwien«@yst.org /ilJ1alt, Sfflitk (918)592 •2267 - $$mllb@t"1sa<:ampire.org If you're interested, contact Vic Wiener at 918-261-3835 or Sarah Smith at 918-592-2267. . Body Electric Workshop April 18 & 19 Men, come explore your erotic potential through the mind, the body and the heart using conscious breath, movement, process work and massage. When men take responsibility for their erotic education, they realize how much there is to learn about awakening the erotic energy that lies within all of us. This 2 day workshop focuses on the entire body and is conducted in a setting that is playful, safe and honoring. A few benefits of this work are: * The participant gains greater acceptance of himself as an erotic being, both physically and mentally. * He discovers ways to develop a more satisfying erotic relationship with others. * He becomes more aware of spiritual dimensions in his erotic explorations. Completion of CBE is a prerequisite for attending most advanced workshops and retreats offered by Body Electric. Limited scholarships are available. For more information please contact André at Tulsa@b-e-school.com or visit our website at www.thebodyelectricschol.com. Dining out for Life Thursday, April 30 Participating restaurants will donate 25 percent or more of your bill to H.O.P.E. -- Health Outreach Prevention Education -- on this day to help pay for local HIV services. The restaurants' generosity, coupled with your participation, will make a very real difference in the lives of thousands of men, women, and children throughout the Tulsa area. H.O.P.E is a nonprofit 501(c)3 organization that provides HIV and hepatitis C testing for the Tulsa community. Din Ou . fight ID 4/23/26, 4:04 PM �OkEq eNews March 25, 2015 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-25--2015.ht... For more information, visit H.O.P.E. Testing online at hopetesting.org. HIV Wellness Retreat 2015 Registration deadline is July 17 The Grateful Day Foundation is excited to announce the dates for this year's HIV Wellness Retreat. The Grateful Day Foundation seeks to fill gaps in services in Oklahoma's HIV/ ]F," ~1l.ll.Jr.Il.Q&.ti~:ir.n. ][:ir.n.c: . AIDS wellness community Taking a leap of faith for those living with HIV/AIDS through collaboration with partner organizations, providing transportation to those in need, and hosting an Annual HIV Wellness Retreat. This year's retreat will be held Aug. 21- 23 at the beautiful Sky Ranch Cave Springs in Quapaw. www.skyranch.org Qrnteful .,z)Afl We are looking forward to another fun and informative retreat this year. Applications can be found on our website, www.gratefulday.org as well as at Tulsa Cares, Parish Church of St. Jerome, HOPE Testing, OSU Specialty Clinic and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (OkEq). This retreat is designed and planned around the needs of the clients we serve in our community. We will be hosting a number of workshops throughout the weekend as well as several fun things to do at the retreat. For more information, visit our website or contact us by phone. Contact info: 539.664.7206 www.gratefulday.org LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Healthca re Bi I IOf Ri ghts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. We want your Marriage Equality photos! 4/23/26, 4:04 PM �OkEq eNews March 25, 2015 13 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-25--2015.ht... If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to paul.allen@OkEq.org with " OK to use" in the Subject. Please include any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you! Equality Center Pride Store Available in the Pride Store, new rainbow Oklahoma flag tees. Available in sizes S through 5XL, these short sleeve tees can be yours for only $20 each. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Straight Talk About Gays in the Workplace, 2nd Edition' by Liz Winfeld and Susan Spielman You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Until recently, the topic of diversity in the workplace had been limited to race and gender issues. In the past decade, however, there has been a growing awareness that sexual orientation is also a valid component of diversity. The first edition of "Straight Talk About Gays in the Workplace" was the only book available to address sexual orientation for employers concerned about this aspect of diversity. This new edition is fully updated with state-of-the-art information on domestic partner benefits, effective education regarding sexual orientation in the workplace, marketing opportunities generated by full inclusion, and why full inclusion makes good business sense. Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/23/26, 4:04 PM �OkEq eNews March 25, 2015 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-March-25--2015.ht... - Volun r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! TULSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r---------------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org ~---------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 4:04 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/9db7aa8677601d5aaca62a49532f831c.pdf 37e5033b80862470b506b1f177cb4eab PDF Text Text OkEq eNews April 2, 2015 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-2--2015.html?... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews April 2, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor MOREcolor March First Thursday Art Sharing the Trans Experience Welcome to the eNews. Join us for "Sharing the Transgender Experience" from 10 a.m. to 5 p.m. Saturday, April 4, at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Kelly Kirby, CPA Tulsa Pride 2015 Gay Pride Bingo Breaking Bad to Be Good Gamily Gathering PFLAG Tulsa Barney Frank Documentary Equality Business Alliance Sleep Soundly Workshop Equality Gala Married filing jointly? In Oklahoma? Affordable Care Act got you confused? Let us help you file your 2014 tax returns! Rainbow Run EBA Sponsor TahlEquality 5K-Run/Walk ---Article Headline Kelly Kirby CPA Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 kelly@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com Guys Dine Too "The Hill" Documentary TU Lecture on Inequality Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Body Electric Workshop Russell Bennett Award Dining Out for Life Article Headline HIV Wellness Retreat Research opportunity LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Marriage Equality Photos -----Pride Store Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. Rainbow Library Volunteer 4/23/26, 4:05 PM �OkEq eNews April 2, 2015 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-2--2015.html?... MOREcolor regional fine arts exhibition Call for Entries May 1 submission deadline MORE color Find Us on Facebook . i • Oklahomans for Equality is pleased to call for entries to the 2015 MOREcolor regional juried exhibition and sale of fine art. Long a tradition to celebrate LGBT Pride through the arts, MOREcolor strives to be artistfriendly and encourage innovative work. The exhibition will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Artists receive 70 percent of their sales. Cash prizes will be awarded, including a cash Juror's Award and a People's Choice award. There is a single entry fee of $10 for up to five entries. Submission deadline is May 1. The MOREcolor art show runs June 18-21. Click here for more information. April Art Gallery Opening Reception Karin Susan Cermak Thursday, April 2, 6-9 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OkEq Art Exhibit The April exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features works by Karin Susan Cermak. ________ The April Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Karin Susan Cermak, beginning with a reception on Thursday, April 2, and continuing throughout the month. Sharing the Transgender Experience Saturday, April 4, 10 a.m.-5 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OkEq's Gender Outreach Program is holding a free day long workshop to share and enlighten members of our community concerning important transgender issues. Issues to be discussed include: • Legal issues • Medical issues • Personal safety Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 4/23/26, 4:05 PM �OkEq eNews April 2, 2015 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-2--2015.html?... • Youth awareness and education Dr. Laura Arrowsmith, a board member of the National Center for Transgender Equality and a former Oklahomans for Equality board member who provides transgender awareness education, will provide the keynote address. The entire community is invited to attend this free event. Lunch and refreshments will be provided, but you must RSVP to Sharon Queen at sharon.queen@okeq.org. ---- Tulsa Pride 2015 Public Planning Meeting Thursday, April 2, 7 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Counseling Services Everyone is invited to come, provide your input and help make Tulsa Pride 2015 the best Pride ever. Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on T U L S A -~ e income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org A WEEKEND OF PRIDE - JUNE 5-7, 2015 SOS Group Gay Pride Bingo with Nicole Carrington and DJ Crystal Friday, April 10, 7-9:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Where does the Easter Bunny go after Easter? To Gay Pride Bingo, of course! He heard how much fun our March event was and said he must be here for a repeat! Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org f Join Dale Hogan's "Nicole Carrington" and DJ Crystal for a night of bingo with "characters." Full concessions with food and drink will be available for purchase. Admission is $10, and proceeds support Tulsa Pride 2015. Make it a fun night out at the Equality Center! . I • , I Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold 4/23/26, 4:05 PM �OkEq eNews April 2, 2015 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-2--2015.html?... Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Breaking Bad to Be Good Free workshop series starting Sunday, April 12, 2 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The Breaking Bad workshop will be an ongoing monthly workshop highlighting those bad habits so you can take better care of your health and wellness. Speakers and presentations will help you become a better you. Sabrina Aston, a certified hypnotherapist, will present the March 8 workshop, which will explore ways in which the therapeutic procedures of hypnosis may be used to transform self-harming thoughts, attitudes and behaviors into self-tending ones grounded in a sense of genuine self worth and well being. Through the mental rehearsal of successful outcomes and positive suggestion, hypnotherapy can help break subconscious associations with negative thought patterns, allowing us to solve problems from new perspectives and embrace positive changes at the conscious level. Gamily Gathering Sunday, April 12, 2-4 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center We'll have a hands-on building project -something such as a birdhouse or a model racecar -- for Gamily kids with items donated by Home Depot. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Servtces and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual &. Transgendcr Elders Gay families, come join us for the fun and socialization! New PFLAG Tulsa Meeting Third Monday of every month, next meeting April 20, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tulsa Shambhala Meditation 4/23/26, 4:05 PM �OkEq eNews April 2, 2015 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-2--2015.html?... The PFLAG Tulsa Chapter has begun a satellite group meeting on the third Monday of every month at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The group will next meet on Monday, April 20. Parents, Families and Friends of PFLAG Lesbians and Gays promotes the health and well-being TULSA CH of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender people, their families and friends. For more information on PFLAG Tulsa, visit www.pflagtulsa.org - - - - - - or call 918-749-4901 Live from NY's 92nd Street Y with Barney Frank April 20, 7 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tulsa's Congregation B'nai Emunah will broadcast "Barney Frank: In His Own Words" as part of the Smart Conversations 2015 speaker series. Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Broadcast in partnership with the 92nd Street Y in New York City, former Rep. Barney Frank will be joined in conversation by noted television journalist Jeff Greenfield. Smart Conversations 2015 features dynamic and visionary thinkers, newsmakers, and entertainers in conversation via satellite from Manhattan. Tickets for this single lecture cost $10. Students are admitted free. Coffee, treats and conversation precede and follow each performance. To purchase tickets or for more information, call the Synagogue at 918-9353373 or email reservations@bnaiemunah.com. Equality Business Alliance Wednesday, April 22, 6 p.m. Boss Fitness Tulsa, 3509 S. Peoria Ave., Suite 300 The March Monthly Mixer Meeting will be at 6 p.m. Wednesday, April 22, at Boss Fitness Tulsa. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org. Join our event on Facebook, and send an invitation to everyone on your friends list. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Join the Equality Business Alliance Check the EBA Business Directory Find EBA on Facebook email EBA@OkEq.org Sleep Soundly Workshop Thursday, April 23, 7 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center A Sleep Soundly workshop, sponsored by the University of Tulsa Institute of Trauma, Adversity & Injustice, is designed to help you better understand the importance of sleep. The workshop will provide Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the 4/23/26, 4:05 PM �OkEq eNews April 2, 2015 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-2--2015.html?... you with tools and strategies to foster high-quality sleep and address common sleep problems. For more information, call 918-631-3976. advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Equality Gala, The Road to Equality Cox Business Center Ballroom Saturday, April 25, 6:30 p.m. cocktail reception, 8 p.m. dinner and program This year's Equality Gala, Oklahomans for Equality's premier fundraiser and Tulsa's most swankified, fabulous event, celebrates OkEq's 35th anniversary. The money raised through the Gala each year helps provide support and programming for LGBT Oklahomans and allies in the sixth-largest gay community center in the world -- right here in Tulsa, Oklahoma. In 2014, more than 48,000 individuals participated in programming and services at the Equality Center. Your support through the Gala helps make those services possible. ~ATURDAV. APRIL 25, 2015 COX BU~NE~~ CENTER BALLROOM 6-JOPM COCICTAIL RE:CE:PTI0N &00PM DINNO AND PROGRAM <Ot r '-r r,f()Cl",,110, Ou ~7~•m Cl! 1-Nl 01 >OE: ,r ...,_,O:E"OCl!C Individual tickets and sponsorships are available. Please click here for more information. Tulsa Pride Rainbow Run Downtown Tulsa Sunday, June 7, 9 a.m.-noon We're gearing up for this summer's Tulsa Pride Rainbow Run, with a timed 5K and a fun run and walk. The Rainbow Run benefits Tulsa Pride and Oklahomans for Equality. Registration is coming soon, but sponsorships are now available, ranging from $100 to $2,500. RAINBOW RUN For sponsorship information, please click here. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Keith Hunt, McGraw Realtors ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. - - - - - ·- - - - - - Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. 4/23/26, 4:05 PM �OkEq eNews April 2, 2015 7 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-2--2015.html?... McGraw R1'AL T ORS Looking to buy or sell your dream home? I can help! Survivors of Incest Anonymous Contact Keith Hunt Today Every Saturday 12:30 pm (918) 513-13-94 khunt@mcgrawok.com SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org TahlEquality 5K Fun Run/Walk and Easter Egg Hunt Northeastern State University, Centennial Plaza Drive, Tahlequah Saturday, April 4, 8 a.m. Participate in the TahlEquality 5K Run/Walk and Easter egg hunt to raise money for TahlEquality Pride. Everyone has a chance to win prizes. TahlEquality is a nonprofit LGBTQ2/straight alliance promoting equal rights for the residents of Tahlequah and the rest of Oklahoma. ~,i~ ..~ "1Pt,~ 5 K. /• ~ Fun Run; ~alk & Easter Egg Hunt .~ ~~~ April 4th, 8:00am ,,;., NSU Centennial Plaza Drive ,P~ ., f' '1'te-Pegistration costs: $25: SK run with t-shirt $20: 1 mile fun run/walk with t-shirt $15: Children 12 & under with t-shirt, 1 mile fun run $10: Children 12 & under Easter egg hunt with t-shirt Registration day of: Add $5 Click here for prices and to register. Everyone wi ll have the chance to win prizes! Pre-register here: tahlequality.eventbrite.com I Easter Services at the Parish Church of St. Jerome Thursday, April 2, through Sunday, April 5 205 W. King St. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno The Parish Church of St. Jerome invites you to join its members in Holy Week services: Maundy Thursday service: Thursday, April 2, 6:30 p.m. Stations of the Cross: Friday, April 3, noon Good Friday Service: Friday, April 3, 6:30 p.m. Easter Vigil: Saturday, April 4, 7:30 p.m. Easter Sunday Feast of the Resurrection with Strings and Brass: 11 a.m. Guys Dine Too Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals Tuesday, April 7, 6:30 p.m. BurnCo BBQ, 1738 S. Boston Ave. 4/23/26, 4:05 PM �OkEq eNews April 2, 2015 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-2--2015.html?... Guys Dine Too is a social program for gay men and the i r m a le allies/ friends. It meets at a different restaurant every month. Spread the word, and please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan to attend. "The Hill" documentary Thursday, April 9, 6:30-9 p.m., free Living Arts, 307 E. M.B. Brady St. Set upon building a new school, the city of New Haven, Conn., claims eminent domain over the UJpper Hill neighborhood. While the city argues that building the new school corresponds to a need for better school facilities, the residents of the area, mostly struggling low-income African-American families, say the decision corresponds to the city's determination to "sanitize" the neighborhood, which is near the Yale-New Haven Hospital. With the help of community leaders and a civil rights lawyer, the unlikely group of neighbors decides to contest the city's claim and take the case to federal court. "The Hill" is a fascinating look at the complex issues surrounding urban planning, gentrification and economic renewal. View the trailer at thehillfilm.com/#trialer. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. "Inequality in American Society" Lecture University of Tulsa Lectureship in Politics and Law Chapman Hall Lecture Hall, 2830 E. Fifth St. Thursday, April 9, 7 p.m. Dean Baker, co-director of the Center for Economic and Policy Research in Washington, D.C., will present this year's TU Lectureship in Politics and Law. The lecture, is free and open to the public. lectureshipin Politicsandlaw2015 ~ Inequality in American Society - Should We Blame the Market~ Thursday, April 9 The topic of Baker's talk is "Inequality in American Society: Should We Blame the Market?" Baker is frequently cited in economics reporting in major media outlets, including the New York Times, Washington Post, CNN, CNBC and National Public Radio. He writes a weekly column for the Guardian Unlimited (UK), the Huffington Post and ~:~~;:~!~!:~~= 7:00 p.m. 28:11 E. 5th Street Dean Baker i:~pus Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. 4/23/26, 4:05 PM �OkEq eNews April 2, 2015 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-2--2015.html?... TruthOut. His blog, Beat the Press, features commentary on economic reporting. His analyses have appeared in many major publications, including the Atlantic Monthly, the Washington Post, the London Financial Times and the New York Daily News. He received his Ph.D. in economics from the University of Michigan. He previously worked as a senior economist at the Economic Policy Institute and as an assistant professor at Bucknell University. He has also worked as a consultant for the World Bank, the Joint Economic Committee of the U.S. Congress and the OECD's Trade Union Advisory Council. He has written numerous books and was the author of the weekly online commentary on economic reporting for the Economic Reporting Review from 1996 - 2006. Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma invites you to participate in the election and coronation of Empress VIII. Cast your vote Friday, April 3, 9-11 p.m., at the Tulsa Eagle, 1338 E. Third St. or Saturday, April 4, 1-3 p.m., at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center Then join us for C RO A TIO VIII HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The ICAO is now taking ads for program and online ticket sales. Complete weekend information can be found on the Coronation VIII pages of our website www.impcourtok.webs.com or email us at impcourtok@gmail.com Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org I.C.A.O. is a Nonprofit 501(c)(3) Charity Organization Body Electric Workshop April 18 & 19 4/23/26, 4:05 PM �OkEq eNews April 2, 2015 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-2--2015.html?... Men, come explore your erotic potential through the mind, the body and the heart using conscious breath, movement, process work and massage. When men take responsibility for their erotic education, they realize how much there is to learn about awakening the erotic energy that lies within all of us. This 2 day workshop focuses on the entire body and is conducted in a setting that is playful, safe and honoring. A few benefits of this work are: * The participant gains greater acceptance of himself as an erotic being, both physically and mentally. * He discovers ways to develop a more satisfying erotic relationship with others. * He becomes more aware of spiritual dimensions in his erotic explorations. Completion of CBE is a prerequisite for attending most advanced workshops and retreats offered by Body Electric. Limited scholarships are available. For more information please contact André at Tulsa@b-e-school.com or visit our website at www.thebodyelectricschol.com. Russell Bennett Faith and Courage Award Raindrop Turkish House 4444 W. Houston St. (East 81st Street), Broken Arrow Thursday, April 30, 6 p.m. Join us for the Tulsa Interfaith Alliance's annual Russell Bennett Faith and Courage Award celebration at the Raindrop Turkish House in Broken Arrow. This year's recipient of the award is the Rev. Dr. Marlin Lavanhar, senior minister at All Souls Unitarian Church, who will give a keynote address. Rabbi Jack Moline, executive director of the National Interfaith Alliance, will be a special guest. Tickets are $30 and include a buffet dinner with meat and vegetarian options. They can be purchased at this link. For questions, or to register via phone or mail, please email tulsainterfaithalliance@gmail.com. The Rev. Dr. Marlin Lavanhar The Tulsa Interfaith Alliance is a nonpartisan advocacy group that monitors the line separating church and state. For more information, visit its website at this link. Dining Out for Life 4/23/26, 4:05 PM �OkEq eNews April 2, 2015 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-2--2015.html?... Thursday, April 30 Participating restaurants will donate 25 percent or more of your bill to H.O.P.E. -- Health Outreach Prevention Education -- on this day to help pay for local HIV services. The restaurants' generosity, coupled with your participation, will make a very real difference in the lives of thousands of men, women, and children throughout the Tulsa area. H.O.P.E is a nonprofit 501(c)3 organization that provides HIV and hepatitis C testing for the Tulsa community. Dining~ .,.l .~U~ Dine Out, Fight AIDS Find participating restaurants here. ---- -----For more information, visit H.O.P.E. Testing online at hopetesting.org. Grateful Day Foundation Spaghetti Dinner Fellowship Congregational Church UCC 2900 S. Harvard Ave. Saturday, April 18, 5-7 p.m. Please join the Grateful Day Foundation for our annual Spaghetti Dinner. Dinner includes salad, bread sticks and your choice of vegan or meaty spaghetti with or without meatballs. Felow~ Coo,egaooral Cluchtx:C 2900 S.Harvard Tusa, OK April 18 5pm~7pm ~ IIOOA ~~i~JJm@ Meals are $10 for adults and $5 for children. We will have a door prize, too! All proceeds from this night will go directly to help finance our annual HIV Wellness Retreat. For more information about the Grateful Day Foundation, visit our website at gratefulday.org. HIV Wellness Retreat 2015 Registration deadline is July 17 The Grateful Day Foundation is excited to announce the dates for this year's HIV Wellness Retreat. The Grateful Day Foundation seeks to fill gaps in services in Oklahoma's HIV/ JP <01L.JL:in.dl.a.ti<0:in. JI:in.c. AIDS wellness community Taking a leap of faith for those living with HIV/ AIDS through collaboration with partner organizations, providing transportation to those in need, and hosting an Annual HIV Wellness Retreat. This year's retreat will be held Aug. 21- 23 at the beautiful Sky Ranch Cave Springs in Quapaw. www.skyranch.org tjrAteful .,z)Afl We are looking forward to another fun and informative retreat this year. Applications can be found on our website, www.gratefulday.org as well as at Tulsa Cares, Parish Church of St. Jerome, HOPE Testing, OSU Specialty Clinic and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (OkEq). This retreat is designed and planned around the needs of the clients we 4/23/26, 4:05 PM �OkEq eNews April 2, 2015 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-2--2015.html?... serve in our community. We will be hosting a number of workshops throughout the weekend as well as several fun things to do at the retreat. For more information, visit our website or contact us by phone. Contact info: 539.664.7206 www.gratefulday.org Research opportunity Improving quality of life for LGBTQ people Dane Whicker, a doctoral student in clinical psychology at Marquette University, and his faculty advisor, Dr. Ed de St. Aubin, invite nonheterosexual men (i.e., gay, bisexual, queer) to participate in a research project aimed at improving the understanding of how gender, status, community and bias affect this group of individuals. An added incentive for taking the anonymous online survey, which is expected to take 30 to 45 minutes, is a lottery for at least 10 $50 Amazon.com gift cards. If you wish to participate, click here to find more information and the survey. LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea Ith ca re Bi I IOf Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. We want your Marriage Equality photos! If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to paul.allen@OkEq.org with " OK to use" in the subject line. Please include any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you, and 4/23/26, 4:05 PM �OkEq eNews April 2, 2015 13 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-2--2015.html?... congratulations! Equality Center Pride Store Available in the Pride Store, rainbow Oklahoma flag tees. Available in sizes S through 5XL, these short sleeve T's can be yours for only $20 each. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Surpassing the Love of Men' by Lillian Faderman You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center First published in 1981, this feminist classic began modestly as an academic essay on Emily Dickinson's love poems and letters to her future sister-in-law, Sue Gilbert. In her original introduction, Faderman recalled her surprise at finding these records of an erotic attachment between women that showed no evidence of guilt, anxiety, or the need for secrecy. Yet 60 or 70 years after they were written, the original letters had been bowdlerized by a niece of Dickinson's, who clearly found them too shocking for publication. Why, Faderman wondered, was passionate love between women, once almost universally applauded in the Western world, now almost universally condemned? She learned that the love between Dickinson and Gilbert had many precedents, and that it was only in the late 19th century that medical literature and anti-feminism combined to rank women who loved women "somewhere," as she puts it bluntly, "between necrophiliacs and those who had sex with chickens." 4/23/26, 4:05 PM �OkEq eNews April 2, 2015 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-2--2015.html?... For this edition, Faderman explains that she has resisted the urge to update her text, hoping that her exploration of romantic friendship, from French libertine literature through the dawn of feminism through the lesbian panic of the 1920s, will still serve as "solace and ammunition" for those hoping to find "a usable past." Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Volunt r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! ruLSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r------------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat noon-9 p.m. | Sun noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I ~------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 4:05 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/958c7ee7b24ab083f67e9fead99de592.pdf 078b836e85611669ad257dc9daded3d8 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-8th--2015.... eNews January 8th, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor 2015 MLK Parade Tax Preparation Equality Business Alliance Welcome to the eNews. Tax time will be here before you know it and marriage equality may have changed the way you file your taxes. Join us for a Tax Preparation Workshop on Tuesday, January 20th at 7:00 pm. For more info, email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Kelly Kirby, CPA EBA Fundraiser New Year, New You Basketball League Tulsa Pride 2015 PFLAG Tulsa ACA Assistance LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights EBA Sponsor Pearl District Makers' Market LGBT Shirt Quilt Marriage Equality Photos ------ Married filing jointly? In Oklahoma? Affordable Care Act got you confused? Let us help you file your 2014 tax returns! Reiki Sessions Imperial Court of All Oklahoma LGBTI Health Research Pride Store Kelly Kirby CPA Rainbow Library Certified Public Accountant Volunteer a professional corporation (918) 747-5466 4815 S Harvard, Ste 205 Tulsa, OK 74135 Find Us on Facebook kelly@kkirby.com www.kkirby.com Proudly serving Oklahoma's LGBTQ community since 1982. 2015 Martin Luther King Jr. Memorial Celebration & Parade Monday, January 19th, 2015; 11:00 am OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, January 15th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq 4/23/26, 3:38 PM �Firefox 2 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-8th--2015.... John Hope Franklin & Cincinnati Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. stated, "I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin but by the content of their character". Well, a new dream is that some day our children will not be judged for who they love or the make up of their family. This is a day to recognize equality and unity. GAMILY will be walking as a family in the parade and carrying posters. The plan is to meet at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center by 10:00 am and then carpool to the parade. After the parade, we will be eating as a family; enjoying a meal back at the Equality Center. Please RSVP at Gamily@OkEq.org to be a part of this wonderful gathering. members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days after meeting date. OkEq Art Exhibit The January exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the group exhibit titled; Transforming Hate ________ Counseling Services Tax Preparation Workshop Tuesday, January 20th, 2015; 7:00 pm On Tuesday, January 20th at 7:00 pm, OkEq will host a tax preparation workshop for newly married couples or for anyone thinking about getting married. Presented by Equality Business Alliance Member, Kelly Kirby, CPA, this workshop is a must for anyone who has any questions on how marriage equality can change the way you file your taxes. RSVP to Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Weekdays By appointment Adult individual and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Chelsey Dobbs 918-594-8568 Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The January Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, January 21st, 2015 at 6:00 pm. Hosted by The Hyatt Regency Tulsa, 100 E 2nd St, Tulsa, Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. 4/23/26, 3:38 PM �Firefox 3 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-8th--2015.... OK 74103. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 HYJ\TT REGENCY llllllllrllllul Hyatt Regency Tulsa 100 E 2nd St Tulsa, OK 74103 EBA Fundraiser at Dalesandro's Wednesday, January 28th, 2015; 6:00 - 10:00 pm Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a Dalesandro's Italian Cuisine 1742 S Boston Ave Tulsa, OK 74119 On Wednesday, January 28th, join the Equality Business Alliance for a fundraiser dinner at Dalesandro's Italian Cuisine from 6:00 - 10:00 pm. Located at 18th and Boston, Dalesandro's will donate a portion of the dinner sales from the night back to the EBA. Reservations are appreciated by calling Dalesandro's at 918.582.1551 New Year, New You Fitness Programming at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center GET F.I.T. - Wednesday and Thursday at 6:00 pm (Fun, Intense, Training) GET F.I.T. is an exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. The only requirement... keep moving through a combination of weight training and cardiovascular exercise. Wednesdays and Thursdays at 6:00 pm at the Equality Center. $5 for non-members and free to members... Come take your first steps to GET F.I.T. Facilitated by Brad Sullivan. On Wednesdays and Thursdays, GET F.I.T. sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org ChiWalking - Every other Saturday at 1:30 pm; Begins January 10th ChiWalking...Five Mindful Steps for Lifelong Health and Energy! Learn how to get aligned, engage your core, create balance, develop healthy habits and make walking a mindful practice. ChiWalking increases mobility, reduces pain, improves posture and balance, Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one 4/23/26, 3:38 PM �Firefox 4 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-8th--2015.... strengthens your muscles and loosens your joints. Faciliated by Jane McClain, Certified ChiWalking Instructor. Every other Saturday at 1:30 pm at the Equality Center. $5 for non-members and free to members. to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month; 6:30 pm 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Tulsa Metro Basketball League Winter Season Wednesday nights at 7:00 pm Winter Season is December through February The league plays 3 on 3 games on a half court each Wednesday night December through February at 7:00 pm. Tulsa Metro Basketball League is an offical program of OkEq and a member organization of the Equality Sports Alliance of Tulsa. Sign up on the OkEq Webstore for $50. Games are played at the Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center at 2021 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK. Daryn Drake will be the head coach for the new Basketball season. For more information about the league, please contact Basketball@OkEq.org. Tulsa Pride 2015 Public Planning Meeting Thursday, January 22nd, 2015; 7:00 pm Tulsa Pride will host a public planning meeting on Thursday, January 22nd at 7:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Everyone is invited to come by and help make Tulsa Pride 2015 the best pride ever. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual &. Transgender Elders 4/23/26, 3:38 PM �Firefox 5 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-8th--2015.... T U L S A e A WEEKEND OF PRIDE - JUNE 5-7, 2015 New PFLAG Tulsa Meeting 3rd Monday of Every Month, Starting January 19th; 6:30 pm The PFLAG Tulsa chapter will begin a satellite group meeting at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on the 3rd Monday of every month at 6:30 pm. The group will meet for the first time on Monday, January 19th. Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays promotes the PFLAG TULSA CHAPJ'E; health and well-being of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender persons, their families and friends. For more information on PFLAG Tulsa, visit www.pflagtulsa.org or call 918.749.4901 ----- Affordable Care Act Assistance In person assistance available Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Open enrollment is Nov 15th - Feb 15th, 2015 Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health insurance system to find the most affordable coverage that meets the consumer's needs. Onsite assistance will be available on: January 14th, 21st & 28th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm February 4th & 11th from 1:00 - 5:00 pm & 6:00 - 8:00 pm LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 4/23/26, 3:38 PM �Firefox 6 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-8th--2015.... Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare oklahomans for equality BILLOF RIGHTS Get F.I.T. Hea Ith ca re Bi I !Of Rig hts .org Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: ihelpTulsa.com II · I UL Home / Small Business IT Expertise J 11 ACA Assistance V Owner - ihelptulso.com (9 18) 605-8777 Tel: Web: www.ihelptulso.com Email: johnv@ihelptvlso.com "Are you getting a new computer or smart device from Santa? Do you need all of your files and email moved from your old computer to your new computer? Do you need help setting up your smart device? If so, contact www.ihelptulsa.com or call John at 918 605-8777!" Want to receive computer tips? Like us on Facebook: facebook.com/ ihelptulsa Pearl District Makers' Market Saturday, March 7th, 2015; 12:00 - 9:00 pm Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OkEq will host the Pearl District Makers' Market on Saturday March 7th from 12:00 to 9:00 pm. The market will feature local, handmade arts, crafts, goods, services, and live music, poetry and performances. For more info on the Pearl District Makers' Market, visit www.facebook.com/ pearlmakersmarket Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 3:38 PM �Firefox 7 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-8th--2015.... LOCAL ART~CRAFTS 1111W:l~_1}.10il POETRY - FOOD - FRIENDS LGBT Pride T-Shirt Quilt Project For the 35th Anniversary of Oklahomans for Equality, a quilt project has been started to make a quilt from of all kinds of LGBT related shirts. Pride would be best, but we welcome any and all LGBT shirts. Quality is not important since they will be cut up anyway. . ~. ~~ ../1,, ~ A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. ~ TULSA PRIDE 2010 Please bring your shirts to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center anytime between 12:00 pm and 9:00 pm Monday through Saturday. For more information, email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org We want your Marriage Equality photos! If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to Lucas.Green@OkEq.org with "OK to use" in the Subject. Please include any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you! Reiki Sessions Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno By Appointment Dennis R Neill Equality Center Reiki - pronounced "ray-key" is a life energy balancing and stress reduction technique that uses chakra points for a non-impact healing session. Reiki promotes healing in countless areas including everything from physical injuries and aches, to mental and spiritual traumas and hurts, to overall balancing in life. It does not use or replace traditional medicine, but instead uses Universal Life Force Energy already inside us all to go to the areas of greatest need. The practitioner acts as a conduit to help the energy move more freely to those areas. Held at the Equality Center, a session lasting approximately 1 1/2 hours is $75 for non OkEq members and $50 for OkEq members. A sliding scale is also available. Monica Haney is a certified Reiki Practitioner and is happy to answer your call or text at 918.381.1656 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact 4/23/26, 3:38 PM �Firefox 8 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-8th--2015.... Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org Join the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma and Imperial Crown Princes/Princess for Reign VII John & Dakota as they host "Turnabout 2015" to benefit The Trevor Project. Saturday January 10th, 2015 at Area 18 (39 E 18th St) 8:00 -10:00 pm 21+ Only EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Donations can be made online at www.impcourtok.webs.com or by contacting us at impcourtok@gmail.com Be a part of an important study of LGBTI health Participants who meet the following criteria are encouraged to participate: • if you are 18 - 25 years old • if you identify as a lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, or other nonheterosexual person • if you currently reside in Oklahoma The research study will require approximately 30- 45 minutes and you will be asked to provide an email address to which a link for the survey may be sent. All questions are answered online through a secured website hosted by Qualtrics survey software company. Participants will be asked to complete a demographics questionnaire followed by 6 brief self-report instruments. At the end of the survey, the first 250 urban and first 250 rural participants will receive a code for $10 in credit with giftcertificates.com. This credit can be used to purchase gift cards for businesses like AMC, Bath and Bodyworks, Buckle, Buffalo Wild Wings, or many other wellknown companies. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. To inquire more about the study or request any additional information, 4/23/26, 3:38 PM �Firefox 9 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-8th--2015.... contact the researchers at: Douglas Knutson, by phone 405.459.0241 or email douglas.knutson@okstate.edu Dr. Sue C. Jacobs, by phone 405.744.9895 or email sue.c.jacobs@okstate.edu --Dr. Melissa Hakman by phone 405.208.5397 or email mhakman@okcu.edu. For more information or to participate, go to http://tiny.cc/oklgbti2 ---- Equality Center Pride Store Available in the Pride Store, the 2015 Tulsa Metro Hottest Firefighters calendar for only $10.00. Proceeds benefits the Tulsa Firefighter Educational Clown Organization. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'What Exceptional Leaders Know' by Tracy Spears and Wally Schmader You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center WHAT EXCEPTIONAL Co-written by OkEq Board of Advisor, Tracy LEADERS KNOW Spears, 'What Exceptional Leaders Know' delivers high-impact skills, strategies and ideas in a practical and user-friendly way. Readers will find information they can begin using right away to become a much more effective and influential leader. The recommendations are organized into six sections, each focused on a key set of highlevel leadership skills. These ideas and Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ---- High Impac t Skills, Strategies &Ideas for Leaders Mary Jones Program Coordinator 4/23/26, 3:38 PM �Firefox 10 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-January-8th--2015.... strategies have worked for hundreds of topperforming leaders. Spend some time with this book and you will know What Exceptional Leaders Know. Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Tracy Spears & Wally Schmader Check for this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r-----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L-----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 3:38 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/437e8de492a27cf9641ab7541788953b.pdf 446fce45d1e588e3911d17d8eb839a82 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews April 15, 2015 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-15--2015.html... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews April 15, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Legislative Alert Barney Frank documentary David Dymond service Welcome to the eNews. Contact your Tulsa city councilor to urge him or her to vote for an amendment to the city's Fair Housing Ordinance that would include sexual orientation and gender identity among the protected classes. See below for more information. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: ihelptulsa.com Recently received a new computer or smart device? Do you need all of your files and email moved from your old computer to your new computer? Do you need help setting up your smart device? If so, contact johnv@ihelptulsa.com, log onto ihelptulsa.com or call John at 918-605-8777. - Want to receive computer tips? Like @HelpTulsa.com us on Facebook: facebook.com/ihelptulsa Equality Business Alliance Equality Gala SCOTUS Town Hall First Thursday Opening - -Art Tulsa Pride planning meeting Gay Pride Bingo Rainbow Run MOREcolor PFLAG Tulsa Sleep Soundly Workshop EBA Sponsor 40 Under 40 Day of Silence Body Electric Workshop Russell Bennett Award Dining Out for Life Grateful Day Spaghetti Dinner Herland Retreat Legislative Alert Tulsa City Council City Hall, One Technology Center 175 E. Second St. 918-596-1990 An amendment that would include sexual orientation and gender identity to the protected classes in the city of Tulsa's Fair Housing Ordinance is on the agenda for the City Council's 6 p.m. Thursday meeting. Contact your city councilor in advance of the meeting to urge him or her to vote for this amendment. Show up for the meeting if you can to lend your support. HIV Wellness Retreat JOLT Jackpot Golf Classic Camp Anytown Research opportunity LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Marriage Equality Photos --Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer 4/23/26, 4:06 PM �OkEq eNews April 15, 2015 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-15--2015.html... Click here to find your councilor and contact information. Find Us on Facebook Live from NY's 92nd Street Y with Barney Frank April 20, 7 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tulsa's Congregation B'nai Emunah will broadcast "Barney Frank: In His Own Words" as part of the Smart Conversations 2015 speaker series. Broadcast in partnership with the 92nd Street Y in New York City, former Rep. Barney Frank will be joined in conversation by noted television journalist Jeff Greenfield. Smart Conversations 2015 features dynamic and visionary thinkers, newsmakers, and entertainers in conversation via satellite from Manhattan. Tickets for this single lecture cost $10. Students are admitted free. Coffee, treats and conversation precede and follow each performance. To purchase tickets or for more information, call the Synagogue at 918-9353373 or email reservations@bnaiemunah.com. OkEq Art Exhibit The April exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features works by Karin Susan Cermak. ________ David Dymond service During SAGE Tuesday, April 21, 10:30 a.m. The Rainbow Flag at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has been lowered to half staff in memory of David Dymond. Actively involved in SAGE Tulsa since its inception more than five years ago, David was a strong supporter of Oklahomans for Equality. He retired from Greyhound Lines Inc. after 38 years of service. He was an avid pet lover and showed compassion to every stray animal he came across. He was engaged in civic duties and served the Tulsa County Election Board as a volunteer. On Tuesday, April 7, he died on the steps of the polling station where he had arrived before sunrise to work the Senate District 11 Election. May he rest in peace, and may his family and friends find comfort in their memories of David. He will be remembered at a memorial service during the SAGE meeting at 10:30 a.m. Tuesday, April 21, at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Counseling Services Equality Business Alliance Wednesday, April 22, 6 p.m. Boss Fitness Tulsa, 3509 S. Peoria Ave., Suite 300 Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance 4/23/26, 4:06 PM �OkEq eNews April 15, 2015 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-15--2015.html... Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 The March Monthly Mixer Meeting will be at 6 p.m. Wednesday, April 22, at Boss Fitness Tulsa. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org. Join our event on Facebook, and send an invitation to everyone on your friends list. Join the Equality Business Alliance Check the EBA Business Directory Find EBA on Facebook email EBA@OkEq.org Equality Gala, The Road to Equality Cox Business Center Ballroom Saturday, April 25, 6:30 p.m. cocktail reception, 8 p.m. dinner and program Counseling Services This year's Equality Gala, Oklahomans for Equality's premier fundraiser and Tulsa's most swankified, fabulous event, celebrates OkEq's 35th anniversary. The money raised through the Gala each year helps provide support and programming for LGBT Oklahomans and allies in the sixth-largest gay community center in the world -- right here in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on ~ATURDAV. APRIL 25, 2015 income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org COX BU~NE~~ CENTER BALLROOM In 2014, more than 48,000 individuals participated in programming and services at the Equality Center. Your support through the Gala helps make those services possible. 6-30PM COCICTAIL RECEPTION 8,00PM DINNO AND PROGRAM COC F01"'1'1. Alli <Ot 110'€1 NfOI"' r,o, o.. ~7<J.,'lQ7 SOS Group Ct H1l U( '10( OT ...,_,0:("00IG Individual tickets and sponsorships are available. Please click here for more information. SCOTUS Town Hall Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday, April 28, 7:30-9 p.m. Grieving Well The Supreme Court of the United States will hear oral arguments in four 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have 4/23/26, 4:06 PM �OkEq eNews April 15, 2015 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-15--2015.html... marriage equality cases on the morning of April 28 in Washington, D.C. On that night, gather with us at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to hear OkEq Director of Advocacy Mike Redman discuss the arguments presented and recap the day's hearing. Then the Oklahoma marriage equality lawsuit plaintiffs will discuss a historic gathering of marriage equality plaintiffs from across the nation, held the night before the oral arguments, and a rally on the Supreme Court steps that day. The Oklahoma plaintiffs will attend both events in Washington and fly back Tuesday afternoon in time to meet with us. Don't miss this exciting and informative event! Click "Join" on our Facebook event page. First Thursday Art Opening and Exhibit 'Paths of Reconciliation' and the 'Shower of Stoles' Thursday, May 7, 6-9 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather The May Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the "Paths of Reconciliation" and the "Shower of Stoles," beginning with a reception from 6-9 p.m. Thursday, May 7, and continuing throughout the month. The Shower of Stoles display began as a plea by Martha Juillerat who, upon coming out, chose to set aside her ordination in the Presbyterian Church. She, along with her partner, Tammy Lindahl, pressed upon their presbytery that they were only two of hundreds of LGBTQ people of faith who are active participants in the church. After asking LGBT friends and clergy to send a stole to display on the day she was to set aside her ordination, Martha received 80 stoles almost overnight and over 200 by the following spring. The stoles became a symbol of the church's loss of faithful LGBTQ leaders and clergy. In 2006, Martha Juillerat retired and gave the collection of well over 1,000 items to the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force's Institute for Welcoming Resources. The items in the display will include 100 stoles and similar items from the Shower of Stoles project. Each item is accompanied by a personal story of the person behind the item and their reason for donating the item. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Services and Advocacy for Cay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Paths of Reconciliation is an Oklahomans for Equality program that attempts to address issues of belief or faith and how they relate to sexuality. Paths of Reconciliation's display includes items from many different people and organizations of belief or faith. These items will be displayed adjacent to the art gallery at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/23/26, 4:06 PM �OkEq eNews April 15, 2015 5 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-15--2015.html... Tulsa Pride planning meeting Thursday, April 30, 7 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Get involved and help us make Tulsa Pride 2015 the best Pride ever! Join us for a planning meeting at the Equality Center on Thursday, April 30. See you there! Ade ~~ Tu Ls A F?wEEKEND OF PRIDE - JUNE 5-7, 2015 Gay Pride Bingo with Chelsea Starr and DJ Crystal Friday, May 8, 7-9:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center We've had so much fun with our previous Tulsa Pride Gay Pride Bingo nights that we've decided to do it again! This time Chelsea Starr, the newly crowned Absolute Sovereign Empress VIII of the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma, will be our host, and Crystal will again be our DJ. If you've been with us before, you know what a blast this is. If you haven't, you've been missing out! Either way, you don't want to miss the fun this time, so put this on your calendar! Admission is $10, and proceeds go toward making Tulsa Pride 2015 the best Pride ever! Click "Join" on our Facebook event page. DJ Crystal Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Chelsea Star, Absolute Sovereign Empress VII 4/23/26, 4:06 PM �OkEq eNews April 15, 2015 6 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-15--2015.html... Tulsa Pride Rainbow Run Downtown Tulsa Sunday, June 7, 9 a.m.-noon We're gearing up for this summer's Tulsa Pride Rainbow Run, with a timed 5K and a fun run and walk. The Rainbow Run benefits Tulsa Pride and Oklahomans for Equality. Registration is coming soon, but sponsorships are now available, ranging from $100 to $2,500. RAINBOW RUN For sponsorship information, please click here. To register, click here. - please -- MOREcolor regional fine arts exhibition Call for Entries May 1 submission deadline MORE color . i . Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. • Oklahomans for Equality is pleased to call for entries to the 2015 MOREcolor regional juried exhibition and sale of fine art. Long a tradition to celebrate LGBT Pride through the arts, MOREcolor strives to be artistfriendly and encourage innovative work. The exhibition will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Artists receive 70 percent of their sales. Cash prizes will be awarded, including a cash Juror's Award and a People's Choice award. There is a single entry fee of $10 for up to five entries. Submission deadline is May 1. The MOREcolor art show runs June 18-21. Click here for more information. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. ------- New PFLAG Tulsa Meeting Third Monday of every month, next meeting April 20, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The PFLAG Tulsa Chapter has begun a satellite group meeting on the third Monday of every month at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The group will next meet on Monday, April 20. Parents, Families and Friends of PFLAG Lesbians and Gays promotes the health and well-being TULSA CH of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender people, their families and friends. For more information on PFLAG Tulsa, visit www.pflagtulsa.org or call 918-749-4901 --- Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Sleep Soundly Workshop Thursday, April 23, 7 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center A Sleep Soundly workshop, sponsored by the University of Tulsa Institute of Trauma, Adversity & Injustice, is designed to help you better understand the importance of sleep. The workshop will provide you with tools and strategies to foster high-quality Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. 4/23/26, 4:06 PM �OkEq eNews April 15, 2015 7 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-15--2015.html... sleep and address common sleep problems. For more information, call 918-631-3976. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Keith Hunt, McGraw Realtors Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. McGraw R LA LT A Murder of Storytellers R Looking to buy or sell your dream home? I can help! Contact Keith Hunt Today (918) 513-13-94 khunt@mcgrawok.com r1] ~ (al .,,, LLADINC lllA~lSTATl o,; C0MPANl£S ,-," TH( WOK.LO Oklahoma Magazine's '40 Under 40' April issue Four members of Oklahomans for Equality are among the community leaders in Oklahoma magazine's "40 Under 40" feature this year. That's 10 percent! Included are Stuart Ashworth, Moises Echeverria, Jeromee Scot and Dr. John Rogers. We are proud to call them our own! Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org See their stories here. Day of Silence A school near you Friday, April 17 GLSEN's Day of Silence is a national day of action in which students across the country vow to take a form of silence to call attention to the silencing effect of anti-LGBT bullying and harassment in schools. Founded in 1996, the Day of Silence has become the largest single student-led action toward creating safer schools for all, regardless of sexual orientation, gender identity or gender expression. From the first Day of Silence at the University of Virginia in 1996, to the organizing efforts in over 8,000 middle schools, high schools, colleges and universities across the country in 2008, its textured history reflects its diversity in both numbers and reach. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and 4/23/26, 4:06 PM �OkEq eNews April 15, 2015 8 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-15--2015.html... GLSEN is the Gay, Lesbian & Straight Education Network. Teresa Reno Body Electric Workshop April 18 & 19 Men, come explore your erotic potential through the mind, the body and the heart using conscious breath, movement, process work and massage. When men take responsibility for their erotic education, they realize how much there is to learn about awakening the erotic energy that lies within all of us. This 2 day workshop focuses on the entire body and is conducted in a setting that is playful, safe and honoring. A few benefits of this work are: Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals * The participant gains greater acceptance of himself as an erotic being, both physically and mentally. * He discovers ways to develop a more satisfying erotic relationship with others. * He becomes more aware of spiritual dimensions in his erotic explorations. Completion of CBE is a prerequisite for attending most advanced workshops and retreats offered by Body Electric. Limited scholarships are available. For more information please contact André at Tulsa@b-e-school.com or visit our website at www.thebodyelectricschol.com. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org Russell Bennett Faith and Courage Award Raindrop Foundation Turkish Cultural House 4444 W. Houston St. (81st Street east of Garnett Road), Broken Arrow Thursday, April 30, 6 p.m. Join us for the Tulsa Interfaith Alliance's annual Russell Bennett Faith and Courage Award celebration at the Raindrop Turkish House in Broken Arrow. This year's recipient of the award is the Rev. Dr. Marlin Lavanhar, senior minister at All Souls Unitarian Church, who will give a keynote address. Rabbi Jack Moline, executive director of the National Interfaith Alliance, will be a special guest. Tickets are $30 and include a buffet dinner with meat and vegetarian options. They can be purchased at this link. For questions, or to register via phone or mail, please email tulsainterfaithalliance@gmail.com. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. The Rev. Dr. Marlin Lavanhar The Tulsa Interfaith Alliance is a nonpartisan advocacy group that monitors the line separating church and state. For more information, visit its 4/23/26, 4:06 PM �OkEq eNews April 15, 2015 9 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-15--2015.html... website at this link. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Dining Out for Life Open every day Thursday, April 30 Participating restaurants will donate 25 percent or more of your bill to H.O.P.E. -- Health Outreach Prevention Education -- on this day to help pay for local HIV services. The restaurants' generosity, coupled with your participation, will make a very real difference in the lives of thousands of men, women, and children throughout the Tulsa area. H.O.P.E is a nonprofit 501(c)3 organization that provides HIV and hepatitis C testing for the Tulsa community. Dining~ ul~~~~ Dine Out, Fight AIDS Find restaurants here. -participating --- ---For more information, visit H.O.P.E. Testing online at hopetesting.org. Grateful Day Foundation Spaghetti Dinner Fellowship Congregational Church UCC 2900 S. Harvard Ave. Saturday, April 18, 5-7 p.m. Please join the Grateful Day Foundation for our annual Spaghetti Dinner. Dinner includes salad, bread sticks and your choice of vegan or meaty spaghetti with or without meatballs. Felows/J;) Colvegaooral Cluch I.CC 2900 S.Harvard Tusa,OK April 18 5pm~7pm "-J'-1!1,-.·ltOOA ~~ijUJJm@ Meals are $10 for adults and $5 for children. We will have a door prize, too! All proceeds from this night will go directly to help finance our annual HIV Wellness Retreat. For more information about the Grateful Day Foundation, visit our website at gratefulday.org. Herland Retreat Roman Nose State Park, Watonga May 1-3 The Herland Spring Retreat is set for May 1-3 at Roman Nose State Park, just outside Watonga. From Friday Night dinner through Sunday Brunch, the annual Herland Retreats are a great way to get to know your sisters from around the state (and all over). Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Mark your calendars and schedule some Sister time! Questions or concens? Email herland@herlandsisters.org. 4/23/26, 4:06 PM �OkEq eNews April 15, 2015 10 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-15--2015.html... Click here for more information. i=.==-=-~ ~ - '7'-11\ll"J-- HIV Wellness Retreat 2015 Registration deadline is July 17 The Grateful Day Foundation is excited to announce the dates for this year's HIV Wellness Retreat. The Grateful Day Foundation seeks to fill gaps in services in Oklahoma's HIV/ ]F <011.JLl!'ll.dl.SJ..ti<O l!'lL ][l!'ll.<C AIDS wellness community Taking a leap of faith for those living with HIV/AIDS through collaboration with partner organizations, providing transportation to those in need, and hosting an Annual HIV Wellness Retreat. This year's retreat will be held Aug. 21- 23 at the beautiful Sky Ranch Cave Springs in Quapaw. www.skyranch.org Qrnteful ~A!J Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org We are looking forward to another fun and informative retreat this year. Applications can be found on our website, www.gratefulday.org as well as at Tulsa Cares, Parish Church of St. Jerome, HOPE Testing, OSU Specialty Clinic and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (OkEq). This retreat is designed and planned around the needs of the clients we serve in our community. We will be hosting a number of workshops throughout the weekend as well as several fun things to do at the retreat. For more information, visit our website or contact us by phone. Contact info: 539.664.7206 www.gratefulday.org JOLT Jackpot Golf Classic The Canyons at Blackjack Ridge 1801 N. McKinley Ave., Sand Springs Saturday, May 16, 10 a.m. Let your golf game pay off for OkEq's JOLT bowling league. This fundraiser will feature cash prizes for first-, second- and third-place teams. Fourperson teams will compete in a scramble format. Registration is now open and costs $75 per person or $300 per team. Contact Curtis Austin at curtisaustin33@hotmail.com or Al Warren at 918-361-8739. Camp Anytown July 19-25, registration deadline is July 3 Camp Anytown 2015 will be held July 19-25 at Dwight Mission Camp near Vian. Incoming sophomores, juniors, and seniors from across Oklahoma are eligible to participate in this awardwinning, human relations camp, which promotes 4/23/26, 4:06 PM �OkEq eNews April 15, 2015 11 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-15--2015.html... self-esteem, good citizenship, and leadership in an atmosphere steeped in rich diversity. The Anytown program ranks among the preeminent human relations experiences in Oklahoma. p~ ARINC cmzENs 1<.011e For additional information, contact the Oklahoma Center for Community and Justice office at 918-583-1361 or email info@occjok.org. Click here to apply. Research opportunity Improving quality of life for LGBTQ people Dane Whicker, a doctoral student in clinical psychology at Marquette University, and his faculty advisor, Dr. Ed de St. Aubin, invite nonheterosexual men (i.e., gay, bisexual, queer) to participate in a research project aimed at improving the understanding of how gender, status, community and bias affect this group of individuals. An added incentive for taking the anonymous online survey, which is expected to take 30 to 45 minutes, is a lottery for at least 10 $50 Amazon.com gift cards. If you wish to participate, click here to find more information and the survey. LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea Ith ca re Bi I IOf Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. We want your Marriage Equality photos! 4/23/26, 4:06 PM �OkEq eNews April 15, 2015 12 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-15--2015.html... If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to paul.allen@OkEq.org with " OK to use" in the subject line. Please include any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you, and congratulations! --- Equality Center Pride Store Available in the Pride Store, rainbow Oklahoma flag tees. Available in sizes S through 5XL, these short sleeve T's can be yours for only $20 each. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Living with the Diagnosis: Youth with HIV/AIDS' by Kenneth McIntosh and Ida Walker You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/23/26, 4:06 PM �OkEq eNews April 15, 2015 13 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-15--2015.html... Ethan Castillo had it all. He was popular; he surfed; and he had good friends at Shore View High. Then one night of unprotected sex changed everything. Now he has to learn to live with a positive diagnosis for HIV -- but help comes from a most unexpected source. HIV/AIDS is a scary and dangerous disease. But it can't be spread by: • shaking hands with someone who has HIV/AIDS • hugging someone who has HIV/AIDS • sharing eating utensils with someone who has HIV/AIDS • being in the same room with someone who has HIV/AIDS • touching something that someone with HIV/AIDS has touched • breathing the same air as someone with HIV/AIDS The only way to become infected with HIV is through the transfer of certain body fluids. This book will tell you more. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Volu r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r------------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat noon-9 p.m. | Sun noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I ~------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 4:06 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/25988450878392de400347d0d5a51216.pdf f09067efef1fb34ec5dfec64c9e29dcc PDF Text Text OkEq eNews April 22, 2015 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-22--2015.html... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews April 22, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Equality Gala SCOTUS Town Hall Equality Business Alliance Welcome to the eNews. Contact your Tulsa city councilor to urge him or her to vote for an amendment to the city's Fair Housing Ordinance that would include sexual orientation and gender identity among the protected classes. See below for more information. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Keith Hunt, McGraw Realtors Thank the City Council Sleep Soundly Workshop First -Thursday - - -Art -Opening -Tulsa Pride planning meeting MOREcolor Gay Pride Bingo Rainbow Run PFLAG Tulsa McGraw EBA Sponsor R hALTO R . 40 Under 40 Looking to buy or sell your dream home? Laverne Cox trip I can help! Russell Bennett Award Contact Keith Hunt Today Dining Out for Life (918) 513-13-94 Herland Retreat khunt@mcgrawok.com ra @ "#, ~ ~ llADINC R.lAl,..lSTATl Guys Dine Too COMPANICS ,,y' THl WOUO HIV Wellness Retreat JOLT Jackpot Golf Classic Equality Gala, The Road to Equality Cox Business Center Ballroom Saturday, April 25, 6:30 p.m. cocktail reception, 8 p.m. dinner and program This year's Equality Gala, Oklahomans for Equality's premier fundraiser and Tulsa's most swankified, fabulous event, celebrates OkEq's 35th anniversary. O~lAHOl'W'i{ ~R E:OUoil!Y Camp Anytown Survey Research opportunity LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Marriage - - Equality - - -Photos -Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer The money raised through the Gala each year helps provide support and programming for LGBT Oklahomans and allies in the sixth-largest gay community center in the world -- right here in Tulsa, Oklahoma. ~ATURDAY. APRIL 25. 2015 4/23/26, 4:08 PM �OkEq eNews April 22, 2015 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-22--2015.html... LUfl IIU\INt.\\ Lt.Nlt.R IIRLLRUUl'l In 2014, more than 48,000 individuals participated in programming and services at the Equality Center. Your support through the Gala helps make those services possible. Find Us on Facebook 6.30PM COCICTAIL RE:CE:PTI0N 8.00PM DINNO AND PROGRAM COCO fO rl'< Alli <Ot 110,::1 n'°"""ro• CA&.. 91&7.0-•~ Cl! H1l 0{ MO€ <1 .,.,_,Oc,OOIG Individual tickets and sponsorships are available. Please click here for more information. SCOTUS Town Hall Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday, April 28, 7:30-9 p.m. OkEq Art Exhibit The April exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features works by Karin Susan Cermak. ________ The Supreme Court of the United States will hear oral arguments in four marriage equality cases on the morning of April 28 in Washington, D.C. On that night, gather with us at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to hear OkEq Director of Advocacy Mike Redman discuss the arguments presented and recap the day's hearing. Then the Oklahoma marriage equality lawsuit plaintiffs will discuss a historic gathering of marriage equality plaintiffs from across the nation, held the night before the oral arguments, and a rally on the Supreme Court steps that day. The Oklahoma plaintiffs will attend both events in Washington and fly back Tuesday afternoon in time to meet with us. Don't miss this exciting and informative event! Click "Join" on our Facebook event page. Equality Business Alliance Wednesday, April 22, 6 p.m. Boss Fitness Tulsa, 3509 S. Peoria Ave., Suite 300 The March Monthly Mixer Meeting will be at 6 p.m. Wednesday, April 22, at Boss Fitness Tulsa. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org. Join our event on Facebook, and send an invitation to everyone on your friends list. Join the Equality Business Alliance Check the EBA Business Directory Find EBA on Facebook email EBA@OkEq.org Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. 4/23/26, 4:08 PM �OkEq eNews April 22, 2015 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-22--2015.html... Time to thank the Tulsa City Council Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 On Thursday, April 16, the Tulsa City Council unanimously approved the addition of sexual orientation and gender identity to the protected classes in the city's fair housing policy. Several Oklahomans for Equality members spoke to the council in favor of the ordinance amendment. The measure was introduced by City Councilor Blake Ewing. Please call or send a note to him and other members of the City Council to thank them for making Tulsa a city that is more supportive of diversity and fairness. Find councilors' contact information here. Sleep Soundly Workshop Thursday, April 23, 7 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center A Sleep Soundly workshop, sponsored by the University of Tulsa Institute of Trauma, Adversity & Injustice, is designed to help you better understand the importance of sleep. The workshop will provide you with tools and strategies to foster high-quality sleep and address common sleep problems. For more information, call 918-631-3976. First Thursday Art Opening and Exhibit 'Paths of Reconciliation' and the 'Shower of Stoles' Thursday, May 7, 6-9 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Grieving Well The May Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the "Paths of Reconciliation" and the "Shower of Stoles," beginning with a reception from 6-9 p.m. Thursday, May 7, and continuing throughout the month. The items in the display will include 100 stoles and similar items from the national Shower of Stoles project. Each item is accompanied by a personal story of the person behind the item and their reason for donating the item. 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by 4/23/26, 4:08 PM �OkEq eNews April 22, 2015 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-22--2015.html... Yolanda Arnold Paths of Reconciliation is an Oklahomans for Equality program that attempts to address issues of belief or faith and how they relate to sexuality. Paths of Reconciliation's display includes items from many different people and organizations of belief or faith. These items will be displayed adjacent to the art gallery at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tulsa Pride planning meeting Thursday, April 30, 7 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Get involved and help us make Tulsa Pride 2015 the best Pride ever! Join us for a planning meeting at the Equality Center on Thursday, April 30. See you there! Ade Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather ~/> f Tu Ls A ?wEEKEND OF PRIDE - JUNE 5-7, 2015 MOREcolor regional fine arts exhibition Call for Entries May 1 submission deadline MORE color . I" .' 1 Oklahomans for Equality is pleased to call for entries to the 2015 MOREcolor regional juried exhibition and sale of fine art. Long a tradition to celebrate LGBT Pride through the arts, MOREcolor strives to be artistfriendly and encourage innovative work. The exhibition will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Artists receive 70 percent of their sales. Cash prizes will be awarded, including a cash Juror's Award and a People's Choice award. There is a single entry fee of $10 for up to five entries. Submission deadline is May 1. The MOREcolor art show runs June 18-21. Click here for more information. Gay Pride Bingo with Chelsea Starr and DJ Crystal Friday, May 8, 7-9:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage · Service, and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders We've had so much fun with our previous Tulsa Pride Gay Pride Bingo nights that we've decided to do it again! This time Chelsea Starr, the newly crowned Absolute Sovereign Empress VIII of the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma, will be our host, and Crystal will again be our DJ. If you've been with us before, you know what a blast this is. If you haven't, you've been missing out! Either way, you don't want to miss the fun this 4/23/26, 4:08 PM �OkEq eNews April 22, 2015 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-22--2015.html... time, so put this on your calendar! General admission is $10, and adult-beverage admission is $20. Proceeds go toward making Tulsa Pride 2015 the best Pride ever! Click "Join" on our Facebook event page. Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. DJ Crystal Tulsa Area Prime Timers Chelsea Star, Absolute Sovereign Empress VII Tulsa Pride Rainbow Run Downtown Tulsa Sunday, June 7, 9 a.m.-noon We're gearing up for this summer's Tulsa Pride Rainbow Run, with a timed 5K and a fun run and walk. The Rainbow Run benefits Tulsa Pride and Oklahomans for Equality. Sponsorships are available, ranging from $100 to $2,500. 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 RAINBOW RUN For sponsorship information, please click here. To register, please click here. - -- - - - New PFLAG Tulsa Meeting Third Monday of every month, next meeting May 18, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages 4/23/26, 4:08 PM �OkEq eNews April 22, 2015 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-22--2015.html... The PFLAG Tulsa Chapter has begun a satellite group meeting on the third Monday of every month at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The group will next meet on Monday, May 18. Parents, Families and Friends of PFLAG Lesbians and Gays promotes the health and well-being TULSA CH of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender people, their families and friends. For more information on PFLAG Tulsa, visit www.pflagtulsa.org or call 918-749-4901 The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: ihelptulsa.com Recently received a new computer or smart device? Do you need all of your files and email moved from your old computer to your new computer? Do you need help setting up your smart device? If so, contact johnv@ihelptulsa.com, log onto ihelptulsa.com or call John at 918-605-8777. - Want to receive computer tips? Like @HelpT Isa.com us on Facebook: facebook.com/ihelptulsa Oklahoma Magazine's '40 Under 40' April issue Five members of Oklahomans for Equality are among the community leaders in Oklahoma magazine's "40 Under 40" feature this year. Included are Stuart Ashworth, Moises Echeverria, Jeromee Scot, Sgt. Thomas Cooper and Dr. John Rogers. We are proud to call them our own! and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. - - - - - ·- - - - - - Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. See their stories here. Laverne Cox at Wichita State University A Murder of Storytellers Witchita, Kansas Wednesday, April 29 Every Friday 7:00 pm .;e;f!!!= \ WICH ITA STATE "'c)U l UNIVERSITY 6:30 p.m. Wednesday, April 29 WICHITA STATE UNIVERSITY EUGENE M. HUGHES METROPOLITAN COMPLEX FA.Ot-4 nu;: N,TFLlX HIT s,R.IES · oA.AHG, 15 ™' NEW ILQCI(" A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local 4/23/26, 4:08 PM �OkEq eNews April 22, 2015 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-22--2015.html... Alnlr l IA YV UMAN t• MT JUUKNC T IU YV UMA NMUUU K,YHOTlii: sP,aKlii:R FOR GaYPRIL PO Ill 1:t " _,,..., ea$11 writers of all backgrounds. GLS N - - · Oklahomans for Equality and its Gender Outreach Program are sponsoring a trip to Wichita State University to see Laverne Cox speak in association with the school's Gaypril event. We will leave from the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. Fourth St., on a chartered bus at 2:30 p.m. The price to travel and attend with OkEq is $20. That includes event ticket price and bus transportation to and from the event. To sign up, contact Sharon Queen at sharon.queen@okeq.org or 918-743-4297. Russell Bennett Faith and Courage Award Raindrop Foundation Turkish Cultural Center 4444 W. Houston St. (81st Street east of Garnett Road), Broken Arrow Thursday, April 30, 6 p.m. Join us for the Tulsa Interfaith Alliance's annual Russell Bennett Faith and Courage Award celebration at the Raindrop Turkish House in Broken Arrow. This year's recipient of the award is the Rev. Dr. Marlin Lavanhar, senior minister at All Souls Unitarian Church, who will give a keynote address. Rabbi Jack Moline, executive director of the National Interfaith Alliance, will be a special guest. Tickets are $30 and include a buffet dinner with meat and vegetarian options. They can be purchased at this link. For questions, or to register via phone or mail, please email tulsainterfaithalliance@gmail.com. The Rev. Dr. Marlin Lavanhar The Tulsa Interfaith Alliance is a nonpartisan advocacy group that monitors the line separating church and state. For more information, visit its website at this link. Dining Out for Life Thursday, April 30 Participating restaurants will donate 25 percent or more of your bill to H.O.P.E. -- Health Outreach Prevention Education -- on this day to help pay for local HIV services. The restaurants' generosity, coupled with your participation, will make a very real difference in the lives of thousands of men, women, and children throughout the Tulsa area. H.O.P.E is a nonprofit 501(c)3 organization that provides HIV and hepatitis C testing for the Tulsa community. Dining~ Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno ...{~~0~1. Dine Out, Fight AIDS Find participating restaurants here. --------For more information, visit H.O.P.E. Testing online at hopetesting.org. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals 4/23/26, 4:08 PM �OkEq eNews April 22, 2015 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-22--2015.html... Herland Retreat Roman Nose State Park, Watonga May 1-3 The Herland Spring Retreat is set for May 1-3 at Roman Nose State Park, just outside Watonga. From Friday Night dinner through Sunday Brunch, the annual Herland Retreats are a great way to get to know your sisters from around the state (and all over). Mark your calendars and schedule some Sister time! Questions or concens? Email herland@herlandsisters.org. Click here for more information. Guys Dine Too The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org Tuesday, May 5, 6:30 p.m. Bangkok Restaurant, 3313 E. 32nd Place Guys Dine Too is a social program for gay men and the i r m a le allies/ friends. It meets at a different restaurant every month. Spread the word, and please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan to attend. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. HIV Wellness Retreat 2015 Registration deadline is July 17 The Grateful Day Foundation's HIV Wellness Retreat will be held Aug. 21- 23 at the Sky Ranch Cave Springs in Quapaw. www.skyranch.org QrAteful .,2)Af1 JF <0>1l.ll.Jt'll.d~ti<0> Jt'll. JIJl:'ll.ce. We are looking forward to Taking a leap of faith for those living with HIV/AIDS another fun and informative retreat this year. Applications can be found on our website, www.gratefulday.org, as well as at Tulsa Cares, Parish Church of St. Jerome, HOPE Testing, OSU Specialty Clinic and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The Grateful Day Foundation will host a number of workshops throughout the weekend as well as several fun things to do at the retreat. For more information, visit our website or contact us by phone. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. 4/23/26, 4:08 PM �OkEq eNews April 22, 2015 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-22--2015.html... Contact info: 539.664.7206 www.gratefulday.org JOLT Jackpot Golf Classic The Canyons at Blackjack Ridge 1801 N. McKinley Ave., Sand Springs Saturday, May 16, 10 a.m. Let your golf game pay off for OkEq's JOLT bowling league. This fundraiser will feature cash prizes for first-, second- and third-place teams. Fourperson teams will compete in a scramble format. Registration is now open and costs $75 per person or $300 per team. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Contact Curtis Austin at curtisaustin33@hotmail.com or Al Warren at 918-361-8739. Camp Anytown July 19-25, registration deadline is July 3 Camp Anytown 2015 will be held July 19-25 at Dwight Mission Camp near Vian. Incoming sophomores, juniors, and seniors from across Oklahoma are eligible to participate in this awardwinning, human relations camp, which promotes self-esteem, good citizenship, and leadership in an atmosphere steeped in rich diversity. The Anytown program ranks among the preeminent human relations experiences in Oklahoma. For additional information, contact the Oklahoma Center for Community and Justice office at 918-583-1361 or email info@occjok.org. Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Click here to apply. Survey for trans or gender-nonconforming people Documenting stressors encountered and how they impact lives Jae Puckett, a researcher at the ■■■■■■■ IMPACT LGBT Health and ■■■ ■ ■ Development Program (impactprogram.org), is looking for participants who identify as trans or The LGBT Health and Development Program gender nonconforming and are at @Northwestern Urwersity least 16 years old for a research study about experiences of stigma, the ways this can impact one's life across a variety of areas, and how people cope with those experiences. : • IMPACT Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org You will be asked to complete a brief set of questions, from which researchers will determine whether you qualify to complete a brief, one-time survey that takes about 15 minutes or to participate in a longer survey. In the longer survey, you'd be sent a short questionnaire (takes about 5 4/23/26, 4:08 PM �OkEq eNews April 22, 2015 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-22--2015.html... minutes to answer) every day for two months, asking about your experiences. Because the two-month version requires more time, we are paying participants up to $50, depending on how many surveys you complete. To take the initial questionnaire to see whether you qualify, please go to http://goo.gl/je48mC. - - - - - Researchers will look at your responses and then contact you within the next 48 hours. Please email Jae at jpuckett@northwestern.edu if you have any questions. Research opportunity for nonheterosexual men Improving quality of life for LGBTQ people Dane Whicker, a doctoral student in clinical psychology at Marquette University, and his faculty advisor, Dr. Ed de St. Aubin, invite nonheterosexual men (i.e., gay, bisexual, queer) to participate in a research project aimed at improving the understanding of how gender, status, community and bias affect this group of individuals. An added incentive for taking the anonymous online survey, which is expected to take 30 to 45 minutes, is a lottery for at least 10 $50 Amazon.com gift cards. If you wish to participate, click here to find more information and the survey. LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea Ith ca re Bi I IOf Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. We want your Marriage Equality photos! 4/23/26, 4:08 PM �OkEq eNews April 22, 2015 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-22--2015.html... If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to paul.allen@OkEq.org with " OK to use" in the subject line. Please include any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you, and congratulations! Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2015 T-shirts are now available in the Pride Store in sizes S through 5XL. These short-sleeve T's can be yours in advance of Tulsa Pride for only $20 each. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Hate Crime' by William Bernhardt You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Bestselling Tulsa-area author William Bernhardt is an unsurpassed master at blending psychological suspense with gripping, surprise-filled legal action. In this work of fiction set in Tulsa and Chicago, Ben Kincaid has built a national reputation as a stalwart Tulsa defense attorney who will fight tirelessly for his clients. In Evanston, Illinois, Johnny Christensen has built a national reputation as a sadistic bigot who beat and stabbed a gay man and left him to die. When Johnny's mother comes to Ben and begs him to defend her son, he has one secret reason for saying no. But when unforeseen circumstances force Ben to enter the trial, the defense attorney sees only one way to prove Johnny's innocence. But Ben's plan means luring a killer out of the 4/23/26, 4:08 PM �OkEq eNews April 22, 2015 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-22--2015.html... woodwork -- even though he might kill again. A novel of gut-wrenching twists and surprises, this thriller brilliantly explores the passions between lovers -- and the passions behind society's most heinous crimes. Once again, the remarkable William Bernhardt makes us challenge every assumption, second-guess every judgment, and feel the terror of the truth. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Volu r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa , your local action center! TULSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r------------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat noon-9 p.m. | Sun noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I ~------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 4:08 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/935567f6655bc4588946b8410fb64a4a.pdf 294b85b59fe65301ea01a32252c63daa PDF Text Text OkEq eNews April 28, 2015 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-28--2015.html... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews April 28, 2015 In This Issue SCOTUS Town Hall Equality Gala Laverne Cox trip Tulsa Pride planning meeting Welcome to the eNews. Join us Tuesday evening for a SCOTUS Town Hall about today's U.S. Supreme Court oral arguments. See below for more information. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: ihelptulsa.com Recently received a new computer or smart device? Do you need all of your files and email moved from your old computer to your new computer? Do you need help setting up your smart device? If so, contact johnv@ihelptulsa.com , log onto ihelptulsa.com or call John at 918-605-8777. - - ------ MOREcolor FirstThursday - - Art - Opening -Gay Pride Bingo Rainbow Run EBA Sponsor Dining Out for Life Russell Bennett Award PFLAG Tulsa 40 Under 40 Herland Retreat Guys Dine Too Imperial Court Want to receive computer tips? Like us at facebook.com/ihelptulsa HIV Wellness Retreat @HelpTulsa .com JOLT Jackpot Golf Classic Camp Anytown Survey SCOTUS Town Hall Research opportunity Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday, April 28, 7:30-9 p.m. LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Marriage Equality Photos -----Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer The Supreme Court of the United States will hear oral arguments in four marriage equality cases on Tuesday morning, April 28, in Washington, D.C. On that night, gather with us at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to hear OkEq Director of Advocacy Mike Redman discuss the arguments presented and recap the day's hearing. Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 4:11 PM �OkEq eNews April 28, 2015 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-28--2015.html... Then the Oklahoma marriage equality lawsuit plaintiffs will discuss a historic gathering of marriage equality plaintiffs from across the nation, held the night before the oral arguments, and a rally on the Supreme Court steps that day. The Oklahoma plaintiffs will attend both events in Washington and fly back Tuesday afternoon in time to meet with us. Don't miss this exciting and informative event! Click "Join" on our Facebook event page. OkEq Art Exhibit Equality Gala, The Road to Equality A success! Thank you members of Oklahomans for Equality for the largest and most successful Equality Gala in our 35year history! The April exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OW\HOl'l'\N{ FDR E:OlWJTV ~ Ho.ad6;:- features works by Karin Susan Cermak. ________ ,G~ Special thanks to our sponsors, donors, guests, live auction donors, silent auction donors and Gala Committee members. Your generosity and support will make possible another year of service to the LGBT community of the heartland. ~ATURDAY. APRIL 25. 2015 COX BU~NH~ CENTER BALLROOM 6.30PM COCKTAIL RE:CE:PTI0N &00PM DINNO AND PROGRAM COIO FOl"l'f. A111 'Of IIO(l MIO!" 110n Ou 916-7-<J•m OIi fNl 0~ le€ sT """-'Oc,OOI~ Laverne Cox at Wichita State University Witchita, Kansas Wednesday, April 29 ~ ! WICH ITA STATE "'c)U l UNIVERSITY 6:30 p.m. Wednesday, April 29 WICHITA STATE UNIVERSITY EUGENE M . HUGHES METROPOLITAN COMPLEX FROhit TH, H(TFLIX HIT S(AU:S "ORQHG, IS TH, H(W IUICK• AIN'T I A WOMAN'?· MY JOURNEY TO WOMANHOOD K(YHOTlii: SPI.QKIER FOR GaYPRIL Counseling Services Oklahomans for Equality and its Gender Outreach Program are sponsoring a trip to Wichita State University to see Laverne Cox speak in association with the school's Gaypril event. We will leave from the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. Fourth St., on a chartered bus at 2:30 p.m. The price to travel and attend with OkEq is $20. That includes event ticket price and bus transportation to and from the event. To sign up, contact Sharon Queen at sharon.queen@okeq.org or 918-743-4297. Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 4/23/26, 4:11 PM �OkEq eNews April 28, 2015 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-28--2015.html... Tulsa Pride planning meeting Thursday, April 30, 7 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Get involved and help us make Tulsa Pride 2015 the best Pride ever! Join us for a planning meeting at the Equality Center on Thursday, April 30. See you there! Ade ~~ Tu Ls A F?wEEKEND OF PRIDE - JUNE 5-7, 2015 Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on MOREcolor regional fine arts exhibition Call for Entries May 1 submission deadline MORE color . ' I " Counseling Services .-r Oklahomans for Equality is pleased to call for entries to the 2015 MOREcolor regional juried exhibition and sale of fine art. Long a tradition to celebrate LGBT Pride through the arts, MOREcolor strives to be artistfriendly and encourage innovative work. The exhibition will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Artists receive 70 percent of their sales. Cash prizes will be awarded, including a cash Juror's Award and a People's Choice award. There is a single entry fee of $10 for up to five entries. Submission deadline is May 1. The MOREcolor art show runs June 18-21. Click here for more information. income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org --SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org First Thursday Art Opening and Exhibit 'Paths of Reconciliation' and the 'Shower of Stoles' Thursday, May 7, 6-9 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center f . I • , I Grieving Well The May Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the "Paths of Reconciliation" and the "Shower of Stoles," beginning with a reception from 6-9 p.m. Thursday, May 7, and continuing throughout the month. 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold 4/23/26, 4:11 PM �OkEq eNews April 28, 2015 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-28--2015.html... The items in the display will include 100 stoles and similar items from the national Shower of Stoles project. Each item is accompanied by a personal story of the person behind the item and their reason for donating the item. Paths of Reconciliation is an Oklahomans for Equality program that attempts to address issues of belief or faith and how they relate to sexuality. Paths of Reconciliation's display includes items from many different people and organizations of belief or faith. These items will be displayed adjacent to the art gallery at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Gay Pride Bingo with Chelsea Starr and DJ Crystal Friday, May 8, 7-9:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center We've had so much fun with our previous Tulsa Pride Gay Pride Bingo nights that we've decided to do it again! This time Chelsea Starr, the newly crowned Absolute Sovereign Empress VIII of the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma, will be our host, and Crystal will again be our DJ. If you've been with us before, you know what a blast this is. If you haven't, you've been missing out! Either way, you don't want to miss the fun this time, so put this on your calendar! General admission is $10, and adult-beverage admission is $20. Proceeds go toward making Tulsa Pride 2015 the best Pride ever! DJ Crystal Click "Join" on our Facebook event page. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Servtces and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual &. Transgendcr Elders Chelsea Star, Absolute Sovereign Empress VII Tulsa Pride Rainbow Run Tulsa Shambhala Meditation 4/23/26, 4:11 PM �OkEq eNews April 28, 2015 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-28--2015.html... Downtown Tulsa Sunday, June 7, 9 a.m.-noon We're gearing up for this summer's Tulsa Pride Rainbow Run, with a timed 5K and a fun run and walk. The Rainbow Run benefits Tulsa Pride and Oklahomans for Equality. Sponsorships are available, ranging from $100 to $2,500. RAINBOW RUN For sponsorship information, please click here. To register, please click here. --------- The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Keith Hunt, McGraw Realtors Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. McGraw R · ALT R S Looking to buy or sell your dream home? I can help! Tulsa Area Prime Timers Contact Keith Hunt Today (918) 513-13-94 khunt@mcgrawok.com rl] ~ @ ~~ LlADINC R.lAl,...CSTATl .. COMPANI[ .4y' TH[ wo•LD Dining Out for Life Thursday, April 30 Participating restaurants will donate 25 percent or more of your bill to H.O.P.E. -- Health Outreach Prevention Education -- on this day to help pay for local HIV services. The restaurants' generosity, coupled with your participation, will make a very real difference in the lives of thousands of men, women, and children throughout the Tulsa area. H.O.P.E is a nonprofit 501(c)3 organization that provides HIV and hepatitis C testing for the Tulsa community. Dining~ . .l~~~~._ 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Dine Out, Fight AIDS Find restaurants here. -participating --- ---For more information, visit H.O.P.E. Testing online at hopetesting.org. Russell Bennett Faith and Courage Award Raindrop Foundation Turkish Cultural Center 4444 W. Houston St. (81st Street east of Garnett Road), Broken Arrow Thursday, April 30, 6 p.m. Join us for the Tulsa Interfaith Alliance's annual Russell Bennett Faith and Courage Award celebration at the Raindrop Turkish House in Broken Arrow. Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the 4/23/26, 4:11 PM �OkEq eNews April 28, 2015 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-28--2015.html... advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. This year's recipient of the award is the Rev. Dr. Marlin Lavanhar, senior minister at All Souls Unitarian Church, who will give a keynote address. Rabbi Jack Moline, executive director of the National Interfaith Alliance, will be a special guest. Tickets are $30 and include a buffet dinner with meat and vegetarian options. They can be purchased at this link. For questions, or to register via phone or mail, please email tulsainterfaithalliance@gmail.com. The Tulsa Interfaith Alliance is a nonpartisan advocacy group that monitors the line separating church and state. For more information, visit its website at this link. ACA Assistance The Rev. Dr. Marlin Lavanhar New PFLAG Tulsa Meeting Third Monday of every month, next meeting May 18, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The PFLAG Tulsa Chapter has begun a satellite group meeting on the third Monday of every month at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The group will next meet on Monday, May 18. Parents, Families and Friends of PFLAG Lesbians and Gays promotes the health and well-being TULSA CHA of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender people, their families and friends. For more information on PFLAG Tulsa, visit www.pflagtulsa.org - - - - - - or call 918-749-4901 Oklahoma Magazine's '40 Under 40' Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. - - - - ·- - - - - Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. April issue Five members of Oklahomans for Equality are among the community leaders in Oklahoma magazine's "40 Under 40" feature this year. Included are Stuart Ashworth, Moises Echeverria, Jeromee Scot, Sgt. Thomas Cooper and Dr. John Rogers. We are proud to call them our own! See their stories here. Herland Retreat Roman Nose State Park, Watonga May 1-3 The Herland Spring Retreat is set for May 1-3 at Roman Nose State Park, just outside Watonga. From Friday Night dinner through Sunday Brunch, the annual Herland Retreats are a great way to get to know your sisters from around the state Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. 4/23/26, 4:11 PM �OkEq eNews April 28, 2015 7 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-28--2015.html... (and all over). Mark your calendars and schedule some Sister time! Questions or concens? Email herland@herlandsisters.org. Click here for more information. Guys Dine Too Tuesday, May 5, 6:30 p.m. Bangkok Restaurant, 3313 E. 32nd Place Guys Dine Too is a social program for gay men and the i r m a le allies/ friends. It meets at a different restaurant every month. Spread the word, and please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan to attend. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Investitures VII Area 18 Saturday, May 9, 5 p.m. The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma invites you to join its members for its first Reign VIII event -- Investitures VIII. Absolute Empress VIII Chelsea Ray Starr will be naming her royal family and giving line titles to membership. The theme for the event is Fire and Ice. Suggested dress is formal or theme. (This is a state event for the court.) Female: red or orange. Male: black, white or silver. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Investitures Ceremony: Area 18 @ 5 p.m. After Show: Tommys Bar @ 7:30 p.m. No cover. Must be 21+ to attend. Find membership forms and sponsorship forms for Reign VIII here. HIV Wellness Retreat 2015 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals Registration deadline is July 17 4/23/26, 4:11 PM �OkEq eNews April 28, 2015 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-28--2015.html... The Grateful Day Foundation's HIV Wellness Retreat will be held Aug. 21- 23 at the Sky Ranch Cave Springs in Quapaw. www.skyranch.org QrAteful .,2)A!J JF<01lJl.Jt'Jl.da.ti<elt'Jl. JIJl:'Jl.c. We are looking forward to Taking a leap of faith for those living with HIV/AIDS another fun and informative retreat this year. Applications can be found on our website, www.gratefulday.org, as well as at Tulsa Cares, Parish Church of St. Jerome, HOPE Testing, OSU Specialty Clinic and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The Grateful Day Foundation will host a number of workshops throughout the weekend as well as several fun things to do at the retreat. For more information, visit our website or contact us by phone. Contact info: 539.664.7206 www.gratefulday.org The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org JOLT Jackpot Golf Classic The Canyons at Blackjack Ridge 1801 N. McKinley Ave., Sand Springs Saturday, May 16, 10 a.m. Let your golf game pay off for OkEq's JOLT bowling league. This fundraiser will feature cash prizes for first-, second- and third-place teams. Fourperson teams will compete in a scramble format. Registration is now open and costs $75 per person or $300 per team. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Contact Curtis Austin at curtisaustin33@hotmail.com or Al Warren at 918-361-8739. Camp Anytown July 19-25, registration deadline is July 3 Camp Anytown 2015 will be held July 19-25 at Dwight Mission Camp near Vian. Incoming sophomores, juniors, and seniors from across Oklahoma are eligible to participate in this awardwinning, human relations camp, which promotes self-esteem, good citizenship, and leadership in an atmosphere steeped in rich diversity. The Anytown program ranks among the preeminent human relations experiences in Oklahoma. For additional information, contact the Oklahoma Center for Community and Justice office at 918-583-1361 or email info@occjok.org. Click here to apply. - . Workforce Oklahoma Access Point . El,fp .f, PREPARINC \llORiocn,lfNs • IOIC.ORc Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. 4/23/26, 4:11 PM �OkEq eNews April 28, 2015 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-28--2015.html... Survey for trans or gender-nonconforming people Documenting stressors encountered and how they impact lives Jae Puckett, a researcher at the ■■■■■■■ IMPACT LGBT Health and ■■■ ■ ■ Development Program (impactprogram.org), is looking for participants who identify as trans or The LGBT Health and Development Program gender nonconforming and are at @Northwestern Urwersity least 16 years old for a research study about experiences of stigma, the ways this can impact one's life across a variety of areas, and how people cope with those experiences. : : IMF>ACT You will be asked to complete a brief set of questions, from which researchers will determine whether you qualify to complete a brief, one-time survey that takes about 15 minutes or to participate in a longer survey. In the longer survey, you'd be sent a short questionnaire (takes about 5 minutes to answer) every day for two months, asking about your experiences. Because the two-month version requires more time, we are paying participants up to $50, depending on how many surveys you complete. To take the initial questionnaire to see whether you qualify, please go to http://goo.gl/je48mC. - - - - Researchers will look at your responses and then contact you within the next 48 hours. Please email Jae at jpuckett@northwestern.edu if you have any questions. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm - Research opportunity for nonheterosexual men Improving quality of life for LGBTQ people Dane Whicker, a doctoral student in clinical psychology at Marquette University, and his faculty advisor, Dr. Ed de St. Aubin, invite nonheterosexual men (i.e., gay, bisexual, queer) to participate in a research project aimed at improving the understanding of how gender, status, community and bias affect this group of individuals. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. An added incentive for taking the anonymous online survey, which is expected to take 30 to 45 minutes, is a lottery for at least 10 $50 Amazon.com gift cards. If you wish to participate, click here to find more information and the survey. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. 4/23/26, 4:11 PM �OkEq eNews April 28, 2015 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-28--2015.html... healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea Ith ca re Bi I IOf Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. We want your Marriage Equality photos! If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to paul.allen@OkEq.org with " OK to use" in the subject line. Please include any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you, and congratulations! Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2015 T-shirts are now available in the Pride Store in sizes S through 5XL. These short-sleeve T's can be yours in advance of Tulsa Pride for only $20 each. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Speak Now: Marriage Equality on Trial' by Kenji Yoshino You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/23/26, 4:11 PM �OkEq eNews April 28, 2015 11 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-28--2015.html... "Speak Now" tells the story of the watershed trial that unfolded over twelve tense days in California in 2010 in the Prop 8 case, Hollingsworth v. Perry. As it interrogated the nature of marriage, the political status of gays and lesbians, the ideal circumstances for raising children, and the ability of direct democracy to protect fundamental rights, the trial that stands as the most potent argument for marriage equality this nation has ever seen. In telling the story of Hollingsworth v. Perry, the groundbreaking federal lawsuit against Proposition 8, Kenji Yoshino has also written a paean to the vanishing civil trial -- an oasis of rationality in what is often a decidedly uncivil debate. Above all, this book is a work of deep humanity, in which Yoshino brings abstract legal arguments to life by sharing his own story of finding love, marrying, and having children as a gay man. Intellectually rigorous and profoundly compassionate, " Speak Now" will stand as the definitive account of a landmark civil-rights trial.. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Vol r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r------------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat noon-9 p.m. | Sun noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I ~------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 4:11 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/074a4cae45c8083713273667f5df6439.pdf 3f5ddf0e9dc4f1ce6f0b2f82f0f48cb9 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews May 7, 2015 1 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-7--2015.html?... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews May 7, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Gay Pride Bingo Equality Gala 624 Dinner Welcome to the eNews. Join us this Friday evening for Gay Pride Bingo at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! See below for more information. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Keith Hunt, McGraw Realtors First Opening - Thursday - - - -Art --Reconciliation Dinner PFLAG Tulsa Equality Business Alliance Pride Idol Pool-less Pool Party Tulsa Pride Volunteers McGraw R LALT Tulsa Pride Festival & Parade R Rainbow Run Looking to buy or sell your dream home? Tulsa Pride Picnic I can help! Pride in the Ballpark Contact Keith Hunt Today EBA Sponsor (918) 513-13-94 The Color Purple khunt@mcgrawok.com m ts) "" COMPANHS LLADINC lllA~. lSTATl ,-," TH( WOUO ~ o.; Playing Cards Imperial Court HIV Wellness Retreat Gay Pride Bingo with Chelsea Starr and DJ Crystal Friday, May 8, 7-9:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Featured Article Featured Article Featured Article Featured Article Featured Article We've had so much fun with our previous Tulsa Pride Gay Pride Bingo nights that we've decided to do it again! This time Chelsea Starr, the newly crowned Absolute Sovereign Empress VIII of the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma, will be our host, and Crystal will again be our DJ. If you've been with us before, you know what a blast this is. If you haven't, you've been missing out! Either way, you don't want to miss the fun this time, so put this on your calendar! General admission is $10, and adult-beverage admission is $20. Proceeds go toward making Tulsa Pride 2015 the best Pride ever! Featured Article Featured Article Featured Article Featured Article 4/23/26, 4:12 PM �OkEq eNews May 7, 2015 2 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-7--2015.html?... Click "Join" on our Facebook event page. Find Us on Facebook OkEq Art Exhibit DJ Crystal The May exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features 'Paths of Reconciliation' and the 'Shower of Stoles.' -I DJ I Sl10,vcr I I" 01• Stoles PRO,IECT ••••• ....... Chelsea Star, Absolute Sovereign Empress VII Equality Gala, The Road to Equality A success! Special thanks to Oklahomans for Equality members, our sponsors, donors, guests and Gala Committee members for making the 2015 Equality Gala the largest and most successful in our 35-year history! Your generosity and support will make possible another year of service to the LGBT community of the heartland. Find more photos from the event at these photographers' links: Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 4/23/26, 4:12 PM �OkEq eNews May 7, 2015 3 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-7--2015.html?... Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on Find Williams Photography photos here. income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Find Stephen Michaels Photography photos here. Grieving Well Be a part of this fundraiser for Oklahomans for Equality: Cocktail Celebration at 624 Kitchen & Catering 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold 4/23/26, 4:12 PM �OkEq eNews May 7, 2015 4 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-7--2015.html?... Spend the evening of July 14 in the phenomenal art deco space of 624 listening to the incredible Eric Himan perform live while enjoying amazing hors d'oeuvres created by Chef Justin Thompson and his team. 624 is Downtown Tulsa's premier special event and private party venue. Located in the lobby of the ONG building at 624 S. Boston Ave., it features 20-foot high ceilings, marble columns, terrazzo floor accents, custom plaster moldings, intricate ceiling details and a contemporary palette. Eric will be performing songs from his new CD, "Playing Cards." You and your friends can attend this party on July 14 from 6-9 p.m. for a donation of $200 per person! A limited number of tickets are available for this special event! Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Services and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Must be 21 or older to attend. Click here to purchase your tickets to the Cocktail Celebration at 624 Kitchen & Catering Tulsa Shambhala Meditation 4/23/26, 4:12 PM �OkEq eNews May 7, 2015 5 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-7--2015.html?... First Thursday Art Opening and Exhibit 'Paths of Reconciliation' and the 'Shower of Stoles' Thursday, May 7, 6-9 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. The May Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the "Paths of Reconciliation" and the "Shower of Stoles," beginning with a reception from 6-9 p.m. Thursday, May 7, and continuing throughout the month. The items in the display will include 100 stoles and similar items from the national Shower of Stoles project. Each item is accompanied by a personal story of the person behind the item and their reason for donating the item. Paths of Reconciliation is an Oklahomans for Equality program that attempts to address issues of belief or faith and how they relate to sexuality. Paths of Reconciliation's display includes items from many different people and organizations of belief or faith. These items will be displayed adjacent to the art gallery at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Reconciliation Dinner Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Saturday, May 16, 6 p.m. East Side Christian Church (Disciples of Christ), a welcoming and safe congregation, will host a Reconciliation Dinner at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Church members invite you to join them as they meet LGBTQ friends, family and neighbors. All are invited to this free event. Let us break bread together! For more info, email etaylor@escc.org or see the event page on Facebook. New PFLAG Tulsa Meeting Third Monday of every month, next meeting May 18, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the 4/23/26, 4:12 PM �OkEq eNews May 7, 2015 6 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-7--2015.html?... The PFLAG Tulsa Chapter has begun a satellite group meeting on the third Monday of every month at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The group will next meet on Monday, May 18. Parents, Families and Friends of PFLAG Lesbians and Gays promotes the health and well-being TULSA CH of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender people, their families and friends. For more information on PFLAG Tulsa, visit www.pflagtulsa.org - - - - or call 918-749-4901 ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. - - - - ·- - - - - Equality Business Alliance Look Optical, 3746 S. Peoria Ave. Wednesday, May 20, 6 p.m. The May Monthly Mixer will be at 6 p.m. Wednesday, May 20, at Look Optical. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org. advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. IEV~CAR~ & EV~W~AR I Join our event on Facebook and send an invitation to everyone on your friends list. Join the Equality Business Alliance Check the EBA Business Directory Find EBA on Facebook email EBA@OkEq.org Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Pride Idol Area 18, 39 E. 18th St. Sunday, May 17, 9:30 p.m. Do you have what it takes to be Pride Idol 2015? Miss Stormy De Janero is ready to pass on her title! Bring your best and compete for a spot on the main stage at Tulsa Pride 2015. Keep thelatest and -up -with ---"join" us on Facebook here. Pool-less Pool Party Inner Circle Vodka Bar, 410 N. Main St. Wednesday, May 20, 7 p.m. Join Tulsa Pride for a Pool-less Pool Party at the amazing Inner Circle Vodka Bar. With a special "Pride" Infusion and music by Mindy Bartlett, you won't want to miss this fundraiser! Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. 4/23/26, 4:12 PM �OkEq eNews May 7, 2015 7 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-7--2015.html?... "Join" us at our event page on Facebook. Volunteer to help with Tulsa Pride 2015 Article Subheading Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org We need you! One shift can make all the difference in making this the #bestprideever! The first 100 volunteers to register will receive a FREE Tulsa Pride T-shirt when you check in for your shift! Click here to register to be a volunteer. Click here to "Join" on Facebook. Tulsa Pride Festival and Parade Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Saturday, June 6, noon-10 p.m. This will be the #bestprideever! Entertainment on the stage begins at noon. The Tulsa Pride Parade 2015 steps off at 6 p.m., and we will keep it rocking until 10 p.m. Don't miss the Battle of the Bands and '80s icon Tiffany on the main stage, brought to you by Area 18! We'll have cold drinks, delicious food, amazing vendors and a great time to be had by all! Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals 4/23/26, 4:12 PM �OkEq eNews May 7, 2015 8 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-7--2015.html?... The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org - - - - - - Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Stay up to date on the happenings and details for the #bestprideever, and click "Join" on our Facebook event page. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org Tulsa Pride Rainbow Run Downtown Tulsa Sunday, June 7, 9 a.m.-noon We're gearing up for this summer's Tulsa Pride Rainbow Run, with a timed 5K and a fun run and walk. The Rainbow Run benefits Tulsa Pride and Oklahomans for Equality. Sponsorships are available, ranging from $100 to $2,500. RAINBOW RUN Click here for sponsorship information. --Click here to register. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Tulsa Pride Picnic in the Park Centennial Park, 1028 E. Sixth St. Sunday, May 7, 11 a.m. Bring your family and friends, your own food and a blanket or chairs and join us for a family-friendly Picnic in the Park! This event is brought to you by the Tulsa Shock. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. 4/23/26, 4:12 PM �OkEq eNews May 7, 2015 9 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-7--2015.html?... HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Pride in the Ballpark ONEOK Field Sunday, June 14, following the Tulsa Drillers 2:05 p.m. game Oklahomans for Equality, the Tulsa Drillers and Tulsa Metro Firefighters Softball hosts Pride in the Ballpark, a charity game that benefits the Equality Sports Alliance and the Oklahoma Firefighters Burn Camp. Camp Dry Gulch in Adair runs the week-long camp for children who have suffered major burns or injuries. The program shows that scars and disabilities don't limit success in life. I:n The Ballpark SUNDAY . JUNE 1 4. 2015 FOLLOWING T H E DRILLERS 2 : 05 GA~ I E Tickets : $12 AYalh bl e ilt the Dennl1 R. Neill Equ 1dlty Center 621 E. 4 '" St . Tulsa, OK Call: 911-143-4297 or emall anaiefiUPi!Jcick20llfi!Rma1tcom For more Info find u s on htebook The Equality Sports Alliance is an Oklahomans for Equality program that builds community through the promotion of amateur sports for all people regardless of age, race, creed, religion, national origin, gender, sexual orientation, gender identity or gender expression. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tickets are $12 and are available at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or by emailing center@okeq.org. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: ihelptulsa.com Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 4:12 PM �OkEq eNews May 7, 2015 10 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-7--2015.html?... Recently received a new computer or smart device? Do you need all of your files and email moved from your old computer to your new computer? Do you need help setting up your smart device? If so, contact johnv@ihelptulsa.com - - - - - , log onto ihelptulsa.com or call John at 918-605-8777. Want to receive computer tips? Like us at facebook.com/ihelptulsa @HelpT Isa.com The Color Purple in Concert Tulsa Little Theatre, 1511 S. Delaware Ave. Continuing Thursday, May 7, through Sunday, May 10 Rebecca Ungerman's Spinning Plates Productions presents the first show in its Little Big Musicals series, "The Color Purple in Concert." The Little Big Musicals are performed in concert style, with the full book and score of a Broadway show but with no sets and minimal staging, costumes and props. Performances continue May 7-9 at 8 p.m. and May 10 at 2 p.m. at the Tulsa Little Theatre. Tickets are available in advance at thecolorpurpleinconcert.eventbrite.com or at the door. General Admission: $20 Groups of 10 or more: $18 Students (with ID) and Seniors (65+): $15 'Playing Cards' CD release party Foolish Things Coffee, 1001 S. Main St. 4/23/26, 4:12 PM �OkEq eNews May 7, 2015 11 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-7--2015.html?... Saturday, May 9, 8 p.m. Broken Arrow's own Eric Himan launches his latest CD, "Playing Cards," with a release party this Saturday. Admission is $15, and each person attending will receive a "Playing Cards" CD. Space at Foolish Things is limited, so click here to sign up now on Facebook. Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Investitures VII Area 18 Saturday, May 9, 5 p.m. The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma invites you to join its members for its first Reign VIII event -- Investitures VIII. Absolute Empress VIII Chelsea Ray Starr will be naming her royal family and giving line titles to membership. The theme for the event is Fire and Ice. Suggested dress is formal or theme. (This is a state event for the court.) Female: red or orange. Male: black, white or silver. Investitures Ceremony: Area 18 @ 5 p.m. After Show: Tommys Bar @ 7:30 p.m. No cover. Must be 21+ to attend. Find membership forms and sponsorship forms for Reign VIII here. HIV Wellness Retreat 2015 Registration deadline is July 17 The Grateful Day Foundation's HIV Wellness Retreat will be held Aug. 21- 23 at the Sky Ranch Cave Springs in Quapaw. www.skyranch.org QrAteful .,2)A!J JF <01lJl.Jt'Jl.da.il::ii.<0Jt'Jl. JIJl:'Jl.c. We are looking forward to Taking a leap of faith for those living with HIV/AIDS another fun and informative retreat this year. Applications can be found on our website, www.gratefulday.org, as well as at Tulsa Cares, Parish Church of St. Jerome, HOPE Testing, OSU Specialty Clinic and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/23/26, 4:12 PM �OkEq eNews May 7, 2015 12 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-7--2015.html?... The Grateful Day Foundation will host a number of workshops throughout the weekend as well as several fun things to do at the retreat. For more information, visit our website or contact us by phone. Contact info: 539.664.7206 www.gratefulday.org JOLT Jackpot Golf Classic The Canyons at Blackjack Ridge 1801 N. McKinley Ave., Sand Springs Saturday, May 16, 10 a.m. Let your golf game pay off for OkEq's JOLT bowling league. This fundraiser will feature cash prizes for first-, second- and third-place teams. Fourperson teams will compete in a scramble format. Registration is now open and costs $75 per person or $300 per team. Contact Curtis Austin at curtisaustin33@hotmail.com or Al Warren at 918-361-8739. Council Oak Men's Chorale preview Hardesty Regional Library, 8316 E. 93rd St. Wednesday, June 3, 7 p.m. It's an annual tradition! Join us for a special preview of the Council Oak Men's Chorale Summer Concert. The Chorale will present No. 1 songs from decades past to present. Come enjoy the songs that will make you want to sing along with COMC. Hear songs from "The Sound of Silence" to "Pompeii," from "Bennie and the Jets" to "I Will Survive." You won't want to miss this time of singing and fun with the Council Oak Men's Chorale. Camp Anytown July 19-25, registration deadline is July 3 Camp Anytown 2015 will be held July 19-25 at occ:i ,, (cf Dwight Mission Camp near Vian. Incoming sophomores, juniors, and seniors from across Oklahoma are eligible to participate in this awardwinning, human relations camp, which promotes self-esteem, good citizenship, and leadership in an El,f atmosphere steeped in rich diversity. The Anytown program ranks among the preeminent human P~ ARIN CITilfNs c OIIQ 4/23/26, 4:12 PM �OkEq eNews May 7, 2015 13 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-7--2015.html?... relations experiences in Oklahoma. For additional information, contact the Oklahoma Center for Community and Justice office at 918-583-1361 or email info@occjok.org. Click here to apply. Survey for trans or gender-nonconforming people Documenting stressors encountered and how they impact lives Jae Puckett, a researcher at the IMPACT LGBT Health and Development Program (impactprogram.org), is looking for participants who identify as trans or The LGBT Health and Development Program gender nonconforming and are at @NortrnvesternUn,ver~~ least 16 years old for a research study about experiences of stigma, the ways this can impact one's life across a variety of areas, and how people cope with those experiences. You will be asked to complete a brief set of questions, from which researchers will determine whether you qualify to complete a brief, one-time survey that takes about 15 minutes or to participate in a longer survey. In the longer survey, you'd be sent a short questionnaire (takes about 5 minutes to answer) every day for two months, asking about your experiences. Because the two-month version requires more time, we are paying participants up to $50, depending on how many surveys you complete. To take the initial questionnaire to see whether you qualify, please go to http://goo.gl/je48mC. Researchers will look at your responses and then ------contact you within the next 48 hours. Please email Jae at jpuckett@northwestern.edu if you have any questions. Research opportunity for nonheterosexual men Improving quality of life for LGBTQ people Dane Whicker, a doctoral student in clinical psychology at Marquette University, and his faculty advisor, Dr. Ed de St. Aubin, invite nonheterosexual men (i.e., gay, bisexual, queer) to participate in a research project aimed at improving the understanding of how gender, status, community and bias affect this group of individuals. An added incentive for taking the anonymous online survey, which is expected to take 30 to 45 minutes, is a lottery for at least 10 $50 Amazon.com gift cards. If you wish to participate, click here to find more information and the survey. 4/23/26, 4:12 PM �OkEq eNews May 7, 2015 14 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-7--2015.html?... LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea Ith ca re Bi I IOf Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. We want your Marriage Equality photos! If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to paul.allen@OkEq.org with " OK to use" in the subject line. Please include any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you, and congratulations! Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2015 T-shirts are now available in the Pride Store in sizes S through 5XL. These short-sleeve T's can be yours in advance of Tulsa Pride for only $20 each. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 4/23/26, 4:12 PM �OkEq eNews May 7, 2015 15 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-7--2015.html?... Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Boy Meets Girl' DVD a film by Eric Schaeffer You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center "Boy Meets Girl" is a poignant, sexy, romantic coming of age comedy about three 20-yearolds living in Kentucky. Robby (Michael Welch, Twilight) and his best friend since childhood, Ricky, a gorgeous transgender girl, have never dated. Lamenting the lack of eligible bachelors, Ricky considers dating a girl. In walks Francesca, a beautiful young debutante waiting for her Marine fiancé to return from the war. Ricky and Francesca strike up a friendship, and maybe a little more, which forces Robby to face his true feelings for Ricky. \I ICIlAEL \VE:LCI I \1 ICI IELLE IIE\'l JI.EY B O ~ '"''" LH IC SCll,U' l'FEI< MEErsGIRL LOVE TRANSCEN DS CENDER d. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library olu A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local ac ion center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r------------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat noon-9 p.m. | Sun noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I ~------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 4:12 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/bb30f4a49d23a4a103dbc2e45e1391f8.pdf 42297bcb0c2cd93f195e44dcc457e926 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews May 13, 2015 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-13--2015.html... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews May 13, 2015 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Thank Mayor Bartlett Reconciliation Dinner Equality Business Alliance Welcome to the eNews. Join us this Saturday evening for East Side Christian Church's Reconciliation Dinner at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and tour the Shower of Stoles exhibit in the Art Gallery. See below for more information. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Equality Gala 624 Dinner PFLAG Tulsa Pride Idol Pool-less Pool Party The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: ihelptulsa.com Recently received a new computer or smart device? Do you need all of your files and email moved from your old computer to your new computer? Do you need help setting up your smart device? If so, contact johnv@ihelptulsa.com , log ----onto ihelptulsa.com or call John at 918-605-8777. Want to receive computer tips? Like us at facebook.com/ihelptulsa Tulsa Pride Volunteers Tulsa Pride Festival & Parade Rainbow Run Tulsa Pride Picnic Pride in the Ballpark EBA Sponsor JOLT Jackpot Golf Classic 'Limited Partnership' Movie @HelpTulsa .com Council Oak Camp Anytown Camp Fire Camp Fair Housing Ordinance Amendment signed Thank you, Mayor Dewey Bartlett Oklahomans for Equality applauds Tulsa Mayor Dewey Bartlett for signing the Fair Housing Ordinance Amendment that was passed unanimously by the City Council on April 16. The amendment adds sexual orientation, gender identity and gender expression to the protected classes in the local law's nondiscrimination policy. Mayor Bartlett told Oklahomans for Equality Executive Director Toby Jenkins after signing the ordinance amendment last week: "If you want to deny somebody housing, which is the most basic need, you deserve to be taken to the woodshed." HIV Wellness Retreat Survey Research opportunity LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Marriage Photos -Equality -Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook At a time when state officials are introducing bills to 4/23/26, 4:14 PM �OkEq eNews May 13, 2015 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-13--2015.html... sanction discrimination against LGBT Oklahomans, we applaud our local officials for taking a stand for fairness and equality under the law. Please contact Mayor Bartlett and let him know you appreciate his action. Click here to find an online contact form. . Reconciliation Dinner OkEq Board Meeting Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Saturday, May 16, 6 p.m. 7 p.m. Thursday, May 21 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center East Side Christian Church (Disciples of Christ), a welcoming and safe congregation, will host a Reconciliation Dinner at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. Church members invite you to join them as they meet LGBTQ friends, family and neighbors. All are invited to this free event. Let us break bread together! For more info, email etaylor@escc.org or ---see the event page on Facebook. The May exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features 'Paths of Reconciliation' and the 'Shower of Stoles.' -I DJ I Sho,vcr Equality Business Alliance Look Optical, 3746 S. Peoria Ave. Wednesday, May 20, 6 p.m. I·••11 I" 01• Stoles ~ The May Monthly Mixer will be at 6 p.m. Wednesday, May 20, at Look Optical. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org. OkEq Art Exhibit PRO,IECT IEVECARE & EVEWEAR I Join our event on Facebook and send an invitation to everyone on your friends list. Join the Equality Business Alliance Check the EBA Business Directory Find EBA on Facebook email EBA@OkEq.org ---- Equality Gala, The Road to Equality A success! Special thanks to Oklahomans for Equality members, our sponsors, donors, Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. 4/23/26, 4:14 PM �OkEq eNews May 13, 2015 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-13--2015.html... guests and Gala Committee members for making the 2015 Equality Gala the largest and most successful in our 35-year history! Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Your generosity and support will make possible another year of service to the LGBT community of the heartland. Find more photos from the event at these photographers' links: Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Find Williams Photography photos here. SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Grieving Well Find Stephen Michaels Photography photos here. 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by 4/23/26, 4:14 PM �OkEq eNews May 13, 2015 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-13--2015.html... Be a part of this fundraiser for Oklahomans for Equality: Cocktail Celebration at 624 Kitchen & Catering Spend the evening of July 14 in the phenomenal art deco space of 624 listening to the incredible Eric Himan perform live while enjoying amazing hors d'oeuvres created by Chef Justin Thompson and his team. 624 is Downtown Tulsa's premier special event and private party venue. Located in the lobby of the ONG building at 624 S. Boston Ave., it features 20-foot high ceilings, marble columns, terrazzo floor accents, custom plaster moldings, intricate ceiling details and a contemporary palette. Eric will be performing songs from his new CD, "Playing Cards." Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage ' Service, and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders You and your friends can attend this party on July 14 from 6-9 p.m. for a donation of $200 per person! A limited number of tickets are available for this special event! Must be 21 or older to attend. 4/23/26, 4:14 PM �OkEq eNews May 13, 2015 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-13--2015.html... Click here to purchase your tickets to the Cocktail Celebration at 624 Kitchen & Catering New PFLAG Tulsa Meeting Third Monday of every month, next meeting May 18, 6:30 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The PFLAG Tulsa Chapter has begun a satellite group meeting on the third Monday of every month at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The group will next meet on Monday, May 18. Parents, Families and Friends of PFLAG Lesbians and Gays promotes the health and well-being TULSA CH of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender people, their families and friends. For more information on PFLAG Tulsa, visit www.pflagtulsa.org or call 918-749-4901 Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Pride Idol Area 18, 39 E. 18th St. Sunday, May 17, 9:30 p.m. Do you have what it takes to be Pride Idol 2015? Miss Stormy De Janero is ready to pass on her title! Bring your best and compete for a spot on the main stage at Tulsa Pride 2015. Keep-up-with latest -- -the -- -and - -"join" us on Facebook here. Pool-less Pool Party Inner Circle Vodka Bar, 410 N. Main St. Wednesday, May 20, 7 p.m. Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Join Tulsa Pride for a Pool-less Pool Party at the amazing Inner Circle Vodka Bar. With a special "Pride" Infusion and music by Mindy Bartlett, you won't want to miss this pool-less pool party on the patio of this awesome downtown bar! There is no cover charge, but a portion of sales goes to Tulsa Pride. Raffles, live entertainment and special drinks will make this a fun Pride fundraiser! "Join" us at our event page on Facebook. Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages 4/23/26, 4:14 PM �OkEq eNews May 13, 2015 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-13--2015.html... Volunteer to help with Tulsa Pride 2015 Article Subheading and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. We need you! One shift can make all the difference in making this the #bestprideever! The first 100 volunteers to register will receive a FREE Tulsa Pride T-shirt when you check in for your shift! Click here to register to be a volunteer. Click here to "Join" on Facebook. Tulsa Pride Festival and Parade Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Saturday, June 6, noon-10 p.m. This will be the #bestprideever! Entertainment on the stage begins at noon. The Tulsa Pride Parade 2015 steps off at 6 p.m., and we will keep it rocking until 10 p.m. Don't miss the Battle of the Bands and '80s icon Tiffany on the main stage, brought to you by Area 18! We'll have cold drinks, delicious food, amazing vendors and a great time to be had by all! Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local 4/23/26, 4:14 PM �OkEq eNews May 13, 2015 7 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-13--2015.html... writers of all backgrounds. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm Stay up to date on the happenings and details for the #bestprideever, and click "Join" on our Facebook event page. SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Tulsa Pride Rainbow Run Downtown Tulsa Sunday, June 7, 9 a.m.-noon We're gearing up for this summer's Tulsa Pride Rainbow Run, with a timed 5K and a fun run and walk. The Rainbow Run benefits Tulsa Pride and Oklahomans for Equality. Sponsorships are available, ranging from $100 to $2,500. RAINBOW RUN Click here for sponsorship information. -Click here to register. Tulsa Pride Picnic in the Park Centennial Park, 1028 E. Sixth St. Sunday, June 7, 11 a.m. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Bring your family and friends, your own food and a blanket or chairs and join us for a family-friendly Picnic in the Park! This event is brought to you by the Tulsa Shock. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals 4/23/26, 4:14 PM �OkEq eNews May 13, 2015 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-13--2015.html... The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Pride in the Ballpark ONEOK Field Sunday, June 14, following the Tulsa Drillers 2:05 p.m. game Oklahomans for Equality, the Tulsa Drillers and Tulsa Metro Firefighters Softball hosts Pride in the Ballpark, a charity game that benefits the Equality Sports Alliance and the Oklahoma Firefighters Burn Camp. Camp Dry Gulch in Adair runs the week-long camp for children who have suffered major burns or injuries. The program shows that scars and disabilities don't limit success in life. The Equality Sports Alliance is an Oklahomans for Equality program that builds community through the promotion of amateur sports for all people regardless of age, race, creed, religion, national origin, gender, sexual orientation, gender identity or gender expression. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Tickets are $12 and are available at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or by emailing center@okeq.org. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Keith Hunt, McGraw Realtors Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. 4/23/26, 4:14 PM �OkEq eNews May 13, 2015 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-13--2015.html... McGraw R bALTO R S Looking to buy or sell your dream home? I can help! HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Contact Keith Hunt Today (918) 513-13-94 khunt@mcgrawok.com ra ,;,,.. ,,~ llADING RlAl,.. L TATl ~ L:J ~ COMPANllS ,o/ TH( WOR.LO JOLT Jackpot Golf Classic The Canyons at Blackjack Ridge 1801 N. McKinley Ave., Sand Springs Saturday, May 16, 10 a.m. Let your golf game pay off for OkEq's JOLT bowling league. This fundraiser will feature cash prizes for first-, second- and third-place teams. Fourperson teams will compete in a scramble format. Registration is now open and costs $75 per person or $300 per team. Contact Curtis Austin at curtisaustin33@hotmail.com or Al Warren at 918-361-8739. 'Limited Partnership' Circle Cinema, 10 S. Lewis Ave. Tuesday, May 26, 6:30 p.m., free Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. LI "!TED II Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Decades before the Defense of Marriage Act, Prop 8 and Oklahoma's State Question 711, one gay couple fell in love and took on the United States government to fight for marriage and immigration equality. Filipino American Richard Adams and Australian Tony Sullivan met in Los Angeles in 1971 and quickly fell in love. In April 1975, thanks to a courageous county clerk in Boulder, Colo., they became one of the first same-sex couples in the world to be legally married. Richard immediately filed for a green card for Tony based on their marriage. But unlike most 4/23/26, 4:14 PM �OkEq eNews May 13, 2015 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-13--2015.html... heterosexual married couples who easily file petitions and obtain green cards, Richard received a denial letter from the Immigration and Naturalization Service stating, "You have failed to establish that a bona fide marital relationship can exist between two faggots." Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with Circle Cinema to present "Limited Partnership," a film about Adams and Sullivan and the lawsuit they brought seeking marriage and immigration equality. The screening is part of the Circle Cinema's Community Cinema program and is being presented free of charge at 6:30 p.m. May 26. A panel discussion will follow the screening. CIRCLECINEMA. -- IiE--I Council Oak Mens Chorale preview Hardesty Regional Library, 8316 E. 93rd St. Wednesday, June 3, 7 p.m. It's an annual tradition! Join us for a special preview of the Council Oak Mens Chorale Summer Concert. The Chorale will present No. 1 songs from decades past to present. Come enjoy the songs that will make you want to sing along with COMC. Hear songs from "The Sound of Silence" to "Pompeii," from "Bennie and the Jets" to "I Will Survive." You won't want to miss this time of singing and fun with the Council Oak Mens Chorale. Camp Anytown July 19-25, registration deadline is July 3 Camp Anytown 2015 will be held July 19-25 at Dwight Mission Camp near Vian. Incoming sophomores, juniors, and seniors from across Oklahoma are eligible to participate in this awardwinning, human relations camp, which promotes self-esteem, good citizenship, and leadership in an atmosphere steeped in rich diversity. The Anytown program ranks among the preeminent human relations experiences in Oklahoma. For additional information, contact the Oklahoma Center for Community and Justice office at 918-583-1361 or email info@occjok.org. Click here to apply. Camp Fire camp staff needed Camp Waluhili 4/23/26, 4:14 PM �OkEq eNews May 13, 2015 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-13--2015.html... Camp Walluhili Resident Camp sessions are one week, overnight sessions. Campers register in a specialty program ranging from traditional camp activities to sciencebased experiments to leadership development. They participate in this program in the morning then enjoy other camp activities with their cabin group in the afternoon and evening. Resident Camp is for youth currently 8-17 years old. At Camp Fire, inclusiveness is a core value, and Camp Fire Green Country serves all kinds of youths and families. Click here for more information about working at the camp. HIV Wellness Retreat 2015 Registration deadline is July 17 The Grateful Day Foundation's HIV Wellness Retreat will be held Aug. 21- 23 at the Sky Ranch Cave Springs in Quapaw. www.skyranch.org QrAteful ..Z,A!J JF <01ULmi.da.ti<emi. Jimi.c. We are looking forward to Taking a leap of faith for those living with HIV/AIDS another fun and informative retreat this year. Applications can be found on our website, www.gratefulday.org, as well as at Tulsa Cares, Parish Church of St. Jerome, HOPE Testing, OSU Specialty Clinic and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The Grateful Day Foundation will host a number of workshops throughout the weekend as well as several fun things to do at the retreat. For more information, visit our website or contact us by phone. Contact info: 539.664.7206 www.gratefulday.org Survey for trans or gender-nonconforming people Documenting stressors encountered and how they impact lives Jae Puckett, a researcher at the IMPACT LGBT Health and Development Program (impactprogram.org), is looking for participants who identify as trans or The LGBT Health and Development Program gender nonconforming and are at @Northwestern Urwersity least 16 years old for a research study about experiences of stigma, the ways this can impact one's life across a variety of areas, and how people cope with those experiences. You will be asked to complete a brief set of questions, from which 4/23/26, 4:14 PM �OkEq eNews May 13, 2015 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-13--2015.html... researchers will determine whether you qualify to complete a brief, one-time survey that takes about 15 minutes or to participate in a longer survey. In the longer survey, you'd be sent a short questionnaire (takes about 5 minutes to answer) every day for two months, asking about your experiences. Because the two-month version requires more time, we are paying participants up to $50, depending on how many surveys you complete. To take the initial questionnaire to see whether you qualify, please go to http://goo.gl/je48mC. - - - - - Researchers will look at your responses and then contact you within the next 48 hours. Please email Jae at jpuckett@northwestern.edu if you have any questions. Research opportunity for nonheterosexual men Improving quality of life for LGBTQ people Dane Whicker, a doctoral student in clinical psychology at Marquette University, and his faculty advisor, Dr. Ed de St. Aubin, invite nonheterosexual men (i.e., gay, bisexual, queer) to participate in a research project aimed at improving the understanding of how gender, status, community and bias affect this group of individuals. An added incentive for taking the anonymous online survey, which is expected to take 30 to 45 minutes, is a lottery for at least 10 $50 Amazon.com gift cards. If you wish to participate, click here to find more information and the survey. LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea Ith ca re Bi I IOf Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. We want your Marriage Equality photos! 4/23/26, 4:14 PM �OkEq eNews May 13, 2015 13 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-13--2015.html... If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to paul.allen@OkEq.org - - - with " OK to use" in the subject line. Please include any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you, and congratulations! Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2015 T-shirts are now available in the Pride Store in sizes S through 5XL. These short-sleeve T's can be yours in advance of Tulsa Pride for only $20 each. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'The Circle' DVD a film by Stefan Haupt You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center A gorgeous dramatization of gay lovers Ernst and Robi, who meet in Zurich in 1958 against the backdrop of The Circle (the pioneering gay organization and internationally renowned underground club), this award-winning drama also showcases the true story of Ernst and Robi, featuring interviews with the men (now in their 80s) along with stunning archival images and fascinating 4/23/26, 4:14 PM �OkEq eNews May 13, 2015 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-13--2015.html... research into this incredible era in gay history. Starring Matthias Hungerbuhler and Sven Schelker as Ernst and Robi. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Vol r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa , your local action center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r------------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat noon-9 p.m. | Sun noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I ~------------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 4:14 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/736629a50fd3e6f03be8128a4372850e.pdf 7bb6fca5a9e665cd01a07502f9b9a5ee PDF Text Text OkEq eNews May 20, 2015 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-20--2015.html... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews May 20, 2015 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor Give Out Day Equality Business Alliance Pool-less Pool Party Welcome to the eNews. Oklahomans for Equality encourages you to give to OkEq on Thursday May 21st through National Give Out Day. Please see below for details. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Keith Hunt, McGraw Realtors Council Oak Tulsa Pride Volunteers Pride Interfaith Service Tulsa Pride Festival & Parade Tiffany Rainbow Run McGraw R 1, Gay Pride Bingo Tulsa Pride Picnic L TO R S ' Pride in the Ballpark Looking to buy or sell your dream home? 624 Dinner I can help! EBA Sponsor Contact Keith Hunt Today 'Limited Partnership' Movie (918) 513-13-94 MyBigGay Italian Wedding ---- khunt@mcgrawok.com rl] LJ3, @ "# LlADING lllAl,..lSTATC -.: C0'4PANICS o/ THl WORLD Equality Gala Thank Mayor Bartlett Camp Anytown Camp Fire Camp Give Out Day 2015 HIV Wellness Retreat Thursday, May 21st, 2015 LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Please join us for the 3rd annual Give OUT Day, the national day of giving for the LGBTQ community! For 24-hours, the LGBTQ community and our allies from across the country will come together to raise critically needed funds to support the diverse array of LGBTQ nonprofits including community centers, arts groups, organizers, clinics, student clubs, sports leagues and more. Plan to join in on May 21st with thousands of others in showing your support Marriage Photos - -Equality --Pride Store Rainbow Library Find Us on Facebook 7 4/23/26, 4:15 PM �OkEq eNews May 20, 2015 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-20--2015.html... for equality. Click here to donate to Oklahomans for Equality through Give Out Day. OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, May 21 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. Equality Business Alliance OkEq Art Exhibit Look Optical, 3746 S. Peoria Ave. Wednesday, May 20, 6 p.m. The May Monthly Mixer will be at 6 p.m. Wednesday, May 20, at Look Optical. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org. Join our event on Facebook and send an invitation to everyone on your friends list. The May exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center [L©@[\ IEV~CAR~ & EV~W~AR I Join the Equality Business Alliance Check the EBA Business Directory Find EBA on Facebook email EBA@OkEq.org features 'Paths of Reconciliation' and the 'Shower of Stoles.' 11111 Ill I ■ Sho,vcr , Stoles I·••11 Ill""' ►i 01· PRO.IE ,T Pool-less Pool Party Inner Circle Vodka Bar, 410 N. Main St. Wednesday, May 20, 7 p.m. Join Tulsa Pride for a Pool-less Pool Party at the amazing Inner Circle Vodka Bar. With a special "Pride" Infusion and music by Mindy Bartlett, you won't want to miss this pool-less pool party on the patio of this awesome downtown bar! There is no cover charge, but a portion of sales goes to Tulsa Pride. Raffles, live entertainment and special drinks will make this a fun Pride fundraiser! Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. 4/23/26, 4:15 PM �OkEq eNews May 20, 2015 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-20--2015.html... "Join" us at our event page on Facebook. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Gay Pride Bingo Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Friday, May 29, 7 p.m. Join us for our final Gay Pride Bingo for Tulsa Pride 2015. The beautiful and outrageous Nicole Carrington will be our host once again. Nicole has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our biggest pride fundraiser this Pride season. Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. You don't want to miss the fun, so click "Join" on our Facebook event page and put this on your calendar! Admission is $10 for general admission, $20 Adult Beverage admission or buy a whole table for 8 bingo bangers for $150, which includes unlimited drinks for your table. Proceeds go toward making Tulsa Pride 2015 the best Pride ever! Council Oak Mens Chorale preview Hardesty Regional Library, 8316 E. 93rd St. Wednesday, June 3, 7 p.m. It's an annual tradition! Join us for a special preview of the Council Oak Mens Chorale Summer Concert. The Chorale will present No. 1 songs from decades past to present. Come enjoy the songs that will make you want to sing along with COMC. Hear songs from "The Sound of Silence" to "Pompeii," from "Bennie and the Jets" to "I Will Survive." You won't want to miss this time of singing and fun with the Council Oak Mens Chorale. Volunteer to help with Tulsa Pride 2015 Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org I • • • . I Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by 4/23/26, 4:15 PM �OkEq eNews May 20, 2015 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-20--2015.html... Tulsa Pride •-□~~ ~- We need you! One shift can make all the difference in making this the #bestprideever! The first 100 volunteers to register will receive a FREE Tulsa Pride T-shirt when you check in for your shift! Click here to register to be a volunteer. Click here to "Join" on Facebook. Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Tulsa Pride Interfaith Prayer Service Phillips Theological Seminary, 901 N Mingo Rd Thursday, June 4, 7:30 p.m. Please join the LGBT community and allies as we celebrate the spiritual diversity of Tulsa. Clergy and spiritual leaders from Tulsa's affirming and inclusive Faith communities and several choirs and ensembles participate in this annual event. The Rev. Bob Lawrence and the Tulsa Interfaith Alliance, along with the Rev Geoffrey Brewster and Phillips Theological Seminary, are hosting this year's Interfaith Service. There will be an In Memoriam tribute for members of our community who have passed during the past year. The highlight of the Interfaith Service is the blessing of the Pride Flag. Tulsa Pride Festival and Parade Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Saturday, June 6, noon-10 p.m. This will be the #bestprideever! Entertainment on the stage begins at noon. The Tulsa Pride Parade 2015 steps off at 6 p.m., and we will keep it rocking until 10 p.m. Don't miss the Battle of the Bands and '80s icon Tiffany on the main stage, brought to you by Area 18! We'll have cold drinks, delicious food, amazing vendors and a great time to be had by all! SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage · Services and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders 4/23/26, 4:15 PM �OkEq eNews May 20, 2015 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-20--2015.html... Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Stay up to date on the happenings and details for the #bestprideever, and click "Join" on our Facebook event page. Tiffany Tulsa Pride Main Stage Saturday, June 6 Area 18 is proud to bring Tiffany to the Tulsa Pride stage! Catch Tiffany on the Area 18 float in the Pride parade and then follow her to the stage, where she'll perform a 30 minute '80s themed set! Later that evening Tiffany will be at Area 18 for VIP meet and greets! Meet and greets can be purchased by calling 918-510-7340! Limited supply of meet and greets available so act fast! Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Get F.I.T. Tulsa Pride Rainbow Run Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 6:30 pm An exercise class for all ages 4/23/26, 4:15 PM �OkEq eNews May 20, 2015 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-20--2015.html... Downtown Tulsa Sunday, June 7, 9 a.m.-noon We're gearing up for this summer's Tulsa Pride Rainbow Run, with a timed 5K and a fun run and walk. The Rainbow Run benefits Tulsa Pride and Oklahomans for Equality. Sponsorships are available, ranging from $100 to $2,500. RAINBOW RUN -Click here for sponsorship information. ---- and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Click here to register. ACA Assistance Tulsa Pride Picnic in the Park Centennial Park, 1028 E. Sixth St. Sunday, June 7, 11 a.m. Bring your family and friends, your own food and a blanket or chairs and join us for a family-friendly Picnic in the Park! This event is brought to you by the Tulsa Shock. Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. ---- ·----- Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Pride in the Ballpark Every Friday 7 p.m. ONEOK Field Sunday, June 14, following the Tulsa Drillers 2:05 p.m. game Oklahomans for Equality, the Tulsa Drillers and Tulsa Metro Firefighters Softball hosts Pride in the Ballpark, a charity game that benefits the Equality Sports Alliance and the Oklahoma Firefighters Burn Camp. Camp Dry Gulch in Adair runs the week-long camp for children who have suffered major burns or injuries. The program shows that scars and disabilities don't limit success in life. The Equality Sports Alliance is an Oklahomans for Equality program that builds community through the promotion of amateur sports for all people regardless of age, race, creed, religion, national origin, gender, sexual orientation, gender identity or gender expression. A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local 4/23/26, 4:15 PM �OkEq eNews May 20, 2015 7 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-20--2015.html... writers of all backgrounds. Tickets are $12 and are available at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or by emailing center@okeq.org. Be a part of this fundraiser for Oklahomans for Equality: Cocktail Celebration at 624 Kitchen & Catering Spend the evening of July 14 in the phenomenal art deco space of 624 listening to the incredible Eric Himan perform live while enjoying amazing hors d'oeuvres created by Chef Justin Thompson and his team. 624 is Downtown Tulsa's premier special event and private party venue. Located in the lobby of the ONG building at 624 S. Boston Ave., it features 20-foot high ceilings, marble columns, terrazzo floor accents, custom plaster moldings, intricate ceiling details and a contemporary palette. Eric will be performing songs from his new CD, "Playing Cards." You and your friends can attend this party on July 14 Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals 4/23/26, 4:15 PM �OkEq eNews May 20, 2015 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-20--2015.html... from 6-9 p.m. for a donation of $200 per person! A limited number of tickets are available for this special event! Must be 21 or older to attend. Click here to purchase your tickets to the Cocktail Celebration at 624 Kitchen & Catering The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: ihelptulsa.com Recently received a new computer or smart device? Do you need all of your files and email moved from your old computer to your new computer? Do you need help setting up your smart device? If so, contact johnv@ihelptulsa.com , log ----onto ihelptulsa.com or call John at 918-605-8777. Want to receive computer tips? Like us at facebook.com/ihelptulsa @HelpTulsa .com 'Limited Partnership' Circle Cinema, 10 S. Lewis Ave. Tuesday, May 26, 6:30 p.m., free The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org - - - - - Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. LI "!TED II Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Decades before the Defense of Marriage Act, Prop 8 and Oklahoma's State Question 711, one gay couple fell in love and took on the United States government to fight for marriage and immigration equality. Filipino American Richard Adams and Australian Tony Sullivan met in Los Angeles in 1971 and quickly fell in love. In April 1975, thanks to a courageous county clerk in Boulder, Colo., they became one of the first same-sex couples in the world to be legally married. Richard immediately filed for a green card for Tony based on their marriage. But unlike most heterosexual married couples who easily file petitions and obtain green cards, Richard received a denial letter from the Immigration and Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. 4/23/26, 4:15 PM �OkEq eNews May 20, 2015 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-20--2015.html... Naturalization Service stating, "You have failed to establish that a bona fide marital relationship can exist between two faggots." Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with Circle Cinema to present "Limited Partnership," a film about Adams and Sullivan and the lawsuit they brought seeking marriage and immigration equality. The screening is part of the Circle Cinema's Community Cinema program and is being presented free of charge at 6:30 p.m. May CIRCLECINEMA. 26. A panel discussion will follow the screening. -- IiE-I My Big Gay Italian Wedding American Theater Company, 308 S Lansing Ave June 19th-June 28th http://www.okeq.org/my-big-gay-italian-wedding.html ------ -------- - - - - American Theatre Company HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm Presents "Feel-good hysterical comedy/" -The Wall Street Journal • An insanely funny and fun confection. The mixture of the sacred and profane, the ultra-serious and ultra•sif/y makes this the perfec t play.• -Edge New York Andrew and Anthony are getting married - and everyone wants to "help"I My Big Gay Italian Wedding spins into a hysterical fiasco as everyone tries to have their way. From a saboteur ex-boyfriend to a loud, opinionated, outspoken Italian mother, personalities and culture collide in a music and dance-filled extravaganza. JUNE 19 - 28 MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For Tickets: 918-596-7111 or MyTicketOffice.com Tickets Afso Available the Day o/ the Show @ ATC Studios J{"V":"merican Theatre Company ~ STUD I OS ~!~ Equality Gala, The Road to Equality A success! Special thanks to Oklahomans for Equality members, our sponsors, donors, guests and Gala Committee members for making the 2015 Equality Gala the largest and most successful in our 35-year history! Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Your generosity and support will make possible another year of service to the LGBT community of the heartland. Find more photos from the event at these photographers' links: 4/23/26, 4:15 PM �OkEq eNews May 20, 2015 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-20--2015.html... Find Williams Photography photos here. Find Stephen Michaels Photography photos here. Fair Housing Ordinance Amendment signed Thank you, Mayor Dewey Bartlett Oklahomans for Equality applauds Tulsa Mayor Dewey Bartlett for signing the Fair Housing Ordinance Amendment that was passed unanimously by the City Council on April 16. The amendment adds sexual orientation, gender identity and gender expression to the protected classes in the local law's nondiscrimination policy. 4/23/26, 4:15 PM �OkEq eNews May 20, 2015 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-20--2015.html... Mayor Bartlett told Oklahomans for Equality Executive Director Toby Jenkins after signing the ordinance amendment last week: "If you want to deny somebody housing, which is the most basic need, you deserve to be taken to the woodshed." At a time when state officials are introducing bills to sanction discrimination against LGBT Oklahomans, we applaud our local officials for taking a stand for fairness and equality under the law. Please contact Mayor Bartlett and let him know you appreciate his action. Click here to find an online contact form. . Camp Anytown July 19-25, registration deadline is July 3 Camp Anytown 2015 will be held July 19-25 at Dwight Mission Camp near Vian. Incoming sophomores, juniors, and seniors from across Oklahoma are eligible to participate in this awardwinning, human relations camp, which promotes self-esteem, good citizenship, and leadership in an atmosphere steeped in rich diversity. The Anytown program ranks among the preeminent human relations experiences in Oklahoma. For additional information, contact the Oklahoma Center for Community and Justice office at 918-583-1361 or email info@occjok.org. Click here to apply. Camp Fire camp staff needed Camp Waluhili ) 1ttp Camp Walluhili Resident Camp sessions are one week, overnight sessions. Campers register in a specialty program ranging from traditional camp activities to science-based experiments to leadership development. They participate in this program in the morning then enjoy other camp activities with their cabin group in the afternoon and evening. Resident Camp is for youth currently 8-17 years old. At Camp Fire, inclusiveness is a core value, and Camp Fire Green Country serves all kinds of youths and families. Click here for more information about working at the camp. 4/23/26, 4:15 PM �OkEq eNews May 20, 2015 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-20--2015.html... HIV Wellness Retreat 2015 Registration deadline is July 17 The Grateful Day Foundation's HIV Wellness Retreat will be held Aug. 21- 23 at the Sky Ranch Cave Springs in Quapaw. www.skyranch.org QrAteful .,2}Af1 JP <0>1L.ll.ltll.da.ti<0> JtlL JI:Itll.ce. We are looking forward to Taking a leap of faith for those living with HIV/AIDS another fun and informative retreat this year. Applications can be found on our website, www.gratefulday.org, as well as at Tulsa Cares, Parish Church of St. Jerome, HOPE Testing, OSU Specialty Clinic and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The Grateful Day Foundation will host a number of workshops throughout the weekend as well as several fun things to do at the retreat. For more information, visit our website or contact us by phone. Contact info: 539.664.7206 www.gratefulday.org LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea Ith ca re Bi IIOf Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. We want your Marriage Equality photos! If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them. Please send in your photo to paul.allen@OkEq.org with " OK to use" in the subject line. Please include any and all details about the photo you submit. Thank you, and congratulations! 4/23/26, 4:15 PM �OkEq eNews May 20, 2015 13 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-20--2015.html... Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2015 T-shirts are now available in the Pride Store in sizes S through 5XL. These short-sleeve T's can be yours in advance of Tulsa Pride for only $20 each. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Out in the Country' by Mary L. Gray You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center From Wal-Mart drag parties to renegade Homemaker's Clubs, Out in the Country offers an unprecedented contemporary account of the lives of today's rural queer youth. Mary L. Gray maps out the experiences of young people living in small towns across rural Kentucky and along its desolate Appalachian borders, providing a fascinating and often surprising look at the contours of gay life beyond the big city. Gray illustrates that, against a backdrop of an increasingly impoverished and privatized rural America, LGBT youth and their allies visibly -- and often vibrantly -- work the boundaries of the public spaces available to them, whether in their high schools, public libraries, town hall meetings, churches, or through websites. This important book shows that, in addition to the spaces of Main Street, rural LGBT youth explore and carve 4/23/26, 4:15 PM �OkEq eNews May 20, 2015 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-20--2015.html... out online spaces to fashion their emerging queer identities. Their triumphs and travails defy clear distinctions often drawn between online and offline experiences of identity, fundamentally redefining our understanding of the term 'queer visibility' and its political stakes. Gray combines ethnographic insight with incisive cultural critique, engaging with some of the biggest issues facing both queer studies and media scholarship. Out in the Country is a timely and groundbreaking study of sexuality and gender, new media, youth culture, and the meaning of identity and social movements in a digital age. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library r-------------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat noon-9 p.m. | Sun noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L-------------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 4:15 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/826ede9a25e08718f0af629fe69d74c6.pdf 540f44d693d233dbd959669f02a5b0aa PDF Text Text OkEq eNews May 27, 2015 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-27--2015.html... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews May 27, 2015 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor Gay Pride Bingo Council Oak Tulsa Pride Festival & Parade The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: ihelptulsa.com Grand Marshals Recently received a new computer or smart device? Do you need all of your files and email moved from your old computer to your new computer? Do you need help setting up your smart device? If so, contact johnv@ihelptulsa.com , log ----onto ihelptulsa.com or call John at 918-605-8777. Tulsa Pride Volunteers Hyatt Regency Sisiters in Song Pride in the Ballpark MOREcolor OkEq Annual Meeting 624 Dinner Want to receive computer tips? Like us at facebook.com/ihelptulsa EBA Sponsor My Big Wedding -Gay -Italian -Camp Anytown Camp Fire Camp Gay Pride Bingo Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Friday, May 29, 7 p.m. Join us for our final Gay Pride Bingo for Tulsa Pride 2015. The beautiful and outrageous Nicole Carrington will be our host once again. Nicole has invited Rainbow Granny and Trailer Trash Teresa to join her for our biggest pride fundraiser this Pride season. Super Hot DJ Crystal will be spinning the beat for our rapid rounds of Pride Bingo and DJing our Lip Sync Contest. HIV Wellness Retreat LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Pride Store Rainbow Library Find Us on Facebook You don't want to miss the fun, so click "Join" on our Facebook event page and put this on your calendar! Admission is $10 for general admission, $20 Adult Beverage admission or buy a whole table for 8 bingo bangers for $150, which includes unlimited drinks for your table. Proceeds go toward making Tulsa Pride 2015 the best Pride ever! Council Oak Mens Chorale preview Hardesty Regional Library, 8316 E. 93rd St. Wednesday, June 3, 7 p.m., Free OkEq Board Meeting 4/23/26, 4:16 PM �OkEq eNews May 27, 2015 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-27--2015.html... It's an annual tradition! Join us for a special preview of the Council Oak Mens Chorale Summer Concert. The Chorale will present No. 1 songs from decades past to present. Come enjoy the songs that will make you want to sing along with COMC. Hear songs from "The Sound of Silence" to "Pompeii," from "Bennie and the Jets" to "I Will Survive." You won't want to miss this time of singing and fun with the Council Oak Mens Chorale. Tulsa Pride Festival and Parade Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Saturday, June 6, noon-10 p.m. This will be the #bestprideever! Entertainment on the stage begins at noon. The Tulsa Pride Parade 2015 steps off at 6 p.m., and we will keep it rocking until 10 p.m. Don't miss the Battle of the Bands and '80s icon Tiffany on the main stage, brought to you by Area 18! We'll have cold drinks, delicious food, amazing vendors and a great time to be had by all! 7 p.m. Thursday, June 25th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibit The May exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features 'Paths of Reconciliation' and the 'Shower of Stoles.' 11111 Ill I I Sho,vcr ~ 01• Stoles I·••11 Iii PRO.IE ,T 1111""" Counseling Services Stay up to date on the happenings and details for the #bestprideever, and click "Join" on our Facebook event page. Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Tulsa Pride Parade Grand Marshals Oklahomans for Equality are proud to announce Don Holladay, James Warner III, and 4/23/26, 4:16 PM �OkEq eNews May 27, 2015 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-27--2015.html... Joseph Thai as Grand Marshals for the 2015 Tulsa Pride Parade. These men are the Legal Counsel for the Oklahoma Marriage Equality Lawsuit. Hyatt Regency Counseling Services 100 E. 2nd St. Tulsa, OK Need a place to stay after a fun day of Tulsa Pride? Contact the Hyatt Regency Tulsa for your room! We have a special Tulsa Pride room block with discounted rates on the finest rooms in Tulsa. Enjoy Pride and have a relaxing night at the Hyatt! Saturdays By appointment HYATT REGENCY • Volunteer to help with Tulsa Pride 2015 Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org I • . We need you! One shift can make all the difference in making this the #bestprideever! The first 100 volunteers to register will receive a FREE Tulsa Pride T-shirt when you check in for your shift! Click here to register to be a volunteer. Click here to "Join" on Facebook. Sisters in Song Present: The 50's Lets Do It Again Fellowship Congregational Church, 2900 S. Harvard Ave. Sunday, June 14, 3:00 p.m. • • - I Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold 4/23/26, 4:16 PM �OkEq eNews May 27, 2015 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-27--2015.html... Come join us and sing along as we re-visit some of the great songs from the 50's. We promise you a toe-tapping good time. Tickets $15.00, Children under 12 admitted free. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Pride in the Ballpark ONEOK Field Sunday, June 14, following the Tulsa Drillers 2:05 p.m. game Oklahomans for Equality, the Tulsa Drillers and Tulsa Metro Firefighters Softball hosts Pride in the Ballpark, a charity game that benefits the Equality Sports Alliance and the Oklahoma Firefighters Burn Camp. Camp Dry Gulch in Adair runs the weeklong camp for children who have suffered major burns or injuries. The program shows that scars and disabilities don't limit success in life. The Equality Sports Alliance is an Oklahomans for Equality program that builds community through the promotion of amateur sports for all people regardless of age, race, creed, religion, national origin, gender, sexual orientation, gender identity or gender expression. Tickets are $12 and are available at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or by email at center@okeq.org. --- MOREcolor Dennis R. Neill Equality Center June 18-21 SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Servoces and Advocacy for Gay, Lesb,an, Bisexual & Transgender Elders MOREcolor 2015, the regional juried exhibition of fine art sponsored by Oklahomans for Equality, will show 169 works by 56 artists, and is the largest MOREcolor show since its inception in the 1980s. The three-day exhibition is part of the Tulsa Pride celebration, with support from the Hyatt Regency Hotel and TW's A-Fab Catering. The opening on June 18, 6:00pm to 9:00pm, is free and open to the public. Cash awards include the Juror's Prize and Tulsa Shambhala Meditation 4/23/26, 4:16 PM �OkEq eNews May 27, 2015 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-27--2015.html... People's Choice Award. The opening event includes unique entertainment, catered cuisine and cash bar, and is held in the event center at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 East 4th Street in downtown Tulsa, Oklahoma. MOREcolor is Oklahoma's oldest and largest juried art exhibition, and all works are for sale. Seventy percent of sale price belongs to the artist, and a portion of the sale benefits Oklahomans for Equality. The show runs June 18 through 21, 2015. Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Oklahomans for Equality Annual Meeting and Board of Directors Elections Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 OkEq Board 2014-2015 The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 3rd, 2015 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee (Applications due to OkEq by June 30th) OR 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by August 15th) At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is accepting applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Seven directors will be elected. Please contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org for an application. All Get F.I.T. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:00 - 7:00 pm. Beginning June 1st classes will be held Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages 4/23/26, 4:16 PM �OkEq eNews May 27, 2015 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-27--2015.html... applicants will be reviewed by the Board Development and Governance Committee. Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term Be a part of this fundraiser for Oklahomans for Equality: Cocktail Celebration at 624 Kitchen & Catering Spend the evening of July 14 in the phenomenal art deco space of 624 listening to the incredible Eric Himan perform live while enjoying amazing hors d'oeuvres created by Chef Justin Thompson and his team. ----- • and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. ----- 624 is Downtown Tulsa's premier special event and private party venue. Located in the lobby of the ONG building at 624 S. Boston Ave., it features 20-foot high ceilings, marble columns, terrazzo floor accents, custom plaster moldings, intricate ceiling details and a contemporary palette. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local 4/23/26, 4:16 PM �OkEq eNews May 27, 2015 7 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-27--2015.html... Eric will be performing songs from his new CD, "Playing Cards." ~-,~ ~ -.i. writers of all backgrounds. ' Pt AYING CARDS ,- You and your friends can attend this party on July 14 from 6-9 p.m. for a donation of $200 per person! A limited number of tickets are available for this special event! Must be 21 or older to attend. Click here to purchase your tickets to the Cocktail Celebration at 624 Kitchen & Catering Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Keith Hunt, McGraw Realtors McGraw R t; LTO R ~ Looking to buy or sell your dream home? Game Night I can help! Contact Keith Hunt Today (918) 513-13-94 khunt@mcgrawok.com rn ~ "# LJ.:3, L=.J o.: llADING RlAl,..lSTATL CO~PANll o/ TH[ WOR.LO My Big Gay Italian Wedding Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno American Theater Company, 308 S Lansing Ave June 19th-June 28th http://www.okeq.org/my-big-gay-italian-wedding.html -------------- Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals 4/23/26, 4:16 PM �OkEq eNews May 27, 2015 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-27--2015.html... American Theatre Company Presents "Feel-good hysterical comedy/" -The Wall Street Journal • An insanely funny and fun confection. The mixture of the sacred and profane, the ultra-serious and ultn1-sil/y makes this the perfect play... - Edge New York Andrew and Anthony are getting married - and everyone wants to "help"! My Big Gay Italian Wedding spins into a hysterical fiasco as everyone tries to have their way. From a saboteur ex-boyfriend to a loud, opinionated, outspoken Italian mother, personalities and culture collide in a music and dance-filled extravaganza. JUNE 19 - 28 For Tickets: 918-596-7111 or MyTicketOffice.com Tickets Afso Available the Day ol lhtt Show O ATC Studios ~ merican Theatre Company STUDIOS ~'::'~ ~ The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org Camp Anytown July 19-25, registration deadline is July 3 Camp Anytown 2015 will be held July 19-25 at Dwight Mission Camp near Vian. Incoming sophomores, juniors, and seniors from across Oklahoma are eligible to participate in this awardwinning, human relations camp, which promotes self-esteem, good citizenship, and leadership in an atmosphere steeped in rich diversity. The Anytown program ranks among the preeminent human relations experiences in Oklahoma. For additional information, contact the Oklahoma Center for Community and Justice office at 918-583-1361 or email info@occjok.org. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Click here to apply. Camp Fire camp staff needed Camp Waluhili Camp Walluhili Resident Camp sessions are one week, overnight sessions. Campers register in a specialty program ranging from traditional camp activities to science-based experiments to leadership development. They participate in this program in the morning then enjoy other camp activities with their cabin group in the afternoon and evening. Resident Camp is for youth currently 8-17 years old. At Camp Fire, inclusiveness is a core value, and Camp Fire Green Country serves all kinds of Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. 4/23/26, 4:16 PM �OkEq eNews May 27, 2015 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-27--2015.html... youths and families. Click here for more information about working at the camp. Monday 4 - 8 pm Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm HIV Wellness Retreat 2015 Registration deadline is July 17 The Grateful Day Foundation's HIV Wellness Retreat will be held Aug. 21- 23 at the Sky Ranch Cave Springs in Quapaw. www.skyranch.org HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing tjrAteful .,z)A!J We are looking forward to another fun and informative retreat this year. Applications can be found on our website, www.gratefulday.org, as well as at Tulsa Cares, Parish Church of St. Jerome, HOPE Testing, OSU Specialty Clinic and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. JF O>il.ll.Jt'.11..dl.Sl.tiO> Jt'.11.. liJt'.11..C . Taking a leap of faith for those living with HIV/ AIDS The Grateful Day Foundation will host a number of workshops throughout the weekend as well as several fun things to do at the retreat. For more information, visit our website or contact us by phone. Contact info: 539.664.7206 www.gratefulday.org LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. healthcare BILLOF RIGHTS Hea lthcare Bi I !Of Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2015 T-shirts are now available in the Pride Store in sizes S through 5XL. These short-sleeve tee's or tank tops can be yours in advance of Tulsa Pride for only $20 each. Tie dye short sleeve tee's are $25 each! 4/23/26, 4:16 PM �OkEq eNews May 27, 2015 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-27--2015.html... Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Two Spirit People" By Lester B. Brown, PhD Two Spirit People is the first-ever look at social science research exploration into the lives of American Indian lesbian women and gay men. Editor Lester B. Brown posits six gender styles in traditional American Indian culture: men and women, not-men and notwomen (persons of one biological sex assuming the identity of the opposite sex in some form), and gays and lesbians. He brings together chapters that emphasize American Indian spirituality, present new perspectives, and provide readers with a beginning understanding of the place of lesbian, gay, and bisexual Indians within American Indian culture and within American society. This beginning will help you understand these unique people and the special challenges and multiple prejudices they face. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/23/26, 4:16 PM �OkEq eNews May 27, 2015 11 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-27--2015.html... r-------------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat noon-9 p.m. | Sun noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L-------------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 4:16 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/1a46b81911aebf21cfeb0868b29b1afb.pdf 994d591704ad9ff29dfb33fc92374dc4 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews June 2, 2015 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-2--2015.html?... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews June 2nd, 2015 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor Council Oak Interfaith Service Tulsa Pride Festival & Parade The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: ihelptulsa.com Recently received a new computer or smart device? Do you need all of your files and email moved from your old computer to your new computer? Do you need help setting up your smart device? If so, contact johnv@ihelptulsa.com , log onto ----ihelptulsa.com or call John at 918-605-8777. Want to receive computer tips? Like us at facebook.com/ihelptulsa Grand Marshals Hyatt Regency Tulsa Pride Volunteers SCOTUS Decision Day 624 Dinner Sisiters in Song Pride in the Ballpark MOREcolor OkEq Annual Meeting C,HelpTulsa .com Disability Workshop EBA Sponsor My Big Wedding -Gay -Italian -- Council Oak Mens Chorale preview Hardesty Regional Library, 8316 E. 93rd St. Wednesday, June 3, 7 p.m., Free It's an annual tradition! Join us for a special preview of the Council Oak Mens Chorale Summer Concert. The Chorale will present No. 1 songs from decades past to present. Come enjoy the songs that will make you want to sing along with COMC. Hear songs from "The Sound of Silence" to "Pompeii," from "Bennie and the Jets" to "I Will Survive." You won't want to miss this time of singing and fun with the Council Oak Mens Chorale. Blood Drive Camp Anytown Camp Fire Camp HIV Wellness Retreat LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Pride Store Rainbow Library Find Us on Facebook Tulsa Pride Interfaith Prayer Service Phillips Theological Seminary, 901 N Mingo Rd Thursday, June 4, 7:30 p.m. 4/23/26, 4:16 PM �OkEq eNews June 2, 2015 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-2--2015.html?... Please join the LGBT community and allies as we celebrate the spiritual diversity of Tulsa. Clergy and spiritual leaders from Tulsa's affirming and inclusive Faith communities and several choirs and ensembles participate in this annual event. The Rev. Bob Lawrence and the Tulsa Interfaith Alliance, along with the Rev Geoffrey Brewster and Phillips Theological Seminary, are hosting this year's Interfaith Service. There will be an In Memoriam tribute for members of our community who have passed during the past year. The highlight of the Interfaith Service is the blessing of the Pride Flag. OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, June 25th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibit The May exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features 'Paths of Reconciliation' and the 'Shower of Stoles.' 11111 IPJ I I Sho,vcr " OF Stoles I ...... I .,.,, PRO.IE ..T PHI LIPS ~ SEMINARY Tulsa Pride Festival and Parade Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Saturday, June 6, noon-10 p.m. This will be the #bestprideever! Entertainment on the stage begins at noon. The Tulsa Pride Parade 2015 steps off at 6 p.m., and we will keep it rocking until 10 p.m. Don't miss the Battle of the Bands and '80s icon Tiffany on the main stage, brought to you by Area 18! We'll have cold drinks, delicious food, amazing vendors and a great time to be had by all! Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 4/23/26, 4:16 PM �OkEq eNews June 2, 2015 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-2--2015.html?... Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on Stay up to date on the happenings and details for the #bestprideever, and click "Join" on our Facebook event page. Tulsa Pride Parade Grand Marshals SOS Group Oklahomans for Equality is proud to announce Don Holladay, James Warner III, and Joseph Thai as Grand Marshals for the 2015 Tulsa Pride Parade. These men are the Legal Counsel for the Oklahoma Marriage Equality Lawsuit. Holladay, who will be representing the legal team in the parade, has worked tirelessly to change the legal landscape in this state and paint a portrait of an inclusive and equal Oklahoma. Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Grieving Well Hyatt Regency 100 E. 2nd St. Tulsa, OK Need a place to stay after a fun day of Tulsa Pride? Contact the Hyatt Regency Tulsa for your room! We have a special Tulsa Pride room block with discounted rates on the finest rooms in Tulsa. Enjoy Pride and have a relaxing night at the Hyatt! income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org HYATT REGENCY' 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Volunteer to help with Tulsa Pride 2015 4/23/26, 4:16 PM �OkEq eNews June 2, 2015 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-2--2015.html?... Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather We need you! One shift can make all the difference in making this the #bestprideever! The first 100 volunteers to register will receive a FREE Tulsa Pride T-shirt when you check in for your shift! Click here to register to be a volunteer. Click here to "Join" on Facebook. SCOTUS DECISION DAY 2015 June, 2015 SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Tulsa Shambhala Meditation 4/23/26, 4:16 PM �OkEq eNews June 2, 2015 5 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-2--2015.html?... In this month of June The U.S. Supreme Court will issue its decision on marriage equality. Date to be determined. No matter the outcome, join us on that day to commemorate this historic event! The rally of all rallies at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Tulsa Area Prime Timers Join us on Facebook for all the latest updates. Be a part of this fundraiser for Oklahomans for Equality: Cocktail Celebration at 624 Kitchen & Catering Spend the evening of July 14 in the phenomenal art deco space of 624 listening to the incredible Eric Himan perform live - while enjoying amazing hors d'oeuvres created by Chef Justin Thompson and his team. •- - 624 is Downtown Tulsa's premier special event and private party venue. Located in the lobby of the ONG 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Get F.I.T. Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the 4/23/26, 4:16 PM �OkEq eNews June 2, 2015 6 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-2--2015.html?... building at 624 S. Boston Ave., it features 20-foot high ceilings, marble columns, terrazzo floor accents, custom plaster moldings, intricate ceiling details and a contemporary palette. Eric will be performing songs from his new CD, "Playing Cards." You and your friends can attend this party on July 14 from 6-9 p.m. for a donation of $200 per person! A limited number of tickets are available for this special event! Must be 21 or older to attend. Click here to purchase your tickets to the Cocktail Celebration at 624 Kitchen & Catering advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Sisters in Song Present: The 50's Lets Do It Again Every Friday 7 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church, 2900 S. Harvard Ave. Sunday, June 14, 3:00 p.m. Come join us and sing along as we re-visit some of the great songs from the 50's. We promise you a toe-tapping good time. Tickets $15.00, Children under 12 admitted free. Pride in the Ballpark ONEOK Field Sunday, June 14, following the Tulsa Drillers 2:05 p.m. game A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. 4/23/26, 4:16 PM �OkEq eNews June 2, 2015 7 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-2--2015.html?... Oklahomans for Equality, the Tulsa Drillers and Tulsa Metro Firefighters Softball hosts Pride in the Ballpark, a charity game that benefits the Equality Sports Alliance and the Oklahoma Firefighters Burn Camp. Camp Dry Gulch in Adair runs the week-long camp for children who have suffered major burns or injuries. The program shows that scars and disabilities don't limit success in life. The Equality Sports Alliance is an Oklahomans for Equality program that builds community through the promotion of amateur sports for all people regardless of age, race, creed, religion, national origin, gender, sexual orientation, gender identity or gender expression. Tickets are $12 and are available at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or by email at center@okeq.org. Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org MOREcolor Dennis R. Neill Equality Center June 18-21 Game Night MOREcolor 2015, the regional juried exhibition of fine art sponsored by Oklahomans for Equality, will show 169 works by 56 artists, and is the largest MOREcolor show since its inception in the 1980s. The three-day exhibition is part of the Tulsa Pride celebration, with support from the Hyatt Regency Hotel and TW's A-Fab Catering. The opening on June 18, 6:00pm to 9:00pm, is free and open to the public. Cash awards include the Juror's Prize and People's Choice Award. The opening event includes unique entertainment, catered cuisine and cash bar, and is held in the event center at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 East 4th Street in downtown Tulsa, Oklahoma. MOREcolor is Oklahoma's oldest and largest juried art exhibition, and all works are for sale. Seventy percent of sale price belongs to the artist, and a portion of the sale benefits Oklahomans for Equality. The show runs June 18 through 21, 2015. Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals 4/23/26, 4:16 PM �OkEq eNews June 2, 2015 8 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-2--2015.html?... Oklahomans for Equality Annual Meeting and Board of Directors Elections The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org OkEq Board 2014-2015 The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 3rd, 2015 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee (Applications due to OkEq by June 30th) OR 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by August 15th) EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is accepting applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Seven directors will be elected. Please contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org for an application. All applicants will be reviewed by the Board Development and Governance Committee. Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term What's Disability Got To Do With It? Youth Services of Tulsa, 311 S. Madison Ave. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. 4/23/26, 4:16 PM �OkEq eNews June 2, 2015 9 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-2--2015.html?... Wednesday, June 17, 12:00-4:00 p.m. This Strength-based, interactive workshop will serve as an introduction to disability justice work. It will look at the history and continuing implications of ableism and what service providers and social justice advocates can do to integrate disability justice into their current work and practices. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing The presenter, Sebastian Margaret is a co-founder and co-coordinator of the Disability Justice Collective, a national seed collective out of New Mexico centering leadership of disabled, people of color, Trans, and poverty class folks that strives to break isolation and end the marginalization of disabled people and our communities. Cost: $25.00 per participant, seating is limited. Sebastian will also provide a free workshop for youth on June 16th. Click here for more details or contact Vic Wiener at 918.385.4429, vwiener@yst.org. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Keith Hunt, McGraw Realtors McGraw R I! TO R S Looking to buy or sell your dream home? I can help! Contact Keith Hunt Today (918) 513-13-94 Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. khunt@mcgrawok.com rl] 1.13, (El ,,~ LLADING R.LAL .CSTATL • C0'4rAN I C ~ THC WOllLD My Big Gay Italian Wedding American Theater Company, 308 S Lansing Ave July 16th-July 26th Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 4:16 PM �OkEq eNews June 2, 2015 10 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-2--2015.html?... American Theatre Company Presents "Feel-good hysterical comedy/" -The Wall Street Journal • An insanely funny and fun confection. The mixture of the sacred and profane, the ultra•serious and ultra•silfy makes this the perfect play. • -Edge New York Andrew and Anthony are getting married - and everyone wants to "help"! My Big Gay Italian Wedding spins into a hysterical fiasco as everyone tries to have their way. From a saboteur ex-boyfriend to a loud, opinionated, outspoken Italian mother, personalities and culture collide in a music and dance-filled extravaganza. JULY 16 - 26 For Tickets: 918-596-7111 or MyTicketOffice.com Ti ckets Also Avaifsb/e the Day of the Show O ATC Studios ~ merican Theatre Company STUDIOS ~~ ,-v,,::::;. Click here more information and promotions. Give with Pride Blood Drive Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Sunday, June 28, 12:30-4:30 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality will host a blood drive on June 28th from 12:30-4:30 p.m. at the Equality Center. All donors get a free T-shirt and will be entered in a drawing to win a free cruise! The goal is 40 donations, and the Oklahoma Blood Institute says donations across the board are down, so it's really important that we step up and be good neighbors. Please plan to give blood June 28th! Unfortunately, men who have sex with men are not eligible to donate (yet), but such would-be donors are encouraged to bring an eligible donor to give blood in their place. Walk-ins are welcome, but signing up for an appointment will ensure that you're not turned away because of time and it guarantees that if there's a line, you'll go to the front of it. Please make an appointment and help prevent a logjam. Click here to make your appointment 4/23/26, 4:16 PM �OkEq eNews June 2, 2015 11 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-2--2015.html?... Oklahoma Blood Institute online. Camp Anytown July 19-25, registration deadline is July 3 Camp Anytown 2015 will be held July 19-25 at Dwight Mission Camp near Vian. Incoming sophomores, juniors, and seniors from across Oklahoma are eligible to participate in this award-winning, human relations camp, which promotes self-esteem, good citizenship, and leadership in an atmosphere steeped in rich diversity. The Anytown program ranks among the preeminent human relations experiences in Oklahoma. For additional information, contact the Oklahoma Center for Community and Justice office at 918-583-1361 or email info@occjok.org. Click here to apply. Camp Fire camp staff needed Camp Waluhili Camp Walluhili Resident Camp sessions are one week, overnight sessions. Campers register in a specialty program ranging from traditional camp activities to science-based experiments to leadership development. They participate in this program in the morning then enjoy other camp activities with their cabin group in the afternoon and evening. Resident Camp is for youth currently 8-17 years old. At Camp Fire, inclusiveness is a core value, and Camp Fire Green Country serves all kinds of youths and families. Click here for more information about working at the camp. HIV Wellness Retreat 2015 Registration deadline is July 17 The Grateful Day Foundation's HIV Wellness Retreat will be held Aug. 21- 23 at the Sky Ranch Cave Springs in Quapaw. 4/23/26, 4:16 PM �OkEq eNews June 2, 2015 12 of 13 www.skyranch.org https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-2--2015.html?... L]rnteful ~A!J JP' 0>1Lll.lI.'ll.dl.Sl.tiO>lI.'ll. ][lI.'ll.CWe are looking forward to another Taking a leap of faith for those living with HIV/AIDS fun and informative retreat this year. Applications can be found on our website, www.gratefulday.org, as well as at Tulsa Cares, Parish Church of St. Jerome, HOPE Testing, OSU Specialty Clinic and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The Grateful Day Foundation will host a number of workshops throughout the weekend as well as several fun things to do at the retreat. For more information, visit our website or contact us by phone. Contact info: 539.664.7206 www.gratefulday.org LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOFRIGHTS Hea Ith ca re Bi I !Of Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2015 T-shirts are now available in the Pride Store in sizes S through 5XL. These short-sleeve tee's or tank tops can be yours in advance of Tulsa Pride for only $20 each. Tie dye short sleeve tee's are $25 each! Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep 4/23/26, 4:16 PM �OkEq eNews June 2, 2015 13 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-2--2015.html?... up with the new items and new sale items 11 Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Stonewall" By Martin Duberman A police raid on the Stonewall, an unlicensed Greenwich Village gay bar, set off a series of riots in the summer of 1969 that mark the birth of the modern gay and lesbian political movement. Duberman ( Paul Robeson ) re-examines this event through the vibrant, intertwined portraits of six people--two lesbians, three gay men, one transvestite-whose lives converged at the Stonewall Rebellion and in the militant movement it spawned. Politically, his six subjects run the gamut from ex-priest Jim Fouratt--a leftist and Yippie cohort of Abbie Hoffman--to Foster Gunnison, who devoted his energies to moderate gay causes and later became a STONEWALL conservative. Yvonne Flowers, a 1\\ A R f I N D U B E R M A N black feminist, overcame her suspicion that the gay movement was not open to people of color, while transvestite Sylvia Rivers faced hostility from lesbians. Duberman, himself gay, exposes schisms in gay liberation that pitted gay men against lesbians, male chauvinists against feminists, whites against blacks. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library r--------------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat noon-9 p.m. | Sun noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L--------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 4:16 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/7bb64f8d9ed082eefbcab97aa909e293.pdf 4221ef848d08c1a2ce3734dfd5e51f15 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews June 9, 2015 1 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-9--2015.html?... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews June 9th, 2015 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor Shock Pride Night Pride in the Ballpark MOREcolor The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Keith Hunt, McGraw Realtors L T SCOTUS Decision Day 624 Dinner McGraw R • Sisiters in Song OkEq Annual Meeting R S' Disability Workshop Looking to buy or sell your dream home? EBA Sponsor I can help! My BigGay -Italian - -Wedding -- Contact Keith Hunt Today Blood Drive (918) 513-13-94 Camp Anytown khunt@mcgrawok.com ~ ~ L=.J rl] ,, • llADINC lllA~.lSTATl C0\4PAN I C fY THE WOllLO Camp Fire Camp HIV Wellness Retreat LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Time to Show your Pride with the Shock Pride Store Rainbow Library BOK Center, 200 S. Denver Ave. Tuesday, June 9th, 7:00PM Tulsa Shock Pride Night is tonight, June 9th! This year, the Shock is making an effort to involve LGBT youth and expose them to the game. After the game, one of the Shock's assistant coaches will speak to the youth and relate her life experiences as an LGBT individual. Free tickets are available for pick up at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St. Find Us on Facebook Pride in the Ballpark ONEOK Field Sunday, June 14, following the Tulsa Drillers 2:05 p.m. game Oklahomans for Equality, the Tulsa Drillers and Tulsa Metro Firefighters Softball hosts Pride in the Ballpark, a charity game that benefits the Equality Sports Alliance and the OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, June 25th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/23/26, 4:17 PM �OkEq eNews June 9, 2015 2 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-9--2015.html?... Oklahoma Firefighters Burn Camp. Camp Dry Gulch in Adair runs the week-long camp for children who have suffered major burns or injuries. The program shows that scars and disabilities don't limit success in life. The Equality Sports Alliance is an Oklahomans for Equality program that builds community through the promotion of amateur sports for all people regardless of age, race, creed, religion, national origin, gender, sexual orientation, gender identity or gender expression. Tickets are $12 and are available at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or by email at center@okeq.org. MOREcolor Dennis R. Neill Equality Center June 18-21 All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OkEq Art Exhibit The May exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features 'Paths of Reconciliation' and the 'Shower of Stoles.' 11111 bl I Sho,ver I I" OF Stoles PRO.IECT I ...,. ...... MOREcolor 2015, the regional juried exhibition of fine art sponsored by Oklahomans for Equality, will show 169 works by 56 artists, and is the largest MOREcolor show since its inception in the 1980s. The three-day exhibition is part of the Tulsa Pride celebration, with support from the Hyatt Regency Hotel and TW's A-Fab Catering. The opening on June 18, 6:00pm to 9:00pm, is free and open to the public. Cash awards include the Juror's Prize and People's Choice Award. The opening event includes unique entertainment, catered cuisine and cash bar, and is held in the event center at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 East 4th Street in downtown Tulsa, Oklahoma. MOREcolor is Oklahoma's oldest and largest juried art exhibition, and all works are for sale. Seventy percent of sale price belongs to the artist, and a portion of the sale benefits Oklahomans for Equality. The show runs June 18 through 21, 2015. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Sisters in Song Present: The 50's Lets Do It 4/23/26, 4:17 PM �OkEq eNews June 9, 2015 3 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-9--2015.html?... Again Fellowship Congregational Church, 2900 S. Harvard Ave. Sunday, June 14, 3:00 p.m. Come join us and sing along as we re-visit some of the great songs from the 50's. We promise you a toe-tapping good time. Tickets $15.00, Children under 12 admitted free. SCOTUS DECISION DAY 2015 June, 2015 In this month of June The U.S. Supreme Court will issue its decision on marriage equality. Date to be determined. No matter the outcome, join us on that day to commemorate this historic event! The rally of all rallies at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Join us on Facebook for all the latest updates. Be a part of this fundraiser for Oklahomans for Equality: Cocktail Celebration at 624 Kitchen & Catering Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold 4/23/26, 4:17 PM �OkEq eNews June 9, 2015 4 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-9--2015.html?... Spend the evening of July 14 in the phenomenal art deco space of 624 listening to the incredible Eric Himan perform live while enjoying amazing hors d'oeuvres created by Chef Justin Thompson and his team. 624 is Downtown Tulsa's premier special event and private party venue. Located in the lobby of the ONG building at 624 S. Boston Ave., it features 20-foot high ceilings, marble columns, terrazzo floor accents, custom plaster moldings, intricate ceiling details and a contemporary palette. Eric will be performing songs from his new CD, "Playing Cards." You and your friends can attend this party on July 14 from 6-9 p.m. for a donation of $200 per person! A limited number of tickets are available for this special event! Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Must be 21 or older to attend. Click here to purchase your tickets to the Cocktail Celebration at 624 Kitchen & Catering Oklahomans for Equality Annual Meeting and Board of Directors Elections Tulsa Shambhala Meditation 4/23/26, 4:17 PM �OkEq eNews June 9, 2015 5 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-9--2015.html?... Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. OkEq Board 2014-2015 The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 3rd, 2015 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee (Applications due to OkEq by June 30th) OR 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by August 15th) At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is accepting applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Seven directors will be elected. Please contact olivia.cotter@okeq.org - - - - - for an application. All applicants will be reviewed by the Board Development and Governance Committee. Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term What's Disability Got To Do With It? Youth Services of Tulsa, 311 S. Madison Ave. Wednesday, June 17, 12:00-4:00 p.m. This Strength-based, interactive workshop will serve as an introduction to disability justice work. It will look at the history Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Get F.I.T. Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the 4/23/26, 4:17 PM �OkEq eNews June 9, 2015 6 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-9--2015.html?... and continuing implications of ableism and what service providers and social justice advocates can do to integrate disability justice into their current work and practices. The presenter, Sebastian Margaret is a co-founder and co-coordinator of the Disability Justice Collective, a national seed collective out of New Mexico centering leadership of disabled, people of color, Trans, and poverty class folks that strives to break isolation and end the marginalization of disabled people and our communities. Cost: $25.00 per participant, seating is limited. Sebastian will also provide a free workshop for youth on June 16th. Click here for more details or contact Vic Wiener at 918.385.4429, vwiener@yst.org. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: ihelptulsa.com Recently received a new computer or smart device? Do you need all of your files and email moved from your old computer to your new computer? Do you need help setting up your smart device? If so, contact johnv@ihelptulsa.com , log onto ihelptulsa.com or call John at 918-605-8777. Want to receive computer tips? Like us at facebook.com/ihelptulsa C,HelpTulsa .com advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. - - - - ·- - - - - Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group My Big Gay Italian Wedding American Theater Company, 308 S Lansing Ave July 16th-July 26th Every Friday 7 p.m. A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. 4/23/26, 4:17 PM �OkEq eNews June 9, 2015 7 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-9--2015.html?... American Theatre Company Presents "Feel-good hysterical comedy/" -The Wall Street Journal • An insanely funny and fun confection. The mixture of the sacred and profane, the ultra•serious and ultra•silfy makes this the perfect play. • -Edge New York Andrew and Anthony are getting married - and everyone wants to "help"! My Big Gay Italian Wedding spins into a hysterical fiasco as everyone tries to have their way. From a saboteur ex-boyfriend to a loud, opinionated, outspoken Italian mother, personalities and culture collide in a music and dance-filled extravaganza. JULY 16 - 26 For Tickets: 918-596-7111 or MyTicketOffice.com Ti ckets Also Avaifsb/e the Day of the Show O ATC Studios ~ Survivors of Incest Anonymous Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org merican Theatre Company STUDIOS ~~ ,-v,,::::;. Click here more information and promotions. Give with Pride Blood Drive Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Sunday, June 28, 12:30-4:30 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality will host a blood drive on June 28th from 12:30-4:30 p.m. at the Equality Center. All donors get a free T-shirt and two passes to the Tulsa Zoo. It's important that we step up and be good neighbors. Please plan to give blood June 28th! Unfortunately, men who have sex with men are not eligible to donate (yet), but such would-be donors are encouraged to bring an eligible donor to give blood in their place. Walk-ins are welcome, but signing up for an appointment will ensure that you're not turned away because of time and it guarantees that if there's a line, you'll go to the front of it. Please make an appointment and help prevent a logjam. Click here to make your appointment online. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals 4/23/26, 4:17 PM �OkEq eNews June 9, 2015 8 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-9--2015.html?... Oklahoma Blood Institute The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org - - - - - Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Camp Anytown July 19-25, registration deadline is July 3 Camp Anytown 2015 will be held July 19-25 at Dwight Mission Camp near Vian. Incoming sophomores, juniors, and seniors from across Oklahoma are eligible to participate in this award-winning, human relations camp, which promotes self-esteem, good citizenship, and leadership in an atmosphere steeped in rich diversity. The Anytown program ranks among the preeminent human relations experiences in Oklahoma. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org For additional information, contact the Oklahoma Center for Community and Justice office at 918-583-1361 or email info@occjok.org. Click here to apply. Camp Fire camp staff needed Camp Waluhili ) JKp Camp Walluhili Resident Camp sessions are one week, overnight sessions. Campers register in a specialty program ranging from traditional camp activities to science-based experiments to leadership development. They participate in this program in the morning then enjoy other camp activities with their cabin group in the afternoon and evening. Resident Camp is for youth currently 8-17 years old. At Camp Fire, inclusiveness is a core value, and Camp Fire Green Country serves all kinds of youths and families. Click here for more information about working at the camp. HIV Wellness Retreat 2015 Registration deadline is July 17 The Grateful Day Foundation's HIV Wellness Retreat will be held Aug. 21- 23 at the Sky Ranch Cave Springs in Quapaw. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. 4/23/26, 4:17 PM �OkEq eNews June 9, 2015 9 of 10 www.skyranch.org https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-9--2015.html?... ~rnteful ..Z,Afl JP <011.1L:irndl.a.ti<0:irn ][:irncWe are looking forward to another Taking a leap of faith for those living with HIV/AIDS fun and informative retreat this year. Applications can be found on our website, www.gratefulday.org, as well as at Tulsa Cares, Parish Church of St. Jerome, HOPE Testing, OSU Specialty Clinic and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The Grateful Day Foundation will host a number of workshops throughout the weekend as well as several fun things to do at the retreat. For more information, visit our website or contact us by phone. Contact info: 539.664.7206 www.gratefulday.org HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: healthcare BILLOFRIGHTS Hea Ith ca re Bi I !Of Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. Equality Center Pride Store Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Tulsa Pride 2015 T-shirts are now available in the Pride Store in sizes S through 5XL. These short-sleeve tee's or tank tops can be yours in advance of Tulsa Pride for only $20 each. Tie dye short sleeve tee's are $25 each! Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep 4/23/26, 4:17 PM �OkEq eNews June 9, 2015 10 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-9--2015.html?... up with the new items and new sale items Amy Howe Administrative Assistant Amy.Howe@OkEq.org 11 Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Insignificant Others: A Novel" By Stephen McCauley Richard Rossi works in HR at a Bostonbased software company and prides himself on his understanding of the foibles and fictions we all use to get through the day. Too bad he's not as good at spotting such behavior in himself. What else could explain his passionate affair with Benjamin, a very unavailable married man? Richard is also not entirely available himself-there's Conrad, his adorable if maddening partner to contend with. But when Conrad starts spending a suspicious amount of time in Ohio, and economic uncertainty challenges Richard's chances for promotion, he realizes his priorities might be a little skewed. ~l-.na1:wo! ,, . ttwftG~CA;flt..... -utA ' " ""'" Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. r--------------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat noon-9 p.m. | Sun noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L--------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 4:17 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/4ccbcdb79c62f50bd3a87b074c1c21a2.pdf 9e8478cc2225c9aa4d5656ab44c4ef52 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews June 17, 2015 1 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-17--2015.html... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews June 17th, 2015 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor MOREcolor SCOTUS Decision Day Council Oak Men's Chorale The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: ihelptulsa.com Recently received a new computer or smart device? Do you need all of your files and email moved from your old computer to your new computer? Do you need help setting up your smart device? If so, contact johnv@ihelptulsa.com , log onto ihelptulsa.com or call John at 918-605-8777. Want to receive computer tips? Like us at facebook.com/ihelptulsa 624 Dinner Openarms Youth Project OkEq Annual Meeting EBA Sponsor Blood Drive Pride Under the Lights Camp Anytown HIV Wellness Retreat LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights C,HelpTulsa .com Pride Store Rainbow Library MOREcolor Dennis R. Neill Equality Center June 18-21 MOREcolor 2015, the regional juried exhibition of fine art sponsored by Oklahomans for Equality, will show 169 works by 56 artists, and is the largest MOREcolor show since its inception in the 1980s. The three-day exhibition is part of the Tulsa Pride celebration, with support from the Hyatt Regency Hotel and TW's A-Fab Catering. The opening on June 18, 6:00pm to 9:00pm, is free and open to the public. Cash awards include the Juror's Prize and People's Choice Award. The opening event includes unique entertainment, catered cuisine and cash bar, and is held in the event center at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 East 4th Street in downtown Tulsa, Oklahoma. Find Us on Facebook OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, June 25th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. 4/23/26, 4:18 PM �OkEq eNews June 17, 2015 2 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-17--2015.html... MOREcolor is Oklahoma's oldest and largest juried art exhibition, and all works are for sale. Seventy percent of sale price belongs to the artist, and a portion of the sale benefits Oklahomans for Equality. The show runs June 18 through 21, 2015. OkEq Art Exhibit The May exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features 'Paths of Reconciliation' and the 'Shower of Stoles.' 11111 bl I Sho,vcr OF Stoles I ~ I I ••• ,. 1111""' PRO.IECT No Actors Allowed - A One Man Show by Tim Bagley Comedy Parlor, 328 E. 1st St Friday, June 19, 8:00 p.m. Whether it's wearing a Speedo on national television, getting a bird caught in his wig during a network run through, or getting cast as an international terrorist serial killer who only kills super models, Tim Bagley tells true tales about navigating his way through the humiliations of being a working actor in Hollywood with his new one person show NO ACTORS ALLOWED. NO ACTORS . ALLOWED Tickets can be purchased at www.bluewhalecomedyfestival.com. Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 SCOTUS DECISION DAY 2015 June, 2015 In this month of June The U.S. Supreme Court will issue its decision on marriage equality. Date to be determined. No matter the outcome, join us on that day to commemorate this historic event! The rally of all rallies at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available 4/23/26, 4:18 PM �OkEq eNews June 17, 2015 3 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-17--2015.html... on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Join us on Facebook for all the latest updates. Council Oak Men's Chorale Presents #1 HITZ Thru The Decades June 20 at 7:30 p.m., June 26 and 27 at 8:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church, 2900 S. Harvard Ave Council Oak Men's Chorale will present #1 C@~nd l Oak Men 's Chorale HITZ Thru The Decades at three #1 HlnThru The Decades performances in June. Come enjoy the songs that will make you want to sing along with the guys from COMC. Hear songs from "Sound of Silence" to "Pompeii" and from "Bennie and the Jets" to "I Will Survive" and lots of other songs from the decades in between. The Wine and Cheese Performance will be on June 20th at 7:30 p.m. at Fellowship Congregational Church Fellowship Hall. Tickets are $40 and can be purchased on the COMC website (counciloak.org). Two concert performances will be on Friday, June 26th, and Saturday, June 27th, at 8:00 p.m. at Fellowship Congregational Church Fellowship Hall. Tickets are $20 and can be purchased on the COMC website or at the door the night of the performance. SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org U) i i'',f' ll t'> Enjoy an evening of great singing and fun with Council Oak Men's Chorale. Be a part of this fundraiser for Oklahomans for Equality: Cocktail Celebration at 624 Kitchen & Catering Spend the evening of July 14 in the phenomenal art deco space of 624 listening to the incredible Eric Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather 4/23/26, 4:18 PM �OkEq eNews June 17, 2015 4 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-17--2015.html... I {/ Himan perform live while enjoying amazing hors d'oeuvres created by Chef Justin Thompson and his team. * 624 is Downtown Tulsa's premier special event and private party venue. Located in the lobby of the ONG building at 624 S. Boston Ave., it features 20-foot high ceilings, marble columns, terrazzo floor accents, custom plaster moldings, intricate ceiling details and a contemporary palette. Eric will be performing songs from his new CD, "Playing Cards." You and your friends can attend this party on July 14 from 6-9 p.m. for a donation of $200 per person! A limited number of tickets are available for this special event! SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sagew Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual I:< Transgender Elders Must be 21 or older to attend. Click here to purchase your tickets to the Cocktail Celebration at 624 Kitchen & Catering Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Openarms Youth Project Is Premiering Misfits June 30, 6:30 p.m. Reception, 7:30 p.m. Screening Circle Cinema, 10 S. Lewis Ave The Openarms Youth Project will be hosting the USA premiere of the internationally produced film Misfits. This movie is about three Tulsa teenagers grappling with the hardships of being openly lesbian, gay, bisexual, or transgender (LGBT) in the middle of the Bible Belt. The event will be held at the Circle Cinema on June 30th Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness 4/23/26, 4:18 PM �OkEq eNews June 17, 2015 5 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-17--2015.html... starting at 6:30 p.m. Tickets will be $10 and can be purchased here; there is limited seating available. Director Jannik Splidsboel will be in attendance to address any post-film questions or comments. meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. This unique event provides a glimpse into the lives of local LGBTQ youth and offers a brief insight to some of our charitable services. Oklahomans for Equality Annual Meeting and Board of Directors Elections Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 OkEq Board 2014-2015 The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 3rd, 2015 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee (Applications due to OkEq by June 30th) OR 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by August 15th) At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is accepting applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Seven directors will be elected. Please contact amy.howe@okeq.org for an application. All applicants will be reviewed by the Board Development and Governance Committee. Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) Get F.I.T. Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. ACA Assistance 4/23/26, 4:18 PM �OkEq eNews June 17, 2015 6 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-17--2015.html... 5. Serve a two year term Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. ---- ·----- Share your voice. Shape our future. Our Tomorrow, www.shareourtomorrow.org Our Tomorrow is a campaign to engage LGBTQ people across the country in a conversation to shape the future of a bigger, bolder movement that leaves no one behind. Gender Outreach It is a place for LGBTQ people across the country to share our hopes, fears and ideas for the future - and help make tomorrow better for all of us. Share your voice here; your submissions will help the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and the LGBTQ community throughout the nation. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Keith Hunt, McGraw Realtors Lambda Al-Anon Group McGraw R I! A T Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Every Friday 7 p.m. R S" Looking to buy or sell your dream home? I can help! Contact Keith Hunt Today A Murder of Storytellers (918) 513-13-94 khunt@mcgrawok.com rt] LJ3, My Big Gay Italian Wedding American Theater Company, 308 S Lansing Ave July 16th-July 26th American Theatre Company Presents ® "# LLADING llLAL .lSTATL • CO\4rAN l lS ~ THl WOllLD Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. "Feel-good hysterical comedy!" - The Wall Street Journal "As insanely funny and fun confection. The mixture of the sacred and the profane, the ultraserious and ultra-silly Survivors of Incest Anonymous 4/23/26, 4:18 PM �OkEq eNews June 17, 2015 7 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-17--2015.html... makes this the perfect play." - Edge New York Andrew and Anthony are getting married - and everyone wants to "help"! My Big Gay Italian Wedding spins into a hysterical fiasco as everyone tries to have their way. From a saboteur ex-boyfriend to a loud, opinionated, outspoken Italian mother, personalities and culture collide in a music and dance-filled extravaganza. For tickets: 918-596-7111 or click here. Tickets are also available the day of the show at ATC Studios. Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org Click here for more information and promotions. Give with Pride Blood Drive Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Sunday, June 28, 12:30-4:30 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality will host a blood drive on June 28th from 12:30-4:30 p.m. at the Equality Center. All donors get a free T-shirt and two passes to the Tulsa Zoo. It's important that we step up and be good neighbors. Please plan to give blood June 28th! Unfortunately, men who have sex with men are not eligible to donate (yet), but such would-be donors are encouraged to bring an eligible donor to give blood in their place. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Walk-ins are welcome, but signing up for an appointment will ensure that you're not turned away because of time and it guarantees that if there's a line, you'll go to the front of it. Please make an appointment and help prevent a logjam. Click here to make your appointment online. Oklahoma Blood Institute Pride Under the Lights Saturday, July 25, after the Drillers game If you purchased and still have your Pride in the Ballpark ticket, hang on to Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. 4/23/26, 4:18 PM �OkEq eNews June 17, 2015 8 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-17--2015.html... it! ONEOK Stadium will be hosting Pride Under the Lights on Saturday, July 25, after the 7:05 p.m. game against the Arkansas Travelers. New tickets for the event will be issued; tickets can also be purchased at the same price of $12 each. Just come by the Equality Center or come to the ONEOK Stadium gate to pick up your tickets. Come join us for an evening of fun and excitement! Camp Anytown July 19-25, registration deadline is July 3 Camp Anytown 2015 will be held July 19-25 at Dwight Mission Camp near Vian. Incoming sophomores, juniors, and seniors from across Oklahoma are eligible to participate in this award-winning, human relations camp, which promotes self-esteem, good citizenship, and leadership in an atmosphere steeped in rich diversity. The Anytown program ranks among the preeminent human relations experiences in Oklahoma. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. For additional information, contact the Oklahoma Center for Community and Justice office at 918-583-1361 or email info@occjok.org. Click here to apply. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point HIV Wellness Retreat 2015 Registration deadline is July 17 The Grateful Day Foundation's HIV Wellness Retreat will be held Aug. 21- 23 at the Sky Ranch Cave Springs in Quapaw. www.skyranch.org Qrnteful ..Z,Afl JE=' ~1U1.x:n.dla.ti~x:n. lix:n.c:. We are looking forward to another Taking a leap of faith for those living with HIV/AIDS fun and informative retreat this year. Applications can be found on our website, www.gratefulday.org, as well as at Tulsa Cares, Parish Church of St. Jerome, HOPE Testing, OSU Specialty Clinic and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The Grateful Day Foundation will host a number of workshops throughout the weekend as well as several fun things to do at the retreat. For more information, visit our website or contact us by phone. Contact info: 539.664.7206 www.gratefulday.org Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing 4/23/26, 4:18 PM �OkEq eNews June 17, 2015 9 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-17--2015.html... LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOFRIGHTS Hea Ith ca re Bi IIOf Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2015 T-shirts are available in the Pride Store in sizes S through 5XL. These short-sleeve tee's or tank tops can be yours in advance of Tulsa Pride for only $15 each. Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ---- Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "The Sixth Form: A Novel" By Tom Dolby Amy Howe Administrative Assistant Amy.Howe@OkEq.org When seventeen-year-old Ethan Whitley leaves his home in California for Berkley Academy, a prestigious Massachusetts prep school, he's a blank slate, a shy follower of rules in search of himself. Ethan is given the chance to start over when he is hand-picked by his wealthy, disaffected classmate, Todd Eldon, and a 4/23/26, 4:18 PM �OkEq eNews June 17, 2015 10 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-17--2015.html... seductive, enigmatic teacher, Hannah McClellan, a free spirit for whom rules were meant to be broken. Life with Todd and Hannah is a revelation, an invitation to a world of privilege and desire. But looming over these heady evenings is the disturbing mystery of Hannah's fragmented past, one that Ethan longs desperately to understand. As secrets are revealed, Ethan is pulled deep into the undertow of Hannah's history and Todd's longings. Soon, he learns that every deceit has a price, every lie is an ugly truth, and that those he has come to trust are people he doesn't know at all. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. r--------------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat noon-9 p.m. | Sun noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L--------------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 4:18 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/5be46f84f298b3775b5853fdd02b9c3e.pdf 4606b0569abe670aa54cf8a53114bf51 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews June 24, 2015 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-24--2015.html... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews June 24th, 2015 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor SCOTUS Decision Day Blood Drive Council Oak Men's Chorale The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Keith Hunt, McGraw Realtors L T OkEq Annual Meeting Openarms Youth Project McGraw R • 624 Dinner Our Tomorrow R S' "Solo Club" Looking to buy or sell your dream home? EBA Sponsor I can help! EBA Mixer Contact Keith Hunt Today My BigGay -Italian - -Wedding -- (918) 513-13-94 SAGE Pool Party khunt@mcgrawok.com ~ ~ L=.J rl] ,, • llADINC lllA~.lSTATl C0\4PAN I C fY THE WOllLO Christmas in July Pride Under the Lights Camp Anytown SCOTUS DECISION DAY 2015 ANY DAY NOW! Rally will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St The U.S. Supreme Court's decision on marriage equality is IMMINENT. No matter the outcome, join us on that day to commemorate this historic event! The rally of all rallies at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. HIV Wellness Retreat Pat Hobbs: FIRSTS! "Documented" LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Pride Store Rainbow Library Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 4:19 PM �OkEq eNews June 24, 2015 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-24--2015.html... OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, June 25th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. Join us on Facebook for all the latest updates. OkEq Art Exhibit Give with Pride Blood Drive Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Sunday, June 28, 12:30-4:30 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality will host a blood drive on June 28th from 12:30-4:30 p.m. at the Equality Center. All donors get a free T-shirt and two passes to the Tulsa Zoo. It's important that we step up and be good neighbors. Please plan to give blood June 28th! The May exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features 'Paths of Reconciliation' and the 'Shower of Stoles.' 11111 IPJ I I oFStolcs Sho,vcr I.,.,, l......'°' PRO.IE ..T Unfortunately, men who have sex with men are not eligible to donate (yet), but such would-be donors are encouraged to bring an eligible donor to give blood in their place. Walk-ins are welcome, but signing up for an appointment will ensure that you're not turned away because of time and it guarantees that if there's a line, you'll go to the front of it. Please make an appointment and help prevent a logjam. Click here to make your appointment online. Oklahoma Blood Institute Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adult individual, Substance Abuse & PTSD counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Jim Scholl 918.631.2722 Council Oak Men's Chorale Presents #1 HITZ Thru The Decades June 26 and 27 at 8:00 p.m. Fellowship Congregational Church, 2900 S. Harvard Ave 4/23/26, 4:19 PM �OkEq eNews June 24, 2015 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-24--2015.html... Council Oak Men's Chorale will present #1 t~1 1.mdl Oa k Men 's Chorale HITZ Thru The Decades at three ff l Hin Th ru The Decades performances in June. Come enjoy the songs that will make you want to sing along with the guys from COMC. Hear songs from "Sound of Silence" to "Pompeii" and from "Bennie and the Jets" to "I Will Survive" and lots of other songs (.1s,cla Hall 2520 S. Yorktown Ave Tuls.:i, 01< from the decades in between. The Wine and Cheese Performance will be on June 20th at 7:30 p.m. at Fellowship Congregational Church Fellowship Hall. Tickets are $40 and can be purchased on the COMC website (counciloak.org). Two concert performances will be on Friday, June 26th, and Saturday, June 27th, at 8:00 p.m. at Fellowship Congregational Church Fellowship Hall. Tickets are $20 and can be purchased on the COMC website or at the door the night of the performance. RJ fCS<' i1 l_i Enjoy an evening of great singing and fun with Council Oak Men's Chorale. Be a part of this fundraiser for Oklahomans for Equality: Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Cocktail Celebration at 624 Kitchen & Catering Spend the evening of July 14 in the phenomenal art deco space of 624 listening to the incredible Eric Himan perform live while enjoying amazing hors d'oeuvres created by Chef Justin Thompson and his team. 624 is Downtown Tulsa's premier special event and private party venue. Located in the lobby of the ONG building at 624 S. Boston Ave., it features 20-foot high ceilings, marble columns, terrazzo floor accents, custom plaster moldings, intricate ceiling details and a Counseling Services Weekdays By appointment Adults, individuals, and couples counseling is available at no cost. Appointments are required. Contact Douglas Knutson 918-594-8568 SOS Group 4/23/26, 4:19 PM �OkEq eNews June 24, 2015 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-24--2015.html... contemporary palette. Eric will be performing songs from his new CD, "Playing Cards." .a,, "~,v . ~ "' ' Pt AYING CARDS ,-. Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org You and your friends can attend this party on July 14 from 6-9 p.m. for a donation of $200 per person! A limited number of tickets are available for this special event! Must be 21 or older to attend. Click here to purchase your tickets to the Cocktail Celebration at 624 Kitchen & Catering Oklahomans for Equality Annual Meeting and Board of Directors Elections Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather OkEq Board 2014-2015 The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 3rd, 2015 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee (Applications due to OkEq by June 30th) OR 4/23/26, 4:19 PM �OkEq eNews June 24, 2015 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-24--2015.html... 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by August 15th) At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is accepting applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Seven directors will be elected. Please contact amy.howe@okeq.org for an application. All applicants will be reviewed by the Board Development and Governance Committee. SAGE Tulsa Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term Openarms Youth Project Is Premiering Misfits June 30, 6:30 p.m. Reception, 7:30 p.m. Screening Circle Cinema, 10 S. Lewis Ave The Openarms Youth Project will be hosting the USA premiere of the internationally produced film Misfits. This movie is about three Tulsa teenagers grappling with the hardships of being openly lesbian, gay, bisexual, or transgender (LGBT) in the middle of the Bible Belt. The event will be held at the Circle Cinema on June 30th starting at 6:30 p.m. Tickets will be $10 and can be purchased here; there is limited seating available. Director Jannik Splidsboel will be in attendance to address any post-film questions or comments. This unique event provides a glimpse into the lives of local LGBTQ youth and offers a brief insight to some of our charitable services. Share your voice. Shape our future. Our Tomorrow, www.shareourtomorrow.org Our Tomorrow is a campaign to engage LGBTQ people across the country in a conversation to shape the future of a bigger, bolder movement that leaves no one behind. It is a place for LGBTQ people across the country to share our hopes, fears and ideas for the future - and help make tomorrow better for all of us. (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. Share your voice here; your submissions will 4/23/26, 4:19 PM �OkEq eNews June 24, 2015 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-24--2015.html... help the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and the LGBTQ community throughout the nation. "Solo Club" - A New Play by Dan Gordon June 25-27, 7:00 p.m., June 28, 2:00 p.m. Theater Bartlesville, 312 S. Dewey Ave Tulsa Area Prime Timers "Solo Club", a new play by Dan Gordon, will be an exclusive Oklahoma premiere - there will be only four performances! Tallgrass Theatre Festival will featuring the new drama. TICKETS NOW ON SALE online at www.theaterbartlesville.com. Performances will be on June 25th, 26th, 27th, and 28th at Theater Bartlesville, located at 312 S. Dewey in the heart of downtown Bartlesville. This play has the serious theme of teen homelessness and the family struggles surrounding gay youth and domestic violence. Get your tickets now! 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 For more information, contact Theater Bartlesville at 918-336-1900 or query@theaterbartlesville.com. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: ihelptulsa.com Recently received a new computer or smart device? Do you need all of your files and email moved from your old computer to your new computer? Do you need help setting up your smart device? If so, contact johnv@ihelptulsa.com , log onto ihelptulsa.com or call John at 918-605-8777. Want to receive computer tips? Like us at facebook.com/ihelptulsa @HelpTulsa .corn EBA Mixer Get F.I.T. Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Inner Circle Vodka Bar, 410 N. Main St Suite A July 15, 6:00-7:30 p.m. ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at 4/23/26, 4:19 PM �OkEq eNews June 24, 2015 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-24--2015.html... jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. - - - - ·- - - - - E UALITY Business Alliance The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send a email to eba@okeq.org for more information. Our next mixer will be held at Inner Circle Vodka Bar, located at 410 N. Main St Suite A. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. My Big Gay Italian Wedding American Theater Company, 308 S Lansing Ave July 16th-July 26th American Theatre Company Presents "Feel-good hysterical comedy!" - The Wall Street Journal "As insanely funny and fun confection. The mixture of the sacred and the profane, the ultraserious and ultra-silly makes this the perfect play." - Edge New York Andrew and Anthony are getting married - and everyone wants to "help"! My Big Gay Italian Wedding spins into a hysterical fiasco as everyone tries to have their way. From a saboteur ex-boyfriend to a loud, opinionated, outspoken Italian mother, personalities and culture collide in a music and dance-filled extravaganza. A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. Survivors of Incest Anonymous For tickets: 918-596-7111 or click here. Tickets are also available the day of the show at ATC Studios. Click here for more information and promotions. SAGE Pool Party July 21, 2015 4/23/26, 4:19 PM �OkEq eNews June 24, 2015 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-24--2015.html... 1938 E. 55th Place, Tulsa, OK 74105 SAGE Tulsa will have a pool party on Thursday, June 26th, 2014 at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot dogs. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email SAGE@OkEq.org to RSVP. sage Services and Advocacy for Cay, lesbian, 81sexu.i l Every Saturday 12:30 pm SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org &. Tramgender EldC'r-5 Game Night The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org Christmas in July - A Benefit for H.O.P.E. Testing Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Tulsa Eagle, 1338 E. 3rd St July 25, 7:00 p.m. The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma is holding a comunity wide fundraiser to raise money for H.O.P.E. Testing on July 25, 2015 at the Tulsa Eagle. 21+ Only, No Cover. We are currently looking for Silent / Live Auction Items. If you have anything to donate please contact us at impcourtok@gmail.com Donations can also be made on our website donation page www.impcourtok.org From the Heart, Through the Court, For the Community! Pride Under the Lights Saturday, July 25, after the Drillers game Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. 4/23/26, 4:19 PM �OkEq eNews June 24, 2015 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-24--2015.html... If you purchased and still have your Pride in the Ballpark ticket, hang on to it! ONEOK Stadium will be hosting Pride Under the Lights on Saturday, July 25, after the 7:05 p.m. game against the Arkansas Travelers. New tickets for the event will be issued; tickets can also be purchased at the same price of $12 each. Just come by the Equality Center or come to the ONEOK Stadium gate to pick up your tickets. Come join us for an evening of fun and excitement! Camp Anytown July 19-25, registration deadline is July 3 Camp Anytown 2015 will be held July 19-25 at Dwight Mission Camp near Vian. Incoming sophomores, juniors, and seniors from across Oklahoma are eligible to participate in this award-winning, human relations camp, which promotes self-esteem, good citizenship, and leadership in an atmosphere steeped in rich diversity. The Anytown program ranks among the preeminent human relations experiences in Oklahoma. For additional information, contact the Oklahoma Center for Community and Justice office at 918-583-1361 or email info@occjok.org. Click here to apply. HIV Wellness Retreat 2015 Registration deadline is July 17 The Grateful Day Foundation's HIV Wellness Retreat will be held Aug. 21- 23 at the Sky Ranch Cave Springs in Quapaw. www.skyranch.org Qrnteful .,z)Afl JF <011.1Lltll.dl.si.tico Jal. ][ltll.c. We are looking forward to another Taking a leap of faith for those living with HIV/AIDS fun and informative retreat this year. Applications can be found on our website, www.gratefulday.org, as well as at Tulsa Cares, Parish Church of St. Jerome, HOPE Testing, OSU Specialty Clinic and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The Grateful Day Foundation will host a number of workshops throughout the weekend as well as several fun things to do at the retreat. Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm For more information, visit our website or contact us by phone. Contact info: 539.664.7206 Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing 4/23/26, 4:19 PM �OkEq eNews June 24, 2015 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-24--2015.html... www.gratefulday.org Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. "Pat Hobbs: FIRSTS!" - One Night Only June 26, 8:00 p.m. LaFortune Caberet Theatre, Tulsa Performing Arts Center 110 E. 2nd St Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm In his first SummerStage cabaret show, Pat Hobbs takes the audience on a multimedia trip through his theatrical and personal firsts. He's been singing and acting around town - and a great supporter of Tulsa's performing arts - for decades. Hobbs has many a tale to tell, and he tells them here most tunefully. You may have seen Hobbs recently in Theatre Tulsa's production of "9 to 5" or as Albin in Tulsa Project Theatre's "La Cage aux Folles." MISSION: "Pat Hobbs: FIRSTS!" is presented by Spinning Plates Productions, and is directed by Machele Miller Dill, with musical direction by Carl and Elizabeth Curtis. Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. "Pat Hobbs: FIRSTS!" Will be presented ONE NIGHT ONLY in the LaFortune Cabaret Theatre at the Tulsa Performing Arts Center, 2nd and Cincinnati on Friday, June 26 at 8 p.m. For tickets, call the PAC box office at 918-586-7111, or visit myticketoffice.com. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org "Documented" - Promoted by Tulsa Area Fair Housing Partnership July 23, 6:30 p.m. - 8:30 p.m. Circle Cinema, 10 S. Lewis Ave Know your target audience. Who are your most important customers, clients or prospects, and why? Know what is important to them and address their needs in your newsletter DOCUMENTED each month. Include a photo to make your newsletter even more appealing.In 2011, Pulitzer Prize-winning journalist Jose Antonio Vargas outed himself as an undocumented immigrant in an essay published in the New York Times Magazine. Documented chronicles his journey to America from the Philippines as a child; his journey through America as an immigration reform activist; and his journey inward as he re-connects with his mother, whom he hasn't seen in person in over 20 years. 0.. .... -• ••• ,.,. • •• U " ' o j H n o, . Amy Howe Administrative Assistant Amy.Howe@OkEq.org Tickets are $11.00 (general admission) and can be purchased here. 4/23/26, 4:19 PM �OkEq eNews June 24, 2015 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-24--2015.html... LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOFRIGHTS Hea Ith ca re Bi IIOf Rig hts .org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2015 T-shirts are available in the Pride Store in sizes S through 5XL. These short-sleeve tee's for only $15 each. Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Self-Made Man: One Woman's Journey into Manhood and Back Again" By Norah Vincent When seventeen-year-old Ethan Whitley leaves his home in California for Berkley Academy, a prestigious Massachusetts prep school, he's a blank slate, a shy follower of rules in search of himself. Ethan is given the chance to start over when he is hand-picked by his wealthy, disaffected classmate, Todd Eldon, and a seductive, enigmatic teacher, Hannah 4/23/26, 4:19 PM �OkEq eNews June 24, 2015 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-24--2015.html... McClellan, a free spirit for whom rules were meant to be broken. Life with Todd and Hannah is a revelation, an invitation to a world of privilege and desire. But looming over these heady evenings is the disturbing mystery of Hannah's fragmented past, one that Ethan longs desperately to understand. As secrets are revealed, Ethan is pulled deep into the undertow of Hannah's history and Todd's longings. Soon, he learns that every deceit has a price, every lie is an ugly truth, and that those he has come to trust are people he doesn't know at all. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. r--------------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat noon-9 p.m. | Sun noon-6 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L--------------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 4:19 PM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/ca1d57c188be59c3db67c4a541b735b3.pdf 0823f4355e0760cfcf6f04ac3a053c18 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews June 30th, 2015 1 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-30th--2015.ht... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews June 30th, 2015 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor SCOTUS Decision Day "Ankle Deep..." Marriage Equality Victory Party The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: ihelptulsa.com Recently received a new computer or smart device? Do you need all of your files and email moved from your old computer to your new computer? Do you need help setting up your smart device? If so, contact johnv@ihelptulsa.com , log onto ----ihelptulsa.com or call John at 918-605-8777. Want to receive computer tips? Like us at facebook.com/ihelptulsa OkEq Annual Meeting The 4th of July Our Tomorrow EBA Sponsor EBA Mixer My Big Wedding -Gay -Italian -SAGE Pool Party Christmas in July Pride Under the Lights C,HelpTulsa .com HIV Wellness Retreat "Documented" LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights WE WON! SCOTUS Decision Day, June 26, 2015 Pride Store Rainbow Library Congratulations to all the LGBT couples and families throughout our nation! At long last, there is no such thing as "gay marriage" - now it's just MARRIAGE! Even though we now have the right to marry in all 50 states, we still have a long way to go with regards to equal rights. It is still legal to discriminate against gays, lesbians and transgendered persons with respect to employment, housing and public accommodation. Until we have full equality, our work is not done. Find Us on Facebook Thank you for your continuing support of Oklahomans for Equality. OkEq Board Meeting 7 p.m. Thursday, July 16th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/23/26, 4:23 PM �OkEq eNews June 30th, 2015 2 of 10 - .... ,. /, https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-30th--2015.ht... . •~ . I ~ ; .. _, ' - - All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. The crowd at the Marriage Equality Celebration Rally June 26, 2015. OkEq Art Exhibit The July exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center features 'Ankle Deep...an Experience in Acrylics.' SOS Group Toby Jenkins, Executive Director of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, speaking at the Marriage Equality Celebration Rally, June 26, 2015. Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org « ' • '. , Grieving Well Mary and Sharon Bishop-Baldwin, Plaintiffs in the Oklahoma Marriage Equality Lawsuit, speaking at the Marriage Equality Celebration Rally, June 26, 2015. Join us on Facebook for all the latest updates. "Ankle Deep...an Experience in Acrylics" by Kevin Thompson Opening Reception July 2, 2015, 6:00 p.m.-9:00 p.m. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th St 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop 1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the 4/23/26, 4:23 PM �OkEq eNews June 30th, 2015 3 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-30th--2015.ht... The July Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit will feature the works of Kevin Thompson in a show titled "Ankle Deep...an Experience in Acrylics"As an artist, Kevin has learned that he reaches the most satisfactory aesthetic when he takes guidance from a client and then meshes his years of experience to reach the final outcome. Envisioning the outcome and then backing up step-by-step to reach the end result is part of his creative process. Using this method in painting, Kevin approaches the canvas with a strong idea of how it will look and then plans the steps necessary for the final product. Be a part of this Marriage Equality Victory Party: Cocktail Celebration at 624 Kitchen & Catering Spend the evening of July 14 in the phenomenal art deco space of 624 listening to the incredible Eric Himan perform live while enjoying amazing hors d'oeuvres created by Chef Justin Thompson and his team. month 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders * 624 is Downtown Tulsa's premier special event and private party venue. Located in the lobby of the ONG building at 624 S. Boston Ave., it features 20-foot high ceilings, marble columns, terrazzo floor accents, custom plaster moldings, intricate ceiling details and a Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Every Tuesday and 1st Sunday each month 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality hosts the Tulsa Shambhala Meditation Group every 4/23/26, 4:23 PM �OkEq eNews June 30th, 2015 4 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-30th--2015.ht... contemporary palette. Tuesday at 6:30 pm and the First Sunday of every month at 12:30 pm. Eric will be performing songs from his new CD, "Playing Cards." Mindfulness/awareness meditation is the foundation of Shambhala Meditation Training. Visit tulsa.shambhala.org for more information. You and your friends can attend this party on July 14 from 6-9 p.m. for a donation of $200 per person! A limited number of tickets are available for this special event! Must be 21 or older to attend. Click here to purchase your tickets to the Marriage at-624 Kitchen &-Catering -Equality - - - -Celebration ----------------- Oklahomans for Equality Annual Meeting and Board of Directors Elections Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Get F.I.T. OkEq Board 2014-2015 The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 3rd, 2015 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee (Applications due to OkEq by June 30th) OR Mondays and Wednesdays 6:00-7:00 pm. An exercise class for all ages and fitness levels. The class will create an environment for the beginner as well as the advanced participant to be successful. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary 4/23/26, 4:23 PM �OkEq eNews June 30th, 2015 5 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-30th--2015.ht... by August 15th) At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is accepting applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Seven directors will be elected. Please contact amy.howe@okeq.org for an application. All applicants will be reviewed by the Board Development and Governance Committee. Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term Happy Independence Day! July 4th, 2015 The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center WILL BE OPEN this Saturday for the 4th of July. Come in, cool off, and celebrate with us! ACA Assistance Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be available by appointment at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or at his office at Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Ave. He can be reached at jimmy.jordan@ppheartland.org. - - - - ·- - - - Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday 7 p.m. Share your voice. Shape our future. Our Tomorrow, www.shareourtomorrow.org Our Tomorrow is a campaign to engage LGBTQ people across the country in a conversation to shape the future of a bigger, bolder movement that leaves no one behind. It is a place for LGBTQ people across the country to share our hopes, fears and ideas for the future - and help make tomorrow better for all of us. Share your voice here; your submissions will help the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and the LGBTQ community throughout the nation. A Murder of Storytellers Every Friday 7:00 pm A Murder of Storytellers looks for voices in genre fiction that are often ignored or asked to change. As a writing group, they seek to help make each other better and foster a sense of community among local writers of all backgrounds. The eNews for the week is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Keith Hunt, McGraw Realtors 4/23/26, 4:23 PM �OkEq eNews June 30th, 2015 6 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-30th--2015.ht... Survivors of Incest Anonymous McGraw R I, LT RS Every Saturday 12:30 pm Looking to buy or sell your dream home? I can help! Contact Keith Hunt Today (918) 513-13-94 khunt@mcgrawok.com rl] ~ ~ ,,~ LLAOING llLAL,.l TAT[ o.: COMrAN I ( .tY TH[ WOllLD SIA strives to empower those who have survived childhood sexual abuse (who are not abusing any child), who want to become survivors and thrivers. For more information, visit siawso.org EBA Mixer Inner Circle Vodka Bar, 410 N. Main St Suite A July 15, 6:00-7:30 p.m. E UALITY Business Alliance Game Night The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send a email to eba@okeq.org for more information. Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Our next mixer will be held at Inner Circle Vodka Bar, located at 410 N. Main St Suite A. My Big Gay Italian Wedding American Theater Company, 308 S Lansing Ave July 16th-July 26th American Theatre Company Presents "Feel-good hysterical comedy!" - The Wall Street Journal "As insanely funny and fun confection. The mixture of the sacred and the profane, the ultra- Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop 4/23/26, 4:23 PM �OkEq eNews June 30th, 2015 7 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-30th--2015.ht... serious and ultra-silly makes this the perfect play." - Edge New York by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet. Andrew and Anthony are getting married - and everyone wants to "help"! My Big Gay Italian Wedding spins into a hysterical fiasco as everyone tries to have their way. From a saboteur ex-boyfriend to a loud, opinionated, outspoken Italian mother, personalities and culture collide in a music and dance-filled extravaganza. For tickets: 918-596-7111 or click here. Tickets are also available the day of the show at ATC Studios. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Gamily@OkEq.org Click here for more information and promotions. SAGE Pool Party July 21, 2015 1938 E. 55th Place, Tulsa, OK 74105 SAGE Tulsa will have a pool party on Tuesday, July 21st, 2015 at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot dogs. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email SAGE@OkEq.org to RSVP. sage Serv1Ces and Advocacy for Cay, lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elder-5 EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org Christmas in July - A Benefit for H.O.P.E. Testing Tulsa Eagle, 1338 E. 3rd St July 25, 7:00 p.m. Open every day Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma is holding a comunity wide fundraiser 4/23/26, 4:23 PM �OkEq eNews June 30th, 2015 8 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-30th--2015.ht... to raise money for H.O.P.E. Testing on July 25, 2015 at the Tulsa Eagle. 21+ Only, No Cover. Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm We are currently looking for Silent / Live Auction Items. If you have anything to donate please contact us at impcourtok@gmail.com Donations can also be made on our website donation page www.impcourtok.org From the Heart, Through the Court, For the Community! Pride Under the Lights Saturday, July 25, after the Drillers game If you purchased and still have your Pride in the Ballpark ticket, hang on to it! ONEOK Stadium will be hosting Pride Under the Lights on Saturday, July 25, after the 7:05 p.m. game against the Arkansas Travelers. New tickets for the event will be issued; tickets can also be purchased at the same price of $12 each. Just come by the Equality Center or come to the ONEOK Stadium gate to pick up your tickets. Come join us for an evening of fun and excitement! Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Guiding Right provides testing on Fridays 4:00 - 6:00 pm and every other Sunday 2:00 - 6:00 pm MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. HIV Wellness Retreat 2015 Registration deadline is July 17 The Grateful Day Foundation's HIV Wellness Retreat will be held Aug. 21- 23 at the Sky Ranch Cave Springs in Quapaw. www.skyranch.org Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Qrnteful .,2}Af1 JE=' <01UL:n::n.dla.ti<0 :n::n. li:n::n.c:. We are looking forward to another Taking a leap of faith for those living with HIV/AIDS fun and informative retreat this year. Applications can be found on our website, www.gratefulday.org, as well as at Tulsa Cares, Parish Church of St. Jerome, HOPE Testing, OSU Specialty Clinic and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The Grateful Day Foundation will host a number of workshops throughout the weekend as well as several fun things to do at the retreat. For more information, visit our website or contact us by phone. Contact info: 539.664.7206 www.gratefulday.org Amy Howe Administrative Assistant Amy.Howe@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 4:23 PM �OkEq eNews June 30th, 2015 9 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-30th--2015.ht... "Documented" - Promoted by Tulsa Area Fair Housing Partnership July 23, 6:30 p.m. - 8:30 p.m. Circle Cinema, 10 S. Lewis Ave Know your target audience. Who are your most important customers, clients or prospects, and why? Know what is important to them and address their needs in your newsletter DOCUMENTED each month. Include a photo to make your newsletter even more appealing.In 2011, Pulitzer Prize-winning journalist Jose Antonio Vargas outed himself as an undocumented .........., immigrant in an essay published in the New York Times Magazine. Documented chronicles his journey to America from the Philippines as a child; his journey through America as an immigration reform activist; and his journey inward as he re-connects with his mother, whom he hasn't seen in person in over 20 years. - i.oOU H'o JHroo~. CRIii - ..;:..-::;:;:•-::.:::::.. - Tickets are $11.00 (general admission) and can be purchased here. LGBT Healthcare Bill of Rights Oklahomans for Equality is partnering with CenterLink and the LGBT Health Link to help keep the LGBT Community informed about their rights in the healthcare system today. A easy to read version of your Bill of Rights is available to download here. Keep a copy in your wallet handy for the next time your rights are not respected. healthcare BILLOFRIGHTS Hea Ith ca re Bi I !Of Rights . org oklahomans for equality You deserve equality in the healthcare you receive. Know your rights. Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2015 T-shirts are available in the Pride Store. These short-sleeve tee's for only $15 each. 4/23/26, 4:23 PM �OkEq eNews June 30th, 2015 10 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-30th--2015.ht... Be sure to "Like" the OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library "Conduct Unbecoming - Gays & Lesbians in the U.S. Military" By Randy Shilts Written by the author of the highly acclaimed And The Band Played On, this extraordinary and unique exploration of gays in the military and gay persecution in the miliatary is nothing short of a masterpiece of investigative reporting. Shilts spoke with hundreds of lesbian and gays in all levels of the military and tells their stories of pain and pride with an attention to detail and depth of feeling that will leave readers moved and educated and with better understanding. Find this selection and more by visiting the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. 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